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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends very conservative and doesn't want me to wear my sexy Halloween costume when I go to a party with my friends, I don't normally wear revealing clothing but everyone dresses like that on Halloween so I don't see why it is a big deal. He told me before we became official that he has high standards and doesn't date girls who wear revealing clothing but this would be a one time thing.\n\nHe said he doesn't want a girlfriend who dresses like that and that if I go to the party wearing it then we will be finished. Is he being controlling?."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends very conservative and doesn't want me to wear my sexy Halloween costume when I go to a party with my friends, I don't normally wear revealing clothing but everyone dresses like that on Halloween so I don't see why it is a big deal. He told me before we became official that he has high standards and doesn't date girls who wear revealing clothing but this would be a one time thing.\n\nHe said he doesn't want a girlfriend who dresses like that and that if I go to the party wearing it then we will be finished. Is he being controlling?."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends very conservative and doesn't want me to wear my sexy Halloween costume when I go to a party with my friends, I don't normally wear revealing clothing but everyone dresses like that on Halloween so I don't see why it is a big deal. He told me before we became official that he has high standards and doesn't date girls who wear revealing clothing but this would be a one time thing.\n\nHe said he doesn't want a girlfriend who dresses like that and that if I go to the party wearing it then we will be finished. Is he being controlling?."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was just sent away to a treatment center. She will be gone until at the soonest mid-June, but last time I spoke with her, she said she may need the entire summer as well. Which would put her there till mid-August.\n\nIt's in a place far away. I plan on moving there once school is over, and getting a job and just staying the summer out there with her. \n\nThe biggest problem she has expressed to me, is that she doesn't think we will last through this. And no matter how many times I say we will be fine, words don't cut it. I wan't something more tangible than words. \n\nSo what I'm asking for is help. I want to do something while I'm here, away from her, that will show her how much I care about her. I've got a month and a half left of school before I can go see her for the first time, and then prospectively stay out there. \n\nAny suggestions would be a tremendous help, and I would appreciate them dearly."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was just sent away to a treatment center. She will be gone until at the soonest mid-June, but last time I spoke with her, she said she may need the entire summer as well. Which would put her there till mid-August.\n\nIt's in a place far away. I plan on moving there once school is over, and getting a job and just staying the summer out there with her. \n\nThe biggest problem she has expressed to me, is that she doesn't think we will last through this. And no matter how many times I say we will be fine, words don't cut it. I wan't something more tangible than words. \n\nSo what I'm asking for is help. I want to do something while I'm here, away from her, that will show her how much I care about her. I've got a month and a half left of school before I can go see her for the first time, and then prospectively stay out there. \n\nAny suggestions would be a tremendous help, and I would appreciate them dearly."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was just sent away to a treatment center. She will be gone until at the soonest mid-June, but last time I spoke with her, she said she may need the entire summer as well. Which would put her there till mid-August.\n\nIt's in a place far away. I plan on moving there once school is over, and getting a job and just staying the summer out there with her. \n\nThe biggest problem she has expressed to me, is that she doesn't think we will last through this. And no matter how many times I say we will be fine, words don't cut it. I wan't something more tangible than words. \n\nSo what I'm asking for is help. I want to do something while I'm here, away from her, that will show her how much I care about her. I've got a month and a half left of school before I can go see her for the first time, and then prospectively stay out there. \n\nAny suggestions would be a tremendous help, and I would appreciate them dearly."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was just sent away to a treatment center. She will be gone until at the soonest mid-June, but last time I spoke with her, she said she may need the entire summer as well. Which would put her there till mid-August.\n\nIt's in a place far away. I plan on moving there once school is over, and getting a job and just staying the summer out there with her. \n\nThe biggest problem she has expressed to me, is that she doesn't think we will last through this. And no matter how many times I say we will be fine, words don't cut it. I wan't something more tangible than words. \n\nSo what I'm asking for is help. I want to do something while I'm here, away from her, that will show her how much I care about her. I've got a month and a half left of school before I can go see her for the first time, and then prospectively stay out there. \n\nAny suggestions would be a tremendous help, and I would appreciate them dearly."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was just sent away to a treatment center. She will be gone until at the soonest mid-June, but last time I spoke with her, she said she may need the entire summer as well. Which would put her there till mid-August.\n\nIt's in a place far away. I plan on moving there once school is over, and getting a job and just staying the summer out there with her. \n\nThe biggest problem she has expressed to me, is that she doesn't think we will last through this. And no matter how many times I say we will be fine, words don't cut it. I wan't something more tangible than words. \n\nSo what I'm asking for is help. I want to do something while I'm here, away from her, that will show her how much I care about her. I've got a month and a half left of school before I can go see her for the first time, and then prospectively stay out there. \n\nAny suggestions would be a tremendous help, and I would appreciate them dearly."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was just sent away to a treatment center. She will be gone until at the soonest mid-June, but last time I spoke with her, she said she may need the entire summer as well. Which would put her there till mid-August.\n\nIt's in a place far away. I plan on moving there once school is over, and getting a job and just staying the summer out there with her. \n\nThe biggest problem she has expressed to me, is that she doesn't think we will last through this. And no matter how many times I say we will be fine, words don't cut it. I wan't something more tangible than words. \n\nSo what I'm asking for is help. I want to do something while I'm here, away from her, that will show her how much I care about her. I've got a month and a half left of school before I can go see her for the first time, and then prospectively stay out there. \n\nAny suggestions would be a tremendous help, and I would appreciate them dearly."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dont know where to start with this but I guess my version of the beginning? \nHad a crap social life due to other people being completely wrong and rude. So for a couple years before this, totally sucked. Got one medical issue from it but did not know until.\n\nMet a person later on through others and I was shy and felt unconfident about myself, we would naturally be spending more time together for other reasons. I thought not much of it but realized that it would be something different and possubly better than what I had, boy it was. We were going places together, she invited me to lunch, handed me her phone number and hanging out alot. \n\nI later learned about some medical issues after this. I have about 3, yes 3 at once. It sucks completely. I have disclosed this in the best way possible but have also been getting help. \n\nSome also say theres a good possibility she likes me but I am holding back and also feel bad because of how I was."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dont know where to start with this but I guess my version of the beginning? \nHad a crap social life due to other people being completely wrong and rude. So for a couple years before this, totally sucked. Got one medical issue from it but did not know until.\n\nMet a person later on through others and I was shy and felt unconfident about myself, we would naturally be spending more time together for other reasons. I thought not much of it but realized that it would be something different and possubly better than what I had, boy it was. We were going places together, she invited me to lunch, handed me her phone number and hanging out alot. \n\nI later learned about some medical issues after this. I have about 3, yes 3 at once. It sucks completely. I have disclosed this in the best way possible but have also been getting help. \n\nSome also say theres a good possibility she likes me but I am holding back and also feel bad because of how I was."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dont know where to start with this but I guess my version of the beginning? \nHad a crap social life due to other people being completely wrong and rude. So for a couple years before this, totally sucked. Got one medical issue from it but did not know until.\n\nMet a person later on through others and I was shy and felt unconfident about myself, we would naturally be spending more time together for other reasons. I thought not much of it but realized that it would be something different and possubly better than what I had, boy it was. We were going places together, she invited me to lunch, handed me her phone number and hanging out alot. \n\nI later learned about some medical issues after this. I have about 3, yes 3 at once. It sucks completely. I have disclosed this in the best way possible but have also been getting help. \n\nSome also say theres a good possibility she likes me but I am holding back and also feel bad because of how I was."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dont know where to start with this but I guess my version of the beginning? \nHad a crap social life due to other people being completely wrong and rude. So for a couple years before this, totally sucked. Got one medical issue from it but did not know until.\n\nMet a person later on through others and I was shy and felt unconfident about myself, we would naturally be spending more time together for other reasons. I thought not much of it but realized that it would be something different and possubly better than what I had, boy it was. We were going places together, she invited me to lunch, handed me her phone number and hanging out alot. \n\nI later learned about some medical issues after this. I have about 3, yes 3 at once. It sucks completely. I have disclosed this in the best way possible but have also been getting help. \n\nSome also say theres a good possibility she likes me but I am holding back and also feel bad because of how I was."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dont know where to start with this but I guess my version of the beginning? \nHad a crap social life due to other people being completely wrong and rude. So for a couple years before this, totally sucked. Got one medical issue from it but did not know until.\n\nMet a person later on through others and I was shy and felt unconfident about myself, we would naturally be spending more time together for other reasons. I thought not much of it but realized that it would be something different and possubly better than what I had, boy it was. We were going places together, she invited me to lunch, handed me her phone number and hanging out alot. \n\nI later learned about some medical issues after this. I have about 3, yes 3 at once. It sucks completely. I have disclosed this in the best way possible but have also been getting help. \n\nSome also say theres a good possibility she likes me but I am holding back and also feel bad because of how I was."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I was listening to my music on shuffle, when all of the sudden some Taylor Swift came on and I ended up getting some vivid memories of playing Pokémon Pearl. \n\nThe reason for this is because when I was younger, it was often my sister, my father and I driving around to various places. My dad would drive, my sister was in charge of music and I sat in the back playing on my brand new DS+game. Since my sister was a fan of Taylor Swift, it was what was playing half the time. I knew/know all the words to all the songs, and the vast majority of the listening time was spent playing pokémon. Now, whenever I listen to that album I get the most wonderful sense of nostalgia."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I was listening to my music on shuffle, when all of the sudden some Taylor Swift came on and I ended up getting some vivid memories of playing Pokémon Pearl. \n\nThe reason for this is because when I was younger, it was often my sister, my father and I driving around to various places. My dad would drive, my sister was in charge of music and I sat in the back playing on my brand new DS+game. Since my sister was a fan of Taylor Swift, it was what was playing half the time. I knew/know all the words to all the songs, and the vast majority of the listening time was spent playing pokémon. Now, whenever I listen to that album I get the most wonderful sense of nostalgia."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I was listening to my music on shuffle, when all of the sudden some Taylor Swift came on and I ended up getting some vivid memories of playing Pokémon Pearl. \n\nThe reason for this is because when I was younger, it was often my sister, my father and I driving around to various places. My dad would drive, my sister was in charge of music and I sat in the back playing on my brand new DS+game. Since my sister was a fan of Taylor Swift, it was what was playing half the time. I knew/know all the words to all the songs, and the vast majority of the listening time was spent playing pokémon. Now, whenever I listen to that album I get the most wonderful sense of nostalgia."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I was listening to my music on shuffle, when all of the sudden some Taylor Swift came on and I ended up getting some vivid memories of playing Pokémon Pearl. \n\nThe reason for this is because when I was younger, it was often my sister, my father and I driving around to various places. My dad would drive, my sister was in charge of music and I sat in the back playing on my brand new DS+game. Since my sister was a fan of Taylor Swift, it was what was playing half the time. I knew/know all the words to all the songs, and the vast majority of the listening time was spent playing pokémon. Now, whenever I listen to that album I get the most wonderful sense of nostalgia."