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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and a really good friend have both gone to uni and we have both realised how much we actually liked the other. Now it's too complicated to organise anything since we live 4 1/2 hours away by train with a cost of around £100. We have always had this 'thing' between us, but I never thought it was anything more than that until we parted - now it's too late. I could really use some advice on what I could do to get over her or meet her, I just don't know what to do. She says we should start seeing other people rather than waiting for 3-4 years, but the thought of her being with someone else kills me and I, for sure, can't see myself with a different person.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For the record i've always been against doing this for obvious reasons.\n\nAnyways- there's an employee at my Family business that i've had my eye on for some time. I don't work there but I come in on a regular basis.\n\nI want to ask her out but never do because:\n\n1. she's busy doing her job whenever i'm there\n\n2. I can't find an opportune private moment that won't make it fucking awkward for her and potentially embarass her (and me)\n\nMy question is.. would it be completely bush league of me to ask her out over a FB message?\n\n... I have always been an in person type of guy but I literally cannot find an appropriate time to ask her out for a drink.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[Original Post](\n\n[Update #1](\n\nI know its been a while but I gave things time to settle down, and I think now is the appropriate time to update for hopefully the final time.\n\nFirst of all I'd like to thank everyone that's commented. I really appreciate it, you have no idea. \n\nSo, we talked. Eventually he answered my texts and told me that he was sorry, he didn't mean to make me worry so much. He was basically having trouble with the distance and his life situation but decided that, in the end, it wasn't a big deal and he wanted to save what we had.\n\nShortly after, he called me on Skype (wow, he never does that. Hallelujah, amirite) and we talked a lot of things over. About how hurt I was, about how stressed he was, and that he'd gotten a new job that was working out really well. It would make it affordable to move in together once he got back on his feet in a few months, and the move date would be less than a year from now. \n\nI asked him if all of our plans were back on, and he said yes. Since then it has been like nothing ever happened. He texts me daily, shows me the drawings he's working on, talks to me about his life goals (one of which is opening his own store). The only time he forgets to text me is if he's at a gaming tournament or otherwise out late. He'll still text me at some point the next day.\n\nI'll admit I'm not entirely sure how to feel about all this. Seems really bizarre (in a wonderful kind of way) to just move past it all so quickly. But, hell, he's even sending me one of the shirts he's worn just to try and make me feel better. He's sent me pictures of apartments for my opinion on where we'll live. He's included me in discussions with his family on yearly vacation spots, asking me where I would want to go if I could go anywhere, because he'd definitely want me with them. \n\nSo... Yay? I'm pretty happy. Just thought I'd update, see if anyone wanted to comment.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend, who I've been with for a quite awhile, has always been I guess a little \"trashy\". I always tried to chalk it up to \"fun-loving\" but recently I'm having a big problem with it. She's the nicest girl, and she's really affectionate, but she likes to drink until she pukes, got a meaningless tattoo that ruined her back, has a tongue and belly ring because her sister said no to nipple rings (real happy about that), and really likes to wear skimpy, revealing clothes. Even if the rest of her roommates are all going out in jeans, she'll put on a skirt that barely covers her ass. Is there a way to explain this to her without really hurting her? Or am I better off finding someone more my type?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dont have a lot of experience when it comes to dating or romance in general. I never had a girlfriend. Because of that I think I might latch onto people that I shouldn't latch onto.\n\nI developed this crush on this girl i met about 6 months ago. She made the first move, by getting drunk and making out with me. I was smitten ever since. When she sobered up however she wasnt so keen on getting together, and strung me along for a few months. However, I eventually got tired of it and forced her to make a decision. She said no, and hooked up with some random dude like a week later. That really hurt. Now I understand all this but I still can't get over her. She can flirt with me a little bit, and I immediately swoon again. I eventually come back to my senses, and then I feel like shit again. repeat\n\nThis is so incredibly frustrating. She's not a terrible person, but logically, I understand she treated me poorly. Logically, I don't think we'd have a good relationship. Logically, I think the only reason I like her is because she is attractive and is the only girl I've ever known who chose me to be the object of her affection for a short period of time. I understand all this and yet I can't get over her. \n\nWhat makes it worse is I have to see this girl a lot because we live in the same apartment complex and our social groups are very intertwined. I made it for 3 and a half months actively avoiding her, but that just made me constantly think of her because I had to ask around to avoid her schedule. After the 3 months, she can still just flirt with me a little bit, and all these dumb feelings come up again. How do I get over this girl once and for all? How do I not care?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend was at the gym when a personal trainer approached her and he said she had a good shape and was working hard but that she was fat and offered to do something about that by giving her free training sessions.\n\nTo me this seems like an intentional put down to make her eventually want to pay for his sessions. She was happy about getting offered free ones, but with her history of bulimia I'm pretty angry that she's being called fat like that by someone who's trying to exploit her.\n\nI had started expressing my concerns but I could tell it was annoying her because she wanted this to be a good thing but I had to get this off my chest and so sent her a message saying the above and that I loved her and it bothered me someone's insulting her like that.\n\nShe hasn't replied to this yet. Am I in the right here or will she be thinking I'm the asshole now?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? \n\ni dont think ive ever really been in a \"healthy\" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I got in trouble last April because my mom found out I had sex. Ever since I haven't been allowed to date. Things were getting better and we were building trust, but then my mom found out in December that I fooled around with this guy on my cruise. \n\nNow I met this amazing guy that I really like and who might like me. There's no way I can have a proper relationship with him without my mom knowing so I have to convince her. He's a christian and a virgin so those are points in his favor but I'm just not sure if she'll let me", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with him for a year and a half and we live with his mother in his family home. \n\nLately he hasn't been putting much effort into us. I'm always the one making plans, only little things, like dinner or a picnic, ect. We don't have sex regularly and that's a common argument starter and that's been going on since last July. I've talked to him about it a few times, just to let him know how it makes me feel. He tries to assure me that it has nothing to do with me, and that he finds me attractive (which I think he does, I get a quick frisking now and again :P)\n\n It was my birthday a few days ago and we started making out and he just turned away. He said he didn't want it to 'lead anywhere'. I almost left him that day because that rejected feeling is just unbearable. I don't want to pressure the guy because it would just scare me the other way round, but on the other hand it's just been pecks and cuddles for a year. \n\nHe mentioned that if I dumped him I'd lose my job, which I would, I work for his father. For him to bring that up when I was upset scared me a little. \n\nI just feel lonely. I don't know what I'm doing wrong and I've asked, he says he's just being 'spacey' or he's in a bad mood. Obviously I love him, I've never loved anyone like I do him. He's a kind guy, and he's very protective of me. What do you suggest I do to try and help this relationship out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I live in a small Apartment building, and I also work the midnight shift, so I sleep during the day. My Neighbors (in my own opinion) make A lot of noise. However, since I sleep during the day, and or sometimes afternoon. I have been on this schedule for quite a while and really have no perspective on whether this is normal \"day time\" noise, or obnoxious and extreme. \nI should also mention that, in lieu of being just a tatletale, I HAVE considered talking to them, but on the few occasions I have run into them outside they have made it clear in no uncertain terms that they want nothing to do with me, and won't make an attempt to be nice. (i.e ignoring my greetings, and moving into the house if I come out for a cigarette, or too sit on the porch and read a book.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I will start this off with what recently happened to me. A car pulled out in front of me on a highway from the driveway of a store without looking. I didn't have enough time to stop but luckily our cars just bumped. After checking that everybody in the car was ok I got out to check the damage (there was none) and talk to the other driver. It was a little old lady who was leaving Sears after buying a black dress for the funeral of a family member. She immediately started crying, apologizing and asking if I had any children in the car. Because there was no damage we parted ways, and I went from being furious with somebody causing an accident to feeling bad for her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My side of this story is as the customer. Sort of. The other day, I was riding shotgun with one of my buddies on the way home from one of our other friend's houses. It was getting close to dinner time, so we decide to get some fast food.\n\nMy friend pulls into a restaurant and drives up to the little intercom thing where the employee's can take your order. Without even waiting for the voice to ask, \"How can I help you today?\" or whatever, my friend says, without any hesitation,\n\n\"Let me get two McChickens, a big-ass sweet tea, and McFlurry, BOUNCE.\"\n\nAnd then immediately drives up to the first window. I'm cracking up at this point, and we are both watching the guy through the window quickly looking around and trying to figure out what happened, as he was somewhat unaware an order had even been placed.\n\nOnce the employee saw the kid with the wife beater and backwards snapback hat on staring expectantly at him through the window, he started laughing and then took his order again.\n\nNot exactly the most exciting or rewarding story, but I was laughing uncontrollably throughout the majority of the whole ordeal.\n\nSo, what are some of your drive-thru stories?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been working together for about 20 hours a week at a very low stress part time job and spend a good amount of time interacting while at work. About two months ago my ex broke up with me and so did hers around the same time, so we were open with how we were feeling and supported each other after the break ups.\n\nSince then we have been been getting closer and I have always had the mindset that she would be a great friend to have and to not start a relationship with her, mostly because I am worried about what baggage we might both carry into it. Both of her previous boyfriends have cheated on her, and I've always told myself after getting out of a relationship where I wasn't trusted that I would find somebody that I know trust won't be an issue.\n\nAs time goes by I am starting to have more feelings for her and I can feel my head trying to rationalize maybe giving a relationship a chance. She has told me that she likes me and I told her I felt the same way, and just recently we hooked up (just making out no sex) after a long day of working together, and I'm looking for any advice you guys can give me! Is it smart to just give it a chance if its something we're both ready for? When would I know if its time or what signs should I look for to tell me its too soon or it wouldn't work?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not quite sure what to do here. One of my big goals in life is to travel to some more exotic places by myself. However, when I told this to my fiancee she reacted very harshly. She pretty much took it as I wanted to leave her behind.\n\nIt isnt that I don't love taking vacations with her, its just that I have a huge problem with putting everyone else's needs before my own. I have been on multiple vacations where after a week, we come to realize that I have bought something for everyone but haven't done anything for myself. I also run into guilt issues where if we are doing something that I wanted to do and she maybe wasn't the most thrilled about it, that I have trouble enjoying the activity and end up just cutting it short so we can leave. \n\nSo one of my life goals was just to travel places on my own, not for a long time, a week or two at most, and just wake up in the morning and pick a direction and just go, not have to worry about what anyone else wants to do or thinks about, just be me!\n\nI have tried having more and more conversations about this and she tried suggesting going someplace together and just taking a day to go off on my own, but she seemed really upset when I told her it wasn't the same. \n\nAny ideas why she is so agaisnt this? I know she is being good with trying to come up with a solution but in our relationship I have sacrificed what I want over and over again and I feel like on this issue I have to make a stand, it is a life dream of mine.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend and I have been together for about 6 months, we are both 21 years old. The relationship has been awesome, we have had minor differences but no huge fights. I know that we are still a fairly young couple, but bear with me. I'm not a very promiscuous guy (I've slept with only one other person before my current girlfriend, and the other person was a girl who I dated for a year). Basically, I don't really sleep around. This weekend, for some reason, I asked my girlfriend for the first time how many guys she has slept with. She told me I was the 9th guy. I was expecting around 3 or 4. To me, she doesn't seem to be the type of girl who sleeps around (I don't even know if 9 guys qualifies as sleeping around). Even in our relationship, being comfortable sexually is something we have had to work on. That's why I was kind of shocked when she told me I was the 9th guy she's slept with. She told me that she used to view sex as not very meaningful, but that it is very different with me. She's told me numerous times that I mean a lot more to her than any other guys ever have. I'm not mad at her, because I know that I can't be mad at her for doing stuff before we even knew each other. I'm just a little uneasy/put off by the number of guys she's been with. Am I being stupid for feeling like this? My apologies for the big block of text, I don't really know how to format these posts well.