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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Guys,\n\nI have been a casual runner for about 6 years, usually running about 3-6 miles 3-6 times a week. I don't often time my runs and my pace varies depending on the day/how my body feels. One of the things I like about running is that I choose to make it non-competitive. So, in short, is this type of running actually helping my body stay healthy? What advice do you have for someone looking to stay healthy but not necessarily training for anything? I combine my runs with a quick push-up/sit-up routine at the end and typically finish my warm down with a headstand and some meditation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit! I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 16 months yesterday. I was really happy in the relationship and all of this really took me by surprise. \n\nI went to talk to my best friend for comfort because I was (naturally) feeling confused and upset and she immediately told a guy that she knew has had feelings for me for several years. This guy, I'll call him A, reaches out to me and starts asking me to go on a date. I feel uncomfortable with the idea of going out with somebody so soon as I think that I need to give myself time to come to terms with what's happening in my life. \n\nI told him I didn't think I could do it, at which point he began telling me I was stupid for ever entering in my last relationship and that my ex never loved me the way this guy does, or at all. I feel like this is a little too manipulative on his end, but also a pretty disrespectful thing to say. He's now telling me that if I don't date him, I will regret it and that he will appreciate a girl like me more than anyone else will. Am I right to think that I need time to find myself right now or am I just being a frigid bitch? \n\nI'm feeling lost. This isn't my first serious breakup after a long-term relationship, but the difference with this one is that my feelings were/are much stronger and that I can't look back and find obvious flaws in my ex. How do I deal with a breakup like this? I've thrown myself back into running which makes me happy, but what else can I do to get over this faster? (Or is it naive of me to expect that there's some trick to getting my shit together as soon as possible?)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit! I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 16 months yesterday. I was really happy in the relationship and all of this really took me by surprise. \n\nI went to talk to my best friend for comfort because I was (naturally) feeling confused and upset and she immediately told a guy that she knew has had feelings for me for several years. This guy, I'll call him A, reaches out to me and starts asking me to go on a date. I feel uncomfortable with the idea of going out with somebody so soon as I think that I need to give myself time to come to terms with what's happening in my life. \n\nI told him I didn't think I could do it, at which point he began telling me I was stupid for ever entering in my last relationship and that my ex never loved me the way this guy does, or at all. I feel like this is a little too manipulative on his end, but also a pretty disrespectful thing to say. He's now telling me that if I don't date him, I will regret it and that he will appreciate a girl like me more than anyone else will. Am I right to think that I need time to find myself right now or am I just being a frigid bitch? \n\nI'm feeling lost. This isn't my first serious breakup after a long-term relationship, but the difference with this one is that my feelings were/are much stronger and that I can't look back and find obvious flaws in my ex. How do I deal with a breakup like this? I've thrown myself back into running which makes me happy, but what else can I do to get over this faster? (Or is it naive of me to expect that there's some trick to getting my shit together as soon as possible?)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit! I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 16 months yesterday. I was really happy in the relationship and all of this really took me by surprise. \n\nI went to talk to my best friend for comfort because I was (naturally) feeling confused and upset and she immediately told a guy that she knew has had feelings for me for several years. This guy, I'll call him A, reaches out to me and starts asking me to go on a date. I feel uncomfortable with the idea of going out with somebody so soon as I think that I need to give myself time to come to terms with what's happening in my life. \n\nI told him I didn't think I could do it, at which point he began telling me I was stupid for ever entering in my last relationship and that my ex never loved me the way this guy does, or at all. I feel like this is a little too manipulative on his end, but also a pretty disrespectful thing to say. He's now telling me that if I don't date him, I will regret it and that he will appreciate a girl like me more than anyone else will. Am I right to think that I need time to find myself right now or am I just being a frigid bitch? \n\nI'm feeling lost. This isn't my first serious breakup after a long-term relationship, but the difference with this one is that my feelings were/are much stronger and that I can't look back and find obvious flaws in my ex. How do I deal with a breakup like this? I've thrown myself back into running which makes me happy, but what else can I do to get over this faster? (Or is it naive of me to expect that there's some trick to getting my shit together as soon as possible?)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit! I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 16 months yesterday. I was really happy in the relationship and all of this really took me by surprise. \n\nI went to talk to my best friend for comfort because I was (naturally) feeling confused and upset and she immediately told a guy that she knew has had feelings for me for several years. This guy, I'll call him A, reaches out to me and starts asking me to go on a date. I feel uncomfortable with the idea of going out with somebody so soon as I think that I need to give myself time to come to terms with what's happening in my life. \n\nI told him I didn't think I could do it, at which point he began telling me I was stupid for ever entering in my last relationship and that my ex never loved me the way this guy does, or at all. I feel like this is a little too manipulative on his end, but also a pretty disrespectful thing to say. He's now telling me that if I don't date him, I will regret it and that he will appreciate a girl like me more than anyone else will. Am I right to think that I need time to find myself right now or am I just being a frigid bitch? \n\nI'm feeling lost. This isn't my first serious breakup after a long-term relationship, but the difference with this one is that my feelings were/are much stronger and that I can't look back and find obvious flaws in my ex. How do I deal with a breakup like this? I've thrown myself back into running which makes me happy, but what else can I do to get over this faster? (Or is it naive of me to expect that there's some trick to getting my shit together as soon as possible?)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit! I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 16 months yesterday. I was really happy in the relationship and all of this really took me by surprise. \n\nI went to talk to my best friend for comfort because I was (naturally) feeling confused and upset and she immediately told a guy that she knew has had feelings for me for several years. This guy, I'll call him A, reaches out to me and starts asking me to go on a date. I feel uncomfortable with the idea of going out with somebody so soon as I think that I need to give myself time to come to terms with what's happening in my life. \n\nI told him I didn't think I could do it, at which point he began telling me I was stupid for ever entering in my last relationship and that my ex never loved me the way this guy does, or at all. I feel like this is a little too manipulative on his end, but also a pretty disrespectful thing to say. He's now telling me that if I don't date him, I will regret it and that he will appreciate a girl like me more than anyone else will. Am I right to think that I need time to find myself right now or am I just being a frigid bitch? \n\nI'm feeling lost. This isn't my first serious breakup after a long-term relationship, but the difference with this one is that my feelings were/are much stronger and that I can't look back and find obvious flaws in my ex. How do I deal with a breakup like this? I've thrown myself back into running which makes me happy, but what else can I do to get over this faster? (Or is it naive of me to expect that there's some trick to getting my shit together as soon as possible?)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit! I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 16 months yesterday. I was really happy in the relationship and all of this really took me by surprise. \n\nI went to talk to my best friend for comfort because I was (naturally) feeling confused and upset and she immediately told a guy that she knew has had feelings for me for several years. This guy, I'll call him A, reaches out to me and starts asking me to go on a date. I feel uncomfortable with the idea of going out with somebody so soon as I think that I need to give myself time to come to terms with what's happening in my life. \n\nI told him I didn't think I could do it, at which point he began telling me I was stupid for ever entering in my last relationship and that my ex never loved me the way this guy does, or at all. I feel like this is a little too manipulative on his end, but also a pretty disrespectful thing to say. He's now telling me that if I don't date him, I will regret it and that he will appreciate a girl like me more than anyone else will. Am I right to think that I need time to find myself right now or am I just being a frigid bitch? \n\nI'm feeling lost. This isn't my first serious breakup after a long-term relationship, but the difference with this one is that my feelings were/are much stronger and that I can't look back and find obvious flaws in my ex. How do I deal with a breakup like this? I've thrown myself back into running which makes me happy, but what else can I do to get over this faster? (Or is it naive of me to expect that there's some trick to getting my shit together as soon as possible?)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not too long ago I submitted [this post]( about my being uncomfortable with my boyfriend wanting to take pictures of me. \n\nI ultimately decided I wasn't comfortable being the subject of his photography at all, for nude shoots or clothed shoots. For some reason, the fact that he has done photoshoots with countless other exes really bothers me. I know that's not reasonable but I haven't been able to shake the discomfort.\n\nI was waiting for the right moment to bring it up. For better or worse, it ultimately came out when he told me that he received a request on Model Mayhem from a female model who usually does work for pay, but wanted him to take her photos \"pose for print\" (she will pose and get free prints, and they both benefit). \n\nI asked him if he got the impression anything about the shoot would be sensual or flirtatious, and in more words he basically said flirting brings out the best shots. I told him that I was uncomfortable with him shooting naked women and I was uncomfortable with him knowingly heading into a situation where he would be flirtatious with some other woman. Those are my hard limits on the situation.\n\nBetween telling him that I was uncomfortable with him shooting nude women, flirting with models, and photographing me, he took that as me being generally unsupportive of his hobby and even condemning it. I tried explaining that this wasn't the case. Unbeknownst to him I have been searching for the perfect photography-related birthday gift for awhile, including a cool place to go take shots and some photo books that would serve as inspiration.\n\nI don't see myself becoming comfortable with being his \"model\" or him shooting nudes or flirting with models anytime soon. But I don't want to be so restrictive about a hobby he loves. Advice anyone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not too long ago I submitted [this post]( about my being uncomfortable with my boyfriend wanting to take pictures of me. \n\nI ultimately decided I wasn't comfortable being the subject of his photography at all, for nude shoots or clothed shoots. For some reason, the fact that he has done photoshoots with countless other exes really bothers me. I know that's not reasonable but I haven't been able to shake the discomfort.\n\nI was waiting for the right moment to bring it up. For better or worse, it ultimately came out when he told me that he received a request on Model Mayhem from a female model who usually does work for pay, but wanted him to take her photos \"pose for print\" (she will pose and get free prints, and they both benefit). \n\nI asked him if he got the impression anything about the shoot would be sensual or flirtatious, and in more words he basically said flirting brings out the best shots. I told him that I was uncomfortable with him shooting naked women and I was uncomfortable with him knowingly heading into a situation where he would be flirtatious with some other woman. Those are my hard limits on the situation.\n\nBetween telling him that I was uncomfortable with him shooting nude women, flirting with models, and photographing me, he took that as me being generally unsupportive of his hobby and even condemning it. I tried explaining that this wasn't the case. Unbeknownst to him I have been searching for the perfect photography-related birthday gift for awhile, including a cool place to go take shots and some photo books that would serve as inspiration.\n\nI don't see myself becoming comfortable with being his \"model\" or him shooting nudes or flirting with models anytime soon. But I don't want to be so restrictive about a hobby he loves. Advice anyone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not too long ago I submitted [this post]( about my being uncomfortable with my boyfriend wanting to take pictures of me. \n\nI ultimately decided I wasn't comfortable being the subject of his photography at all, for nude shoots or clothed shoots. For some reason, the fact that he has done photoshoots with countless other exes really bothers me. I know that's not reasonable but I haven't been able to shake the discomfort.\n\nI was waiting for the right moment to bring it up. For better or worse, it ultimately came out when he told me that he received a request on Model Mayhem from a female model who usually does work for pay, but wanted him to take her photos \"pose for print\" (she will pose and get free prints, and they both benefit). \n\nI asked him if he got the impression anything about the shoot would be sensual or flirtatious, and in more words he basically said flirting brings out the best shots. I told him that I was uncomfortable with him shooting naked women and I was uncomfortable with him knowingly heading into a situation where he would be flirtatious with some other woman. Those are my hard limits on the situation.\n\nBetween telling him that I was uncomfortable with him shooting nude women, flirting with models, and photographing me, he took that as me being generally unsupportive of his hobby and even condemning it. I tried explaining that this wasn't the case. Unbeknownst to him I have been searching for the perfect photography-related birthday gift for awhile, including a cool place to go take shots and some photo books that would serve as inspiration.\n\nI don't see myself becoming comfortable with being his \"model\" or him shooting nudes or flirting with models anytime soon. But I don't want to be so restrictive about a hobby he loves. Advice anyone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not too long ago I submitted [this post]( about my being uncomfortable with my boyfriend wanting to take pictures of me. \n\nI ultimately decided I wasn't comfortable being the subject of his photography at all, for nude shoots or clothed shoots. For some reason, the fact that he has done photoshoots with countless other exes really bothers me. I know that's not reasonable but I haven't been able to shake the discomfort.