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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background:\n\nThis is not my first rodeo. I have a daughter from a previous relationship and I have no problem starting conversations with those I'm interested in or even strangers for that matter. In the past I've been accused of not being communicative enough (this isn't limited to intimate relationships). It's not that I'm not excited or anything. I'm actually a great listener. I have a good memory. I go out of my way to help others when they need it but I fail at gifting and other subtle things.\n\nSo I'm wondering how I can show this woman that I am genuinely interested and that I've been listening without scaring her off. We've talked daily for the past few days and I've learned a lot about her hobbies and interests and I find her to be fascinating (and of course very attractive) so I would like to know that I've done everything from my end to get things off to a good start.\n\nAny help would be appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My father is a depressive pessimistic alcoholic hermit. He is currently unemployed. He has been fired from several jobs for various irresponsible reasons, which he will argue are/were out of his control. He pulls the pity card any time I try to rationalize his situation with him and look for a way out. I have to admit, I have been enabling him. I have allowed him to remain on my cell phone provider's family plan (for free) as well as utilize one of my checking accounts to pay some of his bills with the small amount of money he has to his name.\n\nTonight I found out that he has overdrawn on the checking account, so I am going to close that tomorrow. I have also since switched cell phone carriers to be on my wife's family plan (to save money), so the cell service is going to be cancelled tomorrow as well, seeing as it is only burning a hole in my fiscal pocket.\n\nI can talk with him until I'm blue in the face. I can take responsible action concerning my end of things. But there seems to be nothing to motivate him. He has had ample time to go out and get a job. He was a big rig driver (all of those jobs he squandered), now he could at least go out and get a menial job just for the income, but he doesn't. He's exhausted his retirement, fails to drawn on his pension (because he believes that he can't 'yet', so he doesn't try...either way I think it is small and he only gets half because of a divorce settlement), and he's in the process of losing his house and everything he owns.\n\nAfter I close the accounts tomorrow, what do I do?!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: L(using as a name for her) and I have been friends since freshman year of highschool. We got really close and displayed feelings for each other later that year and became a couple. That whole relationship was just sexual and nothing else from that(lasted for 4 months). We were both at fault on it and agreed we should break up. We didn't really talk to each other a lot until our freshman year of college(randomly saying hi and just being friendly between those years).\n\nPresent: We have been hanging out a lot and texting and getting really close in our friendship for the last 8 months when she tells me she likes every aspect about me(physical, sexual, chemistry and mentally) but she can't get her subconscious to agree on it(she also has a boyfriend too). She says she can't see her self being romantic with me, only just as her best friend. She sees herself being happy and having a great time with me. She has told friends and family she really likes me and wants to be with me but she just can't get over that barrier.\n\nIs there anything I can do to help her over that barrier or will she have to?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For a few years I had some pretty tough times (divorce, medical problems) and didn't handle it very well. I don't have a lot of friends, and during this time I lost most of them. \n\nOne guy always stood by me though. We've known each other for many years, and he was the best man in my wedding. I consider him a brother, and we used to see each other a few times a month. But the past year or two he has been very distant and not very talkative. We used to take turns organizing events, and invited each other to things all the time. Now I have to initiate something, and he usually has a reason he can't go. I no longer get any emails, and recently he had a housewarming party that I wasn't invited to.\n\nI really want to hang out with him and honestly need a friend, but feel that the friendship is practically over and he's just too nice to tell me the truth.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not really that bad but eh. So today I made the mistake of putting too much juice in my Doge RDA, and some of it spilled out of the airflow vent on to my finger and burned me. But that's not quite the end of the story. Fast forward an hour or so and I'm pressing on the blister to release the pus every 5 - 10 minutes. No big deal, except the time I did it before writing this post it squirted right up into my face. If I hadn't been wearing glasses it would've went right in my eye.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and said girl wen't to same first school and we'd known each other for a long time. In the last few months or so we'd been hanging out more in the awkward: not sure if friends or dating way. More recently we were talking and I asked her out properly - to clarify things as she always would say that she loved me :/ - she said yes. Well, for a while. \nShe phoned me a few hours later clearly having had some distress over the whole thing and said that she didn't want to lose our friendship and that she \"loved me like a brother\" ( that one hurt.) I had been friend-zoned. \n\nMore recently we'd been okay but I haven't seen her much or really talked deeply to be honest. It was at this time that my supposed best friend - with whom I am in a band, short-film company and a school - \nstarted to talk with her and as of today asked her out. \n\nI'm feeling betrayed by me best friend and annoyed at me ex. of a few hours for the way she has / is handling it.\n\nHow do I deal with this without breaking down any friendships and not being a complete pushover?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry, title sounded a little awkward but I guess it makes sense. So basically the other night the girl I've been sleeping with (call her F) regularly comes over and stays over, we have sex and then pass out before we have class the next day.\n\nI have a really hard time sleeping, especially staying asleep, and so a lot of times I'll wake up, but F is a really sound sleeper and it never really bothers her. I remember waking up at least twice, and both times F was snuggled next to me, her head on my chest, but when I looked at her, it wasn't her. \n\nI'm in a fraternity and so we have sweethearts who are some of our best friends, but one of the things is that we absolutely CANNOT sleep with them or have sexual or romantic intimacy, since that would put the relationship between the girl and the entire chapter at risk. BUT, both times I woke up, I saw a different girl. Two of our sweethearts (call them S and B) both have a lot of physical similarities to F, all short brunettes who are cute, and so somewhere along the line of waking up I saw first B, then S, instead of F when I woke up. \n\nI loved it. I like F a lot, but we're just keeping things casual so we're not in a serious relationship or anything, but I spend so much time around S and B as friends, with no romantic or sexual stuff between us (except one time with S before she was a sweetheart). But, I can't act on the feelings I have towards either one, which is that some days I feel as though I might be in love with one or two of my best friends, and that maybe the girl that would be perfect for me is standing right there, and I can't do anything about it.\n\nI just wanted to tell someone this, because obviously if I tell any of my brothers/other sweethearts shit might hit the fan and people would look at me differently.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my ex finished our relationship 2 months ago, we were together for three years. \n\nSo the \"issue\" is as follows: \n\nMy family plans a large exotic, expensive trip every summer and this year my family wanted her to join. (Paid by my family) She and I were excited to finally experience it together. Fast forward a few months and she broke up with me. The trip is still happening but she is not coming; my parents cancelled her room, obviously. \n\n I happened to be looking at out flight info today. She bought her flight on her own and it seem she has not cancelled her flight. Should I say something to her? or just let her deal with financial hit of not doing anything?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been married for about 3 years now and I absolutely love my wife. She has been the best partner I have ever had. We have had ups and downs but we always seem to work things out and we have a healthy sex life. Things are going well but I just can not seem to shake the feeling that I want more. I have lived a prim and proper, mostly conservative lifestyle up until my later years in college. I got a taste of different types of lifestyles and I have always been amazed by them. My wife was the typical break away who decided to distance herself from her family and enjoy any experience she could. There have been tales of hitchhiking with hippys and free love and all that. She has a view of people that I never had (I have been fairly cynical) and it has enabled her to meet some very interesting people from all walks of life and allowed her to make very intimate connections with these people. Well she eventually met me and she changed my outlook on the world. \n\nWe were married right after we both graduated from college and we have taken up a fairly traditional lifestyle. She has mostly transitioned away from the past. After I had a brief chance to experience what she had experienced and after all of her stories, I was a bit jealous. I feel like our marriage has cut me off from having those intimate experiences with anyone other than her. There is a sexual aspect to this but it is also about simple intimacy. Neither of us hinder each other in the formation of new friendships but sometimes I wish we could have more. We have briefly discussed additions in the bedroom but I have never been sure if she was actually interested or if it was just her indulging me. Plus, neither of us would know where to start. I have not really discussed this with her because I don't want to hurt her and she has a way of avoiding discussions like this. \n\nI have maintained the status quo and told myself that those times were over. I thought I would move on from it but even several years later I can not shake the feeling that I have repressed something within myself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend, age 16, was raped by someone she thought was her friend -probably age 16- while hanging out with him at a nearby lake on the first of September. His reason was that he thought they would \"work well together\" and that he only needed to show her. I, age 17, cannot even begin to try to understand that twisted, fucked logic system. She refuses to go to the police, or give me his name because she doesn't want me to get hurt and she thinks cops do more harm than good.\nAs it turns out when he raped her he wrenched her right leg so far that she strained a major muscle. Yesterday as she and one of my friends were horsing around she tore it further. I took her to the emergency room with her mom and she needed three doses of an IV painkiller, two doses of another IV painkiller and two doses of a muscle relaxant (also an IV). Even then she refused to tell her doctor, or her mom, anyone but me, about the rape. And even I was not aware of the leg injury until yesterday when she and one the friend I mentioned before fucked it up further. Whenever the pain medications prescribed to her last night wears off she is in excruciating pain for quite a while before they kick in and she is able to get calmed down.\nIn addition to this, there was a period of about two weeks when we thought she could be pregnant because the rapist later told her his condom \"might have broke\". I am angry whenever I think about it/ him and I'm not convinced that he didn't just say that to try and get her to rely on him somehow. She also has nightmares about it frequently.\nSo I need people to talk to about this and get advice from. What do you think I should do? Who should I tell? How do I convince her to tell me his name?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In A Nutshell:\n\nThere was a time after the American Civil War (or War Between the States for you folks that call it an invasion), progressing through the late 1920s, that can be referenced when we talk about income inequality, neo-feudalism, failing infrastructure, and rampant corruption. A nation run by Robber Barons and corporate tycoons that funded political and business ideology through bribes, muscle, and private security. Harsh anti-voting laws in some regions and a fight between labor and the establishment. It started to crash down with the Presidency of Theodore Roosevelt, saw a quick uptake, and then came crashing down with the Depression and FDR.\n\nReplace the factories and rail road/mining tycoons of yore with cubicle farms and banking/technology executives today and you have the same thing. Income inequality, Super PACs, and corrupt politicians/courts just begging for a little campaign financing for next year. This time around, though, we seem a bit more complacent. It's troubling; especially as a veteran who came home and realized that the 'freedom' we had shoved down our throats is a dying brand, silently being whisked away by the (name Super PAC here). I'd say those who realize it, want to fight it, and desperately want to fix both income inequality and crumbling rights are more patriotic than those who sit back and just fester in anger at what the media tells them they should be mad at.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have dated for 5 month now and she is my official GF for 1,5month and I am afraid I might get over-attached and that I am turning into someone I do not want to be. One example, an old-highschool friend visited her and they went out partying (I went somewhere else) and he spent the night at her place (we dont live together and he doesnt live close). I am totally okay with that and I know that since she only has one huge bed and no couch that he slept in one bed with her. I trust her and I know that she would never cheat on me but still I become paranoid. She accidentally called me by his name today (and she was so embarrassed and sorry) and that freaked me the fuck out. I know that she loves me a lot and she told me that she never felt that much in love before and I believe her. Why do I still become paranoid? I couldnt sleep tonight because I was creating scenarios in my head in which she cheated on me or something else bad happened.\n\nDo I have self-esteem issues or something?\n\nI am someone who needs a lot of freedom in relationships. If I wanted to visit a female friend and platonically spend the night and I couldn't because my GF wouldnt let me, I would be so annoyed, so it seems just natural to me to give her the same freedom I am expecting of her but why can't I just be cooler about this? It feels like my emotional shields protecting me from my own paranoia are completely shut down. It feels a little like I am tripping out on MDMA or something.