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So in August I started college, the first few weeks involved all those standard introductionary acitivities. During one of those I met a girl that i instantly took interest in. Later that week we hung out all evening during another activity. I had a great time and think she did aswell. The night ended quite quickly however, I didn't manage to say goodbye etc as the last train was about to leave and ofc I didn't find my bag. I found it and had a couple of minutes to spare, she had moved over to the dancefloor somewhere. I didn't want to risk it and chose to run for the train instead. \n\nSince that night I hadn't seen her and didn't think much about it for quite a while. This week however we walked past eachother on our way to lunch, kind of looked at eachother like a \"hey I recognize you\" type of deal. \n\nStupid as I was I didn't make much of it and kept on walking, leaving me with this kind of excited feeling for some reason, lol. \n\nI am interested in making contact with this girl, though I do not quite know how to do it without feeling like a creep. I mean it has been quite some time since we last spoke, we study on different parts of campus, hence why we havn't really seen eachother. \n\nI do know her name however, could go through facebook, though I feel that is quite a lame way to go about it. With the risk of making myself look like a creep. \n\nAny tips on how I should make my approach? I mean we havn't really met since late August, don't know eachother very well..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend doesn't have a perfect life but he is doing well. He has a great paying job to cover his own expenses, and has life ambitions. He has finished university.\n\nMe, I am in university. I am doing an internship right now that has been abysmal. My mental health has been a trainwreck. I am severely depressed. I have realized, working 9-5, that this is NOOOOOOOOOT for me. This lifestyle is not for me. These jobs are not for me. I am soooo soooo soooooo unhappy with how I am living. I have an office admin internship right now and I absolutely despise it. My degree (a business degree) is really not equipped for other types of work.\n\nMy boyfriend wants\n\na) kids\n\nb) to travel\n\nc) to buy our own home.\n\nI do not think I can provide him these things. In my future, I see under or un-employment. I think at best, I will work part time in a position. My depression probably isn't the only reason I am hating work. It's NOT for my personality. He wants us to have enough money to afford a home, kids, travel......\n\nAnd I can tell you that I probably will never earn enough money to have these things. His salary can't support both of us + kids, and I DO NOT expect him to pay my way thru life.\n\nI am very sad. I think he deserves better. someone he can have these things with.\n\nWe've been together 6 years. I love him to death. He loves me. But I am so depressed (and out of options; tried therapy...failed. Tried therapy AGAIN...failed. Tried meds. Not really helping. Do not have enough money for specialist psychologists or anything else). \n\nI think he is better off without me.\n\nWhat should I do? Set him free so he can pursue this life he wants?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I hope you can help me, Reddit detectives. My great grandmother Marika was born in 1903 just outside of Budapest, Hungary. In 1921, she came to the US via Ellis Island. Sometime between 1903 and 1921, she received a number on her arm. My mother likens it to the numbers received by people at Auschwitz, and she believes it was about 6 digits, and tattooed on her right forearm. It was quite large, perhaps four inches, and written in the elbow-to-wrist direction, as far as my mom remembers. The numbers were sloppy, again similar to those used during the Holocaust. \n\nUnfortunately that's all I know. My days of probing and inquiring came down to soldiers in the area got numbers for identification, but she was not any type of soldier or involved in the military. She refused to speak of the numbers even if asked directly, and no one had a clue where they came from.\n\nOther details: she worked on a farm her entire life, and was the oldest of eight, four born before immigrating to the US, no other siblings had a number. The family was not jewish - I know there is a history of jewish oppression in this region, but my family was Christian. \n\nCan any historians or even Hungarians of Reddit help me out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened in the first night of a 3 day stay in a hostel in Florence. A friend and I stayed in an 8 person room. Our shared bunk was in an isolated corner of the room with an adjacent row of lockers in front. My friend had the top, I was on the bottom. I woke up around 5am to find a Brazilian guy wearing only his tighty-whities sitting at the end of my bed. Freaked out and groggy from sleep I asked him, \"Hello, what are you doing?\". He got up and walked towards me. Starting to get scared, I tried to distant myself from him by moving over in my bed. He thought I was making room for him and he crawled into my bed. He started to cuddle and kiss my neck. I thought about screaming rape and I knew the people in the room would help me and the guy would get into a shitload of trouble. Then I assessed the situation quickly and realised this guy was shitfaced drunk and had no idea what he was doing. I pushed him away and angrily whispered to him to fucking leave. He got irritated, rolled over and passed out. Me being a tiny 5'1\" female trying to kick and shove an average sized guy off my bed was impossible. No matter how hard I slapped and jabbed him, he didn't wake up. The bunk started to rock back and forth from the force of my pushing. My friend on the top bunk woke up and confusedly called my name. I'm pretty sure at this point the whole room was awake and thought we were doing the nasty. About an hour and a half passed and somehow I woke him up. He must have finally sensed my anger and he got up to leave in a bit of a huff. An hour later everyone else in the room checked out early. Later on just as my friend and I were leaving the room to go sight-seeing, I heard him wake up and I caught a glimpse of him embarrassingly peeking over the locker partition. I never saw him again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let's call these people A and R.\nR= my good friend who I met from college. (22)\nA= R's best friend, guy I am currently dating. (22)\nMe= 20\n\nAnyway, R and I started hanging out and talking to each other around December of last year. Eventually I met A in February of this year and we started going on dates in March. We slept together in May...obviously we moved a bit fast but we both didn't really find it an issue. We saw each other a lot, whether it was just the two of us hanging out or the trio all together. In early May, R had to go away for military training for 2 weeks. In those two weeks A and I got pretty close emotionally, with him sharing some personal stuff with me, showing me childhood places of memory, etc. But when R got back...things were different. All of a sudden we see each other maybe once or twice a week instead of the 3 or 4 that we did. We started having sex less. The texting/messaging/effort to talk to me slowed down. Compliments are slowed down as well.\n\nWhile this could be due to outside reasons (he's taking 3 online classes over the summer and working more), part of me is taking wisdom from \"He's Just Not That Into You\" and thinking that if the guy really liked me, he would make more of an effort like he used to- I mean shit...it's been only like 2 months, little early to get bored in a relationship. \n\nThe other day I asked him straight up if he was still interested in pursuing a relationship with me and he seemed taken aback that I thought otherwise. I explained to him how I'm feeling and he thinks I'm worrying too much. I hate to use facebook as an example but when people chat with him on there he replies a lot quicker and more often than if I do so.\n\nAm I worrying too much or is this just a dying ship that I need to hop off of?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When someone thanks me by saying, \"Thank you for your service\" it makes me uncomfortable, as if they had just asked me a personal question I don't quite want to answer. I don't understand why--I cognitively realize they're most likely saying it to acknowledge what we've done, but I never know what to say in response (the socially awkward penguin in me wishes they hadn't said anything). I usually just default to \"Don't mention it\" or if in a more professional scenario, a plain \"You're welcome,\" but that also bothers me (I suppose I feel like that's not a profound enough recognition to something that holds significant weight).\n\nDo other veterans feel this way? Where does the discomfort stem from? Finally, what the hell do you respond with?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys. Throwaway, yadda yadda.\n\nI'm a university student who has been dating the same guy, who I'll call Mark, for almost all of college. We celebrated our 3-yr anniversary in December, and our relationship has been 99% wonderful and fulfilling and positively challenging for the entire time. I love Mark so freaking much, and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I am so in love with him.\n\nUnfortunately, I'm developing a crush on someone outside of my relationship :( I've known this guy, I'll call him Jeff, for awhile but I only recently started to know him a little better. We have mutual friends and see each other every once in awhile, and he is amazing. Jeff is just an overall incredible person, just like Mark.\n\nI feel so guilty. Of course Mark and I have tiny problems to work on just like any couple, but nothing that would make me want to abandon our relationship. I hate that I feel myself blush and get nervous whenever I see Jeff walk into a room. Disclaimer: I would NEVER, and I repeat, EVER cheat on Mark. Furthermore, Jeff knows that I am in a relationship, and even though I suspect he might feel the same about me, he will never pursue me out of respect for my relationship.\n\nPretty much, the only problem I'm having is that I don't know why I am feeling this way. Mark is wonderful and amazing, so why do I care about Jeff? I am graduating soon and me & Mark's relationship will be under a lot of stress as we try to find our footing in the real adult world, so I don't want to be feeling this way.\n\nIs this normal? Why is this happening? Should I tell Mark or just let it be? Should I avoid contact with Jeff? Thank you all so much!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and the ex dated for just shy of 3 years , normal relationship troubles, in the end I was too insecure and she wanted new experiences. We broke up 3 years ago and barely spoke through text and never saw each other in person. She even came to my brothers graduation and we didn't speak.\n\nLast week on thanksgiving eve at our local bar crawl she texts me with a picture of her and my mom and then asked where I was. I told her the next stop of the crawl and she said she would come say hi. When she gets there we just start talking instantly , she was smiling, twirling hair and biting her lip, for her means she is nervous. I lose track of time and her friends start saying they want to go to the next stop. She wants me to come and I reluctantly agree, she is \"forced\" to sit on my lap none of her friends because the car is packed.\n\nAt the next bar , same thing , we just keep talking just sucked into conversation. She has been clearly drunk the whole night and I am pretty tipsy. She says she wants to go home and not wait for her friend to go with, which as I took an opportunity to walk her home since we lived close to each other. As we walk she grabs me and holds me for \"warmth\" . \n\nWe get back to her house and she invites me inside. We go upstairs and start talking for a little , then her friend gets there, she didn't want her friend to make a mistake. So my ex decides Its better I leave. As she sees me out the door , we hugged tightly, as I was turning to go she grabbed my head and gave me on good kiss goodbye.\n\nI asked her the day after what it meant because she has a boyfriend whom she seemed to really like and be happy with. She doesn't fully answer me and tries to just end it with she was drunk. I take it for what it was as a mistake but its bothering me now, why did she do all that to me. I don't need to be with her but that just wasn't fair emotionally and I want to know why it happeenrd..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Being a Redditor, i tend to pick up links a full 24-48 hours before my friends do (read: i probably spend too much time on the internet). \nHowever, some of these friends like to take these pictures and post it on their Facebook profiles claiming ownership for the picture, or leaving an open connotation that it is possibly theirs.\n\nFor example, many of the text message logs from iPhones shore up on my friend's wall, as if he is involved in many of these text conversations themselves.\n\nI recently took action and called him out on it, but was it fair?\n\nIs it okay to rain on other people's parades and their lesser understanding of memes and other internet culture, or just sit back and pretend that they know what theyre doing.\n\nAnother somewhat aggravating situation i find myself in is people using 'trolled' incorrectly. They throw the trolling meme everywhere like its sparkly glitter, when it is obvious they are using it incorrectly. Its frustrating, but i dont want to sound condescending when i correct them.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some background: Been with my girlfriend for 9 months now, 5 of which I've unfortunately been on the other side of the country but we skype once a week. She was visiting her sister who I work with where I live so that's how we met. \nShe lives about 7 hours from me and doesn't drive(yet) so I've been visiting her once a month for weekends(not including said 5 months). \nShes a very shy girl, her sister says she's had a boyfriend before but I doubt it went very far, had a sheltered upbringing.\n\nSo basically I got back home a month ago and went up to visit her for a week. Before I left for those months our 'contact' had included holding hands everywhere, cuddling on her bed, making out and has pretty much stayed the same. \nWhen cuddling she seems very protective, pulling her shirt over her midriff and guarding her chest when we make out(would say I've only barely made 2nd base). \nWe've both said we love each other and mailed each other valentines presents including a card where she wrote: 'you are the most wonderful guy i can't wait to see you again, I love and miss you' etc.\n\nI'm quite inexperienced in this as well as her so I need some help here guys, we both want a long term relationship but I need to get her out of her shell without being too aggressive, I have so little time when we see each other. \nShould I try talking to her? what should I say?\nI am trying to get my company to transfer me to where she lives as there's no way she would work here(town of 20000 vs 1 million) but probably won't happen until this time next year.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For the last 1 year and some months, she's been doing wrong things from my back and hiding it from me. Things like: flerting with other guys, taking semi-nude pictures with her girlfriend, talking with people i've already said i don't want her to talk to, etc. And then, when i ask her if she did any of this, she goes ahead and says \"no\". So i take out my proofs, like \"it's on your fucking phone! I saw it!\". And then she proceeds to complain about me getting too much into her personal live, stalking her and stuff. Well, the only reason i do that is because she keeps fucking up.\n\nNow, she already said to me a million times that she's going to change for better, and that i should give her \"one more last chance\". I honestly already gave her more last chances that i can remember right now. Her last fuckup was flerting with a guy on skype, saying things like \"we should watch this tv show on bed together, i would love it\". This was the last straw to me and now i want to break up, and once again she says she will change. Now, should i give her another chance?