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{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 5 months ago my ex dumped me. We dated for 3 months.\n\nWhen he dumped me he said, \"Right now I think I like you more as a friend\" and \"We can still be friends, we can still hang out\".\n\nOf course I didn't text him, mainly because my friend stopped me from doing it. But I did text him happy birthday which was like 3 months ago.\n\nSo would it be okay if I contacted him now? I'd just text him and say, \"I haven't talked to you in a while how are you?\"\n\nAlso, I do not want to get back together. I want someone new, especially since I'm in university now. Since I know how he is; if we were to get back to together I'd be the one doing the asking because he rarely initiates anything (not just with girls its with anyone).\n\nMy ex and I go to different schools." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 5 months ago my ex dumped me. We dated for 3 months.\n\nWhen he dumped me he said, \"Right now I think I like you more as a friend\" and \"We can still be friends, we can still hang out\".\n\nOf course I didn't text him, mainly because my friend stopped me from doing it. But I did text him happy birthday which was like 3 months ago.\n\nSo would it be okay if I contacted him now? I'd just text him and say, \"I haven't talked to you in a while how are you?\"\n\nAlso, I do not want to get back together. I want someone new, especially since I'm in university now. Since I know how he is; if we were to get back to together I'd be the one doing the asking because he rarely initiates anything (not just with girls its with anyone).\n\nMy ex and I go to different schools." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over and over again I meet guys (online because I'm not really social). We start talking on the phone or texting. The guy is way up my butt, I mean WAY up my butt every day texting me from beginning to end of the day. We go out on a date. The date is fine, not spectacular but it's a first friggin date. I try to smile, make eye contact, be nice, have manners. I attempt to pay but they always say no. Then this is where the only change happens.\n\nEither they try to get way too comfortable with me for having known someone for a couple of hours. Wanting to be extra cuddly and kissy and I don't do that. This is very intimate for me and I have to like someone a lot and be comfortable with them to even desire that otherwise get off me bro. (I don't say that, I'm kind of laughy when I'm uncomfortable)\n\nOR they are mostly normal the whole time. Are a little affectionate. Not quite there. Keep wanting to do other various things on the date. Drive around a lot. etc. Then drop me off or we part.\n\nIn BOTH scenarios the guys usually seem fine, usually ask if I want to do this again. The next day rolls around and Mr. I Have No Sort OF Life And Need To Text You Every 15 Mins is suddenly MIA. He's been abducted by aliens. \n\nSomeone help me figure out what is going wrong here? It's online but I don't lie about myself. I give honest pictures and I'm pretty good and reading initial reactions. They don't have this \"aww wtf >:(\" once I stroll up and seem pretty satisfied. I don't get why this happens to me every single time. Someone please shed some light on my predicament because I'm really tired of wasting my time with wishy washy guys." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over and over again I meet guys (online because I'm not really social). We start talking on the phone or texting. The guy is way up my butt, I mean WAY up my butt every day texting me from beginning to end of the day. We go out on a date. The date is fine, not spectacular but it's a first friggin date. I try to smile, make eye contact, be nice, have manners. I attempt to pay but they always say no. Then this is where the only change happens.\n\nEither they try to get way too comfortable with me for having known someone for a couple of hours. Wanting to be extra cuddly and kissy and I don't do that. This is very intimate for me and I have to like someone a lot and be comfortable with them to even desire that otherwise get off me bro. (I don't say that, I'm kind of laughy when I'm uncomfortable)\n\nOR they are mostly normal the whole time. Are a little affectionate. Not quite there. Keep wanting to do other various things on the date. Drive around a lot. etc. Then drop me off or we part.\n\nIn BOTH scenarios the guys usually seem fine, usually ask if I want to do this again. The next day rolls around and Mr. I Have No Sort OF Life And Need To Text You Every 15 Mins is suddenly MIA. He's been abducted by aliens. \n\nSomeone help me figure out what is going wrong here? It's online but I don't lie about myself. I give honest pictures and I'm pretty good and reading initial reactions. They don't have this \"aww wtf >:(\" once I stroll up and seem pretty satisfied. I don't get why this happens to me every single time. Someone please shed some light on my predicament because I'm really tired of wasting my time with wishy washy guys." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over and over again I meet guys (online because I'm not really social). We start talking on the phone or texting. The guy is way up my butt, I mean WAY up my butt every day texting me from beginning to end of the day. We go out on a date. The date is fine, not spectacular but it's a first friggin date. I try to smile, make eye contact, be nice, have manners. I attempt to pay but they always say no. Then this is where the only change happens.\n\nEither they try to get way too comfortable with me for having known someone for a couple of hours. Wanting to be extra cuddly and kissy and I don't do that. This is very intimate for me and I have to like someone a lot and be comfortable with them to even desire that otherwise get off me bro. (I don't say that, I'm kind of laughy when I'm uncomfortable)\n\nOR they are mostly normal the whole time. Are a little affectionate. Not quite there. Keep wanting to do other various things on the date. Drive around a lot. etc. Then drop me off or we part.\n\nIn BOTH scenarios the guys usually seem fine, usually ask if I want to do this again. The next day rolls around and Mr. I Have No Sort OF Life And Need To Text You Every 15 Mins is suddenly MIA. He's been abducted by aliens. \n\nSomeone help me figure out what is going wrong here? It's online but I don't lie about myself. I give honest pictures and I'm pretty good and reading initial reactions. They don't have this \"aww wtf >:(\" once I stroll up and seem pretty satisfied. I don't get why this happens to me every single time. Someone please shed some light on my predicament because I'm really tired of wasting my time with wishy washy guys." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over and over again I meet guys (online because I'm not really social). We start talking on the phone or texting. The guy is way up my butt, I mean WAY up my butt every day texting me from beginning to end of the day. We go out on a date. The date is fine, not spectacular but it's a first friggin date. I try to smile, make eye contact, be nice, have manners. I attempt to pay but they always say no. Then this is where the only change happens.\n\nEither they try to get way too comfortable with me for having known someone for a couple of hours. Wanting to be extra cuddly and kissy and I don't do that. This is very intimate for me and I have to like someone a lot and be comfortable with them to even desire that otherwise get off me bro. (I don't say that, I'm kind of laughy when I'm uncomfortable)\n\nOR they are mostly normal the whole time. Are a little affectionate. Not quite there. Keep wanting to do other various things on the date. Drive around a lot. etc. Then drop me off or we part.\n\nIn BOTH scenarios the guys usually seem fine, usually ask if I want to do this again. The next day rolls around and Mr. I Have No Sort OF Life And Need To Text You Every 15 Mins is suddenly MIA. He's been abducted by aliens. \n\nSomeone help me figure out what is going wrong here? It's online but I don't lie about myself. I give honest pictures and I'm pretty good and reading initial reactions. They don't have this \"aww wtf >:(\" once I stroll up and seem pretty satisfied. I don't get why this happens to me every single time. Someone please shed some light on my predicament because I'm really tired of wasting my time with wishy washy guys." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over and over again I meet guys (online because I'm not really social). We start talking on the phone or texting. The guy is way up my butt, I mean WAY up my butt every day texting me from beginning to end of the day. We go out on a date. The date is fine, not spectacular but it's a first friggin date. I try to smile, make eye contact, be nice, have manners. I attempt to pay but they always say no. Then this is where the only change happens.\n\nEither they try to get way too comfortable with me for having known someone for a couple of hours. Wanting to be extra cuddly and kissy and I don't do that. This is very intimate for me and I have to like someone a lot and be comfortable with them to even desire that otherwise get off me bro. (I don't say that, I'm kind of laughy when I'm uncomfortable)\n\nOR they are mostly normal the whole time. Are a little affectionate. Not quite there. Keep wanting to do other various things on the date. Drive around a lot. etc. Then drop me off or we part.\n\nIn BOTH scenarios the guys usually seem fine, usually ask if I want to do this again. The next day rolls around and Mr. I Have No Sort OF Life And Need To Text You Every 15 Mins is suddenly MIA. He's been abducted by aliens. \n\nSomeone help me figure out what is going wrong here? It's online but I don't lie about myself. I give honest pictures and I'm pretty good and reading initial reactions. They don't have this \"aww wtf >:(\" once I stroll up and seem pretty satisfied. I don't get why this happens to me every single time. Someone please shed some light on my predicament because I'm really tired of wasting my time with wishy washy guys." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over and over again I meet guys (online because I'm not really social). We start talking on the phone or texting. The guy is way up my butt, I mean WAY up my butt every day texting me from beginning to end of the day. We go out on a date. The date is fine, not spectacular but it's a first friggin date. I try to smile, make eye contact, be nice, have manners. I attempt to pay but they always say no. Then this is where the only change happens.\n\nEither they try to get way too comfortable with me for having known someone for a couple of hours. Wanting to be extra cuddly and kissy and I don't do that. This is very intimate for me and I have to like someone a lot and be comfortable with them to even desire that otherwise get off me bro. (I don't say that, I'm kind of laughy when I'm uncomfortable)\n\nOR they are mostly normal the whole time. Are a little affectionate. Not quite there. Keep wanting to do other various things on the date. Drive around a lot. etc. Then drop me off or we part.\n\nIn BOTH scenarios the guys usually seem fine, usually ask if I want to do this again. The next day rolls around and Mr. I Have No Sort OF Life And Need To Text You Every 15 Mins is suddenly MIA. He's been abducted by aliens. \n\nSomeone help me figure out what is going wrong here? It's online but I don't lie about myself. I give honest pictures and I'm pretty good and reading initial reactions. They don't have this \"aww wtf >:(\" once I stroll up and seem pretty satisfied. I don't get why this happens to me every single time. Someone please shed some light on my predicament because I'm really tired of wasting my time with wishy washy guys." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Her-23 me-21 \n\nSo we've been acquaintances in a pep band for about a year now and recently I started thinking she was cute (Girl A). Last weekend we were on a band trip and one night we were playing some drinking games in my room and once people had started leaving and it was only like 5 of us she had been increasingly more physical towards me (just holding hands and general closeness nothing major. That night she voluntarily (hers was right next door) slept in my bed and we cuddled all night (which happened to be about 4ish hours since we had a ride back at 7am the next day.\n\nLast night I talked to one of her close friends(Girl B) about what happened (she was in the bed with my room mate) and how I thought I might have feelings for her and if they were something that has a chance leading somewhere. Girl B said Girl A said I was cute but was also confused because she likes some other guy and doesn't want to mess things up with him if she has a chance but also is just confused about me as well. \n\nGirl B suggested I just try and talk to Girl A but I am also confused because I am generally a shy guy and can get really awkward and have big fears of rejection. \n\nDo I just let things progress naturally and do my best to let her know that I like her but not pressure her into anything or do I flat out tell her plain and simple I like her? or some other option that I am too tired to think of right now" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Her-23 me-21 \n\nSo we've been acquaintances in a pep band for about a year now and recently I started thinking she was cute (Girl A). Last weekend we were on a band trip and one night we were playing some drinking games in my room and once people had started leaving and it was only like 5 of us she had been increasingly more physical towards me (just holding hands and general closeness nothing major. That night she voluntarily (hers was right next door) slept in my bed and we cuddled all night (which happened to be about 4ish hours since we had a ride back at 7am the next day.