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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating this boy for 3 months and we go to eachothers houses like 2-3 times per week. I feel nervous whenever I go to his house because his older sister kind of hates me. When I first met her she pretty much interrogated me, she was asking questions about like my age, if I'm religious, if I've had a bf before, how I came to US (my family is Colombian but I've lived in US since I was little) and I felt she was implying that my family were illegal immigrant, and at the end of it she said something like don't hurt him or I'll hurt you and she laughed during it as if that were a normal or funny thing to say, but it made me feel really afraid. Whenever I see her she asks me what's new and stuff and it makes me feel nervous because I don't know what to say and I feel awkward around her. Then a couple weeks ago we were helping with some outdoor work and I had a difficult time lifting something and she started laughing at me and it made me feel embarrassed, she thinks I am like weak and incompetent. I've over heard her talking to her friend and she said that I'm \"anorexic\" when I'm not. One time that was the worst is when my boyfriend and I were having a fight and my bf was ignoring me for a few days and not responding to all my texts and calls, so I knocked at their door and she answered and told me to stop being so obsessive and leave him time alone. And she seemed pissed at me. I haven't told my boyfriend about how I feel about his sister because I don't want him to talk to her because then she might cause conflict with me. And there isn't much he could say anyway because she is the older one so she thinks she can do whatever she wants. Does it sound like she hates me? Is her behavior normal? I'm an only child so I'm not familiar with siblings dating and stuff like that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating this boy for 3 months and we go to eachothers houses like 2-3 times per week. I feel nervous whenever I go to his house because his older sister kind of hates me. When I first met her she pretty much interrogated me, she was asking questions about like my age, if I'm religious, if I've had a bf before, how I came to US (my family is Colombian but I've lived in US since I was little) and I felt she was implying that my family were illegal immigrant, and at the end of it she said something like don't hurt him or I'll hurt you and she laughed during it as if that were a normal or funny thing to say, but it made me feel really afraid. Whenever I see her she asks me what's new and stuff and it makes me feel nervous because I don't know what to say and I feel awkward around her. Then a couple weeks ago we were helping with some outdoor work and I had a difficult time lifting something and she started laughing at me and it made me feel embarrassed, she thinks I am like weak and incompetent. I've over heard her talking to her friend and she said that I'm \"anorexic\" when I'm not. One time that was the worst is when my boyfriend and I were having a fight and my bf was ignoring me for a few days and not responding to all my texts and calls, so I knocked at their door and she answered and told me to stop being so obsessive and leave him time alone. And she seemed pissed at me. I haven't told my boyfriend about how I feel about his sister because I don't want him to talk to her because then she might cause conflict with me. And there isn't much he could say anyway because she is the older one so she thinks she can do whatever she wants. Does it sound like she hates me? Is her behavior normal? I'm an only child so I'm not familiar with siblings dating and stuff like that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating this boy for 3 months and we go to eachothers houses like 2-3 times per week. I feel nervous whenever I go to his house because his older sister kind of hates me. When I first met her she pretty much interrogated me, she was asking questions about like my age, if I'm religious, if I've had a bf before, how I came to US (my family is Colombian but I've lived in US since I was little) and I felt she was implying that my family were illegal immigrant, and at the end of it she said something like don't hurt him or I'll hurt you and she laughed during it as if that were a normal or funny thing to say, but it made me feel really afraid. Whenever I see her she asks me what's new and stuff and it makes me feel nervous because I don't know what to say and I feel awkward around her. Then a couple weeks ago we were helping with some outdoor work and I had a difficult time lifting something and she started laughing at me and it made me feel embarrassed, she thinks I am like weak and incompetent. I've over heard her talking to her friend and she said that I'm \"anorexic\" when I'm not. One time that was the worst is when my boyfriend and I were having a fight and my bf was ignoring me for a few days and not responding to all my texts and calls, so I knocked at their door and she answered and told me to stop being so obsessive and leave him time alone. And she seemed pissed at me. I haven't told my boyfriend about how I feel about his sister because I don't want him to talk to her because then she might cause conflict with me. And there isn't much he could say anyway because she is the older one so she thinks she can do whatever she wants. Does it sound like she hates me? Is her behavior normal? I'm an only child so I'm not familiar with siblings dating and stuff like that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating this boy for 3 months and we go to eachothers houses like 2-3 times per week. I feel nervous whenever I go to his house because his older sister kind of hates me. When I first met her she pretty much interrogated me, she was asking questions about like my age, if I'm religious, if I've had a bf before, how I came to US (my family is Colombian but I've lived in US since I was little) and I felt she was implying that my family were illegal immigrant, and at the end of it she said something like don't hurt him or I'll hurt you and she laughed during it as if that were a normal or funny thing to say, but it made me feel really afraid. Whenever I see her she asks me what's new and stuff and it makes me feel nervous because I don't know what to say and I feel awkward around her. Then a couple weeks ago we were helping with some outdoor work and I had a difficult time lifting something and she started laughing at me and it made me feel embarrassed, she thinks I am like weak and incompetent. I've over heard her talking to her friend and she said that I'm \"anorexic\" when I'm not. One time that was the worst is when my boyfriend and I were having a fight and my bf was ignoring me for a few days and not responding to all my texts and calls, so I knocked at their door and she answered and told me to stop being so obsessive and leave him time alone. And she seemed pissed at me. I haven't told my boyfriend about how I feel about his sister because I don't want him to talk to her because then she might cause conflict with me. And there isn't much he could say anyway because she is the older one so she thinks she can do whatever she wants. Does it sound like she hates me? Is her behavior normal? I'm an only child so I'm not familiar with siblings dating and stuff like that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating this boy for 3 months and we go to eachothers houses like 2-3 times per week. I feel nervous whenever I go to his house because his older sister kind of hates me. When I first met her she pretty much interrogated me, she was asking questions about like my age, if I'm religious, if I've had a bf before, how I came to US (my family is Colombian but I've lived in US since I was little) and I felt she was implying that my family were illegal immigrant, and at the end of it she said something like don't hurt him or I'll hurt you and she laughed during it as if that were a normal or funny thing to say, but it made me feel really afraid. Whenever I see her she asks me what's new and stuff and it makes me feel nervous because I don't know what to say and I feel awkward around her. Then a couple weeks ago we were helping with some outdoor work and I had a difficult time lifting something and she started laughing at me and it made me feel embarrassed, she thinks I am like weak and incompetent. I've over heard her talking to her friend and she said that I'm \"anorexic\" when I'm not. One time that was the worst is when my boyfriend and I were having a fight and my bf was ignoring me for a few days and not responding to all my texts and calls, so I knocked at their door and she answered and told me to stop being so obsessive and leave him time alone. And she seemed pissed at me. I haven't told my boyfriend about how I feel about his sister because I don't want him to talk to her because then she might cause conflict with me. And there isn't much he could say anyway because she is the older one so she thinks she can do whatever she wants. Does it sound like she hates me? Is her behavior normal? I'm an only child so I'm not familiar with siblings dating and stuff like that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating this boy for 3 months and we go to eachothers houses like 2-3 times per week. I feel nervous whenever I go to his house because his older sister kind of hates me. When I first met her she pretty much interrogated me, she was asking questions about like my age, if I'm religious, if I've had a bf before, how I came to US (my family is Colombian but I've lived in US since I was little) and I felt she was implying that my family were illegal immigrant, and at the end of it she said something like don't hurt him or I'll hurt you and she laughed during it as if that were a normal or funny thing to say, but it made me feel really afraid. Whenever I see her she asks me what's new and stuff and it makes me feel nervous because I don't know what to say and I feel awkward around her. Then a couple weeks ago we were helping with some outdoor work and I had a difficult time lifting something and she started laughing at me and it made me feel embarrassed, she thinks I am like weak and incompetent. I've over heard her talking to her friend and she said that I'm \"anorexic\" when I'm not. One time that was the worst is when my boyfriend and I were having a fight and my bf was ignoring me for a few days and not responding to all my texts and calls, so I knocked at their door and she answered and told me to stop being so obsessive and leave him time alone. And she seemed pissed at me. I haven't told my boyfriend about how I feel about his sister because I don't want him to talk to her because then she might cause conflict with me. And there isn't much he could say anyway because she is the older one so she thinks she can do whatever she wants. Does it sound like she hates me? Is her behavior normal? I'm an only child so I'm not familiar with siblings dating and stuff like that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 8 years, married for 2.\n\nWe're not pregnant, but we were having a deep late night conversation and the topic of future kids came up. She was talking about the loss of free time and money after kids and then pauses and says 'I don't think I could love our child if it was disabled. I think I would resent it too much'. We clarified the kinds of disabilities she was afraid of and she listed quite a few, even including downs syndrome or severe autism. She said she didn't think she could cope with parenting 24/7 for the rest of her life. She said having a disabled child was one of her biggest fears.\n\nI am quite shocked, as my view is different. Our child is OUR child, no matter what it has been affected with. I think it would add difficult challenge to life, but the struggle is worth it. I don't think I could NOT love someone that has been made from me and her.\n\nI don't see my wife in the exact same light anymore. Those comments are bugging me. They seem heartless and exclusive. Will our child have to be perfect for her to love it? What will she do if our child is born with something or develops something?\n\nI would love some opinions and outside views on her words, and how I can approach this with her. I think it is important.\n\nThank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 8 years, married for 2.\n\nWe're not pregnant, but we were having a deep late night conversation and the topic of future kids came up. She was talking about the loss of free time and money after kids and then pauses and says 'I don't think I could love our child if it was disabled. I think I would resent it too much'. We clarified the kinds of disabilities she was afraid of and she listed quite a few, even including downs syndrome or severe autism. She said she didn't think she could cope with parenting 24/7 for the rest of her life. She said having a disabled child was one of her biggest fears.\n\nI am quite shocked, as my view is different. Our child is OUR child, no matter what it has been affected with. I think it would add difficult challenge to life, but the struggle is worth it. I don't think I could NOT love someone that has been made from me and her.\n\nI don't see my wife in the exact same light anymore. Those comments are bugging me. They seem heartless and exclusive. Will our child have to be perfect for her to love it? What will she do if our child is born with something or develops something?\n\nI would love some opinions and outside views on her words, and how I can approach this with her. I think it is important.\n\nThank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 8 years, married for 2.\n\nWe're not pregnant, but we were having a deep late night conversation and the topic of future kids came up. She was talking about the loss of free time and money after kids and then pauses and says 'I don't think I could love our child if it was disabled. I think I would resent it too much'. We clarified the kinds of disabilities she was afraid of and she listed quite a few, even including downs syndrome or severe autism. She said she didn't think she could cope with parenting 24/7 for the rest of her life. She said having a disabled child was one of her biggest fears.\n\nI am quite shocked, as my view is different. Our child is OUR child, no matter what it has been affected with. I think it would add difficult challenge to life, but the struggle is worth it. I don't think I could NOT love someone that has been made from me and her.\n\nI don't see my wife in the exact same light anymore. Those comments are bugging me. They seem heartless and exclusive. Will our child have to be perfect for her to love it? What will she do if our child is born with something or develops something?\n\nI would love some opinions and outside views on her words, and how I can approach this with her. I think it is important.\n\nThank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 8 years, married for 2.\n\nWe're not pregnant, but we were having a deep late night conversation and the topic of future kids came up. She was talking about the loss of free time and money after kids and then pauses and says 'I don't think I could love our child if it was disabled. I think I would resent it too much'. We clarified the kinds of disabilities she was afraid of and she listed quite a few, even including downs syndrome or severe autism. She said she didn't think she could cope with parenting 24/7 for the rest of her life. She said having a disabled child was one of her biggest fears.\n\nI am quite shocked, as my view is different. Our child is OUR child, no matter what it has been affected with. I think it would add difficult challenge to life, but the struggle is worth it. I don't think I could NOT love someone that has been made from me and her.\n\nI don't see my wife in the exact same light anymore. Those comments are bugging me. They seem heartless and exclusive. Will our child have to be perfect for her to love it? What will she do if our child is born with something or develops something?\n\nI would love some opinions and outside views on her words, and how I can approach this with her. I think it is important.\n\nThank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 8 years, married for 2.\n\nWe're not pregnant, but we were having a deep late night conversation and the topic of future kids came up. She was talking about the loss of free time and money after kids and then pauses and says 'I don't think I could love our child if it was disabled. I think I would resent it too much'. We clarified the kinds of disabilities she was afraid of and she listed quite a few, even including downs syndrome or severe autism. She said she didn't think she could cope with parenting 24/7 for the rest of her life. She said having a disabled child was one of her biggest fears.\n\nI am quite shocked, as my view is different. Our child is OUR child, no matter what it has been affected with. I think it would add difficult challenge to life, but the struggle is worth it. I don't think I could NOT love someone that has been made from me and her.\n\nI don't see my wife in the exact same light anymore. Those comments are bugging me. They seem heartless and exclusive. Will our child have to be perfect for her to love it? What will she do if our child is born with something or develops something?\n\nI would love some opinions and outside views on her words, and how I can approach this with her. I think it is important.