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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "*I am NOT planning of giving neither of them advice/opinions etc. They have lawyers for that. I'm just curious to what reddit thinks of this case. \n\nThe dog is a he, but to avoid confusion I will refer to him as \"it\".\n\nOn going divorce between a friend and her husband of 10 years. The dog is the husband's (he had it before the marriage). However, for most of the marriage, the wife is the one who walks it, feeds it, cleans after it.* And when it got sick (I am not familiar with animal health issues, but it has to take certain meds regularly) she's the one who takes it to the vet and also started making raw food for the dog to improve its overall health.\n\nHowever, he feels that the dog is \"his dog\" and refuses to part with it/is willing to fight over it.\n\nSome background, feel free to skip:\n\nThe wife is the stay-at-home mom of two boys. She does some contract work when she could. It is not her first choice, but the husband was never home because of his career and often out of the country. (Which makes him unfit to take care of the dog) After giving birth to the second child, he asked her to stay home so he could focus on his career and she could take care of:\n\n1. Two boys.\n2. The elderly in-laws. (80 and 75 now)\n3. House-hold chores.\n4. The dog. (walking it, taking it to the vet, giving it meds, making food for it)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have severe depression, Post traumatic stress disorder and severe anxiety due to being physically abused by my sisters for so many years and in high school I was forced into a sexual relationship with a boy for 6 years. I was also locked in my room on many occasions by my mum until i screamed and passed out.\n\n***\nMy relationship with my partner (whom I've been with for over 5 years now) was very rough at first but all is good, I've become more patient and so has he. We understand each other and we love each other but I have one problem, I have no sex drive and I'm finding it hard to accept his touch even if it just a small pat. \n\nI want to with my heart and soul but my body reacts differently. I've seen my doctor and its a side effect of my medication (anti-depressants and anti-anxiety) but there must be a way around it.\n\n \nI'm all open to suggestions and questions.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have always had a closed relationship, we didn't have any social networks and didn't talk with opposite genders. However, when she moved out to a friends house, she changed. She made social networks behind my back, kept constantly controlling me, going out (she doesn't go to school or work) and kept lying to me. \n\nThe only reason I stayed with her was because I knew a breakup would really hurt me in school, especially during finals. I broke it off after school ended and she tried getting me back for a week until I started talking to her again. Things were fine and then she had to move a thousand miles away to her mothers house.\n\nWe decided to stay together long-distance since I graduate college in a year. She has been super nice to me but the past couple days she hasn't been texting me for long periods. I decided to look into it and I found out she has been using a dating website and snapchat to meet guys in her area. \n\nI made a fake account and started talking to her. She started flirting with me and telling me she doesn't have a boyfriends ect. I am going to call her in the morning, what do I say? I'm so broken crying and drinking my life away since I have no friends. My whole life was dedicated to her and school.\n\nThe thing that concerns me the most is that I won't be able to concentrate in school. It's my last year taking some hard engineering courses and I know this will tear me apart.\n\nHow do I concentrate in school while she's out having the time of her life? What should I tell her tomorrow morning?\n\nThanks in the advance for any support.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me (20F) and SO (20M)\n\nWe have been together for 10 months and so far the relationship has been amazing. Definitely not perfect but close.\n\nMy boyfriend recently got accepted into an exchange program at a university in another country (ca 3 hour flight). He will leave sometime in August and most likely return around Christmas. I would be able to visit him once or twice during that time. There's also a slight possibility he might stay for a second semester.\n\nWe've discussed him studying abroad quite a lot, but there's one question I haven't asked him out of fear: Whether or not he wants us to stay together while he's abroad. I want us to try long-distance while he's away but I'm not sure he does. I am absolutely terrified that he'll say he wants us to break up. How do I start that discussion? What do I say?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me[21M] with my exgf [20F] - It was a clean breakup and we tried to be friends afterwards. We talked a lot and hung out occasionally. Recently just got a text from her saying that we should hold off on talking and hanging out for awhile. She has told me before that her current boyfriend (she started dating him less than a month after we broke up) is insecure and feels uneasy that we have been talking and stuff. I responded with something like \"If that's what you want\". Got another text later that night on the lines of \"It's not what I want\". I don't know what I should do. Should I just go with the flow and try to ride this out, or just forget about her and try to not be her friend (but she is cool and fun to hang around and really do consider her a friend).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Actually happened today!\n\nSo I had surgery last week to repair a torn labrum in my shoulder. I've been mostly lounging around and was starting to feel anxious, so I decided to start cleaning up a bit.\n\nEventually I come up with the brilliant idea to clean my basement, where my demon feline children house their litterbox. I decided that, because I was futilely attempting to clean in the first place, I may as well wash out the litterbox beforehand.\n\nEnter fuck up.\n\nNow an intelligent person would have seen the limits of their powers after barely half dragging the litter box to the dumpster \n\nand asking a small old lady to help me dump it.\n\nNot me though. I got this shit.\n\nAfter bringing casa de feces back to the basement I realize it's still caked in its fair share if shit, piss, and other goodies. I realize that the only way to remedy this problem is by filling it to the absolute fucking top with water and scrubbing the sides with an old rag.\nKeep in mind that this is in and old sink probably about chest level.\n\nAfter I had scoured the box clean and was satisfied with my concentration of piss/shit water, I then realized I only had one arm to dump every thing down the drain. No problem of course, \nshouldn't be any hassle whatsoever.\n\nI was wrong.\n\nAfter carefully starting to tip Shitanic to the side I immediately lost all semblance of control or a plan. As the entire container went over in one fell swoop I quickly realized the the shallow sink was not going to hold this cascading waterfall of terror.\nBefore I could even think about moving, but coincidentally just slowly enough I could open my mouth, I'm hit full on in the face with an Old Faithful of my cats' Seafood sensations lunch of yore.\nEver inch of me from head to tow covered in nasty ass piss and shit water. I even got the opportunity to taste some Friskies after extended marination.\n\nI can feel poop in my eye", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I began dating a girl six months ago. Really nice girl, we are opposite but attract all good.\n\nWhen we met she told me she was a sports starlet in her youth. I thought it was cool but it didn't impact how I felt about her all that much.\n\nNow I have been trying to get in better shape myself for on off the last year, and I told her this when we met. One day about three months in she said she had decided to do the same, and explained how she used to be in great shape, super hot and had let herself go, showing me pictures etc.\n\nI was pleased for her and asked her to keep me posted on how it goes. So she keeps telling me she's doing all these things, classes, runs, etc, yet there's literally been no change in three months. Whenever we end up eating, she's usually having some kind of fast food or savoury food.\n\nI've dropped some weight and I'm looking good. Meanwhile her stories are getting less and less.\n\nI really don't know how to bring this up without sounding like a dick. It's also lead me to question whether we can move forward because I want a partner that takes care of themselves and she just doesn't seem to be doing so or even want to.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been dating for about a year and together officially for 3 months. We weren't together before due to long distance.\n\nI was VERY drunk (not that it is an excuse) the other night at a bar with my boyfriend and we ran into one of his old friends who is a female and also happens to be best friends with his ex. She kept bringing up his ex to me and it was bothering me that she would talk so much about her to me when they have been over for so long, and barely went out for any amount of time at all. I guess it bothered me a lot because I started questioning him about her and acted literally insane. Asking things such as are you only with me cause you couldn't be with her, did you like her more, do you wish you were with her.\nI have no idea why i acted like this as although I am kind of insecure and think about these things I have never expressed them before in any relationship I've ever been in. We ended up fighting about it and I was probably pretty crazy.\n\nHe slept over and in the morning when I woke up and realized what a crazy person I had been I apologized a lot. He said it was fine it was just the vodka and told me not to worry. He asked if I remembered telling him to go home (which I don't) and he said 'I didn't want to go home I wanted to stay and wake up next to you' so I thought that was very sweet and maybe it wasn't as much of a big deal as I thought.\n\nThe only problem is he's been very distant since. Barely texting me, took hours to respond to my text (abnormal for him unless he is asleep, which he wasnt) and now I am worried. I'm not sure what to do as I apologized a lot. I don't know if any of you could tell me maybe what he's thinking right now, or how I go about fixing this. I'm afraid he will break up with me over it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my father has been struggling with an unknown skin condition for the past few months. After several doctors visits, referrals, prescriptions, and trying every home remedy and lotion under the sun, it has persisted. The skin is almost leather-like and very thick from his face, all the way down his arms, chest and back, and he develops painful lumps or nodules under the skin that grow and shrink at various spots along the neck, front shoulder, and upper arm. These lumps start the size of a pea and grow to small ping pong balls and then shrink again over the course of a few days time.\n\nHe was referred to have an outpatient surgery early last week to remove one of these lumps so that they could perform a biopsy and find out what exactly is going on with him.\n\nHe returned today to have his stitches removed and find out some preliminary results. The doctor very frankly said that he was sorry but they have \"lost\" the sample that they extracted from his body. No recourse was offered and my father left the office completely stunned at the situation after having the stitches removed.\n\nThe surgery/referral was covered by his medicare and supplementary insurance, all but $92.00. Now this isn't an obscene amount but we are by no means well off. But I find it very disturbing that my father is still left with no idea of what is wrong with him and now will most likely have to undergo ANOTHER surgery in the near future. \n\nIs there anything I can do reddit? Is this grounds for a negligence or Malpractice lawsuit?\n\nI know that this is no place for seeking legal advice but there has to be someone out there that might have gone through something similar or can offer some advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on.\n\nI found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Way, way back when I was in high school, my mother was the unfortunate victim of a workplace accident. She's been disabled since then, but she got pretty screwed over in the courts and sees very little money for it. As such, after college I moved back home to help care for her financially and to help with what physical tasks she just can't handle any more (lifting, groceries, stairs, etc.). I do okay for myself, but nowhere near well enough that I could support her without living together, which is quite trying at this age...\n\nWe split the bills as best we can. She handles the food (since I don't drive) and two of her own, personal bills, which leaves her with a bit of spending money, while I handle basically everything else, including her credit cards. This last one is where the issue lies. We have had countless discussions about these credit cards and promises are made about curtailing spending and putting them away, but nothing ever changes. In the past four months, she's charged over $3,500! If I were to bring this up, she'd just tell me how it's because of the car ($600) or how she's returned a lot of things ($1,000), but it still doesn't make up for her spending.\n\nI'm at my wits' end here. I've got student loans out of the ass that I'm almost never going to get paid off, while $250 of my money gets siphoned off into her spending habits every month. The idea of moving out and letting her figure out her own life becomes more and more appealing as time goes on, but in her financial situation I don't see how she could survive...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "On my phone so there might me formatting issues.\n\n I met an international student about 3 months ago who recently graduated and was in the process of interviewing for jobs. He was pursuing me very strongly in the beginning and showed his interest in me. Then all of the sudden his texts became less frequent and would take days or weeks to respond and would ignore any text confirming any plans we had. I asked him if there's something wrong and why he wasn't talking as much and I didn't get a response, so I assumed he lost interest in me and deleted his number off of the chatting app we used to talk on.\n\nThen about a week ago he contacted me again out of the blue to say he was apologizing for not responding to me with his reasoning being that he was doing a bunch of interviews, and now that he got a job he's asking me for a second chance. Should I give him a second chance or would I be a fool to do that?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(Just to clarify, she is my friend, we are not dating.)\n\nI have a close friend that I have known for several years. In September she moved cities for university.\n\nWe hung out a few times when she came back home for the weekend and everything seemed ok.\n\nWe were talking less than normal but that's to be expected since were both in school but I tried my best to stay in touch.\n\nDuring second semester we barely spoke. I thought I could get things back on track when the summer started.\n\nShe has been back home for 2 months now, still barely speaking to me and I haven't seen her in 7 months. I've asked her to hang out several times.\n\nI'm not sure how to approach this, I don't want to make things complicated with her. I afraid maybe we just drifted apart and there's nothing I can do to fix it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [17,M] Just finished junior year of high school, and I have really strong feelings for my best friend of the last few years. She's everything and more than I've ever wanted. We have the same interests, goals, plans, and sense of humor, besides her being the prettiest thing in all creation. \nI don't want to make the friendship (remember: best friend) awkward with unrequited feelings, but also don't want to miss my opportunity. From a distance of seems like I should go for it, but she is much better looking than me, and seems to lose interest in guys really quickly sometimes. She has basically her pick of anyone she wants to date, being who she is. \nOn top of all this I'm so vastly inexperienced with relationships I have no idea what to do and what will happen.