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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife recently recalled a memory through therapy of giving fellatio to her male cousin as a little kid. Another older cousin [F] was there and told them to do it to \"be cool\". She remembers being incredibly young so much so that she had no idea what was happening, but did feel like it was wrong.\n\nShe doesn't think her male cousin even remembers. I don't feel anger or disgust at all. I know kids do weird shit and its really her older cousin who knew what she doing who's to blame for all this. The problem is that I now have to see her male cousin all the time and its super awkward. I don't know if he remembers, but can't help but think of what happened every time I see him. What do I do. Is it possible to move past this. My wife and I are okay, but it also becomes a point of contention when I don't want to be around him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been dating this guy for over two years now, Isaac, and we've had some issues in the past when I found him making fakes of celebrities. I found it disrespectful to me and the women who's photos he was editing. It's been a while since that, and I think it's stopped, although who knows, maybe he just became more cautious about it. \n\nBeing honest here, I was snooping on his computer today and found an image of a girl with her ass to the camera. Did a reverse image search but wound up with no results. I was pretty certain that I knew her, went to her IG, and low and behold, I found the photo. However, the photo that Isaac had of it the background had been cropped out. \n\nNow, for a little more context to this girl. She's dating a good friend of Isaac, who he was into while in high school. They never became anything because she's a lesbian. If she knew that he did this, she would be as livid as I am. I guess I'm just super repulsed because this crosses all lines and need some help from you guys. I'm really sorry if this is a mess, I'm just super devastated right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been dating this guy for over two years now, Isaac, and we've had some issues in the past when I found him making fakes of celebrities. I found it disrespectful to me and the women who's photos he was editing. It's been a while since that, and I think it's stopped, although who knows, maybe he just became more cautious about it. \n\nBeing honest here, I was snooping on his computer today and found an image of a girl with her ass to the camera. Did a reverse image search but wound up with no results. I was pretty certain that I knew her, went to her IG, and low and behold, I found the photo. However, the photo that Isaac had of it the background had been cropped out. \n\nNow, for a little more context to this girl. She's dating a good friend of Isaac, who he was into while in high school. They never became anything because she's a lesbian. If she knew that he did this, she would be as livid as I am. I guess I'm just super repulsed because this crosses all lines and need some help from you guys. I'm really sorry if this is a mess, I'm just super devastated right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been dating this guy for over two years now, Isaac, and we've had some issues in the past when I found him making fakes of celebrities. I found it disrespectful to me and the women who's photos he was editing. It's been a while since that, and I think it's stopped, although who knows, maybe he just became more cautious about it. \n\nBeing honest here, I was snooping on his computer today and found an image of a girl with her ass to the camera. Did a reverse image search but wound up with no results. I was pretty certain that I knew her, went to her IG, and low and behold, I found the photo. However, the photo that Isaac had of it the background had been cropped out. \n\nNow, for a little more context to this girl. She's dating a good friend of Isaac, who he was into while in high school. They never became anything because she's a lesbian. If she knew that he did this, she would be as livid as I am. I guess I'm just super repulsed because this crosses all lines and need some help from you guys. I'm really sorry if this is a mess, I'm just super devastated right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been dating this guy for over two years now, Isaac, and we've had some issues in the past when I found him making fakes of celebrities. I found it disrespectful to me and the women who's photos he was editing. It's been a while since that, and I think it's stopped, although who knows, maybe he just became more cautious about it. \n\nBeing honest here, I was snooping on his computer today and found an image of a girl with her ass to the camera. Did a reverse image search but wound up with no results. I was pretty certain that I knew her, went to her IG, and low and behold, I found the photo. However, the photo that Isaac had of it the background had been cropped out. \n\nNow, for a little more context to this girl. She's dating a good friend of Isaac, who he was into while in high school. They never became anything because she's a lesbian. If she knew that he did this, she would be as livid as I am. I guess I'm just super repulsed because this crosses all lines and need some help from you guys. I'm really sorry if this is a mess, I'm just super devastated right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been dating this guy for over two years now, Isaac, and we've had some issues in the past when I found him making fakes of celebrities. I found it disrespectful to me and the women who's photos he was editing. It's been a while since that, and I think it's stopped, although who knows, maybe he just became more cautious about it. \n\nBeing honest here, I was snooping on his computer today and found an image of a girl with her ass to the camera. Did a reverse image search but wound up with no results. I was pretty certain that I knew her, went to her IG, and low and behold, I found the photo. However, the photo that Isaac had of it the background had been cropped out. \n\nNow, for a little more context to this girl. She's dating a good friend of Isaac, who he was into while in high school. They never became anything because she's a lesbian. If she knew that he did this, she would be as livid as I am. I guess I'm just super repulsed because this crosses all lines and need some help from you guys. I'm really sorry if this is a mess, I'm just super devastated right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been dating this guy for over two years now, Isaac, and we've had some issues in the past when I found him making fakes of celebrities. I found it disrespectful to me and the women who's photos he was editing. It's been a while since that, and I think it's stopped, although who knows, maybe he just became more cautious about it. \n\nBeing honest here, I was snooping on his computer today and found an image of a girl with her ass to the camera. Did a reverse image search but wound up with no results. I was pretty certain that I knew her, went to her IG, and low and behold, I found the photo. However, the photo that Isaac had of it the background had been cropped out. \n\nNow, for a little more context to this girl. She's dating a good friend of Isaac, who he was into while in high school. They never became anything because she's a lesbian. If she knew that he did this, she would be as livid as I am. I guess I'm just super repulsed because this crosses all lines and need some help from you guys. I'm really sorry if this is a mess, I'm just super devastated right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I may end up rambling a bit here but let me bounce some thoughts off of you guys. My girlfriend [20f] and I [21m] have been dating for a year now and things have been amazing in every way. Love is something we've talked about several times and we both agree that to us, romantic love means knowing you could spend the rest of your life with someone. We both feel that love is something that you have for someone you are really serious about. We have a committed relationship but we're both young and just taking it one day at a time. I guess we have a more serious view of the term than most people our age, which is fine but I guess I still have some nagging thoughts about it.\n\nI mean, it's just a word we ascribe meaning to; our actions and actual beliefs are what really count. Maybe I'm just afraid of the term, maybe I have a false sense that love is supposed to be a magical, transcending feeling about someone.\n\n*You might be thinking \"If you've both talked about it and are fine with it, what's the big deal?\"* Well, that's true, it's not a huge deal but I guess I also feel strange about it because I know our situation is abnormal for people our age and she gets teased about it from her family and friends. Her family and friends ask what's the deal considering how much she adores me along with the long duration of our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I may end up rambling a bit here but let me bounce some thoughts off of you guys. My girlfriend [20f] and I [21m] have been dating for a year now and things have been amazing in every way. Love is something we've talked about several times and we both agree that to us, romantic love means knowing you could spend the rest of your life with someone. We both feel that love is something that you have for someone you are really serious about. We have a committed relationship but we're both young and just taking it one day at a time. I guess we have a more serious view of the term than most people our age, which is fine but I guess I still have some nagging thoughts about it.\n\nI mean, it's just a word we ascribe meaning to; our actions and actual beliefs are what really count. Maybe I'm just afraid of the term, maybe I have a false sense that love is supposed to be a magical, transcending feeling about someone.\n\n*You might be thinking \"If you've both talked about it and are fine with it, what's the big deal?\"* Well, that's true, it's not a huge deal but I guess I also feel strange about it because I know our situation is abnormal for people our age and she gets teased about it from her family and friends. Her family and friends ask what's the deal considering how much she adores me along with the long duration of our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I may end up rambling a bit here but let me bounce some thoughts off of you guys. My girlfriend [20f] and I [21m] have been dating for a year now and things have been amazing in every way. Love is something we've talked about several times and we both agree that to us, romantic love means knowing you could spend the rest of your life with someone. We both feel that love is something that you have for someone you are really serious about. We have a committed relationship but we're both young and just taking it one day at a time. I guess we have a more serious view of the term than most people our age, which is fine but I guess I still have some nagging thoughts about it.\n\nI mean, it's just a word we ascribe meaning to; our actions and actual beliefs are what really count. Maybe I'm just afraid of the term, maybe I have a false sense that love is supposed to be a magical, transcending feeling about someone.\n\n*You might be thinking \"If you've both talked about it and are fine with it, what's the big deal?\"* Well, that's true, it's not a huge deal but I guess I also feel strange about it because I know our situation is abnormal for people our age and she gets teased about it from her family and friends. Her family and friends ask what's the deal considering how much she adores me along with the long duration of our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I may end up rambling a bit here but let me bounce some thoughts off of you guys. My girlfriend [20f] and I [21m] have been dating for a year now and things have been amazing in every way. Love is something we've talked about several times and we both agree that to us, romantic love means knowing you could spend the rest of your life with someone. We both feel that love is something that you have for someone you are really serious about. We have a committed relationship but we're both young and just taking it one day at a time. I guess we have a more serious view of the term than most people our age, which is fine but I guess I still have some nagging thoughts about it.\n\nI mean, it's just a word we ascribe meaning to; our actions and actual beliefs are what really count. Maybe I'm just afraid of the term, maybe I have a false sense that love is supposed to be a magical, transcending feeling about someone.\n\n*You might be thinking \"If you've both talked about it and are fine with it, what's the big deal?\"* Well, that's true, it's not a huge deal but I guess I also feel strange about it because I know our situation is abnormal for people our age and she gets teased about it from her family and friends. Her family and friends ask what's the deal considering how much she adores me along with the long duration of our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I may end up rambling a bit here but let me bounce some thoughts off of you guys. My girlfriend [20f] and I [21m] have been dating for a year now and things have been amazing in every way. Love is something we've talked about several times and we both agree that to us, romantic love means knowing you could spend the rest of your life with someone. We both feel that love is something that you have for someone you are really serious about. We have a committed relationship but we're both young and just taking it one day at a time. I guess we have a more serious view of the term than most people our age, which is fine but I guess I still have some nagging thoughts about it.\n\nI mean, it's just a word we ascribe meaning to; our actions and actual beliefs are what really count. Maybe I'm just afraid of the term, maybe I have a false sense that love is supposed to be a magical, transcending feeling about someone.\n\n*You might be thinking \"If you've both talked about it and are fine with it, what's the big deal?\"* Well, that's true, it's not a huge deal but I guess I also feel strange about it because I know our situation is abnormal for people our age and she gets teased about it from her family and friends. Her family and friends ask what's the deal considering how much she adores me along with the long duration of our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I may end up rambling a bit here but let me bounce some thoughts off of you guys. My girlfriend [20f] and I [21m] have been dating for a year now and things have been amazing in every way. Love is something we've talked about several times and we both agree that to us, romantic love means knowing you could spend the rest of your life with someone. We both feel that love is something that you have for someone you are really serious about. We have a committed relationship but we're both young and just taking it one day at a time. I guess we have a more serious view of the term than most people our age, which is fine but I guess I still have some nagging thoughts about it.\n\nI mean, it's just a word we ascribe meaning to; our actions and actual beliefs are what really count. Maybe I'm just afraid of the term, maybe I have a false sense that love is supposed to be a magical, transcending feeling about someone.\n\n*You might be thinking \"If you've both talked about it and are fine with it, what's the big deal?\"* Well, that's true, it's not a huge deal but I guess I also feel strange about it because I know our situation is abnormal for people our age and she gets teased about it from her family and friends. Her family and friends ask what's the deal considering how much she adores me along with the long duration of our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway because people know my reddit name. Me [21/M].\n\nA friend [20/M] Ive had for 3 years told me 2 years ago he likes men and was in love with me. Since then he regularly makes 'jokes' about me being gay and that we had sex, even thought he knows Im not into guys and knows I dislike him makes those 'jokes'. He makes them in front of people who knows what hes saying is not correct, but also in front of people who dont know that and probably believe him for what he is saying.\nWhen I tell him again that I dislike it he indirectly tells me to stop making a big deal out of it.\n\nRecently I started getting a feeling that, when he has the opportunity, he cares more about making fun of me than being a friend to me. It is with these 'jokes' (which he knows I greatly dislike) but also bashing the way I do things, even thought his arguments for it are not that correct if I research them after.\n\nIm pretty sure I have to end this friendship but find it hard.\nStill most of the times (lets say 60%) of the time he is being nice to me and we can have interesting conversations.\nWhen I tell myself that this week Im going to start hanging out with him less, I lose that idea when he suddenly starts being nice again, only to remember and see the 40% later.\nI also dont want not-wanting-to-hang-out-with-him to affect hanging out with friends we share. \nI see him once a week at a friends meeting, which I dont want to miss to be honest. So completely stop seeing him is not an option.\nI am also interesting in going to another friends meeting heś also attending. \n\nI would like some advice on how to start hanging out with him less and also how I can minimise the damage he makes when we do happen to be in the same room, and the 40% is active.\n\nSorry for the grammar mistakes, I know they are there even thought I dont see them. Its late and I cant sleep because of this issue.\nI guess I can sleep now. Ill fix the mistakes later."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway because people know my reddit name. Me [21/M].\n\nA friend [20/M] Ive had for 3 years told me 2 years ago he likes men and was in love with me. Since then he regularly makes 'jokes' about me being gay and that we had sex, even thought he knows Im not into guys and knows I dislike him makes those 'jokes'. He makes them in front of people who knows what hes saying is not correct, but also in front of people who dont know that and probably believe him for what he is saying.\nWhen I tell him again that I dislike it he indirectly tells me to stop making a big deal out of it.\n\nRecently I started getting a feeling that, when he has the opportunity, he cares more about making fun of me than being a friend to me. It is with these 'jokes' (which he knows I greatly dislike) but also bashing the way I do things, even thought his arguments for it are not that correct if I research them after.\n\nIm pretty sure I have to end this friendship but find it hard.