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Original post: \n\nSo I confronted her and told her I needed a direct answer, whether there was a chance or not. I told her I was happy with what we had now and we could just see where it went but if she wanted to see other guys she would have to tell me so I could move on. She avoided that part of the question and just said she didn't feel the same way and wouldn't for some time but she didn't know what the future held (cop out, I know). The weird part is she also said she didn't want to lose me and to please, please not ignore her. If a girl was as into me as I am her and the feeling wasn't mutual I would want her to get over me for a bit and leave me alone. I wouldn't be messaging them directly afterwards and keeping the conversation going. Any perspectives? Is she just using me as a fallback? Does she just want to keep a close friend? Should I get over it because if I truly cared about her I would be able to see past my feelings and respect her wishes? Thing is, it seems like I'm there for her, when she's down, when she's had a bad day, when she's struggling I'm there to pick her up but she doesn't seem to be there for me. I love her and I really hope she does care about me back and I'm not just wasting my time here. I will definitely be spending less time with her though and seeing other girls but I don't think I will cut her out completely.\n\nEDIT: also it seems whenever I want to get over her she'll become really involved in my life again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is such a confusing story, thanks for reading. I've been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years, we are both 26. We dated casually to start but fell in love and both think this is going to last for a long time. We're very happy together.\n\nAround 8 months ago I met his mother. She doesn't live near us, so I have only met her a couple of times, over a short period. I thought we got on well. She loved me, because I am \"rich and pretty\" (her words - I'm not rich, and pretty is subjective). My boyfriend and I went on an expensive vacation that we'd both saved up for. It was amazing. It was then that she started making derogatory comments. Saying that it was a waste of money etc. Then suddenly I was no longer invited to family events. If he would go to visit her, I wasn't welcome. It got worse. To summarize the next couple of months: it got worse until she ended up making him pick between me or her. I have no clue why. Long story short we are happy together and he has cut her off, but it wasn't without a lot of hassle including death threats to us both, and I think my boyfriend is very traumatized by what happened, although he won't talk about it.\n\nSince then we have had no contact apart from she sent him a Christmas card. However. I am SO scared she will come back. I worry that she will manipulate him into leaving me, and do terrible things to us. What can I do to get over this? What can I do to prevent this happening? What do I do if she comes back? Also, what can I do to support my boyfriend? My family has welcomed him but I worry it's not the same.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I really don't know what's up with her. Last night, round 2 am, I got a text from her asking if I was still awake. I was, so I told her. She asked if she could call me and at the very start of the phone when I asked her what was up she goes \"I really, really miss you\".\n\nWe had a nice conversation and then we went to bed.\n\nToday, she just seems quite off. She had told me she would break up with me if I was late for our Valentine's Date. I asked her if she was serious about it and she said \"I'd be really, really upset\". I told her I wouldn't - and I really won't be because everything's sorted.\n\nShe says she isn't angry... but she just seems really off. Her answers are vague and dull.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "He is from the Northeast and I am from the South. We started dating December 2012. He is here in the South for medical residency. We got along so well. Had so much in common, laughed at everything, and always wanted to be with each other as much as we could. We just clicked right off the bat. Then we had a misunderstanding in February 2013 and we parted ways.\n\n2 months go by and I contact him again because I still had feelings for him and wanted to know how he was doing. I didn't expect him to agree to hang out with me again but he did. We hung out and picked up right where we left off, laughing, joking, teasing and flirting with each other. Later that night he makes the first move and kisses me and then asks to see me again.\n\nHe hangs out with me all day the second time. We are now holding hands and freely showing affection. During this time I find out he has his heart set on living in the West Coast and that he will be in Europe for a month. He then asks me to hang out for the third time.\n\nWe hang out the third time and I'm trying to figure out how I was going to tell him I had feelings for him still since he was leaving for Europe the next day. I also saw certification paperwork in his luggage for the West Coast, which I probably wasn't suppose to see. So later that night I tell him how I feel and I'm crying because I'm upset. He feels the same way about me and is tearing up too. Tells me \"I don't know what is going to happen between us, we should keep in touch and you can visit me wherever I am.\" He leaves the next day and says \"I miss you and I'll be thinking of you.\"\n\nI know we didn't date for long but I wouldn't depreciate it because it was short. When you know, you just know. I feel like he'll be the one that got away. I just feel like a month away from someone is enough to make him forget about me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with her a little over a year. She's gorgeous, she's amazingly supportive. I love her. I'm 1000% sure of that. The problem is, I'm not sure I'm IN love with her. I love her SO much that I want to make sure I do what's best for her. I've hurt her a lot during our relationship without ever meaning to, simply because when we met, I was not with my ex anymore but still in love with my ex ( pronouns are hard with a lot of \"hers\", so I'll try to stick to \"her\" for my current girlfriend and use \"my ex\" otherwise). But I was very into her and tried to move on with her. But it's been, as I mentioned, a year and a half and I still am not entirely over my ex, to a degree I can't even hide. I just am sad a lot. Or I bring my ex up in conversation despite trying to remember not to (we were together for a long time, 7 years). And I know it hurts her. But the only alternative is to hide it, which feels extremely insincere. I can't even tell if it will ever get better or go away. How can I stop hurting her? I want to, but I don't feel like I can even trust my own healing process here. Is the only right thing to do to leave her and be alone and... just wait until I get back to neutral?\nI hate that my last relationship feels like it's poisoning my current one.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. Over the past months, he has had a lot of stress with his new start up business, and had a few cash problems. I can honestly say I have been there 100%, supporting him, hugging him if he's down, I even printed off flyers and posted them around my area to help business. \n\nHowever, in the last week or so I've been really struggling with my own problems. It came to my attention that we would always focus on what's going on with him and he would never ask me how I'm doing genuinely. \n\nI spoke to him about this last night as we argued and I realised I was taking a lot of my emotions out on him. I started to cry when I said this time last year my grandma (whom I was very close to) was dying in hospital + I am experiencing a lot of stress and pressure with my mum, dad & my dad's new girlfriend (completely other story.) He preceded to get very angry with me saying \"fair enough your grandma passed away yeah but you can't take it out on me.\" I apologised and I said I just really need him here right now like I am for him, which made me cry a bit more.\" he then said \"STOP CRYING! You've made me really angry and now you're crying to try and make me stop.\"\n\nThis was really hurtful for me. I have been very upset and being told my tears were manipulative hurt so much. I've felt quite awkward today with him. It's just so confusing when every time I'm upset, the situation still needs to be focused on him. Either because he ALSO has things going on or because he just brings the focus back onto him.\n\nI am finding it hard suppressing my emotions and them being undermined by somebody who is supposed to love me.\n\nHow can I deal with this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dated this girl for only a month, and she broke up with me because she decided she might be a lesbian. We've only been broken up with for a little over a week now, and I've accepted it since it wasn't for that long and we broke up on good terms\n\nHowever, everyone acts like I should be completely heartbroken. She was my first girlfriend and I did really like her, but I'm nowhere near as bothered by it as people think I should be. I keep hearing people say I need to take time out to find myself and that I'm rushing things by wanting to find someone else now.\n\n Is it really wrong for me to move on so soon, or am I just doing things at my own pace?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm used to being ignored by the opposite gender. Suddenly it has come to my attention that two of my guy friends like me.\n\nOne, Jake [20/M], is actually my ex. He and I tried to be in a relationship twice before, it ended on semi-bad terms, but we've rebuilt our friendship greatly to the point we have discussed getting back together.\n\nThe other, Matt [22/M], was there for me when the last relationship ended, and is an overall great guy. I can actually tell that a couple of our mutual friends are implying that we should get together.\n\nA mutual friend of Jake and I is also implying that we should get back together.\n\nI like both of these guys in their own way. I don't want to be leading them on.\n\nDo I choose one or the other? Or do I just cut them both off? What types of things should I be taking into consideration?\n\nI'll answer any questions you may have to give insight into the situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "at the start of my four year relationship, I thought I was completely straight, realised I was also attracted to females, but never had any desire to experiment. as I became more sexually experienced I realised I wanted to have sex with a girl. it's something that has been on my mind for about 2 years and I can't seem to get over the fantasy. \n\nmy boyfriend knows about this, though probably not aware of how strong my desire is. I don't think I could go my whole life without doing it, I mean i could, but I would definitely feel like I am missing out on something. it's started to affect how satisfied I am with my relationships sex life (we still have sex frequently, and I enjoy it, but I find my mind wandering to how it would feel if it were a girl). \n\nmy boyfriend has actually said he would be okay with me doing it, and thinks it would be hot. he's even suggested a threesome (not sure I could do that) or him just watching me with another girl. I'm more inclined to the latter option, but if the girl was willing to include him in it as well, I might consider it, although the idea is a bit nerve wracking for me.\n\nso my question is, is it possible to explore your sexuality outside the relationship without damaging it, and if so, how would I even go about finding someone that would agree to sleep with me (us), no strings attached, possibly have my boyfriend watch or join in?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is the harrowing tale of me and how I proved to myself that I don't have any balls.\n\nSo earlier on today I was at university. In one of my classes is a girl I like, but unfortunately due to the class, there is very little chance to talk to her. \nSo the class in question is philosophy, which is very boring to sit through. At the end of the class the tutor says that he would like some of us to volunteer to present the next classes info to make it more interesting for us. \nI think to myself 'great this will be a good opportunity to show this girl how brave and confident I am' (ha). As I'm about to say that I'll do it, she jumps in and says she will do it!! \nNow, I know what you're thinking (because I was thinking it too) 'awesome, if I volunteer too then I will get the chance to work with her and get to know her a bit'. Well as the seconds tick by after her volunteering my brain shuts down. Literally I couldn't move or say anything. I tried, and failed, to volunteer myself up as tribute but didn't have the balls to say in front of everyone that I wanted to work with her. \n\nEnded up spending the rest of the day hiding in my car beating myself up for not having the balls to volunteer.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She broke up with me on Thanksgiving. She said that it was the hardest thing she had ever done, and we both cried for an hour. I begged to her to reconsider, but she said she needed time to think. I haven't really given her the break she needed from the relationship until now. \n\nI have been NC for almost 2 weeks now, and I haven't heard a word from her. I miss her every single day, and I have a surgery coming up in 2 days, and I wish I could talk to her about it because I am scared to death. I really want to work on us, but obviously I need to give her the space she needs. I realized that I have a lot on myself I need to work on, but can anyone give me advice on what to do?\n\nShe is 23, very independent, likes her alone time, and doesn't talk very much. She insisted when we broke up that she wasn't doing it to be with anyone else, and that wasn't a lie from what I can tell. She told me she lost feelings for me, but insisted it happened over a 2 week period, and that doesn't seem right. She said that I was the best thing that ever happened to her, and I hope that is still true.\n\nThis might have been foolish on my part, but the day of me starting NC, I had flowers sent to her for Valentine's Day. She was very nice about it and thanked me, but I can't help but shake this feeling I made her uncomfortable. \n\nSo I am just asking for general advice on how to improve myself and improve my chances with her. Obviously, I don't want to force her to get back with me. But I do love her more than anything in the world.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know its stupid and I know its just sex but Ive never felt so much grief in my entire life. I guess I feel this way because she was my first and only and knowing that she's been with kind of hurts. \n\nI feel stupid for feeling so upset about it. How do I get over it so I can move on with our relationship? I don't even see her the same since she told me and I feel like I'm pathetic for not being 100% okay.\n\nShe's already given me an STD but I just assumed it was s fluke because she told me she'd only had sex 3 other times.\n\nHelp please", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't really want to go into details, but I (23F) have severe trust issues and my SO (22M) shattered all the trust I had in him. We're at the point where I can't believe anything he says if there could possibly be an ulterior motive. Would a no-privacy policy help, or just make me more paranoid? Any other suggestions?