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit,\n\nI'm currently a 2nd year undergrad student majoring in bio. I thought I wanted to be a pharmacist back in high school, but I've found tht bio isn't exactly my thing. After fall quarter, I'll be on academic probation for the second time under the school of biology. A part of me is really hard-headed and doesn't want to admit that due to my past disregard for my academics, I can no longer achieve a competitive GPA unless I buckle down and shut out the world for the next 3 years. Realistically, I don't think that's going to happen. Though I have some interest in bio, I have no passion for it.\n\nMy parents keep on telling me it's do-able with hard work, and they've been such a big source of support and motivation, but other than them, I have no motivation for staying in bio. My parents always tell me that while I have the oppurtunity, I should aim for the highest possible accomplishments since I'm attending a good university, and I agree with them. But I don't know if I should aim for that under bio. They really want me to stay and become involved in the medical field since \"that's where the money is.\" I don't argue with them about that point since I know how important money is to support a family, but I know that I'm not fit for the medical field. \n\nWhat I've always really wanted, but locked away because I knew it is impractical, was to become a teacher. Becoming a high school teacher is fine with me, but I'm looking to be able to support myself with no ones help. I don't know if I can with their salary. Recently, I've come up with a solution to this problem that will make my parents happy, as well as myself. My idea is to become a professor in something I'm passionate about. So... what should I do? I'm contemplating switching into philosophy or something in humanities. I know that I'll definitely be happier if I do, and I see myself achieving more in that field versus science. Also, are there any professors out here that would like to share their story with me? Tips and advice from anyone else would be appreciated as well.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last night I went out bar crawling with several of my coworkers. One of them, Harry, got heavily drunk so I offered him my couch to pass out on because it was just a short walk away. He happily accepted, but I told him that first I need to just double check that it was okay with my roommates and my significant other. He immediately said, \"oh you have a boyfriend?\" and stormed away.\n\nAn hour later I got this text:\n\n\" It would be for the best if we didn't speak again. I'm sorry for being the asshole that I am. I did a lot of stupid things tonight, and I'm still in the process of doing something stupid. I'm so sorry for putting you in any kind of awkward position, you don't deserve that. I figure I should say all this before I get too sober and clam up.\"\n\nNow I understand that he probably had a crush on me and was upset to find out that I have a boyfriend, but I did not lead him on in anyway before this. I also realize that this was blown out of proportion for him because of how much alcohol he had. \n\nHow do I respond to his text in a way that let's him know that it was okay to have a bad drunk night and that I don't think any less of him for it? I'm at a loss how to do this since I know about his crush. I have to continue working with him so it would be awkward if I can't resolve this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To put it bluntly, I'm kind of fucked up, or at least I think so. I'm a porn addict, I have anger issues, I lack healthy emotional boundaries, and am otherwise unstable much of the time. I have good streaks and bad streaks but that's not something that's healthy in a relationship.\n\nAbout a year and a half ago I was in a relationship that evolved into what I can't help but call an abusive relationship (16F at the time). There were a lot of strange circumstances, a big part of which were her health issues, so I felt obligated to be there for her regardless of how much she treated me like shit. This is a very cut down version of this but she attempted suicide at one point, she was verbally abusive very often and physically abusive on occasion. I don't think all of my problems come from that situation but it's definitely a catalyst. \n\nI never hit her back whenever she was physically abusive, but I'm not sure I would react the same now. There are times I look back and wish I had retaliated (not considering that if I had, she would be in the hospital and I would be in jail). I tend to get aggressive very easily now and in my worst phases sometimes fantasize about hurting people that have angered me, particularly women. \n\nI know how much damage that can do, emotionally and physically and I don't want to do that to anyone; I would never forgive myself. Even if I don't end up physically hurting them I feel like any relationship I ever attempt is doomed to fail just because of all my other problems (I was recently rejected by a girl that I really cared for because of all these issues). \n\nI'm not really sure what exactly I'm looking for here, maybe just some encouragement or comfort. I've been seeing a therapist for a while but may start seeing someone else as progress has been pretty slow, if not, non-existent. Thanks to whoever reads this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've always been honest in applications, interviews, etc., so when I was at a job interview for a job I desperately need this morning and was asked what my future plans were, I told the truth: I'll be in the city for another year and then will go to graduate school from then on, and so I'm looking for a 1 year position.\n\nThe interviewer stopped the interview then and said he \"appreciated my honesty, but [he] had to be honest with [me]\" and that, despite otherwise being hirable, he couldn't justify hiring/training someone who would be gone in a year. He said twice, though, that if anything were to change and I were to decide not to go to graduate school and put it off for a year, to contact him.\n\nShould I not tell interviewers that I am looking for a one year position, even though it's true? I feel like I'm screwing them over if I do, but at the same time, it's a temporary job and I have good references otherwise, so is that even a real concern other than from a conscience standpoint? Should I contact him in a day or two and say I rethought my time schedule and would like to stay in town for an additional year, even though that's not true? I feel almost like he was hinting that I should do that, but I can't imagine that's actually the case.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend is a horrendously picky eater, both when we cook at home (most of the week) and when we go out (once or twice a week). He'll eat only white chicken meat, steak, pizza, spaghetti or a hamburger. Green beans are the only veggie he'll touch, and he has to be vigorously persuaded to eat any fruits, after which he expects to be praised as if he's done something wonderful.\n\nI'm an adventurous eater, and I work out hard during the day so that I can enjoy something I like for dinner. I love sushi, curries, gyro, pho, ramen, etc etc. Boyfriend won't even try any of these, for a plethora of excuses.\n\nI'm fine if he contains his picky eating to himself, but I'm sick of always going to his restaurants because I can find something I'll tolerate on their menus, and he won't go near any of mine. I want to be able to cook more adventurously at home (usual menu is chicken breast, rice or potatoes, green beans- BORING) without him whining and just eating a muffin or frozen pizza instead. I'm worried about his health and I resent not being able to do something I enjoy.\n\nIn the past, we've had very nonconstructive conversations about this. He got defensive, I got snarky. I need a way to reframe the issue, maybe some scripting help or practical compromises. Any ideas?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have been in a serious long term relationship for 4 years with my girlfriend and by serious I mean I am thinking about proposing within the next year. However, about 2 years ago I met a really amazing girl, lets call her C. C and I have been getting closer - we text regularly, are able to make fun of each other like I do with my bros, and we usually go out for drinks at least once a week (i let my gf know this of course). We really connect as we have the same career (finance) and she is one of the more interesting individuals i have ever met and understands me (very few people do as I think I am quite complicated). Anyways, the other night we went out for drinks and ended up at her place. We had a few more drinks and we end up making out - this was one of the most passionate make-out sessions I've had in a long time. The next morning, we sober up a bit and now things are a bit awkward and I feel like shit for cheating. She says to me that if I have no intention of being with her, its best that we don't see each other anymore. She's out of town for the weekend as she has family matters to attend to and we will talk when she's back. \n\nI know this is selfish but I don't want to lose C as a friend and also don't want to break up with my current gf. I'm aware that it's not fair to C but it feels like my best friend just suddenly died. I'm not sure which direction to go ie \n\n1) break up, date C\n\n2) Never talk or see C again\n\n3) Do shit all and go with the flow\n\nAny advice on what to say when I meet up with C or advice on what to do is appreciated, thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last month (July 19th to be exact) I went for a 6 mile run and totally blew my knee. I RICE'd it and saw my PT, but no matter what I was doing I still had to take some time off of running.\n\nI got really depressed pretty much right away and in an effort to keep myself sane I turned all of my normal running energy to strength training. I had been running about 25 miles per week, 5 days per week, and did two short (15 minute) basic calisthenics workouts on short run days.\n\nWhen I had to stop running I started working out 4 days a week doing about 30-40 minutes on a hill climber set to maximum incline and resistance and was doing about 30-40 minutes of core and upper body strength training. Over the last 5 weeks, no running, I have unintentionally dropped about 3 pounds with no dietary change. I tripled the number of push up I can do and I quadrupled the length of time I can hold plank.\n\nBut here's the amazing part- today I went out for my first run since July 19th and I felt so good and so light, yet strong. I felt fast but I told myself that it was probably just because it'd been so long. But when I checked my pace at the end- sure enough it was about 25 seconds faster than my old \"normal\" pace. In fact, my pace was the fastest I've ever run that distance (3 miles). And I didn't stop running because my body had to, I felt like I could've kept going for another hour at that same pace! I only stopped because I didn't want to go from zero to 60 and risk reinjury. I feel like a million bucks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I never was what one would call cool... but I certainly used to have much more of a social life than I am left with now. I started dating an out of town girl during high school and now as a sophomore in college, I find myself very alone. I didn't make the effort to have a life outside of this girl before and I'm realizing what a big mistake that was. \n\nAnyway, how I got here isn't that important, I need now to just change this state I'm in. But I don't really know how to do that. I have some friends at school, but no one close other than my room mate. I'm a comp sci student so that doesn't really help anything (Insert SOP programmer joke here). \n\nI don't care about a romantic relationship at all at this point, I need some time I know to get over this girl, but how do I just... meet people? I really don't care to get drunk and that seems to be what a lot of the social scene is built around. I love disc golf and play it a good bit, with other people even, but the disc golf scene around here is mostly 40-50 yr old men...\n\ni haven't really made a friend in years. My current 'friend group' is really just the people my room mate knows and a few people from my HS who came to my college that I'm not that close with.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "41M, married 2 years to 35F. She's pregnant and had started a new job when we found out a few months ago. \n\nAbout 6-7 weeks ago we were sitting on our couch talking and she gets a text asking if she's the type of girl that likes to \"make love\" from a number I didn't recognize. I busted her then, she peddled bullshit for a bit but eventually admitted the whole thing and said she would stop. I wanted to believe her so I did, but my trust was shaken.\n\nAbout a week later I noticed she wasn't messaging me during the day as often as she had been and wasn't responding in her normal, flirty way. I popped into her IM account (we each have each other's passwords) and saw a slew of messages between the two of them. I let this go on for a few weeks, for a few reasons: while she was definitely flirting with him, she constantly reminded him she was married and would never do anything. I believed she would be faithful even if she was playing out of bounds. He kept pressing, flattering her and teasing, and they started having lunch together a couple of times a week.\n\nThen last Friday she crossed the line. They went out to lunch and she got tipsy on a glass of wine, and when they continued their IM conversation later in the day she finally relented to his teasing and told him she had fantasized about sucking his cock or being taken from behind by him. When I picked her up that night, I immediately confronted her about it and we talked it out. She agreed not to continue and I really, really want to believe her, but it's driving me nuts. She cried, she apologized, but I don't trust her anymore and I'm not sure I'll be able to continue in our marriage. Help me fix this, Reddit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been dating for a couple of months. I like her SO much and she tells me the same.\n\nFlashback - She has a friend, who doesn't live in my country, who wants something with her, but she doesn't want to. In fact, he already told her his feeling for her, but she only sees him as a friend (This happened when she was with her ex, last year)\n\nHe told her when she were single, they should hook up. She told him she wasn't interested. They kept talking, she met me, we start dating. Somehow he knows about it, he reclaims her that he asked her to hook up when she were single.\n\nFlashforward - He came to the country to try again with her, even when she told him she wasn't interested. Now, she just told me she was having \"mixed feelings about her situation and our situation, but not about her feelings for me, because she is sure she loves me so much\". And she needs to talk to me. I'm scared of losing her, and I like her SO much.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I only need/ can use advice about defending myself. \n \nBack story: \nI serve in the military (not US) right now, and have lately been threatened by someone, after an unfortunate exchange of insults. \nI am noticeably bigger than him, and none of us have practiced martial arts, other than basic melee training in the military itself. \n \nI tried to defuse the situation more than once. \nI can't \"snitch\" about it, because that would create hostility between me and his friends. \nI am near this guy 24 hours a day for the next 6 weeks. \nI cannot go on the offense in any shape or form, otherwise I will be sent into military prison and loose a bunch of hard earned privileges. \nMy only hope to come out clean is to take a beating and wait until a superior comes to defuse the situation, with the other guy being sent to military prison and such.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I took a gal out for dinner at a casino. She ordered two appetizers (didn't share), a bunch of drinks, then steak and lobster, which came with a salad. Over the evening she didn't really let me talk, but she mostly complained. She ignored me 28 times to txt on her phone. Our food came and she sent back the lobster and had it replaced with shrimp. So she ate the shrimp, did not eat the steak, nor the accompanying veggies. She gave me an attitude that after we ate when I didn't give her money to gamble. She was really into her video slot so I said I had a good night, and told her I was leaving (politely). She gave me a half hug, did not look up from the machine to make eye contact nor did she thank me. Some other odd things she did: told me to tip more (15% wasn't enough) then complained about the service, how her legs got sweaty because it was too hot, smoked and blew towards me when she knew I am asthmatic, then ordered more complimentary bread at the end of the meal and ate it.