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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It used to happen more frequently when we were younger but its gotten better these last few years. Recently however, it's happened 3 times and I felt bad after every incident. \n\nThe first time was when I repeatedly told him not to play with a lighter, he kept on playing with it, and I pushed him to the ground and lightly kicked him. \n\nThen today I had to pick him up from practice, and he told me the wrong place. I got there, he was nowhere to be found. I then called him, yelling at him and told him I was going to kick his ass when I got there. \n\nSo he tells me the right place and I see him with 3 other friends of his. I get out the car, start yelling at him and then go to hit him. He goes to defend himself but I still manage to land a few light hits. I then turn around and yell at his friends. I felt so fucking bad afterwards. I hit my brother and embarrassed him in front of his friends. \n\n Another time I had to take him to the movies and he said something stupid to me in front of his friends and I gave him one hard slap. I felt like a piece of shit. \n\nThe thing is I'm also frustrated at some other things and this was the straw that broke the camel's back. I still feel horrible though. \n\nHow can I stop this? I've noticed he aggravates me when we've been around each other for too long and thankfully I go back to college in 2 weeks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl (lets just call her Scarlett), and my mate when I hired him about 2 years ago, he and I quickly became fairly good friends outside of work. \n\nI started talking to Scarlett this past Christmas when their relationship was on the rocks, purely as moral support as I had no feelings for her then, their relationship did not last and they went their separate ways a month or 2 later.\n\nScarlett and I have since then become very close friends, we have dinner every week, coffee every other day and she is also my boxing partner. We spend a lot of time together.\n\nNow, over the past few months I started to see feelings develop, and they have grown into something much much greater. I have perhaps picked up on a few signs that she may be starting to feel the same way, although this could just be wishful thinking.\n\nScarlett is currently overseas, due back in a week, and I miss her terribly, however we do Facebook more or less every day.\n\nSo being her best friend is one massive hurdle to climb over, the second, although my mate doesn't care that we hang out, is if the feelings are mutual and a relationship does occur, I would lose both that mateship and a harmonious workplace.\n\nWhat on earth do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Loseit!\n\nThis subreddit has helped me make some drastic changes to my lifestyle, but there's one thing that I have a constant struggle with that I need a little advice on. I tend to eat around 1200-1300 calories per day and exercise daily (cario + weight training). My goal is less numbers-based and more about feeling healthy and getting in shape, as I am already at a healthy weight for my height. In contrast, my SO (in the \"obese\" range at 6'1\" and 235lbs, used to be 180lbs freshman year, but gained all the weight after he joined a fraternity due to the drinking culture) constantly says that he wants to lose weight, but so far he has only been making minimal effort by means of eating a little better and going to the gym a couple times a week with me. \n\nWe're both in college and in Greek life, so something that's central to our social lives is drinking. During this past semester, I've been mostly sober, but it's getting harder and harder to tell my friends why I'm not drinking because they don't take me seriously. On top of this, my SO feels like we should drink with our friends since it's our last semester and begs me to drink with him, but he rarely stays within a reasonable number of drinks, often averaging 7-8 beers or mixed drinks in a night. \n\nDoes anyone have experience dealing with situations like this? What can I do to get my SO to stop binge drinking and ruining the minimal progress he makes each week? And how do I help him to see that making changes to our lifestyle is the best way to lose weight? Any tips or advice would be great because I've been stressed out about this for weeks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have never cheated on her but I think I may make a big mistake when I leave. We have other issues too. She really wants kids and talks about it daily. I can't see myself having kids with her because I don't think she would be a good mom. She is a really good person but I'm not in love with her. \n\nI also have the fear that I'm being too picky and no one out there is going to be perfect. My wife is pretty great all around but I'm just not in love with her. I'm not physically attracted to her anymore. I know she would be happy if we stayed together, I would be much better off financially if I didn't have to go through a divorce. Is there some way to trick my brain into thinking I'm in love with her for eternity?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So today we were in class working on an assignment and she was continuously exclaiming that she didn't understand what was going on. She seemed to be ignoring me when I asked if she needed help. She turned to our classmate and asked her. The other classmate didn't know and pointed to me for clarification, so I stated why she (GF) didn't ask a teacher. She said she didn't want to. So I mistakenly said that she should stop bitching about it. \n\nNow she is enraged with me and won't speak to me at all.\n\nI believe that my statement stemmed from both exhaustion and overall confusion and annoyance that I've had with her the past 6 months. \n\nWe just got back from summer break and I hadn't seen her for about 3 months. Upon reuniting she seemed pretty uncaring and not very excited about the whole situation. \n\nThe first two months of the situation were great, but now she doesn't seem to care or ignores me at times. We see each other in class but that's about it besides the occasional day where we get together. I've been down emotionally and almost borderline depressed about how the relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere even though I deeply care for her. For the most part it is just me consoling her since she has had some family issues the past few months. She says that she loves me but I don't know if she really means it anymore.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, r/relationship_advice. I need your help. So there is this girl I've known for the past almost 7 years, and now in the latter stages of high school, we finally \"have a thing\". We would always flirt in middle school, and in sophomore year of high school, I worked up the courage to ask her on a date. She was blunt and dismissive, and told me she had a boyfriend. He was a well-known scumbag, and I thought that she was smart enough, high achieving, and different enough from this kid that their relationship would end soon. It didn't, they proceeded to date for 1 1/2 years and he took her virginity. They finally broke up because he also had sex with his best friend's girlfriend, and he broke her heart. She now has deep trust issues, so that now she is extremely cautious with me and relates everything back to how this one kid broke her heart. But she likes me, and says she wants to continue being with me, but I simply don't know how I feel about how she gave her virginity to this scumbag. Is this a big deal? Should I really be concerned with this? I've been with a handful of girls in high school, and even gotten rather intimate with a few, but would never consider going that far with them. So the fact that she did, with this kid, scares me a lot. She's incredible, smart, adorable, and high-achieving, and I just want to know whether this factor should really be affecting me this much. Thanks for your time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've had my dog for 10 years and love him to death. My girlfriend wants to get a puppy years from now when we have a house and a yard together. Around that time though, my dog may or may not be around. I am not ready for the emotions that are going to come with that. \n\nAfter my dog does pass, I don't know if I'll ever want a dog again strictly because of the emotional investment. I'm pretty emotional with pets, and I love them to death, but again, I don't know if I'll want to go through that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone!\n\nI am in a bit of a dilemma:\n\nThere is a girl from school, who is in my class, that I like. I tell her this last week, and she says she likes me too.\n\nYesterday, go out for drinks with her, and another classmate (a guy). He told me he would wingman for me, so he was not really a \"threat\"\n\nAnyways, we all get quite drunk, and I invite both back to my house to continue party. Wingmans plan was to leave shortly after, leaving us alone.\n\nAs we walk to my place, she says to me: \"I hope you know we are just freinds, I am just going to come for a drink, then go home with wingman\" (Not sexually, they just live near eachother.)\n\nSo, essentially I get friend zoned... Fuck..\n\nBut then we get back to my house, wingman goes for a smoke, and she starts making out with me. We make-out/grope each other a few more times. But then she says \"I cant sleep with you, your in my class. Everyone will judge me\" or something along those lines.......\n\nThen she goes home with wingman, and he stays the night at her house.... BUT he phoned me in the morning, explained situation, said nothing happened, he just didnt want to walk the extra 40 minutes home... \n\nHe also told me that girl said to him on walk home that she really liked me, and she also insisted that he call me to make sure I knew nothing happened between them..\n\nSo ya. I see this as one of two situations. \n1. I am actually friend-zoned, but she just likes male attention or something. If she really liked me, she would have stayed over.\n2. She likes me, doesn't want to put out that easily or something..\n\nI dont really know, its a weird situation...\n\nAny thoughts on what to do?\nI am thinking I just ignore her, hook up with other girls. Let her know these games are dumb and that I am not desperate/needy.\n\nOr perhaps just ask her what last night meant?\n\nOr just ask her on a date?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "An average conversation between us is very one sided. I feel like I'm the only one asking questions/responding more than a couple words. His most recent text would be something like \"I see\" or \"gotchya\" or \"nice\" or something and wonder why I wouldn't respond sometimes. The conversation is going no where and his responses give me the impression he's busy or doesn't want to talk. I want to have a real conversation with him, not an echo chamber of \"yea's\". \n\nI want to talk to him about this, but I'm not sure the best way to bring it up/get results.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright, well this Sunday, the 27, I picked my girlfriend up to take to my house. Halfway there she receives and call from her mom and I have tot take her home. I didn't know what it was about, so I drop her off and take her home. I get back to my house and her father texted me that based on some information he had received, he didn't want me to see his daughter anymore. I'm here think, \"Well f***.\" \n\nI call my gf later to see what happened. It turns out that her parents snooped around her room and read the messages off of her iPod (which receive her texts as well as her phone). We were talking about how we had sex and yada-yada. So her parents yelled at her and then her dad texted me that. \n\nYesterday we officially broke-up because I argued with her father about the whole scenario (I know, stupid me) because I couldn't handle how he didn't see me right for his daughter just because we had sex. So she ended it because it was between me or her father. \n\nSince then we've still been talking and there's a lot of feelings going around - neither of us want our relationship to be over. How do I convince her parents that we should continue dating? I know I could get over her but I really don't want that to happen. A lot of stuff happens in eight months.. I honestly think I love her, but maybe I'm just young. \n\nSeriously though, can anyone help me with how I should handle this situation? I really want to stay with her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "All right, I'll try making this short. \n\nI asked a girl who recently got out of a relationship on a date through text. I didn't say date specifically, she asked midway through if it was, after she gave me a few compliments on my looks. \n\nI said that it was indeed a date. She then went on about how she recently got out of a relationship, didn't know if she was taking a break or not, and told me to not expect anything and that she might break my heart. \n\nBut she did tell me that she will keep me updated. \n\nTwo days later I ask again through text on another date. More than 12 hours later, no response. Is this her way of saying that she's not interested anymore?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "...is to get under someone new? \n\nHas this worked for any of you? \nFinally completely ended an almost 5 yr relationship about a month ago, and I will admit it wasn't my call. We haven't talked in a while and its been very difficult for me. I feel lonely. He's already moved on so I'm trying my best not to contact him despite our formerly close friendship and the total lack of closure. \n\nI have been kind of seeing a new guy and I've made sure to keep him at arms length and prevent anything too serious while I deal with the heartache... but a lot of my friends have suggested that kind of committing to someone else could distract me and help me move past the whole thing. Just want to know other opinions. I know my friends are just anxious to see me with someone new after the longest and worst break up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "SO (21M) and I (20F) have been together 5 years and talk about marriage somewhat often. We love each other very much and are always happy thinking of our futures together. However, every time I think about our future especially the idea of a wedding, I get worried due to his family. They are emotionally (and on occasion physically) abusive people who take their hatred of each other out on their \"unwanted\" son. They have caused horrible psychological scarring in my SO and I hate being around them. They've never been very kind/receptive to me and I get terrible anxiety whenever I have to be around them. They are your purest form of white trash. SO knows how awful they are and has frankly said that maybe we should just never tell them if/when we get married. Just wondering if anyone out there has had to deal with a similar situation and how to handle the possibility of a wedding without one of the families involved?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I got my first ticket for failure to yield to emergency vehicle. The violation code is 21806 (a) (1) \n\nI was driving less than a mile away from my house in the slow lane of a 2 lane divided highway road, and I noticed two stationary cop cars with lights on in the slow lane more than halfway away from what seemed to be a blocked intersection. I change lanes to get out of the cops way into the fast lane attempting to follow another car assuming they were going to make a u-turn to avoid the traffic accident up ahead.\nAs myself and the other car had passed the two stationary cops one rushes in to get between me and the car in front of me and the other cop behind me. The car in front stops in the fast lane and I signal and pull over by the side of the curb turn off my car.