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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "this guy I hung out with almost every day for the past 2 months. we have the same class together and hes very affectionate and even has invited me to family dinner. he acted like we were in a relationship even telling his friends I was his girl.\n\nnow its been 0ne weeks since I've last seen him. talked to him a few days ago but he couldn't hang out as he was out of town. and then texted him again a few days later to which he never replied. \n\nthen yesterday a friend of mine tells me he was trying to hit on her even being overly sexual. and she yelled at him to which he blocked her.\n\nI don't understand how he was such a great guy and acted like he really cared only to have him do a 180. and I know that he knew she was my friend but he just didn't care.\n\nI get that maybe he lost interest or whatever but I don't know whether I should talk to him about it. I feel so hurt and upset but idk if I even have the right to feel that way. \nI am totally blindsided by his jerk behavior and its just really making me feel shocked... this guy even took me to special family events,\n\nwhat worries me is that I have class with him. right now we're on spring break and I just don't know if I should wait until class to talk to him. call him and do it now or just ignore it. and if I do call him what should I say do I have the right to be upset and have him hear about it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I met these two girls the same night and we started to hang out in groups. Throughout these hang-outs, I learned that girl B had some sort of 'rights' on me. For example, girl A would take the front-seat forcing girl B to sit in the backseat with me. Girl A was pretty much wing-manning for her sister. One night I was walking with girl B talking about deeper stuff, got caught up in moment, expressed feelings for one another and we kissed.\n\nProblem? I actually like her sister, girl A. Working quickly to rectify this is best I could, I talked to girl B about how things were rushed, I was vulnerable, and it was generally a mistake that we kissed. She took this more in a way of 'lets go back to being friends, and wait'. When in reality, I have no plans of dating her what-so-ever. Now I have successfully seemingly forever barred off the actual love interest,girl A, her sister, as I, being retarded, kissed girl B.\n\nGirl A and Girl B's sister relationship is important to me, I really don't see how I can safely pursue girl A at all, without dramatic things happening.\n\nOnly way I see this happening is if we stay friends long enough for girl B to move on, with the passing of time maybe pursuing girl A would become socially acceptable. Sigh... What if she finds someone else in that time?\n\nNeat info: Girl B told me how her sister, Girl A, talked about me a lot when we first met, and people thought she was interested in me.\n\nWHAT DO?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll just start off by saying I was a waiter and a part time bartender (who isn't lol) And I have no problem with people not giving tips BECAUSE I'M PAID TO GIVE SERVICE ALREADY. (no matter what you think about human dignity and etc, being a waiter at a low/medium end restaurant is a low skilled low pay job. it's not worth shit. Now if you want to earn some real money, go to waiter school and etc and get into a high end restaurant. those people make 25-35k+ a year not including tips. which can push it to over 50k a year easily.)\n\nWhen people go into service jobs, they get paid to give great service to the customers. (or shitty service if they're feeling self entitled) It's part of their job. Why do people feel that unless they get a great tip in return, they'll ignore their basic job description and responsibilities and give shitty service to the customer?\n\nI know that this is way more valid in the states that forces businesses that employs people that receive tips to pay minimum wage (yes... there are states where you're allowed to pay less than minimum wage if the job has tip earning potential)\n\nAlmost every country I've been to, tipping has always been optional and in some countries it's not even an option (japan, china, etc to list some countries). Hell. When my friend tried to leave a tip in Japan, the waitress ran out with the money thinking he forgot it there... and waiters still doesn't get paid shit there either. (In China, they would just keep it but not as tip or anything. more like they found money on the streets)\n\nWhen I don't give that large of a tip, people always think i'm a penny pinching asshole. (I do in bars for the bartenders since they deal with so god damn much... way worse than restaurants...) I just simply don't see a reason to give great tip when the service mostly is mediocre.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a 27/f grad student who works part time. My boyfriend, who I am technically broken up with now, is 31 and is currently unemployed but taking classes part-time. He wants to have a full time job by the end of this year. \n\nWe both have our issues and that is putting extra stress on the relationship, but my boyfriend's constant negativity and lack of motivation has become a massive problem. My boyfriend was born with greater than 50% hearing loss in both ears and cannot hear many things without the assistance of hearing aids. He wasn't able to hear well at all until his teenage years and he received better hearing aids that helped him hear many things he could not hear before. While he has graduated from college and held jobs, he still views himself as a victim, even though he can hear well at this point in his life.\n\nHe is seriously the most self loathing person I've ever met. I have tried to encourage him but I'm losing patience. In the beginning I didn't care that my boyfriend was hearing impaired since there wasn't a communication problem at all, he can hear well with hearing aids, and he seemed to be a pretty confident and social person despite his hearing impairment. Now, I am starting to think that he was faking it for the first few months, and he's really just content to be an angry and negative human being. He gets mad every time he thinks someone is looking at his hearing aids, or asks well-meaning questions about his hearing loss. We both know it's going to happen once in a while, but every time it does he just gets mad and shuts down. \n\nHe can be a wonderful boyfriend when he wants to be, and I still believe he is a good person with a big heart. We've decided to just be friends for the immediate future, and try again when we're both ready, but I don't know if I should just forget him completely, or support him from a distance. He has a lot of positive qualities, he is very intelligent, and he is compassionate and thoughtful. I still believe he can turn his life around, but I don't know if I'm getting my hopes up too much.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "GA attorney here,\n\nI've landed a huge tort case involving a guy who was really messed up in a car wreck. The tortfeasor was an employee of a well-known company and the damages are pretty high. \n\nThe one wrinkle in this case (and there's always one...) is that P's hospital has refused to accept his group health coverage to pay for his bills and is instead filing a lien on the settlement proceeds. \n\nThis could potentially screw my client over in a major way. He has hundreds of thousands of dollars in medical bills. He pays for insurance so that they can cover these bills. Why on earth is he paying for insurance if the medical provider can simply reject it, take all of the money he gets from a settlement, and leave him with nothing after repayment of medical bills + attorney's fees?\n\nTheoretically we could go to court in a year and lose. How on earth is he expected to pay them back at that point? More likely, we could not win enough to fairly compensate him if he must pay back his attorneys and his doctors too. \n\nI'm a younger attorney and I've never experienced this situation before. If anyone has any ideas on how to approach this and somehow force the hospital to accept payment from the insurance company (who is literally sitting around waiting to pay them), I'd love to hear it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Wasn't really sure where to ask, but r/travel made the most sense from what I could find.. anyways..\n\nI'm moving from NYC to either Seattle or San Francisco in June, and am scratching my head as how the hell to actually do it. Right now I'm planning on road-tripping it with a couple friends (one who's flying over for the trip, another moving from ATL who may be using a U-Haul). I don't have a lot of things to move- mostly boxes of things I plan on shipping, and then a bit more (valuables, etc.) that I'd just take along for the ride. Basically, I want to travel light, but will take the things more fragile and whatnot.\n\nI guess I'm looking for insight on the following:\n\n-Rental companies (for cars)\n\n-Does it make sense to even rent a car for that distance (buy used??)\n\n-Ways to save a buck in lodging (I love camping!)\n\n-Shipping companies; items (clothes- ship most of them, or take?)\n\nI don't know. This is such a new thing for me. I guess if any one has attempted and completed this crazy thing that is moving across the country, any insight would be of help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(m23) have just met /started seeing a (f23) friend of a friend. we seemed to hit it off almost immediately and we both seemed ecstatic to see each over the next days. Now, a week or two later, things have cooled down a bit (and this might be in my head) but she seems to be nearing the end of her infatuation with me and I still feel this huge urge to impress this girl/ to help her / do bf things. I want to show her that I care and would very much like to date without seeming.... crazy. I've asked her once and she said to find out more about each other but is still keen on the idea. we've already had sex and she's spent the night so this isn't bodily desire, she makes me want to jump up and work and provide. I've never felt this way so strongly so I'm kinda freaking out. how do I stand out and show her how I feel? should I? is this normal or am I just thinking of this/her too much and need to pump my brakes?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together a month, but have known each other for 2 years. working together, not much interaction other than at work. I am a much more introverted person, (although he has mentioned feeling introverted as well) but I can become very outgoing once I become completely comfortable which someone -- which sometimes takes no time at all to a longer amount of time. \n\nI feel insecurities creeping in because of his lifestyle. His family is very close, outgoing, while mine is full more of recluses who love each other, but don't spend endless amounts of time together as a group. I keep encountering situations where I am meeting family members or friends without much of a forewarning, but even if there is, I constantly feel drained and upset because I am so hard on myself and my \"quietness\" upon meeting new people. This insecurity creeps into other aspects as well about myself -- \"am I funny enough? Am I interesting enough? Should I have said that? What is he thinking?\" And I really don't like it. I just want to be me and stop it with these panic attacks about not being \"like everyone else.\" I am afraid I will push him away.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My guy (20) and myself (20) are incompatible. We argue over small stupid things, have different personalities (introverted vs. extroverted), and I think are on two different planes of maturity.\n\nWe have been together for about 1.5 years. Met in college, he ended up dropping out by the end of the semester due to grades and family issues. We stayed together LD until the end of the spring semester. I \nended things between us by the middle of June; I couldn't handle it.\n\nWe ended up together again this past December, still a LD situation. We made some great progress in communication and thinking of the other person in our choices and stuff. It was a very different relationship this time around, much better.\n\nThen he told me in late March he would be not be attending the university I am currently enrolled in (like I was anxiously anticipating), but another in our hometown because it was a better situation for him. \n\nFast forward to now. He was officially accepted two days ago. He says he doesn't know how to act or what to say around me anymore because things have just begun to crumble. \n\nWhy would I want to stay with someone I know I won't be with in the fall? Why not let us both be free from the frustration?\nWe love each other still. I'm glad he's going to this other university; it will be a more successful environment for him. But it hurts. I have no friends where I live. My good friends all live a couple hours away, and I don't have the time or money to devote to going out to see them, as much as I'd like to.\n\nWould it be worth it to try to stay with him? Or cut things off now?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I live in a college suite of six guys, all of whom I trust and get along with greatly, so greatly in fact, that I leave my phone unlocked and lying around like an idiot. My roommate, AZ, recently got nudes from some girl he's interested in and showed them to us. Which is great! On a side note, it is important to the story to know that I hooked up with her last semester, not to AZ's knowledge. \n\nToday, I get a series of messages from AZ, asking why I sent myself nudes of this girl from his phone and ipad. It is worth noting, that I, did not in fact do this. I double checked my phone: No nudes. I inform him, and send him screenshots of my gallery, which is a barren wasteland of no tits or ass. He gets back to the dorm, and shows me his ipad (which he also leaves unlocked apparently) and his phone. On his phone, our messages clearly indicate that someone sent me nudes at some point in time. On his ipad, the evidence is deleted. I show him my phone, and he does not believe me, which is reasonable. \n\nMy personal theory is that someone sent them on his ipad, deleted the pictures on my phone, and then deleted the messages on the ipad, knowing he would still have the imessage on his phone, and making it look like I tried to delete them. The rest of my suitemates, knowing I hooked up with her, are now also suspicious, and now I'm the scumbag of my suite with no way to prove my innocence.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For valentine's I plan on making a homemade meal for my girlfriend(18) yet the problem is that she has a very fine selection of what she eats. In the time we have been together, almost two years, she has only ever eaten chicken(fried and boneless, pretty much chicken tenders), peanut butter, french fries(not the steak fries) plain bread and cheese and plain butter noodles. She also hates sauces aling with beef and pork, though I don't think shes ever had either. Any type of sauce she will not eat as well. \n\n-side note- she did try pesto sauce once and didn't hate it. Victory!\n\nUsually when we go out she'll order off the kids menu because she knows the adult portions have things added that she would not like. \n\nI on the other, I hand love savory food. I love sauces and spice and some heat in my food. I love seafood and meats. Cheeses and good espresso. I am under 21 so no wine yet. Yet I am also a southerner so fried chicken, cornbread, sweet tea and collards run through my veins. \n\nAny advice for a meal that would suit her needs and mine? I would go out to eat but I feel like that is not as fun as making something special. \n\nWhat is a good meal that would be fresh and tasty for both of us?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little context:\n\nHer and I have known each other for about 4 years. We met in college. Had classes together. Had a short fling while her and her boyfriend were taking a break. Now we work together (I got her the job), and we share an office. Really good friends, I've always had strong feelings towards her. I have a girlfriend of 3 years, she's back with her boyfriend of 10 years.\n\nWe also went to school with this guy, lets call him Roy. Roy sucked, he was immature, inconsiderate, just unlikable all around. Roy and my friend (lets call her Joyce) maintained a friendship, one I never really understood.\n\nA few months ago, she told me Roy was being stalker-y and wouldn't leave her alone. I always knew Roy had a huge crush on her, and I told her to just cut off contact. This went on and on for a while. Now she said he's better and not bothering her. Fine.