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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, all. Bad news. \n\nI've known this girl for two years, and we have absolutely tremendous chemistry. Everything about the combination of us is as perfect as it could be. \n\nAfter being awkwardly platonic friends for all that time, I finally tipped the scale after maybe a month straight of both of us dropping giant hint bombs, and a cleverly-devised viewing of When Harry Met Sally on her part. (Our friends even just got together, it's perfect.)\n\nSo we talk last night, and feelings are highly mutual. She's glad I asked, I am, but we can't date. She's Orthodox Christian, and I'm an unaligned atheist. We wouldn't be able to get married, and she wouldn't date someone she wouldn't marry. Specifically, she means that even if we dated in the short term, we'd know we'd have to break up.\n\nI understand. She's not happy, I'm not happy. \n\nI'm not anti-religious by any means, and I've simply never really gotten religion. I'd be happy to go to some services with her, I've been to one, and it's lovely. I'd think that over time, growing close to someone, something that's that important to them would become as important to me. That said, she would feel bad making someone make that big a change in a relationship, and we both agree that making that huge a change *to be in a relationship* would be insincere, and disrespectful of the importance of the religion to her, and the church in general. \n\nThat's the gist of it, unfortunately. She's thinking about it (whereas I've been mulling this over for a few months, she's ignored the problem whenever it came up, and now the floodgates are open.) and I'm looking to see if anyone's encountered problems like this before, and if there's anything I can do, or anything she can consider to get over this stumbling block. Thank you for your advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf (28m) and I (25f) have been together for 5.5 years. We have lived together for about 4 years. I'm currently in school, but don't have a job, so he's supporting me. Previously, while he was searching for a job, I postponed my schooling to support him, so I kind of feel this is a fair trade. However, more and more he treats me like an obligation. He doesn't want to spend time with me, even when I suggest doing something he likes or having sex. He groans or complains that he never gets time to himself. I try to give him his space. I spend a good portion of my times studying or doing assignments, so it's not like I'm breathing down his neck all the time. I've been trying to do little things for him, as I know working can be stressful, but it doesn't seem to matter what I do/say, he just gets upset that I would like to spend some time with him. He spends most of his time on the computer or his phone. If I try to talk to him, he ignores me, sometimes to the point where someone else has to intervene. What do I do? I'd really like some honest opinions. I really don't know what to think or do. I love him, but this is really hurting me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf (28m) and I (25f) have been together for 5.5 years. We have lived together for about 4 years. I'm currently in school, but don't have a job, so he's supporting me. Previously, while he was searching for a job, I postponed my schooling to support him, so I kind of feel this is a fair trade. However, more and more he treats me like an obligation. He doesn't want to spend time with me, even when I suggest doing something he likes or having sex. He groans or complains that he never gets time to himself. I try to give him his space. I spend a good portion of my times studying or doing assignments, so it's not like I'm breathing down his neck all the time. I've been trying to do little things for him, as I know working can be stressful, but it doesn't seem to matter what I do/say, he just gets upset that I would like to spend some time with him. He spends most of his time on the computer or his phone. If I try to talk to him, he ignores me, sometimes to the point where someone else has to intervene. What do I do? I'd really like some honest opinions. I really don't know what to think or do. I love him, but this is really hurting me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf (28m) and I (25f) have been together for 5.5 years. We have lived together for about 4 years. I'm currently in school, but don't have a job, so he's supporting me. Previously, while he was searching for a job, I postponed my schooling to support him, so I kind of feel this is a fair trade. However, more and more he treats me like an obligation. He doesn't want to spend time with me, even when I suggest doing something he likes or having sex. He groans or complains that he never gets time to himself. I try to give him his space. I spend a good portion of my times studying or doing assignments, so it's not like I'm breathing down his neck all the time. I've been trying to do little things for him, as I know working can be stressful, but it doesn't seem to matter what I do/say, he just gets upset that I would like to spend some time with him. He spends most of his time on the computer or his phone. If I try to talk to him, he ignores me, sometimes to the point where someone else has to intervene. What do I do? I'd really like some honest opinions. I really don't know what to think or do. I love him, but this is really hurting me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf (28m) and I (25f) have been together for 5.5 years. We have lived together for about 4 years. I'm currently in school, but don't have a job, so he's supporting me. Previously, while he was searching for a job, I postponed my schooling to support him, so I kind of feel this is a fair trade. However, more and more he treats me like an obligation. He doesn't want to spend time with me, even when I suggest doing something he likes or having sex. He groans or complains that he never gets time to himself. I try to give him his space. I spend a good portion of my times studying or doing assignments, so it's not like I'm breathing down his neck all the time. I've been trying to do little things for him, as I know working can be stressful, but it doesn't seem to matter what I do/say, he just gets upset that I would like to spend some time with him. He spends most of his time on the computer or his phone. If I try to talk to him, he ignores me, sometimes to the point where someone else has to intervene. What do I do? I'd really like some honest opinions. I really don't know what to think or do. I love him, but this is really hurting me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf (28m) and I (25f) have been together for 5.5 years. We have lived together for about 4 years. I'm currently in school, but don't have a job, so he's supporting me. Previously, while he was searching for a job, I postponed my schooling to support him, so I kind of feel this is a fair trade. However, more and more he treats me like an obligation. He doesn't want to spend time with me, even when I suggest doing something he likes or having sex. He groans or complains that he never gets time to himself. I try to give him his space. I spend a good portion of my times studying or doing assignments, so it's not like I'm breathing down his neck all the time. I've been trying to do little things for him, as I know working can be stressful, but it doesn't seem to matter what I do/say, he just gets upset that I would like to spend some time with him. He spends most of his time on the computer or his phone. If I try to talk to him, he ignores me, sometimes to the point where someone else has to intervene. What do I do? I'd really like some honest opinions. I really don't know what to think or do. I love him, but this is really hurting me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf (28m) and I (25f) have been together for 5.5 years. We have lived together for about 4 years. I'm currently in school, but don't have a job, so he's supporting me. Previously, while he was searching for a job, I postponed my schooling to support him, so I kind of feel this is a fair trade. However, more and more he treats me like an obligation. He doesn't want to spend time with me, even when I suggest doing something he likes or having sex. He groans or complains that he never gets time to himself. I try to give him his space. I spend a good portion of my times studying or doing assignments, so it's not like I'm breathing down his neck all the time. I've been trying to do little things for him, as I know working can be stressful, but it doesn't seem to matter what I do/say, he just gets upset that I would like to spend some time with him. He spends most of his time on the computer or his phone. If I try to talk to him, he ignores me, sometimes to the point where someone else has to intervene. What do I do? I'd really like some honest opinions. I really don't know what to think or do. I love him, but this is really hurting me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My uncle started a website, [Dear Young Me]( and asked me to submit some of my own advice to my younger self. Because I'm one of those unimaginative redditors, I asked you guys to crowdsource it for me in return for some sweet sweet comment karma. It didn't get a lot of attention, but the thread got some awesome answers.\n\n I just wanted to thank you guys because the website has gotten bigger than he ever expected and I have a sneaking suspicion that it's because of the awesome imaginative askreddit crowd whose answers I stole in order to help build his archive. Askreddit is probably the most consistently interesting big communities on reddit.\n\nAnyway, enough gushing, what advice do you guys have those younger mes out there?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My uncle started a website, [Dear Young Me]( and asked me to submit some of my own advice to my younger self. Because I'm one of those unimaginative redditors, I asked you guys to crowdsource it for me in return for some sweet sweet comment karma. It didn't get a lot of attention, but the thread got some awesome answers.\n\n I just wanted to thank you guys because the website has gotten bigger than he ever expected and I have a sneaking suspicion that it's because of the awesome imaginative askreddit crowd whose answers I stole in order to help build his archive. Askreddit is probably the most consistently interesting big communities on reddit.\n\nAnyway, enough gushing, what advice do you guys have those younger mes out there?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My uncle started a website, [Dear Young Me]( and asked me to submit some of my own advice to my younger self. Because I'm one of those unimaginative redditors, I asked you guys to crowdsource it for me in return for some sweet sweet comment karma. It didn't get a lot of attention, but the thread got some awesome answers.\n\n I just wanted to thank you guys because the website has gotten bigger than he ever expected and I have a sneaking suspicion that it's because of the awesome imaginative askreddit crowd whose answers I stole in order to help build his archive. Askreddit is probably the most consistently interesting big communities on reddit.\n\nAnyway, enough gushing, what advice do you guys have those younger mes out there?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There really is no excuse. \n\nDad had a stroke on Thursday/Friday. He got taken to the Emergency Room on Friday afternoon. He was lucky and it really only impacted his peripheral vision. I had been doing everything I can to help him while he was in the hospital, and he got out yesterday. I have volunteered to drive him to work since he cannot drive right now, and more.\n\nSo today we are cleaning up to prepare for visitors who are coming to visit. The dining room has been a mess for a while, so we start there. He's sitting in a chair barking orders like usual. Having a stroke has not changed how decides to treat people. Often when barking orders, he does so in a manner where he assumes you can read his mind, and if you ask questions on what he means he gets indigent on the fact you clearly don't know what he meant and how much of a failure you are. So he calls me stupid because I didn't understand how he wanted something placed, I'm looking all on the ground to make sure I didn't drop anything from a bag I took outside while I sweep and he says I don't want to do it because I don't want to do anything, I put something in a way he doesn't like and he tells me that I shouldn't make decisions on where to put things because I cannot make decisions in my own life, he blames me for the dining room being a mess despite the fact everyone in the house has been complicit. He ends up blaming me for everything and calls me a moron.\n\nEventually, I couldn't handle his verbal abuse anymore and told him verbatim that just because he had a stroke doesn't mean he has to be an ass fuck. He responded like a complete child that I'm the ass fuck and the failure and that he can talk to me how he wants. I walked out of the room telling him to have another stroke loud and clearly. He tried to end the exchange with stuff like \"shut the fuck up\" but the damage had been done."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There really is no excuse. \n\nDad had a stroke on Thursday/Friday. He got taken to the Emergency Room on Friday afternoon. He was lucky and it really only impacted his peripheral vision. I had been doing everything I can to help him while he was in the hospital, and he got out yesterday. I have volunteered to drive him to work since he cannot drive right now, and more.\n\nSo today we are cleaning up to prepare for visitors who are coming to visit. The dining room has been a mess for a while, so we start there. He's sitting in a chair barking orders like usual. Having a stroke has not changed how decides to treat people. Often when barking orders, he does so in a manner where he assumes you can read his mind, and if you ask questions on what he means he gets indigent on the fact you clearly don't know what he meant and how much of a failure you are. So he calls me stupid because I didn't understand how he wanted something placed, I'm looking all on the ground to make sure I didn't drop anything from a bag I took outside while I sweep and he says I don't want to do it because I don't want to do anything, I put something in a way he doesn't like and he tells me that I shouldn't make decisions on where to put things because I cannot make decisions in my own life, he blames me for the dining room being a mess despite the fact everyone in the house has been complicit. He ends up blaming me for everything and calls me a moron.\n\nEventually, I couldn't handle his verbal abuse anymore and told him verbatim that just because he had a stroke doesn't mean he has to be an ass fuck. He responded like a complete child that I'm the ass fuck and the failure and that he can talk to me how he wants. I walked out of the room telling him to have another stroke loud and clearly. He tried to end the exchange with stuff like \"shut the fuck up\" but the damage had been done."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There really is no excuse. \n\nDad had a stroke on Thursday/Friday. He got taken to the Emergency Room on Friday afternoon. He was lucky and it really only impacted his peripheral vision. I had been doing everything I can to help him while he was in the hospital, and he got out yesterday. I have volunteered to drive him to work since he cannot drive right now, and more.\n\nSo today we are cleaning up to prepare for visitors who are coming to visit. The dining room has been a mess for a while, so we start there. He's sitting in a chair barking orders like usual. Having a stroke has not changed how decides to treat people. Often when barking orders, he does so in a manner where he assumes you can read his mind, and if you ask questions on what he means he gets indigent on the fact you clearly don't know what he meant and how much of a failure you are. So he calls me stupid because I didn't understand how he wanted something placed, I'm looking all on the ground to make sure I didn't drop anything from a bag I took outside while I sweep and he says I don't want to do it because I don't want to do anything, I put something in a way he doesn't like and he tells me that I shouldn't make decisions on where to put things because I cannot make decisions in my own life, he blames me for the dining room being a mess despite the fact everyone in the house has been complicit. He ends up blaming me for everything and calls me a moron.\n\nEventually, I couldn't handle his verbal abuse anymore and told him verbatim that just because he had a stroke doesn't mean he has to be an ass fuck. He responded like a complete child that I'm the ass fuck and the failure and that he can talk to me how he wants. I walked out of the room telling him to have another stroke loud and clearly. He tried to end the exchange with stuff like \"shut the fuck up\" but the damage had been done."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There really is no excuse. \n\nDad had a stroke on Thursday/Friday. He got taken to the Emergency Room on Friday afternoon. He was lucky and it really only impacted his peripheral vision. I had been doing everything I can to help him while he was in the hospital, and he got out yesterday. I have volunteered to drive him to work since he cannot drive right now, and more.