\n\nI was waiting for the right moment to bring it up. For better or worse, it ultimately came out when he told me that he received a request on Model Mayhem from a female model who usually does work for pay, but wanted him to take her photos \"pose for print\" (she will pose and get free prints, and they both benefit). \n\nI asked him if he got the impression anything about the shoot would be sensual or flirtatious, and in more words he basically said flirting brings out the best shots. I told him that I was uncomfortable with him shooting naked women and I was uncomfortable with him knowingly heading into a situation where he would be flirtatious with some other woman. Those are my hard limits on the situation.\n\nBetween telling him that I was uncomfortable with him shooting nude women, flirting with models, and photographing me, he took that as me being generally unsupportive of his hobby and even condemning it. I tried explaining that this wasn't the case. Unbeknownst to him I have been searching for the perfect photography-related birthday gift for awhile, including a cool place to go take shots and some photo books that would serve as inspiration.\n\nI don't see myself becoming comfortable with being his \"model\" or him shooting nudes or flirting with models anytime soon. But I don't want to be so restrictive about a hobby he loves. Advice anyone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not too long ago I submitted [this post]( about my being uncomfortable with my boyfriend wanting to take pictures of me. \n\nI ultimately decided I wasn't comfortable being the subject of his photography at all, for nude shoots or clothed shoots. For some reason, the fact that he has done photoshoots with countless other exes really bothers me. I know that's not reasonable but I haven't been able to shake the discomfort.\n\nI was waiting for the right moment to bring it up. For better or worse, it ultimately came out when he told me that he received a request on Model Mayhem from a female model who usually does work for pay, but wanted him to take her photos \"pose for print\" (she will pose and get free prints, and they both benefit). \n\nI asked him if he got the impression anything about the shoot would be sensual or flirtatious, and in more words he basically said flirting brings out the best shots. I told him that I was uncomfortable with him shooting naked women and I was uncomfortable with him knowingly heading into a situation where he would be flirtatious with some other woman. Those are my hard limits on the situation.\n\nBetween telling him that I was uncomfortable with him shooting nude women, flirting with models, and photographing me, he took that as me being generally unsupportive of his hobby and even condemning it. I tried explaining that this wasn't the case. Unbeknownst to him I have been searching for the perfect photography-related birthday gift for awhile, including a cool place to go take shots and some photo books that would serve as inspiration.\n\nI don't see myself becoming comfortable with being his \"model\" or him shooting nudes or flirting with models anytime soon. But I don't want to be so restrictive about a hobby he loves. Advice anyone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not too long ago I submitted [this post]( about my being uncomfortable with my boyfriend wanting to take pictures of me. \n\nI ultimately decided I wasn't comfortable being the subject of his photography at all, for nude shoots or clothed shoots. For some reason, the fact that he has done photoshoots with countless other exes really bothers me. I know that's not reasonable but I haven't been able to shake the discomfort.\n\nI was waiting for the right moment to bring it up. For better or worse, it ultimately came out when he told me that he received a request on Model Mayhem from a female model who usually does work for pay, but wanted him to take her photos \"pose for print\" (she will pose and get free prints, and they both benefit). \n\nI asked him if he got the impression anything about the shoot would be sensual or flirtatious, and in more words he basically said flirting brings out the best shots. I told him that I was uncomfortable with him shooting naked women and I was uncomfortable with him knowingly heading into a situation where he would be flirtatious with some other woman. Those are my hard limits on the situation.\n\nBetween telling him that I was uncomfortable with him shooting nude women, flirting with models, and photographing me, he took that as me being generally unsupportive of his hobby and even condemning it. I tried explaining that this wasn't the case. Unbeknownst to him I have been searching for the perfect photography-related birthday gift for awhile, including a cool place to go take shots and some photo books that would serve as inspiration.\n\nI don't see myself becoming comfortable with being his \"model\" or him shooting nudes or flirting with models anytime soon. But I don't want to be so restrictive about a hobby he loves. Advice anyone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He is obsessed with drinking and being out always. It's always been a problem. When we first started dating, he would get close-the-bar-pass-out-on-the-sidewalk drunk a few nights a week. It has slowed down over the last two years, however he still drinks everyday, and never spends any time at home. As a result, I have found my self drinking more because I want to spend time with him.\n\nHe is financially a mess. Can't save for his life. Can't pay bills on time. Often I have to lay everything out for him and insist he does it. He doesn't help out around the apartment any more. He stopped due to an injury (yet he could still bar hop) in July that has since healed. It is such a turn off that his much younger girlfriend has to be the mature one here, and really quite exhausting.\n\nWe have a dog together. I mean I paid for the dog and all other expenses that followed. Couldn't be bothered to ask him. I do recognize how much love he has for the dog though, so we will have to work something out.\n\nSex happens every few weeks. He is always drunk or tired - over all not as sexual as I am.\n\nIt's obvious that I need to move on. I know I've painted an ugly portrait, but he is generally GOOD. He has so much heart, and I love him a lot. It will be hard. We do live together and the lease isn't up until June. I'm fine living together. It's a one bed room neither one of us can afford to take on the full rent. He been mostly sleeping on the couch anyways. I don't really want to move yet, but I don't know how he will react.\n\nWe have talked about all of this many times and nothing has changed.\n\nI guess I'm just looking for a word of advice. Curious if any one has been in a similar situation. I just want to get back to enjoying young adulthood. I think it's time to focus on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He is obsessed with drinking and being out always. It's always been a problem. When we first started dating, he would get close-the-bar-pass-out-on-the-sidewalk drunk a few nights a week. It has slowed down over the last two years, however he still drinks everyday, and never spends any time at home. As a result, I have found my self drinking more because I want to spend time with him.\n\nHe is financially a mess. Can't save for his life. Can't pay bills on time. Often I have to lay everything out for him and insist he does it. He doesn't help out around the apartment any more. He stopped due to an injury (yet he could still bar hop) in July that has since healed. It is such a turn off that his much younger girlfriend has to be the mature one here, and really quite exhausting.\n\nWe have a dog together. I mean I paid for the dog and all other expenses that followed. Couldn't be bothered to ask him. I do recognize how much love he has for the dog though, so we will have to work something out.\n\nSex happens every few weeks. He is always drunk or tired - over all not as sexual as I am.\n\nIt's obvious that I need to move on. I know I've painted an ugly portrait, but he is generally GOOD. He has so much heart, and I love him a lot. It will be hard. We do live together and the lease isn't up until June. I'm fine living together. It's a one bed room neither one of us can afford to take on the full rent. He been mostly sleeping on the couch anyways. I don't really want to move yet, but I don't know how he will react.\n\nWe have talked about all of this many times and nothing has changed.\n\nI guess I'm just looking for a word of advice. Curious if any one has been in a similar situation. I just want to get back to enjoying young adulthood. I think it's time to focus on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He is obsessed with drinking and being out always. It's always been a problem. When we first started dating, he would get close-the-bar-pass-out-on-the-sidewalk drunk a few nights a week. It has slowed down over the last two years, however he still drinks everyday, and never spends any time at home. As a result, I have found my self drinking more because I want to spend time with him.\n\nHe is financially a mess. Can't save for his life. Can't pay bills on time. Often I have to lay everything out for him and insist he does it. He doesn't help out around the apartment any more. He stopped due to an injury (yet he could still bar hop) in July that has since healed. It is such a turn off that his much younger girlfriend has to be the mature one here, and really quite exhausting.\n\nWe have a dog together. I mean I paid for the dog and all other expenses that followed. Couldn't be bothered to ask him. I do recognize how much love he has for the dog though, so we will have to work something out.\n\nSex happens every few weeks. He is always drunk or tired - over all not as sexual as I am.\n\nIt's obvious that I need to move on. I know I've painted an ugly portrait, but he is generally GOOD. He has so much heart, and I love him a lot. It will be hard. We do live together and the lease isn't up until June. I'm fine living together. It's a one bed room neither one of us can afford to take on the full rent. He been mostly sleeping on the couch anyways. I don't really want to move yet, but I don't know how he will react.\n\nWe have talked about all of this many times and nothing has changed.\n\nI guess I'm just looking for a word of advice. Curious if any one has been in a similar situation. I just want to get back to enjoying young adulthood. I think it's time to focus on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He is obsessed with drinking and being out always. It's always been a problem. When we first started dating, he would get close-the-bar-pass-out-on-the-sidewalk drunk a few nights a week. It has slowed down over the last two years, however he still drinks everyday, and never spends any time at home. As a result, I have found my self drinking more because I want to spend time with him.\n\nHe is financially a mess. Can't save for his life. Can't pay bills on time. Often I have to lay everything out for him and insist he does it. He doesn't help out around the apartment any more. He stopped due to an injury (yet he could still bar hop) in July that has since healed. It is such a turn off that his much younger girlfriend has to be the mature one here, and really quite exhausting.\n\nWe have a dog together. I mean I paid for the dog and all other expenses that followed. Couldn't be bothered to ask him. I do recognize how much love he has for the dog though, so we will have to work something out.\n\nSex happens every few weeks. He is always drunk or tired - over all not as sexual as I am.\n\nIt's obvious that I need to move on. I know I've painted an ugly portrait, but he is generally GOOD. He has so much heart, and I love him a lot. It will be hard. We do live together and the lease isn't up until June. I'm fine living together. It's a one bed room neither one of us can afford to take on the full rent. He been mostly sleeping on the couch anyways. I don't really want to move yet, but I don't know how he will react.\n\nWe have talked about all of this many times and nothing has changed.\n\nI guess I'm just looking for a word of advice. Curious if any one has been in a similar situation. I just want to get back to enjoying young adulthood. I think it's time to focus on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He is obsessed with drinking and being out always. It's always been a problem. When we first started dating, he would get close-the-bar-pass-out-on-the-sidewalk drunk a few nights a week. It has slowed down over the last two years, however he still drinks everyday, and never spends any time at home. As a result, I have found my self drinking more because I want to spend time with him.\n\nHe is financially a mess. Can't save for his life. Can't pay bills on time. Often I have to lay everything out for him and insist he does it. He doesn't help out around the apartment any more. He stopped due to an injury (yet he could still bar hop) in July that has since healed. It is such a turn off that his much younger girlfriend has to be the mature one here, and really quite exhausting.\n\nWe have a dog together. I mean I paid for the dog and all other expenses that followed. Couldn't be bothered to ask him. I do recognize how much love he has for the dog though, so we will have to work something out.\n\nSex happens every few weeks. He is always drunk or tired - over all not as sexual as I am.\n\nIt's obvious that I need to move on. I know I've painted an ugly portrait, but he is generally GOOD. He has so much heart, and I love him a lot. It will be hard. We do live together and the lease isn't up until June. I'm fine living together. It's a one bed room neither one of us can afford to take on the full rent. He been mostly sleeping on the couch anyways. I don't really want to move yet, but I don't know how he will react.\n\nWe have talked about all of this many times and nothing has changed.\n\nI guess I'm just looking for a word of advice. Curious if any one has been in a similar situation. I just want to get back to enjoying young adulthood. I think it's time to focus on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He is obsessed with drinking and being out always. It's always been a problem. When we first started dating, he would get close-the-bar-pass-out-on-the-sidewalk drunk a few nights a week. It has slowed down over the last two years, however he still drinks everyday, and never spends any time at home. As a result, I have found my self drinking more because I want to spend time with him.\n\nHe is financially a mess. Can't save for his life. Can't pay bills on time. Often I have to lay everything out for him and insist he does it. He doesn't help out around the apartment any more. He stopped due to an injury (yet he could still bar hop) in July that has since healed. It is such a turn off that his much younger girlfriend has to be the mature one here, and really quite exhausting.\n\nWe have a dog together. I mean I paid for the dog and all other expenses that followed. Couldn't be bothered to ask him. I do recognize how much love he has for the dog though, so we will have to work something out.\n\nSex happens every few weeks. He is always drunk or tired - over all not as sexual as I am.\n\nIt's obvious that I need to move on. I know I've painted an ugly portrait, but he is generally GOOD. He has so much heart, and I love him a lot. It will be hard. We do live together and the lease isn't up until June. I'm fine living together. It's a one bed room neither one of us can afford to take on the full rent. He been mostly sleeping on the couch anyways. I don't really want to move yet, but I don't know how he will react.\n\nWe have talked about all of this many times and nothing has changed.\n\nI guess I'm just looking for a word of advice. Curious if any one has been in a similar situation. I just want to get back to enjoying young adulthood. I think it's time to focus on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just broke up with my gf of 1.5 years. I broke up with her after about a year because I didn't want to do long distance anymore. I tried to give it a second shot, but I can't do the long distance anymore.