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm female, in my early 20s. I met this guy from a dating website. We've gone out twice now. I think he's sweet but he has terrible breath. Terrible. I didn't notice until the end of the second date, because we didn't kiss until then. He says he has no sense of smell so I don't know how to bring it up in a way that's not offensive. His bedroom also smelled really bad, like he maybe hadn't washed his sheets in a long time. This makes me really hesitant about being physically intimate with him. After we kissed all I could think about was getting home so I could rinse my mouth out.\n\nI think I need to end things but I don't want to destroy his feelings. He's obese, probably morbidly obese or if not then close to it. I knew that when we met and I don't mind his weight. It's definitely not a turn on but it's not a deal breaker for me. The bad breath is though. \n\nI feel terrible about this because I feel like he is already super into me. I'm thin (5'4\", 116 lbs) and he kept talking about how hot I am. He asked me to hang out again this weekend and I'm going to have to give a no. What's the most respectful way I can end things? Or should I give him a chance but let him know his breath and room smell bad and he needs to fix it if he wants to kiss me again?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have liked this girl for the past year or so. We've been nothing but friends so far & only talk online (we met once in passing but at the start of the friendship). She currently is in a long distance relationship of 6 months with a guy a few years older than me. I completely respect that fact & I would not want her (or anyone) to break up their relationship for me. \n\nHowever, she opened up to me the other day about how she's having problems & they argue a lot. I gave her some friendly advice about what to do. She then started to sort things out with the issues they are having. \n\nThis was fine with me, I'm glad she's sorted it out but I get very mixed signals from her. We have pretty deep conversations. The other day we were talking about how well we get along and our preferences in the opposite and we both sorta match each others' criteria. She also complained how nobody has taken her on a proper date before & how she's been messed about in relationships in the past...However, she will suddenly stop replying part way through conversations then either reply the next day or not at all. I'm finding it rather confusing. \n\nWe decided we would hang out properly for the first time tomorrow. I really don't know how to take this or what I should do. I was thinking of going for a drive & then head back to mine for some dinner but I don't want to act weird around her. The fact this is the first time it's just me and her together, I want to give off the right impression; that I'm interested (or that I'm a desireable person to have a relationship with) but I'm respectful of her situation.\n\nFirstly, do you think I've misread how she's feeling? \nSecondly, how do I stop my feelings getting the better of me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have lived in the same house for about 7 years with my parents and my neighbors have lived next to us for about the same amount of time. I always said hi to them outside but never really talked to them much. It wasn't until a few weeks ago that they threw a party and invited me that I got to know their daughter.\n\nWe started talking and hit it off almost immediately, and I invited her out to a party on that same night on the spot and she accepted. We left right away and enjoyed the party, but it was a friendly vibe, no advances from either of us. We had a lot of fun so I made plans to see her again the week after and she accepted. \n\nWe went bar hopping and met up with some of my friends at the bar and we danced a little and had fun. Her body language was kinda not all there so I didn't make much of an attempt to keep pulling her to dance or anything. On the way back home the conversation never stopped and we talked for the whole ride home.\n\nI invited her out again this week and she accepted, this time will most likely be just the two of us. This is gonna be our third time hanging out and I feel like I should pull a move before I friendzone myself by being too much of a pussy. I am a little scared because we're neighbors and if she rejected me I'll have to keep seeing her occasionally. I kinda don't want to lose her because I've liked hanging out with her and she's super fun, but I don't wanna lose my chance because I find her very attractive. How should I go about pulling my move? Should I pull a move at all?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Every girl I talk to and try to go out with just doesn't seem to be interested in me. I talk to them. Get their number. Feel as though they want to go out, and then when I try to set up a date, they seem to always be busy or ignore texts. I don't text back for days and NOTHING so I just say \"whelp...\" and let it go. This has happened with about 2 or 3 women so far. It's very frustrating. I have no idea what I'm doing or saying wrong. It's getting to the point where I'm getting depressed over women not being interested in me. Feel as though I have a personality disorder or something.\n\nI work out, groom myself, and I'm sure my looks have nothing to do with it anyway. It would be nice to have an outside opinion without going to my friends about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm friends with this girl and as you can guess, I want it to be something more. I'm no fool, but I know its not happening. But what bugs me is that because I am open 'nice' or whatever, she feels the need to be very close to me, which I enjoy in our friendship, but it also attracts me to her. this has happened before with another girl and my solution was that I just shut her out of my life after telling her. but I can't do the same thing with this girl on account that we're going to be in all the same classes for the next 2 years. I am thinking of telling her how I feel, and telling her that I know how she feels, and that a potential solution, would be to keep the friendship superficial.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello all,\n\nLong time lurker here on PF and I just want to first off say thank you for all the advice and help you guys give. It's been pretty helpful for me as I make the transition from college into the workforce. That being said, I was wondering what you guys think I should be able to afford in the ways of a car while still aptly saving for the future. In the city I moved to, I thought I could survive with out a car as I have done before, but it's becoming more and more difficult just based on my work and living situation. Here's some info to help:\n\n* $70k Annual Salary before taxes\n* ~$28k in student Loans (~$300 min payment/month)\n* $1150 Monthly Rent\n\nI really like the Mazda3. I would like to buy new for around ~20k, but from what I've gathered looking at previous threads, you guys recommend a used car that's a few years old. What do you think about my situation? I think that a used one would run me about ~$15k for one with low mileage. I would have to take out a car loan in either situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I've got enrolled to prestigious masters program in Europe and (I want to stress this) I can't not take this chance. The thing is, I'm massively emotionally attached to my parents and we have a perfect relationship. Graduating this university may lead to finding a good job and staying in that country for good (which was my intention, originally), but the thought of visiting my parents maybe once a year doesn't sit well with me. To make things worse, I met this girl (who I really like, but too soon to call it a relationship) about a week ago and who knows, maybe she's the one? Man, life is never easy.\n\nDear people of reddit, have you gone through something like that? \nPlease, give me some advices.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For most of my life, I've been too much of a loser to have a girlfriend. Last year, through some mutual friends I met a girl and everything was absolutely fantastic. The entire time we were dating I was on top of the world, she was caring, sweet and I could tell her anything.\n\nAround Valentine's Day however, she started becoming distant, telling me everything was fine but she'd ignore me and would barely look at/touch me when we were together.\n\nEventually one night I asked her to tell me what was wrong and she went on to list me a bunch of things she hated about me that weren't necessarily true. She called me jealous, claimed I didn't mean the nice things I'd said to her, just to name a few.\n\nIt destroyed me, but I kept strong because she told me she was struggling with depression and I wanted to make her better. I loved this girl more than anything.\n\nA couple days later, she broke up with me. She said I hadn't done anything wrong, that she still wanted me in her life and that it wasn't necessarily final.\n\nIn the following months, she deleted me off everything, ignored the two attempts I made at texting her and ran from me when I tried to talk to her in public. She later referred to me as He Who Shall Not Be Named when explaining to her friends all the other guys she'd been sleeping with.\n\nI think she may have cheated on me with another guy before ending it, or at least she ended it to be with him.\n\nI miss her still and I was driven to a long depression that I still haven't fully recovered from. I feel like a monster, I want to talk to her still and understand what happened or why she hates me.\n\nI keep almost texting her, but I'm paralyzed with fear.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "He is 24, and I am 21. We've been seeing each other for around half a year now. We both agreed on that we're in stages of our lives where we're not ready to be \"boyfriend/girlfriend\" because we are both total messes, yet we do everything like a couple would. Now don't get me wrong, this isn't one of those \"He just isn't into you\" situations because I'm the one refusing to be his \"girlfriend\"\n\nI know he's loyal, ready to be in a relationship, and will never wrong me. But the same problems we've talked about still exist: He has no passion about anything - I can't let him only passion be me. He is unmotivated and can't fight for what he wants. The list could go on and on but he's basically not what I'm looking for in a partner.\n\nHe's already said I love you, I've said it a few times before as well and I really felt it too when I did. But after we spend time together, I always feel so empty. Like something's missing. I know I shouldn't even be questioning what love is if what I was feeling was really love.. I catch myself Google-ing for answers. I see posts telling me love means seeing past the other's flaws. I know I haven't, and not only that but his flaws are starting to irritate me more and more.\n\nI've tried ending things with him but both of us are too weak to let go. We rely on each other too much and he isn't able to let go. I'm honestly so miserable most of the time, even though we don't fight. He's understanding, sensitive, sweet, and most things a girl would wish for. Part of me just wishes he would cheat on me or do something outrageous so I could break it off with him. I don't know what's wrong with me, why can't I just live in the moment and enjoy it? How do I get out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and one of my best friends always says negative stuff about him and it really bothers me. He is into fashion and acting, he dresses and acts kind of \"feminine\" but he is completely heterosexual.\n\nMy friend would joke around about him secretly being gay, when we first started dating. I tried to make light of it, and I thought it would just fade away the longer I dated him.\n\nIt's not fading away, and she keeps saying rude things about him to me, and has even done so right infront of him. Today I pretty much blew up at her because of how mean she was being, she made a comment about his jeans being too skinny and asked if he even has a dick and how it would fit, Mind you, she was wearring baggy sweats. And she is a sloppy person, and I got pissed at her and pretty much told her she was dressed like a hobo, she's too fat to wear nice clothes and she looks like shit. I do feel guilty about saying it, but she has been saying extremely rude things about him for months and I can't stand it anymore. \n\nShe left after I said that and I haven't texted her or anything since, I don't know if I really plan on it, even if she reaches out to me first. Was I in the wrong or is she?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know how to ask this without it sounding really silly, but this is a genuine problem. I created a throwaway because of too much personal detail in my main account. \n\nMy boyfriend and I are both grad students and have been together for four months now. I absolutely love him. He's sweet, caring, tolerant, liberal, basically every single thing on my 'checklist', if I had one, is there. \n\nThe problem, though, is he talks VERY slowly. I mean his speed is really slow. If I ask him anything, he takes about 3 seconds before he starts to talk, then when he starts, the words go at a very slow pace,and he even pauses for 3-5 seconds in the middle of his sentence. I get really impatient and sometimes just feel like telling him to hurry up (of course I don't, but I really feel like doing so). \n\nI asked him today, very gently, why he spoke so slow, and he said he just gets thoughts very slowly in his brain. He then went on to say he's just generally slow at thinking. I felt really sad when he said this, I don't know why. He's a Math PhD student,and we are at a pretty good school, and his research has been going slow for a while now (but this is totally normal in grad school), so I think that response was kind of a self-deprecating one since he's already low on self-esteem. \n\nAnyway, my point is, his speed of talking is just a part of him, it can't be changed. I love him so much otherwise but I just want to know how to deal with this. Conversation is so important in a relationship! How do we manage? He's an introvert and talks very little in general; I suspect this has something to do with his pace of talking?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First off she doesn't go to school that far, only a couple hours away. We talked and she said that she wants to continue our relationship even when she left for school. What worries me is that it is a party school and although I feel like I can trust her to not cheat, it's just something that I can't help, but think about. It doesn't help that she told me a guy tried to hook up with her at a party the first day she was there. \n\nWe haven't been dating for a long time, just a couple months and I do like her. My friends have been telling me to have girls in mind to move on with, if she does cheat, but I don't feel like i can do that. \n\nI'm also in school, so I don't know how often I would be able to visit her or if her residence allows visitors. She said she would come back to visit relatively often, but still it's something you can't help but think about.\n\nAnyways, I was wondering if I should break it off with her (At least for a while), so she can have her freedom to have fun at school or try to stay together. And what should I do, if she does cheat on me. Am I just being paranoid?