\n\nToday I'm alone at my office. She took the day off. No one is around. I noticed some of her journals she left behind. I know I'm awful for doing it, but I decided to read some of the entries. I still have feelings for her and I was wondering if I appeared in any of them.\n\nLiterally nothing but pages and pages of her describing her attraction to Roy. Pages and pages going on and on about how much she likes him, times they've kissed, etc. I can't fucking believe it. To boot, I found an entry saying \"Roy isn't Awfulfriend4o9, he isn't easy to manipulate...\". Awesome. I feel like dirt. \n\nI truly deserve this. I asked for it the second I opened the pages. I'm shaking with anger and shame.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Backstory: My ex fiance and I have a seven week old baby girl. He hasn't helped me with her since she was born and I have been staying with my parents since she was five days old. I told him that I would come back to our house when he could prove to me that he would help me with the baby and step up. He never did, and a week ago he moved out and went to live with his mother 2 hours away. When he left, he quit his job, left his daughter with nothing and didn't even say goodbye to her.\n\nHe has made it very clear that he doesn't want her in his life. But I am worried that he will try for custody to spite me. He hasn't been talking to me and he blocked me from social media as if he disappeared. However, his mother has been texting me rude things and I know that she will push him to try for custody. I don't want to keep my child from him, but they are both very unstable people. He's suicidal and he has told me that he didn't want this baby. I talked to someone at the YWCA today and she told me about a \"good cause claim\". I am going to file one.\n\nIt says that to file the claim, you have to prove you or your child is going to suffer emotionally or be physically harmed by the person you are filing against. I have multiple messages between her father and I with him talking to me about how he refuses to give up smoking pot (which is illegal in WI). I also have many pictures of how he messed up our apartment because he is very unclean. I also have messages from him saying how he wants to die and him harming himself. Is this enough proof? I understand that the claim being accepted means that I will not receive any child support from him. My daughter's safety is more important to me than 17% of his income.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend of 6 months and I have been on and off. This time its off for good, is what it seems like. During this breakup process, my ex went off telling everyone we know that I was a liar, and thats all I do...mind you, he says this stuff loud enough that our whole class is eavsdropping on him. We are both 16, btw.\n\nIts like he purposefully brings up topics of conversations that piss me off with the people around us, only when Im around. I overhear him talking about how hes going to hang out with a girl he knows this weekend, and he makes it obvious he wants me to hear. He took out a letter I wrote him that he had on his binder, and replaced it with a picture of his name in bubble letters that his ex drew for him.\n\nHe will text me about personal things in his life that only I know about, and I tell him I hope they turn out for the best and that he ends up happy, and he accuses me of acting fake, &wants me to \"leave him the fuck alone.\" So I do. I dont talk to him or text him, but lately he's texting me, about the stuff that goes on that only I know about him. He said last week that these 6months have been a waste, that he wont have an impression of me at all because from that conversation on, he wont think of me again...that I screwed him over more than anyone else & that Im the reason he will never trust girls again. So I am leaving him alone, but he always talks to me first. Whats up with this?\n\nSomehow, I still love him...I think of all the amazing memories we created and everything we came through together, and I cry...wondering why and how it ends like this. But I'm sick of his shit, and I'm trying to convince myself not to care about him, not to love him, not to wonder what he's doing or what his opinions are of me. How do I do it? I really need help :/ But please, be kind...I know we're 16, but please dont be rude or call him an asshole...serious advice only please.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (F21) and my Boyfriend (M23) have been going out for 2 years, and its my first serious relationship. \n\nI am a bit overweight (61kg/132lbs on a 5 ft 5in frame), and am taking measures to remedy this. It was mainly caused by myself going to university, and though I walk everywhere in the city it hasn't been enough to keep the weight off. \n\nI've started cutting out unhealthy foods, eating smaller portions and swimming 2-3 days a week. I only started about 2 weeks ago and so it hasn't really made an impact visually, but I am feeling a lot livelier after the change in diet. (If anyone can give me any advice or point me to useful subreddits it would be truly helpful!)\n\nThe problem is my boyfriend. I should start by say that I realise how lucky I am to have a boyfriend who appreciates me as I am and doesn't pressure me into doing anything, I love that about him. \n\nThe problem is that whenever I mention losing weight he gets kind of pouty and says that he likes me the way I am. He says he likes my 'curves', but all I see is fat that needs to go. I'm scared that he won't like me as much if I lose weight.\n\nI would really like his support in this. I don't want to lose much, only 10kg/20lbs; but it would make a world of difference to my confidence. How can I get him to see that? I don't want him to find me unattractive, but I don't find myself sexy at the moment. Please help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met Peter* a few weeks ago and we completely hit it off and have been talking all day every day since. We have seen each other several times and have had a great time. \n\nWe have slept together and discussed the fact that both of us like each other a lot.\n\nHe mentioned that a girl asked him to dinner, and he turned her down. I asked if it was because he wasn't interested or if it was because of me. He said it was because of me, and that he may talk to other women but he's not hanging out with them or sleeping with them. \n\nHe said that he's still on Tinder for \"shits and giggles\" which makes sense since we send each other funny profiles and it's a funny topic of conversation among him and his friends etc. but he promised he isn't using it to ask women on dates. (Is this bullshit?)\n\nWe established that we're only going on dates with/sleeping with each other.\n\nHe's very honest and upfront about everything even if it's something I may not want to hear (like him still being on Tinder). So I'm almost inclined to believe him. \n\nHowever..... he claims he doesn't want a label. It's like he wants the commitment without the commitment? He got out of a relationship in February so he said he doesn't want a \"formal commitment\" right now ie FB official, boyfriend/girlfriend titles... but I was under the assumption that exclusively dating/sleeping with each other was just that - a commitment. \n\nI don't know if I'm getting played or what. Before I met Peter* I was casually talking to another guy, Steve. I feel like maybe Peter is trying to manipulate me into only seeing/sleeping with him while he still is out screwing around. \n\nI'm hesitant to break things off with Steve because I'm not 100% sure of Peter's* intentions.\n\nWhat do you guys think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In short: Female friend massively pissed two of her guy friends off (me and my best friend) by letting us down after we'd planned something together for months, often rescheduling for her benefit and costing us a decent amount. \n\nShe's my best friend but I feel like this is a total lack of respect and she doesn't seem to understand why I'm mad at all. Her apology was one of those \"Can we stop arguing? I'm sorry. Good night.\" conversation-enders that don't really mean anything and right now I don't even want to talk to her. She's really fucked up and we have nothing to feel bad for but I feel awful for being mad at her and I'm struggling to not give in to her. She won't apologize - I know that 100%. \n\nIf i'm honest I'm kinda new to this. I haven't had many friends who I'm so close with that their actions affect my emotions and this is the first time I've ever felt so disrespected. What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "so i (21m)'ve been seeing this girl (21f), we went on couple dates and its pretty clear that we like each other, the problem is that after our lunch date today, she drove us back to her college, and about to go to a show with her friend, i was gonna meet up with my mate from the same college, anyway, of the all the recent times we caught up, we either end it with kisses or at least hug, but nope she didnt do either today, the scenario was us two and her friend, i thought she was in a rush so didn't worry about it coz i was planning to see her again after i caught up with my mate. i asked her when does the show finish, she told me its 3hrs ish, i told her i might still be around, told her to text me when it finishes. time forward 3hrs(we actually studied in the 3hrs time), didnt get a reply from her, so i started leaving her college, on the way out, of course she is on her way back, this time with our common friend (20f), so we(3 of us) chatted for a bit(like normal friend convo for couple minutes) it was getting weird, so i was like ok im gonna go now, i was expecting she'd come give me a hug or something but nope again, she's acting like we are normal friends and still havent heard from her....\n\nso what do you guys think? we actually never discussed what we are, but i know for sure she's not that type of girl who wants a fling, she wants something serious. now i think about it, when there are people around us who know her, she wouldn't hold my hand or anything intimate, only when we are alone, she'd let me hold her hands and make out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Woke up this morning with a sore throat. Drank some water and sucked on a ricola, which relieved the symptoms enough for me to go back to sleep for another cycle.\n\nNot sure if it was due to breathing in the cloud of mystery dust when I shook off the debris from the large dust mop at work, or if I just got a little bit of a cold, but either way, it's still persisting a bit after eating some food, showering, and having another lozenge. It's not unbearable by any means, but I'd was thinking, hey, if I take an ibprofin I should be in good shape. [But then I read of an experiment from a couple years ago] showing that ibprofin, in contrast to paracetamol, could increase the duration of symptoms, theorized as potentially due to a decreased immune response as a result of the reduced inflammation.\n\nThe methodology for conducting the experiment seemed random, and thus accurate, but I'm not sure if it been replicated, or if there is a more detailed report.\n\n>The randomised control trial recruited 899 patients who presented at their GP with respiratory tract infection symptoms. They received different treatment types; paracetamol, ibuprofen or a combination of both. Participants were then told to either take it as needed or at regular intervals (four times a day) and some were also told to take steam inhalation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because he's an avid redditor and I don't want there to be any connections to me or my other friend whatsoever. We were at his house playing on Steam and while he was in the bathroom we went to the search bar to find the title of another game. It was then that we saw an endless list of sexual teen... everything. I know there's a lot of barely legal porn out there but the searches implied the he was looking for something more. But, neither of us feel comfortable going through his private info and we're confident if we asked him directly of course his answer will be no. \n\nWe were thinking of making a fake profile and seeing if we \"revealed\" ourselves to be underaged in a conversation he would still try to get with the fake girl. The way we see it is, if he bites, it'll suck that we have a friend who's sort of a pedophile but we'll have something to go to the police with. If he doesn't bite then the worst thing that can happen is that our friend is just really REALLY into hairless college girls. \n\nI've never catfished before so I don't know where to even begin finding images and such, but whatever. What do you think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years and lived together for the past 6 months. Things have been great and I wouldn't change a thing. This year for my birthday he went all out, he got me some clothes and a video game and took me out to dinner. I know he had to have spent a fair amount of money on me. Well, now it's his birthday coming up and it's the end of the year. All my financial aide that I had been living off of went to rent and food and I have 2 dollars in my bank account. He recently got a job since he is not a student and has been providing for us for the past month, but before that I payed for everything. \n\nI'm not quite in a position where I can get a job because of school and sports or make any money, we live in a secluded area with not many options for extra income like donating plasma. I guess I'm looking for options of what I can do for him to make his birthday special and memorable with basically no money. I don't want him to think I don't care about him, I'm just not in a position to spend money on him right now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're both in grade 12. I've known her for ~5 months now, crushing for 3, and have been really close to her for 2. I've never been in a relationship before while she's had a slew of relationships (4) that've all ended badly, leaving her emotionally unstable with trust issues. I pursued her, got friendzoned, but decided to be her friend and gained her trust. We formed a relationship of complete honesty and openness, and she was able to open up to me. We grew to be really close friends and were very comfortable with each other, me focusing on trying to get over her. Then, she told me last week that she had a crush on me!\n\nThe problem? She recognizes that she is emotionally unstable & in a transitional state, and doesn't think we'd see each other much post-high-school. She doesn't want to enter a relationship because she doesn't think it would be feasible with her being emotionally unstable. Apart from that, I love spending time with her and we have very similar desires for what we want in a relationship. The honesty aspect of my relationship with her is also just awesome. (Also, I asked her to prom!)\n\nMy question is this: What are the dangers of being in a relationship with a mentally fragile person, and (how) should I convince her to enter such a relationship?\n\nI know that I definitely have no problem with supporting her and bearing her burden emotionally. Firstly, I do that for her regardless of my relationship status with her. Secondly, I actually find people and talk to them about things like this actively, trying to help people with similar issues. So I certainly will have no problems in that department.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I received my first robo-call toady (then a second, shortly after). The election cycle is taking off and these calls are to be expected, I guess. I've received them in the past and I haven't found a way to avoid them. \n\nThey wouldn't be such a pain if they weren't calling my mobile phone. I haven't spoken to my carrier, but I have to imagine there's something they can do. I've even tried calling the party headquarters, PAC's, etc., but to no avail. \n\nI know they go through the population of registered voters, so I wonder: Is this just an unpleasant side effect of being a registered voter? Is there nothing I can do? \n\n[It's bad enough they've infiltrated my Twitter feed.] \n\nI'm up to my eyeballs in shitty political ads. I'm just fucking tired of it. I'm relatively informed. I actively seek out information on my own. I don't need them calling my personal fucking cell phone. \n\nAnyone have any ideas? Suggestions?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've known this girl for about 3 months. She blew me away from the minute I first met her in my friends house. We hung out a lot (4/5 nights a week) over summer, just as friends. I asked her out about 1+1/2 months ago and things are going good!