\n\nSo today we are cleaning up to prepare for visitors who are coming to visit. The dining room has been a mess for a while, so we start there. He's sitting in a chair barking orders like usual. Having a stroke has not changed how decides to treat people. Often when barking orders, he does so in a manner where he assumes you can read his mind, and if you ask questions on what he means he gets indigent on the fact you clearly don't know what he meant and how much of a failure you are. So he calls me stupid because I didn't understand how he wanted something placed, I'm looking all on the ground to make sure I didn't drop anything from a bag I took outside while I sweep and he says I don't want to do it because I don't want to do anything, I put something in a way he doesn't like and he tells me that I shouldn't make decisions on where to put things because I cannot make decisions in my own life, he blames me for the dining room being a mess despite the fact everyone in the house has been complicit. He ends up blaming me for everything and calls me a moron.\n\nEventually, I couldn't handle his verbal abuse anymore and told him verbatim that just because he had a stroke doesn't mean he has to be an ass fuck. He responded like a complete child that I'm the ass fuck and the failure and that he can talk to me how he wants. I walked out of the room telling him to have another stroke loud and clearly. He tried to end the exchange with stuff like \"shut the fuck up\" but the damage had been done."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There really is no excuse. \n\nDad had a stroke on Thursday/Friday. He got taken to the Emergency Room on Friday afternoon. He was lucky and it really only impacted his peripheral vision. I had been doing everything I can to help him while he was in the hospital, and he got out yesterday. I have volunteered to drive him to work since he cannot drive right now, and more.\n\nSo today we are cleaning up to prepare for visitors who are coming to visit. The dining room has been a mess for a while, so we start there. He's sitting in a chair barking orders like usual. Having a stroke has not changed how decides to treat people. Often when barking orders, he does so in a manner where he assumes you can read his mind, and if you ask questions on what he means he gets indigent on the fact you clearly don't know what he meant and how much of a failure you are. So he calls me stupid because I didn't understand how he wanted something placed, I'm looking all on the ground to make sure I didn't drop anything from a bag I took outside while I sweep and he says I don't want to do it because I don't want to do anything, I put something in a way he doesn't like and he tells me that I shouldn't make decisions on where to put things because I cannot make decisions in my own life, he blames me for the dining room being a mess despite the fact everyone in the house has been complicit. He ends up blaming me for everything and calls me a moron.\n\nEventually, I couldn't handle his verbal abuse anymore and told him verbatim that just because he had a stroke doesn't mean he has to be an ass fuck. He responded like a complete child that I'm the ass fuck and the failure and that he can talk to me how he wants. I walked out of the room telling him to have another stroke loud and clearly. He tried to end the exchange with stuff like \"shut the fuck up\" but the damage had been done."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There really is no excuse. \n\nDad had a stroke on Thursday/Friday. He got taken to the Emergency Room on Friday afternoon. He was lucky and it really only impacted his peripheral vision. I had been doing everything I can to help him while he was in the hospital, and he got out yesterday. I have volunteered to drive him to work since he cannot drive right now, and more.\n\nSo today we are cleaning up to prepare for visitors who are coming to visit. The dining room has been a mess for a while, so we start there. He's sitting in a chair barking orders like usual. Having a stroke has not changed how decides to treat people. Often when barking orders, he does so in a manner where he assumes you can read his mind, and if you ask questions on what he means he gets indigent on the fact you clearly don't know what he meant and how much of a failure you are. So he calls me stupid because I didn't understand how he wanted something placed, I'm looking all on the ground to make sure I didn't drop anything from a bag I took outside while I sweep and he says I don't want to do it because I don't want to do anything, I put something in a way he doesn't like and he tells me that I shouldn't make decisions on where to put things because I cannot make decisions in my own life, he blames me for the dining room being a mess despite the fact everyone in the house has been complicit. He ends up blaming me for everything and calls me a moron.\n\nEventually, I couldn't handle his verbal abuse anymore and told him verbatim that just because he had a stroke doesn't mean he has to be an ass fuck. He responded like a complete child that I'm the ass fuck and the failure and that he can talk to me how he wants. I walked out of the room telling him to have another stroke loud and clearly. He tried to end the exchange with stuff like \"shut the fuck up\" but the damage had been done."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Girlfriend 1 had been living with me for 10 months towards end of our studies, decided she wanted out and turned to mutual friends that she had isolated us from during relationship. I lost my best bud and my close social circle because of her. \n\nDecided to suck it up and move on, got a new job however ex best bud was my colleague (I got us the job before things went down). We act civil but friendship is dead and he actively seeks to outdo me in the workplace (fair enough thats how people are). \n\nI get a new gf and things go well for a while although I move back to parents' to save money as new gf is long distance. She turns out to be having sex with men for money and I have a mini breakdown and in the process lose my job. \n\nAs a guy I hate competition and feel my lack of drive to compete with those around me (my first ex, my ex friend, other men in general) costs me advancement in society. I don't consider myself a beta male (don't really give a shit about that kind of thing) but I do feel the need to push myself forward and unsure of how to resolve my life so that future relationships can blossom and grow. \n\nAlso recently lost a long term friend due to his own life circumstances and his feeling I was being selfish & annoying due to not visiting him (I had explained I was unable due to being unemployed / financially unable to travel to see him.)\n\nI'll be studying a Masters later this year and am just looking for thoughts/suggestions on my situation and how I can look to forge meaningful relationships going forward with people who will reciprocate the love/loyalty I am capable of.\n\nThanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Girlfriend 1 had been living with me for 10 months towards end of our studies, decided she wanted out and turned to mutual friends that she had isolated us from during relationship. I lost my best bud and my close social circle because of her. \n\nDecided to suck it up and move on, got a new job however ex best bud was my colleague (I got us the job before things went down). We act civil but friendship is dead and he actively seeks to outdo me in the workplace (fair enough thats how people are). \n\nI get a new gf and things go well for a while although I move back to parents' to save money as new gf is long distance. She turns out to be having sex with men for money and I have a mini breakdown and in the process lose my job. \n\nAs a guy I hate competition and feel my lack of drive to compete with those around me (my first ex, my ex friend, other men in general) costs me advancement in society. I don't consider myself a beta male (don't really give a shit about that kind of thing) but I do feel the need to push myself forward and unsure of how to resolve my life so that future relationships can blossom and grow. \n\nAlso recently lost a long term friend due to his own life circumstances and his feeling I was being selfish & annoying due to not visiting him (I had explained I was unable due to being unemployed / financially unable to travel to see him.)\n\nI'll be studying a Masters later this year and am just looking for thoughts/suggestions on my situation and how I can look to forge meaningful relationships going forward with people who will reciprocate the love/loyalty I am capable of.\n\nThanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Girlfriend 1 had been living with me for 10 months towards end of our studies, decided she wanted out and turned to mutual friends that she had isolated us from during relationship. I lost my best bud and my close social circle because of her. \n\nDecided to suck it up and move on, got a new job however ex best bud was my colleague (I got us the job before things went down). We act civil but friendship is dead and he actively seeks to outdo me in the workplace (fair enough thats how people are). \n\nI get a new gf and things go well for a while although I move back to parents' to save money as new gf is long distance. She turns out to be having sex with men for money and I have a mini breakdown and in the process lose my job. \n\nAs a guy I hate competition and feel my lack of drive to compete with those around me (my first ex, my ex friend, other men in general) costs me advancement in society. I don't consider myself a beta male (don't really give a shit about that kind of thing) but I do feel the need to push myself forward and unsure of how to resolve my life so that future relationships can blossom and grow. \n\nAlso recently lost a long term friend due to his own life circumstances and his feeling I was being selfish & annoying due to not visiting him (I had explained I was unable due to being unemployed / financially unable to travel to see him.)\n\nI'll be studying a Masters later this year and am just looking for thoughts/suggestions on my situation and how I can look to forge meaningful relationships going forward with people who will reciprocate the love/loyalty I am capable of.\n\nThanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Girlfriend 1 had been living with me for 10 months towards end of our studies, decided she wanted out and turned to mutual friends that she had isolated us from during relationship. I lost my best bud and my close social circle because of her. \n\nDecided to suck it up and move on, got a new job however ex best bud was my colleague (I got us the job before things went down). We act civil but friendship is dead and he actively seeks to outdo me in the workplace (fair enough thats how people are). \n\nI get a new gf and things go well for a while although I move back to parents' to save money as new gf is long distance. She turns out to be having sex with men for money and I have a mini breakdown and in the process lose my job. \n\nAs a guy I hate competition and feel my lack of drive to compete with those around me (my first ex, my ex friend, other men in general) costs me advancement in society. I don't consider myself a beta male (don't really give a shit about that kind of thing) but I do feel the need to push myself forward and unsure of how to resolve my life so that future relationships can blossom and grow. \n\nAlso recently lost a long term friend due to his own life circumstances and his feeling I was being selfish & annoying due to not visiting him (I had explained I was unable due to being unemployed / financially unable to travel to see him.)\n\nI'll be studying a Masters later this year and am just looking for thoughts/suggestions on my situation and how I can look to forge meaningful relationships going forward with people who will reciprocate the love/loyalty I am capable of.\n\nThanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Girlfriend 1 had been living with me for 10 months towards end of our studies, decided she wanted out and turned to mutual friends that she had isolated us from during relationship. I lost my best bud and my close social circle because of her. \n\nDecided to suck it up and move on, got a new job however ex best bud was my colleague (I got us the job before things went down). We act civil but friendship is dead and he actively seeks to outdo me in the workplace (fair enough thats how people are). \n\nI get a new gf and things go well for a while although I move back to parents' to save money as new gf is long distance. She turns out to be having sex with men for money and I have a mini breakdown and in the process lose my job. \n\nAs a guy I hate competition and feel my lack of drive to compete with those around me (my first ex, my ex friend, other men in general) costs me advancement in society. I don't consider myself a beta male (don't really give a shit about that kind of thing) but I do feel the need to push myself forward and unsure of how to resolve my life so that future relationships can blossom and grow. \n\nAlso recently lost a long term friend due to his own life circumstances and his feeling I was being selfish & annoying due to not visiting him (I had explained I was unable due to being unemployed / financially unable to travel to see him.)\n\nI'll be studying a Masters later this year and am just looking for thoughts/suggestions on my situation and how I can look to forge meaningful relationships going forward with people who will reciprocate the love/loyalty I am capable of.\n\nThanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Girlfriend 1 had been living with me for 10 months towards end of our studies, decided she wanted out and turned to mutual friends that she had isolated us from during relationship. I lost my best bud and my close social circle because of her. \n\nDecided to suck it up and move on, got a new job however ex best bud was my colleague (I got us the job before things went down). We act civil but friendship is dead and he actively seeks to outdo me in the workplace (fair enough thats how people are). \n\nI get a new gf and things go well for a while although I move back to parents' to save money as new gf is long distance. She turns out to be having sex with men for money and I have a mini breakdown and in the process lose my job. \n\nAs a guy I hate competition and feel my lack of drive to compete with those around me (my first ex, my ex friend, other men in general) costs me advancement in society. I don't consider myself a beta male (don't really give a shit about that kind of thing) but I do feel the need to push myself forward and unsure of how to resolve my life so that future relationships can blossom and grow. \n\nAlso recently lost a long term friend due to his own life circumstances and his feeling I was being selfish & annoying due to not visiting him (I had explained I was unable due to being unemployed / financially unable to travel to see him.)\n\nI'll be studying a Masters later this year and am just looking for thoughts/suggestions on my situation and how I can look to forge meaningful relationships going forward with people who will reciprocate the love/loyalty I am capable of.\n\nThanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! I'm a 23 y/o F dating a 30 y/o male. This is by far the best relationship I've had and he's the sweetest guy which made realizing we're not right for each other even more difficult.\nOur first date he invited me over to brew with his brother, sister in law and all their family, we didn't have much in common but we clicked and didn't stop hanging out since. We immediately took a vacation/ road trip and it was pure bliss for a few months. He still tells me how much he loves me each morning and compliments me every chance he gets. He's the most genuine and sweetest guy I know and feel lucky to have him. He doesn't get jealous or have trust issues and everyone we've met loves him- the only problem is we maybe have sex once every two weeks at most and this has gone on most of the relationship, I figured it was just stress but after some tough situations on his end it has only gotten worse and I don't think I can keep this up without passion or romance. I firmly believe sex should happen at least a couple times a day when time allows, not feel like a chore when it happens and it's the same thing every time. Am I being too picky? It's gotten to the point where I look at him and feel annoyed and don't even want to have sex with him. He's a good guy, I know he doesn't deserve it but I can't help but feel bitter about the lack of sex and it's hurting our relationship.\n\nEDIT: I have talked about it with him three times and been really open about how much intimacy means to me"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! I'm a 23 y/o F dating a 30 y/o male. This is by far the best relationship I've had and he's the sweetest guy which made realizing we're not right for each other even more difficult.