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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My brother is acting weird recently, he has always been calm and such, he's very nice, but recently he just shut himself in...\n\nDuring the last month I have been always getting awaken by him playing piano at 3:00 - 4:00 am, he continues on playing till like 9:00 - 10:00 am then goes to the fridge, eats something quickly then goes back to his room either playing again or doing homework or turning off the lights while lying in his bed listening to music...\n\nHe doesn't talk unless you go and talk to him!? and it's impossible to make him angry now, I know he's very nice but before he used to get angry if someone teased him but now he's kind of numb... I tried making him the food he likes he thanked me but he never finish the dish and he even lost weight I wonder what's wrong with him he's acting numb and spaces out a lot...\n\nI asked him a lot what's wrong with him, but his answer is always ( nothing ), I thought he was in love and got his heart broken but he said no that's not true and there's nothing wrong with him ... last night I asked him again but this time he said he's annoyed by my insistence ...\n\nI don't know what to do I'm really worried ... do you think he's depressed or he's acting normal ? Am I worrying too much ?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone. I know, it's such a silly thing to worry about a bunny, ha, but here goes. My girlfriend just bought an adorable little bunny, and I like the little guy as well. We usually sleep at each others' places since we only live a few miles away from each other. Short story is that I like my place, a nice clean studio, and she likes her place, a house full of people with a lot of character. We manage by spending time at each others' places pretty evenly. Anyway, in the past she's had a habit of planning gatherings at her house with her friends/roommates that ends up meaning she's going to sleep at her place, which is fine, except that a few times she's planned these things several days in a row. She's gotten upset at me in the past for wanting to hang out at my place. I've called her out on it, basically telling her that if she wanted to hang out with her roommates and sleep with at her place, that it was fine, but that didn't change the fact that I wanted to hang out at my place, and maybe we needed to sleep separately sometimes. We have been dating for about a year, and are in love with each other.\n\nAnyway, she has admitted that she can be selfish at times, but has done pretty well at understanding what I want recently. However, I'm worried that she's going to use her new bunny as an \"excuse\" to spend more time at her place. What is a good way to manage my worries and express my concern/wants to her if a similar situation of her always wanting to spend time at her place and expecting me to come over arises?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been into this girl for a few weeks. I've seen her around the hallways a few times, but we've never really talked. Recently, I've gotten to know her a bit better, and started to notice she was kind of cute. So, today, I decided to ask her out after class.\n\nI pulled her aside after we had class today, and asked if she'd like to have lunch together sometime, and she just kind of looked at the ground and started giggling, saying, \"I don't know, I don't know,..\"\n\nI was hoping for a *real* answer, but this is worse than a yes OR a no. A yes would've been great, and no would've stung, but I'd have been over it in a day or two. But this feels like some sort of weird limbo. I told her, \"If you want to say no say it, you're not going to hurt my feelings.\" But she kept saying, \"I don't know, I don't know\". I feel like this is some sort of weird way to spare my feelings, even though I don't need them spared, I just want an answer. \n\nI had class with her after that again today, and she seemed very, stiff, I guess the word would be. Just kind of staring down blankly at her book, not really moving her head or body, and seemed to(at least to me, although I must admit I wasn't paying much attention)rush out of class a bit quickly.\n\nI don't want things to be awkward between us, but would it be weird if I asked her tomorrow if it was a definitive \"no\"? Or should I just tell her not to worry, and that it's only awkward if we make it awkward.\n\nI do want to handle this like adults, and continue to have a friendship with her, but I'm not sure how to make this happen without asking her what, \"I don't know means\". Is this something all girls do, did I do something wrong?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some background: My SO and I have been together for almost 4 years. We dated throughout my college experience while he went into the workforce. He drove up every weekend (about an hour away) to spend time with me since we were not allowed cars on campus. Once I was able to get my car on campus, I would drive to his house and spend a few days there. During this time, even if we fought, those weekends are what I lived for. We could never wait until we could be alone. He's incredibly kind and considerate, and always treated me so well. He's patient. He makes me a better person. We are planning on moving in together sometime in the summertime, depending on the job search.\n\nNow that I am back at home after graduation and living 20 minutes away, I've noticed a shift. We both work two different jobs (I work during the day and on weekends) while he works second and overnight shifts. Maybe we're tired, maybe it's my birth control, but I don't feel that impatience anymore, I just want to cuddle. I resent that he touches me so much sometimes. I sometimes dread going over there because he constantly wants to touch me (lovingly, not aggressively or anything) because then I feel like I have to have sex with him or risk hurting his feelings or giving him blue balls or whatever. He never makes me feel this way, he can beg sometimes, but it's more of a \"aw man come on\" type of deal. Sometimes I just want to be alone with no one touching me or wanting me to do things. \n\nWe're becoming mean to one another. We are getting in more explosive fights more often, about little things. \n\nIs this normal? I feel like a horrible person. I miss him when he's gone, and I'm excited when I am going to see him, but I just feel...empty at the same time. Not that I don't love him, but like something fundamental has changed and I can't put my finger on it. I'm really just rambling, but is this a phase? Or is this it? :/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "# Part 1\nI'm finding it hard to understand something. My ex GF broke up with me 6 months ago, I tried winning her back for 6 months. We would see each other once every 2 weeks and we'd get on like 2 peas in a pod and she kept leading me on, however 2 days after seeing her she would tell me it was a mistake and that we can't speak anymore. This of course was really unfair and caused me great depression. \n\n# Part 2\nAfter dealing with this for 6 months I decided to completely cut her out, and I've been doing good by not messaging her anymore. She still messages me almost every 2nd night. I don't get it.. She doesn't want anything to do with me however she still messages me. Surely if someone wanted to cut someone out of their life they wouldn't go through all the trouble of constantly messaging someone? \n\n# Part 3\nI guess what I'm trying to get at is, does anyone have an explanation as to why someone who broke up with me keeps messaging me even after I said goodbye for good? \n\nThanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About a year ago I got out of a terrible relationship with a guy I had been seeing for about three and a half years. He treated me like shit, and every interaction we had was another indication he didn't give a shit about me.\n\nAfter that, I felt very awful. I distrusted pretty much all men. Expected them to do nothing more than to leave me and disappoint me. Then I met my current boyfriend. He treats me so well, it's amazing, he bought me flowers for no reason. I almost cried when he did that because it was something I thought I never deserved.\n\nThough we are still in the incredibly early stages of a relationship, I am starting to feel this weird doubt. Sometimes I feel like I don't really know him at all, his hobbies, his hopes, his likes and dislikes, almost like he has no personality. Maybe it's just because we're still kind of in the getting to know each other phase, but I don't want to lose someone this nice. I like him a lot as well, I just feel sometimes I don't know him. I'm also trying to keep my distance with some of my more private and meaningful thoughts, as they have scared people away in the past. I haven't really told him my history, as it scares a lot of people off too. I feel like we're really formal with each other when all I want to be is comfortable. He is the nicest guy I've ever dated and I want this to work.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was referred here during finals week last semester, but I never actually got around to looking at this sub until today. Seeing all of the posts, I can't help but feel awe and shame. Why do I take each day for granted and not strive for greatness like you do? I used to think myself a perfectionist because I force myself to be discouraged when I am not perfect, but that isn't the point of having the goal of perfection. The point is to keep moving, to welcome the defeat and criticism and just move forward and up. That's why I was reminded of [this,] and I just wanted to thank you all. My rugby club is in the playoffs now, and seeing all of these posts reminded me of what I need to be doing to improve myself and my skills.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend has a friend that here recently has been coming to me for girl advice. This guy is 24, lives alone, works at Lowe's, is a huge jerk, and weighs about 320 pounds. I'm not here to say that only overweight people should be with overweight people, or anything like that. Hell, I'm slightly overweight myself. I'm just saying that from personal experience, you usually see an average looking person with an average looking person and a beautiful person with a beautiful person. I've never seen someone that looks like Seth Rogen with a girl that looks like Mila Kunis, is what I'm saying.\n\nThis guy sent me a message on skype and asked me what he was doing wrong when it comes to the ladies. Just to give you a quick idea, this is the kind of guy, that while he's socializing with others, you cringe in embarrassment FOR him. He thinks he's hilarious, and when he cracks a joke, there's usually silence afterwards. It's hard to watch. \n\nOh, and remember how I said that he's a 320 pound jerk that isn't funny? Well yeah, he expects to date women that are 120 pounds, stacked, with a perfect face. If he sees a woman with even a few extra pounds or boobs too small for his taste, or ANYTHING, he will point it out to anyone near him in disgust and claim that he would \"never date that girl.\" He has done this around me several times and I'm just floored every time. I've even had a girl ask me, \"Why does this guy think he has a chance?\" He keeps getting denied by these women and he seriously doesn't know why.\n\nHow can I deal with this and/or give him truthful advice? I WANT to say, \"Dude, you're a big fat jerk with standards that are way too high.\" But yeah...I know I won't say that in the end. Any ideas? Also, why in the hell is this guy like this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I moved into my current place a little over a year ago, and it's been pretty good. My roommate's been awesome - she's never late with rent, does her share of the chores without being asked/reminded and does them well (and sometimes does more than her share), etc. And in general, she's just a super cool girl, and we've become friends as well as roommates. We renewed the lease for another year about 2 months ago.\n\nRecently, I realized that I'm falling for her, and falling hard. In so many ways, she's exactly what I want in a girlfriend. But there's no chance for me to ever have a relationship with her - she's lesbian, and she has a girlfriend. \n\nI'm hoping there's a way for me to stop myself from falling in love with her. I can't really do no contact - I live with her after all, and flat out moving out would be a pretty big financial blow to me. Is there anything I can do, or do I just have to tough it out for the next 10 months?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife is mostly super nice and caring to me. However, she can have very bad mood swings over the most stupid stuff. Today she got mad at me and then we talked about it. However, 3 hours later from when we woke up from our nap, she asks me to check the weather and then yells \" Hurry up!!\". I immediately got annoyed and told her to check herself. She then left to work without saying bye. I didn't text her or talked to her not even when she was back. She tried to tickle me and be silly but I just wasn't having it. She never apologizes and I've talked about this with her. I've told her that I do not like being yelled at. She says she was stressed out and that I made her mad because I didn't want to go to the mall to change 3 shirts she bought.\n\nHow can I show her that I really am angry and will not tolerate shit like this? I am the type of person that speaks up whenevers theres a problem or I am upset. However, she tries to avoid it by saying whatever or just justifying her actions. I've tried talking to her but she just says \"ok\" and then forgets about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throw away because he's a frequent redditor. \n\nI knew when we began dating that my libido was much higher than his. Now, 3 years later, I'm already afraid I'm gonna end up spending my nights lurking r/deadbedrooms. I've been sexually curious since a young age. I masturbate often. I enjoy watching porn. I like my fair share of kink. Him? Not so much.\n\nAbout a year ago I started on a new medicine that's lowered my libido. I don't find myself browsing erotic stories or enjoying my afternoons alone with my internet browser.\nThis is fine. If anything it's nice to not have sex on the brain nearly 24/7. \nHowever, now that I'm not always dressing up, initiating, or sending dirty texts throughout the day to get him excited, our sex life has nearly come to a halt. Generally, once a week or so is all I get. The last spectacular week that comes to mind we had sex 4 times, but this was after a long discussion about me feeling sexually unsatisfied; wanting more sex in general and for it to be less vanilla. \n\nWhen we do have sex it's usually good, but he never wants it unless it's night time and we're in the bedroom. Even then he has trouble with getting/keeping an erection and sometimes won't even reach orgasm. Not to mention no midnight nookie, no morning sex, and minimal affection outside the bedroom. \n\nWhenever I bring up my issues with this he always says he just has a low sex drive and not to make him feel bad for it. I understand the low libido, but short of vigorous masurbation I'm not sure how to stay satisfied and faithful. (Having an open relationship is out of the question for him.)\n\nThe other aspects of our relationship are fine. I love him to pieces. There's no bullshit drama, we share most of the same values, and despite our differences we tend to compliment each other's personalities rather well. There's really not many complaints to have about him, other than our lack of intamacy. However, the lack of sex and general desire are leaving me extrodinarily unsatisfied...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We broke up as we live apart then we spoke for a little bit but we ended up fighting and we no longer speak. I have a letter I want to give her to try get back together with her. I asked her friends for her address so I could send it to her but they think it's best for her not to hear from me as I bring up bad memories. I cannot message her myself as she has blocked me on all social media. \n\nI really still love her and I think there could be a slim chance that we could get back together, we've been apart for about 2 months now. Should I still try to somehow get this letter to her or just leave it, it sucks right now because she's always on my mind.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I want to start by saying I met my fiancé almost a year ago and we immediately clicked. I felt like I've known the guy forever, and that I could say anything to him. I've never felt that way about anyone before. We ended up getting engaged 5 months after we started dating. He was definitely ready to get married before I was, because we are relatively young (24 years old) and I had always planned to get married later in life, but decided there was no point in waiting if I already met \"the one\"\n\nI feel like I'm having doubts about getting married. When we argue about small things, the arguments turn huge. Im not as \"loving\" or emotional as my fiancé would like. He's been amazing about communicating that with me and I'm very proud of him for doing so, because I understand that's difficult. And I agree I am not as romantic as he is, and agree to work on it.