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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work at a coffee shop and I saw my girlfriend's sister full on making out with this guy. They were all over each other. We were really busy and I never would have noticed them except that my co-workers pointed them out cause they were all \"they need a room, this is a coffee shop.\" I immediately recognized her and she's supposed to get married in July to another guy.\n\nThey could not see me. I didn't want to get involved. But after they left I came out to clean some tables thinking the coast was clear. She came back in for something. I think to use the restroom, or she forgot something. She saw me and flipped and started begging me to tell her what I saw. I said I didn't see anything but she somehow knew.\n\nShe left but told me that we weren't \"done\" and that we had to talk. I just got home and my girlfriend texted me asking me what's going on with me and her sister. I don't know what she told her but I said I don't know. She keeps texting me that her sister is upset and that I should come over. Not to sound like a little kid but I'm not allowed to leave the house at this time. I texted her that my parents won't let me go there. She said they will drive to my house if I sneak out to meet them. I said that would be hard. She said Please!\n\nWhat can I do? What should I do? I'm a little freaked out right now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I guess what I am mainly looking for is some advice for how I can help him (age 25) cope or how I (age 26) can be supportive without getting annoyed/frustrated. I personally try to always be grateful and look for the best in situations.\n\nWhen my fiance and I met he was working a job he wasn't thrilled with (I think most of us can relate). His employers were very shady and encouraged unethical business practices. The entire year he was working there he was searching for a new job so I was glad to see that he was not just complaining, but taking action to rectify the situation.\n\nHowever after taking a stand against the employer's requests to cheat people out of money, they told him to hit the road.\n\nHe job searched for several more months complaining the whole time that there are \"no good jobs where we live\" which is partially true if you ask me, but I encouraged him to take anything to pay the bills since crappy income is better than no income. \n\nFinally it got to a point where he needed health insurance and was \"forced\" to start working at a family business as a last result (His parents are in the middle of a divorce because his Dad cheated so he has a horrible relationship with his father).\n\nNow he comes home miserable every night with a \"woe is me\" pouty face on and barely wants to talk. When I push him to talk about what's bothering him he says \"You know my situation, I'm miserable in my job...\" It doesn't help that he's making no extra money beyond what's necessary to pay his bills.\n\nNow I want to be sympathetic since I know what it's like to get up each day and do something you hate, but at the same time there is only so much pity-party observing I can take. \n\nOther relevant info: We are planning to move across the country in about 4 months for a transfer with my job so he doesn't want to start something new for that short amount of time. \n\nAnyway, how do I help get him out of his funk or how do I keep his miserable mood from making me constantly miserable as well?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay so, in January 2012, I ended up in the ER two days in a row while my entire family was at Disney World. Fast forward a few months, I recall the bill coming to my parents' house, and receiving it when I came home from college at some point. My parents have never been very good with money. Countless months with our water, power, phones shut off. Last year, the bank took our house. It wouldn't be far fetched to imagine a situation in which my parents conveniently misplaced this bill.\n\nBeing the naive 19 year old that I was at the time, I assumed my parents would take care of it. As I've come to learn being a much more responsible and slightly less naive 22 year old, my parents let the two medical bills (totaling $1700) go to collections. I found this out when I checked my credit for the first time (suggested by a finance professor) around the beginning of last month.\n\nI talked to the collection agency, which is based in the city that I live in, and as suggested by my own mother I set up a payment plan. I have already paid ~$700 of this debt. As of yesterday, I get a call from my mother who urges me not to pay any more money because I had insurance at the time and it should have been covered. Now, my father is attempting to contact his former employer to process an old bill.\n\nMy question is: If by some miracle this does happen to work out, what is the likelihood that I would be able to get the money back that I have already paid?\n\nOh and, like an idiot, I was intimidated when they already had all of my information, and gave them authorization to withdraw the money from my account.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together little over a year. I love him very much and I think he's a wonderful person. Lately he's been very mean to me and it hurts but I do deserve it. Early in the relationship I sexted an old friend. My boyfriend agreed to stay with me and move past it. \n\nSince then I have cut off my relationship with that friend and he has access to all my social media. I have not messaged anyone like that at all or done anything suspicious. I feel very guilty over what I did and take 100% of the blame. \n\nThese past few weeks he has been threatening to leave me, making me beg him to stay, calling me stupid, weak, a whore and ugly. I know I did a bad things so I am putting up with it because I know he gets angry about it. He does this when we fight, but otherwise he is the sweetest person I know. I really mean it, this is the only bad side to him. \n\nRecently I've been feeling really depressed and bad about myself. I'm scared to open up anymore because I don't want to be yelled at or lose him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been dating for a couple of years now, but we've never gotten the time to spend Christmas with each other in person before due to international studies and work. We are always so busy during the holidays, but this year we've decided to finally spend our holidays together for one and I'm so excited!\n\nHer family and herself are a pretty well off family in the upper class, while I'm just about average middle class. Why I'm stating this is because when it comes to getting her a present, she's a bit expensive due to how accustomed she is due to her background. I spoil her when I get the chance and I try to pamper her, because I'm absolutely in love with her.\n\nWith that being said, she's a huge Totoro fan and also Hayao Miyazaki fan. My idea this year is nothing that could come that money can buy, but hopefully by the off chance that anyone could suggest me on how I could obtain his autograph on a Totoro picture or anything for that matter?\n\nHayao Miyazaki has made such a huge impact on her life artistic wise and I guess the fact that she's also Japanese, she just feels that it represents much of her culture as well.\nAny suggestions will help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "30 year old male here about to break up with the girl I saw myself marrying.\nSo I have had issues trusting my gf, we have been together for 2.5 years now. in march of 2010 I caught her coming home (we have lived in my place together for entire relationship) and she was out drinking with an ex boyfriend. I sucked it up and accepted her apology and have been dealing with it ever since. This is about the time I registered her phone with the Find My Iphone service.\nFast forward to Monday night- I get texts form her saying she was going out to pick us up some food. I come home from work late around 7pm and she is not home. she wont answer my calls or texts. I know where she is cause I pulled up Find My Iphone website and she is at the local bar down the street. I wait for 3 hours and finally get a text of her saying she was at her girlfriends house and she will be home soon. LIAR! I had enough and stormed off to confront her at the bar. Didn't see the car she was driving in the parking lot so I'm starting to think im wrong, But there it is parked IN THE BACK. as if to hide from me.\nI found her and a guy she works with (restaurant, typical for sleeping with coworkers).\nNow we are a mess and Im about to throw her out and start my life over, Sucks cause I wanted to marry this one.\nShe doesn't know I tracked her with the iPhone. And I don't think Ill ever trust her again. Is it still cheating even though I didn't catch them having sex? In my eyes she lied to be with another guy while i was at work and that's cheating in my book.\nAny advice is appreciated.\nAlso this is my first ever post to reddit and im using a throwaway account.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit, my ex-boyfriend (25) and I (also 25) of a year broke up a few weeks ago. We haven't been completely solid on the radio silence, but have been trying very hard at it. We've been slipping up every 4-5 days or so.\n\nRecently the ex wanted to meet so we can talk. He said that he misses me, or at least he thinks he does. But at the same time, he wonders whether or not he just misses being in a relationship. He isn't sure. He doesn't want me to move on just yet because he fears that once he does figure it out that he misses me it will be too late and Id have moved on. At the time, I was sympathetic and told him Id give him a few weeks to figure it out. I still love him and miss him dearly.\n\nReddit, not knowing is driving me nuts. I can't move forward or backward. I can't heal or hold on. I need to know which direction I'm going.\n\nI've never in my life given an ultimatum to a lover, partly because they don't usually work and partly because that's not really who I am. But in this case, reddit, is it appropriate to give him an ultimatum? Tell him to fish or cut bait? Tell him to make a move or lose squatters rights? I don't know if I can deal with the uncertainty much longer.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So during the very early hours of the morning ~2:00a.m. I came back to my dorm after a party super drunk. Decided to take a warm relaxing shower. So since my drunk ass can barely stand I sit down and enter this meditation type state. When I do this meditation like thing I stay awake but I cant hear anything and I pay no attention to literally anything. So finally I decide to get out of the shower and my roommate is there yelling at me that I flooded the room. I go out and I realize that my drunk ass was on the drain so there was water about a cm high on our floor. So I had to for about 30 mins use all my towels and clothes to try to soak up the water. Now it has been 12 hours and our floor is still damp, and because I used my all my clothes and towels to clean it up I have been doing so much laundry today to clean all the dirty clothes I have created. I have used probably about 15 bucks on laundry today FML.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was on a new website which I don't really want to name, but I happened to look up my boyfriends common username and found him. \n\nI started to look through a couple things just to see what was going on a little and started noticing some weird stuff. He tends to flirt with a lot of girls and even had a post about him having this huge crush on a former teacher! He even denied having a girlfriend and was going about how he was single. I'm not sure what to do right now. \n\nI made a fake account and messaged him to see what he would say, but I knew he was already asleep so I'll have to see what goes down tomorrow. However, he's coming here in a few hours (it's 4:30 am) and I don't know whether to pretend everything's fine and play out the account to see where he goes, or to bring it up and potentially have a confrontation. \n\nI don't want to lose him, after all he's my first love and of course I understand it's hard to see the truth because of that, but I don't want to lose him. I need some advice on what to do at this point, should I wait or say something?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I just started at a new high school in a new state, and for the first couple days I was pretty lonely until this girl came up to me and offered to help with some summer homework that I knew nothing about but still had to do.\n\nAt first we only talked on facebook, and it was only about school stuff but over a couple days we started to talk a ton, about everything. Since then we've been together at school nearly all the time, and hardly are ever apart.\n\nI really like her, but I can't tell if she likes me back. The texts she sends seem pretty flirty, she trolls me alot because I'm new and sort of almost makes fun of me in a joking way, and she also wanted to know about any of my past relationships. \n\nToday during lunch she walked off to talk to some of her friends, and I was just standing with another group of her girl friends. One of them told me \"there goes [name]\" and winked at me and laughed. I think it's pretty obvious that I like her, but I don't really know what her doing that meant. Also, another one of her friends said I should take her to homecoming and that we would make a \"really cute couple\".\n\nI just can't tell with her, and I really don't want to ask her and only be rejected and have our friendship ended. I really respect her and I don't want to put her on the spot like that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Everything was fantastic before she left, like I literally had one of the best times of my life with her early this week. \n\nThe night before she left I asked her if were exclusive, and she asked if I was worried she was going to cheat on the trip. I played it as calm as possible \"a girl is going to do what she's going to do, I can't stop you either way... but I like you and.. blah blah blah...\" Although it wasn't fully aired out, the cuddling/kissing combined with \"just trust me baby I'm not gonna hurt you...\" talk made me feel like we were. \n\nIDK, I thought we were cool We had sex since I asked her that... then she went out of town and I haven't heard from her since day one. \n\nLike she sent me a trivial text, I responded 5 minutes later, then didn't get anything else for over 24 hours, when I texted her again... a \"what'sup, having fun\".\n\nNo response, going on three days now since I last heard from her Tuesday morning.\n\nI don't text her again right? It would be too clingy? Is it time to start assuming the worse? \n\nWould a \"are you okay...?\" kind of text leaning on I'm worried for her safety be a good thing to try?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Went on vacation 1 1/2 years ago\n\nMet an amazing girl\n\nSpent a lot of time together\n\nHad to leave\n\nWe had agreed it would be ok to see other people\n\nBut we keep in contact and talk about how much we miss each other all the time\n\nStill have feelings for her\n\nShe just entered a relationship recently\n\nIt bothers me\n\nIdk if I should tell her how I feel or if I am just idealizing something we had and should move on.\n\nEDIT: I know theres a chance that if I asked her to be exclusive she would agree\n\nEDIT2: ALRIGHT GUYS MOVING ON, THX FOR THE INPUT ;]", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The teacher doesn't watch over us and instead tells us to give her our stuff and bring only what we'll need to take the test (paper, pencil, pen, eraser, etc.) I have an insanely hard midterm to do where the teacher chooses around 20 words out of almost 100 and tells you to appropriately define 10 thus I was supposed to memorize nearly 100. Then comes two essay questions based on the books/lecture and you choose one.The papers I have for the definitions and whatnot come out to be around around 10-25. Anyone know the best way to sneak them in?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all, so this is a throwaway for obvious reasons.