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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl20", "note": "\"texts me to the point of physical contact \" = possibly harassment?\n\n[Naive Interpretation] OP wants to break up with obsessive LDR BF who sends harassing texts.\n\n----\nThe wording \"physical contact\" does not provide adequate information on the actions of LDR BF. Open to misinterpretation." }, { "text": " long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl20", "note": "ok\n\n-----\n\n4 months is inaccurate. But does not leave the summary open to other interpretations.\n\nAlso, key point that the BF is sensitive and OP does not want to \"crush\" the BF is also stated." } ]

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl20", "note": "\"constantly texts me to the point of physical contact\" - How can text reach to physical contact? Especially when the bf is long distance? \n\n----------------\n\n\"when I hint at not wanting it\" - She never did that. " }, { "text": " long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl20", "note": "Ok\n\n\n------------------\n\nNot of 4 months but about a month and a half. " } ]

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Need to break up with increasingly clingy long distance pseudo-bf before I grow more resentful and need tips to not hurt his feelings while doing so.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance boyfriend of 4 months has become overly clingy and obsessed with me. need tips on how to breakup with him so I don't hurt him/ruin him emotionally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance bf obsessed with me, constantly texts me to the point of physical contact when I hint at not wanting it, need breakup advice/tactics.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (22F) need to break up with clingy long distance "bf" (23M)\n\nPOST: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year. The night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it. But its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall. I'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests. I really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: broken up with a clingy long distance guy but I don't want to hurt him. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>

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My girlfriend cheated on me, and she really regrets it, but I still love her and she still loves me. Should we try and work it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [16/m] My girlfriend [17/f] cheated on me last weekend\n\nPOST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend cheated on me, and she really regrets it, but I still love her and she still loves me. Should we try and work it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [16/m] My girlfriend [17/f] cheated on me last weekend\n\nPOST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend cheated on me and is sorry. I love her, does the world not revolve around me?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [16/m] My girlfriend [17/f] cheated on me last weekend\n\nPOST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend cheated on me and is sorry. I love her, does the world not revolve around me?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [16/m] My girlfriend [17/f] cheated on me last weekend\n\nPOST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend cheated on me and is sorry. I love her, does the world not revolve around me?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [16/m] My girlfriend [17/f] cheated on me last weekend\n\nPOST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend cheated on me without telling me, regrets it, wants to make things right and be friends. i'm hurt, don't know if we can work it out. help reddit?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [16/m] My girlfriend [17/f] cheated on me last weekend\n\nPOST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend of 5ish months cheated on me with an ex-boyfriend, totally regret it. is there hope for a happy relationship afterwards? reddit your opinion please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [16/m] My girlfriend [17/f] cheated on me last weekend\n\nPOST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend of 5ish months cheated on me with an ex-boyfriend, totally regret it. is there hope for a happy relationship afterwards? reddit your opinion please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [16/m] My girlfriend [17/f] cheated on me last weekend\n\nPOST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend cheated on me without telling me, regrets it, wants to make things right and be friends. i'm hurt, don't know if we can work it out. help reddit?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [16/m] My girlfriend [17/f] cheated on me last weekend\n\nPOST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My girlfriend cheated on me, and she really regrets it, but I still love her and she still loves me. Should we try and work it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [16/m] My girlfriend [17/f] cheated on me last weekend\n\nPOST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend cheated on me, and she really regrets it, but I still love her and she still loves me. Should we try and work it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [16/m] My girlfriend [17/f] cheated on me last weekend\n\nPOST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend cheated on me without telling me, regrets it, wants to make things right and be friends. i'm hurt, don't know if we can work it out. help reddit?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Met a girl this weekend, slept over, had an awesome time. Don't want to play it cool and scare her away by telling her how great I think she is, but also don't want to play it cool and scare her away<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Met a girl this weekend, slept over, had an awesome time. Don't want to play it cool and scare her away by telling her how great I think she is, but also don't want to play it cool and scare her away<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met awesome girl, had great time, want to date long-term but live 2 hours away, unsure how to proceed due to weird streak I have. Help.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " met awesome girl, had great time, want to date long-term but live 2 hours away, unsure how to proceed due to weird streak I have. Help.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl20", "note": "What's that \"weird streak\"??" }, { "text": " met awesome girl, had awesome date, left due to distance, wanna see her again sometime soon, don't want to scare her off or play it off too much. Help me not fuck this up Reddit!", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl20", "note": "Ok enough" } ]

