prompt
listlengths 2
2
|
|---|
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Last October (2012) I broke up with my girlfriend of just over a year. I don't know if it is just because it is the holidays and I'm seeing my cousins and their SO together, or that my friends have been getting engage, or because the girl I planned on talking to and trying to and maybe start something with at a wedding this past weekend has no interest in me or if it's just because I'm lonely but I've thinking about her more and more lately. We broke up because we fought occasionally like all couples do over small stupid stuff but mainly because my friends said I wasn't my normal self when she was around and they hated it. I thought there has to be a better person for me out there that has everything I want and I shouldn't have to settle for what I'm looking for in a wife. I'm basically just wondering what Reddit thinks. \n\nShould I just be patient and keep trying to date other people and see how it works out or talk to her and try to get back together with her and see if there is anything there? \n\nSorry for the run-ons and other horrible grammar/spelling",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Hey everyone, \n\nI have been in a relationship for about three + years now. \nShort summary: Long distance relationship, will live together in a month, happy relationship, skyping a lot daily; result of that is that I have only 1 close friend (who's moving 300 kilometers away this august) and 2 friends I do not see often. Because I skype a lot and don't do sports anymore I do not have many contacts outside my SO/family. \n\nI miss laughing, netflix'ing and being lazy with someone (other than my SO) to socialize with. The thing is, he's kind of jealous (distance makes it hard to not go crazy sometimes) and he thinks everyone I meet (example: at work or study) is somehow into me. I do not engage into a social/more-than-colleague relationship because I do not want to cause any trouble. \n\nDoes anyone of you have advice for me about finding a balance? Or how to make my SO accept male-friends/contacts? Make him less jealous? My relationship is very important for me and keeps me going every day. \n\nSometimes I just feel like talking about the stuff going on in my head other than my SO [he knows everything anyway] and want to hear another opinion. Right now I feel like I have no one to talk to beside him.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "He is loving kind and takes care of us. He just rejects me sexually. Cuddles are great and plenty, but sex is once a month at best. \n\nWhy? He masturbates 3 to 5 times a week. Why is his hand better than me? \n\nHow can I fix this? Consoling is a no go, and divorce over this is dumb as my libidio is low. Im just hurt from rejection and him loving his hand more than my own body. \n\nHe wont tell me why. He acts embarrased. \n\nNo, he isnt gay. I translate gay graphic novels for a living... Im jot exactly close minded and he would tell me. Plus we live in San Francisco... great place to be out and about. \n\nSo, what is it? Why does he never want me?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "This is the first long term relationship I've had. I dated a girl shortly in highschool but then I joined the army. I was too busy training and deploying and living in a state I hated so I never made an effort to date back then. After the army, I went to college and dated a bunch of girls but never found one I was happy with.\n\nDuring my last year of college, however, I found a great girl that I hit it off with right away. She had a boyfriend at the time but eventually dumped him and moved closer to where I lived. We became bf and gf and she has pretty much slept over at my house every night since she moved. \n\nI'm the type of guy that needs a lot of space and alone time and it has been a reoccurring issue in our relationship, where I want more alone time but she is unhappy when we are apart. I decided to sacrifice my personal space to make it work because she is so great but it does make things hard sometimes.\n\nAnother thing that had been bothering me, the most important, is that I didn't know if I was in love with her. We would always say I love you to each other and it always felt right, but then part of me wonders if I'm actually in love and that I might be too inexperienced to know what love is. I often thought about breaking up because of this. \n\nBut now, after last nights break up, I'm absolutely crushed and heartbroken. There's nothing I want to do more than tell her I love her with all my heart and get her back. I really feel this right now but I don't know if this feeling will last if we get back together. I don't know what to do.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "My boyfriend [26M] and I [26F] have been together for approx. 6 months. Last night, he went out to dinner with his family. I had other commitments, so I couldn't go, but I met up with them after the meal for a couple of drinks and to say hi. When I got there, his family was laughing about how his waitress is an old \"friend\" of his from high school, and told an embarrassing story about how my boyfriend got his mom to buy this girl a thong for him to give her as a gift once. It was a really awkward story.\n\n \nWhen the girl came out, I ordered a drink and she didn't even bring it to me. It peeved me a little, and when we ended up leaving, she apologized to me then pulled my boyfriend aside to give him her e-mail address so they could catch up. This girl is very attractive and the situation is making me a bit uncomfortable. They're such distant friends, he didn't even have her on Facebook. When we got home, he promptly added her and proceeded to creep her profile. \n\nI'm not sure if I should be uncomfortable with this or not. Any advice on how to handle this would be really appreciated. Thanks.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Don't want to sound like an entitled brat or anything as I've pretty much been financially supporting myself for the past 3 years. \n\nHowever, I have been uninsured for the past 5-6 years. \n\nMy parents and I have a pretty good relationship. I live in NYC and they are in the midwest. When healthcare signup came through 2 years ago they signed up themselves and my younger sister but not me. They told me that it's going to be \"too expensive\" to have me on their plan (seems like it's almost $200 a month extra) and they said to apply through the government program or through my work. Both of these cost me more than $200 a month. I can afford it but I won't be able to put in over $100 in my savings account every month anymore.\n\nShould I be mad? I don't know really how to feel because I don't *expect* them to do anything for me, but it seems like everyone was very happy when the new government healthcare plans allowed people to keep their kids on until they were like 26.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I don't know if that's a \"thing\", but i've experienced it in the past. I'm currently living with my gf (29f) of nearly 2 years, and my mind/eye has been wandering. I guess i'm at the point where all the little things start getting to me, such as different standards of cleaning/cooking, different levels of drive/ambition, imbalance of sex drives. She is very loving, and very sweet, but can be extremely clingy too. \n\nWe do enjoy each others' company, but never really do anything \"quality time\"-wise; different schedules make it difficult, as well as different tastes. In addition to this situation, she wants to move overseas with me in the near future, so there's kind of a point of no (or extremely messy) return looming.\n\nI know that relationships can't always be electric and sparky, and that there is no \"normal\", but is there more than this? Do i man up and try to change how i'm feeling, or do i try to cut things short to save everyone more pain later?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Okay so i am asking, and i'm going to try to request advise in the most non-creepy way i can think of. Here goes nothing. So basically i am 17 and i went on a vacation with my family. While in branson i met the most amazing girl in my life. She looked stunning and we had everything in common i.e. we talked the entire day without really doing much else. I could tell we were an instant click so by the end o the day she gave me her phone number and she told me where she lived which, coincidentally, is about half an hour away from me. When we said our goodbye it felt like the da best eva especially considering i didn't know what would happen. The next day my phone crashes and by the time i get it fixed my parents changed the carrier company so my sim card got wiped. I started freaking out because i don't remember her last name or her phone number. The thing i have to go on is her first name her neighborhood what high school and what she looks like. Does anyone know how to i can find her? I already tried social networking but to no avail.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I'm wondering how to handle this situation and if my GF is really ready for a relationship based on some of the things I have seen. She spends a lot of nights over at my place, and I noticed that whenever I went to take a shower before bed, after I came back she would be on my laptop and quickly close down some open tabs. I didn't think much of it the first few times, figuring maybe she was looking at something embarrassing, but then I noticed it turned into an every night thing whenever we spent a few days together.\n\nI checked my browser history, and she is looking at her ex's facebook. Specifically, her ex, and her ex's new girlfriend. I know that she had a rough breakup very shortly before we started dating. She was married to him for 6 years and said that he was very controlling and not a good match for her, and when she wanted to leave he put her through a huge guilt trip and made it difficult. I've noticed that about once a week she will exchange a few texts with him and be off in the bathroom crying about it. \n\nThat said, she has told me how happy she is with me and doesn't know why she is still sad about a bad relationship ending. I figured some of it was just curiousity over what her ex was doing and who he was with, but coupled with the crying about it makes me wonder if she is just not over him.\n\nI don't know what to do about the situation because when she does the weekly crying routine, she is emotionally wrecked for the whole night and it sucks. I've tried to be understanding and give her space, but it's not getting better. The Facebook thing also affects her. During the day/evening she will be flirty and talking about all the stuff we're going to do in bed, and then after I get out of the shower and she's been on his Facebook, it's like she's emotionally unavailable the rest of the night.\n\nI really love her though so I want to try and make it work, it's just I'm not sure of the right way to handle this situation.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "A friend of mine found this silver thing (looks to be a handle to something, 19th century) on the beach in Florida 40 years ago, and it's been migrating with him... It's now with him across the country and he decided to pull it out of his safe and ask around a bit.\n\nHe finally sent pictures of it to some museum folk out in Florida, and they're VERY interested it. One of the guys said something like \"This definitely looks like it belongs in a museum\" (Of course, my friend is spooked and is worried they're just going to keep it if he sends it to them)\n\nHe doesn't think it's going to wind up being worth millions, but he could probably sell the silver content alone for a few hundred $$.\n\nHe really wants to send it and find out what it is and how it's significant, etc... But he doesn't want Florida to decide it's somehow state property and seize it without any options or recompense. (The beach he found it on became a state park a year later, and you can't take stuff from a state park)\n\nHe's going to talk to some insurance folks tomorrow to see if they have any ideas, but I'm curious...\n\nWould you guys send it in, trusting that you won't get screwed? Is there some magic document you'd get them to sign first? Would you squirrel the thing away and play the \"what if\" game longer?\n\n-\n\nPersonally, I'd probably talk to the museum folks and try to explain my concerns, and see what they have to say, and trust that they won't screw me. If I don't send it in, I never learn about it, and it's worthless, since it never had a value assigned to it. If I get screwed, I'd get screwed anyway so I might as well learn something out of it. And there's a good chance everybody ends up happy anyway.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Hey all, I was hoping to get some dating advice about a tricky situation I have gotten myself into over the last month. I have been dating an awesome, attractive girl for about a month now who is exactly my type and see her every other day ~15 dates. We have been doing everything together including 3 day camping trips, cooking dinner for each other, and other various activities.\n\nOf course when I think that I found the perfect girl there has to be a problem. This one started when we first started seeing each other and she said that she wanted to take it slow as far as waiting to have sex (that's fine). I have to admit that I am crazy attracted to this girl and it takes every effort that I have to not touch and kiss her every time I see her. She says i'm perfect for her and shows no lack of interest other than sexual.\n\nSo we waited around 12ish dates until we finally slept together on a camping trip. This was two weekends ago and shes back to not sleeping with me, not handsy, etc etc. The sex was ok, but it felt very passive and kind of just seemed like she was appeasing me.\n\nNow I really like this girl. But no sex in a relationship is just something that I don't think I can live with right now. She makes me feel guilty and whenever I try to go below the belt she will say something snooty like \"can I help you?\" She is by no means inexperienced and has had double the partners I have (~20) so I do not believe that is the issue. The only thing I can think is that she is not attracted to me in the physical sense. If this is already an issue so early on I can't help but think what it would be like in 6 months to a year. What should I do?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Hello reddit!\n\nI'm having some relationship issues with my mother. She's the strongest person I've ever met, the fiercest defender when it comes to us kids, her husband and our dad, or even strangers.\n\nBut not when it comes to herself.\n\nMy mom has severe allergies. Like can't leave the house very often type allergies. Trouble breathing, heart beat increasing issues (not sure of the medical term). She's allergic to about 90% of all edible things on the earth. She's down to salt/pepper/chicken/beef and a few vegetables.\n\nAside from environmental allergies and many chemical sensitivities, she's overweight. Not \"on TV\" amount but to the point where it's having undeniable negative effect on her health. \n\nI want to do what little exercise she's capable of now.\n\nHer reasons for not being able to are quite understandable. She can go several days doing light exercise (she's never been able to last long enough to do heavier exercises) but then has a period of being sick (hard to breath, feels like shit etc) afterwards. She claims she was being careful and I have no reason to doubt it.\n\nBut I feel like she gave up much too quickly. She needs to do it regardless of how she feels afterwards. She has a work at home job that pays commission based. So if she's sick and can't work, it affects her job negatively. My family's financial resources are quire tight so this makes a real difference. I've offered to cover the difference and help out if it means she'll take risks of feeling bad and do the exercise regardless.