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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This didn't happen today and I wasn't aware of the internet when this happened. It was 14 years ago and I was just an innocent 10 year boy. Not really innocent. So, my family and I lived in India and we had a small house with two floors, each floor having a medium sized room and a small room. The main TV was in the first floor (in India, the second floor is called the first floor and the first floor is called the ground floor.) We had cable TV and a channel called Fashion TV piqued my interest. That channel usually had a file of pretty ladies walking down the ramp and it sometimes featured women who didn't wear any clothes on top at all. So, whenever I had a chance to watch TV alone, I would switch to that channel and hope to see something interesting. Also, something I didn't mention to you was that we had a lot of electric blackouts; everyday. Sometimes you couldn't predict the times of these blackouts but they happened everyday because of \"maintenance\" but the real reason was that there were too many people in India and we struggled to harness power for everyone. I was watching FTV one day and the power went out. We didn't have a back-up generator and I was shitting my pants. I couldn't wait there until the power came back because I was going out somewhere. When I came back my dad was watching something else on TV. He knew that I was watching Fashion TV. He came to know that I wasn't the innocent little kid he thought I was. But none of us uttered a word and an awkward silence ensued. A couple of years later, that channel was banned because Indian Government blah blah. No filter blah blah.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I (M23) have been dating a girl (F21) for two years. She has an immature side which I appreciate at times, but now it has overtaken her. It has gotten to the point where she has gone back to her old high school ways where she finds guy friends, gets them to like her and then strings them along by playing games with them by playing them hot and cold (making them ask her out on a date only for her to drop him). Also she's become very rude towards me, to the point that it feels like I am being taken for granted and being played along like the guys she befriends to do so. I think she is trying to be rude so that she can gain a sense of independence, as if she doesn't need me. Whenever she is rude to me, how should I reply? Being rude back or ignoring her? It's probably important to take into account that she is a spoilt girl who believes in taking and everything she does is right (due to how much her family have hurt her in the past), so every time I try and talk to her about how I feel about her ways, she makes me feel she deserves to treat me the way she does. For a year and a half, I have seen a side to her where she is very generous and giving towards me but this kind of behaviour has just started in the last month or so. No, I don't want to break up with her, this could be a phase and I'm hoping, with patience she'll go back to her old ways.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "After weeks of talking to this girl I met through Tinder, we met up at a bar last night. We're talking and she tells me she has a 6 year old. I'm taken by surprise because I felt this is something she should have mentioned sooner.\n\n I'm only 23 and I don't really like kids nor do I want them. I like to be able to play with them for a while and then be able to give them back. I still want to get to know this girl but I don't want there to be any expectations with me having to get to know her kid right away. What would you do in this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There is an issue that keeps cropping up and is making me worried that I may not be as fun as people may think I am. For starters, I'm not exactly a socialite. I only really talk with my close friends, and it takes a long time for me to warm up to people and become friends with them in the first place. However, I am pretty goofy and have a good sense of humor (or so I'm told). This makes people think I'm really outgoing, when really I'm extremely shy.\n\nI wouldn't say I have social anxiety, but I find myself becoming nervous in social situations. This issue has given me a wake up call recently when I froze up on a date with a long time crush and ultimately lost my chance with her. I planned the whole night out: going to a concert, walking around downtown, blah blah blah. However, the situation changed and things weren't going according to my plan. I felt like I lost control, got really nervous, and froze. It stopped me from having fun with my crush, stopped me from having fun at the concert. I find it to be quite the problem, now that I'm at a stage where I'm actively seeking a relationship.\n\nIt doesn't just happen with people I am trying to impress, too. When I'm just with friends, say, planning a day out or so, I start to get nervous because I want things to go according to plan. Maybe we are taking the bus to a park. The whole time I will be checking my phone to make sure I'm going in the right direction, distracted from interacting with my friends and having fun.\n\nTo me, I think I just have a problem with \"going with the flow.\" Does this sound about right? I want to be able to go out with friends and let go and have fun. I want to be able to go out with girls and act casual and be myself. I feel like this need to plan everything out is a barrier that is keeping me from meeting people because I'm afraid of the unexpected, even though I know I can't predict the future.\n\nAny tips on how I can be more social, more outgoing, and more capable of going with the flow? Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together a few years. He has a 3 year old daughter from another relationship whom I love as if she was my own, and she loves me in return. \n\nWe have always talked about having children one day, but pretty soon as we are aware I may become infertile. HOWEVER, when we talk about the possibility of kids around his family, he has also always said \"I don't need any more babies\" which confuses me a fair amount. \n\nLast week, his daughter was staying at our house - for no reason, completely out of the blue, my boyfriend tells us both that he wants lots of kids (2 more girls and 3 boys, he later specified), and asked his little girl if she wanted a brother or sister. At this point, she was pretty excited, running around saying \"yes daddy, I want a brother and sister!\" and he then asked her how soon she wanted a brother or sister, to which she didn't reply, but he told her \"anything for you princess, daddy and confusedbabygirl will see what we can do!\" Since then he has continued to be very blunt when i've talked about wanting a child or saying the usual \"I don't need any more babies.\" \n\nReddit - how do I get him to tell me what he's really thinking? I've tried being direct and asking him if he wants kids, but he's really vague and confusing! I'm sorry if this doesn't make any sense, i'm not very good with words.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "These past couple of years I had it very rough when it came to socializing and being happy. Well, friends kinda used some drugs and I was left alone for a while I later found out...but, before that....\n\nI started to stay away from it as I lost confidence, had low self esteem,etc. I eventually and mutually met someone. I was shy but she was outgoing so I guess it evened out somehow.Asked me alot about myself and it felt good. We were going to be meeting more often so next time....when that came she randomly came over and hugged me and introduced me to some friends. We talked for a bit,said she was a bit concerned with her apperance and then she blurts out...let me give you my number, we will get lunch soon which we did. Went well. \n\nI bonded with her more and more as I saw her, got a random selfie with her which was odd, but also was called sweet for a thank you I gave her. \n\nNow there was times she was very rude or inconsiderate. She is known by others to be immature but I look past that most of the time as she did help me out. \n\nThe weirdest event was her kinda following me. I was going to a game with friends and invited her and her friends like a week in advance. Gave her a heads up and she said she was busy, so I left it at that. I go to the game and was walking around and look down and saw her and all her friends. Okay someone else could have had an idea to go but come on that was a bit weird that she showed up then and there when she basically said no. \n\nI dont want to go into too much detail to things unless needed but I didnt know if I was being played here or she liked me or it was her personality or I dont even know what. I personally grew to like her but have not seen her in a while for certain reasons.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey reddit, I'm having a bit of a quarter-life crisis, and I figure some people could probably give some advice that would be helpful.\n\nHere's the situation for me: I'm 22, living in WA, one quarter away from finishing my AA, and wanting to transfer to the local university here so I can be a teacher. Problem is, my grades are very terrible. \n\nI did poorly in high school and just barely graduated (by failing a class, no less), and while my grades at the community college have improved, they're by no means good (around ~2.6). I've been rejected from the university about three times now, and I've lost faith in myself to keep going. I've done my practicum at a high school and had my talent/eagerness complimented on, but I'm worried that I'll never get to be a teacher, and I honestly don't know what to do now. I want to work with high schoolers and I love doing it, but I'm not sure if that'll happen if I don't get my act together.\n\nThat aside, I'm also a fucking mess myself. I'm not going to measure my amount of self-worth by whether or not I have a girlfriend, or if I've got a car, but I'm a person that lacks motivation in life (although my interests make me motivated). I'm not a total slob, but I could definitely improve myself by working out and other healthy things too.\n\nSo reddit, what the fuck do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met on tinder and we've been talking on and off for about 2 months now. We made plans in advance for yesterday and we agreed that it would be a date/hangout mix. He let me know in advance that these sort of things made him a bit nervous and that he's a little shy in person. He drove about 30 minutes to get here. \n\nSo as soon as we met, we grabbed some dinner. With better lighting, I could see him more clearly and he was super attractive. It was about 8pm when we got in, and we literally stayed in the restaurant until it closed at 11 just talking. He paid for the meal while I was in the bathroom. After that, we decided to just drive around. I asked him if he had to be home at any time and he said it really didn't matter. \n\nThe whole date was just a lot of talking and getting to know each other. Near the end of it there was a lot of humor and teasing. He asked me if this was one of my better Tinder dates, and I said definitely. I asked him if he would wanna meet again sometime and he said for sure. However, when the end of the date came (12:30am, my curfew), and when we were sitting in front of my house, I was super confused with the body language. I felt as if I was being really awkward because I unbuckled my seatbelt and looked at him and lingered for a while. He did look into my eyes and at my lips a couple of times, but then he'd turn away and look out the window. We both awkwardly/nervously laughed. I'm used to guys kissing on the first date it if goes well so I felt bad at this point and so I went home. Wasn't sure if he wanted to kiss or not so I didn't go in for it.\n\nHe texted me when he got home \"You're probably asleep, but, OH MY GOD. IM FINALLY HOME. Let's just say I'm stupid and made a very wrong turn lol\"\n\nWould he have made an excuse to leave earlier if the date was going badly? Do you think he's still interested?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Myself and my two roommates (both 19/f) have been living in our house for a little over a year now and we more or less have no problems with our landlord. Since the new year however she has been trying to rent the fourth room in our house so shes been coming over to our house almost every day/every other day unannounced coming down on us about keeping the house clean and not leaving any of our personal items out so it looks presentable when she does a viewing. The house isn't usually messy, just an example, I had a pair of socks near the kitchen table one day after I got off work and she came over a bit later and freaked out about it.\n\nWe don't normally have a problem with her coming over but there has been one too many days where either me or one of my roommates would be getting out of the shower or something only to find electricians or repair people in our house without our knowledge. That or being woken up at about 8/9 am and being kicked out of our own bedrooms so they can do work, again, without letting us know they are coming over in advance.\n\nMy roommates are losing their minds about it because we never know if someone is in our house while we are gone and considering how our landlord has been acting lately we really don't want her coming over without telling us first (yesterday one of my roommates came home to find her cleaning our bathroom and moving our things to make it \"presentable\". A few day prior to that she came over and started to go through our fridge asking who owned what food).\n\nDon't get me wrong, I like that she has people to come over to fix things and make sure the house is ok to live in but I don't think it's too much to ask give us some notice besides \"Hey, the electrician will be over in 10 minutes, be sure to let him in the house\". She's coming over tomorrow to collect rent and I'm really not sure how to approach this to her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About five months ago this really wonderful boy asked me to be his girlfriend. I absolutely adore him, and he's the best possible match I could ask for as far as who I am at the moment. It's especially really convenient that we're in the same profession, because we're both ferociously busy and don't have a lot of free time. This means we're both really understanding when we can't devote as much time as we would like to each other.\n\nThe thing is, I'm extremely attracted to him because I like him so much. (That's how my libido works. Otherwise, it's virtually zero.) He tells me I'm beautiful occasionally, and when we were first starting to fool around he used to instigate naughty activities, but now he doesn't seem interested at all.\n\nI'm always the one who initiates any kind of sex related activity, and really I'm lucky if I can get anything to happen. Most of the time it's just me going down and that's the end of it. We have slept together once, but otherwise nothing really. I asked him once about his libido when he was falling asleep, because I couldn't work up the courage to do it otherwise, and he said he guessed it wasn't very strong because he was tired and stressed all the time-- which I could see.\n\nBut now it's summer, and he is getting plenty of sleep and isn't nearly as stressed as he usually is and still doesn't seem interested. The thing is, I know he does things by himself because occasionally when I use his phone to take a picture I'll see some kind of dirty picture he'd saved recently in the little gallery preview icon on the phone, only to ask to play on his phone later to find it deleted. (I don't go through his phone without permission, mind you! I also don't care that he looks at porn, haha. If you're male, I just assume you look at porn.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been living an hour and a half apart since May, when I graduated from college and moved home to start graduate school. He's finishing up his last year there, but we're probably not going to be able to live together or closer than an hour away until I finish grad school in two years. Seeing each other has been really difficult. We make the trip to each other maybe once a month, twice if we're lucky.\n\nWe skype and text all the time, but it's just not enough. To be honest we're starting to run out of interesting things to talk about! When seeing each other is out of the question, how can we find ways to keep connecting and find new ways to hang out without physically being together? I'm not worried about our relationship at all, I just can't shake this frustration that I can't see him all the time or even twice a month if I want. We're starting to take it out on each other which only makes it feel worse.\n\nAnybody have any fun ideas they did when they were in a long distance relationship? We've thrown around the idea of doing a skype date with screen sharing, but movies don't come through the internet very nicely when we've tried.