\n\nSo I walked out of there thinking ok, we didn't click, she wasn't interested in me, I definately wasn't interested in her, as I found her behavior repugnant. No big deal, no big loss. (well actually HER loss) So a friend asked how it went and I said eh, not going to happen. Told him what happened and he said, \"oh she pulled a power play on ya.\" I didn't think much of it at the time, but is that a new dating thing? Kinda like playing hard to get? But instead you act all domineering or self absorbed to get attention?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "23 m\n\nI'm not socially awkward, but I am fairly introverted. It's not that I don't like to talk, I just don't usually talk unless I have something to say. That aside, women never talk to me first nor can they keep a conversation going. Even in group discussions in class, usually only the guys will discuss the topic with me. \n\nHere's the bizarre thing, I have a TON of gay friends that hit on me all the time. Why are the men so forward and confident, but women are all shy or uncomfortable / anxious around me? Tbh, I have the same amount of close gay friends as I have close straight guy friends. And obviously that ratio is pretty lopsided. And literally only women that I'm not very attracted to will try to be friends with me and they're always way cooler than most above average looking women(from my perspective). It's like there's some kind of tension there when I'm around attractive women. I don't know if it's what I say, or if I put off bad vibes, but it's usually only around attractive women. It's like even if I'm actually trying to hold a conversation, they don't contribute.\n\nMy luck has been bad enough to where I had sexual relations one time with my only best female friend and she has avoided hanging out with me ever since. I'm not sure what the problem was because we were pretty close. She didn't even give anything a chance, but I suspect this had to do with her relatively recent breakup.\n\nEvery women I've been with or been \"talking\" has said I'm too attractive for them. Idk if that's even related, but it's like they think they aren't good enough for me when I try to become more than friends. Sometimes I think how much easier it'd be if I was gay lol. Gay guys always find me one way or another, it happens all the time ha.\n\nAlso, my field of study has an inherent lack of women. That probably has a lot to do with the lack of women in my life in general. \n\nSo, what could the problem be??", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I became good friends with a girl that I know has liked me for about a year and we are going to prom together next month. She told my friends that she wants to kiss and grind together at prom, but she said I would have to initiate it. I have literally no experience with girls and feel that things are still a little awkward between us. I feel like we are both ready to start getting a little more serious but I feel like I might get nervous when the time comes and I'll miss out. Any tips on how to initiate grinding and kissing while still feeling comfortable would be appreciated.\n\nAlso, if anyone has any tips on how to grind/kiss/dance at prom that would be awesome too. I've never gone out with anyone so this is pretty much completely new to me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey reddit, I am starting to get desperate with this infestation of fleas that I have going on in my parents' basement. I am house-sitting for them while they are on vacation and taking care of their parrots. Let me explain why this infestation is so weird.\n\nMy parents have 2 dogs that are on the best flea medication that they can get and the dogs 100% do NOT have fleas, the fleas are localized only to the basement, where the dogs don't go (in fact, the dogs aren't even here right now). The fleas are in the basement, where my parents keep 4 eclectus parrots and 2 cockatoos that I am watching while they are away. \n\nThe basement is unfinished-- there is NO carpet down there, but there is an old sofa located near the birds' cages, but we have flea-bombed the basement twice before my parents left for vacation and the fleas have not been killed. What is unusual is that fleas don't usually (and aren't as far as I know) feed on parrots, so the parrots are not serving as a host for them. \n\nI am going directly from my parents' place to my girlfriend's when they return from their trip, and she has a cat that is not on any flea medication. I am trying to make absolutely sure that her cat does not get fleas from me. I have absolutely no idea how the fleas are still alive downstairs, but I want to try and kill them off. Flea-bombing is dangerous to the birds and we have to take them all out of the basement for several hours when we do it, and I can't do that alone, so I am trying to find a way to kill the fleas that is not harmful to the birds and doesn't require me to move them from the basement (because I can't).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Anchorage, Alaska\n\nSo I will keep this short, as I dont know how active this subreddit is, but also put as much detail as possible in hopes I can get some legal advice here.\n\nI work for a multi million dollar company, one which pays me a percentage of its net earnings after my particular expenses such as rent, overhead, etc. While most of this was clear cut in the past, and I could track it, double check it, we moved to a new computer system last year and for the past several months money has gone missing, my paychecks have been getting smaller and smaller, while profit has been at all time highs. My accounting department has consistently called me about mis-allocated funds wondering where they are supposed to go, especially at year end. Every month prior to our new computer system I was consistently owed money due to statements needing to be finalized, and it was corrected on the following check. Now I am never owed a penny, statements are wrong, accounting calls me constantly, my company is in litigation with this software company and I don't think I will ever recover a dime of the 7 going on 8 months I have been underpaid. I have told my superior who agrees with me, but says questioning it further could cost me my job.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to keep it short. I have 3 fur babies, 2 white ones who are from the same litter and 1 black one from a different shelter, but all adopted at the same time. I love them all so so very much and they all get a long great. We all moved back to my parents house about 5 years ago and it took adjusting for them, but now they rule the place of course :] with that, they all picked their favorite spots in the house. My little black cat (Elbee)is my mushiest (only with me though) and he sleeps in my bed every night. The one white cat, Batman, favors my living room daybed and is my t.v companion. Now the other white one, Lt. Peabody Fuzzybottom, he became my dad's shadow and best friend, he hung out upstairs w. Them all the time. I'd really only see him for morning feeding time. He follows him around like a dog! Ok so, the weirdness, I just bought a new comforter and he loves it, he's on my bed all the time now, he's throwing off our whole house groove! My dad jokes about how I must have brainwashed him, but I can tell he misses his little bud. And Elbee is all out of sorts b.c our sleep space is different. Anyone ever had a situation like this, is it just b.c it's a new blanket, New smells? Any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been friends with a girl for several months now. At the time we met, she was dating and living with a guy I considered a friend for a while. She told me they were having issues and could end up stuck here (she's from out of the state). I told her that if that ever happened she could stay with me until she figured out what to do. Fast forward a few months and she finds out he was cheating on her, so she packed up and has been staying with me for a few weeks now. Her original intention was to go home but she decided to keep working at her job and live with me a while longer.\n\nWe grew close and developed a physical and somewhat of an emotional relationship. Things were fine, and she's been sleeping next to me every night. So the other day, things were fine, but her ex wanted her to come over and talk, so she did. When she got home, she came home late, and was very distant. She promised they didn't have sex or anything. She started to apologize saying she's a burden to everyone and she's tired of ruining everyone's life. She wouldn't tell me what she talked to him about, just that he seemed like a different person and she feels he is up to something. Since then she won't lay next to me, or hold my hand or anything. She said it's just a \"mood\" and she has them quite often. \n\nI know most people would say, \"Get out now, don't be a rebound\". But I still feel like there's the potential for more. I'm not sure if I should back off some and let her heal, or back off because she's trying to work things out with him. I want to avoid being a rebound, but I also feel like if I distance myself, she'll get lonely and start to see him more. I'm sure he's going to ask to see her again, and I don't know if I should try and stop her or tell her to go. Any advice is appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 19F in England and I've been offered a job interview for the position of bar staff at my student's union (I know this isn't a serious job by any means, but I could really really do with getting it!).\n\nAs part of my interview I need to do a 3 minute presentation on what makes me stand out for this job. I'm doing okay for topics - reliability, lots of work experience, giving back to the community etc. but could always do with extra if you can think of any.\n\nMy main question is, what is the best way to open this presentation? Also any tips for presenting in general would be welcome as I haven't had to do many in the past.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for almost five months now. Some things that may make the problem clearer. We live about 30 minutes away from each other. He has a car but I don't. I go over to see him by taking two buses and it takes me more than an hour to reach his place.\n\nI was really upset yesterday. I was telling him about it by texting him occasionally during the day. Around 5, I decided to ask him if I could come over to his place. He told me his friends were coming over to his place. I told him I didn't want to be alone and moping in bed the rest of the night. He responded by saying he was really sorry I was having a really bad day. That was all I heard from him last night.\n\nI always tend to support him when he is upset. I went over to his place and waited for over two hours outside his apartment (I didn't have a key) just to be with him when he was upset.\n\nIt's 10 am on a Saturday here and I'm waiting for him to text me. I am going to tell him I don't want to see him tomorrow (we had plans) and that he chose to spend last night hanging out with his friends instead of comforting his girlfriend tells me what his priorities are. \n\nAm I doing the right thing? Feel free to ask me questions as I may have left things out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My roommates, gf included, were talking about our past and she wasn't saying much (she didn't cause as much trouble as her bff, bff's fiance, and I had). But, one sex-story she did tell hit me hard.\n\nShe hooked up with a guy twice, once in a hotel, once at his place. At his place, he had been drinking a bit and wanted to try anal. She didn't want to but he played the \"you don't know until you try it\"-card. After he started, she said she felt sick and he said, \"I've already started, I can't stop.\" And he finished a minute or so later.\n\nIt didn't bother me that she hooked up with a guy, I thought it was cool/out of the ordinary for her. The part that hit hard was that he forced her into something she felt she couldn't avoid.\n\nShe isn't traumatized over it, she just said that she was sore for a couple days, but I can't get over that it happened.\n\nOther stuff: We've dated for 9 months now, the event occurred last May. She knows it hit me hard and we've talked about it.\n\nAny advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi,\nI'm 22, and I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. We recently moved together. We've always loved each other intensely.\n\nProblem, I recently started to have feelings for an other person (a friend). This person has had a boyfriend for now 3 years, and has absolutely no ideas. Those feelings were so strong, it was hard to hide them. After 2 months of me being distant and really sad, my girlfriend forced me to say what was bothering me. I'm not a good liar, and now she knows.\n\nWe decided to give us a week alone, I went to my parents. \n\nNow, I'm completely lost. I keep on thinking about this person, and I hate that. I would like for those feelings to go away, to leave me alone. But I can't. \n\nWhat do I do? It's been 3 months now, and I'm just desperate.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have pretty bad credit that I have slowly been repairing.\n\nA year and a half ago my old car died and I need to get a new car... like an idiot I decided to see if I can buy new instead of used.\n\nBecause of my bad credit I got a terrible APR on the thing and made the deal anyway... because I had it in my head that I wanted a new car. So for 60 months I'm paying $574 per month on this car - I can afford it, but it's at the point where with everything I make enough to pay my bills and not really a lot of room to put much money at all away in savings.\n\nAs of right now I have 42 payments left on the car. I added everything up and it basically means so far I have been paying for the interest on this car loan and still owe more than what the car was even worth new. The car is a 2009 Kia Sportage that I bought for around $22,000 with an APR that was around 20%.\n\nI'd like to get to the point where I can easily pay $250-300 per month if possible.\n\nWhat should I do? Can I refinance it successfully? Should I look into trading off the car and trying to get a used one? If I refinance is there any recommendations on how to do that process?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Back story: My bf (26/M) and I (25/F) have been together off and on for almost two years now. The reason for the break was because I left to go teach for a year abroad and to kind of find myself. I'm back now and we got back together. \n\nUPDATED BACKSTORY - The break up wasn't me breaking up with him to go abroad. We had talked about me going, staying together for the process, and having him come over on a visa for the last two months to stay with me. Three months into my journey HE dumped ME. Not the other way around. This was a job opportunity trip that helped me in my field of profession. I didn't cheat on him nor did I talk/sleep with someone after the break up. I focused on my job.\n\nLast night while out with my guy (26/M) at a bar we ran into some of his old coworkers. After some chatting the coworkers realized that I was the girl who left the country. They proceed to tell my BF, in front of me, that he should dump me, asked him why he was with me, told him I was a bitch and that I'll probably leave again. The straw that broke the camel's back for me was when one of them stated \"Well, at least she lost some weight while she was gone.\" \n\nMy guy, though definitely uncomfortable with the situation, failed to say anything or stick up for me. I was left trying to change the conversation onto anything else that I could. They were drunk so I can look past the remarks but I can't seem to shake the fact that my guy didn't say anything to them to try and make them stop. He did apologize for their remarks afterwards but the damage was done. I'm not looking for him to fight my battles but I was very disappointed in how he handled the situation. Should he have stood up for me or should that be something I should do for myself when it comes to his friends and coworkers?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello Reddit, long time listener, first time caller.