\n\nI have a feeling if she sticks with a regular routine for 6 months to a year, she'll be a different person at the end of the journey. But I can't convince her to start to continue.... \n\nShe's honestly tried hard but doesn't have the almost super human level effort that's required to overcome something like this.\n\nWe've had a long talk about this lately and I'm at my wits end on what to do. Any advice?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I (19 M) broke up with my ex (21 F) about a month and a half ago. I'm pretty sure it was the right thing to do. Not sure if it was fixable or not. But i always feel like it couldve been. I guess that is what really messes me up. it was in an earlier post if you want the details \n\n It sucks cause i've been going out alot, having great times, talking to new women, reconnecting with old friends and just pretty much forget everything else that has happened. But still even after all of this i can't stop thinking about her. \n\nI already know the basic advice im going to get. And yea i have done it. Don't have her on any social media, there is zero contact, threw out everything of hers, waited and waited, and i am still feeling like crap. \n\nDoes anyone have any other advice on how to handle this. I was inlove and I had to break it off. Even though i didnt really want to, i just had to cause it wasn't healthy. \n\nMaybe it's cause im at all time low in confidence, i keep myself busy but still get a little free time now and then and she pops up, maybe its cause i havent gotten any other womens attention. and the ones i have, have not come close to her on looks. Not to be shallow but i would like another good looking girl thats all over me and begging for me back. It just makes me think that i mightve messed up. I just need somethoughts and advice. \n\nIf you'd like to read up on it more, click the link to my older post. It was a horrible relationship i know. But at the same time it could always have been made better. Maybe im just being stupid.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "My aunt has always wanted her son (my cousin) to go to medical school and become a doctor. In her mind, the only path to \"success\" in his life (and her's, I suppose) is for him to become a rich doctor. It is unclear what his father thinks.\n\nHowever, he has already graduated from college and has just finished two years of Teach for America (TFA). He seems to have really enjoyed it, and has gotten a lot of life experience out of it, posting on Facebook and such. We (the rest of the family) think he would make a fine teacher and live a good, happy life as one.\n\nBut his mother won't accept this. He's been putting off the medical school application for years, and now that TFA is over, she's pushing him again. According to his mother, he wants to go to medical school, but we think he is afraid of defying his mother's expectations and desires.\n\nWe may be seeing him this month. If so, we don't want to scare him off or make it seem like a don't-listen-to-your-own-mother intervention. At the same time, going to medical school is a serious decision we think he and his mother might regret.\n\nAnd if we don't see him, we can of course call him. Either way, any advice on how we can handle this situation would be appreciated.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Hi guys, I previously lived in an apartment with an ex boyfriend, this apartment was a dream for the monthly price we were paying alas the relationship ended and I had to move back home with my parents. Technically I make enough a month to afford my own apartment priced around 1200 a month but that would leave me with almost nothing being saved which to me isn't worth moving out quite yet. A friend of mine said her friend is going through a divorce and moving out, that she's looking to find a roommate to make the rent cost around $600. As much as I loved the idea of being on my own, I'm scared to be on my own with another person again there are many financial matters that can go wrong. Advice?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I am a 22yo female and have been in a relationship for almost 3 years now with the same man. Recently he has made friends with a new co-worker (he just changed jobs) and they talk and text all the time. She is often the first person he texts when he sees something funny, then he will text me. They have inside jokes and secrets and he has lied to me about her feelings on me. She has sad that she thinks I want to kill her and that I need to trust her. She said this after openely flirting with him in front of me. I do NOT want to kill her, but I found that to be tacky. She told me that she doesn't care if he can flirt well because it is not important yet. I tried telling him about it, but he just brushes it off like it is nothing. What should I do, is it even anything to be worried about?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "We've been engaged for going on a year now, been together for 5 years. Im at work while she asked me to look up something on facebook. I forgot that she was using my phone earlier to log into Facebook because she couldn't find hers.\n\n So I go to the search bar and click on it to type in the friends name for the status she wanted me to read. Low and behold it shows that she looked up two guys yesterday that she had past one night stands with (well more or less booty calls ). I know this because we've both been very open about our past to each other.\n\n So I let my anger get the best of me and I confront her immediately through text. I ask her what she is doing on facebook and what's the reason that she is looking up these two guys. After much texting back and forth I get the bullshit answer that she was just nosey. I told her we'll talk about it when we get home. \n\nI get home and the conversation practically boils down to as previously that she was just \"nosey\" about what they're up to. I was told that it shouldn't really bother me and that I should be \"cool\" about the whole thing. \n\nWell im not fucking \"cool\" about it. I feel hurt and angry and jealous and confused all at the same time. I want to know why and nosey is an answer that just doesn't cut it for me. And on top of that, she claims that she looks at the one guys profile all the time because she grew up with the family during her childhood and she's seeing if any pictures were posted of them.\n\n Im not okay with this at all, I feel that there is something more. Maybe im looking into this too much but id like any insight that you guys can have for me.\n\n Thanks! \nOh and by the way if the formatting sucks im sorry, on mobile. Also knocking back a few beers now too, so spelling might suffer too..",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "My boyfriend and I have enjoyed 2.5 years together. We've lived together for most of that time. We have a life together--pets, routine, plans, etc. . Of course there have been some minor issues on both sides, but the question at hand is regarding something major I did recently. I went out with a girlfriend. Got drunk to the point of blacking out. I woke up in an ex's bed. The ex says we slept together, but I have no recollection of leaving the bar or anything past that. This is my first and only betrayal of my bf's trust. I immediately told him the following day. We're both reeling from this. I'm scared, regretful, ashamed. He's heartbroken, hurt, and angry. It goes without saying that it was meaningless and won't happen again. I've committed to not drinking to excess again. Do you think this is something that, with time and work, can be forgiven? Can we move past this and be stronger? Or did I just irreparably screw up a good thing? Do you have any insight or advice in particular for either him or me?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "This was my first real relationship, and it met its demise due to my trust issues and her feelings changing based on my lack of trust.\n\nI decided to break things off a week ago after fighting for 8 days non-stop, but due to changes in my plans for my education I am now back in school. (I'm repeating my Leaving Cert year in order to get better grades & points to go to a better college and a better course.)\n\nMy now ex-gf is in this same year so I have to see her everday, she is avoidable for most of the day but we do have classes together. Although I broke it off I still have strong feelings for her and seeing her is incredibly distracting from my studies. What do I do? How do I get over it as soon as possible?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So I have worked for everyone's favorite Supercenters for two years. In my first year, I was charged with a partner-family member assault and arrested at my place of residence. I spent 14 hours in jail, missing a night of work because my place of employment doesn't accept collect calls. \n\nAfter I was released, I immediately went to work to speak to my store manager and explain what happened. He then suspended me for five months and five days, which happened to. E the duration of my trial. Fi five months, I was unemployed and unable to collect unemoyment. \n\nFast forward to January 2012. A coworker of mine was arrested at work for the same crime. He spent 2 days in jail without being able to call in, and came back to work with no suspension. \n\nNow the difference between us is I'm a 20 year old white American. He is a 23 year old black American. \n\nI am infuriated that this kind if discrimination has taken place. The entire management team knows about his charge and I'm pretty sure I have a racial discrimination case on my hands, but I don't know where to proceed. \n\nSo lawyers of reddit, or legal students, what is my next step towards takin action, or am I even able to take action?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I'm starting to get really angry at my dog, and I know it's not all his fault. He knocked my two year old son down the stairs yesterday when my wife, my son and I were going down the stairs. My son starting to go down our carpeted stairs and my dog ran down the stairs as he does and knocked my son down them. It was one of the worse experiences of my life, but luckily my son rolled like a log, rather than end over end.\n\nI'm having difficulty getting over it, and forgiving my dog. My wife seems to be OK with him and my son still loves him. I was having doubts last week about us being the right family for him, but my wife talked me up and talked about how much our son loves him. He was my dog, my birthday present this year after never having a dog in my life and always wanting one.\n\nI don't know what to do, I was furious yesterday. It's eased a bit, but I can't help thinking about the incident from yesterday every so often today. I was shaking I was so mad... What do I do?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So today, about noon, I'm at my girlfriend's house (we're seniors in high school by the way). About this time my bowels start to rumble, as is daily ritual. I'm pretty comfortable at her house so I have no issue shitting there. Usually I use a bathroom connected to the guestroom, which is rather secluded from the rest of the house so as to not hot box the whole family. Today, however, her sister was home from college and napping in the guestroom, so I was forced into \"the outhouse\", a little used, lock-less bathroom barely big enough to fit a toilet in, which just so happens to be next to the main communal area of the house. \n\nNow I'm in the bathroom, and in the process of unleashing a hellacious megladon of a shit into the basin below. Full disclosure, this thing probably had the girth of a large ferret. Anyways, afterwords I'm sitting on the toilet surfing Reddit for much longer than is socially acceptable. Enough time goes by that my girlfriend is annoyed and hungry enough to fling open the door to find me surfing the interwebs. In a hurried panic I wash my hands and swiftly exit The Outhouse, sans flushing.\n\nFast forward a half hour and we're eating lunch at Costco because $1.50 for a hot dog and soda is an unbeatable deal. All of a sudden she gets a text from her mom, \"Did someone use The Outhouse?\". As she reads me the text, it hits me that I have just left a massive turd burger marinating in piss for a half hour in the middle of their home. My girlfriend sees the look of horror on my face and immediately starts to figuratively lose her shit in the middle of Costco. She quickly relays to her mom who the culprit was and just how embarrassed I am. A couple minutes pass and this text comes back: \"No.. it's fine, it's just that he should really get checked out. That couldn't have been healthy\".\n\nI have now resolved to never set foot in their household again.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Me (23 woman) dated a guy (29) a month ago. We didn't like each other at first sight, and I really can't remember the reason why we went out to the movies on the first place, but what I know is that after that day everything changed. \n\nI am really sceptic when it comes to love, cause I promised myself I would never feel again the unbearable pain of love rejection. He tried to hold my hand that day, I didn't let him (didn't feel right), the second time I saw him he tried to kiss me (didn't let him again).. that day wasn't even a date, we just saw each other casually on the street. So after that he stopped texting me.. I'm guessing he didn't like that conservative part about me... but come one.. it was only two times.. when a guy really likes you he makes an effort to see you again and earn your trust, your kisses.. \n\nSo I realized the thing women never want to : \" he just wasn't that into me\".. and it was okay I was really good when it came to protect my heart.. but what I didn't know was this time I wouldn't be able to do so. I kept seeing him randomly and occasionally (cause I forgot to mention an important fact of the story: WE WORK TOGETHER). \n\nWhen we see each other at work it gets random at first, but at the end he keeps flirting with me.. it is so CONFUSING! Never been in this situation before, don't know how to react... And you guys don't need to tell me what I already now.. **HE DOES NOT WANT ANYTHING SERIOUS AND HE IS NOT THAT INTO ME**... so... why does he keep doing that? why does he keep trying to kiss me when none is looking? why does he touches my hands on purpose just to hold them for a short amount of time?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I purchased [this]( laptop 6 months ago as a secondary computer, and recently my primary desktop gave up the ghost, leaving the laptop to take its place in the meantime. I will be doing a clean install of Windows 7 Home Premium (came with the PC) shortly to get everything back to stock, and I was wondering if reddit had any advice about what I should install (or not install) to keep my middling little Samsung running as lean as possible until I nerd out enough to spend a weekend on /r/buildapc and make a first attempt at building a new desktop. I've done clean installs before, but since then I've discovered reddit and the fact that it usually has pretty solid advice to give.\n\nI am going to back up all my drivers to a flash drive, and anything else worth keeping is already on an external HD.\n\nSuggestions on any good utilities or other things (I do enjoy Rainmeter, Dropbox, Evernote, VLC, and Songbird. No BonziBuddy) are also defnitely welcome.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I'm in the stillwater Oklahoma area and just got written 2 tickets totalling 700 dollars. \n\nIt's a college town so there are parties all the time and last week I went to one and we got a noise complaint. When the police came to the door I answered like a good samaritain and they instantly started trying to strong arm me. I apologized and they didn't write me a ticket so all is good right?