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "His, \n\nI have known that girl for over 3 years and it's only a year ago that I understood that I am very attracted to her, more than just a friend. In the meantime she has gotten a boyfriend and i really don't know how to act now. \n\nWhat worsens things is that I am pretty shy and nerdy, and since more reactive than initiative. She is the type of girl though who expects initiative in a relationship. \n\nI told her about my feelings and we have never touched this theme since. The furtherst we've gone physically is holding each other's hands and hugging but I am not sure if it's more a courtesy of friendship. She did mention that she is not that much satisfied with her current relationship, though she tries avoiding exclusive hang-outs with me inviting others because \"it's more fun\".\n\nI am not sure what would be the best way to go now. Most of all I want to know if she has some deeper feelings to me. The reason is that I would hate ruining our friendship by pushing too far. But how could I find it out, revealing it in a conversation is not an option since it would be too selfish and I guess she is equally unsure about my intentions. And I think that staying by friends and seeing what happens I will just be locked in the friend zone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok Reddit, I need help wading through the crap on the internet. A couple of days ago I came out of the bar to find my tire pressure sensor was indicating low pressure. A quick check revealed a screw in one of my tires of my brand new car. It was still pretty inflated so I went home. Long story short it's in an area that isn't easily patched and I've been trying to find a place that'll patch it and refill it with Nitrogen. It's just now getting lower than I care to let it and I was going to top it off when my mother (who had called a few places for me out of the blue, best mom ever, today is her anniversary) said you can't because once you put regular air in you can't put Nitrogen back in. When I bought the car the dealer said that doing just that would be totally fine. Come to find out, there is a lot of confusion at tire places and on the internet about Nitrogen in tires. So I ask you, the great Reddit, what's the real story here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know what it is with you two, but how is it that both my ex-boyfriend and my ex-flame-of-three-years and I end things and you both immediately make a beeline for this girl like she's water and you're dying in the desert.\n\nHer pseudointellectualism is the least of her worries. I'm not sure what's so wildly attractive about having a Bachelor's degree so worthless that you have to live at home and the only car you choose to drive is a crappy 80s Beemer because it's just hipster enough for you, but apparently, this girl is the fucking tits, because there isn't a picture on Instagram or a stupid, existential status on Facebook that the two of you haven't liked. You two boys don't even know each other, but your obvious worship of a girl who doesn't even give two shits that you exist is grinding on my nerves so endlessly that I'd rather claw my eyes out with a rusty spoon than continue to follow any of you on Instagram. \n\nSure, she's somewhat attractive, thanks due in part to her mother's full Spanish blood. Her skin tone is a naturally white girl caramel and while her hair is a normal shade of brown, you can't really beat those hazel eyes...here's a news flash, boys: she's too tall for you. She literally towers over both of you, even in her ugly Urban Outfitters lace up flats. Get a grip, you two. She's not into you, and you look pathetic.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together three years. He has a degree (communications), tried to go back for another (more useful) one and got burnt out. He works a dead end job now, but is happy, which is important to me. But I'm also frustrated because I feel like I have more responsibilities in our relationship. I carry him on my insurance, pay for our car (which I do use more), make our house budget/cleaning chart and am trying to save up for a house for us.\n\nFor two years, he told me this job was temporary while he figured out which direction he wanted to go with his career. Last night he sat me down and told me he needed to give me an ultimatum (his words, \"I don't mean it to be one, but it is\"). He knows his job isn't what I want him to be doing but he's okay with it. He appreciates that I've been trying to support him figuring it out, but he's going to stop that and just live in the moment....for now. He knows himself and when he figures it out, he'll be passionate and dive in. \n\nAt the time, I was relieved to hear him tell me straight up.....but after a night of sleep and a day to digest everything he said, the full weight is sinking in. This is a deal breaker for me. I respect his reasons (personal happiness is really important) and wish him well (he's a good person), but I've never been in this spot before. All my past relationships ended with fireworks, drama, tears.... this feels very \"we both are in different places.\" \n\nOur lease is up at the end of June. Do I say something now? Wait until a month out? All these feelings just hit me on my lunch break and I'm starting to panic! I know it will be a hard breakup in the sense that we both love one another and neither did anything wrong, but that just knots my stomach even more! I don't want to make him feel guilty.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm a guitar player in a metal band. I've been in the band for about a year now and it's been really fun, but lately I just don't see it going anywhere and I am getting increasingly annoyed by my bandmates. The reason I joined was because the old guitarist who was an original member quit and they needed a new guitarist/songwriter. Since the time I've been in the band, we've gone through 2 drummers and our current drummer is alright, but he's very young and still not quite at the right skill level. Our singer is the only original member, so it's like \"his band\" but to be honest, he seems to care the least about everything. He's completely ignorant about music and about equipment and he really brings nothing to the table since he is consistently broke and not a very bright dude.\n\nThis is where the situation gets sticky. I currently live with the bass player, we have an apartment together and our lease is up in September. Our friendship is basically based off the band, so I'm afraid that if I quit, he's going to be mega pissed at me. I would try to explain how I feel about the whole situation to him but he's kind of stubborn and I predict he will throw a shit fit about the whole thing.\n\nI've worked my ass off holding this band together and I just don't see the point anymore when it's mainly me doing all the work. I do most of the writing, the band uses my van to transport gear, so that means that I am always the one driving and responsible for loading/unloading. A lot of the time I'll get fucked over by one or more of the other guys in the band and have to unload all the gear with just one other person, while the other guys go out to another show or to a bar.\n\nSorry for the wall of text, just looking for some advice to handle this situation as best as possible so I can stay friends with these guys.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Is it crazy that I'm thinking of staying with my boyfriend, simply because of how much fun we have together. I have no problem being single, and I have tones of other friends, but nothing compares to the stupid/crazy/weird sense of humor we share, and the things we do. \n\nHe lied to me a couple times, and I can no longer trust him. I still love him completely, but I think we have to break up. But I dont want to lose him as a friend. although if we remain friends, I know we're going to fall back into the same relationship, just by being together. So is it completely insane to think I can keep this relationship going, just because we have so much fun together, even though we both know its going to end eventually? \n\n(I know he'd be okay with it. he claims to be completely in love with me, and even though I've told him we're breaking up in 3 weeks, he is still sticking around because 'he wants to spend as much time with me as he can before its over')", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me [24] Him [28], relationship of 6 months.\n\nIt's not that my boyfriend doesn't respect me. It's that I want him to respect me even more. I want him to admire me and for him to see me in my best light as often as possible. Maybe this is non-sequitor, but there are so many TV wives who are not very respect-worthy. Wives are often seen as kind of a drag. I don't want to be that ever in his mind. What can I do to be a woman worthy of great respect in his eyes? Thanks for your input!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi guys. Need help here. I am an exchange student, and teaching my native tongue to a guy who was considering going for a year abroad in my uni. We...started dating. (This was not even two months ago.) We have wonderful chemistry, he makes me laugh and really started opening up to me. \n\nTwo weeks ago, he started considering other options for his year abroad. Not leaving, for instance. Or another place. And he told me-a few days ago- that he doesn't want to feel pressured to go to my uni because of me. That he had a girlfriend last year who was also an exchange student and that he had made serious plans to follow her, but they ended it and he changed everything at the last minute. He told me \"better now than later, trust me\"; \"the less I see you, the better\". \n\nSo, basically, I'm sorry he was hurt. But I really think this could work, and that we could be happy even if only for a while -and I'm trying to work up the courage to tell him, but I need advice : is this even a good idea? Any chance this could work? How can I word it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm here to cover my bases because my personal research did not bear fruit. I work at a customer service center in Minnesota. Recently (May 2014) I was promoted to a supervisory position. The position came with a $.50 raise which I was happy with. There was an error in my promotion documentation with management and it was never properly processed until the first pay period of July for us (I had brought it up after two pay periods from my promotion). When I brought it up a second time to my own manager (picture office space), they informed me on the date in my file that my promotion was listed. It was listed as (June 17th). So the higher up I spoke to, put in my promotion date on some random day, and I have not seen a cent of back pay. My fellow supervisors are telling me to fight for back pay, but I dont want to lose my job and I work in a place that has a strong undertone of \"Fear the Higher-ups for your job's safety\".\n\nI'm tired of being a spineless drone. I dont want to do this for the money. I dont want to do this to make waves or be \"that guy\". I want to do this because I feel it is right. I want to know what I can do to have things fixed because I do not believe I should fear my employer and when majority of my co-workers both below and above me in rank are telling me to make this a \"Do or Die\" situation, I need to know my options.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, as the title describes, I'm in a one and a half year relationship with my gf. Things have been going well until early/mid November where I really put things in perspective. \n\n3 months into the relationship, she told me she lied about having a car and said she is on her third learner's permit (she lied out of embarrassment). She confessed the truth, as I was about to meet her whole family on Christmas Eve, so I had to set that aside for the holidays. Also, it's at least a 35 minute/10 mile drive to her place from me; she's never completely attempted to come to me.\n\nThrough last year, I increasingly realized we have very different interests; she is into country music (especially the \"modern\" stuff), sticks to only a few favorite food things, still somewhat shy around me and my friends and loves Bravo. I'm into alternative rock, will try a lot of different food (except Nato; won't eat again), outgoing nerd who loves his video games.\n\nShe still has her learner's permit and can't afford a car since she's still paying student loans and the bills (she still lives w/ her parents). She's also losing her job really soon, but working on getting freelance work.\n\nNow that you have the background, here's my dilema: She's the first non-crazy girlfriend I've had and she's really sweet/kind. The crazy exes were easy to deal with, but her doesn't feel like it will be that easy. How can I prepare myself and let her down as easy as possible? (if possible)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a relatively attractive guy. I'm a senior in college, I'm involved in a lot of organizations(fraternity, Student Government, etc), and I've set myself up for a pretty successful life post-graduation. I have a ton of female friends who I'm close with, but not in a romantic way. \n\nHowever, once I start to think that I'd like to take someone to dinner, I start over thinking. For example, there's a girl I work with(F21) who I'm friendly with, and we flirt all the time at work, but every time I think about asking her to dinner, I freeze up. Another friend who I'm potentially interested in(F20), I have her number and we text on occasion, but I overthink how much to text her, what to text her, and so on. \n\nI never really dated in high school, and in college, I've had 4 \"major\" relationships. They all started pretty differently:\n\n1: We met when we were trashed, she was dating someone, they broke up and we started dating within a month. Never really went on dates except to the dining halls. \n\n2: I was drunk at a football game, we started hanging out, and were together within a week. \n\n3: Met at a social(both sober), but she had a boyfriend. We were close friends, but never went on real dates. They broke up, we started sleeping together. \n\n4: Met sober at a football game, invited her over to watch some more football, started hooking up that night. \n\nSo, obviously, I've yet to have a \"normal\" start to a relationship, where there's a couple months of dating before sexual things and defining the relationship. How do I get around the anxiety?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For several months I have been growing closer and closer with my best friend. She has helped me through some of my hardest times. She recently helped me get through a difficult breakup. When we first met, we kind of \"friend zoned\" each other because I was in another relationship at the time. \n\nThe semester recently ended and she and I have been spending a lot more time together. I find myself caring for her so much and I want to protect her, however I think this is because we are such good friends. But when I am with her, I feel so happy and I just can't help but smile. \n\nLast night, we were talking, just the two of us and as I stood up to leave, she said, \"Wait. I want to try something. And I think we are good enough friends that we can at least try it\". Then, she kissed me! We talked about it after and neither of us felt weird or awkward...it actually felt very good. We kissed again, longer this time, and felt even better. Then I had to leave, so we didn't talk about it anymore after that.\n\nNow I am kind of confused. I got home and I couldn't sleep because all I could do was think about her and that kiss. I don't know if I should pursue it, because I don't want to lose her as a friend. And I don't know what my next steps should be! Thoughts? Advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Today she ate an apple and some spinach. It's now almost 10pm and for the last hour (I've been studying all day so I've been with her for an hour) she's been complaining about a migraine. I keep telling her she needs to eat and drink and she won't say anything but that she needs advil or excedrin, even after I gave her one of my hydrocodone pills (right when I got to her place) because she seemed so miserable when I walked in the door. Only after telling her over and over to eat and being inattentive when she brought anything else up did she decide to heat up some chicken and eat it with a piece of bread. My worry is that she does this all the time, eating what I would guess is around 400 calories a day, except on days when I nag her she probably eats up to 1500 calories max, with days on exception where she will just eat a whole lot. Those days are about once or twice a week, when she's either really high or fucked up. What do I do? I don't get why she doesn't realize she's hurting herself :( Also, for a long time I didn't nag her or say anything because I didn't want to offend her but now I care too much", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and my girlfriend (both 22) have been together for around 3 months, we have gotten along so well that we never fight. The reason that me and her started talking is her cousin that USED to be her bestfriend since they were babies, and I say used to because from out of nowhere she started to make my gf's life a living hell, she became bestfriends with my ex-gf and started talking bad about her for no reason. My gf has anxiety but handled it pretty well, but then her ex-bf called her and told her that he and her cousin had sex twice and that he had to come clean to her. After that, her anxiety went through the roof, and even her attitude towards me has changed. I guess my question is, what should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were together for almost 2 years at uni, and we even lived together. But I moved across the world for a year abroad of uni, and after about 3 months the strain became too much. \n\nWe mutually broke up, and we were both ok. But afterwards I didn't take it well; I drunkenly text and rang him. So I decided to delete him off facebook to stop myself from embarrassing myself further. \n\nThis didn't really work, and the last time we talked was when I tried to call sober to clear the air but he was angry that I was contacting him again. He said we'd talk in a few months when I was over it but I told him I didn't want to be friends.