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"content": "Okay, to start off with my girlfriend has been going through some shit this year. She found out her Grandfather is terminally ill and her parents are splitting up, obviously she has an excuse to go a bit crazy. We also have this kinky thing going on where she does stuff with other dudes, which was my idea and I'm pretty comfortable with. I tell you this because of it's relevance to the situation. also, about a month ago I found out she messaged a saying she loved him. Honestly if it wasn't for what she's going through I'd of ended it at that point but she said she was just trying to get him to like her and nothing els.\n\nSo, lately she has been acting strange and it's been getting me down. She never really sees me and cancels on me but then goes out with other people, she says I'm smothering her when I try to talk to her for half an hour when I haven't seen her all day. I mean fair enough but she doesn't just say she doesn't want to talk, then when I do get to have a meaningful conversation she just says things to hurt my feelings. \n\nI've tried talking to her but she just says there's nothing going on. Things are a bit better now but what I have got out of her doesn't make sense. She once said, \"I feel like I have nobody to talk to and you never help me.\" \nThen ten minutes later it was, \"I just feel like you're smothering me.\" I explained that I can't help if she doesn't give me a chance to talk to her about it.\nWhat do I do from here? Could it be something to do with another boy? Is she just having a bad time?\n\nObviously there's allot more to it but this already feels long enough, hoping to get some help, thanks for your time.",
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"content": "So this didn't happen today like many other posts on here. This happened 5 years ago and I went on a residential at school. I arrived at my room with 6 other friends and we all unpacked. I noticed I didn't have my toiletries bag with me. I thought I must have not packed it by mistake. All I have to do is ask one of my friends if I could borrow their stuff. Only, I decide not to do that. \nIt was an exercise based trip with a lot of sports in the middle of the summer so it was very hot. I went swimming in the ocean, playing football (Soccer), caving etc. \nI speant all my money on the vending machine buying mints to try to keep my breath smelling bearable and I wore a hat at all times because I can imagine my hair was extremely greasy. \nI can't imagine how bad I smelt and nobody told me. Now here is the worst thing about it. My toiletries bag was with me the entire time. It's just that when I had to pop out of our room when I was unpacking, one of my friends picked up the bag by mistake and instead of putting it back in my suitcase, they stuck it on the floor behind my suitcase and when I pushed my suitcase under the bed, it pushed the toiletries bag back to the wall. I didn't realise until I was packing to leave when I did a quick sweep to see if I left anything, to find that bag pushed up against the wall.",
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"content": "Just 2 weeks ago, my family and I went to a shelter for rescued pets and got a 1 year old cockapoo. Ever since he got home, we (mostly me) have been training him everyday. Since he just got neutered when he got home, he felt very insecure and would bark at anybody who would come in the house, room, etc. That was the time when my parents, siblings and I had a talk about the dog. My parents didn't want him because they thought he was a threat to our family and might bite one of us eventually. That was the first reason why they wanted to give him back to the shelter UNTIL, my dad became attached to him and gave him a second chance (which didn't last very long btw). So then, my dad gave him a week, and he stopped barking at us. after that week, we decided to keep him but just today my mom called everyone again and had a talk about the dog. My mom and dad want him back in the shelter again since he kept peeing, pooping and making messes inside the house. My mom was very stressed and I said it was okay to give him back. Tonight I kept crying and the dog is still here. That just tells me what will happen later on when he is gone. I just want someone to give me advice on how to not be sad about this without forgetting about him. I would really appreciate it. Thank you",
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"content": "We've been together for over 2 years, but just lately things haven't been great. As soon as we get home, the TV's on, laptop's are on and we barely speak a word to each other. Without sounding harsh, I feel that I genuinely make all the effort, but he's not so interested.\n\nFor example, I'll start up a conversation, and he quite literally stares at the TV and won't respond. When I tell him I would like a response and I'm wondering if he heard me, he says he \"has nothing to say\". I don't interrogate him, I just talk about different topics I have in mind!\n\nAnd then he says we'll go out for a walk together, go to the beach etc and when the day comes to do these things, he ends up telling me he doesn't want to. \n\nI have depression, panic attacks and my dad passed away end of last year so I'm not in a position where I feel overly confident about myself. If he looks at the TV whilst I'm talking to him, I take it to heart. When he spends more time making plans with his friends than he does with me, it really hurts me. \n\nHe knows all of this, and that I've put him on a pedestal because he's all I have right now. I've put college, Uni and my passion for travelling on permanent hold because those things weren't going in the same direction as he was, and he knows this.\n\nIs he taking advantage of the fact he knows he can get away with an easy life because I'll never leave? To me, he's a genuinely sensitive and loving person, but I think he favours doing things the easy way and making life as comfortable for himself as possible. How do I resolve all of this?",
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"content": "If you are going to tell me what a horrible person I am don't because I already know.\nLength of Relationship-- 5.5+ years\n\nAnyways...I have been in a relationship with my now ex-boyfriend my entire time in college. I have graduated and am currently employed. We broke up today (he broke up with me but I felt the same way). We have had a very toxic relationship for a while. We both have had emotional abuse from both ends. We should have ended it a while ago.\n\nHe wants to get together this weekend and have one last talk. Over the summer we were apart and we didn't speak for weeks. I was in a very bad place in my life and I hung out with an old ex. We didn't have sex but we did make out and things got a bit touchy-feely.\n\nMy question is..Do I tell him this weekend when we get together for one last talk? He is planning on admitting me a few things to me, ( I don't think it is cheating) in order to clear the air. Or do I let things be and not burden him with this?",
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"content": "Ok so after breaking up with my partner of 4 years last month, my friends/family encouraged me to get out there, meet folk, be merry. \n\nI did this, at the suggestion of one of my friends I joined a dating site. I met someone who despite living far away said she often visited my area for work. We had a good time chatting but honestly I just got this real strong friend vibe from it. \n\nWe casually flirted, she was really graphic on what she wanted to do, and like an awkward idiot I just kind of nodded and said \"wow great.\" \n\nWe talk everyday and she'd been hinting towards the idea that we were dating (we've never met in person). I don't know why but I was like ok and I went with it. I didn't see a harm in it. Unknown to me, she meant that we were an item, a couple if you will. I thought it meant we were two people seeing if we wanted more. I could handle that. \n\nNow she's telling me about how her sister has seen me on Facebook, her family and friends know about me, and like I haven't told anyone bar one guy about her and even that was \"Well she's nice but there's no spark.\" \n\nThe problem is, and I'm not proud of admitting this, I worry that if I say I just want to be friends I will actually lose the friendship. She is great to talk to, and we have a lot of good conversations but there's just not that spark on my end, she just feels like one of the guys to me. If I'm brutally honest, she's really helping me forget about my ex and while there's nothing romantic there I really could see us being great friends. \n\nWhat on earth do I do?",
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"content": "Hi all,\n\nI'll try to keep this short. \n\nIn 2014, TimeWarner tried to charge me $90 (which I genuinely owed them) but was incredibly stupid about how they went about trying to get it from me. I was a continuing customer, paying a monthly bill, but they never bothered to call or email me about the charge, which they ended up sending to a collection agency. After being contacted by the agency, I corrected the issue with TimeWarner. Seemingly issue resolved...\n\nThen, in the summer of 2015, I get more collections calls about the same debt. I investigate with TimeWarner, and apparently it was just an error in their system sending out the same debt. Caught it early, so no damage. \n\nThen today, I discover on CreditKarma that my score was hit (~800 -> ~750) and I had no idea why. Turns out that TW sent that was $90 debt to another agency in February, but that agency never bothered to contact me, so it actually ended up hitting my TransUnion report. Both TW and the agency were WAY less than helpful on the phone today, and I'll have to spend some more time with them tomorrow... but it will be resolved, at least in terms of me not having to pay. \n\nBUT, the real issue is that I'm about to go to Law School this fall, and I'm looking down the pipe of about $50k in private student loans that I need to apply for this summer (to cover the first year). I've still got decent credit, my parents will cosign, and I'm going to a great school with almost sure prospects of landing a BigLaw gig in NY, but still I'm worried that TW's incompetency is going to cost me $$$ down the road in higher interest rates.",
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"content": "I'm a 25 year old guy from the UK, got asthma but nothing ear-related. Back story is that last week (monday to friday, today is wednesday) I went camping and on the last two days got a bit of a cold + hayfever and got nice and snotty. During the drive home my ears popped plenty of times. Fast forward to Sunday morning and I wake up with a blocked ear. I used drops and a syringe kit, got a chunk of wax out but still no better. By Monday night the tinnitus (which I usually have albeit quite low/quiet) was driving me insane and it was really getting me down. The non-emergency helpline suggested I go to the hopsital due to the driving/congestion I had on Friday. \n\nHospital accident and emergency department have a look (about 10 seconds!) and say it's a viral infection where the pressure changes have sucked gunk into my ear and there's nothing to do except decongestants and wait it out. Fine.\n\nToday is Wednesday, went to the see the doctor as it's not getting any better and honestly it's getting me down. He said much the same. Fluid behind the ear drum, no medicines etc... though after I explained my fear that it'd get infected and hence stay blocked for even longer he gave me antibiotics.\n\nPlease AskDocs, what can I do?! How long does this type of infection/blockage last? How can I make it go away faster?\n\nCurrently I have no/little congestion (my nose has been clear for the last few days aside from the odd hour or two) and my hearing is perhaps 10% of what it should be in that ear. In terms of abient noise... yeah right... headphones (over, not in-ear!) give me a bit of sound. \n\nEven just having an ETA on when it will GTFO would be great as it feels like it just wont go away :(",
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"content": "This happened last Friday night, but the consequences didn't fall upon my person until today.\n\nBit of a back story for relevance - I am temporarily living with my Mother again and she stared dating this guy, we'll call him \"Stew\". Stew is a major doucher and uses her, then makes her feel like shit, when I come home from work I have to deal with it. They've been on and off dating for 5 months now.\n\nSo last Friday night Stew and my Mother have another falling out, where my Mother comes home all upset because he is being a major asshole again. After she settles down and goes to bed, I text my sister about it. I wax poetic of how much of a prick Stew is and how I am tired of having to run damage control.\n\nJust as I send it, I realize that instead of starting a new conversation with my sister, I actually responded to an old group text my Mother sent to me, my sister and... Stew.\n\nThe next day when I come home from work my Mother says she was pretty pissed at me, at first, but then realized I was right and told Stew this was wake up call for both of them. From the way she put it, it was implied everything was fine and they even made plans to go out of town next weekend.\n\nSo today I come home from work and my Mother is in tears, informing me Stew just broke up with her, and he used my text message as an excuse. She then goes on to tell me she'd rather be treated like shit then be alone.\n\nNow my whole family hates me.",
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"content": "Before the summer started I met a very intelligent, kind man at a local bar. We were instantly very interested/attracted to one another, but I soon realized that he had a lot of baggage from past relationships. He had been cheated on by two other girls, who he promptly cheated on in return. He told me that for 7 years, he didn't have a girlfriend, just FWBs here and there for awhile. After a month of dating, I went on an overseas trip to visit family. He stayed in town and promptly cheated on me with one of his old FWBs. Something seemed off, so I broke up with him(only AFTER breaking up with him did he tell me about is FWB). He was pretty harsh during the breakup, telling me that he didn't mean to hurt anyone by it, and saying that it was no big deal. When I came back to town, three months later, he texted me out of the blue, asking me to hang out with him. I ignored his message. But I miss him, a lot. I want to get back with him. All my friends/family warned me about him, but I just don't give a fuck.",
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"content": "I had this $500 secured credit card with PNC for almost two years. I also rode along my mother's car loan. Earlier this year I applied for PNC cash builder and was denied, but was approved for target credit card (5% at target), sallie mae (5% at Amazon), and Amazon credit card (I did this one before learning about sallie). I was initially given 300 limit for target but they upped it to 800 after five months. Amazon and sallie both gave me 3100 limit.\n\nI recently applied for pnc cash builder again and got denied again. They really don't like the loan amount vs my income. Anyway, now that I have some real credit rolling, can I go ahead and terminate the secured credit card? It charges $3 monthly and I don't see a reason to use it now that I have cards that give me rewards. I would like pnc cash builder because that's the checking account branch I use, but I don't see the car loan going away in less than two years. I suppose there's citi double cash card but I doubt I'll qualify now that I had so many hard checks this year. The secured card is the oldest credit line I have so my credit score will probably take a hit when I get rid of it. Sallie/target won't take the cards back though right?",
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"content": "I work for a huge technical company. I was just promoted to Technical Lead or Engineer III in October. The excitement was short lived though. 3 weeks later they announced they were closing my facility. Now I went from elation to depression. Sure, I could relocate but that really is not an option for me and my family at this point. There are no other job prospects in this area to make any where near the money I was. What do I do? I took a huge long shot and applied for a Technical Program Manager position. No way I get this promotion but whats the worst that can happen?\n\n5 Interviews later I got the call last night they are going to offer me the position. I get to work from home and travel as necessary to manage technical projects and its another promotion and puts me onto the manager path from the technical path. \n\nIt is incredible. I am speechless. 3 promotions in 3 years and all my issues are covered. It feels amazing and has yet to fully sink in. \n\nI had to tell someone and this is the digital version of screaming as loud as I could.",