\n\nI work in a well paying job, with people I like. The biggest downside, is I work all the way on the opposite side of a well-sized metropolitan city, and it takes me at a minimum, an hour to get to work. On days that the weather is bad, or I leave a little late, easily an hour and a half, up to 3 hours I've sat in traffic. \n\nNow, our boss is pretty tech savvy (I work in the tech industry), he's young, modern, but for some reason, is COMPLETELY against telecommuting. It's bizarre, because we all work from computers all day in our own offices, barely speak to each other except through company chat, and there's not really any obvious reason why he would be so against it. Anyways, I digress...\n\nI have been working a side job (about 20 hours a week) for a more creative position at an ad agency. I recently found out that the only reason it was PT was because they had a contracted temp before I came on board, and that contract is almost up. They recently told me they would like me to move to full time as soon as the temp contract is up, and that would involve me quitting my current position.\n\nDetails on the new job are much better; work from home exclusively except when we have client meetings, slightly more pay (From 30/hr to 34/hr, so not a huge increase, but still) they pay for my phone, internet, and adobe CC subscription. \n\nSo, backstory out of the way, the new job would start around mid-march (the 14th is scheduled as a tentative start date), would it be good to give my company more than 2 weeks notice? Or should I play my cards as close to my chest as possible and just offer them the bare minimum notice? Like I said, they've been good to me, it's just a combination of factors that are completely WITHIN their control, that really had me looking for other jobs. They are so inflexible, in a very puzzling way; I definitely want to do right by them, but also don't want to overextend and give them the chance to somehow screw me over.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been dating this girl for about a year. Things are good, and I think we get along very well. We have our tiffs but hey what couple doesnt.\n\nWhat bothers me though is that shes claims that she must meet as many people as possible; shes really obsessed with \"connecting\" with people. \n\nThe other day when we went out with a bunch of her friends to a bar, she got the number of numerous guys. From what I saw, it was rather innocent in context, but it just bothered me a bit that it seemed like she was actively coming up with \"list\" of people she can get with after we're done... I feel like if I did the same, shed be uncomfortable too.\n\nWhen I asked her about it, she said it was just for friendly encounters and that she just wanted to \"connect\" with people. Now mind you, she does do this a lot. Shell just go to some random store owned by a man clearly in his 50s/60s and will be very friendly with him because she wants to connect... I dont think this is sexual in nature.\n\nI just dont know if this is normal behavior but anyway.\n\nBefore me, shes dated plenty of guys which is fine. But one gets to me more than the others. Apparently on a trip to thailand, she wanted a lay and hooked up with a hostel bartender. Then after the vacation, she went back to further \"connect\" with him. But it seems now that she has no desire to connect with him, and Im starting to think her hyper \"connection\" behavior is some sort of odd... I dont know scapegoat for something. \n\nAm I being a bit too jealous? Should it bother me that shes still actively seeking male friends? (its really the motive that bothers me). It seems really strange to me that someone is so desperately in need to connect with people.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I met up with a horny lady friend on the interwebs. House is occupied so we decided that it was all fine to fuck in my coupe vehicle. We shared some bubbles and then went at it on the passenger seat. Things started to get so hot that I had to open the door, as the car was full of condensation and such. Damn car makes a beeping noise when the doors open and the keys are in the ignition, so I switched the key to the accessory position - didn't think much of it. Bucket loads of sweat was extracted all over each other, dripping into the seatback.\n\nLater that evening after dropping her off, I noticed the SRS light on my dash. Damn, must have shaken the car too much and tripped the incident meter. I googled around and contacted the local specialist to visit me the following day while at work to sort it out.\n\nWell, today he turned up and hooked his computer into my dash. \nHim: \"Hmm... looks like theres a reported fault with the sensor\". \nMe: \"Oh, yeah. Damn thing's played up in the past. What's it say?\"\nHim: \"It's reporting a fault with the sensor in the passenger seat.\"\nMe\" \"Um... yeah I was moving some stuff in my car in the weekend\".\nHim: \"Oh, it says here the liquid submersion indicators were set off. Did you get the seats wet?\"\nMe: blushing \"um... yeah I also cleaned my car. Perhaps I wet the seat. Ooops.\".\n\n$80 later and he's reset my system, and told me that in the future if i'm moving things about or cleaning to turn my ignition off to not trip the sensors.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My cousin (21M) and his fiance (18F) are planning to get married in April, they have dated 10 months now. His fiance is from London and on her father's visa. I have tried to talk with them to help them get everything together for greencard application. They refuse any outside help and insist that she will be able to stay on her fathers visa once they are married.\nMy whole family feel as if they are both making an awful mistake. His fiance is very manipulative. An example from her facebook, \"Beautiful flowers my fiancé bought me ♥ He bought me flowers and donuts because I wouldn't talk to him :) I was playing with him and he thought he did something wrong. How cute! ♥\" He had just borrowed money from our grandmother to put gas in his car and same day he went and bought her a gift because he thought she was mad. \nHe went from being very good with money to being in debt and begging family for money. He then turns around and spends it on her.\nNobody can approach him about it. If they try he cuts them out of his life. They have an us against the world mentality. \nI am at a loss for how to even approach them at this point. We all grew up as neighbors and very much like siblings. It is like watching my brother go down the rabbit hole. \nI know that this is kinda jumbled so I'll provide more info upon request. Thanks for any advice", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "One is going to UNC pharm school, another will attend Hopkins medical school, one has a job in his field (statistics) practically in the bag after graduating. Yesterday, my friend got offered a job in I-banking and will make 6 figures out of college.\n\nI want to know, why is it that most of you cannot realize that if you are good at what you do, or show yourself to be in the upper echelon of students, you can get a great job and be wildly successful.\n\nDid any of you ever stop to think about how if you stopped complaining, took some classes that teach useful analytical skills (calculus, finance, organic chemistry e.g.) and did well in them, and made friends with professors and people at employer conventions at your school, you would have a great chance of being successful and having everything you want?\n\nIt seems like the self esteem generation is finally getting the message, \"Most of you are losers out of your own fault, and losers have never been successful,\" and they are in denial for the most part.\n\nI do realize there are extenuating circumstances (no college, although national merit scholars are offered boatloads of money, especially if they are low SES), but for the most part college students all seem to be victims of their own mediocrity.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "18, Male, Tennessee.\nI was speeding, like 120 in a 65. Some girl kept trying to speed up with me in a shit car, I drive a turbo g35 it was no match but she wouldn't budge she'd push her little car around trying to pass me, and obviously putting her life in danger, I'm no godly driver but I know my car, and the road. I knew what I could do speed wise, and I constantly took it back to around 80 before she'd speed up. Eventually I had to turn, and she held up her phone, and a piece of paper, I assumed it was her number but now that I think about it she probably got my tags and plans to report or something, I want to know could I get in trouble? \nOn mobile.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Tonight I decided I was going to stay up late so I could catch up on some TV shows and watch a couple of movies. \n\nI went to the kitchen to get the food and drink I wanted to take to my room so I wouldn't have to walk through the house during the night and take the risk of waking anyone up. I found a big bottle of cola in the fridge and decided to fill up a smaller bottle (the bottle can hold more than any of the glasses I have in my house). \n\nAfter playing some video games, I decided to settle down and start up the first movie. About 10 minutes into the movie I heard this noise, just like when you open a bottle of cola and the gases release but it was continuous, so I pause it and go investigate. At first I couldn't quite work out what it was and started to get paranoid (I don't know why, I just did). I started looking around my room to find the source of the strange noise. I checked my xbox, because I thought it could have been the fan, I checked my PC to see if it was turned off, I checked the window to see if it was closed properly, but everything was ok.\n\nAll of a sudden I heard this POP behind me and nearly had a heart attack. I turned around and saw that the lid of the bottle had popped off. I guess it was the gases in the cola which had expanded the bottle causing the lid to pop off. This happened about 10 minutes ago and my heart is still beating really fast.\n\nNote to everyone: If you're thinking of putting coca-cola in a bottle, don't screw on the lid!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband is in really good shape. He takes good care of himself and I am very proud of that. However, I feel, he spends a lot of time working out. My husband works out on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. He normally works out for a few hours (like 3 or 4) on these days and we have little time to talk before or after. He has a gym in our backyard and his friends come over and they work out for hours! It is basically understood that MWF are off limits for spending time as a family. It upsets me but I am not sure if I am overreacting. Does he spend too much time working out? Or do I just need to get over it? I don't know if this matters but we only have 1 child, she is my step-daughter and she only comes every other weekend. And yes, he still works out if she is here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I live in Chicago, and I fucking hate taxis. Like a lot. I swear to god those little yellow bastards are the source of all evil. The Holocaust? Taxis. Ebola? It was the taxis. My fourth grade teacher who told me my nose was big? Fucking taxis. \n\nI live in a 24th floor condo in Lincoln Park, and on one fine summer afternoon, I had a bowl of grapes, a balcony, and an opportunity. My burgers on the grill, I reclined in a lounge chair on the balcony and began my assault. I tossed my first grape at the first taxi, and missed. Of course, but hey, it's the thought that counts. \n\nA couple of grapes later, I tossed a juicy purple ball of death down, aiming for the sickening yellow roof of my sworn enemy, when along came a convertible. Nice car, I thought as the grape soared down to its target. Then the wind gusted. I lost sight of my weapon as it traveled to its final destination. I finally found it just before I saw the driver of the lovely white convertible swerve, clutching his bald head. I'm now holed up in my office after I heard sirens and saw a cop car pull over next to my accidental victim.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm at the end of my rope here and I could really use some advice on what to do. My girlfriend of 7 months is making me extremely unhappy and all talks to her about it pretty much end up with her telling me too, \"Stop being so emotional\". It really hurts when she says stuff like that. Now I'm not a pussy, in fact I hardly ever share my emotions but it was her idea to start with that I \"express myself\". So it's like what the fuck, you wanted me to be more open and now you don't wanna hear about it? But there's more. She won't touch me, kiss me and barely ever hugs me unless I instigate it and all attempts of me doing any of the latter end up with her shirking away or telling me to quit it. Sex is non-existant now while it used to be uncontrollable in the beginning. Every time I try to start something she says it's creepy, I'm being gross, or she's not in the mood. It fucking hurts to hear your significant other tell you your fucking disgusting to her. I really don't know what happened. When the relationship first started she was all over me and now it seems like she gives two shits. What am I supposed to do? I thought about ending it but we JUST signed a lease for a new apartment so I can't just up and leave for awhile. \n\nNot only that but money is HUGE to her. I recently moved in with her after transferring from my store back home to this location so I'm fiscally wiped out. And yes I did warn her about me not having a lot of money. She told me not to worry about it :(. Yet she rubs it in my face ALL THE TIME that she pays the majority of rent and bills. She also uses it as an argument ender, which is why it's so hard for me to even talk to her about this stuff. Hell she treats the Goddamn dog better than me, even if he is super adorable.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been seeing this guy I met at a local bar for around 2.5 months now. Things have been good-we have not put a label on anything, but we've been seeing each other once or twice a week (he travels for work and I just started a new job, so we're both pretty busy) and have had a great time. He has-based on general enthusiasm while being around me and physical affection-given me the impression that he is into me and I am happy to take it slow as far as labels and such go. This weekend, he cancelled a date we had planned and after I said I wasn't free later that weekend because I had a work meeting to prepare for, he stopped texting me back. We do usually talk a bit via text every day and he often initiates these conversations, but it's been radio silence for 3 days now, after he didn't text me back over the weekend.\n\nLast year, I got out of a 4 year relationship, so I am pretty new to the dating game and feeling a bit confused. I don't know if I am overthinking this because I like the guy or if something is up and I should consider asking him about it. Any insight or advice would greatly be appreciated, Reddit!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "No point in explaining how the accident went down. I was in a 3 car accident and the insurance companies put me at fault for the accident. I tried fighting this but I could tell it wasn't going anywhere..\n\nI live in California, and the accident took place in a fairly wealthy neighborhood. My car got t-boned and the first two other cars I hit were essentially totaled (mine included). The last car drove away with a dent. I only had partial insurance so my side of the insurance only covered a small portion of the damages. \n\nYesterday I received a letter from a law firm explaining that I need to pay the rest of the damages (something in the $11,000 range). I'm a poor college student and have never even seen half of that amount in my bank account. I'm too scared to even respond to that letter, I can't afford that much money and I know that there is probably going to be a second letter on the way..\n\nWhat do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "More of a literal misunderstanding:\nMy dad needed me to borrow a drill from my neighbors. I was good friends with one of the kids, \"Herpsworth Derpsdriguez\", that lived there. His family was very Dominican and most of them hardly speak English. \n\nSo I rang the doorbell hoping Herpsworth would answer. Instead it was his mother. She looked at me and I said to her \"I'm from next door Ms. Derpsdriguez, I'm wondering if you had a drill I could borrow.\"\n\nShe looked at me flabbergasted with horror and I stood there confused. After about a minute of staring and attempting to hold my fake smile, she finally exclaimed \"... DRUGS?\" and shut the door in my face.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because I don't know if the people I know, know that I reddit.