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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My little Sammy is 11 years old. He was always the runt of the litter, born with a heart murmur and bad back hips. He got really sick about 7-8 months ago. He's been on a bunch of meds since. It seemed like he was making a decent recovery, but the past month he has been in serious decline. He has no appetite, hardly any energy, and is so skinny he's lost a ton of weight. I can tell he is in pain. It makes me so sad but euthanasia might be the only thing I can do for him. Surgery is out of the question because his heart is too weak for the anaesthetics.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hokay, \n\nI was chilling out, maxin etc. listening to Mumford & Sons song \"After The Storm\" when I heard the lyrics \"Because death is just so full and man so small\" and for a split-second after that my brain was in overdrive and it felt like I had just gained the power to contemplate human existence, like a genuine shock.\n\nObviously, propelled by my own astonishment I tried to return to the thought, hoping for the same emotions. By this stage it was too late though, I was a mere mortal again, and saw death as a part of life but was unable to comprehend the sheer severity of it. \n\nI'm finding this much harder to explain than I thought, but this isn't the only time it's happened. When thinking about the millions who died in WWII I was suddenly struck for a split second and that tumultuous times people were put through to defend our country, then returning to the thought, it was impossible to comprehend again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been friends with this guy, let's call him L. for a few months, mostly online since we live in different cities. He has anxiety issues, and takes medication for it, including anti-depressives.\n\nHe was, at the time, together with K., and they seemed happy together. \n\nRecently (two weeks ago) she broke up with him because she couldn't stand his problems anymore (and I also think she was a bitch to him during the relationship, belittling him, flirting with other guys in front of him, not admitting they were together in front of people & other similar issues). \n\nHe got off anti-depressants, and he was expecting her to be with him in that time of need, but for some reason she broke it off with him. I've not asked for many details because I don't want to enable him to throw himself self-pity parties, unless he shows signs he does want to tell me in detail what happened.\n\nHe's been incredibly depressed since, threw himself into a drunken stupor (he drinks daily, multiple times a day), hasn't taken a bath in a week, goes from blaming himself to blaming her, from hating her to loving her, from wanting to get back together with her to trash talking her.\n\nNow, he can talk all he wants about her with me, but how can I stop him from drinking? He drinks and drives too, which is dangerous.\n\nI'm way over my head, and I don't know how to help because I can't understand. This is so far from how I deal with breakups that I don't know where to start helping or how.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my girlfriend for 2,5 years, and everything has been great up until the last couple of months. I'm currently in my last year of university and I'm living with my girlfriend, but I feel like I've reached a point in my life where I'd be happier being single. There are certain ambitions I have in life that I don't believe I'll be able obtain if I stay with my girlfriend.\n\nLike I said, I'm in my last year of university and I'm looking into graduate schemes across my country (UK). I can be more ambitious with my career if I'm not tied down, and my girlfriend is set on staying in our city. I had plans to travel that I put on hold when we got together and I'm disappointed that I won't be able to fulfill them if I stay with her. I'm not as happy in the relationship as I have been before, which is not down to her, I just feel like I want to get out and live my life a bit more, instead of settling down, which I don't feel ready to do. I know she has her heart set on us marrying soon, which I definitely am not comfortable with right now. I just feel a little trapped right now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and I have been together for 10 years, married for 2. I love him, he's a good person, he treats me well, but I hate his line of work. He works in sales (retail essentially) and constantly works nights, every weekend, and basically has no potential to move up.\n\nHe started working this job right before he went to school, finished school, and then went right back to exactly the same job as before, taking the whole time about how great his future jobs would be and how he was going to start looking for something else right away, ect, ect, ect. It's been 5 years. He still talks about getting a different job and moving into a career where he can move up and have a good future, and actually use his education he paid so much for. \n\nBut he does nothing to make this happen. \n\nIt's getting really frustrating. I've started going on weekend trips without him, planning things without him because I know he can't take holidays, and I don't even believe he's going to try and find something better. The economy can not be blamed for this, we live in a place with tons of very good high paying jobs, even for people without formal eduation.\n\nI've been supportive, I've offered to help, I've given him endless suggestions, introduced him to contacts, but he does nothing. I don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This tifu happened earlier this evening, so I'm still feeling terrible about the whole thing.\n\nSo earlier today, my family met up with some of their friends went to a local restaurant after a Christmas Eve ceremony at Church. The group happened to include several young children that were ever so excited for Christmas day to come. In the restaurant some small talk and simple conversation was going on while my brother and I started to joke about the little ones. Due to my joking mindset at the time, I wasn't thinking about who I was really talking to, and when one of the kids started to say,\"I want santa to get me a new Xbox One\", I spurted out the first thing on my mind and loudly commented, \"Well its a damn shame that Santa Claus is just mommy and daddy!\". Instantly after that, the table was filled with silence and loud tears as the faces with ajar mouths stared at me in disgust. When i tried to divert my attention to the daggers being shot at me from around the table, I looked around the restaurant to find that many of the other patrons where giving me rude looks as well as the family and friends. Instantly my father grabbed me by the shirt and dragged me to the parking lot and talked to me about the how the three little lives that i had just ruined had been so distraught the friends of ours had to leave the restaurant. Later when we went home, we received a call saying that the kids were still crying, and that one started to destroy all of the boxes under the Christmas tree because of his loss of faith. After that I realized that all of the apologizing in the world would not fix the three little, wonderful broken hearts that i had done. So now, the rest of my Christmas break contains hard, long hours of labor at my family's friends house, and now my dad is making me find a Santa look-alike on craigslist to help stoke their belief again. Hopefully I can replenish their belief in good ol' Saint Nick before any further damage can be done", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, some background. She is 6 months pregnant, everything is going well on that front. We are both happy to be parents and our professional lives are moving in positive directions. Overall, we are happy together and only ever have small disagreements. We are very compatible on most levels. \n\nSexually she is slightly more controlling than I would like. Only likes it certain ways, gets uncomfortable and upset with much experimentation. We've talked about this but our relationship is more important. With her pregnancy the sex has dropped off, but my libido isn't super high and I don't think that's an issue\n\nAfter a separation of a married couple we are close friends with, she confided in me that she had gotten drunk and made out with a work friend just before she had gotten pregnant (definitely not sex, definitely my baby) and had kept it from me. She apologized profusely and I accepted it. We even make jokes about it now (go make out with your other boyfriend, is that girl gonna be the one you make out with to even us out, etc.) though maybe we shouldn't? Maybe that makes it worse?\n\nRecently I've found myself wanting to flirt and make new connections with the opposite sex. New friends through old ones, hanging out at the bar, playing games at a game store I go to, Facebook friends I haven't talked to much recently. I don't really have sexual feelings towards anybody in particular, but I miss getting to know someone on more than a surface level. \n\nI want to get the validation of someone liking me and my sense of humor, but I don't want to cheat. Is there any practical way to get that thrill of meeting someone new without being disrespectful of my marriage?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend, who I've been with for around a year and a half, has a history of self-harm (and so do I, but further in the past than hers). She stopped cutting herself about the time we started dating, saying that I was the main reason she felt happier. As far as I was aware, she never had any thoughts of relapsing, until yesterday when she revealed she has been burning herself with oil for a few weeks. This shocked and upset me; I can't help but feel like I'm 'not good enough' anymore...\n\nShe refuses to see a doctor or counsellor, or to seek any help other than the solace of physical pain. She won't tell me what has caused her to start harming again, and doesn't seem to understand how much it hurts me that she needs to hurt herself.\n\nWhat should I do? Am I selfish for worrying about our relationship almost as much as her physical and mental health?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well, this is fucking awkward.\n\nI went to see my crush friend and to go on a rock festival with her. When I came to her city, we went to her home to wait for her friend (girl).\nIn the meantime, I was feeling that I shouldn't hold it to myself and I told her, can you sit by my side, I have to tell you something. She was like, \"no, you can tell me from here, I feel comfortable sitting on this chair\". I was like, \"what the fuck, can you just come please\", and she was \"nah, nah, let's just be a little creative and do it over messaging app\". In my desperation to confess my stupid feelings, I said, okay, let's do it. And I wrote her the message \"Hey, I am in love with you\" and she was like \"I know\", and started writing friends bullshit.\n\nThe most intimidating thing that made me cringe was the last sentence that she wrote me \"I don't see myself having sex with you\".\n\nIt would all be alright if she wasn't the one who was saying that she hates sex and doesn't like that stuff.\n\nAlso, she said \"thank you, it's good of you to say what you feel, I really apprecaite it\".\n\nSo, later on, when her friend had arrived, we went to that stupid festival and we were roaming around. In my brokenness, I was just following them two and they were asking random strangers for weed and shit, some of them wanted sex in return for weed and that's the point they went to some place.\nWatching that from aside literally killed me. I was just standing there and watching them go away, she turned back to me and looked at me, I looked back at her in a sad way, got my hand up, waved, put my head down and turned my back and I fled away.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "All right, here's the deal. When the semester started, I met this girl in my Chem lab and we started talking. Infrequently for a while, but around a month ago started to pick up to the point that it was every day for the past few weeks. Anyway, I was very much into this girl. She's very pretty, and shares so many interests with me, it was a little surreal. \n\nTwo weeks ago we went on a date, which went really well, we ended up kissing at the end and I was a happy man. Ideally we would have had a second date this weekend or last, but it was easter and she went home, and this weekend is out for other reasons. So here's the problem. Starting earlier this week, our contact started to taper off, effectively not talking whatsoever this week. Obviously I was a little concerned, given how much we'd been talking before, so I said I'd like to talk to her, and she said she wanted to talk to me as well. \n\nSo we talk on the phone a bit, and here's the issue. She tells me that she wasn't sure if we were a couple or not (something we hadn't discussed, and I wasn't clear on either), and that she didn't feel ready to be in a couple. She said that she was still emotional over her last breakup, and she didn't feel emotionally ready to be in a relationship with me yet. This is followed by saying that she does really like me and wants to keep hanging out and talking and all that jazz. I of course understand that you can't control feeling not ready, and told her that, and saying that while disappointed, I wouldn't guilt trip her or pressure her into anything. \n\nAnyway, the vibe that I got was that a relationship wasn't off the table, just not right now. I feel that any relationship we would have would be a healthy, lengthy, and fulfilling one. So I suppose my wondering here is what I should do to make it clear that I am open to a relationship and fostering that relationship potential, while maintaining the friendship and giving her the time she needs.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is the short version of my story. I live in Southwestern Virginia. My wife has been harassed over Facebook going on three years now. The people have done everything from spread lies and rumors to our family and friends, create fake accounts of both of us, created fake accounts with the purpose of contacting our college to get us kicked out, and just about anything else you could imagine someone doing to ruin your life over Facebook. One of the times they did this it resulted in our child being taken by child protective services for a week while the courts tried to convict us of child abuse. \n\nNow the reason I'm coming to you Reddit is that every police agency we go to gives us some crap line of how they are not breaking any laws or says they can do something but the case has to be started at a lower level which won't do anything. So my question is what can reasonably be done to get these people to quit or pay for the hell they have been putting us through.