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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so I've been seeing this girl for a couple months and we have gone on several dates and just hung out a lot. Last Friday, I offered to cook dinner for her and watch a movie. Well I cooked a very awesome chicken fried rice from scratch and made cupcakes. Well after dinner things got very hot and heavy. We ended up having sex twice. And on the second go around she asked me to be with her. As in be her boyfriend. Of course I said yes. Well Sunday she broke up with me through a text saying that she was scared of being in a relationship. Which I can understand her not wanting to get heartbroken seeing as she was in a relationship for 3 years. But then we hung Monday and she asked me over late at night and we talked. She told me we were just friends but that she did like me and wanted to continue to hang out. Out of nowhere she kicked me out of her house and I left and as she tried to walk me out I closed the door behind myself and didn't let her. I was upset that after all that she told me we were just friends. I really like this girl and now she won't talk to me. I don't know what to do. Should I just move on since we are going to different colleges?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so I've been seeing this girl for a couple months and we have gone on several dates and just hung out a lot. Last Friday, I offered to cook dinner for her and watch a movie. Well I cooked a very awesome chicken fried rice from scratch and made cupcakes. Well after dinner things got very hot and heavy. We ended up having sex twice. And on the second go around she asked me to be with her. As in be her boyfriend. Of course I said yes. Well Sunday she broke up with me through a text saying that she was scared of being in a relationship. Which I can understand her not wanting to get heartbroken seeing as she was in a relationship for 3 years. But then we hung Monday and she asked me over late at night and we talked. She told me we were just friends but that she did like me and wanted to continue to hang out. Out of nowhere she kicked me out of her house and I left and as she tried to walk me out I closed the door behind myself and didn't let her. I was upset that after all that she told me we were just friends. I really like this girl and now she won't talk to me. I don't know what to do. Should I just move on since we are going to different colleges?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My [24/M] ex-girlfriend [24/F] was very insecure. She went through my entire phone; would at times bully me, my friends and sometimes even her own friends (she would laught at them behind their backs); she would ask me how 'my date' went, if I spend any time with any females, would it be friends, profesionally etc.; we had huge verbal fallouts which she claimed was nothing compared to the fights she had had in earlier relationships and she would regularly guilt trip me.\nI think that most of this stemmed from her low self esteem and insecurity. I have a few close female friends (strictly platonic) and the fact that her mother cheated on her father when she was a child didn't combine well. As you can see, she didn't trust me at all. \n\nShe ended up breaking up with me, claiming that I had neglected her (in reality I pulled away from her because of her poor behaviour). We made it only two months before I became sick and tired of her behaviour. This was all about six months ago. \nNow she is with someone new, they are moving in together after only six months, seem happy on social media and I can't stop obsessing about it. \n\nIs it possible for her to change this poor behaviour in such short time? I feel horrible thinking that she is now happy when I didn't get the opportunity/chance to make a relationship with her work out. Also it makes me feel like something is wrong with me, as I couldn't make it work between her and I.\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My [24/M] ex-girlfriend [24/F] was very insecure. She went through my entire phone; would at times bully me, my friends and sometimes even her own friends (she would laught at them behind their backs); she would ask me how 'my date' went, if I spend any time with any females, would it be friends, profesionally etc.; we had huge verbal fallouts which she claimed was nothing compared to the fights she had had in earlier relationships and she would regularly guilt trip me.\nI think that most of this stemmed from her low self esteem and insecurity. I have a few close female friends (strictly platonic) and the fact that her mother cheated on her father when she was a child didn't combine well. As you can see, she didn't trust me at all. \n\nShe ended up breaking up with me, claiming that I had neglected her (in reality I pulled away from her because of her poor behaviour). We made it only two months before I became sick and tired of her behaviour. This was all about six months ago. \nNow she is with someone new, they are moving in together after only six months, seem happy on social media and I can't stop obsessing about it. \n\nIs it possible for her to change this poor behaviour in such short time? I feel horrible thinking that she is now happy when I didn't get the opportunity/chance to make a relationship with her work out. Also it makes me feel like something is wrong with me, as I couldn't make it work between her and I.\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My [24/M] ex-girlfriend [24/F] was very insecure. She went through my entire phone; would at times bully me, my friends and sometimes even her own friends (she would laught at them behind their backs); she would ask me how 'my date' went, if I spend any time with any females, would it be friends, profesionally etc.; we had huge verbal fallouts which she claimed was nothing compared to the fights she had had in earlier relationships and she would regularly guilt trip me.\nI think that most of this stemmed from her low self esteem and insecurity. I have a few close female friends (strictly platonic) and the fact that her mother cheated on her father when she was a child didn't combine well. As you can see, she didn't trust me at all. \n\nShe ended up breaking up with me, claiming that I had neglected her (in reality I pulled away from her because of her poor behaviour). We made it only two months before I became sick and tired of her behaviour. This was all about six months ago. \nNow she is with someone new, they are moving in together after only six months, seem happy on social media and I can't stop obsessing about it. \n\nIs it possible for her to change this poor behaviour in such short time? I feel horrible thinking that she is now happy when I didn't get the opportunity/chance to make a relationship with her work out. Also it makes me feel like something is wrong with me, as I couldn't make it work between her and I.