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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, the etat de lieux (basically the French name of the check in / check out when moving in / out) was done and EVERYTHING was noted down as \"comme dans l'etat de lieux d'entrée\" or so, basically that EVERYTHING is exactly like it was when we moved in. You get the idea. :)\n\nNow the landlord is claiming that the bed is broken (it was a furnished appartment, he even lifted the mattress during the checkout and looked at everything) the day after the papers were signed (papers done on Sunday, he sent an email on Monday claiming it was broken when he went to bed on Sunday evening).\n\nSince we have papers saying everything is OK he can't make any claims, I assume? Might want to add that he didn't ask ANY questions during the whole etat de lieux, basically walked around the flat and we followed him...but he never asked any questions, at all.\n\nHe claimed his flat back without proper notice too (email instead of registered mail) and we left within 5 weeks, so we made it easy for him to come back to France after getting himself fired in the US for something stupid and losing his work visa.\n\nHe didn't ask for any money yet but I'd like to be prepared in case this comes up. I'm a tad sad since, for once in my life, I tried to help others even tho it doesn't benefit me at all...and bam, we're running into such issues.\n\nThanks for your advice!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Been lurking for close to a year now, I recently found this subreddit and the advice I've found around here is simply fantastic. I think this is the subreddit for this, if not, sorry!\n\nI've devoured most top links and started reading \"I Will Teach You To Be Rich\" and I'm loving it so far (A Random Walk, Intelligent Investor, and Millionare Next Door are on the list). It comes at great time since I've been meaning to get my first credit card and savings account. \n\nNow, the thing is that while the advice is sound and I can follow the general outline of it, things in Mexico are different. For one, I can't seem to find anything similar to a Roth IRA in that it's tax free. Also, creditdit lines, APYs and pretty much everything is inferior.\n\nI guess what I'm asking is, can anyone recommend a book or point me in a direction where I can find good relevant info about funds/bonds/banks/good investing companies or even ways to invest in the same way as if I lived in the US without getting gang banged by fees would be truly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway here. To give a little back story, November 27 I was terminated from my job. The reasons were something similar to \"this isn't working out\" \"We've had some attendance issues\" and a few other various things seem to be thrown in there. The main reason I was probably fired was due to (speculation) not working overtime and lack of work coming up. \n \nShort version: I requested PTO and was approved before thanksgiving, I was told to work 10-6 the sat and sun before thanksgiving week. I had previously worked both weekends, along with my 40hr weeks, and this time I told them no, I already had plans and requested thanksgiving week off. Tuesday after thanksgiving week I was fired. I was told it was my last day but I would be kept on payroll and be compensated through Dec 31, and so technically I was still employed.\n\nAfter that point I spent my time job searching. I applied to a job on the 17th which I was contacted about on Jan 2, the company recruiter passed my info along to the hiring manager and they decided they wanted to interview me today. I completely forgot I had not updated my resume and nothing ever came up about \"current\" job or \"do you still work here\" so I never really had a chance to insert it and honestly I was so focused on making a good impression and what I could bring to the company it passed my mind.\n\nSo I choose to follow up with an email a few hours later because my gf asked if they asked about being fired and I had already worked up how I would discuss it. I felt like a complete dumbass for excluding it. The email was an interview thank you follow up and I inserted a paragraph about them not having an updated resume and I did not want to misrepresent myself and my employment ended Dec 31. If they had questions to contact me. Was this bad or am I completely screwed either way? I really liked the job and I'm now just down about it and rambling...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay everyone, I created a reddit account to ask you all for some advice. I've been dating a great girl for almost a year, we get along great and we're both in college, living in separate apartments, and have different groups of friends. \n\nI'm fairly introverted in the sense that being with someone for extended periods of time is exhausting. Because we have such different lives, we only spend 3-5 days a week together and communicate through text/etc when we are apart. This works for us and I rarely get sick of seeing her.\n \nNow however, she wants to take our relationship to the next level and has told me she wants to find a place and move in together. I don't want this at all because I need my alone time and the personal space that living separately gives me. She is very insistent and any mention of my concerns ends with her stating that I dont love her, etc etc. \n\nAs stated I am still very young and I'm not ready for this.\n-Am I selfish or are my thoughts reasonable?\n-How do I tell her I don't want this without it ruining our relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone, I recently graduated with my Bachelor's degree in Nursing from a private, 4 year college. I had to take out the Government loans as well as private loans. I have a question about my private loans. As you can see here, this shows my principal balances, interest rates, and current interest accumulated. \n\n The 13.250% loan has a fixed interest rate, the others are variable. I would really like to pay off both my private and government loans as soon as possible, and I am trying to figure out the best way to do it.\n\n I am a little confused over the wording of the paperwork I have on them. For the loan I took out in 2009, the wording about prepayment is \"Prepayment will not result in a penalty. If you choose to pre-pay, you will not be entitled to a refund of any loan origination fees or any finance charges accrued through the date of repayment\" Does this mean, if I were to pay it off, I would only need to pay the current interest and the principal balance? The paperwork says that I would end up paying around $19,344 if I pay it over the 15 years, but if I pay it off sooner, I would pay less?\n\nThe other 3 loans have different wording. \"If you pay off your loan early, you will not have to pay a penalty. You will not be entitled to a refund of part of the finance charge\". To me, that seems like, even if you pay it off earlier, you would still need to pay all of the interest that would have accumulated over 15 years. Are my thoughts correct? \n\nAlso, considering all this information, how should I go about paying back my loans? I have $27,000 in government loans, + interest, plus these private loans.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone. I'm utterly lost and scared shitless.\n\nTo start off:\n\nWhen I was 18, I left an abusive home to go to college in another state. I was told that I could get financial aid if I could submit my fafsa - but after multiple attempts I couldn't get it to go through because my father was blocking me in one way or another. I wasn't aware at the time that I could apply as an independent. In short, I accrued $18,000 in debt from that college which went into collection.\n\nI then returned to my hometown and I've since been attending another institution and received federal student aid - but I took dual-credit classes in high school which didn't contribute to my degree, but ended up counting against my federal credit hours cap so I was denied further federal aid and my appeal wasn't accepted.\n\nNow I'm in my last stretch of my career. I'm in 2 classes right now and I will take 2 classes over the summer and then I'll be able to graduate. But I need to get a loan to pay for this semester and the next and I can't seem to get approved because of the default. \n\nMy plan thus far was to finish college and then start paying off that 18k. There's no way I could pay that loan right now and still afford my living expenses.\n\nIt's been 5 years since the date of the default and I don't know if I should somehow get a loan and let that default reach its 7 year limit (because I don't think it counts as a student loan...) or if I should try to go through a debt repayment agency to get that 18k out of default.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey, looking for some opinions. I'm M 23, she's F 22.\n\nI met a girl on OkCupid and took her out last night (Jan 6). We met up at a bar and had a great time. We went through 3 rounds of drinks, sharing the last two rounds. I really had a great time and felt very comfortable talking to her. We agreed that the date was going really well and that we would see each other again. The date lasted just around 2 hours.\n\nNow, I would have gone in for a kiss, or developed some kino, but I got the impression from her that she would want to move slower. She had brought up an ex boyfriend (red flag, but the discussion was more about what we had learned from our past relationships). We also discussed casual sex, and how we weren't interested in it. Again, I was very comfortable talking to her about these issues, which is uncommon for me. These topics suggested to me that moving slower would be best.\n\nSo, today, I text her for a second date. But she replies that she got a \"friend vibe\" from the date. So, now I'm kicking myself in the foot for not going for that kiss or developing some kino.\n\nI'm very tempted to email/text her and explain my outlook and how I feel. I very much enjoyed the date and felt that we could have had something. I feel like I screwed up. =/ Is this a good idea?? If not, I just need to rant...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've known this girl for about 6 years and we've always been really good friends, until a couple weeks ago when I decided to grow a pair and act on my feelings for her. It turns out that she also had feelings for me (huge relief) and we ended up making out and spending the night together (no sex). We've hung out nearly everyday since then, and she always wants to stay the night at my house. I have no problem with that, but I can see potential problems. Anyways, before we started this whole \"relationship\" (keep in mind we've never discussed being officially in a relationship), she had been talking to another guy whom she liked, who to be honest, is an asshole. Maybe that's part of the reason she's attracted to him. I knew of this, and it somewhat sparked some motive to make her mine before it's too late. \n\nFor the first week of our \"relationship\", she seemed really normal and into me. However, for the past few days she has seemed somewhat distant and less interested in kissing, which is odd because she still wants to cuddle and stay the night all the time. I've seen her texting the other guy, so I'm thinking maybe that has something to do with it. I plan on talking to her very soon so I can get a clear understanding how she feels about all this. My question is, how should I go about this? Should I be gentle and understanding, or should I play the alpha role and take control? This girl has been one of my best friends for years and I've always wanted to become more, so I don't want to screw this up before it even gets started.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: I have been dating my boyfriend for half a year - it's my first relationship.\n\nWe get along great when we're with each other (2-3 times a week), and text each other moderately when we're apart. Mostly jokes to make each other laugh. We communicate pretty openly and don't fight. But there's something I don't want to talk about with him.\n\nProblem: I'm incredibly needy when we're apart! I constantly wait for his texts and invitations to hang out, and am disappointed when he doesn't for a few or several hours (but he texts me at least a few times everyday). Not only am I disappointed, but I get scared he's losing interest in me! Sometimes I feel offended, like he doesn't put the effort in anymore to talk to me while we're apart. It makes me feel painful, alone, and sad (ugh). But then we meet in person, and everything - having fun, getting work done, the sexy times, talking - is great 90% of the time, with minor bumps here and there. So it's become obvious to me that, because this is my first relationship and I care about him quite a lot, I have become paranoid and overly needy (uggghhhh).\n\nHe's already assured me many times he likes me, and I know that neediness/clingy-ness in any relationship is annoying and tiresome to deal with. Also, breaking up is really sad, but not the end of the world. Still, I can't resolve my feelings. \n\nQuestion: I can't believe I ended up being this type of girlfriend! What can I do to get my bf off my mind all the time, and how can I not be bothered by his lack of texting when he's busy/tired/doesn't have much to say? Has anyone else had this problem?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About a year ago I made friends with a group of about 6 people in college. We've become pretty close and we always find time to hang out even if we all study different careers in the same college.\n\nFast forward, a couple weeks ago, new semester, and I'm starting to hang out a lot more with one of the girls from the group since we are seeing a class together. I've started to like her a lot and i'm not sure if she likes me back, i get some mixed signals.\n\nSo, should I tell her how I feel? I wanna get to know her better and connect as more than friends. My fear is its gonna get akward when we are all togheter and I wouldn't want to loose her friendship and the general relationship I have with the group.\n\nWhat about asking her out and seeing her reaction? I really dont know the best course of action here.\n\nOnce this semester passes I'll start seeing her less each time and that's why I have to make a decision.\n\nI know this all sounds like a High School teenage problem, I guess I never burnt that phase properly in HS. Gotta start some time, right? :)\n\nThanks for reading.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for 5 years. We've been apart the last 11 weeks because I had to leave for work. I'm coming home on Monday from this 11 week separation. I'm considering the idea of proposing to him when I get back. We are both very serious about our relationship and commitment to each other. \n\nWe've discussed marriage before, and agreed that it's something we want to do. The only thing that we haven't ever decided is when to do it. After being apart from him for so long, I feel like I've realized that I am so ready to make this commitment. He is absolutely the love of my life, and I want to make it permanent. \n\nSo what are your thoughts on me switching up the gender roles and proposing to him? How do I do it? Do I get a ring? Is this a terrible idea?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've [22f] always been a very outgoing and confident person and have never had any issues with guys or dating. I've always thought I had men figured out and knew how to get their attention. \n\nIn September I transferred to a different university where I met this guy [24m]. He is extremely attractive, funny, smart, ambitious and masculine. Everything I look for in a guy. However, he is totally a closed book. He is not shy by any stretch, but we have been constantly around each other for 3 months now and I know next to nothing about him on a personal level. He doesn't even have a facebook.\n\nWe are in the same group of friends at school and spend a lot of time around each other. We often carpool, study together and get drinks after class etc. We have also have spent quite some time alone, but thats only when we study and the rest of our friends leave or when I give him a ride home.\n\nThere are some days where he will start to open up to me a bit and flirt, and I can really feel the chemistry between us. But there will be other days where he will go the entire day without saying hi or talking to me (or anyone for that matter) even though we are in all of each others lectures.