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "i broke up with my ex girlfriend of four years in february. quickly after that, i started texting a friend who was going through a similar situation with her boyfriend. we started texting all the time. i usually don't text all that much, but it was at work, after work, first thing in the morning. it's been like that about a month and a half.\n\nafter a lot of sexual tension building up, we ended up sleeping together. we still continued talking just as much with the only difference occasionally talking about sex with each other, instead of sex with other people. we both decided that we would continue having sex when we are able to see each other (we live in different cities) but it hasn't been the focus of our conversations; it does come up with the occasional sext session. we had a very strong connection to begin with after being there for each other during difficult times in both of our lives. there have been times where she's been hot/cold on the sexual stuff, but the amount of texting has remained fairly consistent.\n\nthis weekend things seemed a little off. the amount of texting, and the responses i was getting were different. a lot fewer, slower responses, and they were much shorter, as to not keep the conversation going. that continued through today, and she has nearly stopped talking to me altogether today. she said she's busy and has a lot going on, she does, but she's been busy since we started talking. between work, her ex situation, she had a death in her family, she's always texted, until now. even without the sex, i do miss having somebody to talk to so i stayed occupied after the break up, but i'm trying to give her space.\n\ni have a trip planned to see her this weekend, i have refundable tickets, so it wouldn't be an issue to cancel, but i would like to see her.\n\nafter all of the back story, here are my questions. should i brush off the lack of communication and go with it until it either picks back up again, or becomes the new normal? should i offer to cancel my trip since she is so busy?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello! I'll keep it short.\n\nMe and my EX was togeather for 4 years and the past 6 months had been shit. Everything that could possible go wrong has pritty much happend. Broken up several times, argueing and so on. Pritty much alot of baggage in our relationship.\n\nHowever, we broke up again about 3 weeks ago and this time it's offical so to speak. She broke up with me and I didnt want us to break up. \n\nI've tried to talk to her and convince her that we had a good thing going and just had a ruffpatch(?). \n\nHowever, she keeps telling me she loves me (We even met once and had sex and she cried almost the whole time). But she does not \"believe\" in us anymore.. that things would change and we could have it great once again. \n\nI do believe that we can fix things because our main problem was always communication (We always \"fought\" through text and had serious talks through it also, so alot of missunderstanding etc)\n\nThe thing is even tho she says she does not believe in us anymore, does not want to be with me. She keeps giving me \"hints\" that she regreats it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[This story of a guy who FU by calling a locksmith] reminded me of my own TIFU involving a locked car. This happened several years ago but I'm still going to post it...\n\nI had just started traveling for business and I was in some random Midwest state for a 2-day visit with a customer. Fly in, rental car, hotel, customer, dinner, hotel, customer, airport , home. Two things are important to this story: \n* My rental car was a white, two-door Pontiac\n* It was late fall, almost winter, the weather was getting cold and there had been an overnight freeze/frost that hit the area \n\nSo...I wake up the morning of my customer visit and head out to my rental car. Put the key in the lock to unlock it...key won't turn. The first thing I think is \"Great, the lock is frozen.\" Why I thought this, I don't know...but it sets me up for the FU. \n\nI decide that, since the lock is frozen, I'll just unfreeze it. Go back io my room, grab the ice bucket, fill it with hot water. Proceed to dump it on the car window, hoping that it will get on the lock mechanism and warm it up so I can open it. Try keys again. No joy. Go get another bucket of hot water and repeat. Still no joy. \nAs I'm walking out into the parking lot with my 3rd ice bucket full of hot water, I look across the parking lot. \"wow, another white 2-door rental Pontiac. What are the chances?\" \n\nA light bulb goes on. I walk over to the other car, stick in my key...VOILA. It opens. I glance around...nothing to do here!...and I skedaddle out of the lot as quickly as I can before anyone sees me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The relationship hasn't been working for a while now. Mainly due to a really really rocky start and incompatibility on a few really important things. We would fight constantly and those fights were nasty. Name calling, shouting, insults. And if I tried to go home during a fight, he'd sit on my car to physically keep me from leaving. We both hurt each other a lot. I recognize that it was pretty mutually abusive on an emotional level and while we both wanted to change, we never did. After nearly a year of constant fighting I just couldn't take it anymore and made the call to walk away last night.\n\nThat being said, Ive spent the last two years making this man my life. When we weren't fighting, I loved the person I got to be when I was with him. Not only did I love him with all my heart but his friends, family, and home became my own. On some level I know that going our separate ways is for the best but it feels like the end of the world right now. There is a massive part of me that wants to call and tell him it was all a huge mistake, that the problems we have will all disappear if we love each other enough. I know its not true but it just hurts so badly right now...\n\nI dont know how to stay strong and stay away.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Boyfriend and I have been together 10 months. He was out of town when I realized I was pregnant (I have a copper IUD in, I really don't know how it happened) , in the past we have always discussed what would happen if I got pregnant, and we both agreed that it would be best to get an abortion (I am uninterested in ever having children)\n\nWhen I found out I was pregnant I sort of just panicked and booked the abortion right away, so I didn't consult him about it at all (he was still out of town, and it's not something I wanted to discuss over the phone)... got the abortion, he came home, everything has been great between us since...\n\n...Except I feel guilty for having not told him about it, and now I'm afraid that if I tell him about it, he won't trust me anymore. There's no reason for me not telling him, I just have a hard time with conversations like that, I guess. What should I do now? Can our relationship be salvaged either way? I know I really fucked up and that I should tell him, but I'm really afraid that he'll leave me (which I probably deserve in the first place). Help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [21f] don't like to take my sister [14f] to the dog park with me. How can I explain this to my parents [45f, 47m]? \n\nI do not live with my parents, but I see them on the regular. They live near my apartment and there is a dog park near them. It is one of the few good ones and I have been going there for a few years. \n\nI have a special needs sister who loves dogs. They are her favorite thing in the world. Dogs hate my sister and want nothing to do with her. She is loud, makes sudden movements, and throws herself at any strange dog she sees. \n\nI don't want to bring her anymore. I have friends I meet there, she is bad with dogs, and it is not fun when she is around. I don't want to be a caregiver and it turns time spent with my sister into a super unpleasant experience. \n\nI am not sure how to explain this to my parents. I have stopped bringing my dogs by because my sister is unable to handle pets. They had to rehome a cat she accidentally hurt. \n\nThere are some other issues, but this is the main one. How can I explain to them that I am no longer taking my sister to the dog park? And how can I put up boundaries that are healthy?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone,\n\nI'm currently a 19-year-old college student and I'm finishing up my Associate's degree at a local community college in New York. Because this is a college within the SUNY system, my credits transfer almost perfectly to any of the other institutions within it, which is what I plan on doing.\n\nThe only problem is, campus housing is incredibly expensive. The university I was looking at has relatively inexpensive tuition ($10k/year) but housing will be appx. $1,000/month plus $500/month for the university's mandatory meal plan. \n\nI have a brief credit history (720, ~6 months) but don't plan on moving for about 10 months or so. Mortgages near the university run about $350-$400 a month for smaller, 2 bedroom homes. Obviously, I'd need to pay for insurance, food, electricity, internet, and save money for repairs, but would it be wise or even possible to do this at my age and with my credit history? \n\nI'd rather buy than rent, since it would feel much less like throwing money away, and I plan on staying in the area indefinitely even after I've earned a Bachelor's or Master's degree.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I walked into a fast food place to grab lunch and arrived in the line slightly before a couple of older women. I opened bacon reader to check what's good on reddit while waiting in line. They women were positioned as if they were going to go ahead of me and I planned on letting them. Gentleman thing, you know? \n\nFor the record, I was reading this post: \n\nThe time came and one lady looked at me as if waiting on me and, with phone in hand, I said, \"Go ahead, mam.\" She looked at me with a slightly disgusted look, adjusted her jacket and went forward to order. I can only assume she thought I wanted to take pictures of her butt or something, which definitely was not the case. I still can't reason why I received the response I did.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Writing this from London, feeling completely helpless. Two of my friends are getting married later today near Baton Rouge, Louisiana, and one of the bridesmaids is currently stuck in Memphis due to the bad weather. Her flight was cancelled last night, she's been on stand by for flights all morning. At the moment, Delta are trying to get her on a flight to Atlanta and then on to Baton Rouge, but it won't get her there until very late in the day and there's a good chance she'll miss the wedding. Still not confirmed that she has a place on the plane from Atlanta...\nCan anyone help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been together for a few months now. But we have known each other as friends for almost 7 years. We've spent the better part of these past few months seeing each other, and I feel like our relationship is progressing wonderfully. Because of the fact we knew each other before we started dating, we didn't have the awkward 'trying to decide if you're a homicidal maniac' phase that a new relationship may have. We have a large level of trust and we care for each other very much. \n\nNow, here's where things get complicated... She just graduated university and jobs relative to her degree are few and far between in my city. So we kind of knew that things may be different when she eventually did get a job. She didn't want to move too far from home, but couldn't get a job in the city. She ended up landing a job where she is away for 3 weeks at a time. \n\nThe catch is, that during those 3 weeks communication is going to be very difficult (she is working on boats in the open ocean). So talking to her daily, potentially even weekly is an issue.\n\nWe've talked about it before she left, and we are both interested in making this work. We know it will be hard, and very trying, but we care for each other and truly enjoy the time we spend together. \n\nHave any of you had a situation like this? Do you have any pointers about how to make things work?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me - 31, Him - 31. We had been going out for three months. I know him through his father. He wasn't my type but I was up for hanging out. He called me every day, and we'd talk. He was polite and gentlemanly, just not my type. He offered to pay every time we went out. Then it really annoyed me that he would go on these racist rants. I would very patiently hear him out and offer my opinion, but being black, I realized that, either way, whether hearing him out respectfully or telling him to fuck off it validated his opinion. Every date has ended with a hug and expressed interest in hanging out again. Yet he has never kissed me or expressed further interest other than calling me every day. He was also evasive when it came to him meeting my friends/family and vice versa.\n\nThen I meet another guy (35 y.o.), who is everything I've ever dreamed of and more. He's really smart and accomplished, and he is crazy about me. I don't like to juggle guys, so the first guy I just stopped talking to. It was unclear what we were doing (he gladly pays for dinner yet doesn't make a move) and he seems socially inept. It's been a while since I last talked to guy #1, but he keeps texting, writing and calling. He says he misses talking to and hanging out with me. I'm not even interested in being his friend.\n\nToday I blocked him on FB. But I want to give him a verbal message that it's over. What do I say?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Gimme the goods, Reddit, what's something profound you happened to hear while dropping eaves?\n\nHere's mine:\n\nMy parents were visiting me at school this weekend. The weather was terrible, so all we did was drink and eat. On Saturday night, while killing time in a bar waiting for a dinner reservation, my dad started talking to an old man who happened to be a Vietnam War vet. My dad never talks about his experiences to anyone who doesn't have a military background, so while my mom and boyfriend were giggling and drinking, I had an ear turned towards my dad's conversation. The most he's ever told me about his time in the service was in the 6th grade for a report, and that was a stiff and uncomfortable experience. After talking about building firebases, having bleeding and cracked feet during monsoon season, and all sorts of awe inspiring things I'd never heard him breathe a word of, he told the old man that one of his buddies, who was black (and died in Vietnam), told him:\n\n> You'll know what it's like to be a nigger when you go back home.\n\nSure enough, all the stories my mom told me about my dad being spit on, and having to dig ditches because no one would hire veterans suddenly slid in to place. I've always had a huge amount of respect for my dad for never being racist, despite being caught right in the middle of the civil rights movement (we're talking about a guy who has a foot long scar down his side from being randomly stabbed with a box cutter in his high school for being white), but goddamn. This is something that'll stick with me for the rest of my life.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am not sure if this right place to post this, if it is not I am sorry\n\nOk so I am gonna make this as short as possible.