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend, well I guess ex bf and I dated for a bit over 2 years, during which we lived together. We were not perfect and had many problems but were committed to working it out. We did argue frequently but both knew that we loved each other. I don't know how it happened but over time, my romantic attraction towards him decreased to the point that it's pretty much non existent. \n\nHe's my best friend. I love talking to him and being around him, but when it comes to sex or intimacy I just can't do it. I thought long and hard and chose to end the relationship half out of respect for him. I feel everyone deserves to be in a relationship where both parties want each other equally. I can't offer him that and want him to be happy in his future . As well although I know he was never mad about it. I was also feeling increasingly guilty over the lack of sex in our relationship because of me. \n\nTo me these are all logical points ( correct me if I'm wrong), but my emotions are getting the best of me. I wish I could change the way I feel. Now I just have this horrible void in me. He was such a big part of my life and I'm just hoping I made the right choice.. Please give advice/opinions, he's saying I just didn't try hard enough. I just want to lay in bed forever. .", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been unemployed since the end of April and have been seeking and applying for jobs non-stop since then. I have not been able to land an interview with anybody let alone get any responses; they're a we're sorry... when I do get one.\nI'm just trying to figure out how I fit among the rest of the job seekers out there. I'm a civil/structural engineer with ~2 years experience and wanting to relocate to another state. I haven't been able to find many opportunities at my experience level in my state and haven't been successful with getting any responses from cold inquiries to local companies.\nWhen I do find a job posting that I feel I match well that's out of state and I do get a negative response, I can't help but feel that the leading factor is because I'm across the country. Can anybody provide any insight on that?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dear Reddit, \n\nI'm recently single and not even necessarily out on the prowl, but I came across a situation today in which I possibly could've asked out a really cute guy but didn't know how. \n\nJust for a bit of background: I've dated many people in my adult life and been in a few serious relationships, but still looking for the right one. I'm a pretty confident, outgoing woman and have asked out men on several occasions. I don't tend to be too shy if I really want something, however, can be in some situations. \n\nI was at the grocery store today at lunch time and was waiting in line to check out. There was a woman who was having difficulty checking out with her multiple credit cards and people in line were noticeably getting impatient. There were two people in front of me in line, and the person directly in front of me was a very cute guy. Sometimes in these situations people kind of glance around to others waiting for visual commiseration of some sort, surely many of you reading have probably experienced this. \n\nThe cute guy kind of glanced back at me and smiled but I had one of my headphones in listening to music, so I nodded back. I kept noticing him kind of attempting to look my way (or possibly he was just annoyed and waiting, hard to tell). \n\nI kept thinking, \"huh, I'd love to find a way to give this guy my number\". It's hard enough to meet people you think are attractive or interested in dating. I haven't had any real luck with online dating (especially in my current city, which defaults to a hook up culture) and have been thinking about how to meet people in person. \n\nSo I put this to you: how does one takes this kind of situation to the next level? Is it possible to ask someone out with little to no pre-text? Obviously it's risky, you never know someone's situation, but is it just plain weird or gutsy and admirable?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi...(repost from /r/confessions)\n\nSo I have been setup for arranged marriage (I was initially enthusiastic) and have been engaged since end of March. We're muslims so obviously no sex before marriage, and as this is arranged we have not developed emotional closeness like a standard BF/GF couple in West has. We live in different countries, talk on whatsapp etc, but thats it, \n\nYesterday, I saw a prostitute. This was after 5 months (almost) of being clean, just sticking to standard porn etc. Before those 5 months i.e. prior to January, I regularly saw prostitutes, and I just was getting tired of it, of the emotional tiredness.\n\nTalking to a friend, one solid course of action to take, as it seems I have commitment issues and am unable to work on myself, is to cancel engagement now, despite wedding being in 2 months, deal with backlash which will be limited, and figure things out alone, rather than bring the poor girl on the end of it into things.\n\nOther option - shut up, put up, try and carry on strong as wedding comes up, and hope/pray/make best effort that I will not cheat or do this stuff again during remaining engagement period and ultimately never again in marriage....\n\nEasy decisions for a sleazeballlll\n\nWhat should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "hi, reddit,\n\nI've come here to ask a few questions... And thank you all in advance for reading.\n\nI'm a police officer, my boyfriend is a bartender. We've been together for about 3 years. We've had a lot of ups and some downs. \nWhen we first met (before I was in LE) we would frequently hang out at bars together. Now, I work night shift and my patrol area is a large group of bars where I basically deal with drunks constantly throughout the night.\n\nMy boyfriend is a bartender in that bar area. Lately he's been going out and drinking (mostly beer I believe) until about 1am give or take in this bar district. He does this while I'm at work over night. He does this about 3-4 times a week. \n\nSometimes it hurts my feelings because I work so hard in that area to do my job... Getting cussed, thrown up on, working car accidents, DWIs ect. It hurts me to think about my boyfriend hanging out and drinking at these bars while I'm working my butt off overnight. If it was occasionally, I wouldn't mind. But it's several nights a week. \n\nI know my job is dangerous and I picked my career so I should deal with it. I don't feel like I deserve any special treatment but it also hurts when he decides to stay out and drink instead of coming by the house to say goodbye or anything at all before I go to work. I'm not saying be there every single day but... Maybe shoot me a text or something atleast. \n\nI feel bad for letting it bother me, and I don't want to feel this way. I also don't know who he's with or when he'll eventually go home so that adds to it.. He knows my feelings on the situation but I feel that he does what he wants sometimes and will just brush it off or just apologize for it later.\n\nI don't want to nag him, he's a grown ass man... But at the same time, I'm not sure if I could have a potential future with him considering my career. \n\nIs this normal for guys to do and am I just over reacting?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys\n\nSo last weekend my gf and I went camping and we were using her phone to gps out of the woods back to her place. While I was plugging in directions her phone buzzed with a series of cutesy texts from her coworker (pic of his cat saying it misses her, pics of him and what he was doing that weekend). \n\nA little backstory.. I recently moved over 1k miles to take a summer job and it was a bonus because the job was closer to her, we were long distance for over 3 months and one night she frantically called me because she felt like she was emotionally cheating on me with this same guy. She said nothing happened he just tried to make moves on her while they were out with other coworkers, and she told him to keep it professional.\n\nFast forward a month after that and I see these texts, so I get a little upset and we talk about the relationship. She tells me she she's never done anything with him although she enjoys his company, and doesn't really respond to the texts. While we're talking she mentions that she's clueless about serious relationships (I'm the second longest at 7 months), is confused etc etc, and comes to the conclusion that she loves me but wants some space.\n\nNow this was yesterday and today she's texted me that she still wants to try, but I can't help but think it'll feel like a forced relationship, or that she'll continue to not take the relationship seriously and I'll get hurt.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I got out of a bad relationship two months ago that lasted almost a year. I haven't been on a first date for over a year.. I met this girl on Tinder and made it clear I wasn't looking to just hook up. We've been talking and share a lot in common, down to the fact we both smoke pot and love cartoons from the 90's. I've been pretty smooth on the phone but in real life I'm very shy. I think I've gotten a little less shy since I got out of my last relationship, but I really wanna wow this girl. We're going to see the new Fast and Furious movie. We're both passive people, as I'm very shy and nice and she seems to be just like me in that she doesn't like to be the one making decisions. I don't like making decisions either, but I made the decision of when and what movie to see. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Notice: I mean no disrespect to fans so please don't take this the wrong way.\n\n...but I'm more than open to having my mind changed if someone can explain to me what I'm missing.\n\nMy job has an hour-long commute, so I joined the library and have been going through podcasts and audiobooks like crazy. \n\nWhile sifting through their audiobook collection I saw they had all of the LOTR books, which I've never read -- I wanted to as a teenager but never got around to it. I never watched the movies because I wanted to read the books first because I'm a nerd like that. I knew absolutely nothing about the series other than the brief introduction I had to it while playing the Interplay LOTR adventure game on PC in the mid-90's for half an hour once.\n\nSo for the first few discs I found it a little monotonous. Lots of awkward singing by the narrator, lots of painfully long descriptions of the Shire and lots of genealogy for minor characters, which I found odd. But I assumed it'd pick up since I had 14 discs left to go.\n\nI'm currently on disc 9 (right as they're getting to Rivendell) but I absolutely cannot get interested in it, though not for lack of trying. Each commute it gets more difficult for me to keep listening rather than just throw on music or the news. Every time I get to a new disc I feel like I just finished several hours of homework and I have to bargain with myself to start the next one. \n\nIt's not that I don't like it. I like Tolkien's style, the characters are ridiculously well-developed and I can appreciate how groundbreaking it was in the 1950's...I just can't figure out what's so interesting and exciting about it to so many people, and I certainly can't imagine spending 50+ more hours finishing out the entire trilogy. \n\nCan someone change my mind before I bail and take it back to the library on Tuesday? \n\nIf it matters in your analysis, my normal taste is Philip K. Dick, Kurt Vonnegut, David Sedaris and non-fiction about science, politics and religion. My favorite book is Good Omens by Gaiman/Pratchett.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My GF recently became my fiancee. I am sure she's been planning this day for a while in her head, but the only two details I've heard so far is that it is a \"$60k wedding\" and \"the groom/his family\" pays for it. For reference, she is not from the U.S. originally (although she became a citizen in her teens), so her culture is weighing in here. Her culture (middle eastern) is big on over-the-top events and the professional success to back it up.\n\nWe can technically afford this wedding, as between us we make about $300k/year, but I come from a lower middle-class background and spending $60k on a single event just seems preposterous. It might even cause negative feelings with my family because no one has had a wedding that cost even half that much.\n\nThe problem is that I don't want to just say \"no\" because then I would look cheap. I believe that she should get the day she wants, but I also think she could have just as great of a wedding on less (maybe $20-30k), so my challenge is to convince her that she could be happy, especially if it means we can keep it from impacting other milestones. For example, she has already started talking about buying a house in the next 1-2 years. Well, the average house exceeds $1 million in our area, so an expensive wedding is going to push that timeline back by a year or so if we are to contribute equally to the downpayment. (I'm 100% footing the bill for the wedding, remember). We also both agree on trying to become financially independent of work as soon as possible, and are in general frugal people. For example, we live in an old, cheap apartment, and she recently bought a used car.\n\nWhat can I do here? Advice from people with non-American partners is particularly appreciated", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys need some advice.\n\nI dont mean to come off as a douche but I recently met a girl in my college class. She is nice but I barely know her and I am not interested. For the past couple of weeks she has texted me and I have texted back. I don't know what her problem is but if I don't reply within 5 minutes she starts blowing my phone. She accuses me of trying to shut her out. Again I am friends with her but not close at all. I see her once a week in college. I told her to stop getting so worried and she was acting irrational. I told her if it bothered her that I didnt reply quickly that she should stop texting me. She is obviously interested in me but I have again told her I am not interested subliminally. I also told her maybe it is best to take a break from the relationship and she agreed. 10 minutes ago she texted me as if nothing happened. What to do? Am I being mean or?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She speaks Spanish natively, but my Spanish is terrible so we almost always communicate in English. Anyway, I noticed a while ago that she never said she loved me in Spanish. I didn't think anything of it at first, until I realized she was consciously avoiding doing so. If I tell her I love her in Spanish, she'll respond in English, 100% of the time--little things like that. \n\nIt made me feel a little weird, so I asked her about it and she dodged the question. That made me feel weirder. I let it sit but asked again last night and she again dodged/ignored the question. I haven't pushed the issue at all, but it's been on my mind and I don't understand it.\n\nOverall, I feel petty and paranoid, but also uncomfortable and awkward about this. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a little worried that she isn't being honest with me about her feelings. I think the awkwardness is exacerbated greatly by the fact that she doesn't respond to any questions about it, which just leaves my mind to theorize on its own.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My mother has been getting to know her half-brother (HB) for a couple years. I've met him a few times and he seems like a nice guy. She's looking to retire (HB's already retired) and they've talked about getting a place together out-of-state where cost of living is more affordable. It even sounds like HB is offering to be more than fair with how he's willing to divide expenses. Seemed consistent with my impression of him.\n\nThe issue is that my mom recently discovered another side to HB on Facebook. HB is from rural PA and we know he's conservative (not an issue for her; she avoids talking politics), but on Facebook he frequently comments on posts from right-wing clickbait sites (Conservative Tribune seems to be his favorite). HB's comments are typical \"bitter-angry-oppressed-white-guy\" stuff, but he's expressed some pretty ugly opinions about different groups (mainly blacks, illegal immigrants, gays and sometimes muslims).