\n\nLast night I talked to one of her close friends(Girl B) about what happened (she was in the bed with my room mate) and how I thought I might have feelings for her and if they were something that has a chance leading somewhere. Girl B said Girl A said I was cute but was also confused because she likes some other guy and doesn't want to mess things up with him if she has a chance but also is just confused about me as well. \n\nGirl B suggested I just try and talk to Girl A but I am also confused because I am generally a shy guy and can get really awkward and have big fears of rejection. \n\nDo I just let things progress naturally and do my best to let her know that I like her but not pressure her into anything or do I flat out tell her plain and simple I like her? or some other option that I am too tired to think of right now" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Her-23 me-21 \n\nSo we've been acquaintances in a pep band for about a year now and recently I started thinking she was cute (Girl A). Last weekend we were on a band trip and one night we were playing some drinking games in my room and once people had started leaving and it was only like 5 of us she had been increasingly more physical towards me (just holding hands and general closeness nothing major. That night she voluntarily (hers was right next door) slept in my bed and we cuddled all night (which happened to be about 4ish hours since we had a ride back at 7am the next day.\n\nLast night I talked to one of her close friends(Girl B) about what happened (she was in the bed with my room mate) and how I thought I might have feelings for her and if they were something that has a chance leading somewhere. Girl B said Girl A said I was cute but was also confused because she likes some other guy and doesn't want to mess things up with him if she has a chance but also is just confused about me as well. \n\nGirl B suggested I just try and talk to Girl A but I am also confused because I am generally a shy guy and can get really awkward and have big fears of rejection. \n\nDo I just let things progress naturally and do my best to let her know that I like her but not pressure her into anything or do I flat out tell her plain and simple I like her? or some other option that I am too tired to think of right now" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Her-23 me-21 \n\nSo we've been acquaintances in a pep band for about a year now and recently I started thinking she was cute (Girl A). Last weekend we were on a band trip and one night we were playing some drinking games in my room and once people had started leaving and it was only like 5 of us she had been increasingly more physical towards me (just holding hands and general closeness nothing major. That night she voluntarily (hers was right next door) slept in my bed and we cuddled all night (which happened to be about 4ish hours since we had a ride back at 7am the next day.\n\nLast night I talked to one of her close friends(Girl B) about what happened (she was in the bed with my room mate) and how I thought I might have feelings for her and if they were something that has a chance leading somewhere. Girl B said Girl A said I was cute but was also confused because she likes some other guy and doesn't want to mess things up with him if she has a chance but also is just confused about me as well. \n\nGirl B suggested I just try and talk to Girl A but I am also confused because I am generally a shy guy and can get really awkward and have big fears of rejection. \n\nDo I just let things progress naturally and do my best to let her know that I like her but not pressure her into anything or do I flat out tell her plain and simple I like her? or some other option that I am too tired to think of right now" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Her-23 me-21 \n\nSo we've been acquaintances in a pep band for about a year now and recently I started thinking she was cute (Girl A). Last weekend we were on a band trip and one night we were playing some drinking games in my room and once people had started leaving and it was only like 5 of us she had been increasingly more physical towards me (just holding hands and general closeness nothing major. That night she voluntarily (hers was right next door) slept in my bed and we cuddled all night (which happened to be about 4ish hours since we had a ride back at 7am the next day.\n\nLast night I talked to one of her close friends(Girl B) about what happened (she was in the bed with my room mate) and how I thought I might have feelings for her and if they were something that has a chance leading somewhere. Girl B said Girl A said I was cute but was also confused because she likes some other guy and doesn't want to mess things up with him if she has a chance but also is just confused about me as well. \n\nGirl B suggested I just try and talk to Girl A but I am also confused because I am generally a shy guy and can get really awkward and have big fears of rejection. \n\nDo I just let things progress naturally and do my best to let her know that I like her but not pressure her into anything or do I flat out tell her plain and simple I like her? or some other option that I am too tired to think of right now" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Her-23 me-21 \n\nSo we've been acquaintances in a pep band for about a year now and recently I started thinking she was cute (Girl A). Last weekend we were on a band trip and one night we were playing some drinking games in my room and once people had started leaving and it was only like 5 of us she had been increasingly more physical towards me (just holding hands and general closeness nothing major. That night she voluntarily (hers was right next door) slept in my bed and we cuddled all night (which happened to be about 4ish hours since we had a ride back at 7am the next day.\n\nLast night I talked to one of her close friends(Girl B) about what happened (she was in the bed with my room mate) and how I thought I might have feelings for her and if they were something that has a chance leading somewhere. Girl B said Girl A said I was cute but was also confused because she likes some other guy and doesn't want to mess things up with him if she has a chance but also is just confused about me as well. \n\nGirl B suggested I just try and talk to Girl A but I am also confused because I am generally a shy guy and can get really awkward and have big fears of rejection. \n\nDo I just let things progress naturally and do my best to let her know that I like her but not pressure her into anything or do I flat out tell her plain and simple I like her? or some other option that I am too tired to think of right now" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit. I am making a throwaway account since my GF also reddits. So here we go.