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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! Like the title says, I'm stuck between Vanderbilt and UT Austin. I KNOW that financially UT is the practical choice, but I really really really really really despise it there.\n\nI know that just seems like I'm kind of dumb for not wanting to go, and I really do have actual reasons (i.e. awful student to teacher ratio, fewer intern/research opportunities, etc) But my main problems with UT are because I dont like the feel of the school, I hate how big it is (35,000+ undergrad?!?), and I definitely do not want to attend another 4-8 years with the same people I've known since kindergarten.\n\nIn contrast, Vanderbilt is literally one of my favorite schools. I applied for a bunch of \"better\" schools (I got rejected from like all of them), but I still wanted to go to Vanderbilt most. \n\nAnyway, the problem is Vanderbilt tuition is circa 60,000+ a year. I definitely do not qualify for need based financial aid and my mom is unemployed so she cant help me there. I did not apply for Vanderbilt's merit scholarships because in the fall, I was under the impression that my dad would be able to pay for most if not all of my tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! Like the title says, I'm stuck between Vanderbilt and UT Austin. I KNOW that financially UT is the practical choice, but I really really really really really despise it there.\n\nI know that just seems like I'm kind of dumb for not wanting to go, and I really do have actual reasons (i.e. awful student to teacher ratio, fewer intern/research opportunities, etc) But my main problems with UT are because I dont like the feel of the school, I hate how big it is (35,000+ undergrad?!?), and I definitely do not want to attend another 4-8 years with the same people I've known since kindergarten.\n\nIn contrast, Vanderbilt is literally one of my favorite schools. I applied for a bunch of \"better\" schools (I got rejected from like all of them), but I still wanted to go to Vanderbilt most. \n\nAnyway, the problem is Vanderbilt tuition is circa 60,000+ a year. I definitely do not qualify for need based financial aid and my mom is unemployed so she cant help me there. I did not apply for Vanderbilt's merit scholarships because in the fall, I was under the impression that my dad would be able to pay for most if not all of my tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! Like the title says, I'm stuck between Vanderbilt and UT Austin. I KNOW that financially UT is the practical choice, but I really really really really really despise it there.\n\nI know that just seems like I'm kind of dumb for not wanting to go, and I really do have actual reasons (i.e. awful student to teacher ratio, fewer intern/research opportunities, etc) But my main problems with UT are because I dont like the feel of the school, I hate how big it is (35,000+ undergrad?!?), and I definitely do not want to attend another 4-8 years with the same people I've known since kindergarten.\n\nIn contrast, Vanderbilt is literally one of my favorite schools. I applied for a bunch of \"better\" schools (I got rejected from like all of them), but I still wanted to go to Vanderbilt most. \n\nAnyway, the problem is Vanderbilt tuition is circa 60,000+ a year. I definitely do not qualify for need based financial aid and my mom is unemployed so she cant help me there. I did not apply for Vanderbilt's merit scholarships because in the fall, I was under the impression that my dad would be able to pay for most if not all of my tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! Like the title says, I'm stuck between Vanderbilt and UT Austin. I KNOW that financially UT is the practical choice, but I really really really really really despise it there.\n\nI know that just seems like I'm kind of dumb for not wanting to go, and I really do have actual reasons (i.e. awful student to teacher ratio, fewer intern/research opportunities, etc) But my main problems with UT are because I dont like the feel of the school, I hate how big it is (35,000+ undergrad?!?), and I definitely do not want to attend another 4-8 years with the same people I've known since kindergarten.\n\nIn contrast, Vanderbilt is literally one of my favorite schools. I applied for a bunch of \"better\" schools (I got rejected from like all of them), but I still wanted to go to Vanderbilt most. \n\nAnyway, the problem is Vanderbilt tuition is circa 60,000+ a year. I definitely do not qualify for need based financial aid and my mom is unemployed so she cant help me there. I did not apply for Vanderbilt's merit scholarships because in the fall, I was under the impression that my dad would be able to pay for most if not all of my tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. \n\nSo at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life.