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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as it says in the top, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years, and I'm starting to feel anxious about our relationship. \n\nI'm moving 5 hours away for grad school while my boyfriend graduated a year ago from undergrad. I tried to convince him to apply to grad schools and I'd apply near him, but he didn't end up applying (his grades aren't great).\n\n He's only working a minimum wage type job (a place he did summers at in undergrad). There's not much related to his job here but there's more potential things in commuting distance from the place I'm moving to. Yet he doesn't want to move down there. Even though he said he's tired of living at home in the middle of nowhere and wants a real job.\n\nAnyway, I hung out with some high school friends yesterday and they seem to be mostly settling. In relationships far shorter than mine. They're moving in together or getting married. Okay, one is just together with a dude but also seeing other guys. But anyway.\n\nI've dated 2 other guys before my boyfriend (the other two in high school), and I'm kind of worried that we're going to be in this long distance limbo that ends up fizzling out by the time I leave grad school. Currently we see each other regularly (once or twice a week) but normally it's more like every 2 to 3 weeks. 3 weeks is enough; every 2 months will be dreadful. \n\nSo what do I do? Should I wait to see what he does while I'm away at grad school and then ask to open our relationship up if he doesn't make effort to make it work? I know that sounds bad, but weekend trips will be more difficult for me with my student workload than a full time job would be. Any advice on avoiding envy for my friends' relationships? I know it's, and I am happy for them, but.\n\nThanks, and sorry for the long rant!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as it says in the top, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years, and I'm starting to feel anxious about our relationship. \n\nI'm moving 5 hours away for grad school while my boyfriend graduated a year ago from undergrad. I tried to convince him to apply to grad schools and I'd apply near him, but he didn't end up applying (his grades aren't great).\n\n He's only working a minimum wage type job (a place he did summers at in undergrad). There's not much related to his job here but there's more potential things in commuting distance from the place I'm moving to. Yet he doesn't want to move down there. Even though he said he's tired of living at home in the middle of nowhere and wants a real job.\n\nAnyway, I hung out with some high school friends yesterday and they seem to be mostly settling. In relationships far shorter than mine. They're moving in together or getting married. Okay, one is just together with a dude but also seeing other guys. But anyway.\n\nI've dated 2 other guys before my boyfriend (the other two in high school), and I'm kind of worried that we're going to be in this long distance limbo that ends up fizzling out by the time I leave grad school. Currently we see each other regularly (once or twice a week) but normally it's more like every 2 to 3 weeks. 3 weeks is enough; every 2 months will be dreadful. \n\nSo what do I do? Should I wait to see what he does while I'm away at grad school and then ask to open our relationship up if he doesn't make effort to make it work? I know that sounds bad, but weekend trips will be more difficult for me with my student workload than a full time job would be. Any advice on avoiding envy for my friends' relationships? I know it's, and I am happy for them, but.\n\nThanks, and sorry for the long rant!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a very happy person despite a lot of shitty things that have happened to me. My girlfriend is only happy a fraction of the time, has a lot of relationship baggage, and has even attempted suicide a few years back.\n\nWe've dated for almost two months, and shared an exuberant amount of time together and grown really close to each other. I care about her a lot, and love her, but I don't see us ever getting married in the future.\n\nWhenever we try to have sex, she is overwhelmed by different triggers and trust issues and it becomes a miserable affair. Anything but vanilla missionary position scares her and makes her freeze up. I'm the type of person who would enjoy an orgy and is super confident about my sexuality. She has issue with me enjoying sex just for the sake of sex, and can't accept the I love her mind and body and that I want to ravish her.\n\nEvery night it seems like there is something that triggers her to be super depressed. It takes a toll on me being in a super emotional depressed state almost every day being brought down into despair. When she gets to that state, she will play artists like Marilin Manson and it is just too depressing for me.\n\nAm I being immature by wanting to not be together? We've both been honest with each other and know it won't last, but we both desire each other's companionship. Her heart is very fragile and in my hands, and I want to be a good boyfriend in her life for a change.\n\nWe were in agreement that we would stay together for a while for the companionship that we both desired from each other, but the last few hours basically confirmed that we need to break up. I told her not to change her facebook status for a few days because she doesn't need the added emotional drama of her friends and family asking what's up. I don't want to burn any bridges, and I want us to stay close friends. Is it possible?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a very happy person despite a lot of shitty things that have happened to me. My girlfriend is only happy a fraction of the time, has a lot of relationship baggage, and has even attempted suicide a few years back.\n\nWe've dated for almost two months, and shared an exuberant amount of time together and grown really close to each other. I care about her a lot, and love her, but I don't see us ever getting married in the future.\n\nWhenever we try to have sex, she is overwhelmed by different triggers and trust issues and it becomes a miserable affair. Anything but vanilla missionary position scares her and makes her freeze up. I'm the type of person who would enjoy an orgy and is super confident about my sexuality. She has issue with me enjoying sex just for the sake of sex, and can't accept the I love her mind and body and that I want to ravish her.\n\nEvery night it seems like there is something that triggers her to be super depressed. It takes a toll on me being in a super emotional depressed state almost every day being brought down into despair. When she gets to that state, she will play artists like Marilin Manson and it is just too depressing for me.\n\nAm I being immature by wanting to not be together? We've both been honest with each other and know it won't last, but we both desire each other's companionship. Her heart is very fragile and in my hands, and I want to be a good boyfriend in her life for a change.\n\nWe were in agreement that we would stay together for a while for the companionship that we both desired from each other, but the last few hours basically confirmed that we need to break up. I told her not to change her facebook status for a few days because she doesn't need the added emotional drama of her friends and family asking what's up. I don't want to burn any bridges, and I want us to stay close friends. Is it possible?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a very happy person despite a lot of shitty things that have happened to me. My girlfriend is only happy a fraction of the time, has a lot of relationship baggage, and has even attempted suicide a few years back.\n\nWe've dated for almost two months, and shared an exuberant amount of time together and grown really close to each other. I care about her a lot, and love her, but I don't see us ever getting married in the future.\n\nWhenever we try to have sex, she is overwhelmed by different triggers and trust issues and it becomes a miserable affair. Anything but vanilla missionary position scares her and makes her freeze up. I'm the type of person who would enjoy an orgy and is super confident about my sexuality. She has issue with me enjoying sex just for the sake of sex, and can't accept the I love her mind and body and that I want to ravish her.\n\nEvery night it seems like there is something that triggers her to be super depressed. It takes a toll on me being in a super emotional depressed state almost every day being brought down into despair. When she gets to that state, she will play artists like Marilin Manson and it is just too depressing for me.\n\nAm I being immature by wanting to not be together? We've both been honest with each other and know it won't last, but we both desire each other's companionship. Her heart is very fragile and in my hands, and I want to be a good boyfriend in her life for a change.\n\nWe were in agreement that we would stay together for a while for the companionship that we both desired from each other, but the last few hours basically confirmed that we need to break up. I told her not to change her facebook status for a few days because she doesn't need the added emotional drama of her friends and family asking what's up. I don't want to burn any bridges, and I want us to stay close friends. Is it possible?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a very happy person despite a lot of shitty things that have happened to me. My girlfriend is only happy a fraction of the time, has a lot of relationship baggage, and has even attempted suicide a few years back.\n\nWe've dated for almost two months, and shared an exuberant amount of time together and grown really close to each other. I care about her a lot, and love her, but I don't see us ever getting married in the future.\n\nWhenever we try to have sex, she is overwhelmed by different triggers and trust issues and it becomes a miserable affair. Anything but vanilla missionary position scares her and makes her freeze up. I'm the type of person who would enjoy an orgy and is super confident about my sexuality. She has issue with me enjoying sex just for the sake of sex, and can't accept the I love her mind and body and that I want to ravish her.\n\nEvery night it seems like there is something that triggers her to be super depressed. It takes a toll on me being in a super emotional depressed state almost every day being brought down into despair. When she gets to that state, she will play artists like Marilin Manson and it is just too depressing for me.\n\nAm I being immature by wanting to not be together? We've both been honest with each other and know it won't last, but we both desire each other's companionship. Her heart is very fragile and in my hands, and I want to be a good boyfriend in her life for a change.\n\nWe were in agreement that we would stay together for a while for the companionship that we both desired from each other, but the last few hours basically confirmed that we need to break up. I told her not to change her facebook status for a few days because she doesn't need the added emotional drama of her friends and family asking what's up. I don't want to burn any bridges, and I want us to stay close friends. Is it possible?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a very happy person despite a lot of shitty things that have happened to me. My girlfriend is only happy a fraction of the time, has a lot of relationship baggage, and has even attempted suicide a few years back.\n\nWe've dated for almost two months, and shared an exuberant amount of time together and grown really close to each other. I care about her a lot, and love her, but I don't see us ever getting married in the future.\n\nWhenever we try to have sex, she is overwhelmed by different triggers and trust issues and it becomes a miserable affair. Anything but vanilla missionary position scares her and makes her freeze up. I'm the type of person who would enjoy an orgy and is super confident about my sexuality. She has issue with me enjoying sex just for the sake of sex, and can't accept the I love her mind and body and that I want to ravish her.\n\nEvery night it seems like there is something that triggers her to be super depressed. It takes a toll on me being in a super emotional depressed state almost every day being brought down into despair. When she gets to that state, she will play artists like Marilin Manson and it is just too depressing for me.\n\nAm I being immature by wanting to not be together? We've both been honest with each other and know it won't last, but we both desire each other's companionship. Her heart is very fragile and in my hands, and I want to be a good boyfriend in her life for a change.\n\nWe were in agreement that we would stay together for a while for the companionship that we both desired from each other, but the last few hours basically confirmed that we need to break up. I told her not to change her facebook status for a few days because she doesn't need the added emotional drama of her friends and family asking what's up. I don't want to burn any bridges, and I want us to stay close friends. Is it possible?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I made a post at an odd hour, and didn't get that many replies. I thought i'd make an update post though. [Previous post](\n\nAnyway, I decided to just straight up ask her what was going on, and that I had to know.\n\nShe told me, that she had realized that she wasn't very good at being friends with benefits. I asked her to elaborate the answer, as it can be understood in two ways. I was at this point thinking that the only thing this could mean, was that she had feelings for me. Although the reply had me completely confused:\n\nShe said that she wasn't able to do it every 2. day, but rather once every few week. This had me thinking that it was another way of saying that she wanted something else than just sex. But it seemed like she was regretting saying the above thing.\n\nWell, I then asked her if it was because it was boring, or if she wanted to do other things. She kinda avoided that question, saying that it definitely wasn't boring, it was just the meeting up without doing anything else that was weird. I ended up replying that I kinda understood what she meant (it indeed was a bit awkward the last time before we started), and that we should do other things someday and then suggested an activity.\n\nIt has me pretty much confused now at least, she seem impossible to understand."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I made a post at an odd hour, and didn't get that many replies. I thought i'd make an update post though. [Previous post](\n\nAnyway, I decided to just straight up ask her what was going on, and that I had to know.\n\nShe told me, that she had realized that she wasn't very good at being friends with benefits. I asked her to elaborate the answer, as it can be understood in two ways. I was at this point thinking that the only thing this could mean, was that she had feelings for me. Although the reply had me completely confused:\n\nShe said that she wasn't able to do it every 2. day, but rather once every few week. This had me thinking that it was another way of saying that she wanted something else than just sex. But it seemed like she was regretting saying the above thing.