\n\nI will start with some back story here. \n\nTowards the end of July my Cellphone began to power down fairly frequently (at least twice a day, often more), knowing that I had about a month left on my warranty, I went directly to the store where I bought my phone, and explained the problem. They assured me that it would be taken care of, and placed an order for a loaner phone to be sent to me house, along with all of the packaging etc necessary for me to mail out my broken phone.\n\nNow this took them about a month and a half, during which I went back to the store to make sure everything was ok. They explained that sometimes these things get backed up, but not to worry. I wanted patiently, and the package did come, along with everything needed.\n\nI mailed my broken phone out immediately. \n\nSo yesterday (over a month since I had mailed my phone back, and a few days short of 3 months since I initially reported the problem) I finally received my phone back, however no repairs were made. Apparently since the warranty expired during the time I was waiting for the company to receive the phone, it was deemed OOW (out of warranty)\n\nI was furious, and immediately called their customer service line. The guy who I spoke with (who himself was very helpful) checked out my account information and verified my story, he then went to talk to his supervisor. Turns out there is nothing that can be done, that's their policy. The operator sided with me completely, and basically told me that he thought this was bullshit, he credited my account $50 for the trouble, and filed a detailed complaint with another department... which is supposed to call me in the next few days.\n\nNow the operator who I spoke to seemed confident that along with his detailed letter, this matter should be resolved with the next phone call. Unfortunately I do not share his confidence. Does anyone have any advice for me, regarding how I should handle the next phone call???\n\nThus far I have been very calm and understanding, yet firm.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit,\n\nI am currently attending summer school, living in an off campus small, college town. Yesterday I went to meet my sister and her friends at a nearby restaurant. Since it is only down the street I rode my skateboard and they drove from her house. We got our food and headed out. \n\nI jumped in the back of my sister friends car, having had a few drinks prior to this whole story, I wasn't thinking and didnt put on my seatbelt as the drive back to my sisters house where we planned to eat was 0.5 mi, 2 minutes by car. The car was a small coupe and with my skateboard at my feet I was somewhat squished already. We came to a stop sign and a pedestrian crossed the street behind the car.\n\nJust then Mr. Police Man comes around the corner and comes to a stop next to us, facing the opposite direction, waiting for the pedestrian to cross. I had been sitting on that side of the car and made eye contact with the police man and he pointed at me at which I realized I hadn't had my seatbelt on and tried to slyly put it on. He noticed that too.\n\nHe pulled us over and gave me a ticket and gave a ticket to my sisters friend, the driver who was cited for not making sure I had my seatbelt on. I am 19 and I am expected to pay for both tickets. As a poor college student I don't have the $175 each (350 total) that the tickets are expected to be. \n\nWhat can I do reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My best friend and I have been friends for around 5 years now? She and her boyfriend has been together for a few years alr too. She is the kind of person who always put relationship over friendship, and because she's my best friend, I understand her and never said anything. \n\nI understand when she stop replying me for days when she stays over at her boyfriend's house. I understand when she ask me to leave early because she wanted to spend time with her boyfriend. I understand when she said I'm not allowed to be in contact with her boyfriend.(One time she got angry and ignored me for a month because I called her boyfriend to come over when they had a fight) \n\nI'm really okay with her being like this. Her boyfriend is an important part of her life and I can accept that. But recently, I can't even get a reply from her. Her text replies are always short and cold. We go to different schools so I don't get to talk/see her everyday. I'm always the one looking for a topic to talk about with her. She only comes looking for me if she and her boyfriend has a fight and she needed somebody to talk to or when her boyfriend is too busy to talk or go out with her. \n\nI had confronted her about it, but she said that it's not like that, she didn't mean to make me feel this way. But after that it's always back to the same situation and I always end up feeling used and neglected.\n\nAny advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello /r/jobs, I graduated a few months ago and had no luck so far to get a job in marketing/sales. \n\nThere's a small local company (perhaps 30 employees) but they are actually pretty successful in what they're doing (known worldwide). I checked their website and it's awful. Looks like a website from the early 2000's. So I guess they are not pretty good in (online-)marketing. \n\nI would like to do a cold application (not sure if they are looking for a marketing guy) but I had no luck with this kind of application in the past. That's why I thought I try something different. I have good skills in photoshop, indesign and illustrator. As a teenager I also built websites using HTML, so I thought I build a dummy website fitted to their company and attach some screenshots to my application.\n\nWhat do you think? I this a feasible idea or will they be offended?\n\nThank you very much in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I broke more than a few cardinal internet and social rules. A high school acquaintance posts a status about Christianity being contradictory and how a higher power or \"God\" would disapprove of these contradictions in his opinion. After that a man asked for some examples so I brought up adam and eve's story of the fall of man. We both civilly post our positions and points.\n\nI forgot that this high school acquaintance shortens his last name on facebook. The guy I'm arguing with is his dad. I barely know this guy in the first place let alone his dad. So I posted an argument that wasn't directly involving me, that's unprovable both ways, that steps on social boundaries, on facebook. Should I just agree to disagree? Say, oh that's a good idea I'll read more on the subject, thanks for debate? Delete my facebook, again? I don't think there's hope to save face. Admittedly, I don't have much of a good reputation anyways, I simply replied to something that interested me and realized all too soon what I had done.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend, lets call him Bob, has known me since we both started uni four years ago. We met my boyfriend at about the same time and I started dating my bf a few months ago. So, my boyfriend and I are both friends with him but since I have started dating my bf Bob will not go to lunch with my during uni unless my bf is there. My bf has told me he respects boundaries but I feel like I am not Bob's friend if he is making me feel like I need a chaperone to hang out with him. \n\nIf he was my bf's friend first or if he met my boyfriend and I while we were dating I would understand but I feel like, because I am female I am now no longer a friend but just his other friends girl friend. I feel like, I am no longer an individual because of this. Similar things happen with other people at uni where, if we are in a lecture they will sit beside me but then get up and move to let my boyfriend sit there instead. Because he is my boyfriend ... I can't be an individual and people just assume he has to be with me all the time. He seems fine with it but I feel like I am just getting lonely only being able to be with people if I am with him, as part of a couple and not just me. I am on an all male course also.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I also posted this in r/relationshipadvice\n\nSo I'm in a bit of a conundrum. My girlfriend is amazing in every way, and I have the most fun I can imagine when I'm with her. There is no doubt in my (or her) mind that we have real long-term potential. We mesh perfectly in almost every respect, but one respect in which we don't mesh well is the title of this post.\n\nI'm atheist and she's a reformed Jew. She respects my beliefs and I respect hers completely. The thing is she made it clear to me that if we were to stay together and have children someday that they would be raised Jewish (i.e. go to hebrew school, have a bar/bat mitzvah, etc). She is not willing to budge in this respect–at all. I understand that having children is something far in the future but I feel that if it's not going to work in the future I may as well end it now and have fun with other girls.\n\nI'm not sure if I'm in the wrong being completely opposed to raising my children religiously due to my beliefs (or lack of them), but I just can't stand the idea of them being raised in that way. It may have to do with the fact that I was not raised in a religious fashion, whereas she was raised Jewish by her fairly religious mother (my gf is far less religious than her mother, thankfully).\n\nSorry for the length of this post, but I think it's important to point out that my girlfriend believes in raising Jewish children in order to continue tradition, not because of religious beliefs. She also believes that the network one forms when being raised Jewish is important (i.e. temple connections).\n\nShould I end it now? Or should I just suck it up and realize that raising Jewish children is a totally normal thing and that almost all children are raised religiously?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I never thought it might come to this.\n\nI have narcolepsy. For the longest time, I felt that I had it under control. In school, my condition was misunderstood and I was ridiculed by my peers as well as my teachers. I overcame and found a nice job. I was laid off because of the recession and took up a job with a certain job with a certain game-related company. I tried my best to excel at my job, to the point where I became the Go-To-Guy for information on technical resolutions and policy matters. \n\nToday, I was demoted because my narcolepsy sometimes gets the better of me and I miss work. I cannot afford medical insurance nor the medicine to make it less of an issue ($500 for a month's supply). I was told that the ADA did not apply because attendance was a hard requirement for being a higher level agent. Our HR person told me that any job I get will have a requirement about attendance and that the ADA will never side with me. I am forced to assume an entry level position in a job I used to love. I feel as though my hard work will never pay off now, because my narcolepsy will also stop me from advancing and that ADA does not apply to me. \n\nI still feel like I'm being discriminated against but if what HR told me is true then I do believe that any career I take will be hampered by this condition, which cannot be cured. \n\nPlease, tell me there are options. I feel as though I'm about to slip into a state of depression that I had left behind me so long ago. I don't want to be there. Please, tell me that there is hope.\n\nThrowaway account for obvious reasons..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So it goes like this. I'm in love with this girl. We work at the same Office. We share an amazing chemistry. I've told her about my feelings. But she is indecisive about it. She just got out of a relationship before 6 months. \n\nWhen I'm with her, she seems like she doesn't value my company. I'm there for her because she definitely needs someone to hold her together. I know this because i have seen the difference in handling of her problems with and without my presence. \n\nWhen i'm not with her, she would be like calling, texting and telling me she is thinking about me. And when we meet later, She is like too much close to me. \n \nI feel like she is using me(Unintentionally) to get her Ego Boost. I know this because I make her feel like a Queen, say the most amazing things about her. \n\nI want to continue being friends with her and whenever i start to move away slowly from her, she comes that much closer to me. I have other awesome women in my life whom i've been ignoring lately because of this woman, with the intention of a good friend, but \"scumbag heart\" doesn't let me be and I go back to my \"Feelings\" for her again. \n\nDon't really know what i'm doing. Would really appreciate if some one would provide a perspective on this. Ladies, I would like your perspective as well.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, we broke up during the second week of december, which was right before winter break. During winter break, I was sad and laid in bed crying for the first couple days etc. Then I started having fun with friends, hitting the gym, and shit. I felt an improvement and that I was starting to move on. She moved on way quicker than me shes already back with her ex. \n\nNow, today was the first day of school back from break. I cant stop looking at her. She talked to me about some classwork and it was hell. I just feel like shit again. I fe lonely again. When I saw her, that feeling of emptiness came back. I dont know how to fix this please help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "26, f here. I started having sex with this 31 year old guy I know through friends, thinking he was casual about relationships. 1.5 years later I suddenly find myself hearing about how I'm spending too much time with other guys and he doesn't feel like I'm that into him. I do try to make him feel loved, but I thought we agreed from the start that this isn't what we want.\n\nWe both want this relationship, but disagree on the terms. I don't want to be exclusive, but I want him. Why is it that the one who wants the exclusivity always seems to be more in a position to make demands, even when otherwise was specified from the start? The advice I get is \"Leave, you want different things\" or \"If you like him he should be enough\". Why is the jealous one assumed to be the one who'd have the hardest time giving the other person what they need? \n\nAnd yes, we have talked. He won't have it and he's making me feel like the one that's breaking us up. \n\nI'm not talking about fucking lots of guys, even kissing is off the table.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend (26) is the kind of guy who doesn't put up with crap. He calls out people when they're wrong, yells at bad drivers, and uses the word \"dumbass\" very liberally. I should clarify that it's never excessive, violent, or directed at me. I kind of admire his assertiveness sometimes. A lot of people would probably see this as a reasonable level of emotion, but I have some problems dealing with it.\n\nAs I mentioned, I (24) am a doormat. I very, very rarely get angry at anything. My usual response to conflict is to curl up into a ball and cry. I was also physically abused by my father as a kid, because of his anger management issues. When other people are angry, I feel awkward and terrified. I'm working with a therapist to try to get over some of my emotional problems. So far I can successfully deal with anger from/get angry at my sister and my best friend without it being a big deal. With other people, any form of conflict just sits in my mind and scares me.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. He knows all about my issues, accepts them, and is always very kind and collected when we're working out minor problems together. But he still gets very angry at other people, and himself. We have similar interests, and I feel more comfortable talking to him than to anyone else. Our relative anger levels just seem incompatible.\n\n I've talked to him about how people getting angry scares me, and he's very understanding of that. I know it's not right to want someone in a relationship to change. I know that's part of who he is and I admire it a bit, but I don't really want to have to become agressive to accept it either. Most of all, I'm terrified of either one of us becoming angry with each other. I know it probably has to happen eventually, and I don't want to get scared and end the relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, school started a few months ago in late July. Fresh out of sophomore year, ready to kick off junior year. Everything's the same, except for this one girl who the moment I saw her I was... erm... in awe? Don't know what term to use... \n\nI've talked to her about mundane topics, such as school. Asking about work and stuff. She doesn't have many friends, as she is new. I've been really nervous to legitimately start a conversation and ask for her number, snapchat, etc... because I fear about rejection and how I look. I honestly don't think I'm that good looking, but so does everyone else I guess. I suffer from generalized anxiety disorder (diagnosed, I take medicine) and it's really hard on me when it comes to girls.