\nStill most of the times (lets say 60%) of the time he is being nice to me and we can have interesting conversations.\nWhen I tell myself that this week Im going to start hanging out with him less, I lose that idea when he suddenly starts being nice again, only to remember and see the 40% later.\nI also dont want not-wanting-to-hang-out-with-him to affect hanging out with friends we share. \nI see him once a week at a friends meeting, which I dont want to miss to be honest. So completely stop seeing him is not an option.\nI am also interesting in going to another friends meeting heś also attending. \n\nI would like some advice on how to start hanging out with him less and also how I can minimise the damage he makes when we do happen to be in the same room, and the 40% is active.\n\nSorry for the grammar mistakes, I know they are there even thought I dont see them. Its late and I cant sleep because of this issue.\nI guess I can sleep now. Ill fix the mistakes later."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway because people know my reddit name. Me [21/M].\n\nA friend [20/M] Ive had for 3 years told me 2 years ago he likes men and was in love with me. Since then he regularly makes 'jokes' about me being gay and that we had sex, even thought he knows Im not into guys and knows I dislike him makes those 'jokes'. He makes them in front of people who knows what hes saying is not correct, but also in front of people who dont know that and probably believe him for what he is saying.\nWhen I tell him again that I dislike it he indirectly tells me to stop making a big deal out of it.\n\nRecently I started getting a feeling that, when he has the opportunity, he cares more about making fun of me than being a friend to me. It is with these 'jokes' (which he knows I greatly dislike) but also bashing the way I do things, even thought his arguments for it are not that correct if I research them after.\n\nIm pretty sure I have to end this friendship but find it hard.\nStill most of the times (lets say 60%) of the time he is being nice to me and we can have interesting conversations.\nWhen I tell myself that this week Im going to start hanging out with him less, I lose that idea when he suddenly starts being nice again, only to remember and see the 40% later.\nI also dont want not-wanting-to-hang-out-with-him to affect hanging out with friends we share. \nI see him once a week at a friends meeting, which I dont want to miss to be honest. So completely stop seeing him is not an option.\nI am also interesting in going to another friends meeting heś also attending. \n\nI would like some advice on how to start hanging out with him less and also how I can minimise the damage he makes when we do happen to be in the same room, and the 40% is active.\n\nSorry for the grammar mistakes, I know they are there even thought I dont see them. Its late and I cant sleep because of this issue.\nI guess I can sleep now. Ill fix the mistakes later."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway because people know my reddit name. Me [21/M].\n\nA friend [20/M] Ive had for 3 years told me 2 years ago he likes men and was in love with me. Since then he regularly makes 'jokes' about me being gay and that we had sex, even thought he knows Im not into guys and knows I dislike him makes those 'jokes'. He makes them in front of people who knows what hes saying is not correct, but also in front of people who dont know that and probably believe him for what he is saying.\nWhen I tell him again that I dislike it he indirectly tells me to stop making a big deal out of it.\n\nRecently I started getting a feeling that, when he has the opportunity, he cares more about making fun of me than being a friend to me. It is with these 'jokes' (which he knows I greatly dislike) but also bashing the way I do things, even thought his arguments for it are not that correct if I research them after.\n\nIm pretty sure I have to end this friendship but find it hard.\nStill most of the times (lets say 60%) of the time he is being nice to me and we can have interesting conversations.\nWhen I tell myself that this week Im going to start hanging out with him less, I lose that idea when he suddenly starts being nice again, only to remember and see the 40% later.\nI also dont want not-wanting-to-hang-out-with-him to affect hanging out with friends we share. \nI see him once a week at a friends meeting, which I dont want to miss to be honest. So completely stop seeing him is not an option.\nI am also interesting in going to another friends meeting heś also attending. \n\nI would like some advice on how to start hanging out with him less and also how I can minimise the damage he makes when we do happen to be in the same room, and the 40% is active.\n\nSorry for the grammar mistakes, I know they are there even thought I dont see them. Its late and I cant sleep because of this issue.\nI guess I can sleep now. Ill fix the mistakes later."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway because people know my reddit name. Me [21/M].\n\nA friend [20/M] Ive had for 3 years told me 2 years ago he likes men and was in love with me. Since then he regularly makes 'jokes' about me being gay and that we had sex, even thought he knows Im not into guys and knows I dislike him makes those 'jokes'. He makes them in front of people who knows what hes saying is not correct, but also in front of people who dont know that and probably believe him for what he is saying.\nWhen I tell him again that I dislike it he indirectly tells me to stop making a big deal out of it.\n\nRecently I started getting a feeling that, when he has the opportunity, he cares more about making fun of me than being a friend to me. It is with these 'jokes' (which he knows I greatly dislike) but also bashing the way I do things, even thought his arguments for it are not that correct if I research them after.\n\nIm pretty sure I have to end this friendship but find it hard.\nStill most of the times (lets say 60%) of the time he is being nice to me and we can have interesting conversations.\nWhen I tell myself that this week Im going to start hanging out with him less, I lose that idea when he suddenly starts being nice again, only to remember and see the 40% later.\nI also dont want not-wanting-to-hang-out-with-him to affect hanging out with friends we share. \nI see him once a week at a friends meeting, which I dont want to miss to be honest. So completely stop seeing him is not an option.\nI am also interesting in going to another friends meeting heś also attending. \n\nI would like some advice on how to start hanging out with him less and also how I can minimise the damage he makes when we do happen to be in the same room, and the 40% is active.\n\nSorry for the grammar mistakes, I know they are there even thought I dont see them. Its late and I cant sleep because of this issue.\nI guess I can sleep now. Ill fix the mistakes later."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway because people know my reddit name. Me [21/M].\n\nA friend [20/M] Ive had for 3 years told me 2 years ago he likes men and was in love with me. Since then he regularly makes 'jokes' about me being gay and that we had sex, even thought he knows Im not into guys and knows I dislike him makes those 'jokes'. He makes them in front of people who knows what hes saying is not correct, but also in front of people who dont know that and probably believe him for what he is saying.\nWhen I tell him again that I dislike it he indirectly tells me to stop making a big deal out of it.\n\nRecently I started getting a feeling that, when he has the opportunity, he cares more about making fun of me than being a friend to me. It is with these 'jokes' (which he knows I greatly dislike) but also bashing the way I do things, even thought his arguments for it are not that correct if I research them after.\n\nIm pretty sure I have to end this friendship but find it hard.\nStill most of the times (lets say 60%) of the time he is being nice to me and we can have interesting conversations.\nWhen I tell myself that this week Im going to start hanging out with him less, I lose that idea when he suddenly starts being nice again, only to remember and see the 40% later.\nI also dont want not-wanting-to-hang-out-with-him to affect hanging out with friends we share. \nI see him once a week at a friends meeting, which I dont want to miss to be honest. So completely stop seeing him is not an option.\nI am also interesting in going to another friends meeting heś also attending. \n\nI would like some advice on how to start hanging out with him less and also how I can minimise the damage he makes when we do happen to be in the same room, and the 40% is active.\n\nSorry for the grammar mistakes, I know they are there even thought I dont see them. Its late and I cant sleep because of this issue.\nI guess I can sleep now. Ill fix the mistakes later."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i recently went on summer vacation for a week with friends and some girls came with us. During this vacation one girl fell hard for me and i fell in love too. We slept together and kissed a lot for 3 days. At the end of the vacation we promised that we would text every day because we wont be seeing each other again for at least 1.5 months because i will be 6000 km away for the summer . The thing is, i'm very unexperienced when it comes to texting girls, i have no problem talking to her in real life, but for some reason i can't seem to find conversation topics and have been staring to my phone screen for hours without anything to say. I'm worried that by the time i see her again she will not be interested anymore. \nHow do i keep texting her without her initiating the conversation every time? And how do i flirt with her over the phone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i recently went on summer vacation for a week with friends and some girls came with us. During this vacation one girl fell hard for me and i fell in love too. We slept together and kissed a lot for 3 days. At the end of the vacation we promised that we would text every day because we wont be seeing each other again for at least 1.5 months because i will be 6000 km away for the summer . The thing is, i'm very unexperienced when it comes to texting girls, i have no problem talking to her in real life, but for some reason i can't seem to find conversation topics and have been staring to my phone screen for hours without anything to say. I'm worried that by the time i see her again she will not be interested anymore. \nHow do i keep texting her without her initiating the conversation every time? And how do i flirt with her over the phone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i recently went on summer vacation for a week with friends and some girls came with us. During this vacation one girl fell hard for me and i fell in love too. We slept together and kissed a lot for 3 days. At the end of the vacation we promised that we would text every day because we wont be seeing each other again for at least 1.5 months because i will be 6000 km away for the summer . The thing is, i'm very unexperienced when it comes to texting girls, i have no problem talking to her in real life, but for some reason i can't seem to find conversation topics and have been staring to my phone screen for hours without anything to say. I'm worried that by the time i see her again she will not be interested anymore. \nHow do i keep texting her without her initiating the conversation every time? And how do i flirt with her over the phone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i recently went on summer vacation for a week with friends and some girls came with us. During this vacation one girl fell hard for me and i fell in love too. We slept together and kissed a lot for 3 days. At the end of the vacation we promised that we would text every day because we wont be seeing each other again for at least 1.5 months because i will be 6000 km away for the summer . The thing is, i'm very unexperienced when it comes to texting girls, i have no problem talking to her in real life, but for some reason i can't seem to find conversation topics and have been staring to my phone screen for hours without anything to say. I'm worried that by the time i see her again she will not be interested anymore. \nHow do i keep texting her without her initiating the conversation every time? And how do i flirt with her over the phone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i recently went on summer vacation for a week with friends and some girls came with us. During this vacation one girl fell hard for me and i fell in love too. We slept together and kissed a lot for 3 days. At the end of the vacation we promised that we would text every day because we wont be seeing each other again for at least 1.5 months because i will be 6000 km away for the summer . The thing is, i'm very unexperienced when it comes to texting girls, i have no problem talking to her in real life, but for some reason i can't seem to find conversation topics and have been staring to my phone screen for hours without anything to say. I'm worried that by the time i see her again she will not be interested anymore. \nHow do i keep texting her without her initiating the conversation every time? And how do i flirt with her over the phone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i recently went on summer vacation for a week with friends and some girls came with us. During this vacation one girl fell hard for me and i fell in love too. We slept together and kissed a lot for 3 days. At the end of the vacation we promised that we would text every day because we wont be seeing each other again for at least 1.5 months because i will be 6000 km away for the summer . The thing is, i'm very unexperienced when it comes to texting girls, i have no problem talking to her in real life, but for some reason i can't seem to find conversation topics and have been staring to my phone screen for hours without anything to say. I'm worried that by the time i see her again she will not be interested anymore. \nHow do i keep texting her without her initiating the conversation every time? And how do i flirt with her over the phone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i've had a few guys in my life that have been really detrimental to my well-being, often playing with my emotions and vulnerable states and using me because they know i would easily give in since i hate making people upset with me. i've had a few friends that would put me down and make me feel horrible about myself and during high school people would make comments about me even if they weren't true at all.\n\n in the past 5 years i have pushed away almost every person who had tried to be kind to me because i felt as though they were going to just use me like most people tended to. i only had two friends in school and in grade 12 i started to date this boy who promised me the world and treated me a lot better than the other guys i had been with or had been talking to.\n\ni recently moved across the country and generally feel alone now that i'm no longer always with my two best friends. a boy that i was dating ended up breaking up with me because he wanted to be able to hook up with people in college - resulting in me feeling like total shit and like i wasn't good enough for him whatsoever. i ended up getting tinder so i could try and make a few friends around here. i ended up talking to this really amazing guy who i have a surprising amount of things in common with.\n\ni'm really nervous to meet him and i'm scared that i'll start to push him away because of how i've been treated by people who try to show the slightest amount of interest in me. i have really bad anxiety and it's extremely prominent in relationships and friendships, no matter who the person is i always have this thought that they may just be using me or treating me nicely until they get tired of me and throw me to the side.\n\nfor people who have experience with pushing people away, how did it affect you and how did you get over it (if you have)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i've had a few guys in my life that have been really detrimental to my well-being, often playing with my emotions and vulnerable states and using me because they know i would easily give in since i hate making people upset with me. i've had a few friends that would put me down and make me feel horrible about myself and during high school people would make comments about me even if they weren't true at all.\n\n in the past 5 years i have pushed away almost every person who had tried to be kind to me because i felt as though they were going to just use me like most people tended to. i only had two friends in school and in grade 12 i started to date this boy who promised me the world and treated me a lot better than the other guys i had been with or had been talking to.\n\ni recently moved across the country and generally feel alone now that i'm no longer always with my two best friends. a boy that i was dating ended up breaking up with me because he wanted to be able to hook up with people in college - resulting in me feeling like total shit and like i wasn't good enough for him whatsoever. i ended up getting tinder so i could try and make a few friends around here. i ended up talking to this really amazing guy who i have a surprising amount of things in common with.\n\ni'm really nervous to meet him and i'm scared that i'll start to push him away because of how i've been treated by people who try to show the slightest amount of interest in me. i have really bad anxiety and it's extremely prominent in relationships and friendships, no matter who the person is i always have this thought that they may just be using me or treating me nicely until they get tired of me and throw me to the side.\n\nfor people who have experience with pushing people away, how did it affect you and how did you get over it (if you have)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i've had a few guys in my life that have been really detrimental to my well-being, often playing with my emotions and vulnerable states and using me because they know i would easily give in since i hate making people upset with me. i've had a few friends that would put me down and make me feel horrible about myself and during high school people would make comments about me even if they weren't true at all.\n\n in the past 5 years i have pushed away almost every person who had tried to be kind to me because i felt as though they were going to just use me like most people tended to. i only had two friends in school and in grade 12 i started to date this boy who promised me the world and treated me a lot better than the other guys i had been with or had been talking to.