\n\nThat was a few weeks ago and I don't know what to do. I feel so awful that I have lost not only my boyfriend but my best friend, and the idea that we can't even be friends really saddens me. I know I was in the wrong and I was so over dramatic, but I feel this is mostly to do with the fact I'm not really enjoying my time abroad.\n\nI kind of wish I'd never left my home country and him, I was happy there. I don't know what I expected to find here but I haven't.\nShould I just leave this and move on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll start us off. Flashback: I'm in sixth grade, painfully awkward and unfathomably shy. Some boys in my English class tease me every goddamn day, using words I pretend not to understand (such as whore, slut, cunt nugget, nigger, etc.) Sometimes calling me them, sometimes ridiculing me for not knowing what they meant (I did).\n\nI fake sick or have some excuse every single day for why I can't go to school. Eventually my parents confront me about it and force me, in the middle of McDonald's, to repeat everything those douches said. NEVER had I been so horrified, each syllable felt like a block of poison cement. But, happily, the little bastards got suspended thanks to my ballin' English teacher finally laying down the law.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating this guy since the beginning of June (about 3 months now) and things have been going great. Two weeks ago though I learned my mother is moving to another town (we'll call it Town X) about 1.5hours away and has said I can come live with her. Now, I'm absolutely going because I've wanted to live in Town X for a long time and I'm not going to give up this opportunity. I talked with my boyfriend and he said he understands and still wants to try making the relationship work and so do I. However in Town X I have a friend (let's call him John) who I have a slight crush on. I met John while he was visiting in my town shortly after becoming official with my bf. Physically John is exactly my type, and he's very intelligent with a great sense of humor (we bonded over Reddit funny enough). Because I'm attracted to John I made sure the few times we've hung out it's been in a group and I haven't put myself in any situations that could lead to something (like drinking with him). My attitude about it up until now has been \"Oh well. Crushes happen, but I have a boyfriend.\" Since I told John I'll be moving up to Town X, we've been talking a lot more though. I also learned where I'm moving to will be 10-15minutes away from where he lives. He's also the only person I know up in Town X, and we'll probably be going to the same school in the Spring, so I feel like we're going to spend a lot of time together. A mutual friend told me John has a crush on me as well and would honestly prefer us to be a couple instead of the guy I'm with now. I like my boyfriend very much and I think he's the nicest guy I've ever been with, but I feel like the world's building up circumstances to push me and John into something in a weird sort of way. I'm going to try my best to keep things going with my bf, and I believe communication is key, so should I try to talk to my bf about John? If so, what should I say?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have this friend who happens to be a woman. She's 24, I'm 26. We've been friends for a little under 2 years now. The friendship is mutual, seeing that she's initiated plans with me quite a bit. So I want to clear that out of the way, so everyone knows that I'm not some NiceGuy that follows this girl around. \n\nThe last time we hung out was when we met at a party last Saturday. Before that she hung out at my place 3 weeks ago for a movie and to match weed bowls (matching is where I smoke my weed with you, and you smoke your weed with me). We usually talk twice a week or so. If we aren't in person, we talk via text. It's been over a week and I haven't said anything. Not because I don't want to talk to her, but I haven't had time to really make plans, and I don't really have a whole lot to say. I'm also socially anxious and a tad insecure, so another reason why I haven't reached out is due to fear of annoying her. \n\nI would like to go ahead and reach out sometime soon, to keep the friendship afloat, but I don't want to be annoying/creepy. Again, maybe it's my own social anxiety making me over think things. But I am coming here to reddit to get a second opinion on whether it's just my own anxiety, or if I have a point. \n\nSo women, is it creepy if a dude doesn't text you at all, especially if you expect the guy likes you? Would you assume he's playing some game, or that he's just living his life?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I got my SO a surprise X-Mas puppy for Christmas. All he has talked about since I met him was how bad he wanted a puppy.. Every day I heard it. So I bought him one a few weeks ago. His ex took his puppy over 1.5 years ago when they split. Since we got the puppy, all he worries about is the puppy. I try and train him, and if the puppy makes a noise, he thinks I am hurting him. He completely spoils the dog and lets him getaway with everything. He is always exhausted/grumpy (even though I get up with him every morning), never wants to do anything since we got the puppy and we use to have sex few times a day, and now I am lucky if it's that in a week. I am so exhausted. I do everything I can as this is all he wanted and talked about, but all he worries about now is the dog. Than last night, we planned on having sexy times all day, and when it came down to it, (dog was in crate), he told me TO HURRY UP!!! Seriously?!?! Reddit please help me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "me (19m) and her (19f) recently ended our relationship of 10 months on grounds that she didnt think our relationship was \"going anywhere\"\n\nand honestly, I feel pretty upset cause I can't get past the feeling that even though she said I treated her \"perfectly and would be an idiot to break up\", she seems like she doesn't really give a shit about it. to her friends she says she isn't heartbroken, she's glad to be free and she hasnt even thought about it. I don't know, I guess it just hurts to think that even though she thought our relationship was great that she can just drop it that quickly\n\nis there more to it? she's a normally very stoic and emotionally guarded girl, so I feel like it may not be all there..and I know it really shouldn't matter to me this much, but it's my first relationship and I guess it's just shocking how little of a shit she is coming off as giving", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been going out nine months and she's not the type to sleep around and she's slightly critical of other promiscuous people (especially those with a track record of going in bare and being reckless). Anyway, she has a friend she's not particularly close to and she made a comment that she would never consider dating anyone that has been with this friend of hers since those men are only there for the pussy, they use her friend, and any man who is dumb enough to fuck her without protection has no standards or any regard for his personal health.\n\nWell, I kind of fucked the friend. Three days before I asked my girlfriend out. She doesn't know. At all. She thinks I hadn't fucked anyone since the relationship I had before her because that's what I told her.\n\nI'd keep her in ignorance because if I could do it again I wouldn't have fucked the friend but we were both drunk and she was down to fuck and I wanted some pussy. Now, my issue is that their friendship is on the rocks and I feel that if shit hits the fan her friend will tell her we fucked and I'll be caught in a lie.\n\nI do know that she wouldn't be dating me if she knew I fucked her friend and she's the world to me. She's foreign and not as liberal with random fucking between strangers (which I'm not opposed to at all but she doesn't know that). I do admit that I find that quality in her super admirable but, again, I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place.\n\nDoes she hear it from me or do I risk her potentially finding out from either her friend or another third party?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last year, my parents went through a pretty ugly divorce. My mother had been tired of my father for a long time, only putting up with him for the sake of me and my siblings, but recently decided that she'd had enough.\n\nMy father was never quite what I would call abusive to me in particular, but he was never exactly kind to any of us. He was, however, quite terrible at handling my sister's problems. My oldest sister (15 y/o) suffers from depression (largely due to the behaviour of my father) and so he decided that the best way to deal with that was to refuse to let her close her bedroom door under any circumstances, constantly follow her around the house, and generally worsen her situation in every way possible.\n\nHe was always very emotionally detached, and seemed to think that because he brought in money he had no reason to try to be a real father. Now that my parents have split up, he's realized that I've picked a favorite parent, and has been trying to make me feel guilty about it. On several occasions he has implied, but not directly stated, that he would consider taking away my college funds if I left him or didn't listen to him. Every time I talk to my mother about these situations, she talks to my father and then he yells at me for talking to my mom about my problems with him, even though he knows full well that he is not approachable.\n\nI will turn 18 in July and will be able to choose where to stay then, but I can't put up with him any longer, and I do not trust him around my sister. Currently, there is a court ordered custody ruling that requires us to spend every other week with our father. Is there any way to contest this ruling, or to refuse to follow it?\n\nI live in Pennsylvania, I can give more specific location information if it is required but I don't want to be too specific in case my father somehow finds this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For a couple of years now I've had an acquaintance that I really enjoy talking to and ended up developing a big crush on.\n\nWe met when we were both married, nothing inappropriate went on. Eventually I found out she got separated and we stopped talking. About a year went by and I ended up getting separated from my wife. After I was separated for a bit I contacted her again and after a little back and forth I asked her out. She then informed me that she was seeing someone else (that really hurt).\n\nEven though she is seeing someone, and it really hurt to be rejected, I still enjoy talking to her. Our conversations have been been limited to email and texting for now. Our conversations are light and simple, some joking around.\n\nI know continuing to talk to her is not the smartest decision, since she is involved, and if she doesn't answer I get paranoid she doesn't want to talk to me. Despite this, I would like to keep some time of communication with her. Is this weird? \n\nI know there are no rules for relationship situations, but does anyone have any advise or suggestions?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay so for about a year now my brother has been dating this girl Shay super cool chick we're pretty good friends, she has a younger sister named Allison also super cool.\n\nAllison and I have always been flirtatious around each other since we met. About six months ago she had broken up with her girlfriend and moved in with my brother, his gf, and I for about two months. \n\nAllison and I got really close within the time she moved in, about two weeks within her staying with us we ended up hooking up. We tried to become an item, her sister Shay really didn't like that idea due to the possibility of it causeing problems within her relationship with my brother. \n\nThings all hit the fan once I had told Shay that her sister And I wanted to be together, her mother, sister, and Allison were all fighting and it caused problems with Allison and I. The entire situation was tearing apart Allison's and Shays relationship, we had a really bad fight about it and stopped talking. The fighting was about the drama things would bring if things didn't work out between Allison and I.\n\nFast forward a couple months Allison and I start talking again and ended up making out a couple of times. We decided to not go further with things because we have been down this road before so we stopped. I had told my brother what happened and he recommended that I told Shay due to the fact that hiding it caused a lot of problems last time. \n\nI Told Shay everything that happened. I had told her that Allison and I are just going to be friends and that we respected them to not persue our relationship.\nYeah that was a mistake same thing all over again.\n\nNow everyone is upset with me because I opened my mouth. I really don't know what to do from here and I really don't want to lose Allison but I know I might...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been together almost a year, but it's been entirely long distance (9 hours apart) with us taking turns seeing each other on weekends twice a month, and spending a week together on a couple occasions. \n\nMy girlfriend was job hunting at the beginning of this past summer when there were two jobs opening up. One about 20 minutes from my house, another an hour further north of where she had been living. The job that was further away gave her $10K more a year than what she would've made living by me. I had no problem encouraging this path because we had only been together a few months at that time, and wouldn't want her throwing her future away for me. \n\nDue to some unfortunate circumstances (my dad being in the hospital, her having to work multiple hours of overtime, a couple deaths in her family, etc.) we haven't been able to see each other this month and during the holidays. She told me a few weeks ago that she felt bad that she couldn't come home to me and felt lonely even though we can and do Skype, and basically that the distance is hurting her. I had already been thinking about moving up there, but was going to wait until the school year is over so I don't leave my employer in a sticky situation.\n\nI'm a teacher at a private school, and even though my pay isn't awful, I'd be the one to make the move since it's an easier move for me. It also helps that I have friends that live in and around the same city she lives and works in. I want to offer to move up there, but don't know how to bring it up to her as we've been somewhat distant with everything going on.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am in a co-ed fraternity and I got paired up with this girl I didn't know was going to be so amazing. I could talk to her and carry a conversation without having any trouble at all. I feel like she is so easy to talk to about things that I have trouble telling my best girlfriend. She makes me smile, laugh, and just makes me happy when I'm around her. However, she's my fraternity big sister so that could potentially be weird. I know she doesn't like dating within the fraternity but will do it if the right guy comes along. Any advice would be helpful. How can I approach this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "3 months ago I moved across the country to live with my boyfriend of 2 years (we were in a LDR). I have no friends and family here. everything is ok and all but we've been bumping heads a lot lately when it comes to going out and spending time together. My boyfriend works a hard 50 hrs a week as a diesel mechanic. he wakes up at 5am and doesn't get home till about 6-7pm. he is also a Sergent for the army reserves so he has more responsibilities than just the diesel job. he has off (most) weekends. I have a boring job as a security officer. I work 12 hours shifts but I only do 3 days a week. I also do some extra work on the side to bump my hours up to 40+ a week. I usually leave work with a lot of energy to do stuff but I don't bother my boyfriend during the week because I know he is tired and just wants to relax. On weekdays I keep myself occupied.