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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 accounts with YouTube. My account that I have had for years. TheElaborinth8993 where all of my channel subscriptions are. And my google+ YouTube account. \n\nBoth are based on the same email, with the same login information. But when I sign into YouTube. It asks me \"Use YouTube as.\" And then lists my TheElaborinth8993 account and my google+ account. \n\nNow the problem I am having is, I recently just started using the Google Play All Access, where I have access to YouTube Music Key. Which is where I can stream YouTube in the background of my phone. And that feature is only available on my Google+ account. Not my TheElaborinth8993 account. \n\nI don't want that. My TheElaborinth8993 account has 60+ channels I am subscribed to. My google+ account has none of the channels I am subbed to.\n\nDoes anyone know of anyway I can fix this? Or is my only option to rebuild my whole YouTube life on my Google+ account and delete my TheElaborinth8993 I have had for 4+ years. \n\nAny help will be greatly appreciated. Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 accounts with YouTube. My account that I have had for years. TheElaborinth8993 where all of my channel subscriptions are. And my google+ YouTube account. \n\nBoth are based on the same email, with the same login information. But when I sign into YouTube. It asks me \"Use YouTube as.\" And then lists my TheElaborinth8993 account and my google+ account. \n\nNow the problem I am having is, I recently just started using the Google Play All Access, where I have access to YouTube Music Key. Which is where I can stream YouTube in the background of my phone. And that feature is only available on my Google+ account. Not my TheElaborinth8993 account. \n\nI don't want that. My TheElaborinth8993 account has 60+ channels I am subscribed to. My google+ account has none of the channels I am subbed to.\n\nDoes anyone know of anyway I can fix this? Or is my only option to rebuild my whole YouTube life on my Google+ account and delete my TheElaborinth8993 I have had for 4+ years. \n\nAny help will be greatly appreciated. Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 accounts with YouTube. My account that I have had for years. TheElaborinth8993 where all of my channel subscriptions are. And my google+ YouTube account. \n\nBoth are based on the same email, with the same login information. But when I sign into YouTube. It asks me \"Use YouTube as.\" And then lists my TheElaborinth8993 account and my google+ account. \n\nNow the problem I am having is, I recently just started using the Google Play All Access, where I have access to YouTube Music Key. Which is where I can stream YouTube in the background of my phone. And that feature is only available on my Google+ account. Not my TheElaborinth8993 account. \n\nI don't want that. My TheElaborinth8993 account has 60+ channels I am subscribed to. My google+ account has none of the channels I am subbed to.\n\nDoes anyone know of anyway I can fix this? Or is my only option to rebuild my whole YouTube life on my Google+ account and delete my TheElaborinth8993 I have had for 4+ years. \n\nAny help will be greatly appreciated. Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, to make a long story slightly less long:\n\nI have been dating this girl for just over 2 years now, and I am completely in love with her. She's smart, funny, sexy, and my best friend. The thing is, she doesn't see herself that way. She doesn't believe that I actually think she's sexy, because she has insecurities about the tiny bit of weight she has on her stomach, as well as extremely minor stretch marks on her legs from when she was younger. I constantly tell her she's beautiful, that I find her extremely sexy, and that she's the only one for me, and yet she doesn't seem to take it to heart, and her self-esteem is staying pretty shit. I don't really know what else I can do to help her out, besides continuing to provide positive reinforcement.\n\nTo make matters worse, she lives with a father that absolutely dotes on her high school burnout younger brother, giving him money, clothes, video games, and treating him like royalty while simultaneously expecting her to do all the cleaning, cooking, and tidying up. Real Cinderella shit. Her dad will grumble and make a fuss about picking her up from work, because it causes him to miss his favorite T.V shows that he's PVRing. He won't give her the car many days to go to work, in order to take his spoiled dog to the dog park, because \"he's just as important, and you can find another way to work\" (actual quote, and no she can't). She's practically pulling her hair out living there, and I try to help her deal with it as best I can, but I live 45 minutes away and work full time during the day while she works part/full-time in the evenings. \n\nWhat can I do Reddit? I am doing everything I can to be supportive besides supporting her financially, and I just don't know what more I can do to better her situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, to make a long story slightly less long:\n\nI have been dating this girl for just over 2 years now, and I am completely in love with her. She's smart, funny, sexy, and my best friend. The thing is, she doesn't see herself that way. She doesn't believe that I actually think she's sexy, because she has insecurities about the tiny bit of weight she has on her stomach, as well as extremely minor stretch marks on her legs from when she was younger. I constantly tell her she's beautiful, that I find her extremely sexy, and that she's the only one for me, and yet she doesn't seem to take it to heart, and her self-esteem is staying pretty shit. I don't really know what else I can do to help her out, besides continuing to provide positive reinforcement.\n\nTo make matters worse, she lives with a father that absolutely dotes on her high school burnout younger brother, giving him money, clothes, video games, and treating him like royalty while simultaneously expecting her to do all the cleaning, cooking, and tidying up. Real Cinderella shit. Her dad will grumble and make a fuss about picking her up from work, because it causes him to miss his favorite T.V shows that he's PVRing. He won't give her the car many days to go to work, in order to take his spoiled dog to the dog park, because \"he's just as important, and you can find another way to work\" (actual quote, and no she can't). She's practically pulling her hair out living there, and I try to help her deal with it as best I can, but I live 45 minutes away and work full time during the day while she works part/full-time in the evenings. \n\nWhat can I do Reddit? I am doing everything I can to be supportive besides supporting her financially, and I just don't know what more I can do to better her situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, to make a long story slightly less long:\n\nI have been dating this girl for just over 2 years now, and I am completely in love with her. She's smart, funny, sexy, and my best friend. The thing is, she doesn't see herself that way. She doesn't believe that I actually think she's sexy, because she has insecurities about the tiny bit of weight she has on her stomach, as well as extremely minor stretch marks on her legs from when she was younger. I constantly tell her she's beautiful, that I find her extremely sexy, and that she's the only one for me, and yet she doesn't seem to take it to heart, and her self-esteem is staying pretty shit. I don't really know what else I can do to help her out, besides continuing to provide positive reinforcement.\n\nTo make matters worse, she lives with a father that absolutely dotes on her high school burnout younger brother, giving him money, clothes, video games, and treating him like royalty while simultaneously expecting her to do all the cleaning, cooking, and tidying up. Real Cinderella shit. Her dad will grumble and make a fuss about picking her up from work, because it causes him to miss his favorite T.V shows that he's PVRing. He won't give her the car many days to go to work, in order to take his spoiled dog to the dog park, because \"he's just as important, and you can find another way to work\" (actual quote, and no she can't). She's practically pulling her hair out living there, and I try to help her deal with it as best I can, but I live 45 minutes away and work full time during the day while she works part/full-time in the evenings. \n\nWhat can I do Reddit? I am doing everything I can to be supportive besides supporting her financially, and I just don't know what more I can do to better her situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, to make a long story slightly less long:\n\nI have been dating this girl for just over 2 years now, and I am completely in love with her. She's smart, funny, sexy, and my best friend. The thing is, she doesn't see herself that way. She doesn't believe that I actually think she's sexy, because she has insecurities about the tiny bit of weight she has on her stomach, as well as extremely minor stretch marks on her legs from when she was younger. I constantly tell her she's beautiful, that I find her extremely sexy, and that she's the only one for me, and yet she doesn't seem to take it to heart, and her self-esteem is staying pretty shit. I don't really know what else I can do to help her out, besides continuing to provide positive reinforcement.\n\nTo make matters worse, she lives with a father that absolutely dotes on her high school burnout younger brother, giving him money, clothes, video games, and treating him like royalty while simultaneously expecting her to do all the cleaning, cooking, and tidying up. Real Cinderella shit. Her dad will grumble and make a fuss about picking her up from work, because it causes him to miss his favorite T.V shows that he's PVRing. He won't give her the car many days to go to work, in order to take his spoiled dog to the dog park, because \"he's just as important, and you can find another way to work\" (actual quote, and no she can't). She's practically pulling her hair out living there, and I try to help her deal with it as best I can, but I live 45 minutes away and work full time during the day while she works part/full-time in the evenings. \n\nWhat can I do Reddit? I am doing everything I can to be supportive besides supporting her financially, and I just don't know what more I can do to better her situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, to make a long story slightly less long:\n\nI have been dating this girl for just over 2 years now, and I am completely in love with her. She's smart, funny, sexy, and my best friend. The thing is, she doesn't see herself that way. She doesn't believe that I actually think she's sexy, because she has insecurities about the tiny bit of weight she has on her stomach, as well as extremely minor stretch marks on her legs from when she was younger. I constantly tell her she's beautiful, that I find her extremely sexy, and that she's the only one for me, and yet she doesn't seem to take it to heart, and her self-esteem is staying pretty shit. I don't really know what else I can do to help her out, besides continuing to provide positive reinforcement.\n\nTo make matters worse, she lives with a father that absolutely dotes on her high school burnout younger brother, giving him money, clothes, video games, and treating him like royalty while simultaneously expecting her to do all the cleaning, cooking, and tidying up. Real Cinderella shit. Her dad will grumble and make a fuss about picking her up from work, because it causes him to miss his favorite T.V shows that he's PVRing. He won't give her the car many days to go to work, in order to take his spoiled dog to the dog park, because \"he's just as important, and you can find another way to work\" (actual quote, and no she can't). She's practically pulling her hair out living there, and I try to help her deal with it as best I can, but I live 45 minutes away and work full time during the day while she works part/full-time in the evenings. \n\nWhat can I do Reddit? I am doing everything I can to be supportive besides supporting her financially, and I just don't know what more I can do to better her situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, to make a long story slightly less long:\n\nI have been dating this girl for just over 2 years now, and I am completely in love with her. She's smart, funny, sexy, and my best friend. The thing is, she doesn't see herself that way. She doesn't believe that I actually think she's sexy, because she has insecurities about the tiny bit of weight she has on her stomach, as well as extremely minor stretch marks on her legs from when she was younger. I constantly tell her she's beautiful, that I find her extremely sexy, and that she's the only one for me, and yet she doesn't seem to take it to heart, and her self-esteem is staying pretty shit. I don't really know what else I can do to help her out, besides continuing to provide positive reinforcement.