\n\nBut there's one thing that has been bugging me. She openly admitted to me about 2 months ago that she doesn't believe in love. She said she thought she was in love in a previous relationship, but now realizes she wasn't at all.\n\nThis is bugging me because I know I'm very capable of loving another person. I'm worried that if I grow to love her after a while, she won't feel the same.\n\nIs this an opinion that a lot of people have about love? Do you think I can change her opinion? Or do you think I'm wasting my time and I'm asking for my heart to be broken?\n\n.. I'd rather clear this in my mind while I'm still in the early stages..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're both 19 and sophomores in college, and have been friends for a while. A few weeks ago she asked if I wanted to see where things go or just stay friends, and obviously I chose the first. That weekend we went and grabbed dinner, and this Friday we went to a party one of her friends was having. Things were a bit awkward at first, but towards the end we wind up kissing for a while, I walk her back to her building, give her a good-night kiss, and head back home feeling pretty pleased with myself.\n So here's the kicker, as my name implies I was awkward as hell most of my life, and I've never been in a relationship. What I just described is literally the furthest I've been with a girl, so I don't have any f-ing clue what I'm doing. I was already good friends with this girl so I do really like her, and I'm pretty sure she likes me to some extent, so what do I do now?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know this girl for a week now. First time we met I noticed we had an instant click. We had fun. We laughed. But I didn't know I liked her so much. I'm not a person to fall in love that easy but after couple of days I found out I really like her. I would like a longer relationship with her.\n\nBut there are problems. She is not from here. She is from Italy and in couple of weeks she is going back to Italy. By the way, yesterday I met her again. We had a great time. We talked a lot, we hugged, laughed, and we even had sex. I already sub communicated I like her more than a \"fling\" but I don't know if she wants long term relationship especially since she is moving back to Italy soon.\n\nIn couple of weeks she is going back to her own country. How can I tell her that I want to have a long term relationship without freaking her out and coming off needy/creepy? In the last couple of days I can only think about her although I don't even want to think about her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "[24/F]\nI love my bf [26/M] of almost 4 years and care deeply for him, but I think that the romantic relationship just isn't meant to last. I needed him these last 4 years but I feel we've grown apart. He truly loves me and makes me a good person, we have a strong sense of trust and good communication, but I don't think we have the same plans, like he doesn't like camping and traveling and that's what I want to do all the time, as an example. There's a line between compromise and sacrifice and I don't think its fair for either of us. But maybe I'll never find someone who takes care of me like he does. I can't decide if my reasons are not worth losing him, although I would certainly try to maintain the friendship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello, so I am thoroughly confused as to how to act here. I was considering asking her myself, but was a bit taken aback when she did it herself, but I think it was just because she needed a date. That's what I have heard at least, but it isn't exactly what I had hoped. We dated for a few weeks in Middle School, but nothing serious of course, but now I am starting to have feelings for her again. In a way it seems a bit weird that she asked me in the first place as we haven't talked too much recently. I am currently debating between making a big deal of actually asking as a date or just getting her flowers and telling her how excited I am.\n\nThe main problem I have boils down to a few simple questions: Is there a way I can find out whether she meant it as a date or just friends? Is there a way for me to get that idea in her head? Is it a good idea to try and take her out on an individual date before-hand, and should I make a big deal of asking her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My bf and I have a great relationship, minus a major food issue.\n\nHe's always been intolerant of garlic and onion, but when we met it was far more mild. I never even knew he allergic for the first year we dated. We ate garlic fries once and he got pretty sick, and that was the first time he admitted it to me.\n\nIt's become extremely bad in the past 5 months. He gets sick even from cooked garlic and onion. His worst episode happened recently (he was shivering and having full body spasms with severe abdominal pain, followed by an entire night of running to the toilet). I put my foot down after that. No more cooking with garlic or onion (which is devastating for me, because I ABSOLUTELY ADORE THE SHIT OUT OF THOSE INGREDIENTS). We've tried to be super careful at restaurants, but it's almost impossible to avoid them. This has lead to him pushing for us to just go ahead and do it, and him winding up sick.\n\nI need some ideas about how best to support him so he doesn't feel like he's letting me down, or repressed and stuck eating bland food. Trying out the endless restaurants in our/nearby cities (we live in a foodie paradise land) was one of our favorite things to do together. It's been tough to find an evening activity to replace that. (We still do a lot of stuff that doesn't involve food, like hiking and drinking craft beer, but now we have to go back home after the bar and cook sanitized meals that neither of us are thrilled about, when both of us are in the mood to still be out). \n\nI don't want to struggle with him because he gets frustrated with the impacts this is having on our lifestyle. I know he feels like a burden. But I would rather eat bland food then see him hurt.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been wanting to post one of these for so long since it's been a while since I could say I've had a significant SV. Yesterday I went to a yoga class for the first time in about 3 years and it was great. I felt strong and honestly I didn't feel like I looked that bad either. Not great, but not bad. I wasn't hating myself during the class so that's at least something. Then by the evening I felt like crap about myself again. The negative thinking started in and I was telling myself that going to yoga didn't really matter because it wasn't a very hard class and that there was really no point in my trying to look better because I was always going to be fat and ugly. \n\nIn spite of all the bad things I was telling myself last night I decided to go to another yoga class again this morning. This time it was a hard class. I struggled through some of the more difficult poses but I still did it and while I certainly wasn't the best in the class, I wasn't struggling the most either. \n\nThen after the class, because I was feeling pretty good about myself, I decided to go shopping. While at the store I tried on a pair of knee high leather boots. AND THEY FIT! This may not sound like a big deal but in the past when I wanted to buy a pair of tall boots, I couldn't find any that were wide enough in the calf for me. Believe it or not, this was the first time since just after high school when I was skinny and underweight that I've been able to put on a pair of boots like that. Unfortunately I couldn't buy them because they were too expensive but who cares, the point is that my fat legs were not the reason I couldn't have them.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend of almost a year recently broke up with me because he felt like I don't trust him. I've been cheated on in the past and the result was me being very protective of my feelings. I do trust him 100% and I'm usually able to remind myself of that but we've had a couple drunk fights where I couldn't and got mad at him for no reason. I don't know what to do but I love him and I just want to be with him. I just need some advice of what I could say to him so he might consider getting back together or making this a break instead of being completely done.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I are (for teenagers) fairly shy people. I have admittedly been pretty slow to make moves in our relationship - it took me a long time to work up the confidence to kiss her.\n\nWe get along really well and I love spending time with her and just talking, but physical affection is important to me as well, and it always seems to be me initiating it, even just holding hands or resting a head on the other's shoulder.\n\nIt's not too bad, it's not like she rejects any kind of physical contact, and she has always been fine with it. [edit], but the fact that I'm always the one to do it sometimes makes me feel like she doesn't like me as much as I like her.\n\nAdditionally I feel like I'm always the one to message her first, or suggest going out on the weekend, I'll often sit with her group to chat with her at lunch, but it never happens the other way around. Sometimes I wonder if I didn't do anything, whether we would ever talk, but I know this isn't a healthy thing to think about, and I feel stupid, because I know in my heart she does like me, I just wish she would show it.\n\nThis issue is in no way relationship-ending in my opinion, but I wish there was something I could do about it.\n\nAm I being selfish? [edit] it could be something she can't help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend (M25, together 5 years) and I have had a mutual best friend, let's call him Sam, for 3 years — I'm probably a little bit closer with Sam. I've always felt that there has been a certain unspoken \"extra\" something between us, and a good amount of sexual tension, but wrote it off because I often feel that way with male friends and know it doesn't mean anything. \n\nIn one week, I'm moving across the country with my boyfriend (he's already in our new city and has been for a few weeks). This imminent departure has forced me to realize what I've tried to deny — I'm in love with Sam in a big way. The thought of leaving him is excruciating. There's nothing on Earth that makes me happier than spending time with him, he makes me happy to be alive, he makes me love myself when I normally am full of self-loathing, I care about and admire him more than I can possibly explain. I love my boyfriend too, I really do, but it's nothing compared to this. \n\nSo, I'm thinking of telling him, simply because I feel like I can't keep it in any longer. I don't know if he feels the same way, he has a lot of close female friends, so it's hard to know if his behavior towards me is different. I know it's a dangerous decision and the worst possible timing. \n\nRelevant: This cross-country move is a big deal for me regardless so I've gone into it with the idea that I'm trying it for a year and if I don't like it, I can move back (still have a lot of connections here so it wouldn't be hard). I will also be back for work every other month.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not sure if I can even do anything, and if the person in question wasn't an asshole or treated his employees so poorly I wouldn't give a shit, but I thought I'd ask for some advice on this situation.\n\nI work at a grocery store that is franchised in Canada, there is no employee discount or similar program offered at any level in the corporation. The grocery costs at these stores are noticeably more expensive than others. The owner regularly does a grocery shop where the bill averages $400-$500, however they just ring it through the till in training mode and don't actually pay any money for their groceries. The training mode bill is then filed away somewhere, and as far as I can ascertain it's written off as theft/shrink through the store. The only reason I can gather that they do this is so they are actually paying a lower amount for their groceries, maybe it works out so they are just paying for groceries at what they cost the store vs. what a customer would pay, that's my guess anyway.\n\nI don't really know how the ordering/costs work for grocery stores and if they are even getting the groceries cheaper but I assume so because why else would they do that? This situation just seems really sneaky, and I can't imagine corporate would be okay with a store franchise owner doing this, but I could just be making something out of nothing. \n\nThere isn't a store ethical hotline or anything similar that I was able to locate on the corporate website, so I thought maybe I'd just get some other people's opinions on this. Maybe I shouldn't care and I'm making a mountain out of a molehill or whatever. \n\nThanks for reading.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone, I'm having a hard time and need some advice on what to do. I started dating my boyfriend about 2 years ago. We have a steady relationship and we're very happy.\n\nEarly in the relationship, I went to my friends cousin's house to hang out. My bf didn't come. We were all hanging out and drinking and another of my friend's cousins who I had kissed a few years back showed up. \n\nI got really drunk. The cousin was trying really hard to sleep with me, I kept saying no and he knew I had a boyfriend. \n\nEventually I blacked out. I found out in the morning that the guy kept trying to get me to sleep in his bed with him which I refused (thank god). However someone told me that i was leaning against him on the couch and she wasnt sure but he may have been kissing my neck.\n\nI felt absolutely disgusted after I found this out. I had a huge talk with my friend and she thought it was best for me not to mention it to my boyfriend because it was a new relationship and I had been adamant that I didn't want to hook up with him. I didn't say anything to him.\n\nI hadn't really thought about it much until recently. About six months ago I came to terms with the fact that I have an alcohol abuse problem. I've been sober now for three months. I've been seeing things much more clearly now and this event is really starting to bother me. \n\nI know nothing like this will ever happen again, because I am confronting my problem, and I'll never let myself be in that state again. I can't. \n\nMy question is, do I talk about this with my boyfriend or will it cause too much unwarranted pain now that it's been so long?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for a little bit over three months. He is much more conservative than I am and also more religious but it never affected the way that we interact or influenced the way I felt about him. The other day we were hanging out and we were talking about relationships. I asked him if he dated any women that were not Caucasian and he said that he had dated an Asian woman and a woman who came from a muslim family. He proceeds to ask me the same question and I say no, but that I've always found black men to be attractive but just never had the opportunity to date such a man. This is where it gets insulting; he says \"Really? Girls only want to date black men because they have big dicks. Classy white girls only date white, brown or Asian men - not black men\" Not only was this racist but it was insulting to me. I told him what he said was seriously wrong and he got defensive saying \"It's not racist, but i'm just stating facts, you'll see when you get older\" after pressuring him for a few minutes he said \"okay, what I said was wrong\" and I sort of dropped it. Its been a day and its still bothering me. Should I bring it up again? I really like him but this side of him has me worried... I've always been openly accepting of other people no matter their colour, sexual orientation, socio-economic status etc and I don't know if a relationship can blossom with such different mindsets..", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were officially together for about 6 months but on and off \"dated\" for probably 6 months beforehand as well.\n\nShe gave me a framed picture of the Seattle skyline for my birthday last year. It's a pretty cool picture and I have it hung in my entry way. We broke up a few months ago, and she said she'd come by at some point to pick up the stuff she left at my house. The stuff consists of some random articles of clothing, some board games, and some bobble heads. I have no problem returning these to her. However, she is demanding that I give back the picture which I don't think she has the right to do. At this point, I almost want to just keep it for the principle of the thing. \n\nSo we were not very civilly discussing this today, and I told her if she wants the picture back, then I'll drill a hole through the middle of it and put it in her bag of stuff. She then threatened that if I do that, she will call the police.