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

met awesome girl, had awesome date, left due to distance, wanna see her again sometime soon, don't want to scare her off or play it off too much. Help me not fuck this up Reddit!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met awesome girl, had awesome date, left due to distance, wanna see her again sometime soon, don't want to scare her off or play it off too much. Help me not fuck this up Reddit!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met awesome girl, had great time, want to date long-term but live 2 hours away, unsure how to proceed due to weird streak I have. Help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

met awesome girl, had awesome date, left due to distance, wanna see her again sometime soon, don't want to scare her off or play it off too much. Help me not fuck this up Reddit!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met awesome girl, had awesome date, left due to distance, wanna see her again sometime soon, don't want to scare her off or play it off too much. Help me not fuck this up Reddit!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Met a girl this weekend, slept over, had an awesome time. Don't want to play it cool and scare her away by telling her how great I think she is, but also don't want to play it cool and scare her away<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Met a girl this weekend, slept over, had an awesome time. Don't want to play it cool and scare her away by telling her how great I think she is, but also don't want to play it cool and scare her away<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Met a girl this weekend, slept over, had an awesome time. Don't want to play it cool and scare her away by telling her how great I think she is, but also don't want to play it cool and scare her away<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Met a girl through a mutual friend. Didn't have sex on the first date. I'm clueless on what to do next.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

met awesome girl, had awesome date, left due to distance, wanna see her again sometime soon, don't want to scare her off or play it off too much. Help me not fuck this up Reddit!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met awesome girl, had awesome date, left due to distance, wanna see her again sometime soon, don't want to scare her off or play it off too much. Help me not fuck this up Reddit!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Met a girl through a mutual friend. Didn't have sex on the first date. I'm clueless on what to do next.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

met awesome girl, had great time, want to date long-term but live 2 hours away, unsure how to proceed due to weird streak I have. Help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met awesome girl, had great time, want to date long-term but live 2 hours away, unsure how to proceed due to weird streak I have. Help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, help me not fuck this up. Crosspost from /r/relationships for more eyeballs\n\nPOST: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a "date" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about--a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway). I had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away. For the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I--she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored. Basically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all. So, what would Reddit do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Met a girl through a mutual friend. Didn't have sex on the first date. I'm clueless on what to do next.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I over-think things when I am with ladies, and looking for potential solutions to help me "let things happen"<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I over-think things when I am with ladies, and looking for potential solutions to help me "let things happen"<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Feel nervous around females, over-thinking too much, anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

over-thinking is a problem when I am with females. Need ideas to relax when over-thinking/thinking too much.<|endoftext|>

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Feel nervous around females, over-thinking too much, anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: over-thinking is a problem when I am with females. Need ideas to relax when over-thinking/thinking too much.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Feel nervous around females, over-thinking too much, anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

over-thinking is a problem when I am with females. Need ideas to relax when over-thinking/thinking too much.<|endoftext|>

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Over thinking things when physically with opposite sex, need help in getting more experience/not over think everything. Any ideas to help me relax/be more spontaneous?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: over-thinking is a problem when I am with females. Need ideas to relax when over-thinking/thinking too much.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Over thinking things when physically with opposite sex, need help in getting more experience/not over think everything. Any ideas to help me relax/be more spontaneous?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Over thinking things when physically with opposite sex, need help in getting more experience/not over think everything. Any ideas to help me relax/be more spontaneous?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Over thinking things when physically with opposite sex, need help in getting more experience/not over think everything. Any ideas to help me relax/be more spontaneous?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Feel nervous around females, over-thinking too much, anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I over-think things when I am with ladies, and looking for potential solutions to help me "let things happen"<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I over-think things when I am with ladies, and looking for potential solutions to help me "let things happen"<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Over thinking things when physically with opposite sex, need help in getting more experience/not over think everything. Any ideas to help me relax/be more spontaneous?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I over-think things when I am with ladies, and looking for potential solutions to help me "let things happen"<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I over-think things when I am with ladies, and looking for potential solutions to help me "let things happen"<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [18/m] Over-thinking is a problem. Ladies say that I need to relax.\n\nPOST: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything...so...anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex. Some clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: over-thinking is a problem when I am with females. Need ideas to relax when over-thinking/thinking too much.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Been with bf for 2 years now in long distance relationship that requires plane travel. Love him very very much but confused with cold feet. Am i waiting for disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been with bf for 2 years now in long distance relationship that requires plane travel. Love him very very much but confused with cold feet. Am i waiting for disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been with boyfriend for 2 years and moving in together soon. am anxious about impending lifestyle change due to him moving in with me. should I take responsibility for my own feelings ?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been with boyfriend for 2 years and moving in together soon. am anxious about impending lifestyle change due to him moving in with me. should I take responsibility for my own feelings ?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have countless questions about what happens to a relationship when a man and woman are moving in together and I am not sure if I am waiting for the perfect time to do it or should I just leave him alone until I find the right one<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Been with bf for 2 years now in long distance relationship that requires plane travel. Love him very very much but confused with cold feet. Am i waiting for disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been with bf for 2 years now in long distance relationship that requires plane travel. Love him very very much but confused with cold feet. Am i waiting for disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have countless questions about what happens to a relationship when a man and woman are moving in together and I am not sure if I am waiting for the perfect time to do it or should I just leave him alone until I find the right one<|endoftext|>