\n\nTo make matters worse, she lives with a father that absolutely dotes on her high school burnout younger brother, giving him money, clothes, video games, and treating him like royalty while simultaneously expecting her to do all the cleaning, cooking, and tidying up. Real Cinderella shit. Her dad will grumble and make a fuss about picking her up from work, because it causes him to miss his favorite T.V shows that he's PVRing. He won't give her the car many days to go to work, in order to take his spoiled dog to the dog park, because \"he's just as important, and you can find another way to work\" (actual quote, and no she can't). She's practically pulling her hair out living there, and I try to help her deal with it as best I can, but I live 45 minutes away and work full time during the day while she works part/full-time in the evenings. \n\nWhat can I do Reddit? I am doing everything I can to be supportive besides supporting her financially, and I just don't know what more I can do to better her situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live with my GF of three years and we've been in therapy for the past 4 months. We fight a lot and have terrible communication. Things have been getting better and there is much more good times and positivity in the air. That being said, I don't know if I want to be in this relationship anymore. I love her dearly, care about her, and things are fine right now. If we were younger things probably would be fine but it's to a point where I feel marriage is on the horizon and I don't know if she is truly the one for me. I love her but I don't know if I am truly in love with her. I really don't feel we will ever get to that point either. At the core, we are different people with different outlooks on life, different sex drives, etc. I guess what I'm getting at is, I feel this odd feeling of how can I break up with someone even though I love her and things are fine right now. I've never been in this position before. And if I do break up, how do I go about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live with my GF of three years and we've been in therapy for the past 4 months. We fight a lot and have terrible communication. Things have been getting better and there is much more good times and positivity in the air. That being said, I don't know if I want to be in this relationship anymore. I love her dearly, care about her, and things are fine right now. If we were younger things probably would be fine but it's to a point where I feel marriage is on the horizon and I don't know if she is truly the one for me. I love her but I don't know if I am truly in love with her. I really don't feel we will ever get to that point either. At the core, we are different people with different outlooks on life, different sex drives, etc. I guess what I'm getting at is, I feel this odd feeling of how can I break up with someone even though I love her and things are fine right now. I've never been in this position before. And if I do break up, how do I go about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live with my GF of three years and we've been in therapy for the past 4 months. We fight a lot and have terrible communication. Things have been getting better and there is much more good times and positivity in the air. That being said, I don't know if I want to be in this relationship anymore. I love her dearly, care about her, and things are fine right now. If we were younger things probably would be fine but it's to a point where I feel marriage is on the horizon and I don't know if she is truly the one for me. I love her but I don't know if I am truly in love with her. I really don't feel we will ever get to that point either. At the core, we are different people with different outlooks on life, different sex drives, etc. I guess what I'm getting at is, I feel this odd feeling of how can I break up with someone even though I love her and things are fine right now. I've never been in this position before. And if I do break up, how do I go about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live with my GF of three years and we've been in therapy for the past 4 months. We fight a lot and have terrible communication. Things have been getting better and there is much more good times and positivity in the air. That being said, I don't know if I want to be in this relationship anymore. I love her dearly, care about her, and things are fine right now. If we were younger things probably would be fine but it's to a point where I feel marriage is on the horizon and I don't know if she is truly the one for me. I love her but I don't know if I am truly in love with her. I really don't feel we will ever get to that point either. At the core, we are different people with different outlooks on life, different sex drives, etc. I guess what I'm getting at is, I feel this odd feeling of how can I break up with someone even though I love her and things are fine right now. I've never been in this position before. And if I do break up, how do I go about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live with my GF of three years and we've been in therapy for the past 4 months. We fight a lot and have terrible communication. Things have been getting better and there is much more good times and positivity in the air. That being said, I don't know if I want to be in this relationship anymore. I love her dearly, care about her, and things are fine right now. If we were younger things probably would be fine but it's to a point where I feel marriage is on the horizon and I don't know if she is truly the one for me. I love her but I don't know if I am truly in love with her. I really don't feel we will ever get to that point either. At the core, we are different people with different outlooks on life, different sex drives, etc. I guess what I'm getting at is, I feel this odd feeling of how can I break up with someone even though I love her and things are fine right now. I've never been in this position before. And if I do break up, how do I go about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live with my GF of three years and we've been in therapy for the past 4 months. We fight a lot and have terrible communication. Things have been getting better and there is much more good times and positivity in the air. That being said, I don't know if I want to be in this relationship anymore. I love her dearly, care about her, and things are fine right now. If we were younger things probably would be fine but it's to a point where I feel marriage is on the horizon and I don't know if she is truly the one for me. I love her but I don't know if I am truly in love with her. I really don't feel we will ever get to that point either. At the core, we are different people with different outlooks on life, different sex drives, etc. I guess what I'm getting at is, I feel this odd feeling of how can I break up with someone even though I love her and things are fine right now. I've never been in this position before. And if I do break up, how do I go about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We had a relatively amicable, mutual breakup. We promised each other to remain friends. \n\nAt first, she seemed to really struggle with this. She would text me relatively often, or even ask if it was okay to call me (to which I always replied that it was). But recently, she hasn't been reaching out much at all, with me usually initiating contact. \n\nShe also started ignoring a text here and there, which when we were together never happened, and didn't happen when we first broke up a few weeks ago. \n\nShe also uses vague descriptions when she says what she was up to. Some include \"she went to bed early\", though I would see her posting on social media well after these so call bed times. \n\nI'm assuming she's either meeting up with a new guy/guys already, but we were so honest in our relationship it seems out of character. I'm not jealous of that, it's the dishonesty, or what I believe to be dishonesty that is messing with me. I feel like we knew each other so well, and now.well I don't know.\n\nMaybe I'm being paranoid, but I don't know. \n\nLike I said, at first, after we broke up she said \"I still love you\" at the end of our phone call but now it's simply \"bye\" and her tone of voice during our phone calls isn't necessarily cold, but it isn't warm either.\n\nWe are both the type to not play any games, but it feels like there's some sort of \"game\" per se being played.\n\nI don't know what to think, she's such a good person, and it's kind of tearing me up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We had a relatively amicable, mutual breakup. We promised each other to remain friends. \n\nAt first, she seemed to really struggle with this. She would text me relatively often, or even ask if it was okay to call me (to which I always replied that it was). But recently, she hasn't been reaching out much at all, with me usually initiating contact. \n\nShe also started ignoring a text here and there, which when we were together never happened, and didn't happen when we first broke up a few weeks ago. \n\nShe also uses vague descriptions when she says what she was up to. Some include \"she went to bed early\", though I would see her posting on social media well after these so call bed times. \n\nI'm assuming she's either meeting up with a new guy/guys already, but we were so honest in our relationship it seems out of character. I'm not jealous of that, it's the dishonesty, or what I believe to be dishonesty that is messing with me. I feel like we knew each other so well, and now.well I don't know.\n\nMaybe I'm being paranoid, but I don't know. \n\nLike I said, at first, after we broke up she said \"I still love you\" at the end of our phone call but now it's simply \"bye\" and her tone of voice during our phone calls isn't necessarily cold, but it isn't warm either.\n\nWe are both the type to not play any games, but it feels like there's some sort of \"game\" per se being played.\n\nI don't know what to think, she's such a good person, and it's kind of tearing me up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We had a relatively amicable, mutual breakup. We promised each other to remain friends. \n\nAt first, she seemed to really struggle with this. She would text me relatively often, or even ask if it was okay to call me (to which I always replied that it was). But recently, she hasn't been reaching out much at all, with me usually initiating contact. \n\nShe also started ignoring a text here and there, which when we were together never happened, and didn't happen when we first broke up a few weeks ago. \n\nShe also uses vague descriptions when she says what she was up to. Some include \"she went to bed early\", though I would see her posting on social media well after these so call bed times. \n\nI'm assuming she's either meeting up with a new guy/guys already, but we were so honest in our relationship it seems out of character. I'm not jealous of that, it's the dishonesty, or what I believe to be dishonesty that is messing with me. I feel like we knew each other so well, and now.well I don't know.\n\nMaybe I'm being paranoid, but I don't know. \n\nLike I said, at first, after we broke up she said \"I still love you\" at the end of our phone call but now it's simply \"bye\" and her tone of voice during our phone calls isn't necessarily cold, but it isn't warm either.\n\nWe are both the type to not play any games, but it feels like there's some sort of \"game\" per se being played.