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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My sister and her boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year now. They are each others first relationships. \n\nI recently got out of a 3 year abusive relationship. My anger toward my ex might be clouding my judgement but I'm not sure. \n\nFor a while I've been noticing dysfunctional things in their relationship that remind me of my ex. Her boyfriend is acting like a typical 17 year old boy and is really into the physical aspect of their relationship. My sister is borderline verbally abusive to him. She says things like, \"I don't know why you love me, maybe you shouldn't.\" I feel that she treats him poorly, is rude to him and expects way too much out of him. She tells him that we, her family hates him. I've heard them talk about getting married when he turns 18 so they can have sex without getting in trouble with my conservative Christian parents. \n\nMy sister leaves for college in the fall and I think that's creating more strain. They fight a lot more often. \n\nSo I'm wondering, do I say something to the boyfriend? I've talked to my sister but she doesn't listen, she just assumes all my words mean I hate her relationship and her. I think there's potential for mistakes, heartbreak and regrets on both their parts and I don't want that to happen. Should I talk to her boyfriend, tell him we don't hate him, we just have concerns?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My parents are separated and have been for going on three years. My mom moved away and I still live with my dad while I finish University. \n\nMy dad has been seeing someone and when this person comes over he asks me to not be at the house. The other day, after a few nights of this, he told me the reason that I couldn't be there was that the girl he is seeing is 25 and she thought I would judge her.\n\n I feel like I have been put in a very awkward position because my older and younger sister don't know about it. I want to talk to them but I also don't want to tell them because I would have honestly preferred not knowing about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "According to recent surveys, 83 percent of Americans claim to belong to a religious denomination, 40 percent claim to attend services nearly every week or more, and 58 percent claim to pray at least weekly. \n\nI, myself, am agnostic. I grew up with a mother that taught me to search for my own spirituality and visit whatever churches I wanted to. Through my teen years I went to various churches, and none of them made any sense to me, so I just decided to roll with the world that was around me.\n\nMost people I encounter don't seem religious, (whatever that means) so those statistics seem a bit off to me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey r/relationships, throwaway for the usual reasons. I've been with my girlfriend for close to a year now (10th months) and things have been good. We are both seniors in high school, (i know, high school problems) and plan on staying together after high school ends. \n\nIn the summer she started a new job in the local mall, where she became friends with a co-worker there. Before he knew how old she was He constantly flirted with her. He was 22 at the time. Whenever we were together he would be constantly texting her and she would often talk about him, and stories he told her. Not long after he met he told her about how much sex he has and things like that, and he was very open about it. \n\nNow, this made me very uncomfortable as he was both over the age of majority, and flirting with my girlfriend. I told her this, and she told me she would stop but she would still bring him up while we were together, even after she started a new job (previous employer didn't treat her very well.)\n\nThat brings us to last month. While I was using her phone to call mine (lost it) he texted her. Curious, I opened it (I know I probably shouldn't have, but what's done is done) and they had been talking about as much as we usually do. The worst of it being that she flirted back from what I saw. \n\nWhen I confronted her about it again she said it wouldn't happen again, but today her phone lit up while we were having lunch and it was from him. I didn't open it, but I now feel pretty hurt that she lied to me about not talking to him. \n\nWhere do I go from here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO and I just solidified our relationship. It began while he was finishing up the lease with his ex. I met her, and explained that we would be dating, as I didn't want to be the 'other woman', and wanted everything to be cut, dry and clear.\n\nShe understood, and it was three months of dating, helping him pack, find an apartment, etc. Now, yesterday we gathered the final things from his place, and she went insane. Constant calls, emails, texts, Facebook, calling me every name in the book. We've blocked her on all accounts, and I understand her anger. Should she have accepted I was not a fling sooner? Sure, but I don't control other people.\n\nNow, my fear now, is that he's going to regret moving out and away. The relationship was over before me, as it was physically abusive. He'd often come over my house with black eyes, or bruises from where she'd attack him. My fear stems from the past of being cheated on, and knowing the hold an abusive relationship can have, having been in one before.\n\nI should note I'm probably borderline narcissistic. I spent my teenage years with crippling low self-esteem, and built myself back up to a very confident woman. But, this brings back the old feelings of my abusive relationship, where the ex was a prominent figure. I told my SO this, and he understands and assures me and takes everything in stride despite the high-stress of moving and whatnot.\n\nSo I would like to know if you have any suggestions on how I can face this like a proper adult, and not worry, trying only to focus on moving forward in my relationship? I have very little knowledge with coping skills and resources pertaining to anxiety, and was just looking for a bit of insight.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, my boyfriend has a 13 year old cousin. She is highly-functioning autistic, and loves to watch cartoons on her computer. She has been talking nonstop about this TV show for about 3 months now, and the best I've come up with is an episode list of what I think she's talking about. \n\nAll she says is that it's called \"Simba goes to the world cup\". I have found a TV show called Simba Junior goes to New York & the World Cup, which definitely looks like what I'm looking for, but I want to find it available to buy on DVD, or a website where she can go through episodes, and I figure reddit is better at this sort of thing than I am. Plus, it would totally make her day if I could find it for her, and her parent's day, too, because she's talked about it for 3 months or so now. \n\n[LINK](", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've very recently started dating this girl - boyfriend/girlfriend wouldn't even be accurate labels. About a month ago I took her out for a date and it was quiet, though it seemed it went quite well (this has since been confirmed).\n\nI soon asked her out again, but she didn't get back to me for some time. I thought this was her shy way of letting me down gently; I've been turned down that way before and failed to recognize it the first time, being quite the socially unaware fool. I felt dumb for not being able to evaluate such an obvious thing and thinking she'd been interested in me - it'd be good to mention I'd had a change in anti-depressants at the time, so my mood was all sorts of whack.\n\nI fell back into a depressive slump for about a week. This passed and I started considering asking her out one more time in person to see if my impression were reality or due only to poor self-esteem.\n\nBut, after failing to work up the nerve for that, I sexted a random girl online, had some fun, and then I found my courage the day after and asked for a second date. We set something up, and we've been on a few more since then.\n\nThe issue is the guilt has set in and I don't know what to do. I feel like I'll have to confess it at some point - not now, we're not that deep into a relationship, but in the future. I understand the general consensus: it's not an issue, technically I'm single, it's not like we'd yet explicitly discussed an exclusive status, dating multiple people isn't unacceptable in the very beginning, etc. etc. But those thoughts aren't who I am, and she's a sweet, shy girl so I suspect it's not who she is either.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My sister and her boyfriend have been dating for almost 4 years and lived together all through their 2 years of college (canada), and my fiancee and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. We got engaged 4 months ago after living together for 1 year. My sister brought it up to me that she wanted to know if I had any problems with her getting engaged since I just got engaged, at first I told her I was happy for her and then before it happened I told her I'm mad about it because I feel like they are going to take away our moment and showing off our engagement. When I told her I was mad she apologized and said there is nothing she can really do and that she doesn't want to or plan on taking away from their our engagement, but i'm still upset and feel like they only got engaged to one up us and because we got engaged.\n\nAm I in the wrong for being upset about it or is she being a terrible sister?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been doing online dating for a while and recently I have hit a bit of a purple patch with it. In the past 2 weeks I've had two dates, both with girls my own age. In both cases I have kind of tried to let go and not worry too much about how things progress and both times I have really enjoyed myself.\n\nUnfortunately I am finding it really hard to get from the first date and just hanging out to having a connection. I guess that with both dates that I have been on, there have been supervening factors. The first one was with someone who lives about 300 kilometres away (I am in Hobart, she was in Launceston) and was planning to move to Melbourne in the next six months. The second one is planning to stay in Hobart, but was talking a lot about past friends with benefit relationship (which makes me think that she is not interested in a monagomous relationship which I am perfectly cool with).\n\nI have really enjoyed both dates, but I guess that I feel like I haven't done enough to show them that I am interested in them as more than just friends. What I wanted to ask was what I could do in the future to indicate interest in regular dating or a relationship. Or should I just be happy to let things evolve and not worry about trying to change myself? Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm (18m) roughly a month into this relationship with a girl (18f) who has turned my entire world around, and we can't get enough of each other. We go to college together and see each other all the time. We agree on every single issue that has come up in news and in society: abortion, marriage rights, how to raise kids, religion, etc, etc. We spend easily over 6 hours together a day about 5/7 days a week and have told each other things we have never told anyone else before. I have no doubt in her, nor her in I. And she did say yes to my proposal.\n\nHowever, my parents, and her parents both know that we have only been together about a month now, and I am just curious how it is we should clue them in on this situation in the least freak the hell out sort of way possible... Her and I both more or less come to a blank on this. We also don't plan on getting married until 2015 when we're out of school, or at least transferring. Any help on this would be great.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have never had a solid relationship with my father. The relationship I have had is also pretty depressing. I have seen him in person four times and not once in the last 10 years (I'm 19). When I was younger, he would send birthday presents and Christmas gifts, but throughout the years, the letters and gifts stopped coming. Then, the phone calls stopped too. From fourth to ninth grade I was so confused that I did nothing. I was too young to even comprehend what was happening and that it wasn't my fault. In 9th grade, I decided I would give him a call. When I did, we talked for a little while and of course he promised to call more often. However, he never called again. Four years later (my first year in college) I decided to call him. \n\nI had found out he attended the same school I do now, only to flunk out after 6 weeks. When I called him, we talked for hours and kept in contact over the next couple months. One day he called me crying and saying he was so sorry for everything and he wants so badly to be in my life now. However, that seemed to change when I flew up to Washington to visit him and he stopped answering my calls and never returned any of the calls after I left to go back to school. To be the adult, I sent him a letter explaining I would have a relationship at whatever rate he felt comfortable with and today, I received a response.\n\nHe rambled on for SIX pages of writing about absolutely nothing. He even had the nerve to say that the only person who has loved him these last two decades has been his new wife. I want so badly to have a relationship with my father but at the same time I am so incredibly angry at him for everything he's put me through. I've been to therapy for this all but I still have no idea what to do or say to him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A coworker of mine said, \"I'll run some preliminary tests first before I give you the goat head\" over AIM. \n\nShould I have corrected him? If so, how should I have responded?\n\nI'm asking reddit because there are a lot of people who have (strong) opinions on grammar nazis and when to behave like one. \n\nMy opinion is that so long as the main message is conveyed well enough, I don't say a word. (For example, everyone knows what a grammar nazi is. Should I have taken the time to find out whether \"grammer\" and/or \"nazi\" should be capitalized? I don't think so.) But I also wouldn't mind if someone corrected me. It's kind of for my own edification, and I think it improves how well I can express myself with words.\n\nSo, in the case with my convo with my coworker, I didn't say anything because I knew what he meant. But I also thought, \"What if he uses that phrase incorrectly again? What if someone corrects him later and he thinks that I don't know the correct usage because I didn't say anything?\" I might be thinking about this too much. \n\nAnyway, what would you have done?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Will start with a little back story:\n\nI had been with my gf for a little over a year, and it has honestly been one of the happiest years of my life. My gf adored me and made me so happy. I moved away to university in September whilst my gf stayed at home and we've seen each other semi-regularly since I've been away.\n\nSince I moved away however it has felt different. Don't get me wrong, the amount I love and cared for her hasn't changed, but I have been beginning to feel that I am not ready for a serious relationship at my age. There are many things that I would like to do whilst I am still young that I couldn't do with a serious gf and I was beginning to not be able to be the bf I wanted to be for her because my heart wasn't 100% in it. It had gotten to the stage where I just knew I had to end it because I was, and have been for a while, staying with her to avoid upsetting her, as opposed to it being what I truly wanted which are not the right reasons to be in a relationship.