\n\nWell, I then asked her if it was because it was boring, or if she wanted to do other things. She kinda avoided that question, saying that it definitely wasn't boring, it was just the meeting up without doing anything else that was weird. I ended up replying that I kinda understood what she meant (it indeed was a bit awkward the last time before we started), and that we should do other things someday and then suggested an activity.\n\nIt has me pretty much confused now at least, she seem impossible to understand."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I made a post at an odd hour, and didn't get that many replies. I thought i'd make an update post though. [Previous post](\n\nAnyway, I decided to just straight up ask her what was going on, and that I had to know.\n\nShe told me, that she had realized that she wasn't very good at being friends with benefits. I asked her to elaborate the answer, as it can be understood in two ways. I was at this point thinking that the only thing this could mean, was that she had feelings for me. Although the reply had me completely confused:\n\nShe said that she wasn't able to do it every 2. day, but rather once every few week. This had me thinking that it was another way of saying that she wanted something else than just sex. But it seemed like she was regretting saying the above thing.\n\nWell, I then asked her if it was because it was boring, or if she wanted to do other things. She kinda avoided that question, saying that it definitely wasn't boring, it was just the meeting up without doing anything else that was weird. I ended up replying that I kinda understood what she meant (it indeed was a bit awkward the last time before we started), and that we should do other things someday and then suggested an activity.\n\nIt has me pretty much confused now at least, she seem impossible to understand."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I made a post at an odd hour, and didn't get that many replies. I thought i'd make an update post though. [Previous post](\n\nAnyway, I decided to just straight up ask her what was going on, and that I had to know.\n\nShe told me, that she had realized that she wasn't very good at being friends with benefits. I asked her to elaborate the answer, as it can be understood in two ways. I was at this point thinking that the only thing this could mean, was that she had feelings for me. Although the reply had me completely confused:\n\nShe said that she wasn't able to do it every 2. day, but rather once every few week. This had me thinking that it was another way of saying that she wanted something else than just sex. But it seemed like she was regretting saying the above thing.\n\nWell, I then asked her if it was because it was boring, or if she wanted to do other things. She kinda avoided that question, saying that it definitely wasn't boring, it was just the meeting up without doing anything else that was weird. I ended up replying that I kinda understood what she meant (it indeed was a bit awkward the last time before we started), and that we should do other things someday and then suggested an activity.\n\nIt has me pretty much confused now at least, she seem impossible to understand."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I made a post at an odd hour, and didn't get that many replies. I thought i'd make an update post though. [Previous post](\n\nAnyway, I decided to just straight up ask her what was going on, and that I had to know.\n\nShe told me, that she had realized that she wasn't very good at being friends with benefits. I asked her to elaborate the answer, as it can be understood in two ways. I was at this point thinking that the only thing this could mean, was that she had feelings for me. Although the reply had me completely confused:\n\nShe said that she wasn't able to do it every 2. day, but rather once every few week. This had me thinking that it was another way of saying that she wanted something else than just sex. But it seemed like she was regretting saying the above thing.\n\nWell, I then asked her if it was because it was boring, or if she wanted to do other things. She kinda avoided that question, saying that it definitely wasn't boring, it was just the meeting up without doing anything else that was weird. I ended up replying that I kinda understood what she meant (it indeed was a bit awkward the last time before we started), and that we should do other things someday and then suggested an activity.\n\nIt has me pretty much confused now at least, she seem impossible to understand."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I made a post at an odd hour, and didn't get that many replies. I thought i'd make an update post though. [Previous post](\n\nAnyway, I decided to just straight up ask her what was going on, and that I had to know.\n\nShe told me, that she had realized that she wasn't very good at being friends with benefits. I asked her to elaborate the answer, as it can be understood in two ways. I was at this point thinking that the only thing this could mean, was that she had feelings for me. Although the reply had me completely confused:\n\nShe said that she wasn't able to do it every 2. day, but rather once every few week. This had me thinking that it was another way of saying that she wanted something else than just sex. But it seemed like she was regretting saying the above thing.\n\nWell, I then asked her if it was because it was boring, or if she wanted to do other things. She kinda avoided that question, saying that it definitely wasn't boring, it was just the meeting up without doing anything else that was weird. I ended up replying that I kinda understood what she meant (it indeed was a bit awkward the last time before we started), and that we should do other things someday and then suggested an activity.\n\nIt has me pretty much confused now at least, she seem impossible to understand."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been browsing this subreddit a bit, and am fairly certain there isn't a situation quite like mine. The situation arose with a co-worker asking both she and I privately, a few months ago, what we both thought of each other. At the time, I really wasn't interested in a relationship due to my busy work schedule, anxiety, and overall professionalism. Just to clarify: We work at a restaurant. \n\nAfter that slightly-awkward confrontation, I had began to think more and more about that possibility of the girl being interested. The topic had to arise from somewhere, right? Being shy, herself, and overall, having a very mellow attitude, I never expected her to really initiate conversation, but once or twice we've had the opportunity to, and she seems to really open up. \n\nCuriosity struck again last week as I asked the same coworker who had approached us before to find out what the girl had said. Apparently, she thought I was cute. That doesn't say a lot other than she doesn't-not like me to a certain extent. I would love to ask her out BUT, I am in college, this is my only job right now, and I'd like to keep a crystal reputation. As an added bonus, multiple people around my workplace have either had affairs or are dating, so it isn't too uncommon. \nAlso, the interest's dad works there. Now, while I DO get along very well with him and have never had a problem with any dad in the past, I do see this whole situation a bit complicated because of the circumstances. I currently only see her one day out of the week and she is also a graduate looking for a serious career/job rather than waiting tables."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been browsing this subreddit a bit, and am fairly certain there isn't a situation quite like mine. The situation arose with a co-worker asking both she and I privately, a few months ago, what we both thought of each other. At the time, I really wasn't interested in a relationship due to my busy work schedule, anxiety, and overall professionalism. Just to clarify: We work at a restaurant. \n\nAfter that slightly-awkward confrontation, I had began to think more and more about that possibility of the girl being interested. The topic had to arise from somewhere, right? Being shy, herself, and overall, having a very mellow attitude, I never expected her to really initiate conversation, but once or twice we've had the opportunity to, and she seems to really open up. \n\nCuriosity struck again last week as I asked the same coworker who had approached us before to find out what the girl had said. Apparently, she thought I was cute. That doesn't say a lot other than she doesn't-not like me to a certain extent. I would love to ask her out BUT, I am in college, this is my only job right now, and I'd like to keep a crystal reputation. As an added bonus, multiple people around my workplace have either had affairs or are dating, so it isn't too uncommon. \nAlso, the interest's dad works there. Now, while I DO get along very well with him and have never had a problem with any dad in the past, I do see this whole situation a bit complicated because of the circumstances. I currently only see her one day out of the week and she is also a graduate looking for a serious career/job rather than waiting tables."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been browsing this subreddit a bit, and am fairly certain there isn't a situation quite like mine. The situation arose with a co-worker asking both she and I privately, a few months ago, what we both thought of each other. At the time, I really wasn't interested in a relationship due to my busy work schedule, anxiety, and overall professionalism. Just to clarify: We work at a restaurant. \n\nAfter that slightly-awkward confrontation, I had began to think more and more about that possibility of the girl being interested. The topic had to arise from somewhere, right? Being shy, herself, and overall, having a very mellow attitude, I never expected her to really initiate conversation, but once or twice we've had the opportunity to, and she seems to really open up. \n\nCuriosity struck again last week as I asked the same coworker who had approached us before to find out what the girl had said. Apparently, she thought I was cute. That doesn't say a lot other than she doesn't-not like me to a certain extent. I would love to ask her out BUT, I am in college, this is my only job right now, and I'd like to keep a crystal reputation. As an added bonus, multiple people around my workplace have either had affairs or are dating, so it isn't too uncommon. \nAlso, the interest's dad works there. Now, while I DO get along very well with him and have never had a problem with any dad in the past, I do see this whole situation a bit complicated because of the circumstances. I currently only see her one day out of the week and she is also a graduate looking for a serious career/job rather than waiting tables."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been browsing this subreddit a bit, and am fairly certain there isn't a situation quite like mine. The situation arose with a co-worker asking both she and I privately, a few months ago, what we both thought of each other. At the time, I really wasn't interested in a relationship due to my busy work schedule, anxiety, and overall professionalism. Just to clarify: We work at a restaurant. \n\nAfter that slightly-awkward confrontation, I had began to think more and more about that possibility of the girl being interested. The topic had to arise from somewhere, right? Being shy, herself, and overall, having a very mellow attitude, I never expected her to really initiate conversation, but once or twice we've had the opportunity to, and she seems to really open up. \n\nCuriosity struck again last week as I asked the same coworker who had approached us before to find out what the girl had said. Apparently, she thought I was cute. That doesn't say a lot other than she doesn't-not like me to a certain extent. I would love to ask her out BUT, I am in college, this is my only job right now, and I'd like to keep a crystal reputation. As an added bonus, multiple people around my workplace have either had affairs or are dating, so it isn't too uncommon. \nAlso, the interest's dad works there. Now, while I DO get along very well with him and have never had a problem with any dad in the past, I do see this whole situation a bit complicated because of the circumstances. I currently only see her one day out of the week and she is also a graduate looking for a serious career/job rather than waiting tables."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been browsing this subreddit a bit, and am fairly certain there isn't a situation quite like mine. The situation arose with a co-worker asking both she and I privately, a few months ago, what we both thought of each other. At the time, I really wasn't interested in a relationship due to my busy work schedule, anxiety, and overall professionalism. Just to clarify: We work at a restaurant. \n\nAfter that slightly-awkward confrontation, I had began to think more and more about that possibility of the girl being interested. The topic had to arise from somewhere, right? Being shy, herself, and overall, having a very mellow attitude, I never expected her to really initiate conversation, but once or twice we've had the opportunity to, and she seems to really open up. \n\nCuriosity struck again last week as I asked the same coworker who had approached us before to find out what the girl had said. Apparently, she thought I was cute. That doesn't say a lot other than she doesn't-not like me to a certain extent. I would love to ask her out BUT, I am in college, this is my only job right now, and I'd like to keep a crystal reputation. As an added bonus, multiple people around my workplace have either had affairs or are dating, so it isn't too uncommon. \nAlso, the interest's dad works there. Now, while I DO get along very well with him and have never had a problem with any dad in the past, I do see this whole situation a bit complicated because of the circumstances. I currently only see her one day out of the week and she is also a graduate looking for a serious career/job rather than waiting tables."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been browsing this subreddit a bit, and am fairly certain there isn't a situation quite like mine. The situation arose with a co-worker asking both she and I privately, a few months ago, what we both thought of each other. At the time, I really wasn't interested in a relationship due to my busy work schedule, anxiety, and overall professionalism. Just to clarify: We work at a restaurant. \n\nAfter that slightly-awkward confrontation, I had began to think more and more about that possibility of the girl being interested. The topic had to arise from somewhere, right? Being shy, herself, and overall, having a very mellow attitude, I never expected her to really initiate conversation, but once or twice we've had the opportunity to, and she seems to really open up. \n\nCuriosity struck again last week as I asked the same coworker who had approached us before to find out what the girl had said. Apparently, she thought I was cute. That doesn't say a lot other than she doesn't-not like me to a certain extent. I would love to ask her out BUT, I am in college, this is my only job right now, and I'd like to keep a crystal reputation. As an added bonus, multiple people around my workplace have either had affairs or are dating, so it isn't too uncommon. \nAlso, the interest's dad works there. Now, while I DO get along very well with him and have never had a problem with any dad in the past, I do see this whole situation a bit complicated because of the circumstances. I currently only see her one day out of the week and she is also a graduate looking for a serious career/job rather than waiting tables."