\n\nMy mom's distressed to see HB has this mean streak, and thinks this way about ANY of these groups, but especially because we have a gay family member (whom HB knows about and seems fine with?!). Not only does she feel it may not be possible to live with HB because of this, she also feels a need to confront HB about his attitudes towards gays because she doesn't want to betray our gay family member.\n\nMy advice to her at the moment is to talk to him about the gay issue, instead of confronting his entire worldview. HB's opposition to marriage equality seems to be the zero-sum fallacy that gay marriage devalues \"traditional\" marriage / reduces others' religious freedom. Thankfully, he doesn't seem to quote Leviticus or hurl epithets, so I hope there is the possibility to reach an understanding.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone, I know that this is immature and petty but I've been getting upset at my BF for never liking my facebook/instagram posts or photos while he does for other girls. \n\nI wouldn't mind at all if he didn't like or comment on anyone else's stuff, or even just his close friends. \n\nI've talked to him about it and all he said that he wouldn't and called me immature :(\n\nAny advice? What should I do to get over these negative feelings?! I feel dumb getting upset about these stupid social media things but I do feel jelous and upset :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I'm 20 and my girlfriend is currently 18 and I live in California and she lives in Chicago. We've never met before but we've been talking to each other every day for the past year or so now and we both know we're real people, so there's no doubt about that. We've FaceTimed and have had phone calls with each other just about every night we can. \n\nAs a 20 year old male I have recently started my career and wish to see her as soon as I possibly can. Would this be a smart idea? I was later down the road planning to move out there while she finishes up college and such since I've already finished my schooling and I've wanted to leave California anyways. It's going to be somewhat costly to go out there and pay for a round trip plane ticket, a room and food. I've estimated that the trip will cost just about around $500-$600 but I really think she's worth every penny of it. \n\nWould this be smart to do at my current age?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been together for about 9 months now. When we met it was instant chemistry. We both are rather impulsive and passionate people and that was very noticable at the start. \n\nHowever, he had a girlfriend about 8 years ago for about a year, whom he loved very much and it took him until me to get over her. Now, I've never met anyone who took that long to get over their ex so that fact alone already makes me insecure. Their relationship was very passionate, though also very dysfunctional. They were miserable. He was very jealous and couldn't work or do anything besides 'being' in that relationship.\n\nIt seemed to kind of be that way with us at the start, but somehow it changed. And I fear - constantly - that she will always be his great love. We argue a lot too, so it's not all dull, but when we do, most of the time he is able to go on about his day & work. I can't, and he couldn't with his ex. He says he needed her, but does not need me but chooses to be with me. He does say he loves me a lot, and he absolutely wants our relationship and our life & never thinks about her anymore. But he doesn't seem to be as intense with me as with her. He doesn't seem to love me more, and I don't know how to feel about that. He says he loves me better. He wants us to have a love, but to also have a life beside our love. \n\nAm I in the wrong for wanting him to love me as intensely?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello. I'm a junior in high school and as you can imagine, I'm looking at colleges. I really want to go to Purdue for engineering and was wondering if you could tell me my chance of getting in, and any tips that might help me get in. I figured Reddit has plenty of wisdom about this kind of thing. Anyway, for some backround, I would be an out of state student wanting to live on campus. I have taken(including senior year) 4 years of English(English I-IV), 3 years of social studies including AP US Gov, 6 years of Math(Alg I/II, Honors Geom, Honors Precalc, AP Stats and AP Calc), 4 years of science(Physical Science, Bio., Chem., and AP Physics), 4 years of Band, some irrelevant electives, and 2 years of a foreign language(German).I have a 3.7 GPA. For my SAT, I got a 650 Math, 550 Crit. Reading, and 490 Writing. I'll be taking the ACT coming up pretty soon. ANYWAYS, some questions that I have. Does only having 2 years of a foreign language have a large affect on being accepted, should I retake the SAT, if I do better on the ACT should I send just the ACT or both, and finally what could I do to improve chances and what chance do I have on getting accepted with the above information. Thanks for any help! This is a big decision for me so any help at all would be wonderful.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Looking for advice on what fund(s) or ETF(s) I should look to for investing \"excess\" cash. I'm 32 years old making about $150K/year. I have no 401K and max out my IRA ($90K currently), hence the taxable account. This money is going to be held long term, and I plan to continue contributing $1K/mo for as long as my income remains at this level.\n\nMost advice seems to be to stick cash into an index fund or total market fund, which I'm considering (IVV or FSTMX probably, as I'm with Fidelity). However, I'm quite overweight in Large Cap already (through my Roth and also select stock purchases in my taxable account already - lots of tech).\n\nMight I be better served to split the money between Intl and/or Small/Mid Cap ETFs like IJT/IJH, etc.? \n\nAny thoughts greatly appreciated, thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Why do keep putting myself out there and trying to help people and actually care? For the most part people are just using me to get something. \nEveryone just looks out for themselves. I'm tired of it. People are greedy and will pretend to care just to get what they want. \nIt's been this way my whole life it seems. This is why I shut down and close myself off from people. \n\nI'm not so jaded as to cut myself off from everyone forever, but I'm going to be more careful. And I AM going to take a few days for myself. I'm going to be \"selfish\" for a 2 or 3 days and not bother with anyone. Cut off communication for the most par. Just kind of whatever. \n\nI keep falling into the same trap. Though this time it wasn't as harsh as previous times and didn't last as long. It only being \"online people\" that I haven't known long makes it better in some ways but makes me feel a bit more dumb for putting myself out there like I did. \n\nPeople just don't give a shit. Greed rules over all. \nI'll stick to the friends I have and go back to lurking in the shadows for the most part.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So like the title says, we've been together 4 years, since we were 18 and all through our college years. Now that we've both graduated and are landing steady jobs we are looking to move out. He thinks it would make the most sense to move in together and has also mentioned getting engaged but not getting married for a while. I don't want to get engaged or married until my late 20s (that's always been my plan). I also side with my traditional mom and grandma who do not think moving in together is okay until we are at least planning a wedding. \n\nI can totally see myself marrying him if we are still together in several years. But I can also see things coming between us. I'm dead set on living in another country, and I might actually have to spend six months in another country within the next couple of years. He has always mentioned that he wants to stay in the town we live in now. I am also very chronically sick (nothing terminal, but sometimes debilitating) and he doesn't handle that very well when I'm going through a flare. \n\nI definitely love him with my whole heart and everyone thinks we're perfect together, but I'm still hesitant. How do I tell him I don't want to move in together and get engaged yet without hurting his feelings and making him think I don't love him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriends dog, who I used to love, has seemingly forgotten that he can't poop in the house. He was completely housebroken and then started to have really runny poops in the house so we just figured he was sick (we accidentally bought the wrong food) and didn't yell at or scold him because it wasn't really his fault. After he has gotten better he just thinks he can poop in the house now. For instance, not 20 minutes ago my girlfriend took him for a walk and he did not poop because there was other dogs outside and he gets distracted amazingly easily, then she brought him inside, left him in the bedroom where I was sleeping and he pooped. I noticed about 5 minutes after she left when I rolled out of bed. He was so excited when I got out of bed too; he didn't even act guilty like he knew he did something wrong. \n\nThis is just frustrating me so much because he used to go to the door and everything when he had to go and now it's just a free for all. Help. Please.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been seeing this girl for a little over a month now, things have been going great! We have been texting frequently and seeing each other multiple times a week. \n\nWe are both extremely busy and dedicated to our school work, which I like, but she also competitively figure skates. So here's the problem, this week on top of tests/assignments/practice etc she also has a big competition that she has said she hasn't had a lot of time to prepare for. I have no figure skating experience, so I can't really feel her pain and I feel like I can't really give her legitimate support. Even worse, her schedule is completely blocked up this week so she can only text. It would be ok if I could see her to tell her it'll be ok, but I really don't know what I can really say texting trying to make her feel comfortable.\n\nAlso, since we started talking, messaging has been pretty consistent. But in the days leading up to the competition, she's been kind of short and dispersed with her communication. I've been giving her space and not texting because I know she's busy, and she's been starting conversations at night. Even though I know she's unbelievably busy, I can't help but feel she is being a little distant. \n\n---\n\nSo tonight is her big night. What the hell can I text her if she tells me she totally bombed her routine? \n\nAlso, do you think the distance could be because she's possibly losing interest? Or am I just paranoid haha. We have a date Monday after she's done everything, I plan on casually asking her about why she was being a little distant when we go out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've tried everything, we've talked about it, I've given her literature to read, I've shown her reddit, and given her suggestions as to how we could improve our sex life. I'm no sex fiend, but I do enjoy having sex more than twice a month. She has no, sex drive. When we do have sex it is un-enjoyable for me, and for her it seems like work. We used to have a great sex life, and everything that entails. But, I cannot do anything to get it back. We've been dating for 4 years and it seems like (to put it in stupid terms) friend zoned. I take her on dates, lay with her before she goes to bed every night, cook for her, and so on. Im not saying I'm perfect, but I don't believe this is right. Am I wrong? Is this how every long term relationship is? This has been going on for about 2.5 years out of the 4 year relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Runnit. I'm having some trouble and I need a place to vent where people will understand my frustration. I've been out with a stress fracture in my tibia for the last 5 weeks. For the first two weeks I was on crutches, after which time my orthopedist said I could try going without them. I did that, and a few days later I slipped and fell, bashing up my leg and apparently badly re-injuring myself. After that I went back on the crutches, and kept using them until my follow-up appointment today. By all accounts the pain in my leg has gotten worse, and the only thing the doctor said was that we need to treat it more aggressively. This means I have to use the crutches for 4-6 more weeks, and I have to get blood work done to make sure my hormones aren't fucking with my body's ability to fix bones. \n\nDuring this \"recovery\" I was swimming and doing very light biking to keep my fitness up, but now I am forbidden from doing either of those activities. All I can do is sit still or walk around on crutches while I watch the last days of summer drifting by. The air is starting to smell a bit like fall, and I have an insatiable itch to go for a run like I'm back in high school XC. I'm frustrated and angry and I'm going crazy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have $2,363.74 on my Amazon card and have been making about $200/month payments. According to my latest statement, making $99/month payments it will take 3 years to pay off. I didn't know what I was doing when I got this card, and I definitely over-spent (my ignorance, they approved me for $2500). The reasoning for why I spent that much is irrelevant for this discussion. I'm wondering if there's a better option for me to pay this off, like transfer the balance to a different credit card with a lower interest rate than 26%.\n\nI've done a lot of reading on this sub and it's triggered me to get my finances into shape. I don't want to live paycheck to paycheck any more and the feeling of debt looming over me isn't a good one. I setup Mint last month and began tracking my expenses. At the end of last month I set some reasonable budgets and this month is my test run to stay in it. Before I was just flying blind, spending if I had money and cutting back if I didn't. What should I be looking into to make sure I'm financially organized? I've read a lot about roth ira's here and I'm really curious if I should look into that yet.\n\nI'm 23, 5th year in college. I have about $33k of student loan debt so before I leave school (graduate) this May the last thing I want is to have interest piling up from an Amazon card while I'm making payments on my student loans. I bring in about $600/month working an on-campus job while I take classes. I'm completely maxed out for work hours (25hrs/week due to the new Obamacare rules) so that's the most I can work / make a month.