\nOur first date he invited me over to brew with his brother, sister in law and all their family, we didn't have much in common but we clicked and didn't stop hanging out since. We immediately took a vacation/ road trip and it was pure bliss for a few months. He still tells me how much he loves me each morning and compliments me every chance he gets. He's the most genuine and sweetest guy I know and feel lucky to have him. He doesn't get jealous or have trust issues and everyone we've met loves him- the only problem is we maybe have sex once every two weeks at most and this has gone on most of the relationship, I figured it was just stress but after some tough situations on his end it has only gotten worse and I don't think I can keep this up without passion or romance. I firmly believe sex should happen at least a couple times a day when time allows, not feel like a chore when it happens and it's the same thing every time. Am I being too picky? It's gotten to the point where I look at him and feel annoyed and don't even want to have sex with him. He's a good guy, I know he doesn't deserve it but I can't help but feel bitter about the lack of sex and it's hurting our relationship.\n\nEDIT: I have talked about it with him three times and been really open about how much intimacy means to me"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! I'm a 23 y/o F dating a 30 y/o male. This is by far the best relationship I've had and he's the sweetest guy which made realizing we're not right for each other even more difficult.\nOur first date he invited me over to brew with his brother, sister in law and all their family, we didn't have much in common but we clicked and didn't stop hanging out since. We immediately took a vacation/ road trip and it was pure bliss for a few months. He still tells me how much he loves me each morning and compliments me every chance he gets. He's the most genuine and sweetest guy I know and feel lucky to have him. He doesn't get jealous or have trust issues and everyone we've met loves him- the only problem is we maybe have sex once every two weeks at most and this has gone on most of the relationship, I figured it was just stress but after some tough situations on his end it has only gotten worse and I don't think I can keep this up without passion or romance. I firmly believe sex should happen at least a couple times a day when time allows, not feel like a chore when it happens and it's the same thing every time. Am I being too picky? It's gotten to the point where I look at him and feel annoyed and don't even want to have sex with him. He's a good guy, I know he doesn't deserve it but I can't help but feel bitter about the lack of sex and it's hurting our relationship.\n\nEDIT: I have talked about it with him three times and been really open about how much intimacy means to me"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! I'm a 23 y/o F dating a 30 y/o male. This is by far the best relationship I've had and he's the sweetest guy which made realizing we're not right for each other even more difficult.\nOur first date he invited me over to brew with his brother, sister in law and all their family, we didn't have much in common but we clicked and didn't stop hanging out since. We immediately took a vacation/ road trip and it was pure bliss for a few months. He still tells me how much he loves me each morning and compliments me every chance he gets. He's the most genuine and sweetest guy I know and feel lucky to have him. He doesn't get jealous or have trust issues and everyone we've met loves him- the only problem is we maybe have sex once every two weeks at most and this has gone on most of the relationship, I figured it was just stress but after some tough situations on his end it has only gotten worse and I don't think I can keep this up without passion or romance. I firmly believe sex should happen at least a couple times a day when time allows, not feel like a chore when it happens and it's the same thing every time. Am I being too picky? It's gotten to the point where I look at him and feel annoyed and don't even want to have sex with him. He's a good guy, I know he doesn't deserve it but I can't help but feel bitter about the lack of sex and it's hurting our relationship.\n\nEDIT: I have talked about it with him three times and been really open about how much intimacy means to me"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! I'm a 23 y/o F dating a 30 y/o male. This is by far the best relationship I've had and he's the sweetest guy which made realizing we're not right for each other even more difficult.\nOur first date he invited me over to brew with his brother, sister in law and all their family, we didn't have much in common but we clicked and didn't stop hanging out since. We immediately took a vacation/ road trip and it was pure bliss for a few months. He still tells me how much he loves me each morning and compliments me every chance he gets. He's the most genuine and sweetest guy I know and feel lucky to have him. He doesn't get jealous or have trust issues and everyone we've met loves him- the only problem is we maybe have sex once every two weeks at most and this has gone on most of the relationship, I figured it was just stress but after some tough situations on his end it has only gotten worse and I don't think I can keep this up without passion or romance. I firmly believe sex should happen at least a couple times a day when time allows, not feel like a chore when it happens and it's the same thing every time. Am I being too picky? It's gotten to the point where I look at him and feel annoyed and don't even want to have sex with him. He's a good guy, I know he doesn't deserve it but I can't help but feel bitter about the lack of sex and it's hurting our relationship.\n\nEDIT: I have talked about it with him three times and been really open about how much intimacy means to me"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! I'm a 23 y/o F dating a 30 y/o male. This is by far the best relationship I've had and he's the sweetest guy which made realizing we're not right for each other even more difficult.\nOur first date he invited me over to brew with his brother, sister in law and all their family, we didn't have much in common but we clicked and didn't stop hanging out since. We immediately took a vacation/ road trip and it was pure bliss for a few months. He still tells me how much he loves me each morning and compliments me every chance he gets. He's the most genuine and sweetest guy I know and feel lucky to have him. He doesn't get jealous or have trust issues and everyone we've met loves him- the only problem is we maybe have sex once every two weeks at most and this has gone on most of the relationship, I figured it was just stress but after some tough situations on his end it has only gotten worse and I don't think I can keep this up without passion or romance. I firmly believe sex should happen at least a couple times a day when time allows, not feel like a chore when it happens and it's the same thing every time. Am I being too picky? It's gotten to the point where I look at him and feel annoyed and don't even want to have sex with him. He's a good guy, I know he doesn't deserve it but I can't help but feel bitter about the lack of sex and it's hurting our relationship.\n\nEDIT: I have talked about it with him three times and been really open about how much intimacy means to me"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've always been a long-term relationships person. My boyfriend has always been a casual sex/casual dating person. We met a bit over a year ago and have had a wonderful relationship ever since. He is great and I love him - he is smart, funny, good at communicating, and usually makes me feel loved and cared for. \n\nBut he really wants to keep fucking other people. We talked about swinging and/or threesomes at the beginning of the relationship and we have dipped our toes in a little. I wouldn't mind continuing to explore that. But now he really wants to be able to, at least theoretically in the future, go out and hook up with random women occasionally. He is scared of it being totally off the table.\n\nBut it is, for me. I'm just not interested in that kind of relationship. I'm totally cool with the fact that he has had a ton of sex and I'm down with watching porn together, talking about attractive people, fantasizing, and sleeping with other people sometimes TOGETHER. I feel like I'm pretty open and I'm being very understanding and compromising and he's still not happy! At this point I'm like come on dude, you are not being reasonable. You want all the privileges and benefits of being single AND all the comforts and benefits of being in a relationship. It makes me feel hurt that he doesn't love me enough to give up something that hurts me.\n\nThis has all come out because we have begun discussing marriage, and he has said the issue of monogamy is one thing that makes him scared to commit to it. At this point, despite how much I love him and how great we are together, I'm wondering if I'm wasting my time. \n\nIs this just part of him adjusting to a long-term relationship, since he hasn't had one before? Has anyone else gone through a similar issue with their partner and come out happier on the other side? Or should I give up on my dreams of us having a happy marriage and future together?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've always been a long-term relationships person. My boyfriend has always been a casual sex/casual dating person. We met a bit over a year ago and have had a wonderful relationship ever since. He is great and I love him - he is smart, funny, good at communicating, and usually makes me feel loved and cared for. \n\nBut he really wants to keep fucking other people. We talked about swinging and/or threesomes at the beginning of the relationship and we have dipped our toes in a little. I wouldn't mind continuing to explore that. But now he really wants to be able to, at least theoretically in the future, go out and hook up with random women occasionally. He is scared of it being totally off the table.\n\nBut it is, for me. I'm just not interested in that kind of relationship. I'm totally cool with the fact that he has had a ton of sex and I'm down with watching porn together, talking about attractive people, fantasizing, and sleeping with other people sometimes TOGETHER. I feel like I'm pretty open and I'm being very understanding and compromising and he's still not happy! At this point I'm like come on dude, you are not being reasonable. You want all the privileges and benefits of being single AND all the comforts and benefits of being in a relationship. It makes me feel hurt that he doesn't love me enough to give up something that hurts me.\n\nThis has all come out because we have begun discussing marriage, and he has said the issue of monogamy is one thing that makes him scared to commit to it. At this point, despite how much I love him and how great we are together, I'm wondering if I'm wasting my time. \n\nIs this just part of him adjusting to a long-term relationship, since he hasn't had one before? Has anyone else gone through a similar issue with their partner and come out happier on the other side? Or should I give up on my dreams of us having a happy marriage and future together?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've always been a long-term relationships person. My boyfriend has always been a casual sex/casual dating person. We met a bit over a year ago and have had a wonderful relationship ever since. He is great and I love him - he is smart, funny, good at communicating, and usually makes me feel loved and cared for. \n\nBut he really wants to keep fucking other people. We talked about swinging and/or threesomes at the beginning of the relationship and we have dipped our toes in a little. I wouldn't mind continuing to explore that. But now he really wants to be able to, at least theoretically in the future, go out and hook up with random women occasionally. He is scared of it being totally off the table.\n\nBut it is, for me. I'm just not interested in that kind of relationship. I'm totally cool with the fact that he has had a ton of sex and I'm down with watching porn together, talking about attractive people, fantasizing, and sleeping with other people sometimes TOGETHER. I feel like I'm pretty open and I'm being very understanding and compromising and he's still not happy! At this point I'm like come on dude, you are not being reasonable. You want all the privileges and benefits of being single AND all the comforts and benefits of being in a relationship. It makes me feel hurt that he doesn't love me enough to give up something that hurts me.\n\nThis has all come out because we have begun discussing marriage, and he has said the issue of monogamy is one thing that makes him scared to commit to it. At this point, despite how much I love him and how great we are together, I'm wondering if I'm wasting my time. \n\nIs this just part of him adjusting to a long-term relationship, since he hasn't had one before? Has anyone else gone through a similar issue with their partner and come out happier on the other side? Or should I give up on my dreams of us having a happy marriage and future together?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've always been a long-term relationships person. My boyfriend has always been a casual sex/casual dating person. We met a bit over a year ago and have had a wonderful relationship ever since. He is great and I love him - he is smart, funny, good at communicating, and usually makes me feel loved and cared for. \n\nBut he really wants to keep fucking other people. We talked about swinging and/or threesomes at the beginning of the relationship and we have dipped our toes in a little. I wouldn't mind continuing to explore that. But now he really wants to be able to, at least theoretically in the future, go out and hook up with random women occasionally. He is scared of it being totally off the table.\n\nBut it is, for me. I'm just not interested in that kind of relationship. I'm totally cool with the fact that he has had a ton of sex and I'm down with watching porn together, talking about attractive people, fantasizing, and sleeping with other people sometimes TOGETHER. I feel like I'm pretty open and I'm being very understanding and compromising and he's still not happy! At this point I'm like come on dude, you are not being reasonable. You want all the privileges and benefits of being single AND all the comforts and benefits of being in a relationship. It makes me feel hurt that he doesn't love me enough to give up something that hurts me.\n\nThis has all come out because we have begun discussing marriage, and he has said the issue of monogamy is one thing that makes him scared to commit to it. At this point, despite how much I love him and how great we are together, I'm wondering if I'm wasting my time. \n\nIs this just part of him adjusting to a long-term relationship, since he hasn't had one before? Has anyone else gone through a similar issue with their partner and come out happier on the other side? Or should I give up on my dreams of us having a happy marriage and future together?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've always been a long-term relationships person. My boyfriend has always been a casual sex/casual dating person. We met a bit over a year ago and have had a wonderful relationship ever since. He is great and I love him - he is smart, funny, good at communicating, and usually makes me feel loved and cared for. \n\nBut he really wants to keep fucking other people. We talked about swinging and/or threesomes at the beginning of the relationship and we have dipped our toes in a little. I wouldn't mind continuing to explore that. But now he really wants to be able to, at least theoretically in the future, go out and hook up with random women occasionally. He is scared of it being totally off the table.\n\nBut it is, for me. I'm just not interested in that kind of relationship. I'm totally cool with the fact that he has had a ton of sex and I'm down with watching porn together, talking about attractive people, fantasizing, and sleeping with other people sometimes TOGETHER. I feel like I'm pretty open and I'm being very understanding and compromising and he's still not happy! At this point I'm like come on dude, you are not being reasonable. You want all the privileges and benefits of being single AND all the comforts and benefits of being in a relationship. It makes me feel hurt that he doesn't love me enough to give up something that hurts me.\n\nThis has all come out because we have begun discussing marriage, and he has said the issue of monogamy is one thing that makes him scared to commit to it. At this point, despite how much I love him and how great we are together, I'm wondering if I'm wasting my time. \n\nIs this just part of him adjusting to a long-term relationship, since he hasn't had one before? Has anyone else gone through a similar issue with their partner and come out happier on the other side? Or should I give up on my dreams of us having a happy marriage and future together?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've always been a long-term relationships person. My boyfriend has always been a casual sex/casual dating person. We met a bit over a year ago and have had a wonderful relationship ever since. He is great and I love him - he is smart, funny, good at communicating, and usually makes me feel loved and cared for. \n\nBut he really wants to keep fucking other people. We talked about swinging and/or threesomes at the beginning of the relationship and we have dipped our toes in a little. I wouldn't mind continuing to explore that. But now he really wants to be able to, at least theoretically in the future, go out and hook up with random women occasionally. He is scared of it being totally off the table.