\n\nThank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 8 years, married for 2.\n\nWe're not pregnant, but we were having a deep late night conversation and the topic of future kids came up. She was talking about the loss of free time and money after kids and then pauses and says 'I don't think I could love our child if it was disabled. I think I would resent it too much'. We clarified the kinds of disabilities she was afraid of and she listed quite a few, even including downs syndrome or severe autism. She said she didn't think she could cope with parenting 24/7 for the rest of her life. She said having a disabled child was one of her biggest fears.\n\nI am quite shocked, as my view is different. Our child is OUR child, no matter what it has been affected with. I think it would add difficult challenge to life, but the struggle is worth it. I don't think I could NOT love someone that has been made from me and her.\n\nI don't see my wife in the exact same light anymore. Those comments are bugging me. They seem heartless and exclusive. Will our child have to be perfect for her to love it? What will she do if our child is born with something or develops something?\n\nI would love some opinions and outside views on her words, and how I can approach this with her. I think it is important.\n\nThank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex are broken up now.\n\nI found out she was on a dating website and messaged this guy who she seems to have gotten close with. He would send her creepy videos of him saying stuff to her or saying that he is her boyfriend. \n\nWhen we broke up I told all of our close friends she cheated on me and they went to her to ask for her side of the story. \n\nShe keeps denying it saying she never cheated on me and she told them she has no emotional attachment with him. I think this is b.s. because even though he lives states away, she is flying out and seeing him this weekend which just so happens to land on Valentines day. However we are broken up now so that doesn't bother me as much as the dating website that she went on while we were dating.\n\nDo you guys believe that going on dating websites and messaging guys is considered cheating?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex are broken up now.\n\nI found out she was on a dating website and messaged this guy who she seems to have gotten close with. He would send her creepy videos of him saying stuff to her or saying that he is her boyfriend. \n\nWhen we broke up I told all of our close friends she cheated on me and they went to her to ask for her side of the story. \n\nShe keeps denying it saying she never cheated on me and she told them she has no emotional attachment with him. I think this is b.s. because even though he lives states away, she is flying out and seeing him this weekend which just so happens to land on Valentines day. However we are broken up now so that doesn't bother me as much as the dating website that she went on while we were dating.\n\nDo you guys believe that going on dating websites and messaging guys is considered cheating?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex are broken up now.\n\nI found out she was on a dating website and messaged this guy who she seems to have gotten close with. He would send her creepy videos of him saying stuff to her or saying that he is her boyfriend. \n\nWhen we broke up I told all of our close friends she cheated on me and they went to her to ask for her side of the story. \n\nShe keeps denying it saying she never cheated on me and she told them she has no emotional attachment with him. I think this is b.s. because even though he lives states away, she is flying out and seeing him this weekend which just so happens to land on Valentines day. However we are broken up now so that doesn't bother me as much as the dating website that she went on while we were dating.\n\nDo you guys believe that going on dating websites and messaging guys is considered cheating?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex are broken up now.\n\nI found out she was on a dating website and messaged this guy who she seems to have gotten close with. He would send her creepy videos of him saying stuff to her or saying that he is her boyfriend. \n\nWhen we broke up I told all of our close friends she cheated on me and they went to her to ask for her side of the story. \n\nShe keeps denying it saying she never cheated on me and she told them she has no emotional attachment with him. I think this is b.s. because even though he lives states away, she is flying out and seeing him this weekend which just so happens to land on Valentines day. However we are broken up now so that doesn't bother me as much as the dating website that she went on while we were dating.\n\nDo you guys believe that going on dating websites and messaging guys is considered cheating?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex are broken up now.\n\nI found out she was on a dating website and messaged this guy who she seems to have gotten close with. He would send her creepy videos of him saying stuff to her or saying that he is her boyfriend. \n\nWhen we broke up I told all of our close friends she cheated on me and they went to her to ask for her side of the story. \n\nShe keeps denying it saying she never cheated on me and she told them she has no emotional attachment with him. I think this is b.s. because even though he lives states away, she is flying out and seeing him this weekend which just so happens to land on Valentines day. However we are broken up now so that doesn't bother me as much as the dating website that she went on while we were dating.\n\nDo you guys believe that going on dating websites and messaging guys is considered cheating?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 19 (in uni) year old son of a mother who literally controls the house, everything is her own furniture, tv, event though my dad pays for most of those things, she still controls them. \nShe also controls the people/animals who are in the house, we had a hamster when I was 7 and she hated it, and I have to admit it smelt like shit. \nAnyway, she doesn't think I'm responsible (i'm actually really responsible), and I'm willing to pay everything. she's just afraid of them, and she's just never faced her fears. She always think that all animals are smelly, unclean creatures that are useless, which IMO is pretty cruel. I tried to go to a shelter with her (just to see puppies) and she heard barking and went back inside the car. I'm not sure if she has a physiology problem but I don't know what I'm doing wrong.\n/r/aww is one of my favorite subscriptions, and seeing all these \"look what I just got from the shelter today post\" are making me a wee bit sad, I am bit introverted and everytime i see dogs i smile. \nI don't mean to sound like a brat or anything, but you don't wanna know how much I wanna dog."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 19 (in uni) year old son of a mother who literally controls the house, everything is her own furniture, tv, event though my dad pays for most of those things, she still controls them. \nShe also controls the people/animals who are in the house, we had a hamster when I was 7 and she hated it, and I have to admit it smelt like shit. \nAnyway, she doesn't think I'm responsible (i'm actually really responsible), and I'm willing to pay everything. she's just afraid of them, and she's just never faced her fears. She always think that all animals are smelly, unclean creatures that are useless, which IMO is pretty cruel. I tried to go to a shelter with her (just to see puppies) and she heard barking and went back inside the car. I'm not sure if she has a physiology problem but I don't know what I'm doing wrong.\n/r/aww is one of my favorite subscriptions, and seeing all these \"look what I just got from the shelter today post\" are making me a wee bit sad, I am bit introverted and everytime i see dogs i smile. \nI don't mean to sound like a brat or anything, but you don't wanna know how much I wanna dog."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 19 (in uni) year old son of a mother who literally controls the house, everything is her own furniture, tv, event though my dad pays for most of those things, she still controls them. \nShe also controls the people/animals who are in the house, we had a hamster when I was 7 and she hated it, and I have to admit it smelt like shit. \nAnyway, she doesn't think I'm responsible (i'm actually really responsible), and I'm willing to pay everything. she's just afraid of them, and she's just never faced her fears. She always think that all animals are smelly, unclean creatures that are useless, which IMO is pretty cruel. I tried to go to a shelter with her (just to see puppies) and she heard barking and went back inside the car. I'm not sure if she has a physiology problem but I don't know what I'm doing wrong.\n/r/aww is one of my favorite subscriptions, and seeing all these \"look what I just got from the shelter today post\" are making me a wee bit sad, I am bit introverted and everytime i see dogs i smile. \nI don't mean to sound like a brat or anything, but you don't wanna know how much I wanna dog."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 19 (in uni) year old son of a mother who literally controls the house, everything is her own furniture, tv, event though my dad pays for most of those things, she still controls them. \nShe also controls the people/animals who are in the house, we had a hamster when I was 7 and she hated it, and I have to admit it smelt like shit. \nAnyway, she doesn't think I'm responsible (i'm actually really responsible), and I'm willing to pay everything. she's just afraid of them, and she's just never faced her fears. She always think that all animals are smelly, unclean creatures that are useless, which IMO is pretty cruel. I tried to go to a shelter with her (just to see puppies) and she heard barking and went back inside the car. I'm not sure if she has a physiology problem but I don't know what I'm doing wrong.\n/r/aww is one of my favorite subscriptions, and seeing all these \"look what I just got from the shelter today post\" are making me a wee bit sad, I am bit introverted and everytime i see dogs i smile. \nI don't mean to sound like a brat or anything, but you don't wanna know how much I wanna dog."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 19 (in uni) year old son of a mother who literally controls the house, everything is her own furniture, tv, event though my dad pays for most of those things, she still controls them. \nShe also controls the people/animals who are in the house, we had a hamster when I was 7 and she hated it, and I have to admit it smelt like shit. \nAnyway, she doesn't think I'm responsible (i'm actually really responsible), and I'm willing to pay everything. she's just afraid of them, and she's just never faced her fears. She always think that all animals are smelly, unclean creatures that are useless, which IMO is pretty cruel. I tried to go to a shelter with her (just to see puppies) and she heard barking and went back inside the car. I'm not sure if she has a physiology problem but I don't know what I'm doing wrong.\n/r/aww is one of my favorite subscriptions, and seeing all these \"look what I just got from the shelter today post\" are making me a wee bit sad, I am bit introverted and everytime i see dogs i smile. \nI don't mean to sound like a brat or anything, but you don't wanna know how much I wanna dog."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 19 (in uni) year old son of a mother who literally controls the house, everything is her own furniture, tv, event though my dad pays for most of those things, she still controls them. \nShe also controls the people/animals who are in the house, we had a hamster when I was 7 and she hated it, and I have to admit it smelt like shit. \nAnyway, she doesn't think I'm responsible (i'm actually really responsible), and I'm willing to pay everything. she's just afraid of them, and she's just never faced her fears. She always think that all animals are smelly, unclean creatures that are useless, which IMO is pretty cruel. I tried to go to a shelter with her (just to see puppies) and she heard barking and went back inside the car. I'm not sure if she has a physiology problem but I don't know what I'm doing wrong.\n/r/aww is one of my favorite subscriptions, and seeing all these \"look what I just got from the shelter today post\" are making me a wee bit sad, I am bit introverted and everytime i see dogs i smile. \nI don't mean to sound like a brat or anything, but you don't wanna know how much I wanna dog."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Clare (29f) has dated Jake (29m) since college about 9 years now. All she wants is to get married and have kids. Jake doesn't believe in marriage at all, growing up he walked in on each of his parents cheating and they have both been divorced multiple times. \n\nJake has told Clare repeatedly that he will not marry her under any circumstances. However, in the last year Clare told him he had to propose by Xmas or it is over. In June I was hanging out with their family and the parents and Clare acted like the marriage was a done deal. I looked at Jake and he was fuming mad and walked off.\n\nLater on he (whlie very drunk) told me that it was probably over between them but maybe he would propose just to keep the relationship going a few more years. \n\nWell, he proposed in October and Clare said yes and is super excited. No date is set yet. \n\nI am going to see both of them at thanksgiving, should I say anything?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Clare (29f) has dated Jake (29m) since college about 9 years now. All she wants is to get married and have kids. Jake doesn't believe in marriage at all, growing up he walked in on each of his parents cheating and they have both been divorced multiple times. \n\nJake has told Clare repeatedly that he will not marry her under any circumstances. However, in the last year Clare told him he had to propose by Xmas or it is over. In June I was hanging out with their family and the parents and Clare acted like the marriage was a done deal. I looked at Jake and he was fuming mad and walked off.\n\nLater on he (whlie very drunk) told me that it was probably over between them but maybe he would propose just to keep the relationship going a few more years. \n\nWell, he proposed in October and Clare said yes and is super excited. No date is set yet. \n\nI am going to see both of them at thanksgiving, should I say anything?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Clare (29f) has dated Jake (29m) since college about 9 years now. All she wants is to get married and have kids. Jake doesn't believe in marriage at all, growing up he walked in on each of his parents cheating and they have both been divorced multiple times. \n\nJake has told Clare repeatedly that he will not marry her under any circumstances. However, in the last year Clare told him he had to propose by Xmas or it is over. In June I was hanging out with their family and the parents and Clare acted like the marriage was a done deal. I looked at Jake and he was fuming mad and walked off.\n\nLater on he (whlie very drunk) told me that it was probably over between them but maybe he would propose just to keep the relationship going a few more years. \n\nWell, he proposed in October and Clare said yes and is super excited. No date is set yet. \n\nI am going to see both of them at thanksgiving, should I say anything?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right so a while ago im at this girls party and she catches me looked at her tits (classy right) her face kinda lighta up an she kinda half-shouts me name. Now in the back of my mind I know shes onto it but shea thought \"whatever.\" right?\n\nShe stands next to me and puta her arm on my shoulders, some weird repetetive smalltalk happens for about 30-coulda been 60 seconds if that. Thanked me for coming to her party (or that mighta happened after) then. I get this sudden kinda spark in my head and a voice saying \"kiss her kiss her\" an im just sat there with me turnin round in total bemuzement like \"what was that instunct or something\". Turned around back to her gaze and suprise supriae shed gone off it and started slowly pushing her head back. Maybe she did that on purpose maybe. and then got off and im there like \"what\".\n\nIve only seen her before that once. twice maybe because I had on facebook. I know it might not be totally relevent.? But I didnt know where else to put it so it makes sense to put it here.\n\nThen a while afterwards, not too long ago actually, another girl happens upon the same pose but on yhe other shoulder. Now im like, right, this is definitely familiar feeling. kinda heavy (not her arm),almoat translucent-like. Then, cause I lent her pen (in class yeah) she does this weird murmering sounds (as if she was scared.) I hand back her pwn, like shes going in for a hug. I hand her the pen and hug her anyway. I ask and afterwarss she ezplains she thought i wanted a hug but I was just handing her her pen. weird kinda fun-sorta feeling (hard to explained) about the same time as well. any explenations or does it link in? Or what\n\nDunno if its relevent or what but."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right so a while ago im at this girls party and she catches me looked at her tits (classy right) her face kinda lighta up an she kinda half-shouts me name. Now in the back of my mind I know shes onto it but shea thought \"whatever.