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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl a few weeks ago through a friend and we've been getting along brilliantly since. We've spent the last week or so together at a friends house with his girlfriend (as bad as it sounds I was recruited to keep her company whilst they were being all lovey dovey and stop her from feeling like a third wheel when they went out) and pretty much all we've done in that week is have an amazing time together, laughing, joking, playing games, listening to music etc and I've decided that I want to ask her out.\n\nThe only problem is, her now-ex (they were together when I met her) was a complete arsehole to her and didn't treat her right. He pretty much emotionally abused her by not taking her out anywhere or showing her much affection at all from what I can tell from the bits and pieces of information I have received about the subject and she finally dumped him 2 weeks ago after 2/3 years of being together. I respect her way too much to ask her out right away, and I really don't want to be seen as a rebound either. \n\nHow long is an acceptable and respectable amount of time after her long term break up to ask her out, or even talk about the subject with her at all? I'm completely and utterly useless when it comes to this sort of stuff and I could really use some advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My roommate (18) and I (19) get along pretty well, but whenever she's in the dorm room, she plays her music aloud and sings at the top of her lungs. She does this constantly, and it's extremely loud and distracting. My friends can often barely hear me over Skype (even when I'm using a headset), and it makes it really difficult to focus on work. I tell her to turn it down occasionally when it gets really absurd, but I want a more long-term solution. It's been going on for a semester now and my non-confrontational ways have prevented me from talking to her about it. I don't want to get into a fight, and I don't want to upset her. \n\nI know I need to talk to her about not singing in the room, but I don't know how to say it without sounding rude. At this point, I can only assume she thinks I'm totally okay with it. She's not doing it to be annoying, and she probably doesn't even realize it's kind of rude, and really distracting when I'm studying or trying to talk to friends. I don't think she's ever roomed with someone before, so I don't think she's considered what another person might want. I'm just really fed up with it, and I want to have a conversation with her instead of snapping at her.\n\nI'm worried that if I just confront her about it, she'll get angry. She's not someone who would tell me to my face that she's upset, but she talks bad about people to me a lot, and I'm worried she'll think I'm being harsh. She clearly thinks her singing is good, and she tries to get me to listen to her sing all the time. I've made jokes about how I don't want to listen to her, but she seems to brush them off and continue anyway. \n\nAny suggestions on how to talk to her about the singing would be very appreciated! Thanks in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here's the deal, I met a woman at a bar while we were there to see a mutual friends band. We kept seeing each other at shows and she got real flirty with me ( she was drinking most of the time) she'd say how cute and adorable i am and hold me hand, ask me to dance, kiss, tell me she loves me etc. etc. etc. \nwe started talking more and more and it got to the point where i needed to know what the deal was between us. She said it was just a friend thing and she can come off aS flirty and she's sorry for leading me on. \nso im not gonna lie, i was hurt, stayed a bit distant, didnt text her at much. last weekend she came out to 2 more show's, I knew she'd be at one but wasnt sure about both. Friday she showed up and she sat with me, we talked and she even asked why she hadnt heard from me in a bit, i said school and work have kept me busy. she left early, gave me a kiss. but then saturday was a mess. She would do all the stuff like before, grabbing and holding my hand etc. etc. etc\nSaturday night i had a bit of a meltdown driving home, still thinking there might be something even though i know she's not interested. Her flirting makes me feel awesome and so euphoric, but then i come crashing down knowing it will never lead to anything.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been selling old textbooks and the like on Amazon recently to get a little extra money. Quite a few sold, and quickly. One of these orders was made on a Saturday afternoon, August 20. Though I offered expedited shipping as an option, this guy chose standard shipping. I think, no problem, I'll ship all these books off (a handful of others sold that weekend too) Monday morning, and it'll be fine. \n\nSince this guy asked for standard shipping, I used Media Mail, which promises delivery within (I think) 8 business days, well within the 14 business day limit Amazon uses. I didn't get tracking, or delivery confirmation, however. I know it's recommended, but I didn't figure there'd be too many problems, and I'd rather not spend an extra $5-10 that would be coming straight out of my pocket. \n\nIn any case, I got a message from this guy today asking where his book was, it wasn't there yet and his class starts tomorrow. I told him that I shipped it on Monday the 22nd, and Media Mail can take up to 8 business days, so it should be there by Wednesday. At that point, this guy responds with \"Had I known you would be so slow I would have not ordered with you. If it does not arrive on time or all expect a complaint on your feedback I should have known your 97% ment (sic) something.\" I calmly reminded him that it's only been five business days, and that I had offered expedited shipping. I told him that I'd be happy to refund his money if it is not delivered within 14 business days, but that I don't know his schedule or when his classes start, and I shipped it out promptly and according to his directions. I'm still worried though; if this guy does complain, is there anything I can do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, so I've been with my bf for three months, and most of the time, it's great. We get along together splendidly, really enjoy each other's company, and the sex is just great.\n\nThe thing is, I'm getting really self-conscious about suggesting spending evenings alone when we're both really tired because he usually reclines. Today is a great example. We both had a long day at work, plus we didn't really sleep well last night because of the heat... So we were just IMing about what we would do tonight, he said he wanted to stay home so I suggested I'd come over. Just to watch a movie or something. The last time we did this, he said two or three times \"Why don't we do this every night?\" But, he said he just wanted to relax, plan his holiday and pursue his hobby (Sorry if that's not the right expression, English is my second language).\n\nThis would be fine if this was the first time it happened, but it's not. Usually, when I say \"let's just spend the night at home\" because we both don't want to go out, he declines it in like 75%. Which made me kind of stop wanting to suggest this. Rejection sucks. \n\nThe thing is, I don't know if I should bring it up. He's normally an amazing boyfriend, treats me way better than the guys I dated before him, constantly says he loves me and I feel I'd be unfair to make this allegation when he's so great in every other way. Plus, I'm afraid he'd beat himself up about it, which is something I don't want him to.\n\n(I should probably add that it's not that we don't spend time alone together, it's just when he's tired he can't seem to get himself to see me, I guess)\n\nSo, any advice would be appreciated, thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Cut contact with this girl because she still had a boyfriend. I let her know that I saw us as more then friends and that when she becomes single for her to contact me and if not best of luck with everything.\n\nthree days later I get a text (legit 10 minutes ago). \nShe said, \"Just so you know we broke up.\" (meaning her and her boyfriend.) Now, I do not know how to respond, do I ask why, ask her how come, ask her when... \n\nThing is we have been friends for a few months and I just could not do the friends thing anymore, so I decided cutting contact would be in MY best interests. I can not ask her on any dates though because she is in Florida till october, and I just need advice on how to approach this situation. Such as how to handle, stay in contact, be there for her, all the while keeping attraction up to what it was beforehand so that when she comes home our lives can intertwine again.\n\nThanks Reddit,", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was on a break with my girlfriend after some difficulties and I kissed one of her close friends. Although I thought I would not be getting back with my girlfriend, I regretted it immediately. Sometime afterwards I got back together with my girlfriend and I told her last night what had happened as I couldn't deal with the guilt. She started crying and said she has lost all trust in me. I feel sick. Just to be clear, she was seeing other people on the break too. I guess since it's one of her close friends I crossed a boundary. What is my next move? I hope you can help!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This story has a timeline of two weeks, starting a week ago on Monday June 1st. I live in Australia, where it is now Thursday 11th. \n\nLast Monday, I got an interview for a non-advertised entry position at my dream company. All of the stars aligned: It was an emergency for them and I responded the fastest thanks to a friend of a friend that works at said company. \n\nAfter presenting them my portfolio, the three people I met with were very enthusiastic, to the point of showing me around the office and introducing me to people. I was told I'd be contacted the following day. \n\nOn Tuesday, I was informed they'd been able to resolve the issue internally but wanted to bring me on board anyway for another project. I was told we would speak very soon. \n\nOn Friday (of what was a long weekend), I was emailed after work hours told that an opportunity had come up for me to come on board and would be contacted on Tuesday. I replied thanking them and saying I hoped to hear from them on Tuesday. \n\nTuesday came and went with no phone call or no email. I let it pass because Tuesday was the starting day of the project I was initially being interviewed for (I imagined they were busy trying to make sure it started out right and hadn't had time to get in touch). \n\nWednesday passed and I wasn't contacted. \n\nIt is Thursday after lunch and I'm thinking of dropping the person who emailed me last just checking in. \n\nShould I email today or wait till tomorrow?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Repost from /r/relationships because I am asking you guys for your opinion. What should I do about this?\n\nI am 22(f) and he is 27(m) almost 28. Lets call him X. X and I have been dating for three years. We both come from families with an average income.\n\nRight now I am finishing up at college, but am going to grad school near my hometown (which happens to also be where X lives) for numerous reasons. I am probably one of the most ambitious people I know. I am really set on setting myself up to be successful in the future, and so far, everything is going according to plan for me. I have the connections I need for my chosen field and was even promised a job at my desired work location upon my graduation.\n\nWhats the problem, you ask? He is one of the least ambitious people I have ever met in my entire life. He has a minimal pay job that is unreliable and is living paycheck to paycheck. Absolutely nothing has changed with his situation in the last three years. Yes, there were a few failed attempts at a slightly better job then what he is doing now. But as I said, these were FAILED attempts.\n\nWhen X and I first met, it was all fun and games. I had no idea what I wanted from my future so I wasn't really concerned about him not really doing anything all day everyday. But now that I am beginning to think about a career. I am much younger then X and I am getting started on this NOW. It hurts because I see that he might not be headed in the same direction as I am. This sucks. I love everything about him. Minus this one aspect, which unfortunately is important, our relationship is flawless. We NEVER fight (I can think of only one major argument throughout our relationship).\n\nI don't know what to do. Should I stay or should I go?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Over two years ago my girlfriend and I started dating in secret. We were in secret because my parents are (racist?) in the way that they only want me to date people from an Asian background like me, and she is white. Eventually, because our school is super small and rumors spread like crazy, the staff found out maybe about a year ago. We went and made sure they knew not to go to our parents, and they all agreed. Fast forward to now and the principal and guidance counselor have called my parents and spilled the entire story to them. They apparently even had to use generic words like \"girlfriend and her mom\" instead of saying names to get around privacy rules. After talking it over with some of our close friends, no one has any insight or heard of anything that could cause them to do this, and it's very uncharacteristic of them. My parents have told me that the school administration has said things such as, \"She's in a lower social class, he can do better,\" \"She's bringing his grades down\" (I have a 4.0 GPA), etc. While my parents have also said things such as \"She's white trash,\" and \"She's a gold digger,\" I know for sure that those are both incorrect. Heck, my parents haven't even spoken to her for more than 3 minutes. Now that the jig is up, I'm not sure what to do. Do I secretly talk to her and risk losing everything except food and school supplies for the next year if I get caught? Do I make arrangements to get back together in a year? Or Do I just give up and accept it as over? All of this stress is really getting to me, and I have no idea what the best choice is. Thanks for reading all of that, and giving me any feedback!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We both have amazing chemistry and it seems we're almost always on the same page. We're both pretty infatuated with each other. Never before had I had the urge to text a girl almost daily (and I'm known as a horrible texter), see a girl often or really get to know them.\n\nWe both have never been in a relationship before and are typically scared of commitment. I mentioned last week that I felt we were moving too fast and we should take it slow. I told her I don't want to hurt her if we don't work out and she said she's strong if it happens, and that she said we'll see where time takes us. \n\nWe had one drunken talk this past weekend and admitted our feelings to each other. I said I was falling in love with her and she said she really liked me. At one point in the conversation, she almost said I love you...but stopped. She started getting emotional and started crying and I wasn't sure if it was out of happiness and/or sadness. She said she never gone this far with a guy and I mentioned the same. I said for us to be monogamous but not official to determine if our feelings are real and not circumstantial. \n\nAt these times when I talk about the state of our relationship, I feel like she always agree with what I say and doesn't give any dissent. I don't know if this is a good or bad thing. \n\nI'm probably being an asshole right now. I feel like I'm trying to fight the feeling of falling in love/being in love because I've never felt these feelings before and things are going too smoothly to be true.