\n\nOne: Does she have any case with the police? That picture has been hanging in my house for months. \n\nTwo: Should I just bite the bullet and give it back? I feel like that just validates her threats.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everybody!\n\nI'm going to preface this with the fact that I'm a great student, I'm on top of my studies, and I'm currently in the process of applying to clubs and getting involved with organizations around campus, that said:\n\nMy first two weeks of college has been, well, much more uneventful than I expected. I have been looking for opportunities to go party on the weekends (nothing too stupid I promise) but I can't seem to find anything. It feels like frats run the party scene at my school (UF), and the only way to have any fun on a Friday/Saturday night or tailgate is to be a part of one. Basically", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl from my college back in November. We text very often and have conversations about our common interests late into the night. It's safe to say we are close friends. She seems to trust me a lot too, and has told me some rather personal things. \n\nI want to ask her out but it's a little difficult. It's hard to get alone time with her because some friend or two always shows up. I'm not very fond of a person in her group of friends so that complicates things too. She seems to like someone else, but that other person is in a relationship and doesn't treat her very well (she knows this). \n\nShe also doesn't take compliments very well in the sense that she doesn't believe she's attractive, intelligent, or whatever good trait you can think of. I guess she might be fishing for compliments, but at the same time she doesn't like how other guys are always trying to get with her. \n\nI'm worried that if I ask her out she'll just dismiss me as another jerk who only wants to sleep with her. How should I ask her out? \n\nAlso, I don't want to wait too long in case I miss my opportunity. I feel sometime in less than a week or two would be the optimal time since it's early in the semester (less work) and there aren't other people that could be potential competition.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Tonight my bf comes home in the middle of his rehearsal crying telling me his heart isn't in it anymore. I'm completely blindsided by the whole thing and he offered no explanation. He just kept telling me how much he cared and how much he hated hurting me and that he was \"so sorry\". He kept telling me that I did nothing to warrant it and that I'm one of the most genuine and caring people he's ever met. I can't even begin to understand why. \n\nI honestly hate being this \"please take me back\" and heartbroken over it because I just feel so pathetic. But that's how I honestly feel. I really thought this was it. I have never felt so attached to someone. Never loved someone this much. I've never even imagined a future with anyone realistically until him, and I've dated people much longer than this. \n\nI just want him back so bad you guys. I honestly never felt so myself and connected with anyone. I literally cannot imagine my life without him. We never had a disagreement. Ever. We held the same stance on everything. He was perfect for me and everyone else told me. Even now no one will trash talk him because there's nothing to trash talk. I just feel like I lost the one. \n\nA big thing is that I also work with him. Same department. Yeah, yeah. Don't date where you work. I can avoid him. But still. [EDIT] He's probably leaving our work sometime mid June. It was planned months ago.\n\nHow do I even begin to pick up all of these pieces?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "With me, it just happened yesterday. I woke up early in the morning with sharp stomach pains, thinking I had to pee or something and that my bladder was just too full. After going to the bathroom it still hurt really bad and I was literally sobbing.\n\nI didn't want to go to urgent care because I was sure they'd send me home saying I just had super bad gas or something else embarrassing. Thankfully my boyfriend talked me into it, and upon finding that Urgent care wasn't open yet we went to the ER and got there within an hour after my pains started. After getting there they started to calm down, so now I was even more sure that it was somethign dumb and I was just going to be embarrassed.\n\nAfter getting bloodwork done and a cat scan, the doctor comes in and informs me that I have appendicitis and need my appendix removed. I was in surgery by 12:30 and have been on pain killers since yesterday and will be released either tonight or tomorrow.\n\nSo, if it wasn't for my boyfriend being more stubborn than me I could have had my appendix rupture and died, since we only have one car and he brought me to the hospital 20 minutes before he would have had to leave for work.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello personal finance saviors \n\nMy story is:\n\nMe and my fiancée decided to move to the United States[Kansas] (she's a US citizen while I am from Egypt) the system of finance in my country is totally different I have been always relying on debit cards and saving account hence spending only what I have and managing to save as much as I can. \n\nThe situation is that I managed to save around 5k USD (not that much but that's around 50k of my national currency). \nMy fiancée in contrary is spending a lot on lots of unnecessary stuff for example buys new clothes every month or so and she is in big debt (university loans and whatnot) but since we are marrying soon after I come to the US (next month) I am totally in the dark side of the financial stuff like what do I do with my savings? Just open a normal savings account? Which bank do I use[Kansas state]? and what are the investment opportunities? Is joint account going to be risky for me giving the inputs above ? Taking into consideration that I won't have work until I get my permission. I am not asking for specific tailored responses I am willing to put as much research as I need I just need some guidance on where I can search for options to choose from. Some responses that could familiarize me with the financial sector would be great. \n(I apologize if there are any mistakes in my post)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 23, she just turned 25, been with each other for a year and moved north together as well.\n\nWe discussed having kids before but I had mentioned getting my \"tubes tied\" and it set her off thinking about her future. Basically, she wants to settle down and start a family, but doesn't want to wait passed 30 to have kids. She wanted an answer and I told her that I cannot commit myself to that yet. She responded saying that she didn't want to wait around for me to decide...\n\nIdk what to do. I love her to death but I don't want kids, but I don't want to be the person to hold her back. I told her that the only real solution would be to separate...which I don't want :/\n\nDoesn't make things easier that we live together, but our lease is up in October and if she's seriously considering it, we have to figure something out.\n\nAnyone gone through this? I feel lost", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically I've [22, f] been going out with this guy [28, m] a month, thought he was pretty awesome etc. Was starting to really feel something. \nLast night we got into some deep talking. He said that he had a cynical view on a lot of things, especially love and relationships. Said there was a very high statistical chance that people don't find \"the one\" and don't spend the rest of their lives with someone. I know that this is true, but as someone who grew up with two parents who love each other, and with no divorce in my family at all, I have a very positive outlook on love (his parents had a nasty divorce). \n\nHe also said that, even though he's never had a 6 year relationship, he believes that this is the maximum time you could realistically spend with another person, he said that around the 6 year mark you'd have found out all you need to know about the other person, and there's no real reason to continue a relationship at that point. As someone whos had a 4 and a half year relationship in the past, I feel the opposite and think that at 6 years you would only love the person more and want to spend even longer with them. \n\nI want to just put this down to the age difference. Am I just naive about relationships? Is it okay for him to feel this way? Should I take it to heart or no?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "OK I know yall hate this but its a great story that happened to me 8ish years ago. Enter a very hungry Korinthia into the kitchen. Ohshit.jpg leftover toasted raviolis! (for anyone not from the midwest, more specifically St Louis, these are breaded and fried meat ravioli, fucking delicious) So I'm like no way I'm ruining these by tossing them in the microwave, no sir these are going to be reheated properly in the toaster oven. Now this wasn't any toaster oven, this was a great cook-your-food-perfect-every-time toaster oven, this was a my parents wedding gift toaster oven. So I pop those suckers in and commence heating my delicious taste sensation. 13 year old me is like hey do you know what would be a great idea? Fuckin around on the computer for 6 minutes thats what! 45 minutes later sniff sniff What the fuck is bur..OH SHIT. As i sprint towards my kitchen its clear my whole house is full of smoke. I approach the toaster oven to discover that my precious ravioli have turned into several flaming charcoal briquettes. So i grab the door to open it and immediatly burn my hand. I grab a towel and open the door. SHIT SHIT wtf am i gonna do. So genius 13 yo me throws a glass of water at the flaming ravioli. For those of you that arent aware hot glass+cold water=explosion. The glass door on the toaster exploded sending glass everywhere. The glass lands on my kitchens hardwood floors leaving numerous large scorch marks (that are still there to this day). Needless to say my parents werent pleased. My whole family still bitches about the shitty toasters weve had ever since and my mother still teases me about ruining her floors.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, I'd like to ask for some advice on a strange feeling I've been having. I met these two girls a few weeks ago and (they are sisters, btw) we hit it off great, we had an awesome conversation and everything. We're going to be vacationing with them and another male friend of mine next month. However, this Saturday, we're meeting to discuss plans for said vacation.\n\n The thing is, something's different about the feel of these new friends. My parents went to a party for another friend where they were at (I couldn't go) and they got to know each other more, and said they're \"best friends\" with the whole family. I haven't seen the whole family since those few weeks ago. I'm starting to get strange feelings that there's something wrong....I don't know what. Maybe that they were faking liking me as a person, I dunno. It's super strange considering I've only been around them once and it went so great. But something just feels....off. \n\nI'd like to state that this is a friendship only and nothing more. Maybe this is teen angst. Any advice or answer given is very appreciated, Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm so annoyed that this is even a problem. I noticed a month ago that my boyfriend's relationship status was changed to unlisted. It has been listed ever since we started dating a year ago. I decided to talk to him, and the conversation went as follows-\n\nIn bed for the night. Just turned out the lights. He rolls over and sees I'm staring at him and he can tell something is wrong.\n\nBF \"What?\"\n\nMe \"Why am I not listed as your girlfriend on facebook?\"\n\nBF \"You're not?\"\n\nMe \"No.\"\n\nBF \"Oh, well I must have accidentally changed it while trying to get FB to stop sending me tons of emails.\" Silence. \"Why? Are you worried?\"\n\nMe \"Well...it's changed. It's different.\"\n\nBF \"Do you want me to change it back?\"\n\nMe \"Yes...I just wanted to make sure there wasn't anything we needed to talk about.\"\n\nBF \"I didn't even know it had been changed.\"\n\nAfter some silence he said there was something unrelated that he had been wanting to talk to me about. He said he wanted to try to spend a little less time together. He isn't used to being with someone for so long and wanted to have a chance to do things that don't involve me. We work in the same building and live together, so I understand what he means. I've always made an effort to give him space, but he doesn't take advantage of it. I say I understand and would enjoy time away as well. He says he doesn't want to mess things up between us by being together constantly. I can understand that.\n\nHere's the problem. He still hasn't changed his facebook relationship status. Am I right for being concerned? Should I give him his space and freedom to not list his relationship status? I don't believe the change was an accident, and he saw how concerned it made me. I feel like I'm supposed to be taking the hint.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi,\n\nSo we've been together for 3 years now and we live in different countries. We've known each other since we were 5 in elementary school, then we lost track of each other when my family and I left my native country. It is important to mention that our mothers were very close friends. So, we got back in touch 5 years ago when she was very good friends with my best friend over there. 3 years ago when I went to my native country to visit friends and family, I met her and we saw each other twice. Ever since that time, I flew to my native country twice to surprise her but she never saw me because her parents are too strict and they don't let her leave the house. I know this to be true for 100%. The problem is she never stands up to her parents, she always listens to them and never defies them when they refuse that she goes out with friends.\n\nNow, she came with her family to my present country, and she still can't go out 5 minutes to see me...when she asked her parents, her mother was okay with the idea but her father refused. She then stormed out and locked herself in the room. Her father came a few hours later to apologize and offered that he takes her shopping... and that was it, she was no longer mad at him. I miss her so very much and I know I won't be able to go to my home country for at least 4 years, and I don't know if I'll be able to handle not seeing her for so long. They are leaving my present country in a few days and I want to see her for at least a few minutes. I want to tell her to not listen to her parents but I feel that it is wrong to tell someone to rebel in my own interest. Any help please ? I really don't know how to handle this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I run the front desk at a salon, and just had an extremely stressful day after one of my stylists called in sick and I had to reschedule all of her clients [most of them were very rude to me; some of them yelled and hung up on me]. She said she was having terrible tooth pain, and she was going to an emergency dentist, so I told her to take care of herself and not to worry about it. I just got home and saw that my manager posted a bunch of new pictures on Facebook of her day today. I was looking through them and realized that the stylist who was supposed to be at the emergency dentist was caught in one of the pictures. Apparently they had a lovely day at the aquarium together, while I was stuck at work being verbally harassed by her clients. I am so mad right now, but I don't want to just confront them. I want to fuck with their minds. I want revenge. Any ideas?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to keep this as short and simple as possible. \n\nRecently my girlfriend of 6 months got a new job which takes up the majority of her time which leaves us with very little time together, yesterday was our first day together in about a week and everything was good, a few hours into the day she said she was going to leave early to hangout with a few friends, I was acting selfish and childish and got upset since I already see her so little.