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey! So here's my dilemma. I'm 20, I have been looking into becoming an electrician for a while, but was in no rush. Until my parents decided to inform me that they're moving across the country. I am SO lost, I don't know what to do on such short notice. I need advice! Some help! Anything. :( \n\nDetails:\n- \nMy parents decided they want to move to Alberta, from Ontario. I am not leaving my friends, my girlfriend and my life behind to tag along. Up until they told me of the move, I was in no rush. I lost my job a few months back due to health issues; and now I was gradually researching apprenticeships/certification, and reading books. Now it has become a race against time, I have 2 months until they leave. I live near Toronto, if that makes any difference at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey! So here's my dilemma. I'm 20, I have been looking into becoming an electrician for a while, but was in no rush. Until my parents decided to inform me that they're moving across the country. I am SO lost, I don't know what to do on such short notice. I need advice! Some help! Anything. :( \n\nDetails:\n- \nMy parents decided they want to move to Alberta, from Ontario. I am not leaving my friends, my girlfriend and my life behind to tag along. Up until they told me of the move, I was in no rush. I lost my job a few months back due to health issues; and now I was gradually researching apprenticeships/certification, and reading books. Now it has become a race against time, I have 2 months until they leave. I live near Toronto, if that makes any difference at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey! So here's my dilemma. I'm 20, I have been looking into becoming an electrician for a while, but was in no rush. Until my parents decided to inform me that they're moving across the country. I am SO lost, I don't know what to do on such short notice. I need advice! Some help! Anything. :( \n\nDetails:\n- \nMy parents decided they want to move to Alberta, from Ontario. I am not leaving my friends, my girlfriend and my life behind to tag along. Up until they told me of the move, I was in no rush. I lost my job a few months back due to health issues; and now I was gradually researching apprenticeships/certification, and reading books. Now it has become a race against time, I have 2 months until they leave. I live near Toronto, if that makes any difference at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey! So here's my dilemma. I'm 20, I have been looking into becoming an electrician for a while, but was in no rush. Until my parents decided to inform me that they're moving across the country. I am SO lost, I don't know what to do on such short notice. I need advice! Some help! Anything. :( \n\nDetails:\n- \nMy parents decided they want to move to Alberta, from Ontario. I am not leaving my friends, my girlfriend and my life behind to tag along. Up until they told me of the move, I was in no rush. I lost my job a few months back due to health issues; and now I was gradually researching apprenticeships/certification, and reading books. Now it has become a race against time, I have 2 months until they leave. I live near Toronto, if that makes any difference at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey! So here's my dilemma. I'm 20, I have been looking into becoming an electrician for a while, but was in no rush. Until my parents decided to inform me that they're moving across the country. I am SO lost, I don't know what to do on such short notice. I need advice! Some help! Anything. :( \n\nDetails:\n- \nMy parents decided they want to move to Alberta, from Ontario. I am not leaving my friends, my girlfriend and my life behind to tag along. Up until they told me of the move, I was in no rush. I lost my job a few months back due to health issues; and now I was gradually researching apprenticeships/certification, and reading books. Now it has become a race against time, I have 2 months until they leave. I live near Toronto, if that makes any difference at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey! So here's my dilemma. I'm 20, I have been looking into becoming an electrician for a while, but was in no rush. Until my parents decided to inform me that they're moving across the country. I am SO lost, I don't know what to do on such short notice. I need advice! Some help! Anything. :( \n\nDetails:\n- \nMy parents decided they want to move to Alberta, from Ontario. I am not leaving my friends, my girlfriend and my life behind to tag along. Up until they told me of the move, I was in no rush. I lost my job a few months back due to health issues; and now I was gradually researching apprenticeships/certification, and reading books. Now it has become a race against time, I have 2 months until they leave. I live near Toronto, if that makes any difference at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay the first question, how come my girlfriend's periods are not always during the same time like they were before birth control? Could she be pregnant or is it still the birth control?\n\nSecond, I got this small wart on my finger and me and my girlfriend stopped doing stuff (ya know), until it got treated. I was treating it with Salicylic acid for a few weeks but I never saw it get smaller or go away so we just forgot about it and continued doing stuff (I don't know how else to word it, sorry!). Now since I'm always worried about this kind of stuff, this is really starting to freak me out. I have had this bump on my penis for a few weeks and it hasn't gotten and bigger or smaller and I'm not sure what it is. Should I go to the doctor for it? How would I schedule an appointment for just that. I'm also worried, what if I gave my girlfriend warts when I fingered her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay the first question, how come my girlfriend's periods are not always during the same time like they were before birth control? Could she be pregnant or is it still the birth control?\n\nSecond, I got this small wart on my finger and me and my girlfriend stopped doing stuff (ya know), until it got treated. I was treating it with Salicylic acid for a few weeks but I never saw it get smaller or go away so we just forgot about it and continued doing stuff (I don't know how else to word it, sorry!). Now since I'm always worried about this kind of stuff, this is really starting to freak me out. I have had this bump on my penis for a few weeks and it hasn't gotten and bigger or smaller and I'm not sure what it is. Should I go to the doctor for it? How would I schedule an appointment for just that. I'm also worried, what if I gave my girlfriend warts when I fingered her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay the first question, how come my girlfriend's periods are not always during the same time like they were before birth control? Could she be pregnant or is it still the birth control?\n\nSecond, I got this small wart on my finger and me and my girlfriend stopped doing stuff (ya know), until it got treated. I was treating it with Salicylic acid for a few weeks but I never saw it get smaller or go away so we just forgot about it and continued doing stuff (I don't know how else to word it, sorry!). Now since I'm always worried about this kind of stuff, this is really starting to freak me out. I have had this bump on my penis for a few weeks and it hasn't gotten and bigger or smaller and I'm not sure what it is. Should I go to the doctor for it? How would I schedule an appointment for just that. I'm also worried, what if I gave my girlfriend warts when I fingered her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay the first question, how come my girlfriend's periods are not always during the same time like they were before birth control? Could she be pregnant or is it still the birth control?\n\nSecond, I got this small wart on my finger and me and my girlfriend stopped doing stuff (ya know), until it got treated. I was treating it with Salicylic acid for a few weeks but I never saw it get smaller or go away so we just forgot about it and continued doing stuff (I don't know how else to word it, sorry!). Now since I'm always worried about this kind of stuff, this is really starting to freak me out. I have had this bump on my penis for a few weeks and it hasn't gotten and bigger or smaller and I'm not sure what it is. Should I go to the doctor for it? How would I schedule an appointment for just that. I'm also worried, what if I gave my girlfriend warts when I fingered her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay the first question, how come my girlfriend's periods are not always during the same time like they were before birth control? Could she be pregnant or is it still the birth control?\n\nSecond, I got this small wart on my finger and me and my girlfriend stopped doing stuff (ya know), until it got treated. I was treating it with Salicylic acid for a few weeks but I never saw it get smaller or go away so we just forgot about it and continued doing stuff (I don't know how else to word it, sorry!). Now since I'm always worried about this kind of stuff, this is really starting to freak me out. I have had this bump on my penis for a few weeks and it hasn't gotten and bigger or smaller and I'm not sure what it is. Should I go to the doctor for it? How would I schedule an appointment for just that. I'm also worried, what if I gave my girlfriend warts when I fingered her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay the first question, how come my girlfriend's periods are not always during the same time like they were before birth control? Could she be pregnant or is it still the birth control?\n\nSecond, I got this small wart on my finger and me and my girlfriend stopped doing stuff (ya know), until it got treated. I was treating it with Salicylic acid for a few weeks but I never saw it get smaller or go away so we just forgot about it and continued doing stuff (I don't know how else to word it, sorry!). Now since I'm always worried about this kind of stuff, this is really starting to freak me out. I have had this bump on my penis for a few weeks and it hasn't gotten and bigger or smaller and I'm not sure what it is. Should I go to the doctor for it? How would I schedule an appointment for just that. I'm also worried, what if I gave my girlfriend warts when I fingered her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I saw/heard a couple across the street fighting and then witnessed the man run into the house, begin assaulting the woman, and slam the door. Knowing there was at least one small child over there, we called 911. The cops came and took our info and statements but said they would contact if they needed anything. Fast forward a few weeks and we get summoned to testify against him in court.\n\nWe only called 911 because we feared for the safety of the kid(s). Only later did we find out the guy is a rumored drug dealer on probation. We really don't want to shit where we eat and we certainly don't want to fuck with drug dealers. Still, we don't want someone like this living across the street from us so we'd like to help put him away if we can. The letters we got say that if we don't show up, we can be \"punished,\" but is this really true? Do we have the right to refuse to testify or to state our demands, for example that we do not want him to see who we are?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I saw/heard a couple across the street fighting and then witnessed the man run into the house, begin assaulting the woman, and slam the door. Knowing there was at least one small child over there, we called 911. The cops came and took our info and statements but said they would contact if they needed anything. Fast forward a few weeks and we get summoned to testify against him in court.\n\nWe only called 911 because we feared for the safety of the kid(s). Only later did we find out the guy is a rumored drug dealer on probation. We really don't want to shit where we eat and we certainly don't want to fuck with drug dealers. Still, we don't want someone like this living across the street from us so we'd like to help put him away if we can. The letters we got say that if we don't show up, we can be \"punished,\" but is this really true? Do we have the right to refuse to testify or to state our demands, for example that we do not want him to see who we are?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I saw/heard a couple across the street fighting and then witnessed the man run into the house, begin assaulting the woman, and slam the door. Knowing there was at least one small child over there, we called 911. The cops came and took our info and statements but said they would contact if they needed anything. Fast forward a few weeks and we get summoned to testify against him in court.\n\nWe only called 911 because we feared for the safety of the kid(s). Only later did we find out the guy is a rumored drug dealer on probation. We really don't want to shit where we eat and we certainly don't want to fuck with drug dealers. Still, we don't want someone like this living across the street from us so we'd like to help put him away if we can. The letters we got say that if we don't show up, we can be \"punished,\" but is this really true? Do we have the right to refuse to testify or to state our demands, for example that we do not want him to see who we are?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I saw/heard a couple across the street fighting and then witnessed the man run into the house, begin assaulting the woman, and slam the door. Knowing there was at least one small child over there, we called 911. The cops came and took our info and statements but said they would contact if they needed anything. Fast forward a few weeks and we get summoned to testify against him in court.\n\nWe only called 911 because we feared for the safety of the kid(s). Only later did we find out the guy is a rumored drug dealer on probation. We really don't want to shit where we eat and we certainly don't want to fuck with drug dealers. Still, we don't want someone like this living across the street from us so we'd like to help put him away if we can. The letters we got say that if we don't show up, we can be \"punished,\" but is this really true? Do we have the right to refuse to testify or to state our demands, for example that we do not want him to see who we are?