\n\nWe started the relationship when we lived near each other, but I had to move away for work. Because of where we are in life (me, military; her: student) moving together is not viable. I ended it this morning and I just got a response back from her.\n\nShe said \"I can't believe you. You've broken my heart for the second time. This is the most mean and hurtful thing anyone has ever done to me.\" Those words hurt me, but I can't imagine what she's going through.\n\nShould I make this a clean break and just not respond? I don't want to get in to a fight with her (something that never happened in our relationship, other than LDR. it was the perfect relationship.) There was no way to end this on good terms as she was very much in love with me and wouldn't respond well to even bringing up the possibility of a break, or anything like that.\n\nI hate to be an asshole and not respond to her. She was my best friend, but I just can't do long distance anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just broke up with my gf of 1.5 years. I broke up with her after about a year because I didn't want to do long distance anymore. I tried to give it a second shot, but I can't do the long distance anymore.\n\nWe started the relationship when we lived near each other, but I had to move away for work. Because of where we are in life (me, military; her: student) moving together is not viable. I ended it this morning and I just got a response back from her.\n\nShe said \"I can't believe you. You've broken my heart for the second time. This is the most mean and hurtful thing anyone has ever done to me.\" Those words hurt me, but I can't imagine what she's going through.\n\nShould I make this a clean break and just not respond? I don't want to get in to a fight with her (something that never happened in our relationship, other than LDR. it was the perfect relationship.) There was no way to end this on good terms as she was very much in love with me and wouldn't respond well to even bringing up the possibility of a break, or anything like that.\n\nI hate to be an asshole and not respond to her. She was my best friend, but I just can't do long distance anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just broke up with my gf of 1.5 years. I broke up with her after about a year because I didn't want to do long distance anymore. I tried to give it a second shot, but I can't do the long distance anymore.\n\nWe started the relationship when we lived near each other, but I had to move away for work. Because of where we are in life (me, military; her: student) moving together is not viable. I ended it this morning and I just got a response back from her.\n\nShe said \"I can't believe you. You've broken my heart for the second time. This is the most mean and hurtful thing anyone has ever done to me.\" Those words hurt me, but I can't imagine what she's going through.\n\nShould I make this a clean break and just not respond? I don't want to get in to a fight with her (something that never happened in our relationship, other than LDR. it was the perfect relationship.) There was no way to end this on good terms as she was very much in love with me and wouldn't respond well to even bringing up the possibility of a break, or anything like that.\n\nI hate to be an asshole and not respond to her. She was my best friend, but I just can't do long distance anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just broke up with my gf of 1.5 years. I broke up with her after about a year because I didn't want to do long distance anymore. I tried to give it a second shot, but I can't do the long distance anymore.\n\nWe started the relationship when we lived near each other, but I had to move away for work. Because of where we are in life (me, military; her: student) moving together is not viable. I ended it this morning and I just got a response back from her.\n\nShe said \"I can't believe you. You've broken my heart for the second time. This is the most mean and hurtful thing anyone has ever done to me.\" Those words hurt me, but I can't imagine what she's going through.\n\nShould I make this a clean break and just not respond? I don't want to get in to a fight with her (something that never happened in our relationship, other than LDR. it was the perfect relationship.) There was no way to end this on good terms as she was very much in love with me and wouldn't respond well to even bringing up the possibility of a break, or anything like that.\n\nI hate to be an asshole and not respond to her. She was my best friend, but I just can't do long distance anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just broke up with my gf of 1.5 years. I broke up with her after about a year because I didn't want to do long distance anymore. I tried to give it a second shot, but I can't do the long distance anymore.\n\nWe started the relationship when we lived near each other, but I had to move away for work. Because of where we are in life (me, military; her: student) moving together is not viable. I ended it this morning and I just got a response back from her.\n\nShe said \"I can't believe you. You've broken my heart for the second time. This is the most mean and hurtful thing anyone has ever done to me.\" Those words hurt me, but I can't imagine what she's going through.\n\nShould I make this a clean break and just not respond? I don't want to get in to a fight with her (something that never happened in our relationship, other than LDR. it was the perfect relationship.) There was no way to end this on good terms as she was very much in love with me and wouldn't respond well to even bringing up the possibility of a break, or anything like that.\n\nI hate to be an asshole and not respond to her. She was my best friend, but I just can't do long distance anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just broke up with my gf of 1.5 years. I broke up with her after about a year because I didn't want to do long distance anymore. I tried to give it a second shot, but I can't do the long distance anymore.\n\nWe started the relationship when we lived near each other, but I had to move away for work. Because of where we are in life (me, military; her: student) moving together is not viable. I ended it this morning and I just got a response back from her.\n\nShe said \"I can't believe you. You've broken my heart for the second time. This is the most mean and hurtful thing anyone has ever done to me.\" Those words hurt me, but I can't imagine what she's going through.\n\nShould I make this a clean break and just not respond? I don't want to get in to a fight with her (something that never happened in our relationship, other than LDR. it was the perfect relationship.) There was no way to end this on good terms as she was very much in love with me and wouldn't respond well to even bringing up the possibility of a break, or anything like that.\n\nI hate to be an asshole and not respond to her. She was my best friend, but I just can't do long distance anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: We have dated for 2 years now. She is in college and I just graduated this past May. We both are in the education field. I didn't get a full time job, but will be subbing in 3 different districts. \n\nAbout 3-4 months ago I told her that she needed to show more initiative in our relationship (including sex). Before this I didn't initiate sex once to see if she would start something. Never did. It lasted for a good 2 months and then I spoke up. She has gotten better with initiating sex, if I tell her earlier in the day that we should make love. She can never make a decision or suggest something to do. It seems like I always come up with date ideas or what we're doing for the night, and I hate that. Most times we would just end up on the bed watching some lame show. Another thing, after about 6 months of dating her, I've noticed she's stopped hanging out with her friends. She's mostly at home watching some dumb reality show.\n\nThis may sound selfish (and probably is): but she got me a gift card and lawn chair for my birthday.on the day of my birthday. It's like there is no care coming from her. Sometimes I feel like this relationship is fake. We don't even celebrate our 1st and 2nd year anniversaries. \n\nSome days I just want to get rid of her. I wanted an outside perspective to see my relationship from another view. Suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: We have dated for 2 years now. She is in college and I just graduated this past May. We both are in the education field. I didn't get a full time job, but will be subbing in 3 different districts. \n\nAbout 3-4 months ago I told her that she needed to show more initiative in our relationship (including sex). Before this I didn't initiate sex once to see if she would start something. Never did. It lasted for a good 2 months and then I spoke up. She has gotten better with initiating sex, if I tell her earlier in the day that we should make love. She can never make a decision or suggest something to do. It seems like I always come up with date ideas or what we're doing for the night, and I hate that. Most times we would just end up on the bed watching some lame show. Another thing, after about 6 months of dating her, I've noticed she's stopped hanging out with her friends. She's mostly at home watching some dumb reality show.\n\nThis may sound selfish (and probably is): but she got me a gift card and lawn chair for my birthday.on the day of my birthday. It's like there is no care coming from her. Sometimes I feel like this relationship is fake. We don't even celebrate our 1st and 2nd year anniversaries. \n\nSome days I just want to get rid of her. I wanted an outside perspective to see my relationship from another view. Suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: We have dated for 2 years now. She is in college and I just graduated this past May. We both are in the education field. I didn't get a full time job, but will be subbing in 3 different districts. \n\nAbout 3-4 months ago I told her that she needed to show more initiative in our relationship (including sex). Before this I didn't initiate sex once to see if she would start something. Never did. It lasted for a good 2 months and then I spoke up. She has gotten better with initiating sex, if I tell her earlier in the day that we should make love. She can never make a decision or suggest something to do. It seems like I always come up with date ideas or what we're doing for the night, and I hate that. Most times we would just end up on the bed watching some lame show. Another thing, after about 6 months of dating her, I've noticed she's stopped hanging out with her friends. She's mostly at home watching some dumb reality show.\n\nThis may sound selfish (and probably is): but she got me a gift card and lawn chair for my birthday.on the day of my birthday. It's like there is no care coming from her. Sometimes I feel like this relationship is fake. We don't even celebrate our 1st and 2nd year anniversaries. \n\nSome days I just want to get rid of her. I wanted an outside perspective to see my relationship from another view. Suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: We have dated for 2 years now. She is in college and I just graduated this past May. We both are in the education field. I didn't get a full time job, but will be subbing in 3 different districts. \n\nAbout 3-4 months ago I told her that she needed to show more initiative in our relationship (including sex). Before this I didn't initiate sex once to see if she would start something. Never did. It lasted for a good 2 months and then I spoke up. She has gotten better with initiating sex, if I tell her earlier in the day that we should make love. She can never make a decision or suggest something to do. It seems like I always come up with date ideas or what we're doing for the night, and I hate that. Most times we would just end up on the bed watching some lame show. Another thing, after about 6 months of dating her, I've noticed she's stopped hanging out with her friends. She's mostly at home watching some dumb reality show.\n\nThis may sound selfish (and probably is): but she got me a gift card and lawn chair for my birthday.on the day of my birthday. It's like there is no care coming from her. Sometimes I feel like this relationship is fake. We don't even celebrate our 1st and 2nd year anniversaries. \n\nSome days I just want to get rid of her. I wanted an outside perspective to see my relationship from another view. Suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: We have dated for 2 years now. She is in college and I just graduated this past May. We both are in the education field. I didn't get a full time job, but will be subbing in 3 different districts. \n\nAbout 3-4 months ago I told her that she needed to show more initiative in our relationship (including sex). Before this I didn't initiate sex once to see if she would start something. Never did. It lasted for a good 2 months and then I spoke up. She has gotten better with initiating sex, if I tell her earlier in the day that we should make love. She can never make a decision or suggest something to do. It seems like I always come up with date ideas or what we're doing for the night, and I hate that. Most times we would just end up on the bed watching some lame show. Another thing, after about 6 months of dating her, I've noticed she's stopped hanging out with her friends. She's mostly at home watching some dumb reality show.\n\nThis may sound selfish (and probably is): but she got me a gift card and lawn chair for my birthday.on the day of my birthday. It's like there is no care coming from her. Sometimes I feel like this relationship is fake. We don't even celebrate our 1st and 2nd year anniversaries. \n\nSome days I just want to get rid of her. I wanted an outside perspective to see my relationship from another view. Suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: We have dated for 2 years now. She is in college and I just graduated this past May. We both are in the education field. I didn't get a full time job, but will be subbing in 3 different districts. \n\nAbout 3-4 months ago I told her that she needed to show more initiative in our relationship (including sex). Before this I didn't initiate sex once to see if she would start something. Never did. It lasted for a good 2 months and then I spoke up. She has gotten better with initiating sex, if I tell her earlier in the day that we should make love. She can never make a decision or suggest something to do. It seems like I always come up with date ideas or what we're doing for the night, and I hate that. Most times we would just end up on the bed watching some lame show. Another thing, after about 6 months of dating her, I've noticed she's stopped hanging out with her friends. She's mostly at home watching some dumb reality show.\n\nThis may sound selfish (and probably is): but she got me a gift card and lawn chair for my birthday.on the day of my birthday. It's like there is no care coming from her. Sometimes I feel like this relationship is fake. We don't even celebrate our 1st and 2nd year anniversaries. \n\nSome days I just want to get rid of her. I wanted an outside perspective to see my relationship from another view. Suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I started to develop feelings for a girl in my school, shes nice and we share alot of interests. So I asked if we could meet and we watched some movies at my place. Because im a social moron I didnt even tried to hug her when I brought her home. Afterwards I asked her if we could meet again, but everytime I ask If she has time, she is busy (but she prooved that she is busy and even excused herself when she had no time). But when I say something like \"hey you want to do something? when do you have time?\" Then she reads my message but doesnt reply. When we are at school she is always nice to me and we talk alot during breaks. \nMy Mind is totaly fucked and I don`t know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I started to develop feelings for a girl in my school, shes nice and we share alot of interests. So I asked if we could meet and we watched some movies at my place. Because im a social moron I didnt even tried to hug her when I brought her home. Afterwards I asked her if we could meet again, but everytime I ask If she has time, she is busy (but she prooved that she is busy and even excused herself when she had no time). But when I say something like \"hey you want to do something? when do you have time?