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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok so to start here's a brief synopsis of my past relationships: \n\nmy first official one was about a year ago she [20/F] (I was 21 at the time) was shy and lived in the next state over, and didn't have a car but worked with me to find good times to meet and I made an effort to visit her regularly. It was both our first real relationship so things didn't go very far in the physical department. when the fall semester started we were able to meet more frequently and I though things had been going well but suddenly it ended with her saying that she doesn't have romantic feelings for me after some introspection on her part. I reacted badly and too emotionally (crying and asking why, similar bs) mostly due that being my first real breakup. \n\nMy second relationship went better [21/f], we hung out a bit during summer (we lived closer and met more often and played some online games frequently) and got comfortable being close to one another but when college started back up I barely saw her. I tried every other week to set aside time for us but she consistently replied that she was too busy with work and school, I told her we could meet any time I wasn't in class but she rarely (once in 2 months) worked with me to find a good time. At this point I became rather dejected but kept it to myself and felt like she either didn't really like me and just wasn't telling me or I had done something wrong, but she said I hadn't done anything. So after a few weeks and only texting, with her changing the subject every time I tried to tell her how I was feeling and going out of my way to make time for us even if it was minimal and non romantic I broke up with her by basically saying that if she couldn't put any more effort into the relationship than she already was that we should just be friends. I was mad at her but I kept it to myself.\n\nI feel I should also say that I'm a high functioning autistic (NLD/NVLD) who has adapted well but still has a lot of trouble interpreting body language and nonverbal cues.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, this girl and I have been texting for three months now, we follow each other on social media and we started talking on the phone in the last month.\n\nI have definitely a crush on her, and I know she likes me back. We have shared lots of deep personal issues and we have started to rely more on each other for advice rather than in our respective friends. We could have been dating for a while by now, but she stood me up every single time we tried meeting in real life.\n\nShe was heavily bullied at school and is diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder (GAD). She has lots of issues regarding her body, her sexuality and her feelings. She thinks she's so ugly she doesn't deserve appearing on pictures, is a virgin and only kissed a guy once, when she tried getting shitfaced in order to overcome her panic. I understand her and I have been really patient and supportive, and she says she's never felt so good with any other guy. However, I want to know if I should try to do something more than just telling her how wonderful she is. I feel as if she really cannot make it to the face-to-face stage, and can only be herself behind a screen. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So like many others, this happened last year but I am still mortified as our office just recently had a congratulatory card recently that reminded me of the tragedy. \n\nI work in a corporate office building, and many times theres a designated person that walks around getting all the employees to sign a happy birthday, get well, congratulations card. \nOne day I was extremely busy with audits, reports, reviews, and the girl designated for this card signing approaches me. As I am multi-tasking, she in her ninja ways sneaked up and whispered, \"hey sign this\". without any saying anything else. I didnt take a very good look at the card, and opened it up, and didnt really read or even glance what other peoples comments are and what they wrote, the girl asking me to sign the card didnt say what its for. \nI signed Happy Birthday! Enjoy - My name, gave it back and went about my work.\n\n15 minutes pass by and I get a minute to breathe, I overheard one of my staff members talk to another, saying, its so sad.. I hope they are doing ok... it was then that I noticed I fucked up. I immediately got up and asked them what they are talking about.. and they told me so and so's mother passed away. \n\nIt hit me... I just wrote happy birthday on a condolences card... \n\nI told a few specific people in the office hoping they would relay my apologies to the person I decimated with my insensitivity, but I never worked up the courage to apologize to that person face to face. No one has said anything since, but I am sure they hate me deep down.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We broke up a few days before christmas and I have been very upset and sad since then. Basically immediately after the breakup he started seeing someone new which really hurt me of course cause I had hope we would get back together. Since then I have tried seeing other people. Things always seem to be going well at first but then I feel like the other person doesn't really care that much or want to date me. \n\nI feel extremely lonely and miss being in a relationship. I really miss the companionship, and I know I should become comfortable with being on my own but it really sucks and I feel miserable. Especially when I think about my ex and how he is doing everything we used to do together with someone else. Then this just makes me feel worse cause no one seems to want to do anything with me. I feel like people and especially my ex are almost laughing at me that I haven't found anyone new. And it seriously seems like everyone else is in a happy relationship while I am sitting here preparing to be alone forever. \n\nI know I shouldn't be trying to find happiness in a relationship, I just don't want to end up alone forever.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A while ago my Dad asked me to use the laptop to print something out for him for work. I didn't know what the website it was on was called so I just went into the history to find it there. There were a few porn sites like Pornhub, YouPorn etc there, but that didn't bother me. My Dad works nights a lot so he regularly takes the laptop with him, so I just assumed he would visit the sites then. There were also some of those \"HOT SINGLES IN YOUR AREA!!\" type things but I thought they were just some of those crappy ads that redirect you on porn sites. I deleted the history just in case it ever came up in the search box while other people were around, and I forgot about it until today. A family friend's computer is broken so she asked to come around later to use ours to print something out. I said sure, and checked the history just in case, but I found a massive list of cheating sites visited a week ago. There must have been about 11 or 12 different sited visited one after the other, sites like Ashley Madison, Easysex, along a load of others with names like \"MILFbang\" and \"Localfuck\". There's no way that this many sites could be the result of some scummy ads. I deleted the history again, but I now wish I'd at least taken a screenshot first. I k ow this must be my Dad because I don't use the laptop unless I have to do something for a family member (I use my phone for Reddit, YouTube etc), I've never seen my Mum even touch the laptop because she's even more tech illiterate than my dog, and my Sister doesn't even live with us anymore. They've been together for 28 years, and the've always seemed pretty happy to me. They were thinking about getting a divorce a about 5 years ago, but I don't know what that was about, they decided to give it another chance and they've been fine ever since. I don't know what to do, any advice would be really helpful.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi *\n\nI've removed butter, ice cream and almost all bread, cereals and pasta successfully from my diet, while increasing my consumption of vegetables and whole foods. I have not yet found a good substitute for chocolate. I have decent self control and I've tried removing it from my diet, but, when I do this, I continue to crave it (even after not taking it for multiple weeks). I don't want to continue craving it, so do you have any suggestions for addressing this problem? I am more interested in substitutes than in eating less chocolate, because I still get the cravings if I simply eat less of it, so is there some healthy substitute that is compatible with getting thinner that you could recommend?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in a fairly new relationship with a great man. He's not perfect but neither am I and for the most part I think that things are going very well. We laugh a lot together and I definitely miss him when we're apart. In a short time he's become an important part of my life that I don't want to lose. \n\nAll that being said... the last 2 months or so we have only had sex probably 4 or 5 times. I know that for a lot of people who have been together a long time that wouldn't be unusual but for a relatively young couple who have only been together 6 months I feel like we should be doing it much more often. I am always the one who initiates and he often will huff and act like it's a chore but give in to make me happy. Last night it had been 2 weeks and we were finally about to be intimate again but he wasn't able to stay aroused. I was mortified but tried not to make a big deal about it because I didn't want him to be embarrassed either. At this point I'm really starting to think that he's just not sexually attracted to me. He's a British expat (I live in Texas) and doesn't know many people here so I'm thinking more and more that he's with me just so that he's not alone on the weekend and that he may not have sexual or romantic feelings about me at all. I can feel myself becoming more self conscious and withdrawing from him but I don't know how to stop it. If I try to speak to him about it he just rolls his eyes and tells me that I'm over analyzing everything. \n\nI know enough about men to logically understand that this may not be about me at all but might be about stress or something else that he's dealing with on his own but I can't help that every time he rejects me it feels like a slap in the face. A sexless relationship isn't something that I'm willing to consider long term so I want to nip this in the bud before that's what we're left with. Any advice is appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "gf is 25f im 29m. Been dating 1 year 4 months. Moved in together at 9 months Originally posted in /r/childfree but after reading through the comments it sounds like i need a more objective opinion than a group of people who specifically don't want kids ever.\n\nAfter we had our talk about kids and we both kinda realized that our relationship was likely doomed she has gone out all night long and didnt bother calling me or anything to come pick her up. This is not behavior that she ever does so I kinda got suspicious and looked at her text messages on her phone. I now know she is not telling me the whole truth about what went on the two nights out and she is definitely texting a guy she met at the bar the first night out.\n\n I just find it shocking that she can so quickly start looking for another guy. I am still trying to heal and recover from this relationship possibly being lost.\n\nWhere do i find the strength to end this relationship and how the hell do i cope with the moments of anguish and despair I am going to feel throughout the next month?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So let me preface this by saying hubs is a great guy. \n\nA little background: We've been together 5 years, living together for 4, married for a year and a half. We are both professionals in our fields and it's completely normal for him to work 55+ hours a week. My job is a little more manageable at 40 hours a week, but I also take on clients privately (would like to work for myself someday) and serve on a Board for a Not-for-Profit, which brings me more than on par with the hours he works. \n\nSo I get it, we're both busy, we're both stressed out a lot of the time, and the last thing anyone wants to do after work is housework, but I can't stand a mess, and Hubs is super stingy (hates ordering in, a maid would be out of the question), so I end up cooking 6 nights a week and taking on the bulk of the chores.\n\nMy problem is that we've HAD this conversation before. He's come home and seen me crying from exhaustion on the couch and we've talked about him pitching in more. He'll cook one or two meals, and then do a few chores, and things will be great for a few days/weeks but then the novelty wears off and he's back to expecting me to do all the cooking/cleaning.\n\nI've made a chore list for him in the past, but he won't exactly do things up to the standard I'm used to (his mother would not approve either, her house is immaculate), and when I try to show him a different way of doing it, it always ends up a tiff (I'm partially to blame, my patience lately has been non-existent). Ultimately I end up taking the chore on again in the end. \n\nWe plan on trying for children later in the year and I can't even imagine what kind of stresses that will bring if this isn't sorted out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "They are loud. All the fucking time. If they are in their room they have their music on and it is all the way up.\n\nIf it's not music, their TV is literally ALL THE WAY UP. Like, imagine movie theater speakers in a 10' by 14' room.\n\nI live in a suite style dorm. The walls are normal drywall type walls. Not cinder blocks like a normal dorm. \n\nThey have motherfucking subwoofers or whatever. My room shakes.\n\nThey play music from 10am till 10pm. Or 2am on the weekends. I lose sleep because of them and then I'm tired all day. But I can't nap because they are fucking loud.\n\nI wish they would fail out of school. Like, now.\n\nI complain to the desk downstairs but there is no noise ordinance since it's a state school and it's run by the state and not the borough or some weird shit. \n\nI have written around 10 noise violation complaints but that has literally done nothing.\n\nI have never hated something or someone as much as I hate them.\n\nI'm doing bad in school because of them. I failed a class because I never slept before my 9:30am class. How is this okay? I've complained to many people about them and no one has the authority to do anything. I pay just as much to live here as they do. Why do I have to suffer? \n\nSome people aren't at school just to party.\n\nI'm exhausted, I'm stressed, and I don't know what to do.\n\nThanks for reading.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a 2 year old Shiba Inu male. We recently offered to foster a 2 year old pit female. They are around the same size, although she outweighs him (even though shes a tad underweight). After a rough start (he snapped and growled at her when meeting) they seem to be playing.\n\nHowever there are some behaviors she exhibits that have me concerned. When playing he likes to be chased and she will chase. Usually she will stop when he turns on her and stand there staring. Sometimes however she will start jumping on him, trying to roll him and then force him down and when he starts snapping she will growl. At this point I will break it up.\n\nShe will also follow him everywhere and sometimes try to put her head on his back. He will snap at her when she does this.\n\nIs there something I can do to help them play better together?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I have some neighbors. They are not bad people per se, but they have a few habits I'd like to break as they annoy the living shit out of me and everyone else in the vicinity.\n\n-They have an ever-changing array of SUVs parked in the driveway, the grass, and at odd angles in the street. There are something like 10 adults in the house and there's a car for each of them most of the time.