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I work at a small restaurant, and for the most part me and my coworkers get along. Except when it comes to music.\n\nIn the kitchen we have a small stereo with an aux cord so we can listen to whatever we want while we work. My coworker, John, has been hogging it like crazy. It's just me and John in the kitchen. I will ask for a turn playing music, and he'll grant it, but usually within 20 minutes his ipod is plugged back in, playing his music.\n\nNow, I can enjoy pretty much anything. The problem is, he plays the same 20ish-song playlist EVERY DAY. On repeat. As you can imagine, that gets old really fast.\n\nTHE REVENGE:\n\nFor the last week I've been fucking with him. Whenever we're really busy, I'll grab his ipod and change it from \"Repeat All\" to \"Repeat Song\". So instead of just looping his playlist, it just starts looping the same song indefinitely.\n\nSince I do this when we're busy, he usually doesn't notice for a good 20 minutes, and when he finally does, he grabs his ipod and goes \"WHAT THE FUCK, STOP\" -- I'm pretty sure he thinks his iPod's malfunctioning.\n\nHowever long it takes, I plan on making him so sick of that playlist he never wants to hear it again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My mother and I recently passed an enjoyable week in Spain. On our last evening there, she remembered that my father had asked her to buy him some tobacco, as it's cheaper there than at home. So we wandered along the city streets of Madrid until we found a tobacco shop. I waited outside, then after a while she beckoned me in. She was twenty euros short, and remembered that she had given me 50 euros for emergencies. Which I had placed in my passport-carrier around my waist, under my clothes. While in airports getting out my passport simply involved lifting up my top slightly to remove my passport, on this evening I had chosen to wear a dress. Given that reaching under my dress to the purse would involve flashing my underwear to a shop of Spaniards, I decided that the most decent option was to plunge my hand down the top my dress, rummage for a while finding the zip on the passport holder, extracting the note and closing the zip, then to slowly remove my hand holding the 50 euro note without accidentally pulling up the dress. This attracted a fair few stares, and I was thankful to leave shortly afterwards.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a 4 yr old nephew who is his own person. He's not a fan of playing with most the boys at school cos the play bad guys, and run around with fake guns. He'd rather hang with the teachers or girls, and play their games. Needless to say, the biggest boy in class has started picking on him. The boys birthday is coming up, and he told my nephew he'd get a baby piece of cake, cos he's a baby. On my sisters advice, he told him that's not nice, and to stop. My brother-in-law and myself say he should just ignore him. But now my sis doesn't know rather to have him go to party or not. My nephew wants to, as long as he gets a big kid slice of cake. I adore my little nephew and this breaks my heart, fighting urge to fly 2000 miles a kick a 5yr old. In lieu of that, what's the best advice I can give him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl about a month ago and we have been on about four dates. Recently she invited me to hang out with her best friend which I assumed suggests that our \"thing\" could be improving. \n\nAnyways, I've always heard that after the second date, if the two haven't kissed or anything more, that it is simply a waste of time and the girl is basically just using the guy. Short of bluntly telling this girl I like her, I've given her almost every indication that I like her by holding her, hugging her, etc. yet she does not reciprocate it. I'm beginning to think that she is just using me and/or just sees me as a friend. Before I mess this up, I just need your opinions as to what actions I should take before completely just ending this whole ordeal.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As my title said, I'm a long-time lurker at reddit (and especially programming as subreddit) and today I'm actually making my first post a selfish one. Sorry about that.\n\nNevertheless, I'm a professional programmer (as in; I work as one) and enjoy programming as a craft. I've worked with everything from large-scale game development studios to small-scale consulting firms and the thing that annoys me is that I've completely stopped doing any kind of hobby development. This saddens me. I truly enjoy coding, but I seem to be lacking the inspiration lately (this has been going on for a year or two now).\n\nInspired by the awesome and intelligent posts here on proggit, I decided to try and ask for help. I'd like to start coding on my spare time again, fighting the good fight.\n\nCan you help me? What I'd like is either personal experiences regarding loss of inspiration (and hopefully how you overcame it) or actual tips on projects that I could start contributing to small-scale. I know this post makes me sound like a lazy douche but I'd really appreciate some help with this. Do you know of (or even manage!) a GitHub/othersocialcodingnetwork project that could use an extra hand, please let me know!\n\nLanguage, platform or technology are not really barriers but lately I seem to be enjoying work in C++, C# (.NET or Mono), Java or web stuff.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let me clarify the events that processed this. 4am, baby starts fussing \" honey, can you go change him? I'm just to tired to get up.\" My loving husband gets up and changes my son's diaper and then hands him to me to feed. Baby falls back to sleep, then my husband and I fall back to sleep. This morning at 8am baby wakes up again to be changed and feed. I up do his onesie and see something dark coming out of the side of the diaper. My first thought was \"o my god you pooped, and its coming down your leg!\" So I quickly open up the diaper to start cleaning this up and see my son's little brown monkey sock. Sure enough when I looked to the left bare foot, it confirmed it all. So what baby bloopers are you guys guilty of?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When I tell my son \"no\" to something that is either dangerous (like sitting on the arm of the couch or trying to climb onto the television) or something that is an unwanted behavior (biting, hitting etc.) he looks at me and giggles before continuing to do whatever the hell he wants to do. When my husband tells him \"no\" he stops what he's doing and sometimes gets upset to the point of crying (I think because his feelings are hurt). I guess the question is, how do I get him to listen to me and not just to his father? I have tried to make my voice sound louder and more masculine, but that just makes him laugh even harder.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let me preface this by saying I'm 17. In no way am I saying that I'm old, or even mature. In fact, let me be very clear and point out that I'm one of the least mature people I know. Including people younger than myself. So, with that settled, onto the story.\n\nAs I was browsing Youtube, I came across the whole \"Star Wars Clone Wars\" animated crap, and I realized that kids growing up with an animated tv series like that will never respect Star Wars for what it is. For example, in a lego short of Jango's death, Mace Windu WINKS at Boba after casually lopping Jango's head off. That was, quite possibly, the most emotional moment of the new movies, and they KILLED IT! IT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO & I have been together since June in a LDR, with her studying a broad in Europe (met her online). She will be here for the holidays, so we will be together soon (which were are ecstatic & giddy for)\n\nWe text daily from sun up to sun down & Skype as often as possible. Our future is mostly already planned, but other things like kids will be discussed when she gets here. 1-2x a week there will be a 3-4hr gap minimum between her last text. During that time I still text saying how much I love her, how much she means to me, ask her how her day is going and such. Being that she is 5hrs ahead of me I always take that into account as for gaps.\n\nI'm always worried about her being that I can't physically be there to protect, so that is always on my mind daily. When the long gaps occur I become even more worried, so I text her from every hour to every 30min asking her a question. I don't want her to think I'm clingy, since I know most women hate it. She knows how much I worry about her being that we are so far apart.\n\nAfter 4+ hrs she replies saying \"I luv u\" \"miss u\" \"srry I wrried u\". I tell her it's alright & that I'm just glad to know she is safe...she tells me she loves me always right after.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "throw away for obvious reasons.\n\nMy[23M] gf [24F] of 3 years has some trust issues from being cheated on in other relationships and has huge problems with me hanging out with girls when she isn't there. She however hangs out with guys but thinks that is okay. I have no problem with her being around other men as I trust her, I just want her to treat me the same way. \n\nI have talked to her a couple times about it and only recently got any traction by using a hypothetical situation for myself that was the same situation she was in the night prior (stayed at a female friend who lives with a few guys). I got her to realize the double standards but she just says that she thinks that other girls are going to try to sleep with me whenever I go out. She says it's not me she doesn't trust but other girls. This over the last few months has been worse and I can't figure out how to make her realize that she can trust me.\n\nJust for some background I have never cheated on anyone and have never given her a reason to think I would. Also, I fully trust her and know she has never has/would cheat on me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. He is graduating in a few months, and, I think, this has prompted him to be a little nervous about the future. We have talked about it and agreed that the relationship should terminate this summer when he goes to college. He and I clearly agreed to this plan, but he has repeatedly spoken in direct contrast to it, making me confused. He will get worked up and say desperate things like, \"stay with me forever\", \"never ever forget me\", \"never leave me\", and even \"lets get married\". Obviously we are too young for any of this to be realistic. Last time he did this, I played along for the sake of the mood, and said \"of course we will be together forever\". It made me feel dishonest, because it is lie and we both know it. I'm worried he might actually believe me when I say those things, when this goes against what we agreed on rationally. Is this just some cute tactic he is employing where you make up alternative endings when you want to be romantic? Am I over thinking this? Is it all just dirty talk? When I remind him that we are breaking up and not staying together forever he gets sad and says I am scaring him. I don't want either of us to feel lead on or get hurt when the time comes to say goodbye.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 17, she's 17. Her boyfriend is 16. Me and her hang out constantly, we also share some classes together. I've also known her longer (1year). They share no classes, he's younger, and they've been dating for 1 month. \nThe thing is, I write a FACEBOOK post about her and I jump-starting her car because we killed her battery;\n\nAnd he gets off on a storm to her about how that's \"disloyal\" or something. \nHe's messaging me now as we speak about the post and how he \"doesn't want any problems, because it's our 1month anniversary\". Fuck his problems. Any advice on what I should do? I understand that I should respect their relationship, AND I DO. But the fact that he got worked up over that is a red flag to me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 36 (yes, I know, huge age difference, but we've been together for almost a year and it's been going well). I recently broke my leg pretty badly and will be on crutches for the next 2 months and am not allowed to put any weight on it. My boyfriend lives in his own place but has been sleeping over every night to help me before bed and in the morning before he leaves for work. \n\nHe comes home on his lunch break to check on me and help me with lunch, then goes back to work. He works from home and does his own projects at night before coming over when he's done. I appreciate his help because I'm absolutely helpless in these crutches but I'm worried he's beginning to resent me for needing his help. \n\nI've been trying to give him time away from me, trying to get friends to come over and help here and there to give him time to himself but that's only a few times a week. We can't have sex because of my leg/cast, I can only shower occasionally, I cant wear anything but sweat pants.. I'm not looking my best lately and I just want to remind him why he loves me. I was just hoping you guys would have ideas/suggestions? Have any of you been in a similar situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "been dating a dude for 3 months. To be honest, it seems more like a FWB type deal. Some days he texts me a lot, some days I barely hear from him. We hang out at least twice a week. Sometimes we go on dates, sometimes we cuddle and watch TV. He has not asked me to be his girlfriend, and told me from day 1 that it takes a while for him to ask someone that.\n\nI posted on Facebook about someone asking me out in a creative way, and he messaged me basically saying \"not that we are exclusive but I see you posting about dates on Facebook, just curious if we should be using condoms during sex?\"\n\nWe never explicitly said we were or weren't exclusive, so I sort of assumed we were. \n\nI'm confused at his angle. If we're not exclusive, if you're seeing other people wouldn't that mean we should be using condoms? Why is it only if i'm seeing other people would that be necessary?\nOr is this implying that he isn't actually seeing anyone else?\n\nOh Reddit. How do I proceed?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex and I dated for 6 1/2 years and it ended HORRIBLY! He started all but dating this other girl while we were still together (emotional cheating, never anything physical). The thing is, the whole time I was reading his texts behind his back and saw his conversations with the girl, our mutual best friend, and his sister all shit talking me while having this relationship develop. I felt so crazy constantly reading his texts but everytime I would look I would find something for months. Finally, I got the strength to dump him, told him I hate him and never talk to me again, and got a new BF about a month later and we're so happy together and living together now. The ex is still with the same girl. \n\nTODAY I contacted my ex for the first time in a year and a half. I just said I don't hate you and I'm sorry for how I reacted. He said he was so happy I didn't hate him and gave me some updates about his life. It's been friendly messages and it feels like this weight is lifted off my shoulders because I don't have this burned bridge out there in the universe. (my current bf knows everything and is perfectly fine with me getting the closure I need). \n\nHere's the thing: I've always, always thought for the last year and a half that I will finally be completely healed once I can tell him that I reacted so strongly because I was reading his texts and knew the whole situation. He only told me that he went to the library with her once, so he thinks I just reacted in a crazy strong way over that. I need to say to him: Look, I reacted so strongly because I was reading the texts between you and her, you and our mutual friend, and you and your sister. I saw all the shit you talked about me and I thought that you hated me which made me want to hate you. I need to say something like that to him now to finally put this all behind me but I don't know how to say it without making myself seem insane and like I'm still living in the past. I need advice on this desperately please help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright so this could be a bit long. Gf and I have been dating for around 11 months, everything seems great. I know her FB pass because she told me a few months ago out of random. So I decide to check it out for the hell of it and I look at the messages. 