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I saw/heard a couple across the street fighting and then witnessed the man run into the house, begin assaulting the woman, and slam the door. Knowing there was at least one small child over there, we called 911. The cops came and took our info and statements but said they would contact if they needed anything. Fast forward a few weeks and we get summoned to testify against him in court.\n\nWe only called 911 because we feared for the safety of the kid(s). Only later did we find out the guy is a rumored drug dealer on probation. We really don't want to shit where we eat and we certainly don't want to fuck with drug dealers. Still, we don't want someone like this living across the street from us so we'd like to help put him away if we can. The letters we got say that if we don't show up, we can be \"punished,\" but is this really true? Do we have the right to refuse to testify or to state our demands, for example that we do not want him to see who we are?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I saw/heard a couple across the street fighting and then witnessed the man run into the house, begin assaulting the woman, and slam the door. Knowing there was at least one small child over there, we called 911. The cops came and took our info and statements but said they would contact if they needed anything. Fast forward a few weeks and we get summoned to testify against him in court.\n\nWe only called 911 because we feared for the safety of the kid(s). Only later did we find out the guy is a rumored drug dealer on probation. We really don't want to shit where we eat and we certainly don't want to fuck with drug dealers. Still, we don't want someone like this living across the street from us so we'd like to help put him away if we can. The letters we got say that if we don't show up, we can be \"punished,\" but is this really true? Do we have the right to refuse to testify or to state our demands, for example that we do not want him to see who we are?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am kind of stuck. I live with my parents while I go to school to get my AA and have been trying to find employment here and there for the past couple of months. But recently things have taken a turn for the worst. Our water heater is being finicky, and just yesterday our AC broke. The estimate for the water heater is $1200 and the AC $4500-7000. I JUST REALLY NEED A WAY TO GET SOME MONEY! I need to start helping my family and grow the fuck up. I have tried desperately to find a job anywhere, gone back checked up with every application i've turned in, and nobody is hiring, so here is where you guys come in. I know you guys are clever and smart, and I need to here your most successful form of non-employed income. Whether it be Etsy, E-bay, blood plasma, ANYTHING! I just need to know. Thank you for any of your ideas."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am kind of stuck. I live with my parents while I go to school to get my AA and have been trying to find employment here and there for the past couple of months. But recently things have taken a turn for the worst. Our water heater is being finicky, and just yesterday our AC broke. The estimate for the water heater is $1200 and the AC $4500-7000. I JUST REALLY NEED A WAY TO GET SOME MONEY! I need to start helping my family and grow the fuck up. I have tried desperately to find a job anywhere, gone back checked up with every application i've turned in, and nobody is hiring, so here is where you guys come in. I know you guys are clever and smart, and I need to here your most successful form of non-employed income. Whether it be Etsy, E-bay, blood plasma, ANYTHING! I just need to know. Thank you for any of your ideas."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am kind of stuck. I live with my parents while I go to school to get my AA and have been trying to find employment here and there for the past couple of months. But recently things have taken a turn for the worst. Our water heater is being finicky, and just yesterday our AC broke. The estimate for the water heater is $1200 and the AC $4500-7000. I JUST REALLY NEED A WAY TO GET SOME MONEY! I need to start helping my family and grow the fuck up. I have tried desperately to find a job anywhere, gone back checked up with every application i've turned in, and nobody is hiring, so here is where you guys come in. I know you guys are clever and smart, and I need to here your most successful form of non-employed income. Whether it be Etsy, E-bay, blood plasma, ANYTHING! I just need to know. Thank you for any of your ideas."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am kind of stuck. I live with my parents while I go to school to get my AA and have been trying to find employment here and there for the past couple of months. But recently things have taken a turn for the worst. Our water heater is being finicky, and just yesterday our AC broke. The estimate for the water heater is $1200 and the AC $4500-7000. I JUST REALLY NEED A WAY TO GET SOME MONEY! I need to start helping my family and grow the fuck up. I have tried desperately to find a job anywhere, gone back checked up with every application i've turned in, and nobody is hiring, so here is where you guys come in. I know you guys are clever and smart, and I need to here your most successful form of non-employed income. Whether it be Etsy, E-bay, blood plasma, ANYTHING! I just need to know. Thank you for any of your ideas."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am kind of stuck. I live with my parents while I go to school to get my AA and have been trying to find employment here and there for the past couple of months. But recently things have taken a turn for the worst. Our water heater is being finicky, and just yesterday our AC broke. The estimate for the water heater is $1200 and the AC $4500-7000. I JUST REALLY NEED A WAY TO GET SOME MONEY! I need to start helping my family and grow the fuck up. I have tried desperately to find a job anywhere, gone back checked up with every application i've turned in, and nobody is hiring, so here is where you guys come in. I know you guys are clever and smart, and I need to here your most successful form of non-employed income. Whether it be Etsy, E-bay, blood plasma, ANYTHING! I just need to know. Thank you for any of your ideas."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am kind of stuck. I live with my parents while I go to school to get my AA and have been trying to find employment here and there for the past couple of months. But recently things have taken a turn for the worst. Our water heater is being finicky, and just yesterday our AC broke. The estimate for the water heater is $1200 and the AC $4500-7000. I JUST REALLY NEED A WAY TO GET SOME MONEY! I need to start helping my family and grow the fuck up. I have tried desperately to find a job anywhere, gone back checked up with every application i've turned in, and nobody is hiring, so here is where you guys come in. I know you guys are clever and smart, and I need to here your most successful form of non-employed income. Whether it be Etsy, E-bay, blood plasma, ANYTHING! I just need to know. Thank you for any of your ideas."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, me and my partner have been together for almost two years and having gone through ups and downs, almost breaking up during an extended trip overseas a couple of months ago, it feels like were on track now. We have a lot of proyects together, bands, we are putting up a tattoo studio together. It feels, however, like romance and erotism are dwindlign away.\n\nLet me first say that I understand that I know this is normal to some extent, I've been in long term relationships before. Because of a plethora of reasons, having to do with her lack of communication, her not very physically affectionate character (which she has worked on), my insecurities having to do with previous relationships, sex has become a touchy subject, and over a period of time I've developed a lot of anxiety around it, leading to PE and a very unsatisfactory sex like. Sure, I cum, but I don't think that counts as being satisfactory for either. \n\nThe issue of seeing other people has come up, seeing as we had discussed the notion of an open realtionship before. I, however, am not inclined to pursue it now because a) it generates a lot of insecurities seeing as it feels I am sorely lacking in this area and b) I don't think it is a good idea to pursue an OR when the edificie of the relationship, at least in that aspect, is shaky. It seems like asking for trouble.\n\nShe has been very unwilling to a) work on my PE with me and b) be more open about what ways we could make our sex life more satisfactory. She tells me that it is not that important (sex), and that I am overthinking it. I don't think, however, that it is as simple as that. I know that she masturbates regularly, which is normal, so I know that it is not the case she is not horny or disinterested in the sexual dimension of her life. It just feels like I am no longer an object of desire. I never feel she is checking me out or feels lust for me. Other than that she is still very affectionate, tells me she loves me, cuddles, etc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, me and my partner have been together for almost two years and having gone through ups and downs, almost breaking up during an extended trip overseas a couple of months ago, it feels like were on track now. We have a lot of proyects together, bands, we are putting up a tattoo studio together. It feels, however, like romance and erotism are dwindlign away.\n\nLet me first say that I understand that I know this is normal to some extent, I've been in long term relationships before. Because of a plethora of reasons, having to do with her lack of communication, her not very physically affectionate character (which she has worked on), my insecurities having to do with previous relationships, sex has become a touchy subject, and over a period of time I've developed a lot of anxiety around it, leading to PE and a very unsatisfactory sex like. Sure, I cum, but I don't think that counts as being satisfactory for either. \n\nThe issue of seeing other people has come up, seeing as we had discussed the notion of an open realtionship before. I, however, am not inclined to pursue it now because a) it generates a lot of insecurities seeing as it feels I am sorely lacking in this area and b) I don't think it is a good idea to pursue an OR when the edificie of the relationship, at least in that aspect, is shaky. It seems like asking for trouble.\n\nShe has been very unwilling to a) work on my PE with me and b) be more open about what ways we could make our sex life more satisfactory. She tells me that it is not that important (sex), and that I am overthinking it. I don't think, however, that it is as simple as that. I know that she masturbates regularly, which is normal, so I know that it is not the case she is not horny or disinterested in the sexual dimension of her life. It just feels like I am no longer an object of desire. I never feel she is checking me out or feels lust for me. Other than that she is still very affectionate, tells me she loves me, cuddles, etc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, me and my partner have been together for almost two years and having gone through ups and downs, almost breaking up during an extended trip overseas a couple of months ago, it feels like were on track now. We have a lot of proyects together, bands, we are putting up a tattoo studio together. It feels, however, like romance and erotism are dwindlign away.\n\nLet me first say that I understand that I know this is normal to some extent, I've been in long term relationships before. Because of a plethora of reasons, having to do with her lack of communication, her not very physically affectionate character (which she has worked on), my insecurities having to do with previous relationships, sex has become a touchy subject, and over a period of time I've developed a lot of anxiety around it, leading to PE and a very unsatisfactory sex like. Sure, I cum, but I don't think that counts as being satisfactory for either. \n\nThe issue of seeing other people has come up, seeing as we had discussed the notion of an open realtionship before. I, however, am not inclined to pursue it now because a) it generates a lot of insecurities seeing as it feels I am sorely lacking in this area and b) I don't think it is a good idea to pursue an OR when the edificie of the relationship, at least in that aspect, is shaky. It seems like asking for trouble.\n\nShe has been very unwilling to a) work on my PE with me and b) be more open about what ways we could make our sex life more satisfactory. She tells me that it is not that important (sex), and that I am overthinking it. I don't think, however, that it is as simple as that. I know that she masturbates regularly, which is normal, so I know that it is not the case she is not horny or disinterested in the sexual dimension of her life. It just feels like I am no longer an object of desire. I never feel she is checking me out or feels lust for me. Other than that she is still very affectionate, tells me she loves me, cuddles, etc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, me and my partner have been together for almost two years and having gone through ups and downs, almost breaking up during an extended trip overseas a couple of months ago, it feels like were on track now. We have a lot of proyects together, bands, we are putting up a tattoo studio together. It feels, however, like romance and erotism are dwindlign away.\n\nLet me first say that I understand that I know this is normal to some extent, I've been in long term relationships before. Because of a plethora of reasons, having to do with her lack of communication, her not very physically affectionate character (which she has worked on), my insecurities having to do with previous relationships, sex has become a touchy subject, and over a period of time I've developed a lot of anxiety around it, leading to PE and a very unsatisfactory sex like. Sure, I cum, but I don't think that counts as being satisfactory for either. \n\nThe issue of seeing other people has come up, seeing as we had discussed the notion of an open realtionship before. I, however, am not inclined to pursue it now because a) it generates a lot of insecurities seeing as it feels I am sorely lacking in this area and b) I don't think it is a good idea to pursue an OR when the edificie of the relationship, at least in that aspect, is shaky. It seems like asking for trouble.\n\nShe has been very unwilling to a) work on my PE with me and b) be more open about what ways we could make our sex life more satisfactory. She tells me that it is not that important (sex), and that I am overthinking it. I don't think, however, that it is as simple as that. I know that she masturbates regularly, which is normal, so I know that it is not the case she is not horny or disinterested in the sexual dimension of her life. It just feels like I am no longer an object of desire. I never feel she is checking me out or feels lust for me. Other than that she is still very affectionate, tells me she loves me, cuddles, etc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, me and my partner have been together for almost two years and having gone through ups and downs, almost breaking up during an extended trip overseas a couple of months ago, it feels like were on track now. We have a lot of proyects together, bands, we are putting up a tattoo studio together. It feels, however, like romance and erotism are dwindlign away.