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I love my SO but this problem has been building up for the past 6 months and often gets in the way of how I feel about him and even how I feel about myself. This being said, it is our only problem and I am otherwise happy in the relationship. \n\nHe is always late. Not 15 minutes here or there, we're talking at least that every time we make plans or he makes plans with other people (including work). My friends have started to notice because he makes me late as well or, as the case has been before, he simply doesn't show up. He has also been in trouble at work in the past because of it. \n\n On more than one occasion he has been more than an hour late for something we have agreed to do. This would be fine if he contacted me to let me know of the change in plans but there is never anything said. It just ends up with me ringing his phone at the time we had originally agreed to meet and listening to his voicemail, repeatedly, him showing up late and me accepting it begrudgingly. It's come to the point that I expect him to be late or flake out rather than not every time. \n\nA lot of the time this is because he has fallen asleep. I feel horrible for being mad at someone for sleeping and correct me if I'm wrong, but I have never experienced this problem myself. If I have plans, say meeting someone at 8, I would make sure I was up and about or set an alarm to make sure. \n\nI have tried talking to him when he isn't late, when he is late, calmly, shouting, sobbing, reminding him of plans, but it doesn't seem to get through to him that leaving me hanging like this makes me feel unappreciated and shitty. \n\nWhat can I do to help him and/or myself here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is pretty innocent but he's embarrassed, so I figured I'd ask.\n\nLast night, my boyfriend had his wisdom teeth removed and was VERY loopy after the surgery. I was the one driving him home and taking care of him, so I got to witness the whole thing. \n\nDuring the five minute car ride home, he was zoning in and out and was really quiet. When we got home, I made him go to bed because he said he was tired. So as I was tucking him in, I leaned in to give him a hug and that's when he started crying. Like he literally had his arms wrapped around me and was crying into my chest for ten minutes. lol. Poor thing. \n\nHe's a manly guy and in the year we've been together, that was the first time I've ever seen him cry. He's not the emotional type at all.\n\nAnyway, once the drugs wore off and he woke up this morning, he was extremely embarrassed. Now he's worried that I may not find him attractive anymore. \n\nIs there anything I can do to make the situation better? Do I need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him? Or do I just pretend like it never happened?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Is there anything I can do as a recent graduate in Management Information Systems? Literally every job in any related field requires 2-10 years experience. How do I get this experience? Do I need to go to experience land and ask the experience fairy? It's been frustrating, in a Catch-22 kind of way. You don't get experience because you can't get a job, you can't get a job because you don't have experience. I'm sure I'm not the only one that is frustrated by this. I got an ok job straight out of college, but it's not even remotely close to the field I wanna be in. It's basically debt collections, and it barely pays enough for me to pay my own bills.\n\nI've yet to find the answer to what job I can get if I want to eventually be a (blank) Analyst. (blank) meaning business, data, systems, business data systems. Whatever they want to call it. There's no path. There's no direction. You either have 2-10 years experience or you don't.\n\nAnd don't even get me started on the requirements. Might as well stop looking if you can't code 10 different languages from scratch on 6 different machines. One required that you know all that, and speak English, Spanish and Portuguese. Fuck me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a mole that has been kinda bothering me for the past year or so. I've had it my whole life, but recently I began getting self conscious about it. It is located between [the 12 and 15 spot in the left side](\n\nThe problem with the mole is that it is raised and it is way darker than my skin tone, so it stands out.\n\nI've never really gotten any criticism or teases about it.\n\nIt isn't too big. [It is around the size of this, but way darker](\n\nI kind of want to get rid of it, but I also don't because I feel like I will be missing a part of me when I do. \n\nWhat are you guys' thoughts on it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [F20s] recently started talking to a guy [20s] online and we really seem to hit it off. However, simply put, he's really into fitness and I'm not super athletic. I'm nervous about meeting him in person because I'm afraid he won't find me physically attractive.\n\nLet me clarify, I am not obese or extremely overweight; I have some curves and a bit of tummy squish but overall I'm very proportioned and have never had trouble getting dates or having guys find me attractive. I'm just not toned-- I have an ass and hips but I'm generally happy with my figure except for a few problem areas. \n\nI've started to try and fix those problem areas by adding work outs into my routine. I'm definitely not trying to change for him, I just happened to meet him at this particular moment in my life when I decided to get healthy and fit for myself. \n\nMy whole point is this-- is it likely that a guy who's into fitness can be attracted to a girl who isn't particularly toned? Is my slight squish a problem?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have 5 dogs, 2 of which are large rescue pit-bulls which have both learned to let themselves in and out the back door. (Our other dogs are too small to attempt this. \nJust about 2 weeks ago they got this idea that if they could open the back door... the bedroom and the bathroom door they could open the front door as well. In the 3 years we have had one of them she has never attempted this, we've had the other for a year. Simple solution... turn the padlock on the door and they wont escape...... no, of course it cant be that easy. One of them (not sure which) has learned to UNLOCK the pad lock (its a twist lock) OPEN THE DOOR... and escape.\nThis is the pad lock now... \n\nThis is the trap we have\nThey are terrified of the water bottle \n\nCulprits \n\nBesides changing the door knob on the front door... an taping it shut is there any sort of child proof lock that would go on this sort of knob? I have only been able to find ones for circular knobs....\nHas anyone else had this problem before? I feel like since we have never really pay much attention to them letting themselves out the back door they don't think they are doing anything wrong.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We'll things are definitely looking up! I finally worked up the courage (although barely) to tell my friend how I feel about her! I honestly couldn't be happier! \n\nFrom the our most recent text messages she made it pretty clear it made her day. (Or so I hope) she seems pretty good about it. \n\nI wish I could of told her earlier but she's been going through some things with some guy and I didn't quite want to tell her when she was upset. (Which was almost every chance I got).\nSo that's what I told her and she was shocked to know I was apparently \"the only one to care enough to pay attention and make sure she was ok.\" \n\nWe'll anyways she's just said, \nI hope you understand I can't quite tell you how I feel as I'm still crushed over this whole thing with the other guy.\nSo I'm not so sure what to think about that. Any thoughts?\n\nBut anyways onto my real problem. This is (maybe, not even for sure yet) my first relationship really.. I'm not quite sure what to do. We live in a small town that gets roughly 2500mm of rainfall annually so there's not a lot to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "One day while hanging out with my boyfriend in our apartment, the topic of pet peeves came up. Living together for almost two years now, we pretty much know what bothers one another but decided to recap for the hell of it. We went back and forth listing the usual annoyances like smacking gum, scraping ones fork across their plate and using the caps lock button instead of shift when typing. But then I mentioned that I hated the toilet in our apartment because of the splash it creates. My boyfriend sat back and looked at me as if I was insane and asked \"why the hell would that bother you?\"\n\n I proceeded by saying that I absolutely despise when you are taking a shit and the water splashes on your ass. I explain to him that I angle my ass in a certain way, sitting very close to the edge of the toilet so that it does not make a huge splash and hit me with toilet water, although it is difficult to do in our apartment toilet because it's just like taking a shit in a bucket. He then laughs hysterically at me for a good three minutes and tells me that is the weirdest pet peeve he has ever heard of.\n\nNow I, feeling like I am insane, ask him how he goes about avoiding the splash then. He tells me \"why would I worry about that? So what if it splashes you, you just wipe it off when you are done.\" Throughout his entire explanation I cringe at the thought of having that cold, possibly soiled water hit my bare ass and decide that there must be others out there who feel the same as I do. It can't be the weirdest pet peeve out there. In fact I don't know of a pet peeve I've heard of that I can't at least understand the annoyance or distaste for. I would actually like to hear one that I can say \"what the fuck,\" to, so this is why I'm asking.\n\nReddit, what is the weirdest pet peeve you have ever heard of?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know it sounds silly it's an online friendship and she's been diagnosed with depression, Idk if it's medical or self diagnosis(neither would surprise me) I mean she's had a rough life and I get that but like I'd give some advice, she'd agree it would probably help but then doest do it or she does the opposite. Which change is hard so baby steps right? \n\nNow back to the topic first of all it seems like she doest want to get out of the slump or maybe I just don't know how to get her out of it. Either way it pisses me off and i cant do anything but tell everything she's already heard a million times. (You'll be ok, you just have to look for tomorrow...ect)and I really don't want to tell her that everyday because even if it's what she wants to hear it not going to help at all.\n\nBut I guess the real problem is is that I don't know how to handle it and it pisses me off. And like everytime I give her advice it's more hostile like she's heard it before and it didn't work but instead of sugar coating it I'm going to just rip the bandaid off. Which is when we started having problems now instead of helping it looks like I'm just being an asshole and this doesn't have anything to do with her but I'm terrible at texting back with everyone not just her and that makes me come of as an \"uncaring dick\". And Idk I'm at a loss she's told me about her attempts of suicide her cuting herself and how she hates herself. And that's why I'm afraid to just knock off the friendship because we don't do eachother any good but I still care...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened to me last Monday, and I still feel terrible.\n\nMy first year courses at university luckily landed me only one midterm, while my friends had multiple. Even better, this \"midterm\" was during week 10, so I had lots of time to ~~procrastinate~~ prepare.\n\nFast forward to the night before the midterm, I stayed up really late to study and prepare a page of notes we were allowed to take with us (it was a computing course). Once I was done, I couldn't wait to collapse on my bed so I set my alarm on my phone for 10 real quick and did just that (my midterm was at 11:30).\n\nThe next morning, or a couple hours earlier, I was woken up by voices of the janitors doing their daily cleaning. Groggily, I thought to myself, \"weird how they're so early today\" (they usually come around 11 am), and went to back to bed since my alarm didn't go off yet. This should have been a sign.\n\nA while later, I woke up again and felt my sleep had strangely been going on for too long, since I was only supposed to get around 5 or 6 hours until my alarm was supposed to go off. \n\nWith a dreading feeling, I walked to my phone and opened it: \"12:35 pm\". All the color drained from my face as I realized just how hard I screwed up by setting my alarm for 10 pm instead of 10 am.\n\nAfter thinking for a while about what to do, I decided to email the professor to see if there was anything I could do to make up for it. I then proceeded to take a nap to finish my sleep and escape my anxiety. I wake up around 3:30 pm and check my email and am greeted by [this message](\n\nI was depressed for the rest of that day.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey r/relationships, slightly petty concern ahead!\n\nI recently told my boyfriend very candidly and openly that I needed to return my ex's stuff. My boyfriend had mentioned early on in the relationship that he was nervous about my feelings towards my ex considering I moved into this relationship just 3 months after I broke up with him. When I heard of these concerns, I immediately deleted my ex off facebook and my phone hoping I could quell his worries. He is still friends with his ex on facebook, and I have not said anything because I am trying to not let stuff like that bother me. \n\nHe has some trust issues, and when I mentioned bringing my ex's stuff back he fell silent. I asked him if he trusted me and he said \"I'll have to.\" I asked him how I could do it to make him feel better and he suggested I tell my ex to pick up the stuff from my place. I agreed that I would try but while I think that making him feel is my first priority, I feel a little rude for asking my ex to make the trip. \n\nHe promised he would work on these trust issues, but when I mentioned it to him, he kindly said that although he knew what kind of person I am, knew what to expect, but I had to \"build a rapport\" to maintain and prove that the trust was warranted. I was a little confused because I felt like I deserve to be trusted initially, as I trust him, but perhaps we have different viewpoints.\n\nAre his views on trusting people warranted? Am I an idiot because I trust people too easily? What else can I do to build this trust?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "He told me last night that he used cocaine and I do not approve of that. However he said he wanted to continue to use it the rest of his life. I would be fine if it was an every now and then thing but the way he talks he sounds like he loves it enough to do it often. He used cocaine to try to forget about me lying to him at the beginning of the year...so it is my fault I feel. I am worried because his parents used cocaine and had many issues resulting in them dying from drugs. I love him and want to stay and help him even though he says he will continue no matter what. The other half of me says leave. I am just afraid he won't fight to keep me. I am afraid of hurting him so much he does something reckless... I am do lost what do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Everything is perfect between us, me and Paul. But I am realizing that our personality differences are creating a gap that I cannot see myself able to get over for the rest of my life. All it really comes down to(in EXTREMELY simplified terms) is that I am passionate and sociable, and he is quiet and secluded. I consistently feel that I have to tame myself in order to keep him happy, and I know that in the long run, this is only going to damage both of us. We've had many conversations about how we shouldn't try to change the other person, but I am worried that if I don't leave, I /will/ change and I am not okay with the person I would need to become. \n\nSo I think it's time to end things, soon....the issue is we live together. Our lease isn't up until February. How am I supposed to do this? How am I supposed to explain that, yes, even though everything is perfect, I can't do it anymore?