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TITLE: [HELP] 315 and need advice.\n\nPOST: Hello, first time ever on /r/loseit and i can already say this is my favorite subreddit. Here's the deal, i'm 17, a senior in high school going to college soon, i weigh 315lbs and i'm 6'5". What i need is advice to help me to loose weight to about 220. I was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football and now while i recover i sit around and do nothing. since football ended i would usually do track but can't because of my knee. Without sports i sit around and i just eat and i can feel my weight adding up it honestly disgusts me. I really need to know what i should do, and how i can continue to do it without reverting back into my old ways (because that has happened more than once). Any help is appreciated, thank you.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 17, 6'5" 315lbs, need advice to get to about 220lbs so i can continue to do sports without reverting back into old ways.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [HELP] 315 and need advice.\n\nPOST: Hello, first time ever on /r/loseit and i can already say this is my favorite subreddit. Here's the deal, i'm 17, a senior in high school going to college soon, i weigh 315lbs and i'm 6'5". What i need is advice to help me to loose weight to about 220. I was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football and now while i recover i sit around and do nothing. since football ended i would usually do track but can't because of my knee. Without sports i sit around and i just eat and i can feel my weight adding up it honestly disgusts me. I really need to know what i should do, and how i can continue to do it without reverting back into my old ways (because that has happened more than once). Any help is appreciated, thank you.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

i weigh 315lbs and need advice to loose some weight to about 220. Any help would be appreciated, thank you.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [HELP] 315 and need advice.\n\nPOST: Hello, first time ever on /r/loseit and i can already say this is my favorite subreddit. Here's the deal, i'm 17, a senior in high school going to college soon, i weigh 315lbs and i'm 6'5". What i need is advice to help me to loose weight to about 220. I was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football and now while i recover i sit around and do nothing. since football ended i would usually do track but can't because of my knee. Without sports i sit around and i just eat and i can feel my weight adding up it honestly disgusts me. I really need to know what i should do, and how i can continue to do it without reverting back into my old ways (because that has happened more than once). Any help is appreciated, thank you.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: i weigh 315lbs and need advice to loose some weight to about 220. Any help would be appreciated, thank you.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [HELP] 315 and need advice.\n\nPOST: Hello, first time ever on /r/loseit and i can already say this is my favorite subreddit. Here's the deal, i'm 17, a senior in high school going to college soon, i weigh 315lbs and i'm 6'5". What i need is advice to help me to loose weight to about 220. I was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football and now while i recover i sit around and do nothing. since football ended i would usually do track but can't because of my knee. Without sports i sit around and i just eat and i can feel my weight adding up it honestly disgusts me. I really need to know what i should do, and how i can continue to do it without reverting back into my old ways (because that has happened more than once). Any help is appreciated, thank you.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 17, 6'5" 315lbs, need advice to get to about 220lbs so i can continue to do sports without reverting back into old ways.<|endoftext|>

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17 year old male with obesity, knee injury and no sports to do, need advice to loose weight.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [HELP] 315 and need advice.\n\nPOST: Hello, first time ever on /r/loseit and i can already say this is my favorite subreddit. Here's the deal, i'm 17, a senior in high school going to college soon, i weigh 315lbs and i'm 6'5". What i need is advice to help me to loose weight to about 220. I was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football and now while i recover i sit around and do nothing. since football ended i would usually do track but can't because of my knee. Without sports i sit around and i just eat and i can feel my weight adding up it honestly disgusts me. I really need to know what i should do, and how i can continue to do it without reverting back into my old ways (because that has happened more than once). Any help is appreciated, thank you.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 17 year old male with obesity, knee injury and no sports to do, need advice to loose weight.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [HELP] 315 and need advice.\n\nPOST: Hello, first time ever on /r/loseit and i can already say this is my favorite subreddit. Here's the deal, i'm 17, a senior in high school going to college soon, i weigh 315lbs and i'm 6'5". What i need is advice to help me to loose weight to about 220. I was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football and now while i recover i sit around and do nothing. since football ended i would usually do track but can't because of my knee. Without sports i sit around and i just eat and i can feel my weight adding up it honestly disgusts me. I really need to know what i should do, and how i can continue to do it without reverting back into my old ways (because that has happened more than once). Any help is appreciated, thank you.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: need help to loose weight and get to my goal weight of 220, i was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football, need advice on how to keep myself motivated and not revert back to my old ways.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Friend and I had an interesting conversation about a dream she had, she told me she was giving me a blowjob in her dream causing confusion/need help interpreting her comments.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend and I had an interesting conversation about a dream she had, she told me she was giving me a blowjob in her dream causing confusion/need help interpreting her comments.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: A friend of mine sends me a dream of a sexual encounter she had with me, doesn't really elaborate on the details and then proceeds to talk about the orgy party she was at and how she didn't do anything. Completely confused<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Friend and I had an interesting conversation about a dream she had, she told me she was giving me a blowjob in her dream causing confusion/need help interpreting her comments.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend and I had an interesting conversation about a dream she had, she told me she was giving me a blowjob in her dream causing confusion/need help interpreting her comments.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: A friend of mine told me I was in a dream she had, told me she was giving me a blowjob, talked about going to an orgy, and slept with people she knows. I'm confused and looking for some insight/<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: friend and I had an interesting conversation about a dream she had of her giving me a blow job. Not sure how to take it and need some perspective & advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend and I had an interesting conversation about a dream she had, she told me she was giving me a blowjob in her dream causing confusion/need help interpreting her comments.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

friend and I had an interesting conversation about a dream she had of her giving me a blow job. Not sure how to take it and need some perspective & advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: friend and I had an interesting conversation about a dream she had of her giving me a blow job. Not sure how to take it and need some perspective & advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: A friend of mine sends me a dream of a sexual encounter she had with me, doesn't really elaborate on the details and then proceeds to talk about the orgy party she was at and how she didn't do anything. Completely confused<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

A friend of mine told me I was in a dream she had, told me she was giving me a blowjob, talked about going to an orgy, and slept with people she knows. I'm confused and looking for some insight/<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: A friend of mine told me I was in a dream she had, told me she was giving me a blowjob, talked about going to an orgy, and slept with people she knows. I'm confused and looking for some insight/<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: A friend of mine sends me a dream of a sexual encounter she had with me, doesn't really elaborate on the details and then proceeds to talk about the orgy party she was at and how she didn't do anything. Completely confused<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

friend and I had an interesting conversation about a dream she had of her giving me a blow job. Not sure how to take it and need some perspective & advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: friend and I had an interesting conversation about a dream she had of her giving me a blow job. Not sure how to take it and need some perspective & advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My friend [21F] and I [22M] had an interesting conversation about a dream of her's that I was in.\n\nPOST: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country. While she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. I was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the "you could get a so much more attractive gal" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: A friend of mine told me I was in a dream she had, told me she was giving me a blowjob, talked about going to an orgy, and slept with people she knows. I'm confused and looking for some insight/<|endoftext|>

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Told ex I didn't want an LDR, abruptly ended our conversation when confronted with reason why, and haven't heard from her since. Wondering what the difference between a fight and a discussion was in this context.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told ex I didn't want an LDR, abruptly ended our conversation when confronted with reason why, and haven't heard from her since. Wondering what the difference between a fight and a discussion was in this context.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had a conversation with an ex that seemed like a fight but was told it was a discussion. What exactly is the difference here?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had a conversation with an ex that seemed like a fight but was told it was a discussion. What exactly is the difference here?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ex and I started talking again and I asked her why she wanted an LDR. She said we had a discussion and it was nothing of the sort (she later told me she was in love with her boyfriend at the time). What is<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Told ex I didn't want an LDR, abruptly ended our conversation when confronted with reason why, and haven't heard from her since. Wondering what the difference between a fight and a discussion was in this context.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told ex I didn't want an LDR, abruptly ended our conversation when confronted with reason why, and haven't heard from her since. Wondering what the difference between a fight and a discussion was in this context.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ex and I started talking again and I asked her why she wanted an LDR. She said we had a discussion and it was nothing of the sort (she later told me she was in love with her boyfriend at the time). What is<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Told ex I didn't want an LDR, abruptly ended our conversation when confronted with reason why, and haven't heard from her since. Wondering what the difference between a fight and a discussion was in this context.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told ex I didn't want an LDR, abruptly ended our conversation when confronted with reason why, and haven't heard from her since. Wondering what the difference between a fight and a discussion was in this context.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: ex abruptly ended conversation and said she was in love with boyfriend instead of me on my birthday. what kind of difference is there between a discussion and a fight?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

ex abruptly ended conversation and said she was in love with boyfriend instead of me on my birthday. what kind of difference is there between a discussion and a fight?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: ex abruptly ended conversation and said she was in love with boyfriend instead of me on my birthday. what kind of difference is there between a discussion and a fight?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ex and I started talking again and I asked her why she wanted an LDR. She said we had a discussion and it was nothing of the sort (she later told me she was in love with her boyfriend at the time). What is<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Had a conversation with an ex that seemed like a fight but was told it was a discussion. What exactly is the difference here?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had a conversation with an ex that seemed like a fight but was told it was a discussion. What exactly is the difference here?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What is the difference between a discussion and a fight?\n\nPOST: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two. Context: I wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about "us" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our "fight". She said "We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend." I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the askwomenadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: ex abruptly ended conversation and said she was in love with boyfriend instead of me on my birthday. what kind of difference is there between a discussion and a fight?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What should I do if I feel I have found the girl of my dreams too soon?\n\nPOST: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. She is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want... but too soon. Throughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. She is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. I know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. I have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I know that if I break up with her, it will kill her inside, and if I don't it will leave me with too much curiosity for what I could have had with other women. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What should I do if I feel I have found the girl of my dreams too soon?\n\nPOST: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. She is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want... but too soon. Throughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. She is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. I know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. I have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have had three relationships in my life, and just recently got my current girlfriend. I am still hung up on the past relationships I may have had. What should I do to make sure I don't miss out on the girl of my<|endoftext|>

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I know that if I break up with her, it will kill her inside, and if I don't it will leave me with too much curiosity for what I could have had with other women. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What should I do if I feel I have found the girl of my dreams too soon?\n\nPOST: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. She is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want... but too soon. Throughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. She is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. I know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. I have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I know that if I break up with her, it will kill her inside, and if I don't it will leave me with too much curiosity for what I could have had with other women. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What should I do if I feel I have found the girl of my dreams too soon?\n\nPOST: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. She is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want... but too soon. Throughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. She is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. I know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. I have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have found love with my girlfriend, but I have never had sex with anyone. I am curious about relationships I may have had. I am likely to break up with her, but I have never had sex with anyone else. What should<|endoftext|>

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I know that if I break up with her, it will kill her inside, and if I don't it will leave me with too much curiosity for what I could have had with other women. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What should I do if I feel I have found the girl of my dreams too soon?\n\nPOST: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. She is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want... but too soon. Throughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. She is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. I know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. I have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I know that if I break up with her, it will kill her inside, and if I don't it will leave me with too much curiosity for what I could have had with other women. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What should I do if I feel I have found the girl of my dreams too soon?\n\nPOST: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. She is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want... but too soon. Throughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. She is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. I know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. I have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have found my dream girl too soon, and I'm struggling to decide whether or not to continue the relationship or end it even though it is going well. Help? <|endoftext|>

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I have had three relationships in my life, and just recently got my current girlfriend. I am still hung up on the past relationships I may have had. What should I do to make sure I don't miss out on the girl of my<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What should I do if I feel I have found the girl of my dreams too soon?\n\nPOST: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. She is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want... but too soon. Throughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. She is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. I know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. I have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have had three relationships in my life, and just recently got my current girlfriend. I am still hung up on the past relationships I may have had. What should I do to make sure I don't miss out on the girl of my<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What should I do if I feel I have found the girl of my dreams too soon?\n\nPOST: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. She is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want... but too soon. Throughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. She is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. I know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. I have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have found love with my girlfriend, but I have never had sex with anyone. I am curious about relationships I may have had. I am likely to break up with her, but I have never had sex with anyone else. What should<|endoftext|>

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I have found my dream girl too soon, and I'm struggling to decide whether or not to continue the relationship or end it even though it is going well. Help? <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What should I do if I feel I have found the girl of my dreams too soon?\n\nPOST: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. She is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want... but too soon. Throughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. She is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. I know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. I have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have found my dream girl too soon, and I'm struggling to decide whether or not to continue the relationship or end it even though it is going well. Help? <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What should I do if I feel I have found the girl of my dreams too soon?\n\nPOST: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. She is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want... but too soon. Throughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. She is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. I know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. I have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have had three relationships in my life, and just recently got my current girlfriend. I am still hung up on the past relationships I may have had. What should I do to make sure I don't miss out on the girl of my<|endoftext|>

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I have found my dream girl too soon, and I'm struggling to decide whether or not to continue the relationship or end it even though it is going well. Help? <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What should I do if I feel I have found the girl of my dreams too soon?\n\nPOST: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. She is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want... but too soon. Throughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. She is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. I know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. I have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have found my dream girl too soon, and I'm struggling to decide whether or not to continue the relationship or end it even though it is going well. Help? <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What should I do if I feel I have found the girl of my dreams too soon?\n\nPOST: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. She is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want... but too soon. Throughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. She is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. I know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. I have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have found love with my girlfriend, but I have never had sex with anyone. I am curious about relationships I may have had. I am likely to break up with her, but I have never had sex with anyone else. What should<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

MIL wants to move in with 9yr old son, offers to babysit and pay $250. Lived with her in the past and almost split with my husband. Should I take on the stress again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: MIL wants to move in with 9yr old son, offers to babysit and pay $250. Lived with her in the past and almost split with my husband. Should I take on the stress again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My MIL wants to move in with us, but I don't know if it is a good idea. Is it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