\n\ni recently moved across the country and generally feel alone now that i'm no longer always with my two best friends. a boy that i was dating ended up breaking up with me because he wanted to be able to hook up with people in college - resulting in me feeling like total shit and like i wasn't good enough for him whatsoever. i ended up getting tinder so i could try and make a few friends around here. i ended up talking to this really amazing guy who i have a surprising amount of things in common with.\n\ni'm really nervous to meet him and i'm scared that i'll start to push him away because of how i've been treated by people who try to show the slightest amount of interest in me. i have really bad anxiety and it's extremely prominent in relationships and friendships, no matter who the person is i always have this thought that they may just be using me or treating me nicely until they get tired of me and throw me to the side.\n\nfor people who have experience with pushing people away, how did it affect you and how did you get over it (if you have)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i've had a few guys in my life that have been really detrimental to my well-being, often playing with my emotions and vulnerable states and using me because they know i would easily give in since i hate making people upset with me. i've had a few friends that would put me down and make me feel horrible about myself and during high school people would make comments about me even if they weren't true at all.\n\n in the past 5 years i have pushed away almost every person who had tried to be kind to me because i felt as though they were going to just use me like most people tended to. i only had two friends in school and in grade 12 i started to date this boy who promised me the world and treated me a lot better than the other guys i had been with or had been talking to.\n\ni recently moved across the country and generally feel alone now that i'm no longer always with my two best friends. a boy that i was dating ended up breaking up with me because he wanted to be able to hook up with people in college - resulting in me feeling like total shit and like i wasn't good enough for him whatsoever. i ended up getting tinder so i could try and make a few friends around here. i ended up talking to this really amazing guy who i have a surprising amount of things in common with.\n\ni'm really nervous to meet him and i'm scared that i'll start to push him away because of how i've been treated by people who try to show the slightest amount of interest in me. i have really bad anxiety and it's extremely prominent in relationships and friendships, no matter who the person is i always have this thought that they may just be using me or treating me nicely until they get tired of me and throw me to the side.\n\nfor people who have experience with pushing people away, how did it affect you and how did you get over it (if you have)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i've had a few guys in my life that have been really detrimental to my well-being, often playing with my emotions and vulnerable states and using me because they know i would easily give in since i hate making people upset with me. i've had a few friends that would put me down and make me feel horrible about myself and during high school people would make comments about me even if they weren't true at all.\n\n in the past 5 years i have pushed away almost every person who had tried to be kind to me because i felt as though they were going to just use me like most people tended to. i only had two friends in school and in grade 12 i started to date this boy who promised me the world and treated me a lot better than the other guys i had been with or had been talking to.\n\ni recently moved across the country and generally feel alone now that i'm no longer always with my two best friends. a boy that i was dating ended up breaking up with me because he wanted to be able to hook up with people in college - resulting in me feeling like total shit and like i wasn't good enough for him whatsoever. i ended up getting tinder so i could try and make a few friends around here. i ended up talking to this really amazing guy who i have a surprising amount of things in common with.\n\ni'm really nervous to meet him and i'm scared that i'll start to push him away because of how i've been treated by people who try to show the slightest amount of interest in me. i have really bad anxiety and it's extremely prominent in relationships and friendships, no matter who the person is i always have this thought that they may just be using me or treating me nicely until they get tired of me and throw me to the side.\n\nfor people who have experience with pushing people away, how did it affect you and how did you get over it (if you have)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i've had a few guys in my life that have been really detrimental to my well-being, often playing with my emotions and vulnerable states and using me because they know i would easily give in since i hate making people upset with me. i've had a few friends that would put me down and make me feel horrible about myself and during high school people would make comments about me even if they weren't true at all.\n\n in the past 5 years i have pushed away almost every person who had tried to be kind to me because i felt as though they were going to just use me like most people tended to. i only had two friends in school and in grade 12 i started to date this boy who promised me the world and treated me a lot better than the other guys i had been with or had been talking to.\n\ni recently moved across the country and generally feel alone now that i'm no longer always with my two best friends. a boy that i was dating ended up breaking up with me because he wanted to be able to hook up with people in college - resulting in me feeling like total shit and like i wasn't good enough for him whatsoever. i ended up getting tinder so i could try and make a few friends around here. i ended up talking to this really amazing guy who i have a surprising amount of things in common with.\n\ni'm really nervous to meet him and i'm scared that i'll start to push him away because of how i've been treated by people who try to show the slightest amount of interest in me. i have really bad anxiety and it's extremely prominent in relationships and friendships, no matter who the person is i always have this thought that they may just be using me or treating me nicely until they get tired of me and throw me to the side.\n\nfor people who have experience with pushing people away, how did it affect you and how did you get over it (if you have)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing someone for three months, and it's been going well. However, he lives an hour away and is quite busy with his uni course (med school.) At the start he used to get in touch a lot and we'd see each other twice a week. However, for the last month or two we talk every other day and don't make plans in advance, and everything is fitted around him. \n\nI thought that this was because med school is demanding (I also have a very demanding career and work longer hours than he does) but have recently found out he used to schedule hour long skype sessions every day with his ex. They'd text and call (he's never called me) for most of the day, and he spent weekends with her. I've never been able to see him on a Friday/Saturday because he plays sports. \n\nHim and his ex were more long distance than us (she lived three hours away.) I'm struggling to understand why things are so different with me, and whether I'm even allowed to get upset about this?\n\nI'd just really appreciate half the effort he put in with his ex. I asked him about being exclusive and he said we were, and I've also given him a couple easy outs saying if he's too busy for this I understand, but each time he has said no this is what he wants. \n\nNot sure how to proceed. Any advice appreciated. \n\nAlso, he finished with her if that is relevant."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing someone for three months, and it's been going well. However, he lives an hour away and is quite busy with his uni course (med school.) At the start he used to get in touch a lot and we'd see each other twice a week. However, for the last month or two we talk every other day and don't make plans in advance, and everything is fitted around him. \n\nI thought that this was because med school is demanding (I also have a very demanding career and work longer hours than he does) but have recently found out he used to schedule hour long skype sessions every day with his ex. They'd text and call (he's never called me) for most of the day, and he spent weekends with her. I've never been able to see him on a Friday/Saturday because he plays sports. \n\nHim and his ex were more long distance than us (she lived three hours away.) I'm struggling to understand why things are so different with me, and whether I'm even allowed to get upset about this?\n\nI'd just really appreciate half the effort he put in with his ex. I asked him about being exclusive and he said we were, and I've also given him a couple easy outs saying if he's too busy for this I understand, but each time he has said no this is what he wants. \n\nNot sure how to proceed. Any advice appreciated. \n\nAlso, he finished with her if that is relevant."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing someone for three months, and it's been going well. However, he lives an hour away and is quite busy with his uni course (med school.) At the start he used to get in touch a lot and we'd see each other twice a week. However, for the last month or two we talk every other day and don't make plans in advance, and everything is fitted around him. \n\nI thought that this was because med school is demanding (I also have a very demanding career and work longer hours than he does) but have recently found out he used to schedule hour long skype sessions every day with his ex. They'd text and call (he's never called me) for most of the day, and he spent weekends with her. I've never been able to see him on a Friday/Saturday because he plays sports. \n\nHim and his ex were more long distance than us (she lived three hours away.) I'm struggling to understand why things are so different with me, and whether I'm even allowed to get upset about this?\n\nI'd just really appreciate half the effort he put in with his ex. I asked him about being exclusive and he said we were, and I've also given him a couple easy outs saying if he's too busy for this I understand, but each time he has said no this is what he wants. \n\nNot sure how to proceed. Any advice appreciated. \n\nAlso, he finished with her if that is relevant."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing someone for three months, and it's been going well. However, he lives an hour away and is quite busy with his uni course (med school.) At the start he used to get in touch a lot and we'd see each other twice a week. However, for the last month or two we talk every other day and don't make plans in advance, and everything is fitted around him. \n\nI thought that this was because med school is demanding (I also have a very demanding career and work longer hours than he does) but have recently found out he used to schedule hour long skype sessions every day with his ex. They'd text and call (he's never called me) for most of the day, and he spent weekends with her. I've never been able to see him on a Friday/Saturday because he plays sports. \n\nHim and his ex were more long distance than us (she lived three hours away.) I'm struggling to understand why things are so different with me, and whether I'm even allowed to get upset about this?\n\nI'd just really appreciate half the effort he put in with his ex. I asked him about being exclusive and he said we were, and I've also given him a couple easy outs saying if he's too busy for this I understand, but each time he has said no this is what he wants. \n\nNot sure how to proceed. Any advice appreciated. \n\nAlso, he finished with her if that is relevant."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing someone for three months, and it's been going well. However, he lives an hour away and is quite busy with his uni course (med school.) At the start he used to get in touch a lot and we'd see each other twice a week. However, for the last month or two we talk every other day and don't make plans in advance, and everything is fitted around him. \n\nI thought that this was because med school is demanding (I also have a very demanding career and work longer hours than he does) but have recently found out he used to schedule hour long skype sessions every day with his ex. They'd text and call (he's never called me) for most of the day, and he spent weekends with her. I've never been able to see him on a Friday/Saturday because he plays sports. \n\nHim and his ex were more long distance than us (she lived three hours away.) I'm struggling to understand why things are so different with me, and whether I'm even allowed to get upset about this?\n\nI'd just really appreciate half the effort he put in with his ex. I asked him about being exclusive and he said we were, and I've also given him a couple easy outs saying if he's too busy for this I understand, but each time he has said no this is what he wants. \n\nNot sure how to proceed. Any advice appreciated. \n\nAlso, he finished with her if that is relevant."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit, we are in our 20's , 2 males 2 females all renting a house together and have been friends for about 3 or 4 years. we are all very close and one night we all took molly or pure MDMA.\n\nEventually the conversation took a turn and the idea of a closed-group-swingers to which everybody is very accepting and 100% backing but noted that we are still rolling fairly well.\n\nThe morning comes and between a 1 on 1 with both male friends and its established that he believes it might have gone too far and even retracting the offer that the closed group swinging might not be a good idea any longer but then even goes as far as to retract the offer that both girls can explore their bisexuality without any problems which is strange because it had been discussed some time ago that it wouldn't be a problem.\n\nThe two girls and other male who may not specifically be included are 100 percent OK with everything that might happen and understand the maturity requirements to separate love and lust to not endanger our friendships, we even have set boundaries like if jealousy or issues arise even in small doses it is to be ended immediately.\n\nWhat do we do? Is there a way to convince him without feeling pressured or bruising his ego? Should we let it go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit, we are in our 20's , 2 males 2 females all renting a house together and have been friends for about 3 or 4 years. we are all very close and one night we all took molly or pure MDMA.\n\nEventually the conversation took a turn and the idea of a closed-group-swingers to which everybody is very accepting and 100% backing but noted that we are still rolling fairly well.\n\nThe morning comes and between a 1 on 1 with both male friends and its established that he believes it might have gone too far and even retracting the offer that the closed group swinging might not be a good idea any longer but then even goes as far as to retract the offer that both girls can explore their bisexuality without any problems which is strange because it had been discussed some time ago that it wouldn't be a problem.\n\nThe two girls and other male who may not specifically be included are 100 percent OK with everything that might happen and understand the maturity requirements to separate love and lust to not endanger our friendships, we even have set boundaries like if jealousy or issues arise even in small doses it is to be ended immediately.\n\nWhat do we do? Is there a way to convince him without feeling pressured or bruising his ego? Should we let it go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit, we are in our 20's , 2 males 2 females all renting a house together and have been friends for about 3 or 4 years. we are all very close and one night we all took molly or pure MDMA.\n\nEventually the conversation took a turn and the idea of a closed-group-swingers to which everybody is very accepting and 100% backing but noted that we are still rolling fairly well.\n\nThe morning comes and between a 1 on 1 with both male friends and its established that he believes it might have gone too far and even retracting the offer that the closed group swinging might not be a good idea any longer but then even goes as far as to retract the offer that both girls can explore their bisexuality without any problems which is strange because it had been discussed some time ago that it wouldn't be a problem.\n\nThe two girls and other male who may not specifically be included are 100 percent OK with everything that might happen and understand the maturity requirements to separate love and lust to not endanger our friendships, we even have set boundaries like if jealousy or issues arise even in small doses it is to be ended immediately.\n\nWhat do we do? Is there a way to convince him without feeling pressured or bruising his ego? Should we let it go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit, we are in our 20's , 2 males 2 females all renting a house together and have been friends for about 3 or 4 years. we are all very close and one night we all took molly or pure MDMA.\n\nEventually the conversation took a turn and the idea of a closed-group-swingers to which everybody is very accepting and 100% backing but noted that we are still rolling fairly well.\n\nThe morning comes and between a 1 on 1 with both male friends and its established that he believes it might have gone too far and even retracting the offer that the closed group swinging might not be a good idea any longer but then even goes as far as to retract the offer that both girls can explore their bisexuality without any problems which is strange because it had been discussed some time ago that it wouldn't be a problem.\n\nThe two girls and other male who may not specifically be included are 100 percent OK with everything that might happen and understand the maturity requirements to separate love and lust to not endanger our friendships, we even have set boundaries like if jealousy or issues arise even in small doses it is to be ended immediately.\n\nWhat do we do? Is there a way to convince him without feeling pressured or bruising his ego? Should we let it go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit, we are in our 20's , 2 males 2 females all renting a house together and have been friends for about 3 or 4 years. we are all very close and one night we all took molly or pure MDMA.\n\nEventually the conversation took a turn and the idea of a closed-group-swingers to which everybody is very accepting and 100% backing but noted that we are still rolling fairly well.