\nParking on the grass is obviously against county code, but a complaint gets a code guy out in oh, say....two months and usually in the middle of the day when they're all at work so whoever is home just pleads innocence and that's the end of that. \n\n-Apparently, they have some kind of law that each SUV shall be equipped with a sound system capable of producing bass reaching into the infrasonic spectrum. If they are in one of the vehicles, the music is on and the bass is rattling my windows. Washing the car? Turn up the bass. Sitting on the front porch? Bass! Car in the driveway and nobody's even outside? BASS! I and others have spoken to them about this on more than one occasion, but they seem to forget these conversations after a month or so and go back to cranking the oompa music.\n\n-They also drive like idiots even though we're in a residential area with no sidewalks and the streets are often full of adults and kids. They've been talked to about this, but again with the short/selective memory.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About 2 years ago, I started dating my current girlfriend. She was amazing and I really like her, but I also hung out with other females alone as well. (never anything sexual and did not have feelings for them) She was not happy about this, and I didn't know it made her unhappy, so after she told me to stop doing that, I did. That was my mistake in not asking her if it was okay for me to do that. I apologized, and she forgave me. Things were okay after that.\n\nHowever, she was confiding in her mom about this situation. She knew what happened for that and how I was supposedly cheating on her daughter with them two even though I wasn't, and now a year later, still brings it up, and it makes my GF really unhappy. It has gotten to the point to where I don't know what to do anymore. Her mom constantly doubts what I'm doing and where I am, even though there is proof of exactly what I am doing and that I have never cheated on her daughter. What do I even do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some background:\nMy mother is 10 years divorced and has no relationship with her family (who lives across the country). She is very much alone in this world. She has been diagnosed with histrionic personality disorder.\n\n---\n\nEvery time I have tried to leave home or start a relationship, my mother works to do everything in her power to irritate my partner or threaten me to return. If I leave the house to take a call or meet someone, she is suddenly \"concerned for my safety\" and will proceed to blow up my phone and threaten a wellness check.\n\n---\n\nI don't know how to get out of this situation, it has driven me into a deep depression and I have begun to get extremely angry. It is destroying my very few relationships and has made me feel very alone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because my gf knows my reddit account. My girlfriend lives with shitty roommates. They antagonize her, they bitch about cleaning the living room of the apartment (I've been over numerous times, it's not dirty at all), are hypocritical as fuck about dishes (they bitch at her over text or leave pissy passive aggressive notes around their apartment, even though they often leave the sink filled to the brim with dishes too. Oh and the \"man\" is 25 and the girl is 21), they don't share the garage key for the unit, and generally just shitty people. \n\nI really want to confront and engage them, and tell them to fuck off, specifically the 25 year old and tell him not to be a fucking coward and talk to her face, and stuff because they make my girlfriend feel miserable, she cries when she sees these passive aggressive texts that they send her. She hates conflict though and will do ANYTHING to avoid it, so I can't do anything because she won't let me. She's also living with them for another four months.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "One of my ex-roommates is dating a girl that I used to be friends with benefits with two years ago. Just to quickly describe our sex life, this girl was down for anything. She offered to do anal with me, (wasn't interested), I would usually finish on her face. We would fuck a lot, and she was really orgasmic. \n\nHere is where things get messy and complicated. I had a roommate and now we both work in the same field and we work at the same company but different areas. However, we have been having lunch together. He has brought up his girlfriend in conversation and I realize that it was the same girl that I used to sleep with. \n\nHe asks me for advice mainly because he thinks of me as being good with women (I am not really all that great myself just better than him). He has told me that his girlfriend and him started having sex two months ago and she made him wait five months. He has been asking me about advice on how to get his girlfriend to open up in bed. He says their sex life is really dull, she doesn't want to give him a blow job, doesn't want to do any position besides doggie and missionary, and any of that other stuff completely off limits. \n\nI don't really know what to say to him. I haven't told him that I slept with her, because I don't want this to go awkward. I think a lot what is going on is cultural, and I should just step out of the way (they are both Indian/Hindus). My worry though is that if he finds out that I have been hiding it from him that he might get angry at me. I am not sure what to do help out please.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So about two weeks ago I met a girl on Tinder. We hit it off fairly quickly and began texting each other. A lot. We texted all day everyday for two weeks. Today, we finally met up. \n\nBefore I get into that, let me just say that while texting, she sort of fell for me. I like her, too, but still, I hadn't met her so I didn't know how much. I had told her I was looking for more than a hookup, and she said the same. She kept telling me how self conscious she is of her body, how much weight she's gained, and would send me pics of her asking if I was okay with her body. In the pics she sent me, she did seem a little chubby, but still very cute. I reassured her that I found her attractive, because from the pics, I really did.\n\nOn to our date. We had a great time together. Spent about 10 hours in total, including some heavy making out and fooling around. The problem is, she's a lot heavier than I had been anticipating. So much so, that I am just not that attracted to her, and had trouble staying hard when we were fooling around.\n\nWe didn't have sex, because she said she wanted to wait until we were \"official\" as if it was inevitable (and I'll admit, through texting, I thought it was inevitable as well). I just don't know what to do. She's already asking me what to do for our next date, and talking about future plans together, and I'm just kind of going along with it because I'm terrified of hurting an already very self-conscious person. She's such a nice girl, and I feel like if I told her I wasn't feeling it, it would just destroy her. She told me it was the best date she's ever had, and one of the best days of her life. Help me, please :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A few weeks ago our neighbor, who is also our friend, invited us over for her friend's going away party that she's hosting. Her friend is moving across the country. \n\nMy boyfriend knows our neighbor's friend because his ex girlfriend slept with her (cheated on him with her, sort of). He's seen her around town and he tried to sleep with her long before we got together. He's made a few comments on her looks in the last few days before the party -- big boobs, big butt, \"she's actually pretty attractive\". This doesn't bother me, but I know I'm not his go-to type. I'm petite, but I bust my ass at the gym doing squats to try and get the booty going for us.\n\nLast night was the party. He was out late working until 1:30 AM or so. I left the party around 11. When he came home I was already in my robe. He's not super social and prefers to stay home and relax with me, but for some reason he expressed the desire to stop by our neighbor's party. This was weird because he doesn't really care about the people at the party and in previous situations had passed on seeing them. He had been standing for four hours solid, hauling his heavy gear, and it was 2AM. He insisted on going anyway, which I was fine with.\n\nThis morning she added him on Facebook and he accepted. This made me uncomfortable when I looked at the culmination of things (previous flirting, the comments the week before, and that he went out of his way to talk to her at the party and tell me about it when he got home. He was only at the party for 15 minutes or so). I expressed my discomfort and he got defensive and angry.\n\nAm I being unreasonable?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here is the quick version. I had extra tickets to a concert and decided to sell them online. Two were for face value and two were for below face value. But both parties agreed they wanted my tickets and they were going to meet me at the concert to swap monies for the tickets. So I get to the concert and I send them both a txt to let them know I've arrived and where to meet me. The first chick replies saying they waited too long and they just ended up buying from scalpers!!! I couldn't believe it, those ungratefull bitches! I could have sold the tickets to someone else instead of turning them away saying they were already taken! Which leads me to the other girl who said she wanted two tickets. She didn't even have the decency to reply to my txt/email/phone call. Just straight up ignored me! But she did send me an email two minutes before I arrived at the concert asking me if I was still going to show. To which I replied to her email and sent her a txt! But no reply! \n\nSo what I was left with was 4 tickets for no one and short over $200. However, I do have their names, emails and cell numbers. Time for a bit of payback! Now I'm not looking to get my money, I just want to teach these little bitches a lesson on not screwing over normal folk just because they feel like it! Help me figure out some good ideas on how to get back at these girls!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend of a few months and her best friends have been friends for about 5 years. He has been in love with her pretty much the whole time and she admitted to having feelings on and off since then. They both have dated different people during their friendship. I asked her when we first started talking whether the two of them have ever done anything physical, and she replied no. She went on to say that he has loved her loved her for a while and that she has no feelings for him. I was okay with that. A couple days ago I find out that she hooked up him with a couple weeks before we started talking. I confront her about this, and she continues to lie about it. After a little bit, she finally admits to only making out with him. I believe it, but I'm still upset that she lied to me. She looked me in the eyes and lied. A day goes by and I find out from a reliable source that they actually slept together. I ask her about this and she never admits it but she doesn't deny it and basically implies that it happened and that it was a mistake and she regrets it. I know it happened in the past but it still bothers me. Am I wrong to be feeling upset about this? Am I wrong to be uncomfortable with the best friend relationship they share? They text and Snapchat everyday. I'm just kind of lost. I don't know what to feel.\n\nSorry if this doesn't make much sense. I'm at the hospital drugged up and getting ready for an infusion haha.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend 27 has grown up with a very strong set of beliefs that there should be no sex/foreplay/cohabitation till marriage, subsequently she has never had a solid relationship, has never had sex or fallen in love. To put things in perspective, she had recently achieved (her first) orgasm one night I had helped her though her cloths.\n\nSo here we are dating... going out to dinner a few times a week, making out on the couch like teenagers. If I press her too far sexually, she then regresses back and that is not done for a few weeks. Meanwhile I am thinking, that I will never be close enough to marry her if we are not progressing the relationship (foreplay, spending the night, maybe even moving in with each other at some point).\n\n--------------------------------------------\n\nWhen I asked her values she states the following. :\n\n\"I dont want to be test ridden like a car\".\n\n\"If I am going to act like the wife, why not become the wife\".\n\n\"Its harder to just walk away when you are married\".\n\n\"I would feel less of my self if I was living with someone who did not marry me\".\n\n\"Marriage is great for taxes\".\n\n\"I need to be engaged before we do anything more than we are currently doing\".\n\n\"I know you want to buy a house, but I wont move in unless we are married (once we are married I want us to buy a joint house together so were both on the title and the partner could never say \"this is MY house\".\n\n\"We could sign a prenump if you want\".\n\n--------------------------------------------------\n\nLike this is some formula for a relationship, minus the love that would somehow fall into a good relationship.\n\nI dont see any of this shit above.. I want basic love, love that would flourish into a normal sexual life, and progress into a strong relationship, then marriage.\n\nI currently feel none of this and here is she talking about heavy, outdated formal dating. Dont get me wrong I like this girl, but every time she talks about this I drift further apart.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My Grandma has two nieces, a set of twins on their seventies. They love a few hours away. We just found out that one of the twins has an aggressive form of leukemia and she is expected to die soon. She also has dementia. \n\nMy grandma is in pretty good health for someone in their nineties. But she has congestive heart failure and has had two short stays in the hospital so far this year. She loves her niece and she would be devastated to know she's dying. We are afraid it will make her sick of she finds out. We are afraid she might end up dying too.\n\nHer nieces come to visit a few times a year. She doesn't talk to them very much other than that. We are not sure about the logistics of keeping this a secret since when the twin comes to visit, grandma will ask after her other niece. It doesn't seem fair to ask anyone else to lie for us and it doesn't seem ok(to me) to lie to my grandma. But I am also very scared.\n\nWhat do we do? Should we tell her? If so, what can we do to help her through it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Recently, I met someone from an smartphone dating app (not tinder, but similar). We talked for a few days and realized we had a lot of similar interests so we decided to meet up yesterday. We both had a great afternoon and she's someone I'd really like to get closer with. Only problem is she lives 60 miles away, so close enough for a day trip but a little too far just to go for dinner or something like that. I dont live in a major city either and 60 miles is a few counties over.\n\nMy question is how can I get to the next level with her despite living an hour away? I dont mind driving but at this point we're still getting to know each other and have to be doing some kind of planned activity to feel comfortable, which is difficult to coordinate when you dont live in the same place and are two busy people.\n\nAny advice is appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My dad got frustrated with my mom about her weight, fitness level and how she can be a bit of a pack rat so there is always extra things around and it is a challenge to keep the house presentable.\n\nAfter threatening to do it for over a year, my dad moved out and got his own house closer to his office. This was about 6 or 7 months ago. During the time since then, my parents have gone to marriage counselling, a couples group therapy thing for a few weeks and are currently in the middle of a relationship book. As far as I can tell my dad hasn't kissed or hugged or shown hardly any signs of affection for my mom during that time and it has taken its toll, she is fairly depressed and often doesn't get to bed until 3 or 4AM.\n\nThe house is rather large house with a decent sized lot where we keep cows and have a dog and cats and a barn with a tractor. My dad still comes by on a regular basis (mostly in the middle of the day, probably to avoid my Mom while she is at work) and takes care of the cows and some basic farm tasks, so there are no concerns about maintaining the farm currently.