MIL wants to move in with 9yr old son, offers to babysit and pay $250. Lived with her in the past and almost split with my husband. Should I take on the stress again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: MIL wants to move in with 9yr old son, offers to babysit and pay $250. Lived with her in the past and almost split with my husband. Should I take on the stress again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: MIL wants to move in with me (25f) after all expenses are covered by her, including sitters. Not sure if it will work out well, or what others would do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

MIL wants to move in with me (25f) after all expenses are covered by her, including sitters. Not sure if it will work out well, or what others would do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: MIL wants to move in with me (25f) after all expenses are covered by her, including sitters. Not sure if it will work out well, or what others would do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: MIL wants to move in with me and pay rent w/o sitter. Good idea or waste of time? Also what would you do if you were in my shoes?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

MIL wants to move in with 9yr old son, offers to babysit and pay $250. Lived with her in the past and almost split with my husband. Should I take on the stress again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: MIL wants to move in with 9yr old son, offers to babysit and pay $250. Lived with her in the past and almost split with my husband. Should I take on the stress again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: MIL wants to move in with me and pay rent w/o sitter. Good idea or waste of time? Also what would you do if you were in my shoes?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

MIL wants to move in with me (25f) after all expenses are covered by her, including sitters. Not sure if it will work out well, or what others would do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: MIL wants to move in with me (25f) after all expenses are covered by her, including sitters. Not sure if it will work out well, or what others would do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My MIL wants to move in with us, but I don't know if it is a good idea. Is it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

MIL wants to move in with me and pay rent w/o sitter. Good idea or waste of time? Also what would you do if you were in my shoes?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: MIL wants to move in with me and pay rent w/o sitter. Good idea or waste of time? Also what would you do if you were in my shoes?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My MIL (47f) wants to move in with me(25f).\n\nPOST: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away. My husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town. My mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work. She has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. I was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My MIL wants to move in with us, but I don't know if it is a good idea. Is it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

look through boyfriend's internet history, found he looks at chubby girls porn, should I be worried? should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: look through boyfriend's internet history, found he looks at chubby girls porn, should I be worried? should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I looked through my boyfriend's internet history and found out he looks at chubby/fat girls online, should I be concerned? also should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

look through boyfriend's internet history, found he looks at chubby girls porn, should I be worried? should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: look through boyfriend's internet history, found he looks at chubby girls porn, should I be worried? should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Looked through boyfriends internet history, found he looks at obese/fat girl porn and I feel awful about it. Should I confront him/do anything??<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Looked through boyfriends internet history, found he looks at obese/fat girl porn and I feel awful about it. Should I confront him/do anything??<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Looked through boyfriends internet history, found he looks at obese/fat girl porn and I feel awful about it. Should I confront him/do anything??<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I looked through my boyfriend's internet history and found out he looks at chubby/fat girls online, should I be concerned? also should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Looked through boyfriend's internet history looked at chubby/fat girl porn disgusted and now am very uncomfortable around him and don't know what to do. Should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Looked through boyfriend's internet history looked at chubby/fat girl porn disgusted and now am very uncomfortable around him and don't know what to do. Should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I looked through my boyfriend's internet history and found out he looks at chubby/fat girls online, should I be concerned? also should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Looked through boyfriend's internet history looked at chubby/fat girl porn disgusted and now am very uncomfortable around him and don't know what to do. Should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Looked through boyfriend's internet history looked at chubby/fat girl porn disgusted and now am very uncomfortable around him and don't know what to do. Should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: look through boyfriend's internet history, found he looks at chubby girls porn, should I be worried? should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Looked through boyfriend's internet history looked at chubby/fat girl porn disgusted and now am very uncomfortable around him and don't know what to do. Should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Looked through boyfriend's internet history looked at chubby/fat girl porn disgusted and now am very uncomfortable around him and don't know what to do. Should I confront him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20F] looked through my boyfriend's [26M] (of 2 years) internet history and did not like what I saw\n\nPOST: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!) I basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. I can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. I also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy... so my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing??\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Looked through boyfriends internet history, found he looks at obese/fat girl porn and I feel awful about it. Should I confront him/do anything??<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Someone in Brooklyn stole my card info and spent all my money. Can I use this information to get justice and pursue legal action to recover my money?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone in Brooklyn stole my card info and spent all my money. Can I use this information to get justice and pursue legal action to recover my money?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone stole my money from me, want to use the information I have against this person to pursue legal action, is it possible?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Someone stole my Citi prepaid card. I would like to get the police involved. Would I be able to use the information I have on the person to get them arrested?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone stole my Citi prepaid card. I would like to get the police involved. Would I be able to use the information I have on the person to get them arrested?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone in Brooklyn stole my card info and spent all my money. Can I use this information to get justice and pursue legal action to recover my money?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Someone stole my Citi prepaid card. I would like to get the police involved. Would I be able to use the information I have on the person to get them arrested?<|endoftext|>

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Someone stole my money from me, want to use the information I have against this person to pursue legal action, is it possible?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone stole my Citi prepaid card. I would like to get the police involved. Would I be able to use the information I have on the person to get them arrested?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone stole my money from me, want to use the information I have against this person to pursue legal action, is it possible?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Someone stole my card info from my employer and spent all of my money. Can I use info I have on this person to open an investigation into this person and receive some legal action?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone stole my card info from my employer and spent all of my money. Can I use info I have on this person to open an investigation into this person and receive some legal action?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone stole my Citi prepaid card. I would like to get the police involved. Would I be able to use the information I have on the person to get them arrested?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Someone stole my card info from my employer and spent all of my money. Can I use info I have on this person to open an investigation into this person and receive some legal action?<|endoftext|>

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Someone stole my money from me, want to use the information I have against this person to pursue legal action, is it possible?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone stole my card info from my employer and spent all of my money. Can I use info I have on this person to open an investigation into this person and receive some legal action?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone stole my money from me, want to use the information I have against this person to pursue legal action, is it possible?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Someone stole my card info from my employer and spent all of my money. Can I use info I have on this person to open an investigation into this person and receive some legal action?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone stole my card info from my employer and spent all of my money. Can I use info I have on this person to open an investigation into this person and receive some legal action?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Stolen Card Information] Someone in Brooklyn just spent all my money.\n\nPOST: Granted it wasn't hard, wasn't much in there to steal. My employer doesn't like to give checks out. They have a preference for this stupid Citi prepaid card. I sent Citi an email explaining the situation so hopefully sometime soon I will receive my money back and the account will be closed. **Here is why I am posting in /r/legaladvice:** Is it at all possible that I can use the information I have on the person that stole my account information to locate this person and take legal action? I have two separate transactions, one at a Kings Mill BP and another at New Garment Care Cleaners. I have the amount of money taken out at what day. Would I be able to contact the police and get an investigation going? I'm hoping to sue this person into a cardboard box because I have zero money right now until I don't know when. The only saving grace is that this is the week my direct deposit is supposed to go into my actual bank account which, truth be told, hasn't happened yet and that is also sketchy. But the prepaid card shouldn't be seeing my paycheck today or ever again.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone in Brooklyn stole my card info and spent all my money. Can I use this information to get justice and pursue legal action to recover my money?<|endoftext|>

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Want to apply to internship at company, but girl from school interns there as well. Not sure how to proceed due to intimacy issues and potential awkwardness. Help?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So I'm in a bit of a pickle, and need some advice.\n\nPOST: So I'll try to keep this as short as possible, but a little backstory is needed. I'm in college and will be a senior next year - and while most of my friends have internships, I don't. I emailed 20+ companies and haven't had any luck. So I was talking with the head of my department the other day, and he suggested a company for me to contact, and to give him as a reference. This is great, the only problem is that there is a girl from school that interns there as well. A girl whom I had (and still kind of do) a crush on. Over the past school year this girl and I had become really good friends (maybe we still are?) - until I asked her out about a month ago. Now we hardly talk anymore (whereas before we used to talk almost everyday), and things just feel awkward and weird now with her. So now I don't know what to do, the company is fairly small so I'd probably see her everyday. I don't know if I should tell her that I'm applying there, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue. I feel like either way it'd make things weird, uncomfortable and that I'd come off creepy to her. And the thing is, I'd REALLY like to have an internship this summer -and so far, this is the only promising lead. Though not getting an internship this summer isn't the end of the world, in my profession - not having one leaves you at a serious disadvantage once you graduate.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Want to apply to internship at company, but girl from school interns there as well. Not sure how to proceed due to intimacy issues and potential awkwardness. Help?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So I'm in a bit of a pickle, and need some advice.\n\nPOST: So I'll try to keep this as short as possible, but a little backstory is needed. I'm in college and will be a senior next year - and while most of my friends have internships, I don't. I emailed 20+ companies and haven't had any luck. So I was talking with the head of my department the other day, and he suggested a company for me to contact, and to give him as a reference. This is great, the only problem is that there is a girl from school that interns there as well. A girl whom I had (and still kind of do) a crush on. Over the past school year this girl and I had become really good friends (maybe we still are?) - until I asked her out about a month ago. Now we hardly talk anymore (whereas before we used to talk almost everyday), and things just feel awkward and weird now with her. So now I don't know what to do, the company is fairly small so I'd probably see her everyday. I don't know if I should tell her that I'm applying there, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue. I feel like either way it'd make things weird, uncomfortable and that I'd come off creepy to her. And the thing is, I'd REALLY like to have an internship this summer -and so far, this is the only promising lead. Though not getting an internship this summer isn't the end of the world, in my profession - not having one leaves you at a serious disadvantage once you graduate.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a senior in college and I need to know if I should apply for a company where my crush interns, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So I'm in a bit of a pickle, and need some advice.\n\nPOST: So I'll try to keep this as short as possible, but a little backstory is needed. I'm in college and will be a senior next year - and while most of my friends have internships, I don't. I emailed 20+ companies and haven't had any luck. So I was talking with the head of my department the other day, and he suggested a company for me to contact, and to give him as a reference. This is great, the only problem is that there is a girl from school that interns there as well. A girl whom I had (and still kind of do) a crush on. Over the past school year this girl and I had become really good friends (maybe we still are?) - until I asked her out about a month ago. Now we hardly talk anymore (whereas before we used to talk almost everyday), and things just feel awkward and weird now with her. So now I don't know what to do, the company is fairly small so I'd probably see her everyday. I don't know if I should tell her that I'm applying there, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue. I feel like either way it'd make things weird, uncomfortable and that I'd come off creepy to her. And the thing is, I'd REALLY like to have an internship this summer -and so far, this is the only promising lead. Though not getting an internship this summer isn't the end of the world, in my profession - not having one leaves you at a serious disadvantage once you graduate.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Want to apply to internship at company, but girl from school interns there as well. Not sure how to proceed due to intimacy issues and potential awkwardness. Help?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So I'm in a bit of a pickle, and need some advice.\n\nPOST: So I'll try to keep this as short as possible, but a little backstory is needed. I'm in college and will be a senior next year - and while most of my friends have internships, I don't. I emailed 20+ companies and haven't had any luck. So I was talking with the head of my department the other day, and he suggested a company for me to contact, and to give him as a reference. This is great, the only problem is that there is a girl from school that interns there as well. A girl whom I had (and still kind of do) a crush on. Over the past school year this girl and I had become really good friends (maybe we still are?) - until I asked her out about a month ago. Now we hardly talk anymore (whereas before we used to talk almost everyday), and things just feel awkward and weird now with her. So now I don't know what to do, the company is fairly small so I'd probably see her everyday. I don't know if I should tell her that I'm applying there, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue. I feel like either way it'd make things weird, uncomfortable and that I'd come off creepy to her. And the thing is, I'd REALLY like to have an internship this summer -and so far, this is the only promising lead. Though not getting an internship this summer isn't the end of the world, in my profession - not having one leaves you at a serious disadvantage once you graduate.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Want to apply to internship at company, but girl from school interns there as well. Not sure how to proceed due to intimacy issues and potential awkwardness. Help?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So I'm in a bit of a pickle, and need some advice.\n\nPOST: So I'll try to keep this as short as possible, but a little backstory is needed. I'm in college and will be a senior next year - and while most of my friends have internships, I don't. I emailed 20+ companies and haven't had any luck. So I was talking with the head of my department the other day, and he suggested a company for me to contact, and to give him as a reference. This is great, the only problem is that there is a girl from school that interns there as well. A girl whom I had (and still kind of do) a crush on. Over the past school year this girl and I had become really good friends (maybe we still are?) - until I asked her out about a month ago. Now we hardly talk anymore (whereas before we used to talk almost everyday), and things just feel awkward and weird now with her. So now I don't know what to do, the company is fairly small so I'd probably see her everyday. I don't know if I should tell her that I'm applying there, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue. I feel like either way it'd make things weird, uncomfortable and that I'd come off creepy to her. And the thing is, I'd REALLY like to have an internship this summer -and so far, this is the only promising lead. Though not getting an internship this summer isn't the end of the world, in my profession - not having one leaves you at a serious disadvantage once you graduate.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have a crush on a girl that interns at a company I'm interested in. Don't know if I should tell her about applying there or show up unexpectedly.<|endoftext|>