\n\nMy girlfriend and I have been together for just about a year now. Amazing relationship, both extremely in love with each other, and want to spend our lives together. She makes me so extremely happy, and couldn't have found a better partner.\n\nSo for the last almost 4 years I've been extremely sick. She has taken me out of the country to get medical treatment, however no doctor has any idea what is wrong with me. I just had a complete physical, and more blood work done Monday. I've seriously had every imaginable test done that I can think of. Now on this visit yesterday my doctor decided to have me checked for STD's, HIV, syphilis, and the works. For the first time, I started to think and am getting freaked out and cannot sleep or focus.\n\nMy girlfriend is my first sexual partner. With all of the tests i have had done over the years, I assumed that STD's were also done. The reason that this has started to worry me is that when I was younger, things happened to me. Its hard for me to type this out right now, I have never told anyone. Growing up, I was molested twice, once when I was 5, and again when I was around 11 or 12. I have pretty much blocked out those memories, and it never occurred to me that I could have an STD. Especially 10 years after the fact that I started getting sick. I am freaking out, and feel nauseated. \n\nI seriously don't know what to do reddit. I feel like the worst person imaginable if I get a call from my doctor saying I have something like HIV, knowing that my girlfriend would have it as well. I love her and she means the world to me. What should I do. Should I tell her what happened, and the possibility of me having something, or should I wait to hear back from the doctor first? Please help! If I do confront her, how would I go about it? I know I can talk to her about anything. But this? This is so hard right now." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit. I am making a throwaway account since my GF also reddits. So here we go.\n\nMy girlfriend and I have been together for just about a year now. Amazing relationship, both extremely in love with each other, and want to spend our lives together. She makes me so extremely happy, and couldn't have found a better partner.\n\nSo for the last almost 4 years I've been extremely sick. She has taken me out of the country to get medical treatment, however no doctor has any idea what is wrong with me. I just had a complete physical, and more blood work done Monday. I've seriously had every imaginable test done that I can think of. Now on this visit yesterday my doctor decided to have me checked for STD's, HIV, syphilis, and the works. For the first time, I started to think and am getting freaked out and cannot sleep or focus.\n\nMy girlfriend is my first sexual partner. With all of the tests i have had done over the years, I assumed that STD's were also done. The reason that this has started to worry me is that when I was younger, things happened to me. Its hard for me to type this out right now, I have never told anyone. Growing up, I was molested twice, once when I was 5, and again when I was around 11 or 12. I have pretty much blocked out those memories, and it never occurred to me that I could have an STD. Especially 10 years after the fact that I started getting sick. I am freaking out, and feel nauseated. \n\nI seriously don't know what to do reddit. I feel like the worst person imaginable if I get a call from my doctor saying I have something like HIV, knowing that my girlfriend would have it as well. I love her and she means the world to me. What should I do. Should I tell her what happened, and the possibility of me having something, or should I wait to hear back from the doctor first? Please help! If I do confront her, how would I go about it? I know I can talk to her about anything. But this? This is so hard right now." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit. I am making a throwaway account since my GF also reddits. So here we go.\n\nMy girlfriend and I have been together for just about a year now. Amazing relationship, both extremely in love with each other, and want to spend our lives together. She makes me so extremely happy, and couldn't have found a better partner.\n\nSo for the last almost 4 years I've been extremely sick. She has taken me out of the country to get medical treatment, however no doctor has any idea what is wrong with me. I just had a complete physical, and more blood work done Monday. I've seriously had every imaginable test done that I can think of. Now on this visit yesterday my doctor decided to have me checked for STD's, HIV, syphilis, and the works. For the first time, I started to think and am getting freaked out and cannot sleep or focus.\n\nMy girlfriend is my first sexual partner. With all of the tests i have had done over the years, I assumed that STD's were also done. The reason that this has started to worry me is that when I was younger, things happened to me. Its hard for me to type this out right now, I have never told anyone. Growing up, I was molested twice, once when I was 5, and again when I was around 11 or 12. I have pretty much blocked out those memories, and it never occurred to me that I could have an STD. Especially 10 years after the fact that I started getting sick. I am freaking out, and feel nauseated. \n\nI seriously don't know what to do reddit. I feel like the worst person imaginable if I get a call from my doctor saying I have something like HIV, knowing that my girlfriend would have it as well. I love her and she means the world to me. What should I do. Should I tell her what happened, and the possibility of me having something, or should I wait to hear back from the doctor first? Please help! If I do confront her, how would I go about it? I know I can talk to her about anything. But this? This is so hard right now." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit. I am making a throwaway account since my GF also reddits. So here we go.\n\nMy girlfriend and I have been together for just about a year now. Amazing relationship, both extremely in love with each other, and want to spend our lives together. She makes me so extremely happy, and couldn't have found a better partner.\n\nSo for the last almost 4 years I've been extremely sick. She has taken me out of the country to get medical treatment, however no doctor has any idea what is wrong with me. I just had a complete physical, and more blood work done Monday. I've seriously had every imaginable test done that I can think of. Now on this visit yesterday my doctor decided to have me checked for STD's, HIV, syphilis, and the works. For the first time, I started to think and am getting freaked out and cannot sleep or focus.