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my boyfriend and I are about to live together but I don't know if I'm only going through with it because I feel like he's my only option.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my boyfriend and I are about to live together but I don't know if I'm only going through with it because I feel like he's my only option.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been with boyfriend for 2 years and moving in together soon. am anxious about impending lifestyle change due to him moving in with me. should I take responsibility for my own feelings ?<|endoftext|>

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my boyfriend and I are about to live together but I don't know if I'm only going through with it because I feel like he's my only option.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my boyfriend and I are about to live together but I don't know if I'm only going through with it because I feel like he's my only option.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have countless questions about what happens to a relationship when a man and woman are moving in together and I am not sure if I am waiting for the perfect time to do it or should I just leave him alone until I find the right one<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Been with bf for 2 years now in long distance relationship that requires plane travel. Love him very very much but confused with cold feet. Am i waiting for disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been with bf for 2 years now in long distance relationship that requires plane travel. Love him very very much but confused with cold feet. Am i waiting for disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 23f totally confused with cold feet\n\nPOST: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was "the one" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my boyfriend and I are about to live together but I don't know if I'm only going through with it because I feel like he's my only option.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Boyfriend and I love each other, but I inwardly freak out whenever he talks to girls. I need to change this somehow, and I don't whether to tell him about it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend and I love each other, but I inwardly freak out whenever he talks to girls. I need to change this somehow, and I don't whether to tell him about it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I get irrational jealousy for boyfriend hanging out with female friends even though he's totally open about it, and don't want him to feel weird about it. How do I stop feeling this way?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Got irrational jealousy for SO of a year because I think he'll develop feelings for one of his female friends. Don't know how to stop being so jealous, or tell him. Help plz :)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got irrational jealousy for SO of a year because I think he'll develop feelings for one of his female friends. Don't know how to stop being so jealous, or tell him. Help plz :)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I get irrational jealousy for boyfriend hanging out with female friends even though he's totally open about it, and don't want him to feel weird about it. How do I stop feeling this way?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Got irrational jealousy for SO of a year because I think he'll develop feelings for one of his female friends. Don't know how to stop being so jealous, or tell him. Help plz :)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got irrational jealousy for SO of a year because I think he'll develop feelings for one of his female friends. Don't know how to stop being so jealous, or tell him. Help plz :)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I get nervous whenever my SO makes male friends, even if it's the same friends he's made in the past. How do I deal with it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend and I love each other, but I inwardly freak out whenever he talks to girls. I need to change this somehow, and I don't whether to tell him about it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I get nervous whenever my SO makes male friends, even if it's the same friends he's made in the past. How do I deal with it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I get irrational jealousy for boyfriend hanging out with female friends even though he's totally open about it, and don't want him to feel weird about it. How do I stop feeling this way?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I get irrational jealousy for boyfriend hanging out with female friends even though he's totally open about it, and don't want him to feel weird about it. How do I stop feeling this way?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I get nervous whenever my SO makes male friends, even if it's the same friends he's made in the past. How do I deal with it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Got irrational jealousy for SO of a year because I think he'll develop feelings for one of his female friends. Don't know how to stop being so jealous, or tell him. Help plz :)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got irrational jealousy for SO of a year because I think he'll develop feelings for one of his female friends. Don't know how to stop being so jealous, or tell him. Help plz :)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [22F] feel irrational jealousy for SO [22M] of a year, hiding it from him\n\nPOST: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. He's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). I know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend and I love each other, but I inwardly freak out whenever he talks to girls. I need to change this somehow, and I don't whether to tell him about it.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " I was curios about my relationship with my boyfriend. I looked into his fb messages. I have trust issues and I am going to the gym to fix this.", "policy": "sup4_6b_t0.7", "note": "\"I have trust issues and I am going to the gym to fix this.\" - why am I laughing so hard at this? Didn't know going to the gym can fix those issues. " }, { "text": " I look at my boyfriends fb, private messages to find out he may have cheated on me. I am a horrible person how can I fix this?", "policy": "sup4_bo64_rm3", "note": "How is the author a horrible person here?? " } ]