\n\nOkay sort of backstory here, I dated a girl for a year and half and for my birthday in December we were planning on going on a Caribbean cruise with her parents. She ended up going to an out of state college at the beginning of September and she not only cheated on me, but said I was no longer allowed to go on the cruise, that was originally for my birthday, with her and her parents. The plane ticket to get to the cruise was a gift from her parents for my Graduation last June, and the cruise had already been paid for. Yet, I was still no longer allowed to go. I had talked to her Mom on whether she had even talked to her about it, and she hadn't talked to her prior to telling me I was kicked off. I even offered to reimburse her Mom for the plane ticket, but she insisted it was a gift that would go unused unfortunately.\n\nFast forward to now. I have a female friend I have known for over two years, and it occurred to her today that the cruise her and her family are going on just may be the same cruise I was supposed to go on. Aaaaand it is. She has talked to her parents about me going with them, and I have enough money for the cruise...but not for the plane ticket. Seeing as their daughter cheated on me and kicked me off a pre-paid for cruise/flight, would it be unreasonable for me to ask my ex's parents for my plane ticket?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened today.. \n\nobligatory: im the shy-est kid in my grade & i have a reputation of wearing tight clothing\n\nSo here I was, at my high school weightlifting class, surrounded by a bunch of girls doing 3-pound curl and guys doing 35pound-curls.\nI'm definitely not the most athletic of all guys, and although I have some muscle, a nice layer of fat created from vanilla ice cream and candy embraces all signs of muscle. Like any other gym, there are mirrors everywhere. I walk into the room confidently, chin up, staring down the girls lifting 3 pounds and being stared down by the guys lifting 35. I pick up some weights and turn to look at myself in the mirror.\nAnd there I saw it.\nI was wearing the tightest, most ridiculous looking t-shirt. My nipples were perfectly depicted, and all the fat around them just as well. \n[I looked like this](\n\nEveryone is staring at me. I do my thing, and everyone just keeps staring. At the end of the class, all the kids in the class made a remark on it. (Which is absolutely horrifying as a shy kid). \nON TOP OF THAT my teacher told me that he'd drop my grade to a B if I didn't stop wearing these types of shirts.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My experience was back in high school during the week that stride gum came out. I figured that since it was something new and different it would be easy to fool people into thinking something ridiculous about it. \n\nOne day i am sitting in the cafeteria with a pack of stride gum and I think up the perfect story. I turn to my friends and say \"Did you guys know that Stride gum wrappers are edible?\" and of course they laugh and call bullshit, but i do not back down so easily. \"Watch!\" i say as i stick a peppermint stride, wrapper and all, into my mouth and begin to chew. After about 30 seconds, i take the gum out, and to my amusement, the wrapper disappeared! the look of amazement on their faces made me feel like my mission was accomplished. \n\nWeeks pass by and i had almost forgotten about my prank when i take out a pack of stride gum in class and the girl next to me says, \"Did you know you could eat the wrapper on those things?\" i thought she had heard about my prank so i chuckled and asked her to show me. so she took some gum and chewed it took out the gum and showed the missing wrapper. I asked her how she knew this, and she told me a name i hadn't heard before. It made me wonder how far this thing went, so i started seeing how far this prank went. I asked around if people knew that stride gum wrappers were edible and to my surprise, the whole school knew, and most of them believed it! to this day i keep finding the news spreading. From different cities and states people will still tell me that they have heard about the edible wrappers!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my mom's birthday is the same day as my fiance's, which is a disastrous coincidence. What's worse is that my mom's 50th birthday is on the same day as my fiance's golden birthday. Now I'm in an impossible scenario. My fiance wants nothing more than to go out to eat with me, come home and sit on the couch and watch a movie, eat cake or ice cream or something, and of course open her nice thoughtful card and gift that I got her. \n\nMy mom wants everyone (me, my fiance, brother, sister-in law) to get together for her birthday and do something \"special,\" which really means bending over backwards and worshiping her all day while we do something stupid. The problem is I can't reconcile the two. My fiance doesn't want to spend her birthday hanging out with my annoying family, which is perfectly understandable, but my mom will probably freak out if I say that I can't do anything the day of her birthday.\n\nLast year I messed this up, I tried to celebrate my mom's birthday the day of her birthday and my fiance's birthday the day before, and it was apparently \"not special\" and what not. It seems that if you don't celebrate it on the right day then you might as well not be celebrating it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm going to start off by saying that this actually happened a few weeks ago, but I never thought to post it in here.\n\nI have a friend that lives in another country to me and let's just say that we aren't exactly shy with each other. Now, with that said, we do have Skype sex (if that's what you call it). This guy knows how to get me off and how to finish me by telling me to do the right things. \n\nI knew that I could squirt before I met this person, but damn, I never knew how much. To be as blunt as possible, he told me what fingers to use that could get me to squirt more. So there I was, lying on my bed with my laptop in front of me whilst I was at it, and once I began squirting I seriously could not control the direction of it. At the time I didn't care. It was fucking good. \n\nIt was afterwards that I noticed my fuck up. My laptop screen and whole keyboard was literally soaked. It looked like I spilt a cup of water over it. Instantly I knew it was broken. I cleaned it up so fast but keys began typing letters without being clicked and my screen was going crazy. When I did type, the wrong symbols would appear in relation to what keys I pressed. My friend told me to leave it to dry and it might work but found it hilarious overall. Next time I turned it on, a super loud beeping noise came out of my speakers during the start up screen. Still does this every so often as well.\n\nWeek after, I did it again on my phone screen (you would have thought I learnt my lesson) and now my charging port/sometimes my volume is fucked. \n\nI'm still suffering to this day. Currently saving for a new computer because my laptop is a piece of shit and enjoys typing crap all the time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened back in Highschool. Grade 10, to be exact; I'm Canadian, so that should be 16? Anyways, I was in PhysEd when our gym teacher gave us raffle tickets and told us to sell them.\n\nWell, I procrastinated hard, to the point that I didn't try selling anything in the two weeks, until just the night before. I started freaking out, and after managing to sell half my lot, I said \"Screw it, I tried.\" Well, just before giving the remaining tickets, and money to the teacher, I got nervous, so I bought three more tickets. ($2 a pop)\n\nThe next day is the day of the Highschool basketball game. I don't care for it, so I head home. I come back the next day and all my classmates are giving me dead pan stares. The teacher stares through my soul and in the most serious voice, he asks, \"Where were you yesterday?\" I'm confused, and told him the truth.\n\nI find out that of the three prizes, I won two. The first being courtside seats on a freaking couch they pushed into the gym, as well as a private box of pizza and sodas for myself and one friend. Second prize was an authentic, Vince Carter signed basketball.\n\nI lost the couch prize, but the teacher saved the ball for me. The entire class was pissed, and the teacher just exclaims, \"You're fucking lucky as hell, you know that?\" (He was a chill dude)\n\nI was leaving the school, and was about to tear apart the packaging to play with the basketball, when the same teacher and a few others exclaimed and ran to me. They started having a betting war right in front of me. The price went as high as $100.\nI declined the offers, and just took the ball home and showed my parents. They offered to keep it stored.\n\nI didn't want to, I know Vince Carter would have wanted me to play with it, but when everyone makes a big deal about it, what can you do as a kid? I'll take a picture of the ball when I can, it's still with my parents. I've moved out when I married.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (22f) am in love with my ex(30m). We were together for a year but broke up a few times at his choosing over him not knowing what he wants. He keeps saying he wants to focus on career and himself and that we're at different points in life. We have been separated for about 3weeks now, but have hung out numerous time and I ended up staying the night and being cute etc. He told me that I am perfect and did absolutely everything right, and that he thinks there is something off with him because he was unable to fully \"click\" with me. When we are together we are both laughing and having fun and confiding in one another, and we're both super compatible in bed, and it just seems so perfect. But the next day it's like a switch flips and he'll start ignoring me and being short...I just don't know what to do or think. I am seriously in love with this guy, and would do anything for him, and it hurts knowing that he's looking for something else, however I want to be his friend because he became my best friend. The only person I can tell anything to and know he won't judge me. I'll tell him I want to go to dinner as friends, but then he'll kiss me and it will escalate and he'll act like we're together. And the next day, or a few days later...bam! Back to pretending I don't exist. What do I do? :/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little background: I (M 31) met up with a woman my age a few months ago in a class we were taking in preparation for going to the university (yes, a bit late for both of us, different topic). We got along really well and she ended up confessing to me and we became a couple. There was a catch: She is married and they have a kid, but her husband is abusive and she has been planning on leaving him. Because I didn't want to be a \"pulling factor\" on her relationship more than I already was, we agreed on keeping it FWB.\n\nObviously we fell head over heels for eachother, though her moreso than I, I think. Yesterday she started fishing for what I would do if I could choose and if it was up to me, and I suspect she wanted me to say she should leave her husband. I said that ideally, I wish she managed to get things working with her husband and for their kid's sake, and maybe I could find someone who could measure up to her. Perharps not the most elegant way of putting it, but it's what I said in the moment as I still thought we were keeping it casual FWB. It was then it became more apparent how attached to me she was as she was absolutely devastated.\n\nA second catch: We have both signed up for a year-long class this year, related to the one we met in. It's too late for any of us to change or go to a different place.\n\nHonestly I would be fine just distantiating myself while being around her. I care for her a lot but have managed to keep it FWB and would be fine degrading it to just friends again. It's different for her though. She's still in tears every time she calls me, says it's best if she never sees me again, how nobody wants her, and gets upset at the notion of staying friends since it's no cure for her broken heart.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A student in my careers class today drew a 2D war scene with stick figures. All stick figures with little rocket launchers, etc. The student had drawn it after the lesson during a sort of free bit of time. The teacher confiscated the drawing, sent it to the administration and cited that he had violated the safe schools act of Ontario.\n\nIs this true? What will happen? I feel this is a bunch of crap, especially since earlier in the class, he was joking with a friend, to which the friend responded that he would punch him. The teacher turned and said that she \"Wishes (he) could punch (the student) because it would be nice and (the student) deserves it, but there is a safe schools act in place that permits it\"\n\nThe very act he is being accused of violating was basically tossed out the window there! The teacher incited violence against him! What can happen to the teacher and the student? What can he do so he is not wrongfully accused. The police may possibly be involved, to which I've already informed him not to speak to, as to not place guilt on himself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Noticed around noon that my greyhound had two tiny lumps within her mouth, and by 2pm they had swollen up to about the size of a golf ball. We took her to the emergency vet since our regular one was booked for the day, and they told us basically just to keep her on the Rimadyl and Tramadol she was already on and there was nothing they could do without surgery. \nI'm a little concerned; they said she'd be fine until we were able to take her the our normal vet on Monday, but the medicine doesn't seem to be doing anything and her mouth is just as swollen as it was before. The vet seemed very rushed and mostly just looked at her bloodwork and that was it. Is there a way they could drain some of the fluid to make her more comfortable? She can't eat because it's so swollen and I'm afraid it's going to make it hard for her to drink as well. \nI just feel really unsatisfied with the way that the emergency vet handled this and I'm looking for advice. Does anyone know how much this surgery tends to cost/other treatments? She's really old and I'd love to avoid major surgery if at all possible.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So occasionally when I[22/F] hang out with a good friend[24/M] (No flirting he knows my boyfriend) I caught him staring on a few different occasions. We've been friends for a year. I don't wear low cut shirts, but when I bend over to pick something up and look up he's staring. If I put my knees up to my chest when we're watching a movie on the couch he looks over. It's not even a subtle look just a blank stare. I don't know how to act it makes me feel awkward and uncomfortable. \nI called him out on it once and he said he wasn't staring.. So I'm not too sure how to bring this to his attention. Any ideas?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's very small (like, a couple of mm in diameter) and about 2 cm to the left of the centre of my right ear. Wasn't worried about it, looked it up when I first noticed it like a couple of months ago, checked again and its still there. Pushing it is painless, it's kinda squishy.\n\nJust found another one I think? It's like, less than a mm in diameter, about half a cm from my right ear and also painless and squishy. Think it's near a vein or something, pushing the area down like... does something. I don't like biology much.\n\nI was ill with something a while ago and didn't go to a doctor about it (since I'm in the uk maybe I should've taken advantage of it) and it was the illest I've been in my life that I remember. Kept going to school which didn't help. From what I remember, throat was super painful, and walking home gave me super painful headaches. Also had like, slightly white things in my throat? It was kinda like strep throat I think, but not super like it. Only thing that might be linked somehow. Thing is, the lump appeared a while after it- several months.\n\nNo other symptoms with these lumps. Just wanna see possible causes, since googling them isn't giving me super clear choices.