\n\nEveryone in our group of friends agrees that he is strangely private, but they've accepted it and say that it's because he's an introvert. However, I don't want to accept it because I really want to get to know him better because I can't remember the last time I've felt this way about a guy.\n\nI've tried to show my interest by inviting him to events and I always help him out with assignments and invite him to have lunch with me. He almost always accepts but has never done the same for me. \n\nI can't read him at all. He's always in his own little world and I just want to know if he has any interest in me at all. The mixed signals are frustrating.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here's some background:\n\nI, a 23F, have been seeing a 24M for a few months now. He's not a very social guy and suffers from depression occasionally, so has to take pills to help him.\n\nHe claims to find it stressful to participate in social situations, but he seems to be fine with me.\n\nAnyway, at the very beginning he was more into me than I was into him, but over time I've warmed to him and I really like this guy. However his behavior is very strange sometimes. We see each other every week (apart from this week) and he usually comes round, hangs out, and sometimes we have sex. He seems to really be into me but he claims to not want to make things official.\n\nThe confusing thing is all his actions prove otherwise, he casually dropped into convo that he was my boyfriend. And generally being intimate and affectionate when ever we're together. And the other week he mumbled \"why have you made me love you\" while we were drinking. But now he says I want more than what he does. I just don't get it because up until now, he's been more into me than I have been into him. He says he enjoys being with me, but doesn't want to be my boyfriend. He says he's still into me though, I just don't get it!\n\nCan someone help me decipher this? I know it probably seems obvious and stupid. Is he scared of making things official or something? Or maybe his anti-depressants are screwing with his emotions. Or is he just testing the waters a bit more.\n\nWhat shall I do? Help would be appreciated. Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Happened 2 hours ago. Moving out tomorrow morning so I emptied my water bed water of 10 years into the back yard. Didn't want the dogs messing with that nasty water so I let them out front. Baily, the adventurous one, decided to chase a skunk. Now I'm moving to a new place tomorrow and new people are moving into my place tomorrow and I'm trying to make my house and dog not smell like skunk. Best part is I had already moved most of my stuff out so I had to run to wall greens and buy soap baking soda and hydrogen peroxide because I guess its the magic concoction.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend of two years, Anne, has about the same salary as I do, so when we decided to move in together we chose to split the rent 50/50. We're both young professionals with steady jobs.\n\nDespite having similar salaries now, Anne and I are from different backgrounds. I'm from a somewhat wealthy family, and had grown up going to private schools and had help from my family to pay for college. Anne put herself through college for an engineering degree, and her family is getting by but isn't very rich. She's the first one in her family to go to college. Perhaps because of this, she is extremely frugal, still shopping at the cheapest food and clothes stores for sales, such as the \"dented goods\" type groceries and goodwill.\n\nWe sent the last few weeks touring apartments, we each picked a couple places to view together. She picked tiny ones that I honestly think aren't in safe enough areas, and they weren't in good condition. They were around $600 to $700 a month.\n\nI picked ones that she said were \"Too big, what are we going to do with all this space?\" or \"Way too expensive for what we're getting for the price.\" They were around $1000 to $1500 a month.\n\nI tried to tell her that what we were getting for the price wasn't just the apartment, but the fact that it wasn't as likely to have maintenence issues, and that she would be safe walking around the neighborhood at night. And I thought the extra space (larger living room, and kitchen) would be nice for having guests over.\n\nShe said that she was good with fixing stuff (Which she is) and that she'd lived in worse places, and she could take care of herself.\n\nThe issue is that I can't see myself living in one of the old noisy studio apartments she chose, and she does not want to spend enough for a decent place, like the ones I chose to see. I considered paying for more of the rent, but since we have the same income, I would really rather go 50/50.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been at my new job for 8 days - a small business with about 5 employees. In short I am taking over the jobs of two people who are leaving and were in drastically different roles (both have worked there for 10+ years) and have been given about 2-3 days of training in each role. Despite my diligent note-taking, I still don't know what I'm doing. \nBoth my roles within the business should allow for everyone else's day to run smoothly but it is still early days and there is no one to advise me due to the small size of the business. I don't want to keep going to my boss with stupid little questions as he is always busy but I still have so much to learn but feel as if I'm expected to know it all right now. One of my predecessors has assured me I will be fine and has left after I was in the job for 2 days. I don't want to tell my boss I'm struggling as I feel as though he feels he took a risk in hiring me (as I'm unexperienced) and I want to seem capable.\n\nThe thought of going to work tomorrow fills me with dread as I feel way out of my depth as I'm having to work things out by myself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Redditors, first post, figured I could get some advice.\n\nEarly this summer I started dating a girl whom I've known for about 10 years (met in middle school/high school, apart during college, started hanging out again once I returned home after college). When we started dating, things were really great, really easy, and went really fast. Within a month we were already so close and I could see myself marrying this girl within a year or two (I'm 23, she's 26). We get along great, spend decent time together, and I can tell that she really cares about me. She has all the qualities of a good spouse, good mother, good life partner.\n\nWe've now been dating for 4-5 months and things are starting to slow down and I'm becoming less passionate about the relationship. I want to be with her, but i'm not crazy passionate about it. I don't wake up every morning with a burning desire to be with her, crazy about being with her. I know that it's unrealistic to have this feeling every minute of everyday, but I haven't felt that way since the first few weeks of our relationship.\n\nI also have to admit, even though it makes me feel shallow and a bad person, that my attraction to her isn't top notch. I am attracted to her, and we do have a physical aspect of our relationship, but she's not the most attractive women I know (or dated).\n\nI should also mention that we are both christain and that God is a central part of our relationship. Its something that we can share together and has been a good way to bring us together. I've slept with 2 girls before, she's a virgin, we have decided to wait before marriage to have sex. I'm ok with it, though I do fear that it will have an impact on our intimacy (possibly a source for my lack of attraction?)\n\nSo what should I do? Am i expecting too much from the relationship? Is physical attraction an unimportant thing in the long run as long as we have an intimate connection? If I choose to ignore these feelings, will they come back to haunt the relationship later?\n\nThanks for your help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I just realized this happened and I may or may not be royally screwed.\n\nBit of backstory, I live on campus at a university near an hour away from home. Parents said they were leaving out of town this Thursday, and I, as the typical horny college guy, tell my SO to come over for the weekend and we can have a great time. I've been planning stuff I was going to do and running the gist of it by the SO and she was ecstatic. All I needed now was to buy the toys, lube, and more toys! \n\nOf course I go to trusty Amazon and order it all there, one problem though. I ordered it and thought all was good, order says delivered, check my post at the school, says no package. I thought that was weird, and I immediately got scared. I checked Amazon and I realized I ordered it all to my house, and not my dorm. Somehow my dumb ass put the dorm address on the billing address instead of shipping. My parents don't leave until Friday afternoon and I'm dreading seeing them now, because I know they always open all my packages and letters.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not sure if that's what it is. Sorry if that's offensive to call it that when it's probably something else. \n\nJuly of last year, my friend was texting me constantly on her roadtrip. Her friend rolled their car and my friend was rushed to the hospital and went into a coma for a few weeks. She ended up being ok but I originally thought she was ignoring me or lost service. In September, I was texting a friend of mine when she fell asleep and died in a house fire. I didn't know about the fire until a few days later, I kept texting her thinking she was ignoring me. Two months ago, I had text my friend in the morning and he agreed to meet me at my house later that afternoon to hang out. When he didn't show up, I kept texting him and calling him. I thought he was ignoring me, turns out he had killed himself a few hours before. \n\nNow whenever I'm texting someone and they don't reply within a few hours I freak out. I panic, start crying, call them, call someone who might know if they are still alive/ok. Basically full blow panic attacks. It's really embarrassing when they tell me to stop freaking out they just fell asleep/lost their phone/were riding unicorns. Should I talk to someone about this? Just get over myself?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "How short does a relationship have to be for one to not care that it's over?\n\nWe met over summer break while she was vacationing in my hometown. We had an amazing summer and decided it was worth a long distance relationship since she was moving to where I live after she graduates in one semester. I bought a ticket to see her this Labor Day weekend on her request.\n\nTwo hours before my flight she called me and ended it. She said that the long distance was too hard and she didn't want to have an amazing time together just to end it after.\n\nI know we weren't together for long, but I can't get her out of my mind. To make things worse, she's is still moving to where I live and says she wants to continue the relationship at that time; but has decided to completely ignore me till then to make things easier for her. Except that doesn't make things easier on me, being a person that relies on some sort of a connection.\n\nI guess what I'm asking is how do I get through the semester while I wait for the girl that I want to be with and she completely ignores me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Back in high school, I was in a fairly tight-knight group of friends. We were nearly inseparable until about two years ago when things kind of hit the fan. Basically, my ex started dating one of my close friends in this group. I didn't really care very much but she decided she wanted nothing to do with me and refused to be in my presence, so as they started hanging out more with my other friends, I started seeing them less and less.\n\nSo people took sides and about half of my friends at that time stuck with me and the other half stuck with them. It wasn't really a conflict, just that she wouldn't see me and it kind of created a rift. Now, they've broken up; in fact, there's been pretty much a full turnover of romantic relationships on their side of things, and I want to try and rebuild bridges. I feel the bridges weren't burned so much as abandoned and neglected.\n\nBut I don't know how to do this. It's been two years and I've had very little contact with them. I miss them sorely and want to hang out with them again. How do I do it? Should I even try?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So heres the story. Every year for homecoming our school paints windows for clubs, after school activities, sports etc. My friends and I thought it would be funny to put a me gusta face on the boys sport page and a f7u12 face on theirs (like they're frustrated by us copying their design, which we did, and such).\n\nHere's the thing. One of the girls didn't think it was funny, and I was called into the office. They see it as me saying \"Fuck you\" to the girls team, and saying \"I like\" to the boys team. Hence, that we're better than the girls. That is TOTALLY not what I was aiming for.\nWhat should I do reddit? I go in tomorrow to talk to the people in the office. I've already explained that they don't have negative connotations, and that I absolutely meant no harm. I'm a good student, and I'vd never done anything bad. I'm just applying to colleges, and I don't want this to be seen as negative on my applications or anything. They're seeing it as graffiti or vandalism!\n\nHelp me out here, reddit!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey RA. Please excuse the wall of text!\n\nMy girlfriend (18, freshman in college) and I (male, 19, sophomore in college) broke up tonight, and I'm looking for some words (advice is welcomed too, for sure!) from people who are more experienced than I am. We had both been in relationships prior to this one, but none had been as good. We were at schools about 2 hours apart, but we could only visit each other once every few weekends.\n\nWe had been dating for a year and a half, and it was an extremely mature relationship - there's really no other basic way to say it. We both were open, trusting, always communicating, and very happy loving each other. We didn't have fights, per say, because we ended up talking out our disagreements in a totally reasonable manner. Neither of us could have asked for a better relationship, or better best friends. Our relationship didn't put any strain on relationships with other friends, either!\n\nThis year, my girlfriend entered her freshman year of college. We decided we would stay together and remain communicative about our feelings, which we did. This thanksgiving, she initiated a discussion about how she wanted to start exploring other people at school. I totally understood, and agreed - I would also like to see who else is out there! The problem was, neither of us had a reason to leave the other. We were both very happy and we both still loved each other.\n\nSo, tonight, my girlfriend told me she wanted to break up - not because she was unhappy with our relationship, but rather because she was sad about the distance between us. She was happy every time we got together, but when one of us had to leave to go back to school, she would become sad. She also expressed that she wanted to begin exploring other people at her school. I totally understand both points.\n\nI'm looking for advice partly in that I'm seeking words of encouragement. We don't dislike each other after the breakup. Neither of us cheated, and we were both extremely happy throughout our relationship! It just really, really sucks that it's over for the forseeable future.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am an hourly employee at the corporate office of a large retailer. My hours are 9am-6pm Monday to Friday. I have been with the company for almost a year. A few months after I started working, my boss would call or text me after work hours to ask me to do things. This happened maybe once a month.... At first I would answer the call and if it was a minor task, I would go ahead and complete it no questions asked. I felt as though this showed my willingness to go \"above and beyond\" and somehow score me a promotion sooner or what have you.\n\nLately, my work load has increased significantly and I feel as though I am being taken advantage of. I have asked for a raise since I am no longer doing one persons job....to only be shot down. That being said, my enthusiasm in the work place has lessened and the fact that I am so overwhelmed at work makes me not want to have ANYTHING to do with work once I clock out. That being said, I have stopped answering calls from my boss after hours and he made a comment one day at work about how I never answer his calls anymore on my personal cell phone after work. I would come up with reasons like I didn't hear the phone ring and it was too late to call back or whatever...