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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, my refrigerator broke… more than a month ago. I told my landlord immediately after it happened and he said he would send a repairman to look at it. I had to leave for 2 weeks but my roommate (who is can be pretty lazy himself) was home the entire time. Nobody came to look at during that period and my roommate never followed up with the landlord (which was his fault). I got back and talked to the landlord again and he was surprised that the repairman didn't come and said he would take care of it. Finally, after another week and another discussion with the landlord, the repairman came said the refrigerator was broken and we would need a new one. Long story short, our landlord has now told us he is going to buy a new fridge as soon as possible, but it has been a week and half since then and still no fridge. I'm going to talk to talk to him today (in angry tone \"grrrr\") but I want to know what contractual rights I have as per our lease or some renters legislation, so I can light a fire under his ass. It has been a month since I have had a cold beer...what has the world come to?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here's the classic \"He won't propose!\" post, but he's my situation in particular:\n\nEverything is great for the most part. We rarely fight, living together has been a breeze, still love each other very much, and financially we are well off. If everything is going so well why hasn't he proposed? We've talked about marriage and he wants to marry me. He's just doesn't take much initiative with it and I feel like I need to push him a little every step of the way or else it will never happen. I guess his stance is like \"everything's good. If it ain't broke don't fix it.\"\n\nI'm getting to that point where I feel we've been together for a long time and I'm not being crazy for wanting this. I KNOW I shouldn't compare myself to other people, but when I see someone get engaged on FB and they've been dating for 2 years, it just bums me out a little.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's this girl [A] who I was friends with way back and we ended up going to the same college. Long story short, she ended up liking me and we hung out once. She brought her friend [B] who is also her roommate. Through various friends, I found out that A really likes me.\n\nI don't like A but I was really interested in her friend, Girl B. B is really shy around me but pretty fun when she's with her friends. I don't really know B very well but have been trying to use my friendship with A to get closer with B.\n\nI don't know what to do about A. She is my friend so I don't want to hurt her but I don't want to lead her on either. I also want to get to know B better but since A and B are very good friends, would I even have a chance?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Cut to two weeks ago; I went to a bbq where the host, who we will call Jackie and her new friend, we will call her Ashley, were black out drunk, I put Ashley to bed since she was in bad shape and continued on having fun. \n\nFast forward to Tuesday, they see my GF at the bar and Ashley said I made out with her and was acting single, which isn't me at all. My GF isn't trusting me now since she asks why two girls would just say that. I called and texted people that were there with me trying to find out what happened and found out a different guy was the one who was the one who made out with Ashley after I put her to bed, which is the source that made these claims. \n\nNow my GF and I are who knows what because she said this has happened before and doesn't want the past to repeat itself as well as not looking stupid and feels different toward me and us. I know she's got her new job at a restaurant that's opening in a few days and that's her focus. I can't believe in the hurtful words she has said since maybe it's all of her stresses in her life coming out toward me. I just don't know what to do besides just wait it out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my wife (24f) and I (21m) have been married just under 2 years. We have a son who is 11 months old. We had an argument last night because her parents are coming to my house on Christmas morning to watch our son open his gifts. I wasn't even asked if this was ok and I was only told last night. I told my wife that I wanted it just to be us and our son on Christmas morning because I want it too be special as it is his first christmas. She got mad but didn't talk to me she just spoke to her parents saying that I'm a dick. So today her dad phones her and I can hear him shouting and swearing down the phone and I just lost it and I punched a hole in a door. Then my wife freaks out and leaves with our son. So I calmed myself down and kept myself busy by cleaning. The police then arrived at my door and spoke to me and asked me to get my wifes phone and some clothes. They said that she is staying somewhere else tonight (her parents most likely) I have not spoke to her since. What do I do? what's going to happen? What will I do if its all over? Please. I need advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I [19m] have been dating for almost a year and a half. I met her in high school and we ended up going to different schools in the same town. We started dating before my freshman year/her sophomore year. Everything has been amazing, except my suitemate has also taken a strong interest in her over the last semester. They met last year but really only started to hang out this year, which is great because I want all of my friends to like my girlfriend, and I want her to like them. What isn't great is he has begun to text/fb message her constantly. He has even called her a few times out of the blue with no real reason for calling. Also he has also done more boyfriendish things with her such as picking her up from the bus stop while I was at work, then inviting her up to our room while I wasn't around (she politely refused). He has a history of doing this to other people's significant others, so this isn't out of jealousy, it's more to look for a way of creating a boundary and hopefully helping him move on to girls who don't have boyfriends.\n\nI'm not worried about my girlfriend cheating on me and there isn't anything that she does to lead him on. She is just nice to him, like she is with everyone.\n\nMy girlfriend and I both agree that we need to do something, so we were wondering if there is a better way to approach this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a student at college and I was going to confess all my sappy gooey feelings to a guy (Let's call him Mike) and ask him out. We hang out as much as we can on weekends. I've known Mike for a few months now and like I said, gooey feely blah - I was going to ask him out. \n\nSo as we were driving to a restaurant for dinner, he tells me about his new roommate(let's say Joey). Joey and Mike go back to elementary school. Turns out, they dated in high school and when Joey's parents found out about his homosexuality, they took all of his communication (phone, facebook, email everything). Mike tells me that nobody's seen or heard from Joey in years and messaged him through a fake Facebook account and Joey is moving across the country to get away from parents, but in doing this he is moving in with Mike. \n\nSo I'm shocked at dinner and the rest of the drive as Mike also talks about the huge probability of them being together. I couldn't say anything about me so I left earlier than we planned. My fear is that they are getting together and I'll be left in the dust. (Prob'ly happening anyway) and I still have all these feels for Mike but I don't want to ruin our friendship or get in the way of this soap opera story. I feel like it's my last chance to tell him. Should I? Is it a good idea?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all, first time post here. Just wanted to share my DirecTV experience in the hope of helping out anyone else that might be considering signing up.\n\nI joined DirecTV a little over year ago because I had grown extremely dissatisfied with Time Warner Cable. One the the incentives/perks DirecTV offers to new customers is a free season of their NFL Sunday Ticket package. This is a nice perk for many people I guess, but not really useful for me because I follow the local team and all the games are on local broadcast TV.\n\nFast forward to this year, I looked at my October billing statement and found out that DirecTV has been charging me $40/month for the past several months for the fucking NFL Sunday Ticket package that I did not choose to renew! I have auto pay, so I don't normally look at my bill very closely and didn't notice until my October statement. I called customer service and had to speak to four different levels of people before I finally got someone who said she would take care of it for me. The call took more than 45 minutes and was beyond frustrating. \n\nTwo weeks later I received my next bill and, you guessed it. There is another $40 charge on there for NFL Sunday Ticket. I called back in and found that the first three people I had spoken to on my previous call had noted the account, up to the point that they told me the most they could do was credit me for half of the charges. The final supervisor I spoke to never noted the account - how convenient. I ended up spending another 55 minutes on the phone and talked to another four people, but never got anyone to offer anything other than crediting me for half the charges. At this point I am going to file a small claims suit against DirectTV and will be cancelling my service as soon as my contract is up in July.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I'll try to keep this short. Basically I'm a sales rep that handles media items for several local retailers. We usually do each store in pairs, and the woman that is at one of my stores with me is simply incompetent. Not stupid or unwilling, just bad at the job. So, we have a big assignment today (the store wanted a scanned inventory of our product) and it was going to take all day. However, when this woman was at this store yesterday (my day off) she did nothing. We had to spend the first half of the day playing catch-up before we could even get to taking inventory (seriously, one could not start without the other). So, she leaves at her scheduled time, and I call my boss to ask if I can stay and complete the inventory. She says of course, as it has to get submitted today. \n\nCut to 4 hours later (I was in that store for over 12 hours total), and I'm finally finished. I send a text to let my boss know I'm done, and shit hits the fan. \n\nShe is literally screaming at me over the phone, accusing me of being inexperienced and unprofessional (for the job taking four hours more than it should). I let her vent and then explain the fact that had yesterday's job been done correctly, I could have finished much sooner. I also explained that the inventory is, classically a two-person job yet my co-worker refused to help (she had other priorities, apparently). \n\nEventually I manage to talk my way out of the shit, but I'm still really put off by her unprofessional and accusatory tone, let alone her readiness to jump to conclusions. \n\nSo, do I let this go? Do I talk to her about it further? I really don't know if I can trust her anymore, if only because she seems unwilling to apologize.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met here on okcupid, we've been texting/talking for a little over a week, there is some. On Thursday I asked if she was doing anything this weekend she said that she was probably going out with friends but she'll get back with me on Friday to see if we could go out for coffee.\n\nFriday, I shoot her a text following up, she said she was busy so she couldn't. I just said you can't blame a guy for asking, she just said yea and laughed. I left it at that, now I don't know what my next move should be.\n\nI don't know if that was a straight rejection or if she's not interested. She seems cool and has no problem talking with me. I really do want to meet her in person. Should I cut my losses/fade or should I text her asking for another meet-up/date?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I originally posted my problem before and had some good feedback on what to do. Ultimately I did what I was suggested. I broke up with my girlfriend yesterday and it really has taken a lot out of me. We weren't connecting like we used to and I was getting annoyed with her all the time. It was going down hill fast and I had to make the call. I'm super depressed and lonely and I keep wanting to see her and get back with her but I know it's not going to work. What do I do? How do I deal with getting over her and move on? HELP!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yesterday, I accidentally dropped my Motorola Atrix 2 and the screen cracked really badly. My phone is still fully functional, but it's a bit difficult to see what I'm doing when I'm texting or web browsing, etc. \n\nAnyway, I stupidly didn't buy insurance for my phone and I'm not eligible for an upgrade until next May! AT&T offers some options as far as getting a no-commitment phone at a slight discount, but spending $300-$600 for a new phone isn't really in the budget right now. I know when you start a new contract, AT&T offers their phones at a fraction of the price (i.e., $100 for a $500 phone) so would I be able to take advantage of that? It seems like I wouldn't, but I'm a little confused with how their policy works that way! I was thinking of visiting my local store.\n\nSo I was looking at [Motorola's repair center] and they said they won't repair phones that have been physically abused - so that means dropped, submerged in water, ran over, exposed to heat, etc. \n\nI found a couple websites that will repair your phone if you send it in. [Doctor Quick Fix] will do it for $110 and I'm still waiting on a quote from [CPR](\n\nSo my question is, have any of you used this company, or know anyone who has used it? Should I trust these companies? Do you have any recommendations? What should I do to get my phone fixed?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO and I have been dating for three years. He's my best friend and the one person that actually gets me.\n\nHe's been there for me through my parent's divorce, through my grandmother's episode with cancer, and through my stressful life at school. I started this relationship with no intentions or dreams of it ever lasting. I always thought we would break up senior year. Now that senior year is a reality, I honestly can't imagine being without him. He's a part of me and as cheesy as it sounds, I actually love the fuck out of him. (take that as you'd like). We've talked about college and he has this idea that he wants us to move on (if we go to different schools) and meet new people and try out new relationships so that we know that what we have is better than anything out there. \n\nI'm being realistic here--people can change a lot in four years. Is it wrong for me not to want to try and work this out and try a LDR? I am sure there are a million guys out there that I could be compatible with, but that's the thing. I don't want compatibility--I want him. He has this grand idea that we will come back together after college and everything will be perfect. I know he's scared--we've never dated before our relationship and we've never known anyone else the way we know each other. I just don't want to risk what we have on a unrealistic idea. I love him, like honest to everything in life, love him. We get in fights, things aren't always perfect, but we have the same set of principles and we believe in the same things. We are from two very different cultures and I think both of us have learned a shit ton from each other. I know that we're teenagers and we have our whole lives in front of us--but I'm tired of fighting the stereotype or the general consensus that teenagers don't know what the fuck love is. \n\nReddit, please tell me how to go about doing this because if it goes the way it's planned. Summer 2013 is going to suck ass.