\n\nThe thing is, sometimes when we fight, he is so stubborn. At first I was hoping it was just my point of view that was skewed and I was just afraid of being wrong, but now when we argue I often sit there quietly just to listen to the things he says. The way he fights isn't fair- even if I apologize for something, he says I'm not apologetic enough. If I stay quiet, he accuses me of wanting to fight and not trying. If I try and tell my point of view, he says I don't listen to him enough. He's wonderful and thoughtful when we arent arguing, and I know everyone argues, but when we argue I feel so helpless to the point where I can't get my point across and we stop talking for hours, sometimes even a day or two. I've only been in two relationships before this, but those weren't nearly as serious. Is this normal?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I like my girlfriend, as in have feelings for her, but I know for sure she definitely feels stronger towards me than I do to her [texts me constantly, told me she loved me etc.]. \nShe's a great girl, , it's just that we're too different. Way too different for a decent relationship to work. It feels like we've been going out for ages in that the initial spark is gone (we were seeing each other for about 2 months before I asked her out). \nThe only thing that is holding me back from breaking up with her is that her best friend is one of my good friends (how we met) and I sense more than one relationship is going to end if I call it quits.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met him at work last year, at the time he seemed very friendly and welcomed me with open arms. He's always been goofy towards me, wanting to make me laugh, etc. All of this looked like innocent flirting to me until it was revealed that he has a long distance girlfriend.\n\nAfter I learned that, it was kind of hard to feel the same about his actions toward me, but I still feel like he treats me a little differently than everyone else. He's extremely helpful when it isn't required of him, tends to be around me a lot, and often jumps into conversations I'm having. He still acts jokey and remembers our past conversations as well.\n\nI could also just be inexperienced and reading waaay too much into everything, but I dunno. I'm not sure how to get past this and I just want guidance on how to distance myself without hurting my relationship with him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just recently started dating Penelope, who is two grades behind me. We met at our highschool during choir and musical; and, as youthful relationships typically begin, we are just wild about eachother.\n\nMy question is dual-faceted but I extend it to /r/relationships with the idea generally being that I am making an honest attempt to cross the schema gap to be the best boyfriend I can be.\n\nFirst and foremost, the most obvious difference between us is our age disparity of two years. This isn't a huge problem between us, but might be an issue in the future, (parents raising eyebrows, peers being skiddish, etc.) So, what are my ethical obligations to her, (being the older of the two,) how can I traverse the two-year gap so that we have more common ground, and what do I do about negative societal judgement?\n\nThe second factor contributing to my ignorance is that Penelope happens to have pretty bad social anxiety. She arbitrarily experiences episodes where she believes that I'm lying and that the relationship isn't real, and has difficulties talking about the way she feels. She experiences occasional anxiety attacks as well. Her anxiety isn't advanced enough for me to consider it a serious hindrance to our relationship, I knew her for a couple months with that knowledge before making the decision to move forward into a romantic relationship. What can I do to make her feel less embarrassed about her anxiety when it strikes? As somebody who does not experience the same issue, what should I know to be more educated and empathetic going forward?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's this guy (m18) who I've (f17) been chasing for 5 years. I've had a few boyfriends over that timespan who I've left because I just can't get over this one guy. Over the last year, we've become best friends and hang out all the time. The thing is, he has a girlfriend now. His girlfriend absolutely hates me because he would rather hang out with me than her. He has talked about breaking up with her with me, but I don't know if I should take the chance to try and make something more of our friendship. \n\nBut here's where the tricky part is. I feel like I've sent off the wrong signals to him, as in the friend zone. I'm scared that when I tell him how I feel, he'll be very shocked and tell me that he hasn't ever felt the same way. Another thing, I've recently dated his best friend. I'm not sure if his group of friends have a \"guy code,\" but it's a possible assumption. \n\nI just don't know what to do at all. I've been stuck for so long now and I feel like I need to finally figure out what's going on between us. I have no idea how to approach the issue or if I ever even should. Please and thank you for the help, Reddit!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey!\n\nSo a friend and I are flying into Amsterdam, and then leaving on a flight out of Berlin. So minus airplane travel, that is like 13-14 days in between.\n\nI am trying to plan the trip now, but I feel a little overwhelmed, so I thought I'd ask all you guys. (Reddit is usually my google) I kind of want to try to plan some sort of trail that leads us to Berlin throughout that time, but also seeing amazing and beautiful things (specific I know).\n\nWe're two guys, both 21, and not afraid to rough it. I was thinking at looking at those help-ex sites and couch surfing. Cheaper the better, and I dont mind doing work to support my stay. A major thing we both love is nature, so I want to encompass those sights, but not miss out on the city too.\n\nSo, my question to you guys; any suggestions? Sights I need to see, things I need to do, things I shouldn't do? Great places to stay in, terrible places? Some sort of magical convenient trail that can show us awesome things on our way to Berlin? \n\nI know this is broad as all hell, but I feel like I am being dropped in the ocean and I have to navigate something. I've even drawn a map to help myself visually try to map it out. Still confused. So any thoughts, comments, ideas, anything, would make a huge difference.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been dating 6 months now. We just have a disagreement about what a break in a relationship really is. We're not going on a break but I just fail to understand what the hell a break even is. The way I see it, a break is very close to a breakup, in which the people are free to see others and could develop feelings for those other people. My girlfriend knows people her age that have gone on a break and are now still dating after it, so she views it as something that could benefit a couple and help them grow while apart and get back together in the future. It could just be the age difference between us that leads to this different view. With my current situation, which would require me to basically be a shut in for four months (studying for the LSAT) we may go on a break in the future. I'm just asking you guys to help me understand what a break actually is.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating this girl for three years and in these three years have had the time of my life. I took her virginity and we both fell in love. Looking back, I fell harder than I should have because in the beginning I wasn't serious about the relationship. Now after three years, I am known by her grandparents, parents, and her siblings as (Her name here)'s husband. I never wanted to drag her through this and I feel like complete shit for doing it to her. She loves me way more than I love her and I don't know how to break up with her.\n\nI've tried to end it 3 times and they all resulted in both of us running back to the other crying and begging for forgiveness/another chance. Right now, things are rocky and we haven't spoken for 3 days. She just dropped off (On my front porch at 1 a.m.) what my little brother is calling a \"Care package\" including some notes I wrote her in my Sophomore year, my favorite candy, two cards she purchased and wrote books in, and my favorite stuffed animal from her house. All of this was along with a giant letter P that she made in art class with pictures of us throughout the years. \n\nLike I said, I know this is going to break her heart, but I've kind've already made a connection with an old friend and I'm just ready to move onto another part of my life being just finished with high school (She has another year).\n\nHow should I end this without making her family and friends hate me? Is there a way? Also what should I do about the dog WE purchased and is OURS?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, so a bit of background. It was the last day of our vacation and the three of us were sat in his (the boyfs) room. We ended up playing strip poker. Half way through she left but said she'd be back in a minute, so I stayed a bit longer. When she came back, she said she was going to bed, but being the last day of our vacation, I didn't want to leave then, and I still had my clothes on, so I just said we'd finish playing. \n\nI really regret not leaving with her, but I thought everything would be fine as I was still fully clothed. It was an error of judgement. \n\nHe starts getting touchy-feeley and makes me take my top of, which, regretfully, I did. Then he starts trying to get me to have sex with him. I refuse. He starts trying to get me to give him a handjob. I sort of pat it. He trys to put it between my tits but I'm moving away. \n\nAt this point the door busts open and it's my friend. He springs away like a bolt of lightening, which I thought then made the situation look worse. She said she'd forgotten her purse and leaves straight away. Only last week my friend tells me she'd returned to our room crying and saying she'd caught me giving him head. \n\nNow I don't know what to do. It was a while ago, so I don't just want to randomly bring it up out of no-where, but we were pretty good friends, and the last thing I want is to ruin it because of all this. I know I was in the wrong staying, but in fairness it was the sort of holiday where nakedness and psudo-sexual acts were common-place.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit,\nI've been in a bunch of relationships on my day. (Male, 29 this year) and I'm starting to wonder why I get to the point where I feel like I want something new, or some girl catches my eye that I can't get out of my head or want to get to know her well enough to date. \n\nI have been in a bunch of 3 month, 2 yr, 5.5yrs before my current gf of 1.5yrs and they all seem to come up the same. I was an asshole before and cheated during some of the previous ones in my younger days but told myself I wouldn't anymore because it's not fair to them. \n\nBut the feeling of getting out and being with someone new always creeps in and ruins my feelings for my current gf. I love her and care for her but don't know if I should stay, go or figure out what's wrong and try to fix it. \n\nI guess I'm asking if anyone has had the same thing happen or knows what I might be doing wrong or how to change my way of thinking. I feel like maybe I should just not get into a relationship anymore as it doesn't fully make me happy because it ends,or starts to end this way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Good morning Reddit! \n\nMy fiancé and I are having an issue. About 3 years ago we were very good friend with another husband and wife couple, Amy and Craig. They were on vacation with us in Vegas when my fiancé proposed and all was well. Amy was set to be my maid of honor. \n\nAfter we get back from vacation, Craig wants to buy Amy a new wedding ring for their anniversary. They married young and she had a very small ring, and he could now afford a larger one. He went and applied for credit at a local chain jewelry store, but was told he needed a co-signer in order to be approved. He asked my fiancé, who agreed. Not ever knowing we would ever have an issue. Craig's payments were only $75 a month, but was for a 5 year interest free loan. \n\nFast forward two and a half years later. We have fallen out with the couple due to their selfish behavior. Since the fallout they have made 1 late payment. My fiancé called and told Craig to take care of it and not to let it happen again. Until yesterday, they made the rest of the payments on time. Yesterday my fiancé received another call about 2 late payments on the account. This is now killing my fiancés credit, with 3 late payments on his credit that aren't even his! We are in the process of trying to save for a house and plan to apply for a loan soon. IS THERE ANYTHING WE CAN DO TO GET THIS LOAN OFF OF HIS CREDIT/OUT OF HIS NAME???", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a neutered, 11-year-old cat, named [Midnight] ( He spent 9 years as a barn cat and was the boss of every cat he ever came into contact with (un-neutered males included). He drove off a few un-neutered males that tried to challenge him. He got along with the other cats, as long as he was allowed to be boss. He's been a happy, indoor, single cat for the better part of two years now. \n\nMy boyfriend has two spayed 15-month-old cats, [Giggles] ( and [Jaclyn] ( Giggles (super friendly) and Jaclyn (skittish) were adopted together, even though they were not litter-mates. They're [friends] ( but they mostly do their own things. \n\nAll three cats will be living together starting in July. They will be meeting in a new apartment - a completely neutral space for all three of them. I know the steps to take when introducing them to each other. Reddit: I'm looking for stories/experiences from other people that have done something similar to this. What did you learn that you wish you had known beforehand?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Less than a year ago, I (27/F) met someone who has quickly become one of my best friends. He (19/M, who I will refer to as \"Friend A\") and I met online through a common interest. As such, I have been able to join a wonderful community that I love spending time with.\n\nFriend A is close to another member of the group. This friend (Friend B, who I am not particularly close to and don't know very well) suffers severe bouts of depression. I'm not sure if they are seeking professional help for it, but Friend A suffers the same thing and I know for a fact that he IS receiving help every week.\n\nFriend B has a tendency to lash out when people aren't paying attention to them. To the point of apologizing and saying things like \"I'm going away forever now, goodbye.\" I've witnessed this on several occasions and frankly, it scares me, though I know there's nothing I can really do for them, I don't even know their name. Friend A is substantially closer to Friend B, and recognizes a lot of their behavior from things in his own, fairly recent past (shortly before we met).\n\nAs a result, Friend B will directly contact Friend A and INDIRECTLY blame him for their depression, saying things like \"I really need this, why can't you do this for me?\" and expecting him to step up at least several times a day. This is very emotionally draining for Friend A.\n\nHaving been in manipulative friendships myself, I'm seeing this behavior from Friend B, and all I can see is them trying to control Friend A in some way and I am NOT a fan. Thing is, I don't know what I can do to help Friend A. I really don't think they should be friends, and I especially hate seeing Friend A go through emotional turmoil for simply not responding to a post once in a while.\n\nI don't know how to approach my friend without coming off sounding manipulative myself. I am genuinely concerned for Friend A because he means a lot to me, but at the same time, I understand where he's coming from and know just how touchy the whole situation can be.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello /r/relationships,\n\nRecently a close friend of mine has been going through a tough time and I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing to offer support. Most of my friends or family I contact through text or messenger so touching or bringing food or anything of actually being there is out of the picture. Sometimes they are also many miles away. \n\nI know the classic \"Do you want to talk about it?\" Or \"Just know I'm here for you\" lines but what the heck does that even mean? What usually happens is I say those things, they say something, I say sorry you are feeling that way, then they say something else and I'm stuck for words. I can't just keep saying sorry over and over. There's just so many times I can say \"Oh no.. :(\" or \"That's not good.. :/\" I know being supportive and comforting means to listen and be there, but I just find it really difficult when it's all in text and I'm not able to just hold them or just nod and give them my full attention. \n\nCan you guys please tell me how I can be the best support I can be?? The do's and don'ts.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway for obvious reasons\n\nSo my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now (neither of us can remember when we actually started dating lol). We've had a pretty good relationship, with my anxiety it's sometimes hard for me to relax which interferes but things have gotten better as I've gotten to know him and have started opening up.