\n\nMy girlfriend is my first sexual partner. With all of the tests i have had done over the years, I assumed that STD's were also done. The reason that this has started to worry me is that when I was younger, things happened to me. Its hard for me to type this out right now, I have never told anyone. Growing up, I was molested twice, once when I was 5, and again when I was around 11 or 12. I have pretty much blocked out those memories, and it never occurred to me that I could have an STD. Especially 10 years after the fact that I started getting sick. I am freaking out, and feel nauseated. \n\nI seriously don't know what to do reddit. I feel like the worst person imaginable if I get a call from my doctor saying I have something like HIV, knowing that my girlfriend would have it as well. I love her and she means the world to me. What should I do. Should I tell her what happened, and the possibility of me having something, or should I wait to hear back from the doctor first? Please help! If I do confront her, how would I go about it? I know I can talk to her about anything. But this? This is so hard right now." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit. I am making a throwaway account since my GF also reddits. So here we go.\n\nMy girlfriend and I have been together for just about a year now. Amazing relationship, both extremely in love with each other, and want to spend our lives together. She makes me so extremely happy, and couldn't have found a better partner.\n\nSo for the last almost 4 years I've been extremely sick. She has taken me out of the country to get medical treatment, however no doctor has any idea what is wrong with me. I just had a complete physical, and more blood work done Monday. I've seriously had every imaginable test done that I can think of. Now on this visit yesterday my doctor decided to have me checked for STD's, HIV, syphilis, and the works. For the first time, I started to think and am getting freaked out and cannot sleep or focus.\n\nMy girlfriend is my first sexual partner. With all of the tests i have had done over the years, I assumed that STD's were also done. The reason that this has started to worry me is that when I was younger, things happened to me. Its hard for me to type this out right now, I have never told anyone. Growing up, I was molested twice, once when I was 5, and again when I was around 11 or 12. I have pretty much blocked out those memories, and it never occurred to me that I could have an STD. Especially 10 years after the fact that I started getting sick. I am freaking out, and feel nauseated. \n\nI seriously don't know what to do reddit. I feel like the worst person imaginable if I get a call from my doctor saying I have something like HIV, knowing that my girlfriend would have it as well. I love her and she means the world to me. What should I do. Should I tell her what happened, and the possibility of me having something, or should I wait to hear back from the doctor first? Please help! If I do confront her, how would I go about it? I know I can talk to her about anything. But this? This is so hard right now." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit. I am making a throwaway account since my GF also reddits. So here we go.\n\nMy girlfriend and I have been together for just about a year now. Amazing relationship, both extremely in love with each other, and want to spend our lives together. She makes me so extremely happy, and couldn't have found a better partner.\n\nSo for the last almost 4 years I've been extremely sick. She has taken me out of the country to get medical treatment, however no doctor has any idea what is wrong with me. I just had a complete physical, and more blood work done Monday. I've seriously had every imaginable test done that I can think of. Now on this visit yesterday my doctor decided to have me checked for STD's, HIV, syphilis, and the works. For the first time, I started to think and am getting freaked out and cannot sleep or focus.\n\nMy girlfriend is my first sexual partner. With all of the tests i have had done over the years, I assumed that STD's were also done. The reason that this has started to worry me is that when I was younger, things happened to me. Its hard for me to type this out right now, I have never told anyone. Growing up, I was molested twice, once when I was 5, and again when I was around 11 or 12. I have pretty much blocked out those memories, and it never occurred to me that I could have an STD. Especially 10 years after the fact that I started getting sick. I am freaking out, and feel nauseated. \n\nI seriously don't know what to do reddit. I feel like the worst person imaginable if I get a call from my doctor saying I have something like HIV, knowing that my girlfriend would have it as well. I love her and she means the world to me. What should I do. Should I tell her what happened, and the possibility of me having something, or should I wait to hear back from the doctor first? Please help! If I do confront her, how would I go about it? I know I can talk to her about anything. But this? This is so hard right now." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my boyfriend is having some issues with maintaining an erection and because of it we can't have sex. It goes soft as soon as I put a condom on him; I'm thinking that's the issue. I tried to do it quickly today so that maybe if he could just put it inside he'd be okay but as soon as I started to unravel the condom he went soft. I laid down beside him because I was a bit frustrated, but I just thought, we can try again later.\n\nThe poor fellow got really upset and started crying and wouldn't look at me. He said he was a failure and said \"What kind of guy can't please his girlfriend?\" I tried to reassure him and tell him it was fine, we'd figure something out, I don't need sex to like him.\n\nHe ended up going back to his dorm and won't text me back. I really want to help him.\n\nWhat do I do? What should he do?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my boyfriend is having some issues with maintaining an erection and because of it we can't have sex. It goes soft as soon as I put a condom on him; I'm thinking that's the issue. I tried to do it quickly today so that maybe if he could just put it inside he'd be okay but as soon as I started to unravel the condom he went soft. I laid down beside him because I was a bit frustrated, but I just thought, we can try again later.\n\nThe poor fellow got really upset and started crying and wouldn't look at me. He said he was a failure and said \"What kind of guy can't please his girlfriend?\" I tried to reassure him and tell him it was fine, we'd figure something out, I don't need sex to like him.\n\nHe ended up going back to his dorm and won't text me back. I really want to help him.\n\nWhat do I do? What should he do?