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit,\n\n My girlfriend and I are in love with each other. We have been together for a year and 4 months. We both want to get married, but are in college and don't have the money for a service. We wanted to move in together this year to help save expenses for food, rent, etc. and make our housing situations easier. I'm currently out of a place, and trying to find a place to live. While she is looking for a roommate. However, her parents are very conservative and don't think it's appropriate for a \"young Christian girl\" to live with a boy. (I'm an atheist, and they don't approve.) \n The thought of marriage is something we have talked about and feel very comfortable with. We really to care about each other. I want to get married for financial reasons. I also don't want to ruin the grand idea of a wonderful wedding for her by making her legally married to me first.\n This is where my potential plan comes in to play. I was thinking that we could go down to the courthouse and get legally married. We would tell her parents and mine. They could even be there. We wouldn't change her name until we had a nice ceremony. We could tell our friends that we are engaged. Finally we could have the wedding that she's always wanted and change her name. We could even change her name and then have a renewing of the vows sort of deal.\n I am curious as to what everyone thinks about this plan, especially girls (I know most of you like the idea of weddings.) I think I might tell her tonight.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well I'm actually the sister telling the story but anyways. For my birthday, I decided to go to Six Flags. My brother inclined that I should take some drugs before we go. I declined due to the fact that my older sister would be there and she would fuck my shit up if she found out. So my brother takes shrooms, smokes weed, acid, and drinks booze before we go. My brother either has a high tolerance or is just weird for acting pretty normal in public, so that wasn't the issue. The problem was he had his pipe in his pocket and we were on superman when it fell out. I heard something fall but thought nothing of it till he gave me that fuuuuuuuuuuuuck look. That is when an employee picked up the piece and I knew instantly it was his but they hadn't said anything so the ride continued on. After the ride finished, nothing happened. We had to wait for my sister but right as she was coming so did security which then escorted my brother out. My brother is an idiot but he apologized profusely and felt bad he ruined my day. He didn't ruin it, he made my day better with his dumb actions. And no they did not give back the pipe. I wish they did.. I loved that pipe :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Tell me your story in which the chances of it happening were extremely unlikely. Was it a series of decisions that lead to an improbable outcome? Was it meeting someone you hadn't seen for years? Was it an abnormal decision that saved your or someone else's life?\n\nI will start:\n\nRoad trips were very common for my work and they were usually about 5 hours of almost continuous driving in one day. Normally, I would always take shotgun, but this time I decided to be nice and give it to my coworker. I also never fall asleep on these trips but this time I decided to take a nap. This time, I decided to just slouch in my seat and sleep isntead of lying down across the back seat as I normally do. \n\nHere come the fun part. The vehicle we were travelling in rolls over.\n\nBoth the person in shotgun and I had fallen asleep, leaving the driver by himself. I was the only one who sustained physcial injuries, mainly due to the seat in the vehicle I had chosen to sit in. I also wonder if, had I stayed awake, I could have kept the driver entertained and engaged, so that this accident could have been avoided. If I had layed across the seats as I normally do while sleeping, I would have died.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months, and now, things are wonderful. However, while I logically acknowledge his, it's hard for me to feel it emotionally. \n\nEarly on in our relationship (March-mid June), he underwent a lot of life stress that caused him to become a completely different person - he was distant, doubting the relationship for no good reason, regularly 1-3 hours late to meet me, etc. We talked about breaking up (amicably) but we didn't. During this time, I tried my best to be understanding and I basically put aside my needs (e.g. affection or wanting to hang out more) so that he could have space to deal with his stress. As a result of everything, I became a little depressed and also incredibly, frequently anxious about everything.\n\nNow, he is back to being wonderful, affectionate, supportive, and considerate again. However, because I've been habituated to negative norms for those 3 months, I have a hard time re-setting and accepting the new norm. Even though things have been good for 2 months now, I'm still cripplingly anxious. I still don't give him the benefit of the doubt. I still worry that we are on the edge of breaking up. \n\nWe've talked a lot about this and we don't know what to do. I know that his feelings and actions in his stressful period are no longer relevant or applicable. He's debunked some of my worries, like my fear that he doesn't think our relationship is good. He's working to address my needs. I know I need to get over the past, but I don't know how. My pent-up emotions are now bubbling over and I'm more irritable, negative, and accusative, but I don't want to be. It's not that I can't forgive him, since he didn't do anything wrong, but I don't know how to change my fearful, anxious mindset and cognitive distortions of the present. \n\nDoes anyone have any thoughts, advice, or similar stories? Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I went to by usual coffee shop today and decided to treat myself to one of their awesome spicy chocolate cookies. Server behind the counter mentioned she'd been eyeing them off all morning but opted for some banana bread instead. Cue banter on how she'd made a mistake and should have gotten the cookie instead, and now will have to double up and get her own cookie. \n\nMoney was exchange, I go to wait for my coffee and the server goes to munch on her banana bread. \n\nNow here's the fuck up, while waiting she comes out and offers me a bit of her banana bread. I'm like \"that's really kind\", took the proffered bit of banana bread, thanked her for sharing, and blissfully started munched away tuning back out my coffee waiting world. Didn't even think to share the cookie I was holding, the exact one we'd been talking, that she said she'd be eyeing off, even after she shared her food.\n\nIt only occurred to me what a jerk I was half way down the street while guiltily sipping on my coffee.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, so first thing's first I'm 19 nearly 20 and my girlfriend is 20 nearly 21. She's moving into her third year of University and I'm moving into my second. We've been going out since I was 14, for just over five years. \n\nBasically, I have serious doubts that she is the person I want to be with and that I found my soul mate at 14, but I do really feel like I love her. About a year and a half ago we broke up for just over a month because I felt like that, but we kept talking and didn't really ever break contact and so we decided to get back together. \n\nHere's where I did the stupid things; my parents were worried I was settling into a relationship too early, so when I got back together with my girlfriend, I didn't bother telling my parents. One and a half years later, I still haven't told them, but my girlfriend believes I have. Anyway today I told them, and they were shocked, but understanding, and said they had their suspicions, which I believe. I also believe my girlfriend questions whether I have actually told them about us.\n\nNow I have two things here really - I feel like I probably should never have got back with her, it was only the familiarity etc that bought us back together. She really loves me, and I'm not unhappy around her, but I feel like I don't want to spend my life with her, or at least shop around first, which sounds awful, but I mean I'm scared, because what if she is the one? I really feel like I've warped my head getting in a serious relationship so young. \n\nMy other thing is, do I tell her the truth? It would really crush her, but it might make her hate me a little bit, which could be easier to break up with her. \n\nI know I sound like a callous person, and I know I really fucked up, but it was honestly just one of those mistakes that carries on. There's a part of me that doesn't want to let go, just in case, but there's a part of me that really wants to explore the world, single, with different girlfriends etc.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "One that I can vividly remember happened during 8th grade for me. The back story was that primarily for 4 days straight my friend and I just continually played Nazi Zombies on CoD. Thus, every night the images and ideas being so present in my mind that I would dream about fighting zombies. Well, this final night, my dream began where I was in the beginning stages of Nazi Zombies, fighting off the waves. As the battles teemed on, I somehow came to a final level (which I obviously created in my own mind). The final level consisted of myself and my friend entering a chamber, with an extremely large ceiling, also being dimly lit. THEN, out of nowhere, Hitler emerged from the darkness, flying, wearing a cape, dual wielding Desert Eagles, just firing at us, non-stop. The only image I remember from the dream is his face, screaming, flying, shooting at us. I woke up laughing my ass off.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I want my friend back...\n\nHe has a terrible home-life and just all in all emotionally unstable. When we first started talking, we had a lot of common interests and just like that he and I were Bonnie and Clyde. Over the past two years though, he has ended up going through a lot of stuff and I ended up becoming his punching bag, his dump bucket, his shoulder to cry on.. I mean, at first it made me think that maybe I was someone who he could share his feelings in confidence and we were getting closer. But before long he ended up having so many...issues. It just ended up being too much. \n\nHe always dumped on me with his problems, and I would do my best to help him with whatever. Nothing like that happened in my case though when I needed help. I would just get a \"that sucks\" \"sorry about that.\" Eventually I began to not share my emotions with him. \n\nWe fought occasionally. At least every other month or so. Usually it was a buildup of emotions on both sides. Something happened at home with him and he took out his anger on somebody. He did things that irked me and I confronted him about it. We would slap a band-aid on it and forget it happened. Finally, he did something to me that was just so unforgivable I couldn't just slap a band-aid and pretend things were okay anymore.\n\nThere were many more problems with our friendship and I just finally have to cut this person off because of this. I don't feel good about it. I should but I don't. I want our friendship to be like it was before, but he's just an angry/sad person and I'm just fed up with having to be his punching bag.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey so I started this job two years ago. I am thinking of going elsewhere. I just wanted to confirm with you guys that I'm making a good choice.\n\nWhen I started there, there was a co worker who started 4 months before who would berate me and yell at me and my foreman would go around telling everyone that this co worker was the best and best worker they have ever seen.\nI went and told my boss about the verbal abuse and harassment after a month this co worker quit.\n\nFor the next 8 months this foreman than would glare at me and tell me to work harder and tell me I wasn't a good worker, among other things.\nI did tell him to treat me fairly and that hey this isn't right.\n\nSo things settled for a while. Now for the last three months. He doesn't even talk to me at all anymore. He will talk through our work lead to talk to me.\nI have tried talking to him but all i get is one word answers\n\nI take it he's either just hates me or is intimidated to talk to me cause I stand up for myself.\n\nI have been looking for a new job and might have a new one in two months. But it does eat me up a bit that it has gotten to this point and oh yeah he is nice to everyone (just wish he would grow up and talk to me about the problems he's having in his head with me)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "so I am unsure if this is the correct subreddit for this! (or even if that is how you spell subreddit...) but I shall go on regardless! \n\nso basically this will be my last few years summarised in a neat and comic book esq flavour.\n\nIt all began in school, our hero discovered super powers for passing exams without any effort from his side! A's were flying everywhere, sure he was depressed but damn it he was passing everything with flying colours.\n\nthen came college, yet still he passed through it... scraping by on low grades but never actually failing anything!\n\nso to university we fly! and then BLAM POW comes the double punch of hard work and mental disorders catching up on him (no coincidence there at all ;] ) so he is kicked out for not attending/failing courses\n\n6 months later... the hero has applied for work all around but nothing can be found! he deals with customers poorly thanks to his fantastic mental prowess! the jobs that he is good at all need university qualifications and the few companies who provide training have a few zillion applicants.\nthe mental conditions are being dealt with through this clever thing called 'communication' and a few select choices of western medicine.\nthe social life is down the drain as his friends and girlfriend all got tired of his 'constantly being a downer' and so the hero is left with but one loyal side-kick\nA return to university seems impossible for he is poor! from a lower class background! and only bursaries saved him last time!\n\nso what is the hero to do? is hope gone? will their be a heroine to save the day? to find out stayed tuned in for next years edition of 'teenage genius gone bad'!\n\n*cough", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the back story l. I got married in June. Both sets of parents have been married for 25+ years, and all three sets of grandparents have been married 55+ years. My wife's other set of grandparents unfortunately have passed away, but had 54 years of marriage when the first of them passed. \n\nI don't know what led to the conversation, but essentially or parents added up all of the years that everyone had been married and it ends up being about 275 years. \n\nPoint is, as part of our wedding present, they gifted us $275, one dollar for each year of marriage for all of those people. Each year on our anniversary, they will give us $275 plus the five extra dollars per year for anniversaries for the five couples. \n\nAnyway, we want to put it away and start saving it for our kids college or something. We have looked at several different investment options, but haven't been able to settle upon one.