\n\nI don't know what to think, she's such a good person, and it's kind of tearing me up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We had a relatively amicable, mutual breakup. We promised each other to remain friends. \n\nAt first, she seemed to really struggle with this. She would text me relatively often, or even ask if it was okay to call me (to which I always replied that it was). But recently, she hasn't been reaching out much at all, with me usually initiating contact. \n\nShe also started ignoring a text here and there, which when we were together never happened, and didn't happen when we first broke up a few weeks ago. \n\nShe also uses vague descriptions when she says what she was up to. Some include \"she went to bed early\", though I would see her posting on social media well after these so call bed times. \n\nI'm assuming she's either meeting up with a new guy/guys already, but we were so honest in our relationship it seems out of character. I'm not jealous of that, it's the dishonesty, or what I believe to be dishonesty that is messing with me. I feel like we knew each other so well, and now.well I don't know.\n\nMaybe I'm being paranoid, but I don't know. \n\nLike I said, at first, after we broke up she said \"I still love you\" at the end of our phone call but now it's simply \"bye\" and her tone of voice during our phone calls isn't necessarily cold, but it isn't warm either.\n\nWe are both the type to not play any games, but it feels like there's some sort of \"game\" per se being played.\n\nI don't know what to think, she's such a good person, and it's kind of tearing me up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We had a relatively amicable, mutual breakup. We promised each other to remain friends. \n\nAt first, she seemed to really struggle with this. She would text me relatively often, or even ask if it was okay to call me (to which I always replied that it was). But recently, she hasn't been reaching out much at all, with me usually initiating contact. \n\nShe also started ignoring a text here and there, which when we were together never happened, and didn't happen when we first broke up a few weeks ago. \n\nShe also uses vague descriptions when she says what she was up to. Some include \"she went to bed early\", though I would see her posting on social media well after these so call bed times. \n\nI'm assuming she's either meeting up with a new guy/guys already, but we were so honest in our relationship it seems out of character. I'm not jealous of that, it's the dishonesty, or what I believe to be dishonesty that is messing with me. I feel like we knew each other so well, and now.well I don't know.\n\nMaybe I'm being paranoid, but I don't know. \n\nLike I said, at first, after we broke up she said \"I still love you\" at the end of our phone call but now it's simply \"bye\" and her tone of voice during our phone calls isn't necessarily cold, but it isn't warm either.\n\nWe are both the type to not play any games, but it feels like there's some sort of \"game\" per se being played.\n\nI don't know what to think, she's such a good person, and it's kind of tearing me up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We had a relatively amicable, mutual breakup. We promised each other to remain friends. \n\nAt first, she seemed to really struggle with this. She would text me relatively often, or even ask if it was okay to call me (to which I always replied that it was). But recently, she hasn't been reaching out much at all, with me usually initiating contact. \n\nShe also started ignoring a text here and there, which when we were together never happened, and didn't happen when we first broke up a few weeks ago. \n\nShe also uses vague descriptions when she says what she was up to. Some include \"she went to bed early\", though I would see her posting on social media well after these so call bed times. \n\nI'm assuming she's either meeting up with a new guy/guys already, but we were so honest in our relationship it seems out of character. I'm not jealous of that, it's the dishonesty, or what I believe to be dishonesty that is messing with me. I feel like we knew each other so well, and now.well I don't know.\n\nMaybe I'm being paranoid, but I don't know. \n\nLike I said, at first, after we broke up she said \"I still love you\" at the end of our phone call but now it's simply \"bye\" and her tone of voice during our phone calls isn't necessarily cold, but it isn't warm either.\n\nWe are both the type to not play any games, but it feels like there's some sort of \"game\" per se being played.\n\nI don't know what to think, she's such a good person, and it's kind of tearing me up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I've always wanted pets because I grew up without them. I had hamsters that recently passed, and I want a dog eventually, but I know I'm not in a position to have one currently. I just moved to a new town at the beginning of this week, and I went to an adoption event today to look at cute animals, and to talk to the volunteers about how I could be a volunteer myself. I ended up bonding with a shy, but super sweet cat, and filling out an application, with the agreement to take her home next week after having the opportunity to unpack more and buy essential kitty things. The shelter is willing to give me all the perks of the adoption event, despite me not adopting her today, because they were so worried she wouldn't find a home due to her shy-ness.\n\nThe reality of what I've done is starting to set in. I haven't started work yet (I start next month), so all of the cat-related expenses will be coming out of my savings (pet apartment expenses, in addition to food, litter, toys, etc). I have the money, but I'm still buying expensive essentials, like couches and a table. I'm worried about spending thousands of dollars on furniture, only to have a cat destroy them the next day. I'm worried about being responsible for another life, when I am only for the first time being fully responsible for myself.\n\nPlease be honest.have I made a huge mistake?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I've always wanted pets because I grew up without them. I had hamsters that recently passed, and I want a dog eventually, but I know I'm not in a position to have one currently. I just moved to a new town at the beginning of this week, and I went to an adoption event today to look at cute animals, and to talk to the volunteers about how I could be a volunteer myself. I ended up bonding with a shy, but super sweet cat, and filling out an application, with the agreement to take her home next week after having the opportunity to unpack more and buy essential kitty things. The shelter is willing to give me all the perks of the adoption event, despite me not adopting her today, because they were so worried she wouldn't find a home due to her shy-ness.\n\nThe reality of what I've done is starting to set in. I haven't started work yet (I start next month), so all of the cat-related expenses will be coming out of my savings (pet apartment expenses, in addition to food, litter, toys, etc). I have the money, but I'm still buying expensive essentials, like couches and a table. I'm worried about spending thousands of dollars on furniture, only to have a cat destroy them the next day. I'm worried about being responsible for another life, when I am only for the first time being fully responsible for myself.\n\nPlease be honest.have I made a huge mistake?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I've always wanted pets because I grew up without them. I had hamsters that recently passed, and I want a dog eventually, but I know I'm not in a position to have one currently. I just moved to a new town at the beginning of this week, and I went to an adoption event today to look at cute animals, and to talk to the volunteers about how I could be a volunteer myself. I ended up bonding with a shy, but super sweet cat, and filling out an application, with the agreement to take her home next week after having the opportunity to unpack more and buy essential kitty things. The shelter is willing to give me all the perks of the adoption event, despite me not adopting her today, because they were so worried she wouldn't find a home due to her shy-ness.\n\nThe reality of what I've done is starting to set in. I haven't started work yet (I start next month), so all of the cat-related expenses will be coming out of my savings (pet apartment expenses, in addition to food, litter, toys, etc). I have the money, but I'm still buying expensive essentials, like couches and a table. I'm worried about spending thousands of dollars on furniture, only to have a cat destroy them the next day. I'm worried about being responsible for another life, when I am only for the first time being fully responsible for myself.\n\nPlease be honest.have I made a huge mistake?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I've always wanted pets because I grew up without them. I had hamsters that recently passed, and I want a dog eventually, but I know I'm not in a position to have one currently. I just moved to a new town at the beginning of this week, and I went to an adoption event today to look at cute animals, and to talk to the volunteers about how I could be a volunteer myself. I ended up bonding with a shy, but super sweet cat, and filling out an application, with the agreement to take her home next week after having the opportunity to unpack more and buy essential kitty things. The shelter is willing to give me all the perks of the adoption event, despite me not adopting her today, because they were so worried she wouldn't find a home due to her shy-ness.\n\nThe reality of what I've done is starting to set in. I haven't started work yet (I start next month), so all of the cat-related expenses will be coming out of my savings (pet apartment expenses, in addition to food, litter, toys, etc). I have the money, but I'm still buying expensive essentials, like couches and a table. I'm worried about spending thousands of dollars on furniture, only to have a cat destroy them the next day. I'm worried about being responsible for another life, when I am only for the first time being fully responsible for myself.\n\nPlease be honest.have I made a huge mistake?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I've always wanted pets because I grew up without them. I had hamsters that recently passed, and I want a dog eventually, but I know I'm not in a position to have one currently. I just moved to a new town at the beginning of this week, and I went to an adoption event today to look at cute animals, and to talk to the volunteers about how I could be a volunteer myself. I ended up bonding with a shy, but super sweet cat, and filling out an application, with the agreement to take her home next week after having the opportunity to unpack more and buy essential kitty things. The shelter is willing to give me all the perks of the adoption event, despite me not adopting her today, because they were so worried she wouldn't find a home due to her shy-ness.\n\nThe reality of what I've done is starting to set in. I haven't started work yet (I start next month), so all of the cat-related expenses will be coming out of my savings (pet apartment expenses, in addition to food, litter, toys, etc). I have the money, but I'm still buying expensive essentials, like couches and a table. I'm worried about spending thousands of dollars on furniture, only to have a cat destroy them the next day. I'm worried about being responsible for another life, when I am only for the first time being fully responsible for myself.\n\nPlease be honest.have I made a huge mistake?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I've always wanted pets because I grew up without them. I had hamsters that recently passed, and I want a dog eventually, but I know I'm not in a position to have one currently. I just moved to a new town at the beginning of this week, and I went to an adoption event today to look at cute animals, and to talk to the volunteers about how I could be a volunteer myself. I ended up bonding with a shy, but super sweet cat, and filling out an application, with the agreement to take her home next week after having the opportunity to unpack more and buy essential kitty things. The shelter is willing to give me all the perks of the adoption event, despite me not adopting her today, because they were so worried she wouldn't find a home due to her shy-ness.