\n\nThis past Friday he texted me at 9:30pm while I was out celebrating my sister's birthday and asked me to remote into my workstation to complete a minor task....I finally had enough and I texted back \"Since I am not salaried, I would prefer that you not contact me after hours or on weekends about work. Thank you and have a great night.\"\n\nHe replied back, \"Sorry to bother you\". And that was that.\n\nAll day today, he has refused to speak to me, answer any of my emails or return my phone calls....which is not like him at all. WTF? Was my response to him too bitchy or something?? Would you have gone about it another way?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex and I had a brief relationship (around 2 months) a little over a year ago in college. We ended on relatively good terms. Despite being crazy for each other, we were both at tough points in our lives. Sometimes it felt like we didn't have time for each other. So she wanted to avoid either of us getting hurt and decided to end things. In my eyes it came from no where, since I was at least hoping to give things a shot. But I also didn't do much to try and win her back. I never fully got over her despite dating other girls and doing my best to move on. We had brief encounters in the pursuing months and it proved that she wasn't over me either. \n\nWe both graduated and after a couple months back in my home town, I decided to move to a new city. It just so happens that she lives in this same city. It's not the reason for me moving, I have many other friends that reside in that city, its in the same state as the school I graduated from, so most of my college friends live there too. But now that I've been in the process of securing a job and apartment, my ex has spontaneously started texting me again. She is now aware that I am moving up there and has been mentioning how much she would love to see me. \n\nI'm still not over this girl and I'm scared to get hurt again. I was in a really dark place for some time following our breakup and it wasn't too long ago that I finally felt like I was taking steps towards bouncing back. I'd be lying if I said the thought of us getting back together doesn't excite me, but I can't go down the same road as before.\n\nHow should I go about all this?\nIs the risk worth giving it another shot?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I dated this girl for 9 months and we broke up in September. We started to talk recently and became friends. We have talked and I admitted I still like her and would be with her if I had the chance but I know I don't so I don't worry about it and live my life.\n\nProblem is, whenever I see her she is seducing me. She convinced me to get a hotel room with her, when I see her she makes out with me or grabs my hair and pulling my head down and kissing my neck. She claims she has no feelings for me but calls and texts me every day and we talk about everything from if she is sad to just casual stuff and every time I see her she can't seem to keep her hands off me. She also talks about how she wants to be the best I have had.\n\nNow I am fine with this casual hookup because we are great friends and we are just having fun, but her behavior is really starting to confuse me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Original Post [Here](\n\nI talked to him the day after posting the original article and without being absurd or obnoxious calmly and directly stated my discomfort and dislike of him not figuring out his situation with his FWB. He restated his want to do it and that it has been on his mind to put it to rest but didn't know how to say it. I told him if you are gonna do it don't leave the FWB with grey area or confusion. if you want to end it end it. We also both restated that we see the two of us working out long term but he understood that I wouldn't be able to stay with him if the FWB wasn't put to rest soon. I told him I didn't mind if they stayed friends, honestly. Just drop the WB part of FWB. After finishing the conversation we continued on with our evening. When I left we said our goodbyes and I said with a nice but no bullshit tone \"Figure it out with her, please.\" \n\nA week went by we were both extremely busy. I saw him Monday night, and he told me he called it off with her completely and utterly and that it was over between them. He thanked me for saying something to him, because although he had wanted to call it off sooner, he said he just needed a swift kick to finally do it.\n\nI am glad I told him directly my feelings on the matter and then gave him time to take care of it. And even happier that he didn't dawdle, but moved forward and settled the matter. Now we can move forward as a couple.\n \nThank you for your feedback from the first post!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I came home after being away the last couple of years. During my time away I developed a lot of confidence particularly around girls. I have been getting a decent amount of attention from girls who I feel are expressing interest, and I have dated some of them, whilst being friendly and texting others. \n\nI'm currently single and I wouldn't mind having a girlfriend but I'm just kind of going with the flow right now. Basically, I see a lot of potentials but I'm not really worried about making any moves, however I can sense signals. I'm just worried about making friends with too many girls and fear that I may be leading some on while I'm just happy being friends. I find myself hanging out with a lot of girls, I just enjoy their company more than guys. Is it bad to have too many friends that are girls? \n\nI am not trying to brag. I'm just a little concerned as to where this may be heading. Does reddit have any ideas/thoughts/ways to handle this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello Reddit,\n\nI met my girlfriend six months ago on Tinder and we hit it of straight away. We are exclusive, we had the talk and everything.\nCurrently she is away to visit her relatives and all was ok. One of my colleagues has a Tinder Plus account and was making a joke how since we started on Tinder there is a big chance she is using it over there. I laughed it off, but he decided to search for her, so he changed his location and her profile came up. He sent me a msg with proof and everything. \n\nI did a research on how Tinder works and registered again (as i previously deleted mine) got Tinder Plus, changed location and there she was. Now we had a conversation about Tinder before and she said her account was deactivated. As far as I understand if her account is inactive it cannot show there. \n\nI spoke with her right away. She said that she did not use it and does not know how her profile is on also she never deactivated her account but disabled discovery (although she previously showed me how she cannot log in). She did keep the app. I asked her why not remove it all together then. She asked me why? and that she thought that hiding it would be sufficient. I asked her but why keep it? She replied \"why delete it?\". I replied \"Because it shows respect to me and us, why keep it when you are with someone.\" She said she will delete it if it is bugging me that much. She did ask me how i found out and if I trust her a few times.\n\nNow there are a few things i do not like. On our previous talk about tinder she showed me she cannot log in. I vividly remember. Also I do not know how Tinder works, but as far as I know it shows only active users.\n\nI told her that i trust her and that is why I bringing this all up, to clear it up. But unfortunately I do not like the defensive behaviour she showed me. Honestly, right now I do not quite trust her. She is coming back in two days and wonder if it is even worth discussing all this or just break it all up.\nWhat do you think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I assume that there won't be a huge number of NYC police officers on reddit - and if there are, they're probably a little busy right now. I just hope someone on a police force reads this and the idea disseminates to some modest extent. \n\nLet me just say that I think what happened was terrible, but forgetting all the moral arguments and the violation of civil liberties, it seems short sighted for cops to act like that. Honestly, in a city on a weekend there's probably like 5 protests a day - the only ones that get attention are the ones that end in mob violence or police brutality.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my boyfriend have been together on and off for almost four years now. We've been really really great since getting back together- we've actually been better than ever. But let's cut to the chase. We don't have a lot of hobbies we can partake in together. We usually smoke a little bit, watch some things on Netflix, browse reddit, go out to eat sometimes, we hike occasionally... He tends to feel very dragged down by excessive sitting around a lot- I'm very complacent, I could be fine doing almost anything really. Our problem, though, is that neither of us have a lot of money to spend seeing as we're both trying to save up and we're unsure of what things we can do together. \nI'm really terrible with hand eye coordination and thus tend to suck hard at video games or things like that. I'm also not terribly talented at athletics for similar reasons. Any sort of suggestions would be much appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey /relationships, just a question about where to go with my situation.\n\nI'm a senior in high school, and single after a rough breakup with someone I was very attached to. \n\nMy friend, (S), helped me through the breakup, was supportive and listened to my unhappiness. \n\nI heard through a mutual friend that S was interested in 'hooking up' (vague high school terms) with me. \n\nI'm conflicted. S is an attractive, funny and smart person and under normal circumstances I wouldn't hesitate to engage in 'activities' with her, but since there's an emotional/very friendly connection between us I'm worried about ruining a friendship. \n\nI was assured by the mutual friend that S doesn't want to mess up the friendship either, but she is still very into hooking up.\n\nWhat do? I don't want to offend S by denying any advances she might make, but I'm a horny and lonesome teenaged boy.\n\nThanks for taking the time to read this, I'm sure you could be spending it doing something more productive.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We had an great first date, she was really easy to talk to, and we briefly made out before she left. She seems like like an awesome girl. \n\nI learned she was a huge hockey fan, so I asked her a few days afterwards if she wanted to go to a game with me. Her response: \"You are so sweet, but I feel really bad as I definitely wouldn't want you to buy my tickets! I would love to go see a game. I'm happy to do anything, it doesn't have to be as pricey!\"\n\nI told her that of course I would pay for the tickets since I had invited her to the game and that I was happy to buy them. But she responded saying she still wanted to go out but she couldn't accept my offer to buy the tickets. (We are talking about $50 tickets here, nothing too outrageous).\n\nWe agreed to watch the game on TV instead together. Should I surprise her and buy the tickets anyways? Or do you think she actually doesn't want to go like she says? \n\nAlso, she is going to study abroad in January (she is still in college, I graduated), is it even ok to be going out with her?\nThank you!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It accidentally came out that I had to force myself to have sex with him. Clearly he was upset. So how can I make him feel wanted? Or desired? We have been together 5 years. I can keep up with the forced sex but he tells me he doesn't want it if its forced. But I don't know what else to do.\n\nBasically the other night we were attempting to have sex and I wasn't really into it at all. So I told him to stop touching me. But then I felt bad and so tried to initiate sex with him. And then just pulled away from him. Saying that it wasn't working tonight. In the end I just told him how I basically have to force myself to have sex with him. \n\nNormally I just have to force myself when we first start doing anything and then after a while I start to not hate it. \n\nAnyway I don't know how to make him feel better about this. \nI also posted this on askmen earlier and someone said to ask on here.\n\nAlso can anyone please try to explain why you want/need/like sex. People on askmen were saying that it is very important in a relationship. But I just cant understand this. All I can see is that people do it for pleasure and that just makes me feel sick. \n\nSorry for so many questions, but i'll appreciate any advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello!\n\nMy boyfriend [24m] of 5 years revealed the news to me [25 f] that he is enlisting in the army. I'm a whirlwind of emotions, and I'm unsure how to react. I graduated college a year ago, and he graduated this last spring. He had spoken of the possibility of enlisting after school, but I didn't think anything would come of it. Now he's enlisting next month! We've spoken about marriage, having kids, and moving to another area. This changes everything. I'm scared I won't be able to handle not seeing him for months at a time, since we have been living together for nearly 4 years. \n\nI love my boyfriend, and I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but I'm not sure what to do. His enlistment is 4 years. I just can't imagine uprooting my own life, leaving a well paying job I love, and leaving family. I would also want to wait to have a family because I wouldn't want our kids to deal with not seeing their father, but what happens when he reenlists and becomes a career military man? \n\nIf we break up it will be unbelievable hard. I've planned already to spend the rest of my life with him. If we stay together my fear is that something will tear us apart. I don't want to be another failed military marriage. \n\nPlease help, I'm so desperate for advice!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me (21M) and my GF (21F) have been dating for almost 2.5 years. Things have been great, have have the usual rocky road every once in a while but nothing terrible. Anyways to my question, within the past couple of months I have been noticing more and more that my gf, as it feels like to me, does not hear/pay attention to me. \n\nI have brought this issue up to her and she assures me she does indeed love me and listens to me, but there are still many times throughout each day that I find that I personally feel as though I am not receiving the acknowledgement I feel is good for the relationship for both sides. \n\nJust for clarification she is doing great in the relationship. No big problems, no worries.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Story: Met this girl a couple of weeks ago, through a mutual friend.\nShe's very straightforward, friendly. I've been \"jokingly flirty\" since day 1 - the curse of instant crushes - and we've been texting each other almost everyday. In my opinion we're getting along nicely, but she hasn't exposed herself yet - not acknowledging if she realized I'm hitting on her (she must have, I'd say).\n\nRecently I've discovered (she mentioned it in passing) that \"her ex's changed\", \"there might be some rekindling\" (almost her words) - after some initial discomfort I decided to play it like nothing's happened, going by a \"what's the worse that could happen\" mindset - keeping on with the \"friendly flirting\" attitude, like dropping \"wow, you're marriage material! [laugh]\" lines, for the sake of giving you an idea. There have been no negative reactions or any shying away so far, so that makes me doubly confused, having almost no experience in flirting and reading signals. Add to this that any physical contact I've initiated (still keeping a 70% friendly, 30% flirty ratio I'd say) was never \"rejected\" or got her to show signs of discomfort.\n\nWe haven't got a one-on-one meetup yet, while we see each other once per week - so far, we've only met for practice and kept in contact through texting - but I've asked her out, to talk about common interests which we have a lot of, and she's eager to.\n\nI might be overthinking or projecting, but being analytical about everything and unexperienced in dating&relationships, this situation confuses the hell out of me. Especially the stuff she mentioned about her ex, it might have been a \"discouragement tactic\" but I'm not sure at all.