\n\nBut it is, for me. I'm just not interested in that kind of relationship. I'm totally cool with the fact that he has had a ton of sex and I'm down with watching porn together, talking about attractive people, fantasizing, and sleeping with other people sometimes TOGETHER. I feel like I'm pretty open and I'm being very understanding and compromising and he's still not happy! At this point I'm like come on dude, you are not being reasonable. You want all the privileges and benefits of being single AND all the comforts and benefits of being in a relationship. It makes me feel hurt that he doesn't love me enough to give up something that hurts me.\n\nThis has all come out because we have begun discussing marriage, and he has said the issue of monogamy is one thing that makes him scared to commit to it. At this point, despite how much I love him and how great we are together, I'm wondering if I'm wasting my time. \n\nIs this just part of him adjusting to a long-term relationship, since he hasn't had one before? Has anyone else gone through a similar issue with their partner and come out happier on the other side? Or should I give up on my dreams of us having a happy marriage and future together?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating the same guy on and off for about 4 years now, and he's great in just about every way a boyfriend can be-he's very loving, always tries to make me happy, wants to try new things with me, he's smart and attractive.you get the picture. Obviously there are issues too-we have tiny arguments about stupid things when we both think we are right, some of my closest friends think he's wrong for me, etc. \n \nI've also never dated anyone else. During one of our breakups I tried to be interested in other men but just compared them to him and decided none were worth my time, despite many opportunities. \n\nI don't know why, but something just feels wrong about our relationship. It's like I'm bored of it even though he's constantly trying to make my life better and he often does.I feel like the relationship isn't going to last forever so even though I would say I am generally happy to be in it it feels like I'm doing something wrong since it seems like he sees no end for us in sight and would be perfectly content with it going on forever.\n\nI also have many issues with depression and have recently felt very down. It makes everything very confusing for me and it's so hard to tell whether the relationship is contributing to my depression or if my depression is contributing to my relationship woes. \n\nAnyone have any advice for me? Has anyone else ever been in a similar situation? What did you do and how did it go? I'm just very lost right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating the same guy on and off for about 4 years now, and he's great in just about every way a boyfriend can be-he's very loving, always tries to make me happy, wants to try new things with me, he's smart and attractive.you get the picture. Obviously there are issues too-we have tiny arguments about stupid things when we both think we are right, some of my closest friends think he's wrong for me, etc. \n \nI've also never dated anyone else. During one of our breakups I tried to be interested in other men but just compared them to him and decided none were worth my time, despite many opportunities. \n\nI don't know why, but something just feels wrong about our relationship. It's like I'm bored of it even though he's constantly trying to make my life better and he often does.I feel like the relationship isn't going to last forever so even though I would say I am generally happy to be in it it feels like I'm doing something wrong since it seems like he sees no end for us in sight and would be perfectly content with it going on forever.\n\nI also have many issues with depression and have recently felt very down. It makes everything very confusing for me and it's so hard to tell whether the relationship is contributing to my depression or if my depression is contributing to my relationship woes. \n\nAnyone have any advice for me? Has anyone else ever been in a similar situation? What did you do and how did it go? I'm just very lost right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating the same guy on and off for about 4 years now, and he's great in just about every way a boyfriend can be-he's very loving, always tries to make me happy, wants to try new things with me, he's smart and attractive.you get the picture. Obviously there are issues too-we have tiny arguments about stupid things when we both think we are right, some of my closest friends think he's wrong for me, etc. \n \nI've also never dated anyone else. During one of our breakups I tried to be interested in other men but just compared them to him and decided none were worth my time, despite many opportunities. \n\nI don't know why, but something just feels wrong about our relationship. It's like I'm bored of it even though he's constantly trying to make my life better and he often does.I feel like the relationship isn't going to last forever so even though I would say I am generally happy to be in it it feels like I'm doing something wrong since it seems like he sees no end for us in sight and would be perfectly content with it going on forever.\n\nI also have many issues with depression and have recently felt very down. It makes everything very confusing for me and it's so hard to tell whether the relationship is contributing to my depression or if my depression is contributing to my relationship woes. \n\nAnyone have any advice for me? Has anyone else ever been in a similar situation? What did you do and how did it go? I'm just very lost right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all,\n\nFirst of all, just want to say /r/travel is my favorite reddit community - it influenced me and helped me along my journey as a traveler, especially last summer when I did a 1-month backpacking trip to Europe.\n\n*Question:* Buying a one-way ticket to Barcelona. I know that I'm generally limited to 90 days per 180 day period in Europe/Schengen. I'd like to stay longer. What are my alternative options? \n\n*Background:* To put it briefly, I'm on a journey of self-discovery and very interested in transplanting myself out of my current environment, live in a different culture, and experience something new. I chose Spain because I speak intermediate Spanish, loved the culture, and think I could learn about myself there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all,\n\nFirst of all, just want to say /r/travel is my favorite reddit community - it influenced me and helped me along my journey as a traveler, especially last summer when I did a 1-month backpacking trip to Europe.\n\n*Question:* Buying a one-way ticket to Barcelona. I know that I'm generally limited to 90 days per 180 day period in Europe/Schengen. I'd like to stay longer. What are my alternative options? \n\n*Background:* To put it briefly, I'm on a journey of self-discovery and very interested in transplanting myself out of my current environment, live in a different culture, and experience something new. I chose Spain because I speak intermediate Spanish, loved the culture, and think I could learn about myself there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all,\n\nFirst of all, just want to say /r/travel is my favorite reddit community - it influenced me and helped me along my journey as a traveler, especially last summer when I did a 1-month backpacking trip to Europe.\n\n*Question:* Buying a one-way ticket to Barcelona. I know that I'm generally limited to 90 days per 180 day period in Europe/Schengen. I'd like to stay longer. What are my alternative options? \n\n*Background:* To put it briefly, I'm on a journey of self-discovery and very interested in transplanting myself out of my current environment, live in a different culture, and experience something new. I chose Spain because I speak intermediate Spanish, loved the culture, and think I could learn about myself there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all,\n\nFirst of all, just want to say /r/travel is my favorite reddit community - it influenced me and helped me along my journey as a traveler, especially last summer when I did a 1-month backpacking trip to Europe.\n\n*Question:* Buying a one-way ticket to Barcelona. I know that I'm generally limited to 90 days per 180 day period in Europe/Schengen. I'd like to stay longer. What are my alternative options? \n\n*Background:* To put it briefly, I'm on a journey of self-discovery and very interested in transplanting myself out of my current environment, live in a different culture, and experience something new. I chose Spain because I speak intermediate Spanish, loved the culture, and think I could learn about myself there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all,\n\nFirst of all, just want to say /r/travel is my favorite reddit community - it influenced me and helped me along my journey as a traveler, especially last summer when I did a 1-month backpacking trip to Europe.\n\n*Question:* Buying a one-way ticket to Barcelona. I know that I'm generally limited to 90 days per 180 day period in Europe/Schengen. I'd like to stay longer. What are my alternative options? \n\n*Background:* To put it briefly, I'm on a journey of self-discovery and very interested in transplanting myself out of my current environment, live in a different culture, and experience something new. I chose Spain because I speak intermediate Spanish, loved the culture, and think I could learn about myself there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Happened several months ago. She doesn't know that I know about it. We're always extremely open with each other, which is one of the main things that has helped me with my trust issues and her with her self-esteem issues. We've had many deep talks since and I've asked her before if there's anything she regrets or that she wants me to know, but she said no. But at the time I didn't have any evidence, so she may have just been planning on me never finding out.\n\nWe've been together several years and I love her very much and would forgive her for this, but I can't pretend like I don't know forever, and I don't want her to keep it a secret from me for the rest of our lives. But at the same time, she has self-esteem issues and I don't want to hurt her by bringing up something she strongly regrets and has tried to bury, because I'm afraid it will take a long time to convince her that I don't hold it against her. I also don't know how to admit to finding out without seeming nosey or suspicious.\n\nObviously I need to talk to her about it, that's the only way to get this resolved since I don't want us to keep secrets from each other for the rest of our lives. But I'm not sure how to bring it up without hurting her or hurting our relationship, since she will think this is a bigger deal than I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Happened several months ago. She doesn't know that I know about it. We're always extremely open with each other, which is one of the main things that has helped me with my trust issues and her with her self-esteem issues. We've had many deep talks since and I've asked her before if there's anything she regrets or that she wants me to know, but she said no. But at the time I didn't have any evidence, so she may have just been planning on me never finding out.\n\nWe've been together several years and I love her very much and would forgive her for this, but I can't pretend like I don't know forever, and I don't want her to keep it a secret from me for the rest of our lives. But at the same time, she has self-esteem issues and I don't want to hurt her by bringing up something she strongly regrets and has tried to bury, because I'm afraid it will take a long time to convince her that I don't hold it against her. I also don't know how to admit to finding out without seeming nosey or suspicious.\n\nObviously I need to talk to her about it, that's the only way to get this resolved since I don't want us to keep secrets from each other for the rest of our lives. But I'm not sure how to bring it up without hurting her or hurting our relationship, since she will think this is a bigger deal than I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Happened several months ago. She doesn't know that I know about it. We're always extremely open with each other, which is one of the main things that has helped me with my trust issues and her with her self-esteem issues. We've had many deep talks since and I've asked her before if there's anything she regrets or that she wants me to know, but she said no. But at the time I didn't have any evidence, so she may have just been planning on me never finding out.\n\nWe've been together several years and I love her very much and would forgive her for this, but I can't pretend like I don't know forever, and I don't want her to keep it a secret from me for the rest of our lives. But at the same time, she has self-esteem issues and I don't want to hurt her by bringing up something she strongly regrets and has tried to bury, because I'm afraid it will take a long time to convince her that I don't hold it against her. I also don't know how to admit to finding out without seeming nosey or suspicious.\n\nObviously I need to talk to her about it, that's the only way to get this resolved since I don't want us to keep secrets from each other for the rest of our lives. But I'm not sure how to bring it up without hurting her or hurting our relationship, since she will think this is a bigger deal than I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Happened several months ago. She doesn't know that I know about it. We're always extremely open with each other, which is one of the main things that has helped me with my trust issues and her with her self-esteem issues. We've had many deep talks since and I've asked her before if there's anything she regrets or that she wants me to know, but she said no. But at the time I didn't have any evidence, so she may have just been planning on me never finding out.\n\nWe've been together several years and I love her very much and would forgive her for this, but I can't pretend like I don't know forever, and I don't want her to keep it a secret from me for the rest of our lives. But at the same time, she has self-esteem issues and I don't want to hurt her by bringing up something she strongly regrets and has tried to bury, because I'm afraid it will take a long time to convince her that I don't hold it against her. I also don't know how to admit to finding out without seeming nosey or suspicious.\n\nObviously I need to talk to her about it, that's the only way to get this resolved since I don't want us to keep secrets from each other for the rest of our lives. But I'm not sure how to bring it up without hurting her or hurting our relationship, since she will think this is a bigger deal than I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Happened several months ago. She doesn't know that I know about it. We're always extremely open with each other, which is one of the main things that has helped me with my trust issues and her with her self-esteem issues. We've had many deep talks since and I've asked her before if there's anything she regrets or that she wants me to know, but she said no. But at the time I didn't have any evidence, so she may have just been planning on me never finding out.\n\nWe've been together several years and I love her very much and would forgive her for this, but I can't pretend like I don't know forever, and I don't want her to keep it a secret from me for the rest of our lives. But at the same time, she has self-esteem issues and I don't want to hurt her by bringing up something she strongly regrets and has tried to bury, because I'm afraid it will take a long time to convince her that I don't hold it against her. I also don't know how to admit to finding out without seeming nosey or suspicious.\n\nObviously I need to talk to her about it, that's the only way to get this resolved since I don't want us to keep secrets from each other for the rest of our lives. But I'm not sure how to bring it up without hurting her or hurting our relationship, since she will think this is a bigger deal than I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Happened several months ago. She doesn't know that I know about it. We're always extremely open with each other, which is one of the main things that has helped me with my trust issues and her with her self-esteem issues. We've had many deep talks since and I've asked her before if there's anything she regrets or that she wants me to know, but she said no. But at the time I didn't have any evidence, so she may have just been planning on me never finding out.\n\nWe've been together several years and I love her very much and would forgive her for this, but I can't pretend like I don't know forever, and I don't want her to keep it a secret from me for the rest of our lives. But at the same time, she has self-esteem issues and I don't want to hurt her by bringing up something she strongly regrets and has tried to bury, because I'm afraid it will take a long time to convince her that I don't hold it against her. I also don't know how to admit to finding out without seeming nosey or suspicious.