\n\nI really like her, and what I'm basically saying is how do I approach her and ask for her number without coming off weird? She seems a little intimidating but that's probably because I'm crushing hard over her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been sleeping together since the beginning of our relationship, and recently I've started trying to gently introduce more in the bedroom. she's always had a toy, but i've been trying to introduce more positions and experiences to make things a little more fun.\n\nthe other day we started fooling around and she abdruptly stopped me saying she didn't like anything I was doing (same thing I always do), she doesn't like making out, and she doesn't want anything new. She completely shut down and wouldn't say another word to me after this.\n\nthe next day she text me saying that she's had \"really terrible relationships, including really scary sex\" and that \"she has a problems with sex because of past relationships\"\n\nI'm not sure where to go from here, she won't talk about it, I also now have no idea what she wants in bed (she says normal sex is all she wants). Ideally I'd like for her to heal in some way and open up with me. Should we stop having sex all together for a while? I could suggest her see a therapist but I imagine that not going well.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my ex just became strangers. \n\nWe had been in relationship for 7 months, then we broke up. Its a long ass story i dont have time nor the will to feel again. I love her, i truly do, i know though that i am not in love with her, i hope it makes some sense.\n\nWhen we broke up she said some hurtful things, really hurtful, she also hurt me quite a lot while we were together, i know i hurt her too. But i realized it and i promised myself to try to make things better.\n\nAbout a month ago, she apologized for what she said and asked if we could be friends at least, she asked if we could try not to be strangers. I accepted her apology and i wanted to try to make her happy in any way i could, even if we were just friends.\n\nThings were great between us, but last Thursday, she began to ignore me, i texted her to see how she is doing, i asked around if i had done anything, i apologized to her if i had done anything to hurt her. Nobody tells me what happened or why.\n\nMost people told me to ignore her, to forget her. I cant though, i care about her, i promised her that i'd do my best for us not to become strangers. It's really painful. Its much more painful than when we broke up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It seems I've gotten myself in a pickle somehow and I'm not sure how to proceed. I've dating my gf for a couple months now. We developed a fantastic connection unlike anything I've ever experienced before. Everything seemed to fit together so nicely. There have been a few bumps but we've survived. Last night something strange happened (from my perspective). We and one of her friends were in an apartment. I went to the fridge to get some beer. This fridge is really dirty. The power often goes out in India so there is some fungus in fridge. I make a joking comment and say:\n\n> As a single man, I have seen my fair share of disgusting fridges, but this one takes the cake.\n\nThis deeply upset her because she heard it as \"I am currently single\" where I was using an infinitive to refer to my past experiences. Now she is extremely uncertain about me and my feeling towards her. She said she thinks I think subconciously I'm still single. Which is all extremely curious to me. Naturally I'm quite confused by the situation. I understand why she interpreted the sentence in that way, the temporality is implicit, not explicit. I don't fault her for that, not is it important. The communication failed and so be it. She explained some other things to me (which I can't understand either). I'm doing my best to be patient, kind, and understanding. At the end of the day she feels this way because of my actions (regardless if I had that intention). Right now I feel like she does not trust me at all. If I had heard those same words I wouldn't have given it a second thought. She had the opposite reaction which to me tells the only difference is the frame of mind. Like if this is enough to push her over the edge then she's probably very close to the edge. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I gain insight into her perspective? I'm not really sure what to do differently.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we broke up about 2 weeks ago after 4 months or so of dating because she said she wasn't feeling the way she did before to which I said fine but I would remove her from everything (not blocked or anything) we used as communication because I did not want to deal with the one sided feelings in order to get over it, she said for me to do whatever I need.\n\nThing is the past few days I've just been wondering was this the right thing to do? It was my first real relationship so I don't know if I come off like an asshole by doing what I did as i'd like to be friends with her later when feelings are not involved.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My mom is 45 and my dad is 51. The violence started when I was eleven. My mom thought my dad was cheating on her, and she was pretty furious. The reason she thought this, was because when he'd go grocery shopping or go out to pick up something, and he'd be out for hours at a time. Also my mom let my dad read her emails, texts etc... but my dad got defensive if my mom tried to do the same. In fact, my dad also lied about going grocery shopping once, when he in fact was with his female friends. My mom does not have exact proof that my dad cheated, but she believed he did. This lead to screaming, crying, and my dad snapped and punched my mom. This happened when I was eleven, and I was scared then, so I just hid in my room the whole time. However, since then my parents had \"made up\". My dad had apologized to my mom since then, and my mom accepted his apology. \n\nNow a couple days ago, my mom asked to view my dad's phone. My dad said no, which then started to anger my mom. After awhile, they started arguing and mom got her kitchen knife to threaten my dad that'd she'd hurt him. She didn't stab him, but she did make a minor cut on my dad's hand. I was scared to do anything, so I stayed in my room and listened to them fight. Apparently they made up again, but my mom is still angry at my dad.\n\nThe thing is, my mom gets pretty angry easily. I never seen my dad act violent at all before the incident when I was eleven. Usually it's my mom, screaming & yelling at my dad for minor things, while my dad tries to act calm and reasonable. So what my dad did then had shocked, upset and angered me. I also don't think my mom would ever stab or do any major damage to my dad, but I'm still scared.\n\nI get scared every time my parents fight, because I'm afraid they're going to hurt each other. Should I just stay out of it? or should I do something?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now. Just recently he's joined his local gym. Yes it's good for him, him joining the gym getting healthy and improving fitness. \n\nHowever, he keeps telling me how he sees all these girls with nice bums in yoga pants and how very fit they are, how he doesn't intend to perv on them but they just so happen to be in-front of him whilst he's doing his thing. I don't know if its reasonable for me to feel angry and annoyed or whether I'm simply blowing things out of proportion and going overboard with jealousy? Is this a normal reaction?\n\n Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now and I would consider us to have a healthy relationship EXCEPT that he does not meet any of my needs sexually. Both orally and otherwise. \nBut my biggest issue is oral because the thing is that I go down on him on average about once a day. No joke or exaggeration, sometimes I do it more. And I enjoy doing it for him, truly, which is why I continue even though I don't feel like I should until I start to get more action from him. \nNow, I've tried talking to him about it in numerous ways. I've gently asked what he would do to my pussy next time he goes down on me, and other gentle applications of the subject. I've tried flat out asking him why he doesn't go down more often. I've asked if it has anything to do with my hygiene, tried offering ways to change anything I'm doing, and I'm always met with that he \"loves\" going down on me and that my lady parts are \"totally clean\" and then what happens? We get frisky and he has me go down on him and then I get nothing. And if I bring it up that moment he gets defensive and says things like \"sorry I'm not a better lover for you\" when he has the chance to be right then! But doesn't take it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "24F, SO 25M; duration 2 years. I still love him dearly but I'm unsure if we should continue being together. We are both on medication for depression. \n\nFor the past 7 months my boyfriend has been passive and unaffectionate. He ignored my birthday, never wants sex, doesn't want to go out, doesn't keep small promises, never contacted me during a month of long distance (I had to call/text him constantly to stay in communication). \n\nI've tried to be as understanding as I can, but... I don't think he values my presence anymore. For these past 7 months he wants to be alone 99% of the time and doesn't want to talk or even cuddle for more than half an hour or so. I don't ask him for anything and try to make him happy (give gifts, make dinner, listen and encourage him). \n\nHe says he still loves me and wants to stay together, and that this has been due to his depression. I helped him find a better doctor and a therapist. But our patterns haven't changed, he's still passive and unaffectionate. We've talked about it several times and he's promised that he will change, but he never does. \n\nI know it's not his fault, it's the depression, but I still feel really lonely and neglected. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Been dating for 4 years. I was doing cocaine with some friends in my bedroom on NYE and hid it from my girlfriend by locking my room door and telling her that my friends were just rolling joints in the bedroom. I did it a couple times but basically stayed out of the room all night. The issue really comes down to me lying to her about what was going on that night - the coke isn't as big of an issue. She hates the idea of me doing it, and I have probably only done it 3 times in my life. It's really about the lying.\n\nHer reasons for being upset are as follows (PS I think she's totally right and I'm a complete asshole for doing this).\n\n1. I lied to her\n2. I lied to her in front of people who knew I was lying to her\n3. She wasn't able to even access my bedroom and didn't feel at home in my house (which she should because she is here all the time. I get it)\n4. Because I did coke\n\nThe worst part is she caught me in another lie when we were talking about what happened, which obviously made things way worse. Now I am a liar and she says she needs a break. I have literally never lied to her before in my life. This is the first time we've gotten into a fight over a lie. I don't care about the drugs (I don't have to ever do it again), I just want to patch things up. It obviously wasn't worth it. She is more upset with me than I have ever seen her be. I'm terrified.\nI've already apologized (the night of, and several times in person after) and I've admitted I was wrong about everything. But I don't think it's enough. I understand she is upset, I realize the magnitude of the situation but I don't think it's worth breaking up over this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, obvious throw away account is obvious because i've found my boyfriend surfing here lately and i don't want him to know i'm asking for your advice about this. Background story; we've been together for around 1&1/2 years now and it's been pretty sweet. We get along great, we spend tons of time together, we're both pretty attractive people (i know he is, and i'd like to think i am) and basically i couldn't ask for a cooler boyfriend. There is only one catch. I consider myself to be a pretty sexual individual. I often let my mind wander to naughty things (mostly about my boyfriend, which i feel good about) and get excited and then want to try those things later. He, on the other hand, does none of this. At the beginning of the relationship there was slightly more sexual interaction, but almost all of it was initiated by me. Since then we've been having less and less sex because i became insecure constantly initiating it, assuming that he either doesn't find me sexually attractive anymore or he is just uninterested in general. I've tried on many occasions to ask him what he found exciting or arousing, even offering risque secrets of my own in order to make him feel more comfortable, but no matter what i do he insists that he just doesn't have any turn ons. I think he feels that he needs to repress his sexuality as a man, but he's done it to a point that he has none. We are to the point now that we have sex MAYBE once a week (we sleep in bed together around 4-6 times a week) and i just don't know what to do. He insists that he finds me sexually attractive and he enjoys the sex when we have it, but he has no desire to initiate. Can anyone help? Does anyone have experience with this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm honestly at a loss right now. I truthfully feel as though I had a great run with my current girlfriend, but there are definitely a lot of things she is missing in terms of what I want out of a relationship. We hardly connect on many topics including music, tv, hobbies, and honestly even sex is a little too bland for my liking. \n \nTo be fair though she is quite fun since she's up for anything so I thought about a month ago it would be a cool idea for us to go on a little mini vacation/roadtrip together (Friday - Monday). Aside from a concert that we are seeing on Saturday (of which I found out she only agreed to go because I wanted to... which is actually a bigger bummer than you would imagine) I'm not too stoked to go. I feel as though I could make it through this weekend but I want to spare her feelings during this whole thing as well. \n \nWe're also in a sticky situation right now where she visits me for a couple days at a time and has no access to her home that is a 1 hour train ride away. So right now if I were to break up with her she would be completely screwed otherwise forced to sleep at my apartment. \n \nMy solution to this is to break up with her sometime next week after the vacation but I'm not sure if this is cruel. I legitimately do not want to hurt her but I also do want to go through with this, although I am slightly okay with continuing with this vacation... just not sure if it is morally okay. \n \nSo that was a bit of a rant but I'm hoping some of you could shed light on what I could do here. I know that she loves me quite a lot and that she is very into me. I mean it definitely shows but it's just not there for me. \n \nThanks guys", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So there's a girl that I've been talking to for the last month and a half. We'll call her Haley for now. I met Haley online, and we had been talking for a few days to a week when I decided to ask her out. She ended up calling the date off with a plausible excuse, so I waited to see if she would contact me about rescheduling.\n\nShe did.\n\nWhile planning this new date, Haley was, at first, showing ALL the right signs, basically giving me the go-ahead to continue pressing forward, possibly into relationshipville. A few days before, she calls me and says that she didn't want to meet up because she, like me, is fresh out of breakupsville.\n\nAfter laying the issue to rest, I continue on with my life, when, suddenly, my father has a heart attack. Haley found out about the event on social media (I did not tell her) and gave me a call to not only pass on her best wishes, but also to say\n\n\"Even though I really feel like a relationship isn't the right place for me right now, I still enjoy talking to you and would like to continue doing so.