2 most recent ones are from past exes, both times she initiated conversation. Even though the messages weren't about anything exclusive, One guy is a douche and the other got her pregnant and wasn't man enough to step up and take care of the kid so she got an abortion... either way, shes been talking to these guys and got both their numbers. Yet I haven't hardly heard from her all day. I feel sad and somewhat betrayed, what should I do here? I planned on asking to marry this girl in the next few months...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My fiancé and I just got engaged two days ago, we expected a bit of backlash considering our age (turning 20 this year). His moms close friend was talking to her at work this morning and she basically said that I am marrying \"up\", implying that he would have to financially take care of us and our future family, and that the financial burden would be on him. She also said that because of me and the fact that we're engaged he won't go to a different country (Canada to US) for his 4 month internship this upcoming January, despite the fact that we have discussed it already and I'm okay with it. Another thing she said was that he is \"saving\" me, didn't get an explanation for what she meant by that. \n\nI expected her to have a problem with our age, because she is in her late thirties and hasn't had much luck with men. But I didn't expect her to say something about me that was so personal. His mom said that she has never mentioned anything about my family and money to her before (we aren't the most wealthy, and if you look at it from a money stand point I am technically marrying into a family with more money than my own, but that has nothing to do with us getting married or our relationship). This isn't even the first time she has said something out of line to his mom. (talking crap about his dad, sending photos to his dad of her in a bikini, etc) \n\nAfter his mom told us this, i was very upset and we both decided that we don't want her there, which I think is now going to make her have even worse things to say about me and our relationship. \n\nHave any of you had people say things like this, what did/would you do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm one of the very few people amongst my friends that has a car. With that comes the expectation that I drive everywhere. For the most part I'm totally fine with this. I love driving, and going places with people to other towns and such is great.\n\nWhere it's not so great is when I'm expected constantly to drive people somewhere, or when they need something they just say \"Oh he's got a car he'll do it.\" The worst offender for this is one of my friends refuses to get her licence, or a car and sees no need for it. Yet if she needs to be out of town for something or to go somewhere she'll just get me to do it in the guise of wanting to hang out. Another offender is a friend who planned a trip to another country around the idea that I would drive her to the airport, and when she was ready to come back (a month later) she expects that I'll pick her up. It's almost 2 hours one way to the major-cities airport, it's a big day.\n\nI don't mind helping people out. A ride here and there is fine, if your in a bind and need a lift i'm perfectly willing and happy to help. But when it becomes expected of me, it feels like i'm only around because I have a car. They have the money and resources to get a car, so there is no real reason they cant get one.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my buddy has been dating his girl for almost 3 years, and I guess he's finally decided he wants to propose. We work at a mill and this week we are working night shifts. My friend Morgan was at home sick on monday, and we assumed he was sick on Tuesday as well. As we are on night shifts, the time line was this:\n\n-Monday night, morgan stays home sick\n\n-Tuesday morning, gf goes to work\n\n-Tuesday night, morgan left for their home town, about 4 hours away, to ask for permission to marry her\n\n-later Tuesday night, gf gets home thinking morgan has left for night shift and all is well\n\n-Wednesday morning, morgan gets home at 9am. Normally, we get off night shift at 4am and he'd be home by 4:30am\n\n-unfortunately, gf has stayed home sick so she notices he isn't home on time\n\nSo when the gf realizes he isn't home on time she messages me and another guy we work with asking if we've heard anything, which we hadn't at the time. She assumes he's cheating and parks her car around the corner so that when he eventually comes home, he will think she's at work and will incriminate himself. \n\nMorgan gets home and she flips the fuck out and now she demands a written letter from Morgan's supervisor stating he was in fact at work.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not sure if this goes here but I don't know where else to ask.\n\nMy public high school has an event called \"project day\" every 6 weeks. It's a pass or fail grade, and it does count for a credit. I'm a senior, and this Friday we have to either volunteer for a retirement home, or volunteer for the Salvation Army.\n\nStudents had an option for which organisation to assist with. However, this information was distributed via English classes, which I'm not a part of. Instead, I received a letter saying I'm signed up to volunteer for the Salvation Army by default as the retirement home had enough volunteers.\n\nI don't support the Salvation Army at all. They're one of the worst organisations out there in my opinion. I emailed my teacher asking to switch me for this exact reason, but she never responded.\n\nCan my school force me to volunteer or else they'll give me a failing grade? Who do I talk to so I don't have to volunteer for the Salvation Army?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, long story short, i dated a girl for over 2 yrs, which resulted in an engagement. We were always deeply in love, and to this day we maintain it was something special, and the best relationship weve ever had. However, When my ex's visa ran out, and she returned to her home country(was supposed to be temporary), things started to fall apart. She was adapting to a new life, and i, with starting law school. \n\nHowever, i went to see her over winter break, and it was an incredible time, and we resolved to make things work, but once i left, we fell into the same routine, and parted ways in january. Through out this time, we have kept in contact daily, and have basically acted as we always have, with occasional arguments here and there, and her maintaining she is too afraid of the distance, which to me is just an obstacle. I went through a period where i didnt want to talk any longer, but she always talked me out of it, and when i recently agreed to keep talking, to let things \"flow naturally\" as she said, all of a sudden we werent talking that much. However, she is coming to visit her mother, and begged me to come visit her whe she does, so i purchased a ticket to see her. She seems kind of apprehensive now, and says maybe we should talk in the week before we see each other(i go next weekend), and that shes hoping to figure things out once and for all. \n\nWhat am i walking into when i get off the plane? throughout this time she has refused to remove our relationship status off fb, and hasnt even told much of her family that we split, but has been giving me an attitude and now seems apprehensive lately.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone, I'm in a relationship with a girl who I met in Highschool my senior year and we've been together for six months now. She's currently a senior (was a junior when we met) and I'm going to a community college that isn't too far away from where we live. She has already been accepted to a college that's about 2 hours away from where we live so in August she leaves for 4 years.\n\n( I should also add that she plans on visiting ever so often because the distance isn't too long.)\n\nI've always planned on staying in this area because everything I need school wise is right here, however she's going to a private college hence why it's so far away. Her and I have an excellent relationship and we both plan on staying together even after she leaves.\n\nI want to know everyone else's story as far as how you guys have dealt with distance relationships due to work or college, if you guys met in high school, or how did you meet? Are you guys still together and has the distanced made you stronger or weaker?\n\nI ask this basically because I want to know how other people deal with it, I know every relationship is different but I want some real examples from someone's first hand experiences.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok well since late February 2012 I have lost 55 pounds(256-199 /fluctuating )but I have fallen off the exercise since I changed departments at work and was walking about 5 miles a day, I was working out about 2 hours a day 5 times a week and keeping the calorie intake at about 1200-1500.\n \nWell I was having back pains about a month ago and finally last week i could barely walk. went to the doctor and was told i needed to have back surgery because of two ruptured discs .\nI will be on bed rest for a little over 2 months . MY wedding is in about 12 weeks! I can feel the weight just piling on ! ): \nany tips on how to keep the weight off and keep from undoing what I've already worked so hard for?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for 5 months.\n\nI've always been on the skinny side. I was pretty much anorexic growing up. I skipped lunch to save up lunch money. And I'd skip meals to play games instead.\n\nHalfway through college, I wanted to change. I hit the gym and started eating right. I put on 30 lbs and look much better.\n\nAnd then I met my girlfriend. She's my first. I felt like all my hard work finally paid off.\n\nHowever, any time I miss meals or haven't worked out in a while, I'd get insecure. I'd feel small and skinny. I'd look visibly smaller in the mirror even though my friends assure me I haven't lost weight.\n\nAnd when I get insecure, I get clingy. I feel afraid my girlfriend will leave me for being scrawny. And the insecurity doesn't help to keep her around.\n\nI don't have time or money for a therapist.\n\nWhat can I do to fix myself?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 30 year old guy that has been largely out of the dating scene for a while now. Was married, got divorced, had a long term long distance relationship that ended two times because she cheated on me with her ex. I recently moved, and have been using online dating to no avail since I got here until this last week. Met a girl on a dating site, we hit it off I thought, talked for about a week before going out to dinner the other night. I thought that things went really well, we talked for hours, kissed goodnight, and all that good stuff. She said she had a really good time and wanted to go out with me again\n\nThat was Wednesday night, since then she's seemed distant when we've texted, and we haven't talked very much at all. She's shown some interest in going out again, but isn't feeling well today so didn't want to go out later on tonight. Then she's busy all day tomorrow and on Monday as well. \n\nI really like her, but I'm not sure how to take all of this. It's certainly plausible that she's simply been busy with work and her life and hasn't had time to talk to me. But after having been burned previously, having girls show interest and then disappear, along with having been cheated on multiple times, I guess I'm wary at this point. I'm just trying to take things as they come and not read too much into anything, but I'm finding it hard not to freak out at least a little bit. \n\nI'm not even really sure what it is that I'm looking for in posting this, if anything at all. I definitely don't want to come across as clingy or desperate, so I'm just waiting for her to contact me at this point. Feel free to tell me that I'm insane and overthinking things, just be honest. Like I said, I've been out of this for so long that I don't really know how I should proceed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About a year ago I was in a local Shell gas station with my mom. Upon entering the bathroom I saw a suitcase stuffed into the trashcan. Curiosity strikes and I take the suitcase from the I find nothing, but a single flash drive. At this point I felt like James fucking Bond, or someone that has stumbled upon a secret treasure. I take the flash drive with me and pop it into the ol' laptop. I open it only to find a spread sheet of a local bar's monthly revenue along with other files like their employees names, addresses and other personal information of employees. I call the local bar and tell them what happened. They hand the phone to a manager and I eventually end up talking to the GM and he explains that someone had broken in the previous night and had stolen the suitcase which originally held several other documents along with the flash drive. Because the bar was just a short bike ride I rode down there and returned the drive. They thanked me and I went on my way. So Reddit what's the strangest thing you've found in a public place.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and this girl have been texting for about 2 months or so, and I've discovered that she's interested and wants me to ask her out. I've thought about it in the past but nothing really serious. A lot of my friends/ her friends/ people I know have found out about this, and now they all expect me to get together with her. Personally, I don't feel like we've gotten close enough and would prefer to get to know her more first.\n\nHowever, a couple months ago there was this another girl that I was pretty close with. We'd talk fairly often in person, and we shared a good amount of friends. I developed a pretty sizable crush on her, but we never moved past the \"friend\" stage. Eventually I figured that I didn't really have a chance, so I (tried to) move on. Flash forward a few months. We now have no classes together at all. I've discovered that one of my other friends now likes her. Unfortunately, I still have feelings for her as well, and am now fairly certain she feels the same way about me. None of my friends know about my feelings towards her, everyone knows that my friend likes her.\n\nIf I'm completely honest with myself, I would prefer to pursue girl no.2, but I'm afraid of losing my friend and that people might think I was leading on girl no.1 (I legitimately thought we were just friends.) \n\nI feel like a pretty terrible person for this whole situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Link to the original, I took the advice of the comment that said to try and resolve through the insurance companies.