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Have a crush on a girl that interns at a company I'm interested in. Don't know if I should tell her about applying there or show up unexpectedly.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So I'm in a bit of a pickle, and need some advice.\n\nPOST: So I'll try to keep this as short as possible, but a little backstory is needed. I'm in college and will be a senior next year - and while most of my friends have internships, I don't. I emailed 20+ companies and haven't had any luck. So I was talking with the head of my department the other day, and he suggested a company for me to contact, and to give him as a reference. This is great, the only problem is that there is a girl from school that interns there as well. A girl whom I had (and still kind of do) a crush on. Over the past school year this girl and I had become really good friends (maybe we still are?) - until I asked her out about a month ago. Now we hardly talk anymore (whereas before we used to talk almost everyday), and things just feel awkward and weird now with her. So now I don't know what to do, the company is fairly small so I'd probably see her everyday. I don't know if I should tell her that I'm applying there, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue. I feel like either way it'd make things weird, uncomfortable and that I'd come off creepy to her. And the thing is, I'd REALLY like to have an internship this summer -and so far, this is the only promising lead. Though not getting an internship this summer isn't the end of the world, in my profession - not having one leaves you at a serious disadvantage once you graduate.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have a crush on a girl that interns at a company I'm interested in. Don't know if I should tell her about applying there or show up unexpectedly.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So I'm in a bit of a pickle, and need some advice.\n\nPOST: So I'll try to keep this as short as possible, but a little backstory is needed. I'm in college and will be a senior next year - and while most of my friends have internships, I don't. I emailed 20+ companies and haven't had any luck. So I was talking with the head of my department the other day, and he suggested a company for me to contact, and to give him as a reference. This is great, the only problem is that there is a girl from school that interns there as well. A girl whom I had (and still kind of do) a crush on. Over the past school year this girl and I had become really good friends (maybe we still are?) - until I asked her out about a month ago. Now we hardly talk anymore (whereas before we used to talk almost everyday), and things just feel awkward and weird now with her. So now I don't know what to do, the company is fairly small so I'd probably see her everyday. I don't know if I should tell her that I'm applying there, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue. I feel like either way it'd make things weird, uncomfortable and that I'd come off creepy to her. And the thing is, I'd REALLY like to have an internship this summer -and so far, this is the only promising lead. Though not getting an internship this summer isn't the end of the world, in my profession - not having one leaves you at a serious disadvantage once you graduate.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: College senior wants to intern at a company, but there is a girl that interns there as well. I want an internship this summer. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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Have a crush on a girl that interns at a company I'm interested in. Don't know if I should tell her about applying there or show up unexpectedly.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So I'm in a bit of a pickle, and need some advice.\n\nPOST: So I'll try to keep this as short as possible, but a little backstory is needed. I'm in college and will be a senior next year - and while most of my friends have internships, I don't. I emailed 20+ companies and haven't had any luck. So I was talking with the head of my department the other day, and he suggested a company for me to contact, and to give him as a reference. This is great, the only problem is that there is a girl from school that interns there as well. A girl whom I had (and still kind of do) a crush on. Over the past school year this girl and I had become really good friends (maybe we still are?) - until I asked her out about a month ago. Now we hardly talk anymore (whereas before we used to talk almost everyday), and things just feel awkward and weird now with her. So now I don't know what to do, the company is fairly small so I'd probably see her everyday. I don't know if I should tell her that I'm applying there, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue. I feel like either way it'd make things weird, uncomfortable and that I'd come off creepy to her. And the thing is, I'd REALLY like to have an internship this summer -and so far, this is the only promising lead. Though not getting an internship this summer isn't the end of the world, in my profession - not having one leaves you at a serious disadvantage once you graduate.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have a crush on a girl that interns at a company I'm interested in. Don't know if I should tell her about applying there or show up unexpectedly.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So I'm in a bit of a pickle, and need some advice.\n\nPOST: So I'll try to keep this as short as possible, but a little backstory is needed. I'm in college and will be a senior next year - and while most of my friends have internships, I don't. I emailed 20+ companies and haven't had any luck. So I was talking with the head of my department the other day, and he suggested a company for me to contact, and to give him as a reference. This is great, the only problem is that there is a girl from school that interns there as well. A girl whom I had (and still kind of do) a crush on. Over the past school year this girl and I had become really good friends (maybe we still are?) - until I asked her out about a month ago. Now we hardly talk anymore (whereas before we used to talk almost everyday), and things just feel awkward and weird now with her. So now I don't know what to do, the company is fairly small so I'd probably see her everyday. I don't know if I should tell her that I'm applying there, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue. I feel like either way it'd make things weird, uncomfortable and that I'd come off creepy to her. And the thing is, I'd REALLY like to have an internship this summer -and so far, this is the only promising lead. Though not getting an internship this summer isn't the end of the world, in my profession - not having one leaves you at a serious disadvantage once you graduate.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a senior in college and I need to know if I should apply for a company where my crush interns, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue.<|endoftext|>

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Want to apply to internship at company, but girl from school interns there as well. Not sure how to proceed due to intimacy issues and potential awkwardness. Help?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So I'm in a bit of a pickle, and need some advice.\n\nPOST: So I'll try to keep this as short as possible, but a little backstory is needed. I'm in college and will be a senior next year - and while most of my friends have internships, I don't. I emailed 20+ companies and haven't had any luck. So I was talking with the head of my department the other day, and he suggested a company for me to contact, and to give him as a reference. This is great, the only problem is that there is a girl from school that interns there as well. A girl whom I had (and still kind of do) a crush on. Over the past school year this girl and I had become really good friends (maybe we still are?) - until I asked her out about a month ago. Now we hardly talk anymore (whereas before we used to talk almost everyday), and things just feel awkward and weird now with her. So now I don't know what to do, the company is fairly small so I'd probably see her everyday. I don't know if I should tell her that I'm applying there, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue. I feel like either way it'd make things weird, uncomfortable and that I'd come off creepy to her. And the thing is, I'd REALLY like to have an internship this summer -and so far, this is the only promising lead. Though not getting an internship this summer isn't the end of the world, in my profession - not having one leaves you at a serious disadvantage once you graduate.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Want to apply to internship at company, but girl from school interns there as well. Not sure how to proceed due to intimacy issues and potential awkwardness. Help?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: So I'm in a bit of a pickle, and need some advice.\n\nPOST: So I'll try to keep this as short as possible, but a little backstory is needed. I'm in college and will be a senior next year - and while most of my friends have internships, I don't. I emailed 20+ companies and haven't had any luck. So I was talking with the head of my department the other day, and he suggested a company for me to contact, and to give him as a reference. This is great, the only problem is that there is a girl from school that interns there as well. A girl whom I had (and still kind of do) a crush on. Over the past school year this girl and I had become really good friends (maybe we still are?) - until I asked her out about a month ago. Now we hardly talk anymore (whereas before we used to talk almost everyday), and things just feel awkward and weird now with her. So now I don't know what to do, the company is fairly small so I'd probably see her everyday. I don't know if I should tell her that I'm applying there, or if I should just apply and show up out of the blue. I feel like either way it'd make things weird, uncomfortable and that I'd come off creepy to her. And the thing is, I'd REALLY like to have an internship this summer -and so far, this is the only promising lead. Though not getting an internship this summer isn't the end of the world, in my profession - not having one leaves you at a serious disadvantage once you graduate.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: College senior wants to intern at a company, but there is a girl that interns there as well. I want an internship this summer. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19M] want to offer this girl [19F] some help, but I don't know if this is socially acceptable?\n\nPOST: To put things in perspective, I have pretty severe social anxiety and so I overthink almost everything I say and am constantly worried about how people perceive me. That's why I'm asking this in the first place. Today I saw this girl who lives down the hall from me (I live in a dorm) crying in the hallway on the phone. She was saying something about having anxiety and school work and wanting to feel like she could be a normal person (all things I also concern myself with). I wanted to talk to her but I felt like it was rude to interrupt the phone call. I know that I've found myself in situations where I was crying in public places, more recently and frequently than I'd like to admit. I really wish that someone would have talked to me or offered to help, but nobody ever does. I think that I could relate to this girl and at the very least would like to offer to talk to her some time. The kind of person I aspire to be is compassionate enough to want to help strangers like this, and I also see this as a test of confidence because generally my social anxiety wouldn't let me approach someone in this manner but I feel that I need to fight through these things in order to overcome them. The question that I'm asking is basically if it would be considered 'weird' or socially unacceptable for me to, next time I see this girl around, say something to the effect of "Hey, I know you don't know me but I saw you pretty upset in the hall the other day and I just wanted to say that if you ever want to talk to someone about anything or just get a different perspective, I would totally be willing to talk. I know I've been in that position before and I wish someone would have done that for me so I just wanted to make that offer to you" and give her my number or something. One part of me feelings like this is a nice thing to do, but on the other hand I'm not even completely sure what her name is and I feel like I might come across as weird.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: This girl who lives near me was crying in the hall and I want to offer to talk to her some time but I feel like that might be weird.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19M] want to offer this girl [19F] some help, but I don't know if this is socially acceptable?\n\nPOST: To put things in perspective, I have pretty severe social anxiety and so I overthink almost everything I say and am constantly worried about how people perceive me. That's why I'm asking this in the first place. Today I saw this girl who lives down the hall from me (I live in a dorm) crying in the hallway on the phone. She was saying something about having anxiety and school work and wanting to feel like she could be a normal person (all things I also concern myself with). I wanted to talk to her but I felt like it was rude to interrupt the phone call. I know that I've found myself in situations where I was crying in public places, more recently and frequently than I'd like to admit. I really wish that someone would have talked to me or offered to help, but nobody ever does. I think that I could relate to this girl and at the very least would like to offer to talk to her some time. The kind of person I aspire to be is compassionate enough to want to help strangers like this, and I also see this as a test of confidence because generally my social anxiety wouldn't let me approach someone in this manner but I feel that I need to fight through these things in order to overcome them. The question that I'm asking is basically if it would be considered 'weird' or socially unacceptable for me to, next time I see this girl around, say something to the effect of "Hey, I know you don't know me but I saw you pretty upset in the hall the other day and I just wanted to say that if you ever want to talk to someone about anything or just get a different perspective, I would totally be willing to talk. I know I've been in that position before and I wish someone would have done that for me so I just wanted to make that offer to you" and give her my number or something. One part of me feelings like this is a nice thing to do, but on the other hand I'm not even completely sure what her name is and I feel like I might come across as weird.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to offer to help a girl who lives down the hall from me, but I'm not sure if this is socially acceptable/weird/what not. Please help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19M] want to offer this girl [19F] some help, but I don't know if this is socially acceptable?\n\nPOST: To put things in perspective, I have pretty severe social anxiety and so I overthink almost everything I say and am constantly worried about how people perceive me. That's why I'm asking this in the first place. Today I saw this girl who lives down the hall from me (I live in a dorm) crying in the hallway on the phone. She was saying something about having anxiety and school work and wanting to feel like she could be a normal person (all things I also concern myself with). I wanted to talk to her but I felt like it was rude to interrupt the phone call. I know that I've found myself in situations where I was crying in public places, more recently and frequently than I'd like to admit. I really wish that someone would have talked to me or offered to help, but nobody ever does. I think that I could relate to this girl and at the very least would like to offer to talk to her some time. The kind of person I aspire to be is compassionate enough to want to help strangers like this, and I also see this as a test of confidence because generally my social anxiety wouldn't let me approach someone in this manner but I feel that I need to fight through these things in order to overcome them. The question that I'm asking is basically if it would be considered 'weird' or socially unacceptable for me to, next time I see this girl around, say something to the effect of "Hey, I know you don't know me but I saw you pretty upset in the hall the other day and I just wanted to say that if you ever want to talk to someone about anything or just get a different perspective, I would totally be willing to talk. I know I've been in that position before and I wish someone would have done that for me so I just wanted to make that offer to you" and give her my number or something. One part of me feelings like this is a nice thing to do, but on the other hand I'm not even completely sure what her name is and I feel like I might come across as weird.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Saw girl crying in hallway, want to offer to help/talk to her etc, I'm very socially awkward and don't know if that would be considered weird/unsocial to do so next time I see her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19M] want to offer this girl [19F] some help, but I don't know if this is socially acceptable?\n\nPOST: To put things in perspective, I have pretty severe social anxiety and so I overthink almost everything I say and am constantly worried about how people perceive me. That's why I'm asking this in the first place. Today I saw this girl who lives down the hall from me (I live in a dorm) crying in the hallway on the phone. She was saying something about having anxiety and school work and wanting to feel like she could be a normal person (all things I also concern myself with). I wanted to talk to her but I felt like it was rude to interrupt the phone call. I know that I've found myself in situations where I was crying in public places, more recently and frequently than I'd like to admit. I really wish that someone would have talked to me or offered to help, but nobody ever does. I think that I could relate to this girl and at the very least would like to offer to talk to her some time. The kind of person I aspire to be is compassionate enough to want to help strangers like this, and I also see this as a test of confidence because generally my social anxiety wouldn't let me approach someone in this manner but I feel that I need to fight through these things in order to overcome them. The question that I'm asking is basically if it would be considered 'weird' or socially unacceptable for me to, next time I see this girl around, say something to the effect of "Hey, I know you don't know me but I saw you pretty upset in the hall the other day and I just wanted to say that if you ever want to talk to someone about anything or just get a different perspective, I would totally be willing to talk. I know I've been in that position before and I wish someone would have done that for me so I just wanted to make that offer to you" and give her my number or something. One part of me feelings like this is a nice thing to do, but on the other hand I'm not even completely sure what her name is and I feel like I might come across as weird.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to offer to help a girl who lives down the hall from me, but I'm not sure if this is socially acceptable/weird/what not. Please help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19M] want to offer this girl [19F] some help, but I don't know if this is socially acceptable?\n\nPOST: To put things in perspective, I have pretty severe social anxiety and so I overthink almost everything I say and am constantly worried about how people perceive me. That's why I'm asking this in the first place. Today I saw this girl who lives down the hall from me (I live in a dorm) crying in the hallway on the phone. She was saying something about having anxiety and school work and wanting to feel like she could be a normal person (all things I also concern myself with). I wanted to talk to her but I felt like it was rude to interrupt the phone call. I know that I've found myself in situations where I was crying in public places, more recently and frequently than I'd like to admit. I really wish that someone would have talked to me or offered to help, but nobody ever does. I think that I could relate to this girl and at the very least would like to offer to talk to her some time. The kind of person I aspire to be is compassionate enough to want to help strangers like this, and I also see this as a test of confidence because generally my social anxiety wouldn't let me approach someone in this manner but I feel that I need to fight through these things in order to overcome them. The question that I'm asking is basically if it would be considered 'weird' or socially unacceptable for me to, next time I see this girl around, say something to the effect of "Hey, I know you don't know me but I saw you pretty upset in the hall the other day and I just wanted to say that if you ever want to talk to someone about anything or just get a different perspective, I would totally be willing to talk. I know I've been in that position before and I wish someone would have done that for me so I just wanted to make that offer to you" and give her my number or something. One part of me feelings like this is a nice thing to do, but on the other hand I'm not even completely sure what her name is and I feel like I might come across as weird.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Saw girl crying in hallway, want to offer to help/talk to her etc, I'm very socially awkward and don't know if that would be considered weird/unsocial to do so next time I see her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19M] want to offer this girl [19F] some help, but I don't know if this is socially acceptable?\n\nPOST: To put things in perspective, I have pretty severe social anxiety and so I overthink almost everything I say and am constantly worried about how people perceive me. That's why I'm asking this in the first place. Today I saw this girl who lives down the hall from me (I live in a dorm) crying in the hallway on the phone. She was saying something about having anxiety and school work and wanting to feel like she could be a normal person (all things I also concern myself with). I wanted to talk to her but I felt like it was rude to interrupt the phone call. I know that I've found myself in situations where I was crying in public places, more recently and frequently than I'd like to admit. I really wish that someone would have talked to me or offered to help, but nobody ever does. I think that I could relate to this girl and at the very least would like to offer to talk to her some time. The kind of person I aspire to be is compassionate enough to want to help strangers like this, and I also see this as a test of confidence because generally my social anxiety wouldn't let me approach someone in this manner but I feel that I need to fight through these things in order to overcome them. The question that I'm asking is basically if it would be considered 'weird' or socially unacceptable for me to, next time I see this girl around, say something to the effect of "Hey, I know you don't know me but I saw you pretty upset in the hall the other day and I just wanted to say that if you ever want to talk to someone about anything or just get a different perspective, I would totally be willing to talk. I know I've been in that position before and I wish someone would have done that for me so I just wanted to make that offer to you" and give her my number or something. One part of me feelings like this is a nice thing to do, but on the other hand I'm not even completely sure what her name is and I feel like I might come across as weird.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: This girl who lives near me was crying in the hall and I want to offer to talk to her some time but I feel like that might be weird.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19M] want to offer this girl [19F] some help, but I don't know if this is socially acceptable?\n\nPOST: To put things in perspective, I have pretty severe social anxiety and so I overthink almost everything I say and am constantly worried about how people perceive me. That's why I'm asking this in the first place. Today I saw this girl who lives down the hall from me (I live in a dorm) crying in the hallway on the phone. She was saying something about having anxiety and school work and wanting to feel like she could be a normal person (all things I also concern myself with). I wanted to talk to her but I felt like it was rude to interrupt the phone call. I know that I've found myself in situations where I was crying in public places, more recently and frequently than I'd like to admit. I really wish that someone would have talked to me or offered to help, but nobody ever does. I think that I could relate to this girl and at the very least would like to offer to talk to her some time. The kind of person I aspire to be is compassionate enough to want to help strangers like this, and I also see this as a test of confidence because generally my social anxiety wouldn't let me approach someone in this manner but I feel that I need to fight through these things in order to overcome them. The question that I'm asking is basically if it would be considered 'weird' or socially unacceptable for me to, next time I see this girl around, say something to the effect of "Hey, I know you don't know me but I saw you pretty upset in the hall the other day and I just wanted to say that if you ever want to talk to someone about anything or just get a different perspective, I would totally be willing to talk. I know I've been in that position before and I wish someone would have done that for me so I just wanted to make that offer to you" and give her my number or something. One part of me feelings like this is a nice thing to do, but on the other hand I'm not even completely sure what her name is and I feel like I might come across as weird.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Saw girl crying in hallway, want to offer to help/talk to her etc, I'm very socially awkward and don't know if that would be considered weird/unsocial to do so next time I see her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19M] want to offer this girl [19F] some help, but I don't know if this is socially acceptable?\n\nPOST: To put things in perspective, I have pretty severe social anxiety and so I overthink almost everything I say and am constantly worried about how people perceive me. That's why I'm asking this in the first place. Today I saw this girl who lives down the hall from me (I live in a dorm) crying in the hallway on the phone. She was saying something about having anxiety and school work and wanting to feel like she could be a normal person (all things I also concern myself with). I wanted to talk to her but I felt like it was rude to interrupt the phone call. I know that I've found myself in situations where I was crying in public places, more recently and frequently than I'd like to admit. I really wish that someone would have talked to me or offered to help, but nobody ever does. I think that I could relate to this girl and at the very least would like to offer to talk to her some time. The kind of person I aspire to be is compassionate enough to want to help strangers like this, and I also see this as a test of confidence because generally my social anxiety wouldn't let me approach someone in this manner but I feel that I need to fight through these things in order to overcome them. The question that I'm asking is basically if it would be considered 'weird' or socially unacceptable for me to, next time I see this girl around, say something to the effect of "Hey, I know you don't know me but I saw you pretty upset in the hall the other day and I just wanted to say that if you ever want to talk to someone about anything or just get a different perspective, I would totally be willing to talk. I know I've been in that position before and I wish someone would have done that for me so I just wanted to make that offer to you" and give her my number or something. One part of me feelings like this is a nice thing to do, but on the other hand I'm not even completely sure what her name is and I feel like I might come across as weird.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have social anxiety and want to offer to help somebody else if they seek help, but I am not sure if it is socially acceptable to do this next time I see that person.<|endoftext|>