\n\nA cop walks to my window and asks me whose car this is and where I was going. I reply and tell him where I was going, and he asks for my ID and insurance/registration and walks away for about 20 minutes. I notice during the wait that there are more cars making u-turns before the intersection and told to stop but they managed to continue making their turn and then to be told to turn the car around and one vehicle going straight through the intersection somehow without being pulled over. I notice the car that had stopped in the middle of the road got a ticket and eventually the cop comes back hands me a ticket without explanation of what happened with a smile on his face and nicely asks me to sign it, and I do so out of fear so I can just go back home. :(\n\nWould it be worth it to fight the ticket in court or pay the 490 dollar fine + 57 dollars for traffic school. I'm on a fixed income and can't afford a traffic lawyer.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There are a few things that she does very well, and I praise her for it. But she assumes/thinks she's excellent at everything she does, and that isn't true. \n\nFor example, the other day she wrote a song, and there was a line that it didn't make sense. I told her:\n\n \"Hey, I don't really get X line. It doesn't make much sense because it implies Y when I know you're actually trying to say Z\"\n\nSo instead of her taking the feedback, think about it for a second, or argue why she wrote that way. She freaked out, and said that I was wrong. How is it even possible that I understood that line like that, etc... \n\nAt another time, she cooked something and she put too much salt on the food. She asked \"How is it?\" and I told her \"I really liked X and Y, but I think Z is a bit salty for my taste\"\n\nShe freaked out again. She told me that's how the dish is and that I don't have an 'educated' palate.\n\nI could keep going and going, but I think you get the point. Every single time I give her feedback, and I tell her that she can do something better. She freaks out because she think she has a gift to be great at everything she does. She has quite literally said that.\n\nWhat is an effective way to give her honest feedback without her freaking out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My best friend (lets call her Ella) dated a guy (lets call him Patrick) for a very chaotic year. During this time he cheated on her with numerous women and manipulated her by telling her it was all in her mind and that it was all her fault that she didn't trust him.\n\nFinally, she took my advice on board and ended that toxic relationship when Patrick cheated on her with someone that she knew. The girl he cheated on Ella with was really apologetic because she had no idea Ella even existed and only found out because she was telling her good friend (Tam) who was also good friends with Ella and Tam recognized the name immediately.\n\nAfter the breakup she found out some pretty devastating news about him that explained why the whole relationship was so toxic. Patrick is bipolar and often goes for periods of time without taking his medication.\n\nElla has been having a pretty hard time letting go and on a couple of occasions her and Patrick have hooked up. The other week at his place she noticed him texting another girl (Rose). Ella told me about it and I never really thought about it until today when my friend texted to say her friend Rose was dating Patrick.\n\nI immediately told Ella. She told me if she had been in the situation where she could have found out about him before she would have wanted to know so that she could've avoided that situation altogether. And that she's happy for Rose to contact her if that is what Rose wants.\n\nJust making it clear that she wouldn't tell Rose that Patrick is bipolar because he is pretty private about it and hasn't told many people.\n\nI really need advice on how to approach this. I know Rose but not well enough to hit her with this kind of information and I don't want to involve our mutual friend. I'm also worried that she'll think I'm lying to her since he comes across as such a great person.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (20f) am currently a university student on the east coast and in two weeks I'm going to be moving to the west coast for a 9 month internship opportunity in my field. I'm hugely excited and I wouldn't give this opportunity up for the world. However, almost three months ago I met a guy and we started casually dating. I told him right away that I was leaving soon and that it probably wasn't a good idea to get involved. He convinced me that it would just be something light and fun and that we would just have a good time up until I left. In hindsight, agreeing to that probably wasn't the best idea.\n\nWe've gotten pretty attached to each other, but the fact that I'm leaving soon has put a strain on our relationship. He's being distant and not putting a lot of effort into seeing me or talking to me too much anymore. I went from seeing him almost everyday to, at most, once a week. This has caused a few different fights/spats to take place. However, when we do actually spend time together we're affectionate and it's as if nothing is wrong. All the problems just disappear and that's what makes me think that the issue is my leaving as apposed to just general incompatibility. \n\nAnywho, awhile ago we talked about how once I come back we'd both be interested in picking things up where we left off-- in no way is he going to \"wait\" for me, but if we're both single, we'd like to give things a try again.\n\nMy question is, while I'm away for 9 months, should I not talk to him? Do the whole NC thing and wait till I get back? Or should I still text him sometimes and maybe write emails back and forth so that we stay in contact?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My little sister was in India with my mom's insane family (we are from Canada).\n\nShe messaged me about it a few days back detailing how my uncle hits his wife, my aunt is in a cult and my grandma is a psychopath who manipulates and sets people against each other.\n\nOnce I found out, I told my dad. He basically said that my sister was a strong person and that she would be okay.\nLast night my mom (who I don't have a great relationship with) and I had a fight and I feel very guilty because I told her what was happening with her family.\n\nShe obviously didn't believe me and accused me of being a hateful person.\n\nThis morning my dad also asked me if I had thought about the consequences of my actions.\n\nI feel like I've betrayed my sister's trust and hurt my mother.\n\nI know that I just told the truth and that abuse is often hidden in Indian culture but it just hurts and I feel like the only reason I told my mom was to hurt her. (I've actually been very worried about my sister but still)\n\nShe isn't with them anymore and has left to stay with other family members so really, I didn't have to tell my mom.\n\nThey all act very different when she's around and they've never been anything but kind to me. They did say rude things to my sister but she just pretended she was jet lagged and didn't understand them.\n\nAnyway its been bothering me all day. I do have depression and spent all day in bed just sitting in my guilt and my mom wouldn't even look at me when she got home.\n\nI don't know what to do or how to fix this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okie doke, so I'm 21 and just getting into this whole \"adult\" gig and I have been looking at various credit card options for their rewards programs. I really want the TD Bank cc, but being a whippersnapper they won't quite approve me (great credit, the only real knock on it is that I don't have enough lines of credit). Anyway, so I got another CC that had preapproved me and will be receiving it shortly. Is there any reason not to use it for literally every purchase I would normally use my debit for and pay it off every month? I know the point is they make money when you don't and when you overspend, but I'm super tight with my money, have a few grand saved and a job lined up and literally no expenses that my current graduate assistantship doesn't pay for (with about $400 left over each month). My main point is, am I missing some sort of caveat to credit card usage that would discourage this? My line of credit is up to like $3000 or so and I can't even fathom hitting that, but could cover it easily if I did.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, Reddit, I've been dating this girl for a little over a week and she texts me today and tells me that she found out that she has HPV. She noticed a bump downstairs and got paranoid about it after looking it up online so she went to the doctor. So the doctor looked at it and told her that it was HPV and gave her some medicine and sent her on her way. \nAt this point, that is about all I know. I don't know what to think, how to feel, if I should be mad or not, I just don't know. I'm a little freaked out to say the least. \nI guess my question is what does this mean for me? Will I get warts on my manly bits? What does this mean basically? Am I going to get warts on my junk? Does this fuck me over for the rest of my life? \nI'm too stunned to just look online because I'm sure it'll just make me freaked out as fuck (especially staying away from WebMD). Any information you guys have would be much appreciated. \nYes, this is a throwaway account. Some of my friends know my real username. Don't care about karma.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My first girlfriend of 6 months left me 9 months ago, 7 months into the break up she contacted me again talking to me about what has happened in her life and what not after she left. She then brought up the possibility of her coming back to me. \n\nUnfortunately, we talked a bit more and she said she really wasn't sure so we just stopped talking for a bit. I contacted her again a few weeks later, then she just stopped talking to me. She wont even tell me if she wants me back or not. She just declines my requests on Skype (it was long distance), and wont tell me anything. I am having a hard time moving on with all the thoughts of her being with someone else and I cant get any solace because she wont tell me anything. What should I do? Has this happened to anyone else?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been in a serious relationship with my best friend for the past 6 years now. Lets call him Mr Deer. Everything about him is great, hes kind, hes supportive, sweet, caring, kinda romantic in his weird way but nonetheless, hes great.\n\nThe thing about him is that hes too passive. Sure, he holds me when we go out, gives me plenty of kisses, gives me sweet loving sex. But he just doesnt seem to hold any sort of aggression. Hold it, i know its a good thing. The thing is, i love rough sex. Spanking, domination, Whips and just all round rough sex. Think 50 Shades of Grey without the bad literature. I did talk to him about it, but he just cant bring himself to do it. Its really sweet, but sex in the bedroom is getting quite boring.\n\nI met a new guy a year back and we have been chatting recently. Well, yeah you guessed it. Hes a kind of a bad boy. Unlike Mr Deer, hes quite the manly man. Muscles, the great hair- just imagine a lion. yeah. hes quite like that. After dating a passive male for the past 6 years, i was drawn to him like a moth to a flame. For the whole year, we have been talking on and off, but the UST (underlying sexual tension for those people who dont know) Has been super intense and one day i did the unthinkable and i slept with Mr Lion. but OH MY GOD. it was the best sex i ever had.\n\nThe thing is, i never really was ready for a serious relationship but somehow Mr Deer and i just kinda escalated way too fast. I honestly dont think things would work out with Mr Lion. So i'm just sitting over here, behind my screen feeling like a slut while two men shower their love over me.\n\nWhat should i do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I adopted a cane corso mutt and my landlord (mainly his wife) says we can't keep him. The dog is a gem. He is kind loving and sweet. He socialized with my landlords dog (also on the list of dangerous breeds) and they love each other. Playing and getting rowdy with each other makes both their days. He checked with his home owners insurance and they said they will drop him if we keep the dog, but as of Oct 31st that practice won't be allowed in my state (legislation being signed into law). I can't fathom letting this dog go. He is amazing. Do I have any options here, or is it a fruitless fight?\n\nHere he is", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a pretty lonely guy, my last relationship ended when I was 19 and I turn 25 in a month. It took me a while to get my life together, still getting there, but I worked at a sandwich shop for the last 3 years before applying at a coffee shop recently. The sandwich shop was mostly men, the coffee shop is mostly women. One of the girls training with me stands out in particular, she has been what I'd consider to be a little flirtatious (it could just be friendly and I'm dumb) and although I don't even know for sure if she is single I'm starting to lose my cool as the idea of a relationship with her enters my head more often. I've looked up company policy on this sort of thing and it's all good, she's also just training at the store I'm going to work at and moving to another location which I think could be a good thing. What do I say to her to let her know how I feel? How do I say it? I have some ideas but I am terrible at this sort of thing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Earlier today, I decided to go to the school basketball game. Everyone was having fun and we were all hyped up. There was also the school mascot who ran around getting people pumped for the game. In earlier games, a good friend of mine was the mascot and he often poked me to get my attention. Anyways, I was enjoying the game when the school mascot decided to come over and start touching my face. Assuming it was my friend, I told him to stop but he kept going so I thought it would be funny if I put my hand on his chest and stare passionately into his eyes. \n\nThe person in the mascot suit was not my friend. I quickly realized this after staring into the eye mesh of the mascot hemlet. The mascot quickly realized what was happening, shoved my hand away and took off behind the bleachers. Realizing what had just happened, I started to ask people who was in the mascot. Not only was it not my friend, but it was a girl. I had just accidentally groped a random girl who I have never met in my life. After returning home, all I could think about was how I'm probably going to be known as a pervert who sexually harasses strangers.\n\n I have never met this person but I know her name. I don't even know what she looks like. How do I fix the situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry for wall of text.\n\nThis is an issue that has been ongoing for most of my life. My father, while incredibly successful and a great provider, has always been emotionally abusive to my mother. Luckily it has never turned physical (AFAIK), but whenever I visit home, I hear my father scream at and berate my mother for every little thing. For example, my father is an incredibly reckless driver. Whenever my mother comments on something he did that was unsafe, it turns into 2 hours of him screaming at her for constantly criticizing him. He also screams at me and my siblings about mundane things e.g. not cleaning something properly, dropping something, not using utensils correctly (?? who knows).\n\nI'm at a loss at what to do. I absolutely adore my mother and my father is enjoyable to be around when he is not angry, but I'm tired of seeing her screamed at by him. Whenever I bring up this issue, she always tells me that he is working on his temper and has other good qualities. However, my mother consistently tells me that he wasn't like this when she married him and if she had known how he would turn out, she wouldn't have.\n\nI've already told her that when I have children I will be extremely hesitant to leave them alone with my parents. Their relationship has affected my own views on relationships greatly. Beyond that, I'm not sure what I can do. Cut off all contact until she leaves him? Just continue to ignore it for the rest of my life? I have no idea what the protocol is for situations like this.