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I look at my boyfriends fb, private messages to find out he may have cheated on me. I am a horrible person how can I fix this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I look at my boyfriends fb, private messages to find out he may have cheated on me. I am a horrible person how can I fix this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I was curios about my relationship with my boyfriend. I looked into his fb messages. I have trust issues and I am going to the gym to fix this.<|endoftext|>

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I look at bf fb/ private messages 5 times in a row bc I am paranoid. I have hurt him badly by bringing it up. I need advice on how to fix it.<|endoftext|>

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I was curios about my relationship with my boyfriend. I looked into his fb messages. I have trust issues and I am going to the gym to fix this.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I look at bf fb/ private messages 5 times in a row bc I am paranoid. I have hurt him badly by bringing it up. I need advice on how to fix it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I was curios about my relationship with my boyfriend. I looked into his fb messages. I have trust issues and I am going to the gym to fix this.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " I look at my boyfriends fb, private messages to find out he may have cheated on me. I am a horrible person how can I fix this?", "policy": "sup4_bo64_rm3", "note": "How is the author a horrible person here?? " }, { "text": " I look at bf fb/ private messages 5 times in a row bc I am paranoid. I have hurt him badly by bringing it up. I need advice on how to fix it.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl10", "note": "Ok enough" } ]

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I look at bf fb/ private messages 5 times in a row bc I am paranoid. I have hurt him badly by bringing it up. I need advice on how to fix it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I look at bf fb/ private messages 5 times in a row bc I am paranoid. I have hurt him badly by bringing it up. I need advice on how to fix it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I look at my boyfriends fb, private messages to find out he may have cheated on me. I am a horrible person how can I fix this?<|endoftext|>

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I have trust issues and my boyfriend has cheated on me. Looking at his fb/ private messages, I have looked 5 times and found out he had a fling 3 days before we started dating . I stab him in the back.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have trust issues and my boyfriend has cheated on me. Looking at his fb/ private messages, I have looked 5 times and found out he had a fling 3 days before we started dating . I stab him in the back.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I was curios about my relationship with my boyfriend. I looked into his fb messages. I have trust issues and I am going to the gym to fix this.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I look at my boyfriends fb, private messages to find out he may have cheated on me. I am a horrible person how can I fix this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I look at my boyfriends fb, private messages to find out he may have cheated on me. I am a horrible person how can I fix this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have trust issues and my boyfriend has cheated on me. Looking at his fb/ private messages, I have looked 5 times and found out he had a fling 3 days before we started dating . I stab him in the back.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " I have trust issues and my boyfriend has cheated on me. Looking at his fb/ private messages, I have looked 5 times and found out he had a fling 3 days before we started dating . I stab him in the back.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl10", "note": "\"I stab him in the back.\" sounds off there. \n\n---\nBf has not cheated on her, it's her ex-bf who did so. " }, { "text": " I look at bf fb/ private messages 5 times in a row bc I am paranoid. I have hurt him badly by bringing it up. I need advice on how to fix it.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl10", "note": "Ok enough" } ]

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I look at bf fb/ private messages 5 times in a row bc I am paranoid. I have hurt him badly by bringing it up. I need advice on how to fix it.<|endoftext|>