\n\nThe morning comes and between a 1 on 1 with both male friends and its established that he believes it might have gone too far and even retracting the offer that the closed group swinging might not be a good idea any longer but then even goes as far as to retract the offer that both girls can explore their bisexuality without any problems which is strange because it had been discussed some time ago that it wouldn't be a problem.\n\nThe two girls and other male who may not specifically be included are 100 percent OK with everything that might happen and understand the maturity requirements to separate love and lust to not endanger our friendships, we even have set boundaries like if jealousy or issues arise even in small doses it is to be ended immediately.\n\nWhat do we do? Is there a way to convince him without feeling pressured or bruising his ego? Should we let it go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit, we are in our 20's , 2 males 2 females all renting a house together and have been friends for about 3 or 4 years. we are all very close and one night we all took molly or pure MDMA.\n\nEventually the conversation took a turn and the idea of a closed-group-swingers to which everybody is very accepting and 100% backing but noted that we are still rolling fairly well.\n\nThe morning comes and between a 1 on 1 with both male friends and its established that he believes it might have gone too far and even retracting the offer that the closed group swinging might not be a good idea any longer but then even goes as far as to retract the offer that both girls can explore their bisexuality without any problems which is strange because it had been discussed some time ago that it wouldn't be a problem.\n\nThe two girls and other male who may not specifically be included are 100 percent OK with everything that might happen and understand the maturity requirements to separate love and lust to not endanger our friendships, we even have set boundaries like if jealousy or issues arise even in small doses it is to be ended immediately.\n\nWhat do we do? Is there a way to convince him without feeling pressured or bruising his ego? Should we let it go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we have been living together almost 5 months. Normally we get along very well but about once a month we get into huge, blow out fights. It always starts with me saying something that I want to talk about, him getting defensive and saying things like \"I guess I'm just a fucking idiot\", \"Everything's my fault\" \"Just tell me what you want\", etc.\n\nAnd then, he gets mad about something when I'm trying to talk to him. Like really, really mad to point of walking out on me. \n\nTo give you an idea, tonight I brought up how the clutter in our house is making me feel anxious. He took it to mean that he is a fuck up and that I think our place sucks, and we it's all his fault, etc. Mainly, I brought it up because when he comes home he dumps all of his stuff in the middle of the floor, regardless of what it is. Groceries, books, mail, whatever. And it sits there for as long as it takes for me to pick up. And when I moved in 5 months ago he said he would move his boxes out of the dining room. And they're still there. When I bring it up he says that I am trying to make him get rid of his stuff.\n\nWell, while we were arguing he brought up us wanting to buy a house and began to say how it was his money that would be buying it and how did I plan to contribute.A couple of months ago he was saying how he was saving his money for us and for us to have a home together so I said he lied to me. He completely lost it and \"I don't ever lie! Fuck you for calling me a liar!\" And he would not talk to me and just left. \n\nI just feel like a horrible person who can't do anything right. I try to talk to him but every time I want to discuss something I seem to bring up the wrong topic or say the wrong thing to make him explode. I'm so scared right now, I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we have been living together almost 5 months. Normally we get along very well but about once a month we get into huge, blow out fights. It always starts with me saying something that I want to talk about, him getting defensive and saying things like \"I guess I'm just a fucking idiot\", \"Everything's my fault\" \"Just tell me what you want\", etc.\n\nAnd then, he gets mad about something when I'm trying to talk to him. Like really, really mad to point of walking out on me. \n\nTo give you an idea, tonight I brought up how the clutter in our house is making me feel anxious. He took it to mean that he is a fuck up and that I think our place sucks, and we it's all his fault, etc. Mainly, I brought it up because when he comes home he dumps all of his stuff in the middle of the floor, regardless of what it is. Groceries, books, mail, whatever. And it sits there for as long as it takes for me to pick up. And when I moved in 5 months ago he said he would move his boxes out of the dining room. And they're still there. When I bring it up he says that I am trying to make him get rid of his stuff.\n\nWell, while we were arguing he brought up us wanting to buy a house and began to say how it was his money that would be buying it and how did I plan to contribute.A couple of months ago he was saying how he was saving his money for us and for us to have a home together so I said he lied to me. He completely lost it and \"I don't ever lie! Fuck you for calling me a liar!\" And he would not talk to me and just left. \n\nI just feel like a horrible person who can't do anything right. I try to talk to him but every time I want to discuss something I seem to bring up the wrong topic or say the wrong thing to make him explode. I'm so scared right now, I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we have been living together almost 5 months. Normally we get along very well but about once a month we get into huge, blow out fights. It always starts with me saying something that I want to talk about, him getting defensive and saying things like \"I guess I'm just a fucking idiot\", \"Everything's my fault\" \"Just tell me what you want\", etc.\n\nAnd then, he gets mad about something when I'm trying to talk to him. Like really, really mad to point of walking out on me. \n\nTo give you an idea, tonight I brought up how the clutter in our house is making me feel anxious. He took it to mean that he is a fuck up and that I think our place sucks, and we it's all his fault, etc. Mainly, I brought it up because when he comes home he dumps all of his stuff in the middle of the floor, regardless of what it is. Groceries, books, mail, whatever. And it sits there for as long as it takes for me to pick up. And when I moved in 5 months ago he said he would move his boxes out of the dining room. And they're still there. When I bring it up he says that I am trying to make him get rid of his stuff.\n\nWell, while we were arguing he brought up us wanting to buy a house and began to say how it was his money that would be buying it and how did I plan to contribute.A couple of months ago he was saying how he was saving his money for us and for us to have a home together so I said he lied to me. He completely lost it and \"I don't ever lie! Fuck you for calling me a liar!\" And he would not talk to me and just left. \n\nI just feel like a horrible person who can't do anything right. I try to talk to him but every time I want to discuss something I seem to bring up the wrong topic or say the wrong thing to make him explode. I'm so scared right now, I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we have been living together almost 5 months. Normally we get along very well but about once a month we get into huge, blow out fights. It always starts with me saying something that I want to talk about, him getting defensive and saying things like \"I guess I'm just a fucking idiot\", \"Everything's my fault\" \"Just tell me what you want\", etc.\n\nAnd then, he gets mad about something when I'm trying to talk to him. Like really, really mad to point of walking out on me. \n\nTo give you an idea, tonight I brought up how the clutter in our house is making me feel anxious. He took it to mean that he is a fuck up and that I think our place sucks, and we it's all his fault, etc. Mainly, I brought it up because when he comes home he dumps all of his stuff in the middle of the floor, regardless of what it is. Groceries, books, mail, whatever. And it sits there for as long as it takes for me to pick up. And when I moved in 5 months ago he said he would move his boxes out of the dining room. And they're still there. When I bring it up he says that I am trying to make him get rid of his stuff.\n\nWell, while we were arguing he brought up us wanting to buy a house and began to say how it was his money that would be buying it and how did I plan to contribute.A couple of months ago he was saying how he was saving his money for us and for us to have a home together so I said he lied to me. He completely lost it and \"I don't ever lie! Fuck you for calling me a liar!\" And he would not talk to me and just left. \n\nI just feel like a horrible person who can't do anything right. I try to talk to him but every time I want to discuss something I seem to bring up the wrong topic or say the wrong thing to make him explode. I'm so scared right now, I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we have been living together almost 5 months. Normally we get along very well but about once a month we get into huge, blow out fights. It always starts with me saying something that I want to talk about, him getting defensive and saying things like \"I guess I'm just a fucking idiot\", \"Everything's my fault\" \"Just tell me what you want\", etc.\n\nAnd then, he gets mad about something when I'm trying to talk to him. Like really, really mad to point of walking out on me. \n\nTo give you an idea, tonight I brought up how the clutter in our house is making me feel anxious. He took it to mean that he is a fuck up and that I think our place sucks, and we it's all his fault, etc. Mainly, I brought it up because when he comes home he dumps all of his stuff in the middle of the floor, regardless of what it is. Groceries, books, mail, whatever. And it sits there for as long as it takes for me to pick up. And when I moved in 5 months ago he said he would move his boxes out of the dining room. And they're still there. When I bring it up he says that I am trying to make him get rid of his stuff.\n\nWell, while we were arguing he brought up us wanting to buy a house and began to say how it was his money that would be buying it and how did I plan to contribute.A couple of months ago he was saying how he was saving his money for us and for us to have a home together so I said he lied to me. He completely lost it and \"I don't ever lie! Fuck you for calling me a liar!\" And he would not talk to me and just left. \n\nI just feel like a horrible person who can't do anything right. I try to talk to him but every time I want to discuss something I seem to bring up the wrong topic or say the wrong thing to make him explode. I'm so scared right now, I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we have been living together almost 5 months. Normally we get along very well but about once a month we get into huge, blow out fights. It always starts with me saying something that I want to talk about, him getting defensive and saying things like \"I guess I'm just a fucking idiot\", \"Everything's my fault\" \"Just tell me what you want\", etc.\n\nAnd then, he gets mad about something when I'm trying to talk to him. Like really, really mad to point of walking out on me. \n\nTo give you an idea, tonight I brought up how the clutter in our house is making me feel anxious. He took it to mean that he is a fuck up and that I think our place sucks, and we it's all his fault, etc. Mainly, I brought it up because when he comes home he dumps all of his stuff in the middle of the floor, regardless of what it is. Groceries, books, mail, whatever. And it sits there for as long as it takes for me to pick up. And when I moved in 5 months ago he said he would move his boxes out of the dining room. And they're still there. When I bring it up he says that I am trying to make him get rid of his stuff.\n\nWell, while we were arguing he brought up us wanting to buy a house and began to say how it was his money that would be buying it and how did I plan to contribute.A couple of months ago he was saying how he was saving his money for us and for us to have a home together so I said he lied to me. He completely lost it and \"I don't ever lie! Fuck you for calling me a liar!\" And he would not talk to me and just left. \n\nI just feel like a horrible person who can't do anything right. I try to talk to him but every time I want to discuss something I seem to bring up the wrong topic or say the wrong thing to make him explode. I'm so scared right now, I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone!\nThis is my first time posting here.\n\nI have always had a suspicion that something is still going on between my current girlfriend and her ex. I know that they are friends and I don't get on her case when she hangs out with him. \n\nI'm completely aware of my worth. I'm a good looking guy and according to her I satisfy her. I tend to not worry about her cheating on me.\n\nShe spent yesterday at the mall with him while I was at work.\n\n Okay no problem.\n\nSo i go over there afterwards and she refused to kiss me. She hardly acknowldeged my existence and was smiling and laughing at everything that her ex was saying. \n\nI told her that I was getting tired, (it was around 10pm and I had work this morning) and asked her to come back to my house for the night.\n\nShe said no, I'm going to stay at his (her ex's) house for the night.\n\nIn front of the two of them I got visibly upset and I told her to come outside to talk.\n\nShe didn't seem to understand why I would be upset about her choosing him over me.\nI childishly said to her, \"okay, that's fine, I'll just see if my ex wants to crash with me then.\n\nWhat I'm really upset about is that all she would have had to do to make me feel better was to say okay i'm sorry I'll come with you.\nInstead she did go with him and stayed over there.\nI really hope that I'm overreacting but I would like an unbiased outside opinion."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone!\nThis is my first time posting here.\n\nI have always had a suspicion that something is still going on between my current girlfriend and her ex. I know that they are friends and I don't get on her case when she hangs out with him. \n\nI'm completely aware of my worth. I'm a good looking guy and according to her I satisfy her. I tend to not worry about her cheating on me.\n\nShe spent yesterday at the mall with him while I was at work.\n\n Okay no problem.\n\nSo i go over there afterwards and she refused to kiss me. She hardly acknowldeged my existence and was smiling and laughing at everything that her ex was saying. \n\nI told her that I was getting tired, (it was around 10pm and I had work this morning) and asked her to come back to my house for the night.\n\nShe said no, I'm going to stay at his (her ex's) house for the night.\n\nIn front of the two of them I got visibly upset and I told her to come outside to talk.\n\nShe didn't seem to understand why I would be upset about her choosing him over me.\nI childishly said to her, \"okay, that's fine, I'll just see if my ex wants to crash with me then.\n\nWhat I'm really upset about is that all she would have had to do to make me feel better was to say okay i'm sorry I'll come with you.\nInstead she did go with him and stayed over there.\nI really hope that I'm overreacting but I would like an unbiased outside opinion."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone!\nThis is my first time posting here.\n\nI have always had a suspicion that something is still going on between my current girlfriend and her ex. I know that they are friends and I don't get on her case when she hangs out with him. \n\nI'm completely aware of my worth. I'm a good looking guy and according to her I satisfy her. I tend to not worry about her cheating on me.\n\nShe spent yesterday at the mall with him while I was at work.\n\n Okay no problem.\n\nSo i go over there afterwards and she refused to kiss me. She hardly acknowldeged my existence and was smiling and laughing at everything that her ex was saying. \n\nI told her that I was getting tired, (it was around 10pm and I had work this morning) and asked her to come back to my house for the night.\n\nShe said no, I'm going to stay at his (her ex's) house for the night.\n\nIn front of the two of them I got visibly upset and I told her to come outside to talk.\n\nShe didn't seem to understand why I would be upset about her choosing him over me.\nI childishly said to her, \"okay, that's fine, I'll just see if my ex wants to crash with me then.\n\nWhat I'm really upset about is that all she would have had to do to make me feel better was to say okay i'm sorry I'll come with you.\nInstead she did go with him and stayed over there.\nI really hope that I'm overreacting but I would like an unbiased outside opinion."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone!\nThis is my first time posting here.\n\nI have always had a suspicion that something is still going on between my current girlfriend and her ex. I know that they are friends and I don't get on her case when she hangs out with him. \n\nI'm completely aware of my worth. I'm a good looking guy and according to her I satisfy her. I tend to not worry about her cheating on me.\n\nShe spent yesterday at the mall with him while I was at work.\n\n Okay no problem.\n\nSo i go over there afterwards and she refused to kiss me. She hardly acknowldeged my existence and was smiling and laughing at everything that her ex was saying. \n\nI told her that I was getting tired, (it was around 10pm and I had work this morning) and asked her to come back to my house for the night.\n\nShe said no, I'm going to stay at his (her ex's) house for the night.\n\nIn front of the two of them I got visibly upset and I told her to come outside to talk.\n\nShe didn't seem to understand why I would be upset about her choosing him over me.\nI childishly said to her, \"okay, that's fine, I'll just see if my ex wants to crash with me then.\n\nWhat I'm really upset about is that all she would have had to do to make me feel better was to say okay i'm sorry I'll come with you.\nInstead she did go with him and stayed over there.\nI really hope that I'm overreacting but I would like an unbiased outside opinion."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone!\nThis is my first time posting here.