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I have social anxiety and want to offer to help somebody else if they seek help, but I am not sure if it is socially acceptable to do this next time I see that person.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19M] want to offer this girl [19F] some help, but I don't know if this is socially acceptable?\n\nPOST: To put things in perspective, I have pretty severe social anxiety and so I overthink almost everything I say and am constantly worried about how people perceive me. That's why I'm asking this in the first place. Today I saw this girl who lives down the hall from me (I live in a dorm) crying in the hallway on the phone. She was saying something about having anxiety and school work and wanting to feel like she could be a normal person (all things I also concern myself with). I wanted to talk to her but I felt like it was rude to interrupt the phone call. I know that I've found myself in situations where I was crying in public places, more recently and frequently than I'd like to admit. I really wish that someone would have talked to me or offered to help, but nobody ever does. I think that I could relate to this girl and at the very least would like to offer to talk to her some time. The kind of person I aspire to be is compassionate enough to want to help strangers like this, and I also see this as a test of confidence because generally my social anxiety wouldn't let me approach someone in this manner but I feel that I need to fight through these things in order to overcome them. The question that I'm asking is basically if it would be considered 'weird' or socially unacceptable for me to, next time I see this girl around, say something to the effect of "Hey, I know you don't know me but I saw you pretty upset in the hall the other day and I just wanted to say that if you ever want to talk to someone about anything or just get a different perspective, I would totally be willing to talk. I know I've been in that position before and I wish someone would have done that for me so I just wanted to make that offer to you" and give her my number or something. One part of me feelings like this is a nice thing to do, but on the other hand I'm not even completely sure what her name is and I feel like I might come across as weird.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have social anxiety and want to offer to help somebody else if they seek help, but I am not sure if it is socially acceptable to do this next time I see that person.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19M] want to offer this girl [19F] some help, but I don't know if this is socially acceptable?\n\nPOST: To put things in perspective, I have pretty severe social anxiety and so I overthink almost everything I say and am constantly worried about how people perceive me. That's why I'm asking this in the first place. Today I saw this girl who lives down the hall from me (I live in a dorm) crying in the hallway on the phone. She was saying something about having anxiety and school work and wanting to feel like she could be a normal person (all things I also concern myself with). I wanted to talk to her but I felt like it was rude to interrupt the phone call. I know that I've found myself in situations where I was crying in public places, more recently and frequently than I'd like to admit. I really wish that someone would have talked to me or offered to help, but nobody ever does. I think that I could relate to this girl and at the very least would like to offer to talk to her some time. The kind of person I aspire to be is compassionate enough to want to help strangers like this, and I also see this as a test of confidence because generally my social anxiety wouldn't let me approach someone in this manner but I feel that I need to fight through these things in order to overcome them. The question that I'm asking is basically if it would be considered 'weird' or socially unacceptable for me to, next time I see this girl around, say something to the effect of "Hey, I know you don't know me but I saw you pretty upset in the hall the other day and I just wanted to say that if you ever want to talk to someone about anything or just get a different perspective, I would totally be willing to talk. I know I've been in that position before and I wish someone would have done that for me so I just wanted to make that offer to you" and give her my number or something. One part of me feelings like this is a nice thing to do, but on the other hand I'm not even completely sure what her name is and I feel like I might come across as weird.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to offer to help a girl who lives down the hall from me, but I'm not sure if this is socially acceptable/weird/what not. Please help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19M] want to offer this girl [19F] some help, but I don't know if this is socially acceptable?\n\nPOST: To put things in perspective, I have pretty severe social anxiety and so I overthink almost everything I say and am constantly worried about how people perceive me. That's why I'm asking this in the first place. Today I saw this girl who lives down the hall from me (I live in a dorm) crying in the hallway on the phone. She was saying something about having anxiety and school work and wanting to feel like she could be a normal person (all things I also concern myself with). I wanted to talk to her but I felt like it was rude to interrupt the phone call. I know that I've found myself in situations where I was crying in public places, more recently and frequently than I'd like to admit. I really wish that someone would have talked to me or offered to help, but nobody ever does. I think that I could relate to this girl and at the very least would like to offer to talk to her some time. The kind of person I aspire to be is compassionate enough to want to help strangers like this, and I also see this as a test of confidence because generally my social anxiety wouldn't let me approach someone in this manner but I feel that I need to fight through these things in order to overcome them. The question that I'm asking is basically if it would be considered 'weird' or socially unacceptable for me to, next time I see this girl around, say something to the effect of "Hey, I know you don't know me but I saw you pretty upset in the hall the other day and I just wanted to say that if you ever want to talk to someone about anything or just get a different perspective, I would totally be willing to talk. I know I've been in that position before and I wish someone would have done that for me so I just wanted to make that offer to you" and give her my number or something. One part of me feelings like this is a nice thing to do, but on the other hand I'm not even completely sure what her name is and I feel like I might come across as weird.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: This girl who lives near me was crying in the hall and I want to offer to talk to her some time but I feel like that might be weird.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [19M] want to offer this girl [19F] some help, but I don't know if this is socially acceptable?\n\nPOST: To put things in perspective, I have pretty severe social anxiety and so I overthink almost everything I say and am constantly worried about how people perceive me. That's why I'm asking this in the first place. Today I saw this girl who lives down the hall from me (I live in a dorm) crying in the hallway on the phone. She was saying something about having anxiety and school work and wanting to feel like she could be a normal person (all things I also concern myself with). I wanted to talk to her but I felt like it was rude to interrupt the phone call. I know that I've found myself in situations where I was crying in public places, more recently and frequently than I'd like to admit. I really wish that someone would have talked to me or offered to help, but nobody ever does. I think that I could relate to this girl and at the very least would like to offer to talk to her some time. The kind of person I aspire to be is compassionate enough to want to help strangers like this, and I also see this as a test of confidence because generally my social anxiety wouldn't let me approach someone in this manner but I feel that I need to fight through these things in order to overcome them. The question that I'm asking is basically if it would be considered 'weird' or socially unacceptable for me to, next time I see this girl around, say something to the effect of "Hey, I know you don't know me but I saw you pretty upset in the hall the other day and I just wanted to say that if you ever want to talk to someone about anything or just get a different perspective, I would totally be willing to talk. I know I've been in that position before and I wish someone would have done that for me so I just wanted to make that offer to you" and give her my number or something. One part of me feelings like this is a nice thing to do, but on the other hand I'm not even completely sure what her name is and I feel like I might come across as weird.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have social anxiety and want to offer to help somebody else if they seek help, but I am not sure if it is socially acceptable to do this next time I see that person.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I think I'm having an emotional affair with this woman because she is interested in my work and has started bringing me and her lunch and is nice to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I'm having an emotional affair with this woman because she is interested in my work and has started bringing me and her lunch and is nice to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Feeling like wife is better than me. Started talking to interesting npc and its bizarre how much we have in common. Wondering if im doing something wrong. Help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I think I'm having an emotional affair with this woman because she is interested in my work and has started bringing me and her lunch and is nice to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I'm having an emotional affair with this woman because she is interested in my work and has started bringing me and her lunch and is nice to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Wife is interested in me even though I'm married and I think I'm having an emotional affair. Don't know if this is right or wrong or what to do.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Feeling like my wife is better than me and gets more attention than me and someone is interested in my work. Wondering if this is cheating or not.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl20", "note": "\"someone is interested in my work.\" - does that count as cheating? Seems details are incomplete" }, { "text": " Feeling like wife is better than me. Started talking to interesting npc and its bizarre how much we have in common. Wondering if im doing something wrong. Help.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl20", "note": "Huh, so author is getting interested with another woman, coz he thinks his wife is better than him? Huh.\n\n---\nGirl is not an NPC. Geez. " } ]