\n\nHowever, there are little things that he does that imply that he doesn't want to see me even though he says he does, and that he doesn't really care much about my problems although, again, he says he does. A few examples:\n\n- I can't see him this week due to him being busy. He said last week that he'd try to see me whenever he has the opportunity. An opportunity came up today, but he's playing Overwatch instead (games he plays show up on discord) and hasn't shown any interest in wanting to see me\n\n- My friend stood me up today and I was kinda pissed because it's not the first time, I told him about this, he said \"interesting\" and \"are you ok?\" and that was that. He changed the topic pretty quickly\n\n- A while back I was pretty upset about my grandpa's passing. I told him, he did the same \"oh no are you ok\" spiel and then changed the topic. I was upset about this and confronted him later on, he just said \"I thought you needed space, sorry\" and that was that. He repeats the same behaviour.\n\nI just don't know what to do. Other than little things like this, our relationship is great and I know he loves me. He is generally quite giving and sweet etc etc blah blah. I'm just not sure if I should keep holding on when he frustrates me so much.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Go ahead. I'm 15, I shouldn't be dating, blah blah blah, relationships come and go, blah blah blah. Whatever. I did. Me and this girl were EXTREMELY close for 2 years before I decided I wanted her and she felt the same. She ended it claiming she still likes me but enjoys being the best friends that we were more than being my girlfriend. You can say what you like, but I really and truly love this girl. I've talked to her, there's no getting it back. I am attracted to no one else. I think of her 24/7 and come up with some way something or some event correlates with her. Today, I saw a completely beautiful, gorgeous girl. She kinda smiled when we made eye contact, and I recognized her attractiveness. I processed it. But I didn't feel attracted to her at all. AT ALL. I literally only like my ex girlfriend and I'm scared by that. You're free to ridicule me now. Just keep in mind I'm an innocent, sensitive, sweet 15 year old. Seriously though, I'm not so sure I'm getting over her anytime soon at all. I'm significantly less happy than I was when we were dating, and I've been a complete ass to my friends for it. I just feel like crap, all around. I don't know. Help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have been working at a restaurant known as Jimmy John's for the past 3 years. 2.5 of them being a manager. For those who don't work at jj we get a visit from corporate once about every 4 to 6 weeks. The guys was a little late in coming but we had been preparing for him for the past week. Last night I had the luxury of closing with a new guy and a worker we hired about a month ago. I can usually close the store and get out around 945 with it looking good. Well last night having a new guy and having to do double the work we didn't get out till nearly 1030. I thought it looked good but I would come to find out the next morning that wasn't the case. I go in to pick up my phone charger and the look in the assistant managers eye could kill. I thought he was going to break down and cry. I then find out we got a low 80. Now I don't know what to do. I could have very well just cost everyone a 750$ bonus.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "What would happen if they were caught? Is this a situation where bounty hunters might be called in? How is this normally treated in the army: not punishment-wise, but more severity of the dishonor - what would you think of someone who deserted in this fashion? Could they get conscientious objector status AFTER deserting? \n\nThis is partly Snowden inspired curiosity, but I am specifically wondering about a US Army Ranger situated in Iraq/Afghanistan who abandons his station, possibly with sensitive information. What would go down if this happened? If anyone knows of consequences from other branches of the military, or likely outcomes in similar scenarios in other countries, let me know. I mostly ask about the US Army Rangers because of family and friends who are interested in the Rangers, but aren't Redditors. Personal anecdotes are welcome.\n\nNote: I'm not American, and thus the curiosity.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for almost five months now. Some things that may make the problem clearer. We live about 30 minutes away from each other. He has a car but I don't. I go over to see him by taking two buses and it takes me more than an hour to reach his place.\n\nI was really upset yesterday. I was telling him about it by texting him occasionally during the day. Around 5, I decided to ask him if I could come over to his place. He told me his friends were coming over to his place. I told him I didn't want to be alone and moping in bed the rest of the night. He responded by saying he was really sorry I was having a really bad day. That was all I heard from him last night.\n\nI always tend to support him when he is upset. I went over to his place and waited for over two hours outside his apartment (I didn't have a key) just to be with him when he was upset.\n\nIt's 10 am on a Saturday here and I'm waiting for him to text me. I am going to tell him I don't want to see him tomorrow (we had plans) and that he chose to spend last night hanging out with his friends instead of comforting his girlfriend tells me what his priorities are. \n\nAm I doing the right thing? Feel free to ask me questions as I may have left things out.\n\nEdit: This isn't the first time that he hasn't been there for me. It happens almost every time. He always has something else that he's doing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey reddit, \n\nYesterday afternoon I made plans with my girlfriend of 6 months to go see a pre-screening of the internship after I finished work. \n\nWhen we talked, I informed her that the screeners of the movie always overbook the tickets so it's always full and because of this we needed to get there early, so we agreed that she'd pick me up directly from the train and we'd go over. \n\nSo, she picks me up and we head over. On the way she informs me that she is starving and hasn't eaten all day long and wants to stop before at the whole foods. I tell her that if we don't go straight there we won't get seats, but if we go get our seats first, she could leave and run over because we'd have time to spare. \n\nShe refuses to park first and just drops me off out front. I go in where there's already a line, you have to check your phone (anti-piracy), and long story short it sells out before she gets back just like I knew it would. For the record, you can't save seats because they fill every seat. \n\nHere's the thing, I really wanted to see this movie and she isn't that big into going to the movies. I just started working downtown 9 hours a day + commute and she's just moved home from college. I repeatedly told her to grab a snack before hand because if we didn't go straight there we'd miss it. \n\nIt's just frustrating because it seems like she willfully and selfishly put her needs in front of mine. \n\nI won't try to parallel my behavior with hers for the sake of objectivism, but I know for a fact that I have in the past given her my full consideration for things she's wanted to do, even if I didn't really want to go. \n\nReddit am I wrong for seeing this as selfish at most and thoughtless at best?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just to be clear, I'm not getting married anytime soon but after reading and hearing about women in abusive relationships I've started toying with the idea of keeping a little nest egg in case anything bad were to happen should I need to get out of an abusive relationship. As a logical woman I know that sometimes you make bad decisions by marrying the wrong person. And I don't want to be put in a position in the future where I'll be stuck without any options. So every year because I'm native American I, along with the rest of my tribe receive two checks, one for $500, the other for $1,000. This money comes from the combined earnings the tribe receives from multiple business's owned on tribal land. Ergo, the money trickles down to the tribal members. Now the women in my family aren't necessarily forward about getting this money and I've heard that the men they date aren't happy when they find out about the extra \"income\". My problem comes into play here, I plan on getting married one day but I'm not sure how to handle telling my husband. On one hand I'd like it for myself to get out of a bad relationship, on the other, I think it's a nice extra amount of money to invest in towards yearly vacations with my future spouse, new furniture, or things around the house. Should I tell my future husband about the money or be dishonest and never say anything?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello r/personalfinance, long time listener, first time caller. I'm not entirely sure this is the right place to post this, but as I peruse here quite a bit I thought it would be worth a shot.\n\nThe backstory: in June I got a very sore tooth treated with a root canal. The dentist supposedly removed the roots and filled my tooth with a temporary filling. They told me to come back in a week to complete the next step but could not get me in for a month. I went back and they said I had a lot of bacteria and to come back in another month after a course of antibiotics. I came back again a month later and they said it was bleeding excessively and had to drain, so I should come back in another month. At this point I was moving out of state in a week and told them so, and they essentially showed me the door. After moving, I went to another dentist who did an x-ray and said the tooth was severely decayed and needed extraction. I did experience some pain in the days leading up to the extraction and the oral surgeon told me there was still some root tissue in the supposedly completed root canal causing me pain, which isn't entirely unheard but worth noting.\n\nAlright, the part I need advice on: just yesterday, I received a bill in the mail from my former dentist for $300. I called to ask what this was for and they said the insurance company wouldn't cover the incomplete procedure. I find it very interesting that I got a bill for this in November, months after my business with them had ended. I also heard nothing from the dentist at the time saying I would have to pay for an incomplete procedure. I called the insurance company and they said to have the dentist send them x-rays and other stuff, but I'm really doubtful that will do much for me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My gf and I have been together 8 years and she's lived at home with her parents all her life. Her parents are super traditional and the very thought of her even staying the night with me upsets them. She has lied for the last 6 years saying she was at her friends house so we could have some time together. They know we plan on getting engaged and eventually married. My gf and I are falling into depression due to not being able to live together along with other issues outsider our relationship.\n\nWe've been on many trips together and are completely happy and care free when we are together, but lately not living together is really making us unhappy.\n\nI want to tell her she just needs to move in with me, but I don't want to be thought of as disrespecting her parents. I know at this age and the devotion we have to each other it's nonsense for us not to live together, but I don't know how to get her to break through that wall and tell her parents that we are moving in together.\n\nOne of our biggest issues is the loss of friends over the years. When we started dating we each had a good pool of friends but over the years those friends have just about abandoned us for various reasons.\n\nI feel it's almost impossible to propose even though it's all i think about. I depresses me that I would have to propose and then we'd have to go our separate ways after the proposal instead of enjoying the big step in our lives together.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone, I hope that you guys can give me some guidance on an important decision I have to make. I have been working for 11 months at a big accounting firm. My background is in IT and wanted to do something more closely related to technology. I started interviewing and I received an offer for $7K more than what I am currently making. This came as great news, except I just learned that HR is going to get me an opportunity within my current firm to do something a lot cooler but I'd keep the same salary. The problem with the new offer is the distance to my current place and where my SO lives. I live currently close to Downtown and she lives 30 minutes south, the new job would be 40 minutes north west of where I currently live. Just before I got the offer I was looking to move closer to her, but that would mean about 1.5 hrs of driving every day. I have made numbers and the raise covers the price of gas. Is there anything I should do in addition to that to be able to make a better decision? I feel like if I stay at my current firm I'll be able to get an even bigger raise if I move out in the next few years, but not sure that this is the case. I'm confident since unemployment numbers are steadily going down every day. What would you do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened 12 years ago--I was 14. I was in the 8th grade, and before I left for school that morning I decided to have myself some coffee. I never really drank it before then, but thought, why not? Well, with my mom yelling that my siblings and I were going to miss our bus if we didn't hurry, I grabbed that big-ass cup of coffee I poured and chugged it like there was no tomorrow. Roughly four hours later (about 10 a.m.), my stomach is killing me--at this point, I am certain that a good vom session is imminent. I tell my teacher that I'm going to be sick and haul ass to the restroom (thankfully it was unoccupied). I rush into one of the stalls, get down on my knees, flip up the toilet seat, and take aim thinking I am about to barf like the Dickens at any second. Instead, I let out the wettest fart of my life, which coincided with an awful ass-plosion. Yes, I did not vomit--I shat my pants. And let me tell you, I shatt'em bad. My only reprieve was that I was still wearing briefs and hadn't yet switched to boxers. In shame and terror, I eked my way to the nurses office and told her I was sick (I actually just told her I vomited up a storm, rather than admit the truth). She calls my teacher to tell her I am going home; my mom arrived with 20 minutes or so to pick me up. (By the grace of God there was no stank or leakage). I walk upstairs to my bedroom, legs tightly clenched, and proceed to carefully remove pants and underwear; I stuffed all evidence into an old pillow, which I tossed into the garbage and immediately emptied. I cleaned myself up, took a nap and didn't take a single sip of coffee for a long, long time. To this day, the smell of coffee makes my sphincter wince.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Please, help me get out of my head. I am tired of this irrational thinking.\n\nBoyfriend of 1 year has an ex-wife (divorced about 2 years now), with whom he shares a 2 year old son. They officially broke up during the pregnancy and have since had a pretty functional and cool co-parenting relationship. \n\nAnd then here I am. Happy with boyfriend. He sees his son about twice a week, on days when I'm not around. I haven't met him yet, mostly just because of schedule conflicts and we wanted to wait a while. Looking forward to it, eventually.\n\nBut my god. I CANNOT stop thinking about how he shared a home with this woman. I feel jealous that they have a child together -- it's such an intimate and special thing to share! I even got drunk one night and found one of her old abandoned photobucket accounts which included pictures of them when they used to be together.\n\nI've asked him about their relationship, he said he wasn't happy for a long time. He rushed into the marriage, unsure. And when things were on the outs, they found out she was pregnant. They divorced and are trying to raise this kid as best they can.\n\nSo why the fuck do I care??? Seriously. I am so sick of this. EVERYONE has a past. I have had a serious live-in relationship of my own. Inside I am so mad that he wasn't more cautious about having a kid with someone he knew he wouldn't be with. I'll never be his first wife, I'll never give birth to his first child.