\n\nLet me first say that I understand that I know this is normal to some extent, I've been in long term relationships before. Because of a plethora of reasons, having to do with her lack of communication, her not very physically affectionate character (which she has worked on), my insecurities having to do with previous relationships, sex has become a touchy subject, and over a period of time I've developed a lot of anxiety around it, leading to PE and a very unsatisfactory sex like. Sure, I cum, but I don't think that counts as being satisfactory for either. \n\nThe issue of seeing other people has come up, seeing as we had discussed the notion of an open realtionship before. I, however, am not inclined to pursue it now because a) it generates a lot of insecurities seeing as it feels I am sorely lacking in this area and b) I don't think it is a good idea to pursue an OR when the edificie of the relationship, at least in that aspect, is shaky. It seems like asking for trouble.\n\nShe has been very unwilling to a) work on my PE with me and b) be more open about what ways we could make our sex life more satisfactory. She tells me that it is not that important (sex), and that I am overthinking it. I don't think, however, that it is as simple as that. I know that she masturbates regularly, which is normal, so I know that it is not the case she is not horny or disinterested in the sexual dimension of her life. It just feels like I am no longer an object of desire. I never feel she is checking me out or feels lust for me. Other than that she is still very affectionate, tells me she loves me, cuddles, etc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, me and my partner have been together for almost two years and having gone through ups and downs, almost breaking up during an extended trip overseas a couple of months ago, it feels like were on track now. We have a lot of proyects together, bands, we are putting up a tattoo studio together. It feels, however, like romance and erotism are dwindlign away.\n\nLet me first say that I understand that I know this is normal to some extent, I've been in long term relationships before. Because of a plethora of reasons, having to do with her lack of communication, her not very physically affectionate character (which she has worked on), my insecurities having to do with previous relationships, sex has become a touchy subject, and over a period of time I've developed a lot of anxiety around it, leading to PE and a very unsatisfactory sex like. Sure, I cum, but I don't think that counts as being satisfactory for either. \n\nThe issue of seeing other people has come up, seeing as we had discussed the notion of an open realtionship before. I, however, am not inclined to pursue it now because a) it generates a lot of insecurities seeing as it feels I am sorely lacking in this area and b) I don't think it is a good idea to pursue an OR when the edificie of the relationship, at least in that aspect, is shaky. It seems like asking for trouble.\n\nShe has been very unwilling to a) work on my PE with me and b) be more open about what ways we could make our sex life more satisfactory. She tells me that it is not that important (sex), and that I am overthinking it. I don't think, however, that it is as simple as that. I know that she masturbates regularly, which is normal, so I know that it is not the case she is not horny or disinterested in the sexual dimension of her life. It just feels like I am no longer an object of desire. I never feel she is checking me out or feels lust for me. Other than that she is still very affectionate, tells me she loves me, cuddles, etc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [20 F] am living at home with a dad who has anger outbursts towards me, my brother [18 M] and my mom. He always apologizes after, but when he is explosively yelling at me or another member of my family a few times a week then his apologies are pretty hard to accept. It's always a \"I'm sorry I yelled\" but nothing ever changes with his attitude or behaviour. He has never hit any of us, but I am sometimes afraid that he will kill himself. I think he may suffer from depression or some other mental condition, but he won't go to counselling or therapy.\n\nI am a student with another couple of years in university. I have some money saved up since I was little, but don't know if I should continue saving or look at getting a place of my own. I also don't have a car and work two jobs, both minimum wage.\n\nShould I really consider moving out? Or just tough it out for another few years until I am done school. I am going into a profession where I may have part-time work and no full salary for a few years, so that is making me more hesitant as well. His behaviour really affects me, but sometimes it's not that bad. :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [20 F] am living at home with a dad who has anger outbursts towards me, my brother [18 M] and my mom. He always apologizes after, but when he is explosively yelling at me or another member of my family a few times a week then his apologies are pretty hard to accept. It's always a \"I'm sorry I yelled\" but nothing ever changes with his attitude or behaviour. He has never hit any of us, but I am sometimes afraid that he will kill himself. I think he may suffer from depression or some other mental condition, but he won't go to counselling or therapy.\n\nI am a student with another couple of years in university. I have some money saved up since I was little, but don't know if I should continue saving or look at getting a place of my own. I also don't have a car and work two jobs, both minimum wage.\n\nShould I really consider moving out? Or just tough it out for another few years until I am done school. I am going into a profession where I may have part-time work and no full salary for a few years, so that is making me more hesitant as well. His behaviour really affects me, but sometimes it's not that bad. :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [20 F] am living at home with a dad who has anger outbursts towards me, my brother [18 M] and my mom. He always apologizes after, but when he is explosively yelling at me or another member of my family a few times a week then his apologies are pretty hard to accept. It's always a \"I'm sorry I yelled\" but nothing ever changes with his attitude or behaviour. He has never hit any of us, but I am sometimes afraid that he will kill himself. I think he may suffer from depression or some other mental condition, but he won't go to counselling or therapy.\n\nI am a student with another couple of years in university. I have some money saved up since I was little, but don't know if I should continue saving or look at getting a place of my own. I also don't have a car and work two jobs, both minimum wage.\n\nShould I really consider moving out? Or just tough it out for another few years until I am done school. I am going into a profession where I may have part-time work and no full salary for a few years, so that is making me more hesitant as well. His behaviour really affects me, but sometimes it's not that bad. :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [20 F] am living at home with a dad who has anger outbursts towards me, my brother [18 M] and my mom. He always apologizes after, but when he is explosively yelling at me or another member of my family a few times a week then his apologies are pretty hard to accept. It's always a \"I'm sorry I yelled\" but nothing ever changes with his attitude or behaviour. He has never hit any of us, but I am sometimes afraid that he will kill himself. I think he may suffer from depression or some other mental condition, but he won't go to counselling or therapy.\n\nI am a student with another couple of years in university. I have some money saved up since I was little, but don't know if I should continue saving or look at getting a place of my own. I also don't have a car and work two jobs, both minimum wage.\n\nShould I really consider moving out? Or just tough it out for another few years until I am done school. I am going into a profession where I may have part-time work and no full salary for a few years, so that is making me more hesitant as well. His behaviour really affects me, but sometimes it's not that bad. :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [20 F] am living at home with a dad who has anger outbursts towards me, my brother [18 M] and my mom. He always apologizes after, but when he is explosively yelling at me or another member of my family a few times a week then his apologies are pretty hard to accept. It's always a \"I'm sorry I yelled\" but nothing ever changes with his attitude or behaviour. He has never hit any of us, but I am sometimes afraid that he will kill himself. I think he may suffer from depression or some other mental condition, but he won't go to counselling or therapy.\n\nI am a student with another couple of years in university. I have some money saved up since I was little, but don't know if I should continue saving or look at getting a place of my own. I also don't have a car and work two jobs, both minimum wage.\n\nShould I really consider moving out? Or just tough it out for another few years until I am done school. I am going into a profession where I may have part-time work and no full salary for a few years, so that is making me more hesitant as well. His behaviour really affects me, but sometimes it's not that bad. :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [20 F] am living at home with a dad who has anger outbursts towards me, my brother [18 M] and my mom. He always apologizes after, but when he is explosively yelling at me or another member of my family a few times a week then his apologies are pretty hard to accept. It's always a \"I'm sorry I yelled\" but nothing ever changes with his attitude or behaviour. He has never hit any of us, but I am sometimes afraid that he will kill himself. I think he may suffer from depression or some other mental condition, but he won't go to counselling or therapy.\n\nI am a student with another couple of years in university. I have some money saved up since I was little, but don't know if I should continue saving or look at getting a place of my own. I also don't have a car and work two jobs, both minimum wage.\n\nShould I really consider moving out? Or just tough it out for another few years until I am done school. I am going into a profession where I may have part-time work and no full salary for a few years, so that is making me more hesitant as well. His behaviour really affects me, but sometimes it's not that bad. :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with J for almost a year and a half now. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter from a previous relationship whom we both love dearly; however this isn't the point of my post. My problem right now is that J and I decided to pack our belongings and move to a new state in June. It's been hard on us financially. He found a job as a security guard pretty quickly but I have had absolutely no luck. I've been a stay at home mom since I was 19 so I have NO job experience. It seems like NO ONE wants to hire me because of that. I have been turned down and hung up on after the person said, \"Sorry, I need someone with more experience.\" \n\nSo not only am I being turned down one after another, J is not being understanding. He is calling me lazy, worthless, a bitch, stupid, a gold digger, a moocher. basically anything you can call someone with no job. It hurts a lot. We're both in dire need of money to pay our rent. His security job only nets him about 1200 a month. Our rent here with all utilities rounds out to $1000\n. \nBackground: J and I lived together in our home state and I was on state assistance, and we managed to split the rent and that is how we paid for it previously. We moved to this new state because he has family here and it just seemed like a better opportunity at life. We were originally staying with his mother but things fell apart with her husband being really violent/anger problems and we were kicked out and forced to stay in a hotel for a week before we could find a place to take us. \n\nHis grandmother paid for the first two months of our rent here because it should have only taken two months for us to both get jobs. I can't get cash assistance here because I was already getting it in my other state but I do have food stamps right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with J for almost a year and a half now. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter from a previous relationship whom we both love dearly; however this isn't the point of my post. My problem right now is that J and I decided to pack our belongings and move to a new state in June. It's been hard on us financially. He found a job as a security guard pretty quickly but I have had absolutely no luck. I've been a stay at home mom since I was 19 so I have NO job experience. It seems like NO ONE wants to hire me because of that. I have been turned down and hung up on after the person said, \"Sorry, I need someone with more experience.\" \n\nSo not only am I being turned down one after another, J is not being understanding. He is calling me lazy, worthless, a bitch, stupid, a gold digger, a moocher. basically anything you can call someone with no job. It hurts a lot. We're both in dire need of money to pay our rent. His security job only nets him about 1200 a month. Our rent here with all utilities rounds out to $1000\n. \nBackground: J and I lived together in our home state and I was on state assistance, and we managed to split the rent and that is how we paid for it previously. We moved to this new state because he has family here and it just seemed like a better opportunity at life. We were originally staying with his mother but things fell apart with her husband being really violent/anger problems and we were kicked out and forced to stay in a hotel for a week before we could find a place to take us. \n\nHis grandmother paid for the first two months of our rent here because it should have only taken two months for us to both get jobs. I can't get cash assistance here because I was already getting it in my other state but I do have food stamps right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with J for almost a year and a half now. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter from a previous relationship whom we both love dearly; however this isn't the point of my post. My problem right now is that J and I decided to pack our belongings and move to a new state in June. It's been hard on us financially. He found a job as a security guard pretty quickly but I have had absolutely no luck. I've been a stay at home mom since I was 19 so I have NO job experience. It seems like NO ONE wants to hire me because of that. I have been turned down and hung up on after the person said, \"Sorry, I need someone with more experience.