\" right?\n\nShe stands next to me and puta her arm on my shoulders, some weird repetetive smalltalk happens for about 30-coulda been 60 seconds if that. Thanked me for coming to her party (or that mighta happened after) then. I get this sudden kinda spark in my head and a voice saying \"kiss her kiss her\" an im just sat there with me turnin round in total bemuzement like \"what was that instunct or something\". Turned around back to her gaze and suprise supriae shed gone off it and started slowly pushing her head back. Maybe she did that on purpose maybe. and then got off and im there like \"what\".\n\nIve only seen her before that once. twice maybe because I had on facebook. I know it might not be totally relevent.? But I didnt know where else to put it so it makes sense to put it here.\n\nThen a while afterwards, not too long ago actually, another girl happens upon the same pose but on yhe other shoulder. Now im like, right, this is definitely familiar feeling. kinda heavy (not her arm),almoat translucent-like. Then, cause I lent her pen (in class yeah) she does this weird murmering sounds (as if she was scared.) I hand back her pwn, like shes going in for a hug. I hand her the pen and hug her anyway. I ask and afterwarss she ezplains she thought i wanted a hug but I was just handing her her pen. weird kinda fun-sorta feeling (hard to explained) about the same time as well. any explenations or does it link in? Or what\n\nDunno if its relevent or what but."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right so a while ago im at this girls party and she catches me looked at her tits (classy right) her face kinda lighta up an she kinda half-shouts me name. Now in the back of my mind I know shes onto it but shea thought \"whatever.\" right?\n\nShe stands next to me and puta her arm on my shoulders, some weird repetetive smalltalk happens for about 30-coulda been 60 seconds if that. Thanked me for coming to her party (or that mighta happened after) then. I get this sudden kinda spark in my head and a voice saying \"kiss her kiss her\" an im just sat there with me turnin round in total bemuzement like \"what was that instunct or something\". Turned around back to her gaze and suprise supriae shed gone off it and started slowly pushing her head back. Maybe she did that on purpose maybe. and then got off and im there like \"what\".\n\nIve only seen her before that once. twice maybe because I had on facebook. I know it might not be totally relevent.? But I didnt know where else to put it so it makes sense to put it here.\n\nThen a while afterwards, not too long ago actually, another girl happens upon the same pose but on yhe other shoulder. Now im like, right, this is definitely familiar feeling. kinda heavy (not her arm),almoat translucent-like. Then, cause I lent her pen (in class yeah) she does this weird murmering sounds (as if she was scared.) I hand back her pwn, like shes going in for a hug. I hand her the pen and hug her anyway. I ask and afterwarss she ezplains she thought i wanted a hug but I was just handing her her pen. weird kinda fun-sorta feeling (hard to explained) about the same time as well. any explenations or does it link in? Or what\n\nDunno if its relevent or what but."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right so a while ago im at this girls party and she catches me looked at her tits (classy right) her face kinda lighta up an she kinda half-shouts me name. Now in the back of my mind I know shes onto it but shea thought \"whatever.\" right?\n\nShe stands next to me and puta her arm on my shoulders, some weird repetetive smalltalk happens for about 30-coulda been 60 seconds if that. Thanked me for coming to her party (or that mighta happened after) then. I get this sudden kinda spark in my head and a voice saying \"kiss her kiss her\" an im just sat there with me turnin round in total bemuzement like \"what was that instunct or something\". Turned around back to her gaze and suprise supriae shed gone off it and started slowly pushing her head back. Maybe she did that on purpose maybe. and then got off and im there like \"what\".\n\nIve only seen her before that once. twice maybe because I had on facebook. I know it might not be totally relevent.? But I didnt know where else to put it so it makes sense to put it here.\n\nThen a while afterwards, not too long ago actually, another girl happens upon the same pose but on yhe other shoulder. Now im like, right, this is definitely familiar feeling. kinda heavy (not her arm),almoat translucent-like. Then, cause I lent her pen (in class yeah) she does this weird murmering sounds (as if she was scared.) I hand back her pwn, like shes going in for a hug. I hand her the pen and hug her anyway. I ask and afterwarss she ezplains she thought i wanted a hug but I was just handing her her pen. weird kinda fun-sorta feeling (hard to explained) about the same time as well. any explenations or does it link in? Or what\n\nDunno if its relevent or what but."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right so a while ago im at this girls party and she catches me looked at her tits (classy right) her face kinda lighta up an she kinda half-shouts me name. Now in the back of my mind I know shes onto it but shea thought \"whatever.\" right?\n\nShe stands next to me and puta her arm on my shoulders, some weird repetetive smalltalk happens for about 30-coulda been 60 seconds if that. Thanked me for coming to her party (or that mighta happened after) then. I get this sudden kinda spark in my head and a voice saying \"kiss her kiss her\" an im just sat there with me turnin round in total bemuzement like \"what was that instunct or something\". Turned around back to her gaze and suprise supriae shed gone off it and started slowly pushing her head back. Maybe she did that on purpose maybe. and then got off and im there like \"what\".\n\nIve only seen her before that once. twice maybe because I had on facebook. I know it might not be totally relevent.? But I didnt know where else to put it so it makes sense to put it here.\n\nThen a while afterwards, not too long ago actually, another girl happens upon the same pose but on yhe other shoulder. Now im like, right, this is definitely familiar feeling. kinda heavy (not her arm),almoat translucent-like. Then, cause I lent her pen (in class yeah) she does this weird murmering sounds (as if she was scared.) I hand back her pwn, like shes going in for a hug. I hand her the pen and hug her anyway. I ask and afterwarss she ezplains she thought i wanted a hug but I was just handing her her pen. weird kinda fun-sorta feeling (hard to explained) about the same time as well. any explenations or does it link in? Or what\n\nDunno if its relevent or what but."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right so a while ago im at this girls party and she catches me looked at her tits (classy right) her face kinda lighta up an she kinda half-shouts me name. Now in the back of my mind I know shes onto it but shea thought \"whatever.\" right?\n\nShe stands next to me and puta her arm on my shoulders, some weird repetetive smalltalk happens for about 30-coulda been 60 seconds if that. Thanked me for coming to her party (or that mighta happened after) then. I get this sudden kinda spark in my head and a voice saying \"kiss her kiss her\" an im just sat there with me turnin round in total bemuzement like \"what was that instunct or something\". Turned around back to her gaze and suprise supriae shed gone off it and started slowly pushing her head back. Maybe she did that on purpose maybe. and then got off and im there like \"what\".\n\nIve only seen her before that once. twice maybe because I had on facebook. I know it might not be totally relevent.? But I didnt know where else to put it so it makes sense to put it here.\n\nThen a while afterwards, not too long ago actually, another girl happens upon the same pose but on yhe other shoulder. Now im like, right, this is definitely familiar feeling. kinda heavy (not her arm),almoat translucent-like. Then, cause I lent her pen (in class yeah) she does this weird murmering sounds (as if she was scared.) I hand back her pwn, like shes going in for a hug. I hand her the pen and hug her anyway. I ask and afterwarss she ezplains she thought i wanted a hug but I was just handing her her pen. weird kinda fun-sorta feeling (hard to explained) about the same time as well. any explenations or does it link in? Or what\n\nDunno if its relevent or what but."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the low down: I currently live at home with my mom, dad, and a small Yorkshire/Australian Silky Terrier dog. Recently, my parents went away on vacation for several weeks, leaving just my dog and I at home.\n\nTo a 20 year old male, sounds awesome, right? *WRONG*. For one thing, my dog has been sitting by the door constantly anticipating my parents' return. For another, any time I leave to so much as buy groceries, I come home to him wailing away due to him probably thinking I've left him forever. \n\nI don't want to go anywhere or hang out with anyone simply because I feel so terrible for leaving him alone. More than that, I rather prefer the neighbors not hear his constant barking and think that I'm abusing him and call the police or something. \n\nSo to cut to the chase, how has Reddit dealt with attached pets who freak out the moment you leave them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the low down: I currently live at home with my mom, dad, and a small Yorkshire/Australian Silky Terrier dog. Recently, my parents went away on vacation for several weeks, leaving just my dog and I at home.\n\nTo a 20 year old male, sounds awesome, right? *WRONG*. For one thing, my dog has been sitting by the door constantly anticipating my parents' return. For another, any time I leave to so much as buy groceries, I come home to him wailing away due to him probably thinking I've left him forever. \n\nI don't want to go anywhere or hang out with anyone simply because I feel so terrible for leaving him alone. More than that, I rather prefer the neighbors not hear his constant barking and think that I'm abusing him and call the police or something. \n\nSo to cut to the chase, how has Reddit dealt with attached pets who freak out the moment you leave them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the low down: I currently live at home with my mom, dad, and a small Yorkshire/Australian Silky Terrier dog. Recently, my parents went away on vacation for several weeks, leaving just my dog and I at home.\n\nTo a 20 year old male, sounds awesome, right? *WRONG*. For one thing, my dog has been sitting by the door constantly anticipating my parents' return. For another, any time I leave to so much as buy groceries, I come home to him wailing away due to him probably thinking I've left him forever. \n\nI don't want to go anywhere or hang out with anyone simply because I feel so terrible for leaving him alone. More than that, I rather prefer the neighbors not hear his constant barking and think that I'm abusing him and call the police or something. \n\nSo to cut to the chase, how has Reddit dealt with attached pets who freak out the moment you leave them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the low down: I currently live at home with my mom, dad, and a small Yorkshire/Australian Silky Terrier dog. Recently, my parents went away on vacation for several weeks, leaving just my dog and I at home.\n\nTo a 20 year old male, sounds awesome, right? *WRONG*. For one thing, my dog has been sitting by the door constantly anticipating my parents' return. For another, any time I leave to so much as buy groceries, I come home to him wailing away due to him probably thinking I've left him forever. \n\nI don't want to go anywhere or hang out with anyone simply because I feel so terrible for leaving him alone. More than that, I rather prefer the neighbors not hear his constant barking and think that I'm abusing him and call the police or something. \n\nSo to cut to the chase, how has Reddit dealt with attached pets who freak out the moment you leave them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the low down: I currently live at home with my mom, dad, and a small Yorkshire/Australian Silky Terrier dog. Recently, my parents went away on vacation for several weeks, leaving just my dog and I at home.\n\nTo a 20 year old male, sounds awesome, right? *WRONG*. For one thing, my dog has been sitting by the door constantly anticipating my parents' return. For another, any time I leave to so much as buy groceries, I come home to him wailing away due to him probably thinking I've left him forever. \n\nI don't want to go anywhere or hang out with anyone simply because I feel so terrible for leaving him alone. More than that, I rather prefer the neighbors not hear his constant barking and think that I'm abusing him and call the police or something. \n\nSo to cut to the chase, how has Reddit dealt with attached pets who freak out the moment you leave them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the low down: I currently live at home with my mom, dad, and a small Yorkshire/Australian Silky Terrier dog. Recently, my parents went away on vacation for several weeks, leaving just my dog and I at home.\n\nTo a 20 year old male, sounds awesome, right? *WRONG*. For one thing, my dog has been sitting by the door constantly anticipating my parents' return. For another, any time I leave to so much as buy groceries, I come home to him wailing away due to him probably thinking I've left him forever. \n\nI don't want to go anywhere or hang out with anyone simply because I feel so terrible for leaving him alone. More than that, I rather prefer the neighbors not hear his constant barking and think that I'm abusing him and call the police or something. \n\nSo to cut to the chase, how has Reddit dealt with attached pets who freak out the moment you leave them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit\nI need some perspective on a situation I've gotten myself into.\n\nAbout a year ago I married my husband.\nWe had known each other for only 1 year.\nOur relationship moved at a fast pace because we were forced too think about the future. He is from The UK, I am from canada. We didn't have the choice to have a normal relationship because we had to make heavy decisions about how to stay together.\nI was a full time student and could not go to the UK to be with him, he had used up allotted visas for Canada. \nWe mentioned to our close friends that we might get married to stay together. They completely turned up their noses at the idea and basically told us it was stupid. Their reaction caused me a lot of pain and confusion, I should be able to make a decision without such criticism from my best friends.\nSo we got married in private, my family was there and we recorded the ceremony for his family to watch. \nWe decided that we had gotten married strictly to stay together because we couldnt stand the thought of being seperated, and it was our only option (it was,trust me we tried other things like sponsorship from an employer etc.) We agree that we do not think of us as married because we want to do it properly I the future.\n\nMy dilemma now is that I hate that I had to lie to my friends, I want to tell them but I feel that they will hate me for keeping it from them. it is also Important to know that I still want to be properly married, be engaged and everything but I feel that if ppl know I'm already married it won't be as special.\n\nSo reddit, please be tell me\n\nWhat would you do in my situation?\nHow would you feel knowing your best friend kept this from you?\nCould you forgive him/her?\nAny and all advice is welcomed"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit\nI need some perspective on a situation I've gotten myself into.\n\nAbout a year ago I married my husband.\nWe had known each other for only 1 year.\nOur relationship moved at a fast pace because we were forced too think about the future. He is from The UK, I am from canada. We didn't have the choice to have a normal relationship because we had to make heavy decisions about how to stay together.\nI was a full time student and could not go to the UK to be with him, he had used up allotted visas for Canada. \nWe mentioned to our close friends that we might get married to stay together. They completely turned up their noses at the idea and basically told us it was stupid. Their reaction caused me a lot of pain and confusion, I should be able to make a decision without such criticism from my best friends.\nSo we got married in private, my family was there and we recorded the ceremony for his family to watch. \nWe decided that we had gotten married strictly to stay together because we couldnt stand the thought of being seperated, and it was our only option (it was,trust me we tried other things like sponsorship from an employer etc.) We agree that we do not think of us as married because we want to do it properly I the future.\n\nMy dilemma now is that I hate that I had to lie to my friends, I want to tell them but I feel that they will hate me for keeping it from them. it is also Important to know that I still want to be properly married, be engaged and everything but I feel that if ppl know I'm already married it won't be as special.\n\nSo reddit, please be tell me\n\nWhat would you do in my situation?\nHow would you feel knowing your best friend kept this from you?\nCould you forgive him/her?