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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am constantly seeing, from what I can only describe, as visual snow. I am aware of the condition of the same name, but I don't share any of the symptoms of it like migraines and such. When I look at things, ESPECIALLY walls, I see the effects of what you would see when you just looked at a camera flash. It is like this constantly. I am not sure if it is getting worse, but I just started noticing it more lately. I think I've had it all my life, but I'm not sure.\n\nI don't even know if it's from using the computer too much, but it seems like the screen from the computer has been burned into my vision, if that's even possible. It doesn't explain how I can go like 24 hours without using the computer and it's still there. \n\nHere's what I ask. Look at a wall and try to get deep into your senses. If this is a normal thing, then you probably ignore it as it is constant, much like you would Tinnitus or your nose being in your vision. Do you see the wall, solid in all of it's color? Or is there some distortion, random colors etc?\n\nIs it eye strain? Should I talk to my doctor? It's hard to describe how it looks visually."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am constantly seeing, from what I can only describe, as visual snow. I am aware of the condition of the same name, but I don't share any of the symptoms of it like migraines and such. When I look at things, ESPECIALLY walls, I see the effects of what you would see when you just looked at a camera flash. It is like this constantly. I am not sure if it is getting worse, but I just started noticing it more lately. I think I've had it all my life, but I'm not sure.\n\nI don't even know if it's from using the computer too much, but it seems like the screen from the computer has been burned into my vision, if that's even possible. It doesn't explain how I can go like 24 hours without using the computer and it's still there. \n\nHere's what I ask. Look at a wall and try to get deep into your senses. If this is a normal thing, then you probably ignore it as it is constant, much like you would Tinnitus or your nose being in your vision. Do you see the wall, solid in all of it's color? Or is there some distortion, random colors etc?\n\nIs it eye strain? Should I talk to my doctor? It's hard to describe how it looks visually."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am constantly seeing, from what I can only describe, as visual snow. I am aware of the condition of the same name, but I don't share any of the symptoms of it like migraines and such. When I look at things, ESPECIALLY walls, I see the effects of what you would see when you just looked at a camera flash. It is like this constantly. I am not sure if it is getting worse, but I just started noticing it more lately. I think I've had it all my life, but I'm not sure.\n\nI don't even know if it's from using the computer too much, but it seems like the screen from the computer has been burned into my vision, if that's even possible. It doesn't explain how I can go like 24 hours without using the computer and it's still there. \n\nHere's what I ask. Look at a wall and try to get deep into your senses. If this is a normal thing, then you probably ignore it as it is constant, much like you would Tinnitus or your nose being in your vision. Do you see the wall, solid in all of it's color? Or is there some distortion, random colors etc?\n\nIs it eye strain? Should I talk to my doctor? It's hard to describe how it looks visually."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am constantly seeing, from what I can only describe, as visual snow. I am aware of the condition of the same name, but I don't share any of the symptoms of it like migraines and such. When I look at things, ESPECIALLY walls, I see the effects of what you would see when you just looked at a camera flash. It is like this constantly. I am not sure if it is getting worse, but I just started noticing it more lately. I think I've had it all my life, but I'm not sure.\n\nI don't even know if it's from using the computer too much, but it seems like the screen from the computer has been burned into my vision, if that's even possible. It doesn't explain how I can go like 24 hours without using the computer and it's still there. \n\nHere's what I ask. Look at a wall and try to get deep into your senses. If this is a normal thing, then you probably ignore it as it is constant, much like you would Tinnitus or your nose being in your vision. Do you see the wall, solid in all of it's color? Or is there some distortion, random colors etc?\n\nIs it eye strain? Should I talk to my doctor? It's hard to describe how it looks visually."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A week ago my live-in GF told me she was unhappy and we ended things amicably at first. We'd been planning on moving across the country in two months and are still trying to make that happen as it's a dream of both of ours and isn't going to happen otherwise. We'd be moving in with two friends which makes things easier. To make matters worse though we're also stuck sharing our tiny apartment until we move, which gives me little room to heal. \n\nThings got ugly a few days ago when I let her know that I'd appreciate it if we could avoid fooling around with new people until after our move. She said she'd try but refused to commit to it. A few days later I learned from coworkers that she'd started going out and sleeping with a guy the night we'd broken up and has been since. It devastated me to learn this, especially when I have to come home to condom wrappers and other evidence of their life together. I confronted her about it and she said it wasn't my business and that she'd moved on. \n\nSo now I'm completely lost on what to do. I'd really like to live with her and make this work, but the fact that I'm still an emotional wreck and she took less than a day to be fine makes me think it's impossible. Especially when she refuses to take my feelings into consideration since we're broken up. Should I give up on my dreams or can make this work?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A week ago my live-in GF told me she was unhappy and we ended things amicably at first. We'd been planning on moving across the country in two months and are still trying to make that happen as it's a dream of both of ours and isn't going to happen otherwise. We'd be moving in with two friends which makes things easier. To make matters worse though we're also stuck sharing our tiny apartment until we move, which gives me little room to heal. \n\nThings got ugly a few days ago when I let her know that I'd appreciate it if we could avoid fooling around with new people until after our move. She said she'd try but refused to commit to it. A few days later I learned from coworkers that she'd started going out and sleeping with a guy the night we'd broken up and has been since. It devastated me to learn this, especially when I have to come home to condom wrappers and other evidence of their life together. I confronted her about it and she said it wasn't my business and that she'd moved on. \n\nSo now I'm completely lost on what to do. I'd really like to live with her and make this work, but the fact that I'm still an emotional wreck and she took less than a day to be fine makes me think it's impossible. Especially when she refuses to take my feelings into consideration since we're broken up. Should I give up on my dreams or can make this work?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A week ago my live-in GF told me she was unhappy and we ended things amicably at first. We'd been planning on moving across the country in two months and are still trying to make that happen as it's a dream of both of ours and isn't going to happen otherwise. We'd be moving in with two friends which makes things easier. To make matters worse though we're also stuck sharing our tiny apartment until we move, which gives me little room to heal. \n\nThings got ugly a few days ago when I let her know that I'd appreciate it if we could avoid fooling around with new people until after our move. She said she'd try but refused to commit to it. A few days later I learned from coworkers that she'd started going out and sleeping with a guy the night we'd broken up and has been since. It devastated me to learn this, especially when I have to come home to condom wrappers and other evidence of their life together. I confronted her about it and she said it wasn't my business and that she'd moved on. \n\nSo now I'm completely lost on what to do. I'd really like to live with her and make this work, but the fact that I'm still an emotional wreck and she took less than a day to be fine makes me think it's impossible. Especially when she refuses to take my feelings into consideration since we're broken up. Should I give up on my dreams or can make this work?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A week ago my live-in GF told me she was unhappy and we ended things amicably at first. We'd been planning on moving across the country in two months and are still trying to make that happen as it's a dream of both of ours and isn't going to happen otherwise. We'd be moving in with two friends which makes things easier. To make matters worse though we're also stuck sharing our tiny apartment until we move, which gives me little room to heal. \n\nThings got ugly a few days ago when I let her know that I'd appreciate it if we could avoid fooling around with new people until after our move. She said she'd try but refused to commit to it. A few days later I learned from coworkers that she'd started going out and sleeping with a guy the night we'd broken up and has been since. It devastated me to learn this, especially when I have to come home to condom wrappers and other evidence of their life together. I confronted her about it and she said it wasn't my business and that she'd moved on. \n\nSo now I'm completely lost on what to do. I'd really like to live with her and make this work, but the fact that I'm still an emotional wreck and she took less than a day to be fine makes me think it's impossible. Especially when she refuses to take my feelings into consideration since we're broken up. Should I give up on my dreams or can make this work?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A week ago my live-in GF told me she was unhappy and we ended things amicably at first. We'd been planning on moving across the country in two months and are still trying to make that happen as it's a dream of both of ours and isn't going to happen otherwise. We'd be moving in with two friends which makes things easier. To make matters worse though we're also stuck sharing our tiny apartment until we move, which gives me little room to heal. \n\nThings got ugly a few days ago when I let her know that I'd appreciate it if we could avoid fooling around with new people until after our move. She said she'd try but refused to commit to it. A few days later I learned from coworkers that she'd started going out and sleeping with a guy the night we'd broken up and has been since. It devastated me to learn this, especially when I have to come home to condom wrappers and other evidence of their life together. I confronted her about it and she said it wasn't my business and that she'd moved on. \n\nSo now I'm completely lost on what to do. I'd really like to live with her and make this work, but the fact that I'm still an emotional wreck and she took less than a day to be fine makes me think it's impossible. Especially when she refuses to take my feelings into consideration since we're broken up. Should I give up on my dreams or can make this work?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A week ago my live-in GF told me she was unhappy and we ended things amicably at first. We'd been planning on moving across the country in two months and are still trying to make that happen as it's a dream of both of ours and isn't going to happen otherwise. We'd be moving in with two friends which makes things easier. To make matters worse though we're also stuck sharing our tiny apartment until we move, which gives me little room to heal. \n\nThings got ugly a few days ago when I let her know that I'd appreciate it if we could avoid fooling around with new people until after our move. She said she'd try but refused to commit to it. A few days later I learned from coworkers that she'd started going out and sleeping with a guy the night we'd broken up and has been since. It devastated me to learn this, especially when I have to come home to condom wrappers and other evidence of their life together. I confronted her about it and she said it wasn't my business and that she'd moved on. \n\nSo now I'm completely lost on what to do. I'd really like to live with her and make this work, but the fact that I'm still an emotional wreck and she took less than a day to be fine makes me think it's impossible. Especially when she refuses to take my feelings into consideration since we're broken up. Should I give up on my dreams or can make this work?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some minor details changed due to my friend being a big redditor as well.\n\nSo he got a job at a Cutco-like company. One of those \"multi-level marketing\" companies where he spends a lot of time trying to sell people something they don't really need (or want for that matter). When he first got this job I was excited because it didn't really seem like a sales job. To help him get some experience, I sat through one of his pitches which is when I really started to feel like something was wrong with this setup. Some further research on /r/personalfinance essentially confirmed this as a popular pyramid type company. \n\nI ultimately, though awkwardly, refused his sales pitch which went over very easily despite additional pressure from his trainer. I figured that was the end of that and we've hung out plenty of times since without it coming up.\n\nUntil recently that is. He just hit me up the other day and asked if we could try another go and maybe he could explain his product better in a one on one session. I said sure with full intent that I won't purchase a thing.\n\nThis is an awkward debacle. I'm 99% sure he isn't trying to screw me over and that he's sipped the kool-aid this company gives to their new recruits and truly believes what's built into their pitch. At this point he's probably getting somewhat desperate to get a sale because no sales = no income.\n\nHow to put a stop to this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some minor details changed due to my friend being a big redditor as well.\n\nSo he got a job at a Cutco-like company. One of those \"multi-level marketing\" companies where he spends a lot of time trying to sell people something they don't really need (or want for that matter). When he first got this job I was excited because it didn't really seem like a sales job. To help him get some experience, I sat through one of his pitches which is when I really started to feel like something was wrong with this setup. Some further research on /r/personalfinance essentially confirmed this as a popular pyramid type company. \n\nI ultimately, though awkwardly, refused his sales pitch which went over very easily despite additional pressure from his trainer. I figured that was the end of that and we've hung out plenty of times since without it coming up.\n\nUntil recently that is. He just hit me up the other day and asked if we could try another go and maybe he could explain his product better in a one on one session. I said sure with full intent that I won't purchase a thing.\n\nThis is an awkward debacle. I'm 99% sure he isn't trying to screw me over and that he's sipped the kool-aid this company gives to their new recruits and truly believes what's built into their pitch. At this point he's probably getting somewhat desperate to get a sale because no sales = no income.\n\nHow to put a stop to this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some minor details changed due to my friend being a big redditor as well.\n\nSo he got a job at a Cutco-like company. One of those \"multi-level marketing\" companies where he spends a lot of time trying to sell people something they don't really need (or want for that matter). When he first got this job I was excited because it didn't really seem like a sales job. To help him get some experience, I sat through one of his pitches which is when I really started to feel like something was wrong with this setup. Some further research on /r/personalfinance essentially confirmed this as a popular pyramid type company. \n\nI ultimately, though awkwardly, refused his sales pitch which went over very easily despite additional pressure from his trainer. I figured that was the end of that and we've hung out plenty of times since without it coming up.