\n\nI know that my gf is completely crushed. She straight away blocked me on social networks and now I am scared she will never talk to me again. I know I have really hurt her, but I want nothing more than to remain friends with her eventually, but the hurt I know I have caused kills me inside, even though I feel I have made the right decision because I wanted it to end on good terms (well terms that weren't fighting terribly etc.), I still feel like shit because of what I know I have done to her.\n\nI am just looking for some reassurance that my gf will be okay from people that have maybe been in similar situations themselves, because right now I feel like a terrible person and it's horrible.\n\nSorry if this message isn't the best written, but thank you for reading if you've gotten this far.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Would anyone have any interest in a product like this?\n\nOnce Upon a time I had an Idea to make a cleaning kit for the Xbox and", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My (17F) boyfriend (17M) is leaving for college next year, however, I'm currently only a junior. We are in a very serious committed relationship, especially for a high school relationship. We've talked about the future, as in when he leaves for college and what will happen as a result... We've come to the conclusion that we'll need to break up as he wants to go out of state for his college education. As a result, we've had a copious amount of problems in our relationship. For example, I harbor feelings of insignificance regarding the relationship because it's so temporary and essentially has an expiration date, which causes me to feel the need to push him away so I'm not attached to him and reliant on him and won't be depressed when he leaves for college. I know it's unhealthy, but neither one of us can end the relationship, we're too attached. At this point, I don't know what to do. Either option is selfish, leave the relationship to protect myself and as a result hurt him, or stay in the relationship when I know I won't ever be completely happy, and end up pushing him away because of this. What do I do? End the relationship and hurt him and myself as well, or stay in the relationship knowing full well I won't be able to be genuinely happy?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Today I woke up late and home alone so I decided to make homemade bagels for the upcoming week. They took awhile to make and I was wanting to do something else, but they turned out really hard and horribly stuck on the pan. dammit. So being me I grab a butter knife to pry them off. \n\nI spent the next couple minutes stabbing the bottom on the pan and cursing aloud, and eating the leftover bits stuck on the pan. Then the door leading into my house (which is right next to the kitchen) opens and my roommate comes in and finds me yelling and frantically tearing the leftovers off the pan and shoving them into my mouth.\n\nHe hasn't come out of his room yet, I don't know what to do", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway just in case.\n\nLet me preface this by saying I understand why this company would fire me. I know it's nothing personal. I've worked here for two years, and lately I've been getting a little burnt out, so I hit a bit of a lazy streak. Totally understandable; no issues with that.\nMy issue is that on Saturday, my immediate supervisor pulled me into his office, and to make a long story short, told me he had to start the process of termination due to my recent work performance. Tough to swallow, but fair. I messed up.\n\nThat was the only thing I heard about it on Saturday, and we are closed Sunday.\n\nOn Monday, Memorial Day in the US, I asked my supervisor if he had any updates on the situation for me (apparently some kind of form has to be sent to corporate, they sign/approve it or whatever, then send it back and you clean off your desk). He said because of the holiday, no one is at corporate. He also said that his supervisor, the GM, was waiting to hear back from someone.\n\nThat was the last I heard of it on Monday.\n\nOn Tuesday, I came to work not really knowing if I had a job or not. I came in, did my work, acted normal. I asked my supervisor via text if he had an update. No response. I know he saw the text, though, his phone is always with him and he has one of those smart watches. He saw it. Never hearing anything, I finished out my shift and went home.\n\nIt's Wednesday, and here I am at the job I was told I'm getting fired from.\n\nI've never been fired from a job before. Is this normal? Do I just wait it out? Is what they're doing (telling me I'm going to get fired and not following through) normal?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I spent the whole weekend at my buddy's lake house with a few friends, most of which was out on the boat. Now, this was my first time at a lake house and doing all these cool lake house things. I was dying to wakeboard/water ski since I am big into skateboarding and longboarding. I assumed that I'd pick it up pretty quickly considering my experience in other balance related activities. And what do you know, I did pretty well. We took turns on the skis and also battled it out on tubes as well. \nHowever the fuck up comes in this entire week because I did not take into account the muscle strength it takes to hold on for your fucking life when being dragged behind a boat like that. And we were out there all damn day. So I've barely had the muscle strength in my forearms to grip just about anything. Opening the fridge? Nope, grabbing my backpack? Fucking nope. Anything requiring flexing my fingers? Absolutely not. It's been almost a week and it's finally getting to the point where I can function normally again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm the type of man that uses an electric shaver to shave and never have used a safety razor, but yesterday I saw Pawn Star Rick Harrison's single bladed safety razor at the checkout station in Walmart. It looked like a man's man razor and being the alpha male I am I bought it. I brought the safety razor to my jaw and swiped to the right it was the closest shave I've ever had in my life.\n\n After that I started shaving other parts of my sexy body and eventually it got the point where I shaved my beard,chest, arms,legs,ass,pubes, and yes even my balls after feeling like a new man I then hopped into the shower and admired my self in my mirror for ten minutes and then crashed.\n\n I woke up this morning and immediately I realized I fucked up it feels like I have sunburn and tiny paper cuts all over my skin and it fucking burns! My only guess as to what caused this complete fuckup was I didn't apply shaving cream when I was shaving or after shave is this what razor burn feels like?!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello, sitting here 5:16 a.m as of writing this and was thinking about the relationships I've had with other men. Very few times have I ever felt anything for them, but I have had the feeling of infatuation towards a few- never lasting long, burning out quick.\n\n I understand I'm young but it's becoming insulting to hear \"give it time, you're still young\" I'm more emotionally intelligent than most married couples... Been on some amazing dates, romantic moments and treated like a king, but all I feel is this almost shallow or empty feeling.\n\n I'll give an example of this guy/28 I met and was in the company of for about 3 months: We met over drinks and enjoyed nice conversation- clicked very nicely, awesome sex, awesome communication, got the type of affection I need (petting, physical) but all that time was in vain really, he thought we were going somewhere and asked me in a corny but sweet way to be his boyfriend and I declined. He was in tears and asked me \"Why? You asshole! You don't even look like you care!\" \"piece of shit!\" But that's my fault, I didn't have any feelings for him like that, I should have seen the signs that he was falling but I just indulged him I guess, till it blew up in my face and tried to be honest.\n\n Now I spend my time hooking up with randoms, most want to see me again because they \"like\" me I tell them not to expect more from me. But why? Why don't I have more? Why is it when people start to have feeling for me is when I realize the most that I never had feeling for them?\n\nI need someone to talk to about this- no one I know has been able to help me, haven't asked best friend but I doubt she'll have the insight to resolve this (I don't mean this in a mean way, shes honestly my life)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, so here is the situation. I met this girl on facebook through a good friend of mine. She is awesome, to say the least. She enjoys the same things I do such as video games, making stupid ass jokes, and generally having a good time while not worrying what anyone else thinks. I've known her for about 2 months and we hang out about every other day. I like her a lot. The problem is she is \"talking\" to another guy that she met a few weeks before me. She comes over to my house when we do hang out and we watch movies on my bed (I'm 19 and live at home still) and laugh, occasionally wrestle and have a good time. The problem is the other guy. She texts him quite a bit, even when we are hanging out, but she won't text me when she hangs out with him. She will text me any other time, except when they are hanging. She knows that I like her. She knows that I think she is attractive, and I have made it very clear that I want to be friends over anything if an \"us\" doesn't happen. I want to date her, but I don't want to lose this good friendship either. I know I should just be patient and wait it out and see what happens between her and the other guy. She flirts with me every now and then when we are alone, which has gotten me really confused, and she makes teasing comments whenever I say she looks good tan and things like that such as \"so you think I'm cute? hehe\"\n I should just be patient with the whole thing right, and let what happens happens? What would you do in this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I found out my friend has been talking to an older married guy online for at least month. Apparently they talk alot about sex and he has been giving her advice on how to handle fuck-buddy relationships. In return, she has been sharing the details of her encounters.\n\nI am happy my friend is enjoying herself, but this guys seems like a serious creeper to me. At least he is on the other side of the country. I casually mentioned that I did not think this was a good idea, but haven't pushed too hard on the topic. Am I being too judgemental, or do I need to step up and tell her this guys seems like the kind of wierdo one should avoid?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Tonight I came home a bit early and found my husband in a tiny skirt. \n\nApparently he bought it just last weekend as a lark when I was traveling for work. But now he says it might be that he wants to wear women's clothing every day at home. This is all a bit sudden for me.\n\nHe has always had a pantyhose fetish. He wants to include pantyhose in sex; otherwise he has trouble staying focused. I'll wear them, but what he really likes is him wearing them. I'm okay with this but not EVERY time we have sex. Unfortunately, he mostly seems to be interested when we include the hose.\n\nHe insists on me accepting him as he is and his fetish. Which is as it should be, but for him accepting it means he doesn't have to try sex any other way. He does not go down on me because he doesn't like it. We have no spontaneous sex because for him it's a big production with the hose and the dressing up and the setup. For two years I've asked him to indulge my super vanilla fantasy of having sex in the shower, but no - he says sex and water don't go together and that he's just uncomfortable. Basically, we do it his way (in bed in the evening, lights on, curtains drawn, with the hose) or not at all.\n\nI've always been attracted to him though because he is a big masculine guy and that is my type. I like strong masculine men. But now he wants to be feminine. Every day. At home. I have no idea how I'm going to be sexually attracted to that version of him. And he says I am cruel and unaccepting if I can't.\n\nI also cannot help but think that this is something that has been going on for a long while and he's been hiding it from me. It's hard to believe he got his first item of clothing just a few days before I caught him wearing it. And now I wonder what else he's hiding. \n\nAm I a horrible wife for having trouble with all this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "And no, I don't experiment on my dogs.\n\nMy wife and I have fostered and rescued around 20 dogs over the past 8 years. We have 3 dogs that are ours, and right now we're dogsitting for my sister (who adopted our first real rescue.) We're also dogsitting for a friend of ours who adopted 3 of our rescues who had to take an emergency business trip to Columbia (and no, not for that white powder type of business.)\n\nSo right now we have 7 dogs in our house, but we've done that once before and can handle it.\n\nThe real story comes from last summer, when we rescued a mom and her pup from the crawl space of a house that was due to be demolished later that week. We kept the pup, who is one of our core three, and the mom went to live with our friend, and is one of the 4 we're now dogsitting.\n\nThe mom is some kind of husky/akita mix, but is relatively small for her size, coming in around 50 pounds. The son has that in him, as well as 50% German Shepherd and is huge, almost 100 lbs. \n\nWhat's amazing is that we've had this pup since he was 3 months and we haven't had mom around in a year. Up until we had them domesticated, both dogs were essentially feral. \n\nThe similarities in how they behave is uncanny; the way they reach out for affection, how to crawl onto the bed to cuddle, nuzzle up for a pet, and follow us around to make sure we're OK. It's all identical and different than how our other dogs act.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway account due to intense activity on original one, and the title is misleading - I'm the 18 year old (girl), he's the 23 year old guy.\n\nEx-BF went to the same college I am going to this fall; we met at an alumni event last November. Cue the strong feelings and falling for each other bit, but with a catch: ex already had a long distance relationship. Deciding it was unfair to the other girl, he broke it off, and we had a couple of great months.\n\nA bit of background: ex had a two-year long relationship with said girl. He was- and still is, to a certain extent - depressed at the fact that the relationship didn't work out simply because of distance, which led him to stop having feelings for the girl entirely. \n\nWe were happy, but ex decided to break it off yesterday. He pointed out how although he liked me, we would be thousands of miles away from each other for four years. Job prospects in his field in the area I would be in would be dismal at best in the foreseeable future, and I had no interest in ever coming back to our city. He was also emotionally unprepared for another long distance relationship, pointing out how we had extremely different political views, and that it would get harder and harder for us to even coexist with such radically different lines of thought.\n\nI asked him then why he initiated anything in the first place, and he replied something along the lines about how he was \"too youthful\" about the whole thing. I asked if I was just an easy lay, or a rebound. He said no.\n\nThen what am I? I asked.