\n\nAny help would be greatly, greatly appreciated. I'm tired of being a passive bystander.\n\nSummary of what he does: demeans her opinions and beliefs, always believes he is right, yells constantly, doesn't care about feelings, constantly makes threats.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "How soon is too soon?\n---\n\nI [F/23] was dating my boyfriend [M/24] for about three years. We broke up about three weeks ago. Before we broke up (at a time where I had already decided that it was going to happen), I had mentioned to my best guy friend [M/22] that I had often considered us dating but regretted saying anything and we didn't bring it up again.\n\nFast forward to a week ago, we went out with some friends, got drunk and hooked up. This week we've been hanging out a lot, and it's gone from \"I definitely want to be single for a while\" to \"I don't want to pass this up.\" He's admitted to feeling the same way.\n\nThe thing is, my ex is a great guy. It really just wasn't in the cards at all, and I still care for him as a person. We had different life goals and passions, and I could feel myself slowly becoming resentful towards him because I often felt held back doing things that he would not want to do.\n\nObviously I want to take the actual dating part very slowly, but what is the minimum amount of time I should take? Especially as I'm still close friends with some of my ex's friends as well and I still care for him as a person? I feel completely moved on from him and it feels as though it was months ago already but I know it's very different for him and I feel terrible for causing him any pain to begin with.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "i have some land that needs to be sold. i paid 14 k for it . i had to pay in full, or have a foreclosure against my credit, which was not going to happen since i was planning on buying a house. \n\nback story for those who care me and an ex bought land, we were a week from getting married. i was on the papers too. this was back in 07, and we split right after from him getting cold feet. we got my name off of the land deed, but i had no idea that i had to also get my name off the bank . so i thought it was all him from then out (he did too) and we went our seperate ways. fast forward to 2 years ago, i get a notice (the first actually) threatening foreclosure becuase he had apparently not been paying it at all. i went to see what the deal was, and my credit had dropped to almost 500 because of it. i had less than a month , so i pulled my savings and bought it\n\nso, here i am , still trying to sell this land that i want no part of, and it seems like the only people that are interested are wanting to do owner financing. i'm leary about it, because its in a subdivision. if they have a house built, and stop paying me, then what happens? \n\nsorry this is long.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my boyfriend and I met online about a year and a half ago. For half a year we skyped everyday and got to know each other. He flew out to meet my family before I decided to move in with him in a different state. Things went really well. We fought a lot in the beginning of our relationship but we grew a lot together and fell deeply in love. However, while we became too comfortable with each other, our financial situation has been declining in a bad way. We decided to call some family for a little extra help. My boyfriend spoke to his grandmother because they're really close. Her reaction was a bit different than expected, she told us if we wanted her help, my boyfriend would have to go back to his home state and prove himself in a sense. And that left me with no choice but to do the same thing and go back to my hometown. Now I feel like we were just hitting the peak of our relationship, we just celebrated one year together. The benefits of this are that, when we are together again we will hopefully have a house, we will be much more independent and hopefully more financially responsible. But I've never had to deal with something like this. It feels like a tidal wave. It almost doesn't feel like it's really happening. To top it off, o have to stay in his apartment five more days and the utilities were just shut off. So my question is how do you redditors deal with long distance relationships? I would do anything to be with this man. I keep telling myself it is only temporary but nothing feels the same without him here. I'm sure this sounds whiny and sad but that's because well, I am whiny and sad among 3 million other emotions. Help, redditors?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here is what happened . . . \n\nI have been working at a company for 3 weeks. I was assigned a project by my boss's boss's boss who never gave me a due date. While I was working on the project, my boss's boss told me that I should have someone look it over before turning it in.\n\nThe next week I sent an email to my boss's boss's boss (the big man) giving him a short answer in case he needed it right away. Later that day I had finished editing my project. At the end of the day, the big man told me \"I look forward to reading your project,\" while he was walking out the door. I panicked and sent him my project. \n\nThe next day my boss asked me if I had sent the big man my project and I said yes. She told me that her boss (my boss's boss) told her that all my work had to go through her. \n\nI want to ask reddit\n\nA. Does anyone think I will get fired for this?\nB. What would you have done differently to avoid this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 27 year old male and work at a store with a 19 year old female. Over the past few months, she's been very flirty to me specifically but I did not express any interest in her at first due to the age gap. She would find ways to team up with me on projects and we would be together every day at work until all the co-workers just assumed there was something going on between us but neither of us addressed it. \n\nI am starting to like her but don't know what to do. She texts me a lot and we chat on skype, mostly just joking around and flirty shit. I'm pretty sure she has a thing for me from the hints she's dropped but I'm also pretty sure she has a boyfriend but whenever I try to bring it up she changes the subject or vaguely says he's a friend. \n\nA few days ago I saw her randomly with a guy holding hands. She didn't see me and later she texted me asking something and I replied and asked what the did that day. She said something along the lines of \"just hung out with a friend shopping\". Now I'm stuck in a weird situation where I'm not sure what's happening. I'm still having reservations about the age gap so this might be a good thing. Should I not pursue anything? Cut contact? (difficult...we work together and everyone there sorta knows what's happening so they usually team us up anyway) Stay just friends? She doesn't seem to be the type of person who would cheat but then again...I've only known her 4 or 5 months and have been serious friends 2 or 3 months so I wouldn't say I know her TOO well. Sorry for the rambling post. sorta drunk...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This Saturday I am leaving for the Florida Keys, where my boyfriend's parents are currently vacationing. His parents asked him and me to fly down and spend a week with them. They are staying in their trailer and my boyfriend and I will be sleeping in a tent on the beach nearby.\n\nMy boyfriend's parents are...not my biggest fans. Let's just say that liberal, nerdy, tattooed, and religiously apathetic were not on the list of things they were hoping for when their son brought a girl home. Nonetheless, they've accepted that after 6.5 years with their son, I'm not going anywhere any time soon, and while I don't see them or speak to them very often (boyfriend and I live 3,000 miles away), they do include me in bigger events such as this.\n\nMy boyfriend's father is working on building a relationship with me. It's clear that he doesn't accept me 100%, but he's working on it, and I've told him how much I appreciate it. My boyfriend's mother is strictly civil with me...most of the time. Sometimes she can be mean in that high school girl kind of way, where it's kind of subtle but I still receive the message that she's trying to send.\n\nI mostly fear for this trip because the last time I saw my boyfriend's family (Christmas), his mother was very openly rude to me. The day previous, she had told my boyfriend that she didn't think I was good enough for him. Both my boyfriend and his father defended me, so she was very hostile when she saw me the next day. I haven't spoken to her since, but I don't know if I could deal with that sort of hostility again for 9 straight days.\n\nI really want to have a good time on this trip, but diffusing hostility is not something I'm really good at. What can I do if any arises?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I used to frequent a sushi place in Nashville, TN called Samurai on Elliston place. The owner was Korean and his name was Mr. Kim (Yes, I know that's about like saying Mr. Smith). The last time I went in, a number of years ago, I found that he'd sold the place. I was told that he moved to Alabama. If this rings a bell with anyone, I'd love to know where he ended up. \n\nAt any rate, it was the best Sushi I've ever had and I know he put Mayonnaise in the rice. So, does anyone have such a recipe?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're all in university, and looking for places to live for our third year. Originally I was going to move in with my friend(who I'll further refer to as Jen) and her boyfriend, both because we're close and thought it would work, but also in part because everyone else seemed to already have roommates for next year, and I felt I was out of options. \n\nJust today though a mutual friend of ours (we'll call him Sam) asked me to move in with him and his current roommate, and now I'm not sure what to do. On one hand Jen and I are close friends, and I get along fine with her boyfriend as well. on the other hand Sam asked me to move in with him, he already has a place in mind which is in a perfect location, and I was always a bit uncomfortable with the idea of being the '3rd wheel' so to speak. Sam doesn't know I've been looking for places with Jen, he just knows I'm looking for a place for next year.\n\nI don't really want to ditch Jen, although I'm starting to lean that way, and more importantly if I do move in with Sam instead I don't know how to tell her. any advice helps guys.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friends finally decided to invite me out for a night out, I usually hang out with this group but the only thing is that they're all planning to sleep over at someones house who I'm not to familiar with. They're all close to these people living in the house, but I would feel extremely uncomfortable staying there. I'm not even sure if he's okay with it, my friends just told me that they were going too.\nI don't have anywhere else to stay because we're going to a different city (college campus), I want to go out with them, but I'm not sure. I'm hyperventilating just thinking about it...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Traditionally I have understood that you don't want to be upside down on a mortgage so you normally have a larger downpayment and opt for a shorter term to get less interest accrued on your loan. However on my way into work today I heard something and I want to try to understand what/how their premise works. The ad stated that going for a long term and a minimal down payment and basically paying interest on the house is actually the way to build wealth. The ad is from a \"financial adviser\" agency but the does talks in my area, but I want to understand why/how this could work out to be beneficial. Does it simply have to do with them claiming that they can get a better RoR on investments (stocks, etc) off a down payment that would nullify the interest? I don't have much more information on the ad, but I thought it would be interesting to understand why/how this could work out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I fucked up. Again. I lied about the last time I checked a girl's profile. Someone I used to talk to and stopped talking to once I started dating her. Someone younger than me. A few weeks ago, she found the truth about the nature of my relationship with her back then (all over text) and just last night she asked me when the last time I checked her profile was. I lied and said it was a month or two ago, when it was closer to a week ago. I didn't even think about it. I just kneejerk lied, because I thought the truth would be worse.\n\nShe cried her eyes out. She hates me. She thinks I'm a piece of shit. We're just about to get a new place together and she agreed to live with me under a \"domestic partnership\" until she can figure something out. But, she's the love of my life. I can't lose her. I wanted to go all the way with her (married, babies). What can I do? I'm glad she's at least living with me so maybe there's some chance that she'll trust me again, but I don't know. She fuckin hates me right now and I don't blame her. I lied again. I hurt her. Again. \n\nHelp", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "On an early morning, I was walking my little brother to school, it was pretty hot, a temperature of about 33 degrees Celsius for the morning.\nAs we were walking along a footpath, we were getting closer towards the school. This school has 2 entrances down a side street or a quicker walk up the hill.\n\nHe suggested that we take side street because it was hot but then I suggested let's just go up the hill. As we we're walking around the corner to cross the road, I then murmured It's very little. Just as I said that a dwarf walked around the corner and gave me the biggest death stare of my life. I didn't even notice\n\nMy face went bright red, my intention of the word It's very little, was in regards to the hill, but anyway we keep walking and I felt a little embarrassed. I dropped him off at the school and then I begin to walk home. Guess who's waiting at the bus stop? The dwarf. \n\nAs I walked past him, he again gave me the biggest death stare, I felt like stopping and explaining what I meant, but instead I thought stuff it I'll keep walking and won't say anything.\n\nI feel like a c*nt.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, so I am a bit younger, I hope you don't mind.\n\nI am currently 20 and will start Uni in Germany this fall and I have the first time a real problem with a relationship. I always had a really good friend and she helped me all the time with everything, we know each others since early childhood. She is 2 and a bit years younger than I am and she is really important for me, I can talk with her about anything. I am currently single and now she made a move on me and I am crashing. \n\nHer life is currently horrible, and while we both have it not easy, she is really breaking at the moment. This is hurting me, so I started to become sort of like a brother, whenever I see her I just want to protect her from everything bad in life, no matter what happens. I think she saw that as me approaching and just took the chance (she kissed me, nothing so serious). Now I panicked and friend zoned her. I told her I will think about it until Uni starts, but I don't want to friend zone her, because I know friend zone, it sucks! But whenever I see her, I think of the small child that I still remember, not the girl she is right now (she is 17, it is not like I am committing a crime, am I?) What should I do now? I mean I like her, and we understand each other well, and we know everything about the other one, it would be so relaxed with her...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Honestly, I'm not sure how significant this piece of information is in the context of our relationship.\n\nI've been dating my boyfriend for a few months now, and he doesn't know that the drunken dance-floor makeout we had a little over a year ago, the first time we met, was my first kiss.