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I was listening to my music on shuffle, when all of the sudden some Taylor Swift came on and I ended up getting some vivid memories of playing Pokémon Pearl. \n\nThe reason for this is because when I was younger, it was often my sister, my father and I driving around to various places. My dad would drive, my sister was in charge of music and I sat in the back playing on my brand new DS+game. Since my sister was a fan of Taylor Swift, it was what was playing half the time. I knew/know all the words to all the songs, and the vast majority of the listening time was spent playing pokémon. Now, whenever I listen to that album I get the most wonderful sense of nostalgia."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I was listening to my music on shuffle, when all of the sudden some Taylor Swift came on and I ended up getting some vivid memories of playing Pokémon Pearl. \n\nThe reason for this is because when I was younger, it was often my sister, my father and I driving around to various places. My dad would drive, my sister was in charge of music and I sat in the back playing on my brand new DS+game. Since my sister was a fan of Taylor Swift, it was what was playing half the time. I knew/know all the words to all the songs, and the vast majority of the listening time was spent playing pokémon. Now, whenever I listen to that album I get the most wonderful sense of nostalgia."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm working on a restaurant concept idea for my culinary school and I need some inspiration for my restaurant. I'm trying to figure what really sticks out to the general public when they go out to eat. My favorite place was this bar in my college town. There was nothing fancy about the decor, no big sign out front, it was literally just a hole in the wall. They had amazing wings there which is why I went the first time but the staff is what got me to come back every time. The bartenders and waiters actually took time to talk to me and my guests. This seems like such a small thing but it really struck a chord with me. Waiters remembered my name, had suggestions for new stuff every time I ordered, and really made an effort to make my experience enjoyable. On a similar note, what can't you stand when you go out to eat somewhere? I can't stand when a menu doesn't have any description for the food. How am I supposed to guess what is in something by some vague title? Then I have to waste my time asking the server who probably gets the question a thousand times a day"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm working on a restaurant concept idea for my culinary school and I need some inspiration for my restaurant. I'm trying to figure what really sticks out to the general public when they go out to eat. My favorite place was this bar in my college town. There was nothing fancy about the decor, no big sign out front, it was literally just a hole in the wall. They had amazing wings there which is why I went the first time but the staff is what got me to come back every time. The bartenders and waiters actually took time to talk to me and my guests. This seems like such a small thing but it really struck a chord with me. Waiters remembered my name, had suggestions for new stuff every time I ordered, and really made an effort to make my experience enjoyable. On a similar note, what can't you stand when you go out to eat somewhere? I can't stand when a menu doesn't have any description for the food. How am I supposed to guess what is in something by some vague title? Then I have to waste my time asking the server who probably gets the question a thousand times a day"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm working on a restaurant concept idea for my culinary school and I need some inspiration for my restaurant. I'm trying to figure what really sticks out to the general public when they go out to eat. My favorite place was this bar in my college town. There was nothing fancy about the decor, no big sign out front, it was literally just a hole in the wall. They had amazing wings there which is why I went the first time but the staff is what got me to come back every time. The bartenders and waiters actually took time to talk to me and my guests. This seems like such a small thing but it really struck a chord with me. Waiters remembered my name, had suggestions for new stuff every time I ordered, and really made an effort to make my experience enjoyable. On a similar note, what can't you stand when you go out to eat somewhere? I can't stand when a menu doesn't have any description for the food. How am I supposed to guess what is in something by some vague title? Then I have to waste my time asking the server who probably gets the question a thousand times a day"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm working on a restaurant concept idea for my culinary school and I need some inspiration for my restaurant. I'm trying to figure what really sticks out to the general public when they go out to eat. My favorite place was this bar in my college town. There was nothing fancy about the decor, no big sign out front, it was literally just a hole in the wall. They had amazing wings there which is why I went the first time but the staff is what got me to come back every time. The bartenders and waiters actually took time to talk to me and my guests. This seems like such a small thing but it really struck a chord with me. Waiters remembered my name, had suggestions for new stuff every time I ordered, and really made an effort to make my experience enjoyable. On a similar note, what can't you stand when you go out to eat somewhere? I can't stand when a menu doesn't have any description for the food. How am I supposed to guess what is in something by some vague title? Then I have to waste my time asking the server who probably gets the question a thousand times a day"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm working on a restaurant concept idea for my culinary school and I need some inspiration for my restaurant. I'm trying to figure what really sticks out to the general public when they go out to eat. My favorite place was this bar in my college town. There was nothing fancy about the decor, no big sign out front, it was literally just a hole in the wall. They had amazing wings there which is why I went the first time but the staff is what got me to come back every time. The bartenders and waiters actually took time to talk to me and my guests. This seems like such a small thing but it really struck a chord with me. Waiters remembered my name, had suggestions for new stuff every time I ordered, and really made an effort to make my experience enjoyable. On a similar note, what can't you stand when you go out to eat somewhere? I can't stand when a menu doesn't have any description for the food. How am I supposed to guess what is in something by some vague title? Then I have to waste my time asking the server who probably gets the question a thousand times a day"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been seeing this girl for only 3 weeks. I am physically attracted to her, and she is just a great person all around and I enjoy her company though about every time we hang out we end up having sex. \n\nI have realized too late that I don't want to be in a relationship. I don't have a lot of experience dating, and she is only the second girl that I have slept with. I feel like that is where we are going, is to a relationship, and that scares the shit out of me. I thought that is what I wanted, but I have so much psychological baggage I don't think I can do it anymore and I just don't want to see her again. I know she has feelings for me which is why this sucks. \n\nI feel like a total ass, for getting this far, but I have to break it off for my own sake, and her sake. I am not sure what to say to her. It basically seems like I just used her for sex, but I honestly wanted to give tyring to have a relationship a shot and now a days sex happens so much earlier so I am not sure I should feel too bad. \n\nI was going to call her and basically say that I don't want to be in a relationship, and its my fault for not figuring that out sooner and not being more clear in my intentions. This mostly goes back to my lack of dating experience. It is in no way is it her fault, or anything she did. If I didn't find her attractive or nice I wouldn't have made it this far with her. I am not sure what to say to make it clear that its not at all her. I am just not psychologically prepared to try and make this work so its better if I just don't see her again and forget it ever happened."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been seeing this girl for only 3 weeks. I am physically attracted to her, and she is just a great person all around and I enjoy her company though about every time we hang out we end up having sex. \n\nI have realized too late that I don't want to be in a relationship. I don't have a lot of experience dating, and she is only the second girl that I have slept with. I feel like that is where we are going, is to a relationship, and that scares the shit out of me. I thought that is what I wanted, but I have so much psychological baggage I don't think I can do it anymore and I just don't want to see her again. I know she has feelings for me which is why this sucks. \n\nI feel like a total ass, for getting this far, but I have to break it off for my own sake, and her sake. I am not sure what to say to her. It basically seems like I just used her for sex, but I honestly wanted to give tyring to have a relationship a shot and now a days sex happens so much earlier so I am not sure I should feel too bad. \n\nI was going to call her and basically say that I don't want to be in a relationship, and its my fault for not figuring that out sooner and not being more clear in my intentions. This mostly goes back to my lack of dating experience. It is in no way is it her fault, or anything she did. If I didn't find her attractive or nice I wouldn't have made it this far with her. I am not sure what to say to make it clear that its not at all her. I am just not psychologically prepared to try and make this work so its better if I just don't see her again and forget it ever happened."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been seeing this girl for only 3 weeks. I am physically attracted to her, and she is just a great person all around and I enjoy her company though about every time we hang out we end up having sex. \n\nI have realized too late that I don't want to be in a relationship. I don't have a lot of experience dating, and she is only the second girl that I have slept with. I feel like that is where we are going, is to a relationship, and that scares the shit out of me. I thought that is what I wanted, but I have so much psychological baggage I don't think I can do it anymore and I just don't want to see her again. I know she has feelings for me which is why this sucks. \n\nI feel like a total ass, for getting this far, but I have to break it off for my own sake, and her sake. I am not sure what to say to her. It basically seems like I just used her for sex, but I honestly wanted to give tyring to have a relationship a shot and now a days sex happens so much earlier so I am not sure I should feel too bad. \n\nI was going to call her and basically say that I don't want to be in a relationship, and its my fault for not figuring that out sooner and not being more clear in my intentions. This mostly goes back to my lack of dating experience. It is in no way is it her fault, or anything she did. If I didn't find her attractive or nice I wouldn't have made it this far with her. I am not sure what to say to make it clear that its not at all her. I am just not psychologically prepared to try and make this work so its better if I just don't see her again and forget it ever happened."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been seeing this girl for only 3 weeks. I am physically attracted to her, and she is just a great person all around and I enjoy her company though about every time we hang out we end up having sex. \n\nI have realized too late that I don't want to be in a relationship. I don't have a lot of experience dating, and she is only the second girl that I have slept with. I feel like that is where we are going, is to a relationship, and that scares the shit out of me. I thought that is what I wanted, but I have so much psychological baggage I don't think I can do it anymore and I just don't want to see her again. I know she has feelings for me which is why this sucks. \n\nI feel like a total ass, for getting this far, but I have to break it off for my own sake, and her sake. I am not sure what to say to her. It basically seems like I just used her for sex, but I honestly wanted to give tyring to have a relationship a shot and now a days sex happens so much earlier so I am not sure I should feel too bad. \n\nI was going to call her and basically say that I don't want to be in a relationship, and its my fault for not figuring that out sooner and not being more clear in my intentions. This mostly goes back to my lack of dating experience. It is in no way is it her fault, or anything she did. If I didn't find her attractive or nice I wouldn't have made it this far with her. I am not sure what to say to make it clear that its not at all her. I am just not psychologically prepared to try and make this work so its better if I just don't see her again and forget it ever happened."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been seeing this girl for only 3 weeks. I am physically attracted to her, and she is just a great person all around and I enjoy her company though about every time we hang out we end up having sex. \n\nI have realized too late that I don't want to be in a relationship. I don't have a lot of experience dating, and she is only the second girl that I have slept with. I feel like that is where we are going, is to a relationship, and that scares the shit out of me. I thought that is what I wanted, but I have so much psychological baggage I don't think I can do it anymore and I just don't want to see her again. I know she has feelings for me which is why this sucks. \n\nI feel like a total ass, for getting this far, but I have to break it off for my own sake, and her sake. I am not sure what to say to her. It basically seems like I just used her for sex, but I honestly wanted to give tyring to have a relationship a shot and now a days sex happens so much earlier so I am not sure I should feel too bad. \n\nI was going to call her and basically say that I don't want to be in a relationship, and its my fault for not figuring that out sooner and not being more clear in my intentions. This mostly goes back to my lack of dating experience. It is in no way is it her fault, or anything she did. If I didn't find her attractive or nice I wouldn't have made it this far with her. I am not sure what to say to make it clear that its not at all her. I am just not psychologically prepared to try and make this work so its better if I just don't see her again and forget it ever happened."