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I feel weird asking this, but here it goes. Whenever something falls down, comes towards me, or moves quickly in my direct line of sight I move to intercept it involuntarily. For example, in the shower if soap leaves my hands I usually kick it into the air to catch it. If a can falls off of a tale I usually reach to grab it (and I usually catch it). If I drop my phone I usually catch it with my foot. My friend just threw a Now 'n Later candy at me and I caught it before it hit me in the man-tit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Loseit, I have for you a success story gone awry.\n\nIn my sophomore year of high school, I finally realized I was fat. It had never occurred to me before until I saw myself in a video. I was 180 pounds. I was shocked by how obese I was. I decided to do something about it. I wasn't really sure how to go about it, but started watching what I ate, walking more, took a dance class or two, but didn't get really serious about it until just after high school. a\n\nIt was the year after high school I became something of a gym rat. I got addicted to bike riding and would hit the gym every day without fail, just because of how good it felt. I lost a lot of inches (not much weight, what with building so much muscle from dance, running and biking, but I did go from a size 12-14 to a size 10.\n\nI was steadily making my way down to a size 8 and very happy with my progress and how great I felt.\n\n[Cue the \"gone awry\" part.]\n\nI moved to New York for volunteer work and (long story short) had a nightmarish experience. I gained so much weight that I am now the heaviest I have ever been in my life.\n\nI am at a size 14 and hate everything about that. I am shaking off some PTSD from my experience and I believe in order to be healthy again mentally, I need to lose all the weight I brought back with me.\n\nHelp me, Loseit! None of my clothes fit! What tips do you have for a beginner in her early twenties who went from this confident girl:\n\n \n \n \n\nTo this new frightened and unhealthy version:", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When we started living together my income was low and he managed the bills. As time went on i started seeing late payment notices and to avoid fights when i found them I decided to take over the money management. He was given $200 a month as a free spending allowance. I knew he had some money issues in the past, credit card dept and a defaulted loan, all paid off before we met. So i should have realized he has some spending issues.\n\nLast year he received two large raises and a job change and i received a substantial pay raise as well. Our household income went from 50k to 100k. After a year of agressively paying down his student loans we now have between the house and his loans we have 97k in debt. Because out monthly bills haven't increased I want to pay off debts and work on saving for an emergency fund.\n\nThe issues started when my husband realized how much we now made. He has always been a generous man, but now he buys people food when he is out with his friends. He feels that because we make more we can spend more. He also has been buying alot of video games, eating out, splurging on groceries. \n\ni want him to cut down on his spending but when i bring up when he goes over on stuff it always ends up like im the bad guy. I need a better way to get it into his head that we cant just spend all the new money. To make maters worse one of our cars got totaled and we cleared out our savings (not the emergency fund) to buy a used one. I told him we have to live tight for a while and the next day he is asking if we can go out to sushi!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am posting here in hopes that I can get some advice from anyone who has gone through or is in the same situation as I am. Here is the basics:\n\nI graduated university about 1 year ago with a Bachelors degree in Mathematics. After graduating I looked for a jobs for about 3 months with no success.\n\nI have a minor in Computer Science, so I was searching for jobs in the technical area. Anything from web developer, to IT desk, to QA analyst.\n\n At that point I literally had no relevant job experience (Only working part-time and summer jobs as a student)\n\nAfter applying to 80+ jobs and getting less than 5 responses I went back to my old summer job as a landscaper. I was then able to find a small start up company that I could volunteer at as a web developer. \n\nFast-forward 6 months, I am still at the start-up full-time, but I cannot go much longer without any income. I also don't feel like the experience I am getting is very valuable. This company is very unstructured and I have no \"mentor\" in terms of programming, I am often the go-to guy when it comes to problems. I continue to apply for jobs, but with no success. \n\nMy question is, what are my options? I have enough money saved up I could go back to school but which program? Should I go to college, try and get into a Master program? or even a 2nd bachelors?\n(I'm from Canada, so college is like a lower tier University here, usually with more practical courses while Universities offer more theoretical courses)\n\nShould I stick it out in hopes this experience will land me a new job? \n\nIt's not the worst situation to be in, but I feel like I will have to do something soon. \n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dated a girl for a little over 6 months. She broke up with me because I wasn't able to open up and be normal. I have always found it hard to express my feelings to people (friends, family, etc). We have to see eachother a lot becasue she is still friends with my friends and me I suppose.\n\nA week ago I had a suspicion that her and my roomate did something. I wasn't sure what though. I asked them about the night in question but didn't explicately ask them if they did anything. Neither of them said anything. Yesterday my friend told me that he heard something about it. I aske my roomate and he told me no he didn't. I then asked my ex she said they kissed when they were drunk at a party. My roomate finally came up to me and wants to talk tonignt.\n\nThis entire time I have been feeling like asking any of these questions to her would ruin her day, which it sounds like it did. My roomate want's to talk to me tonight over a beer to fully explain how it happened. And the fucked up thing is this entire time I still love my ex and still want to be with her. Sorry this has become a wall of text I guess.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It rained!!! (Guess where I'm from) I got my drivers permit about 2 months ago, bought a car two weeks later with my hard earned money from the summer. The car was shitty to others but a full blown race car to me. Looked like crap but ran like a champ. Anyways, I have never driven in the rain so I knew I'll run into trouble on my way back home from work. Hydro planing sounded familiar to me but never knew it's real consequences. Coming up to my turn where for a good mile (in Dominic torretto voice) I'm free. On the turn there was a huge size puddle of water. I tried to avoid it completly but knew and figured that the front right tire will hit the water. Remember that word \"hydroplane\", yeah I fucked up. The left front tire went over then sunk, causing me the turn into the side of the road. Closer to the edge, the water is deeper. My engine choked, I'm really fucked. Knew trying to keep turning the key will only make things worst. I got out, in ankle deep water, had the bitch in neutral and pushed to the corner of the turn. On the bright side of this whole predicament, a trucker got out of his rig and helped me push the water logged car to the edge. Once out of the water, I tried to give life to my racecar. Once she turned back on I booked it home. Ran the same as before except for a knocking noise. The noise just hurts thinking about it. From the advice from other gearheads, it can't be easy to fix or safe to use without causing more damage. Already made a craigslist ad to at least get some money for another one. F you \"EL NINO\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have only been dating for 2 months and already I feel that i am making more effort than him. These couple days i have noticed that he dosen't hold or kiss or come near me like he used to.\n\nHe dosen't hold my hand as much. I feel like i am his friend rather than his girlfriend. I have told him how i feel and he responded to me that people dont have to kiss and hug all the time and that just once is normal. which i honestly dont agree with that. \n\nHe also said that hes got into a routine with having a girlfriend and dosebt have to do the things he did at the begging. \n\nWhen i told him that he made me feel special at the beginning and now hes distant and i feel like hes pushing me away, he replied with 'well thats just me, i cant manage yout emotions for you, you yourself can control/adapt them'. \n\nThat really hurt me these words that hes not even willing to do the little things he did like sweet text messages or calls etc I dont want gifts etc just for him to show me affection.\n\nNot too much to ask is it? Its just making me think now if this is a guy i wanna be with", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(Original post here: )\n\nWell, I didn't use a throwaway account because I didn't know that he knew my username. He saw that I was typing something long on reddit that day and decided to take a look at my submissions.\n\nMy previous post aparently helped him gain some insight as to just how deeply I was effected by his actions. I can understand how he might not have taken my breakdowns as a sign that I was feeling destroyed by this situation, because I do sometimes have depressive moodswings that have no cause and result in a crying jag, and when I did breakdown over this I rarely tried to express why. \n\nBut when he read my post, he was able to read my side of the argument as if he were an unbiased third party. He has a much better understanding of why I needed him to get rid of her.\n\nHe immediately removed her from everything and apologized and held me really tight and didn't want to let go. He said that he never, ever, wants me to feel like I need to leave him.\n\nPersonally, I've decided that the reason that he refused to cut ties is because of his pride. I think that he likely really did hide that folder out of spite. I think that he didn't stop initiating that occasional contact for the same reason. And I think he kept her as a friend on Facebook for that reason as well. I fully believe that he just hates being told what to do, and doesn't want to feel controlled or \"whipped\". None of this is based on anything he said, but it's my opinion based on his personality.\n\nThe argument is over and I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. No anxiety attack, no anger, no feelings of insecurity thus far.\n\nIt's going to take a very long time for me to trust him again, even in the slightest. In fact, there's a big chance that he'll never have my FULL trust again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, first of all, I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me back. I wouldn't be at all surprised if we end up together forever.\n\nBUT at the same time, we're only 20. We're going into our senior year of college. He's been abroad this semester, so we haven't seen each other since January, but that's only made me more committed to the relationship and sure that it's what I want.\n\nI know we could both probably end up working/going to grad school in the same city and be happy after graduation, but at the same time, I feel like I should travel/take the best grad school or job offer I get regardless of where he is (and I think he should do the same), especially while we're young.\n\nBut also, I don't know if I would be happy doing those things without him. I know how difficult long distance is, and he's really important to me, but I also know that we can make it work whatever we decide.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my gf and I have been dating for 5 months and it has been incredible. She is honestly the sweetest, best person I have met, and we just click! I am currently in a crazy part of my schooling where I am constantly busy. She has been amazing with it, has never nagged me when all I could do was come over and study, and for that I am so grateful as school has cost me 2 relationships already.\n\nWell she has been wanting to move to a city 2 hours away from us since I met her, I just never thought it would happen this fast. I have been planning on moving to the same city for about 2 years now, just need to finish my schooling. Well she just got offered a job so will probably be moving in the next few weeks. I am beyond excited for her, but I am stuck here until August at the earliest. After this term my crazy schedule calms down ALOT, so that will let me go and see her.\n\nWe have both talked, and we both love where the relationship is, and want to do the long distance thing until I move to the same city. She has done the long distance thing before and said it was bad, it was a few states away, for a year and a half, and was hesitant to do it again, understandably. We talked and I said I am not 20 hours or more away, I am 2. This isn't for a year and a half with no end it sight, it's until August or september, I have planned to move there as well since before I met her so it wouldn't be me following her. She then sounded much more at ease about the situation. \n\nWhat I am wanting to know is how can I make a LDR work well? I plan on visiting her whenever I get a chance, which is sparingly, but what else can I do? This girl is seriously wonderful so I want to make this as easy for her as possible.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "2 years ago a friend of 3 yrs started hitting on me, proposing a FWB situation and being very clear on the boundaries. At first I declined because I'm not very experienced so I felt like he could find someone else. I gradually became more accustomed to the idea so basically in the last 2 years I've been in a quasi-FWB situation. We fooled around several times but he was always the one to get off. He never pressured me into sex or expected it, which was nice.\n\nBut when I wanted to start fooling around more and was ready to have sex with him he was never in the mood or wouldn't respond. He's said that his arousal comes and goes for him, I think partially because of emotional baggage from his last relationship. It just made me feel used. Being sexually and emotionally frustrated sucks, but we've talked a lot about the issue without any formal resolution. Some things got resolved, but not everything. I felt less used because he was really open and honest and vulnerable with me.\n\nSomething that has somewhat complicated things is that I started to develop a crush on him. It lasted about a month and we talked about it. I am over it now because a relationship with him is unrealistic and not what I'm looking for but I do get a little jealous when I see other girls flirting with him (I usually just walk away in that situation). But as far as I know he hasn't hooked up with anyone since we've been fooling around.\n\nThis is just a mess of a situation I should just walk away from, right? Our friendship seems to be fine. But the next time he's in the mood, I'm just not going to engage. Because our relationship is really unbalanced and it's kind of not fair to me in my opinion.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm sorry for the wave of text you're about to receive. I'm going to keep this as short as possible. We've been together 3 months, and have been fighting like crazy. I work full time(50+hrs/week), and she works/goes to school full time\n\n.\nBefore we got together, she said that school comes first and foremost, and I agreed. So the relationship as a whole went great, we were hanging out a lot, sex was awesome, and for the 1st time in my life I felt truly happy. Well the sex slowed to an eventual stop. She started pulling away from me. This was off and on until a few weeks, and I noticed something was up, then she basically told me how she was super stressed and needed space.\n\nI asked her if her feelings for me changed, and she said they weren't as strong as they were a month ago. I gave her the chance on multiple times to end it, but she didn't. After a week of hell, she sent me a long drawn out text saying how she felt like she was dragging a ball of chain, and how she felt like she had to report to me because I'd ask her questions like, how was your day?, what are you up to?, she didn't like small talk texting everyday because it was distracting.