\n\nI regrettably yelled a bit and we didn't talk much at all until her friend came and got her, a few mintues before her friend showed up I apologized and we made up a bit but things were still kinda rocky.\n\nThe next day she had work so we didn't talk at all and when she got off I messaged her, and she was at a friend's house. I could tell something was wrong and I asked, she said that she wasn't happy after yesterday. I apologized and told her how much an idiot I know I was etc. The more we messaged the more serious it seemed to become, I asked if I could see her tomorrow before work so we could talk and she told me she didn't want to see me right now. She asked for a bit of space so I stopped messaging her.\n\nI messaged her a few more times just apologizing and telling her I was worried which I probably shouldn't have done. \n\nI love her and don't want to lose her, and I know the consensus is on this sub is when someone ask for space things are done, which I don't agree with but maybe I'm just fooling myself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know what to do about this since I live in an apartment complex and sure, I understand that there is going to be noise. That is the way most places are but my upstairs neighbor is so annoying. He blasts his music so loud that it shakes my floor. I live on the first floor so that says something. I have talked to him a few times to ask him to lower the music and he lowers it for a few hours then it goes right back up to the regular volume again. I am not sure if anyone else is bothered by this but I want to tell the landlord but I am too afraid that this guy will retaliate against me and I just want quiet. I don't mind a little noise, just not enough to shake my floor. \n\nWhat can I do to remedy this issue?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit, My mum had an operation 2 years ago, a Prolapse Repair. After the operation she swears she felt something while in the bath and is worried that something got left inside her. Not so long after her belly has been swelling and painful, in turn leaving her unable to leave the house, cutting her off from her job and leaving her depressed. The Doctor that done the operation said \"Everything i have done is fine.\" Actual Words. She went to the doctors for a second opinion last year, I wasn't there but apparently the doctor was very abrupt and cold on the matter. Saying the operation was a total success and the problems with her are unrelated, even though these symptoms appeared directly after the operation. So anyway she goes back to her depressed state and continues seeing the doctor as everyone she sees says they don't know whats wrong. So last night she rings me and tells me to visit a website and standing side by side is the guy that done the operation and the guy that gave the second opinion. Turns out they have a very close professional relationship. My question is Reddit, is it right that guy should give the second opinion? also, does anyone recognize the symptoms of a swollen belly? We googled the symptoms and the closest thing we could find was, I.C. Belly, Cant remember the medical term for it. Any help would be great, thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Good afternoon, everyone. I have a question for you all and I was hoping that I could possibly get some closure and advice on the subject at hand. \n\nAs such, allow me to set the mood. I met \"Sabree\" during my psych class last semester and at that time, I was not looking to date anyone or get into that scene you know? However, once I found out that she works fairly close to my place of employment and naturally, I decided to speak with her just cause. \n\nNonetheless, after a period where I jumped back into the dating scene and failed, I saw her working at her job two Sundays ago and made a very difficult decision. And that was to ask her out for some coffee on Friday and get those digits. However, I had to catch myself because of how nervous I would be. \n\nAs such, after a brief period I finished the mission and boom, got the digits! Excellent, right? \n\nNevertheless, we started to speak and then on Wednesday the bombshell dropped! Originally, we going to reschedule the \"date\" for a later date and she told me the following word by word, \"Sorry! I would try to make it back from Eastern on Friday but I wanted to visit my boyfriend\" \n\nRats, not this again, you know? Nonetheless, she did in fact make it back just in time for us to chill at Starbucks which was her first time there allegedly so I felt pretty cool about that with me stealing a moment away from ole' boy plus giving her the prequel trilogy of Star Wars to watch over so perhaps down the line, I can watch the OT with her. \n\nNonetheless, the point of this question is what the heck should I do going forward? Move on which I plan to do as soon as I can lock in on a few potential women to date or should I continue on and plant the seeds with a slow burning method?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit,\n\nMy girlfriend of approximately a year and a half told me last night that her mother has cancer. She gave me very few details, as it was over the phone and she was pretty upset, but she did happen to say that there is a high rate of success if treated early with chemo. I've met both of her parents, and they are wonderful and generous people. Basically, I'm looking for advice on how to approach her and provide the right kind of emotional support. I've been very lucky so far in my life, not having gone through a situation like this with a loved one so close to me, but I think that's put me at a disadvantage in terms of knowing how to connect to my girlfriend now. My dad is an existentialist, and I share his mindset to some extent, so I'm really not the best at providing emotional support. I'm also a staunch atheist, and she's one the fence, so I want to be very careful not to interject my thoughts at a time when she might be turning to something I don't believe in. She's an amazing and beautiful girl, and I want to find a way to be more helpful through this process. Does anyone have suggestions about what to say on a daily basis, and maybe how to treat things through the longer term? Don't be afraid to point out the obvious, I don't want to miss anything. \n\nThis is a throwaway account, as you can see from my history and obvious lack of kharma. My close friends know my username and that I'm often on here, and given the nature of the situation, I don't want them knowing about this. She's asked that I not tell any of our friends.\n\nThanks so much everyone. I know this is a sad post, and it is a big holiday, so any time that you take to give this a thought and perhaps a response would be amazing, thank you. Be safe tonight.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So there is this girl that I was friends with in high school, we didn't talk much. So basically she started going to the same university as me and we started talking. She told me she flirted with me all of high school and that I showed no interest. Anyways somehow we ended up talking about sex blah blah and we both want to have sex with each other. So I kinda led her on for about two weeks, and at the beginning of this she said that she didn't just fuck around, which is weird because she is in a relationship and us having sex would mean he cheating. Actually given some of the things we have said to each other I would consider that she has already cheated, although not physically. Along the way I hinted strongly that I wasn't interest in her emotionally and that I was not looking for a relationship. Eventually I told it to her flat out and she got upset, saying that \"she's not just a piece of meat\". I guess I set it up so that she would get pissed at me and not sleep with me. I'm a virgin and I think she expects that I would develop feelings for her as a result of sex. I said \"If you wanted sex and friendship but nothing more, then why would you be mad for me saying I wouldn't give anything more?\" She said \"That's not how sex works. We both know it. Plus who said that's what I wanted. I was saying I knew where YOU stood. And for me that's not okay. Because I'm worth everything and more than that.\" and \"Like if it happened it happened but to just come out and say it? You're an asshole.\". I feel like she is mad because I said I don't want to develop feelings for her and I was to keep it strictly physical. Well now it's not going to happen anyways, and I obviously screwed up because I shouldn't be talking like that to someone who is dating someone else, but I wanted to know what people think of this just from reading it. If you think I'm an asshole speak up, if not say whatever you feel, and if you need things clarified let me know, I will try to make this a bit more readable.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't have a ton of experience babysitting, but I'm about to become an au pair and I want to work out a couple kinks.\n\nHow do you deal with kids who won't give you something they're not supposed to have when you ask for it? For example, I'm babysitting my little cousins tonight and I had to yank the remote control out of a 20-month-old's hands. I asked her for the remote (her brother was watching the TV or I wouldn't have cared) and tried to take it from her gently, but I ended up having to yank it away from her with more force than I would have liked to use with someone so little. The resulting tantrum was epic. I didn't like grabbing something from her somewhat harshly and was wondering if there's a better way to go about getting them to drop something they won't return. Or am I just being a sissy?\n\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year and a half, and I love her dearly. I truly believe she is my soulmate and that I will spend the rest of my life with her. However, she has been incredibly controlling lately and I don't know what to do about it. \n\nShe goes to college about 2- 2 1/2 hours away from where I go to college, so I see her when she comes home on weekends. When she's up at school, she has to know where I am, and if I'm not in my room doing homework, she's mad that I'm not talking to her. If I'm with my friends at all she gets very angry because I could instead be talking to her. And by talking to her, she means like Skype. I text and snapchat her pretty regularly when with friends. She will claim I am making her depressed and anxious, and will be very distant toward me if I don't talk to her the night prior. The most ridiculous thing she's done in regards to control is telling me she drank and drove the night before because I wasn't talking to her so she wanted to spite me. \n\nI told her if she doesn't stop I will break up with her. She told me she couldn't and within 5 minutes she called me and begged for me to come back to her house because she would do everything in her power to fix it. \n\nAccording to her, this controlling thing is because she has severe anxiety. She is so insecure and anxious, so craves my attention to reassure her. Though this may sound like bullshit, she legitimately does have really bad anxiety and gets panic attacks very frequently. She claims once she comes home from school (she graduates in a month) that she won't feel this way anymore because then we will be in the same city. \n\nI love her to death and don't want to break up, but this situation is stressing me quite a lot. Any suggestions? Thanks in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my gfs family (4 people including the gf) is currently in town. She invited me over for dinner this weekend and we're going to this nice buffet restaurant which me and my gf love. Per person the price is around $30. So this is the first time I'm meeting my gfs family and I know its nice to pay for dinner. I would gladly pay but I absolutely do not have that kind of money. Me and my gf both go to college and I don't even have a job. My parents provide me with money and if they see me dish out $150 for one night they will literally kill me.\n\nWhat do I do? Do i pay for my own and let them handle theirs? Or do I just let her parents pay for everything (I'm sure they will offer to)\n\nIm so lost at what to do...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll keep this brief. I always wanted to be married, want a family and kids, that hasn't changed. Dating has been crappy for me as I've been so focused on working since I come from a very poor family. I'm 27 now, doing well with my career (well enough for now anyways) so I have more \"time\" for dating.\n\nUsed Tinder for a while, had some fun flings, met a chick who was in an \"open marriage\" and just wanted to date. I thought it would be easy sex, went along with it. One thing led to another and now I love her, and she loves me. She admits this, but does not want to leave her husband (which was the first guy she ever dated, and according to her friends screams at her and manipulates her and is garbage, but it's her decision)\n\nSo, she doesn't want to leave him, loves me, I love her... I've been dating her for around four months now and I've been keeping it going hoping to build a bond with her and when I can have a 'very' serious talk with her about things I'll have more of a potential for her to consider my words about our future.\n\nI need some advice. What should I do here? Should I stop seeing her?\n\nOh, and a side note... I'm terrified this woman is my soul mate. I've been in love, dated... and never felt a connection in my life like I do with this woman. So there's that. (Sorry for broken jumbled post)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In short, we signed a lease for our apartment this past Saturday, and got the keys that day. Today, the leasing office called saying they couldn't give us both of the rent concessions that were in our lease.\n\n- concession 1 was 2 months free (next month and last month, on 16-month lease), in total worth $3100\n\n- concession 2 was 5% preferred employer discount on monthly rent, over the life of the lease worth over $1200\n\n- the call this morning involved the leasing specialist saying the manager said they couldn't offer 2 concessions, that they never didn't, and their \"system\" couldn't support input of 2 concessions (and would be questionable in audits), and that I needed to choose only one\n\n- I'm livid, because it feels like a bait & switch, and if I give up the smaller concession I'm losing out on $1200, which was a consideration in signing in the first place; even if it was a mistake, why should I take the hit? \n\n- they're not willing to negotiate on how to make up the $1200 in another way (3 rd or 0.8 of a month free to offset any \"system\" limitations, other than telling me I can buy out the lease ... their stated concern is that's getting into fair housing issues\n\n- conveniently, my copy of the lease doesn't have any of their signatures -- just those of me and my spouse\n\nHow can I fix this tomorrow? We just moved here for work. The movers are bringing our things tomorrow, utilities are being started, and I don't want 16 months of drama or to have to buy out a 16-month lease then try to find a new home while starting my new job.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So earlier this weekend i reunited with my best friend who I hadn't seen for three years. He is staying over at my place and we decide to go out to the bars and in the process I invite a bunch of people including the girl I am interested in. At the first two bars my friends keep telling me about how they were going to wing man for me and it all worked out great up until the third bar. We are touching and dancing and things are going great till I feel the need to step outside for some air. By the time I come back the two friends who were wing manning for me, were wing manning each other. A few friends and the girl i like decide to come back home to my place and have some drinks and chill. As a gesture I lay out a bed roll for my friends to lean on and this is where it all goes down hill. Keep in mind that i sleep on a Japanese style floor mattress. A mix of tired and drunk kicks in to where I am just drained from the amount of social interaction to the point where I'm barely in the conversations at all. I can't say anything without being completely shut down by everyone in the room. Including jokes about my virginity and about any rebuttal I make to dispute the fact. I remain quiet for the rest of the night leading to right now. The girl I like and my friend are spooning on the bedroll I laid out for them while I am stuck in a 50 degree room with no pillow, mattress, or blanket.