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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel as if I'm being obsessive with my ex. She was my first ever relationship and I was fortunate enough to find love. We had a mutual break up after I moved to the big city to work and agreed that we should try to explore other people/ were in different stages in life. However, both of us agreed that we were important aspects of each others' lives, and thus have managed to maintain a really close friendship ever since.\n\nI still care very much about her, but I'm pretty okay with not being in a relationship with her right now (we're comfortable enough to discuss hook-ups that have occured through Tinder. Pretty sure that has to mean something). That being said, I think I've started to become obsessive over her in terms of maintaining a friendship in general. Being long distance, our only form of communication is through Facebook messenger. We'd often send each other interesting things, such as funny videos or articles that we encounter throughout our day. However, recently, her replies have been reduced to frustrating one word responses, and/or often times not replying back at all, the only exception being saying good night if we had briefly texted earlier. I confronted her about her unresponsiveness the other day, asking if she even still wanted to be friends, to which she replied that that was not the case at all; she's been incredibly busy, doesn't always know what to respond with, and has a lot of stuff on her mind (which she wouldn't really disclose to me). I really want to respect her, but a part of me is still getting annoyed by the lack of communication.\n\nI think a number of factors can be attributed to this. Mainly, living alone is really getting to me, and the pressure that I receive from work doesn't help either. Any advice on how I can improve myself is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel as if I'm being obsessive with my ex. She was my first ever relationship and I was fortunate enough to find love. We had a mutual break up after I moved to the big city to work and agreed that we should try to explore other people/ were in different stages in life. However, both of us agreed that we were important aspects of each others' lives, and thus have managed to maintain a really close friendship ever since.\n\nI still care very much about her, but I'm pretty okay with not being in a relationship with her right now (we're comfortable enough to discuss hook-ups that have occured through Tinder. Pretty sure that has to mean something). That being said, I think I've started to become obsessive over her in terms of maintaining a friendship in general. Being long distance, our only form of communication is through Facebook messenger. We'd often send each other interesting things, such as funny videos or articles that we encounter throughout our day. However, recently, her replies have been reduced to frustrating one word responses, and/or often times not replying back at all, the only exception being saying good night if we had briefly texted earlier. I confronted her about her unresponsiveness the other day, asking if she even still wanted to be friends, to which she replied that that was not the case at all; she's been incredibly busy, doesn't always know what to respond with, and has a lot of stuff on her mind (which she wouldn't really disclose to me). I really want to respect her, but a part of me is still getting annoyed by the lack of communication.\n\nI think a number of factors can be attributed to this. Mainly, living alone is really getting to me, and the pressure that I receive from work doesn't help either. Any advice on how I can improve myself is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel as if I'm being obsessive with my ex. She was my first ever relationship and I was fortunate enough to find love. We had a mutual break up after I moved to the big city to work and agreed that we should try to explore other people/ were in different stages in life. However, both of us agreed that we were important aspects of each others' lives, and thus have managed to maintain a really close friendship ever since.\n\nI still care very much about her, but I'm pretty okay with not being in a relationship with her right now (we're comfortable enough to discuss hook-ups that have occured through Tinder. Pretty sure that has to mean something). That being said, I think I've started to become obsessive over her in terms of maintaining a friendship in general. Being long distance, our only form of communication is through Facebook messenger. We'd often send each other interesting things, such as funny videos or articles that we encounter throughout our day. However, recently, her replies have been reduced to frustrating one word responses, and/or often times not replying back at all, the only exception being saying good night if we had briefly texted earlier. I confronted her about her unresponsiveness the other day, asking if she even still wanted to be friends, to which she replied that that was not the case at all; she's been incredibly busy, doesn't always know what to respond with, and has a lot of stuff on her mind (which she wouldn't really disclose to me). I really want to respect her, but a part of me is still getting annoyed by the lack of communication.