\n\nUntil recently that is. He just hit me up the other day and asked if we could try another go and maybe he could explain his product better in a one on one session. I said sure with full intent that I won't purchase a thing.\n\nThis is an awkward debacle. I'm 99% sure he isn't trying to screw me over and that he's sipped the kool-aid this company gives to their new recruits and truly believes what's built into their pitch. At this point he's probably getting somewhat desperate to get a sale because no sales = no income.\n\nHow to put a stop to this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some minor details changed due to my friend being a big redditor as well.\n\nSo he got a job at a Cutco-like company. One of those \"multi-level marketing\" companies where he spends a lot of time trying to sell people something they don't really need (or want for that matter). When he first got this job I was excited because it didn't really seem like a sales job. To help him get some experience, I sat through one of his pitches which is when I really started to feel like something was wrong with this setup. Some further research on /r/personalfinance essentially confirmed this as a popular pyramid type company. \n\nI ultimately, though awkwardly, refused his sales pitch which went over very easily despite additional pressure from his trainer. I figured that was the end of that and we've hung out plenty of times since without it coming up.\n\nUntil recently that is. He just hit me up the other day and asked if we could try another go and maybe he could explain his product better in a one on one session. I said sure with full intent that I won't purchase a thing.\n\nThis is an awkward debacle. I'm 99% sure he isn't trying to screw me over and that he's sipped the kool-aid this company gives to their new recruits and truly believes what's built into their pitch. At this point he's probably getting somewhat desperate to get a sale because no sales = no income.\n\nHow to put a stop to this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some minor details changed due to my friend being a big redditor as well.\n\nSo he got a job at a Cutco-like company. One of those \"multi-level marketing\" companies where he spends a lot of time trying to sell people something they don't really need (or want for that matter). When he first got this job I was excited because it didn't really seem like a sales job. To help him get some experience, I sat through one of his pitches which is when I really started to feel like something was wrong with this setup. Some further research on /r/personalfinance essentially confirmed this as a popular pyramid type company. \n\nI ultimately, though awkwardly, refused his sales pitch which went over very easily despite additional pressure from his trainer. I figured that was the end of that and we've hung out plenty of times since without it coming up.\n\nUntil recently that is. He just hit me up the other day and asked if we could try another go and maybe he could explain his product better in a one on one session. I said sure with full intent that I won't purchase a thing.\n\nThis is an awkward debacle. I'm 99% sure he isn't trying to screw me over and that he's sipped the kool-aid this company gives to their new recruits and truly believes what's built into their pitch. At this point he's probably getting somewhat desperate to get a sale because no sales = no income.\n\nHow to put a stop to this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some minor details changed due to my friend being a big redditor as well.\n\nSo he got a job at a Cutco-like company. One of those \"multi-level marketing\" companies where he spends a lot of time trying to sell people something they don't really need (or want for that matter). When he first got this job I was excited because it didn't really seem like a sales job. To help him get some experience, I sat through one of his pitches which is when I really started to feel like something was wrong with this setup. Some further research on /r/personalfinance essentially confirmed this as a popular pyramid type company. \n\nI ultimately, though awkwardly, refused his sales pitch which went over very easily despite additional pressure from his trainer. I figured that was the end of that and we've hung out plenty of times since without it coming up.\n\nUntil recently that is. He just hit me up the other day and asked if we could try another go and maybe he could explain his product better in a one on one session. I said sure with full intent that I won't purchase a thing.\n\nThis is an awkward debacle. I'm 99% sure he isn't trying to screw me over and that he's sipped the kool-aid this company gives to their new recruits and truly believes what's built into their pitch. At this point he's probably getting somewhat desperate to get a sale because no sales = no income.\n\nHow to put a stop to this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have two things working against me: I'm an over planner and this is my first relationship. Boyfriend and I have been apart for 5 months and will be for another 2. As it gets closer to the day we reunite, I've been getting more and more worried. We're moving in together and I have no idea how to conduct myself on the day I see him and thereafter. Right now I'm planning to stay distant with physical affection, light kisses on the cheek unless he asks for more. Sometimes I think about tackling him in a big hug and making out with him for hours. Sometimes I worry I'm just going to burst into tears because of all the mixed feelings.\n\nI have no idea what sort of relationship we'll have when we reunite. We don't Skype much, we mostly text and while he's affectionate, he only mentions missing our \"cuddle time\", nothing further. So I haven't said anything 'sexy' to him either, since I don't want to scare him off. \n\nI'm wondering if the best course of action is to keep my distance to prove I can be strong and independent. I've cried a lot because I miss him, and he knows that. But I don't want to overwhelm him with happiness. Maybe he'll be more attracted if I'm cool and aloof? I don't know men at all, evidently. Help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have two things working against me: I'm an over planner and this is my first relationship. Boyfriend and I have been apart for 5 months and will be for another 2. As it gets closer to the day we reunite, I've been getting more and more worried. We're moving in together and I have no idea how to conduct myself on the day I see him and thereafter. Right now I'm planning to stay distant with physical affection, light kisses on the cheek unless he asks for more. Sometimes I think about tackling him in a big hug and making out with him for hours. Sometimes I worry I'm just going to burst into tears because of all the mixed feelings.\n\nI have no idea what sort of relationship we'll have when we reunite. We don't Skype much, we mostly text and while he's affectionate, he only mentions missing our \"cuddle time\", nothing further. So I haven't said anything 'sexy' to him either, since I don't want to scare him off. \n\nI'm wondering if the best course of action is to keep my distance to prove I can be strong and independent. I've cried a lot because I miss him, and he knows that. But I don't want to overwhelm him with happiness. Maybe he'll be more attracted if I'm cool and aloof? I don't know men at all, evidently. Help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have two things working against me: I'm an over planner and this is my first relationship. Boyfriend and I have been apart for 5 months and will be for another 2. As it gets closer to the day we reunite, I've been getting more and more worried. We're moving in together and I have no idea how to conduct myself on the day I see him and thereafter. Right now I'm planning to stay distant with physical affection, light kisses on the cheek unless he asks for more. Sometimes I think about tackling him in a big hug and making out with him for hours. Sometimes I worry I'm just going to burst into tears because of all the mixed feelings.\n\nI have no idea what sort of relationship we'll have when we reunite. We don't Skype much, we mostly text and while he's affectionate, he only mentions missing our \"cuddle time\", nothing further. So I haven't said anything 'sexy' to him either, since I don't want to scare him off. \n\nI'm wondering if the best course of action is to keep my distance to prove I can be strong and independent. I've cried a lot because I miss him, and he knows that. But I don't want to overwhelm him with happiness. Maybe he'll be more attracted if I'm cool and aloof? I don't know men at all, evidently. Help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have two things working against me: I'm an over planner and this is my first relationship. Boyfriend and I have been apart for 5 months and will be for another 2. As it gets closer to the day we reunite, I've been getting more and more worried. We're moving in together and I have no idea how to conduct myself on the day I see him and thereafter. Right now I'm planning to stay distant with physical affection, light kisses on the cheek unless he asks for more. Sometimes I think about tackling him in a big hug and making out with him for hours. Sometimes I worry I'm just going to burst into tears because of all the mixed feelings.\n\nI have no idea what sort of relationship we'll have when we reunite. We don't Skype much, we mostly text and while he's affectionate, he only mentions missing our \"cuddle time\", nothing further. So I haven't said anything 'sexy' to him either, since I don't want to scare him off. \n\nI'm wondering if the best course of action is to keep my distance to prove I can be strong and independent. I've cried a lot because I miss him, and he knows that. But I don't want to overwhelm him with happiness. Maybe he'll be more attracted if I'm cool and aloof? I don't know men at all, evidently. Help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have two things working against me: I'm an over planner and this is my first relationship. Boyfriend and I have been apart for 5 months and will be for another 2. As it gets closer to the day we reunite, I've been getting more and more worried. We're moving in together and I have no idea how to conduct myself on the day I see him and thereafter. Right now I'm planning to stay distant with physical affection, light kisses on the cheek unless he asks for more. Sometimes I think about tackling him in a big hug and making out with him for hours. Sometimes I worry I'm just going to burst into tears because of all the mixed feelings.\n\nI have no idea what sort of relationship we'll have when we reunite. We don't Skype much, we mostly text and while he's affectionate, he only mentions missing our \"cuddle time\", nothing further. So I haven't said anything 'sexy' to him either, since I don't want to scare him off. \n\nI'm wondering if the best course of action is to keep my distance to prove I can be strong and independent. I've cried a lot because I miss him, and he knows that. But I don't want to overwhelm him with happiness. Maybe he'll be more attracted if I'm cool and aloof? I don't know men at all, evidently. Help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have two things working against me: I'm an over planner and this is my first relationship. Boyfriend and I have been apart for 5 months and will be for another 2. As it gets closer to the day we reunite, I've been getting more and more worried. We're moving in together and I have no idea how to conduct myself on the day I see him and thereafter. Right now I'm planning to stay distant with physical affection, light kisses on the cheek unless he asks for more. Sometimes I think about tackling him in a big hug and making out with him for hours. Sometimes I worry I'm just going to burst into tears because of all the mixed feelings.\n\nI have no idea what sort of relationship we'll have when we reunite. We don't Skype much, we mostly text and while he's affectionate, he only mentions missing our \"cuddle time\", nothing further. So I haven't said anything 'sexy' to him either, since I don't want to scare him off. \n\nI'm wondering if the best course of action is to keep my distance to prove I can be strong and independent. I've cried a lot because I miss him, and he knows that. But I don't want to overwhelm him with happiness. Maybe he'll be more attracted if I'm cool and aloof? I don't know men at all, evidently. Help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this is going to be rather long, sorry in advance but its a bit more complex.\n\nSo my brother in law used to lived with us and somewhere down the line developed a drinking habbit. He is ona bunch of phyc meds and knows he shouldnt mix the 2 but does anyway. We confronted him on it and helped him get back to normal through a guilt trip.\n\nfast forward a few years and he no longer lives with us. He is slightly depressed and hits the bottle again. I find out from another sister in law who he lives with. \n\nHe streams online a lot but has lost track of reality a bit and thinks noone in the real world cares about him and the fake friends online are his real friends. (he doesn't even know these people's real names/addresses or anything) I still ask how \"enter streamer name\" has been doing and he gets excited. He loves talking about games and the like but I fear he will shut out everyone who actually loves him and then be truly alone when these \"friends\" move on.\nHe has social problems, anxiety problems and now drinking again.\n\nI don't think the guilt trip will work again and I dunno how to help him but his health and mental well being is spiraling out of control. \n\nHis parents are worthless. His sister is a pre-madona who cannot help. His other sister(my wife) is busy with our newborn 90% of the time. I offer help but he doesn't take it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this is going to be rather long, sorry in advance but its a bit more complex.\n\nSo my brother in law used to lived with us and somewhere down the line developed a drinking habbit. He is ona bunch of phyc meds and knows he shouldnt mix the 2 but does anyway. We confronted him on it and helped him get back to normal through a guilt trip.\n\nfast forward a few years and he no longer lives with us. He is slightly depressed and hits the bottle again. I find out from another sister in law who he lives with. \n\nHe streams online a lot but has lost track of reality a bit and thinks noone in the real world cares about him and the fake friends online are his real friends. (he doesn't even know these people's real names/addresses or anything) I still ask how \"enter streamer name\" has been doing and he gets excited. He loves talking about games and the like but I fear he will shut out everyone who actually loves him and then be truly alone when these \"friends\" move on.\nHe has social problems, anxiety problems and now drinking again.\n\nI don't think the guilt trip will work again and I dunno how to help him but his health and mental well being is spiraling out of control. \n\nHis parents are worthless. His sister is a pre-madona who cannot help. His other sister(my wife) is busy with our newborn 90% of the time. I offer help but he doesn't take it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this is going to be rather long, sorry in advance but its a bit more complex.\n\nSo my brother in law used to lived with us and somewhere down the line developed a drinking habbit. He is ona bunch of phyc meds and knows he shouldnt mix the 2 but does anyway. We confronted him on it and helped him get back to normal through a guilt trip.\n\nfast forward a few years and he no longer lives with us. He is slightly depressed and hits the bottle again. I find out from another sister in law who he lives with. \n\nHe streams online a lot but has lost track of reality a bit and thinks noone in the real world cares about him and the fake friends online are his real friends. (he doesn't even know these people's real names/addresses or anything) I still ask how \"enter streamer name\" has been doing and he gets excited. He loves talking about games and the like but I fear he will shut out everyone who actually loves him and then be truly alone when these \"friends\" move on.\nHe has social problems, anxiety problems and now drinking again.\n\nI don't think the guilt trip will work again and I dunno how to help him but his health and mental well being is spiraling out of control. \n\nHis parents are worthless. His sister is a pre-madona who cannot help. His other sister(my wife) is busy with our newborn 90% of the time. I offer help but he doesn't take it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this is going to be rather long, sorry in advance but its a bit more complex.