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{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I have been together for 5 years now and, during all of that time, I have never put a lot of effort into my looks. I have never worn make-up or spent any substantial amount of time on my looks unless it was a special occasions like a party, dinner with one of our families, etc. The other night he told me that he's very upset that I don't do these things. That he sees other girls going to class in with make-up on and in a nice outfit and it makes him depressed that I don't. (we have no classes together) When I told him that I didn't really want to do that he insisted this was only because I dislike preppy girls and didn't want to be seen as one. It's not. I like make-up, I just consider daily usage of it a waste of time when I look perfectly fine without it. \n\nHe also says that I don't put any effort into us while he puts in a lot. The thing is, I don't see that. I'm in an aggressive major, taking 22 credits, and working 10 hours a week, but I still take the time to visit him at his apartment at least once a week, often more than that. During these visits I rarely have the energy to do much. We normally watch a TV show or play card games or adult activities. It upsets him that I'm not more social/energetic during these visits. I guess I should add that he is taking 14 credits and doesn't have a job.\n\nThe things he said hurt me a lot and I don't know what to do. I tried to explain that I just don't have the time to work on my looks constantly and didn't understand why this suddenly bothered him. The comments about my not putting in effort really offend me because I can't think of one thing he does that I'd consider \"effort\" on his part other than make me tea when I ask him to." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, I'm a 16 year old male, and I have a 16 years old girlfriend who I've been dating for about 1 month. I know I'm young, she's young, but I'm serious about her. I've never had feelings for someone so strong, I seriously can't get enough of her company, she makes me smile, makes me laugh and just makes me feel like I'm being cared about, as I do her.\n\nI've had strong feelings for her for about 3 or 4 months, but I met her about a year ago. So a while ago I confessed my feelings for her, and she said she felt the same way, and since we've been dating, I've grown closer and closer to her and we make each other very happy. I have complete trust in her, and I'm sure she does for me, and we have absolutely no problems between us at all. But I have a personal problem.\n\nWhen I'm not with her, I feel lonely even when with friends, or if I just saw her like 2 hours ago. I get worried as well, just bad scenarios pop up occasionally and It makes me can't stand not being with her. (I'm not clingy to her, by the way)\n\nHas anyone had/have this? How do you overcome it and stop worrying and being lonely?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, I'm a 16 year old male, and I have a 16 years old girlfriend who I've been dating for about 1 month. I know I'm young, she's young, but I'm serious about her. I've never had feelings for someone so strong, I seriously can't get enough of her company, she makes me smile, makes me laugh and just makes me feel like I'm being cared about, as I do her.\n\nI've had strong feelings for her for about 3 or 4 months, but I met her about a year ago. So a while ago I confessed my feelings for her, and she said she felt the same way, and since we've been dating, I've grown closer and closer to her and we make each other very happy. I have complete trust in her, and I'm sure she does for me, and we have absolutely no problems between us at all. But I have a personal problem.\n\nWhen I'm not with her, I feel lonely even when with friends, or if I just saw her like 2 hours ago. I get worried as well, just bad scenarios pop up occasionally and It makes me can't stand not being with her. (I'm not clingy to her, by the way)\n\nHas anyone had/have this? How do you overcome it and stop worrying and being lonely?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, I'm a 16 year old male, and I have a 16 years old girlfriend who I've been dating for about 1 month. I know I'm young, she's young, but I'm serious about her. I've never had feelings for someone so strong, I seriously can't get enough of her company, she makes me smile, makes me laugh and just makes me feel like I'm being cared about, as I do her.\n\nI've had strong feelings for her for about 3 or 4 months, but I met her about a year ago. So a while ago I confessed my feelings for her, and she said she felt the same way, and since we've been dating, I've grown closer and closer to her and we make each other very happy. I have complete trust in her, and I'm sure she does for me, and we have absolutely no problems between us at all. But I have a personal problem.\n\nWhen I'm not with her, I feel lonely even when with friends, or if I just saw her like 2 hours ago. I get worried as well, just bad scenarios pop up occasionally and It makes me can't stand not being with her. (I'm not clingy to her, by the way)\n\nHas anyone had/have this? How do you overcome it and stop worrying and being lonely?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, I'm a 16 year old male, and I have a 16 years old girlfriend who I've been dating for about 1 month. I know I'm young, she's young, but I'm serious about her. I've never had feelings for someone so strong, I seriously can't get enough of her company, she makes me smile, makes me laugh and just makes me feel like I'm being cared about, as I do her.\n\nI've had strong feelings for her for about 3 or 4 months, but I met her about a year ago. So a while ago I confessed my feelings for her, and she said she felt the same way, and since we've been dating, I've grown closer and closer to her and we make each other very happy. I have complete trust in her, and I'm sure she does for me, and we have absolutely no problems between us at all. But I have a personal problem.\n\nWhen I'm not with her, I feel lonely even when with friends, or if I just saw her like 2 hours ago. I get worried as well, just bad scenarios pop up occasionally and It makes me can't stand not being with her. (I'm not clingy to her, by the way)\n\nHas anyone had/have this? How do you overcome it and stop worrying and being lonely?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, I'm a 16 year old male, and I have a 16 years old girlfriend who I've been dating for about 1 month. I know I'm young, she's young, but I'm serious about her. I've never had feelings for someone so strong, I seriously can't get enough of her company, she makes me smile, makes me laugh and just makes me feel like I'm being cared about, as I do her.\n\nI've had strong feelings for her for about 3 or 4 months, but I met her about a year ago. So a while ago I confessed my feelings for her, and she said she felt the same way, and since we've been dating, I've grown closer and closer to her and we make each other very happy. I have complete trust in her, and I'm sure she does for me, and we have absolutely no problems between us at all. But I have a personal problem.\n\nWhen I'm not with her, I feel lonely even when with friends, or if I just saw her like 2 hours ago. I get worried as well, just bad scenarios pop up occasionally and It makes me can't stand not being with her. (I'm not clingy to her, by the way)\n\nHas anyone had/have this? How do you overcome it and stop worrying and being lonely?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, I'm a 16 year old male, and I have a 16 years old girlfriend who I've been dating for about 1 month. I know I'm young, she's young, but I'm serious about her. I've never had feelings for someone so strong, I seriously can't get enough of her company, she makes me smile, makes me laugh and just makes me feel like I'm being cared about, as I do her.\n\nI've had strong feelings for her for about 3 or 4 months, but I met her about a year ago. So a while ago I confessed my feelings for her, and she said she felt the same way, and since we've been dating, I've grown closer and closer to her and we make each other very happy. I have complete trust in her, and I'm sure she does for me, and we have absolutely no problems between us at all. But I have a personal problem.