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"content": "Last year I [24F]met my friend, let's call him Finn [22M]. Finn works full time in the Navy and was home for leave around Thanksgiving last year. \n\nWe met at a mutual friend's house and immediately hit it off. He added me on Facebook and asked me to visit one more time (on his last day of leave). I made the trip and it was a great night. I figured that was the last of it. A few weeks go by and Finn messages me on Facebook, inviting me to visit him. He is stationed in Hawaii. I agreed. I mean, Hawaii?! Fuck yeah! I stayed with Finn for 10 days in which I was wined and dined. Yes there was a lot of sex, but there was a lot of personal interaction I never anticipated.\n\n Fast forward almost a year to this week. I visited Finn at his parents' house for a few days. Not only did I meet his family and have dinner with them, but I was also given a present. From conversation with his brother I knew he had told them about me previously. To top it off, his mom added me on Facebook. I like to believe if I were in a relationship, I would know, and it would be established. However, my friends think what Finn and I have is more than a friend's with benefits arrangement. What's really going on? I'm really confused.",
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"content": "I've dated several people in the last year and it always seems that when it gets to a certain point, I blow it. I've been seeing this girl lately who I've known for a long time, and she recently moved back to our hometown. I feel like I'm probably putting more pressure on myself than I should because we haven't discussed the bf/gf title at all. I don't think that we should have to necessarily have that talk either, but I just feel like there is a certain uncertainty in this phase that freaks me out. \n\nWhen I start to question how she feels or how I feel, my confidence goes to hell and that's when things bottom out. I feel like it's a predictable cycle and I would like some advice on not rushing anything and just being patient as things grow organically. I feel like I'm beginning to do this where I push her away, and I don't want to lose my opportunity with this person as I have in the past.",
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"content": "Dear PF,\n\nOne of my goals in the coming year is to understand and maximize my monetary situation. I currently have only school and car debt, which, combined, is less than $45k (~$40k school, ~$2k car). I have a solid job, where I currently make ~$70k/year, and I expect a 2-6%/year increase (not including bonus pay, and promotional salary increases), and I have a decent credit score (last check was a few months ago; 750).\n\nI am not against reading to understand my finances for myself, and being able to understand and maximize them is one of my long term goals. I'm concerned that with my current income, situation, and lack of understanding, that I won't be doing myself the *most* good on my own. Is it worth the while (ever) to pay someone to interpret and explain your finances to you? \n\nI'm not against working with someone at fee to learn about these things, or even letting someone else manage a portion of my finances fully in order to help maximize them. I am concerned with where one goes to get that sort of advice or information, and if it's a useful investment. Other than 'self teaching', I wouldn't know where to turn for financial planning advice- my CU? My parents in another state? Their financial planner? Peers in this state? Co-workers?",
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"content": "I [25/m] have been dating my girlfriend [21/f] for nearly 10 months. This is my second longest, first being 4 plus years, and her longest currently. When we first got together I had been experiencing severe anxiety and panic attacks and they only got worse. She would always ask of I was ok or feeling alright. At first it was great, but soon turned into me feeling like there was something wrong with me when that's all we talked about. It's another story but the shortened version is I quit drinking, 1 month sober yesterday, and I'm in much better health. The issue is that for a few weeks now she's been really worried and concerned about our relationship and it's progressively getting worse. It's turning into an all the time thing. All I hear is \"are we ok?\" \"We're good right?\" \"You still love me?\" And so on. It's driving me up the wall and I keep telling her to just go with it. That I'm getting over anxiety and a 3 year drinking binge. I also have no clue where this came from. I asked her and she always says she was just checking or it was on her mind. Any tips or input? Male or female perspectives welcomed. I'm not looking to break up cause I love her. Maybe just know what she's going through and all that jazz.",
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"content": "Hi /relationships, this is my first post. I read the rules, but please let me know if I missed anything :)\n\nSo I've been dating this wonderful girl for about a year and a half now. She absolutely adores me, would do anything for me, and I would do the same for her. We're both college grads and live near each other in a bigger city. \n\nBut as much as I enjoy our relationship and feel devoted to her, when I look to future I can't see us together. Whenever I think about moving in together, or even getting engaged, I get a sinking feeling in my stomach. I can't picture marrying her. I can't picture marrying anyone right now.\n\nI think what we have is just a \"comfortable\" relationship. But when do I need to either commit to the next step or break it off? She was looking at apartments online the other day and started using words like \"we\" when describing moving into them. We had a talk about how I wasn't ready for anything a few months ago and she seemed to be on the same page, but lately she's been hinting at the long-term kind of things, and says her family is asking her about me and our plans as well.",
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"content": "So I like this girl who I've had a sort of on and off friendship with for a year and a half now. Everytime it's on I develop feelings to some extent and now it's undeniable.\n\nWhen I talk to her we talk a lot about politics and philosophy and the sort, and when it's just the two of us, the conversation always gets sexual. Not directly, but like what we've done, what we like, etc. \n\nI learned that she doesn't do this with most of her friends, but at the same time, she is normally very physical (touchy-feely) with her friends and she's not with me.\n\nI've been told she's trying to get over her ex still, and can definitely tell she has depression and engages in worrying and problematic behaviors at times. I want to be in a better position to help her.\n\nI tried to start texting her a couple of weeks ago. The first conversation went pretty well but the next time I tried she didn't text back. I don't know if that is due to lack of interest or other reasons.\n\nAlso I want to know how to get her want more than just sexual things, because it's possible that, if she likes me at all, she only wants that based on our conversations. (Or she could just be comfortable with me, who knows?)\n\nWhat should I do?",
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"content": "So currently I am 19 years old. I think she between 21-23, not married, and has been cutting my hair for a few months. She always gives me dollars off my next hair cut and hums ever so sweetly. She talks to me about making up our own stories and intrigues me ever so. I can't get her out of my head and as I was walking out I heard her say \"no\". As I left I got a burst of inspiration and wrote my name with my phone number. Rapping it in a dollar I told the other person to make sure she gets this. There is a small chance I may have wrote the wrong number down. Regardless, I want to call up the hair cutting place and ask if she is there. If she is, I can buy some hair jell and ask her out. Would this be wise? I need advise!\nStill no call the next day...I really want to spend new years eve with her. Should I put forth more effort to contact her? I really hope that I can build a relationship and explore my sexual fantasies with this individual. She is all I can think about. Reddit, I really need advice to handle this situation. I am so lost.",
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"content": "My boyfriend of over two and a half years and I broke up right before summer (before going to college for me, before his sophomore college year). He had been acting different upon returning from school, we grew a bit distant; told him I was unsure, he broke up with me the next day. Almost got back together twice over the summer, he initiated it and ended it both times. I (stupidly) had rebound of my high school best friend over summer, ex-boyfriend thinks he was reason why we broke up and despises me for it. I leave for school on bad terms with both, ex-boyfriend blocks my number, refuses to talk to me, etc.\n\nFast forward September college freshman, meet and begin dating new guy I meet at school. Fall in love with him and we are together currently, doing well and are both happy. The ex-boyfriend contacts me approximately two weeks prior, I tell the current boyfriend of our interaction. I end up writing pages and pages to ex-boyfriend, and think maybe he has feelings? He wants to stop talking; I get upset; he tells me he still loves me and wants to be together and is sorry for everything.\n\nI feel bad for even considering the possibility of being with my ex-boyfriend again. My current relationship has its ups and its downs, but is still beautiful and wonderful. I am going home for work purposes in two weeks, as is the ex-boyfriend, and we are meeting and talking. Is it possible to love two people at once? Am I holding onto residual feelings? I feel bad for my current boyfriend and my ex and cannot distinguish my feelings for which one to be with. It is unfair to both and I don't want to feel guilty and bad again but I also don't want to make the wrong choice. I did not consider my feelings for my ex before he told me he still loved me, and I do not want to be emotionally cheating, although I realize that seems as if it is happening. What to do?",
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"content": "I'm on my mobile, It's hard to write a lot without having to autocorrect everything. So long story short. My boyfriend and I had an argument and we takes briefly in between. However, I asked him why did just called me and did not meet me in person to talk. I went beck home to moms house and I expected him to show up to moms house, flowers or not, to apologize. He said he has too much work to do and his.job needs him more and that I should have come to him! Even though we are both working. I then asked if I went missing for a week, would he come after me or call me? He said no because it was my choice? Even after a month, he said he would not come after me!! This is what broke me down. Basically, if I just up and left, he would do nothing!! This sounds so wrong and I'm hurt. Does this make sense?",
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"content": "First, I'll explain what my ex-girlfriend looks like. She has gorgeous golden hair that she curls each day. She has legs for miles, the brightest green eyes I've ever seen, a tiny little nose, and a whole galaxy of freckles. \n\nShe broke up with me a while back because her family didn't get along with mine (her mother, who I met and who liked me a lot, died of breast cancer, leaving her strict, douchey military father behind). Valid. I told her I would make it a game to win her back, and she told me I could go ahead and try.\n\nIt has become a little game of ours. It started out small: texting her daily, bringing desserts to her house, serenading her, etc. Then it escalated. I showed up to her house on horseback (my uncle owns a farm) and we rode around the countryside. I surprised her with some decently-sized fireworks, which are legal in my state. Her response to the fireworks was, \"you're getting there.\"\n\nI still have NO idea if she has any genuine intention of getting back with me, or if she's just having fun at my expense. She never kisses me on these dates, but she never rebuffs me either. I know she has been talking to another guy because I'm seen him around, but they seem completely platonic and non-romantic. I'm so confused.\n\nTomorrow, I'm going to surprise her. When her mom died, she got a minuscule infinity tattoo on her ankle. I went out and got the same tattoo, but now I'm thinking...does this sound creepy to you guys? Is this whole scenario \"normal?\"",
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"content": "So first and foremost, I rarely act on crushes. Last time I actually told someone I liked them was with a homemade Valentine's card when I was 8. I usually just suppress my feelings because I convince myself that they will never be reciprocated. I'm not ugly or overweight or anything but I've struggled with social anxiety and self-loathing. I got therapy, not as bad now but still not great, I digress.\n\nI have a crush on one of my male friends. We sit together in some classes and he's lovely to me... but he's nice to most people. Where I'm from at least, teenage courtship revolves around texting. I occasionally shoot him a message about school work and they turn into hour long conversations about everything.\n\nI don't think he's out out of my league or anything but as recently as March he was pining over a mutual friend (also 18F) who is admittedly prettier than me. After she found out (in December) she said she wasn't interested in him romantically. \n\nBasically, what do I do? I am intensely green when it comes to relationships and my social anxiety means I'm terrified of being rejected/being made fun of/him being disgusted if I tell him.",
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"content": "Sorry for the wall of text! This is, of course, a disposable account due to the sensitive nature of my dilemma.\n\nI'm in the process of applying for a non-sworn position at the sheriff's department in my area. I have gotten most of the way through the process, including having had my polygraph a couple of days ago. I passed, which makes sense because I was truthful.\n\nHere's the rub: I revealed some information during that session, and I don't know if it will disqualify me from getting the job. \nI consider myself a generally good person- I'm no saint, but overall I don't think I've done anything too awful. (BTW, I'm female, in my mid-30's.)\n\nHere's the item I'm worried about: 15 or so years ago, in the Napster/Limewire days, I downloaded a file. I don't remember what I was looking for- anyway, this file was named something innocuous and I had no idea what I was getting into.\nTurned out it was child porn. As soon as I realized what it was, I turned it off and deleted the file. So, it wasn't deliberate, but it doesn't change the fact that I have seen (\"viewed\") child porn.\n\nI was honest about this in the polygraph, and I think my results reflected that I don't purposely watch anything like that. I've also been much more careful on the Interwebs ever since.\n\nThe examiner told me that everything that we went over, will be included in her report to the department. I really hope that this, or anything else I revealed (minor theft, experimented with pot years ago) doesn't disqualify me; I'm having a hard time not worrying about it. The background check is next; I should pass that with no problem.\n\nDoes anyone have any words of advice? I need to stop thinking about this! Thanks in advance.",
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"content": "Hey /r/travel!\n\nMe and the gf are getting married june 1st and are trying to plan the honeymoon. We have 8 weeks from end of june to middle of august to spend. Our plan is to spend 1-2 weeks home in Sweden and then go somewhere semi-adventurous for the remaining 6 weeks\n\nOur initial plan was to go to South America, maybe start off in mexico and then finish off in peru or chile. From some reading from wikivoyage i got the feeling that most of SA has rain periods during summers.\n\nMy questions to you /r/travel are:\n\n1. Will it rain a lot in central/northern america during july/august?\n2. What would you recommend us seeing in these parts of the world? \n3. How far in advance do we need to book inca trail?\n\nOur interests are mainly hiking/outdoors, adventures, sports and living some of the local cultures.",
