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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First time posting and I'm writing on mobile so I apologize in advance for any mistakes. \n\nWe've been talking on and off all summer. We both will be going back to school soon. (We are about 3 hours away from each other at school) Our conversations are very casual. The closest thing to flirting we use is maybe a \"(;\". \n\nThe first time we talked on the phone/face timed we talked for over 3 hours. Talking to him comes so naturally. I am really at ease and comfortable with him. We just recently last week went on our first date. We went to dinner then hung out. I had a lot of fun. I felt like I was hanging with a great friend...and that's the problem. \n\nI like him, I think he's cute, but I don't feel the kind of attraction where I want to be involved romantically. There's no spark. I don't think about kissing him and I feel pretty neutral on the idea of kissing him. I think he likes me to the point of wanting to date. \n\nHow do I explain to him that yes I love talking and hanging out and I do think you're cute but I don't want to involved romantically right now? This has happened before to me and a few months later I actually started liking the guy romantically. So who knows maybe in the future I will feel different. He's such a nice guy I really want to let him down easy. \n\nI don't know if I should just say hey right now I am not interested in anything serious but that doesn't mean we can't still talk and hang because maybe down the line I will feel differently or if I should be blunt and say I like you but just as a friend and that maybe the best course of action is to not talk as much. I don't want to give him false hope and I'm worried that by saying \"maybe\" in the future my feelings will change will do just that. I'm worried that if we just stay on the same path, talking the same amount, etc...that he is just going to be \"waiting\" for my feelings to come around. I'm worried they never will and then he will feel basically lead on. Any advice would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay. So this happened a few minutes ago. I was sitting in my room, reading some Bukowski and shit before bed. I look up at the clock and see that it's 2 in the morning. Seeing as I have an appointment this morning, I start freaking the fuck out.\n I close my book and run into my bathroom to brush my teeth and take my contacts out. After I finish that I, being overly tired and sick, stand there for a few minutes looking at myself in the mirror forgetting what I was doing there. I then notice a bunch of black hairs on one of my shoulders. Not thinking, I grab my razor and try to shave them off. It works a little too well. It takes the hair as well as my skin with it.\n I start bleeding everywhere. It gets all on the sink and the tile while I get my heavy duty bandaids out from under the counter. I finally patch myself up but now my shoulder hurts like a motherfucker and my bathroom is a bloody mess.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The title is confusing and I apologize, but basically here is my situation. My bf is going into his senior year of high school, and he has 1001 things to do. He has loads of summer homework, he's building an art portfolio for college and he's started to work on his senior project. I'm also busy, volunteering at an organization for my resume and working as a private lesson teacher. \n\nBetween the two of us, we have very little time to ourselves. That being said, we also want time to spend with friends, family, and us. Which all in all leaves little time for us. I'm not mad, I understand that we both have super important things to do. I just miss him a lot and I feel bad. \n\nWe schedule time for us days in advance, one of those days being this past Tuesday. He had to cut the day a little short because his band needed to rehearse, and that was fine with me; it's work and it's part of his senior project. However, I still got irrationally sad and I cried over it. \n\nI'm upset that we will see each other less often, and I feel guilty about it. I'm not jealous and I don't want to be seen as a spoiled girlfriend who demands all of his time. I fully understand that we both have a lot on our plate and that it's for the better of our futures. I guess I'm really looking for advice on how to cope with my sadness. He gets upset that I'm upset, and I know that I shouldn't be because we'll still see each other occasionally.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First off let me say that I love my job. I get to do what I love, in a killer place, but I don't really make a lot of money considering the field I'm in. I work in a non-profit museum institution doing video production, and AV technical support as a secondary element to the job. My salary is barely ok for an entry level position in my field (~30K), even though the work I've been doing up until this point is quite beyond entry level imo, but that's neither here nor there. \n\nMy predicament is that my boss is taking a job elsewhere, his title is manager of AV, and they want me to take his job, but keep the creative responsibilities I have now. While I agree I do want to keep making creative videos, I'm weary that they're going to try and dump his work load (relatively little in comparison) on top of mine with a minimal raise. There is very much a rank non-profit culture here, very top heavy, and upward mobility is notoriously difficult (just as a caveat to anyone who might understand the particulars). \n\nAnd so my question is, how do I figure out in a cordial and non-confrontational way how much is fair for them to offer me for the promotion with additional responsibilities? I realize I could just ask my current boss how much he's making but that doesn't seem proper or legit, plus he's been here for 20 years so they can always pull the seniority card. Any advice would be appreciated, thanks in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I met in a college town about two hours away from where we both grew up and will be together two years come Christmas. Coincidentally, our parents live about four miles apart. Last year Thanksgiving/Christmas was great! We spent half/half on Thanksgiving, and my family went over to his family's for Christmas, it was really nice.\n\nHowever, this August my boyfriend and I moved two states away where he started grad school and I began a full time job. I miss my family SO MUCH and my boyfriend could care less about his family. However, they've been out to visit twice and have bought us both tickets to go home for both holidays, which I am immensely grateful for, because it's not something I or my family can afford. This is the longest amount of time I've been away from them. \n\nThe problem this year is that my family will be spending Thanksgiving with my brother's in-laws and Christmas with my step-father's family. I, naturally, want to be with them, but I also feel obligated to spend time with my boyfriend's family because they bought me tickets and I hate the idea of being apart from my boyfriend for special holidays, especially since this isn't going to be a one time thing. If I only get to spend a few days a year with my family, I want every second to be with them, not wasted with my boyfriend's family who I don't feel close with or enjoy spending time with.\n\nI honestly don't have a problem spending time apart but once we're married it seems like it would be weird to have holidays four miles apart from my husband. It wouldn't bother me and I know how upset it will make me to be apart from my family when it's the only time all year I really get to see them.\n\nI know in the end, I have to suck it up and take turns with families but this makes my heart hurt. I love my boyfriend so much and I'm so glad we moved here, so I'm not sure if I'm allowed to be selfish about wanting time with my family. Is there a solution here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am in the middle of the collapse of my (30f) 5 year relationship (41m). \n\nWe have an 18 month old together. \nI stay at home with the baby ,though I am trying to find work. \n\nAnyway, it's been not so good for quite some time now. His main complaint has always been I don't put out enough. Well, he doesn't give me any affection. It's a 2 way street. \n\nAt times, he is just an unpleasant person to be around. \nI am having a hard time even being attracted to him in this state . \nSo, sex has all but disappeared. \nMy last attempt at initiating sex was shut down faster than a drug deal at a police station. \n\nWe've tried counseling. I've left and cone back more times than I care to say. \nOur fights are getting nastier,close to physical a few times. I have a part in this as much as he does. \nI am starting to get a wandering eye and seek out attention from other men.\n\nOn paper,we make better friends than lovers. \nI just don't see it working and frankly,\nI'm tired of trying with him.\n\nMy problem is, he won't let me leave. \n\nEvery time we talk about splitting up,he tells me he won't let me leave with the baby, why do I want to break up our family,and so on. I do not in any way shape or form, want to keep our child away from him. \n\nI only have about $200 saved up so far. Which in California, ain't shit to live on. \nI am trying. The fact that I depend on him for shelter makes it a bit harder. \n\nI guess I need a pat on the ass or some advice on moving forward from here. Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 30 year old female. Cut my parents out of my life and have a strained relationship with my brother and sister. \n\nI still talk to some of my aunts and uncles (mom's sisters and brothers). They don't push me to restore contact with my mom, they completely understand why I have to do what I have to do. \n\nOne of my family members had a baby die in utero 2 weeks before she was to be born. My immediate family has experience with this situation and i'd like to be there for my aunts and cousins at the funeral. \n\nI know my mom will be in attendance. I know I cannot face her alone, if she's cold, if she wants to talk, I'm not interested in any of it. \n\nMy live in bf (also 30) and i have been together for 10 months. He just started a new job that is admittedly cool, but he is absolutely obsessed with it. All conversations, all errands we run, are related to his job. Anything not related to the job he doesn't have bandwidth for. I've tried asking for support. Asking for hugs. Asking him to come to the funeral, and he says I need to deal with my family on my own. He doesn't have time to take off work (the funeral is Tuesday).\n\nI don't know where I can go for support or who to talk to. I have a few casual friends but no one who would let me vent like I feel I need. No one to come with me. Do i look internally for the support? \n\nAny advice would be great. Thanks reddit. (yep, it's a throwaway, no gw posts).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for years, we have lived together for the past 15 months. \n\nI went round a mates house a few nights back and was hanging out with a few people, lots of drinking and there was a girl there [30F] who tried to get things going with me.\n\nI told her I had a girlfriend and nothing happened, in the end I put her in a bed upstairs, she asked that I sleep in the bed with her and she assured nothing would happen. I said no and went downstairs and fell asleep on the sofa. \n\nThat was two days ago and I haven't stopped thinking about her, I'm in a bind, was this just a drunken evening thing with no real substance to it? I didn't do the whole go out and sleep around thing when I was younger, I've only slept with three women all of which were when I was in a relationship with that woman. \n\nThe excitement of the other night I felt was really good and it may be even more so because my current relationship is kind of stagnant, we don't really have much sexual contact. \n\nThe other part of the relationship I am in is that I can't really plan my future because my girlfriend says that she doesn't know if she wants to get married or wants to have kids because she is too young to think about it. I know my stand point on these two things and I don't want to be wasting my time if this relationship isn't leading anywhere.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So let's just say that I ended up catching feelings for my surfing instructor. We aren't even far in age he is only 2 years younger than me- in a way, it's a little of a little set back for me because i feel like a cougar. But anyways, our time spent together during our surf session is ALWAYS AMAZING! I really felt the connection with him, I could totally see him being both my best friend and a boyfriend. \n\nHe's very encouraging and even went out of his way to make sure I got it all in my camera since i'm so into photography and stuff. This Sunday our session is done and so I texted him 2 days later. \n\nAt first it was about surfing. I sent him a copy of our surfing that he recorded.I was flirting a bit too with my texting while keeping the surf aspect of it (if you guys know what I mean) He was going along with it so I then tried to geared it away from the surf topic and I finally said, \"Curious, what are you doing right now?\"\n\nHis response: I'm just hanging about to hit the hay soon, got surfing class tomorrow! \nHe didn't even asked about what I was up to, or initiated anything else", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay so basically I met this girl a few weeks ago and we really hit it off, starting dating a few days later. So far things have been going great, up until yesterday.\n\nYesterday we are making out and all of a sudden she stops and I ask what's wrong, and she says that she's worried that I only want her for sex, and that the only reason I like her is because she is hot.\n\nI'm asking for advice on how I can convince her that I do like her for more than just her body. I know our relationship has only started very recently, but i do like her a lot and would like to see it progress. Yesterday when we were texting we talked about it and I told her that she meant so much more than just sex to me, and that she was funny, talented, and many other things, basically that I really enjoyed being around her and being with her, but I don't think she believed me 100%.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've talked to the guy that I like quite a few times, but for some reason, today when I was going to get a paper, he was in front of me and he turned around and said, \"What, Bianca?\" In a way that he was trying to sound like a tough guy, but I knew he was playing.\n\nI didn't say anything, because I didn't really know what to say and I was in kind of a gloomy mood from something that had happened in my previous class, and my terrible mood probably showed on my face, and his friend (who is a girl and I think that they are possibly together because at every chance they get to be near each other, they do) said, \"She really hates you.\"\n\n'NO I DON'T!!!!!!' I screamed in my mind, but I didn't say anything, because again, I didn't know what to say and I didn't want to make it even more awkward, so I just went and sat down. This put me in even worse of a mood, and I think all future communications with him will be ruined.\n\nI was also trying to talk to him more and try to become his friend, but I always lose my words when it actually comes time to go and talk to him. He goes up to me sometimes, but it's never a long conversation, and I'm afraid he won't even do that anymore because of what his friend said. Please tell me how to fix this and how to start our friendship on the right track!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for a year. She's pretty responsible usually and I value that greatly in her. She enjoys having one drink usually when she's out, but rarely gets drunk I'd say. We had separate plans last night so we planned on getting together later. She was going to a dessert place. \n\nMuch to my surprise when I get to her place, she's wasted. She tells me that afterward they went to a bar and a group of strangers invited them into their back room for drinks. She could hardly stand or talk and her breath reeked of alcohol. She had this cute tipsy girl demeanor about her that made me feel a little sick. She told me about how guys were asking her number and she told them she was taken. I appreciated her honesty but I'm also really shocked by the radical lapse in behavior. I feel really uneasy about this. Am I right to feel a little bit deceived and a little bit worried?