\n\nHere is where I come in. I am 22 and I fix computers for a living and can easily support myself and actually be pretty well off money wise. When he first moved out and my mother was really distraught, I was currently in the planning stages of finding my own place and moving out by the end of 2011. My mom asked me to not move out until this situation was resolved between them. I put my plans on hold, but he still doesn't show signs of wanting to move back in and I really want to move out. I really don't want to leave my mom alone, she likes having me around to help around the house and to have someone to talk to rather than coming home to an empty house.\n\nWhat advice can you give me to proceed from here? I am really very torn between wanting to move out and not wanting to leave my mom all alone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi guys,\n\nGoing through my post history, you'll all see I'm a single dad (27) with 3 kids. 2 of which I have full custody and the remaining one is shared custody.\n\nI work full time so my boys go to after-hours school care. Most mornings and evenings there's a mum, a nurse for the hospital in the area that drops off and picks up her own two boys the same time I do. We do talk, but not much\n\nNow I don't really date. I haven't done much dating since the seperation as I've been focussing on the kids. But this mum, my brain keeps telling me to ask her but I keep refusing to because:\n\n1) Even though I only ever see her and not the dad, I'm afraid I might be \nasking out a taken mum. It could make her see me in a different light. Do you think I could ask her kids if mum and dad are together? and;\n\n2) Afraid of the rejection\n\n2) I'm a chicken shit sober lol. My last real relationship was with my kids mum. I was with her from when I was 18 until early last year. So I lack any confidence\n\nWHY THE HELL DO I CHICKEN OUT?!? Help a redditor out guys! What do I do to get back into the game?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been seeing a guy I met online since the beginning of April. We live an hour apart, and I will be moving abroad in about a year, but decided we'd like to date anyway. We both have varying, often long, work schedules and are able to see each other about every other weekend. \n\nAt the beginning he was texting me all the time. I mean all day. We have so much in common and it was really exciting getting to know one another. Now, sometimes we'll go for a few days without talking at all. I feel like I initiate things more often than not now. But he never ignores me, still always makes plans with me and is always really excited to see me when we do get together. We have a great time together, he always tells me how much he loves spending time with me.\n\nHonestly, now as I am typing this out it feels a bit stupid and insecure. I haven't wanted to bring it up as we aren't serious and I don't WANT to sound needy or insecure. Is this just a normal progression of things or am I right to wonder if he's just not interested anymore? It's been a while since I've been in a relationship or dated anyone longer than a few weeks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend of 5.5 years decided that he needed to leave me with little to no warning. I arrived home to him with all of his stuff packed. It's been 3 days and I have not heard a word from him.\n\nA little back story. We started dating when we were 16 and since then have been head over heals for each other. We moved away from home together about a year ago so that I could finish my 4 year degree. He moved with me to support me financially and the agreement was as soon as I graduated, spring of 2015, I would support him through school. We've been through a lot together and I supported him much of our relationship because his dad was sick and didn't have a job. All of a sudden after almost a year of living here he decides, he can no longer support me because it is too much for him and he feels I am holding him back. \n\nI forfeited going to 4 year school for him and stayed home and went to Community College FOR HIM, I supported him emotionally and financially for 4 years and he can't handle one more year of taking care of me?? I am completely heartbroken. Of course things between us weren't perfect but I never thought they were so bad he would just up and leave me high and dry. I was pretty blindsided. Now I will more than likely have to move out of my apartment and I have no idea how I'm going to make it through the rest of the summer let alone the rest of the year. \n\nI am still in love with him but he crushed my heart when he was already out the door.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Granted, I know I didn't quit, but I seriously considered it. This \"gentleman\" who was with his toddler daughter and girlfriend/wife?, ordered Fish and Chips (asked if the fish had bone in them, what kind of fish it was, if it came with fries--told him no bones, cod, and that yes, our \"chips\" are fries), but he didn't like his meal after one nibble off one of the edges of the fish. So instead, he wants a quesadilla, but he doesn't want that because it had sour cream and guac on the plate....not even touching the quesadilla. Take it back, bring him a brand new plain one, without any sour cream or guac, bites into it and then throws it onto the floor. \n\nThroughout this whole ordeal, he almost never looked me in the eye, was extremely rude with his responses to such questions of,\"What would you like to drink?\" and \"How are you today?\". I ended up having my manager handle the rest of the situation and he finally left. Oh, he also wanted our lemonade, with light ice, but after he found out it was free refills, he asked for a new glass of it, with more ice, and kept sucking them down. I think I counted 6 refills in thirty minutes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my husband for 10 years, married for 4. Overall we're very happy. No infidelity or money issues and we're both on the same page for the big stuff like kids, home ownership and where we'd hideout if there was a zombie apocalypse. There's just one thing that I can't cope with and it's getting worse.\n\nHe has real anger issues when things don't go his way. \n\nHe screams, shouts and throws things when he loses in a video game or if his sports teams concede a goal. If the playstation won't connect with the TV or the gadget he's trying to fix won't go back together he'll swear and hiss and generally become very unpleasant. \n\nI'll say now that I have no fear for my personal safety. Although he can be violent, it's never to me or any living thing. That isn't the source of my concern.\n\nI grew up with a very violent and abusive father. The whole family walked on eggshells around him because you never knew what would set him off. I have mental and physical scars from my childhood and one of them is a deep fear of angry men.\n\nI have explained this to my husband in every way I can think of. I've spoken to him when he is calm, pointed it out to him when he is getting angry and, unproductively, engaged in long arguments about it when he is in a full blown rage. Nothing I can say or do seems to stop him, he won't remove himself from the things that make him angry. He won't turn off a game when he starts to get mad, he refuses to step away from his triggers and just calm down. If I point out that he's getting angry, he just gets worse and will swear nastily at me.\n\nHis anger causes anxiety attacks in me, I can't help but be reminded of a time when I had to fear a man I should have been able to trust. He knows this and yet refuses to change.\n\nWhat can I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and my male colleague was crashing at a third colleague's place, after a night out. My male colleague crashed on the couch and i was a totally wreck, had gotten to much to drink. I took the choice of crashing beside our female colleague. Nothin were supposed to happen. I kinda wake up of her sittin on top of me and is dry humpin and the next second when I have my counscious back, I have my hand down her pants and she has her hand squeezin my d*ick outside my pants. Then she is questioning me if I want to have sex. I just remember that I'm pulling away and then she leaves the bed. I never even kissed the girl. This small encounter have leaved me with a guilt-trip and anxiety level going thrue the roof.\n\nThere was never any intention or idea to have any sexuall encounter. To be honest i'm feelin a bit used. I love my girl so deeply. I am prepared to spend the rest of my life with her.\n\nI need advice from u guys. Should I tell her exactly how it was and if she might forgive me, she will have to live with the picture of me and someone else for the rest of her life. Or should I just leave it like it was, a drunken mistake that i almost was in no control of.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, my best friend, who I've had a crush on for about 2 years, has started getting really flirty with me. There are a couple of reasons why this is weird to me.\n\nFirst, we've been friends for about 3 years, and has never seemed interested in me. When I first told her about my crush on her, she got really distant, and it took a while just to be comfortable around her again, but now our relationship is as strong as ever.\n\nSecond, she's really involved with another guy, who I personally think is below her standards. However, I try and stay out of the relationship as much as possible and just let them do their thing. However, she has gotten more and more flirty with me as she has been dating this guy.\n\nShe is very, very uncomfortable with touching other people, but recently (as in last weekend), began to put her arm on my shoulder, tickle me, hit me playfully, and is allowing me to do the same. This morning in class, i was tickling her, and she was perfectly fine. Then another of her friends put their hand on her shoulder to ask her a question, and she freaked out.\n\nI've also noticed that she has started talking really quietly around me, forcing me to move my head in closer so I can hear her. When I do this, she flits her eyes between my eyes and my lips. I've also caught her looking at me from across the room quiet often, and even though we are good friends, she looks away as if she's really shy or embarrassed.\n\nI think she may be developing a crush on me, but maybe I'm just becoming really close with her, and she is just becoming more comfortable with me. Any thoughts? Also, if it becomes obvious that she does indeed have feelings for me, is it appropriate to make a move while she is with this other guy (their relationship is about 7 months now)?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know this sounds a lot like \"whoa, if everyone else is the problem, maybe its you\" situation, but I can assure its not quite like that. \n\nWorse than that, is I actually live 2500 miles away from everyone (partially because of this reason) yet I still find myself full of anger, resentment and just am overall enraged at everything that has happened over the years, and even now. \n\nI can cite some examples, but it doesn't really matter. He makes a ton of excuses for all of his bullshit behavior, can't seem to support himself so him and his gf moved back in with my parents \"just for a year\" (which has passed this month). If you expect him to be an adult (Oh, Idk, like go get fucking fitted for a tux for my wedding in 3 weeks, even though you've known about this for 10 months) then we \"Don't understand what he's going through / his busy work schedule\" (which, actually, yes I do... bc I used to work for the same company a few years ago and I know exactly what goes on there, but thats beside the point). \n\nReddit, I borderline hate him. In fact, I think I do. He's literally a piece of shit, and I dont say that to be demeaning... I say it because he only takes from everyone, drinks too much, smokes too much weed, and just sucks the life out of everyone he comes in contact with. He takes advantage of people, has a huge entitlement problem and yeah. He's a piece of shit. \n\nBut why does it effect me so much??? Why am I blood boiling angry when these little nuances occur? And furthermore, maybe the real question here, how do I progress on with my new husband (well, new in 3 weeks) in our life, so that we are not full of anger, resentment and just....bitterness for the pain he has caused all of us in our family? \n\nI need an emotional intervention :-/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About four years ago, my friend was moving out of her apartment into her parents house and needed to get rid of some furniture she couldn't take with her. One of these things was her grandfather's entertainment center. She asked me if I wanted it, I said sure. I rented a truck, enlisted some help to help me move it, then moved it to a storage unit for three months until I had an apartment big enough to house it. Now, I am back with living my parents and have since given the unit to them. It houses family pictures, the main living room tv, and all of the electronics.\n\nNow, my friend is moving to her own place again, and has been demanding that I return her \"family's furniture\" to her. She has even gotten her boyfriend (whom I work with) to harass me over it too. She is now saying that she never gave it to me, that it was only for me to use until she needed it again. Her boyfriend is saying that they shouldn't even have to ask, that my parents can afford to buy their own furniture, and that it's not my property. \n\nI am totally floored by this. There was never ANY mention of just having me \"borrow\" it until they would need it, even if it was YEARS later. Why would I pay all of that money to have it stored and moved if I knew they were going to take it back? Am I in the wrong here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're both going through divorces. We both have kids. We met on a dating site about six months ago. \n\nThe good: We share a lot intellectually. We \"get\" eachother on a lot of levels. Laughter, culture, even our vulnerabilities and issues. Plus, the sex is great. Really great. She loves me.\n\nThe bad: We don't have much time for eachother. Because of parenting and work etc., we rush to get in some time twice a week. My kids do not want anything to do with her. We tried a quick meeting and it went poorly. I don't like her kid, I don't appreciate her parenting. And it's awful to say, but I feel like I \"could do better\". (She's a bigger girl). She is more fun than classy, and I feel a little odd introducing her to family.\n\nThe problem: I feel like I don't have space in my life for her. It stresses me out to be around her kid, I'm on eggshells with my kids about her existence. I'm sliding on some things that are important to me in order to be with her (workouts, keeping the budget, housework). On the other hand, I wonder who else is going to love me. I don't want to lose her in my life because she's a really awesome person. And I would sorely miss the sex.\n\nMy issue: I don't know how to proceed. On one hand, I feel like I should break up. Even though she would even likely be open to a booty call based relationship, I don't feel good about that. I aslo don't want to hurt her. And the truth is I do love her. I just don't see anything changing to make this actually workable in the long run. Help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let me begin with a short anecdote: This evening, at my place of work, I was taking orders at the cash register when a woman approached with two small children. The one child seemed discontented and kept shrieking his order at me after his mother originally said it, then he noticed the bakery items that we sell and began screaming about those. She made no effort to silence him. As he yelled about wanting \"treats,\" he started to punch his mother in the breast. Yes. He fucking punched her in the boob, multiple times, and she didn't react. At all. It was like she barely registered the pain. It was like she was so used to giving in to her child's requests that she had no nerve endings. Oh yeah, and she bought him a brownie and a cinnamon roll. After he punched her.