\n\nHe didn't reply, only asking for me to give him space.\n\nReddit, I am still reeling from all this. I too had misgivings about the relationship in the first place, and I only decided to commit because he told me that it was worth it, that we would make it. He is not replying to any of my texts. I am completely devastated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have been seeing this girl for about a month and a half and I have noticed that when I am texting her and I ask her about hanging out she will either say yes or she will just not respond at all. Than she wont text me for a couple days. Another thing is that sometimes she will agree to hangout on a later date and than on the day we are supposed to hangout and I ask when she will be ready the same thing will happen. \n\nI can't tell if this is her not wanting to say no because she is afraid to possibly hurt my feeling and if so, should I talk to her about it next time we hang out and reassure her that she can say no to me and it wont hurt my feelings?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Two days ago me and my SO of 1.5 years had an argument. Nothing weird all couples have arguments, and we have had others. \n\nFor some back ground info: He is a full-time student who's mom pays for everything he wants, and I work 180 hours a month on the overnight shift, so I am not home a lot. \n\nThis one was different though. We argued because he lied to one of his friends about me. I asked him about it and he explained he did not mean me, he meant his ex and forgot to put it. Later on I asked if he wanted to go with me to a family function, to which he replied \n\n* \"actually can you drop me off at my friend's (same friend he lied to) house on the way instead? \n\nI replied \"K\" because I was insulted and mad at the same time (He does this all the time.) to which he said never mind then. After that I told him that I did not like that he asked to go to the friends house that he lied to, especially since he never set it straight. \n\nThat resulted in him turning it around on me and making me feel like shit. He made comments about my weight, me not trusting him, the fact that he has paid more of the bills than me, that I'm not a house SO that stays home all day and cleans it. \n\nWe argued some more and then seemed to just talk it over, however I feel numb towards him now. I don't want to have sex, I do not want to kiss him I do not want to even speak with him. I don't know why I am feeling this way but I want it to stop and I have tried to get over it. Mind over matter right??\n\nHow do I get over this?? Has this happened to you? What did/would you do??", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "R/travel, you guys have been good to me, helped my wife and I put together a killer 2 week tour de Spain, both of our first times out of the country.\n\nNow we are looking at a 7-8 day trip in 2016, maaaybe early 2017. Weighing out what both wife and I want, ideally we could get:\n -relaxation \n -zip lining (wife says zip lining is a must)\n -relatively easy travel from west coast (avoiding jet lag on such a short itinerary)\n -no car rental (fine w cabs/ trains/ bus)\n -if we're doing a relaxing vacation, I'd love if we could be on the beach\n -other activities: day hikes, snorkel, kayak??\n - good food/ drink hopefully!!\n\nI was trying to figure out where to get started on a Costa Rica itinerary, when someone strongly suggested Nicaragua. Part of my downfall is trying to do too much, so help me keep it simple :). 1-2 locations over 8 days would be perfect.\n\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Mine is a favorite tale to tell as a cautionary story for all workers in the medical field. It happened about a year ago, where I was working as a part-time research assistant for a doctor's private practice. His private practice is located at a major hospital for a major city here in the NW US, in a medical office building wing that is directly connected to the rest of the center. I started working for him during my college years, but after I graduated with a degree, I received extended hours, a title promotion, and a nice pay raise. I also obtained the necessary licenses in order to directly work with patients along with writing grants and proposals, conducting experiments, and writing follow up articles and the such. The doctor and i just rid a man of his basal cell carcinoma (skin cancer) with a non-standard topical compound, and it turned out to not only get rid of all of his cancer, but left no scar that regular surgery would have caused. Long story short, I was ecstatic. \n\nI had to walk to the main section of the hospital to turn in some forms and see our research representative, and was in a good mood. Without thinking, I started to hum and sing under my breath while walking through a number of eateries, corridors, and waiting rooms. It was Queen's \"Another One Bites the Dust\". Right when i got to the \"and another one gone, and another one gone, and another one bites the dust\" part, I looked around a saw about 5 horrified faces: 4 visitors, 1 staff member, looking at me while I practically skipped through the hospital singing that song. I quietly realized what I was doing, apologized profusely, and walked away as fast as I could, making sure I kept my head down. Needless to say, I carry myself around a bit more dignified, after all, I am a professional. XD", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 27, I have a BS in philosophy and a minor in psych. I've gone back to school for Ms/bs combined civil engineering. However, now that I'm back I want to keep collecting degrees. I've put it into my head that I'd like to get degrees in civil engineering, chemistry and math with minors in architectural design, nuclear engineering and astronomy. I figure I could be done with it all by 30 or 31, but then I'm not entering the workforce or further grad school until 32, and not done with grad school or have relevant work experience until 35. There is also the matter of paying for it all..... Any redditors out there get a bunch of degrees that has something to say, positive or negative about the consequences of your choices.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yesterday a friend invited me to go to a club. The music was kind of lame, so I just stood by the bar watching Fight Club.\n\nAll of a sudden, a guy and a woman came up to me and complimented the way I was dressed. We chatted a little and the guy goes out to smoke.\n\nI kept chatting with the woman and asked if he was her boyfriend. She said that he wasn't, and that her boyfriend had just dumped her. And damn, she's gourgeous.\n\nThen a friend of her came to us, said I was handsome and that I should kiss her friend. I said \"no problem\", but the woman just evades me.\n\nThen her friend said \"if she doesn't want to kiss you, I want\". We kiss and she tells me I'm the fourth guy she kissed that night, but I was the handsomest and the best kisser.\n\nI keep talking to the first woman. She invites me to dance with her. Before we go to the dance floor, her friend asks for another kiss.\n\nWe go to the dance floor and she says to me she wanted to kiss me badly, but couldn't because I'm 20 and she was 27. I said \"that's bullshit. Just close your eyes and pretend I'm 30.\" So she kiss me, and says I'm an amazing kisser.\n\nBy the end of the night, I felt like the Overly Manly Man meme should be a photo of me, not that black-and-white faggot.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a Sophomore in college and my girlfriend and I had dated since junior year of High School. Senior year I started pondering the possibilities of breaking up because of dating whoever I may in college. i am not the type to sleep around, but I had never dated anyone else before. We were VERY open and we discussed breaking up for that reason a few times, but I kept stopping because I really loved her. My sophomore year of College I finally got to a point where I figured that I will never be able to have a college opportunity again and that I really should end it. We were having some issues at the time as well because I wasn't paying her enough attention and I was frustrated with her about a few different things and I believed we would be able to help each other grow as people if we were friends. A few months later now I am having regrets because she was my best friend and I could handle all this fine if she was talking to me and I believe she will one day, but I don't know. I just am worried that I threw something away that was good for something that wasn't important enough like experiencing dating new people. I guess I am just looking for confirmation of whether this sounds like these were good enough reasons or not :/ Thank you. If any questions about other reason for ending it just ask. Just trying to limit too much information or making it into a rant.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we're taking this chem class. Our batch is divided into two blocks. We're under this professor who is also teaching the same subject to chem majors. He also uses the same grading system he uses with chem majors with us. Most of our block is failing and can't keep up. I can say that I can keep up because I was able to take this subject back when I was in high school. But what about my blockmates? They're requesting for a different teacher, the same one as the other block.\n\nBut this has me thinking. Is this right? I mean, it's a pro that we're getting the same amount of knowledge the chem majors get. Is it really valid if our only problem is that most of us our failing? \n\nI'm having a debate over this with my friend. If you need extra info about the case, I'll just keep you posted.\n\nWhat I think is that there will be subjects where the teacher will be unfair or the subject is hard in college and sometimes we just have to go through it. But then my friend called me insensitive to my blockmates who I'm close with because most of them are failing and I'm sticking with the 'they should just try and get through it' mindset.\n\nAny teachers out there? What do you have on the matter? How about students who may have experienced something similar, any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year. A little background - he's a very handsome guy, and I'm cute but not exactly a head-turner. We met on an online dating site and originally I had gotten a vibe that he wasn't interested physically, just something about his body language, but we hit it off really well and eventually things turned physical and we became a couple. Like most new relationships, the sex was frequent and passionate but it dwindled down to once a week and eventually about once a month. I've tried talking to him about it and he says that he's just tired and depressed, but nothing has really changed in his life and he doesn't seem depressed. The most recent time I brought it up he said that he doesn't know why he doesn't want to have sex and that he feels bad that I want to and he doesn't. It's gotten to the point at which I don't even want to be around him despite the fact that he's my best friend because it hurts too much. \n\nI already have body image issues and I have a medical condition that causes me to be underweight no matter what I do so it's not like I can improve my appearance for him. I also am insecure because I was previously with someone who withheld sex for months and told me I wasn't attractive in order to abuse and manipulate me. My current boyfriend is a wonderful person and I don't want to lose him because of this.\n\nAlso, I should add that I haven't had any reason to suspect that there's anyone else so that doesn't really factor into this situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For a start what I done was wrong. The other kid involved is getting pulled off the subject. I'm allowed to stay on, and basically got a slap on a wrist and told not to do it again, but I was told to get my parents to phone the school so they can talk about it.\n\nI fully understand I deserve some punishment for what I done, but I've been a straight A student for years. My parents are the type to be slightly disappointed if I barely pass a test. Lately my grades have been slipping, mostly cause I don't actually need most of the subjects I'm doing and am not motivated to study at all, but this will be the nail in the coffin. My friend had asked me to let him copy from mine, since he was really struggling with the course, and I let him. The school caught on, and honestly I feel like an idiot.\n\nBut my parents are so overprotective and I honestly think they'll over-react and think I'm some sort of demon child. I made a mistake, a big one, but they're going to hang this over my head for the rest of the time I'm at school. I already argue with them daily over petty bullshit, but this will be a shitstorm. I'm scared to have to deal with it at all. So, I need to tell my mom in the next couple of hours about it so she can phone the school. How do I work up the courage to tell her? And also convince them this was a one off mistake?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I slept with my ex (let's call him Kurt) in June, 3 months into my relationship with my current ex-boyfriend (who we'll call Harry). I cheated because I thought the relationship was going nowhere & that I was going to end it. But then things changed.\n\nI did not sleep with Harry until that August (after the cheating episode with Kurt). Soon after I fell in love with him & sleeping with Harry was amazing.\n\nHarry dumped me in March for a trust issue, which turned into my confession about the cheating with Kurt.\nI no longer talk to Kurt in any way, shape, or form.\n\nHarry was extremely hurt, for good reason. We're now in no-contact this month and it's killing me. I have been unfollowed on Twitter and unfriended on Facebook. Is this due to the no-contact protocol, or do you think he's trying to move on?\n\nI want nothing more than to start over with Harry. I love him. It was a one-time offense and I am truly sorry & have changed. I'll do anything and everything to be the best I can be for him.\n\nSo, thoughts? Suggestions?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am trying to plan for when and how I should tell my daughter that she is not biologically mine.She is only 10 months so I have plenty of time. \n\nBackground: when my wife and I were beginning to try for our second, she got pregnant by my friend at the time. I'm cool with that part, we have an unorthodox relationship. He freaked and wanted nothing to do with the situation and bailed after he found out abortion wasn't going to happen. She has been my daughter the whole time, I am legally her father, and I will always be her dad. \n\nI want to be completely honest with her in the future if she wants to know about her bio dad, and will be completely supportive if she wants to track him down (we have saved information for her). My only worry is that I do not want her to feel bad that she is not biologically mine, or that someone would not want to be a part of her life.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background\nWe moved once right out of college in 2007 from the TX panhandle to DFW...but we were young, broke and had nothing. Moved from apartment to apartment with family & friends help in DFW. No big deal. Speed up to 2013. My wife is a teacher and I own a couple businesses and we want to move to the Denver area before we have kids. We are looking to move this summer (as my wife is a teacher) She is starting to line up a job with some connections we have (first priority). I am wiggling out of my business endeavors.. slowly. We dont have any family or any friends to help in Denver. So we are a little nervous but ready. Hopefully reddit can help prepare us for some speed bumps we might encounter.