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I graduated in Dec. 2010, and since then have been unable to get a programming job in my area. Since my area is the state of Mississippi I decided to look elsewhere. New Orleans is close by but all my attempts have given me nothing. I have a friend in San Francisco and have started looking for work there, but so far nothing. I haven't applied to many places in SF though because I'm unsure of the quality of many of the places.\n\nI'm worried that no REAL work experience is hurting me. Only experience I've got under my belt is fixing computers and setting up networks for local businesses. I did that for money since high school. I've placed in two competitions for innovative design for two projects at school -- one of which won first place ($3500). Other than these things I don't really have much else.\n\nIf anyone has any pointers or knows of some places to submit a resume to I'm ALL EARS. I'm currently working a minimum wage job helping out a friend, and am getting tired of looking like the town idiot who has a degree but no job.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My longtime SO (we'll call him A) and I broke up a little under a year ago. It was mutual and friendly. I have been struggling with depression for all my life and during the last few months of my relationship with A I was particularly low. I knew that A and my sister were talking extensively about trying to force me into psychiatric therapy and had a system of checking up on me (one would text me every hour or so if I wasn't with one of them), but I was never sure what spurred them to do so.\n\nMy sister visited this holiday season and confessed to me that another ex of mine (who she and A just know as a former friend... we'll call him D) had been in contact with them because he was worried for me. D and I had been in an LDR for a number of years and we still talked almost every day after we broke things off. The relationship wasn't healthy and he was mentally abusive to me. When I was particularly bad he would threaten to reveal how unstable I was to my family in a malicious way. After we broke up he backed off a bit. But I'm still concerned and curious as to what he said. So, do I call up A and ask him what went on? Or should I let sleeping dogs lie? A and I have both moved on and are in infrequent contact with each other. I have since proceeded to seek psychiatric treatment.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, this girl and I, let's call her Jen, know each other from mutual friends. She's coming up on her last year of undergrad, and I recently started my first year of graduate school. We go to different schools in the same state, but the schools are roughly on opposite ends of the state. \n\nWe talk pretty much every night, and we have a lot of things in common. There really isn't much else to say, as this is pretty straightforward, but I was wondering if other people have been in my position and have any ideas on whether or not I should move forward and act on this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "i just had a long ass conversation with unintelligible twats about why my internet service is only 1% functional of what I paid for. Called those fuckers up... They told me about you can either pay, pay, or pay for a technician and when I finally got this fucker in a corner to guarantee some shit I bluffed and told him that he better stick to his word because I was recording, at which point he told me that he could terminate the conversation at any time and hung up on me...... What the fuck can I do about this?? they are fucking me over, claim that some cords the technician gave me are technically mine and can be the cause of the problem which they will then charge me $90 for the first hour and $40 every hour after.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, here's the deal:\nI should be finishing my sophomore year of college, but I'm not. I think that cleared that up enough. I haven't even finished my freshman year. I am capable but my grades are in the toilet, and I'm just now deciding that maybe I should use my artistic talent as a means of survival. \n\nSince leaving high school, though. I have lost much of my inspiration to draw! I'm not saying I'm an artist, but I know I'm creative, and I seem to have an absolute block. There is nothing I want to draw. That's where you come in Reddit, tell me what to draw, and I will do it on my brand new tablet that my girlfriend bought me. Also, if it makes my desperation sound any more convincing- if I don't put together a portfolio and get in to a college, I will not be able to pay for my computer. I just got fired from my carpentry job. Hell yeah! So, I'm ASKING you reddit, what should I draw?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have already posted about this girl previously but just for quick background, we have known each other a while, dated for about 4-5 months, although she has had feelings for about a year. A few days ago she ended things with me and I suppose I am writing this more to vent, since I was numb to the break up until today.\n\nFor a few weeks before I could tell she was pulling away. She said she felt pressured into being official, and was scared due to a very large amount of outside stress, mainly due to her grandmother being very sick in the hospital for months. About 2 weeks ago we had a large fight, where she was very iffy about making plans for a date and I was annoyed because she had been flakey about dates recently. We talked a few days ago and she said that she had intended to give it time and see where it went but after that fight she suddenly lost feelings.\n\nBeing honest, I am devastated. I had fallen hard for this girl and the idea that I had pressured her into things and caused her to lose feelings is a tough pill to swallow. That being said, I doubt there is much I can do to \"fix\" things and try again, and she is so guilty about hurting me I doubt she would even tell me if she did still have feelings or redeveloped them. Still, any advice, comments, words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll start from the beginning. I was 16 and my family went to a new church for a change, and on our first day there I saw her. She was tall, fit, blonde hair, bluest eyes, amazing smile and the sweetest person. Eventually I found out she was the pastor's daughter. \n\nFast forward a little, we started attending the church regularly. I was working in my church's nursery. I've always been great with kids and loved taking care of them. One day while working my boss said that we have a new volunteer. It was her, \"Jane.\" \n\nAt this point in my life, I was 16 years old, 5' 4\", looked 12, and weighed maybe 120lbs. I had zero confidence. So, given the fact that I thought I was pathetic and that she was this goddess I never asked her out. I talked to her, but never made a move. \n\nFast forward some more. Our church now is a multi-site church. This means we are the same church with multiple pastors in 2 different locations. I have since been attending the new site because it is closer. I went to school and graduated in Mechanical Engineering and have a fantastic job designing military aircraft components. I am 5' 10\", 185lbs, athletic and very built and now know I'm actually quite attractive. I've had 2 serious relationships since this time and dated a lot but I have always thought she was this incredible angel and that has never really gone away. After switching to the new site (I was 18), I haven't seen her except when I see her tagged by mutual friends on facebook and good god (oh know I used the Lord's name in vain) does she look incredible. \n\nI would love to go up to her and ask her out, but I don't know if I should make an attempt of some sort of contact first (i.e. facebook). Would love some sort of insight. Appreciate it!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Back story: I am a 26 year old male who has fallen in love with running. In September of last year my house was flooded. It was obviously a stressful time for my wife and me. We had to stay with her parents while we sorted out our mess of a house. Long story short between gutting our old house, selling it, buying a new one, and living with her parents and eating her mom's cooking and tons of restaurant meals I packed on some extra gut weight.\n\nThose pictures show where I was when we moved into the new house and where I am now. I started running seriously around May. I have been gradually increasing my mileage since then to about 80 miles a month with an average of 20 a week. I would like to keep bumping that up but it seems like the weight loss I am experiencing is taking from places I would rather not lose. My chest, shoulders and arms are getting to be a little skeletorish for my liking and when I run into people I haven't seen for a while they ask if I have been sick.\n\nSo if you are still reading the question I have for you all is if you have any recommendations for a good weight training plan to complement my running that would help add back a little bulk? Also as far as diet goes should I be increasing my caloric intake? I get around 2000 a day from nuts, lunch meat, pastas, and chicken or pork for supper. Obviously I also eat other things but those are my normal everyday foods. As far as supplements go I have a protein shake after any run over 6 miles for recovery. \n\nI have an Olympic sized weight bench and pull up bar along with various weight dumbbells. So any recommendations?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background:\n\nI'm a student in Ireland. I live away from home and keep two separate bank accounts. I don't really use my second account. My parents have just recently made a deal with the bank (to clear their debt if they sell the properties they own). As part of the deal, they get to move to an older home that needs a lot of work. Obviously they need money to do this house up, but the bank watches their accounts very carefully.\n\nMy mom asked me if she could keep €12,000 in my bank account (€3,000 at first and then another €9,000) so that the bank doesn't know about it and take it off them. I said yes because I know they're really stressed about all this and I wanted to help in any way I could. I was kind of worried that I might get in trouble for it, but decided to trust her. She's asked me to take the money out in lots of €500 euro multiple times a week, so that she can pay the guys who are working on the house.\n\nI know this all sounds very dodgy, but I'm certain this money hasn't come from drugs, robberies, etc. I know that my mom used my name/Personal Public Service Number to pay \"me\" for \"hours that I worked\" in their shop, so I think that's probably where the money came from (probably not much better in the eyes of the law).\nAm I at risk of getting in trouble here? I don't really know anything about finance, or what's actually going on. I really want to help my parents, but at the same time I have to protect myself too.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My fiance and I have been together for 5 years, engaged for 2, and living together for 2.5 years. We've had a lot of problems and are currently trying to work things out. We're both in individual therapy and couples therapy. \n\nWe've talked about giving ourselves one more year to figure things out (this was over this past summer). In the last 6 months I've come to realize that we aren't really compatible as partners and are looking for different things in life. We've talked about this and what it would mean to go our separate ways. \n\nWhat I'm wondering is how do you even start over after 5 years? This is my first serious relationship and the first time I've lived with someone other than my parents. I guess I'm just looking for similar stories and advice on restarting. Thanks in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am constantly begging for him to do anything with my family and he never will. Today was my nieces birthday and I made sure to leave late so he only had to be there for ten minutes but he couldn't even do that. He left early for work to avoid it. He has anxiety but so do I and I still try to get to know his family. My family is so important to me and I feel like I'm becoming a stranger to them. I got home and found he made this status: \"I guess I am a shitty boyfriend since I went in to work a bit early so I can get extra shit done so I dont have to stay late instead of sitting at a birthday party where no one will talk to me.\"\n\nMy response: \"wow way to completely twist that around. I'm really upset because you never go to family functions with me when I want you to and you left early so you didn't have to go with me. Pretty much no one in my family really knows you and that's shitty.\"\n\nHe refuses to delete it. We've been arguing about it for a while and I just don't know what to do. Is this even salvagable? We just bought and apartment and I feel like I'm going to have to move back out already because we have this argument every month.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just moved into a new apartment, it's in an older house and the rental agency isn't the most professional. Upon moving in I noticed a man (aprox late 50's in age, heavy eastern european accent) who lives in one of the apartments above me walking around the premises with a small video camera. \n\nThis creeped me out so I sent an e-mail to my landlord who's response was simply, \"Oh that's so and so, he loves his camera but he's mostly harmless\". Ok, so I ignore him. As my weeks have been going buy i've seen him several other times, but i've noticed he only pulls his camera out when he sees me or other tenants and never by himself. Today I asked him very politely if he could stop filming me, and his answer was rushed and loud \n\n\"It is not illegal in this country, you people need to wake up, wake up. This is not illegal\" \n\nI tried to reason and explain that I wasn't trying to stop him from filming but only that I just did not wish to be a part of it. He kept repeating himself as he walked backwards up the stairs to his entrance. I live in Ontario Canada, and as far as I know it is completely legal to film people in public. I don't want to lock this guy up or anything I just don't want to be a part of his movie collection.\n\nAnyways Reddit, if someone could help me out with a little advice on how to approach this situation I would appreciate it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When my girlfriend and I started dating 7 months ago, she mentioned she had a crazy stalker ex who was still crazy over her and would call/text her once in a while although she said she wouldn't reciprocate. I didn't think much of it.\n\nThis past weekend she told me that this guy tried calling her saying he would try to break up our relationship. When I asked her the reasons why he would want to do that, she was not straightforward with me and I felt something was up.\n\nSo I found the number of the other guy and called him up. Surprisingly, he said years ago she used to be madly in love him and went pscyho trying to ruin his life and trying to break up his relationships. He also said that on the friday before the weekend, she texted him asking to give her and a friend a ride from the bar. Furthermore, he said that they do text each other in a while.\n\nWhen I confronted my girlfriend about all this, she confessed and said everything was true. But she said the only reason she talked to him was to keep tabs as he used to be a big part of her life. As for the reason for asking for a ride, she said she was just drunk with her friend and needed a ride home (I don't have a car). \n\nShe said she didn't want to tell me about the truth because she didn't want me to get upset. But why did she lie and tell me he's a crazy stalker when in truth she was reciprocating? Also I was shocked she asked him for a ride while she was really drunk. She never told me any of this.