\n\nApparently they came back a couple times cause the party didn't die down looking for me or the owner and no one answered the door. In our earlier conversation (which was mostly them telling me to shut up and that I'm being disrespectful...) I had mentioned I work at Taco Bell. Bad idea. \n\nThey came to my work. They came to my place of employment so they could take me outside and berate me. I honestly asked why they were being so apprehensive and one of the officers took huge offense and started writing a ticket for disturbing the peace. For 150 dollars. I asked how I was disturbing anything by trying to work so he wrote me another ticket saying I had hampered police investigation by not opening the door again. I don't even live there. \n\nHelp me reddit, I need any advice at all on how to lessen this. I have a baby girl due in December and I can't even halfway pay this money.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Became really close friends with a mutual friend of many of my friends. We fell in love and have been dating semi-long distance for 1.5 years (75 miles; college). She was diagnosed with anxiety and depression around month 8. \n\nEver since this school year started, she has been cancelling plans left and right. Sometimes it's \"I need to clean up the house before relatives get here next week\", sometimes she just never contacts me/responds until it's 11PM and there's absolutely no way we'd spend time together. She always says she's really upset that we couldn't spend time together and that she misses me and loves me more than she could ever express. I haven't seen her in about a month, and because we're so busy in school we rarely talk for more than 10 minutes every other day. I used to FaceTime her, but it just makes me feel awful when I do. I don't want to leave her because she's perfect for me on paper. Also, I don't want to make her even more depressed because I still care about her very deeply.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I'm an American living in Germany, working as an au pair for a relative. I like to travel, and I want to take advantage of the opportunity to explore Europe... but I've never traveled all alone before and it's freaking me out. I was going to take a nice little day trip to Cologne today, but when I got to the train station I just felt so overwhelmed by everything, nauseous with anxiety and like I was going to lose my self-control and start crying if I tried to ask anyone for help.\n\nBy the time I calmed myself down, I didn't even want to go anymore, I just wanted to come home and sleep. I'm homesick and lonely, and if I can't manage a little day trip how can I get myself to Paris or London? I was so excited to come here, but I've practically lost interest in traveling. I'm disappointed and I feel like I can't rely on myself. What can I do to get over this?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I've been struggling with depression and body image issues for years, before we even started seeing each other. A little over a year ago I caught him emailing a girl from high school. The emails included pictures of her in a sexual nature. We fought and he told me his reason for doing it was that we hadn't had sex yet and he was horny. \n\nThe reason we hadn't had sex yet was because I was not on birth control and he had never said anything about wanting to so I thought it wasn't that big of a deal. He was always shutting down my advances because \"he was tired.\" He never initiates and hasn't initiated in over two years. He then tells me he doesn't find me attractive when I'm anything but happy. \n\nGreat. It's been over a year since all that happened. I'm starting to get feelings of paranoia and mistrust towards him. I never got any help for my depression. I just stopped caring about it honestly. I tried to fake it till I was actually happy. We started having sex, but he still never initiates and is always \"too tired.\" I constantly feel like he's not attracted to me. I feel so unloved and ugly right now. He gets defensive if I try to talk to him about it, or he tells me he'll try more and nothing happens.\n\nI know this is a mixture of my faults and his. I just want him to understand that I'm really hurt by what he said. I don't know how to get over it.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I'll try to keep this short and sweet. My SO was \"best friends\" with this girl in college, but he was also in love with her at the time. The reason why they didn't work out is because \"she didn't want it.\" She came to visit him a few years ago when we were dating for about 6 months at the time and things went down that made us go through a really rough time for our relationship (he didn't cheat, he just treated me like crap and she was kind of a bitch to me). It's been 2 years since then and things have been better than ever, yet when I hear her name, I become filled with anger. I thought they stopped speaking because I haven't heard about her in a while and I hear about all of his other friends but I found out last night that they have. I asked to see a couple of messages, and all of them were along the lines of, \"you are so amazing!\" and \"omg I love you!\" I can't tell him to stop talking to her because she was his best friend, but how can I help myself not be so angry and be okay with this? If you need more information let me know, I didn't want to write too much BS.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I have know him for ~11 years. We used to hang out all the time. Video games, metal etc. We shared a lot of interests. But then he found more friends.\n\nWe spent less and less time together. Nowadays we only see each other in school. Every now and then we skype and vidya, and it's fun.\n\nHe doesn't care about my things though. Anytime i am not just listening to him in a conversation, and try to talk about something i'd like to, he goes \"k\", and keeps going like i never said anything. I also seem to be the second choice whenever someone else is available.\n\nI don't fucking know anymore. He is the only person outside of my family that wants to spend any time with me, but i don't know if he is a friend at all.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Hello, I am seeking for advice, or basically anything on what to do. My fiance was having a 'serious' long relationship with some other guy she has never met from Switzerland. We been together since highschool and everything has always been good, or that's what I thought. I discovered this other relationship by accident and since then we been fighthing for three straight months. She is going to visit him by the end of the month and she is completely 'decided' on that. I don't know what happened. We spend new years together. I live two hours from her and I try to visit her and she tries to visit me. We talked every day and skyped but she has this infatuation and she actually believes everything the guy tells him. I'm completely lost, I ask her to talk to me but she just hangs up or threatens me.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So I interviewed for a position last week, and before the interview I saw online that the industry average for this position was $41,000. During the interview, they asked me my salary expectations, I said between $38,000 and $45,000 hoping it'd land somewhere in the middle. I received my offer today, and it was for $38,000. I can't help but wonder if I had just said $41,000 they probably would've offered it...\n\nAnyways, so what I know is they are hiring 3 other people for this same position... I either got lucky and guessed exactly what salary they were planning on paying all of us to begin with, or we're all getting paid differently. As for the job, it is the ideal entry level position for me right now, and is a great company with benefits etc so I actually wouldn't mind working there for the 38k salary.\n\nBut it would be nice to get an even 40 at least, so my question is, is it common practice to negotiate salary after receiving an offer already? I also must say that I don't have any leverage as this is entry level and I would have probably still accepted had the offer been even as low as 30k. As such, I'm very afraid the offer may be retracted if I do try and negotiate, if that sort of thing happens?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Okay so I know the usual answer is \"she's trying to make you jealous... make a move\" but there's some backstory that changes things.\n\nSo I've known her since October. We met online (gaming) and she had a boyfriend at the time. Her and I fell for each other and became really close.\n\nShe's single now, and \"isn't really ready to let another guy close\". So she's not ready for a relationship. I've asked her about \"us\" and she told me she wants to remain friends \"for now\" but definitely still has a thing for me.\n\nThat was a month ago. She told me last night that her ex finally stopped messaging her and pining after her and that she was happy. \n\nThe weird thing now is that she keeps telling me about other guys who hit on her. At first I thought she was trying to make me jealous, but I can't understand why she'd need to do that when she knows how much I like her + I try to _show_ her how much I like her quite often?\n\nI don't know if I'm friendzoned as _fuck_ and she's telling me about _other guys_ or if she's trying to hint that she wants me to compete (even though she's always kinda put me on a pedastal for being _better than anyone before_). She said that these guys, and one guy in particular have expressed their feelings for her but she's told them that she never ever wants anything more than friendship from them. She also said that these guys are \"persistent\". She seems to see persistence as a good thing (she's mentioned that she liked persistence in past boyfriends).\n\nAm I supposed to react in some way? All I said was \"I told you so\" because I often tease her about her online admirers. We were laughing about the whole thing at the time but now I can't help but feel like she was trying to _do_ something when she told me this stuff.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So, I'm currently a junior, soon to be senior, in high school. I met a girl that goes to my school on a field trip, and from that very first moment I really started liking her. Time passed and we started talking, which went on for maybe a month or two, texting every night. We went on a few dates, we kissed. I took her to prom and asked her to be my gf that night, and she said yes.\n\nMy problem now is, there seems to be little to no romance between us at all. I recently took her to a movie and we literally made no physical contact. The conversations aren't awkward, because we make small talk, but it's almost so much small talk that we feel like just friends. She used to give obvious signs that she liked me, such as mimicking, laughing, etc, which she doesn't do as much now, just 3 weeks later.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I've been dating my girlfriend for two and a half years. I've recently had to move because I'm attending a graduate school partly because I wanted to remain close to her. The graduate school I got into was also the same graduate school my best friend who is a girl is also attending. This year I was trying to save money by living with a roommate and I thought my best friend would be great since we have spent alot of time and know each others habits. Originally my girlfriend gave the OK to live with my best friend, but now with two weeks before me and the best friend were supposed to move in we get into a huge argument and she says she doesn't want me to move in with my undergrad best friend. I don't want to back out because I gave my best friend my word and I feel like a jerk backing out in the last minute, but if I do live with her I know my girlfriend is going to resent me for the rest of the year.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I have been friends with this girl for a few years, but both of us have been in long term relationships for the entire time. We are now both at the same graduate school while our SOs stayed behind leaving us both in long distance relationships (nearly coast to coast).\n\nBoth of our LDRs didn't work out, and I am starting to develop feelings for my friend for the first time. I've always thought she was amazing in virtually every way, but while we were both unavailable it was never anything more than an amazing friendship. Now that there is a chance I am seeing her more completely, and I can't get her out of my head.\n\nI know we just got out of relationships and it may be a while before either of us is ready for another serious relationship, but I don't remember when I last felt so strongly and clearly about someone and I am willing to wait until were both ready for something serious rather than pushing it to early and ruining my chances at both. How long should I wait? Is there a norm, or is it completely personal?\n\nAssuming I wait the right amount, how do I make the transition from relationship where we both describe the other as a best friend to something romantic? I always hear that if a girl isn't interested, then move on; there are plenty of fish in the sea. But that is not what I am asking about. This isn't about getting any girl, it is about getting this girl. How do I make the transition? We have always flirted a bit and I don't feel like we are at a place where either of us would rule out dating. Is there any expectation that we would still be able to be as good of friends if it doesn't work out, or is there no return once my feelings have developed? Should I just be honest and talk to her; if so, when do I have that talk given our fresh breakups?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "By my ex, by therapists, friends. Everyone is managing to make me feel like some kind of egomaniac or something for having a problem with being cheated on. Because \"its not about me\", he was struggling with his own issues. He couldn't have chosen me over his affair at the time that I demanded he do so, because he wasn't in his right mind essentially, and he needed to grieve his affair. He was genuinely confused about whether or not he wanted me (due to completely self-inflicted issues) and that by focusing on the cheating I'm not dealing with the REAL problem and I'm just \"running away\". That in the right conditions anyone can cheat and I'm being pompous or something for thinking I never would. \n\nI'm sure my ex fucking loves this narrative, it makes everything all about him 24/7. They have me thinking I'm the disordered person for not being able to grasp all this. \n\nI mean Jesus, can't a girl have some standards? Can't cheating simply hurt too much and cause me to lose all interest? I saw everything about how this other relationship developed, what the other woman was doing, can't I just not be interested in being with a self-involved idiot? I feel like this narrative has been set up about how it worked that I simply don't buy into, and it bothers me that that seems to be what the story is. That my inability to forgive, and my demands for respect, are coming from a place of insecurity rather than strength. And I'm just being too black-and-white in my thinking. \n\nAll in all I made more concesssions than I'm even willing to make normally, in the interests of giving our marriage a chance. But I never mattered. And I'm told that's just how it is with the kind of crisis he's having, and he wants me now and wants to work on his problems that caused this crisis so whats the big deal?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "After the success of this post: \n\nI have built enough courage to ask Reddit for some advice. \n\nAbout 9 years ago a young girl was confused and thought it would be therapeutic to tell our college that I assaulted and raped her. There was a shooting in our school a few month back and I guess they just expelled me with no trial or appeal.\n\nI wasn't the best student (I had aspergers and was going through a lot) and really going through a lot. I shouldn't have been in school but the whole thing through my life even deeper. \n\nAfter years I re approached the school (about 2 years ago) and brought a mountain of evidence to clear my name. They kicked me out of the school and refused to speak to me or give me my appeal.