\n\nThe reality of what I've done is starting to set in. I haven't started work yet (I start next month), so all of the cat-related expenses will be coming out of my savings (pet apartment expenses, in addition to food, litter, toys, etc). I have the money, but I'm still buying expensive essentials, like couches and a table. I'm worried about spending thousands of dollars on furniture, only to have a cat destroy them the next day. I'm worried about being responsible for another life, when I am only for the first time being fully responsible for myself.\n\nPlease be honest.have I made a huge mistake?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im 19 f hes 21 m been together 9 months\nYesterday I finally spoke my mind and was civil about it. He blew it out of proportion. \n\nI told him that he was being disrespectful. For example he farts in my face randomly, its gotton old, and he throws coins at me from across the room to get my attention.\n\nAnyway fastforward to yesterday. We were at olive garden and he kept putting crutons in my soup, I told him i didn't like that. We went to his apartment and he threw a coin at me again. Thats when i told him, \"you know better then that.\" After saying that he got mad, and went for a cig. I played a game of LoL and left. I knew I shouldve stayed and talked face to face but instead I texted him and told him he's being disrespectful via farting coin tossing. He blew it out of proportion, and said this goes back on everything I thought about you. \n\nNow I know he's sexist at times, but that's not the problem, the problem is I spoke up just this once and he blows it out of proportion. Other then that he's been there for me he's helped me and pushed me in positive directions. I still have deep feelings about.this man. Im just wondering what do I do next? Give him time? Talk about it face to face asap? I just need opinions.\n\nUPDATE: Talked to him in a better manner, guess he was in a bad mood last night. Said he'll stop, and that he's sorry, also said he was very tired last night. I know he can be cranky as crap when he's tired. I'm giving him a chance. His good does outweigh his bad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im 19 f hes 21 m been together 9 months\nYesterday I finally spoke my mind and was civil about it. He blew it out of proportion. \n\nI told him that he was being disrespectful. For example he farts in my face randomly, its gotton old, and he throws coins at me from across the room to get my attention.\n\nAnyway fastforward to yesterday. We were at olive garden and he kept putting crutons in my soup, I told him i didn't like that. We went to his apartment and he threw a coin at me again. Thats when i told him, \"you know better then that.\" After saying that he got mad, and went for a cig. I played a game of LoL and left. I knew I shouldve stayed and talked face to face but instead I texted him and told him he's being disrespectful via farting coin tossing. He blew it out of proportion, and said this goes back on everything I thought about you. \n\nNow I know he's sexist at times, but that's not the problem, the problem is I spoke up just this once and he blows it out of proportion. Other then that he's been there for me he's helped me and pushed me in positive directions. I still have deep feelings about.this man. Im just wondering what do I do next? Give him time? Talk about it face to face asap? I just need opinions.\n\nUPDATE: Talked to him in a better manner, guess he was in a bad mood last night. Said he'll stop, and that he's sorry, also said he was very tired last night. I know he can be cranky as crap when he's tired. I'm giving him a chance. His good does outweigh his bad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im 19 f hes 21 m been together 9 months\nYesterday I finally spoke my mind and was civil about it. He blew it out of proportion. \n\nI told him that he was being disrespectful. For example he farts in my face randomly, its gotton old, and he throws coins at me from across the room to get my attention.\n\nAnyway fastforward to yesterday. We were at olive garden and he kept putting crutons in my soup, I told him i didn't like that. We went to his apartment and he threw a coin at me again. Thats when i told him, \"you know better then that.\" After saying that he got mad, and went for a cig. I played a game of LoL and left. I knew I shouldve stayed and talked face to face but instead I texted him and told him he's being disrespectful via farting coin tossing. He blew it out of proportion, and said this goes back on everything I thought about you. \n\nNow I know he's sexist at times, but that's not the problem, the problem is I spoke up just this once and he blows it out of proportion. Other then that he's been there for me he's helped me and pushed me in positive directions. I still have deep feelings about.this man. Im just wondering what do I do next? Give him time? Talk about it face to face asap? I just need opinions.\n\nUPDATE: Talked to him in a better manner, guess he was in a bad mood last night. Said he'll stop, and that he's sorry, also said he was very tired last night. I know he can be cranky as crap when he's tired. I'm giving him a chance. His good does outweigh his bad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im 19 f hes 21 m been together 9 months\nYesterday I finally spoke my mind and was civil about it. He blew it out of proportion. \n\nI told him that he was being disrespectful. For example he farts in my face randomly, its gotton old, and he throws coins at me from across the room to get my attention.\n\nAnyway fastforward to yesterday. We were at olive garden and he kept putting crutons in my soup, I told him i didn't like that. We went to his apartment and he threw a coin at me again. Thats when i told him, \"you know better then that.\" After saying that he got mad, and went for a cig. I played a game of LoL and left. I knew I shouldve stayed and talked face to face but instead I texted him and told him he's being disrespectful via farting coin tossing. He blew it out of proportion, and said this goes back on everything I thought about you. \n\nNow I know he's sexist at times, but that's not the problem, the problem is I spoke up just this once and he blows it out of proportion. Other then that he's been there for me he's helped me and pushed me in positive directions. I still have deep feelings about.this man. Im just wondering what do I do next? Give him time? Talk about it face to face asap? I just need opinions.\n\nUPDATE: Talked to him in a better manner, guess he was in a bad mood last night. Said he'll stop, and that he's sorry, also said he was very tired last night. I know he can be cranky as crap when he's tired. I'm giving him a chance. His good does outweigh his bad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right, so I made eggs, sausage and a french toast bake with strawberries and whipped cream for dinner. Lazy me, using whipped cream from a can.\n\nSo we call the kids (13M and 10F) in for dinner, sit down and I start cutting up the french toast bake. Husband picks up the can of whipped cream and asks if it is new. Daughter answers him and says yeah, only been used a few times.\n\nSo he proceeds to start sucking the damn nitrous oxide out of the can. In front of both kids! I was so shocked it took me a few seconds to react, but once I did I yelled at him to stop because that is a highly inappropriate thing to be doing.\n\nThe thing is, I don't know if he was having a lapse in judgement or truly didn't think it was a big deal. I'm worried it was the latter. Reddit- how do I handle this?\n\n~\n\nUpdate- No, I wasn't overreacting. I took a few hours to calm down and talked to him rationally, and he did regret his actions. He was NOT just eating the whipped cream as you and many others have suggested. \n\nHe admitted it was a major lapse in judgement on his part but of course tried to take the heat off himself by pointing out that sometimes I curse in front of the kids. Had to point out the obvious that using foul language in front of children is completely different than using a substance to get high in front of children. \n\nAlso, the part that I left out is that we do go to couples therapy together as a result of his past drug and alcohol abuse to rebuild the trust that was lost when he was using. There was no doubt in my mind that he was trying to get high off that can, and what little trust he has regained isn't very stable right now. Good thing we have an appointment with our therapist today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me (21) and my fiancé (27) have been together almost two years. We've been living together for a significant amount of that time, and we're getting married in less than a month. We are insanely in love and crazy about each other, and I wouldn't trade him for anything. \n\nHe does A LOT for us. He works full time, and pays rent, etc. I'm on his phone and health care plan. Needless to say he isn't a useless bum. He takes care of me and I take care of him. \n\nI work part time, and my hours are slowly getting cut, and I may lose my job soon. So I feel like I'm obligated to do most of the cooking and cleaning. I don't MIND cooking, per say, but I really feel like, especially on his days off, if I didn't cook he wouldn't eat. It's very frustrating to cook all three meals, do the dishes for those meals, and prep his meals for work. \n\nTonight I got very frustrated because dinner was just not going right at all. After I had finished cooking, he asked me if there was anything wrong, and I said I was just frustrated. He asked if there was anything he could do to help, and I said that I would appreciate it if he would help cook dinner every now and then, just to help out and have input on what he eats, and I guess as a favor to me. He got a little quiet, and then said that he was sorry, that he'd try to help more. But then he said \"I don't really see where I need to do anything else, as I already do so much, but I'll try\" \n\nNow that hurt, a lot, because I was already feeling guilty about asking him. Should I just forget about it and hope that he offers to help, or should I just tell him that its ok and I'll do all the cooking from now on? I'm trying not to feel bitchy and demanding, and it's hard :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me (21) and my fiancé (27) have been together almost two years. We've been living together for a significant amount of that time, and we're getting married in less than a month. We are insanely in love and crazy about each other, and I wouldn't trade him for anything. \n\nHe does A LOT for us. He works full time, and pays rent, etc. I'm on his phone and health care plan. Needless to say he isn't a useless bum. He takes care of me and I take care of him. \n\nI work part time, and my hours are slowly getting cut, and I may lose my job soon. So I feel like I'm obligated to do most of the cooking and cleaning. I don't MIND cooking, per say, but I really feel like, especially on his days off, if I didn't cook he wouldn't eat. It's very frustrating to cook all three meals, do the dishes for those meals, and prep his meals for work. \n\nTonight I got very frustrated because dinner was just not going right at all. After I had finished cooking, he asked me if there was anything wrong, and I said I was just frustrated. He asked if there was anything he could do to help, and I said that I would appreciate it if he would help cook dinner every now and then, just to help out and have input on what he eats, and I guess as a favor to me. He got a little quiet, and then said that he was sorry, that he'd try to help more. But then he said \"I don't really see where I need to do anything else, as I already do so much, but I'll try\" \n\nNow that hurt, a lot, because I was already feeling guilty about asking him. Should I just forget about it and hope that he offers to help, or should I just tell him that its ok and I'll do all the cooking from now on? I'm trying not to feel bitchy and demanding, and it's hard :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me (21) and my fiancé (27) have been together almost two years. We've been living together for a significant amount of that time, and we're getting married in less than a month. We are insanely