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi. I've been working for over a year now and managed to save a decent amount of money (20k+). I currently still live with the parents, therefore don't pay a huge amount for rent etc hence why I'm able to save so efficiently. Also because I don't waste money on stuff I consider unnecessary (partying etc).\n\nWell anyway. I'm currently working a pretty cool job, though, it is getting a bit boring and I want to start my apprenticeship in a civil trade next year as my current job has barely any opportunities for the future. My plan is to move city next year and start my apprenticeship, which obviously would cost more in living expenses. Luckily with trades apprenticeships you get paid as you learn, therefore I won't get in-debt or struggle to pay bills . With that being said I don't imagine me chewing up all of my savings, therefore what is the best way to use my money wisely. I still would like to have some spending money and have a bit in the savings account for living expenses (especially for next year), but am not extremely worried as I will be getting getting paid as I learn.\nIf you wise men of personal finance reddit were my age with the amount of money I have what would you do with it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've spent my life focusing on more serious endeavors and the last 4 years have been used to study for a degree, volunteer to boost my resume and so on. So most of my choices and actions were to set myself up for the future.\n\nNow I have never had a serious relationship and don't know where to start! I've no regular hobbies to meet men, my friends are also having trouble with dating and my closest friends have also been perpetually single so they can't introduce me to anyone. \n\nI have very little planned for the next 3 weeks and now I'm going to let you all tell me what to do. I mean within reason. What actions should I take to meet some nice eligible men? Throw your suggestions at me!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I had a relationship with this girl for like 8 months. Last part of our relationship was long distance. We had great and not so great moments togheter. This was my first relationship and I never felt this way for anyone else, we were really in love. \n\nBut our last weeks togheter were different. She started to be cold towards me. She started to say things like \"we should just be friends\". But after all the things we shared I couldnt be just her friend, and I knew she loved me (at least until that point). So I continued to act normally and one day she got upset when I told her I loved her and after a fight she said we shouldnt talk anymore. \n\nWhen eveything was fine she was the most loving and caring girl ever. But she used to bad those bad days when she got upset and was colder. She had various unhealthy relationships and bad experiences like past boyfriends cheating on her and things like that. Also she went through some bad stuff lately.\n\nI alredy got asked by my friends if maybe she had a relationship with someone else but Im 100% percent she doenst (She isnt very social she's always had a small group of friends and never was with a guy if he wasnt her boyfriend).\n\nSo we got back in touch and I know that I still love her, I missed her a lot in these 2 months. But even though it would be amazing if we got togheter again and have amazing times like before I dont want to be hurted again. I dont blame her nor Im mad at her but she made me feel bad. \n\nHow should I approach this situation ?. I love her but I dont know if I can/should give her all of me again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So i'm really crazy about this girl, lets call her Z, last year I told her how i feel about her, but here is the catch, her best friend likes me, sadly i dont like her, so call it a love triangle. This girl Z said that if she were to date me it would be a slap to the face to her friend. so i backed off, now fast forward a year later, the girl Z has been txting me about why i liked her last year, and I told her the truth and i asked her, \"so do you like me or not\" and she brushed that question off like it was nothing and again she asks me \"if we were to date what would it be like\" i told her it would be like a normal date type\n\nand guess what excuse she pulled this time....\"ooo my friend still likes you and it would be a slap to the face if i went out with you, also i'm not ready for a relationship, BUT MAYBE ONE DAY ..IDK RIGHT NOW\"\n\nO MY FUNDGE CAKES!!! \n\nany advice? do you guys think she likes me? \nthis is depressing...o and she told her friends about it....fml", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently moved out of the room that my boyfriend of a year and a half and I shared. Our relationship had been deteriorating, and I had completely lost myself and was miserable. The first couple of weeks afterwards was awful and he was incredibly angry at me, but over the past week I felt that we had made great strides towards figuring out what went wrong on both of our parts and making amends. We have an appointment for couples therapy in two days. \n\nTonight however, he suddenly disappeared and his phone has been off all night. Roommates of his (acquaintances of mine) had contacted me telling me that he had been cheating on me, but he convinced me that they were lying as they do not like him and are trying to force us apart (a plausible scenario, they are very immature and would feasibly do something like that to make him miserable). I believed him. But on a hunch tonight, I created a fake login to OKcupid and punched in some of his stats. His profile was the first to pop up, in which he described himself as single, recently out of a long term relationship, and looking for short term dating. His last login was today at 4:30PM (shortly before he leaves work).\n\nI am trying to give him the benefit of a doubt, for the sake of working things out, but I am having a hard time. Any words of wisdom would be appreciated. Thank you reddit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A month or so ago, my college a cappella choir raised money to help Japan. Being the terrible Treasurer that I am (I only got the job because I happened to be holding all the money we had in my dorm when we had \"elections\"), it took me forever to get the funds organized enough to be able to donate the money. And now school is out for the season, so the choir isn't currently meeting, meaning I have to figure out where this money we raised is going to go.\n\nSo, reddit, I have come to you. I asked everyone in the choir where they wanted the money to go, but no one responded, and, since I'm not sure I know what I'm doing, I need help finding the right organization. I don't really know where to start, and, even when I think I've found a good organization, I'm worried I'm going to choose one that is fake, doesn't distribute its funds \"properly,\" discriminates, etc.\n\nSo, does anyone have any ideas?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all. So I've got quite a long story here, but I'll try and keep it as short as possible. \n\nSo to begin, me and a woman I dated for 3 years broke up nearly 2 years ago. Contact was cut completely within 3 months, and I haven't spoken with her since. Around that time she began dating another guy. A while after this, I also began dating another woman. \n\nSo me and this woman have dated for the past 1.5 years roughly, and things have definitely had more downs than ups. We have fought constantly, never seen eye to eye, and don't share any hobbies. \n\nMy ex and I, on the other hand, completely got along, would have a few big fights here and there, and shared mostly the same hobbies. \n\nMy current girlfriend and I have been on and off for the past few months, and right now we're in a hiatus. But, for the past few weeks, I've caught myself thinking about my ex more and more, and I'm not sure why. I hadn't thought about her in a long time, and lately I can't seem to get her out of my head. I legitimately miss her.\n\nSo through the grapevine, I've heard that my ex and her boyfriend aren't exactly doing the best, and things are falling apart. I want so badly to text her or something. But I just don't know if it's right. \n\nCan anybody give me advice here? I'm absolutely lost and confused right now. Thanks to anyone who can help!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone,\n\nMy girlfriend has depression and I'm staying positive and being supportive the best I can.\n\nMy work schedule is flexible so I am able to go with her to her therapist and wait in the waiting room with her (calms her down).\n\nShe has a lot of trouble speaking about her problems and just started therapy, and she's let me know the one thing she's most worried about is me leaving her.\n\nI have made it clear that I won't. I love her, and I can see through her illness and see the person she wants to be deep down.\n\nMy concern is: I don't know how to bring up issues with her, without making her retreat into her depressed shell. When I do talk to her, she says I make her feel stupid because I talk down to her.\n\nI want to tell her a few things, like for instance: \n\nYou've only been going to therapy for two sessions, and you don't like talking about your problems, but if you're going to get better you have to continue to go, and learn to talk about your issues.\n\nWe also have 2 cats and pet rats together, and she wanted to get a bunny. I tried my best to bring up the logistics (I'm impartial, I wouldn't mind a bunny and I wouldn't care if we didn't get one), but she basically shut down and cried, saying that she doesn't want it anymore because it wouldn't make her happy.\n\nBasically I was trying my best to be calm and not get her emotional, but she did anyways. I don't blame myself and I don't blame here, but I'm looking for ways to communicate better with her in her situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for 8 months, she has been with 11 guys sexually before me, and me 10, and she'll still keep in contact with former FWB's or crushes. She's very low maintenance, and sometimes I'll actually meet some of these guys. I can put on a good face and be cordial, but afterwards, I feel all weird. Like insecure as if she would run away from me for these guys. I feel I am in the right for feeling this way, but I do not want to be needy with her and tell her she has to stop talking to these guys once in a while. Is she just looking for attention? She'll talk to at least one of them a few times a month, but mostly not more than that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband is a pro chef. During the last year, he has set up or rehauled the menus of several restaurants. In all of them he has introduced his favourite providers (there might be a different word for this in English; I'm talking about the companies who sell produce) because they offered the best service, price or quality. My husband has NEVER gotten any kickbacks from this: he really chooses the sellers he thinks are best and doesn't get a commission or gifts from them.\n\nOne of these sellers is located in the nearest market from our house, so we often buy from him for our own meals. During the last six weeks we have bought from him maybe seven times and out of those seven, three times he has refused to charge us and two other times he has undercharged us (one time he mentioned the discount and the other time he didn't, but I noticed). The first time we were fine with it because it was a small sale, but it's gotten to the point where both my husband and I are uncomfortable with this.\n\nWe have told the seller that he shouldn't keep refusing to charge us or we'll be too embarrassed and won't buy from him anymore, but he just laughs it off. I do not want to stop buying from him: his produce is the best in the market! But I don't want him to keep giving us free food. The worst part is that every time he gives us free stuff we feel obligated to go and make a big purchase from him so he'll charge us (he usually charges us for the big purchases, gives us the small purchases for free). \n\nI do not think this can have negative effects in my husband's job, but it's making us uncomfortable and the whole thing is a bit ridiculous. How can we make this guy understand that we really want him to charge us for all of our purchases?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For the first couple weeks I was so depressed I could only sleep 1-4 hrs a day and couldn't stop overthinking things. Now for the past couple days I've been sleeping okay and have started thinking forwards. I still miss her, am a bit sad, and have dreams of her almost every day. Though the majority of the day now I'm fine.\n\nI've also been really horny lately as I haven't done it for a month now. Am thinking of getting an escort. I was looking to get into a one nighter or hookup for the past week but have had no luck. No matches on Tinder really brought down my self-esteem too though I think I'm above average looking. Feeling stressed out, should I get an escort for a night or will it be a huge mistake?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not long ago we got a great dane puppy who just recently turned 4 months. Beginning of last week we started noticing that he seemed to be having issues defecating. Was just getting a slight runny crap. Figured he had an upset stomache and waited a day. Next day he was having that issue as well as puking up a meal. After puking the next day we took him in. The vet initially thought it was a GI tract infection and sent us home with some antibiotics and a few others. Told us to come back if he continued to puke. That night.. he puked again.\nTook him back to the vet who ran xrays. Other than being able to tell that his intestines were bloated it didn't show anything actually stuck. We were at a point where they quoted me at $1200 - $1900 to do an exploratory surgery to see what the issue is. We're no rich couple and thats a LOT of money for us but we couldn't let him die. They cut into him at noon yesterday. Ended up being [intussusception] Apparently the intestines fold in on itself like a pirates telescope causing blockage and soon followed by death.\n\nHe seems to be doing well today considering and so far everything seems to be healing fine. Fingers crossed. \n\nI'm now looking at dog insurance and wondering if anyone else has any experience with it? \n\n[Our Baby before](\n\n[Our Baby after](\n\n[Xray 1](\n\n[Xray 2](", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey. I and my GF have been together for around 1 months. The probem is the distance between us, and we will have the distance between us for another 10-15 months(minimum) so it is really hard and annoying. The problems I am facing is, she is so deep in love with me, it hurts to see her in pain because of the distance, I have a lot of problems at home right now so can't really visit her or vice versa, but we tak around once a week now. We used to talk around 5-10 times a week before, but it is not possible due to my problems at home. She has asked for a pause before because she was have been in pain for so long, I said that we will fix it. Time has passed since then, and I have realised that my problems at might be for another 3 months at least. My thought was to break u, so she can be free from the pain I have caused, but when I talked with her about it I realised that she will be in more pain if I break up. But somewhere deep inside me I know it will be better to let her go, she might be in deeper pain for a month or so, but it will slowly get better. Instead of being with me in pain everyday, until we can move in together. \nI would really like to have your advice and point of view, am I thinking like an idiot? Am I thinking right? Do you have tips to solve this problem even better than a break up?