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"content": "The story goes that back in the early 1990s she decided to cook a whole salmon for a dinner party. She went and got the wild beast, already cleaned, from an excellent fish mongress near her house in NE Ohio. The fish mongress asked if my grandmother was going to prepare it in the DISHWASHER.\nMy Grandmother, looking very confused said \"I've never heard of that!\" The woman went on to describe the process:\n\n-Season the fish with a little salt and pepper inside and out.\n-Wrap it tightly in two layers of heavy duty foil.\n-Place the fish in the top rack of your dishwasher and run it with no other dishes or soap present.\n-Serve immediately.\n\nNeedless to say, it was the best salmon she and her guests ever had, and I wanted to share it with all of you.",
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"content": "I've (M[21]) been in a relationship for a year and a half with F[22] and it really has never gone well. I think we want different things and we are not overly compatible. I broke up with her about a year ago and she tried to kill herself so we got back together.\n\nThis week I met an F[19] who I think I'm really compatible with. She and I talked for a few hours and we have a lot in common. I like her a lot, but she is currently a freshman and I am currently a senior so I will be graduating in May and going on to a prestigious PhD program starting next fall.\n\nSo here are my questions:\n* What should I do in regards to my current relationship? I know I need to end it, but I just don't know how.\n* What should I do in regards to the other girl?\n* Do you think my feelings for the other girl stem from my distaste for my current relationship?\n\nI appreciate any help you give me.",
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"content": "Hi, r/relationships.\n\nI'm a 20-year old who wants to stop studying, however my parents want me to keep studying. Currently, I'm sick of it. I'm trying to become a teacher and the stress is killing me. I want to stop because this is making me extremely depressed which has already had a negative impact on my relationship with my girlfriend. I've studied for two years flunked the first one, started the study for teacher and passed the first year easily. I'm now in my second year and I just can't anymore, I've had some suicidal thoughts (not that I'm going to act upon it, i just had the thoughts you know).\n\nSo with these feelings I came out to my dad to express my wish to quit my studies, effectively dropping out and my desire to start to work. I got shut down pretty hard, as soon as I told him he looked at me in disbelief (understandable, since I was always the one who was going to achieve big things without ever needing support from anyone). He basically told me he wouldn't support me any longer if I quit studying (because you will have failed, you've already come so far etc. etc.). I have a wonderful girlfriend who knows of my desire to quit and supports me all the way. \n\nI didn't tell this to my mom, but my dad told her (which is fine). Now every chance she gets, she tells me she expects me to keep studying until I have my degree. I've already told her, that even if I get my degree I won't be a teacher. But she insists I get it. \n\nHonesty the whole ordeal has made me very unhappy as a person and affects my daily life to a large amount. I want to drop out and begin working but I don't want to lose my parents (and family) by doing this. \n\nI know my story is a bit pathetic, but I'm incredibly sad right now.\n\nP.S. : my parents and I have never had a good relationship, feelings are never discussed, never had any talk about sex or the likes. They love me a lot, I know they do. Communication has been lackluster to say the least tho",
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"content": "Ok, not sure if this is the right subreddit but I'll give it a shot. \n\nDetails: When I was 25(f) or so I was dating my ex 28(m) at the time. Needless to say it ended badly. He cheated on me with his roommate, got her pregnant and refused to move out of the apartment where he was living. I realize now it was probably stupid to ask or try to salvage the relationship but I was very naive.\n\nMy issue is that I still have a very strong feeling of betrayal from the whole thing two years or so later. I thought we had a little rocky relationship but I loved him so much and never thought he would cheat. I even discussed him having a female roommate who might of had feelings for him before hand in a rational manner and we (me, ex and roommate) talked about it to make sure it was all out in the open and I thought they were adult enough to handle it since my ex said he wasn't interested in her. Also I had worked with his roommate in my job and didn't think she was the type to cheat...\n\nI think it was also so shocking because I got the news by my ex calling me and telling me his roommate was seven months along, he was going to be a dad, and that he wanted to work it out with me. The fact that my judgement was so wrong, and that he knew but didn't acknowledge that she was pregnant and played a boyfriend to me for seven months was so soul destroying. A fact that both he and she chose not to say anything and string me along was cruel...\n\nQuestion: I still have feelings of sorrow, pain, anger and betrayal and I don't know what to do to get over it. I lucked out and found a great guy who was 10x better than my ex but I can't seem to get over this. Every once in a while this issue/feeling rears it's ugly head and I feel helpless and pained. It's not constant like it was in the beginning but after two years why haven't I been able to leave this in the past? Time really hasn't made to much of an impact on making me \"feel better\".",
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"content": "The bank I go to has the cutest teller working inside during the afternoons, and I try to make up reasons to go just to see her. The problem is that when three tellers, or whatever, are working, no guarantee I'll get her window. I can't really just tell the person behind me, 'No no, you go ahead, I'm waiting for the cute one.' Anyway, We've talked a few times and flirted mildly. I was super-thrilled to see that she had a copy of an R.A Salvatore book - the fourth in the Drizzt series. So she's really pretty AND into geeky fantasy? I'm there!\n\nSo the question is, well two really, How to I find enough excuses to keep going back till I get her window? No guarantee she'll even be working that day anyway. And secondly, I feel kind of creepy hitting on a woman who's working. Like, she can't get away or whatever.",
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"content": "Sometimes the pieces to a pattern emerge, and they seem ominous...\n\nIn 2013 my wife and I were living apart as she dealt with a death in the family back in Michigan. An opportunity to live in her former home of Seattle emerged, and we converged our careers there. A year into our living together, she was unhappy with her job and started traveling for work as a consultant 4x a week. I basically see her on weekends.\n\nSix months ago she was obsessed with a big, beautiful new house in San Antonio and seemed convinced that would be where we'll start a new chapter in our life. So we bought the house (we both contributed equally) and I convinced my employer to let me move my job down there. So far so good. One month before we're ready to move she gets misgivings about Texas, saying she didn't like the culture.\n\nNow my wife has accepted a new job in San Diego. So I'm making elaborate plans -- for the second time this year -- to transfer my career to a new location. It's not easy.\n\nTonight she said that if I don't like living there (who wouldn't like San Diego?) or if it's too much hassle for me to move my job that she's \"done\" adjusting her life to make me happy. She says I was bitter and difficult about adjusting to Seattle, and I 'ruined' the experience of living there by not agreeing to buy a house right away.\n\nThis floors me... as it seems I am the one doing all the adjusting to her changing demands. She says if she changes her mind about San Diego after a year or two, she's moving back to Seattle. \n\nFor the last two years she's also discussed getting a divorce for financial reasons (we get hit pretty hard with taxes, but the suggestion hurts..)",
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"content": "Hello reddit. I have an old Acer laptop I use daily and recently it stopped working. I followed the instructions to refresh it but that didn't fix anything. I don't really want to take it to shop because I was really into 4chan a while ago and downloaded a lot of porn and Nazi imagery. (Not an actual Nazi in fact I'm half black) I dont want the repair guys to see that stuff as hate speech is illegal where I live and all the tech guys are Indian. I'm also only 17 so my dad might find out too. I want my files and computer back, but I'm not sure that's going to be possible.",
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"content": "Yesterday I broke up with my girlfriend of almost a year and half, due to myself falling out of love, which resulted in me not treating her the way she deserves to be treated. I did what I thought was best and told her about this as we promised to always be honest about our feelings, and predictably the conversation ended poorly.\n\nI had been feeling in such a way for a long time, and I tried waiting to see if the feelings would come back, but they didn't.\n\nShe is absolutely broken and I have told her that I still want to remain close (as close as you can be as ex's) and that I didn't want to disappear from her life, nor her from mine. \n\nI feel the worst I have in my life for this happening, and even though our relationship isn't what it once was, I still care for her wellbeing immensely.",
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"content": "I am in a committed relationship with her and now i feel like i am not connected with her at all. we got committed right before my college was getting over. But the thing is i still havent cleared all exams and also i dont have a job yet. Now during this phase she started to not appreciate me like how she used to. like she used to mock me whenever any simple thing goes wrong.\n\nThis got to me and i started getting less attached to her. Now the problem is i dont have many close friends to talk to. She was the only girl i was close to.Other than that there are just a few friends who are just \" hi bye \" kinda friends. I also have a lot of problems at home as parents are too worried about my future. Now since parents started getting worried and she started mocking me infront of some people it started affecting my self esteem like any thing. I started procrastinating because i scared too much and now i started wasting so much time, not doing anything because i keep worrying about what she does.\nSo yeah after she started mocking me, she started getting closer to other people which is cool but then she flirts with them right infront of me which is very upsetting.\nFrom a relationship where there was no domination, its starting to look like she is taking advantage of me being cool with her talking to her friends.\nIts taking a toll on my life and my thoughts. \n\nAnd one more thingis, i used to say i'm going to do this do that, which my friends made me realize that i was asking permission from her when thats not my intention at all. I realized that i am really insecure. I am not happy at all.",
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"content": "So I met this girl a couple weeks ago and we became friends. We became friends because I would help her with the relationship she was in. She would tell me things about her boyfriend and things she was annoyed with him about... and their sex life. LONG story short they broke up. She would still talk to me then find me walking in the halls. Then sometimes she would text me too. Sometimes I would catch her staring at me.\n \nOne thing that is difficult is she is popular. I am an inbetweener. She is also really pretty and I think she is WAY out of my league. But one of my friends (who is a girl) said that she mite be playing hard to get. She also has never asked to hang out with me, but does with her other guy friends. I really don't know. I don't want to make a move then ruin our friendship. So I don't know if she likes me or she is just being friendly. I don't know if I should try to go for her either. Any advise would be helpful. Thank you",
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"content": "Last night I had another in a series of bizarre dreams that I've had scattered pretty evenly time wise accross our 8 months of both dating and knowing each other (we met online and hit it off immediately). Last nights was particularly rattling, and like the others was very realistic and I ended up making swings at my boyfriend's face. It's so weird because there's no difference in how I feel when I go to sleep as to when these dreams happen. I had one once after I was a little annoyed at him, and last night's, the worst one, was after we had an amazing time in the city seeing a concert and I went to sleep happy. \n\nWe are overall completely fine, he's really busy with his job which is annoying but I don't care because he's doing what he loves and making money, but overall we really have no clash of values, rarely argue (not out of suppression of any problems but because we really don't have any), and everything's overall hunky dory. \n\nWhat could possibly be the issue? I love him n stuff",
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"content": "So my girlfriend got kissed by this guy at a party \"out of the blue\". She says that she pushed him away instantly and gathered her girlfriends in a room crying for advice on what to do now. She didn`t tell me until she came back to her place. (I was waiting for her)\n\nWhen she told me I didn`t really believe her, and frankly it didnt hurt me at first. We went to bed and she started crying over how much it wasn`t her fault and that the kid had been kissing alot of other girls that night. She begged me not to break up with her, and I forgave her after listening to her (but not fully believing her unlikely story).\n\nWhat should I do now? This is the second time in our 5 month long relationship she`s kissed a guy. The other time (in the start of our relationship) she made out with another guy and cried to me etc.",
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"content": "Unlike most stories on this sub, this actually happened today. \n\nGiven that me and my girlfriend had an empty house, we decided to engage in some rougher-and-louder than usual sex. By rougher, I mean we had discussed face slapping and choking and the like. So during, I started going to town - basically slapping the shit out of my girlfriends face. \n\nThe more I did it, the more into it she seemed to be and as a result the more I did it. It was a vicious cycle. \n\nAnyway, after finishing up and engaging in some post-coitus snuggling I noticed that the area had bruised slightly. Slightly became more noticeably, which became a large bruised area and a blackened eye. This is obviously a pretty big problem, however the real piss-icing on this shit-cake is that tomorrow evening we have a barbecue with her family. \n\nOh I forgot to mention, afterwards both of us revealed that neither of us are actually into the face slapping. She was into how into it I was, and I was into how into it she was. So this entire experience has been for naught.",
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"content": "I just started going out with this girl, we both just met each other too. \nI am a private guy, I like intimacy and privacy. However I just noticed this girl has a very active facebook, and it's making me very uncomfortable when I'm otherwise very secure of myself and confident around her when we're out together.\n\nShe has like 1k+ friends (compared to my sub-200 count, I hate fb.), and any posts she makes (boring/trivial to awesome news/photos) gets like 30 - 50 \"Likes\" , and they're all from dudes.\n\nI really like this girl and I guess I am starting to assume \"why I like her\"... what do you guys think? Should I continue pursuing?\n\nI'm posting and asking 'cause I wanna get a sense what 'is normal'... and I'm struggling if I should just ignore it and own the fact that the other thousand dudes can like her but I'm the one going home with her, or if I should quit it now since I'm looking for a serious long-term relationship and not a playdate.\n\nAlso, it's a 3-5 year \"interval\" between any single date I actually secure, I'm used to getting rejected. So now I'm actually super stoked and treasuring the fact that I have someone that is interested in spending time with me, which is making it even harder to decide what to do...",