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was with my ex for ~ 1 year, been broken up since June, and haven't talked since September. And since we stopped talking, I've done a lot of soul searching. Looking back, I now know that neither me or my ex were ready for a serious relationship. We both had abusive childhoods; this left us both emotionally immature and lacking in self esteem and self love. We found solace in each other, and were each other’s first loves. Our relationship didn't stand a chance because we were both so battered from our upbringings. Letting go was so hard to do, but it was necessary. I couldn't have made the strides I did if I were still so dependent on him. \n\nI know cutting off communication with him was the right thing to do. And I also know that getting back together right now is a bad idea, because 3 months isn't enough time for significant change to develop that a 2nd try would work out. But I find myself daydreaming A LOT about us trying again way down the line because I truly believe that once we both mature and grow up a bit more, we’d have a real chance at making it last. Realistically I know that getting back together probably won’t happen. But my heart is clinging onto him. I'm so conflicted. Please help me move on, I don’t want to hold onto false hope anymore. Tell me what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have just started going out, it's been about 2 months and things have been going smoothly. She has a best friend who is also her older brothers [25] best friend too. She say's that he is like a cousin to her and that she'd never cheat because she knows how it feels to be cheated on, but I can't seem to 100% trust that statement. She talks to him a lot while she sometimes doesn't even reply to me when she's always on her phone texting him. \n\nI'm trying to believe her but due to past relationships, i feel like this will not go well at all. Is there anything I can do to relax and just realize that I am just overthinking things? Or is this something I should be concerned about", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So recently I had an issue where my modem wouldn't connect because I was getting too much signal loss due to a 6-way splitter meant for different frequencies than comcast cable (it must have been used by previous homeowner and first comcast guy just used it instead of replacing it). The down and upstream lights were on, but not the 'online' one (dpc3000).\n\nComcast guy replaced the splitter, as it was pushing my signal loss to too much. \n\nSo I was wondering, if I reduced the signal loss further (as it now is within spec), would it improve internet speed/quality? I could just remove the splitter since I'm only using a single line (connection to modem). I could probably cut and reduce the line length too.\n\nThanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I told my husband that my one stipulation for going up to his parents for Christmas this year was that he help out with cooking. Every year his mothers \"asks\" for my help in chopping, stirring, frying, and baking the most elaborate and exhausting Christmas dinners for 10 people, while her 4 middle-age sons hide upstairs playing video games and shirking chores. The rest of the trip I usually spend on average 3 hours a day helping her prepare and clean up after meals for \"the boys\". My husband's enthusiastic attempt to help today quickly turned into disgruntled anger once he realized how much work was involved. This led to him arguing with his brothers about helping out, and finally a lecture from his mother to ME about how in her day, the women would never think of asking the men to help. How the fuck do I stay civil to these clowns for rest of this trip?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Homosexuality and bisexuality are no longer considered by most to be health disorders, yet as I read about sexual motivation in one of my college textbooks, a thought occurred to me, detailed below. All the following behaviors have some research that attributes some of a behavior to genetics.\n\nAnorexia and bulimia are universally considered health disorders because they are dangerous, stem from a mistaken view of themselves, and sometimes fatal. They typically have lower self-esteem and are more prone to depression. From an evolutionary perspective, these people are less likely to survive because they don't receive enough energy from not properly eating food to run away from a survival risk, such as a lion.\n\nObesity (not just being overweight) is dangerous because of an abnormally large amount of fats that drastically increases the risk for heart attacks and strokes. Again, from an evolutionary perspective, these people are less likely to survive because they are unable to run very quickly.\n\nHomosexuality and bisexuality, on the other, are acceptable social behaviors nowadays, even though they have higher rates of depression than heterosexual persons and are frequently ridiculed and assaulted for their sexual deviance. From an evolutionary perspective, homosexuality is a self-destructive behavior in the sense that none of the genetic material of the homosexual gets passed on to the next generation. In simpler words, heterosexuality is considered \"normal\" sexuality because it will always (barring infertility) pass on genetic material to the next generation.\n\nDon't make this topic about love or genetic inheritance causing the behavior, as for this discussion these are cop-out arguments.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway for the usual reasons.\n\nMy ex and I had been together 3 years but split about two months ago, not because of a huge fight, but just a few fundamental incompatibilities and situational obstacles (we didn't have similar future plans; we've been doing long distance for a while; ex was really insecure; I didn't know how to handle my jealousy, etc.) That being said, she's wonderful, one of the sweetest and funniest people I know, and sometimes I still feel quite sad about it. \n \n\nMy friends have suggested going out with other people to try to move on, and I think that's a good idea. I'm even excited at the idea of dating again. However, my ex and I still talk frequently, sometimes on the phone for several hours. She has admitted she has lingering feelings as well, but also agrees that we just weren't cut out to be a couple. We don't have hard feelings, so I'm reluctant to cut off our friendship. At the same time, I don't really want to introduce myself to dates by saying, \"By the way, I'm still close to my ex and I miss her. I'm trying to move on, which is why I'm considering dating you right now.\" But I don't want to lie, either.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been seeing this guy now for about a month or so (note: we're both in our 20s), and when we go out to eat he likes to sit on the same side of the table. Personally, I think it's cute; most of the other guys that I've dated have never done this. When I asked him why he likes to sit on the same side of the table he said he feels its more romantic. However, my friends think it's weird. They say it's normal for being out in a group to sit next to your SO, but not while out to eat alone together. I don't want to be judged at restaurants, but at the same time I don't see what the big deal is. Since this has become somewhat of a debate, I thought I'd ask Reddit! What do you all think? And if you all think it is weird, how should I explain this to my new man?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I accidentally clicked through the dialogues and entered me wanting to use their Basic product instead of the free one. What they do is they trickily let you use the Basic product (or whatever you chose) to do your taxes, then when you are ready to file, hit you with the charge. Upon checkout after spending an hour typing all my information, a charge for the product showed up with no way of downgrading. \n\nClicked the chat dialogue, and the rep said that it was impossible to downgrade, and instead issued me a product key to get it for free! It also includes 9.99 state filing, (down from $27 they charge you for the free edition).\n\nChat:\n\nBrandon R.: Hello T------, welcome to H&R Block Tax Product Support! How can I assist you today?\n\n------: I accidentally upgraded to the Basic and wanted to downgrade back to free \n\nBrandon R.: I can't downgrade your account from basic,however what I can do is issue you an key code. You will have to pay the 9.99 for the state return.\n\n------: The website said that you can downgrade my account though by going through chat.\n\nBrandon R.: Yes, but in your case I cannot downgrade to free, but I will be more than happy to issue you an keycode.\n\n------: What does the key code do?\n\nBrandon R.: It pays for the product and your federal return.\n\n------: Oh okay thanks\n\nBrandon R.: Just one moment while I get the key code for you.\n\nBrandon R.: Can I have your DOB, last 4 of your SSN.\n\n------: ****\n\nBrandon R.: Your keycode number is ***\n\n------: Thanks!\n\nnote: Through checkout, state filing showed up as $36.99, but when I entered the key code, it went down to $9.99", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Obligatory this didn't happen today. This happened about a year and a half ago.\n\nMy girlfriend and I wanted to get it on, but we were at her parent's place so we decided to get in the car and find a secluded spot to do the \ndirty. She told me about this deserted road with no lights and suggested we head over there, pull over, and do the deed. Mistake number one. \n\nShe drives deep into the road and finds a nice area where we wouldn't be noticed. We start going at it and everything is good. However, it started hearing up (both ways) so I quickly turned on the AC and then go back to finish what we started. Mistake number two. \n\nWe went for a long time, it was great. After about an hour we were finished and satisfied. She gets in the driver seat and turns on the car. It doesn't start. We try again... Nothing. She starts to panic. Now I jump in the drivers seat and try, still nothing. At this point she's about to cry because her parents specifically said never to go down this road at night. This is when I realize the battery is dead. \n\nNow remember this is a completely deserted, lightless, secluded road. Girlfriend is losing her shit. I don't know anyone in this area. So here I am trying to figure this out while trying to keep Girlfriend from having a mental breakdown. I finally convince her to start calling people she knows. \n\nEveryone is busy.\n\nShe starts to lose it again. She doesn't want to call her parents and tell them we were exactly where they said never to go. Then she remembers an old friend that lives nearby who also happens to have jumper cables. She hasn't talked to him in two years. He answers and says \"who is this?\" We are off to a good start. She explains the situation to him saying we were watching stars and the car died. Very romantic. He is with his girlfriend but makes the special trip over and jumps her car. \n\nTo this day her parents have no idea.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been friends since we apart. This summer both of us are not as busy as when we were at school, so we have been texting each other very often. He always initiated the conversations. \n\nI can feel there still a thing between us, or maybe I just think too much..anyway, he is going to study abroad for two yeas at the end of September. He told me he could not make plans for things after two years. \n\nAnd I know even if he likes me, he definitely will never let me know, because there is only two months left, he is just that kind of person. However, we probably would never be able to see each other after this summer-I'll go back to my hometown next year. I don't know if I should let him know my feelings, I'm not sure whether the result will hurt our friendship. \n\nAppreciate any help, thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not sure how this will go, so please bare with me.\n\nMy parents are separating after 20something years. They have always had issues, never got married and haven't slept in the same room/bed for 16 years. \n\nThey have said a couple times over the past 15ish years that they were going to separate, but never did. Just empty words. But now my mom has a date to move and is asking me and my sister to \"pick sides.\" \n\nMy boyfriend and I have been having issues since he got kicked out of his house 3 weeks ago and has been living with my family since then. However, he should be moving back home this week. But that extra strain has been exhausting.\n\nBesides all of this, I have severe anxiety and depression. I receive \"disability support\" through my university, but all it really does is allow me to take my tests in a separate room. I also have concentration issues and just passed a screening for ADD. \n\nOn top of all this my piece of shit laptop has broken down for the 4th time in less than 2 years. I have a 5 page paper due tomorrow that I haven't started due to all of the above factors. I feel like school isn't for me, and I'm not going to pass this semester, putting me on academic probation.\n\nI just feel like everything around me is crumbling with little control over it all.\nI just needed to talk to somebody because I'm currently in my car in my school's parking lot crying like a little bitch.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "From sometime in October until just before school started up again two weeks ago I was hooked on pain killers. I started with morphine and eventually got to a point where I was doing almost any opiate I could get my hands on, with the notable exception of heroin. \n\nI made the decision to stop after the holiday break because I saw how my world was falling apart: my grades dropped, I became a farcical character in my social circles (became \"that guy who's always high\"), and I had a couple close calls with the police. These, among other reasons, prompted my family to tell me how worried they were about me, so I decided I could just go cold turkey and it would not affect my studies too much.\n\nWrong. I have missed almost every class since two weeks ago, with little to no contact with any professors. The few classes I did attend I went a sweaty, detached mess of a man. My problem now is that I need to pass these classes, preferably with decent grades. This is my last semester and I really want to be done. \n\nSo, I come to you, Reddit, with the hope that some one out there can point me in the right direction, so I might get my shit together. I don't really know how to approach anyone about this in person, and I'm absolutely terrified of facing my peers and my instructors. Also, to the best of knowledge there is nobody, including parents, friends, etc., that knows the full extent of my problem.\n\nIdeas?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I think I just need to rant and am being over emotional but here it goes......\n\nWe've been together for three years and everything is great when together except when we are apart and it's my fault. Growing up my parents never really allowed me do stuff normal kids did and we always were moving until 3rd grade. I always made friends but I wasn't allowed to go out with them or have sleep overs etc...It wasn't until senior year of high school where I was given freedom. \n\nNow, in college, I've adopted the same friend habits and it sucks(not saying I want sleep overs). I don't really have any friends except two good ones. One never feels like hanging out (in fact just got a text saying \"eh, no thanks\") and the other lives on the other side of the country. So most of my days are spent studying, stuck in my room, gaming,school, or going alone to a bar street located right off campus. What does this have to do with my relationship?\n\n My boyfriend lived in a small town where everyone knows everyone. He has friends, since elementary, everywhere and is always doing something with different people. This makes me feel happy for him because well, he's got people to be with and that's great but on the other hand I get sad and sort of jealous that I am not as privileged to have a circle of my own that I can just turn to and automatically hang with.\n\n I'm already stuck alone most the time. So it is only when he goes out that I start to feel like crap. I try and occupy my time with hobbies but it just gets old after a while. He does his best to keep time for me and I appreciate it. He's literally the best boyfriend I could ask for but how do I deal with the loneliness? I have brought it up but there isn't much he can do and if I keep bringing it up I'll push him away.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been researching endlessly for almost 6 months before deciding on getting a great dane.\n\nI am in the vancouver bc area and have found a selection of breeders within BC Alberta and Washington. Ive contacted many breeders and found a few that I feel comfortable with and are having a litter of puppies ready for june/july\n\nWe have been looking at a litter of harlequins after seeing them at a local show but am worried by some possible red flags.\n\nThe litter had 7 puppies, 4 with the traditional spotting and 3 almost fully white. The breeder is waiting to have the ears/eyes and other issues that are common with white danes before commiting to any sort of sale. \n\nThis seems like a responsible thing to do however,\nShould I be nervous of these imperfections within the litter? is this any sort of indicator on possible genetic flaws I may be paying for in the future?\n\nAny help is much appreciated, and feel free to ask any questions.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This one's been marinating for a whole and is one of the most disgusting things I've ever done. About a month ago I made an amazing dinner consisting of delicious braised short ribs. Because of a recent injury rendering me unable to walk and some time spent traveling. I wasn't really able to clean my apartment for a while and ended up leaving the remnants of this dinner in the pot (cover on it) in my oven.