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone! I've been a long time lurker, but I've never posted anything before. Also using a throwaway because everyone I know is on Reddit. Here it goes...\n\nI recently started a new job (about 2 months ago) and I'm really liking the my new work place. Everyone I've met is super friendly and I like my role in the company. I've gotten along with many of my coworkers and already been out on social events after work with several of them.\n\nThere is one coworker, Paul (40sM), that I've been chatting with recently. We went for a golf lesson this past weekend and it turns out that he was interested in me. He ended up asking me out but I declined, citing that I wasn't really looking for anything right now due to a recent break up. We continued the rest of our lesson, but I could tell that it was definitely more awkward and less friendly than before. \n\nWe decided that we would continue being mates and hang out some. However, it does feel like he doesn't want to be friends anymore. For example, when I see him at work, we just made superficial chitchat, but not like before. I enjoyed being friends with him and would love to continue having a friendship.\n\nIt really is bringing me down because this happens a lot. I meet a guy and we get along, but he gets interested in me (and I decline), suddenly we're not friends anymore. I'm always honest with them because I don't want a relationship right now. I got out of a long one and haven't been single in a while. I just wanted to make friends and hang out, no weirdness.\n\nSorry for the rambling, but should I just go out for a drink with him? Just to see where it goes? It's not like a drink is a gigantic commitment. I have drinks with my mates all the time. What do you think? I just want to see if I can continue this friendship with him and get over this weird hump. \n\nThanks for reading, Reddit!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone,\nI can't believe I'm even asking this question because it sounds so silly, but I really don't want to give off the wrong vibe to this guy, so I want to hear some opinions on the subject. There's this guy in one of my classes who seems pretty interesting, and we talk in class sometimes (not deep conversations, just small talk). I've known him for about 2 months now. From what I know of him (his interests, his personality), though, I'm attracted to him. I'd like to get to know him a little better, and I thought adding him on Facebook might be a casual way to do so. However, I'm afraid it will come off as desperate since we don't know each other outside of class. What do you guys think? Is it weird to randomly add a guy on Facebook, and will he see it as me being desperate? I know, I know, I'm over thinking this, but I'm curious as to what you all have to say.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I will keep this brief as I can.\n\nWe were together 3^^(ish) years (lived together for 2), but the last 7 months were pretty shitty.\n\nStandard story - she met someone else and was hiding it. Every time I questioned it she would twist it round to be my fault. I was paranoid/clingy/didn't want her to have other friends. I ended up being quite sick because of constant anxiety, but she didn't stop.\n\nEventually of course it all came out and we broke up, but had to live out the rest of our shared lease...which was not fun at all. She didn't show any remorse and continued seeing this other girl, even though she had a gf.\n\nAfter our lease ran out I moved to another country (1000 miles away) to get away and get a fresh start and began cutting her out my life.\n\nIt's been 7 months now since I saw her, and 5 months since we last had contact. But this week she sent an email saying she started counselling 3 months ago and is in a completely different place and realises how she acted like a prick and would like to talk, even if meant travelling to my country to do so.\n\nI agreed. And she's coming next weekend to talk.\n\nBut now I have no idea what to do. Can people really work past this sort of thing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So tomorow night I (22 y/o male) am planning on meeting up with a girl I've talked to from tinder for about a week or so (both of us were busy up until now). I rarely do these types of things, but me and my roomates were using it as a joke one day and I ended up following up on one of the conversations I was having, and we really seem to vibe (as much as one can over the phone). Thing is, I've never been much of a date person. I have had girlfriends and we have gone on dates, but never have really had a first date experience, most of the time they were friends and it developed from there. But I want to make a good first impression on this girl, not to mention I am getting older so it's time my methods matured to match my age.\nWe are meeting at a local bar for drinks and some food (my suggestion). My goal is to just give her a good feel on my personality, get a good feel on hers, and just don't do anything too over the top to scare her away, while making sure she knows I am interested and enough of a man to make a move. \n\nSo just a couple questions for you guys who have gone on first dates with people you barely know: how often do you end up kissing them at the end? did you ever not kiss them but she still was interested and you got to the next time? if she is giving me signals and my dumbass can't interpret them, would she lose too much respect and would I not get a second chance?\n\nI know it sounds like I have no experience with girls, fact of the matter is it is just extremely limited, seeing as how all my relationships developed from friendships and everything else has basically been drunken hookups.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We hang out often, we thoroughly enjoy each other's company, and don't really have any issues in our relationship. Pretty vanilla. But a small thing that's been bothering me lately is how she goes about asking me if I want to hang out with her.\n\nIf she's going out to a party, or out with some of our mutual friends, she will typically ask me if I want to come along. But when she asks - and I think it's something she's unaware of - she doesn't seem like she really wants me to be there. For example, she never explicitly states that she wants me to be there, it's usually just \"Hey, there's a party\" or \"Hey, do you want to come hang out with x & y\". And if I say no, and I give some sort of reason, she never fights to get me to go. She never really shows any emotion when I say yes or no. She just says \"all right\" and moves on. I don't think she's ever explicitly stated that she wants me to go. How i've felt about it recently, is that she acts as if she's completely okay with me not going and that she's asking because she feels she's obligated to, because i'm her boyfriend.\n\nI love that she asks and lets me know almost every time she goes out, but it just doesn't make me feel very special when she words it in that sort of way. I'm going to bring it up soon and tell her it bothers me, but I wanted some input from unbiased people beforehand. I might be looking too much into it, not sure.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (22 F) have been with my boyfriend (20 M) for about a year.\n\nRecently, we have been talking and he is starting to feel emotionless (says he can't control it and doesn't know anything that will help make it go away) and told me he wants to give our relationship some time to see if things can improve before we end up breaking up.\n\nEver since we've had this talk (about a week ago), I have been feeling very out-of-sorts. I have put a lot of effort into this relationship and I love him and don't want to end it. I can't help but be paranoid all the time that he is going to break up with me and worry about our relationship.\n\nSo I ask, first: what are some things that he can do to avoid losing all emotions and become (basically) a hermit, and then end up shutting me out of his life? Second: How can I stop worrying that this is definitely going to happen? I literally can't stop thinking about it and it has been interfering with my daily life. I find myself feeling nauseous, don't want to eat, getting headaches, and even just breaking down and crying.\n\nI don't want to feel this way anymore but I don't want to lose him either. It won't make me feel any better to end it with him. I truly think he is something special and we have never had any major problems in our relationship.... Please help!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I proposed last weekend. We've talked about it for a long time, I just finally got around to doing it. \n\nNow to the important stuff. We've been together for over 5 years, lived together for four. She's extremely responsible with her money, which is one of the reasons I haven't really thought I needed one. She pays me a set amount a month for rent, we just kind of split other things like groceries and such. I'd say I generally pay for going out to eat, vacations, etc. But I make a lot more than she does, so I don't have a problem with that. Even though we have separate accounts, I'd say we both consider things ours. I do own a house, but like I said, she's paying a little over a 3rd of that payment a month.\n\nI don't want to sound like I have love blinders on, I'm a pessimist generally, but I can't really see the need for one. If something ever did happen where we got divorced, which I really can't see but I know people change, should I still get one? Honestly if that happened, I know myself, and I'd be civil and fair about who get's what, I could guarantee that. I really couldn't see her being any other way either, we're a lot a like that way.\n\nWe're not going to have kids, and if we did split, I'd feel she was owed at minimum, all of the money she paid towards the house, if not half of the house itself. \n\nSo, should I still look into getting one? Feel free to be as critical as possible about my views on things. She already asked me if I wanted one, as I technically have more assets than her (even though I consider them ours), so getting one wouldn't be an issue. I feel the fact that she asked that speaks to her financial responsibility.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She has struggled with anxiety for a while and I've always been there for her, our anniversary was on the 4th of April and it was the happiest we've been in a while, weather was great and we spent the weekend together enjoying the sun and spending time together. She lives about 80 miles away because she goes to a university in a different town, but I drive and see her every week or two. It's only an hour and a half each way and I enjoy the drive.\n\nThen slightly after the weekend ended I was reading Perks of Being a Wallflower (a book she recommended and lent to me) and I realized that my sister had molested me when I was 6, somehow I had completely suppressed the memory. I told her and she tried to be there for me but with her anxiety it's hard for her. We basically just both would end up crying and freaking out. We both had a very tough week or two and I wasn't there for her at all when she needed me. \n\nI've come to terms with what happened to me, but she feels like I ignored her. She wants to take a break at least until the end of the summer where we don't talk. She said that she doesn't want to break up and she still loves me, but at the end of the break we need to talk about what is best for both of us, ideally that being that we get back together. The thought behind the break is that it'll give us some time to get better at relying on ourselves and not being dependent on eachother so that if the other person needs us we can actually help them without breaking down ourself.\n\nI'm not really sure how to feel about this or what to do, she wants me to come see her this weekend so we can talk about it and figure out what to do, any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were out on a date which had to be cut short because my dad was not feeling well. My mom asked that I come back home and send him to the hospital. We're barely two months in this relationship but my mom roughly knows that I have a bf. I asked if he could help... Help to support dad walking to the car and sending us to hospital. Kinda shocked when he said no. It seems more like nervous over meeting the family more than anything :( and maybe because we're still relatively new. He said he would meet my family soon but in better circumstances. However, if you could help, shouldn't you help? \nThere's also a few other instances where I felt he could help, but he doesn't seem to want to. Im not sure whether this is just cause we're new or should I be worried? He's perfect in every other way though.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So when I was in my first year of college, I started sleeping with this girl I had a crush on (just sleeping, nothing else). You see, Its a long story but her mother had just passed away and I was kind of her go to person throughout the whole grieving process. So I stayed with her at night and helped her sleep and held her all night. Problem was, I would wake up with raging boners from sleeping with her all night and started to get a really built up case of blue balls. Being the naive freshman I was, I had never experienced the heavy, painful feeling and my brain could think of no other alternative than some sort of nut tumor. (For the ladies, It is a real thing and it feels like someone pumped a litre of extra fluid into your nuts). So, I head to the doctor for the most awkward and embarrassing appointment of my life where he tells me I'm fine, and prescribes violent fapping.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Backstory: I knew they were friends and he was an asshole. And she always claimed to have never dated him. But last night when I was going through her phone I found an old conversation which was suggestive. I confronted her, she confessed. Obviously this conversation was from before we dated. We've been dating for close to 14 months now and everything is going well.\n\nI don't know how to feel about this. I am mad and she is profusely sorry. But I just can't wrap my head around the fact that she dated that asshole. And that he's been with her. She says there is nothing left to hide and the only reason she kept it from me was because I'd never go out with her had I known, which is probably true. Never the less, it stings to be lied to.\n\nAm I overreacting in being overtly angry? How do you'll think I should progress? \n\nHelp, r/relationships.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating my BF for about 2.5 years, and we've basically lived together since right before we started dating. We both have a year left in school after this Spring (he's getting his MS, I'm getting my BS) and after that we are both going to look for somewhere to live, probably in a different state than both our families and all of our friends. I posted previously about some issues we're having in our relationship, and now I'm at a point where I think it would be a good idea to step back and really evaluate if this is both what we want. \n\nI brought up the idea of living apart about a week ago, and he didn't really respond. He says it sounds like a break up and shuts down. To be perfectly honest, our relationship has soured a bit lately and that may end up happening. But I want the relationship to work and I see living apart as the best thing to do before we have to make the huge decision of moving together next year, assuming we're together by then. The reason I want to live apart is because I feel like we've both grown around this relationship rather than independently, and I need to look at our relationship and myself from a different perspective. I'm hopeful, but doubtful as well. \n\nI'm not sure how to approach this with him again, but I'd like to sooner rather than later. Any guidance would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have known this girl for about a year and have seen her on a good amount of occasions. The first time I hung out with her alone(she was and still is single)was unintentional because I was expecting a group of friends, but none were able to come. She came regardless of me telling her it would just be me and her. It was an awkward moment for me because I didn't know what to do. So the night ended and she went home. She also said she enjoyed herself which I found hard to believe. Later in the week I asked her if I could make it up to her for the awkward night by making her dinner the following week. I decided to make everything from scratch. I felt some of the things I made weren't as good as I wanted. Once again she said she enjoyed herself. Fast forward a couple weeks and I decided to ask her if she felt the same way as me. She said she wasn't looking for anything at the moment. Although I was a little heartbroken I kept my composure, acted maturely, and just kind of brushed it off. We hung out later with no awkwardness. Fast forward to now where she asks me, my friend, and his girlfriend to go to comic con. Everybody I tell about this tell me it is a double date. I am horrible with reading women and I often misinterpret signals. I would just like some of your guys opinions if possible.