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, and even though it's a short time, I still love him so much. There is no one else I feel more comfortable with, and I can see myself being with for a very long time.\n\nBut recently, I've been wanting to be with other people. There was one guy, who is actually a mutual friend of ours, that I've been attracted to and wanted to hook up with. We kept hanging out because I never thought I would cheat on my boyfriend. We drank and did hook up. Nothing beyond kissing. He doesn't know. Neither of us want to say anything because we don't want to hurt him or for things to get weird.\n\nI regret it, but also enjoyed it, which I feel worse about. I'm afraid it could happen again and I wouldn't want to stop myself. I felt this way before over the summer but thought it was just because we weren't together as often. Those feelings went away, but are clearly back again. I don't want to have these feelings because I do love him so much, but they don't seem to be going away.\n\nI don't know if I should end things and potentially lose someone that I love and might not find someone else that could ever compare to him, or I should refocus myself and maybe talk to him about things and work on my relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In honor of steak and BJ day, of course...\n\nWe've been dating for 6 months or so. Other than the occasional small argument we may have (nothing major), things have been good. She's probably one of the smartest girls I have ever dated. Our personalities are pretty similar and we get along well.\n\nI would say she is somewhat \"sheltered\" when it comes to sex, it seems. She isn't into wearing lingerie or anything, and when we first started dating she told me she had never seen porn. For Christmas I had playfully suggested my present should be her in sexy-times clothes. Yeah, don't think so.\n\nOn top of this, it became incredibly obvious after a few months of dating that a BJ was never going to happen. I mean, not only has she never made a move, but after bringing it up I was immediately told it made her feel \"uncomfortable\".\n\nSo, here I am, on steak and BJ day... and I really want a BJ. This is actually the first girl I've ever dated that has not gone down on me, and ironically, it's the one whos company I enjoy the most. I should also point out I have no problem with going down on a girl, and I have even done it to her once, but I obviously am not going to continue go down on a girl that doesn't return the favor.\n\nI guess I have 2 questions:\n\n1. Am I being ridiculous for ultimately thinking this isn't going to work in our current state;\n2. Has anyone ever even worked themselves out of a situation like this? I mean, even if she did give me a BJ, I can't imagine it is going to go well, or that it would happen often (at all?).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm generally liberally minded, but I've also heard/seen a few things that still worry me about the bill. I know there's a lot of good stuff in there, but it wouldn't surprise me if there are things that I'm completely opposed to.\r\n\r\nFor example, I was told by someone (who watches fox, so I'm taking it with a carton of salt) that under the current bill before the house, if you make any changes to your group healthcare, you're going to be forced to instead pick up the govt funded insurance instead of keeping your group insurance. That sounds like a fauxnews lie to me, but I've seen crazier things in laws.\r\n\r\nThe whole bill is far too big for me to be able to read and understand (I support the idea that bills should have a page limit and only deal with a single issue, but that's another post) so I was hoping that someone has actually distilled the issues neutrally and just say what they say without comment on if it's a good or bad thing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway.\nI'm having a hard time thinking clearly, so if you're reading this bear with me. So, I've lost a few people in the last couple years, the last person I was extremely close to. At first I was doing ok and keeping it together, even though I was battling some strange thoughts.\n\nLately, I feel something has changed in me, there's a tidal wave of pain crashing over me regularly. I don't feel like anyone understands or would really care, but I know that's just me trying to isolate myself. I'm embarrassed of crying, seeming weak, and I feel fake when hanging out with people I'm close to. Sometimes I'm happy and distracted, but most of the time I feel annoyed or inferior to those around me and it fucking hurts. I think this grief has exacerbated already existing mental issues.\n\nI will have floods of thoughts overwhelming me to pull in various directions and all of them have a similar motive which is to abandon everyone and run away in some form or another. Thoughts like ending my romantic relationship, leaving the country, ending it completely. \n\nI use substances in an attempt to escape my pain. Obviously, it doesn't really work, so then I will try to sober up and that's excruciating. \n\nI'm struggling with memory, concentration, I have this general unease. I'm terrified of what I'm capable of if I continue down this train of thought and I have no idea what the future holds. For the first time in a long time I don't know what I'm going to do with my life and I can't see past the next couple weeks.\n\nI don't know exactly what I'm looking for, there are just certain things I can't really tell anyone especially involving my relationship. I just don't think my friends would be understanding. Would someone share a similar story or talk me down a little bit? Did you sever ties with those close to you after a loss? Any coping skills? I feel like I'm going crazy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I was with my boyfriend for 2 years before we broke up at the start of this summer, I took a little while to move on, but I did, and I'm happy to be single, we broke up on excellent terms and everything good, except I haven't physically been able to move on yet.\n\nBefore me and my ex broke up there was this guy at my uni who I quite liked, but now I'm single he is all I can think about, and I don't want to be with anyone but him. I know its a horrible idea to put all my eggs in one basket but I have to try or I'll never know right?\n\nThing is, whenever I see him I feel like my face is going to explode, I cant look him in the eye let alone make coherent conversation. the other problem is that I haven't spoken to him since the last academic year, and even then we didn't really talk, he just worked on my lab bench.\n\nso how do I approach him subtly, keeping in mind we're basically strangers, and how do i control my unbelievable nerves around him!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've recently rekindled a relationship with my ex, M. We've been together for about five months now and things are great. The only problem is my mother. She refuses to see M and constantly says terrible things about him. \n\nWhen M and I were together before (only for a couple weeks) he hugged another girl. I was heartbroken. I was devastated. \n\nI was also 10. He \"cheated\" on me in fifth grade. 16 years ago. We'd never even kissed. I honestly think it's a funny story.\n\nMy mom says people never change, and says I'm being a hypocrite because I didn't support when my friend wanted to take back her cheating husband. She said that my situation is no different and I'm being naive.\n\nShe keeps going on about how people's personalities are set at age 6 and there's no way he could go from cheater to good person. It's put a real strain on our relationship because she brings it up every time we speak. Before this we had a good relationship and she's pretty much stayed out of my romantic life. I would have never dreamed she'd handle it this way.\n\nMy friends and other family are all supportive of my relationship. My dad is supportive, and apparently they've been arguing a lot about this. I just don't know how to deal with my mother.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Happy New Years Eve, everyone! I hope your's is more enjoyable than mine. MAA is slowly posting the high scorers(with the scores) for the AMC 8 on their website. They seem to post school by school. My mother got extremely angry when she saw that they posted a score from someone in my, but didn't post my score. (The highest score you can get is a 25, they were posting any score that 19 or above) She has been screaming at me for the last hour about the whole deal. As a middle schooler taking Precalc, my mother and I were expecting me to score 23 or higher. However, according to the website, I am not a high scorer. This will not daunt me, I will do try to get a great score for the AMC 10. This post was relieve some stress. Thank you for reading.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This fuck up happened less than 30 minutes ago... do I get a prize?\n\nBackground: I am a high school student and I generally pride myself for being part of the upper group as far as intelligence is concerned, but after my fuck up, I have been considerably humbled. \n\nThe Fuck Up: I was in chemistry today and we were doing a lab. In this particular lab we were using a little bowl called a crucible. The crucible was still wet after being washed at the end of the last class, therefore the first instruction was to heat it over a burner to dry it out. \n\nWe heated the crucible for the required two minutes and sat it at the table to cool, as it was cooling I began to read the instructions for the next step, which required us to find its mass. My mind had begun to wander from the lab, when I remembered what needed to be done. I promptly said \"Let me just mass this.\" I grabbed the crucible. The blazing hot, just heated by fire for two minutes crucible. It burned, seeking to remove it from my hand and stop the pain. I flung it to the ground and it shattered. \n\nThe looks I received from my teacher and the other students were those of bewilderment. They were bewildered at how I could be so stupid as to grab an incredibly hot crucible. I am shamed, and my burned finger hurts.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So last week I went out with this girl for dinner, first time hanging out with her. Before this I have only met her once, and got her number because she started talking to me at a mutual friends event. We started clicking because we are both the same age 23 had similar likes. Fast forward a month I decided to text her to go out for dinner and she said she was free the next night. After dinner later that night she texted me that it was nice hanging out with me and said goodnight. I felt that our date went well and I started to like her even more. Yesterday I asked her through text if she has a valentine and she said she is flattered, however someone has already asked her. Do I still have a chance?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Earlier today I was sitting in a college lecture with my laptop open. I decided I was tired of my usual background and was going to change it to my favorite sport team's logo. The picture I wanted was in the \"my pictures\" folder.\n\nNow let's go back a little bit. \n\nFirst or second night of the fappening (may it rest in peace) and I download the Kate Upton and j law pictures and just to be quick about it, I put it in \"my pictures\" with the intent on moving it later. I forgot to move them... \n\nNow back to today in the lecture, I went to change the background, clicked \"my pictures\" and it automatically expected that I wanted to have it cycle through every picture in that folder. My background fades into a picture of a close up of Kate Upton's tits. I panic and just freeze trying to figure out if there was a quick undo I could do, but in my panic, I forgot what cancel meant. So I just shut my laptop and pretended nothing happened... I was surrounded by people, no one said anything but someone had to have seen.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wonderful husband and I have completely different needs when it comes to falling asleep. He needs the tv on, and I need a dark quiet room. We've tried staggering our times of going to bed, but he always ends up turning on the tv in the middle of the night, waking me up. He refuses to wear headphones or try white noise.\n\nFor almost four years now I've been letting him have the tv on, and the quality of sleep I was getting was incredibly shitty. Recently (a couple weeks ago) I told him that I couldn't handle the tv being on at night anymore. So he stopped turning it on at night. I've never had such a high quality of sleep as I've had in the last couple weeks, and he's never had such a poor quality of sleep as he's had in the last couple of weeks.\n\nI don't want to resort to sleeping in separate rooms, but I'm running out of compromises we can try. Advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "He is pretty much always right about everything and always proves it. It's very frustrating. A third of the time, things just turn into arguments, and he always wins. I am enraged. \n\nIf it matters, the most recent fight was about lyrics to a popular song and we both looked up the lyrics and he turned up to right. again. surprise. I am pissed off about it since it's happened several times and I can't just be right once. Is it too much to ask for him to at least let me feel right once or twice?\n\nI can't be immature and lash out at him for being right, but I can't stand to keep being wrong and to keep feeling like shit for always being wrong and getting upset about it. I am too angry to sleep. \n\nAdvice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met via okcupid (10/10 would recommend), and I didn't even think to look then about his 'children' preferences. Recently I revisited his page and saw that he had put 'doesn't want kids' on his profile summary. \n\nI really, really want kids someday, so seeing this, especially since we have both exchanged \"I love you\"s, was quite discouraging. Now, there's no saying that we'll even be together when the time comes to start having children. I think, though it might be disastrous to avoid talking about this for too long.\n\nSo how do I bring this up to him? I don't want to scare him off by bringing it up, but it's imperative to me to have kids. If it becomes clear that he doesn't want children under any circumstances, should we break up, or just acknowledge that we have an expiration date?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway account and left some details pretty vague. I can expand if necessary.\n\nWe met just over a week ago online and after some texts, we met up and spent the night together because she was moving the next day. The next morning, we agreed to try a long distance relationship (4 hours away) and we began skyping every day since for hours.\n\nDuring this time, she told me she is in love with me and wants to marry me. I was taken aback, and after talking about it some more, she is definitely serious about her feelings and she says she doesn't normally do this with guys she dates. We both come from a background of abusive parents, and we do share a lot in common, as well as common goals in life. I do think there's potential with her and I like her a lot, but it's only been a week. During this time, we've also been very open about pretty much everything, from past relationships, sex, family, goals, etc.