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long time lurker, first time poster yada yada. So like the trend this did not happen today, happened maybe 2 weeks ago. Over the period of summer, a sudden boredom hit me while listening to music and I decided it would be fun to make a rap song although I knew it would be shitty but was just between me and my friends no biggie.\n Over the course of remaining year I would continue making shitty rap songs where my best one so far ended up being a lovey-dovey freestyle about no one but used a certain girl as a description of the girl in the song. \n\nNow to the the fuck up\n\n My buddy and I were chilling in his car and decided to listen to it again when suddenly the girl I used to describe in the song walks over. He calls her over without thinking( If you're reading this I hate you) and tells her about my new rap career and has her listen. Everybody's laughing and smiling but I knew it was coming. The description of EXACTLY her begins and her expression changes to a blank one and then my friend makes a comment about it sounds like I'm taking shots at her boyfriend. I still can't look her in eye when she calls me rapper now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in my twenties, finished college, and have been working for about a year and a half full time. For the past year, I've been conflicted between going out and discovering the world (teaching abroad, volunteering as a crew member on a ship, etc), and choosing to establish my professional career (which is undefined at this point). My friends in my cohort are already in graduate school and planning out their futures. I'm not so convinced I should rush into things. In my view, I only have a few more years of youth (I'm 24) - I want to live it up before I can't anymore. I don't want to be a desk-slave. On the other hand, I understand the importance of working hard and making something of myself. I don't want to become insignificant. Any experienced folks out there want to shed some light on my predicament? I would very much appreciate this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I read the sidebar, hopefully I'm within ordinance with the rules, if not, my apologies. This maybe long... \n\nThis may sound irresponsible and I lose sleep over it, but about 3 months ago my lovely \"you have to pay for it yourself\" graduation present started to die.\n\n So, since I have a part-time job, while attending college full-time in a STEM degree, which eats all my time up I started looking around for a new car. The dealership my parents got their car at said they could help me. After a few days of back and forth they said they got a brand new 2014 car approved for me. Me being ignorant to my financial ability agreed, along with having a major influence from almost everyone in my family telling me to \"take it.\"\n\nWell, next summer I'm suppose to transfer out and I'll be in Uni, taking 40-60 hours a semester for the next 3 years. The only probelm with this is it will render me unable to afford my $300 a month car payment. My folks have said they would \"pay\" for it, but that's just about as reliable as Direct TV during a thunderstorm. \n\nI'm trying to be responsible and look into my options, but every chance I take I get told that I'm making a stupid decision. I have 6 more years of $300 monthly car payments that is going to be next to impossible. I've thought about dropping out and paying it off, but that throws everything off.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Currently, I only have one source that will add to my credit score which would be my student loans. I live within my means as best I can, I drive a beater ('93 honda) that I paid cash for, I dont buy many games(League of legends + <$15 steam sale games), I dont have a large wardrobe, my only 'luxury' item is my gaming computer which I put together myself for less than 1k, I go out to eat maybe once a week with a group of friends.\n\nI dont have a credit card, strictly debit card. I'm really just wondering how I can build a credit rating for when I want to buy a house when I already have financial responsibility and save before buying something and knowing what I can/cant afford.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First post on reddit ! it's the first time i'm doing this ( sleeping with two guys, who happen to be bi as well) and i'm a bit confused about the situation . It started as them being interested in me and then I found out they're interested in each other, they hesitated to tell me. I feel a bit like I'm the third wheel ( umm.. yeah?) of the wagon now but I'm not sure if i'm just being paranoid or they don't have interest in me anymore. Also I feel like one of the boys is a bit jealous on my relationship with the other one . \n\nI want to know if anyone's been through a similar situation, such a triangle and if there is any advice that they can give me so that I won't mess this up and everyone can just be happy and enjoy this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Gross story on both ends, btw.\n\nI have apparently contracted some sort of stomach virus, and as such, am sick as a dog.\n\nWhen I'm sick, I don't really care what I eat, because it's going to come shooting out of one end or another.\n\nI get there at 12:00.\n\nIf it matters, I used to work there, but haven't for two years. (Thank the fucking lord because I swear to Christ if I would have had to spend one more day there I would have probably gone more insane than five and a half years of working there had already made me). I did not know the name of the employee who I interacted with. Another side note: when I worked there, if you didn't wear your nametag it was an insta-writeup).\n\nI got sidetracked, sorry. So I went into McD's and waited for six minutes. apparently they're short staffed. This part, I understand. but what I don't understand, and found quite disgusting, was displaying a bleeding arm, explaining that they were bleeding, and cleaning with the same type of rag used to clean the tables. What I don't understand, also, is trying to get me to come back when I've said \"never mind\" and am dashing out of the store on the verge of puking.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I talked to this guy online i liked for a little while, but eventually we find that we need to take the same classes at the University. We eventually moved in together, expecting nothing to happen. However, a kiss happened, and a lot of cuddling/relationship talk happened. We rocked back and forth from making the relationship \"a summer thing\" and carrying it on into the school year. We eventually agreed that it would carry on into the school year, but take it slow because he didn't want to be in a relationship just yet. We sneak out and cuddle and whatnot the second night, but it seems as though another girl liked him as well. She likes him, and I like him, but from what he says, he only likes me and does not like her. One night he tells me he is sleeping, but I find that he's in the room with that girl, alone. He sleeps over, and tells me nothing. He doesn't seem to tell me until i asked him, and I accept his apology, but am hurt because he lied/avoided the question. Now we've talked and somewhat agreed that we should take a break, but I'm really vulnerable. I tell him that he can hang out with her because she doesn't know we were once in a relationship, but it hurts me a lot to see them together. I want to be/stay in the relationship with him, but it seems he doesn't want to, and I will have to get over it. Now i'm stuck deciding whether or not I want to keep the feelings i have for him and hope that he will still like me or get over her and just watch her be alone with him all the time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Back story:\n\nAbout a month ago I was over at my parents house and somehow the subject came up about my fathers previous marriages and his first date with my mother and he starts going on about how my mom loved the way he talked about his three little daughters but before I could ask anything my mother hushed him up so he wouldn't say anything more about the subject. I am 22 years old, so this would have happened about 8-10 years before I was born.\n\nNeedless to say I am more then a little curious and a little floored that I have three \"long-lost\" sisters. Judging by my fathers term \"little\" I assume they were born in the late 70's and extreme early 80's.\n\nHow do I go about finding more information about them? I would talk to my father about it but he isn't exactly one to talk about stuff in his past, the only reason he spilled the beans in the first place was because he was drunk, and I don't want him going ape shit over me asking what is a pretty decent question to ask. I am not trying to cause any trouble in my family or the family's of my three half-sisters, I am just curious about them.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been living with my sister since last march since she needed help with bills and i needed a place to go. Her husband was in prison since January 2012 and she was doing her best but then she lost her job toward the end of 2013 and needed money. In march 2014 my father stole the rent money and caused problems so we had to move from home. My sister said i could stay with her as long as i helped with bills. I lost my job that same month so we were both on a fixed income but managed to make things work together. I finally found work in october and i started paying more to help out instead of saving up for a new place. Today her husband showed up and decided to throw both of us out since its his house. There were problems between them for a while so i guess thats what cause him to decide to just come home and kick her out and me too since he never wanted me there to begin with. I have til next week to get out. Im scared cause i have no friends or anything so i have nowhere to go. My sister is going to stay with a friend from what she told me. I only have about $400 to my name and its difficult trying to find a place to rent since everything is more than that and most require a deposit. Does anyone in the East Los Angeles area know any place i might be able to rent with what little i have? I'm very tidy and quiet and keep to myself so i wont be a problem. I don't do drugs or anything and i'm very open minded. Can someone please help, I really dont know where else to turn to.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just wanted to say sorry again for wasting your time helping me out! I know I'm probably blind or something. >.<\n\nI read the FAQ, and I was able to do some of the things to get started but many of the things I am still confused on. I was able to calculate my BMR (By the way is there one calculator that is better than the others? I got a few different numbers.) However, when I went to the link on the FAQ to calculate my BF%, the page was gone. Is this necessary? However, I know even without my BF% that I would be classified as \"skinny fat\" at 5'9 and 156 pounds with a decent layer of fat.\n\nThe next part I am confused on is diet. Most of the provided resources provide diets to try don't seem like they would lend themselves well to everyday/lifetime eating. I don't know how to eat healthy. The last time I tried to truly get in good shape I did it all wrong. I'm talking eating only 800-900 calories a day, counting obsessively, cutting out all my favorite foods, and interspersed with bouts of binging on aforementioned foods. Today, counting calories freaks me out because I fear that I will go back to that. \n\nI am trying to get into real fitness, like going to a gym or bodyweight fitness, but I cannot afford a gym membership and I can't seem to find something study enough to use as a pullup bar for bodyweight. What are my other options because I do want to build muscle.\n\nMy final question is that I have no idea what I am truly aiming for. I want to lose my layer of fat and build muscle, but I am not sure if there's a goal weight involved or what sort of time table I am looking at or how many calories I would need to eat. This brings us full circle as I restate that I have no idea what I am doing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been dating for three years and living together for the last 4 months. My girlfriend wants to travel and see the world; money, at this stage of her life, does not matter. I have just landed a great job that is quite challenging and I have enjoyed it so far.\n\nActually, that is the issue, this \"job\" is a career and my girlfriend is insistent that she only wants to stay in America, in our city, for two years tops. My goals, I believe, are more long term.\n\nI love to travel, but with my work I could never really be able to spend 6 months to a year living in another country (what job could). I am making great money so far, but I love this girl and do not know how to reconcile our long term differences.\n\nShould we break up now? Should we wait it out to see how we feel later? What do you think reddit?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello Reddit! The girlfriend and I are (sort of) new to Lexington Kentucky and we're looking for other couples to befriend. We're both in our mid 20's, professionals. I am finishing a Ph.D. at UKY in Chem Engineering, and my girlfriend works as in IT at Tempur-pedic. I've been here for over a year now, originally from Philadelphia, and she has been here for a few months, originally from NW Indiana. \nIt's been hard for her to find friends her age (that aren't your stereotypical creepers) working in IT,\n\nI'm wondering if there are any other couples in the lexington area who would like to go out, double date, etc etc, to make new friends!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm going to prom with this girl I dated from November up to late January. We're still good friends, we didn't stop dating for any bad reason, It was just that she felt guilty about dating me so soon after breaking up with someone.\n\nShe's a nice girl all in all but there's just one thing. She has this flirty thing that she does where she insults me.\n\nNow I can take a joke or whatever but she really goes to far and hurts me.\n\nI'm a short guy, I'm 5'6 and I look young for my age and before I met this girl I had no problem with it.\n\nShe constantly tells me how I'm not actually 18 and that her 15 year old friends look older, she tells me that i'm a midget, she tells me that my voice is too high and worst of all she complains about how she can't wear heels to prom because she's going with me and doesn't want to be taller than the guy.\n\nRecently I'v been getting really depressed about my height and young looks because of all this. \n\nIt's going too far and I wan't to tell her without her getting offended and deciding to not go to prom with me that I'm getting really depressed about the things shes saying to me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I'm currently in Finland with my parents on a skiing trip - first time here, can't speak a single word of finnish, let alone understand when it's being spoken.\n\nThe resort where I'm skiing is pretty boring tbh, maybe 1/3 of slopes are actually open and the ones that are, take maybe 5-10 minutes to reach the bottom (if you're going slowly). As a result of a lack of things to do, I decide it would be great to go off-piste (against my parents, insurers and slope signage's advice).\n\nThe deep snow is not a problem for me, I can handle most conditions pretty well, BUT I often make the rookie error of 'leaping before you look', and found myself stopping just short of a small cliff. In most cases I probably would've tried to land on the snow below the cliffy part, but fallen trees gave me the middle branch and started laughing. So with a cliff on one side and fuck all on the other I try my best to turn around, and go the other way.