\n\nObviously I need to talk to her about it, that's the only way to get this resolved since I don't want us to keep secrets from each other for the rest of our lives. But I'm not sure how to bring it up without hurting her or hurting our relationship, since she will think this is a bigger deal than I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: At first I thought my boyfriend was just frugal. He lives pretty far below his means; for example, where we live he could afford to rent a 4 bedroom house in the burbs, but he lives in a one bedroom apartment in kind of a crappy neighborhood. That's no big deal, it makes sense not to have a ton of space you don't need. But he's like that in every other aspect. On the rare occasion that we actually go out on a date (we mostly hang out at his place), he'll insist on separate checks and will only go places where he can use a coupon or if has a gift card, and he does not tip servers or delivery people. He also argues with sales associates and cashiers about prices, and I've seen him complain about completely arbitrary things (or legit just make things up) and threaten to call corporate in order to get gift cards or discounts. My Christmas present this year was a cheap box of chocolates. I could go on and on. \n\nI know the common answer given in this sub is 'break up' but honestly this is his only flaw that really bothers me. I really love him, and I want to preserve the relationship because we've talked about getting engaged soon. I've tried to talk to him about his cheapness before but he just always says this is the way he was raised, not to spend money he doesn't have to. I don't have a problem with frugality, what I have a problem with is the way he treats other people when he's trying to get discounts and free things. I don't know what to say about it though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: At first I thought my boyfriend was just frugal. He lives pretty far below his means; for example, where we live he could afford to rent a 4 bedroom house in the burbs, but he lives in a one bedroom apartment in kind of a crappy neighborhood. That's no big deal, it makes sense not to have a ton of space you don't need. But he's like that in every other aspect. On the rare occasion that we actually go out on a date (we mostly hang out at his place), he'll insist on separate checks and will only go places where he can use a coupon or if has a gift card, and he does not tip servers or delivery people. He also argues with sales associates and cashiers about prices, and I've seen him complain about completely arbitrary things (or legit just make things up) and threaten to call corporate in order to get gift cards or discounts. My Christmas present this year was a cheap box of chocolates. I could go on and on. \n\nI know the common answer given in this sub is 'break up' but honestly this is his only flaw that really bothers me. I really love him, and I want to preserve the relationship because we've talked about getting engaged soon. I've tried to talk to him about his cheapness before but he just always says this is the way he was raised, not to spend money he doesn't have to. I don't have a problem with frugality, what I have a problem with is the way he treats other people when he's trying to get discounts and free things. I don't know what to say about it though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: At first I thought my boyfriend was just frugal. He lives pretty far below his means; for example, where we live he could afford to rent a 4 bedroom house in the burbs, but he lives in a one bedroom apartment in kind of a crappy neighborhood. That's no big deal, it makes sense not to have a ton of space you don't need. But he's like that in every other aspect. On the rare occasion that we actually go out on a date (we mostly hang out at his place), he'll insist on separate checks and will only go places where he can use a coupon or if has a gift card, and he does not tip servers or delivery people. He also argues with sales associates and cashiers about prices, and I've seen him complain about completely arbitrary things (or legit just make things up) and threaten to call corporate in order to get gift cards or discounts. My Christmas present this year was a cheap box of chocolates. I could go on and on. \n\nI know the common answer given in this sub is 'break up' but honestly this is his only flaw that really bothers me. I really love him, and I want to preserve the relationship because we've talked about getting engaged soon. I've tried to talk to him about his cheapness before but he just always says this is the way he was raised, not to spend money he doesn't have to. I don't have a problem with frugality, what I have a problem with is the way he treats other people when he's trying to get discounts and free things. I don't know what to say about it though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: At first I thought my boyfriend was just frugal. He lives pretty far below his means; for example, where we live he could afford to rent a 4 bedroom house in the burbs, but he lives in a one bedroom apartment in kind of a crappy neighborhood. That's no big deal, it makes sense not to have a ton of space you don't need. But he's like that in every other aspect. On the rare occasion that we actually go out on a date (we mostly hang out at his place), he'll insist on separate checks and will only go places where he can use a coupon or if has a gift card, and he does not tip servers or delivery people. He also argues with sales associates and cashiers about prices, and I've seen him complain about completely arbitrary things (or legit just make things up) and threaten to call corporate in order to get gift cards or discounts. My Christmas present this year was a cheap box of chocolates. I could go on and on. \n\nI know the common answer given in this sub is 'break up' but honestly this is his only flaw that really bothers me. I really love him, and I want to preserve the relationship because we've talked about getting engaged soon. I've tried to talk to him about his cheapness before but he just always says this is the way he was raised, not to spend money he doesn't have to. I don't have a problem with frugality, what I have a problem with is the way he treats other people when he's trying to get discounts and free things. I don't know what to say about it though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: At first I thought my boyfriend was just frugal. He lives pretty far below his means; for example, where we live he could afford to rent a 4 bedroom house in the burbs, but he lives in a one bedroom apartment in kind of a crappy neighborhood. That's no big deal, it makes sense not to have a ton of space you don't need. But he's like that in every other aspect. On the rare occasion that we actually go out on a date (we mostly hang out at his place), he'll insist on separate checks and will only go places where he can use a coupon or if has a gift card, and he does not tip servers or delivery people. He also argues with sales associates and cashiers about prices, and I've seen him complain about completely arbitrary things (or legit just make things up) and threaten to call corporate in order to get gift cards or discounts. My Christmas present this year was a cheap box of chocolates. I could go on and on. \n\nI know the common answer given in this sub is 'break up' but honestly this is his only flaw that really bothers me. I really love him, and I want to preserve the relationship because we've talked about getting engaged soon. I've tried to talk to him about his cheapness before but he just always says this is the way he was raised, not to spend money he doesn't have to. I don't have a problem with frugality, what I have a problem with is the way he treats other people when he's trying to get discounts and free things. I don't know what to say about it though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: At first I thought my boyfriend was just frugal. He lives pretty far below his means; for example, where we live he could afford to rent a 4 bedroom house in the burbs, but he lives in a one bedroom apartment in kind of a crappy neighborhood. That's no big deal, it makes sense not to have a ton of space you don't need. But he's like that in every other aspect. On the rare occasion that we actually go out on a date (we mostly hang out at his place), he'll insist on separate checks and will only go places where he can use a coupon or if has a gift card, and he does not tip servers or delivery people. He also argues with sales associates and cashiers about prices, and I've seen him complain about completely arbitrary things (or legit just make things up) and threaten to call corporate in order to get gift cards or discounts. My Christmas present this year was a cheap box of chocolates. I could go on and on. \n\nI know the common answer given in this sub is 'break up' but honestly this is his only flaw that really bothers me. I really love him, and I want to preserve the relationship because we've talked about getting engaged soon. I've tried to talk to him about his cheapness before but he just always says this is the way he was raised, not to spend money he doesn't have to. I don't have a problem with frugality, what I have a problem with is the way he treats other people when he's trying to get discounts and free things. I don't know what to say about it though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a M 23 who had been dating F 23 for nearly 3 years throughout college. She has been out of college for a year and has a full time job. Anyway, I started an internship 3 hours away Jan 10, which turned out to be horrible timing since things were a little shaky, and we wound up breaking it off on good terms shortly thereafter. this past weekend I was back at school for a mid-term and we had a good time; had lunch, went back to her place for wine and movies, cuddled and slept (yes, only sleeping) together, went out for brunch and bloody marys. good weekend. The problem is any further advances made by me were met with here saying, \"It would just complicate things.\" I did manage to get some goodbye kisses however. I still love here very much and would like to get back together, is there anything I can say/do do get past here defenses?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a M 23 who had been dating F 23 for nearly 3 years throughout college. She has been out of college for a year and has a full time job. Anyway, I started an internship 3 hours away Jan 10, which turned out to be horrible timing since things were a little shaky, and we wound up breaking it off on good terms shortly thereafter. this past weekend I was back at school for a mid-term and we had a good time; had lunch, went back to her place for wine and movies, cuddled and slept (yes, only sleeping) together, went out for brunch and bloody marys. good weekend. The problem is any further advances made by me were met with here saying, \"It would just complicate things.\" I did manage to get some goodbye kisses however. I still love here very much and would like to get back together, is there anything I can say/do do get past here defenses?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a M 23 who had been dating F 23 for nearly 3 years throughout college. She has been out of college for a year and has a full time job. Anyway, I started an internship 3 hours away Jan 10, which turned out to be horrible timing since things were a little shaky, and we wound up breaking it off on good terms shortly thereafter. this past weekend I was back at school for a mid-term and we had a good time; had lunch, went back to her place for wine and movies, cuddled and slept (yes, only sleeping) together, went out for brunch and bloody marys. good weekend. The problem is any further advances made by me were met with here saying, \"It would just complicate things.\" I did manage to get some goodbye kisses however. I still love here very much and would like to get back together, is there anything I can say/do do get past here defenses?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a M 23 who had been dating F 23 for nearly 3 years throughout college. She has been out of college for a year and has a full time job. Anyway, I started an internship 3 hours away Jan 10, which turned out to be horrible timing since things were a little shaky, and we wound up breaking it off on good terms shortly thereafter. this past weekend I was back at school for a mid-term and we had a good time; had lunch, went back to her place for wine and movies, cuddled and slept (yes, only sleeping) together, went out for brunch and bloody marys. good weekend. The problem is any further advances made by me were met with here saying, \"It would just complicate things.\" I did manage to get some goodbye kisses however. I still love here very much and would like to get back together, is there anything I can say/do do get past here defenses?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a M 23 who had been dating F 23 for nearly 3 years throughout college. She has been out of college for a year and has a full time job. Anyway, I started an internship 3 hours away Jan 10, which turned out to be horrible timing since things were a little shaky, and we wound up breaking it off on good terms shortly thereafter. this past weekend I was back at school for a mid-term and we had a good time; had lunch, went back to her place for wine and movies, cuddled and slept (yes, only sleeping) together, went out for brunch and bloody marys. good weekend. The problem is any further advances made by me were met with here saying, \"It would just complicate things.\" I did manage to get some goodbye kisses however. I still love here very much and would like to get back together, is there anything I can say/do do get past here defenses?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a M 23 who had been dating F 23 for nearly 3 years throughout college. She has been out of college for a year and has a full time job. Anyway, I started an internship 3 hours away Jan 10, which turned out to be horrible timing since things were a little shaky, and we wound up breaking it off on good terms shortly thereafter. this past weekend I was back at school for a mid-term and we had a good time; had lunch, went back to her place for wine and movies, cuddled and slept (yes, only sleeping) together, went out for brunch and bloody marys. good weekend. The problem is any further advances made by me were met with here saying, \"It would just complicate things.\" I did manage to get some goodbye kisses however. I still love here very much and would like to get back together, is there anything I can say/do do get past here defenses?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over the last three weeks, I have felt very low level emotions towards my boyfriend. Happy when I should be joyful, sad when I should be distraught, which made me question our relationship. After talking it over with friends and family, I decided to raise the issue of muted emotions with my boyfriend. Naturally, he was hurt by the fact that I had doubts about whether I loved him or not but he spent the conversation, trying to understand what I meant and how exactly I felt. An hour into the conversation, I was crying and I realised that despite the muted feelings, I still loved him and didn't want to lose him. I told him so but I'm afraid that he may never forgive me for putting him through that hour. We have a mostly long-distance relationship, as we go to two different universities, so this conversation was done over the phone and over the internet. He is coming up to see me on Thursday for the weekend, and has agreed to talk to me tomorrow but honestly I don't know what to do. What if he doesn't forgive me? What I have ruined a genuinely wonderful relationship and hurt a man that I both love and respect? Please help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over the last three weeks, I have felt very low level emotions towards my boyfriend. Happy when I should be joyful, sad when I should be distraught, which made me question our relationship. After talking it over with friends and family, I decided to raise the issue of muted emotions with my boyfriend. Naturally, he was hurt by the fact that I had doubts about whether I loved him or not but he spent the conversation, trying to understand what I meant and how exactly I felt. An hour into the conversation, I was crying and I realised that despite the muted feelings, I still loved him and didn't want to lose him. I told him so but I'm afraid that he may never forgive me for putting him through that hour. We have a mostly long-distance relationship, as we go to two different universities, so this conversation was done over the phone and over the internet. He is coming up to see me on Thursday for the weekend, and has agreed to talk to me tomorrow but honestly I don't know what to do. What if he doesn't forgive me? What I have ruined a genuinely wonderful relationship and hurt a man that I both love and respect? Please help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over the last three weeks, I have felt very low level emotions towards my boyfriend. Happy when I should be joyful, sad when I should be distraught, which made me question our relationship. After talking it over with friends and family, I decided to raise the issue of muted emotions with my boyfriend. Naturally, he was hurt by the fact that I had doubts about whether I loved him or not but he spent the conversation, trying to understand what I meant and how exactly I felt. An hour into the conversation, I was crying and I realised that despite the muted feelings, I still loved him and didn't want to lose him. I told him so but I'm afraid that he may never forgive me for putting him through that hour. We have a mostly long-distance relationship, as we go to two different