\n\nSo my brother in law used to lived with us and somewhere down the line developed a drinking habbit. He is ona bunch of phyc meds and knows he shouldnt mix the 2 but does anyway. We confronted him on it and helped him get back to normal through a guilt trip.\n\nfast forward a few years and he no longer lives with us. He is slightly depressed and hits the bottle again. I find out from another sister in law who he lives with. \n\nHe streams online a lot but has lost track of reality a bit and thinks noone in the real world cares about him and the fake friends online are his real friends. (he doesn't even know these people's real names/addresses or anything) I still ask how \"enter streamer name\" has been doing and he gets excited. He loves talking about games and the like but I fear he will shut out everyone who actually loves him and then be truly alone when these \"friends\" move on.\nHe has social problems, anxiety problems and now drinking again.\n\nI don't think the guilt trip will work again and I dunno how to help him but his health and mental well being is spiraling out of control. \n\nHis parents are worthless. His sister is a pre-madona who cannot help. His other sister(my wife) is busy with our newborn 90% of the time. I offer help but he doesn't take it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this is going to be rather long, sorry in advance but its a bit more complex.\n\nSo my brother in law used to lived with us and somewhere down the line developed a drinking habbit. He is ona bunch of phyc meds and knows he shouldnt mix the 2 but does anyway. We confronted him on it and helped him get back to normal through a guilt trip.\n\nfast forward a few years and he no longer lives with us. He is slightly depressed and hits the bottle again. I find out from another sister in law who he lives with. \n\nHe streams online a lot but has lost track of reality a bit and thinks noone in the real world cares about him and the fake friends online are his real friends. (he doesn't even know these people's real names/addresses or anything) I still ask how \"enter streamer name\" has been doing and he gets excited. He loves talking about games and the like but I fear he will shut out everyone who actually loves him and then be truly alone when these \"friends\" move on.\nHe has social problems, anxiety problems and now drinking again.\n\nI don't think the guilt trip will work again and I dunno how to help him but his health and mental well being is spiraling out of control. \n\nHis parents are worthless. His sister is a pre-madona who cannot help. His other sister(my wife) is busy with our newborn 90% of the time. I offer help but he doesn't take it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, new here. I broke up with my first gf about 4 months ago, and although at the time it was mutual, but I later found out that she had been cheating on me since pretty much day one. Needless to say, she really wasn't the girl I thought she was.\n \nShortly (about a month) afterwards, I fell for another girl, and we started talking. Ik for a fact we both liked each other. Recently, last Monday, she told me we could still be friends, but she had no intent to date me anymore. I was going to ask her out the next day.\n\nAll this too say, what do I do? I feel like no girl will ever live me for me, and ill be single forever. I get out a lot, but I dont make friends easily. I hang out with my few close friends (and my crush was and still is one)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, new here. I broke up with my first gf about 4 months ago, and although at the time it was mutual, but I later found out that she had been cheating on me since pretty much day one. Needless to say, she really wasn't the girl I thought she was.\n \nShortly (about a month) afterwards, I fell for another girl, and we started talking. Ik for a fact we both liked each other. Recently, last Monday, she told me we could still be friends, but she had no intent to date me anymore. I was going to ask her out the next day.\n\nAll this too say, what do I do? I feel like no girl will ever live me for me, and ill be single forever. I get out a lot, but I dont make friends easily. I hang out with my few close friends (and my crush was and still is one)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, new here. I broke up with my first gf about 4 months ago, and although at the time it was mutual, but I later found out that she had been cheating on me since pretty much day one. Needless to say, she really wasn't the girl I thought she was.\n \nShortly (about a month) afterwards, I fell for another girl, and we started talking. Ik for a fact we both liked each other. Recently, last Monday, she told me we could still be friends, but she had no intent to date me anymore. I was going to ask her out the next day.\n\nAll this too say, what do I do? I feel like no girl will ever live me for me, and ill be single forever. I get out a lot, but I dont make friends easily. I hang out with my few close friends (and my crush was and still is one)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, new here. I broke up with my first gf about 4 months ago, and although at the time it was mutual, but I later found out that she had been cheating on me since pretty much day one. Needless to say, she really wasn't the girl I thought she was.\n \nShortly (about a month) afterwards, I fell for another girl, and we started talking. Ik for a fact we both liked each other. Recently, last Monday, she told me we could still be friends, but she had no intent to date me anymore. I was going to ask her out the next day.\n\nAll this too say, what do I do? I feel like no girl will ever live me for me, and ill be single forever. I get out a lot, but I dont make friends easily. I hang out with my few close friends (and my crush was and still is one)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, new here. I broke up with my first gf about 4 months ago, and although at the time it was mutual, but I later found out that she had been cheating on me since pretty much day one. Needless to say, she really wasn't the girl I thought she was.\n \nShortly (about a month) afterwards, I fell for another girl, and we started talking. Ik for a fact we both liked each other. Recently, last Monday, she told me we could still be friends, but she had no intent to date me anymore. I was going to ask her out the next day.\n\nAll this too say, what do I do? I feel like no girl will ever live me for me, and ill be single forever. I get out a lot, but I dont make friends easily. I hang out with my few close friends (and my crush was and still is one)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, new here. I broke up with my first gf about 4 months ago, and although at the time it was mutual, but I later found out that she had been cheating on me since pretty much day one. Needless to say, she really wasn't the girl I thought she was.\n \nShortly (about a month) afterwards, I fell for another girl, and we started talking. Ik for a fact we both liked each other. Recently, last Monday, she told me we could still be friends, but she had no intent to date me anymore. I was going to ask her out the next day.\n\nAll this too say, what do I do? I feel like no girl will ever live me for me, and ill be single forever. I get out a lot, but I dont make friends easily. I hang out with my few close friends (and my crush was and still is one)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my girlfriend(19F) for 6 months now. She is the best girl that I could ever imagine and we have a very strong relationship. I love her a lot, for sure. We study at the same university and are both in engineering fields. So here's the problem:\n\nI have recently had a few extremely vivid dreams in which I have been placed in questionable/awkward situations. \n\nAn example of a dream: I dreamed that I had met up with a girl that I knew and she was pushing me to cheat on my girlfriend. I didn't give in, but eventually snapped and hit this girl. \n\nAnother dream: Random girl I had met in the dream pushed me to cheat, and I gave in. \n\nIn both dreams, I felt incredibly guilty both throughout the experience and when I woke up. I haven't told my girlfriend about them, nor do I really intend to tell her, because I don't think I should worry her unnecessarily. \n\nI'll add, she is extremely supportive of my dreams and is really an incredible woman. I couldn't ask for a better girlfriend. The only issue that I really have with our relationship is our fairly infrequent sex-life, which we have talked about. We have matched sex-drives, but our incredibly busy schedules don't lend themselves well to sex - much less have a room alone.\n\nSo, am I just having normal dreams or am I maybe missing something else?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my girlfriend(19F) for 6 months now. She is the best girl that I could ever imagine and we have a very strong relationship. I love her a lot, for sure. We study at the same university and are both in engineering fields. So here's the problem:\n\nI have recently had a few extremely vivid dreams in which I have been placed in questionable/awkward situations. \n\nAn example of a dream: I dreamed that I had met up with a girl that I knew and she was pushing me to cheat on my girlfriend. I didn't give in, but eventually snapped and hit this girl. \n\nAnother dream: Random girl I had met in the dream pushed me to cheat, and I gave in. \n\nIn both dreams, I felt incredibly guilty both throughout the experience and when I woke up. I haven't told my girlfriend about them, nor do I really intend to tell her, because I don't think I should worry her unnecessarily. \n\nI'll add, she is extremely supportive of my dreams and is really an incredible woman. I couldn't ask for a better girlfriend. The only issue that I really have with our relationship is our fairly infrequent sex-life, which we have talked about. We have matched sex-drives, but our incredibly busy schedules don't lend themselves well to sex - much less have a room alone.\n\nSo, am I just having normal dreams or am I maybe missing something else?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my girlfriend(19F) for 6 months now. She is the best girl that I could ever imagine and we have a very strong relationship. I love her a lot, for sure. We study at the same university and are both in engineering fields. So here's the problem:\n\nI have recently had a few extremely vivid dreams in which I have been placed in questionable/awkward situations. \n\nAn example of a dream: I dreamed that I had met up with a girl that I knew and she was pushing me to cheat on my girlfriend. I didn't give in, but eventually snapped and hit this girl. \n\nAnother dream: Random girl I had met in the dream pushed me to cheat, and I gave in. \n\nIn both dreams, I felt incredibly guilty both throughout the experience and when I woke up. I haven't told my girlfriend about them, nor do I really intend to tell her, because I don't think I should worry her unnecessarily. \n\nI'll add, she is extremely supportive of my dreams and is really an incredible woman. I couldn't ask for a better girlfriend. The only issue that I really have with our relationship is our fairly infrequent sex-life, which we have talked about. We have matched sex-drives, but our incredibly busy schedules don't lend themselves well to sex - much less have a room alone.\n\nSo, am I just having normal dreams or am I maybe missing something else?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my girlfriend(19F) for 6 months now. She is the best girl that I could ever imagine and we have a very strong relationship. I love her a lot, for sure. We study at the same university and are both in engineering fields. So here's the problem:\n\nI have recently had a few extremely vivid dreams in which I have been placed in questionable/awkward situations. \n\nAn example of a dream: I dreamed that I had met up with a girl that I knew and she was pushing me to cheat on my girlfriend. I didn't give in, but eventually snapped and hit this girl. \n\nAnother dream: Random girl I had met in the dream pushed me to cheat, and I gave in. \n\nIn both dreams, I felt incredibly guilty both throughout the experience and when I woke up. I haven't told my girlfriend about them, nor do I really intend to tell her, because I don't think I should worry her unnecessarily. \n\nI'll add, she is extremely supportive of my dreams and is really an incredible woman. I couldn't ask for a better girlfriend. The only issue that I really have with our relationship is our fairly infrequent sex-life, which we have talked about. We have matched sex-drives, but our incredibly busy schedules don't lend themselves well to sex - much less have a room alone.\n\nSo, am I just having normal dreams or am I maybe missing something else?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my girlfriend(19F) for 6 months now. She is the best girl that I could ever imagine and we have a very strong relationship. I love her a lot, for sure. We study at the same university and are both in engineering fields. So here's the problem:\n\nI have recently had a few extremely vivid dreams in which I have been placed in questionable/awkward situations. \n\nAn example of a dream: I dreamed that I had met up with a girl that I knew and she was pushing me to cheat on my girlfriend. I didn't give in, but eventually snapped and hit this girl. \n\nAnother dream: Random girl I had met in the dream pushed me to cheat, and I gave in. \n\nIn both dreams, I felt incredibly guilty both throughout the experience and when I woke up. I haven't told my girlfriend about them, nor do I really intend to tell her, because I don't think I should worry her unnecessarily. \n\nI'll add, she is extremely supportive of my dreams and is really an incredible woman. I couldn't ask for a better girlfriend. The only issue that I really have with our relationship is our fairly infrequent sex-life, which we have talked about. We have matched sex-drives, but our incredibly busy schedules don't lend themselves well to sex - much less have a room alone.\n\nSo, am I just having normal dreams or am I maybe missing something else?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my girlfriend(19F) for 6 months now. She is the best girl that I could ever imagine and we have a very strong relationship. I love her a lot, for sure. We study at the same university and are both in engineering fields. So here's the problem:\n\nI have recently had a few extremely vivid dreams in which I have been placed in questionable/awkward situations. \n\nAn example of a dream: I dreamed that I had met up with a girl that I knew and she was pushing me to cheat on my girlfriend. I didn't give in, but eventually snapped and hit this girl. \n\nAnother dream: Random girl I had met in the dream pushed me to cheat, and I gave in. \n\nIn both dreams, I felt incredibly guilty both throughout the experience and when I woke up. I haven't told my girlfriend about them, nor do I really intend to tell her, because I don't think I should worry her unnecessarily. \n\nI'll add, she is extremely supportive of my dreams and is really an incredible woman. I couldn't ask for a better girlfriend. The only issue that I really have with our relationship is our fairly infrequent sex-life, which we have talked about. We have matched sex-drives, but our incredibly busy schedules don't lend themselves well to sex - much less have a room alone.\n\nSo, am I just having normal dreams or am I maybe missing something else?