\n\nI think a number of factors can be attributed to this. Mainly, living alone is really getting to me, and the pressure that I receive from work doesn't help either. Any advice on how I can improve myself is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel as if I'm being obsessive with my ex. She was my first ever relationship and I was fortunate enough to find love. We had a mutual break up after I moved to the big city to work and agreed that we should try to explore other people/ were in different stages in life. However, both of us agreed that we were important aspects of each others' lives, and thus have managed to maintain a really close friendship ever since.\n\nI still care very much about her, but I'm pretty okay with not being in a relationship with her right now (we're comfortable enough to discuss hook-ups that have occured through Tinder. Pretty sure that has to mean something). That being said, I think I've started to become obsessive over her in terms of maintaining a friendship in general. Being long distance, our only form of communication is through Facebook messenger. We'd often send each other interesting things, such as funny videos or articles that we encounter throughout our day. However, recently, her replies have been reduced to frustrating one word responses, and/or often times not replying back at all, the only exception being saying good night if we had briefly texted earlier. I confronted her about her unresponsiveness the other day, asking if she even still wanted to be friends, to which she replied that that was not the case at all; she's been incredibly busy, doesn't always know what to respond with, and has a lot of stuff on her mind (which she wouldn't really disclose to me). I really want to respect her, but a part of me is still getting annoyed by the lack of communication.\n\nI think a number of factors can be attributed to this. Mainly, living alone is really getting to me, and the pressure that I receive from work doesn't help either. Any advice on how I can improve myself is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years and have a great relationship. We have really only one, repetitive problem: when we get into fights, we deal with it extremely differently.\n\nI usually, after about a half hour to an hour of \"talking it out\" and arguing, want us to go our separate ways and cool off for a little bit, so we can attack the situation later when we have cooler heads. She insists that we press deeper into the issue, which almost universally resolves in a standoff. This is not the problem, per say.\n\nThe real problem is that, being college students (and with her living in an on campus dorm), 99% of arguments happen in my house/room. After we have argued for a half hour/hour, I ask her to please go to her place so we can both cool off, but she refuses. I cite that she cannot really do so because it is my house and I am asking her to go, but she says she is entitled to existing in my space since we are in a relationship. This feels incredibly false to me. I feel like if I don't want my roommates to have to put up with us having loud, sometimes heated conversations she should respect that and give me space once we have tried talking it out for a good amount of time and no resolution seems imminent. Am I wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married for about a year, and was dating my wife for the 3 years prior to that. For full disclosure, I'm madly in love with my wife, but would be lying if I didn't admit that her sister is a looker. My SIL is not a terrible person, but we're not super close either. She can be pretty mean to her family at times, and we all have to work at getting along with her. \n\nThis year over the holidays my sister in law was visiting, and the three of us smoked a bit of pot together (not something we ordinarily do). I thought taking part in some pot would put us all at ease. When we were smoking, I think that I was kind of leering over at her or something. I remember feeling awkward at the time, but thought I had kept it to myself. \n\nApparently not. Over facebook chat (who facebook chats?!), my SIL just initiated an awkward conversation with me where she wanted to confirm that she could just be friends with me, because that's what she liked about married men. She said she liked how there were no ambiguities in her friendships with married men, and that was why she got along with them so well. She asked to confirm that was our relationship over the course of the conversation, repeatedly. \n\nMy question for you, /r/relationships: \n1) What can I do to not leer at her like this? It's quite unseemly, and not who I think of myself as.\n2) Do I owe my wife an apology, or should I never ever ever bring this up (leaning towards the latter, I suspect this would not be a fun conversation for her)?