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My mother owns a small apparel boutique and I work there as manager. We also employ four shop girls. Recently one of the women who works for us asked for two weeks off because her daughter was having a baby and she wanted to be there to support her. Unfortunately, this time coincided with my mother being out of town for a week. I expected to pick up the extra hours myself.\n\nWithout consulting me AT ALL (which I think is out of line because I'm the manager), my mother hires New Girl as a temp employee. By all accounts, New Girl is a great employee. She had no previous experience in retail, but she learned quickly and her first week I had a handful of customers seek me out specifically to compliment her. That's great, we love to hear that sort of thing.\n\nThe end of her temp employment is coming up, when my mother mentions she wants to bring New Girl on permanently. I tell her we don't have room in the schedule (because we don't, we'd have to cut everyone's hours severely to accommodate her). My mother says we can fire another shop girl, a high schooler who has been with us about six months. She says that from purely a numbers standpoint, New Girl makes more sales.\n\nI am against this. I can't believe she's being this disloyal to her own staff. I also take issue with New Girl's appearance. She simply does not look the level of polished as the other women we employ. I asked her once if she wore make up and she told me she was wearing make up then, but in my opinion it is not enough. I also learned that she does not use heat products in her hair. This has never been a problem with our other employees, and I have no idea how to address this, because how do you tell a woman she needs to wear more make up? My mother doesn't mind, but she's always been more bohemian, which is fine but not the look I care to have represented at our boutique.\n\nFrankly, I think my mother is allowing personal feelings to get in the way of professionalism. She seems dead set on this, though. I need a new way to approach her on this subject.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm currently in a 4 year program in digital animation, when I was younger I wanted to work with 3D modeling and hopefully work with video games as a career choice. However, I'm starting to realize this might not be something I want to do, it's not the workload that's making me question it but I'm not really too skilled with using the programs the school gave us and I have what my professors said \"average\" drawing talent and I went though heavy depression during the first year of college. I had a backup plan to major into History (a subject I've very good at) and become a teacher if this didn't work out but I'm afraid of talking to my parents and uncle (who are helping me pay for college) about making such a drastic change two years into college. Is there anyone in the same boat as me or anyone who could help me out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "GF on and off for 2 years and I have had major issues with her flirting through texts and various forms of social media... Every time I confronted her about it she only hid it better or took it to a different social media platform.... Have broken up many times and got back together with the intent on her working on it... This last time I decided this is it, however we said we would take a month 'break' of no contact to see if we really wanted this, then meet up and talk about our plans.....\n\nI don't want to meet up but she keeps insisting we do, seeing her would make my heart decide for me and I know I will end up with her again, or at the very least, sleep with her again... I know thats not healthy. I love this woman, deeply, if not for the lack of trust and her decision to continue the flirty behavior, I would more than likely marry her. I want her to really work on herself and grow and be happy with her life after this break. I want to break up formally with her but I'm not sure how to do so in a healthy way. She says she needs closure but I don't know what to say. I'm not going to see her face to face, I dont even want to talk on the phone. But I want to break up in a healthy contructive way where we both leave this better than when we came in.... \n\nHelp?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "* My fiance and I live 300 miles apart; he lives in St. Louis, and I live in Alabama. \n\n* In seven months, I'll be moving to live with him permanently.\n\n* Our tentative date for the wedding is May 2013. \n\n* We have no idea where to have the wedding. \n\nI'd been leaning towards having it in St. Louis, since by the time of the wedding, I'll have been living there for a year. Also, the city has more of a \"party\" atmosphere in general. Many people in the South (parts of my family included) can be a little uptight when it comes to alcohol. I want the wedding to be a drunken celebration, and I want to attract a fun crowd.\n\nMy mom really wants me to have it here in Alabama, because she thinks most of my family won't be able to afford to go if we have it in St. Louis. She says it's customary to have the wedding where the bride's family lives. \n\nAnother argument she has is that my family is much larger than my fiance's, so I have more people to accommodate. She tells me to have the wedding where I want, but I know she'll guilt me forever if I don't have it here.\n\nI wouldn't mind having it in Alabama, but I think it would make planning harder. I would love to have my family/friends to be able to come, but I also want his family/friends to come too.\n\nMy fiance is little help and doesn't have a strong opinion either way. His parents aren't picky where the wedding is either.\n\nI've asked others for their opinions, but I was hoping that maybe Reddit can provide some magical answer that I haven't thought of yet. Or maybe some insight I haven't yet considered.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not sure if this is the right format or what, but I really need some advice from someone outside the box.\n \nGirlfriend cheated on me on Friday. \nMy first partner cheated on me too and it took months of work with my current/ex girlfriend for me to open up and trust her not to do the same thing. \n\nNow a year and a half later, ive found myself back in the same boat, but this time with the numbness of knowing that everything I'd accomplished in my head with the self security of not getting hurt, has all been wrong.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Currently I'm in a pretty good relationship with a girl who is younger than the \"half your age plus 7\" rule. Actually she has just hit the age of consent (16) and we have been dating pretty seriously for 5 months. Honestly I felt pretty bad about it in the beginning because when I was younger I always despised older guys dating really young girls. Now I have become what I once hated.... \n\nI truly felt when I was going to first meet her Chris Hansen was going to show up with some cameras.\n\nBut no, we have not had any sexual relations yet. However, I can honestly say I do like her for much more than that. She is much more mature, honest and straight forward than other girls my age, which I find really attractive.\n\nShe has also told me her mother met her dad at the age of 15, married 5 years later and were happy ever since. This gives me some kind of hope.\n\nDo Parents Know?: Currently her mother is only aware that we \"talking\" but not the depth of the relationship. I know her mother personally since she is a friend of the family. However, I have not introduced myself as her daughter's companion yet. I would rather do the whole meet and greet the family when she turns 18.\n\nI'm wondering if there are currently any other redditors out there that have had a similar (successful) experience?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been working since 16 and make around $12,000 annually with a small amount of expenses (gas, car insurance). I literally just turned 18 and felt that it would be a good idea to get a credit card. I honestly don't need it to \"make purchases I can't afford\" but I really just want one to start building my credit.\n\nI talked with my Dad about it and he said that applying for a store card like Best Buy (where I work actually) would be a good idea or that getting a secured credit card would also be a good idea. I prefer the secured credit card route due to being able to use it anywhere and I can't see myself actually using a store card consistently as I do not shop at one place consistently.\n\nWhat are some of the best secured Credit Cards to get? I'm not worried about a high credit limit, I just want my credit to go up and be good, for a lack of better words. My current debit card is with a Credit Union and I read that those and Capital One are usually the best route to go with.\n\nI also wanted to know if it is better to with Visa, Mastercard, Discover, AMEX ETC.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok Reddit, here's my sketchy story. I've been living in the same apartment for almost three years with the same asshole downstairs neighbors(mother and daughter in 60s and 30s). A little over a year ago, a stray cat started coming around our building, we knew right away she wasn't ferrel because of how friendly she was. My roommate and I have grown to LOVE this cat. We, along with my downstairs and other neighbors, kept her fed. My roommate and I would sometimes let her in on cold nights, and it was always our deck she chose to sleep on when she was outside. We had food and water bowls, toys, etc. We would have kept her inside however she always wanted out after a while and she also had fleas and ear mites. Anyway, TWO days ago my roommate was approached and informed by downstairs that they were calling a \"friends for felines\"(?) place that would take her and have her treated and brought back when they were done. I thought, \"oh how nice, now we can let her sleep inside!\"...a day later(yesterday), we were again approached by downstairs saying that \"last night a woman from a few buildings over came up to me looking for her cat\"...yeah. So, with that being said, as far as I know this random woman(who claims it's her cat) picked the cat up and is taking her to Petco tomorrow to be adopted. Am I the only one who finds something wrong with this story? This woman lives not even a 2 minute walk away, hasn't even been worried/looking for her cat for over a YEAR, but now wants it back, just so she could have it adopted at Petco? I'm at a loss.. I'm so heartbroken and don't have the money to pay for adoption fees and vet bills. Help reddit!! What can I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About 5 minutes ago I went in and took a test that I didn't study for at all and failed it. I know this is entirely my fault. However, my mom is extremely concerned about how good my grades are (rightly so, since she pays for half of my tuition) and once she finds out I failed, she might kick me out of the house.\n\n I've been meaning to tell her that I don't care about school as much as she wants me to and that I would just save up enough money to pay for it all for myself so she doesn't have to worry anymore. How can I tell her this without making her furious? She gets very emotional about things like this to the point where she loses her common sense.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway account here, so excuse the lame username.\n\nSo my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half or so. We decided that we wanted to spice up our sex life by experimenting with different kinks. It's not that our sex life is boring as is right now, it's more that we just both decided we'd like to expand our sexual horizons. We think it could be interesting and fun. (And yes, this is a healthy and stable relationship.) Both of us are into it, but I wanted some advice or suggestions before we started exploring. I'm looking for suggestions as to what kinks to try, how to keep it safe, and anything that could help us.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dated my ex for about a year, we went on a few trips together, met each other's family and friends, and essentially lived together for a short period. I was going through some big changes with graduating college and finding a job that was fulfilling for me- my hopes and dreams were a bit unrealistic, and I only worked on and off during college so it was a stressful transition. Anyway, I leaned too much on him for emotional support because we were always around one another and I didn't consider the amount of strain it would put on the relationship. We had other problems, namely expectations of his friends and family. I'm kind of a proponent of the idea that expectations skew reality, but whatever, people still see what they're primed to see.\n\nI think we both wanted to take the relationship to the next level but the reality is that we're not logistically at the same point in life and we might never be. Thiiiis noob was always on my case about how I needed to be more assertive and secure in our relationship, but he didn't have the gall to do the same. He's an extreme people pleaser, and he's becoming a total beefcake who's been swept by the upgrade mentality. Patronizing jerk.\n\nI used to swear that we were made at the same time (close bdays). And If I could go back, I would teach little me all that I needed to know in order to be ready for him to come along- after talking with some of my favorite revolutionaries, because this is all fantasy anyway. \n\nNow, I know it's not entirely my fault that I didn't wake up to some realities until it was too late to make a 180, but it still sucks knowing that I was left because of some bogus preconceived ideas. Change takes time. Breakthroughs don't happen over night, Einstein!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know my problem isn't very interesting but it's still eating me up. We've been dating since January of this year. I know we haven't been together very long, and I realize he's a good amount older than me, but I'm still in the honeymoon phase, especially since I hardly see him anymore (maybe once a week). He has other friends and family of course, but he readily spends time with them and skips me. I do whatever I can to spend time with him, but I don't seem any more important to him than a casual friendship. He's acknowledged we're \"dating,\" and we kiss and cuddle and I love it, but I feel like he doesn't want to invest in me.\n\nI should also mention he was in a 5+ year relationship that ended not too long ago, albeit not badly.\n\nAny advice would be appreciated. This is only my second (romantic) relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So i'll try and keep this short. Last year I met the girl of my dreams, she was the only girl in my entire life I legitimately enjoyed talking to, and would use any excuse I could to do so. We went out for a bit and it was amazing at first but I was so head over heels I said and did some really embaressing things, got clingy and made an idiot of myself like I had no idea I was capable of. Looking back I would have broke up with me too I looked like a nutcase. Fast forward a year later, I've been seeing this girl for a little over 3 months and I can tell things are getting serious from her end. And while I really liked her at first and enjoy being with her, along with everything that comes with it, I still can't get past my ex. Everything she does I just remember how my ex did it and how much more in tune I was with it. Everything she did just made so much sense to me, and this one (even though she is great and I am happy with the time I've spent with her) just doesn't make me feel that way. \n\nHow can I get some closure on this? I'm not sure if I'm not interested in her or if it is just a barrier I'm putting up due to not getting over my ex.