\n\nI've kissed plenty of other people since then, so it's not like he's the only person I've ever kissed. I told him that we had kissed on the dance floor last year and he barely remembered it, which I don't have a problem with. \n\nBasically, my first kiss was not that significant emotionally (but it was pretty good), but the fact that I'm dating the guy I had my first kiss with is...interesting. It wasn't his first kiss. He's my first boyfriend; I'm not his first girlfriend. Also, he's the first (and only) person I've had sex with, while I'm not the first person he's had sex with.\n\nShould I tell him that he was my first kiss? Would he find it a funny coincidence, or be a little weirded out that he's been my \"first\" for all these things? I don't want him to think I'm super clingy or that I planned this all out or something. It's true that I was a little extra interested in him the second time we met because of our past encounter, but that definitely didn't become the basis of my attraction to him. \n\nI'm debating between not telling him at all, or waiting until we've known each other for longer. The topic of first kisses may come up at some point before then, though.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Megan and I have been friend's for over 6 years. We met back when we were both in community college. She's pretty awesome and even though we were romantically involved at some point, I never really fell for her and we decided we made better friends.\n\nLast week I was on instagram minding my own business and decided to search for people I may know that I'm not following yet, tapped on the \"people\" tab scrolled down and noticed her face popping which I found strange considering I'm already following her.\n\nTurns out this is a DIFFERENT instagram she has and I was mind-blown by the fact that this is a rather interesting revelation because it sort of exposes a side of her that I was totally unaware of and my god I could not help being turned on by it... I'm not sure how to describe it but let's say it exposes her to get a very wrong type of attention; however, I loved it and I can't stop thinking about her.\n\nIdk what to do, I want to tell her I know about it and that I'd like her to explain me what is this all about. To my eyes, she was always what you'd consider a good girl so this has come off as quite a surprise, a wrongly pleasant one. Should I tell her I know about it and that I now want her more than I ever have? I feel so weird creeping on her alternative profile and reading all the comments she gets but can't get enough of how freaking hot she looks. If I only knew about this side of her while we were dating...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit,\n\nMy two roommates and I have been living in a house for about 6 months now. Today we had our first run in with our neighbor (who owns a tow truck) across the street. Our friend came over and parked his car along the curb in front of our neighbors house. When he goes to leave we discover that the neighbor has parked his son's truck inches from our friends rear bumper and his tow truck was parked really close in front. Our friend was basically boxed completely in. We went to knock in the door (we figured it was an accident or something) then out comes our fat neighbor screaming and yelling. He claims that we cannot park in front of his house (it is a public street), and that next time he will tow the car. We tell him that's illegal and he threatens a \"neighbor war\" with us, which is something he will lose (we are all in college). Is it legal to tow a car that is parked perfectly legal? We live in Nevada if that matters. We have considered parking another car there and then letting him tow it, but also secretly film it, good idea?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's a very long story so I'll try to summarize and provide details when asked. We have lived together since almost the start of our relationship and have always been extremely close. One of our issues has always been sexual needs. We split up a couple of days ago over this because he met someone at work who he immediately wanted to fuck their brains out and felt guilty and like it wasn't fair to me.\n\nI explained to him tonight that every human in a relationship has these feelings at one time or another (correct me if I'm wrong). I too have wanted to fuck other people before but have never considered ending the relationship because of it. I feel like it's important these things remain sexual-only and no emotions involved which he has already stated would be the case with the current girl in question.\n\nHe also didn't have many other sexual partners before me so it's definitely coming into play. This situation is also something I have considered in the past without him (being polyamorous/non- monogamous-not sure?) We have also discussed threesomes and such before.\n\nThe reason none of it has come to fruition before now is because of my own insecurities with my body. I'm trying to reach the point now of knowing its my only body and working it. I'm in the process of losing 30 lbs and have lost weight since we started dating. My weight has always been a strain on my sexual confidence especially in bed with him. \n\nSo on one hand I feel mostly okay with letting him fuck other women (and me fucking other men when I find someone appropriate) but I don't want to be jealous. I have thought all of this out without getting emotional at all so it's all with a clear head. I want to have our amazing and awesome relationship as partners and still be open to other things. I also don't want to be completely neglected by him and find a balance of healthy sex and also occasional sex with others. Is this possible? \n\nIs this appropriate? Would I be better off posting this to r/polyamory or something?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My problem:\n\n- European, 21/M\n\n- Moved abroad to study in my girlfriend's country (I met my girlfriend online)\n\n- I have a bank account with almost no savings\n\n- I've been looking for a job for the past months (since I've moved) and I started working 10 to 20 hours weekly as a part time waiter, for around 300 euros/month since this month\n\n- My parents decided to give me 250 euros/month to help me with expenses since I've started working\n\n- I already saved enough to pay this year's university (800 euros)\n\nMy hobbies are all computer related, and I would like to invest some money in it to buy a new monitor for around 150 euros (at the moment I have a 15 years old monitor). The computer hobbies don't bring in any money (music production, web design) but help me keep my days full until I will find a full time job.\n\nMy girlfriend's parents are letting me sleep at their house/feeding me for free, but I would like to contribute even if they don't ask anything back from me (100-200 euros/month?).\n\nAlso, my girlfriend complains that I don't spend money for her. Any ideas for cheap/DIY presents to make her happy?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My gf is talking to her ex daily, pretty much throughout the day (from 09:00 to 00:00) and sees him once or twice every week (sorta feels like thats something mandatory). \n\nThis is mostly due to his emotional state, he's extremely messed up since she broke up, but ofcourse she can choose to simply ignore him for a few days etc. but she doesnt do that so.. i cant fully blame him for it.\n\nI am getting more annoyed by it every day, it's building up.. i've been telling her how much it annoys me and she understands. So she's noticably spending less time on him, but when it comes down to it.. they still talk every day and throughout the day and they will see eachother once or twice a week.\n\nMy frustration grows and grows and grows.. i'm not sure if this is normal, i've never been in such a situation before.\n\nWhat do you guys think? Is it just me, should I 'allow' this to continue and calm down about it, or am i right to be so very annoyed by this?\n\nThanks so much!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "One thing I've noticed is that there are quite a few people here that follow certain percentage rules for buying cars, house, renting, etc.(name it and the rule is there). I think that's good, your better off being on top of your finances. Some rules are good to follow too, but it doesn't mean everyone has to follow them. But when these people see other people people breaking those rules (the rules they set in place for THEMSELVES) they freak out. \"You're paying too much for your car\" \"you can't afford that house\" \"you gotta sell it\". \n\nIdeally if they have it and are able to pay for it, they can 'afford' it. These items can also be considered investments once they are paid off, you might lose some money when you sell it -- but in the end it might have been worth it.\n\nIm usually a reader and this might be the first time I actually posted something, I do like the information I find in here and it will help me in the long run, but one of the most annoying things to read is when someone displays their numbers and everyone hops on the \"you can't afford that\" train. Let them be. Suggestions are nice, nagging sends people away.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been a minimum wage temp for a year. I was hired as a \"consultant\" under the guise of being given an accounting job only to end up doing data entry and mail. They have changed my job 4 times. The current situation is I have the same pay but am now doing accounts payable, shipping tracking, and inventory processing. Those had previously been three separate jobs. I am a slavish idiot worker who showed that even during power outages I keep working. I am now completely overwhelmed and work is backing up like crazy. \n\n \n\nIf I ask the manager will say she can't give me overtime or delegate the jobs to others. The manager is completely spineless and the other workers are relatives so they have a pact. For example, when someone's car was broken into on the facility my boss said they can check the camera, told a lame joke, chuckled and told the employee to deal with it (and slunk back to her office). The employee had to call the cop, file the report, and push through to higher up to get corporate to act on the security problem. \n\nWhen a fellow temp stole over $3600 she fired her via email and didn't have follow up investigation or punishment. That is more money than I take home in three months. \n\n \n\nI am going to work for at least two week to be able to pay my cellphone bill and health insurance in advance if I do quit. Should I go to my manager and ask for more money or to the temp agency? Both? Neither?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I want to start by saying my boyfriend is wonderful in most ways. I'm just starting to feel like I'm not a priority to him and at this point in our relationship, I think I should be.\n\nFor the first 3 months of our relationship we didn't go two days without seeing each other. Now we see each other about once a week. This isn't okay with me. I've made my concerns known for the past two months. His typical response is \"Really, lizabethbathory? This again?\" But nothing changes. I bring it up a lot because if I don't see resolution, it's still clearly a problem. I've explained to him that I feel like we should be spending more time together, and getting closer at this point in the relationship. His excuses are he works a lot (this is true), and he has sports, and also needs to see friends. I've met his friends, he's never met mine. We haven't met each others families. I've also expressed concern about this, as family is very important to me.\n\nI've definitely fallen in love with him but I don't want to continue in this relationship when he's not ready to commit his time to me. The thought of life without him is terrifying to me. When we are together, I feel amazing. My soul feels happy. But we're apart more often than not, and that hurts my feelings pretty badly. I'm having a hard time leaving because I'm scared of my future without him in it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I am absolutely a caffeine abuser. For about 7 months I was drinking at least 1 gram of caffeine a day. I decided to stop drinking caffeine and stop drinking alcohol cold turkey. It has worked for the last 2 weeks. Though it is starting to bug me again. Alcohol I am indifferent about, there have been times when I wanted a good brew, but it is easy to ignore.\n\nFor me, caffeine is not easy to ignore. I have serious headaches still that have not subsided. While I have no evidence other than experience, I believe caffeine makes me perform better. More focused. More energy. Work longer hours. Work harder. I can't see why I wouldn't want to drink caffeine. On the flip side, I realize, I was drinking a ton of caffeine and that isn't healthy.\n\nA bit of a history lesson, I have been drinking caffeine heavily for about 10 plus years. It has gotten me through so much. I am a little confused. \n\nShould I go back to drinking caffeine or should I stay away? I think part of this issue is I am not sure if I can keep my intake in moderation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Title. First off let me explain, this isn't about me saying she has no right to talk to them, she can talk to whoever she pleases. This is mostly about me.\n\nSo I don't know this through snooping or anything like that, I know because it's so out in the open in our relationship. We've been dating for a year and I know she has no desire to cheat on me. We have a great relationship and live together. Very few arguments or issues, we are generally a happy couple. I often keep issues like this bottled and to myself, most people find insecurity and lack of confidence unattractive, so I don't show it. However it's eating away at me and I don't know why, I can't shake it from my mind.\n\nI recently came to the logical deduction that a friend that she speaks with regularly used to be fuck buddies with her, and that revelation is making me uncomfortable, despite the fact that there is 0 reason to be upset or think something is going on. There's also other dudes who message her regularly, but it's completely harmless (she's shown me the texts)\n\nI know people are capable to forming friendships past sex but at the same time I can't shake these feelings of insecurity from my head. I don't know what to do or how to change how I feel, or come to terms with it and get over it. I don't want to break up, I want to work on dealing with my feelings, but i have no idea how to approach this. I feel like bringing it up with her is a bad idea, as it won't change anything and will make me look like a control freak and insecure, which i'd prefer not to do.\n\nI want to feel confident about it all and have trust in our relationship. I feel pathetic for feeling this way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When I was a teenager, I was subject to various casual, emotional abuses by my parents. Gaslighting, mockery, minimisation etc. It rarely became physical, but when it did it was by my mother.\n\nOne evening I apparently didn't say goodnight to her properly when I was 16. She tried to kiss me on the cheek and I leant away from her and said goodnight. I didn't want to be kissed.\n\nShe seemed ok with it at the time and just went to bed, but ten minutes later she called me up to her room and told me I had bent her glasses. I'm not sure how. She started getting hysterical and I told her I would talk to her about it when she had calmed down in the morning.\n\nI turn to leave her room and she told me she wasn't done with me, and dragged me back into the room by my hair. I cried out and managed to wrench myself free. I ran downstairs and because my friend was visiting she didn't chase after me.\n\nThe next day after coming home from trying to find a part time job, I heard her talking on the phone to someone, describing the incident. She admitted to pulling my hair, and said that I made, \"The strangest noise.\" then she let me go.\n\nShe then said, \"Oh well.\" and laughed. I didn't say anything about it at the time because I was too scared of being alone with her, but after so much time it still bothers me.