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been seeing this girl for only 3 weeks. I am physically attracted to her, and she is just a great person all around and I enjoy her company though about every time we hang out we end up having sex. \n\nI have realized too late that I don't want to be in a relationship. I don't have a lot of experience dating, and she is only the second girl that I have slept with. I feel like that is where we are going, is to a relationship, and that scares the shit out of me. I thought that is what I wanted, but I have so much psychological baggage I don't think I can do it anymore and I just don't want to see her again. I know she has feelings for me which is why this sucks. \n\nI feel like a total ass, for getting this far, but I have to break it off for my own sake, and her sake. I am not sure what to say to her. It basically seems like I just used her for sex, but I honestly wanted to give tyring to have a relationship a shot and now a days sex happens so much earlier so I am not sure I should feel too bad. \n\nI was going to call her and basically say that I don't want to be in a relationship, and its my fault for not figuring that out sooner and not being more clear in my intentions. This mostly goes back to my lack of dating experience. It is in no way is it her fault, or anything she did. If I didn't find her attractive or nice I wouldn't have made it this far with her. I am not sure what to say to make it clear that its not at all her. I am just not psychologically prepared to try and make this work so its better if I just don't see her again and forget it ever happened."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both in graduate school and we see each other often. I find her really attractive and genuinely to be a good person. I want to test the waters a little.\n\nThing is the grad program has become kind of cliquey - as a result, she's not a person I actually talk to very often. In fact, I feel like any sort of effort would come off as weird (probably just nerves on my part) and I really just don't know how to go from here. Do I randomly ask her, out of nowhere, what she's up to this weekend? To do something with me?\n\nI feel like I could use some advice on how to break the ice a little (so that we interact in more than just polite greetings) so that hanging out with her outside of class becomes an option."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both in graduate school and we see each other often. I find her really attractive and genuinely to be a good person. I want to test the waters a little.\n\nThing is the grad program has become kind of cliquey - as a result, she's not a person I actually talk to very often. In fact, I feel like any sort of effort would come off as weird (probably just nerves on my part) and I really just don't know how to go from here. Do I randomly ask her, out of nowhere, what she's up to this weekend? To do something with me?\n\nI feel like I could use some advice on how to break the ice a little (so that we interact in more than just polite greetings) so that hanging out with her outside of class becomes an option."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both in graduate school and we see each other often. I find her really attractive and genuinely to be a good person. I want to test the waters a little.\n\nThing is the grad program has become kind of cliquey - as a result, she's not a person I actually talk to very often. In fact, I feel like any sort of effort would come off as weird (probably just nerves on my part) and I really just don't know how to go from here. Do I randomly ask her, out of nowhere, what she's up to this weekend? To do something with me?\n\nI feel like I could use some advice on how to break the ice a little (so that we interact in more than just polite greetings) so that hanging out with her outside of class becomes an option."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both in graduate school and we see each other often. I find her really attractive and genuinely to be a good person. I want to test the waters a little.\n\nThing is the grad program has become kind of cliquey - as a result, she's not a person I actually talk to very often. In fact, I feel like any sort of effort would come off as weird (probably just nerves on my part) and I really just don't know how to go from here. Do I randomly ask her, out of nowhere, what she's up to this weekend? To do something with me?\n\nI feel like I could use some advice on how to break the ice a little (so that we interact in more than just polite greetings) so that hanging out with her outside of class becomes an option."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both in graduate school and we see each other often. I find her really attractive and genuinely to be a good person. I want to test the waters a little.\n\nThing is the grad program has become kind of cliquey - as a result, she's not a person I actually talk to very often. In fact, I feel like any sort of effort would come off as weird (probably just nerves on my part) and I really just don't know how to go from here. Do I randomly ask her, out of nowhere, what she's up to this weekend? To do something with me?\n\nI feel like I could use some advice on how to break the ice a little (so that we interact in more than just polite greetings) so that hanging out with her outside of class becomes an option."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both in graduate school and we see each other often. I find her really attractive and genuinely to be a good person. I want to test the waters a little.\n\nThing is the grad program has become kind of cliquey - as a result, she's not a person I actually talk to very often. In fact, I feel like any sort of effort would come off as weird (probably just nerves on my part) and I really just don't know how to go from here. Do I randomly ask her, out of nowhere, what she's up to this weekend? To do something with me?\n\nI feel like I could use some advice on how to break the ice a little (so that we interact in more than just polite greetings) so that hanging out with her outside of class becomes an option."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I met my boyfriend and we first starting dating I had a small gut feeling that he was gay, or at least had some interest in guys. But we went on to have great, regular sex and we both fell head over heels for each other so I thought I must have been wrong. \n\nMy boyfriend is socially anxious, a bit of a people pleaser, and so sometimes he doesn't tell me the truth for fear of hurting my feelings. \n\nHe got hideously drunk last night and I was stone cold sober, our conversation went like this:\n\nHim: 'I think I should be on alan cars chatty man'\n\nMe: 'why?'\n\nHim: 'because I'm gay'\n\nMe: 'what?'\n\nHim: 'well Adam (our friend) looked hot today when he took his shirt off. He is really well built, I wish I looked like that. Don't you think he looked hot? I bet a lot of women would rather sleep with him than me'\n\nMe: 'not really, he isn't my type. So would you sleep with adam?'\n\nHim: 'no'\n\nMe: 'would you give him a blowjob?'\n\nHim: 'no, i dont think I could'\n\nMe: 'would you let him give you a blowjob?'\n\nHim: 'yeah, maybe. I think he would be quite good in bed'\n\nMe: 'I don't think so, he would probably be quite selfish'\n\nI'm not sure what to think of this? I haven't spoken to him yet (he's still asleep) and I'm not sure if I should bring it up any further. How would he manage to get turned on seeing me naked if he was gay? How would we manage to have sex so often if he was gay? Maybe he's bisexual. Do I ask him when he is sober?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I met my boyfriend and we first starting dating I had a small gut feeling that he was gay, or at least had some interest in guys. But we went on to have great, regular sex and we both fell head over heels for each other so I thought I must have been wrong. \n\nMy boyfriend is socially anxious, a bit of a people pleaser, and so sometimes he doesn't tell me the truth for fear of hurting my feelings. \n\nHe got hideously drunk last night and I was stone cold sober, our conversation went like this:\n\nHim: 'I think I should be on alan cars chatty man'\n\nMe: 'why?'\n\nHim: 'because I'm gay'\n\nMe: 'what?'\n\nHim: 'well Adam (our friend) looked hot today when he took his shirt off. He is really well built, I wish I looked like that. Don't you think he looked hot? I bet a lot of women would rather sleep with him than me'\n\nMe: 'not really, he isn't my type. So would you sleep with adam?'\n\nHim: 'no'\n\nMe: 'would you give him a blowjob?'\n\nHim: 'no, i dont think I could'\n\nMe: 'would you let him give you a blowjob?'\n\nHim: 'yeah, maybe. I think he would be quite good in bed'\n\nMe: 'I don't think so, he would probably be quite selfish'\n\nI'm not sure what to think of this? I haven't spoken to him yet (he's still asleep) and I'm not sure if I should bring it up any further. How would he manage to get turned on seeing me naked if he was gay? How would we manage to have sex so often if he was gay? Maybe he's bisexual. Do I ask him when he is sober?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I met my boyfriend and we first starting dating I had a small gut feeling that he was gay, or at least had some interest in guys. But we went on to have great, regular sex and we both fell head over heels for each other so I thought I must have been wrong. \n\nMy boyfriend is socially anxious, a bit of a people pleaser, and so sometimes he doesn't tell me the truth for fear of hurting my feelings. \n\nHe got hideously drunk last night and I was stone cold sober, our conversation went like this:\n\nHim: 'I think I should be on alan cars chatty man'\n\nMe: 'why?'\n\nHim: 'because I'm gay'\n\nMe: 'what?'\n\nHim: 'well Adam (our friend) looked hot today when he took his shirt off. He is really well built, I wish I looked like that. Don't you think he looked hot? I bet a lot of women would rather sleep with him than me'\n\nMe: 'not really, he isn't my type. So would you sleep with adam?'\n\nHim: 'no'\n\nMe: 'would you give him a blowjob?'\n\nHim: 'no, i dont think I could'\n\nMe: 'would you let him give you a blowjob?'\n\nHim: 'yeah, maybe. I think he would be quite good in bed'\n\nMe: 'I don't think so, he would probably be quite selfish'\n\nI'm not sure what to think of this? I haven't spoken to him yet (he's still asleep) and I'm not sure if I should bring it up any further. How would he manage to get turned on seeing me naked if he was gay? How would we manage to have sex so often if he was gay? Maybe he's bisexual. Do I ask him when he is sober?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I met my boyfriend and we first starting dating I had a small gut feeling that he was gay, or at least had some interest in guys. But we went on to have great, regular sex and we both fell head over heels for each other so I thought I must have been wrong. \n\nMy boyfriend is socially anxious, a bit of a people pleaser, and so sometimes he doesn't tell me the truth for fear of hurting my feelings. \n\nHe got hideously drunk last night and I was stone cold sober, our conversation went like this:\n\nHim: 'I think I should be on alan cars chatty man'\n\nMe: 'why?'\n\nHim: 'because I'm gay'\n\nMe: 'what?'\n\nHim: 'well Adam (our friend) looked hot today when he took his shirt off. He is really well built, I wish I looked like that. Don't you think he looked hot? I bet a lot of women would rather sleep with him than me'\n\nMe: 'not really, he isn't my type. So would you sleep with adam?'\n\nHim: 'no'\n\nMe: 'would you give him a blowjob?'\n\nHim: 'no, i dont think I could'\n\nMe: 'would you let him give you a blowjob?'\n\nHim: 'yeah, maybe. I think he would be quite good in bed'\n\nMe: 'I don't think so, he would probably be quite selfish'\n\nI'm not sure what to think of this? I haven't spoken to him yet (he's still asleep) and I'm not sure if I should bring it up any further. How would he manage to get turned on seeing me naked if he was gay? How would we manage to have sex so often if he was gay? Maybe he's bisexual. Do I ask him when he is sober?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I met my boyfriend and we first starting dating I had a small gut feeling that he was gay, or at least had some interest in guys. But we went on to have great, regular sex and we both fell head over heels for each other so I thought I must have been wrong. \n\nMy boyfriend is socially anxious, a bit of a people pleaser, and so sometimes he doesn't tell me the truth for fear of hurting my feelings. \n\nHe got hideously drunk last night and I was stone cold sober, our conversation went like this:\n\nHim: 'I think I should be on alan cars chatty man'\n\nMe: 'why?'\n\nHim: 'because I'm gay'\n\nMe: 'what?'\n\nHim: 'well Adam (our friend) looked hot today when he took his shirt off. He is really well built, I wish I looked like that. Don't you think he looked hot? I bet a lot of women would rather sleep with him than me'\n\nMe: 'not really, he isn't my type. So would you sleep with adam?'\n\nHim: 'no'\n\nMe: 'would you give him a blowjob?'\n\nHim: 'no, i dont think I could'\n\nMe: 'would you let him give you a blowjob?'\n\nHim: 'yeah, maybe. I think he would be quite good in bed'\n\nMe: 'I don't think so, he would probably be quite selfish'\n\nI'm not sure what to think of this? I haven't spoken to him yet (he's still asleep) and I'm not sure if I should bring it up any further. How would he manage to get turned on seeing me naked if he was gay? How would we manage to have sex so often if he was gay? Maybe he's bisexual. Do I ask him when he is sober?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I met my boyfriend and we first starting dating I had a small gut feeling that he was gay, or at least had some interest in guys. But we went on to have great, regular sex and we both fell head over heels for each other so I thought I must have been wrong. \n\nMy boyfriend is socially anxious, a bit of a people pleaser, and so sometimes he doesn't tell me the truth for fear of hurting my feelings. \n\nHe got hideously drunk last night and I was stone cold sober, our conversation went like this:\n\nHim: 'I think I should be on alan cars chatty man'\n\nMe: 'why?'\n\nHim: 'because I'm gay'\n\nMe: 'what?'\n\nHim: 'well Adam (our friend) looked hot today when he took his shirt off. He is really well built, I wish I looked like that. Don't you think he looked hot? I bet a lot of women would rather sleep with him than me'\n\nMe: 'not really, he isn't my type. So would you sleep with adam?'\n\nHim: 'no'\n\nMe: 'would you give him a blowjob?'\n\nHim: 'no, i dont think I could'\n\nMe: 'would you let him give you a blowjob?'\n\nHim: 'yeah, maybe. I think he would be quite good in bed'\n\nMe: 'I don't think so, he would probably be quite selfish'\n\nI'm not sure what to think of this? I haven't spoken to him yet (he's still asleep) and I'm not sure if I should bring it up any further. How would he manage to get turned on seeing me naked if he was gay? How would we manage to have sex so often if he was gay? Maybe he's bisexual. Do I ask him when he is sober?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short my mom slung her purse into my dad's face yesterday. I cleaned up the blood (which was quite a large amount) while he held some ice to his face. After I told her to calm down she told me to go fuck myself.\n\nFast forward to tonight, she comes home from a night out with \"the girls\". I'm getting some juice from the fridge when she walks in and says hi. I was still pretty peeved so I didn't say anything which prompted another \"fuck you\" from her. A few minutes later I get on facebook and notice that she has blocked me completely (the greatest offense anyone can commit, I know). I go downstairs and ask her what her problem was and after a few exchanged words she rolls back on the bed and starts kicking at me to get away (to get away from what I wasn't entirely aware as I was just sitting next to her with my hands stretched backwards behind me)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short my mom slung her purse into my dad's face yesterday. I cleaned up the blood (which was quite a large amount) while he held some ice to his face. After I told her to calm down she told me to go fuck myself.