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a seriously fucked up relationship with food. I feel like there's something broken inside, like this parasite has got its grip and compels me to feed it. \n\nI have stocked my house for success. No junk. No temptation. But I literally just drove to the 24 hr servo and bought $25 worth of cake and donuts to make this craving stop. \n\nWhen I'm craving something it's like the craving starts screaming inside of my head demanding attention until it finally drowns out all other thoughts halting all productivity until I satisy the craving. It feels like a compulsion. Like an addict looking for the next hit. I HATE IT. \n\nI hate feeling so out of control of my own body. I hate the diet, exercise, success, craving, binge, failure cycle. \n\nI know the key to moving forward is to forgive myself and carry-on towards my goal as if nothing happened rather than further sabotaging by dwelling and caring overt into tomorrow. But I don't know how. I don't want to spiral.\n\n Any and all advice is welcome. thoughts. commiseration. Does it ever get easier? I'm staring down 64 kg/140 lbs to lose.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "( My mom came to me today with this question. I told her reddit might help her out. This is what she typed: )\n\nI have a friend through theatre, that I help regularly with designing lights, set, and directing for a very small amount of money (stipend). She is a high school theatre teacher who doesn't know much about technical theatre, so I have helped rescue some of her shows, that were pretty bad. The principal has even told the teacher how impressed he is with my work (I get program credit for designs). I love what I do, and I don't mind helping the program and her. \n\nThe most recent show is a large scale musical, that requires hundreds of hours of research and construction, with lights and set. She is asking me for my sketches and other materials to put up in her classroom to \"teach\" her class how it is done. She likes to come in to the shop and try to change things. \n\nFirst of all there is no time, because she waits till the last minute to do everything. \n\nSecondly, she doesn't know what she's talking about. \n\nI feel like my methods (along with creativity) of designing are part of why my designs stand out. I don't really want to share all of my research material with her because: \n\n1. I worked really hard getting my degree in design and graduated with honors, and I don't feel responsible for teaching her how to do her job better. \n\n2. If I give her my info she will most likely come into the shop more often telling me how to do my job, wasting more time that I never have. \n\nWhat do I do without jeopardizing the relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, like I said I am overthinking things. Normally I do not even think, I just act, but this is the first girl I ACTUALLY like. We had our first date, and I did not kiss her goodbye. I wanted it to be more of a surprise, and not expected. She has visited me every day at work since then, and I have kissed her goodnight.\n\nOur second date is today, and I want to be more prominent with my flirtiness. The first date was getting to know her, and ever since then she was at my work. I want to kiss her immediately when I see her, and since I have kissed her goodnight the past 5 days, I dont really see anything wrong with it.\n\nI just do not want to move this too fast, and I am worried that doing that will.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because it is kind of embarrassing. A little background first. I met this girl about 2 months ago at the bar. Got her number, hit it off, and have been talking everyday nonstop since. We both live in he same hometown but she goes to school somewhat far away form me so we dont see each other nearly as often as I would like. We make it work though. I really ended up liking this girl a lot more than I originally though. I think shes the most beautiful girl ive ever seen and I'm super attracted to her in every aspect.\n\nNow, heres the problem. I've had sex plenty of times so I'm pretty experienced. But about 2 weeks ago, I visited her and I tried having sex with her after a drunken night out . It was going great at first, but when it came time for the penetration, I just went soft. I wrote it off as being drunk and went to bed. The next day, I tried again when sober and again, I could not stay hard. She was understanding and says it happens. I'm already embarrassed at this point, but I dont really think about it too much. Later that night, i tried again (kinda drunk again) and I STILL COULDNT DO IT. Again, I wrote it off as being drunk, but now I just feel so nervous about it happening again. I've NEVER had this problem before. I just felt so nervous about it this time over any other time and I can't understand why I would feel that way, especially knowing that I've had great sex before. An important thing to note: she is the most beautiful girl ive ever been involved with and not to get into specifics, but her body is absolutely amazing. Maybe it has something to do with that? I don't really know. So what I really wanted to know is what I could do in order to make sure i stay hard during sex. Any pieces of advice? Ways to mentally prepare yourself? And i already know alcohol wont be used again, but still, maybe theres other things that can help out? Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me: 22f. Bf: 22m. \nAcquaintances for 4 years, Friends for 3, Dating for 1. (8 years total)\n\nA very happy, healthy relationship and I feel confident about our future together. \n\nA few days before our first anniversary, he asked my ring size and I internally freaked out and changed the subject after answering it. The next day, I brought it up and made sure he knew I wasn't ready for an engagement ring and he assured me he wasn't getting me one. \n\nI never thought he'd have gotten me a promise ring, as I'm not terribly traditional and he knows I think cutesy stuff is tacky. I was very surprised when he gave it to me, promising to always be there for me. I really don't like the idea of being \"pre-engaged\" because a typical promise ring stands for a promise to one day make a promise to get married...\n\nI thought it was really cute - painfully so. But it also looked like a men's wedding band and I ended up giving it back. He could tell by my reaction the day before that I wasn't excited about it. He was embarrassed. We talked about it over the next week; I told him that if he gave me an engagement ring, I'd say \"yes\" (although we both agree that's not going to happen for a while).\n\nI'm stuck between my dislike of the tackiness and the desire to have that physical symbol of our relationship on my hand. Would it be silly of me to ask for it back? Or to ask for one that's more feminine? I feel like the former would be flip-floppy and the latter would be picky and controlling. What do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This girl and I have been friends since September (The beginning of the school year). And like many friendships it gets stronger within the first 2 months of knowing each other she friend zones me. I go along with it at the time i really wasn't into her. towards the beginning of the school year she kinds gave me her number in a friendly way.\n\nAbout 3 months later she brother zones me. now at that time i was into her, throughout our friendship i always hinted that i wanted to be more than friends. let me explain her to you.\n\n she is pretty popular she was a freshman and she went to prom with a senior and she has always been in a relationship with someone.she has a lot of guy friends and she always showed more interest in them than me. she was liked when i walked her to class but when she saw another guy friend she would hug them and stuff like that. at the time she never showed an interest in me.on the other hand i have never been in a relationship before i have never liked a girl so much i wanted to date her until now. there was other girls throughout the year that plainly told me they liked me a lot but i felt like they weren't worth my time. \n\nnow back to the story she always considered me as a friend the whole school year. but a few days before school was over. she showed an interest in me, she started saying she would miss me a lot and she just started hugging me every chance she got. me liking her i went along with it. she says she wants to hang out this summer and i want to also but thing thing is i don't know how.\n\nwhere im stuck at is if she wants to hang out like friends or start dating because of previous behavior im confused.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I got my first job about a year ago now. And one of my coworkers started a few months before me. I was a bit weary of him at first because he seemed stuck up, but I was forced to interact with him during a travel day together. I had a blast. He even gave me his personal number. \n\nSo a few months go by and we end up hanging out a few times. The second time we spent at my apartment. He cooked me dinner (salmon stuffed with lobster, homemade mashed potatoes and baked veggies - not an easy meal and he bought it all) and then he did the dishes, gave me a back rub and cuddled with me on the couch while we watched a movie. I had a really good night and it seemed like he had fun too (hugged me a few times before he left)\n\nI wasn't expecting anything to come of it but I enjoy his company and would like to see him more. We spent some more time with each other but nothing more happened. I was okay with that as long as I got to see him, as a friend. Now though, he wont respond to my messages about hanging out. He responds to other ones but not those. I don't think I did anything to upset him as conversation about other things goes very well. I know he's busy being a sales person, but I'd like to see him. I thought we were going to hang out last weekend but he suddenly became cold and said he was busy. \n\nI know I have a crush on him because him becoming cold and distant hurts my feelings. I think he's a great guy and fun to be around and even if he doesn't reciprocate my crush feelings, I could see us being good friends.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not in the amnesiac sense. I just dont know what makes me me anymore. I always remember being the smartest person in a room, but now with my new job, my inexperience makes me the dumbest person around. I used to be really in to Jiu Jitsu, I started in college. I had the same partner for four years, and we even started dating. Then she went to a different section of the united states, and I started trying to set my self up to be able to move to her. She left me, and married her instructor in like a three month span. I dont know what to do, it almost feels like there is no point to do the martial art anymore. I always prided myself in being in the number one fighter of my social circle. I know, being half a country away, they arent in my circle anymore, but as the very least my ex is a fellow Redditor. (so of course im using a throwaway.) I cant find new employment, I cant move out of my parents house.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my friend, and ex friend, were dating. She is the sweetest, most caring and genuine person i know. He is a selfish alcoholic asshole. He broke up with her because she got mad that he went to the bar with two of his ex girlfriends then came home drunk. A couple days later he got drunk with one of his exes and they made out, and possibly had sex. They were only broken up for 2 weeks and now they are back together. She doesn't know they did anything. It seems obvious to tell her but she became so depressed and down when they were broken up i dont know if i want to do that to her. Should i tell her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Birthdays have always been hard on my girlfriend. She's had a few parties as a child where no one showed up, and since moving states in the middle of high school she hasn't made close friends.\n\nHere at college, she tries hard to make friends. She talks well to people on a superficial basis but doesn't have any real friends. She's never been invited to a college party and has often missed out on many typical activities.\n\nWe've been together for 3 years, since freshman orientation. I don't have friends but I'm happy that way. I like keeping to myself if I'm not spending time with her. Since she's naturally extroverted, she spends her free time with me, or at club meetings trying to connect to people. \n\nShe's asked if I could put together a small party so I invited some acquaintances, my roommates, etc. everyone said no. I gave the invites well in advance too. I don't know how to break the news to my girlfriend, she's been so excited. She thought providing free food and drink would be a great way to make friends. But people don't want to come for even that. What can I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some Background: We have been dating for 3 years, 2 living together. Before that we were best friends who were too afraid to say how we felt to each other for a year. \n\nWe moved to a new city together a year ago, and are due to start a new lease we signed less than a month ago. I have been working 2 part time jobs and going to grad school (with another unpaid internship as well). I decided to go to grad school so I could give her the kind of life I know that she deserves. \n\nI love this girl with all my heart, and 5 days ago she says she feels like we are back to being just friends. She then asked for space to figure things out. The only thing is we live together, and besides me living in the basement at my own house, I don't see how else to give her space.\n\nKnowing she is only 30 feet away from me while I am in the same house is killing me. Now I know for sure she is the one I want my future to be with, how can I let her know these things while at the same time trying to give her the space she needs?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my ex broke up 2.5 months ago, due to her feeling very stressed out due to having so much going on, which made her decide she wasn't ready for a relationship. We had slight contact after that, but 4 weeks ago I went strict no contact to move on. She messaged me 2 weeks into it, cause she was pissed off that I deleted her from social media, but then decided that that's my decision so she'd respect it.\n\nI went straight back to nc until a week later, she messaged me, apologising for being so horrible since the breakup to me, and told me how much she missed me and how upset she was, she said about how showing feelings has never been a strong point for her, so she found it too hard to show them. She told me how sorry she was, and how she wished it worked out differently, and was really hoping that we'd be friends. After this, I told her that maybe things will be different again soon, to which she agreed. She then made the conversation for the rest of the night, which is good, we hadn't had any proper conversation in a long time and it felt good to speak, in fact, we discussed things that got between us towards the end, and it's clear that won't be a problem anymore! we've spoken every day since.\n\nMy problem is, I don't know if she's interested still, it seems it, but like I said, she isn't good at expressing feelings, and she's always been quite a blunt texter. I want to arrange dinner somewhere, just a small catch up, and hopefully it'd lead to try working on slowly becoming more than friends again, maybe not however, but as I have no clue on what she feels, I don't know if asking would be a good idea or not! I don't want to ask and make things awkward if she doesn't want to, I'd only be asking for an innocent catch up, so surely I don't know why she'd say no if it were to just be friends, but I'm still very nervous about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a 17 year old male and my two friends, lets call them Sam and John, are also 17. We are planning to meet up before the concert at Sam's house and hang out before we go. Another friend of mine, David, already bought a ticket to the concert and doesn't want to go alone, so I told him he could join the three us. The only thing is that David doesn't get along with Sam or John and vice versa. After realizing it wasn't such a good idea to invite him, I told David that it might be a better idea to go with his girlfriend, but apparently she wants him to go with his friends. \nI want to avoid any awkward situations. Should I tell David that he really should just go with his girlfriend or find another group of friends?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The story is more complicated than the title indicates, I'll try to keep it brief.