in love and crazy about each other, and I wouldn't trade him for anything. \n\nHe does A LOT for us. He works full time, and pays rent, etc. I'm on his phone and health care plan. Needless to say he isn't a useless bum. He takes care of me and I take care of him. \n\nI work part time, and my hours are slowly getting cut, and I may lose my job soon. So I feel like I'm obligated to do most of the cooking and cleaning. I don't MIND cooking, per say, but I really feel like, especially on his days off, if I didn't cook he wouldn't eat. It's very frustrating to cook all three meals, do the dishes for those meals, and prep his meals for work. \n\nTonight I got very frustrated because dinner was just not going right at all. After I had finished cooking, he asked me if there was anything wrong, and I said I was just frustrated. He asked if there was anything he could do to help, and I said that I would appreciate it if he would help cook dinner every now and then, just to help out and have input on what he eats, and I guess as a favor to me. He got a little quiet, and then said that he was sorry, that he'd try to help more. But then he said \"I don't really see where I need to do anything else, as I already do so much, but I'll try\" \n\nNow that hurt, a lot, because I was already feeling guilty about asking him. Should I just forget about it and hope that he offers to help, or should I just tell him that its ok and I'll do all the cooking from now on? I'm trying not to feel bitchy and demanding, and it's hard :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me (21) and my fiancé (27) have been together almost two years. We've been living together for a significant amount of that time, and we're getting married in less than a month. We are insanely in love and crazy about each other, and I wouldn't trade him for anything. \n\nHe does A LOT for us. He works full time, and pays rent, etc. I'm on his phone and health care plan. Needless to say he isn't a useless bum. He takes care of me and I take care of him. \n\nI work part time, and my hours are slowly getting cut, and I may lose my job soon. So I feel like I'm obligated to do most of the cooking and cleaning. I don't MIND cooking, per say, but I really feel like, especially on his days off, if I didn't cook he wouldn't eat. It's very frustrating to cook all three meals, do the dishes for those meals, and prep his meals for work. \n\nTonight I got very frustrated because dinner was just not going right at all. After I had finished cooking, he asked me if there was anything wrong, and I said I was just frustrated. He asked if there was anything he could do to help, and I said that I would appreciate it if he would help cook dinner every now and then, just to help out and have input on what he eats, and I guess as a favor to me. He got a little quiet, and then said that he was sorry, that he'd try to help more. But then he said \"I don't really see where I need to do anything else, as I already do so much, but I'll try\" \n\nNow that hurt, a lot, because I was already feeling guilty about asking him. Should I just forget about it and hope that he offers to help, or should I just tell him that its ok and I'll do all the cooking from now on? I'm trying not to feel bitchy and demanding, and it's hard :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me (21) and my fiancé (27) have been together almost two years. We've been living together for a significant amount of that time, and we're getting married in less than a month. We are insanely in love and crazy about each other, and I wouldn't trade him for anything. \n\nHe does A LOT for us. He works full time, and pays rent, etc. I'm on his phone and health care plan. Needless to say he isn't a useless bum. He takes care of me and I take care of him. \n\nI work part time, and my hours are slowly getting cut, and I may lose my job soon. So I feel like I'm obligated to do most of the cooking and cleaning. I don't MIND cooking, per say, but I really feel like, especially on his days off, if I didn't cook he wouldn't eat. It's very frustrating to cook all three meals, do the dishes for those meals, and prep his meals for work. \n\nTonight I got very frustrated because dinner was just not going right at all. After I had finished cooking, he asked me if there was anything wrong, and I said I was just frustrated. He asked if there was anything he could do to help, and I said that I would appreciate it if he would help cook dinner every now and then, just to help out and have input on what he eats, and I guess as a favor to me. He got a little quiet, and then said that he was sorry, that he'd try to help more. But then he said \"I don't really see where I need to do anything else, as I already do so much, but I'll try\" \n\nNow that hurt, a lot, because I was already feeling guilty about asking him. Should I just forget about it and hope that he offers to help, or should I just tell him that its ok and I'll do all the cooking from now on? I'm trying not to feel bitchy and demanding, and it's hard :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me (21) and my fiancé (27) have been together almost two years. We've been living together for a significant amount of that time, and we're getting married in less than a month. We are insanely in love and crazy about each other, and I wouldn't trade him for anything. \n\nHe does A LOT for us. He works full time, and pays rent, etc. I'm on his phone and health care plan. Needless to say he isn't a useless bum. He takes care of me and I take care of him. \n\nI work part time, and my hours are slowly getting cut, and I may lose my job soon. So I feel like I'm obligated to do most of the cooking and cleaning. I don't MIND cooking, per say, but I really feel like, especially on his days off, if I didn't cook he wouldn't eat. It's very frustrating to cook all three meals, do the dishes for those meals, and prep his meals for work. \n\nTonight I got very frustrated because dinner was just not going right at all. After I had finished cooking, he asked me if there was anything wrong, and I said I was just frustrated. He asked if there was anything he could do to help, and I said that I would appreciate it if he would help cook dinner every now and then, just to help out and have input on what he eats, and I guess as a favor to me. He got a little quiet, and then said that he was sorry, that he'd try to help more. But then he said \"I don't really see where I need to do anything else, as I already do so much, but I'll try\" \n\nNow that hurt, a lot, because I was already feeling guilty about asking him. Should I just forget about it and hope that he offers to help, or should I just tell him that its ok and I'll do all the cooking from now on? I'm trying not to feel bitchy and demanding, and it's hard :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i've been dating this girl for 4 weeks and everything was going really great. We've been on a couple of dates and they were all perfect, lots of cuddling, talking and just enjoying each others company.\n\nUntil the point she dropped a bomb on me. She told me about how she is going to Aruba as an exchange student and she would be away for 8 months. Then she asked me if I thought if it would be smart if we continued dating. I told her we could make anything work, but she told me she was afraid that if we got closer and closer that she would have a hard time emotionally while abroad. \n\nI didn't know what to say, i just couldn't imagine not seeing her anymore and she was so indecisive about it. So I told her it would be better to break contact completely (we used WhatsApp a lot) if she choose to not date anymore (she's leaving in 3 weeks).\n\nThe problem now is that I still have this unclosed feelings and I have no clue how to deal with it. It's been a couple of days since we talked and she is all I can think about. All of the 'what ifs' are killing me. Should I just move on? The only problem with that is she told me that after she's back we could maybe pick things back up. But the only thing that bothers me with that is the feeling it gives me. Like she's using me. What do I do? Please help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i've been dating this girl for 4 weeks and everything was going really great. We've been on a couple of dates and they were all perfect, lots of cuddling, talking and just enjoying each others company.\n\nUntil the point she dropped a bomb on me. She told me about how she is going to Aruba as an exchange student and she would be away for 8 months. Then she asked me if I thought if it would be smart if we continued dating. I told her we could make anything work, but she told me she was afraid that if we got closer and closer that she would have a hard time emotionally while abroad. \n\nI didn't know what to say, i just couldn't imagine not seeing her anymore and she was so indecisive about it. So I told her it would be better to break contact completely (we used WhatsApp a lot) if she choose to not date anymore (she's leaving in 3 weeks).\n\nThe problem now is that I still have this unclosed feelings and I have no clue how to deal with it. It's been a couple of days since we talked and she is all I can think about. All of the 'what ifs' are killing me. Should I just move on? The only problem with that is she told me that after she's back we could maybe pick things back up. But the only thing that bothers me with that is the feeling it gives me. Like she's using me. What do I do? Please help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i've been dating this girl for 4 weeks and everything was going really great. We've been on a couple of dates and they were all perfect, lots of cuddling, talking and just enjoying each others company.\n\nUntil the point she dropped a bomb on me. She told me about how she is going to Aruba as an exchange student and she would be away for 8 months. Then she asked me if I thought if it would be smart if we continued dating. I told her we could make anything work, but she told me she was afraid that if we got closer and closer that she would have a hard time emotionally while abroad. \n\nI didn't know what to say, i just couldn't imagine not seeing her anymore and she was so indecisive about it. So I told her it would be better to break contact completely (we used WhatsApp a lot) if she choose to not date anymore (she's leaving in 3 weeks).\n\nThe problem now is that I still have this unclosed feelings and I have no clue how to deal with it. It's been a couple of days since we talked and she is all I can think about. All of the 'what ifs' are killing me. Should I just move on? The only problem with that is she told me that after she's back we could maybe pick things back up. But the only thing that bothers me with that is the feeling it gives me. Like she's using me. What do I do? Please help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i've been dating this girl for 4 weeks and everything was going really great. We've been on a couple of dates and they were all perfect, lots of cuddling, talking and just enjoying each others company.\n\nUntil the point she dropped a bomb on me. She told me about how she is going to Aruba as an exchange student and she would be away for 8 months. Then she asked me if I thought if it would be smart if we continued dating. I told her we could make anything work, but she told me she was afraid that if we got closer and closer that she would have a hard time emotionally while abroad. \n\nI didn't know what to say, i just couldn't imagine not seeing her anymore and she was so indecisive about it. So I told her it would be better to break contact completely (we used WhatsApp a lot) if she choose to not date anymore (she's leaving in 3 weeks).\n\nThe problem now is that I still have this unclosed feelings and I have no clue how to deal with it. It's been a couple of days since we talked and she is all I can think about. All of the 'what ifs' are killing me. Should I just move on? The only problem with that is she told me that after she's back we could maybe pick things back up. But the only thing that bothers me with that is the feeling it gives me. Like she's using me. What do I do? Please help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i've been dating this girl for 4 weeks and everything was going really great. We've been on a couple of dates and they were all perfect, lots of cuddling, talking and just enjoying each others company.