\n\nIn all honesty, I don't think she had the intention of cheating, but I just think she doesn't want to let go of the past. She still says she loves me and would never want him over me, which I believe.\n\nWhat scares me most is how she lied about the whole situation. I feel like my trust for her has been severely violated and I don't know how to move forward. Is this something I should forgive? Or are these signs that she might do something like this in the future and I should get out while I can?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I was romantically rejected recently by my female friend whom I developed feelings for during our friendship. But we continued our friendship almost immediately. My thoughts are that while the rejection is painful it's not gonna change if I stop contacting her. And though I have feelings for her, I don't want to be with a person who doesn't want to be with me. And as we were friends first and for a long time I have no reasons to reduce or stop contacting her. \n\nMeanwhile my best friend (and some others) insists on going no contact with her asap. He says that I am depressed now and it's only going to get worse. \n\nA lot of people here on reddit says that keeping in contact will feed my hope of reciprocation which isn't going to happen and while I agree that I still hope for something unconsciously I'm not going to act on it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently broke up with my gf of 2 years. I have been trying to focus on myself and is honestly trying to improve myself. But sometimes i wonder what will happen when i see her again. \n\nShe broke up with me because she doesnt feel the same way anymore. That she fell out of love. She said that when she see me she doesnt think i am hot and she wants me to be her boyfriend anymore. that she see me as more of a good friend. I am confused on how this can happen.the worst thing is that just a few days prior she told me she love me so much. I think its just the infatuation period ending. Thats part of the problem. I wonder if things would have been different at a different time\n\nWe were having a tough time previously and actually took a break. But during the break she was more affectionate that she had been in a long time。when i pointed that out she said she was fooling herself. \n\nI want to just focus on myself. But sometimes i daydream about her reaction when she see the improved me. This makes me feel like i am motivated to improve cuz of her and not for myself. I want to just get over this and move on with my life.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other.\n\nOccasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a 26 year old white male who is 6'1 and weighs 83kg. This is an ongoing condition that I have had since I was about 13. It's called osgood-schlatters and I went to see the doctors when I was younger and they said I would grow out of it. I am obviously a lot older now and it is still present below my knee (as a nice big lump). It causes me a lot of discomfort and pain. I have a total of a 30 min walk to work in the morning and evening and for the rest of the day I am sitting down mostly. After long periods this can make my knee really ache.\n\nI am quite an active person; I play a lot of Paintball (running and squatting for long periods at a time), squash and swimming. After these activities the pain does flair up and i usually just put up with it!\n\nI have seen the doctors and they said that there isn't much to do other than try to rest it as much as possible and take some ibuprofen when the pain flairs up. They did hint at surgery to remove this but I thought I would ask on here to get some additional advice or to see if anyone else has this condition before I look at such a thing.\n\nThanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex girlfriend of 5 years Amy (26F) and I(28M) broke up at the end of the summer, she suffers from borderline personality disorder and this put a tremendous strain on our relationship over time. \n\nI suffered a great deal of manipulation and emotional abuse over those years and even though we had some good times i know in hindsight I should have gotten out sooner. \n\nDuring the relationship Amy lied about many things large and small, anything from saying someone was just a friend (who would later turn out to be a former fwb, love interest etc) to things like trying to hide smoking and a drinking problem from me. \n\nWe agreed to break up mutually but shortly thereafter she began to message me expecting me to be her emotional crutch and being angry at me for spending time with female friends. After lashing out at me and spreading rumors I just cut contact. A month or two later she reached out and I politely but quickly ended the conversation. \n\nA week ago she messaged me again just saying, 'hey....' I didn't reply yet but I can't help but feeling bad. Despite things turning south after an amicable breakup I still feel bad not replying, even briefly. Also we're from a decently small town so I will run in to her at some point and I'd like to try and keep things civil at least. \n\nSo my question is, should I at least be courteous and reply? Or is just not answering an acceptable, non rude option. I don't want to get back with her, or give the impression that I'm open to regular communication. But I don't want to hurt her either.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She still wants to go to places like the state fair or the zoo alone with me this summer, but she doesn't want to consider it a date. She tells me over and over that she's sorry, but she isn't ready for a relationship right now, and doesn't want to date anyone at the moment.\n\nShe even went as far to say it's possible she's still capable of loving me romantically, but for whatever reason she's turned off from romance right now. Apparently she loves me in a platonic way. Which is a heartbreaking thing to hear.\n\nI asked her if she ever saw us together, and she said \"She cannot see the future\" and honestly doesn't know if we're going to be together again. She says she's not completely over me.\n\nI'm not sure what to do. This is my first serious relationship, and hearing \"I see you as a friend.\" is the most painful phrase I've ever heard. \n\nCan anyone give me advice? Is this over for good? Do I initiate no contact, or do I stay in her life?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't quite know how to feel about it. I feel like shit about what I did. I got drunk and just ended up fooling around with a guy I barely know because he was interested and cute and nice.\n\nI don't have the perfect relationship with my boyfriend, I often feel inadequate and unattractive because of how he treats me and how he still is infatuated with his ex. I don know if I was just trying to feel wanted by hooking up with this guy, but it is no excuse. I got a ride home from a friend and told my boyfriend as soon as I got home- before I even kissed him or hugged him because I didn't want to deceive him as he has done to me when he cheated on me (he lied about it for over a week about what actually happened- it just got worse and worse when the truth came out. I forgave him, obviously) but maybe subconsciously I did this to \"get back at him\". I don't think I did, but I can't imagine why I'd do this to him otherwise.\n\nWhen I told my boyfriend he said \"it's okay\" and I asked \"are you sure?\" and he said \"of course, baby, I love you, it's fine\". \n\nI'm both relived and even more guilty because of his reaction. I would be so mad if it was him (even knowing that in my slip up it meant nothing) and I feel like I don't deserve his forgiveness. I was SO hurt when he cheated on me, it almost feels off that he isn't hurt... As in- does he not care as much about the relationship as I do?\n\nAm I over thinking this? Should I just let this incident fade into obscurity and move on, or should I try to talk more in depth about this? \n\nThanks in advance. It is really complicated and awful and I feel like the shittiest person alive despite his forgiveness. I think maybe it is because I still haven't forgiven him 100%?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, we've had a perfect relationship. We have grown up with each other since the age of 16 and we are both very happy together. \nHe recently told me that he doesn't know who he is without me and wants to explore that independent side of himself, although reluctantly, so there's a chance we might split up in July when he moves to Berlin. \n\nI understand where he is coming from, but for me, I know who I am, I like who I am, and I don't think I'm going to be a better person without him. Do any of you have experience with these feelings? How did you deal with them? I don't want us to go our separate ways.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright so here is the quick and dirty\nMe - 26 M\nHer - 32 F\nMarried 2 years this July.\nTogether 5 years this October.\n\nWhen we first moved in together I had alot of things that I had to work on as far as being a better husband and communicating with her better, doing my part around the house etc. Each time it was brought up it devolved into fighting but we figured that this wasn't working so devised a solution, a list!\n\nThis worked, my behaviours changed for the betterment of the relationship and myself and I feel like a better person for it.\n\nNow me, I am a generally positive individual, I try my best to maintain a relatively positive outlook on things and just be humorous. When it comes to serious stuff I am serious but otherwise I love to smile!\n\nThe issue I am having now is that we have been having ongoing discussions for the past 6 or so months about her attitude which has been getting progressively worse. She is employed, currently paying down her student loans and stuck with a job that she hates while she does so. Understandably not the best situation but I am always here for her and to support her, I've helped her get her food blog started, helped her get the implements for her baking etc. \n\nInstead of a happier more positive wife I have someone who constantly looks at the negatives, refuses to discuss our future together because it is depressing and just in general has issues showing emotion.\n\nWe have discussed this time and again, I'm getting sick of it, she is too and I'm just not seeing much improvement.\n\nI love her, I care for her but for my own mental health I am having difficulty wanting to actually spend time with her when it feels like she just hates life.\n\nKind of a can't see the forest through the trees kind of thing.\n\nI'm open to any suggestions Reddit may have on this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO recently stated she wouldn't mind if I cheat on her. I'm not sure what to make with this statement. I would never cheat in any way, however, she did in her past, but was never cheated on herself. She says she can't understand how it feels, but she wouldn't probably mind as long as it doesn't change anything between us.\n\nDoes that mean now she likes me so much that even if I cheat, she wouldn't leave me or is she trying to make an excuse already for cheating she might do? I am really confused, I have never heard anyone saying something like this. I always thought if you like someone, you don't really want to share him like that.\n\nI appreciate any opinions!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Left my partner after just not being able to take anymore, broke up recently but got back together after his claim to seek help and I agreed to support him through it.\nBeen 2 months and I am leading him begrudgingly by the hand to even read any website or phone number. Don't feel I will even be happy again despite wanting to hold onto a future with him even kids but as it stood I was terrified of that happening. I know I'm doing what's best for me and I've done all I can emotionally and physically to help this guy... so why do I feel so guilty for leaving?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'll be filing my won taxes for the first time, and I'm a little confused because of the way I make money. I work online and get paid with either btc or paypal. When I get paid with bitcoin, I sell in on localbitcoins for either cash or gold/silver bullion. I've had some issues with paypal before, and because of this I don't add all my personal/banking info. Each week I use the money on paypal to purchase around $3500 of gold/silver bullion from ebay. All of which I keep in a safe. I have money in my checking/savings account that I use for bills/expenses, so all the money I have made this year is in gold/silver. I know this seems really silly or might be a stupid thing to do with my money, but collecting gold and silver is a hobby of mine and I've just been stocking up. \nI started keeping detailed track of the exact dollar amount I was making about 4 months ago, but earlier than that I was stupid and didn't write anything down so I don't know the exact amount of money I made. \nIs there something I should do if I don't know how much I have made, and don't have a W2 or any tax info? Do I mark down that I'm self employed?\nI know this seems really confusing, so I understand if your advice is just \"hire a tax professional\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife has a dilemma (and by proxy, so do I)...\n\nShe's become quite frustrated with the job opportunities in our area. Her education is a combination of business and IT, you'd think that would be a good combination, but she hasn't been able to find a job she's been happy in. She seems to be able to snag IT positions fairly easily (especially internal desktop support), this is because HR departments seem to go all wobbly in the knees when they see a women in IT, but when she gets into the job, no one respects her as IT is, lets be honest, dominated by neck-beards and people who just like hearing the sound of their own voice. Any ideas she comes up with are often regarded as bad ideas initially, but after a week or so, a guy draws the same conclusion and its the greatest idea in the world without any credit to her.\n\nCurrently, she's in a low-pay customer service position, not her ideal job. We would move to another city, but I've found a very good job that's helping to solidify my career that I can't give up (I also work in IT, and I can't believe the crap she has put up with as I definitely don't notice the same in any recent jobs I've held).\n\nSo, she's expressed an interest in working from home, obviously these kind of jobs won't be posted on a local job site, is there a resource out there that actually guides you to from working from home? I largely considered 'work-at-home' jobs mythical in nature, since most that I've heard of are held by people who were already in a high-paying position at a company and could transition to being remote only.\n\nBackstory", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, a friend of mine invited the two of us over for dinner this week. My boyfriend likes this friend, but doesn't want to go. My friend has been renting a room in someone else's house, and my boyfriend doesn't trust that my friend's house will be clean (kitchen, dishes, fridge, etc), because he's never met my friend's housemate.\n\nI know he's a little germophobic, but I've been to her house and know that it's perfectly clean. Also, my friend is SUPER excited about making us dinner, and would be really bummed if my boyfriend didn't come.\n\nI can't force him to come, but nothing I'm saying is changing his mind, and I also feel really awkward coming up with an excuse for him to not come.