\" Then she reads my message but doesnt reply. When we are at school she is always nice to me and we talk alot during breaks. \nMy Mind is totaly fucked and I don`t know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I started to develop feelings for a girl in my school, shes nice and we share alot of interests. So I asked if we could meet and we watched some movies at my place. Because im a social moron I didnt even tried to hug her when I brought her home. Afterwards I asked her if we could meet again, but everytime I ask If she has time, she is busy (but she prooved that she is busy and even excused herself when she had no time). But when I say something like \"hey you want to do something? when do you have time?\" Then she reads my message but doesnt reply. When we are at school she is always nice to me and we talk alot during breaks. \nMy Mind is totaly fucked and I don`t know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I started to develop feelings for a girl in my school, shes nice and we share alot of interests. So I asked if we could meet and we watched some movies at my place. Because im a social moron I didnt even tried to hug her when I brought her home. Afterwards I asked her if we could meet again, but everytime I ask If she has time, she is busy (but she prooved that she is busy and even excused herself when she had no time). But when I say something like \"hey you want to do something? when do you have time?\" Then she reads my message but doesnt reply. When we are at school she is always nice to me and we talk alot during breaks. \nMy Mind is totaly fucked and I don`t know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I started to develop feelings for a girl in my school, shes nice and we share alot of interests. So I asked if we could meet and we watched some movies at my place. Because im a social moron I didnt even tried to hug her when I brought her home. Afterwards I asked her if we could meet again, but everytime I ask If she has time, she is busy (but she prooved that she is busy and even excused herself when she had no time). But when I say something like \"hey you want to do something? when do you have time?\" Then she reads my message but doesnt reply. When we are at school she is always nice to me and we talk alot during breaks. \nMy Mind is totaly fucked and I don`t know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I started to develop feelings for a girl in my school, shes nice and we share alot of interests. So I asked if we could meet and we watched some movies at my place. Because im a social moron I didnt even tried to hug her when I brought her home. Afterwards I asked her if we could meet again, but everytime I ask If she has time, she is busy (but she prooved that she is busy and even excused herself when she had no time). But when I say something like \"hey you want to do something? when do you have time?\" Then she reads my message but doesnt reply. When we are at school she is always nice to me and we talk alot during breaks. \nMy Mind is totaly fucked and I don`t know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: English is not my first language so sorry for my poor English.\n\nHi Reddit\n.Me 20M and she 19F met around 4 months ago and everything went really well we became fast friends and were getting along very good ,long stry short we basicallt dated but neither of us never offically told so,so we were just something more than friends ,atleast thats how we called it.\nAround for 3-4 weeks everything was good ,until one day she said that she also likes some other guy and she needs to choose which one she wants and told me that she's going to meet that other guy soon .I was aware of that guy ,she was in love with him , but they never have had seen eachother so i made nothing out of that consider how well we did at the beginning.\nSo after she met that other guy (for only 1 day) she was in a relationship with him ,no need to say i was schocked and i felt heartbreaked.During that time (almost 4 months) we never talked much ,maybe few words,she didin't care.Fastforward she was dating that guy until 2 weeks ago and that guy apparently dumped her and now she's back to me ,basically wants me back.\nSo i don't know what should i do about this ?To be honest i still feel betrayed but i like her to much to say that, i want to be with her altho i feel it's wrong.\nThank you ."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: English is not my first language so sorry for my poor English.\n\nHi Reddit\n.Me 20M and she 19F met around 4 months ago and everything went really well we became fast friends and were getting along very good ,long stry short we basicallt dated but neither of us never offically told so,so we were just something more than friends ,atleast thats how we called it.\nAround for 3-4 weeks everything was good ,until one day she said that she also likes some other guy and she needs to choose which one she wants and told me that she's going to meet that other guy soon .I was aware of that guy ,she was in love with him , but they never have had seen eachother so i made nothing out of that consider how well we did at the beginning.\nSo after she met that other guy (for only 1 day) she was in a relationship with him ,no need to say i was schocked and i felt heartbreaked.During that time (almost 4 months) we never talked much ,maybe few words,she didin't care.Fastforward she was dating that guy until 2 weeks ago and that guy apparently dumped her and now she's back to me ,basically wants me back.\nSo i don't know what should i do about this ?To be honest i still feel betrayed but i like her to much to say that, i want to be with her altho i feel it's wrong.\nThank you ."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: English is not my first language so sorry for my poor English.\n\nHi Reddit\n.Me 20M and she 19F met around 4 months ago and everything went really well we became fast friends and were getting along very good ,long stry short we basicallt dated but neither of us never offically told so,so we were just something more than friends ,atleast thats how we called it.\nAround for 3-4 weeks everything was good ,until one day she said that she also likes some other guy and she needs to choose which one she wants and told me that she's going to meet that other guy soon .I was aware of that guy ,she was in love with him , but they never have had seen eachother so i made nothing out of that consider how well we did at the beginning.\nSo after she met that other guy (for only 1 day) she was in a relationship with him ,no need to say i was schocked and i felt heartbreaked.During that time (almost 4 months) we never talked much ,maybe few words,she didin't care.Fastforward she was dating that guy until 2 weeks ago and that guy apparently dumped her and now she's back to me ,basically wants me back.\nSo i don't know what should i do about this ?To be honest i still feel betrayed but i like her to much to say that, i want to be with her altho i feel it's wrong.\nThank you ."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: English is not my first language so sorry for my poor English.\n\nHi Reddit\n.Me 20M and she 19F met around 4 months ago and everything went really well we became fast friends and were getting along very good ,long stry short we basicallt dated but neither of us never offically told so,so we were just something more than friends ,atleast thats how we called it.\nAround for 3-4 weeks everything was good ,until one day she said that she also likes some other guy and she needs to choose which one she wants and told me that she's going to meet that other guy soon .I was aware of that guy ,she was in love with him , but they never have had seen eachother so i made nothing out of that consider how well we did at the beginning.\nSo after she met that other guy (for only 1 day) she was in a relationship with him ,no need to say i was schocked and i felt heartbreaked.During that time (almost 4 months) we never talked much ,maybe few words,she didin't care.Fastforward she was dating that guy until 2 weeks ago and that guy apparently dumped her and now she's back to me ,basically wants me back.\nSo i don't know what should i do about this ?To be honest i still feel betrayed but i like her to much to say that, i want to be with her altho i feel it's wrong.\nThank you ."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: English is not my first language so sorry for my poor English.\n\nHi Reddit\n.Me 20M and she 19F met around 4 months ago and everything went really well we became fast friends and were getting along very good ,long stry short we basicallt dated but neither of us never offically told so,so we were just something more than friends ,atleast thats how we called it.\nAround for 3-4 weeks everything was good ,until one day she said that she also likes some other guy and she needs to choose which one she wants and told me that she's going to meet that other guy soon .I was aware of that guy ,she was in love with him , but they never have had seen eachother so i made nothing out of that consider how well we did at the beginning.\nSo after she met that other guy (for only 1 day) she was in a relationship with him ,no need to say i was schocked and i felt heartbreaked.During that time (almost 4 months) we never talked much ,maybe few words,she didin't care.Fastforward she was dating that guy until 2 weeks ago and that guy apparently dumped her and now she's back to me ,basically wants me back.\nSo i don't know what should i do about this ?To be honest i still feel betrayed but i like her to much to say that, i want to be with her altho i feel it's wrong.\nThank you ."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: English is not my first language so sorry for my poor English.\n\nHi Reddit\n.Me 20M and she 19F met around 4 months ago and everything went really well we became fast friends and were getting along very good ,long stry short we basicallt dated but neither of us never offically told so,so we were just something more than friends ,atleast thats how we called it.\nAround for 3-4 weeks everything was good ,until one day she said that she also likes some other guy and she needs to choose which one she wants and told me that she's going to meet that other guy soon .I was aware of that guy ,she was in love with him , but they never have had seen eachother so i made nothing out of that consider how well we did at the beginning.\nSo after she met that other guy (for only 1 day) she was in a relationship with him ,no need to say i was schocked and i felt heartbreaked.During that time (almost 4 months) we never talked much ,maybe few words,she didin't care.Fastforward she was dating that guy until 2 weeks ago and that guy apparently dumped her and now she's back to me ,basically wants me back.\nSo i don't know what should i do about this ?To be honest i still feel betrayed but i like her to much to say that, i want to be with her altho i feel it's wrong.\nThank you ."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've known this guy for almost half a year now, and I've gotten very attached to him in the meantime. I've had a few crushes before - none of which I've pursued, and have consequently gotten over without a hitch - but this one seems to be seared into my brain.\n\nThe issues are myriad with actually attempting pursuit, however. First of all, we met online through Steam, which means we've never actually met. (Though we're planning to in a year and a half or so. Of course, that could fall through.). We do talk and text a lot, and hang out and play games, etc. Beyond that, We both have zero interest in an LDRs, and I'm quite consumed by college and everything else in life. The third issue is, of course, the age. I want to believe I'm 'mature for my age', but really, I have shit to learn. This dude, as fantastic as he is, has eight years of life experience on me. Where I'm hitting my early twenties, he'll begin hitting his early thirties. (I am also sure for that exact reason he's probably not interested.)\n\nSo pursuit is a 'no-go'. However, I genuinely enjoy the man as a friend of mine and would like to keep him as a friend, without me constantly thinking about him or all the other, lovely, irritating bits that comes with having a crush on him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've known this guy for almost half a year now, and I've gotten very attached to him in the meantime. I've had a few crushes before - none of which I've pursued, and have consequently gotten over without a hitch - but this one seems to be seared into my brain.\n\nThe issues are myriad with actually attempting pursuit, however. First of all, we met online through Steam, which means we've never actually met. (Though we're planning to in a year and a half or so. Of course, that could fall through.). We do talk and text a lot, and hang out and play games, etc. Beyond that, We both have zero interest in an LDRs, and I'm quite consumed by college and everything else in life. The third issue is, of course, the age. I want to believe I'm 'mature for my age', but really, I have shit to learn. This dude, as fantastic as he is, has eight years of life experience on me. Where I'm hitting my early twenties, he'll begin hitting his early thirties. (I am also sure for that exact reason he's probably not interested.)\n\nSo pursuit is a 'no-go'. However, I genuinely enjoy the man as a friend of mine and would like to keep him as a friend, without me constantly thinking about him or all the other, lovely, irritating bits that comes with having a crush on him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've known this guy for almost half a year now, and I've gotten very attached to him in the meantime. I've had a few crushes before - none of which I've pursued, and have consequently gotten over without a hitch - but this one seems to be seared into my brain.\n\nThe issues are myriad with actually attempting pursuit, however. First of all, we met online through Steam, which means we've never actually met. (Though we're planning to in a year and a half or so. Of course, that could fall through.). We do talk and text a lot, and hang out and play games, etc. Beyond that, We both have zero interest in an LDRs, and I'm quite consumed by college and everything else in life. The third issue is, of course, the age. I want to believe I'm 'mature for my age', but really, I have shit to learn. This dude, as fantastic as he is, has eight years of life experience on me. Where I'm hitting my early twenties, he'll begin hitting his early thirties. (I am also sure for that exact reason he's probably not interested.)\n\nSo pursuit is a 'no-go'. However, I genuinely enjoy the man as a friend of mine and would like to keep him as a friend, without me constantly thinking about him or all the other, lovely, irritating bits that comes with having a crush on him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've known this guy for almost half a year now, and I've gotten very attached to him in the meantime. I've had a few crushes before - none of which I've pursued, and have consequently gotten over without a hitch - but this one seems to be seared into my brain.\n\nThe issues are myriad with actually attempting pursuit, however. First of all, we met online through Steam, which means we've never actually met. (Though we're planning to in a year and a half or so. Of course, that could fall through.). We do talk and text a lot, and hang out and play games, etc. Beyond that, We both have zero interest in an LDRs, and I'm quite consumed by college and everything else in life. The third issue is, of course, the age. I want to believe I'm 'mature for my age', but really, I have shit to learn. This dude, as fantastic as he is, has eight years of life experience on me. Where I'm hitting my early twenties, he'll begin hitting his early thirties. (I am also sure for that exact reason he's probably not interested.)