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not really sure what advice im looking for.... am I overreacting? should i be worried she is fed up? \n\nGirlfriend is in college during the week and we only see each other on weekends when she is back home. About 3/4 weeks ago she was not answering my texts or just being very aloof with me. When we met up at the weekend she eventually admitted that she has had depression before and is going through it again so she wanted to break up because in the past she has treated her boyfriends like shit during these periods and didn't want to do that to me. I said no, thanked her for telling me what was happening and then said we would get through this rough patch. \n\nSo since then she has gone from texting me and talking throughout the day to maybe getting a text or two in reply to something I sent during the day. I know this sounds stupid but we have ended almost all of our texts for the past year with an \"x\" but she is even rarely doing that now. She is even purposefully ignoring texts as I get the read notification and if i get a reply it can be hours later. \n\nOne part I can't understand is, when we are together at weekends things seem almost normal as she seems happy to see me, we hang out, sleep together etc. \nWe even talk about possibly moving out together in the summer. \n\nI know she told me she would be rough to deal with during this time but whenever I have asked whats up she says everything is fine. But I know during the times she is ignoring me she is actively talking to people on facebook/text etc. \n\nApologies about the wall of text but this whole new behavior is driving me insane! And I don't know if Im worrying over nothing", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In deciding between purchasing a Eurail pass to use during my 6 weeks or travel, or buy each ticket individually, I'm weighing these factors:\n1) I will be turning 26 (no longer considered a youth) part way through my adventure.\n2) My tentative itinerary is Wroclaw - Berlin - Prague - Budapest - Vienna - Venice - Rome - Florence - Pisa - Barcelona - Paris - Amsterdam, a few of which are expensive as individual tickets.\n3) I'm willing to pay a small premium for convenience.\n\nFor anyone who has experience with the rail system, would you recommend I get a global pass since I will be able to take advantage of youth pricing, or would it be better to buy each ticket individually?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So like all other TIFU this didnt happen today. I did have one last night about me ripping my pants at work and exposing my junk but thats a story for another time. \n\nThis story goes back about 2 years ago while I was still in High School. I loved the movie Ted.\n\nThe summer before starting my senior year I travel to go stay with my sister and her family. My sister has three kids between the ages of 3-7. \n\nOne day I am tired as hell while the kids are playing so I tell my sister Im going to go lay down for a few (the kids playroom is across from my room I was staying in), and if they needed anything to just wake me up.\n\nI turn on my playstation and start up my Ted UNRATED edition, and fall asleep. I was woken up about 45 minutes late from my nieces sitting on the bed with the youngest trying to do makeup on me (which she succeeded in doing). I then ask them to leave the room that this is a bad movie, turns out their mom thought instead of sleeping, I decided to play and watch a movie with them.\n\nFast forward about 2 weeks, we all travel to my house in two different cars in a downpour. Im in the car ahead of them just passing through Richmond when my phone goes off, I answer the call from my sister screaming at me saying what the fuck did I let them watch? I asked what she was talking about and it turns out the middle child during the thunder storm starting singing the fucking Thunder buddies song with yes you guessed it \"FUCK YOU THUNDER YOU CAN SUCK MY DICK\".\n\n My nieces now all claim we are thunder buddies though", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So her and I had quite a rocky start i guess you could say. Then it became pretty good, entered that \"honeymoon phase\" as I guess it's called. I think that's where it stayed for a while but that's besides the point.\n\nThe whole time that we were dating she was becoming better and better friends with another guy and to be short and to the point she developed into an emotional affair and now she's left me for him.\n\nThe point of this is well as you can tell I'm quite young and... I don't really know how do you deal with a break-up? It was only a week or so until she started dating the other guy. The funny thing is I think he's quite a bit like me. I'm also not quite sure whether she would even admit that it was an emotional affair to begin with.\n\nAnyways I'm trailing off here I just need advice on what to do because I'm angry, happy, sad, and several different variations of those emotions all at the same time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I do most of my browsing on reddit through my phone. For the most part it is great although it often takes quite a bit of time to load images. This is where I came up with an idea for a content sharing service.\n \nSo take [something like this] which is about 150KB. This isn't that big of a picture but it could still take some time to load if the network is congested. I take the same amount of content and added it [here] This came out to ~7.5KB. This should be able to load just about instantly on a phone. This is a fairly small example as I have seen some images that span multiple pages and take forever to load on my phone.\n \nSo the benefits of the service are\n \n* Must faster load times on mobile devices.\n* The pages are rendered in a mobile/tablet friendly layout.\n* I keep the original styling\n* I link to the original source\n* Sites with low bandwidth wouldn't feel the pain of the reddit effect\n \n \nAnyway, let me know what you think. Also if anyone has a better idea for a name of the site let me know.\n \nIf reddit likes this idea I will keep developing. I know that right now it is pretty slow when you actually select some content and doesn't work on all sites. This was just a prototype and I have a ton of ideas on how to speed up the site. I will also give the UI/UX a refresh by getting some help from a graphic artist.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a classical musician and I began studying with this teacher when I was 12. So I mean, I understand if he has a sort of fatherly view towards me. However, recently we started doing a gig together and I noticed that he is now touching me sometimes during conversation in ways that makes me quite uncomfortable.\n\nDuring performances for example, it is common for musicians to congratulate the person sitting next to them on a well-played solo by patting their own leg in a sort of light-clapping motion. After one of my solos, in the middle of the piece, he reached over and touched MY leg. No one does that. And he didn't really pat my leg, he sort of wiggled his fingers on my leg in this sort of \"tickle\" motion which was kind of weird. \n\nI had a very large solo in this piece we played, and later after the piece ended, he then put his hand rather intimately on my back, leaned over until his face was literally an INCH away from my face and whispered, \"Beautiful.\" That definitely made me feel quite uncomfortable.\n\nThis in addition to other such gestures has started to really grate on my nerves. However, he was my teacher and mentor for six years, has still been helping me with musical things by hooking me up with gigs and a great many other things that I'm truly grateful for. I don't think he means these physical gestures in a sexual way (OMG I hope not...), but how do I broach the subject without totally offending him or making things beyond awkward? At the same time, I don't think it's right for him to be doing that. I highly doubt he touches his male students in such a fashion.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my significant other and I are in a rut. We're both in college together, been living together since freshman year, dating for 2 years and 8 months.\n\nWe only fight about how he does not like to approach other people or go out. I usually find myself wanting to go out with other friends but I feel really guilty leaving him alone back at our dorm all by himself. He's smart, kind, and really a great guy but its been almost three years and I see no improvement from him to try and make friends and its really hurting our relationship. He's terrified and shy so he has trouble talking to others and I've tried helping him but he keeps resisting. He has no friend group and no close friends at all.\n\nLately another problem of support has been an issue in where I get in a debate about something trivial and he does not support me in the least and usually just \"tries to stay out of it\". I understand if I'm wrong he has no reason to support me but to not want to support me bothers me. I'm trying not to sound spoiled but please give me advice.\n\nDo I stay and hope he becomes more social and has a friend group? Do I leave and hope he turns out okay? I love him and I want him to become a greater person (I think we can all improve) but its been such a strain on me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So i was browsing plenty of fish . com today just for the lulz and maybe some scene hoe jack off material.... when i came across a lot of girls profiles....\nalmost all were `education : some uni/college `and then id look on occupation and see shit like cashier, hostess LMAO why the fuck would you go to uni and then have a shit job like taht..... first of all if i was even interested in you i wouldnt even date a chick who is too dumb to finish college or uni.... fuck sake ill work my ass off and you make minimum wage selling shoes and fries%\n? fuck that shit", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am lucky in a few ways: I know she loves me, isn't money-grubbing, and is good in bed, which many will say is plenty, but really those are just the minimums for being a good girlfriend, aren't they? Shouldn't your girlfriend love you regardless of money and make you feel good physically? So those don't count.\n\nShe is often impunctual while I am not. If she's tired she makes me take her home, as though me having fun doesn't count. If we do stay out she sulks. If it's chilly outside she won't dress up because \"she's cold,\" and if she does I have to hear about it the whole time, like she wants to remind me \"look how much effort this is for you.\" Meanwhile I'm just as cold and keeping quiet.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "From everything I've heard/read the Federal Reserve Bank (which is not part of or regulated by the Federal government) is shitty and just makes debt by printing money putting the government (and the nation) in an endless cycle of debt. What, if anything, does the government have to gain from this being a thing still? And why isn't this a bigger deal to everyone? Am I misinformed of the actual power this entity has? What more than an old law and \"word is bond\" obligation does the government have to them and why can they finagle their way out of it, since they pretty much do whatever they want anyway?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry if this is long winded.\n\nI worked at a utility company in Florida and am apart of a small union. A union contract got delayed while I was working there and about 3 months before I put in my notice, an agreement had been announced which would give everyone retroactive raises back to the start date of the contract. They announced a date for payout finally and when I put in my notice I made sure it was 1.5 pay periods after said date in case of a delay. Go figure, it gets delayed by \"up to 6 months\" and I'm not withdrawing my notice.\n\nI briefly probed my union reps and HR department and initial responses are No, but feel like that's bullshit. \n\nWith that in mind, do I have a good argument for getting the back pay even though I wont be working there when it pays out, but was when it was announced?\n\nAny information/advice would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not even sure if this is the best place to post this but here goes:\n\nAbout 3 days ago I got invited by my friend and classmate (let's call her Katie) to spend this Saturday at an amusement park a few towns (let's call it town A) over, and also to maybe watch some movies. The company (X) she interns at is also located in town A and gives them cheap tickets to the amusement park and movies. I said sure, and asked her if I could invite some friends. She said yes so I did but everyone I invited couldn't go due to prior obligations.\n\nSome background: a lot of my classmates are interning for company X, so I assumed it would be a group get together party type of deal for classmates. Katie and I are good friends, we've had some heart-to-heart but I don't want any kind of relationship with her, nor do I find her really that attractive. \n\nAbout an hour ago I get a call from Katie saying every other one of my classmates in town A has peaced or has other plans for the weekend. She's a little buzzed but we talked and she made plans for a party Friday night, then amusement park and movies the next day. I didn't want to sound mean over the phone but hearing everyone else has basically peaced makes me wonder if she has ulterior motives for inviting me over (to a party on Friday night, of all things). She even admitted that it'd be basically me and her for all of Friday night and Saturday, and overall sounded super eager to see me. \n\nShould I even go at all? Basically if she makes any sort of move I'll have to turn her down. Then it'd be hella fucking awkward for the rest of the time together. I could always jet because I have my own car but that'd be REALLY shitty and hurtful of me. If there's the potential, I'd like to avoid this situation altogether. It is really easy to come up with some last minute excuse why I can't drive 2 hours over to town A.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work midnights at a gas station so I'm the only one there on most nights. Meaning I cannot afford to be late or the person I'm replacing not only gets pissed off but can risk going over on hours (god forbidden the damn place pays them an extra dollar for not clocking out on time). While getting ready with about 10mins until I had to leave I had the need to shit. And I of course made the mistake of deciding to hold it until after work (hence why I'm posting here). \nLuckily this is not a \"I shit my pants\" story, I was able to make it to work and a few hours in my shift with mild discomfort but no huge problems. It was around 3am and very slow (we stop selling beer at 1am so after that its dead). I decided now was the prefect time to take my shit. About 5mins into it I heard the door ring... FUCK...\nIt was the point of no return though, they could wait a few minutes. Then I heard the dreaded \"HELLO IS ANYONE HERE?!