\n\nThis married woman i have been sexual with in the past via a threesome with me and my ex (she was not married at the time) has come back into contact with me as we get to talking she confessed to me that she has had strong feelings for me since our sexual encounter and i confessed the same. She then tells me she is very unhappy in her marriage and regrets it. This goes on for about two months or so and I am falling for her hard she also tells me that she would be lost without me and she cant go a single moment without thinking of me. The confliction comes in because of my moral beliefs and the fact that I don't want to be the sole reason of a divorce.\n\nPlease pardon any errors, I am using my phone to post this and I have huge fingers.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have a close friend of mine of a few years who was talking to me about his girlfriend, and told me a few things. Said not to repeat it to anyone. Fine, no problem.\n\nHowever, a random friend I have mentioned something about the girlfriend along the lines of \"hey shes cute! What do you think?\" (just random guy BS talk), I simply stated that \"you wouldn't really like her I think\".\n\nHe of course, asked why. I replied with \"just some things I was told in confidence, cant say\".\n\nI feel like I screwed up. My friend of course dropped it, and that was it. It's just I feel I should of said something silly, or stupid, to blow it off, not what I did. It was the first thing I could think of without saying anything I shouldn't. Am I just being stupid here? I just feel bad about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit. Need some advice. SO's question is typed up below:\n\nSo today I received a Facebook message from some guy I never met with a bunch of naked pictures of some girl. Then get a message from my sister profusely apologizing. Turns out the pictures he sent me are of her. Now, she is 18, and sent them to him to him a while ago. After discussing it with her, he apparently was blackmailing her into sexual acts or else he would send the pictures to my family. Luckily she stood up to him but now he's going through with his threat. What action can we take against this guy? He is ~27, my sister is 18, all pictures are of her at age 18, so she tells me. We are not in a situation to get a lawyer involved due to her living in an unhealthy environment still - whatever actions can be taken need to be able to be taken by her alone.\n\nIf it helps his Facebook is littered with him openly with drugs/money from selling/etc. The guy is not a good guy at all. It appears as though he is not in school either. We are located in central CT.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throw away for reasons.\n\nI got a notice in the mail today saying that I owe $850 in taxes from 2012.\n\nI somehow missed an entire W2 (I work freelance and have several anywhere from 3-12 employers each year), as well as some 1099-G income! I can see why I got audited or whatever, even just taking the standard deduction. My actual income was nearly double that of my reported income. \n\nLong story, but my dad had me cash a lottery ticket for him for $4000. He gave me a couple hundred to do it, but I'm realizing it was probably a bad call now.\n\n--------------\n\nWelp, now I'm out $850 because they want their refund back + the extra missing taxes. Lesson learned. Luckily, I have money in the bank to pay this off. If I had gotten this notice a year ago, I'd be completely and utterly screwed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[Original Post](\n\nSo he just messaged me an hour ago over facebook telling me he misses me like crazy and that he had already bought plane tickets to come surprise me this weekend but wanted to tell me beforehand in case I'd made any plans. I have absolutely no idea how to feel about this. Of course I'm happy to see him and that he missed me but it feels surreal. Over the past few days I'd been seriously considering splitting from him because I wasn't sure I could take it just being on break, not knowing if he was pursuing other women or if he'd already met someone. I figured it would take him months to come back to me if he did at all, but only Two days? Is this a good sign or should we still take a break form each other, because I'm sure the problems he had before aren't just magically gone. Too many feelings over the past few days for me", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My brother D, is about to make the worst decision of his life. His girlfriend is absolute trash. She's the worst person I've ever met in my entire life. She brought weed and alcohol into my GRANDPARENTS house. He's lived with them for a year. His girlfriend has cheated on him. His girlfriend is stealing what little amount of money he has. They both work at mcdonalds. She's using him for a ride to work. She doesn't let him come over and she's not allowed to my house or our grandparents who lives behind us. \n\nThey've decided that they're gonna move out into an apartment together. In one of the worst neighborhoods in our state. He will most likely be shot, or robbed. His gf will make him pay for everything. They're doing a section 8, or something. Whatever it is it's gonna go on his record and his credits gonna go to crap.\n\nWe've tried multiple times to talk to him and make him realize what's going on and how messed up everything is. I love him but I can't take it anymore. What do I do, reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First time posting here and I'm just looking for some advice or tips about how to healthily move forward in my situation. \n\nI've been with my husband for five years and recently have realized that I am polyamorous. I say recently realized, because it was only during the last few months that I found out there was a word for how I feel, and communities that successfully participate in various degrees of polyamorous relationships, although I've had polyamorous feelings since I was a teenager.\n\nOn the one hand I feel so happy and excited to discover there are others out there who feel the same way about love, sex and relationships that I do! On the other more realistic hand, I feel devastated that when I approached my husband with my thoughts and feelings regarding opening our relationship, he reacted very badly and is firmly, unwaveringly monogamous to the point of saying that the thought of sharing me makes him feel physically sick. \n\nI do not blame him or begrudge him for how he feels, I realize he is entirely justified in his feelings and I threw him a massive curveball with this. I was surprised at his extreme reaction, I thought we were a little more experimental, but we are committed to working things through in marriage therapy together. \n\nI love my husband very deeply and love the life we have built together. We have a very healthy and strong relationship. I have committed to being mono with him compared to being poly without him. I'm just feeling a little lost as to how to 'suppress' this side of myself that I was initially excited to discover, and which makes so much sense to me, for the sake of my marriage. Any words of wisdom would be much appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been together for two years, and before him I only had one other sexual partner, with whom I also never reached orgasm. I've been masturbating for many years without a problem and can always easily get myself off, but it doesn't work when someone else does it to me. My fiance and I have tried everything we can think of; oral, fingering, fingering plus PIV, just PIV. And it all feels really good, but I don't ever feel close to orgasming. The closest I've gotten is fingering+oral, which feels pretty close, but it always reaches a pleasure plateau and I know I won't get off. I recently got my first vibrator, which was awesome when I used it alone, but when I used it during sex and when he used it on me, I had that same plateau experience. Its been very frustrating for me and has led me to feel like something is wrong with me, and I have increasingly had anxiety about it, causing me to enjoy sex less in general. Additionally, my boyfriend is not as sexual as me, and though he is usually willing to have sex when I want, I feel bad about asking knowing that I'm not going to finish; this further adds to my stress about it. I just feel like if I could get off in front of my boyfriend and eventually have him get me off, I would be less stressed about sex. I feel like I'm missing out on an intimate, important part of our relationship. I also think that a huge part of it is a mindset issue for me, and that I'm probably looking at sex in an unhealthy way, but I'm not sure how to look at it differently to reduce the stress. Something we've talked about trying is just having me masturbate in front of him. Does that seem like a good first step? Honestly I'm worried that if we try it that way I suddenly won't be able to get myself off. Anyway, does anyone have any advice about this? Any similar experiences? Thanks a bunch!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex-boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years on and off. And best friends for nearly 5. We decided to break up at the end of May because of distance.\n\nWe love each other, we wanted to get married, but seeing as I don't want to give up my dreams and he is stuck under contract with the military for another 4 years marriage seemed highly unlikely. \n\nI had/have been holding myself back for over a year trying to match my life up with his so I could move to be with him. As much as our relationship was wonderful, our LDR was tearing me apart. He saw this, and decided it was time to end it. Our break up was fairly mutual, we both knew that our relationship was holding us back from growing up. But our feelings never truly left. \n\nBetween the end of May and now, He and I have tried desperately to break contact. I tell him no more, we can't be \"just friends\". So we stop talking, within two weeks one of us will break down and seek out the other. Then we decide to be \"just friends\" because not talking is too painful but this turns into sexting, I love you's, and talking on the phone every night. We spend hours and hours invested in each other. We basically go back to what we were before. \n\nWe decided that we can't do this anymore for the fourth time tonight. It's like a drug addiction and we keep relapsing. How do we end our relationship cleanly despite our feelings?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone. I am a 22 year old male and my 21 year old girlfriend of ~9 months has decided to begin IUD birth control. We have done research on it and along with her Gynecologist she has decided that this is the direction she wants to go. \n\nShe is getting the procedure done today and I'd like to do something nice for her when shes all finished. Does anyone have any experience with IUD's and the procedure associated? I want to know what to expect after the procedure. I know she will be sore and can expect some cramping, but are there any pieces of advice you may have for me as her boyfriend? Any snacks you desperately wanted, over-the-counter things that you HAD to have, etc? I appreciate any feedback about possible gifts/goodies for her or the procedure itself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was at a grocery store last night, picking some stuff up for a date, and I got in line at the express counter, but a man came over and stood in front of me. At first I thought I'd let it go, but then decided to say something, so I said something alone the lines of \"hey, um, sorry, I don't mean to be rude, but I was standing right there when you came over and got in line . . .\"\n\nAnd he let me go in front of him, at first apologizing but then said \"it's not a big deal, you don't have to have a cow about it.\"\n\nFirst of all, WTF is this, 1998? Second, I wasn't having a cow, I was trying to be as polite as possible in letting him know he'd cut me in line. So now I am a little agitated, and said \"well you don't just cut people in line!\" and we got into an argument about whether he knew what he was doing. He said \"fuuuuck yoouuu\" and I said \"fuck you too,\" and he flew off the handle, started calling me a bitch over and over as I was paying for my stuff. It was really, really terrible and I was badly shaken by the end of it.\n\nI know I wasn't nice, it was a bad idea to engage after he made that \"have a cow\" comment, should've given him the benefit of the doubt when he said he didn't see me, and I really didn't need to return the f-bomb he hurled at me. Should've just let it go.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I live with my grandparents and my grandpa is especially intrusive in my life, like at work and who I date. But he has gone too far.\nHe took the laptop, opened Chrome (Its what I use) and went through ALL my history.\n\nHe went though facebook.\n\nHe went though Tumblr.\n\nHe went though Reddit.\n\nOh, he even went though my pay pal!\n\nWhat the fuck? \n\nDo I have no privacy?\n\nHe knows everything I have posted, what I have looked at, and what I do online. \n\nI open chrome and all the \"Top Pages\" are pages I have not been to in a few day (because I am so busy.) \n\nHe has seen all the crazy IAmAs and AskReddits I read. He more than likely went though my facebook messages. \n\nWhat should I do? Should I talk to him? Talk to my grandma? \n\nI already deleted my history and I have cleared out my computer files of \"questionable things\" (no, not porn, memes, I have memes.)\n\nI think he wanted to see if I deleted all the pictures of my ex boyfriend ~~*if you see this, go fuck yourself ;D*~~ and I did but I am kinda pissed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a medical student. In a year, we will be married. In a few more years, we will move to wherever I end up doing my residency (3-4 years). Though staying in our home state is possible, it's unlikely.\n\nShe tried to live away from home once. It was a terrible experience and she only lasted a few months. So I asked her, \"how do you feel about being away from home for a few years during my residency?\" She says she's scared and not sure if she can take it.\n\nNow i'm scared. Residency, especially first year, is time consuming. I'm not sure what to do or think or say. This was something we discussed earlier in our relationship and she just said \"it's no big deal; I need to grow up anyway\".\n\nYeah =/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First of all, thank you for anyone who takes the time to read this and help me with my life a bit. \n\nThe breakdown: I hung out in a romantic context with a girl (17f) around 5 times, we kissed occasionally, nothing more. I'll call her Clara. Clara just got out of a 3 year relationship and told me she wasn't ready to do it again so she ended things. I found out that the real reason is so she can sext other guys with impunity. That sucks and she shouldn't have lied but still totally her decision. There's a lot of other reasons, but long story short, I'm not going to pursue that relationship any further and it kind of just started out of nowhere to begin with. This was 2 months ago.\n\nHowever, her best friend (17f) and I get along really well. I'll call her Grace. Long story short again, I feel great around Grace and things just seems to work between us. Shes honestly just a wonderful human being in general. It's obvious we both really like each other.\n\nThe issue: I want to have a relationship with Grace, but due to this history between Clara and I it seems like I should get another perspective before moving forward. Is it fair, reasonable and acceptable for Grace or myself to pursue a relationship with one another? I don't want to ruin their friendship but I do really like this girl.