\n\nI'm standing here in the parking lot of the repair shop who's been housing my Vitara while I had the insurance situation sorted...\n\nMy insurance said to contact the insurance of the establishment, turns out they didn't have insurance. My insurance instructed is to sit tight and a claims adjuster would contact us... Turns out that was not supposed to be the case. \n\nSo, since they told us there was nothing we could do, we'd try to put some oil in and start it with a new cap.\n\nIt was at this point, the guy at the repair shop noticed that oil was coming from the filter, and that the lube shop who originally did the oil change, used the incorrect filter.\n\nSo,", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've a huge crush on this one girl who is way out of my league.\n\nWe've met maybe twice last year, talked on facebook quite a bit, but she had a boyfriend, so I kind of abandoned all hope. \n\nThis year, however, we went to a concert together in March, and she broke the news to me that they aren't together anymore. We've met once again a month ago, and spent almost the whole day together. Nothing intimate has come out of it. These were the only few successful attempts to meet with her-there were plenty invitations that she dismissed (although mostly for legitimate reasons.)\n\nSo, here's where I decided to try a little ploy: I purposefully put myself in a position where I needed her specific skills to get me out of it. And she did help me out a few times, at first. But then I got too needy, and she outright refused to help me. Now, I don't know what to do. I think of giving her a present, as a token of gratitude for the help, and finally make my intentions clear.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The wife of my co-worker just quit due to our job having pretty arbitrarily enforced rules (it can be maddening), and I recommended to her husband another place that she would likely enjoy more where a friend of mine works. \n\nHis english is good not great and I speak practically none of his native tongue, so our communication took some effort, but here's what I got.\n\nHe asked me to pick him up and drive him to this place (ive never been) so he can fill out an application (he wants to work with his wife so he'd get the job first and then she would join maybe?) and then he told me that he was illegal, had social security and green card (showed them to me even) but said they were expired, and implied that his wife was less legal than that.\n\nSo, it seems weird that he wants me to take him there; was there a communication failure that he thinks I have some power at this place to get him past the hiring check or that I know it well? If so, how do I clarify that I only heard about the job and that they might still be hiring. Or is he maybe hoping that I'll use my id to get his wife hired (i won't). So strangers, may I please have some information on how i can help a relative stranger with information and not a ride in my car?...meta...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating this girl for 5 months now but I've known her for 3 years. It has been going really great and both of us have said that we are in love. We don't meet that often, maybe twice a week with a sleepover about every other week. I feel really good about the relationship and have been trying to increase the time we spend together to know her better and trying to introduce her to more of my friends.\n\nHowever, the last time we met, she told me that she wants to settle down and needs to know where our relationship is going. She's under some pressure from her family to get married and said that I have 2 months to either propose to her or break up. I said that's not nearly enough time for me and there's no way I can make that promise. We almost broke up there but then she said that I can have 4 months and I said I need a few days to think about it. She said that she doesn't want to move in with me before marriage but will live with me for a few weeks if I want that.\n\nThis is crazy right? I feel like I was in a car accident. I don't know where this came from and why she doesn't want to give our relationship some time instead of having this deadline. I really do like her and don't want to end it but I'm really confused. Saying yes to the 4 months thing will probably put me under a lot of pressure for that time and I think it would just be bad for our relationship.\n\nI'm not opposed to working towards marriage but I can't do that with these artificial deadlines. I'm meeting her this weekend to talk about this more, but I'm really not sure of what to say.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright reddit. It happened yesterday. \n\nAfter an engaging night with my bf, I decided to take further precautions to reduce chances of pregnancy. Walked into Walgreens to the pharmacy counter and said I would like to purchase plan B. The young male clerk walked around the counter and got it from an aisle for me (oops didn't know I didn't have to go to the pharmacy for it), and then proceeded to ring me up. This is where I fucked up.\n\nAs he rang me up, I noticed those little packs of portable tissues were all along checkout counter and were on sale. Soo, as I've been suffering from allergies, I decided I was gonna splurge and said, \"Oh! I could definitely use these too!\" and threw like 6 packs onto the counter. Lmao the poor guy stared at me with a priceless look of horror and confusion on his face. I then realized what I'd done. It took all of what I had to not crack up laughing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We started dating my junior, her senior year and have been ever since. Now I am a senior and she is away at a college within reasonable driving distance. I love her and she loves me. While we are content with each other (we like to see each other, like some of the same things) I do have a few concerns about us. \n\n1) I have never had another serious relationship with anyone else. I feel like I cant make an informed decision of weather I an truly happy here unless I take some time to sort me out and try dating some other people to see what its like.\n\n2) While some of our interests overlap, other things don't mix, our love languages are different (I'm big on touch, her not so much, but she puts up with it to an extent), we like different kinds of movies and stuff etc\n\n3) Our families are from different socioeconomic classes, mine higher than hers. This isin't a big deal to me, but it adds stress to when I think about a possible future for us (how we would deal with bills/stuff, her family (and extended family) structure is different, much larger than mine and just a completely different dynamic).\n\n4) While every time I have told her I love her, I have 100% meant it, I think I'm too young to choose a forever partner. I think I need to build my own life and see what else is out there.\n\nI have been discussing this with her and we considered an open relationship so I can see what else is out there, and while she agreed at the time, I don't think she is ok with me being with anyone else while we are \"together\", which I completely understand, but in that case I don't want to string her along if the end goal is to just be \"ok\" this year and break it off when I go to college net year. \n\nShe says I'm selfish, and I agree, but I'm having to weigh my love for her vs. doing what is best for me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ugh I feel ridiculous for posting about this, but after what feels like the millionth blow up about this, I need outside perspectives.\n\nMy partner of a year and I are both on our phones a lot. I try to cut back when we're together, but I'm fine with us both sitting on the couch or in separate rooms browsing through the interwebs silently. My problem is I put my phone down when he begins talking to me, because to me that becomes more important. \n\nHe does not feel the same. My partner is involved in a lot of online discussions surrounding his hobby, as well as general tumblring or Facebook scrolling. This is fine with me, but when I try talking to him or tell him a story, he literally refuses to look up from his screen. I never attempt to get his attention if he's texting or on a call, but if he's just commenting on a thread I don't really see the issue. When he ignores me while I'm speaking for random people on the interest who aren't even waiting for his reply, I feel hurt and unimportant. The way I see it is, the thread will always be there, but my excitement in sharing something with him will not, or the moment will pass. \n\nI've tried to tell him this, and he basically feels that it's selfish and childish of me to expect him to put his phone down \"just because I feel like talking\". I've asked him explicitly how he wants me to act when I want to talk when he's on the phone, and his response was that I should ask to talk to him, knowing he may say \"no\". Apparently 90% of the time he'll say yes, but that I can't expect to be prioritised over online commenting. \n\nTo me this feels weirdly clinical and cold. It ruins the spontaneity of engaging and connecting with my SO in a conversation. Having to ask permission just feels like I'm in school. \n\nI would stress that I am an independent woman who does not need or want my partners attention to be constantly on me. I'm a big fan of my own space, but this just feels hurtful.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met him in college and we quickly became best friends. Pretty cool, right? We do everything together and I think about him always. He makes me feel incredibly happy like no one else can. Not uncommon for best friends. A few months ago, he found himself a girlfriend and I thought it was great and I was happy for him...until I got home and was incredibly upset by the fact that she has him and I don't. I actually felt jealous of her when they held hands or kissed. \n\nI sincerely started to feel worry around this point because I identify as a straight male, but for some reason I can't stop feeling these emotions towards my best friend. Eventually he and his girlfriend broke up and I felt...relieved. The next few nights he stayed at my place and drank a lot. While he was passed out on the couch, I silently held his hand and kissed him while he slept. Disgusted by what just happened, I just cut off communication for two weeks hoping to get over myself and him. \n\nBut I didn't. I just missed him more and more and I almost started crying when I saw him again. At this point I've started to realize that I have romantic feelings towards him and I feel ashamed and sick.\n\nThis is incredibly fucked. For both of us. I don't know how to approach this.\n \n\n.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So i made the mistake of having a small fling with my professor. I know this was extremely dumb of me and I regret it. I was insecure at the time, feeling lonely, it was exciting.. I made a mistake and gave in to what was wrong. Nontheless, as soon as I got my head on straight I ended it. It was never 'healthy' and I was just confused. He was in a bad place in his marriage and enjoyed talking to me and misinterpreted friendship for something more and went after it. I, being young and just not in a very good place, was curious and gave in. We hooked up for a few months and I really hated the person I was becoming. I ended it and he did not take it so well. Its been 5 months since I told him I was not interested in anything but a professional relationship with him. And he still has not accepted no for an answer. He emails me and begs me to reconsider and give him a real shot one day. That he will wait for me. I'm not sure how to make myself more clear. He says he needs to talk to me and get closure. That he has things he needs to say to me that he's kept bottled up for the last few months and needs to get off his chest. I told him that he wouldn't find the closure he needs by talking to me. That he really should talk to a therapist or a professional because I am not qualified to deal with this. He has this delusional idea that he's in love with me and claims we are soul mates. The last thing I want to do is add fuel to the fire.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 25/f and he's 34/m, both of us are single parents. We've been quite a few dates without the kids. We've also gotten together a few times with the kids. The most physical contact he and I have shared is a hug at the end of every date. Last week we went we out 4 different times and we text everyday. \n\nAnyhow, he invited me over to his house this weekend to watch some movies (without the kids!). He's the first guy I've gone on more than just a few dates with (I've been single for way too long) and I think I've forgotten how this works, ha. Why hasn't he made a move to hold my hand or kiss me? I'm going with the assumption that he's into me on some level (considering how often we talk and go out) but what's going on? \n\nShould I make the first move this weekend? HOW do I make the first move?! What if he hasn't made a move because he isn't actually INTERESTED. Oh my word, I need some help! Am I overreacting? I probably am.. Any advice would be super.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi folks,\nI need some help here. I posted in /r/SkincareAddiction and got the advise to check in with you guys here. I don't know the first thing about legal matters or where to start...\n\nThis is what happened:\n\nI went in for a Hydrafacial facial in June. The aesthetician did a Chemical Peel as a surprise upgrade without discussing it with me. The results were disaster. I had deep burns immediately afterwards that left scabs all over my face that took 3 weeks to heal. It goes without saying that during that time I was in a lot of pain as well/took days off work to sit in a dimly lit room and ice my face. The spots where I had the scabbing left red scars after the scabs closed up. I followed up with a dermatologist and he did a V-beam treatment to reduce the redness and it helped.\n\nThe salon has refused to refund the treatment or offer anything to help speed up the healing process. They are insisting that my reaction is completely normal and is a healthy part of the skincare process. The first time I went in seeking help they said that the only thing that will help with the pain and potential scarring is if I purchase their products for which I was quoted another $200! \n\nThe spa manager promised a full refund but ended up only offering a partial refund and has been unreachable since that time. I got fed up after a month of being in pain and dealing with the spa shenanigans so I called my credit card company and requested that they dispute this charge.\n\nWhat do I do now though? Ideally, I would like the spa to comp me what I paid for the dermatologist treatment to fix the scarring on my face that was caused by them and any products I need to use for healing.\nHas anyone been in this situation or know what I can do or expect in cases like this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, I just can't see my girlfriend as much because I have a full-time job and I'm currently studying for LSATs. It's gotten to the point where we had to talk about seeing each other more because she wants to see me more but with the LSATs coming up, I just can't go out as much and it's really hard for both of us. She understands what I'm going through, but at the same time, since she's still in college, she says that she can't understand from experience and I really feel like this is why my relationship feels extremely strained right now. I'm even considering going on a break for a month in September since I'm basically going to just study and just telling her she can do whatever she wants and just not tell me about any guys, but then I thought about how that would just be another thing for me to worry about.