\n\nI would ask her to hangout on certain days that way I can still see her and give her the space she needs. She said that ultimately that wasn't reasonable for her, and that all she asked is for time to sort her shit out. Since the text, we went out to dinner, and still say goodnight/morning and talk a little bit, but I want to get back to where we were.\n\nI have been fighting through this because ultimately I feel that this is worth fighting for, and I don't simply believe in giving up and breaking up when things get rough. She doesn't take any bs, so I feel as though if she were going to break up with me after all this shit, she would have by now. Ultimately I need help reddit, what can I do to fix this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So when I was 6 (11 years ago) I was staying with my Grandma because my parents had left town for a business trip and we decided to watch a movie. So her and my sister left to go find one. They came back after renting a movie and put it in. Now as a kid I was a huge pussy, like scared of his own shadow kind of thing. Now if you had read the Goosbump stories as a little kid you will know they are actually fucked.. well my sister had gotten the movie \"The Werewolf of Fever Swamp\" and after about 25 minutes of watching the movie I was fucking terrified. My sister got to scared and went upstairs and it was only me sitting on the couch in a dark room shitting my pants. Now I would of gone upstairs but I was to scared to turn my head (yes I was a pussy) fearing that their was a Werewolf sitting right behind me getting ready to eat me as soon as I looked backwards. Now if you have seen the movie then you would know that their is a scene when the character is running from the Werewolf and the Werewolf falls into a pit of quicksand or something. Well I had recurring nightmares until I was 14 from that scene. I would wake up in a swamp and see a Werewolf running at me and I would start to run away, the Werewolf would easily catch me and then try to eat my face and as it went in for the bite I would wake up sweating and terrified. Eventually these went away after I watched the \"Haunting of Connecticut\" and yes I did go run into my parents room crying about fucking dead people.. oh god how young and innocent and such a huge pussy I was.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I went out to a bar last night with a coworker, her boyfriend, and her cousin. The night started off okay, me and the cousin where chatting and getting along pretty well. Then her 'ex' (they talked for a while but he told her he wasn't looking for anything serious) showed up and they spent a while talking to each other. He eventually left and I ignored her for a while (I mean c'mon she shunned me for an ex). Next thing I know she grabs my hand and we are alone outside the bar making out (I assumed it was a \"I hate me ex I'll just make out with you\" type thing, but she is cute and I had a few drinks in me so I went with it).\n\nAfter the kissing ended I mentioned her ex and she apologized profusely and said she had no idea he was going to be there and she just isn't sure how to act around him yet. She said it's totally over between them. We talk about how we both are looking for a real relationship and we are definitely interested in getting to know each other more. We exchange numbers and make plans to see each other today, but nothing was set in concrete. My coworker asks me today what I thought of her, I said she's pretty cool and ask if she said anything about me, apparently \"i'm a good kisser\". \n\nSo I call her this afternoon and ask about a time to hang out, she says she is going to lunch with a friend and will get in touch afterwards and let me know a good time (I was at work till later the evening anyway). She then texts me a few hours later saying she forgot she had plans with a friend and she is free tomorrow if we want to get together then. Now I have become pretty jaded with dating and the opposite sex in general, so I immediately doubted her \"prior plans\". Not too mention I'm not the most confident person in the world so I immediately assume that she's blowing me off. \n\nAm I over thinking things? Do I have legitimate concerns? I'm definitely interested in this girl and I want things to work, but I don't want to waste my time either.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my SO and I have been together for two years and a bit, we're pretty close and I've never met someone quite like him. He's proposed to me, and am now engaged. But to the meat of the story... SO got quite sick for the last few months and I was his primary caregiver during that time, he wasn't able to work or do much without assistance. He was on heavy medications as well. So now he's feeling much better, meds are gone, he's basically back to normal. I get a message this morning as I go into work that he's made a picture -SO is an artist- for his friend who helped him while he was sick. The friend had drawn him something a week prior to this and he basically exploded with gratitude and happiness -I'm an artist too and drew a few things for him while he was sick but never received the reaction his friend got- so to say it stung that, despite everything I'd done for him, all the time, effort, pain and hard work I'd been through just for him. I'm not even the first one he does anything for. \n\nI know I sound petty, but the months he was sick were probably the hardest of my life. I had to maintain my job, plus take care of him. I even ended up getting sick myself with a stress induced attack once. \n\nAm I really being a petty jealous girlfriend? ;-;", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband (26) and I (22) have been married for 2 years now and I'm starting to regret it (which is a thought I really don't want to be having). On average, I'd say we fight about 4 times a week.\n\nThe minimum wage job he's at now makes him miserable, which he takes out on me by either shouting or ignoring me all night. I set up an online CV for him so he can find a new job, but he refuses to even look at it. If it isn't coaching, he's not interested. Problem is, he's out of shape and has no experience in the field (unless you count playing NCAA/Madden obsessively...).\n\nLast summer, he told everyone that he had gotten a coaching job when he had only briefly spoken to the employer. I had suggested he keep it to himself until he had the job in writing, but he completely ignored that. Obviously, he didn't get the job and the fallout was very awkward, to say the least. He also got even more depressed and we fought every night, without fail, for weeks.\n\nThis year, I decided to get involved and encouraged him to come running with me. He didn't want to - said he didn't have time - and spends all night playing games or watching TV instead. He did buy one of those fitness programs, but only used it for about a week before giving up.\n\nI love him, but I can't take much more of his laziness.\nAs a brief example, which is pretty typical behavior - I went abroad for 6 months, leaving him alone with our new puppy. I came back to find he had moved our entire living room into the bedroom, shut himself in there and not taken the puppy outside at all. Our carpet is completely ruined, as you can imagine, and the puppy has a lot of issues due to the neglect.\n\nI really don't know what to do and walking out isn't an option right now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "He met this girl at his old job.\n\nShe posted booty pics, bikini pics and constant selfies on her Instagram, and my boyfriend likes every single one of them. \n\nWe've had discussions in the past about his Instagram activity - him following scantily clad models and porn stars which I've said makes me feel uncomfortable because of the level of interaction there. \n\nHe has this girls number and has her on snapchat and Facebook etc, and him liking her bikini pics and booty pics makes me uncomfortable.\n\nHe had a previous friend who posted nudes on her twitter constantly, which made me uncomfortable but I feel like I can't tell him to unfollow his friends so I didn't say anything - for other reasons they are no longer friends and don't talk anymore, so she's off all of his social media, but I feel like this other girl is heading the same way. I can't tell him not to be friends with people but I dislike that he's liking these photos.\n\nAm I being unreasonable? What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically...my boyfriend cheated, in my eyes. He got emotionally involved with an ex and I caught him. He was aware I was sensitive about this ex and he disregarded my emotions and continued talking to her in a sexual manner. He has said sorry and promised to stop contacting her and I think he has, to an extent. But he has moved away since for a new job opportunity and wants me to move with him when I'm done with school. Meanwhile I'm constantly worried he is being unfaithful....one of the conditions we made when resolving the lying with his ex was that he would be completely transparent and open with me about things. I thought over communication would help with our long distance and trust issues and he agreed. He promised he would talk to me about where he was and who he's with just so we can build trust and to include me in his day to day life.\n\nBut he's not been as open as he said he would be. He withholds names (I think he thinks I'll freak if he's with a woman) but the fact that he's hiding things is what's bothering me. I just don't know how to stop jumping to conclusions after what happened between us.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work security at a apartment complex and for about 3 weeks there was this girl who would come outside to read and smoke. Now I got used to seeing her between patrols and she would usually be out for a couple hours. We started talking and it seemed we had a lot in common and would often spend 20-40 minutes talking a night. \n\nFast forward to last week and as she was getting ready to head inside I asked \"hey, can I take you out for drinks sometime?\" To which she said \"yes\". Since than I have seen her in passing 3 times and she has seemed short with me though still nice(like she didn't seem annoyed by my presence). I also noticed that where she would spend hours outside in the place where we would talk, she now only spends a couple minutes there and than heads back in (one of my patrols has a view of the area) and I'll see here there from time to time. \n\nNow I feel like she's avoiding me, but I am concerned about why she didn't just say \"no\" when I asked her to go get drinks? \n\nThe last girl I asked on a date said yes and than pretty much stopped responding to my texts. (I asked her out face to face)., so I am wondering if my mind is just causing useless worry because of that. \n\nIf I ever see her in her smoking spot part of me wants to jokingly say \"hey, you're here, I thought I may have scared you off\" but I don't think that will be a funny way to address it if I have made her uncomfortable. \n\nAny advise/opinions, especially from female redditors would be great.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit,\n\nSorry if this isn't the right place for this. I think I saw a thread with a similar question but I can't seem to find it now so any advice is appreciated.\n\nI started seeing my BF about 3 months ago and he is really incredible. He's witty and kind and I find him incredibly, incredibly handsome and dashing. I think I'm a fairly average looking woman and get hit on from time to time, but I've noticed that it has gotten more aggressive or nasty with my boyfriend around? When a guy hits on me, I'll usually just say thank you but I'm not interested or I have a boyfriend. If my boyfriend is there with me, some guys will give him a full once over and say something along the lines of \"This guy?\" or \"You're outta his league\" or \"I could show you a better time\". Something completely disrespectful to my bf. I don't know where it's coming and he doesn't usually react. I'm not the most confident person so I'll usually just say that was rude or ignore it, but I want to know how I could react or what I could do to reassure my bf in those times. I know if it were me, I'd probably be a bit self conscious or upset but he hasn't said anything. I've tried to bring it up but he brushes it off like it isn't a big deal and maybe it isn't. I don't want to make it seem like a big deal if he's actually not upset, but I also want to make sure he's feeling good about us after this.\n\nSorry for the rambling! So people of reddit, I'm just wondering how you would like your SO to respond to those guys or what you'd like him/her to do afterwards or say to make you feel secure in the relationship.\n\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been going out with this girl for a year and a half during sixth form. We went to the same school for two years and now we've both gone to university. The main problem with the situation is that she has remained in the home country but I've gone abroad and my degree is for 6 years, so I'll be here for a while. Now, we'd previously decided to just break it off soon as summer was over and just stay friends, but now I've been regretting that decision. My question is if any of you think that an open-ish relationship is a good idea? Basic principle of it is that when we are separate, we talk to each other etc but what any of us does on nights out doesn't matter. Then, when we're back together for xmas easter and summer we date like normal. If not feasible, are there any suggestions? I'm basically just looking for any advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So i love my music but im on a budget. Being in grade 12 im saving up for expenses that are going to be placed upon me next year at university. i've managed to get a pretty decent second hand subwoofer and have hooked it to my computer with some unorthodox wiring. the standard pc speakers i use have a connection from the left speaker to the right speaker. the right speaker contains the wolume and tone knobs, the port up the back of the right channel speaker that is supposed to lead to the left channel happens to fit the cord for the sweet subwoofer i salvaged. What i want now is to set up my sound drivers so that the left channel (my subwoofer) only recieves signals that are below 500 hz (the deeper sounds i'd like to be produced) and all other sounds besides them (or all ranges of frequencies) to be played by the right channel. This essentially will give me a mono music experience, but it will make the best use of my subwoofer. I'd like suggestions for different types of programs that i can do this with, i'd prefer that be a global driver so that it automatically works with every sound produced by any program, but i'll accept it just happeneing with my itunes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm an introvert guy and usually I'm happy alone but for the past few weeks, I've been very lonely. I don't have any close friends so I don't have anyone to talk to most of the time. Last 3 or so weeks, a coworker of mine asked me to hang out with her after work and I went with her. I think she's also a bit lonely since she's new to the city and doesn't have friends yet. Her boyfriend is temporarily in another city for a contract job. Our cubicles at work are pretty much beside each other so we see each other a lot during the day.\n\nI found that I enjoyed talking to her and she said that she enjoyed hanging out with me as well. So, we've been hanging out a lot after work since then. We would go take a walk in the park, watch a movie, etc and we talk about pretty much anything. She talks about her boyfriend a lot too and I'm genuinely interested in hearing about it --their story, triumphs, and problems as well.\n\nI was happy about all this until lately I've started having feelings for her. What kind of feelings? I'm starting to really really like her and I even get sad and a bit jealous when she hangs out with someone else a lot. There, I realized I am totally fucked. I want her to just be a friend, nothing more, out of respect to her man as well.\n\nWhat the hell do I do now? My mind is just flat: \"No, this is stupid, nothing will ever happen to us, not in a million years, not fucking ever.