\n\nI can let go of everything else, because it's pointless to pretend that she cares about my feelings, but I wanted to know who she would admit that kind of thing to?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The site is [www.londonpub.com.au] \n\nI am a Canadian living and working in a small town that is...quite frankly, really boring. There's just not much going on! When I finished high school, I went and worked at a bed and breakfast in PEI. That was nice, but still really quiet. When the season ended, I went to Scotland and then went around the UK for 2 months. It was awesome! I loved the whole experience, but I especially liked London. The hustle and bustle of the city, the sheer numbers of people, the transport, the pubs, everything. There always something to see or do! I ended up going back to Europe a few months later (for 2.5 months). Thing is...I still haven't got it out of my system! I'd love to go over there and work for the summer (or longer) but I'm not sure how to go about it.\n\nThis site seems almost too good to be true, it's exactly what I want. The application fee is a bit steep though. Does anyone have experience with this company or something similar? Is there better ways to get my foot in the door? Is there scams and such that I should look out for?\n\nI'm very lucky in the fact that I have a have full time job that will still be available should I choose to go abroad for a few months. Also, I work in a trade (of sorts) that is pretty much universal. I was thinking of taking up some part time work doing what I'm doing here, but in England.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I meet this girl 6 months ago. It had taken me some time to get her number but from our very first date everything was magic. She was reserved throughout mostly but at the end of the night after a little dancing I went in for the kiss. It was a first date but it went through quite nicely. Days later we spoke about the kiss and she said it was something she didn't do. She said that she wasn't like that and that she was a good girl. I said fine. That gave me confidence that I was unique while also instilling in my mind that this girl has some virtue to her(which to me is good). 2 weeks pass and we have sex. 2 months pass I'm in love. 3 months later she drops a massive bomb on me.\nShe tells me that she was traveling the world for some time and she would sleep with random guys a lot. It got so much that she was one week having sex with 3 different guys. I felt like all the stuff she told me about {she doesn't kiss on the first date and she's a good girl} were disingenuous. She even told me she was having unprotected sex with one guy because he refused to wear condoms and she just kept sleeping with him ( while sleeping with the others too). She even made it a point to sleep with him one more time before leaving that particular country. What would you do or think about this situation. I'm at a loss and my brain is fucked behind thinking about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been in a relationship with (let's call him Bob) for four years. I love him with all of my heart. Lately, I feel that the relationship has become cold. I feel like he does still pay some attention to me, but not like he used to. He is very nice and easy to talk to. I have talked to him about how I feel before, and he has worked on it, but it always seems to steadily drop off.\n\nNow comes the hard part. I work with another man (let's call him Al) with whom I have been friends with for a while. Lately, I have developed feelings for him. I have waited and done nothing for months hoping the feelings I have for Al to go away to no avail. I know he is aware of how I feel and likes me too, and we are both smart people. We have not been intimate in any way, shape, or form. I know now that the feelings aren't going away, and even though I haven't done anything to be physically unfaithful to Bob, I have emotionally. I do still love Bob, but I feel like I am starting to feel for Al more. \n\nI feel like a disgusting human being who should be grateful for whom I have. If I break it off, it could be the biggest mistake of my life. I love Bob's family, and we grew up together as kids, so this wouldn't be easy. I would lose so much, but I feel like staying for him is wrong and hurtful. I know nothing of the turn-out with Al, but I can't live with myself knowing I'm not being honest. I would never cheat on Bob.\n\nI live in an apartment with Bob, have two cats (one his, one mine). I don't want to hurt him, but even if nothing ever happens with Al, I don't think he should be put through this.\n\nWHAT SHOULD I DO?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Backstory: Been with her for about 4 years, things were great. 3 months ago we get married. We both work a lot, opposite schedules, and rarely see each other. We bought a farm together, and have been settling in there too. Gradually she has withdrawn to the point of frigidity, and basic intimacy, holding hands, kissing, smiling. She comes home exhausted and sits there, at times I have to wrestle basic sentences out of her. She says it's stress from work, and not to worry. I started picking up her end of basic work around the house and farm to help her out with stress. Still though whenever I try to do anything special, or social with her she always resists it, with rules, stipulations, or being negative, and an overall close-minded downer. Not her personality at all, but there it is time and time again. Conversely, she also will go and hang out with her friends over night regularly with carefree ease. \n\nYesterday, as I serve her breakfast she says that, she doesn't take care of me.\n\nWhenever we have time off she flees from my presence. Today, Thanksgiving was no different. She talks about driving over an hour away to her friends McMansion for a Walmart thanksgiving. I reminded her of years past when we have done that and she ended up being exhausted at the end of the day, she just got off a 15 hour shift. She also never framed it within the context of me coming along, and left me saying she was only going to be there a few hours. \n\nEven though she works at a grocery store and finds it impossible to bring food home. I went and got ingredients for at least a home cooked meal tonight. Well I fell asleep, waiting for her. Got a text at one in morning saying that she was going midnight shopping. So I finally called her out for being inconsiderate, and wish her a happy thanksgiving. \n\nShe now wants to come get her dog and leave. Then goes on (via text) about how she constantly fails and pretends to be happy around me for months, and she should just grab her dog, who is attached at the hip to my dog, and leave. \n\nWTF?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I will try to keep this short as I am not a very talented writer (or speller)\nSo recently we did a \"political spectrum quiz\" in my Gov. class to see what side of the spectrum we fell in, and of course, I was scored far left. I have always known I was very liberal, and had no problem sharing my opinions on issues, but with my friends it never really came up.\n\nI was shocked to see that they all scored FAR right, as I just always thought they were liberal. I have no problem with people that are conservative, but they seemed to have a huge problem with me.\n\nNow, its always \"God damn liberal\" or \"Go support the gays more F****\"\nHow can i get them off my back without them making fun of me even more?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband (39m) and I (31f) have been together since I was a young adult and we have three kids. For a while, in addition to any other issues I might have had with him, he would only want to have sex with me after I had already been asleep. I would wake up to him fingering me or even as he was starting to penetrate me. Each time this happened I would tell him it made me feel terrible and please don't do it again. But he would still do it. His excuse was that he didn't know I was asleep and he thought I was into it.\n\nThere are some other issues aside from this, but generally he is a kind, supportive, encouraging person. He wants me to be happy. He never talks to be in a bad or mean way. Lately he's finally stopped doing the sex while I'm sleeping, but I realize I'm not really attracted to him anymore. In fact, when he kisses or touches me I'm almost repulsed. I feel horrible because he tells me how much he loves me and how good sex feels, I'm honestly not sure I love him anymore.\n\nAnyway, I guess my question to you guys is--Do you think I'm being ridiculous in letting this get to me as much as it has? I know we should do counseling, but we just can't afford the copay for each session right now. Is there anything I can do to get over this while we're waiting to go to counseling?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my GF have been dating on and off for almost 3 years. We broke up about a year ago but got together after we found we are actually good together. I really love this girl and want a future with her. She says she loves me too and we are planning to move in together.\n.\nProblem is her best friend from high school. They are BFF and tell each other everything (something am uncomfortable with). This BFF does not seem to like me and she actively encourages GF to break up with me. GF knows my concerns and says she makes her own mind, but i am really uncomfortable with this BFF. \n\nHow do I handle this situation. We are going to be seeing each other in social situations in future and there is no way to avoid her. So am not sure how to behave.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I used to have sex every day, multiple times a day. It was literally the best sex I've ever had and he told me he felt the same way. Of course after a while it didn't happen as often but often enough that I was always pretty satisfied. \nWe've been living together for a year and were still sleeping together a few times a week but it became monotonous and boring. It was literally always from behind and only lasted a few minutes. Its now gotten to a point where we are only sleeping together about once every two weeks, always first thing when we wake up, always from behind. \n\nI thought maybe he just wasn't feeling very sexual (we recently moved into a new house and finances are pretty tight) so I never spoke to him about it. However, he told me a couple of weeks ago he masterbates every day. I told him the fact he prefers jerking off by himself rather than actually sleep with me is really starting to affect my self esteem and he assured me he thinks I'm beautiful and sexy and there's nothing wrong with masterbasting. I started feeling so low about myself I even posted on AmIUgly recently! \n\nJust today I told him I had to run to the store to pick up something really quick and I was only gone for about 15 minutes. I walked into our bedroom when I got home and there was a \"dirty\" shirt on the floor. I asked about it and he told me he masterbated as soon as I left. I just walked out of the room and am now sitting outside posting this.\nI know I should talk to him about it again but after nothing really changed the first time I tried I'm hesitant to bring it up a second time. Everything else in our relationship is amazing and wonderful and he's my best friend but this is really starting to make me feel insecure and bad about myself. I don't even like changing in front of him anymore.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Today I called my great aunt to thank her for my wedding gift. I was calling from my cell phone through my Bluetooth in my car. The answering machine picked up. I didn't say much, because I wanted to thank her when I got talk to her. I hung up the phone through my steering wheel and music began to play through my speakers again. It was the red hot chili peppers. Being alone in my car, I began to make sounds to the melody of the song. It was something I'd never do in front of anyone else. I looked down at my phone to reddit at the red light and saw my google dialer still connected... Might have yelled fuck when I realized what I had done before actually hanging up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work in special education, specifically with emotionally disturbed kids. The past 6 months all of my students who were in foster found potential permanent homes. Sounds great right? Even better, all of those homes ended up working out, in each case the new parents were ready to sign the dotted line and take on the responsibility of a victim of trauma. Even better still; all but one of the families were in district, so I would be able to continue working with the students (some of them I've been with for 4 years now). Can this get any better? Yes, my students would finally have someone to call \"Mom\" or \"Dad\" or both. \n\nOnly we discovered a problem, a major problem. Once an adoption is finalized, all funding and resources coming from the state to pay for things like Therapy are completely cut. That means you take a child who from birth to the age of 5 was sexually and physically abused, put them into the system, get them finally comfortable opening up to a therapist, get the ball rolling so they are making serious educational and emotional progress, find them a placement, then cut all those supports out from underneath them. How is that fair to the child or the families who want to adopt those children? \n\nJust today I had a meeting with the entire support team for one of these children and, being the case manager I had to inform the potential adoptive parents that the entire financial burden of continued treatment will be solely on them. Basically, I have to help these people cheat the system in order to best serve my students. It feels really unethical to me, and I feel like it really disappoints the students when they're not officially adopted, they crave safe permanency. \n\nThe only silver lining in this is that in all the cases I've worked with, the county has agreed to allow these new families to be the new foster families and these students DO have a permanent home, and finally someone to call \"mom\" or \"dad,\" when they're ready to.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife and I have been together for 20 years and we are childfree. My wife has had 6 abortions in the years we have been together. I am staunchly pro-choice. But even I think that 6 abortions is excessive. It's an unnecessary expense, and also a medical procedure that comes with risks. I know that birth control fails sometimes, but my wife is very irresponsible about birth control in general. \n\nWe use condoms usually but she is often forgetful about taking her birth control. The first two times were just mistakes. We had unprotected sex and the other was after a night of drinking and partying. Both times we forgot to use condoms. The third time we were very careful about using birth control. Or at least, I was. She said she stopped taking her pills because she wanted to lose 10 lbs before we went for our vacation in Perth…and she didn't even tell me. \n\nI'm not sure if she takes her birth control at the same time every day, because I trust her to and checking everyday seems controlling and unnecessary to me. Since then, we have had three more unexpected pregnancies. \n\nI have brought up getting a vasectomy but she said she doesn't want me to get one. Tubal ligation? She also refused that as she doesn't want to go for elective surgery. IUD? No, she doesn't want anything invasive or anything stuck on her uterus. She doesn't want to try other, possibly more effective forms of birth control like the Depo shot. \n\nI'm seriously getting really annoyed at this point. I definitely support her choice to terminate the pregnancy 100% but I think it could be prevented if she would be more responsible about taking her pills. Should I just go ahead and get a vasectomy without her consent? How can I convince her to try other birth control methods that won't be affected by her forgetfulness or wanting to lose 10 lbs? My wife says 6 abortions in 20 years is nothing and I'm overreacting. Am I? this is so frustrating especially since she is generally very mature and responsible in other areas.