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Feeling like my wife is better than me and gets more attention than me and someone is interested in my work. Wondering if this is cheating or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Feeling like my wife is better than me and gets more attention than me and someone is interested in my work. Wondering if this is cheating or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Feeling like wife is better than me. Started talking to interesting npc and its bizarre how much we have in common. Wondering if im doing something wrong. Help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Feeling like my wife is better than me and gets more attention than me and someone is interested in my work. Wondering if this is cheating or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Feeling like my wife is better than me and gets more attention than me and someone is interested in my work. Wondering if this is cheating or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Wife is interested in me even though I'm married and I think I'm having an emotional affair. Don't know if this is right or wrong or what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Feeling like wife is better than me. Started talking to interesting npc and its bizarre how much we have in common. Wondering if im doing something wrong. Help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Feeling like wife is better than me. Started talking to interesting npc and its bizarre how much we have in common. Wondering if im doing something wrong. Help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Wife is interested in me even though I'm married and I think I'm having an emotional affair. Don't know if this is right or wrong or what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I think I'm having an emotional affair with this woman because she is interested in my work and has started bringing me and her lunch and is nice to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I'm having an emotional affair with this woman because she is interested in my work and has started bringing me and her lunch and is nice to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [26 F] 4 years, I think I'm having an emotional affair.\n\nPOST: I need some input on this situation. My wife is a doctor and makes a little more than me I'm an artist. I feel sometimes like my wife is better than me and gets more recognition. Whenever we go to my parents all the focus is usually on her and her job. Nobody really cares about what I do just what my wife does and I felt.... useless. For a little while I just rolled with it because if I said anything not much could be done anyway. This woman [Nora] started talking to me apparently she sits across from me at this restaurant I go to. We started talking and got to know each other a little more and she's an interesting person. We share the same interests and it really is bizarre how much we have in common. I told her I'm an artist and she thought that was awesome and wanted to know more. A little while back I showed her what I was working on and she was stunned that I painted that. She wanted to see more so now whenever I'm finished with something i show it to her. The look on her face is priceless sometimes, it feels nice that someone is interested in my work. She's started bringing me and her lunch so sometimes we eat together and talk. She knows I'm married and I've told her my problems and she was very sympathetic. She said maybe if I had the time I could teach her a little bit and I said maybe. I've thought about it and I can't shake the feeling that I'm doing something wrong. Is this cheating?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Feeling like my wife is better than me and gets more attention than me and someone is interested in my work. Wondering if this is cheating or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy didn't pull his weight on an essay, wants to be apart of our presentation so he can graduate. Should I let him in.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy didn't pull his weight on an essay, wants to be apart of our presentation so he can graduate. Should I let him in.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: group member contributed poorly written paper re written by professor, blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks, wants to be apart of presentation to get points. Should we kick him out?<|endoftext|>

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group member contributes poorly written paper that we have to re-write, professor wants him to be apart of our presentation to get some points. What should we do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: group member contributes poorly written paper that we have to re-write, professor wants him to be apart of our presentation to get some points. What should we do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: group member contributed poorly written paper re written by professor, blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks, wants to be apart of presentation to get points. Should we kick him out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

group member contributes poorly written paper that we had to re-write. professor blames it on living in the boondocks and wants him to be apart of our presentation. what do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: group member contributes poorly written paper that we had to re-write. professor blames it on living in the boondocks and wants him to be apart of our presentation. what do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: group member contributed poorly written paper re written by professor, blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks, wants to be apart of presentation to get points. Should we kick him out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy didn't pull his weight on an essay, wants to be apart of our presentation so he can graduate. Should I let him in.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy didn't pull his weight on an essay, wants to be apart of our presentation so he can graduate. Should I let him in.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: group member contributes poorly written paper that we had to re-write. professor blames it on living in the boondocks and wants him to be apart of our presentation. what do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy didn't pull his weight on an essay, wants to be apart of our presentation so he can graduate. Should I let him in.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy didn't pull his weight on an essay, wants to be apart of our presentation so he can graduate. Should I let him in.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moral Dilemma, I need help with reddit.\n\nPOST: I am in a group of 6 people working on a capstone presentation. We had a group member during our 95 (rounding) page paper who contribute 3.5 page that were poorly written and not on topic, that we had to re-write. We have had trouble communicating with him in the past, and the professor is aware of this. He blames poor communication due to living in the boondocks. He now wants to be a apart of our presentation to get some points. If we kick him out, he does not graduate from college, what should we do? (I'm pissed and had to do most of the rewrites so I say fuck him)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: group member contributes poorly written paper that we have to re-write, professor wants him to be apart of our presentation to get some points. What should we do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Show up to SAT without calculator and ID. Go home to get ID. Arrive back at SAT to find out I am not taking it for 7 weeks.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Show up to SAT without calculator and ID. Go home to get ID. Arrive back at SAT to find out I am not taking it for 7 weeks.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had to take the wrong SAT. Had to go to a guidance counselor to get my ass in gear. Had to wait for a friend to pick me up from the guidance counselor, and I had to wait for my parents to pick me up<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

went to wrong SAT. had to call parents. neither can pick me up. having trouble finding guidance counselor office. need advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: went to wrong SAT. had to call parents. neither can pick me up. having trouble finding guidance counselor office. need advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Went to wrong SAT (16, high school junior in US) had to call parents to pick me up, didn't realize it until later, ended up missing test date by 2 hours, parents not picking up because of lateness.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Went to wrong SAT (16, high school junior in US) had to call parents to pick me up, didn't realize it until later, ended up missing test date by 2 hours, parents not picking up because of lateness.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Went to wrong SAT (16, high school junior in US) had to call parents to pick me up, didn't realize it until later, ended up missing test date by 2 hours, parents not picking up because of lateness.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had to take the wrong SAT. Had to go to a guidance counselor to get my ass in gear. Had to wait for a friend to pick me up from the guidance counselor, and I had to wait for my parents to pick me up<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

went to wrong SAT. had to call parents. neither can pick me up. having trouble finding guidance counselor office. need advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: went to wrong SAT. had to call parents. neither can pick me up. having trouble finding guidance counselor office. need advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had to take the wrong SAT. Had to go to a guidance counselor to get my ass in gear. Had to wait for a friend to pick me up from the guidance counselor, and I had to wait for my parents to pick me up<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Show up to SAT without calculator and ID. Go home to get ID. Arrive back at SAT to find out I am not taking it for 7 weeks.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Show up to SAT without calculator and ID. Go home to get ID. Arrive back at SAT to find out I am not taking it for 7 weeks.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Went to wrong SAT (16, high school junior in US) had to call parents to pick me up, didn't realize it until later, ended up missing test date by 2 hours, parents not picking up because of lateness.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

went to wrong SAT. had to call parents. neither can pick me up. having trouble finding guidance counselor office. need advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: went to wrong SAT. had to call parents. neither can pick me up. having trouble finding guidance counselor office. need advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by going to the wrong SAT\n\nPOST: This literally happened a couple hours ago. 16, and a high school junior in the US. The SAT for those who dont know is the standardized test for college admissions. So for the past few weeks my mom has been reminding me that I am taking the SAT Saturday December 5th. At first I thought it was odd because I thought I signed up for the January 23rd SAT. I thought whatever, my mom is probably right. First, on friday night I realize I left my calculator at school. Note: I go to a private school and the SAT is held at the local public school, so there is no way I can get my calculator before the exam begins. So that night I look around the house for a calculator. All I can find is a $2.00 solar powered calculator with ×,+,÷,- functions. So after this, I'm already feeling not too confident about this. This morning, I wake up at 7. I eat breakfast, with my admission ticket by my side. I can't take the test without it. Then I leave for the test. My dad drives me 10 minutes to the school. As I get out of the car, I check my bag. No ticket. So I sprint after him. I track his car down as he leaves the parking lot. He is pissed. So furious. So we speed home to get the ticket. I grab it. Its currently 7:40. We speed back and arrive at 7:48. So I rush upstairs to get to the test room. Here, the lady askes me my last name. I tell her and she points me to the room with my name. The guy there lists off all the names. Not mine. I'm a bit confused. So they send me to the guidance counselors office, which I have no idea where it is. On my way down there, I look at my ticket. I stop. I notice that it says Test Date: January 23rd, 2016. You have got to be kidding me. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Show up to SAT without calculator and ID. Go home to get ID. Arrive back at SAT to find out I am not taking it for 7 weeks.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " I'm dating my half brothers cousin and I'm worried this might be weird for my family or should I just take things slow before I even consider pursuing anything?", "policy": "sup4_6b_t0.7", "note": "Unclear what pursuing anything refers to - explaining to family or deepening relationship?" }, { "text": " Would it be weird for me to date my half brother's cousin? I see a lot of chemistry between us and I'm worried about how this would be seen both publically and by my family should we start dating?", "policy": "sup4_bo512_rm3", "note": "Ok" } ]

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Would it be weird for me to date my half brother's cousin? I see a lot of chemistry between us and I'm worried about how this would be seen both publically and by my family should we start dating?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Would it be weird for me to date my half brother's cousin? I see a lot of chemistry between us and I'm worried about how this would be seen both publically and by my family should we start dating?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm dating my half brothers cousin and I'm worried this might be weird for my family or should I just take things slow before I even consider pursuing anything?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " I'm dating my half brothers cousin and I'm worried this might be weird for my family or should I just take things slow before I even consider pursuing anything?", "policy": "sup4_6b_t0.7", "note": "Unclear what pursuing anything refers to - explaining to family or deepening relationship?" }, { "text": " Crush is my half brother's cousin, would it be weird for me to date her if she is my half brother's cousin even though I barely see him?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl20", "note": "Ok" } ]

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Crush is my half brother's cousin, would it be weird for me to date her if she is my half brother's cousin even though I barely see him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Crush is my half brother's cousin, would it be weird for me to date her if she is my half brother's cousin even though I barely see him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm dating my half brothers cousin and I'm worried this might be weird for my family or should I just take things slow before I even consider pursuing anything?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Would it be weird for me to date my half brother's cousin? I see a lot of chemistry between us and I'm worried about how this would be seen both publically and by my family should we start dating?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Would it be weird for me to date my half brother's cousin? I see a lot of chemistry between us and I'm worried about how this would be seen both publically and by my family should we start dating?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: talking to girl who is my half brother's cousin, wondering if it would be weird for me to date her if she is my half brother's cousin wether public or by blood.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

talking to girl who is my half brother's cousin, wondering if it would be weird for me to date her if she is my half brother's cousin wether public or by blood.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: talking to girl who is my half brother's cousin, wondering if it would be weird for me to date her if she is my half brother's cousin wether public or by blood.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm dating my half brothers cousin and I'm worried this might be weird for my family or should I just take things slow before I even consider pursuing anything?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

talking to girl who is my half brother's cousin, wondering if it would be weird for me to date her if she is my half brother's cousin wether public or by blood.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: talking to girl who is my half brother's cousin, wondering if it would be weird for me to date her if she is my half brother's cousin wether public or by blood.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Crush is my half brother's cousin, would it be weird for me to date her if she is my half brother's cousin even though I barely see him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Would it be weird for me to date my half brother's cousin? I see a lot of chemistry between us and I'm worried about how this would be seen both publically and by my family should we start dating?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Would it be weird for me to date my half brother's cousin? I see a lot of chemistry between us and I'm worried about how this would be seen both publically and by my family should we start dating?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?\n\nPOST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is my half brother's cousin. Now to put this in a better perspective my mom married this guy and gave birth to my half brother with him before I was ever born. Eventually they divorced and she married my father, and gave birth to me. I hardly ever see my half brother and I'm practically not related to her both by marriage in law or by blood but I'm still worried how weird this would be seen both publicly and by my family should we start dating is this considered "kissing cousins"?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Crush is my half brother's cousin, would it be weird for me to date her if she is my half brother's cousin even though I barely see him?<|endoftext|>

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My outbursts are really draining me emotionally and hurting me and the people I care about. How do I find a healthier way to deal with them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My angry outbursts are hurting my life and the people I care about.\n\nPOST: When I was 17, I came home from a walk I took with my first boyfriend, which I kept a secret from my parents. I thought I'd be home before they came back from church, but unluckily they were already back. They physically beat me in a way much worse than the kind I was used to. Both my parents dragged me out onto the street by my hair, screaming that I tell them where this boy lived. By the end of it I was crying, bloody nosed, and broken. I think it was after this time that I started having outbursts of rage towards my parents. Sometimes I'd feel like I was suffocating just being near them and it felt like the only thing I could do was scream. Years later, in intimate relationships and sometimes still with my parents, I find myself screaming, hitting, yelling nasty words- really attempting to hurt the other person for how they are making me feel. In these moments I carry this string feeling and belief that love is suffocating punishment and there's no way out of having these really intense bitter angry moments with people I care about. If anyone has advice about healthier ways of dealing with anger, I'd really appreciate it!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My outbursts are really draining me emotionally and hurting me and the people I care about. How do I find a healthier way to deal with them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My angry outbursts are hurting my life and the people I care about.\n\nPOST: When I was 17, I came home from a walk I took with my first boyfriend, which I kept a secret from my parents. I thought I'd be home before they came back from church, but unluckily they were already back. They physically beat me in a way much worse than the kind I was used to. Both my parents dragged me out onto the street by my hair, screaming that I tell them where this boy lived. By the end of it I was crying, bloody nosed, and broken. I think it was after this time that I started having outbursts of rage towards my parents. Sometimes I'd feel like I was suffocating just being near them and it felt like the only thing I could do was scream. Years later, in intimate relationships and sometimes still with my parents, I find myself screaming, hitting, yelling nasty words- really attempting to hurt the other person for how they are making me feel. In these moments I carry this string feeling and belief that love is suffocating punishment and there's no way out of having these really intense bitter angry moments with people I care about. If anyone has advice about healthier ways of dealing with anger, I'd really appreciate it!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Sometimes I carry an intense string feeling that love is suffocating punishment and that I can't get out of having really angry outbursts with my parents. Need advice on healthy ways of dealing with anger!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My angry outbursts are hurting my life and the people I care about.\n\nPOST: When I was 17, I came home from a walk I took with my first boyfriend, which I kept a secret from my parents. I thought I'd be home before they came back from church, but unluckily they were already back. They physically beat me in a way much worse than the kind I was used to. Both my parents dragged me out onto the street by my hair, screaming that I tell them where this boy lived. By the end of it I was crying, bloody nosed, and broken. I think it was after this time that I started having outbursts of rage towards my parents. Sometimes I'd feel like I was suffocating just being near them and it felt like the only thing I could do was scream. Years later, in intimate relationships and sometimes still with my parents, I find myself screaming, hitting, yelling nasty words- really attempting to hurt the other person for how they are making me feel. In these moments I carry this string feeling and belief that love is suffocating punishment and there's no way out of having these really intense bitter angry moments with people I care about. If anyone has advice about healthier ways of dealing with anger, I'd really appreciate it!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My outbursts are really draining me emotionally and hurting me and the people I care about. How do I find a healthier way to deal with them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My angry outbursts are hurting my life and the people I care about.\n\nPOST: When I was 17, I came home from a walk I took with my first boyfriend, which I kept a secret from my parents. I thought I'd be home before they came back from church, but unluckily they were already back. They physically beat me in a way much worse than the kind I was used to. Both my parents dragged me out onto the street by my hair, screaming that I tell them where this boy lived. By the end of it I was crying, bloody nosed, and broken. I think it was after this time that I started having outbursts of rage towards my parents. Sometimes I'd feel like I was suffocating just being near them and it felt like the only thing I could do was scream. Years later, in intimate relationships and sometimes still with my parents, I find myself screaming, hitting, yelling nasty words- really attempting to hurt the other person for how they are making me feel. In these moments I carry this string feeling and belief that love is suffocating punishment and there's no way out of having these really intense bitter angry moments with people I care about. If anyone has advice about healthier ways of dealing with anger, I'd really appreciate it!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Angry outbursts that started after parents beat me is taking a toll on my health and the well being of people I am close to.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My angry outbursts are hurting my life and the people I care about.\n\nPOST: When I was 17, I came home from a walk I took with my first boyfriend, which I kept a secret from my parents. I thought I'd be home before they came back from church, but unluckily they were already back. They physically beat me in a way much worse than the kind I was used to. Both my parents dragged me out onto the street by my hair, screaming that I tell them where this boy lived. By the end of it I was crying, bloody nosed, and broken. I think it was after this time that I started having outbursts of rage towards my parents. Sometimes I'd feel like I was suffocating just being near them and it felt like the only thing I could do was scream. Years later, in intimate relationships and sometimes still with my parents, I find myself screaming, hitting, yelling nasty words- really attempting to hurt the other person for how they are making me feel. In these moments I carry this string feeling and belief that love is suffocating punishment and there's no way out of having these really intense bitter angry moments with people I care about. If anyone has advice about healthier ways of dealing with anger, I'd really appreciate it!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have really intense anger towards my parents and sometimes other people- it's tearing me <|endoftext|>