\" But my emotions can't be controlled.. I don't know how to deal with this. Will I kiss her if she offers right now? Absolutely not. But I think about her a lot when I'm not at work and it just saddens me. Can I get some advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Recently (this past month), my girlfriend has been hanging out a bit with a guy who tried to ask her out earlier this year. They have been friends for as long as her and I have been dating, and I found out in late-2011 that she had a bit of a crush on him. I expressed how that made me feel a bit uncomfortable in a calm way at that time and she understood. They didn't talk quite as much and that made me feel a bit better. \n\nFast forward to earlier this month, they are both in our school's choir program and went on a field trip to sing. It went until later in the day, and the guy offered my girlfriend a ride home. Since he had tried to ask her out earlier this year, that made me feel a bit uncomfortable, but I let it slide. They went to the movies, and he paid for the both of them before she was home, which added to the jealousy a bit. \n\nYesterday was the last day of our school year, and she told me that she was going to the guy's house to watch some old movie. I told her I felt it was inappropriate, and we then went back and forth a bit before she called me stupid. Childishly enough, I just shouted the insult back at her. She stormed off, and we haven't spoken since. I'm not sure what to do; we've been together a long time and I feel very strongly for her, but knowing her, this kind of event will happen many times throughout this summer. I don't know if I can trust her, and I kind of want to break it off at this point. I'd really like some outside opinions on this matter. I understand this may sound a bit childish, but I could really use advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll start, but I'm sure there are better stories out there.\n\nI recently dated a girl, who I had high hopes for; she was quite interesting, sensual and fun. Unfortunately, she had a past/baggage that really affected her on a daily basis. In terms of social behaviour, she just wouldn't have fit in with my family or friends... In addition our long term goals were not the same. Problem was, I liked her a bunch and it was hard to come to grips and tell her how I really felt. In the end, I told her everything and was probably too straight forward, and really hurt her feelings... But I knew it had to be that way or it wouldn't be \"final\"... Anyways it worked, was called a real asshole. I don't regret it, thinking it was better off this way, but still made me feel like crap.\n\nAnyways probably more amusing stories out there than this sappy one. Let's hear it!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey /r/relationships, I'd first like to say that this is my first post and I see lots of great advice in this sub and so I wanted to say thank you!\n\nSo I've been going to my local grocery store for a while now (Albertsons) and there's a super cute girl who works there. I've never really talked to her and I know nothing about her, but I'd really like to try talking to her somehow and see how things go.\n\nI wanted to perhaps bring her a coffee one day but I fear that's a little too weird or awkward to just do out of the blue. I don't really know how I can go about approaching her, or what I would say. I'm really nervous to meet her but I really want to.\n\nWhat is the easiest, or perhaps just most smooth way of going about trying to meet her and maybe flirt a little bit? Somehow ending up with her phone number would be the best outcome :)\n\nAgain, thank you so much for the advice!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Been with him for a year now, we broke up for other reasons around 5/14, however decided a week or so ago to try and work things out. Prior to breaking up, I had a lot going on so I never got to tell him how much his traveling got to me. Upon figuring out details for a 4th of July trip, his ability to travel came up again. His parents work for airline companies so, as a son, he gets to fly anywhere for free, and has since he was very small. He works at a construction company and does really well there, and has worked to be able to take time off almost whenever he wishes and get proper vacation time. I work part time and am actively looking for full time employment. In the mean time, I cannot take off work without typical office etiquette (putting it in at least 3 weeks prior, giving notice, etc), and to be honest, I can't afford to take time off as a part-timer as I get no benefits. So I lose almost half my paychecks if I did that. This is on top of just not having a job, because whats the point of hiring someone for them to never be around? I can put in for some money to go on trips but I just don't have the cash to pay for my whole ticket. Upon explaining my difficulty dealing with this, he said that this was something that he would not compromise on, stating that he will take any and all opportunities to go places, even if it means I do not join him. He goes places at least 4 or 5 times a year. \n\nOverall, I'm not sure what I can do. I'm not even sure if I'm the person that is in the \"right\" in this situation. I really wanted to work things out with him and he with me, but being unable to share important moments like this with him hurts me, and I feel like its unfair of him to assume that I'll just be okay with being left behind while he's in another place having fun.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "alright so some background info - im 19 and just finished school, i live in australia and am going to college in a couple months in Canberra (australias capital). About 4 weeks back i went to Europe with my family - we went all over Europe on holiday (zermatt, then chamonee, then paris then...\n\nthen we got to saint brieuc. My sister went on French exchange there and had a lovely family with three sisters, (one 19 one 21 and one 24) my sister is now 23. Our plan was to stay there for 1 week (in their house because they insisted) and then it happened.I met the 19 year old and... i fell for her. the second i saw her i knew... Reddit, ive had girlfriends before but ive never met a girl who made me stutter like this, or a girl who made me so happy like she does and did..\nThe cutest thing about it was that we both had done 3 yrs of french and 3 yrs of english each, so our talking was very funny ^.^ and there was often a dictionary close by... for the longer sentences we used translators on iphone.\n\nnow to the question : \ni have dreamt of her every day since i got back from france, and every time i do i find myself smiling.\n\nReddit... what do i do?\nim not happy here, i cant find purpose in my life without her and even if she doesnt feel the same way just to be near her would be enough for me.. just to be her friend and see her smile...\nbut i dont have the money and my parents refuse to send me on any elaborate holidays... i also wouldnt be able to get along in france without knowing the language..\n\nim lost reddit... and ive come to you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend Danielle was engaged for 4 years in what I can only describe as an extremely toxic relationship (gaslighting and cheating galore in both directions). She finally broke up with him a little under a year ago, and quickly began dating someone new. I have only met the new guy (Mark) a couple of times, but they seem like a far better fit and like they are happy together.\n\nRecently Danielle told me that she wants to get pregnant in the next few months. I didn't say anything about this at the time, but there are a few reasons why I think this would be a bad idea.\n\nFirstly (and least significantly), her and Mark have only been together for about 5 months, and she started dating him really soon after she broke up with her fiance.\n\nSecondly, she isn't mentally stable. I'm not entirely sure what she has been diagnosed with, but it is something like borderline personality disorder or extreme depression. This manifests itself in the form of panic attacks, neurosis, depression and narcissism. She claims that she cannot afford medication, even though we live in a country where prescriptions are incredibly cheap, and you can get free repeat prescriptions. Her not being medicated has led to her being fired or quitting her last few jobs.\nI don't think she realises just how expensive and mentally draining having a child can be. I think it's important that she focuses on getting well before considering having children. I don't think it would be fair to bring up a child in the environment that she can currently offer it.\n\nShould I talk to her about my concerns, or would I be massively out of line for doing so? I'm not sure that she would react well or take what I say on board. I know another of my friends agrees with me, and would probably have another point or two to add, so I could potentially have back up if I were to talk to her. I love this girl and want what's best for her. We have been good friends for about 10 years now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi r/relationships. Some context.\n\nI'd been dating this girl around November last year; it didn't work out initially and we went our separate ways. She contacts again about a month ago and asks if I want to hang out; we do. This time it works out so much better than before; we'd both matured a lot due to finishing school, I'd recovered from depression, and it was really utterly fantastic. I really like this girl, but seeing as the US is cemented; we kinda grudgingly agreed to keep it very low-key and casual seeing as I'm away for so long.\n\nFast forward past some pretty awesome casual dates to tonight; where after it all she confesses that she really does truly like me (as i do her) and that she'd like us to date properly when I get back, in spite of me going to the US. Now; my dilemma. This girl is perfect for me in every fashion. Banter is on point; she's stunning, great sexual chemistry, and we really like one another.\n\nI wasnt gonna go out of my way to bang my way across US and Europe anyway; but I feel as if seeing I'm away for so long; it'd be bound to happen at some point (and she doesn't want me to put it all on hold for her while im gone). However; I'm kinda fiercely loyal, and I don't want to hurt her; but want it to happen when I get back. I also know that if she was to move on to someone else, it'd break my stupid little heart, despite how reasonable it is from her perspective.\n\nWe're not going to cut eachother off (we plan to be in constant contact); but naturally the lack of intimacy is an issue and we're not really suited to Long Distance Relationships. Help me out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We had been dating for a year, things we're going well but she was always a very flirty person. I developed trust issues because of her being so flirty so when we went to different colleges I pushed for a breakup.\n\nShe had been 100% willing to try and make long distance work, but I just couldn't get over my doubts. After a week apart, I realized I would always regret not at least trying to make things work, so I decided I'd try to get her back. I looked up a train route to her university, found a fancy pizza place(it's her favorite), and an ice skating rink in her area.\n\nI called her up that night, spilled my heart out and asked if she'd take me back. I explained that if she said yes, I'd take her on the best date of her life, and if she said no that she should know I'd still feel way better than I had been.\n\nShe told me that first I needed to know that the previous Friday she had a drunken one night stand attempting to get over me. She said she regretted it and that it meant nothing, but it crushed me. I thought the worst she could say was no, but this was far worse.\n\nIt had literally been days after our breakup, we had been talking the entire time, we had even said that we loved each other the night before. I still love her, but I don't know if I could ever forgive her. I know it wasn't really cheating because we didn't have a title, but it was like the first opportunity she had, she left me behind.\n\nI'm extremely emotional and distraught right now and I don't know what to tell her. Any advice/comments would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Every time i brought her ex up she told me a little more. Finally, tonight, she admitted to fooling around with him multiple times while we were dating.\n\nI feel terrible. I ended it and I know she's devastated. It hurt me saying goodbye. I feel dirty. I feel like I lived a lie for such a long time. \n\nOn top of all of this (i can't explain it and i know it makes no sense) but if anyone finds out that her and I were talking tonight, i can be fired. I work at a church and made a commitment to be single for a year to grow as a single man. I know it sounds crazy, please don't dwell on this portion. \n\nI have the option of telling my uplink that I broke my commitment to the church and come clean with a chance of being fired on the spot. I don't know what's worse. Living with the guilt and fear of getting found out... or telling them and coming clean with a chance of getting fired too.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "If you've seen the movie trailer for [Celeste and Jesse Forever]( about two best friends who are married and mutually decide to separate then that accurately describes my situation. We have known each other for nearly 10 years, dated for about 7 years and were only married for less than a year. We separated two months ago and she moved in with some friends a few weeks ago while I've stayed in our apartment.\n\nI've had my ups and downs during this time and had irrational worries and rational worries as well. This past week, I was at a low point and really missed our old way of life and made a plea to have another chance together. She insisted that it will never happen. I left the conversation by basically saying our friendship was over. Immediately after that, I snapped out of my mindset and realized that I didn't want to lose her as a friend because the bond we share there is very important in my life.\n\nI wrote an e-mail the next day apologizing and explaining that I do miss her in my life but that's because I miss our friendship most of all. I apologized for breaking her trust and told her that I really wanted to somehow regain that trust so we could be friends again. She told me that it will take time and that she doesn't want to \"lead me on\" by still being friends. I've tried to insist that I'm not trying to \"get her back\" but that I just want her as a friend in my life still... someone to joke with and ask for opinions about issues in my life that she's familiar with. I think I ruined that trust when I was at my low point and I'm being met with resistance now and imposed \"no contact\" type rules for the time being. I don't want to break those rules to hurt her trust again but it's also hurting me to not have her as an option to talk to.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's been well over six weeks since she (f 19) dumped me (m 19) and flew to another country to study over the break. But the new university semester is starting next week and I just know that we will eventually cross paths.\n\nWe dated for about a year and she was my best friend ever since we were first years. We had some trust issues and other trivial fights about her friends and her constant need to go partying and clubbing. I prefer quiet nights at home rather dark night clubs with crap music and drunks. I loved her very much but I was pushing her away with my distrust and paranoia... She couldn't handle it so she left me. She broke my heart.\n\nI study Engineering and Physics and she studies Law and Arts, so we'll unlikely bump into each other around campus. However the problem is that we are both apart of many common clubs and societies at uni. We are also executives for 2 certain societies, so I will inevitably see her board meeting and events... I don't know what to do... I don't think I will be able to face her... \n\nShould I skip out on these events and meetings? Should I attend? What do I do?!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So some background first. My family is a uber health conscious crazy about healthy food and I agree with that for the most part. But I can't just eat healthy food every day without a single bit of sugar. So I go to a fast food place once a month to get my fix. I usually eat it at home in the comfort of my computer playing games till my parents get home, but if they found out they would probably beat me for this. So I got a bright idea to burn the paper bag and wrapper that it comes in and carefully collect those ashes and throw it outside.