\nDecided to finally get rid of the congealed mess today by just throwing out the whole pot. I was sure if I opened it I would have opened another Pandora's box and puked all over my kitchen from the stench. \nI opened my oven to see this pot still sitting there with fruit fly eggs all over the top and all over the inside of the oven. Duck taped the pot shut and tossed that mess in the dumpster. I'm guessing I shouldn't use the oven without cleaning this mess out. Since I was too lazy to clean the pot and avoid this whole situation in the first place, I'm probably too lazy to clean the oven out by hand and I'm pretty sure the self clean option is a bad idea. Probably just going to move.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A bit of background on myself: I am a photographer by trade. Somewhat as a joke, my girlfriend has always playfully been very against my taking photos of her. It hurt and annoyed me at first when she played coy, but eventually I just stopped trying to involve her in my work. \n\nShe is a very attractive girl - to the point of being openly approached constantly whenever she's out at no matter the setting (work, etc). That said, she grew into her good looks and somewhat enjoys the attention she gets now. Recently, she was asked to model for a clothing company startup she is a fan of. Excited with the idea, she agreed.\n\nAt the moment, I am a mixture of supportive, jealous, insecure, and unsure. The photographer inside me is against the idea because it's unpaid and I feel they're taking advantage of her. The boy in me is jealous that she is so enamored with the idea and was so resistive to me (taking photos) initially. I'm also just not that comfortable with my girlfriend choosing to be ogled by people online - perhaps a bit possessive/insecure, but I just don't love the idea of her half naked all over the internet and lastly... The boyfriend in me is being supportive and pushing her to do something she wants to even though I really feel bad about it. \n\nI don't want to push her away and I want to see her happy. How do I deal with my own insecurities and jealousy with this situation. She's at the shoot right now and having a great time. I'm at home in knots.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I'm a bit confused in my situation right now. I'm a college student and I am not looking for a long term relationship and I'm just having a bit of fun right now meeting new people. \n\nAbout a month ago I met this guy and we hit it off pretty well. We had a bunch of the same interests and he was really into me and we started flirting a bit. I give him my number and we text on and off for the next few weeks, and it went very well. \n\nThen suddenly, he stopped texting me and after a few days he said he apologized since he was busy. I told him it wasn't a big deal and to just reply to my texts whenever he wanted. During the next two weeks were dead week and finals week for both him and me in college so I understand why we didn't talk as much.\n\nI was busy studying and he was busy so we barely talked but we would sent random snapchats once in awhile. However, now we have finished finals and now he never texts me or replies to my snapchats, he only replies to me if I message him on snapchat. However our conversations are short but it seems he still enjoys talking to me. He is almost always the first one to see my snapchat stories as well, I'm unsure if that makes a difference.\n\nI would text him once every few days, just to talk about whats going on and I wouldn't get any replies, then I messaged him on snapchat and I asked why he only snapchats instead of texting and he replies almost immediately and says he's been ignoring everyone and all his messages, not just me personally. He reassured me by saying he still wants to hangout and that he wouldn't ditch me but I'm wondering what is up and I'm wondering if I did something wrong? \n\nMaybe he actually isn't that interested, should I just wait for him to talk to me and get on with my life? I know I shouldn't worry about it too much but I'm curious about his attitude. What advice do you have or what would you do? I'm not too committed I would just like a guy's POV for this sort of situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were together for 3 months and had problems for a bulk of it (mostly of my causing, ex. I couldn't orgasm, I lived with my ex, I have emotional issues). I used to spend the night at her house 3/4 times a week, and talk constantly. That changed a couple of weeks ago, last night I straight asked her if she was done with me, and this morning she said that she\n\n \"thought it would be better for both of us if we didn't sleep together anymore, but she still wanted to talk/be friends, but it was fine if I couldn't.\" \n\n1. Should I tell her that I love her? I didn't because whenever I wanted to it would have been horrible timing, which now seems incredibly foolish. I think I would regret not telling her. \n\n2. Do you think she actually wants to still be friends?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have always done my own taxes. My father always did his, and, throughout my childhood, I had a helping hand. As the world began to transition into the land of the Internet Of Things, my father would do his pen and paper taxes, then have me help him translate that into TurboTax. He would scrutinize and, once he was satisfied, we would submit his return and I would get cake.\n\nAs I grew up, this is how I always filed my own personal income tax returns. Fairly straightforward. Many people do it. It's always worked for me, I've never run into any serious problems, I've always gotten a return (although it's never enough, but whose is?)\n\nThis year, however, is a complicated tax year for me. I moved to a state that charges state income tax with my previous employer. They took care of the state taxes on the front end, but I ended my employment with them in August and have been working since then employed elsewhere, so the state taxes for that portion of the year were not taken care of. I also cashed in my 401k early. I know, it's a big no-no, but sometimes you really have to, and I did. \n\nI earned no other income than what was earned through employment with companies one and two. I earned no out of state income this year.\n\n**bold", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because I have a few friends that know my account and I don't want the wrong idea getting out.\n\nI've been with my girlfriend for 2.5 years and she is my first serious girlfriend, I've had a lot of my romantic firsts with her. Her on the other hand, she has been with about 5 guys before me.\n\nThroughout our relationship she has told me that she's afraid she's holding me back from experiencing college and a life I'll wish I had when I'm out of college. She says that she already had the experiences she wanted and that she would wait for me if I wanted to get everything out of my system, but I've told her on multiple occasions that she's all I want and need.\n\nRecently (about two weeks ago) the conversation came up again and I brushed it off like I normally do. The problem is that since bringing it up again I have had it stuck in my head and am starting to understand what she means and there's been this girl that has been texting me and I can't say she's the only one flirting in the conversations (you know those times when you flirt without realizing you're doing it?).\n\nI know it's not fair of me to expect her to wait for me so if I did take her up on her offer I would want her to carry on with her life and if it was meant to be we'd come back together.\nBut 2.5 years is a lot of time and effort put into a relationship and other than this our relationship has been pretty successful, besides the few college relationship challenges, other guys, alcohol, drugs.\n\nSo should I take her up on her offer with the caveat that she doesn't wait for me like she says she will?\nOr is this just a perfect storm of the conversation sparking the idea and a girl talking to me at the same time?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I had a fucking weird dream last night where I was in Junior's house with my mom as she was thinking about buying it. I remember being in his garage looking at some of his weight equipment and jeep lights on a shelf. My mom had like a giant yellow convertible 60's car...like a galaxy or something...that is completely irrelevant. I then had to operate as a spy for some organization in the backyard and make it to the 3rd floor of this building (also in the backyard) of his house. The facility reminded me of the MenInBlack...None of this matters and is all irrelevant...I woke up and told my girlfriend about the weird dream. Then a few hours later around 10am at work I told my office mate and co-worker that I had a weird dream about Junior Seau as well. He even commented at the time \"Who the fuck dreams about Junior Seau?\" well..bam 4pm I click on Yahoo and He's found dead. So obviously i'm freaked out a bit. I just called my girlfriend who also thinks it's weird as shit... The only thing I can think of is... my cousin lives in SanDiego and we've been emailing one another the last couple of days about what he plans on doing on an upcoming trip to NewOrleans. That's it. My cousin lives in San Diego and somehow I've subconsciously had a dream about Junior Seau for no reason at all. I live in Clearwater,FL.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "How do you deal with prolonged periods of no sex. Its been like 3 weeks and we've had sex once when I woke up horny at 4am and initiated. Now the first of the 3 weeks she had her period so that's understandable, then we were staying with her family for a few days and she didn't want to have sex in their house. Then she went on vacation for another week so that is about 2.5 weeks. But there was a couple days between where we had the opportunity and she didn't want to have sex. Then she got back from vacation and I only asked one thing, that she shave/wax/trim so when she gets back I can have something nice to work with. She didn't but I wasn't going to complain because I feel like that is a selfish thing to complain about. I brought it up and she said it was nothing, but I still couldn't get it out of my head. Talked to her again about it because she could tell it was bothering me still and she just says she's been tired from work and busy with school, which she has. But I still get a little ego hurt when she doesn't want to have sex.(She early on said she usually is quite horny and for the first 2 months she was). I feel like a total dick because I let it affect me and change my mood making our time together not as fun, but at the same time I do need to feel sexually wanted. I am conflicted between being an ass for wanting sex and feeling bad about that and then also the lack of sex, just creating a huge mix of emotions. How do you cope with that?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My spring break started yesterday and I am planning to go from Southern California to Northern California stopping at various universities along the way. I'm coming from Los Angeles and will be stopping at UC Santa Barbara, UC Berkeley, and finally stopping at UC Davis. I am planning on going the entire week so I will seperate out the car trips, so it would be 4 hours each trip to each location.\n\nI have taken into consideration food and gas fees. Was wondering if I would need to know the location of hospitals and emergency rooms just in case.\n\nThis is my first time planning such a trip and I will be going alone. I also need help convincing my parents to let me do this. What should I tell them? I am 19 and consider myself responsible. They used to be very leniant but have recently cut back due to increasing stories of teenagers getting in car accidents in my area.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In end of September or start of October girlfriend and I are going to Vienna. My cousin has a flat there so accommodation is taken care of as well as transport (train). Thing is I really don't know what is there to see apart form Madame Tussaud, Prater and Starbucks which girlfriend insists we go there (there are non in my country). Heard also something about the Zoo, is it worth it? We are planing on 5 day stay and we want to cover as much city as possible so if any one can list a local website for public transport that would be great or any info sites(aside of vienna info) Apart from all the sights any good restaurants near the center (or main train station as the flat is somewhere near) or any local pubs where young people like to gather? If any one can list a bit ''less tourist-y'' locations or less known yet still interesting it would be also great. \nI don't speak German well, is it possible to communicate with locals in English? Girlfriend does speak German but I'd like to participate in talking. And what are prices in general there?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This may seem like an immature problem, but I am looking for people's different perspectives on this topic. I've been dating this girl for 2 years now (senior year of high school to sophomore in college, same school, wasn't planned). Everything was going fine and I felt that the honeymoon phase would last forever, but as it always ends up, it slowed down.\n\n I guess that's good because we learned to work on our relationship and we both understood that it's not easy to maintain a relationship. Well, recently the entire texting each other all day to me has become a drag and when I think about that my mind goes places such as \"are you losing interest in her?\" \"are you getting bored?\". So, when she got back from vacation a couple days ago I told her about all of this. She agreed and we also went the route of saying we're both 20 and it's hard because we're in college and we both have different urges. We both agreed that we both wonder if there's anything else out there that is better than one of us because this is the first serious relationship either one of us has had. She said she wished we could take a break for 2 weeks and see how it feels (not like going to go fuck anything that moves break but a see how it feels to be single) and then go back to normal right after. \n\nThis is impractical. We both value the relationship very much but for me it seems to have gone stale, mainly because we usually do the same thing when we're at school because lack of transportation/laziness. I'm not sure if it's other forces in my life such as not being in good shape, low self confidence in my body, or just the stresses of growing into an adult. I also feel that life is getting stale. Starting to think about a career and everything is stressful, so just becoming numb has become my defense mechanism. This might just be a spillover effect. So I beg for different perspectives and advice. If you need any clarifying answers, I can provide if you ask. This is the first time I've ever said this to anyone and I appreciate anyone who has gotten this far!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Would anyone have any interest in a product like this?\n\nOnce Upon a time I had an Idea to make a cleaning kit for the Xbox and PS3 controllers.\nIt would have been a small case with a few specially designed tools and a very nice microfiber cloth as well as the stupid rare Torx T8h screw driver to open up the controller.\n\nIt was in its prototype design when I stopped the idea, But seeing as how there is currently nothing on the market for cleaning the controllers I think it could have been a no brainer for some parents. Spend 50$ on a new controller or 20$ on a kit that will prolong the life of the controller.\n\nA bit more into the design I planned on Turning it into a very unique looking product. I was going to take the \"Care Package\" Design from the ever so popular Call of Duty franchise and use it for the out side of the box. Make everything on the inside look slightly militaristic and add some very nice graphics. This way if your not using any of the cleaning stuff it will still looking like a COD care packge sitting on your desk. Which as we all know people love cool items on their desk from Figurines to Lego's.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my girlfriend are planning on moving out mid-july to beginning of August. Finding the right place has really been a pain in the ass. It's only the beginning of the month, but we found two suitable places:\n\nApartment 1: Looks recently renovated and very clean. The sinks and the appliances were very new. The landlord seemed very kind and caring about the building. However, one of the big drawbacks bugging me is that it's located above a store/restaurant. The entrance was separate, but around the corner in a weird spot. It's also a bit smaller than I wanted, and lacked storage space. There are no laundry facilities in the building but there is a Laundromat one only a couple blocks away. \n\nApartment 2: This one was very large for a great price. Although do like it as well, my girlfriend is a little iffy about this one. Some things were a bit beat-up, mainly the hardwood floors. Older appliances but I don't mind. The landlord was kind but I'm not sure how well kept thing will be in the long run. The building in no way looked dirty, but it did look like things could be repaired here and there. There are a few small chips and cracks on the walls, which worries us because we live in a city where bedbugs roam. We worry about those and other bugs coming in that way. I do feel like our view of this one is skewed because we viewed it before they had a chance to clean and paint it.