\n\nUntil the point she dropped a bomb on me. She told me about how she is going to Aruba as an exchange student and she would be away for 8 months. Then she asked me if I thought if it would be smart if we continued dating. I told her we could make anything work, but she told me she was afraid that if we got closer and closer that she would have a hard time emotionally while abroad. \n\nI didn't know what to say, i just couldn't imagine not seeing her anymore and she was so indecisive about it. So I told her it would be better to break contact completely (we used WhatsApp a lot) if she choose to not date anymore (she's leaving in 3 weeks).\n\nThe problem now is that I still have this unclosed feelings and I have no clue how to deal with it. It's been a couple of days since we talked and she is all I can think about. All of the 'what ifs' are killing me. Should I just move on? The only problem with that is she told me that after she's back we could maybe pick things back up. But the only thing that bothers me with that is the feeling it gives me. Like she's using me. What do I do? Please help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i've been dating this girl for 4 weeks and everything was going really great. We've been on a couple of dates and they were all perfect, lots of cuddling, talking and just enjoying each others company.\n\nUntil the point she dropped a bomb on me. She told me about how she is going to Aruba as an exchange student and she would be away for 8 months. Then she asked me if I thought if it would be smart if we continued dating. I told her we could make anything work, but she told me she was afraid that if we got closer and closer that she would have a hard time emotionally while abroad. \n\nI didn't know what to say, i just couldn't imagine not seeing her anymore and she was so indecisive about it. So I told her it would be better to break contact completely (we used WhatsApp a lot) if she choose to not date anymore (she's leaving in 3 weeks).\n\nThe problem now is that I still have this unclosed feelings and I have no clue how to deal with it. It's been a couple of days since we talked and she is all I can think about. All of the 'what ifs' are killing me. Should I just move on? The only problem with that is she told me that after she's back we could maybe pick things back up. But the only thing that bothers me with that is the feeling it gives me. Like she's using me. What do I do? Please help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, we've been friends for a little over two or so years and I have some feelings for her. They're nothing too great but I don't know how I can handle them if we're hanging out all the time. \n\nToday I told one of our mutual friends that I have some feelings for her, and the mutual friend said that my friend I like has been talking about a boy from where she goes to school. \n\nNaturally this was a little heartbreaking, but I took it in stride and didn't think much of it, I just said it's for the better. After thinking about it, I said no. I deserve to be happy too. \n\nEvery time we have hung out she has had no problem with us touching each other or sitting together or walking almost shoulder to shoulder, and I just feel a spark between us. I don't know what to do. If I feel all this, she has to feel something, right? \n\nI just need some advice on what to do, should I some how bring up if she does have feelings for someone in a conversation, should I drop it, what should I do? \n\nI don't want to lose her as a friend, because she is one of my best friends, but I just don't know how to go about not having feelings for her. Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, we've been friends for a little over two or so years and I have some feelings for her. They're nothing too great but I don't know how I can handle them if we're hanging out all the time. \n\nToday I told one of our mutual friends that I have some feelings for her, and the mutual friend said that my friend I like has been talking about a boy from where she goes to school. \n\nNaturally this was a little heartbreaking, but I took it in stride and didn't think much of it, I just said it's for the better. After thinking about it, I said no. I deserve to be happy too. \n\nEvery time we have hung out she has had no problem with us touching each other or sitting together or walking almost shoulder to shoulder, and I just feel a spark between us. I don't know what to do. If I feel all this, she has to feel something, right? \n\nI just need some advice on what to do, should I some how bring up if she does have feelings for someone in a conversation, should I drop it, what should I do? \n\nI don't want to lose her as a friend, because she is one of my best friends, but I just don't know how to go about not having feelings for her. Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, we've been friends for a little over two or so years and I have some feelings for her. They're nothing too great but I don't know how I can handle them if we're hanging out all the time. \n\nToday I told one of our mutual friends that I have some feelings for her, and the mutual friend said that my friend I like has been talking about a boy from where she goes to school. \n\nNaturally this was a little heartbreaking, but I took it in stride and didn't think much of it, I just said it's for the better. After thinking about it, I said no. I deserve to be happy too. \n\nEvery time we have hung out she has had no problem with us touching each other or sitting together or walking almost shoulder to shoulder, and I just feel a spark between us. I don't know what to do. If I feel all this, she has to feel something, right? \n\nI just need some advice on what to do, should I some how bring up if she does have feelings for someone in a conversation, should I drop it, what should I do? \n\nI don't want to lose her as a friend, because she is one of my best friends, but I just don't know how to go about not having feelings for her. Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, we've been friends for a little over two or so years and I have some feelings for her. They're nothing too great but I don't know how I can handle them if we're hanging out all the time. \n\nToday I told one of our mutual friends that I have some feelings for her, and the mutual friend said that my friend I like has been talking about a boy from where she goes to school. \n\nNaturally this was a little heartbreaking, but I took it in stride and didn't think much of it, I just said it's for the better. After thinking about it, I said no. I deserve to be happy too. \n\nEvery time we have hung out she has had no problem with us touching each other or sitting together or walking almost shoulder to shoulder, and I just feel a spark between us. I don't know what to do. If I feel all this, she has to feel something, right? \n\nI just need some advice on what to do, should I some how bring up if she does have feelings for someone in a conversation, should I drop it, what should I do? \n\nI don't want to lose her as a friend, because she is one of my best friends, but I just don't know how to go about not having feelings for her. Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, we've been friends for a little over two or so years and I have some feelings for her. They're nothing too great but I don't know how I can handle them if we're hanging out all the time. \n\nToday I told one of our mutual friends that I have some feelings for her, and the mutual friend said that my friend I like has been talking about a boy from where she goes to school. \n\nNaturally this was a little heartbreaking, but I took it in stride and didn't think much of it, I just said it's for the better. After thinking about it, I said no. I deserve to be happy too. \n\nEvery time we have hung out she has had no problem with us touching each other or sitting together or walking almost shoulder to shoulder, and I just feel a spark between us. I don't know what to do. If I feel all this, she has to feel something, right? \n\nI just need some advice on what to do, should I some how bring up if she does have feelings for someone in a conversation, should I drop it, what should I do? \n\nI don't want to lose her as a friend, because she is one of my best friends, but I just don't know how to go about not having feelings for her. Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, we've been friends for a little over two or so years and I have some feelings for her. They're nothing too great but I don't know how I can handle them if we're hanging out all the time. \n\nToday I told one of our mutual friends that I have some feelings for her, and the mutual friend said that my friend I like has been talking about a boy from where she goes to school. \n\nNaturally this was a little heartbreaking, but I took it in stride and didn't think much of it, I just said it's for the better. After thinking about it, I said no. I deserve to be happy too. \n\nEvery time we have hung out she has had no problem with us touching each other or sitting together or walking almost shoulder to shoulder, and I just feel a spark between us. I don't know what to do. If I feel all this, she has to feel something, right? \n\nI just need some advice on what to do, should I some how bring up if she does have feelings for someone in a conversation, should I drop it, what should I do? \n\nI don't want to lose her as a friend, because she is one of my best friends, but I just don't know how to go about not having feelings for her. Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for just under 5 years, and lived together for 2 of them, but recently I have started to feel very stuck. I love him and he's absolutely crazy for me, but I think that's the issue. He doesn't like for me to go out and make new friends and thinks LITERALLY every guy on the planet will try to have sex with me if he's not there. Most of my oldest friends are guys, so this causes a major issue of me not being able to see lifelong friends without fear of upsetting him. I constantly ask him to go out with me because all we do is sit in the house but he claims he doesn't like parties anymore, which is a lie, he went out with his guy friends on Saturday to a party. He just doesn't want me at one.\n\nI feel like as we're growing older my views are changing but his aren't, I want out of the shitty little town we grew up in but his father owns a successful business so he's stuck here. He talks about how he wants to get out too, and how one day we will, but I can tell he feels obligated to stay. All he cares about is money and setting up 'our future' which is smart and wonderful but it's not what I want. I want to travel the world and live in different countries and I don't care of I'm waitress with a studio apartment, but I'd prefer him by my side. I just don't want to wind up pregnant and stuck here my whole life. This is NOT where I want to lay roots and I don't want to wait until I'm 30 to start traveling.\n\nI have been non-stop considering cheating on him but can't do that to him. Also have been considering breaking up but he tells me all the time how He will die or probably kill himself without me, which we laugh about but he's completely serious. He suffers from depression and has had suicidal tendencies before."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for just under 5 years, and lived together for 2 of them, but recently I have started to feel very stuck. I love him and he's absolutely crazy for me, but I think that's the issue. He doesn't like for me to go out and make new friends and thinks LITERALLY every guy on the planet will try to have sex with me if he's not there. Most of my oldest friends are guys, so this causes a major issue of me not being able to see lifelong friends without fear of upsetting him. I constantly ask him to go out with me because all we do is sit in the house but he claims he doesn't like parties anymore, which is a lie, he went out with his guy friends on Saturday to a party. He just doesn't want me at one.