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"content": "I won't go into too much details. We were madly(atleast I was) in love with each other, but due to some circumstances we ended up breaking up. The love was very real and at many levels we were closely connected. Although we both had been in a relationship previously, we both were each other's first love and for both of us this was the first meaningful relationship and she was definitely my first real love.\n\nHowever we ended up having very nasty breakup and we haven't been in touch in anyway or form since then. We might never ever talk to or contact each other in our entire lives.\nBlocked from WhatsApp,FB, Email and all. No way to contact her except by going to her home which won't happen.\n\nCurrently I think about her all the time. The end was bitter, the everything before it was like a beautiful dream. It's been three weeks , so the pain is real and heartache quite strong. She haunts my dreams and I sometime feel so lonely without her that I end up hugging walls and crying.\n\nYet, today I'm think about her a *little* than I was 3 weeks back. I can get through 30-40% of my day without thinking about her at all.\nIt was 0 -5% percent 3 weeks back.\n\nI'm just wondering that maybe in few years I can attain a state where I can go through days or perhaps even months without thinking about her at all. That the pain of losing her would only hurt me once in a few months.\n\nPeople who've been through nasty breakup or still regret losing your first real love, I would love to read your inputs.",
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"content": "I've had a rough year last year. I was getting over my big ex and now I found myself with someone else. Luckily this was a huge step in letting go of the past. I finally stopped thinking about anyone else other than my current girlfriend. However she forgot my birthday. I became upset and told her I was not ok with her just leaving me alone like that. She claimed she was tired and didn't want to do anything with me that day. I didn't speak to her for a few days I was so upset she completely ignored me. I confronted her about it. She said she doesn't want to fight and said this relationship is no longer what she wants. I was angry. \nI don't like it when someone to constantly say \"i love you\" then the next day throw you away like trash. I felt like trash. So for a while I didn't talk to her but we ended up hanging out together as friends. While we were friends we went on dates kissed and even had sex. I thought she was really into me again. Last night I asked her to be my girlfriend she said no. Then I asked her to leave. Her reason was that she loved me but not as much as she used to. Before she left she said she wanted to continue going on dates but would like more time to think about things. A mutual friend asked her if she would date me again and she said yes however she wasn't ready for a relationship yet. I'm not sure if I should continue seeing her. I feel like my heart was ripped apart when she said no to me last night. For now I want to be alone for a week without seeing her. after that week I have no idea if I should continue our relationship. What should I do?",
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"content": "We're both freshmen in college (yes, he's 17, he graduated high school early). We met here and instantly had a connection. We are both wanting to save sex for marriage, which is wonderful and I'm so happy, but I'm having a difficult time trying to release my built up sexual energy.\n\nI just started taking an anti-depressant and it has made \"self-pleasure\" very difficult and not appealing at all, therefore I have a LOT of sexual energy with no way to release it. To top this all off I just got a job for the first time in a pretty stressful environment and that's not helping this situation at all. Him and I have recently become more sexual and it's pretty much my fault, and I feel terrible. When I'm not around him, all I want to do with him is snuggle and hold hands and just love him with everything, and then we hang out and I get extremely horny. I don't want this relationship to be ruined because it turns from love to lust. Neither of us want to be this sexual.\n\nI don't really know what kind of advice I'm looking for, sorry about that. I just don't know how to fix this.",
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"content": "I have a coworker [M, 25] that likes me [F, 25], and he's been trying to go out with me for months now, ever since he broke up with his ex GF. He first asked me out at the end of last year, but I told him I don't think it's a good idea to date coworkers (especially since we work in a very small office, and I didn't wanna be his rebound anyways). \n\nHe's still unrelenting - always complimenting me, flirting with me, suggesting date ideas, etc. Honestly, I like him too, and I was just about to finally give in when... \n\nAnother coworker in our office told me that this guy is expecting a baby with his ex-GF. She's about 6 months pregnant now, which means that he's probably known about it, and HID it from me, the entire time he's been coming after me. Everyone in the office seems to know except me, which is weird because he usually tells me all his secrets and doesn't tell anyone else. The other day, in front of a new coworker, he flat out DENIED ever getting a girl pregnant when the subject happened to come up, and I desperately wanted to call him out on his lie. \n\nDo you ladies think I should confront him about it? I feel used/deceived. Why would he know he's got a baby on the way, yet hide it from me and still try to ask me out? Even if I didn't like him like that, why would he keep it from me as his friend? It's hurtful that he would feel the need to exclude this life-changing event from me. \n\nAdvice? Thoughts?",
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"content": "First lets get the basics out of the way. \nMe f/20 the boyfriend is m/27 Relationship is 6months long and we have lived together for the past 4months.\nMy boyfriend left his phone home today while he's at work. I usually use his phone anyways but i did something so horrible. I went through his e-mails and in the beginning of February we broke up for two weeks and he slept with another girl. Well we got back together and the e-mail i read was in the end of February from that girl saying she was pregnant. I'm at a loss for words. Granted he's never heard from her since February and she has his cell number, e-mail accounts, and she knows where we live and there's been no other mention of this \"baby\" once he called her out on it but isn't this something he should have mentioned to me? \nI don't believe her anyways she just really wanted her belongings from his house.\n\nThen there's the responses he sent to females on craiglist (before we even met). I don't hold any of this against him but he responded to transexuals as well as gay men looking for \"Tops\". From reading the e-mails it doesn't sound like he's ever gone through with any of the meet ups but it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nI feel awful that i invaded his privacy but now i feel more awkward about what I've read. So what should I do if anything at all?! I'm really stuck here and feel like i have no one to talk to that could understand.",
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"content": "Dear reddit,\nlet me explain the situation. I'm living together with my parents & my brother. We're living in a relativly tiny village. Since almost 2-3 years we all can feel that the communal life lost it's sparkle. Our interests spread apart (which is ok & somehow inevitable), the motivation to take an interest in another is low too. \nLast year I finished my school education. After that I started a voluntary service for 1 year, which will end in a few months. Therefore I need to start (actually already started) to look out for an apprenticeship/study. My parents are making suggestions where I could start and it's always something where I could keep living at home cause it's not far away. But that's not something I want... I want to live alone. I want to move out and start my own life. I just don't feel comfortable anymore at home. \nMy parents know I would like to go somewhere else, they know it's my dream to finally start my own life, they know it but I'm sure they refuse to believe it cause they always come with silly excuses when I'm starting to talk about that topic. My mom always ignores all my intentions to make things clear. She doesn't take it really seriously. My dad once told me that's because she doesn't want to let me go, but hey I can't be her little boy forever. \n\nHow can I explain them that I'm serious and not just dreaming? Does someone of you had a similiar situation? \n\nOf course I love my parents and I know they love me but it's time to move out, it would be the best for me and they would benefit as well.\nSorry for some inaccuracies, feel free to ask anything.",
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"content": "I got in to work today to find that I will be training someone to take over someone else's shift.\n\nI've only been here an hour and so far, he's shooed me away from things, taken things out of my hands, interrupted me to boss customers around, and every time he does something the owner would kill him for (i.e. using the wrong soap or cups) I would let him know how he was supposed to do it, to be cut off by \"yeah yeah yeah, I know how to do it.\"\n\nHes apparently worked at a different location previously and has forgotten a lot but insists on doing everything himself. When I try to tell him I need him to do something else he flat out says 'no.' Hes been in a phone call for the last 15 minutes.\n\nIts just his first shift. I know I have to put my foot down. But how do I do so without starting an argument? I'm stuck here with him until 10 and will probably be training him again after today, but I need to make it clear that he DOES have to listen to me sometimes.",
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"content": "So I got my review and most of the areas had \"above average.\" I'm apparently an \"asset to the company\" and I was recommended to be in a leadership role in 2015.\n\nI know I have to ask for the raise, they wont be just giving them out. I want a 20% bump. Considering when I started they said they were going to pay me a little low because I was brand new in this field, and now i'm going from unskilled entry level to skilled entry level, I feel like it's justified. Also, i've busted my ass the last year.",
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"content": "my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half and 10 days ago we said he needed a break because recently we were arguing more and moved in with some friends for a bit. \n\n5 days ago he said we should talk, so he came over and we talked. he says he's very hurt and doesn't know how he feels about me and that he needs time and space and to not be pressured into doing something. I gave him space, we decided it's okay to hang out together once a week, to hang out with mutual friends, to text each other. he also said he was surprised of how well I was handling the break, he was expecting I would be more upset and sad. \nI haven't seen him since, we exchanged a few texts afterwards and this morning he messaged saying he was going to ask me to hang out today but that he was sick and it was contagious. i didn't expect him to want to see me so soon.\n\nwe're going to be hanging out in a few days. what should i expect? could it be a sign that he's approaching the end of the break? could it mean he misses me or still loves me?",
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"content": "So I'm in college and trying to meet as many people as possible. For some reason, I tend to immediately get turned off if I find out that a girl is in a sorority. I am personally not the most social person and don't really like going out to many parties, but that is exactly what a lot of these girls love to do. \n\nSpecifically, there is this girl in one of my classes that I like and we get along really well, but she's in a sorority. Let's say, for example, we started to date. I don't know how comfortable I would be knowing that she would be at these party's, while she, and many other guys, would be drunk. \n\nIs it in my best interest to not pursue girls who are in a sorority? Or do I have a false sense of what some of these frat and sorority parties are like and give it a shot?",
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"content": "Long story short, I was sobering up the other night by the time I got home. I offered to let her stay on my bed instead of getting the couch like she normally gets. Instead I quickly changed my mind and asked her if she could scoot over. She happily obliged. Nothing happened though, and we were really tired so we just passed out.\n\nNow, she could have told me that she would just take the couch, or could have just said no. And I would have been absolutely fine with that. It's just that the couch was half way across the house, and my bed was just there, and I was within the past few hours, heavily drinking. \n\nThe next morning she said \"I realized I could have just slept on the couch.\" I didn't comment on it, but she did say during the night I kind of got closer to her. She said she didn't mind.\n\nDoes this mean anything? I mean, the last time I was in bed with a woman, we ended up fucking. I honestly don't know if she's attracted to me in some way, but she does tell me her parents want to meet me quite often, and she tells me they think we are together. Or at least fucking.",
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"content": "My sister recently came down to visit me in college over the weekend. Long story short, my ex boyfriend (21M) and I have a rollercoaster relationship that should've ended completely a long time ago but whatever reason we still hookup which I agreed to (I'm the one with feelings) as long as I was the only one he was hooking up with. My sister wanted to meet him still though. So we (sister and I) hang out with him and his fraternity this weekend, go drinking, I notice hickeys and as I get more drunk--I get more upset and when we get home, I kind of lock myself in my room to cry for a bit. \n\nNow, my sister is still in high school and I am responsible for her this weekend. So while I'm crying, she decides to head over to my ex-boyfriend's apartment building and go to their pool party and hooks up with this guy who I had told her earlier has a girlfriend (who I know personally). She doesn't tell me where she is, I have to text my ex to find out this information. \n\nHer actions really hurt me because I expected her to be there for me (we are/were? really close) and instead she went to hang out with the person who hurt me and decided to participate in cheating (I guess not actively but she knew). My sister recently got out of her awkward phase and is now super gorgeous, but all the attention sort of went to her head which is I suspect part of the reason why she did all this. What do I do? She hasn't apologized and told me she can't talk to me because she'll say something mean (meanwhile I've been like hysterically crying...rough day). I care about my sister so much and it feels like my life has been full of people I care about hurting me recently. Do I keep her in my life? How do I proceed with this? My family is really tight-knit and I've (sort-of, without some details) told my parents and they say I should just get over it and it was partially my fault for leaving her by herself for an hour while I cried.",