\n\nIn a properly functioning society the decision might be obvious. But keep in mind, this is high school, and Clara is a very competitive and jealous person that thrives on attention. The relationship that she fostered between was narcissistic in nature and based purely on the fact that she wanted a handsome and successful trophy in her life. I don't believe she is evil, she definitely has her good qualities, but I felt it was important to not overlook her negative ones, especially in this circumstance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey reddit, just wanted to know your opinions on just how transparent it is appropriate to be with your partner. \n\nSo I've been in a relationship for several months now, and things are going beautifully. I love this man and can truly see myself with him in the future. We each have our friend groups and enjoy going out with our respective groups without the other person every once in a while. Well, yesterday another guy in my friend group confessed his love to me. He told me he's loved me for a while now and that, even though he knows I'm in a happy relationship, he just wanted me to know because he had to get it off his chest. He also acknowledged that it was terrible timing and that he does not expect anything to come of it. \n\nMy question to you guys is, do you tell your partners when other people express their attraction to you? It's happened to me a couple times already, with coworkers or acquaintances, where they'll tell me they like me. It's not so much that I feel the need to hide things from my partner, I just honestly don't know if this is something that has to be said every time it happens because it feels like i'm essentially saying \"look at all these guys that want me besides you!\" Even though i'd be very careful in the way i say it, it just seems like it doesn't do anything other than sound like i'm bragging and possibly make him paranoid. Even now it fees weird typing this out because I can't help but feel like others will perceive me as flipping my hair thinking I'm hot shit as I talk about how \"everyone totally wants me.\" Right now i'm leaning towards telling him because we've always been honest and open to each other about everything, but is it really necessary to tell each other about stuff like this every time it happens? \n\nBy the way, my boyfriend knows of this other guy by name but they haven't really hung out before.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met my girlfriend last year whilst travelling in Thailand with some mates. I met her, along with her friends on the beach and got along quite well. Later that evening we all went out together, and I ended up sleeping with my future girlfriend. At the time, this felt like a usual one night stand, but we continued to talk after she added me on Facebook and we met again back in the UK and started dating.\n\nWe still get on great, and even though it is a long distance relationship (both at University) I feel satisfied and happy.\n\nSeveral weeks ago, we had a conversation about out past sexual partners. Turns out she has only had one long term boyfriend and then nothing until she went to Thailand. Whilst travelling, she admitted to sleeping with four guys on one night stands (including me). She said she slept with one guy after meeting me and whilst we were still talking a lot.\n\nFor some reason this really bummed me out and made me feel awkward. Over the last few weeks I kind of accepted it but recently its playing on my mind again. I don't like the fact that four out of her five sexual partners were one night stands, especially when done in such a short time scale on holiday. I don't know, I don't want to upset her but I just find it hard to think about and makes me feel as if she was 'easy' and would go back with any random bloke during the holiday. I understand that I can't think this way, but the whole thing just makes me feel upset. Also, the fact that she slept with someone after me makes me feel even worse. I just feel as if the way we met isn't special at all, in-fact it makes me feel a bit awkward thinking about the way we met.\n\nI don't really know how to handle my thoughts and emotions about the whole thing, because everything else in our relationship is fine and I don't want it to interfere.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I got my rat terrier (Bella) in 2006, she was about 6 months. My parents got her for a early birthday gift. This was my first dog, and I was in 6th grade when I got her. Recently she's been acting different. I know she's old, but I read that rat terrier's life expectancy is 17-24 years old on google. She hasn't been to the vet ever, my parents don't have extra money for vet fees and pills for dogs. Other than that she has been a happy lively gal. Here are some symptoms:\n-Walks slow and responds slow; she barely even does what I tell her to do for a treat like roll over or sit. She just looks at me.\n-she has slipped walking to the kitchen on our tile.\n-She pee's quite frequently on the carpet.\n-She lost most of her front teeth by now and her back molars are rotting. \n-She doesn't run to the door when someone rings the door bell.\n\nI am quite worried about her because she could not make it into the house after a walk this morning, a small step up into the doorway. I am thinking about going to the vet and seeing what's wrong with her this weekend. With my own money, I am a broke college student but I can't bear to see my baby like this. I almost had a panic attack on my way home because my mom didn't come straight home after work. She was left alone. \n\nI've been trying to get outside with her, but shes super slow and just wants to go back inside most of the time.\n\nAlso, I want to have her meals cooked fresh (ground turkey and pumpkin or something like that) because of her lack of teeth.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "so this is a little bit of the old \"le sigh, how do we get teens to care\" and part of it--well, no that's most of it.\n\nI work for a small community organization in Brooklyn, NY and my job is to try to get high school kids involved in our programs and the community (and programs involving them being involved in the community)\n\naside from making our posters say \"come to our super cool program\" and making the background a cat, what else can we do that kids could get interested in? I don't just want programs they come to (yes, those too), but I want them to feel empowered and I want it to be more than JUST because of marketing--though I'm happy to take marketing ideas as well, I'd love getting more people to know that we're doing super cool things \n\nthe community is famously homogeneous but I'd like to avoid pandering to stereotypes ideally I'd like to get the entire community involved in something environmental and local (growing cucumbers for pickling for example), helping clean a local place of worship... \n\nI'm sure others have had lots of experience with things that have worked (or maybe could/could've worked). \nwhat have you got?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Is it wrong that I'm jealous of this one guy my girlfriend talks to? She said how she was irritated by him and barely went online because of how much he buggered her. But now that we're dating she tells me of how theyve been talking and playing games together and shit. Am I being too worried and jealous over nothing? I'm 17, she's 16; relationship is barely one month long. A sidenote, but possibily related is that I have no idea why she would ever have considered me. She liked me, but I was not the ideal teen as I frequented weed, lsd, alcohol, sex and cigarrettes for the shits and giggles (I did not let them define me as a person), while she is a complete lilly as she did not do a single bad thing. I feel as if I don't want to ruin her innocence which might make my heart a little bit more tender.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So a situation came up a couple of months ago where my friend told me she was in a shitty situation and had to move in to a new place. She asked me if I would be able to get a place with her. I've known her for about 10 years and I trust her completely so I told her it would be no problem. I have always had a blast hanging out with her but never felt any feelings towards her since she has always been in a relationship. However, she is now single and some feelings are starting to emerge. \n\nI know these feelings are probably simple infatuation but I can't shake them. Every day I wake up and I think of her. Every night I go to bed I think of her. We haven't moved in yet or set a specific date to move in but I feel that I should bring my feelings up to her before we move in. We will begin looking for places in the next couple of months and I don't want to make the living situation awkward by bringing it up while we are living together and screwing everything up. \n\nI just don't know what to do in this situation. I feel that it wouldn't be fair to her to wait until after we move in to tell her. But I also don't want to lose her as a friend by telling her about my feelings. I know she wants to move out with me because I probably feel like a safe person to move out with but I also don't want to drive myself crazy by keeping these feelings in.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been dating officially for just about a month. So far, everything has been going great. Except for the fact that his ex-girlfriend is worth millions. My boyfriend is the type to point out whether people live in expensive houses or drive nice cars. He pays very close attention to money. He also occasionally brings up how rich she was. \n\nWhen we started seeing each other, they had only been broken up for a mere 3 months. I am nowhere near rich. I actually grew up comfortable, but definitely not rich. I drive a 15 year old car for christ's sake. \n\nThe problem is not that his ex-girlfriend is rich, but that he seems to hold high value to money. I can't help but think that he thinks less of me and compares me to her negatively because I don't have loads of money. He definitely has treated me right so far, but it is still a thought at the back of my head and causes small fights between us.\n\nHas anyone been in this situation? How should I handle my emotions?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [F24] moved overseas for work about 18 months ago, breaking up with my boyfriend of 5 years to do so. I'm convinced the break up was the right thing to do, but it's hit us both very hard and I don't feel ready to move on yet.\n\nWhen I started working at my new job, I immediately noticed that one of my coworkers, Mark [M26] was pretty cute, but didn't give it much more thought. The two of us are the youngest members of our team by a significant margin. We happen to come from the same country, he's been here for about 3 years. There aren't many young single women in my industry, so for the first few months I was swamped with suitors, but Mark (as is proper for a coworker) never showed any sign of interest.\n\nAbout 6 months ago my team moved offices, and I had to start sharing an office with Mark. Naturally we started to casually chat more once we were crammed in the same 12 square yards for 9 hours a day, and I've slowly started to develop an irrational infatuation with him. I get unjustifiably upset if he calls in sick for the day, or even just shows up a little late in the mornings. He's perfectly friendly with me, but has never shown any sign of wanting to have any social interaction outside of a work context (I do meet with other coworkers outside of work sometimes). He's straight but been single the whole time I've been working here.\n\nThis infatuation is stupid, I'm not ready to start dating again, I know that coworkers are totally a no-go zone, he's shown no interest in me, and I don't actually think we'd even be particularly compatible. I haven't let my infatuation get in the way of my work, if anything I'm working longer hours because he tends to leave later than I would otherwise. I know I have to get over him, but I just don't know how to go about it since rationally I don't want to look for or get into any kind of non-platonic relationship with any guy right now. Advice, please!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my now ex had both been very stressed in lite the past few months. I had just gotten laid off and her workload was crazy high.\nShe needs personal space when she is streesed and I need companionship. \nWe couldn't give the other what they needed to help cope.\n\nWe fought a lot. We both wanted to give the other what they needed, but struggled too. This caused even more stress. \nWhen time were good they were amazing though.\n\nThen I screwed up. Booked a flight 3 days before her 30th birthday. Simple missreading of my calander. When I tried to correct the mistake she wouldn't let me. Saying the damage was done. and it wouldnt mean the same even if i did re book it.\nThen we decided to end it. Nether wanted to but we both thought we should.\n\nSince, I can't stop thinking about her. Today was her birthday and all I wanted was to be with her. i miss her smile and laugh and company so much.\n\nAm i deluding myself? Can something work when our needs are so different?\nI feel like we gave up. Didn't try enough... But I also don't want to hurt her any more and cause her stress with my actions and needs. We are working on still being friends. If I ask to give it another try am I being selfish?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi there,\n4 months ago my partner of 5.5 years left me to pursue a relationship with a girl from work. As I know, he didn't actually cheat on me, however in my heart it feels the same--if not worse because he actually PURSUED a relationship, not just sex. He said he regretted it pretty early on but they continued to be together for two months, and not once did he try to contact me to work things out. \n\nIt was short lived, apparently, and he's back saying he fucked up and he realized his mistakes and \"realized\" that what we have is a once in a lifetime sort of thing. I'm hesitant. I feel so hurt and betrayed, and I feel very disillusioned about our relationship in general. I love him and I am still so very much in love with him, but I just don't really feel as though he won't ever experience grass is greener syndrome again. But then again, we are still young and immature with how we handle things so maybe he did really learn?\n\nSo what I'm really asking is to hear about others' experiences with a situation such as this. Is it worth giving him a second chance?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 year now and I feel like we have come to a fork in our relationship. I work abroad in Europe and she is an European citizen, we met at work while she was doing an internship, finishing her bachelor. When her internship finished we still visited each other, when she told me that she wants to do an masters program in Sweden( which is really far for me). We had made an agreement to compromise that if I waited for her for 2 years to finish the master she would come back with me to America.\n\nAfter her coming to visit my family, my parents told me that the feeling they received from her is that she wouldn't come to America after school, and would make excuses to try and keep me in Europe.\n\nI currently am working at a dead end job in Europe and know that I can come back to America and make much more money and be much happier with my life, but it feel so guilty about leaving her since I made a promise that I wouldn't give her up for a job.\n\nWe recently had a big fight and it put a big strain on our relationship, but she apologized and things have been getting to how they were. I'm just confused. My parents and friends tell me I should just do what's right for me, go for the job that I really want.\n\nI still love her, and I know she really loves me.. I just feel leaving her would devastate \n\nWhat should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not really sure what to say but I am really jealous I guess is the right word of bf's porn and Nsfw browsing habits. He will sometimes be in another room and open nsfw links or when I leave he browses stuff.\n\nI'm not comparing myself per se to the women and feeling bad that way, but I have an overwhelming sense of jealousy. It makes me uncomfortable knowing my bf looks at other girls and is attracted to other women. I know I should be fine with this but it makes me uncomfortable a bit, which is fine. BUT I CAN'T GET OVER IT. It's like an obessive negative obsession!