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "m20, she f20\n\nBroken up for 3 months now. We dated a total of ~6 months of the past year (big break in the middle somewhere)\n\nLife isn't getting any better. I've come here before for advice, and I've read plenty, time heals it all... I just feel like things are getting worse. I accidentally think of every day at some point, and always think of before I [finally] go to sleep. It's gotten to the point where I'm suffering from self-diagnosed depression. It probably goes deeper than a relationship, but she definitely is the biggest trigger and catalyst for my depressive mood. It should be noted that I've gone to a psychiatrist recently and she determined I am not severely depressed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit, I'm having a terrible problem. Right now, I'm seeing (not dating) this girl, we'll call Amanda (15/f). There's this other girl, who we'll call... Libby (15/f). \n\nBackground information: I met Amanda in a class, and we liked each other. I asked her to a school formal, and she agreed. We've been going to group things like BBQ's and bowling for about a year. We're not dating, but I planned on it once we get older (my personal opinion is that most dating relationships started young end badly). Anyways, about halfway through my seeing Amanda, Libby came into my life. We started out as friends, nothing more, but gradually grew into best friends. Like, super close friends. Anyways, we've talked and just grown closer. Now, back to the present. I'm still seeing Amanda, but I really like Libby, and she really likes me. Now, don't get me wrong, Amanda's a great girl, and I would love to keep our relationship going, but Libby.... I just really like Libby, and I think we would just be better in the long run. But I don't want to hurt Amanda by breaking up with her! Sometimes, I wish something happened in me and Amanda's relationship where she just didn't like me anymore, or something, just so I can be with Libby. But... I just don't know what to do, at all. I'm so confused. I need help. Please help! \n\nNote, we are in a small, private school. If anything happened, everyone would know about it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Welp. I feel pretty stupid right now and am at a bit of a loss. Met a girl a few weeks ago through a mutual friend, she made it pretty clear that she's interested in me, we spent a couple weeks texting and FB messaging as I was working out of town. I was all excited, arranged a date last week, it went good so went on another one last night, which also went really well. She's nice, pretty, and intelligent, and I do enjoy spending time with her. We laugh and have great conversation... but as soon as we part, I feel like I'm not attracted to her, and her (perceived) flaws come rushing to the forefront of my mind: she has a negative attitude, she has poor posture, she's too short for me, she interrupts. To make matters worse, I realised that I'm still hung up on another girl - pretty much my dream girl - who's already told me she'll only ever see me as a friend. Stupid, right? I thought I'd come to terms with that and moved on months ago. Nope. I'm mentally comparing her to the current girl.\n\nI like this girl and really want to give her a shot, but the only time I feel attraction is when we're together and I think that's due to my own insecurity and need for physical contact. The rest of the time, responding to her feels like a nuisance, thinking about her conjures only her negative traits, and I worry that if I follow this through I'll be settling just for the sake of having a relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Texas.\n\nSo in my drawn out saga with my former landlord:\n\nI received an itemized statement today (1 day past the 30 day mark required in Texas) and there are some charges that I do not think should be there.\n\nI have listed out what the statement says:\n\nStatement date: 1/13/2014\n\nDeposit...................................................$1000\n\nCleaning interior of house, wall restoration\n\nand painting to bedroom 2........................-250\n\nCarpet Solutions- Cleaned Carpets, Pet\n\nTreatment/deodorize..............................-127.74\n\nAtmos Energy 8 Days.............................-30.48\n\nLP&L 12 Days @ 2.68/day.......................-32.11\n\nLight Bulbs, Batteries, Swiffer Sweeper....-46.94\n\nLubbock County Court Cost....................-289.00\n\nYard Cleanup and Maintenance...............-65.00\n\nThe ones in bold are the ones I disagree with. My question is about the court cost though. If this is improperly done does he forfeit the right to deduct anything. The court case was dropped. We (LL and I) agreed that we would leave.\n\nAlso the Light Bulbs and batteries are standard wear and tear. The swiffer was a gift. I even posted in here about how I thought it was sexist.\n\nI understand the Atmos and LP&L charges. We scheduled the shutoff for the 20th thinking we would be out by then but we were not out until the 29th. \n\nAlso the \"wall restoration\" is from where we had mounted a LCD monitor. There were a total of 4 screw holes less than 1/4th inch in diameter.\n\nAlso, we returned the keys on the 30th of December and received our \"deposit\" back on the 30th of January. It was mailed on the 29th of January. The day it was due back. \n\nWe have pictures of the condition that we left the house in. It was in great condition. \n\nSo my question is:", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I teach art lessons to underprivileged youths at a nearby elementary school through an organization at my university. After only ever teaching in middle/upper class areas, working with these kids has been a very eye-opening experience. I'll cut to the chase though... Today was my last day working with this particular class of kids, and one table started talking about when they were afraid of their parents. Two girls admitted that their parents regularly belted them, with one also saying her dad whipped her with metal wire, too, and the other saying her dad pounded her hand with a brick. When I tried to tell them that it was wrong for their parents to hurt them and told them it's illegal, they disagreed and thought it wasn't illegal. Yet another started crying when she got a somewhat poor progress report she had to take home for her parents to sign, saying her dad was going to beat her like he usually did. A different girl also told me that her mom calls her a \"fat bitch\" and that her dad was deported and went to jail after trying to kill her mother.\n\nI asked the graduate student who serves as supervisor of the other undergraduate mentors like me what, if anything, I should do. Her exact words were, \"If you didn't see bruises, you can't say shit.\" In a sad way I agree, and I realize I also have no proof that these kids are telling the truth, although they seemed serious. But thinking about some man taking a brick to a 9 year-old girl just makes me sick.\nSo I thought I'd ask you, Reddit. What can or should I do? I need some peace of mind.\n\nSome background notes: I am a 20 year-old white female in California. My kids are 5th graders, primarily Hispanic, and low income. I am not an official teacher or counselor-- just a college volunteer mentor.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together for almost three years, but I've been trying to end things. I still care for him but I think it's for the better if we part ways. I told him this and what I was unhappy about, and we agreed to meet up to talk it over. We ended up crying, cuddling, and agreed we didn't resent each other for what happened. I fell asleep and left for home after waking up, and he was very affectionate to me the whole time. After returning home I asked him what he thought we were now, and if we're still broken up like I intended. He said he didn't think so, and I replied we could talk it over later. Did I give him the wrong impression? How should I go about rectifying things without hurting him more than necessary? Thanks guys.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was getting on the subway train on my way to work when I accidentally bumped into someone. I took a glimpse at him and said \"my bad\". He politely shrugged it off.\n\nAs I wait for my stop, I analyze what just happened and that leads me to thinking about my apology's word choice. I then realize that I would never say \"my bad\" if it was some white guy in a shirt and tie. Because the guy was black (btw: I'm hispanic), I chose to say \"my bad\".\n\nA quick search through my memory bank resulted in another example: a quick \"yo what up\" vs. with-a-smile \"hey good morning\".\n\nSo Reddit, does that make me racist-lite? I'm judging someone by the skin of their color. Although I think I'd of used the same word choice if it was a white guy dressed \"urban\". Shrug\n\nRelated: I use to have a hard definition of racism: \"if you change the way you treat someone based on their skin color, it's racist\". However, I now think that's too broad. Based on that definition, affirmative action is racism---not that I agree or disagree with affirmative action. *How do you define racism?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dear reddit,\n\nI like this girl a lot! She is smart, honest, beautiful. Our relationship was going so well on multiple levels and we both openly discussed possibility to take it one step further. Both of us are 30 and we have very successful careers. For the first time in my life I started feeling like she could be the one. It was wonderful! But then she told me the painful truth...\n\nShe used to date her boss for couple of months and they eventually broke up to avoid harming the company. I think he is the one who didn't want to make their relationship public and that triggered the breakup. Since they broke up, they've been working closely together, they hangout frequently as friends and sometime go on business trips together.\n\nI am generally not a jealous guy, and I feel like I could live comfortably with something like that but it turns out that her affection for him is still there. He is a good looking guy with a great sense of humor and they actually seem to get along pretty well. On the other hand, she obviously likes me a lot and wants to be with me. So what is my problem then?\n\nWhen I told her I feel a little uncomfortable with the fact that their romantic relationship has not completely ended and that I worry that at some point they might hook up again... she did not deny it. She even confirmed that there is a very small chance that might happen in the future.\n\nToday I feel more depressed and miserable than I felt in a very long time (I am generally a happy guy). I am in a complex conflict with my emotions and reason. I know I like her even more because of her openness and honesty but I know this situation will make me very insecure or even jealous in the future and that is something I don't need in my life. I feel like I should break up and at the same time I am afraid that I am letting something really wonderful slip out of my hands.\n\nPlease advise,", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little backstory: we have been together since high school, and have been living together for almost a year now. Both of us are enrolled in four-year universities and doing fairly well, and we've generally been a very happy couple with few problems.\n\nIt has been a couple years since she was diagnosed with depression and I've always been fairly good at dealing with it but since moving in together I find myself unable to communicate various things to her such as asking her to do more housework or take on a part-time job to help with the stresses that I take on working 20 hours a week (40+ in the summer) and being a pre-med student. I'd love to be able to completely support her, but I'm just not capable of it right now.\n\nShe knows that she should do these things already, but her depression affects her in a way where she won't do anything about it, and then will turn around and call herself worthless for not doing it, which furthers the cycle and makes her even less motivated to do it. \n\nOur relationship has always been based on honest communication, and has succeeded because of it, but now I'm afraid that if I suggest that she do these things to make the effort in our living situation a more even split that I will be making her feel worthless and damaging her ability to succeed. But I now feel that there is a wall between us as I can't say how I am actually feeling, and it is affecting my passion for the relationship.\n\nHow would you suggest I go about communicating these things to her without hurting her or at least as little as possible?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [19M] just moved for College and everything is new to me, new people, new environment and new situation. I met a beautiful Korean girl [18~19 years old], beautiful and just perfect. \n\nI talked to her but I noticed that her English isn't that well and self-conscious (shyness maybe?), the conversation was kinda awkward because she would speak in a really quiet voice and not really understand much... \n\nI told her that I would like to have lunch with her someday but don't think she got that... Usually, I'll get flirty and give light touches but the conversation wasn't too well since she didn't get much on what I was saying so I ended it with \"Nice to meet you, I'm hungry so I'm going to get lunch\".\n\nAnyone would like to comment or help me a bit here? \n\nThanks in advance!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not a super SAP-type, but I'm very quiet and don't really try to pick up girls all that often. There's a girl who I'm on an informal friendly acquaintance with. I find her attractive and would like to get to know her and I've decided that whether she's flirting with me (e.g. playfully swatting my long hair when she walks past) or just naturally friendly, it'd be worth the mild embarrassment if I made an advance and got rejected.\n\nSo when I stopped at the cafe to get some joe before an exam and discovered she was working behind the counter, this exchange happened:\n\nHer: Hey, how are you doing?\n\nMe: Hey, how are YOU doing? [smooth, I know]\n\nHer: I'm at work, how do you think?\n\nMe: Well, when do you go on break?\n\nShe tells me and I leave with my purchase with the intention of coming back to ask her to lunch or something. That time rolls around and I show up to find the place absolutely slammed. Not wanting to look like a freak, I sit close to the door and start working on some light homework, occasionally looking up to see when she gets cut to go on lunch. Maybe ten minutes later, I look up and she's gone.\n\nMy question: how can I bring this up next week in class without seeming like a freak? Should I even say anything at all or just save myself the trouble?\n\nI feel like there's a small chance she didn't catch why I was asking when she went on break (maybe she thought it was idle chit-chat) or that she just plain didn't see me when she left. I want to express my interest to get to know her without creeping her out and the situation seems kind of delicate to me. \n\nWhat's the plan, then? (Assuming going to the Winchester is out of the question.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I really don't want to get into the details about the relationship but we could not be together due to distance. \n\nIt's been over two years and I have tried to move on (i.e. date other guys, no serious relationship), but I still have these deep rooted feelings for this guy because I never felt this way before with someone else. Upon encouragement from friends I sent him a message stating that I still have feelings for him and that I need closure. I was still holding on to some sort of false hope(that he still cares for me, is in denial and maybe change his mind) and it was beginning to get toxic with me trying to date men. Hence my friends input to let him know. \n\nMy ex responded seeing that there is no future other than friends. That his messages were meant to be platonic. I was expecting this response. I mean after two years apart, if a guy really wanted something he would do something about it right? \n\nMy issue is that if I ever had a failed relationship, bad date or just felt lonely I thought of him. I had him at such pedestal. So I need to completely shut the door on these thoughts.I have now gotten the response, which is he does not share these feelings. \n\nAny words of advice would be appreciated on moving forward?