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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As mentioned above, my exboyfriend (25m) and our mutual roommate (22f) are moving out together, as we will be losing our housing later this summer. (Our landlord wants to sell the house, no explicit problems with residency.) Despite our previous discussions to all go our separate ways, they have since reneged, and are looking for a residence together, leaving me (24f) out on my own to look for housing. \n\nHe is really good friends with this girl, and has been for quite some time, even offering her this place to stay after she didn't really have any other open prospects. His interactions with her were very intimate; this led to jealousy on my behalf, and amongst a list of other things, fueled the break-up - as I wasn't confident in \"loving myself enough for him to love me.\" In the meantime, this girl has become one of my closest friends, rivaling that of my own sister. \n\nFast forward three months, and I find that our mutual housing agreements have been aborted, through the too-loud mentioning through a closed door. They thought I wasn't home, and went on to discuss their plans to move in together with the rest of my roommates present (one is getting married, the other is studying abroad.) \n\nIt seems that everyone knew except for me, and I've never felt so betrayed by the people that I called my \"family,\" several hundred miles from home.\n\nHow to cope with these feelings of isolation, lack of belonging, and betrayal?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As mentioned above, my exboyfriend (25m) and our mutual roommate (22f) are moving out together, as we will be losing our housing later this summer. (Our landlord wants to sell the house, no explicit problems with residency.) Despite our previous discussions to all go our separate ways, they have since reneged, and are looking for a residence together, leaving me (24f) out on my own to look for housing. \n\nHe is really good friends with this girl, and has been for quite some time, even offering her this place to stay after she didn't really have any other open prospects. His interactions with her were very intimate; this led to jealousy on my behalf, and amongst a list of other things, fueled the break-up - as I wasn't confident in \"loving myself enough for him to love me.\" In the meantime, this girl has become one of my closest friends, rivaling that of my own sister. \n\nFast forward three months, and I find that our mutual housing agreements have been aborted, through the too-loud mentioning through a closed door. They thought I wasn't home, and went on to discuss their plans to move in together with the rest of my roommates present (one is getting married, the other is studying abroad.) \n\nIt seems that everyone knew except for me, and I've never felt so betrayed by the people that I called my \"family,\" several hundred miles from home.\n\nHow to cope with these feelings of isolation, lack of belonging, and betrayal?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The above is all a lie. I'm really trying to get advice for a family member. \n\nThe person I'm trying to get advice for is an active redditor, very active so hoping he doesn't see this. Well even if he does he knows I'm just trying to help. Love ya, if you see this. \n\nThe lay down of the situation is as follows. \n\nPregnant girlfriend who is still legally married and was living with her husband up until she moved into family members house. \n\nA couple maybe a few weeks go by and she is pregnant. \n\nFamily member states baby is absolutely his. The timing is really close though, so I'm not sure. but I'm not sharing the bed though so who knows.\n\nPregnant girlfriend has had many issues with family member in the past, including cheating on family member with her husband who she was no longer supposed to be seeing, dating or trying to have a relationship with. \n\nBaby is due soon. Pregnant girlfriend is on state help, also more then likely lying to the state as well by not giving state all of the financial information. \nMy relationship has been burned in the past because of situations like this with this person. I don't want to do anything to harm our relationship. Yet if I bring anything up I feel like I\"m the bad guy. So I just listen and try to offer advice when asked. \n\nFamily member wants to be able to put baby on insurance, most likely can't because due to marriage the baby is still legally her husbands. \n\nDoes family member have any rights to this child before a paternity test is done? He refuses to do a paternity test though, btw. \n\nI don't know how to help him because unless he gets a lawyer, (which he can't afford) he will not have any rights to this child. \nThe couple do still live together but I don't know if the relationship with last. \n\nAnybody else married and got pregnant by someone else? What was the result of the birth certificate, signing the paternity form at the hospital, the baby's last name?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The above is all a lie. I'm really trying to get advice for a family member. \n\nThe person I'm trying to get advice for is an active redditor, very active so hoping he doesn't see this. Well even if he does he knows I'm just trying to help. Love ya, if you see this. \n\nThe lay down of the situation is as follows. \n\nPregnant girlfriend who is still legally married and was living with her husband up until she moved into family members house. \n\nA couple maybe a few weeks go by and she is pregnant. \n\nFamily member states baby is absolutely his. The timing is really close though, so I'm not sure. but I'm not sharing the bed though so who knows.\n\nPregnant girlfriend has had many issues with family member in the past, including cheating on family member with her husband who she was no longer supposed to be seeing, dating or trying to have a relationship with. \n\nBaby is due soon. Pregnant girlfriend is on state help, also more then likely lying to the state as well by not giving state all of the financial information. \nMy relationship has been burned in the past because of situations like this with this person. I don't want to do anything to harm our relationship. Yet if I bring anything up I feel like I\"m the bad guy. So I just listen and try to offer advice when asked. \n\nFamily member wants to be able to put baby on insurance, most likely can't because due to marriage the baby is still legally her husbands. \n\nDoes family member have any rights to this child before a paternity test is done? He refuses to do a paternity test though, btw. \n\nI don't know how to help him because unless he gets a lawyer, (which he can't afford) he will not have any rights to this child. \nThe couple do still live together but I don't know if the relationship with last. \n\nAnybody else married and got pregnant by someone else? What was the result of the birth certificate, signing the paternity form at the hospital, the baby's last name?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The above is all a lie. I'm really trying to get advice for a family member. \n\nThe person I'm trying to get advice for is an active redditor, very active so hoping he doesn't see this. Well even if he does he knows I'm just trying to help. Love ya, if you see this. \n\nThe lay down of the situation is as follows. \n\nPregnant girlfriend who is still legally married and was living with her husband up until she moved into family members house. \n\nA couple maybe a few weeks go by and she is pregnant. \n\nFamily member states baby is absolutely his. The timing is really close though, so I'm not sure. but I'm not sharing the bed though so who knows.\n\nPregnant girlfriend has had many issues with family member in the past, including cheating on family member with her husband who she was no longer supposed to be seeing, dating or trying to have a relationship with. \n\nBaby is due soon. Pregnant girlfriend is on state help, also more then likely lying to the state as well by not giving state all of the financial information. \nMy relationship has been burned in the past because of situations like this with this person. I don't want to do anything to harm our relationship. Yet if I bring anything up I feel like I\"m the bad guy. So I just listen and try to offer advice when asked. \n\nFamily member wants to be able to put baby on insurance, most likely can't because due to marriage the baby is still legally her husbands. \n\nDoes family member have any rights to this child before a paternity test is done? He refuses to do a paternity test though, btw. \n\nI don't know how to help him because unless he gets a lawyer, (which he can't afford) he will not have any rights to this child. \nThe couple do still live together but I don't know if the relationship with last. \n\nAnybody else married and got pregnant by someone else? What was the result of the birth certificate, signing the paternity form at the hospital, the baby's last name?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The above is all a lie. I'm really trying to get advice for a family member. \n\nThe person I'm trying to get advice for is an active redditor, very active so hoping he doesn't see this. Well even if he does he knows I'm just trying to help. Love ya, if you see this. \n\nThe lay down of the situation is as follows. \n\nPregnant girlfriend who is still legally married and was living with her husband up until she moved into family members house. \n\nA couple maybe a few weeks go by and she is pregnant. \n\nFamily member states baby is absolutely his. The timing is really close though, so I'm not sure. but I'm not sharing the bed though so who knows.\n\nPregnant girlfriend has had many issues with family member in the past, including cheating on family member with her husband who she was no longer supposed to be seeing, dating or trying to have a relationship with. \n\nBaby is due soon. Pregnant girlfriend is on state help, also more then likely lying to the state as well by not giving state all of the financial information. \nMy relationship has been burned in the past because of situations like this with this person. I don't want to do anything to harm our relationship. Yet if I bring anything up I feel like I\"m the bad guy. So I just listen and try to offer advice when asked. \n\nFamily member wants to be able to put baby on insurance, most likely can't because due to marriage the baby is still legally her husbands. \n\nDoes family member have any rights to this child before a paternity test is done? He refuses to do a paternity test though, btw. \n\nI don't know how to help him because unless he gets a lawyer, (which he can't afford) he will not have any rights to this child. \nThe couple do still live together but I don't know if the relationship with last. \n\nAnybody else married and got pregnant by someone else? What was the result of the birth certificate, signing the paternity form at the hospital, the baby's last name?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The above is all a lie. I'm really trying to get advice for a family member. \n\nThe person I'm trying to get advice for is an active redditor, very active so hoping he doesn't see this. Well even if he does he knows I'm just trying to help. Love ya, if you see this. \n\nThe lay down of the situation is as follows. \n\nPregnant girlfriend who is still legally married and was living with her husband up until she moved into family members house. \n\nA couple maybe a few weeks go by and she is pregnant. \n\nFamily member states baby is absolutely his. The timing is really close though, so I'm not sure. but I'm not sharing the bed though so who knows.\n\nPregnant girlfriend has had many issues with family member in the past, including cheating on family member with her husband who she was no longer supposed to be seeing, dating or trying to have a relationship with. \n\nBaby is due soon. Pregnant girlfriend is on state help, also more then likely lying to the state as well by not giving state all of the financial information. \nMy relationship has been burned in the past because of situations like this with this person. I don't want to do anything to harm our relationship. Yet if I bring anything up I feel like I\"m the bad guy. So I just listen and try to offer advice when asked. \n\nFamily member wants to be able to put baby on insurance, most likely can't because due to marriage the baby is still legally her husbands. \n\nDoes family member have any rights to this child before a paternity test is done? He refuses to do a paternity test though, btw. \n\nI don't know how to help him because unless he gets a lawyer, (which he can't afford) he will not have any rights to this child. \nThe couple do still live together but I don't know if the relationship with last. \n\nAnybody else married and got pregnant by someone else? What was the result of the birth certificate, signing the paternity form at the hospital, the baby's last name?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The above is all a lie. I'm really trying to get advice for a family member. \n\nThe person I'm trying to get advice for is an active redditor, very active so hoping he doesn't see this. Well even if he does he knows I'm just trying to help. Love ya, if you see this. \n\nThe lay down of the situation is as follows. \n\nPregnant girlfriend who is still legally married and was living with her husband up until she moved into family members house. \n\nA couple maybe a few weeks go by and she is pregnant. \n\nFamily member states baby is absolutely his. The timing is really close though, so I'm not sure. but I'm not sharing the bed though so who knows.\n\nPregnant girlfriend has had many issues with family member in the past, including cheating on family member with her husband who she was no longer supposed to be seeing, dating or trying to have a relationship with. \n\nBaby is due soon. Pregnant girlfriend is on state help, also more then likely lying to the state as well by not giving state all of the financial information. \nMy relationship has been burned in the past because of situations like this with this person. I don't want to do anything to harm our relationship. Yet if I bring anything up I feel like I\"m the bad guy. So I just listen and try to offer advice when asked. \n\nFamily member wants to be able to put baby on insurance, most likely can't because due to marriage the baby is still legally her husbands. \n\nDoes family member have any rights to this child before a paternity test is done? He refuses to do a paternity test though, btw. \n\nI don't know how to help him because unless he gets a lawyer, (which he can't afford) he will not have any rights to this child. \nThe couple do still live together but I don't know if the relationship with last. \n\nAnybody else married and got pregnant by someone else? What was the result of the birth certificate, signing the paternity form at the hospital, the baby's last name?