\" \n\nSo not only am I being turned down one after another, J is not being understanding. He is calling me lazy, worthless, a bitch, stupid, a gold digger, a moocher. basically anything you can call someone with no job. It hurts a lot. We're both in dire need of money to pay our rent. His security job only nets him about 1200 a month. Our rent here with all utilities rounds out to $1000\n. \nBackground: J and I lived together in our home state and I was on state assistance, and we managed to split the rent and that is how we paid for it previously. We moved to this new state because he has family here and it just seemed like a better opportunity at life. We were originally staying with his mother but things fell apart with her husband being really violent/anger problems and we were kicked out and forced to stay in a hotel for a week before we could find a place to take us. \n\nHis grandmother paid for the first two months of our rent here because it should have only taken two months for us to both get jobs. I can't get cash assistance here because I was already getting it in my other state but I do have food stamps right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with J for almost a year and a half now. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter from a previous relationship whom we both love dearly; however this isn't the point of my post. My problem right now is that J and I decided to pack our belongings and move to a new state in June. It's been hard on us financially. He found a job as a security guard pretty quickly but I have had absolutely no luck. I've been a stay at home mom since I was 19 so I have NO job experience. It seems like NO ONE wants to hire me because of that. I have been turned down and hung up on after the person said, \"Sorry, I need someone with more experience.\" \n\nSo not only am I being turned down one after another, J is not being understanding. He is calling me lazy, worthless, a bitch, stupid, a gold digger, a moocher. basically anything you can call someone with no job. It hurts a lot. We're both in dire need of money to pay our rent. His security job only nets him about 1200 a month. Our rent here with all utilities rounds out to $1000\n. \nBackground: J and I lived together in our home state and I was on state assistance, and we managed to split the rent and that is how we paid for it previously. We moved to this new state because he has family here and it just seemed like a better opportunity at life. We were originally staying with his mother but things fell apart with her husband being really violent/anger problems and we were kicked out and forced to stay in a hotel for a week before we could find a place to take us. \n\nHis grandmother paid for the first two months of our rent here because it should have only taken two months for us to both get jobs. I can't get cash assistance here because I was already getting it in my other state but I do have food stamps right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with J for almost a year and a half now. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter from a previous relationship whom we both love dearly; however this isn't the point of my post. My problem right now is that J and I decided to pack our belongings and move to a new state in June. It's been hard on us financially. He found a job as a security guard pretty quickly but I have had absolutely no luck. I've been a stay at home mom since I was 19 so I have NO job experience. It seems like NO ONE wants to hire me because of that. I have been turned down and hung up on after the person said, \"Sorry, I need someone with more experience.\" \n\nSo not only am I being turned down one after another, J is not being understanding. He is calling me lazy, worthless, a bitch, stupid, a gold digger, a moocher. basically anything you can call someone with no job. It hurts a lot. We're both in dire need of money to pay our rent. His security job only nets him about 1200 a month. Our rent here with all utilities rounds out to $1000\n. \nBackground: J and I lived together in our home state and I was on state assistance, and we managed to split the rent and that is how we paid for it previously. We moved to this new state because he has family here and it just seemed like a better opportunity at life. We were originally staying with his mother but things fell apart with her husband being really violent/anger problems and we were kicked out and forced to stay in a hotel for a week before we could find a place to take us. \n\nHis grandmother paid for the first two months of our rent here because it should have only taken two months for us to both get jobs. I can't get cash assistance here because I was already getting it in my other state but I do have food stamps right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with J for almost a year and a half now. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter from a previous relationship whom we both love dearly; however this isn't the point of my post. My problem right now is that J and I decided to pack our belongings and move to a new state in June. It's been hard on us financially. He found a job as a security guard pretty quickly but I have had absolutely no luck. I've been a stay at home mom since I was 19 so I have NO job experience. It seems like NO ONE wants to hire me because of that. I have been turned down and hung up on after the person said, \"Sorry, I need someone with more experience.\" \n\nSo not only am I being turned down one after another, J is not being understanding. He is calling me lazy, worthless, a bitch, stupid, a gold digger, a moocher. basically anything you can call someone with no job. It hurts a lot. We're both in dire need of money to pay our rent. His security job only nets him about 1200 a month. Our rent here with all utilities rounds out to $1000\n. \nBackground: J and I lived together in our home state and I was on state assistance, and we managed to split the rent and that is how we paid for it previously. We moved to this new state because he has family here and it just seemed like a better opportunity at life. We were originally staying with his mother but things fell apart with her husband being really violent/anger problems and we were kicked out and forced to stay in a hotel for a week before we could find a place to take us. \n\nHis grandmother paid for the first two months of our rent here because it should have only taken two months for us to both get jobs. I can't get cash assistance here because I was already getting it in my other state but I do have food stamps right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have been together for 2 months today and for the last week we have been pissed off with each other. After a big fight tonight I realize i need to make a change in how I approach talking in relationships. I think I expect too much, and I'm picky on things that shouldn't really matter. \n\nExample: One morning she woke up late while I was at school, and I had decided that because I had been the one to message her first all that week that I'd wait for her to message me (already sounds bad) then when she finally texted me she said 'Morning'. This was far different to how she said morning every other morning as most other times it is 'Morning!' or 'Morning, sorry i just woke up' or 'Morning xx' You get the idea. \nI know this is irrational. So what she woke up late and didn't tell me, and so what it didnt have extras on the message. That needs to change.\n\nWhat steps can I take to be more patient? This is my first real relationship and I don't know how to act properly when something happens I don't like/agree with\n\nThanks in advance"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have been together for 2 months today and for the last week we have been pissed off with each other. After a big fight tonight I realize i need to make a change in how I approach talking in relationships. I think I expect too much, and I'm picky on things that shouldn't really matter. \n\nExample: One morning she woke up late while I was at school, and I had decided that because I had been the one to message her first all that week that I'd wait for her to message me (already sounds bad) then when she finally texted me she said 'Morning'. This was far different to how she said morning every other morning as most other times it is 'Morning!' or 'Morning, sorry i just woke up' or 'Morning xx' You get the idea. \nI know this is irrational. So what she woke up late and didn't tell me, and so what it didnt have extras on the message. That needs to change.\n\nWhat steps can I take to be more patient? This is my first real relationship and I don't know how to act properly when something happens I don't like/agree with\n\nThanks in advance"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have been together for 2 months today and for the last week we have been pissed off with each other. After a big fight tonight I realize i need to make a change in how I approach talking in relationships. I think I expect too much, and I'm picky on things that shouldn't really matter. \n\nExample: One morning she woke up late while I was at school, and I had decided that because I had been the one to message her first all that week that I'd wait for her to message me (already sounds bad) then when she finally texted me she said 'Morning'. This was far different to how she said morning every other morning as most other times it is 'Morning!' or 'Morning, sorry i just woke up' or 'Morning xx' You get the idea. \nI know this is irrational. So what she woke up late and didn't tell me, and so what it didnt have extras on the message. That needs to change.\n\nWhat steps can I take to be more patient? This is my first real relationship and I don't know how to act properly when something happens I don't like/agree with\n\nThanks in advance"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have been together for 2 months today and for the last week we have been pissed off with each other. After a big fight tonight I realize i need to make a change in how I approach talking in relationships. I think I expect too much, and I'm picky on things that shouldn't really matter. \n\nExample: One morning she woke up late while I was at school, and I had decided that because I had been the one to message her first all that week that I'd wait for her to message me (already sounds bad) then when she finally texted me she said 'Morning'. This was far different to how she said morning every other morning as most other times it is 'Morning!' or 'Morning, sorry i just woke up' or 'Morning xx' You get the idea. \nI know this is irrational. So what she woke up late and didn't tell me, and so what it didnt have extras on the message. That needs to change.\n\nWhat steps can I take to be more patient? This is my first real relationship and I don't know how to act properly when something happens I don't like/agree with\n\nThanks in advance"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have been together for 2 months today and for the last week we have been pissed off with each other. After a big fight tonight I realize i need to make a change in how I approach talking in relationships. I think I expect too much, and I'm picky on things that shouldn't really matter. \n\nExample: One morning she woke up late while I was at school, and I had decided that because I had been the one to message her first all that week that I'd wait for her to message me (already sounds bad) then when she finally texted me she said 'Morning'. This was far different to how she said morning every other morning as most other times it is 'Morning!' or 'Morning, sorry i just woke up' or 'Morning xx' You get the idea. \nI know this is irrational. So what she woke up late and didn't tell me, and so what it didnt have extras on the message. That needs to change.\n\nWhat steps can I take to be more patient? This is my first real relationship and I don't know how to act properly when something happens I don't like/agree with\n\nThanks in advance"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have been together for 2 months today and for the last week we have been pissed off with each other. After a big fight tonight I realize i need to make a change in how I approach talking in relationships. I think I expect too much, and I'm picky on things that shouldn't really matter. \n\nExample: One morning she woke up late while I was at school, and I had decided that because I had been the one to message her first all that week that I'd wait for her to message me (already sounds bad) then when she finally texted me she said 'Morning'. This was far different to how she said morning every other morning as most other times it is 'Morning!' or 'Morning, sorry i just woke up' or 'Morning xx' You get the idea. \nI know this is irrational. So what she woke up late and didn't tell me, and so what it didnt have extras on the message. That needs to change.\n\nWhat steps can I take to be more patient? This is my first real relationship and I don't know how to act properly when something happens I don't like/agree with\n\nThanks in advance"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing this girl for about half a year now and she's been a lot of fun to be with. It's all been great, but this just made everything explode.\n\nI got a text from her one day about a week ago saying she was pregnant. A text. I immediately tried to be supportive of decision, and was prepared to discuss it.\n\nBut then she told me she was going to the appointment for the abortion that day. I was stunned, I thought I'd at least get a word. I wanted to come but she wouldn't have it.\n\nAfter that I tried to do the right thing, I paid for half of the cost of the visit and tried to be supportive.\n\nThe night she took the medication, she was struggling with its effect and had a nursing class the next day. I wrote a five page paper on Alarm Fatigue for her that night because she couldn't do it in time.\n\nI tried to do the right thing every step of the way, but now she wants nothing to do with me. The thought of me makes her think of what happened, she says. \n\nWhat am I supposed to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing this girl for about half a year now and she's been a lot of fun to be with. It's all been great, but this just made everything explode.\n\nI got a text from her one day about a week ago saying she was pregnant. A text. I immediately tried to be supportive of decision, and was prepared to discuss it.\n\nBut then she told me she was going to the appointment for the abortion that day. I was stunned, I thought I'd at least get a word. I wanted to come but she wouldn't have it.\n\nAfter that I tried to do the right thing, I paid for half of the cost of the visit and tried to be supportive.\n\nThe night she took the medication, she was struggling with its effect and had a nursing class the next day. I wrote a five page paper on Alarm Fatigue for her that night because she couldn't do it in time.\n\nI tried to do the right thing every step of the way, but now she wants nothing to do with me. The thought of me makes her think of what happened, she says. \n\nWhat am I supposed to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing this girl for about half a year now and she's been a lot of fun to be with. It's all been great, but this just made everything explode.