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This relationship is quite definitely ex, but tonight, I'm really hoping I did the right thing. \n\nWe were together a LONG time, and thought we were going to be together forever. Then, something happened. I figured out how to orgasm for the first time, and got more demanding in the bedroom, just about the time that he seemed to get more sexually repressed. He decided it wasn't ok for him to have a porn stash and insisted on deleting it, though I asked him to please keep it. He stopped initiating sex, saying that he always felt like he was doing it wrong. I became more outgoing, and he didn't like that, and so decided that I had had an affair 3 different times (I hadn't cheated, but he thought I had). I told him I'd really like him to seduce me, and he said that seduction was evil and I was bad for wanting it. He said he wished that there was something he did that I disapproved of, so that he could give it up and balance things out a bit. But I didn't see anything wrong with his minor vices; if it made him happy, I was glad to see him do it.\n\nEssentially, I became aware that there were things I really wanted in my life that he wasn't willing to provide and didn't want me to want. And so I left. It felt dishonest to stay, and I was convinced that if I stayed, I would start to behave badly and eventually cheat (instead of just fantasizing about it). \n\nI wanted to be Good Girlfriend Gina, always willing to be understanding and able to deal, but eventually I hit my limit on patience. He clearly thought I was an awful human being for leaving. Was there something else I could have done, that I didn't do? \n\nI guess my question for you comes down to this -- **(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am employed in a position that does NOT involve programming. I have no programming obligations of any kind. I would like to build some programs that automate various tasks that my co-workers and I have to do. Legally, am I able to work on this on my own time and therefore not get paid for it or am I legally obligated to work on it only on my employer's time as it does benefit my employer. My employer offered to let me work on this for a few hours each week during our slow days on company time as they do not want to take advantage of me however I do not want to get paid for this, I want to do it for the learning experience and because I think it will be fun.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A few months back, I was reading up on how to teach your dog to play dead. The whole guiding him onto his back with a treat, then reinforcing with praise and reward. I figured I'd give it a shot.\n\nSo I get home from work and get down to business. Ozzy's catching on pretty quickly. Within 10 minutes, I have him rolling onto his back on command. I was pointing my finger at him and saying, \"BANG!\" as a cue. Suddenly though, as he's lying on his back, he pees a little. (In my excitement to teach him a new trick, I forgot to let him out to pee!) He's obviously ashamed of himself, even though I didn't get mad at him as it was my fault.\n\nAfter we've cleaned up and gone out for a pee break, I attempt the trick again. Point my finger at him and say \"BANG\". Ozzy tucks his ears back and slinks underneath my computer desk. No amount of calling, bribing, or coaxing gets him out until I leave the room. Since then, he gets stressed when you make a finger gun at him, or if you say the word bang. He will often try to slink under the computer desk or go into his kennel.\n\nSo my theories on what might be going on:\n\n* He somehow associated the memory of wetting himself to the cues I gave him\n* He's afraid of fireworks and thunderstorms and the loud \"BANG\" is too harsh of a cue word\n* The word \"BANG\" sounds too close to the word \"Bad\" and he thinks that when I point at him and say it, that he's being punished for something.\n\nIn any case, it's been months and I can't even bait him to lie on his back anymore. Get him to lie down and try to move a treat across his shoulder? He just goes \"NOPE\" and gets up and looks for his safety desk.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My GF and I have been dating for four years. About a month ago, I proposed, and she accepted. Marriage was something we had been talking about for months. We both wanted it, so the proposal itself was just procedural. Our relationship has been perfect. I honestly think we've fought twice over the last 4 years. She is the love of my life.\n\nA bit about our relationship: We met on a dating website. We've been happily living together for the last 3 years. Money has not ever been an issue for us. We split things down the middle. My half comes from my job and her half comes from her parents, as she just recently graduated college and is still looking for a job. My GF's parents are well-off. Very well-off. It's obvious just from their lifestyle, and the way the support their only daughter. I have a good relationship with them. I think (thought?) they liked me we we met.\n\nMy GF told her parents immediately after the proposal and everything was great. They expressed their happiness, and actually flew down the following day. Nothing about a pre-nup was mentioned to me or her.\n\nThen, yesterday, my GF told me that her father called her and asked her if she was getting a pre-nup. She told him no, and apparently they got into an argument. My GF later told me what happened, and told me that he \"demanded\" she get a pre-nup and threatened to cut her off if she didn't. Her feeling right now is that she is mad at them and she isn't going to fold to their demand. \n\nI have a lot of problems with this. First, her parents seem to think they can control her and by extension me. Second, the fact that they used threats. Third, the fact that this didn't come up until a month AFTER we announced our engagement. Forth, what it means they think of our relationship. \n\nI don't know what is going to happen right now, hopefully this whole thing will \"go away\" but if push comes to shove I'm trying to decide if I will sign on the dotted line. Should I?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we broke up due to I haven't showed her much affection. She brought it up, she lost hope. And then after, I talked to another girl, but we talked and she got all flirty, I stopped talking to her cause I know she'll get too attached. She's attractive yes. \n\nAfter that, I realized I still need to get over my ex. However, in some way we managed to talk, Reddit, do I love her? Yes I do, I still have some feelings for her. She's gorgeous and the personality is gold. But she broke up with me for some reason, I wasn't showing affection. I'm scared of that, I wont be able to give her that, I don't feel like I would go in full heartily. Because the last of couple of months, I've been stressed about school, work, what college to go to (it will be distance if we get back together) and most importantly, I am not myself for this past month. \n\nI feel like I've lost myself. And that I am tired of relationships, I feel like burned out, I don't know what to do. I love her yes, maybe not like before, and she's great yeah. Should I get try to get her back and build it slowly there or just break it off? I'll be meeting her later today.\n\nAnd I feel a little guilty of wanting to talk to the other girl, maybe cause I miss talking but I'll ignore that for now. \n\nI'm just trying to fill everything up right now so you guys understand, but any thoughts? Questions?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we were both counselors in the same camp group during March Break. At the end of the week I was kind of friends with her and her friend. I got her number at the end but she seemed a little bit reluctant. During the week when we talked it seemed like we were just being polite and doing all the normal camp stuff. I also did this one magic trick to her including a proposal but she seemed to take it differently then all the other girls I've done this to (really calm). I also asked her and her friend to Tim Hortons but she seemed like she didn't really want to go and found some excuses. Even though I've only known her for five days I really like her, and I've never felt this way about a girl before. First post here so any help would be much appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I met this girl at a party the other night, we were super wasted. Anyways, we seemed to hit it off enough and talked for like 2 hours. (totally had my arm around her too it was awesome) So the next morning I wake up and she added me on FB and sent me a message saying \"sorry if i said anything dumb\" or something along those lines and we continued to talk for like 7 messages, and then I kinda didnt know what to say so I didnt wanna reply. Only thing is though shes a bit of a cutie and I'm tryna see if I can hit it or sum'. So I guess I dont know what step I should do, do people still poke eachtother on Facebook? Like is that still a thing? Either way Reddit I need your help help your boy out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I wanna start off with a back story. I've been overweight for as long as I can remember... I really first noticed it when I was about 9-10 years old at that point I tried to become more active but shortly lost it when my dad got a new job. Around that same time I had also expressed to my mom that I felt food was the only friend I had and was the only friend that could move with us. Fast forward to when I was a freshman in HS I became increasingly more active because I didn't have a bus to take me to school and back. At this point my mom decided to put the family on weight watchers and we got a gym membership. I went from being 230 lbs to being 175! I felt awesome but still had a bit more to go! I kept most of that weight off for a year until my mom stopped trying anymore and started making and buying crap foods. \nI'm now 22 years, 5'11\", and a whopping 250 lbs. I'm done with it! I want to lose the weight! I envision myself about 100 lbs smaller! My biggest road blocks at this point, my husband doesn't need to lose weight, healthy food is expensive, and I have a slipped vertebra and bulging disc in my lower back.. exercising too much causes excruciating pain. \n\nBasically I need advice. What should I do, how should I do it, is there anything that's helped jumpstart your weight lose endeavours? I know I just need to do it, but how? How can I just do something when it feels like all odds are stacked against me...?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Back when I was about 13, I was absolutely insane for Taco Bell. We decided to eat there after a long day of soccer and I ordered my grand 3 hard tacos combo and ate up.\nLater that night, the tacos thought it would be a fine-ass idea to retaliate and make me feel worse than Billy Ray Cyrus felt about the progression of his shit daughter Miley. Trying to ignore the wrenching stomach pains, I went to bed and expected to wake up fine in the morning. \nI woke up at about 3AM, stomach pains pounding in my interior.\nWell, knowing things couldn't be good, I expected to puke. Being the lazy-ass thirteen year old I was, I thought \"fuck-it, Ill hold it in and go back to bed.\". Well, what a great idea that I pulled out of my ass.\nMinutes later, puke gushed out of my mouth like Niagara Falls, hitting the left side of my bed and forming a nice pile.\nStill being the lazy-ass thirteen year old I was, I dismissed the idea of cleaning it up right now and thought \"Hell, I need some sleep, I'll just do it in the morning.\"\nSo I went back to a peaceful slumber.\n\nThe next morning, I awoke with a disgusting stench and finally comprehended what had gone on the night before. I looked to where the puke should have been, but there was only an orange stain and a bit of chunky leftovers there. Fuck you, Taco Bell.\nI immediately look down and see puke all over my blankets, clothing, and even bare skin. Being the movement-filled sleeper I am, I must have rolled around in the pile of puke during my sleep and successfully got it all over my bed sheets and body.\nFeeling defeated, I shamefully took a long ass shower that morning and washed my bed sheets.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone,\n\nI've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and we're pretty serious. We've moved in together and we are generally very happy and very cute together! We have issues, but he really means a lot to me.\n\nThe problem is that every once in a while I become severely insecure and paranoid of his past relationships with other woman. He's done everything he can to help me feel better, but I keep shooting everything he says down in fear of getting hurt. He tells me that our relationship means 1000 times more than anything, the sex before me was terrible, and he would gladly erase his memory to only include me in his life... but it just isn't enough, and I am scared that this behaviour is getting out of control.\n\nCan anyone offer me some advice? \n\nA couple of the things that I tell him in response is:\n\n- If it means 1000 times more than something, there is still a comparison to make\n- Why did you hang on to each relationship? \n- Why even have sex if it was so terrible? \n\nI realize now that if I can't get rid of these feelings, it will continue to bring me down, and thus the relationship. I want to live in the present and be happy with everything now... But what is it that is tying me to these insecurities? I am willing to listen, and to follow through with any advice so long as it isn't \"get over it\" or \"just be happy\". I am trying to understand myself and by extension these feelings so that I can better combat any negative feelings in the future.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi r/dating_advice,\n\nI apologize if this has come up before, but after some googling I couldn't find any good advice for my situation. I met this guy online and I've been dating him for about 3 weeks. We are casually dating, and I initially didn't want anything serious, but the more I spend time with him the more I like him. Originally, he wanted to set up dates with me no more than 1 or 2 days after we last saw each other and he was very good about texting and sending messages about when he was living from his city (we live about 20 minutes away) and when he would get to my city. \n\nThen this week on Wednesday, he suggests we hang out on Friday. I was invited to happy hour with some friends already, and so I ask if he'd like to join. He says yes. I text him the next day telling him when and where we are meeting, and just to let me know when he gets off work. I get no reply. This was the first warning sign. So I arrive at the place for happy hour with my friends and then I finally text him an hour into it to tell him where we are. \n\nHe FINALLY texts me back an hour later saying that he has too much work and can't meet up. I was very annoyed and hurt because I felt like we were really hitting it off, and he didn't seem like the type of guy who would just blow someone off. He also texts \"would I like to meet tomorrow?