\nAny and all advice is welcomed"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit\nI need some perspective on a situation I've gotten myself into.\n\nAbout a year ago I married my husband.\nWe had known each other for only 1 year.\nOur relationship moved at a fast pace because we were forced too think about the future. He is from The UK, I am from canada. We didn't have the choice to have a normal relationship because we had to make heavy decisions about how to stay together.\nI was a full time student and could not go to the UK to be with him, he had used up allotted visas for Canada. \nWe mentioned to our close friends that we might get married to stay together. They completely turned up their noses at the idea and basically told us it was stupid. Their reaction caused me a lot of pain and confusion, I should be able to make a decision without such criticism from my best friends.\nSo we got married in private, my family was there and we recorded the ceremony for his family to watch. \nWe decided that we had gotten married strictly to stay together because we couldnt stand the thought of being seperated, and it was our only option (it was,trust me we tried other things like sponsorship from an employer etc.) We agree that we do not think of us as married because we want to do it properly I the future.\n\nMy dilemma now is that I hate that I had to lie to my friends, I want to tell them but I feel that they will hate me for keeping it from them. it is also Important to know that I still want to be properly married, be engaged and everything but I feel that if ppl know I'm already married it won't be as special.\n\nSo reddit, please be tell me\n\nWhat would you do in my situation?\nHow would you feel knowing your best friend kept this from you?\nCould you forgive him/her?\nAny and all advice is welcomed"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit\nI need some perspective on a situation I've gotten myself into.\n\nAbout a year ago I married my husband.\nWe had known each other for only 1 year.\nOur relationship moved at a fast pace because we were forced too think about the future. He is from The UK, I am from canada. We didn't have the choice to have a normal relationship because we had to make heavy decisions about how to stay together.\nI was a full time student and could not go to the UK to be with him, he had used up allotted visas for Canada. \nWe mentioned to our close friends that we might get married to stay together. They completely turned up their noses at the idea and basically told us it was stupid. Their reaction caused me a lot of pain and confusion, I should be able to make a decision without such criticism from my best friends.\nSo we got married in private, my family was there and we recorded the ceremony for his family to watch. \nWe decided that we had gotten married strictly to stay together because we couldnt stand the thought of being seperated, and it was our only option (it was,trust me we tried other things like sponsorship from an employer etc.) We agree that we do not think of us as married because we want to do it properly I the future.\n\nMy dilemma now is that I hate that I had to lie to my friends, I want to tell them but I feel that they will hate me for keeping it from them. it is also Important to know that I still want to be properly married, be engaged and everything but I feel that if ppl know I'm already married it won't be as special.\n\nSo reddit, please be tell me\n\nWhat would you do in my situation?\nHow would you feel knowing your best friend kept this from you?\nCould you forgive him/her?\nAny and all advice is welcomed"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit\nI need some perspective on a situation I've gotten myself into.\n\nAbout a year ago I married my husband.\nWe had known each other for only 1 year.\nOur relationship moved at a fast pace because we were forced too think about the future. He is from The UK, I am from canada. We didn't have the choice to have a normal relationship because we had to make heavy decisions about how to stay together.\nI was a full time student and could not go to the UK to be with him, he had used up allotted visas for Canada. \nWe mentioned to our close friends that we might get married to stay together. They completely turned up their noses at the idea and basically told us it was stupid. Their reaction caused me a lot of pain and confusion, I should be able to make a decision without such criticism from my best friends.\nSo we got married in private, my family was there and we recorded the ceremony for his family to watch. \nWe decided that we had gotten married strictly to stay together because we couldnt stand the thought of being seperated, and it was our only option (it was,trust me we tried other things like sponsorship from an employer etc.) We agree that we do not think of us as married because we want to do it properly I the future.\n\nMy dilemma now is that I hate that I had to lie to my friends, I want to tell them but I feel that they will hate me for keeping it from them. it is also Important to know that I still want to be properly married, be engaged and everything but I feel that if ppl know I'm already married it won't be as special.\n\nSo reddit, please be tell me\n\nWhat would you do in my situation?\nHow would you feel knowing your best friend kept this from you?\nCould you forgive him/her?\nAny and all advice is welcomed"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit\nI need some perspective on a situation I've gotten myself into.\n\nAbout a year ago I married my husband.\nWe had known each other for only 1 year.\nOur relationship moved at a fast pace because we were forced too think about the future. He is from The UK, I am from canada. We didn't have the choice to have a normal relationship because we had to make heavy decisions about how to stay together.\nI was a full time student and could not go to the UK to be with him, he had used up allotted visas for Canada. \nWe mentioned to our close friends that we might get married to stay together. They completely turned up their noses at the idea and basically told us it was stupid. Their reaction caused me a lot of pain and confusion, I should be able to make a decision without such criticism from my best friends.\nSo we got married in private, my family was there and we recorded the ceremony for his family to watch. \nWe decided that we had gotten married strictly to stay together because we couldnt stand the thought of being seperated, and it was our only option (it was,trust me we tried other things like sponsorship from an employer etc.) We agree that we do not think of us as married because we want to do it properly I the future.\n\nMy dilemma now is that I hate that I had to lie to my friends, I want to tell them but I feel that they will hate me for keeping it from them. it is also Important to know that I still want to be properly married, be engaged and everything but I feel that if ppl know I'm already married it won't be as special.\n\nSo reddit, please be tell me\n\nWhat would you do in my situation?\nHow would you feel knowing your best friend kept this from you?\nCould you forgive him/her?\nAny and all advice is welcomed"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 roommates, one of their fathers owns the house (I will call him bob). Bob has not had a job for most of the time I've lived with him other than doing things on his dads properties a few times a month. His dad takes this in lieu of rent. We agreed we would split all bills evenly (1/3 each). I have been lenient on collecting money in the past and given him time to pay. He was able to get a job over the holidays to cover the past months he missed then. Recently he decided to \"move\" away to his parents house leaving everything here but his computer. \nHe has decided that he is not responsible for any bills since he only stays here 1 weekend a month or so. During the summer the utilities are pretty low and I can take a hit of 30 bucks or so. During the winter however we will have to heat his room to prevent pipes from freezing and our bills normally hover around 300. \nMe and the other roommate have tried to discuss it with him but he starts acting childish and refusing to listen.\nI've been out of the house for 3 months this year and continued paying bills because that was the deal but he seems to think he is different. I am at a loss on what to due at this point and looking for some advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 roommates, one of their fathers owns the house (I will call him bob). Bob has not had a job for most of the time I've lived with him other than doing things on his dads properties a few times a month. His dad takes this in lieu of rent. We agreed we would split all bills evenly (1/3 each). I have been lenient on collecting money in the past and given him time to pay. He was able to get a job over the holidays to cover the past months he missed then. Recently he decided to \"move\" away to his parents house leaving everything here but his computer. \nHe has decided that he is not responsible for any bills since he only stays here 1 weekend a month or so. During the summer the utilities are pretty low and I can take a hit of 30 bucks or so. During the winter however we will have to heat his room to prevent pipes from freezing and our bills normally hover around 300. \nMe and the other roommate have tried to discuss it with him but he starts acting childish and refusing to listen.\nI've been out of the house for 3 months this year and continued paying bills because that was the deal but he seems to think he is different. I am at a loss on what to due at this point and looking for some advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 roommates, one of their fathers owns the house (I will call him bob). Bob has not had a job for most of the time I've lived with him other than doing things on his dads properties a few times a month. His dad takes this in lieu of rent. We agreed we would split all bills evenly (1/3 each). I have been lenient on collecting money in the past and given him time to pay. He was able to get a job over the holidays to cover the past months he missed then. Recently he decided to \"move\" away to his parents house leaving everything here but his computer. \nHe has decided that he is not responsible for any bills since he only stays here 1 weekend a month or so. During the summer the utilities are pretty low and I can take a hit of 30 bucks or so. During the winter however we will have to heat his room to prevent pipes from freezing and our bills normally hover around 300. \nMe and the other roommate have tried to discuss it with him but he starts acting childish and refusing to listen.\nI've been out of the house for 3 months this year and continued paying bills because that was the deal but he seems to think he is different. I am at a loss on what to due at this point and looking for some advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 roommates, one of their fathers owns the house (I will call him bob). Bob has not had a job for most of the time I've lived with him other than doing things on his dads properties a few times a month. His dad takes this in lieu of rent. We agreed we would split all bills evenly (1/3 each). I have been lenient on collecting money in the past and given him time to pay. He was able to get a job over the holidays to cover the past months he missed then. Recently he decided to \"move\" away to his parents house leaving everything here but his computer. \nHe has decided that he is not responsible for any bills since he only stays here 1 weekend a month or so. During the summer the utilities are pretty low and I can take a hit of 30 bucks or so. During the winter however we will have to heat his room to prevent pipes from freezing and our bills normally hover around 300. \nMe and the other roommate have tried to discuss it with him but he starts acting childish and refusing to listen.\nI've been out of the house for 3 months this year and continued paying bills because that was the deal but he seems to think he is different. I am at a loss on what to due at this point and looking for some advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 roommates, one of their fathers owns the house (I will call him bob). Bob has not had a job for most of the time I've lived with him other than doing things on his dads properties a few times a month. His dad takes this in lieu of rent. We agreed we would split all bills evenly (1/3 each). I have been lenient on collecting money in the past and given him time to pay. He was able to get a job over the holidays to cover the past months he missed then. Recently he decided to \"move\" away to his parents house leaving everything here but his computer. \nHe has decided that he is not responsible for any bills since he only stays here 1 weekend a month or so. During the summer the utilities are pretty low and I can take a hit of 30 bucks or so. During the winter however we will have to heat his room to prevent pipes from freezing and our bills normally hover around 300. \nMe and the other roommate have tried to discuss it with him but he starts acting childish and refusing to listen.\nI've been out of the house for 3 months this year and continued paying bills because that was the deal but he seems to think he is different. I am at a loss on what to due at this point and looking for some advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 roommates, one of their fathers owns the house (I will call him bob). Bob has not had a job for most of the time I've lived with him other than doing things on his dads properties a few times a month. His dad takes this in lieu of rent. We agreed we would split all bills evenly (1/3 each). I have been lenient on collecting money in the past and given him time to pay. He was able to get a job over the holidays to cover the past months he missed then. Recently he decided to \"move\" away to his parents house leaving everything here but his computer. \nHe has decided that he is not responsible for any bills since he only stays here 1 weekend a month or so. During the summer the utilities are pretty low and I can take a hit of 30 bucks or so. During the winter however we will have to heat his room to prevent pipes from freezing and our bills normally hover around 300. \nMe and the other roommate have tried to discuss it with him but he starts acting childish and refusing to listen.\nI've been out of the house for 3 months this year and continued paying bills because that was the deal but he seems to think he is different. I am at a loss on what to due at this point and looking for some advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Posting this for my best friend in the world who can't seem to figure out how to post on reddit (she's a new lurker).\n\nShe is *23*, He is *27*\n\nHere it goes: \n\nWe have been dating for almost 5 months (btw he is my first bf), we barely see each other, \nonce a week or once in two weeks because he's busy.Since he's my first bf, I've been trying \nto understand him a lot and be patient with him.\n\nLately, he has been acting more distant and although we chat every night, it feels like he chats \nwith me out of responsibility as a boyfriend, not because he wants to talk to me.\nThe last time we met he invited me for dinner and a movie at his place, and after dinner we ended \nup having sex only, we didn't even watch a movie. He couldn't fall asleep so he ended up leaving me \nall alone in his bed while he went to the living room to do some work late at night.\n\nThat night was the first time we saw each other in 2 weeks so I understand he could have been eager \nto have sex, but when he just abandoned me just hurt so badly, and I felt like I was used, even felt \nlike I was his personal whore or something.\n\nWhat do you guys think? He usually says good night to me but he didn't even say that tonight either.I don't know. Should I break up with him? I'm going to talk to him about it first.I love him but he doesn't seem like he's really that into me.\nPlease, tell me what you guys think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Posting this for my best friend in the world who can't seem to figure out how to post on reddit (she's a new lurker).\n\nShe is *23*, He is *27*\n\nHere it goes: \n\nWe have been dating for almost 5 months (btw he is my first bf), we barely see each other, \nonce a week or once in two weeks because he's busy.Since he's my first bf, I've been trying \nto understand him a lot and be patient with him.\n\nLately, he has been acting more distant and although we chat every night, it feels like he chats \nwith me out of responsibility as a boyfriend, not because he wants to talk to me.\nThe last time we met he invited me for dinner and a movie at his place, and after dinner we ended \nup having sex only, we didn't even watch a movie. He couldn't fall asleep so he ended up leaving me \nall alone in his bed while he went to the living room to do some work late at night.\n\nThat night was the first time we saw each other in 2 weeks so I understand he could have been eager \nto have sex, but when he just abandoned me just hurt so badly, and I felt like I was used, even felt \nlike I was his personal whore or something.\n\nWhat do you guys think? He usually says good night to me but he didn't even say that tonight either.I don't know. Should I break up with him? I'm going to talk to him about it first.I love him but he doesn't seem like he's really that into me.