\"\n\nNow for the question. What is my next move? Is there a next move? Is she simply being nice, or could something be there if/when she decides she's ready to date again? Am I losing too much sleep over this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The guy and I have been close friends for 3 years ago and I've never been attracted to him whatsoever. In fact, the mere thought of it used to repulse me. As of about 48 hours ago I am finding myself extremely attracted to him and it's really throwing me off. I'm suddenly finding myself thinking about him a lot in a sexual way and worrying about what I sound like when I talk to him. I have no idea what prompted it or how it's even possible to feel so extremely different in a matter of days. What's worse is that I feel like I gave off \"I would totally fuck you vibes\" at his Super Bowl party yesterday because he ended up talking about sex to me a lot (things like discussing how he hasn't gotten laid in so long etc etc) which is a topic we never really discuss. Granted it was after a few beers. \n\nQuestion is: How can I nip this in the bud? This whole situation just seems like way more trouble than it's worth and we're both second semester seniors in college. I feel like my hormones have been totally out of whack lately and hope that's what is causing this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My best friend (we'll call her Sarah) startet a new job in may last year. She was with her then boyfriend for four years by then but things were not going that great. She startet to get along with a collegue (we'll call him Bob) really well. After a few weeks, she admitted that she has fallen for Bob and broke off with her then boyfriend to be with him (Bob). And now here start the problems. \n\nBob already has a girlfriend (Jen) and they have a three year old and live together. He says that the relationship is basically over and he has no feelings for Jen and he loves Sarah and wants to be with her. But he is afraid to leave Jen because she is mentally unstable and clingy and has no job and he is afraid he will lose his daughter and Jen won't be able to care for her and he doesn't know how to care for his daughter alone (though I'm sure Sarah would be more than happy to help) and yeah ... \n\nBob and Sarah are in a relationship for ~ 9 months now, and Sarah gets more and more frustrated. I keep telling her to push Bob for doing the right thing but she never does and it hurts me to see her like that. She would never leave him and I'm starting to believe that he will never leave Jen. Somedays I think I just tell Jen (I have no contact with her or even know her, besides her name and facebook profile) because Bob and Sarah are both unable to do anything, but I don't want to be responsible for ruining Jen's life. \n\nI know it is highly immoral what they do and in no way do I approve it (I've been cheated on before and I know the pain) but Sarah has been there for me in more ways than I could have hoped for and I want to give it back now. But I don't know what to do. Please help me?\n\nSorry for any mistakes, my english is not that good", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here's the background. My parents moved out of the country for business (temporary) and left me to live in the house to take care of it. It's a big house and lonely alone, so I asked if my friends could move in with me. My parents agreed to friends A and B, but were hesitant about also allowing friends C and D because they did not want that many people living there. All those friends lived together before, so A and B did not want to ditch C and D. I managed to convince my parents, and they said fine, but that they would charge everyone $300/mo as rent (which basically just covers utilities).\n\nAbout 2 months ago, friend A's brother comes over without A telling anyone. I assumed it was just for a few days, but a few weeks later he was still there sleeping on the couch the whole time. I asked A and he said he was only staying for the hockey games. At this point my parents figured out he was here (my brother told them) and were upset that no one asked them if someone else could live there. I told them the situation and they said fine. \n\nIt is now 3 weeks after the Stanley Cup finals, and he is still here. My parents are pissed that he is still here and with no definite plans on when he is moving out. I talked to my friend about it, and he thinks my parents are being unreasonable. Meanwhile, I'm placed in the middle of it all and am stressing out over the fact that I'm taking shit for this from both sides. So reddit, am I being unreasonable about this? Is there a better way I can explain this to him so he gets it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, my girlfriend booked a holiday apartement close to the town centre of Prague, Czech via a hotel & apartement booking portal a few weeks ago. Since she's the one who usually does this and we never had any problems with the location she'd chosen in the past, I never had any doubt. She got in touch with the owner via email, got his banking account and paid a small commission.\n\nThis evening (1 day before our trip), I wanted to look up the route to the apartement and also some pictures of the building, but then I saw something that was slightly off. The apartement, advertised on many booking platforms on the web doesn't look anything like on the pictures according to Google Streetview. I started digging a little deeper on the web and eventually found out that this is indeed some sort of scam: The apartement exist, the owner exist, but the pictures as well as the apartement description seem to be taken from a different hotel. The actual one is, according to some commentaries on travel website just a dirty shithole, as many travelers had to find out.\n\nNow, I'm asking: What could I do? I don't think there is any chance to get our commission back since we don't have a insurance for that booking, but can we face any legal consequences if we.. simply don't show up? We intended to stay at another place, if we manage to find one within 12 hours (airplane tickets are already booked and paid.. so what), but we really try to stay on the safe side.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Known each other for a few months but only got to really know each other in the last month or so. We've hung out a couple times and the chemistry was just crazy. We know that we're attracted to each other and yet we can talk to each other like friends.\n\nHer BF treats her like shit. He's garbage. Eats her food, asks her to replace his lost phone (she said no), and manipulates her (trying to make her guilt trip). It's an on and off relationship (2-3 months) and living in the same dorm definitely doesn't help her and makes emotions magnified.\n\nWhat can I do? I don't want to directly influence any decisions.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a question about a lease my roommates and I signed. We are living in a house off campus that is usually rented to college students. \n\nOur lease says in one section, \" Landlord agrees to furnish the following appliances, if any: 2 Stove, 2 Refrigerator, 1 Dishwasher, 1 washer/dryer, and A/C\"\n\nHowever, our house only has one stove and one fridge. I emailed the landlord company and asked them to provide the other kitchen with appliances since the lease says she should provide them for us. Her response is as follows: \n\n\"Hi X,\nThere will not approve of any change in the lease terms and the rental amount. I understand your lease states 2 refrigerators and 2 stoves. But, the refrigerator and stove in the smaller kitchen was not purchased by _____ Properties, it was left by the previous tenants years ago. Each year the new set of tenants agreed to keep the appliances but recently the appliances have been working, so that is why they were removed from the property... After the work is completed in the kitchen, I will see if we have any appliances (maybe a refrigerator) available at that time. \nThank you,\nY\"\n\nI'm thinking, the landlord wrote the lease and we signed it without making any changes. Is this not materially complying with the terms of the contract? Since she wrote it, shouldn't it be construed against her (if it that clause is even ambiguous)? Is it a material eviction to not have the second kitchen working? There are six girls living in my house so we would really like to either have the fridge provided or the rent reduced by the amount of the replacement.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my GF and I have been dating for just about 3 years now and we talk about how we are pretty much married. We have lived together for 2 of those years and we talk about how we want to marry each other.\n\nI have an issue with something that is bothering me. My GF got hit on by this guy about a year ago. He is friends with a lot of our friends. He made it pretty damn clear that he liked my GF. He asks my GF in front of me that they should do lunch. They never did but they did coffee later. Once I found out they did coffee I got really upset because my GF was the one that asked him for coffee. She claims she just wants to be his friend and that she doesn't want to do coffee with him again because it felt awkward because she kept talking about me at coffee and it was clear to him that we are very serious.\n\nNow fast forward to today. My GF has become snapshat friends with him. She watches his snapshat stories and she texts him through snapchat once and a while. She does this in front of me but it's only been a couple of times so far.\n\nI confronted her today about how I didn't like her texting a guy that likes her. She got upset and claims they are just friends because he hangs around with some of our friends. I said well I guess we will see how you feel when I am texting a girl that you know likes me. I'll put you in my shoes. She got pretty upset at that and I just laid off the subject.\n\nAnyways is this a non mormon thing? Is it my mormon upbringing thats making me think that this isn't appropriate? What do you guys think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi \n\nSo my gf is out for a girl's night out and since it's a slow night for me, I decided to clean and tidy up. I'm in our bedroom and I open our sex drawer to see if lube got spilled or anything and I notice that the brand new sex toy, we just bought last night, has been used. It's a strap on harness (Yes, we have kinky sex, sue us). \n\nI know it has been used because it's greasy and stained from lube. I know that my gf's best friend (F27) was over earlier and they were home alone. I have a feeling that my gf used it on her friend or vice versa. I don't know this for sure but the nature of the toy doesn't really encourage 1 person use. \n\nI'm not sure what to do now. I'm head over heels with this girl but I can't forgive her if she went ahead and had sex with her friend. We are very serious and we are talking about marriage. I don't know how to end it. I'm very hurt that she would do something like this. But I don't know if I want to end it and I don't know if I can live with what she did. I've never had to break up a relationship. I'm very upset. I haven't confronted her yet because she's still out and she is drinking. I don't want to do it over the phone. What should I do? Maybe I should just ignore it for now and ask her tomorrow when she sobers up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "18/M, in relationship for 1 year.\nMy girlfriend has a friend. Let's call him \"Tom.\" Tom (18/M) likes my girlfriend and dislikes me. Now, one day, I decide to buy my girlfriend, let's call her \"Meredith,\" her first vibrator. Meredith (18/F) is very sexually inexperienced with this stuff, is a virgin, hasn't came her entire life. But she IS into some things that are \"kinky.\" Mostly bondage where she claims the role of submissive. Tom was there when we bought the vibrator and decided to stay the night at her house. I was unaware of this but hey, Tom seems like a cool guy. Anyways, what transpired during that night is Tom groped Meredith and used the vibrator on her for around 6 minutes. This gave her her first orgasm.\n\nNow, I talked to Tom about this. He said she put up no resistance and seemed to enjoy it. She said she put up no resistance because it's her \"sexual nature\" to \"be submissive\" like that.\nShould this be a valid excuse?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi I'll try and keep this short.\n\nShe had some doubts setting in a couple a months ago but instead of talking with me buried her feelings because she didn't want to hurt or nag me - she then grew distant which caused me to be a bit needy (I know, I know!).\n\nI want it to work but she has said \"If I really loved you I shouldn't need to think about it\" - but she's also said that she was in love with me before. I want us to go no contact for a while and slowly build back to what we had if possible. The difficulty is we are going to a festival together for 5 days now and can't really do anything about that!\n\nI gave her a letter describing my feelings yesterday and now we have to kind of set this aside and try and enjoy ourselves and each others company.\n\nAny advice? I guess I want to try and act normal / friend-ish and not be asking her about her feelings or smothering her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been extremely happy for 4 months now, and we began dating right at the end of my sophomore year of HS (her junior year) and we truly love each other a great deal. However, she has recently been having extremely intense mood swings, where one day she is happy and is texting me about how great I am and that she loves me, and the next she is despondent and says that something feels off, that she needs me too much, and that i don't need her the same amount. \n\nLast week this led to the biggest fight we've ever had, where she accused me of spending too much time with my friends and that I was never with her when she needed me. Although I agree that I had been spending a lot of time with my friends, I had essentially only been with them when she was unavailable. We managed to resolve the disagreement, and she slept over on Friday and all seemed well. \n\nOn Monday (today) she began anew, and said that she tries to not need me all the time, but that she can't. I try to assure her that I do my best, and that I also want to be with her as much as possible, but she won't listen. It makes me feel as if she thinks I don't love her as much as I do, and it crushes me. Thank you all for any advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend (27) and I (M 26) have been together for a little over a year and are now living together. \n\nOur relationship is going great, but I lied to her and now I'm not so sure about what to do.\n\nA while back when we were back home (home for me, we live in her hometown 10 hours away from mine) we were at a party with a bunch of my friends. She asked me if anything ever happened between me and a specific female friend and I said no.\n\nThe truth is, between the ages of 18 and 21, we slept together maybe 4-5 times total. It was never anything between me and that friend. More of an ultimate backup if we both didn't have sex for a long time.\n\nBecause of the living situation, we see that friend maybe once a year. Also what happened between us was so long ago and so minimal that I don't know if I should just come clean or not.\n\nLooking back, I think I lied because when she asked I realized I should have mention this before we arrived at the party and I didn't want to blindside her.\n\nNow I'm torn because I'm not sure how she would react if I told her. Plus everything else is going really well between us.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little long, but this reddit is for ranting right? So here it goes.\n\nMy fiancee has a herniated disc in her back along with a pinched nerve. As you can imagine, it's extremely painful and has significantly impacted her quality of life. Things have gotten bad over the last few months. Back surgery is out because we can't afford it and insurance didn't cover it (the first fuck you). A back doctor recommended a procedure called a discectomy (it's kind of like surgery, but not as invasive).\n\nAfter us and the back doctor talking to insurance we find out it's approved. Yes! However, they have one caveat that she can't get anesthesia (second fuck you) making the procedure painful, but hey a lot of pain for a short period of time is worth it if it helps her back (and she's been in crucial pain for months anyway).