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together about 5 months and things are going really well. I do see her in my future and she has told me the same thing. She is my first serious girlfriend, but she has been in several long-term relationships that have ended badly for her. She is very caring and in those relationships, she's put everything she had into them (maybe too much at times) to end up with her heart broken. She has told me all about this, so I have been doing my best to show her that she doesn't have to worry about that this time. \n\nNow, with all that in the back of her mind, she get's really down on herself easily. As a couple of examples, she and I played on a coed beer league volleyball team that was actually really good. I was definitely the worst guy and she was the worst girl so we were right there together. But, after every game, she would be in such a funk about thinking she screwed so many things up, that the rest of the night would be dedicated to trying to cheer her up. Then last night at my family's Passover seder, everyone at the table takes turns reading passages (the English ones). When her turn came, she got stuck with a relatively long passage. She says she has mild dyslexia which is then heightened when she's nervous. This was her first seder ever and she met about 20 new people, so needless to say, she was really nervous. I will admit, she did have some difficulty reading, but these were all close family/friends who could not have cared less. Unfortunately, this put her into another funk that took the rest of dinner to calm. \n\nBasically, since this is my first serious relationship and want to do nothing but make her happy, I'm trying everything I can to help her see that she truly is an amazing person and deserves happiness, but her own mind seems to be preventing this. What advice could you give to help me help her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together about 5 months and things are going really well. I do see her in my future and she has told me the same thing. She is my first serious girlfriend, but she has been in several long-term relationships that have ended badly for her. She is very caring and in those relationships, she's put everything she had into them (maybe too much at times) to end up with her heart broken. She has told me all about this, so I have been doing my best to show her that she doesn't have to worry about that this time. \n\nNow, with all that in the back of her mind, she get's really down on herself easily. As a couple of examples, she and I played on a coed beer league volleyball team that was actually really good. I was definitely the worst guy and she was the worst girl so we were right there together. But, after every game, she would be in such a funk about thinking she screwed so many things up, that the rest of the night would be dedicated to trying to cheer her up. Then last night at my family's Passover seder, everyone at the table takes turns reading passages (the English ones). When her turn came, she got stuck with a relatively long passage. She says she has mild dyslexia which is then heightened when she's nervous. This was her first seder ever and she met about 20 new people, so needless to say, she was really nervous. I will admit, she did have some difficulty reading, but these were all close family/friends who could not have cared less. Unfortunately, this put her into another funk that took the rest of dinner to calm. \n\nBasically, since this is my first serious relationship and want to do nothing but make her happy, I'm trying everything I can to help her see that she truly is an amazing person and deserves happiness, but her own mind seems to be preventing this. What advice could you give to help me help her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together about 5 months and things are going really well. I do see her in my future and she has told me the same thing. She is my first serious girlfriend, but she has been in several long-term relationships that have ended badly for her. She is very caring and in those relationships, she's put everything she had into them (maybe too much at times) to end up with her heart broken. She has told me all about this, so I have been doing my best to show her that she doesn't have to worry about that this time. \n\nNow, with all that in the back of her mind, she get's really down on herself easily. As a couple of examples, she and I played on a coed beer league volleyball team that was actually really good. I was definitely the worst guy and she was the worst girl so we were right there together. But, after every game, she would be in such a funk about thinking she screwed so many things up, that the rest of the night would be dedicated to trying to cheer her up. Then last night at my family's Passover seder, everyone at the table takes turns reading passages (the English ones). When her turn came, she got stuck with a relatively long passage. She says she has mild dyslexia which is then heightened when she's nervous. This was her first seder ever and she met about 20 new people, so needless to say, she was really nervous. I will admit, she did have some difficulty reading, but these were all close family/friends who could not have cared less. Unfortunately, this put her into another funk that took the rest of dinner to calm. \n\nBasically, since this is my first serious relationship and want to do nothing but make her happy, I'm trying everything I can to help her see that she truly is an amazing person and deserves happiness, but her own mind seems to be preventing this. What advice could you give to help me help her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together about 5 months and things are going really well. I do see her in my future and she has told me the same thing. She is my first serious girlfriend, but she has been in several long-term relationships that have ended badly for her. She is very caring and in those relationships, she's put everything she had into them (maybe too much at times) to end up with her heart broken. She has told me all about this, so I have been doing my best to show her that she doesn't have to worry about that this time. \n\nNow, with all that in the back of her mind, she get's really down on herself easily. As a couple of examples, she and I played on a coed beer league volleyball team that was actually really good. I was definitely the worst guy and she was the worst girl so we were right there together. But, after every game, she would be in such a funk about thinking she screwed so many things up, that the rest of the night would be dedicated to trying to cheer her up. Then last night at my family's Passover seder, everyone at the table takes turns reading passages (the English ones). When her turn came, she got stuck with a relatively long passage. She says she has mild dyslexia which is then heightened when she's nervous. This was her first seder ever and she met about 20 new people, so needless to say, she was really nervous. I will admit, she did have some difficulty reading, but these were all close family/friends who could not have cared less. Unfortunately, this put her into another funk that took the rest of dinner to calm. \n\nBasically, since this is my first serious relationship and want to do nothing but make her happy, I'm trying everything I can to help her see that she truly is an amazing person and deserves happiness, but her own mind seems to be preventing this. What advice could you give to help me help her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together about 5 months and things are going really well. I do see her in my future and she has told me the same thing. She is my first serious girlfriend, but she has been in several long-term relationships that have ended badly for her. She is very caring and in those relationships, she's put everything she had into them (maybe too much at times) to end up with her heart broken. She has told me all about this, so I have been doing my best to show her that she doesn't have to worry about that this time. \n\nNow, with all that in the back of her mind, she get's really down on herself easily. As a couple of examples, she and I played on a coed beer league volleyball team that was actually really good. I was definitely the worst guy and she was the worst girl so we were right there together. But, after every game, she would be in such a funk about thinking she screwed so many things up, that the rest of the night would be dedicated to trying to cheer her up. Then last night at my family's Passover seder, everyone at the table takes turns reading passages (the English ones). When her turn came, she got stuck with a relatively long passage. She says she has mild dyslexia which is then heightened when she's nervous. This was her first seder ever and she met about 20 new people, so needless to say, she was really nervous. I will admit, she did have some difficulty reading, but these were all close family/friends who could not have cared less. Unfortunately, this put her into another funk that took the rest of dinner to calm. \n\nBasically, since this is my first serious relationship and want to do nothing but make her happy, I'm trying everything I can to help her see that she truly is an amazing person and deserves happiness, but her own mind seems to be preventing this. What advice could you give to help me help her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together about 5 months and things are going really well. I do see her in my future and she has told me the same thing. She is my first serious girlfriend, but she has been in several long-term relationships that have ended badly for her. She is very caring and in those relationships, she's put everything she had into them (maybe too much at times) to end up with her heart broken. She has told me all about this, so I have been doing my best to show her that she doesn't have to worry about that this time. \n\nNow, with all that in the back of her mind, she get's really down on herself easily. As a couple of examples, she and I played on a coed beer league volleyball team that was actually really good. I was definitely the worst guy and she was the worst girl so we were right there together. But, after every game, she would be in such a funk about thinking she screwed so many things up, that the rest of the night would be dedicated to trying to cheer her up. Then last night at my family's Passover seder, everyone at the table takes turns reading passages (the English ones). When her turn came, she got stuck with a relatively long passage. She says she has mild dyslexia which is then heightened when she's nervous. This was her first seder ever and she met about 20 new people, so needless to say, she was really nervous. I will admit, she did have some difficulty reading, but these were all close family/friends who could not have cared less. Unfortunately, this put her into another funk that took the rest of dinner to calm. \n\nBasically, since this is my first serious relationship and want to do nothing but make her happy, I'm trying everything I can to help her see that she truly is an amazing person and deserves happiness, but her own mind seems to be preventing this. What advice could you give to help me help her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the situation: I bought a home recently that has central gas heat. When it started getting cold, we realized we couldn't figure out how to light it. I thought I just didn't know what I was doing, but when I called a local contractor to come take a look at it, he couldn't light it either. He replaced a part(thermocouple) he said was bad, but it still wouldn't work. He said the pilot was staying lit now, but the furnace itself wouldn't light(something like that, I don't know much about heaters).\n\nSo he goes off to find this second part he claims I need. Nearly a month and a half go by with the only communication being between my mom and his secretary (they have a business relationship). They said they were still looking for a part. I could believe this as it is an older mobile home and parts for them can be damn hard to find. We were still freezing our asses off in the mean-time, however.\n\nWell, eventually we get hit by a tornado. Among the damage it did, it fucked up a gas line nearby, so they shut off the main. When they cut it back on, an employee of the gas company came by to light pilot lights. When my roommate told him the heater was broken and under repairs, he still offered to take a look at it. Despite this second part still being searched for by the repair guy I hired, the gas company guy lit the heater and turned it on and its been running perfectly since. I got a bill over winter break(again, through my mother) and was charged for the new thermocouple and for \"diagnostic\".\n\nTheir diagnosis was obviously wrong since it works without the second part, and now I'm questioning whether I even needed a new thermocouple to begin with. Am I required to pay them the full bill amount? What do you think would be a reasonable settlement? I'm a new home owner and don't really know what's reasonable to expect from this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the situation: I bought a home recently that has central gas heat. When it started getting cold, we realized we couldn't figure out how to light it. I thought I just didn't know what I was doing, but when I called a local contractor to come take a look at it, he couldn't light it either. He replaced a part(thermocouple) he said was bad, but it still wouldn't work. He said the pilot was staying lit now, but the furnace itself wouldn't light(something like that, I don't know much about heaters).\n\nSo he goes off to find this second part he claims I need. Nearly a month and a half go by with the only communication being between my mom and his secretary (they have a business relationship). They said they were still looking for a part. I could believe this as it is an older mobile home and parts for them can be damn hard to find. We were still freezing our asses off in the mean-time, however.\n\nWell, eventually we get hit by a tornado. Among the damage it did, it fucked up a gas line nearby, so they shut off the main. When they cut it back on, an employee of the gas company came by to light pilot lights. When my roommate told him the heater was broken and under repairs, he still offered to take a look at it. Despite this second part still being searched for by the repair guy I hired, the gas company guy lit the heater and turned it on and its been running perfectly since. I got a bill over winter break(again, through my mother) and was charged for the new thermocouple and for \"diagnostic\".\n\nTheir diagnosis was obviously wrong since it works without the second part, and now I'm questioning whether I even needed a new thermocouple to begin with. Am I required to pay them the full bill amount? What do you think would be a reasonable settlement? I'm a new home owner and don't really know what's reasonable to expect from this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the situation: I bought a home recently that has central gas heat. When it started getting cold, we realized we couldn't figure out how to light it. I thought I just didn't know what I was doing, but when I called a local contractor to come take a look at it, he couldn't light it either. He replaced a part(thermocouple) he said was bad, but it still wouldn't work. He said the pilot was staying lit now, but the furnace itself wouldn't light(something like that, I don't know much about heaters).\n\nSo he goes off to find this second part he claims I need. Nearly a month and a half go by with the only communication being between my mom and his secretary (they have a business relationship). They said they were still looking for a part. I could believe this as it is an older mobile home and parts for them can be damn hard to find. We were still freezing our asses off in the mean-time, however.\n\nWell, eventually we get hit by a tornado. Among the damage it did, it fucked up a gas line nearby, so they shut off the main. When they cut it back on, an employee of the gas company came by to light pilot lights. When my roommate told him the heater was broken and under repairs, he still offered to take a look at it. Despite this second part still being searched for by the repair guy I hired, the gas company guy lit the heater and turned it on and its been running perfectly since. I got a bill over winter break(again, through my mother) and was charged for the new thermocouple and for \"diagnostic\".\n\nTheir diagnosis was obviously wrong since it works without the second part, and now I'm questioning whether I even needed a new thermocouple to begin with. Am I required to pay them the full bill amount? What do you think would be a reasonable settlement? I'm a new home owner and don't really know what's reasonable to expect from this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I wasn't quite sure where to put this, as I don't consider it particularly serious, so I put it here. Apologies if this is the wrong subreddit.\n\nAbout 2 and a half years ago, I managed to pass out in a sex education class when contraception was being discussed. In the following 2 weeks, I passed out in every class (Only one class a week, but that's not really the point). Pregnancy and words to describe different levels of sexual activity (e.g promiscuous) were discussed in those classes.\n\nMy parents took me to the doctors to see why this was happening and it was narrowed down to lack of sleep and a lack of oxygen reaching the brain when those subjects were being discussed around me (I have no idea as to why that was the case). At the time I believed it, as I frequently went to bed at late times before school. I ended up having to take a bottle of water into each lesson and perform a breathing technique each time I felt light-headed. While this helped, I later realised that the doctor may not have been entirely correct, as I will explain in the next paragraph.