\n\nhe will sometimes browse nsfw posts on reddit...when I'm around him but in another room..just looking though not fapping. But even something simple as this bugs me.\n\nI guess its just the fact that he's getting turned on throughout the day by various other women, nsfw pics, etc. and then wanting to be intimate with me later on in the day or he'll just grope me later on....but it makes me feel negative and i'm jealous and I get kind of mad sometimes.\n\nHow do I get over this. It's like a negative obsession I have. :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know how to feel or what to say at the moment.\n\nMy brother sent a FB message including myself, our father, and our uncle. In this message he opens up and confronts our uncle for molesting him when he was younger for about a year, and even introducing him to child pornogrophy. In this lengthy message he explains how it messed with him as a child, and how it stil messes with him today. He says it is the first time he has ever told anybody about it.\n\nThe shocker is that in this message he tells our uncle that he forgives him because he doesn't want to take him away from his 4 kids.\n\nI am having a harder time finding the strength to forgive my uncle for his despicable actions, and am afraid to find out if he has done this to anyone else. \n\nI don't know what to do. Want to honor my brothers wishes of not getting our uncle in trouble, but I can't fathom him getting off scott free, I and just hope so badly he isnt doing this to anyone else, or even his kids.\n\nI'm getting chills just thinking about the next family gathering where I have to talk to, or even just look at my uncle", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met at the movies through our mutual friends. Later, we end up sharing stories and just getting to know each other. Boom. We just had became best friends. I had to admit, I didn't really find her as attracting as I am now. I was just comfortable telling her my how my day went, sometimes competitively play video games together and even going out with our friends. Since Valentine's day, she asked if we could go out to the movies. Thinking other people might show up, just her. As she was getting into my personal space, I did not think at all about her as a friend but as a whole different person. Knowing that I didn't have a Valentine's date before, she wanted to change that and that's where things go wrong. It is now July and we've been going on \"dates\". Out of no where, we have started to say \"I love you\". I'm not sure if this is what I wanted. We're not even considering each other as boyfriend/girlfriend and I'm wondering if I should push ourselves to be less intimate. She has been less open and is not taking as much interest in me. One day I feel like that is the problem and boom, she proves me wrong to just only have me come to that same conclusion. It is just like a roller coaster of wat.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For me, it is very intriguing. I have noticed, within the past 2 years, I have experienced some of the controversial powers and especially as of late. \n\nI have have the most vivid dreams where I toss and turn and go in and out of conscious. I don't know what is reality. Occasionally from people the next day I will get a text asking if I was ok because they had a dream about me. They are the people I have in the dream. \n\nI've only become interested in honing them in recently. A lot of times I start thinking about a person and they text me. I know this could be coincidence if I was talking to the person recently, but sometimes it is very random. One time I just focused on a person for one minute and kept saying over and over in my mind text me and when I gave up, 10 seconds later I received a text from them. Often I get the \"omg I was just thinking of you... or I was just about to call you..\"\n\nAnother time I was in the biggest rage of my life, beyond furious, like I could have murdered someone. I put a hole through my wall. So right after, I was talking to my roommate and all the sudden in the midst of my rage we hear a loud buzzing in my bathroom. An electric razor turned on. Not only was it turned on the button was smashed in and no longer could be turned off. Was this a manifestation of my rage? I have no clue but it definitely can't be explained. \n\nI've taken psychic tests and when I focus and clear my mind I receive scores that are classified as paranormal. I don't know how to classify my experiences: empathy, precognition, telepathy, ESP?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating her for about 4-5 months now and from about the 2nd month I started noticing signs of impending mental health problems. But I ignored them.. I currently am not my normal self lately, I've been sick with a chest infection for 3 weeks, I am tired and can't do anything right. It's affecting my grades in school etc.\n\n* She told me she loved me within 2 months and expected me to say it back, I was super drunk and she was slightly intoxicated , I said I wasn't sure how to go about it because we were still early on in our relationship and I was still working up my feelings. She started making a scene infront of my friends and bawled and then wouldn't move off of the couch and then when i left to go home with my best friend she wouldn't let me go.\n\n* That was the first sign and by the third month it had gotten to the point where she would take 30 minutes to leave even though she knew i had to be up at 5:20 am in the morning. I would always tell her earlier in advance that I was going to bed early and she would still do it.\n\n* She has problems with past self injury and has attempted to end it all before on separate occasions, one time was very close and doctors saved her life.\n\n* I have had her run out of my house at around 3 in the morning when she was upset with me because I didn't want to cuddle and I wanted to sleep. She was also upset because we were talking about her depression. I of course ran after her on the first occasion and walked for half an hour in freezing weather in my pajamas and a shirt.\n\n* She has agreed to go see a psychologist this week, but I am so depressed and numb for the last few weeks that I am just not sure If I can do it any longer. I have just talked to her on the phone and said I need time to think, I'm not sure where to go from here.. \n\n> any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "1. Tinder meetup. \n1. A couple of casual dates. Enjoy each other's company + conversation. Interest is still there in both directions.\n1. Nice restaurant dinner date. Perfect evening + flowing conversation. Interest increasing in both directions.\n1. Home cooked dinner date (at mine) + movie + sex. Having a very nice time with this woman.\n1. Friday evening restaurant dinner date. More easy + deep conversation. Go to a bar for a few wines. Walk her home, hang out for 15 minutes, listen to some music etc. She was visibly tired from a long dayshift so we end the evening. Kiss on the lips good night.\n1. That was over the course of 3 or 4 weeks. I've had complete silence ever since (10 days). She has not blocked me anywhere, just complete lack of response. I kept contact to a minimum once I realised something was not right (we went from daily SMS in the week preceding to nothing). Two days ago I tried calling, no answer so I left a final SMS and plan on leaving the ball in her court. \n\nWhat reasons could she have for going completely silent? \n\nPossibly relevant points: Came out of a 5 year relationship approx 1 year ago. Is very intelligent. I did not detect any signals that her interest was waning.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Today I was on my bfs desktop opening a new tap to look for a calorie counting site to help me lose weight. When u opened the tab it showed his most visited sites. One of them was a BBW porn site, the thumbnail was a big naked woman. Now I'm not a skinny girl by any means. But these women were morbidly obese. He was lying in the bed next to me and I calmly said. \"Oh one of ur top sites is a BBW site, I know u like bigger girls, it's that the type of porn u watch?\"\n\nNow reddit we have been together for 5 years and we are really open with each other. He knows my type of porn is hentai and bondage stuff, he watched and read some of it with me. So I was really caught off guard by his reaction. He totally shut down on me, told me to leave him alone and do what I had to do on the computer and not to ask him about it. His tone was really cold and rude. I said okay and that I didn't mean to upset him and that I hope he could eventually talk to me about because I would like to know. He didn't respond and went and laid down. \n\n For the rest of the day he wouldn't speak to me and eventually just slept for 3 hours with me just playing games on my phone and DS. I had plans tonight with my mom so I finally told him I had to leave and woke him up. He just looked at me and then rolled over and ignored me. 20mins later I told him again and he just looked at me again and didn't respond. So I got up and left. He just texted me asking why I left in such a rush and am always so nosey? \n\nSo I am at a loss here. I was thinking i should just drop it, maybe he was embarrassed. But he knows all my kinks and fetishes I don't understand why he reacted the way he did. What should I do? Should I try talking to him about it and his response?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We dated for 4 years and were FWB for about a year and a half afterwards. We were each other's firsts for almost everything. I've recently started seeing a new guy [20M] and I really think it has potential to go somewhere. Unfortunately, my ex also recently told me that he has started to have feelings for me again (after I essentially \"waited\" for him for a long time). I didn't have the same feelings back so I went no-contact with him yesterday. \n\nToday, I saw that he had blocked me on FB and probably everywhere else. It instantly solidified what was happening and I felt a pang of nostalgia. When will this go away, if ever? He has been in almost half my life and a quarter of them essentially with him. Realistically, I know it's going to be hard to get over your first love and that I will occasionally have these nostalgic and sad thoughts ... but what things can I do to show my new man that he is the one for me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To give a little background, I just recently graduated from a small college on the East Coast. A few weeks ago, I got a letter from VCU notifying me that I need to turn in my transcripts in order to be considered for acceptance. I didn't think anything of it because I didn't apply. Got home from work today and got package in the mail from the same university letting me know I got accepted for the premed program. Not even close to being interested in it. It has all the paperwork you would get if you had gotten accepted from this university. \n\nI am contemplating on accepting it but calling and saying that I am not interested in that specific program and if I can just switch to another. I've lived in that house for over 8 years so there is most certainly nobody else by that name lived there especially with the same middle name. I live in a pretty small neighborhood so there's nobody around me that would have the same name as me as well. It is addressed to my address as well.\n\nI just don't want to get in trouble for fraud or something.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I need honest opinions on how to go about dating someone who is barely underage without ruffling too many feathers. Just to give you a little insight into the situation, we've been talking for about a month now, but haven't gotten into anything too serious yet. I'm a 22 year old male, never really had a serious relationship that lasted longer than a month, and am a virgin. She is 17 years old, turns 18 next summer, and is clearly interested in me. In the past couple of years, I've kind of come out of my ugly duckling stage and become moderately attractive and this girl is one of those that I never would have had a chance with in high school. Smoking body, athletic, and has to fight guys off with a stick. How do I deal with parents? If she's cool with sex, do I go through with it, or do I wait until she's 18 to be safe? What legal, social and emotional ramifications am I looking at? Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My fiance and I have a relationship of 5 years and we're about to get married. I've been completely faithful to him-- I barely even talk to other men. He's an extremely flirtatious guy with tons of gal pals, always making new ones too. \n\nOn our second or third date, we discussed how we've both been brutally hurt by infidelity in past relationships and agreed to enter a strictly monogamous relationship. He told me he found out his ex girlfriend (whom he dated from 16-25) was cheating on him and it destroyed him. I assured him he would never have to go through that again. \n\nAbout a year into our relationship and living together, he started making jokes about my \"other boyfriend\". If I was late coming home, he would ask if I lost track of time at my other boyfriend's house. If I asked him if he's seen a certain piece of clothing of mine, he'd say \"you probably left it at your other boyfriend's house.\" I'd get annoyed and roll my eyes but we'd both laugh it off. \n\nOver the years it became more often, and I started to get annoyed. Now it's ALL THE TIME. It's in response to almost everything I do or ask. He's been much more concerned about his penis size lately too. He's average but he's always asking me about my past and if my other boyfriend is bigger. It's to the point where I think he actually believes I have a side guy. I've told him to stop and that it hurts me. He says \"Don't be so sensitive, I'm only playing with you. You know I trust you.\" It worries me that the more I tell him to stop, the more he does it. \n\nHas anyone else experienced this or have done it to their S/O? I've tried serving it back to him but he just gets a huge kick out of it. I can't tell why he's doing this and why he won't stop. I wonder if it has something to do with how his ex traumatized him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Where to start, well she and I were in a long distance relationship for 3 years. She and I got along pretty well up until the last few months (around November of 2013); we constantly fought and couldn't go a day without something going wrong. We called it off mutually, but we decided that we would still have a Christmas visit like we planned. That was a mistake on my part.\n\nSince we had this visit, I felt like we were going to get back together at some point, obviously we didn't. We tried to be friends, but it was too hard on me, it seemed as if she wanted to have me as her boyfriend, with no obligations to each other what so ever. I expressed the need for space more angrily than I would have normally, but every time she would talk to me it was \"I miss you\" or \"I was thinking about you today\". She would say these things to me then remind me that we were never getting back together. Needless to say talking to her kept me feeling sad; having her as a constant reminder of the past of experience I will never have again.\n\nEver since she and I have broken up, I have always felt sad, can't stop thinking about the stuff we used to do together, and of course, how much time I really spent with her on Skype, League of Legends, in person etc. Because of that visit it's been a bit harder getting over her and to be honest, it's driving me wild since I don't have anyone to do anything with or really any hobbies to fill my time.\n\nSo I guess here is my question to you r/Relationships, how do I go about moving on and filling my time? How do I go about dating again? for three years I was used to one person, and now I don't even know how to flirt it feels like.