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've met this girl at my office building. She works as a barista in my office building and I frequent that coffee place regularly. Over the past few days I've come to talk to her more and in the process getting to know a little about her such as her name, education background, near-future plans, etc.\n\nWe are by no means considered friends yet but she does remember my order and we do greet each other whenever we bump into each other (we park on the same floor of the building).\n\nI plan to ask her out but was also thinking of leaving a note on her car (using a receipt from my earlier purchase at the coffee place). The note is just to say thanks for the awesome coffee and that she'd have a wonderful weekend.\n\nMy dilemma is would it be seen as too much or creepy? She knows that I know which car she drives as we've seen each other in our cars while parking before. That being said, would it still be considered OK to leave a note on her car?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating my girlfriend for 1.5 years. Things have been going great until this past Saturday, when her parents and her got into an argument and her parents blamed me for her being \"negative\" (A common theme in their arguments, bringing my name up). \n\n(My girlfriend's parents and I have always had a rocky relationship. They don't like me because I do not like to party or drink like they do. They see this as a weird behavior I guess. )\n\nMy girlfriend and her parents got into a simple argument and my name was brought up as the cause for my girlfriend's \"negative\" attitude. My girlfriend later texted me saying she can't handle how her parents hate her because of their not liking me. She wants to break up with me because she can't pick me over her parents. I don't want to lose her, and she doesn't seem like she's fighting for us at all.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, my ex and I split up (years ago). I'm 27f and my ex is a guy. We were still friends until he found a new gf (who I never had a relationship with good or bad). This new gf started to do tons of stuff way too coincidental that was just like me. So much so, that my friends started to notice without me even bringing it up.\n\nFast forward about a year and doing anything I can to protect myself (cleaning up my online identity), I've since moved to a completely different COUNTRY and I'm getting married. However, the problem STILL exists. This time it's negatively affecting my career, and people that I meet with here to find jobs are asking me why this girl from my old home is contacting them. Nothing horrible, but spying on what I'm doing in my career and trying to make the same friends from thousands of miles away.\n\nI'm sorry to be vague but I don't want to give out too much info on the internet. I'm also not sure if this is the right place to ask.\n\nI don't think she is purposely trying to sabotage my life, I just think she is trying too hard to be like me and getting too involved and needs to move on...\n\nMy basic question is, do I confront her with a nice message asking her to flat out stop? Or do I keep on ignoring it even though its been several months on going?\n\nThanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Boyfriend and I have been dating for roughly 3 years.\n\nI trust him implicitly and don't think he would do anything wrong or unfaithful, but this rubs me the wrong way.\n\nHe will be moving across the continent next year for university, I'm staying here. In the process of him trying to find a roommate, a girl he met last year (on a visit to the university campus) reached out to him and asked if he would want to room with her. He admittedly told her \"yes\" immediately, then backtracked and said he would need to \"sort some details out.\"\n\nThis is when he told me. He asked if I would be okay with him rooming with a girl, which I told him previously I'm not, and gave me more context about the whole thing. He said he would take a day to think about it and weigh both of our feelings in the matter.\n\nBasically, I told him that I would trust him, but it made me very uncomfortable to think that he would be around this girl pretty much all the time while I'm back home, far away. He talked to some friends, and decided that he would accept her offer.\n\nThis is where we're at currently. I feel so icky about it. I've talked to him multiple times about it, outlining why exactly it doesn't sit right with me, but he keeps reiterating that it's the best thing for him since he has a tough time making friends and she actually reached out to him first. I don't want to be crazy girlfriend (he keeps saying \"you know I'll have friends who are girls,\" which has never been an issue -- it's the fact that she contacted him, he said yes without thinking of me, and then didn't mention me until after I told him he should make sure she knows he has a girlfriend).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Due to circumstances I have to live on my own, living with parents is out of the question and my little brother wants to get out as well. I am renting a room for $400 dollars a month until July and then I am on my own. I live in NJ and we want to move to Philadelphia as we are very close. I will be able to commute to work but plan on keeping an eye out in the city. My brother makes 8.75 working around 30 hours a week. I make 13 an hour working 40 hours a week and sometimes over time which is time an a half. After taxes I make 804 every other week. I am in debt 11,000 but have been making monthly payments and will be getting a credit card this Friday to build my credit and also have something for emergencies. My question is, is this doable? I will have to pay 80$ for tolls if I move to Philadelphia which will be an added expense. I am not sure if it is worth it. My current bills excluding my rent are as follows.\n75 phone\n91 car insurance \n50 towards debts\n30 misc Netflix ect.\nI am thinking 800 a month is doable, I also know we will have utilities.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Real TIFU when I was using snapchat with my gf since i'm overseas. It was fun while it lasted and stupid me decided to use the shower back n forth until I eventually gave in and decided to do the dirty deed.\n\nAs I was sending a video of me playing with my monkey, my hands were wet and my phone being touch screen. Decided to automatically click 'My Story' and post it within a second... I hastily rushed to take it off as I didn't know how so I asked my gf and ended up taking it within a couple minutes. Still a couple of friends saw it and they were eating dinner at the time but couldn't. Thats what they get :P", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I broke up with my psychotic ex-girlfriend a few months ago. It's not important why we broke up, but she was just crazy to me and it was getting annoying so I ended it. We were together for a year.\n\nSo after the breakup, she was distraught and resorted to talking shit and spreading rumors about me. A lot of unneeded drama that I really did not want to deal with.\n\nLast year I also got suspended for a couple weeks for bringing some pot into school (super dumb decision, don't have to tell me.) My ex got SUPER upset and pissed off for over a week and her mom was really chill about it. This is important.\n\nHer mom was always a bit nutty and weird but I never really had a problem with her, she seemed harmless. Honestly we always got along pretty great and she loved me but after I broke up with her daughter, she just always talked shit about me to other parents. I brushed it off, no big deal, it's just her being immature. \n\nNope, three months later, I'm talking to my friend and she says \"hey, [ex's] mom is talking shit about you to all the parents at soccer games telling them that you're '[ex's] druggie ex-boyfriend.' Like really?\n\nIt's seriously gotten to the point where I'm tired of dealing with this family's bullshit and I still have to put up with it after three months of post-breakup drama.\n\nI don't know how to handle her talking about me to other parents and calling me a \"druggie ex-boyfriend.\" I barely even smoke pot. It's immature as hell and I want to stop it but I don't know how I would.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me [15 M] and my GF [14 F] have been together for a little over two months now. Pretty early on, she told me how she was blackmailed into having sex with a horrible guy who was only interested in her body (this was about a month before we met). GF started crying the first time she told me and thought I wouldn't think of her the same way again. I understand that it wasn't voluntary, but this isn't the whole problem.\n\nI think this information has had some lasting effects on me. When my GF first told me this, I was infuriated (at the guy who did this, not her), but told her that it's ok, and that she can be a virgin again. We're both religious, so I threw some of that in my explaining to her. \n\nI think I was, and still kinda am again, so angry with this guy because I believe he took something very important form her. I don't want to sound selfish or something, but I can't help but think that your virginity should be something shared with someone very important to you, which we both are to each other. I am a virgin, and have no plans on having sex with my GF anytime soon, but I wanted our virginities to be shared with each other, and now that can't really happen. I tell her (and myself) that virginity is just a concept, but I've still made myself nearly sick thinking about all this. For about a week after she first told me, I cried just thinking about it.\n\nEssentially, I am livid about this guy, because he took my GF's virginity, when I believe that i should've been the one to do that. Whether I'm just being selfish, or we're just young and naive, I'm not sure. All I know is that this is keeping me from thinking clearly throughout the day. Maybe just posting about this will help me out, I don't know.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here are some thoughts, and feel free to chime in - this is a discussion not a debate. I believe teachers should be well paid, based on merit. They should have to take examinations and re-up their credentials on a regular basis. They are, after all, the most important people in the world.\n\nHere's the dilemma. Teacher Unions are the scummiest, worst organizations in the world. Yes, they protect teachers (some of the time) but put most of their effort in making money from (underpaid) teachers in order to perpetuate the myth teachers will die without a union to back them.\n\nSadly, in the US, teachers would likely get ass-raped by the powers that be if they didn't have a union at all. So it's kind of a catch-22.\n\nWhat do you folks think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been chatting on fb almost weekly for substantial periods of time (20 min - 1 hr) with a boy who graduated from my school last year for almost a year now and I can't tell if he actually enjoys our conversations or feels obligated to respond and wishes I would leave him alone. I've been able to see him in person a couple of times since he left for college (once when I visited his city and asked and once when he came back and said he'd try to see me, which he did.) over Christmas break I tried to see him and he was busy (legitimately so, I believe, but there was no mention of trying another time) and when I messaged him he took much longer than usual to reply so I decided not to try contacting him in case he was trying to get rid of me (I almost always start the conversation.) A little over two weeks later, he messaged me and we talked for about an hour. I messaged him about a week after to say our school had posted a baby photo of him (he's the son of two teachers, that's why it was posted) and we talked for a while. There wasn't a clear ending to the conversation as we seemed to miss when the other was online but we were having a good conversation when he just stopped responding. It's been three days and he hasn't even read the message. \n\nI can't figure out what's going on here. Does he actually want to be friends or does he just like talking to me when he's bored or am\nI the annoying girl who can't take a hint? Can I ask about it? I'm worried to say anything because it'll probably come off as needy (and maybe it is) and I'll look extremely insecure but at the same time I'm tired of constantly wondering about this. I hate that I get worked up waiting for him to reply and I'd just like to know what he's thinking so I know if it's even worth it to continue making an effort to be friends. \n\nWhat should I do? Is there any eloquent way to approach this or should I just let it be?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I had a conversation with my girlfriend last night about her friend Adam. She worked with him when she was 17 and they slept together once then she left town for about 4 years travelling and studying.\n\nAccording to her they kept in touch on Facebook and texting and her last boyfriend hated this.\n\nAbout 18 months ago she moved back home to study a masters and her and Adam hooked up a few times. She says she told him after the last time she didn't want to sleep with him again.\n\nThey went for lunch and coffee a few times around the time her and I got together but every time he tried to persuade her to come back to his place and have sex.\n\nIn the 9 months we've been together they've not been in contact until a couple of weeks ago when he text her at 4am on a Saturday clearly hoping for a shag.\n\nI trust my girlfriend 100% and I know she'd never cheat on me. The issue is she still thinks Adam is her friend.\n\nShe says he really took care of her when she was younger and they worked together and I think he's fixed her car a few times but he crosses a line when he texts my girlfriend for sex.\n\nThey may have been friends previously but whatever that was their relationship now is deeply unhealthy.\n\nShe says it's fine because she'll never sleep with him again but this is not how friends should treat each other and he's not only being incredibly disrespectful to her but also to me.\n\nWould I be in my rights to tell her she needs to cut him out of her life altogether?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am engaged, and my friend is married. He is actually more of my fiance's friend than he is mine. He has known my fiance for about 6 months now, and me for a shorter amount of time. He, my fiance and I have spent probably a total of 7 whole days together, and only about 2 with his wife involved.\n\nLast night, he spent the night at me and my fiance's place. My fiance was on the computer, and my friend and I were sitting watching TV. He held up an unopened fruit juice and asked me if I had ever had it before. I said no. He said he thought it was pretty good, then mentioned it's one of the few ways he can get his wife to drink anything that's not soda. \n\nHe asked me if I wanted some. I was genuinely curious and didn't want to say no, so I accepted. I opened it and took a drink. I told him I thought it was good, and gave it back. He drank.\n\nI have never shared a drink with someone who was not my family or SO, so this whole thing seems intimate to me. Is it a big deal or no?