\n3) Any other nuggets of unsolicited wisdom? I know /r/relationships is great for those :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dating my girlfriend for over a year. I've never been in a relationship before this.\n\nMy girlfriend left her fb logged in on my laptop, so I wanted to send myself a message of her saying stupid stupid so I could screenshot it. But as I was doing that, I noticed that she had a chat with some guy named Dylan. The entire conversation was him literally hitting on her, sending fliratious messages, winking emojis and her not even telling him to stop or ignoring/blocking him. I then went back and found another conversation with some guy where he was sending her messages and she kept responding. There was an obvious flirtatious undertone in those messages as well. I shouldn't have gone through her messages, but obviously it pissed me off.\n\nI calmed down and confronted her about it. She told \"so what\" and I just got kind of upset and asked her why she would keep talking to those guys. She said \"I don't know, I don't want to be rude to them\". Fuck. I bet if those guys weren't attractive she wouldn't mind being fucking rude to them. We had a small argument, I got kind of angry, I didn't shout but I slammed the door to my kitchen and asked her \"What the fuck man\" really loudly. She told me to stop and I said \"Just go and fuck Dylan.\" and she said \"Alright, I will.\" took her bag and left.\n\nIt's been almost two days. She hasn't messaged me or said anything. I haven't messaged her. I don't know what to do now. Is it over just like that? Should I forgive her? Am I wrong for being really upset about this? Like fuck man - she's not stupid, she must realize those guys want to fuck her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dating my girlfriend for over a year. I've never been in a relationship before this.\n\nMy girlfriend left her fb logged in on my laptop, so I wanted to send myself a message of her saying stupid stupid so I could screenshot it. But as I was doing that, I noticed that she had a chat with some guy named Dylan. The entire conversation was him literally hitting on her, sending fliratious messages, winking emojis and her not even telling him to stop or ignoring/blocking him. I then went back and found another conversation with some guy where he was sending her messages and she kept responding. There was an obvious flirtatious undertone in those messages as well. I shouldn't have gone through her messages, but obviously it pissed me off.\n\nI calmed down and confronted her about it. She told \"so what\" and I just got kind of upset and asked her why she would keep talking to those guys. She said \"I don't know, I don't want to be rude to them\". Fuck. I bet if those guys weren't attractive she wouldn't mind being fucking rude to them. We had a small argument, I got kind of angry, I didn't shout but I slammed the door to my kitchen and asked her \"What the fuck man\" really loudly. She told me to stop and I said \"Just go and fuck Dylan.\" and she said \"Alright, I will.\" took her bag and left.\n\nIt's been almost two days. She hasn't messaged me or said anything. I haven't messaged her. I don't know what to do now. Is it over just like that? Should I forgive her? Am I wrong for being really upset about this? Like fuck man - she's not stupid, she must realize those guys want to fuck her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dating my girlfriend for over a year. I've never been in a relationship before this.\n\nMy girlfriend left her fb logged in on my laptop, so I wanted to send myself a message of her saying stupid stupid so I could screenshot it. But as I was doing that, I noticed that she had a chat with some guy named Dylan. The entire conversation was him literally hitting on her, sending fliratious messages, winking emojis and her not even telling him to stop or ignoring/blocking him. I then went back and found another conversation with some guy where he was sending her messages and she kept responding. There was an obvious flirtatious undertone in those messages as well. I shouldn't have gone through her messages, but obviously it pissed me off.\n\nI calmed down and confronted her about it. She told \"so what\" and I just got kind of upset and asked her why she would keep talking to those guys. She said \"I don't know, I don't want to be rude to them\". Fuck. I bet if those guys weren't attractive she wouldn't mind being fucking rude to them. We had a small argument, I got kind of angry, I didn't shout but I slammed the door to my kitchen and asked her \"What the fuck man\" really loudly. She told me to stop and I said \"Just go and fuck Dylan.\" and she said \"Alright, I will.\" took her bag and left.\n\nIt's been almost two days. She hasn't messaged me or said anything. I haven't messaged her. I don't know what to do now. Is it over just like that? Should I forgive her? Am I wrong for being really upset about this? Like fuck man - she's not stupid, she must realize those guys want to fuck her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dating my girlfriend for over a year. I've never been in a relationship before this.