\n\nSeriously. Why don't parents these days punish their kids, or at least teach them common courtesy and respect? When I was young, my parents would have told me to stop acting up, and that would be that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with my bf for 5 years now. We have had a somewhat rocky relationship because of distressing situations outside of the relationship (loss of loved ones, job relocation, etc.). However, we are deeply committed to each other. I have no issues with him looking at porn/masturbating. Several times he has confessed to talking to women online, but usually not longer than a week and has no intentions of meeting them in real life. Is this just considered an extension of male fantasies? Like maybe getting turned on because someone else desires him?\n\nI should also mention that he is beyond social awkward. He has almost no friends in reality (and has lost contact with most of the ones he had) and spends a lot of time playing online and console games. It took him half a year to make friends with the people he works with, and he still hasn't socialized with them outside of work.\n\nOh, and the ladies he chats with are not necessarily the most attractive women. They are average to even plain-looking. Part of me thinks he chooses these women because he knows he stands a better chance of them replying to his messages.\n\nWe have discussed most of this before. He knows my feelings and beliefs about it. His reasoning is that \"It makes him feel good.\" I just can't figure out if I am trying to justify his actions too much, or if it is cause for concern.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've had a crush on this guy for a long time, but we're kind of in the same circle of friends and I've found it hard to push it beyond hanging out as just buddies. Whenever we're all out together we both end up gravitating towards each other and walking side by side or spending most of the evening just talking together. I've noticed others in the group have noticed this and given some 'looks' to each other.\n\nFor whatever reason neither of us have made a move, and I'm beginning to doubt he's interested as much as I am based on one thing; he often repeats himself to me, as if he's forgotten the previous time(s) that he's said these things.\n\nIt sounds stupid but I keep a diary and end up writing down of a lot of the things we talk about as I enjoy spending time with him and don't want to forget some of the cute little things we end up joking about, even if it turns into nothing. So I think I'd find it very hard to repeat stories or opinions about things to him without realising, as I have really vivid memories of what was said. An example of him doing this is when we walked past a movie poster and he told me about how a friend of his got confused about the plot as he'd mixed it up with another movie. It was a funny story and we talked about it for a while. The next week we were hanging out and same movie was mentioned again, and he starts telling me this story again like I've never heard it. This kind of thing has happened even up to four times!\n\nHe doesn't smoke pot (I don't think). Is this a sign of him not being as into me as I am him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Today I got a call from my boss telling me that one of my co-workers is in the hospital with spinal meningitis. We don't know yet if it's bacterial or viral, seeing as how the spinal tap will take at least 24 hours before we get any clear results. I've been vaccinated for it but when I talked to the doctors office they told me that there is now another vaccine that you are supposed to have.\nThey told me to watch for the symptoms which include a severe headache and flu like symptoms along with back/neck ache. When I asked how long the virus lays dormant in your system, they told me either a month to a week. Well I have definitely been working with her over the past month, and my recent contact with her was just last weekend. \nNow this evening I have a severe migraine and some slight neck ache but haven't gotten sick to my stomach at all. In my town there have already been three cases in just today, one of the patients is dying. I'm a bit scared reddit, I've been around my newborn niece and my younger siblings and I don't want anything to happen to them. Any advice or reassurance that I'm just stressing myself out and to relax until the results come back would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I live several states away. My aunt and brother are pressuring me to call my mother after she went to the hospital to have surgery for a callapsed lung and finds out she has lung cancer. \n\nBackground: My mother abandoned my brother and me repeatedly beginning when I was eight. We both have different fathers, neither of which were there to take care of us. We also had to deal with several of my mother's abusive boyfriends. We were very poor. Once my mother and I lived in a womens' shelter. I haven't lived with my her since I was 13. At this time she was in and out of jail and abusive men. My brother could barely pay rent for himself so my aunt reluctantly took care of me until I was 18 when she kicked me out. (I believe she blames me for her divorce as her husband did NOT want me to live with them.)\n\nI haven't really spoken to my aunt or my brother since moving from the state. I am friendly on Facebook, and I call my brother maybe two or three times a year. I even accepted my mother's FB request. I thought letting her view my pictures and such was a nice gesture, but she messages me often to talk although I have never replied. I'm beginning to think this was a mistake, because ever since my brother won't stop telling me to call her.\n\nI am disturbed about the cancer as I would be disturbed by any person having cancer, but I'd rather not call. I fully expected to never talk to my mother again, but I'm afraid that if I don't my family won't forgive me. Even if I did call, what would I say? I have nothing to say.. I've invested years into not caring, and I feel there is no going back. My family won't understand this. \n\nSo do I call my mother to satisfy my family? Or is my refusal justified?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "All right, I'm sure by the title it sounds like I'm being physically abused. And while there is emotional abuse at play here, that's not what's up.\n\nWe've been together since our senior year in high school, four years now. The entirety of her college career. But I don't feel the same way about her that I used to. I love her still, I really do. But I don't see us together in my picture of the future. I want to go out and do things on my own for the first time. I've never lived by myself, and I need to do that.\n\nWe moved in last June. Things were okay for a while, but it's just gone downhill.\n\nI know it's not fair for me to keep this going when I clearly am no longer invested in the relationship, but it hurts to think about being without her in my life. It hurts to think about the pain it's going to cause her. And mostly, I'm fucking terrified of being on my own after breaking up.\n\nWe moved to a city where I don't have any friends, and all of my friends and family are two hours away. I don't have anyone I can go to in person.\n\nI'm scared I'll never find anyone else. I'm scared of being alone after four years, and not having that person I can go to with anything. I'm scared of waking up each day alone in bed. It just makes me so fucking sad to think about.\n\nSo I was wondering if there was anyone here I could talk to who's gone through something like this? I really need help. This is tearing me apart inside. I'm having anxiety attacks almost daily, and she doesn't know a thing.\n\nHelp. I don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, so this didn't actually happen today but it still haunts me. I feel it's worthy of a TIFU.\n\nMe, my then girlfriend and two friends were on holiday together in Spain. We went to a Water Park one day and we were queuing to get it. We paid at the entrance gate and walked in...\n\nI walk through the entrance and into this big open space, where you can go off in various directions to wherever you want. I was at the front of our small group. I stopped to look around, wait for the others and decide where we should go\n\nSuddenly, I felt someone pulling at my right arm, so naturally I look to my right and see a Water Park staff member with a camera. She was saying something in Spanish and indicating towards me the universal 'photo' hand gesture with her free hand.\n\n\"Ah, she wants my picture, to capture my enjoyment at this fine establishment\"\n\nI turn to face her and strike a semi-comedic pose with a big grin...\n\nShe doesn't take a photo. \"No no no\" she says, whilst pointing behind me. I turn around and realise that I am stood directly between the photographer and 2 young children stood with someone in a giant penguin suit...\n\nFriends laughing hysterically, I walk away, with my pride well and truly bruised.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Backstory: We had dated early in college and took a break for a year or so. He was having sexual relations with [FWB girl] during that time we weren't together. We are now back together in a very best-friend-like relationship", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here's my situation. I love www.omegle.com, it's a great site to have some good conversations and meet some awesome people. About a week ago, I was on said site, and I met this girl. Named Sammie. We had a really good conversation. And I asked her to email me, she responded by telling me to add her on facebook. I though (what have I got to lose?) \n\nSo I did. Holy Gorgeous Reddit.\n\nWell I've talked to her quite a lot, and I actually really like her. However I have a nagging suspicion that all is not as she says it is... She has 130 someodd friends, the majority of which have <9 friends!! She doesn't have a single friend from her hometown. All of her friend's posts on her wall are exactly the same. They use the same format, all have little quirks that hint to me that they are all the same person!!! \n\nNow this is all well and good, I could simply ask her for a phone number, or an address, and confirm my suspicions. But I'm better than that =) Luckily I'm a programmer.\n\nSo here's what I'm thinking. Simple detective program to discover her identity.\n\nIf she isn't who she says she is, I'd still like to talk to her, I just don't want to be lied to, you know?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First ever post, meep. Sorry if this may seem more relevant to /r/piercings but the affect on the relationships with my parents concerns me more than the piercing itself!\n\nI've wanted piercings since I was 16 and as my parents wished, I waited until I'd finished high school, university and my masters degree before I got any. I'm now doing a PhD, and in the past year I got a number of piercings on my ears. Last week I got my nose pierced. I'm seeing my parents tonight.\n\nMy mum has always been overbearing and she gets obsessive over things that really don't matter. We don't have the best of relationships at all anyway but she sees piercings as a hindrance to my job prospects, yet I'm in a field at the moment that doesn't care and I'm happy to remove them if needs be. Basically she doesn't like them, so she feels I'm not allowed to either.\n\nI'm going to be bridesmaid at my cousin's wedding in a month and I intend to take it out for the day. My cousin is happy for me to have piercings, multicoloured hair, whatever! But I know my mum and my auntie (cousin's mum) will want it removed for the day so that's what I'm going to do out of respect for them. \n\nI told my dad I was thinking of getting my nose pierced a few weeks ago and he said \"I'm not going to lie, I don't like them, but it's your face, whatever.\"\n\nI'm just terrified right now of what my mum is going to say and would appreciate some rationale if possible.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short me and my girlfriend of almost a year broke up for two months. In that two months I realized what I did wrong in the relationship and wanted to try and fix things. Fast forward 2 weeks after I tell her I want to try again and we are taking things slow. Then tonight she tells me she needs to be honest with me. She proceeds to show me texts from my best friend [20 M] (when we were broken up) to her about how he has always wanted to have sex with her and that he wants to come over right now and then details I'd rather not type out. This texting went back and forth for an hour or two with her feeding into everything he's saying and then the last message from my friend to my ex was \"this conversation never happened\". I had to remove myself from the whole situation after telling them both separately that they can fuck off. The thing is she claims to have been just \"playing along\" and seeing how far the conversation will go and both said they never had sex and he claims to not remember much of the convo because of drinking (which I think is bullshit). Honestly I don't even know what responses to expect, I don't want anything to do with either of them right now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend is absolutely convinced that \"nobody understands the love\" she had for her ex-boyfriend [19M]. They had a pretty standard break up when he came to college, but instead of actually breaking up they were \"committed to\" each other while he tried talk to other girls. He has some pretty serious issues (would get up in the middle of the night and yell/kick stuff, got kicked out of college in his first year for drugs) and was very mean to my her during their breakup. He was her first serious relationship.\n\nShe can't seem to get over him or that mentality that they had something incredibly special that nobody else can understand. Nothing I say seems to get through to her and she just got angry the times we did talk about it. Does anyone have experience helping someone get over that hump?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, me and my buddies are walking around town looking for some dinner. We see a nice looking burger joint across the street and decide we want some of that greasy meat. Looking over the menu, I see a burger called The Juicy Lucy; a half pound of 100% beef stuffed with american cheese. I couldn't find any reason why that wouldn't be anything but fucking delicious, so I spend 7 bucks and get myself a Juicy Lucy. The guy at the register tells me it takes a little longer, which was totally fine. As I'm waiting, my friends get their burgers and another guy asks me what I ordered, noticing that my friends were eating and I wasn't. I told him I got a Juicy Lucy, he smiled and said, \"Oh, well that takes longer.\" Right, got it. So finally Lucy comes out and she looks absolutely scrumptious, dripping with grease and bulbous as all hell. I look at this monster and think, 'Wow, thats a lot of cheese and meat in there'. This is where I went wrong, see it wasn't just cheese and meat in there. I raise the burger to my mouth, and as I bite into it the punchline to the greatest pussy joke ever is revealed. Turns out Lucy is a squirter, because as soon as my teeth sunk into the patty, grease exploded out of the burger with ferocious velocity. At least an ounce or two of pure beef grease squirts directly into my eyes, all over my face, onto the table. Not only am I covered in grease but I just spent $8 on this shit. I sit there contemplating life and it hits me. Juicy Lucy takes a little longer to warm up, but when you give it a nibble there's a surprise for you, and it isn't just american cheese.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Recently, I walked out on my bf of almost 4 yrs due to the fact that when I asked him to check his newly locked piece of shit Note 4 for his FB relationship status in front of me, he disappeared to the bathroom for 10 minutes only to come back upstairs and answer \"idk\" to every question I asked.\n\nAnd it wasn't just FB reddit, it was the fact that I found fucking texts between him and a chick regarding having sex when they met, even after she asked about me twice...and he dismissed me, TWICE. This was after a year of being together, and if he hadn't broken down in tears and begged me to forgive him, I would've easily walked away.\n\nAnd it wasn't just THAT reddit, it was the fact that I randomly got a message from some guy telling me to tell my bf to stop talking to his girlfriend. \nOr the constant late night buzzing of his phone.