\n\nSo pursuit is a 'no-go'. However, I genuinely enjoy the man as a friend of mine and would like to keep him as a friend, without me constantly thinking about him or all the other, lovely, irritating bits that comes with having a crush on him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've known this guy for almost half a year now, and I've gotten very attached to him in the meantime. I've had a few crushes before - none of which I've pursued, and have consequently gotten over without a hitch - but this one seems to be seared into my brain.\n\nThe issues are myriad with actually attempting pursuit, however. First of all, we met online through Steam, which means we've never actually met. (Though we're planning to in a year and a half or so. Of course, that could fall through.). We do talk and text a lot, and hang out and play games, etc. Beyond that, We both have zero interest in an LDRs, and I'm quite consumed by college and everything else in life. The third issue is, of course, the age. I want to believe I'm 'mature for my age', but really, I have shit to learn. This dude, as fantastic as he is, has eight years of life experience on me. Where I'm hitting my early twenties, he'll begin hitting his early thirties. (I am also sure for that exact reason he's probably not interested.)\n\nSo pursuit is a 'no-go'. However, I genuinely enjoy the man as a friend of mine and would like to keep him as a friend, without me constantly thinking about him or all the other, lovely, irritating bits that comes with having a crush on him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a fairly severe anxiety disorder. Driving, in particular, can make my anxiety really bad. However, recently my condition during driving has been improving.\n\nTonight, my friends are having a party. However, from the time the party starts, until tomorrow night, my whole area is having a Winter Storm Warning. Think freezing rain.\n\nIn the group I am the worry-wart. I am generally the \"party pooper\" because I always try to keep everyone safe. These are the typical party-animal college students, so I always keep an eye out for police, or any stupid ideas, to keep things from getting horrible. Several of the people in the group have made fun of me for this, and talked shit behind my back. I have declined several invitations to hang out with them over the past few months because they tend to do things that spike my anxiety (read: drink in public).\n\nYes, I know. \"They are bad friends, ditch them.\" But my closest friend in the group, who I haven't seen for the better part of this year, really wants me to go. I have missed her a lot. This is only a house party, so my anxiety is not concerned with anything outside the weather. So I really just want to go, see everyone, and have a good time, but I am seriously worried about the weather tonight. \n\nI am aware that my friends are not worth me dying. And that I probably shouldn't go due to the weather. How do I turn them down, politely, without losing my best friend in the group? She is probably fed up with me turning down invites to hang out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a fairly severe anxiety disorder. Driving, in particular, can make my anxiety really bad. However, recently my condition during driving has been improving.\n\nTonight, my friends are having a party. However, from the time the party starts, until tomorrow night, my whole area is having a Winter Storm Warning. Think freezing rain.\n\nIn the group I am the worry-wart. I am generally the \"party pooper\" because I always try to keep everyone safe. These are the typical party-animal college students, so I always keep an eye out for police, or any stupid ideas, to keep things from getting horrible. Several of the people in the group have made fun of me for this, and talked shit behind my back. I have declined several invitations to hang out with them over the past few months because they tend to do things that spike my anxiety (read: drink in public).\n\nYes, I know. \"They are bad friends, ditch them.\" But my closest friend in the group, who I haven't seen for the better part of this year, really wants me to go. I have missed her a lot. This is only a house party, so my anxiety is not concerned with anything outside the weather. So I really just want to go, see everyone, and have a good time, but I am seriously worried about the weather tonight. \n\nI am aware that my friends are not worth me dying. And that I probably shouldn't go due to the weather. How do I turn them down, politely, without losing my best friend in the group? She is probably fed up with me turning down invites to hang out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a fairly severe anxiety disorder. Driving, in particular, can make my anxiety really bad. However, recently my condition during driving has been improving.\n\nTonight, my friends are having a party. However, from the time the party starts, until tomorrow night, my whole area is having a Winter Storm Warning. Think freezing rain.\n\nIn the group I am the worry-wart. I am generally the \"party pooper\" because I always try to keep everyone safe. These are the typical party-animal college students, so I always keep an eye out for police, or any stupid ideas, to keep things from getting horrible. Several of the people in the group have made fun of me for this, and talked shit behind my back. I have declined several invitations to hang out with them over the past few months because they tend to do things that spike my anxiety (read: drink in public).\n\nYes, I know. \"They are bad friends, ditch them.\" But my closest friend in the group, who I haven't seen for the better part of this year, really wants me to go. I have missed her a lot. This is only a house party, so my anxiety is not concerned with anything outside the weather. So I really just want to go, see everyone, and have a good time, but I am seriously worried about the weather tonight. \n\nI am aware that my friends are not worth me dying. And that I probably shouldn't go due to the weather. How do I turn them down, politely, without losing my best friend in the group? She is probably fed up with me turning down invites to hang out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a fairly severe anxiety disorder. Driving, in particular, can make my anxiety really bad. However, recently my condition during driving has been improving.\n\nTonight, my friends are having a party. However, from the time the party starts, until tomorrow night, my whole area is having a Winter Storm Warning. Think freezing rain.\n\nIn the group I am the worry-wart. I am generally the \"party pooper\" because I always try to keep everyone safe. These are the typical party-animal college students, so I always keep an eye out for police, or any stupid ideas, to keep things from getting horrible. Several of the people in the group have made fun of me for this, and talked shit behind my back. I have declined several invitations to hang out with them over the past few months because they tend to do things that spike my anxiety (read: drink in public).\n\nYes, I know. \"They are bad friends, ditch them.\" But my closest friend in the group, who I haven't seen for the better part of this year, really wants me to go. I have missed her a lot. This is only a house party, so my anxiety is not concerned with anything outside the weather. So I really just want to go, see everyone, and have a good time, but I am seriously worried about the weather tonight. \n\nI am aware that my friends are not worth me dying. And that I probably shouldn't go due to the weather. How do I turn them down, politely, without losing my best friend in the group? She is probably fed up with me turning down invites to hang out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a fairly severe anxiety disorder. Driving, in particular, can make my anxiety really bad. However, recently my condition during driving has been improving.\n\nTonight, my friends are having a party. However, from the time the party starts, until tomorrow night, my whole area is having a Winter Storm Warning. Think freezing rain.\n\nIn the group I am the worry-wart. I am generally the \"party pooper\" because I always try to keep everyone safe. These are the typical party-animal college students, so I always keep an eye out for police, or any stupid ideas, to keep things from getting horrible. Several of the people in the group have made fun of me for this, and talked shit behind my back. I have declined several invitations to hang out with them over the past few months because they tend to do things that spike my anxiety (read: drink in public).\n\nYes, I know. \"They are bad friends, ditch them.\" But my closest friend in the group, who I haven't seen for the better part of this year, really wants me to go. I have missed her a lot. This is only a house party, so my anxiety is not concerned with anything outside the weather. So I really just want to go, see everyone, and have a good time, but I am seriously worried about the weather tonight. \n\nI am aware that my friends are not worth me dying. And that I probably shouldn't go due to the weather. How do I turn them down, politely, without losing my best friend in the group? She is probably fed up with me turning down invites to hang out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a fairly severe anxiety disorder. Driving, in particular, can make my anxiety really bad. However, recently my condition during driving has been improving.\n\nTonight, my friends are having a party. However, from the time the party starts, until tomorrow night, my whole area is having a Winter Storm Warning. Think freezing rain.\n\nIn the group I am the worry-wart. I am generally the \"party pooper\" because I always try to keep everyone safe. These are the typical party-animal college students, so I always keep an eye out for police, or any stupid ideas, to keep things from getting horrible. Several of the people in the group have made fun of me for this, and talked shit behind my back. I have declined several invitations to hang out with them over the past few months because they tend to do things that spike my anxiety (read: drink in public).\n\nYes, I know. \"They are bad friends, ditch them.\" But my closest friend in the group, who I haven't seen for the better part of this year, really wants me to go. I have missed her a lot. This is only a house party, so my anxiety is not concerned with anything outside the weather. So I really just want to go, see everyone, and have a good time, but I am seriously worried about the weather tonight. \n\nI am aware that my friends are not worth me dying. And that I probably shouldn't go due to the weather. How do I turn them down, politely, without losing my best friend in the group? She is probably fed up with me turning down invites to hang out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A week after our four year anniversary and confessing to me [F19] that he has \"realized some things\" and knows that I am the person he wants to be with for the rest of his life my boyfriend [M21] also confesses that he has been cheating on me with another girl for nearly two months. I had encouraged their friendship previously because he and I are long distance (I'm in Northern California and he's in Southern California for school) and I've always tried to be the \"cool girlfriend\" who doesn't tell her boyfriend what he can or can't do and who he can or can't hang out with, not to mention I trusted him ENTIRELY. \n\nSo for the first time ever I go through his text messages and Facebook messages (feeling overwhelmingly guilty the entire time) only to find that he's been inappropriately talking to about 15 girls and has hooked up with maybe four of them over the past three years. These are girls that I know well and who know me well, also a few that he met at school and told me were \"cool new friends\". Remember that we have been together for four years at this point, we met in high school and have been doing long distance for about two years. Not only did I have to find out about the other girls myself, he lied when I questioned him about it until I showed him what I found. \n\nProblem: I know that I'm young and I have time to maybe find someone else, be my own person for awhile but I am so entirely and irrevocably in love with him. We're not together for the moment so we don't Skype everyday like we used to or use cutesy names anymore but we still text everyday and he's doing his best to show me that he's changed. My friends say \"Fuck that guy, he doesn't deserve you.\" but I can't just forget the past four years. He's my soul mate. \n\nAdvice? Thoughts? Help please :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A week after our four year anniversary and confessing to me [F19] that he has \"realized some things\" and knows that I am the person he wants to be with for the rest of his life my boyfriend [M21] also confesses that he has been cheating on me with another girl for nearly two months. I had encouraged their friendship previously because he and I are long distance (I'm in Northern California and he's in Southern California for school) and I've always tried to be the \"cool girlfriend\" who doesn't tell her boyfriend what he can or can't do and who he can or can't hang out with, not to mention I trusted him ENTIRELY. \n\nSo for the first time ever I go through his text messages and Facebook messages (feeling overwhelmingly guilty the entire time) only to find that he's been inappropriately talking to about 15 girls and has hooked up with maybe four of them over the past three years. These are girls that I know well and who know me well, also a few that he met at school and told me were \"cool new friends\". Remember that we have been together for four years at this point, we met in high school and have been doing long distance for about two years. Not only did I have to find out about the other girls myself, he lied when I questioned him about it until I showed him what I found. \n\nProblem: I know that I'm young and I have time to maybe find someone else, be my own person for awhile but I am so entirely and irrevocably in love with him. We're not together for the moment so we don't Skype everyday like we used to or use cutesy names anymore but we still text everyday and he's doing his best to show me that he's changed. My friends say \"Fuck that guy, he doesn't deserve you.\" but I can't just forget the past four years. He's my soul mate. \n\nAdvice? Thoughts? Help please :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A week after our four year anniversary and confessing to me [F19] that he has \"realized some things\" and knows that I am the person he wants to be with for the rest of his life my boyfriend [M21] also confesses that he has been cheating on me with another girl for nearly two months. I had encouraged their friendship previously because he and I are long distance (I'm in Northern California and he's in Southern California for school) and I've always tried to be the \"cool girlfriend\" who doesn't tell her boyfriend what he can or can't do and who he can or can't hang out with, not to mention I trusted him ENTIRELY. \n\nSo for the first time ever I go through his text messages and Facebook messages (feeling overwhelmingly guilty the entire time) only to find that he's been inappropriately talking to about 15 girls and has hooked up with maybe four of them over the past three years. These are girls that I know well and who know me well, also a few that he met at school and told me were \"cool new friends\". Remember that we have been together for four years at this point, we met in high school and have been doing long distance for about two years. Not only did I have to find out about the other girls myself, he lied when I questioned him about it until I showed him what I found. \n\nProblem: I know that I'm young and I have time to maybe find someone else, be my own person for awhile but I am so entirely and irrevocably in love with him. We're not together for the moment so we don't Skype everyday like we used to or use cutesy names anymore but we still text everyday and he's doing his best to show me that he's changed. My friends say \"Fuck that guy, he doesn't deserve you.