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just had my heart broken a little while ago. This girl [20F] whom I truly thought I was going to spend a lot of my life with was not emotionally honest with me. During our LDR she told me she loved me when she didn't mean it, declared a \"hiatus,\" and got a new boyfriend without telling me. I only expected an answer because she said maybe we could try again. Instead of doing the soul searching she said she needed, she went out of her way to find another LDR.\n\nThat's the gist of what happened, sorry it's so choppy, I'd rather not rant too much. Anyways, the reason we did an LDR is because I'm out on a co-op. At this point I know she never really cared about me and I should move on, but I can't. I'm honestly worried, I know being human won't guarantee me any form of happiness, including a romantic one. I'm scared because I'm not confident I can find someone I felt that passionately about.\n\nI'm still on my co-op. I don't have friends out here, they're all across the country where school is. I have a job, I have hobbies like reading and playing music, and I do what I can to move on. Except I can't, she's on my mind no matter what. All I want to do is forget that I ever met her, but my dumbass heart won't allow it. How do I move on confident that I'll meet someone I can love like I just did? And how do I do it alone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just had my heart broken a little while ago. This girl [20F] whom I truly thought I was going to spend a lot of my life with was not emotionally honest with me. During our LDR she told me she loved me when she didn't mean it, declared a \"hiatus,\" and got a new boyfriend without telling me. I only expected an answer because she said maybe we could try again. Instead of doing the soul searching she said she needed, she went out of her way to find another LDR.\n\nThat's the gist of what happened, sorry it's so choppy, I'd rather not rant too much. Anyways, the reason we did an LDR is because I'm out on a co-op. At this point I know she never really cared about me and I should move on, but I can't. I'm honestly worried, I know being human won't guarantee me any form of happiness, including a romantic one. I'm scared because I'm not confident I can find someone I felt that passionately about.\n\nI'm still on my co-op. I don't have friends out here, they're all across the country where school is. I have a job, I have hobbies like reading and playing music, and I do what I can to move on. Except I can't, she's on my mind no matter what. All I want to do is forget that I ever met her, but my dumbass heart won't allow it. How do I move on confident that I'll meet someone I can love like I just did? And how do I do it alone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just had my heart broken a little while ago. This girl [20F] whom I truly thought I was going to spend a lot of my life with was not emotionally honest with me. During our LDR she told me she loved me when she didn't mean it, declared a \"hiatus,\" and got a new boyfriend without telling me. I only expected an answer because she said maybe we could try again. Instead of doing the soul searching she said she needed, she went out of her way to find another LDR.\n\nThat's the gist of what happened, sorry it's so choppy, I'd rather not rant too much. Anyways, the reason we did an LDR is because I'm out on a co-op. At this point I know she never really cared about me and I should move on, but I can't. I'm honestly worried, I know being human won't guarantee me any form of happiness, including a romantic one. I'm scared because I'm not confident I can find someone I felt that passionately about.\n\nI'm still on my co-op. I don't have friends out here, they're all across the country where school is. I have a job, I have hobbies like reading and playing music, and I do what I can to move on. Except I can't, she's on my mind no matter what. All I want to do is forget that I ever met her, but my dumbass heart won't allow it. How do I move on confident that I'll meet someone I can love like I just did? And how do I do it alone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just had my heart broken a little while ago. This girl [20F] whom I truly thought I was going to spend a lot of my life with was not emotionally honest with me. During our LDR she told me she loved me when she didn't mean it, declared a \"hiatus,\" and got a new boyfriend without telling me. I only expected an answer because she said maybe we could try again. Instead of doing the soul searching she said she needed, she went out of her way to find another LDR.\n\nThat's the gist of what happened, sorry it's so choppy, I'd rather not rant too much. Anyways, the reason we did an LDR is because I'm out on a co-op. At this point I know she never really cared about me and I should move on, but I can't. I'm honestly worried, I know being human won't guarantee me any form of happiness, including a romantic one. I'm scared because I'm not confident I can find someone I felt that passionately about.\n\nI'm still on my co-op. I don't have friends out here, they're all across the country where school is. I have a job, I have hobbies like reading and playing music, and I do what I can to move on. Except I can't, she's on my mind no matter what. All I want to do is forget that I ever met her, but my dumbass heart won't allow it. How do I move on confident that I'll meet someone I can love like I just did? And how do I do it alone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just had my heart broken a little while ago. This girl [20F] whom I truly thought I was going to spend a lot of my life with was not emotionally honest with me. During our LDR she told me she loved me when she didn't mean it, declared a \"hiatus,\" and got a new boyfriend without telling me. I only expected an answer because she said maybe we could try again. Instead of doing the soul searching she said she needed, she went out of her way to find another LDR.\n\nThat's the gist of what happened, sorry it's so choppy, I'd rather not rant too much. Anyways, the reason we did an LDR is because I'm out on a co-op. At this point I know she never really cared about me and I should move on, but I can't. I'm honestly worried, I know being human won't guarantee me any form of happiness, including a romantic one. I'm scared because I'm not confident I can find someone I felt that passionately about.\n\nI'm still on my co-op. I don't have friends out here, they're all across the country where school is. I have a job, I have hobbies like reading and playing music, and I do what I can to move on. Except I can't, she's on my mind no matter what. All I want to do is forget that I ever met her, but my dumbass heart won't allow it. How do I move on confident that I'll meet someone I can love like I just did? And how do I do it alone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just had my heart broken a little while ago. This girl [20F] whom I truly thought I was going to spend a lot of my life with was not emotionally honest with me. During our LDR she told me she loved me when she didn't mean it, declared a \"hiatus,\" and got a new boyfriend without telling me. I only expected an answer because she said maybe we could try again. Instead of doing the soul searching she said she needed, she went out of her way to find another LDR.\n\nThat's the gist of what happened, sorry it's so choppy, I'd rather not rant too much. Anyways, the reason we did an LDR is because I'm out on a co-op. At this point I know she never really cared about me and I should move on, but I can't. I'm honestly worried, I know being human won't guarantee me any form of happiness, including a romantic one. I'm scared because I'm not confident I can find someone I felt that passionately about.\n\nI'm still on my co-op. I don't have friends out here, they're all across the country where school is. I have a job, I have hobbies like reading and playing music, and I do what I can to move on. Except I can't, she's on my mind no matter what. All I want to do is forget that I ever met her, but my dumbass heart won't allow it. How do I move on confident that I'll meet someone I can love like I just did? And how do I do it alone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just need to type this up, because I don't think I'm ready to talk to any of my friends in real life without crying right now.\n\nMy SO and I have been together for nearly 5 years. Since I was 17! (And had just broken up with my first boyfriend.) \n\nWe are TOTALLY different people but that's part of what made our connection so rich. I have trouble even typing out why we made the decision to break up because, well, he's really an amazing person and I have never cared or loved someone as much as him! He genuinely cares for everyone around him and takes on the weight of the world. \n\nI think that is what is so bitter sweet about this. Neither of us did anything wrong, and we love each other and admire each other very much- but sometimes life doesn't work out perfectly. \n\nWe are very different people, we have different goals in life, and different lifestyles. We've made a really beautiful happy little home, we've made mutual friends, taken care of each other. We have great sex. On paper it sounds like we should be with each other. \n\nAnd maybe we will again someday, but for now we're going to be friends. \n\nWe have lived together for 3 years, and just signed a new lease. We've been partners our entire adult lives, and well, I'm a little scared and a little excited, and a little sad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just need to type this up, because I don't think I'm ready to talk to any of my friends in real life without crying right now.\n\nMy SO and I have been together for nearly 5 years. Since I was 17! (And had just broken up with my first boyfriend.) \n\nWe are TOTALLY different people but that's part of what made our connection so rich. I have trouble even typing out why we made the decision to break up because, well, he's really an amazing person and I have never cared or loved someone as much as him! He genuinely cares for everyone around him and takes on the weight of the world. \n\nI think that is what is so bitter sweet about this. Neither of us did anything wrong, and we love each other and admire each other very much- but sometimes life doesn't work out perfectly. \n\nWe are very different people, we have different goals in life, and different lifestyles. We've made a really beautiful happy little home, we've made mutual friends, taken care of each other. We have great sex. On paper it sounds like we should be with each other. \n\nAnd maybe we will again someday, but for now we're going to be friends. \n\nWe have lived together for 3 years, and just signed a new lease. We've been partners our entire adult lives, and well, I'm a little scared and a little excited, and a little sad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just need to type this up, because I don't think I'm ready to talk to any of my friends in real life without crying right now.\n\nMy SO and I have been together for nearly 5 years. Since I was 17! (And had just broken up with my first boyfriend.) \n\nWe are TOTALLY different people but that's part of what made our connection so rich. I have trouble even typing out why we made the decision to break up because, well, he's really an amazing person and I have never cared or loved someone as much as him! He genuinely cares for everyone around him and takes on the weight of the world. \n\nI think that is what is so bitter sweet about this. Neither of us did anything wrong, and we love each other and admire each other very much- but sometimes life doesn't work out perfectly. \n\nWe are very different people, we have different goals in life, and different lifestyles. We've made a really beautiful happy little home, we've made mutual friends, taken care of each other. We have great sex. On paper it sounds like we should be with each other. \n\nAnd maybe we will again someday, but for now we're going to be friends. \n\nWe have lived together for 3 years, and just signed a new lease. We've been partners our entire adult lives, and well, I'm a little scared and a little excited, and a little sad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just need to type this up, because I don't think I'm ready to talk to any of my friends in real life without crying right now.\n\nMy SO and I have been together for nearly 5 years. Since I was 17! (And had just broken up with my first boyfriend.) \n\nWe are TOTALLY different people but that's part of what made our connection so rich. I have trouble even typing out why we made the decision to break up because, well, he's really an amazing person and I have never cared or loved someone as much as him! He genuinely cares for everyone around him and takes on the weight of the world. \n\nI think that is what is so bitter sweet about this. Neither of us did anything wrong, and we love each other and admire each other very much- but sometimes life doesn't work out perfectly. \n\nWe are very different people, we have different goals in life, and different lifestyles. We've made a really beautiful happy little home, we've made mutual friends, taken care of each other. We have great sex. On paper it sounds like we should be with each other. \n\nAnd maybe we will again someday, but for now we're going to be friends. \n\nWe have lived together for 3 years, and just signed a new lease. We've been partners our entire adult lives, and well, I'm a little scared and a little excited, and a little sad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just need to type this up, because I don't think I'm ready to talk to any of my friends in real life without crying right now.