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been texting and snapchatting a guy I met on OKCupid for 2 weeks before we decided to meet and go on our first date. \n\nWhen we met, we clicked. Our sense of humor aligned, we both have the same views on religion and politics, and never ran out of things to talk about over the course of the day. (We went hiking and picnicking, so we were together for about 7 hours on a Saturday.) At the end of the night, there was a perfect first kiss, then some making out later, and talks of a \"next time.\"\n\nWe texted back and forth a little on Sunday, and then Monday I get radio silence. He finally texts me back these one word answers, and then eventually just stops responding. I check on Facebook to see if there's anything going on (as he's a fairly active user and uses Facebook a little like Twitter) only to find out I've been unfriended. \n\nThat was two days ago, and I'm afraid I've been a mess ever since (I know it's silly to get attached that quickly, but we had in depth conversations over the course of two weeks and I've always worn my heart on my sleeve anyway.) I know it's over, I just have no idea why. He gave me no indication that anything was wrong, and if going on that date with me was just acting then he deserves an Oscar. \n\nDo I reach out to him again for closure? I don't want to be the clingy girl that can't take a hint, but I'm kind of heartbroken that I don't at least know WHY.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this basically just happend to me Im a 16 year old high school student and basically what happend to me was I was cleaning out my pigs pen after school and I hear a truck I look out and see the truck along with a couple of people from my class. Everything was perfectly fine but all of a sudden I hear a \"BANG BANG\" really fucking loud and I was in the pen inside the building and during the loud BANG I heard yelling, then my stomach just dropped I was sure it was gun shots or something. It was extremely loud and had a Pop-ing sound So I droped the shovel and what I was doing and jumped over the walls seprateing the pens then sprinted out the back door onto a trail. After I got out far enough I called my Father warning him not to go the the Agriculture area. After the trail ended at a no trespassing sign I ran through bushes and branches getting scraped up until I reached the clearing where I ran down to the schools office. The first thing they notice is im shaking, sweating, and stuttering like a motherfucker and asked what happend. I reported the incident and someone went up to check it out. Turns out what happend was one of the older boys that were up there was angry and he has some issues so he grabed a pig cane and smashed it against the building twice breaking it. It takes alot of force to break one of those or even dent a building which lead me to belive it was a gun shot. But I don't know I just feel like a bit of a coward and a idiot all at the same time and feel kinda bad about myself a little bit. The boys both aplogized to me but i still feel like a jack ass. Along with having to go to that class tommrow I know for a fact my teacher is going to question me and im gonna get a call from the therapist. Also could this have any kind of long term affect on me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For the past few months I have been decreasingly able to show my love and appreciation to my girlfriend. We've been together for two years, and we have lived together for 7 months. Both of us work full-time.\n\nWe have both known that this has been an issue, and today (Valentine's day) would've been the perfect opportunity for me to show her my love and start to make a change... But I didn't get her anything. Not even a card. It's not because I didn't feel like it - I simply didn't think to do so for some reason.\n\nHowever, it's not just today. It's every day. I want to show her how much I love her. How special she is. I just can't figure out how. I don't know what to do. Any gestures, big or small, I just can't seem to make it up/think about something.\n\nThis has led to her feeling unwanted by me, which in turn led me to feel unwanted by her, which obviously only makes things worse. I want to turn the course of this circle the other way. \n\n.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It just happened like 2 hours ago and I'm still in shock as I'm typing this. A little bit background:\n\nWe have been together for 10 months and in the first let's say 6 months everything went perfectly. Then little problems arised, nothing big and we never had a big fight or something, I think it's pretty normal that after the honey moon phase you notice little things about the other one.. However in the last 2 weeks I often complained to her that she doesn't have enough time for me (something that bugged me since many months, but she has a really tight schedule with school etc. so I was actually pretty okay with it.)\n\nHowever today I went over to her place and after a little bit of talking and having fun we had sex and it was like always, both me and she were really into it and after finishing we cuddled. After around 30minutes of cuddling she starts crying and I was pretty confused and when she finally could speak again she told me that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore since a couple of days.\n\nI was in shock and didn't know what to say, I didn't realize what was happening ... Now I'm sitting at home thinking about what to do now... She told me she doesn't wanna talk about it today and wants me to wait until tomorrow.. I don't really wanna talk to anybody I know about it since I'm not really sure if it's over .. normally I would talk to my parents but they just broke up on monday .. so that's not really an option right now.\n\nI'm not really sure what to do now .. I don't want to give her up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met a month ago and hung out the next weekend with a couple other people. I at the time was into his friend and that's why we hung out. It didn't, however, work out with the friend. \n\nI got over him and a week later I started talking to this guy. We began flirting and went on a date on the 8th. Things really didn't work out with us either. We both really like each other, but there are a lot of complications. He's a virgin and I'm very sexual. Also, I've slept with his friend so that makes things weird. \n\nAfter a bunch of fights and discussing we've decided we should just be friends. That's hard for me though because I'm not sure exactly what kinda friends he wants to be. How do I proceed here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "xpost from /r/legaladvice as they suggest /r/personalfinance would have good insights\n\n \n\nI'm at a phase in life where I'm helping take care of many matters for my parents. I need to find who would be the right set of people to consult with (tax attorney? real estate attorney? cfa?) in Chicago, IL. Regarding my parents situation:\n\n \n\n- Only social security income (addl: help with everything i can)\n- 50-75k in credit card debt\n- Owe 300k on primary home (unable to sell, been trying)\n- Inherited ~175k property (rented it out in past - no remaining mortgage - very sellable)\n\n \n\nI need to understand the best way for them to sell both properties (tax and other implications) and protect $ from rental property sale to use towards general debt + retirement. Thank you so much!!!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I had a pretty hard day at work. I babysit insane old folk, and the one today was a nightmare. I had been holding in my pee for several hours before having an opportunity to use the restroom. At this point, I'm tired and have a headache and just want to go eat something, so I'm running my piss break on autopilot. My stomach is cramping from holding it in so long. After pissing a minute, I think I'm finished, so I stand up to wipe, and then a surprise extra squirt of pee comes out. It catches on my thigh and dribbles down my leg, soaking the upper part of my pants.\n\nI had no spare pants, and had to walk around for four more hours after that, smelling like piss. I wiped some liquid soap on it, hoping to mask the scent, and pulled my shirt down as far as possible. Luckily, if anyone smelled anything, they'd just think it was the lady I was sitting and not me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So a little backstory, my Grandma lives in New York, and my Grandpa died. She has 3 sons who live out there with her, but they are kind of jerks and not helping out as much as they can. So my dad has loosely tossed around the idea of moving to New York...\n\nHowever he has a job, home, wife, car...you know everything here. Well I texted my Step Mom (I said Dad but he doesn't really text) to find out what he and her were up to. Usually see them every week at least...and she lets me know he moved to New York and left everything behind including HER! (She has a pretty legit job she can't just up and leave on.)\n\nOn the one hand I am glad what he is doing helping his mom out. But on the other hand, I feel like it's just a little batshit crazy he didn't bother to tell me he was moving away, and left so suddenly. I'm kind of sad now because I won't be able to fly and see my Dad until at least next year...\n\nMy Step Mom won't be able to move out there for at least a year as well with the obligations they have here (taking care of the home they rent out, job, etc.)\n\nBut it is nice to see my dad do something spontaneous like this, he is not one to just up and really do something...especially if its completely change his life.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "All my life I have wanted a \"hands on job\". I hate the idea of a desk job, I hate going to university looking at a career I am only vaguely interested in. However jobs like welding and auto repair are becoming fields that need younger blood. I am almost done with my first semester at University and my current major is Social Work. I'm not too excited and I'm unmotivated to put the effort in. University is over priced and I'm not happy. That being said it's free to me. My scholarship covers tuition and all my folks have to pay is for books and car maintenance. My job: is student who will have a BS in Social Work by 2020. Sigh. There are local trade schools near me. Much closer than the University I attend. I want to search around maybe during winter break for Welding programs but I know my parents will not approve at all. They are hell bent on the idea that the only living is one with a college degree. But I'm not happy. Should I look around and not tell them or should I be upfront and risk them actively trying to stop me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just started college and there is this guy I'm very interested in. We've been talking and have hung out a few times, and we both enjoy photography so we take pictures along with another guy and he's invited me to his dorm to play xbox. \n\nI was really thinking that he likes me, but recently he was talking about his ex-gf and how she's constantly texting him and acting crazy. He explained they broke up bc she didn't want to do long distance and they still had the same feelings but now he's not really into her because of her behavior.\n\nWe went to the beach last night taking pics with his friend, and when we came back, they stopped by a dorm with 2 girls in there that I didn't know. I felt awkward so I left because they all knew each other, they are in the same class. If he liked me wouldn't he have tried to include me?\n\nHe is still texting his ex though, so I am confused.\nHe's really nice and has invited me to do other stuff, although it is always with other people.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've only been dating a month and a half or so, but whenever we hung out it was super fun, but this past week it felt weird and like I was annoying her.\n\nWe had a bunch of stuff to do that we had planned with friends so we both kind of ignored the awkwardness. Until last night that is, when I finally grew a pair and asked her about it. \n\nHer answers to most of my questions about our relationship was \"I don't know\" or \"I'm just confused.\"\n\nNow I'm really confused (and hurt I guess too). I thought everything was going great. We're seniors in high school and will be going to different colleges in the fall. Neither of us wants a long distance relationship, but still I thought we could have fun with the time we had left together. Now I just feel bummed and led on.\n\nI'm not really sure if I should completely avoid her until she's made up her mind, act like we're still kinda dating, or act like we're just friends. Has anyone else ever go through a similar thing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My University is small, so the Music Industry major is simply a combination of a Music Business and Music Technology. I'm a Sophomore (36 Credits) and I still have a little bit of time to change my schedule before the summer ends. I've been thinking about changing my major from English Education to Music Industry essentially since I discovered that that was a major. I've always had a passion for working with people younger than me and for reading and writing and general English things, and to be quite honest, I'm very good at it - to the point where those classes are too easy for me. However, my main reason for truly becoming a teacher is because I've never had a good English teacher, and I want to put more good English teachers into the world. But then I joined a Music Fraternity; and on my campus, my Fraternity is in charge of all things Sound related - at least Technology-wise. And we essentially \"run\" two out of three variety shows a year, and while I was working these I found myself absolutely mesmorized by working sound and running wires and equipment and everything else. I especially enjoyed the seemingly mind-numbing task of running XLRs along the stage, simply because I didn't really have the know-how to do anything else. But honestly I was so interested in learning more and I just had such a good time running these shows that I'm worried about how much I'd actually enjoy teaching.\n\nIf it helps, I worked out a three-year plan, and I'll graduate on time - assuming I take the Business courses (about four of them) and my Internship (Four Credits) over next Summer. \n\nSo essentially, what should I do? Should I change majors? Or should I stay in my English major?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been in a committed relationship with a kind, patient, and understanding man for 2 years now. We have been living together for about 10 months. We have talked about our future together, such as that we would love to have a child, what that child's name would be, what our wedding would look like, our career goals, etc. It is clear in our hearts that we want to spend the rest of our lives together. The communication is there, the honesty is there and the trust is there. When I bring up wanting to get engaged he says that he wants the same but that he is not ready right now. That is as much as I've gotten out of him.. that he's just not ready. He wants to wait until the time feels right. But what does that mean? How would he know when the time is supposedly, \"right\"? Honestly it's just so confusing to me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I (both 27) have been living together and dating for about two years (we started out as friends who lived together with another roommate.) I am a girl. Just need some advice, thanks. :)\n\nThe problem is that he has always had a much lower sex drive than I do. We have sex maybe 3 or 5 times a month, and when we do it is usually satisfying for both of us. But he usually just says he is too tired or that he wants to get up early so he has to sleep instead of sex, or some other barely-believable excuse. I basically just have to wait for him to initiate sex. He claims to be very attracted to me and I am extremely attracted to him. \n\nI still feel a lot of pressure to initiate sex and seduce him, even though when I do it rarely works which usually ends up with me being all excited for no reason. There is a constant conflict in my mind about whether or not to attempt any seduction and risk the rejection.