\n\nThat went good, I got pointed in the direction I wanted to go and carried on my merry way. I got to a point where I could make it to one of the closed off runs, and nearly got there without any mishaps... Nearly\n\nI misjudged where the new cliff ended, and went arse over tit into the snow below, with my back stopping just short of one of those, evil fallen trees.\n\nNever in my life have I ever been so glad to be on a marked ski run.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone,\n\njust for some background: I am a computer engineering student from Brazil who absolutely hates what she does. I hate both my program and this stupid country (please don't take it personally fellow Brazilians) however I have only two semesters left to finish my program. I also recently came back from an exchange program in Canada that delayed my graduation in a year.\n\nNow, getting this stuff off my chest: as said previously, I absolutely HATE the program! I hate it! I can't stand it anymore!! I just want to shoot myself whenever I am in class or doing some kind of homework. Why did I continue you ask? As stupid as it sounds, it is simply because my parents made me and because the program is free (here in Brazil there are certain kinds of university that are for free, but they are harder to get in). Basically if I left, I would've been forced to start working full-time and I didn't believe I would be able to get into University again for free again in those circumstances.\n\nAt this point I feel like it is too late to give up, and if I do so, I will be throwing many years of hard work in the trash. But on the other hand, I am just so miserable right now... As far as I am concerned, working delivering pizzas for the rest of my life sounds like a brilliant idea compared to what I am going through now. I really don't know if it is really worth going through this much stress in order to try to get a degree. I just want to go back to Canada and live a simple life with my SO who also lives in Canada\n\nI am having many major crises lately of how much this situation sucks and how I think I am wasting my life doing something I hate and that I should just throw everything in the air and go find something or some place that makes me happy.\n\nSorry if this sounds very selfish and not really a major life threatening issue, but I really needed to get it out and need some advice on how to cope with the situation without shooting myself before hand.\n\nThank you for your time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone at /r/legaladvice[1] I hope you are having a good new years.\nI am currently under going a sublease scammer, that coincides with the information here.\n\nBasically how the scam works is that they don't ever contact you over phone, but by email. When sent an email they ask for your information. Name, phone number, address. After providing this info to them, they then send a bank certified check.\nThey overpay you and eventually ask you to send the remainder of the money.\nThe check eventually clears out to be fake. And the money that you sent to them is now is in their hands while you won't be paid by the fake check.\nI want to scam the scammers. I will be leaving the country to not return. Maybe return to the US in about 5 years.... Do you think I can scam the scammers without recourse?\n\nI've been exchanging texts with this person and they are still committing to the ruse.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just transferred to a new university a week ago so I've already got a bit on my plate, but I am already pretty attracted to a girl in one of my classes. It's not that big of a class and there are desks and I sat next to her last class so getting close to her shouldn't be that much of a problem.\n\nThe problem is that I really don't know how to ask her out. I'm pretty inexperienced at dating, but in this case I don't know her name, nor do I no pretty much anything about the area I live in. It's a decent sized city so there's stuff to do I'm sure.\n\nHow do I approach her and ask her out when all I know about the situation is a class she's in?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, I just broke up with my ex-boyfriend who lives in the UK. I live in the US. Despite loving each other, I felt too young, inexperienced, and unsure of us to commit to a relationship that would ultimately lead him to find a job in the US in ~7-8 months. Too much pressure for me, and it feels too much like I'm already on the marriage track, which I'm definitely not ready for.\n\nFeeling pretty sure of the decision, even though I still love him.\n\nProblem is, it's really hard to heal from the break-up, or even just have a space to cry. I live with 3 roommates (yes, in the same room) so there's always someone around, and we're not friends. I also just moved to a new city, where I don't know anyone, and all my friends are at least a 2 hour flight away. Even though we broke up a week ago, I have yet to really have any time to myself to cry/eat ice cream/whatever and I have to constantly pretend to be happy or normal around everyone. It's eating me up. I almost cried on the L train today, in public.\n\nIdeas on what to do? How to get my own space and time to just, I don't know, \"be\"? Would welcome any suggestions on what to do after a break-up in general, ideas on self-care/healing/feeling better, etc.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know if she has dementia, but what I do know for sure is her memory isn't fully there anymore. She lives with her daughter (who looks to be in her 50's) and her son-in-law, and they leave her there all day every day by herself. She takes her walker and goes on about an hour to walk to the end of our street (a 2 minute walk at most) and back, but more often than not she doesn't remember which house is hers, so she comes to ours. More than once we've come home and she's sitting by our front door on her walker, or we'll look out our window and she'll be walking towards our house. Our houses look nothing alike. We've always done our best to help her out, she tried to get into my car thinking it was her daughters car, and we've had to convince her that she didn't have to feed the cattle (we live in a neighbourhood by a school). But today, we found out that she was sitting in a car parked way back in their driveway with all of the windows up and a winter sweater and hat on for a few hours and it was sweltering hot. We had to convince her to go inside, all the while she was telling us she was waiting for her daughter. It's now almost 8pm and no one has been home since early this morning. If we hadn't been there, she would probably still be sitting in the car waiting for them. What is also scary, is that we knew she was there because we heard the dinging of the door, because the keys were in the ignition. What do we do? We're afraid for her safety, what if she tries to make food and turns on the oven and forgets? Our other neighbour tried to tell her daughter once, but she doesn't seem to listen/care.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me [F21] and my boyfriend[M19] of 2 years and 7months have been having issues lately (some are small issues like we've had in the past, others are new ones that's starting to bother me).\n\nWe've been friends for a good 2 years before we started dating so we know each other pretty well. We may not have much similarities, but that's one of the reasons why I love him, because I learn so much from him. He's a gamer-geek and because of him I was able to try out video games that I never thought I would ever play (ie Skyrim) and movies I thought I wouldn't watch (ie Pulp Fiction, Ultramarines). \n\nI've never had any trust issues with him before and vice versa. We've never had this kind of issue before and I'm not really sure if I should be having trust issues with him. I guess I'm just worried because we're in a different situation right now -- I've already graduated and he still has about a year of college left. \n\nI know he has new friends, and I'm happy that he does but sometimes he sends me mixed messages. He would tell me about his friends and his day but I can feel that he holds things back, especially when it's about a certain person. I guess what really worries me is that he's the type of person that isn't aware of what he/she is doing. He wouldn't know that someone is flirting with him unless they tell him upfront and he wouldn't know that he was flirting back or entertaining other girls unless someone tells him. I've noticed him falling into a \"pattern\" when he talks to a certain girl, similar pattern when he was starting to court me. We started out as close friends, and I can tell that they're starting to get pretty close. Is this a sign?\n\nI'm not sure if this is just my imagination or I'm onto something. I love him very much. I just want to make sure that this isn't just in my head. What do I do? I tried to talk to him about it, but he misunderstood me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating a guy for about year and a half. I have been having feelings toward ending the relationship for some time now (and I've mentioned this to him). We are currently in different cities for the summer but we'll be in the same city by September (where we both attend school). I'm sure the physical distance between us now hasn't helped, but we visited each other recently and I didn't feel the spark that i used to. Is it terrible to end it during long distance when we'll be seeing each other again so soon? Do i wait and give it a chance to be saved when we get back? We are starting to feel like only friends. \nI know he does not want to end things. I feel stuck. I've met someone in this city whose sparked my interest. I feel guilty, but mentally this relationship has felt distant to me for some time.\n\nNot sure if I should wait, doing it in person is usually suggested, or bite the bullet and do it now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (26M) and her (26F) met in college freshman year and became good friends. She was with someone at the time so I didn't really look at her that way.\n\nAfter we graduated she moved to another country to work. She broke up with her boyfriend. She got enganged later to another guy and broke it off since he cheated. Now she has been talking to anothe guy and she might be falling for him.\n\nThing is we really click. We think the same, we have the same goals, etc. I am falling for her. I think of telling her, but what is the point? We live apart, plus she might not have reciprocale feelings and that might destroy our friendship.\n\nBut I still think of telling her how I feel. Help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ive been dating my girlfriend for about a year now and I love her alot. Her highschool boyfriend was extremely abusive and controlling which ranged anywhere from choking to the point of passing out to very emotional and manipulative mental abuse. My girlfriend and i have worked through alot of those issues but she is still very much afraid of him. \n \n It took a while for my girlfriend to open up to me about it and she still has not told her family about it. I really do try my best but sometimes it is very hard to know what to say in alot of situations. We all go to the same college and he has been dating one of my friends ex girlfriends for a while and still has been exhibiting abusive behavior and according to numerous accounts has been hitting her and really become even more controlling. \n\n I know thats to a certain point its really none of my business but I know this other girl well enough to know that shes a kind person. It really makes me so mad thinking about him getting away with it. And i really wish there was something that i could do about it. Ive weighed out all the options and think that my best course of action would be an anonymous letter to her parents. I dont know what would happen though. This guy is a real piece of shit and i just dont know what to do. Is it even alright to get involved? \n\n (Throwaway because my username is too similar to my name)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am working with the Migrant Education program in New Hampshire. This boy is 20 years old, a Spanish speaker, and knows very little English. He wants to learn basic vocabulary in English. So far I have been looking for podcasts to put on his Ipod to listen to while he works. However, most of these podcasts are too advanced. He has also expressed interest in watching movies in English with Spanish subtitles, but most of these movies move too fast for him. I am trying to find something that moves slower without being at a child's interest level. His English is EXTREMELY limited. What tools/tricks do you suggest?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't want to sound like typical i-wanna-sex-guy. Me and my girlfriend are together for about 2.5 years and most of it was very long distance relationship. We love each other, i can confirm that, but i feel like something is wrong. \n\nI was poor as hell and we couldn't meet each other very often. First it was one time a week for a whole day. Later on when i was even more far away to visit her i needed to pay for a place to sleep, train and in my country it was very expensive for me.\n\nBut let's back to the problem. In the whole relationship i kissed her only ONCE, while she always want to cuddle/hug/look at me. While we slept together, she had only pants on her so it was even more provoking. She likes to talk about sex, she isn't shy at all and i'm her first boyfriend ever. But everytime i want to delicate touch her in private parts or just kiss her after few hours of cuddling, she just tells \"i dont want to\" and move her head. I'm not forcing anything, just trying slowly every .. month? \n\nI'm the guy that is happy with just giving her pleasure but i feel so unatractive at the moment that sometimes i don't even want to meet her to avoid that. I tried to talk about it, but she is completely silent and waits with a sad face. She didn't had any problems with it in past that could block her.\n\nRecently after so much hard work i moved out close to her. Thought that she don't wanna start till that day, but nothing changed. Am i a bad guy that want sex and can't deal with it? I just can't break up with her after everything we gone through :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I met this guy semi-recently. On Tinder. We only matched because he's been down south for his monthly army-whatever, which is only a few miles from my house. We've been talking and snapping constantly for a bit now and he would like to meet up and go out on a date. The thing isss that he actually lives in an apartment a good few hours away. It seems silly to drive so far for a dinner [even a dinner and a movie] and then drive all the way home. \n\nSoo what do you do in this situation? I would love to stay up there for a night on the couch or whatever and then hang out again the next day. But the possibility of unsafe people is so ingrained that I'm kind of terrified to. Probably for good reason. \n\nBut I get pretty good vibes off this guy. The way he talks, the things he says. I know his full name and address and he doesn't know either of mine. I know he isn't lying about name cause I've seen probably a hundred snaps by now with his name on his uniform. We aren't fb friends but I did stalk him and I liked the things I saw and the things he has on there. I would also like to clarify that I'm not worried about what to do if I just don't end up being interested. I can handle that fine but I am worried about safety. \n\nI genuinely feel safe. But I also know how unpredictable and potentially harmful this shit can be. I have a badass cutthroat knife I carry, as well as mace. And have three friends [i could find even more if I wanted] that are down to be my safe call. Soo what do I do? What are my options? Is it so naive of me to think this is potentially an okay idea or what? Is there anything I can do to be more safe? Or can you guys offer up other options for me? I do nottt have the funds to pay for a hotel right now and probably won't till fall time. So what do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend lives with four other guys, one of whom he shares a room, Max. A few days ago, we got into a heated argument that almost resulted in us breaking up. We didn't because most of the issues we have are because of Max, a 22 year old stoner who spends the majority of his day playing video games. Max does not have a job, go to class, and lives off of his parents money, most of which goes to weed and eating out. Because of Max's influence, my boyfriend has started gaming and smoking more. At Max's request, I've stopped coming over as much and doing certain things that bother him, such as coming in from the backdoor, knocking on the window to have someone unlock the door, bringing over extra changes of clothes, etc. All of these requests are reasonable enough but they have brought stress onto my relationship nonetheless. Other than that, we get along OK.