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"content": "Hello /r/weddingplanning!\n\nI am very new to this sub and I am obsessed! I'm not engaged yet myself but SO and I have talked a lot about it and it is in our near future for sure :) ANYWAYS. I'm specifically fascinated by all the wedding dress photos that people have been posting. One thing that I find myself constantly wondering as someone who will be shopping for one is 'WOW, how much does that beautiful thing cost??' **So I'm wondering if y'all would be ever so kind as to post photos of you wearing your dress as well as including the following info: dress name, cost, place of purchase, size?, and any other info you'd like to include regarding the dress.** I think this will be great to see all the posts in one place (and feed my new wedding planning obsession) :)\n\nI realize that there are already subs dedicated to wedding dresses but they are so small. So I'm posting here in the hopes that we can get many people posting their dresses and then we can all gush over them in one place. \n\nAnd a side note on future individual dress posts:\nIs anyone interested in making a 'requirement' that dress posts include 'stats' in the post title? Similar to how /r/progresspics requires body stats so we understand the context. This would include things that I mentioned above like dress name, price, place of purchase, etc. Can even include dress size for more context (unless poster is uncomfortable sharing that info). What do you think?",
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"content": "We had been together for 1,5 years, it was the first really long and serious relationship for both of us, and some days ago we broke up.\n\nTo be honest we had enough of eachothers little problems and flaws and we had no more patience for problems like this. In the last weeks we had some seroius fights and breaking up was a constant topic.\n\nNow we broke up and we are both really sad and everything. When I packed my things to move it from her, we both cried. I feel like I still love her and I think she still loves me.\n\nYet if we were together we would probably fight almost daily.\n\nI freakin don't know if we did the correct thing.\n\nHas anyone been in a situation like this? I would like to hear the consequences please.",
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"content": "This happened a couple months ago. My husband and I spend most of our time working in the overseas, and we recently came home to the U.S. for a year to apply for another long term visa. We decided that we should spend that year trying to have our first baby.\n\nWithin a week after making this decision, I realized I had missed my period. The next week I took three pregnancy tests at work, and that's right, my Mexican ass is knocked up. Instead of telling my husband right away, I came home from work and made a cookie cake that said \"I Got Knocked Up\" and a bunch of cupcakes with letters on it that, when unscrambled, say \"I am pregnant.\" \n\nHere's the FU part. Since we spend a lot of time overseas, we don't have many close friends, but we had a few people we had begun hanging out with and I invited them all over that night to play Settlers of Catan. When my husband got home that night, they were all there waiting with the board set up. I brought out the cupcakes I made and told them all to unscramble them. My husband stared at the cupcakes for a minute and said, \"I am pregnant.\" All our new friends were super excited, but my husband just sat there dumbstruck.\n\nFinally, one of our friends stopped and asked my husband, \"Dude, are you just finding this out right now? Ohhh Shit.\" My husband and I went into our room for about a half hour and he was pretty upset that he didn't know first and we didn't decide together how to tell people, and how he was put on the spot in front of practical strangers. But then we made up, cried, called our parents, and then rejoined our awkward guests for a game of Settlers.",
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"content": "So I've only been running since about May or so. Lost 60 lbs in the process and worked my way up to be able to do the Leavenworth Oktoberfest half Mary this past Saturday. \n\nPerfect weather, sunny, a little chilly to start. I felt great and had what I considered a fairly lofty goal of 1:45 (8 minute mile x 13.1)\n\nSpent the miles chasing this older lady who didn't look like she should've been able to run as fast as she did. Passed her towards the end in a full on sprint to the finish. I felt awesome! Looked at my time and saw 1:37.\n\nMan it felt nice. But I found out a couple days later that someone working the route didn't know what they were doing and didn't direct runners down a little .8 mile dog leg. So I (and apparently a LOT of other people) only ran 12.3! Man I'm bummed. I would've gladly given up making it under my goal time in exchange for actually having run the full course! At least I have my plans for this weekend... I'm running a full 13.1 so I can finally say truthfully that I did it and get over the feeling of being cheated. \n\nEver have something like this happen on other courses? I think some of the full marathon runners missed it too. How would this affect their BQs? So far no answer from the people who ran the show.",
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"content": "Been dating this girl for 6 years. We both agreed it would be best if we both had stable jobs and completed our education before thinking about marriage. \n \n\n2 months ago I caught my girlfriend sending text messages to a 'friend' from church. It wasn't the fact that she was texting a man it was what they were talking about. One message from the other read something like 'i hope we can be in a relationship in the future'. Even after this she still continued to talk to him. Once I saw the message I confronted her about it and she acted naive and said she would end it. \n \nFast forward to last night. After a date at a concert and a couple beers she receded to the bedroom. As I was not ready for bed I walked into the bedroom to grab my charger and a night shirt. I found her shirt up and pants down. I asked her what was going on and she replied that she was just taking a picture. I brushed it off and went back to what I was doing. \n2 hours later I climbed in bed and noticed her phone was still playing music. I reached over to turn it off and noticed that her indicator light was flashing yellow and she had a snapchat. By this point I was concerned that the picture taking was related so I opened snapchat to a single message 'wow I was not expecting that'. \nCurious as to who this guy was, and I admit at this point I am in the wrong, I searched her messages for the user name. It came back from a Facebook message from a guy who is friends with my sister and they had met at my sister's wedding 9 months ago. \nI woke her up asking who was so and so and why he would send her that message. Her reply was '... I didn't send naked pictures to him tonight' \nTo make a long story short I broke up with her.",
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"content": "We've been together for six years, married for about eight months. We have switched between different forms of birth control (condoms, she's usually on the pill, etc.) throughout our relationship. I wanted to get a vasectomy because we've been together for some time and very luckily never gotten pregnant (there've been some close false calls but nothing like her having to get an abortion or anything). We have both been DINKS (double income no kids) and both staunchly believe in a child-free life. We have explicitly talked about this over the years and have always been on the same page. She found out and now is very upset with me, four days ago, and barely responds to me. I had to cancel the appointment and am in a sort of limbo I guess. I don't want to do anything until I sort this out as if I do it now, while she's angry, she'll feel more hurt and angry.\n\nOf course I asked her what difference does it make, we're both child free, etc. She said it's still a joint decision regardless, we use birth control now, there's no need, why are you changing things, you don't trust me? etc. Okay fair enough, so I apologized. Can we talk about it now? She said she was still angry and put me off.\n\nSo how should I approach this? I have apologized since and bought her a gift but it's a no go. I know some of you might think she obviously wants kids but I doubt that's the case at all, we've been on the same page since literally we've met. Think I've just screwed up majorly. Advice? We're heading into the weekend again and this is one of the longest fight we've had.",
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"content": "I'm a lurker here. I know I don't have the karma to back this up, but I am really real, and I've seen what the hive-mind can do, so I'm going out on a limb and asking for advice on medical and legal fronts here. \n\nI recently moved to the East Coast from Utah. A couple months ago, I was shocked to hear my mother call and tell me that my 27 year old brother (living in Utah) had been diagnosed with cancer. Luckily, he received primary treatments, and his cancer is in remission. \n\nHowever, he was medically advised to get post-chemo treatment to make sure that the cancer hasn't spread (it was a particularly aggressive type). These were supposed to last for 5 years, twice a month for one year, once a month for the next year, and once every couple months for years 3-5. He had surgery to remove the tumors 3 months ago. \n\nHe had been insured under the policy my dad got through his job, but my dad's company tanked recently and my parents lost almost everything they had (including our family home). My brother told me today that he missed one insurance payment last month, and now the insurance company has dropped him as a client. \n\nThis means that he is facing the next 5 years without any medical help. No doctors, no medication, nothing.\n\nThere has to be something I can do, but I'm just kind of shocked. My family are hard-working people, and my brother is a full-time college student as well as a nearly full-time worker. He has looked in to the pitiful excuse for public health options they have at home, but no luck. He *is* a member of the LDS church (I'm not), so if anyone knows of any outreach to the LDS community, or any church-based help for people in such situations, those might be good options. Other than that, I'm just really looking for advice. What should I/my family/my brother do?\n\nThank you very, very much in advance.",
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"content": "I have a friend I met in a hobby group, and I've known her for the past 5 months. We weren't super close or anything, but our hobby group became a bit tight knit near the end of the fall semester and we started hanging out more, like going for drinks and dancing. Sometimes when we danced she would get very close to me, but I was very recently broken up so I wasn't in the mood to be pursuing another relationship so quick. \n\nOn the weekend I held a small party at my place, and people got very drunk. By the end most people left, and she lived far so she crashed at my place. We were cuddling outside while people were indoors, and after they left we started to dance, which then lead to making out, and she got topless, but it didn't progress past that. We also slept in the same bed that night. Basically, I don't know what happens now since I've always been pretty quiet and awkward and never in this situation. She's attractive, but she's not my type, plus my last relationship was great but ended due to long distance and it still stings. Do I contact my friend to talk about it, or do we ignore and pretend it never happened? Haven't talked except me asking one text if she was going to this event on campus.",
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"content": "So, I've been seeing this guy for 3 years and we've had our fair share of issues with adultery/cheating, which I thought we had solved.\n\nRewind to few months ago, I randomly saw his phone go off and saw a name pop up with a text. We'll call her Quinn. I'm just kind of curious so I ask him about it and he doesn't say anything. For days and days, I try to get an answer out of him and finally he tells me he's known her for years and plans to have a relationship with her but she has a husband and baby. He explains that she's \"unhappy\" and \"stuck\" in a relationship she doesn't want to be in because they live with the husbands parents.\n\nI really honestly don't believe it, for one, if you're unhappy in a relationship, just bring that Shit up. Two, if you're married, I understand feeling trapped, but why would purposefully try to CONSTANTLY hit up someone else's significant other (going either way with that.)?\n\nSo, we have an argument, I give up, and it goes away for a while. Until he leaves his phone unlocked one day, and seeing as we've had problems before and he grabs his phone away from me any time he sees I have it, I look at the conversation going on. He's telling her that he's unhappy with me and that he wants to actually be \"happy\" and actually love someone... I broke down. \n\nI brought it up as calmly as I could and instead of explaining he went off on me for \"invading his privacy\" and left like he always does when he's losing/has no way to defend himself.\n\nMy question is, what should I do about it since he won't listen to me and it hasn't stopped? I really can't handle sharing a man, as bad as that sounds, and I don't want to control him.",
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"content": "So I have a skills verification exam for an entry level programming position coming up soon, and Im curious what it's like and what questions are asked. I did incredibly well on every programming class I took (Computer Science major) and have a really good handle and understanding of C++ with a good bit of C and C#. However, It's been a while since I've looked at some/many topics and given the time frame it's not practical for me to refresh myself on 2-3 years of programming. The things Im fuzzy on I know that I would be like \"Oh Yeah!\" the moment I got inside MSVS or went to actually start working on something but on a pen and paper exam I wont have the resources or time to make that happen. Just trying to get an idea of what I have in store for me.",
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"content": "Here's the deal, my wife and I have talked in the past about the fact that I get jealous sometimes when she travels for work. It's usually when she goes to conferences that have multiple late night parties and stays out late. I'd call that my main trigger. \n\n.\n\nIn that context she's usually hanging out with groups of people she works with frequently but its still hard knowing that she's out so late going to clubs and bars and parties.\n\n.\n\nRight now I'm dealing with a new situation, she went to a trade show as opposed to a conference. Shes hosting a booth, the guys in the booth next door to her invited her to come out for dinner at 5. anyways she said that she just didn't want to eat alone. I knew I was starting to feel jealous but I told her to have a good time and just ignored it. I did ask her to send me a text message when she got back to her hotel room safe and sound. Part of it is also not trusting a bunch of random guys\n\n.\n\nCome 1:45 in the morning tonight I had still not gotten a text message. \n\n.\n\nI texted her to see if she was alright she said she was \"Great, I'm heading back to my room now.\" Am I crazy for being super jealous right now?\n\n.\n\nMaybe.\n\n.\n\nHow do I deal with these feelings? \n\n.\n\nWhat should I say to her about her staying out and my feelings about? \n\n.",
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"content": "So I guess this is a relationship between me and society. \n\nOften I'll be in a class, or on the street, and feel the need to speak to someone, to tell them something about themselves. Ill see somebody and just know I have to go up to them and say \"Hey, that person you've been fighting with? Tell them you are sorry.\" Or \"He loves you, dont be afraid to love him too.\" They know what I am talking about, and thank me. I'm afraid though. Is it just coincidental, and I'm going crazy? I often ignore these urges, because I don't want to seem crazy in front of my friends. I also don't want to become some spectacle that people come to, asking about all their petty issues. What should I do?",