\n\nI got a text from her one day about a week ago saying she was pregnant. A text. I immediately tried to be supportive of decision, and was prepared to discuss it.\n\nBut then she told me she was going to the appointment for the abortion that day. I was stunned, I thought I'd at least get a word. I wanted to come but she wouldn't have it.\n\nAfter that I tried to do the right thing, I paid for half of the cost of the visit and tried to be supportive.\n\nThe night she took the medication, she was struggling with its effect and had a nursing class the next day. I wrote a five page paper on Alarm Fatigue for her that night because she couldn't do it in time.\n\nI tried to do the right thing every step of the way, but now she wants nothing to do with me. The thought of me makes her think of what happened, she says. \n\nWhat am I supposed to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing this girl for about half a year now and she's been a lot of fun to be with. It's all been great, but this just made everything explode.\n\nI got a text from her one day about a week ago saying she was pregnant. A text. I immediately tried to be supportive of decision, and was prepared to discuss it.\n\nBut then she told me she was going to the appointment for the abortion that day. I was stunned, I thought I'd at least get a word. I wanted to come but she wouldn't have it.\n\nAfter that I tried to do the right thing, I paid for half of the cost of the visit and tried to be supportive.\n\nThe night she took the medication, she was struggling with its effect and had a nursing class the next day. I wrote a five page paper on Alarm Fatigue for her that night because she couldn't do it in time.\n\nI tried to do the right thing every step of the way, but now she wants nothing to do with me. The thought of me makes her think of what happened, she says. \n\nWhat am I supposed to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing this girl for about half a year now and she's been a lot of fun to be with. It's all been great, but this just made everything explode.\n\nI got a text from her one day about a week ago saying she was pregnant. A text. I immediately tried to be supportive of decision, and was prepared to discuss it.\n\nBut then she told me she was going to the appointment for the abortion that day. I was stunned, I thought I'd at least get a word. I wanted to come but she wouldn't have it.\n\nAfter that I tried to do the right thing, I paid for half of the cost of the visit and tried to be supportive.\n\nThe night she took the medication, she was struggling with its effect and had a nursing class the next day. I wrote a five page paper on Alarm Fatigue for her that night because she couldn't do it in time.\n\nI tried to do the right thing every step of the way, but now she wants nothing to do with me. The thought of me makes her think of what happened, she says. \n\nWhat am I supposed to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing this girl for about half a year now and she's been a lot of fun to be with. It's all been great, but this just made everything explode.\n\nI got a text from her one day about a week ago saying she was pregnant. A text. I immediately tried to be supportive of decision, and was prepared to discuss it.\n\nBut then she told me she was going to the appointment for the abortion that day. I was stunned, I thought I'd at least get a word. I wanted to come but she wouldn't have it.\n\nAfter that I tried to do the right thing, I paid for half of the cost of the visit and tried to be supportive.\n\nThe night she took the medication, she was struggling with its effect and had a nursing class the next day. I wrote a five page paper on Alarm Fatigue for her that night because she couldn't do it in time.\n\nI tried to do the right thing every step of the way, but now she wants nothing to do with me. The thought of me makes her think of what happened, she says. \n\nWhat am I supposed to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have dated since college and been in 4 serious relationships. But every time one is coming to an end or they want to break up, I say okay and check out emotionally immediately. I have been told by ex's and friends that apparently this is not what a woman always wants when they break up with a guy. They tell me I am or they want me to fight for the relationship and try to save it.\n\nWhat kind of game is this? I can't help that I can cut off feelings for someone when they tell me they don't think it is working or something like that. apparently it hurts more that I leave without a tear or sadness when they tell me in person. Even when I feel deeply for them or love them, I just check out right then and there. Am I wrong to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have dated since college and been in 4 serious relationships. But every time one is coming to an end or they want to break up, I say okay and check out emotionally immediately. I have been told by ex's and friends that apparently this is not what a woman always wants when they break up with a guy. They tell me I am or they want me to fight for the relationship and try to save it.\n\nWhat kind of game is this? I can't help that I can cut off feelings for someone when they tell me they don't think it is working or something like that. apparently it hurts more that I leave without a tear or sadness when they tell me in person. Even when I feel deeply for them or love them, I just check out right then and there. Am I wrong to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have dated since college and been in 4 serious relationships. But every time one is coming to an end or they want to break up, I say okay and check out emotionally immediately. I have been told by ex's and friends that apparently this is not what a woman always wants when they break up with a guy. They tell me I am or they want me to fight for the relationship and try to save it.\n\nWhat kind of game is this? I can't help that I can cut off feelings for someone when they tell me they don't think it is working or something like that. apparently it hurts more that I leave without a tear or sadness when they tell me in person. Even when I feel deeply for them or love them, I just check out right then and there. Am I wrong to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have dated since college and been in 4 serious relationships. But every time one is coming to an end or they want to break up, I say okay and check out emotionally immediately. I have been told by ex's and friends that apparently this is not what a woman always wants when they break up with a guy. They tell me I am or they want me to fight for the relationship and try to save it.\n\nWhat kind of game is this? I can't help that I can cut off feelings for someone when they tell me they don't think it is working or something like that. apparently it hurts more that I leave without a tear or sadness when they tell me in person. Even when I feel deeply for them or love them, I just check out right then and there. Am I wrong to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have dated since college and been in 4 serious relationships. But every time one is coming to an end or they want to break up, I say okay and check out emotionally immediately. I have been told by ex's and friends that apparently this is not what a woman always wants when they break up with a guy. They tell me I am or they want me to fight for the relationship and try to save it.\n\nWhat kind of game is this? I can't help that I can cut off feelings for someone when they tell me they don't think it is working or something like that. apparently it hurts more that I leave without a tear or sadness when they tell me in person. Even when I feel deeply for them or love them, I just check out right then and there. Am I wrong to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have dated since college and been in 4 serious relationships. But every time one is coming to an end or they want to break up, I say okay and check out emotionally immediately. I have been told by ex's and friends that apparently this is not what a woman always wants when they break up with a guy. They tell me I am or they want me to fight for the relationship and try to save it.\n\nWhat kind of game is this? I can't help that I can cut off feelings for someone when they tell me they don't think it is working or something like that. apparently it hurts more that I leave without a tear or sadness when they tell me in person. Even when I feel deeply for them or love them, I just check out right then and there. Am I wrong to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm male 22 she's female 22. \n\nWe've been seeing each other for over a month now. We both admit to really liking each other, sex is amazing and apparently I'm the first, as she says it \"non douche bag, good looking guy\" she's ever been with lol\nShe's basically a good girl and I'm a nice guy, so we're a pretty good match.\n \nThen the subject of a relationship came up. She doesn't want to get in to one since I'm graduating by the end of April and suggest we just take it slow and see what happens. \n\nShe's still got two more years of college since she started later. Knowing me, I'm willing to re-locate anywhere for a job. Also my last few years of summer employment I spent working in the oil industry, meaning I was working 20hrs+ away from home in the middle of nowhere. So if I don't find a real job (considering the shit job market atm) I'll probably just do that again since it's pretty much guaranteed that I will get hired again. \n\nFrom that you can obviously see why she's hesitant to start a relationship. She doesn't want to get too attached as there is a big possibility that I will not be around much. \n\nSo what exactly are we if we are not in a relationship? We are not \"friends with benefits\" as we do everything an official couple would do like going out on dates and cooking dinner together."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm male 22 she's female 22. \n\nWe've been seeing each other for over a month now. We both admit to really liking each other, sex is amazing and apparently I'm the first, as she says it \"non douche bag, good looking guy\" she's ever been with lol\nShe's basically a good girl and I'm a nice guy, so we're a pretty good match.\n \nThen the subject of a relationship came up. She doesn't want to get in to one since I'm graduating by the end of April and suggest we just take it slow and see what happens. \n\nShe's still got two more years of college since she started later. Knowing me, I'm willing to re-locate anywhere for a job. Also my last few years of summer employment I spent working in the oil industry, meaning I was working 20hrs+ away from home in the middle of nowhere. So if I don't find a real job (considering the shit job market atm) I'll probably just do that again since it's pretty much guaranteed that I will get hired again. \n\nFrom that you can obviously see why she's hesitant to start a relationship. She doesn't want to get too attached as there is a big possibility that I will not be around much. \n\nSo what exactly are we if we are not in a relationship? We are not \"friends with benefits\" as we do everything an official couple would do like going out on dates and cooking dinner together."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm male 22 she's female 22. \n\nWe've been seeing each other for over a month now. We both admit to really liking each other, sex is amazing and apparently I'm the first, as she says it \"non douche bag, good looking guy\" she's ever been with lol\nShe's basically a good girl and I'm a nice guy, so we're a pretty good match.\n \nThen the subject of a relationship came up. She doesn't want to get in to one since I'm graduating by the end of April and suggest we just take it slow and see what happens. \n\nShe's still got two more years of college since she started later. Knowing me, I'm willing to re-locate anywhere for a job. Also my last few years of summer employment I spent working in the oil industry, meaning I was working 20hrs+ away from home in the middle of nowhere. So if I don't find a real job (considering the shit job market atm) I'll probably just do that again since it's pretty much guaranteed that I will get hired again. \n\nFrom that you can obviously see why she's hesitant to start a relationship. She doesn't want to get too attached as there is a big possibility that I will not be around much. \n\nSo what exactly are we if we are not in a relationship? We are not \"friends with benefits\" as we do everything an official couple would do like going out on dates and cooking dinner together."
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{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm male 22 she's female 22. \n\nWe've been seeing each other for over a month now. We both admit to really liking each other, sex is amazing and apparently I'm the first, as she says it \"non douche bag, good looking guy\" she's ever been with lol\nShe's basically a good girl and I'm a nice guy, so we're a pretty good match.\n \nThen the subject of a relationship came up. She doesn't want to get in to one since I'm graduating by the end of April and suggest we just take it slow and see what happens. \n\nShe's still got two more years of college since she started later. Knowing me, I'm willing to re-locate anywhere for a job. Also my last few years of summer employment I spent working in the oil industry, meaning I was working 20hrs+ away from home in the middle of nowhere. So if I don't find a real job (considering the shit job market atm) I'll probably just do that again since it's pretty much guaranteed that I will get hired again. \n\nFrom that you can obviously see why she's hesitant to start a relationship. She doesn't want to get too attached as there is a big possibility that I will not be around much. \n\nSo what exactly are we if we are not in a relationship? We are not \"friends with benefits\" as we do everything an official couple would do like going out on dates and cooking dinner together."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm male 22 she's female 22. \n\nWe've been seeing each other for over a month now. We both admit to really liking each other, sex is amazing and apparently I'm the first, as she says it \"non douche bag, good looking guy\" she's ever been with lol\nShe's basically a good girl and I'm a nice guy, so we're a pretty good match.\n \nThen the subject of a relationship came up. She doesn't want to get in to one since I'm graduating by the end of April and suggest we just take it slow and see what happens. \n\nShe's still got two more years of college since she started later. Knowing me, I'm willing to re-locate anywhere for a job. Also my last few years of summer employment I spent working in the oil industry, meaning I was working 20hrs+ away from home in the middle of nowhere. So if I don't find a real job (considering the shit job market atm) I'll probably just do that again since it's pretty much guaranteed that I will get hired again. \n\nFrom that you can obviously see why she's hesitant to start a relationship. She doesn't want to get too attached as there is a big possibility that I will not be around much. \n\nSo what exactly are we if we are not in a relationship? We are not \"friends with benefits\" as we do everything an official couple would do like going out on dates and cooking dinner together."