\n\nAnyone go through this and have some advice at what I can do to make her happy while I'm preoccupied with this test?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just graduated college and I realizing there is a much smaller dating pool in real life. I'm not unattractive but I seem to go after people who are inaccessible in some way. If they are available and interested, I seem to take less of an interest. However, if they are interested and unavailable, or have some sort of red flag, i am more interested. \n\nFor example, the last girl I dated was 3 years ago, and I was not allowed to share it with people because I was an RA and she was one of my freshman residents(which was not allowed). Ever since then I have been forcing myself into weird situations with girls that I just cant be with.\n\nMost recently, I am finding myself interested in a girl who lives in another country. I met her while abroad, and she had a long term boyfriend at the time, which she has no longer. I just need to stop getting myself into situations like this. I am a VERY morally upright person and would never act on these girls that are taken(even if they want me to) but I have to find a way to be interested in other people otherwise I will never find someone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone,\n\nI have been lurking on this sub for quite some time but this is the first time im posting. I need help getting started down the right path to losing weight. I've been saying that I would be healthier for a while now, but at this point im not even 100% sure I know what that means.\n\nA little background about me, I am a 22 y/o M that currently weighs between 385-390 lbs. I am currently working full time and going to graduate school (which leaves me tired and gives little time to do anything else). I am a former athlete, I was actually playing two sports in college as recent as april, but ive spiraled downwards since then. I was 280 pounds when I graduated high school and 340 when I graduated college. In the four months since ive graduated ive gained 45 pounds mostly due to continuing my crap eating habits (way too much fast food and fried food) without really working out. \n\nI've known for a while that I needed to make a serious change, but it didnt really hit me until this morning when I went to put on a button up shirt for work and it ripped when I bent over. I know that this has gotten kind of rambling, but I guess the core question is how do you start? How did you break your fast food and junk food addiction and learn how to eat right (And what to even eat in the first place)? How do you motivate yourself to work out when you have little time and you're exausted (on tuesday-thursday I leave the house at 6:30am and get back at 8:15pm, so I feel like I never have the time to work out). What workouts did you do that you felt helped the most with limited time?\n\nSorry that this got so long, and if you read this far I really thank you. I just need help and im not exactly sure where to start. I just dont want to be so miserable and tired anymore", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Guys! I'm here again to get some advice about talking to a girl that scares me shitless and gives me butterflies. \n\nEverytime I see this girl in the hallways my mind freezes. I get super scared because I want to talk to her but I'm scared of what she'll say, if anything. it almost feels like half of my brain is telling me to just talk to her and the other half of my brain is scared shitless about what the other half will say to her. It's hard to understand haha. I rarely talk to girls and have had very few friends that are girls. Maybe 2 or 3 or something. I can speak to them just fine because I'm not attracted to them. \n\nI just need a huge confidence boost is basicaly what I'm getting at, I just finished a great workout and feel fantastic ( Before I felt like shit because I didnt say hi to the girl I liked, I planned to but pussied out )\nI'm jsut wondering, how do I get super pumped during the heat of the moment? Any tips? Thoughts? Suggestions?\n\n I've never talked to this girl befoer and she doesnt really know me, I'm just kinda winging it hoping for a good outcome. Maybe her phone number or something. I only see her once a day and it's very brief (on the way to lunch/ during lunch). Thanks so much for reading this huge thing!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I left my ex of six years a year and a half ago. We were sort of a dead bedroom, but he's also the love of my life -- something I'm still sure of. To combat our dead bedroom, we had an open relationship, where I was allowed to date women (though I'm pretty straight, I was so starved for affection I went for it). I met a girl [28F] who changed things for me, and I left him for her. \n\nFast forward a year and a half. Things with her are okay, but I can't get him out of my head. During the first year after we broke up, he did nothing but try harder and harder to win me back. He did everything right, and I didn't even give him a solid no (because I really wasn't sure how I felt). But I feel terrible for making him feel so uncertain and cut off.\n\nI want to get back in touch. I have no idea what to say... I think he thinks I'm an awful person. I think I need to try or I'll regret it for years to come. I've peeked at his online dating accounts, enough to know he's not, like, married with kids now or anything. So I might be the crazy ex, but I'm not the crazy ex who disturbs a family that's moved on.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So a little background first: I'm on my school's student council, and today was our Junior Prom assembly. We had a lot going on, much of it relying on a fast internet connection to work (live cameras streamed over AppleTV, etc.) we realized that as everyone settled into the auditorium, we'd have a large portion of the student body connecting to the school wifi, and we were worried about slowdown. Our live camera was basically useless without a good internet connection, so I had the bright idea to hook up the AppleTV to my personal hotspot. It connected automatically, I ran the feed for a few seconds, worked like a charm, so we moved on. Assembly starts, about 15 minutes in and everything is going great. I'm backstage when I see our principal run up to microphone and tell everyone to exit the school immediately, as there is a potential terror threat in the area (I live in an area where things like this never happen; we've had one lockdown in my 10 years of schooling here) obviously, everyone's more than a little worried. Everyone files out, myself included. As I'm standing outside, a friend walks up and tells us what he found out from a teacher. One of the students, while trying to connect to the wifi, had \"discovered\" a network... My network: \"Taliban Secure Communications.\" needless to say, the student went to a teacher, things escalated, and the school ordered a full evacuation. I talked to the principal (a very, very awkward conversation) and got everything sorted out. Everyone's parents are panicking, checking their kids out of school now. My personal hotspot is now called \"I love school.\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My mom just told me that she hates me, and that all I've done is ruin her life. That she should've had an abortion.\n\nMy girlfriend of 5 years just left me because she \"didn't feel like it anymore\". All the happy marriages I ever see seem just so forced. I've never seen a relationship where the parties loved and trusted each other to the extent of which I expected in a relationship.\n\nAnd now that I know that a mother's \"unconditional\" love isn't even always as loving or trusting as I thought it'd be, I'm thinking there's something wrong with MY mindset. \n\nMaybe love isn't as great or intimate as I thought it'd be. Maybe that's just me being selfish. I don't think anyone would ever love me enough to feel like I should trust them back, especially after what's happened. And that's a bad thing.\n\nMaybe I'm just too trusting? That I always win the \"I love you more argument\" in a bad way? Maybe I need to care less about the other person and more for myself.\n\n Maybe in a relationship I need to care less about it, that trusting the other person is bad because they don't love me as much as I thought they did. Because a broken relationship hurts a lot more when you trust them a lot.\n\nI don't know what to feel anymore.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm asking this because I was just reflecting on how a similar transformation happened to me. This weekend I am going to visit some friends at my old college, and I am legitimately having trouble deciding Who I am actually going to stay with and how I am going to see all of these people. I then began to think about how freshman year I was so cripplingly shy that people in my building swore they hadn't heard me talk or even seen me ever all year. For me this transformation came about by being sick of not being able to make my own friends, always relying on other people to introduce me or bring them around.\n\nI literally sat there reading and studying social behavior and the various theories and techniques out there. Sure, at first it started like some completely inhuman social experiment, but I slowly began to be able to really form strong connections and actually care about other people in my life. Empathy was a foreign concept for me (for deeper issues I don't really care to discuss) so i literally had to learn how to be empathetic. Fast forward to today and I couldn't imagine life without my family and friends as they have become such a big part of who I am now. So reddit, what's the story behind your transformation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, So I need some advice here or just someone who tells me its gonna be OK.\nI have a hard time talking about feelings and such with my IRL-friends so here goes: Im 29, been single for 2 years now (been through some hookups/one night stands and such). I met this girl a couple of months ago,we had sex on the first date,the second but not the two times we have met after that. And I havent been thinking about this girl alot but recently I have, we text and we snapchat, and im starting to feel something. Problem is she's seeing and sleeping with another guy, she's open about that and thats ok.. Ive slept around a little aswell since we are just dating,its quite casual as you would say. But im not dating/seeing anyone else but her. I dont even know how much I like this girl, she's 22, and thats too young. Anyway, recently my life's been going downhill, Im a bit lost, dont really know what job I want and such.... fuck this isnt even making much sense, I know im supposed to be cool with it, I know its casual,I know we are not exclusive. I know all this. this is eating me up!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This question was brought on by an old mix CD that I've been listening to recently that me ex-girlfriend burned for me a long time ago. First of all, I'm assuming (hoping?) that I'm not the only one who does this. But I think we all do have areas of our lives that we romanticize and feel very nostalgic about, where we only remember the good parts. So, what part of your past do you look at through rose-tinted lenses?\n\nFor me, it was 2005. In the beginning of that year, I had this one group of friends that I hung out with mostly. When drama started to ensue within the group, I started talking to this girl that I had a class with, but really didn't know that well. We kept on talking, and I started shifting from that old group of friends to a different group (which obviously included this girl).\n\nWe started dating about a month and a half after we started talking. I think the rush of hanging out with this girl, and these new people just seemed so foreign, but also fresh to me, that it was strangely exhilarating. She also was into a bit of the same music, but also a lot of different stuff than what I listened to at the time (a lot of stuff I wouldn't really even appreciate until long after). She also made me appreciate a lot of other things around me that I'd never really thought to appreciate before. I know it all seems very Manic Pixie Dream Girl-ish, but I'm pretty sure that's just because how it seems to me looking back on it now after romanticizing it.\n\nWe were together for three and a half years, and while I loved her all that time, I think I've looked at that first year, and that version of her, in a very golden perspective. Whenever I listen to certain movies I watched, or music I listened to because of her, it always brings back the rush of memories, and my nostalgic view of the time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This feels like being in some weird Seinfeld episode, especially after seeing the episode of the girl that was doing this same exact thing!\n\nThis guy and I aren't really \"together\" yet, but he seems like a pretty cool dude, so we're seeing where things go. The only thing is, every time I see him, he's been wearing the same. striped. purple. shirt. Sounds petty, I know, but hear me out! This has been spanning over multiple months since we first met. Today I was on Facebook, and I saw that he was tagged in a few photos with his friends. You guessed it - same shirt.\n\nI usually see him around once a week or so, so to my knowledge, he's not wearing it every day. Still, it feels so weird! This guy has a well-paying job, so it's not a financial issue. I feel like I'm making this into a big thing, but it's like... kind of hilariously surreal. I have no idea how to even address this, or at what point it would be acceptable to address it. I don't want to embarrass him. His hygiene seems fine, and the shirt seems clean, but seeing him in this, and only this, vaguely grosses me out. He even told me about going shopping with mutual friends a few weeks ago, so it's not like he's shopping-avoidant or something!\n\nDo I say anything? If so, what should I say, and when should I say it? Also, for what it's worth, if I see him in literally any other item of clothing in our future encounters, I wouldn't even consider bringing this up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So Hi Reddit, I have dated my boyfriend for 2 years now and I will be honest I don't like his parents. His mother has openly refereed to me as not good enough for her son because I want to be an elementary school teacher. His father only ever addresses him and it's always about how his studies are going. \n\nHe is an only child and his father puts alot of pressure on him. Everything is a competition, everything needs to taken so seriously all the time, his father demanded he study business at college to take over the business and when he graduates he will have an \" top position\" whatever that means. He puts up with this because he thinks he needs his dad and moms money. \n\nLast night I found him crying in the bathroom and he was acting so bizarre. He was hyperventilating and dry heaving, crying and kept telling me he has to man up, he has to take over the empire, he has to become the man his father is. He does not think he can do it \n\nI really don't know what to do in this situation", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My 29 year old sister is a single mom of 2 children. She recently moved back in with our parents. I am home from graduate school for Christmas break. I asked my 5 year old nephew yesterday what time his bedtime was and he said he didn't have one. I thought he must be joking. Then I witnessed for myself that they truly do not have a bedtime.