\" but I can't just forget the past four years. He's my soul mate. \n\nAdvice? Thoughts? Help please :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A week after our four year anniversary and confessing to me [F19] that he has \"realized some things\" and knows that I am the person he wants to be with for the rest of his life my boyfriend [M21] also confesses that he has been cheating on me with another girl for nearly two months. I had encouraged their friendship previously because he and I are long distance (I'm in Northern California and he's in Southern California for school) and I've always tried to be the \"cool girlfriend\" who doesn't tell her boyfriend what he can or can't do and who he can or can't hang out with, not to mention I trusted him ENTIRELY. \n\nSo for the first time ever I go through his text messages and Facebook messages (feeling overwhelmingly guilty the entire time) only to find that he's been inappropriately talking to about 15 girls and has hooked up with maybe four of them over the past three years. These are girls that I know well and who know me well, also a few that he met at school and told me were \"cool new friends\". Remember that we have been together for four years at this point, we met in high school and have been doing long distance for about two years. Not only did I have to find out about the other girls myself, he lied when I questioned him about it until I showed him what I found. \n\nProblem: I know that I'm young and I have time to maybe find someone else, be my own person for awhile but I am so entirely and irrevocably in love with him. We're not together for the moment so we don't Skype everyday like we used to or use cutesy names anymore but we still text everyday and he's doing his best to show me that he's changed. My friends say \"Fuck that guy, he doesn't deserve you.\" but I can't just forget the past four years. He's my soul mate. \n\nAdvice? Thoughts? Help please :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A week after our four year anniversary and confessing to me [F19] that he has \"realized some things\" and knows that I am the person he wants to be with for the rest of his life my boyfriend [M21] also confesses that he has been cheating on me with another girl for nearly two months. I had encouraged their friendship previously because he and I are long distance (I'm in Northern California and he's in Southern California for school) and I've always tried to be the \"cool girlfriend\" who doesn't tell her boyfriend what he can or can't do and who he can or can't hang out with, not to mention I trusted him ENTIRELY. \n\nSo for the first time ever I go through his text messages and Facebook messages (feeling overwhelmingly guilty the entire time) only to find that he's been inappropriately talking to about 15 girls and has hooked up with maybe four of them over the past three years. These are girls that I know well and who know me well, also a few that he met at school and told me were \"cool new friends\". Remember that we have been together for four years at this point, we met in high school and have been doing long distance for about two years. Not only did I have to find out about the other girls myself, he lied when I questioned him about it until I showed him what I found. \n\nProblem: I know that I'm young and I have time to maybe find someone else, be my own person for awhile but I am so entirely and irrevocably in love with him. We're not together for the moment so we don't Skype everyday like we used to or use cutesy names anymore but we still text everyday and he's doing his best to show me that he's changed. My friends say \"Fuck that guy, he doesn't deserve you.\" but I can't just forget the past four years. He's my soul mate. \n\nAdvice? Thoughts? Help please :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A week after our four year anniversary and confessing to me [F19] that he has \"realized some things\" and knows that I am the person he wants to be with for the rest of his life my boyfriend [M21] also confesses that he has been cheating on me with another girl for nearly two months. I had encouraged their friendship previously because he and I are long distance (I'm in Northern California and he's in Southern California for school) and I've always tried to be the \"cool girlfriend\" who doesn't tell her boyfriend what he can or can't do and who he can or can't hang out with, not to mention I trusted him ENTIRELY. \n\nSo for the first time ever I go through his text messages and Facebook messages (feeling overwhelmingly guilty the entire time) only to find that he's been inappropriately talking to about 15 girls and has hooked up with maybe four of them over the past three years. These are girls that I know well and who know me well, also a few that he met at school and told me were \"cool new friends\". Remember that we have been together for four years at this point, we met in high school and have been doing long distance for about two years. Not only did I have to find out about the other girls myself, he lied when I questioned him about it until I showed him what I found. \n\nProblem: I know that I'm young and I have time to maybe find someone else, be my own person for awhile but I am so entirely and irrevocably in love with him. We're not together for the moment so we don't Skype everyday like we used to or use cutesy names anymore but we still text everyday and he's doing his best to show me that he's changed. My friends say \"Fuck that guy, he doesn't deserve you.\" but I can't just forget the past four years. He's my soul mate. \n\nAdvice? Thoughts? Help please :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a high school teacher who is always incredibly busy during the school year. My day starts at 7 am and usually doesn't end until 7pm. There are always reports to write, papers to grade, meetings and conferences to attend, lessons to plan, etc. During the school year, I rarely have time to do things for myself because I have at least 3 different classes to prep for, so I'm always using my Saturdays and Sundays planning lessons and grading papers. Friday, from 3- bedtime is my only \"chill time.\" \n\nMy brother is currently an undergrad student and works about 30 hours a week. I was able to help him with his papers/assignments frequently this summer because I had more free time. Now that I'm moving to my own place and the school year is starting again, he knows I won't be able to help him as often as I used to. He wants to come over every Friday when I'm done with work so I can edit his papers and assignments. I understand that he appreciates my editing skills, but this kills me because the only \"me time\" I get during the week is Friday after work.\n\n I want him to do well, but I don't want to work myself to death. What can I do to solve this issue?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a high school teacher who is always incredibly busy during the school year. My day starts at 7 am and usually doesn't end until 7pm. There are always reports to write, papers to grade, meetings and conferences to attend, lessons to plan, etc. During the school year, I rarely have time to do things for myself because I have at least 3 different classes to prep for, so I'm always using my Saturdays and Sundays planning lessons and grading papers. Friday, from 3- bedtime is my only \"chill time.\" \n\nMy brother is currently an undergrad student and works about 30 hours a week. I was able to help him with his papers/assignments frequently this summer because I had more free time. Now that I'm moving to my own place and the school year is starting again, he knows I won't be able to help him as often as I used to. He wants to come over every Friday when I'm done with work so I can edit his papers and assignments. I understand that he appreciates my editing skills, but this kills me because the only \"me time\" I get during the week is Friday after work.\n\n I want him to do well, but I don't want to work myself to death. What can I do to solve this issue?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a high school teacher who is always incredibly busy during the school year. My day starts at 7 am and usually doesn't end until 7pm. There are always reports to write, papers to grade, meetings and conferences to attend, lessons to plan, etc. During the school year, I rarely have time to do things for myself because I have at least 3 different classes to prep for, so I'm always using my Saturdays and Sundays planning lessons and grading papers. Friday, from 3- bedtime is my only \"chill time.\" \n\nMy brother is currently an undergrad student and works about 30 hours a week. I was able to help him with his papers/assignments frequently this summer because I had more free time. Now that I'm moving to my own place and the school year is starting again, he knows I won't be able to help him as often as I used to. He wants to come over every Friday when I'm done with work so I can edit his papers and assignments. I understand that he appreciates my editing skills, but this kills me because the only \"me time\" I get during the week is Friday after work.\n\n I want him to do well, but I don't want to work myself to death. What can I do to solve this issue?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a high school teacher who is always incredibly busy during the school year. My day starts at 7 am and usually doesn't end until 7pm. There are always reports to write, papers to grade, meetings and conferences to attend, lessons to plan, etc. During the school year, I rarely have time to do things for myself because I have at least 3 different classes to prep for, so I'm always using my Saturdays and Sundays planning lessons and grading papers. Friday, from 3- bedtime is my only \"chill time.\" \n\nMy brother is currently an undergrad student and works about 30 hours a week. I was able to help him with his papers/assignments frequently this summer because I had more free time. Now that I'm moving to my own place and the school year is starting again, he knows I won't be able to help him as often as I used to. He wants to come over every Friday when I'm done with work so I can edit his papers and assignments. I understand that he appreciates my editing skills, but this kills me because the only \"me time\" I get during the week is Friday after work.\n\n I want him to do well, but I don't want to work myself to death. What can I do to solve this issue?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a high school teacher who is always incredibly busy during the school year. My day starts at 7 am and usually doesn't end until 7pm. There are always reports to write, papers to grade, meetings and conferences to attend, lessons to plan, etc. During the school year, I rarely have time to do things for myself because I have at least 3 different classes to prep for, so I'm always using my Saturdays and Sundays planning lessons and grading papers. Friday, from 3- bedtime is my only \"chill time.\" \n\nMy brother is currently an undergrad student and works about 30 hours a week. I was able to help him with his papers/assignments frequently this summer because I had more free time. Now that I'm moving to my own place and the school year is starting again, he knows I won't be able to help him as often as I used to. He wants to come over every Friday when I'm done with work so I can edit his papers and assignments. I understand that he appreciates my editing skills, but this kills me because the only \"me time\" I get during the week is Friday after work.\n\n I want him to do well, but I don't want to work myself to death. What can I do to solve this issue?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a high school teacher who is always incredibly busy during the school year. My day starts at 7 am and usually doesn't end until 7pm. There are always reports to write, papers to grade, meetings and conferences to attend, lessons to plan, etc. During the school year, I rarely have time to do things for myself because I have at least 3 different classes to prep for, so I'm always using my Saturdays and Sundays planning lessons and grading papers. Friday, from 3- bedtime is my only \"chill time.\" \n\nMy brother is currently an undergrad student and works about 30 hours a week. I was able to help him with his papers/assignments frequently this summer because I had more free time. Now that I'm moving to my own place and the school year is starting again, he knows I won't be able to help him as often as I used to. He wants to come over every Friday when I'm done with work so I can edit his papers and assignments. I understand that he appreciates my editing skills, but this kills me because the only \"me time\" I get during the week is Friday after work.\n\n I want him to do well, but I don't want to work myself to death. What can I do to solve this issue?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: this is gonna sound so wierd haha\nbasically im in a relationship where i care a lot about him but i don't know if i love him. to some extent i don't care about him, but i could never leave because i think it would break his heart. he is funny and caring, if a bit immature and pisses me off on more than one occasion. basically its like, sometimes ill be laying next to him and i don't feel he is real. as in, i have none of the feelings i have towards him like i do with other people, it seems like a charade. when we argue and he's made me sad i find it hard not to smile, nothing seems real with him. it doesn't feel like we've shared this time together, yet i don't want to imagine me without him or him without me. ill have moments where i feel really romantic towards him but others when im cold, like i feel i could punch him in the face and laugh about it. yet i am dependent almost on him, he makes me feel stable and loved and happier than anyone else and sometimes when i look at him there's this incredible spark between us. he is generous and kind and loving if a bit jealous and argumentative and non communicative and the sex is good and i know he is the best thing to happen to be but idk. \n\njust someone help with all this what do i do to love him the way i want. i want to have the spark all the time. i want to love him all the time and feel as if he is real. i want to be good enough at loving him and i don't want to let him go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: this is gonna sound so wierd haha\nbasically im in a relationship where i care a lot about him but i don't know if i love him. to some extent i don't care about him, but i could never leave because i think it would break his heart. he is funny and caring, if a bit immature and pisses me off on more than one occasion. basically its like, sometimes ill be laying next to him and i don't feel he is real. as in, i have none of the feelings i have towards him like i do with other people, it seems like a charade. when we argue and he's made me sad i find it hard not to smile, nothing seems real with him. it doesn't feel like we've shared this time together, yet i don't want to imagine me without him or him without me. ill have moments where i feel really romantic towards him but others when im cold, like i feel i could punch him in the face and laugh about it. yet i am dependent almost on him, he makes me feel stable and loved and happier than anyone else and sometimes when i look at him there's this incredible spark between us. he is generous and kind and loving if a bit jealous and argumentative and non communicative and the sex is good and i know he is the best thing to happen to be but idk. \n\njust someone help with all this what do i do to love him the way i want. i want to have the spark all the time. i want to love him all the time and feel as if he is real. i want to be good enough at loving him and i don't want to let him go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: this is gonna sound so wierd haha\nbasically im in a relationship where i care a lot about him but i don't know if i love him. to some extent i don't care about him, but i could never leave because i think it would break his heart. he is funny and caring, if a bit immature and pisses me off on more than one occasion. basically its like, sometimes ill be laying next to him and i don't feel he is real. as in, i have none of the feelings i have towards him like i do with other people, it seems like a charade. when we argue and he's made me sad i find it hard not to smile, nothing seems real with him. it doesn't feel like we've shared this time together, yet i don't want to imagine me without him or him without me. ill have moments where i feel really romantic towards him but others