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{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm male 22 she's female 22. \n\nWe've been seeing each other for over a month now. We both admit to really liking each other, sex is amazing and apparently I'm the first, as she says it \"non douche bag, good looking guy\" she's ever been with lol\nShe's basically a good girl and I'm a nice guy, so we're a pretty good match.\n \nThen the subject of a relationship came up. She doesn't want to get in to one since I'm graduating by the end of April and suggest we just take it slow and see what happens. \n\nShe's still got two more years of college since she started later. Knowing me, I'm willing to re-locate anywhere for a job. Also my last few years of summer employment I spent working in the oil industry, meaning I was working 20hrs+ away from home in the middle of nowhere. So if I don't find a real job (considering the shit job market atm) I'll probably just do that again since it's pretty much guaranteed that I will get hired again. \n\nFrom that you can obviously see why she's hesitant to start a relationship. She doesn't want to get too attached as there is a big possibility that I will not be around much. \n\nSo what exactly are we if we are not in a relationship? We are not \"friends with benefits\" as we do everything an official couple would do like going out on dates and cooking dinner together."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: both 21, dating just under a year.\n\nAn Imax just came to our city, and I asked her if we could go together for the first time. She said yes, and I was pumped.\n \nLast weekend we saw a movie together, not at Imax, tonight she went to see the same movie with one of her girlfriends, (doesn't matter she is seeing the same movie), but what upsets me, is that it is at the Imax. I tried calling her before she left, but did not get a hold of her. \n\nThen I figured it be best not to guilt her before she goes, and bring it up after. Am I right to be upset?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: both 21, dating just under a year.\n\nAn Imax just came to our city, and I asked her if we could go together for the first time. She said yes, and I was pumped.\n \nLast weekend we saw a movie together, not at Imax, tonight she went to see the same movie with one of her girlfriends, (doesn't matter she is seeing the same movie), but what upsets me, is that it is at the Imax. I tried calling her before she left, but did not get a hold of her. \n\nThen I figured it be best not to guilt her before she goes, and bring it up after. Am I right to be upset?"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: both 21, dating just under a year.\n\nAn Imax just came to our city, and I asked her if we could go together for the first time. She said yes, and I was pumped.\n \nLast weekend we saw a movie together, not at Imax, tonight she went to see the same movie with one of her girlfriends, (doesn't matter she is seeing the same movie), but what upsets me, is that it is at the Imax. I tried calling her before she left, but did not get a hold of her. \n\nThen I figured it be best not to guilt her before she goes, and bring it up after. Am I right to be upset?"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: both 21, dating just under a year.\n\nAn Imax just came to our city, and I asked her if we could go together for the first time. She said yes, and I was pumped.\n \nLast weekend we saw a movie together, not at Imax, tonight she went to see the same movie with one of her girlfriends, (doesn't matter she is seeing the same movie), but what upsets me, is that it is at the Imax. I tried calling her before she left, but did not get a hold of her. \n\nThen I figured it be best not to guilt her before she goes, and bring it up after. Am I right to be upset?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: both 21, dating just under a year.\n\nAn Imax just came to our city, and I asked her if we could go together for the first time. She said yes, and I was pumped.\n \nLast weekend we saw a movie together, not at Imax, tonight she went to see the same movie with one of her girlfriends, (doesn't matter she is seeing the same movie), but what upsets me, is that it is at the Imax. I tried calling her before she left, but did not get a hold of her. \n\nThen I figured it be best not to guilt her before she goes, and bring it up after. Am I right to be upset?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: both 21, dating just under a year.\n\nAn Imax just came to our city, and I asked her if we could go together for the first time. She said yes, and I was pumped.\n \nLast weekend we saw a movie together, not at Imax, tonight she went to see the same movie with one of her girlfriends, (doesn't matter she is seeing the same movie), but what upsets me, is that it is at the Imax. I tried calling her before she left, but did not get a hold of her. \n\nThen I figured it be best not to guilt her before she goes, and bring it up after. Am I right to be upset?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a high school English teacher at a low-income, inner-city school. I don't have student text books, let alone actual novels for them (I have a teacher's edition I have to make copies from for the textbook material.). If I want them to read, I have to purchase the novels myself. So.I really wanted them to be exposed to some literary works (other than short stories and poems), but I couldn't afford class sets of multiple novels ($100-$160 each set). To fix this, I started to buy 1 copy of the actual book and a box of paper from Office Depot or something and made copies of the books. I am pretty sure this is not legal from a copyright perspective, but most of the authors I have them read are dead (British and American Literature classes) so I don't feel too bad morally. \n\nI guess I'm wondering if I can get in trouble in any real way for this. I really don't think it's fair that they don't get to read because my school is poor."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a high school English teacher at a low-income, inner-city school. I don't have student text books, let alone actual novels for them (I have a teacher's edition I have to make copies from for the textbook material.). If I want them to read, I have to purchase the novels myself. So.I really wanted them to be exposed to some literary works (other than short stories and poems), but I couldn't afford class sets of multiple novels ($100-$160 each set). To fix this, I started to buy 1 copy of the actual book and a box of paper from Office Depot or something and made copies of the books. I am pretty sure this is not legal from a copyright perspective, but most of the authors I have them read are dead (British and American Literature classes) so I don't feel too bad morally. \n\nI guess I'm wondering if I can get in trouble in any real way for this. I really don't think it's fair that they don't get to read because my school is poor."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a high school English teacher at a low-income, inner-city school. I don't have student text books, let alone actual novels for them (I have a teacher's edition I have to make copies from for the textbook material.). If I want them to read, I have to purchase the novels myself. So.I really wanted them to be exposed to some literary works (other than short stories and poems), but I couldn't afford class sets of multiple novels ($100-$160 each set). To fix this, I started to buy 1 copy of the actual book and a box of paper from Office Depot or something and made copies of the books. I am pretty sure this is not legal from a copyright perspective, but most of the authors I have them read are dead (British and American Literature classes) so I don't feel too bad morally. \n\nI guess I'm wondering if I can get in trouble in any real way for this. I really don't think it's fair that they don't get to read because my school is poor."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a high school English teacher at a low-income, inner-city school. I don't have student text books, let alone actual novels for them (I have a teacher's edition I have to make copies from for the textbook material.). If I want them to read, I have to purchase the novels myself. So.I really wanted them to be exposed to some literary works (other than short stories and poems), but I couldn't afford class sets of multiple novels ($100-$160 each set). To fix this, I started to buy 1 copy of the actual book and a box of paper from Office Depot or something and made copies of the books. I am pretty sure this is not legal from a copyright perspective, but most of the authors I have them read are dead (British and American Literature classes) so I don't feel too bad morally. \n\nI guess I'm wondering if I can get in trouble in any real way for this. I really don't think it's fair that they don't get to read because my school is poor."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a high school English teacher at a low-income, inner-city school. I don't have student text books, let alone actual novels for them (I have a teacher's edition I have to make copies from for the textbook material.). If I want them to read, I have to purchase the novels myself. So.I really wanted them to be exposed to some literary works (other than short stories and poems), but I couldn't afford class sets of multiple novels ($100-$160 each set). To fix this, I started to buy 1 copy of the actual book and a box of paper from Office Depot or something and made copies of the books. I am pretty sure this is not legal from a copyright perspective, but most of the authors I have them read are dead (British and American Literature classes) so I don't feel too bad morally. \n\nI guess I'm wondering if I can get in trouble in any real way for this. I really don't think it's fair that they don't get to read because my school is poor."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a high school English teacher at a low-income, inner-city school. I don't have student text books, let alone actual novels for them (I have a teacher's edition I have to make copies from for the textbook material.). If I want them to read, I have to purchase the novels myself. So.I really wanted them to be exposed to some literary works (other than short stories and poems), but I couldn't afford class sets of multiple novels ($100-$160 each set). To fix this, I started to buy 1 copy of the actual book and a box of paper from Office Depot or something and made copies of the books. I am pretty sure this is not legal from a copyright perspective, but most of the authors I have them read are dead (British and American Literature classes) so I don't feel too bad morally. \n\nI guess I'm wondering if I can get in trouble in any real way for this. I really don't think it's fair that they don't get to read because my school is poor."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey! I have formal coming up and have been officially dating this girl \"Anna\" for two months ish, but have been together for about 3-4. I have the school formal coming up in about 2-3 weeks and she's going with me as my date. She's already gotten a dress and all that and I really want to go with her and have an amazing night and have problem paying for the tickets but. \n\nBut the issue is for the school formal when you go to buy your tickets you have to have a table plan. And they must be thought and made before formal, each table has a max of 10 people. \n\nI'm new to the school (this is my first and final year but that's a different story) so I don't know many people to form a table with. My only friends/friendship group at this school has excluded me from their table so I'm sort of screwed.\n\nI don't know how to bring this problem up with my girlfriend and am scared/anxious whenever I do go to bring it up. I guess maybe if I did talk to her about it she could talk to her friends in my year level (shes in the year below me) to find if we could have a table with them or something, but I always get too scared to talk about it, and get anxious just to think about it. If you don't have a table plan you can't attend the formal. :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey! I have formal coming up and have been officially dating this girl \"Anna\" for two months ish, but have been together for about 3-4. I have the school formal coming up in about 2-3 weeks and she's going with me as my date. She's already gotten a dress and all that and I really want to go with her and have an amazing night and have problem paying for the tickets but. \n\nBut the issue is for the school formal when you go to buy your tickets you have to have a table plan. And they must be thought and made before formal, each table has a max of 10 people. \n\nI'm new to the school (this is my first and final year but that's a different story) so I don't know many people to form a table with. My only friends/friendship group at this school has excluded me from their table so I'm sort of screwed.\n\nI don't know how to bring this problem up with my girlfriend and am scared/anxious whenever I do go to bring it up. I guess maybe if I did talk to her about it she could talk to her friends in my year level (shes in the year below me) to find if we could have a table with them or something, but I always get too scared to talk about it, and get anxious just to think about it. If you don't have a table plan you can't attend the formal. :/"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey! I have formal coming up and have been officially dating this girl \"Anna\" for two months ish, but have been together for about 3-4. I have the school formal coming up in about 2-3 weeks and she's going with me as my date. She's already gotten a dress and all that and I really want to go with her and have an amazing night and have problem paying for the tickets but. \n\nBut the issue is for the school formal when you go to buy your tickets you have to have a table plan. And they must be thought and made before formal, each table has a max of 10 people. \n\nI'm new to the school (this is my first and final year but that's a different story) so I don't know many people to form a table with. My only friends/friendship group at this school has excluded me from their table so I'm sort of screwed.\n\nI don't know how to bring this problem up with my girlfriend and am scared/anxious whenever I do go to bring it up. I guess maybe if I did talk to her about it she could talk to her friends in my year level (shes in the year below me) to find if we could have a table with them or something, but I always get too scared to talk about it, and get anxious just to think about it. If you don't have a table plan you can't attend the formal. :/"
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