\" I say that I am actually busy. The good thing is(1 hour later), he does apologize and acknowledge that he should have texted me earlier. I tell him that yes he should have, and that I am busy, but I will be free starting Sunday night. So far no reply.\n\nI don't really no what to think or what to do. Any insight?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I poured all my time into her and my hobbies, i have a few friends online that have moved far away and no one in person currently to spend time with at all. I don't know how to meet new people currently. I'm fixing to be going into Bartending but i don't necessarily want to meet people at my job... Where do I begin? Its at the point that i might be ready to start dating again, but i'm not sure where to start with that either... \n\nI'm quite the nerd and enjoy lots of stuff other people would think is geeky or nerdy so this MIGHT be a factor to consider.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A few days I was reading an article called [Beware the 30 year\nold Virgin](\n(I'm in that category). Ever since I've been thinking about the\nimplications of #2\n(I'll repost the relevant bit here, no need to read the whole\narticle; the emphasis is mine):\n\n> 2) Any geek can get laid if he wants to. [...] sex is not\n> limited to the beautiful or intelligent minority. In fact, I\n> am bombarded with enough Ugly People PDA that I am more than\n> convinced of this theory. Our minds have a way of playing\n> tricks on us when we fall in love, and then there's always\n> cheap booze or the cheap hooker on the corner. So, in the end,\n> if this guy is crying that he's never gotten some nooky just\n> because he is still waiting for the one - the lucky you - then\n> most likely something is truly wrong with him. [...]\n> Men have plenty of sperm to spread around with random women on\n> random park benches, so what makes you so special that he's\n> been waiting his whole life to save it for you? Most likely\n> it is some fantastical lie to cover up his anti-socialness\n> that is so freaky (à la \"serial murderer\" freaky) that would\n> make him a less than cuddly companion.\n\nI've never considered it ethical to try to \"hook up\" with\ndrunks. I have occasionally considered hookers, but I would\nrather be with a girlfriend, someone I had real feelings for.\nI'm not even sure I could enjoy it much in either case, without\na fully willing partner, who genuinely wanted me. It's clear\nhere that some women do think differently, that any sexual\nexperience is more appealing than none.\n\n(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So yeah, not really sure what to do at this point. I've known this girl for most of my life. We're super close. When we were younger and first met we \"dated\" for a period of time, but back then it was a long distance internet thing and it didn't really mean anything. It ended peacefully, and we've been close friends ever since.\n\nThe thing is, I just don't know what to make of the friendship anymore. I have feelings for the girl, and I try to not let it get in the way, but it's hard sometimes. It hurts me when I see her pursue a love interest only to get played for a fool in the dudes childish games.\n\nThere's time where I feel like maybe the feelings I have might be mutual, but I'm not 100% sure and I don't want to act on it and then make things awkward. We openly flirt and joke around, but I've never really thought more of it than just playfulness between friends that just happen to be of opposite gender.\n\nI don't know, maybe I'm just crazy and I should just be thankful for the great friendship I have, but part of me isn't sure.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me(22m) and my(18f) have been together for about 9 months now. 6 of which I have moved to Las Vegas with my parents due to bankruptcy. My grandparents live here and are well of with a spare house they were willing to let us live in. \n\nAnyways, back to the point. This whole ordeal has been very rough on the both of us and our relationship to the point were she has given me an ultimatum. Either I figure out a way to get a job back in Maryland and live there so we can be together or we split up. She says she can't take being apart any longer, but she knew going into this relationship that I would be leaving after 3 months. \n\nThat sums up most of what's happening and I need your opinions. I do love this girl and I don't think I could have lived here without having her as support. We FaceTime regularly and talk as much as possible. On one hand I do want to move back but on the other I have made new friends here and am not unhappy in that sense. I don't want to lose her but I'm so confused. Please give me your thoughts.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened about twenty minutes ago. Let me start off by saying that I am a male in high school and enjoy self pleasure. So I am watching Doctor Who and the urge comes to me. I was eating takis at the time. For those of you who don't know, takis are a really delicious tortilla chip with a LOT of chile and lime seasoning. So I go at it not realizing what was on my hand for about 30 seconds. Pain kicked in and I had no idea what to do so I took my water bottle (luckily right next to me) and apply water onto my boys. Pain gradually subsided however still stings a bit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I recently moved to a new school and on my second day, met a girl who shall here forth be called \"Kim\". We became fast friends and I realized that was I was starting to develop feelings for her, but these feelings were stronger than I had ever had for anybody before. I was going a little out of my mind keeping my feelings for her in, and finally on Friday I told her my feelings and she essentially said that she gets it, whatever, and we carried on as usual. This was fine with me, and we actually talked all day Saturday. However, on Sunday she ignored me, and today she's been scattered in replying to my texts and other attempts to communicate. This is my first point. My second, is that after I started talking to Kim, she introduced me to her best friend, who we shall now call \"Ruby\". So I was pining after Kim, but at the same time I really wanted to make a connection with Ruby. We shared a lot more interests, but I still had stronger feelings for Kim. Now, when I was going crazy, Ruby really helped me out and gave me good advice. She has consistently given me good advice and been really helpful at any moment in our friendship. Once I told Kim about my feelings, she started to stand out to me. Ruby seemed so... different then. I realized that this entire time, I've tried to repress any feelings I had for her, as I didn't want anyone other than Kim. I have such a different feeling towards Ruby though. With Kim, just talking to her makes me happy, but whenever we fall out of contact, I just start to get deep emotional pain. But I can't really put a finger on my feelings for Ruby. She makes me happy, and I feel such a need to make her happy and protect her from anything. Right now, I am in immense conflict with this, and could really use some advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend of 1 year is deeply ($1xx,xxx) in student debt after graduating from a second degree nursing program. She's relying on her parents for food/rent, and I basically pay for everything fun. It sucks, but I keep telling myself it'll even out when she gets a job.\n\nThe thing is, she seems to be treating life after graduation like a vacation. She sleeps in until 2 every day and I never hear about her studying for the nursing boards (NCLEX) or applying for jobs. She graduated in April and she's only applied to 3.\n\nI had a tendency to nag her about studying while she was in school, and I'm trying to curb that, but it seriously seems like she's not putting in any effort. She doesn't even have an NCLEX date.\n\nMy friends think I should wait to end things until she has a job because so much will change. When her school /work stuff is put aside, we're great. All of my friends and family love her. \n\nShe just sucks at money and self motivation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First off, I want to say that yeah, we're kinda young but we take naps together a lot. We're a lazy couple.\n\nWe're both used to sleeping on our stomachs or sides, but I'm finding it hard to find one position that works best. I hug things in my sleep, so spooning with him in the back doesn't really work unless I have an extra pillow, and we don't. However, when I'm in the back, I can't get my bottom arm under him without hurting his side (I have bony arms.) Us facing each other works for a bit, with him hugging me and me holding my arms between his and my chest, but he likes to surround me and I find myself running out of air. I can't think of any other position to sleep in except me lying on his chest, but last time we did that, we both got stomach aches. \n\nI'm hoping that this will help us out once he gets his own place and I start to spend the night there. If we're having troubles napping, I can only imagine how we're going to pull off sleep through the the whole night as well.\n\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reference: I'm leaving my hometown of 27 years for a career change and life in the city. I've grown up here in this small town in the country with my father, who has raised me selflessly, after my mother broke his heart and left 20 years ago. He worked tirelessly at the local factory and every dime he earned went towards my happiness and well-being. In the few hours he had between jobs he'd teach me baseball or build a sandbox out of out lumber we'd find walking the railroad tracks. I honestly don't know how that man worked so hard on almost no sleep, for years. He is the most selfless man I've ever known. He's worn the same clothes since I can remember, still uses our shoddy lawn mower that makes the job nearly impossible, but simply states, \"Well, It still runs.\" He's just that kind guy. Anyway, it's breaking my heart to leave him & I just need something.. something to give him, something to show him.. everything he means to me. I'm not talking about a new lawn mower or stuff he needs. There has to be way to sum up how much I acknowledge that, appreciate him, and will miss him or so dearly. I'm writing him a letter, but that's as far as I've gotten.\n\nBut I don't mean to stray away from the title itself, it doesn't have to be simply suggestions for him. I have two friends that are like sisters that I also won't see for a long, long time once I move.. and I'd like to do something nice for them as well!\n\nI appreciate any suggestions or going away stories & gifts of your own, thanks Reddit!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "After 4 years I've been in this madness of up and down for 4 years and each time we would try dating again. Each time he would crush my heart and tell me he have commitment problems. Every time my ex breaks it off with me, I feel my world crashing over and this repeats itself where I can't get myself out of bed and call in sick from work. \n\nEach time we get back together, I truly believe that it will work out this next time. I would trust that he wanted a serious commitment. It would start out great, full of energy, love and affection. Then after this huge fight and a break, he said we should take a longer break to grow. He is afraid of missing out on life because he is young. That is his mentality. I would lash out by saying he just wants to hook up with multiple women. But we are both not the type for one night stands. \n\nI would fantasize about planning trips together, maybe even moving in with each other, etc. and he would rather say things where he doesn't mind living in another country for a year. That's the type of things he would say that would send me into so much hurt and anger. \n\nThroughout the relationship, I'd feel extremely insecure and anxiety because he was never sure in the end about us. This cause me to be crazy and lash out over little things and controlling. And sooner or later we break up once again. He doesn't understand the pain I go through each time I heal and start over again. This time the pain is ripped from a million bandages over the course of 4 years.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a freshman (civil engineering). I started off by going to the lessons, but soon enough I convinced myself I could study all this stuff by myself and I didn't need all these lessons. I do want to pass my exams ofcourse, and since they are coming up in exactly a month from now, I started checking the contents of my courses, also I have heard the last lessons each semester are the most important ones for several reasons.\n\nSo this one day - yesterday - I attended a whole day of school. The theory lesson of chemistry was over, I nearly understood it completely (feelsgoodman), next lesson is in 15 minutes. At this point, a cute girl randomly takes place next to me, I have nothing to do and nothing to lose, so I go for it.\n\nStart the chat with a casual \"hi\", seems she is hesitant about talking at first (shy or so idk), her name is Ellen, tell her mine, small talk about school and think about asking her out. Conversation goes way better than expected, she has humour and she's pretty smart too, we come at the point of talking about chemistry (next lesson is an exercise session). Tell her I skip lessons \"now and then\", but I like chemistry and I ask her if she likes it too and maybe we can go out one night to continue what we were talking about.\n\nAt the point where I asked if she liked chemistry, she started looking weird at me. Chat was done, she stood up and said: \"Lesson is going to start. Raise your hand if you need help, Martin. It was Martin, right?\"... \n\n>Mfw she is a PhD student in Chemical Technology and Material Science\n\n>Leave the auditorium, will check the exercises at home", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok so for starters yes I know we are incredibly young, and some of you will probably say to wait and experience more people before making a big decision like marraige. We have been through a lot and love each other very much, we get along well and always talk through everything, and put each others needs before out own. \n\nAnyways we both really want to get married, we feel very confident in this decision and feel like this is the right time to take this new step in our lives together. However he wants to marry me now, and I was thinking about getting married after i get my bachelors degree. I do not feel like he is rushing things in any way but I feel like if i get married at 18 my parents would not approve of me, and I really want to have a wedding where my family won't be upset about my choice to get married so young. Also since I am in college it is a very stressful time and it takes a lot of work and energy and maybe it would be better to plan a wedding when i graduate? \n\nI love him with all my heart and i would completely marry him now but a part of me feels like i'll become a disappointment to my family and be super stressed out (my family doesnt think anyone should get married until they are in their mid twenties and i will be 22 when i graduate with my bachelors degree and he will be 26, which my bf thinks is pointless to wait that long simce we both want this now).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "throwaway since some family members know my account\n\nSo I'm pretty sure that my cousin is selling weed. By pretty sure I mean that he is almost undoubtedly selling. On his Instagram, he almost only posts pictures of big ass stacks of bills and huge jars of weed. And buys super expensive stuff in cash. He lives on campus at school in VT, but his permanent address is in NY. He also doesn't have a job.