\nOr whenever I asked to look through his phone with him, he'd dissappear to the bathroom, then come back and hand it to me.\nOr when my younger cousin asked to play with his phone and she found naked pictures of a random chick off of what looked like, snapchat.\nOr when a long time friend of mine came to me with news that he was flirting with someone we both attended high school with.\n\nAnd yet, EVERY SINGLE FUCKING TIME, he had an excuse. Something to make perfect sense in the dumbest way that at the same time would make me sound like a bitchy, jealous, asshat. And for some fucking reason, I played along. Slowly getting more and more miserable that he could just sit there and still be affectionate, still tell me he loved me, and still convince me that I was the only one he wanted. I never knew I would become one of those girls I always wanted to shake sense into but here I am, the same as them. \nAnd still, I can never convince myself to be 100% sure if he's fucking me over.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is my first relationship, so all the things about breakups that I know of are entirely from asking around or reading up on it. I have no first hand experience.\n\nI broke up with my girlfriend stating very plainly that although I still loved her very much, I couldn't see a future for us and I didn't want to prolong our relationship because every passing day will only make the inevitable separation that much worse.\n\nShe's a romantic, and told me during the breakup that while she wasn't going to stop me, she believed that there is only one special person for every person out there, and I was that for her. I know this is probably her youth talking, but knowing her, she takes the stuff she says way more seriously than the average girl. \n\nI'm afraid she'll take it very hard and her process of recovery will be much longer than it should be. Hell, I'm afraid she might never actually let this go. I don't know.\n\nI feel extremely guilty because she's begged me to come back since, and I told her a straight out no, because I didn't think the relationship would last long after this. It's only been a few days, and I'd say I've made significant progress recovering (it's been very tough though), but she hasn't turned up to school or spoken to many people. She only confided in a couple of friends and bawled her eyes out at them.\n\nMy friends told me that most breakups are one-sided anyway and it was inevitable that I'd be the asshole in the situation. But that's not really what I care about. How do I handle this? She still very much expects that somehow sometime I'll be running back to her. I've made my decision and I'm adamant that I won't, so how do I help her find \"closure\" without destroying her completely?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, this is my first post to /r/Relationships!\n\nI have been dating my current girlfriend, who I met in college, for just over a year now. We have fortunately had a very strong relationship with few fights. To add a little background, I am a member of a fraternity in college, and I am graduating this semester. I understand this is a controversial topic, but please see me through. A tradition of greek life is to buy a girl who means a lot to you a \"lavaliere\", a piece of jewelry containing the greek letters. However, I am unable to completely afford this before I graduate. I have elected to buy her the necklace chain that this charm will go on.\n\nHowever, she has a metal allergy, which I have not had completely explained by her. From what I know, she is able to tolerate gold jewelry, but not gold plated jewelry. I don't want to ask her because I'd prefer to surprise her.\n\nWhat I am asking is, does anyone in this sub have any familiarity with this issue, and if so, what karat of gold is reasonable? Must I buy the most pure gold (24K, right)? Or can I skate by on lesser quality? I want to purchase this before I graduate in the next couple weeks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm packing up my shit and leaving tonight. I'm a 20 year old male who's been dicked around by just about everyone in his life (\"omg 20 years old get over it\"), and is sick of it. I'm not stupid, I realize this is a bad idea, but I really have nothing left. My parents have been promising to sign school loans for three years and have yet to fulfill that promise (which is fine, I don't care anymore). I have been living with my grandparents house and sharing a car with them for about a year now, which is making me feel worse, because who wants to share a car with their grandparents? I was going to move in with my girlfriend in a week and start a new job in the city, but she changed her mind and said she \"wasn't ready for us to move in together\" after knowing each other for 10+ years, so I decided breaking it off with her would be for the best. I'm not doing this as some pretentious, angst-driven statement against my parents or anyone else, I just want some different for myself, and this isn't cutting it for me. Anyway, my question is, any tips for someone who's about to take off with $200 in their pocket and a duffel bag full of clothes? Have any redditors ever done something like this before?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short...\nWe've been dating for 2 years, recently moved in with each other. Fighting a little bit about stupid petty things that I don't really take to heart because its a big change for both of us and it's bound to happen. About a week ago her cat got sick with this disease, and me being the super supportive boyfriend I am drove her everywhere she needed to be, made my self available at work to answer her calls if she was worried, and stayed up all night with him so she could get some sleep. Now I took some time off work so I could come home and see my family ( I don't live in the same city as them anymore, and haven't seen them in two months), and tonight I got a call with her freaking out because she thinks her cat is sick again, and she needs to take him to the vet. She asked me to come home, and I just straight out told her no... I didn't want to leave my family, not to mention I live two hours away. I still have one day left of my \"vacation\" and I want to enjoy to most of it with them because I likely wont get a chance to see them again until September. She over reacts ,and over thinks thinks on a regular basis, and this incident was pretty much the straw that broke the camels back. I feel a little guilty for not going home early, but at the same time I'd feel even worse if I left my family. Shes not answering my texts or calls now. I'm just going to ignore this for the time being, enjoy the rest of Fathers Day with my family. Is this okay? or am I being a huge ass about it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Everything in our relationship up until about a month ago was fantastic. We never fought, we understood each other and acted like the bests of friends and lovers through it all. Recently, I went back to school and our communication has been a bit strained, since I didn't do so well in last semester and have been focusing more on my studies. \n\nLast weekend, I could tell something was definitely wrong. She was constantly on the phone texting, conversation seemed strained and she seemed more engrossed with her phone and because of this there were problems during sex which made it not enjoyable at all. We confronted each other and she told me she felt as if she doesn't feel as if we're in a relationship when I'm up here because I don't text as often as I used too. \n\nOn my end, I'm worried because a new guy friend has come into her life and she seems to be putting more time into talking to this guy than to me. I told her I would change and nothing was threatened in terms of a break up or anything, we both agreed we want this to last. However, I can't shake this feeling that something is up and the more and more I think about it it makes me more and more paranoid and depressed. \n\nI just need someones outside opinion before I do anything or say anything irrational. I truly don't want my relationship to end with her, but with all the signs I'm getting, I just don't want to get dragged through the mud for months before something bad happens to me. \n\nNote-my girlfriend was a lesbian before I met her. Failed relationships with men and a bad upbringing led her to hate men for a long time and I was the first guy she dated in years. Doubt this has any relevance but I'm just trying to put all the facts out there.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My employer of +5 years is owned by a larger parent corporation. Our small company is not meeting profit margins and is planned to be sold to another corporation in in an adjacent state. Significant layoffs are expected. I am told I am on the \"keep employed\" list, but the commute would be far, far to much for me (+3 hours each way). It may also be noted the \"keep\" list of employees are planned to be around for a year (or less) transition period, so moving closer to the new location is kind of off the table. If I am offered a job at the new location, and refuse in some way, am I not eligible for the severance pay the other layoff employees will receive?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She's my first serious relationship, and I love her. She loves me too, and I think I may have a problem with wanting to be around her all the time. We see each other practically everyday and she spends the night all the time. But it's gotten to the point where if I know she's out with her friends and stuff I feel a bit jealous of them because she's with them and not me. And I think that leads me to feel like she's not showing her love or affection as much. I know I should just hang out with friends and stuff but I recently moved here and don't really know too many people. Plus my work/school schedule kind of prohibit me from going out and on top of that I have guardianship over my little brother so i'm basically a dad at the same time. How do I get over this feeling of her choosing them over me, when I know that's stupid but it's how I think sometimes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I wasn't making really good money at my last job. My wife and I decide to survive on her salary and I could go back to school for my masters degree. This was two years ago. \n\nThe other day I was feeling sluggish and unmotivated. So I take a break from my work and go jump in the shower. I trim the beard, and take care of my nails. Put on some decent clothes so I feel like a human again. I decide to take a walk to the corner and buy a gatorade to get some fresh air. Then I head back home to get back to work. \n\nA few hours of homework later my wife comes home. The usual exchange, hello honey, how was your day.\n\nShe stops and looks at me. \"What's going on? I thought you said you were working today?\"\n\nThis turned into the most confused almost argument ever. Finally she says, \"Why aren't you in your pajamas?\"\n\nSo after 2 years of Grad school, I guess my wife assumes I'll be in my pajamas when she comes home from work.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ultimately, this is a really shitty relationship. I'm quite disgusted with the way he treats me and makes me feel, I don't feel like I need to put up with it any longer. \n\nI've made up my mind about breaking up with him, I'm just concerned about the timing. I've already made plans to go visit him and his family next week for thanksgiving. The ticket price is a sunk cost, the money is spent either way, I just don't know if I should wait to break up with him until after the holiday and just push through pretending everything is okay for the sake of social graces and politeness, or if I should spare everyone the acting and just break it off now and stay home. \n\nIn addition to that, he's had a really rough week at school. I don't hate the kid, and I don't want him to go do anything drastic because of a breakup, but should I take that into consideration and wait to break-up when he's got everything else in his life under control?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Through my studies (bachelors), I have become more and more disturbed about the \"scientific\" nature of finance. \n\nQuick, what percentage of mutual funds \"beat the market\", i.e. perform better than the index? Studies generally find the number to be between 20 to 30 percent, but in 2011 the number went down to 14%. If these people are so armed with expertise and knowledge, why do people who don't understand anything about financial theory get more just by passively investing in an index fund? If anything, financial \"knowledge\" seems to do more harm than good.\n\nWhen looking at the stuff they teach in universities, you have to wonder how they keep on believing these theories despite the mountain of counterevidence. Stocks are assumed to generate returns relative to risk, quantified as beta in CAPM. Yet, beta has had almost zero correlation with stock returns starting in 1982. If you look at the studies that confirm beta's predictive power, they all used data from the 1970s. But people still use beta to create portfolios.\n\nHow about efficient market theory? Under the theory, stock bubbles should not exist since everythingn is properly priced. But they do exist. Instagram valued at 1 billion despite having no revenue? Definitely properly priced.\n\nEven option pricing models are ridiculous. One model assumes that you can borrow money at the risk-free rate and stocks only generate risk-free rate returns. The black-scholes model also assumes that risk is normally distributed, without looking at historical data, leading to black and scholes' own bankruptcy. \n\nWanna know how we price stocks? We pull magic numbers out of our asses and make it interact with other equally bullshit number to come up with an arbitrary value. Then we try to convince other people that our bullshit is, in fact, legit. The only way stock valuation models are accurate is if stock analysts are clairvoyant and can see 10 years into the future. But even then the analyst won't have to calculate anything and just tell us the stock price.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 months, the first few months of which we lived in the same city. He recently moved away for work and we are now living in different countries.\n\n If I had my way we would be texting trough out the day because that's just the way I operate and when something noteworthy happens, he is the first I want to tell. That doesn't go over well with him because he feels like I am bombarding him and he can't get other things done, which I'm fine with. I've been trying to keep my texting to minimum. \n\n We've also had other issues where he was feeling suffocated when I wanted to spend the night with him most nights, but we worked through it.\n\n So right now we are trying to make this long distance thing work and I know he doesn't like to text or be texted a lot so I suggested (after reading a whole bunch of long distance relationship tips online) that the first person to wake up or go to bed would text the other goodnight or good morning. That way we know we are thinking about each other and it's a way to keep our everyday contact alive even if we are thousands of miles away.\n\n While he initially liked the idea and texted goodnight and good morning he has not done so these past couple days. I brought it up to him and he got very defensive and said that I was being needy and that he doesn't want to text me because he HAS to be because he WANTS to, which I totally understand. Except when I've tried to just let things flow I'll get one text every two days and that's just not enough I feel to keep a long distance relationship alive. So I would like an outside opinion on this; Am I being to needy? Should I just be grateful for the attention he gives me and leave it at that?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Story:\n\nMy dad's mom passed in July. He and his brother are to split her estate and all things included in it 50/50. They both agreed that I can have her 2009 Lexus RX350. I will receive it on Saturday. I plan to sell it at some point in the near future and combine the money from that sale and the money from the sale of my own vehicle to buy a newer vehicle.