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"content": "Been together more than 5 years. Lived together 4 years. We met online and I moved 9 hours away from home to be with him.\n\nWe are currently on the market for a house. I am freaking out. There's so many things wrong with our relationship. And buying a home is such a large commitment. We are doing this because we are sick of renting an apartment that will cost us the same as a house. \n\nProblems with our relationship: He does zero chores around the house. He can't even feed our dog, or take out the trash. I constantly ask for help, in the nicest way possible, with still no help. It wouldn't be such a problem if I could handle being in a messy home, but I can't. It stresses me out to no end. I can't even sleep well knowing our apartment is dirty.\n\nIn his defense he does work A LOT. And his job isn't easy. \n\nHe is a single child and was spoiled his whole life. I am terrified it will never change. Any time I bring up my worries he makes me feel guilty. Explains how he makes \"SO much more money\" than me. That all this house work should be on me. Puts me down for not working more (I already work almost 40 hours a week). I cook dinner for him every day, meals I can't even eat (Pescetarian), keep his home spotless, and I still never receive a \"thank you\".\n\nWhen my concerns are brought up, and he knows I am close to just giving up and leaving, he will fix his problems. For a week, tops. He will clean up after himself, take out the trash, thank me for dinner. But 7 days pass and he's back to the same old shit. \n\nFive years may not seem like a lot to some, but it was a lot for me. I sacrificed my family and friends to be here with him. And I would hate to see it all go down the drain. Is there a way to fix this?",
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"content": "It's all very nice that people can make changes in their lives to make it go away, but for many or most, that does not help at all. If you have been feeling depressed for a time longer than six months, and/or it interferes with your life, see a counselor AND GP. Sure, many have factors in their lives which cause them to feel this way, but many are genetically predisposed to the condition and no scenery change or 'opening up' will change that.\n\nGo to a counselor (not a psychiatrist) to determine whether your problems are psychological, and a GP to determine whether it is at all related to any physical issues that you may have (allergies, diet, et cetera). Go to a specialist at the recommendation of your counselor and GP. Starting with a specialist can be problematic, first because it may cost you unnecessarily, and second because, at least in my experience, someone who limits their field of work can sometimes limit their field of vision. Unnecessary treatment and incorrect diagnosis kind of suck. So, start out with a wide view, and work your way toward a more focused treatment.\n\nDon't just wait for it to get better, and don't expect the world to get better with a change of location. The worst week of my life, I spent in DisneyWorld.",
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"content": "I moved in with my boyfriend just after six months of dating (we both wanted it). More specifically, I moved away from the city where I go to school and work in. Total commute every day for me? 2 hrs. Additionally, his place is extremely extremely small (tiny studio) and in a very bad area. \n\nNeedless to say, this took a toll on the relationship because I was so stressed from the daily commute and my living environment. He's also an introvert (he believes himself to be on the mild autism spectrum) and I believe he was getting stressed from being cramped in the apt. with me (no personal space). \n\nAfter four months of living together, I decided to move back out to live by my school and work. It's been a few weeks and has really improved our relationship. \n\nI keep reading about how it's a death sentence for couples to live apart after living together and it's got me kind of worried. We didn't have any fundamental differences that caused issues. Our issues stemmed from more logistical problems (apt. size, commute, etc). We agreed on this and discussed that we would look into living together again after I graduate and he takes a huge stressful test (after Summer). I also took this opportunity to improve myself by going to therapy (I tend to internalize problems to portray myself as the perfect invincible person) and it's improved the communication between my boyfriend and me. \n\nAny happy ending stories about couples who lived together, but moved out for a bit? I'd appreciate any advice or insight.",
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"content": "My boyfriend is AWESOME so I want to get him something awesome for Valentine's Day :) His life basically revolves around cameras, his RSS feed, Netflix, Starcraft & various other PC games and his computer (which he loves more than life itself). I'm sort of a girly-girl (though I browse reddit daily and have been known to play the occasional round of COD), so my expertise is more in the looking-cute-in-pictures, throwing parties, and pop culture sphere than in the technorati realm. He's not much for material possessions and he much prefers to stay in than go out. We're college students, so plane tickets to Tahiti are out of the question (I probably couldn't drag him along if I tried, actually...), but I've got a pretty comfy budget so I'm not exceedingly worried about breaking the bank. He's such a wonderful guy that I'd really like to get him something nice! \n\nBoys of Reddit, I need your help. All of my other boyfriends have been athlete, east-coast prep school alums, fratstars or some combination of those. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but my current boyfriend's quite a departure from that whole scene. They were pretty easy to shop for, but that's easy to give up for a brilliant, thoughtful guy (who the others most certainly were not). My friends have been ZERO help, so I'd really appreciate any suggestions you might have!",
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"content": "My sister and I have a game that's been going on for the last decade or so where we hide a bag of dirt among each others possessions. She's going travelling in the fall and I wanted to hide it in her luggage so she'd have to cart it around for the two and a half months she's planning on going for. I was wondering about possible implications with customs, other than a few odd looks. She's going to Australia and the Philippines for sure as well as a couple other countries in southeast asia and I assume she'll pass through the US. Would she get any grief about bringing in foreign contaminants or whatever? I realize she could just throw the bag out if need be, but I don't really want that to happen. It's a small ziplock bag of very dry soil with a bit of mulch in it, probably less than 25 grams total (<1 ounce).",
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"content": "OK so this didn't happen today, it actually happened a few Christmases ago.\n\nSome background - I was wearing these really corny Christmas socks which were really slippery for some reason \n\nIt was about mid afternoon and we were getting ready to eat when my mum asked me to get some extra plates from upstairs in the loft. I go and up and they are all it a huge box. I didn't know how many she needed so decided to bring the whole box down. After I had got down from the loft, I picked up the box and proceeded down the stairs wearing my slippery christmas socks and instead carefully taking it step by step, I thought it would be clever to carry it in front of my face and walk straight down. I couldn't see anything because the box was so big and about half way down the stairs, I began slipping. I almost regained my balance but started running/slipping down the stairs until I got to the bottom, dropped the box(smashing the plates and smacked my face into the radiator, breaking my front tooth. Since it was Christmas, nothing was open so I couldn't get it fixed until a later date.",
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"content": "So here's the deal. My girlfriend tells me one night she has a confession. She let a guy feel her up whilst she was high with her friend. I get pretty pissed about it but we work it out eventually and move on.\n\nAround a month later things came to a head and she tells me that after she let the guy feel her up, he proceeded to rape her. Now that sounds really serious I know, but directly after she tells me this, she also mentions that she fucked a guy in a broom closet at her work Christmas party (a good few weeks after the 'feeling up').\n\nNow keep in mind she didn't tell me about the 'rape' part until a month after it happened, and conveniently slipped in the fact that she had fucked another guy at the end of the conversation. She doesn't want to do anything about the 'rape' because she says she is too embarrassed and we wouldn't be able to do anything at this point.\n\nI know it makes me sound like a horrible human being, but I am inclined to not believe her about the 'rape' as I feel she is making it up so I can't get angry at her about her cheating on me. Is this just me?",
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"content": "We've been together 3 years, she's my first everything, she's had many guys before. We've had lots of arguments (unrelated to sex) but I've resented her for not wanting to experiment as much with me sexually.\n\nA few months ago she asked if I wanted an open relationship so I can find other girls (she would not want others). At the time I thought and told her no way, but now I find myself staring at other women. Last weekend we went camping and a friend-of-a-friend came, and we flirted hardcore and it felt really great.\n\nThe problems are 3fold:\n* I'm worried she might want another guy (selfish, I know)\n* I'm worried this is some kind of test\n* I'm worried I will hurt her if I do this, even though she asked.\n\nShe has been cheated on a lot and had lots of bad relationships, so I'm her first \"nice\" man. I now have strong sexual desires for other girls but don't want to hurt her. I'm not sure how I can tell her what I did with the girl (just flirting, no touching) without feeling awful.",
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"content": "First time posting here so sorry if I mess up.\n\nI've been a relationship with my girlfriend for just over 10 months, Im from England [m21], and shes from america, we met up at a summer camp and hit it off well. All was fine we visited each other often when we could,\n\nShe tells me she's going to prom and going with her girlfriends which I was fine with since the rest of her friends are single and have no-one to go with, this was the plan until the day before prom when her male friend decided he wanted to go and would be going with them. (They've been friends for a few years in school Im sure he did have a crush on her at one point)\n\nThe message said \"I might be going to prom with matt now\" which to me says I'm going with this one person as a date. I told her I didn't like it but she said that it was more of he's just joining her and her group of friends for the night and he would only come if he got to say he was going with her.\n\nProm night comes and goes all is ok , until the next day when I start seeing pictures, first its of them stood near each other which hurt but I passed it off as ok. \n\nI started talking to her about the photo's and how there were non of them together in a couple like shot and she said \"yeah no way i wouldn't do that\" ... well she did and now I'm really mad and not sure how to confront her.\nShe did offer to not go with him but since she stated it wasn't a date or she was even going with and it was simply him joining her friend circle I told her no as I didn't want to come off as controlling.",
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"content": "My past three relationships have all been about 2 years, and I've ended all of them because of a combination of problems and me losing interest. \n\nThe current girl I'm with has mostly everything I would want in a relationship - but I'm feeling myself starting to lose interest anyway. She does have a fairly bad jealousy problem, but some of it is warranted and I feel that everyone has to have some personal defects which should be forgiven.\n\nOne factor which I think contributes to feeling unsatisfied is that I tend to get what my friend calls a \"wandering eye.\" Even though I'm happy with my gf I can't help noticing other girls around and being drawn to them, even catching myself flirting at times. A lot of it is sexual attraction and desire - it seems horrible but after being with my gf almost a year I'm less interested in sex and occasionally get a rush of excitement when I notice another girl showing interest in me. \n\nI could just date indefinitely but I do want to settle down and have kids. I just always get the feeling that I can't stay satisfied with my relationships, and if I'm getting this restlessness after only a year or two I can't imagine how it would be over the rest of my lifetime. \n\nAn obvious answer would be to decide which is more important, dating different people or settling down, and then have the self control to stick to the decision. It's just that long term I *want* to settle down, but I can never escape the feeling of wanting to pursue other girls. A few years back I told someone older this and they said \"you must not be ready,\" but I can't help feeling like this isn't going away, and I really would like to start a family.",
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"content": "We will call her Rita. Rita and I have been friends for almost 5 years. During the beginning of our friendship she had told me that she was recovering from depression but it had gotten a lot better. Throughout our friendship there are a few things I have noticed about her. \n\n1.\tShe is extremely insecure, recently she lost a lot of weight and I tried to tell her she looked great, however she couldn't accept the compliment and be proud of what she has accomplished so far. That is just an example but it runs a lot deeper than that.\n\n2.\t I'm not sure if her and her boyfriend want to be together anymore or if they are staying together because they have been together for so long/ fear of being alone (been together since grade nine)\nIn regards to the boyfriend, he has broken up with her 3 or 4 times and she always begs for him to take her back and he always does.\n\nHe just recently purchased a house with his father without consulting her on location or her desires for their home. The house is outside of the city and away from all of the things she values and she has told me that she is very upset about the purchase. (I just found out this information last night)\n\n3.\tI found she has become stagnant in her growth, she never steps outside her comfort zone and doesn't believe in herself.\n\nI haven't talked to her in almost 8 months because she was becoming very frustrating with all of these factors. Always complaining and never feeling good about herself. Well last night she called me to see if I wanted to get some coffee with her. I agreed but I'm not sure If it's my place to bring up that I think she needs professional help, or if recommending it would be a good idea.",
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"content": "I initially knew this girl because we dated in HS, and it went on and off with her telling me she wasn't interested, to showing signs. All of our friends thought we were perfect, and some of her family even calls me an in-law. \n\nAnyways, I don't care much for their opinion as they're not the ones that decide. However after all this time, I'm fed up but I avoid taking drastic measures because our main group is just mutual friends. I invested too much in our friendship/relationship and I'm tired of it (example for reference: her birthday i drove her to a beach, to a mountain, and home. I even made her a cake from scratch. We were out from like 8pm to 5am.) All she does is text me when she needs something. It was my birthday a few weeks ago and she didn't bother/know and made no mention of it. It's obviously a one sided relationship and I'm not okay with that.",
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"content": "Very watered down synopisis:\n\nMe and a group of 7 (8 total) want to live in a house together. 3 of them signed on a lease but the other 5 didnt because the lease was shitty and we had it revised by a lawyer and the lawyer said dont sign it. The three that signed it put money down...100, 200, 880 respectively. The lawyer went and made some (very few) changes but its still very problematic. But lets say we end up not wanting to live in this house, is there a way to argue for the money back since the lease has changed and could technically say \"I dont agree with the lease anymore\" or no?\n\nLocation: New York",