\nI have also experienced fainting with HIV/AIDS discussion (which was the first time I passed out) and a few minutes after getting an injection. I had gone to bed early (around 9pm) the night before the day of the injection, ate breakfast and still passed out. I also feel light-headed whenever I think of someone cutting themselves, particular in the wrist area.\n\nIt has baffled me ever since I passed out for the first time. Does anybody have any possible ideas as to why this may be happening?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I wasn't quite sure where to put this, as I don't consider it particularly serious, so I put it here. Apologies if this is the wrong subreddit.\n\nAbout 2 and a half years ago, I managed to pass out in a sex education class when contraception was being discussed. In the following 2 weeks, I passed out in every class (Only one class a week, but that's not really the point). Pregnancy and words to describe different levels of sexual activity (e.g promiscuous) were discussed in those classes.\n\nMy parents took me to the doctors to see why this was happening and it was narrowed down to lack of sleep and a lack of oxygen reaching the brain when those subjects were being discussed around me (I have no idea as to why that was the case). At the time I believed it, as I frequently went to bed at late times before school. I ended up having to take a bottle of water into each lesson and perform a breathing technique each time I felt light-headed. While this helped, I later realised that the doctor may not have been entirely correct, as I will explain in the next paragraph.\nI have also experienced fainting with HIV/AIDS discussion (which was the first time I passed out) and a few minutes after getting an injection. I had gone to bed early (around 9pm) the night before the day of the injection, ate breakfast and still passed out. I also feel light-headed whenever I think of someone cutting themselves, particular in the wrist area.\n\nIt has baffled me ever since I passed out for the first time. Does anybody have any possible ideas as to why this may be happening?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I wasn't quite sure where to put this, as I don't consider it particularly serious, so I put it here. Apologies if this is the wrong subreddit.\n\nAbout 2 and a half years ago, I managed to pass out in a sex education class when contraception was being discussed. In the following 2 weeks, I passed out in every class (Only one class a week, but that's not really the point). Pregnancy and words to describe different levels of sexual activity (e.g promiscuous) were discussed in those classes.\n\nMy parents took me to the doctors to see why this was happening and it was narrowed down to lack of sleep and a lack of oxygen reaching the brain when those subjects were being discussed around me (I have no idea as to why that was the case). At the time I believed it, as I frequently went to bed at late times before school. I ended up having to take a bottle of water into each lesson and perform a breathing technique each time I felt light-headed. While this helped, I later realised that the doctor may not have been entirely correct, as I will explain in the next paragraph.\nI have also experienced fainting with HIV/AIDS discussion (which was the first time I passed out) and a few minutes after getting an injection. I had gone to bed early (around 9pm) the night before the day of the injection, ate breakfast and still passed out. I also feel light-headed whenever I think of someone cutting themselves, particular in the wrist area.\n\nIt has baffled me ever since I passed out for the first time. Does anybody have any possible ideas as to why this may be happening?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I wasn't quite sure where to put this, as I don't consider it particularly serious, so I put it here. Apologies if this is the wrong subreddit.\n\nAbout 2 and a half years ago, I managed to pass out in a sex education class when contraception was being discussed. In the following 2 weeks, I passed out in every class (Only one class a week, but that's not really the point). Pregnancy and words to describe different levels of sexual activity (e.g promiscuous) were discussed in those classes.\n\nMy parents took me to the doctors to see why this was happening and it was narrowed down to lack of sleep and a lack of oxygen reaching the brain when those subjects were being discussed around me (I have no idea as to why that was the case). At the time I believed it, as I frequently went to bed at late times before school. I ended up having to take a bottle of water into each lesson and perform a breathing technique each time I felt light-headed. While this helped, I later realised that the doctor may not have been entirely correct, as I will explain in the next paragraph.\nI have also experienced fainting with HIV/AIDS discussion (which was the first time I passed out) and a few minutes after getting an injection. I had gone to bed early (around 9pm) the night before the day of the injection, ate breakfast and still passed out. I also feel light-headed whenever I think of someone cutting themselves, particular in the wrist area.\n\nIt has baffled me ever since I passed out for the first time. Does anybody have any possible ideas as to why this may be happening?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I wasn't quite sure where to put this, as I don't consider it particularly serious, so I put it here. Apologies if this is the wrong subreddit.\n\nAbout 2 and a half years ago, I managed to pass out in a sex education class when contraception was being discussed. In the following 2 weeks, I passed out in every class (Only one class a week, but that's not really the point). Pregnancy and words to describe different levels of sexual activity (e.g promiscuous) were discussed in those classes.\n\nMy parents took me to the doctors to see why this was happening and it was narrowed down to lack of sleep and a lack of oxygen reaching the brain when those subjects were being discussed around me (I have no idea as to why that was the case). At the time I believed it, as I frequently went to bed at late times before school. I ended up having to take a bottle of water into each lesson and perform a breathing technique each time I felt light-headed. While this helped, I later realised that the doctor may not have been entirely correct, as I will explain in the next paragraph.\nI have also experienced fainting with HIV/AIDS discussion (which was the first time I passed out) and a few minutes after getting an injection. I had gone to bed early (around 9pm) the night before the day of the injection, ate breakfast and still passed out. I also feel light-headed whenever I think of someone cutting themselves, particular in the wrist area.\n\nIt has baffled me ever since I passed out for the first time. Does anybody have any possible ideas as to why this may be happening?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I wasn't quite sure where to put this, as I don't consider it particularly serious, so I put it here. Apologies if this is the wrong subreddit.\n\nAbout 2 and a half years ago, I managed to pass out in a sex education class when contraception was being discussed. In the following 2 weeks, I passed out in every class (Only one class a week, but that's not really the point). Pregnancy and words to describe different levels of sexual activity (e.g promiscuous) were discussed in those classes.\n\nMy parents took me to the doctors to see why this was happening and it was narrowed down to lack of sleep and a lack of oxygen reaching the brain when those subjects were being discussed around me (I have no idea as to why that was the case). At the time I believed it, as I frequently went to bed at late times before school. I ended up having to take a bottle of water into each lesson and perform a breathing technique each time I felt light-headed. While this helped, I later realised that the doctor may not have been entirely correct, as I will explain in the next paragraph.\nI have also experienced fainting with HIV/AIDS discussion (which was the first time I passed out) and a few minutes after getting an injection. I had gone to bed early (around 9pm) the night before the day of the injection, ate breakfast and still passed out. I also feel light-headed whenever I think of someone cutting themselves, particular in the wrist area.\n\nIt has baffled me ever since I passed out for the first time. Does anybody have any possible ideas as to why this may be happening?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my boyfriend had been going out no longer than 6 months when he was due to go away for a few weeks volunteering in Tanzania building a school. I had never felt the way I felt about him towards anybody and the day he went away I got all melodramatic and cried my eyes out. But just before he left he gave me a blank photo album with a post it note on it which read 'keep your eyes peeled'. First night went, I moped about at work and dreaded going home to an empty house. When I got home there was an envelope addressed to me. Inside was 3 pictures of me and him, notes with captions to go with each and a jigsaw piece with a letter on. I recieved one of these everyday whilst he was gone and ended up with a full album full of photos and notes from him. We are still together now and I consider myself the luckiest girl ever."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my boyfriend had been going out no longer than 6 months when he was due to go away for a few weeks volunteering in Tanzania building a school. I had never felt the way I felt about him towards anybody and the day he went away I got all melodramatic and cried my eyes out. But just before he left he gave me a blank photo album with a post it note on it which read 'keep your eyes peeled'. First night went, I moped about at work and dreaded going home to an empty house. When I got home there was an envelope addressed to me. Inside was 3 pictures of me and him, notes with captions to go with each and a jigsaw piece with a letter on. I recieved one of these everyday whilst he was gone and ended up with a full album full of photos and notes from him. We are still together now and I consider myself the luckiest girl ever."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my boyfriend had been going out no longer than 6 months when he was due to go away for a few weeks volunteering in Tanzania building a school. I had never felt the way I felt about him towards anybody and the day he went away I got all melodramatic and cried my eyes out. But just before he left he gave me a blank photo album with a post it note on it which read 'keep your eyes peeled'. First night went, I moped about at work and dreaded going home to an empty house. When I got home there was an envelope addressed to me. Inside was 3 pictures of me and him, notes with captions to go with each and a jigsaw piece with a letter on. I recieved one of these everyday whilst he was gone and ended up with a full album full of photos and notes from him. We are still together now and I consider myself the luckiest girl ever."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my boyfriend had been going out no longer than 6 months when he was due to go away for a few weeks volunteering in Tanzania building a school. I had never felt the way I felt about him towards anybody and the day he went away I got all melodramatic and cried my eyes out. But just before he left he gave me a blank photo album with a post it note on it which read 'keep your eyes peeled'. First night went, I moped about at work and dreaded going home to an empty house. When I got home there was an envelope addressed to me. Inside was 3 pictures of me and him, notes with captions to go with each and a jigsaw piece with a letter on. I recieved one of these everyday whilst he was gone and ended up with a full album full of photos and notes from him. We are still together now and I consider myself the luckiest girl ever."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my boyfriend had been going out no longer than 6 months when he was due to go away for a few weeks volunteering in Tanzania building a school. I had never felt the way I felt about him towards anybody and the day he went away I got all melodramatic and cried my eyes out. But just before he left he gave me a blank photo album with a post it note on it which read 'keep your eyes peeled'. First night went, I moped about at work and dreaded going home to an empty house. When I got home there was an envelope addressed to me. Inside was 3 pictures of me and him, notes with captions to go with each and a jigsaw piece with a letter on. I recieved one of these everyday whilst he was gone and ended up with a full album full of photos and notes from him. We are still together now and I consider myself the luckiest girl ever."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my boyfriend had been going out no longer than 6 months when he was due to go away for a few weeks volunteering in Tanzania building a school. I had never felt the way I felt about him towards anybody and the day he went away I got all melodramatic and cried my eyes out. But just before he left he gave me a blank photo album with a post it note on it which read 'keep your eyes peeled'. First night went, I moped about at work and dreaded going home to an empty house. When I got home there was an envelope addressed to me. Inside was 3 pictures of me and him, notes with captions to go with each and a jigsaw piece with a letter on. I recieved one of these everyday whilst he was gone and ended up with a full album full of photos and notes from him. We are still together now and I consider myself the luckiest girl ever."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are friends that have gone out a few times and text frequently and see each other a few times a week at college. In January, she said she doesn't want a boyfriend. Since then she invited me out to watch Deadpool when it came out and now to a ball. She said she wants me to be her date (Yes, she used the word date). So I'm thinking maybe she changed her mind? I feel like it would be so unromantic to ask her if I have the potential to be more. I really like her though and just don't want to lose her at all. Should I even bother? I'm just so unsure and I hate feeling unsure.\n\nShe also said she didn't want to dance with other guys that ask her to dance and that's why she wanted me. I feel maybe she wanted an excuse to make it easier to ask, but I mean it is confusing because maybe instead of wanting me, she just doesn't want the other guys to bug her? Ughh"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are friends that have gone out a few times and text frequently and see each other a few times a week at college. In January, she said she doesn't want a boyfriend. Since then she invited me out to watch Deadpool when it came out and now to a ball. She said she wants me to be her date (Yes, she used the word date). So I'm thinking maybe she changed her mind? I feel like it would be so unromantic to ask her if I have the potential to be more. I really like her though and just don't want to lose her at all. Should I even bother? I'm just so unsure and I hate feeling unsure.\n\nShe also said she didn't want to dance with other guys that ask her to dance and that's why she wanted me. I feel maybe she wanted an excuse to make it easier to ask, but I mean it is confusing because maybe instead of wanting me, she just doesn't want the other guys to bug her? Ughh"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are friends that have gone out a few times and text frequently and see each other a few times a week at college. In January, she said she doesn't want a boyfriend. Since then she invited me out to watch Deadpool when it came out and now to a ball. She said she wants me to be her date (Yes, she used the word date). So I'm thinking maybe she changed her mind? I feel like it would be so unromantic to ask her if I have the potential to be more. I really like her though and just don't want to lose her at all. Should I even bother? I'm just so unsure and I hate feeling unsure.\n\nShe also said she didn't want to dance with other guys that ask her to dance and that's why she wanted me. I feel maybe she wanted an excuse to make it easier to ask, but I mean it is confusing because maybe instead of wanting me, she just doesn't want the other guys to bug her? Ughh"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are friends that have gone out a few times and text frequently and see each other a few times a week at college. In January, she said she doesn't want a boyfriend. Since then she invited me out to watch Deadpool when it came out and now to a ball. She said she wants me to be her date (Yes, she used the word date). So I'm thinking maybe she changed her mind? I feel like it would be so unromantic to ask her if I have the potential to be more. I really like her though and just don't want to lose her at all. Should I even bother? I'm just so unsure and I hate feeling unsure.