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short: I finally hooked up with my sister's best friend at her wedding. It was electric. We met several times after that but its a lengthy drive. Talked on the phone several nights a week for hours on end. Sent texts bla bla bla. I've known her several years but romantically only a matter of months.\n\nShe then cut it off because she was afraid of long distance. I cut contact with her even though she wanted to remain in contact and \"be friends.\" 3 months later, she emails me and says she still thinks about me and wants to make it good between us. When I try to get clarification, her responses are short, misdirecting, and vague.\n\nI don't think she's coming from a bad place but I can't tell if she just likes the attention or if she doesn't know what she wants. Any help on what I should do would be so helpful.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I need to provide some backstory on myself in order to follow the posting rules for the mods. I[M-17] am still getting over being dumped [F-16], just recently saw pictures of her with my replacement. We dated for eight months. I was watching Eternal Sunshine, and read the poem from which the title was taken from. Basically, it was a pretty cliche moment. Around 2am, I can see the moon out my window. I'd just seen the pictures of her with my replacement, and was watching Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. There was something so beautifully sad in that moment. I pretty much cried through the entire movie, and I wasn't sure if it was out of sadness, me just being a loser, or out of some appreciation of the beauty in the movie, compared to my life situation at the time. The poem and the ending of the film gave me some sort of solace, especially the poem. It made me wonder how I would feel if I could erase her from my memory, and spare myself the heartbreak. You'd be amazed how you can still feel heartbreak even after over a month of being separated; it's pretty mind-boggling the kind of influence one person can have on your emotional health. Logic doesn't help your feelings in these situations. Especially as young as I am, I understand that this overall is a small portion of my life, yet it doesn't make me feel any different. Although, I believe everybody experiences heartbreak the same way, regardless of age. When I read the poem, especially the following excerpt I've given, I felt at peace, in such an oddly miserable way.\n\nI saw some miserable beauty in this. If you're getting through a breakup, you can understand the imaginative desire to have your mind completely erased.\n\n\"How happy is the blameless vestal's lot!\n\nThe world forgetting, by the world forgot.\n\nEternal sunshine of the spotless mind!\n\nEach pray'r accepted, and each wish resign'd.\"\n\n-excerpt taken from Eloise to Abelard, by Alexander Pope.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok so this happened a few days ago but then again most posts here rant from today.\n\nSo I Am a learner driver who learning on a manual car, now as you can imagine, I hate hill starts to the point where I'll do anything to avoid them. Now to the fuck up, I was coming a particular hill which in my eyes was almost vertcle, I was about 30 meters from the light when it turned orange, so naturally I started to panic and speed up. There just so happened to be one of those dick head drivers who was turning at this hill and has already stopped HALF IN HIS LANE AND HALF IN MINE!! So there I was foot down on the accelarator comming up to this guy, my dad told me to stop three times before he watched me swerve away from the other driver and about to run the now red light. This is where I wish it ended but no, because the light went red other cars could go, this is where my dad got really mad! Not only did I swerve one way to get away from the dick driver but I also swerved the opposite way from another car. \n\nMy da was absolutely furious with me. Made me Pull the car over and swap drivers, he then proceeded to shout at me the rest of the way home. I honestly thought he was going to throw me out of the window", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I got a weird email today from \"Amy\" my husband's co-worker. In this email, she's claiming that she's been having an affair for over a year with my husband. She even kindly provided the dates that they were supposedly together - here's the catch, on several of these dates we were out of town. And not just out of town but a few hundred miles away visiting his family. Also, I just don't think my husband is the kind to cheat - we have a pretty decent marriage. It's not perfect but I think I'd know if something was going on for a year.\n\nHe's mentioned Amy a few times before but nothing beyond normal chit chat. I never met her and I don't even know how she got my email. I'm debating whether or not to show him the email when he comes home or if I should just contact the company's HR department or their boss. Or tell him and then contact them. There was some pretty explicit stuff in the email and I'm uncomfortable just getting it from her, even if I think it's probably a bunch of lies.\n\nAny advice on how to deal with this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my husband and I were arguing about how I don't feel heard/validated in any of my complaints but his get addressed and resolved promptly. I was trying to convey to him that his words towards me affect the way I feel about him sexually and I told him he's not physically attractive to me anymore. \n\nHe is morbidly obese and has been going to the gym daily for 4 months. He doesn't diet. His apathy about his health for the past 6 years has built up for me. We have 3 kids and I've maintained my health/looks. I know it sounds selfish to say that but I want him to take care of himself too. I will admit that throughout our relationship our sex life has been in trouble because of this and my low libido. I'm currently pregnant and want to have sex with everything that walks, I'd like to use this to our advantage because I know sex can be healing.\n\nI know that I was too hard on him when he came to me the morning after and basically told me I had him boxed in. That there is nowhere for him to go from here and how do you restore intimacy after something like that. He even said that after he loses 100lbs its still not going to be the same. He's humiliated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, I met her on this dive of a chat site, initially for roleplaying and we both kind of stuck around,became good friends. About two or three years ago she mentioned that I was \"boyfriend\" material, so we decided to give it a try. She was a big Otaku, nd for a while,it was nice. Had fun,traded pictures. Dreamed of meeting one day. (She has...anti-social issues.That's all I will say)\n\nWe had rough patches like all relationships do,and I tried my best to keep us together. But last week it just got worse,and after having enough of being called an idiot, I pushed back,metaphorically, a night or two ago. I spoke some harsh words to her..and I guess fate was sealed. \n\nWe ended it just last night, and she emailed a mutual friend(also female)Who got pissed at me as well, and joined her in cutting off all contact with me", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've gone on a few dates and we've been texting about our interests these last few days. While I have been away from town (medical reasons: had to have a planned surgery) he opened up to me over a phone call and told me he had actually never dated before and wanted to ask if he was doing ok. Of course I think he is doing just great! (not awkward or anything don't worry) It just left me wondering if I should treat some things more delicately... Although I'm much more experienced than him I've been out of the dating game for QUITE a while. years)\n\nI just wanted to ask if you guys could think of any advice for dating a less experienced guy. Any tips or things I may have forgotten from when I didn't have a clue about dating?\n\nSo far we have only hugged and I want to keep this thing moving nice and slow, but I want to make some moves so that way he can feel comfortable with being closer to me. Does that make sense? Everything is still way to polite and formal for my taste... Although it's great he wants to pay for our dates and open the car door for me...It's just really not something I expect or want to happen forever. So how do I warm this guy up?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Like the title says. Me and my gf (dating for a yearish) were messing around and right while we were getting busy, she let loose a nasty fart. I didn't mean to act so grossed out but I visibly reacted and went into the bathroom right away to get away for a minute. When i got back she was getting dressed and didn't want to talk to me or look at me. She left without talking to me and wouldn't answer my texts or calls even though I told her I was sorry and didn't mean to get grossed out it just happened.\n\nThis morning I got a stupidly long text about how disrespectful I am and how I obviously don't have any respect for her and my apology is fake. I got pissed and told her that it wasn't all my fault and that's when she told me she wasn't coming to christmas at my house like we planned. My parents are expecting her and have gifts. She's kinda overreacting and I'm getting aggravated with her for being melodramatic.\n\nHelp me fix this so I don't have to explain it to my parents?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I live in an apartment complex with a gated parking lot that has its only exit onto a very busy street. The drive way that lets out of the parking lot and onto the street is flanked on each side by a red no parking zone about 2-3 car lengths long so that cars pulling out can have a clear line of site of the oncoming traffic. A few of the apartments face onto the street and legal street parking can be hard to come by. Some of my neighbors consistently park in the redzone adjacent to the parking lot's only exit, which makes it hard to see oncoming traffic. More than a few times I have almost been t-boned by oncoming traffic since my view is obstructed and I either cannot see the cars with enough time, or I have to pull out farther to see around the illegally parked car. I can't imagine that I am the only person in our complex who has had this problem. I am currently writing a note to put on the cars that park there to ask them to please park elsewhere or a tow truck will be called.\n\nMy question is, am I allowed to call a private towing company to tow the car away or do I have to contact police? I would hate to waste police resources with something so trivial.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years; we were high school sweethearts and just finished our first year of college long distance. This is my first serious relationship. Our first couple years were great and honeymoon-y. But lately we are constantly arguing primarily because he thinks that I am not as committed to the relationship as he is. \n\nHe tells me that I don't include him when we are together, I lack empathy, and I deliberately make jokes at his expense. He is also worried that I will leave him for a macho guy who is more reserved with his emotions like I am because he knows how much it bothers me when he brings up these flaws of mine. \n\nI should also mention that through this first year of college he has become depressed and insecure with himself. One night when he was drinking with friends he saw his buddy and buddy's girlfriend get into a fight because the girl said she knew a guy who was more attractive than her boyfriend. My boyfriend then asked me over text if I thought anyone was more attractive that him. I thought he would know I was lying if I said no one, so I told him I did and he demanded that I tell him who. I listed 2 people and he has not been able to trust me the same ever since. His confidence is now squashed beyond repair and he thinks more than ever that I'll leave him for someone better. \n\nI love him so much and just 2 months ago I could see us getting married and having a future, and that's a major part that makes the idea of ending it so difficult. But the more he accuses me of not being committed, the more I think he is right and feel like I should just end it. I don't want to prove him right that I didn't care about him enough, and I don't want to intensify his depression by bringing his fears to life. but I also don't want to stay in a relationship that is unhealthy and doomed to fail anyway. \n\nI'm not fishing for affirmations here, feel free to tell me that I'm being a dick. I just have no idea what the right thing to do is. Advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just to start, so you understand the stoey better, I have Autism (high-functioning) and so I'm not the best at social situations or being expressive. \n\nI've been hit with a sort of bad week. To recap, my girlfriend of 3.5 years left me, and I recently found out she was cheating on me for the last four months of the relationship. I also recently had to go to the hospital for severe headaches, ones that physically kept me up at night due to the pain. 5 days later, I finally decided they weren't leaving and went to ER, where they gave me migraine medication and told me that, although they weren't sure why I had headaches, they guessed based on location and pain that I had cluster headaches. They then proceeded to give me medication for it and sent me on my way.\n\nNow, I've had an outpouring of support from my friends and family, and in specific, one person said to me - if you ever need to talk, I'm down. I'd really like to take them up on that, but I'm not very social or expressive, and don't want to come off as weird. On top of that, I just sort of want to talk to this person and have my problems organically work their way into the story, rather than focus on me and all my issues. \n\nAny thoughts, advice, etc?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone! I've already asked this on another thread but didn't put all the info in and didn't ask for advice. \n\nSo I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three and a half years now, and I regularly stay at his house where he still lives with his parents and brother. I've been pretty friendly with his brother this whole time but I have a feeling he may dislike me...\n\n We talk sometimes and he will show me things he thinks I'll like, like videos or music, and will watch TV with my boyfriend and I, which all says that he does think of me in a good way. \n\nBut he will sometimes seemingly go out of his way to ignore me, like sitting at the other end of the house instead of in his room near us (which he would never do if it was just my boyfriend there), and he won't ever sit next to me. Even if there's a lot of room on the sofa next to me, he will outright refuse to sit there if I'm going to be \"next\" to him, but if my boyfriend and I switch sides he will sit there. \n\nThese things kind of make me think he doesn't like me and he doesn't want to be near me. It's making me feel awkward. Does he dislike me or not? If he does, is there anything I can do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been dating for just over 6 months. I'm a high-school senior, she's a high-school junior. This is her first relationship. It's not mine, but we're both virgins.\n\nI brought up having sex at around the 3 month mark. Her response was that she had always imagined that she would wait until she was married to have sex, but she was reconsidering it because of her relationship with me. I didn't bring it up again for a couple months.