\n\nQuestions:\n\nPart 1: I read that Washington State has no gift tax on the amount that the value of the car would be. However, there is a federal gift tax on values of $14,001 or more. From what I have looked at, this vehicle has a value of $18,000 - $25,000 in my area.\n\nDoes this mean that I will have to pay taxes on the full value of the vehicle being given to me?\n\nPart 2: I am new to the state of Washington, and new to having sales tax. This means I have no idea how sales tax works when purchasing a used vehicle from a private seller. Would it perhaps be more reasonable in terms of the amount of taxes I will have to pay for me to \"Purchase\" the vehicle from my father for the low low price of $10? Would this avoid the gift tax? I probably would still have to pay sales tax, but whatever the percentage is on $10 wont be much at all.\nIs this a good idea?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway obviously.\n \n\"Joy\" dated my friend \"Chad\" for three years. They lived together for 1 year but he was mentally abusive and threatening so they broke up halfway through that year. Living out of state, she had no choice but to live separately in the same apartment. It turns out he was stealing money from their joint bank account which was specifically for rent. She finally moves away but thanks to his shittiness, she's still financially stuck to the apartment.\n\nIt's been almost a year since they've broken up but she still has to deal with threats from the landlords and Chad is using that to try and keep contact with her.\n\nI started dating Joy about a month ago after talking everyday for a month before that. We had been crushing on each other before her and Chad with neither of us knowing the feeling was mutual. I have very little dating experience (another post in and of itself) and I don't know how to support her when she has so much pressure on her from her family ties, career ties, and this burden from Chad. I seriously want to make this work as this relationship had really been slowly building up for a long time but I'm scared it's doomed from its start. She doesn't want me \"fixing\" her and I don't want her \"fixing\" me but I want still want to be supportive despite us just starting.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Guy here. Both of us are in our early 30's. We haven't been together very long (a few months) but things have gotten very serious already. I've been living at her place for extended periods of time and she keeps making jokes about marriage. It is confirmed that she is intending to have kids in approximately 5 years.\n\nShe's had quite a history including a divorce from her end. From the looks of it she's basically treating me already like the expected husband that her first turned out not to be. This is concerning me somewhat. I think she may actually be in love with me but there's a certain part of her past relationships that I'm not willing to accept (excluding the divorce) and will never consider marrying her because of this.\n\nI do not intend to dump her immediately as I actually enjoy her company. But I also do not see myself complying to her plans to start a family in said time frame. I don't want to waste her precious years on someone not willing to commit, but she's also pretty swamped at the moment with family and financial issues and leaning heavily on me for emotional support. My question is, should I bring up this issue now? Or wait a while first and see if her feelings for me will die down a little and/or her personal situation evens out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Around 23, I shared a ranch style duplex, attached only by the garages with a 30-something couple. (small 2-bedrooms, but both had a separated LARGE yard.) I step out for a cig and told my neighbor (who was just finishing mowing his yard) I wanted to see 'George Clinton & the P-Funk' in the mountains, but I only had enough money for gas up there, or the ticket in... I might as well mow my lawn too. \n\nI thought nothing of it, but five minutes later, he knocks on my door and tells me... \"Here is twenty dollars, have a good time at the show.\" I tried to tell him it was too much, but he talked me into it, mostly on my promise to pay him back the money when I got paid. Anyways, I got into the show and even snuck in a half-pint of cheap whiskey to mix with free waters. (Yes, people gave me weird looks, when I went into the port-a-potty with clean water and came out with a \"yellowish\" water cup.) I met some good people, got hit on by a variety of cougars, and made it home safely the next morning. When I got home, I noticed my neighbor also mowed my entire lawn while I was at the show. (At least an hour hard work.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As you have more than likely deduced from the title(for the love of God I hope you did at least), we are starting a new non-profit in South FL. Our goal is to provide middle-school-aged kids from our area a place they can come after school a few days a week(we will have schedules for ages/classes) and learn the basics of web/mobile design and programming(and intermediate classes as well).\n\nOur number one goal is to provide this for free to kids in low-income households, heck even families making 60k a year in South FL still cannot afford more than a small 2 bedroom apartment with the cost of living down here, forget about the cost of sending your kid to get programming lessons. We will have a small fee for kids whose families can afford it (our initial thought is around $100 a month).\n\nWe already have a location central to the schools in our area, and easy to get to from anywhere. We are working on getting the necessary licenses and completing the needed paperwork... and here is where we need our name.\n\nThe foreseeable future will be digital and children who can get a head start in learning the basics of programming and web/mobile design will have a distinct advantage as they continue to grow into productive members of our society. We want to provide an avenue that would not be available to these kids otherwise--many of which do not even have a computer or the internet at home. If they can get a head start, they can improve their situation in life, and maybe they will have an idea they bring to fruition that improves the lives of people everywhere... that's our dream at least.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been in a relationship [me27f, SO31m] for almost 5 years but there has been little sexual attraction (on my part) for the past 2 or 3 years. It's quite frustrating as we have an otherwise great relationship, and he still finds me just as sexually attractive as ever. We love each other, and he views me as the future mother of his children and the woman he will marry one day.\n\nI still find him physically attractive, but there is no sexual attraction at all. It's definitely not a psychological thing because I have found myself attracted to other people. Is losing sexual attraction to a long term partner normal? Is sexual attraction important in a long term relationship/marriage?\n\nHow many of you in long term relationships (2+ years, are still sexually attracted to your partners? Are there any of you who aren't? I can't imagine him not being in my life, but I also can't imagine being with someone forever who I am not sexually attracted to. \n\nI'm just wondering how many of you are in a similar experience or have had a similar experience…it's quite frustrating.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is how our convo went... was it too much?? we've only been dating for a month. \n\nHim: I can't stop thinking about how amazing saturday was...\n\nMe: Me too. I want to do it again...\n\nHim: Me too! \nI can't stop thinking about you bending over in front of me. \n\nMe: Oh yeah? \n\nMe: I'll be thinking about sat night when I go to bed tonight\n\nHim: Oh yeah? which part?\n\nMe: When you came in my mouth and I was looking up at you\n\nHim: That's really hot. I think I will go do some thinking about sat night\n\nMe: Put those thoughts to good use :) \n\nMe: I know I will\n\nI'm afraid he will lose respect for me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long time lurker, first time poster. \n\nI have married my high school sweetheart right after college when we both were 22. We've been married for 3 amazing years and dated for 6 years before getting married. He died in a car crash not long after our 3rd anniversary and his 25th birthday. \n\nI've been widowed for 4 years and I completely lost any romantic and sexual interest in other people. My husband was my first and only and I have no desire to change that. I feel comfortable this way, and I would prefer to stay like this because I have a happy and fulfilling life that I enjoy. \n\nMy parents, on the other hand, don't understand that and insist that I should get married before I'm too old and have children. I've tried telling them that that's not what I want but they so not seem to listen, telling me that I can't stop living just because my husband is dead. \n\nHow do I deal with them?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This actually happened about a month ago, and now that I'm past the disappointment, anger and sadness I thought that everything would be normal again. I no longer have any desire to be with him or date him but because I see him quite often I don't think I've gotten that chance to get over him, so I still like him. \n\nEven though it's not awkward between us, it's made being around him quite difficult, not to the point where my work is being compromised or anything along those lines, just on a more personal level. He'll be around for the next couple of days and this is causing me to be on edge, which is generally how I feel when I'm around him. That plus vulnerable, small and self-conscious. \n\nI know rejection sucks and it's meant to sting. For me, this was the first time I took it upon myself to actually ask someone out. Unfortunately I have to face the reminder of my rejection often, so if anyone has any tips on how I can get to a better place with this or at least not feel so on-edge/vulnerable/small/self-conscious about it, I'd love to hear it.\n\nA little BG information: I'm currently doing an internship for school in a small town and have tried occupying my mind with other guys with no success (it's a REALLY small town). Dating isn't in the foreseeable future right now.\nBeing a student, I also made sure this was okay prior to asking him out so do so as to not get the \"inappropriate behaviour\" speech.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know this is a stupid question but I'm really not good with relationships or reading signs or any of that so sorry. I was at a party and later in the night I put on my story a picture of myself and a girl I'd been hanging out with that night. In the picture she was basically hugging me with her arm and head on my chest and my arm around her. Pretty soon afterwards my friend (the 19F in the title) sent me a private snapchat of a selfie and her saying that she misses me. I checked my story and saw that she had seen the picture. I also had snapchats from earlier in the night that i believe she saw well before i put up the one of me and the girl.\n\nThis girl is someone i met in a class and I had known for maybe a little more than a month, we hang out a lot and I felt like I was receiving mixed signals from her about whether she was interested in me or not. So basically what I am asking is this a sign she is interested in me? Did she get jealous seeing me with another girl?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO and I have been dating for four months. I've been emotionally invested in our relationship for seven months, so needless to say, I'm on a deeper level than he is. He is a fantastic guy - very caring, very sweet, always fun for me to be around. I care about him deeply (although I'm not sure if I would call it love. It's probably something very, very close). Anyway, after a round of awesome sex last night, we had a discussion on whether or not we would get past the \"I like you,\" level to the \"I love you,\" level. His response was \"Probably not.\" He admits that I'm a good girlfriend, the best he's ever had, but that he doesn't feel those romantic feelings.\n\nWhile I'm sure those feelings could or could not develop, I don't want to get my hopes up about a miracle happening.\n\nWhat I've decided is that I care about my SO, we have fun together, and he says that he still has intense feelings for me, just not that intense. I'm moving to a big city in August, and I had planned on staying with my SO until that time and THEN deciding what to do. Since that decision has pretty much been made for me (if he can't fall for me, we won't stay together) I need some advice on how to make my relationship more casual.\n\nI don't mean sleeping around or being in an open relationship, I mean, are any of you in a casual relationship that you don't necessarily see going anywhere? How do you maintain the feeling of being in a relationship without falling any further emotionally? I just need a way to scale back my girlfriendly duties so that I can save my heart a little bit of trouble by not getting any deeper.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So yesterday my girlfriend and I were at a public pool trying to relax a little bit and maybe catch up on some reading. Unfortunately it started raining so we took shelter under a little poolside gondola that fitted two people. The two of us were sitting and talking and having a nice time when a tennis ball bounced over to us. I noticed a group of about five boys around the age of 12 looking at me so I assumed they had accidentally overthrown it and rolled the ball back to them. \n\nTwo minutes passed and another ball flies up to me. Again I rolled it back. After the third ball I knew something was up and I started to watch as the boys would wait until we weren't looking and throw a ball at us and then run up and retrieve it. After multiple throws, one of the balls flew up and smacked my girlfriend right in the chest. I threw all of the tennis balls I collected over the fence and glared at the laughing kids. \n\nThe lifeguard walked up to us with a smile and told us to let her know if they threw another ball because she would love to kick them out. She also mentioned that she had berated the kids. \n\nTwo of the kids came up and gave us a meek apology but my petty revenge was already plotted. The kids had not thrown a ball after the lifeguard's talk but on our way out we stopped by her stand and told her how they threw more balls at us. My girlfriend and I watched triumphantly as their pool day came to a sudden close.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been dating for almost five years. We were planning on moving in together in the next few weeks - not with just the two of us, but with some roomies - and his parents told him that they don't want him living with me.\n\nI get that we're both young, but this is a serious relationship, we've been planning this for a year and his parents have known about it and never said anything.\n\nMy parents are out of pocket because I can't afford my rent by myself, and me moving out with him was going to stop that. His parents are very well off so don't care.\n\nHis parents have ruined what was supposed to be an amazing step for us, and what was supposed to take a load of mine and my parents shoulders. I don't know how to deal with this situation and neither does he. He's been at college (or on campus boarding) for the past three years but his parents are saying he needs \"guy time\" before living with me.\n\nWHAT THE HELL. How do I deal with this??", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my housemate and buddy has been dating his girlfriend for about 3 years now, pretty much the only girl he's ever had in his life so she's a pretty big deal, but they recently decided to go on a break because she wasn't 'feeling it' anymore.\n\nWhile they were on the 'break' he decided to go to a party for one of our friend's birthdays, and she got upset that he didn't invite her. Apparently she was so upset she decided to go out and have sex with some random dude.\n\nShe admitted to doing it right after and she's apparently very apologetic about it, but the whole situation's got my buddy pretty torn up. He can't decide if it's worth ending everything they have over this, and he also blames himself for not inviting her to the part initially, which isn't very good for him IMO.