\n\nShe also said she didn't want to dance with other guys that ask her to dance and that's why she wanted me. I feel maybe she wanted an excuse to make it easier to ask, but I mean it is confusing because maybe instead of wanting me, she just doesn't want the other guys to bug her? Ughh"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are friends that have gone out a few times and text frequently and see each other a few times a week at college. In January, she said she doesn't want a boyfriend. Since then she invited me out to watch Deadpool when it came out and now to a ball. She said she wants me to be her date (Yes, she used the word date). So I'm thinking maybe she changed her mind? I feel like it would be so unromantic to ask her if I have the potential to be more. I really like her though and just don't want to lose her at all. Should I even bother? I'm just so unsure and I hate feeling unsure.\n\nShe also said she didn't want to dance with other guys that ask her to dance and that's why she wanted me. I feel maybe she wanted an excuse to make it easier to ask, but I mean it is confusing because maybe instead of wanting me, she just doesn't want the other guys to bug her? Ughh"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are friends that have gone out a few times and text frequently and see each other a few times a week at college. In January, she said she doesn't want a boyfriend. Since then she invited me out to watch Deadpool when it came out and now to a ball. She said she wants me to be her date (Yes, she used the word date). So I'm thinking maybe she changed her mind? I feel like it would be so unromantic to ask her if I have the potential to be more. I really like her though and just don't want to lose her at all. Should I even bother? I'm just so unsure and I hate feeling unsure.\n\nShe also said she didn't want to dance with other guys that ask her to dance and that's why she wanted me. I feel maybe she wanted an excuse to make it easier to ask, but I mean it is confusing because maybe instead of wanting me, she just doesn't want the other guys to bug her? Ughh"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I didn't meet the guidelines for r/AskWomen, so I'm gonna try again here!\n\nThis may seem like a weird or really specific question, but I've always felt really uncomfortable at the thought of people having sex in a nearby room, and I was wondering if this is an uncommon feeling or not. If they are having sex, I'd really, really like not to know about it - knowing that people are having/had sex close by to me makes me feel like I'm invading their privacy and weirdly disrespected, even if I can't hear or see anything. It's irrational, I know, and when I know that people are having sex in an adjacent room, I move myself and don't make a fuss. The situation is made even odder by the fact that I myself have had sex knowing that people were in a room right beside mine (this also made me feel uncomfortable after the fact).\nI ask specifically because currently, I'm in a living situation in which my roommate has to walk through my room to get out to the hallway from her room, and where the walls are quite thin. When I told my roommate that I'd like her to tell me before her boyfriend comes over so that I can leave my room and go somewhere else. She was surprised that they I would want to leave my room even if I couldn't hear them, because after all, it's technically a different room. I also feel pretty uncomfortable hearing their private discussions, which are very audible through the walls."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I didn't meet the guidelines for r/AskWomen, so I'm gonna try again here!\n\nThis may seem like a weird or really specific question, but I've always felt really uncomfortable at the thought of people having sex in a nearby room, and I was wondering if this is an uncommon feeling or not. If they are having sex, I'd really, really like not to know about it - knowing that people are having/had sex close by to me makes me feel like I'm invading their privacy and weirdly disrespected, even if I can't hear or see anything. It's irrational, I know, and when I know that people are having sex in an adjacent room, I move myself and don't make a fuss. The situation is made even odder by the fact that I myself have had sex knowing that people were in a room right beside mine (this also made me feel uncomfortable after the fact).\nI ask specifically because currently, I'm in a living situation in which my roommate has to walk through my room to get out to the hallway from her room, and where the walls are quite thin. When I told my roommate that I'd like her to tell me before her boyfriend comes over so that I can leave my room and go somewhere else. She was surprised that they I would want to leave my room even if I couldn't hear them, because after all, it's technically a different room. I also feel pretty uncomfortable hearing their private discussions, which are very audible through the walls."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I didn't meet the guidelines for r/AskWomen, so I'm gonna try again here!\n\nThis may seem like a weird or really specific question, but I've always felt really uncomfortable at the thought of people having sex in a nearby room, and I was wondering if this is an uncommon feeling or not. If they are having sex, I'd really, really like not to know about it - knowing that people are having/had sex close by to me makes me feel like I'm invading their privacy and weirdly disrespected, even if I can't hear or see anything. It's irrational, I know, and when I know that people are having sex in an adjacent room, I move myself and don't make a fuss. The situation is made even odder by the fact that I myself have had sex knowing that people were in a room right beside mine (this also made me feel uncomfortable after the fact).\nI ask specifically because currently, I'm in a living situation in which my roommate has to walk through my room to get out to the hallway from her room, and where the walls are quite thin. When I told my roommate that I'd like her to tell me before her boyfriend comes over so that I can leave my room and go somewhere else. She was surprised that they I would want to leave my room even if I couldn't hear them, because after all, it's technically a different room. I also feel pretty uncomfortable hearing their private discussions, which are very audible through the walls."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I didn't meet the guidelines for r/AskWomen, so I'm gonna try again here!\n\nThis may seem like a weird or really specific question, but I've always felt really uncomfortable at the thought of people having sex in a nearby room, and I was wondering if this is an uncommon feeling or not. If they are having sex, I'd really, really like not to know about it - knowing that people are having/had sex close by to me makes me feel like I'm invading their privacy and weirdly disrespected, even if I can't hear or see anything. It's irrational, I know, and when I know that people are having sex in an adjacent room, I move myself and don't make a fuss. The situation is made even odder by the fact that I myself have had sex knowing that people were in a room right beside mine (this also made me feel uncomfortable after the fact).\nI ask specifically because currently, I'm in a living situation in which my roommate has to walk through my room to get out to the hallway from her room, and where the walls are quite thin. When I told my roommate that I'd like her to tell me before her boyfriend comes over so that I can leave my room and go somewhere else. She was surprised that they I would want to leave my room even if I couldn't hear them, because after all, it's technically a different room. I also feel pretty uncomfortable hearing their private discussions, which are very audible through the walls."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I didn't meet the guidelines for r/AskWomen, so I'm gonna try again here!\n\nThis may seem like a weird or really specific question, but I've always felt really uncomfortable at the thought of people having sex in a nearby room, and I was wondering if this is an uncommon feeling or not. If they are having sex, I'd really, really like not to know about it - knowing that people are having/had sex close by to me makes me feel like I'm invading their privacy and weirdly disrespected, even if I can't hear or see anything. It's irrational, I know, and when I know that people are having sex in an adjacent room, I move myself and don't make a fuss. The situation is made even odder by the fact that I myself have had sex knowing that people were in a room right beside mine (this also made me feel uncomfortable after the fact).\nI ask specifically because currently, I'm in a living situation in which my roommate has to walk through my room to get out to the hallway from her room, and where the walls are quite thin. When I told my roommate that I'd like her to tell me before her boyfriend comes over so that I can leave my room and go somewhere else. She was surprised that they I would want to leave my room even if I couldn't hear them, because after all, it's technically a different room. I also feel pretty uncomfortable hearing their private discussions, which are very audible through the walls."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I didn't meet the guidelines for r/AskWomen, so I'm gonna try again here!\n\nThis may seem like a weird or really specific question, but I've always felt really uncomfortable at the thought of people having sex in a nearby room, and I was wondering if this is an uncommon feeling or not. If they are having sex, I'd really, really like not to know about it - knowing that people are having/had sex close by to me makes me feel like I'm invading their privacy and weirdly disrespected, even if I can't hear or see anything. It's irrational, I know, and when I know that people are having sex in an adjacent room, I move myself and don't make a fuss. The situation is made even odder by the fact that I myself have had sex knowing that people were in a room right beside mine (this also made me feel uncomfortable after the fact).\nI ask specifically because currently, I'm in a living situation in which my roommate has to walk through my room to get out to the hallway from her room, and where the walls are quite thin. When I told my roommate that I'd like her to tell me before her boyfriend comes over so that I can leave my room and go somewhere else. She was surprised that they I would want to leave my room even if I couldn't hear them, because after all, it's technically a different room. I also feel pretty uncomfortable hearing their private discussions, which are very audible through the walls."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I was with this girl for some time (4 months in 2 days). Over the summer I've been visiting with my grandparents in Alaska and she's been with her cousins in Mexico. We talked to each other for the first few weeks but then she lost all wifi connection for about a week. Today, she got her wifi back and when I tried talking to her, she only gave 1 to 2 word responses, which is very unlike her. Then after I pushed to know what was wrong, she said the feeling wasn't there anymore.\n\nAfter that, some words were said and she said she still wants to be friends. More words were said and I asked if she could ever see us together again, to which she responded with \"I don't know what will happen, but I still like talking to you and your a really funny, nice person, but right now I just don't think the feeling is there anymore.\"\n\nMy first reaction is that it might be because we haven't seen each other in a while and the few times we talked were short due to the time zone difference. My second reaction is that maybe there could be a way to salvage it once we get back to our homes in California and start being able to see each other in person.\n\nBasically what I'm asking is where do I go from here? She says the feeling is gone but I think its there still and I want to be able to bring it back."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I was with this girl for some time (4 months in 2 days). Over the summer I've been visiting with my grandparents in Alaska and she's been with her cousins in Mexico. We talked to each other for the first few weeks but then she lost all wifi connection for about a week. Today, she got her wifi back and when I tried talking to her, she only gave 1 to 2 word responses, which is very unlike her. Then after I pushed to know what was wrong, she said the feeling wasn't there anymore.\n\nAfter that, some words were said and she said she still wants to be friends. More words were said and I asked if she could ever see us together again, to which she responded with \"I don't know what will happen, but I still like talking to you and your a really funny, nice person, but right now I just don't think the feeling is there anymore.\"\n\nMy first reaction is that it might be because we haven't seen each other in a while and the few times we talked were short due to the time zone difference. My second reaction is that maybe there could be a way to salvage it once we get back to our homes in California and start being able to see each other in person.\n\nBasically what I'm asking is where do I go from here? She says the feeling is gone but I think its there still and I want to be able to bring it back."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I was with this girl for some time (4 months in 2 days). Over the summer I've been visiting with my grandparents in Alaska and she's been with her cousins in Mexico. We talked to each other for the first few weeks but then she lost all wifi connection for about a week. Today, she got her wifi back and when I tried talking to her, she only gave 1 to 2 word responses, which is very unlike her. Then after I pushed to know what was wrong, she said the feeling wasn't there anymore.\n\nAfter that, some words were said and she said she still wants to be friends. More words were said and I asked if she could ever see us together again, to which she responded with \"I don't know what will happen, but I still like talking to you and your a really funny, nice person, but right now I just don't think the feeling is there anymore.\"\n\nMy first reaction is that it might be because we haven't seen each other in a while and the few times we talked were short due to the time zone difference. My second reaction is that maybe there could be a way to salvage it once we get back to our homes in California and start being able to see each other in person.\n\nBasically what I'm asking is where do I go from here? She says the feeling is gone but I think its there still and I want to be able to bring it back."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I was with this girl for some time (4 months in 2 days). Over the summer I've been visiting with my grandparents in Alaska and she's been with her cousins in Mexico. We talked to each other for the first few weeks but then she lost all wifi connection for about a week. Today, she got her wifi back and when I tried talking to her, she only gave 1 to 2 word responses, which is very unlike her. Then after I pushed to know what was wrong, she said the feeling wasn't there anymore.\n\nAfter that, some words were said and she said she still wants to be friends. More words were said and I asked if she could ever see us together again, to which she responded with \"I don't know what will happen, but I still like talking to you and your a really funny, nice person, but right now I just don't think the feeling is there anymore.\"\n\nMy first reaction is that it might be because we haven't seen each other in a while and the few times we talked were short due to the time zone difference. My second reaction is that maybe there could be a way to salvage it once we get back to our homes in California and start being able to see each other in person.\n\nBasically what I'm asking is where do I go from here? She says the feeling is gone but I think its there still and I want to be able to bring it back."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I was with this girl for some time (4 months in 2 days). Over the summer I've been visiting with my grandparents in Alaska and she's been with her cousins in Mexico. We talked to each other for the first few weeks but then she lost all wifi connection for about a week. Today, she got her wifi back and when I tried talking to her, she only gave 1 to 2 word responses, which is very unlike her. Then after I pushed to know what was wrong, she said the feeling wasn't there anymore.