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "here is my situation.. I'm 21 and I've been dating the same guy for over a year now. He's an incredible guy we get along great there is very little I cant complain about in our relationship. Before dating my current boyfriend I was in another relationship for about a year.. In that relationship there weren't many problems we didn't fight much and everything was always pretty good then one day I was asked to come over to talk and I got the break up speech. My ex told me he was no longer attracted to me, didn't love me, literally everything you don't want to hear. I spent 3 months and a summer away from him getting over him and pretty much just accepting the fact that he got bored with the relationship and decided to break up. During our summer apart I received a lot of phone calls from my ex attempting to get back together and I decided not to give him a chance considering not even a week after we broke up he was hooking up with his neighbor.. getting to the point about 3 months into my relationship with my current boyfriend I found out from him(the girl he cheated on me with turned out to be friends with my boyfriend and told him) my ex had been cheating on me the whole time we had dated. Since finding out this truth which was eventually admitted by my ex I tend to feel very insecure about my relationship (although there is no reason for it). My current boyfriend is quick to reassure me but I experience anxiety when he goes out with his friends and I have a really hard time calming myself down. I guess Im finding it difficult to wrap my head around the fact I was cheated. I was able to rationalize the unexpected break with my ex with the fact that at least he was honest and hadn't cheated on me. \n\nHonestly I just want to know how to deal with the anxiety I experience... what kind of methods can I use to calm myself down? My current boyfriend is very understanding but I don't want to keep putting him through the same conversation about it...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to keep this as short as possible. I had been dating my ex for 3 years. We had a very good relationship but in the end it came down to a difference in religion. I am agnostic she is Christian. \n\nWhen she broke up with me she said that even though she wanted to marry me and have kids with me that we couldn't because of our different beliefs. But she also said she is still completely on love with me. \n\nSince then we have had some contact still, I've done some begging and trying to convince her to change her mind but that obviously doesn't work. I went NC for about 17 days until I asked her to meet me for a drink. \n\nWe went out and had a lot of fun, basically pretended we were still dating. Holding hands, kissing, we ended up having sex and she said that she is still in love with me but we need to be apart for awhile. She kept saying we have a chance at being together again. Just now now. \n\nThen I went NC again for another 14 days until this weekend when I broke it again. The conversation was pretty much the same, that she is still in love with me but is enjoying being alone, and reconnecting with her old friends. And that she needs more time. \n\nI'm doing everything I can to let go and move on but it's so difficult to do when I know that we are both in love with each other. I'm trying to give her the space she is asking for but my mind is so overcome with emotion that I can't go too long without contacting her. \n\nI guess I just don't know what to do. Do I need to completely move on and forget about her? I obviously want to be with her still so I don't know how what to do when she tells me all of these things about us being together again after we \"find ourselves\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've got a friend, we'll call him Jim. Jim has been dating his Girlfriend, we'll call her Sam, for about 2 years now or so. But before this, Sam and I used to fool around. Sam has also fooled around with 4 of our other friends, so including me that makes 5. \n\nHere's where it gets complicated; Jim doesn't know. A good question would be why we didn't tell him. Well I did. Or least I tried to. The reason I didn't just blurt it out was because when he told me he was interested in Sam, he seemed like he genuinely really liked her so I wanted to tell him as gently as possible but he shut me down and gave a really cocky and arrogant response so I dropped it. We wrestled with whether or not to tell him because we didn't want it to seem like we were jealous or being petty. And I've asked Jim and he said he thinks she's the one and he'll pop the question one day.\n\nNow Sam has been known to tell lies to try and come between our circle of friends. She told a lie about two of our friends, Michael and Ryan. She also lied that Michael and I were fighting over her. Now she's told another lie. She told Jim that our friend, Paul, slept with Ryan's ex girlfriend which is hilariously untrue.\n\nNow Paul is absolutely fuming and says he's going to confront Jim with this and he's going to tell Jim about Sam's history with the 5 of us.\n\nMy question is, what should I do? What's the best course of action here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She broke up with me on my birthday 7 months ago, ending a 7 month relationship, because I didn't contribute to the rent, I stayed at her apartment and went to my college classes. She said 3 days earlier that she would breakup with me if I didn't find a job in 2 weeks, she broke her word. She said that I wasn't mature enough for a relationship. She told me not to get stuck on her and that I would find another girl. \n\nThen as of recently we stopped being friends with benefits because she has a new squeeze: my friend who I introduced her to. He told her to ignore me and she complied and now I am being treated like the bubonic plague. She threatened to throw out some of my clothes if I didn't give her marijuana and ever since(a full month later) she is still ignoring me.\n\nI would really like to get her back, but I understand that might not be an option. I am struggling for the first time in my life to be independent and will soon move to a state where I can start the business I want to but it will take some time before I am successful enough to support her and give her what she gave to me. \n\nPersonally it hurts but it seems like the best option is to move on, still I am having a hard time getting over her and I feel like she is telling me to fuck off. I think we both made mistakes but I think that her actions are unacceptable.\n\nHow should I deal with this and how do I have healthier relationships in the future? And how do I deal with this heartbreak?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To start off we have been dating for around 14 months and the vast majority of that time has been great. Obviously we have had ups and downs like most relationships but nothing too serious or deal-breaking. She is one of the nicest most caring people I have ever met and she has always been a ton of fun to be around. \n\nThe issue is that over the last couple months I have basically lost all interest in a romantic relationship with her. It's not anything that she has done specifically I just do not have the same feelings I once had. I have been strongly considering ending things but I am having an extremely hard time doing it because I still care about her and would never want to hurt her, but I know that no matter what I do I'm going to. \n\nEvery other time that I have ended a relationship it has been over a significant unresolvable issue such as cheating. I am completely unsure how to move forward right now.\n\n What should I do?? Any advice would be much appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey, all! Throwaway account time! Here's the story:\n\nMy on-and-off boyfriend of two years is going on a week-long backpacking journey to Thailand with his best friend who is female. Before anyone says anything, I have met her before and she has a boyfriend of two years. However, she is very attractive (a much prettier version of myself) and shares the same interests as my boyfriend. They even used to live together with a bunch of other people. It makes me wonder why they haven't dated. Upon asking my boyfriend this, he has told me he has never hooked up with her, has had feelings for her, or is even attracted to her. He even has gone so far to say that he will never date her as she is like a little sister to him.\n\nSo lately, he told me that he wants to meet up in Thailand for a week with her alone while she is on her extended backpacking trip to SE-Asia. We have argued about this several times. I continuously told him that this is disrespectful and I don't want him to go. Of course, he goes against my wishes. We recently got back together, so I would understand if he didn't want to go on a vacation with me just yet. \n\nI don't even mind if he went alone to Thailand or with a group, as long as he isn't alone with his female best friend. I find that to be disrespectful. He assures me that they will be staying in hostels with separate beds and he will call me via Skype every single day to make me feel better. We are going on our own vacation later this year. I care about him. I didn't want to give up the relationship, yet. Still, I feel this is crossing way too many boundaries. \n\nAm I overreacting, reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am 21F and my boyfriend is 22M. We've been dating for about 9 months now but have been friends for 4+ years. I'm his first girlfriend. \n\nIn my eyes, our relationship is like a wonderful dream. I've been in a long term relationship before (2 years) and it ended fairly amicable, but I know how shitty dating can be. We have so much in common, share wonderful memories and crack up together. We are in love. I'm cynical when it comes to relationships because I've experienced failure after failure, not to mention my parents are divorced. \n\nWe argue, a lot. Over almost anything. Usually, its my fault, but he's admitted we both can be childish at points. Our fights are passionate, usually quick, and we move on within the day. This taints the better part of our relationship, but not enough for either of us to want to end it. Although, we did break up about 5 months ago for maybe a week. (It was a drunken break up)\n\nIf I were to describe our relationship from his point of view, you all would probably think I was a psycho. I'm clingy and have a temper. I can be too sensitive and crave attention. Honestly, I hate it, and he knows I hate it. Change isn't easy to come by, and there are some emotional/depression/self esteem issues I should work out on my own.\n\nI guess my question is, how can I change my attitude to be a better girlfriend? Or should we break up for a while so I don't feel so attached to him? I see so much potential in our future together and love him dearly. I just want to make the right choices.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a theory about where the idea of a \"dozen\" came from and I'm wondering if anyone knows if it's correct. A search just brings up lots of information about bakers dozens, but I can't find anything on my theory.\n\nMy parents grew up in India and I always see them counting on their knuckle segments. If you use your thumb as a marker, you can count 12 knuckle segments on that hand. I always assumed that this is where we got a dozen from.\n\nThe number 60 also comes up a lot (60 minutes, etc.). I always assumed that that was because the other hand was used to count five cycles of 12, giving us 60.\n\nAnyone know if that's correct?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello, \n\nI'm a 16y/o male and im in love with a girl [16]. This is the first time i'm in love and it is really exchausting. I am 100% sure i am not ready for a relation yet and i don't want it either. I almost never talk with her so our relationship is non existing. Another thing is that someone else also likes her and it keeps getting in my head because they regularly chill with each other. I am at a point were i am so in love that i can't focus on school anymore. I never had this feeling before and its a first time for me. The feeling i get is really exchausting. My heart rate goes up really high and i get a weird feeling in my stomach.\n\nI started to like her about 5 months ago and i am really in love since 1 week ago. I don't know what to do and i don't think this will go away soon.\n\n(Sorry for the really bad english grammar i'm not native.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a 34(f) married to a 40(m). We have been in a relationship for nearly 7 years. The sex is almost non existent. When it does happen, it is so rote and requires so much effort that is difficult to get and stay aroused. I blamed my spouse for a long time but I don't any longer. We love being together and fulfill our marriage in pragmatic ways. It is our intent to remain together and keep the relationship intact.\n\nThere are times when I become emotionally frustrated and wish for something more. I feel guilty because what I secretly desire in some ways violate the sacredness of the marriage. I guess I don't know how to cope. My SO says that our situation is normal and that the downturn comes from being oversaturated with your spouse.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me 21f and Boyfriend 23m\nWe have been dating for 1.5 years. We are past the honeymoon phase but overall things have been great. He is extremely caring, makes me feel special and we are both in love. We've gotten through some rough patches in the past and I really want things to work out well... but I'm having a hard time getting past this:\n\nHe got in touch with his ex-GF from high school recently. I know he basically loved her and pined for her all through high school and didn't entirely get over her until he met me. They occasionally kept each other updated by hanging out when they were both in their hometown or fb messages. She often says \"I miss you\" etc. which makes me a little uncomfortable. To some extent she enjoyed getting the attention from him in high school and kept him hanging even though she didn't like him that way. I feel like she may treat him the same now when she says things like that. \n\nShe emailed him a while ago that she was coming to visit him. He told me of it immediately. She hadn't given any details but made it seem like her trip all the way was just to see him. I was uncomfortable and wasn't even in town at the time and expressed that to my boyfriend. He immediately told her not to come see him because I said so. It was only then that she revealed that she was visiting her family there along with her current boyfriend and it wasn't a trip just to see my boyfriend. \n\nI was a little embarrassed of this... but still feel like my boyfriend shouldn't have so bluntly told her it was my fault! It felt like he confided in her something that was between us and it just felt wrong! I trust my boyfriend completely but am so scared now that he confides in her things that are personal to us. He still wants to stay friends with her and I won't tell him not to do that... they have been in contact since then too and I try not to let it get to me but I'm having a hard time getting past it.\n\nWhat should I do, Reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am always scared to go to the hair salon to get even a trim. I have been growing out my hair for about 4 years now and want it to be super long. One time I went to the stylist to get a trim and he cut it into this weird \"v\" shape without my permission (every trim I got was always a straight across trim). He was taking an unusually long time but I didn't really notice what he was doing because I didn't have my glasses on. I thought he was just being really careful because I have long hair. When he was done, I put my spectacles back on and was shocked at what a shitty job he did. I should have said something to him but I was in too much shock. I didn't tip him and went to another salon begging someone there to fix the damage. I ended up losing another 4 inches to get my hair back the way I wanted. This sounds very vain but I was so devostated. I spent a long ass time trying to grow out my hair only to chop off so much of what I spent growing.\n\nI never went back to the shitty salon. I knew I should've said something but I was just so shocked.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been \"together\" for over a year, and about 6 months ago went through a really rough patch. Both of us did things we regret, and he went a little wild with some girls at parties (nothing beyond nudity). Now we're pretty much back on track, though he's not really ready to make any promises or commitments. \n\nTomorrow night he's going to be at a party at the same house and I think with some of the same people.. it just makes me kinda icky inside and feel a little of the self loathe I did in the past. Any suggestions on how I can enjoy my weekend knowing and trusting he's enjoying his?