\n\nWhen I'm not with her, I feel lonely even when with friends, or if I just saw her like 2 hours ago. I get worried as well, just bad scenarios pop up occasionally and It makes me can't stand not being with her. (I'm not clingy to her, by the way)\n\nHas anyone had/have this? How do you overcome it and stop worrying and being lonely?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been married for 14 years. 3 kids. He's been sober from his alcohol addiction for 6 months. He still suffers from depression, anxiety, and anger issues, but he is seeing a psychiatrist and taking meds (not willing to see a therapist though, but he does go to AA almost every day). We're in couples counseling since I threatened divorce when he refused to get treatment for alcoholism.\n\nAnyway, I feel like many years have gone by where I have been neglected sexually and physical affection-wise. I have brought this up again and again, and things will get a little better for a few weeks and then back to the status quo. Since approaching 40, I feel like my time is running out for still being attractive to men, and I hate living like a nun in this marriage. Ideally I would love to be having a physical relationship with my husband, but he just is not that into it. We haven't had sex for almost a year.\n\nI have some depression issues too, but it's well controlled with meds. I don't want a divorce, because I feel like that would completely upset our lives and our children's lives. I just want to be held and made love to on a regular basis (i.e., not just once every few months when all the stars align). I know he does not want a divorce either; in fact he begged me to go to counseling with him because he was afraid I would want a divorce.\n\nThe therapist actually threw out the idea of an open marriage a few months ago, and he said he would not be ok with that. I said I didn't really want that, I wanted an intimate relationship with my husband. But things don't seem to be getting closer to my needs being met, and *I* am not ok with forced celibacy. \n\nSo my question is, if I bring up the idea that at this point I'd like an open marriage, how do you think he would react? How would you react to just being asked if your partner could \"subcontract out\" her physical needs?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been married for 14 years. 3 kids. He's been sober from his alcohol addiction for 6 months. He still suffers from depression, anxiety, and anger issues, but he is seeing a psychiatrist and taking meds (not willing to see a therapist though, but he does go to AA almost every day). We're in couples counseling since I threatened divorce when he refused to get treatment for alcoholism.\n\nAnyway, I feel like many years have gone by where I have been neglected sexually and physical affection-wise. I have brought this up again and again, and things will get a little better for a few weeks and then back to the status quo. Since approaching 40, I feel like my time is running out for still being attractive to men, and I hate living like a nun in this marriage. Ideally I would love to be having a physical relationship with my husband, but he just is not that into it. We haven't had sex for almost a year.\n\nI have some depression issues too, but it's well controlled with meds. I don't want a divorce, because I feel like that would completely upset our lives and our children's lives. I just want to be held and made love to on a regular basis (i.e., not just once every few months when all the stars align). I know he does not want a divorce either; in fact he begged me to go to counseling with him because he was afraid I would want a divorce.\n\nThe therapist actually threw out the idea of an open marriage a few months ago, and he said he would not be ok with that. I said I didn't really want that, I wanted an intimate relationship with my husband. But things don't seem to be getting closer to my needs being met, and *I* am not ok with forced celibacy. \n\nSo my question is, if I bring up the idea that at this point I'd like an open marriage, how do you think he would react? How would you react to just being asked if your partner could \"subcontract out\" her physical needs?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been married for 14 years. 3 kids. He's been sober from his alcohol addiction for 6 months. He still suffers from depression, anxiety, and anger issues, but he is seeing a psychiatrist and taking meds (not willing to see a therapist though, but he does go to AA almost every day). We're in couples counseling since I threatened divorce when he refused to get treatment for alcoholism.\n\nAnyway, I feel like many years have gone by where I have been neglected sexually and physical affection-wise. I have brought this up again and again, and things will get a little better for a few weeks and then back to the status quo. Since approaching 40, I feel like my time is running out for still being attractive to men, and I hate living like a nun in this marriage. Ideally I would love to be having a physical relationship with my husband, but he just is not that into it. We haven't had sex for almost a year.\n\nI have some depression issues too, but it's well controlled with meds. I don't want a divorce, because I feel like that would completely upset our lives and our children's lives. I just want to be held and made love to on a regular basis (i.e., not just once every few months when all the stars align). I know he does not want a divorce either; in fact he begged me to go to counseling with him because he was afraid I would want a divorce.\n\nThe therapist actually threw out the idea of an open marriage a few months ago, and he said he would not be ok with that. I said I didn't really want that, I wanted an intimate relationship with my husband. But things don't seem to be getting closer to my needs being met, and *I* am not ok with forced celibacy. \n\nSo my question is, if I bring up the idea that at this point I'd like an open marriage, how do you think he would react? How would you react to just being asked if your partner could \"subcontract out\" her physical needs?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been married for 14 years. 3 kids. He's been sober from his alcohol addiction for 6 months. He still suffers from depression, anxiety, and anger issues, but he is seeing a psychiatrist and taking meds (not willing to see a therapist though, but he does go to AA almost every day). We're in couples counseling since I threatened divorce when he refused to get treatment for alcoholism.\n\nAnyway, I feel like many years have gone by where I have been neglected sexually and physical affection-wise. I have brought this up again and again, and things will get a little better for a few weeks and then back to the status quo. Since approaching 40, I feel like my time is running out for still being attractive to men, and I hate living like a nun in this marriage. Ideally I would love to be having a physical relationship with my husband, but he just is not that into it. We haven't had sex for almost a year.\n\nI have some depression issues too, but it's well controlled with meds. I don't want a divorce, because I feel like that would completely upset our lives and our children's lives. I just want to be held and made love to on a regular basis (i.e., not just once every few months when all the stars align). I know he does not want a divorce either; in fact he begged me to go to counseling with him because he was afraid I would want a divorce.\n\nThe therapist actually threw out the idea of an open marriage a few months ago, and he said he would not be ok with that. I said I didn't really want that, I wanted an intimate relationship with my husband. But things don't seem to be getting closer to my needs being met, and *I* am not ok with forced celibacy. \n\nSo my question is, if I bring up the idea that at this point I'd like an open marriage, how do you think he would react? How would you react to just being asked if your partner could \"subcontract out\" her physical needs?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been married for 14 years. 3 kids. He's been sober from his alcohol addiction for 6 months. He still suffers from depression, anxiety, and anger issues, but he is seeing a psychiatrist and taking meds (not willing to see a therapist though, but he does go to AA almost every day). We're in couples counseling since I threatened divorce when he refused to get treatment for alcoholism.