\nPlease, tell me what you guys think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Posting this for my best friend in the world who can't seem to figure out how to post on reddit (she's a new lurker).\n\nShe is *23*, He is *27*\n\nHere it goes: \n\nWe have been dating for almost 5 months (btw he is my first bf), we barely see each other, \nonce a week or once in two weeks because he's busy.Since he's my first bf, I've been trying \nto understand him a lot and be patient with him.\n\nLately, he has been acting more distant and although we chat every night, it feels like he chats \nwith me out of responsibility as a boyfriend, not because he wants to talk to me.\nThe last time we met he invited me for dinner and a movie at his place, and after dinner we ended \nup having sex only, we didn't even watch a movie. He couldn't fall asleep so he ended up leaving me \nall alone in his bed while he went to the living room to do some work late at night.\n\nThat night was the first time we saw each other in 2 weeks so I understand he could have been eager \nto have sex, but when he just abandoned me just hurt so badly, and I felt like I was used, even felt \nlike I was his personal whore or something.\n\nWhat do you guys think? He usually says good night to me but he didn't even say that tonight either.I don't know. Should I break up with him? I'm going to talk to him about it first.I love him but he doesn't seem like he's really that into me.\nPlease, tell me what you guys think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Posting this for my best friend in the world who can't seem to figure out how to post on reddit (she's a new lurker).\n\nShe is *23*, He is *27*\n\nHere it goes: \n\nWe have been dating for almost 5 months (btw he is my first bf), we barely see each other, \nonce a week or once in two weeks because he's busy.Since he's my first bf, I've been trying \nto understand him a lot and be patient with him.\n\nLately, he has been acting more distant and although we chat every night, it feels like he chats \nwith me out of responsibility as a boyfriend, not because he wants to talk to me.\nThe last time we met he invited me for dinner and a movie at his place, and after dinner we ended \nup having sex only, we didn't even watch a movie. He couldn't fall asleep so he ended up leaving me \nall alone in his bed while he went to the living room to do some work late at night.\n\nThat night was the first time we saw each other in 2 weeks so I understand he could have been eager \nto have sex, but when he just abandoned me just hurt so badly, and I felt like I was used, even felt \nlike I was his personal whore or something.\n\nWhat do you guys think? He usually says good night to me but he didn't even say that tonight either.I don't know. Should I break up with him? I'm going to talk to him about it first.I love him but he doesn't seem like he's really that into me.\nPlease, tell me what you guys think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Posting this for my best friend in the world who can't seem to figure out how to post on reddit (she's a new lurker).\n\nShe is *23*, He is *27*\n\nHere it goes: \n\nWe have been dating for almost 5 months (btw he is my first bf), we barely see each other, \nonce a week or once in two weeks because he's busy.Since he's my first bf, I've been trying \nto understand him a lot and be patient with him.\n\nLately, he has been acting more distant and although we chat every night, it feels like he chats \nwith me out of responsibility as a boyfriend, not because he wants to talk to me.\nThe last time we met he invited me for dinner and a movie at his place, and after dinner we ended \nup having sex only, we didn't even watch a movie. He couldn't fall asleep so he ended up leaving me \nall alone in his bed while he went to the living room to do some work late at night.\n\nThat night was the first time we saw each other in 2 weeks so I understand he could have been eager \nto have sex, but when he just abandoned me just hurt so badly, and I felt like I was used, even felt \nlike I was his personal whore or something.\n\nWhat do you guys think? He usually says good night to me but he didn't even say that tonight either.I don't know. Should I break up with him? I'm going to talk to him about it first.I love him but he doesn't seem like he's really that into me.\nPlease, tell me what you guys think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Posting this for my best friend in the world who can't seem to figure out how to post on reddit (she's a new lurker).\n\nShe is *23*, He is *27*\n\nHere it goes: \n\nWe have been dating for almost 5 months (btw he is my first bf), we barely see each other, \nonce a week or once in two weeks because he's busy.Since he's my first bf, I've been trying \nto understand him a lot and be patient with him.\n\nLately, he has been acting more distant and although we chat every night, it feels like he chats \nwith me out of responsibility as a boyfriend, not because he wants to talk to me.\nThe last time we met he invited me for dinner and a movie at his place, and after dinner we ended \nup having sex only, we didn't even watch a movie. He couldn't fall asleep so he ended up leaving me \nall alone in his bed while he went to the living room to do some work late at night.\n\nThat night was the first time we saw each other in 2 weeks so I understand he could have been eager \nto have sex, but when he just abandoned me just hurt so badly, and I felt like I was used, even felt \nlike I was his personal whore or something.\n\nWhat do you guys think? He usually says good night to me but he didn't even say that tonight either.I don't know. Should I break up with him? I'm going to talk to him about it first.I love him but he doesn't seem like he's really that into me.\nPlease, tell me what you guys think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello people, i'm gonna start a few years ago:\nI met this girl (let's call her girlx) we had this big chemistry i liked her a lot (Not only physical, mostly her personality and her intelligence) we kinda went out for a bit always talking how we would be as a couple but nothing serious happened (even tho we both wanted) and that was it, we continued been friends and stuff.\n\nNow, fast forward 2 or 3 years later, i'm in a stable relationship for over a year with an amazing girl, we have our ups and downs but i'm happy with her; but, around a few months ago i found out she (girlx) was going as an expat to the netherlands, and suddenly i start remembering the things i liked about her, what we would be as a couple, our conversations, when we hanged out and all that stuff, checking her facebook profile, etc.\n\nLast night, i had a dream about girlx where we were sitting face to face talking, and i was telling her i had waited for her so long even tho before nothing happened and she had some relationships after that, and she answers me back saying she would wait for me even tho she knows i have a girlfriend at the moment and that she doesn't care she will still wait for me, and then we just hang out around the house saying cute stuff to each other trying to be close to each other.\n\nI'm so confused right now, why is this happening if i'm supposed to be happy with this relationship i'm right now? what should i do? What can i do about this? A friend told me to talk to her with a coffee and clarify stuff but she is still in the netherlands and she's not coming back until the end of the year at least; should i go with his advice tho?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello people, i'm gonna start a few years ago:\nI met this girl (let's call her girlx) we had this big chemistry i liked her a lot (Not only physical, mostly her personality and her intelligence) we kinda went out for a bit always talking how we would be as a couple but nothing serious happened (even tho we both wanted) and that was it, we continued been friends and stuff.\n\nNow, fast forward 2 or 3 years later, i'm in a stable relationship for over a year with an amazing girl, we have our ups and downs but i'm happy with her; but, around a few months ago i found out she (girlx) was going as an expat to the netherlands, and suddenly i start remembering the things i liked about her, what we would be as a couple, our conversations, when we hanged out and all that stuff, checking her facebook profile, etc.\n\nLast night, i had a dream about girlx where we were sitting face to face talking, and i was telling her i had waited for her so long even tho before nothing happened and she had some relationships after that, and she answers me back saying she would wait for me even tho she knows i have a girlfriend at the moment and that she doesn't care she will still wait for me, and then we just hang out around the house saying cute stuff to each other trying to be close to each other.\n\nI'm so confused right now, why is this happening if i'm supposed to be happy with this relationship i'm right now? what should i do? What can i do about this? A friend told me to talk to her with a coffee and clarify stuff but she is still in the netherlands and she's not coming back until the end of the year at least; should i go with his advice tho?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello people, i'm gonna start a few years ago:\nI met this girl (let's call her girlx) we had this big chemistry i liked her a lot (Not only physical, mostly her personality and her intelligence) we kinda went out for a bit always talking how we would be as a couple but nothing serious happened (even tho we both wanted) and that was it, we continued been friends and stuff.\n\nNow, fast forward 2 or 3 years later, i'm in a stable relationship for over a year with an amazing girl, we have our ups and downs but i'm happy with her; but, around a few months ago i found out she (girlx) was going as an expat to the netherlands, and suddenly i start remembering the things i liked about her, what we would be as a couple, our conversations, when we hanged out and all that stuff, checking her facebook profile, etc.\n\nLast night, i had a dream about girlx where we were sitting face to face talking, and i was telling her i had waited for her so long even tho before nothing happened and she had some relationships after that, and she answers me back saying she would wait for me even tho she knows i have a girlfriend at the moment and that she doesn't care she will still wait for me, and then we just hang out around the house saying cute stuff to each other trying to be close to each other.\n\nI'm so confused right now, why is this happening if i'm supposed to be happy with this relationship i'm right now? what should i do? What can i do about this? A friend told me to talk to her with a coffee and clarify stuff but she is still in the netherlands and she's not coming back until the end of the year at least; should i go with his advice tho?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello people, i'm gonna start a few years ago:\nI met this girl (let's call her girlx) we had this big chemistry i liked her a lot (Not only physical, mostly her personality and her intelligence) we kinda went out for a bit always talking how we would be as a couple but nothing serious happened (even tho we both wanted) and that was it, we continued been friends and stuff.\n\nNow, fast forward 2 or 3 years later, i'm in a stable relationship for over a year with an amazing girl, we have our ups and downs but i'm happy with her; but, around a few months ago i found out she (girlx) was going as an expat to the netherlands, and suddenly i start remembering the things i liked about her, what we would be as a couple, our conversations, when we hanged out and all that stuff, checking her facebook profile, etc.\n\nLast night, i had a dream about girlx where we were sitting face to face talking, and i was telling her i had waited for her so long even tho before nothing happened and she had some relationships after that, and she answers me back saying she would wait for me even tho she knows i have a girlfriend at the moment and that she doesn't care she will still wait for me, and then we just hang out around the house saying cute stuff to each other trying to be close to each other.\n\nI'm so confused right now, why is this happening if i'm supposed to be happy with this relationship i'm right now? what should i do? What can i do about this? A friend told me to talk to her with a coffee and clarify stuff but she is still in the netherlands and she's not coming back until the end of the year at least; should i go with his advice tho?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello people, i'm gonna start a few years ago:\nI met this girl (let's call her girlx) we had this big chemistry i liked her a lot (Not only physical, mostly her personality and her intelligence) we kinda went out for a bit always talking how we would be as a couple but nothing serious happened (even tho we both wanted) and that was it, we continued been friends and stuff.\n\nNow, fast forward 2 or 3 years later, i'm in a stable relationship for over a year with an amazing girl, we have our ups and downs but i'm happy with her; but, around a few months ago i found out she (girlx) was going as an expat to the netherlands, and suddenly i start remembering the things i liked about her, what we would be as a couple, our conversations, when we hanged out and all that stuff, checking her facebook profile, etc.\n\nLast night, i had a dream about girlx where we were sitting face to face talking, and i was telling her i had waited for her so long even tho before nothing happened and she had some relationships after that, and she answers me back saying she would wait for me even tho she knows i have a girlfriend at the moment and that she doesn't care she will still wait for me, and then we just hang out around the house saying cute stuff to each other trying to be close to each other.\n\nI'm so confused right now, why is this happening if i'm supposed to be happy with this relationship i'm right now? what should i do? What can i do about this? A friend told me to talk to her with a coffee and clarify stuff but she is still in the netherlands and she's not coming back until the end of the year at least; should i go with his advice tho?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello people, i'm gonna start a few years ago:\nI met this girl (let's call her girlx) we had this big chemistry i liked her a lot (Not only physical, mostly her personality and her intelligence) we kinda went out for a bit always talking how we would be as a couple but nothing serious happened (even tho we both wanted) and that was it, we continued been friends and stuff.\n\nNow, fast forward 2 or 3 years later, i'm in a stable relationship for over a year with an amazing girl, we have our ups and downs but i'm happy with her; but, around a few months ago i found out she (girlx) was going as an expat to the netherlands, and suddenly i start remembering the things i liked about her, what we would be as a couple, our conversations, when we hanged out and all that stuff, checking her facebook profile, etc.\n\nLast night, i had a dream about girlx where we were sitting face to face talking, and i was telling her i had waited for her so long even tho before nothing happened and she had some relationships after that, and she answers me back saying she would wait for me even tho she knows i have a girlfriend at the moment and that she doesn't care she will still wait for me, and then we just hang out around the house saying cute stuff to each other trying to be close to each other.\n\nI'm so confused right now, why is this happening if i'm supposed to be happy with this relationship i'm right now? what should i do? What can i do about this? A friend told me to talk to her with a coffee and clarify stuff but she is still in the netherlands and she's not coming back until the end of the year at least; should i go with his advice tho?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \n\nI posted here a few months back because I suspected my girlfriend may have been cheating. It was this post ( titled *\"She [f21] keeps taking off in the middle of the night to spend time with another guy. when do I[m20] start to worry?\"* which some people may remember.\n\nAnyway I left her because of her behaviour at the time, but I did and still do love her. Despite telling me when we split up that she would never want to be with the other guy, they are now together. She blocked me on fb, and as far as separating our finances allows I have tried to maintain NC. \n\nAnyway my problem now is that I am just curious about whether she is happy. I have been considering messaging a mutual friend who I know still hangs around with her just to ask if she is happy now.\n\nI don't intend to act on it, I'm not trying to back to her, but I still care about her, I still love her and I just want to know that she is ok.\n\nI'm assuming its a bad idea, but its just so tempting to know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \n\nI posted here a few months back because I suspected my girlfriend may have been cheating. It was this post ( titled *\"She [f21] keeps taking off in the middle of the night to spend time with another guy. when do I[m20] start to worry?\"* which some people may remember.\n\nAnyway I left her because of her behaviour at the time, but I did and still do love her. Despite telling me when we split up that she would never want to be with the other guy, they are now together. She blocked me on fb, and as far as separating our finances allows I have tried to maintain NC. \n\nAnyway my problem now is that I am just curious about whether she is happy. I have been considering messaging a mutual friend who I know still hangs around with her just to ask if she is happy now.