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my boyfriend is having some issues with maintaining an erection and because of it we can't have sex. It goes soft as soon as I put a condom on him; I'm thinking that's the issue. I tried to do it quickly today so that maybe if he could just put it inside he'd be okay but as soon as I started to unravel the condom he went soft. I laid down beside him because I was a bit frustrated, but I just thought, we can try again later.\n\nThe poor fellow got really upset and started crying and wouldn't look at me. He said he was a failure and said \"What kind of guy can't please his girlfriend?\" I tried to reassure him and tell him it was fine, we'd figure something out, I don't need sex to like him.\n\nHe ended up going back to his dorm and won't text me back. I really want to help him.\n\nWhat do I do? What should he do?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my boyfriend is having some issues with maintaining an erection and because of it we can't have sex. It goes soft as soon as I put a condom on him; I'm thinking that's the issue. I tried to do it quickly today so that maybe if he could just put it inside he'd be okay but as soon as I started to unravel the condom he went soft. I laid down beside him because I was a bit frustrated, but I just thought, we can try again later.\n\nThe poor fellow got really upset and started crying and wouldn't look at me. He said he was a failure and said \"What kind of guy can't please his girlfriend?\" I tried to reassure him and tell him it was fine, we'd figure something out, I don't need sex to like him.\n\nHe ended up going back to his dorm and won't text me back. I really want to help him.\n\nWhat do I do? What should he do?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my boyfriend is having some issues with maintaining an erection and because of it we can't have sex. It goes soft as soon as I put a condom on him; I'm thinking that's the issue. I tried to do it quickly today so that maybe if he could just put it inside he'd be okay but as soon as I started to unravel the condom he went soft. I laid down beside him because I was a bit frustrated, but I just thought, we can try again later.\n\nThe poor fellow got really upset and started crying and wouldn't look at me. He said he was a failure and said \"What kind of guy can't please his girlfriend?\" I tried to reassure him and tell him it was fine, we'd figure something out, I don't need sex to like him.\n\nHe ended up going back to his dorm and won't text me back. I really want to help him.\n\nWhat do I do? What should he do?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my boyfriend is having some issues with maintaining an erection and because of it we can't have sex. It goes soft as soon as I put a condom on him; I'm thinking that's the issue. I tried to do it quickly today so that maybe if he could just put it inside he'd be okay but as soon as I started to unravel the condom he went soft. I laid down beside him because I was a bit frustrated, but I just thought, we can try again later.\n\nThe poor fellow got really upset and started crying and wouldn't look at me. He said he was a failure and said \"What kind of guy can't please his girlfriend?\" I tried to reassure him and tell him it was fine, we'd figure something out, I don't need sex to like him.\n\nHe ended up going back to his dorm and won't text me back. I really want to help him.\n\nWhat do I do? What should he do?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as I said I started talking to an old friend again. To give some perspective, we \"dated\" a little bit in middle school, nothing serious obviously. Since the beginning of high school we just grew apart like what happens normally. It was recently her birthday so I wished her a good one and then we started talking more frequently. \n\nEvery thing was great, we would text back and forth just about all day having decent conversation. The best part was that there was equal effort on both sides as far as initiating conversation went.\n\nWe hung out a few times, going out of the way to see each other. When we were together it was good. We were both happy and wouldn't want to leave each other. As far as intimacy we stopped at kissing for the most part because she didn't want to rush into things, which I had no problem with. \n\nWe talked about where our relationship was going and both agreed that we weren't opposed to something romantic, but felt no need to rush it and that friendship was more important. She expressed her fear of commitment to me and also told me how she doesn't handle the emotions that come along with it well. However, she also told me that she hadn't been treated as well as I was treating in years and that she was happy we were talking again. \n\nFor reasons that I can't really explain this girl drives me crazy. She's just the type of girl that makes me feel great. So everything seems pretty great. \n\nHowever recently we haven't been talking as much. I started to sort of feel confused by her mixed signals and I decided to see if she would initiate conversation, but she doesn't anymore. I've tried to see her a couple times, but plans either fell through or were never made. I'm still interested in her, but right now I'm not sure how she feels at all. I kind of feel like there's another guy. \n\nSo any insight or advice on the situation or what I should do would be greatly appreciated" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as I said I started talking to an old friend again. To give some perspective, we \"dated\" a little bit in middle school, nothing serious obviously. Since the beginning of high school we just grew apart like what happens normally. It was recently her birthday so I wished her a good one and then we started talking more frequently. \n\nEvery thing was great, we would text back and forth just about all day having decent conversation. The best part was that there was equal effort on both sides as far as initiating conversation went.