\n\nAnyway, I feel like many years have gone by where I have been neglected sexually and physical affection-wise. I have brought this up again and again, and things will get a little better for a few weeks and then back to the status quo. Since approaching 40, I feel like my time is running out for still being attractive to men, and I hate living like a nun in this marriage. Ideally I would love to be having a physical relationship with my husband, but he just is not that into it. We haven't had sex for almost a year.\n\nI have some depression issues too, but it's well controlled with meds. I don't want a divorce, because I feel like that would completely upset our lives and our children's lives. I just want to be held and made love to on a regular basis (i.e., not just once every few months when all the stars align). I know he does not want a divorce either; in fact he begged me to go to counseling with him because he was afraid I would want a divorce.\n\nThe therapist actually threw out the idea of an open marriage a few months ago, and he said he would not be ok with that. I said I didn't really want that, I wanted an intimate relationship with my husband. But things don't seem to be getting closer to my needs being met, and *I* am not ok with forced celibacy. \n\nSo my question is, if I bring up the idea that at this point I'd like an open marriage, how do you think he would react? How would you react to just being asked if your partner could \"subcontract out\" her physical needs?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been married for 14 years. 3 kids. He's been sober from his alcohol addiction for 6 months. He still suffers from depression, anxiety, and anger issues, but he is seeing a psychiatrist and taking meds (not willing to see a therapist though, but he does go to AA almost every day). We're in couples counseling since I threatened divorce when he refused to get treatment for alcoholism.\n\nAnyway, I feel like many years have gone by where I have been neglected sexually and physical affection-wise. I have brought this up again and again, and things will get a little better for a few weeks and then back to the status quo. Since approaching 40, I feel like my time is running out for still being attractive to men, and I hate living like a nun in this marriage. Ideally I would love to be having a physical relationship with my husband, but he just is not that into it. We haven't had sex for almost a year.\n\nI have some depression issues too, but it's well controlled with meds. I don't want a divorce, because I feel like that would completely upset our lives and our children's lives. I just want to be held and made love to on a regular basis (i.e., not just once every few months when all the stars align). I know he does not want a divorce either; in fact he begged me to go to counseling with him because he was afraid I would want a divorce.\n\nThe therapist actually threw out the idea of an open marriage a few months ago, and he said he would not be ok with that. I said I didn't really want that, I wanted an intimate relationship with my husband. But things don't seem to be getting closer to my needs being met, and *I* am not ok with forced celibacy. \n\nSo my question is, if I bring up the idea that at this point I'd like an open marriage, how do you think he would react? How would you react to just being asked if your partner could \"subcontract out\" her physical needs?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, my girlfriend and I have been together a while, like say 5 months. Before that we were friends for nearly 4 years and were nearly inseparable for that time. It was like we were dating without actually dating, those were her exact words. I have been pondering marriage lately, something I've never done in ANY previous relationships, and I began wondering, just how soon is too soon to propose? I know ideally 5 months is too short of a time, but since there was such a strong friendship before does that equate to time taken off the norm before engagement?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, thanks in advance for reading and taking the time to comment.\n\nSome quick background: my boyfriend (\"BF\") and I have known each other since our preteen years and been together as a couple for a little under two years. We care very deeply for each other, and I'd like to eventually marry him! While we had some communication-related problems in the earlier phases of our relationship, we've since made incredible efforts to resolve said problems and everything has been quite good.\n\nThe issue at hand: the BF is being deployed overseas for approximately one year. He'll be leaving in a few months, and despite having known about the deployment for months, I think it's only hitting me just now :( I am truly at a loss on how to process the fact that my best friend will be gone for one year. \n\nMy questions: what should I expect? What can I do to help keep our relationship strong throughout his deployment? I don't know many military couples, and he's been busy on his end preparing for his first deployment. Does anyone have any stories, personal experiences, tips, advice, etc.?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, thanks in advance for reading and taking the time to comment.\n\nSome quick background: my boyfriend (\"BF\") and I have known each other since our preteen years and been together as a couple for a little under two years. We care very deeply for each other, and I'd like to eventually marry him! While we had some communication-related problems in the earlier phases of our relationship, we've since made incredible efforts to resolve said problems and everything has been quite good.\n\nThe issue at hand: the BF is being deployed overseas for approximately one year. He'll be leaving in a few months, and despite having known about the deployment for months, I think it's only hitting me just now :( I am truly at a loss on how to process the fact that my best friend will be gone for one year. \n\nMy questions: what should I expect? What can I do to help keep our relationship strong throughout his deployment? I don't know many military couples, and he's been busy on his end preparing for his first deployment. Does anyone have any stories, personal experiences, tips, advice, etc.?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, thanks in advance for reading and taking the time to comment.\n\nSome quick background: my boyfriend (\"BF\") and I have known each other since our preteen years and been together as a couple for a little under two years. We care very deeply for each other, and I'd like to eventually marry him! While we had some communication-related problems in the earlier phases of our relationship, we've since made incredible efforts to resolve said problems and everything has been quite good.\n\nThe issue at hand: the BF is being deployed overseas for approximately one year. He'll be leaving in a few months, and despite having known about the deployment for months, I think it's only hitting me just now :( I am truly at a loss on how to process the fact that my best friend will be gone for one year. \n\nMy questions: what should I expect? What can I do to help keep our relationship strong throughout his deployment? I don't know many military couples, and he's been busy on his end preparing for his first deployment. Does anyone have any stories, personal experiences, tips, advice, etc.?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, thanks in advance for reading and taking the time to comment.\n\nSome quick background: my boyfriend (\"BF\") and I have known each other since our preteen years and been together as a couple for a little under two years. We care very deeply for each other, and I'd like to eventually marry him! While we had some communication-related problems in the earlier phases of our relationship, we've since made incredible efforts to resolve said problems and everything has been quite good.\n\nThe issue at hand: the BF is being deployed overseas for approximately one year. He'll be leaving in a few months, and despite having known about the deployment for months, I think it's only hitting me just now :( I am truly at a loss on how to process the fact that my best friend will be gone for one year. \n\nMy questions: what should I expect? What can I do to help keep our relationship strong throughout his deployment? I don't know many military couples, and he's been busy on his end preparing for his first deployment. Does anyone have any stories, personal experiences, tips, advice, etc.?