\n\nI do this once a month and throw the ashes over some little flowers in my backyard. I do this steadily for a few months and nothing goes wrong. Well one day at school we have to take home this fish once a week or so to collect data on its habits. Well I take a fish home every week and then I always take it back to school the next day at 5 in the morning. Well my neighbors see me come home sometimes because they're this amazing old couple who just sits and watches the outdoors together and they probably see me come home with a fish every week or so.\n\nSo every week I take home a fish but since I leave so early they never see the fish leave my house. Then they see me in the afternoons after I come home go outside and spread some ashes over some flowers because in my mind I think ashes are good for plants so I do that, but this old couple thought I was cremating my dead fish and tossing their ashes once a month.\n\nBeing the amazingly nice people they are, after last weeks burning of evidence, they stop by and they're carrying a little fish tank with this beta fish in it and when I open the door they say they saw me spreading the ashes of my fish and hoped this fish would outlive the rest and then they said goodbye and left me there kinda shocked at what just happened. It was then that I realized that they thought my fish were tragically dying every month and that I kept replacing them in hopes of outliving the rest.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit! Thanks for reading my post.\n\nI personal view police officers an important resource in society and that having an officer in every school would be great. I have two reasons for this, one is that they can provide protection and the second is that they can be role models for kids that might not have one. So the protection part is pretty obvious, the officers have guns and bad guys avoid guns, but what people don't think about is that an officer can identify and take action against domestic violence. Another thing that gets overlooked is how much of a need there is for police outreach to kids in America and a police officer can do just that. By placing officers in schools you give the kids a chance to see that they are just normal people that want to help you, especially if you teach the cops how to tutor and put them in a basic Algebra class every now and then, that would turn so many lives around.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (27-year-old guy) started talking to a woman (25) online over the summer and she seemed to be perfect for me. We would talk on the phone for hours and had an amazing connection, had almost everything in common, and she seemed like exactly who I was looking for for my next relationship. After waiting about 4 months, I finally met her in person over the weekend.\n\nWell I've hung out with her a few times and she's really fucking cool. But now I'm already missing being single. I know we're not bf/gf but I don't know if I'm into it romantically like I thought I would be. Also, she's cute but she looked a lot better in the pictures. I feel like a fucking dick even thinking that but I have to be honest here. Now I have no idea what the fuck to do. I told her before we met I was ready for another relationship but now that I've been hanging out with her I don't think I want that anymore. The connection isn't there in person like it was virtually. I feel bad like I've led her on, but I was really feeling it before I met her. I can tell she's super into me, but my feelings toward her aren't nearly as strong anymore.\n\nWhen we were talking online I told her I wasn't into one night stands anymore and that I was ready to settle down and have a stable relationship, and she wanted the same. Now that we've met I'm just not feeling it anymore.\n\nI've already met her family the day I met her (they were at my work Christmas party) and she asked if she was going to meet mine while they are visiting me for the holidays. I'm just not ready for all this. I thought I would be based on the connection I felt online, but in person it just wasn't the same. Maybe this sounds petty, I don't know. \n\nSo, how do I explain all this to her without looking like an asshole? I don't want to hurt her feelings. I'm not the womanizing type and I don't want to have sex with her without explaining all this to her first.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am seeing this guy, and we entered on the basis of a casual relationship (both unable to commit to anything serious at the moment, but need cuddles). I'm getting very attached to him because he still says all the sweet things, we see each other multiple times a week and IM chats to each other for hours every day. \n\nThe closest way I can describe what we have is a best-friendship with sex, cuddles and companionship. He instigated much of this, as I wasn't sure if this fit into the \"not a relationship\" category, but he still insists he can't be in a relationship and that I can see other guys. I thought I could sleep with him without wanting more or exclusivity, but I just don't find myself able to sexually approach other men while seeing him and I got jealous when he saw another girl and they ended up cuddling, even though he said he's not looking for anything from her and is acceptable in our current arrangement.\n\nI was pretty sure it was just his depression that was holding him back from relationships (trying to protect me/him), but I'm wondering now if I'm a place holder for some girl he actually wants. He's so sweet and genuine, I find it hard to believe this myself, but I've been hurt too much before to think that things will work out.\n\nAny advice on what I should do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a two and a half year old bichonpoo that I took the groomers the other day. We had moved from another city so this would be her second appt. at this groomer. It had been a year since her last appointment because my family and I decided to groom her ourselves. She was happy and excited when we got there and pee'd a little when the groomer examined her. When we came back to pick her up, the groomer said that was aggressive all throughout and tried to bite her several times. They eventually put a dog muzzle on her. My mom and I were so surprised by this because she has NEVER showed any aggression towards a human or towards any of her previous groomers. In fact, she loves being cuddled by other people and goes to people whenever we're at a dog park. \n\nWhat do you guys think went wrong and what could I do for the next appointment?\nAt first I thought it was because of her matted fur. The groomer shot this theory down and said that my dog was aggressive even after getting the matted hair out. She has also been a lot more matted before (the very first time when she was a puppy) and had never had aggression issues. Or could it be that she was gone for the groomers for too long and didn't feel comfortable in a relatively new environment with a different groomer? Or could it also be the groomer herself, and that my dog just didn't like her? The previous groomer didn't have any issues. \n\nWhat should I do the next time we go to the groomers? It will be a new groomer again and I hope she doesn't lash out. Will she be able to feel comfortable again? I'm scared that if she becomes too aggressive, no one will take her... :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me: 27F Him : 27M\n\nI've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We just moved in together and everything so far is going great.\n\nWe started talking about how maybe we can buy a house in two years. We both rapidly saw that we want different things.\nI'm a city girl and pretty much want to live and work in the city I'm currently in.\n\nHe wants to move a bit out of the city. He says the city is a lot more expensive, which of course it is, and he wants a bigger house with a backyard. He also wants a quieter life away from the city.\n\nI currently don't have a car. I told him that I'm sure we can compromise and come to a decision. I'll get a car so we have more options, but I really want to stay close to the city.\n\nWe looked at a map together, and he has no problem moving away where it would be a 30 - 40 minutes high way drive to get to the city.\nTo me this seems far and I'm not excited about it at all.\n\nWe agreed that when the time comes, we'll both have to compromise to make sure we're both happy.\n\nI want to make it work, but I'm a little bit scared that we'll never be able to. I don't see how we can both be happy, since no matter what we decide it won't be what one person wanted.\n\nSo reddit, have you ever had a similar problem , and if you did, what did you do?\n\nWhat was the compromise and what was the conclusion to this dilemma?\n\nThanks :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The short story here is that I don't have a ton of dating experience. I was in a relationship out of high school where I ended up getting married, fast forward eight years (25 now) and I am dating someone new (same age as me). I guess it should be fair to mention that my ex did cheat on me (not physically but had an emotional affair) and I'm no longer with her.\n\nI've been dating this new girl for a few months, she's incredible, we spend a lot of time together, and I've got an amazing connection with her. Truthfully I know in my heart that she'd never cheat on me like the last, she's genuinely a great girl who's never given me any reason to not trust her, but I think I am now carrying forward this small bit of trust issues from my previous relationship. I never used to be a jealous person or have trust issues and I'm getting smalls bits of it with this new girl which I know isn't fair but the feelings are hard to fight. \n\nSo she's going out on a ladies night, and I find out that she's going to be drinking with her bud at this event and dancing. Am I crazy for not liking the fact that she's dancing with other men? She's made it clear that it's country dancing, line dancing, etc, nothing like how I'd normally dance (grinding and whatnot) and that it wouldn't be with just one guy and has said all the things I want to hear like she'd make it clear she has a bf if they bring it up etc, but I just personally feel like dancing is an intimate thing and am having a hard time coming to grips with being cool with her out dancing with other guys.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm leaving this weekend to spend time with family before i start graduate school. Im in love with her. We have never talked about it, but im sure she at least feels similarly (this is coming from the way we interact plus 3rd party talks with friends who also hang out with us). We were always in relationships with diffrent people at diffrent times. As the great ted mosby said \"all you need is chemistry and timing.\" We sure as shit had chemistry, like crazy awesome chemistry, but no timing.\n\nSo here it is, last day ill get to see her and shes coming over tonight to hang out one last time. She currently has a bf (<2 months), im leaving for graduate school that i worked really hard for but i could potentially put on hold. Should i just leave it the way it is? tell her how much i care about her but dont reveal my feelings? That way i could look back on things with a romantic 'what if' but im so afraid im making a huge mistake. If i tell her how i feel and she rejects me im not sure how i would feel about being completely wrong about interpreting her signals plus it would be a shitty way to leave our friendship. If she yes then im putting off my career which i worked hard for, for a chance on love that i don't even know will work out. Im so lost....", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Met this guy a couple weeks ago and we've been on one date, he seems really cool and we have good chemistry/lots in common. The only problem is he seems a little clingy, he clearly likes me a lot and has been wanting to see me/talk to me every chance he gets. I have a full schedule with work and hobbies and certain commitments so I really value my down time. It's not to say that I don't want to see him/hang out with him so I made plans with him next week but it seems like he is trying to find time to see me before our arranged date and I don't know how to let him know that he needs to back off a little. \n\nWe text often enough and we really are just getting to know each other so for me it would be better to take it slow, how do I handle this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This just happened 20 minutes ago... \n\nBackground: I've been dating my boyfriend for a year, on and off. I am 12 weeks pregnant this coming Monday. I thought my boyfriend was my best friend. \n\nAnyway, prior to this fuck up I was having a good night with my boyfriend and some friends. We took a selfie. I asked him to send it to me, but he was intoxicated and forgot. Fast forward to him passing out at my house I grab his phone and go to his messages. I forward the selfie, but... I let curiosity get the best of me. Ended up reading a bunch of messages. Boy, I wish I hadn't... \n\nNot only is he cheating on me, he flirts with multiple girls and he wishes a girl named \"Starr\" was his and in my place. His gallery is full of nudes he's been sent or saved from girls profiles on Facebook... \n\nSo, I'm pregnant with his child and I'm fucking hurting. I'm back to questioning my insecurities when I was just getting over them. Yeah. I'd say I fucked up hard, guys.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Lately I, 17 male, have gotten really close to one of my best female friends who is also 17. I have known her since freshman year of high school and we are both now seniors. I haven't ever had a romantic attraction toward her until within this week.\nI have started to become more attracted to her because we have been hanging out more frequently, other than just IMing or texting each other. A lot of people have also asked the both of us if we are interested in each other or dating, and that has made me reassess the whole situation.\nI don't want to like her because i'm afraid we will end up dating and then it will never be the same between us, if we break up\nShe asks advice from me about other boys that she has her eye on and thinks are attractive, so I'm pretty sure that she doesn't have any feelings toward me other than being her best friend.\nShe is also super indecisive about how she feels toward boys that she does like. At first she likes them a lot but then once their true colors start to show she loses interest.\nI don't want to distance myself but I feel as if I am doing that already.\nShould I tell her how I am feeling? And if so, how do I go about doing so?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the deal, I slept with this girl and we ended up hanging out a lot afterwards. The entire time I made it very clear that I was not looking for a relationship (and by that I mean I said those words to her multiple times.). Anyway, I started to lose interest so we weren't talking as much as we were before. One week later after no communication she calls me up crying/bitching about why I don't like her. So naturally I'm all like dafuq bitch?, but here is where it gets even crazier. She starts randomly texting me about how she thinks I'm angry and abusive towards her. I have never done a mean or abusive thing to a woman period. Also I feel like since I was honest with our relationship she has pretty much no right to be so angry with me...also she has been telling her friends I'm her boyfriend...WTF! Any tips on how to get rid of this person?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, So I'm a senior in highschool, and so I'll apologize now if this is not the best sub to post this in and I will willingly move it if needed.\n\nThat being said, let me give some backstory: I've had an off and on crush on this girl for almost three years. I've gotten to the point I've wanted to ask her out two years ago, and I tried by asking her first if she had a boyfriend, to which she responded yes, and then I just got nervous/disappointed and just went \"oh, okay.\" and walked away without another word. I haven't spoken to her much since thanks to me being nervous and still awkward about that whole incident.