\n\nMy SO and I have been together for nearly 5 years. Since I was 17! (And had just broken up with my first boyfriend.) \n\nWe are TOTALLY different people but that's part of what made our connection so rich. I have trouble even typing out why we made the decision to break up because, well, he's really an amazing person and I have never cared or loved someone as much as him! He genuinely cares for everyone around him and takes on the weight of the world. \n\nI think that is what is so bitter sweet about this. Neither of us did anything wrong, and we love each other and admire each other very much- but sometimes life doesn't work out perfectly. \n\nWe are very different people, we have different goals in life, and different lifestyles. We've made a really beautiful happy little home, we've made mutual friends, taken care of each other. We have great sex. On paper it sounds like we should be with each other. \n\nAnd maybe we will again someday, but for now we're going to be friends. \n\nWe have lived together for 3 years, and just signed a new lease. We've been partners our entire adult lives, and well, I'm a little scared and a little excited, and a little sad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now, just throwing it in there first, that I first acted upon potty training, indroducing, all that stuff, and have been for months with not much of a change. He used to in the first month but has stopped. He just keeps taking off his diaper and running around laughing. When he does it at naptime, he usually leaves a mess on his bed or floor, but is quiet while he does [not screaming or wanting out of his room,etc]\n\nI am keeping my cool and not sure how to handle this, ive tried and failed at many different attemps and ideas ive tried, and after a few months of this I think i'd like some outside suggestions and or help. :) Feel free to share personal experience or ideas that pop up, i'm at a dead end road here aha. First toddler."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now, just throwing it in there first, that I first acted upon potty training, indroducing, all that stuff, and have been for months with not much of a change. He used to in the first month but has stopped. He just keeps taking off his diaper and running around laughing. When he does it at naptime, he usually leaves a mess on his bed or floor, but is quiet while he does [not screaming or wanting out of his room,etc]\n\nI am keeping my cool and not sure how to handle this, ive tried and failed at many different attemps and ideas ive tried, and after a few months of this I think i'd like some outside suggestions and or help. :) Feel free to share personal experience or ideas that pop up, i'm at a dead end road here aha. First toddler."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now, just throwing it in there first, that I first acted upon potty training, indroducing, all that stuff, and have been for months with not much of a change. He used to in the first month but has stopped. He just keeps taking off his diaper and running around laughing. When he does it at naptime, he usually leaves a mess on his bed or floor, but is quiet while he does [not screaming or wanting out of his room,etc]\n\nI am keeping my cool and not sure how to handle this, ive tried and failed at many different attemps and ideas ive tried, and after a few months of this I think i'd like some outside suggestions and or help. :) Feel free to share personal experience or ideas that pop up, i'm at a dead end road here aha. First toddler."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now, just throwing it in there first, that I first acted upon potty training, indroducing, all that stuff, and have been for months with not much of a change. He used to in the first month but has stopped. He just keeps taking off his diaper and running around laughing. When he does it at naptime, he usually leaves a mess on his bed or floor, but is quiet while he does [not screaming or wanting out of his room,etc]\n\nI am keeping my cool and not sure how to handle this, ive tried and failed at many different attemps and ideas ive tried, and after a few months of this I think i'd like some outside suggestions and or help. :) Feel free to share personal experience or ideas that pop up, i'm at a dead end road here aha. First toddler."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now, just throwing it in there first, that I first acted upon potty training, indroducing, all that stuff, and have been for months with not much of a change. He used to in the first month but has stopped. He just keeps taking off his diaper and running around laughing. When he does it at naptime, he usually leaves a mess on his bed or floor, but is quiet while he does [not screaming or wanting out of his room,etc]\n\nI am keeping my cool and not sure how to handle this, ive tried and failed at many different attemps and ideas ive tried, and after a few months of this I think i'd like some outside suggestions and or help. :) Feel free to share personal experience or ideas that pop up, i'm at a dead end road here aha. First toddler."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now, just throwing it in there first, that I first acted upon potty training, indroducing, all that stuff, and have been for months with not much of a change. He used to in the first month but has stopped. He just keeps taking off his diaper and running around laughing. When he does it at naptime, he usually leaves a mess on his bed or floor, but is quiet while he does [not screaming or wanting out of his room,etc]\n\nI am keeping my cool and not sure how to handle this, ive tried and failed at many different attemps and ideas ive tried, and after a few months of this I think i'd like some outside suggestions and or help. :) Feel free to share personal experience or ideas that pop up, i'm at a dead end road here aha. First toddler."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, so my dad hired a contractor a few months ago in May where they had to repair the garage, put in a new drain pipe, replace the windows, and a few miscellaneous stuff. Here is the contract my dad signed. [Page 1]( and [Page 2]( \n\nSo here is the problem. As you can see we paid for materials and the first payment of $5000 and the second payment of $2500. The last payment of $2500 is when he is done, but he should've been done on July 1, 2015. My dad has been calling him almost every other day, but the contractor has been saying \"next week\" over and over again. And when he does go he does little to nothing and saying he did do \"something.\" So far he is only about 50% done with everything he said he is going to do. Is there a way to go about this such as bring it to court or keep asking him when he is going to do it. \n\nAny advice helps! Thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, so my dad hired a contractor a few months ago in May where they had to repair the garage, put in a new drain pipe, replace the windows, and a few miscellaneous stuff. Here is the contract my dad signed. [Page 1]( and [Page 2]( \n\nSo here is the problem. As you can see we paid for materials and the first payment of $5000 and the second payment of $2500. The last payment of $2500 is when he is done, but he should've been done on July 1, 2015. My dad has been calling him almost every other day, but the contractor has been saying \"next week\" over and over again. And when he does go he does little to nothing and saying he did do \"something.\" So far he is only about 50% done with everything he said he is going to do. Is there a way to go about this such as bring it to court or keep asking him when he is going to do it. \n\nAny advice helps! Thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, so my dad hired a contractor a few months ago in May where they had to repair the garage, put in a new drain pipe, replace the windows, and a few miscellaneous stuff. Here is the contract my dad signed. [Page 1]( and [Page 2]( \n\nSo here is the problem. As you can see we paid for materials and the first payment of $5000 and the second payment of $2500. The last payment of $2500 is when he is done, but he should've been done on July 1, 2015. My dad has been calling him almost every other day, but the contractor has been saying \"next week\" over and over again. And when he does go he does little to nothing and saying he did do \"something.\" So far he is only about 50% done with everything he said he is going to do. Is there a way to go about this such as bring it to court or keep asking him when he is going to do it. \n\nAny advice helps! Thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, so my dad hired a contractor a few months ago in May where they had to repair the garage, put in a new drain pipe, replace the windows, and a few miscellaneous stuff. Here is the contract my dad signed. [Page 1]( and [Page 2]( \n\nSo here is the problem. As you can see we paid for materials and the first payment of $5000 and the second payment of $2500. The last payment of $2500 is when he is done, but he should've been done on July 1, 2015. My dad has been calling him almost every other day, but the contractor has been saying \"next week\" over and over again. And when he does go he does little to nothing and saying he did do \"something.\" So far he is only about 50% done with everything he said he is going to do. Is there a way to go about this such as bring it to court or keep asking him when he is going to do it. \n\nAny advice helps! Thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, so my dad hired a contractor a few months ago in May where they had to repair the garage, put in a new drain pipe, replace the windows, and a few miscellaneous stuff. Here is the contract my dad signed. [Page 1]( and [Page 2]( \n\nSo here is the problem. As you can see we paid for materials and the first payment of $5000 and the second payment of $2500. The last payment of $2500 is when he is done, but he should've been done on July 1, 2015. My dad has been calling him almost every other day, but the contractor has been saying \"next week\" over and over again. And when he does go he does little to nothing and saying he did do \"something.\" So far he is only about 50% done with everything he said he is going to do. Is there a way to go about this such as bring it to court or keep asking him when he is going to do it. \n\nAny advice helps! Thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, so my dad hired a contractor a few months ago in May where they had to repair the garage, put in a new drain pipe, replace the windows, and a few miscellaneous stuff. Here is the contract my dad signed. [Page 1]( and [Page 2]( \n\nSo here is the problem. As you can see we paid for materials and the first payment of $5000 and the second payment of $2500. The last payment of $2500 is when he is done, but he should've been done on July 1, 2015. My dad has been calling him almost every other day, but the contractor has been saying \"next week\" over and over again. And when he does go he does little to nothing and saying he did do \"something.\" So far he is only about 50% done with everything he said he is going to do. Is there a way to go about this such as bring it to court or keep asking him when he is going to do it. \n\nAny advice helps! Thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF Jane and I have been together just over a year now. It has been going really well. We dated through a whole school year which went great, as did the Summer, and now we are back to school again. This quarter has been pretty tough. She always goes out on the weekends, and I am just not a party person. I don't mind that she goes out. I love her to have fun. But she will come back at 2 or 3 am and wants to have sex, but I'm too damn tired, but she takes it the wrong way in that I don't want to be intimate anymore.\n\nAlso, I have been busting my ass with school this year, and next semester is going to be even busier. I love her a lot and love giving my free time to her, but I simply don't have a lot of that time. As a science/english double major I have so many obligations and out-of-class work to do every day. Sometimes it is difficult to keep up with school and her together.\n\nI really love her but don't know how to go about these new obstacles. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF Jane and I have been together just over a year now. It has been going really well. We dated through a whole school year which went great, as did the Summer, and now we are back to school again. This quarter has been pretty tough. She always goes out on the weekends, and I am just not a party person. I don't mind that she goes out. I love her to have fun. But she will come back at 2 or 3 am and wants to have sex, but I'm too damn tired, but she takes it the wrong way in that I don't want to be intimate anymore.\n\nAlso, I have been busting my ass with school this year, and next semester is going to be even busier. I love her a lot and love giving my free time to her, but I simply don't have a lot of that time. As a science/english double major I have so many obligations and out-of-class work to do every day. Sometimes it is difficult to keep up with school and her together.\n\nI really love her but don't know how to go about these new obstacles. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF Jane and I have been together just over a year now. It has been going really well. We dated through a whole school year which went great, as did the Summer, and now we are back to school again. This quarter has been pretty tough. She always goes out on the weekends, and I am just not a party person. I don't mind that she goes out. I love her to have fun. But she will come back at 2 or 3 am and wants to have sex, but I'm too damn tired, but she takes it the wrong way in that I don't want to be intimate anymore.\n\nAlso, I have been busting my ass with school this year, and next semester is going to be even busier. I love her a lot and love giving my free time to her, but I simply don't have a lot of that time. As a science/english double major I have so many obligations and out-of-class work to do every day. Sometimes it is difficult to keep up with school and her together.\n\nI really love her but don't know how to go about these new obstacles. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF Jane and I have been together just over a year now. It has been going really well. We dated through a whole school year which went great, as did the Summer, and now we are back to school again. This quarter has been pretty tough. She always goes out on the weekends, and I am just not a party person. I don't mind that she goes out. I love her to have fun. But she will come back at 2 or 3 am and wants to have sex, but I'm too damn tired, but she takes it the wrong way in that I don't want to be intimate anymore.\n\nAlso, I have been busting my ass with school this year, and next semester is going to be even busier. I love her a lot and love giving my free time to her, but I simply don't have a lot of that time. As a science/english double major I have so many obligations and out-of-class work to do every day. Sometimes it is difficult to keep up with school and her together.\n\nI really love her but don't know how to go about these new obstacles. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF Jane and I have been together just over a year now. It has been going really well. We dated through a whole school year which went great, as did the Summer, and now we are back to school again. This quarter has been pretty tough. She always goes out on the weekends, and I am just not a party person. I don't mind that she goes out. I love her to have fun. But she will come back at 2 or 3 am and wants to have sex, but I'm too damn tired, but she takes it the wrong way in that I don't want to be intimate anymore.\n\nAlso, I have been busting my ass with school this year, and next semester is going to be even busier. I love her a lot and love giving my free time to her, but I simply don't have a lot of that time. As a science/english double major I have so many obligations and out-of-class work to do every day. Sometimes it is difficult to keep up with school and her together.\n\nI really love her but don't know how to go about these new obstacles. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF Jane and I have been together just over a year now. It has been going really well. We dated through a whole school year which went great, as did the Summer, and now we are back to school again. This quarter has been pretty tough. She always goes out on the weekends, and I am just not a party person. I don't mind that she goes out. I love her to have fun. But she will come back at 2 or 3 am and wants to have sex, but I'm too damn tired, but she takes it the wrong way in that I don't want to be intimate anymore.\n\nAlso, I have been busting my ass with school this year, and next semester is going to be even busier. I love her a lot and love giving my free time to her, but I simply don't have a lot of that time. As a science/english double major I have so many obligations and out-of-class work to do every day. Sometimes it is difficult to keep up with school and her together.\n\nI really love her but don't know how to go about these new obstacles. Any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Little background; my mum, dad and I moved here 12 years ago due to my dad needing to find work, at that point their marriage was on the rocks and my mum left our home country where we lived before and where she had a happy job and great friends, to raise me.\n\n Fast forward to now, my father has left the country after they separated. My mother continues to work here in a job she hates, which she may get fired from soon due to redundancies in her company. I know she is unhappy living here as she hates the weather(sounds silly but it's a big thing to her) she has friends but not the life long friends she had back home and absolutely no family here, they all live a continent away. I feel she's gotten increasingly unhappy in the recent years due to several personal factors and a bit depressed. \n\nI currently live with her and my SO, I'll be starting university this year and my SO works and will be starting college in the next month. We have joked about the idea of renting a place together and we both make enough money to get by as students, and our families are well off so if money did ever become a huge issue, we wouldn't really by left homeless or anything like that if we couldn't afford rent. \n\nWe've been planning to sell our house for almost a year now as its too big for us, my mum wants to buy a place in the outskirts of our city as its a lot cheaper. I've told her a number of times that I do not want to do this as it would mean an hour drive back and forth into the city however she's a very stubborn woman. And doesn't want to leave me alone pretty much, which I appreciate hugely but she has given up so much for me to grow up well that I just want her to finally live somewhere she's happy doing a job she loves (she works part time self employed as well as her full time job, which she would be able to make a living out of back home) how can I get her to realise I'll be fine living without her and let her enjoy her life and be happy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Little background; my mum, dad and I moved here 12 years ago due to my dad needing to find work, at that point their marriage was on the rocks and my mum left our home country where we lived before and where she had a happy job and great friends, to raise me.\n\n Fast forward to now, my father has left the country after they separated. My mother continues to work here in a job she hates, which she may get fired from soon due to redundancies in her company. I know she is unhappy living here as she hates the weather(sounds silly but it's a big thing to her) she has friends but not the life long friends she had back home and absolutely no family here, they all live a continent away. I feel she's gotten increasingly unhappy in the recent years due to several personal factors and a bit depressed. \n\nI currently live with her and my SO, I'll be starting university this year and my SO works and will be starting college in the next month. We have joked about the idea of renting a place together and we both make enough money to get by as students, and our families are well off so if money did ever become a huge issue, we wouldn't really by left homeless or anything like that if we couldn't afford rent. \n\nWe've been planning to sell our house for almost a year now as its too big for us, my mum wants to buy a place in the outskirts of our city as its a lot cheaper. I've told her a number of times that I do not want to do this as it would mean an hour drive back and forth into the city however she's a very stubborn woman. And doesn't want to leave me alone pretty much, which I appreciate hugely but she has given up so much for me to grow up well that I just want her to finally live somewhere she's happy doing a job she loves (she works part time self employed as well as her full time job, which she would be able to make a living out of back home) how can I get her to realise I'll be fine living without her and let her enjoy her life and be happy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Little background; my mum, dad and I moved here 12 years ago due to my dad needing to find work, at that point their marriage was on the rocks and my mum left our home country where we lived before and where she had a happy job and great friends, to raise me.\n\n Fast forward to now, my father has left the country after they separated. My mother continues to work here in a job she hates, which she may get fired from soon due to redundancies in her company. I know she is unhappy living here as she hates the weather(sounds silly but it's a big thing to her) she has friends but not the life long friends she had back home and absolutely no family here, they all live a continent away. I feel she's gotten increasingly unhappy in the recent years due to several personal factors and a bit depressed. \n\nI currently live with her and my SO, I'll be starting university this year and my SO works and will be starting college in the next month. We have joked about the idea of renting a place together and we both make enough money to get by as students, and our families are well off so if money did ever become a huge issue, we wouldn't really by left homeless or anything like that if we couldn't afford rent. \n\nWe've been planning to sell our house for almost a year now as its too big for us, my mum wants to buy a place in the outskirts of our city as its a lot cheaper. I've told her a number of times that I do not want to do this as it would mean an hour drive back and forth into the city however she's a very stubborn woman. And doesn't want to leave me alone pretty much, which I appreciate hugely but she has given up so much for me to grow up well that I just want her to finally live somewhere she's happy doing a job she loves (she works part time self employed as well as her full time job, which she would be able to make a living out of back home) how can I get her to realise I'll be fine living without her and let her enjoy her life and be happy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Little background; my mum, dad and I moved here 12 years ago due to my dad needing to find work, at that point their marriage was on the rocks and my mum left our home country where we lived before and where she had a happy job and great friends, to raise me.\n\n Fast forward to now, my father has left the country after they separated. My mother continues to work here in a job she hates, which she may get fired from soon due to redundancies in her company. I know she is unhappy living here as she hates the weather(sounds silly but it's a big thing to her) she has friends but not the life long friends she had back home and absolutely no family here, they all live a continent away. I feel she's gotten increasingly unhappy in the recent years due to several personal factors and a bit depressed. \n\nI currently live with her and my SO, I'll be starting university this year and my SO works and will be starting college in the next month. We have joked about the idea of renting a place together and we both make enough money to get by as students, and our families are well off so if money did ever become a huge issue, we wouldn't really by left homeless or anything like that if we couldn't afford rent. \n\nWe've been planning to sell our house for almost a year now as its too big for us, my mum wants to buy a place in the outskirts of our city as its a lot cheaper. I've told her a number of times that I do not want to do this as it would mean an hour drive back and forth into the city however she's a very stubborn woman. And doesn't want to leave me alone pretty much, which I appreciate hugely but she has given up so much for me to grow up well that I just want her to finally live somewhere she's happy doing a job she loves (she works part time self employed as well as her full time job, which she would be able to make a living out of back home) how can I get her to realise I'll be fine living without her and let her enjoy her life and be happy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Little background; my mum, dad and I moved here 12 years ago due to my dad needing to find work, at that point their marriage was on the rocks and my mum left our home country where we lived before and where she had a happy job and great friends, to raise me.\n\n Fast forward to now, my father has left the country after they separated. My mother continues to work here in a job she hates, which she may get fired from soon due to redundancies in her company. I know she is unhappy living here as she hates the weather(sounds silly but it's a big thing to her) she has friends but not the life long friends she had back home and absolutely no family here, they all live a continent away. I feel she's gotten increasingly unhappy in the recent years due to several personal factors and a bit depressed. \n\nI currently live with her and my SO, I'll be starting university this year and my SO works and will be starting college in the next month. We have joked about the idea of renting a place together and we both make enough money to get by as students, and our families are well off so if money did ever become a huge issue, we wouldn't really by left homeless or anything like that if we couldn't afford rent. \n\nWe've been planning to sell our house for almost a year now as its too big for us, my mum wants to buy a place in the outskirts of our city as its a lot cheaper. I've told her a number of times that I do not want to do this as it would mean an hour drive back and forth into the city however she's a very stubborn woman. And doesn't want to leave me alone pretty much, which I appreciate hugely but she has given up so much for me to grow up well that I just want her to finally live somewhere she's happy doing a job she loves (she works part time self employed as well as her full time job, which she would be able to make a living out of back home) how can I get her to realise I'll be fine living without her and let her enjoy her life and be happy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Little background; my mum, dad and I moved here 12 years ago due to my dad needing to find work, at that point their marriage was on the rocks and my mum left our home country where we lived before and where she had a happy job and great friends, to raise me.\n\n Fast forward to now, my father has left the country after they separated. My mother continues to work here in a job she hates, which she may get fired from soon due to redundancies in her company. I know she is unhappy living here as she hates the weather(sounds silly but it's a big thing to her) she has friends but not the life long friends she had back home and absolutely no family here, they all live a continent away. I feel she's gotten increasingly unhappy in the recent years due to several personal factors and a bit depressed. \n\nI currently live with her and my SO, I'll be starting university this year and my SO works and will be starting college in the next month. We have joked about the idea of renting a place together and we both make enough money to get by as students, and our families are well off so if money did ever become a huge issue, we wouldn't really by left homeless or anything like that if we couldn't afford rent. \n\nWe've been planning to sell our house for almost a year now as its too big for us, my mum wants to buy a place in the outskirts of our city as its a lot cheaper. I've told her a number of times that I do not want to do this as it would mean an hour drive back and forth into the city however she's a very stubborn woman. And doesn't want to leave me alone pretty much, which I appreciate hugely but she has given up so much for me to grow up well that I just want her to finally live somewhere she's happy doing a job she loves (she works part time self employed as well as her full time job, which she would be able to make a living out of back home) how can I get her to realise I'll be fine living without her and let her enjoy her life and be happy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know how to explain this further, but.it hurts a lot when my husband tries to have sex with me. I don't understand why. It didn't used to hurt to have sex with him, but about.6 months ago? Whenever he penetrated me, it felt like having sex with a 2-litre bottle. As far as I can remember, nothing about our lifestyle changed, so I have no idea what caused this.