\n\nOur other option is to wait out for other units to become available elsewhere. I'm just afraid of leaving things too long as places have been snatched from me the same day I viewed them. Both places are in the area we like, but I feel like it's a bargain between new renovations vs. size. \n\nWhat do you think? Apartment 1 or 2? Or wait out for another option? Has living above stores/restaurants been a problem for anyone else?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, stuff like this pops up around reddit all of the time. I have seen it with my own eyes, but I want to get this off of my chest.\n\nI was dating this girl for awhile, about a year and a month or two. We met freshman year of uni basically when I moved in and a month later we were going out. Because of this all of my friends are awkwardly her friends. Either way, when we \"broke up,\" but it was a soft break... I kissed her goodbye before I got on my train home from uni for winter break and she went home and is away this semester for an internship. \n\nThis semester has been hard because I tried talking to her online, not realizing that we were actually broken up for sure (not just breaking because of distance). At the same time she dumps more reasons on me as to why we have broken up. Throughout this I got aggravated, because she was not upfront when we broke up. So after telling me she needs sometime to find herself and be single (100% no ties to me). She gets an OkCupid and is now going out with a guy long distance at another uni in my area (Northeastern). Which completely contradicts the reasons she gave me for breaking up, besides the ones which point to me being a bad person.\n\nThis girl was always a little odd I suppose, but I really loved her. She broke up with me a month after we started dating, but I somehow won her back. She sticks with guys traditionally, but also is a little flighty and doesn't make solid decisions, ever (changed majors every semester or more)...\n\nIt has been 4 months, I am still not 100% over her and she is coming back to the area for the summer (I am staying in the city this summer). I am worried about my old friends, my new friends (which she feels she has claim to) and just my happiness in general. I still love this girl a little, but I mostly just want to move on. I want to see new people get more experience.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "An odd request indeed.\n\nI know a lot of you donate your clothes to goodwill or the likes, but I have a few projects i want to complete and do not have the supplies. You lot can help though! Let me explain\n\nI am looking for your old t-shirts. The ones that just got too big. The ones you've grown out of. \n\nI want them to make yarn out of. I'm a Vet Tech student, and we have some events soon that we sell things at. We donate to the local shelter all the time, as well as perform essential veterinary procedures on the animals there so they can be adopted. In order to help raise funds, i want to crochet pet beds to be sold. They're awesome if you make em from t-shirt material because they're fluffier. \n\nSO I NEED YOUR HELP!! \n\nOur thrift stores are expensive for some damned reason. They expect $3.50 a shirt, and i can't afford that, since one shirt does not a bed make. Hooray for being a poor college student =/ I know your guys have a lot of t-shirts that don't fit anymore, and i'd love to have em =)\n\nas for other fabrics, if its the same thickness as t-shirt, that should be fine. Or if you have actual yarn sweaters that are not felted anywhere (armpit areas tend to get felted, as in, the yarn does not separate anymore. if you can't see through the yarn anymore then it's felted). I can pull these apart and re-use the yarn, though it is a much more involved and lengthy process. \n\nIf you would like to help out, please message me and i will give you my address. =) I would appreciate the shirts be washed of course. \n\nAll beds not sold will be used in our hospital for the dogs while they are staying with us there. So you're still helping the sick puppies and kittens =)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Obviously, I will be learning more about her. I work with her, so I've learned a few things about her already. Anything worth discussing with her?\n\nWe are going to eat at pretty decent restaurant, I am expected to pay for our meals correct? How about picking her up from her house? How should I present myself, dress casual?\n\nWhere do I go from there, after the first date? At what point should a woman meet my friends? My friends go to movies, restaurants, and bars pretty often. We like to get together and socialize as much as we can.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been in a relationship with this girl (Me m/18 her f/17) for about 2 months. Prior to that we dated for a little over 3 months nearly exactly a year ago. The first relationship ended abruptly when her father banned us from seeing each other because I'm an atheist and her father is a pastor and her faith mean an awful lot to her. \n\nThis time her father has been a whole lot less protective of her by allowing us to be together. Unfortunately he still doesn't trust me at all. We aren't allowed to be together alone. My mother or some member of her family have to be with us at almost all times. If we go out in public her twin sister comes with us almost always. He has told me before that this has everything to do with my faith. In the beginning I totally understood his distrust but I thought it would get better over time. Prior to the relation ship we were friends for about 2 years and I had many conversations with her father on various topics.\n\nThis alone would be fine but she also pushes me very hard to change various mannerisms that I have. When she's around I can't really be myself at all. I find myself censoring myself very very often because she would get mad at me. Whenever I listen to my music around her she starts to get uncomfortable whenever the music has profanities or any themes really more than \"G rated\"(I listen to lots of punk rock if that gives you a better image).\n\nI really like this girl but I find myself not being able to be myself around her at all. Anything that I would usually do/say around my friends is everything that she disapproves of. So what do I do? I honestly can't figure out what to do. Any help would be awesome! If you need any clarifications just ask.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello reddit. Sorry for the throwaway, my boyfriend (m27) is the one who introduced me to reddit, so I'm sure he'd find this post if I used my real account. \n\nMy SO and I have been dating for a year and a half. We met at work and saw each other pretty much everyday. Recently he took a new job about 200 miles away so we see each other about every 3 weeks.\n\nMy dilemma is that he WILL NOT talk about the future. Ever. Not at all. Nothing. And it's hard to be in this LDR without any plan of physically being in the same location again or even knowing that thats something we both want. When we were with each other all the time the future didn't seem to matter as much. But now that he's gone and we're trying to stay together I feel like I need some reassurance as to WHY we're engaging in a LDR with no foreseeable end. Some reason that it's worth doing it.\n\nI have tried talking to him about it. He mentioned that he didn't want to be one of those people who start taking the next step in their relationship because they reach a certain age. He also said he can't tell me he knows he wants to be with me because he doesn't know, and that he doesn't know what will happen in the future. \n\nI just don't know if this is a waste of my time and energy. I know that if it was one of my friends asking me for advice I would tell them to let him go and move on if he can't make up his mind about you. But for some reason it's harder to see when it's your own life. I know he loves me and I know he's indecisive about almost everything else. Maybe he's taking me sticking by him for granted? I just don't know.\n\nSo should I stay or should I go? Any insight or advice would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my girlfriend are moving into a house. Currently we are having to purchase appliances and furniture. Well because of our distance my girlfriend goes looking with this stuff without me. So far, at the rate we are going, everything--even the house--will be in her name and I will be paying for her appliances, furniture, and house with her. \n\nNow, I know I love the girl, and we have been together for a while, but I feel I should still need some form of a safety net. Am I wrong for wanting is? I have mentioned this before and I am met with the same old, \"what, do you not love/trust me?\" \n\nIt's hard to not think of an underlying motive or possible future risk when she has reluctancy of anything being in my name, or me shopping and buying on my own, where she is completely fine if she did the same herself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello all, thanks in advance for any advice you may have.\n\nLet me preface this by letting you know that I am currently working an hourly security position for a state College in Nebraska. We are part time (30hrs/week), hand in our timestamps every Monday and are paid bi-weekly.\n\nChristmas break for employees at the college I work for was from 12-23-2014 to 1-5-2015. However, the Department I work in (Security) does not get any of this time off and I ended up working my regular hours and I filled out my time-stamp and turned it in on time. On Monday the 5th of January 2015 (when college employees returned), my manager turned in all of the timestamps from our department, and found out that the people in charge of payroll decided that they didn't have time to process all 6 of them and told us that we would have to wait until the 22nd of January to get paid. \n\nWhat exacerbates this is that before break my manager was informed that if all time-sheets were turned in on the first day back from break, that they would be processed and put on the payday for the 8th of January. \n\nSo, as a student already struggling to make ends meet and bills to pay, I'm sitting here getting half of what I should be getting payed on the 8th of January.\n\nI had a meeting with the lady who is charge of payroll, and over the course of the better part of an hour, all that I got from her was a \"Well, you guys are just going to have to wait until the 22nd, there's nothing I can do.\" \n\nWhat steps, if any, can I take here? I did everything right on my end, so I feel like there should be something that I can do. Thanks a ton!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Recently I was pulled over while driving an unregistered vehicle with another vehicle's plates on it in MA while driving from NY to CT. \n\nMy mom had bought the car a couple days prior and was having issues getting temporary registration so the plates from another one of our cars was put on it temporarily so it could be driven to CT and gotten registered. I went so that both the car driven up there and the \"new\" (used) car could be driven back.\n\nWhen I was pulled over I was issued a written warning for passing at an unsafe speed (definitely my fault as I made the large mistake of slowing down while passing another car because I saw a police officer) and for \"unregistered MV\". The officer took the plates and the car had to get towed.\n\nI have the number of the tow company so I/my mom can return and get the car after paying for the tow (I don't believe the car was impounded but if it was then I suppose we have to take care of that too) and getting temporary plates in CT.\n\nWhat I haven't been able to figure out by asking Google is how to get our old plates back and what repercussions we'll be facing. We've been trying to get through via phone to the police station in the town I was pulled over in but we've had no luck so far. If anyone has any suggestions/answers on how to get the old plates back/get us able to drive our old car again and what we'll have to do (what fees or other legal problems can we expect) I'd be way appreciative.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 23 yr old female and have been an athlete my whole life. I played 4 years of softball in college and was in pretty good shape. That was obviously attained with a ton of vigorous exercise. I am a year out of school now and have put on about 20 pounds. A blown-out knee suffered in my last year somewhat derailed my workouts for a bit immediately after the season. I did not get my knee fixed as I found myself to be able to live through the pain. I've always been a bit thicker/muscular as a power hitter and catcher. I weighed 180 throughout most of my playing days, with a minimum of 170 3 years ago attained through illness. Now I am sitting around at about 205-210.\n\n I am by no means obese, I still carry a lot of muscle mass, but I would like to get to a normal fit living weight of 160. My exercise regime is working out 6 days a week. Each including full body circuit style strength training around 30 min and either a run (2-3 miles)/bike (5-6 miles)/elliptical(30 min) session involving intervals. \n\nMy problem is the inability to lose any weight. I think my body is used to a pretty high intensity workout program therefore that isn't helping me cut weight. I can't quite go back to old exercise habits as my knee hates jumping, heavy squats, excessive running. My diet consists of mostly veggies and fruits during the day and then a larger sit down dinner with my family consisting of a meat, veggie, potato/pasta. I recently found myself to be lactose sensitive, so maybe cutting dairy out will provide positive results. Using my calorie tracker, I am usually right around 1500 cals/day. I admit to frequent (weekend) drinking, but I try to alter my food cal intake those days to make room for the booze.\n\nI am out of ideas on how to shed these pounds. I really don't want to have to go to extreme paleo or upping my exercise routine. Thinking maybe I have additional sensitivities to foods that won't burn off for me? I need some tips and ideas on how to get this moving!!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In 2011, I met who I thought was the most wonderful, beautiful young woman ever. Not many people ever click with me and she just did, perfectly. Our relationship had its issues, but we were both happy. In August 2012, I became ill. I had a brain mass, but my illness was a horrible generalized anxiety that was just confusing everything. I would pass out, get headaches and be at general unease. It was hard to know if the brain mass was causing this or the anxiety (more than likely the anxiety). Soon enough, she disappeared on me. \n\nI still think of her. I never did get the closure I probably needed, but I have accepted she'll never be in my life again. I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship or not, but I have yet to really date since then. What troubles me right now is the Holiday Season. Christmas was my favorite holiday and steadily it became depressing until 2011, when she and I went to Michigan and stayed together. It was such a simple visit, but it was an amazing time for me and brought happiness to the holiday once again. As you can imagine, I think of this often. But bad thoughts come into my head. When I remember the past, I must revert back to the present where she isn't my girlfriend anymore. I have invasive thoughts of her being romantic with someone else, having sex with someone else. \n\nPeople are bothered when I mention this. They assume that I'm trying to \"own\" her by being bothered she's having sex with someone else. But maybe I should explain that sex to me is kind of a big deal with someone. I don't do it, to just do it, I'm afraid. I know a lot of people tend to think it's one of those \"evolutionary\" things, but my Psyche shrouds that with something more important. \n\nWhen I ask this question to people and vent my sadness about it, people become up and arms. Therefore, I never talk about it, no matter how much it bothers me. I want to talk about these things and hopefully get over them. Please, someone explain to me what's wrong with being sad about this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last week I get a call from my father saying that my gf had posted that she was in a relationship with her ex on her fb. When I went to go check her fb was deleted so I call her and asked what was the post was all about and she told me that her friend (ironically specking) who had been hanging with her and her good friends had took her phone and did that when she was trying to delete her fb from her phone and asked one of them to do it.\n\n Later on in the week I found out that she had actually blocked me and my dad from fb and that there were pictures of them hanging out too. That day I confronted her about it and she told me it was nothing and that she only loved me, but never told me why she did it. Are relationship had been shaky for 2 months and she went on a tangent about how she was going nowhere in live and believe it was because she was always worried about keeping the relationship going to care about anything else, so we decided to take a \"break\" if you will (we're not seeing each other, but were not seeing anybody else either). \n\nA couple of days pass and today I decide to check her fb again when I see that the pics where gone, but now it says that they've been a relationship a couple of days before my dad had called \n\nI just don't know what to do now, I feel if I talk to her about it again she's just going to give me some kinda excuse, but there's no way for me to be 100 percent sure if she is or not; and even if she is, why not just break up with me and let me move on???", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have known each other for almost 2 years now, been dating for almost 3 months of that time.