\n\nWe hung out a few times, going out of the way to see each other. When we were together it was good. We were both happy and wouldn't want to leave each other. As far as intimacy we stopped at kissing for the most part because she didn't want to rush into things, which I had no problem with. \n\nWe talked about where our relationship was going and both agreed that we weren't opposed to something romantic, but felt no need to rush it and that friendship was more important. She expressed her fear of commitment to me and also told me how she doesn't handle the emotions that come along with it well. However, she also told me that she hadn't been treated as well as I was treating in years and that she was happy we were talking again. \n\nFor reasons that I can't really explain this girl drives me crazy. She's just the type of girl that makes me feel great. So everything seems pretty great. \n\nHowever recently we haven't been talking as much. I started to sort of feel confused by her mixed signals and I decided to see if she would initiate conversation, but she doesn't anymore. I've tried to see her a couple times, but plans either fell through or were never made. I'm still interested in her, but right now I'm not sure how she feels at all. I kind of feel like there's another guy. \n\nSo any insight or advice on the situation or what I should do would be greatly appreciated" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as I said I started talking to an old friend again. To give some perspective, we \"dated\" a little bit in middle school, nothing serious obviously. Since the beginning of high school we just grew apart like what happens normally. It was recently her birthday so I wished her a good one and then we started talking more frequently. \n\nEvery thing was great, we would text back and forth just about all day having decent conversation. The best part was that there was equal effort on both sides as far as initiating conversation went.\n\nWe hung out a few times, going out of the way to see each other. When we were together it was good. We were both happy and wouldn't want to leave each other. As far as intimacy we stopped at kissing for the most part because she didn't want to rush into things, which I had no problem with. \n\nWe talked about where our relationship was going and both agreed that we weren't opposed to something romantic, but felt no need to rush it and that friendship was more important. She expressed her fear of commitment to me and also told me how she doesn't handle the emotions that come along with it well. However, she also told me that she hadn't been treated as well as I was treating in years and that she was happy we were talking again. \n\nFor reasons that I can't really explain this girl drives me crazy. She's just the type of girl that makes me feel great. So everything seems pretty great. \n\nHowever recently we haven't been talking as much. I started to sort of feel confused by her mixed signals and I decided to see if she would initiate conversation, but she doesn't anymore. I've tried to see her a couple times, but plans either fell through or were never made. I'm still interested in her, but right now I'm not sure how she feels at all. I kind of feel like there's another guy. \n\nSo any insight or advice on the situation or what I should do would be greatly appreciated" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as I said I started talking to an old friend again. To give some perspective, we \"dated\" a little bit in middle school, nothing serious obviously. Since the beginning of high school we just grew apart like what happens normally. It was recently her birthday so I wished her a good one and then we started talking more frequently. \n\nEvery thing was great, we would text back and forth just about all day having decent conversation. The best part was that there was equal effort on both sides as far as initiating conversation went.\n\nWe hung out a few times, going out of the way to see each other. When we were together it was good. We were both happy and wouldn't want to leave each other. As far as intimacy we stopped at kissing for the most part because she didn't want to rush into things, which I had no problem with. \n\nWe talked about where our relationship was going and both agreed that we weren't opposed to something romantic, but felt no need to rush it and that friendship was more important. She expressed her fear of commitment to me and also told me how she doesn't handle the emotions that come along with it well. However, she also told me that she hadn't been treated as well as I was treating in years and that she was happy we were talking again. \n\nFor reasons that I can't really explain this girl drives me crazy. She's just the type of girl that makes me feel great. So everything seems pretty great. \n\nHowever recently we haven't been talking as much. I started to sort of feel confused by her mixed signals and I decided to see if she would initiate conversation, but she doesn't anymore. I've tried to see her a couple times, but plans either fell through or were never made. I'm still interested in her, but right now I'm not sure how she feels at all. I kind of feel like there's another guy. \n\nSo any insight or advice on the situation or what I should do would be greatly appreciated" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as I said I started talking to an old friend again. To give some perspective, we \"dated\" a little bit in middle school, nothing serious obviously. Since the beginning of high school we just grew apart like what happens normally. It was recently her birthday so I wished her a good one and then we started talking more frequently. \n\nEvery thing was great, we would text back and forth just about all day having decent conversation. The best part was that there was equal effort on both sides as far as initiating conversation went.\n\nWe hung out a few times, going out of the way to see each other. When we were together it was good. We were both happy and wouldn't want to leave each other. As far as intimacy we stopped at kissing for the most part because she didn't want to rush into things, which I had no problem with. \n\nWe talked about where our relationship was going and both agreed that we weren't opposed to something romantic, but felt no need to rush it and that friendship was more important. She expressed her fear of commitment to me and also told me how she doesn't handle the emotions that come along with it well. However, she also told me that she hadn't been treated as well as I was treating in years and that she was happy we were talking again. \n\nFor reasons that I can't really explain this girl drives me crazy. She's just the type of girl that makes me feel great. So everything seems pretty great. \n\nHowever recently we haven't been talking as much. I started to sort of feel confused by her mixed signals and I decided to see if she would initiate conversation, but she doesn't anymore. I've tried to see her a couple times, but plans either fell through or were never made. I'm still interested in her, but right now I'm not sure how she feels at all. I kind of feel like there's another guy. \n\nSo any insight or advice on the situation or what I should do would be greatly appreciated" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as I said I started talking to an old friend again. To give some perspective, we \"dated\" a little bit in middle school, nothing serious obviously. Since the beginning of high school we just grew apart like what happens normally. It was recently her birthday so I wished her a good one and then we started talking more frequently. \n\nEvery thing was great, we would text back and forth just about all day having decent conversation. The best part was that there was equal effort on both sides as far as initiating conversation went.