\n\nI would be...\"fine\"...with dropping a \"wow I didn't really mean that, sorry\" line if she was uninterested, for the sake of friendship, but still being unable to figure out if I do have a chance or not is driving me crazy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "so here is where I am at, I have an amazing girlfriend who I have dated for just over a year. I think she's perfect but our circumstances are not; she works at a real job on the other side of the country while I'm going to be in (grad) school for the six years\n\nI really like her, but honestly I realize that I won't be able to have a real relationship with her any time soon. Meanwhile we're perfect together, our families love each other and in most people's eyes we're already destined to be married\n\nwhile at school I've met another girl who totally has blown me away, she's nothing like the girl I am dating now but I love to hang out with her just as friends and I love the things that she brings out in me. one night when we got both really drunk we both confessed that we have mutual feelings for each other (no I would never cheat on my gf). We're still cool, and we're still really good friends, but at this point I need to make a some sort of final conclusion so I don't lead either of them on\n\nso I honestly have no idea what to do, if I were to be honest I would probably rather be dating my current gf but in reality circumstances are just so excruciating I don't know if I can keep it up\n\nmeanwhile I have this amazing girl who actually likes me, and who I could actually be in a real relationship\n\nis it worth it to try to wait/work this one out or would I be missing a chance with somebody who would be making me so happy", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my wonderful boyfriend for six months, and as things are starting to get serious, I'm starting to question whether or not we might last in the long-run or not... In the first few months we were dating, I thought about not seeing him anymore because I felt like we were from two totally different worlds. I was very interested in everything he talked about but a lot of the stuff was very foreign to me. We have different tastes in food, music, and culture (I'm Asian and grew up in a very traditional Asian household, he's white-ish/European)...\n\nDespite this, we continued seeing each other and things are going well, although, at times, I feel a little wary because I feel like we don't totally click. I can imagine him with a girl who shares his culture and can be more comfortable with and who not only laughs at his jokes but can play along as well (if that makes sense... I'm terrible with English).\n\nWe get along, we don't have major issues nor do we have any conflicting beliefs, and I know he cares about me a lot and he does a lot of things to show it and he even said during a recent argument (it was about me and some issues... typical gf whining...) that he's \"ready to settle\" (not sure if he means SETTLE settle or settle as in be more serious... hope he means the latter for now), but I can't help but wonder if we would last because of this culture-clash. Also, I'm his first girlfriend and although he says he knows what he wants (me), I'm afraid that he hasn't experienced enough to REALLY know... I love him a lot as a person and if it works out, I would be very happy, but I'm afraid that I might bore him eventually... Will this bring up issues in the future if we stay together?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is a guy that went to the same college as I did. We have mutual friends. I've seen him at a few parties. Up until a few months ago, we had spoken maybe 4 times. He reached out a few months ago and because I was abroad, asked if we could catch up when I got back. I didn't think anything of it at the time, so I said yes.\n\nWell, that's when he starts ending all of his texts with smiley faces and winks. Always says things like \"I'm just a goofy guy ;)\", \"I'm full of compliments. That's the benefit of me :)\" Like he is trying to sell himself to me. \n\nBegrudgingly, I went to coffee with him. He is honestly a great conversationalist. I would love to just be friends with the guy. I could talk to him for hours but I am not attracted to him and not remotely interested in a relationship. He recently asked me to hang out with him again.\n\nI understand that I need to let him down gently. But he hasn't outrightly said that he likes me. I don't want to come across as the girl who thinks so highly of herself that she has to stop something even if there might not be anything there. I don't want to say to him \"sorry, I'd love to go but I want to make it clear that I'm not looking for a relationship\" and have him say \"dude, I just asked you for coffee. relax\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I brought up wanting to go to homecoming with my boyfriend and he said he refused to go and would not tell me why. The thing is I don't even want to go to the actual dance I just wanted to get dressed up and go out to eat and stuff, just the two of us, so its not really a matter of him not wanting to go to the dance or be around people. When I said I still wanted to go with some girlfriends he got upset. I've tried bringing it up again but he gets upset and refuses to speak about or tell me why he doesn't want to go. He knows I don't actually want to go to the dance and that we would not be going with a group like we did the year before. I am just upset that all my friends will get to dress up and have fun and I'll be stuck at home because my boyfriend refuses to take me. I know it's only homecoming and he says he'll go to prom with me but I am starting to doubt that. What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I understand the whole transference thing and having a crush on your counselor is fairly common. \n\nBut I swear to god that the feeling is mutual. I've had counselor in the past and none have been like this. I've dated many girls and I know the queues. Yea I could be way off but this isn't the main reason for my post.\n\nSO because I have it in my head that it is mutual, I keep having these fantasies of firing her as my counselor and asking her out. She is only a registered clinical counselor so there is no law that she has to wait before going on a date. I totally understand that this sounds completely outlandish and it most likely is soooo... \n\nMaybe this should be part of my counseling. I have read all over the internet that if you start developing feelings for your counselor that you should tell them. I feel extremely shy to do it. I literally honestly do want to date her, if we met under any other circumstances we probably would. \n\nSo what do I do? Just tell her? Fire her and ask her on a date? Just ignore these feelings entirely (don't like this one because it's hindering).\n\nMainly it would be nice to hear from someone who went through something similar?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Title says it all. He's in a masters program to further his career while I'm a senior and we are working in a group project together. The first thing that stood out about him is that he is very energized for someone his age and I correctly assumed he had no kids. When we chat about topics outside of the project he has a lot of sage advice about anything you may ask him. He is very perceptive and can read people quite well and is a genuinely friendly person and is always honest (which he admits will get him into trouble with some people). He is well traveled and has had his fair share of adventures and really seems to know how to enjoy life. He is an excellent cook and says most women he starts dating gain 10 pounds as a result.\n\nHe believes his disadvantage in dating is that he's short and balding (he has a great sense of humor about it). Besides that he's in great shape and a very smart guy. He goes to speed dating events but for him that doesn't work well. 4 minutes is never enough to really get to know someone well enough and he cares more about having someone he can be himself around. But what do I know about finding him a date? I'm only 21 years old and I've never really been in a relationship myself. I asked him if he goes to interest sites to meet people where the personality means much more, but he doesn't seem to. He only mentioned considering such sites (and named reddit :D) but he is quite busy with work and school that I doubt he would want the distraction (you ALL know what I mean). \n\nHow do I help him out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and two friends had an apartment for college in NYS. Halfway through our second lease, our landlord threatened to evict us, so one friend and I found another apartment. A few months later, the landlord claimed we caused $10,000 in damages. The house was 80 years old, and he was trying to pin years of renting to college students and neglect of the apartment on us. So we contacted a lawyer who contacted his. After months of negotiations, we came to an agreement of $8,500 just to get it over with, as it was easier to pay the money 3 ways than go to court. We soon found out that the landlord had sold the house, so there is now a new owner. We haven't heard anything from the landlord's lawyer in about 3 months. I was wondering if the landlord would still be able to sue without owning the property?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Now, I don't really even know where to begin with this. I'm a 20 year old woman and I believe i'm a great person, but I just can figure out why men aren't interested in me unless they're just trying to hook up. I've had my fair share of hook ups, but never with someone i've just randomly met and i've continued to have good friendships with these men without having any desire to make a relationship out of it.\n\nI am a full time student trying to get my degree, even doing that I have plenty of time to myself for other activities. I also am a mother. Sure I had my child young, but it's the one thing that changed my life for the better. I was not in school pre child and now my life has come together more than I ever could have hoped for. My child's father and I have a great friendship, and that's all it is. We co-parent very well together. Thus also leading me to have lots of time for myself as our time with our child is split 50/50.\n\nI'd like to think that i'm a great person with a great personality. I enjoy pretty much anything and would be willing to experience new things. I've also always been told that i'm a very attractive woman. Now what am I missing here? I definitely don't need a man to make me happy, as I already am. I just know that i'd love to have that person who makes my life a little brighter.\n\nSome of the men that i've been involved with recently (but not too recently) or interested in always seem to find a way out and I can't help but think it's either something to do with the fact that I already have a child or it's just something about me. I have my entire life in order. I live in my own home, no debt, I attend college and am very close to getting my degree. If I can tell you one thing from that is that I have my life in FAR better order than most people my age and in my situation. Much better than most of my friends too.\n\nSo, any advice would help. I'm not really sure what i'm looking for, but it's something.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was just offered a job at one the larger consulting firms in the US. They are currently doing a background check. 5 years ago I got a misdemeanor for possession of marijuana that was reduced to possession of paraphernalia. Haven't had any other legal issues and can pass a drug test if given one.\n\nBasically, my question is, how likely is it they will rescind the contract offer? During the application I filled out a background check form and was honest and upfront about everything. Am I freaking out over nothing or am I right to worry that my stupid mistake from 5 years ago will come back and haunt me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because they both use reddit. \n\nThis is a long story, and I apologize. Basically, I was with a guy for a bit over three years (August 2007-October 2010) and our relationship was excellent, but then he got offered an internship that meant that he had to move away for a year. We decided our relationship was so excellent that we would be able to handle long distance for a year. \n\nI moved apartments (we had lived together before - couldn't afford rent on my own), and became friends with this guy that lived across the hall. Over the next six months I steadily started falling for him, and realized I wasn't being \"emotionally faithful\" to the first guy anymore, so I ended it when he came home for Thanksgiving in October (we're Canadians). \n\nIn December, I started dating the new guy that lived across the hall. Since we basically lived in the same apartment, we got to be together all the time and that was definitely fun...\n\nBut then, in February, my mom got diagnosed with cancer and I had to move home to help her out for a few months (Parents are divorced, I'm an only child). My new guy decided that he would be okay with long distance, since I'd be moving back in May (hopefully). \n\nTwo weeks ago, he broke up with me because he wasn't feeling it anymore.\n\nThe problem is now that I'm just really angry with myself for throwing away my relationship with my old guy for this new one. Old guy was okay to hold on to me for a whole year when we were long-distance, but new guy couldn't even hold on for two more months. \n\nI guess I'm just really angry because I feel like I wasted my time, and for chose the wrong guy, and really just for a bunch of things. I know I should just chalk it up to \"life experience\" or whatever, but I'm having a hard time doing that. Advice for getting over myself? I know that it was wrong to drop old guy for new one, so I don't need to hear people berating me for that, thanks. \n\nI'm F24, old guy was M24, new guy was M23.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey, so there's this girl I've known for a while now. Probably 5 years or so. She's mainly been a friend of a friend, so we never have been super close or anything like that. In the past year or so we've started hanging out occasionally without our mutual friends. The more I've gotten to know her outside of our friends the more I think we'd be a good match. I can barely get a read on her however, my one friend who is usually really perceptive with things like this also has agreed she's tough to read one way or another.\nFor example, New Years we hung out at a bar. I was next to her at midnight and she didn't even look my way to possibly do the midnight kiss. But we ended up leaving at the same time and she walked arm and arm w me to our train and let me put my arm around her and put her head on my shoulder and fell asleep (she was drunk, it was late). Basically, my question is this, with no real inclination of whether or not this girl is into me would I be making a dumb move by asking her out given our mutual friend circles, could be awkward as hell for all parties involved if I put that out there if she wasn't into it. Also while I'm at it, I've never asked out a long time friend so any stories/advice there would be appreciated as well.\nI'm aware I sound like a wuss, it's probably because I haven't like a girl this much in like 5 years. That's probably half (or more) of the problems I'm having.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dear reddit, I really need to get this out of my chest.\nWell, in high school I (today 19m) started to see my bestfriend (today 19f) differently, and discovered she was actually a wonderful girl, so we fell in love with each other, dated and had a perfect relationship of 2 years. \n\nAt the end of high school, I decided that I was going to undergraduate in a course that doesnt exist in my city, so I had to move and we decided to keep togheter and start a long distance relationship.\n\nI used to visit her twice a month, she couldnt visit me because she studies in a very hard university and has classes even on saturday.\n\nAfter 6 months in a long distance relationship, we started to notice that there was too much suffering, and I started to have financial problems and couldn't afford the tickets to go see her.\n\nWe decided to break up and be just friends, I know its very hard, but not impossible. She is a wonderful girl, very supportive and gives the best advices Ive ever heard! I cant let her disappear of my life.