\n\nI have always had a suspicion that something is still going on between my current girlfriend and her ex. I know that they are friends and I don't get on her case when she hangs out with him. \n\nI'm completely aware of my worth. I'm a good looking guy and according to her I satisfy her. I tend to not worry about her cheating on me.\n\nShe spent yesterday at the mall with him while I was at work.\n\n Okay no problem.\n\nSo i go over there afterwards and she refused to kiss me. She hardly acknowldeged my existence and was smiling and laughing at everything that her ex was saying. \n\nI told her that I was getting tired, (it was around 10pm and I had work this morning) and asked her to come back to my house for the night.\n\nShe said no, I'm going to stay at his (her ex's) house for the night.\n\nIn front of the two of them I got visibly upset and I told her to come outside to talk.\n\nShe didn't seem to understand why I would be upset about her choosing him over me.\nI childishly said to her, \"okay, that's fine, I'll just see if my ex wants to crash with me then.\n\nWhat I'm really upset about is that all she would have had to do to make me feel better was to say okay i'm sorry I'll come with you.\nInstead she did go with him and stayed over there.\nI really hope that I'm overreacting but I would like an unbiased outside opinion."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone!\nThis is my first time posting here.\n\nI have always had a suspicion that something is still going on between my current girlfriend and her ex. I know that they are friends and I don't get on her case when she hangs out with him. \n\nI'm completely aware of my worth. I'm a good looking guy and according to her I satisfy her. I tend to not worry about her cheating on me.\n\nShe spent yesterday at the mall with him while I was at work.\n\n Okay no problem.\n\nSo i go over there afterwards and she refused to kiss me. She hardly acknowldeged my existence and was smiling and laughing at everything that her ex was saying. \n\nI told her that I was getting tired, (it was around 10pm and I had work this morning) and asked her to come back to my house for the night.\n\nShe said no, I'm going to stay at his (her ex's) house for the night.\n\nIn front of the two of them I got visibly upset and I told her to come outside to talk.\n\nShe didn't seem to understand why I would be upset about her choosing him over me.\nI childishly said to her, \"okay, that's fine, I'll just see if my ex wants to crash with me then.\n\nWhat I'm really upset about is that all she would have had to do to make me feel better was to say okay i'm sorry I'll come with you.\nInstead she did go with him and stayed over there.\nI really hope that I'm overreacting but I would like an unbiased outside opinion."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in Las Vegas, Nevada and my on again off again girlfriend who is my age moved to Washington state for graduate school to eventually become a teacher. She will be graduating next summer, and where she goes from there to actually teach, assuming she can get a job, I have no idea. We used to live together and I did have plans at one point months ago to move up there with her, but, you guessed it, the intermittent status of our relationship prevented that.\n\nShe's a pretty emotional girl, so arguments tend to rise up from that, in a lot of ways we are really opposite. She lives her life based on how she feels and I'm the logical type, a mechanical engineering student, I kind of have to have this mindset for my future. But enough with the back story. It seems like every time we call it quits, I go a month or two not hearing from her, only to have her resurface which eventually leads to her attempts of reconciliation. I literally never talk to her again when we do actually seperate, and I always get into the frame of mind that I will never hear from her again, i guess to spare my mind of the pain always wondering if she is even thinking about me (i always figured that's how exes were supposed to behave). I feel I have allowed this for too long, because regardless of what she says it just leads to more hurt later on. Is she using me because she can't find anyone else there, or does she genuinely want to work things out? Is there a solution to this long distance to leave us not arguing over petty texts or should I just move on.\n\nMy question to you is, where do I go from here, where has my reddit community been and how have they come out for the better?\n\nI'll do my best to respond to comments, this is my first post ever, please be gentle! :D"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in Las Vegas, Nevada and my on again off again girlfriend who is my age moved to Washington state for graduate school to eventually become a teacher. She will be graduating next summer, and where she goes from there to actually teach, assuming she can get a job, I have no idea. We used to live together and I did have plans at one point months ago to move up there with her, but, you guessed it, the intermittent status of our relationship prevented that.\n\nShe's a pretty emotional girl, so arguments tend to rise up from that, in a lot of ways we are really opposite. She lives her life based on how she feels and I'm the logical type, a mechanical engineering student, I kind of have to have this mindset for my future. But enough with the back story. It seems like every time we call it quits, I go a month or two not hearing from her, only to have her resurface which eventually leads to her attempts of reconciliation. I literally never talk to her again when we do actually seperate, and I always get into the frame of mind that I will never hear from her again, i guess to spare my mind of the pain always wondering if she is even thinking about me (i always figured that's how exes were supposed to behave). I feel I have allowed this for too long, because regardless of what she says it just leads to more hurt later on. Is she using me because she can't find anyone else there, or does she genuinely want to work things out? Is there a solution to this long distance to leave us not arguing over petty texts or should I just move on.\n\nMy question to you is, where do I go from here, where has my reddit community been and how have they come out for the better?\n\nI'll do my best to respond to comments, this is my first post ever, please be gentle! :D"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in Las Vegas, Nevada and my on again off again girlfriend who is my age moved to Washington state for graduate school to eventually become a teacher. She will be graduating next summer, and where she goes from there to actually teach, assuming she can get a job, I have no idea. We used to live together and I did have plans at one point months ago to move up there with her, but, you guessed it, the intermittent status of our relationship prevented that.\n\nShe's a pretty emotional girl, so arguments tend to rise up from that, in a lot of ways we are really opposite. She lives her life based on how she feels and I'm the logical type, a mechanical engineering student, I kind of have to have this mindset for my future. But enough with the back story. It seems like every time we call it quits, I go a month or two not hearing from her, only to have her resurface which eventually leads to her attempts of reconciliation. I literally never talk to her again when we do actually seperate, and I always get into the frame of mind that I will never hear from her again, i guess to spare my mind of the pain always wondering if she is even thinking about me (i always figured that's how exes were supposed to behave). I feel I have allowed this for too long, because regardless of what she says it just leads to more hurt later on. Is she using me because she can't find anyone else there, or does she genuinely want to work things out? Is there a solution to this long distance to leave us not arguing over petty texts or should I just move on.\n\nMy question to you is, where do I go from here, where has my reddit community been and how have they come out for the better?\n\nI'll do my best to respond to comments, this is my first post ever, please be gentle! :D"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in Las Vegas, Nevada and my on again off again girlfriend who is my age moved to Washington state for graduate school to eventually become a teacher. She will be graduating next summer, and where she goes from there to actually teach, assuming she can get a job, I have no idea. We used to live together and I did have plans at one point months ago to move up there with her, but, you guessed it, the intermittent status of our relationship prevented that.\n\nShe's a pretty emotional girl, so arguments tend to rise up from that, in a lot of ways we are really opposite. She lives her life based on how she feels and I'm the logical type, a mechanical engineering student, I kind of have to have this mindset for my future. But enough with the back story. It seems like every time we call it quits, I go a month or two not hearing from her, only to have her resurface which eventually leads to her attempts of reconciliation. I literally never talk to her again when we do actually seperate, and I always get into the frame of mind that I will never hear from her again, i guess to spare my mind of the pain always wondering if she is even thinking about me (i always figured that's how exes were supposed to behave). I feel I have allowed this for too long, because regardless of what she says it just leads to more hurt later on. Is she using me because she can't find anyone else there, or does she genuinely want to work things out? Is there a solution to this long distance to leave us not arguing over petty texts or should I just move on.\n\nMy question to you is, where do I go from here, where has my reddit community been and how have they come out for the better?\n\nI'll do my best to respond to comments, this is my first post ever, please be gentle! :D"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in Las Vegas, Nevada and my on again off again girlfriend who is my age moved to Washington state for graduate school to eventually become a teacher. She will be graduating next summer, and where she goes from there to actually teach, assuming she can get a job, I have no idea. We used to live together and I did have plans at one point months ago to move up there with her, but, you guessed it, the intermittent status of our relationship prevented that.\n\nShe's a pretty emotional girl, so arguments tend to rise up from that, in a lot of ways we are really opposite. She lives her life based on how she feels and I'm the logical type, a mechanical engineering student, I kind of have to have this mindset for my future. But enough with the back story. It seems like every time we call it quits, I go a month or two not hearing from her, only to have her resurface which eventually leads to her attempts of reconciliation. I literally never talk to her again when we do actually seperate, and I always get into the frame of mind that I will never hear from her again, i guess to spare my mind of the pain always wondering if she is even thinking about me (i always figured that's how exes were supposed to behave). I feel I have allowed this for too long, because regardless of what she says it just leads to more hurt later on. Is she using me because she can't find anyone else there, or does she genuinely want to work things out? Is there a solution to this long distance to leave us not arguing over petty texts or should I just move on.\n\nMy question to you is, where do I go from here, where has my reddit community been and how have they come out for the better?\n\nI'll do my best to respond to comments, this is my first post ever, please be gentle! :D"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met an extremely cute and sexy girl at the college gym two days ago. We talked for ~20 minutes and I could definitely feel a strong chemistry between me and her. I just couldn't help but smile whenever I looked into her eyes; I thought she was gorgeous.\n\nI'm a big workout fan so I don't really like to talk to people when I workout, let alone ask for a girl's number. I thought I would regret it if I didn't ask for her number, so I did and she more than willingly gave me her name & number. She said she was excited to have found a gym partner and promised to workout with me in the future.\n\nThe problem is, she doesn't reply to any of my text message. What is this? This is the first time a girl has failed to reply to any of my text, and it's puzzling & bothering me so much. Did I fuck up somewhere? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met an extremely cute and sexy girl at the college gym two days ago. We talked for ~20 minutes and I could definitely feel a strong chemistry between me and her. I just couldn't help but smile whenever I looked into her eyes; I thought she was gorgeous.\n\nI'm a big workout fan so I don't really like to talk to people when I workout, let alone ask for a girl's number. I thought I would regret it if I didn't ask for her number, so I did and she more than willingly gave me her name & number. She said she was excited to have found a gym partner and promised to workout with me in the future.\n\nThe problem is, she doesn't reply to any of my text message. What is this? This is the first time a girl has failed to reply to any of my text, and it's puzzling & bothering me so much. Did I fuck up somewhere? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met an extremely cute and sexy girl at the college gym two days ago. We talked for ~20 minutes and I could definitely feel a strong chemistry between me and her. I just couldn't help but smile whenever I looked into her eyes; I thought she was gorgeous.\n\nI'm a big workout fan so I don't really like to talk to people when I workout, let alone ask for a girl's number. I thought I would regret it if I didn't ask for her number, so I did and she more than willingly gave me her name & number. She said she was excited to have found a gym partner and promised to workout with me in the future.\n\nThe problem is, she doesn't reply to any of my text message. What is this? This is the first time a girl has failed to reply to any of my text, and it's puzzling & bothering me so much. Did I fuck up somewhere? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met an extremely cute and sexy girl at the college gym two days ago. We talked for ~20 minutes and I could definitely feel a strong chemistry between me and her. I just couldn't help but smile whenever I looked into her eyes; I thought she was gorgeous.\n\nI'm a big workout fan so I don't really like to talk to people when I workout, let alone ask for a girl's number. I thought I would regret it if I didn't ask for her number, so I did and she more than willingly gave me her name & number. She said she was excited to have found a gym partner and promised to workout with me in the future.\n\nThe problem is, she doesn't reply to any of my text message. What is this? This is the first time a girl has failed to reply to any of my text, and it's puzzling & bothering me so much. Did I fuck up somewhere? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met an extremely cute and sexy girl at the college gym two days ago. We talked for ~20 minutes and I could definitely feel a strong chemistry between me and her. I just couldn't help but smile whenever I looked into her eyes; I thought she was gorgeous.\n\nI'm a big workout fan so I don't really like to talk to people when I workout, let alone ask for a girl's number. I thought I would regret it if I didn't ask for her number, so I did and she more than willingly gave me her name & number. She said she was excited to have found a gym partner and promised to workout with me in the future.\n\nThe problem is, she doesn't reply to any of my text message. What is this? This is the first time a girl has failed to reply to any of my text, and it's puzzling & bothering me so much. Did I fuck up somewhere? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met an extremely cute and sexy girl at the college gym two days ago. We talked for ~20 minutes and I could definitely feel a strong chemistry between me and her. I just couldn't help but smile whenever I looked into her eyes; I thought she was gorgeous.\n\nI'm a big workout fan so I don't really like to talk to people when I workout, let alone ask for a girl's number. I thought I would regret it if I didn't ask for her number, so I did and she more than willingly gave me her name & number. She said she was excited to have found a gym partner and promised to workout with me in the future.\n\nThe problem is, she doesn't reply to any of my text message. What is this? This is the first time a girl has failed to reply to any of my text, and it's puzzling & bothering me so much. Did I fuck up somewhere? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone!\n\n*sorry it is in point form, it would have been a really long post otherwise!*\n\n-I 24f, he 21m\n\n-met at uni, both dig each other, he has gf (3yrs, lives with)\n\n-fast forward a month, they break up, 21m and I begin our \"courtship\"\n\n-agree that since we are great friends and both live in different states (with no promise of having a relationship outside of school & he just got out of a serious relationship), we should just be friends with benefits (the typical \"you can sleep with others\" is also agreed upon and that our friendship comes first)\n\n-we both end up seeing other ppl throughout the school year, but we become more \"couple-ly\" (spending time just the two of us, \"dates\", etc.) even around our friends and in public\n\n-summertime: go our own ways, yet end up talking often and seeing each other throughout the summer. (we take turns visiting in each others home state) eventually end up meeting parts of one another's family\n\n-which leads to me having some sort of feelings for the guy (to the point where I am thinking of being exclusive)\n\n-cue feelings of sadness when he talks of the summer's conquests (I asked, fyi) and when we stop talking so often, especially when he starts to go out more, which means I realize I may not be able to continue on like this because I have developed \"real\" feelings\n\n-school starts soon and I am seriously considering cutting this off because it is not fair to either of us. but not sure if i should see if he wants something more?\n\nAny help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone!\n\n*sorry it is in point form, it would have been a really long post otherwise!