\n\nFast forward to tonight, she comes home from a night out with \"the girls\". I'm getting some juice from the fridge when she walks in and says hi. I was still pretty peeved so I didn't say anything which prompted another \"fuck you\" from her. A few minutes later I get on facebook and notice that she has blocked me completely (the greatest offense anyone can commit, I know). I go downstairs and ask her what her problem was and after a few exchanged words she rolls back on the bed and starts kicking at me to get away (to get away from what I wasn't entirely aware as I was just sitting next to her with my hands stretched backwards behind me)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short my mom slung her purse into my dad's face yesterday. I cleaned up the blood (which was quite a large amount) while he held some ice to his face. After I told her to calm down she told me to go fuck myself.\n\nFast forward to tonight, she comes home from a night out with \"the girls\". I'm getting some juice from the fridge when she walks in and says hi. I was still pretty peeved so I didn't say anything which prompted another \"fuck you\" from her. A few minutes later I get on facebook and notice that she has blocked me completely (the greatest offense anyone can commit, I know). I go downstairs and ask her what her problem was and after a few exchanged words she rolls back on the bed and starts kicking at me to get away (to get away from what I wasn't entirely aware as I was just sitting next to her with my hands stretched backwards behind me)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short my mom slung her purse into my dad's face yesterday. I cleaned up the blood (which was quite a large amount) while he held some ice to his face. After I told her to calm down she told me to go fuck myself.\n\nFast forward to tonight, she comes home from a night out with \"the girls\". I'm getting some juice from the fridge when she walks in and says hi. I was still pretty peeved so I didn't say anything which prompted another \"fuck you\" from her. A few minutes later I get on facebook and notice that she has blocked me completely (the greatest offense anyone can commit, I know). I go downstairs and ask her what her problem was and after a few exchanged words she rolls back on the bed and starts kicking at me to get away (to get away from what I wasn't entirely aware as I was just sitting next to her with my hands stretched backwards behind me)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short my mom slung her purse into my dad's face yesterday. I cleaned up the blood (which was quite a large amount) while he held some ice to his face. After I told her to calm down she told me to go fuck myself.\n\nFast forward to tonight, she comes home from a night out with \"the girls\". I'm getting some juice from the fridge when she walks in and says hi. I was still pretty peeved so I didn't say anything which prompted another \"fuck you\" from her. A few minutes later I get on facebook and notice that she has blocked me completely (the greatest offense anyone can commit, I know). I go downstairs and ask her what her problem was and after a few exchanged words she rolls back on the bed and starts kicking at me to get away (to get away from what I wasn't entirely aware as I was just sitting next to her with my hands stretched backwards behind me)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short my mom slung her purse into my dad's face yesterday. I cleaned up the blood (which was quite a large amount) while he held some ice to his face. After I told her to calm down she told me to go fuck myself.\n\nFast forward to tonight, she comes home from a night out with \"the girls\". I'm getting some juice from the fridge when she walks in and says hi. I was still pretty peeved so I didn't say anything which prompted another \"fuck you\" from her. A few minutes later I get on facebook and notice that she has blocked me completely (the greatest offense anyone can commit, I know). I go downstairs and ask her what her problem was and after a few exchanged words she rolls back on the bed and starts kicking at me to get away (to get away from what I wasn't entirely aware as I was just sitting next to her with my hands stretched backwards behind me)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To be clear, this is a \"someday\" problem. Not today.\n\nMy great grandfather had a 100 acre farm. When he died, he left it all to his son.my great-uncle.\n\nWhen I was a child, it was a beef farm. He also grew corn and hay to feed the cows. My dad and I would go to the farm every weekend to help scoop cow shit or fix a fence or bail hay or whatever. We did this for free.he was family. My great-uncle had no children, and my dad was the only one interested in the farming lifestyle, so my great-uncle was very clear with everyone that the farm would eventually be left to my dad.\n\n~30 years later, the farm is no longer operational. The barn is falling down, the cows are long gone, and the great-uncle is dying of cancer. My dad.getting up there in age himself, is no longer particularly interested in running a farm. I don't know what his plans are, come inheritance time.\n\nI would think that he would sell it.except.who would buy 100 acres of land in the middle of nowhere?\n\nAssuming he keeps it somehow, then it will eventually be passed to me, my sister, and my step-brother. My dad and step-mother have been clear that everything they have will be left to the three of us in equal share.\n\nThough he was never involved in the farming (as he wasn't part of the family yet back then), and knows nothing OF farming, I could see my step-brother liking that lifestyle. He's definitely a \"backwoods\" kind of guy. But he currently lives in another state for his career, and.again.knows nothing of farming.\n\nMy sister and I would have no interest in farming. We both own houses in good suburban school districts and nothing about the rural lifestyle appeals to us.\n\nAssuming the step-brother is unable or unwilling to \"buy us out\".what the heck would you do in this scenario with 1/3 of a 100-acre plot of land in a rural part of Pennsylvania?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To be clear, this is a \"someday\" problem. Not today.\n\nMy great grandfather had a 100 acre farm. When he died, he left it all to his son.my great-uncle.\n\nWhen I was a child, it was a beef farm. He also grew corn and hay to feed the cows. My dad and I would go to the farm every weekend to help scoop cow shit or fix a fence or bail hay or whatever. We did this for free.he was family. My great-uncle had no children, and my dad was the only one interested in the farming lifestyle, so my great-uncle was very clear with everyone that the farm would eventually be left to my dad.\n\n~30 years later, the farm is no longer operational. The barn is falling down, the cows are long gone, and the great-uncle is dying of cancer. My dad.getting up there in age himself, is no longer particularly interested in running a farm. I don't know what his plans are, come inheritance time.\n\nI would think that he would sell it.except.who would buy 100 acres of land in the middle of nowhere?\n\nAssuming he keeps it somehow, then it will eventually be passed to me, my sister, and my step-brother. My dad and step-mother have been clear that everything they have will be left to the three of us in equal share.\n\nThough he was never involved in the farming (as he wasn't part of the family yet back then), and knows nothing OF farming, I could see my step-brother liking that lifestyle. He's definitely a \"backwoods\" kind of guy. But he currently lives in another state for his career, and.again.knows nothing of farming.\n\nMy sister and I would have no interest in farming. We both own houses in good suburban school districts and nothing about the rural lifestyle appeals to us.\n\nAssuming the step-brother is unable or unwilling to \"buy us out\".what the heck would you do in this scenario with 1/3 of a 100-acre plot of land in a rural part of Pennsylvania?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To be clear, this is a \"someday\" problem. Not today.\n\nMy great grandfather had a 100 acre farm. When he died, he left it all to his son.my great-uncle.\n\nWhen I was a child, it was a beef farm. He also grew corn and hay to feed the cows. My dad and I would go to the farm every weekend to help scoop cow shit or fix a fence or bail hay or whatever. We did this for free.he was family. My great-uncle had no children, and my dad was the only one interested in the farming lifestyle, so my great-uncle was very clear with everyone that the farm would eventually be left to my dad.\n\n~30 years later, the farm is no longer operational. The barn is falling down, the cows are long gone, and the great-uncle is dying of cancer. My dad.getting up there in age himself, is no longer particularly interested in running a farm. I don't know what his plans are, come inheritance time.\n\nI would think that he would sell it.except.who would buy 100 acres of land in the middle of nowhere?\n\nAssuming he keeps it somehow, then it will eventually be passed to me, my sister, and my step-brother. My dad and step-mother have been clear that everything they have will be left to the three of us in equal share.\n\nThough he was never involved in the farming (as he wasn't part of the family yet back then), and knows nothing OF farming, I could see my step-brother liking that lifestyle. He's definitely a \"backwoods\" kind of guy. But he currently lives in another state for his career, and.again.knows nothing of farming.\n\nMy sister and I would have no interest in farming. We both own houses in good suburban school districts and nothing about the rural lifestyle appeals to us.\n\nAssuming the step-brother is unable or unwilling to \"buy us out\".what the heck would you do in this scenario with 1/3 of a 100-acre plot of land in a rural part of Pennsylvania?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To be clear, this is a \"someday\" problem. Not today.\n\nMy great grandfather had a 100 acre farm. When he died, he left it all to his son.my great-uncle.\n\nWhen I was a child, it was a beef farm. He also grew corn and hay to feed the cows. My dad and I would go to the farm every weekend to help scoop cow shit or fix a fence or bail hay or whatever. We did this for free.he was family. My great-uncle had no children, and my dad was the only one interested in the farming lifestyle, so my great-uncle was very clear with everyone that the farm would eventually be left to my dad.\n\n~30 years later, the farm is no longer operational. The barn is falling down, the cows are long gone, and the great-uncle is dying of cancer. My dad.getting up there in age himself, is no longer particularly interested in running a farm. I don't know what his plans are, come inheritance time.\n\nI would think that he would sell it.except.who would buy 100 acres of land in the middle of nowhere?\n\nAssuming he keeps it somehow, then it will eventually be passed to me, my sister, and my step-brother. My dad and step-mother have been clear that everything they have will be left to the three of us in equal share.\n\nThough he was never involved in the farming (as he wasn't part of the family yet back then), and knows nothing OF farming, I could see my step-brother liking that lifestyle. He's definitely a \"backwoods\" kind of guy. But he currently lives in another state for his career, and.again.knows nothing of farming.\n\nMy sister and I would have no interest in farming. We both own houses in good suburban school districts and nothing about the rural lifestyle appeals to us.\n\nAssuming the step-brother is unable or unwilling to \"buy us out\".what the heck would you do in this scenario with 1/3 of a 100-acre plot of land in a rural part of Pennsylvania?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To be clear, this is a \"someday\" problem. Not today.\n\nMy great grandfather had a 100 acre farm. When he died, he left it all to his son.my great-uncle.\n\nWhen I was a child, it was a beef farm. He also grew corn and hay to feed the cows. My dad and I would go to the farm every weekend to help scoop cow shit or fix a fence or bail hay or whatever. We did this for free.he was family. My great-uncle had no children, and my dad was the only one interested in the farming lifestyle, so my great-uncle was very clear with everyone that the farm would eventually be left to my dad.\n\n~30 years later, the farm is no longer operational. The barn is falling down, the cows are long gone, and the great-uncle is dying of cancer. My dad.getting up there in age himself, is no longer particularly interested in running a farm. I don't know what his plans are, come inheritance time.\n\nI would think that he would sell it.except.who would buy 100 acres of land in the middle of nowhere?\n\nAssuming he keeps it somehow, then it will eventually be passed to me, my sister, and my step-brother. My dad and step-mother have been clear that everything they have will be left to the three of us in equal share.\n\nThough he was never involved in the farming (as he wasn't part of the family yet back then), and knows nothing OF farming, I could see my step-brother liking that lifestyle. He's definitely a \"backwoods\" kind of guy. But he currently lives in another state for his career, and.again.knows nothing of farming.\n\nMy sister and I would have no interest in farming. We both own houses in good suburban school districts and nothing about the rural lifestyle appeals to us.\n\nAssuming the step-brother is unable or unwilling to \"buy us out\".what the heck would you do in this scenario with 1/3 of a 100-acre plot of land in a rural part of Pennsylvania?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Howdy Reddit,\n\nI'll cut to the chase: I used Acutane, an anti-acne medication, back around 8 years ago. This stuff worked amazingly well, but was told of possible side-effects. I finished the treatment with no issues, and was happy until 4 years later: I had a massive Ulcerative Colitis flare (at the time not diagnosed). I was then told by my GI doctor who found out a connection between UC and Acutane, since my family medical history includes no UC nor any other related illness.\n\nLiving with UC has been hard, but manageable (hooray to UC friends!). The last four years have been tough, but I'm not trying to be a whiney bitch. I've managed the best I could, but point is: quality of life, at times during flares, is beyond horrible.\n\n*The question:* apparently there were some lawsuits and such against the developer of the medication. I'm not here to make a buck quick, but between medical costs and finishing up college, my family and I are deep in the hole. What are the possibilities, and approach, to seeking some sort of repayment of the damage caused by Acutane? Is it even a reasonable thing to do, or just work with what I've got?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Howdy Reddit,\n\nI'll cut to the chase: I used Acutane, an anti-acne medication, back around 8 years ago. This stuff worked amazingly well, but was told of possible side-effects. I finished the treatment with no issues, and was happy until 4 years later: I had a massive Ulcerative Colitis flare (at the time not diagnosed). I was then told by my GI doctor who found out a connection between UC and Acutane, since my family medical history includes no UC nor any other related illness.