\n\nI feel like as we're growing older my views are changing but his aren't, I want out of the shitty little town we grew up in but his father owns a successful business so he's stuck here. He talks about how he wants to get out too, and how one day we will, but I can tell he feels obligated to stay. All he cares about is money and setting up 'our future' which is smart and wonderful but it's not what I want. I want to travel the world and live in different countries and I don't care of I'm waitress with a studio apartment, but I'd prefer him by my side. I just don't want to wind up pregnant and stuck here my whole life. This is NOT where I want to lay roots and I don't want to wait until I'm 30 to start traveling.\n\nI have been non-stop considering cheating on him but can't do that to him. Also have been considering breaking up but he tells me all the time how He will die or probably kill himself without me, which we laugh about but he's completely serious. He suffers from depression and has had suicidal tendencies before."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for just under 5 years, and lived together for 2 of them, but recently I have started to feel very stuck. I love him and he's absolutely crazy for me, but I think that's the issue. He doesn't like for me to go out and make new friends and thinks LITERALLY every guy on the planet will try to have sex with me if he's not there. Most of my oldest friends are guys, so this causes a major issue of me not being able to see lifelong friends without fear of upsetting him. I constantly ask him to go out with me because all we do is sit in the house but he claims he doesn't like parties anymore, which is a lie, he went out with his guy friends on Saturday to a party. He just doesn't want me at one.\n\nI feel like as we're growing older my views are changing but his aren't, I want out of the shitty little town we grew up in but his father owns a successful business so he's stuck here. He talks about how he wants to get out too, and how one day we will, but I can tell he feels obligated to stay. All he cares about is money and setting up 'our future' which is smart and wonderful but it's not what I want. I want to travel the world and live in different countries and I don't care of I'm waitress with a studio apartment, but I'd prefer him by my side. I just don't want to wind up pregnant and stuck here my whole life. This is NOT where I want to lay roots and I don't want to wait until I'm 30 to start traveling.\n\nI have been non-stop considering cheating on him but can't do that to him. Also have been considering breaking up but he tells me all the time how He will die or probably kill himself without me, which we laugh about but he's completely serious. He suffers from depression and has had suicidal tendencies before."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for just under 5 years, and lived together for 2 of them, but recently I have started to feel very stuck. I love him and he's absolutely crazy for me, but I think that's the issue. He doesn't like for me to go out and make new friends and thinks LITERALLY every guy on the planet will try to have sex with me if he's not there. Most of my oldest friends are guys, so this causes a major issue of me not being able to see lifelong friends without fear of upsetting him. I constantly ask him to go out with me because all we do is sit in the house but he claims he doesn't like parties anymore, which is a lie, he went out with his guy friends on Saturday to a party. He just doesn't want me at one.\n\nI feel like as we're growing older my views are changing but his aren't, I want out of the shitty little town we grew up in but his father owns a successful business so he's stuck here. He talks about how he wants to get out too, and how one day we will, but I can tell he feels obligated to stay. All he cares about is money and setting up 'our future' which is smart and wonderful but it's not what I want. I want to travel the world and live in different countries and I don't care of I'm waitress with a studio apartment, but I'd prefer him by my side. I just don't want to wind up pregnant and stuck here my whole life. This is NOT where I want to lay roots and I don't want to wait until I'm 30 to start traveling.\n\nI have been non-stop considering cheating on him but can't do that to him. Also have been considering breaking up but he tells me all the time how He will die or probably kill himself without me, which we laugh about but he's completely serious. He suffers from depression and has had suicidal tendencies before."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for just under 5 years, and lived together for 2 of them, but recently I have started to feel very stuck. I love him and he's absolutely crazy for me, but I think that's the issue. He doesn't like for me to go out and make new friends and thinks LITERALLY every guy on the planet will try to have sex with me if he's not there. Most of my oldest friends are guys, so this causes a major issue of me not being able to see lifelong friends without fear of upsetting him. I constantly ask him to go out with me because all we do is sit in the house but he claims he doesn't like parties anymore, which is a lie, he went out with his guy friends on Saturday to a party. He just doesn't want me at one.\n\nI feel like as we're growing older my views are changing but his aren't, I want out of the shitty little town we grew up in but his father owns a successful business so he's stuck here. He talks about how he wants to get out too, and how one day we will, but I can tell he feels obligated to stay. All he cares about is money and setting up 'our future' which is smart and wonderful but it's not what I want. I want to travel the world and live in different countries and I don't care of I'm waitress with a studio apartment, but I'd prefer him by my side. I just don't want to wind up pregnant and stuck here my whole life. This is NOT where I want to lay roots and I don't want to wait until I'm 30 to start traveling.\n\nI have been non-stop considering cheating on him but can't do that to him. Also have been considering breaking up but he tells me all the time how He will die or probably kill himself without me, which we laugh about but he's completely serious. He suffers from depression and has had suicidal tendencies before."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive known/been good friends with Emma since high school. \n\nRecently Emma and I attended the uni ball (party type event) (which I didn't want to go but went because of Emma). During the event she wanted to dance with a guy that shes been crushing on and so she asked him for a dance and he says \"only if your friend dances with my friend\" \n\nWhich I find odd - since we aren't in high school. So I refused but emma starts begging so I finally cave in. \n\nI came to regret this as the guy was an obnoxious ass, he kept trying to touch me even though I was telling him to keep his hands to himself. was overall really repulsive. He thought I was playing him since his ego pumped big head resulted in him thinking he was irresistible \n\nAfter a few short minutes I had enough and start walking away but he walks in front of me to block me and than goes behind my back grabbing me from behind and pushing himself against my back. \n\nWell I freaked out. I elbowed him pretty hard in the stomach which caused him to lose his breath. It was a knee jerk reaction but I dont regret it. They rushed over and he said I was crazy and didnt know \"how to dance\".\n\n Emma insisted that I apologize and I tell them that if this asshole doesnt leave me alone I will be reporting him to the campus for sexual harassment. He runs off from the party like a headless chicken that he is. \n\nHeres the issue. Emma insists that what I did was wrong and that I need to apologize and thinks I must have been living under a rock since its normal for people to \"touch\" each other during dancing. I tried explaining to her what happened but she wont hear it and thinks Im just being weird \n\nDid I really do something wrong here ? Should I have apologized ? I mean obviously it wasnt great that I hurt him but it was a result of his actions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive known/been good friends with Emma since high school. \n\nRecently Emma and I attended the uni ball (party type event) (which I didn't want to go but went because of Emma). During the event she wanted to dance with a guy that shes been crushing on and so she asked him for a dance and he says \"only if your friend dances with my friend\" \n\nWhich I find odd - since we aren't in high school. So I refused but emma starts begging so I finally cave in. \n\nI came to regret this as the guy was an obnoxious ass, he kept trying to touch me even though I was telling him to keep his hands to himself. was overall really repulsive. He thought I was playing him since his ego pumped big head resulted in him thinking he was irresistible \n\nAfter a few short minutes I had enough and start walking away but he walks in front of me to block me and than goes behind my back grabbing me from behind and pushing himself against my back. \n\nWell I freaked out. I elbowed him pretty hard in the stomach which caused him to lose his breath. It was a knee jerk reaction but I dont regret it. They rushed over and he said I was crazy and didnt know \"how to dance\".\n\n Emma insisted that I apologize and I tell them that if this asshole doesnt leave me alone I will be reporting him to the campus for sexual harassment. He runs off from the party like a headless chicken that he is. \n\nHeres the issue. Emma insists that what I did was wrong and that I need to apologize and thinks I must have been living under a rock since its normal for people to \"touch\" each other during dancing. I tried explaining to her what happened but she wont hear it and thinks Im just being weird \n\nDid I really do something wrong here ? Should I have apologized ? I mean obviously it wasnt great that I hurt him but it was a result of his actions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive known/been good friends with Emma since high school. \n\nRecently Emma and I attended the uni ball (party type event) (which I didn't want to go but went because of Emma). During the event she wanted to dance with a guy that shes been crushing on and so she asked him for a dance and he says \"only if your friend dances with my friend\" \n\nWhich I find odd - since we aren't in high school. So I refused but emma starts begging so I finally cave in. \n\nI came to regret this as the guy was an obnoxious ass, he kept trying to touch me even though I was telling him to keep his hands to himself. was overall really repulsive. He thought I was playing him since his ego pumped big head resulted in him thinking he was irresistible \n\nAfter a few short minutes I had enough and start walking away but he walks in front of me to block me and than goes behind my back grabbing me from behind and pushing himself against my back. \n\nWell I freaked out. I elbowed him pretty hard in the stomach which caused him to lose his breath. It was a knee jerk reaction but I dont regret it. They rushed over and he said I was crazy and didnt know \"how to dance\".\n\n Emma insisted that I apologize and I tell them that if this asshole doesnt leave me alone I will be reporting him to the campus for sexual harassment. He runs off from the party like a headless chicken that he is. \n\nHeres the issue. Emma insists that what I did was wrong and that I need to apologize and thinks I must have been living under a rock since its normal for people to \"touch\" each other during dancing. I tried explaining to her what happened but she wont hear it and thinks Im just being weird \n\nDid I really do something wrong here ? Should I have apologized ? I mean obviously it wasnt great that I hurt him but it was a result of his actions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive known/been good friends with Emma since high school. \n\nRecently Emma and I attended the uni ball (party type event) (which I didn't want to go but went because of Emma). During the event she wanted to dance with a guy that shes been crushing on and so she asked him for a dance and he says \"only if your friend dances with my friend\" \n\nWhich I find odd - since we aren't in high school. So I refused but emma starts begging so I finally cave in. \n\nI came to regret this as the guy was an obnoxious ass, he kept trying to touch me even though I was telling him to keep his hands to himself. was overall really repulsive. He thought I was playing him since his ego pumped big head resulted in him thinking he was irresistible \n\nAfter a few short minutes I had enough and start walking away but he walks in front of me to block me and than goes behind my back grabbing me from behind and pushing himself against my back. \n\nWell I freaked out. I elbowed him pretty hard in the stomach which caused him to lose his breath. It was a knee jerk reaction but I dont regret it. They rushed over and he said I was crazy and didnt know \"how to dance\".