\n\nby Saturday, I am restless to spend time with my boyfriend but all he wants to do is stay at home and play video games. I ask him why he never wants to do anything and he says because he works hard all week and all he wants to do during the weekends is relax at home. ok but... when will there be time for us??? He says when he takes some vacation time off we can do things.\n\nDoes that sound normal to you? Not doing anything at all with your SOs unless on special snowflake occasions? I get that he works hard but I also think he should put some effort into the relationship too. are my feeling validated or an I just being a high maintenance girlfriend?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend 28 has grown up with a very strong set of beliefs that there should be no sex/foreplay/cohabitation till marriage, subsequently she has never had a solid relationship, has never had sex or fallen in love. To put things in perspective, she had recently achieved (her first) orgasm one night I had helped her though her cloths.\n\nSo here we are dating... going out to dinner a few times a week, making out on the couch like teenagers. If I press her too far sexually, she then regresses back and that is not done for a few weeks. Meanwhile I am thinking, that I will never be close enough to marry her if we are not progressing the relationship (foreplay, spending the night, maybe even moving in with each other at some point).\n\n------------------------------------------------------\n\nWhen I asked her values she states the following. :\n\n\"I dont want to be test ridden like a car\".\n\n\"If I am going to act like the wife, why not become the wife\".\n\n\"Its harder to just walk away when you are married\".\n\n\"I would feel less of my self if I was living with someone who did not marry me\".\n\n\"Marriage is great for taxes\".\n\n\"I need to be engaged before we do anything more than we are currently doing\".\n\n\"I know you want to buy a house, but I wont move in unless we are married (once we are married I want us to buy a joint house together so were both on the title and the partner could never say \"this is MY house\".\n\n\"We could sign a prenump if you want\".\n\n--------------------------------------------------------\n\nLike this is some formula for a relationship, minus the love that would somehow fall into a good relationship.\n\nI dont see any of this shit above.. I want basic love, love that would flourish into a normal sexual life, and progress into a strong relationship, then marriage.\n\nI currently feel none of this and here is she talking about heavy, outdated formal dating. Dont get me wrong I like this girl, but every time she talks about this I drift further apart.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is not easy for me to ask about but I'll try explaining as much as I can. \n\nJust a few days ago one of my best friends and I were hanging out with a group and she started showing signs that she was attracted to me. I've been interested in her for a while, but found myself locking up in a way when I recognized her wanting to get closer to me. I ended up trying to change conversation topics and even stopped talking to her altogether. At the time I was making jokes, but deep down I was (and still am frustrated) that I couldn't just let her get close to me. \n\nThis isn't the first time this has happened. I've had a long history of girlfriends that I've pushed away when they've become too close or have pushed me away, or cheated on me, losing my trust. This of course hasn't helped me build up a good sense of what a healthy relationship is. I can only think of one romantic relationship that was even close to stable. \n\nI know I want a healthy relationship whether it's this girl or someone else but have no idea how to get there. In my latest relationships I've noticed I've been a lot more distant and a lot more willing to end the relationships quickly. I've done this by showing distrust and apathy and later have regretting my expression of those feelings after the girl is gone. Even when I've been intimate with a girl I've felt myself become distant and emotionally detached. \n\nI like this girl a lot and want things to be different if we get together. I want to feel close to her, trust her and give her the healthy relationship that I feel she deserves. I know I don't have to be perfect, but I don't want my tendency to distrust others or shut down on them to get in the way of what I feel we could be.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I moved out of my parents house when I was 18 to go to university which is about 700km away from home. During my freshmen year I met my girlfriend and we started dating ever since then, I have had to keep my relationships with ANY girls a complete secret from my extremely religious Muslim parents. The real problem is that we want to move in together but I'm sure if I tell my parents they will not let me go back to school away from home in September. The main reasons I don't just tell them to F--- off is because they pay for my tuition and the fact that I really care what my parents think. \n\nI don't know how to tell my parents I have an Asian girlfriend that I've been dating for over a year and we want to move in together. I'm pretty sure they think that I will end up getting hitched with some girl my mom picks for me, like my sisters did (and we all know how great their marriage's are).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "-Sorry if this isn't the right subreddit but I figured it was a good place to start-\n\nSo I just started my college career (woo) and one thing I'm not sure about is female friends. I had friends who were girls in high school, but all of my REALLY close friends were guys. I'm on a co-ed floor, and I'm getting pretty close to a girl who lives near me. I have a girlfriend (goes to a different school) and she knows that, so she knows that I'm not interested in more than a friendship (I would hope), but I'm really interested in being close friends. However I'm not really sure what I can/can't do with a close friend who happens to be a girl... Like if I went to get food with a close guy friend or took a bus from campus to a store to get something with a guy friend it wouldn't be weird, but are there some things you don't do with a friend who's a girl that you'd do with a friend who's a guy?\nThanks for the help, I don't wanna like lead her on or something that would ruin a friendship because I really would like to be friends with her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This may not be the best place to get advice on this, but there's this kid in town (19 y.o.) who is a phenomenal soccer player, to say the absolute least.\n\nI don't know his full background, but he came here from Liberia 4 years ago after a U.S. couple adopted him. At age 15 he was already playing in Africa's 2nd division (not sure how soccer is set up there, but I know it was one step below the major teams).\n\nHe was brought here, to Small Town, USA where barely anyone knows anything about soccer. He was home-schooled so never got to play in high school but did play on a recreational club team for a bit. Now he plays in pick-up games once or twice a week with out-of-shape 30-40 year olds. Needless to say, he runs circles around everyone. It's almost sad seeing talent like that in such a talentless group. It's like seeing an orca at Sea World: It's cool to witness but you know that's not where it belongs.\n\nI'm not exaggerating when I say this kid could be playing for an MLS team right now. He's so agile and fast and controls the ball with so much accuracy. He can make the ball do whatever he wants.\n\nHe loves soccer more than anything but doesn't realize what he can do with it. I told him he could play for a college team and he said, \"oh, I can't afford that.\" I was like, \"Dude! The school will pay for it. You're free!\"\n\nHe doesn't have a GED yet so he probably wouldn't be able to play for the NCAA right away but he could go to a CC, or just go straight to a club.\n\nSo how do we get him recognized? Do I film him playing against these old guys? Film him doing drills? What do I do with the videos?\n\nThanks for any advice you can give!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Known her 8 months, love her to pieces. Absolutely believe she's pretty perfect for me in every way. Adoreee her.\n\nWe were kinda acting like a couple for about 4-5 months until a month or two ago when she had to deal with some personal stuff. It forced her to put \"us\" aside and since then we've been close and pretty much the same as ever, but not nearly as consistent.\n\nI think I need to get over her, but it's so fucking hard because she still acts the same way she always did around me. I feel like I can't be friends with her because she was or is in love with me and I'm in love with her but for some reason there's always something preventing us from committing to each other.\n\nI can't seem to justify cutting off such a close friend for \"feelings\" in my head but it's so painful every day wishing she'd just tell me she loved me out of the blue.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hope this doesn't break the bodily discharge rule, but it says it's okay for the weekend and Friday's count where I'm from.\n\nThis is a rare kind of TIFU, it happened today at 2am, I've had man flu from hell, been running a fever with elevated heart rate for a few days, and good god the amount of shit I have coughed up has been ridiculous. \n\nI decided to keep a pint glass by my bed so I could just phlegm in there & save waking everyone else up. I went to bed around 7pm almost entirely unable to human.\n\nOrange juice is good for you when you're ill (the pure kind with bits, not squash/cordial), so I shot off to bed armed with my OJ and phlegm glass. Now the mistake I made was having the exact same glass for both. You can see where this is going but sit back and enjoy the gross details.\n\nThings worked out alright for a while, I'd cough then have some oj, pretty solid tactic & one that I should've stuck to. The moment of doom came when I went for the oj without coughing, in a virtually pitch black room I reached for it and I was sure it was the right glass...\n\nSo sure that I went for the proper mouthful, yknow the kind where your mouth is drier than ghandi's flip flops, and you just wanna swish that moist goodness all around in there.\n\nPoor decision, I realised my mistake as I felt my goopy mucus with chunks collide with my tongue, tonsils and teeth. Vile. I got most of it back into the glass as swiftly as possible. \n\nBut your body lets you know when you fucked up and this was one of those times, I ran across the hall in my boxers and just about made to the toilet, sprogged and wretched to a standard that'd make Gollum envious. Super attractive, I know. I emptied my glass of shame and broke it by throwing it to the recycling bin about 5m(15ft) from my window.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(repost from /r/okcupid because I'm dumb)\n\nOk, I feel like such a high schooler having to ask this, but I was hoping reddit could help me out here. I'm newly single and I feel like I'm completely lost trying to get back into the game.\n\nSo, I met a guy on okc. Things seem to be going really well. His picture wasn't that exciting, but we had a lot in common so I gave him a shot. He's funny, nerdy, loves all my favorite stand-up comedians, loves Firefly, blah blah blah. On paper, the perfect man. In person? He's also freaking GORGEOUS. And still funny and nerdy. He's the first guy I've met on okc who I felt genuinely excited about, rather than just cautiously optimistic.\n\nSo here's the rub: we've been on four fantastic dates, but he hasn't made a move. Not even a peck on the cheek. I'm starting to wonder if he's not attracted to me. He seems like the type of guy who's been a nerd his whole life, and doesn't realize he's hot, so his confidence might not be there. I'm tempted to make the first move, but I also suspect he's just old-fashioned, and that would completely turn him off. What do I do? How many dates do you all usually go on before it feels right to make a move? How do the men of reddit feel about the woman initiating?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been in this relationship for almost two years. It hasn't been perfect and I believe it's been on a downhill slope for a while. My boyfriend has recently started a new behavior with me where he will intentionally do or say something that he thinks will annoy me or make me mad, and if he gets a reaction out of me, he laughs.\n\nFor example, he will invite me out to dinner with his friends, then he won't text me when the time comes for dinner. When I text him asking when dinner will be, he'll say, \"whoops I forgot, we're actually eating now.\" Then ten minutes later will say, \"Just kidding, we're leaving in an hour.\"\n\nSometimes, if I excuse myself to return a text when he's around, he sticks his hand onto my screen and moves it around to mess up my text. If I try to pull my phone away, he says, \"I've always wanted to do that: mess up your text just to annoy you.\"\n\nThe last time I tried to have a conversation with him about where our relationship was headed, he just sat down and started laughing, saying that the conversation was \"funny\" to him. When I asked him why he felt that way, all he could say was \"this is just a funny situation. It's just hilarious. It's just so funny.\" Without any further explanation.\n\nI'm not one to feed the troll, but it is beginning to get really annoying. I don't know how to handle this situation other than to just ignore it when it happens, but it is honestly beginning to get really hurtful. Sometimes it feels like I am dealing with a child. Any input on what to do/why he may be acting this way would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I appear to have lost the ability to car door today.\n\nWent out to the shops a few hours ago to drop off some bottles for recycling and buy some sweet, sweet Pepsi. Now this is an activity I perform on the regular, so you'd think there would be absolutely no room to fuck this one up, wouldn't you? Yeah, that's what I thought too.\n\nThe world, however, thought otherwise.\n\nSo as you do, I place my newly acquired colored sugar water into the backseat, shut the door and prepare to place my body into the front seat. This, however, is where I apparently lose the ability to door, a thing I have done countless times before with no detriment or harm to my person whatsoever. Grab handle, open door--\n\nOne thought promptly manages to enter my brain case: \"Bloody hell I think my head just exploded.\"\n\nYes, I manage to open the door right into my forehead. Not only that, but once I flop into the seat like a bag of particularly pained bricks and inspect the damage, I find my rent flesh is currently attempting to paint the rest of my face bright red.\n\nAt least I wasn't driving and the Pepsi is safe.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know man, I was in the heat of the moment and had to choose between looking like a major pussy or being a man and owning up to my decision. What would you have done in this situation?\n\nI just got off work (12AM) and started heading home on my usual route. I enter the highway, blasting my tool CD. There was this asshole behind me who had been trying pretty damn hard to pass me even though I was already speeding and I wasn't going to let him pass (I like being alone on the road while I enjoy the music and night scenery).\n\nSo the bridge of the song comes on and usually it makes me drive faster so I'm thinking peace bitch as I press the pedal down in the Mustang GT (only an 06).\n\nSo now I'm going 140 - 160KM (I'm in Canada) and I see these two cars up ahead. I catch up to them very quickly and think I'll just slide right through these guys and be on my way. \n\nTo my horror.. \n\nI see the back of a cop car. I know I'm fucked now. It was so obvious I was speeding.\n\nNow I'm thinking, Jesus Christ, do I just slow down right beside the guy like the worlds biggest pussy and just start cruising with him? That's hella fucking embarrassing. I just said fuck it, I can't do that.\n\nSo I slow down a little and as I'm passing him I throw him a thumbs up (as if I might get lucky and get a cool cop lmao)\n\nI pass by at 110KM and instantly the lights come on.\n\nFucking unreal. I ended up getting a ticket for speeding. At least he was pretty cool about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've always said I'm a resilient person. I'm a strong woman. But I've been through a lot of hell in my short adult life.\nI thought I was ready to move on after what had happened to me 6 months ago. Apparently, what they said about this sticking with me for life was true. The concept of a normal relationship seems too far gone for me now that I'm a different person. I was raped. And I've been trying to reclaim my life for 6 months.