\n\nAt around 5 months, she found out I was watching porn regularly. This greatly upset her, as she felt that she wanted to be the one satisfying all of my physical needs, and she felt threatened because she believed I was attracted to the female porn stars. She made me promise to stop watching porn.\n\nI tried, but just the other day I finally realized that it was too difficult. I physically felt bad from the lack of porn (extra angry/horny), and I don't think she has the right to control what I do with my free time, as long as it doesn't affect our relationship (which it doesn't).\n\nI told her that I wanted to start watching porn again; she was upset and started to cry. She calmed down, and in later discussions, she's told me that she is willing to have sex with me to \"meet my physical needs\", although it is not her preference. She physically wants to have sex, but she says that her \"heart\" and her \"brain\" tell her no. The heart because she believes sex will be more special if we wait until we are older, the brain because of the risk of pregnancy.\n\nI want to have sex, and I honestly think it would be the best thing/next step for our relationship. However, I don't want her to resent me in the future for coercing her into having sex with me by threatening to watch porn. I'm really trying not to force her into anything.\n\nShould I have sex with her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's been about 5 months and I've tried to move on and stop thinking about her but I just want to talk to her. The day after she broke up with me I was fine and kind of in shock. But then I messed up by sounding really needy after the week we broke up and she basically cut me off. sent 2 texts to her since, one on Black Friday and one on Christmas, but no reply. I would like to get back together or at least see her again or talk to her but I don't think she does. During the relationship she was saying that I was the best boyfriend she had and she has never liked anyone more; we dated for 3 months and I basically said the same. The day after we broke up, she called me because she said she had no one to call about an incident, someone very close to her is in the hospital, and basically said that she was scared of me and that when she broke up with me a weight was lifted off her. I don't know what to do. I have turned to alcohol this past month or so and I don't think it's good. Sorry this is so messy but any advice of how I could talk to her would be great. I'll answer any questions", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Howdy Reddit,\n\nThis is my first post on Reddit ever, as I've been weary due to a lot of the rude people I've seen. However, I've decided to bite the bullet and post anyway, because I'd like some advice from an unbiased populace. So anyway...\n\nI've been learning web development for a while now, and I recently landed a salaried job at a local marketing agency. I was converting designs, and even doing a lot of Wordpress and custom PHP work. However, due to some issues with management, the company was shut down, leaving me unemployed. The problem lies within the fact that I was only at this company for four months. The town I live in does not have any other companies that deal in web development, so I'm kind of out of luck in getting another web gig. That is, unless I can find a job elsewhere. Of course, I do not believe my knowledge (outside of HTML/CSS) is good enough to land me another job elsewhere, let alone somehow move financially (I am 21 and do not have a bunch of savings). I would like to avoid going back to retail jobs if possible, but I will definitely work any job if need be. So I guess what I'm trying to say Reddit, is, for someone my age, in my position, with my experience, what would you suggest I do to continue moving up in the web industry, instead of falling out of it four months in?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "On Saturday night I was out on the town, after running away from everyone I knew in a drunken attempt at a joke I ended up at home without my phone.\nSo I used icloud the next morning (which is pretty cool by the way) and tracked my phone to an apartment building a few neighbourhoods over. Set a message on the screen saying \"call my roommates number and i'll even give you a reward\" ... But got no call.\nThen I called the non-emergency police to see if they could swing by and get it all serious style, but that was a no go.\nI can see that it's still there but it's now on 5% battery and might soon be lost forever.\nWhat do I do? Knock down every door in this apartment complex hoping some good person will give it back but potentially get shanked in the process? Or just consider it a write off and move on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Apologies in advance for shitty formatting or whatever, I'm usually just a lurker but I decided to go to the effort to make a throwaway for this.\n\nThis did happen today, unlike a lot of this page's posts, in act it happened just now. I was bored, and home alone, and decided it would be a really fun idea to go exploring our garage, where my dad usually likes to sit and smoke. It's pretty cluttered usually, but, as my parents' wedding is coming up it's been cleaned out this month. I walk in, and look around. I see what I would usually expect to see, tools, cans, used cigarettes and the like, and so I walk over to the desk. I look it over, and find that nothing out of place seems to be there until I look down and see, right underneath a small spanner, a syringe needle. I can tell that it's used, as it's pushed all the way in. My brain instantly jumps to conclusions, but I'm hesitant to believe what my instincts tell me until I look to my right and see two spoons, along with a kettle on the floor. The spoons seem stained. \n\nI'm not sure what to think, or do. I've found a weed grinder of my dad's lying around before, and I've been told that my dad has done some crazy shit in his past, so I know he's open to the idea of drug use (albeit on a much more minor scale) and I didn't care about that, but something like this has left me feeling awkward and concerned for my dad. What if I'm wrong, and the needle was used for something else? Should I ask him? Should I potentially let him continue? I know my dad's job is extremely stressful and if it's his way of coping, I don't necessarily want to stop him. All in all not a colossal fuck up but I certainly wish I hadn't been so nosy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my girlfriend have been together since we were 15 and now we are both 18; so we've been together for a little more than 3 years. We started haveing sex after about a year, and then we had it almost everyday. Nowadays, though, I feel like she doesn't want it as much as she used to. It's not that I think that she doesn't love me, because I know she does. It's just that it feels like I'm always the one to initiate, I always want to talk about what I'd like to try and I always tell her how much I want to have sex with her. I talked to her about it and she said it's because she's so stressed (hard time in school) and that she feels that I'm putting pressure on her. But I love her! And I want her to get the same wonderful pleasure as I do when we have sex.\nIs it my fault? Am I just too much into it? Or is it because of her and my age? She told me that she had heard that women usually get hornier later in their life. Or is it because I'm doing something wrong? Isn't she enjoying it as much as I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello reddit,\n\nSo earlier in the year an old school friend of ours came into the group with a long distance BF and nobody was really bothered but soon the \"hatin'\" came up. After a while she broke up with the guy and I watched as some in my circle tried for her. Initially I wasn't interested but she is genuinely good so I tried for it. Everything went well till she flaked on me so I moved on, found out later it happened to another who tried the kiss-ass method...\n\nFast forward and everyone still hangs out but theres a veil of passive aggressive and I see folks still going for her. To make things worse one friend keeps obsessing over her in my presence and it hits at my underlying loneliness since I never had a true relationship. I feel like I need another group of friends to chill with but I don't know how to go about dealing with the consequences of such a move.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay well, not leaving leaving. I'm not very good with crowds- they make me incredibly anxious to the point where I'll have a panic attack. Knowing my husband will, at least, be there with me usually helps me feel more comfortable around crowds. I'll know a fair bit of people there, so it's not like I won't have anyone to talk to. It's just the sheer amount of people that makes me freak out. \n\nMy husband, however, doesn't understand this. He enjoys going from one set of people he likes to another, and usually in ways that would a) be impossible for me to follow him or b) make it very creepy if I were to try. He always tells me I should just try opening up and talking to people without him, but with the amount (even over 20 people) will start to make me nervous. \n\nI don't want to hinder him in any way, and I don't want to be a \"ball and chain\" to him. But I also feel like he's a little bit obligated to me as his wife to reassure me if I'm scared or anxious. What should I do? Is there a way of explaining this rationally, or am I just being unreasonable.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello reddit..\nI need some advice. I've been talking with this girl for about 2 weeks now. We went out last weekend and it went great. We were working on setting up another date and she told me that she was concerned about distance (its about a 30 minute drive). I messaged her back and said that i agree with her but there are ways around it. Anyways, after that she messaged me that sue would like to try and said that maybe we could set something up for Saturday (tomorrow) i replied that that sounded great and i was looking forward to it. I havent heard anything since (this was tuesday night). Ive texted her a couple of times just wishing her a good day at work (no more than once a day). I'm not sure what to do. Part of me wants to text her again but its now been about 5 texts since her last response. Any advice would be appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello, so I have been liking this girl for quite a while now, but the problem is that I don't usually talk to my foreign female classmates as there's usually nothing interesting to talk about not that I'm not confident.\n\nNow, I'm about to graduate (around May) and I don't want to miss this opportunity, it's now or never! I want to tell her how I feel but I don't want to approach her in an awkward way because we rarely talk to each other.\nI'm also going to Europe to study abroad which I think goes the same for her. (current location is Thailand)\n\nI also want to include that she finds me attractive and she told my friend that I'm an interesting person (according to my friend who is relatively close to her) although I'm not sure if this is true or not as I don't find myself attractive, though few girls had confessed to me and I turned them down because I was waiting for the right person.\n+ I'm not shy but I don't have much confidence when it comes to women especially Europeans.\n\nPlease help me out, I really want to improve my relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been in a relationship with this new guy for 2 months and at first things were spectacular--we were hanging out constantly, sending each other cute texts all day, and all over each other when we were together.\n\nAfter about 3 weeks, I noticed a sharp decline. He now takes hours to text me back, is quite a lot less flirty with me, and isn't as motivated to hang out with me. All the cute kissy face emojis are gone. It's kind of a huge red flag for me, as it just dropped off so fast!\n\nTo make matters worse, he accidentally showed me some pictures on his phone of his ex. There were so many of them! But he ended up breaking up with her within 3 months and from the way he explained it, she got mad at him for not wanting to spend as much time with him. Makes me wonder if he and I are going down the exact same road--him getting super excited and all over me, then dropping off, until eventually things are no longer working. \n\nWhat do you guys think? Is this normal behavior or should I be concerned?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This week was declared a casual week at work. One coworker sent out a reply to everyone that she'd be wearing shorts and her bathing suit all week, because she's off all week.\n\nI'm a smartass and had a somewhat boring Friday afternoon, so I sent out an email saying I'd be wearing a dress to work since it's been pretty hot out for the last few weeks and jeans are too hot.\n\nFast forward to today--I come on and have about six emails in my inbox from coworkers pledging about a total of $200 to charity if I actually go through with this and wear a dress to work until at least noon. I'd just dismiss it as \"I can't, it's inappropriate,\" except that one of the people putting in $20 is my boss--which of course means I have tacit approval to actually show up in drag. Shit just got real.\n\nThing is, I really would rather not have to do this and I was obviously joking. Now I look like a horrible monster if I refuse, since it'd be depriving some charity of a pretty nice donation. Am I a horrible monster if I don't go through with this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I had met my boyfriend while visiting a friend in San Francisco we clicked and began and ldr. Eventually I leave my town to live with him, with out having any friends in the city. As soon as I moved in sooo many red flags popped up, found out he had lied about his age, he would just flip shit over little things, constantly needed to know where I was, constantly called me stupid and a bitch. Now I realized I had made a mistake but I had enrolled in a semester and just began working and so I was stuck (manipulation was also a factor in me not getting the fuck out). A few months down the line thing actually start getting better, living together is working out until his landlord demands I leave by the end of November. Not knowing anyone in the city made finding a place very hard and expensive and he wanted to get a place together so I complied. Of course the abuse came back full force as soon as we moved. So here I am now, cash drained from the move (5k savings gone), completely alone, depressed and being constantly attacked for being myself. Now I am a strong person it takes a lot to break me but I want to get away from him asap. Also I would like to mention since I moved to sf minus the abuse part my life has never been better I went from making <$800 a year to making 60k a year with no college degree and job experience. So there no way in hell I'm letting that go.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I have been crushing on a really smart and pretty girl for the past month and wanted to ask her out on a date tomorrow morning before school starts. I treid to ask her at lunch but I chickened out. I kept on saying to myself that I'll regret chickening on this opportunity. So right when I said bye to my friend talking about how I wasn't able to ask my crush coincidentally popped up and I had a convo with her about how her day went. Things were going pretty well and I surprised myself by how I kept eye contact and kept the conversation going.\n\nThis was my chance. So I asked her if she's free tomorrow morning. She said \"no, I have to study for a psych test. Wait, what do you mean?\" Then I told her that I was thinking of having coffee that day. My crush smiled and said \"I may not do it tomorrow but I can some other day.\" We kept eye contact and she smiled too when we talked. I don't think I ever had the guts to ask someone out before in my life. \n\nIt's not a no so I'm happy about that. And I managed to muster up enough courage to ask someone out. xD", "role": "user" } ]

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