\n\nDuring this time I approached the accuser and she openly admitted to going through some stuff and lying to them. I have this confession as a recording. \n\nI feel I have enough proof/evidence to sue either the women or the school but I am too 'weak' and 'battle worn' to really do anything about it.\n\nI often ask my friends to help me call a lawyer but no one has come through. Maybe Reddit can?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I'm a senior in high school now and I'm nearing the end of my final year. Picking out colleges, what major to go into all that fun stuff. For my major I'll be going into Computer Engineering due to the fact that I've spent all of my life so far on the computer, so why not make it my job?\n\nI've listened to numerous college students who were incredibly passionate during their presentation and it made me wonder if me going into Computer Engineering is a good idea after all and if I'd enjoy it. It's pretty much all I've got going for me so, I'm guessing I should stick with it?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Today I had a really shitty day. Not devastating, just run of the mill awful day. My girlfriend and I had planned lunch during the 1.5 hour break I had between 6 hour shifts at work. I walked 30 minutes in the rain to the restaurant, and find out she brought along one of her friends she knows I don't get along with. The wait at the restaurant is 30 minutes, and I tell her I don't have time to wait that long, but she decides to stay with her friend and eat there. I walk home to eat.\n\nI was really looking forward to that lunch to help me through a really stressful day, and she knew I was stressed and frustrated with work. I feel like she shouldn't have asked her friend to come to lunch. On the other hand, I feel selfish for wanting to keep her from seeing her friend today, because they don't hang out all that often.Am I being selfish and needy, or do I have a decent reason for being kind of upset with her?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "To start things off, I am a 21 year old college undergrad that has very little experience in relationships in general. But I met this fantastic woman (she's 20) in one of my courses about 2 years ago (same major) and got to be friends with her until about 5 months ago.\n\nWe did everything together: studied together, hanged out, played video-games, you name it. But everything came crashing down when I decided that I wanted to let her know how much I fell in love with her. I knew I had little chance with this woman (she's very attractive), but it was worth a shot asking her out for a few dates.\n\nNevertheless, I gathered all the courage in the world, and told her how I felt and if she would give me a chance to go out with her. Her face had the most soul-crushing expression I have ever witnessed. She blankly stared at me, and went away without any explanation at all. I tried contacting her afterwards to apologize if I did something wrong, but she never answered my calls, texts, messages, etc. And everytime I see her (again, we study the same major) she avoids me like the plague.\n\nSo I've been a depressed and confused since that day, wishing never to have said that, among other things. I do miss our friendship a lot. And I thought by trying to forget everything about her and move on would help, but I still see her now and then, wondering why did our friendship end all of a sudden. What do you guys think that happened to her? Why does she have feelings of resentment on me now?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "hello reddit, I'm 18 and so is my SO. We've been dating for 4 months and i come to the internet for advice. That's not the best idea but fuck it i'm desperate.\n\n So deal is my boyfriend has a pregnant ex and i knew about that since we started dating. At first i was okay with that because he said the ex wanted nothing to do with him, long story short she kept changing her mind about that multiple times and it ended in a yes (FML) and tomorrow they're gonna go shopping for baby clothes and i've been throwing up a lot from the anxiety.\n\nI really don't want to leave because i love him (love makes you be unreasonable most of the time i can see how far you guys must be rolling your eyes at me) i want to try to be supportive because it's really not the kid's fault it's parents fucked up, i just hope i have the strength to handle this.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Hello, \n\nJust recently started dating a guy. He is very sweet, kind and gentle. He is also attractive, smart and has a nice physique. When I first met him, I was a little bit intimidated.\n\nWe have been on four dates and he revealed to me that he is a virgin. I am not- I have been in two ltr's and had a few casual sexual encounters- lots of intercourse had...\n\nAs soon as he told me, i immediately thought of him as less masculine...and I feel terrible about it. I hate that I feel this way and I don't want to feel it, but I like a man who takes charge in bed and I feel weird being his first and possibly having to be 'nurturing' sexually.\n\nI still want to see him...I refuse to let this be a deal breaker. But can someone please tell me what I am in for? How should I handle this? \nHe seems to lack confidence at time when we kiss or do anything intimate and seems very nervous, and I want to let him know to take charge and be more confident with me.\n\nIt's not so much the virginity that is an issue for me, it's the lack of confidence that seems to come along with it, and I need my man to be confident. I really like him and can see it going somewhere....just looking for thoughts advice and tips.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I (18M) was with her(19F) for two years, and was her first everything. Kiss, sex, etc. We argued a decent amount and it was semi-long distance for most of it, but it was generally really pleasant and we seemed pretty good for eachother. About a year into it, she met a guy online in like a \"searching for friends\" thread somewhere. He ended up being a pretty regular fighting point, because I constantly felt like she prioritized him over me. Anyway, this continues for a year, she gets kicked out of her house and I help her find a new place and job in my town. With her work and how busy she was, she started prioritizing a lot of things over me, but still kept talking to the guy. In addition, she had said she was curious about being with someone else, though she took this back pretty soon after saying it despite me telling her I understood and wasn' angry. So this goes on for awhile, and then in December after not having seen each other for two weeks I go to her place and help her unpack and move some things and after about 30 minutes she makes it really clear she wants me to leave, and I do. She refuses to talk to me about it at all, and in my hurt and frustration I break up with her and tell her she acts like she outgrew me, and she says this is true. I feel alright for a bit, talk to her as a friend pretty frequently. Then recently I find out that 1-2 weeks after our break up, she started a long distance relationship with the guy. I didn't exactly take this well, been just going to school/work and drinking when I get home every day for about a week. I feel like I shouldn't still want her because of how little it seems like it meant to her, but I can't really help it. I want to do something for her for her birthday this weekend and I know she would like it, partly for closure and partly as a last ditch effort to make her love me again. Advice?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So my ex gf and I dated for about 6 months. We hit things off really well and found we have incredibly similar tastes, hobbies, interests, etc, but failed to be compatible personality-wise. It was my first relationship so I had a good deal to learn and I wasn't exactly the fastest learner.\n\nAnyways, we jumped into the relationship very quickly, after maybe a month of talking, and had sex very soon. The beginning was nothing like I had anticipated and we had a ton of road bumps along the way but were always able to patch things up. Things eventually got much better after a big fight and we were together all the time and loved each other's company. Towards the end of the relationship I felt her pulling away. I consider myself the jealous type and I think that's for a couple of reasons: I have always been put down for my looks and developed a generally lower self-esteem, and also because she was insanely hot. From the moment she caught my eye till today, she has always been the most beautiful girl I have seen, and I always made sure she knew that. So my jealousy of whenever she'd talk to other guys was definitely something that was always present.\n\nBasically now it's all over and we're not even near each other distance-wise. I find myself missing her more every day and we still talk like friends but I just don't think I'll ever get over her... What do I do?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "For the past few months, I've been intermittently attempting to court a classmate of mine. We see each other every once in a while and we have built up a pretty solid rapport. The issue is that she can be incredibly hard to read. It's difficult to tell if her over-friendliness is flirting or if she is compensating for her verbal impediment. Since her first language is Thai and she struggles with English (able to hold a conversation but often misses a lot of information), I've had to adjust my way of speaking and it's difficult to talk to her with the confidence I'd normally have. At one point, I tried to ask her our, but halfway through, it became clear that she didn't know I was asking her out so, out of embarrassment, I backed away from the subject.\n\nI'm usually not the sort of person to be bold and direct when it comes to these things, I'd only ask someone out if I were sure they were at least a little interested in me. If she were any other girl, I'd be certain she was interested. But the amount of factors that come into it are ridiculous. I don't know what to expect from her. I don't know what sort of guy a Thai girl would be interested in (if I could make such a sweeping generalization) or what the differences in dating customs are. And I can't tell if she has a genuine interest in me or if the \"signals\" I get are her using body language to compensate for her English skills.\n\nI'd appreciate any advice on approaching the situation (whether it's specific to ELL relationships, Thai culture, or just dating in general).",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I will keep it short. My boyfriend often lets things get in the way of having sex: his mood, stress, being tired. I feel like I do this too, but never to this extent. He will have a long day at work and be too tired for sex. He will be feeling sad one day (he had depression) and will be not in the mood. \n\nYesterday we got a hotel room because we had flown out to his home town to visit family. We had started getting intimate but we had to cut it short before we actually got to have sex because we had dinner plans with his friend from high school. He hadn't spoken to this friend for years, and the dinner didn't go super well. He was really excited for the dinner but during the dinner it was clear that he and his friend had really grown apart and had nothing at all in common. It was awkward \n\nAfterwards we get back to the hotel and he's too disappointed with how dinner went to have sex with me. \n\nI try to be understanding because I know how awful it is to be pressured for sex when you don't want it, but I also feel really unsatisfied. What do I do? Are we just incompatible?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I was in this 5-6 month long-distance relationship over a year ago with a girl I met online. We talked 24/7, I used to visit her every month and I thought she was the love of my life. Only recently did I realise I did not actually like **anything** about her as a person, other than the fact that she *loved* me. She was far too self-centred, sometimes mean and rather immature. She hurt me emotionally a lot, making me jealous and stuff. We broke up in the spring of 2014.\n\nFast forward to this summer: we hadn't talked at all, other than quick Facebook chats every few months that lead to nowhere and a few drunk calls from either one of us. Last month, we met where I live and she stayed at my place for a couple of days (I live alone). We felt great together, had an amazing time and were on good terms when she left. She even said she still loves me.\n\nWe then ended up getting into another fight over a T-shirt she **stole** from me (I would suggest she's crazy, but maybe I'm overreacting) and we stopped talking.\n\nNow, I ask you, why the hell do I still care? Why do I sometimes think of her, when it's clear even to me now that I don't like anything about her? It might be just because I haven't been emotionally close to anyone else in the past 18+ months, haven't hugged anyone properly, haven't had anyone else reciprocate these feelings of simple human affection. Because I think that's what I need – affection. And I think I associate that with her, which is wrong.\n\nHow do I get over this? How can my brain fully understand that I don't need **her** affection?\n\nI've been reading about Buddhism and pretty much the underlying principle of Buddhism is that you should get rid of attachment, be that to people or things. What are your suggestions towards that?\n\nI clearly do not want or need a romantic relationship, so what can I do to get rid of these wrong feelings?\n\nHopefully I managed to explain everything well enough.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Hey guys, I was wondering if there is anyone else on here who isn't counting calories? What has been your experience with this? Advice? Positives and negatives!?\n\nBackground: I used to weigh 110kgs (242.5 lbs) and at my lowest I was at 76kg (167 lbs). That wasn't something I was able to maintain. My calorie count was 1400, I did cardio every day for 45mins to an hour, and I weighed myself everyday. \n\nBUT some days I would only eat 900 calories (not often but it's never a good idea IMO) and beat myself up about the scales. Basically, I was starting to get obsessed with the numbers.\n\nI ended up with a knee injury and stomach issues so I had to pull back on the exercise. I also entered a new relationship and didn't want to count calories constantly. So between these two factors, I've put on weight.\n\nThis time around I don't want to count calories and I want to keep my exercise in check (my knee is just... done...). I've set a goal of losing 10kgs in 5 months (totally do-able!) and am just trying to focus on planning out my meals, looking at making healthy choices, exercising in a non-debilitating way and not beating myself up for having dessert.\n\nMy aim is to make this a sustainable habit, which - for me - calorie counting is not. I think as a short-term, get-the-ball-rolling type of thing calorie counting is great but I'm now viewing it as 'phase one'. It has introduced an awareness around nutrition and portions. And physical activity is now part of my lifestyle (I have a treadmill desk where I aim to walk ten thousand steps per day).\n\nI started on Monday and have lost 0.5kgs thus far, so it seems to be working.\n\nIs anyone else forgoing calorie counting? How's it working out for you?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So I've \"known\" this girl since like middle school, but we never talked until I started messaging her on Facebook recently. I would just spark up short conversations here and there asking her questions about our common career path of nursing.\n\nHowever, last night I actually felt like our conversation was more than what it usually is. The feeling became more friendly and informal. We talked longer than usual too and even agreed literally at one point that we should \"be friends\" and \"hangout.\" I told her we should even get lunch at one point.