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"content": "Okie dokie! So, pretty simple situation, I just need other peoples opinions. Been seeing this girl for a few months, nothing serious at the start and still nothing too serious as of yet. But as we all know, the more time you spend with someone, the closer you get. So we're certainly getting closer.\n\nAnyways, in a few months time me and quite a few friends have organized a fun little trip away and we have got quite a sizeable group coming along with us. Now the problem is, it was very much a 'invite all your friends along' type situation so we have friends of ours inviting other friends etcetc. Now, one of my friends has unknowingly invited someone whom I have slept with before, which is fine as we still get along just fine and never even mention what happened between us. However, the girl I am seeing is coming on the trip with us.\n\nSo the question is, do I tell her about my history with this other girl or not? There's literally nothing between myself and that other girl anymore, but of course its hard to tell as to whether the girl I'm seeing would rather know, or not know. For you girls out there, would you want me to tell you about this other girl before the trip, or would you prefer I just think nothing of it and hope to God it doesn't come up whilst we're all hanging out?\n\nIts not a big deal to me at all (the history), but it very well could be a big deal for the girl I'm seeing. Options?",
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"content": "So I'll start out saying that I recently met this girl and I'm usually pretty shy, we're only together for about 55 minutes a day (math group) and I seem to be interested in her personality, which she doesn't seem to express much, but since I'm the same way, maybe we could connect in a very similar way... \n\nI used to think this was just a small crush that would easily pass, but every day I talk to her I seem to get more and more attracted, and since I haven't really had much experience in the relationship field, maybe I can get some opinions on how to take a crack at this...",
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"content": "Hey /r/loseit. I'm just checking in. I haven't posted anything major here in about a month. My last check in was a [100lb milestone.](\n\nSince then, I've lost another 10 lbs. \n\nLast week I was featured in an ad campaign for my gym. Full page advertisement, all week in the area (4 parish area) newspaper.\n\nThis week, my wife and I went to the mall for a haircut. My stylist was busy, so we went and looked at jeans.\n\nI've been wearing 36x30 Levi 501s. The waist is quite loose now, but the legs keep getting progressively tighter (dang squats).\n\nIn order to find jeans that would accommodate my newly skinny waist, I had to find larger leg jeans. That kinda made me sad, because I used to have to wear Levi 569, and both the legs and waist were tight.\n\nI pulled some 34x30s off the rack and slid them on with ease. I had quite a bit of room in them too. I decided to try on the 32x30s, just for kicks and grins. **They FIT!** I had plenty of room in the waist (pulled up to my belly button), but the legs were a touch snug in both the calf and thigh (DANG SQUATS!).\n\nAs a reference. One year ago, I got my current job. My previous job required that I wear slacks and a tie every day. My new job was polos and jeans. I had 7-8 pairs of slacks, but no jeans. A year ago this week, I went and purchased a pair of Levi 569s. They were 46x30.",
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"content": "Okay, so I've never really posted anything before, so sorry if this is weird or I'm not doing it right or something. \n\nI started dating my current BF when I was 15 and a sophomore in high school, he was 16 and a junior. Now we are both in college. We are insanely close. Like spend literally ALL our time together. He is incredibly important to me and we do everything together. I love him a lot and I have incredible respect for him as a person. \n\nThe problem is we both don't have friends outside of the relationship. \n\nI mean we both have friends. We have a lot of friends really, but we just don't feel like we connect with anyone other than each other anymore. It's hard to explain. \n\nWe both ditched all of our friends from high school. Some of it was because of our relationship, but a lot of it was high school is shitty. \n\nI've made tons of new friends this year at university but I just don't feel like i connect with any of them. Everything feels really forced and I'm constantly paranoid that they don't really like me even though they all tell me they love hanging out with me all of the time. \n\nI know that my boyfriend and I probably need to break up, for a lot of reasons I won't bother posting here, but I feel like I can't do it because then I will have no friends. (Like friends I actually connect with and enjoying being around.)\n\nI guess what I'm really wondering and trying to get at here is if anyone else has expressed something like this? I love my SO, but we have been together since I was 15 and I know its time to move on, I'm just scared because I don't feel like I'll ever connect with anyone again.",
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"content": "Some background:\n\nI am a college student. My boyfriend (about the same age) lives in Australia, and so far, our relationship has purely been an online one. He would like to move to the United States at the end of this year so we can be together, but would need to find housing and employment. We have some funds, and my boyfriend is making about 13k a year with a part time job and will be getting another job soon, so while we won't be rolling in money, money isn't the real issue. We are more concerned about him getting a visa.\n\nFrom the State Department website, the three types of immigrant visas are 1) family sponsored, 2) employer sponsored, and 3) special immigrants. \n\n1) He isn't family, but he could get a visa if we became engaged and married. This option looks to be our only choice, but neither of us wants to marry without meeting each other in person. \n\n2) To our understanding, employment visas are awarded only to those who are skilled workers, and we don't see how my boyfriend would be able to be sponsored by an employer.\n\n3) Does not apply.\n\nAdditionally, he cannot apply for a student visa for college because we don't have the funds to pay for the tuition and additional costs, and his family (and mine for that matter) isn't willing to support him.",
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"content": "Hi everyone, I joined recently and after reading the \"Not knowing what a potato was\" post, I remembered this and told a colleague, he told me to post it here since we always read TIFU.\n\nAnyways, this was about 2-3 years ago, I was driving behind a car that had a sign on the back which read \"Heritage Carpets\". there was a little space between \"Car\" and \"pets\" which wasn't too big to look like separate words but big enough to, as my colleague said, \"confuse you\". Me being stupid I read this as \"Car Pets\" and kept thinking and then laughing to wtf this meant, still not realising like a dumbass, I then take a pic so i can show my friends and have a good laugh.\n\nNow the reason for my stupid confusion was because of a car showroom near my area which I used to drive pass a lot and always look at what new car they displayed. The font and colours were similar and I just thought of \"Heritage Cars\" straight a way.\n\nSo after taking that pic, I met up with a friend and showed him the pic, i kept saying \"wtf is a Heritage CAR PET?\" and laughing, he gave me a weird look and said \" you mean carpets...?\"\n\nI felt so stupid, deleted the pic and tried to quickly move on from that subject, he laughed a little but then forgot about it. If it was the other way around I would have been lmao and telling everyone we knew about how dumb he was.... I was lucky it was him alone and not everyone else had met up yet.",
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"content": "I can provide more details if they're asked for, but I've been obsessing about symptoms so I'm not sure if I'm just over-analyzing things.\n\nI've always been disconnected with my emotions, and I don't remember really feeling true sadness for someone else beyond a very fleeting moment of it. \n\nI've been accused of using people more times than I like to admit, and while I was in denial about it, I can't deny it anymore. \n\nI don't seem to make long terms friends even when I try to do so, and my friendships tend to be only with people of the opposite gender I'm attracted to, because those tend to be the only people I can show an effort in talking to. \n\nI keep people away from knowing details about my life as much as possible, especially if it compromises the image I'm trying to project with that person. \n\nI'm really hoping I'm not a sociopath, because as I understand it, that would make having empathy for others impossible.",
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"content": "My boyfriend is a giant flirt. I used to think he thought I was attractive and sexy, and was completely ok with this because as long as he is attracted to me why should I care? I was bad, and came across a conversation he had with his brother one night online, saw my name, and read it. \nHe basically sized up a bunch of his female friends and discussed how hot they were. No big deal until his brother told him he should \"upgrade\", \nNow it's in my head and I can't stop thinking about it. I can't ever get turned on, knowing how mediocre I am and thinking that's what's going through his head.\n\nI'm not overweight, I guess it must be my face....commence thoughts spiraling out of control about what' wrong with it.\n\nhow do I get over this?\nI know my boyfriend must at least think I'm decent since he is dating me, I'm not blaming him or anything. It's just not sexy to know you're ranked bottom of the barrel.",
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"content": "I am currently in college and I met this wonderful girl. We have gone on a few dates and everything appeared to be going great. She wanted to taking things quite slow because she was getting over a recent ex boyfriend.\n\nHowever when I met her roommate she brought up that this girl has a boyfriend who has been acting rather shady towards her. He goes to another college and he has been spending the night \"on the couch\" at this other girls place frequently. He also has recently been posting on her wall and now I'm rather confused.\n\nI know something is up but I really don't know how to handle this. I would really like to be straight forward with her but she seems dodgy whenever I do. I really am beginning to over think things and I almost feel like I was just there to shove in his face.\n\nI really hate this situation because I feel like I could have a legitimate relationship with this girl.",
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"content": "Started dating one of my closest guy friends (known him since I was 5 years old) on in May this year. We hit it off great and generally we are happy together. He asked me for exclusivity, and I gave it. He hasn't directly asked me to be his girlfriend though, so I assume that we're just dating, exclusively.\n\nI'm not the type to post a lot of pics of myself anywhere. It's a personal thing that I dislike doing. But he often asks for them. I usually just decline and tell him that if he wants to see me, I'll hang out with him in person/online (Skype and stuff). \n\nThen one day I got curious and made a < 30 second vid of me naked (just me showing off my body and playing with my tits/ass). I sent it to him and he really liked it. Mind you, I hesitated for several hours before sending that video. After a few days though, I began to realize why I never did those things in the past. I regret sending him it and ***I just want to have him delete the video for good, right away!***\n\nI don't know how to do this. I don't even know if it's fair for me to. I just regret it so much (and needless to say, I will never do anything like this ever again).",
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"content": "Decided to seek out some second opinions before I make any big decisions. I'm not exactly in my right mind at the moment.\n\nMy daughter use to always talk to me about the colleges and the different states she wanted to move to when she graduated high school. Her job choices has changed quite a lot throughout the years, but she always has wanted to work in the medical field. Right now she is finishing up her sophomore year, and next year is when her school tries to get them to look/apply for colleges. We were having a talk earlier about her grades, she use to always do well in school, but now it seems as if her grades are slipping. She kept on trying to change the subject and shoo me off, and long story short, we got into an argument. I told her that if she didn't get her grades up no college would want her, and she replied by yelling at me that she doesn't even know if she wants to go to college anymore. I thought she was kidding but she looked as if she was pretty serious. \n\nShe told me that she's been thinking about it for awhile, and she doesn't think she wants to \"waste away\" her years studying for another 4 or more years for something that she may become bored of eventually. My reaction might not of been the best, I always imagined her going to college and becoming successful in the medical field like she always dreamed about. I took away her phone and sent her to her room, but now I feel like I made a mistake. I just don't want to see her grow up and struggle like so many people are doing now, but I also know I cant really force her to go to college either. \n\nI don't know what to do, apart of me is angry and doesn't really want anything else to do with her. I'm very disappointed and just confused on how to handle this...particularly with my own thoughts and accepting this.",
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"content": "I made a [previous post] about my situation but tonight I found out my husband's \"friend\" is also making a new start so basically they're both leaving their spouses for each other. \n\nI decided I'd like to talk to her and not only get some answers but also let her know a few things like how my husband was treated for an STD (I'm clean so I didn't give it to him). For all I know she gave it to him but in case he didn't I think she should know. I'd also like to let her know about the texts he sent me awhile back saying he loved me and wanted to reconcile (Obviously these were lies or he changed his mind) because it goes to show his shady character. She has a kid and as angry as I am, I don't want her kid to get attached to them in the event that she discovers he's truly an asshole and breaks it off with him.\n\nI won't lie though, a little part of me wants to send it as a way of telling her I know what's going on but none of the letter is angry, harassment, blame, etc. It's pretty calm and sort of non-judgemental. So /r/relationship, does this seem like a good or bad idea? \n\nDo you have any advice for me on how I should handle this situation? I'm going crazy not having any closure.",
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"content": "Hey reddit.\n\nLove my girl. She graduated from college two years ago, but did get her current job like 3 months ago. The thing is... the field of her profession is very competitive in the country that we live. So she is very afraid of losing her job and be unemployed with all the bills to pay (she lives alone and pay for all her bills, no support for her dad, only I lend some money once in awhile). I felt like that in my first employment, but since there are a lot of open spots in the field that I work, that fear went away very quickly.\n\nHow can I support her in this situation? I always tell her that she is a very talented professional (and she is, indeed), but I'd like to know if anyone has put through the same feeling and if you would like to hear something else. Thanks in advance.",