*\n\n-I 24f, he 21m\n\n-met at uni, both dig each other, he has gf (3yrs, lives with)\n\n-fast forward a month, they break up, 21m and I begin our \"courtship\"\n\n-agree that since we are great friends and both live in different states (with no promise of having a relationship outside of school & he just got out of a serious relationship), we should just be friends with benefits (the typical \"you can sleep with others\" is also agreed upon and that our friendship comes first)\n\n-we both end up seeing other ppl throughout the school year, but we become more \"couple-ly\" (spending time just the two of us, \"dates\", etc.) even around our friends and in public\n\n-summertime: go our own ways, yet end up talking often and seeing each other throughout the summer. (we take turns visiting in each others home state) eventually end up meeting parts of one another's family\n\n-which leads to me having some sort of feelings for the guy (to the point where I am thinking of being exclusive)\n\n-cue feelings of sadness when he talks of the summer's conquests (I asked, fyi) and when we stop talking so often, especially when he starts to go out more, which means I realize I may not be able to continue on like this because I have developed \"real\" feelings\n\n-school starts soon and I am seriously considering cutting this off because it is not fair to either of us. but not sure if i should see if he wants something more?\n\nAny help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone!\n\n*sorry it is in point form, it would have been a really long post otherwise!*\n\n-I 24f, he 21m\n\n-met at uni, both dig each other, he has gf (3yrs, lives with)\n\n-fast forward a month, they break up, 21m and I begin our \"courtship\"\n\n-agree that since we are great friends and both live in different states (with no promise of having a relationship outside of school & he just got out of a serious relationship), we should just be friends with benefits (the typical \"you can sleep with others\" is also agreed upon and that our friendship comes first)\n\n-we both end up seeing other ppl throughout the school year, but we become more \"couple-ly\" (spending time just the two of us, \"dates\", etc.) even around our friends and in public\n\n-summertime: go our own ways, yet end up talking often and seeing each other throughout the summer. (we take turns visiting in each others home state) eventually end up meeting parts of one another's family\n\n-which leads to me having some sort of feelings for the guy (to the point where I am thinking of being exclusive)\n\n-cue feelings of sadness when he talks of the summer's conquests (I asked, fyi) and when we stop talking so often, especially when he starts to go out more, which means I realize I may not be able to continue on like this because I have developed \"real\" feelings\n\n-school starts soon and I am seriously considering cutting this off because it is not fair to either of us. but not sure if i should see if he wants something more?\n\nAny help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone!\n\n*sorry it is in point form, it would have been a really long post otherwise!*\n\n-I 24f, he 21m\n\n-met at uni, both dig each other, he has gf (3yrs, lives with)\n\n-fast forward a month, they break up, 21m and I begin our \"courtship\"\n\n-agree that since we are great friends and both live in different states (with no promise of having a relationship outside of school & he just got out of a serious relationship), we should just be friends with benefits (the typical \"you can sleep with others\" is also agreed upon and that our friendship comes first)\n\n-we both end up seeing other ppl throughout the school year, but we become more \"couple-ly\" (spending time just the two of us, \"dates\", etc.) even around our friends and in public\n\n-summertime: go our own ways, yet end up talking often and seeing each other throughout the summer. (we take turns visiting in each others home state) eventually end up meeting parts of one another's family\n\n-which leads to me having some sort of feelings for the guy (to the point where I am thinking of being exclusive)\n\n-cue feelings of sadness when he talks of the summer's conquests (I asked, fyi) and when we stop talking so often, especially when he starts to go out more, which means I realize I may not be able to continue on like this because I have developed \"real\" feelings\n\n-school starts soon and I am seriously considering cutting this off because it is not fair to either of us. but not sure if i should see if he wants something more?\n\nAny help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone!\n\n*sorry it is in point form, it would have been a really long post otherwise!*\n\n-I 24f, he 21m\n\n-met at uni, both dig each other, he has gf (3yrs, lives with)\n\n-fast forward a month, they break up, 21m and I begin our \"courtship\"\n\n-agree that since we are great friends and both live in different states (with no promise of having a relationship outside of school & he just got out of a serious relationship), we should just be friends with benefits (the typical \"you can sleep with others\" is also agreed upon and that our friendship comes first)\n\n-we both end up seeing other ppl throughout the school year, but we become more \"couple-ly\" (spending time just the two of us, \"dates\", etc.) even around our friends and in public\n\n-summertime: go our own ways, yet end up talking often and seeing each other throughout the summer. (we take turns visiting in each others home state) eventually end up meeting parts of one another's family\n\n-which leads to me having some sort of feelings for the guy (to the point where I am thinking of being exclusive)\n\n-cue feelings of sadness when he talks of the summer's conquests (I asked, fyi) and when we stop talking so often, especially when he starts to go out more, which means I realize I may not be able to continue on like this because I have developed \"real\" feelings\n\n-school starts soon and I am seriously considering cutting this off because it is not fair to either of us. but not sure if i should see if he wants something more?\n\nAny help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone!\n\n*sorry it is in point form, it would have been a really long post otherwise!*\n\n-I 24f, he 21m\n\n-met at uni, both dig each other, he has gf (3yrs, lives with)\n\n-fast forward a month, they break up, 21m and I begin our \"courtship\"\n\n-agree that since we are great friends and both live in different states (with no promise of having a relationship outside of school & he just got out of a serious relationship), we should just be friends with benefits (the typical \"you can sleep with others\" is also agreed upon and that our friendship comes first)\n\n-we both end up seeing other ppl throughout the school year, but we become more \"couple-ly\" (spending time just the two of us, \"dates\", etc.) even around our friends and in public\n\n-summertime: go our own ways, yet end up talking often and seeing each other throughout the summer. (we take turns visiting in each others home state) eventually end up meeting parts of one another's family\n\n-which leads to me having some sort of feelings for the guy (to the point where I am thinking of being exclusive)\n\n-cue feelings of sadness when he talks of the summer's conquests (I asked, fyi) and when we stop talking so often, especially when he starts to go out more, which means I realize I may not be able to continue on like this because I have developed \"real\" feelings\n\n-school starts soon and I am seriously considering cutting this off because it is not fair to either of us. but not sure if i should see if he wants something more?\n\nAny help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, thanks for reading. I'm a 24 year old guy who has been married for only about 2 weeks to my wife, age 27. My wife is a devout Christian (I am not) and as such, we did not have sex before marriage, though we dated almost 7 years. We did \"fool around\" quite a lot and do a lot of outercourse, but it was always kind of forbidden. We had cutesy words for everything (it was never \"sex\" and words like penis and vagina were big no no's!). I guess over time, though, by thinking of sex as forbidden, I've grown to not really be attracted to my wife. What I mean is, the thought of making love to her seems really wrong, and there's just nothing about her that I find super attractive. On the other hand, there are girls that are not nearly as good looking as my wife who I can certainly see myself getting intimate with, but whenever I try to think of my wife in that way, I feel guilty. \n\nTo make matters worse, my wife is very sensitive. We still can't use \"real\" words while *actually* having sex, and anytime I move my face more than a foot away from hers, she feels bad and feels like I'm leaving her or it's not personal enough. There are things I think I'd like to try, but I can't even begin to imagine asking. (Head for example.my, I'd feel more comfortably asking one of female executives at work for head than my own wife!) Basically, how can I learn to be attracted again after being kind of sexually \"repressed\" for 7 or so years. How can I view my wife sexually after being conditioned not to for so long?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, thanks for reading. I'm a 24 year old guy who has been married for only about 2 weeks to my wife, age 27. My wife is a devout Christian (I am not) and as such, we did not have sex before marriage, though we dated almost 7 years. We did \"fool around\" quite a lot and do a lot of outercourse, but it was always kind of forbidden. We had cutesy words for everything (it was never \"sex\" and words like penis and vagina were big no no's!). I guess over time, though, by thinking of sex as forbidden, I've grown to not really be attracted to my wife. What I mean is, the thought of making love to her seems really wrong, and there's just nothing about her that I find super attractive. On the other hand, there are girls that are not nearly as good looking as my wife who I can certainly see myself getting intimate with, but whenever I try to think of my wife in that way, I feel guilty. \n\nTo make matters worse, my wife is very sensitive. We still can't use \"real\" words while *actually* having sex, and anytime I move my face more than a foot away from hers, she feels bad and feels like I'm leaving her or it's not personal enough. There are things I think I'd like to try, but I can't even begin to imagine asking. (Head for example.my, I'd feel more comfortably asking one of female executives at work for head than my own wife!) Basically, how can I learn to be attracted again after being kind of sexually \"repressed\" for 7 or so years. How can I view my wife sexually after being conditioned not to for so long?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, thanks for reading. I'm a 24 year old guy who has been married for only about 2 weeks to my wife, age 27. My wife is a devout Christian (I am not) and as such, we did not have sex before marriage, though we dated almost 7 years. We did \"fool around\" quite a lot and do a lot of outercourse, but it was always kind of forbidden. We had cutesy words for everything (it was never \"sex\" and words like penis and vagina were big no no's!). I guess over time, though, by thinking of sex as forbidden, I've grown to not really be attracted to my wife. What I mean is, the thought of making love to her seems really wrong, and there's just nothing about her that I find super attractive. On the other hand, there are girls that are not nearly as good looking as my wife who I can certainly see myself getting intimate with, but whenever I try to think of my wife in that way, I feel guilty. \n\nTo make matters worse, my wife is very sensitive. We still can't use \"real\" words while *actually* having sex, and anytime I move my face more than a foot away from hers, she feels bad and feels like I'm leaving her or it's not personal enough. There are things I think I'd like to try, but I can't even begin to imagine asking. (Head for example.my, I'd feel more comfortably asking one of female executives at work for head than my own wife!) Basically, how can I learn to be attracted again after being kind of sexually \"repressed\" for 7 or so years. How can I view my wife sexually after being conditioned not to for so long?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, thanks for reading. I'm a 24 year old guy who has been married for only about 2 weeks to my wife, age 27. My wife is a devout Christian (I am not) and as such, we did not have sex before marriage, though we dated almost 7 years. We did \"fool around\" quite a lot and do a lot of outercourse, but it was always kind of forbidden. We had cutesy words for everything (it was never \"sex\" and words like penis and vagina were big no no's!). I guess over time, though, by thinking of sex as forbidden, I've grown to not really be attracted to my wife. What I mean is, the thought of making love to her seems really wrong, and there's just nothing about her that I find super attractive. On the other hand, there are girls that are not nearly as good looking as my wife who I can certainly see myself getting intimate with, but whenever I try to think of my wife in that way, I feel guilty. \n\nTo make matters worse, my wife is very sensitive. We still can't use \"real\" words while *actually* having sex, and anytime I move my face more than a foot away from hers, she feels bad and feels like I'm leaving her or it's not personal enough. There are things I think I'd like to try, but I can't even begin to imagine asking. (Head for example.my, I'd feel more comfortably asking one of female executives at work for head than my own wife!) Basically, how can I learn to be attracted again after being kind of sexually \"repressed\" for 7 or so years. How can I view my wife sexually after being conditioned not to for so long?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, thanks for reading. I'm a 24 year old guy who has been married for only about 2 weeks to my wife, age 27. My wife is a devout Christian (I am not) and as such, we did not have sex before marriage, though we dated almost 7 years. We did \"fool around\" quite a lot and do a lot of outercourse, but it was always kind of forbidden. We had cutesy words for everything (it was never \"sex\" and words like penis and vagina were big no no's!). I guess over time, though, by thinking of sex as forbidden, I've grown to not really be attracted to my wife. What I mean is, the thought of making love to her seems really wrong, and there's just nothing about her that I find super attractive. On the other hand, there are girls that are not nearly as good looking as my wife who I can certainly see myself getting intimate with, but whenever I try to think of my wife in that way, I feel guilty. \n\nTo make matters worse, my wife is very sensitive. We still can't use \"real\" words while *actually* having sex, and anytime I move my face more than a foot away from hers, she feels bad and feels like I'm leaving her or it's not personal enough. There are things I think I'd like to try, but I can't even begin to imagine asking. (Head for example.my, I'd feel more comfortably asking one of female executives at work for head than my own wife!) Basically, how can I learn to be attracted again after being kind of sexually \"repressed\" for 7 or so years. How can I view my wife sexually after being conditioned not to for so long?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, thanks for reading. I'm a 24 year old guy who has been married for only about 2 weeks to my wife, age 27. My wife is a devout Christian (I am not) and as such, we did not have sex before marriage, though we dated almost 7 years. We did \"fool around\" quite a lot and do a lot of outercourse, but it was always kind of forbidden. We had cutesy words for everything (it was never \"sex\" and words like penis and vagina were big no no's!). I guess over time, though, by thinking of sex as forbidden, I've grown to not really be attracted to my wife. What I mean is, the thought of making love to her seems really wrong, and there's just nothing about her that I find super attractive. On the other hand, there are girls that are not nearly as good looking as my wife who I can certainly see myself getting intimate with, but whenever I try to think of my wife in that way, I feel guilty. \n\nTo make matters worse, my wife is very sensitive. We still can't use \"real\" words while *actually* having sex, and anytime I move my face more than a foot away from hers, she feels bad and feels like I'm leaving her or it's not personal enough. There are things I think I'd like to try, but I can't even begin to imagine asking. (Head for example.my, I'd feel more comfortably asking one of female executives at work for head than my own wife!) Basically, how can I learn to be attracted again after being kind of sexually \"repressed\" for 7 or so years. How can I view my wife sexually after being conditioned not to for so long?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Edit: Girlfriend is 19, not 49!\n\nHi there,\nso my GF of 3-4 month is currently suffering depression. They were probably caused by happenings in her past. A kid some years older forced her to do things she didn't want to do, no need to go in detail.\n\nSo she isn't into a lot of body contact sometimes, other times she's really into it. Which I can understand and am completely fine with. But I always knew and noticed that she loved me. Until about a month ago.\n\nI don't know where to start here. At that time we had our first big argument (in my opinion ofc). She mostly refused to come to my place or spent time with me anywhere else than her room or inner city when she wanted to go shopping. She didn't put any effort into making me feel good - again, I don't mean this in a sexual way. She understood, but hasn't changed anything.\n\nIt became rather worse since I waited for her to put something into this relationship and got disappointed again. A week ago we sat down to talk. She said she might have ADS in addition to her depression and that she really loves and needs me. She cried while we talked. So of course we didn't break up since I wanted to support her. \n\nI don't expect a cured depression or improvement in not even diagnosed ADS but it's hard for me to keep this relationship alive on my own. She loves me, fine, I actually believe her. But I notice not a single bit of effort. Words aren't enough. This relationship makes me unhappy despite me being in love with her. I know it's probably not always an equal part of give/ take in a relationship but being the only one who \"gives\" makes me feel frustrated.\n\nYes - I already told her that when we talked. Guess what. Nothing.\n\nSo dear readers, I've got two questions now:\n\nfirst: Do you think it's reasonable to break up? - I think it is, and\n\nsecond: Do I sound like an a*hole because of that? Any advice unrelated to the questions is welcome as well!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Edit: Girlfriend is 19, not 49!\n\nHi there,\nso my GF of 3-4 month is currently suffering depression. They were probably caused by happenings in her past. A kid some years older forced her to do things she didn't want to do, no need to go in detail.