\n\nHere's the thing, I've been single for 2 years now and I'm a bit attracted to her. I like the idea of being platonic friends at first but I have a feeling I will unconsciously do something that will give her signals of my attraction toward her. I've been contemplating whether or not I should pay for our first lunch as well. I don't want to creep her off, so I'm not sure what I should do? Should I strictly keep it platonic? Won't this automatically friend-zone me if I ever want to start something in the future with her?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "We've been dating for fourteen months. My boyfriend has always been very honest with me about everything, which is one of the things I first loved about him. If I asked him a question, he'd give an honest answer, no matter what. My problem with this started about six months ago, when he told me that he liked another girl for the first month of our relationship, and the only reason they aren't dating is because she turned him down twice. It broke my heart. But he's started being honest about things that I really don't want to know the answer to, or question I haven't asked, such as telling me how hot another girl is, or how she has an awesome chest or ass, or along the same lines. Like, I get it. They're all very attractive. He'll always send me links from porn that he finds really attractive.\n\nBut the problem lies in the fact that I have absolutely terrible self image, and with good reason. I have little to no curves, and a bit of extra chub on my stomach. I'm not fat by any means, but definitely not skinny. And every single girl he likes, or thinks is attractive, has a massive chest with a huge butt and is perfectly skinny. Think Victoria Secret model. And if they aren't curvy, they're short and cute and skinny and blonde, which is the exact opposite from me.\n\nThe real kicker came yesterday, when he decided it would be a good idea to tell me he's in love with a fictional character. I freaked out, probably a bit more than I should, but I'm just so tired of it. Once we started fighting over this, he started trying to eat his words, saying that he just meant that she's \"fun to play with\". He had been talking about how she's so cute and perfect and attractive with awesome cleavage for ten minutes before, which is just suppose to traslate into \"fun to play with\". I don't know what to do. I love him so much, and I'm tired of feeling like I'm a second choice behind all these other girls. What can I do? I'm can't feel so worthless for much longer.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "For years, my dad would run the office pool for March Madness. Though it was a casual office activity with a low $5 or $10 buy-in, he would wake up every morning to listen to the radio to record the results and score each bracket by hand. There are websites that do all the work for you now, but he was a purist. This past tournament was his last bracket, as he passed away from cancer in April. I'd love to remember him by having a bracket tournament in his honor.\n\nMy idea is to have a $5 entry fee and have half the money go towards the prize pool and the other half go towards a cancer research charity (suggestions for which one is best would be appreciated, I was thinking JimmyV.org since he was a basketball coach). I wanted to host it with his at least former coworkers, but they work for a newspaper in Germany, so the number of potential participants is dwindling. It would be more lucrative if more people from around the world were involved. Where should I start? What should I do to host the brackets? Am I allowed to do this, or is it considered gambling? I'm sure I can find out a lot of this through research, but I trust the results of Reddit collaboration better. Please help me. Thanks Reddit!",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Alright, so there's this girl I met this year in chemistry, she's a year younger than me (junior in HS) but *definitely* likes me and I kind of like her back. Problem is, I have zero dating experience and have no idea how to \"flirt\" beyond the small talk we're having in class (in chemistry) or whatever else we're talking about.\n\nLike, no clue whatsoever. I'm not sure if she knows I like her, and I'm afraid if I just ask her out of the blue if she wants to go on a date she'll see it as waaaay too forward. So what can I do to be sure of whether she likes me or not? Or should I just ask her out to dinner or something?\n\nAgain, no experience on flirting or dating or anything. Halp!\n\nALSO: I don't really see her alone, it's pretty much always in class, with people hanging out, or in the hallway. So unless I ask her out I can't really talk to her alone I think.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So I was visiting San Francisco for the weekend, and I sort of got sucked into attending a \"Florence + Machine\" concert. I wasn't too excited to be spending my Friday night there but I dealt with it. We were in the assigned seating section and I was glad to see that my seat was next to a very cute blonde gal. After a few minutes, this girl giving me signs that she might be interested in me. As the night went on, these signs became more and more obvious and I wanted to strike up a conversation so badly...but instead I sat there awkwardly the entire night, too afraid to even look in her direction. At one point I thought that if I consumed some alcohol I would think of something great to start the conversation with, but I ended up acting becoming even more awkward. The reason I regret this is because now that I'm back home from California, I have absolutely no way of knowing who she was, where she was from, or if she was actually interested. Plus I'll never be able to explain why I was such an awkward asshole! \n\nI have to finish with saying that I work in a job that requires me to constantly socialize with people so I have no idea what the hell happened to me to make me freeze.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "My gf and I go to the liquor store of a guy we know about once a week, and I usually go in to buy beer or whatever we're drinking. It never really bothered me until recently that she always sits in the car. The guy we know is a mutual friend's friend. I asked her about it a couple of months ago, and she said she just didn't want to get in any trouble. \n\nAt the time, this was somewhat legitimate because she was here on an H-4 visa (her dad is here on an H-1 visa and her status is dependent on him). However, about a month ago, she received her green card. I asked her why she couldn't come in with me to pick out our drinks now and she still says the same thing. \n\nNaturally, I point out that we would be in the same amount of trouble if we got caught, which we wouldn't anyways since we've been buying consistently for well over a year from this guy. I know there's no sense of both of us risking our necks to get alcohol, but it annoys the shit out of me that she seems to think that I should have to go inside to buy our drinks because she doesn't want to get in trouble. \n\nI don't mind paying for the drinks since I get paid a lot more than her, but I can't help but feel like she thinks she's more important than me or something because she doesn't mind if I risk my neck to go get alcohol, but she absolutely refuses to even come inside with me.\n\nInput? Advice? What should I say or do? Or just suck it up?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I (18F) was in an off again on again relationship for roughly 2 years. It was abusive and horrible for both of us and I recently ended it a few months ago. I wanted to be single badly. I'm mildly attractive, I get the occasional compliment. Im still in my first year of uni and I've been dead set on having my \"hoe phase\" that my girlfriends have been encouraging me to take but I haven't done anything for four months. I could have but I just haven't. I really like being single, I had forgotten this type of freedom! Recently I met Dan. He's shy, sweet, and fun to hang out with. Initially I told him straight off the bat I wasn't looking for anything serious and just wanted a casual fling. He said he was okay with that. We've been dating and hanging out a lot more recently and I think there might be feelings involved. I am the first girl he's ever been with and he's still on the awkward side when it comes down to physical things. I like him but I still have the itch to flirt and be single. Not sure how to proceed",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I'm trying to invoke an interest in reading in my younger brother but I'm struggling to find novels that would suit him. \n\nHe's an electrician by trade, has interests in motorbikes, cars and sports and has historically shown an aversion to reading but I believe it's only because a) I don't think he can read at an advanced level and b) he hasn't found a genre that interests him. He is 21 and has no interest in fantasy, sci-fi or anything that seems unrealistic or unconventional. \n\nI can tell that he would enjoy bios, crime fiction, military fiction and associated genres but as I don't get into these very much I'm struggling to find stuff that might interest him. \n\nSo, r/books, can you help me out with your suggestions please?\n\nThe more enthralling the better because I think he needs to develop his attention span. Also, it has to be pretty easy reading for reasons aforementioned. \n\nThanks in advance!",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I was diagnosed with depression 3 years ago. I was on Nuzak and Seroquel (or something like that) for about 1.5 years until I went off it. After that I still had my lows (Quite low at times). I was still struggling but somehow I managed.\n\nA couple of months ago I started taking Triphasil and they told me I must discontinue use if signs of depression occur. I didn't really pay too much attention to it since I basically live with symptoms of depression every day. I didn't believe a little pill could have such a big effect. I've dealt with a lot before and didn't think it could possibly get any worse that what I've managed to deal with before.\n\nRecently I had a major trigger and I feel like I'm pretty much at my previous lowest point. I was very close to ending my life today but was motivated by some kind people to try make it better. I'm going to make an appointment at my psychiatrist and I'll hopefully see her in 2 weeks. (I'm writing tests at the moment).\n\nRight now I still have some Nuzak that I didn't take last time. My boyfriend got me some Niacin which I've read helps for depression as well. Yesterday I switched over from Triphasil to Trigestrel.\n\nSo my question, what should I do with what I have right now?\n- Should I stop oral birth control all together or can I continue with Trigestrel?\n- Can I start taking the Nuzak so long?\n- If I take the Nuzak is it safe to take the Niacin?\n\nAny advice would be much appreciated.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I'm really struggling with this, I would like some fresh looks on the situation.\n\nWe have been together for almost 6 years now, and after moving in together last july I had the impression all was going great. We both expressed on plenty occasions how much we both loved it and eachother. Recently (to me: out of the blue) my girlfriend expressed some doubts and thoughts she had about us and herself.\n\nWe have been together since leaving high school, and she is wondering if anything better is out there. She still loves me and is still attracted to me. But still, she is left with a 'Is this it then?' feeling. As part of her education, management and marketeering, she travelled quite a bit and met ambitious peope. My education and future on the other hand, being a teacher, aren't ambitious in the same way.\n\nShe acknowledges she loves me and she doesn't know if anything better will ever come along. She also knows living with another ambitious person needs a sacrifice from future potential family or social matters. She wants to live a faster life, but it seems she's trying to find a balance between this (work/travel/fast living/...) and what we have now (slower/cozy couch time/social laidback events/travel /...).\n\nI'm uncertain about my position in all this. I've tried to make her realise why we're together in the first place by doing lots of fun stuff. I'm constantly trying to get a read on our 'status'.. Usually I'm pretty confident, but now even if a kiss isn't 100% I start doubting and I become uncertain..",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So, this happened yesterday and I didn't have time to write out until now. A little background – I work for a call center that reviews car insurance policies, mostly for the renewals; we do both inbound and outbound calling. I also have the wonderful privilege of working from home. I have 2 cats and a 10-month old German Shepherd/Lab mix puppy, the latter I usually keep with me in my home office to separate her from terrorizing the cats while I'm trying to work.\n\nThere I am, working like normal. Pup decides it's a good time to be real annoying and jump everywhere, making dumb puppy noises. Now, all of our calls are recorded and we are \"coached\" on 5 calls per week. These are just weekly reviews of 5 supposedly random calls that we are graded on by our managers. I must do well in order to keep my status of no pants, lay in bed all day work flow, or just keep my job in general (cuss words would get me fired.)\n\nAnyway, here she is going nuts and then an outbound call pops up. I introduce myself and begin explaining the reason for my call, whilst fighting off this 80lb demon dog child, and right as I'm done with my introductory spiel, I press the mute button on my headset and yell, in my angriest dad voice, \"GO LAYYYYYYY DOOOOOOWWWWWWWNNNNNN!!!!!\" She saunters off and I direct my attention back to the call, looking down to press the mute back off and noticing that in fact, the mute button had not been pressed and I just told this random lady to go lay down after asking about her car insurance. I heard an \"Uhhhhh….\" on the line and promptly hung up in my embarrassed and anxious panic after the damage was done.\n\nIf this call gets \"randomly\" selected to be reviewed this week, I could be in some deep shit.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Her argument is that since we both started it we are both technically co-founders. To be a founder means that there was only one individual in the beginning. I feel like she really encouraged me to start it, but that I did most of the work in the beginning getting it going & she more so took on the role of getting people involved. She said she feels like me putting up that I founded the company completely takes away her role in it and she's very hurt. \n\nIs she overreacting? I didn't see it that way, but am I wrong to have done that?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "A few years ago, 2009 so I think I am past being able to report to the police, I was out and got attacked by a bunch of guys. I am a short woman and this was a physical attack - hitting (not rape).\n\nI recently found through a very convoluted \"friend\" chain on facebook found some pictures one of the guys took of that night. I do not know the person whose picture it is, nor do I really want to contact the person as I don't want to remind them of what they did and them all to get a good laugh out of it, nor do I think I can talk to them.\n\nI have tried reporting these photos to facebook and they refuse to remove them. It is just an automated system so I can never tell my story to them, just click report. And because you have to report photos on an individual basis, some of them do not show them actually attacking me, just them near me, so if you are reviewing that photo on its own, it may not seem that bad as it is just a girl surrounded by a bunch of guys laughing at her. There is no way to report as a whole. Also the comments that go with these photos are horrible, talking about and joking about what they did.\n\nI don't know what to do. It is upsetting me and I feel so helpless. I just don't understand how facebook can allow such things and have no way to report a group of photos, because even if they took down some of them, but left the rest because they aren't showing anything \"bad\" like I said above, it is still a reminder of what happened, and something on that guys facebook where he can go back and laugh at with his mates.