\n\nLiving with UC has been hard, but manageable (hooray to UC friends!). The last four years have been tough, but I'm not trying to be a whiney bitch. I've managed the best I could, but point is: quality of life, at times during flares, is beyond horrible.\n\n*The question:* apparently there were some lawsuits and such against the developer of the medication. I'm not here to make a buck quick, but between medical costs and finishing up college, my family and I are deep in the hole. What are the possibilities, and approach, to seeking some sort of repayment of the damage caused by Acutane? Is it even a reasonable thing to do, or just work with what I've got?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Howdy Reddit,\n\nI'll cut to the chase: I used Acutane, an anti-acne medication, back around 8 years ago. This stuff worked amazingly well, but was told of possible side-effects. I finished the treatment with no issues, and was happy until 4 years later: I had a massive Ulcerative Colitis flare (at the time not diagnosed). I was then told by my GI doctor who found out a connection between UC and Acutane, since my family medical history includes no UC nor any other related illness.\n\nLiving with UC has been hard, but manageable (hooray to UC friends!). The last four years have been tough, but I'm not trying to be a whiney bitch. I've managed the best I could, but point is: quality of life, at times during flares, is beyond horrible.\n\n*The question:* apparently there were some lawsuits and such against the developer of the medication. I'm not here to make a buck quick, but between medical costs and finishing up college, my family and I are deep in the hole. What are the possibilities, and approach, to seeking some sort of repayment of the damage caused by Acutane? Is it even a reasonable thing to do, or just work with what I've got?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Howdy Reddit,\n\nI'll cut to the chase: I used Acutane, an anti-acne medication, back around 8 years ago. This stuff worked amazingly well, but was told of possible side-effects. I finished the treatment with no issues, and was happy until 4 years later: I had a massive Ulcerative Colitis flare (at the time not diagnosed). I was then told by my GI doctor who found out a connection between UC and Acutane, since my family medical history includes no UC nor any other related illness.\n\nLiving with UC has been hard, but manageable (hooray to UC friends!). The last four years have been tough, but I'm not trying to be a whiney bitch. I've managed the best I could, but point is: quality of life, at times during flares, is beyond horrible.\n\n*The question:* apparently there were some lawsuits and such against the developer of the medication. I'm not here to make a buck quick, but between medical costs and finishing up college, my family and I are deep in the hole. What are the possibilities, and approach, to seeking some sort of repayment of the damage caused by Acutane? Is it even a reasonable thing to do, or just work with what I've got?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Howdy Reddit,\n\nI'll cut to the chase: I used Acutane, an anti-acne medication, back around 8 years ago. This stuff worked amazingly well, but was told of possible side-effects. I finished the treatment with no issues, and was happy until 4 years later: I had a massive Ulcerative Colitis flare (at the time not diagnosed). I was then told by my GI doctor who found out a connection between UC and Acutane, since my family medical history includes no UC nor any other related illness.\n\nLiving with UC has been hard, but manageable (hooray to UC friends!). The last four years have been tough, but I'm not trying to be a whiney bitch. I've managed the best I could, but point is: quality of life, at times during flares, is beyond horrible.\n\n*The question:* apparently there were some lawsuits and such against the developer of the medication. I'm not here to make a buck quick, but between medical costs and finishing up college, my family and I are deep in the hole. What are the possibilities, and approach, to seeking some sort of repayment of the damage caused by Acutane? Is it even a reasonable thing to do, or just work with what I've got?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Howdy Reddit,\n\nI'll cut to the chase: I used Acutane, an anti-acne medication, back around 8 years ago. This stuff worked amazingly well, but was told of possible side-effects. I finished the treatment with no issues, and was happy until 4 years later: I had a massive Ulcerative Colitis flare (at the time not diagnosed). I was then told by my GI doctor who found out a connection between UC and Acutane, since my family medical history includes no UC nor any other related illness.\n\nLiving with UC has been hard, but manageable (hooray to UC friends!). The last four years have been tough, but I'm not trying to be a whiney bitch. I've managed the best I could, but point is: quality of life, at times during flares, is beyond horrible.\n\n*The question:* apparently there were some lawsuits and such against the developer of the medication. I'm not here to make a buck quick, but between medical costs and finishing up college, my family and I are deep in the hole. What are the possibilities, and approach, to seeking some sort of repayment of the damage caused by Acutane? Is it even a reasonable thing to do, or just work with what I've got?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, my friend recently came out which is cool with me, whatever turns you on, turns you on. But he thinks I'm gay/bi too and that I just need help coming out of the closet. This is not the case at all, I've only ever been attracted to women, and in all truthfulness I've only ever had erections for women (obviously I'm a guy). But no matter what I say or tell him he thinks it's just me being in denial, so even if I tell him I'm straight he thinks I'm just lying to continue being in the closet. He even tried to \"prove\" I was gay by grabbing my crouch and asking to give me head saying, \"you don't know until you try it,\" which I was totally turned off by and I pushed him away and it left me feeling violated. But to him this was just more evidence that I'm gay.\n\nI will be honest, I am a little uncomfortable around gay guys just because I don't understand it so it freaks me out a little. But I wish he could just accept that I'm straight and move on. But like I said, no matter what I say convinces him and it gets annoying and frankly violating. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, my friend recently came out which is cool with me, whatever turns you on, turns you on. But he thinks I'm gay/bi too and that I just need help coming out of the closet. This is not the case at all, I've only ever been attracted to women, and in all truthfulness I've only ever had erections for women (obviously I'm a guy). But no matter what I say or tell him he thinks it's just me being in denial, so even if I tell him I'm straight he thinks I'm just lying to continue being in the closet. He even tried to \"prove\" I was gay by grabbing my crouch and asking to give me head saying, \"you don't know until you try it,\" which I was totally turned off by and I pushed him away and it left me feeling violated. But to him this was just more evidence that I'm gay.\n\nI will be honest, I am a little uncomfortable around gay guys just because I don't understand it so it freaks me out a little. But I wish he could just accept that I'm straight and move on. But like I said, no matter what I say convinces him and it gets annoying and frankly violating. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, my friend recently came out which is cool with me, whatever turns you on, turns you on. But he thinks I'm gay/bi too and that I just need help coming out of the closet. This is not the case at all, I've only ever been attracted to women, and in all truthfulness I've only ever had erections for women (obviously I'm a guy). But no matter what I say or tell him he thinks it's just me being in denial, so even if I tell him I'm straight he thinks I'm just lying to continue being in the closet. He even tried to \"prove\" I was gay by grabbing my crouch and asking to give me head saying, \"you don't know until you try it,\" which I was totally turned off by and I pushed him away and it left me feeling violated. But to him this was just more evidence that I'm gay.\n\nI will be honest, I am a little uncomfortable around gay guys just because I don't understand it so it freaks me out a little. But I wish he could just accept that I'm straight and move on. But like I said, no matter what I say convinces him and it gets annoying and frankly violating. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, my friend recently came out which is cool with me, whatever turns you on, turns you on. But he thinks I'm gay/bi too and that I just need help coming out of the closet. This is not the case at all, I've only ever been attracted to women, and in all truthfulness I've only ever had erections for women (obviously I'm a guy). But no matter what I say or tell him he thinks it's just me being in denial, so even if I tell him I'm straight he thinks I'm just lying to continue being in the closet. He even tried to \"prove\" I was gay by grabbing my crouch and asking to give me head saying, \"you don't know until you try it,\" which I was totally turned off by and I pushed him away and it left me feeling violated. But to him this was just more evidence that I'm gay.\n\nI will be honest, I am a little uncomfortable around gay guys just because I don't understand it so it freaks me out a little. But I wish he could just accept that I'm straight and move on. But like I said, no matter what I say convinces him and it gets annoying and frankly violating. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, my friend recently came out which is cool with me, whatever turns you on, turns you on. But he thinks I'm gay/bi too and that I just need help coming out of the closet. This is not the case at all, I've only ever been attracted to women, and in all truthfulness I've only ever had erections for women (obviously I'm a guy). But no matter what I say or tell him he thinks it's just me being in denial, so even if I tell him I'm straight he thinks I'm just lying to continue being in the closet. He even tried to \"prove\" I was gay by grabbing my crouch and asking to give me head saying, \"you don't know until you try it,\" which I was totally turned off by and I pushed him away and it left me feeling violated. But to him this was just more evidence that I'm gay.\n\nI will be honest, I am a little uncomfortable around gay guys just because I don't understand it so it freaks me out a little. But I wish he could just accept that I'm straight and move on. But like I said, no matter what I say convinces him and it gets annoying and frankly violating. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, my friend recently came out which is cool with me, whatever turns you on, turns you on. But he thinks I'm gay/bi too and that I just need help coming out of the closet. This is not the case at all, I've only ever been attracted to women, and in all truthfulness I've only ever had erections for women (obviously I'm a guy). But no matter what I say or tell him he thinks it's just me being in denial, so even if I tell him I'm straight he thinks I'm just lying to continue being in the closet. He even tried to \"prove\" I was gay by grabbing my crouch and asking to give me head saying, \"you don't know until you try it,\" which I was totally turned off by and I pushed him away and it left me feeling violated. But to him this was just more evidence that I'm gay.\n\nI will be honest, I am a little uncomfortable around gay guys just because I don't understand it so it freaks me out a little. But I wish he could just accept that I'm straight and move on. But like I said, no matter what I say convinces him and it gets annoying and frankly violating. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Update on the situation [here](\n\nMy Father-in-Law lost his job at the end of April and told his landlord that May would be his final month. Three days later asked my wife if he could live with us temporarily until he could find another job or get his contracting business up and running. My wife has been unemployed for over a month now and we're pretty much living paycheque to paycheque on just my income.\n\nThis is not the first time he's had to couch surf. This is just the first time one of his daughter's has had her own house. I've been warned by one of his relatives that he has trouble with personal finance and can't seem to stop gambling (lottery, sports etc) and partying at clubs (I'm not kidding) when he clearly doesn't have the money. He over stayed his welcome with this particular relative.\n\nWe've discussed the issue thoroughly and like any good daughter she want's to be there for her father. She claims he will help with expenses but I'm not sure where he'll get the money if he's not working. In her frustration at our discussion she washed her hands of the issue and left the decision to me. She assured that my decision would be supported even though she may not agree or like it.\n\nI am torn between wanting to give my wife the ability to help her father but I'm also wary of the relative's warnings. I'm okay with supporting my wife while she's been looking for work but I'm not sure how I feel about doing that for both her and her father. I think the thought of them just hanging out at home while I work would drive me nuts.\n\nI'm supposed to meet with him today to give him my answer.\n\nIs it too early in our marriage to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Update on the situation [here](\n\nMy Father-in-Law lost his job at the end of April and told his landlord that May would be his final month. Three days later asked my wife if he could live with us temporarily until he could find another job or get his contracting business up and running. My wife has been unemployed for over a month now and we're pretty much living paycheque to paycheque on just my income.\n\nThis is not the first time he's had to couch surf. This is just the first time one of his daughter's has had her own house. I've been warned by one of his relatives that he has trouble with personal finance and can't seem to stop gambling (lottery, sports etc) and partying at clubs (I'm not kidding) when he clearly doesn't have the money. He over stayed his welcome with this particular relative.\n\nWe've discussed the issue thoroughly and like any good daughter she want's to be there for her father. She claims he will help with expenses but I'm not sure where he'll get the money if he's not working. In her frustration at our discussion she washed her hands of the issue and left the decision to me. She assured that my decision would be supported even though she may not agree or like it.\n\nI am torn between wanting to give my wife the ability to help her father but I'm also wary of the relative's warnings. I'm okay with supporting my wife while she's been looking for work but I'm not sure how I feel about doing that for both her and her father. I think the thought of them just hanging out at home while I work would drive me nuts.\n\nI'm supposed to meet with him today to give him my answer.\n\nIs it too early in our marriage to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Update on the situation [here](\n\nMy Father-in-Law lost his job at the end of April and told his landlord that May would be his final month. Three days later asked my wife if he could live with us temporarily until he could find another job or get his contracting business up and running. My wife has been unemployed for over a month now and we're pretty much living paycheque to paycheque on just my income.