\n\nHis truck just broke down and he can't afford a new one, so he's been bicycling to his current job. He was just offered a better job that is only a couple miles from my place, but way too far for him to bike to from his house (25-30 miles).\n\nI told him he could just crash at my place to get to his new job, but he said he might as well just live with me full time because it made no sense to pay rent at his place and only be there a couple days a week. I totally agree with that. He also said he didn't want to invade my personal space or be a nuissance and would only move in if I was 100% sure about it. \n\nI'd love to be able to spend more time with him that living together would allow because right now we both work 60 hour weeks and it's hard to find time to do anything but fall asleep together watching a movie. And I do see myself with him in the long run, although I wouldn't say I love him yet.\n\nMy concern is that it's too much, too soon. I don't want to ruin the mystery, get too comfortable, wear each other out, or rush things in any way that could put a damper on the relationship. \n\nAnybody have advice or personal stories about living with an SO? Too soon or otherwise.\n\nI should mention that we're having a sit down talk about it tomorrow, I just really need to discuss it a little beforehand to get my thoughts straight.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me [25M], her [21F]\n\nBesides the the fact that she was telling me she loved me within the 1st month, talking marriage within 3 months, discussing having kids and living together within 6 months, talking about spending the rest of her life with me on the 8th month, promptly breaking up with me on the 9th month, in a new relationship by the 11th month, and has currently been living with the new guy (who is 32) since the 13 month.\n\nI have heard from so many different people that this is a red flag and that I should have seen it... When discussing life goals, her only ambition was that she only wanted to get married, have a family, and be a stay at home mom.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone, I would post this to /r/girltalk but it's a dead subreddit. \n\nSo, I've been going out with my bf for about 3-4 months, and it's been pretty good until we hit a road bump. He's really busy with work, school (grad year for him), and sports. Sometimes we don't get to hang during the week, but we see each other at school. \n\nHere's the main problem, his parents don't know about me and they can't for cultural reasons. So every time he hangs out with me he's lying to his parents, and has even lied to his friends (saying he has work) to bail on them and hang out with me. My mom's really getting into my ear about this saying he's \"made a career of lying\" and is lying to me too. I never saw him in this light until she brought it up, but a few instances have occurred where I questioned it. \n\nI remember once over the winter break, I asked if he had gone to the hockey game he bought tickets for his sister and him to go see. (I had no previous info about this, all I knew was he bought tickets). He said yes, but had very little info about it when I asked. He claimed to have had too much to drink and didn't remember much.\n\nI'm scared my mom is right, but I'm looking for advice on this, and I'm hoping someone else has been in the same shoes? (parents not knowing about you dating their son/daughter)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I come from the city so I'm a veteran public transportation rider. I attend a University where the public transportation isn't in abundance but still reliable. \n\nRecently my friend has gotten a new car and in excitement, has been using it frequency. This has led to her asking, and later begging me to join her on trips to the store/mall/anywhere off campus. \n\nAt first, I agreed to these trips since she was still in that \"freedom\" phase of owning a car. After a few weeks, she'd started demanding gas money for her service. \n\nI would normally pay for all my goods and services, but I'm baffled at this. She invites me on this little runs willingly, and mostly to places I do not need/care to go. I have told her often that I would rather use the public transportation as my University student fees pay for it. When I turn her down, she asks again or passive aggressively comments on not spending time with her. \n\nI do not have a lot of money compared to her. She comes from a rich family and has a fair bit of cash on her at all times. \n\nI do not understand the underlying issue or how to address it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: This guy was fired a couple months ago. The company told him it was because of his attitude and because he had been \"threatening\" toward his coworkers, particularly his female coworkers, of which I am one. He wasn't everyone's favorite coworker - he was very quiet and kind of awkward - but I think it was because we as a team are a bit cliquey and he was a latecomer. He never quite fit into the big weird family we all made up.\n\nHe and the company have been fighting over the unemployment compensation he feels he is entitled to and the company feels he is not. Several of his former coworkers, including me, wrote character statements for him asserting that we never felt threatened by him and that, essentially, the company had lost a valuable employee in him. Now the company is fighting him again, demanding that he pay back the unemployment benefits he has received, and he is taking it to court. \n\nThe company listed two specific incidents in which this guy was supposedly threatening, and I happen to have been present for both of them. I never felt threatened in the least, and so he wants to call me as a witness when he sues the company. He has already submitted many, many documents as evidence in his case and says he would like me and one other person as witnesses.\n\nThe thing is, I'm scared. I don't exactly love my job, but I don't exactly want to lose it either. I have gotten conflicting answers as to what the company can do to me if I serve as a witness; the most likely answer seems to be that they can't technically fire me, but as employers often do, they can probably find other reasons to fire me even though this might be the real reason, so that they look good on paper. In a way I would be honored to get fired for this, because I believe it is right, and the truth, but I also can't really afford it. Can you help me figure out what to do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ive been talking to this girl for about 3 months now, recently we've gotten closer and we're pretty much dating but she doesn't want to commit to a relationship yet as she just got out of a long bad one and has a lot going on in her life at the moment\n\nWe hang out and talk quite often and we always have a good time and she usually gives me a hug or a kiss when we go our ways at the end of the night. \n\nThe other night we were at a theater and before the show started her mother was texting her a lot about christmas presents and our mutual friend was also texting her. She had her phone in plain sight and was even telling me a little about the conversations. She then snapchated a picture of the show and showed me it before she sent it off. She then got one back of a guy with no shirt on and she instantly hid her phone and started texting a lot.\n\nMind you this is in a dark theater so it was pretty easy to see whenever she got a message and against my better judgement I glanced at her phone and saw it was guys name she was texting. She was also sending him massive walls of text as well.\n\nAfter that she just seemed disinterested in everything except for her phone, and barely spoke to me. I asked if that was her mom still texting her and she said \"yeah and (our friends name)\" On the way back she barely said a word and kept texting and I asked her if everything was alright she said yeah, she just has a lot going on right now, but its all good things.\n\nShould I be worried about this? Shes usually very straight forward and very talkative. I think part of my problem is that its been a while since Ive been in a relationship and I had a bit of jealousy creep up on me. I also realize we're not technically together, Ive just never seen her do this before", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I meet this girl on OKC and we chatted for about 2 weeks before I asked her out.\n\nWe went out for drinks and ate brunch the next day where we also kissed. We agreed we could have another date this coming monday.\n\nAfter getting home I sent her a cute message about what a great time I had and I never heard from her. Before this we messaged all the time. So, I again texted Monday (her bday) and never heard back.\n\nCome to today I messaged her again asked her how she was and if we were still on for Sunday and she said school is too busy and she can't and wasn't interested in setting something else up. I guess I'm a little hurt, and a little heartbroken. I went ahead and deleted her from my social media and such, but now I'm wondering if I am over reacting or if it is right to just cut my losses.\n\nIt should be noted I haven't been on a date since last January, I thought this girl was amazing, and being a lesbian in a not so gay friendly area finding one is like finding a unicorn. I should say there were some red flags before this, and during the date. Have any of you been in a similar situation? Where do I go from here? Did I over react by cutting my losses?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened today. A few classes ago.\n\nI was in video production class, me and my friend were filming stuff for a project. \n\nAll of a sudden, my teacher gives me some sort of sugar pills (don't know the name exactly), and she asked me to give them to the nurse due to them being expired. I agreed and went over to the office.\n\nI went into the office, with whatever the fuck in my hand. I enter the office, and see my friend ,and fellow reddit user u/SteelCasedCondom, working there, as office aid is a class here. \n\nThis is where I fucked up.\n\nI hand him the parcel, and I tell him that it was from my teacher, and he handed it to the main secretary, see looked at me with a weird look, and I again, say that its from my teacher. She asks for my name, so I comply. \n\nAbout 10 minutes later, my before mentioned friends tells me that they are quite suspicious that I, a student, handed some sugar pills to the office, and that they are gonna contact the nurse and pull me on for questioning.\nRight after he said that, he gets questioned by the office as to what my name was and if I was in class. I panicked. And after third period, they announce my name on the loudspeaker and pulled me in.\n\nI explained the whole story to the secretary, and she immediately apologized for the ordeal and misunderstanding. And that I'm all good, but next time, to get written permission from the teacher to relieve any assumptions.\n\nDon't take pills to the office for your teacher. It'll be so awkward coming into that class tomorrow..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Like many this didn't happen today but about a week ago.\n\nMy gf, my 2 roommates and I were in my garage playing pool, darts and drinking beer as usual.\n\nI had things to do on Saturday so I decided to call it an early night and go to bed around 1030pm. Everyone else was thirsty and stayed in the garage to lubricate a bit more.\n\nI have a balconey off my room that sits about 12' above my back patio with a 34\" railing. I often have a before bed smoke through the sliding glass door, and I can only assume thats what I intended to do as I was in my underwear and ready for bed.\n\nI must have tripped on something but I remember seeing my feet above my head and then hitting the ground. HARD.\n\nI fell about 15 feet and landed on my side on patio stone. Thank God I didnt hit my head, my head actually hit my bicept on impact. I remember grunting but passed out almost immediately.\n\nWhen I came to I yelled for help but with the music on in the garage I knew they couldn't hear me. So I sucked it up and crawled inside on my belly. Not sure how I opened the back door, or crawled what ended up being about 60 feet, but I made it to the bottom of the basement stairs.\n\nI yelled for help but to no avail. I tried to climb the stairs but that wasnt happening. So I accepted my predicament and laid in wait. \n\nThey came in around 2am and found me, thinking I had fallen down the stairs. They couldn't believe I crawled my way in like a wounded soldier.\n\n9-1-1. Ambulance. CT scans. The whole bit. Turns out I broke my pelvis and won't walk for 3 months.\n\nNext time I'm just going to keep drinking.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend needs your advice.\n\nFirst off, We are college students at a Tech School in the Pacific Northwest. Our school does not provide dorms so we all have to get our own apartments while we attend.\n\nAt first his roommate, let's call him Bill, was a decent guy, kind of socially awkward, but he did his part and they all got along well. Over the last two years Bill slowly started letting the place go. He stopped washing clothes, he stopped cleaning dishes, he stopped doing nearly everything. He puts food in the fridge and forgets about it, hiding it in the back or in the shelves.\n\nBill has piles of filthy laundry pushed against the wall. Stacks of molding plates, glasses with spoiled milk, bags of month old snacks, half eaten take out surround his bed. Their apartment smells like a landfill, their windows and door have to stay open to ward off the smell.\n\nAbout three months ago, when semester started again I noticed that my friend, Bob, developed a cough. I figured it was back to school sickness and would go away; it didn't. About three weeks later I took Bob to the urgent care center. They said his cough was caused by some sort of contaminant, that he must have been breathing it for quite some time. And that because of it he had developed a mild Asthma.\n\nFast forward two months, Bob is still coughing, Bill is still living in his filth. Bob wants to kick him out but is afraid that Bill will not be able to find somewhere to go. He wants to torment Bill, to make his life as 'uncomfortable' as possible. Bob's end goal is to make it so Bill decides to move out and saves him the hassle of forcing him out.\n\nHow have you dealt with filthy roommates?\n\nHow do we make his life hell?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sean and I met via an MMORPG, and dated after a few months of back and forth awkward flirting, stuff like that. We met up for the first time in September last year (he flew over to my country and we aren't actually that far from each other, ~1 hour trip)\nSince then, he has flown over every 2-3 months for about 3 days on average. Because our cultures frown upon teenagers dating, I usually told my parents I was meeting up with my friends for the day. \n\nTo clarify, I only hang out with him during the day and go back at home at night. About 3 months ago, we decided that I should fly over instead, because 1) it's getting increasingly expensive for him, 2) his family wants to meet me for real, and 3) we wanted more personal space during our limited time together. Here's the problem. I have already planned out the itinerary, arranged flight tickets and lodging for both of us, since it's cheaper to book/cancel early. My mother simply refuses to entertain the thought of me going to see a supposed stranger in a different country, although said country is an hour away. The trip is supposed to be in early September.\n\nI understand her thinking, as my previous relationship did not end so well, but I want to prove to her that I am mature enough to do this alone. She believes that I do not understand what love entails, and that it is only puppy love. It might be, but I sincerely want to give it my best shot. I adore my BF and his brothers, and would like to see them face-to-face at least once. Any starting steps? I'm willing to add on details if asked.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm [32/m] a pretty intimate person with my friends, strangers, and family. I tend to overshare easily, introspect often, and have no problem connecting with other people who are like me very quickly and on a deep level. \n\nUnfortunately, that doesn't include my wife [32/f]. She comes from a closed family and doesn't easily open up. This manifests itself in all aspects of her life. She's wary of sharing details with strangers, tends to talk about basic things with me, and is quite bored/ uninterested in sex. But most of all, I have been nagged for years by the feeling that we don't have a \"spark\" - an emotional connection that makes me want to do everything for her. \n\nI have got to the point where what we have feels increasingly like a friendship rather than a deep emotional relationship. I have suggested that I'm not willing to be in a relationship that's not fulfilling emotionally and have told her that I have considered a separation. \n\nOur therapist thinks that my wife needs to get better in touch with her sexuality in order to open up more, but I'm not sure. That feels like treating the symptoms rather than the root cause. I think the problem is deeper than just sex. I think she's not able to be intimate emotionally with me. \n\nI know that stereotypically, it's the guy who can't be emotionally intimate and the girl who seeks it. But I just wonder, is emotional intimacy something that one can \"learn to do\"? Or is she just likely to always have a hard time opening up? And finally, is lack of emotional intimacy grounds to divorce someone?