\n\nA few months ago, my best friend drunk texts me that she's interested in me. I tell her I feel the same way, but there are some complicating factors going on on her end. We're in this weird limbo for a few months, and then about a month ago she tells me that she thinks it doesn't feel right and wants to just be friends.\n\nI was pretty hurt over it (especially because she brought it up). We stayed in contact for a few weeks (against the advice of all my other friends). One night I drunk texted her that I'm still in love with her. This was about two weeks ago.\n\nShe didn't reply. She's always good about replying to texts, so this is definitely intentional. I texted several apologies the next day, as it was obviously a drunken outburst borne of hurt feelings and frustration, and asked if she could just ignore it. She eventually texted me back a few days later, and her tone was very cold and distant, as she is known to do when she is pissed off.\n\nI give her a few days and then tell her that I'm sad that things are off, and I hope that things can go back to normal. No response. Eventually she texted me a couple nights ago, asking me something random. I replied and asked her an equally innocuous question. No response.\n\nCan someone explain to me what is going on? How long is this going to continue for, we're at 2 weeks now. Before all this happened, I told her that I was still struggling with it and she said that she couldn't imagine not having me as a friend. She has called me her best friend on numerous occasions.\n\nIs she suddenly just done being my friend? Do I just stop talking to her until she cools off? Will she cool off?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "However, I wonder if it's worth it.\n\nApparently certification is obligatory in Texas, so in order to even apply for the job, you will need to be certified and registered prior to applying (at least that's what I was told by a Walgreens technician).\n\nLooking around I see books for $40 as a review for the test, $125 for the test, and a recurrent $40 every 2 years to maintain your registry status. Whilst the pay is around $9~$14 (I'm assuming you get $14 only if you have worked for a long period of time). Oh, and taking the test and getting registered seems to take almost if not over 2 months since you have to apply for the exam, take it, get results back, apply for registration, and then 2~3 weeks for it to be processed.\n\nThis makes me wonder if it's even worth the trouble.\n\nI graduated from a university and have a bachelor's degree in Biology with a sad 2.5 GPA which hinders my ability to find a job in my field (or I suppose I lack a good understanding of my field, I've only worked as a research assistant before and that was work-study).\n\nI thought of applying for a pharm tech position because I want to get a good understanding of what it entails to be a pharmacist from a hands on point of view. I considered the possibility of continuing my education (after accumulating some experience since with just the GPA will make me a laughing stock for the registrar office) in pharmacy, but question whether I am up for the job.\n\nDon't get me wrong though, I actually do need a job. 20k in student loans isn't easy to pay off without some dough. Granted, my parents paid off most of it already but now I get to pay my parents.\n\nI'm mostly hoping for advice, or you know, a job if you happen to have one laying around.\n\nI'm also looking at research assistant jobs (I've mostly worked with budding yeast) but haven't received any replies yet or the job postings require experience I don't have.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This week I was de-cluttering my closet and making piles of clothes to donate and give to my sister. My sister is an avid biker, swimmer, runner (while we have the same body type, she's much more muscular than I am.) I'm 5'10\" and I wear between a 10-14 depending on the cut/brand of clothing. I'm in my 3rd semester as a PhD student and I've gained 20 lbs since beginning my program. My \"fat\" clothes are tight on me and seeing the pile of clothes \"that don't fit me anymore\" was very discouraging. During October I made some changes to my diet - avoiding fast food & cooking my own meals at home, drinking water instead of soda. I also take my pups for a walk every night (between 10-15 minutes). I've always been a stress eater and my \"comfort foods\" are gluten free bread and pasta, cheese, and oatmeal with granola. I drive 2 hours round trip to school 3 x week. My job requires me to sit and work on the computer. In addition to school (which is stressful enough!) I've had a lot of things happen in my life - high turn over at work, close friends getting sick, family member pass away, not having enough money to pay bills. I take an anti-depressant (since 2006). I love reading the success stories on r/loseit and I feel encouraged to start making more changes like taking longer walks and keeping carb consumption in moderation. Looking forward to being a success story, too.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So...Where do I begin? \n\nI am 15 years old, 5'11, 160 pounds, and I really like a girl...(less relevant) but, I am too nervous to ask anything because I feel like every guy is better for her than I am and that compared to them, I'm nothing. I'm funny, and I know I look good (on many occasions called gorgeous) but...I just cant see it myself, It may be true..but I cant see it.\n\nI dont play a sport for my city, I dont play high in sport leauges, I dont do anything really phenomenal (other than..Caring and..I am an expert in Java) So, to me I can't see why she should take me over, a great sports player...And I am deathly afraid that if I do ask her out, she would much rather prefer another guy over me...I constantly think \"Oh, this guy looks way better than me..\" Even though people tell me that it is simply not true...I dont know why im like this and I need help with that...\n\nThanks Guys", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My [27M] first date with [23F] tonight, we met online and texted for 4 days before meeting a lot. Lots of similar interests, good conversation both texting and in person. We exchanged pictures before meeting and we discussed her coming back to my house and cuddling to a movie after the bar and she said yes possibly.\n\nSo tonight, we had a few drinks at the bar, stayed for 1.5 hours, and she was getting a lot of texts on her phone, she said her room mates were cooking enchiladas and were being very persuasive for her to go home and eat with them...\n\nSo she bailed on the cuddling/movie, I asked if she wanted to hangout again and she said \"Yes definitely and we should watch Lord of the Rings together since we both love it.\" I walked her to her car, and got a quick kiss on the lips, no tongue.\n\nMixed signals it seems like to me right? Could go either way, her liking me or not?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let be start off by saying that I'm a positive person. I'm pretty much always in a good mood, always positive, but I worry a lot. It's not healthy I know, but it keeps me on my toes.\n\nMy boyfriend has issues, a lot of mental problems, depression mostly, and the fact that he cannot believe a single compliment. Even from me. He deserves compliments, I compliment on his uni work (he's doing physics), and other general things.\n\nOnto myself. I don't like being alone, I hate it. A relationship for me is something rewarding, but it's also my safety net. I rely on whoever my partner is to make me feel safe. Just being in a relationship makes be feel safer.\n\nAnd my partner helps me with a lot. I'm forgetful; so he helps me remember, I have terrible work ethic when it comes to study; so he encourages me.\n\nIn return I work (sneakily) on his mental health and encourage him a lot. His happiness is paramount to me, and so is his well-being.\n\nRecently he's been talking about how he might be better alone, and letting me know that he hopes that we will be friends no matter what happens in the future.\n\nHe says that he doesn't want this to end, and I believe him, I truly do. But if it does I am terrified beyond all other. I don't know how he's going to do if we aren't us. I know I'll fall to pieces and such. Everything is going so good right now I'm terrified about the future.\n\nI don't want this to end, I want to help him, and I want us to grow together. But I don't know if that will happen, and I'm just full of uncertainty.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My Gf and I have been dating for as year as of the 7th of July. I moved in with her about 2 months into dating and it was good for a while. We were really good friends for about 5 years but we were both dating people at the time and it just didn't go anywhere. But now we are together and things haven't been going as planned.\n\nWe would always fight, make-up, and do it all over again. A lot of the problems were with my self consciousness and anger issues. I have worked a lot of them out to try to have a good relationship with her. We are extremely happy with each other about a week and a half per month.\n\nSo now, our lease at her apartment is up and we are renting a house together. We were both really excited about it. We move in on the 29th of july and our lease ended on the 8th of July. So there is a 3 week gap and we are forced to stay with our respective parents during the time. This is because we have two dogs. The dogs can't stay at my dad's house, and I cant stay at her dad's house. So we have to be separated. \n\nThis is where the problem started. I would always want to see her but it just didn't seem like she ever wanted to see me at all. Then, the other night it all came out. Turns out she stopped caring about our relationship a while ago and she just didn't care at all anymore. She says that she loves me, and I know she does. So we decide that moving in together again wouldn't be the best decision. \n\nWe are starting to date again and it is going awesome! it is very odd but something happened that made us fall in love again. I guess my question here is, what happened? Why are we so happy again when all that really happened was we decided not to move in together right away when the lease starts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Happened at ~5am yesterday. Sorry for my englando, I am no loco.\n\nSo Sainsbury has the \"Starbucks Caffe Latte\" on sale, and during the past week I decided to buy two of these bad boys. I drank the first one on Monday, and bought the second one on Saturday evening, popped it open at 5am Sunday. I finished it, forgot about finishing it and saw that I had forgotten to throw out the one from Monday. It was half full, and that's why I thought that it was the newer one. I took the largest sip of coffee in my life, swallowed it for some reason and insta-puked on my keyboard and pants. \n\nImagine old sour milk, kept in a warm environment, week old, mixed with some instant coffee and added suggar, with some dark mold on top. Put a straw in that bitch. Sip it. Swallow it. \n\nTried running to the toilet, but the lizard escaped for the 2nd time, all over the corridor carpet.\n\nI live in a dorm with 4 chicks and 3 guys. The girls are clean freaks, one of them is vegan, others are weird like that as well. My puke has the weirdest, most disgusting smell you can ever imagine, and it's stanking up the whole corridor. After spraying the whole area with some random fabreeze-like shit, for some reason I can smell it even in the kitchen area, which is literally on the other side of the building. \n\nNot happy about the ruined pants, acid filled keyboard and the smell, but I expect that this will trigger some vegans in the house, so moral of the story: there's maybe always an upside in many situations.\nBut then again I'm reading all these stories about mold related deaths and thinking I might be dead soon.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the situation: my dad runs his own neuropsych practice out of a small office. He rarely sees patients and my parents are the only employees, so cleanliness and organization in the office space has never been a priority. However, after years of leaving piles of journal publications and research documents on the floor, on top of filing cabinets, on top of every table, etc., it's gotten out of control. It's a huge issue, but my dad claims that he doesn't have time to deal cleaning everything up.\n\nI'm going home for a few weeks and thought I could help fix this mess. Does anyone have advice/tricks on how to start the organization process or what some good end goals would be?\n\nIn short, I'm looking for a way to organize and store a ton of papers in an office with limited space and full filing cabinets. I could easily digitize the information, but it would be best to keep hard copies too.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My story: I had to go down to the freezer on the barge, which is inhabited by pretty much a few people, to do a spot inventory on the food. As you can imagine, I forgot to secure the door open while I was inside it counting. \n\nSure enough, I hear it close behind me and panic sets in. Most doors have a lever on the inside to deal with this specific situation. This door had one that was not functional. It was later explained to me that you pretty much have to run full force into the door to get it to pop open.\n\nAnyways, after 10 minutes (maybe? time's funny when you're trapped in a signal-less box), one of the cooks came by and opened the door. Luckily for me, food was arriving this day (at this time specifically). Had it not been, it would have been 4 or 5 hours before someone MIGHT have come by.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "OK, first a little background: I run the light and sound for my school's productions. I know every little bit of technology in the entire theater and then some. Right now, we are in tech week (the stressful week before a show full of rehearsals and crying) for the annual dance show.\n\nOn to the story: After a few practices of the opening act, the directors call together a cast meeting to map out what will be done today. So I think to myself: \"I have about 15 minutes to do whatever. Might as well listen to some music.\" Now earlier this year, I learned a trick to route all sound directly into the booth and only to the booth. So I plug in my phone and put on my favorite playlist, accurately titled \"Guilty Pleasures\". It is riddled with everything from Rude Boy to various K-Pop songs. I put it on shuffle and start jamming out, knowing that my foolproof method was keeping embarrassment at bay. 2 minutes into Fergalicious, I hear one of the directors shouting: \"AGELFDUDE23, WOULD YOU PLEASE TURN OFF THAT MUSIC?!?\". I then learned that God has a funny sense of humor, as one of the monitors was left on. Everyone had heard every song. After processing what I had just heard, I rip out the aux cord and hide from sight to avoid further embarrassment. I am never using that damn thing again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yes, I managed to break my own heart. When I was in,a committed relationship (lasted 13 months) somewhere along the lines we agreed to be friends with benefits if we broke up. We waited about a month before we did anything though. No, I wasn't completely over him at the time we started this but about 2 months in I was. I only saw him as a friend and fuck buddy. \n\nHe told me twice, on 2 separate occasions that he liked me and was thinking about getting back together. The first time, I said no. The more recent time, I told him I was down if he was. But we both needed time to think so its been about 3 weeks- 1 month and nothing.\n\nso last night, I slept at his place and we had sex. I had never slept with him before and when we cuddled, I got mad butterflies and it scared me, so today I called everything off. He decided it was time to move on.\n\nI'm sad cuz I didn't actually explain to him why I didn't want to have sex anymore... And I also haven't told anybody that we've been having sex still. (its been about 7 months since we broke up).\n\nI just needed a vent and maybe some advice on what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I ran into a girl i met a couple years back in 1st year of university. Only had a couple conversations with her back then so we weren't too close. We take the same train to work so we often end up chatting on the morning rides there and sometimes the way back. Usually fun conversations, a few somewhat awkward silences here and there.\n\nFrom what I've gathered, shes a sweet nice girl and super close with her family. We've also texted back and forth and I've gotten some good responses. Though I'm not sure if it's just her personality and if she's like that with her other male friends.