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"content": "So like It says, I found a woman that I like, and she likes me, but there might be a problem\n\nSo first some background:\n\nI met her a couple of days ago through a mutual friend. We'll call her M. Me and M got to talking and we both seemed to feel kind of an instant spark between us. Besides the age difference we both have a lot in common, we both like video games, animals, watching movies, you name it. \n\nSo the potential problem: \n\nWe were talking tonight and during our conversation she told me she had been diagnosed with BPD ( Borderline Personality Disorder) which is a real mental health issue. So my question is, even though we get along great, and really like her, should I cut loose? Or should i give it a chance?",
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"content": "We have been together 2 years and living together a little less than 1 year.\n\nThe main issue we are having about the cleaning is that I have higher standards than he does. However, I feel like what I am asking from him is more than fair and he should be able to make a few small changes to his behavior.\n\nWhen we moved in together, I told him I would take care of the actual cleaning (dusting, vaccuuming, laundry etc.) as long as he would maintain throughout the week and not make messes that had to be picked up first when its time to clean. I made this agreement because of my previously mentioned higher standards and because I tend to like things being done \"my way\". Plus he usually works on saturday and I get bored anyways.\n\n Basically my expectations are that he put dirty clothes in the basket, throw away his trash instead of leaving it on the table, wipe up spills, and help out if I ask... I feel like this is pretty basic stuff, especially since he is home more often than I am. It takes me longer to clean if I have to round up dirty socks from every corner and throw away a weeks worth of soda cans first. It makes me feel taken for granted, unappreciated, and occasionally like the dreaded \"replacement mom\"\n\nI've discussed this with him before and he says he doesn't really care how clean our place is, doesn't think about it, and he's just a messy person and this is how he is. That last part about him just being messy is the thing that really pisses me off because I think I have asked for very reasonable things and it makes it sound like he's unwilling to change. To his credit he has gotten a little better (last apartment he had was a disaster) but there's still room for improvement and thats all I'm asking for.\n\nSo /r/relationships my questions are 1. I think I'm being reasonable, am I? 2. How can we work together to solve this? Yesterday when we argued again I suggested doing a daily pick up before bed, what else can we do?",
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"content": "Firstly, I am 17.\nI spent the day camped out with some of my friends for a good view of the fireworks, and we got a really good spot.\nWe had a small amount to drink, so I was feeling a little more confident than usual. A large group of girls of a similar age soon entered the area, and we switched to alphamode and started talking to them. They had had a bit to drink, but similar to use none of them were drunk or out of character(I assume), so everyone was just happy.\n\nI found one who was really cute and nice to talk to. We got along nicely and there was the ritual \"Midnight Kiss\" so of course we took to eachother, and there was a brief exchange later. I'm not the most confident of guys so this was a nice success. We promised to meet with the group soon, but as in life I feel this was one of many devoid promises that will never come into fruition.\n\nShe left to go to America the next day, and I left a message on her Facebook the day after which I had gotten, with a similiar message of hoping she has a nice trip and we should hang out. She didn't necessarily acknowledge meeting up but said when she'd be back, so I suppose it's the same(Ofc you can see I'm overthinking every work and grammatical nuance).\n\nWe haven't met up with the other girls, but I hope to to just keep the connection. My friend might have a free house soon so maybe that will suffice. I really just don't know how to progress, and don't want this to be one of dozens that falls by the wayside.",
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"content": "This guy and I met 2 years ago on a trip while we were both dating other people. We instantly hit it off and talked for 2 hours while our boyfriends (already friends) danced and drank. \n\nI personally felt an instant connection and knew he would be somehow be in my life, even just as friends. We lost touch a little after that and we broke up w/ our SO's and I had moved away. We finally ended up single and back in the same city a year later and reconnected. We went on a great date and caught up but unfortunately he was leaving for work the following week for 8 months in another state. We promised to stay connected but didn't want to put pressure on anything. \n\nDuring his time gone we spoke off and on, catching up here and there but never feeling pressured. Leading up to his return we spoke more than ever. Daily texts and occasional phone calls. Always stating we were excited to reconnect and that we were interested in spending time together. \n\nHe returned a couple weeks ago and we met up the day he returned and it was amazing. I asked to take him on a date a few days later, the day we met 2 years prior. I took him to the place we met and had a great dinner. Since that date he has slowly faded out a bit, not responding or talking as often as before. He did state he was just getting settled and had to take care of some things. It seems he has disappeared but responds when I text or make an effort but never initiates anything. \n\nNot sure if I should just back off or continue to show I'm interested. I want to make this work because of the time and effort that has been put into this so far. I really care about him and just really want it to go well. \n\nAny advice on how to continue without overwhelming but still showing interest? I'm new to the dating game with someone I actually care about and don't want to screw it up.\n\nCan clarify anything that is confusing.",
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"content": "Hello!\n\nI am a 17 y/o who lives in the UK and work as a web designer for a small company (10-15 people). Naturally there's not really anything going for me at the office and I would really like to meet some girls my own age.\n\nI had two relationships at school, the first lasting about 18 months each and I got dumped the first time (I still think about her a lot) and the second about 2 months, however I broke it off due to me missing my ex a lot.\n\nI find it extremely hard to talk to people my own age, but find it easy to talk to adults that I've never met before, I don't really want to date an immature girl and would love to meet a geeky girl as I'm a geeky guy. \n\nI want to know how I can create a means to meet people my age, but hopefully more intelligent and mature girls, not the chavvy girls who seem to live near me.",
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"content": "So, my boyfriend [18/m] and I [19/f] have been together for over a year. We are very in love...but things are going to be changing soon. I am a senior in high school and he is a junior (we both started school late). I am applying for college and will more likely than not be out of state. He has said that he is ok with that and wants to stay together no matter what. We seem to talk more about him going to college than me...when I am the one leaving in 6 months. He seems less upset than me about my leaving. Sometimes I just think, what's the point of staying together? Another reason I am upset is that last week we went out with some friends and he told everyone that he was leaving in the summer for a month to do an internship across the country. I had to leave and started crying when I got home. I was upset because he didn't even think about telling me this privately first and also because he's leaving before me and doesn't seem to mind. He is still adamant that he will love me no matter how far apart we are... but I'm not quite as secure. Of course, I want to be supportive, but I think it will take time. I sometimes get into phases where I get really insecure, especially in our relationship. This may be one of those phases...but it feels different. I need advice. Am I blowing all this way out of proportion?",
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"content": "There's two girls in a small (4-7 people, exact number omitted just in case) band that I (male, age 17) play in. One of them (lets call her Kara, age 16. Known since this year) is/has been flirting very obviously with me. Others have seen this, including the second girl (lets call her Zoe, age 18. Known since 5 years ago but only really started talking this year). Kara isn't really the type of person I'd date. I've been careful not to lead her on and haven't really been responding to her flirting in a way that could suggest I'm interested.\n\nZoe is an amazing person. After talking to her both online and in person multiple times we've both worked out that we have an amazing mental connection - we just \"get\" each other. No flirting has happened yet, apart from acknowledgement from each other that both of us are getting on really well.\n\nThe band is really important to all of us. Our leader also very much enjoys it.\n\nA few problems:\n\nI'm sorely tempted by Zoe. However, in asking Zoe out I cause possible jealousy between Kara and Zoe, since Kara has been flirting with me. If Zoe and I were to theoretically get together and end up breaking up before the end of the year (the band are currently very friendly toward one another and we all agree that this shows through in how we play our music), things could possibly (definitely?) get awkward and as a result could impact on how well the band plays. Of course I feel as it our relationship could easily be a long term one but that means nothing of course!\n\nWhat should I do? Would rather not endanger band as it's in no way a professional thing to do, but sorely tempted by Zoe's awesomeness...\nExpecting a reddit-bitchslap for even considering causing chaos but putting this out there just in case.",
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"content": "My wife and I have been saving and clearing debt for the last 2 years in order to start home shopping this September. Currently we're unable to sell our existing condo as it's worth about $80k (we owe about $99k). The difference is about the same as our new home deposit.\n\nAfter some number crunching - we realized since clearing all other debt - if we were very frugal, we could pay off the condo entirely in a little over 10 months. (Combine income of about $140k pre-tax)\n\nWhile we don't want to wait another year - having an additional 100k in buy power + possibly the ability to use the condo as a cheap equity line for new home needs sounds appealing. \n\nWaiting seems like a solid win. Are there things I'm considering?\nCan I use equity in my old home as a source of down payment for the new one? (Would I want to?)",
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"content": "Basically we both made a careless mistake that cost us $300. I went from perfectly happy to very upset and angry in the span of 2 seconds. It was collectively both of our faults and I made it very clear that I was not angry at her. I slammed my fist against an inanimate object and yelled a bunch of \"fucks!!!!\" for a few minutes, and then stewed in total frustration for the next half hour. She became visibly disturbed and scared of me. I could tell pretty quickly by how carefully she chose her words, and afterwards she told me her concern when I had cooled off. $300 loss isn't a huge deal for us, but the stupidity of the mistake is what really frustrated me. \n\nReddit, I do not ever want her to be scared of me. What can I do to maybe take things less seriously and reassure her that this type of anger is never going to be directed at her?",
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"content": "Me: 27, own a home, needs work, far from girlfriend and her job. Her: 25, Still lives at home.\n\nWe have been together 8 months. Been through a rough patch, but generally doing well. Known each other 7+ years.\n\nShe wants to move in together, and this is a natural step for us but she wants to move into a very expensive loft in a well known popular area for young adults. (Lots of bars, nightlife, restaurants, etc etc..) It is an absolutely kick ass loft, no doubt.\n\nHere's the problem: I make a lot more than her. I could afford the loft on my own, but am much more frugal when it comes to monthly ongoing spending. I have normal bills. No car payment, no toys. Anyway, she is willing to split rent with me. Another problem: Her share of rent is basically her entire check for a two week period. \n\nBills haven't been factored in yet either. I own a home that needs quite a bit of work (my motivation for wanting to get out) so I have considered renting or selling it. Not a big problem. \n\nSo is it crazy to even allow her to get in over her head like this? I don't mind being the good boyfriend and taking her out every now and then, like I do anyway, but her family is naturally concerned and I don't want to hear her worrying about money two months from now.\n\nShe says \"We can just downgrade if we get in over our heads\" (The complex allows you to swap apartments mid lease term)\n\nI am VERY motivated to move out of my home not only because of the work it needs, but my brother also lives with me, who is holding me back in life and is completely irresponsible and messy. So yet another reason.\n\nI am more worried about her financials. I refuse to be her bank. Sorry, we're not married yet and not gonna dole out loans.",
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"content": "Ok. So like many posts this FU was not today, but back in December. \n\nBACKSTORY: I had dated this girl freshman year of Highschool. Things were good, but I broke up with her out of peer pressure. I was a self conscious Freshman with little self esteem. I regretted it for years, and the fact we ended up being FWB a couple times did not help. \n\nSo we both get through our first semester of college, myself at a school in Tx, her in Ok. Didn't see each other often, but we did snapchat back and forth once and a while. Well over break she says she is tired of being single, her ex was shitty, blah blah blah. I offer to take her out.\n\nWe both dress up, and I took her to this little seafood restaurant, and go see a movie after. The movie I wanted to see so that wasn't really a problem. But I paid for all of it. Every dime.\n\nThroughout the course of the evening all the repressed feelings I had resurfaced, we kissed, it was a bomb time. \n\nAt the end she asks me to drive her to her ex's place. Are you kidding me?!? Which then she calls me right after break to tell me she's dating him again. \n\nSo cool, now I have this slight feeling of desire, mixed with the burning hatred from being screwed.",
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"content": "Last night I went to buy some gelato and the girl working there was gorgeous and incredibly nice. We made small talk for a bit and I had a hell of a time ordering because I was so caught up in her that I really didn't care what flavour I got. She seemed REALLY nice, but I couldn't tell if that was because she liked me too or if it was just how she deals with customers. She gave me a bunch of samples and it seemed that maybe she was trying to get me to stay in there longer. Either way I wound up walking out of there with a cone half the size of my head.\n\nI'm very shy but I STILL nearly asked for her number (I've never asked someone out before, any girl I've been with thus far has initiated things), but I left without saying anything. I even turned back after going about a block determined to ask but a family had come in while I was gone and she was busy with them so I grabbed an extra napkin and left again. I think I might make the trip back there next week at the same time to see if I can see her again. I don't know if I should though, she might just be a great saleswoman and I would be creating an awkward situation while she's working.",