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"content": "First, my apologies if this has been answered before. I couldn't find any reference to this here on Reddit nor on Google.\n\nSo back in 2009 I had just heard about backdoor Roth IRA conversions, which would help me because I had an AGI north of $150k. I opened a new Traditional IRA Account with Vanguard and made 3 non-deductible contributions to it between April 14 2009 and January 2 2010 (covering CY 2008 ($3k), 2009 ($5k) and 2010 ($5k)).\n\nAround January 2010 I did a backdoor conversion from my Vanguard Traditional IRA to a brand new Vanguard Roth IRA. The total was around $13700.\n\nAround May 2010 I rolled around $50k from a 401k I had with a previous employer to my Vanguard Traditional IRA.\n\nWhen I did my taxes for 2010, my accountant said I would be subject to the pro-rating since I had \"mixed\" pre-tax and post-tax money in my Traditional IRA. Even though the balance of my Vanguard Traditional IRA was 0 between January and May of 2010, he said because the account had contained both pre-tax and post-tax money in the same calendar year, the IRS considers the money \"mixed\". I took his word for it at the time, but after reading tons of articles on backdoor Roth IRAs, I've started to wonder if he was correct.\n\nDoes anyone have any information on if this is true or not? I tried reading the instructions for form 8606 and it makes my head hurt. Any clarification or links to where the IRS addresses this would be most helpful.\n\nThanks!",
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"content": "So I met this guy at the beginning of the school year, thinking that he was a pretty cool dude to hang out with. I was nice to him, cause he was nice to me.\n\nFast-forward to a few months later. I'm sitting in class, next to him, and I see flecks of white stuff coming out of his mouth. Like those little wet white boogers that you sometimes get. I was concerned about this, not for his sake, but for mine, as I didn't want any of that crap getting on me or my stuff. I decided to keep a close eye on him from then on.\n\nI wonder now whether or not if knowledge is better than ignorance, cause I go through a living OCD hell of one huge dilemma; getting the fuck away from that disgusting boy.\n\nHe rotates his jaw while his mouth is closed, and then professionally blows out a ball of condensed phlegm, just like how those Amazon tribes blowdart animals for food. He spits out his inner mucus around his radius of 5 feet, splatting everything with that fucking disgusting fluid of his. He spits on the inside of his shirt, on his hands, on his pants, on his comb, on his backpack, on other people; basically everything.\n\nI could perhaps tolerate his presence if he didn't spit on his dirty fat paws, and start using them to touch other things. Worse, he's a very touchy feeling kinda person, so he tries to touch other people and me. I try to avoid him like the plague, but he has some kind of a homing sensor and he pops out everywhere I go.\n\nI don't know what to do. I fucked up by being nice to him, and he's trying to get close to me; literally and physically. Redditors, what should I do?",
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"content": "We are both in High School yet, and when my ex boyfriend (Lets call him \"Randy\") and I started dating in mid September this last year, 2011. We were together a little over a month, so through October, but during that time he was extremely pushy about everything, and with everything. He couldnt keep his hands to himself, and was abusive physically and verbally. We would be sitting in the park nearby my house, and he would push me down onto the picnic, pin me there, and run his hands up my shirt and down my pants. I had a curfew to be home by, and wouldnt care, he'd keep me pinned on the table grinding his nasty body against mine. I would tell him I didnt want this to happen, that I wasnt comfortable, and he told me that if I didnt go along with it that he would spread word around that I was sleeping with all these different guys, that I was smokin' it up everyday, that I cheated on my past boyfriends with someone else, etc. So naturally I was scared to say anything against what he \"wanted to do.\" Along with pinning me down, he would take my hand and force me to give him a handjob and would try to thrust my head down to give him a blowjob as well. \n\nThis happened on numerous occasions...I feel so guilty right now for not laying down ground rules and boundaries, and Im full of regret that had anything to do with him. \nWhat scares me though is that this all happened in September-October 2011, and I just filed sexual harrassment against him last month or so. The reason I waited so long was because I was afraid to talk about it to anybody, I was constantly angry so I distanced myself from people. Until I finally opened up to one of my closest friends about what he did, and she suggested I file sexual assault.\nSo now I have to write a victim impact statement, and I was wondering if Reddit had any tips for doing that? I believe myself to be good with words, but I just want this to be the best possible so that (hopefully) something will be done.",
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"content": "Hi, here is some background info on me.\nDue to my weight I have gone to the ER for the first time at 19 due to chest pain, and twitching(thought I was dying). The doctors said it was from stress, and that I need to learn how to not be so stressed out. Gave them my insurance info, turns out my insurance was obsolete, mom never informed me, so they billed me about $900. Ever since I have made an effort to try and pay off the debt, even getting a second job, and haggling to a lower monthly premium. Since then however I lost both of my jobs and was unable to pay it. Strangely, they just stopped taking the $75 from my bank account every month. \nIn fact, this has caused me to believe that I might have been scammed because...\nI called the debt collector Grace, she never picks up\n\n * They don't send me letters anymore about the debt\n* Every time I call she seems to be away* Once I called and they said she \"switched directories or w/e\"\n* They don't send me letters anymore about the debt\nI have also been sent another bill from the hospital. I was in a car accident and was hit from behind by a truck. Somehow I lived, but my spine has never been the same. I am nervous about paying this bill because of my experience from the last. I don't even think I can pay it off due to my other debts that piled up from me losing my jobs. I make $7.50 an hour, how can I pay off this money while affording to eat...??",
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"content": "Sorry the title was long, this might be to. It's a kind of specific situation that I'm not sure how to approach. I work part time a fast food place, usually at the back preparing food while she works at the front serving customers. Because of this there is literally no chance or time for us to talk. However a few people left from the front so I trained up there with her today for 2 hours. \n\nIt went fine, we laughed and chatted, got to know each other a bit and we were both smiling a lot. However I'm not sure if I'm working at the front after this so that might have been my only chance to talk to her - ever. I've wanted to get to know her ever since she started, she has such a cute smile is has always been friendly whenever our paths have crossed but now I don't know what to do. I learned today that she's a year older than me (she's 17) and going to uni next year. I can't stop thinking about her and I don't know what to do. She was so nice to me but I might never see her again plus if she's older than me is that weird? I mean where do I go from here? She's clever, we have a similar personality and I really really like her, a lot but I don't know how she feels about me. I've only spoke to her for 2 hours just... what do I do?\n\nSorry if this was kind of a vent I just really need some advice, what the hell do I do? I think I'm fucking in love with her. I'd really love some advice here.",
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"content": "We were together for 6+ years and had been fighting a lot, among other things. I decided to break up because I thought we couldn't resolve our issues (we'd tried and failed), he told me he thought I was giving up on us, but I disagreed. I really thought I was making the right decision. We agreed not to talk anymore, and he basically disappeared from the radar. \nThe thing is, I regret it so much. I want him back; I had a lot of time to think and reflect about it and realized I made a huge mistake. I know he still loves me, and I'm 90% sure he'd agree to talk to me about us and the possibility of staying together. I just don't know what to say so that he'll forgive me for all the pain that I've caused him... :(.\n\nWhat I'm asking for is advice on how to handle the conversation. I want us to get back together, I love him dearly and I'm willing to do anything in my power for us to be a couple again. But I'm not really good at talking and explaining myself, or my feelings... so I would really appreciate if you guys could give me a few tips on how to handle myself, how to prepare and what to say.\n\nThanks!",
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"content": "My best friend's girlfriend introduced me to a friend of hers on a blind double date setup a couple of months ago. That night went fantastic, we hit it off immediately, got a kiss goodnight, everything was looking up. We go on a few dates, walk in the park, dinner and a movie, etc and things continue to look up. The one problem we continued to have was not really communicating, we would not talk/sparsely talk for a week or more between dates, it seemed like we just didn't have a lot to talk about. We had sex, the sex was great, we both left extremely satisfied. But despite that, and the fun we had on dates, we continued to not really talk. Both of us, realizing this was strange, apologized for the lack communication and promised to improve. Yet we still kind of drifted apart I guess, meanwhile we still meet to have sex. I'm not sure who's fault it was really that we didn't talk as much as we should, probably mine regardless. So I broke it off, so to speak, because I felt like we were both putting on a facade as far as the relationship side of things goes and I offered to continue our friendship. She was relieved to hear all of this as she was feeling the same way but she requested that we still be available to one another sexually if either of us was getting horny or whatever. We had an awesome productive conversation about it and agreed to be FWB for the time being. Fast forward a month and we have continued having sex once a week or so. Sex continues to be good. I know very well that she is not interested in more than a FWB relationship, and I remember a time very clearly when I honestly felt nothing toward her romantically but despite the logical side of my thinking telling me to move on, I feel an aching love-sickness especially now as her Ex is in town. I know that I should not feel this way, but I honestly cannot help but get that dreadful tight feeling my chest thinking about her with someone else. What do I need to do reddit? Any advice would be more than amazing, Thanks for reading.",
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"content": "My mom adopted him in late 2009. He was sent back from the shelter TWICE, despite the fact that the shelter strongly warned the adopting families that Bart was a mature, independent cat who didn't do well with children and needed to be the only pet. Apparently, when he was returned, it was because he was \"mean.\" My mom adopted him, let him do his own thing in the house, didn't get in his space at all, a month after she adopted him he jumped into her lap.\n\nNow, he follows her from room to room. He's friendly and loving to both me and her, and loves sitting in our laps- which can be a problem, because he's a HUGE cat who weighs like 18lbs! He's a giant panther cat stalking around, but he's a sweetheart, and even acknowledges and accepts strangers now (if they offer attention)!\n\nPoint being, if you're going to adopt, PLEASE make sure you listen to the shelter about the temperment of the cat. Cats are wonderful, loyal, loving creatures, but they are NOT submissive, they are NOT dogs, you CAN NOT \"train\" them (past a certain point), they will not BEND to you. You can support them and take care of them and they WILL love you undyingly, they will follow you around, purr in your lap and constantly try to attack your feet from under the bed. Just acknowledge that they are little people with personalities. :) Bart is a CHARACTER for sure. :)",
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"content": "Original Post: \n\nSince we broke up we haven't talked much but agreed to talk about how we are going to handle the Caribbean vacation tomorrow. That wont be happening it looks like. Tonight I get an email that she cancelled my flight. I started doing some digging and was able to find out that she is now going on the vacation with her ex fiance.\n\nYou guys called it there was more going on. I am cutting all contact with her so I can have a clean break and move on to the next part of my life.\n\nBy the way anyone know of a fun place to travel with my flight voucher from the cancelled ticket? lol (I'm in the US)",
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"content": "For the uninitiated: Default subreddits are subreddits with a certain number of subscribers which makes them visible to people who aren't signed into reddit or haven't added or removed any subreddits.\n\nI'm finding some of the default subreddits (i.e. atheism and politics) tend to be very off putting, it's not even about the principle of what is being argued or discussed but the way in which it is and the communities comments behind them.\n\nBasically they're offputting and can scare away people who don't agree with these set of narrow principles these sorts of subreddits offer. So if you're religious you might be put off, if you're a Republican or conservative in general you might be put off, so on and so forth.\n\nSubreddits which are more neutral and encourage intelligent discussion tend to be far more welcoming to all, subreddits such as videos or funny's are neutral anyway and would probably be a good 'hook' for new users.\n\nI hesitate to recommend reddit to friends because they might see some of the incredibly narrow and arrogant opinions expressed in certain default subreddits and just associate that with me, which is not something I want.",
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"content": "Hi.\n\nWhen I was in fifth grade, at 2005, a beautiful girl asked me to be her friend; and we were together until six months ago, that's around 9-10 years. I can't remember the times I wasn't with her. I don't have a memory which doesn't include her.\n\nI was never comfortable around people, and only with her I was relaxed, I could talk comfortably only with her, and we always said that we won't leave each ever. I was very happy.\n\nAnd things start to get bad. I couldn't met her expectations. She got depressed, and I couldn't help her; I couldn't find correct words to say to her, and I couldn't make her happy. After the treatment for her depression, she (correctly) left me, and blocked me everywhere except one messaging service.\n\nAfter that, I was just making myself believe that she'll be back, we'll be together and happy again. But she clearly isn't. Recently she told me that she's with someone else, he loves her very much etc. \n\nAnd there's me now. My only memories are with her, I don't talk with anyone except my coworkers. I don't feel *anything* since she left me, I'm not sad, I just don't want anything. I have a job and working for M.S degree, and I just *continue* them, without doing anything for my life. Every day I think about her for a few minutes, and I just feel angry, I don't know why.\n\nShe isn't returning, she made it pretty clear. But it left me in a pretty bad situation, without anyone to help. This is the first time I'm saying these.\n\nActually I don't know what I'm trying to achieve with this post. Maybe writing about it helps.\n\nHave a nice day everyone.",
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"content": "Recently, my birth family acquired a puppy. Cute little bugger of a Frenchie that would brighten my day immensely when I saw him.\n\nHowever, I managed to get away from my abusive birth family by going to the police, and since then a contract has been in place that I am not to go home. I don't want to go home either, but I haven't seen my dog in months and I really,really miss him. \n\nHow do I cope with this? Is there any polite way to ask my new guardians if it's possible to bring the dog over for a little while? I'm not even sure if my pup's around anymore. :(",