universities, so this conversation was done over the phone and over the internet. He is coming up to see me on Thursday for the weekend, and has agreed to talk to me tomorrow but honestly I don't know what to do. What if he doesn't forgive me? What I have ruined a genuinely wonderful relationship and hurt a man that I both love and respect? Please help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over the last three weeks, I have felt very low level emotions towards my boyfriend. Happy when I should be joyful, sad when I should be distraught, which made me question our relationship. After talking it over with friends and family, I decided to raise the issue of muted emotions with my boyfriend. Naturally, he was hurt by the fact that I had doubts about whether I loved him or not but he spent the conversation, trying to understand what I meant and how exactly I felt. An hour into the conversation, I was crying and I realised that despite the muted feelings, I still loved him and didn't want to lose him. I told him so but I'm afraid that he may never forgive me for putting him through that hour. We have a mostly long-distance relationship, as we go to two different universities, so this conversation was done over the phone and over the internet. He is coming up to see me on Thursday for the weekend, and has agreed to talk to me tomorrow but honestly I don't know what to do. What if he doesn't forgive me? What I have ruined a genuinely wonderful relationship and hurt a man that I both love and respect? Please help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over the last three weeks, I have felt very low level emotions towards my boyfriend. Happy when I should be joyful, sad when I should be distraught, which made me question our relationship. After talking it over with friends and family, I decided to raise the issue of muted emotions with my boyfriend. Naturally, he was hurt by the fact that I had doubts about whether I loved him or not but he spent the conversation, trying to understand what I meant and how exactly I felt. An hour into the conversation, I was crying and I realised that despite the muted feelings, I still loved him and didn't want to lose him. I told him so but I'm afraid that he may never forgive me for putting him through that hour. We have a mostly long-distance relationship, as we go to two different universities, so this conversation was done over the phone and over the internet. He is coming up to see me on Thursday for the weekend, and has agreed to talk to me tomorrow but honestly I don't know what to do. What if he doesn't forgive me? What I have ruined a genuinely wonderful relationship and hurt a man that I both love and respect? Please help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over the last three weeks, I have felt very low level emotions towards my boyfriend. Happy when I should be joyful, sad when I should be distraught, which made me question our relationship. After talking it over with friends and family, I decided to raise the issue of muted emotions with my boyfriend. Naturally, he was hurt by the fact that I had doubts about whether I loved him or not but he spent the conversation, trying to understand what I meant and how exactly I felt. An hour into the conversation, I was crying and I realised that despite the muted feelings, I still loved him and didn't want to lose him. I told him so but I'm afraid that he may never forgive me for putting him through that hour. We have a mostly long-distance relationship, as we go to two different universities, so this conversation was done over the phone and over the internet. He is coming up to see me on Thursday for the weekend, and has agreed to talk to me tomorrow but honestly I don't know what to do. What if he doesn't forgive me? What I have ruined a genuinely wonderful relationship and hurt a man that I both love and respect? Please help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to thank /r/relationships, and others, for helping me out.\n\nSo this lady I met took my v-card about a month ago. We got along pretty well. We slept together on our first date. It sort of just happened. \n\nShe also revealed from the get go she's polyamorous. I didn't really have a problem with that because she seemed near. I've read about poly lifestyles before so I had some understanding of what I was getting into.\n\nSo we've slept together a total of 3-4 times. Yesterday we spent the day together at an event; it was fun to be with her.\n\nBut she seemed to be super more into me than I was into her. I finally just asked her if she was in love with me, with the warning that I don't know if I can feel the same about her. She said she was. She started to say she could settle down with me, cut out all of her other boyfriends.\n\nIt's all new to me and a little bewildering. I don't think I even know what love is. It's been largely absent from my life and so I don't feel anything.\n\nAlthough, when she told me her feelings, I felt a little fear in my chest because I was worried about her feelings and how this might hurt her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to thank /r/relationships, and others, for helping me out.\n\nSo this lady I met took my v-card about a month ago. We got along pretty well. We slept together on our first date. It sort of just happened. \n\nShe also revealed from the get go she's polyamorous. I didn't really have a problem with that because she seemed near. I've read about poly lifestyles before so I had some understanding of what I was getting into.\n\nSo we've slept together a total of 3-4 times. Yesterday we spent the day together at an event; it was fun to be with her.\n\nBut she seemed to be super more into me than I was into her. I finally just asked her if she was in love with me, with the warning that I don't know if I can feel the same about her. She said she was. She started to say she could settle down with me, cut out all of her other boyfriends.\n\nIt's all new to me and a little bewildering. I don't think I even know what love is. It's been largely absent from my life and so I don't feel anything.\n\nAlthough, when she told me her feelings, I felt a little fear in my chest because I was worried about her feelings and how this might hurt her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to thank /r/relationships, and others, for helping me out.\n\nSo this lady I met took my v-card about a month ago. We got along pretty well. We slept together on our first date. It sort of just happened. \n\nShe also revealed from the get go she's polyamorous. I didn't really have a problem with that because she seemed near. I've read about poly lifestyles before so I had some understanding of what I was getting into.\n\nSo we've slept together a total of 3-4 times. Yesterday we spent the day together at an event; it was fun to be with her.\n\nBut she seemed to be super more into me than I was into her. I finally just asked her if she was in love with me, with the warning that I don't know if I can feel the same about her. She said she was. She started to say she could settle down with me, cut out all of her other boyfriends.\n\nIt's all new to me and a little bewildering. I don't think I even know what love is. It's been largely absent from my life and so I don't feel anything.\n\nAlthough, when she told me her feelings, I felt a little fear in my chest because I was worried about her feelings and how this might hurt her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to thank /r/relationships, and others, for helping me out.\n\nSo this lady I met took my v-card about a month ago. We got along pretty well. We slept together on our first date. It sort of just happened. \n\nShe also revealed from the get go she's polyamorous. I didn't really have a problem with that because she seemed near. I've read about poly lifestyles before so I had some understanding of what I was getting into.\n\nSo we've slept together a total of 3-4 times. Yesterday we spent the day together at an event; it was fun to be with her.\n\nBut she seemed to be super more into me than I was into her. I finally just asked her if she was in love with me, with the warning that I don't know if I can feel the same about her. She said she was. She started to say she could settle down with me, cut out all of her other boyfriends.\n\nIt's all new to me and a little bewildering. I don't think I even know what love is. It's been largely absent from my life and so I don't feel anything.\n\nAlthough, when she told me her feelings, I felt a little fear in my chest because I was worried about her feelings and how this might hurt her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to thank /r/relationships, and others, for helping me out.\n\nSo this lady I met took my v-card about a month ago. We got along pretty well. We slept together on our first date. It sort of just happened. \n\nShe also revealed from the get go she's polyamorous. I didn't really have a problem with that because she seemed near. I've read about poly lifestyles before so I had some understanding of what I was getting into.\n\nSo we've slept together a total of 3-4 times. Yesterday we spent the day together at an event; it was fun to be with her.\n\nBut she seemed to be super more into me than I was into her. I finally just asked her if she was in love with me, with the warning that I don't know if I can feel the same about her. She said she was. She started to say she could settle down with me, cut out all of her other boyfriends.\n\nIt's all new to me and a little bewildering. I don't think I even know what love is. It's been largely absent from my life and so I don't feel anything.\n\nAlthough, when she told me her feelings, I felt a little fear in my chest because I was worried about her feelings and how this might hurt her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to thank /r/relationships, and others, for helping me out.\n\nSo this lady I met took my v-card about a month ago. We got along pretty well. We slept together on our first date. It sort of just happened. \n\nShe also revealed from the get go she's polyamorous. I didn't really have a problem with that because she seemed near. I've read about poly lifestyles before so I had some understanding of what I was getting into.\n\nSo we've slept together a total of 3-4 times. Yesterday we spent the day together at an event; it was fun to be with her.\n\nBut she seemed to be super more into me than I was into her. I finally just asked her if she was in love with me, with the warning that I don't know if I can feel the same about her. She said she was. She started to say she could settle down with me, cut out all of her other boyfriends.\n\nIt's all new to me and a little bewildering. I don't think I even know what love is. It's been largely absent from my life and so I don't feel anything.\n\nAlthough, when she told me her feelings, I felt a little fear in my chest because I was worried about her feelings and how this might hurt her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all I understand it's not something that important to drug others into, still I'm feeling a bit confused and uncertain about my decision.\n\nI'm male and single (survived through a breakup recently), 24 at the moment. Have rather a nice job as a translator in the company. Boss appreciated some good qualities I have and increased my salary few times. But then from time to time I started to receive additional tasks like \"make this thing in photoshop\", \"make this website\", \"do this marketing thing\". I wasn't against it the moment because I had some free time and thought it's not nice to refuse it when I don't have nothing else to do. So I did few things that weren't part of my job in the beginning. Then he said we would go to other countries, I will be interpreting him at meetings and represent his another company (he has two actually). So we did and stayed 10 days in another country. It's the time the problems begun to appear. \n\nThe very first day I felt very exhausted. Not physically, but somehow morally. The thing is we had to live in the same two room apartment when he would always come and ask something to do or to get a piece of advice. I became very unhappy, I never knew that having that little amount of personal space is that horrible to me. So I survived through this whole trip and asked him if I have some prospects, he said I don't, that we will go like this many times and nothing will change. So I refused to be his personal assistant (as I understood I'm slowly becoming) and that's it. Now I'm just a translator in the office. The confidence in me was partially destroyed and I won't go abroad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all I understand it's not something that important to drug others into, still I'm feeling a bit confused and uncertain about my decision.\n\nI'm male and single (survived through a breakup recently), 24 at the moment. Have rather a nice job as a translator in the company. Boss appreciated some good qualities I have and increased my salary few times. But then from time to time I started to receive additional tasks like \"make this thing in photoshop\", \"make this website\", \"do this marketing thing\". I wasn't against it the moment because I had some free time and thought it's not nice to refuse it when I don't have nothing else to do. So I did few things that weren't part of my job in the beginning. Then he said we would go to other countries, I will be interpreting him at meetings and represent his another company (he has two actually). So we did and stayed 10 days in another country. It's the time the problems begun to appear. \n\nThe very first day I felt very exhausted. Not physically, but somehow morally. The thing is we had to live in the same two room apartment when he would always come and ask something to do or to get a piece of advice. I became very unhappy, I never knew that having that little amount of personal space is that horrible to me. So I survived through this whole trip and asked him if I have some prospects, he said I don't, that we will go like this many times and nothing will change. So I refused to be his personal assistant (as I understood I'm slowly becoming) and that's it. Now I'm just a translator in the office. The confidence in me was partially destroyed and I won't go abroad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all I understand it's not something that important to drug others into, still I'm feeling a bit confused and uncertain about my decision.\n\nI'm male and single (survived through a breakup recently), 24 at the moment. Have rather a nice job as a translator in the company. Boss appreciated some good qualities I have and increased my salary few times. But then from time to time I started to receive additional tasks like \"make this thing in photoshop\", \"make this website\", \"do this marketing thing\". I wasn't against it the moment because I had some free time and thought it's not nice to refuse it when I don't have nothing else to do. So I did few things that weren't part of my job in the beginning. Then he said we would go to other countries, I will be interpreting him at meetings and represent his another company (he has two actually). So we did and stayed 10 days in another country. It's the time the problems begun to appear. \n\nThe very first day I felt very exhausted. Not physically, but somehow morally. The thing is we had to live in the same two room apartment when he would always come and ask something to do or to get a piece of advice. I became very unhappy, I never knew that having that little amount of personal space is that horrible to me. So I survived through this whole trip and asked him if I have some prospects, he said I don't, that we will go like this many times and nothing will change. So I refused to be his personal assistant (as I understood I'm slowly becoming) and that's it. Now I'm just a translator in the office. The confidence in me was partially destroyed and I won't go abroad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all I understand it's not something that important to drug others into, still I'm feeling a bit confused and uncertain about my decision.\n\nI'm male and single (survived through a breakup recently), 24 at the moment. Have rather a nice job as a translator in the company. Boss appreciated some good qualities I have and increased my salary few times. But then from time to time I started to receive additional tasks like \"make this thing in photoshop\", \"make this website\", \"do this marketing thing\". I wasn't against it the moment because I had some free time and thought it's not nice to refuse it when I don't have nothing else to do. So I did few things that weren't part of my job in the beginning. Then he said we would go to other countries, I will be interpreting him at meetings and represent his another company (he has two actually). So we did and stayed 10 days in another country. It's the time the problems begun to appear. \n\nThe very first day I felt very exhausted. Not physically, but somehow morally. The thing is we had to live in the same two room apartment when he would always come and ask something to do or to get a piece of advice. I became very unhappy, I never knew that having that little amount of personal space is that horrible to me. So I survived through this whole trip and asked him if I have some prospects, he said I don't, that we will go like this many times and nothing will change. So I refused to be his personal assistant (as I understood I'm slowly becoming) and that's it. Now I'm just a translator in the office. The confidence in me was partially destroyed and I won't go abroad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all I understand it's not something that important to drug others into, still I'm feeling a bit confused and uncertain about my decision.