\n\nHe performs plenty of foreplay on me. He almost always makes sure I come before he even tries penetration, but it doesn't seem to help at all. He's disabled, so there's all of 3 positions we can have sex in, and almost all of them hurt me. He's not even particularly large-he's more or less perfectly average.\n\nI've asked him to be more gentle, and I know he's trying his best, but it still hurts enough that I find myself increasingly unwilling to have sex. Even when I do want to try to have sex, I get so scared that I dry up and instinctively try to kick him away, and that really discourages him and makes him feel unwanted. \n\nWe're at our wits end. Does anyone have suggestions for what we could do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know how to explain this further, but.it hurts a lot when my husband tries to have sex with me. I don't understand why. It didn't used to hurt to have sex with him, but about.6 months ago? Whenever he penetrated me, it felt like having sex with a 2-litre bottle. As far as I can remember, nothing about our lifestyle changed, so I have no idea what caused this.\n\nHe performs plenty of foreplay on me. He almost always makes sure I come before he even tries penetration, but it doesn't seem to help at all. He's disabled, so there's all of 3 positions we can have sex in, and almost all of them hurt me. He's not even particularly large-he's more or less perfectly average.\n\nI've asked him to be more gentle, and I know he's trying his best, but it still hurts enough that I find myself increasingly unwilling to have sex. Even when I do want to try to have sex, I get so scared that I dry up and instinctively try to kick him away, and that really discourages him and makes him feel unwanted. \n\nWe're at our wits end. Does anyone have suggestions for what we could do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know how to explain this further, but.it hurts a lot when my husband tries to have sex with me. I don't understand why. It didn't used to hurt to have sex with him, but about.6 months ago? Whenever he penetrated me, it felt like having sex with a 2-litre bottle. As far as I can remember, nothing about our lifestyle changed, so I have no idea what caused this.\n\nHe performs plenty of foreplay on me. He almost always makes sure I come before he even tries penetration, but it doesn't seem to help at all. He's disabled, so there's all of 3 positions we can have sex in, and almost all of them hurt me. He's not even particularly large-he's more or less perfectly average.\n\nI've asked him to be more gentle, and I know he's trying his best, but it still hurts enough that I find myself increasingly unwilling to have sex. Even when I do want to try to have sex, I get so scared that I dry up and instinctively try to kick him away, and that really discourages him and makes him feel unwanted. \n\nWe're at our wits end. Does anyone have suggestions for what we could do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know how to explain this further, but.it hurts a lot when my husband tries to have sex with me. I don't understand why. It didn't used to hurt to have sex with him, but about.6 months ago? Whenever he penetrated me, it felt like having sex with a 2-litre bottle. As far as I can remember, nothing about our lifestyle changed, so I have no idea what caused this.\n\nHe performs plenty of foreplay on me. He almost always makes sure I come before he even tries penetration, but it doesn't seem to help at all. He's disabled, so there's all of 3 positions we can have sex in, and almost all of them hurt me. He's not even particularly large-he's more or less perfectly average.\n\nI've asked him to be more gentle, and I know he's trying his best, but it still hurts enough that I find myself increasingly unwilling to have sex. Even when I do want to try to have sex, I get so scared that I dry up and instinctively try to kick him away, and that really discourages him and makes him feel unwanted. \n\nWe're at our wits end. Does anyone have suggestions for what we could do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know how to explain this further, but.it hurts a lot when my husband tries to have sex with me. I don't understand why. It didn't used to hurt to have sex with him, but about.6 months ago? Whenever he penetrated me, it felt like having sex with a 2-litre bottle. As far as I can remember, nothing about our lifestyle changed, so I have no idea what caused this.\n\nHe performs plenty of foreplay on me. He almost always makes sure I come before he even tries penetration, but it doesn't seem to help at all. He's disabled, so there's all of 3 positions we can have sex in, and almost all of them hurt me. He's not even particularly large-he's more or less perfectly average.\n\nI've asked him to be more gentle, and I know he's trying his best, but it still hurts enough that I find myself increasingly unwilling to have sex. Even when I do want to try to have sex, I get so scared that I dry up and instinctively try to kick him away, and that really discourages him and makes him feel unwanted. \n\nWe're at our wits end. Does anyone have suggestions for what we could do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know how to explain this further, but.it hurts a lot when my husband tries to have sex with me. I don't understand why. It didn't used to hurt to have sex with him, but about.6 months ago? Whenever he penetrated me, it felt like having sex with a 2-litre bottle. As far as I can remember, nothing about our lifestyle changed, so I have no idea what caused this.\n\nHe performs plenty of foreplay on me. He almost always makes sure I come before he even tries penetration, but it doesn't seem to help at all. He's disabled, so there's all of 3 positions we can have sex in, and almost all of them hurt me. He's not even particularly large-he's more or less perfectly average.\n\nI've asked him to be more gentle, and I know he's trying his best, but it still hurts enough that I find myself increasingly unwilling to have sex. Even when I do want to try to have sex, I get so scared that I dry up and instinctively try to kick him away, and that really discourages him and makes him feel unwanted. \n\nWe're at our wits end. Does anyone have suggestions for what we could do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and he recently accused me of cheating because he found some \"suspicious fingerprints\" on his mirror. He thinks I brought a guy over to his house. \n\nI have never been unfaithful to him, and I have been a great girlfriend from day 1 and have never given him a reason to doubt me, so it hurts that he's made such an accusation. \n\nThe next day he told me he was sorry for that accusation, and he now trusts me and believes me when I said I never cheated, but now I feel iffy about the relationship. \n\nI still want to be with him, but I'm still hurt that he accused me of such a thing. His ex cheated on him so I know he's been hurt before. \n\nIs it worth staying with a guy that you love even if he is insecure about stuff like this? Is it normal to be insecure/paranoid and jump to a conclusion like that? I want to support him and I think our love can get through this, but I don't want to get accused of things I never did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and he recently accused me of cheating because he found some \"suspicious fingerprints\" on his mirror. He thinks I brought a guy over to his house. \n\nI have never been unfaithful to him, and I have been a great girlfriend from day 1 and have never given him a reason to doubt me, so it hurts that he's made such an accusation. \n\nThe next day he told me he was sorry for that accusation, and he now trusts me and believes me when I said I never cheated, but now I feel iffy about the relationship. \n\nI still want to be with him, but I'm still hurt that he accused me of such a thing. His ex cheated on him so I know he's been hurt before. \n\nIs it worth staying with a guy that you love even if he is insecure about stuff like this? Is it normal to be insecure/paranoid and jump to a conclusion like that? I want to support him and I think our love can get through this, but I don't want to get accused of things I never did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and he recently accused me of cheating because he found some \"suspicious fingerprints\" on his mirror. He thinks I brought a guy over to his house. \n\nI have never been unfaithful to him, and I have been a great girlfriend from day 1 and have never given him a reason to doubt me, so it hurts that he's made such an accusation. \n\nThe next day he told me he was sorry for that accusation, and he now trusts me and believes me when I said I never cheated, but now I feel iffy about the relationship. \n\nI still want to be with him, but I'm still hurt that he accused me of such a thing. His ex cheated on him so I know he's been hurt before. \n\nIs it worth staying with a guy that you love even if he is insecure about stuff like this? Is it normal to be insecure/paranoid and jump to a conclusion like that? I want to support him and I think our love can get through this, but I don't want to get accused of things I never did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and he recently accused me of cheating because he found some \"suspicious fingerprints\" on his mirror. He thinks I brought a guy over to his house. \n\nI have never been unfaithful to him, and I have been a great girlfriend from day 1 and have never given him a reason to doubt me, so it hurts that he's made such an accusation. \n\nThe next day he told me he was sorry for that accusation, and he now trusts me and believes me when I said I never cheated, but now I feel iffy about the relationship. \n\nI still want to be with him, but I'm still hurt that he accused me of such a thing. His ex cheated on him so I know he's been hurt before. \n\nIs it worth staying with a guy that you love even if he is insecure about stuff like this? Is it normal to be insecure/paranoid and jump to a conclusion like that? I want to support him and I think our love can get through this, but I don't want to get accused of things I never did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and he recently accused me of cheating because he found some \"suspicious fingerprints\" on his mirror. He thinks I brought a guy over to his house. \n\nI have never been unfaithful to him, and I have been a great girlfriend from day 1 and have never given him a reason to doubt me, so it hurts that he's made such an accusation. \n\nThe next day he told me he was sorry for that accusation, and he now trusts me and believes me when I said I never cheated, but now I feel iffy about the relationship. \n\nI still want to be with him, but I'm still hurt that he accused me of such a thing. His ex cheated on him so I know he's been hurt before. \n\nIs it worth staying with a guy that you love even if he is insecure about stuff like this? Is it normal to be insecure/paranoid and jump to a conclusion like that? I want to support him and I think our love can get through this, but I don't want to get accused of things I never did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and he recently accused me of cheating because he found some \"suspicious fingerprints\" on his mirror. He thinks I brought a guy over to his house. \n\nI have never been unfaithful to him, and I have been a great girlfriend from day 1 and have never given him a reason to doubt me, so it hurts that he's made such an accusation. \n\nThe next day he told me he was sorry for that accusation, and he now trusts me and believes me when I said I never cheated, but now I feel iffy about the relationship. \n\nI still want to be with him, but I'm still hurt that he accused me of such a thing. His ex cheated on him so I know he's been hurt before. \n\nIs it worth staying with a guy that you love even if he is insecure about stuff like this? Is it normal to be insecure/paranoid and jump to a conclusion like that? I want to support him and I think our love can get through this, but I don't want to get accused of things I never did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My summer jobs throughout high school and for a brief time afterwards were in construction. After a few years of working and travelling on/off it became time to \"settle\" a bit. I was throwing around ideas and tried to make a few things happen but nothing panned out. My dad is self-employed contractor and always recommended against it as after working 10 hours having to do paper work in the evenings and weekends sucked. \n\nSo a year and a bit ago I got a job with my dad's friend. It's a really great opportunity, I'm apprenticing to be an electrician and he got me into the union which is fairly difficult to do and sought after position. \n\nI'm just in my final phase of schooling and go back to work soon. Problem is I have a strong desire to quit. As much as I loved construction, I realized I loved working outside with my friends and beer doing 'satisfying' work. Not in a dirty building doing menial and labouring work. I also work on websites for friends and have been wanting to give that a try, I also have a sales job lined up that could be promising. \n\nAs stated my current employer is a family friend and I'm worried about how this will reflect on me and my family. I really don't want to burn any bridges. Just thinking about going back to work has given me a ton of stress and anxiety. I barely knew what anxiety was before this. But another few years in that job will suck my soul out of me. I feel like I need to at least try giving the other job a shot before going back.