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"content": "Throwaway account. I have never posted on Reddit ever so please be gentle on the formatting! I am trying my best.\n\nI met Nick* on Tinder. I was just checking it out for fun, my best friend loved and used it etc. I met up with him and we just hung out. He's a nice guy and I just had broken up with my ex. So we became friends with benefits.\n\nSince I left that summer for college, we just sext a lot. And often it was just texting but sometimes he would ask me for some pictures and I was naive so I thought a 3 second picture on snapchat should get the job done and keep me safe.\n\nThree months into this; snapchat notified me with the little triangle symbol that he had screenshoted it. And I **FLIPPED OUT**. I told him it made me uncomfortable and so the next time we met up, I had him deleted them off his computer. And I thought he understood that I didn't like the fact that he saved the pictures. He said he would stop. \n\nRecently, we met up and I asked him if he saved any of the pictures. And he said that he didn't. However, I saw on his phone that he had one of the apps that allows you to secretly screenshot snaps without letting the other person know. \n\nWhen he returned, I asked again. And he said maybe he saved a few and that he only did it because he really liked them and he saved them for fun. I begged him to delete the pictures and he said no. So I left. And he deleted me off snapchat. \n\nThis guy that I trusted, has nudes of me. I am terrified and I understand I should never ever taken them in the first place. But I never thought he would be this kind of person. He was so sweet in the beginning. I fear he'll share them and ruin my career. I had a nightmare last night that he had cameras in his bedroom and that he has videos too. I don't know what to do anymore.",
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"content": "Got involved with a girl at 18. She was a virgin, I was as well, but lied to her out of being ashamed to admit. I really wanted to lose my v card so I played the front.\n\nFinally lost it to her after we talked for a coupe months. Was good, but overall frustrating experience. She expected commitment of course after that. Me being the dumb 18 year old panicked and cut things off by not agreeing to go out on dates with her.\n\nShe realized I was just in it for sex so she texted me saying this wasnt gonna work out. I was relieved and sheepishly said that \"I agree\"\n\nHad a feeling she was testing my commitment with that text, she sort of expected me to fight back for her, and I didn't. Memory is fuzzy, but we didn't talk after that.\n\nOvertime I changed as a person, and realized what I did was an extremely shitty move on my behalf. I still can't forgive myself, I was a fucking ignorant douchebag. \n\nI found her face book froma friends account and really want to message an apology. I'd do it in person but she doesn't live in my town anymore unless she visits the odd summer. I don't have Facebook so I'd have to create one, no big deal. \n\nIf she saw me in person she'd probably spill a drink in my face or at the least wouldn't want to even talk.\n\n Is it too late? Would she be insulted that I just decided after 7 years to apologize? If I let it be I feel like if I ever saw her she wouldn't believe I was sorry, and just saying it.",
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"content": "This just happened in my pathogenic microbiology class. \n\nSo I'm sitting there waiting for class to start and I'm making my witty comments with my friends enjoying the pre-class aura and nerding out about vaccinations and how idiotic some people in the anti-vaccine movement is. Class starts. \n\nI am on top of my game. Answering questions right and left. One after the other. The professor is impressed about the depth in which I read one of our scientifically significant articles. So we started talking about pathogenicity and how you can be in the same species but be a different variant. Basically you can have two of the same bacteria's with different factors that cause one to result in a different \"strength\" of disease progression or resistant factors. (An example is VRSA and MRSA). \n\nSo my professor asks \"who can give me an example of what a variant is and explain what they're saying\".... I raise my hand and say \"WE are all HUMAN, but an example of variant in our species would be Asian decent, African decent, European decent and South American decent\". \n\nThere was a pause with a long stare and my professor says \"that is correct but probably one of the most controversial ways of explaining it\". Everyone starts laughing except a few people who shot me looks. Now I look semi-racist for using humans as a way of expressing variants in a species. I completely feel like shit as I realized how bad it came out in class.",
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"content": "Like I said we have been dating each other for about 6 months. We have kept our relationship a secret so it doesn't effect our work life. We also have an amazimg relationship and it only gets complicated when she has to tell me what to do at work which is very rare since we work in different areas of the store. \n\n3 weeks ago we got a new boss. He is a 48 year old who is extremely overweight, is a little sexist, he is bald and has long nose hair and ear hair etc. But overall he gets things done even though we all agree he is a bit to full on. \n\nOver the weekend both my SO and our boss had to work. We work in retail so weekends are normal for us. The boss was complaining about the safe over text to my SO and jokingly she said its the big gray square thing. His reply was \"i think its time for a spanking\" we both sat up in bed in shock. I mean we both knew he stared at my SOs ass but we didn't think it would go this far. My SO was very shocked. She didnt know what to say, so I told her to tell him how inappropriate it was so he didn't do it again. She told me she didn't want to say anything because he is so full on at work that she is scared he will try to get rid of her. I was upset that she didn't say anything. To me her silence was telling him that what he said was ok. But i understood why she said nothing. We ended up arguing about it, we made up etc. But its still weird being around this guy. I already wanted to hit him before this all went down. I won't hit him just fyi. She told me if he keeps doing it she will say something. \n\nSo what would you do in this situation? Being in my situation and being in my SOs situation.",
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"content": "My girlfriend dumped me 3 months ago. We had only been together for like 6 months, but she was actually my first serious relationship. We were best friends, and I became very emotionally invested. When she ended things, it seemed out of the blue for me. I still don't really know what happened, she just told me that she felt like we were \"incompatible.\" \n\nAt the advice of every single one of my friends, I did the best I could to ignore her and separate myself from her. I found that I could only do this for so long (2-3 weeks max) before one of us caved and started talking to the other. \n\nA few days ago she made a vague comment that I (apparently wrongly) interpreted to mean that she still has feelings for me. We were talking a lot in the days since, and things felt just like old times. However, I talked to her and found out that she is definitely not interested, so I feel like I'm back at square one. \n\nI have no idea why it's so difficult for me to move on. I find myself thinking about pointless things like how much she cares about me, how much she ever cared about me, how happy she is without me, etc. I feel like I'm just torturing myself but I don't know how to stop.\n\nShe also told me that she finds it hurtful / emotionally difficult when I stop talking to her. I just feel like as long as I still want a relationship with her and she still doesn't, we're just on uneven footing and it's just hurting me more.\n\nI find myself totally unable to just cut her out, and since I keep trying and failing, it's just hurting us both. I don't really have any idea what to do, I think my friends are all sick of hearing me mope about it. I can't seem to snap out of it and it's really taking a toll.",
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"content": "This wasn't today, this was in the summer of '95.\n\nI was making decent money living at home and lifeguarding during the summer. Had a car that I had saved up to install a sound system. I got Infinity speakers, Alpine V12 amp, and a [Sony CDX-C910] head unit. This head unit was the most expensive, therefore best (teenager, remember) thing I could buy. It had to be professionally installed by an authorized Sony installer to not void the warranty (or some such bs).\n\nAnyway, it is an amazing CD player, hooked up to a nice amp, powering decent speakers in a bad environment for music; I loved every bit of it.\n\nNow for those who can't imagine it now, we used to have to go to the store to buy CDs. I lived in a smaller town, but we had a store within about ~10 miles that i bought some of my rarer imports from. Stuff you wouldn't find in the mall.\n\nOne day my head unit died, no display, no power. I didn't think to try and manually remove whatever CD was in there. I scheduled an appointment with the installer of the head unit and a few days later, took it in. I didn't have a ride, but it was my day off, so I grabbed some CDs out of the car and went into their sound room and chilled out for a few hours reading magazines. Yes, I said hours(!). About 3 hours later the installer comes out and finds me. He explained that they thought it was something simple like a blown fuse. They found a blown fuse and replaced it, but the sound was horrible. They troubleshot the whole unit before replacing it. Twice. They couldn't figure out what was going on until they swapped out the CD. That's when he held up the CD I was listening to at the time it died, [Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God (halo nine UK import)] disc 2, and I it all hit me.\n\nFor those that have never heard it - here's the first song on that CD ([Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God](",
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"content": "The self-improvement Reddit community is vibrant, brilliant, insightful, and I want to wrap this all up.\n\nAs many of you all know, I have been deeply immersed in self improvement topics for the past year or so. Through my blog, I have tried to reach as many people as possible, but alas my writing style and lack of experience often do not provide as much assistance as I would hope.\n\nTherefore, I want to work WITH the Reddit self improvement community in order to develop a valuable quarterly magazine that is filled with submissions from you all. It would be a group project for the Reddit self improvement community and anyone who wants to help is welcome.\n\nThe next step for this to become a reality are as follows:\n\n1.\tGarner enough interest among the Reddit community to choose a name for the publication, create a website, and prepare to accept submissions (finalize what this magazine will be)\n2.\tOpen up submissions for self improvement topics, such as willpower, meditation, diet, and a variety of others\n3.\tCreate the first issue with Reddit contributors (designers and content providers)\n4.\tStart a Kickstarter project to raise money for the first printing\n5.\tPrint and promote\n\nSo everyone knows, I have no stake in this with no advertisers lined up or any way for me to personally benefit. I'm going to make this as democratic as possible, though I will play a significant role in editing as I will spend a considerable amount of time writing and reading submissions in order to organize them. \n\nIf you guys are interested in this, please either message me or post here and we can create either a subreddit for ourselves or a skype group to hash out the specifics. Thanks!",
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"content": "I work in a small retail store and run the store's facebook page. Earlier today we had an incredibly unsatisfied customer who has proceeded to trash our business, our owner and our staff on the internet. And they got a bunch of their friends to do the same. Would it be best to remove these post and block the users or address it in a different way? I fear just removing the post and blocking the users may make it worse, but I don't want to allow these exaggerated claims stay on our page. \n\nIt sucks because I was not in the store the past few days so I have no idea what really happened, but from what I can gather, two people SOMEHOW (big mistake on one of the staff's part) put the same item on hold (which only last 24hrs) and when one of them came back to buy it, the other got incredibly infuriated. The person who ended up not getting the item apparently had put the item on hold one day, came back the next day and put it on hold again (which is a mistake an employee made when they allowed this; this is NOT our store policy to allow this). This created confusion, yadda yadda yadda, now my facebook page looks like a hate speech convention. \n\nHelp me Reddit-wan-Kenobi, you're my only hope.",
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"content": "So I(m18)'m at my first date and she(f17) starts talking about weird guys... the date was going quite well, the talk was going smoothly and we're having a good time, but then we got on the topic of weirdness somehow. She starts telling some horrific stories of creepy-weird guys, and how they all comment on her boobs and how badly they want her, how some say they want to rape her because of her beautiful boobs and all. \n\nI didn't really expect any boobtalk tbh, so i wasnt quite sure how respond to this. Obviously I told her that this was worrying and that I was ashamed to be a man because of this. Some men are really disgusting!\n\nWe soon started talking about other things again. But she managed to talk a little more about her boobs a few more times during the evening anyways.\n\nLater on I've been wondering what she really wanted to achieve with this, because honestly it seemed like she was trying to talk a lot about her boobs, and how big they were. Making it the focal point of the conversation. Perhaps to advertise it for me, that this was something she was proud of..?\n\nNow, it's gotta be said that it is indeed true that she has a really nice rack, but I did not feel like complimenting her boobs would fit in in this date. First of: it weird af, as I had barely seen her before. And also, the content of her stories. It sounded like she had had more than enough of boob-loving weird guys. But why did she keep talking about then then, and why is it that her snaps now regularly contains some cleavage?",
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"content": "Throwaway for obvious reasons.\n\nSo I just found out that my girlfriend is an escort. Although we haven't been together for very long, things were moving fast. The past couple of days she has been rather distant, and vague about where she is. We are in a ldr but manage to see each other about once a week. \n\nThe time we spend together is very intimate and we have great chemistry. I've never met somebody that I can laugh with and be myself around. However, the past couple of weeks I feel like our relationship has become more distant- only replying every couple of hours instead of minutes.\n\nTonight my friend told me that they had found back page ads of her and some were recent, and the locations lined up with places she had told me she was at the time. However, I was told she was just visiting her friends- I didn't think anything of it.\n\nI'm sorry for this messy text post, my mind is kind of muddled right now and I'm unsure what to do. Do I tell her about the ads? I feel very hurt and confused about the whole situation because she truly did make me feel special and happy, but I don't think I can be with somebody who has hid something so (IMO) big from me. \n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated as I'm at a loss right now. I have very bad trust issues and I was starting to fall very fucking hard for this girl and now I don't even know what to say or feel about this situation.",
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"content": "Hey guys,\n\nI really hope this is considered the right subreddit for this type of question.\n\nLong story short, my current Financial Planner is an old friend of mine. We recently had a fairly serious falling out and now I'm worried that my funds could potentially be jeopardized because emotion is involved.\n\nThe guy is more or less acting like everything between us is fine, however he's incredibly young (21) and in some ways childish. I can't help but worry that there may be some resentment there which ultimately leads to poor decision making or even malicious intent towards me.\n\nObviously the only real solution here is to disconnect entirely, which I will. What I'm really wanting to know is if there's anything I should be worried about in doing so, or if there's anything he may be able to do as I really don't know how much control a Financial Planner has over funds or how protected we are as clients.\n\nFor the record I live in Australia, if this changes anything.",