\n\nEdit: Pretty sure she and I are done talking because of how I asked for space from her. I apologized today via Facebook Messenger, but I'm sure she's not going to reply or bother to read it if she sees it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I remember there being a famous case in the American judicial system regarding pornography, and I think it was the judge that, when asked what constituted pornography/obscenity, he said something along the lines of, I don't know how to describe it, but I know it when I see it.\n\nThis is honestly how I feel about fiction/literature, etc. When I walk into a Barnes & Noble and go to the fiction section, I find one book and think, definitely literature, and yet I find another, like \"A Visit From the Goon Squad\" for instance, and the word literature just does not come to mind. \n\nNow, \"A Visit From The Goon Squad\" was pretty highly regarded in many literary critic circles, but I read it and just did not feel that it had anywhere near the depth I was expecting, and so I'm prompted with this question, of what defines literature from just fiction? Because objectively, I think \"A Visit From the Goon Squad\" is considered literature, so I need to understand what makes it so.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I knew this person in high school and we were both interested in each other. It never worked out although I have had dreams about this person ever since (8 years of dreams). They aren't sexual dreams, but this is really, really wearing on me. In the dreams I am very happy to be with her and when I wake up I am devastated. The worst part is that I am currently in a relationship and know that this other girl is single. I went for lunch with her a little over a year ago to see how she was doing and we seemed to both enjoy ourselves. I have not pursued this relationship because I am in a fairly good relationship and feel delusional thinking this \"dream\" relationship could work out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been a Pharmacy tech for years now and still am in school, doing pre-med now. Got a new job that will cover ALL pharmacy school expenses and will give me a stable and well paying job as soon as done. Or I continue with pre-med and become an MD, which I feel like I will love more, but still requires years and years...\n\nWith both I am confident I will be good enough with studying, but one will be completely payed off and with the other I will need to take out a huge loan since I won't want to take away the time form my studies and work.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not using a throwaway because who gives a fuck\n\nA while ago my (ex)gf of around 7 months cheated on me.\n\n Now, I understand that I need to get over it, and I pretty much have, my problem is trusting my now girlfriend, lets just call her S, because she goes to a different school around 30 min away from me, and lives that far away too. She has a \"party\" background, while I on the other hand don't.\n\nHowever, she says the partying days are pretty much done, but I suspect that is because she goes to an online school, but that will change at the beginning of next year when she'll go back to a real high school because it looks better to graduate from.\n\nLike today she, without telling me, went to a \"pool party\" as she put it, that consisted of her, 2 of her friends (both girls, and 4 guys. That made me extremely unsettled. Am I over reacting, or am I justified in being unsettled by this? I feel weak and insecure when I keep telling myself that I shouldn't be. Any advice on how to get over this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let me preface this by stating that I know virtually nothing about investing/the stock market, and I have unfortunately not been faced with \"real life\" yet, therefore I am not too great with money management--but I'm trying.\n\nI am a recent college graduate (graduated with zero student debt) who is currently unemployed. I have an unpaid internship lined up with very good prospects that it will turn into a paid position after I complete it, and am actively searching for other part-time work to supplement income in the mean time. I am currently living off of a monthly allowance that my parents send me until I secure a job (covers rent and utilities, but barely any left over). I have about ~$800 in credit card debt due to me being financially stupid.\n\nRecently I remembered that as a child my parents set aside about 2k in (I think) a Charles Schwab account for me to \"invest,\" but really didn't offer much guidance and it's never actively been invested. I know it existed in my name, but the last time I spoke to my parents about it I was probably ~15 years old (my dad gave me some papers about it, but I don't know where they are).\n\nAnyways, my goal this year is to become fully self-sufficient and pay off my credit card debt in full, as well as building savings and being overall more financially intelligent. \n\nMy question is, should I seek out this 2k and use it to pay off my credit debt? I considered withdrawing it all (I've inquired to my dad regarding getting more information about it), paying off my debt, taking care of some car repairs I've been putting off, and then starting a savings/emergency fund. Is this a good idea?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just got into my first serious relationship with my new girlfriend (I'm kind of shy). Been seeing her about once a week for roughly 5-6 weeks now and we've been messaging each other multiple times everyday since the first date and only recently started being exclusive. We can be ourselves around each other and can talk about anything. However I don't think I'm experiencing that rush of love, that head over heels feeling that some people seem to have. Is this normal? Do some people just don't go through this phase? Is it because we only see each other about once a week (she lives almost an hour away)? We've been very intimate but haven't had sex yet.\n \nAlthough we can be ourselves with each other and talk about anything, we don't have that much shared hobbies (as far as I know at least). However that shouldn't be that weird since some people have good relationships this way (including some of my friends). Could this be why? If so what are some ways to get around this? \n \nFinally, how do I keep her interested and the relationship fresh? Spontaneous dates? Just be myself?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my Bf for a little over a year and things are not as HOT as they first were. For instance I always kiss him. He never just grabs me and kisses me. I've been yearning for him to take initiative. He doesn't hold me or any thing that you would consider romantic. I don't know what's wrong. Is it me? Is It him? I've been thinking hard about what I can do to change this. I'm actually sitting next to him with my legs on his and all he does is poke them. He doesn't grab them or massage them. We are watching TV it's been 4 hrs and no touching or kissing has occured. I'm falling apart I think I am the problem. I can't bring myself to tell him how I feel. I am afraid....plus I think it's common to be intimate with your gf. I don't think I need to ask for it. This has been going on for weeks now and it's driving me away. Last night I dreamed about getting intimate by one of my Co - worker's I have no interest in. It's the passion I lack in my relationship that I'm craving. I guess I need help with communicating this with him. Any advice? Similar stories? How to get past this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My shih tzu has always been difficult to train, but I acknowledge in the beginning it was human error. Mia was our second dog (our first dog practically trained himself) and neither or my parents had previously had dogs. We tried to do what we did with out first dog, but she didn't learn. It has taken her 2 years to be house trained (and even now she only does it 90% of the time, and if she is left alone with out our other dog she will have an accident because seperation anxiety). There is a lot we have to work on with her (she is very stubborn and not always the brightest). Right now my biggest problem is biting. She was always a nippy puppy but so was our other dog. She started by nipping as a puppy during play time, well it's not really nipping, she would just put her teeth on us. Eventually she started doing this harder and once I would end up with small scratches after play time, I realized we had to change what we were doing. I started the no bite rule (which my sister has a hard time abiding by but she finally is listening). Mia is not allowed to bite, when she is excited she puts her teeth on you, she does this every time I come home, I started ignoring her unless she brought a toy (this started to become less of a problem now). I thought all was going well until my brother came home to visit (after a few days in) he went to give her a kiss she bit his lip breaking the skin. I am really worried because if she does this to some random stranger on the street it can be grounds to put her down (I realize this doesn't happen often with a small dog but its always a possibility). Also she doesn't show warning signs of when she's upset or doesn't want us to do something. She doesn't growl as a warning and there are no body signs (my brother worked in an animal shelter and learned all about body signs and he didn't see anything). When she bites I will yelp and say no sternly, sometimes I bop her nose. What else can I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello, I was informed I should cross-post this here.\n\nI live in Texas, and I'm sitting in my study at 1 AM playing a computer game when there is a knock on my door. Now, I don't live in the best part of town, and I'm somewhat of a paranoid man, so I refuse to open the door not knowing whether he was actually an officer or not (It also didn't help that I had no peep-hole and no way to see if he was who he said he was). The officer then claims he is responding to a call about unattended children and wants to come in and look around. I tell him there are no children here but informed him that \"I'd be happy to let you in if you have a warrant, but without one I do not give permission to enter my home.\" He then informs me that on a welfare call he does not need a warrant to enter my home and then threatens to break the door down. I stand my ground and tell him he may not enter without a warrant, which is followed by silence. In this time I go to another room and look out of the window, see the badge and gun, and then go outside to meet him. It turns out the caller hadn't given him the full address and he was at the wrong place. He then (in a very polite and respectful manner) informs me he does not need a warrant to enter my home on a welfare call.\n\nReddit, is this true? If so, then what are my rights if this happens again? Care to expand my knowledge (and most likely that of others) of what to do in this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ive met these friends at gatherings before like birthdays and engagements, all was fine and I had no issue with my bf having a \"boys night out\" from time to time. I don't like clubbing myself and I know my bf doesn't dance but I thought it was his social activity. \n\nWell last month they were going clubbing as they normally do and I decided to tag along. The things I saw them do was terrifying. Some of these guys have girlfriends!. These are guys in their 30's and they were dry humping young girls who looked not much older than 16, Im guessing teenagers who just turned 18 were having too much alcohol to hold down. If the security guard didn't interfere I'm pretty sure 3 of the guys would end up having sex with the same girl on the dance floor or who knows they might of all joined in. \n\nThis wasn't a boys night out their main and only aim was trying to hook up with randoms, but it wasn't one on one type hook up. 2 or 3 of them would be making out with the same girl the other 2 would be humping really aggressively against another drunk young girl, I'm guessing they were trying to get some \"group activity\" going. \n\nI couldn't believe this was what they f*ing called \"boys night out\". Bf said \"yeah they get a little out of hand sometimes but they're not hurting anyone, its all consensual\" \n\nI started wondering what it is my bf does when I'm not around since he doesn't dance and his buddies are all busy trying to hookup with the same person. Does he just sit quietly in the corner and drink or does he join them ? \n\nHe has cheated on me before, he kissed a girl at one of his friends birthday party and I only found out through a mutual friend. We took a break and tried to rebuild trust and its been good. But now he wants to go clubbing this weekend with the \"boys\" again. \n\nI don't want him to go. Am I being controlling ? Do I have a right to ask him not to put himself in that situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a 24 year old male, I live with my SO right now the UK, and we are both from the US. I have to return to the US very soon while she remains here for another 6 months. The real problem though is that we are moving back to different states and don't think we will ever live in the same place again. Other than that we have a wonderful relationship. We have pretty much accepted that we have to break-up unless we want to be long distance for years. \nSo are there any other Redditors out there who have ended a relationship for logistical reasons? How did it go? Did you remain friends? Did you get back together? \nThanks for sharing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is going to be short because there isn't much to it, I just don't like hurting people's feelings.\n\nSo my boyfriend lived with his twin brother and his twin brother's girlfriend (who is also my friend) at her mother's house for a few months because their parents are crazy and the boys needed to get out ASAP. Well my boyfriend and i got a puppy when he moved in with Mrs. Cindy (my friend's mom) and she's absolutely crazy about him, she loves him so much. \n\nThe problem is that she's soooo irresponsible. So many times she would leave the door open and he'd get out, she always forgets to feed her own cat, and she would never take him or my friend's dog out to go to the bathroom because \"it's too cold\". Well my boyfriend and I finally found our own place and have been living here for a month and next month the four of us are going to a wedding out of town and my boyfriend and I were going to put him in doggy daycare but Mrs. Cindy said she wanted to watch him and is now under the impression that she is, she's even texting me about how excited she is. There is no way I feel safe with her watching him for a couple nights when it's just her, he's still a puppy and doesn't even listen to her. What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all, I'll try and make this quick! \n\nSo my dog is laid up with a ligament tear, and has been for about 10 weeks. She's obviously sick of being cooped up, but for the most part has been entirely chill about the whole process, but I was expecting a bit of a backslide in her training. \n\nRecently (last two weeks) she's been barking at people she doesn't recognize when I'm walking her to the bathroom at night. To be fair, this is a relatively new apartment/ area for her, and she's been laid up and hasn't been able to explore/ meet the neighbors.\n\n It usually goes down like so: Milly sees a person in the distance and goes on alert (ears up, tail up, eyes focused). I usually at this point try to distract her with a, \"Hey, Milly, it's just our neighbor. thanks for letting me know they are there!\" If they keep walking toward us, or we keep walking toward them, she usually breaks into the crazy greeting dance of her people (total wiggle butt, hoping side to side, ears up but relaxed). We're working on a more relaxed greeting. At this point I usually make her sit and stay by my side until she calms down. \nWell, if they don't move toward us (fair enough when she's clearly on alert), or she isn't allowed to get closer/ investigate she will bark. Not a low bark, but a higher \"hey, you! Friend?