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"content": "Hey guys,\n\nSo this happened about an hour ago. \n\nI work in a very small office. There's only 6 people in the entire company. Everyone can hear everything from each others desks.\n\nMy boss is away on a conference right now and the 5 of us are at our desks. So when there's a knock at the door that's very unusual.\n\nSo this man comes in, he's wearing this side opened singlet, I can see his ribs, he's got wild, messy hair and ripped jeans.\n\nMy first thought was \"Oh god. A homeless person has walked into the office and is going to ask for money\".\n\nBut then he says \"I'm here to see James\" (not real name).\n\nJames is the graphics designer and my boss' brother in law.\n\nJames is busy on the phone, so this guy starts chatting with me. Makes a comment about my star wars mug and we talk about the new movie. He seems like a nice guy.\n\nJames finishes with the call and says \"Ok, lets go outside and chat\".\n\n15 minutes later James comes back on his own and I say \"Hey James, no offence intended to your friend, he seemed like a nice guy, but when he first came in I thought he was homeless and was going to ask for money\".\n\nJames responds with \"That's my brother in law. Your boss' brother\".\n\nMy face goes red and the entire office has been quiet since the incident.",
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"content": "Short and to the point:\nHe's a great guy to other women in his life but me. He flirts with co-workers (even ask them to meet up for a drink, goes wine tasting with them, fixes things around their homes etc)\n\nI don't think he's getting too far with these girls but I think he's hoping.\nHonestly, I don't know what his deal is. All I do know is that they aren't his gf, I am but I'm not getting the perks those girls seem to get from him.\nI asked him to help me with somethings around my house and it was like pulling teeth. He got my hopes up about us going on a romantic vacation and after 2 months he has not purchased the tickets but has excuse after excuse. \nOur 1st big vacation together and he downgrades to \"Lets go camping an hour away over a weekend instead.\"\n\nI'm heartbroken, disappointed, and so my question \nWhy ask a girl to be your gf and tell her you love her (never felt this way about anyone yada yada yada) but treat her the way I'm being treated??\n\nI'm unhappy and feeling like I'm going to call it quits any day now.\nI tried before and he was really upset. He tells me he Loves me but his empty promises (still waiting on that trip and home repairs in my bathroom) just hurt and make me upset.",
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"content": "We've been together for over a year now and I feel very insecure and bad about myself from him liking suggestive photos of girls he's had a past with while being in a relationship with me. He has also liked photos of many half naked girls on instagram and followed many. \n\nNone of these girls look like me. It's not like a type thing. I feel like he isn't attracted to me at all. \n\nIt has made me feel really insecure, which was already slightly there. I have recently spoken to him about how this made me feel. He did apologies however it still comes into my head at times. \n\nI've always been really scared he might one day cheat on me and it is my biggest fear. I can't keep bringing it up that it upsets me still. He might get sick of hearing it, and then never listen to things like that again.\n\nI feel really bad about myself, as if I'm really not good enough. I feel like the insecurity is with me, like it's my problem with my outlook on myself. He is a human, he can look at other people. There's not much I can do to stop that.\n\nI'm slightly embarrassed that his friends would have seen him like photos of this girl he has had a past with while with me. All his friends back home know this girl (he's away at university, where I met him). \n\nI don't know if I'm just taking it too personally. There are other factors that slightly impact this. We don't have sex very frequently. Not as much as I would like. The majority of time I am rejected; hes too tired, not in the mood or it's the wrong time. \n\nI feel like hes really unattracted to me and that he doesn't want me, resulting in me feeling bad about myself and the way I look. \n\nI have spoken to him about everything but I still feel like this and I just need a bit of advice as to stop feeling like this or if I am just overreacting and taking it far too personally.",
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"content": "This happened last night, didn't realize it was a FU until a few mins ago:\n\nI was playing 2K15 on my gaming desktop PC. I am the home team (Lakers, of course), and am down by 2 with 2.5 seconds left and have the ball. I take the ball out of bounds and pass it to Kobe who was wide open standing at the 3point line. I shoot, the shot meter was almost perfect, just not quite, and the ball hits the front of the rim and I lose the game... Without thinking about it I kick my desk hard as hell, and everything just shakes, my speakers fell down, and the game freezes. Im too pissed so I just force shutdown and go to bed.\n\nNow I have to do some very important, design-intensive work and come to realize that my GPU is dead and my pc will only boot with the integrated one, which is not powerful enough to work with.",
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"content": "Hi, so I've known this girl now for probably about 8 months or so and I'd say we're pretty good friends. We chat regularly and had some pretty private conversations. Thing is I have no clue with telling when a girl likes you. I'm horrid with girls. \n\nNow my best friends have been pushing me to simply tell her exactly how I feel and I've been too damn nervous about ruining our friendship, especially since I value it so much. Now one of my best friends has threatened that if I don't tell her myself within a week, that he'll tell her for me. (Now whether he would actually go through with that is like a 50/50 chance). \n\nSo I guess I was just wondering if anyone had some advice that would help me with asking my crush out, hopefully in a way that if she rejects me we can remain friends. \n(If it helps any she's a huge BBC Sherlock fan.)",
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"content": "I just need to get this off my chest.\n\nI dated my ex for about 6 months before my kidneys failed and I had to start dialysis (11 months ago). I told him that my first priority was myself for the time being, and didn't think I could really commit to a serious relationship. We hooked up a few times after, but while I was on dialysis, I felt really self-conscious (I had a tube coming out of my stomach) and was generally pretty tired and not that interested in sex.\n\nWe stayed pretty close, and I had a kidney transplant 2 weeks ago so I should hopefully be returning to some form of normalcy soon. Before I had my transplant, he told me he didn't want to put any pressure on me, but he would like to continue the relationship when I was better if that's what I want to as well. In any event, he said he at least wanted to stay close friends. I still really love him and do want to pick things back up, and I told him that. \n\nBut tonight, he started texting me that he was going to sleep with another guy (including sending a picture of the guy), and then told me he is planning to have a threesome tomorrow night with two really attractive guys. \n\nAm I being too sensitive? I don't really care if he sleeps with other people right now, but I don't want to hear about it. I just don't understand why he would tell me this, or if he was just leading me on a few weeks ago when he said he would like to continue the relationship. I understand it's kind of a weird situation so I don't want to be too judgmental of him. Should I just tell him I don't want to hear about this? It just seems kind of insensitive.",
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"content": "We've been dating since early December. She loves me. A lot. It's the giddy, clear light in her eyes when she looks into mine that let's me know. When she says those three words, she *means it.* I'm older than her, and more than just chronologically. She was a virgin, I wasn't by a long shot. Neither of us are terribly experienced in the relationship game, though I've had my fair share of utter disasters. One real long-term relationship, and a couple of spectacular failures. She's had a good life, and I, well, it's been weird. She's definitely known pain, but she's been *happy* in a way that I've never experienced. Blah blah mental illness, pills, therapy, hospitalization, etc.\n\nWhen I look at her, I feel content in a way that is completely alien to me. The ever-present anger and fear and twisted up sadness kind of melt away when she nuzzles my neck, and it's fucking terrifying. I'm so, so scared to be in love with her, and if I am, it's the most *bizarre* thing I've ever experienced. It's like being high. I hate being high. Gah.\n\nSo, my questions: How do you know if you're in love? And what do you do if that's the most frightening thing you can think of? Do I stick it out, or do I run away? I don't want to hurt her. I could use some advice.",
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"content": "My partner woke me up this morning after I muttered a patients name during my sleep (I work as a medical dispatcher) she assumed I was cheating on her and demanded to check my phone, I complied since I had nothing to hide.\n\nShe found a video of me at the clubs last year which I did not tell her, it was a video of just the club and I was with my boys with no girls present.\n\nI refused to speak about this since I was not in the right mind set to talk about this since I was still half asleep, I went into the lounge and tried to ignore the situation until later on.\n\nShe did not agree to this and tried to wake me up and confront me about this, I was upset and I did tell her to \"f*ck off, I'll speak to you when I'm awake\". She demanded to to talk about this and grabbed me by the wrists, I still refused to talk about it as I was furious and did not want to make the situation worse.\n\nShe then got extremely upset and decided to punch me in the arm and slap me in the face numerous of times, I pleaded her to stop and told her it was not the right thing to do, I threaten to call the police and she kept going for 30 mins I called the cops to come and I did not lay a single finger on her.\n\nThe took her away and advised she was not to come back until tomorrow and I refused to press an charges.\n\nShe is an international student from Japan and English isn't her first language, I'm born in Australia so my English is fluent. We have been dating for 1 year, I understand there is some communication problems at times but we enjoy each others company and have not had major arguments in the past.\n\nWe just moved out together 1 month into an apartment and invested a lot of time and money into it.\n\nDo I try and make it work?\nShould I leave?\nWhy do I feel like I was responsible and guilty?",
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"content": "Kind of feeling like a psychopath here...A house burnt down in my town killing all but one survivor. I feel absolutely horrible for all involved but people in his neighborhood who saw the fire happening but aren't particularly close with the family, are up in arms, hysterical, etc. I look at them kind of wtf? They weren't primarily involved and I think it's very selfish of them to be so...affected? by something that doesn't directly have an impact on them. I understand they're upset naturally, but I feel they should be focusing on helping rather than crying. So am I some weird monster who can't feel empathy?",
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"content": "My girlfriend (25) and I (28M) had the sex talk to lay everything on the table before having sex. She mentioned she wants me to get tested, and she will as well before doing the deed. She mentioned that she has had HPV 7 years ago and she has had genital warts. They are gone now and she mentioned that her doctor said that after 2 years she should be clean.\n\nThis blew me away, but after doing some research, HPV seems common. But I'm really worried, as I'm clean and I'm fairly careful about sex in a relationship. Am I overreacting? I'm kind of freaked out right now and I'm at a crossroads, I really like this girl, but the thought of getting an STD seems like its not worth the risk. \n\nWhat would you do in this situation? A part of me is saying that I should run? Though I may already have something because I have touched her with my fingers and I didn't wash my hands (HPV is very contagious).",
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"content": "I am a 21 year old male and the female involved is also 21. We have known each other since about the age of five. She was the first girl I ever had a crush on, it is a very early memory but I remember it well.\n\nShe moved away when we were still both very young and I didn't see her until we were about sixteen years old. For the past five years we have been having sex regularly, and to be completely honest, it is the best I've ever had. We have never been \"committed\" to each other and have never had anything resembling a normal relationship.\n\nIt is essentially \"fuck buddies\" but I have always felt an extremely deep emotional attachment. I feel this awesome feeling of understanding and this giving vibe from her. There has been times where were are separated by great distances, yet we both always end up with each other again.\n\nDown to the problem: we are both sluts. We have always slept with other people, and dated other people and our relationship is essentially short and very intense \"flings\" several times a year. Recently though, I have essentially become impotent. I physically can't have sex with anyone but her. I have been in many extremely embarrassing situations where I'll take a girl home and no matter how attracted and turned on I am by the girl I can't get an erection. My body only seems to want to have sex with one woman, no matter what my brain wants...\n\nWe have never spoken of our relationship being any more than what it is, though now I want to be the only one. I have absolutely no idea how I could ever approach her with this request and if she says no I don't know if I can continue this...\n\nAnd if she declines... how do I get over this mental barrier I seem to have developed?",
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"content": "So my neighbours Calle & Mark (late 30s) have 2 kids, Christina (7F) & Alex (5M) and a 1 y/o dog. On the other side of the house there's my parents, Derek [60M] & April [51F], and me, forgotmyfuckingname [19F]. My room mirrors Christina's so not only can I hear everything, during the summer when we have the windows open, you can hear everything that goes on in both sides of the house.\n\nTonight, I'm in my room on Netflix, when I hear a thud and yelling. Even without trying to listen, I can hear Mark yelling at his daughter. But it's more than just yelling. I can hear shit getting thrown & knocked down, Mark's yelling at Christina, telling her she's a worthless bastard, and something about a shit, and I think that I could hear him hit her.\n\nThis isn't an isolated incident either. \n\nI her them lock a kid and/or the dog in Christina's room, I hear them throw shit, yelling at each other and the kids. I've watched Alex run BLOCKS away while Calle was too busy scolding the dog. They've had the dog for a year, and haven't trained him, but yell at the dog for not behaving.\n\nThey let their crazy hang out too. They've yelled at my parents over little shit like TALKING to loud in the drive way, and Calle has ripped my mom a new asshole for **letting** me have musical instruments (friendly reminder that I'm a grown ass woman). \n\nCalle and Mark have yelled at me not only in front of my friends, but they've yelled AT my friends for coming over. Calle yelled at one of my friends for bringing alcohol into the house. HE'S 20, HE'S ALLOWED TO BRING ALCOHOL INTO MY HOUSE.\n\nThis is just some of the shit they've pulled. God, what do I do.",
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"content": "EDIT: I'm on phone so I don't know how to flair \n\nSo this is a little bit of a strange question/advice and it's more about how I can change myself. \n\nMy boyfriend and I are neither very social people. We have a few close friends each, but we're not party people and spend a lot of time with each other, especially since we've both recently been on summer break (Australia). \nTonight he went out to a bar event with a few of his close friends and since I'm under 18, I couldn't go. \n\nWe hung out before he went there and as soon as I got home after dropping him off I started feeling pretty sad, and kind of jealous (worth mentioning I do have moderate clinical depression). I'm not worried about him doing things with other people, but I just feel jealous that he's not spending time with me. \n\nIt's completely irrational and I can separate myself from it, but I can't help feeling that way and it's infuriating. I've noticed it before when he mentions making friends or times when a girl has given him her number and we've joked about it - I get a little jealous. \n\nI need to learn how to spend more time by myself and not be jealous if he has other friends but I just don't know how. It's also a complete double standard because I tell him all the time how much fun I have making friends in lines at shopping centres and joke about guys who try and hit on me.",