\n\nI really love and care deeply for him, I just have a lot of preservation for my own happiness and health. And I want to make sure these fleeting worries don't get in the way of the immense progress we've made together and individually.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't get this at all.\nWe've been friends for two years. Simply put by being his friend I was in the cool crowd without having to be a total doucheface or anything. But that wasn't the reason I was his friend, it was cause we both played minecraft and toribash and both knew what a trollface was and shit, and we just tried to make eachother laugh. Lately though I've felt like he's ignoring me. We got put in seperate homerooms but we still see eachother in half the rotations. In math we were goofing around across the room with the whiteboards and markers that were supplied. We laughed a bit. And typically after school we'll talk on skype and play shit, and pause when we want to watch youtube or do something else. For the past few days we haven't been using skype. And just today when he was bringing a mutual friend over to his house, he decided to take another path, even though I could've walked with him as our houses are on the same path.\nSorry if I'm sounding like a girl with all the complaining. I just want to be friends again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "18M here, just started college, have been having a FWB thing with my close friend 18F for about a year now. We'e known each other for 7. I treat her less than any other person I talk to, because I know I can. She loves me profusely and used to get upset at me for treating her so poorly, sleeping with other girls, etc. but now she says she just doesnt care what I do, as long as we remain friends.\n\nI think this is so fucked up. I actually go out of my way to be an ass to her and she comes back for more, and even brings me cake. She's insanely sweet and dependent on me. That's why I think she's better off without me. I cause her so much emotional pain and we both know it, but she doesn't want to let me go. She tells me she's miserable without me, but I feel like it's for her own good to break off this friendship. \n\nShe cares about me an insane amount, I mean she must after all the crap I've put her through. Anyway why can't I seem to get rid of her. Not that it's in my particular best interest. I mean I use her to satisfy my own selfish desires for sex and emotional support, but I provide her with nothing positive. \n\nShe tells me this friendship is something worth fighting for, no matter what I do. I feel like I just can't win with her. What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys.\n\nI recently broke up with my bf for a multitude of reasons. I went out a few nights ago and met this REALLY cute guy that I have quite a bit in common with. He got my number and I got his, and he added me on facebook. We haven't spoken since except when he texted me to say that we should hang out again. This was a little complicated by the fact that I was staying with my family ~3hrs away for 4 days but no biggie.\n\nI didn't realise my ex new my fb password. He got jealous and blocked this guy, along with a few others. I went to re-add the guy he blocked, but he has friend requests hidden (I can't re-add him).\n\nI don't want to be the girl with the crazy ex-bf, but how can I approach him so that we can be friends again on facebook? I would love to see him again but I imagine it would seem strange to add someone as a friend only to be then blocked and deleted for no apparent reason.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First off, sorry for the length.\n\nI need some serious help. My husband and I have been having pretty serious problems with money. It isn't that we are lazy, we are just in a really tight spot. He has tried posting on r/Frugal, but didn't get any advice other than \"don't spend what you don't have to and you'll be fine.\" It isn't that simple for us. We just don't make enough money to pay off all of our bills each month.\n\nBasically, I've gotten very sick recently. I've been out of work for nearly 5 months because I can't stand or walk on my own. We've been saving money where we can. I even got a buzz cut for the sake of saving water and shampoo (not to mention, I couldn't shower by myself). But despite our best efforts, we can't make it. My husband makes about $1,000 a month. Our rent cost us $650, our cell phones cost $70, and utilities usually cost about $70 (with internet). We still have to pay for gas and food. We've been sent to collections because of my medical bills and a credit card (which we haven't been using for nearly 3 years). We still have 7 months on our lease, and can't ask for any money from family, because I have already tapped them out. \n\nPlease, if anyone has any legitimate advice (no \"just be more careful with your money\" advice, please), I would love to hear from you. Anything helps.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been seeing her for about 2 1/2 months now, and we've really clicked and she brought up the talk about getting serious. Early on we happen to stumble on the fact that my ex used to be a really good friend of her's and they still keep in touch. Last week my ex and her friend (note that I haven't talked to her in around 3 1/2 months) spread some bullshit around campus about me. It got back to the woman I'm seeing now and I've noticed that she's immediately started treating me differetly. She wants to talk about exactly what happened betweenmy ex and myself. I would you proceed in this situation? Is this a lost cause? It's really worrying me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [24f] have been with an alcoholic [28m] for about 6 months. We have a great relationship and I love him very much. He admitted to me on our second date that he is an alcoholic, and that has never really bothered me.\n\nHis problem started with the loss of a close relative. Since we've been together, he has experienced a decrease in alcohol consumption. Whereas he used to get drunk every night in order to sleep, he now sleeps sober when we're together, or maybe has only 1 or 2 drinks. I spent the last 3 nights with him and he only drank on one of them.\n\nMore to the point though, while he has gone several months with great improvement, he is still very self-deprecating. I feel like he has branded himself, and that is holding him back from seeing his progress. I would love some tips on how I can continue to be supportive of him and show him that he's a great boyfriend. So what tips can you give me for dealing with an alcoholic SO?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met a girl 2 months ago, and we talked for long time, 1 month after that we got into a relationship, she had told me all her secrets and that she had a boyfriend before and that she was a virgin, etc... 1 week ago we had unprotected sex, she was a virgin, but i was also a virgin. today i found out that she might still be with the other guy, and she might be playing me real good... my friends told me all this information about her cheating on me and stuff, but no proof what so ever. they went on and on for hours, i really dont know how to feel anymore, because, all the things they said, didnt match the way she is... honestly this girl is so kind, nice...she is everything to me, she just doesnt seem like the kind of person that would do something like that... but anyways, the question for you guys here is... should i still be with her? or what...\n\nbut more importantly is... if she did play me, will she allow herself to get pregnant, because if she does....my life is ruined :(...help me please!\n(her mom was talking to kicking her out of the house in a few months)\n(she told me she was under the birth control pill)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I'm an 18 year old female and he's an 18 year old male.\n\nWe met in a class we had together while I had a boyfriend but always got along and one time he came over to my apartment and smoked with me alone--I never told my boyfriend but nothing happened.\n\nThen when the class ended he stopped talking to me. A few months later he sent me a long message on FB asking me all of these questions to catch up. I responded and he never wrote back.\n\nI broke up with my boyfriend a two months ago and made it \"FB official\" and a couple of weeks later he texted me to say Hi.\n\nThen we talked for a while and were sending flirty texts. So then he said that he was going to call me and never did. For a week after that he didn't talk to me. \n\nThen I texted him and he said that he was really busy this week and said how are you sweetie...we talked for a bit and I said Why didn't you end up calling me? to which he never replied. \n\nSo then a few days later I texted him again and we talked and I asked him if he wanted to hang out with me tonight and of course he didn't respond.\n\nAm I fucking pathetic? Why is he sending me all of these mixed signals?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello, I think it's important to point out that I'm not your typical \"senior year high school\" guy. I tend to, maybe not stand out, but I'm defnitely different from the others. My town is pretty small, and most people listen to rap, while I'm one of the few who listens to heavier stuff like metal, however I also like Eminem! The point is, I don't really have that many friends, tho the ones I have are great. I'm also pretty shy, which surprises many people because I usually wear full black, with heavy boots and sometimes chains hanging out of my belt.\n\nI have this best friend, she's like a little sister to me, and I'm like a brother to her. We know each other for almost 4 years now. I'm pretty sure she had a crush on me, while I had on her, but on different \"stages\" per say. Many people would often confuse us as a couple, because we acted like one, without kissing, having an intercourse and so on, that's not to say we hadn't had a sleepover. We do a lot of things together, sometimes even catch ourselves finishing each others senteces, or say the same thing at the same time. Her parents like me so much they lent me a key to their house so I could surprise her with her best(girl)friend on her birthday. Now, my crush has started after 2 years of our friendship, then it kind of disappeared, but started to take effect about a month-two ago. Yet I'm not sure if I should talk to her about it, since her crush \"time\" I believe has long since ended. She didn't talk to me about hers, and I don't think I have the guts to talk about mine. It's a weird situation for me, as I've never really had to deal with those things, because..well, I'm only 19. I'd really appreciate any suggestions, if I should lay everything on the table, if I should forget about it and keep what's at the moment..I'm in a pinch!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been dating two years and are spending the year abroad in London. London was the only program that worked for both our majors. We like the city but we've noticed that all the other students in our program travel on weekends, to other European countries and such.\n\nI've never been out of the country before. I'd love to see more of Europe, I may never get another chance. But my girlfriend's parents have prohibited her from traveling. They said she can take day trips if she's with a large group, but seeing as we don't know the others in our program (we're pretty solitary people) that isn't a possibility. Overnight trips or plane rides are out of the question.\n\nMy girlfriend wants to travel too, and we've thought about sneaking to go on a trip, but her conscience is killing her. She wants to try writing an email to her parents begging for permission, but is scared. She's told me to travel without her, but as much as I want to see Europe I don't want to go without her. What do we do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry guys, this is going to be all over the place. I'm on my phone and I'm not very good at writing stories. \n\nI married my high school sweetheart 3 months ago (yay!) And moved out of state to follow him in his travels with the navy. I didn't care to leave because I knew we would always go home for the holidays, and if he couldn't, I would just go home by myself. I'm very close to my family and would be miserable without visiting! Unfortunately my husband isn't so close with his parents because they're crazy racist. He's white and I'm hispanic. So racist to the point that they won't even allow me in their home. They say the nastiest things about me and the hispanic community to my husband and his younger siblings. My husband always defends me or just walks away. We got married at the courthouse and both of our families were invited to come witness it. All my family showed up and not one person from his even did so much as to call. My family absolutely adores my husband, they're very loving and open. And they of course want us to come stay with them for Christmas. He loves my family, but his parent's want him to stay at their home for Christmas.... Without me. I can't even described how much it hurts that he's actually considering it. Though I understand that he wants to see his younger siblings. I don't want him to go. I want him to come home to my family with me. My home is somewhere we're both loved and accepted. His family makes me feel like scum and disgusting. Which is crazy because his family is trailor poor/white trash and I come from a very well off and civilized family. \nI feel like it might be selfish and bitchy of me to ask him not to stay there. I know that its his family, but they're so unreasonable. Am I wrong for being hurt and wanting him to come home with me?\nAlso, other than this we have an awesome marriage. This is basically our only issue. And we've been dealing with it for years.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have to use a throwaway for this. My wife's(Angela) good friend(Stacey) is cheating on her husband(Adam) with mutual friend.\n\nStacey calls my wife up and to tell her about a threesome she engaged in with another married couple. She asked not to tell anyone, including me. Adam and Stacey are close friends with another married couple, Amanda and Brad. Well Amanda and Brad asked Stacey if she would be willing to have a threesome with them. She agreed and when through with it without Adam knowing.\n\nNow Stacey is having an affair with Brad without Amanda and Adam knowing. It's been going on for some time now and I really want to let Adam know but can't because Angela is supposedly the only person that knows about this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone. So I am looking to move out of Pennsylvania. I've lived here my whole life. I'm 24 now. Have a job I don't like much. There's not many good jobs around here. I don't have many friends, and lack family (I have one best friend) , so nothing is keeping me here anymore. I want to get a fresh start in a new area, where the people are friendly, plenty of job opportunities, and the weather is warm. I was going to go to school for health information management. The program is going to take probably a year to finish and I don't know if I can stay at my current job for that long. However, I don't think it's wise moving out of state with only having data entry and warehouse experience. The states that I was recommended were Texas, North Carolina, and Arizona.\n\nShould I stick it out with my job until I finish school? Have you ever moved out of state because you were unhappy? Was the grass greener on the other side? Please share your experiences =)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've always used contraception (her taking the pill) but over the last three months she's forgotten taken her pill three times. She's been taking the pill ever since she was a teen, I can not conclude if they've missed it by accident or not. Since she's forgotten her first pill I've worn a condom since.\n\nShe has now finished her packet and isn't going to get a prescription so for the foreseeable future (she see's me wearing the condom as good enough, and wants a \"break\" from artificial hormones).