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, thanks in advance for reading and taking the time to comment.\n\nSome quick background: my boyfriend (\"BF\") and I have known each other since our preteen years and been together as a couple for a little under two years. We care very deeply for each other, and I'd like to eventually marry him! While we had some communication-related problems in the earlier phases of our relationship, we've since made incredible efforts to resolve said problems and everything has been quite good.\n\nThe issue at hand: the BF is being deployed overseas for approximately one year. He'll be leaving in a few months, and despite having known about the deployment for months, I think it's only hitting me just now :( I am truly at a loss on how to process the fact that my best friend will be gone for one year. \n\nMy questions: what should I expect? What can I do to help keep our relationship strong throughout his deployment? I don't know many military couples, and he's been busy on his end preparing for his first deployment. Does anyone have any stories, personal experiences, tips, advice, etc.?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, thanks in advance for reading and taking the time to comment.\n\nSome quick background: my boyfriend (\"BF\") and I have known each other since our preteen years and been together as a couple for a little under two years. We care very deeply for each other, and I'd like to eventually marry him! While we had some communication-related problems in the earlier phases of our relationship, we've since made incredible efforts to resolve said problems and everything has been quite good.\n\nThe issue at hand: the BF is being deployed overseas for approximately one year. He'll be leaving in a few months, and despite having known about the deployment for months, I think it's only hitting me just now :( I am truly at a loss on how to process the fact that my best friend will be gone for one year. \n\nMy questions: what should I expect? What can I do to help keep our relationship strong throughout his deployment? I don't know many military couples, and he's been busy on his end preparing for his first deployment. Does anyone have any stories, personal experiences, tips, advice, etc.?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We dated for 7 years. Much of that was while we were in college. We lived together for 3 years. We had a dog. We also had to have an abortion. \n\nShe was lovely in many ways, and a small terror in others. Usually i just wanted our relationship to be spent in harmony and she was more goal oriented than I was. I am motivated but of the meandering type. I always get where I want to go but don't really seem like I'm in a rush. \n\nI often found her illogical and emotional, her mood swings were pretty bad. We broke up a few months ago but still clung to some sort of relationship. Which was often about sex, she was always more sexual than I was but my libido has increased as I approach 30. For the last 2 months we have not spoken. I got a text yesterday that asked \"would you like to go to lunch or dinner for your birthday?\"\n\nSo what does reddit! think? Should I throw caution to the wind and take her up on it? How much emotional damage could I do to myself by accepting?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We dated for 7 years. Much of that was while we were in college. We lived together for 3 years. We had a dog. We also had to have an abortion. \n\nShe was lovely in many ways, and a small terror in others. Usually i just wanted our relationship to be spent in harmony and she was more goal oriented than I was. I am motivated but of the meandering type. I always get where I want to go but don't really seem like I'm in a rush. \n\nI often found her illogical and emotional, her mood swings were pretty bad. We broke up a few months ago but still clung to some sort of relationship. Which was often about sex, she was always more sexual than I was but my libido has increased as I approach 30. For the last 2 months we have not spoken. I got a text yesterday that asked \"would you like to go to lunch or dinner for your birthday?\"\n\nSo what does reddit! think? Should I throw caution to the wind and take her up on it? How much emotional damage could I do to myself by accepting?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We dated for 7 years. Much of that was while we were in college. We lived together for 3 years. We had a dog. We also had to have an abortion. \n\nShe was lovely in many ways, and a small terror in others. Usually i just wanted our relationship to be spent in harmony and she was more goal oriented than I was. I am motivated but of the meandering type. I always get where I want to go but don't really seem like I'm in a rush. \n\nI often found her illogical and emotional, her mood swings were pretty bad. We broke up a few months ago but still clung to some sort of relationship. Which was often about sex, she was always more sexual than I was but my libido has increased as I approach 30. For the last 2 months we have not spoken. I got a text yesterday that asked \"would you like to go to lunch or dinner for your birthday?\"\n\nSo what does reddit! think? Should I throw caution to the wind and take her up on it? How much emotional damage could I do to myself by accepting?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We dated for 7 years. Much of that was while we were in college. We lived together for 3 years. We had a dog. We also had to have an abortion. \n\nShe was lovely in many ways, and a small terror in others. Usually i just wanted our relationship to be spent in harmony and she was more goal oriented than I was. I am motivated but of the meandering type. I always get where I want to go but don't really seem like I'm in a rush. \n\nI often found her illogical and emotional, her mood swings were pretty bad. We broke up a few months ago but still clung to some sort of relationship. Which was often about sex, she was always more sexual than I was but my libido has increased as I approach 30. For the last 2 months we have not spoken. I got a text yesterday that asked \"would you like to go to lunch or dinner for your birthday?\"\n\nSo what does reddit! think? Should I throw caution to the wind and take her up on it? How much emotional damage could I do to myself by accepting?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We dated for 7 years. Much of that was while we were in college. We lived together for 3 years. We had a dog. We also had to have an abortion. \n\nShe was lovely in many ways, and a small terror in others. Usually i just wanted our relationship to be spent in harmony and she was more goal oriented than I was. I am motivated but of the meandering type. I always get where I want to go but don't really seem like I'm in a rush. \n\nI often found her illogical and emotional, her mood swings were pretty bad. We broke up a few months ago but still clung to some sort of relationship. Which was often about sex, she was always more sexual than I was but my libido has increased as I approach 30. For the last 2 months we have not spoken. I got a text yesterday that asked \"would you like to go to lunch or dinner for your birthday?\"\n\nSo what does reddit! think? Should I throw caution to the wind and take her up on it? How much emotional damage could I do to myself by accepting?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We dated for 7 years. Much of that was while we were in college. We lived together for 3 years. We had a dog. We also had to have an abortion. \n\nShe was lovely in many ways, and a small terror in others. Usually i just wanted our relationship to be spent in harmony and she was more goal oriented than I was. I am motivated but of the meandering type. I always get where I want to go but don't really seem like I'm in a rush. \n\nI often found her illogical and emotional, her mood swings were pretty bad. We broke up a few months ago but still clung to some sort of relationship. Which was often about sex, she was always more sexual than I was but my libido has increased as I approach 30. For the last 2 months we have not spoken. I got a text yesterday that asked \"would you like to go to lunch or dinner for your birthday?