\n\nThis was all booked and ready to go back in January for this Thursday. We've been eagerly awaiting this day because it means she will be able to walk without being in pain. \n\nThen, the big fuck you happens. After getting approvals and confirmations MULTIPLE times from the insurance company. They called today and told my fiancee that they don't cover it after all. No reason why other than that \"we thought we did, but this isn't a procedure that we cover apparently\". This after we had a date booked for 2 months. Now we don't know what to do. She's crying in the bathroom because she feels so defeated. Epidurals and pain meds haven't helped the situation and this was the light at the end of the tunnel. FUCK YOU EMBLEM. You guys are incompetent greedy fuckers.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As the new admin of IT at my library, I inspire confidence in all the employees just by being here while they work on their computers. When anything electronic needs any kind of maintenance, repair, instillation, etc. I ride down from Mt. Olympus and activate my powers of computing to quicken all the digital world.\n\nThe only problem is that I am shit with computers. I have no idea how I got this job because most of you reading this probably know better how to use them than I do. I broke explorer by trying to install an update. I'm that bad at it. \n\nBut I fumble through this and everyone cheers! \"Great job, Crazybay. You are vital to our staff, CrazyBay.\" \"Do you want another raise? No? How about we just buy you subway once a week, put you on salary, and pay your cell phone and internet bills?\"\n\nI recently screwed up one of my bosses computers pretty bad (it may have not actually been my fault but probably was). After a full weekend of stress and reading dozens of pages of stuff on support.microsoft.com, I not only unbroke it, but I also installed the ghetto new circulation system on her office computer!!\n\nThis shouldn't matter as much as it does to me but now I feel just the slightest bit validated in receiving the beef-up paycheck that came with the job.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I moved to a nearby town to start undergrad a year ago. I met a guy, John, through mutual friends and we clicked instantly. After a few months, we started dating.\n\nHe's a really wonderful person. Incredibly thoughtful, sweet, and supportive. My job and school keep me busy, but we found time to hang together when we could and it was always the highlight of my week. It's the first relationship for both of us, and we were very happy together. Lots of shared hobbies and interests. We even had a great match on our obscure music tastes!\n\nAlthough John is a fantastic person, he lacks motivation. He has been living on savings for the whole time I've known him and is not pursuing employment currently (despite my encouragement).\n\nI broke up with him a couple months ago, believing that I could not change his lack of motivation and I should respect myself enough to at least date someone who has a job. Also, I am not sure how I feel about intimacy. Although we hadn't had any sort of sex yet, I felt that was probably coming soon. I can't decide if it is weird for me at 25 to be nervous or if I'm just a late bloomer and I should get my experience when I can.\n\nBy chance, we ran into each other today while shopping and we had a coffee. I realized how deeply I missed him. He misses me too and wants to get back together.\n\nShould we get back together? Is it stupid of me to \"throw away\" my best friend because I am hung up on an unemployment issue? Or did I dodge a bullet and should I try to let time heal my aching heart?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am 23 years old and I feel like I have a decent amount of debt that I was thinking I should perhaps consolidate? I just am not sure of the best route to take. All I know is the interest is killing me. I guess I should start off by telling you what my debt is -\n\nI have a credit card which is my main killer. I currently have around $3,500 on this card. The interest is at around 25%. Every month, while I make payments 0f $200… it charges me at least $60 for interest. \nI have a credit account with Ideal Image. There is only about $1,500 left on this and the interest is at around 26%, however because the amount is lower it charges me around $3 per month for interest.\nI have a car loan and to be honest I am not sure how much my interest rate is on that, however I know I have around $9,000 left on it to pay and I pay $293 a month.\n\nI feel like this is a lot of debt for someone who is 23. I am managing fine I guess, but the credit card specifically is just not going away.\nI should probably also mention that I have just started college again and I was granted a subsidized student loan for $3,500. I know I will have to take out another next year as well. I don't have to worry about paying this back until I graduate in a few years, but I would like to be able to pay it back easily in the future and not have it just piled on top of what I already have.\nI guess my main question is to ask if I should take out a small personal loan of some type, that has a lower interest rate and pay off my credit card and Ideal Image. \nI hope I provided enough information.\n\nAny recommendations? Thank you so much in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Title explains it well enough. I broke up with my ex about a year and a half ago, I'm over her, and very much in love with my current girlfriend. After my ex I went on a bit of a spree, seeing a couple of girls, none of which I developed feelings for, although they did for me. I did \"try\" to see if I just wasn't realizing that I had feelings for them, but honestly there was no chemistry. I enjoyed that for a while because I was enjoying someone's company (hanging out, having sex) without the fear or going through the pain I did prior in my first relationship. I know now that the spree was a bit childish, and I regret continuing with those girls although I didn't feel anything, but I've definitely grown, and it's brought me to a relationship where I'm feeling feelings I've never felt - I'm so relieved I actually am feeling these things again, and in even greater magnitude. \n\nMy issue is this; my first relationship, I wasn't scared of living through the end of it because I didn't know what heartbreak was, I had no context and thus no fear of an end. Currently, I'm so very much in love, I have a consistent fear of reliving the pain that I did in the past when my last relationship ended, and even more so because given how in love I am currently, I'm afraid the sadness of the heartbreak will also be greater in magnitude as well.\n\nIs this normal? I know i'm being too much of a pessimist, I really don't think this relationship is going to end anytime soon, but I too frequently think in worst case scenario", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My best friend and roommate of 2 years is a great girl with a lot to offer, but she is atrocious with her relationships, specifically breakups. In high school, she typically dealt with them by overlapping her relationship with the next guy or girl. Consequently, she doesn't know what to do with herself when she's single. In university, she decided infidelity wasn't the way, but this made matters worse. Guy #1 was crazy, egotistical, possessive, and reserved most of his wit for knowing exactly what to say to make her hate herself. Their breakup lasted over 4 months. Every night was a bloodcurdling yelling match with multiple climaxes resulting in my friend screaming and crying all at the same time. At least once a week, she would remerge from her pit of despair and proudly announce that it was done with. She even attempted dating a little bit, but this only provided more fodder for her nights with Guy#1. During this time, I tried about everything, from sappy movie nights and ice cream (that never went uninterrupted) to taking on this guy. Had he not been clinically insane, he would have seen he was no match for me, but at least I tired him out. After that, the other roommates and I started looking for a new place to live, but suddenly, my best friend found Guy #2 and the fighting slowly ended. Because he had taken an effort to get to know me and because my best friend went back to Guy #1 a week later, I gave him some friendly advice when they inevitably had a fresh start of their own: \"Leave now, there's nothing for you here.\" Sure enough, it's happening again. Luckily, Guy #2 is only crazy, egotistical, possessive, and reserves most of his wit for knowing exactly what to say to make her hate herself, but he doesn't like to raise his voice. So far, I've just been ignoring the fights and keeping her busy. Now she wants to make herself available to this ongoing viscous cycle.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have always struggled with friendships as I struggle with depression and tend to isolate myself. I am a senior in college. Last semester I really connected with these two people. They texted me every day, we had inside jokes, they came up with a funny nickname for me, we hung out all the time. It made me feel so wonderful and happy and connected, they really made me feel like I had friends and was \"normal.\" We texted over our break every single day. I felt so loved for the first time since I graduated high school and left my high school group of friends. \n\nThis semester, we got back from break and after a few days, kinda stopped hearing from them. No more daily texts or anything. We still see each other weekly or so, but I sometimes I peek over at their phones and realize they are texting each other and not talking to me. I feel like with a dramatic change like this, there has to be something that I did, but I just don't know what it is. When I try to start conversations it seems cold, distance, surface level. They don't seem happy to see me anymore. \n\nI know it is complicated, because I don't have many friends and I know that's a lot of pressure to put on another person. But their friendship just meant so much to me and it hurts so bad that it is gone. I know they don't owe me friendship, but they gave it to me and then they took it away. I feel so hurt and sad. \n\nShould I try to figure out what happened? How do I do that? What do I say? Is it in person or a text message? I'm afraid if I talked to them in person I would start crying. \n\nOr should I just accept that we weren't meant to be friends and move on.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm from New Zealand. It's pretty much a secular country, ie politicians speaking about God is a big no-no. A lot of people are Christian but for the most part they are not fundamentalists, and most of them believe in evolution. Evolution is taught in science class in high school.\n\nAs a kid in New Zealand, pretty much every boy (and probably some girls) go through a \"dinosaur phase\", where they are really into dinosaurs. Their parents buy them dinosaur toys and book and computer games. The primary appeal is obviously the fact that dinosaurs are awesome giant scary monsters, but they also end up learning about the Cretaceous period and the Jurassic period and how many millions of years ago the dinosaurs lived.\n\nSo I read that [almost half of the American population doesn't believe in evolution] Coming from a scientific background, this just seems absolutely insane to me. Regardless of what you believe, the [body of evidence for evolution] is enormous enough that a person who denies it is denying fact and reason. But I don't want this is to turn into an evolution debate.\n\nMy question is, if a large portion of America doesn't believe in evolution, then do they still let their kids learn about dinosaurs? Do the kids still have a \"dinosaur phase\"? I know Creationists have a few ways of [justifying dinosaurs without evolution] but it just seems to me that the topic of dinosaurs is something that most Creationist parents would want to sweep under the carpet. I don't know.\n\nCaveat: I know things are different in different states and different communities. If you don't want to generalise, tell me about your specific upbringing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was doing, really, really well until I stumbled across a photo of my ex through a mutual friend. It was a picture of her with another guy, less than a month ago that was a picture of us. \n\nIt feels like shit, my entire world literally shattered again all over from seeing that, all the memories of the breakup came back to my head and all I did was break down. For all the advice that I dole out on this forum its still hard to see this, and hard to keep it together.\n\nIts only been a month and a bit, and the pain feels as fresh as it was then...Her last words to me were \"I need real love\" and when I asked if there was someone else she just said \"Goodbye\"\n\nThe pain of not knowing if there was another person kills me every day, the pain of knowing that five years of a relationship suddenly ends because she needs \"Real love\" kills me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "He moved in a few months ago. My first time moving in with somebody since being married. Maybe that's part of the problem. \n\nHe has been trying to make a life in this city but he misses his children. He has had visitation every other week, same as his old city. In his old city, he was maybe 30-45 minutes away. Here, it's more like 2 hours. There has been a few weeks when he couldn't go see them due to work or illness. He said that he's finally reached the breaking point and wants to move back. Says he still loves me, still wants a relationship with me. He says that his ideal would be for us to live there, together. But then MY son would be 2 hours away and the current 50/50 custody situation wouldn't work at all, plus there is nothing for me there. The city is dead. \n\nI don't know if i want a relationship that goes from 24/7 to weekends only. He's got his quirks, but when he's good, he's really good. I don't know if i can stomach being a part-time girlfriend now. Do i wash my hands of the whole thing or give it some time to see if it works?\n\nThere's no other man or woman involved. He has been a man of his word and quite frankly, given the posts i read here (i am an active member) i'm shocked by how much of a stand up guy he has been.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend and I go to the same college. Now she tutors Chinese (shes a foreign exchange student) and this one guy she tutors keeps hitting on her (hes like mid 30's old looking and fat) and she has told me about it before. They became friends and she hangs out with him in a group setting usually. Whenever he would hit on her she would text me about it, tell me in person, send screenshots, whatever and been up front and honest. She stopped a little bita go because she knows how mad it gets me that she still talks to this guy but I trust her. Recently theyve been hanging alone, I told her I'm against but she has told me he got a girlfriend and I should just be ok with her since I know her and know she wont do anything. Which I still believe, shes not near him on the ratings scale to even put the guy in her league. Still I get jealous so I checked her phone while she was in the shower and I found basically saying \"Oh man if I did [ACTIVITY] with you we wouldve had a better time. I should be your boyfriend.\" I semi confronted her about it with questions like is this guy really not trying anything with you? He hasnt hit on you? Talked shit about me? Told her she should date him recently? And she said no he has a girlfriend why would he hit on me.\n\nIts at this point I ask you guys do I confront her and tell her I snooped her phone and caught her lying to me repeatedly, or just trust her not to do anything with him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm on a year abroad to New Zealand as part of my university course. I met my girlfriend here. I have 3 months until I leave. This has became a bigger and bigger issue. \n\nShe has suggested that she can come on exchange to England for 3 months, this would be 3/4 months after I leave New Zealand. She currently has 2 and half year left of university and I have one. \n\nI don't know whether to try a long distance relationship. Also my girlfriend has to know decide about her exchange to England by June, so we need to decide in advance what will happen with our relationship before we leave. We can't just see how it goes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is my first post so I apologize for any reddit errors i may make.