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"content": "So I've recently got the internet hooked up in my new apartment, which I live in with my girlfriend. Since doing so I've spent most of my time when not working, on reddit. Ignoring my SO while doing so. So she was complaining saying \"Now you're never going to pay any attention to me\" and half jokingly I said \"well if you're on the front page of reddit I will\".\n\n She took this to heart made an account and a rage comic to try and do so, surprisingly it worked I noticed it and it meant a lot that she cared enough to do so. But she got really upset by the comments, people telling her she was probably not a girl, a karma whore, she should feel bad for making such a bad comic ect. I tried to explain that it was just a bunch of but-hurt bitches who cared about fake internet points a little too much but she said she didn't want to go on reddit anymore. \n\n So I just wanted to make this self post to say fuck you all you fucking karma caring losers for scaring away a new reddit user that could have made a lot of you laugh with future comics and stories.\nAlso Thank you all of you who upvoted and said nice things of encouragement that also got her to the front page.\n\n \n One of the reasons I liked reddit so much when I first came here was the nice helpful community, it seems the community had changed into a bunch of little karma mining little-dicks. I'll stay because I know what reddit can be, but she wont and she might of even posted a picture to gonewild if she wasn't treated so badly for a comic(that quite frankly I've seen so many comics of people just ranting about shit in a comic just to get karma and no one says anything, those are far worse then her funny little story)",
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"content": "I met my girlfriend a little over 3 months ago. We hit it off and started dating immediately then quickly moved into a relationship. \nI was trying to move on from another girl who was sort of jerking me around but who I really cared for. So in a sense I may have rushed into this current relationship.\n\nMy girlfriend is great and I know she really cares for me. She has already dropped the big L word and I was very confused at that point because those are not my feelings at all right now. My family really likes her which is extremely important in my eyes. The problem is that I just dont feel that great connection that I've felt in the past with other girlfriends. I'm not sure if its because I was really hurt by the last person I fell hard for and dont want that to happen again? Or maybe that I just am not that into this particular girl. I really can't make sense of my lack of feelings.\n\nI guess the",
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"content": "I got together with my boyfriend a little less than two months ago. Things are awesome, and I'm really happy, and he's a great boyfriend. I want to let him know that, but I have trouble expressing affection. \n\nI'm making an effort to be more tactile/physically affectionate, and I think that I'm doing an okay job, but I also want to communicate that I really like him in a clear and unambigous manner.\n\nI get disproportianately nervous because we can both be scarcastic people and we knew eachother in a more antagonistic capacity before getting to be friendly. I think that I'm having trouble leaving the old attitude of 'don't make yourself vulnerable' behind.\n\nI also have trouble putting my thoughts and feelings into words.\n\nAny advice?",
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"content": "For the past couple of years my father [M/52] has been married to my stepmother [F/44] and I [M/18] think she is overstepping boundaries and is taking advantage of my father in many situations.\n\nNow, first of all, she isn't some horrible step mother, but she isn't great either. She doesn't have any kids of her own so she tries to punish me as if I was her kid, which my father allows. This would honestly not be a big deal, if she seemed sane...\n\nShe nitpicks at everything I do one week, and then loves me the next. The littlest thing can trigger her, such as what happened tonight.\n\nI ran out of batteries in my remote, so I replaced them with the batteries in my dad's remote, which were in his bedroom. I do this a lot, and then hide the used batteries somewhere obvious so he puts them in and then the remote still doesn't work.\n\nNothing happened for a while, so I assumed they just replaced the batteries, so I fell asleep. I was awakened to screaming and yelling and slamming of the opening of my door. My stepmother was yelling about how 'going into their room was an invasion of privacy'... I would understand that if the door was locked... Or closed... Or not wide open... Or if I was never allowed to go in there before... But, no. It had never been an issue before. She now told me that she doesn't trust me, and doesn't think she will be able to sleep in the same house as me...\n\nShe walked out, still yelling and shouting, and I told my father that I think it is essentially bullshit what she is doing, but all he does is nod and agree with her and say 'I need to stay on the same page as her. That's what a marriage is.'",
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"content": "Lately I've been really worried about my future, I'm 19 years old, and I really don't want to work at the grocery store I currently work at for the rest of my life. \n\nI was home schooled, but being careless and stubborn, as teenagers can be, I barely did any work the last few years of my schooling, aside from some self-taught programming. I believe I technically graduated but I'm not 100% sure.\n\nI want to take classes at my local community college, but I'm afraid I won't be able to handle the work they give me due to not doing much work through highschool. Especially the math, science, etc.\n\nWhat I've been interested in doing is taking the general education classes for 2 years at a community college, and depending on how well I do, transfer to a 4 year school to finish up and get a degree in something like computer science. I'd love to do some sort of IT work, I'm good with technology, and I know a good amount just by teaching myself. I feel like I would be able to progress with that type of thing.\n\nAnyway, I don't know how to go about doing any of this. I don't know if I'll be able to pay for it (my family doesn't have money, and I currently work at a grocery store for $8.60/hr) and I don't know if I'll be able to handle the work load because I didn't do much math, science, or any of that stuff. And now I feel like I'm screwed. I'd love any help and insight into my situation!",
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"content": "I guess I'm taking a pretty big risk with my account reputation here...\n\nI just felt like I had to ask the question. I, like everybody else, think Ocean Marketting's PR stallion is a class-A asshat, and I understand that Paul was *particularly* stupid in acting that way towards Mike Krahulik, but I can't convince myself that Mike acted in the right here.\n\nPenny Arcade, and Mike Krahulik through it, command IMMENSE authority with the internet and the entire gaming community--so much so that I feel it could threaten to spread into other realms of this guy's life. Mike decided to power up the internet hate machine, and [some are already starting to feel the backlash.] As Dave observed many times in the original email chain, the Avenger is a fantastic controller, and now the product's sales are going to be affected by misguided hatred.\n\nThat controller was originally designed for the disabled. Is Ocean Marketing responsible for their new product's infamy because they had one awful, reckless marketer associated with it? Moreover, is there the possibility of Paul's actual life (read: not INTERNET life, like the rest of us) becoming endangered because of this and mob mentality? As Facebook, MySpace and Twitter prove to us, his identity and face are no secret, and there are now many, many, MANY people who dislike Paul Christoforo.",
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"content": "This is a really trivial problem compared to typical r/relationships but I'd still like advice if anyone has it.\n\nMy dad sent an email to me and my two siblings (25F and 23M) this morning with a screenshot of what he ordered for our mom for Mother's Day. It's a huge, very expensive order of flowers/chocolate/assorted gifts with the prices included (obviously intentionally).\n\nAlong with the screenshot he added, \"I addressed the card to say it's from all of YOU, but don't let that change what YOU yourselves plan on doing for your mom next Sunday, if anything.\"\n\nI'm irritated and hurt. I don't understand why he feels the need to do this and rub it in our faces. It's fine to buy Mother's Day gifts for your wife when your kids are too little, but fuck, we're all in our twenties and I'm about to be a first time mother myself. And I've never disappointed my mom on Mother's Day.\n\nI resisted sending a biting response and just simply said, \"Don't worry, I already have her gift ready\" but I'm still steaming hours later. He never replied so I don't know if that was a satisfying enough answer or what.\n\nAlso it seems like it's going to be pretty awkward when I visit for Mother's Day and all of these gifts get delivered, she reads the tag and thinks it's from us kids. Then my mom will be thanking us, thinking we got together and ordered this expensive stuff for her that none of us can afford.\n\nJust ugh. What is wrong with my dad and how can I let him know this isn't okay? Should I tell my mom it's not from us or just drop it?",
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"content": "So I have this friend who comes to me for advice, and I've told her to go to a lawyer over this (and she did), but I believe she's being extorted for money through her child.\n\nThe kids father happens to have a few children with various women. His family member adopted one of the kids he has (my friends kid.) as part of the agreement she signed away all rights at the age of 16 in order to never pay child support. She has since kept in contact with him and continues to be a part of his life.\n\nFast forward to today. The \"dad\" got sued for child support from another woman. He has a hefty fine to pay monthly. Now his family member who had adopted their kid wants to abandon the adoption and force the guardianship to default to the parents. My friend was pretty excited about this and wants to care for the kid, but now the \"dad\" says the kid might not want to live with her part time and that she should pay him child support (he's brought it up several times about how she should pay him child support since he's been sued.)\n\nAlso another weird thing was that he wanted to live with her. (It's pretty obvious he's had a thing for her the past 5 years since they broke up.) She's in a happy relationship and really doesn't want much to do with him. (After this he again brought up the child support.)\n\nThe lawyer she saw says there isn't much she can do because the guardianship is going to go to her and she'll have to help support the kid. My thing is that any money she gives this guy is going to go straight to pay for his other obligations, and not towards the kid. She's offered to help in ways other than money but he always turns them down.",
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"content": "We met in college and have been together for 6 years. Last summer we got engaged and we're planning a wedding for this coming summer. There have been a few ups and downs in our relationship- mainly I have an issue with him drinking and cheating on me in the past (it happened twice). He had a rough life growing up and not the greatest role models or guidance, so his coping skills occasionally include drinking, which really bugs me. I encouraged him to seek counseling instead of drinking and he did for a while, but then stopped. Also the cheating was very early on in the relationship and then once last year. He was extremely tearful and apologetic, so I (maybe naively?) forgave him.\n\nSo, fast forward to now. Things have been really great or so I've thought. He hasn't drank in at least 8 months and has been really taking care of his health. Until tonight I thought we were really happy. I was woken up to him being loud on the phone and I got up to ask him to be quiet. When I saw him I knew instantly he was drunk. We got in an argument and I shut down and left the room crying. He followed me and by this time he was also crying and saying he just \"didn't think he could do it anymore.\" And that he's not sure if it's the right thing to do. I asked why and basically he said because he's never seen a successful marriage (true) and that \"someone better might come along.\" \n\nI am so heart broken. Obviously I know this conversation shouldn't have happened like that and in his state, but it did and now I don't know what to do. Is there any hope in this at all?",
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"content": "Before anything, not a sad story or anything, I don't think she's cheating or anything of the sorts. My country's equivalent to Valentine's Day is coming and I had this pretty simple idea to surprise my girlfriend and it would involve giving her some roses. The thing is, although I know she would appreciate my intention in and of itself, I don't know if she would like the actual flowers and such, so I wanted to find out if she likes roses and if she would like getting some, but without her realizing it so as not to spoil the surprise. Any ideas on how to get that information out of her?",
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"content": "So yesterday was a rough day. I still had a LOT of work to do, things like making the actual scale model of the home design I presented today and the powerpoint presentation.\n\nI was able to make a presentable presentation, but only got 4 hours of sleep because of it. I think the lack of sleep is what caused my body to be incapable of processing my normally prescribed dosage this morning.\n\nSo today as I arrived at school I already knew I was sweating a hell of a lot more than I was supposed to. Feeling cold and sweaty is a miserable feeling. Though I assumed it was just a common cold or something. That all changed when I checked my armpits. Seriously I regret wearing a gray shirt today.\n\nMy armpits were just *drained* with sweat.\n\nI could feel the sweat drip down my arm pits drop by drop every minute, what just made more nervous. After an hour my sweater was no longer able to contain the sweat, and it was so visible I didn't even need to lift my arms for people to notice. It didn't make me feel awkward towards my friends, I just laugh it off with them.\n\nBut then it was time for me to present my design to the external jury. 7 well respected teachers and architects gave me 30 min of their time for me to defend my work.\n\nI just know that they noticed it and it distracted them and it distracted me. Too awkward for them to mention it. Too awkward for me to not ignore it. Yet I accepted the awkwardness and was able to give a somewhat terrible presentation because I got verbal ticks along with the overdose. But they loved the design at least after I explained everything twice.\n\nAfter school was done I took a piss before I went home, which was also a bad idea. It felt like passing a kidney stone and gave me a throbbing painful erection for a good 30 minutes.\n\nNow here I am, sitting at home because I can't stop sweating, feeling exhausted, heartbeat still around 100.\nI'm just having a bad day.",