\n\n Emma insisted that I apologize and I tell them that if this asshole doesnt leave me alone I will be reporting him to the campus for sexual harassment. He runs off from the party like a headless chicken that he is. \n\nHeres the issue. Emma insists that what I did was wrong and that I need to apologize and thinks I must have been living under a rock since its normal for people to \"touch\" each other during dancing. I tried explaining to her what happened but she wont hear it and thinks Im just being weird \n\nDid I really do something wrong here ? Should I have apologized ? I mean obviously it wasnt great that I hurt him but it was a result of his actions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive known/been good friends with Emma since high school. \n\nRecently Emma and I attended the uni ball (party type event) (which I didn't want to go but went because of Emma). During the event she wanted to dance with a guy that shes been crushing on and so she asked him for a dance and he says \"only if your friend dances with my friend\" \n\nWhich I find odd - since we aren't in high school. So I refused but emma starts begging so I finally cave in. \n\nI came to regret this as the guy was an obnoxious ass, he kept trying to touch me even though I was telling him to keep his hands to himself. was overall really repulsive. He thought I was playing him since his ego pumped big head resulted in him thinking he was irresistible \n\nAfter a few short minutes I had enough and start walking away but he walks in front of me to block me and than goes behind my back grabbing me from behind and pushing himself against my back. \n\nWell I freaked out. I elbowed him pretty hard in the stomach which caused him to lose his breath. It was a knee jerk reaction but I dont regret it. They rushed over and he said I was crazy and didnt know \"how to dance\".\n\n Emma insisted that I apologize and I tell them that if this asshole doesnt leave me alone I will be reporting him to the campus for sexual harassment. He runs off from the party like a headless chicken that he is. \n\nHeres the issue. Emma insists that what I did was wrong and that I need to apologize and thinks I must have been living under a rock since its normal for people to \"touch\" each other during dancing. I tried explaining to her what happened but she wont hear it and thinks Im just being weird \n\nDid I really do something wrong here ? Should I have apologized ? I mean obviously it wasnt great that I hurt him but it was a result of his actions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive known/been good friends with Emma since high school. \n\nRecently Emma and I attended the uni ball (party type event) (which I didn't want to go but went because of Emma). During the event she wanted to dance with a guy that shes been crushing on and so she asked him for a dance and he says \"only if your friend dances with my friend\" \n\nWhich I find odd - since we aren't in high school. So I refused but emma starts begging so I finally cave in. \n\nI came to regret this as the guy was an obnoxious ass, he kept trying to touch me even though I was telling him to keep his hands to himself. was overall really repulsive. He thought I was playing him since his ego pumped big head resulted in him thinking he was irresistible \n\nAfter a few short minutes I had enough and start walking away but he walks in front of me to block me and than goes behind my back grabbing me from behind and pushing himself against my back. \n\nWell I freaked out. I elbowed him pretty hard in the stomach which caused him to lose his breath. It was a knee jerk reaction but I dont regret it. They rushed over and he said I was crazy and didnt know \"how to dance\".\n\n Emma insisted that I apologize and I tell them that if this asshole doesnt leave me alone I will be reporting him to the campus for sexual harassment. He runs off from the party like a headless chicken that he is. \n\nHeres the issue. Emma insists that what I did was wrong and that I need to apologize and thinks I must have been living under a rock since its normal for people to \"touch\" each other during dancing. I tried explaining to her what happened but she wont hear it and thinks Im just being weird \n\nDid I really do something wrong here ? Should I have apologized ? I mean obviously it wasnt great that I hurt him but it was a result of his actions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as it says in the top, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years, and I'm starting to feel anxious about our relationship. \n\nI'm moving 5 hours away for grad school while my boyfriend graduated a year ago from undergrad. I tried to convince him to apply to grad schools and I'd apply near him, but he didn't end up applying (his grades aren't great).\n\n He's only working a minimum wage type job (a place he did summers at in undergrad). There's not much related to his job here but there's more potential things in commuting distance from the place I'm moving to. Yet he doesn't want to move down there. Even though he said he's tired of living at home in the middle of nowhere and wants a real job.\n\nAnyway, I hung out with some high school friends yesterday and they seem to be mostly settling. In relationships far shorter than mine. They're moving in together or getting married. Okay, one is just together with a dude but also seeing other guys. But anyway.\n\nI've dated 2 other guys before my boyfriend (the other two in high school), and I'm kind of worried that we're going to be in this long distance limbo that ends up fizzling out by the time I leave grad school. Currently we see each other regularly (once or twice a week) but normally it's more like every 2 to 3 weeks. 3 weeks is enough; every 2 months will be dreadful. \n\nSo what do I do? Should I wait to see what he does while I'm away at grad school and then ask to open our relationship up if he doesn't make effort to make it work? I know that sounds bad, but weekend trips will be more difficult for me with my student workload than a full time job would be. Any advice on avoiding envy for my friends' relationships? I know it's, and I am happy for them, but.\n\nThanks, and sorry for the long rant!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as it says in the top, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years, and I'm starting to feel anxious about our relationship. \n\nI'm moving 5 hours away for grad school while my boyfriend graduated a year ago from undergrad. I tried to convince him to apply to grad schools and I'd apply near him, but he didn't end up applying (his grades aren't great).\n\n He's only working a minimum wage type job (a place he did summers at in undergrad). There's not much related to his job here but there's more potential things in commuting distance from the place I'm moving to. Yet he doesn't want to move down there. Even though he said he's tired of living at home in the middle of nowhere and wants a real job.\n\nAnyway, I hung out with some high school friends yesterday and they seem to be mostly settling. In relationships far shorter than mine. They're moving in together or getting married. Okay, one is just together with a dude but also seeing other guys. But anyway.\n\nI've dated 2 other guys before my boyfriend (the other two in high school), and I'm kind of worried that we're going to be in this long distance limbo that ends up fizzling out by the time I leave grad school. Currently we see each other regularly (once or twice a week) but normally it's more like every 2 to 3 weeks. 3 weeks is enough; every 2 months will be dreadful. \n\nSo what do I do? Should I wait to see what he does while I'm away at grad school and then ask to open our relationship up if he doesn't make effort to make it work? I know that sounds bad, but weekend trips will be more difficult for me with my student workload than a full time job would be. Any advice on avoiding envy for my friends' relationships? I know it's, and I am happy for them, but.\n\nThanks, and sorry for the long rant!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as it says in the top, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years, and I'm starting to feel anxious about our relationship. \n\nI'm moving 5 hours away for grad school while my boyfriend graduated a year ago from undergrad. I tried to convince him to apply to grad schools and I'd apply near him, but he didn't end up applying (his grades aren't great).\n\n He's only working a minimum wage type job (a place he did summers at in undergrad). There's not much related to his job here but there's more potential things in commuting distance from the place I'm moving to. Yet he doesn't want to move down there. Even though he said he's tired of living at home in the middle of nowhere and wants a real job.\n\nAnyway, I hung out with some high school friends yesterday and they seem to be mostly settling. In relationships far shorter than mine. They're moving in together or getting married. Okay, one is just together with a dude but also seeing other guys. But anyway.\n\nI've dated 2 other guys before my boyfriend (the other two in high school), and I'm kind of worried that we're going to be in this long distance limbo that ends up fizzling out by the time I leave grad school. Currently we see each other regularly (once or twice a week) but normally it's more like every 2 to 3 weeks. 3 weeks is enough; every 2 months will be dreadful. \n\nSo what do I do? Should I wait to see what he does while I'm away at grad school and then ask to open our relationship up if he doesn't make effort to make it work? I know that sounds bad, but weekend trips will be more difficult for me with my student workload than a full time job would be. Any advice on avoiding envy for my friends' relationships? I know it's, and I am happy for them, but.\n\nThanks, and sorry for the long rant!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as it says in the top, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years, and I'm starting to feel anxious about our relationship. \n\nI'm moving 5 hours away for grad school while my boyfriend graduated a year ago from undergrad. I tried to convince him to apply to grad schools and I'd apply near him, but he didn't end up applying (his grades aren't great).\n\n He's only working a minimum wage type job (a place he did summers at in undergrad). There's not much related to his job here but there's more potential things in commuting distance from the place I'm moving to. Yet he doesn't want to move down there. Even though he said he's tired of living at home in the middle of nowhere and wants a real job.\n\nAnyway, I hung out with some high school friends yesterday and they seem to be mostly settling. In relationships far shorter than mine. They're moving in together or getting married. Okay, one is just together with a dude but also seeing other guys. But anyway.\n\nI've dated 2 other guys before my boyfriend (the other two in high school), and I'm kind of worried that we're going to be in this long distance limbo that ends up fizzling out by the time I leave grad school. Currently we see each other regularly (once or twice a week) but normally it's more like every 2 to 3 weeks. 3 weeks is enough; every 2 months will be dreadful. \n\nSo what do I do? Should I wait to see what he does while I'm away at grad school and then ask to open our relationship up if he doesn't make effort to make it work? I know that sounds bad, but weekend trips will be more difficult for me with my student workload than a full time job would be. Any advice on avoiding envy for my friends' relationships? I know it's, and I am happy for them, but.\n\nThanks, and sorry for the long rant!"
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