\n\nWe hung out a few times, going out of the way to see each other. When we were together it was good. We were both happy and wouldn't want to leave each other. As far as intimacy we stopped at kissing for the most part because she didn't want to rush into things, which I had no problem with. \n\nWe talked about where our relationship was going and both agreed that we weren't opposed to something romantic, but felt no need to rush it and that friendship was more important. She expressed her fear of commitment to me and also told me how she doesn't handle the emotions that come along with it well. However, she also told me that she hadn't been treated as well as I was treating in years and that she was happy we were talking again. \n\nFor reasons that I can't really explain this girl drives me crazy. She's just the type of girl that makes me feel great. So everything seems pretty great. \n\nHowever recently we haven't been talking as much. I started to sort of feel confused by her mixed signals and I decided to see if she would initiate conversation, but she doesn't anymore. I've tried to see her a couple times, but plans either fell through or were never made. I'm still interested in her, but right now I'm not sure how she feels at all. I kind of feel like there's another guy. \n\nSo any insight or advice on the situation or what I should do would be greatly appreciated" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends very conservative and doesn't want me to wear my sexy Halloween costume when I go to a party with my friends, I don't normally wear revealing clothing but everyone dresses like that on Halloween so I don't see why it is a big deal. He told me before we became official that he has high standards and doesn't date girls who wear revealing clothing but this would be a one time thing.\n\nHe said he doesn't want a girlfriend who dresses like that and that if I go to the party wearing it then we will be finished. Is he being controlling?." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends very conservative and doesn't want me to wear my sexy Halloween costume when I go to a party with my friends, I don't normally wear revealing clothing but everyone dresses like that on Halloween so I don't see why it is a big deal. He told me before we became official that he has high standards and doesn't date girls who wear revealing clothing but this would be a one time thing.\n\nHe said he doesn't want a girlfriend who dresses like that and that if I go to the party wearing it then we will be finished. Is he being controlling?." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends very conservative and doesn't want me to wear my sexy Halloween costume when I go to a party with my friends, I don't normally wear revealing clothing but everyone dresses like that on Halloween so I don't see why it is a big deal. He told me before we became official that he has high standards and doesn't date girls who wear revealing clothing but this would be a one time thing.\n\nHe said he doesn't want a girlfriend who dresses like that and that if I go to the party wearing it then we will be finished. Is he being controlling?." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends very conservative and doesn't want me to wear my sexy Halloween costume when I go to a party with my friends, I don't normally wear revealing clothing but everyone dresses like that on Halloween so I don't see why it is a big deal. He told me before we became official that he has high standards and doesn't date girls who wear revealing clothing but this would be a one time thing.\n\nHe said he doesn't want a girlfriend who dresses like that and that if I go to the party wearing it then we will be finished. Is he being controlling?." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends very conservative and doesn't want me to wear my sexy Halloween costume when I go to a party with my friends, I don't normally wear revealing clothing but everyone dresses like that on Halloween so I don't see why it is a big deal. He told me before we became official that he has high standards and doesn't date girls who wear revealing clothing but this would be a one time thing.\n\nHe said he doesn't want a girlfriend who dresses like that and that if I go to the party wearing it then we will be finished. Is he being controlling?." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends very conservative and doesn't want me to wear my sexy Halloween costume when I go to a party with my friends, I don't normally wear revealing clothing but everyone dresses like that on Halloween so I don't see why it is a big deal. He told me before we became official that he has high standards and doesn't date girls who wear revealing clothing but this would be a one time thing.\n\nHe said he doesn't want a girlfriend who dresses like that and that if I go to the party wearing it then we will be finished. Is he being controlling?." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends very conservative and doesn't want me to wear my sexy Halloween costume when I go to a party with my friends, I don't normally wear revealing clothing but everyone dresses like that on Halloween so I don't see why it is a big deal. He told me before we became official that he has high standards and doesn't date girls who wear revealing clothing but this would be a one time thing.\n\nHe said he doesn't want a girlfriend who dresses like that and that if I go to the party wearing it then we will be finished. Is he being controlling?." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends very conservative and doesn't want me to wear my sexy Halloween costume when I go to a party with my friends, I don't normally wear revealing clothing but everyone dresses like that on Halloween so I don't see why it is a big deal. He told me before we became official that he has high standards and doesn't date girls who wear revealing clothing but this would be a one time thing.\n\nHe said he doesn't want a girlfriend who dresses like that and that if I go to the party wearing it then we will be finished. Is he being controlling?." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends very conservative and doesn't want me to wear my sexy Halloween costume when I go to a party with my friends, I don't normally wear revealing clothing but everyone dresses like that on Halloween so I don't see why it is a big deal. He told me before we became official that he has high standards and doesn't date girls who wear revealing clothing but this would be a one time thing.\n\nHe said he doesn't want a girlfriend who dresses like that and that if I go to the party wearing it then we will be finished. Is he being controlling?." }