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"content": "We had a foreign exchange student from Austrailia come to play basketball at our school, and he had a sort of bucket list of things to do while he was \"in the states.\" One of them was to see an NBA game in person. So I bought four of us tickets to go watch the Memphis Grizzlies at home play the New Jersey Nets (killer matchup.) it was around Christmas, so at half time they called a seat for te audience to come pick between three presents, a tall, medium, or small gift wrapped box. Once he meandered down from his seat, they informed him there were two money prizes and one item. He picks the smallest of the boxes. They let him open the tallest; 20,000 in cash. Disappointed. He opens the middle box; 25,000. More disappointment, but left with a glimmer of hope in store for the his present. He pulls back the top and his eyes feast upon a shake-weight. Crushed.\n\nHe hung his head low, but kneeled to the ground and gave the shake-weight the most solemn shaking I've ever seen while walking back to his seat.",
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"content": "Hey reddit,\nIll get right to the point. 5 weeks ago i was involved in an accident where a state trooper rear ended me. It took a very long time to deal with their insurance but my vehicle was drivable (rear bumper and trunk pushed in) ive received a check from them and had an appointment to fix my vehicle this thursday 07/02/15. Fast forward to Monday 06/29/15.... I was rear ended again. This accident pushed my rear bumper and trunk in more, possibly sustained more damage. I just dropped it off at repair facilty. What happens next? Does the insurance from car accident #2 cover all of the damages? What do I do with the check received from car accident #1? Thanks again for all your help reddit!",
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"content": "So, for a little while now, I've had some pretty serious feelings developing for a friend of mine. When I met him, I was in a serious relationship, but that has since ended. Over the last year or so, we've become slightly closer, and I really thought I was getting signals from him that he might also be interested.\n\nWell, I screwed up and started seeing a different guy a little while after my break up from the serious relationship, even though I was more strongly interested in my friend. My fear of the uncertainty drove me to go with the \"safe bet\" instead of taking a risk on my friend.\n\nAs for the signals I thought I saw, he and I texted quite a bit and shared some favorite music. We shared our interests with each other, and he even remembered something I liked and bought me a gift related to it. We spent more time alone than before, and had a lot of fun.\n\nNow he is seeing someone, and I didn't see it until after I broke things off with the guy I was seeing most recently. Should I just wait it out? Was I wrong in assuming that he might feel the same? Is it possible that he's just taking the \"safe bet\" now too? Should I approach him with my feelings? I don't want to step on anyone's toes, I just want to be happy.",
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"content": "I am just starting a website for a project I am doing where I am listening to music albums that I normally wouldn't listen to and trying to appreciate them, and basically doing a review of what I thought of them, if I liked them, etc. Doing this to expand my music library, practice writing reviews, learn about different types of music, and just to have fun. Since I'm not really that familiar with Fair Use Laws in the USA, my question is this: Can I use portions of the music from the albums I listen to in a \"video review,\" type thing? What is or is not Fair Use in this type of situation? Any knowledge on Fair Use is appreciated. I'm finding limited information out there, but I know there are people in the Reddit community who know this stuff so I'm putting it out there. Come on Reddit! Will you help me out?",
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"content": "Last night we wrapped up playing Rocksmith 2014 and put the guitars in the cases. Due to current lack of space, he places them against the wall standing up. The space in front of them is where he parks his bongs and other smoking devices. \n\nI'm always a bit worried they might fall if something rattles the wall, causing them to smash his stuff. The garage is right next to that wall and can rattle the house when the 4 wheelers are going. \n\nI said, why don't you move those away in the chance they fall? He says, they'll be fine but I insisted. In the process of reluctantly moving them to appease me, he cracks his $1600 medical grade glass bong. It's sealed glass, so the inside piece that broke can't be fixed.\n\nHe looked like he wanted to cry (I would too in this situation....). I offered to buy him a new one, but he refused. He obviously was not happy with me at that moment, but he said it was ultimately his fault for moving them. \n\nReddit, I've obviously now learned to keep my mouth shut regarding his items, but I still want to fix this. I'm thinking about going by Puffin glass when we're in Spokane in a few weeks as a surprise, but he may still refuse out of pride. Any ideas?",
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"content": "Greetings,\nFirst off I will point out I am not against stay at home moms, I want to make this very clear.\n\nMy friend who I have known since college got into a relationship, married and had a premie child in under a year, since then she has insisted that she cannot work, and that her husband work 60+ hours between 2-3 part time jobs to support them. \n\nSince the child was born she has become a helicopter parent, very rarely letting others watch her child, claiming the child has several disorders (some have been diagnosed, others haven't) No one is good enough to watch her child.\n\nIt's been over 2 years, and she is still insistent on being a stay at home mom even though her husband brings in under 30K to support them and is very rarely home. She is constantly complaining about communication and financial issues to me, I keep suggesting she looks to find work as currently neither her nor her husband have health insurance, the toddler is covered by government support. \n\nAny time I bring it up, she gets very defensive and claims that \"family is the most important thing\" and she \"doesn't want a stranger raising her child\" She will make excuses that childcare is to expensive (which it is pricey) but many moms do go back to work.\n\nTo make matters worse, she knows I am fairly well off, and will often \"attack\" me for not understanding financial hardships, or not understanding being a mom. While I have been lucky, I have also been living off of about 900, to 1500 a month while I'm finishing school. So it's not like I haven't (or am) experienced budgeting, or being low income.\n\nI've been losing respect for her as I think she could help with the financial issues they are currently facing. She has a college degree, he doesn't. On top of the low income, they have several loans to pay off. Am I horrible for wanting to cut ties? Has anyone else been able to keep a friendship in this situation? \nI feel very stressed by this friendship currently.",
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"content": "We had a very intense relationship that lasted about a year, although we only spent physically about 5 months together (long distance relationship, him in USA, me in UK). We mutually ended things because of distance and age difference, but I was utterly madly in love with him. Although I've given him plenty of space and allowed him to peacefully get on with his life (he's now in a new relationship and moved state and job, successfully forgetting about me) I've found myself completely unable to move on. Every guy I meet on a romantic level just doesn't compare and I don't feel passion for anything since our breakup, not even for my job or my travels or things that used to get me excited. I feel like I've lost a piece of myself and don't have a purpose anymore unless he's in it.\n\nHonestly we weren't even that compatible, we argued all the time, but there was a chemistry and romance there that I've yet to find again. It's obviously something that's just triggered in my head and turned into this unhealthy obsession that doesn't seem to want to die.\n\nI've spoken to friends about this and they've told me that time is the only cure, but it's been over a year and I'm still caught up on him. I so badly want to move on with my life and forget, but it seems so hopeless. Is there anything I can do to make this easier? Move on? Or even just force myself to see this person in a negative light?\n\nIt's a fragile subject for me so please be kind, and I know this is a topic that's likely repeated a lot. I'm simply hoping to get a perspective from strangers or people who have experienced something similar before I resort to any kind of therapy...",
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"content": "This happened a couple of weeks ago. She went out on a night out with friends, a mixture of guys and girls.\n\nWe went on holiday together the day after. In the evening of that first day, she brings up that she got a hickey the night before from one of the guys. She tells me that this guy, while drunk, came up behind her and bit her neck, leaving the mark. She was completely open about this, and didn't try to hide any of the details as far as I can tell. At the time, this seemed plausible and I didn't think anything more of it.\n\nHowever, having had time to think about this, I am aware that it would take some time to give someone a hickey. As far as I am aware, it could not just happen from a guy biting her neck randomly. \n\nI was just wondering if you could give me some advice of the best way to bring this up with her in a non-accusatory way, as I do trust her completely, just need some questions answering I guess.",
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"content": "This happened a couple of months ago, when it was still reasonably warm here in Alaska. Up here, the state bird is the mosquito, they are vicious and come in unrelenting waves. One can only protect themselves with copious amounts of bug-dope.\n\nSo we were out camping and I was fed up with all of the bugs still biting my face during the night, and I had a wonderful idea to drench my fleece cap in bug spray to hopefully stave them off. I proceeded to get into my sleeping bag and pull my fleece cap over my eyes to block the sun. \n\nFast forward to the morning. I wake up feeling wonderful, I just need to rub the sleep out of my eyes. So I give my sockets a good palm rub and stretch my back a little. Upon opening my eyes again, I still cannot see anything, it's like I'm looking through the plastic sheeting into one of Dexter's kill rooms. I start to panic and rub my eyes frantically, only to make it worse because now it hurts and I can't see. So I ran over to our water container and dosed my face with water for a while, it didn't help much, but I started regaining my vision slowly. \n\nIt took about 3 hours butIt has returned to normal, needless to say, I have learned a valuable lesson.",
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"content": "A bit of background on her: seventeen, in high school (as well as myself). Straight-A student, probably going Ivy League. Quiet around most people, loud and hyperactive around me. Likes to read. Popular, but I've noticed she seems to crave attention a lot -- she's a self-described 'camwhore' with a 'god complex', and I've seen her do various 4chan tinychats with thirty or forty guys, even though she was [doxed] once. I don't ever say anything about it, as it's her business. She was also homeschooled as a kid -- didn't go to public school until age fourteen.\n\nShe has panic attacks and cuts typically when her parents tell her she's doing something wrong, whether it's minor or not. She says she 'doesn't like to think [she] does things wrong, just different' and she 'wants them to know she cares.' I know she cuts because she sent me a picture. I deleted it, even though I know now I really shouldn't have.\n\nI also know I have to tell someone, but I don't know who. Her parents wouldn't believe me, and she's convinced that cutting is the only way to release pain, so she won't get herself help. Can I help her? If so, whom should I go to? I'm not sure the school counselors are of any use -- I've been through this a few times with different people and different issues, and they're very negligent in these sorts of matters.",
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"content": "Okay so I live with my grandma and my mom and step-dad and little half brother/sister live in another house (close by though) \n\nthe agument start out with me ether me trying to tell my grandma about a problome I have in my life and then \n\nI getting annoyed at something she is saying then us talking about it back once or twice then her saying something inflammatory (something she knows will piss me off) \n\nI tell her I am getting mad so lets stop talking and then she expresses anger too and I ask her why she is angry and the response is always something along the lines of because you told me your getting angry and all I did was ask a few questions.\n\nThen we end up calling my mom who comes over and yells at me over what the oringal problom was saying the probloms my falt alone and it drills down into everyone just trying to hurt each other(including me witch I relize is wrong) and ends with me storming off to my bedroom\n\nand I apologize the next day for the hurtful things I said\n\nand never, EVER get and apology for the hurtful thing said to me.\nPlease give advice",
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"content": "I moved over here for work, into a house with 4 people already living there - The ad for the room said: Professionals only.\n\nAnother guy [36m] from Romania lives in the house, and wanted his wife and 3 kids to get into the house.\n\nOur landlord [50m] Egyptian, accepted it as a way of 'helping his family over here', which we all said was OK.\n\nNow it turns out, they plan on staying in the house until ATLEAST next summer - and we all pay the same rent and share bills (approx 1300$ a month)\n\nTo make it even worse, his 3 kids [1/3/4] are ALWAYS awake until midnight, sometimes later, and they are so noisy it wakes me up all the time throughout my sleep, and causes too big of an exhaustion to go to work.\n\nOur landlord put the father on the council papers and contract, and since we're too many living in the house, I'm not able to get on the contract.\n\nWhat would the best solution be to actually get his kids to shut it this late?\n\nSo far I've recorded the last 3 nights - 10 minutes in the hallway, 15 minutes in my room, with constant noise from the kid - Is there anything else I can do to make our Landlord realise that it's just not okay.\n\nI don't have the money for the deposit to get another room somewhere elsez",
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"content": "For me it was a few days ago. We use Comcast here (unfortunate but all we can get in our area) and the woman I had to talk to must never have touched a computer outside of work and talked out of her ass. Our internet was supposed to be about 25 MBS but we were getting 3-4 (used speedtest.net to check for a week). So after checking everything I called up to see what was going on/get a tech to come. The woman I got spend the first 15 min telling me everything was perfectly fine. After finally getting it through to her it was not she tells me that everything was fine with them and it HAD to be my wireless router. Best part? I don't use one. I'm hard-lined. I dont even have a wireless router IN MY HOUSE. She didn't care. It was my wireless router. THEN after another 20 min of finally explaining my setup she asks how I know its slow. I told her I did the check online to their server via speedtest. She told me that's not accurate and I NEEDED to use THEIR test. I did and it was at 2. WORSE than speedtest.net. She went back to its my wireless router I must be using. I then immediately hung up, called back and asked someone to set an apt for me for a tech. They transferred me to the department and after I explained my situation I hear 4-5 clicks and a \"Oh yeah here's the problem, a tech can be there tomorrow at 2 to fix it for ya (it was their end, some type of signal problem.) Guy comes, 10 min later I'm good to go. I normally don't complain to supervisors but i called back with the her name and HAD to for the absolutely BLATANT ignorance and her not listening to a goddamn thing I was sayin",