\n\nThat's not the beginning though. For 3 years I was in an emotionally, physically and sexually abusing relationship. Following that I spent another year with someone who sexually abused me. I was so done with being abused that I had a one night stand, believing that it was my chance to take ownership of my own body. It wasn't until a stranger raped me that I finally understood how fucked up my sex life had been. \n\nNow that I'm dealing with the aftermath of my rape, I'm unsure of where to go. I had two friends with benefits, both ending badly. One became my best friend and the other tried too hard to get me in his pants. I finally found the strength to tell him no. \n\nIt's been a long journey, but it turns out that the first person I fell into after my rape was the first person to even attempt understanding me. I fell in love with him, and I still am. He treated me like I was more than a body. He started out as a friends with benefits, but the moment he saw how scarred I was - something he noticed before even I did - he assumed the role of my best friend. For that I am forever grateful.\n\nRecently I fell into a new friendship that took a wrong turn. We had sex. Or do I even call it that? I didn't have the heart to say no. I don't know if I've ever been able to say no, after the first guy took advantage of me. I just assumed that any man who took the time to touch me had owned me.\n\nI'm ready to stand up for myself and stop giving my body up to people who take it for granted. It's my body. \n\nWhere do I begin to take a stand?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 24, she's 25. We broke up a couple months ago after a 3yr relationship. It was a mutual decision. I think we loved each other very much, but weren't really in love anymore. I don't regret breaking up, it's been hard, but I feel more like myself than I have in a while. Still, its hard having my best friend ripped away from me. There were no hard feelings during the breakup but I feel like it would have been easier if there were; then at least I could convince myself to dislike her or not wish her well.\n\nA large part of the problem is that we share almost all the same friends. We've unofficially split them up as far as hanging out on a day to day basis goes, but we're both still really good friends with all the same people. Two birthday parties we're both invited to are coming up, then a wedding we're going to together since the invite came before we broke up, and another wedding later in the summer.\n\nAs it is I ran into her randomly last week, we hugged, said a couple words and parted ways, and that was enough to completely break me down. I miss her so much. I know I need to separate and be able to heal, but I honestly don't see how I can do that without abandoning some of my friends, and even worse, there's a large part of me that wants to be able to go hang out with her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know her almost 2 years now and we have been good friends.\n\nI recently told her how i feel about her, she just smiled and told me that she wanna talk with me about that after her trip to \"summer-splash\".\n\nI havnt seen her ever since then and we havnt chatted either.\n\nIm gonna meet her tomorrow at a birthday-party and i dont rly know how to react.\n\nShould I talk with her or just act like always(friends).\n\nI mean, i got this feeling that she likes me as well cause she just smiled and huged me. i generally thought that she likes me more as well", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I broke up with my boyfriend around a month ago, he is a nice guy but I think it was for the best (due to several things that hurt me and happened in the relationship). I have been able to move on and no longer feel sad without him, but since he was my first relationship there is something in my mind that I cannot stop thinking about.\n\nI recently found out that apart from the things he did that made me want to breakup (long story) he used to regularly chat with a girl that posted on gonewild in skype and that sometimes he just talks flirty with friends. It just overall left me confused, since he just said it's just his personality of wanting to get to know people (gonewild girl) and that he saw that being flirty with friends that knew him was harmless. \n\nI just want to know if I am expecting too much of a boyfriend if I don't want them to talk with girl strangers online (especially those who post on gonewild) or flirt with other girls while in a relationship. I want to date in the future, and I don't mind a guy having girl friends, but it does make me uncomfortable if all of their friends are girls and he chats with them daily flirtatiously. I know it is a silly question, but it is killing me inside to know if it is me who is overreacting or if it is actually possible to find someone who will commit in a relationship in the same level that I do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I first met this girl through an mmo mobile game, called ingress, where you have to meet others in order to play the game, near March of this year.\n\nWhen I first saw her, I couldn't believe she was actually playing the game to begin with. In my mind I kept going, \"what are you doing here, you are defenitely out of place\".\n\nI just shrugged it off and didn't think much of it, because I never thought that I would ever really create a relationship with her to begin with. A few months pass and I decide to chat her up. \n\nSuprisingly, she responds and we end up messaging each other past till one o'clock some nights. Eventually we hang out and we head to an ingress related event in another major city close by. \n\nBut, before we leave she hits me with the boyfriend card. So the entire day of the event, I was devastated. \n\nAfter the event, I´m still talking to her and hang out with her a few more times. It was all fine until, one day her bf, when we were hanging out, flipped out on her and they had a huge arguement about him being jealous. \n\nAfter that I´ve tried my best to cut down on communicating with her, which is tough because she still plays ingress as much as I do, and avoid hanging out together so her bf won´t get jealous again. \n\nBut now, she wants to hang out again, and I´m starting to think that she only wants to hang out to fill that void, that her bf can´t fill since he is somwhere else or she is just trying to make him jealous again. \n\nSo I just wanted to ask if I should hang out with her again or bail on any plans that she wants to make.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened yesterday. \n\nI was at lunch at school, sitting with my white friends because I have nowhere else to go. \n\nI was sitting next to one of my friends--we'll call him Tigg--and he's just really chill and never acts out like the rest of the group. \n\nAnyway, for some reason, the people at my table started doing some kind of really white and cringey \"roast-off\" which took form as a rap battle. \n\nTheir raps were complete garbage, even if it was a joke. Instinctively, since I'm one of those \"offensive humor\" people or something, I said \"your raps are giving me cancer.\"\n\nAbout 1.5 seconds later, it hit me. \n\nTigg's little sister has leukemia. \n\nI'm 110% sure he heard me, because he went from smiling in my general direction to instantly frowning and looking down at the table. For a solid 10 minutes I sat there thinking \"I fucked up; I reaaaally fucked up.\" I was hesitant to apologize because I would have to bring up the matter, which is also touchey. For the rest of lunch, we both went on and acted like I had never said anything, but I'm hoping that Tigg wasn't acting. I feel like more of an asshole than I usually do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [23/f] have known here for quite a while and this is something particularly that I dislike about her. She is really dear to me but knowing these parts makes me feel unpleasant in her surroundings. Whenever she travells, she comes back with bunch of stuff such as shirts, earrings, bracelets, shorts and all the stuff you could put in your bag. The other day she asked me if I wanted to go with her in chinese shopping mall and steal stuff for summer, I said yes just to avoid further asking because I needed to think about it. I never really stole anything and that is not what my parents taught me. I just dont support it at all, especially if its material stuff that im stealing. If I have to steal one necklace, I don't even need it at all, it would always remind me of the bad ''small krime'' i did. However, today she came back from short trip with her friends in nearby village, with a really nice necklace and I asked her where did she find it since it really looks appealing to me and also, my style. She said, with such a nonchalance, that she stole it in an open-air store. That was the moment where I thought ''Why do you keep doing it''.\n\nShe comes from pretty nice and harmonic family, she is a student and we all live in a students dorm. Her parents send her enough money for food and I guess she could always ask them for more money.\n\nDo you, dear redditors, consider her a cleptomaniac? What are the causes?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This may be obvious to some, but it has helped me get a much better picture of my finances. For years I struggled with paying bills, sometimes because of low income but just as often because I was disorganized. After making simple changes to my bank account structures I don't miss bills, have lowered my spending and can understand my expenses better.\n\nThe trick is pretty simple. Open a checking account for all your reoccurring expenses. Then go about setting them all on auto-pay. Most of the time you can connect the bank numbers or use a debit card to automate payment. If you need to pay an individual or have to pay by check most banks have a bill pay feature that will send scheduled payments by check.\n\nAt first you'll need to overpay into this account because your expenses estimate might be off and you need a buffered balance. After a couple of months you'll be able to pay in almost exactly what you need. Then you can setup automatic deposit to cover all your expenses.\n\nCongratulations, your financial life is now completely automated. Did you remember to pay such and such bill? Yeah totally. Analyzing your accounts it looks like you're paying for a lot of online storage. Google sells space cheap. Consolidate accounts and save. Get hit with an unexpected bill? There's plenty of buffer in the account, just pay a bit more in to make up and move on.\n\nIt can take a while to move all your accounts over, but once you do the benefits of organization are massive. Also, once you make that one or two payments into the account per month (pay into it right when you get income) whatever remains is your spending / saving money.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit,\n\nI'd like to make painting and drawing one of my hobbies, but I almost always feel frustrated enough to quit after spending X amount of time on a project. I spend a lot of time working on details, and as soon as I realize it's not coming out as well as I imagined it I start getting annoyed.\n\nThis causes me to pretty much not like painting, drawing, starting art projects, and art in general. I'd love to like art because I feel I have potential to improve my natural ability a lot, and I even get excited when I start projects. However, this problem is getting to the point where I'm thinking about just not starting any art projects at all.\n\n(Btw I'm not interested in taking my skills any further than just a free-time hobby)\n\nDoes anyone have any experience overcoming anything like this? Should I learn to love it or just stop starting projects? I'd love to hear your advice!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi folks! So here's the situation: My brother was going to participate in a championship meet in his high school for a 4-man relay team, but had the coach replace him for someone else. Now the thing is, the other kid was late an hour from when he was supposed to meet the team. My brother inquired about why he got pulled from the race, and the coach said it's because the other kid has a faster time.\n\nNow does that really send the right message for a team? \"I can show up anytime I want because I have a faster time then all of you.\"? Shouldn't discipline and team respect be precedented over time?\n\nMy brother is really upset about this and I wanna know Reddit's opinion on this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my GF for about 16 months, she moved into my apartment about 6 months ago. Things have slowly fizzled out (dead bedroom) and although we are very good friends, it has become clear to me that we're looking for different things in a romantic relationship. \n\nShe works as a teacher, but next year will be enrolled in a master's program at a University in another state. The plan has been for us both to move out of state in June when her school year is over. I've recently decided that it is best for both of us to go our separate ways and I will not be moving with her.\n\nDilemma: When do I break it to her? We live in my 1 bedroom apartment and share a bed. I cannot expect her to move out and find a new place when she will be moving out of state 2 months. I'm afraid the news will crush her. I doubt we can continue to live together in a small space for 2 months, with one of us sleeping on the couch every night. \n\nI know this will be hard and I know it needs to be done as soon as possible. But I feel it would work out best (for her and me) to wait until about 2 or 3 weeks before she leaves to drop the hammer. \n\nHas anyone gone through a similar situation? Any advice is greatly appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend and I have been close for quite a while and she's always been abundantly clear about her opinion against marijuana. \nWhile in college two years ago, I tried pot, wasn't really a fan but I didn't mind it; I told my friend about it and she was fuming, didn't talk to me for a week. It was very unpleasant. \nShe did the only other two times I had tried it since then, she absolutely lost it. \nLast night I found out that she had tried it and refuses to accept that she was unpleasant about it in the past or acknowledge that she was being hypocritical. \nAfter telling my friends about it, they all sided with her, making me out to be the bad guy, I had a huge melt down and now they all resent me. What the fuck do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I grew up pretty poor - not sheltered - but poor. I didn't step on a plane until I was 21 and I have never seen the ocean. I was in Chicago for two days when I was 21. And I have driven through Phoenix - those are the only big, populated cities i have even touched on. I don't know anyone in D.C. nor do I understand the parts of the...city? the...District? I have had several people give me advice, and have talked with several people renting rooms. Some people say it's better do deal with an hour commute both ways and live somewhere like Silver Spring - while others tell me, \"In terms of neighborhoods, stick to Dupont Circle, Capitol Hill, Adams Morgan, Mount Pleasant, Columbia Heights. And try to be near a metro station (very important!!).\" And yet others tell me these are dangerous areas to live.\n\nAlso, they want me to start, on a Monday morning. I graduate Saturday, 1200 miles away.\n\nI am excited, and scared, and I will miss my cat, and my best friend and my apartment. Should I move to D.C.? Am I going to get lost? Am I going to get mugged? What is the worst thing about D.C?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We began dating right after 1st year Uni, dated 1 year then broke up for 6 months over differences in expectations for how long our dating would continue before marriage.\nI lean toward a shorter dating preference (1.5-3yrs) by which point I feel I would have decided on way or the other. She feels more that every other aspect of her life (career, school, family, financials...) must be perfectly in place to accommodate marriage regardless of how long that takes. \n\nAfter getting back together and being more clear that I would be willing to date happily until she felt her life was in order if she was considerate of me not wanting to date just to hold off marriage. and things have been going relatively well since then (3+ years since). We have travelled together, spent family holidays together and always been in open communication about our motivations, opinions, aspirations and disagreements. We have not lived together.\n\nSince 1-2 months ago we have been slowly having more and more difficulty with our depth/frequency of conversation and it is making her very uncertain about our relationships future and how much I care for her.\nI am someone who is very easygoing, patient, I feel loved by just spending quality time (out of the house especially) together a few times per week and doing random acts of kindness. I would only expect to have a thought provoking and deep conversation with my closest friends and family perhaps 1 time per month, and somewhat more with my SO.\nShe is someone who is very critical thinking, loves hugs and being complimented, and is always excited to just sit and talk about anything that comes to mind for a long time as long as the conversation is stimulating.\n\nIt does not, to me, feel like we've been having fewer conversations but she tells me I have been less ready to participate actively and less giving of my time for such conversations. I feel that such an intense level of conversation just isn't sustainable, she feels it's necessary. We plan to attend couples counselling this month for the first time.