\n\nThis whole situation is slowly eroding my self-esteem and I feel like I am acting like a different person more and more. I have talked to him about it but he takes it very personally (understandably) and I basically have to accept him how he is or break up.\n\nIs this a bad reason to break up? Could this be caused by his alcoholism? Has anyone found any effective ways to deal with such a situation? Masturbation is not nearly as satisfying, emotionally or physically, as sex with my SO.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and my boyfriend have been together for four and a half years! We recently moved out together and have our own lovely apartment... Out relationship seemed to be like no other.. I never questioned the love, loyalty, and honesty we had for each other. We never hit rock bottom and we never had serious issues together. Everything was near perfect. About a month ago, I was on his computer and came across his Facebook.. Which was logged In already... Found mail from a girl that lead me to look on his Skype. Went onto his Skype and found something I wish I never found! My boyfriend had a very intimate Skype call and convo with a girl he got off a webcam site! The things he said to her really hurt me... He said things I have never heard him say! The call lasted 15 minutes and they were both naked on the call, doing you know what.. I do classify this as cheating and surely he would have known i thought that.. I am having a lot of trouble forgiving him... he tried to convince me at first how he thought it was not cheating, he has since tried showing me he made a big mistake.. But I don't know if I can get past this.. It's ruined the special relationship we had together and I don't feel like I love him the same way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my (now ex) girlfriend dumped me a month and a half ago. She said she needed space and ignored me for a whole month (even thought after 1 week she told her bestfriends she had dumped me) and i had to wait that long for her to SEND ME a message saying it was over (kinda dick move). Anyways thats not the problem anymore. I want to move on because she also said she moved on. I still love her so much even thought I should probably hate her by now for what shes done. So far I told her I wouldnt talk to her for a while but its not enough, I see pics of her on fb going out and partying and shit like that and its reminding me how much i miss her. Its also not helping that if we had still been together Id be flying over to see her in a week for a few days especially since its valentines day, and her birthday. \n\nSo here is my final plan, I wana talk to her one of her friends and ask her to make sure shes alright and to make sure that my exgf understands why im cutting all ties with her (unfriend from fb, delete from skype/snapchat/instagram/messages) because she does have a \"hard\" time in life and sometimes get depressed, i just dont want to make her feel shittier even though i shouldnt care...\n\nI hope this makes sense, any thoughts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Met up with 22F I've known for 8 years and liked for most of that duration (feeling has been mutual in the past, not sure about now). Noticed a bodily feature that is not normal (I brought it up because I thought it was fucking cool, I think she is the most beautiful girl in the world FFS) and mentioned it. She is super shy and stuff but even then she reacted really coldly to my remark, but I changed the subject. That was on Friday, and now I get up at 3AM to find a facebook msg from her older sister (like 26 or 27) where she is literally fucking yelling at me for hurting her lil sister by pointing that out and how she deserves better than this. I know for a fact that if this is what is coming from her older sister (who doesn't show much emotion either), the girl I like is REALLY upset.\n\nThis is coming to me after I've spent last few days thinking about this girl and being lovesick to the point where I couldn't properly do anything besides lie in my bed punching pillows and reading love novels and shit. I don't know what to do at this point. I know I should apologize but, how far should I take this? Do I just apologize? Do I tell her she is pretty? Do I tell her how much my heart hurts every night thinking about her? Do I tell her she does deserve better than me? I'm clueless. Help me out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Got a new job. Trained with co-worker, we're friends, he's cool. Hang out sometimes. Drink after work with other co-workers. Briefly think he likes me. No idea if he does. Don't really entertain the thought. \n\nWork there for 3 weeks, briefly see co-worker daily, always nice interactions.\n\nCo-worker invites me over to hang and stay the night. That sounds like code to me, so I mentioned I thought he was cool and that I'm not keen on staying the night because seeing other guy. Never brought up this guy before. Pretty personal to be sharing at work, my dating escapades. Co-worker must not have figured it out or stalked me online enough.\n\nCo-worker is sad. Short sentences, suggests we don't hang out. Feel like I did something wrong. Mention the convo is weird, we \"reset\" and he invites me over again. This time another friend of his is coming. I've met him, we all get along very well. So everything is fixed right?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I met a guy in this city that I moved to for college, I find him EXTREMELY attractive physically, and VERY attractive personality wise, though his political views are opposite mine and he's a little less mature than I usually go for. When he first gave me his number we texted A LOT, mostly because I kind of thought we were flirting, but later he said he was like that with all his friends. I said it was fine because he ships out for USMC boot camp in January and I've been there done that with marines. We've spent some time together since then and I've decided I like him, but it seems like he's just not really interested in anyone at the moment (except for MAYBE his ex). So now I'm moving back to my hometown and I'm just wondering if I missed an opportunity, if there ever was an opportunity, or if I haven't passed the point of \"fuck it, ask him out, see what happens.\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My family has tried literally EVERYTHING to control the fleas in our neighborhood (Frontline, Advantage, Diatomaceous Earth, Dawn Dishsoap, etc!) and nothing has worked. I have spoken to lots of pet owners in my area (I work as a vet assistant) and many are reporting similar results, where fleas are becoming resistant to the usually recommended treatments. The only thing that has worked so far is Comfortis, but I've read of several dogs having reactions to it that can be pretty severe. My dogs are fine, we've used it for about a year now, but I don't like the idea of harming them or putting them at risk. \n\nGiving them baths with blue Dawn dish soap does kill all the fleas, but it does nothing to prevent more from coming back, obviously. It only kills on contact, and we are NOT going to over bath them because that isn't healthy either. We're looking for something that lasts.\n\nDoes anyone else have experience with this, or any detailed information on Comfortis and if it does serious damage to your pet's system? Yes, I know I am a vet assistant. My boss strictly recommends Frontline and literally will not listen to me when I tell him it doesn't work and my dogs are still covered in fleas and we have to use Comfortis because it is the only thing that gives them relief. He is not a resource in this case. \n\nJust wanted to see what other pet owners (specifically ones in San Diego) do for fleas...the ones we have here are mutants or something, because almost nothing works on them!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together over two years, I am a 20M in my third year of college, she's a 19F in her first year. She has been saying that I am distancing myself because of my job (I am an RA at my college, and she goes to a different college). While that may be true, I have a job to do, and I can't spend my time worrying about myself and taking on her tribulations (she's having a hard time making friends at school and uses me as a \"safe harbor\" to avoid her school and potentially new friends, which is a problem considering if I cut her off, she will have nearly no social life). I think if we both take some time for ourselves (a year or two), then we can get rid of all of this stress, and if it's meant to be then we'll get back together.\n\nIs a split-up the best plan? I've been thinking about this a lot and that's the best option I've come up with, which is unfortunate.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So. I'm under the distinct impression that it is bad form to ask out someone when they are at work. I've only done this once several years ago when I didn't know better. \n\nLately I have been noticing this young woman who works at the local convenience store. I find her to be friendly, warm, and incredibly attractive while still not quite being out of my leauge (even though I know that's not supposed to be a thing). \n\nIn the last month I've been seeing her in there a lot more on my way to work as I've had to go in early. Otherwise it's pretty rare that I see her working there during my regular schedule. We've been making a little chit chat here and there. Sometimes it goes pretty well and I love when I manage to make her laugh. \n\nMaybe it's stupid and just a little crush that I should get over. A few years ago my cousin started dating a girl he met when she was working at a gas station. They are now happily married. So it must have been okay for him to ask her out at some point. \n\nWhat do you think? Do I keep building a rapport with her and see if it goes anywhere? Do I try to kick it up a notch? Or do I forget about her altogether and go back to scrolling through online dating sites?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we're both college students, studying at our respective locations. He's studying at school and I at a coffee shop. I offered to pick him up at around 8 when the library closes so then he doesn't have to walk home.\n\nI end up taking ~20 minutes to get to school due to traffic, etc. He's been waiting in the cold for 20 minutes. Then he gets in the car. He asks, \"was traffic bad or something?\" and I reply with \"yeah, there were cars on the --\" blah blah, proceed to explain the situation of traffic. He then stays in a bad mood the rest of the car ride, not talking, then instead of studying together like we were supposed to I just ended up dropping him off because he was in such a crappy mood.\n\nPretty much he was mad at me because I didn't say \"sorry\" for making him wait in the cold for 20 minutes while I was picking him up. I however didn't feel the need to say sorry because I came as fast as I can, taking however long it was because of many cars on the busy street near our school. Plus I was doing him a favor by going out of my way to pick him up. Am I wrong and illogical for not saying sorry? He claims it's common sense to do that, \"Because saying sorry if youre late and caused someone to stand in the cold is common sense\". Because I still made him wait in the cold by taking a while. Or is he overreacting? I'm new to relationships so I don't know what to do :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend of 3.5 years goes over to his ex wife's house, and stays there to visit his kids. I've tried everything to tell him that I am not comfortable with this kind of behavior, because I think it is not normal. His excuse is that it costs too much money to drive back and forth, so I have offered him money for gas and to pay for activities for him and the kids(I work most days when he has them) so he doesn't have to spend the time there. He still refuses to stop going over there. I am at my breaking point with this and I need opinions.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I got together at the end of our junior year of high school and we are now sophomores in college. We have both been each other's first everything- first relationship, first love, first sex partners, etc. I know that I love him, but at this point I am only 20 years old and don't think I know whether I am ready for this huge step!\n\nHe has expressed that he wants to marry me one day; I have expressed that I don't want to think about marriage until I'm at least 25. I'm a very motivated person and career-oriented and want to accomplish a lot of things before I settle down, get married, and have children. \n\nI don't want to break up with him. There is no one else in my life that I am interested in romantically and my boyfriend is literally the best boyfriend ever. He may lack in the romance department, but has greatly improved since I've talked to him about it. He's a great guy- he goes to UCF and I go to UF and so his transferring would generally be an improvement, I don't really feel bad about that. \n\nBut sometimes I question whether I want to be with him forever. Forever is a long time, and he's the only thing that I know and have experienced. I have other friends that are living with their SOs but they also are already contemplating engagement and marriage, while the idea of that scares me.\n\nWould it be okay to move in with him when I'm not as sure about him as other people are in their relationships? Or maybe do I just have a fear of commitment? My parents are divorced and I haven't witnessed a really strong long-term relationship before, so this is possible.\n\nHELP!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ive been online dating. .. getting closer with one girl but still texting and meeting others. \n\nThe girls ive been meeting are all nice in their own way, but what should i do if i end up being exclusive with 'Mary'? \nDo i drop all contact with the other girls because they may be attached emotionally? Or do i keep talking to them ? Im very undecided. \n\n'mary' knows ive been on a few dates apart from her.. and it makes her second guess how i feel for her. \nHave not had sexual encounters with anyone. Apart from Making out with 'Mary'", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To preface, I was really open about sex in the beginning of the relationship. I told her that while I do not mind if she had done it with anybody before, she should let me know as I had never done it with anyone before her. I also made it very clear that I wanted to give up my first time with somebody special, and a year into the relationship, I decided she was the one. I had 3 fairly serious girlfriends before her, but I never got to the point where I wanted them to be my first. \n\nI honestly feel a little sick looking back on our relationship now. She would joke about how she took my v card and how I took hers. She always said how she was happy I was her first. I feel really betrayed that she could lie to me so easily for so long in the relationship. I believe this is the end of the relationship. \n\nAm I crazy for feeling so betrayed? I'm talking to my girlfriend tomorrow to likely end the relationship.", "role": "user" } ]

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