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My outbursts are really draining me emotionally and hurting me and the people I care about. How do I find a healthier way to deal with them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My angry outbursts are hurting my life and the people I care about.\n\nPOST: When I was 17, I came home from a walk I took with my first boyfriend, which I kept a secret from my parents. I thought I'd be home before they came back from church, but unluckily they were already back. They physically beat me in a way much worse than the kind I was used to. Both my parents dragged me out onto the street by my hair, screaming that I tell them where this boy lived. By the end of it I was crying, bloody nosed, and broken. I think it was after this time that I started having outbursts of rage towards my parents. Sometimes I'd feel like I was suffocating just being near them and it felt like the only thing I could do was scream. Years later, in intimate relationships and sometimes still with my parents, I find myself screaming, hitting, yelling nasty words- really attempting to hurt the other person for how they are making me feel. In these moments I carry this string feeling and belief that love is suffocating punishment and there's no way out of having these really intense bitter angry moments with people I care about. If anyone has advice about healthier ways of dealing with anger, I'd really appreciate it!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My outbursts are really draining me emotionally and hurting me and the people I care about. How do I find a healthier way to deal with them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My angry outbursts are hurting my life and the people I care about.\n\nPOST: When I was 17, I came home from a walk I took with my first boyfriend, which I kept a secret from my parents. I thought I'd be home before they came back from church, but unluckily they were already back. They physically beat me in a way much worse than the kind I was used to. Both my parents dragged me out onto the street by my hair, screaming that I tell them where this boy lived. By the end of it I was crying, bloody nosed, and broken. I think it was after this time that I started having outbursts of rage towards my parents. Sometimes I'd feel like I was suffocating just being near them and it felt like the only thing I could do was scream. Years later, in intimate relationships and sometimes still with my parents, I find myself screaming, hitting, yelling nasty words- really attempting to hurt the other person for how they are making me feel. In these moments I carry this string feeling and belief that love is suffocating punishment and there's no way out of having these really intense bitter angry moments with people I care about. If anyone has advice about healthier ways of dealing with anger, I'd really appreciate it!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have really intense anger towards my parents and sometimes other people- it's tearing me <|endoftext|>

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Angry outbursts that started after parents beat me is taking a toll on my health and the well being of people I am close to.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My angry outbursts are hurting my life and the people I care about.\n\nPOST: When I was 17, I came home from a walk I took with my first boyfriend, which I kept a secret from my parents. I thought I'd be home before they came back from church, but unluckily they were already back. They physically beat me in a way much worse than the kind I was used to. Both my parents dragged me out onto the street by my hair, screaming that I tell them where this boy lived. By the end of it I was crying, bloody nosed, and broken. I think it was after this time that I started having outbursts of rage towards my parents. Sometimes I'd feel like I was suffocating just being near them and it felt like the only thing I could do was scream. Years later, in intimate relationships and sometimes still with my parents, I find myself screaming, hitting, yelling nasty words- really attempting to hurt the other person for how they are making me feel. In these moments I carry this string feeling and belief that love is suffocating punishment and there's no way out of having these really intense bitter angry moments with people I care about. If anyone has advice about healthier ways of dealing with anger, I'd really appreciate it!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Angry outbursts that started after parents beat me is taking a toll on my health and the well being of people I am close to.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My angry outbursts are hurting my life and the people I care about.\n\nPOST: When I was 17, I came home from a walk I took with my first boyfriend, which I kept a secret from my parents. I thought I'd be home before they came back from church, but unluckily they were already back. They physically beat me in a way much worse than the kind I was used to. Both my parents dragged me out onto the street by my hair, screaming that I tell them where this boy lived. By the end of it I was crying, bloody nosed, and broken. I think it was after this time that I started having outbursts of rage towards my parents. Sometimes I'd feel like I was suffocating just being near them and it felt like the only thing I could do was scream. Years later, in intimate relationships and sometimes still with my parents, I find myself screaming, hitting, yelling nasty words- really attempting to hurt the other person for how they are making me feel. In these moments I carry this string feeling and belief that love is suffocating punishment and there's no way out of having these really intense bitter angry moments with people I care about. If anyone has advice about healthier ways of dealing with anger, I'd really appreciate it!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Sometimes I carry an intense string feeling that love is suffocating punishment and that I can't get out of having really angry outbursts with my parents. Need advice on healthy ways of dealing with anger!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28/F] with my roommates [28/F] [28/F] together 2 years, one of them cheated, and i don't know what to do.\n\nPOST: I live with a lesbian couple. A few weeks ago, one (let's call her Britney) cheated on the other (let's call her Christina). Britney went away with a "friend" for a week, and when she returned she confessed to having spent the entire week cheating with her friend (who she knows from her work). Britney has moved out while they take a break to "figure things out". Christina still wants to be with Britney. I don't know what to tell her. I know from living with Britney that she's a selfish and immature person who took advantage of Christina. Christina however just sees Britney in a positive light and still hopes that things will work out. I don't know what to say, or how to comfort her. I'm sad for her, and I know i should just stay out of it, but I can't accept the idea of Britney coming back and continuing to hurt my friend. I've never heard of someone being so brutally cheated on, and still want to have a relationship. What should I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: one of my roommates cheated on her partner. still wants to be with her. don't know what advice to give to comfort her or what to say to her/to her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28/F] with my roommates [28/F] [28/F] together 2 years, one of them cheated, and i don't know what to do.\n\nPOST: I live with a lesbian couple. A few weeks ago, one (let's call her Britney) cheated on the other (let's call her Christina). Britney went away with a "friend" for a week, and when she returned she confessed to having spent the entire week cheating with her friend (who she knows from her work). Britney has moved out while they take a break to "figure things out". Christina still wants to be with Britney. I don't know what to tell her. I know from living with Britney that she's a selfish and immature person who took advantage of Christina. Christina however just sees Britney in a positive light and still hopes that things will work out. I don't know what to say, or how to comfort her. I'm sad for her, and I know i should just stay out of it, but I can't accept the idea of Britney coming back and continuing to hurt my friend. I've never heard of someone being so brutally cheated on, and still want to have a relationship. What should I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Roomie was cheated on, still wants to be with cheater, how can I be a good friend in this situation?<|endoftext|>

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One of my roommates cheated on her partner, and still hopes to be together with her despite knowing she cheated. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28/F] with my roommates [28/F] [28/F] together 2 years, one of them cheated, and i don't know what to do.\n\nPOST: I live with a lesbian couple. A few weeks ago, one (let's call her Britney) cheated on the other (let's call her Christina). Britney went away with a "friend" for a week, and when she returned she confessed to having spent the entire week cheating with her friend (who she knows from her work). Britney has moved out while they take a break to "figure things out". Christina still wants to be with Britney. I don't know what to tell her. I know from living with Britney that she's a selfish and immature person who took advantage of Christina. Christina however just sees Britney in a positive light and still hopes that things will work out. I don't know what to say, or how to comfort her. I'm sad for her, and I know i should just stay out of it, but I can't accept the idea of Britney coming back and continuing to hurt my friend. I've never heard of someone being so brutally cheated on, and still want to have a relationship. What should I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: One of my roommates cheated on her partner, and still hopes to be together with her despite knowing she cheated. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28/F] with my roommates [28/F] [28/F] together 2 years, one of them cheated, and i don't know what to do.\n\nPOST: I live with a lesbian couple. A few weeks ago, one (let's call her Britney) cheated on the other (let's call her Christina). Britney went away with a "friend" for a week, and when she returned she confessed to having spent the entire week cheating with her friend (who she knows from her work). Britney has moved out while they take a break to "figure things out". Christina still wants to be with Britney. I don't know what to tell her. I know from living with Britney that she's a selfish and immature person who took advantage of Christina. Christina however just sees Britney in a positive light and still hopes that things will work out. I don't know what to say, or how to comfort her. I'm sad for her, and I know i should just stay out of it, but I can't accept the idea of Britney coming back and continuing to hurt my friend. I've never heard of someone being so brutally cheated on, and still want to have a relationship. What should I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Roomie was cheated on, still wants to be with cheater, how can I be a good friend in this situation?<|endoftext|>

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Roomie was cheated on, still wants to be with cheater, how can I be a good friend in this situation?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28/F] with my roommates [28/F] [28/F] together 2 years, one of them cheated, and i don't know what to do.\n\nPOST: I live with a lesbian couple. A few weeks ago, one (let's call her Britney) cheated on the other (let's call her Christina). Britney went away with a "friend" for a week, and when she returned she confessed to having spent the entire week cheating with her friend (who she knows from her work). Britney has moved out while they take a break to "figure things out". Christina still wants to be with Britney. I don't know what to tell her. I know from living with Britney that she's a selfish and immature person who took advantage of Christina. Christina however just sees Britney in a positive light and still hopes that things will work out. I don't know what to say, or how to comfort her. I'm sad for her, and I know i should just stay out of it, but I can't accept the idea of Britney coming back and continuing to hurt my friend. I've never heard of someone being so brutally cheated on, and still want to have a relationship. What should I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Roomie was cheated on, still wants to be with cheater, how can I be a good friend in this situation?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28/F] with my roommates [28/F] [28/F] together 2 years, one of them cheated, and i don't know what to do.\n\nPOST: I live with a lesbian couple. A few weeks ago, one (let's call her Britney) cheated on the other (let's call her Christina). Britney went away with a "friend" for a week, and when she returned she confessed to having spent the entire week cheating with her friend (who she knows from her work). Britney has moved out while they take a break to "figure things out". Christina still wants to be with Britney. I don't know what to tell her. I know from living with Britney that she's a selfish and immature person who took advantage of Christina. Christina however just sees Britney in a positive light and still hopes that things will work out. I don't know what to say, or how to comfort her. I'm sad for her, and I know i should just stay out of it, but I can't accept the idea of Britney coming back and continuing to hurt my friend. I've never heard of someone being so brutally cheated on, and still want to have a relationship. What should I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: One of my roommates cheated on her friend, and now she wants to stay together. I don't know how to comfort her, and don't want her to do something terrible to my roommate.<|endoftext|>