\n\nIs this normal? Is it a real problem or is one of us being unreasonable? Can anyone relate? I really do love her and want this to work.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I known said friend since elementary school and we are going into our Senior year of high school. We text small talk just about every other night. This has been happening for a week now. I never felt this way about someone ever before and its keeping me awake at night. I would love to ask her out but I fear of getting rejected and her stop talking to me. I know there is no reason not to ask and just go for it. If there is any other advice besides just going for it. Is there any way to see if she is interested in me other then asking. Any comment is appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi /r/personalfinance,\n\nI own a condo that I bought in 2008, and initially lived in myself, but have been renting out ever since I moved away in 2010 for a better job. Between the rent, the property management fees, the mortgage payment, PMI, and HOA fees, I estimate that I am paying about $250-300 per month to own this property.\n\nThe tenants in the property for the past couple years are so pleased with it that they're working with a real estate agency (the same I used when buying it) to make me an offer on it. I still don't know the number that they will be offering, but my concern is how to really process that number. There seems to be so much at play:\n\n* Tax breaks I've gotten and continue to get for paying a mortgage\n* Property management fees I've paid over the past 5 years\n* Property tax I've paid over the past 7 years\n* All the mortgage interest that's been paid\n* Taxes that would be assessed as part of the sale\n* 3% agency fees that I'd have to pay for\n* The rent that I didn't have to pay when I was living in the unit, that I would have had to if I hadn't bought it\n\nCan anyone help me figure out how to really quantify the impact that selling it would have? I should also say that I'm in a financially strong position and that owning the property does not put me under any strain. I'd really like to be able to run the numbers and see what it looks like before making a decision one way or the other.\n\nIf it helps to provide specifics about the mortgage and the other costs then say so in the comments and I will.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "After browsing this sub it seems that the most common advice for people going through a breakup is to go no contact. However this really is easier said than done. My gf and I have been broken up for about a week now and I constantly find myself wanting to be with her and talk to her. She has been my best friend for years and I see her on a daily basis (we work together). Any time something good or bad happens in my day she is the first person I want to tell (and vice versa), and I want that to continue regardless of whether she is my girlfriend or just my friend. \n\nWe had been having difficulties recently, as she has expressed how she frequently misses being single. We have a very open and honest relationship so as much as it hurt to hear, we talked through it and ultimately decided the best thing to do is break up. We still really care about each other and I just don't believe that no-contact is the best way for us to go through this time. \n\nShe has been the most important person in my life for a while now, and I had always believed that even if we didn't end up together, we would remain an important part of each other's lives. Am I completely unrealistic in thinking this? I want to stay friends with her and let the feelings fade away naturally. Has anyone here ever successfully remained friends with their ex without going no-contact?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "RACE DESCRIPTION: A race 8 miles in length between two towns 272 years apart. Go from the year 2016 and run to the year 1744 and back again.\n\nBACKGROUND: Typical story. Dropped weight and started the /r/c25k program in april 2015. Never ran before that. I transitioned through b210k and a half-marathon training plan. Did my first half. Ran a bunch since then and completed a 27.5k trail race this past June.\n\nTRAINING: I have a marathon in September so my training has been focused towards that. This race was a \"training run\".\n\nCOURSE: An easy peasy loop. You run on asphalt for most of it before transitioning to dirt roads and paths. \n\nBREAKDOWN: Ran at a good pace, no real complaints. \n\nFOOTWEAR: Hoka One One Challenger ATRs. Loved 'em.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi to all at Runnit,\n\nBasically, my knee gets really painful after a run (and other times), just below the Patella. After a run it gets painful walking down stairs (not excruciating, just sore) and I can't sit with me knees bent in the same position for long periods of time (by god, when I do, the stretch afterward feels AMAZING). \n\nAnyway, I've been to the doctors about it and there isn't anything that should be causing the chronic pain (it's ongoing, just flares up post-run), there's some mild shift in the Patella, some issues with splines and a bit of premature degradation of the knee joint. However, \"this is fairly common\" (Docs words) and shouldn't be causing me the issue so I'm a bit stuck...\n\nMy next step is an arthroscopic examination with a camera and then an operation OR to work out if it's something to do with my running style that's causing it.\n\nHas anyone had any previous experience of this kind of thing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 25 year old male and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I've only ever had one other relationship before him and he is my first and only love - I absolutely adore him and would do anything for him.\n\nWe went on holiday a month or so ago with our friends and after he had an argument with one of them, he admitted that about a month prior, after a night out with that same friend, he ended up kissing somebody else and didn't stop it - and that he was only telling me because he didn't want for me to hear it from the friend. \n\nI was, and still am, completely devastated. I keep trying to tell myself it was just a kiss but can't help wondering if it was more than that. I'm annoyed at the fact he didn't tell me about it because he wanted to, had it not been for the fact that he and his friend had an argument, I probably still wouldn't know now.\n\nI'm really trying to work through it but at the moment I feel so alone. We are both trying to make it work as the 2 years we have had together have been amazing, but ultimately I feel betrayed. \n\nAbout a week prior to him telling me, after a few drinks we had a stupid drunken argument and he started to accuse me of wanting to hook up with somebody else - which isn't true, and we ended up having probably the worst argument that we have had to date - yet he was the one who had actually been unfaithful!\n\nSorry if this post is rambling and seems disjointed, I'm upset by it all today and just wanted to get it all out.\n\nHas anybody else found themselves in a similar situation? What did you end up doing to get through it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello! \nHopefully this is the appropriate subreddit for this matter (and if it isn't just tell me where to go!)\n\nToday, I found out that I am going to be a father! I'm so looking forward to the new year :)\nThis post is more \"me centered\", just to let you know.\n\nMy situation is a little unusual because I am a transgender man (meaning I was born a girl).\n...So with that, I have no ability to impregnate my wife (or anyone for that matter). My brother was willing to be a donor for when we felt the time was right. \nAfter going through legal details and lots of medical testing, My wife is now 5 weeks pregnant!\n\nWe are ages 27 & 28, 4 years married (So close to 5!), financially stable, recently moved from our apartment into a house. \n\nWe are so thrilled to start a family. Late nights and long talks about parenting have brought out lots of details and plans. Of course we talked about my gender identity and what aspects of it could effect our child, Positive and Negative. We feel a bit stuck.\n(We both agree that being honest to our child is important)\n\nI'm just worried about their future. What if I don't explain things right. \nThe facts are that:\ndad is transgender, doesn't have boy parts (even though he is hairy, sounds like a boy and doesn't have a chest), dad can't have babies... so .... obviously.\n\nAlong with trying not to confuse my child, I'm concerned for our safety. \nI am legally male and apart from my close friends, doctors and family, Nobody knows about my transition. \nSo many bad things happen to transgender people, simply because they are trans. I've lived through a hate based attack, and since then I've been terrified of having people finding out. I now live in more accepting city, but I can never be to sure. \n\nAny input or advice you might have on the situation is greatly appreciated.\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because he's a redditor. \n\nSo my freshman year of college, I met a guy on here after posting on the sub for the city I was going to be interning in for the summer. We became friends after he found me a sublease for the summer and checked it out for me, and we and talked for a few months before I got to the city. Once I got there, he really helped me out and showed me around, and next thing you know we were going out on dates, kissing, having sex, etc. We visit each other often, still basically acting like a couple AND he has told me he loves me. Neither of us have dated anyone else over the past 4 years. The last time I saw him was about a month ago where I literally spent all of spring break with him. \n\nWell I'm graduating in a few weeks and I took a job in his city, and I'll be moving there in June. I wanted to move there anyway, but I had further motivation because of him. Last night we were talking on the phone and I mentioned that I was glad my apartment was close to him and that I was happy we could finally be together as a real couple. But then he said \"well babe, you know not like that.\" To which I said \"what do you mean? I thought that was always the plan\". And he just said \"not right now, ok? you're just young and I'm not sure it's ok, or if it's what I want.\" so I just said \"you literally told me you loved me a few hours ago, how could you say you don't want a relationship with me?\" then he didn't say anything and I got pretty upset and hung up. He called me again today but I can't even deal with talking to him right now. \n\nI just feel like I am completely stupid and naive for falling for a guy much older than me who all of a sudden seems like he doesn't even want to be with me. Am I crazy for being upset about this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We are all sophomores in high school. My friend Hannah is dating a boy named Trent, and they have been on and off for almost two years. They have had a few problems but she trusts him a lot and loves him and is considering letting him take her virginity.\n\nMy friend Emma has a friends with benefits thing going on with Trent that started before he and Hannah got together, but neither of them have stopped it ever. I swore to Emma I wouldn't tell anyone, but after hearing Hannah talking about how much she trusted Trent and that they would lose their virginity together and that she knew they were perfect together... How can I hide a fact like that?\n\nI don't know how many people Emma or Trent have told about their deal, but I know it isn't more than five. To be honest, it would probably be blamed on me if people found out.\n\nI am SO much better friends with Hannah than with Emma, but I have many classes with Emma and she is my biology partner. She would definitely hold a grudge.\n\nWhat should I do? Keep quiet and let it take its course or tell Hannah and save her from a douche bag who is lying about virginity and cheating?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just completed my first semester at college and did very well-- all As and Bs. I should be really happy for myself but Im not. im stuck thinking about how my girlfriend isnt coming back.\n\nbefore i was happy for her. with a crazy, troubled past shes finally ready to open herself up and seek treatment to deal with the emotional scars shes suffered. but now i feel really alone.\n\ntowards the end of the semester there was essentially a huge fall out between my girlfriend and our group of friends. i decided to take my girlfriends side and havent talked to anyone in our friend group in the last 3 weeks.\n\ni dont know what im gonna do when i go back. i dont know who is gonna be there for me or if im gonna wanna make new friends. i am a funny happy-go-lucky guy but recently ive just felt down and alone. i plan on flying out in january to see her but i just hate the whole situation.\n\nthere was a trust incident right before my girlfriend and i became official--she hooked up with a guy at a party back home-- and im just sick to my stomach right now that shes gonna do it again. i know shes sorry for what she did and she promised she would never hurt me again but i just dont know if i can believe it.\n\nit just seems like i have had a lot on my plate and i dont know what to do. my mom and i think i should transfer to a school closer to home after the year. i dont think my girlfriend and i could make it work if that happens.\n\nany thoughts would be appreciated. thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The following takes place in the state of Ohio, I'll try to keep it brief but it's a little complicated, thanks in advance for any advice:\n\nMy wife and I found a rental house that was perfect for us to move into in mid September. Our apartment's lease does not end until Nov. 30, however. It was mid-August at the time, we let our landlord at large apartment complex know we planned to move out in roughly a month, and they told us, to my surprise, that our only options were to pay a \"lease abandonment fee\" of 2 months rent from the end of a 30 days notice OR find a replacement tenant to take over our lease, for who they would refuse to do the usual cleaning/maintenance done during typical turnover.\n\nThe first option is virtually no different than paying the remainder of our rent, however, and does not seem to be a good faith attempt at mitigating damages, namely because our apartment could easily be re-rented in a far shorter time. In fact, after I told the landlord's office I would attempt to find a replacement tenant, they contacted me to tell me someone was interested in my apartment since it is the only one of our model that will be available in the near future. The leasing agent said she would try to get approval from her manager to have the new tenant start a new 12 month lease with the apartment cleaned. However, she was shot down and told he could only \"take over\" my current lease, then renew if he wanted. \n\nWell, since we have a cat (he is allergic) he did not want to move into an apartment that was possibly uncleaned (I offered to pay for cleaning - the landlord ignored this and the new guy obviously wouldn't want to depend on a former tenant's word that has no longer any stake). I don't see how this sabotage of a potential new tenant is any different than refusing to re-rent and mitigate damages. Can anyone advise me as to whether they are neglecting their duty to re-rent by doing this and refusing to allow me to simply pay rent until it is re-rented?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all, I had a sloppy make out with a good friend and developed feelings for her over the next day or so while hanging out. Time went by, I tried to let those feelings go by dating two other women, but I could only go back to thinking about that one night with my friend.\n\nI ended up actually talking to her best friend about it while drunk and like most normal humans - her friend mentioned that I said something to her - she replied \"I don't want to talk about it because we are like best friends\"\n\nYet we still tease the hell out of each other and get really touchy/flirty when we are near another in group outings. Is it time to tell her how I feel? Or try to get her to go out on an actual date before I say something?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because this is embarrassing. I've always had bad skin, and although my body acne is significantly better than it was as a teen, I still have breakouts and scars from prior acne on my chest, arms, back, neck and butt. I am very careful with what I wear (never anything shorter than short sleeves or open back, and NEVER any kind of bathing suit). I have a regimen to improve my skin, but the scarring is actually worse than the zits themselves - it makes my whole body look spotty and gross!\n\nAnyways, because of this, I have always been EXTREMELY self-conscious of my body. Additionally, while I have lost weight, I am still somewhat flabby (skinny-fat, if you will), and I can only have sex with my BF in the dark when I am drunk (and when I'm sure he's had some alcohol as well... I guess so maybe he won't notice my body).