\n\nI'm not too close with my parents in the past few years (unrelated) and have been struggling on how to bring this up to them and the employer. My employer is very old school and will probably call me 'lazy' lol but I don't care about that, only that I'm appreciative of the work and he is a family friend so I don't want to leave any friction.\n\nThoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My summer jobs throughout high school and for a brief time afterwards were in construction. After a few years of working and travelling on/off it became time to \"settle\" a bit. I was throwing around ideas and tried to make a few things happen but nothing panned out. My dad is self-employed contractor and always recommended against it as after working 10 hours having to do paper work in the evenings and weekends sucked. \n\nSo a year and a bit ago I got a job with my dad's friend. It's a really great opportunity, I'm apprenticing to be an electrician and he got me into the union which is fairly difficult to do and sought after position. \n\nI'm just in my final phase of schooling and go back to work soon. Problem is I have a strong desire to quit. As much as I loved construction, I realized I loved working outside with my friends and beer doing 'satisfying' work. Not in a dirty building doing menial and labouring work. I also work on websites for friends and have been wanting to give that a try, I also have a sales job lined up that could be promising. \n\nAs stated my current employer is a family friend and I'm worried about how this will reflect on me and my family. I really don't want to burn any bridges. Just thinking about going back to work has given me a ton of stress and anxiety. I barely knew what anxiety was before this. But another few years in that job will suck my soul out of me. I feel like I need to at least try giving the other job a shot before going back.\n\nI'm not too close with my parents in the past few years (unrelated) and have been struggling on how to bring this up to them and the employer. My employer is very old school and will probably call me 'lazy' lol but I don't care about that, only that I'm appreciative of the work and he is a family friend so I don't want to leave any friction.\n\nThoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My summer jobs throughout high school and for a brief time afterwards were in construction. After a few years of working and travelling on/off it became time to \"settle\" a bit. I was throwing around ideas and tried to make a few things happen but nothing panned out. My dad is self-employed contractor and always recommended against it as after working 10 hours having to do paper work in the evenings and weekends sucked. \n\nSo a year and a bit ago I got a job with my dad's friend. It's a really great opportunity, I'm apprenticing to be an electrician and he got me into the union which is fairly difficult to do and sought after position. \n\nI'm just in my final phase of schooling and go back to work soon. Problem is I have a strong desire to quit. As much as I loved construction, I realized I loved working outside with my friends and beer doing 'satisfying' work. Not in a dirty building doing menial and labouring work. I also work on websites for friends and have been wanting to give that a try, I also have a sales job lined up that could be promising. \n\nAs stated my current employer is a family friend and I'm worried about how this will reflect on me and my family. I really don't want to burn any bridges. Just thinking about going back to work has given me a ton of stress and anxiety. I barely knew what anxiety was before this. But another few years in that job will suck my soul out of me. I feel like I need to at least try giving the other job a shot before going back.\n\nI'm not too close with my parents in the past few years (unrelated) and have been struggling on how to bring this up to them and the employer. My employer is very old school and will probably call me 'lazy' lol but I don't care about that, only that I'm appreciative of the work and he is a family friend so I don't want to leave any friction.\n\nThoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My summer jobs throughout high school and for a brief time afterwards were in construction. After a few years of working and travelling on/off it became time to \"settle\" a bit. I was throwing around ideas and tried to make a few things happen but nothing panned out. My dad is self-employed contractor and always recommended against it as after working 10 hours having to do paper work in the evenings and weekends sucked. \n\nSo a year and a bit ago I got a job with my dad's friend. It's a really great opportunity, I'm apprenticing to be an electrician and he got me into the union which is fairly difficult to do and sought after position. \n\nI'm just in my final phase of schooling and go back to work soon. Problem is I have a strong desire to quit. As much as I loved construction, I realized I loved working outside with my friends and beer doing 'satisfying' work. Not in a dirty building doing menial and labouring work. I also work on websites for friends and have been wanting to give that a try, I also have a sales job lined up that could be promising. \n\nAs stated my current employer is a family friend and I'm worried about how this will reflect on me and my family. I really don't want to burn any bridges. Just thinking about going back to work has given me a ton of stress and anxiety. I barely knew what anxiety was before this. But another few years in that job will suck my soul out of me. I feel like I need to at least try giving the other job a shot before going back.\n\nI'm not too close with my parents in the past few years (unrelated) and have been struggling on how to bring this up to them and the employer. My employer is very old school and will probably call me 'lazy' lol but I don't care about that, only that I'm appreciative of the work and he is a family friend so I don't want to leave any friction.\n\nThoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My summer jobs throughout high school and for a brief time afterwards were in construction. After a few years of working and travelling on/off it became time to \"settle\" a bit. I was throwing around ideas and tried to make a few things happen but nothing panned out. My dad is self-employed contractor and always recommended against it as after working 10 hours having to do paper work in the evenings and weekends sucked. \n\nSo a year and a bit ago I got a job with my dad's friend. It's a really great opportunity, I'm apprenticing to be an electrician and he got me into the union which is fairly difficult to do and sought after position. \n\nI'm just in my final phase of schooling and go back to work soon. Problem is I have a strong desire to quit. As much as I loved construction, I realized I loved working outside with my friends and beer doing 'satisfying' work. Not in a dirty building doing menial and labouring work. I also work on websites for friends and have been wanting to give that a try, I also have a sales job lined up that could be promising. \n\nAs stated my current employer is a family friend and I'm worried about how this will reflect on me and my family. I really don't want to burn any bridges. Just thinking about going back to work has given me a ton of stress and anxiety. I barely knew what anxiety was before this. But another few years in that job will suck my soul out of me. I feel like I need to at least try giving the other job a shot before going back.\n\nI'm not too close with my parents in the past few years (unrelated) and have been struggling on how to bring this up to them and the employer. My employer is very old school and will probably call me 'lazy' lol but I don't care about that, only that I'm appreciative of the work and he is a family friend so I don't want to leave any friction.\n\nThoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My summer jobs throughout high school and for a brief time afterwards were in construction. After a few years of working and travelling on/off it became time to \"settle\" a bit. I was throwing around ideas and tried to make a few things happen but nothing panned out. My dad is self-employed contractor and always recommended against it as after working 10 hours having to do paper work in the evenings and weekends sucked. \n\nSo a year and a bit ago I got a job with my dad's friend. It's a really great opportunity, I'm apprenticing to be an electrician and he got me into the union which is fairly difficult to do and sought after position. \n\nI'm just in my final phase of schooling and go back to work soon. Problem is I have a strong desire to quit. As much as I loved construction, I realized I loved working outside with my friends and beer doing 'satisfying' work. Not in a dirty building doing menial and labouring work. I also work on websites for friends and have been wanting to give that a try, I also have a sales job lined up that could be promising. \n\nAs stated my current employer is a family friend and I'm worried about how this will reflect on me and my family. I really don't want to burn any bridges. Just thinking about going back to work has given me a ton of stress and anxiety. I barely knew what anxiety was before this. But another few years in that job will suck my soul out of me. I feel like I need to at least try giving the other job a shot before going back.\n\nI'm not too close with my parents in the past few years (unrelated) and have been struggling on how to bring this up to them and the employer. My employer is very old school and will probably call me 'lazy' lol but I don't care about that, only that I'm appreciative of the work and he is a family friend so I don't want to leave any friction.\n\nThoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known this girl for a couple of years, and I've been super friendzoned since pretty much the beginning. There was drama at first, since I asked her to a dance a long time ago, and we went and she ended up effectively screwing me over. But this girl is amazing, seriously. I don't know how to describe it. I just haven't given up. So on to what happened. Basically, things led to other things, and I managed to snag her on a date to the homecoming dance. A legitimate date. And so I got her two corsages, one for the actual school day and one for the dance itself. We also went out to eat, and it was great. We went to the dance, it was great. I even managed to throw in a kiss on the cheek. But after the dance, when I asked her if she'd like to do it again sometime, she pretty much in a nutshell said \"I don't really think I can see us as being any more than friends. When we hang out I feel like we're just good friends. You'd be the perfect boyfriend, I just can't see us together.\" I told her I would keep trying, and that her feelings about it might change. I really really like this girl, and I don't want to give up. Any advice of what I could do to make her at least give it another shot?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known this girl for a couple of years, and I've been super friendzoned since pretty much the beginning. There was drama at first, since I asked her to a dance a long time ago, and we went and she ended up effectively screwing me over. But this girl is amazing, seriously. I don't know how to describe it. I just haven't given up. So on to what happened. Basically, things led to other things, and I managed to snag her on a date to the homecoming dance. A legitimate date. And so I got her two corsages, one for the actual school day and one for the dance itself. We also went out to eat, and it was great. We went to the dance, it was great. I even managed to throw in a kiss on the cheek. But after the dance, when I asked her if she'd like to do it again sometime, she pretty much in a nutshell said \"I don't really think I can see us as being any more than friends. When we hang out I feel like we're just good friends. You'd be the perfect boyfriend, I just can't see us together.\" I told her I would keep trying, and that her feelings about it might change. I really really like this girl, and I don't want to give up. Any advice of what I could do to make her at least give it another shot?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known this girl for a couple of years, and I've been super friendzoned since pretty much the beginning. There was drama at first, since I asked her to a dance a long time ago, and we went and she ended up effectively screwing me over. But this girl is amazing, seriously. I don't know how to describe it. I just haven't given up. So on to what happened. Basically, things led to other things, and I managed to snag her on a date to the homecoming dance. A legitimate date. And so I got her two corsages, one for the actual school day and one for the dance itself. We also went out to eat, and it was great. We went to the dance, it was great. I even managed to throw in a kiss on the cheek. But after the dance, when I asked her if she'd like to do it again sometime, she pretty much in a nutshell said \"I don't really think I can see us as being any more than friends. When we hang out I feel like we're just good friends. You'd be the perfect boyfriend, I just can't see us together.\" I told her I would keep trying, and that her feelings about it might change. I really really like this girl, and I don't want to give up. Any advice of what I could do to make her at least give it another shot?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known this girl for a couple of years, and I've been super friendzoned since pretty much the beginning. There was drama at first, since I asked her to a dance a long time ago, and we went and she ended up effectively screwing me over. But this girl is amazing, seriously. I don't know how to describe it. I just haven't given up. So on to what happened. Basically, things led to other things, and I managed to snag her on a date to the homecoming dance. A legitimate date. And so I got her two corsages, one for the actual school day and one for the dance itself. We also went out to eat, and it was great. We went to the dance, it was great. I even managed to throw in a kiss on the cheek. But after the dance, when I asked her if she'd like to do it again sometime, she pretty much in a nutshell said \"I don't really think I can see us as being any more than friends. When we hang out I feel like we're just good friends. You'd be the perfect boyfriend, I just can't see us together.