\n\nNow I know this sub is usually for people directly dealing with issues like this, and I definitely don't have as many details as you guys might like, but I really suck at helping people out with stuff like this and he's coming to me to talk about it. Anyone got any advice for a friend trying to help another friend deal with something like this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Today I was talking to my mom about different members of my family when we got on to the topic of my uncle, a compassionate individual who would willingly take a bullet for anyone he loves and has the utmost respect for his family and has been in and out of the prison system a majority of his life and is currently serving a 15 year sentence. My entire life (I'm 20 years old now) my uncle has come and gone through my life and his physical absence is just something I've been used to. She began to describe how he is glorified and respected at his prison and inmates would undoubtedly kill for him if he simply asked. I scoffed at her saying there's no way my uncle is like that (I was told my whole life that he was in jail for random non-gang related instances) and in order for that to be true he would have to be gang-affiliated (which I was always led to believe wasn't the case). My mom then (in an almost humorous nature) explained that he is a high-ranking \"sergeant\" in a notorious gang and it's from within the prison that he gives his orders while remaining protected. She explained how his small charges that gave him these reduced sentences were his way of staying within his \"fortress\" while being able to deliver his orders efficiently and quickly.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So last Saturday, my ex and I decided to part ways. We both decided that we were too different on important topics and that too much work would be required to make this relationship work on both of our parts. Point is, we both knew this was coming. But it was still the hardest choice I've had to make in a long time. It was so hard to say bye to someone i was super close to and cared deeply for, even though i knew it was for the best. \n\nShe came over on Saturday, we talked for 40 minutes, then started packing up all of her stuff at my house. I was fine up until this point but we gave us each just one final hug for like 10 minutes and both of us just started bawling and kept hugging. Towards the end she said I'm gonna miss you and gawd dangit that hit me like a ton of bricks. But anyway we finally said bye about 10 minutes later and that was it. Been silence on the radio since then.\n\nAs I think about it now, I still stand by my devision that it was for the best. But I'm thinking back now that maybe I should have spent the rest of that Saturday with her before calling it quits, because just having it end so suddenly felt wierd. Now when I say this, I don't mean spend the rest of Saturday making out/doing other physical activites. I mean spend the day with her like you would for a friend who has one week to live. \n\nThis thought had popped into my head yesterday and since then I haven't been able to get rid of it, like it's a regret, since I don't know if we'll ever talk again. There's also a few more things I'd like to say to her along the lines of thanks for everything.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this past Friday I was at a college party and met a beautiful girl and started chatting her up. We talked for a little while then we started dancing and eventually the dancing led to making out on the dancefloor. This went on for over an hour and it was the most fun I've had a party in a long time. When the party started to wind down, I walked her back to her room, got her number, and kissed her goodbye. \n\nIt's been three days since then and I haven't had any contact with her. I would love to up and ask her out on a date but I'm not exactly sure what medium to use or how exactly to phrase it. I think texting her \"Hey I had a lot of fun on Friday. Would you like to get dinner some time?\" could come off as standoffish.\n\nI go to a big school and don't see this girl at all throughout the course of my usual day. Any advice on where I should go from here would be fantastic. Thanks y'all!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Assume you truly liked someone but something happened that kinda turned you off to them. Nothing ridiculously bad such as abuse or being cheated on, but something along of the lines of not being emotionally available to someone and/or briefly losing that connection/spark you had with them. Basically something that causes you to question if they actually like you or not. Like you have doubts as to whether or not the other person likes you when originally you thought they really liked you.\n\nWould you take them back and give them a second chance?\n\nI think this happened to me - a girl doesn't know if I actually like her. I know the typical advice for me is to move on, but in my past, I've had this happen before in which the vibe changes and actually coming on strong and apologizing ends up working. (In fact for some reason it seems to happen a lot to me - I've had to apologize twice in my past and got second chances). The only issue is having her believe that you are being genuine...and that's hard. And that's something I can't do unless I see her in person but obviously her being closed prevents us from meeting in person (unless its a chance encounter). But in the past, I've written a letter and e-mail and it worked, so maybe there is a way to not do it in person...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm (19M) at uni, and I've been really close with two of my flatmates (both F) as friends but recently I've been thinking about one of them in a more than relationship kind of way. So when we went out drinking one night, the other friend told me to go for it because apparently she likes me too, so I went for it was amazing but the next day we've just gone straight back to how we were, and she was talking about other guys etc in front of me.\n\n I'm very confused after everything that happened and would like some advice please. I'm not sure whether to really go for it if she's not that interested cause we live together, plus i don't want to make it awkward. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In the past, I have easily lost 10-20 pounds for a while, but it seemed overly difficult to restrict my consumption. It's like a month of constant trial.\n\nSo a couple weeks ago, I put myself on a plan that involved 2000 calories per day. I track food with one of the dozens of iPhone apps out there. \n\nThe awesome thing is, 2000 calories per day is actually a satisfying amount of food! I think when I did the \"just eat less\" thing, it turned into something like \"eat 1200 calories a day, feel starving.\" So of course every 2 hours was challenging, because I'd feel like I was overly hungry and have to fight some urge to eat. And this sort of caloric deficit didn't leave enough juice for my brain to run on. I program for a living. Lightheadedness is a death knell to my productivity.\n\nThese past couple of weeks, by the time dinner comes around, I usually have 800+ calories of eating-budget left to burn. This means I can have a satisfying dinner and be fine for the rest of the night.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My cousin and I (both 23 F) have been very close most of our lives. We grew up together and have a good relationship. Well we both got pregnant at the same time. We have the exact same due date (August 7th). This is my second pregnancy (I have a 2 year old son) and it's her first. We were excited that our kids were going to grow up together and always compared bellies. \n\nShe texted me yesterday saying that she was worried because the baby wasn't moving. She went in and they found a heart beat and decided to send her in for a stress test. I just got a phone call from our grandmother saying that she had lost the baby. \n\nMy heart is completely broken for her. I want so badly to be there for her and grieve with her but I'm not sure how. I don't want to make her uncomfortable. How can I show my support without upsetting her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met a girl this August at a soccer camp and I decided to ask her for her phone number (mainly because she told me she visits where I live frequently because her aunt lives there). We've been texting each other roughly once a week since then. I haven't seen her in person since camp and I would really like to be in person with her again because she's the first girl I've had a crush on since I was 14. I'm unsure about how to do this because I'm not sure if she's interested enough or if a relationship would work out even if she was interested.\n\nI'm unsure about the interest because in November I decided to tell her I liked her and I never got an explicit response if she liked me back and our conversations are somewhat rare, she has told me recently that she loves our conversations though.\n\nI'm not sure if the relationship is feasible because she lives about an hour and fifteen minutes away (I can drive, she can't) and a majority of her time is taken up by select volleyball(4 practices a week, a tournament almost every weekend). The volleyball also leads me to be unsure about her interest because I can't tell if that's part of the reason for the infrequency of our conversations.\n\nHow should I make an active attempt to see her again or should I wait for her to visit her aunt and see her then?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know what to do. We've been together for a year and a half but we've had the same problems over and over. Whenever I try to talk about our issues, calmly or not so much, he always closes up and says he's a bad boyfriend and that he's sorry for ruining my life and just other stuff like that, that makes me feel depressed. He's been married and obviously divorced, and cheated on his wife (which I found out feom a friend) with one other girl who eventually cheated on him, and he has trust issues. Which I understand but day after day while I'm away at college, he always says that he's sure I'll replace him soon and that I'm probably thinking about it. I've been nothing but faithful and I've tried to be understanding when he says that stuff but it hurts that he even thinks that, even after everything we've been through. I feel like he is still so emotionally scarred and just so withdrawn within his pain that I won't be able to get him to open up. I just want to be with him, that's all. But it's hard when he says these things and makes me feel terrible about myself and our relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my boyfriend for over three years. Last week, it hit me almost overnight that I had to end things. I don't want to, but I feel like I have to. All day last Sunday my boyfriend was annoying me. He wasn't doing anything wrong, just everything he did annoyed me. When I got home it hit me that I didn't feel the same way and I literally had a panic attack. All week I have had awful anxiety about it. I can't shake this feeling that I've falle out of love with him. I don't think it is his fault, he has been fine. He doesn't abuse me or disrespect me. I think I've just come to realize that I can't make myself feel the same way about him as I used to. \n\nLast night when we had sex, I felt like I was having sex with a stranger. I just wanted it to be over. I feel crazy because three weeks ago I was so happy with him and was so in love, and now I have these thoughts and I don't know if it is a lapse in judgment, or if love can change and fade so quickly. The thought of ending it makes me cry and cry, leaves my heart feeling like it is on fire. Like I'm a failure for being with someone three years with nothing to show for it. I can't stop thinking about the thought of him with someone else, or the thought of him no longer in my life and it is so incredibly upsetting. I feel like I am in this limbo. Like I love him, but not enough to marry him or spend my life with him. \n\nOn Valentine's Day we went to a hockey game and all day he was so nice, so loving. But I just kept thinking to myself that this wasn't right. Like yes he loves me, but I don't feel as in love with him as he does with me. \n\nHas anybody else felt like this? Did I fall out of love, or am I just out of the honeymoon stage? After my panic attack last week I went to the doctor and got on lexapro, and I just keep trying to tell myself that I'm depressed and that it isn't my boyfriend but I don't know.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been \"trying\" really hard to start my college education this past year, but I'm very stuck due to not being able to obtain all of my transcripts. I was able to obtain my high school transcript and ACT scores from 2009 relatively painlessly, however, I'm having NO luck in retrieving my cosmetology(Paul Mitchell the School)s transcript to be sent to universities I'm interested in. I have contacted PMTS repeatedly without being able to get in touch with anyone in admissions, until finally I was informed that I needed to contact someone else entirely.\n\ndeep breath So I did. \n\nI spoke with a man who said that he would be able to send out my transcript, however he noticed that I had an outstanding balance of 40k or some outlandish sum of money, to which I made it known that I was COMPLETELY unaware of. He added that I should have been sent to collections by now, that it was a \"school fee\" that would not be covered by financial aid.\nI asked him to elaborate so he said he would send me more information on it, then instructed me to send him an email with the address of the university I wish to have my transcripts sent to. \n\nAnd I never heard back. \n\nI did not complete my degree at PMTS, I dropped out at about 400+/- hours. I'm having a hard time understanding why those transcripts are even necessary to continue my education if I start out as a freshman anyway. But...\n\nI NEED MY TRANSCRIPT GOSH DARN IT! \n\nI need help, looking to see if someone is able to enlighten me as to any loop holes to get around, or if there are any similar experiences shared by others, or in general please just tell me what I need to do because I'm very lost. Also, why would I owe such a ridiculous amount of money just for 400hours of school? It just doesn't seem right.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "While I understand the concept of the circlejerk and having your own subreddit to ridicule and rant and troll as you please, I've seen a trend in r/srs that gives a string indication of trying to influence other subreddits mods. [Example] I personally have no problem with the concept and normal practices of r/srs. Everyone should be able to have a subreddit where they can discuss important or even extremely unimportant issues as far as those people are concerned. It's what makes Reddit great. However, when a subreddit goes from being an idea of satire and humor to an agenda of censorship and objectification, this could be a line that should not be crossed. So Reddit, I ask you. \n\n*Should a subreddit's users and mods engage in agendas to influence other subreddit's mods in order to get someone banned solely because they disagree with their point of view, especially when that subreddits sole purpose is to find objectionable comments/links for the purpose of ridicule?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The person I think of as the love of my life and the \"one\" is moving here from Europe tomorrow. She'll also be working at the same company as me. I've been here over a year and met last summer when she was an intern at another office we have.\n\nPeople at my company have no idea that we've had anything going on these last few months. When we first met we were both in relationships and have moved on from those because of the feelings we have for each other.\n\nI'd never even had a workplace romance before this, let alone relationship, and could really use some advice on what to expect, how to maintain those boundaries between work and dating life, and any other stuff you knowledgable people can add. I know it can be tough and constraining to be new to a city and in a relationship as well.