\"\n\nSo what does reddit! think? Should I throw caution to the wind and take her up on it? How much emotional damage could I do to myself by accepting?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So 5 weeks ago me and my friends were partying till 'bout 4 in the morning. Clubs were closing so it was time for an afterparty at the appartment we live in. Some drunk as fuck lady, lets name her Julia, wanted to come with us. Primarely for a one-night-stand I guess, since she was trying to convince all my friends individually to have \"fun\" with her. As we were with a group of 4, all drunk, we decided to really take the fun part to the next level. We got her topless in our living room with the 4 of us laughing. (Julia did this by her self, no sign of rape or whatsoever). Well lets put it this way, 30 mins later she sat in the corner, crying and telling us a story of her being raped few years back. Big WTF moment for us, since we were drunk and didnt know wether to laugh (yeah, cruel) or talk. I ended up taking her home. and she invited me in. Yeah we had sex, since she insisted on it. Unprotected sex. I end up leaving her next thing in the morning and a week pasts by. \n\nThis is where shit turned nasty. Julia texted me that she had herself tested for STD's and turned out positive for Chlamydia. Since I was the only guy she had unprotected sex with, the chlamydia should come from my crown jewels. So next thing i do is get myself tested. For guys it takes 1.5 week before the test is taken place and another week waiting for the results. They fucking put a swab inside my dick! Makes me shiver when thinking about it. \n\nFast forward to today. Test Results. Negative. She fucking trolled me like a mad bitch. Kudos for her! For more than 2 weeks she made me feel like my balls could drop off any minute. I guess its all about Karma huh." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So 5 weeks ago me and my friends were partying till 'bout 4 in the morning. Clubs were closing so it was time for an afterparty at the appartment we live in. Some drunk as fuck lady, lets name her Julia, wanted to come with us. Primarely for a one-night-stand I guess, since she was trying to convince all my friends individually to have \"fun\" with her. As we were with a group of 4, all drunk, we decided to really take the fun part to the next level. We got her topless in our living room with the 4 of us laughing. (Julia did this by her self, no sign of rape or whatsoever). Well lets put it this way, 30 mins later she sat in the corner, crying and telling us a story of her being raped few years back. Big WTF moment for us, since we were drunk and didnt know wether to laugh (yeah, cruel) or talk. I ended up taking her home. and she invited me in. Yeah we had sex, since she insisted on it. Unprotected sex. I end up leaving her next thing in the morning and a week pasts by. \n\nThis is where shit turned nasty. Julia texted me that she had herself tested for STD's and turned out positive for Chlamydia. Since I was the only guy she had unprotected sex with, the chlamydia should come from my crown jewels. So next thing i do is get myself tested. For guys it takes 1.5 week before the test is taken place and another week waiting for the results. They fucking put a swab inside my dick! Makes me shiver when thinking about it. \n\nFast forward to today. Test Results. Negative. She fucking trolled me like a mad bitch. Kudos for her! For more than 2 weeks she made me feel like my balls could drop off any minute. I guess its all about Karma huh." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So 5 weeks ago me and my friends were partying till 'bout 4 in the morning. Clubs were closing so it was time for an afterparty at the appartment we live in. Some drunk as fuck lady, lets name her Julia, wanted to come with us. Primarely for a one-night-stand I guess, since she was trying to convince all my friends individually to have \"fun\" with her. As we were with a group of 4, all drunk, we decided to really take the fun part to the next level. We got her topless in our living room with the 4 of us laughing. (Julia did this by her self, no sign of rape or whatsoever). Well lets put it this way, 30 mins later she sat in the corner, crying and telling us a story of her being raped few years back. Big WTF moment for us, since we were drunk and didnt know wether to laugh (yeah, cruel) or talk. I ended up taking her home. and she invited me in. Yeah we had sex, since she insisted on it. Unprotected sex. I end up leaving her next thing in the morning and a week pasts by. \n\nThis is where shit turned nasty. Julia texted me that she had herself tested for STD's and turned out positive for Chlamydia. Since I was the only guy she had unprotected sex with, the chlamydia should come from my crown jewels. So next thing i do is get myself tested. For guys it takes 1.5 week before the test is taken place and another week waiting for the results. They fucking put a swab inside my dick! Makes me shiver when thinking about it. \n\nFast forward to today. Test Results. Negative. She fucking trolled me like a mad bitch. Kudos for her! For more than 2 weeks she made me feel like my balls could drop off any minute. I guess its all about Karma huh." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So 5 weeks ago me and my friends were partying till 'bout 4 in the morning. Clubs were closing so it was time for an afterparty at the appartment we live in. Some drunk as fuck lady, lets name her Julia, wanted to come with us. Primarely for a one-night-stand I guess, since she was trying to convince all my friends individually to have \"fun\" with her. As we were with a group of 4, all drunk, we decided to really take the fun part to the next level. We got her topless in our living room with the 4 of us laughing. (Julia did this by her self, no sign of rape or whatsoever). Well lets put it this way, 30 mins later she sat in the corner, crying and telling us a story of her being raped few years back. Big WTF moment for us, since we were drunk and didnt know wether to laugh (yeah, cruel) or talk. I ended up taking her home. and she invited me in. Yeah we had sex, since she insisted on it. Unprotected sex. I end up leaving her next thing in the morning and a week pasts by. \n\nThis is where shit turned nasty. Julia texted me that she had herself tested for STD's and turned out positive for Chlamydia. Since I was the only guy she had unprotected sex with, the chlamydia should come from my crown jewels. So next thing i do is get myself tested. For guys it takes 1.5 week before the test is taken place and another week waiting for the results. They fucking put a swab inside my dick! Makes me shiver when thinking about it. \n\nFast forward to today. Test Results. Negative. She fucking trolled me like a mad bitch. Kudos for her! For more than 2 weeks she made me feel like my balls could drop off any minute. I guess its all about Karma huh." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So 5 weeks ago me and my friends were partying till 'bout 4 in the morning. Clubs were closing so it was time for an afterparty at the appartment we live in. Some drunk as fuck lady, lets name her Julia, wanted to come with us. Primarely for a one-night-stand I guess, since she was trying to convince all my friends individually to have \"fun\" with her. As we were with a group of 4, all drunk, we decided to really take the fun part to the next level. We got her topless in our living room with the 4 of us laughing. (Julia did this by her self, no sign of rape or whatsoever). Well lets put it this way, 30 mins later she sat in the corner, crying and telling us a story of her being raped few years back. Big WTF moment for us, since we were drunk and didnt know wether to laugh (yeah, cruel) or talk. I ended up taking her home. and she invited me in. Yeah we had sex, since she insisted on it. Unprotected sex. I end up leaving her next thing in the morning and a week pasts by. \n\nThis is where shit turned nasty. Julia texted me that she had herself tested for STD's and turned out positive for Chlamydia. Since I was the only guy she had unprotected sex with, the chlamydia should come from my crown jewels. So next thing i do is get myself tested. For guys it takes 1.5 week before the test is taken place and another week waiting for the results. They fucking put a swab inside my dick! Makes me shiver when thinking about it. \n\nFast forward to today. Test Results. Negative. She fucking trolled me like a mad bitch. Kudos for her! For more than 2 weeks she made me feel like my balls could drop off any minute. I guess its all about Karma huh." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So 5 weeks ago me and my friends were partying till 'bout 4 in the morning. Clubs were closing so it was time for an afterparty at the appartment we live in. Some drunk as fuck lady, lets name her Julia, wanted to come with us. Primarely for a one-night-stand I guess, since she was trying to convince all my friends individually to have \"fun\" with her. As we were with a group of 4, all drunk, we decided to really take the fun part to the next level. We got her topless in our living room with the 4 of us laughing. (Julia did this by her self, no sign of rape or whatsoever). Well lets put it this way, 30 mins later she sat in the corner, crying and telling us a story of her being raped few years back. Big WTF moment for us, since we were drunk and didnt know wether to laugh (yeah, cruel) or talk. I ended up taking her home. and she invited me in. Yeah we had sex, since she insisted on it. Unprotected sex. I end up leaving her next thing in the morning and a week pasts by. \n\nThis is where shit turned nasty. Julia texted me that she had herself tested for STD's and turned out positive for Chlamydia. Since I was the only guy she had unprotected sex with, the chlamydia should come from my crown jewels. So next thing i do is get myself tested. For guys it takes 1.5 week before the test is taken place and another week waiting for the results. They fucking put a swab inside my dick! Makes me shiver when thinking about it. \n\nFast forward to today. Test Results. Negative. She fucking trolled me like a mad bitch. Kudos for her! For more than 2 weeks she made me feel like my balls could drop off any minute. I guess its all about Karma huh." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last weekend I lost my temper. Ex became more and more controlling, making more demands and we couldn't discuss anything because that's what \"normal\" people do. Relationship counseling or any form of talking about an issue was met with disgust.\n\nOver the past few months there has been a lot of body shaming (telling me to cover up my \"deformed parts\") and making demands. I had enough, I was very unkind, asked him where we stood and told him how this behaviour made me feel. He stopped talking to me.\n\nNow he sends me a message, he wants gifts he gave me back and money. Again, a control thing. The money is less than $100 and the gifts are less than $60. This isn't an awful lot for either of us. I offered him to pay the money back months ago when he paid the bill for me, but according to him it was a gift. \n\nI just threw everything he asked for and everything he didn't ask for in a box, but started wondering if I should give in to this. Should I just ship the box and not the money (I want to clean up my house anyway), tell him to pick it up himself? I feel like I'm giving in again.\n\nEdit: I guess that is an overwhelming vote for ignore and not give in. Thanks for the perspective everyone! Really appreciate that!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last weekend I lost my temper. Ex became more and more controlling, making more demands and we couldn't discuss anything because that's what \"normal\" people do. Relationship counseling or any form of talking about an issue was met with disgust.\n\nOver the past few months there has been a lot of body shaming (telling me to cover up my \"deformed parts\") and making demands. I had enough, I was very unkind, asked him where we stood and told him how this behaviour made me feel. He stopped talking to me.\n\nNow he sends me a message, he wants gifts he gave me back and money. Again, a control thing. The money is less than $100 and the gifts are less than $60. This isn't an awful lot for either of us. I offered him to pay the money back months ago when he paid the bill for me, but according to him it was a gift. \n\nI just threw everything he asked for and everything he didn't ask for in a box, but started wondering if I should give in to this. Should I just ship the box and not the money (I want to clean up my house anyway), tell him to pick it up himself? I feel like I'm giving in again.\n\nEdit: I guess that is an overwhelming vote for ignore and not give in. Thanks for the perspective everyone! Really appreciate that!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last weekend I lost my temper. Ex became more and more controlling, making more demands and we couldn't discuss anything because that's what \"normal\" people do. Relationship counseling or any form of talking about an issue was met with disgust.\n\nOver the past few months there has been a lot of body shaming (telling me to cover up my \"deformed parts\") and making demands. I had enough, I was very unkind, asked him where we stood and told him how this behaviour made me feel. He stopped talking to me.\n\nNow he sends me a message, he wants gifts he gave me back and money. Again, a control thing. The money is less than $100 and the gifts are less than $60. This isn't an awful lot for either of us. I offered him to pay the money back months ago when he paid the bill for me, but according to him it was a gift. \n\nI just threw everything he asked for and everything he didn't ask for in a box, but started wondering if I should give in to this. Should I just ship the box and not the money (I want to clean up my house anyway), tell him to pick it up himself? I feel like I'm giving in again.\n\nEdit: I guess that is an overwhelming vote for ignore and not give in. Thanks for the perspective everyone! Really appreciate that!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last weekend I lost my temper. Ex became more and more controlling, making more demands and we couldn't discuss anything because that's what \"normal\" people do. Relationship counseling or any form of talking about an issue was met with disgust.\n\nOver the past few months there has been a lot of body shaming (telling me to cover up my \"deformed parts\") and making demands. I had enough, I was very unkind, asked him where we stood and told him how this behaviour made me feel. He stopped talking to me.\n\nNow he sends me a message, he wants gifts he gave me back and money. Again, a control thing. The money is less than $100 and the gifts are less than $60. This isn't an awful lot for either of us. I offered him to pay the money back months ago when he paid the bill for me, but according to him it was a gift. \n\nI just threw everything he asked for and everything he didn't ask for in a box, but started wondering if I should give in to this. Should I just ship the box and not the money (I want to clean up my house anyway), tell him to pick it up himself? I feel like I'm giving in again.\n\nEdit: I guess that is an overwhelming vote for ignore and not give in. Thanks for the perspective everyone! Really appreciate that!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last weekend I lost my temper. Ex became more and more controlling, making more demands and we couldn't discuss anything because that's what \"normal\" people do. Relationship counseling or any form of talking about an issue was met with disgust.\n\nOver the past few months there has been a lot of body shaming (telling me to cover up my \"deformed parts\") and making demands. I had enough, I was very unkind, asked him where we stood and told him how this behaviour made me feel. He stopped talking to me.\n\nNow he sends me a message, he wants gifts he gave me back and money. Again, a control thing. The money is less than $100 and the gifts are less than $60. This isn't an awful lot for either of us. I offered him to pay the money back months ago when he paid the bill for me, but according to him it was a gift. \n\nI just threw everything he asked for and everything he didn't ask for in a box, but started wondering if I should give in to this. Should I just ship the box and not the money (I want to clean up my house anyway), tell him to pick it up himself? I feel like I'm giving in again.\n\nEdit: I guess that is an overwhelming vote for ignore and not give in. Thanks for the perspective everyone! Really appreciate that!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last weekend I lost my temper. Ex became more and more controlling, making more demands and we couldn't discuss anything because that's what \"normal\" people do. Relationship counseling or any form of talking about an issue was met with disgust.