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"content": "We've been together for 17 months. It makes me very sad, and disappointed when I think about things he did in the past. Some examples are: \n\n1. Getting a lap dance at the strip club \n2. Planning a whole weekend with a lady friend who's in town knowing she has feelings for him \n3. Not being over his ex and not willing to talk about it or make me feel secure that this isn't a problem (obviously, it is...)\n4. Complimenting other girls around me\n5. He doesn't try to help me finish, I feel sex is never about us - it ends when he's done mostly \n\nI could name a few more...but will refrain from.. \nWe have talked about these situations but they always end with him apologizing to solidify them, but not to assure me.\n\nI feel I deserve more and better. How do I healthily get over this if I want to continue the relationship?",
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"content": "My mother in law [50.f] planned a gathering with my boyfriend [24.m] and excluded me [24.f], am I wrong in feeling bad?\n\nWe live together and have been for well over a year. My parents include him in everything. Never have we just not included him if he is off of work. His mother asked him today to spend time at a theme park....never mentioning me. \n\nNow, I realize sometimes mothers want family time. But I guess I just feel a little bad since, well...I live with him and have that day off as well. Had she asked, both she and my boyfriend know that I'll most likely say \"you need some family time--go take her out!\" Or something. They both know me well enough that I wouldn't and don't like to intrude.\n\nToday, my boyfriend spent all day spoiling me so I know he noticed I got kinda upset because I went from giddy to kinda quiet. I tried hard to hide that I felt bad. I admitted and he said he understood and that she probably didn't mean it that way. It's his mom and he loves her so I know he's trying to get me to not feel so bad but it sucks. \n\nYesterday, too, I tried talking to her. Her and I used to talk about relationships and I tried getting advice from her. My boyfriend has an issue with his temper (real great guy but he has a short fuse) and I asked her since she's known him all his life what she thinks I can do that'll help him out. She was short and said she was busy and had to figure it out. I apologized. I was kind of shocked because she was always open and tried hard to advise me before, and seemed happy to do so...I don't know if this lead to that? It's weird.",
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"content": "[This is a video of what we're trying to achieve.](\n\nMy school currently has a Sony HVR-HD1000u, and compared to that, our videos are nowhere near as good. I understand that things like lighting and color correction play a pretty big role, but even then I feel like our videos are never that clean. I usually can't get 720p clips out of our camera and the slow motion that they have is something we can't even come close to.\n\nOne possible *problem* is that for some reason we can't use firewire to connect the camera to the computer so we have to play the tape on this thing that basically plays it and then we capture the tape playing. I feel like this is probably a huge problem because it's like trying to show a friend a movie by screen-capping from Skype.\n\nSO, should we scrap the HVR-HD1000u and get a Canon T2i (a cheaper DSLR which from the samples I've seen on YouTube and clips from that video, seems pretty high quality), or continue trying to use the Sony?",
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"content": "From the past 1 and half years we hav been in a relation, with many difficulties i jst made her mind to b in relation wid me.She kept requesting me that her family wont allow all this,though she loved me too,she fell in love couldnt resist herself.We are very happy together and no issues,just one-FUTURE.\n\nThough one and half year has passed,whenever we talk abt our future,it leaves both of us in a doubt.I dont know how to console her.So evertytime we just hav to change the topic and move on with the joy of being together and we just hav decided to b wid each other as long as we can,as we cant change the mentality of our families.I jst dnt knw wat i wil do without her.Sometimes i feel we would hav been better friends than this love and all,and she was right in the beginning not to b in relation.What should i do?\n\nshe says she knws her family well,they wont agree for the marriage as they look for money,land and all!M I just unlucky to get birth in lower cast?(though my fanancial conditions are gud,but my family dsnt own any land )\nMy self concious doesnt allow me to go against our families and live separate.I dnt want a girl to loose her family,her respect,this happens all around and i m jst fed up from all this,the beliefs,the customs i just dont want her to b harmed in any way and love for her family destroyed and can even sacrifice my love for it.\nstill there are 3-4 years till marriage comes up(i think so).cant say abt her parents,if we tell them soon ,they will marry here smwhere else wdout a second thought.I cant figure out smthng nd cant do anyhting in my life cause of it,i hav still to achieve smthing and become smthing but if all this goes on i cant give her a life she wants nd i cant get mine.",
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"content": "So we were looking for a strip club in Yakima Washington. No luck there. But we kept getting hits for a place called Nena's Finest, with tags fors Adult Entertainment and Services. We got their address online, so we drive over. When we get there, it's an upper-middle class neighborhood, and the address in question is a fairly nice triplex. This is at 2 o'clock inthe morning. We decide to call them and see what they are about. So we call them and they answer. At two in the morning. Shaking off the shock real quick we ask if it was in fact Nena's Finest. The guy who answers confirms it is. Then we ask what they sell. He hung up on us. So, barring the fact that no reputable business outside of fast food is usually open at two in the morning, we are reasonably convinced this place is a brothel. \n\nSo the next day, we call again, and a different guy answers, and he has no idea what we are talking about when we ask about Nena's Finest. So we go back to the address, and when we go to the door, a small child answers. We leave. The gps says that the other address could be a smaller house just down the street. When we knock on the door there, a sweet old lady answers, and does not know what Nena's Finest is, but she mentions that people are always mixing her address. And here we are. We are going to go back later and try again, but if Reddit happens to know what the deal here is that would be awesome.",
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"content": "Someone I consider to be a best friend and I actually \"met\" here through reddit. Some time later, we decided to meet despite a great distance between the areas we live in. After spending time together in person, we discovered deeper feelings we have for each other, and I think we were both a bit surprised. It was very intense and very real. \n\nNow, he is back and we're apart again. I thought it would be fine because we could still talk, skype, etc. Not the same, but I'd rather have someone like that in my life in some way than not at all. Well, he is asking if we can \"cool off.\" I'm so confused! We had conversations before parting that we would continue talking, that things wouldn't change, etc. \n\nDo I just back off for awhile and wait? Do I cut all contact?\n\nPart of me wants to say \"forget it,\" because I was probably was being naive and stupid, but then our friendship alone means a lot.\n\nI'm sorry this is vague and probably a rambled mess.",
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"content": "Let's say there's a guy called John [21m]. John kinda likes Paula and he wants her to think of him as a nice guy, get a good rep with her and such. John mentions Game of Thrones to her, and she says she's really into it, and also that she even read a few books before the show started airing.\n\nJohn gets excited, because them both like the same thing a lot! Then he offers to lend her the dvd box of the second season, to be a nice guy and maybe win her heart little by little. She accepts!\n\nPaula then proceeds to carry out the dvd box to another guy's house, watching the series with him as well as making out, on John's expenses. Is Paula a bitch?",
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"content": "I met this guy eight years ago when we both started playing the same instrument. Ever since then I've always a bit of a crush on him. I've dated other guys and he's dated other girls, but these last few months when we have both been single, I reaaaallly fell for him. Like, pining over him. ( I realize how stereotypical this sounds coming from a teenage girl, but it's what's happening.) Today, after months of mixed signals, a negative prom response then apology for said response, many turned down date invites, and flirting on both our parts; I finally poured out my feelings for him. I expressed how amazing I think he is and all I got in response was a \"thank you gurll\". He outright told me he thinks of me as his best friend and that's all. So I realize I need to move on and get over him without spoiling our friendship (such as distancing myself and not talking to him). I think at this point I'll always just be his friend and nothing more. Reddit, how do you suggest I get over my feelings for him? Because honestly right now, I'm a mess.",
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"content": "OK so first the background details. We've been together 4 years and live together. I truly love her and had planned on proposing to her later this year. 2 weeks ago she broke up with me over a silly fight. Said she need time to herself blah blah blah. I was devastated as I didn't see it coming. The weird part is she currently has been living with me after the breakup and will be here until next week which is when she will move out.\n\nNow for the juicy part. Today i opened her laptop and she was signed into her email. I found numerous chat logs of her and a male co worker talking sexually and she even had sent him a nude photo. These texts go back to November. Normally i don't like to snoop around so I feel super guilty, but I had been having suspicions all along. I remember about 3 months back her entire attitude had changed and she became more distant which is around the time she had also mentioned that there was a guy in her office who liked her. This is the guys shes been chatting with.\n\nNow, even though we are broken up I don't know what to do. Should I tell her I know? Even though it means exposing myself as having gone through her email? Should I just let it go? I feel like shit because this coworker of hers is married and basically I think instigated this whole ordeal for her to break up with me? Either way I'm at a loss.",
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"content": "So, i'll try to make this as short as possible. My fiancee and I are planning our wedding in a few months and hope to be trying for a baby soon (like within the year). We both have decent jobs and live together. \n\nHis 16 year old brother recently came to visit us because he lives with a relative (both parents passed away). Now he is saying they do not treat him fairly, he is uncomfortable there, etc. Naturally fiancee wants to help his brother and told me if anything he will take is brother and raise him.\n\nI know i sound self centered and i'm really trying not to be, because i know family comes first, but how can he make this decision that affects my life as well without consulting me? He never asked how I felt about it, or if i would even be willing to step in and help. I understand how he feels, and would do the same for a sibling in a heartbeat, but I would never just spring it on my partner like \"take it or leave it\". I think that is so effed up. Why should I have to put our plans on the backburner???\n\nHe is a great kid and it isn't anything personal, but we live in a cramped two bedroom one of which is currently being rented out, and the person is moving out soon, so we can prepare the room for future baby. Now it would essentially become his brothers room. I feel like what i want, and all of our plans are completely irrelevent and its his way or the high way. \n\nPlease try to help me not see this as badly as I do, i know i sound horrible and self centered and I feel horrible about that, but i feel steamrolled by all of this!",
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"content": "Hey everyone,\n\nI know these questions are asked often, but like everyone else it seems I am unable to decipher this for myself.\n\nTo add a background: I have known this girl for 4/5 years (family friends) and we always got along. \n\nShe got out of a 2 year relationship about 4~months ago, she was broken up with, and I think isnt quite over it yet. Still not too sure about that.\n\nAnyways, we recently have hung about a fair amount and alot of people we know are pairing us up together in their minds and letting us know individually, never when we are together, and we have mentioned it briefly to each other.\n\nGenerally I feel like she is acting flirty, although I could be misinterpreting it. However, the thing I have an issue with is that occasionally she still mentions that she loves her ex, this could be her overselling/wanting some level of attention or deflecting from 'us', or she may still be getting over her ex. Additionally she mentions that she doesn't think she will date for a while.\n\nKnow, I know this seems like I'm reading too much into her 'flirtatious' actions and she may in fact just be acting friendly. But I wouldn't ask this if I thought that was all there was to it.\n\nSo my question is, am I completely off the track? Should I just leave her be? Or should I pay closer attention to the situation?\n\nGenerally cliche I know, but any help would be appreciated.",
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"content": "If you've seen the movie trailer for [Celeste and Jesse Forever] about two best friends who are married and mutually decide to separate then that accurately describes my situation. We have known each other for nearly 10 years, dated for about 7 years and were only married for less than a year. We separated two months ago and she moved in with some friends a few weeks ago while I've stayed in our apartment.\n\nI've had my ups and downs during this time and had irrational worries and rational worries as well. This past week, I was at a low point and really missed our old way of life and made a plea to have another chance together. She insisted that it will never happen. I left the conversation by basically saying our friendship was over. Immediately after that, I snapped out of my mindset and realized that I didn't want to lose her as a friend because the bond we share there is very important in my life.\n\nI wrote an e-mail the next day apologizing and explaining that I do miss her in my life but that's because I miss our friendship most of all. I apologized for breaking her trust and told her that I really wanted to somehow regain that trust so we could be friends again. She told me that it will take time and that she doesn't want to \"lead me on\" by still being friends. I've tried to insist that I'm not trying to \"get her back\" but that I just want her as a friend in my life still... someone to joke with and ask for opinions about issues in my life that she's familiar with. I think I ruined that trust when I was at my low point and I'm being met with resistance now and imposed \"no contact\" type rules for the time being. I don't want to break those rules to hurt her trust again but it's also hurting me to not have her as an option to talk to.",
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