\" I quickly finished up and came out. It was my bosses 20yr old spoiled bitchy brat. Fuck everything. She makes a hugeass deal out of it saying she was waiting for 10 minutes (which is bullshit) and that \"My mother will hear about this\". She's the kind of person that overreacts to everything and hopefully my manager will understand that... Hopefully", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO (21) and I (20) have been together for over a year and 6 months. The one thing that really interests me is how difficult he finds it to say I love you, to anyone really. He was bullied a lot as a kid and conditioned himself to stop feeling so the bullies couldn't hurt him.\n\n'Love' hasn't been an issue between us at all because I accept that it's hard for him to say it and when I say it myself, I don't expect him to say it in return.\n\nA year ago he did tell me he loved me and I was shocked but after a while he stopped saying it. I was worried that he stopped having feelings for me, so last night I asked him if he did love me because I've been confused about what his feelings are towards me. He shrugged and told me that he doesn't know what love is and doesn't know if he's feeling it. I then asked why he said it to me earlier in our relationship and he said that he thought that I wanted him to say it. I told him he was crazy for thinking that and that I didn't care if he couldn't say it. But he says he feels guilty that he can't say it because then he feels like everything is one sided (which it isn't).\n\nI thought about us today and realised that although he can't say it, he's shown it. During some off our worst fights (in cases where most guys would up and leave) he couldn't bare to leave me (even though he thought about it) and he was there for me when I was at my worst (he's always tolerant) he'll always want cuddles, be happy to drive me when I need him to (he hates driving), buy me flowers, pay for dinners, cook for me, the list goes on. A word to me doesn't matter because he treats me well. I'm not saying we are perfect, we're probably worse than must when we get into huge fights but will always stick around for the other.\n\nDoes anyone have a similar relationship? I don't know what I can do to make him realise saying I love you or thinking you can't feel love towards someone isn't an issue for me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A few years ago a work mate was complaining about packaging waste in the office, Being my usual sarcastic self I suggested he eat the box, in a effort to use intentionally abstract logic to rationalize him eating it , I said for the right amount of money I would eat it, He started shouting numbers at me trying to find my price and after some co-workers overheard our discussion I ended up eating a a [corrugated card board box] similar to that image for 1,000 Euro.\n\nThey did not stipulate the way in which to eat it , but they did say I had to finish it before the work day was over, I cut it into small chunks and softened it with boiling water and a small amount of sugar to make it less bland, I completed the bet but I didn't shit right for a good while.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife and I have been together 5 years, married 2. I have Cerebral Palsy It's basically a (non-genetic) neurological \"disease\" as a result of a stroke I had while I was being born. My muscles on one side are much weaker than the others. However, mine is very minor. Nobody can tell unless I tell them.\n\nMy coordination is bad. My brain doesn't recognize where the left side of my body is in relation to anything else. Sometimes this causes me to knock things over, or bump into things. My wife gets irritated and calls me clumsy. \n\nWhen I was unemployed, a warehouse offered me a job. It was pretty much lifting heavy things and moving them. I didn't think I could do that, but I wanted to be employed so I tried. After a couple hours my arm muscles just seized up on me, and they just wouldn't work anymore. So afterwords I told my wife that I physically couldn't do it, and she got mad at me. She told me that I must not be \"trying hard enough\" or something like that. Every time I remind her of my disability she completely dismisses it, sometimes saying \"theres people a lot worse off than you\". I understand that, but that doesn't mean that it doesn't effect me. \n\nHow can I make my wife understand how much this effects my life, and the fact that there are limitations to what I can do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this hapened literally yesterday so as I sit here on the toilet typing this I remember it like it was yesterday.\n\nSo in English we are reading a book and I was not paying very much attention. I was zoned out for a bit and when I zoned back in the first thing I heard was the phrase,\" Why did she tell her father she was a prostitue,' and the inner twelve year old in me blurted out,\" Family Discount?\" \n\nNow keep in mind that I said this very quietly and carefully so only my peers heard it. But them my dumb ass of a friend decided it was to funny to not repeat so he yelled for the whole class to hear,\" Family discount.\" Then of course the teacher heard. So when my friend was confronted by the teacher he told her that I was the one who originally said it like the dumb ass he is. Needless to say both of us have detention for a week and I am grounded from my computer for a month.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been dating just over a month. We started having sex just before we started dating. We're in a (minor) long distance relationship at the present and while visiting him most recently, we had an argument about sex.\n\nPrior to dating him, I was a virgin while he'd had sex with multiple girls over the years. My sex drive is pretty high and considering we only see each other for weekends at a time, we generally have sex at least once a day. However, he said he's over that. \n\nHe got the \"sexxing\" out a couple years ago and that people in \"real relationships\" don't base their relationships on sex. What I don't understand is what this argument is trying to achieve exactly... because people in \"real relationships\" have sex too. It's making me feel like I'm not attractive enough for him to want to have sex with or that when we do have sex, it's not good enough to keep his interest. I don't think that's his intention though, so can someone please help me understand the thought process behind this is?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, so I currently have a 3.5 and a recent grad from CC and I'm not sure if it matters which 4 year school I get a bachelor's from or if I go to the school from which I will get a bachelor's, if that will make it easier to get into the masters or Ph.D. / Ed.S. or what have you at that same school. (Probably, I assumed.) My CC and the local 4 year are pretty buddy-buddy and have credit transfer deals and generally help its local students out. But while they have a general psychology bachelor's program, they only have master's and PhDs in counseling. Also, I hear that you can go directly from a bachelor's into a doctorate program, if you have the GPA, undergrad research or enough experience, and good GRE scores. (I like this idea because I'm a relatively poor student and rely heavily on financial aid and small loans.) I'm also wondering about internships and the stipends that come with some of them? Is that just for doctorate programs? I would prefer to baby step it from a masters to a doctorate, I don't want to do anything I'm not 100% ready for. (Sorry if I sound ignorant, I'm the first in my family to get this far.) A friend of mine in agriculture biotechnology is currently attending grad school for her masters mostly because of her internship / job at the school so she can live cheaply off campus.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them.\n\nWe'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd consider waiting it out on the condition that several things change.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "At the beginning of 2014, I had moved to NY to begin a new life and move in with my girlfriend. I had spent all of 2014 with her, becoming engaged, and it was all in all, a good year.\n\nWe had had fights here and there, especially ones that become violent from both sides, but we usually made up in due time and were back to being content. Up until the night before, we were laughing and telling jokes.\n\nThe next day (December 2014), I come home from work, and find all of her personal possessions gone. The TV, her collectibles, some of her clothing, her luggage... all gone. No note, no warning, nothing. I found out later she somehow got to the train station and hopped a train to Texas.\n\nI feel completely broken because I thought things were going well, until I came to the realization she was lying to my face, was packing her things in front of me, lying saying she was just going through her clothes. I gave up everything for her. My manager position at my job back in TX, my home in TX, just everything, and put all my bets on this relationship by moving to NY, and now I'm wondering if there's any recovering.\n\nI want to love again. I wanna find someone even better than her, but I'm so afraid that no woman is ever going to be right for me. And with that, I'm worried that any woman who might have even a remote interest in me isn't going to want to work through my emotional scars I've received from this, and that I'll be just a lost cause. \n\nPart of me thinks that I should just \"man up\" and hide the hurt. This stems from my teenager coworker trying to get me to get some random girl's phone numbers that walk into our store (gas station). \n\nI guess what I'm really trying to ask is, once I get back into a normal routine and get over this depression, should I just hide the scars I bear as far as my emotions, or will the right woman work with me and take the time to help me?\n\nAny other advice is appreciated. Sorry this post is all over the place. I'll answer any questions as well.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been \"hooking up\" with a guy for a little more than a month now. We clearly liked each other when we first got together--I stopped seeing a different guy before I even kissed him--and immediately had an incredible amount of sexual chemistry. We now sleep over in the other's room 5-6 nights a week (we're both in college), sometimes just to cuddle and fall asleep and not have sex. \n\nBecause we spend so much time together, friends have started referring to us as a couple. We've started to have the \"what are we doing\" conversation a few times, but it's always kind of been cut short-- or we've been drunk and decided we shouldn't talk about it anymore. \n\nFrom his perspective, he just finally ended a complicated open relationship with his girlfriend from high school, and I'm pretty sure is afraid of committing to something for the wrong reasons.\n\nLast night in bed, he was falling asleep and told me he loved me for the first time. He said he wasn't \"in love\" with me, but loved me \"in the chill way.\" I told him it's not that I didn't feel the same, but that I knew I was going to get my feelings hurt since I didn't know his intentions with us. He said he didn't know either, and that was the end of the conversation. Is he just trying to mess with my emotions? What should I be doing at this point?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I apologize for any typos and formatting issues, writing this on mobile.\n\nWe signed the lease for our townhouse in January. Our landlord is the owner of the property, there is no middle management company. We are breaking our lease to move back to NC due to financial reasons and have had a great line of communication with our landlord since day 1. She has been working with us to find new tenants to take over the lease and understands that we are taking steps to adjust to our budget issues without missing any payments. She is empathetic to our budget issues, but not very lenient or forgiving of the rent payments.\n\nWe are taking off in the truck tomorrow, and after removing the furniture from the (fully finished) basement, we noticed warping from water damage on the wall panels. The two walls affected are exterior walls, and the damage is just below ground level, indicating foundation troubles. It's not so bad that our furniture was damaged, and the carpets are not wet, but there is definitely moisture in the walls.\n\nWe do not have new tenants signed for a lease yet, though we have shown the place to a few. We are responsible for paying rent until the either new tenants sign a lease, or our current lease ends in January. We cannot afford another month of rent here so it is very important we find new tenants soon.\n\nMy question is do we tell the landlord that we noticed it tomorrow, before they do the walkthrough Monday? We will not be here after Sunday. What we are worried about is 1) will we still be on the hook for rent if it becomes un-rentable while the repairs are being made, and 2) are we responsible for any damages if we don't notify the landlord, despite it being a structural/building problem?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit, I am a 25 year old musician from Florida who is going nowhere fast in the music industry, like I said in the title, I only have 2 semesters of college at a community college under me, and I'm currently unemployed. \nI've been feeling incredibly unproductive as of late, and I despise this feeling. \n\nI was dumb enough at 18 to think that I could make a living in music without college to fall back on, and I'm starting to wish I had that backup plan.\n\nI'm pretty much doing just enough odds and ends to save up money for this one last push at promoting a solo album, and if it doesn't work I want to return to college, but I don't know how to go about getting financial aid and all that, my parents are letting me stay with them again and I hate to take advantage of their generosity for too much longer.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "SO! I've read through a number of the posts here and have found some really great information about student loans and good ways to handle them and such, but nothing that answers my direct question:\n\nI have a number of federal student loans across two different servicing companies: NelNet for the subsidised ones and ACS with all my unsubsidized ones(originally serviced through Wells Fargo).\n\n- NelNet is, by far, the easier site/company to work with. They let me break down my different loans with them to apply additional payments specifically to the loan I want, and show me exactly what my interest rate on each loan is.\n\n- ACS, on the other hand, shows me the cumulative sum of the amount I owe, and gives me the rate I need to pay them based off this, also telling me I have \"mixed\" interest rate (some are variable, some fixed, but they don't show me which loan has how much money still owed and at what interest rate).\n\n- I have looked at the Federal Loan Consolidation program, and noticed that when I was looking at my options, that I was able to see the breakdown of my loan amounts serviced through ACS, and noticed that I can move my consolidated loan over to NelNet as a servicer.\n\nMy question is two parts: \n- Am I able to just transfer all my loans from one servicer to another and have them be individual loans still?\n- IF NOT, would I be able to \"consolidate\" my loans from ACS one at time, and transfer them over to NelNet? Or would it have to be in one big lump sum (a real consolidation)?\n\nI'm not trying to get a better interest rate, really even, more just trying to make it easier for me to engage in \"snowball\" type divide and conquer finance tactics. Also, NelNet's interface/customer service is MILES and above better than ACS (seriously, it took 8 attempts online & 4 phone calls to get my address updated!)