\n\nAfter that, some words were said and she said she still wants to be friends. More words were said and I asked if she could ever see us together again, to which she responded with \"I don't know what will happen, but I still like talking to you and your a really funny, nice person, but right now I just don't think the feeling is there anymore.\"\n\nMy first reaction is that it might be because we haven't seen each other in a while and the few times we talked were short due to the time zone difference. My second reaction is that maybe there could be a way to salvage it once we get back to our homes in California and start being able to see each other in person.\n\nBasically what I'm asking is where do I go from here? She says the feeling is gone but I think its there still and I want to be able to bring it back."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I was with this girl for some time (4 months in 2 days). Over the summer I've been visiting with my grandparents in Alaska and she's been with her cousins in Mexico. We talked to each other for the first few weeks but then she lost all wifi connection for about a week. Today, she got her wifi back and when I tried talking to her, she only gave 1 to 2 word responses, which is very unlike her. Then after I pushed to know what was wrong, she said the feeling wasn't there anymore.\n\nAfter that, some words were said and she said she still wants to be friends. More words were said and I asked if she could ever see us together again, to which she responded with \"I don't know what will happen, but I still like talking to you and your a really funny, nice person, but right now I just don't think the feeling is there anymore.\"\n\nMy first reaction is that it might be because we haven't seen each other in a while and the few times we talked were short due to the time zone difference. My second reaction is that maybe there could be a way to salvage it once we get back to our homes in California and start being able to see each other in person.\n\nBasically what I'm asking is where do I go from here? She says the feeling is gone but I think its there still and I want to be able to bring it back."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Unfortunately, I didn't get a razor in a candied apple, no. I fell off a roof.\n\nMy then boyfriend and I climbed up a chain link fence to get to the top of a 15ft tall building that was (of course) guarded by a chain link fence. We thought it would be fun to go \"mess around\" up there. We did, and spent a few hours talking and laughing. And then we had to get down.\n\nOur first thought was to jump back *on* to the fence and climb back down, but it was too far away (we were able to jump onto the roof on the way up because we were a little higher than it was). Anyway, he was able to jump down onto the grass fine, but I was a little scared. So I sat down with my legs hanging to lessen my fall as much as possible. Tomas said, \"Don't worry, \"I'll catch you, I promise!\"\n\nYEAH RIGHT!\n\nI landed on both feet in the grass and got a compound fracture in my back that never healed properly, and severely sprained both my ankles (they're fine now). Spent Halloween in the ER.\n\nBut we dated for a whole year after that.\n\nTonight make my 10th year anniversary of chronic, excruciating back pain :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Unfortunately, I didn't get a razor in a candied apple, no. I fell off a roof.\n\nMy then boyfriend and I climbed up a chain link fence to get to the top of a 15ft tall building that was (of course) guarded by a chain link fence. We thought it would be fun to go \"mess around\" up there. We did, and spent a few hours talking and laughing. And then we had to get down.\n\nOur first thought was to jump back *on* to the fence and climb back down, but it was too far away (we were able to jump onto the roof on the way up because we were a little higher than it was). Anyway, he was able to jump down onto the grass fine, but I was a little scared. So I sat down with my legs hanging to lessen my fall as much as possible. Tomas said, \"Don't worry, \"I'll catch you, I promise!\"\n\nYEAH RIGHT!\n\nI landed on both feet in the grass and got a compound fracture in my back that never healed properly, and severely sprained both my ankles (they're fine now). Spent Halloween in the ER.\n\nBut we dated for a whole year after that.\n\nTonight make my 10th year anniversary of chronic, excruciating back pain :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Unfortunately, I didn't get a razor in a candied apple, no. I fell off a roof.\n\nMy then boyfriend and I climbed up a chain link fence to get to the top of a 15ft tall building that was (of course) guarded by a chain link fence. We thought it would be fun to go \"mess around\" up there. We did, and spent a few hours talking and laughing. And then we had to get down.\n\nOur first thought was to jump back *on* to the fence and climb back down, but it was too far away (we were able to jump onto the roof on the way up because we were a little higher than it was). Anyway, he was able to jump down onto the grass fine, but I was a little scared. So I sat down with my legs hanging to lessen my fall as much as possible. Tomas said, \"Don't worry, \"I'll catch you, I promise!\"\n\nYEAH RIGHT!\n\nI landed on both feet in the grass and got a compound fracture in my back that never healed properly, and severely sprained both my ankles (they're fine now). Spent Halloween in the ER.\n\nBut we dated for a whole year after that.\n\nTonight make my 10th year anniversary of chronic, excruciating back pain :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Unfortunately, I didn't get a razor in a candied apple, no. I fell off a roof.\n\nMy then boyfriend and I climbed up a chain link fence to get to the top of a 15ft tall building that was (of course) guarded by a chain link fence. We thought it would be fun to go \"mess around\" up there. We did, and spent a few hours talking and laughing. And then we had to get down.\n\nOur first thought was to jump back *on* to the fence and climb back down, but it was too far away (we were able to jump onto the roof on the way up because we were a little higher than it was). Anyway, he was able to jump down onto the grass fine, but I was a little scared. So I sat down with my legs hanging to lessen my fall as much as possible. Tomas said, \"Don't worry, \"I'll catch you, I promise!\"\n\nYEAH RIGHT!\n\nI landed on both feet in the grass and got a compound fracture in my back that never healed properly, and severely sprained both my ankles (they're fine now). Spent Halloween in the ER.\n\nBut we dated for a whole year after that.\n\nTonight make my 10th year anniversary of chronic, excruciating back pain :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Unfortunately, I didn't get a razor in a candied apple, no. I fell off a roof.\n\nMy then boyfriend and I climbed up a chain link fence to get to the top of a 15ft tall building that was (of course) guarded by a chain link fence. We thought it would be fun to go \"mess around\" up there. We did, and spent a few hours talking and laughing. And then we had to get down.\n\nOur first thought was to jump back *on* to the fence and climb back down, but it was too far away (we were able to jump onto the roof on the way up because we were a little higher than it was). Anyway, he was able to jump down onto the grass fine, but I was a little scared. So I sat down with my legs hanging to lessen my fall as much as possible. Tomas said, \"Don't worry, \"I'll catch you, I promise!\"\n\nYEAH RIGHT!\n\nI landed on both feet in the grass and got a compound fracture in my back that never healed properly, and severely sprained both my ankles (they're fine now). Spent Halloween in the ER.\n\nBut we dated for a whole year after that.\n\nTonight make my 10th year anniversary of chronic, excruciating back pain :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Unfortunately, I didn't get a razor in a candied apple, no. I fell off a roof.\n\nMy then boyfriend and I climbed up a chain link fence to get to the top of a 15ft tall building that was (of course) guarded by a chain link fence. We thought it would be fun to go \"mess around\" up there. We did, and spent a few hours talking and laughing. And then we had to get down.\n\nOur first thought was to jump back *on* to the fence and climb back down, but it was too far away (we were able to jump onto the roof on the way up because we were a little higher than it was). Anyway, he was able to jump down onto the grass fine, but I was a little scared. So I sat down with my legs hanging to lessen my fall as much as possible. Tomas said, \"Don't worry, \"I'll catch you, I promise!\"\n\nYEAH RIGHT!\n\nI landed on both feet in the grass and got a compound fracture in my back that never healed properly, and severely sprained both my ankles (they're fine now). Spent Halloween in the ER.\n\nBut we dated for a whole year after that.\n\nTonight make my 10th year anniversary of chronic, excruciating back pain :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so for starters, obviously using a temporary account as my boyfriend also reads reddit.\nWe have been together for 10, almost 11 months and I am well and truly in love. I'm really happy with him and he has gotten me through some really tough problems. Blah blah blah, we're a great couple and I have no plans of leaving him any time soon.\nHowever, recently I have been struggling with a lot of my own problems and a lot of stress and usually I sort of rely on my bf to help me cope. Unfortunately his living circumstances mean that he can't always be there for me like he used to and so I've spent the last few weeks struggling on my own.\nI'm beginning to think I need to rid myself of my reliance on him as understandably it puts a lot of pressure on him and I'm pretty much losing my independence and ability to cheer myself up.\nI need to get my head straight and figure things out and I need to do this on my own. I don't want to leave my bf but I don't want to find myself giving up and falling back onto him again. \nSo should I suggest a \"break\"?\nNot like a 'eh I'm bored and I wanna fuck someone else for a bit' kinda break. That's what I assume all breaks are like. And that's what every break I've seen couples have ends up like.\nAnd I never thought I, myself, would end up considering one of these mysterious things and I have previously discussed with him the stupidity of which we think of breaks.\nSo I guess what I'm really asking is a) is it fair of me to pretty much temporarily put the relationship on hold until I get my head together? b) is that really selfish? Because he will get really upset and offended if I do go through with this. And c) what are your thoughts on breaks in relationships?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so for starters, obviously using a temporary account as my boyfriend also reads reddit.\nWe have been together for 10, almost 11 months and I am well and truly in love. I'm really happy with him and he has gotten me through some really tough problems. Blah blah blah, we're a great couple and I have no plans of leaving him any time soon.\nHowever, recently I have been struggling with a lot of my own problems and a lot of stress and usually I sort of rely on my bf to help me cope. Unfortunately his living circumstances mean that he can't always be there for me like he used to and so I've spent the last few weeks struggling on my own.\nI'm beginning to think I need to rid myself of my reliance on him as understandably it puts a lot of pressure on him and I'm pretty much losing my independence and ability to cheer myself up.\nI need to get my head straight and figure things out and I need to do this on my own. I don't want to leave my bf but I don't want to find myself giving up and falling back onto him again. \nSo should I suggest a \"break\"?\nNot like a 'eh I'm bored and I wanna fuck someone else for a bit' kinda break. That's what I assume all breaks are like. And that's what every break I've seen couples have ends up like.\nAnd I never thought I, myself, would end up considering one of these mysterious things and I have previously discussed with him the stupidity of which we think of breaks.\nSo I guess what I'm really asking is a) is it fair of me to pretty much temporarily put the relationship on hold until I get my head together? b) is that really selfish? Because he will get really upset and offended if I do go through with this. And c) what are your thoughts on breaks in relationships?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so for starters, obviously using a temporary account as my boyfriend also reads reddit.\nWe have been together for 10, almost 11 months and I am well and truly in love. I'm really happy with him and he has gotten me through some really tough problems. Blah blah blah, we're a great couple and I have no plans of leaving him any time soon.\nHowever, recently I have been struggling with a lot of my own problems and a lot of stress and usually I sort of rely on my bf to help me cope. Unfortunately his living circumstances mean that he can't always be there for me like he used to and so I've spent the last few weeks struggling on my own.\nI'm beginning to think I need to rid myself of my reliance on him as understandably it puts a lot of pressure on him and I'm pretty much losing my independence and ability to cheer myself up.\nI need to get my head straight and figure things out and I need to do this on my own. I don't want to leave my bf but I don't want to find myself giving up and falling back onto him again. \nSo should I suggest a \"break\"?\nNot like a 'eh I'm bored and I wanna fuck someone else for a bit' kinda break. That's what I assume all breaks are like. And that's what every break I've seen couples have ends up like.\nAnd I never thought I, myself, would end up considering one of these mysterious things and I have previously discussed with him the stupidity of which we think of breaks.\nSo I guess what I'm really asking is a) is it fair of me to pretty much temporarily put the relationship on hold until I get my head together? b) is that really selfish? Because he will get really upset and offended if I do go through with this. And c) what are your thoughts on breaks in relationships?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so for starters, obviously using a temporary account as my boyfriend also reads reddit.\nWe have been together for 10, almost 11 months and I am well and truly in love. I'm really happy with him and he has gotten me through some really tough problems. Blah blah blah, we're a great couple and I have no plans of leaving him any time soon.\nHowever, recently I have been struggling with a lot of my own problems and a lot of stress and usually I sort of rely on my bf to help me cope. Unfortunately his living circumstances mean that he can't always be there for me like he used to and so I've spent the last few weeks struggling on my own.\nI'm beginning to think I need to rid myself of my reliance on him as understandably it puts a lot of pressure on him and I'm pretty much losing my independence and ability to cheer myself up.\nI need to get my head straight and figure things out and I need to do this on my own. I don't want to leave my bf but I don't want to find myself giving up and falling back onto him again. \nSo should I suggest a \"break\"?\nNot like a 'eh I'm bored and I wanna fuck someone else for a bit' kinda break. That's what I assume all breaks are like. And that's what every break I've seen couples have ends up like.\nAnd I never thought I, myself, would end up considering one of these mysterious things and I have previously discussed with him the stupidity of which we think of breaks.\nSo I guess what I'm really asking is a) is it fair of me to pretty much temporarily put the relationship on hold until I get my head together? b) is that really selfish? Because he will get really upset and offended if I do go through with this. And c) what are your thoughts on breaks in relationships?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so for starters, obviously using a temporary account as my boyfriend also reads reddit.\nWe have been together for 10, almost 11 months and I am well and truly in love. I'm really happy with him and he has gotten me through some really tough problems. Blah blah blah, we're a great couple and I have no plans of leaving him any time soon.