\n\nMy girlfriend left her fb logged in on my laptop, so I wanted to send myself a message of her saying stupid stupid so I could screenshot it. But as I was doing that, I noticed that she had a chat with some guy named Dylan. The entire conversation was him literally hitting on her, sending fliratious messages, winking emojis and her not even telling him to stop or ignoring/blocking him. I then went back and found another conversation with some guy where he was sending her messages and she kept responding. There was an obvious flirtatious undertone in those messages as well. I shouldn't have gone through her messages, but obviously it pissed me off.\n\nI calmed down and confronted her about it. She told \"so what\" and I just got kind of upset and asked her why she would keep talking to those guys. She said \"I don't know, I don't want to be rude to them\". Fuck. I bet if those guys weren't attractive she wouldn't mind being fucking rude to them. We had a small argument, I got kind of angry, I didn't shout but I slammed the door to my kitchen and asked her \"What the fuck man\" really loudly. She told me to stop and I said \"Just go and fuck Dylan.\" and she said \"Alright, I will.\" took her bag and left.\n\nIt's been almost two days. She hasn't messaged me or said anything. I haven't messaged her. I don't know what to do now. Is it over just like that? Should I forgive her? Am I wrong for being really upset about this? Like fuck man - she's not stupid, she must realize those guys want to fuck her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dating my girlfriend for over a year. I've never been in a relationship before this.\n\nMy girlfriend left her fb logged in on my laptop, so I wanted to send myself a message of her saying stupid stupid so I could screenshot it. But as I was doing that, I noticed that she had a chat with some guy named Dylan. The entire conversation was him literally hitting on her, sending fliratious messages, winking emojis and her not even telling him to stop or ignoring/blocking him. I then went back and found another conversation with some guy where he was sending her messages and she kept responding. There was an obvious flirtatious undertone in those messages as well. I shouldn't have gone through her messages, but obviously it pissed me off.\n\nI calmed down and confronted her about it. She told \"so what\" and I just got kind of upset and asked her why she would keep talking to those guys. She said \"I don't know, I don't want to be rude to them\". Fuck. I bet if those guys weren't attractive she wouldn't mind being fucking rude to them. We had a small argument, I got kind of angry, I didn't shout but I slammed the door to my kitchen and asked her \"What the fuck man\" really loudly. She told me to stop and I said \"Just go and fuck Dylan.\" and she said \"Alright, I will.\" took her bag and left.\n\nIt's been almost two days. She hasn't messaged me or said anything. I haven't messaged her. I don't know what to do now. Is it over just like that? Should I forgive her? Am I wrong for being really upset about this? Like fuck man - she's not stupid, she must realize those guys want to fuck her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dating my girlfriend for over a year. I've never been in a relationship before this.\n\nMy girlfriend left her fb logged in on my laptop, so I wanted to send myself a message of her saying stupid stupid so I could screenshot it. But as I was doing that, I noticed that she had a chat with some guy named Dylan. The entire conversation was him literally hitting on her, sending fliratious messages, winking emojis and her not even telling him to stop or ignoring/blocking him. I then went back and found another conversation with some guy where he was sending her messages and she kept responding. There was an obvious flirtatious undertone in those messages as well. I shouldn't have gone through her messages, but obviously it pissed me off.\n\nI calmed down and confronted her about it. She told \"so what\" and I just got kind of upset and asked her why she would keep talking to those guys. She said \"I don't know, I don't want to be rude to them\". Fuck. I bet if those guys weren't attractive she wouldn't mind being fucking rude to them. We had a small argument, I got kind of angry, I didn't shout but I slammed the door to my kitchen and asked her \"What the fuck man\" really loudly. She told me to stop and I said \"Just go and fuck Dylan.\" and she said \"Alright, I will.\" took her bag and left.