\n\nWhat should I say to him consequences if he gets caught selling? I feel like I should say something to him as his older cousin but I'm at a loss of what to say other than about what it would do to our grandparents and family. I also don't know if i should talk to him or his parents since going directly to him would eliminate me being able to go to his parents. I'm at a loss. I love this kid and don't want to see him end up fucking himself over.\n\nAny advice would be fantastic. Thank you r/legaladvice", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex was close to her ex boyfriends dad who recently passed from cancer. She's lost alot of people close to her before and this makes me feel terrible for her. She told me that she couldn't be in a relationship anymore because she didn't want to \"drag me into it\". This was terrible news for me because we were going great before this happened and I really wanted to help her through it. I really want to be there for her still because I know she's going through a tough time but the thing is is that she never wants to talk about it, she deals with it by making herself so busy with her work that she just forgets about it all. I just need some advice on how to be there for her in my current situation, because I have never personally gone through losing anyone major in my life. I don't want to sound selfish either and tell her about how shitty I feel about losing her because I know she is going through a lot worse.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (26F) lately 'discovered' that I am gay. I actually knew for about ten years, but I ignored my feelings and had a relationship of six years with a guy. I couldn't pretend any longer, the relationship ended last year and I finally could accept my preferences. Next thing was to tell my family and friends. I've told my closest family and three friends of mine. All were kind of surprised, which I can understand, but the reaction of one friend (26F; from high school) was a bit peculiar... \n\nI knew it would be a bit of a gamble to tell her because she is very Christian. But I thought: if she really is my friend, it shouldn't bother her. Moreover, we don't talk that much (she isn't my closest friend or anything; we just like to catch up a few times a year). Still, about three months later, her reaction continues to bother me a bit. I genuinely think she thinks her reaction was nice, and I also told her I appreciated her reaction, but the more I think about it the more I doubt if I do. Some of her words:\n\n-\tI don't know if you will end up in hell because your sin might not be worse than the sins of others. (Apparently, I am committing a sin.)\n-\tGod can change everything if he wants. Maybe tomorrow you will not be gay anymore, if he wants so. (It took me ten years to accept my feelings, so this hurt a bit and obviously it's bullshit)\n-\tI don't know if you should act on your feelings. You can have these feelings, but it might not be good to start a relationship with a girl. You can be happy alone as well. But she also said she wanted me to experience the happiness she has with her husband. Of course you can/need to be happy on your own, but that doesn't mean I should be forever alone just because of the fact that I like girls, right?\n\n \nWhat do you guys think of her reaction? Shouldn't it bother me because she really believes she spoke kind words? I don't agree with her, also because I am not Christian, but still, I don't know what to think.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey. I'm an American Male, 22 and until a month ago I ran 8 miles a day, off-road (trail-running) and did upper-body workouts every other day. I am vegetarian, although I only eat goat cheese and honey every few weeks, so I suppose I am almost Vegan. I had a super healthy diet with a few gallons of water daily, no processed food and I followed the O-Type diet religiously. I was 153 lbs steady and 5' 10\" (177.5 cm for my lovely friends ~~across the pond~~ everywhere else.)\n\nA month ago the love of my life and I ended our relationship with joint cooperation, although I was still devastated. I lost my appetite and stopped exercising. For almost a month (Read: 24 days) my daily diet was been liquid, with 400 calories of pure fruit juice and maybe 300 calories of soy milk a day. I lost weight and I may have hit close to 120 lbs. During the last five days I started eating solid food such as fruit, rice and quinoa, and no matter what I have diarrhea or throw up. I'm not hungry at all, but I don't wanna die you guys. Medicine comes up as well. Daily, every morning, once at lunch and two times at dinner. I am a poor student with no living family or healthcare. Is this the end you guys?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 17, and recently started seeing a 20 year old. We've become extremely close, and since I met him I've been much happier and more motivated to do well in other areas of my life. I already get good grades at a difficult school, play sports, and have never had problems with drinking or drugs. Our relationship is what keeps me balanced.\n\nMy parents have been divorced for several years, and I live with my dad nearly full time. My mother is a bit over-protective, so I anticipated some difficulty, but not like this. She thinks that the age difference is too great for somebody my age, and doesn't want me to date him. This, I understand; it's her prerogative to be concerned. It can be worked around. The real problem is that she is now trying to attack my dad legally for being a bad parent, neglecting my safety, etc. On top of this, she refuses to talk to me about how we can compromise, just insists that this is in my best interest in the long run. \n\nI've been looking for articles about how being in a stable, loving relationship is healthy for young adults (articles seem to be the best way to get through to her), but I can't find many that address the pros of teenage relationships. What I really need is to convince her that this is a healthy thing, something that falls in line with her need to 'shape me into a good young lady'.\n\nAny ideas?\n\nNote: \"you're 17, you're too young to be dating, just enjoy life and don't feel like you need to be with somebody...\" Yes, yes I know. This boy fell right out of the fucking sky, and I care about him and trust him more than almost anybody. I'm not going to give up on this just because of some age/family issues.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I had always dated monogamously since the first date, and for reasons related to a past experience of trauma I opened myself up to the possibility of dating around. (Long story, but this is actually a healthy development for me and is one encouraged by my therapist). \n\nSo I'm seeing three different guys right now. One is an old fling who, to be honest, is mostly just somebody I have a more physical relationship with. Pretty simple, no complications.\n\nThe second is a guy I've been seeing for about two months now. We have lots of fun together, great convo, but nothing has been defined yet. While I can't prove it without flat-out asking, I'm pretty positive he's seeing other people, too. I'm also pretty sure what he and I have is a really casual dynamic. It's not no strings attached, but it's not a serious relationship, either.\n\nThe third is a guy I've started seeing more recently. I really like him! He's smart, handsome, engaging—if I'm going to be honest, he might be one I'd choose out of the three, but I'm not sure. It could just be the rush of getting to know someone new. (I felt like this for guy number two in the beginning, too). \n\nI've read number of articles online about the benefits of dating multiple people at once and what to do when you think you've found someone you'd like to focus all your attention and energy on. I'm not sure I'm cognizant of how to transfer that to my life, though. At what point do I make the decision to become exclusive with someone? I'm not sure how to navigate these waters, and I should admit I'm pretty bad at deciphering my own emotions. And do I disclose that I'm seeing other people? (My friends are actually split on that: Some say yes, others say no; some say monogamy is always assumed, others say it is never).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My mother watched Cesar Millan a lot before we got our dog, and she acted like she knew everything there was to know about training and raising a dog. \n\nIts been about 2 years with our dog, and he has a problem with barking at the door when people go to open it (doesn't seem like that much of a problem to me). My mother's reaction is to yell at him, or if he does it sequentially, she will strike him in the thigh/rear end.\n\nWhenever I step in and try and take control of the situation, she will get mad, and try and tell me how to handle this kind of thing, because she thinks she is a dog expert. (This upsets me because it feels like I am being talked down to)\n\nThe last strand was crossed today, when I was in the basement watching tv, I heard my dog bark at the door, and then my mother get up and yell at him. He ran into our sun room, which is above the basement, and I could hear her hit him, and his paws skid on the floor. I went up to check on him (he was fine, no damage, happy little guy when he's with me) and my mother yelled at me to put him back in the room where he is to stay \"for a long long time\" because he tried to bite her when she was \"disciplining\" him.\n\nHer solution to my dogs problem is completely inappropriate, and no way to treat a dog. I believe in positive reinforcement, and I am getting very frustrated listening to her complain about my dog, and her inappropriate ways of dealing with his barking.\n\nSo if anyone knows a way I can tell her what she is doing is wrong, or if there is a way I can try and get my dog to stop barking at the door, please let me know.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "That's it really. Went on 3 dates with a girl. Was really 2 too many but she was very eager to see me again, came to my part of town from across the city for the 2nd and 3rd dates, all happened over the course of a month. \n\nShe was persistently texting me (many many texts per day), and she wanted to see me for another date. I finally texted her that I didn't think we should see each other romantically anymore. \n\nShe lost it. Probably 20 - 25 very angry texts, said I should have called her. Said I wasn't \"man enough\" to do it. Meanwhile I was at work and busy, not that I thought this warranted a call anyway. I've dated girls for 2/3 months who \"ended it\" over text, and never thought it was a big deal.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'd just like your opinions on what to do with this one...I'm 20, gay, and probably close to the end of something vaguely resembling my first relationship...which involved lots of things like first ever date, first kiss etc. \n\nMet him on my course at university, things progressed a bit and he seemed quite keen but the last 3 weeks we havent gone on a date or anything - I've asked numerous times if he wants to come round or go somewhere or anything and he's made excuses every time. I've seen him at university in lectures a few times since but even there it seems like he's consciously tried to avoid me. And when I have seem him he's seemed distant and just spent the time looking at his phone. \n\nRecently when I've been texting him he hasnt responded at times for like 2 days and I've had to ask \"did you get my text?\" and things to get a response. I invited him round again yesterday to see if he wanted to spend the night at mine and we'd go into university together the next day and he hasnt responded at all even though it was originally his idea that never ended up happening. It would help if I even knew what I'd done wrong because nothing in particular comes to mind. We had a nice time at the cinema a few weeks ago and since then its felt like he's gradually trying to distance himself.\n\nI dont think it's even anything to do with me being too clingy or anything - which I thought might possibly happen - when I look back at the texts from last month he always replied quickly and we seemed to be getting on well. Can anyone give me any advice with regards as to what to do? I have to go home next week for the holidays and I'll be so depressed if I cant see him before then or sort things out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Before our relationship started, my girlfriend was sexually assaulted by this vile, toxic excuse for a human being. He then ruined her friendships, school work and she is terrified of him. This guy had bullied (Verbally and also beat me with his friends) me in the past for being a late developer and generally wasn't a nice guy. \n\nWe're now in a happy relationship and have cut him out of our lives. She had him removed by her dad whenever he tried to contact her and the next time his friends tried to beat me I had hit the gym hardcore and fought back and won. I don't get problems any more. \n\nHe sleeps with a 15 y/o girl (UK age of consent is 16) and also abuses her. And now this guy is trying to get back in to my girlfriends life and hurt her again. She is scared of him and feels like she has to talk to him or she'll get hurt again. \nWe've blocked his number but today he followed us home from college and tried to force his way into the house. I stopped him and threatened him and told him to stop pestering us. \n\nMy girlfriend is now a wreck and I don't know how I can help. I know it's not right to seek him out and break all of his bones but it feels like I should. I keep calm for her sake.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Her and i got into a fight a few months ago and we both told each other we have feelings for each other, so naturally I asked her out. She told me she doesn't want one even though she has strong feelings for me. Whenever her and I get really close to each other she pulls away and we fight. this is a continuous cycle. I finally asked her why she does it and she told me it's because she doesn't want to get hurt again. she wants to be friends but is too scared to date again.\n\n I do like her but just being friends is also torturing me. I want to prove to her that some people can be trusted. She said she doesn't want to lose me but I just don't know what to do. I told her i needed to be alone for a while to think of my next move. I don't want to lose her either but just being friends isn't enough.\n\n Maybe I'm being childish but its killing me inside that she won't even though she flat at told me she does. Should i give her some space? Maybe I need to move on. I just don't know.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work as an Usher in Cineworld a cinema chain located in England. I happen to work in the 4th busiest cinema in the company. My jobs include selling tickets, food and drink, cleaning toilets, and cleaning screens. I am also a trained projectionist. \nI enjoy my job for the most part.\n\nI am confused though. When did it become okay to make a mess? I don't mean the odd dropped popcorn here and there, or the spilt drink. These are definitely expected. I mean the the type of litter you'd expect in a bin, bottles deliberately thrown on the floor, bags torn to shreds, chocolate smeared onto the floor. These are clearly deliberate, I don't care about the extra effort this causes, I care about the abuse I receive for 'taking too long' from the customers. If you didn't make the mess in the first place. There would be no problem.\n\nWhy is this acceptable?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I woke up at 8:30 today after spending the night out and returning home at 6:30, resulting in me only getting 2 hours of sleep. After I woke up, I felt a sense of grime on my body so I decided to take an early morning shower before heading out. After I finished shampooing, brushing my teeth, and masturbating, I decided to shave as I haven't done so in awhile resulting in a thin veil of stubble. At this point the warm water and steam was making me drowsy and I vaguely recall having second thoughts on shaving.