when im cold, like i feel i could punch him in the face and laugh about it. yet i am dependent almost on him, he makes me feel stable and loved and happier than anyone else and sometimes when i look at him there's this incredible spark between us. he is generous and kind and loving if a bit jealous and argumentative and non communicative and the sex is good and i know he is the best thing to happen to be but idk. \n\njust someone help with all this what do i do to love him the way i want. i want to have the spark all the time. i want to love him all the time and feel as if he is real. i want to be good enough at loving him and i don't want to let him go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: this is gonna sound so wierd haha\nbasically im in a relationship where i care a lot about him but i don't know if i love him. to some extent i don't care about him, but i could never leave because i think it would break his heart. he is funny and caring, if a bit immature and pisses me off on more than one occasion. basically its like, sometimes ill be laying next to him and i don't feel he is real. as in, i have none of the feelings i have towards him like i do with other people, it seems like a charade. when we argue and he's made me sad i find it hard not to smile, nothing seems real with him. it doesn't feel like we've shared this time together, yet i don't want to imagine me without him or him without me. ill have moments where i feel really romantic towards him but others when im cold, like i feel i could punch him in the face and laugh about it. yet i am dependent almost on him, he makes me feel stable and loved and happier than anyone else and sometimes when i look at him there's this incredible spark between us. he is generous and kind and loving if a bit jealous and argumentative and non communicative and the sex is good and i know he is the best thing to happen to be but idk. \n\njust someone help with all this what do i do to love him the way i want. i want to have the spark all the time. i want to love him all the time and feel as if he is real. i want to be good enough at loving him and i don't want to let him go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: this is gonna sound so wierd haha\nbasically im in a relationship where i care a lot about him but i don't know if i love him. to some extent i don't care about him, but i could never leave because i think it would break his heart. he is funny and caring, if a bit immature and pisses me off on more than one occasion. basically its like, sometimes ill be laying next to him and i don't feel he is real. as in, i have none of the feelings i have towards him like i do with other people, it seems like a charade. when we argue and he's made me sad i find it hard not to smile, nothing seems real with him. it doesn't feel like we've shared this time together, yet i don't want to imagine me without him or him without me. ill have moments where i feel really romantic towards him but others when im cold, like i feel i could punch him in the face and laugh about it. yet i am dependent almost on him, he makes me feel stable and loved and happier than anyone else and sometimes when i look at him there's this incredible spark between us. he is generous and kind and loving if a bit jealous and argumentative and non communicative and the sex is good and i know he is the best thing to happen to be but idk. \n\njust someone help with all this what do i do to love him the way i want. i want to have the spark all the time. i want to love him all the time and feel as if he is real. i want to be good enough at loving him and i don't want to let him go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll try to keep this short.\n\nWe've been together 7.5 years. For the first five years or so our sex life was great; not too frequent, but passionate and intense.\n\nAbout two years ago I noticed that my girlfriend's sex drive sharply decreased. We went from 2-3 times a week to maybe once a month. In the years since I've been patient, but this has been difficult for me.\n\nI've told myself that things will get better, that it's been a stressful time for us. We spoke about the matter several times, and I've done my best to address the problem.\n\nI've deferred my plans for working overseas. I've worked to support us during these two years so she could focus on school. II've tolerated the extremely religious part of her family that hates my guts. I've planned trips and romantic dates. And I've done it all with a smile because I love her. She's my best friend.\n\nBut the lack of sex has gotten to me. It's gotten to the point where every night feels like a rejection. I've become resentful of every activity she suggests because I can't stop thinking \"you have so much time and energy for this, but not for me?\"\n\n We've been drinking a lot more. I haven't been comfortable with the amount, and I've just realized that I've gone along with it because for the past year the only times we've been intimate has been when we were drunk. This makes me feel selfish and pathetic.\n\nLast night she told me that she's just never thought of herself as a truly sexual person, and I fell apart. I've been telling myself that it'll get better, that this is just a rough patch, but what if I'm wrong? What if these years of hope and sacrifice don't change a thing?\n\nI love her more than anything, but I'm terrified of what my life might become.\n\nIf you made it through all this thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll try to keep this short.\n\nWe've been together 7.5 years. For the first five years or so our sex life was great; not too frequent, but passionate and intense.\n\nAbout two years ago I noticed that my girlfriend's sex drive sharply decreased. We went from 2-3 times a week to maybe once a month. In the years since I've been patient, but this has been difficult for me.\n\nI've told myself that things will get better, that it's been a stressful time for us. We spoke about the matter several times, and I've done my best to address the problem.\n\nI've deferred my plans for working overseas. I've worked to support us during these two years so she could focus on school. II've tolerated the extremely religious part of her family that hates my guts. I've planned trips and romantic dates. And I've done it all with a smile because I love her. She's my best friend.\n\nBut the lack of sex has gotten to me. It's gotten to the point where every night feels like a rejection. I've become resentful of every activity she suggests because I can't stop thinking \"you have so much time and energy for this, but not for me?\"\n\n We've been drinking a lot more. I haven't been comfortable with the amount, and I've just realized that I've gone along with it because for the past year the only times we've been intimate has been when we were drunk. This makes me feel selfish and pathetic.\n\nLast night she told me that she's just never thought of herself as a truly sexual person, and I fell apart. I've been telling myself that it'll get better, that this is just a rough patch, but what if I'm wrong? What if these years of hope and sacrifice don't change a thing?\n\nI love her more than anything, but I'm terrified of what my life might become.\n\nIf you made it through all this thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll try to keep this short.\n\nWe've been together 7.5 years. For the first five years or so our sex life was great; not too frequent, but passionate and intense.\n\nAbout two years ago I noticed that my girlfriend's sex drive sharply decreased. We went from 2-3 times a week to maybe once a month. In the years since I've been patient, but this has been difficult for me.\n\nI've told myself that things will get better, that it's been a stressful time for us. We spoke about the matter several times, and I've done my best to address the problem.\n\nI've deferred my plans for working overseas. I've worked to support us during these two years so she could focus on school. II've tolerated the extremely religious part of her family that hates my guts. I've planned trips and romantic dates. And I've done it all with a smile because I love her. She's my best friend.\n\nBut the lack of sex has gotten to me. It's gotten to the point where every night feels like a rejection. I've become resentful of every activity she suggests because I can't stop thinking \"you have so much time and energy for this, but not for me?\"\n\n We've been drinking a lot more. I haven't been comfortable with the amount, and I've just realized that I've gone along with it because for the past year the only times we've been intimate has been when we were drunk. This makes me feel selfish and pathetic.\n\nLast night she told me that she's just never thought of herself as a truly sexual person, and I fell apart. I've been telling myself that it'll get better, that this is just a rough patch, but what if I'm wrong? What if these years of hope and sacrifice don't change a thing?\n\nI love her more than anything, but I'm terrified of what my life might become.\n\nIf you made it through all this thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll try to keep this short.\n\nWe've been together 7.5 years. For the first five years or so our sex life was great; not too frequent, but passionate and intense.\n\nAbout two years ago I noticed that my girlfriend's sex drive sharply decreased. We went from 2-3 times a week to maybe once a month. In the years since I've been patient, but this has been difficult for me.\n\nI've told myself that things will get better, that it's been a stressful time for us. We spoke about the matter several times, and I've done my best to address the problem.\n\nI've deferred my plans for working overseas. I've worked to support us during these two years so she could focus on school. II've tolerated the extremely religious part of her family that hates my guts. I've planned trips and romantic dates. And I've done it all with a smile because I love her. She's my best friend.\n\nBut the lack of sex has gotten to me. It's gotten to the point where every night feels like a rejection. I've become resentful of every activity she suggests because I can't stop thinking \"you have so much time and energy for this, but not for me?\"\n\n We've been drinking a lot more. I haven't been comfortable with the amount, and I've just realized that I've gone along with it because for the past year the only times we've been intimate has been when we were drunk. This makes me feel selfish and pathetic.\n\nLast night she told me that she's just never thought of herself as a truly sexual person, and I fell apart. I've been telling myself that it'll get better, that this is just a rough patch, but what if I'm wrong? What if these years of hope and sacrifice don't change a thing?\n\nI love her more than anything, but I'm terrified of what my life might become.\n\nIf you made it through all this thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll try to keep this short.\n\nWe've been together 7.5 years. For the first five years or so our sex life was great; not too frequent, but passionate and intense.\n\nAbout two years ago I noticed that my girlfriend's sex drive sharply decreased. We went from 2-3 times a week to maybe once a month. In the years since I've been patient, but this has been difficult for me.\n\nI've told myself that things will get better, that it's been a stressful time for us. We spoke about the matter several times, and I've done my best to address the problem.\n\nI've deferred my plans for working overseas. I've worked to support us during these two years so she could focus on school. II've tolerated the extremely religious part of her family that hates my guts. I've planned trips and romantic dates. And I've done it all with a smile because I love her. She's my best friend.\n\nBut the lack of sex has gotten to me. It's gotten to the point where every night feels like a rejection. I've become resentful of every activity she suggests because I can't stop thinking \"you have so much time and energy for this, but not for me?\"\n\n We've been drinking a lot more. I haven't been comfortable with the amount, and I've just realized that I've gone along with it because for the past year the only times we've been intimate has been when we were drunk. This makes me feel selfish and pathetic.\n\nLast night she told me that she's just never thought of herself as a truly sexual person, and I fell apart. I've been telling myself that it'll get better, that this is just a rough patch, but what if I'm wrong? What if these years of hope and sacrifice don't change a thing?\n\nI love her more than anything, but I'm terrified of what my life might become.\n\nIf you made it through all this thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll try to keep this short.\n\nWe've been together 7.5 years. For the first five years or so our sex life was great; not too frequent, but passionate and intense.\n\nAbout two years ago I noticed that my girlfriend's sex drive sharply decreased. We went from 2-3 times a week to maybe once a month. In the years since I've been patient, but this has been difficult for me.\n\nI've told myself that things will get better, that it's been a stressful time for us. We spoke about the matter several times, and I've done my best to address the problem.\n\nI've deferred my plans for working overseas. I've worked to support us during these two years so she could focus on school. II've tolerated the extremely religious part of her family that hates my guts. I've planned trips and romantic dates. And I've done it all with a smile because I love her. She's my best friend.\n\nBut the lack of sex has gotten to me. It's gotten to the point where every night feels like a rejection. I've become resentful of every activity she suggests because I can't stop thinking \"you have so much time and energy for this, but not for me?\"\n\n We've been drinking a lot more. I haven't been comfortable with the amount, and I've just realized that I've gone along with it because for the past year the only times we've been intimate has been when we were drunk. This makes me feel selfish and pathetic.\n\nLast night she told me that she's just never thought of herself as a truly sexual person, and I fell apart. I've been telling myself that it'll get better, that this is just a rough patch, but what if I'm wrong? What if these years of hope and sacrifice don't change a thing?\n\nI love her more than anything, but I'm terrified of what my life might become.\n\nIf you made it through all this thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have complex dreams about once or twice a month. They usually involve a girl and the next day I feel extremely good, filled with love hormones and whatnot. Sometimes the dreams are weird in their complexity. Here are two of my examples.\n\n-I once dreamed I wrote a song. I actually saw the lyrics and a band performed the song in my dream. It was incredible as the lyrics were impressive and the song was played flawlessly by the band. I hadn't heard the song before in real life, I'm pretty sure about that.\nAlso, I once dreamed I wrote a poem in french. I don't know french in real life, so well that I could write a poem. I just know the reaally basic stuff.\n\n-Only last night I had a dream about a girl, who was, in my dream at least, perfect. Thin, sexy, beautiful. She giggled a lot and I loved spending time with her in the sun. We played a bit on the greenest hills ever, while the sky was a dark sunset orange. Then we climbed to a cabin/hotel through some snow, laughing and kissing all the way up. \n\nThen it got a bit weirder as she was forced into a deal by some drug dealer and she didn't let me intervene. In the morning, she said we would meet up in front of the cabin and go back home. I took advantage of that and killed the drug dealer, and then went outside. I couldn't wait to spend some time with her again, like we were newly-wed or something. \nAn ambulance came, somehow, and she realized what I did, and didn't want to speak to me. There the alarm went off and I woke up. :(\n\nIf that Inception contraption was real, I surely would have loved to spend even days of dream-time with that girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have complex dreams about once or twice a month. They usually involve a girl and the next day I feel extremely good, filled with love hormones and whatnot. Sometimes the dreams are weird in their complexity. Here are two of my examples.