\n\nI think she cares what I think of her, she checks her reflection on the train window and adjusts her hair when she thinks I'm looking away. But thats probably just a girl thing?\n\nAlso once she texted something slightly negative about someone she knew (whom I dont even know) and afterwards she immediately texted, \"i sound ungrateful right now! im not usually like that, k?\" \n\nSo last night I finally texted her at like 9pm asking if she wanted to grab a drink at this bar thats pretty close to where we live. She replied saying she couldnt tonight cuz she was in the middle of doing photo editting for a friend and her mom just made food for her. I said \"no biggie, another time then\" She followed up saying \"yea let's go next time\" with a smiley face. \n\nCan't tell if it's just an excuse. My buddy told me that if a girl doesnt specifically suggest another day it's a terrible sign and she probably doesn't rly want to go. I think there might still be hope but I haven't dated anyone for a year so I'm not very sharp on this kinda thing.\n\nWhat do you guys think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is a wall of text, so I apologise in advance. \n\nMy 12 year old fox terrier (standard size) has had a nagging cough since March of this year. At first it seemed a random cough and we chalked it up to old age. \n\nRecently it has become more persistant. We can't seem to find a pattern, except it does seem to happen more often after he poops. It doesn't seem to matter if his motions are soft or hard. He has always strained when pooping, mainly in his neck and back legs. \n\nRarely, he will cough up a thick white phlegm. This is not common, but its disturbing when he does. \n\nWe have taken him to our Vet, and they did X-rays, blood tests and a urine sample. Confirmed he does not have kennel cough, cancer, a collapsed airway or any tumors or growths in his throat. We are given a course of antibiotics (7 day) that slightly lessened the cough. $900 later we are told he is perfectly healthy and sent home. This was in June, and ever since it is clear he is not perfectly healthy. \n\nHe is an indoor and outdoor dog. He sleeps, and eats mainly in the house. He spends some of the day and does his business outside. We have one other dog (field spaniel) and two cats (one short hair, one long hair). The other animals are 10, 6 and 4 years old respectively. They have been around since before the cough so we dont believe it is their fur or dander he is reacting too, especially as the cough is not as common when he is indoors. \n\nBasically, I would like to know if anyone else has experienced this with a pet? What was the outcome? What should I be asking Vet's to check for? I am considering taking him to the Veterinary School at SydUni, simply because I cant afford another $900 only to be sent away being told he is fine. Still, I hate seeing him this way. \n\nThank you for any help or suggestions you can offer. Also, I do apologise for any spelling or grammar mistakes, its been a long day.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My dad divorced my mum when I was 12. I stayed with him every weekend until he met his current wife when I was 15 and then stopped because she said it was painful for her to see me due to her previous miscarriages.\n\nWithout saying a word, he stopped seeing me and moved away and got married. He also reversed he vasectomy and had two sons, now 14 and 6 years old. \n\nI still visit my nan on my dad's side and she believes the estrangement is all his wife's doing (and obviously his fault too). She told me my eldest brother knows I exist and might be interested in meeting me one day. I look at all their Facebook pages regularly, so I know what they look like. I'm just conscious that I'm likely nothing more than a strange 30 year old woman to him right now.\n\nMy nan is now 81 years old and my only connection to them. I've considered contacting my eldest brother, but I realise it'd be a bit much to handle when he's under 18. Also, his mum will likely do anything she can to sabotage any relationship I hope to have with them.\n\nWhat do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Been seeing this girl since November, she is so much fun, absolutely gorgeous and very well-intentioned...but I think she's just fucking lazy. I'll ask her out and get turned down because her parents won't let her, she has work, she has uni or she's with other friends, to the point where I've stopped trying.\n\nPart of the issue is me, because I'm too spiteful and refuse to be the one always asking. I asked two friends out to lunch today and just didn't bother asking my own girlfriend, simply because there was like an 80% chance she'd say no for whatever reason and I'd get pissed off.\n\nI tried to break up with her a few months ago for the same reason, really, and I've had words with her about it since too. I know she cares, I know that I mean a lot to her and she doesn't want to lose me...but she just doesn't show it at all [when she's not with me]. When we're together everything is really good, great even. We have heaps of fun and clearly love each other's company. But once we part ways, it might be for the whole week despite us living like a 20 minute drive away, and 90% of the time we'll only see each other if I keep asking.\n\nI've had this issue for a while but have told myself I'll wait until the end of August since by then we'll have had a few weeks with her parents out of the picture to see if the relationship actually changes, but I don't know if I can even hang in that much longer. I asked her to come over on Thursday since I hadn't seen her for a week and had been away - she was going to be at work that night and my place is closer than hers from there - but no, she was \"too tired\" to stay with me.\n\nSince I've brought it up before and nothing's really changed, should I even go through the same speech again? I want to love this girl but I just spend so much of my time being pissed off.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Though this might be a question for r/jobs, it also seems to fall in the relationship category since I'm unsure how to relate to my coworkers now. I've been on contract for the past 2.5 years. My contract was recently extended to November so I thought I had a bit more time left. I was just told that my last day will be one month from now. After processing the news for the day I'm unsure the best way to proceed socially and even professionally for now. My team had about 5 people and I was the only contract. We all got on. Hung out outside of work. One mentored me weekly for a time. My boss is another story. He came on new, right when I was about to transition from contract to hire, and stopped that process, kept me contracted and I'm well sure it's he who terminated me early. I have contempt for him. Do I now go on as normal and carry myself with the dignity of a professional? Do I continue to attend the weekly team meeting even though my work is being poised for a handoff to a new hire who will replace me? Or do I keep true to the understanding that I no longer add value and begin to mentally cut off from my department and do my least while putting my all into a job search? I know that's a bad idea for my reputation. When I know something is not going to work out in a relationship the fastest way to get over it and start anew for me is an immediate break, let the person down, then no contact. I figure that's not the best in business but it's what I'm inclined to do to move on--cease communication, possibly no goodbye letter or one to very select people. New to business and figuring out the best way to manage the exit. How much will my actions here matter in the future?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know I'm young and I have a lot to learn about relationships and love entirely, but I know her for about 12 years. I really do have feelings for her. \n\nGot really close to and at a party we were just chilling so now one or two friends are asking me what are we...and honestly I can't say myself\n\nIt feels like I'm in the friend-zone, but I don't want to classify what we have between us as something so shallow..,because at times it feels like we're a couple(to me, but I tend to over analyze things a lot) . \n\nThis post is mainly because recently she talks to me a little....different than she usually does (playful ily's, kiss emojis) \n\nWhat should I do? And what you think I should do, should it be in person or text?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: We've been in an on/off relationship since he first broke up with me early this year. He suggested that we try a LDR the day before he moved across the country. Now it's a month later, and I flew to this town to visit him (he paid for the tickets 2 weeks ago).\n\nProblem: I'm leaving tomorrow afternoon, but he's still preoccupied with work. He's also emotionally distant (no physical contact at all, not even sitting closely together) and we hardly talk to each other. The only time I feel close to him is when we have sex, because he'll initiate by being more romantic. He also introduced me as his \"friend\".\n\nI need to maintain a friendly relationship with him for other reasons, but I feel so lonely right now. I know we're not going to last. What should I do for the rest of the trip to maintain my sanity?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for close to two years and in a few months we're going to colleges pretty far away from each other. He's my best friend and I'm in love with him, but we both think we're going to hold the other back in college and end up with a bad break up if we try to stay together. \nSo our plan is to part ways peacefully when it's time to leave and remain close. We have both agreed to do our own things when we're at school and when we are home together to be with each other. \nDoes this sound like a good plan? We'd so much rather have to say goodbye before we're ready to split than try to stick it out and hate each other. Is this going to work?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and I have been married for three years. He's my best friend and a great man. However, there's one issue we cannot seem to work through.\n\nI've struggled with anger issues my entire life and it's been an uphill battle that I both acknowledge and strive to change. When my husband and I first got married I was still very young and immature and made a lot of mistakes as far as handling marital issues went. (Over dramatic, screaming, snooping, just all around crappy immature stuff.) \n\nMy husband addressed all above issues and over the years I have proactively changed for the better for both myself and for the sake of our relationship. I don't yell anymore, I don't snoop, I try to be understanding and give my husband the benefit of the doubt, ect.\n\nBut, now I feel he's taking advantage of my past mistakes and using it to benefit his own agenda. For example, my husband had to work late, like excessively late with a female coworker who I'm not too found of. Of course, without knowing he had to work late, I tried to figure out where he was and if he was okay. When he finally came home he basically told me that he didn't let me know he had to work late \"because he knew I'd get mad and he didn't want to deal with it.\" \n\nThat's basically the gist of his excuses any time I inquire or get upset, \"Well I didn't do X because I know you'll do Y\" despite me not showing signs of Y for over a year.\n\nI know that it takes time to adjust and to forgive and forget, but at this point being accused of behaviors I haven't exhibited in a LONG time without giving me the chance to show him that I have been able to progress just makes me want to act the way he's assuming I'm going to act. \n\nI'm at a loss. Please help!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am not afraid of the part of operating a two ton vehicle, that's easy. I'm terrified of others driving. I'm a safe driver (do I sound like a douche?) I see other's texting, eating, even changing.. idiots driving drunk. \n\nI would find driving enjoyable if I was the only person who had a car. IF I had my way, I'd take all of your cars and I'd be the only one in the world with one. Heh, :p. But as of now, I find it freaking terrifying! I only drive to work and close places by. It seems to me that I'm the only one not use to it. People are so relaxed, calmed. It's like driving it's a second nature to them. When I get behind the wheel, I don't necessarily freak out but I just get paranoid that I might die because some idiot wasn't' careful or paying attention. \n\nI don't know. I think i'm a weirdo. I've been driving for 3 years now, had close experiences to crashing. The first day mom took me out to teach me some driver skipped his stop and he was a few inches away from hitting my side. I almost shat my pants.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my boyfriend for almost six months now and we're very happy. We sleep together most nights, talk about the future frequently, and commonly express how lucky we feel to be together and how glad we are that we're together. As of right now, I feel like he could be on track to be my life partner. (Maybe it's delusional, but I like to think that its a matter of comfort--a lot of the reason that we're together and so serious is that we're just comfortable, and we strangely enough just fit together.) \n\nHowever, it's been nagging on my brain: My boyfriend still hasn't said that he loves me. I know he cares about me. I can see it in the way he treats me and in the immense amount of time he spends with me. I'm not particularly UPSET that he doesn't said it, because I'm simply happy to be happy and to be with someone who for some reason wants to be with me, but I'm just wondering, reddit, how long did you wait for that magical word? And how long do you think I should wait?\n\n(I would just say it first, but I want it to be a special moment, and I dont want it to be an awkward \"oh, I don't feel that way yet\" or a pitty/pressured \"I love you.\")", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Story time! Back in the summer after 8th grade, I hung out with my group of friends everyday for the whole summer. There was this girl in the group and I really liked her. Like I had the biggest and dumbest crush on her. I was only 13 so I didn't know shit, but I was thinking she's perfect for me, I gotta marry her and all this dumb stuff. The puppy love was so strong I wanted to be a part of her life and I wanted her to be a part of my life. I never had the courage to ask her out, and we went to different high schools. Eventually we stopped talking but during high school I never really liked anyone else. Every other girl felt dull compared to her. I still get nostalgic thinking about her and what would've been different if I had the balls to ask her out. Anyway I'm going to a party this Friday and I heard she's coming. I honestly don't know what to do to so this goes great and eventually ends up in a relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been in a relationship for 6 months now. It started out great but lately things have been a little rocky. She is extremely critical of me (how I dress, if I say something grammatically incorrect (she's always correcting me!), my posture, my taste in music, if I blow bubbles with my gum in an audience of people, if I accidentally let the door close on her if I'm walking through it first, if if i dont cuddle with her in the morning when i'm trying to sleep). I'm a lot more thick-skinned and calm. She on the other hand is extremely sensitive and emotional, and doesn't take criticism well. So it's as if she expects me to be extremely sensitive to her while she doesn't afford me the same consideration and sensitivity. She has anxiety issues and has walked out on me from places because I said I couldn't stay with her the whole weekend due to work I needed to get done. She can go from very happy to crisis on seemingly minor issues. She always complains about her weight (she's about 40 lbs. overweight) but not once have I said anything less than she's beautiful. I've never told her she needed to lose weight. Tonight I told her, in general terms not even directed at her, that people who complain about their weight, or who are overweight, should stop complaining all the time and take steps and do something about it because at least on some level weight and health is in their control. You don't like it? DO something about it. She got extremely upset, and hung up on me. Was I being insensitive?", "role": "user" } ]

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