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one of my roommates cheated on her partner. still wants to be with her. don't know what advice to give to comfort her or what to say to her/to her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28/F] with my roommates [28/F] [28/F] together 2 years, one of them cheated, and i don't know what to do.\n\nPOST: I live with a lesbian couple. A few weeks ago, one (let's call her Britney) cheated on the other (let's call her Christina). Britney went away with a "friend" for a week, and when she returned she confessed to having spent the entire week cheating with her friend (who she knows from her work). Britney has moved out while they take a break to "figure things out". Christina still wants to be with Britney. I don't know what to tell her. I know from living with Britney that she's a selfish and immature person who took advantage of Christina. Christina however just sees Britney in a positive light and still hopes that things will work out. I don't know what to say, or how to comfort her. I'm sad for her, and I know i should just stay out of it, but I can't accept the idea of Britney coming back and continuing to hurt my friend. I've never heard of someone being so brutally cheated on, and still want to have a relationship. What should I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: one of my roommates cheated on her partner. still wants to be with her. don't know what advice to give to comfort her or what to say to her/to her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28/F] with my roommates [28/F] [28/F] together 2 years, one of them cheated, and i don't know what to do.\n\nPOST: I live with a lesbian couple. A few weeks ago, one (let's call her Britney) cheated on the other (let's call her Christina). Britney went away with a "friend" for a week, and when she returned she confessed to having spent the entire week cheating with her friend (who she knows from her work). Britney has moved out while they take a break to "figure things out". Christina still wants to be with Britney. I don't know what to tell her. I know from living with Britney that she's a selfish and immature person who took advantage of Christina. Christina however just sees Britney in a positive light and still hopes that things will work out. I don't know what to say, or how to comfort her. I'm sad for her, and I know i should just stay out of it, but I can't accept the idea of Britney coming back and continuing to hurt my friend. I've never heard of someone being so brutally cheated on, and still want to have a relationship. What should I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: One of my roommates cheated on her partner, and still hopes to be together with her despite knowing she cheated. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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One of my roommates cheated on her partner, and still hopes to be together with her despite knowing she cheated. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28/F] with my roommates [28/F] [28/F] together 2 years, one of them cheated, and i don't know what to do.\n\nPOST: I live with a lesbian couple. A few weeks ago, one (let's call her Britney) cheated on the other (let's call her Christina). Britney went away with a "friend" for a week, and when she returned she confessed to having spent the entire week cheating with her friend (who she knows from her work). Britney has moved out while they take a break to "figure things out". Christina still wants to be with Britney. I don't know what to tell her. I know from living with Britney that she's a selfish and immature person who took advantage of Christina. Christina however just sees Britney in a positive light and still hopes that things will work out. I don't know what to say, or how to comfort her. I'm sad for her, and I know i should just stay out of it, but I can't accept the idea of Britney coming back and continuing to hurt my friend. I've never heard of someone being so brutally cheated on, and still want to have a relationship. What should I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: One of my roommates cheated on her partner, and still hopes to be together with her despite knowing she cheated. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28/F] with my roommates [28/F] [28/F] together 2 years, one of them cheated, and i don't know what to do.\n\nPOST: I live with a lesbian couple. A few weeks ago, one (let's call her Britney) cheated on the other (let's call her Christina). Britney went away with a "friend" for a week, and when she returned she confessed to having spent the entire week cheating with her friend (who she knows from her work). Britney has moved out while they take a break to "figure things out". Christina still wants to be with Britney. I don't know what to tell her. I know from living with Britney that she's a selfish and immature person who took advantage of Christina. Christina however just sees Britney in a positive light and still hopes that things will work out. I don't know what to say, or how to comfort her. I'm sad for her, and I know i should just stay out of it, but I can't accept the idea of Britney coming back and continuing to hurt my friend. I've never heard of someone being so brutally cheated on, and still want to have a relationship. What should I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: One of my roommates cheated on her friend, and now she wants to stay together. I don't know how to comfort her, and don't want her to do something terrible to my roommate.<|endoftext|>

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one of my roommates cheated on her partner. still wants to be with her. don't know what advice to give to comfort her or what to say to her/to her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28/F] with my roommates [28/F] [28/F] together 2 years, one of them cheated, and i don't know what to do.\n\nPOST: I live with a lesbian couple. A few weeks ago, one (let's call her Britney) cheated on the other (let's call her Christina). Britney went away with a "friend" for a week, and when she returned she confessed to having spent the entire week cheating with her friend (who she knows from her work). Britney has moved out while they take a break to "figure things out". Christina still wants to be with Britney. I don't know what to tell her. I know from living with Britney that she's a selfish and immature person who took advantage of Christina. Christina however just sees Britney in a positive light and still hopes that things will work out. I don't know what to say, or how to comfort her. I'm sad for her, and I know i should just stay out of it, but I can't accept the idea of Britney coming back and continuing to hurt my friend. I've never heard of someone being so brutally cheated on, and still want to have a relationship. What should I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: one of my roommates cheated on her partner. still wants to be with her. don't know what advice to give to comfort her or what to say to her/to her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28/F] with my roommates [28/F] [28/F] together 2 years, one of them cheated, and i don't know what to do.\n\nPOST: I live with a lesbian couple. A few weeks ago, one (let's call her Britney) cheated on the other (let's call her Christina). Britney went away with a "friend" for a week, and when she returned she confessed to having spent the entire week cheating with her friend (who she knows from her work). Britney has moved out while they take a break to "figure things out". Christina still wants to be with Britney. I don't know what to tell her. I know from living with Britney that she's a selfish and immature person who took advantage of Christina. Christina however just sees Britney in a positive light and still hopes that things will work out. I don't know what to say, or how to comfort her. I'm sad for her, and I know i should just stay out of it, but I can't accept the idea of Britney coming back and continuing to hurt my friend. I've never heard of someone being so brutally cheated on, and still want to have a relationship. What should I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: One of my roommates cheated on her friend, and now she wants to stay together. I don't know how to comfort her, and don't want her to do something terrible to my roommate.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

BF's brother started dating fiancee of same amount of time as us 5 days after we started dating, and we are not allowed to sleep in the same room together. Don't know how to feel about it.<|endoftext|>

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BF & I have been dating for almost exactly 4 yrs. BF's bro started dating his fiancee 5 days after we started dating. Weird situation when we're going on trip with his family together.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: BF's brother started dating fiancee of same amount of time as us 5 days after we started dating, and we are not allowed to sleep in the same room together. Don't know how to feel about it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: BF & I have been dating for almost exactly 4 yrs. BF's bro started dating his fiancee 5 days after we started dating. Weird situation when we're going on trip with his family together.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

BF & I have been dating for almost exactly 4 yrs. BF's bro started dating his fiancee 5 days after we started dating. Weird situation when we're going on trip with his family together.<|endoftext|>

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BF starts dating same day as brother and bro's fiancee. we're all going on trip together for 4th of July. weird situation seems to be happening. don't know if I'm being crazy or justified?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: BF & I have been dating for almost exactly 4 yrs. BF's bro started dating his fiancee 5 days after we started dating. Weird situation when we're going on trip with his family together.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: BF starts dating same day as brother and bro's fiancee. we're all going on trip together for 4th of July. weird situation seems to be happening. don't know if I'm being crazy or justified?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " BF starts dating same day as brother and bro's fiancee. we're all going on trip together for 4th of July. weird situation seems to be happening. don't know if I'm being crazy or justified?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3_kl20", "note": "Ok\n\n----------------\n\nThis is not in the post: 'don't know if I'm being crazy or justified?'" }, { "text": " BF's brother started dating fiancee of same amount of time as us 5 days after we started dating, and we are not allowed to sleep in the same room together. Don't know how to feel about it.", "policy": "sup4_bo512_rm3", "note": "Unclear who the OP wishes to be in the same room.\n\n-------------------- \n\nIsn't explicit that the brother and fiancee have this privilege. " } ]

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

BF's brother started dating fiancee of same amount of time as us 5 days after we started dating, and we are not allowed to sleep in the same room together. Don't know how to feel about it.<|endoftext|>

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BF starts dating same day as brother and bro's fiancee. we're all going on trip together for 4th of July. weird situation seems to be happening. don't know if I'm being crazy or justified?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: BF's brother started dating fiancee of same amount of time as us 5 days after we started dating, and we are not allowed to sleep in the same room together. Don't know how to feel about it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: BF starts dating same day as brother and bro's fiancee. we're all going on trip together for 4th of July. weird situation seems to be happening. don't know if I'm being crazy or justified?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Am I justified in feeling weird that my BF's bro is allowed to share a room with his SO, while I can't share one with my BF?<|endoftext|>

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BF & I have been dating for almost exactly 4 yrs. BF's bro started dating his fiancee 5 days after we started dating. Weird situation when we're going on trip with his family together.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Am I justified in feeling weird that my BF's bro is allowed to share a room with his SO, while I can't share one with my BF?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: BF & I have been dating for almost exactly 4 yrs. BF's bro started dating his fiancee 5 days after we started dating. Weird situation when we're going on trip with his family together.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Am I justified in feeling weird that my BF's bro is allowed to share a room with his SO, while I can't share one with my BF?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Am I justified in feeling weird that my BF's bro is allowed to share a room with his SO, while I can't share one with my BF?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: BF starts dating same day as brother and bro's fiancee. we're all going on trip together for 4th of July. weird situation seems to be happening. don't know if I'm being crazy or justified?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " BF's brother started dating fiancee of same amount of time as us 5 days after we started dating, and we are not allowed to sleep in the same room together. Don't know how to feel about it.", "policy": "sup4_bo512_rm3", "note": "Unclear who the OP wishes to be in the same room.\n\n-------------------- \n\nIsn't explicit that the brother and fiancee have this privilege. " }, { "text": " Am I justified in feeling weird that my BF's bro is allowed to share a room with his SO, while I can't share one with my BF?", "policy": "ref", "note": "Ok" } ]

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Am I justified in feeling weird that my BF's bro is allowed to share a room with his SO, while I can't share one with my BF?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Am I justified in feeling weird that my BF's bro is allowed to share a room with his SO, while I can't share one with my BF?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23F] with my [24M] BF of 4 yrs started dating the same day as his brother and his bro's fiancee\n\nPOST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly 4 years, and his brother, who is 18 months older, started dating his (now) fiancee literally 5 days after we started dating. It's created a somewhat weird situation, as his brother (26 yrs old) and his bro's fiancee (23F, like me) are getting married and moving in together, and they have been dating for the exact same amount of time as us. BF comes from a traditional family, who doesn't let us stay in the same room together when we go to his house (I don't necessarily understand this, but I respect it). However, we (BF, BF's bro, bro's fiancee) are all going on a trip together for the 4th of July with his family. They're letting his bro/bro's fiancee stay in the same room, while me and my BF are not allowed to sleep together. I understand that they're engaged, so maybe now it's more "appropriate," but I feel kind of weird about it because my BF and I have been dating for the EXACT SAME amount of time that they have. And the fiancee is my age! I mentioned this to my BF, and he said I was being crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: BF's brother started dating fiancee of same amount of time as us 5 days after we started dating, and we are not allowed to sleep in the same room together. Don't know how to feel about it.<|endoftext|>

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I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel and we hit it off. She is my first girlfriend and wants me to date other girls to see if I also like someone else. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel and we hit it off. She is my first girlfriend and wants me to date other girls to see if I also like someone else. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: first gf wants me to figure out if I actually like her of whether I like the idea of her. Wants me to find date someone else to find out.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My first GF is asking me to prove that I like her romantically, and not just the idea of dating anyone else as she's afraid of being hurt later on. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My first GF is asking me to prove that I like her romantically, and not just the idea of dating anyone else as she's afraid of being hurt later on. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My first GF wants me to find out whether or not I like her romantically by going on a few more dates before we settle down together. Don't know what to do!<|endoftext|>

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My first GF is asking me to prove that I like her romantically, and not just the idea of dating anyone else as she's afraid of being hurt later on. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My first GF is asking me to prove that I like her romantically, and not just the idea of dating anyone else as she's afraid of being hurt later on. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: first gf wants me to figure out if I actually like her of whether I like the idea of her. Wants me to find date someone else to find out.<|endoftext|>

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first gf wants me to figure out if I actually like her of whether I like the idea of her. Wants me to find date someone else to find out.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: first gf wants me to figure out if I actually like her of whether I like the idea of her. Wants me to find date someone else to find out.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My first GF wants me to find out whether or not I like her romantically by going on a few more dates before we settle down together. Don't know what to do!<|endoftext|>

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I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel and we hit it off. She is my first girlfriend and wants me to date other girls to see if I also like someone else. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel and we hit it off. She is my first girlfriend and wants me to date other girls to see if I also like someone else. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My first GF wants me to find out whether or not I like her romantically by going on a few more dates before we settle down together. Don't know what to do!<|endoftext|>