\n\nI don't intend to act on it, I'm not trying to back to her, but I still care about her, I still love her and I just want to know that she is ok.\n\nI'm assuming its a bad idea, but its just so tempting to know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \n\nI posted here a few months back because I suspected my girlfriend may have been cheating. It was this post ( titled *\"She [f21] keeps taking off in the middle of the night to spend time with another guy. when do I[m20] start to worry?\"* which some people may remember.\n\nAnyway I left her because of her behaviour at the time, but I did and still do love her. Despite telling me when we split up that she would never want to be with the other guy, they are now together. She blocked me on fb, and as far as separating our finances allows I have tried to maintain NC. \n\nAnyway my problem now is that I am just curious about whether she is happy. I have been considering messaging a mutual friend who I know still hangs around with her just to ask if she is happy now.\n\nI don't intend to act on it, I'm not trying to back to her, but I still care about her, I still love her and I just want to know that she is ok.\n\nI'm assuming its a bad idea, but its just so tempting to know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \n\nI posted here a few months back because I suspected my girlfriend may have been cheating. It was this post ( titled *\"She [f21] keeps taking off in the middle of the night to spend time with another guy. when do I[m20] start to worry?\"* which some people may remember.\n\nAnyway I left her because of her behaviour at the time, but I did and still do love her. Despite telling me when we split up that she would never want to be with the other guy, they are now together. She blocked me on fb, and as far as separating our finances allows I have tried to maintain NC. \n\nAnyway my problem now is that I am just curious about whether she is happy. I have been considering messaging a mutual friend who I know still hangs around with her just to ask if she is happy now.\n\nI don't intend to act on it, I'm not trying to back to her, but I still care about her, I still love her and I just want to know that she is ok.\n\nI'm assuming its a bad idea, but its just so tempting to know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \n\nI posted here a few months back because I suspected my girlfriend may have been cheating. It was this post ( titled *\"She [f21] keeps taking off in the middle of the night to spend time with another guy. when do I[m20] start to worry?\"* which some people may remember.\n\nAnyway I left her because of her behaviour at the time, but I did and still do love her. Despite telling me when we split up that she would never want to be with the other guy, they are now together. She blocked me on fb, and as far as separating our finances allows I have tried to maintain NC. \n\nAnyway my problem now is that I am just curious about whether she is happy. I have been considering messaging a mutual friend who I know still hangs around with her just to ask if she is happy now.\n\nI don't intend to act on it, I'm not trying to back to her, but I still care about her, I still love her and I just want to know that she is ok.\n\nI'm assuming its a bad idea, but its just so tempting to know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \n\nI posted here a few months back because I suspected my girlfriend may have been cheating. It was this post ( titled *\"She [f21] keeps taking off in the middle of the night to spend time with another guy. when do I[m20] start to worry?\"* which some people may remember.\n\nAnyway I left her because of her behaviour at the time, but I did and still do love her. Despite telling me when we split up that she would never want to be with the other guy, they are now together. She blocked me on fb, and as far as separating our finances allows I have tried to maintain NC. \n\nAnyway my problem now is that I am just curious about whether she is happy. I have been considering messaging a mutual friend who I know still hangs around with her just to ask if she is happy now.\n\nI don't intend to act on it, I'm not trying to back to her, but I still care about her, I still love her and I just want to know that she is ok.\n\nI'm assuming its a bad idea, but its just so tempting to know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Gf and I dated for Four years in total but Two years ago had a separation that lasted Over a month .\nThree Days ago we got into an argument because while i was at work her mother had messaged and told me she was in the hospital . I did not see this until i got off of work at midnight. By the time I got home My Gf Sent me a text saying she had a pulled muscle that it hurt but she would be ok . So the next day I sent her a message saying I had went to the store that day to Run errands and picked up some new work stuff.\n\n \nNo response until the following day she sent me A very harsh message asking why the hell didn't I ask her how she was feeling and asking me \"what my problem was\" I told her that she had Said she pulled something but was fine . She continued to berate me over messages for about an hour . \n\nThen I finally said that I have been too every appointment and visit over the past 4 years. That this time i was at work and didn't have my phone.\n\nI then said I don't want to deal with this because my little sister tried to commit suicide about a week ago and now she is in a facility to help her so I have had a lot on my mind.\n\nShe gets even more angry and says whatever guess your problems are more important . Then stopped talking to me. I wait a day or so, so she could cool down but today i received my clothes in the mail and my necklaces not letter no anything . This is what she did last time we had a break up only last time it was over me missing going out with he family to a dinner . Because it was midterms . No call no message no letter just my necklaces and her keys to the house in a box that was mailed too me . Again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Gf and I dated for Four years in total but Two years ago had a separation that lasted Over a month .\nThree Days ago we got into an argument because while i was at work her mother had messaged and told me she was in the hospital . I did not see this until i got off of work at midnight. By the time I got home My Gf Sent me a text saying she had a pulled muscle that it hurt but she would be ok . So the next day I sent her a message saying I had went to the store that day to Run errands and picked up some new work stuff.\n\n \nNo response until the following day she sent me A very harsh message asking why the hell didn't I ask her how she was feeling and asking me \"what my problem was\" I told her that she had Said she pulled something but was fine . She continued to berate me over messages for about an hour . \n\nThen I finally said that I have been too every appointment and visit over the past 4 years. That this time i was at work and didn't have my phone.\n\nI then said I don't want to deal with this because my little sister tried to commit suicide about a week ago and now she is in a facility to help her so I have had a lot on my mind.\n\nShe gets even more angry and says whatever guess your problems are more important . Then stopped talking to me. I wait a day or so, so she could cool down but today i received my clothes in the mail and my necklaces not letter no anything . This is what she did last time we had a break up only last time it was over me missing going out with he family to a dinner . Because it was midterms . No call no message no letter just my necklaces and her keys to the house in a box that was mailed too me . Again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Gf and I dated for Four years in total but Two years ago had a separation that lasted Over a month .\nThree Days ago we got into an argument because while i was at work her mother had messaged and told me she was in the hospital . I did not see this until i got off of work at midnight. By the time I got home My Gf Sent me a text saying she had a pulled muscle that it hurt but she would be ok . So the next day I sent her a message saying I had went to the store that day to Run errands and picked up some new work stuff.\n\n \nNo response until the following day she sent me A very harsh message asking why the hell didn't I ask her how she was feeling and asking me \"what my problem was\" I told her that she had Said she pulled something but was fine . She continued to berate me over messages for about an hour . \n\nThen I finally said that I have been too every appointment and visit over the past 4 years. That this time i was at work and didn't have my phone.\n\nI then said I don't want to deal with this because my little sister tried to commit suicide about a week ago and now she is in a facility to help her so I have had a lot on my mind.\n\nShe gets even more angry and says whatever guess your problems are more important . Then stopped talking to me. I wait a day or so, so she could cool down but today i received my clothes in the mail and my necklaces not letter no anything . This is what she did last time we had a break up only last time it was over me missing going out with he family to a dinner . Because it was midterms . No call no message no letter just my necklaces and her keys to the house in a box that was mailed too me . Again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Gf and I dated for Four years in total but Two years ago had a separation that lasted Over a month .\nThree Days ago we got into an argument because while i was at work her mother had messaged and told me she was in the hospital . I did not see this until i got off of work at midnight. By the time I got home My Gf Sent me a text saying she had a pulled muscle that it hurt but she would be ok . So the next day I sent her a message saying I had went to the store that day to Run errands and picked up some new work stuff.\n\n \nNo response until the following day she sent me A very harsh message asking why the hell didn't I ask her how she was feeling and asking me \"what my problem was\" I told her that she had Said she pulled something but was fine . She continued to berate me over messages for about an hour . \n\nThen I finally said that I have been too every appointment and visit over the past 4 years. That this time i was at work and didn't have my phone.\n\nI then said I don't want to deal with this because my little sister tried to commit suicide about a week ago and now she is in a facility to help her so I have had a lot on my mind.\n\nShe gets even more angry and says whatever guess your problems are more important . Then stopped talking to me. I wait a day or so, so she could cool down but today i received my clothes in the mail and my necklaces not letter no anything . This is what she did last time we had a break up only last time it was over me missing going out with he family to a dinner . Because it was midterms . No call no message no letter just my necklaces and her keys to the house in a box that was mailed too me . Again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Gf and I dated for Four years in total but Two years ago had a separation that lasted Over a month .\nThree Days ago we got into an argument because while i was at work her mother had messaged and told me she was in the hospital . I did not see this until i got off of work at midnight. By the time I got home My Gf Sent me a text saying she had a pulled muscle that it hurt but she would be ok . So the next day I sent her a message saying I had went to the store that day to Run errands and picked up some new work stuff.\n\n \nNo response until the following day she sent me A very harsh message asking why the hell didn't I ask her how she was feeling and asking me \"what my problem was\" I told her that she had Said she pulled something but was fine . She continued to berate me over messages for about an hour . \n\nThen I finally said that I have been too every appointment and visit over the past 4 years. That this time i was at work and didn't have my phone.\n\nI then said I don't want to deal with this because my little sister tried to commit suicide about a week ago and now she is in a facility to help her so I have had a lot on my mind.\n\nShe gets even more angry and says whatever guess your problems are more important . Then stopped talking to me. I wait a day or so, so she could cool down but today i received my clothes in the mail and my necklaces not letter no anything . This is what she did last time we had a break up only last time it was over me missing going out with he family to a dinner . Because it was midterms . No call no message no letter just my necklaces and her keys to the house in a box that was mailed too me . Again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Gf and I dated for Four years in total but Two years ago had a separation that lasted Over a month .\nThree Days ago we got into an argument because while i was at work her mother had messaged and told me she was in the hospital . I did not see this until i got off of work at midnight. By the time I got home My Gf Sent me a text saying she had a pulled muscle that it hurt but she would be ok . So the next day I sent her a message saying I had went to the store that day to Run errands and picked up some new work stuff.\n\n \nNo response until the following day she sent me A very harsh message asking why the hell didn't I ask her how she was feeling and asking me \"what my problem was\" I told her that she had Said she pulled something but was fine . She continued to berate me over messages for about an hour . \n\nThen I finally said that I have been too every appointment and visit over the past 4 years. That this time i was at work and didn't have my phone.\n\nI then said I don't want to deal with this because my little sister tried to commit suicide about a week ago and now she is in a facility to help her so I have had a lot on my mind.\n\nShe gets even more angry and says whatever guess your problems are more important . Then stopped talking to me. I wait a day or so, so she could cool down but today i received my clothes in the mail and my necklaces not letter no anything . This is what she did last time we had a break up only last time it was over me missing going out with he family to a dinner . Because it was midterms . No call no message no letter just my necklaces and her keys to the house in a box that was mailed too me . Again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship has developed over time. We met on online dating and have slowly progressed over 6 months or so to being in a relationship. The relationship has been happy and healthy. BUT, last night I had strong feelings of jealousy about her relationship with a close friend.\n\nSince the beginning of us dating she has been absolutely straightforward with how close she is with a number of friends and we have been introduced and got on well. However, in a conversation yesterday we were discussing bromances and she described her relationship with a friend as kind of like a romance. When we discussed later she explained their history which is a bit more complicated. They had been (kind of independently) hooking up (casually) and having an intense friendship in the months preceeding when we started dating. During this period she had been seeking his approval and \"wanted to be loved\" by him despite knowing that a relationship would be bad. This feeling somewhat continues to this day and about 6 months into our relationship. They see each other regularly and have a deep friendship, she stays at his regularly.\n\nI have always respected her friendships and not questioned things (as it has been matter of facg since the start). In fact, untill now I have not felt weird about it in any way. However, she has explained how she is \"torn\" and still seeking his attention and approval. She agreed that it fitted into the narrative of me: 'straight forward, healthy, right thing to do' and him 'unhealthy but exciting'. This troubles me, despite the good aspects of our relationship.\n\nShe has also stated that due to her feeling trapped by relationships she is deciding to be exclusive with me rather than it being a thing which \"is a rule\". On paper I am fine with this but would be unable to maintain the relationship if she did decide to get intimacy elsewhere (to some extent she does it anyway, just not sexually).\n\nWhat would I like?\n\nSomeone to tell me what to do!\n\nWhy did I post?\n\nI don't know but it has been useful to write it down!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship has developed over time. We met on online dating and have slowly progressed over 6 months or so to being in a relationship. The relationship has been happy and healthy. BUT, last night I had strong feelings of jealousy about her relationship with a close friend.