\n\nSo she isn't into a lot of body contact sometimes, other times she's really into it. Which I can understand and am completely fine with. But I always knew and noticed that she loved me. Until about a month ago.\n\nI don't know where to start here. At that time we had our first big argument (in my opinion ofc). She mostly refused to come to my place or spent time with me anywhere else than her room or inner city when she wanted to go shopping. She didn't put any effort into making me feel good - again, I don't mean this in a sexual way. She understood, but hasn't changed anything.\n\nIt became rather worse since I waited for her to put something into this relationship and got disappointed again. A week ago we sat down to talk. She said she might have ADS in addition to her depression and that she really loves and needs me. She cried while we talked. So of course we didn't break up since I wanted to support her. \n\nI don't expect a cured depression or improvement in not even diagnosed ADS but it's hard for me to keep this relationship alive on my own. She loves me, fine, I actually believe her. But I notice not a single bit of effort. Words aren't enough. This relationship makes me unhappy despite me being in love with her. I know it's probably not always an equal part of give/ take in a relationship but being the only one who \"gives\" makes me feel frustrated.\n\nYes - I already told her that when we talked. Guess what. Nothing.\n\nSo dear readers, I've got two questions now:\n\nfirst: Do you think it's reasonable to break up? - I think it is, and\n\nsecond: Do I sound like an a*hole because of that? Any advice unrelated to the questions is welcome as well!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Edit: Girlfriend is 19, not 49!\n\nHi there,\nso my GF of 3-4 month is currently suffering depression. They were probably caused by happenings in her past. A kid some years older forced her to do things she didn't want to do, no need to go in detail.\n\nSo she isn't into a lot of body contact sometimes, other times she's really into it. Which I can understand and am completely fine with. But I always knew and noticed that she loved me. Until about a month ago.\n\nI don't know where to start here. At that time we had our first big argument (in my opinion ofc). She mostly refused to come to my place or spent time with me anywhere else than her room or inner city when she wanted to go shopping. She didn't put any effort into making me feel good - again, I don't mean this in a sexual way. She understood, but hasn't changed anything.\n\nIt became rather worse since I waited for her to put something into this relationship and got disappointed again. A week ago we sat down to talk. She said she might have ADS in addition to her depression and that she really loves and needs me. She cried while we talked. So of course we didn't break up since I wanted to support her. \n\nI don't expect a cured depression or improvement in not even diagnosed ADS but it's hard for me to keep this relationship alive on my own. She loves me, fine, I actually believe her. But I notice not a single bit of effort. Words aren't enough. This relationship makes me unhappy despite me being in love with her. I know it's probably not always an equal part of give/ take in a relationship but being the only one who \"gives\" makes me feel frustrated.\n\nYes - I already told her that when we talked. Guess what. Nothing.\n\nSo dear readers, I've got two questions now:\n\nfirst: Do you think it's reasonable to break up? - I think it is, and\n\nsecond: Do I sound like an a*hole because of that? Any advice unrelated to the questions is welcome as well!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Edit: Girlfriend is 19, not 49!\n\nHi there,\nso my GF of 3-4 month is currently suffering depression. They were probably caused by happenings in her past. A kid some years older forced her to do things she didn't want to do, no need to go in detail.\n\nSo she isn't into a lot of body contact sometimes, other times she's really into it. Which I can understand and am completely fine with. But I always knew and noticed that she loved me. Until about a month ago.\n\nI don't know where to start here. At that time we had our first big argument (in my opinion ofc). She mostly refused to come to my place or spent time with me anywhere else than her room or inner city when she wanted to go shopping. She didn't put any effort into making me feel good - again, I don't mean this in a sexual way. She understood, but hasn't changed anything.\n\nIt became rather worse since I waited for her to put something into this relationship and got disappointed again. A week ago we sat down to talk. She said she might have ADS in addition to her depression and that she really loves and needs me. She cried while we talked. So of course we didn't break up since I wanted to support her. \n\nI don't expect a cured depression or improvement in not even diagnosed ADS but it's hard for me to keep this relationship alive on my own. She loves me, fine, I actually believe her. But I notice not a single bit of effort. Words aren't enough. This relationship makes me unhappy despite me being in love with her. I know it's probably not always an equal part of give/ take in a relationship but being the only one who \"gives\" makes me feel frustrated.\n\nYes - I already told her that when we talked. Guess what. Nothing.\n\nSo dear readers, I've got two questions now:\n\nfirst: Do you think it's reasonable to break up? - I think it is, and\n\nsecond: Do I sound like an a*hole because of that? Any advice unrelated to the questions is welcome as well!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Edit: Girlfriend is 19, not 49!\n\nHi there,\nso my GF of 3-4 month is currently suffering depression. They were probably caused by happenings in her past. A kid some years older forced her to do things she didn't want to do, no need to go in detail.\n\nSo she isn't into a lot of body contact sometimes, other times she's really into it. Which I can understand and am completely fine with. But I always knew and noticed that she loved me. Until about a month ago.\n\nI don't know where to start here. At that time we had our first big argument (in my opinion ofc). She mostly refused to come to my place or spent time with me anywhere else than her room or inner city when she wanted to go shopping. She didn't put any effort into making me feel good - again, I don't mean this in a sexual way. She understood, but hasn't changed anything.\n\nIt became rather worse since I waited for her to put something into this relationship and got disappointed again. A week ago we sat down to talk. She said she might have ADS in addition to her depression and that she really loves and needs me. She cried while we talked. So of course we didn't break up since I wanted to support her. \n\nI don't expect a cured depression or improvement in not even diagnosed ADS but it's hard for me to keep this relationship alive on my own. She loves me, fine, I actually believe her. But I notice not a single bit of effort. Words aren't enough. This relationship makes me unhappy despite me being in love with her. I know it's probably not always an equal part of give/ take in a relationship but being the only one who \"gives\" makes me feel frustrated.\n\nYes - I already told her that when we talked. Guess what. Nothing.\n\nSo dear readers, I've got two questions now:\n\nfirst: Do you think it's reasonable to break up? - I think it is, and\n\nsecond: Do I sound like an a*hole because of that? Any advice unrelated to the questions is welcome as well!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Edit: Girlfriend is 19, not 49!\n\nHi there,\nso my GF of 3-4 month is currently suffering depression. They were probably caused by happenings in her past. A kid some years older forced her to do things she didn't want to do, no need to go in detail.\n\nSo she isn't into a lot of body contact sometimes, other times she's really into it. Which I can understand and am completely fine with. But I always knew and noticed that she loved me. Until about a month ago.\n\nI don't know where to start here. At that time we had our first big argument (in my opinion ofc). She mostly refused to come to my place or spent time with me anywhere else than her room or inner city when she wanted to go shopping. She didn't put any effort into making me feel good - again, I don't mean this in a sexual way. She understood, but hasn't changed anything.\n\nIt became rather worse since I waited for her to put something into this relationship and got disappointed again. A week ago we sat down to talk. She said she might have ADS in addition to her depression and that she really loves and needs me. She cried while we talked. So of course we didn't break up since I wanted to support her. \n\nI don't expect a cured depression or improvement in not even diagnosed ADS but it's hard for me to keep this relationship alive on my own. She loves me, fine, I actually believe her. But I notice not a single bit of effort. Words aren't enough. This relationship makes me unhappy despite me being in love with her. I know it's probably not always an equal part of give/ take in a relationship but being the only one who \"gives\" makes me feel frustrated.\n\nYes - I already told her that when we talked. Guess what. Nothing.\n\nSo dear readers, I've got two questions now:\n\nfirst: Do you think it's reasonable to break up? - I think it is, and\n\nsecond: Do I sound like an a*hole because of that? Any advice unrelated to the questions is welcome as well!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dealing with depression and anxiety for about two years now. It started at the beginning of the first semester of my junior year and essentially ended my normal high school career. I spent the rest of that semester getting help and trying to find a good substitute for actually going to normal high school. By the end of that semester I was enrolled in online school and had found a good combination of meds and counseling to combat the depression and anxiety. But at the beginning of my senior year I had to change meds due to side effects becoming too much to handle. This sent me back to square one, and put my life on hold again. Ever since then I have been up and down never getting back to where I was in the second half of my junior year. \n\nDue to these circumstances, and my introverted tendencies, I've only kept in touch with close male friends and the occasional girl, and by occasional, I mean two girls in two years. So I now find myself feeling better and would like to find a relationship, but I don't know where to start. I've never been the type of guy to just see a girl and go up to talk to her, I just find it awkward. I've been thinking about making a tinder account, but I don't have the best track record with online dating. So basically is their any methods that you guys might have found that works or if you ladies have any advice to help my situation. Any thoughts are more than welcome. \n\nThis is my first post to Reddit, so I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit or anything along those lines."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dealing with depression and anxiety for about two years now. It started at the beginning of the first semester of my junior year and essentially ended my normal high school career. I spent the rest of that semester getting help and trying to find a good substitute for actually going to normal high school. By the end of that semester I was enrolled in online school and had found a good combination of meds and counseling to combat the depression and anxiety. But at the beginning of my senior year I had to change meds due to side effects becoming too much to handle. This sent me back to square one, and put my life on hold again. Ever since then I have been up and down never getting back to where I was in the second half of my junior year. \n\nDue to these circumstances, and my introverted tendencies, I've only kept in touch with close male friends and the occasional girl, and by occasional, I mean two girls in two years. So I now find myself feeling better and would like to find a relationship, but I don't know where to start. I've never been the type of guy to just see a girl and go up to talk to her, I just find it awkward. I've been thinking about making a tinder account, but I don't have the best track record with online dating. So basically is their any methods that you guys might have found that works or if you ladies have any advice to help my situation. Any thoughts are more than welcome. \n\nThis is my first post to Reddit, so I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit or anything along those lines."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dealing with depression and anxiety for about two years now. It started at the beginning of the first semester of my junior year and essentially ended my normal high school career. I spent the rest of that semester getting help and trying to find a good substitute for actually going to normal high school. By the end of that semester I was enrolled in online school and had found a good combination of meds and counseling to combat the depression and anxiety. But at the beginning of my senior year I had to change meds due to side effects becoming too much to handle. This sent me back to square one, and put my life on hold again. Ever since then I have been up and down never getting back to where I was in the second half of my junior year. \n\nDue to these circumstances, and my introverted tendencies, I've only kept in touch with close male friends and the occasional girl, and by occasional, I mean two girls in two years. So I now find myself feeling better and would like to find a relationship, but I don't know where to start. I've never been the type of guy to just see a girl and go up to talk to her, I just find it awkward. I've been thinking about making a tinder account, but I don't have the best track record with online dating. So basically is their any methods that you guys might have found that works or if you ladies have any advice to help my situation. Any thoughts are more than welcome. \n\nThis is my first post to Reddit, so I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit or anything along those lines."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dealing with depression and anxiety for about two years now. It started at the beginning of the first semester of my junior year and essentially ended my normal high school career. I spent the rest of that semester getting help and trying to find a good substitute for actually going to normal high school. By the end of that semester I was enrolled in online school and had found a good combination of meds and counseling to combat the depression and anxiety. But at the beginning of my senior year I had to change meds due to side effects becoming too much to handle. This sent me back to square one, and put my life on hold again. Ever since then I have been up and down never getting back to where I was in the second half of my junior year. \n\nDue to these circumstances, and my introverted tendencies, I've only kept in touch with close male friends and the occasional girl, and by occasional, I mean two girls in two years. So I now find myself feeling better and would like to find a relationship, but I don't know where to start. I've never been the type of guy to just see a girl and go up to talk to her, I just find it awkward. I've been thinking about making a tinder account, but I don't have the best track record with online dating. So basically is their any methods that you guys might have found that works or if you ladies have any advice to help my situation. Any thoughts are more than welcome. \n\nThis is my first post to Reddit, so I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit or anything along those lines."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dealing with depression and anxiety for about two years now. It started at the beginning of the first semester of my junior year and essentially ended my normal high school career. I spent the rest of that semester getting help and trying to find a good substitute for actually going to normal high school. By the end of that semester I was enrolled in online school and had found a good combination of meds and counseling to combat the depression and anxiety. But at the beginning of my senior year I had to change meds due to side effects becoming too much to handle. This sent me back to square one, and put my life on hold again. Ever since then I have been up and down never getting back to where I was in the second half of my junior year. \n\nDue to these circumstances, and my introverted tendencies, I've only kept in touch with close male friends and the occasional girl, and by occasional, I mean two girls in two years. So I now find myself feeling better and would like to find a relationship, but I don't know where to start. I've never been the type of guy to just see a girl and go up to talk to her, I just find it awkward. I've been thinking about making a tinder account, but I don't have the best track record with online dating. So basically is their any methods that you guys might have found that works or if you ladies have any advice to help my situation. Any thoughts are more than welcome. \n\nThis is my first post to Reddit, so I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit or anything along those lines."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dealing with depression and anxiety for about two years now. It started at the beginning of the first semester of my junior year and essentially ended my normal high school career. I spent the rest of that semester getting help and trying to find a good substitute for actually going to normal high school. By the end of that semester I was enrolled in online school and had found a good combination of meds and counseling to combat the depression and anxiety. But at the beginning of my senior year I had to change meds due to side effects becoming too much to handle. This sent me back to square one, and put my life on hold again. Ever since then I have been up and down never getting back to where I was in the second half of my junior year. \n\nDue to these circumstances, and my introverted tendencies, I've only kept in touch with close male friends and the occasional girl, and by occasional, I mean two girls in two years. So I now find myself feeling better and would like to find a relationship, but I don't know where to start. I've never been the type of guy to just see a girl and go up to talk to her, I just find it awkward. I've been thinking about making a tinder account, but I don't have the best track record with online dating. So basically is their any methods that you guys might have found that works or if you ladies have any advice to help my situation. Any thoughts are more than welcome. \n\nThis is my first post to Reddit, so I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit or anything along those lines."