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"content": "Jill and I share the same friend group. I have actually know Russel [25m] for about a decade now. Jill thinks Russel has a crush on her and always talks about him like he is some sort of Hercules. In reality, Russel and I have slept together in the past and continue to do so. I don't share my sex life with people and Jill has been told by Russ that he doesn't like her, has other interests, and really would prefer she kept it cool. \n\nRuss invited Jill to a BBQ and told her to tell me, and two other girls (Megan and Tina) (24f). Jill told them, but not me. Megan finally asked me for a ride to the BBQ and asked if I had made anything. I called Russel and asked him, he said I was invited, and was surprised I didn't know. He'd told Jill 3 weeks ago, since we are all really close (and Jill lives with Megan, who I spend a lot of time with). \n\nI brought Megan and Jill freaks out at the BBQ, accuses me of stalking her, trying to embarrass her. She was trying to hook up with Russ the whole night. She pretty much screamed at me until Megan and I left, Tina staying to calm her down.\n\nI am not sure what to do about this. I like Jill, but I am not sure what made her freak out on me like this. I am not sure why she thinks she can talk to me like that. I just don't deal well with conflict. What happened?",
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"content": "I bought a glock as my first gun in july 2011 from a shop in LAS VEGAS, nevada. a month later i realized im not responsible enough to have a gun around the house. I sell it to a friend under the condition that he pay me at the end of the summer. He stops talking to me for 3 weeks and i finally get a hold of him. From what he tells me he was pulled over by highway patrol, they ran the serial number from the glock, it came up stolen. He was in jail for 3 days. filled out a bunch of paper work about how he got the gun. There is now a local and ATF investigation.\n\nI dont know what the fuck to do. The gun store screwed us over. He talked to someone at the police station and they mentioned that theres nothing the local gun store is liable for. I think thats totally bs, considering they sold hot merchandise.\n\nsomeone help me.",
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"content": "Hi guys. I'm currently in an LDR with a really amazing guy. It's pretty fresh, although we've known each other for over a year. We started dating at the beginning of this year, so we've been together 4-5 months give or take. I realize it's fresh and all, and maybe I just need to give it time, but we haven't had a single argument, fight, or disagreement. I mean, it's not that I *want* one, it's just that I find it odd.\n\nIs it normal? I know everyone says arguing in relationships is completely normal, some people say it's abnormal to *not* fight, but we just haven't. We're both pretty mature and rational, we're both kinda loners and don't do much besides working and talking to each other, and we have quite a lot in common, so I guess there really isn't any reason for us *to* fight but I just feel like it's kinda weird.",
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"content": "My girlfriend and I were on a date yesterday when she had to get something off her chest.\n\nShe said that I am not her second guy (sex) that shes been with. There were two others before me.\n\nShe wanted to be honest with me and I was hurt that she kept this the whole time. I thought we had open communication this whole time.\n\nI respect that she wanted to tell me but I would have either wanted to know from the beginning to know what I was getting myself into or just never know.\n\nI cried because it hurt when this whole time I thought we were each other second partner. \n\nShe had sex with 2 other guys in between her ex and me. she said she was angry and felt like giving up on dating until a mutual friend introduced us. \n\nShe keeps telling me that I am perfect for her and surprised that how I treat like no other guy before. Which I am glad at what i'm doing is right because before it was not appreciated. \n\nI feel like marrying her one day but this idk of our relationship will be the same. \n\nI want things to be the same before she told me. Like I wish I could forget about it.\n\nWhat to do? Did I overreacted?",
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"content": "Hey all, I've just been having a hard time reading this girl I've been talking to. I'll give a quick summary of what the situation is.\n\nAbout three months ago the store I worked at caught fire and I was transferred to work at another location. While there I met a few girls, the one I'm talking to being one of them. She gave me her number to warn about one of the other girls and that she'll text me. So we started texting everyday and hung out once and we're going on a date Saturday. Sounds straightforward right?\n\nWell tonight as I was texting her I complimented her and she told me that she wasn't used to people being nice to her and told me that we're just friends. I decided to not beat around the bush and tell her that I like her, to which she responded with the ever so common, \"I don't feel the same way.\"\n\nI decided to follow up on it and asked why not. She told me she wasn't looking for a relationship right now. So with my spirits dampened, I decided to stop texting at that moment when she suddenly texted asking if we'll still go out Saturday and keep texting every day. I said only if she wanted to, and I got a yeah with a smiley. \n\nThen I asked if it'll bother her that I like her when we're hanging out and she said, \" No because we'll be getting to know each other.\" She even confirmed it as a date that we're going out Saturday.\n\nSo does she want to like me, already does or won't at all? I could be looking it at the wrong way but I'd appreciate all advice and suggestions.",
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"content": "Hm well I was playing Risk with some teenagers at my cousin's house . One of them was a black kid named J-. They didn't have a lot of experience with the game, and so they weren't massing their forces at their borders, they kind of scattered their troops willy nilly all over the board. This kid J- makes some newbie moves during his turn that didn't work out well-- he was attacking my large armies with smaller armies, and he couldn't use all the attack di, so it would be for instance his two attack di versus my two defence di, giving me a significant advantage. The other kids were teasing him about this, so I said 'He's just using guerilla tactics'. Everything became quiet. Someone to my right said 'What?!' The boy looked at me incredulously with some pain in his eyes. It dawned on me that they had probably understood it as 'gorilla tactics', and thought I was making a racial slur. I mumbled something about 'yea, guerilla tactics, you know like in Vietnam'... I don't think that clarified the situation at all for these kids. \n\nSome time later during a church soccer game this boy did a sliding tackle on me that left me sprawled in the dirt. I think I understand the glint of satisfaction in his eyes that I observed. Perhaps my biggest FU of all was not simply explaining myself at the time but it was super awkward.",
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"content": "Together for 3 months, go to the same school \nShe wants our relationship to have more emotion, but she never has time for me. We usually see each other in the school breaks for a few minutes, and on most Saturdays. If I'm lucky I also get to see her on Friday nights. Of course on Sundays (and most weekdays) it's always \"too stressful\" because she has to do homework that day. So when, after waiting for a week, I get to have some time alone with her for a few hours, I just want to make out with her, but apparently she wants to to more than that (However she very much gives me the feeling that it is very fun to her, too). How can I make our relationship more \"meaningful\" so she is happier with it?\n\nI have no experience whatsoever, and I appreciate any advice no matter how obvious it seems. She's by no means the love of my life or something like that, but I like being in a relationship with her.",
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"content": "Long story short, girl knows i like her, gives slight hints she likes me back, then tells her friend she doesnt want relationship with me but its not because of me its just because she doesnt want a relationship. Girl will be telling me this in person soon. Whats my next move?\nThe way i see it, i can play it 2 ways. no 1 - Just play it cool, be like hey thats ok i understand, give me a shout if you change your mind. And if she asks if we can be friends, ill say no i need some space right now to clear my mind and focus on other things and people. No 2 - Tell her how i feel and ask her to be completely open rather than \"letting me down in a way to not hurt me\" and tell her that i like her a lot and if she wants me in her life, i wont be there as a friend or male girlfriend and even though i really like her, i wont be forever waiting for her like her backup. No 1 seems to be more casual, cool and masculine and relies on her missing me when im not there and actually changing her mind and then even pursuing me AFTER shes changed her mind. This plan seems to be less efficient but it doesn't make me look like a pussy begging for her. Plan 2 seems more honest and open and DMN like but might make me look like a wimp and make it seem as if im begging for her and i need her (which i hate to admit, i sort of do....). This way seems to rely on her actually liking me back so its like a go big or go home situation. What is the best way to respond? I like her a lot and this thing has been going on for ages...",
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"content": "Hi ya'll (Mr. ThrowAwayAccountHere),\n\nTwo weeks ago, after my weekly regimen of climbing on Saturday afternoons, I was totally exhausted and ready for a chill evening with a few nice beers (Samichlaus is hella good).\n\nI get a phone call from another friend telling me to go out and as Intergalatic law dictates that spontaneous nights out are always the best, I decided to go. All in all, I had a blast and after running on a small rejection streak I get a phone number without asking for it. It was quite a shock and I thought that my luck must have changed!\n\nI promised to call and did so but sadly did not go out the following week since I was out of town. Fast forward to last night, I sent an SMS to confirm with her if she wanted to go out today; got a reply saying that she's in a new relationship and doesn't know what to do.\n\nTotally understandable that some people might lead another the wrong way for a number of different reasons:\n- unhappy relationship\n- feels exciting\n- wants to be the center of attention\n- plain drunkenness? why-not-what-the-heck-he-seems-nice?\n\nUnder what circumstances do you normally give out phone numbers? (This is research so I can see what type of people to avoid calling and getting hurt again.)",
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"content": "Here's the back-story:\n\nWe've had a mouse problem for a couple of months now. Rather than use poison I've laid out a number of humane traps with the idea of relocating them. \n\nI spotted one scampering behind my board games so got a couple of nice big tubs and tried to tease him out, sadly I hurt his back in the process and he rolled over, eyes blinking and looking panicky. Not wanting him to suffer I quickly figured the best course of action would be to hurl him out the nearby open window. I thought 2 seconds of freefall is preferable to 30 second of stom-finding-his-hammer-and-a-bit-of-newspaper.\n\nI tried to lob him into the road but I guess a gust of wind foiled the plan and he drifted a bit and hit a traffic warden on his shoulder (well, tricep, but meh) who didn't seem to notice.\n\nNow I'm feeling guilty, so it's up to you Reddit to **distract me with tales of well-meant intentions gone awry**.",
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"content": "My ex and i were good friends for 3 years before going out. We broke up up a little over a month ago and the reason behind the breakup was that I was a little too clingy and she needed her space. She claimed that the relationship was unhealthy which now that I look back it is very true. Fact is that I still am very much in love with her and I do want her back in my life but not so the same problem repeats itself. She initiated no contact. At first I was really crushed and confused but I realized that this is a good time to figure what went wrong and how to improve myself so this problem doesn't have to repeat itself. I'm at the point where I realize the relationship is over but now I want to build a better one for the both of us. We went out for half a year. At this point I can accept the fact that if she says no, I am going to respect that decision. Is this the right mindset to go about this or am I just crazy?",
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"content": "As the title says, I need help coming up with ideas/resources on how to raise enough money for a twenty-student brass band to travel to Albania/Greece. The trip is going to cost about $3,000 a piece, and most of us poor students just don't have the cash for that. Any info on corporate donations or huge fundraising ideas would be great. \n\nBack Story: Last year, one of the trumpet teachers (who is a good friend of my trumpet professor) came to my school in order to study with professors in America and expand his knowledge. He teaches at the only conservatory in Albania, The Albanian University of Arts. Even though he is a great player, there are so many things that he just doesn't have access to. This includes all the different teaching methods and equipment. For instance, he was in an opera over there, but the trumpet he had when he came here would have been considered a \"beginner's\" model here in the states. He was fortunately able to purchase a new one with the grant he received. He is also now the first person in Albania to own a piccolo trumpet, which is a standard thing for performers here. I can't explain how cool this is!! \n\nNow that he is back in Albania, he is begging our brass choir to go over and visit. Doing this would propel their brass program forward, as they don't have access to the quality of players that we have. It would also give the students over there a chance to interact with American students, which would be very beneficial to them (as well as us).\n\nIn addition to working with the school, we plan on giving concerts at the embassies as well as around Albania/Greece.",
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"content": "Me and my SO have been dating for about six months, but have known each other for a long time. Everything's going perfectly, have never met a better girl and could not be any happier. We plan on moving in together next year when she turns 18 because I'll be moving out and she's a junior in high school (dual enrolled at the community college), plus her parents aren't going to support her after high school anyways. (her parents are super strict and don't let her do much of anything. i.e. go on dates alone or have sleepovers).\n\nHowever, I recently got accepted into my number one choice for a university that is 8 hours away and I'm not sure if I should go and move away or stay back. There's definite pros of sticking around, such as not having to spend as much money to get my AA and being able to stay with my SO, but I don't want to regret my decision in the future. Is the college experience worth moving away and not saving money and being with my SO? On the other hand, will I regret going away and not saving money and being with my SO???",
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"content": "My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. Although our \"puppy love\" has gone, I love more than anyone. However, I have sexual and (less often) emotional attractions to other people. We have spoken about having an open relationship, but she needs monogamy. \n\nI feel trapped: to leave her would cause me immense pain, but to stay causes me pain on a regular basis.\n\nHow common is it to have these desires?\nHow can I get out of this trap?\n\nI realize this may just be a case where there is no information anyone can give me, but even a little advice on how to come to a decision would be helpful. I've been trying to work it out on my own for months.",
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"content": "I've never had a \"big\" family here in the US, most of my relatives are back in my parents' country. However I did have some connections with my parents relatives, friends & other close people. One of them is my fathers boss, she's wealthy, I don't know too much about her.\n\nEvery year for Christmas she would buy our family presents, she does it for other people too but the fact she does it in general is what is thoughtful. Its been about 8-10 years now and she still asks my father annually what I want for Xmas. I always give her a call thanking her a lot, but I feel like its not enough. \n\nJust now my Mom gave me an envelope and told me it was from my dads boss. Inside the envelope was a card and had a little note congratulating me for my academic success in High School. There's also a check for $250, when I saw it I just couldn't believe it. I mean, I feel like I don't deserve it but I'm absolutely grateful for it.\n\nNow tomorrow I'm going to give her another one of those thank you calls, but I also want to do something more. Should I write her a letter too with a post card? Idk, she's in her 60's and I've no clue what she likes because idk anything about her.",