\n\nHowever, now, she's single and I really want to take a shot and ask her to a movie, however, every time I see her in the hall, I chicken out and just keep walking by. I can't even get the conversation started. How do I overcome this fear and is she even going to really hold the whole awkward moment against me? And what's even the best way to ask a girl out like that? I've had girlfriends before, but I've managed to either just date people I've already known, or they ask me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dated this girl for several months when I studied abroad. It was fantastic. Unfortunately my time abroad had a expiration date and we broke up just before I left. After trying to drastically limit our communication for several post break-up months, we finally admitted that we still very much had feelings for each other.\n\nThe first couple months of the long distance relationship went amazingly smoothly, but eventually I felt her start to draw away. We would talk and the responses would be more curt, and where we used to waste hours just incessantly texting back and forth, we eventually settled in to a likely more healthy, but slower pattern of communication. She also took to tweeting extremely cryptic things, while for the most part putting on a happy face during our communications.\n\nI deal with some insecurity and depression for which I'm supposed to be taking meds. And her changed behavior gave me some anxiety about the status of our relationship, especially because on facebook she maintained the same active social life, going out with her mostly male friends who had during my time abrouad made their dislike of me very obvious.\n\nHer distance and the tweets deviated enough from her normal behavior that I finally addressed it on Skype, and she eventually admitted that she had these intense feelings of depression and external pressure and was in therapy for her issues, but for the most part refused to elaborate beyond that. \n\nThis conversation happened maybe two months ago, and since then we've gone through different extremes, extremely close and upbeat to distant and withdrawn. I want to help and play a larger role than a supportive voice through her computer screen. I think she for the most part tunes out whatever affirming comments I give her. \n\nWe have days where things are incredible, but then she falls back into a depressive cycle and I feel like white noise against everything else. Are the strategies for reaching someone who can be closed off, especially considering that I can't be physcially there?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend ALWAYS sleeps through his alarm, yet he always has one set. I wake up this morning to do just that when I notice \"horny as fck\" in a text when I used the pull down screen on a smartphone.\n\nI open it, and see risque/nude photos my boyfriend sent of himself to another guy, seeking a fwb type of thing. It sounded quite eager. They were hoping to meet as early as tonight, when my boyfriend got off work.\n\nI realize this might be embarrassing for my boyfriend so I calmly ask if we could talk about something. He tried to play dumb at first but finally came around. He said he has never hooked up with anyone and would never do so, it just turns him on talking to other guys. I guess it excites him like a fetish. The reason he doesn't flirt and do this with girls is because of me. He always felt grossed out after the fact and always deleted everything. \n\nThe talk itself didn't go well. He was really defensive, shifting the blame at times on me, \"I only do this when I'm too depressed, when I don't get enough attention from you... etc.\" He said he isn't bi, gay, and wouldn't have a threesome with another guy. \n\nOur relationship isn't the greatest and has been rocky for the most part/as of late. We don't have sex often, and I feel like the emotional connection isn't there anymore. Brief background on our relationship: it began abusive and gradually got worse, but after 2 and a half to 3 years in, it got better. Less hitting, more verbal attacking. I'm not trying to dog on him, he's a good guy at times, but more or less I feel like a lot of the times our relationship is a love/hate thing, literally.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks.\nCurrently I have been having a super fanatical crush on a girl in my neighbourhood who Is the kindest person I know (plus she's pretty fucking hot). Although, I don't understand what she thinks about having a relationship with me, hell I don't even know if it would be healthy for me.\n\nAnyway, I've only been a pretty introverted person with not many friends but those who are, are true friends. Furhtermore, i am not egotistical but I would describe myself as relatively handsome with nice eyes so I am sure I would look good enough for her.\n\nAdditionally, It was one month ago when I was on top of my roof about to try and kill myself because I can't be bothered with life tbh, when I saw my crush walking down the street with some serious sexiness then looked at me and smiled REALLY sincerely (not that she knew what I was doing). It was then that I knew I wanted to be with her no matter what shit I had to put up with.\n\nShe always gives me these quick glances and smiles that really perk me up but I have one problem...\n\nMy friend is also interested with her but not mainly (he said he would but would rather someone out of his league) and that makes it into this fucked up love triangle. Anyway, it seems as if when in a group she is more intimate with me but by herself doesn't really want to be around me much and would 100% of the time rush towards him and be so friendly (jealousy is a bitch).\n\nis this because she is nervous? is she genuinely not interested in me? Is it wrong for me to be this obsessed?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hell guys, I am unsure how to deal with these emotions I'm having. \n\nShe's told me about her friend before and that she met him last semester. They speak the same native language so that have that in common. Before we started dating they used to hang out, go to the beach, go to downtown and stuff. She says he was interested in her but she made it clear she wasn't. \n\nThrough looking at her social media site (which tells you what time the person was last online and if they are online), I see that he only uses it when he talks to her. When she goes online he is online too, so they talk often late at night from like 12-2 a.m. From looking at it this morning they both were online at around the same time. I am now worrying I feel like they are meeting up and she will hide it from me or something. :/\n\nMy gf has not given me reason to distrust her but one time I texted her and she said she was asleep but clearly they both were online and texting each other. She likes to tell white lies though sometimes, it's just the way she is. I don't know how to bring it up because there's no way I should know of them talking without her feeling like I've been snooping.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Very long story short, we broke up once three years ago for 8 months then rekindled. I knew in my heart that getting back together was going to end badly and it did. I was too stubborn and selfish to admit it wasn't going to work so I'd cry and beg whenever he tried to leave me (which was often) and he'd end up staying. We lived together for the last 2 years.. we had countless fights that would spiral out of control, especially if I was buzzed. I'd drink and make everything worse and he hated it and wanted me to quit and I'd promise to.. then wouldn't. I treated him really poorly and was putting him down a lot and knit picking every single thing about him. It was a truly toxic situation and now it's over. \n\nSo now... how do I move on? With the knowledge of knowing you acted like a monster.. how does one actually move on? I hate myself for screwing it up. I loved him genuinely.. but maybe not that much if I treated him poorly?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife and I have been married for 3 years, we have a 1.5 year old son. We live kind of out in the country, about 60-90 minutes from the nearest big city.\n\nWe have friends who live in/near the big city and they kind of complained that they haven't seen us much since we had our son, so we have been trying to make plans with them. We finally worked out that we will come to a BBQ they're hosting this weekend in the early afternoon.\n\nWe had already made plans that day to bring our son to the city for his first haircut. There is a place that specializes in kids cuts and they have a salon for mom too. So it was going to be a special treat for my wife, she is going to get a salon day, our son gets his hair cut, and after we all go to the BBQ.\n\nOk so here is the problem. My friends who are having the BBQ told us that they don't want us to bring our son. They tried to be nice about it but they basically said that they just don't want to be around kids.\n\nMy wife is saying that we should take 2 cars to the salon, and she'll go home with our son instead of coming to the BBQ. That seems like a PITA to me, plus I want her to come out and socialize. She stays home with him and doesn't get out much.\n\nSo I am at a loss here. I think we should tell our friends that if we are coming to the BBQ we are bringing our son. My wife says that's rude and she will skip the BBQ. I see her point but I think I would rather not go if we can't bring him since it will be so much hassle. Plus I work 60+ hour weeks and weekends are my only time with my boy.\n\nWhat is your advice? Sorry if this is a stupid question this is my first time on this forum.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I used to write emails to myself every other day for my future self to read about my day's adventures and stuff. I had gotten in the habit of writing them after dinner. Well one day after some Chinese, I had opened my fortune cookie that read, \n\n\"It is time to write to someone who is distant\"\n\nOf course I was tripping at that and was freaked out a bit. I turned to other side of the paper and noticed my lucky number was 26. So I decided to go and write to myself and at the moment I got on I checked the time. 7:26 PM\n\nOut of fear, I NOPED my way out of there and hid in my room. I was convinced someone was watching me.\n\nSo Reddit, what are some of your strangest coincidences?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The competitive cycling season is well underway where I live, and I've been training all Winter and Spring to prepare for it. Last night I was waffling about attending today's race on account of the 40F + rain forecast. Late last night I worked up the resolve to race anyway, and sent my teammate the following text message:\n\n>Fuck it I am going to htfu and go race tomorrow. Are you in?\n\nWe ended up coordinating our carpool over email, so as I sat outside his house this morning to pick him up, I gave him a call to see if he was ready yet. I hear someone else's voicemail answer the phone shortly before the following text message conversation ensues:\n\n>I think u have the wrong number but I agree--you should go race--good luck\n\n>>Hah, yeah I figured that out when I got your voicemail. Sorry, and thanks!\n\n>U bet--thanks for the motivation to get my butt on the treadmill this a.m.!:D", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So basically as the title says, my BF has dropped a few comments such as \"we could wear matching maid outfits\" ( for cosplay), wanted to wear a girls Oktoberfest outfit etc. I'm wondering if perhaps he does like to cross dress but I'm not sure as he's never said so outright and I'm shocking at taking a hint. >.<\n\nI want him to feel comfortable and happy and would like to potentially investigate that sort of thing if he wants to. Ultimately, I just want to make sure he's happy. \n\nSo! Essentially I have three questions; \n- Should I ask him? \n- If do, what would be the best way to do so without making him uncomfortable?\n- Is there anything else I should keep in mind, do or read that could help me understand better so I can be there for him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend [F 26] and I [M 25] have been together for a year and today was our anniversary. The past two weeks we were both on each others backs about random crap, sorta a mutual stressed out sensitive mesh. \n\nLast night we talked on the phone about what we need to do/change to make things better and by the end of the night we've both found our peace and was ready for things to get better. But this morning, out of the blue, she dumps me saying \"I turned her into a terrible person\" and \"Everything you say hurts me.\" \n\nIn this relationship I invested all of my available time and money into her and she was able to give up all the good times we had together for a crummy 2 weeks. I don't feel too good right now Reddit so any type of comment is appreciated, I just feel alone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We had a big fight last week because she had problems studying and i asked her to take a break and have a walk to clear up her mind to go on better. She is now deeply angry at me because she says i don't understand her and support her the way she wants to, she is also threatening me with a break up. I can barely speak to her (we are rarely talking via txt in these days) and she has a very stressful exam at school tomorrow. I know this, and in my last txt i said that i am sorry for what happened, that i DO care about her study and that she should focus on her exam instead of thinking about all this situation. I really don't know how to fix things up and i am afraid of losing her just because of some exams stress -_", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Been with my bf for 3 1/2 years. I care about him but I am extremely bored of our sex life. I have no idea how to tell him this without hurting his feelings. \nDon't know if I should tell him or just leave him. I get freaked out thinking about having sex with the same person forever. It's so begrudgingly boring, the idea to me, even though I have only slept with 3 guys at age 25. \n\nMore than that I feel like I'd be boring to my partner. Can't imagine anyone wanting to have sex with me forever, even though I am considered to be pretty attractive. Maybe I have some phobia, I don't know.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend recently moved to the city and hasn't been dating for a while. I want to go out with him and be his 'wingwoman' to help him find a special lady friend (as does he, I'm not pressing this on him).\n\nI'm in a committed long term relationship of 4.5 years, how do I go out with him in a way that he still seems approachable by other women when my SO can't come too? I worry that people will automatically assume he is my boyfriend when it is just the two of us and that will be no bueno for his chances.\n\nWhat ways can I talk him up or help him break into circles of ladies to talk to? What's the best way to excuse myself when it seems he is hitting it off with someone?\n\nI just want to be a good friend and see him happy, please send me your tips!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife went to a pokemon conference thing with a friend while I was away for work for a long amount time, about a month. She told me she was out to dinner. I asked later on if she was with her friend. She said she was and with two other guys. I freaked out a little and called her. She said one was gay and the other was ugly, asian, and nerdy. I still said going out like that felt inappropriately. I admit, I was upset and was a little rude to her. She said I blindsided her and she did not expect me to be upset. I told her I felt uncomfortable with date type situations. She says the atmosphere was not like a date at all. I trust everything she is saying. I still think it was inappropriate. I could just be immature and I am open to what you guys' think.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "*week\n\nI was looking to major in Computer Science Engineering but couldn't even get through my statistics and Physics course. I now have 33 credits and a C- average. My college was one that was wellknown for it's engineering program. I've made one SQL database in my entire life, and have only had novice experience in Java. I am lost and don't know what I want to (and still can) pursue at this point.\n\nI am feeling dejected and down. The college was all I ever wanted, it gave me grant that paid for the tuition completely and most of room and board. I am regretting and blaming myself for being unmotivated and didn't seek help until it was too late. I know and it's all my fault.\nI also cannot pay for college out of my own pocket.\n\nReddit, what can I do?", "role": "user" } ]

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