\n\nThe problem is, after 2 weeks we broke up, she doesn't respond my texts, she said she likes me very much and dont think will fall in love with anyone as she fell wjth me, and I dont see how we can maintain a friendship with her attitude(not responding texts).\nI am still in love with her!\n\nOther thing is that I am not really liking my course, and really want to do other course back in my town, but that only will be possible in the begining of 2015.\n\nSo, people of reddit, do you think we can stay friends? Do you think we can get back togheter if I go back to my town? Do have any advice or coments to do?\n\nThanks in advance!! :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been dating for almost two years. My GF will often have 2-3 guys she is \"texting\" at a time. I assume they are all harmless convos but I cant get the worst case scenarios out of my mind like she is cheating on me with these guys or something. She says they are just friends but it doesnt ease my mind much. And I know she doesnt mean any harm by it. She's an attention craver. I think it stems back to daddy issues since she didnt grow up with a dad or much attention as a child. Anyway the problem is that sometimes she'll receive a text and I know its from one of these guys. I feel like this shouldnt be a big issue but I have a lot of insecurities when it comes to girls texting other guys. Ive had bad relationship exprriences with this in the past. Anyway my first instinct is to badger her about it. Asking things like, \"whos that?\" or \"is that a guy?\". Its just the way I am to be nosy like that but its not good. Any time I ask she gets really defensive and irritated that I ask so many questions and feels like I dont trust her. I know that me being like this is only hurting my relationship. \n\nHow do I get over these insecurities and stop being so nosy?\n\nIs this normal?\n\nDo I have a right to ask these questions? \n\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "If you ever lived with a girl before or you are one, you should know that girls shed a lot and their loose strands can be found pretty much anywhere in the house. \n\nUnderstandably, my boyfriend gets incredibly annoyed that he finds so many of them in our bathroom. So now, every time I'm in the bathroom, I always make sure to pick a bunch of my loose hair on the ground and then throw it away. I also brush my hair daily to make sure that I can catch the loose hair before they drop to the ground.\n\nI don't manage to pick up each and every loose strand in the bathroom and that's what he finds unacceptable. The bathroom floor has to be completely free of my hair but the problem is I shed a lot and so often that I can't be spending all of my time cleaning up all my hairs.\n\nIs he being unreasonable?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've had a busted MCL ( for about ten years. This just means when i step on a crooked piece of sidewalk my kneecap dislocates. Fortunately, running in a straight line on a road is a safe activity, so about two years ago I started getting into running. It's now been over a year since my kneecap has dislocated, because I strengthened all the muscles around it so much. That's the good story.\n\nThe bad story? I did it in Nike frees. I had problems with my feet that lead me to choose those shoes. Suddenly, in February, my right IT band went. And I was done. I couldn't run 500 feet. I didn't get it, my left knee was awesome. I had slowly increased my mileage, up to only 4 miles a day. my perfect mid-foot strike and wear pattern on the sole of my frees left me bewildered.\n\n Everyone uses minimalist shoes these days, so it couldn't be that, right? \nWRONG. Turns out that 100% of the problem was the minimalist shoe. Last week I got new shoes and was humiliated as I purchased the chunkiest, ugliest old fashioned sneakers on the advice of the shoe specialist. Now I run on what feels like big fluffy cushions, but my knees haven't even twinged.\n\nWhen I started posting about this issue a lot of people who were ex-runners because of their IT band told me it was hopeless. I hope they see this post and try cushioned shoes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Usually when my bf goes out locally, whether it's drinks after work with colleagues or a night out with the guys, I refrain from blowing up his phone. I think I text about 3 to 4 times that night, just to see how he's doing, if he's having fun, and to wish him a good night (if he's going to be out all night and I'm going to bed). We don't live together and usually see each other on the weekends. He hates texting and so do I, so we don't text each other on the regular anyways. \n\nHowever, when he leaves the country for work I text him way more. \n\nI'm curious to know how often you guys text your SO when they are out with their friends partying and getting hammered. Does it vary if they are local or out of the country/state?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(Throwaway because she uses Reddit as well)\n\nI have been crushing on a girl, we'll call her Amy, for a while now. Amy and I met while participating in the same school club over a year ago, and started getting closer a few months.\n\nAt first I didn't think much about Amy, but after we started meeting up outside of club activities, I started to develop feelings for Amy. I never really thought it would happen (because I never thought Amy would be my type) but it happened. I guess the heart knows best.\n\nA few weeks ago while Amy and I were out drinking, she came back to my place and spent the night. We didn't do anything besides hold hands the whole way back (because it would be wrong since we were drinking)\n\nThe school club is very important to the both of us, and I don't want to ruin that for us, however I feel like if I don't tell her how I feel, I will regret it for an extremely long time. Is it greedy for me to confess?\n\nI guess what I'm looking for is just some advice, inspiration, a push, or just guidance on this, I really care about her and like her. Thank you!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello there! My name is Cameron and I just want to tell you something. Welcome to the Internet, a vast network of interconnected computers and information. Yes, that's what you would think wouldn't you. It's more though, much, much more. The Internet isn't just a collection of information. It is a collection of people, ideas, and dreams. There is no place on this earth that can reach the level of diversity on the internet. The Internet is home to communities that reach every type of conceivable person. One gigantic melting pot of people. People say that America is a melting pot. That is true but only on the smallest of scales. If you were to look at the internet with the standard view, all you would see is information. But think about it as more than just some simple place and you might just find something simply amazing; a place where no matter who you are, there is someone else out there on the internet who is like you. To restate, the internet is more than just information, it is a community, a refuge, and a melting pot. \n\nThank you for reading this, but if you didn't:", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "DISCLAIMER: I am in highschool and this happened a week ago.\n\nThere was this girl who said she liked me and that she needed someone to talk to because \"everyone hates her\", so we started talking. After a while we got close, I would walk her to classes and she would give me a hug every time i walk her, but after a while she stopped talking to me because some guy made a move on her. So apparently she was in-between me and this other guy at the time. She picked him, over me even though i would walk her to classes, even ditch one to see her this one time, but in the end he won. She started to not reply to my messages even though i made it clear to her that I would want us to be just friends. A while later, i went to start another convo on facebook with her, and it had appeared that i couldn't reply to her anymore, nor could I view her profile. I had found out she had blocked me. I'm assuming her new bf told her to block me on all social medias because he probably saw our previous messages, why i assume this is because we had talked before and whenever I would bring up the girl he would make an angry facial expression and also because he had also blocked me. So after I found out I was complaining to a best friend about this and he messaged the girl about how she had me blocked and she said \"I didn't know\". So fast forward till this day and she still has me blocked even after my friend confronted her. Well I guess I'm not going to talk to her anytime soon.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About 9:00 last night, sitting in my usual spot watching some TV with the wife and about to fire up a game. All of a sudden we hear a short horn honk, sounds really close, as in it came from one of our cars parked in the driveway. I throw everything on the floor and run to the window and see someone running across my yard away from our cars. I grab my keys and run outside and this guy is next door and looks back over his shoulder at me and hauls ass. I go check out my car and sure enough, every compartment is open and shit is everywhere. \n\nI get in and take out after him. Knowing the shitty apartments nearby, I figure that's the best direction to head. Turn a couple of corners and I see him hop a fence into a gated apartment complex. This whole time I'm on the phone with a 911 dispatcher giving them information. I pull up to the fence where he jumped it and hit my bright lights, he's gone and there's no way for me to continue the chase. \n\nTwo hours later the cops show up and take all my information and file a report. Fast forward to this morning as I'm driving to work. I look into my neighbors yard where the guy was. There's a huge culvert that runs through their front yard, kind of a dry creek. On the bank of that is a white shirt. I call my wife and she goes out to check it out and also sees an ID card laying there for some trade school. \n\nSo I call the cops to let them know about these items. They sent a unit by. Cop starts looking around and comes across the guys social security card, a few seconds later he finds his drivers license. At this point, I'm fairly certain the crook didn't know the culvert was there and he took a header, went flying and dropped his shit. Cop runs a background check on the guy and he has a record a mile long, mainly for burglary. Picture on the ID match my description perfectly.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the Story:\nI(29M) meet girl (27F) online, we enjoy chatting with each other. She tells me she is in the process of getting a divorce with an alcoholic, to whom she's been married a little more than a year. \nI say \"whatever, I'm cool with that.\"\n\nWe go out on a date. We hit it off amazingly. We can't stop talking to each other on the phone. The \"relationship\" develops, (\"relationship\" because she's still too fresh off the marriage) We became amazingly close. Honestly, there is a lot of future talk going on. We both know there is something wonderful here. \n\n(More information:.... She's a RN)\nJanuary 2014: Her ex-husband gets into a BAD accident. She instantly rushes to his side.... Brings him to her home and takes care of him. All the while I'm left to myself, only receiving calls when she is completely out of earshot of him.\n\nFebruary 5, 2014: She tells me \"I need to figure out who I am\"\nFebruary 12, 2014: Calls and says \"I miss you too much\"\n\nFebruary 28 2014: We've been taking for two weeks. Seems to me like we're more friends now than anything. (and we are complete opposites on paper)\n\nTo be truthful: I'm a SAP who hasn't had many meaningful relationships, and want to know what to think of this one.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met my girlfriend 3 years ago online. We've had a fairly tumultuous relationship - we both struggle with anger, and it leads predictably to a lot of fights. We've both been in counselling, and that's calmed down a lot. We've both been guilty of some nasty shit, and we've tried to forgive and leave it in the past.\n\nHowever, there is one thing we've never been able to settle down on. I am decent with money, and she spends it like it grows on trees. I grew up in a lower middle-class household, and she grew up in a wealthy one. The issue is, although I hold down a good job as an engineer, I still expect her to contribute. We've struggled a lot with getting her to be responsible with money, and she's repeatedly admitted to spending all of her savings on useless shit - including junk food, when I pay for a personal trainer. \n\nI know, it's her money. It's not my business. However, she's promised me repeatedly that she's saving her money, and that became important recently when she lost her job. After that, it all came out of the woodwork - most of her savings are gone, some spent on her student loans, plenty spent on more useless shit and cheating on her diet. She has enough savings for maybe two months paying her necessary bills, which don't include paying me for room and board. I have counseled her repeatedly to make sure she has enough in savings for room and board for several months. Apparently she ignored it. \n\nThis has happened before. She's never consistently paid me rent out of her own paychecks. When I've gotten rent, it's been from student loans for room and board. I love her to death, but at some point I need to cut her loose, because she's incapable of being a grownup. Reddit, how many more shots do I give the woman I love to turn into a grownup?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throw away because this is relevent to me. I found out my ex lied to me about several things from the begining of our relationship. So this morning I went and got tested for all STDs the results don't get back until NLT Monday. All I do right now is think the worst, and waiting until Monday is stressing me out. All I can think about it is this crazy story I've made up in my head. Now a little background, I'm 22 I have some rather big plans for my future and someday having a family is a high priority amoung those plans. I would never dream of hurting anyone, I work with young kids at a taekwondo school in my town on a regular basis in addition to my big boy job. But for whatever reason, I keep picturing getting the results back and them being positive for something uncureable and killing all of my future plans, effectively ruining my life. I then go to confront the ex about it and find out they knew the entire time and knowingly gave me an uncureable terminal disease (I know AIDS isn't technically terminal itself and you can live a long time with it if you stay healthy, but what the hell is the point if you can't achieve your goals with it?). As you might be able to imagine, my blood goes to instant boil at the thought of losing my future because this insolent fuck took it upon themselves to lie and cut my own life short. I don't know if I would actually be able to do it, but the scene that continues plagueing my mind is, after hearing that my ex knowingly gave me this, I brutally kill them with a knife and accept whatever consequences ensue. But after my blood cools off, I feel like shit for even thinking about doing it. I'm stressing out like a mother fucker. >: /", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi guys! I could use some insights/advice here.\n\nSo, we've been dating for six months now, prior to it we were friends for two months or so. When we were only friends she used to talk about anything with me, ask for advice, rant, talk about some problems on her life, etc...\n\nAfter we started dating she don't anymore, we talked about it and she says that there are things she can't talk about with me anymore. Sure somethings she really can't, mostly when she want to vent about the relationship and all that. But she is taking it to the next level, and I quote: \"Gained a boyfriend, lost a friend\", but she \"misses our friendship, it was so good talking to you, you had such amazing advice, even though you never went through the experience\" and wishes she: \"had a time machine so I could get that guy I met, so then I'd have you as a friend and as a boyfriend\".\n\nWhen I say that I'm still that guys, that she can open up with me, and if it is a more delicate subject she just need to approach it in a delicate way, her answer to this is that: if she opens up to me, if we break-up it will only make things harder.\n\nI'm her second serious boyfriend, the first one didn't end well, i believe it is part of the reason.\n\nWill it just take sometime for her to open up to me again?