\n\nThis is not the first time he's had to couch surf. This is just the first time one of his daughter's has had her own house. I've been warned by one of his relatives that he has trouble with personal finance and can't seem to stop gambling (lottery, sports etc) and partying at clubs (I'm not kidding) when he clearly doesn't have the money. He over stayed his welcome with this particular relative.\n\nWe've discussed the issue thoroughly and like any good daughter she want's to be there for her father. She claims he will help with expenses but I'm not sure where he'll get the money if he's not working. In her frustration at our discussion she washed her hands of the issue and left the decision to me. She assured that my decision would be supported even though she may not agree or like it.\n\nI am torn between wanting to give my wife the ability to help her father but I'm also wary of the relative's warnings. I'm okay with supporting my wife while she's been looking for work but I'm not sure how I feel about doing that for both her and her father. I think the thought of them just hanging out at home while I work would drive me nuts.\n\nI'm supposed to meet with him today to give him my answer.\n\nIs it too early in our marriage to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Update on the situation [here](\n\nMy Father-in-Law lost his job at the end of April and told his landlord that May would be his final month. Three days later asked my wife if he could live with us temporarily until he could find another job or get his contracting business up and running. My wife has been unemployed for over a month now and we're pretty much living paycheque to paycheque on just my income.\n\nThis is not the first time he's had to couch surf. This is just the first time one of his daughter's has had her own house. I've been warned by one of his relatives that he has trouble with personal finance and can't seem to stop gambling (lottery, sports etc) and partying at clubs (I'm not kidding) when he clearly doesn't have the money. He over stayed his welcome with this particular relative.\n\nWe've discussed the issue thoroughly and like any good daughter she want's to be there for her father. She claims he will help with expenses but I'm not sure where he'll get the money if he's not working. In her frustration at our discussion she washed her hands of the issue and left the decision to me. She assured that my decision would be supported even though she may not agree or like it.\n\nI am torn between wanting to give my wife the ability to help her father but I'm also wary of the relative's warnings. I'm okay with supporting my wife while she's been looking for work but I'm not sure how I feel about doing that for both her and her father. I think the thought of them just hanging out at home while I work would drive me nuts.\n\nI'm supposed to meet with him today to give him my answer.\n\nIs it too early in our marriage to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Update on the situation [here](\n\nMy Father-in-Law lost his job at the end of April and told his landlord that May would be his final month. Three days later asked my wife if he could live with us temporarily until he could find another job or get his contracting business up and running. My wife has been unemployed for over a month now and we're pretty much living paycheque to paycheque on just my income.\n\nThis is not the first time he's had to couch surf. This is just the first time one of his daughter's has had her own house. I've been warned by one of his relatives that he has trouble with personal finance and can't seem to stop gambling (lottery, sports etc) and partying at clubs (I'm not kidding) when he clearly doesn't have the money. He over stayed his welcome with this particular relative.\n\nWe've discussed the issue thoroughly and like any good daughter she want's to be there for her father. She claims he will help with expenses but I'm not sure where he'll get the money if he's not working. In her frustration at our discussion she washed her hands of the issue and left the decision to me. She assured that my decision would be supported even though she may not agree or like it.\n\nI am torn between wanting to give my wife the ability to help her father but I'm also wary of the relative's warnings. I'm okay with supporting my wife while she's been looking for work but I'm not sure how I feel about doing that for both her and her father. I think the thought of them just hanging out at home while I work would drive me nuts.\n\nI'm supposed to meet with him today to give him my answer.\n\nIs it too early in our marriage to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Update on the situation [here](\n\nMy Father-in-Law lost his job at the end of April and told his landlord that May would be his final month. Three days later asked my wife if he could live with us temporarily until he could find another job or get his contracting business up and running. My wife has been unemployed for over a month now and we're pretty much living paycheque to paycheque on just my income.\n\nThis is not the first time he's had to couch surf. This is just the first time one of his daughter's has had her own house. I've been warned by one of his relatives that he has trouble with personal finance and can't seem to stop gambling (lottery, sports etc) and partying at clubs (I'm not kidding) when he clearly doesn't have the money. He over stayed his welcome with this particular relative.\n\nWe've discussed the issue thoroughly and like any good daughter she want's to be there for her father. She claims he will help with expenses but I'm not sure where he'll get the money if he's not working. In her frustration at our discussion she washed her hands of the issue and left the decision to me. She assured that my decision would be supported even though she may not agree or like it.\n\nI am torn between wanting to give my wife the ability to help her father but I'm also wary of the relative's warnings. I'm okay with supporting my wife while she's been looking for work but I'm not sure how I feel about doing that for both her and her father. I think the thought of them just hanging out at home while I work would drive me nuts.\n\nI'm supposed to meet with him today to give him my answer.\n\nIs it too early in our marriage to do this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Good Evening Reddit,\n\nI am hoping someone may be able to shed some light on a tax situation I am in for 2015. I ended up losing my job in December 2014, and took an early withdrawal from my IRA in February 2015 to purchase a vehicle since my new job was much further away. The thought I had when I sold off shares in my IRA was that I could keep the amount I would pay in tax in the IRA, and withdraw it later to pay the tax bill, but allow me to keep investing for the duration of the year. I also had a lot of about $3-4K in medical bills that were paid over the course of the year.\n\nWe are weighing using a CPA vs. going to Jackson Hewitt like we did last year, and have been leaning toward using a CPA. The only issue with that is the guy I would use is booked until 4/15, so now I am looking at filing an extension."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Good Evening Reddit,\n\nI am hoping someone may be able to shed some light on a tax situation I am in for 2015. I ended up losing my job in December 2014, and took an early withdrawal from my IRA in February 2015 to purchase a vehicle since my new job was much further away. The thought I had when I sold off shares in my IRA was that I could keep the amount I would pay in tax in the IRA, and withdraw it later to pay the tax bill, but allow me to keep investing for the duration of the year. I also had a lot of about $3-4K in medical bills that were paid over the course of the year.\n\nWe are weighing using a CPA vs. going to Jackson Hewitt like we did last year, and have been leaning toward using a CPA. The only issue with that is the guy I would use is booked until 4/15, so now I am looking at filing an extension."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Good Evening Reddit,\n\nI am hoping someone may be able to shed some light on a tax situation I am in for 2015. I ended up losing my job in December 2014, and took an early withdrawal from my IRA in February 2015 to purchase a vehicle since my new job was much further away. The thought I had when I sold off shares in my IRA was that I could keep the amount I would pay in tax in the IRA, and withdraw it later to pay the tax bill, but allow me to keep investing for the duration of the year. I also had a lot of about $3-4K in medical bills that were paid over the course of the year.\n\nWe are weighing using a CPA vs. going to Jackson Hewitt like we did last year, and have been leaning toward using a CPA. The only issue with that is the guy I would use is booked until 4/15, so now I am looking at filing an extension."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Good Evening Reddit,\n\nI am hoping someone may be able to shed some light on a tax situation I am in for 2015. I ended up losing my job in December 2014, and took an early withdrawal from my IRA in February 2015 to purchase a vehicle since my new job was much further away. The thought I had when I sold off shares in my IRA was that I could keep the amount I would pay in tax in the IRA, and withdraw it later to pay the tax bill, but allow me to keep investing for the duration of the year. I also had a lot of about $3-4K in medical bills that were paid over the course of the year.\n\nWe are weighing using a CPA vs. going to Jackson Hewitt like we did last year, and have been leaning toward using a CPA. The only issue with that is the guy I would use is booked until 4/15, so now I am looking at filing an extension."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Good Evening Reddit,\n\nI am hoping someone may be able to shed some light on a tax situation I am in for 2015. I ended up losing my job in December 2014, and took an early withdrawal from my IRA in February 2015 to purchase a vehicle since my new job was much further away. The thought I had when I sold off shares in my IRA was that I could keep the amount I would pay in tax in the IRA, and withdraw it later to pay the tax bill, but allow me to keep investing for the duration of the year. I also had a lot of about $3-4K in medical bills that were paid over the course of the year.\n\nWe are weighing using a CPA vs. going to Jackson Hewitt like we did last year, and have been leaning toward using a CPA. The only issue with that is the guy I would use is booked until 4/15, so now I am looking at filing an extension."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Good Evening Reddit,\n\nI am hoping someone may be able to shed some light on a tax situation I am in for 2015. I ended up losing my job in December 2014, and took an early withdrawal from my IRA in February 2015 to purchase a vehicle since my new job was much further away. The thought I had when I sold off shares in my IRA was that I could keep the amount I would pay in tax in the IRA, and withdraw it later to pay the tax bill, but allow me to keep investing for the duration of the year. I also had a lot of about $3-4K in medical bills that were paid over the course of the year.\n\nWe are weighing using a CPA vs. going to Jackson Hewitt like we did last year, and have been leaning toward using a CPA. The only issue with that is the guy I would use is booked until 4/15, so now I am looking at filing an extension."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: If there is a better subreddit for this please let me know. \n\nHe is a very good friend of mine, we have known each other for 6+ years. He doesn't have a whole lot of friends, and is very sheltered and pretty nerdy. A lot of my friends say he is secretly in love with me or whatever.\n\nHis grandfather who was 83 passed away over the weekend after being in a medically induced coma. My friend has constantly been texting me and calling me and talking to me about how sad he is and how he doesn't know if he can go to school anymore. I had never really heard him talk about his grandfather, so I never really thought they were close, but maybe it was just something that was never talked about.\n\nHere is where I am having trouble;\nI watched my Mom fight cancer for 10 years and die when she was 42 years old. I have a hard time being sympathetic to him when his grandfather who lived a long and good life died. Old people die, it kind of just happens.\n\nOf course I say all the things like \"I'm here if you need me\" and \"He is in a better place and not suffering anymore\" but in reality I am kind of just saying to myself \"get over it, he was old.\" Last night he texted me and told me he was asked to be a pallbearer and didn't think he could do it. I texted him back and told him he should be honored that his family asked him to do it, and to use it as a way to honor his grandfathers memory. \n\nIt's exhausting to me, I want to be a good friend, but I also feel like a huge bitch. I know it's not fair to compare his grandfathers death to my Mom's but it's just hard to get a whole lot of sympathy out of me.\n\nI don't know how long he is going to continue to be like this, and I don't know how long I can try and be a good friend. Am I being a bitch? What should I do so that I don't hurt this guys feelings?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: If there is a better subreddit for this please let me know. \n\nHe is a very good friend of mine, we have known each other for 6+ years. He doesn't have a whole lot of friends, and is very sheltered and pretty nerdy. A lot of my friends say he is secretly in love with me or whatever.\n\nHis grandfather who was 83 passed away over the weekend after being in a medically induced coma. My friend has constantly been texting me and calling me and talking to me about how sad he is and how he doesn't know if he can go to school anymore. I had never really heard him talk about his grandfather, so I never really thought they were close, but maybe it was just something that was never talked about.\n\nHere is where I am having trouble;\nI watched my Mom fight cancer for 10 years and die when she was 42 years old. I have a hard time being sympathetic to him when his grandfather who lived a long and good life died. Old people die, it kind of just happens.\n\nOf course I say all the things like \"I'm here if you need me\" and \"He is in a better place and not suffering anymore\" but in reality I am kind of just saying to myself \"get over it, he was old.\" Last night he texted me and told me he was asked to be a pallbearer and didn't think he could do it. I texted him back and told him he should be honored that his family asked him to do it, and to use it as a way to honor his grandfathers memory. \n\nIt's exhausting to me, I want to be a good friend, but I also feel like a huge bitch. I know it's not fair to compare his grandfathers death to my Mom's but it's just hard to get a whole lot of sympathy out of me.\n\nI don't know how long he is going to continue to be like this, and I don't know how long I can try and be a good friend. Am I being a bitch? What should I do so that I don't hurt this guys feelings?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: If there is a better subreddit for this please let me know. \n\nHe is a very good friend of mine, we have known each other for 6+ years. He doesn't have a whole lot of friends, and is very sheltered and pretty nerdy. A lot of my friends say he is secretly in love with me or whatever.