\n\nI'm nervous about how intensely strong the feelings I have for her are, and the feelings are definitely mutual. We've had issues (dragging each other into our infidentlities) and I really don't want to screw this second chance up. The working together thing seems like a good obstacle to start thinking about.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This actually happened today.\nI'm in my first semester at uni and currently have a part time job. We're in student vacation right now because it's exam period, so I've been really caught up in my study. \nBasically the fuck up is I somehow managed to go a whole day thinking it was Wednesday when it was really Thursday. I spent the day in the uni library, got home late and went to sleep. Yes I know, I'm an idiot. I have work on Fridays and Sundays so I get woken up by a phone call from my manager asking me where I was. Queue confused me, who's still new to this job stuttering my way around a legitimate reason as to why I wasn't at work. I end up spitting out that I could get there in the next hour and she says \"dont come\" and hangs up. \nI'm going to have to see her on Sunday, and I have no idea what I'm going to say (any advice would be nice friends).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and I have been lightly talking about divorce for a while now but it looks like I may be going through with it soon. \nDetails:\nMet in college. He worked the same job until we moved out of the country for 2 years after I got laid off. I've always earned more money, paid more for things, until we lived out of the country- he earned more money. I stayed at home, had baby. We're back in the states- hes getting degree and we're planning on going back overseas with his new degree so he can earn more money. He's now studying and I'm the only one working. I came back 5 months before him to try and get settled first. So we spent that time apart. He came back in Jan. 14.\n\nWe have a 19 month old and are currently under a lot of financial stress (I'm filing chapter 7 soon, 1 income), he is trying to start a new career (teacher) and we are living with my parents and teenage brother. We have little privacy and very little time to ourselves, with or without the baby. We sleep in separate beds often because of the baby and we barely have sex (maybe once every 3 months), we're both faithful however.\n\n So all these are all factors...but this weekend after letting him go out to meet with a lady that he met at a teachers thing and hang out with her at an art museum all day he came home with a migraine so I let him rest. This morning we go out for brunch and he's a complete asshole to me because I don't want him to rush our brunch/mess up my semi-planned day so he can go meet up with one of his students (male) and he mentions divorce again while in the car. This triggers me to get pissed and actually go online and look into filing. \nIt's hard to actually pull the trigger. I'm trying to figure out if it's the circumstancel that we're in (which is temporary but taking longer then planned) or if it's really just over. \n\nI'd just like to know what to do- How to figure out if this marriage is over or not.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Two weeks ago, I flew from north eastern America to southern Australia to spend a month with my boyfriend and his family. Everything here has been going really well and I'm really liking Australia. I want to get a work permit and stay here longer.\n\nHowever, I'm not really sure how to tactfully tell this to my parents. They've always been overprotective. For example, they felt uncomfortable about me walking down my own street when I was 20 years old and I only was able to by basically telling them \"I'm 20 and I'm going to do it\" when I decided to walk home one night. So telling them that I plan to stay abroad on another continent is going to be difficult. I know I could just be blunt, but I'd like to explain it to them in a way that they will feel as least anxious/upset as possible.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background on her and our relationship: she didn't have a glamorous childhood. parents were divorced early, went through multiple marriages and significant others each, abandonment from her father who recently has come back into her life, and worst of all she was sexually assulted/raped as a teen by a neighborhood friend which cost her her virginity. We have been together for about a year and a half now. I'm not her first long term boyfriend, but she often says that no one has ever shown her love like I have. \n\nWe have recently been through some turbulence, as we've recognized issues within our relationship we find unhealthy and are working to either correct them or move on. After weeks of feeling like we were finding our way on the right path, yesterday she broke down to me and admitted that she thinks she may have a sex problem after confessing to sleeping with another man (who she also slept with while we were dating) In her own words, \"I know I love you, I know you are the perfect person for me, and I know it's must be hard to understand, but when someone gives me their undivided attention and shows me that they love me, even if I know they don't, it's hard to say no when they come onto me sexually.\"\n\nRegardless if we date again or not, above everything else, she is my best friend, so when she came to me with this problem I wanted to do anything in my power to be there for her and support her through this. I know admitting that to me wasn't easy. so my questions for you, reddit, are:\n\n1) how should I approach the situation to most benefit her\n\n2) Has anyone been in my shoes before, and if so, do you have any advice?\n\n3) Has anyone been through what she is going through, problems with sex or commitment, and if so what got you through it? Is there something you wish you or someone such as a close friend would have done to help you?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). \n\nWe talked more and started flirting a little.\n\nThis has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. \n\nI'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move.\n\nI'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is my first post in /r/TIFU, so please bear with me.\n\nLike your regular FU, this takes place few hours back. The scene is i'm waiting for my parents to get out the house and i'm running a bit late for a movie. So in my anxious wait. i decide to speed up things a little by taking the car (rented one) out of the porch and outside the gate to minimize anymore delay (Mistake 1). So while reversing, i noticed one corner was a bit too close to the gate so i asked my watchman to stand there and see if its all good. I see him through the mirror and he signals me saying it's all good, so i happily continue reversing (Mistake 2). After a few seconds, i hear a breaking sound, immediately stopped the car and got out to see one half of the bumper guard (an additional bumper infront of the main car bumper) broke off as it got caught in the gate while reversing which i couldn't see. Hearing the breaking sound, my dad comes out and sees the bumper, and hasn't said a word about it yet. I googled the replacement bumper and it costs around $140. My dad and I are not exactly on good terms so i don't know how or when he is going to react and i'm still in college, so I can't exactly pay for the damages.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I am living with 3 girl roommates and in the summer me and their best friend had sex and hooked up a bunch. I loved her but she did not feel the same way back. I kind of ended our friendship because it was not fair to me. The problem is that they are her best friends and she comes over all the time and I dont want to stop her from seeing her best friends but I hate seeing her. It makes me miss her so much and I want to be with her so bad and I know I need to get over her for good. Also me and her are ont he same sports team in university and we see each to her everyday at practice so there is no getting away from her. How do I get over someone who I see everyday and have to be around at practice and even at my home. I need help because I do not want to feel this way anymore. help am miserable", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't really know to format that title but I'm in college and she's in high school and she has no clue why I'm poor all the time and why I complain about money. I paid for her homecoming celebration (200-300 at least) and that pretty much emptied my bank account for the semester...in late October.\n\nWe went on a date last night and I asked her if we could split checks and this made her livid. \"I guess this isn't a date\" she said. I asked her why it's so hard for her, a girl with TWO jobs and a dad with an endless bank account, to just provide for herself when I'm struggling with money every fucking day and will be for 4 more years at least. She was annoyed and fiddled with her phone while I made attempts at conversation again until she said she can \"get used to my money situation\" because her dad explained that I was going to be a poor college student for a while.\n\nAnd that brings me here. This girl sits on her iPhone at school and picks and chooses Nordstrom boots to buy with her dad's credit card (not even her own) and has the audacity to get ticked off when I can't afford a dinner date because it all goes towards helping me survive to the next day at college. What can I say to help her understand how ridiculous this is?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys I need some serious advice on something, my girlfriend of 6 months is losing her sex drive big time, and its really putting a damper on our relationship.\n\nWe both have talked about it numerous times but at the end of the day I can't shake the feeling that whenever we do it (1-2 times a week) its only because she knows I'll be upset if we don't.\n\nIt never used to be this way when we first started dating, and then she went on BC, which we have both discussed as a possible reason for the decline in her sex drive, but she doesn't want to go off of it and she doesn't seem to mind the lack of sex. \n\nWhat truly bothers me about all of it is that I genuinely feel like she doesn't even enjoy it anymore, and therefore the sex itself is sucking, a lot. \n\nAll I wanna know is if laying off of initiating, (which lately has been every time were alone in my room, and getting denied like 40-50% of the time) will help, or if she will merely see it as a relief and be content with rarely ever having sex anymore. help reddit!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've heard that no matter what you do with an English major there's no way to make decent pay. \n\nI've decided I want to be a published author, or a successful enough writer to make a living off of it. I hear it's hard, and I want to improve my writing. My parents are telling me I have to attend college otherwise they can't afford insurance. From experience is it best to pursue your writing in college, or set yourself off in a solid-pay job starting out on your own? \n\nI'm by no means asking for anyone to decide for me, but I feel like I'm wasting money in college, and reading/writing are the only things I enjoy besides movies/plays/video games. I'll take everything with a grain of salt, but even writing tips would be helpful. I hate working and love stimulating my mind. I think constantly which makes work torturous. *I don't want to be rich, I want to live happy and pursue things that interest me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my best friend have been friends for almost 10 months now, and it has been my best friendship. We talk everyday, he had been my rock, and my confident. He has had my back through some tough spots, and given me so much advice. A month into our friendship, he told me he didn't think we meshed too well, and probably shouldnt date. I was half way fine with it , because we had started to get intaimate , and i wad fine being Best friends with benefits. \n Our friendship all this year has had its ups and downs, but we always have greay conversations and sex. But somewhere in this friendship, I fell in love with him. I have attempted to date , but to no avail, I kept comparing them to my best friend. But it always worked out bevause he wasn't dating and i could fall back on him. He's a truly amazing man and friend. \n \n\n To sum up a long post, he knew I had feelings for him, but told me he didn't share them. Today i told him I loved him and we probably shouldn't be friends anymore. He told me he didnt want to hurt me anymore , and didn't want to stop being friends, but it was hurting him too. We talked for hours, i cried and felt terrible. But we got to somewhat better ground. But then he told me, he had a crush on a girl he met two months ago, but it isn't anything more than friends right now. I trust him, he's never been dishonest, and he's always open and forthcoming. \n\n But im just hurt, and i don't how to get over this, sorry if i rambling. Im still crying and emotional.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So a friend of mine kind of just invited herself to my birthday festivities. I find this to be kind of annoying. I'm not sure if I exactly want to see her because last time we spoke she said some things that upset me and I'm still a little mad about that. She also invited another mutual friend to drive her down. I know this other friend has a crush on me and she gets kind of clingy and weird. I could see this being a problem because I kind of invited this other girl I'm interested in. \n\nHow do I get out of this situation without hurting anyone's feelings? I'm planning on going barhopping in the town surrounding my school and I'm worried about lying then having pictures on social media do me in.\n\nEdit", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband has been friends with a woman for a very long time. She is a lesbian. We will call her Gwen. I have met Gwen and her current partner, Kelly. They've been together about 5 years now and they're very nice people. I wonder about Kelly's motives with my husband sometimes. She is sort of touchy with him and Gwen is her first lesbian relationship. But we only see them less than once a year since we live very far away from each other now. \n\nNow here's the problem. Apparently, before he met me, Gwen and he would talk about how he would donate sperm if she ever wanted to have a baby with her partner. So I guess she and Kelly want to have a baby and have brought up this idea of using my husbands sperm. He says it's an honor that they would deem his DNA as good enough for their child. The problem is I am totally against it. I don't want my husband to have another child (we have one, and one more on the way) with another woman. I really think this is a deal breaker for me. \n\nAm I being unrealistic? Is this a perfectly normal thing for them to ask? Should I be okay with this? I'll answer any questions if I haven't been clear enough in my description.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, so this is mostly directed towards my female cat, but I'm sure this could benefit my male as well.\n\nMy female cat (Lodi) is a large lady; you can see how large she is in my post history. I used to free feed my babies because I grew up with outdoor cats and free feeding them never posed any heavy weight issues. Lodi, did infact used to be an outdoor mew. And since becoming an indoor mew, she has become obese. I do not want my male (Freud) to become obese as well. \n\nI feed them dry food twice a day;half a cup scoop. I'm not sure if this is \"too much\", but even with that, in the morning they meow loudly and chase me about the apartment as if they haven't eaten in days, so I feed them their breakfast. Then upon returning home they meow loudly and chase me about the house once more until it's dinner time, behaving like they haven't been fed in days. It makes me feel terrible.\n\nAnd if there's any concern in the food I give them, they get blue buffalo. So, is there anything I'm doing wrong? I want my cats to lose weight because I'm about to shave Lodi, she's so fat she cannot groom herself properly causing dingleberries and matting. I feel so terrible she's uncomfortable. But no matter what I've done she won't cut the weight and I certainly do not want to starve her! Please help!", "role": "user" } ]

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