\nAny advice/insight is much appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was a workaholic in college and, accordingly, attained a high-paying management position at a Fortune 50 company. Unfortunately, it was not as amazing of an opportunity as I hoped it would be. It never paid me on time and I was forced to take out loans from my parents in order to pay for groceries and bills. It relocated me 80 plus miles away from my fiance, family, and friends a week before I was supposed to report to my permanent location. It gradually increased the hours I was supposed to work, until I was working 60+ hours a week and being forced to work on holidays. To top it all off, it had an extremely hostile work environment where people frequently yelled, cried, and tore each other down.\n\nFor all of these reasons, and many more, I abandoned the position after four months. When I took the job, I thought I had the next several years of my life perfectly planned out, and feel like a total loser for bailing. My finace told me that I seem a lot happier after quitting the job and reassured me that it was the right decision. Nevertheless, after three weeks of job hunting with no \"perfect\" replacement job, I can't help but feel discouraged.\n\nDoes anyone have any advice for me moving forward?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Super quick background: we got together spring of our senior year of undergrad, knowing full well we weren't sure where either of us would end up after graduation. So we planned to break up mutually and amicably at the end of the summer. And we did. I moved away for grad school, but we still remained best friends and talked every day. Almost a year later, we decided to get back together despite the hardship of distance.\n\nIt's going fantastically. But I'm feeling a lot of guilt about how unequal our relationship is due to finances. Being in grad school, I have barely enough income for basic needs. He's making very decent money at his full time job. When we first got together, it was important to me to split costs evenly, alternating who pays for dates, going Dutch, etc. But now he pays for most things and I feel so guilty. (Spoiled and well taken care of, too! but not comfortably.) Most recently, he flew out to see me, and when we discussed the next time we'd see each other, he immediately bought tickets to fly me out to his city. It makes me feel like I owe him. I think it's important to note that these feelings are only on my end. He does this completely willingly, and he does not mind at all paying for things. He considers it an investment in our time spent together, and not just for my benefit.\n\nI'm looking for advice on how I can deal with feeling inadequate until I graduate (one more year!) and can contribute financially to our relationship. Do I just try to find peace with it? Do you try to make up for it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met during college about 4 years ago. Initially, we hooked up once , but nothing came of it because I ended up in a relationship. We maintained a weak friendship for about 2 years until things got rocky with my boyfriend. At that point, my now roommate ended up convincing me to cheat on and leave my boyfriend.\n\nSo, we continued hooking up for a year, no strings attached. I was seeing other people, and had assumed he was doing the same. Earlier this year, he became upset about me seeing other people, and in return I stopped and committed to only him. By June, we moved into a house with 4 total roommates, and continued to only see each other (at least I did). By late December, I found the commitment without a title to be dissatisfying and asked him if we could take a break from each other. I told him I don't know how to be friends without sex, and I need some time apart. He twisted my words and says I don't \"want\" to be friends, and now he's bringing girls into our home.\n\nBasically, I'm feeling sick and anxious with him bringing other girls into my home. I'm losing weight and I'm having sleep problems. I've quit drinking, drugs, and having sex for the time being. However, I'm having a hard time dealing with the loss of intimacy and overall, a friend.\n\nI've asked him to move out for a week and not bring girls back, for my health and sanity. He's arguing that my demands are ridiculous. Are they? How can we compromise?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I work at a family business that is very quickly growing into a large business. I have been working there for 3 years with my husband [32M], both his parents and his sister.\n\nBasically his sister thinks I have been going behind her back attempting to sabotage her part of the business, and I honestly am blown away that she thinks that. While she was pregnant and on leave I helped build her brand into something that could really take off and she really did not do anything with it once I passed it back to her.\n\nAfter a big dramatic event at work, she did not talk to me and my husband for an entire month.\n\nI finally confronted her about it today and told her I was sorry that it seemed like we were going behind her back, but that was never any of our intention and we didn't mean to hurt her if we had done so and I would like to mend our relationship and sister-in-laws.\n\nShe came back and said that I was young and immature and don't think about other people. I apparently am incredibly inconsiderate and am too ambitious. She also says I never should have had anything to do with her part of the business/brand and that it was my fault that it is the way it is. She says she doesn't want anything to do with us right now and we took too long to apologize to her and her ship has sailed.\n\nI am afraid I am breaking up my husbands family. His parents have only given us bad advice from the start and its really what has gotten us to this breaking point. They kept telling us to move forward with working on her stuff, then when we said we didn't have the bandwidth anymore to the CEO and her boss, thats when she stopped talking to us.\n\nCommunication with her has been out the door since she got pregnant with her first kid. I will admit that my communication should have been better, but she did not make any effort herself.\n\nSo now this whole family fight is my fault and I am the one who just married in and I feel like I am breaking the family apart. How do I fix everything?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me [f,20] and him [m,20] were together for 8 months or so, then another month of on and off until today when I decided I had enough of being pulled around and need to focus on myself for awhile.\n\nAny-whom, we talk over why we are not working etc etc and we stop for a goodbye hug and kiss. I am feeling pretty sad, but also free at this point. We say goodbye, and part ways. I head to a nearby park and sit down. Feeling a little sorry for myself have a cry on the sly (oh, rhyming!) and this homeless man comes over and sits beside me. \n\nHe introduces himself, and asks me if I am okay. Such kindness from someone who is worse off than me just makes me lose the plot a little bit and I sniffle that my boyfriend and I have just broken up. He asks me how long we were together, I tell him, and he laughs. I was shocked a bit, until he kindly explains that this is a short time, and I am so young. He tells me I am the future, I am the generation that will be in power soon. He tells me I should focus on my goals and get out there and make a difference. He tells me about his experiences of loss and his battles. They make mine feel so small.\n\nAnd then he shares his joint with me. Oh the kindness of a stranger", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This FU didn't happen today but it's not like the title says otherwise. Anyway it was last summer.\nMy girlfriend had recently moved in with me, like, a month before this story happened. It was a nice Sunday, so no work. Plus, it was my birthday. If you do the math, (sunday+birthday+just-moved-in girlfriend) you can see why I was expecting some sex.\nSo when I heard \"Happy Birthday\" and I saw my girlfriend with a really naughty lingerie, I was pretty happy. Anyway, we get going. It was the best sex we had ever had. I saw she was about to have an orgasm, so I started going faster. When she reached the climax, one of her leg started shaking. I'm not gonna lie, it was really hot and I felt like the god of sex. I was basking in my abilities, when all of a sudden \n\n\"MEEEEEOOOOOOOW\"\n\nIt was incredibly loud and it scared the crap out of us. Apparently my gf had kicked over a lamp with her leg, and that cockblocker of our cat decided that was the perfect time to crawl out the bedstand he was hiding under. The falling lamp knocked him out. He wasn't moving at all, so we got up and started dressing. While my gf called the vet (who thankfully is a close friend and lives quite near), I checked the cat: i could feel his pulse, so I put him in his transport cage and then we rushed to the car.\nHalfway there, and, thank God, the little bastard woke up with the cutest meow.\nWe arrived at our friend who checked him and reassured us everything was okay. My girlfriend spent the rest of the day hugging the cat and crying. Since then, before having sex I have to search for the cat and lock him out of the room, which can kinda kill the mood", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I think the title says it all, but I figure I should give some background all the same. I met this girl when I was 17 and she was 13, and we developed a sort of big sister/little sister relationship. She was badly abused as a child, absentee father, but also incredibly bright and precocious. We spent a lot of time talking activism, debate (we were both on the team in our high school) and her life in high school while I was a couple hours away at college. \n\nOver the last year or so we've drifted, but I've reconnected with her a bit as I'm back in my hometown for the summer. She mentioned that she'd been seeing someone new, but I didn't have a chance to ask her too much. We both follow each other on tumblr, and the other day she posted a very explicit paragraph about going to her 'boyfriend's' house, where they'd had sex for a long time and hung out. His age (46) is on there. Naturally my big sister instincts kicked in right away, but I have no idea how to approach the issue. The kicker is this: in our state, the age of consent _is_ 17. \n\nUltimately, I don't know if I'm going to be shut down for this. Can anything be done? Even if it's technically legal, it seems so predatory I'd feel complicit if I did nothing. Thanks everyone for your time!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically it comes down to me being a very stubborn person. \n\nIf someone doesn't believe in me, I'd do everything to be able to say \"I told you so\" right in front of them. \n\n I haven't run for about half a year, but yesterday I jokingly said to someone \"I'm gonna start running again tomorrow\" and she just laughed out loud. Now I'm lying here in my robe after showering off all the sweat from the run. Also, my boss believed that I couldn't finish this application within this week. It's Tuesday, and I'm done already. \n\nWhen I think back, this happens all the time. however once I've proved them wrong, I don't go out of my way to keep it up, because I get the sense of accomplishment. \n\nI'm already getting some nice daily habits making a relatively productive person compared to myself a year ago, however this trick really shoots me through the roof. \n\n**The point/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This has been happening to me a lot lately. I'll get an interview, and the person who has seen my resume tells me right off it looks like my experience is a great match for the position, before we even start. \n\n(I'm just applying for customer service jobs for the most part, and my resume includes a lot of that, plus some lower management in a customer service job)\n\nAnyway, I do just fine with actual customer service, for some odd reason. \n\nOutside of work, i don't really have a social life. I'm perfectly comfortable interacting with friends through text, but i rarely see any in person. When i do, i get a bit weird, but that's around people i'm friends with. \n\nJob interviews though... My mind goes blank. I try to mitigate this problem by researching what the particular company i'm working with uses for interview questions, and preparing and practicing my answers ahead of time. This doesn't work. My mind goes entirely blank, i stumble over words, it's pathetic, and every single time someone has indicated that they definitely want me to work for them based on my resume, by the end of the interview they've changed their mind. \n\nWhat can i do about this? I don't have the luxury to just keep practicing and get better, since interviews don't come around that often and i need to actually get a job fairly soon because i'm currently without an income (due to moving to a new area and taking a seasonal job which ended)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "OK... I am currently a 26 year old male. I have been in a relationship for 8 months with a girl I am unsure of. My older co-worker who is now 30 dates guys occasionally from Match.Com. Anyways I get drinks with her as co-workers frequently (a bit less frequently in the last 5 months) and we generally get a long GREAT. Every time she gets drunk she says she can't find a guy and starts talking about how she would just like to let go of some stress. We have talked a few times about this and a few other people have mentioned it to both of us that we might be compatible. I am not the best looking guy but I do well with the ladies. Anyways I have a question.\n \"\nEssentially she tells me that we are both just friends but then just says that she wants to get laid. I always kind of bluntly play it off. I am unsure if her being like \"Yeah we are just friends\" when I say \"If we were not co-workers I would certainly be attracted to you\" is code for \"please make a move on me.\" I know she is not seeing anyone else and I think I may be in this case", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Before anything else: platonically. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married.\n\nI've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First of all, i got into a car accident like 4 months ago while my sister's friend (lets call her Kim) was in the passenger sit. I made a U-turn and while i saw car was coming but i guess i was wrong and i got hit from the back while about to get into my lane. My car was totaled after sniping out of control and Kim (I must say, i think she's a total brat and i highly dislike her but my sister begged me to take her to her house, so i did) ended up in the hospital to get stitches in her head. I felt fucked up as well but i was too scared and too busy panicking to think about anything else. The police report said that it was neutral fault. Well here's the thing i don't understand. Kim ended with a check of 10,000 to pay for her hospital bills while i ended up having to buy another car at my expense and my insurance went up. They gave her a check and i'm pretty sure she wasted all the money already without paying the hospital bill yet. Why does it work like that?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm single and have two years of work experience. I have worked as a risk analyst in New York for a year and each day that I go to work I feel inauthentic- like I'm cheating myself. The paychecks are good, and that's a requirement for me, but I truly seek something more slow-paced, analytical, strategic, honest, and natural. I need more thinking, planning, strategizing, and team-working, way less customer service, blame, stress, thanklessness. I often have Walden Pond-esque fantasies, like picking up and living off the land, hiking the appalachian trail, and WWOOF'ing (likely a knee-jerk reaction to how disconnected I feel), but in this day and age, this economy, this area, and with my student loan debt (60k), I would have to sacrifice my lifestyle, my hopes of owning a home anytime soon, the opportunity to financially provide for a family, and the flexibility to make contributions towards savings and retirement. I'm a thoughtful, honest, philosophical, and natural business professional who just feels disconnected by the hours, the work-load, the stress, and the monotony of my job. It's unfulfilling, I'm too young to be trusted to use my brain, and everything just feels unnatural. I don't mind the business-world, I really just need the right fit. Any suggestions at all? I'm sure most of you have been working and feeling the way I do for more years than I've been alive, but it just doesn't feel right and I wonder if anyone's figured it out and made it better.