\n\nNow recently, more than usual she's been talking more about wanting to have a family. She's known since the start of our relationship that I do not wish to have one (Do I need to explain to Reddit why? Everyone usually demands an explanation). She thinks I'l change my mind about the topic in the future but I'm certain I won't.\n\nI've never let them know I've had a vasectomy. Do I tell them? Do I keep it to myself?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have been dating my girlfriend for 6 years (high school sweethearts) and she is one of the nicest people I have ever met. I have always been extremely happy with our relationship because I feel that we are extremely compatible and there hasn't really anything wrong with our relationship. We only fight like once a year and have never broken up before.\n\nI am a personal trainer and recently I gave a fitness assessment and training session to this other girl who is incredible and I feel that we have an amazing amount of chemistry. I'm not sure if I have ever met someone who I've enjoyed talking to this much and I feel guilty that I can't really get her off my mind.\n\nI am a good guy who is just a little confused with how I'm feeling. This is kind of the first crush I've had since I've been with my girlfriend and I don't know what to make of it. I just want to be clear that I would never cheat on anyone and am not contemplating that in the slightest.\n\nWhile my relationship hasn't really ever been rocky, there are some underlying issues. One of the big ones is that we currently live in a big city that I am perfectly content with, but she hates it. We've been contemplating moving to a smaller town somewhere in a different state, but I am not sure if that is something I want. She really doesn't want to stay here and no matter which of us makes the compromise, I feel that the other will regret it.\n\nAbout 8 months ago, I also moved in to her apartment with her and her 2 female roommates, and this led me to feeling a little on & off depressed over the last 6 months. I originally thought that my sadness was just because I didn't really feel at home living with 3 girls and am used to \"me\" time as well as \"bro\" time with my former roommates. \n\nAll of these things combined with this crush that I now have are just leaving me confused and worried about the future.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here goes.\nIt was my girlfriend's birthday. I gave her a surprise visit at her house at 12 AM. Bought her a cake and a dress. The same night, took her to an exclusive restaurant for a nice romantic dinner. We both drank a lot, had an intimate romantic time. As we got done with dinner and were leaving the restaurant, we had an argument and I just lost it. I was driving, dropping her back home, and I shouted at her, calling her abuses, pushed her couple of times against the car door. She has some bruises from it. And then I threw her out of the car in the middle of road at 1 AM in the night. Although, just 3 minutes back I picked her back up.\n\nI just cant seem to live with this memory. Just cant seem to forgive myself. It kills me knowing how I was at my worst with a person who I love the most. I don't want to blame the alcohol. My behavior was totally uncalled for. What do I do reddit? How do I manage life knowing that I treated her like this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I started college when I was 17 and knew what I wanted to do right off the bat, so at this point I've been in my field for nearly a decade (I had a job in college in my field). I also got married at 19 and had my first child at 20, and I'm very good at my job (I'm a graphic designer/marketer) so I am in a position in life that is usually normal for someone about five or more years older than I am.\n\nI feel capable at my job and in my element running meetings with men twice my age, but every once in awhile someone I work with in some capacity will ask me how old I am. Frankly, I don't want to tell people, I'd rather it be ambiguous. I've noticed a marked difference in the way people respond to me once they have confirmed that yes, I'm younger than they think I am and don't just have a fantastic skin care regimen. How do I respond? Do I lie? Do I just live with it? Is there any professional way at all to respond to that question without saying 'none of your business'?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, as the title says, I'll be studying in Madrid this coming July through a program with my (American) university. \n\nI have a free week after and am trying to figure out how I would best spend it. I realize it's not a lot of time, but I'd like to hear what you would do if you had an extra week.\n\nI'll probably have seen enough of Spain (and a little bit of Portugal, probably) to be happy, so I'm thinking of traveling elsewhere in Europe. However, I'm a Brazilian citizen, which probably doesn't affect much, but it's worth considering if I have to cross borders. \n\nI don't expect to go backpacking/hiking/scuba-diving or anything like that in such a short amount of time, but I'd be very happy being a \"fish out of water.\" I love beaches and mountains, really any scenery or cities would be cool with me. \n\nBasically, this would just be a good way for me to whet my appetite with a little bit of Europe. Probably I have enough time to explore maybe two cities or so counting travel, maybe see a good museum or two and eat some interesting food. \n\nIf you have suggestions (anybody know anything about getting into the Paris tunnels?) about any thing that I just need to see/visit/eat/dance or something, I'd love to hear it. Also, my birthday falls during this free week, and I don't know if I'll have any companions with me as of yet, but anything I could do to celebrate my birthday would be cool as well.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Early 20s M. \n\nObviously, this answer dependent on the people and situations involved, but...what's considered a typical level of intimacy for dates? \n\nBackstory for why I'm even asking:\n\nAll my past relationships I've kind of...stumbled into somehow or another. Hard to explain..um...I guess what I mean is I've never just cold asked someone out and did the whole \"formal\" dating thing. It's always been friends straight into lovers and whatnot. \n\nI met a cute girl through a friend recently, she's interesting and we get along pretty great so I asked her out on a date. It was a pretty informal thing, we just went to a show together. Anyhoo. I had fun, and I know she did too. We danced (near each other, not with each other awk me), talked a lot, shared some laughs, and generally got to know each other. Peachy. So when I dropped her off, the awkward hit like a sack of bricks in the face. I suddenly got nerved up and I think I came across as just...completely uninterested. So parting ways I think I said something ambiguous and unromantic like \"See you around\". There was this instant wipe of disappointment and then she said \"Can I at least get a hug?\" and I happily obliged but...it kind of threw off my entire view of the night. I mean I am so afraid of being too fast or rushing into anything...but of course I wouldn't mind something a little more romantic myself. Now I'm just wondering what people expect out of these formal dates. What's the norm? I feel like I really let down her expectations or something, and I feel like a dick. I'm going to call her of course and try to go on another, but I don't want to have this happen again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dated a girl for 6 months who eventually left me for her abusive ex who got \"better\".\n\nThey lasted 3 months and she came back to me saying removing me from her life was her biggest mistake.\n\nI forgive her since she said that she is completely over him forever. We date again for 3-4 months.\n\nAbusive ex contacts her telling her that he's depressed and needs someone to go to counseling with. She takes a \"break\" with us and goes to counseling with him.\n\nShe says she wants to date when this is all over and wants to ditch her abusive ex ASAP once he gets help.\n\nFast forward 5 months... She says that we have zero chemistry together and when we dated we only had \"very little\". She says she doesn't have time for a relationship at all. But still hangs out with her abusive ex from time to time.\n\nSummary of the entire thing: She left me the first time because he \"got better\" which he obviously didn't. He's now actually getting better, so am I crazy or is she actually going to go back with him? (After saying very mean things about him/telling she'd never go back ever).\n\nMy question? I haven't initiated any text with her for the past 3 days. I'm completely over her but scared I'm destroying this \"friendship\" she wants between us... Before all of this I blocked her from everything and she went as far as emailing me saying that she wants to be unblocked or else she won't ever speak to me again. (Seems kind of desperate to stay in touch?)\n\nI don't have any feelings for her. Just wondering what the hell is going on.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi there, first time posting here, a bit of a background info about me.\n\nMoved here a few years ago, had 1 touchy/physical fling (Mexican), 1 GF through mutual friend (7 month relationship, Asian), but never actually went on a date with an white American girl before. Met her through OkCupid. Btw, I'm Chinese.\n\nSo.. I asked her out on next Monday and she agreed to it. And we're meeting at a Mall. But I realize, I don't really know the etiquette of dating. Besides dating with mutual friends.\n\nI read online on some guides, tips, advice, do's and don'ts but I'd like to ask what you personally learned through experience.\n\nHere are my question(s),\n\nCan I tell her that I'm nervous and I've never actually done something like this before?\n\nWhat would be a bad idea to do for a first time date in a Mall?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a couple of friends that I've known for years, and I'm really close to them, and I live with my boyfriend, but I started university recently and have made no new good friends. There are a few girls that I will say Hi to if I see them, and would probably sit with them if I saw them before a lecture, but we haven't even exchanged numbers and have never seen each other outside of university.\n\nWhen I'm one-to-one with someone I'm much better: I can be myself, joke around and have fun. I'm actually quite a fun person. But when I'm in a group of new people/people I don't know well I feel so ridiculously self-concious, sometimes I just want the ground to swallow me up. \n\nI find it near impossible to join new societies/clubs. I've tried, made it so far as paying for a membership to the hiking society (I enjoy hiking) but haven't picked up my membership card and haven't been on any hikes! \n\nI feel kind of ashamed that I'm not part of a group. People keep talking about their friends and how they're glad they met all these new people in first term, and how friends are great to study with. I'm embarrassed that I don't have that. I usually sit alone in lectures (which is okay by me, as I am usually awkward when talking to people anyway) but I feel like people are judging me for being a loner.\n\nI know the kinds of things I should be doing: joining societies, starting hobbies etc, but actually DOING those things is so hard for me. I've been THINKING about getting counselling through the university for months and haven't acted. I suffered from depression/anxiety for years before going to the doctors and getting anti-depressants (which I am still on).\n\nIf anyone has been in a similar situation and has any advice for me, I'd really appreciate it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My GF (19) and I (19M) have been going out for about a year. She is my first girlfriend and we both love each other. Other than a few small fights, we get along great and have no real problems, other than one. I won't have sex. It's not a physiological thing, as we do everything else, but I am absolutely terrified of pregnancy. I know that she would never consider abortion and the idea of her getting pregnant, even if it's a tiny chance, fills me with dread. I would never have unprotected sex, and if I did have sex, I'd wear a condom (she's on the pill). I know that given both those methods the chances of pregnancy are incredibly slim, but to my paranoid mind, it's not good enough and I choose not to have sex (even though many times I really want to). I will have sex one day, but I think I should be ready to be a father, should that happen, when I do have sex. My GF knew about how I felt about sex from basically the beginning of our relationship and said it wasn't a huge problem and that we could work around it. She now says it's a problem and that we need to talk about it and 'work towards it'. I know it's a completely reasonable idea, but deep down I know I'm not gonna change my mind, and I'm scared she's gonna leave me because of that. What should I do? Do I tell her outright that I just won't change my mind? Or do I say \"we can work towards it\" even though I know it probably won't change? I love her and don't want to lose her. Any help/advice would be greatly appreciated :). Thanks in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it.\n\nThis has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does.\n\nShe continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know this is kind of a shallow question but here goes, my boyfriend and I have been dating for around a year now and I love him a lot - we're young, I have no misconceptions that we'll be \"together forever\" because shit happens but as it stands I'm very happy with him. My only problem, really, is that he is very, very skinny.\n\nI know he struggles with his weight, he doesn't have an eating disorder but just struggles to eat enough to put on weight. He's nearing severely underweight for his height and age, and honestly I'm worried about him. His face is always really gaunt and angular, he has constant dark circles under his eyes (which are always red anyway, idk what that's about) and honestly, I think his waist thickness is around the same size as my leg, which can't be all that good. So part of this does come from a health standpoint.\n\nHowever some of it is also, admittedly, my own preferences. I like thicker guys over thinner ones - I'm not expecting him to get ripped or anything, hell I'd prefer a little chub on him over that. I'm kinda fat myself, not grossly overweight but still pretty tubby, and when I want to do anything intimate - like sitting on his lap or something - I feel like I'm going to break him, or that I'm crushing him - which I get is my own insecurity, but I don't think its helped by his weight. He's really bony too - sometimes it genuinely hurts to hug him properly or have sex because his hipbones jut out a lot and hit my thighs.\n\nI just don't know how to approach this topic without coming off like an ass, because I know how shitty it is when people comment on your weight. And especially because its fifty percent me being worried about his health and fifty percent about my actual attraction towards him. So I'm just looking for suggestions on how to bring this up and discuss it in a more \"I'm worried about your health and improving your health/weight would also increase my attraction towards you\" sort of way", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My grandmother (whom I live with, if that's important at all), a very interesting lady, has recently started smoking again. For about a year or two she didn't smoke, which ironically enough she decided to do herself, and as far as I know, she quit cold turkey.\n\nRecently, however, she's taken it up as a habit again, and I'm really worried for her health. I've learned many of times about all of the harmful effects that cigarettes have on your body, and my grandmother has already beat cancer once (when I was too young to remember) and I really don't want to have to endure that again.\n\nShe always smokes out on our front porch, so it's relatively easy to catch her smoking when I'm around the house, but I start school in a few days and I know she'll use that time to smoke when I'm not home. Even when I am around, she gets really mad whenever I catch her. Apparently, me forcing her to put out the cigarette and lecturing her about how she can die is not enough to make her quit like she did before.