\nBut I shaved\nAfter I shaved, the next thing to do on my list was cleansing the razor, so I began to do what I felt came naturally at the time whilst running on the fumes of 2 hours of sleep. I began running my index finger up and down the razor blades in an attempt to get the hair out of it.\nI finished showering and stepped out to dry myself. And on the towel, Blood.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Towards the end of our relationship it just seemed like she was always mad at me. It got to the point where we would argue about literally everything. Her birthday just passed and I spent close to $400 on it, and yet she still had an attitude and gave me the hardest time and that when I realized that maybe we just are not on the same page anymore. \n\nIts been about 2-3 weeks since we split and at first I was okay but now I don't know anymore. The past 2 years of our relationship have been long distance since we both have gone away to college and I'm sure that has some affect on everything. \n\nPart of me desperately wants to get back with her but the other part of me knows how she acts and idk...there's more fish in the sea...but i love this fish.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This girl started at my work last week, she is a pretty girl and we seemed to hit it off. I added her on Facebook and sent her a message. It's been a couple of days now and she's been online a few times but I haven't gotten a reply. She might have seen the message but forgot to reply but it says she hasn't opened it yet. I don't work the same shifts as her and we don't go to school together otherwise I'd ask her number and I don't know how else to get a hold of her. Should I send her another message? What should I say? Or does it seem like I should just forget about it? Thanks for your help", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my SO and I started dating a year+ ago. We're both attend A&M, except he is graduating in a few weeks and is moving to Houston, which is just an hour away, to work. I still have two more years of college left. He broke up with me because he feels like he can't handle the long distance.\n\nBackground information: \n\nHe's graduating with a petroleum engineer degree. His job will require him to travel to oil rigs during his training until he finally gets settled into an office in Houston, which may take six months to two years. He's living with his parent during this time.\n\nHe says during his freshmen year, he tried a long distance relationship with his high school girlfriend, but it didn't work. (Again, it was about an hour and a half away.) During last summer, he was working as an intern while I went to summer school. He almost broke up with me then because of the distance (this probably should've forshadowed what is going on now.) \n\nIs there anyway I could convince him that we could make it work? We still love each other and it would be such a shame to just throw this relationship away like that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years this November. We've been together since we were 14 and 15 and have never broken up. I would have liked to live together already at this point, but his parents have a rule that we cannot get engaged, married, or live together while he's in college. \n\nHe's just about to start his senior year of college and he's already got job interviews lined up for the west coast. He would like to work on the East or West coast while I'm hoping for West. We currently live in the Midwest (USA) but in separate houses. We're both concerned that because we've never lived together a move across the country to live together might break our relationship. I suggested that we do couples counseling. I have been in therapy personally for my own issues for about a year and have found it very helpful. We've had big fights in the past where I've brought up couples counseling, but he doesn't want to go because he feels uncomfortable with it and thinks we can fix our problems ourselves. \n\nI think it would be beneficial to do preventative couples counseling for this school year before we make the big move. He seems slightly more open to it than he has before because he's concerned as well and feels unprepared for the future. We have been through so much together and we're on the same page about big things like religion and children. We have a very solid foundation and there is so much love between us. We just want to be as prepared as possible so that our relationship flourishes when we move in together for the first time. \n\nMy question is has anybody gone through something similar and what would you recommend for us to be successful? Do you think couples counseling is a good idea for us? Please share your experiences and any advice you have! Thank you very much.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My Boss just sent me home because I was trying to clarify exactly what he wanted me to wipe down the tables with. Of course it didn't start out as an argument, but when I was attempting to double check what spray cleaner to use (so that I didn't ruin the finish or anything like that) he decided instead of flat out telling me to just continue to yell at me for the amount of times he had to ask me to wipe them down. I am a sensitive person (okay fine I'm totally a cry baby) and my eyes started to well up as I was attempting to defend myself/just figure out what solution to use so I could start wiping them down! No tears fell, and I've explained to him before that I'm an emotional person, that just because my eyes start to well up does not mean I don't have a hold on myself, my tear ducts routinely betray me! This made him even angrier and so now I have the afternoon off I guess.\n\nI don't normally wipe the tables down, thats not in my job description, and I usually arrive after the morning shift completes the task, so I've never seen it done before. I'm assuming he was just stressed about something, but whoooo boy did he get mad at me!! I guess clarification questions are more inflammatory than I thought.\n\n###", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I had been with my very recently ex boyfriend for 6 years, we dated throughout high school and college and are now entering our senior year of college. Last semester I studied abroad and despite things being very rocky with my boyfriend I was adamant that I didn't want to cheat. I had many opportunities to and many temptations and felt bad I even wanted to but was happy I didn't. After coming home from abroad we broke up for nonrelated reasons. It was my decision to break up and I did so because there were problems in our relationship I couldn't look past when there was suddenly so much pressure on us to get engaged after such a long time together or at the very least make permanent plans together. I knew we needed to grow up if we ever wanted a chance together in the future, and even though I don't want to be together right now I know it is something I always want available for me in the future because he still is someone who is very important to me.\n\nI just yesterday found out that I had too much to drink and kissed another guy. I don't remember anything. I feel awful. I don't know if I should tell my ex because we were together when it happened or if it would be better to keep it to myself. We are trying very hard to be friends and have an amicable break up. I'm worried if I tell him it won't help anything however I feel as if telling the truth is the right thing to do. I don't care what I have to do, I just want to do what is best for him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I go to school for Microbiology paired with Biophysics, many of my classmates are either atheist or agnostic so I call myself agnostic for the sake of avoiding an argument. I wasn't really expecting to enjoy a persons company, but I do and now I'm stuck in between a rock and a hard place. He invited me to join the Atheist for Science (not the real name but let me keep the anonymity) group in school and now I have no idea how I should tell him that I am.... religious.\n\nNormally I wouldn't have a problem with it, but there are other things involved such as my race, I am Afro-Caribbean and he's Asian so his parents.....hate me. Totally racist. So I am scared that if I bring on this bombshell he'll stop talking to me and our very flirty Star Craft Two moments will end. \n\nReddit how should I approach it? How do you all approach it? \nIf curious I could also post my reasons for being religious in the comments. Thanks in advanced.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 18, soon to be 19 and have always had the thought of opening a business. Not sure on a specific type yet, mostly because I'm still really young, and only have a few thousand saved up.\n\nBut anyway, at the moment I'm working for a small franchised business, and it's poorly run. They still make a profit and have a strong customer base, but there are so many changes that I noticed they could make to increase profit, and their customer volume. This gives me confidence that I could run a successful business, because they are making so many mistakes that I would not make. \n\nAnyone ever take the risk to open a business at a young age? Even if not alone, with a partner, etc.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend's parents live about an hour and a half away. We visit them regularly (used to be every other weekend pre-dog). Since adopting Cocoa, we have visited them 3 times (we have had her two months). She comes along. She is great in the car!\n\nThey have a dog, a 3 year old collie/border collie cross. She's a bit neurotic and under socialized. And morbidly obese. She's nice enough I guess, and they're trying to bring down her weight, but they only recently started walking her regularly. I suspect she's pretty under exercised but she's also a pretty lazy dog (maybe because of her weight..) \n\nSo the weird bit. When Cocoa is allowed to approach Roxy after they greet/play and Roxy is panting, she immediately goes for Roxy's tongue and mouth and tries licking/nibbling. She does this so much that Roxy gets agitated and the bickering starts. \n\nNote that we have been pretty slow on the introductions in that we keep them separated most of the visit, let them romp outside to tucker them out off leash (they play hard, but lots of bows and positive body language, so they seem to get along), and have walked them together. They have gotten more used to each other with every visit. They just can't seem to settle when off leash around each other. They have to be physically separated or Roxy will approach Cocoa and Cocoa will keep trying to lick her. I am concerned the nibbling and subsequent romping will lead to aggression; it hasn't so far, but we separate them until they settle again. \n\nI just can't understand why Cocoa wants to lick/nibble Roxy's tongue. She doesn't do this to dogs at the dog park. She's pretty independent and happy to leave other dogs alone. Except Roxy. She kind of fixates and the two just can't rest without us physically intervening.\n\nWhat causes this behavior and is it something I should be worried about or can do something to alleviate?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Broke up with my ex boyfriend of 10 years about 4.5 months ago. I found out about 1.5 weeks ago he has been dating someone new for a couple of months- they aren't official yet but it's only a matter of time.\n\nPrior to me knowing this I had been doing reasonably well, I was going about my life almost as normal and was using the time to rediscover myself after being in a relationship so long. I had heard he was doing the same, and I was proud of him because when we ended things we both talked about it and agreed this was a good time for us to both do so. He had also made it clear to me that I was the one he wanted to end up with, and the idea of likely getting back together with him was something I was working towards.\n\nSince I found out about this new girl I can barely breathe. I have been crying constantly, have been psychosomatising and feeling nauseous often, and I started to have panic attacks at work. I can't concentrate on anything and have felt demotivated in almost everything. \n\nI spoke to him about it and it was good for closure but awful to hear how distant he is now- he has very much moved on from me and is very into this new girl.\n\nHe was my first boyfriend. I am afraid I will never be happy again, and that I will never find anyone that makes me as happy as he did. Has anyone been through anything similar and has any advice on how to cope with this in the best possible way? I can't see us ever getting back together after this, so I need advice on how to move on also.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Myself and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 4 years, a very pleasant relationship, we tell each other everything but still allow each other to have personal space, and still have our friends around us. We both go to different universities, about 2-3 hour train ride away from each other, but we live in the same hometown so still get many weeks with each other during the breaks. We have lasted 2 years of university and we are both in final year.\n\nShe wants to leave home after university and move to London, and I'm not entirely sure what I want to do yet.\n\nToday, I was laying with my girlfriend, and she started crying and covering her face, and it took a few moments of comforting her and asking her what's wrong, and I said 'is it us?' And this led to a conversation about our relationship, both very upset. This came very out of nowhere.\n\nShe said we are both quite independent now, the relationship isn't the same as it once was, and I did agree with her it an extent. It has gotten quite domesticated and we don't see each other as often, as well as the weeks away at uni. She was upset and so was I, we just kept crying with each other, and cuddling. We suggested a break (until at least Christmas assuming she implied first semester) and cuddled, the thing is I don't think a break will be good. Thus will just make us more independent.\n\nWe love each other to pieces, and if this is headed toward the end I feel very lonely and I really don't know what I am going to do without her. She is such a huge part of my life. I can't imagine it without her. \n\nShe texted me some hearts when I got home...I texted the same back, and she texted me 'I just wanted to say goodnight' in which I said goodnight back too.\n\nI thought at the time a break might be a positive thing, but now I'm sitting like a puppy pouncing at my phone hoping she messages me. I miss her so much already :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I took up a ballroom dancing class that meets every week and I met this girl that has a beautiful dance - for the longest time I thought ~~she was an instructor since she knows the dances so well!~~", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[18 yo]I've been in a 6 months long distance relationship with my girlfriend[17 yo], and now when she came home (for good), I'm pretty certain she is going to break up with me. The reason why I think so is because she said we need to talk, and it would be better if we met somewhere in town, instead of me just coming over to her place. \nNow, our relationship is a bit weird because I never really got to know her well before she went to spain for 6 months. We have kept in touch almost everyday, and I've tried my best to stay in touch with her, but that has been through facebook and texts. Whenever she was back in town, it was weird for us to see each other again, so we both acted a bit weird and distant towards each other. That always wore off when we got used seeing each other, but as soon as that happened she had to go again.