\n\nLast night they stayed up until 1am running around and playing on their tablets and cell phones. I couldn't believe she let a 5 year old stay up that late. \n\nIt is affecting me because when they stay up late, they bother me all night long, coming into my room, wanting to play. She doesn't watch them. Half of the time, she goes to sleep and I am forced to stay up late watching them.\n\nWhat should I do about this? Am I crazy to think that a 5 year old and 9 year old should have a reasonable bedtime and not just stay up all night? I know it's Christmas break, but this is really annoying me. Is it appropriate for me to tell her that she needs to get them to bed at a respectable hour?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok I'm probably going to come across as really ignorant but I'm new to fitness and I've read a lot of conflicting information. \n\nBasically, most of my life I've been skinny fat, usually staying around 130ish at 5'7\" but I've never looked toned or lean and have always felt as though I've needed to lose 10-15 pounds. \n\nIn hs I played tennis a lot and I suppose my legs were toned then but in college I didn't work out at all. Fortunately I also ate less in college so I never really gained weight until recently (that's another story).\n\nMy goal is to finally get a toned beach body but I've heard conflicting advice on how to do this. Basically people are telling me that I shouldn't try to lose anymore weight, but should just gain muscle and this will help me reach my desired goal. \n\nHowever, I think that I should lean up first and lose 10-15 pounds because I definitely have a thick layer of fat covering everything. I doubt I could have visible abs at this point. My goal is basically to get down to 117 pounds (I'm 140.5 now) through cardio and calorie counting (MFP) and then gain 2-3 pounds of muscle to get to 119-120. I'm wondering if this strategy will give me what I want.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened a while ago now, I was out with friends at a shopping mall. \n\nI wanted to buy Steam credit, and I'm not really sure why, honestly. After all, I do have a debit card. I think it was for GTA V or someting like that. It was $70 (AUD), or at least that's how much I wanted. I was informed that they would have to give me a 20$ and a 50$ credit, and I said okay. Then, my friends decided to play laser tag (A game I tend to take quite seriously, too seriously) \n\nIt's really hot in there, and all you do is run around, plus I'm not physically fit, at all. But I'll be damned if I don't give laser tag my all. So, after our 2 sessions, I go home, and take out a faded, code-less 50$ steam credit it had become a casualty of laser tag, and a 20$ one which was audible. I called them and there was nothing they could do about it. I had no proof. So I was out 50$ because of laser tag and my incredible competitiveness of the sport.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I trust her. But we spend zero time together anymore. She spends more time at a bar with dudes I don't even know, coming home late, and keeping me up all night. At best when we spend time together, she sits on the couch texting friends. Last night we had a fight and she left at midnight until 2 am to go drinking when the kids have to get up at 7 am for soccer. I would love to have a life like that but don't have time to meet anyone because all I do I work, so my social life is her...and she wants no part of it. I just go to work to pay for the family, then get ignored by her. It's really really depressing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a 7 mos. old kitten who is overall a good cat. My boyfriend and I always joke that he is a good cat except for when he is bad. There are only two things that he regularly does that are bad behaviors: scratching the sofa and drinking from the fish bowl. He knows that he isn't supposed to do either and I know he knows because when he sees he is caught he stops and walks away.\n\nWhen he was younger, we used a squirt gun to try to deter him from such behaviors. It worked at first but he then got used to it and would just accept it. (He is now content joining in baths and showers) Then we tried hissing. I am not sure that really helped much either. My boyfriend now bites his ear for discipline. After each time he misbehaves, we chase him out of the room or area but five minutes later, he is back at the fish bowl. I have started to hiss at him while he is at the fish bowl, pick him up and bring him to his water and when he scratches at the sofa I bring him to his scratch post. Is there more that we can do to teach him to not do these behaviors or are we just going to have to continue to keep a keen eye on him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating my gf for about 2 months. We just started having sex last week and it seems to be giving her a lot of anxiety. \n\nSome background: I am 30 and she is 22. this was the first time she has ever had sex. I have had many sexual partners. Some things she has mentioned is that she was surprised she doesn't have an orgasm every time. Also, that sometimes it hurts her. I tried explaining that both of these things are very normal, but this is the first time I have had sex with a virgin. Every time after we finish she seems like she is stressed out/full of anxiety/nervous and not herself. \n\nI am trying my best to be understanding, go slow, make her feel comfortable, but i feel lost as to what to do. I know losing your virginity can be an emotional thing, especially for a girl, but I don't know how to make this better for her. I have tried talking with her about it, but she doesn't seem to be able to articulate what is going on. \n\nSo reddit please help. Do you have any insight as to what she is going through? Any advice as to what I can do to make her more comfortable?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well, about 2 months ago now around dec 17-20th. My wife and I threw a party at our house and my brother ended up sleeping with her friend. This is the first time this woman has had sex in nearly 8+ months and we kinda helped her out a bit.(she wanted to, but with out drinks would never ask)Well today she told my wife that she thinks she pregnant and that she has now met a guy that she has been having sex with for 3 or 4 weeks. She thinks it's this guys kid. My wife told her that it couldn't be his because she would be feeling pregnant already. They(wife and her) are going Thursday to confirm her suppositions. If she is, she dose not want to tell my brother and just let this guy she's been seeing think it's his.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We both still live at home with my mom.\n\nIt's been getting worse for him the last couple years. He never finished high school (gymnasiet in Sweden) and has drug related problems. He smokes, drinks and uses marijuana (that's the one I know of at least).\n\nHe has no respect for me or my mom. He never does his chores (simple cleaning stuff) and consistently takes food that isn't his from the fridge that are clearly labeled. I confronted him about it a couple days ago and he refused to give it back when I caught him in the act.\nHe works 50% at some cleaning job but pretends to be sick a lot due to him staying up late.\n\nThis week he stayed up all night and slept all day while skipping work, telling my mom he's sick. He's always on the computer and never goes out of his room if not to buy snacks. He rarely eats the food we cook but instead buys some pre-cooked shit along with candy and soda.\n\nBasically, he lives a very unhealthy lifestyle. My mom has tried to talk seriously with him A LOT OF TIMES but it doesn't work. Now, it's his life and I wouldn't care as much if it wasn't for the fact that I have to live with him until I can find an apartment, something that is extremely hard where I live (Big city in Sweden).\n\nWhat can we do about this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My lifelong friend, K, has been in a four year relationship with D. They have a really good relationship except for that he won't talk about commitment. She says the times she brought it up (not very often, maybe 3-5 times in their entire relationship) she felt she communicated that she wasn't expecting a proposal, just wanting to know the status of the relationship. \n\nThey've lived together for about 2 1/2 years in a home that he officially owns. They act like a married couple in every other sense (no kids or shared bank accounts, though) and I feel that he loves her and is \"all in\" their relationship. She wants kids and he says he does, too, but they're not making plans to have them together. \n\nRecently, her mother got engaged to her bf (both late 50's) after losing K's father to cancer in 2007. It's hard for her because she wants the security of marriage and helping her mom with wedding stuff is drudging up emotions she ignores before in he name of not being \"one of those girlfriends.\" \n\nI've secretly felt that he wants the benefits of a marriage without any of the responsibility, but I want to make sure that I'm giving her the best advice. Personally, I think she should end it. Yes, he's wonderful in most ways, but he refuses to talk about the future and is making her feel like a placeholder. To me, not talking about it is the problem. It will be hard, but I think she needs to end it before he (IMHO) uses her any longer. Am I missing something to consider? \n\nJust to let everyone know, D's parents are still together and seem to have a good marriage. As for as she knows, they never had any \"big\" issues; yeah, no marriage is perfect but as far as she knows (and she knows the family pretty well at this point), they always had a good marriage.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am planning to ask 4 close friends to be my bridesmaids. I have gone back and forth about having a maid of honor or not. I do not technically have a \"best friend\". \n\nThe friend who I was thinking of asking is my oldest friend (since kindergarten) and due to distance we only see each other around one time per year. She has other friends that she considers to be her \"best friends\" but she really understands me and we always have so much fun together. We talk via text a few times a month and skype every once in a while. I know she considers me a close friend too even if not her best friend.\n\nDue to distance I don't expect her to help with preparations (only what she would like to/ is able to). A family friend is already planning a shower. If I was picking one of my bridesmaids to give a toast at the wedding I know that I would want it to be her.\n\nIs it weird to ask someone to be your maid of honor who is closer with other people than they are with you? Has anyone who didn't select a maid of honor had any issues with that? Any suggestions?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "-I [21/f] used to work with this guy (24/m - let's call him Guy) at an on-campus job in college. I always enjoyed working with Guy, but never considered him as datable because I had a boyfriend up until a little over a year ago. \n\n-Guy graduated a couple years ago; I am a senior in college. I'd see Guy here and there at parties after he graduated, but we had never hung out one-on-one until...\n\n-A coworker and I were reminiscing about the good times with Guy, so I texted him to see how he was doing. Guy invited me out to drinks the next week. I figured it was just gonna be catching up, but it ended up being very date-like. I had an awesome time.\n\n-Guy asked me to lunch this past Saturday. Texting him beforehand made me feel physically nauseous to the point that I almost cancelled the date. But I didn't. I went and had an awesome time. Again.\n\n-He has implied future dates.\n\n-Multiple people have told me that Guy has had a thing for me for a while.\n\n-We haven't done anything physical, with the exception of hugging. I don't find him physically stunning, but I don't think it's a deal breaker. \n\n-Guy makes me laugh, and I feel we connect on a lot of things. These past couple times we've hung out, I've even felt somewhat romantically about Guy. I genuinely want to hang out with him more. \n\nBUT HERE'S THE THING:\nI don't like texting this guy or even thinking about him outside of when we hang out because it makes me feel nauseous. My stomach is churning as I type this out. What is wrong with me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my boyfriend dated for about 8 months. Even though he is twice my age, we did click and we spent everyday together. Eventually within the last couple months, It got sour towards the end and we both knew it was coming to an end, even though I still really wanted to be with him and still do.\n\nThere was no breakup. We were good one day and getting along and then we cut off contact the next day sans closure. Neither of us even tried to communicate. It was a month with no contact. The other day I asked him for my stuff. He asked me to come over that day when he got off work but at the last minute he bailed, blaming \"traffic\" For the reason he couldn't have me over just to get my stuff..\n\nI was bummed. He told me he would get in touch with me the very next day or another day when it would be better. His exact words. I was expecting a text within the next couple days after that but it has been a week and nothing from him.\n\nWhat is he avoiding? It's clear we are not together anymore even though there was never an official break up, but I don't know why he's avoiding this. \n\nAny advice helps.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Over the past year, my younger sister (25) has decided to distance herself from me (29) because she says I am \"too judgemental\" and gossipy.\n\nSome examples that ticked her off:\n\nHer best friend, who is ethnic with a beautiful face and a quirky nose decided to get a nose job. She was always a beautiful girl and her nose was perfectly nice and was not by any means hideous looking or disfiguring. She however, goes and gets a nose job and it wasn't a very well done job at all. The new nose doesn't flatter her face and she objectively looks worse than she did before. I think the entire procedure was unnecessary and have always found this girl to be superficial and shallow with her extreme standards of beauty. I told my sister, in casual conversation when she showed me pics of her friend's new nose, that I did not like it. And the nose looked super odd and the nose job was so unnecessary since she was already a beautiful girl to begin with. \n\nAnother example is when I told her about a friend of mine whom I have always been concerned about. This woman is inloved in a long distance marriage with a foreign man who only spends maybe 3 months out of the year with her. I am supportive of her decision to be with him since she loves him but privately, I am deeply concerned and don't think he's a very good guy. When I tell my sister this, she gets annoyed and says its none of my business and she and I have different standards for relationships so if this arrangement makes my friend happy, I have no right to judge.\n\nDo holding these opinions mean I am a bad person? Am I being judgy? What is wrong with it?", "role": "user" } ]

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