\n\nSince the beginning of us dating she has been absolutely straightforward with how close she is with a number of friends and we have been introduced and got on well. However, in a conversation yesterday we were discussing bromances and she described her relationship with a friend as kind of like a romance. When we discussed later she explained their history which is a bit more complicated. They had been (kind of independently) hooking up (casually) and having an intense friendship in the months preceeding when we started dating. During this period she had been seeking his approval and \"wanted to be loved\" by him despite knowing that a relationship would be bad. This feeling somewhat continues to this day and about 6 months into our relationship. They see each other regularly and have a deep friendship, she stays at his regularly.\n\nI have always respected her friendships and not questioned things (as it has been matter of facg since the start). In fact, untill now I have not felt weird about it in any way. However, she has explained how she is \"torn\" and still seeking his attention and approval. She agreed that it fitted into the narrative of me: 'straight forward, healthy, right thing to do' and him 'unhealthy but exciting'. This troubles me, despite the good aspects of our relationship.\n\nShe has also stated that due to her feeling trapped by relationships she is deciding to be exclusive with me rather than it being a thing which \"is a rule\". On paper I am fine with this but would be unable to maintain the relationship if she did decide to get intimacy elsewhere (to some extent she does it anyway, just not sexually).\n\nWhat would I like?\n\nSomeone to tell me what to do!\n\nWhy did I post?\n\nI don't know but it has been useful to write it down!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship has developed over time. We met on online dating and have slowly progressed over 6 months or so to being in a relationship. The relationship has been happy and healthy. BUT, last night I had strong feelings of jealousy about her relationship with a close friend.\n\nSince the beginning of us dating she has been absolutely straightforward with how close she is with a number of friends and we have been introduced and got on well. However, in a conversation yesterday we were discussing bromances and she described her relationship with a friend as kind of like a romance. When we discussed later she explained their history which is a bit more complicated. They had been (kind of independently) hooking up (casually) and having an intense friendship in the months preceeding when we started dating. During this period she had been seeking his approval and \"wanted to be loved\" by him despite knowing that a relationship would be bad. This feeling somewhat continues to this day and about 6 months into our relationship. They see each other regularly and have a deep friendship, she stays at his regularly.\n\nI have always respected her friendships and not questioned things (as it has been matter of facg since the start). In fact, untill now I have not felt weird about it in any way. However, she has explained how she is \"torn\" and still seeking his attention and approval. She agreed that it fitted into the narrative of me: 'straight forward, healthy, right thing to do' and him 'unhealthy but exciting'. This troubles me, despite the good aspects of our relationship.\n\nShe has also stated that due to her feeling trapped by relationships she is deciding to be exclusive with me rather than it being a thing which \"is a rule\". On paper I am fine with this but would be unable to maintain the relationship if she did decide to get intimacy elsewhere (to some extent she does it anyway, just not sexually).\n\nWhat would I like?\n\nSomeone to tell me what to do!\n\nWhy did I post?\n\nI don't know but it has been useful to write it down!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship has developed over time. We met on online dating and have slowly progressed over 6 months or so to being in a relationship. The relationship has been happy and healthy. BUT, last night I had strong feelings of jealousy about her relationship with a close friend.\n\nSince the beginning of us dating she has been absolutely straightforward with how close she is with a number of friends and we have been introduced and got on well. However, in a conversation yesterday we were discussing bromances and she described her relationship with a friend as kind of like a romance. When we discussed later she explained their history which is a bit more complicated. They had been (kind of independently) hooking up (casually) and having an intense friendship in the months preceeding when we started dating. During this period she had been seeking his approval and \"wanted to be loved\" by him despite knowing that a relationship would be bad. This feeling somewhat continues to this day and about 6 months into our relationship. They see each other regularly and have a deep friendship, she stays at his regularly.\n\nI have always respected her friendships and not questioned things (as it has been matter of facg since the start). In fact, untill now I have not felt weird about it in any way. However, she has explained how she is \"torn\" and still seeking his attention and approval. She agreed that it fitted into the narrative of me: 'straight forward, healthy, right thing to do' and him 'unhealthy but exciting'. This troubles me, despite the good aspects of our relationship.\n\nShe has also stated that due to her feeling trapped by relationships she is deciding to be exclusive with me rather than it being a thing which \"is a rule\". On paper I am fine with this but would be unable to maintain the relationship if she did decide to get intimacy elsewhere (to some extent she does it anyway, just not sexually).\n\nWhat would I like?\n\nSomeone to tell me what to do!\n\nWhy did I post?\n\nI don't know but it has been useful to write it down!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship has developed over time. We met on online dating and have slowly progressed over 6 months or so to being in a relationship. The relationship has been happy and healthy. BUT, last night I had strong feelings of jealousy about her relationship with a close friend.\n\nSince the beginning of us dating she has been absolutely straightforward with how close she is with a number of friends and we have been introduced and got on well. However, in a conversation yesterday we were discussing bromances and she described her relationship with a friend as kind of like a romance. When we discussed later she explained their history which is a bit more complicated. They had been (kind of independently) hooking up (casually) and having an intense friendship in the months preceeding when we started dating. During this period she had been seeking his approval and \"wanted to be loved\" by him despite knowing that a relationship would be bad. This feeling somewhat continues to this day and about 6 months into our relationship. They see each other regularly and have a deep friendship, she stays at his regularly.\n\nI have always respected her friendships and not questioned things (as it has been matter of facg since the start). In fact, untill now I have not felt weird about it in any way. However, she has explained how she is \"torn\" and still seeking his attention and approval. She agreed that it fitted into the narrative of me: 'straight forward, healthy, right thing to do' and him 'unhealthy but exciting'. This troubles me, despite the good aspects of our relationship.\n\nShe has also stated that due to her feeling trapped by relationships she is deciding to be exclusive with me rather than it being a thing which \"is a rule\". On paper I am fine with this but would be unable to maintain the relationship if she did decide to get intimacy elsewhere (to some extent she does it anyway, just not sexually).\n\nWhat would I like?\n\nSomeone to tell me what to do!\n\nWhy did I post?\n\nI don't know but it has been useful to write it down!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationship has developed over time. We met on online dating and have slowly progressed over 6 months or so to being in a relationship. The relationship has been happy and healthy. BUT, last night I had strong feelings of jealousy about her relationship with a close friend.\n\nSince the beginning of us dating she has been absolutely straightforward with how close she is with a number of friends and we have been introduced and got on well. However, in a conversation yesterday we were discussing bromances and she described her relationship with a friend as kind of like a romance. When we discussed later she explained their history which is a bit more complicated. They had been (kind of independently) hooking up (casually) and having an intense friendship in the months preceeding when we started dating. During this period she had been seeking his approval and \"wanted to be loved\" by him despite knowing that a relationship would be bad. This feeling somewhat continues to this day and about 6 months into our relationship. They see each other regularly and have a deep friendship, she stays at his regularly.\n\nI have always respected her friendships and not questioned things (as it has been matter of facg since the start). In fact, untill now I have not felt weird about it in any way. However, she has explained how she is \"torn\" and still seeking his attention and approval. She agreed that it fitted into the narrative of me: 'straight forward, healthy, right thing to do' and him 'unhealthy but exciting'. This troubles me, despite the good aspects of our relationship.\n\nShe has also stated that due to her feeling trapped by relationships she is deciding to be exclusive with me rather than it being a thing which \"is a rule\". On paper I am fine with this but would be unable to maintain the relationship if she did decide to get intimacy elsewhere (to some extent she does it anyway, just not sexually).\n\nWhat would I like?\n\nSomeone to tell me what to do!\n\nWhy did I post?\n\nI don't know but it has been useful to write it down!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been talking to this girl for a month now, got her number about 2 weeks ago and since then I've texted her quite a lot and we ended up hanging out on Valentine's Day. She seemed interested when we chilled and I thought to ask her to chill again this weekend.\n\nBut recently she has been kind of ignoring me at school (still talks to me if I talk to her directly) and she started to not end up texting me back during conversations (she usually told me she was leaving before). And to top it off I called her a few days ago and we talked for about an hour and when she went to end the call she told me she had to go and before I could finish my sentence to say goodbye she just ended the call.\n\nI might just be overreacting but I want to text her and ask if she's lost interest or just annoyed by me and I need advice on what you think she wants. Also on if I should text her and if yes then what."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been talking to this girl for a month now, got her number about 2 weeks ago and since then I've texted her quite a lot and we ended up hanging out on Valentine's Day. She seemed interested when we chilled and I thought to ask her to chill again this weekend.\n\nBut recently she has been kind of ignoring me at school (still talks to me if I talk to her directly) and she started to not end up texting me back during conversations (she usually told me she was leaving before). And to top it off I called her a few days ago and we talked for about an hour and when she went to end the call she told me she had to go and before I could finish my sentence to say goodbye she just ended the call.\n\nI might just be overreacting but I want to text her and ask if she's lost interest or just annoyed by me and I need advice on what you think she wants. Also on if I should text her and if yes then what."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been talking to this girl for a month now, got her number about 2 weeks ago and since then I've texted her quite a lot and we ended up hanging out on Valentine's Day. She seemed interested when we chilled and I thought to ask her to chill again this weekend.\n\nBut recently she has been kind of ignoring me at school (still talks to me if I talk to her directly) and she started to not end up texting me back during conversations (she usually told me she was leaving before). And to top it off I called her a few days ago and we talked for about an hour and when she went to end the call she told me she had to go and before I could finish my sentence to say goodbye she just ended the call.\n\nI might just be overreacting but I want to text her and ask if she's lost interest or just annoyed by me and I need advice on what you think she wants. Also on if I should text her and if yes then what."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been talking to this girl for a month now, got her number about 2 weeks ago and since then I've texted her quite a lot and we ended up hanging out on Valentine's Day. She seemed interested when we chilled and I thought to ask her to chill again this weekend.\n\nBut recently she has been kind of ignoring me at school (still talks to me if I talk to her directly) and she started to not end up texting me back during conversations (she usually told me she was leaving before). And to top it off I called her a few days ago and we talked for about an hour and when she went to end the call she told me she had to go and before I could finish my sentence to say goodbye she just ended the call.\n\nI might just be overreacting but I want to text her and ask if she's lost interest or just annoyed by me and I need advice on what you think she wants. Also on if I should text her and if yes then what."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been talking to this girl for a month now, got her number about 2 weeks ago and since then I've texted her quite a lot and we ended up hanging out on Valentine's Day. She seemed interested when we chilled and I thought to ask her to chill again this weekend.\n\nBut recently she has been kind of ignoring me at school (still talks to me if I talk to her directly) and she started to not end up texting me back during conversations (she usually told me she was leaving before). And to top it off I called her a few days ago and we talked for about an hour and when she went to end the call she told me she had to go and before I could finish my sentence to say goodbye she just ended the call.\n\nI might just be overreacting but I want to text her and ask if she's lost interest or just annoyed by me and I need advice on what you think she wants. Also on if I should text her and if yes then what."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been talking to this girl for a month now, got her number about 2 weeks ago and since then I've texted her quite a lot and we ended up hanging out on Valentine's Day. She seemed interested when we chilled and I thought to ask her to chill again this weekend.\n\nBut recently she has been kind of ignoring me at school (still talks to me if I talk to her directly) and she started to not end up texting me back during conversations (she usually told me she was leaving before). And to top it off I called her a few days ago and we talked for about an hour and when she went to end the call she told me she had to go and before I could finish my sentence to say goodbye she just ended the call.\n\nI might just be overreacting but I want to text her and ask if she's lost interest or just annoyed by me and I need advice on what you think she wants. Also on if I should text her and if yes then what."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so, a new semester of university for me has started and, by cheer luck, I ended up sitting beside an attractive girl who's my type. We got to talking and just recently, I not only managed to get her number but she also agreed to meeting up and going over the classes material for an upcoming test.\n\nNow, my question is, how should I handle this? *If she's single* (I say if because I have yet to determine if she's single or not but I have my suspicions), I want to know what I should be looking for during this studying session. Ultimately, I want to see how far I can push things, be it a romantic relationship or just a good friendship.\n\nThat being said, during the study session, what should I do to subtly tell her I might be interested? What should I be looking for in her behavior? Signs that she's having a good time? That she doesn't want to be here? That she might be interested for more?\n\nI know it only a study session but, I plan to have a couple following that (within the same week) and, after that, based on how I feel about the situation, I'll ask her if we could go out in a setting outside of campus. Before that though, again, I need to judge in order to see just how far I have a shot with this. \n\nAnd, before some of you point this out, I know my top priority should figure out if she's single or not. I have my suspicions that she isn't based on things I've seen and heard (out of context, mind you) so there is a possibility I could simply be paranoid. \n\nSo, any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so, a new semester of university for me has started and, by cheer luck, I ended up sitting beside an attractive girl who's my type. We got to talking and just recently, I not only managed to get her number but she also agreed to meeting up and going over the classes material for an upcoming test.\n\nNow, my question is, how should I handle this? *If she's single* (I say if because I have yet to determine if she's single or not but I have my suspicions), I want to know what I should be looking for during this studying session. Ultimately, I want to see how far I can push things, be it a romantic relationship or just a good friendship.