\n\nIt's been almost two days. She hasn't messaged me or said anything. I haven't messaged her. I don't know what to do now. Is it over just like that? Should I forgive her? Am I wrong for being really upset about this? Like fuck man - she's not stupid, she must realize those guys want to fuck her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys,\nI (23F) recently got out of a several year-long relationship with my (24M) ex. About a year ago, I became emotionally detached from the person I was seeing. I tried to break it off with him a few times, but he kept convincing me to stay and I felt a bit trapped. I finally worked up the courage to end it permanently despite the consequences a few weeks ago. That was a big deal for me and I feel so relieved. It was difficult but I definitely think it was for the best. \n\nHere is where things get a little complicated. I have feelings for my (25M) roommate. I developed feelings for him a long time ago, while I was still with my ex and never acted on it but felt very guilty about it. I should have known at the time these feelings started that it meant things were probably over with me and my ex. However, I tried very hard to keep the breakup and these feelings for my roommate as separate as possible. That is to say, I did not break up with my ex to get with my roommate. Now I’ve just gotten out of a long term relationship but these feelings for my roommate keep getting stronger. I know that the sensible thing would be to wait to act on this and avoid the rebound and all of that, and I would feel guilty seeing someone else so soon after a breakup as well. Then there is the fact that he is a roommate and the consequences of us possibly breaking up while living together. I am pretty confident that he has feelings for me, though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys,\nI (23F) recently got out of a several year-long relationship with my (24M) ex. About a year ago, I became emotionally detached from the person I was seeing. I tried to break it off with him a few times, but he kept convincing me to stay and I felt a bit trapped. I finally worked up the courage to end it permanently despite the consequences a few weeks ago. That was a big deal for me and I feel so relieved. It was difficult but I definitely think it was for the best. \n\nHere is where things get a little complicated. I have feelings for my (25M) roommate. I developed feelings for him a long time ago, while I was still with my ex and never acted on it but felt very guilty about it. I should have known at the time these feelings started that it meant things were probably over with me and my ex. However, I tried very hard to keep the breakup and these feelings for my roommate as separate as possible. That is to say, I did not break up with my ex to get with my roommate. Now I’ve just gotten out of a long term relationship but these feelings for my roommate keep getting stronger. I know that the sensible thing would be to wait to act on this and avoid the rebound and all of that, and I would feel guilty seeing someone else so soon after a breakup as well. Then there is the fact that he is a roommate and the consequences of us possibly breaking up while living together. I am pretty confident that he has feelings for me, though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys,\nI (23F) recently got out of a several year-long relationship with my (24M) ex. About a year ago, I became emotionally detached from the person I was seeing. I tried to break it off with him a few times, but he kept convincing me to stay and I felt a bit trapped. I finally worked up the courage to end it permanently despite the consequences a few weeks ago. That was a big deal for me and I feel so relieved. It was difficult but I definitely think it was for the best. \n\nHere is where things get a little complicated. I have feelings for my (25M) roommate. I developed feelings for him a long time ago, while I was still with my ex and never acted on it but felt very guilty about it. I should have known at the time these feelings started that it meant things were probably over with me and my ex. However, I tried very hard to keep the breakup and these feelings for my roommate as separate as possible. That is to say, I did not break up with my ex to get with my roommate. Now I’ve just gotten out of a long term relationship but these feelings for my roommate keep getting stronger. I know that the sensible thing would be to wait to act on this and avoid the rebound and all of that, and I would feel guilty seeing someone else so soon after a breakup as well. Then there is the fact that he is a roommate and the consequences of us possibly breaking up while living together. I am pretty confident that he has feelings for me, though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys,\nI (23F) recently got out of a several year-long relationship with my (24M) ex. About a year ago, I became emotionally detached from the person I was seeing. I tried to break it off with him a few times, but he kept convincing me to stay and I felt a bit trapped. I finally worked up the courage to end it permanently despite the consequences a few weeks ago. That was a big deal for me and I feel so relieved. It was difficult but I definitely think it was for the best. \n\nHere is where things get a little complicated. I have feelings for my (25M) roommate. I developed feelings for him a long time ago, while I was still with my ex and never acted on it but felt very guilty about it. I should have known at the time these feelings started that it meant things were probably over with me and my ex. However, I tried very hard to keep the breakup and these feelings for my roommate as separate as possible. That is to say, I did not break up with my ex to get with my roommate. Now I’ve just gotten out of a long term relationship but these feelings for my