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Link to original thread: \n\nAlright. Well, after I posted this thread two days ago, my boyfriend and I have been trying to talk. First it started out with him telling me that I needed to lose 20 pounds and work out every day. Which of course, made me want to die inside. He showed me pictures of what he wanted me to look at from the my body gallery thing...\n\nSo, still devastated, but I told him that I would do it. I really, truly love him, and I know that it isn't right, but I would do anything for him, if it would make him happy. But last night, I just...it didn't make SENSE. For this to come out of nowhere, he's never been unhappy with my body before even a little bit. Finally, he tells me. He's been nursing a newfound porn addiction, that started over our winter break from college when we weren't together due to living on opposite coasts. It led to him watching porn/masturbating like every day, which apparently killed his sex drive and started making him unhappy with me, which was only increased by us not having sex... I told him all I wanted was for him to want me.\n\nSo last night after this conversation, we actually tried to have sex. Everything was going good until the actual penetration part, when he promptly went totally limp. I did not react well. He said he was nervous. I was trying to be understanding. Eventually, we tried again, and had great sex, and his mood went up like 1000x. He agreed to go to our student counseling center to talk to someone and made an appointment for tomorrow, and he told me that he loves my body and that he's so sorry for everything.\n\nThis is so hard for me to process. I am so confused/worried but I love him and I want everything to be okay. A porn addiction is something I've read about, but I don't really understand it. I had no problem with masturbating/porn before this at all. I just hope that it all works out. Thanks for the people who helped me. I appreciate it so much. Down side: all of my friends (and some of his) now think he's a scum bag.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway. The title pretty much says it all, but the long goes like this:\n\nMy fiance started working for this company as an administrative assistant about a year and a half ago after the company she was working for was acquired by said company. Within the first month or so of her working there she noticed that there was standing water in the basement of the building that had to mopped/vacuumed up about once a week. She spoke to her boss and he said he was aware of the issue, but they weren't doing anything at the time to fix the problem (mind you this is a building full of engineers and architects). \n\nFast forward about a year from then, my fiance is now the office manager and was cleaning some documents in basement near the water and found some blueprints with mold on them, she then notifies the president of the company and his response is along the lines of \"you shouldn't have to work in that environment where you could potentially get sick, don't work down there anymore. We will look into the issue.\" \n\nAnother month goes by and nothing is being done about the issue, so she takes things into her own hands. She gets the go ahead from her boss to schedule an inspection and get a mold test done. Apart from there being multiple building problems and what not, the mold test comes back positive for black mold. \n\nI should note that this is a building of about 200-300 people, with multiple pregnant women. Since she has started working there my fiance has developed asthma as well as other symptoms that consistent with black mold exposure. \n\nIs there any sort of lawsuit at hand?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This guy is very controlling, starting from small stuff (like eat your meal this way, not this way) to big stuff (like he decided that my gf is not suitable, and he said that he will stop talking to me as soon as we get married). \n\nUsually, I stop seeing people I don't like. But this time, I really enjoy his company when he is a tame lamp, on many levels, and I sometimes I think I will not get a better friend. \n\nAlso, he has a phobia of losing people, whenever we go on a trip (like a 3 days trip) and the trip is about to end he gets very moody, and fucks up the whole last day/days. Also, whenever I decide to cut him off, he freaks out, starts crying, calling me over and over again, gets depression and starts fucking up his carrier. Then I feel guilty and I start talking to him again. \n\nThis is not easy for me and this made me waste a lot of time. whenever he got the chance, he would blame my problems on me. Not to mention the recent insults.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I used to go camping with my family every summer in S. Ontario in a small campground where most people knew each other, year after year. As the people of my age group grew older we began camping on our own, in separate parts of the campground from our parents (this would typically be from 19 years old and onward). So naturally, as any people of that age do, we drank (legal age in Canada is 19) and smoked weed and held awesome parties way on the other side of the campground to avoid annoying the other campers. Now my last year of camping at this lake we had a nice party one night lots of people some familiar faces, some new. The next day the administrator of the campground informs my site mates and I that we are banned from the campground for 5 years for giving alcohol to minors. What really happened is irresponsible parents lost track of where their kids were, and also track of where their booze were (the 15 and 16 year olds, who were not invited, obviously stole their parents alcohol). I know I didn't give any alcohol to any of the young people, and I'm sure my friends wouldn't have (we worked our asses off at near minimum wage that summer just to save up enough to go camping, we had no extra drinks.) We appealed the decision, but in a closed door meeting, the board of directors upheld the decision. sigh, it was a good time while it lasted.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background [here] and [here](\n\nI need to ask this question, and I realise that by asking it some people may condemn me to the worst part of a garbage bin, but I have to ask.\n\nIf you have been in a relationship with someone who has had depression and/or anxiety (as well as eating disorder in the case of my girlfriend), and you loved them so much and cared for them, what broke your back? What was it that finally drove you to say goodbye? \n\nI don't want to end our relationship, I love her and I care for her so much and try my absolute best, but is there an 'outsider' threshold that most people have?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "this boy asked for my number towards the end of December. We've been hanging out since then. He was super straightforward and told me his whole sex and relationship history and asked me about mine which I'm still a virgin (grew up very religious recently broke out of that). Constantly asks me questions like if I'm looking for a relationship, what type of men I go for etc. Always sends me texts telling me I turn him on how sexy I am etc. \n\nhe has been pretty busy most of February and with my work/school schedule and his we hadn't been able to hang out. Still texting though. We were talking and he told me that I seem like I want a relationship and at this point he is trying to focus on his career and just doesn't have the time but he doesn't want to hurt me and he still wants me in his life and wants to continue hanging out with me and invited me to come over to his place on friday. Which every time we hang out we go to his place he pours me glass after glass of wine. He never drinks any and we end up talking for hours and making out. He has been really sweet about not having sex yet and told me he isn't going to push me into anything until I'm ready. \n\nWhich honestly I think I am ready but I'm not sure since he doesn't want a relationship if I would be able to handle being friends with benefits and I don't want to get hurt.\non one hand I think screw it I'm 20 I'm a virgin I've been a good girl all my life I wouldn't mind just doing something casual and meaningless but on the other I don't know if I could do it without developing feelings for him", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend's best friend of over 10 years is a selfish, center of attention type person. He always needs to be in the spotlight and leeches off of my boyfriend and I. My bf doesn't have a job while he does. He asks for rides to the gym, when we're going for lunch, dinner, rock climbing, etc, uses my bf's netflix account (and asks us to get off when netflix doesn't let him on so he can watch a show with a girl he is currently dating at the time). My bf would lend his bed to him for a night and his friend would have sex in it with his gf (at the time). He complains about how expensive rent/gas is for him yet goes to bars, takes girls out on dinner dates, etc. and it comes across as it justifies him to leech from us.\n\nIt was his birthday a couple of months ago and we were moving out the next day. We still weren't fully packed for the next morning, but all he wanted to do is hang out with my bf. He came over for dinner (which we made), talked about the girls he was dating and didn't care for things I had to say. He rushed my boyfriend to pack a couple of things then they left to go back to his place while I stayed behind to pack up the rest of the night. We still weren't ready for the next morning. He really should've just come by and helped us pack since my bf helped him unpack when he moved.\n\nOf all the things that I have done for him, he has never tried to return the favour or done anything to show how appreciative he is. He's that guy who comes by, steals your wifi, your food, your netflix, and peaces out once he gets what he has because he doesn't want to spend a dime himself.\n\nI really don't know how to express this to my bf, especially since he says he doesn't mind his friend's behavior. I don't need my bf to stop seeing his best friend, but maybe try to influence him to treat people better.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a male, 21, having troubles with myself. I am not sure when I became conscious of my insecurities, but when I did, I realized that most of my current actions and past actions were influenced by my insecurities. Ever since then, I've been conscious about my actions and constantly reason the things I do and things I should/not do. But in the 2 years since I became aware of my condition, I haven't improved much. I'm kind of a loner, don't have much friends. I had a girlfriend 3 years ago, and her breaking up with me was the event that made me aware of my problems. Sometimes I feel this might be because of my background, because I've seen my family show the same anti-social and insecure behavior that I do. But I wish to change that. I wanna be the best version of my self. Not a version that is a manifestation of my insecurities. . . Following are the Insecure behavior that I've identified about myself: 1) jealous 2) lonely( a thing i constantly feel, even in company of people ) 3) self-destructive( at rare times ) 4) cowardly 5) desprate 6) weak self control 7) emotionally fickle 8) tend to over do things A few good things about me: 1) Creative 2) Passionate( but this maybe because of my need to impress) 3) Good problem solving abilities . .", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been best friend for 4 years, both have had a serious relationship with other people during that time. During the last 2 years we have been single but have had flings with other people.\nI have secretly liked her for the last 2 years but decided to stay a friend because I didn't want to ruin things between us.\n\n---\n\nI finally confessed and told her I couldn't be her friend without having feelings for her. Initially asked her how she felt about me and she said she only saw me as a friend. I gave her an ultimatum, we try dating or I stop talking to her and move on.\n\n---\n\nIn the end we decide to give it a shot. She wants to take things slow. How long is reasonable time to give this? How many dates?\nI fear that because I have liked her for so long and feel like if I wait too long and end up being rejected that it will hurt me more.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, to get right to the point, a friend of mine goes to a school about 2 hours away from mine, so I visit around once a quarter, sometimes more. The past two times (around November and 1 week ago) I've stayed at her house and gotten pretty friendly with one of her roommates. Nothing physical but just getting to know each other and a bit of flirting. Now in the last week we've been snapchatting quite a bit, again nothing too risque but definitely some flirting. \n\nI guess my basic question is, what would be the best way to \"escalate\" the relationship? Of course I would be down for a casual hook-up, but I think even better would be to start an actual relationship, which I don't have much experience with.\n \nTangential question: what are some good ways to flirt via text/snapchat that doesn't come across as weird or over-eager?\n\nOr should I just play it cool and not try any escalation until I visit again?\n\nLet me know if more information is necessary, I'll do my best to provide anything.\n\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello! I'[M] 25 and single. I was wondering if you guys could please help me out with some advice on asking a girl out. I met this [F23], Elizabeth (pseudonym), last year at university while she and I were in a one year program together - we never met prior to this. We spent the better part of a year in close proximity, having mutual friends and hanging out. From the moment I saw her I was attracted - she was smart and pretty. Unfortunately, I could never get myself to ask her out. A part of me kept saying she's not interested because I never talked to her everyday, just whenever there was the occasional get together with mutual friends would there be some small talk. With the program over since last December 2014, I have never been able to get her off my mind. I have her on Facebook and I have her cell phone number, but I've never messaged her. I really want to ask her out, but I don't know what to do. Also, she lives in a different city than I do (~45 mins away). What should I do? Your help is greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A well known TV channel has approached me and asked me to be on a special debate show about drugs. They say that it's looking into the therapeutic value of a certain drugs and there will be lots of experts on the show who support legalisation of said drug. \n\nThe producers claim to want to get the opinions from \"The Street\" and say that we'll be given enough time (in an interview with a news-man) to put our own views on the subject across. Everyone in my country takes or has taken this drug and the fact it's illegal when the real social damager alcohol is still available seems pig headed by our government. \n\nI currently run my own business, so answer to no boss. However, although I initially agreed to be in the show I'm now starting to think that I might be misrepresented or that I might regret the whole thing in later life.\n\nOn the plus side, I'd like to be the person who says \"The Emperor's wearing no clothes!