\n\nShe came home 2 weeks ago, and we've only been able to meet once. And just like before, it was weird seeing her again. I still act a bit distant around her, but I try my best not to. She probably wants to break up, because she might have lost boyfriend feeling towards me, that it doesn't feel like we're a couple anymore, and that we've grown apart. But I know that if we can just get used to each other and get to know to each other better, it will be all different. I really love this girl. Everything about her is so imperfectly perfect. I really want this relationship to work, and I know it will if we gave it a try.\n\nWhat can I say to her to make her re-evaluate our relationship and not just put an end to it? I'm bad with words, so hopefully someone on here can help. Thanks.\n\nAnd sorry for being all over the place. Again, I'm bad with words.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Whatup /r/tifu?\nSo I fucked up by talking too loud publicly. I was standing with a classmate at the busstation and was talking about the next few weeks. The next few weeks are pretty tough for the students in Switzerland, because we're getting closer to the finals. In addition to that our teachers decided to give us a shit load of homework. \nSo we both were complaining about how annyoing this is and out of the conversation I dropped the phrase: \"We're getting fucked harder than in an american prison!\" My classmate got the metaphor, but a man who always is on the same bus in the moring like I am probably just heard this one sentence. After I've said the last word I saw him kinda disturbed looking at me. So he will probably remember me as the \"getting fucked in a american prison guy\".", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were very much in love for past 6 months. We practically lived together (she slept over at least 5 days per week), we had some travels, meet the family and everything that makes a real relationship. I knew she had at least 10 boyfriends before me, 2 of them were serious relationships of 1 and 2 years. She cheated her ex boyfriend of 1 year with some guy. After she finished having sex with him she will call her boyfriend and say how much she love him and miss him. I was disguised with that and thinking \"OK, at least she broke up with him and 15 days later she started dating me and we are doing fine\".\n\nWell, last night she forgot to log off from facebook and I wanted to see if she is still in touch with the guy she was having sex. She is not in contact (at least not on facebook) but she is visiting his profile. The thing that disguised me is what she told her sister about whole cheating: She was with her boyfriend brother wedding, got into fight with BF and left wedding and gone by herself to the bars. After a while she stumble upon on guy she was cheating with and gone into back alley and had sex in street. She described how good he was fucking her that night at street. I almost throw up.\n\nI want a princess, not a whore. I need a serious GF. I can't get that image out of my head. I broke up with her and told her everything. She has no regrets and shame for that night for fucking him on streets.\n\nDid I did a right thing?\n\nSorry for my poor English.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In order to get a ride home from university for Winter Break, I consulted a local campus bulletin board designated for carpool listings.\nI got a ride with (in her own words) a \"free-spirit\" who decided to travel the country.\n\nI have been home in LA for over a week and she has parked her fucking Vanagon in front of my house every single day without fail. I ended up giving her $100.00 for gas yesterday in a futile effort to send her on her way. Instead, she bought an ounce of weed and sits on my curb smoking it all day.\n\nMy parents are suspicious, as they absolutely should be, yet none of us know what to do. I honestly feel sorry for her and have let her shower in my house, which I instantly regretted when I found out she stole my damn shampoo.\n\nAs I type this she is staring in my fucking window from the cot in her van. I pretend to be oblivious to her loitering, yet it is inherently troublesome for me.\n\nLast night is where I really fucked up. I was under so much stress that I drank 15 shots and went to bed in my guesthouse. She fucking saw me enter and crawled in bed with me. I did not kick her out due to sympathy of her predicament and drunken stupor, and as a result, she thinks I am in love with her and lingers on my goddamn street all fucking day.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with my boyfriend for about a year. For the most part we've had a great relationship, however he is very disorganized which has caused him to sometimes put things before me. For example, he procrastinates so then time that we would have spent together is spent writing that paper that is due. Or he's playing video games until he falls asleep and doesn't text me back or talk to me until the next morning.\n\nHe has not gone to France for a study abroad program and within one week has ditched me twice over FaceTime. Both of these times were because he went drinking. I just don't feel like a priority. We have talked about it and he has said that he doesn't think he's ready to change. (At least he's honest.)\n\nI broke up with him this morning which was hard in itself. When he says things like he isn't ready to change I feel hurt and want to get back together, but then when he says that he wants to make us last, I feel that I made the right choice. \n\nDid I?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just started my first university year. It's been around 5-6 weeks and would enjoy it a lot more if not for this issue.\n\nBasically this girl likes me on my course and I don't like her back in the same way. I see her as just a friend - nothing more. She asks me to wait for her before lessons and I do, being her mate and everything. \n\nHowever, a lot of people on the course seem to think we're going out and I want to dispel this rumour as soon as possible. \n\nAny sort of help would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a mess. She cheated on me with someone she met in Spain at a festival. I absolutely adore this girl. I've known her for about 7/8 years, and there's always been something between us. We properly got together 2 years ago, and it was the happiest I've ever been.\n\nShe's my best friend, the person who I could tell everything to. I don't have anyone else to talk to and now I'm just falling apart. She told me yesterday and I didn't sleep at all last night. The pain is unlike anything I've ever felt, and the only person who I could possible talk about it with was her. I feel more lonely now then I can ever remember.\n\nWe were supposed to be going on holiday next week together, that's out the window now. It was with my family and I have to tell them today. My family adored her.\n\nI'm just at a loss right now. I never would've suspected she would do something like this. I am so angry at her but at the same time I want to stay with her with all of my being. I don't have anyone else to talk to.\n\nShe's been my life for 2 years, and now in an instant she's gone. I just feel empty and this is the most emotional pain I've ever felt in my life. I don't know what to do, who to talk to or where to go. Please help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have Asperger's. Basically I overreact when things I planned don't go as planned. \n\nI've been having trouble in my life, because I do not have a job or go to school currently. I live by myself. I have way too much free time and I'm not keeping as busy as I should. I'm in a smalltown newfoundland. It's pretty isolated and friendships are few. Managed to make friends with a few people. \n\nThe problem is, that I'm having a panic attack because my friend can never visit me for more than an hour. It's a 'friends with benefits' situation so I probably have strong emotions for him too. Anxiety (and other factors) prevents me from being around him and his partner. So I don't see him as often as I know I should.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met my FWB last September, and we decided to keep it a purely FWB relationship. We are seeing each other exclusively and spend the bulk of our free time together. He and I text every day, and he's become my best friend during this last year of grad school. We graduate in May, and he is moving 8 hours back home after graduation. \n\nI told him that I am developing feelings for him, and he said that he liked me too. But right after that, he went on a rant about how he had a LDR with his last ex, and it took a toll on him. He didn't wish that tragedy on him or anyone else again. I understood and never brought up any discussion about feelings again.\n\nIt's starting to hit me that I dug myself a hole. \nHim leaving is going to hurt like a bitch. I can already feel it.\n\nBackground: A few months before I met him, I just got out of an abusive 5 year relationship. I don't want to go through this emotional wreckage again, but I know that losing him won't hurt nearly as much as what I went through last year with my ex. \n\nShould I just let this good thing run its course until July, or should I watch out for my emotional well-being and cut him off now before I fall deeper?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my boyfriend and I have been together for around 7 months now....it's pretty serious and we're really in love. I can't imagine being with anyone besides him. We get along beautifully and he always knows how to make me feel better. \n\nHowever, the first two weeks of school, one when I was here and one when I wasn't, my boyfriend got so incredibly black out drunk and cheated on me twice.\nHe has a history of alcoholism in his family and he has always been a heavy drinker, so his blacking out is not uncommon.\nIn the first instance he was at school a week before it started so he was just partying. He got so drunk that a girl who raped him last year (before we were together) I guess found him again and the same situation played out. They had sex but he really didn't remember until this past week. \nThe other situation was him being blackout when I stayed in and his phone died so he couldn't answer my messages or calls and he called me at 4 AM from the floor of his apartment looking for me asking me where he had been all night and I, of course, couldn't answer. Turns out he had seen his ex girlfriend and she gave him a blowjob.\nIt honestly disgusts me so much that that happened but I have always chalked it up to his drinking. He's getting better with it, but now it just causes all of our fights because he is so ridiculous when he drinks.\n\nI am not sure what to do....", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's a bit of background. I work for a small startup who hired a marketing consultant who I always felt was a bit full of shit. He always references these brands he works for but has no website and no history of his work via a business website or history online, for example on LinkedIn.\n\nI recently was on his Instagram and noticed it seemed off. After a bit of research I can conclude that 95% of his followers are fake and he buys his likes. On top of that I have I proof he has stolen photos of private jets, fashion shows around the world etc.\n\nAt work he brags about how great he is at social media. Here is the kicker, I was recently let go because I think he wants his company to do my work and he used his \"credentials\" to make an impression that they are great at what they do. I don't want to look like an asshole for pointing his fake profile but how could I do this in a reasonable way to my employers? On top of that he is friends with the boss.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have girlfriend who is 8y older than me and she has kid with her ex husband. We were in a really good relationship, almost like perfect but today we broke up because today we got some time for only us two and she spent that time being on computer. And i told her like you have been all our free time on pc or phone and well one thing lead to other and ended up basically that way she said im too bad in bed and etc... and i said fine, i don't want to be with you anymore and she said that's great because i don't want to be with you too. Sorry it's very bad and unclear post because english is not my native language.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A year ago my boyfriend and I went through a termination of an unplanned pregnancy. The reasons were my high-demanding university studies and his anxiety/panic disorder. The whole experience was traumatic for both of us since we've always wanted children... but not yet.\n\nWe were surprised to find out a few days ago that my copper IUD had failed and I'm pregnant again. This happened almost exactly one year later than the previous conception. I've been seeing a therapist for about nine months because of the abortion a year ago. He has been working on his mental problems, but these are not resolved yet.\n\nAfter the abortion he swore we'd never have to go through with it again and I swore I would keep the pregnancy if it happened again. The thing is... I do want to keep it, but he is having serious doubts. He says if he doesn't deal with his anxiety by the time the baby would be born he would not be a good father. He tries to (more or less) subtly convince me to have another abortion, saying it would be better for my beginning career, etc. He says it's ultimately my decision, and he'll support me. I just feel that, as I'm still coping with pregnancy-related feelings of sadness and guilt, I need his support 100%.\n\nI've prepared my mind and body since the last pregnancy happened for carrying a baby. I feel I would be ready when it's time. I just don't want to force him into something he doesn't want or isn't ready for. All challenges we'd face, in my mind, can be resolved and we'd have support from our families. I just can't feel happy for the healthy pregnancy because he has major cold feet.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A few days ago, the police interrupted a weekly gathering I have with friends due to a noise complaint somewhere in the area. This has been a traditional gathering for many years at this house, and we've never had the cops tell us to shut it down. Now we're on a short leash with the law. I don't want to stop having this weekly gathering, but I don't want to get ticketed instead of just a warning.\n\nNormally we charge $5 a cup, pretty much a standard kegger. The main difference between this and a normal kegger is we know everyone that's coming. Usually 20-40 of our friends will show up. Would it be legal if we did the following?\n\n* Still charged for cups\n* 21+ only\n* Avoided breaking other, non alcohol-related laws (noise, littering, etc).\n\nOr is there still an issue with selling alcohol out of a private residence? Could we simply ask for monetary donations to cover costs rather than actually charge?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys. I know I just asked another question this morning, but I have a second hypothetical...\n\nI make minimum wage plus tips. The owners play this out as being generous to us. So we collect tips, and they disperse it to us through our bi-weekly paychecks.\n\nI put in my two weeks notice after a very tense discussion with my boss, and I'm wondering... if he collects tips from customers, is he obligated to disperse them to workers, or is he allowed to say fuck you to someone he doesn't like, and exclude them from receiving any tips on their last paycheck?