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I have trust issues and my boyfriend has cheated on me. Looking at his fb/ private messages, I have looked 5 times and found out he had a fling 3 days before we started dating . I stab him in the back.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I look at bf fb/ private messages 5 times in a row bc I am paranoid. I have hurt him badly by bringing it up. I need advice on how to fix it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I messed up (22f/m)\n\nPOST: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this .\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have trust issues and my boyfriend has cheated on me. Looking at his fb/ private messages, I have looked 5 times and found out he had a fling 3 days before we started dating . I stab him in the back.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

got a request for tutoring on craigslist, offered some cheap math/science tutoring but haven't yet, got a check for $3000, no instructions sent, worried I am being scammed<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: got a request for tutoring on craigslist, offered some cheap math/science tutoring but haven't yet, got a check for $3000, no instructions sent, worried I am being scammed<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got put in for cheap tutoring, offered to do, turns out I am being scammed for money, unsure about what to do. Help please?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Grad student offering cheap tutoring on craigslist, gets a check for $3000, doesn't want to pay, asks for my address. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grad student offering cheap tutoring on craigslist, gets a check for $3000, doesn't want to pay, asks for my address. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got put in for cheap tutoring, offered to do, turns out I am being scammed for money, unsure about what to do. Help please?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

got a request for tutoring on craigslist, offered some cheap math/science tutoring but haven't yet, got a check for $3000, no instructions sent, worried I am being scammed<|endoftext|>

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Grad student offering cheap tutoring on craigslist, gets a check for $3000, doesn't want to pay, asks for my address. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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sup4_bo64_rm3

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: got a request for tutoring on craigslist, offered some cheap math/science tutoring but haven't yet, got a check for $3000, no instructions sent, worried I am being scammed<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grad student offering cheap tutoring on craigslist, gets a check for $3000, doesn't want to pay, asks for my address. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

got a request for tutoring on craigslist, offered some cheap math/science tutoring but haven't yet, got a check for $3000, no instructions sent, worried I am being scammed<|endoftext|>

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I am being asked to send money to a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. via money gram. The first check I received from her was for $3000.<|endoftext|>

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sup4_6b_t0.7

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: got a request for tutoring on craigslist, offered some cheap math/science tutoring but haven't yet, got a check for $3000, no instructions sent, worried I am being scammed<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am being asked to send money to a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. via money gram. The first check I received from her was for $3000.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Grad student offering cheap tutoring on craigslist, gets a check for $3000, doesn't want to pay, asks for my address. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grad student offering cheap tutoring on craigslist, gets a check for $3000, doesn't want to pay, asks for my address. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am being asked to send money to a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. via money gram. The first check I received from her was for $3000.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Got put in for cheap tutoring, offered to do, turns out I am being scammed for money, unsure about what to do. Help please?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got put in for cheap tutoring, offered to do, turns out I am being scammed for money, unsure about what to do. Help please?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am being asked to send money to a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. via money gram. The first check I received from her was for $3000.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

got a request for tutoring on craigslist, offered some cheap math/science tutoring but haven't yet, got a check for $3000, no instructions sent, worried I am being scammed<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: got a request for tutoring on craigslist, offered some cheap math/science tutoring but haven't yet, got a check for $3000, no instructions sent, worried I am being scammed<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got put in for cheap tutoring, offered to do, turns out I am being scammed for money, unsure about what to do. Help please?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Got put in for cheap tutoring, offered to do, turns out I am being scammed for money, unsure about what to do. Help please?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got put in for cheap tutoring, offered to do, turns out I am being scammed for money, unsure about what to do. Help please?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grad student offering cheap tutoring on craigslist, gets a check for $3000, doesn't want to pay, asks for my address. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

got a request for tutoring on craigslist, offered some cheap math/science tutoring but haven't yet, got a check for $3000, no instructions sent, worried I am being scammed<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: got a request for tutoring on craigslist, offered some cheap math/science tutoring but haven't yet, got a check for $3000, no instructions sent, worried I am being scammed<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grad student offering cheap tutoring on craigslist, gets a check for $3000, doesn't want to pay, asks for my address. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