\n\nJust before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life.\n\nSo my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm (18F) dating a guy (26M) who's really great. We've been seeing each other for about a month! We have a lot to talk about, great physical chemistry, etc. The problem is, he talks with a very obvious stereotypically \"gay\" voice. I hate using that term, but it's the only way I can describe it! The way he stresses his words, draws them out, etc is very effeminate. I am fully attracted to him in a picture, or when he's listening to me, but when he starts talking, all I can focus on is that voice. I know he considers himself straight, but am I risking it by taking a chance with him? If it's enough of a turn-off for me, should I break things off now, instead of hoping I can learn to get over it? \n\nI know this is a really superficial question, but a nice deep voice is incredibly attractive to me, so I'm kind of stuck on this. Thanks in advance for your help, reddit!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To give a background of what caused the issue, I will admit that this is 100% my fault. She was a lonely girl who was being picked on by her siblings, and I spent the day with her hanging out/doing fun things (family and friends picnic) that I tried including her with. She acted a little clingy, but I figured it's just because she's a 14 year old girl. \n\nI was way wrong.\n\nSince then she added me on Facebook (and watched me while I confirmed her) then has constantly been sending me messages non-stop. I told her that today I worked from 7-4 so I wouldn't be able to talk to her, and when I got home she had sent me at least 2 messages every hour asking questions like 'So how are you?' and 'Why won't you respond to me? :(' It's driving me mad! My girlfriend (we've been dating for about a year) is OK with it from the personal relationship standpoint, but she told me it is rather annoying because the 14 year old has since added her on Facebook and been sending her messages talking about how 'wonderful and nice of a person Two_Wheeled_Unicycle is. \n\nSo my question to you, maybe people who grew up with female sisters (I only had a brother who is 5 years older than me, I'm 18) how I can softly tell her to leave me alone and stop sending me so many messages. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To give a background of what caused the issue, I will admit that this is 100% my fault. She was a lonely girl who was being picked on by her siblings, and I spent the day with her hanging out/doing fun things (family and friends picnic) that I tried including her with. She acted a little clingy, but I figured it's just because she's a 14 year old girl. \n\nI was way wrong.\n\nSince then she added me on Facebook (and watched me while I confirmed her) then has constantly been sending me messages non-stop. I told her that today I worked from 7-4 so I wouldn't be able to talk to her, and when I got home she had sent me at least 2 messages every hour asking questions like 'So how are you?' and 'Why won't you respond to me? :(' It's driving me mad! My girlfriend (we've been dating for about a year) is OK with it from the personal relationship standpoint, but she told me it is rather annoying because the 14 year old has since added her on Facebook and been sending her messages talking about how 'wonderful and nice of a person Two_Wheeled_Unicycle is. \n\nSo my question to you, maybe people who grew up with female sisters (I only had a brother who is 5 years older than me, I'm 18) how I can softly tell her to leave me alone and stop sending me so many messages. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To give a background of what caused the issue, I will admit that this is 100% my fault. She was a lonely girl who was being picked on by her siblings, and I spent the day with her hanging out/doing fun things (family and friends picnic) that I tried including her with. She acted a little clingy, but I figured it's just because she's a 14 year old girl. \n\nI was way wrong.\n\nSince then she added me on Facebook (and watched me while I confirmed her) then has constantly been sending me messages non-stop. I told her that today I worked from 7-4 so I wouldn't be able to talk to her, and when I got home she had sent me at least 2 messages every hour asking questions like 'So how are you?' and 'Why won't you respond to me? :(' It's driving me mad! My girlfriend (we've been dating for about a year) is OK with it from the personal relationship standpoint, but she told me it is rather annoying because the 14 year old has since added her on Facebook and been sending her messages talking about how 'wonderful and nice of a person Two_Wheeled_Unicycle is. \n\nSo my question to you, maybe people who grew up with female sisters (I only had a brother who is 5 years older than me, I'm 18) how I can softly tell her to leave me alone and stop sending me so many messages. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To give a background of what caused the issue, I will admit that this is 100% my fault. She was a lonely girl who was being picked on by her siblings, and I spent the day with her hanging out/doing fun things (family and friends picnic) that I tried including her with. She acted a little clingy, but I figured it's just because she's a 14 year old girl. \n\nI was way wrong.\n\nSince then she added me on Facebook (and watched me while I confirmed her) then has constantly been sending me messages non-stop. I told her that today I worked from 7-4 so I wouldn't be able to talk to her, and when I got home she had sent me at least 2 messages every hour asking questions like 'So how are you?' and 'Why won't you respond to me? :(' It's driving me mad! My girlfriend (we've been dating for about a year) is OK with it from the personal relationship standpoint, but she told me it is rather annoying because the 14 year old has since added her on Facebook and been sending her messages talking about how 'wonderful and nice of a person Two_Wheeled_Unicycle is. \n\nSo my question to you, maybe people who grew up with female sisters (I only had a brother who is 5 years older than me, I'm 18) how I can softly tell her to leave me alone and stop sending me so many messages. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To give a background of what caused the issue, I will admit that this is 100% my fault. She was a lonely girl who was being picked on by her siblings, and I spent the day with her hanging out/doing fun things (family and friends picnic) that I tried including her with. She acted a little clingy, but I figured it's just because she's a 14 year old girl. \n\nI was way wrong.\n\nSince then she added me on Facebook (and watched me while I confirmed her) then has constantly been sending me messages non-stop. I told her that today I worked from 7-4 so I wouldn't be able to talk to her, and when I got home she had sent me at least 2 messages every hour asking questions like 'So how are you?' and 'Why won't you respond to me? :(' It's driving me mad! My girlfriend (we've been dating for about a year) is OK with it from the personal relationship standpoint, but she told me it is rather annoying because the 14 year old has since added her on Facebook and been sending her messages talking about how 'wonderful and nice of a person Two_Wheeled_Unicycle is. \n\nSo my question to you, maybe people who grew up with female sisters (I only had a brother who is 5 years older than me, I'm 18) how I can softly tell her to leave me alone and stop sending me so many messages. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To give a background of what caused the issue, I will admit that this is 100% my fault. She was a lonely girl who was being picked on by her siblings, and I spent the day with her hanging out/doing fun things (family and friends picnic) that I tried including her with. She acted a little clingy, but I figured it's just because she's a 14 year old girl. \n\nI was way wrong.\n\nSince then she added me on Facebook (and watched me while I confirmed her) then has constantly been sending me messages non-stop. I told her that today I worked from 7-4 so I wouldn't be able to talk to her, and when I got home she had sent me at least 2 messages every hour asking questions like 'So how are you?' and 'Why won't you respond to me? :(' It's driving me mad! My girlfriend (we've been dating for about a year) is OK with it from the personal relationship standpoint, but she told me it is rather annoying because the 14 year old has since added her on Facebook and been sending her messages talking about how 'wonderful and nice of a person Two_Wheeled_Unicycle is. \n\nSo my question to you, maybe people who grew up with female sisters (I only had a brother who is 5 years older than me, I'm 18) how I can softly tell her to leave me alone and stop sending me so many messages. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this all started a couple months ago. I was dating a woman, let's call her Betty. Betty and I got along great and I got to the point where I wanted to start introducing her to my friends. Mainly my best friend, who just happens to be a woman (Sally). Betty and I met my BFF at a bar surrounded by our mutual friends and Sally's bf. After that night, things got weird and Betty thought I was having an affair with Sally. Betty gave me an ultimatum and of course I picked Sally.