\n\nOver the past few months there has been a lot of body shaming (telling me to cover up my \"deformed parts\") and making demands. I had enough, I was very unkind, asked him where we stood and told him how this behaviour made me feel. He stopped talking to me.\n\nNow he sends me a message, he wants gifts he gave me back and money. Again, a control thing. The money is less than $100 and the gifts are less than $60. This isn't an awful lot for either of us. I offered him to pay the money back months ago when he paid the bill for me, but according to him it was a gift. \n\nI just threw everything he asked for and everything he didn't ask for in a box, but started wondering if I should give in to this. Should I just ship the box and not the money (I want to clean up my house anyway), tell him to pick it up himself? I feel like I'm giving in again.\n\nEdit: I guess that is an overwhelming vote for ignore and not give in. Thanks for the perspective everyone! Really appreciate that!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to start by saying I thank all of you SO MUCH for your help over the past few weeks. I feel like I've been complaining a lot. There's been a lot of drama with my sister. A recap of that whole thing: she's 20 and thinks how dare I want to include clubbing/dancing at the end of the evening. How could I do that to her. She's now claiming she's not interested in coming *at all* even though I'm still trying to plan the rest of the day as under 21 friendly. \n\nMy bridesmaids have been amazing and are standing up for me. One bridesmaid specifically is helping me plan. I'm trying to think of under 21 ideas that wouldn't be too much money. \n\nHere are the ideas I have so far:\n\nGetting our nails done (price varies)\n\nGoing on a Seattle tour cruise ($30ish/person)\n\nGoing on a chocolate ($60ish/person)\n\nNone of these ideas seem great. The other thing I thought was maybe we could rent a HUGE suite and do something in the hotel. but again, I don't know what we'd do. Any thoughts? Anyone care to help me brainstorm?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to start by saying I thank all of you SO MUCH for your help over the past few weeks. I feel like I've been complaining a lot. There's been a lot of drama with my sister. A recap of that whole thing: she's 20 and thinks how dare I want to include clubbing/dancing at the end of the evening. How could I do that to her. She's now claiming she's not interested in coming *at all* even though I'm still trying to plan the rest of the day as under 21 friendly. \n\nMy bridesmaids have been amazing and are standing up for me. One bridesmaid specifically is helping me plan. I'm trying to think of under 21 ideas that wouldn't be too much money. \n\nHere are the ideas I have so far:\n\nGetting our nails done (price varies)\n\nGoing on a Seattle tour cruise ($30ish/person)\n\nGoing on a chocolate ($60ish/person)\n\nNone of these ideas seem great. The other thing I thought was maybe we could rent a HUGE suite and do something in the hotel. but again, I don't know what we'd do. Any thoughts? Anyone care to help me brainstorm?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to start by saying I thank all of you SO MUCH for your help over the past few weeks. I feel like I've been complaining a lot. There's been a lot of drama with my sister. A recap of that whole thing: she's 20 and thinks how dare I want to include clubbing/dancing at the end of the evening. How could I do that to her. She's now claiming she's not interested in coming *at all* even though I'm still trying to plan the rest of the day as under 21 friendly. \n\nMy bridesmaids have been amazing and are standing up for me. One bridesmaid specifically is helping me plan. I'm trying to think of under 21 ideas that wouldn't be too much money. \n\nHere are the ideas I have so far:\n\nGetting our nails done (price varies)\n\nGoing on a Seattle tour cruise ($30ish/person)\n\nGoing on a chocolate ($60ish/person)\n\nNone of these ideas seem great. The other thing I thought was maybe we could rent a HUGE suite and do something in the hotel. but again, I don't know what we'd do. Any thoughts? Anyone care to help me brainstorm?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to start by saying I thank all of you SO MUCH for your help over the past few weeks. I feel like I've been complaining a lot. There's been a lot of drama with my sister. A recap of that whole thing: she's 20 and thinks how dare I want to include clubbing/dancing at the end of the evening. How could I do that to her. She's now claiming she's not interested in coming *at all* even though I'm still trying to plan the rest of the day as under 21 friendly. \n\nMy bridesmaids have been amazing and are standing up for me. One bridesmaid specifically is helping me plan. I'm trying to think of under 21 ideas that wouldn't be too much money. \n\nHere are the ideas I have so far:\n\nGetting our nails done (price varies)\n\nGoing on a Seattle tour cruise ($30ish/person)\n\nGoing on a chocolate ($60ish/person)\n\nNone of these ideas seem great. The other thing I thought was maybe we could rent a HUGE suite and do something in the hotel. but again, I don't know what we'd do. Any thoughts? Anyone care to help me brainstorm?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to start by saying I thank all of you SO MUCH for your help over the past few weeks. I feel like I've been complaining a lot. There's been a lot of drama with my sister. A recap of that whole thing: she's 20 and thinks how dare I want to include clubbing/dancing at the end of the evening. How could I do that to her. She's now claiming she's not interested in coming *at all* even though I'm still trying to plan the rest of the day as under 21 friendly. \n\nMy bridesmaids have been amazing and are standing up for me. One bridesmaid specifically is helping me plan. I'm trying to think of under 21 ideas that wouldn't be too much money. \n\nHere are the ideas I have so far:\n\nGetting our nails done (price varies)\n\nGoing on a Seattle tour cruise ($30ish/person)\n\nGoing on a chocolate ($60ish/person)\n\nNone of these ideas seem great. The other thing I thought was maybe we could rent a HUGE suite and do something in the hotel. but again, I don't know what we'd do. Any thoughts? Anyone care to help me brainstorm?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to start by saying I thank all of you SO MUCH for your help over the past few weeks. I feel like I've been complaining a lot. There's been a lot of drama with my sister. A recap of that whole thing: she's 20 and thinks how dare I want to include clubbing/dancing at the end of the evening. How could I do that to her. She's now claiming she's not interested in coming *at all* even though I'm still trying to plan the rest of the day as under 21 friendly. \n\nMy bridesmaids have been amazing and are standing up for me. One bridesmaid specifically is helping me plan. I'm trying to think of under 21 ideas that wouldn't be too much money. \n\nHere are the ideas I have so far:\n\nGetting our nails done (price varies)\n\nGoing on a Seattle tour cruise ($30ish/person)\n\nGoing on a chocolate ($60ish/person)\n\nNone of these ideas seem great. The other thing I thought was maybe we could rent a HUGE suite and do something in the hotel. but again, I don't know what we'd do. Any thoughts? Anyone care to help me brainstorm?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy in class. we hung out almost every day for over a month. he took me on dates, concerts, family dinners even met some of his friends. Then he tells me he loves me joking. like how a friend says I love you. but then he made things awkward by saying something really goofy and odd and leaving fast.\n\nI know he didn't mean to say I love you and it was in a joking manner but I cant help feeling that this has something to do with it. maybe he got scared I felt that way or that it was moving too fast.\n\nthen he ignored me for a whole week during springbreak. now in class he wont talk to me or even look at me. even sat at a table across the room when he ususally sits next to me.\n\nif he lost interest then why would he go through all the trouble of having me meet his friends and family and why would he be ignoring me.\n\nThat week of ignoring I only texted him twice. he replied to my second text saying he hasn't been feeling like hanging out. which I said that it was ok. I wasn't even mad so why would he treat me bad.