\n\nWe are going on a beach vacation with his family this fall and I'm terrified. I wouldn't be caught DEAD in a bikini and I feel like a weirdo if I try to come up with an explanation as to why I won't wear one around anyone.\n\nLong story short, I don't know if he's noticed the severity of my body issues, but I never let him see me naked in the light of day or sober.\n\nAnyone else have similar experiences/suggestions?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just to be clear, this happened BEFORE our relationship. So basically she told me that she dated her friend a bit before our relation, but never told me she sent him nudes and she still had phone number saved. When I asked her to delete it, she hesitated to delete her number when I told her too but she eventually did after I forced her too. She said she dated her friend but they were platonic (not physical) until today after 2 years I just found out from her friend that she sent him nudes (so probably were physical too) and he even showed me the nudes. What makes me mad is the fact she never thought to mention this during our relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a recent college grad, as of May of this year. Like everyone else, I have a lot of hopes and dreams for the future, but the one hang-up on my life at the moment is my inability to find a job. \n\nI have student loans to repay, and my parents have given me until the end of the year before they start cutting me off. I'm 24 and way past the age when I should have been independent. I can give a bunch of reasons and excuses for why I am where I am in my life, but that's exactly what they'd be, excuses. \n\nThe bottom line is that if I don't have a job in December, I won't be able to pay gas, insurance, groceries or anything else. I've been living in my parents' house throughout my college life, with my older sister, which has repeatedly sent me into spirals of stress and depression that left me on the verge of being suicidal on more than one occasion. I have been talking with my boyfriend about moving in with him, in December, but if I don't have a job, that won't be an option either, because I do not wish to go from being supported by my parents to being supported by my boyfriend, I don't want that burden on him, and I don't want either of us to be in that position.\n\nI'm not trying to throw a pity party for myself here, but I could really use some advice on how to get my life on track, and pull myself up and out of the situation I've found myself in. I like to think positive, but that's become increasingly difficult of late. I've been visiting Reddit for a while, but now I feel like it's become my last hope.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I finally got a job! I've never been so happy to piss in a cup before in my life. I am convinced that even though online job sites have openings in seemingly entry level jobs, that they really aren't hiring. After checking sites like craigslist (only restaurants, everything else on there is pretty much a scam) and Indeed.com and applying to every position that I qualified for the only place that ever called me in for an interview was McDonald's... and they didn't even hire me! I even tried through a temp agency for a while to no avail. What really pissed me off about the temp service is that the only job they ever wanted to offer me was an over-night housekeeping position at a hospital. I have experience as a housekeeper but I was being upfront and honest when I said that housekeeping isn't something I was interested in doing anymore. I suppose beggars can not be choosy though. Just as I was seriously considering this job, I saw in the newspaper (hey, I was looking in every resource I could get my hands on for a job!) that they had not only one but two ads for jobs that I would much rather do than house keep! One was an administrative job and the other was a production job. When I had called to question why they never offered those positions to me (I was very poignant and called the temp service twice a week to see what was available); they said that was just so that they could get people in to put in applications! I said, why do they need more applications when they can not even find jobs for the people that have already signed up!\n\nAnd I really want to say thanks to reddit because I did take a lot of advice here to heart. I wish I could link to the posts and give due credit. One post was something along the lines of: (Dealing with confidence issues) \"Just fake it until you make it.\" Another post was a very informative post on askreddit about tips for when you actually do get interviews that said that s/he added at the end of the interview, when asked if s/he had any questions said: \"What can I do or say today that will give me this job tomorrow?\" (I totally said this!)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit, I'm great on first and second dates when a lot of it is asking questions and getting to know about the other person. In fact, I love meeting new people because I'm pretty decent at small talk. After the first or second date though, I seem to run into a wall about what to talk about. \n\nIs this a problem of just 'chemistry' (fuck, how does it work)? I'm great hanging out with friends and with girls that are in that damned friend zone. I just can't seem to make it work on a one-on-one setting with a girl I'm interested in, in a date situation. I'm just wondering if anyone had any tips out there. Thanks!\n\n(Note: I have been in relationships before (21 years old), but I feel that this seems to be part of the reason why they don't go anywhere and just kind of fizzle out.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I don't know it this is my place, but it's worth a shot if I can get some advice on what to tell this girl. \n\nI(18f), have a friend(17f), who is dating an awful guy(22m), and she doesn't seem to see it. She has been seeing this guy for about 10 months. He work on the rigs up north and goes away for 21 days and then is home for 7 days. For the past 10 months he's been telling her everytime he is at work that as soon as he gets home he is going to commit to her and they will be official boyfriend and girlfriend. Everytime this has been a lie to convince her to do something sexual with him For a couple months he even started to tell her as soon as he gets home he is going to propose to her, but once he got home he 'didn't have money to'. \n\nOver the amount of time they have been seeing eachother she has been on dating websites seeing and hooking up with other men. They had \"an honest discussion\" the other day, and he admitted to sleeping with mutiple women. Now I know that they weren't commited during this time but everyday he has told her he loves her and \"she's the perfect woman, etc.. Apparently now they're trying to work things out. How can I explain to her they will never be able to trust eachother? She insists on havig all this social network passwords and when he's at home she constantly had his phone. \n\nI just wish I could help this girl; her parents are basically non existent and let her do whatever she pleases, I feel like the only person she has to guide her is me. \n\nAlso... She has a 15 year old sister and this creep adds hers little sisters friends on Facebook and flirts with/ hits on them. He also gave her a disease, it was curable, but still.. Why aren't these things red flags to her?? Once again I know it's not my place but my heart just bleeds for her and I can't watch her get hurt constantly by this ass.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She broke up with me, like about a year ago because, even though she still really liked me, \"we couldn't be together\" because of many issues I'm not getting into. Here are some facts:\n\n-only dated for 2 months, it wasn't even ever \"official\".\n-Never even got past 2 base, I liked to take things slow.\n-I tend to be fairly superficial usually so she was the first girl to whom I was attracted to mainly because of personality, hence why i took it slow.\n-When we first met everything went so natural, wasn't even trying to impress her like I usually do on dates, we were just having natural fun, mutual attraction and chemistry was there.\n\nSince we split up I saw other girls, dated one for about 6 months, sex was good, but eventually lost attraction, went on dates with others, etc. By now I should be over her, kind of am in a way, don't think about her all day everyday like I used to but it still really feels like, for some reason we were meant to be together, so much chemistry and things in common, same personality and similar backgrounds. Why am I feeling this way? I know we can't and won't be together, I live in a different town now, is this feeling supposed to 'mean' or indicate something?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey relationship redditors,\n\nI have a quick and intriguing question about relationships in college. What would you do in this situation? It is kind of awkward once I really think about it. Here's my short story. \n\nI'm 20 years old in college. In our college's honor program enjoying life and utilizing my brain to the highest capacity. I've met some really cool people over the couple years at my college. I wasn't too interested in girl's at first, however I am comfortable around them now. I wasn't before. I still am a little reserved, but that's all worked out now. I've changed up my lifestyle and negative habits and I'm in college to be a doctor! Only black man in my honors philosophy course and everyone else is white. Representing the black community! We need to represented in these sophisticated classes! XD\n\nAnyway, I knew this really nice girl from last semester. We met in the hall after a random instance. I don't know how we got to know each other, but anyway I really like talking to her. However, she told me that she's not too interested in doing anything out. Like going out. She's pretty comfy where she's at now and doesn't want to date. She told me that she liked me, but doesn't want to do that type of thing. It's pretty understandable.\n\nShe has a sister and I can sense that she really likes me! 0.o. It is a weird feeling, but all I do is politely bob my head to say hi and she really lights up when she sees me. And I ended up eating lunch with her. It was a really good meal and we have similar interests. She's a vegetarian and was on a cleanse and ate some really good looking salad! That alone was very admirable! Because I thought, \"wow that's exactly what I'd do!\" She kind of hinted and have me good vibes, but I could be wrong.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Cutting straight to the point, I am probably the worst person because what I do damages both me and is a lie to the girl. In the past I've had a series of girlfriends that I haven't particularly loved. I always thought that my problem was that being a nerdy guy, I just liked having someone show interest in me. But I realise now that it's somehow worse -- I court that feeling, when you realise that the person is drawing down their barriers, letting you in, and really falling in love with you. You never know someone until they fall in love with you.\n\nWhere does this leave me? I can label myself as an asshole, or at the very least as someone who really shouldn't be going out with people until I can sort this out now that I'm aware of it. So I'm not interested in hearing how I'm an asshole. Where else does it leave me? It leaves me in long term relationships with lovely girls, but I have no idea what it's like to properly love someone of my own accord. Or perhaps I should say to love someone on their own accord. So it doesn't exactly leave me in a good spot either.\n\nDoes anyone have any insight? Why I might be like this, what I can do. Every girl I've been with has absolutely loved me, and I have been a very good boyfriend because that's what I love to do, so it's not like the relationships are any different for this. I just don't always get the person that I'm looking for, because I 'settle' when there is a girl falling in love with me? I don't know. Any thoughts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, so I feel so bad about this. \nIn November me and my SO will celebrate our 1 year anniversary, and of course we said that we'll gift one another \"nothing\" and of course we both knew it's a lie.\n\nSo, I just discovered what her \"nothing\" is, and this is why I feel bad. She know's i like computers and when I first built my PC I didn't buy any graphics card, and I of course did tell her that (several times..anytime we (mostly me) talked about computers..I'm an idiot) and now she wants to buy me a new graphics card. The thing is I'm an university student and the last time I played video games was like 2 months ago, and I have little to no time to go to the beach and enjoy while it still lasts, not to mention playing on PC. \n\nSo all this wouldn't be a problem if I didn't discovered it, but the thing is expensive and I'd rather go in some city in Europe we didn't visit. Since it's expensive she's asked help from two of my friends (both students; but one too kind to refuse to help) and my parents (they have their financial problems of their own). Knowing her, even if no one would help her, she's going to buy it just to make me happy, but I don't need it right now and as I said earlier there are so many other things that I'd spend money on. \n\nWhat I did is to tell her that I want to take her somewhere South (in Europe) and, subtly, told her that any dime will matter and that I wouldn't want her to spend money on something materialistic, but rather invest it in our trip. She agreed, but! she also said that she put heart in choosing her \"nothing\" and that she's willing in doing both. I also sought the help of a friend (one she contacted and said he's broke) and told him to call her and subtly tell her that it'll be better to go somewhere to spend time together. \n\nPlease, help me understand why won't she give up and maybe how to convince her to chose something else.\n\nThank you!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Our sexlife has been normal for the first 5-6 months. We had sex like every day and it was good. \nBut since I got that birth control shot I don't feel like having sex that often. And I felt really bad and tired the last few weeks.\nSo I understand it seems like I'm making excuses but that's not what happens. \nSo anyways. The last time we had sex is 4 days ago. And he says we only had \"good sex\" twice since 2 weeks.\nI really am sorry for it but there's just no feeling of having sex sometimes. He keeps asking me why I couldn't just let him try to make me horny but it's not about the being horny part it's about that I don't even want to be horny.\nWe had two fights about it since yesterday cause he thinks I'm controlling our sex life which is kind of true but what's so bad about doing what I feel like and telling him if I don't want something. \nHe was yelling at me and I kept saying that I'm sorry but apparently he didn't hear it.\nHe said he wouldn't even want it anymore and just left the house.\nI was planning on having sex with him, just like yesterday, but not like this, it just makes me want to leave.\nHelp.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "He [24] sends mixed signals with the things he says sometimes, causing me [19] to overanalyze and/or get carried away with it. He likes me but isn't on board with my physical appearance which I'm working on. And I completely understand that. We have phone sex but I told him I no longer want to as it doesn't help with my trying to get over him. I'm extremely attached and its rare I feel like this about someone. I can't help but invest a lot of me emotionally when I feel this way but its only making me feel ridiculous considering its mostly one sided. KNOCK SOME SENSE INTO ME,PLEASE.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll keep this short:\n\nI've been hooking up with this girl for half a year now, and we've only been official last month. When we were just fooling around, I told her that if she ever hooked up with other guys, I just wanted to know that she used protection.\n\nThere's this one guy in question that she said she blacked out and can't be completely sure, but she thinks she did. I trusted her and we ended up dating.\n\nNow I find out from her friend (who screenshot their text conversation) that she did NOT use protection during that night in question. She clearly wrote it to her friend.\n\nI feel like my trust was betrayed. I'm a little disgusted with this. She probably didn't want to tell me because she wanted to keep seeing me (and now we're dating), but she knows I'm serious about these things and I can't believe this happened.\n\nBeyond that, we've been pretty solid. \n\nHow should I deal with this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry in advance for any bad grammar or typos, using my phone.\n\nMy wife and I are in the process of buying a house (and are currently under contract). The house was rebuilt brand new within the past few years, and we knew we just had to have it when we saw it. The process has been relatively painless up to this point, including the resolution of several things from the home inspection process.