\" kind of bark. At this point I say, \"enough\" sternly and work with her until she will heel beside me and then we sit calmly once she's away from the stimulus. Once she completely calms down and has listened she gets a \"thank you\" and a treat. I have a feeling this will go away once she has a chance to run/ play/ explore/ say hi to the neighbors and get some energy out, but maybe not, and I would like to curb the habit of barking at people, especially because she is rather large (in comparison to most dogs in the building) and sometimes she barks at people that already seem afraid of her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been friends for about 4(ish?) years. We've always been pretty close. Unfortunately, whenever he gets a girlfriend he starts ignoring me. This time is worse than usual though, since we're both in college in different states.\n\nBasically, this summer we took a class at my school (cheaper for him since his school is out of state) and he stayed at my house (because gas). Class lasts a month. When the class ends, he goes back to school and I pretty much haven't heard from him since. \n\nIts been a month, and I've tried texting him and calling him but he ignores me. He called once to say he was sorry and make excuses (he's \"busy\") and he referenced things I told him in my text messages, so obviously he's reading them, but just not bothering to respond.\n\nI just don't understand what's going on with him. I go from talking to him every day to being completely cut off. I can't just talk to him about it because he'll just ignore me. I don't know if its because he's got a gf now so he doesn't need meanymore, or if we're just doing the whole \"growing apart\" thing way more rapidly than I expected. \n\nI really just want to get some perspective on this, because its really upsetting me. Also, last school year he didn't have a girlfriend and we talked pretty much every day. So I'm just assuming this has something to do with her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Things have been strained for a long time. We never quite found our relationship footing again after my dad was in an accident and I was a wreck, but the problems we have are long standing ones. He has a lot of anxiety and depression issues that are at the core of a lot of our problems, and we're both extremely stubborn.\n\nI don't feel like I can ask him for things, whether it's money for groceries or shared household goods or for an ear to hear about my day. We get frustrated with each others' foibles and it's eclipsed the good we used to see in each other. Overall, we had a really solid relationship, but over time a million little things seem to have undermined it. I'm happy being content, but he wants the spark we used to have at the beginning, which I think is unreasonable to expect to continue after years. I want to grow and change and develop a life together, but I don't trust him to make changes.\n\nAll that being said, I love him very much, and it hurts me to see him hurting, but I don't know that we can keep going the way we are. We are both hesitant to end things, but I feel like it's the right thing to do. I want to save it, but I also want to end it, and I'm so lost and torn. Maybe if we took a break and reconvened? I don't know what to do. \n\nHow do you know when it's really over?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating my gf for 11 months now and for a while I've been commuting 3.5 hours on 4 day weekends to stay at her place while I was in grad school. Now that we spend all days together, we seem to bicker a lot. In addition to the bickering, we'll have long 2+ hour arguments (at least once a week. Sometimes 2 days in a row) that always, ALWAYS end with me thinking \"this is fucking crazy\" and just apologizing and eating my words and feelings to settle down the argument. \n\nIn 11 months, I don't think once she's started the compromise/apology/or anything to end the argument. She thinks I'm generally selfish and that I \"paint her out to be a bitch.\" And sometimes she'll straight up lecture me like I'm a child. \n\nIt's really hard to always have to be the first one to say sorry. And then take the blame for the whole argument. \n\nSometimes she even throws stuff when she's really mad. I'm also beginning to think she doesn't respect me at all. \n\nThe worst part is - I'm TERRIFIED of being alone. Before I met her, I had no real friends, no life, I spent way too much time on the computer. With her, I can be engaged soon, be living with her in an apt, have a dog (her awesome dog), and cool friends (her really nice friends). Without her, I'd live at my parents for a while, have very rare hangouts with very few friends, be lonely as hell. She's a great package deal. And the thing is, I really don't think I could do better than her at all. She's beautiful, smart, and when we do get along, it's like a fairy tale. We have a real strong connection and compatibility when we're getting along which is about 85% of the time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm turning 28, recently moved to a new city, and as I've had to start my social circle over (from moving and starting a new job) and I've been getting these overwhelming feelings of \"oh shit, I'm going to die some day.\"\n\nI realize I started to take on a lot of worry, like what if this new job doesn't work out, or what if I can't afford my apartment? I'm now older than my father was when he married my mother and had me, and that thought FREAKS me out! I look at my girlfriend everyday (she moved with me) and see us growing old together, but at the same time I see us being young together. Then I see my grandparents, and their lives and having kids HOLY CRAP its just all so crazy.\n\nI guess, I don't know what to do with this certain awareness of reality now. Time, age, life. This shit is going by fast! It's scary! How do you all deal with these deep existential realizations? Any tips to just live in the moment and enjoy? (I'm trying!)\nThank you!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not going to bore you but attempt to be straight to the point. \n\nI've been with her around 4 months now and I've met 2 of her children (13M/4M) and I know they're quite young and probably don't understand relationships yet but they're perfectly fine with it and welcome me with open arms (well, the 13 year old anyways, get on with him really well whereas the 4 year old just want to play all the time)\n\nAnyways, only 1 problem is that she has a 21M son who lives away at university most of the year but has been home for the past 15 days or so.\n\nNow I've gotten to see my girlfriend on occasions but not as much because of him being around, but the problem is she's afraid he'll go off the rails if he finds out about me with me being the same age. She said she feels so close to me and can't leave me because it'd break her heart but she's fighting a huge battle in my opinion and I don't want her to lose her son. The last thing I want to cause is a family rift. \n\nI want to be with her so much and I can't decide what to do or what to suggest to her. \n\nCan anybody help or advise me on what I could say/do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey, here is a brief summary of our current situation. So I have been friends with this girl for almost a year. This semester (I am in 3rd year university) I haven't been able to get her off my mind. She has had an on and off relationship, but still I am the guy she turns to on a regular basis. I buy her drinks, food (when we go out in a group), walk her home, ect. My friends all see that I like her, and they like hanging out with here (which is a major thing her on and off guy's friends don't). Recently, I have been more forward especially since she is ~= off with the other guy. I sent this message and got this reply. It went better than I expected. Reddit, am I still friendzoned, or do you think she knows I was asking her out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend keeps getting physical with me when he's upset. The first time he really injured me was just a few days ago and it took me until tonight to talk to him about it.\n\nHe pinched and twisted my fingers until I started crying and asking him \"why would you do this to me?\". Yes, I was purposely annoying him while he was driving (touching his face) but I thought I was being playful and goofy. \n\nWhen I brought it up with him tonight he made it clear he meant to hurt me and offered justification rather than an apology. Finally after I explained \"You are my boyfriend. You should never want to hurt me. You should feel awful if you hurt me. You should be upset at the thought of me being hurt\" he apologized and I thought it had sunk in.\n\nJust a little while ago I was teasing him and he dug his fingers into the back of my head, pushing me down. He did this in front of a mutual friend which makes me think he doesn't realize the gravity of what he's doing.\n\nWe do horse around a lot but if someone expresses they are hurt it stops immediately. This feels different. This feels like he's purposely hurting me, even if it's not overly violent.\n\nAm I over reacting? I've never had a boyfriend behave like this with me before. I don't know how to approach this subject considering we just talked about it.\n\nWe've been together for 2 years and he's never behaved like this in the past but I have no intentions of putting up with this in the future/letting it evolve.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I live at home and work at a job I'm not too crazy about. I've been applying to jobs I want for 2 years now, with 0 luck...I spend hours on my cover letter (even researching organization mission statements), I tailor my resume, I research the recruiter's name (but not always)...but everything feels like a dead-end. I think its because my current job is at the bottom of the totem pole and isn't related to what I want to do. I have 2 degrees and I've started a hobby website related to my career interests, but so far, still no luck.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're 28, living together for a year, together for almost two years now, known each other for several years. We love each other deeply and have no major issues. Marriage is often discussed.\n\nMy argument: \nI do not ever want children, and unless something neurological drastically changes, I doubt that I will change my mind. I do not like children, do not want to spend money on them, and do not feel rewarded by the time I spend with them.\n\nI am considering getting my tubes tied at some point (in the next five years), and currently have an IUD.\n\nHis argument: My boyfriend thinks that I will love children if they have my genes. I suspect he is right: if somehow someone forced me to have children, I would probably love it, because it is helpless and it needs someone to love it, and it is mine after all.\n\nBF says my life won't be ruined as he will be the SAHD, will make sure we have plenty of money socked away pregnancy.\n\nMy Offer: I told him that before we turn 30, he has to spend a week caring for a child. And if he still wants a child, we will have another talk. It's possible my biological clock will somehow kick in, but it is unlikely.\n\nHis Offer: BF says he will essentially be a single father if he has to, and raise the child by himself with a donated ovum/surrogate. But he doesn't want to leave me. This seems absurd to me, because if I am with him, I will be the secondary caregiver. His life will be different; he will presumably be a different person.\n\n\"We will work things out somehow,\" is his refrain. He doesn't want to think about how much of a dealbreaker this issue is.\n\nQuestions: Is it time for us to break up, or do I really need to wait the extra two years? Is my BF's offer reasonable, or could it never work?\n\nI am very grateful for any responses, and if you need any more details, let me know.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So the title might seem strange but trust me it sounds less weird in a larger description. Anyways I go to a Catholic military school. We have this huge formal dance and I have to bring someone from the sister school. So I think I know who I would like to ask, but how can I even start talking to her again. We used to be friends 2 years ago. But we kind of just went different ways. Funny how we both ended up going to the same joint schools after going to public school together for a while. But to the point, how can I start talking to her again? The schools only see each other 4 times over the year. I don't want to start an awkward message online either. What should I do? (Also this would probably only be for the dance I don't really have time during the day for a solid relationship since I have practice twice a day from 4 am to 6 am then 4pm until 6pm but if the chance came then maybe ages Me:17 Her:17)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys first off thanks for reading.\n\nI've been dating this girl I met for sometime now and I know she is hinting me that she wants to more than date and be exclusive.\n\nI am having a hard time deciding what to do and was wondering if I can get your help. I think my biggest issue is that my last relationship ended badly by my ex cheating on me so I might be having some trust issues. The issue with this new girl is something she said she wanted me to know because she wants to be honest about everything with me?\n\nTurns out she is still friends with one of her on and off dates who sometimes happen to hang out with her and crash in her bed when he's tired. Tell me I'm not being crazy thinking this is not ok?\n\nShe tells me she has no feelings for him anymore but tells me he's the time to always flirt with her but she knows he is joking about it. Personally when she gave me examples it sounded like he was still into her.\n\nShe keeps telling me that if he is a problem she won't hangout with him anymore etc etc But I never really gave her any answers since I wanted some time to process all this. \n\nCan you guys give me some advice on how to handle this? Should I even bother and just move on?\n\nThank you for reading.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So basically, the other night I was convinced to host a little get together at my apartment with me and just 10 or 15 of my really close buddies. Some of these people I've been great friends with since elementary school, others I met freshman year here at college, basically all dudes that I would trust with any of my personal belongings. And I'm just the type of person that, if I get convinced to entertain my friends for a night, I have no problem with going the extra mile, hooking up the good sound system, etc. Well, part of that sound system included my $400 tablet that I use to stream music. \n\nAnyway, fast forwarding a few hours...we're all having a good time, everyone's buzzed, laughing, dancing, and people start to rotate picking songs by plugging in their own devices. I paid no mind to it because I figured my tablet was just sitting right next to the speakers, whatever. This was until I went to go look for it later in the night and couldn't find it anywhere. So it got jacked. I don't know why I needed to provide so much detail, but yeah.\n\nThere were only 3 people that I didn't know (and they came with my really good friend) so I figured they'd be cool. I talked to the guy who's better friends with them and he sympathized, asked them for me, and all of them deny anything. I'm 99.9% sure none of my good friends would do something like this to me, but I'm not sure what else I can do to get to the bottom of this. I don't want to question the people my friends hang out with because it's entirely possible this is just a huge understanding; but if it's not, and these strangers DIDN'T take it, the alternative explanation is something I never hoped I'd have to deal with.", "role": "user" } ]

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