\n\nWhile my boyfriend and I were fighting, I called Max \"a useless piece of shit.\" It was unnecessary and I certainly regret it, but it was honest. However, though we were outside, one of my boyfriend's other roommates overheard when he came to smoke a cigarette and told Max what I said. My boyfriend isn't asking me to apologize to Max, but obviously that's what he would like me to do.\n\nSo here's my issue: I don't mind apologizing to Max but I feel like the informant roommate shouldn't have said anything to Max in the first place. My words weren't meant for other people and the other roommate knows that Max and I get along for the most part. Do I have a right to be angry at the other roommate?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex left me 8 months ago. I'm over that, but whilst digging through my closet I found a bag of her clothes and toiletries. We don't really talk anymore, she pretty much avoids talking to me as much as humanly possible, with the occasional \"I'm just calling to make sure you're not dead\" phone call. She has a book of mine. I just don't really know if the awkward returning of things is necessary. I sort of feel like a dick if I just trashed the stuff, but she's never coming by to pick it up anyway. I guess I'm looking for other peoples's experience with that sort of thing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello ! I'm trying really hard to not text her right now, so here I am. \n\nShe's leaving me because she says she is unhappy. In her defense, I had become a shitty boyfriend the last few months. It wasn't always like that I know we're young, but that's not what I want to hear. We lived with each other, and we loved each other. However, she feels as if maybe she didn't love me, and that she doesn't know what love is. We've been together three years, we almost got married. \n\nShe says maybe in the future we can try again. I know everyone says no contact, but is it a good thing to try again? I still love her. She also feels as if she needs to work on herself a bit. I want to work it out. Why couldn't she stay and work it out? Am I wrong for having some feels of hate for her not working it out? She wants to put herself first more instead of others.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my gf have been dating for about 6 months now, and she told me recently that she would rather be friends than be in a relationship because a relationship is too much effort. \n\nShe has her reasons for thinking it's too much because she is used to being alone all the time, and because of that is always doing something to keep herself busy, whether it's schoolwork or just having fun by herself, and having me in the equation doesn't seem to compute. Also she tends to worry about me because I have a very dysfunctional family, and struggled with a bout of depression recently. \n\nI finally told her that she doesn't need to worry about me, and should focus on herself. This however caused her to absolutely treat me as if I'm not her boyfriend, and I always have to remind her by putting my arm around her or kissing her that I'm even around.\n\n I just feel really sad about this and I'm sorry about this meaningless post, but I needed to get this out somehow.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating my girlfriend for about 2 years and it's great. Things have settled/calmed down (which isn't a bad thing). I still very much enjoy spending time with her and can truly say that I love her. However, I have a female friend that I've known for almost my whole life and although I'm sure we've had \"thoughts\" of being together, neither of us have ever brought up the topic or pursued for that status. That is... until now. \n\nI can't say for certain when it began to happen or what caused the sudden \"click\". This friend and I have been talking more and hanging out more (maybe due to my gf living hours away now because of grad-school). Which wasn't a problem before because we always labeled one another as friends and only friends. But as of lately our conversations have become more than just friendly conversations (many more compliments given to me / slight flirting). There was a point where we were walking together and our hands kept bumping into each other and we kind of just gave each other this stare... almost as if we both wanted to hold hands. I'm an idiot for letting myself get into this situation, but I think I can truly say that I love both girls.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll start: My ex and I had plans to move in together, signed a lease and everything. Three weeks before we were supposed to move in, we got in a stupid fight and he ended up breaking up with me. In a text message. After two years of dating. Refusing to talk to me otherwise, a few days later he told me he had found a new place to live and that I should do the same. No explanation. I was supposed to crash at his place for a week after my lease expired; he literally said he didn't care that I'd be homeless for that week. When I asked for an explanation, he texted my mom 27 creepy messages about me, about how I deserved this, etc. I told him to stop harassing my family and asked what the hell his problem was, he said if I ever contacted him again he'd call the police. TO THIS DAY, nine months later, I have no idea what I did or if he just went off the deep end.\n\nLuckily, my now-landlord let me move in early so I only had one day of homelessness. But after all the shit my ex put me through (this is just the beginning), I chose not to find a new roommate. His name is still on the lease so he is still legally obligated to pay every month. He does. I don't regret it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I've been in a relationship with my (now ex) girlfriend for roughly 2.5 years and it just ended suddenly tonight. I guess it was because of a lot of stuff that's been building up throughout our relationship. It is long distance because I'm away at college so I definitely understand why things went sour. For clarification, I broke up with her. She was fairly controlling throughout our relationship and was also extremely clingy. I never really got any appreciation for the stuff I did for her and she is also an extremely jealous person. I'm the only person that she has to rely on when she needs someone and she expects me to be at her side at the drop of a hat. We had different views on a lot of things, including religion, marriage, and children, but we were extremely serious and considering engagement in the future. Fiscally, she wasn't really appropriate for me because she is a rather large spender while I prefer to save our money. Unfortunately, I would give in on these whims and now I don't really have much to show for working throughout my high school career. Although things haven't been that good for us when we are away from one another, they are typically really good when we are together. After breaking up with her, she told me that she was going to change everything that I dislike about her because she had figured all of this out already and was wanting to fix it before anything bad happened. I told her that it was a little too late because these problems have come up before and they were never fixed, but she insisted that she would keep trying she also said that she hopes that we can get back together some time in the future. I really don't know how to handle the situation, Reddit. Can you help me out? Do I stay friends with her? Do I give her another chance? Do I try to experience more of the college lifestyle and meet other girls and date them? Any advice you can offer is greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently switched to a different apartment complex that is owned by my rental company. When I went into the leasing office to sign my new lease I asked if I had to do anything special to change my power utilities account to my new apartment. They said that all I had to do was fill out a form that they had with them, and they would transfer the service for me.\n\nWell, they didn't transfer the service, they only added an account, and I got charged for 2 months of power for an apartment that was leased to someone else. I called my utilities company and they told me to take it up with my rental company and that they couldn't do anything about it. I am going to see my rental company tomorrow, and want them to reimburse me for the two months of electricity.\n\nThey have been sort of rigid in the past, does anyone know of any recourse I have against them telling me no?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with my gf for about six months now. We spend a lot of time together and have traveled together. Things are amazing. She is absolutely wonderful and makes me incredibly happy. One on one she can see the love I have for her.\n\nShe is a very loving; hearts, flowers, open, individual, so sharing her feelings with the world come natural and easy. I am an much more of the engineer type and don't feel comfortable posting mushy things to social media. I'm not a big social media sharer in the first place and she is (it's how she keeps contact with family abroad).\n\nI know it would be very helpful if I just sucked it up and expressed my love publicly but something about that just feels forced and wrong to me. \n\nShould I have no issues with this expression? She is a bit saddened that I don't gush about her to others. I guess it makes her question how strongly I feel about her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So in August I moved into a new apartment, mainly because the internet was included in the rent, and was advertised as HIGH SPEED, I also had some friends tell me the internet here was good. The first week or so we were getting ~20mbps and it was amazing. However, a weekish after moving in we had no internet, at least that is how it seemed. After a while trying to connect to various sites it took us to the [website of this company](\n\nWe went to the front office and they said just make an account with them and we would get internet. We did this, and when making an account you had to choose a speed package. The only package available was 1.5mbps...Hardly high speed as they said. What is weird is Windstream is our ISP, as they were when we first moved in, but now this company comes into the equation for no apparent reason and just slows the fuck out of our internet.\n\nYou cannot connect to the internet here without signing into this website first, and it makes the internet horribly slow. When we ask people at the front desk about it they basically have no fucking clue what is going on.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Everytime I go out on the streets people give me strange angry looks. When I'm at social events people are afraid to come talk to me or make conversation (and I always need to intiate).\n\nBefore you start saying I'm paranoid, I asked my friends and people i know what their first impressions of me were when they first looked at me. They all said I was intimidating and they don't know why.\n\nI'm a shy and reserved person but very kind once you get to know me. I'm neither ugly or extremely beautiful just average looking. I'm also very skinny.\n\nAny ideas what to do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Tomorrow, my friend is going to take a pregnancy test. We're both 20 and in college. In my opinion, I believe she might be pregnant. No matter how often I try to educate her, this isn't the first pregnancy scare she's had. This time, however, she forgot to take Plan B, and it's been over a week since she missed her period. We calculated she had unprotected sex twice right when she was ovulating.\n\nI am the only person she confided in about this. I keep telling that I'm here for her, and that we'll figure it out together, and she doesn't have to face this alone. However, I'm internally freaking out. My inner religious upbringing is coming out. The closer this day, the more I'm like \"What is God going to think of me if I accompany this girl to planned parenthood to get an abortion?\"\n\nNow, since coming to college a year ago, I was finally in a safe place where I could admit to myself I was a lesbian, and not freak out about it and try to beat it out of me with religion. So I've been working on trying to figure out my own beliefs about things, and not just what my family thinks.\n\nNow I really don't need any \"God doesn't exist\" type responses because these are my beliefs, and it's actually getting to me. I want to be supportive to my friend, since she decided she could confide in me out of our entire group of friends to help her through this difficult time. \n\nHowever, in supporting her, I don't know how to figure out how to deal with how guilty I feel. I know scientifically, it's not an actual being. This was just so sudden, I haven't had a chance to reflect on what I believe, and how I feel.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This girl I was dating for about 3 weeks broke up with me 3 days ago, she was saying that her mom wanted her to because of her grades and whatnot.\n\n so I asked her if her mom actually wanted her to break up with me, or if she was just trying to breakup in a nice way and she said \"Yeah she does. Plus I've never been good at relationships anyway.\" And I said \"So you don't want to date me anymore?\" And she said \"Yeah .