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now. He has suffered from depression for a few years now and when I first met him he was suffering from a (one-off according to doctors) psychotic break that consisted of grandiose delusions. He went to a hospital and stayed til he was better (2 weeks). We have a quiet, boring relationship, hardly any sex due to his low sex drive, but thats okay. I still adore him.\n\nI give alot more than he gives in the relationship but I consider it worth it because I love him alot. He was also horrible at communication during our relationships. Not many calls or texts but we never went over a week without speaking.\n\n2 weeks ago, during (and what still is) a very stressful time for me (end of uni, court cases, birthday, moving out of home) he stopped talking to me. After a week I called his parents whom I was in contact with due to his mental illnesses, and was told he flew to Sydney with his father. He sent me 1 text joking he might get me a present. According to his parents, he got back 2 days later. I didnt hear from him again for another week. I figured this was his cowardly way of breaking up with me. \n\nI admit I may have gone a little text crazy but after deciding he has dumped me, I sent one last \"I'm sorry, I wont text or call again\" text. 2 days later he messaged me saying \":'( I'm so sorry. I know I'm horrible, I can't stop crying\", I left it a few hours, and texted back that it didnt really clarify anything for me as to whether we are still together.\n\nHe still hasnt messaged me yet and I'm unsure what to do or what he is meaning. Is he crying and feeling bad because he loves me or because hes dumping me? Regardless, I just would like to know.\nI'm looking for some perspective on his actions or what actions I should take.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Okay I know this is going to be one of the dumbest questions you have probably ever come across but I am kind of at a loss here because this is a first for me.\n\nA girl I have just started to see, I'll call her Amanda, has been really nice. She is pretty, funny and somewhat nerdy (which I find attractive) and we have had fun on the couple of dates we have been on. Now I am a slow mover to begin with so there has been no advancement by me (or her) for any type of physical relationship yet, this is fine with me I kind of like to get to know a person first.\n\nBut due to a quirk of fate I found out we have a mutual friend, female, and she told me that she was shocked that Amanda was going out with me because the last she new she was gay. At first I thought she was kidding but she was dead serious.\n\nNow I'm kind of stressing about things because I don't know the real story here.\n\nAre we just friends and she is hanging out with me as a friend? If she is interested in me romantically where can this go? I am deathly afraid of falling for her and spending 3-4 years of my life only for her to wake up one day and decide that she really misses women? \n\nI know that last one is probably not logical but that is where my brain is.\n\nDo I ask her about this? Is that rude? Is it any of my business? Will she be offended or think less of me if I ask?\n\nIf I don't ask do I just go on forever pretending like I don't know?\n\nThere are a thousand other questions I want to ask but that is a pretty irrational start.\n\nAny advice on this would be very appreciated.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Hey guys,\n My SO broke up with me over a month ago. The first week has been hard but I got over it. Problem is that from time to time I still think about it and it really bums me out.\n\nTonight, I randomly started thinking about the offer of having sex that she gave me 5 days ago to which I declined. I think it was a good decision for the both of us but I might have been a little harsh by saying \"it would be weird to hook up again\". In some twisted way, I might have said that to convince myself I'm over her.\n\nI don't want to get back together because of the long distance, her inability to express emotions, her controlling and her manipulation of the insatisfaction of her own truth but I still have the remainder of some feelings.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "It just started happening today. Dad (strict) [54] picked me up for something optional at school which I didn't want to go to, exited the car and started walking home, he pulls on my shirt to get me back and I just keep going, tells me I'm walking home and I say \"good\". Mom is starting to really get on my nerves for some reason despite the fact that she is usually leaves for work at 500 and returns after 20:30. Starting to get moody. I'm not sure if normal part of puberty or not. Any ideas of what it is and how I can fix it?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Hey fellas! I've been lurking/randomly posting here on Reddit for the past couple weeks and I'm thoroughly impressed with the quality of responses that the community provides! Sooo... I've decided to post something I've been having difficulty with.\n\nI'm 24 years old and have never been in an intimate relationship with anyone and have always struggled with my how to interact with people on the personal level. Things are getting better and I've actually had some success with the ladies! (first kiss at 22, ftw!). I'm an avid weight lifter, have a good career ahead of me, and am now beginning to dive into the world of classy fashion (goal this year is to get a bespoke suit). I believe that the general public finds me attractive and that I'm perceived as \"easily approachable\" and friendly. So I have no issues with approaching folks and starting up conversations. \n\nI believe that with me, the issue lies within empathetically listening to the other person. For some reason whenever I am conversing with someone my mind switches into problem solving mode or I start telling a story that will somehow make it seem like I relate to them. Whatever they are talking about my mind starts clunking away at it and then I spurt out a logical solution. This works great if they are seeking my advice (so I'm awesome at the workplace) but it's absolutely terrible when say a pretty lady or a friend is sharing some intimate details with me and I can't keep my trap shut long enough to let them adequately tell the story so we can make a connection of some sort.\n\nRight now I'm slowly (very slowly) getting better at biting my tongue when talking to the opposite sex and also realizing that most people don't want their problems solved, they just want to talk and for you to understand.\n\nSo my question to you ladies and gentlemen is, what tips can you give me on becoming a better listener? And how can I continue to improve and learn how to have deep bonding conversations with other people?\n\nI'm really looking forward to reading your responses!",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I dated this guy when I was fifteen, and he's just a few months older than I am. We dated for maybe six or seven months and then he cheated on me, so I broke it off.\n\nWe stopped talking completely for a year and a half or so and I was alright, I hadn't gotten too attached to him, so it didn't bother me a whole lot. After that point, he got in touch with me and we would talk (as friends) on and off for the next year. \n\nI stopped talking to him again about six months ago and now he's been texting me everyday for the last week. During one of the conversations we had he told me that he was still in love with me and that he hated himself for what he did. I told him that I was pretty much over it and that he should forgive himself too.\n\nHe's told me that the girlfriends he's had since then have all reminded him of me and that he has dreams about still dating me.\n\nI told him straight up that we can be friends, but I wont date him again. The only thing wrong with this is that now I feel like I've obligated myself to talking to him whenever he texts me, which opens me up to more conversations about a relationship that happened a really long time ago. It's just awkward and depressing, I feel like I'm holding him back from being happy.\n\np.s. When we have conversations over text, he still calls me sweetie, honey ect.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "A little bit of background information before I get to the story. So when we started dating she was still living with her ex husband At that time they were not legally seperated yet. I knew this, and she was sleeping in a separate room. They talked but it was more like roommates until she was finished with school and was ready to move out. Well I always trusted her while living there, It did make me cautious. She recently moved out of that house about 2 months ago and everything has been going well up until a few days ago...\n\nIt all started the other night, while my SO and I were talking before bed. About our relationship so far and how long we have been together. She brought up how ive always made her feel good where her ex never did. And before bed I got on the computer. opened up facebook, I was logged into her fb, I decided to read her messages with her ex on fb.\n\nThere was no recent messages, ever since the move out. It was mostly just arguing about who gets what and how he accused her of dating me before they were seperated calling her names and such. But I scrolled back further to find around June July and August that she was sending him tons of messages back and forth such as \"I love you <3\" and \"Do you love me?\" with responses like \"Of course I do\" and etc all of this... I was shocked... I went off on her. She tried to explain herself to me saying that it was not true and blah blah she was just covering her ass. The only reason I haven't left yet is because she hasn't talked to him on there since the divorce went through or anything. She would also always spend her days with me and even nights on the phone sleeping together. Maybe its true, maybe it's not. Doubt ill ever know for sure. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt, I've lost almost all the anger from it and now i'm just accepting it and i'm feeling depressed.. any advice would help on this situation really.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "A quick summary about me [30M] - over a year ago I ended a long term relationship that I was in that was very unhealthy. There was a lot of manipulation, and even though I was glad to be out of the relationship, it took me about a year to recover from it. I have rebuilt my confidence and now I have an ecosystem of happiness again. I couldn't be happier with life.\n\nFast forward to a few months ago I met a beautiful girl [23F] and we instantly hit it off. The only problem was - she lives in another state, but has family here and was in town visiting. Regardless, we exchanged numbers. About a month later, she visited her family again and we hung out a couple of times. It was fantastic and I really started to like her. She came over again about a month later on another visit and we spent a couple more days hanging out, and I am beginning to fall for her. I like her a lot and we get along in an almost unreal capacity.\n\nAll should be good, right? Well, lately I have been having a hard time accepting the long distance portion of it. I only see her for a couple of times a month and when I am not with her, I miss her a lot. She has expressed interest in moving to my state, but I can't help believe it's solely for me and I don't want her to do that. \n\nNot only that, but I am **just** starting to become happy and independent again and I fear getting back into a relationship this quickly might undermine that. A part of me wants to live my own life and be free and pursue a relationship much farther in the past. She has expressed that she is serious about me and wants to become an item.\n\nWith these two things in mind, I want to be honest with her and let her know how I feel. I just don't want to hurt her and I think if we continue moving forward, it might just make things worse. At the same time, *I really like her and still want her.* I am confused and don't know what to do! How should I go about figuring out what to do?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Preface: Let me know if this fits better in r/askscience, I feel like it's too speculative for the subreddit and didn't want to get e-lynched. \n \nI'm now a senior in high school and I feel like my class and the classes below me look prepubescent still compared to those of my parents and even siblings. I'm not sure if it's just that when I was younger I thought that seniors in high school looked older than they actually did and that my class looks just the same as the other class but I'm wondering. I know that a class of 500 students is not a huge sample size, but when my brother was a senior five years ago he was probably the fifth to tenth tallest person in his class at 6'6\". In my class, there is one kid who is over 6'6\"- he's 6'8\". Yes 6'8\" is tall but I've gone to school with him for many years and know that both of his grandfathers are over 7'0 tall, his father is over 7'0 tall, and his mother is 6'8\". He suspects that he is done growing since he's been the same height since freshman year- so this 6'8\" seems short for his genetics (note that I know nothing about genetics past punnet squares). I also realize that five years is not nearly long enough time for such a drastic change to be taking effect, and that this may just be all coincidental. Now, I look back at my parents' yearbooks and see kids with full beards, at my school it is common to sport a beard if you're able to grow one (ie my hideous chinstrap). There are only a few kids with more than peach fuzz it seems. I'm not trying to be \"lol I'm so manly and everyone else is prepubescent\" (my noodle arms would like to disagree)- I feel like if I were placed in high school ten years ago that I would look like a completely average senior, and yet people tell me I look like I'm 25.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So me and my ex have had a very rough break up (after about 2 years dating) , I only broke up with him because of his constant lies (mostly about drugs/hanging out with druggies) but I remained good friends with him. \n\nI still care about him very much, obviously. I would never of broken up with him if he didn't lie to the point of ridiculousness! \n\nAnyways, He is now in rehab for drugs. He calls me a bit, and his parents also call to check in on me, make sure I'm okay. I just have no idea how to handle this situation. We've been broken up for ~4 months and I feel like I don't have a \"role\" to play in any of his rehabilitation, but id love to be there for him and help. \n\nFor example, His parents want him to move in with them in a different city after he gets out of rehab to avoid all the bad influences where he used to live (mostly his \"friends\"). He is NOT willing to do that. I really want to tell him that if he doesn't move in with his parents I will cut communication/contact with him until he moves in with them. but is it even my place to do that?! The last thing I want to do is abandon him but I want the best for him and being near his \"friends\" will inevitably lead to drug use, at it ALWAYS has! \n\nAlso if theres another subreddit that best fits this question/plea for help, please tell me!",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Alright, here's a little background. My boyfriend [19M] and I [17F] have been dating for almost 6 months. We've known each other all through high school, despite going to different schools. I just graduated high school, and he is going into his second year of college. We were really good friends before we started dating. Since we went to different schools that were about an hour apart, our entire friendship and most of our relationship has been long-distance. We've gotten by and fallen in love via Skype and Facebook for the most part. Everything has been good until the last few weeks. I think I'm out of the 'honeymoon phase' now...but he isn't. He still showers me with affection and romantic letters, messages, and gifts, but I don't reciprocate those feelings as strongly. I care about him, yes, but I don't feel 'fireworks' or anything now. \n\nMy thinking started when I realized that he isn't the person I thought he would be from our online chats. Sure, I still love him, but I think I over-romanticized and over-fantasized about how he would be. What I'm saying is, my expectations were different from reality, and now I'm left feeling disappointed and wondering if I should stay or if we should break up. I should also mention that I will be going to college this fall, in a different college than he's at, which we will still be about 30 minutes apart. I love him, but he's just not someone I see something long-term with. What can I do to either save my relationship or find a way out without compromising too many feelings?