\n\n-I once dreamed I wrote a song. I actually saw the lyrics and a band performed the song in my dream. It was incredible as the lyrics were impressive and the song was played flawlessly by the band. I hadn't heard the song before in real life, I'm pretty sure about that.\nAlso, I once dreamed I wrote a poem in french. I don't know french in real life, so well that I could write a poem. I just know the reaally basic stuff.\n\n-Only last night I had a dream about a girl, who was, in my dream at least, perfect. Thin, sexy, beautiful. She giggled a lot and I loved spending time with her in the sun. We played a bit on the greenest hills ever, while the sky was a dark sunset orange. Then we climbed to a cabin/hotel through some snow, laughing and kissing all the way up. \n\nThen it got a bit weirder as she was forced into a deal by some drug dealer and she didn't let me intervene. In the morning, she said we would meet up in front of the cabin and go back home. I took advantage of that and killed the drug dealer, and then went outside. I couldn't wait to spend some time with her again, like we were newly-wed or something. \nAn ambulance came, somehow, and she realized what I did, and didn't want to speak to me. There the alarm went off and I woke up. :(\n\nIf that Inception contraption was real, I surely would have loved to spend even days of dream-time with that girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have complex dreams about once or twice a month. They usually involve a girl and the next day I feel extremely good, filled with love hormones and whatnot. Sometimes the dreams are weird in their complexity. Here are two of my examples.\n\n-I once dreamed I wrote a song. I actually saw the lyrics and a band performed the song in my dream. It was incredible as the lyrics were impressive and the song was played flawlessly by the band. I hadn't heard the song before in real life, I'm pretty sure about that.\nAlso, I once dreamed I wrote a poem in french. I don't know french in real life, so well that I could write a poem. I just know the reaally basic stuff.\n\n-Only last night I had a dream about a girl, who was, in my dream at least, perfect. Thin, sexy, beautiful. She giggled a lot and I loved spending time with her in the sun. We played a bit on the greenest hills ever, while the sky was a dark sunset orange. Then we climbed to a cabin/hotel through some snow, laughing and kissing all the way up. \n\nThen it got a bit weirder as she was forced into a deal by some drug dealer and she didn't let me intervene. In the morning, she said we would meet up in front of the cabin and go back home. I took advantage of that and killed the drug dealer, and then went outside. I couldn't wait to spend some time with her again, like we were newly-wed or something. \nAn ambulance came, somehow, and she realized what I did, and didn't want to speak to me. There the alarm went off and I woke up. :(\n\nIf that Inception contraption was real, I surely would have loved to spend even days of dream-time with that girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have complex dreams about once or twice a month. They usually involve a girl and the next day I feel extremely good, filled with love hormones and whatnot. Sometimes the dreams are weird in their complexity. Here are two of my examples.\n\n-I once dreamed I wrote a song. I actually saw the lyrics and a band performed the song in my dream. It was incredible as the lyrics were impressive and the song was played flawlessly by the band. I hadn't heard the song before in real life, I'm pretty sure about that.\nAlso, I once dreamed I wrote a poem in french. I don't know french in real life, so well that I could write a poem. I just know the reaally basic stuff.\n\n-Only last night I had a dream about a girl, who was, in my dream at least, perfect. Thin, sexy, beautiful. She giggled a lot and I loved spending time with her in the sun. We played a bit on the greenest hills ever, while the sky was a dark sunset orange. Then we climbed to a cabin/hotel through some snow, laughing and kissing all the way up. \n\nThen it got a bit weirder as she was forced into a deal by some drug dealer and she didn't let me intervene. In the morning, she said we would meet up in front of the cabin and go back home. I took advantage of that and killed the drug dealer, and then went outside. I couldn't wait to spend some time with her again, like we were newly-wed or something. \nAn ambulance came, somehow, and she realized what I did, and didn't want to speak to me. There the alarm went off and I woke up. :(\n\nIf that Inception contraption was real, I surely would have loved to spend even days of dream-time with that girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have complex dreams about once or twice a month. They usually involve a girl and the next day I feel extremely good, filled with love hormones and whatnot. Sometimes the dreams are weird in their complexity. Here are two of my examples.\n\n-I once dreamed I wrote a song. I actually saw the lyrics and a band performed the song in my dream. It was incredible as the lyrics were impressive and the song was played flawlessly by the band. I hadn't heard the song before in real life, I'm pretty sure about that.\nAlso, I once dreamed I wrote a poem in french. I don't know french in real life, so well that I could write a poem. I just know the reaally basic stuff.\n\n-Only last night I had a dream about a girl, who was, in my dream at least, perfect. Thin, sexy, beautiful. She giggled a lot and I loved spending time with her in the sun. We played a bit on the greenest hills ever, while the sky was a dark sunset orange. Then we climbed to a cabin/hotel through some snow, laughing and kissing all the way up. \n\nThen it got a bit weirder as she was forced into a deal by some drug dealer and she didn't let me intervene. In the morning, she said we would meet up in front of the cabin and go back home. I took advantage of that and killed the drug dealer, and then went outside. I couldn't wait to spend some time with her again, like we were newly-wed or something. \nAn ambulance came, somehow, and she realized what I did, and didn't want to speak to me. There the alarm went off and I woke up. :(\n\nIf that Inception contraption was real, I surely would have loved to spend even days of dream-time with that girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have complex dreams about once or twice a month. They usually involve a girl and the next day I feel extremely good, filled with love hormones and whatnot. Sometimes the dreams are weird in their complexity. Here are two of my examples.\n\n-I once dreamed I wrote a song. I actually saw the lyrics and a band performed the song in my dream. It was incredible as the lyrics were impressive and the song was played flawlessly by the band. I hadn't heard the song before in real life, I'm pretty sure about that.\nAlso, I once dreamed I wrote a poem in french. I don't know french in real life, so well that I could write a poem. I just know the reaally basic stuff.\n\n-Only last night I had a dream about a girl, who was, in my dream at least, perfect. Thin, sexy, beautiful. She giggled a lot and I loved spending time with her in the sun. We played a bit on the greenest hills ever, while the sky was a dark sunset orange. Then we climbed to a cabin/hotel through some snow, laughing and kissing all the way up. \n\nThen it got a bit weirder as she was forced into a deal by some drug dealer and she didn't let me intervene. In the morning, she said we would meet up in front of the cabin and go back home. I took advantage of that and killed the drug dealer, and then went outside. I couldn't wait to spend some time with her again, like we were newly-wed or something. \nAn ambulance came, somehow, and she realized what I did, and didn't want to speak to me. There the alarm went off and I woke up. :(\n\nIf that Inception contraption was real, I surely would have loved to spend even days of dream-time with that girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both 24. He basically said that he needs more time for himself. Sometimes he feels smothered by the amount of time we spend together. We used to have lots of time apart when we didn't live together, but obviously that's different now. He lived 500 miles from me. When When we first started living together, he mentioned doing more 'guy' type things. So, I gave him space, but then it's almost like he spent all of his time doing those things instead. So then I spoke up and we did everything together. I am so happy about that. I'm just the kind of girl that doesn't really like doing many things on my own. I've always done everything with basically one or two close friends, or in this case, my fiance now. I'd much rather be with someone than spending time alone. So, how to I give him the space he wants/needs while still satisfying myself? How do I know how much is ok and how much is too much?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both 24. He basically said that he needs more time for himself. Sometimes he feels smothered by the amount of time we spend together. We used to have lots of time apart when we didn't live together, but obviously that's different now. He lived 500 miles from me. When When we first started living together, he mentioned doing more 'guy' type things. So, I gave him space, but then it's almost like he spent all of his time doing those things instead. So then I spoke up and we did everything together. I am so happy about that. I'm just the kind of girl that doesn't really like doing many things on my own. I've always done everything with basically one or two close friends, or in this case, my fiance now. I'd much rather be with someone than spending time alone. So, how to I give him the space he wants/needs while still satisfying myself? How do I know how much is ok and how much is too much?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both 24. He basically said that he needs more time for himself. Sometimes he feels smothered by the amount of time we spend together. We used to have lots of time apart when we didn't live together, but obviously that's different now. He lived 500 miles from me. When When we first started living together, he mentioned doing more 'guy' type things. So, I gave him space, but then it's almost like he spent all of his time doing those things instead. So then I spoke up and we did everything together. I am so happy about that. I'm just the kind of girl that doesn't really like doing many things on my own. I've always done everything with basically one or two close friends, or in this case, my fiance now. I'd much rather be with someone than spending time alone. So, how to I give him the space he wants/needs while still satisfying myself? How do I know how much is ok and how much is too much?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both 24. He basically said that he needs more time for himself. Sometimes he feels smothered by the amount of time we spend together. We used to have lots of time apart when we didn't live together, but obviously that's different now. He lived 500 miles from me. When When we first started living together, he mentioned doing more 'guy' type things. So, I gave him space, but then it's almost like he spent all of his time doing those things instead. So then I spoke up and we did everything together. I am so happy about that. I'm just the kind of girl that doesn't really like doing many things on my own. I've always done everything with basically one or two close friends, or in this case, my fiance now. I'd much rather be with someone than spending time alone. So, how to I give him the space he wants/needs while still satisfying myself? How do I know how much is ok and how much is too much?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both 24. He basically said that he needs more time for himself. Sometimes he feels smothered by the amount of time we spend together. We used to have lots of time apart when we didn't live together, but obviously that's different now. He lived 500 miles from me. When When we first started living together, he mentioned doing more 'guy' type things. So, I gave him space, but then it's almost like he spent all of his time doing those things instead. So then I spoke up and we did everything together. I am so happy about that. I'm just the kind of girl that doesn't really like doing many things on my own. I've always done everything with basically one or two close friends, or in this case, my fiance now. I'd much rather be with someone than spending time alone. So, how to I give him the space he wants/needs while still satisfying myself? How do I know how much is ok and how much is too much?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both 24. He basically said that he needs more time for himself. Sometimes he feels smothered by the amount of time we spend together. We used to have lots of time apart when we didn't live together, but obviously that's different now. He lived 500 miles from me. When When we first started living together, he mentioned doing more 'guy' type things. So, I gave him space, but then it's almost like he spent all of his time doing those things instead. So then I spoke up and we did everything together. I am so happy about that. I'm just the kind of girl that doesn't really like doing many things on my own. I've always done everything with basically one or two close friends, or in this case, my fiance now. I'd much rather be with someone than spending time alone. So, how to I give him the space he wants/needs while still satisfying myself? How do I know how much is ok and how much is too much?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\nAfter some breif texts re: her packing to move and being busy with doing homework I offered to come over and help. She said she \"didn't really need help, but the company would be nice for a bit\" and gave me her address. I got there about 30-45 minutes later and we talked for about 5 minutes about nothing in particular before she hinted that she wanted me to leave (in a very nice way) so she could Skype with her kids who live out of town. I left feeling like shit being as I had not expected to get booted out so fast.\n\nI texted her later telling her that I couldn't help but feel like I had intruded upon her ect, and she said that I hadn't and that she was just busy. \n\nI'm still confused to all hell about this \"relationship\". Have I been friend zoned or is it just really bad timing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\nAfter some breif texts re: her packing to move and being busy with doing homework I offered to come over and help. She said she \"didn't really need help, but the company would be nice for a bit\" and gave me her address. I got there about 30-45 minutes later and we talked for about 5 minutes about nothing in particular before she hinted that she wanted me to leave (in a very nice way) so she could Skype with her kids who live out of town. I left feeling like shit being as I had not expected to get booted out so fast.\n\nI texted her later telling her that I couldn't help but feel like I had intruded upon her ect, and she said that I hadn't and that she was just busy. \n\nI'm still confused to all hell about this \"relationship\". Have I been friend zoned or is it just really bad timing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\nAfter some breif texts re: her packing to move and being busy with doing homework I offered to come over and help. She said she \"didn't really need help, but the company would be nice for a bit\" and gave me her address. I got there about 30-45 minutes later and we talked for about 5 minutes about nothing in particular before she hinted that she wanted me to leave (in a very nice way) so she could Skype with her kids who live out of town. I left feeling like shit being as I had not expected to get booted out so fast.\n\nI texted her later telling her that I couldn't help but feel like I had intruded upon her ect, and she said that I hadn't and that she was just busy. \n\nI'm still confused to all hell about this \"relationship\". Have I been friend zoned or is it just really bad timing."
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