\nHowever, recently I have been struggling with a lot of my own problems and a lot of stress and usually I sort of rely on my bf to help me cope. Unfortunately his living circumstances mean that he can't always be there for me like he used to and so I've spent the last few weeks struggling on my own.\nI'm beginning to think I need to rid myself of my reliance on him as understandably it puts a lot of pressure on him and I'm pretty much losing my independence and ability to cheer myself up.\nI need to get my head straight and figure things out and I need to do this on my own. I don't want to leave my bf but I don't want to find myself giving up and falling back onto him again. \nSo should I suggest a \"break\"?\nNot like a 'eh I'm bored and I wanna fuck someone else for a bit' kinda break. That's what I assume all breaks are like. And that's what every break I've seen couples have ends up like.\nAnd I never thought I, myself, would end up considering one of these mysterious things and I have previously discussed with him the stupidity of which we think of breaks.\nSo I guess what I'm really asking is a) is it fair of me to pretty much temporarily put the relationship on hold until I get my head together? b) is that really selfish? Because he will get really upset and offended if I do go through with this. And c) what are your thoughts on breaks in relationships?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so for starters, obviously using a temporary account as my boyfriend also reads reddit.\nWe have been together for 10, almost 11 months and I am well and truly in love. I'm really happy with him and he has gotten me through some really tough problems. Blah blah blah, we're a great couple and I have no plans of leaving him any time soon.\nHowever, recently I have been struggling with a lot of my own problems and a lot of stress and usually I sort of rely on my bf to help me cope. Unfortunately his living circumstances mean that he can't always be there for me like he used to and so I've spent the last few weeks struggling on my own.\nI'm beginning to think I need to rid myself of my reliance on him as understandably it puts a lot of pressure on him and I'm pretty much losing my independence and ability to cheer myself up.\nI need to get my head straight and figure things out and I need to do this on my own. I don't want to leave my bf but I don't want to find myself giving up and falling back onto him again. \nSo should I suggest a \"break\"?\nNot like a 'eh I'm bored and I wanna fuck someone else for a bit' kinda break. That's what I assume all breaks are like. And that's what every break I've seen couples have ends up like.\nAnd I never thought I, myself, would end up considering one of these mysterious things and I have previously discussed with him the stupidity of which we think of breaks.\nSo I guess what I'm really asking is a) is it fair of me to pretty much temporarily put the relationship on hold until I get my head together? b) is that really selfish? Because he will get really upset and offended if I do go through with this. And c) what are your thoughts on breaks in relationships?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friends and I used to be on a \"what are we doing this weekend?\" basis instead of a \"do you want to hang out\" type of thing, and we used to do plenty of activities like golf together. Now, though, they've stopped inviting me to hang out with them and they resist when I invite them to do things (make excuses, say no without explaining, or just don't respond). Yet when I see these people we still talk and nothing seems to be wrong. Just two days ago one of them texted me for a video game suggestion because he knows I'm a gamer. I don't know if I've done anything to offend anyone or if I've done anything to warrant them not wanting to hang out with me.\n\nYesterday the friend that texted me had a Fourth of July party that I wasn't invited to. We also used to play basketball together all the time but now they get together and do it without me. \n\nI went out to lunch with one of the group of friends (different kid, only time I've hung out with someone this summer) and he spoke as if I wasn't excluded. For example, he talked about how we had all gone to this restaurant for his birthday and when I let him know he hadn't invited me he said something to the effect of \"no, really? I could've sworn you were there.\" I tried to bring up my concern with him but he dodged the conversation.\n\nI'm incredibly lonely and have become incredibly self conscious since they've started to leave me, as I don't really have any other friends. This happened gradually over a couple months and I've been pretty depressed for a while.\n\nI'm probably going to see one of them soon to work on a project together, would it be ok to bring up my concern? Also, what would be \nthe best way to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friends and I used to be on a \"what are we doing this weekend?\" basis instead of a \"do you want to hang out\" type of thing, and we used to do plenty of activities like golf together. Now, though, they've stopped inviting me to hang out with them and they resist when I invite them to do things (make excuses, say no without explaining, or just don't respond). Yet when I see these people we still talk and nothing seems to be wrong. Just two days ago one of them texted me for a video game suggestion because he knows I'm a gamer. I don't know if I've done anything to offend anyone or if I've done anything to warrant them not wanting to hang out with me.\n\nYesterday the friend that texted me had a Fourth of July party that I wasn't invited to. We also used to play basketball together all the time but now they get together and do it without me. \n\nI went out to lunch with one of the group of friends (different kid, only time I've hung out with someone this summer) and he spoke as if I wasn't excluded. For example, he talked about how we had all gone to this restaurant for his birthday and when I let him know he hadn't invited me he said something to the effect of \"no, really? I could've sworn you were there.\" I tried to bring up my concern with him but he dodged the conversation.\n\nI'm incredibly lonely and have become incredibly self conscious since they've started to leave me, as I don't really have any other friends. This happened gradually over a couple months and I've been pretty depressed for a while.\n\nI'm probably going to see one of them soon to work on a project together, would it be ok to bring up my concern? Also, what would be \nthe best way to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friends and I used to be on a \"what are we doing this weekend?\" basis instead of a \"do you want to hang out\" type of thing, and we used to do plenty of activities like golf together. Now, though, they've stopped inviting me to hang out with them and they resist when I invite them to do things (make excuses, say no without explaining, or just don't respond). Yet when I see these people we still talk and nothing seems to be wrong. Just two days ago one of them texted me for a video game suggestion because he knows I'm a gamer. I don't know if I've done anything to offend anyone or if I've done anything to warrant them not wanting to hang out with me.\n\nYesterday the friend that texted me had a Fourth of July party that I wasn't invited to. We also used to play basketball together all the time but now they get together and do it without me. \n\nI went out to lunch with one of the group of friends (different kid, only time I've hung out with someone this summer) and he spoke as if I wasn't excluded. For example, he talked about how we had all gone to this restaurant for his birthday and when I let him know he hadn't invited me he said something to the effect of \"no, really? I could've sworn you were there.\" I tried to bring up my concern with him but he dodged the conversation.\n\nI'm incredibly lonely and have become incredibly self conscious since they've started to leave me, as I don't really have any other friends. This happened gradually over a couple months and I've been pretty depressed for a while.\n\nI'm probably going to see one of them soon to work on a project together, would it be ok to bring up my concern? Also, what would be \nthe best way to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friends and I used to be on a \"what are we doing this weekend?\" basis instead of a \"do you want to hang out\" type of thing, and we used to do plenty of activities like golf together. Now, though, they've stopped inviting me to hang out with them and they resist when I invite them to do things (make excuses, say no without explaining, or just don't respond). Yet when I see these people we still talk and nothing seems to be wrong. Just two days ago one of them texted me for a video game suggestion because he knows I'm a gamer. I don't know if I've done anything to offend anyone or if I've done anything to warrant them not wanting to hang out with me.\n\nYesterday the friend that texted me had a Fourth of July party that I wasn't invited to. We also used to play basketball together all the time but now they get together and do it without me. \n\nI went out to lunch with one of the group of friends (different kid, only time I've hung out with someone this summer) and he spoke as if I wasn't excluded. For example, he talked about how we had all gone to this restaurant for his birthday and when I let him know he hadn't invited me he said something to the effect of \"no, really? I could've sworn you were there.\" I tried to bring up my concern with him but he dodged the conversation.\n\nI'm incredibly lonely and have become incredibly self conscious since they've started to leave me, as I don't really have any other friends. This happened gradually over a couple months and I've been pretty depressed for a while.\n\nI'm probably going to see one of them soon to work on a project together, would it be ok to bring up my concern? Also, what would be \nthe best way to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friends and I used to be on a \"what are we doing this weekend?\" basis instead of a \"do you want to hang out\" type of thing, and we used to do plenty of activities like golf together. Now, though, they've stopped inviting me to hang out with them and they resist when I invite them to do things (make excuses, say no without explaining, or just don't respond). Yet when I see these people we still talk and nothing seems to be wrong. Just two days ago one of them texted me for a video game suggestion because he knows I'm a gamer. I don't know if I've done anything to offend anyone or if I've done anything to warrant them not wanting to hang out with me.\n\nYesterday the friend that texted me had a Fourth of July party that I wasn't invited to. We also used to play basketball together all the time but now they get together and do it without me. \n\nI went out to lunch with one of the group of friends (different kid, only time I've hung out with someone this summer) and he spoke as if I wasn't excluded. For example, he talked about how we had all gone to this restaurant for his birthday and when I let him know he hadn't invited me he said something to the effect of \"no, really? I could've sworn you were there.\" I tried to bring up my concern with him but he dodged the conversation.\n\nI'm incredibly lonely and have become incredibly self conscious since they've started to leave me, as I don't really have any other friends. This happened gradually over a couple months and I've been pretty depressed for a while.\n\nI'm probably going to see one of them soon to work on a project together, would it be ok to bring up my concern? Also, what would be \nthe best way to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friends and I used to be on a \"what are we doing this weekend?\" basis instead of a \"do you want to hang out\" type of thing, and we used to do plenty of activities like golf together. Now, though, they've stopped inviting me to hang out with them and they resist when I invite them to do things (make excuses, say no without explaining, or just don't respond). Yet when I see these people we still talk and nothing seems to be wrong. Just two days ago one of them texted me for a video game suggestion because he knows I'm a gamer. I don't know if I've done anything to offend anyone or if I've done anything to warrant them not wanting to hang out with me.\n\nYesterday the friend that texted me had a Fourth of July party that I wasn't invited to. We also used to play basketball together all the time but now they get together and do it without me. \n\nI went out to lunch with one of the group of friends (different kid, only time I've hung out with someone this summer) and he spoke as if I wasn't excluded. For example, he talked about how we had all gone to this restaurant for his birthday and when I let him know he hadn't invited me he said something to the effect of \"no, really? I could've sworn you were there.\" I tried to bring up my concern with him but he dodged the conversation.\n\nI'm incredibly lonely and have become incredibly self conscious since they've started to leave me, as I don't really have any other friends. This happened gradually over a couple months and I've been pretty depressed for a while.\n\nI'm probably going to see one of them soon to work on a project together, would it be ok to bring up my concern? Also, what would be \nthe best way to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 5 months ago my ex dumped me. We dated for 3 months.\n\nWhen he dumped me he said, \"Right now I think I like you more as a friend\" and \"We can still be friends, we can still hang out\".\n\nOf course I didn't text him, mainly because my friend stopped me from doing it. But I did text him happy birthday which was like 3 months ago.\n\nSo would it be okay if I contacted him now? I'd just text him and say, \"I haven't talked to you in a while how are you?\"\n\nAlso, I do not want to get back together. I want someone new, especially since I'm in university now. Since I know how he is; if we were to get back to together I'd be the one doing the asking because he rarely initiates anything (not just with girls its with anyone).\n\nMy ex and I go to different schools."
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{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 5 months ago my ex dumped me. We dated for 3 months.\n\nWhen he dumped me he said, \"Right now I think I like you more as a friend\" and \"We can still be friends, we can still hang out\".\n\nOf course I didn't text him, mainly because my friend stopped me from doing it. But I did text him happy birthday which was like 3 months ago.\n\nSo would it be okay if I contacted him now? I'd just text him and say, \"I haven't talked to you in a while how are you?\"\n\nAlso, I do not want to get back together. I want someone new, especially since I'm in university now. Since I know how he is; if we were to get back to together I'd be the one doing the asking because he rarely initiates anything (not just with girls its with anyone).\n\nMy ex and I go to different schools."
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{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 5 months ago my ex dumped me. We dated for 3 months.\n\nWhen he dumped me he said, \"Right now I think I like you more as a friend\" and \"We can still be friends, we can still hang out\".\n\nOf course I didn't text him, mainly because my friend stopped me from doing it. But I did text him happy birthday which was like 3 months ago.\n\nSo would it be okay if I contacted him now? I'd just text him and say, \"I haven't talked to you in a while how are you?\"\n\nAlso, I do not want to get back together. I want someone new, especially since I'm in university now. Since I know how he is; if we were to get back to together I'd be the one doing the asking because he rarely initiates anything (not just with girls its with anyone).\n\nMy ex and I go to different schools."
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{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 5 months ago my ex dumped me. We dated for 3 months.\n\nWhen he dumped me he said, \"Right now I think I like you more as a friend\" and \"We can still be friends, we can still hang out\".\n\nOf course I didn't text him, mainly because my friend stopped me from doing it. But I did text him happy birthday which was like 3 months ago.\n\nSo would it be okay if I contacted him now? I'd just text him and say, \"I haven't talked to you in a while how are you?\"\n\nAlso, I do not want to get back together. I want someone new, especially since I'm in university now. Since I know how he is; if we were to get back to together I'd be the one doing the asking because he rarely initiates anything (not just with girls its with anyone).\n\nMy ex and I go to different schools."
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