\n\nI'm male and single (survived through a breakup recently), 24 at the moment. Have rather a nice job as a translator in the company. Boss appreciated some good qualities I have and increased my salary few times. But then from time to time I started to receive additional tasks like \"make this thing in photoshop\", \"make this website\", \"do this marketing thing\". I wasn't against it the moment because I had some free time and thought it's not nice to refuse it when I don't have nothing else to do. So I did few things that weren't part of my job in the beginning. Then he said we would go to other countries, I will be interpreting him at meetings and represent his another company (he has two actually). So we did and stayed 10 days in another country. It's the time the problems begun to appear. \n\nThe very first day I felt very exhausted. Not physically, but somehow morally. The thing is we had to live in the same two room apartment when he would always come and ask something to do or to get a piece of advice. I became very unhappy, I never knew that having that little amount of personal space is that horrible to me. So I survived through this whole trip and asked him if I have some prospects, he said I don't, that we will go like this many times and nothing will change. So I refused to be his personal assistant (as I understood I'm slowly becoming) and that's it. Now I'm just a translator in the office. The confidence in me was partially destroyed and I won't go abroad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all I understand it's not something that important to drug others into, still I'm feeling a bit confused and uncertain about my decision.\n\nI'm male and single (survived through a breakup recently), 24 at the moment. Have rather a nice job as a translator in the company. Boss appreciated some good qualities I have and increased my salary few times. But then from time to time I started to receive additional tasks like \"make this thing in photoshop\", \"make this website\", \"do this marketing thing\". I wasn't against it the moment because I had some free time and thought it's not nice to refuse it when I don't have nothing else to do. So I did few things that weren't part of my job in the beginning. Then he said we would go to other countries, I will be interpreting him at meetings and represent his another company (he has two actually). So we did and stayed 10 days in another country. It's the time the problems begun to appear. \n\nThe very first day I felt very exhausted. Not physically, but somehow morally. The thing is we had to live in the same two room apartment when he would always come and ask something to do or to get a piece of advice. I became very unhappy, I never knew that having that little amount of personal space is that horrible to me. So I survived through this whole trip and asked him if I have some prospects, he said I don't, that we will go like this many times and nothing will change. So I refused to be his personal assistant (as I understood I'm slowly becoming) and that's it. Now I'm just a translator in the office. The confidence in me was partially destroyed and I won't go abroad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so this might be impossible, and there's a lot of info here, but any help would be *so* appreciated. I hope this is okay to post here, I posted in in /r/dating but deleted it after a minute to post here instead '~'\n\nI'm a 17-y.o. girl dating an 18-y.o. girl. Her parents don't know we're dating and would probably be upset. My homophobic parents also don't know and would be *p i s s e d* (read: i would never be allowed to leave the house/see her again outside school/etc.).\n\nNeither of us have jobs, and neither of us have money. When we hang out all we do is take naps together, go to the park, hang out at the mall, or see the animals at the pet store, and I want to do something different & romantic for Valentines Day (this is our first, in all senses. We've been dating 3 months and neither of us have dated anyone before.) \n\nI've planned out for a 3rd friend to drive me to GF's house (to avoid suspicion from my parents + I can't drive) and GF can drive us somewhere after that, but I still want to plan something. Any ideas? Nothing sexual please (I am 17). I just really want to do something special for her because she deserves it but I don't know what I could possibly do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so this might be impossible, and there's a lot of info here, but any help would be *so* appreciated. I hope this is okay to post here, I posted in in /r/dating but deleted it after a minute to post here instead '~'\n\nI'm a 17-y.o. girl dating an 18-y.o. girl. Her parents don't know we're dating and would probably be upset. My homophobic parents also don't know and would be *p i s s e d* (read: i would never be allowed to leave the house/see her again outside school/etc.).\n\nNeither of us have jobs, and neither of us have money. When we hang out all we do is take naps together, go to the park, hang out at the mall, or see the animals at the pet store, and I want to do something different & romantic for Valentines Day (this is our first, in all senses. We've been dating 3 months and neither of us have dated anyone before.) \n\nI've planned out for a 3rd friend to drive me to GF's house (to avoid suspicion from my parents + I can't drive) and GF can drive us somewhere after that, but I still want to plan something. Any ideas? Nothing sexual please (I am 17). I just really want to do something special for her because she deserves it but I don't know what I could possibly do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so this might be impossible, and there's a lot of info here, but any help would be *so* appreciated. I hope this is okay to post here, I posted in in /r/dating but deleted it after a minute to post here instead '~'\n\nI'm a 17-y.o. girl dating an 18-y.o. girl. Her parents don't know we're dating and would probably be upset. My homophobic parents also don't know and would be *p i s s e d* (read: i would never be allowed to leave the house/see her again outside school/etc.).\n\nNeither of us have jobs, and neither of us have money. When we hang out all we do is take naps together, go to the park, hang out at the mall, or see the animals at the pet store, and I want to do something different & romantic for Valentines Day (this is our first, in all senses. We've been dating 3 months and neither of us have dated anyone before.) \n\nI've planned out for a 3rd friend to drive me to GF's house (to avoid suspicion from my parents + I can't drive) and GF can drive us somewhere after that, but I still want to plan something. Any ideas? Nothing sexual please (I am 17). I just really want to do something special for her because she deserves it but I don't know what I could possibly do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so this might be impossible, and there's a lot of info here, but any help would be *so* appreciated. I hope this is okay to post here, I posted in in /r/dating but deleted it after a minute to post here instead '~'\n\nI'm a 17-y.o. girl dating an 18-y.o. girl. Her parents don't know we're dating and would probably be upset. My homophobic parents also don't know and would be *p i s s e d* (read: i would never be allowed to leave the house/see her again outside school/etc.).\n\nNeither of us have jobs, and neither of us have money. When we hang out all we do is take naps together, go to the park, hang out at the mall, or see the animals at the pet store, and I want to do something different & romantic for Valentines Day (this is our first, in all senses. We've been dating 3 months and neither of us have dated anyone before.) \n\nI've planned out for a 3rd friend to drive me to GF's house (to avoid suspicion from my parents + I can't drive) and GF can drive us somewhere after that, but I still want to plan something. Any ideas? Nothing sexual please (I am 17). I just really want to do something special for her because she deserves it but I don't know what I could possibly do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so this might be impossible, and there's a lot of info here, but any help would be *so* appreciated. I hope this is okay to post here, I posted in in /r/dating but deleted it after a minute to post here instead '~'\n\nI'm a 17-y.o. girl dating an 18-y.o. girl. Her parents don't know we're dating and would probably be upset. My homophobic parents also don't know and would be *p i s s e d* (read: i would never be allowed to leave the house/see her again outside school/etc.).\n\nNeither of us have jobs, and neither of us have money. When we hang out all we do is take naps together, go to the park, hang out at the mall, or see the animals at the pet store, and I want to do something different & romantic for Valentines Day (this is our first, in all senses. We've been dating 3 months and neither of us have dated anyone before.) \n\nI've planned out for a 3rd friend to drive me to GF's house (to avoid suspicion from my parents + I can't drive) and GF can drive us somewhere after that, but I still want to plan something. Any ideas? Nothing sexual please (I am 17). I just really want to do something special for her because she deserves it but I don't know what I could possibly do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so this might be impossible, and there's a lot of info here, but any help would be *so* appreciated. I hope this is okay to post here, I posted in in /r/dating but deleted it after a minute to post here instead '~'\n\nI'm a 17-y.o. girl dating an 18-y.o. girl. Her parents don't know we're dating and would probably be upset. My homophobic parents also don't know and would be *p i s s e d* (read: i would never be allowed to leave the house/see her again outside school/etc.).\n\nNeither of us have jobs, and neither of us have money. When we hang out all we do is take naps together, go to the park, hang out at the mall, or see the animals at the pet store, and I want to do something different & romantic for Valentines Day (this is our first, in all senses. We've been dating 3 months and neither of us have dated anyone before.) \n\nI've planned out for a 3rd friend to drive me to GF's house (to avoid suspicion from my parents + I can't drive) and GF can drive us somewhere after that, but I still want to plan something. Any ideas? Nothing sexual please (I am 17). I just really want to do something special for her because she deserves it but I don't know what I could possibly do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been friends with this girl for about three years. About a year ago, before she left to live abroad for four months, I told her that I had feelings for her. She was flattered, but said that she couldn't make any promises when she came back. I told her that I just wanted to get it off my chest, and she said that she understood. After she came back, I was working two jobs in cities 6 hours apart, so I didn't pursue anything with her. But we kept in contact and had a few coffee dates.\n\nLast week, we hung out for the first time in about two months. It was very flirty. I gave her a piggy back ride, and we held hands as I walked her home (we now live about a block from each other). We confirmed plans to see a play together over the weekend.\n\nOver the weekend, we got dinner at a nice restaurant, saw the play, and got a drink afterward. It was noticeably less flirty than earlier in the week, but still friendly. When I dropped her off at her house, we hugged and talked for a while. After the conversation died down and she was about to go inside, I told her: \"You don't have to say anything, but I would be mad if I didn't outright say it: I am starting to like you again\". Her eyes widened, she smiled, and looked a bit flustered. She then gave me a look that I can't describe or interpret - it was similar to a _really?_ . I told her that I didn't know what the look she gave me was, and she said \"You told me I didn't have to say anything\".\n\nI would like to date this girl, but do not know what to do next because I can't tell how our last conversation ended."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been friends with this girl for about three years. About a year ago, before she left to live abroad for four months, I told her that I had feelings for her. She was flattered, but said that she couldn't make any promises when she came back. I told her that I just wanted to get it off my chest, and she said that she understood. After she came back, I was working two jobs in cities 6 hours apart, so I didn't pursue anything with her. But we kept in contact and had a few coffee dates.\n\nLast week, we hung out for the first time in about two months. It was very flirty. I gave her a piggy back ride, and we held hands as I walked her home (we now live about a block from each other). We confirmed plans to see a play together over the weekend.\n\nOver the weekend, we got dinner at a nice restaurant, saw the play, and got a drink afterward. It was noticeably less flirty than earlier in the week, but still friendly. When I dropped her off at her house, we hugged and talked for a while. After the conversation died down and she was about to go inside, I told her: \"You don't have to say anything, but I would be mad if I didn't outright say it: I am starting to like you again\". Her eyes widened, she smiled, and looked a bit flustered. She then gave me a look that I can't describe or interpret - it was similar to a _really?_ . I told her that I didn't know what the look she gave me was, and she said \"You told me I didn't have to say anything\".\n\nI would like to date this girl, but do not know what to do next because I can't tell how our last conversation ended."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been friends with this girl for about three years. About a year ago, before she left to live abroad for four months, I told her that I had feelings for her. She was flattered, but said that she couldn't make any promises when she came back. I told her that I just wanted to get it off my chest, and she said that she understood. After she came back, I was working two jobs in cities 6 hours apart, so I didn't pursue anything with her. But we kept in contact and had a few coffee dates.\n\nLast week, we hung out for the first time in about two months. It was very flirty. I gave her a piggy back ride, and we held hands as I walked her home (we now live about a block from each other). We confirmed plans to see a play together over the weekend.\n\nOver the weekend, we got dinner at a nice restaurant, saw the play, and got a drink afterward. It was noticeably less flirty than earlier in the week, but still friendly. When I dropped her off at her house, we hugged and talked for a while. After the conversation died down and she was about to go inside, I told her: \"You don't have to say anything, but I would be mad if I didn't outright say it: I am starting to like you again\". Her eyes widened, she smiled, and looked a bit flustered. She then gave me a look that I can't describe or interpret - it was similar to a _really?_ . I told her that I didn't know what the look she gave me was, and she said \"You told me I didn't have to say anything\".\n\nI would like to date this girl, but do not know what to do next because I can't tell how our last conversation ended."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been friends with this girl for about three years. About a year ago, before she left to live abroad for four months, I told her that I had feelings for her. She was flattered, but said that she couldn't make any promises when she came back. I told her that I just wanted to get it off my chest, and she said that she understood. After she came back, I was working two jobs in cities 6 hours apart, so I didn't pursue anything with her. But we kept in contact and had a few coffee dates.\n\nLast week, we hung out for the first time in about two months. It was very flirty. I gave her a piggy back ride, and we held hands as I walked her home (we now live about a block from each other). We confirmed plans to see a play together over the weekend.\n\nOver the weekend, we got dinner at a nice restaurant, saw the play, and got a drink afterward. It was noticeably less flirty than earlier in the week, but still friendly. When I dropped her off at her house, we hugged and talked for a while. After the conversation died down and she was about to go inside, I told her: \"You don't have to say anything, but I would be mad if I didn't outright say it: I am starting to like you again\". Her eyes widened, she smiled, and looked a bit flustered. She then gave me a look that I can't describe or interpret - it was similar to a _really?_ . I told her that I didn't know what the look she gave me was, and she said \"You told me I didn't have to say anything\".\n\nI would like to date this girl, but do not know what to do next because I can't tell how our last conversation ended."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been friends with this girl for about three years. About a year ago, before she left to live abroad for four months, I told her that I had feelings for her. She was flattered, but said that she couldn't make any promises when she came back. I told her that I just wanted to get it off my chest, and she said that she understood. After she came back, I was working two jobs in cities 6 hours apart, so I didn't pursue anything with her. But we kept in contact and had a few coffee dates.