\n\nIs there anything I can do to make her stop? I'm really worried that she could get ill, and I'm not really at a position where I'm ready to lose another parent. (referring to my biological parents, my grandfather is still around but only on the weekends and is seemingly okay with the smoking)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I need a bit of guidance.\n\nI found the most amazing women I've ever met. She's well read, sharp as a tac, beautiful, wants all the same things I want etc etc.\n\nWe've been doing a LDR for a little over half a year now and we finally bought tickets to see each other. She lives in Hawaii so I took 11 days off work and flew out to see her.\n\nWe smashed together like magnets. For the first three days there was nothing that could separate us - and we could tell this was going to happen because of how attracted we were to one another.\n\nSaturday night comes along and we're in bed and things are getting frisky. Nothing crazy just some intimacy and BAM. It hits. She withdraws. We stop. That's it.\n\nWe go to Church the following day everything is fine and then a few hours after Church she withdraws again. Avoiding eye contact, physical contact, conversation, everything.\n\nTwo days of tears and craziness she alludes to some serious sexual abuse as a child. I have no grasp on this. She will not share and my assumption is she is projecting the abuse onto me and it's just a crippling fear I can't help her with. She told me she's horrified of men and that we can never see each other again.\n\nI bought a ticket back home that leaves tomorrow (7 days earlier than planned). I'm holding on by a thread here. I'm not sure how to handle this. I fell for her and now she's so far removed from my life I'm at a loss. The rugs been pulled out and I don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we've been together for 10 years and over this time I wouldn't say things have gone stale but it feels like nothing is spontaneous any more. For instance, she will never initiate sex which I have voiced to her over the years and I get the same answer. Time goes on and nothing has changed, I've accepted that she just isn't going to (she says she's still sexually attracted and sex is great when it happens). But when it comes to things like doing activities or certain acts she always says \"well what do I get?\", so much so that it feels like I'm with a prostitute for lack of a better term. As if I'm paying either fiscally or with another act for something I desire. This has led me to initiate less and lose interest occasionally for resenting her statement. I would say I'm not sexually greedy, I will and do please her with all the things she likes whenever possible. \n\nI've also brought this up on occasion and it feels like it falls on deaf ears. I get a blank stare and a \"okay\". Still nothing changes or occasionally she'll feel bad about it and try to initiate but it feels like a pity act rather than a consensual one. \n\nI am always asking her what she would like to do for activities or even simple things such as where she would like to eat and I always get, \"I don't know\". And of course once I choose and we order or are at the place she says something along the lines of, \"I wish we went to xyz\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Age: 18 Sex: Male\n\nDuration: Half a year more or less\n\nI've been smelling smoke that isn't there for a while now. I can never seem to pinpoint a cause or even a correlation. It just comes and goes randomly. They're very brief smells, but they can be very strong.\n\nI got it checked out by a GP in November last year, who then recommended I go see an ENT. ENT isn't free until January.\n\nFast forward to January, I see the ENT. He checks my ears, nose, and throat. He cleaned my ears, and stuck a thing (don't know what it's called) up my nostrils to check for tumors in the nasal passage. Everything was clear, and he figures it might be a damaged nerve. He said that it might fix itself in time. Which didn't make sense to me since the smells have gotten more frequent and stronger, yet still random.\n\nTells me to get a CT scan done just to be sure there are no tumors. Got the CT scan done, fast forward a week or so, got a call from the ENT and says that it's all clear. No tumors.\n\nNo tumors is great, but surely there's a definitive answer as to what is causing these phantom smells, right?\n\nI've read up about migraine auras and how they usually come before a migraine, but I ruled that out since I don't get migraines after the smell happens.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So since it's hack your school network week I figured I'd make my first post this. This happened last year and there is a little backstory . My school has a gaming club and they download computer games (illegally) and put them on a folder in the commons folder on our schools network. So any ways me and my friend would always go to his moms room (she is a computer teacher and has a bunch of computers and let's us on our phones and shit). We on occasion would play games from the gaming club folder until one day all the games were deleted because they were pirated but they left a note saying why they were deleted. Here is the FU.anybody is able to edit the document so I tell my friend \"hey you should change one word.\"(badass right). He agreed to do it and changed. 2 days later the gaming club lady is at his moms room pissed off. When he changed the word it apparently said he created the document. Anyways she had our IT guys inspect every computer to see what actually happens and then proceeds to tell us \"this is what happens to my gaming club when kids decide to hack the school server\". needless my friends mom was really pissed when we told her what actually happens", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I've been a smoker since I was 14 years old, I realize at this point how horrible it is for my health and after many failed attempts to quit I seem to be having an extremely hard time. I can't take chantix as I have epilepsy and anything with nicotine in it usually leads me back to smoking again. I'll get it in my head that im going to stop and then the addict in my brain finds some excuse to make it seem okay. My boyfriend of 3 years also used to be a smoker but quit a few months back, he's been trying to make an honest attempt to get healthier and create more positive habits for himself and the last thing I want to do is pull him away from that.\n\nHe's caught me lying a few times the past couple weeks. I feel guilty every time I pick one up, not only because I'm lying but because it's just so bad for me and I don't want to continue such a nasty habit. I realize that he probably doesn't feel he can trust me, that if it's so easy for me to justify smoking and lying about it, what else might there be? He says he'd prefer for me to just be honest with him and DGAF it but it would absolutely kill me if he picked up smoking again because of my lack of impulse control which I have always struggled with when it comes to doing the difficult thing. I'm afraid of failing and I know that's exactly what im doing by not trying.\n\nI need to quit smoking, I need to work on healthier habits and I'm having an extremely difficult time working through the mental gymnastics that is impulse control and gaining motivation. Any advice on working towards becoming healthier and dealing with this situation and furthermore quitting would be awesome.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This guy and I have been hanging out for 3 months now. We work together and have known each other for a few years before that. \n\nIt started off as a once or twice a week hang out where we would also have sex. He eventually asked me out on a date, we went to the movies and dinner, for which he paid, even though I tried to offer. From there it escalated to texting, even briefly, everyday and for the past few weeks we have been hanging out three or four times a week. He is super affectionate and is always doing things to help me, whether it be at work, or smaller things when we have been hanging out. \n\nI'm currently confused though because we hung out Monday night at his house and we were both super tired, so we did not really get into any deep conversations. We just kinda hung around, watched tv, and eventually fell asleep. Usually we will hang out every other day or so or at least there will have been an effort to do so. I texted him last night to see what he was doing, and he responded that he was in a weird mood and feeling under the weather. I responded saying that I hope he felt better thinking that was the end of the conversation. He asked if I was doing anything yet for the night, and I said I didn't have any plans, but that I just thought of hanging out with him. He responded \"I was planning on that too earlier, sorry :(\".\n\nI am just at a loss of what to think. Am I overthinking this and he just is having a bad week? Or could this be the beginning of a fade? I guess I'm just also disappointed because his dad is gone for the week and he has the house to himself, so I wrongly assumed I guess that we would be hanging out more than once, which I am also worried is clouding my judgment of the situation.\n\nShould I even bother trying to text him again to hang out? Or just give him space and wait to see if he contacts me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dear r/Relationships,\nHey people it seems like whenever i meet a girl or pays attention to me i end up becoming really needy of their attention and in a sense co dependent. I help them with everything no matter. I also never say no and hope that things i give will make people like me. For example, at my job i get a lot of food, which i then usually give away, for 3 reasons. 1. I dont really want it, 2. i want to be nice, and 3. is because i really want people to like me and i think i can get them to do that by giving them food. \n\nIt feels like whenever i make a new friend guy or girl i keep inviting them to places or to come over for dinner, yet they also keep saying no. In my mind i think i am the stereotypical nice guy, and i realize that i just have no idea how to get out of the place and into just the guy.\n\nThanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So Im 20 yrs old and have been with my boyfriend for three years now. \n\nHe was my first, and I've never had sex with anyone but him. We enjoy a very active sex life with each other and are in love. In bed recently, dirty talk has consisted of him watching me get it for the first time from other men, and then refined to just this particular guy friend of mine.\n\nIts hot, but today he told me he actually would not only be okay withit but would WANT me to actually sleep with this guy... and i have plans to see him this coming weekend.\n\nWhat do i do? He says he would never expect me to be okay with him doing the same unless it was a threesome, that this would only be a one time thing, and that its only okay bc he knows about it. Also so if we were to get married he doesnt want me to regret never being with anyone else.\n\nHe says for him, he thinks I'm really hot wants me to record my friend and I so he can watch someone go crazy over my body and enjoy that part of me that no one else gets to. He watches porn often and says he wants me to make a video just for him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex boyfriend, whom I am almost sure I fell in love with, and I, broke up almost 7 months ago. \nI rarely have any thoughts about me and him still being together or still wishing that we were together. I just don't think about him that often anymore, but sometimes I still do. \nBut, when I'm around him or see things update by him or his family members on facebook, I still feel like I've received a punch in the gut. Yet, when we're hanging out in a group, it's a bit awkward, but I'm not completely uncomfortable, and seeing him talk to other girls in person and what-not, does not bother me so much as I would think it would. \n\nSo, my issue is: I've had a few men that have taken an interest in me and I consider them, but when we exchange phone numbers or facebook names.. I just have no desire to pursue any further. Maybe become friends with them, sure, but romantically there's just no desire there. At first, I'll think maybe their nice looking and think there is potential there, but it's almost like as soon as we share a phone call or a texting conversation I rule them out as anything more than a friend, and it's almost like I start finding them unattractive. \nCould I possibly still not be over my ex enough to take an interest in dating again.. which speaking of dating, I'm the type of girl that would rather date my friend or best friend than go straight onto the path of potential dating with a guy I hardly know.\nSo, do any of you possibly see what the issue might be that I may be missing? I would think that 7 months would be enough time to get over someone enough that you would be able to appreciate others in a romantic-sense and be able to put yourself out there again.\n\nHelp?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been working with Stacie for about 5 or 6 months now. We have been talking more of the past couple of months since I was moved to the same position as her. A couple times we have spontaneously gone to a movie or had a few drinks after work, and she's also hung out with me and my friends a couple times. \n\nSo I finally forced myself to ask her out and actually acknowledge it as a date. I think she had fun. I did. We make each other laugh a lot. \n\nBut the problem is I overthink everything. I talk to much. She makes me an idiot. I don't know if it's because she's slightly older than me (all my other interests have been my age or slightly younger) or if it's because I actually have my first googly-eyed crush I've had in a long time. \n\nIt's like there's a wall that's preventing me from being fully comfortable around her because I'm so worried I'll say something stupid. All other girls I've gone out with have always gave me clear signals and mostly made moves on their own, and I've always been able to easily being open and myself. With Stacie, she definitely does not broadcast her interest in me, I have no idea what she's thinking, and I'm shit at making any kind of gesture towards intimacy. I can barely look her in the eyes, it's dumb and I know it's dumb, but I cannot break through that wall. \n\nThis has never happened to me before. I know she likes me and we're going on another date, I'm just worried I'll continue feeling this way.\n\nMy thoughts are all over the place. Let me know if anything needs clarifying.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know it's long. If you read and reply, thank you!\n\nI've been dating a girl on and off since I was in high school (about 4 years now). We've broken up several times (I initiated all of the break-ups) and every time we stay apart for a while, but then both admit we miss each other and it's like I fall in love with her all over again. She's incredibly loving and supportive; We never fight and the reason for the breakups basically come from me growing bored of the relationship and feeling that our interests don't align.\n\nI recently moved overseas for work and broke up with her for the reasons above and because of the distance. But after two months of silence, we've been talking regularly and last night we admitted we still have feelings for each other and want to be together but don't know what to do. She told me she'd been with other people in the months we've been broken up, which really hurt me (I know it shouldn't, but it does).\n\nI'm fairly certain I don't want to be with her in the longterm, but I still really love her and the support she gives me. I always wonder whether or not I'll find other people who I'll fall in love with in the same way. I'm really torn here. I am very afraid of commitment (any kind; not just relationships) and I don't want to live just for her. I have other dreams and goals that mean I can't live near her now.