\n\nFast forward to a date I had a few nights ago. I let this date know that I have a female best friend and she's more like my sister and that there is nothing more there than plutonic friendship. Not to mention, Sally has an awesome boyfriend who is now my roommate. She said that she is not comfortable with a guy that has a female best friend. She said that men and women aren't meant to be best friends. Betty said the same thing. \n\nI'm not willing to give up my best friend as she is family to me. What do I do? Are there women out there that really don't mind a guy having a female best friend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this all started a couple months ago. I was dating a woman, let's call her Betty. Betty and I got along great and I got to the point where I wanted to start introducing her to my friends. Mainly my best friend, who just happens to be a woman (Sally). Betty and I met my BFF at a bar surrounded by our mutual friends and Sally's bf. After that night, things got weird and Betty thought I was having an affair with Sally. Betty gave me an ultimatum and of course I picked Sally.\n\nFast forward to a date I had a few nights ago. I let this date know that I have a female best friend and she's more like my sister and that there is nothing more there than plutonic friendship. Not to mention, Sally has an awesome boyfriend who is now my roommate. She said that she is not comfortable with a guy that has a female best friend. She said that men and women aren't meant to be best friends. Betty said the same thing. \n\nI'm not willing to give up my best friend as she is family to me. What do I do? Are there women out there that really don't mind a guy having a female best friend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this all started a couple months ago. I was dating a woman, let's call her Betty. Betty and I got along great and I got to the point where I wanted to start introducing her to my friends. Mainly my best friend, who just happens to be a woman (Sally). Betty and I met my BFF at a bar surrounded by our mutual friends and Sally's bf. After that night, things got weird and Betty thought I was having an affair with Sally. Betty gave me an ultimatum and of course I picked Sally.\n\nFast forward to a date I had a few nights ago. I let this date know that I have a female best friend and she's more like my sister and that there is nothing more there than plutonic friendship. Not to mention, Sally has an awesome boyfriend who is now my roommate. She said that she is not comfortable with a guy that has a female best friend. She said that men and women aren't meant to be best friends. Betty said the same thing. \n\nI'm not willing to give up my best friend as she is family to me. What do I do? Are there women out there that really don't mind a guy having a female best friend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this all started a couple months ago. I was dating a woman, let's call her Betty. Betty and I got along great and I got to the point where I wanted to start introducing her to my friends. Mainly my best friend, who just happens to be a woman (Sally). Betty and I met my BFF at a bar surrounded by our mutual friends and Sally's bf. After that night, things got weird and Betty thought I was having an affair with Sally. Betty gave me an ultimatum and of course I picked Sally.\n\nFast forward to a date I had a few nights ago. I let this date know that I have a female best friend and she's more like my sister and that there is nothing more there than plutonic friendship. Not to mention, Sally has an awesome boyfriend who is now my roommate. She said that she is not comfortable with a guy that has a female best friend. She said that men and women aren't meant to be best friends. Betty said the same thing. \n\nI'm not willing to give up my best friend as she is family to me. What do I do? Are there women out there that really don't mind a guy having a female best friend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this all started a couple months ago. I was dating a woman, let's call her Betty. Betty and I got along great and I got to the point where I wanted to start introducing her to my friends. Mainly my best friend, who just happens to be a woman (Sally). Betty and I met my BFF at a bar surrounded by our mutual friends and Sally's bf. After that night, things got weird and Betty thought I was having an affair with Sally. Betty gave me an ultimatum and of course I picked Sally.\n\nFast forward to a date I had a few nights ago. I let this date know that I have a female best friend and she's more like my sister and that there is nothing more there than plutonic friendship. Not to mention, Sally has an awesome boyfriend who is now my roommate. She said that she is not comfortable with a guy that has a female best friend. She said that men and women aren't meant to be best friends. Betty said the same thing. \n\nI'm not willing to give up my best friend as she is family to me. What do I do? Are there women out there that really don't mind a guy having a female best friend?"
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