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So exactly two weeks from now I will be physically meeting my girlfriend who lives in a different state about 13 hours away from me for the first time!\n\nI first met her in a Skype call that I was in with some of my friends. I added her and we started talking and then eight months later progressed to flirting and having witty conversations with each other and now here we are!\n\nWords cannot express how excited and nervous I am at the same time. I have had physical relationships before but I have never been able to connect on the same level with anyone before as I feel like I can with her! Even though we have only been together for 3 months and there is quite a large physical distance that separates us I care for her very deeply and since I met her I have felt the happiest I've ever been! \n\nI was wondering if anyone would have any advice for me before I meet with her in person whether it be things that I should discuss with her before meeting her or anything else that you guys can come up with. I am incredibly excited and cannot wait to meet her! \n\nAny responses will be greatly appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is my first post here and a throwaway account so if I did anything wrong in the posting I apologize.\n\nMe [m23] with girlfriend [f18] feel like our relationship is coming to an end because I'm starting to want a relationship less and less and I feel like she hasn't been trying in the relationship very hard lately. I'm not sure if I'm just being selfish because I want her to pay more attention to me. \nIn the 6 months she hasn't initiated intimacy with me once, she doesn't like to hang out with my friends and i but I try to befriend her friends and talk to her friends too which her and i have also talked about and she said she would try harder.. \n\nidk I just feel like I'm being neglected in the relationship and that might be a reason why I've been feeling more and more like I don't want one. In all honesty I feel like a whiny bitch typing all this because yes I do have an amazing girl that I have so much in common with and we do have a ton fun which is also why I feel like I'm being selfish I really don't want to break up I feel this might be the real thing. thanks in advance and happy holidays.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I started dating my current GF in college, after several years of friendship. We moved in together shortly after college, and now both are working in the same city. \n\nEver since we started living together, the dynamics of the relationship became much more serious compared to the one during college, i.e. she started to plan our finances, living arrangements, even started to talk politics. The problem is, one which I am only starting to realize is, she is far smarter in these than I am. I am kinda an impulsive person who hates planning and thinking through things, and when she ask me to help her with finances or sort out the insurance etc I struggle to be helpful. She doesn't really mind because she is more than capable of doing stuff herself, but the fact that I can't makes me deeply insecure.\n\nWhat's worst is my current relationship reminds me of my parent's, which was really a dysfunctional one. My mom was the smart one, and my dad was at best, average in everything but had a bad case of insecurity mixed with enlarged ego. He had a hard time listening to my mom's advice or opinions and often made bad decisions that he will blame others for. My mom also had an issue, she enjoys belittling my dad and teasing him as dumb or slow, which probably contributed to my dad's insecurity and big ego.\n\nAlthough my GF is really cool now, I am really afraid one day she'll turn into my mom and start treating me like an idiot, because compared to her, I know I am one. Sometimes my fear is so real that it intrude into my thoughts suddenly, for example we are relaxing on the sofa watching TV, this fear comes and makes me think about ending my relationship, out of nowhere. \n\nHonestly, I don't really know why I am feeling this way, but I certainly feel it and I hate it. I can't bring myself to discuss this insecurity with my GF, so I thought I'd bring it here for advice. Thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last week I got my wisdom teeth out, however this has caused some problems over the last few days by way of food apparently getting stuck in one socket. This caused great pain and inflammation.\n\nI went back to the dentist today and after cleaning out the socket and packing it full of oil clove (which I have not had a good reaction to), I went on my way.\n\nWell, tonight when I got home I took some pretty strong painkillers and thought I would just go to bed to sleep away the horrible day I had been having. It turns out if you are quite tired/ drugged up you don't pay attention to what you put on your toothbrush.\n\nThis is where the fun begins.\nI commenced my tooth-brushing by way of turning on my electric toothbrush when I noted a down right awful taste (not the oil clove). It was soap, I had put hand soap on my toothbrush. Queue power chucking all over the bench as the soap mixed with the horrid stuff in my tooth socket. This was so powerful I then got a blood nose aaaannnnndddd then I fainted. \nSo there I was, oil clove, soap, blood, vomit and a teeny hint of leftover toothpaste all mixing in my mouth.\n\nI begrudgingly cleaned the bench then sobbed on the floor for about 10 minutes and then went straight to bed where I am now laying while still tasting faint aromas of everything. Today has not been my day.\n\nI think I will buy a new toothbrush.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When I was a kid (6 years old) my grandpa went to America and brought me a teddy bear as a gift. I fell in love with him instantly and brought him everywhere I went. I had clothes for him (even some knitted by my mom). My parents even bought him a little backpack and I used to pack him the same stuff I packed in mine for school (little books labeled \"math\" and such). I used to think of him as my pal and everybody knew him at my school (even the teachers, and they also loved him). \n\nOne sad day, when I was 12, I went out to the swimming pool with my grandpa and on the way back I realized I didn't have him anymore. We frantically looked everywhere, but he was gone. We went back to the swimming pool but could not find him. I became a very sad little kid. I put some signs around the neighbourhood but people only laughed at me (which I can now understand a bit). The next 2 years, my mom and dad travelled to America as well (for family reasons) and looked for \"Sito\" (the teddy bear's name I invented) with no success. \n\nThe Christmas after, my grandpa, seeing me so sad, found a teddy bear which was similar (not really) and gave it to me with a letter from Santa saying that \"he (Sito) went to the North Pole to meet him (Santa) and to have a change of looks\". Of course I knew the truth but I appreciated my grandpa doing that for me. \n\nNowadays (I'm 28 now) I have (maybe not) got over it, but I still look in ebay every now and then just in case. Until it occured to me that maybe Reddit could help me. It's been more than 15 years but it's worth a try.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My last relationship (4 years) was really bad. My ex-boyfriend (M/23) verbally abused me, cheated on me, and took a huge toll on my confidence.\n\nI'm (F/22) in a really great relationship now (7 months) with a new guy (M/22) who treats me so well! I truly do love him and I'm so happy :) But sometimes I still have that fear inside that this is too good to be true and that he will cheat on me or hurt my heart like the last guy did (I know there will never be a guarantee that a SO won't hurt me/cheat on me in a relationship).\n\nI think it is unfair that I worry about things like this with my new bf since he hasn't given me a reason to worry. It's just hard to not worry about being hurt again after my confidence level was severely dropped by my last bf.\nWhat can I do to get over the pain from the last relationship so that I can be confident in myself and my new relationship?\n\nNOTE: I would love opinions of people who have been through what I have! I think this situation is more than just a relationship thing. It's about gaining more confidence, moving on from past pain, and learning to trust again. Just need some advice on how to move forward please! I really appreciate it :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and I have been together 10 yrs and married for 3 yrs. I logged into our home computer and my husband left up one of his personal accounts. I being curious decided to look at a few messages he had with people (it's intrusive, I know!). Anyway, didn't find anything crazy, but I did end up feeling slightly annoyed by how he addressed some female friends. He has a pet name that he calls me which is pretty unique (not honey, babe, etc.). I have never heard him call anyone else the name in the 10 yrs we have been together. In the messages he referred to some of his female friends with the pet name.\n\nI am annoyed because all this time I thought it was personal, and now I find out it's not. Also, to me, calling someone a pet name is a little flirtatious (though his messages otherwise did not seem overly friendly). What makes it more annoying is that I have had conversations with him recently about not talking to me like I am his \"friend\" but his wife, and see it's the opposite here (he's too friendly with them).\n\nShould I be mad? Seeing as I found out about it in an intrusive way, is there a way of talking to him about it without giving away how I found out? What would you do? Should I be worried about my relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my boyfriend and I stay with his parents, and we are both constantly on the go. We are saving to buy our own place and we live in Hawaii so it is very expensive here. So, just moving out isn't an option. \n\nHe and I are trying to eat healthier (his parents say they are too) but when I cook, I need to cook enough for everyone in the house rather than just the 2 of us. That would mean 6 of us total. \n\nHis mom does the grocery shopping and we do some as well. I am getting so sick of her buying crap food. She buys only cheap and processed food and if I don't cook then they eat crap when I'm not there or if I don't cook. I could do all the grocery shopping but thats expensive for a family of 6. She says she wants to eat healthy but all she buys is crap. Spam, vienna sausages, ground beef, cream of mushroom, and other things. NEVER buys fruit and when she does, it goes bad because she doesnt cut. it only gets cut if my boyfriend or myself cut it. She'll buy vegetable here and there but rarely because she says they go bad to fast, but thats because she's always trying to make junk food.\n\n And for meal prepping, thats impossible in that house. If you have food in there, and someone wants to eat, there it goes! I can deal with this but its mainly the buying groceries and cooking. I don't know what to do with this woman. I understand she gets home late from work and just wants to throw stuff together but shes going about this wrong. What do i do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been together for three years now, and I can not think of a time that I have ever been actually physically attracted to my girlfriend. I love her to death, the thought of not being with her makes me feel ill to my stomach; yet I cannot even enjoy sex, kissing, or anything actually intimate with her.\n\nAside from the lack of physical attraction, we do enjoy each other's company. She takes great care of me, heeding to my needs and I heed to hers as well. Our personalities are quite different, I am an introvert and can go a long time without doing social events. She, however, is a strong extrovert and constantly needs to be doing something different. We've recently had arguments about me needing to be doing more activities with her, other than going to the movies, hanging out at the house, and going to the bars with our friends.\n\nTo give it a short summary. I am not physically attracted to her, our personalities differ completely, and I do not feel fully committed to our relationship like she is. I feel like I am doing her an injustice by keeping her from finding a guy that likes to do all the activities that she does. And more over, a guy that will put more of his own love into the relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "... she's afraid that something will go wrong in the future and make things awkward between us.\n\nThe Story:\nSo we have been best friends for some time now, as we live in the same building and practically spend all of our time in the other person's apartment. Before this we had never even had a romantic conversation. Well, Friday night we got drunk and started making out, a lot. We slowed down for a bit to talk about it, and found out that we both really like each other, and have for at least a few weeks. We went back to making out and between everything she pulled away, made eye contact with me, and said, \"I really like you.\"\n\nShe then said that she didn't want to take it any farther because she's worried that it would make things awkward between us. She has lost some friends in the past due to a similar situation (but the guy was an asshole; when they broke up he said a ton of shit to try and make her insecure). So we decided to just continue making out for a while, until we got tired and wanted to go to bed.\n\nSo the next morning she came right back up to my room, and we smoked and talked about it. When I asked her if she still liked me when she was sober, she said, \"I don't know. I mean, yes, but what if something happens and it get's awkward? We have such a great friendship and I wouldn't us to stop talking because something goes wrong.\" \n\nI completely agree, we have been great friends for longer than we have liked each other, and all of our friends are mutual. The only place where I disagree is that I don't think that we'll stop talking if something goes wrong. I mean, sure, there's a chance, but I have good relationships with all three of my exes.\n\nAnyway, this conversation went on for just a little bit, but we never really landed on a decision, we just haven't brought it back up since then. What do I do? I can't stop thinking about this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in a very unique predicament for the summer, Reddit, and I need your worldly advice. You see, I'm living far away from home this summer and rented out some temporary living space for just a three month stint. In my haste, I overlooked the CRUCIAL detail that this building is not equipped with wireless internet. Even as I submit this I'm sitting in a Barnes and Noble. I don't necessarily mind going to different wifi spots in order to get internet but considering the closest place is three miles away it makes it a little less desirable. I can see the tenants around me have routers but they're ALL password protected and they're all 80+ years old and literally never show their faces around the building. So basically I'm looking for a cheap way to get internet for a couple months.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm just a naturally friendly person so I'll find myself making friends in classes. Sometimes I'll chat it up with a guy sitting next to me, and we get along great! However, I'm obviously not interested in being more than friends - but I'd still like to hang out with them and meet new people! And when they ask me for my number I think it'd be kinda unfriendly to say no, especially if it's in such a casual context. I enjoy hanging out with people that I like having conversations with, and I have a few other guy friends that I'll hang out with from time to time. \n\nIt's just hard for me because I never feel like there's a good moment to be like \"oh, yeah, I have a boyfriend.\" I just feel forced and uncomfortable mentioning it upfront to someone I just met. I'm very committed to my boyfriend and I love him a lot, we have a great relationship. I just feel guilty that I can't up front be like \"I'M IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP,\" and that there's potential that I'm leading these guys I'm friendly with on.\n\nI feel like if I hang out with any of them, that it's a slap in the face later if I'm like \"yeah, so, I have a boyfriend...\" if they're actually interested and reading my friendliness as flirting. I guess I'm just afraid of disappointing people. But I feel even more awkward and aggressive mentioning it in the first few seconds that I meet new guys or people.\n\nShould I just wait it out, and then casually drop it into conversation? What is the right way to approach these kinds of situations?", "role": "user" } ]

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