got a request for tutoring on craigslist, offered some cheap math/science tutoring but haven't yet, got a check for $3000, no instructions sent, worried I am being scammed<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: got a request for tutoring on craigslist, offered some cheap math/science tutoring but haven't yet, got a check for $3000, no instructions sent, worried I am being scammed<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am being asked to send money to a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. via money gram. The first check I received from her was for $3000.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I am being asked to send money to a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. via money gram. The first check I received from her was for $3000.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am being asked to send money to a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. via money gram. The first check I received from her was for $3000.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Something smells fishy about this situtation\n\nPOST: All, I am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. Here are the details: I put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from "New Venture Fund" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. - What should I look out for? - Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grad student offering cheap tutoring on craigslist, gets a check for $3000, doesn't want to pay, asks for my address. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I think I cheated on my boyfriend by sexting a guy that I knew wanted to hook up with me, but I love my boyfriend more than anything. I really don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I cheated on my boyfriend by sexting a guy that I knew wanted to hook up with me, but I love my boyfriend more than anything. I really don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I cheated on my boyfriend but maybe I just have issues... How do I say no to guys?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I think I cheated on my boyfriend by sexting a guy that I knew wanted to hook up with me, but I love my boyfriend more than anything. I really don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I cheated on my boyfriend by sexting a guy that I knew wanted to hook up with me, but I love my boyfriend more than anything. I really don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: think i cheated on my boyfriend with guy i know that wants to hook up w me instead of talking to my boyfriend.. need advice on what to do about it... pls halp..<|endoftext|>

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think i cheated on the love of my life with another guy, unsure how to say no to guys because I love my boyfriend more than anything.. HELP!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: think i cheated on the love of my life with another guy, unsure how to say no to guys because I love my boyfriend more than anything.. HELP!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I cheated on my boyfriend but maybe I just have issues... How do I say no to guys?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

think i cheated on the love of my life with another guy, unsure how to say no to guys because I love my boyfriend more than anything.. HELP!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: think i cheated on the love of my life with another guy, unsure how to say no to guys because I love my boyfriend more than anything.. HELP!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: think i cheated on my boyfriend with guy i know that wants to hook up w me instead of talking to my boyfriend.. need advice on what to do about it... pls halp..<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I think I cheated on my boyfriend by sexting a guy that I knew wanted to hook up with me, but I love my boyfriend more than anything. I really don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I cheated on my boyfriend by sexting a guy that I knew wanted to hook up with me, but I love my boyfriend more than anything. I really don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I think I cheated on the love of my life\n\nPOST: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying... He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. BUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up. He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart.. I just don't know what to do with the other guys.. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: think i cheated on the love of my life with another guy, unsure how to say no to guys because I love my boyfriend more than anything.. HELP!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been talking to ex for a year now, not sure if I want to be together or not. wondering if this is normal amount of doubt in relationship or over-thinking it/me too much?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been talking to ex for a year, not sure if she wants to be friends due to our age difference and hesitance to continue relationship due to family issues. am unsure if normal amount of doubt in a relationship?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

been talking to ex for a year, not sure if she wants to be friends due to our age difference and hesitance to continue relationship due to family issues. am unsure if normal amount of doubt in a relationship?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been talking to ex for a year, not sure if she wants to be friends due to our age difference and hesitance to continue relationship due to family issues. am unsure if normal amount of doubt in a relationship?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Dating a girl, broke up, both kind of wanting to get back together, just sort of not sure if it's a good idea.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm inexperienced and am not sure what a good relationship is supposed to feel like. I don't want to commit if it's not and don't want to give it up if it is.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm inexperienced and am not sure what a good relationship is supposed to feel like. I don't want to commit if it's not and don't want to give it up if it is.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been talking to ex for a year now, not sure if I want to be together or not. wondering if this is normal amount of doubt in relationship or over-thinking it/me too much?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm inexperienced and am not sure what a good relationship is supposed to feel like. I don't want to commit if it's not and don't want to give it up if it is.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm inexperienced and am not sure what a good relationship is supposed to feel like. I don't want to commit if it's not and don't want to give it up if it is.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been talking to ex for a year, not sure if she wants to be friends due to our age difference and hesitance to continue relationship due to family issues. am unsure if normal amount of doubt in a relationship?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm inexperienced and am not sure what a good relationship is supposed to feel like. I don't want to commit if it's not and don't want to give it up if it is.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm inexperienced and am not sure what a good relationship is supposed to feel like. I don't want to commit if it's not and don't want to give it up if it is.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Dating a girl, broke up, both kind of wanting to get back together, just sort of not sure if it's a good idea.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been talking to ex for a year now, not sure if I want to be together or not. wondering if this is normal amount of doubt in relationship or over-thinking it/me too much?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So me [23] and my ex [25] have been talking recently and I'm not sure what I want to do.\n\nPOST: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Dating a girl, broke up, both kind of wanting to get back together, just sort of not sure if it's a good idea.<|endoftext|>

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