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Over the past few months, my girlfriend has become quite overweight and it's affecting our relationship.\n\nI love her more than anything in the world, but it's affecting our sex life, our social life, and so on and so forth.\n\nShe's aware she's put on weight and has altered her diet, but I know that to see results she needs to exercise. When she's not working (she only works 3 days a week), she lives a sedentary lifestyle. She doesn't go out, she just sits on the sofa.\n\nI've tried to encourage her to run, cycle, and go for walks, but she won't do it.\n\nI used to be overweight, but lost all that weight by exercising daily and eating better, so I know it works...\n\nWhat can I say or do? We've been together seven years and this is the most stressed I've felt in the relationship.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I'm out of town for about 2 weeks. A few days ago my girlfriend posts pictures of her and some random guy that I've never heard her mention and that I've never met. No idea who he is. But they're out on a hike together, clearly just them two. We've been talking every day since I've been gone but she's neglected to mention any of this to me, but she is obviously comfortable enough to post pictures etc on facebook knowing I'd see them. Just wondering if you guys think if I should mention anything or if I'm being overbearing. We never really hang out 1on1 with anyone else of the opposite sex and I don't think I'd ever feel comfortable doing so without giving my SO a heads up... let alone while she's out of town for an extended period...",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I am thinking about quitting my current job. This is a part-time job that I do just for experience. I am financially stable so I would have no problems if I quit this job, or if I can't find a job right after I quit this one. This is an administrative job that gives out extremely odd hours. Some weeks I'll be working tons, but the next I'll have no hours. There has also been changes in management recently and as I have received sparse hours, I am extremely out of the loop with the new changes. I have been working for this job for 7 months now. I feel that this company will not help me grow and I have no interest in staying. I have helped the company improve inventory management, as well as their site. I also do bookkeeping. My question is if I quite this job right now how would it affect my chances of getting a job in the future, especially since I don't intend to get another job until I graduate? Also, would the amount of time I've worked at the company affect the decision of future employers ?\n\n-\nAlso, this company does not provide paper references and only accepts call references. So they will not give me a positive reference if I put the company on paper. I am currently in school.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I've been dating my boyfriend for two months now. We started dating a month after we started talking, and at the beginning it was rough because it was summer after college and we were both home, not being able to see each other for a few months. After coming back for school (a few weeks now), I realized that being together isn't all that great. I feel like we having nothing to talk about, differences in humor, he's prone to \"teasing me\" (makes jokes about acne, weight, etc.) that became increasingly irritating. I don't actually feel like I like him emotionally, but since I've never been in a relationship before, I can't tell if this is just me being too picky and having high expectations. Should I break it off, or is 2 months of dating too short to really know if I \"like\" someone? I mean, when we're being nice and actually talking and laughing, I feel great, but other time, I have to constantly ask myself if I'm actually enjoying the relationship or just wasting my time.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Found out about emotional affair with ex. Details in previous question. He cut her off, we moved forward together. Two months in, I found out he wasn't completely honest about how deeply this thing ran. It's a lot of the same issues, but upon rereading what I found, I found that he was way more involved than he let on, and was leading her to believe that I was the one being unreasonable and jealous, while telling me negative things about her. It escalated during a rough patch between us.\n\nWe talked about all those things already though. I confronted him about that, and about everything else. We moved forward, but this still opens an old wound and makes me question everything. Had I known, I might have left. I'm wondering if I should leave now.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Little backstory: I live in Malaysia, work in Brunei (Google it if you don't know where these countries are)\n\nSo I watched Deadpool last week during the holidays with my friends and it was freaking awesome. Now that my holiday is over and I'm back at my work place, I've decided to watch it again with my colleagues.\n\nI was hyping them up with all the fun Deadpool facts on the way to the cinema and they were super excited to watch it. Until we reach the cinema and noticed there were no showing of Deadpool. A quick Google revealed that it is banned in Brunei. Now I got 5 angry co -workers blaming me for getting them all excited for nothing.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I have this friend who lives in Europe. we were friends since around 9 and we still talk. so I get a call from him (note he is a ps3 gamer just like me) and he asks me to get him a game called ghost recon future solider. I knew that games in there cost double and I'm going to see him in the summer so I say why not and buy him the game. Fast forward to the summer I go and see him and I give him the game (along with a few other games that I don't play) He seems really happy so I go and watch him set it up. After he sets everything up he starts raging because the DLC passport for multiplayer is region locked meaning he couldn't play online. Being a gamer myself i seem sorry because I know that's why he plays games but he then try's to exchange it with a game store in another CITY! Since I was getting tired I ask if I can stay at his place and he says yes. Come morning I fix the problem by logging in my account and downloading it on his ps3 he thanks me and plays it like there wasn't 1 hour of rage last night.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "My gf works at reception in an hotel, so she only has 1 day off work. This week they gave wednesday and she went with Two friends [m,f] to some restaurant/bar, afterwards she went with them to his friend apartment.\n\nThen they started to smoke weed and she tells me she got uncomfortable and left because she has never tried it. She was previously drinking and it was 5am, so she wasn't in her best condition. so after some time of walking and looking for a cab she was stranded in an unknown place, maybe not that secure. \n\nShe called me but I was half sleep and we weren't speaking for some previous discussion. I didn't say much and she didn't told me what was happening but her voice sounded like she was sobbing. Anyway, the following day she calls and tells me that same story but that she called his ex bf because she panicked, and he picked her up and left her in her flat. she says they didn't do anything, that he just gave her a ride to her flat.\n\nWe been dating for 5 months and been together as a couple for 7; I think we have a good honest relationship, sometimes we argue but after a few days we are ok and have a great time together. Also his exbf is sort of a douchebag and previously cheated on her, and uses coke so not really a trustworthy person.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "My husband, 7 year old and I live in a 100 year old building on the third floor. It's casual, rent by owner, not corporate. There is a landlord on site, but he is a puss and is rarely here anyway. Our new downstairs neighbors have a surround sound system they play video games and watch tv on until 4-5 am. It shakes our apartment so bad, and it is so loud we can't even hear our tv. Last night they were hammering on the walls at 3 am. I knocked on the floor to let them know, hey, not cool. They decided to make hammering song like crap for an hour as retaliation. I asked the landlord to talk to them and he said he would go right up, but they still do it, and louder I might add, plus the banging on the walls and you can hear them laughing. I'm at my wits end, and need advice. My husband wants to silently get them back like getting deer urine at the hunting store and pouring it in their door frame or something along those lines. I'm afraid if I show my face, they will key my truck or something of that nature.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I was not invited to my fiance's best friend's wedding after dating my girlfriend (at the time we were not engaged) for ten years. I have met her best friend multiple times and always got along, never fought or disagreed on anything. Her friend lives in another state and when she got engaged I assumed my fiance and I would both be invited. Not only was I not invited but her friend also expected my fiance to be the maid of honor and take on all the responsibility of such an important job, all without acknowledging her relationship with me. My fiance protested and let her friend know this was wrong. After the fact her friend invited me, but I felt like damage was already done. I did not end up going. We are now planning our wedding and I refuse to add her to the invite list. Am I wrong for not inviting someone that clearly didn't want me at their wedding?\n\n**bold",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Long story short - a few rumours went around about my boyfriend cheating on me. Soon after a guy who I know wants to destroy our relationship and keeps putting my hand down his pants told me that it wasn't cheating, that it was such a full blown affair that I was in fact the other woman.\n\nAll I want to do is get to the bottom of the situation so we/I can move on with our lives in the fashion most appealing to us (which for me would be to work on our relationship and move forward with that). However, I need the honesty of the situation to do that. But this is difficult. I don't want to go in guns blazing, but I want to protect myself. I'm trying to impress upon him the fact that honesty is the beginning of the healing process, whatever that process looks like. And I don't want my own insecurity to sabotage a good thing.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Hi, I [23F] have been been dating this guy [23M], I am his first girlfriend, for soon to be 3 months and we are on different relationship stages. He is still in the honeymoon stage, where everything about your partner is perfect (not complaining, just surprised). I on the other hand have already passed that, probable because I am a single mother; idk okay). I kinda assumed that he had moved on due to some awkward moments.\n\nWe are on the same page as to what we are doing with the relation by talking about what we want; i.e. taking it slow by not meeting the parents, no major holiday being shared, or sex until month 5-6 (was not a one sided decision and I compromised; wanted to wait until marriage this time). \n\nSo what I want to know is this normal and just not talked about or no.? Should I even be asking at this point.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "My wedding is rapidly approaching (a Friday in August). I haven't solved my photography dilemma yet and I could really use some advice. \n\nIdeally, I would like to hire a photographer for just a few hours. I’d like to have group family photos (and photos of me and FH) taken before the ceremony, maybe an hour total. I would also like photos to be taken during the ceremony, which should only last about 20 minutes, and during the hour-long cocktail hour. Plus maybe the first 45 minutes or hour of the reception, but that’s negotiable. That’s about three or four hours total. I don’t have a bridal party and the number of people I want in the photos is probably a total of 20 (most of whom will be only in a couple of photos). I do not expect an album of 500 wedding photos.\n\nI truly value photography as an art and don’t want to come across as insulting. It’s just that my FH and I aren’t terribly keen on posing for photos. Here's what I don’t want: cutesy group photos, photos of my FH and I gazing longingly at each other, getting ready photos, photos of my dress before I put it on, ring photos, etc. It’s not about money. I just don’t need a full day of photography.\n\nSo my questions are: is it possible to find a decent quality photographer willing to do this? If so, how do I go about finding one? How much should I expect to pay (very, very generally)? I am hoping the fact that my wedding is on a Friday will help me out here, as I would never expect to find a photographer willing to forego the typical wedding photo package on a Saturday during the height of wedding season in a very popular wedding destination (coastal Maine). I am even open to hiring a student photographer.\n\nAny advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I've been working at my current job for about a year. I like it so enough, it's in the field I want to be in, etc. In other words, I'm not going to find another job over this.\n\nI work with a woman in her 70s that I'll call June. June stinks. It's like she doesn't shower. Her ponytail is always greasy. But it wasn't always like this. It's been reoccurring, but it's never been this bad.\n\nWhen I walk into the workroom I smell her. When I sit next to her desk I smell her. When I have to walk by the two office rooms that we use, I smell her. I went into one of the rooms after she had left one day and I literally gagged it was so bad. One day she stood too close to me and I could TASTE her stink, like I was at a petting zoo.\n\nI have told my supervisor. Others have complained too. My supervisor knows it's an issue and has escalated the situation. HR refuses to do anything. They don't want to embarrass her, and frankly I think they're afraid she'll go after them for firing her for being old. They have said they'll give her a couple of months (!!!) to see if the issue resolves itself.\n\nIt's so bad I lose my appetite for lunch. I'm scared I'm going to go home and my boyfriend will tell me I stink. I think her stench sticks to things.\n\nMine and my supervisor's hands are tied.\n\nWhat can I do? We can't use aerosols because they aggravate people's allergies, so I can't even use febreeze. I've thought about perfume but I don't want to make myself overwhelming trying to block her stench. I've thought about peppermint oil under my nose, but frankly, I don't think I should have to fuck up my skin because the old lady won't shower.\n\nPlease give me advice. When my boss told me she couldn't do anything I wanted to cry. It's been 2 weeks now and I can't stand this smell anymore. I'm at my wits end.