roommate keep getting stronger. I know that the sensible thing would be to wait to act on this and avoid the rebound and all of that, and I would feel guilty seeing someone else so soon after a breakup as well. Then there is the fact that he is a roommate and the consequences of us possibly breaking up while living together. I am pretty confident that he has feelings for me, though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys,\nI (23F) recently got out of a several year-long relationship with my (24M) ex. About a year ago, I became emotionally detached from the person I was seeing. I tried to break it off with him a few times, but he kept convincing me to stay and I felt a bit trapped. I finally worked up the courage to end it permanently despite the consequences a few weeks ago. That was a big deal for me and I feel so relieved. It was difficult but I definitely think it was for the best. \n\nHere is where things get a little complicated. I have feelings for my (25M) roommate. I developed feelings for him a long time ago, while I was still with my ex and never acted on it but felt very guilty about it. I should have known at the time these feelings started that it meant things were probably over with me and my ex. However, I tried very hard to keep the breakup and these feelings for my roommate as separate as possible. That is to say, I did not break up with my ex to get with my roommate. Now I’ve just gotten out of a long term relationship but these feelings for my roommate keep getting stronger. I know that the sensible thing would be to wait to act on this and avoid the rebound and all of that, and I would feel guilty seeing someone else so soon after a breakup as well. Then there is the fact that he is a roommate and the consequences of us possibly breaking up while living together. I am pretty confident that he has feelings for me, though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I went in to a store where I have been a few times; its a retail outlet. I spoke with her and had a friendly conversation. During this time I noticed her hair and eyes and took a liking to her. So what did I do? I just said 'Thanks for the help!\" and wandered off.\n\nWhile on the way home, pulling into the drive way it dawned on me I should have just asked her out. I intend on doing this; but I do not want to come off as stalkerish? For lack of a better term. I normally just let this slide and let the nature of things happen. But I feel foolish to let this go by. \n\nHow should I approach this situation? My idea is to honestly go up to her again and just tell her what happened. eg) \"You'll get a kick out of this.im a bit slow. So I was almost at the home when I decided to ask you out; leaving a trail of traffic behind me.\" Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I went in to a store where I have been a few times; its a retail outlet. I spoke with her and had a friendly conversation. During this time I noticed her hair and eyes and took a liking to her. So what did I do? I just said 'Thanks for the help!\" and wandered off.\n\nWhile on the way home, pulling into the drive way it dawned on me I should have just asked her out. I intend on doing this; but I do not want to come off as stalkerish? For lack of a better term. I normally just let this slide and let the nature of things happen. But I feel foolish to let this go by. \n\nHow should I approach this situation? My idea is to honestly go up to her again and just tell her what happened. eg) \"You'll get a kick out of this.im a bit slow. So I was almost at the home when I decided to ask you out; leaving a trail of traffic behind me.\" Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I went in to a store where I have been a few times; its a retail outlet. I spoke with her and had a friendly conversation. During this time I noticed her hair and eyes and took a liking to her. So what did I do? I just said 'Thanks for the help!\" and wandered off.\n\nWhile on the way home, pulling into the drive way it dawned on me I should have just asked her out. I intend on doing this; but I do not want to come off as stalkerish? For lack of a better term. I normally just let this slide and let the nature of things happen. But I feel foolish to let this go by. \n\nHow should I approach this situation? My idea is to honestly go up to her again and just tell her what happened. eg) \"You'll get a kick out of this.im a bit slow. So I was almost at the home when I decided to ask you out; leaving a trail of traffic behind me.\" Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I went in to a store where I have been a few times; its a retail outlet. I spoke with her and had a friendly conversation. During this time I noticed her hair and eyes and took a liking to her. So what did I do? I just said 'Thanks for the help!\" and wandered off.\n\nWhile on the way home, pulling into the drive way it dawned on me I should have just asked her out. I intend on doing this; but I do not want to come off as stalkerish? For lack of a better term. I normally just let this slide and let the nature of things happen. But I feel foolish to let this go by. \n\nHow should I approach this situation? My idea is to honestly go up to her again and just tell her what happened. eg) \"You'll get a kick out of this.im a bit slow. So I was almost at the home when I decided to ask you out; leaving a trail of traffic behind me.\" Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I went in to a store where I have been a few times; its a retail outlet. I spoke with her and had a friendly conversation. During this time I noticed her hair and eyes and took a liking to her. So what did I do? I just said 'Thanks for the help!\" and wandered off.\n\nWhile on the way home, pulling into the drive way it dawned on me I should have just asked her out. I intend on doing this; but I do not want to come off as stalkerish? For lack of a better term. I normally just let this slide and let the nature of things happen. But I feel foolish to let this go by. \n\nHow should I approach this situation? My idea is to honestly go up to her again and just tell her what happened. eg) \"You'll get a kick out of this.im a bit slow. So I was almost at the home when I decided to ask you out; leaving a trail of traffic behind me.\" Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I went in to a store where I have been a few times; its a retail outlet. I spoke with her and had a friendly conversation. During this time I noticed her hair and eyes and took a liking to her. So what did I do? I just said 'Thanks for the help!\" and wandered off.\n\nWhile on the way home, pulling into the drive way it dawned on me I should have just asked her out. I intend on doing this; but I do not want to come off as stalkerish? For lack of a better term. I normally just let this slide and let the nature of things happen. But I feel foolish to let this go by. \n\nHow should I approach this situation? My idea is to honestly go up to her again and just tell her what happened. eg) \"You'll get a kick out of this.im a bit slow. So I was almost at the home when I decided to ask you out; leaving a trail of traffic behind me.\" Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On thursday I was helping my friends move. They had rented a Uhaul. We were driving in the parking garage, which signified the clearance of the garage. We were more than clear.\n\nMid way through, the clearance changed drastically, causing my friend who was not buckled up to slam face first in to the climate control. There was enough force to push in the climate control, and cause him to be taken to the hospital, Note, we were not speeding in the slightest. We were looking for a place to park. \n\nHe has serious injuries to his forehead, eyes, nose, and cheek.\n\nWe went back the next day to check for any clearance markers, and take pictures of the area. (we filed a police report already, but wanted more evidence.)\n\nThe only indicator of a potential clearance change, was a marker that had been taken down, and put near the dumpster.\n\nAs in, not even close to being visible. Not even technically in the garage.\n\nAny advice. We're all young 20 somethings and have never been in a situation like this before. What should out actions be?\n\n-\n\nEDIT: this is in Raleigh, NC"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On thursday I was helping my friends move. They had rented a Uhaul. We were driving in the parking garage, which signified the clearance of the garage. We were more than clear.\n\nMid way through, the clearance changed drastically, causing my friend who was not buckled up to slam face first in to the climate control. There was enough force to push in the climate control, and cause him to be taken to the hospital, Note, we were not speeding in the slightest. We were looking for a place to park. \n\nHe has serious injuries to his forehead, eyes, nose, and cheek.\n\nWe went back the next day to check for any clearance markers, and take pictures of the area. (we filed a police report already, but wanted more evidence.)\n\nThe only indicator of a potential clearance change, was a marker that had been taken down, and put near the dumpster.\n\nAs in, not even close to being visible. Not even technically in the garage.\n\nAny advice. We're all young 20 somethings and have never been in a situation like this before. What should out actions be?\n\n-\n\nEDIT: this is in Raleigh, NC"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On thursday I was helping my friends move. They had rented a Uhaul. We were driving in the parking garage, which signified the clearance of the garage. We were more than clear.\n\nMid way through, the clearance changed drastically, causing my friend who was not buckled up to slam face first in to the climate control. There was enough force to push in the climate control, and cause him to be taken to the hospital, Note, we were not speeding in the slightest. We were looking for a place to park. \n\nHe has serious injuries to his forehead, eyes, nose, and cheek.\n\nWe went back the next day to check for any clearance markers, and take pictures of the area. (we filed a police report already, but wanted more evidence.)\n\nThe only indicator of a potential clearance change, was a marker that had been taken down, and put near the dumpster.