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"content": "We've only been dating for 5 months but 3 months ago I had attempted to break up with him and he is still hurt by it.\n\nA little background on why I almost broke up with him: I didn't really have faith in the relationship from the start. Before we were dating, he would always jokingly call me his girlfriend, but when I asked to actually be his girlfriend, he would say he wasn't ready yet (it felt like I was in high school or something). I constantly felt like I was a bad girlfriend because he always told me I wasn't talking enough, or being intimate enough. The almost-breakup ended with me staying.\n\nEvery two weeks or so he starts crying out of nowhere and saying that he still has heartache over the almost-breakup. He said that the conversation that night felt one-sided and that we didn't resolve his feelings on it. I reassure him, telling him I won't leave him and that I love him when he starts crying. \n\nI'm trying, but I just don't know how to help him feel better about it. He's a much better communicator while I mostly shut down at a whiff of confrontation. I don't know what to do, I feel lost.",
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"content": "Earlier this week, something of extremely high value went missing from one of our work facilities. I used an e-mail to make a public announcement that it was missing and I was looking for it. Today, I discovered hard and undeniable evidence of who had last seen/touched my property.\n\nWhen I asked the culprit in a casual and non-confrontational manner, he denied ever seeing it and said that he \"feels my pain\". Then I informed them of the evidence against them, and he admitting to having taken it.This made him visibly nervous. I told him I don't care why he did it, and I just wanted my property back. At this time I am the only person that knows he is the culprit, and I told him that I would keep it that way as long as he immediately did what I ask. \n\nBut now I am having second thoughts. This guy knew exactly what he was doing to me when he took my stuff, because I straightforward told him the repercussions of my loss. For lack of better words, he completely fucked me. Then he had the audacity to look directly into my face and say that he didn't have it, but he felt bad for me. Obviously he didn't feel the need to worry about my problems, and I don't see why I should care about his problems. \n\nThis is someone I see every day. We have the same professional network, peers, and superiors. Basically, all I would have to do is let any of our colleagues know the identity of our department's thief. I am a well-liked and respected member of this \"community\", and somebody that tried to screw me would instantly be outcast. I think that this is fair punishment for the amount of stress and anguish that was caused to me, but that's just my opinion.",
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"content": "When I was 13, I broke my nose in a major way. We're talking a 90 degree angle. I didn't ever really get it fixed properly... A few days later, a family friend (who was a surgeon) kinda snapped it back into place. My nose was always larger than normal, but now it's pretty crooked and there's a substantial bump. I hate the way it looks. I think people won't think I'm attractive or won't want to talk to me if they initially view me from my \"bad side\". I know it's totally crazy and may be all in my head, but it's a problem that's plagued me for years. The worst part of it is that I have breathing problems. Now, I'm 21 and I met with a surgeon for the first time. He said that by fixing my septum (septoplasty), my breathing problems would be solved. Fixing my nose cosmetically is a totally different procedure (rhinoplasty). I know for sure that I want to fix my breathing, but here's the catch... if I fix my septum, I won't be able to go back later and do the rhinoplasty. Apparently it works the best if it's all done at once... doing any further cosmetic surgery can make it look weird. Costs aside, I have the chance to fix something that's bothered me for years, and now I'm afraid of the consequences. What if I hate the way I look afterwards? I have a feeling that if I pass up the chance, I'll totally regret it. I've come to terms with the fact that I've got a honker for a nose. It gives my face character and I kind of like that. In my mind, getting plastic surgery would be like giving up on myself. But the thought of looking in the mirror each day and not being bothered by it makes me want to get a rhinoplasty. Reddit, I need your help! I understand this may make me seem vapid for wanting something like this, so whatever.",
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"content": "She left for Boston last Thursday. We finally talked on the phone for about ten minutes 4 days later on Monday (after calling and texting Sunday night and never getting a response), and once before that for a couple of minutes when she was drunk and wanted to bitch about her friend. But other than that she's almost avoided contacting me entirely.\n\nI texted Friday night and she didn't respond at all. I saw she logged onto Facebook through her phone about 4 times after though, so she had to have seen it. She finally texted back the next morning saying she went bar hopping with friends and her phone died, which was a lie since she logged into facebook intermittently all night. I also saw through instagram that she was at a party, which she left out.\n\nWhen she HAS texted me, it's been short sentences, and it's only been in response to me. If I hadn't initiated contact the few times she's texted me, I'm not certain I would've talked to her at all.\n\nShould this be a concerned? Should I just stop contacting her and see what happens, or is that too passive aggressive?",
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"content": "Hey People,\nSo I've been in love (and dating) this girl for awhile now. She's really similar to me (my friends call her the female version of me). We both really like video games, drawing, programming, sex, and more.\n\nSo perfect right, why am I bitching? Well there's one big difference between us. I'm very calm and easy going. She's a massive Tsundere. She'll be very affectionate with me at times, but she's also very violent and will often suddenly attack me for odd reasons. Like the other day I joked about her being a dirty achievement hunter in Portal 2 (jokingly) and she threw both her shoes at me. I'm not sure if this is normal or if I'm doing something overly wrong.\n\nI figured I would ask reddit. (Also if the shoe throwing thing seems mild, the other night she got pissed at me for leaving milk on the counter and almost stabbed me with a kitchen knife. Two minutes later she whispered she wanted my babies (in front of my roomate)).\n\nSo yeah, help me reddit. I'm scared...",
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"content": "My wife and I were supposed to take a trip overseas with my parents. The trip was to India, where my parents are originally from, and my parents wanted to show my wife (who is white) some sights and sounds.\n\nUnfortunately, my mom had a heart attack right before we were planning to leave. She should recover fully, but we had to postpone the trip. First and foremost, I'm glad that my mom is ok, and there's no price that you can put on that. I called our airline to see about rescheduling, and they said that it is not an option at all, given the type of ticket we booked, even for a medical emergency. So, basically, I am out $4k, which is a LOT of money for me (for anyone, really). \n\nMy parents' ticket is fully changable for up to a year. Here's my question. I don't want to tell my parents about the fact that I can't refund the ticket, because I don't want my mom to feel guilty or anything like that. I don't want them to stress anymore than they have due to this medical issue. But I also don't want them to expect that I got a full refund and think that we're going to go to India this year, using the funds from the refund. I simply can't afford another ticket. What should I do?",
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"content": "So, obligatory this did not happen today.\n\nYou should know I'm a guy with his pride. So when my SO started mocking my coordination for tripping over stuff, I got pretty mad and decided to prove to her that my coordination is perfect. Needless to say, just a few days later I was roaming the neighbourhood on my brand new unicycle while juggling some tennis balls (3, to be exact). \n\nThat's where the fuckup begins. One sunny day I was riding around the area when suddenly this ice cream truck appears from behind the corner and heads for me. I could do nothing but watch the kid behind the steering wheel desperately try to stop the truck - luckily, at the last moment he realised he can simply turn the wheel, so he did not break every single one of my bones, just a few ribs and a hip dislocation. \n\nTurns out was also the time when a lot of illegal immigrants began to come over here - god bless you, Merkel - so some employers felt like it was a perfect opportunity and 'hired' many those people for some shitty money without any contract or training. What's even worse is that the kid driving was quite literally this - a kid. \n\nWe finally agreed not to call the police after he promised me a free vanilla scoop every time he was around. My SO was super mad and my unicycle went straight to the garbage can, but damn me if it wasn't worth it.",
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"content": "Hi reddit. I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask this sort of question, but I would like some sort of advice on how to go about this situation.\n\nLong story short, I'm basically getting to know this girl that my co-worker was attempting to hook me up with. Unfortunately every time we tried to meet each other, she'd end up not going (she's incredibly shy). This was a problem since I'm now out of the country and in the middle east for vacation with my family. I wanted to meet this girl before I left, but that didn't happen. However, I knew that she was interested in meeting me, so I added her on facebook. \n\nThrough that, we've started messaging each other and getting to know each other. She's a pretty cool chick and seems like an incredible match for me. However, it takes a while for her to reply to my messages. \n\nI recently got in touch with my (now ex) co-worker and she's told me that this girl has been talking about me and says that I'm interesting. But she suggests that I hold out on asking her out due to the fact that she might not be over her previous relationship and is currently only looking for a friend. But she told me to keep talking to her and to ask her out just a little bit before I get back home, which makes sense.\n\nBut I'm a bit wary, I get friend zoned a lot when it comes to women. I just have that kind of...personality that only attracts friends and not lovers :P I'm just worried on how I'm gonna keep talking to this girl on facebook and sort of....keep away from the whole friendzone deal. I'm still out of the country for at least a month, so the messaging will go on for a while. \n\nSo reddit, what advice could you give me? How can I make myself stay away from the friendzone while chatting with this girl whom I've never actually met?\n\nI'm not sure if I worded this whole thing out well, but if there's any questions needed for clarification, please feel free to ask :)",
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"content": "I don't believe in staying with someone because of a health reason. \n\nMy boyfriend who is a lovely person, but not the right fit for me in the long run due to various reasons including different interests and him seemingly forgetting to put effort into our relationship has panic attacks. \n\nHe shares a very personal story which I greatly appreciated him trusting me with about how when the last girl he was seriously seeing ended things with him, he had a panic attack and ended up in the ER. He had to take a week off of work and had a very difficult time, eventually getting a psychologist. \n\nHe has since stopped going to the psychologist.\n\nI do not see things going well with him. I'm bored with the relationship and were about to enter long distance which I'm just not down for. It was suppose to be our last night together and he fell asleep early. By chance I ended up staying in the city but I was so fed up by the end of that night I decided it was over. \n\nI am extremely worried about breaking up with him. It's not that I think I am his God given world or anything like that at all. For all I know he could want to breakup too. \n\nWe previously got in a large fight when we were drunk and I broke up with him. He said some extremely mean things about my health and I got up and said this is not what I need. \n\nHe broke down crying and couldn't breathe on his bed. I ended up staying the night and calming him down. \n\nThings got better since but I can't see this relationship lasting forever and I don't think it's fair to stay with him.\n\nDoes anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this? \n\nI'm his first serious girlfriend in 8 years and the first girl ever to meet his family. \n\nThe last girl he had a breakdown over was a FwB who he said he fell in love with. \n\nI've made him promise before that if we did breakup and he got sick, he had to let me know if he wanted and I would want to help him. I do not want to see him suffer and he knows this.",
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"content": "I'll be quick. She referred me for a great job at the company she's working at. Much better than my previous job. I got the job. I was pretty excited about working here. We didn't think it'd be an issue because we are in different departments and thought we would keep it professional anyway. But it'd be nice to chat sometimes in between work.\n\nOh my god, it's my first day and it's...weird. I haven't got anything to do except paperwork so maybe that's why, but I can't stop thinking about her. I consider myself fairly strong willed and not too reliant emotionally, and good at compartmentalising. But this is really weird. I'm sort of regretting doing it at all. we had an awkward conversation during a break but that's it. I'm worried this will ruin our relationship. Should I wait it out? I can't leave now, that's for sure. I also feel really guilty about impacting her in some way.",
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"content": "I have a quick question regarding my new apartment that I moved into about 7 months ago but I'll give a quick back story first. The apartment in which I currently am living in is ADA accessible. For those unfamiliar it is meant for people who are physically disabled having a larger bedroom, a larger bathroom with a support bar along with wall, lowered shelves, light switches, sinks, and cupboards with doors removed for easier access to those in wheelchairs. It is the ground floor apartment, however it still has a half-flight of stairs in order to get to the front door from the parking lot/walkway. There is a back door, but it is a sliding glass door leading to a concrete patio and a small concrete ramp for wheelchair access. And here is lies the problem, the sliding glass door cannot be locked from the outside.\n\nThis is what got me thinking, is something like this legal where a person who is physically disabled is unable to secure their home? I am not in any way disabled and is probably why I have not thought about it until recently, but it still makes me wonder if something like this is illegal. And to my knowledge this apartment complex has several other ADA accessible apartments for rent along with another complex built the same as mine. I have talked to a friend of mine who is a private contractor and he told me that it is illegal, however he is not much of a legal authority so I thought I would ask as help for my own research.",
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