-. But ughh its hard to explain\". \n\nThen right after this conversation she started texting me like we were still dating (ex. \"hey whats up?') Except there wasn't any flirting like there was before. I talked to her sister about it and she said \"Btw dude she still like you but doesn't wanna be in a relationship so you guys are still buddies\". \n\nIs it friendzone? Or is there a chance I can get her back when shes ready for a relationship? It really confused me because the day before we broke up she was talking about how much she liked me and holding hands/cuddling and all that stuff. (She said \"So when I was holding your hand I was thinking of this Pierce the Veil song that says 'I wanna hold your hand so tight, Im gonna break my wrist'\"). \n\nLmao that made me smile, but anyway yeah so I honestly dont know what happened here :\|", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this guy on a dating app – we've been seeing each other 1-2 times a week for the past two and a half months. He's pretty phenomenal. We have a ton in common and get along really well. When we see each other we typically go on fun/unique dates and started having sex regularly about a month into hanging out. We haven't had any sort of discussion about our relationship yet. My personal take on our relationship is that it's casual but consistent. I'm definitely developing feelings for him and could potentially see it turning into something more serious down the line (but I would be fine with it staying casual). \n\nThings all changed two weeks ago. I had met his friends on numerous occasions at this point so I figured it wouldn't be weird if he met some of my friends. I was going to be hanging out with two of my friends (a couple) so I invited him along. The entire evening was awkward. I'm not sure what even made it awkward, but the dynamic and everything was just off. And since then we've barely spoken and I've only seen him once. I've been initiating all the conversations and asked him to hang out numerous times. He took me to dinner last week at my own suggestion (a week after the friend date disaster) and it was lovely/normal. Afterwards he invited me back to his place but he was tired and didn't want to have sex so I left shortly after. He's initiated conversation with me twice since then but doesn't respond to my replies when I do answer and hasn't made any sort of effort to see me.\n\nI'm guessing that he's slow fading me. But I'm really confused as to why. Everything was going so well for two months, and suddenly things changed completely. I don't want to continue to text him or ask him to hangout again. However, is it okay to call him out on the slow fade thing and ask him what's up? I wouldn't be bothered if we hadn't been seeing each other for over two months at this point. I'm not sure if I should try to address it or just let it go? I'm confused and getting a bit angry at the situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating my current gf for 3 months.. she's an awesome girlfriend. Cooks cleans etc without me even asking.. sweetest person ever, nonjudgmental, i'm completely comfortable around her. I didn't really have to work for her though, we just started hooking up after meeting at a cpl of parties and she asked me out basically.\n\nThis other girl is someone ive had a huge crush on for about a year, we've always been great friends.. long heart-to-hearts and talks about religion, life, the future etc. We ended up not talking much over the past cpl of months, as we both have busy lives, and she was in a very serious relationship with a bf of 3 yrs. We ran into each other at teh bar a couple of weeks ago and she told me she broke up with him a couple of days after valentines day (ouch). I know shes already rebounded (we covered that) and last night in a drunk text convo, we both admitted to liking each other. This other girl is gorgeous and a lot of guys are constantly trying to get with her. If she had dumped her bf about 3 months earlier, i for sure would have tried to make a move on her.. \n\nTwo areas i want to point out that im aware of:\n1. I know i am a douchebag for even thinking this, and the fact that i'm this far along in the thought process is indicative of me not taking this relationship too seriously. \n2. I tried my best to not be the emotional crutch, and that also factored into us not talking over the past couple of months.\n\nMy question is, what do i do now?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was recently dumped, about three days ago, after weeks of begging my ex not to do it. She had had a thing for me since third grade and we started dating two years ago in highschool. Things were pretty okay, but we did take one three week long break. In that break she started flirting with someone else, and it was awful. We did, however, get back together. That was about a month ago. \n\nNow for the past few weeks she has been dancing around the idea of breaking up with me and I have always plead with her not to. I told her I would never talk to her again, never see her again, that I would never give her another chance, and that I would start talking to someone else, because that's exactly what she did to me. After two weeks of telling her all this about once or twice a day she did it anyway. Today she told me about how she wanted me back, but I told her I was talking to a few other girls at this point. Her exact words were \"Fuck you, have a good life.\"\n\n I feel horrible about this whole thing, we haven't had the HEALTHIEST relationship, but it's still one I never wanted to end. We both had our faults; she would get mad at me for just having friends that were girls, but I'm a very social guy and like to make new friends. I would get mad at her for always delving WAY too deep into everything we ever talked about. (An example of this would be: My ex got upset with me for talking to this one girl, Girl B, purely as a friend, who lived about an hour south of me. I told her that was fine, I would just stop talking to Girl B, again purely as a friend. My ex then got mad at me for \"still wanting to be friends with Girl B\", and threatened to break up with me so I could \"Finally go be friends with more people.\") I want to fix things but at the same time, I'm worrying that things will never get better.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I started this semester with what I thought was just a normal class load, but it turned out to be several times worse than any of the previous semesters by far. As a result, I've worked my tail off for the first 2/3 of the semester, staying up super late every night as a result (on the order of 3-4 am every morning). There was exactly one day off this semester, during which I, you guessed it, worked some more.\n\nNow, with three weeks to go, I'm burned out to the point where it's all I can do to even focus in my classes and get my work done. I know I need to get things done earlier/faster, but I am forced to use [Leechblock] to forcibly prevent myself from just wasting time online. \n\nAnd yet, I still find ways to get around doing my work until it's very late at night. How can I motivate myself to get out of these doldrums and finish these next three weeks strong?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my girlfriend started talking to each other around march and started dating at the end of March. So we have been dating almost 3 months now. Other than me, she has only had one long term relationship and it was far longer, they dated for 2 years. The reason they broke up is her boyfriend didn't know what he wanted to be gender wise. She wasn't the one who broke up with him and she was clearly upset about it for a long time. \n\nShe broke up with her boyfriend around summer of 2015. So it was pretty recently, but I learned yesterday that they had been having sex since they broke up up until January/February of 2016. She and her ex do still talk over snapchat and text messaging, but it's pretty rare and from what I have seen the little conversations they do have aren't inappropriate and more of a conversation friends would have. \n\nWhat is bothering me is her explanation for why she wouldn't have sex with him again, she said she would have no reason to since she now can have sex with me whenever she wants. The reason this bugs me so much is she is planning on going on either a year long or summer long trip after she graduates. And I won't see her at all or very little during that time, and if she has no problem with emotionless sex I am concerned cheating is a very real possibility.\n\nHowever this is my first real relationship and I may just be insecure.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I really loved my girlfriend. I did. We were best friends.\n\nBut I'm having a ton of trouble reconciling that I met her so early on in life. She's my first serious relationship, and we talked about getting married etc. She's on-board with the idea, and I just couldn't continue the relationship because I wasn't sure.\n\nWhat I'm trying to figure out is whether or not I'm ok with settling down so early. I already feel like maybe I'm missing something. All my friends have gone on streaks of dating a lot, nothing serious, and a lot of flings. I've never had that in life. I always was looking for a relationship. But now that I have one, I feel trapped. I feel that if I commit to this now, I'm giving up the chance to ever be able to have that fun freedom in my 20s. Part of me wants to experience that, but on the other hand what if I'm letting the best one go just to go experience shitty relationships?\n\nI always thought that I'd end up with a physically fit, active girl. My girlfriend simply isn't. She's never done any real physical activity, and doesn't have much urge to do so. I still find her attractive, but I'm worried that she'll gain weight the older she gets. I know that beauty fades with age... but I still want to be crazy attracted to her. I am attracted to her now more just because of our relationship than her physical appearance. If she did lose a bit of weight and was active, I know she would be that crazy hot girl I've always wanted... but I can't force her to become active, and I also don't want to bank on that happening.\n\nI'm just really caught up in \"what-if\"s right now, and it's killing me inside. Am I missing out on something if I stay with her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I created an ad on Facebook for a new business that I'm trying to get off the ground. I started at $100/day. 3 days later I've got $3,000 worth of charges on my debit card. \n\nI called Facebook to ask them what was going on and they basically didn't want to hear a word I had to say. Their whole attitude was \"deal with it\". My new business received NO new traffic from them during the time when the ads were supposed to have been active (and I've got the analytics data to prove it) let alone $3,000 worth! I disputed the credit card charges with my bank.\n\nSo what did Facebook do? They deactivated my PERSONAL Facebook account. Don't get me wrong, I'm not someone who thinks that Facebook is the only thing to do online, but it does have merit. I had (have?) something like 700 Facebook friends and losing track of them would be a true-to-life bummer.\n\nI called Facebook again asking about the deactivation of my account and they said (summarized), \"Remove the disputes for the charges and we will reinstate your personal account.\" FUCK YOU!\n\nI am comparatively NOT concerned about my personal Facebook account compared with 3 grand and I don't see why they're doing either of these things, but I'd like more input.\n\nWhat say you, reddit? Is this blackmail? Have any of you dealt with Facebook in this capacity? Are there any tips/tricks/sites you could recommend?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Its a little bit of a long story, but I'll do my best to make this as short as possible. We have been dating for 10 months, almost a year. She has a lot of guy friends, and whenever she hamgs with them I get extremely mad and bothered. We have talked about this before and she doesnt hang with them as much, but still does every so often.\n\nIt urks me to no end when she does, i know the guys she hangs out with they have girlfriends and are trustworthy guys but no matter who it is, it bothers the shit out of me. \n\nOf course there is a lot more to this, but this is just the jist of it. Idk what to do about it. Do i just deal with it and let it be? Its hard for me to that at all anymore :/ i dont want to fight about it either, we have had a lot in the past already. So what should I do...any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to keep it as short as possible: \n\nThrough most of my university years, I was close friends with a beautiful girl who was well out of my league (back then). Yes, I was well and truly in the friendzone. She got married last year to a guy she'd known for only a few months. Last month, she got into a fight with her husband and moved out of their home. During a night of comforting her at my place, one thing led to another and we had sex. Over the next three weeks, we kept at it and spent a lot of time with each other, mostly in the bedroom. \n\nNow, she's started to talk about filing for divorce and about \"us\" and our future. I have never hinted that I am interested in a relationship or being anything more than FWBs. She seems to be assuming that I would want her as a girlfriend based on my personality she got to know in university, which as since changed a lot.\n\nFor a number of reasons, I don't want to get into a relationship, especially not with her. I want her to do what is right for her (divorce vs. no divorce) without factoring me into her decision. I feel like my only choice may be to bite the bullet and risk losing her as a friend by being clear that I don't want a relationship with her. Has anybody else been in this situation? Is there a way to let her down easy and not lose our friendship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit.\n\nA couple of days ago, I was at a red light, minding my own business when a cop car pulls up beside me into the left turning lane. I turn to look at the cop, and both her and her partner are staring at me. I just ignore it as the lights turn green and they turn left as I go straight. A couple of seconds later, I see in my rear view mirror that they pull a 360 in the middle of the intersection and their lights turn on. I assume they got a distress call until they start tailing me. I know I did nothing wrong because I went when the light was green and I was only doing about 55 - 60KM in a 50KM zone (Yes, I am in Canada).\n\nI pull over into the nearest parking lot and turn off my car. One of the police officers starts to walk up to my window, so I open it up just about an inch. The officer asks for my licence and registration, which I proceed to get for him. I ask him, \"What seems to be the problem officer?\" to which he responds, no problem, just doing a checkup.\" \"A checkup for what,\" I ask. He sais, \"Well, you look a little young to be driving such a nice car.\" I am 18 and I drive my parents 04 [Acura TL](\n\nI was floored, because this is not the first time this has happened to me, more like my third.\n\nHere is my question to you Reddit. Are the police allowed to pull me over to do a \"check up\" because I look too young to be driving a nice car? The car was not reported stolen or anything like that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and this girl have been talking and hanging out for a long time now, maybe 3 - 4 months. I've been scared to make a move and we traded phones and read eachothers texts and she says she doesn't like how i'm such a virgin (I am a virgin and i'm scared to make a move). Anyways she told one of my friends she wanted me to ask her out. So what is a good clever way to ask her out. Also should I say \"will you go out with me\" or \"will you be my girlfriend\" or something else? P.s. I'm 18 (m) shes 17 (f)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yesterday I had the worst experience ever, my boyfriend was at my house and I was making something to eat and I heard my older sister from the other room yelling at my boyfriend, I came out there to see what was happening and I saw her punch him in the frigging face. I pushed her away from him, slapped her, and started swearing at her and she tried saying that he stole her money off the table, when it was MY money that our parents had left out for me and I'm the one who took it. She insisted it was hers (it isn't), and she refused to apologize to my boyfriend. A couple hours after my boyfriend left she comes to my room and says oh maybe it was yours, but still you're a bitch for slapping me. \n\nI was so mad I was like wtf you hit my boyfriend and falsely accused him of stealing. She is being a bitch to me now and I don't know how to work this out. What are your opinions on this? And she still refused to apologize to him..