\" I told her I would keep trying, and that her feelings about it might change. I really really like this girl, and I don't want to give up. Any advice of what I could do to make her at least give it another shot?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known this girl for a couple of years, and I've been super friendzoned since pretty much the beginning. There was drama at first, since I asked her to a dance a long time ago, and we went and she ended up effectively screwing me over. But this girl is amazing, seriously. I don't know how to describe it. I just haven't given up. So on to what happened. Basically, things led to other things, and I managed to snag her on a date to the homecoming dance. A legitimate date. And so I got her two corsages, one for the actual school day and one for the dance itself. We also went out to eat, and it was great. We went to the dance, it was great. I even managed to throw in a kiss on the cheek. But after the dance, when I asked her if she'd like to do it again sometime, she pretty much in a nutshell said \"I don't really think I can see us as being any more than friends. When we hang out I feel like we're just good friends. You'd be the perfect boyfriend, I just can't see us together.\" I told her I would keep trying, and that her feelings about it might change. I really really like this girl, and I don't want to give up. Any advice of what I could do to make her at least give it another shot?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known this girl for a couple of years, and I've been super friendzoned since pretty much the beginning. There was drama at first, since I asked her to a dance a long time ago, and we went and she ended up effectively screwing me over. But this girl is amazing, seriously. I don't know how to describe it. I just haven't given up. So on to what happened. Basically, things led to other things, and I managed to snag her on a date to the homecoming dance. A legitimate date. And so I got her two corsages, one for the actual school day and one for the dance itself. We also went out to eat, and it was great. We went to the dance, it was great. I even managed to throw in a kiss on the cheek. But after the dance, when I asked her if she'd like to do it again sometime, she pretty much in a nutshell said \"I don't really think I can see us as being any more than friends. When we hang out I feel like we're just good friends. You'd be the perfect boyfriend, I just can't see us together.\" I told her I would keep trying, and that her feelings about it might change. I really really like this girl, and I don't want to give up. Any advice of what I could do to make her at least give it another shot?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everybody. Tonight I plan on having a talk with my SO about our long-term sustainability as a couple, particularly my worries about it. I want to express that I've felt undesired, due to a lack of affection and expression from her (she is very stoic), and that I worry about how different we are. I've never dated anybody so different from me, and it's turned out more difficult than I thought it would be (barely any shared interests, parallel senses of humor, different wavelengths about how we experience the world).\n\nI just need courage right now. I'm very bad at being up front and tactful when expressing negative emotions. Withholding my feelings has historically gotten me into worse trouble in the past, and I feel like I need to say some things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everybody. Tonight I plan on having a talk with my SO about our long-term sustainability as a couple, particularly my worries about it. I want to express that I've felt undesired, due to a lack of affection and expression from her (she is very stoic), and that I worry about how different we are. I've never dated anybody so different from me, and it's turned out more difficult than I thought it would be (barely any shared interests, parallel senses of humor, different wavelengths about how we experience the world).\n\nI just need courage right now. I'm very bad at being up front and tactful when expressing negative emotions. Withholding my feelings has historically gotten me into worse trouble in the past, and I feel like I need to say some things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everybody. Tonight I plan on having a talk with my SO about our long-term sustainability as a couple, particularly my worries about it. I want to express that I've felt undesired, due to a lack of affection and expression from her (she is very stoic), and that I worry about how different we are. I've never dated anybody so different from me, and it's turned out more difficult than I thought it would be (barely any shared interests, parallel senses of humor, different wavelengths about how we experience the world).\n\nI just need courage right now. I'm very bad at being up front and tactful when expressing negative emotions. Withholding my feelings has historically gotten me into worse trouble in the past, and I feel like I need to say some things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everybody. Tonight I plan on having a talk with my SO about our long-term sustainability as a couple, particularly my worries about it. I want to express that I've felt undesired, due to a lack of affection and expression from her (she is very stoic), and that I worry about how different we are. I've never dated anybody so different from me, and it's turned out more difficult than I thought it would be (barely any shared interests, parallel senses of humor, different wavelengths about how we experience the world).\n\nI just need courage right now. I'm very bad at being up front and tactful when expressing negative emotions. Withholding my feelings has historically gotten me into worse trouble in the past, and I feel like I need to say some things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everybody. Tonight I plan on having a talk with my SO about our long-term sustainability as a couple, particularly my worries about it. I want to express that I've felt undesired, due to a lack of affection and expression from her (she is very stoic), and that I worry about how different we are. I've never dated anybody so different from me, and it's turned out more difficult than I thought it would be (barely any shared interests, parallel senses of humor, different wavelengths about how we experience the world).\n\nI just need courage right now. I'm very bad at being up front and tactful when expressing negative emotions. Withholding my feelings has historically gotten me into worse trouble in the past, and I feel like I need to say some things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everybody. Tonight I plan on having a talk with my SO about our long-term sustainability as a couple, particularly my worries about it. I want to express that I've felt undesired, due to a lack of affection and expression from her (she is very stoic), and that I worry about how different we are. I've never dated anybody so different from me, and it's turned out more difficult than I thought it would be (barely any shared interests, parallel senses of humor, different wavelengths about how we experience the world).\n\nI just need courage right now. I'm very bad at being up front and tactful when expressing negative emotions. Withholding my feelings has historically gotten me into worse trouble in the past, and I feel like I need to say some things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some backstory: \n\nWe go to the same university, and have both been attending a club each week. We've gotten to know each other a bit over the last couple months, and after official club activities are over everyone typically goes to a nearby restaurant to basically hang out. Over the last couple weeks we've been sitting more and more on our own and talking for a couple hours. She's a nice girl and I'd at least consider her a friend, but I'm interested in seeing what more could happen.\n\nSo, I decided I'd ask her out. Before I did though, we got to talking and she mentions a board game she likes that a friend of mine happens to own, so I jump on that, and invite her to a game night at my apartment, and I got her number. I decided it might seem a little strange to ask her out after this though, so I put that off. I organized a night to get people together to play games, but she had an exam and decided to study rather than coming.\n\nSo, fast forward to last night, another club meeting. It was all well and good, pretty normal stuff. At the end of the night I figure game night was a bust so back to my original plan. I must admit I didn't put much thought into things as I ask if she wants to get lunch with me the next day (so today). She says sure, \"Hurray\" I think to myself, I've made progress.\n\nSo, we decided on a place to go and met up today at 1:30. We go in, and it was pleasant, we were there about 90 minutes, talking most of the time about various things. But something was missing, it didn't feel like a date, there was no real romance there. It seemed much more like 2 friends out getting lunch. I'm now thinking lunch was perhaps not the best thing, maybe it sends the wrong signals, but I'm not sure how to proceed. Any suggestions on what I should do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some backstory: \n\nWe go to the same university, and have both been attending a club each week. We've gotten to know each other a bit over the last couple months, and after official club activities are over everyone typically goes to a nearby restaurant to basically hang out. Over the last couple weeks we've been sitting more and more on our own and talking for a couple hours. She's a nice girl and I'd at least consider her a friend, but I'm interested in seeing what more could happen.\n\nSo, I decided I'd ask her out. Before I did though, we got to talking and she mentions a board game she likes that a friend of mine happens to own, so I jump on that, and invite her to a game night at my apartment, and I got her number. I decided it might seem a little strange to ask her out after this though, so I put that off. I organized a night to get people together to play games, but she had an exam and decided to study rather than coming.\n\nSo, fast forward to last night, another club meeting. It was all well and good, pretty normal stuff. At the end of the night I figure game night was a bust so back to my original plan. I must admit I didn't put much thought into things as I ask if she wants to get lunch with me the next day (so today). She says sure, \"Hurray\" I think to myself, I've made progress.\n\nSo, we decided on a place to go and met up today at 1:30. We go in, and it was pleasant, we were there about 90 minutes, talking most of the time about various things. But something was missing, it didn't feel like a date, there was no real romance there. It seemed much more like 2 friends out getting lunch. I'm now thinking lunch was perhaps not the best thing, maybe it sends the wrong signals, but I'm not sure how to proceed. Any suggestions on what I should do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some backstory: \n\nWe go to the same university, and have both been attending a club each week. We've gotten to know each other a bit over the last couple months, and after official club activities are over everyone typically goes to a nearby restaurant to basically hang out. Over the last couple weeks we've been sitting more and more on our own and talking for a couple hours. She's a nice girl and I'd at least consider her a friend, but I'm interested in seeing what more could happen.\n\nSo, I decided I'd ask her out. Before I did though, we got to talking and she mentions a board game she likes that a friend of mine happens to own, so I jump on that, and invite her to a game night at my apartment, and I got her number. I decided it might seem a little strange to ask her out after this though, so I put that off. I organized a night to get people together to play games, but she had an exam and decided to study rather than coming.\n\nSo, fast forward to last night, another club meeting. It was all well and good, pretty normal stuff. At the end of the night I figure game night was a bust so back to my original plan. I must admit I didn't put much thought into things as I ask if she wants to get lunch with me the next day (so today). She says sure, \"Hurray\" I think to myself, I've made progress.\n\nSo, we decided on a place to go and met up today at 1:30. We go in, and it was pleasant, we were there about 90 minutes, talking most of the time about various things. But something was missing, it didn't feel like a date, there was no real romance there. It seemed much more like 2 friends out getting lunch. I'm now thinking lunch was perhaps not the best thing, maybe it sends the wrong signals, but I'm not sure how to proceed. Any suggestions on what I should do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some backstory: \n\nWe go to the same university, and have both been attending a club each week. We've gotten to know each other a bit over the last couple months, and after official club activities are over everyone typically goes to a nearby restaurant to basically hang out. Over the last couple weeks we've been sitting more and more on our own and talking for a couple hours. She's a nice girl and I'd at least consider her a friend, but I'm interested in seeing what more could happen.\n\nSo, I decided I'd ask her out. Before I did though, we got to talking and she mentions a board game she likes that a friend of mine happens to own, so I jump on that, and invite her to a game night at my apartment, and I got her number. I decided it might seem a little strange to ask her out after this though, so I put that off. I organized a night to get people together to play games, but she had an exam and decided to study rather than coming.