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 20(M) and she's 18(F). Yeah, young I know. I've known this girl for about a month and a half.\n\nI'm in the second year of my program, and recently met a first year student who was cute, nice, and overall just awesome. Long story short, I fell for her. Problem was is that she has a boyfriend, but he's an asshole. Super big asshole, like they should already be broken up asshole. And it wasn't just the whole \"I like her and wish she was single\" POV, this guy is a grade A douche.\n\nThe way she talks to me though, it's like she was single. She always wanted to hang out, was flirty, and always seemed like she wanted to see me. Asked me to buy her things, asking me for rides. She even told me about her relationship troubles, which is how I came to the conclusion and BF is a douche. Other people thought she might've had a thing for me, hell even our teachers did.\n\nSo I did what any sound minded gentleman would do, I told her about it. She invited me over to her place after I got off work cause she wanted to hang out for a bit before her party(which I also got invited to, but declined.) I told her I felt like she played me, that it was like I was being used. She has a boyfriend, so why act like she didn't?\n\nShe felt guilty, and cried. She texted me a couple hours later saying that she's appalled I would even think she was using me, so maybe I was wrong. But I have noooo idea. HEEEEELP.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 20(F), flatmate is 19(F). She and I met through a mutual friend last year, and have gotten along very well since then. \n\nWhen we decided to live together for university (I couldn't afford to pay for my flat alone), I asked her if she would be having people over a lot, because I get very uncomfortable when guests stay overnight, due to anxiety-related issues. She told me that she didn't have guests over often. \n\nWe've only been living together since the start of the semester, so maybe about five weeks? In that time, her boyfriend has been over nearly every week (usually in the middle of the week, and stays 2-4 days). I confronted her about a couple of weeks back, asking her if she could have him over less often. Since the month of October is very busy for both of us, I asked if she could make sure that we could have a few weeks without his company. She promised that she would cooperate, but then today, he showed up, supposedly unannounced (this happened last week as well).\n\nNow, he's a really nice guy, so I don't want to be a bitch about it, but I really can't deal with him being over all the time. I understand that since they live in different cities, they would want to visit each other often, but I find it terribly inconsiderate that she lets him spend so much time here, when we agreed about this issue before moving in together. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I honestly don't know what to do at this point and I feel so empty. I've been in a long distance relationship with him and we've been going strong for 5 months. He visits me in LA and I visit him in Seattle. I recently visited him in Seattle last weekend for almost a week and not going to lie, the moment i saw him, things seemed \"different\" I kept asking him what's wrong and he said nothing is wrong and that's just how he is. That he is comfortable with me. \na little back story: this guy has liked me since 4 years ago and tried to get with me this whole time and I finally caved in and I really like him now. Even though we're far away from each other, I still wanted to make it work.\n\nAnyways, We had our good times while I was there and I enjoyed every minute of it. Our plan was to move in together within the next couple of months. We even talked about it one more time on my last day in Seattle. He said that he isn't ready and that we should wait a bit more. I was crushed because I was set on moving and everything seemed perfect. When I landed in LA, we talked on the phone and he told me that there's something missing in our relationship and that we seemed \"different\" when I was in Seattle. Like we are not clicking. I knew something was different, but I just thought it was him. But apparently, there was something different between us. I'm so confused. Does he still like me? I don't understand. He's been chasing me for so long and now that he has me, he's not really trying? I still want to be with him, but I dont know if Im willing to wait for him to be \"ready\" He told me to give him some time to think about it, but at this point..if he's already having doubts...isnt it over? Please help, I'm really torn about this. I cant eat or sleep. Should I just move on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So there's the 3rd anniversary of a full, half, 10k, 5k, etc going on this weekend in strikingly beautiful Shepherdstown, WV, which is near my hometown so my dad (an ex-distance runner...he'd average 3 a year back in the day) signed he and I up and I was planning to run it super slow, as I have 12 on the [Hal Higdon Novice 1 training schedule] this weekend before a 2 week taper prior to Baltimore. \n\nMy first 20 mile run ever this past weekend felt good, and the 14 the week before felt great. I'm slightly overweight and not as dedicated as I should be-i.e., I have definitely not 'overtrained'-so my marathon plans are more or less to finish and to try to hit 4:20. My long runs like the 20 miler were around a 10 minute pace...but I feel really good right now and am thinking I could really kick this half marathon's ass if i put my mind to it. \n\nI ran it in 1:58 last year (9:03) and if I tried I'm pretty sure I could improve upon that. The question is...should I try? All this work has been to lead up to the marathon, and following a schedule I have been astonished with my recovery ability, so I'm looking for advice on this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my husband and myself will be doing a year long fundraiser, to help other diabetics Live the Cure, through an active and natural lifestyle. \n\nWe will be climbing everyday for 365 Days across the US to do this. \n\nNow being experienced climbing dirtbags, this is not our first time at the rodeo and we are fully and completely prepared to do this on a shoe string budget and live out of our 84 Toyota Tercel in necessary. \n\nHowever a trip of this size and length clearly would be much more comfy with a little leg room and a traveling homebase to keep other interested via blogs and what not. \n\nSo that being said, if you know anyone that would be willing to donate/loan their (working) RV or Travel Trailer to us for this cause send them my way. \n\nand just so you know I'm not full of shit. \n\n[LIVINGVERTICAL] \n\nIf we weren't trying to make an impact on difference in the feeling of dread that accompanies a Type 1 Diagnosis and just wanted to climb everyday for a year for funsies, I wouldn't be trying.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a girl who has only had short term relationships. I just dated people because that was the thing to do in high school... I'm now in University and have met a guy that I would love to try and go the distance. He says he really likes me and we act like we're dating, but he broke up with his long time girl at the beginning of the semester and has episodes of missing her, I'm totally for waiting and not pushing him into anything but it puts a lot of emotional stress on everything because I don't know if I should be there for him as a friend instead. I know what I want, but he doesn't know and I'm confused if I should move on until he figures it out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know you guys must be sick of giving tax advice, but here is another question. I want to know if I should pay someone to do my taxes, like H & R Block, or use the H & R Block online software, like I have done for the last two years. It costs about $60, I think to file them using their software and I think it is around $150 - $200 or so to get it done at an actual H & R store. \n\nI am a single mother, so I will be claiming head of household with one dependent, I have had two jobs this years, so I have two W2's, and I have to claim unemployment-and I had no taxes taken out of the unemployment. I also have day care expenses to claim. I also moved this year, but not more than fifty miles or for work (I know that matters with taxes).\n\nLast year, when I filed myself using the online software, my circumstances were pretty much the same (except no moving), so it isn't difficult for me to file them myself. I just haven't gotten back a lot of money, which is fine, in a way, because I set up my taxes so I won't get a big return at the end of the year-because why give the government a free loan and all that. \n\nSo, do you think I should pay someone to file them for me (I wonder if I could somehow get a larger return), or is it not worth it and I am better off doing them on my own. \n\nI'd like to add I am not stuck on H & R Block, I have just used them in the past.\n\nThank you for your time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello people, I am in need of some relationship advice. To preface this I have to start by saying I've been cheated on in the past by 2 different girls one of which I was just shy of getting married to before she came clean...so I'm not the most trusting person in the world anymore.\nI have been seeing this girl for about 3 months now and when I first met her roughly 4.5 months ago she still had a boyfriend. I am aware that this looks like a rebound thing but he was a long distance bf and we've taken things very slow because I wanted to ensure that I was not a rebound. Things have been going smoothly with us and we get along very well. Over the summer she got another job and is moving to a new place (which is closer to her work and to me coincidentally) so she has not had as much free time to spend with me the last few weeks. Here is my problem, she is afraid of commitment especially since she just got out of a 2 year long distance relationship and she does not want to commit to becoming official. Another reason is that she has very little free time lately because of the new job and getting her house ready for the move. I have a growing fear that she doesn't want to commit because she wants to \"shop around\" I have this anxiety even though we have had the exclusive talk. \n\nSo how do I bridge this gap of where we are in the relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a little tipsy, but hopefully this still makes sense.\n\nI'm getting ready to fly to visit my boyfriend's family (on the other side of the US) for the 4th time, and I really think it's about time to start thinking about marriage with my boyfriend.\n\nWe've lived together since October of last year, been together since April of 2013, and we are very close. We love each other, and say it every day. My family thinks he's great, and vice versa. He and my dad text each other about their 3d printing hobby. His mom sends me birthday gifts. Things are great, but we never talk about marriage except in very hypothetical terms. Like, I've asked him, \"Can you see yourself getting married to me?\" and he said \"Of course\".\n\nBut how do I ask about making it actually happen? Should I be blunt, like \"I want to get engaged in the next two years! Are you in?\" \n\nI'm so scared that real talk about marriage will freak him out. I've heard so much about how men are trying to avoid marriage. I don't want to lose the best relationship I've ever had because I was too impatient about marriage.\n\nPlease help!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm [20] concerned. I've been in a relationship with this girl [19] closing in on two years now. We've been happy the entire time, but of late she's been bringing up a known ex of her's quite frequently and with more affection than necessary.\n\nNow, let's get the story of the ex straight. He damaged her, socially and mentally, she has told me he was the worst thing that ever happened and \"a fucking idiot\" many times. He still pops into conversation ever now and then since he's now dating a common acquaintance of ours.\n\nOf late, however, she's been mentioning him much more and with far greater detail - at least in terms of what he is up to. I'm fine with her chatting to him but not anything more (he's across country, and we are at varsity together) but she hadn't done so for close to 6 months.\n\nSo, she tells me the other day he had contacted her out of the blue again. He says he's breaking up with the acquaintance and needs advice on how to move forward, telling my gf his problems etc. She told me this, and I was again fine with it as I thought that was as far as it extended. It wasn't. They had had an hours long, intensive discussion as if he'd never left and never hurt her. She was responding to his obvious flirtation encouraging remarks - even going so far as calling him \"the light at the end of this tunnel [semester]\" and other remarks indicating they intend to meet up (which they haven't done since almost before we started dating). I should mention that I was goofing around on her phone when I found the thread, it wasn't intentional.\n\nHonestly, I've had thoughts about a break up recently. I'd like your thoughts as to whether it's simply those notions making this hurt all the more raw, or do I actually have something to worry about here?\n\nI'm confronting her tomorrow about it . What do I do? Am I overreacting?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm a hedonist or rather a complete trainwreck; I'm a college dropout who went into mediocrity for the simplicity it offered (also a variety of drug related convictions, chiefly opiate related) and live in a \"rapidly gentrifying neighborhood\" (shady, sketchy and shitty) near a medical college. I'm 22, I've been living in a three apartment townhouse for 3 years, every year around June the leases expire and new leasers occupy the other two apartments; I generally don't pay attention as my landlord is a slum lord and we have a mutual desire to be left the fuck alone; my life constitutes of working and getting high at home, life passes me by. Anyway about two weeks ago I nodded off in front of my apartment's door and I wake up being observed by this Indian chick who woke me up, got me inside and layed me on my side. Sweet girl, didn't call an ambulance, so she was alright in my book. Only now she's around an uncomfortable amount of time, surpassing the neighborly and creeping into the maternal. I wasn't aware until she attempted to lay out a two year \"self renovation\" plan for me a few hours ago. Now I'm not entirely sober currently so I'll update come morning when I'm not nodding off but I had a college catalog shoved in my face, she had a alarmingly detailed journal of sorts with my details and called my current profession (welder/machinist/professional junkie) as a \"phase.\" I thought it was kinda cool having a little assistant/secretary to manage my affairs; it just hit me a bit ago that normal people don't buy you clean syringes and amazon prime you micron filter syringe attachments; she taught me the safest way to make a morphine solution from a tablet, that's mental, she's mental.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My father used to live in Chicago. He owned a furniture store. There was a large business across the street, and the business didn't have very good parking. So, this one employee would always park in my father's parking lot.\n\nMy father asked him everyday for a week to please stop parking there, because it took parking spots away from his customers.\n\nOn the first 4 days the guy says \"yah, sure. I won't park here.\"\n\nOn the 5th day, the guy says, \"Fuck off! This is a free country!\"\n\nSo, my dad waits for the guy to park in his lot again the following Monday.\n\nThe guy parks in my father's parking lot, flips him off, and then storms to the business across the street.\n\nSo, my father being the natural badass he was, sprays water all over the car. Keep in mind this is in CHICAGO. In the FUCKING WINTER.\n\nWhen the guy comes out from work a few hours later, he finds my dad standing there with a hose, smoking a cigarette, with the douchebag's car almost completely frozen.\n\nThe guy flips his shit and tells my dad he's calling the cops, and my father just says nonchalantly \"It's a free country, isn't it?\".\n\nThe douchebag's car was frozen in my father's parking lot for the rest of the winter. It was actually in the news, but I can't seem to find it on the internet, considering it happened in like the 60's.