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "My boyfriend and I are in early 20's and have been dating a little over 2 years. Everything is going great, except his mother is extremely needy. She calls him several times a day about pointless things. Whenever I am over their house she checks on us in his room, ignores me and talks to him about whatever is making her stressed out that day. She asks him to do chores every time I am over when she could easily do them such as putting the dishes away or taking out the trash. Whenever we go on a trip somewhere (which we do a lot) She constantly texts and calls him to see what we are doing and if he's having fun. When we go out with friends she texts him saying not to be out too late even though he has off that next day. I have talked to him several times how it bothers me when his mom always calls and when she bothers us when I'm over their house. He said he agrees and that he talked to her about it, but nothing has changed. We plan on getting married in the future, but his mother drives me crazy with how needy she is and it's stressing me out. I need advice on how to deal with this, because I feel like this is straining our relationship. Any advice would be helpful. Sorry this is so long..it has been bothering me for a while now. Thank you for the help!",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I know that I'm 21 and should know how to approach these sort of things, but I unfortunately am a little bad at it!\n\nI've known my friend for about 6 months. He's always been playful/flirty, but it's in his nature. I'm working a seasonal job for the summer and have been gone for a month.\n\nA couple weeks before I left, I ended up falling asleep at his house during a movie. He asked if I wanted to sleepover, and I did. We ended up cuddling during the night, but we never talked about it. \n\nAfter that, he was more flirty. I figured now that I'm gone, that it would've died down. But he texts me often, tells me how much he misses me and that he wishes I was home. He calls me babe/jokes around about our marriage when we're talking to our mutual friends. I know that those are all OBVIOUS signs of flirting, but he's also a guy who jokes around a lot. \n\nHow can I talk to him about it? I do have feelings for him, but I don't want to get my hopes up if he's not being serious. I also don't want to freak him out by asking him if I'm reading into things too much. Should I wait until I get home?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "My long-distance boyfriend is home for the weekend but he doesn't seem that excited to see me. I met him on his way back from the coach station yesterday evening, after I'd been at college and work. I just wanted to hug him and kiss him straight away, but he kind of just ignored that / didn't reciprocate. Example: I pulled him towards me and kissed him when we were walking up my street, just because I haven't kissed him for 3 weeks and I wanted to. It wasn't forced or anything, but then he kept saying we should stop because we're in the middle of the street (it was 10:30pm, no one else around) and we should 'save it for later' (I'm at college/work 'later').He also said the same thing, and that I was getting 'carried away', when we were kissing after he walked me home. Isn't that a good thing?\n\nHe is pretty shy and does tend to internalise a lot, but we're very close and open with each other. \n\nWe've only been apart 3 weeks this time but found it more difficult than other times. It was all 'I miss you' texts, but now he's home... I don't know. \n\nI don't know if I've just got unrealistic expectations of what his reaction 'should' be. I kind of want him to jump on me and hug me and kiss me. I guess I just didn't feel that wanted. BUT I don't know if I'm just over romanticising / idealising the situation. \n\nNote: we've been together 3 years and have been long distance for 4 months.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So, I'm a leader in an on campus club at my university. About a week ago my friend, Cameron, (who is male but uses female pronouns) has recently told me that she has developed \"*deep, real, and excessive*\" feelings for me over the course of the past year. \n\nI simply explained that I am straight and not interested, that it doesn't change our friendship, and I take the confession of feelings as a compliment (as to not try and make things weird between us because she is my friend). A couple of days go by without contact or seeing each other on campus (it's finals week and everyone is on weird schedules) but eventually we see each other in the cafeteria. We have a short chat and part ways until as I left she calls out my name and blows me a kiss from across the room, which I had no real response in mind other than just to nod and walk off. In the past couple of days when we've seen each other, she's been very close and personal (more so than before she announced her feelings) and has constantly been complimenting me (also did not do before this event). Ever since the talk, she's just been over the top flirty and making me feel more uncomfortable.\n\nBasically, she doesn't really gets the message that I'm not interested, even after I plainly spelled it out. I'm not sure how to go about this, because I'm also trying to be a friend and not come across as mean or a jerk (and I'm supposed to be a role model to my campus group).",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "It was a rocky relationship but at least we love each other. We overcame every obstacle, but i guess with each passing problem, she got more and more worn down. \n\nWe're both young, not yet done living early 20's life, but we talked plenty of settling down, even started living together. We broke up last night, but i dont know if there's still room for reconciliation. I just dont know if i should still be chasing her. I still love her, and i dont really plan on moving on--if it happens, it happens, if it doesnt i'll just deal with it? I just seem to have forgotten what life was like before having someone there.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "I [32/M] have been dating a new lady [27/F] for the past 2 months. We recently had the \"define the relationship\" talk, which resulted in her becoming visibly upset and tearful when she found out I don't ever want to have children. \n\nWe met online, where she contacted me first. My profile clearly states that I don't want children, while her profile was ambiguous with an answer of \"maybe\". \n\nWhile it may seem early to discuss children at this point, my past two long term relationships have ended because my partners wanted children. It's important for me to be as upfront as possible about what I want in a relationship to avoid any confusion later. \n\nAfter our conversation, things have gone back to normal for us. We still see each other several times a week and have regular sleep-overs. I'm really confused where we stand on the whole relationship question. Is she sticking with me hoping that I'll change my mind about having kids? Is she just viewing this as a short-term relationship? Is she thinking about what she really wants and just needs time? I've never had a \"define the relationship\" talk that didn't result in either a relationship or a parting of ways.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "recently, I just got out of a longish term relationship. Obviously I was upset but alas all my friends came to my rescue. My best guy friend spent a lot of time with me before he left for the summer. He and the rest of my friends and family helped me get over my ex pretty quickly and I can say I'm pretty over the past right now. \n\nThe new problem is that, said friend and I kept in contact. By that I mean, we've been talking the whole past month. He's always been there even when I was dating my ex, and I feel more of a connection with him. I believe I may have developed a crush for my best friend and it's driving me insane. I'm convinced he isnt into me. All my friends, however, think the opposite and are telling me to go for it. I could possibly be idealizing it and I don't want to idealize my best friend. I love our relationship as friends but I can't help wonder if there's more. I'm so very confused right now, should I pursue or should I just keep it the way it is? I don't wanna miss out on an opportunity but I don't want it to be awkward either.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So as /r/TIFU tradition dictates, this event happened a few months ago. I'm on my school's cross country team and we're at this meet which generally has a pretty large turnout (it's a yearly event). One of the other teams has a uniform which is characterized with a ton of K's covering a black and white checkerboard pattern (the team name begins with a K). So, with my friends and I being the high schoolers we are, we decide to nickname this team the KKK. The meet has gone on for a couple hours now and we're still waiting for our race to start. So to pass the time we're cheering our teammates on. In the very final 100m of the race, one of our team members (who is black) is about to be passed by none other than a member of \"team K.\" In a moment of excitement I yelled \"Come on [X], don't let the KKK beat you!\" I immediately realized what I had said and my coach gave me a stern talking to and said if anything else happened there would be an open spot on the team.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So I haven't had the best luck with the ladies in my life, but I finally got a girlfriend and I'm crazy about her already. She's hot, smart, funny, everything I wanted in a girl. \n\nSo we're at my place and things get hot and heavy and we begin kissing and taking off clothes. First off, the furthest I've gotten with a girl before this was a blowjob when I was drunk at a party. Anyway, clothes are off and I'm hard as a rock waiting to go.\n\nI go down on her and I'm still rock hard and she climaxes and she's ready to return the favor to me. When she goes to blow me I start to go soft for some reason. I;m trying to concentrate on her and the generous, hot action she's doing but I just can't focus. I'm so confused and to compensate for that I go down on her again and the erection returns.\n\nShe says she wants me to fuck when I'm done going down on her and I get up to fuck her and I lose the hard on again. After that she was accepting and said we could wait (I'm still a virgin) for the next time we get together. I'm not sure why I kept losing the hard on when it mattered. If it changes anything I always over think things and I'm in my own head a lot. \n\nI talked to my best friend about and he said that I was probably nervous, but I'm completely ready to lose my virginity.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Ok. This is super childish, I know, but I'm pretty rattled about the situation.\n\nThe MOH, Erica, has been a terrible person for the duration of the wedding planning. Without getting into too much detail, she has made every aspect of the wedding about her. In addition to this, she has really upset the bride, Ashly, with the financial aspect - Erica can't afford to be in the wedding, but had an absolute fit when she thought she wasn't going to be MOH. Erica and I were close friends for a couple years but have drifted apart due to her moving to a larger city a few hours away. \n\nSo, onto the issue at hand: \n\nI had bought a few cute outfits for Ashly's kids for Christmas. Ashly didn't know I was getting them anything, it was a surprise. I was pretty excited about the clothes, and had sent Erica a text with a picture of the outfits. \n\nSo, she texts Ashly with, \"so OP got your kids clothes for Christmas, what can I get them that's actually memorable?\". \n\nReddit, I know Ashely probably shouldn't have told me Erica said that. And I know I probably shouldn't have called out Erica on how rude she was..... But I did. I was pissed that she ruined my surprise. \n\nI could write a novel about the aftermath, but Erica flipped her shit on Ashly, and said some pretty mean stuff to her. I feel pretty bad for Ashly. Is there anything I can do to help my friend?",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "My brother has a crush on a girl for at least a half year. She has start the same school as he but they don't hang out in the same groups. He does text with her on facebook and on the mobile, but he don't know any ideas for getting them to know each other better. He has been on dances and even danced with her one evening, but when he asked her if they could be together she said that she don't know him so well yet...\n\nThis issue is something that he only speaks to me about, not our mother and I will be moving to another town in a couples of weeks and I just want to help him. I'm not so good in dating tips, because I just talked with my now SO of soon 2 years one night and met him the next day and then we were together. (Short story). \n\nHe and I live in a small village and she lives in a village maybe 15 km away. The nearest town is about 45 km away and we live in Finland. They both have only mopeds and every cinema, bowling hall etc. is in the town 45 km away (30 km from her house). He doesn't want my mother to know everything, because she's very annoying with these kinds of stuff..\n\nAny advise, like things they could do, tips for him? I'll be very happy if I could help him a little. :)",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "Been going to the gym and seeing a trainer for a while now, between sets he likes to people watch and loves to point out any nice looking girls. We talk and go through my routine and there has always been this one girl who has caught my eye when she is there. \n\nMy trainer noticed this and asked who it was that has been catching my attention, when I told him he said that he trained her and would be happy to introduce us. Which sounds great, but I don't know anything about this girl outside of really liking the way she looks.\n\nI'm not socially awkward but unless I have some background information or a mutual interest I'm not good at talking to strangers, especially this really attractive girl. \n\nThe one rule I know about the gym is that people are there to workout, not socialize, I'm pretty sure that having a random guy approach this girl mid workout would be the last thing she'd want in her life so I'd rather not have that be my first impression.\n\nDoes anyone have any suggestions?\nI'm completely content with not pursuing this, because I like this gym a lot and would rather have things stay as they are then introduce a new worry of whether or not I'd have to hide from a failed attempt at hitting on this girl",
"role": "user"
}
] |
[
{
"content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n",
"role": "system"
},
{
"content": "So I met this girl at my best friends wedding two months ago. We really hit it off and I went to visit her across the country a week ago. I'm head over heels for her, but I don't want to get hurt.\n\nA particular situation is nagging at me though. Last night she went to a movie in the park with her neighbor and his friend. I met them on my journey out there and thought they were weird but harmless.\n\nShe tells me today that they all got pretty drunk and one of the guys was hitting on her, the neighbor kept trying to put his arm around her, and one of their friends tried to make a move to kiss her at the end of the night. She said that she declined all of these advances and I don't have any reason to doubt her, but what bothers me the most is that the she let the guy who tried to kiss her sleep on her couch.\n\nShe says she's only interested in me and that she found those guys, desperate and creepy, but it bothers me that she didn't see it to begin with and that she didn't just flat out kick them out of her apartment. Is she just overly flirty/nice. Is this a red flag?\n\nI already have trust issues and the LDR thing is compounding them. I'd love to have an honest discussion about it, but don't want to seem controlling or overly jealous.",
"role": "user"
}
] |
Subsets and Splits
No community queries yet
The top public SQL queries from the community will appear here once available.