\n\nSo, fast forward to last night, another club meeting. It was all well and good, pretty normal stuff. At the end of the night I figure game night was a bust so back to my original plan. I must admit I didn't put much thought into things as I ask if she wants to get lunch with me the next day (so today). She says sure, \"Hurray\" I think to myself, I've made progress.\n\nSo, we decided on a place to go and met up today at 1:30. We go in, and it was pleasant, we were there about 90 minutes, talking most of the time about various things. But something was missing, it didn't feel like a date, there was no real romance there. It seemed much more like 2 friends out getting lunch. I'm now thinking lunch was perhaps not the best thing, maybe it sends the wrong signals, but I'm not sure how to proceed. Any suggestions on what I should do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some backstory: \n\nWe go to the same university, and have both been attending a club each week. We've gotten to know each other a bit over the last couple months, and after official club activities are over everyone typically goes to a nearby restaurant to basically hang out. Over the last couple weeks we've been sitting more and more on our own and talking for a couple hours. She's a nice girl and I'd at least consider her a friend, but I'm interested in seeing what more could happen.\n\nSo, I decided I'd ask her out. Before I did though, we got to talking and she mentions a board game she likes that a friend of mine happens to own, so I jump on that, and invite her to a game night at my apartment, and I got her number. I decided it might seem a little strange to ask her out after this though, so I put that off. I organized a night to get people together to play games, but she had an exam and decided to study rather than coming.\n\nSo, fast forward to last night, another club meeting. It was all well and good, pretty normal stuff. At the end of the night I figure game night was a bust so back to my original plan. I must admit I didn't put much thought into things as I ask if she wants to get lunch with me the next day (so today). She says sure, \"Hurray\" I think to myself, I've made progress.\n\nSo, we decided on a place to go and met up today at 1:30. We go in, and it was pleasant, we were there about 90 minutes, talking most of the time about various things. But something was missing, it didn't feel like a date, there was no real romance there. It seemed much more like 2 friends out getting lunch. I'm now thinking lunch was perhaps not the best thing, maybe it sends the wrong signals, but I'm not sure how to proceed. Any suggestions on what I should do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some backstory: \n\nWe go to the same university, and have both been attending a club each week. We've gotten to know each other a bit over the last couple months, and after official club activities are over everyone typically goes to a nearby restaurant to basically hang out. Over the last couple weeks we've been sitting more and more on our own and talking for a couple hours. She's a nice girl and I'd at least consider her a friend, but I'm interested in seeing what more could happen.\n\nSo, I decided I'd ask her out. Before I did though, we got to talking and she mentions a board game she likes that a friend of mine happens to own, so I jump on that, and invite her to a game night at my apartment, and I got her number. I decided it might seem a little strange to ask her out after this though, so I put that off. I organized a night to get people together to play games, but she had an exam and decided to study rather than coming.\n\nSo, fast forward to last night, another club meeting. It was all well and good, pretty normal stuff. At the end of the night I figure game night was a bust so back to my original plan. I must admit I didn't put much thought into things as I ask if she wants to get lunch with me the next day (so today). She says sure, \"Hurray\" I think to myself, I've made progress.\n\nSo, we decided on a place to go and met up today at 1:30. We go in, and it was pleasant, we were there about 90 minutes, talking most of the time about various things. But something was missing, it didn't feel like a date, there was no real romance there. It seemed much more like 2 friends out getting lunch. I'm now thinking lunch was perhaps not the best thing, maybe it sends the wrong signals, but I'm not sure how to proceed. Any suggestions on what I should do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for 8 month now. We really love each other and neither of us could imagine a better relationship. We're best friends and the sex is mutually great.\n\nThere's just one toxic issue that I can't seem to get out of my head. Months ago, my girlfriend and I were talking about sex and I asked her offhand if she had ever squirted. She said yes, once, when she was drunk and getting fucked really hard by a guy she was hooking up with and he told her that she was squirting. \n\nI know it's irrational and stupid to be bothered about this, but I can't get it out of my head. Though I'm the first guy she's consistently had orgasms with, not once has she squirted in the hundreds of times we've had sex. It's not too uncommon for her to feel like she has to pee (supposed to be a clue that she has to squirt) in certain positions, but she's never actually done it with me. The other day I gave her a nice massage and fingered her with the \"come hither\" motion, yet it still didn't work (though she said she felt very close).\n\nI realize that this is a non-issue from a rational standpoint, and it's something that she couldn't care less about. Still, I can't help but feel inadequate when I compare myself to some guy that she wasn't even dating and didn't have serious feelings for that made her squirt with his dick when he wasn't even trying. I want it to happen so I can put this issue to rest in my mind, but I feel pathetic when I actually try to get her to squirt with my fingers and am unable to. \n\nI just hate that this guy is taking up so much of my mental space. Any advice on what I/we should do in this situation would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for 8 month now. We really love each other and neither of us could imagine a better relationship. We're best friends and the sex is mutually great.\n\nThere's just one toxic issue that I can't seem to get out of my head. Months ago, my girlfriend and I were talking about sex and I asked her offhand if she had ever squirted. She said yes, once, when she was drunk and getting fucked really hard by a guy she was hooking up with and he told her that she was squirting. \n\nI know it's irrational and stupid to be bothered about this, but I can't get it out of my head. Though I'm the first guy she's consistently had orgasms with, not once has she squirted in the hundreds of times we've had sex. It's not too uncommon for her to feel like she has to pee (supposed to be a clue that she has to squirt) in certain positions, but she's never actually done it with me. The other day I gave her a nice massage and fingered her with the \"come hither\" motion, yet it still didn't work (though she said she felt very close).\n\nI realize that this is a non-issue from a rational standpoint, and it's something that she couldn't care less about. Still, I can't help but feel inadequate when I compare myself to some guy that she wasn't even dating and didn't have serious feelings for that made her squirt with his dick when he wasn't even trying. I want it to happen so I can put this issue to rest in my mind, but I feel pathetic when I actually try to get her to squirt with my fingers and am unable to. \n\nI just hate that this guy is taking up so much of my mental space. Any advice on what I/we should do in this situation would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for 8 month now. We really love each other and neither of us could imagine a better relationship. We're best friends and the sex is mutually great.\n\nThere's just one toxic issue that I can't seem to get out of my head. Months ago, my girlfriend and I were talking about sex and I asked her offhand if she had ever squirted. She said yes, once, when she was drunk and getting fucked really hard by a guy she was hooking up with and he told her that she was squirting. \n\nI know it's irrational and stupid to be bothered about this, but I can't get it out of my head. Though I'm the first guy she's consistently had orgasms with, not once has she squirted in the hundreds of times we've had sex. It's not too uncommon for her to feel like she has to pee (supposed to be a clue that she has to squirt) in certain positions, but she's never actually done it with me. The other day I gave her a nice massage and fingered her with the \"come hither\" motion, yet it still didn't work (though she said she felt very close).\n\nI realize that this is a non-issue from a rational standpoint, and it's something that she couldn't care less about. Still, I can't help but feel inadequate when I compare myself to some guy that she wasn't even dating and didn't have serious feelings for that made her squirt with his dick when he wasn't even trying. I want it to happen so I can put this issue to rest in my mind, but I feel pathetic when I actually try to get her to squirt with my fingers and am unable to. \n\nI just hate that this guy is taking up so much of my mental space. Any advice on what I/we should do in this situation would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for 8 month now. We really love each other and neither of us could imagine a better relationship. We're best friends and the sex is mutually great.\n\nThere's just one toxic issue that I can't seem to get out of my head. Months ago, my girlfriend and I were talking about sex and I asked her offhand if she had ever squirted. She said yes, once, when she was drunk and getting fucked really hard by a guy she was hooking up with and he told her that she was squirting. \n\nI know it's irrational and stupid to be bothered about this, but I can't get it out of my head. Though I'm the first guy she's consistently had orgasms with, not once has she squirted in the hundreds of times we've had sex. It's not too uncommon for her to feel like she has to pee (supposed to be a clue that she has to squirt) in certain positions, but she's never actually done it with me. The other day I gave her a nice massage and fingered her with the \"come hither\" motion, yet it still didn't work (though she said she felt very close).\n\nI realize that this is a non-issue from a rational standpoint, and it's something that she couldn't care less about. Still, I can't help but feel inadequate when I compare myself to some guy that she wasn't even dating and didn't have serious feelings for that made her squirt with his dick when he wasn't even trying. I want it to happen so I can put this issue to rest in my mind, but I feel pathetic when I actually try to get her to squirt with my fingers and am unable to. \n\nI just hate that this guy is taking up so much of my mental space. Any advice on what I/we should do in this situation would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for 8 month now. We really love each other and neither of us could imagine a better relationship. We're best friends and the sex is mutually great.\n\nThere's just one toxic issue that I can't seem to get out of my head. Months ago, my girlfriend and I were talking about sex and I asked her offhand if she had ever squirted. She said yes, once, when she was drunk and getting fucked really hard by a guy she was hooking up with and he told her that she was squirting. \n\nI know it's irrational and stupid to be bothered about this, but I can't get it out of my head. Though I'm the first guy she's consistently had orgasms with, not once has she squirted in the hundreds of times we've had sex. It's not too uncommon for her to feel like she has to pee (supposed to be a clue that she has to squirt) in certain positions, but she's never actually done it with me. The other day I gave her a nice massage and fingered her with the \"come hither\" motion, yet it still didn't work (though she said she felt very close).\n\nI realize that this is a non-issue from a rational standpoint, and it's something that she couldn't care less about. Still, I can't help but feel inadequate when I compare myself to some guy that she wasn't even dating and didn't have serious feelings for that made her squirt with his dick when he wasn't even trying. I want it to happen so I can put this issue to rest in my mind, but I feel pathetic when I actually try to get her to squirt with my fingers and am unable to. \n\nI just hate that this guy is taking up so much of my mental space. Any advice on what I/we should do in this situation would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for 8 month now. We really love each other and neither of us could imagine a better relationship. We're best friends and the sex is mutually great.\n\nThere's just one toxic issue that I can't seem to get out of my head. Months ago, my girlfriend and I were talking about sex and I asked her offhand if she had ever squirted. She said yes, once, when she was drunk and getting fucked really hard by a guy she was hooking up with and he told her that she was squirting. \n\nI know it's irrational and stupid to be bothered about this, but I can't get it out of my head. Though I'm the first guy she's consistently had orgasms with, not once has she squirted in the hundreds of times we've had sex. It's not too uncommon for her to feel like she has to pee (supposed to be a clue that she has to squirt) in certain positions, but she's never actually done it with me. The other day I gave her a nice massage and fingered her with the \"come hither\" motion, yet it still didn't work (though she said she felt very close).\n\nI realize that this is a non-issue from a rational standpoint, and it's something that she couldn't care less about. Still, I can't help but feel inadequate when I compare myself to some guy that she wasn't even dating and didn't have serious feelings for that made her squirt with his dick when he wasn't even trying. I want it to happen so I can put this issue to rest in my mind, but I feel pathetic when I actually try to get her to squirt with my fingers and am unable to. \n\nI just hate that this guy is taking up so much of my mental space. Any advice on what I/we should do in this situation would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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