\n\nMy partner (29/M) and I (24/F) have been together for nearly two years and are planning on purchasing a home together. Very exciting and empowering road for both of us and we have received much praise from our families on our decision. My partners family has also offered to give us a substantial amount to help kick off our deposit (along with what we have already saved). Although this is something i very much want i am beginning to have some reservations, mostly because i feel guilt on the part that over that last few months i have been unsuccessfully trying find a full-time job. I feel like it is wrong to put my partner in a position where he will be putting in more money then me and possibly paying more for some time. I also feel guilty to be taking money from his family when im only working part time and contributing considerably less. My parents are divorced and i have had to hear my father bicker about how he worked for everything and my mother took it all. This makes me feel i have to be an exact even with my partner financially.\n\nPlease give me some advice fellow redditors?!!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So about one month ago, I said bye forever to a girl I hooked up with a few times. The reason I said bye was because she had all the red flags: demanding, showing up unannounced, 20+ calls at once for next to no reason other than attention. \n\nSince then, I have moved country. So, I thought she was gone for good.\n\nAbout 4 weeks after we last had sex (unprotected, pull out.), she tries desperately to get into contact, in a way that sounds very much like attention seeking behavior: multiple facebook calls non stop, calling in the middle of the night, even finding my overseas phone number and calling it, yelling that she is pregnant.\n\nSo, up til now, it sounds very much like a fake pregnancy for attention or back together story.\n\nHeres where I am lost: She is asking for abortion pills(she lives in Ireland, a country where abortions are not legal), and asking me to get them for her(red flag). I think this is attention seeking behavior and have since blocked her.\n\nHowever, usually drama queens claim to be pregnant for attention of those around her, instead of asking for abortion. The timing of \"oh no I'm pregnant give me attention' seems off as well, being 4 weeks after last encounter.\n\nWhat does /r/Relationships think? Should I continue to just ignore this? Should I actually help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First of all, I would like to thank everyone who opened it even if they knew it was only a teen with girl problems.\n\n This new girl came to school one week ago and I was in love since the first time I saw here. I talked to her for the first time 3 days ago, but I just introduced myself. 2 days ago I messaged her on facebook and we talked for a little while, it was mostly me asking her questions about herself. Then yesterday we said like 2 sentences to each other! That's all we've talked together! What should I do about this now? When should I message her again, or when should I talk to her in person. She seems really shy in person so I don't know what to do. Any advice is appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not sure if this belongs here, but /r/relationships does not allow general questions, so....help me out please!\n\nI've been dating my SO (34M) for about a month so I don't need to worry overly much about this right away, but I like to be prepared. I'm looking for the time frames that you experienced with landmarks in your relationships, to give me a ballpark. Examples include:\n\n- When did you exchange keys?\n- When did you first say \"I love you\"?\n- When did you start to feel like your respective homes were a place you could \"feel at home\", i.e. you would do dishes or help with chores even though the place wasn't your own?\n- When did you start farting around each other?\n\nThings like that. What do you consider landmarks? When did they happen?\n\nWe spend most of our time at my place for convenience and he seems to fit in to my home nicely. He is comfortable making breakfast or doing dishes and has offered to help with other chores if I happen to need to do them when he's over. So far I've turned down his offer to help with other chores, but I do appreciate the gesture.\n\nI have a history of moving in too soon, so I know I need to wait QUITE a while before I ever even consider that move. Like, over a year. At least. I just don't know how the rest of it should/could play out. I do expect some widely varied answers, so any details as to why you think it was good timing/later than normal/sooner than normal would be much appreciated.\n\nWe started farting around each other almost immediately. What a relief!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I want to say something like, \"I never realized what I wanted to do until blah blah...\" or \"though these jobs taught me a lot, I know now that I want to work in this field because so forth.\" \n\nPhrases like this break the rule about being super-duper positive whenever you apply to something. Then again, there's that rule about being genuine when you write a cover letter to, you know, \"stand-out.\" It's kind of impossible for me to be both.\n\nI am 25, a college grad, and trying to scrape together a cover letter that reflects what I want to do even though I do not have direct experience in that field (or a lot of work experience at all - I am focusing on entry level jobs). Advice out there seems oxymoronic. What are the boundaries when it comes to being honest in a cover letter?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This semester, I'm in a higher level math class, which is a pretty OK course. It's a class of maybe 30 students. I (and quite a few of the other folks in my class) have found it increasingly difficult to concentrate, however, due to one individual. This guy is a non-traditional student. He sits in the front of the room every day, but there's always a small ring of empty seats around him because he has serious personal hygiene issues. B.O. combined with the smell of a pack's worth of cigarette smoke emanates from his body.\n\nTo make matters worse, it seems that he has some sort of autism. He'll rock back and forth in his seat during class which is both visually (he sits in the front) and audibly distracting (the seats creak).\n\nThe cherry on the cake, however, is that for long stretches of class he will breathe exclusively through his mouth. I have no idea whether this is a health-related issue or a psychological thing, but his breathing is loud enough to make it hard to hear the (albeit soft-spoken) professor.\n\nWhat do I do, Reddit? These seem like issues that shouldn't really exist, but can anything be done?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating this girl since my junior year of high school and we always had each other in mind when going off to college.\n\nNow we go to the same school and I broke things off with her after 2 years because I started to realize she didn't care about my personal interests and I did not get to enjoy a lot of things with her.\n\nHowever, she has been my best friend for 5 years now and I just can't forget about her. I went to a party at another school and met someone else but I had to stop talking to her because my ex is still on my mind. She has also been telling me about the great times she has been having since we broke up and she's \"living life.\" Maybe it's jealousy, but these thoughts never escaped my mind.\n\nI've been very frustrated with her trying to tell me how great her life is. I tried talking to her last week about this, but she saw a physical mark on my neck from said party and she refused to talk to me for a week until I begged her to let me explain.\n\nNow that she listened to me, I don't know what to do with myself. She sort of hates me but I'm still craving the relationship we used to have or even just to have her friendship back.\n\nI know most people on here and other people I've talked to say let her go, never speak to her again, but I see her everyday and my emotions get the best of me.\n\nSo my question here is what should I do about where I stand with her and what should I do to move on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me (20, M), Her (F, 18).\n\nWe've been together for a year and although I find her annoying at times, I still like her a lot at the end of the day. She calls herself a tomboy but honestly I do not see it, although she does enjoy lifting weights, boxing and wearing guy clothes, there is no resemblance of male behaviour in what she does.\n\nShe regularly complains about her period and how I \"don't understand what she's going through\". There are also times where she would say how guys have it easy and that they don't have to go through what girls go through in life (child bearing, period, etc). \"Guys have it so easy, they can do anything they want. ETC, ETC.\" I thought nothing of it.\n\nJust a week ago, she told me that she wished she wasn't born a girl and was born a guy instead. This naturally shocked me and I asked her if she was serious for clarification. She thought about it for a minute and said yes. Then she added that the only thing good about being a girl was that she got to be with me. Next thing she tells me is that she only keeps her fingernail long, do her hair and wear a dress just because she knows I like it.\n\nIs this just a phase? Is there something wrong with her? Should I be worried?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're interested in a relatively small remodel that we've been told would cost us about $15k. I'm wondering if someone could give a ballpark on what a HELOC of that size would add back to our monthly loan payment. I can wait until Monday to ask our credit union, but I figured some of you folks might be able to hazard a guess. \n\nBackground: We're in the process of refinancing (no-cost) our home of three years in Los Angeles. We paid about $550k for it and it looks like it's going to appraise for about $650k. We initially put 10% down and have made only regular payments, no additional ones. By removing PMI and decreasing our rate by 5/8 (from 4.5 to 3.875), we'll save roughly $300/month in mortgage (relative to our current $2500 mortgage payment).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Earlier this year, I applied for a summer job at my university. It paid decently but allowed me to take classes offline, which I preferred to do, so I went for it. At the same time, a friend of mine (we'll call him Jack) was applying for the job.\n\nJack became a dick about the job really quickly. Told me I wasn't really qualified (even though I'd been working for the department this job came through for a year) and that my customer service skills were lacking (even though he's seen my boss praise them). Needless to say, I was unhappy and pride mode went into overdrive.\n\nOriginally, my plan was to go in and just talk about what I knew and how I could be of service. But his lack of faith made me step it up a notch. I talked to people who had the job in the past. I did research on the people hiring me. I even went to one of the old hirers to get some tips. I was running at 110%.\n\nInterviews end and we find out the results. I got the job. Jack didn't. I went to go talk to him about it but was pulled aside by my friend first, who showed me tweets Jack made saying I was cocky and didn't deserve the job. His reasoning was that I said I wish I knew if I got the job sooner than the date we were expected to, because I just wanted to know so I could get on with my life and stop stressing. He took it as me thinking I got the job.\n\nKnowing about the tweets (I don't use Twitter), I decided to be the lesser man in the situation. At this time, Jack and I were roommates. I walked it and he was quiet. Obviously pissed at me. So I go next door to our friend's room and just shouted \"[FRIEND] I GOT THE JOB! I'M SO EXCITED!\" The walls of our dorm were small. I know he heard me. Walked back in and he just glared at me, but I didn't care. He was a dick.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all, I am just looking for some advice on a situation I am in.\n\nI just moved back to my hometown after being away at University for several years. When I got back my sister approached me about adopting her dog. She just started a nursing position and is having a difficult time giving the dog the attention it needs. I really want to take the dog, he is a great dog with very few behavioral issues. \n\nThe problem is, I already have a dog. It's a dog I have had since my freshman year of highschool. She is known to be rather territorial and jealous of attention directed at other dogs. Most of the time this amounts to nothing more than baring of her teeth before she is scolded and removed from the situation. It doesn't seem to be related to food, toys, or bedding, but rather more towards attention and proximity to her hoomans. Other than these issues she is an amazing dog. Very smart and well trained, as well as the most obedient dog I've ever had. \n\nI am not too worried about the dogs interacting while we are around, because I think we can stifle it before it escalates too far. My main concern is leaving them alone together at my house while my SO and I are at work. Also, worried about the long-term. Would they ever get past the tension, or would this be something we had to worry about as long as we have both dogs?\n\nMy dog is a female border collie, 8 years old.\n\nSister's dog is a male pit/lab mix (we think), ~4 years old.\n\nWhat can we do to help the dogs become comfortable with each other, and to help insure there won't be any fighting? Any advice is greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's something wrong with my back. Very very very wrong. I had an MRI about four years agothat showed the first signs of a herniated disc. Every few months or so i get a flare up of pain that puts me on my arse for two or three days. About a month ago i had one of these flare ups and it hasn't gone away. for a whole month. Pain doesn't describe it properly. Finger curling, screaming agony comes close.\n\nI can't stand up, i can barely walk. Sitting down hurts, standing up hurts, lying down hurts. I went to a doctor yesterday who flipped and said I need to get an MRI immediately. She wouldn't even let me walk out of the surgery and called a taxi. She faxed a referral to a neurosurgeon and said to wait for his call. I waited 24 hours. Today i found out he may not be able to think about when i can get an appointment for another four days. \n\nSo now i'm waiting in limbo and i don't know what to do. Should i be resting? stretching? walking? what makes it worse? what makes it better? I'm starting to get depressed. I cry at the drop of a hat, i feel lost and powerless. I normally work full time, study part time and take every chance i can to get outdoors in the garden or do something active. I feel like i'm becoming paralysed in body and mind and i don't know what to do. \n\nThe Doctor mentioned that there's a possibility this could be a condition where the nerves in the spinal column get strangled somehow. I can't remember the name for it because i was a bit in shock. Has anyone out there heard of this? Has anyone out there been through something similar to this? have any advice for me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I first saw [this] how-to on making silicone dildos, but the suggestion that one use silicone caulking seemed a bit sketchy, and a bit more searching around seemed to confirm that silicone caulking is probably not great for putting in your body. The clay model and latex mold method seems unproblematic, but I could be wrong.\n\nMore research seemed to suggest that platinum (rather than tin) cured silicone provides minimal interactions with bodily functions. One can purchase platinum-curing silicone mixes from art stores. I found a [shop] which deals with making molds/casts and has a pretty good selection of platinum-curing silicones.\n\nBut the consensus also seems to be that silicone used for sex toys should be \"medical grade\". I can't seem to figure out what that means and if it is significantly chemically different from the kind of silicone you'd get from an art store, nor where one would get small amounts of it that would be simple to mix in a \"homemade\" setting. I do know that there are a number of people who make silicone sex toys in their homes (or very small shops), but no one I've contacted is willing to divulge their methods (unsurprisingly). One person seemed to use both \"medical grade\" and \"art store\" silicone, perhaps coating the inside of a mold with the former and then filling with the latter (just a guess).", "role": "user" } ]

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