\n\nI don't want to lead her on and give her the impression that we're going to be together forever (I'm afraid I've done this recently), but I also really love talking to her and knowing she's there when I need her. \n\nWhat should I do here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I went to school for journalism but struggled to break into the industry after graduating in 2009. I freelanced here and there while working dead-end jobs, always for free, until I finally found a good job at a software company about a year ago.\n\nThe software job ended up being pretty great, I get to travel for work, make a decent salary, and love the company I work for as it is very small and has a relaxed atmosphere.\n\nBut it's not journalism, and I don't get to write. As far as my day to day responsibilities go, they are boring and largely not enjoyable. But I thought \"hey I'm lucky to have a good job\" and resigned myself to the fact that this is where my life has taken me and embraced the favorable career path in front of me. It takes up most of my time, which has caused me to mostly stop writing altogether. \n\nThen the other day, I got a phone call out of the blue from the Managing Editor of my local newspaper, asking if I'd like to interview for a staff writer position. I said yes, and have the interview tomorrow. It is not a glamorous position, but it does get me back into journalism and would give me the opportunity to focus on nothing but writing for the first time in my life. This brings us to the dilemma.\n\nI know that the staff writer position would likely pay significantly less than I'm currently making, so if I do get an offer, I will have to choose between a comfortable and promising career doing something I don't actually enjoy and taking a shot at my life-long dream while making very little money.\n\nI'm not looking for anyone to make my decision here, just looking for additional opinions as I way the pros and cons. Maybe some of you have had to make a similar decision in your own professional lives?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, my girlfriend (21F) and I (22M) broke up about a month ago. We still talk everyday and we have been talking about getting back together although admitedly I had been a little distant because of school and work being a little overwhelming. We go to colleges about two and a half hours apart which is pretty much the only reason we broke up in the first place. Anyway, yesterday, she told me she had sex with someone else while drinking on Saturday night. I got some of the details, and it crushed me. She told me she felt terrible and that she still loves me and that it meant nothing to her. So I asked her to come visit me next weekend so we could talk about it.\n\nI talked to a friend of mine about it and he said if I want her back, then it shouldn't matter what she did. But that just seems like terrible advice. My question is, am I being too much of a push over if I take her back? Or should it not bother me since we were broken up?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've had one relationship in my life. It started in high school, ended last year, and left me in the crap situation of having no idea what I'm doing in terms of dating someone who, as far as I can tell, is really great for me and nails everything I'm looking for in a partner.\n\nAs far as I can tell, she feels the same way about me. We talk a lot, have a ton in common, and generally have a really great time when we're together. We met online but live relatively close and plan to meet up next month.\n\nMy problem is that I know I'm being way too clingy. I brought it up and she claims she doesn't mind, but I definitely feel distance and coldness when I'm talking to her while she's doing something else. I also try to keep in touch with her all the time, exchanging texts when I'm at work or she's in class, and talking online when we're both at home.\n\nI feel like I'm being immature, or in this case very 'clingy', and normally I play piano or games or just browse Reddit/Youtube when I'm bored and not doing anything, but ever since I met her and things started getting somewhat serious, I can't focus on anything else other than \"oh shit what did i do why doesn't she want to talk to me now\". Little pangs of jealousy kick in when she's doing something I can't do with her, but I know it's absolutely ridiculous to expect her attention constantly.\n\nI want to get this feeling out of my system before it starts becoming a serious problem. I know she likes me and enjoys my company, but even still I know that too much of it is going to fracture the relationship before it gets high enough off the ground.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am gonna be very blunt. Please dont tell me in the comments what an asshole I am or how badly i treated her i know this very much.\n\nOur relationship started well and we were pretty happy together. About six months in the relationshipi cheated on her two times with one of her friends (not very close). I texted with this girl throuought the 2 years a few times mostly sexual things. I didnt tell my GF and 3 month ago about 2 years in the relationship it all came out. I continued to lie to her and only told her bits and bits and wasnt ever honest to her.\n\n When she found out she broke up immedieatly but couldnt let go so we „came back together“ more or less after 3 or 4 days. But at that point she still didnt know everything e.g. the writing things and one of the major things, that i texted the girl she should come over on the day of the first breakup. So she broke up with me again. Only at this point i told her everything. After a little bit silence (one week or something) we came back together again, this time for 2 months. We even had a vacation at the sea. But then on the day she finished school she broke up with me again because she said she cant forgive me and she cant forget it.\n\n She isnt angry anymore but just cant do it anymore. Now two weeks ago, about one week after the 2nd breakup we spend the whole week together, e.g. at the lake or in the park or at home and texting all the time but at Sunday last week she suddenly stopped texting for three days and tells me on Wednesday its over again. Fort he 2 years weve been together the only thing she is talking about is that she wants to move away for university as soon as possible. This is in approx 2 months. I am just afraid to lose her ( i know that shit sounds stupid) and i dont know what to do or how to act anymore.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened just a few hours ago. \n\nI went to my school's gym today like any other day, and today is leg day. Wonderful. I must also note that I was tired from staying up all night finishing an assignment, but I had a good 6 hour nap at school since I finished early today. Did my work out; leg press, leg curls, leg extensions, calf raises, etc. As I was walking back to the locker room, I saw a group of females coming through. Must be the girls' volleyball team. I went to grab my stuff to go shower; towel, body wash, and shampoo, and before I realized it, I locked my locker with my keys in them. It didn't process until I turned on the water. Now here I am, luckily with a towel, realizing I forgot my keys so I decided to go to the front desk. Luckily for me, our gym was small so the front wasn't too far. Unluckily, the girls' volleyball team was still waiting in the halls as the gymnasium was being set up. I went to ask if they would cut my lock for me, and thinking my towel was wrapped tightly enough, it broke loose...in front of probably 12 or 15 girls, and a few other pass byers...I booked it straight back into the change room, and just sat there and let everything process slowly. The guy at the front couldn't stop laughing, said he felt so bad for me and that all the girls are laughing as well...\n\nAll I can hope for is that no one else knew me, and everything will just disappear and nothing ever happened. I don't think I can show my face at school tomorrow...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[Personal Issues] So I dated this girl for just shy of two years, then broke up with her after she admitted to cheating on me with a couple from her work, claiming we were supposed to have a foursome but she conveniently forgot to tell me about it.\n\nAnyway fast forward to now (about a year later) and I have a childhood friend (let's call him Joe) who keeps inviting her to all of our group gatherings. \n\nI understand that during the time we were together she got along with my friends and formed new acquaintances, but most of my good friends stopped talking to her after the breakup, and for a time things were fine. Now out of nowhere she's everywhere I go out with my friends and I feel like a shitty person because she gets along with everybody so well but I kinda wish she'd just fuck off because of what she did to me. \n\nTo complicate things, she introduced Joe to his girlfriend, and although the two ladies aren't nearly as close as Joe and I are, I'd feel like a controlling douche if I flat out asked him not to invite her to our future get-togethers. \n\nSo I guess my question is should I try to intervene and probably come across as a neurotic, bitter control freak who's not over his ex (probably true) or should I just cut my loses and stop hanging around that group so much? I do have other friends, but this circle is my childhood/school friends.\n\nJust kinda feels like a lose-lose...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've only known each other that well a month but we got along very well, he was very chatty. The topic came up of what was the worst things we've done, he said he used to watch child porn a few years back and that he is still into bestiality. But he shows little remorse over it other than that it's an illegal thing. So I ended the relationship, but in the interim I had slept with him (before knowing). I didn't want to be judgmental, I wanted to think he could be redeemed and that so long as he wasn't directly harming anyone that it'd be okay, but it's not. I feel so much disgust now. \n\nI seem to keep finding guys like this, who tell me how they want to murder people or hurt people and all of this dark, dark stuff. I don't understand, most people tell me that I come off witty, funny and light-hearted. The only thing I can think of is that people tend to find me understanding and easy to get into an intense conversation with.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit. \nMe (M 23)\nHer (F 19)\nBeen together for about 6 months.\n\nI'll cut straight to the chase. Yesterday I dropped my girlfriend at the train station so she could go to Melbourne to do some shopping. I received a text message from her a few hours later that she was on the train home and that her aunty would be picking her up and she would be staying at her cousins house as she had had a fight with her mum and didn't want to go home. She said she was in bed and was going to sleep. I said that was fine. This morning, I found that my phone deleted most of my contacts during the night, including my girlfriends number. I messaged her cousin this morning and told her to tell my girlfriend to message me when she woke up. I then found out that my girlfriend wasn't there, and didn't stay there the night at all. \n\nI messaged my girlfriend asking what the fuck was going on and where she really stayed. She then told me that she stayed at another cousins house in Melbourne since her mum had told her to find somewhere else to live and that she didn't want me to worry about it. (I should add that her ex lives in Melbourne, who she still talks to and has a kid with).\n\nI don't trust her, and I have no way of knowing whether she's telling the truth or not. She's lied to me before. Should I get out now? If she really has been kicked out of home, I hate the thought of adding to her troubles by leaving her. I've never broken up with someone, and I hate the thought of hurting someone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "By oral, I mean me going down on her, she has never went down on me once, she always says \" next time \", and honestly I'm not expecting one either because I love going down on her and thats good enough for me.\n\nSo, everytime after I go down on her, she elaborately tells me how much she enjoys it. She LOVES oral and I can make her come 8 out of 10 times, and it leaves both of us feeling extremely satisfied.\n\nOne small issue is that I'm always the one initiating it. She never once asked, and it's always me. I just thought she's shy, so hell, I love it, she loves it, I'll just initiate it then.\n\nHowever, I recently discovered this trend that led me to think that she treats oral as a \" reward \", so to speak. We often make plans in advanced before oral, as time is not on our side, and I like to ask on days where I know we have more time together. However, whenever I have a disagreement with her, sorry, oral is cancelled. Whenever she's angry with me, no oral then. When she's not happy with me, guess what, oral plans for the whole week cancelled!\n\nIt's really starting to get on nerves because it's as though letting me go down on her is a favor to me. I tried talking to her about it, but she got defensive and claimed that she loves it and accuses me of accusing her. At the end of the conversation, she said \" I can't believe you just accused me of this, let's not have oral for this week. \" I couldn't believe my ears. Any ideas how i should do this, redditors?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 23 year old female who just ended things with a previous rebound relationship (22m) that lasted about 7 months. A few days after I had finally made the decision to end things, a friend of mine confessed his feelings for me. We will call this friend John (27) . I met John around the same time I started dating the rebounder. We hit it off as friends. I rarely ever saw him, but we would talk here and there. I should also probably mention that John has a girlfriend. When John told me of his feelings, I admitted to my mutual feelings for him. I asked if we could talk about it, and he refused. I saw him this past weekend, and he kissed me. I was extremely intoxicated. This happened multiple times over the course of the night. He even came into bed with me where things continued. I ended things with the rebounder the next day, and John left to talk to his girlfriend. I dont expect him to end things with her, I even told him that. I know that I need to be single right now, and collect my thoughts. I just can't help that thinking that hes everything I've needed and wanted for a long time, and I don't know how to handle this. I know I have to back away and let them work their relationship out, but a part of me wants this.. Reddit, I should just walk away right?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My (now) ex and I have been through a lot in the past year and a half. We broke up for a bit but then got back together to see if maybe we had made a mistake. After about a month I realized that nothing had changed and we were back into the same bad groove we were in before.\n\nHe was ready to start getting serious (house, ring, kids) and I wasn't sure I wanted any of those with him so I decided to break up with him. I knew I wasn't going to marry him and I didn't want to just \"be in a relationship\" to make him happy (which is what I felt like I was doing.)\n\nI broke up with him face-to-face and told him honestly how I felt and I could just see the heartbreak in his eyes. He called me every name in the book as I walked to my car, and though that should have been a sign that it wasn't a good relationship, I still ended up crying later that night because I felt so terrible.\n\nThis was our second attempt at this relationship so I know breaking it off was the right thing to do but why do I feel so fucking terrible? Will this go away? My friends tried to set me up on a date the day after the break up and I felt like it was WAY too soon to even start thinking about another relationship but they don't understand why since I was the one who broke up with him. \n\nHave any of you gone through this? How long did it take you to start feeling normal again and not like a complete asshole?", "role": "user" } ]

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