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, the context is, it has been my plan for the last couple of years to study Computer Science at university, I am currently at the latter end of a Gap year in Australia, almost 19. I have always done well with computers, from solving problems or in the software design and development course at school. \n\nThe thing is, I have always enjoyed reading about recent discoveries in Science, particularly in Physics related fields. More and more recently I have been considering whether or not I should actually try and go into the field that I love seeing the advancements of. Thing is, I didn't take any science in years 11 and 12, although I came top of the year in year 10 (not that that really counts for much since it is only year 10), I wasn't bad at mathematics during school, I took Mathematics ext 1 (ext 2 is a higher level) and did fairly well, although I'm not sure how I'd do with really high level maths.\n\nThe other option I suppose is that I could do computer science, with an extra unit of Physics at first and go from there. I have already got an enrollment at Newcastle University that I deferred for a year, so I would have to reapply for any other course at this stage.\n\nI have also recently been thinking that I would like to do research, with either field, possibly into robotics or A.I. research with computer science, and I haven't really thought of what I'd do in with Physics. \n\nNow, just to clarify, I won't be making my decision from the responses here, although they might influence my end decision. \n\nP.S, If anyone has ideas of another suitable subreddit to post this in feel free to mention it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, the context is, it has been my plan for the last couple of years to study Computer Science at university, I am currently at the latter end of a Gap year in Australia, almost 19. I have always done well with computers, from solving problems or in the software design and development course at school. \n\nThe thing is, I have always enjoyed reading about recent discoveries in Science, particularly in Physics related fields. More and more recently I have been considering whether or not I should actually try and go into the field that I love seeing the advancements of. Thing is, I didn't take any science in years 11 and 12, although I came top of the year in year 10 (not that that really counts for much since it is only year 10), I wasn't bad at mathematics during school, I took Mathematics ext 1 (ext 2 is a higher level) and did fairly well, although I'm not sure how I'd do with really high level maths.\n\nThe other option I suppose is that I could do computer science, with an extra unit of Physics at first and go from there. I have already got an enrollment at Newcastle University that I deferred for a year, so I would have to reapply for any other course at this stage.\n\nI have also recently been thinking that I would like to do research, with either field, possibly into robotics or A.I. research with computer science, and I haven't really thought of what I'd do in with Physics. \n\nNow, just to clarify, I won't be making my decision from the responses here, although they might influence my end decision. \n\nP.S, If anyone has ideas of another suitable subreddit to post this in feel free to mention it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, the context is, it has been my plan for the last couple of years to study Computer Science at university, I am currently at the latter end of a Gap year in Australia, almost 19. I have always done well with computers, from solving problems or in the software design and development course at school. \n\nThe thing is, I have always enjoyed reading about recent discoveries in Science, particularly in Physics related fields. More and more recently I have been considering whether or not I should actually try and go into the field that I love seeing the advancements of. Thing is, I didn't take any science in years 11 and 12, although I came top of the year in year 10 (not that that really counts for much since it is only year 10), I wasn't bad at mathematics during school, I took Mathematics ext 1 (ext 2 is a higher level) and did fairly well, although I'm not sure how I'd do with really high level maths.\n\nThe other option I suppose is that I could do computer science, with an extra unit of Physics at first and go from there. I have already got an enrollment at Newcastle University that I deferred for a year, so I would have to reapply for any other course at this stage.\n\nI have also recently been thinking that I would like to do research, with either field, possibly into robotics or A.I. research with computer science, and I haven't really thought of what I'd do in with Physics. \n\nNow, just to clarify, I won't be making my decision from the responses here, although they might influence my end decision. \n\nP.S, If anyone has ideas of another suitable subreddit to post this in feel free to mention it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, the context is, it has been my plan for the last couple of years to study Computer Science at university, I am currently at the latter end of a Gap year in Australia, almost 19. I have always done well with computers, from solving problems or in the software design and development course at school. \n\nThe thing is, I have always enjoyed reading about recent discoveries in Science, particularly in Physics related fields. More and more recently I have been considering whether or not I should actually try and go into the field that I love seeing the advancements of. Thing is, I didn't take any science in years 11 and 12, although I came top of the year in year 10 (not that that really counts for much since it is only year 10), I wasn't bad at mathematics during school, I took Mathematics ext 1 (ext 2 is a higher level) and did fairly well, although I'm not sure how I'd do with really high level maths.\n\nThe other option I suppose is that I could do computer science, with an extra unit of Physics at first and go from there. I have already got an enrollment at Newcastle University that I deferred for a year, so I would have to reapply for any other course at this stage.\n\nI have also recently been thinking that I would like to do research, with either field, possibly into robotics or A.I. research with computer science, and I haven't really thought of what I'd do in with Physics. \n\nNow, just to clarify, I won't be making my decision from the responses here, although they might influence my end decision. \n\nP.S, If anyone has ideas of another suitable subreddit to post this in feel free to mention it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, the context is, it has been my plan for the last couple of years to study Computer Science at university, I am currently at the latter end of a Gap year in Australia, almost 19. I have always done well with computers, from solving problems or in the software design and development course at school. \n\nThe thing is, I have always enjoyed reading about recent discoveries in Science, particularly in Physics related fields. More and more recently I have been considering whether or not I should actually try and go into the field that I love seeing the advancements of. Thing is, I didn't take any science in years 11 and 12, although I came top of the year in year 10 (not that that really counts for much since it is only year 10), I wasn't bad at mathematics during school, I took Mathematics ext 1 (ext 2 is a higher level) and did fairly well, although I'm not sure how I'd do with really high level maths.\n\nThe other option I suppose is that I could do computer science, with an extra unit of Physics at first and go from there. I have already got an enrollment at Newcastle University that I deferred for a year, so I would have to reapply for any other course at this stage.\n\nI have also recently been thinking that I would like to do research, with either field, possibly into robotics or A.I. research with computer science, and I haven't really thought of what I'd do in with Physics. \n\nNow, just to clarify, I won't be making my decision from the responses here, although they might influence my end decision. \n\nP.S, If anyone has ideas of another suitable subreddit to post this in feel free to mention it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, the context is, it has been my plan for the last couple of years to study Computer Science at university, I am currently at the latter end of a Gap year in Australia, almost 19. I have always done well with computers, from solving problems or in the software design and development course at school. \n\nThe thing is, I have always enjoyed reading about recent discoveries in Science, particularly in Physics related fields. More and more recently I have been considering whether or not I should actually try and go into the field that I love seeing the advancements of. Thing is, I didn't take any science in years 11 and 12, although I came top of the year in year 10 (not that that really counts for much since it is only year 10), I wasn't bad at mathematics during school, I took Mathematics ext 1 (ext 2 is a higher level) and did fairly well, although I'm not sure how I'd do with really high level maths.\n\nThe other option I suppose is that I could do computer science, with an extra unit of Physics at first and go from there. I have already got an enrollment at Newcastle University that I deferred for a year, so I would have to reapply for any other course at this stage.\n\nI have also recently been thinking that I would like to do research, with either field, possibly into robotics or A.I. research with computer science, and I haven't really thought of what I'd do in with Physics. \n\nNow, just to clarify, I won't be making my decision from the responses here, although they might influence my end decision. \n\nP.S, If anyone has ideas of another suitable subreddit to post this in feel free to mention it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I have been together for 5 years now and, during all of that time, I have never put a lot of effort into my looks. I have never worn make-up or spent any substantial amount of time on my looks unless it was a special occasions like a party, dinner with one of our families, etc. The other night he told me that he's very upset that I don't do these things. That he sees other girls going to class in with make-up on and in a nice outfit and it makes him depressed that I don't. (we have no classes together) When I told him that I didn't really want to do that he insisted this was only because I dislike preppy girls and didn't want to be seen as one. It's not. I like make-up, I just consider daily usage of it a waste of time when I look perfectly fine without it. \n\nHe also says that I don't put any effort into us while he puts in a lot. The thing is, I don't see that. I'm in an aggressive major, taking 22 credits, and working 10 hours a week, but I still take the time to visit him at his apartment at least once a week, often more than that. During these visits I rarely have the energy to do much. We normally watch a TV show or play card games or adult activities. It upsets him that I'm not more social/energetic during these visits. I guess I should add that he is taking 14 credits and doesn't have a job.\n\nThe things he said hurt me a lot and I don't know what to do. I tried to explain that I just don't have the time to work on my looks constantly and didn't understand why this suddenly bothered him. The comments about my not putting in effort really offend me because I can't think of one thing he does that I'd consider \"effort\" on his part other than make me tea when I ask him to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I have been together for 5 years now and, during all of that time, I have never put a lot of effort into my looks. I have never worn make-up or spent any substantial amount of time on my looks unless it was a special occasions like a party, dinner with one of our families, etc. The other night he told me that he's very upset that I don't do these things. That he sees other girls going to class in with make-up on and in a nice outfit and it makes him depressed that I don't. (we have no classes together) When I told him that I didn't really want to do that he insisted this was only because I dislike preppy girls and didn't want to be seen as one. It's not. I like make-up, I just consider daily usage of it a waste of time when I look perfectly fine without it. \n\nHe also says that I don't put any effort into us while he puts in a lot. The thing is, I don't see that. I'm in an aggressive major, taking 22 credits, and working 10 hours a week, but I still take the time to visit him at his apartment at least once a week, often more than that. During these visits I rarely have the energy to do much. We normally watch a TV show or play card games or adult activities. It upsets him that I'm not more social/energetic during these visits. I guess I should add that he is taking 14 credits and doesn't have a job.\n\nThe things he said hurt me a lot and I don't know what to do. I tried to explain that I just don't have the time to work on my looks constantly and didn't understand why this suddenly bothered him. The comments about my not putting in effort really offend me because I can't think of one thing he does that I'd consider \"effort\" on his part other than make me tea when I ask him to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I have been together for 5 years now and, during all of that time, I have never put a lot of effort into my looks. I have never worn make-up or spent any substantial amount of time on my looks unless it was a special occasions like a party, dinner with one of our families, etc. The other night he told me that he's very upset that I don't do these things. That he sees other girls going to class in with make-up on and in a nice outfit and it makes him depressed that I don't. (we have no classes together) When I told him that I didn't really want to do that he insisted this was only because I dislike preppy girls and didn't want to be seen as one. It's not. I like make-up, I just consider daily usage of it a waste of time when I look perfectly fine without it. \n\nHe also says that I don't put any effort into us while he puts in a lot. The thing is, I don't see that. I'm in an aggressive major, taking 22 credits, and working 10 hours a week, but I still take the time to visit him at his apartment at least once a week, often more than that. During these visits I rarely have the energy to do much. We normally watch a TV show or play card games or adult activities. It upsets him that I'm not more social/energetic during these visits. I guess I should add that he is taking 14 credits and doesn't have a job.\n\nThe things he said hurt me a lot and I don't know what to do. I tried to explain that I just don't have the time to work on my looks constantly and didn't understand why this suddenly bothered him. The comments about my not putting in effort really offend me because I can't think of one thing he does that I'd consider \"effort\" on his part other than make me tea when I ask him to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I have been together for 5 years now and, during all of that time, I have never put a lot of effort into my looks. I have never worn make-up or spent any substantial amount of time on my looks unless it was a special occasions like a party, dinner with one of our families, etc. The other night he told me that he's very upset that I don't do these things. That he sees other girls going to class in with make-up on and in a nice outfit and it makes him depressed that I don't. (we have no classes together) When I told him that I didn't really want to do that he insisted this was only because I dislike preppy girls and didn't want to be seen as one. It's not. I like make-up, I just consider daily usage of it a waste of time when I look perfectly fine without it. \n\nHe also says that I don't put any effort into us while he puts in a lot. The thing is, I don't see that. I'm in an aggressive major, taking 22 credits, and working 10 hours a week, but I still take the time to visit him at his apartment at least once a week, often more than that. During these visits I rarely have the energy to do much. We normally watch a TV show or play card games or adult activities. It upsets him that I'm not more social/energetic during these visits. I guess I should add that he is taking 14 credits and doesn't have a job.\n\nThe things he said hurt me a lot and I don't know what to do. I tried to explain that I just don't have the time to work on my looks constantly and didn't understand why this suddenly bothered him. The comments about my not putting in effort really offend me because I can't think of one thing he does that I'd consider \"effort\" on his part other than make me tea when I ask him to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I have been together for 5 years now and, during all of that time, I have never put a lot of effort into my looks. I have never worn make-up or spent any substantial amount of time on my looks unless it was a special occasions like a party, dinner with one of our families, etc. The other night he told me that he's very upset that I don't do these things. That he sees other girls going to class in with make-up on and in a nice outfit and it makes him depressed that I don't. (we have no classes together) When I told him that I didn't really want to do that he insisted this was only because I dislike preppy girls and didn't want to be seen as one. It's not. I like make-up, I just consider daily usage of it a waste of time when I look perfectly fine without it. \n\nHe also says that I don't put any effort into us while he puts in a lot. The thing is, I don't see that. I'm in an aggressive major, taking 22 credits, and working 10 hours a week, but I still take the time to visit him at his apartment at least once a week, often more than that. During these visits I rarely have the energy to do much. We normally watch a TV show or play card games or adult activities. It upsets him that I'm not more social/energetic during these visits. I guess I should add that he is taking 14 credits and doesn't have a job.\n\nThe things he said hurt me a lot and I don't know what to do. I tried to explain that I just don't have the time to work on my looks constantly and didn't understand why this suddenly bothered him. The comments about my not putting in effort really offend me because I can't think of one thing he does that I'd consider \"effort\" on his part other than make me tea when I ask him to."
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