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is a throwaway account for several reason. My boyfriend loves to frequent reddit and I'd die of embarrassment if he even knew I cared about this.\n\nI have several weird bathroom rituals and one of the things I absolutely cannot stand is having to use a bathroom in public. Especially if it's number two. To be honest, the idea of another human hearing me use the bathroom or even smelling it would be a worse fate for me than being eaten alive by Vashta Nerada. \n\nI'm supposed to be moving in with him at the beginning of October. We've been planning this quite awhile as I'm over at his house enough to be considered already living there. Sometimes, I even spend the night. But I have never used the bathroom at his house. Like, I've used it, but never used it. His bathroom is placed adjacent from the living room so I have never tested the theory that you could hear what was going on in there or not. He has room mates with girlfriends, so I can tell you that the walls are very, very thin. \n\nAs a child, I grew up in a house where each bedroom (three bedroom house) had its own bathroom and we also had a guest bathroom. I have never experienced having to number two outside my own bathroom. When I got older, I even requested the master bedroom over my room mate to have my own bathroom, so this has never changed for me. Now, I'm about to be sharing a bathroom with a guy I've been dating for almost a year. \n\nMy question is **how do I keep my boyfriend from knowing what I am doing in the bathroom when I'm using it for number two? How can I mask any smells or noises without bringing it to his attention? What if I have to use the bathroom when he has a lot of friends over (he has a ton of friends that frequent on the weekend to play videogames and watch football).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Question for Female (and possibly Male) redditors who have been in this situation.\n\nAbout a month ago, i expressed interest in a girl, who for a few days, expressed some what mixed feelings back to me. in the end, she friend-zoned me; and i have grown to be really close friends with her. \n\nup until recently, i have been making small advances on her. nothing that fully stepped out of the friend zone, but close enough to the line that i was hoping it would've made her think. \n\nwithin the past few days, i cam to two realizations.\n1) small advances were getting me no where \nand\n2) if i tried to be more forward, i would complicate and possibly diminish a friendship that means a lot to me.\n\nso i have decided, that in lieu of pushing a relationship and possibly losing a great friend, i will listen to some solid advice\n\n\"do unto others as you would have had done unto yourself\"\n\nI have started to put her in the friend zone, which is completely fine by me if all we are is friends, but how will she feel about this change in our friendship? will it cause her to rethink her initial choice of putting me here, or will we be no more then friends forever.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I met her over the Halloween weekend, she's a friend of a friend of mine. We got along well and she didn't hide the fact that she has a kid (1 year old) despite being so young. I got her number and we agreed to meet up and go out on a date sometime. Cool. Now I asked her yesterday when she's available, she said thursday but she has to bring her baby. \n\nNow I'm not sure how I feel about this. If I was in her situation, I wouldnt want to expose my baby to a random date I would go on and sorta \"check\" the guy first. To be honest I dont know how about this whole baby thing. I really like her, but I'm not sure if I could handle the baby situation if we would take this any further.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some background: I started my weight loss back in September (starting at 164lbs) and have lost about 35 pounds now. I did this by calorie counting, portion control, C25K and weight lifting. Currently 5'5'/f/130ish lbs, running 20-30 miles a week, lifting about 1-2 times a week and added in cycling 1-2 times a week. I'm also training for my first half marathon that's in June.\n\nSo, the actual story: For the past few weeks I have had some major issues with binging. I will just open up the pantry and just start eating handfuls of everything in sight. I'll munch on chips, cereal, crackers, peanut butter... Last week I just sat with the peanut butter and a spoon and just ate straight out of the jar, probably around 5-6 servings. Two nights ago I sat on the couch with a box of cereal and ended up eating half of the box. \n\nLast night was awful and my worst binge yet. I thought it would be nice to make those [individual bacon egg bake] that I can eat for breakfast. I ended up eating one, which is fine. It barely put me over my calorie limit for the day. Then I decided I was going to make that cookie mix I had sitting in the pantry. I ended up eating about 1/4 of the cookie dough and had 3 cookies after they were done baking. After eating all of this I felt horrible and actually made myself throw it all back up. \n\nI feel like this is my lowest point I have ever been in my life. I'm just not sure where to go from here. I'm not actively trying to lose like I was in the beginning but this is not healthy, especially after what I did last night. I tell myself I need to stop eating but its like my hand cannot stop shoving food into my mouth. I never had any issues like this in the beginning and actually had no issues stopping after having 1 serving of chips or 1 cookie. \n\nI really just need some advice, encouragement, motivation or how you got over something similar. I need to stop this madness and get back on track!! :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "On a throwaway\n\nFirst off, we have limited communication in our long distance relationship. She only has internet access at an internet cafe where she is overseas at the moment. We've only been in this LDR for 3 or 4 weeks, but have been together before that for 3 years.\n\nSo we were chatting, and it seemed like she was hinting as something she was hiding. So I pressed on it, since I was very concerned, and being cheated on while she was away was definitely my biggest fear, as I'm fairly insecure. So she tells me that she and some guy had oral sex, still sex, and ended up spending the night together after getting drunk. Now, at this point, I was furious, I did cool down pretty quickly, but I'm still upset (obviously) It's exactly why I didnt want her going alone, and and felt worried the entire time. She tells me that it happened a couple days ago, and she was going to tell me when we talked next, which she did. She also tells me that it only strengthened her want to be with me, since it wasnt the same. I was shocked, I couldnt believe it, and i just wanted to run over there and see why this happened. Now we ended up talking about it for about 5 hours. Going back and forth between being somewhat ok, and more upset. But I'm feeling hopeful. She tells me never ever ever again. That is wasnt worth it, and that she's much more suited to monogamy with me. So, I do want to stay with her, I love her more than anything, and I want to work through this, because I believe we can. But I do know reddit has a history of having a \"one strike you're out\" policy on cheating. \n\nSo any advice on ways to work on this, or what to do. I'm espcially looking for advice from people who have been cheated on, but the relationship went on after the incident.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi there,\n\nBasically, I have had a plantars wart on my right big toe for almost two years and the past couple weeks I have been fighting it pretty relentlessly. I have been doing freeze treatments, applying salicylic acid, and removing layers of dead skin.\n\nThe last time I removed skin was on Monday night. I got deep enough that I felt I was almost at the base of the wart. In an attempt to get closer to the bottom, I picked at the wart with my pocket knife (consistently disinfected the knife and my foot with lots of rubbing alcohol and wore gloves). I got deep but only deep enough to draw a tiny amount of blood. I then started reapplying my Salicylic acid treatment to the area from that night until this (Wednesday) morning.\n\nToday, my toe was very sore all day at work, and stung fairly sharply on the spot of my wart. I figured it might be from the salicylic acid, so when I got home from work, I soaked my toe in apple cider vinegar in an attempt to remove the dried acid. However, this didn't get rid of all of it. Also, at this point, I realized my toe and was getting fairly warm and swollen, and that the rest of my foot was getting a bit warm as well. After this, I took some isopropyl alcohol and a knife, and gently rubbed/peeled away all the visible dried acid left on my toe. However, my toe doesn't feel any better. I am currently laying with it raised and covered in neosporin.\n\nLong story short, should I be concerned about some sort of infection or anything? Or could this just be a normal response to my treatment? I have no known allergies, other serious medical conditions, or anything like that. I am a 20 year old white male and am (hopefully) healthy.\n\nThank you!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I communicate well, I like to think. If something has been bothering us, we will openly discuss it and try to improve the situation. We both don't have issues in backing down or admitting that we are wrong (he struggles slightly as he is Italian). \n\nHowever, since he has been staying at my house regularly it has been getting a little tough. We are both house sitting my parents house, I work full time and he is still at university. Lately, he keeps calling me in front of his friends asking me if they can come over. I have no problem if he wants to socialise outside of the house, or on the weekend. But, I don't particularly want to have boys at my house after a full day of work (sometimes 13 hour days). It puts me in an awkward position because I instantly look like the bad parent if I say no, I am not comfortable. It is lose-lose for me. \n\nI have had this discussion with him, and he agreed to give me more notice and respect the fact that we have conflicting socialising schedules. Unfortunately, it hasn't continued and I am a bit lost. Particularly today, I am unwell and now having to share my relatively small house with very loud boys. I feel guilty, like I am mothering him or am acting like a crazy girlfriend (I have a huge fear of this) - what do you guys reckon I should do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone ... let me give you a little background. About 2 months ago, my company moved my department, including my job, from New York to California. I reluctantly went with my job because I am young and felt that it would be good for my career. I don't know a single person here -- no family, friends, etc. -- and my job situation has gotten progressively more difficult every day. I really hate where I am living, and my job has gotten me so stressed out and depressed that I need to start taking anti-depressants again. I've even been having major panic attacks. The company was very shifty and unsupportive in the move, but has me locked into 2 years or else I have to pay back the moving expenses. I really wish I could transfer back home or quit, but I can't. What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short w/ regards to the class: I've been attending a class in the hopes of moving from the waiting list to being enrolled, but it's looking grim right now. And if I do get in, it would likely be a different time than I want.\n\nThe girl: It started off with me asking for direction as to where I would get a supply for the class, and I got her number right there. Great! We've texted a bit (nothing significant, maybe 40 between both), but we seemed to really hit it off Monday in class. I would have talked to her after class, but I had to talk to the prof about the wait list situation.\n\nAnyway, I'll go to the class Wednesday, but that may be the last time I'm in there and we don't have any other classes together, so how do I not let this die? Should I maybe text her tomorrow (Tuesday) and see if she wants to hang out (study, eat, whatever) or just wait until Wednesday to do something. If the move is to wait until Wednesday, what should that move be? I know I'm probably over-thinking this, but I'm not really up to here with girls, so any help would be cool.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Over the past month and a half, one of my best friends and I have become nearly inseparable. We've been seeing each other every day for at least the past two weeks, and when we are not together, we text and chat. Neither have taken the extra step to make this formally into a relationship, but I was planning to tell her my sincere feelings about her very soon. But before I can make that move, i thought I needed some consultation.\n\nThe girl I've fallen for and her roommate have been living together for three years and are the best of buddies. The roommate, however, did miss out on witness the beginning and the maturation of our budding relationship because she went abroad for most of the summer. Two weeks after she came back, I told the roommate in private during a party about my feelings for the friend, and she slapped me in the face, saying that my friend's not interested and that it's a bad idea. The roommate explained to me that my friend grew attached to me because she doesn't have a lot of friends (which is true) and because I was really the only one around her over the summer.\n\nI am confused because I am getting mixed signals inside my head. I would believe that the friend and her roommate talked about me in the two weeks both were together. But we have developed such a comfort level with each other that is expected of girlfriend and boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I don't know if it's worth it to ask my friend out when her closest confidant tells me the contrary.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll sum this up best I can. To start, and what was probably a bad idea to begin with, I got involved with a girl online. Talked to her for a few months, ended up caring about her. She felt the same way so we became an item. Had a great time, perfect happy little couple and all. The only flaw was that there was a great distance. No ocean or anything; just lots of land. Cue to around the end. She confesses that she cheated on me by being drunk one night, letting a drunk guy friend come check on her (she's at a university), and he kissed her, she kissed back, they fingered/handjob until I guess she realized what was happening and stopped. After talking to a mutual friend for a few days, I took her back mainly because I love(d) her, I'm co-dependent, and I have no other options.\n\nCue to last week. It doesn't take us a week back together before she blows up (bad temper problems) and we have our worst fight yet. As much as I hated to, I ended it. It hurts me just as much as it may have hurt her by the way she acted. Today, I find out that the mutual friend from before had asked for a chance with her in case we broke up and she agreed (he actually is across an ocean). He's also told a friend of mine and even myself that he'd fuck her, how hot she is, all this stuff. It honestly disgusts me and makes my stomach cramp when I think about it. I'd like to get over it but I'm just a boring guy who stays at home all day except for class and I don't exactly have options to get my mind off things.", "role": "user" } ]

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