\n\nNeedless to say, the following spring, the guy didn't park his car in my father's parking lot.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I've known the guy for 18 years. We have a lot of shared moments, went to the same schools, stayed in contact since leaving, have laughed, cried, been drunk, know each others' families, know everything about each other. We have no secrets. Having gone a year or so without meeting up since he had been studying abroad, we had lunch, there was suddenly all this amazing chemistry, he was incredibly affectionate, and, long story short, we ended up having some sort of fling. This lasted a few weeks, then he decided he actually quite wanted to pursue another girl. The only reason I agreed to act on the very blatant sexual tension with him was my understanding, based on a lot of things that he had said/talked about, that this could seriously go somewhere, but timing wasn't right. I was hurt beyond belief - he was the first person I'd been intimate with since a serious sexual assault a couple of years ago, and actually, excepting that experience, only the second guy I've ever been with, which he knew about. I really felt like I could trust him. We talked, I explained all this...he is distraught and genuinely sorry for the hurt he has caused me, and I, whilst acknowledging that hurt, have made my forgiveness clear - I've known him long enough and know him well enough to know that this was not at all intentional. \n\nNow looking for advice on how to take our friendship forward. I really truly forgive him, I'm not angry or bitter - just wanting to protect my heart. I told him I needed a few days cold turkey after the conversation we had but now we are back to texting ALL THE TIME (I mean constantly, all day, every day) and I just don't know how to deal with it!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I love my husband sometimes, but I don't love him all of the time. I may feel bad for him sometimes, and try to love him out of pity, but I know that isn't love. I just had to get that off of my chest. \n\nMy husband knows that I loved him enough to have given my virginity to him. \n\nI don't like it when he guilt trips me to try to get into my pants faster when I don't feel like having sex.\n\nSometimes I'm not sure why I married my husband. I hope that it's not out of pity. I'm scared that if he ever finds out that I get guilt tripped easily into \"love\", he'll get angry that I may not love him as much as he loves me.\n\nWhat should I do? I'm scared that he has already figured it out that I may never love him as much as he loves me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [f,20] have been with my boyfriend [m,20] for over 2 years now, and at the beginning of this year, I moved hours away for college. The distance has been a struggle. Communication is the hardest thing. Our work/study times cross over so if we do have time to talk in the day, its very brief. \nWe are very comfortable with each other, so with that we are used to what we have in this relationship. There doesnt seem to be the excitement anymore, and it is very hard to maintain that while in a LDR. \nLately, we have been getting really short with each other and end up arguing over the stupidest, most minimal things. \nThere may be a chance for me to transfer my course somewhere that isnt so far from his town, and we may be able to see each other more often. \nI am seeing him for a week from tomorrow, and I really want to do my part in making the relationship more fun, flirty and exciting but dont really know where to start or how to do that? \nI dont want to give up just saying the relationship is 'boring' if I/we havent done anything to try fix that.. \n\n**bold", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Original Post\n\nWow, was this four months ago? crazy!\n\nAnyway, I took the advice in the comments and stopped replying to Mr. Freeloader. In short I started seeing someone else (that didn't work out but oh well! another liar for another time!) and starting ignoring Freeloaders messages. He became more desperate and would ask to see me. I suffered with a heavy blow of Glandular Fever so used that as an excuse as to why I couldn't come and see him. He made no effort to come and see me.\n\nHe launched into a massive rant about how his sheltered housing was now \"dangerous for him to live at\" because someone involved with drugs/witnessed a murder was in there for safety. He whined \"that its not exactly good for me is it? I need to know whats going on! I need to get out of here and have a safe place to stay in don't I?. He knew that my house was free as my parents were away, a massive hint drop if ever I saw one. So I brushed it off and said \"I hope you find somewhere\" as sad as I was for him, I certainly did not want him at mine outstaying his welcome and going through my things, helping himself to food and toiletries. He kept on for a few days and then obviously realised his efforts to see me and his hints were futile. \n\nSo now I haven't heard off him for the past 2 months. No calls, no texts, no Facebook messages. He's very absent on Facebook and last I saw he was moaning about not being able to play Pokemon Go on his \"POS phone\" \n\nThank you for the comments guys, I certainly do not associate with him anymore. When I tell people about him I often get back \"yea he's like that. Now you won't help him with money or lodgings he's not interested\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm contemplating applying for [this card] I'm trying to get my credit back on track after moving overseas (from the U.S.) and neglecting my finances back home for years. I already have a Capital One card that's unsecured and has a $2,500 limit. I'm charging Netflix to it to keep a balance ticking over, then have the bill paid automatically every month from checking.\n\nThis has been in operation for something like nine months. About three months ago, I decided to apply for another card I thought I'd qualify for, hoping to increase my overall limit. I was denied. Got an offer in the mail for another one just recently, applied for it and was rejected. Little do these banks know, I have many years of perfect payment history overseas.\n\nAnyhow, I have a fairly huge emergency fund and no debt. I think putting a $3,000 deposit down and getting this secured card may be a good move in my quest to improve my credit standing. As I understand it, the higher limit would reduce my utilization somewhat, but would also show that banks were willing to lend to me (even though they're actually not). One of the reasons cited for rejections has been a low number of open accounts.\n\nIs this smart? The deposit for this card would be placed in an interest-bearing account, according to the terms. There's a chance – it's not clear how big a chance – that I'd be converted to an unsecured account after a year or so. I hope at that point I'd be able to withdraw my money, although astonishingly the T&C don't address this at all. The only downside I can think of is a situation where I'm not able to convert it to an unsecured card in the future but I want/need the deposit. I'm also not clear on whether converting to unsecured would mean opening a new account and closing the original, which it seems would negatively affect average account age.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all,\n\nLet me preface this by saying that my wife had a tough growing up with a mildly abusive father (verbally abusive, mildly physically abusive). \n\nArguments frequently become heated and my wife has a tough time dealing with her anger. Seemingly minor things spiral way out of control, leading to her mentally breaking down, throwing things (sometimes at me), sometimes breaking things. I fear for my safety when this happens; she say she would hurt herself before she touched me, but it's still a very scary thing to be around. She mentions seeing a therapist, but never follows through and sometimes accuses me of being the problem, usually apologizing later.\n\nI try my best to diffuse arguments before they get this way but I feel frustrated that my attempts to calm her seem futile. Whereas her physical actions seem minor, I still fear for my safety when we argue because of her mental instability. I am not denying that I can improve at being a good husband in many ways, but my actions do not justify this behavior. I'm scared for both of our safety.\n\nExample from our last argument: She ended up raging, punching the pillow beside my head where i was laying down several times at full strength. Did she hit me? No. Was it still scary as hell? Yes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 month and 1 week, on a date this Friday we were going for a walk and I told him that I love him. He seemed caught off guard by it and he didn't say he loves me back, which was upsetting but I didn't want to make him feel bad for not loving me back so I tried to just change the topic and continue on with our day. Now today we've been texting about it and I asked if he feels like he loves me, and he said he doesn't know yet and that he's confused, we haven't been dating very long and stuff. I felt offended by that since he was basically saying that our relationship isn't special to him in a way, and that he doesn't feel like it's serious or anything. Do you think I said it too early in our relationship? Or am I right about him not being committed by not saying it back? Keep in mind we were sort of \"dating\" for a couple weeks before the 1 month and 1 week even, that's just when we became official.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I was dating her in college, and then things kind of dwindled apart. A year later, we start talking... we both sort of realize we still love each other. I live on the west coast, she lives on the east coast. She comes to visit, it's fantastic, she wants to get back together, but I don't really fully emotionally release because we're not together. She takes that as - I just wanted her to come visit to have sex and have no interest in dating again. I don't know how to respond to that and I'm unsure we should get back together after spending 3 days together, and so we stop talking for like 3 weeks. Now it's 3 weeks later and I'm kinda going nuts because i had a shot to have her back and I realize too late how much I love her, basically i fucked it up. This has happened before, so she will probably hate me if i just tell her I want her back....what do i do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My [f21] boyfriend [m21] is going to be going to therapy soon for a lot of anxiety and depression brought on by a chronic kidney disorder he has been dealing with for years now.\n\nWe have decided to revert back to a dating kind of lifestyle together where we see each other a limited amount, and only to go to eat somewhere or go to the movies, etc. basically only on dates....so no sleeping over or hanging around apartments for extended amounts of time.\n\nWe will continue to keep in contact like we normally do whenever we are apart.\nWe go to the same university so we are never too far from each other if we need one another.\n\nWe felt it's best to have space so he can focus on himself and getting better. \n\nI understand that finding the right therapist, as well as therapy itself is a long process, and that there is a chance it could get worse before it gets better for him.\n\nAll I ask is how can I help support him through this process while maintaining my own happiness and helping him stay positive about his experience with therapy once he goes?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi r/personal finance,\n\nI have been looking for guidance on this issue, but do not have a financial planner currently. I am a 26 year old male looking to leave my current job. To bring you up to pace, I am an insurance adjuster for a major insurance company in America. I took a promotion about 9-10 months ago that I am now regretting. Without getting into any details on why I am looking outside the company, I have a financial dilemma that may not allow me to leave at this time.\n\nI currently make about $46,700. I currently have no savings to my name due to some financial hardships over the past few months. I have been contributing to a 401k for 2 years now (6% by me, 6% company match). There was a part in time that I was only giving 5% but my company still matched.\n\nAnyhow, I have about $7,700 in my 401k with Fidelity. I know their fee is typically 10% early withdrawal + a 20% withholding to the IRS.\n\nI have applications out to about 7 other positions that I feel confident match my skill set. In the mean time, if I wanted to quit my job currently, would it be a poor decision to cash out my 401k to make an emergency fund? From my calculations, the amount I would receive would be enough to cover at least 3 month living expenses plus I have at least another pay check coming.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and my SO have been together for 4months now and everything seemed to be going great. But I started to notice that he doesn't text/call me anymore unless I text/call him first. We we started dating he would text me all the time or call me just to see how my day was. I thought it was sweet. I would of course take the initiative too and text or call him. \n\nNow it all seems very very one sided I'll text him and about four-five messages later he'll stop replying. Recently, I decided to wait and see if he'd text me. Its been three days and all I've gotten was a like on a facebook status. I know he's not busy because he's on summer break frm school, & only works like 2days a week. \n\nNow I'm not the kind of girl who constantly needs attention but a \"hey\" maybe every other day would be nice. I dont really want to make a big deal out of this because when we're together hes very attentive and sweet.\n\n Am I just being crazy, is this normal from guys?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine.\n\nI have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. \n\nI took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. \n\nObviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A couple of months ago a friend and I started developing feelings for each other. She had been in a relationship of 3 years and often told me how unhappy she was with the relationship and how poorly he treats her. Things between us started getting serious and their relationship started falling apart. \n\nBeing college students on winter break, we began hanging out every day for the past month. I could tell she was finally accepting that she could leave him. We make each other very happy and often discussed our own relationship and the future. \n\nJust as I thought she was finally mustering up the strength to end it with him, his mother was diagnosed with cancer. Being together with him for 3 years, she is very close with his family and thinks leaving him would be too much for him to handle. She told me she doesn't want to lose me but can't risk hurting him right now. \n\nObviously it's a difficult situation and I'm understanding, but I can't help being upset knowing that she isn't happy. I want to make her happy and I know I can but I'm not sure what to do at this point. And no, I don't want to hear that I shouldn't have gotten involved with her in the first place.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's what's up:\n\nOver the last ~4 months, my boyfriend I have barely been sexually active. My drive hasn't changed at all, but he stopped initiating and probably 90% of the time will turn me down when I initiate. After a month or two I finally asked him what was going on, and he explained that the medication he's been taking has lowered his libido.\n\nI accepted that explanation and tried to back off a little, so that he wouldn't feel like I was putting too much pressure on him or being insensitive to the situation. Nothing changed as far as how often we were having sex, but I felt better at least knowing why it was happening.\n\nFast forward to a conversation we had yesterday, where he happened to let it slip that he's been jacking off to porn everyday while I'm at work. I know he's had problems over-using porn in the past (he's told me as much himself.) I really feel like this is a huge part, if not all, of the current problem, more so than his meds since he's apparently still getting horny.\n\nHow do I voice this concern reasonably? I'm afraid it will come off like I'm insecure or jealous of him looking at other girls and he won't take it seriously, or that he'll feel like I'm trying to forbid him from watching porn and will just get defensive.", "role": "user" } ]

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