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have had a wonderful relationship. She has OCD and I have Bipolar. A year into the relationship I got on medicine which made my life a hell of a lot better. I am now goin to school, I work and im trying to get out on my own. My girlfriend just got on medicine and is now going to counseling. Everything seemed to be going great. She is also attending college. \n\nThis past Sunday we had a wonderful day out on the bay. Everything seemed to be great. It gets me upset just writing it. The life we wanted seemed to be falling into place. But then Tuusday came; I went to school, and I went to call her after. She never answered. It wasnt until later that night she said she wanted a break, and that she wants to sort her life out. It came out of nowhere and I guess thats what hurts the most. She said there isnt anyone, which I dont know is true. I know her and she doesn't lie, but maybe she just doesn't want to hurt me.\n\nMy brother and her haven't had the greatest relationship, and my mom and her did get in a fight,recently, but I dont think thats enough reason to break up. We also have had our fair she of arguments, but they normal arguments; people arent going to be happy 24/7.\n\n We have been planing out our lives together, and it really hurts knowing its not going to happen now.\n\nShe never said break up, But I cant wait for her, and she did say she wants me to move on and doesnt want me to wait, and hopes that I stay in school.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First, some background information. We are both in high school, I am a junior and she's a sophomore. We're both pretty smart and I'm a bit of a nerd. We both do theater at our high school but hadn't known each other long before our relationship. I asked her out on Valentine's Day, and broke up with her just a few days ago.\n\nPretty much throughout our entire relationship, I felt like I never really emotionally (or physically) connected with her, because whenever I tried to talk to her about something serious (like our feelings for each other, kissing, etc.) she would reply with \"I don't know\" to my questions, and seem to appear slightly irritated at me asking it, although she didn't remain angry at me at all. She told me that she has an in ability to talk about her feelings to others, including her own family, and she gets stressed and \"shuts down\" whenever she attempts to. I really am attracted to her and honestly besides this, she doesn't have a lot of flaws. She's polite, kind, works hard in school, and cares about her future. However, last week I basically told her that i couldn't take the lack of connection anymore and said that we should part ways for now. Obviously I miss her, but I really didn't see any other option. Does she have some sort of actual disorder, or is it just a part of being a teenager? Should I wait and see if she matures to where she's comfortable talking about stuff and then try a relationship with her again? I really just want another opinion in this because I feel hopeless.\n\n(Please only serious replies)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know whether my being upset is valid or not, and I'd like some insight.\n\nOur 2 year anniversary was July 20th and I got him a cologne, a little bag of the candies he likes, and a new CD, along with a few more personal items. He has yet to get me anything, although we've made a plan on what he will get me. Our plan was to go to sephora together and he'd buy me $30 worth of products.\n\nIt sounded perfect to me. But we start to make plans before he gets his paycheck, and he always says he will have X amount left over for gas and my present. Yet every time he gets paid he doesn't have the money. He always says he is going to ask to borrow it from his parents/keep it from his paycheck but something always comes up and he can't take me. This has happened at least 3 times already. Honestly I've lost excitement in going because I feel like it's never going to happen.\n\nI can't bring it up to him because whenever I do he gets really upset and apologizes a lot, which I appreciate, but I just would rather him say that he can't take me (if that's the case) rather than continue to drag this out.\n\nI feel bad for being upset, because he's 16 on a 16 year old's paycheck. But it doesn't change the fact that he's been promising and not coming through, which is upsetting. \n\nI need an outsider's opinion so I can have some unbiased opinions to look through.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife and I have been together for 5 years, married for 2. I always thought everything about the relationship has been great. We had always talked about having kids one day and I just assumed that meant they would be biologically mine. Within the past few weeks, we both decided that we are ready.\n\nBut my wife has now indicated that we should get a sperm donor. There is nothing wrong with my sperm (as far as I know). When I asked her why she mentioned a few medical hereditary traits she wouldn't want passed on (cancer, diabetes, and mental illness runs in my family). But as I continued to press her, I found out the real reason: she doesn't think our kids would be attractive enough with my genes.\n\nHonestly, I'm a little dazed. I think my wife is the most beautiful woman and to find out she doesn't feel the same is strange. I never questioned my appearance before. I consider myself average. But now I am confused.\n\nShould I consider having a donor? Is anyone has had a sperm donor, how did that affect the relationship with their child/wife?\n\nThanks Reddit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There's this girl I work with (she's 16, I'm 17) who I met back in March when we started working together. We gradually started talking to each other and by May she was definitely interested in talking to me. In mid-May we stopped seeing each other for a little while because of our work schedule. I got her number and Snapchat in early May and ever since she's been texting/snapping me a lot every day, and she's called/facetimed me too. She's said cute things to me, told me some secrets of hers, and she's asked me tons of personal questions about me. She's told me she loves talking to me and laughs at most of the stuff I say and do. \n\nJust last Wednesday things oddly and abruptly seemed to go sour between us. We saw each other again last Wednesday at work and we both knew we would see each other then, and even earlier that day we were happily texting and snapping each other. The second I got to work, however, she just glanced at me and turned back around. Didn't even say 'hi' to me. I tried talking to her and having fun conversations with her but she was barely responding, and I could tell she didn't want to be talking to me. I tried texting and sending her snapchats on occasion since Thursday and her responses seem like she really doesn't want to be bothered, and like I'm some random stranger. I didn't say or do anything different so I have absolutely no idea what happened as to why she went from messaging me happily all the time to not wanting to talk to me as soon as she saw me again.\n\nI'm going to see her again this Wednesday at work. Should I try talking to her about it? Should I just ignore her? Should I try texting/snapping her the way we used to? Any advice will help. Sorry for the long read.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "He lived with his ex for 3 years, and helped raise her kids, the father was not there for them so he was their father figure at the time. They are now 6 and 8 years old - he goes to his ex's place every morning to take them to school every day and picks them up afterwards to take them to his ex's place. He takes them out to the park and sometimes they sleep over at his place. \n\nI can understand that, strictly speaking, he broke up with her, and not with the kids that he claims to have grown so attached to. However I'm wondering whether I should be concerned about him possibly still having feelings for her.\n\nShe calls him daily and constantly texts (she has a boyfriend now), however part of me is wondering whether I should run away from this situation or be understanding about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been on vacation for a few days and it gave me some time to clear my mind and give me some time to think about what I could do for me both in terms of self-growth and in terms of relationships. \n\nI feel like I should lay low for a while and focus on me. I am overweight and want to lose a few pounds (hopefully starting before school starts up again in January) and do some things to make me more appealing because even though people think I'm attractive, I'm not considered attractive by a lot of the women at my school mainly because I don't have a six pack. I also wanna be able to save up a bit of cash. I have a little money but not a ton. I'm a student with some bills and a job and wanna try to save a bit here and there when I can.\n\nOn the other hand, I wanna be able to make someone happy because I like making people smile and I want to be able to make someone smile and show that I care about them because I like making people smile.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone. I recently got dog who is a mixed breed, 3 yr old female. She has been excellent so far (no accidents, no unwanted chewing), but I would love to have some way to keep her entertained while I'm away at work. I currently leave the television on and make sure she has had at least a 1/2 hr to an hour walk before I leave (it is/will be tough to walk for an hour when I need to be at work at 4:45am--it's not often, but it happens. Generally the later I have to go into work, I make sure to walk her for longer and more frequently). She is used to being left alone for longer periods of time--outside--, according to her previous owner, but since she is such a smart dog, I don't want her to become bored with nothing to do. (I have owned dogs before, but this is the first time that I have a dog who is alone", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit! A bit of background information, I just reached my 6th week at my new job and since 2 weeks ago I have been 'kind of' dating my colleague. The reason I say 'kind of' is because we've been on 2 dates and I don't really know what I want to do. We get along super well, and I don't feel like I need to try very hard to keep a conversation flowing. He is very charming, funny, full of compliments and for some bizarre reason he likes me (has told me numerous times). I on the other hand, have been told that I'm talkative and very easy to get along with... But I don't know how to respond to compliments. Also, I am from a very conservative Chinese family and he comes from an unconventional Indian family.\n\nHere is my dilemma: Every date we've had has been very awesome, except when it comes to the end of the night... And we both don't know if we want to kiss or just hug it out. It's funny.. We are both super talkative and confident but when it comes to the kiss/ hug game we both shy out and end up hugging. Ok back to the dilemma, I'm still uncertain if I like him in that way or if we would be better as besties. I've always only dated Chinese/ Malaysian guys, and have never had Indian guys on my radar.. But I do find him attractive. I know for a fact my family would be completely against it - but it's not my main issue right now as I'm known to do opposite of what my parents say. Also, we work together (different teams), a lot of my friends are against me dating a colleague but I genuinely don't think there could be any implications... Then again I've never dated a colleague. I'm in this really confused stage where I don't know if I like him in that way or not. I know a relationship is suppose to be between 2 people and no one else matters, but I'm not sure if I can date someone who is from an Indian background - just because I know they would cop a lot of shit from my friends and family.\n\nI don't know what I'm doing...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know I'm going to get some crappy replies to this but I'm sucking up and I'm going to take it on the chin. \n\nFor the past year, I used my ex as an emotional punchbag. I have been going through issues which have left myself emotionally unable to stop myself from saying things and blowing up out of proportion. I was recently diagnosed with bpd which I was worried about and basically, I used her as that emotional punchbag for a year before we split. \n\nI have since come to terms with the fact that I completely cocked up, pushed her away and used her for my problems. I have really felt bad about it and I have told her I love her. She doesn't say anything back but I know that when she hears it, she changes her attitude for the better. \n\nI really want to get back with her and put this behind us. I know there's something still there even if the chances are small. I would jump at the opportunity no matter how small to show that I have come to terms with who I am and what is wrong with me. I know if we can get over this, we'll be stronger than ever and ready to take on the world. She really is the love of my life. I know everyone says it but it's true. I've never loved someone as much as I \n\nAny advice on what to do would be much appreciated and how to approach, what seems to be, this thorny subject.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This ( is the little bird I found. After freeing him and trying to return him back into his nest, the nest and baby were back on the ground 10 minutes later.\n\nI currently have him gated off on my porch, where there's shade -- still with the nest the mother had built. In keeping an eye on him, it seems like the mother came by and fed him in this location and I'm a bit worried about moving the nest repeatedly.\n\nSince I have dogs, I can't leave the nest there without the gate -- they would attack him again if they could get to him, but a few places advised in the stage that this bird looks to be in, it's capable of being out of the nest and will learn how to hunt/fly on it's own that way... Would I be hindering it by keeping it in behind a child gate where it can't, obviously, do these things?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dear Reddit, this year I fucked up...\n\nSo I moved to the UK almost a year ago, and I live in a beautiful, brand-new student accommodation. My only concern has been that the showers were 90% of the time ice cold, and almost never steamy hot.\n\nYesterday, I've been hanging out with some of my British friends and we've been talking about what we miss from home. My immediate first thought was, shit, I just love a good shower back home. So I said it out loud, and all I got in return was confused faces.\nAfter being publicly shamed over the fact that I have been living like an idiot for a year, and then demonstrating me how to properly use the shower, I got away by saying that mine must be faulty, then...\n\nThe truth is far from that, though. The switch controlling the heat could be turned way more backwards by pushing a button on it... Having done that, I spent around 50 minutes under the shower, laughing like a maniac while crying inside.\n\nSo here I am, on reddit, after having my first hot shower after a year. I feel like an idiot.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (F 19) have been friends with a guy (Guy 20) for a while. After my ex and I broke up a few months ago, Me and this guy started hanging out in groups a lot. The past 3 weeks we've hung out everyday, with other people and by ourselves. I've slept over his place (No sex, messing around, or anything) Just cuddling. The other day, we messed around and he fingered me. He told me that he had feelings for me, but i said i wasn't sure if i felt the same way, and i wanted to feel things out, (we're moving over an hour away from each other in a month). I've been on vacation for a week. I miss seeing him a lot, and I really think I have feelings for him. Earlier, he was saying how much he missed me and couldn't wait for me to be back. Over a 2 hour skype date last night, I told him that I liked him. Since we ended our conversation, he's been really distant, and we usually text all day, but today we barely talked. He said he wanted a nap around 5, and I haven't heard from him since. What do I do now?", "role": "user" } ]

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