\n\nI forgot to mention I also caught him hitting on my friend but I really wasn't too upset about it. idk if he knows that I know. but im guessing he might be feeling a little stupid for accidentally doing that to my friend but I never yelled at him. why would he be mad at me if he was the one that messed up?\n\nI just wondered if anyones been through something similar or can explain why boys do this" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy in class. we hung out almost every day for over a month. he took me on dates, concerts, family dinners even met some of his friends. Then he tells me he loves me joking. like how a friend says I love you. but then he made things awkward by saying something really goofy and odd and leaving fast.\n\nI know he didn't mean to say I love you and it was in a joking manner but I cant help feeling that this has something to do with it. maybe he got scared I felt that way or that it was moving too fast.\n\nthen he ignored me for a whole week during springbreak. now in class he wont talk to me or even look at me. even sat at a table across the room when he ususally sits next to me.\n\nif he lost interest then why would he go through all the trouble of having me meet his friends and family and why would he be ignoring me.\n\nThat week of ignoring I only texted him twice. he replied to my second text saying he hasn't been feeling like hanging out. which I said that it was ok. I wasn't even mad so why would he treat me bad.\n\nI forgot to mention I also caught him hitting on my friend but I really wasn't too upset about it. idk if he knows that I know. but im guessing he might be feeling a little stupid for accidentally doing that to my friend but I never yelled at him. why would he be mad at me if he was the one that messed up?\n\nI just wondered if anyones been through something similar or can explain why boys do this" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy in class. we hung out almost every day for over a month. he took me on dates, concerts, family dinners even met some of his friends. Then he tells me he loves me joking. like how a friend says I love you. but then he made things awkward by saying something really goofy and odd and leaving fast.\n\nI know he didn't mean to say I love you and it was in a joking manner but I cant help feeling that this has something to do with it. maybe he got scared I felt that way or that it was moving too fast.\n\nthen he ignored me for a whole week during springbreak. now in class he wont talk to me or even look at me. even sat at a table across the room when he ususally sits next to me.\n\nif he lost interest then why would he go through all the trouble of having me meet his friends and family and why would he be ignoring me.\n\nThat week of ignoring I only texted him twice. he replied to my second text saying he hasn't been feeling like hanging out. which I said that it was ok. I wasn't even mad so why would he treat me bad.\n\nI forgot to mention I also caught him hitting on my friend but I really wasn't too upset about it. idk if he knows that I know. but im guessing he might be feeling a little stupid for accidentally doing that to my friend but I never yelled at him. why would he be mad at me if he was the one that messed up?\n\nI just wondered if anyones been through something similar or can explain why boys do this" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy in class. we hung out almost every day for over a month. he took me on dates, concerts, family dinners even met some of his friends. Then he tells me he loves me joking. like how a friend says I love you. but then he made things awkward by saying something really goofy and odd and leaving fast.\n\nI know he didn't mean to say I love you and it was in a joking manner but I cant help feeling that this has something to do with it. maybe he got scared I felt that way or that it was moving too fast.\n\nthen he ignored me for a whole week during springbreak. now in class he wont talk to me or even look at me. even sat at a table across the room when he ususally sits next to me.\n\nif he lost interest then why would he go through all the trouble of having me meet his friends and family and why would he be ignoring me.\n\nThat week of ignoring I only texted him twice. he replied to my second text saying he hasn't been feeling like hanging out. which I said that it was ok. I wasn't even mad so why would he treat me bad.\n\nI forgot to mention I also caught him hitting on my friend but I really wasn't too upset about it. idk if he knows that I know. but im guessing he might be feeling a little stupid for accidentally doing that to my friend but I never yelled at him. why would he be mad at me if he was the one that messed up?\n\nI just wondered if anyones been through something similar or can explain why boys do this" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy in class. we hung out almost every day for over a month. he took me on dates, concerts, family dinners even met some of his friends. Then he tells me he loves me joking. like how a friend says I love you. but then he made things awkward by saying something really goofy and odd and leaving fast.\n\nI know he didn't mean to say I love you and it was in a joking manner but I cant help feeling that this has something to do with it. maybe he got scared I felt that way or that it was moving too fast.\n\nthen he ignored me for a whole week during springbreak. now in class he wont talk to me or even look at me. even sat at a table across the room when he ususally sits next to me.\n\nif he lost interest then why would he go through all the trouble of having me meet his friends and family and why would he be ignoring me.\n\nThat week of ignoring I only texted him twice. he replied to my second text saying he hasn't been feeling like hanging out. which I said that it was ok. I wasn't even mad so why would he treat me bad.\n\nI forgot to mention I also caught him hitting on my friend but I really wasn't too upset about it. idk if he knows that I know. but im guessing he might be feeling a little stupid for accidentally doing that to my friend but I never yelled at him. why would he be mad at me if he was the one that messed up?\n\nI just wondered if anyones been through something similar or can explain why boys do this" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy in class. we hung out almost every day for over a month. he took me on dates, concerts, family dinners even met some of his friends. Then he tells me he loves me joking. like how a friend says I love you. but then he made things awkward by saying something really goofy and odd and leaving fast.\n\nI know he didn't mean to say I love you and it was in a joking manner but I cant help feeling that this has something to do with it. maybe he got scared I felt that way or that it was moving too fast.\n\nthen he ignored me for a whole week during springbreak. now in class he wont talk to me or even look at me. even sat at a table across the room when he ususally sits next to me.\n\nif he lost interest then why would he go through all the trouble of having me meet his friends and family and why would he be ignoring me.\n\nThat week of ignoring I only texted him twice. he replied to my second text saying he hasn't been feeling like hanging out. which I said that it was ok. I wasn't even mad so why would he treat me bad.\n\nI forgot to mention I also caught him hitting on my friend but I really wasn't too upset about it. idk if he knows that I know. but im guessing he might be feeling a little stupid for accidentally doing that to my friend but I never yelled at him. why would he be mad at me if he was the one that messed up?\n\nI just wondered if anyones been through something similar or can explain why boys do this" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently. \n\nWe have tons of fun together and he always makes me laugh. We all have the same friends and I know that if we got together our friends would definitely approve. \n\nThe only problem is that it's really hard for me to think about doing anything physical or romantic with him. We've been friends for so long that it's hard for me wrap my head around the idea of that. \n\nIf anyone has had an experience similar to this then please share. \nHow did the relationship change? Was it easy for you to think about them in a different way?" }