\n\nHis grandfather who was 83 passed away over the weekend after being in a medically induced coma. My friend has constantly been texting me and calling me and talking to me about how sad he is and how he doesn't know if he can go to school anymore. I had never really heard him talk about his grandfather, so I never really thought they were close, but maybe it was just something that was never talked about.\n\nHere is where I am having trouble;\nI watched my Mom fight cancer for 10 years and die when she was 42 years old. I have a hard time being sympathetic to him when his grandfather who lived a long and good life died. Old people die, it kind of just happens.\n\nOf course I say all the things like \"I'm here if you need me\" and \"He is in a better place and not suffering anymore\" but in reality I am kind of just saying to myself \"get over it, he was old.\" Last night he texted me and told me he was asked to be a pallbearer and didn't think he could do it. I texted him back and told him he should be honored that his family asked him to do it, and to use it as a way to honor his grandfathers memory. \n\nIt's exhausting to me, I want to be a good friend, but I also feel like a huge bitch. I know it's not fair to compare his grandfathers death to my Mom's but it's just hard to get a whole lot of sympathy out of me.\n\nI don't know how long he is going to continue to be like this, and I don't know how long I can try and be a good friend. Am I being a bitch? What should I do so that I don't hurt this guys feelings?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: If there is a better subreddit for this please let me know. \n\nHe is a very good friend of mine, we have known each other for 6+ years. He doesn't have a whole lot of friends, and is very sheltered and pretty nerdy. A lot of my friends say he is secretly in love with me or whatever.\n\nHis grandfather who was 83 passed away over the weekend after being in a medically induced coma. My friend has constantly been texting me and calling me and talking to me about how sad he is and how he doesn't know if he can go to school anymore. I had never really heard him talk about his grandfather, so I never really thought they were close, but maybe it was just something that was never talked about.\n\nHere is where I am having trouble;\nI watched my Mom fight cancer for 10 years and die when she was 42 years old. I have a hard time being sympathetic to him when his grandfather who lived a long and good life died. Old people die, it kind of just happens.\n\nOf course I say all the things like \"I'm here if you need me\" and \"He is in a better place and not suffering anymore\" but in reality I am kind of just saying to myself \"get over it, he was old.\" Last night he texted me and told me he was asked to be a pallbearer and didn't think he could do it. I texted him back and told him he should be honored that his family asked him to do it, and to use it as a way to honor his grandfathers memory. \n\nIt's exhausting to me, I want to be a good friend, but I also feel like a huge bitch. I know it's not fair to compare his grandfathers death to my Mom's but it's just hard to get a whole lot of sympathy out of me.\n\nI don't know how long he is going to continue to be like this, and I don't know how long I can try and be a good friend. Am I being a bitch? What should I do so that I don't hurt this guys feelings?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: If there is a better subreddit for this please let me know. \n\nHe is a very good friend of mine, we have known each other for 6+ years. He doesn't have a whole lot of friends, and is very sheltered and pretty nerdy. A lot of my friends say he is secretly in love with me or whatever.\n\nHis grandfather who was 83 passed away over the weekend after being in a medically induced coma. My friend has constantly been texting me and calling me and talking to me about how sad he is and how he doesn't know if he can go to school anymore. I had never really heard him talk about his grandfather, so I never really thought they were close, but maybe it was just something that was never talked about.\n\nHere is where I am having trouble;\nI watched my Mom fight cancer for 10 years and die when she was 42 years old. I have a hard time being sympathetic to him when his grandfather who lived a long and good life died. Old people die, it kind of just happens.\n\nOf course I say all the things like \"I'm here if you need me\" and \"He is in a better place and not suffering anymore\" but in reality I am kind of just saying to myself \"get over it, he was old.\" Last night he texted me and told me he was asked to be a pallbearer and didn't think he could do it. I texted him back and told him he should be honored that his family asked him to do it, and to use it as a way to honor his grandfathers memory. \n\nIt's exhausting to me, I want to be a good friend, but I also feel like a huge bitch. I know it's not fair to compare his grandfathers death to my Mom's but it's just hard to get a whole lot of sympathy out of me.\n\nI don't know how long he is going to continue to be like this, and I don't know how long I can try and be a good friend. Am I being a bitch? What should I do so that I don't hurt this guys feelings?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: If there is a better subreddit for this please let me know. \n\nHe is a very good friend of mine, we have known each other for 6+ years. He doesn't have a whole lot of friends, and is very sheltered and pretty nerdy. A lot of my friends say he is secretly in love with me or whatever.\n\nHis grandfather who was 83 passed away over the weekend after being in a medically induced coma. My friend has constantly been texting me and calling me and talking to me about how sad he is and how he doesn't know if he can go to school anymore. I had never really heard him talk about his grandfather, so I never really thought they were close, but maybe it was just something that was never talked about.\n\nHere is where I am having trouble;\nI watched my Mom fight cancer for 10 years and die when she was 42 years old. I have a hard time being sympathetic to him when his grandfather who lived a long and good life died. Old people die, it kind of just happens.\n\nOf course I say all the things like \"I'm here if you need me\" and \"He is in a better place and not suffering anymore\" but in reality I am kind of just saying to myself \"get over it, he was old.\" Last night he texted me and told me he was asked to be a pallbearer and didn't think he could do it. I texted him back and told him he should be honored that his family asked him to do it, and to use it as a way to honor his grandfathers memory. \n\nIt's exhausting to me, I want to be a good friend, but I also feel like a huge bitch. I know it's not fair to compare his grandfathers death to my Mom's but it's just hard to get a whole lot of sympathy out of me.\n\nI don't know how long he is going to continue to be like this, and I don't know how long I can try and be a good friend. Am I being a bitch? What should I do so that I don't hurt this guys feelings?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: .on his current housemates.\n\nHere's the situation: He's an international student at my school for his second year. Last year he met some guys who pretended to be his friend but in actuality, just took advantage of him by convincing him to live with them. They essentially made him their b*tch, for all intents and purposes. \n\nThey get on him about any little thing he does. They harrass him verbally and make fun of him, how he looks, his accent, etc. Last friday, at 3am, he got back to house and was eating in front of the TV when two of the other guys were screwing around and one guy fell on his plate and ended his meal. He got pissed and basically told them off, one guy who has violent tendencies took it personally and slapped him across the face pretty hard, knocking his glasses across the room.\n\nThe good and bad thing here, since he's international and unaware of how things work, is that he's not on the lease. They basically let him live there and have their rent cheaper while he is not protected by the lease. So they could kick him out at any time. He also shared the cable/utilities bills. \n\nEver since that last incident he's been trying to figure out where to live and what to do. Any clever suggestions for ways to get back at them because of the fact he's not on the lease? Or perhaps any other fun suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: .on his current housemates.\n\nHere's the situation: He's an international student at my school for his second year. Last year he met some guys who pretended to be his friend but in actuality, just took advantage of him by convincing him to live with them. They essentially made him their b*tch, for all intents and purposes. \n\nThey get on him about any little thing he does. They harrass him verbally and make fun of him, how he looks, his accent, etc. Last friday, at 3am, he got back to house and was eating in front of the TV when two of the other guys were screwing around and one guy fell on his plate and ended his meal. He got pissed and basically told them off, one guy who has violent tendencies took it personally and slapped him across the face pretty hard, knocking his glasses across the room.\n\nThe good and bad thing here, since he's international and unaware of how things work, is that he's not on the lease. They basically let him live there and have their rent cheaper while he is not protected by the lease. So they could kick him out at any time. He also shared the cable/utilities bills. \n\nEver since that last incident he's been trying to figure out where to live and what to do. Any clever suggestions for ways to get back at them because of the fact he's not on the lease? Or perhaps any other fun suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: .on his current housemates.\n\nHere's the situation: He's an international student at my school for his second year. Last year he met some guys who pretended to be his friend but in actuality, just took advantage of him by convincing him to live with them. They essentially made him their b*tch, for all intents and purposes. \n\nThey get on him about any little thing he does. They harrass him verbally and make fun of him, how he looks, his accent, etc. Last friday, at 3am, he got back to house and was eating in front of the TV when two of the other guys were screwing around and one guy fell on his plate and ended his meal. He got pissed and basically told them off, one guy who has violent tendencies took it personally and slapped him across the face pretty hard, knocking his glasses across the room.\n\nThe good and bad thing here, since he's international and unaware of how things work, is that he's not on the lease. They basically let him live there and have their rent cheaper while he is not protected by the lease. So they could kick him out at any time. He also shared the cable/utilities bills. \n\nEver since that last incident he's been trying to figure out where to live and what to do. Any clever suggestions for ways to get back at them because of the fact he's not on the lease? Or perhaps any other fun suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: .on his current housemates.\n\nHere's the situation: He's an international student at my school for his second year. Last year he met some guys who pretended to be his friend but in actuality, just took advantage of him by convincing him to live with them. They essentially made him their b*tch, for all intents and purposes. \n\nThey get on him about any little thing he does. They harrass him verbally and make fun of him, how he looks, his accent, etc. Last friday, at 3am, he got back to house and was eating in front of the TV when two of the other guys were screwing around and one guy fell on his plate and ended his meal. He got pissed and basically told them off, one guy who has violent tendencies took it personally and slapped him across the face pretty hard, knocking his glasses across the room.\n\nThe good and bad thing here, since he's international and unaware of how things work, is that he's not on the lease. They basically let him live there and have their rent cheaper while he is not protected by the lease. So they could kick him out at any time. He also shared the cable/utilities bills. \n\nEver since that last incident he's been trying to figure out where to live and what to do. Any clever suggestions for ways to get back at them because of the fact he's not on the lease? Or perhaps any other fun suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: .on his current housemates.\n\nHere's the situation: He's an international student at my school for his second year. Last year he met some guys who pretended to be his friend but in actuality, just took advantage of him by convincing him to live with them. They essentially made him their b*tch, for all intents and purposes. \n\nThey get on him about any little thing he does. They harrass him verbally and make fun of him, how he looks, his accent, etc. Last friday, at 3am, he got back to house and was eating in front of the TV when two of the other guys were screwing around and one guy fell on his plate and ended his meal. He got pissed and basically told them off, one guy who has violent tendencies took it personally and slapped him across the face pretty hard, knocking his glasses across the room.\n\nThe good and bad thing here, since he's international and unaware of how things work, is that he's not on the lease. They basically let him live there and have their rent cheaper while he is not protected by the lease. So they could kick him out at any time. He also shared the cable/utilities bills. \n\nEver since that last incident he's been trying to figure out where to live and what to do. Any clever suggestions for ways to get back at them because of the fact he's not on the lease? Or perhaps any other fun suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: .on his current housemates.\n\nHere's the situation: He's an international student at my school for his second year. Last year he met some guys who pretended to be his friend but in actuality, just took advantage of him by convincing him to live with them. They essentially made him their b*tch, for all intents and purposes. \n\nThey get on him about any little thing he does. They harrass him verbally and make fun of him, how he looks, his accent, etc. Last friday, at 3am, he got back to house and was eating in front of the TV when two of the other guys were screwing around and one guy fell on his plate and ended his meal. He got pissed and basically told them off, one guy who has violent tendencies took it personally and slapped him across the face pretty hard, knocking his glasses across the room.\n\nThe good and bad thing here, since he's international and unaware of how things work, is that he's not on the lease. They basically let him live there and have their rent cheaper while he is not protected by the lease. So they could kick him out at any time. He also shared the cable/utilities bills. \n\nEver since that last incident he's been trying to figure out where to live and what to do. Any clever suggestions for ways to get back at them because of the fact he's not on the lease? Or perhaps any other fun suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just some background.