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My first GF is asking me to prove that I like her romantically, and not just the idea of dating anyone else as she's afraid of being hurt later on. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My first GF is asking me to prove that I like her romantically, and not just the idea of dating anyone else as she's afraid of being hurt later on. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (first) GF [24F] has an unusual request for me [23 M] to prove my attraction\n\nPOST: Around a month and half ago, I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel. We hit it off and get along really well. We have been on several dates since then and like each other a lot. We communicate really well and talk about everything very openly. We have progressed pretty far both emotionally and physically. A little background: I am a little shy/introverted/whatever and haven't been very prolific in the dating game for various reasons. She is my first girlfriend and someone who I really enjoy being with. She has had a few relationships (~2-3 I think) before this one and is generally more experienced with this stuff. Last week, she asked me whether I really liked her or whether I just liked the idea of being with someone. She suggested that I go back into the dating pool, go on a few more dates and see if there is someone else that I click with. She wanted to keep dating, but wanted me to explore more girls to see if I also like someone else. Her reasoning was that our relationship is going really, really well (based on her previous experiences) and she doesn't want to be hurt later on if I don't actually like her. She said that she doesn't want me to regret not being with anyone else and start to resent her for that after a like six or so months. She said one of her friends was in a similar relationship and the guy ditched her friend after a few months for this very reason. From my point of view, I am not really interested in looking for other girls and I do really like her a lot. So reddit, I need your advice. What should I do? Thanks for your help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I met a girl on Coffee Meets Bagel and we hit it off. She is my first girlfriend and wants me to date other girls to see if I also like someone else. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [17/m] Me and my best friend [17/f] don't work.\n\nPOST: I love my best friend, and we've gotten close enough that we have tried being together, twice. When were just friends, were great. We laugh, we hangout, it's fantastic. Although, when we decide to get together, it's like the complete opposite. All we do is fight. Sometimes about the most ridiculous things. We get jealous, we hurt each other emotionally, and it's really unhealthy. When were together, she talks about other guys, doesn't make time for me, she's very unaffectionate and likes to put me down. Don't get me wrong, she's a really nice girl, beautiful too but when were together, it's like she doesn't know how to act. She's had other boyfriends before me so she's experienced with relationships. But it just doesn't work, and we agree that we don't work so we try to move on, but when we try to move on or see other people, the other becomes very upset. Now I met this other girl, she totally great, she's beautiful and she treats me awesome and I feel like she actually cares about me. I'm crazy about her. But my best friend just told me that she wants to try again, despite everything that has happened. I'm stuck in the middle. I don't know what to do. She thinks we could work out great but why would I make the same mistake three times. I don't know though, it could be great. I think we should move on, but she doesn't want that. I don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Me and my best friend don't work. We try to be together but sometimes fight. Now I met this awesome girl and she totally cares for me but my best friend says she wants to try again despite everything.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [17/m] Me and my best friend [17/f] don't work.\n\nPOST: I love my best friend, and we've gotten close enough that we have tried being together, twice. When were just friends, were great. We laugh, we hangout, it's fantastic. Although, when we decide to get together, it's like the complete opposite. All we do is fight. Sometimes about the most ridiculous things. We get jealous, we hurt each other emotionally, and it's really unhealthy. When were together, she talks about other guys, doesn't make time for me, she's very unaffectionate and likes to put me down. Don't get me wrong, she's a really nice girl, beautiful too but when were together, it's like she doesn't know how to act. She's had other boyfriends before me so she's experienced with relationships. But it just doesn't work, and we agree that we don't work so we try to move on, but when we try to move on or see other people, the other becomes very upset. Now I met this other girl, she totally great, she's beautiful and she treats me awesome and I feel like she actually cares about me. I'm crazy about her. But my best friend just told me that she wants to try again, despite everything that has happened. I'm stuck in the middle. I don't know what to do. She thinks we could work out great but why would I make the same mistake three times. I don't know though, it could be great. I think we should move on, but she doesn't want that. I don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my best friend don't work. We try to be together but sometimes fight. Now I met this awesome girl and she totally cares for me but my best friend says she wants to try again despite everything.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [17/m] Me and my best friend [17/f] don't work.\n\nPOST: I love my best friend, and we've gotten close enough that we have tried being together, twice. When were just friends, were great. We laugh, we hangout, it's fantastic. Although, when we decide to get together, it's like the complete opposite. All we do is fight. Sometimes about the most ridiculous things. We get jealous, we hurt each other emotionally, and it's really unhealthy. When were together, she talks about other guys, doesn't make time for me, she's very unaffectionate and likes to put me down. Don't get me wrong, she's a really nice girl, beautiful too but when were together, it's like she doesn't know how to act. She's had other boyfriends before me so she's experienced with relationships. But it just doesn't work, and we agree that we don't work so we try to move on, but when we try to move on or see other people, the other becomes very upset. Now I met this other girl, she totally great, she's beautiful and she treats me awesome and I feel like she actually cares about me. I'm crazy about her. But my best friend just told me that she wants to try again, despite everything that has happened. I'm stuck in the middle. I don't know what to do. She thinks we could work out great but why would I make the same mistake three times. I don't know though, it could be great. I think we should move on, but she doesn't want that. I don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my best friend don't work. We try and get together but it's always a fight. We like each other but we don't want to make the same mistake. What do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [17/m] Me and my best friend [17/f] don't work.\n\nPOST: I love my best friend, and we've gotten close enough that we have tried being together, twice. When were just friends, were great. We laugh, we hangout, it's fantastic. Although, when we decide to get together, it's like the complete opposite. All we do is fight. Sometimes about the most ridiculous things. We get jealous, we hurt each other emotionally, and it's really unhealthy. When were together, she talks about other guys, doesn't make time for me, she's very unaffectionate and likes to put me down. Don't get me wrong, she's a really nice girl, beautiful too but when were together, it's like she doesn't know how to act. She's had other boyfriends before me so she's experienced with relationships. But it just doesn't work, and we agree that we don't work so we try to move on, but when we try to move on or see other people, the other becomes very upset. Now I met this other girl, she totally great, she's beautiful and she treats me awesome and I feel like she actually cares about me. I'm crazy about her. But my best friend just told me that she wants to try again, despite everything that has happened. I'm stuck in the middle. I don't know what to do. She thinks we could work out great but why would I make the same mistake three times. I don't know though, it could be great. I think we should move on, but she doesn't want that. I don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Me and my best friend don't work, she wants another relationship despite everything that has happened. Wondering if I should give it a chance despite the drama?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [17/m] Me and my best friend [17/f] don't work.\n\nPOST: I love my best friend, and we've gotten close enough that we have tried being together, twice. When were just friends, were great. We laugh, we hangout, it's fantastic. Although, when we decide to get together, it's like the complete opposite. All we do is fight. Sometimes about the most ridiculous things. We get jealous, we hurt each other emotionally, and it's really unhealthy. When were together, she talks about other guys, doesn't make time for me, she's very unaffectionate and likes to put me down. Don't get me wrong, she's a really nice girl, beautiful too but when were together, it's like she doesn't know how to act. She's had other boyfriends before me so she's experienced with relationships. But it just doesn't work, and we agree that we don't work so we try to move on, but when we try to move on or see other people, the other becomes very upset. Now I met this other girl, she totally great, she's beautiful and she treats me awesome and I feel like she actually cares about me. I'm crazy about her. But my best friend just told me that she wants to try again, despite everything that has happened. I'm stuck in the middle. I don't know what to do. She thinks we could work out great but why would I make the same mistake three times. I don't know though, it could be great. I think we should move on, but she doesn't want that. I don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my best friend don't work, she wants another relationship despite everything that has happened. Wondering if I should give it a chance despite the drama?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [17/m] Me and my best friend [17/f] don't work.\n\nPOST: I love my best friend, and we've gotten close enough that we have tried being together, twice. When were just friends, were great. We laugh, we hangout, it's fantastic. Although, when we decide to get together, it's like the complete opposite. All we do is fight. Sometimes about the most ridiculous things. We get jealous, we hurt each other emotionally, and it's really unhealthy. When were together, she talks about other guys, doesn't make time for me, she's very unaffectionate and likes to put me down. Don't get me wrong, she's a really nice girl, beautiful too but when were together, it's like she doesn't know how to act. She's had other boyfriends before me so she's experienced with relationships. But it just doesn't work, and we agree that we don't work so we try to move on, but when we try to move on or see other people, the other becomes very upset. Now I met this other girl, she totally great, she's beautiful and she treats me awesome and I feel like she actually cares about me. I'm crazy about her. But my best friend just told me that she wants to try again, despite everything that has happened. I'm stuck in the middle. I don't know what to do. She thinks we could work out great but why would I make the same mistake three times. I don't know though, it could be great. I think we should move on, but she doesn't want that. I don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my best friend aren't happy when were together, but we get jealous when the other is with anyone else.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [17/m] Me and my best friend [17/f] don't work.\n\nPOST: I love my best friend, and we've gotten close enough that we have tried being together, twice. When were just friends, were great. We laugh, we hangout, it's fantastic. Although, when we decide to get together, it's like the complete opposite. All we do is fight. Sometimes about the most ridiculous things. We get jealous, we hurt each other emotionally, and it's really unhealthy. When were together, she talks about other guys, doesn't make time for me, she's very unaffectionate and likes to put me down. Don't get me wrong, she's a really nice girl, beautiful too but when were together, it's like she doesn't know how to act. She's had other boyfriends before me so she's experienced with relationships. But it just doesn't work, and we agree that we don't work so we try to move on, but when we try to move on or see other people, the other becomes very upset. Now I met this other girl, she totally great, she's beautiful and she treats me awesome and I feel like she actually cares about me. I'm crazy about her. But my best friend just told me that she wants to try again, despite everything that has happened. I'm stuck in the middle. I don't know what to do. She thinks we could work out great but why would I make the same mistake three times. I don't know though, it could be great. I think we should move on, but she doesn't want that. I don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Me and my best friend don't work, she wants another relationship despite everything that has happened. Wondering if I should give it a chance despite the drama?<|endoftext|>

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Me and my best friend don't work. We try and get together but it's always a fight. We like each other but we don't want to make the same mistake. What do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [17/m] Me and my best friend [17/f] don't work.\n\nPOST: I love my best friend, and we've gotten close enough that we have tried being together, twice. When were just friends, were great. We laugh, we hangout, it's fantastic. Although, when we decide to get together, it's like the complete opposite. All we do is fight. Sometimes about the most ridiculous things. We get jealous, we hurt each other emotionally, and it's really unhealthy. When were together, she talks about other guys, doesn't make time for me, she's very unaffectionate and likes to put me down. Don't get me wrong, she's a really nice girl, beautiful too but when were together, it's like she doesn't know how to act. She's had other boyfriends before me so she's experienced with relationships. But it just doesn't work, and we agree that we don't work so we try to move on, but when we try to move on or see other people, the other becomes very upset. Now I met this other girl, she totally great, she's beautiful and she treats me awesome and I feel like she actually cares about me. I'm crazy about her. But my best friend just told me that she wants to try again, despite everything that has happened. I'm stuck in the middle. I don't know what to do. She thinks we could work out great but why would I make the same mistake three times. I don't know though, it could be great. I think we should move on, but she doesn't want that. I don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my best friend don't work, she wants another relationship despite everything that has happened. Wondering if I should give it a chance despite the drama?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [17/m] Me and my best friend [17/f] don't work.\n\nPOST: I love my best friend, and we've gotten close enough that we have tried being together, twice. When were just friends, were great. We laugh, we hangout, it's fantastic. Although, when we decide to get together, it's like the complete opposite. All we do is fight. Sometimes about the most ridiculous things. We get jealous, we hurt each other emotionally, and it's really unhealthy. When were together, she talks about other guys, doesn't make time for me, she's very unaffectionate and likes to put me down. Don't get me wrong, she's a really nice girl, beautiful too but when were together, it's like she doesn't know how to act. She's had other boyfriends before me so she's experienced with relationships. But it just doesn't work, and we agree that we don't work so we try to move on, but when we try to move on or see other people, the other becomes very upset. Now I met this other girl, she totally great, she's beautiful and she treats me awesome and I feel like she actually cares about me. I'm crazy about her. But my best friend just told me that she wants to try again, despite everything that has happened. I'm stuck in the middle. I don't know what to do. She thinks we could work out great but why would I make the same mistake three times. I don't know though, it could be great. I think we should move on, but she doesn't want that. I don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my best friend don't work. We try and get together but it's always a fight. We like each other but we don't want to make the same mistake. What do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [17/m] Me and my best friend [17/f] don't work.\n\nPOST: I love my best friend, and we've gotten close enough that we have tried being together, twice. When were just friends, were great. We laugh, we hangout, it's fantastic. Although, when we decide to get together, it's like the complete opposite. All we do is fight. Sometimes about the most ridiculous things. We get jealous, we hurt each other emotionally, and it's really unhealthy. When were together, she talks about other guys, doesn't make time for me, she's very unaffectionate and likes to put me down. Don't get me wrong, she's a really nice girl, beautiful too but when were together, it's like she doesn't know how to act. She's had other boyfriends before me so she's experienced with relationships. But it just doesn't work, and we agree that we don't work so we try to move on, but when we try to move on or see other people, the other becomes very upset. Now I met this other girl, she totally great, she's beautiful and she treats me awesome and I feel like she actually cares about me. I'm crazy about her. But my best friend just told me that she wants to try again, despite everything that has happened. I'm stuck in the middle. I don't know what to do. She thinks we could work out great but why would I make the same mistake three times. I don't know though, it could be great. I think we should move on, but she doesn't want that. I don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Me and my best friend aren't happy when were together, but we get jealous when the other is with anyone else.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [17/m] Me and my best friend [17/f] don't work.\n\nPOST: I love my best friend, and we've gotten close enough that we have tried being together, twice. When were just friends, were great. We laugh, we hangout, it's fantastic. Although, when we decide to get together, it's like the complete opposite. All we do is fight. Sometimes about the most ridiculous things. We get jealous, we hurt each other emotionally, and it's really unhealthy. When were together, she talks about other guys, doesn't make time for me, she's very unaffectionate and likes to put me down. Don't get me wrong, she's a really nice girl, beautiful too but when were together, it's like she doesn't know how to act. She's had other boyfriends before me so she's experienced with relationships. But it just doesn't work, and we agree that we don't work so we try to move on, but when we try to move on or see other people, the other becomes very upset. Now I met this other girl, she totally great, she's beautiful and she treats me awesome and I feel like she actually cares about me. I'm crazy about her. But my best friend just told me that she wants to try again, despite everything that has happened. I'm stuck in the middle. I don't know what to do. She thinks we could work out great but why would I make the same mistake three times. I don't know though, it could be great. I think we should move on, but she doesn't want that. I don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my best friend aren't happy when were together, but we get jealous when the other is with anyone else.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [17/m] Me and my best friend [17/f] don't work.\n\nPOST: I love my best friend, and we've gotten close enough that we have tried being together, twice. When were just friends, were great. We laugh, we hangout, it's fantastic. Although, when we decide to get together, it's like the complete opposite. All we do is fight. Sometimes about the most ridiculous things. We get jealous, we hurt each other emotionally, and it's really unhealthy. When were together, she talks about other guys, doesn't make time for me, she's very unaffectionate and likes to put me down. Don't get me wrong, she's a really nice girl, beautiful too but when were together, it's like she doesn't know how to act. She's had other boyfriends before me so she's experienced with relationships. But it just doesn't work, and we agree that we don't work so we try to move on, but when we try to move on or see other people, the other becomes very upset. Now I met this other girl, she totally great, she's beautiful and she treats me awesome and I feel like she actually cares about me. I'm crazy about her. But my best friend just told me that she wants to try again, despite everything that has happened. I'm stuck in the middle. I don't know what to do. She thinks we could work out great but why would I make the same mistake three times. I don't know though, it could be great. I think we should move on, but she doesn't want that. I don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my best friend don't work. We try and get together but it's always a fight. We like each other but we don't want to make the same mistake. What do?<|endoftext|>

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