\" and stand up and make a statement for the people of my society, who I know think pretty much the same as I do. \n\nSo would you do it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background info: I'm 24 (almost 25), I graduated from college in 2008. I make a decent amount of money at my job; enough that after a couple years of living at my parents' I was able to but myself a house and a nice car. \n\nSo a few days ago a friend asks if I want to see a movie tonight with him and another friend. They both work at the theater and are able to get a guest in free. So I'm assuming I'll be going for free. Today I ask him about it and tells me that he invited another friend and her boyfriend (and claims he invited them first) so they get the free tickets. Mind you I don't think he even asked our other friend if it was cool if they used his guest pass.\n\nThis kind of bugged me so I said something to him about and he responds with something along the lines of \"well they probably won't go if they can't get in free. No offense, but they don't have a lot of money and I feel like you can afford it.\" He also said something about how he wouldn't be going either if he didn't work there because he doesn't have any money either. I won't even get into that one, but let's just say he has another job as well and the only reason he's broke is because he spends frivolously on stupid shit. I kind of just let it go after that.\n\nIt is true that I have more money than the rest of them, but between college loans, car payments, and a mortgage, I'm probably more in debt than the 4 of them combined. \n\nTo me it would make more sense if we all (or at least the 3 guests) to split the cost of one ticket... The funny thing is that if I had been offered the guest pass I probably would have offered it to one of the other two anyway. So maybe it's just an ego thing and I feel slighted. \n\nSo what is it Reddit? Am I greedy? An Egomaniac? Or am I being reasonable?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My little sister is 14 years old and has cerebral palsy. She is functionally fine except for her legs. She's been in a wheel chair most of her life but can walk, albeit not very far, with a frame. My mum is quite overprotective of her and she doesn't go out of the house except for school and the times I take her to the movies or whatnot. \n\nHer only real friend is a kid named Jordan who she only knows because he is the kid of one of my mums friends. He's a few years younger than her and they don't go to the same school.\n\nI live with my girlfriend and don't see my sister as much as I once did but when I went to visit last weekend she told me she was getting bullied at school. Apparently a lot of the kids have taken to calling her a lesbian and this is upsetting her quite a bit. I asked my mum about it and she said it's been going on for awhile and she's spoken to her teachers about it. But this doesn't seem to have done anything.\n\nWe didn't actually discuss whether she was a lesbian or not, apart from the fact that that is just not a conversation I want to have with ANY person that is 11 years my junior, especially not my baby sister it's just not something that really concerns either of us. We've talked about being gay in the past, as our next door neighbors are a gay couple that come over just about every other day, and she is very much of the opinion that it just doesn't matter who you love, as long you're happy.\n\nThere wasn't really a lot of advice I could give her outside of \"aim for the throat\". I too was bullied at school and eventually it stopped because I started to pummel the people doing it, but as you can imagine that's not really something I can tell my sister to do, even if she was actually capable of doing it.\n\nSo basically has anyone got any advice I can give to her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've know this girl (17f) for a few months, let's call her Holly. We've been talking pretty much non stop for those few months. Last month, she told me she loves me (18m). We're not in a relationship necessarily, but I really like her, but we are pretty far away, about 200km. For a girl who claims to be \"in love\" with me, her actions seem very strange to me. \n\nSo she's been going to parties, texting a few guys, having kissed them at parties and whatnot, being very open telling me this. I don't really mind considering we're by no means in a relationship. But here's where I'm a little confused. She tells me she loves me, she has a tinder account and is texting this other guy that lives near her. Does she just like the attention? She's adamant that she loves me and she sees no problem with it. But the guy doesn't know that! He thinks she's only texting him, needless to say she doesn't tell all her tinder matches that she's \"in love\". She's really nice whenever we FaceTime and chat, and I really like her then, but this stuff is just crazy to me. I want to pursue something with her, but really, is it ever worth it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So yeah. My friend (let's call her Casey) has been having a rough time with some personal stuff and I thought I'd invite her to hang out this weekend. She invited me to a play that's happening tonight and I agreed. Well, I started casually seeing this guy (let's call him Jake) about a month ago. We've had a couple dates but we don't talk much and I haven't gotten to hang out with him much lately because I'm busy with finals and projects. So he texted me and asked if I wanted to go to the play with him. \n\nI'm not sure what to do. I technically agreed to go with Casey first, but if I show up with her and we run into each other, it'll be awkward. I don't know if I should invite him to tag along. Casey's recently been having some trouble with a couple of our friends who are dating and keep treating her like a third wheel, so I don't want to do that to her. Not to mention this is supposed to be a \"you're having a rough time so let's have a girls night\" kind of thing. But if I try to explain that to Jake I don't think he'll understand. I'm worried he'll get the impression that I'm not willing to make time for him. He's leaving in about a week and a half and we won't see each other all summer, and I really don't have any free time this weekend at all, so yeah. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello!\n\nI am a 28 year old male that has had ongoing issues hearing people talking, on tv and directly to me. I hear other noises, but talking is somewhat difficult, especially if there is any other noise going on at the same time.\n\ni.e., I'm listening to music on my computer, next to a window that is very minimally open. I'm about 50 or more feet away from the cars driving past, but when they do, my music goes into a muffled sound and I can't make out the words being sung.\n\nAdditionally, talking to people, I'm constantly being asked to repeat myself. I'm also been told to turn the TV down pretty often.\n\nI'm not on any medication that would be causing these issues.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little back story about me, I'm in the Army, have deployed to Afghanistan. So, I'm pretty mature for my age, I've seen a lot and been through quite a bit. I've had only a handful of girlfriends, all which ended pretty violently (verbally). All of them being unfaithful, which is where I'm sure my insecurities stem from. Anywho, onto my girlfriend, we've been together for about a year. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me, she's sweet, caring, knows what to say when to say it, doesn't matter what time of day. The sex is great, we don't violently argue like any of the other girls. She helped me kick my ptsd to the curb, I still have some relapse nightmares. But over all she's amazing, hands down the best girl I've ever been with. However I'm having insecurities with her talking to other guys,I don't bring it up, I don't feel like she should have to deal with something that I'm having an issue with. I would help her through the same thing if the roles were switched but I'd like to try and figure this out by myself first before talking to her about it. She'll bring up that she talked to so and so, and instantly I'll jump to conclusions no matter who it is. One of her crossfit coaches hooked her up with a job interview and I got jealous. No idea why. She's a bit of a social butterfly, always happy, always helping others making them laugh and smile. Which attracts everyone, she sends out a good vibe. She's never done anything wrong, has never shown a sign of being unfaithful. So I'm not really sure why I'm having these feelings. How do you suppose I fix this insecurity of mine?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My kid and his partner were tasked with making marshmallow shooters in their science class. They had to design,build and operate the shooter in class, measuring the distance traveled on a shot, the velocity of the marshmallow, etc. All good.\n\nAs I'm on my way home from work, my son calls me to ask me to pick up some cash to pay for his portion of the project. \"No problem buddy, how much do you need?\" \"$45, my partner spent $90.\" It's due tomorrow.\n\nAm I alone in my WTF reaction? I have the money, that's not the issue. I can easily afford the $45, however I think it's completely outrageious. Spending this kind of cash on an 8th grade science project is completely crazy, and out of proportion to what's supposed to be happening in school. It smacks, to me, of buying a grade. Further, I don't think this is a good intro to engineering, as most people engineering a solution to problem X, have to find a solution within Y time, and under Z budget.\n\nI wrote the science teacher and the principal, and am meeting with the principal tomorrow morning to discuss this. I told the science teacher that my kid is not to be paired with the $90 gun project. We went to Home Depot this morning at 6am, and purchased parts for my kid's own gun, and had the PVC cut for us, for $4.28.\n\nBy way of background, we live in a fairly affluent district. I can't say the overspending really surprised me. I do think this teaches kids out-of-whack priorities and habits.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My sweet sweet 1 year old Female Orange Tabby has developed this unfortunate habit of chasing her tail and chewing it up. And there is blood EVERYWHERE. We took her to the vet, they gave her antibiotics, put on an e-collar, gave us Composure chews and sent us our way after a $300 bill for the check up, an x-ray (to check if her tail is broken - it wasn't), and all the medication and treats. \n\nBut that was a month ago. Now my baby has an e-collar on day in and day out. I try to take it off when I'm home and supervising but it's still on for the majority of the time. I've tried 'weaning' her off the collar but anytime I've left her unsupervised without the collar I come back to the same scene of blood everywhere. To add to this, the e-collar has given her a nasty case of blackheads under her chin. \n\nI don't know what to do! I can't afford to keep going to the vet for expensive tests and they don't seem to be taking the bull by the horns either. The mentioned starting her on anti-anxiety medication or something for OCD. Is this my only option at this point? \n\nHas anyone else had a similar experience? What did you do?\nAlso, what do I do about the acne?\n\nPlease help, I can't keep watching my sweet girl suffer through all these health issues, it's absolutely breaking my heart because she is truly special and wonderful and I love her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello fellow dog lovers,\n\nI have a 3 1/2 year old male Lab mix (have had him since he was a puppy) about 9 months ago my husband and I rescued another dog. We got a male 6-7 year old Lab mix. Fast forward 9 months my two dogs bonded so well! Better than I expected. Now, last week we had to put down our 6-7 year old dog unexpectedly. (That's another long story) Pete (he is the 3 1/2 year old) seemed to handle it okay. He was a little sad for a couple days but my husband and I gave him extra attention, walks, and play time. \nSo Pete seemed to handle that change alright. Well now, today my husband moved out (another long story, we are in the middle of a trial separation). \n\nSo here is my dilemma.... Now a lot has changed, I am having to develop some new routines for Pete. Half his pack has dissapeared in a very short time. I am also very busy right now. I go to school 3 days a week and also work 2-3 days a week. So Pete is also having to adjust to being home alone a lot more.\n\nHe is a very well behaved/trained dog so he isn't doing anything negative while I am gone. He just seems...sad and kind of mopes around. I feel really bad for the guy. So much has changed and I know dogs thrive on routine.\n\nObviously, I am also struggling a little with everything that has happened but I am trying to stay strong for my dog and give him more than normal attention. But it doesn't seem to be enough. \n\nAny help or ideas would be amazing!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I realized tonight that I can't seem to figure out this situation.\n\nI'm transgender (female pronouns), and have been using a new first name since about October. She's very supportive and uses my new name all the time. Sometimes she slips up and uses my old name, but corrects herself right afterwards.\n\nThe problem is when she's upset with me. Every time, without fail, she uses my old name without correcting herself. It feels like shit and makes things worse because it doesn't exactly put me in a mindset to try to resolve things.\n\nI'm recovering from a long period of depression and inactivity and there is A LOT going on in my life right now. I'm trying to stay afloat at a new (wonderful) job, which is difficult after such a long time of inactivity. Coming home, I just want to hide in my room and shut down for a bit. Instead I'm expected to help with anything she wants me to do at a moments notice, and when I say no she gets upset and calls me by my old name. \n\nI told my boyfriend about it and he thinks she does it to hurt me. I found myself coming up with all sorts of excuses for her behavior. She only does it when she's stressed or unfocused. Then again, today she used it three times in a row. When I corrected her, she said \"Sorry.\" in what felt like a rather unapologetic tone. \n\nI need some outside perspective here. I'm looking for rooms to rent to live somewhere else, but I don't know when I'll be able to find anything. Am I being unreasonable when I need time alone, and refuse to drop everything whenever she needs something done? Does habit and stress excuse her from calling me something that's hurtful to me? I really don't know.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I owed a $305 ticket and went to pay it today. Payed 100 cash and wanted to put the rest on debit. Gave them my card and they swiped it, and the machine printed out a receipt then they tell me since the card didn't have my name (It's a Bank of America card that has the companies name on it but my paychecks get loaded onto it) since my name wasn't on it they said they couldn't take it, and had to go to an ATM to withdraw money. Now I go to the ATM but it says I don't have enough even though I did. So I tell them my story about how they swiped my card and canceled it but now I can't access my money, they tell me I have until the 10th to pay it off but sometimes it can take up to 3 days for this all to clear up. Would I get any more fines on top of what I owe if I'm late since it's there fault? They swiped the card and canceled the transaction now I have a $200 thing pending that I can't access.", "role": "user" } ]

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