\n\nAs in, not even close to being visible. Not even technically in the garage.\n\nAny advice. We're all young 20 somethings and have never been in a situation like this before. What should out actions be?\n\n-\n\nEDIT: this is in Raleigh, NC"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On thursday I was helping my friends move. They had rented a Uhaul. We were driving in the parking garage, which signified the clearance of the garage. We were more than clear.\n\nMid way through, the clearance changed drastically, causing my friend who was not buckled up to slam face first in to the climate control. There was enough force to push in the climate control, and cause him to be taken to the hospital, Note, we were not speeding in the slightest. We were looking for a place to park. \n\nHe has serious injuries to his forehead, eyes, nose, and cheek.\n\nWe went back the next day to check for any clearance markers, and take pictures of the area. (we filed a police report already, but wanted more evidence.)\n\nThe only indicator of a potential clearance change, was a marker that had been taken down, and put near the dumpster.\n\nAs in, not even close to being visible. Not even technically in the garage.\n\nAny advice. We're all young 20 somethings and have never been in a situation like this before. What should out actions be?\n\n-\n\nEDIT: this is in Raleigh, NC"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On thursday I was helping my friends move. They had rented a Uhaul. We were driving in the parking garage, which signified the clearance of the garage. We were more than clear.\n\nMid way through, the clearance changed drastically, causing my friend who was not buckled up to slam face first in to the climate control. There was enough force to push in the climate control, and cause him to be taken to the hospital, Note, we were not speeding in the slightest. We were looking for a place to park. \n\nHe has serious injuries to his forehead, eyes, nose, and cheek.\n\nWe went back the next day to check for any clearance markers, and take pictures of the area. (we filed a police report already, but wanted more evidence.)\n\nThe only indicator of a potential clearance change, was a marker that had been taken down, and put near the dumpster.\n\nAs in, not even close to being visible. Not even technically in the garage.\n\nAny advice. We're all young 20 somethings and have never been in a situation like this before. What should out actions be?\n\n-\n\nEDIT: this is in Raleigh, NC"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On thursday I was helping my friends move. They had rented a Uhaul. We were driving in the parking garage, which signified the clearance of the garage. We were more than clear.\n\nMid way through, the clearance changed drastically, causing my friend who was not buckled up to slam face first in to the climate control. There was enough force to push in the climate control, and cause him to be taken to the hospital, Note, we were not speeding in the slightest. We were looking for a place to park. \n\nHe has serious injuries to his forehead, eyes, nose, and cheek.\n\nWe went back the next day to check for any clearance markers, and take pictures of the area. (we filed a police report already, but wanted more evidence.)\n\nThe only indicator of a potential clearance change, was a marker that had been taken down, and put near the dumpster.\n\nAs in, not even close to being visible. Not even technically in the garage.\n\nAny advice. We're all young 20 somethings and have never been in a situation like this before. What should out actions be?\n\n-\n\nEDIT: this is in Raleigh, NC"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a regular fellow - not striking by any means, except maybe how considerate of others I am. I get called cute often, so I don't think I'm ugly. Athetic physique. \n\nWhen I'm not a'courtin someone, I'm confident, relaxed, a couldn't-care-less type. I can be alone and fully happy w/ that for months. in fact, I like to stay home and read or watch movies by myself, eat dinner alone, etc. I'm happy w/ me. \n\nI err on the relationship plane though. and I do it big. Go big or go home, eh? My problem is neediness. I get wrapped up in the girl I'm interested in/dating. I completely give 100% and where-as that might normally be ok, it isn't. \n\nI'm insecure in this area. people have left me my whole life (family, friends for good reasons, lot's of people around me have died, exes) so I get nervous. If I haven't heard from my girl in a few hours, I start to flip. I don't do anything, don't get crazy, my stomach just starts tying into knots. I'm needy, clingy, bah. I need constant reassurance. \n\nEventually, I think it's been the cause of the last 7 years of girls walking out. They say different things, but they were never dating the fun, confident, charming guy they met. \n\nSo Reddit. help? I know I should see a therapist but I'm barely scraping by as is. I understand it's insecurity. and that I need to learn to trust. Have any of you got advice from your experience here?"
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