\n\nThat being said, during the study session, what should I do to subtly tell her I might be interested? What should I be looking for in her behavior? Signs that she's having a good time? That she doesn't want to be here? That she might be interested for more?\n\nI know it only a study session but, I plan to have a couple following that (within the same week) and, after that, based on how I feel about the situation, I'll ask her if we could go out in a setting outside of campus. Before that though, again, I need to judge in order to see just how far I have a shot with this. \n\nAnd, before some of you point this out, I know my top priority should figure out if she's single or not. I have my suspicions that she isn't based on things I've seen and heard (out of context, mind you) so there is a possibility I could simply be paranoid. \n\nSo, any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so, a new semester of university for me has started and, by cheer luck, I ended up sitting beside an attractive girl who's my type. We got to talking and just recently, I not only managed to get her number but she also agreed to meeting up and going over the classes material for an upcoming test.\n\nNow, my question is, how should I handle this? *If she's single* (I say if because I have yet to determine if she's single or not but I have my suspicions), I want to know what I should be looking for during this studying session. Ultimately, I want to see how far I can push things, be it a romantic relationship or just a good friendship.\n\nThat being said, during the study session, what should I do to subtly tell her I might be interested? What should I be looking for in her behavior? Signs that she's having a good time? That she doesn't want to be here? That she might be interested for more?\n\nI know it only a study session but, I plan to have a couple following that (within the same week) and, after that, based on how I feel about the situation, I'll ask her if we could go out in a setting outside of campus. Before that though, again, I need to judge in order to see just how far I have a shot with this. \n\nAnd, before some of you point this out, I know my top priority should figure out if she's single or not. I have my suspicions that she isn't based on things I've seen and heard (out of context, mind you) so there is a possibility I could simply be paranoid. \n\nSo, any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so, a new semester of university for me has started and, by cheer luck, I ended up sitting beside an attractive girl who's my type. We got to talking and just recently, I not only managed to get her number but she also agreed to meeting up and going over the classes material for an upcoming test.\n\nNow, my question is, how should I handle this? *If she's single* (I say if because I have yet to determine if she's single or not but I have my suspicions), I want to know what I should be looking for during this studying session. Ultimately, I want to see how far I can push things, be it a romantic relationship or just a good friendship.\n\nThat being said, during the study session, what should I do to subtly tell her I might be interested? What should I be looking for in her behavior? Signs that she's having a good time? That she doesn't want to be here? That she might be interested for more?\n\nI know it only a study session but, I plan to have a couple following that (within the same week) and, after that, based on how I feel about the situation, I'll ask her if we could go out in a setting outside of campus. Before that though, again, I need to judge in order to see just how far I have a shot with this. \n\nAnd, before some of you point this out, I know my top priority should figure out if she's single or not. I have my suspicions that she isn't based on things I've seen and heard (out of context, mind you) so there is a possibility I could simply be paranoid. \n\nSo, any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so, a new semester of university for me has started and, by cheer luck, I ended up sitting beside an attractive girl who's my type. We got to talking and just recently, I not only managed to get her number but she also agreed to meeting up and going over the classes material for an upcoming test.\n\nNow, my question is, how should I handle this? *If she's single* (I say if because I have yet to determine if she's single or not but I have my suspicions), I want to know what I should be looking for during this studying session. Ultimately, I want to see how far I can push things, be it a romantic relationship or just a good friendship.\n\nThat being said, during the study session, what should I do to subtly tell her I might be interested? What should I be looking for in her behavior? Signs that she's having a good time? That she doesn't want to be here? That she might be interested for more?\n\nI know it only a study session but, I plan to have a couple following that (within the same week) and, after that, based on how I feel about the situation, I'll ask her if we could go out in a setting outside of campus. Before that though, again, I need to judge in order to see just how far I have a shot with this. \n\nAnd, before some of you point this out, I know my top priority should figure out if she's single or not. I have my suspicions that she isn't based on things I've seen and heard (out of context, mind you) so there is a possibility I could simply be paranoid. \n\nSo, any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so, a new semester of university for me has started and, by cheer luck, I ended up sitting beside an attractive girl who's my type. We got to talking and just recently, I not only managed to get her number but she also agreed to meeting up and going over the classes material for an upcoming test.\n\nNow, my question is, how should I handle this? *If she's single* (I say if because I have yet to determine if she's single or not but I have my suspicions), I want to know what I should be looking for during this studying session. Ultimately, I want to see how far I can push things, be it a romantic relationship or just a good friendship.\n\nThat being said, during the study session, what should I do to subtly tell her I might be interested? What should I be looking for in her behavior? Signs that she's having a good time? That she doesn't want to be here? That she might be interested for more?\n\nI know it only a study session but, I plan to have a couple following that (within the same week) and, after that, based on how I feel about the situation, I'll ask her if we could go out in a setting outside of campus. Before that though, again, I need to judge in order to see just how far I have a shot with this. \n\nAnd, before some of you point this out, I know my top priority should figure out if she's single or not. I have my suspicions that she isn't based on things I've seen and heard (out of context, mind you) so there is a possibility I could simply be paranoid. \n\nSo, any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He met a girl a few weeks ago. He told me that she confessed attraction for him and that he told her he had a girlfriend and wanted nothing more than friendship with her. He said that he wasn't attracted to her and that, when she asked what he was doing while he was with me, he would be sure to throw in that he was with his girlfriend in order to try to reaffirm the fact he's unavailable. \n\nRecently I had been feeling very nervous around him, and it felt like he was hiding something. He told me that, during the week we weren't together, he went on a date with her. He assures me nothing happened. I asked what else he was lying about, and he said nothing. After hours of him saying \"Well, I wasn't being honest when I said _, but that's all,\" (slowly adding to the list of lies), it came out that none of what he said was true.\n\n* She doesn't know he has a girlfriend.\n* He's attracted to her, and he has told her.\n* They hang out alone (in date-type situations, and he was denying it to me.\n* He claims to not want to do anything with her.\n\nI am not sure what to do. I'm very angry and hurt. He says he is going to tell her about me, and even mentioned being fine with never talking to her or seeing her again. Any advice would be really lovely."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He met a girl a few weeks ago. He told me that she confessed attraction for him and that he told her he had a girlfriend and wanted nothing more than friendship with her. He said that he wasn't attracted to her and that, when she asked what he was doing while he was with me, he would be sure to throw in that he was with his girlfriend in order to try to reaffirm the fact he's unavailable. \n\nRecently I had been feeling very nervous around him, and it felt like he was hiding something. He told me that, during the week we weren't together, he went on a date with her. He assures me nothing happened. I asked what else he was lying about, and he said nothing. After hours of him saying \"Well, I wasn't being honest when I said _, but that's all,\" (slowly adding to the list of lies), it came out that none of what he said was true.\n\n* She doesn't know he has a girlfriend.\n* He's attracted to her, and he has told her.\n* They hang out alone (in date-type situations, and he was denying it to me.\n* He claims to not want to do anything with her.\n\nI am not sure what to do. I'm very angry and hurt. He says he is going to tell her about me, and even mentioned being fine with never talking to her or seeing her again. Any advice would be really lovely."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He met a girl a few weeks ago. He told me that she confessed attraction for him and that he told her he had a girlfriend and wanted nothing more than friendship with her. He said that he wasn't attracted to her and that, when she asked what he was doing while he was with me, he would be sure to throw in that he was with his girlfriend in order to try to reaffirm the fact he's unavailable. \n\nRecently I had been feeling very nervous around him, and it felt like he was hiding something. He told me that, during the week we weren't together, he went on a date with her. He assures me nothing happened. I asked what else he was lying about, and he said nothing. After hours of him saying \"Well, I wasn't being honest when I said _, but that's all,\" (slowly adding to the list of lies), it came out that none of what he said was true.\n\n* She doesn't know he has a girlfriend.\n* He's attracted to her, and he has told her.\n* They hang out alone (in date-type situations, and he was denying it to me.\n* He claims to not want to do anything with her.\n\nI am not sure what to do. I'm very angry and hurt. He says he is going to tell her about me, and even mentioned being fine with never talking to her or seeing her again. Any advice would be really lovely."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He met a girl a few weeks ago. He told me that she confessed attraction for him and that he told her he had a girlfriend and wanted nothing more than friendship with her. He said that he wasn't attracted to her and that, when she asked what he was doing while he was with me, he would be sure to throw in that he was with his girlfriend in order to try to reaffirm the fact he's unavailable. \n\nRecently I had been feeling very nervous around him, and it felt like he was hiding something. He told me that, during the week we weren't together, he went on a date with her. He assures me nothing happened. I asked what else he was lying about, and he said nothing. After hours of him saying \"Well, I wasn't being honest when I said _, but that's all,\" (slowly adding to the list of lies), it came out that none of what he said was true.\n\n* She doesn't know he has a girlfriend.\n* He's attracted to her, and he has told her.\n* They hang out alone (in date-type situations, and he was denying it to me.\n* He claims to not want to do anything with her.\n\nI am not sure what to do. I'm very angry and hurt. He says he is going to tell her about me, and even mentioned being fine with never talking to her or seeing her again. Any advice would be really lovely."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He met a girl a few weeks ago. He told me that she confessed attraction for him and that he told her he had a girlfriend and wanted nothing more than friendship with her. He said that he wasn't attracted to her and that, when she asked what he was doing while he was with me, he would be sure to throw in that he was with his girlfriend in order to try to reaffirm the fact he's unavailable. \n\nRecently I had been feeling very nervous around him, and it felt like he was hiding something. He told me that, during the week we weren't together, he went on a date with her. He assures me nothing happened. I asked what else he was lying about, and he said nothing. After hours of him saying \"Well, I wasn't being honest when I said _, but that's all,\" (slowly adding to the list of lies), it came out that none of what he said was true.\n\n* She doesn't know he has a girlfriend.\n* He's attracted to her, and he has told her.\n* They hang out alone (in date-type situations, and he was denying it to me.\n* He claims to not want to do anything with her.\n\nI am not sure what to do. I'm very angry and hurt. He says he is going to tell her about me, and even mentioned being fine with never talking to her or seeing her again. Any advice would be really lovely."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He met a girl a few weeks ago. He told me that she confessed attraction for him and that he told her he had a girlfriend and wanted nothing more than friendship with her. He said that he wasn't attracted to her and that, when she asked what he was doing while he was with me, he would be sure to throw in that he was with his girlfriend in order to try to reaffirm the fact he's unavailable. \n\nRecently I had been feeling very nervous around him, and it felt like he was hiding something. He told me that, during the week we weren't together, he went on a date with her. He assures me nothing happened. I asked what else he was lying about, and he said nothing. After hours of him saying \"Well, I wasn't being honest when I said _, but that's all,\" (slowly adding to the list of lies), it came out that none of what he said was true.\n\n* She doesn't know he has a girlfriend.\n* He's attracted to her, and he has told her.\n* They hang out alone (in date-type situations, and he was denying it to me.\n* He claims to not want to do anything with her.\n\nI am not sure what to do. I'm very angry and hurt. He says he is going to tell her about me, and even mentioned being fine with never talking to her or seeing her again. Any advice would be really lovely."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First things first - yes we're teenagers, young and immature or whatever. Please help me out anyways ok? \n\nSo. There was this girl I had a crush on since freshman year of high school. We have been really good friends since then and she means a lot to me. This summer I decided nothing was going to happen, because it had already been over a year and nothing happened. \n\nAfter I made this decision, I met another girl over summer. She was really pretty, and I got her number. I asked her out, and we've been together for a little over two months. (Now, I also know this is not a long relationship. I understand that.) I love her. She's been amazing to me, so nice and caring and just seems like the perfect girl.\n\nBut I have recently been told that the girl I had a long crush on, the first girl, is heartbroken that I'm with this new girl and it breaks her heart a little more each time she sees me, because she loves me. Her friend told me this. And finding this out broke my heart, I felt so bad because I liked her too.\n\nFinding this out has made me think that I could make her happy by breaking up with my girlfriend and going with her. But I could never do that to my girlfriend, I love her.\n\nDoes anyone have advice? I can answer any questions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First things first - yes we're teenagers, young and immature or whatever. Please help me out anyways ok? \n\nSo. There was this girl I had a crush on since freshman year of high school. We have been really good friends since then and she means a lot to me. This summer I decided nothing was going to happen, because it had already been over a year and nothing happened. \n\nAfter I made this decision, I met another girl over summer. She was really pretty, and I got her number. I asked her out, and we've been together for a little over two months. (Now, I also know this is not a long relationship. I understand that.) I love her. She's been amazing to me, so nice and caring and just seems like the perfect girl.\n\nBut I have recently been told that the girl I had a long crush on, the first girl, is heartbroken that I'm with this new girl and it breaks her heart a little more each time she sees me, because she loves me. Her friend told me this. And finding this out broke my heart, I felt so bad because I liked her too.\n\nFinding this out has made me think that I could make her happy by breaking up with my girlfriend and going with her. But I could never do that to my girlfriend, I love her.\n\nDoes anyone have advice? I can answer any questions."
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