\n\nFast forward to yesterday: law office sends over a correspondence letting us know that one of the sellers has died, but the remaining spouse still intends to move forward with the sale. Instant remorse and sorrow set in; despite hardly knowing the person. Then my wife brings up a valid point: what if the person died in the house? Will we still be comfortable to move forward ourselves, given that knowledge? I dismissed this, figuring hey the sellers are young, it probably was an accident of some sort (not trying to sound insensitive here, just trying to get my point across).\n\nI spoke to our lawyer last night, and basically was told that we are in a binding contract, and (barring a homicide or wrongful death in the house of sorts) would need to move forward so long as the seller wishes to move forward. Outside of this, we would need to involve a litigator, and that will create a huge headache I an sure.\n\nNow, we just found out that the seller did indeed die in the house (suddenly).\n\nI don't know how to feel or what to think. Maybe we're overreacting? My wife is more disturbed over the situation then I am, but I still feel unrest. Any and all advice or constructive criticism is welcome. Are we right to feel this way? Or should we just try to brush it under the rug, so to speak?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My gf finally gave up on me about a month ago. I've been talking to my parents about this and would like some more perpective.\n\nI was raised by a father with aspergers. He was raised by an ASD mother and bipolar father. Needless to say he didn't have the best examples to learn from considering observation is his main method of learning emotional/loving interaction. My mother tried to compensate for it as best she could, but I think that lead to an overbearing type of love that really has affected me as well. \n\nAnyway. I lived in a VERY religious household until 20. Once I was out I latched onto a woman I met and we got married at quickly. About 5 years later she divorced me. I met another woman and latched on again. Once again she left me. \n\nSo. My recent realization as to what is ruining my relationships (and actual question) is that I have A LOT OF trouble realizing that someone loves and cares about me. I had the two extremes with my parents and reject love in all forms now. I don't trust/believe people that say they admire me or see anything good in me. \n\nQuestion part: What can I do to deal with this? Anyone else in a similar situation? I feel that I don't know how to feel loved or tell that someone really loves me. It's ruining relationships with friends, family, gfs, coworkers, etc. I seem to follow that same pattern over and over and I'm tired of it.\n\nI've also dealt with depression/anxiety for years, but I don't believe those are the roots of my current issues. I think this is a deeper root that I would like to explore and welcome any and all input.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My fiancé and I don't like the notion that the wedding is all about the bride — he's getting married too! So, for instance, we will both be escorted down the aisle. \n\nMy mom and some friends are hosting a wedding shower for us. I am adamant that it is not a bridal shower — it's for both of us. In keeping with our non-traditional-ness, we would like to invite people who are important to us, no matter their genitalia. \n\nMy mom thinks we should invite all our friends' significant others, since it's a co-ed shower. But some of these people we haven't met or have only met a few times. They certainly wouldn't make the list of \"people most important to us.\" \n\nThings get a little complicated if we don't invite the SOs, because my mom wants to put \"co-ed shower\" on the invitation (so she doesn't get inundated with calls like this: \"Wait, did you mean to address this to Amy AND John?\"), but I don't want people with long-term SOs to feel shafted because the SO wasn't invited. We don't exactly want it to be a \"couples shower\" — just a gathering of people close to us. \n\nAny advice? Maybe an alternate name we could give the event so people still understand it's a shower and that it's okay to come if you're a man? We don't want the guest list to get so big that it's basically another wedding. (Plus, space is an issue; it'll be held at my parents' house.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here's how it is: We met in high school. Became friends. Dated briefly in Year 12, but it didn't work out because we were young and I was kind of stupid. \n\nSince then we've always been close, despite living 3 hours away from each other. Over about 4 years, I have had spouts of falling in love with her again, only to give up after always being friendzoned.\n\nNow I should be clear: in the past this girl has always been a bit insecure, and she dated plenty of boys to feel better about herself. After she woke up and realised how unhealthy that was, she made a decision to be single for at least a year. Now, she's happy with herself, because she took steps to change her life (yep. she's a keeper.)\n\nSo here's where I'm at now: we're both single, and we both enjoy that for now. But we're also really, REALLY close. I am crazy about her, but I have no idea whether I should give up and drift apart, or whether this could turn into a relationship in the future.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My two are from movies called \"The Lady in White\", and \"It\" by Steven King. My parents are very lenient and allowed my sister and I to watch some creepy/scary movies when were were kids. I'll tell you guys about my two creepiest parts.\n\n1) \"The Lady in White\"- So, for those who have seen this movie, there's a scene in which the young boy is \"watching\" this little girl's murder but he cannot be seen by anyone and neither can the killer. The part of the scene that always gets me is the part where the little girl in a albino white dress is literally a couple of feet off of the ground screaming bloody murder, being strangeld by an invisible assailant in a cloak room. This shit still scares the crap out of me and I will forever not go into a \"cloak room\"/closet in a school simply because of that movie. Also, there is a creepy as balls whistle song that goes on throughout the movie, still can't forget it and it's been over 10 years.\n\n2) The part in Steven King's \"IT\" where Pennywise shows up in the in the sewer to get Georgie and says \"Hey Georgie, we all float down here!\" No matter how much time goes by I'll always remember that statement and how freaked out I was when I saw it. To make people more familiar, I despise closed and disgusting spaces (sewer) and the whole evil clown thing makes me uncomfortable. Also, the part where Georgie's photo starts to bleed in the book when his brother is looking at it. What the actual fuck?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So basically we're both 19 and have both been going pretty hard out at playing the game for the past two months. We have gone out a couple of times and we can go for weeks texting each other novel length messages and not get sick of it.\n\nI thought I had it pretty sweet for a while, our friends refer to us as being bf and gf, but we have never admitted it ourselves, or would reply with 'she/he wishes', pretty much just both trying to not show too much interest in the other. \n\nI should also add that we have both never been in relationships, and he has a history of never really pursuing girls but is most definitely not gay (before you go there haha)\n\nRecently I lost my virginity to him, which isn't something that I regret at all, but this is where things started getting fucked. Around the second time we did it my mother found out (most awkwarddd) but ended up being alright with it, and I told him of this. He started just being awkward and kind of stand-offish, and said 'its so awkward that she knows everything...' and fearing that my parents will slaughter him, but at the same time would say things like 'i want to meet your mum so she can know that she has nothing to worry about' blah.\n\nI've initiated texting since, which is something i would ordinarily rarely do, but his replies have been pretty shit. I'm taking a step back and have ceased contact, thinking maybe he needs space. Based on what i've experienced and everything i've heard about him, he's not the 'love em and leave em' type of guy, but he's being pretty asshole-y right now.\n\nWas I right in doing this? Will he even come back to me? WHAT IS HAPPENING?!?!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm coming to you with a weird problem which has probably occurred before. However, I am curious to see what others think about this problem, and if anyone has any tips for dealing with it.\nA few months ago I had a falling out with someone I considered a great friend. I won't really go into details other than to say that we were both at fault with our shitty behaviours. Nevertheless, I am trying to put this episode in the past. However, we are no longer friends at all anymore.\n\nHowever, we have a lot of mutual friends. I have purposefully kept quiet about the situation to avoid drama, but my former friend seems to have been gossiping to her close friends about me. So it appears that there's a whole group of people who think I'm not worth being around.\n\nNormally that wouldn't annoy me, because I have a lot of good friends and not a whole lot of free time due to my job, career prospects, etc. However, I do occasionally have to see this former friend at parties. Usually her group of friends is with her and I can't help but feel anxious when I know I'm going to be seeing her. However, these gatherings are the only times I get to see some of my other friends, so I don't want to avoid them altogether.\n\nHas anyone ever been in similar position here? How did you deal with it? I have a feeling that even if I try saying a polite hello, my former friend will just ignore me. Should I even try to be polite? I want to avoid awkwardness but it's difficult when you have mutual friends who don't know what happened. But I can't help but feel really keen anxiety when I think about having to interact with her. I really don't want to, but I want to see my friends. \n\nDo you recommend talking to my friends about what's happened, or just staying quiet for now? I didn't want to stir drama but was thinking that maybe at least some of my close friends", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, my fiance has a tendency to spend money.. Little bits here and there and then sometimes the large thing (though he does discuss them with me beforehand)\n\nSo we can keep atop of our finances and save something every month, I've set a strict budget for food, bills and spending money. I also budget £150 a month each for personal spending.\n\nHowever, he has already 'spent' that and about 6 months of future monthly spending allowance on a football season ticket and a new model dyson Hoover (that he insisted we needed as we'd had our old Hoover for a year already....) obviously I said that was crazy, so he opted to use his personal money to buy it.\n\nHowever, he has now pretty much maxed out his personal spending and we've had a few arguments over him being allowed to spend a bit more on bits and bobs and that he has every right to spend a bit more if he wishes.\n\nI understand he's put himself into a corner - and doesn't now have money to spend on little purchases like CDs or games. However I feel like I'm being punished for being good with my finances and end up having to give him some of my spending money, rather than taking it out of the saver.\n\nI should add, he does earn more than me so maybe he feels its his right that he spends money how he likes. \n\nBut I like to save and think its healthy for the future....\n\nHow do we stop the arguments?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here is the deal, my mom is an alcoholic, always has been. Anyone who has dealt with one knows that it is an all the time thing; and that there are peaks and valleys, recoveries and relapses. My mom got remarried around 5 or 6 years ago and I always thought the new guy was nice enough, but never really knew him very well. Over the last 3 years or so she has become a shell of herself, and just sits around drinking and has been neglecting all human things. She never showers or changes clothes and is wearing a jacket that is literally disintegrating on her body she has worn it so long. I have tried talking to her about it to no avail (I currently live about 300 miles from them) This past weekend she missed her first grandchild's (my daughter) first birthday, that I went through great trouble to have in her town so that she could be there. She did not even try to get out for it. Needless to say this upset me so I went over there the next day and basically had a single man intervention (not the first time something like this has gone down). All the time growing up I was usually able to pull her out of one of these relapses but I have also never seen one go on this long. Her husband (who constantly buys her beer and just lets this woman deteriorate in front of him) called me names, and said I was inconsiderate and that she is sick and doesn't want help. I was unable to respond as he told me all of this in a text (chickenshit if you ask me) after I had left town. I was absolutely in shock that he not only is not going to help, but acts like I am some kind of jerk for wanting her to take a shower, get off her couch, and participate in the human world. So my question is this: How do you help someone who lives 300 miles away and cohabitates with a person who is only going to feed her addiction?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all, kinda new to this so I'm not sure exactly what I'm doing, but I was hoping for some help. Hopefully I've come to the right place.\n\nSo basically, I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 months a few weeks ago. She was always really clingy and attached to me, even after I dumped her.\n\nWhile I was dating her, I made a Tumblr account by her suggestion, which is where my problem lies. When I dumped her, I made it very clear that I didn't want hide nor hair of her in my life anymore. But, she never bothered to unfollow my Tumblr, and it makes me slightly uncomfortable for a couple of reasons. The first one is entirely my fault -since she's still following me, I can't help but to keep checking back on her blog. This makes it really hard for me to forget her, and let her go, because no matter how many times I tell myself to stop looking, \nI can't control myself. The other reason can't really be helped -even though I made sure she knew I don't want any part of her in my life anymore, she still goes through my blog and likes my posts. \n\nAll of this makes me really uncomfortable, but I'm not sure how to go about dealing with it. Should I just block her? Confront her? Am I overreacting? Am I being the dick here? I really don't know, and some help would be nice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok so I [25M] work with my ex [21F] and things have gotten pretty bad. She turned 21, said she wanted a little time apart but swore we were going to be fine and get back together. Two weeks later she tells me she doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone, doesn't want to be tied down, and is enjoying the single life. She also informed me that she had started sleeping with someone else a week after we split. And yesterday I worked with her and found out she has a new boyfriend. Working with her has become extremely difficult and usually results in conversations I'd rather not have, and I'm general is a distraction. This job is something I'm highly invested in while for her it is merely a paycheck that she doesn't need because she doesn't pay bills or rent. Am I totally out of line if I ask her to consider leaving? I feel like it would be best for all parties.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I met last year at the orientation for our doctoral Biochemistry program. She's from northern Virginia, where the deer tick-borne Borrelia bacterium causative in Lyme Disease is a real problem. She told me her stupid neighbors were seen feeding deer. Dumb. That's another story, though.\n\nThe treatment so far has involved several 9-week regimens of antibiotic cocktails, supplements, and probiotics. I remember one antibiotic she was taking that looked like yellow paint she had to squirt 10 mL of into her mouth twice a day. She said it tasted godawful, too. She's been miserable every day and makes me look like a total baby, because I stay home if I have a tummy-ache and she constantly works about 40 hours a week in lab.\n\nAlong with Lyme Disease, she has Gastroparesis, which severely limits what she can eat. In addition, the doctor told her that she shouldn't eat food with gluten because she may become allergic to it as a result of this treatment. Usually, she just eats rice products and yogurt.\n\nShe told me that when she gets better, the thing she's looking forward to the most is eating pancakes. \n\nI can't cook. Like, at all.\n\nHow do I make the best pancakes ever? I want to get the right cooking equipment, the best batter possible, etc. I'm willing to pay a lot of money to make them wonderful.", "role": "user" } ]

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