\nThe first time I put my car in the shop, it was in Tampa, FL. To make a very long story short (I can elaborate if necessary), they backed my car into a fence and destroyed the rear end. Afterwards, it took them over 3 weeks to fix the damage that they caused when they told me it would only take 1. Not only did it take a lot longer than planned but the work was also really shoddy.\n\nThe second time, I decided to get a paint job on the entire car (along with some other modifications, i.e. Clear Bra, PDR, and regular dent repair, etc). I was leaving town for a month so I decided to put the car in the shop when I left. The body shop owner reassured me that the car would be ready when I returned. It has now almost been a week after I was supposed to pick my car up (almost 5 weeks total) and it still isn't ready. The reasoning is that they ordered some parts from the dealership 2 weeks prior and they still haven't arrived. The clear coat and final polish isn't done and the Clear Bra hasn't been installed yet. I'm paying for a rental and quickly getting frustrated.\n\nI did plenty of research before selecting both body shops. What should we look for when searching for body shops? Are there tricks that body shops usually employ that we should look out for?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just some background.\nThe first time I put my car in the shop, it was in Tampa, FL. To make a very long story short (I can elaborate if necessary), they backed my car into a fence and destroyed the rear end. Afterwards, it took them over 3 weeks to fix the damage that they caused when they told me it would only take 1. Not only did it take a lot longer than planned but the work was also really shoddy.\n\nThe second time, I decided to get a paint job on the entire car (along with some other modifications, i.e. Clear Bra, PDR, and regular dent repair, etc). I was leaving town for a month so I decided to put the car in the shop when I left. The body shop owner reassured me that the car would be ready when I returned. It has now almost been a week after I was supposed to pick my car up (almost 5 weeks total) and it still isn't ready. The reasoning is that they ordered some parts from the dealership 2 weeks prior and they still haven't arrived. The clear coat and final polish isn't done and the Clear Bra hasn't been installed yet. I'm paying for a rental and quickly getting frustrated.\n\nI did plenty of research before selecting both body shops. What should we look for when searching for body shops? Are there tricks that body shops usually employ that we should look out for?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just some background.\nThe first time I put my car in the shop, it was in Tampa, FL. To make a very long story short (I can elaborate if necessary), they backed my car into a fence and destroyed the rear end. Afterwards, it took them over 3 weeks to fix the damage that they caused when they told me it would only take 1. Not only did it take a lot longer than planned but the work was also really shoddy.\n\nThe second time, I decided to get a paint job on the entire car (along with some other modifications, i.e. Clear Bra, PDR, and regular dent repair, etc). I was leaving town for a month so I decided to put the car in the shop when I left. The body shop owner reassured me that the car would be ready when I returned. It has now almost been a week after I was supposed to pick my car up (almost 5 weeks total) and it still isn't ready. The reasoning is that they ordered some parts from the dealership 2 weeks prior and they still haven't arrived. The clear coat and final polish isn't done and the Clear Bra hasn't been installed yet. I'm paying for a rental and quickly getting frustrated.\n\nI did plenty of research before selecting both body shops. What should we look for when searching for body shops? Are there tricks that body shops usually employ that we should look out for?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just some background.\nThe first time I put my car in the shop, it was in Tampa, FL. To make a very long story short (I can elaborate if necessary), they backed my car into a fence and destroyed the rear end. Afterwards, it took them over 3 weeks to fix the damage that they caused when they told me it would only take 1. Not only did it take a lot longer than planned but the work was also really shoddy.\n\nThe second time, I decided to get a paint job on the entire car (along with some other modifications, i.e. Clear Bra, PDR, and regular dent repair, etc). I was leaving town for a month so I decided to put the car in the shop when I left. The body shop owner reassured me that the car would be ready when I returned. It has now almost been a week after I was supposed to pick my car up (almost 5 weeks total) and it still isn't ready. The reasoning is that they ordered some parts from the dealership 2 weeks prior and they still haven't arrived. The clear coat and final polish isn't done and the Clear Bra hasn't been installed yet. I'm paying for a rental and quickly getting frustrated.\n\nI did plenty of research before selecting both body shops. What should we look for when searching for body shops? Are there tricks that body shops usually employ that we should look out for?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just some background.\nThe first time I put my car in the shop, it was in Tampa, FL. To make a very long story short (I can elaborate if necessary), they backed my car into a fence and destroyed the rear end. Afterwards, it took them over 3 weeks to fix the damage that they caused when they told me it would only take 1. Not only did it take a lot longer than planned but the work was also really shoddy.\n\nThe second time, I decided to get a paint job on the entire car (along with some other modifications, i.e. Clear Bra, PDR, and regular dent repair, etc). I was leaving town for a month so I decided to put the car in the shop when I left. The body shop owner reassured me that the car would be ready when I returned. It has now almost been a week after I was supposed to pick my car up (almost 5 weeks total) and it still isn't ready. The reasoning is that they ordered some parts from the dealership 2 weeks prior and they still haven't arrived. The clear coat and final polish isn't done and the Clear Bra hasn't been installed yet. I'm paying for a rental and quickly getting frustrated.\n\nI did plenty of research before selecting both body shops. What should we look for when searching for body shops? Are there tricks that body shops usually employ that we should look out for?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, all. Bad news. \n\nI've known this girl for two years, and we have absolutely tremendous chemistry. Everything about the combination of us is as perfect as it could be. \n\nAfter being awkwardly platonic friends for all that time, I finally tipped the scale after maybe a month straight of both of us dropping giant hint bombs, and a cleverly-devised viewing of When Harry Met Sally on her part. (Our friends even just got together, it's perfect.)\n\nSo we talk last night, and feelings are highly mutual. She's glad I asked, I am, but we can't date. She's Orthodox Christian, and I'm an unaligned atheist. We wouldn't be able to get married, and she wouldn't date someone she wouldn't marry. Specifically, she means that even if we dated in the short term, we'd know we'd have to break up.\n\nI understand. She's not happy, I'm not happy. \n\nI'm not anti-religious by any means, and I've simply never really gotten religion. I'd be happy to go to some services with her, I've been to one, and it's lovely. I'd think that over time, growing close to someone, something that's that important to them would become as important to me. That said, she would feel bad making someone make that big a change in a relationship, and we both agree that making that huge a change *to be in a relationship* would be insincere, and disrespectful of the importance of the religion to her, and the church in general. \n\nThat's the gist of it, unfortunately. She's thinking about it (whereas I've been mulling this over for a few months, she's ignored the problem whenever it came up, and now the floodgates are open.) and I'm looking to see if anyone's encountered problems like this before, and if there's anything I can do, or anything she can consider to get over this stumbling block. Thank you for your advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, all. Bad news. \n\nI've known this girl for two years, and we have absolutely tremendous chemistry. Everything about the combination of us is as perfect as it could be. \n\nAfter being awkwardly platonic friends for all that time, I finally tipped the scale after maybe a month straight of both of us dropping giant hint bombs, and a cleverly-devised viewing of When Harry Met Sally on her part. (Our friends even just got together, it's perfect.)\n\nSo we talk last night, and feelings are highly mutual. She's glad I asked, I am, but we can't date. She's Orthodox Christian, and I'm an unaligned atheist. We wouldn't be able to get married, and she wouldn't date someone she wouldn't marry. Specifically, she means that even if we dated in the short term, we'd know we'd have to break up.\n\nI understand. She's not happy, I'm not happy. \n\nI'm not anti-religious by any means, and I've simply never really gotten religion. I'd be happy to go to some services with her, I've been to one, and it's lovely. I'd think that over time, growing close to someone, something that's that important to them would become as important to me. That said, she would feel bad making someone make that big a change in a relationship, and we both agree that making that huge a change *to be in a relationship* would be insincere, and disrespectful of the importance of the religion to her, and the church in general. \n\nThat's the gist of it, unfortunately. She's thinking about it (whereas I've been mulling this over for a few months, she's ignored the problem whenever it came up, and now the floodgates are open.) and I'm looking to see if anyone's encountered problems like this before, and if there's anything I can do, or anything she can consider to get over this stumbling block. Thank you for your advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, all. Bad news. \n\nI've known this girl for two years, and we have absolutely tremendous chemistry. Everything about the combination of us is as perfect as it could be. \n\nAfter being awkwardly platonic friends for all that time, I finally tipped the scale after maybe a month straight of both of us dropping giant hint bombs, and a cleverly-devised viewing of When Harry Met Sally on her part. (Our friends even just got together, it's perfect.)\n\nSo we talk last night, and feelings are highly mutual. She's glad I asked, I am, but we can't date. She's Orthodox Christian, and I'm an unaligned atheist. We wouldn't be able to get married, and she wouldn't date someone she wouldn't marry. Specifically, she means that even if we dated in the short term, we'd know we'd have to break up.\n\nI understand. She's not happy, I'm not happy. \n\nI'm not anti-religious by any means, and I've simply never really gotten religion. I'd be happy to go to some services with her, I've been to one, and it's lovely. I'd think that over time, growing close to someone, something that's that important to them would become as important to me. That said, she would feel bad making someone make that big a change in a relationship, and we both agree that making that huge a change *to be in a relationship* would be insincere, and disrespectful of the importance of the religion to her, and the church in general. \n\nThat's the gist of it, unfortunately. She's thinking about it (whereas I've been mulling this over for a few months, she's ignored the problem whenever it came up, and now the floodgates are open.) and I'm looking to see if anyone's encountered problems like this before, and if there's anything I can do, or anything she can consider to get over this stumbling block. Thank you for your advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, all. Bad news. \n\nI've known this girl for two years, and we have absolutely tremendous chemistry. Everything about the combination of us is as perfect as it could be. \n\nAfter being awkwardly platonic friends for all that time, I finally tipped the scale after maybe a month straight of both of us dropping giant hint bombs, and a cleverly-devised viewing of When Harry Met Sally on her part. (Our friends even just got together, it's perfect.)\n\nSo we talk last night, and feelings are highly mutual. She's glad I asked, I am, but we can't date. She's Orthodox Christian, and I'm an unaligned atheist. We wouldn't be able to get married, and she wouldn't date someone she wouldn't marry. Specifically, she means that even if we dated in the short term, we'd know we'd have to break up.\n\nI understand. She's not happy, I'm not happy. \n\nI'm not anti-religious by any means, and I've simply never really gotten religion. I'd be happy to go to some services with her, I've been to one, and it's lovely. I'd think that over time, growing close to someone, something that's that important to them would become as important to me. That said, she would feel bad making someone make that big a change in a relationship, and we both agree that making that huge a change *to be in a relationship* would be insincere, and disrespectful of the importance of the religion to her, and the church in general. \n\nThat's the gist of it, unfortunately. She's thinking about it (whereas I've been mulling this over for a few months, she's ignored the problem whenever it came up, and now the floodgates are open.) and I'm looking to see if anyone's encountered problems like this before, and if there's anything I can do, or anything she can consider to get over this stumbling block. Thank you for your advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, all. Bad news. \n\nI've known this girl for two years, and we have absolutely tremendous chemistry. Everything about the combination of us is as perfect as it could be. \n\nAfter being awkwardly platonic friends for all that time, I finally tipped the scale after maybe a month straight of both of us dropping giant hint bombs, and a cleverly-devised viewing of When Harry Met Sally on her part. (Our friends even just got together, it's perfect.)\n\nSo we talk last night, and feelings are highly mutual. She's glad I asked, I am, but we can't date. She's Orthodox Christian, and I'm an unaligned atheist. We wouldn't be able to get married, and she wouldn't date someone she wouldn't marry. Specifically, she means that even if we dated in the short term, we'd know we'd have to break up.\n\nI understand. She's not happy, I'm not happy. \n\nI'm not anti-religious by any means, and I've simply never really gotten religion. I'd be happy to go to some services with her, I've been to one, and it's lovely. I'd think that over time, growing close to someone, something that's that important to them would become as important to me. That said, she would feel bad making someone make that big a change in a relationship, and we both agree that making that huge a change *to be in a relationship* would be insincere, and disrespectful of the importance of the religion to her, and the church in general. \n\nThat's the gist of it, unfortunately. She's thinking about it (whereas I've been mulling this over for a few months, she's ignored the problem whenever it came up, and now the floodgates are open.) and I'm looking to see if anyone's encountered problems like this before, and if there's anything I can do, or anything she can consider to get over this stumbling block. Thank you for your advice."
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