\n\nLast week, we hung out for the first time in about two months. It was very flirty. I gave her a piggy back ride, and we held hands as I walked her home (we now live about a block from each other). We confirmed plans to see a play together over the weekend.\n\nOver the weekend, we got dinner at a nice restaurant, saw the play, and got a drink afterward. It was noticeably less flirty than earlier in the week, but still friendly. When I dropped her off at her house, we hugged and talked for a while. After the conversation died down and she was about to go inside, I told her: \"You don't have to say anything, but I would be mad if I didn't outright say it: I am starting to like you again\". Her eyes widened, she smiled, and looked a bit flustered. She then gave me a look that I can't describe or interpret - it was similar to a _really?_ . I told her that I didn't know what the look she gave me was, and she said \"You told me I didn't have to say anything\".\n\nI would like to date this girl, but do not know what to do next because I can't tell how our last conversation ended."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ex and I are both 21 y/o males in college. We had a thing for 2-3 months and dated briefly for a few weeks.\n\nSo my ex and I broke up a few months ago. We tried being friends but eventually I got the hint that it wasn't working and to let it go. So we didn't speak for months and would rarely see each other, only by coincidence or at a mutual friend's. Anyway, we see each other again and we make plans to go out together with mutual friends.\n\nThe night we wanted to go out he was already drunk beforehand, and he was under the impression I wouldn't be going out because I had to go to another party for a bit. His drunk texts were a bit emotional in the sense he seemed genuinely disappointed I wouldn't be there. Once we saw each other, he became very flirty and we ended up talking for hours. Eventually we ended up hooking up. I had assumed he had sobered up at this point.\n\nIn the morning I heard him get up and use the bathroom and come back to bed. But a little while later he gets up and says \"I'm so hung over\" but before he leaves says he hopes we'll see each other again soon. We don't talk for a day or so but he ends up snapchatting me.\n\nA couple days later I had to see him for an unrelated reason and he was trying to bring up the night we hooked up. He kept talking about how drunk he was and would say things like \"oh, did we talk about this?\" whenever I would mention something we talked about that night. Later I texted him asking if we could meet and talk about that night and he agreed. We'll be meeting later today.\n\nI didn't want anything in particular to come out of the hook up - I didn't even think much about it - but was it just a drunken mistake on his part? I felt we had broken down some barriers by being able to talk and hang out for so long, but him emphasizing how drunk he was kinda makes it feel like we're back to where we were before where things were awkward and we hardly spoke."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ex and I are both 21 y/o males in college. We had a thing for 2-3 months and dated briefly for a few weeks.\n\nSo my ex and I broke up a few months ago. We tried being friends but eventually I got the hint that it wasn't working and to let it go. So we didn't speak for months and would rarely see each other, only by coincidence or at a mutual friend's. Anyway, we see each other again and we make plans to go out together with mutual friends.\n\nThe night we wanted to go out he was already drunk beforehand, and he was under the impression I wouldn't be going out because I had to go to another party for a bit. His drunk texts were a bit emotional in the sense he seemed genuinely disappointed I wouldn't be there. Once we saw each other, he became very flirty and we ended up talking for hours. Eventually we ended up hooking up. I had assumed he had sobered up at this point.\n\nIn the morning I heard him get up and use the bathroom and come back to bed. But a little while later he gets up and says \"I'm so hung over\" but before he leaves says he hopes we'll see each other again soon. We don't talk for a day or so but he ends up snapchatting me.\n\nA couple days later I had to see him for an unrelated reason and he was trying to bring up the night we hooked up. He kept talking about how drunk he was and would say things like \"oh, did we talk about this?\" whenever I would mention something we talked about that night. Later I texted him asking if we could meet and talk about that night and he agreed. We'll be meeting later today.\n\nI didn't want anything in particular to come out of the hook up - I didn't even think much about it - but was it just a drunken mistake on his part? I felt we had broken down some barriers by being able to talk and hang out for so long, but him emphasizing how drunk he was kinda makes it feel like we're back to where we were before where things were awkward and we hardly spoke."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ex and I are both 21 y/o males in college. We had a thing for 2-3 months and dated briefly for a few weeks.\n\nSo my ex and I broke up a few months ago. We tried being friends but eventually I got the hint that it wasn't working and to let it go. So we didn't speak for months and would rarely see each other, only by coincidence or at a mutual friend's. Anyway, we see each other again and we make plans to go out together with mutual friends.\n\nThe night we wanted to go out he was already drunk beforehand, and he was under the impression I wouldn't be going out because I had to go to another party for a bit. His drunk texts were a bit emotional in the sense he seemed genuinely disappointed I wouldn't be there. Once we saw each other, he became very flirty and we ended up talking for hours. Eventually we ended up hooking up. I had assumed he had sobered up at this point.\n\nIn the morning I heard him get up and use the bathroom and come back to bed. But a little while later he gets up and says \"I'm so hung over\" but before he leaves says he hopes we'll see each other again soon. We don't talk for a day or so but he ends up snapchatting me.\n\nA couple days later I had to see him for an unrelated reason and he was trying to bring up the night we hooked up. He kept talking about how drunk he was and would say things like \"oh, did we talk about this?\" whenever I would mention something we talked about that night. Later I texted him asking if we could meet and talk about that night and he agreed. We'll be meeting later today.\n\nI didn't want anything in particular to come out of the hook up - I didn't even think much about it - but was it just a drunken mistake on his part? I felt we had broken down some barriers by being able to talk and hang out for so long, but him emphasizing how drunk he was kinda makes it feel like we're back to where we were before where things were awkward and we hardly spoke."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ex and I are both 21 y/o males in college. We had a thing for 2-3 months and dated briefly for a few weeks.\n\nSo my ex and I broke up a few months ago. We tried being friends but eventually I got the hint that it wasn't working and to let it go. So we didn't speak for months and would rarely see each other, only by coincidence or at a mutual friend's. Anyway, we see each other again and we make plans to go out together with mutual friends.\n\nThe night we wanted to go out he was already drunk beforehand, and he was under the impression I wouldn't be going out because I had to go to another party for a bit. His drunk texts were a bit emotional in the sense he seemed genuinely disappointed I wouldn't be there. Once we saw each other, he became very flirty and we ended up talking for hours. Eventually we ended up hooking up. I had assumed he had sobered up at this point.\n\nIn the morning I heard him get up and use the bathroom and come back to bed. But a little while later he gets up and says \"I'm so hung over\" but before he leaves says he hopes we'll see each other again soon. We don't talk for a day or so but he ends up snapchatting me.\n\nA couple days later I had to see him for an unrelated reason and he was trying to bring up the night we hooked up. He kept talking about how drunk he was and would say things like \"oh, did we talk about this?\" whenever I would mention something we talked about that night. Later I texted him asking if we could meet and talk about that night and he agreed. We'll be meeting later today.\n\nI didn't want anything in particular to come out of the hook up - I didn't even think much about it - but was it just a drunken mistake on his part? I felt we had broken down some barriers by being able to talk and hang out for so long, but him emphasizing how drunk he was kinda makes it feel like we're back to where we were before where things were awkward and we hardly spoke."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ex and I are both 21 y/o males in college. We had a thing for 2-3 months and dated briefly for a few weeks.\n\nSo my ex and I broke up a few months ago. We tried being friends but eventually I got the hint that it wasn't working and to let it go. So we didn't speak for months and would rarely see each other, only by coincidence or at a mutual friend's. Anyway, we see each other again and we make plans to go out together with mutual friends.\n\nThe night we wanted to go out he was already drunk beforehand, and he was under the impression I wouldn't be going out because I had to go to another party for a bit. His drunk texts were a bit emotional in the sense he seemed genuinely disappointed I wouldn't be there. Once we saw each other, he became very flirty and we ended up talking for hours. Eventually we ended up hooking up. I had assumed he had sobered up at this point.\n\nIn the morning I heard him get up and use the bathroom and come back to bed. But a little while later he gets up and says \"I'm so hung over\" but before he leaves says he hopes we'll see each other again soon. We don't talk for a day or so but he ends up snapchatting me.\n\nA couple days later I had to see him for an unrelated reason and he was trying to bring up the night we hooked up. He kept talking about how drunk he was and would say things like \"oh, did we talk about this?\" whenever I would mention something we talked about that night. Later I texted him asking if we could meet and talk about that night and he agreed. We'll be meeting later today.\n\nI didn't want anything in particular to come out of the hook up - I didn't even think much about it - but was it just a drunken mistake on his part? I felt we had broken down some barriers by being able to talk and hang out for so long, but him emphasizing how drunk he was kinda makes it feel like we're back to where we were before where things were awkward and we hardly spoke."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ex and I are both 21 y/o males in college. We had a thing for 2-3 months and dated briefly for a few weeks.\n\nSo my ex and I broke up a few months ago. We tried being friends but eventually I got the hint that it wasn't working and to let it go. So we didn't speak for months and would rarely see each other, only by coincidence or at a mutual friend's. Anyway, we see each other again and we make plans to go out together with mutual friends.\n\nThe night we wanted to go out he was already drunk beforehand, and he was under the impression I wouldn't be going out because I had to go to another party for a bit. His drunk texts were a bit emotional in the sense he seemed genuinely disappointed I wouldn't be there. Once we saw each other, he became very flirty and we ended up talking for hours. Eventually we ended up hooking up. I had assumed he had sobered up at this point.\n\nIn the morning I heard him get up and use the bathroom and come back to bed. But a little while later he gets up and says \"I'm so hung over\" but before he leaves says he hopes we'll see each other again soon. We don't talk for a day or so but he ends up snapchatting me.\n\nA couple days later I had to see him for an unrelated reason and he was trying to bring up the night we hooked up. He kept talking about how drunk he was and would say things like \"oh, did we talk about this?\" whenever I would mention something we talked about that night. Later I texted him asking if we could meet and talk about that night and he agreed. We'll be meeting later today.\n\nI didn't want anything in particular to come out of the hook up - I didn't even think much about it - but was it just a drunken mistake on his part? I felt we had broken down some barriers by being able to talk and hang out for so long, but him emphasizing how drunk he was kinda makes it feel like we're back to where we were before where things were awkward and we hardly spoke."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife recently recalled a memory through therapy of giving fellatio to her male cousin as a little kid. Another older cousin [F] was there and told them to do it to \"be cool\". She remembers being incredibly young so much so that she had no idea what was happening, but did feel like it was wrong.\n\nShe doesn't think her male cousin even remembers. I don't feel anger or disgust at all. I know kids do weird shit and its really her older cousin who knew what she doing who's to blame for all this. The problem is that I now have to see her male cousin all the time and its super awkward. I don't know if he remembers, but can't help but think of what happened every time I see him. What do I do. Is it possible to move past this. My wife and I are okay, but it also becomes a point of contention when I don't want to be around him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife recently recalled a memory through therapy of giving fellatio to her male cousin as a little kid. Another older cousin [F] was there and told them to do it to \"be cool\". She remembers being incredibly young so much so that she had no idea what was happening, but did feel like it was wrong.\n\nShe doesn't think her male cousin even remembers. I don't feel anger or disgust at all. I know kids do weird shit and its really her older cousin who knew what she doing who's to blame for all this. The problem is that I now have to see her male cousin all the time and its super awkward. I don't know if he remembers, but can't help but think of what happened every time I see him. What do I do. Is it possible to move past this. My wife and I are okay, but it also becomes a point of contention when I don't want to be around him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife recently recalled a memory through therapy of giving fellatio to her male cousin as a little kid. Another older cousin [F] was there and told them to do it to \"be cool\". She remembers being incredibly young so much so that she had no idea what was happening, but did feel like it was wrong.\n\nShe doesn't think her male cousin even remembers. I don't feel anger or disgust at all. I know kids do weird shit and its really her older cousin who knew what she doing who's to blame for all this. The problem is that I now have to see her male cousin all the time and its super awkward. I don't know if he remembers, but can't help but think of what happened every time I see him. What do I do. Is it possible to move past this. My wife and I are okay, but it also becomes a point of contention when I don't want to be around him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife recently recalled a memory through therapy of giving fellatio to her male cousin as a little kid. Another older cousin [F] was there and told them to do it to \"be cool\". She remembers being incredibly young so much so that she had no idea what was happening, but did feel like it was wrong.\n\nShe doesn't think her male cousin even remembers. I don't feel anger or disgust at all. I know kids do weird shit and its really her older cousin who knew what she doing who's to blame for all this. The problem is that I now have to see her male cousin all the time and its super awkward. I don't know if he remembers, but can't help but think of what happened every time I see him. What do I do. Is it possible to move past this. My wife and I are okay, but it also becomes a point of contention when I don't want to be around him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife recently recalled a memory through therapy of giving fellatio to her male cousin as a little kid. Another older cousin [F] was there and told them to do it to \"be cool\". She remembers being incredibly young so much so that she had no idea what was happening, but did feel like it was wrong.\n\nShe doesn't think her male cousin even remembers. I don't feel anger or disgust at all. I know kids do weird shit and its really her older cousin who knew what she doing who's to blame for all this. The problem is that I now have to see her male cousin all the time and its super awkward. I don't know if he remembers, but can't help but think of what happened every time I see him. What do I do. Is it possible to move past this. My wife and I are okay, but it also becomes a point of contention when I don't want to be around him."
} |
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