\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My [24/M] ex-girlfriend [24/F] was very insecure. She went through my entire phone; would at times bully me, my friends and sometimes even her own friends (she would laught at them behind their backs); she would ask me how 'my date' went, if I spend any time with any females, would it be friends, profesionally etc.; we had huge verbal fallouts which she claimed was nothing compared to the fights she had had in earlier relationships and she would regularly guilt trip me.\nI think that most of this stemmed from her low self esteem and insecurity. I have a few close female friends (strictly platonic) and the fact that her mother cheated on her father when she was a child didn't combine well. As you can see, she didn't trust me at all. \n\nShe ended up breaking up with me, claiming that I had neglected her (in reality I pulled away from her because of her poor behaviour). We made it only two months before I became sick and tired of her behaviour. This was all about six months ago. \nNow she is with someone new, they are moving in together after only six months, seem happy on social media and I can't stop obsessing about it. \n\nIs it possible for her to change this poor behaviour in such short time? I feel horrible thinking that she is now happy when I didn't get the opportunity/chance to make a relationship with her work out. Also it makes me feel like something is wrong with me, as I couldn't make it work between her and I.\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My [24/M] ex-girlfriend [24/F] was very insecure. She went through my entire phone; would at times bully me, my friends and sometimes even her own friends (she would laught at them behind their backs); she would ask me how 'my date' went, if I spend any time with any females, would it be friends, profesionally etc.; we had huge verbal fallouts which she claimed was nothing compared to the fights she had had in earlier relationships and she would regularly guilt trip me.\nI think that most of this stemmed from her low self esteem and insecurity. I have a few close female friends (strictly platonic) and the fact that her mother cheated on her father when she was a child didn't combine well. As you can see, she didn't trust me at all. \n\nShe ended up breaking up with me, claiming that I had neglected her (in reality I pulled away from her because of her poor behaviour). We made it only two months before I became sick and tired of her behaviour. This was all about six months ago. \nNow she is with someone new, they are moving in together after only six months, seem happy on social media and I can't stop obsessing about it. \n\nIs it possible for her to change this poor behaviour in such short time? I feel horrible thinking that she is now happy when I didn't get the opportunity/chance to make a relationship with her work out. Also it makes me feel like something is wrong with me, as I couldn't make it work between her and I.\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My [24/M] ex-girlfriend [24/F] was very insecure. She went through my entire phone; would at times bully me, my friends and sometimes even her own friends (she would laught at them behind their backs); she would ask me how 'my date' went, if I spend any time with any females, would it be friends, profesionally etc.; we had huge verbal fallouts which she claimed was nothing compared to the fights she had had in earlier relationships and she would regularly guilt trip me.\nI think that most of this stemmed from her low self esteem and insecurity. I have a few close female friends (strictly platonic) and the fact that her mother cheated on her father when she was a child didn't combine well. As you can see, she didn't trust me at all. \n\nShe ended up breaking up with me, claiming that I had neglected her (in reality I pulled away from her because of her poor behaviour). We made it only two months before I became sick and tired of her behaviour. This was all about six months ago. \nNow she is with someone new, they are moving in together after only six months, seem happy on social media and I can't stop obsessing about it. \n\nIs it possible for her to change this poor behaviour in such short time? I feel horrible thinking that she is now happy when I didn't get the opportunity/chance to make a relationship with her work out. Also it makes me feel like something is wrong with me, as I couldn't make it work between her and I.\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so I'll start off by saying that my girlfriend of one year is Hispanic and is very very close with her family. Her and I live with her family; she is staying at home while she finishes law school, and I had to move in because of a bad situation with my drug - dealer roommate. Her mother took me in with open arms, which is apparently a big deal for her because she's very protective of my girlfriend. She offered me a sweet deal of paying $150 for rent a month and she would let me live here rent free if I go to school. \n\nOn to the problem: I usually work mid day shifts (like 2-10pm) and I'm full time so I'm gone from home a lot. I sleep in until I have to go to work, and when I get off I come home and go to our room and chill with my girlfriend. We've gotten into a lot fights because she accuses me of being lazy and sleeping in all the time, she says I'm being rude by not spending time with her family, and she calls me ungrateful. Look, I'm just not used to this family dynamic; my family is NOT close, I see them about once a month. Her family is so close, they have barbecues every weekend and celebrations are a big deal. I'm just not used to this closeness.it makes me uncomfortable. Am I wrong here? I feel like she expects me to hurry up and get used to her family!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so I'll start off by saying that my girlfriend of one year is Hispanic and is very very close with her family. Her and I live with her family; she is staying at home while she finishes law school, and I had to move in because of a bad situation with my drug - dealer roommate. Her mother took me in with open arms, which is apparently a big deal for her because she's very protective of my girlfriend. She offered me a sweet deal of paying $150 for rent a month and she would let me live here rent free if I go to school. \n\nOn to the problem: I usually work mid day shifts (like 2-10pm) and I'm full time so I'm gone from home a lot. I sleep in until I have to go to work, and when I get off I come home and go to our room and chill with my girlfriend. We've gotten into a lot fights because she accuses me of being lazy and sleeping in all the time, she says I'm being rude by not spending time with her family, and she calls me ungrateful. Look, I'm just not used to this family dynamic; my family is NOT close, I see them about once a month. Her family is so close, they have barbecues every weekend and celebrations are a big deal. I'm just not used to this closeness.it makes me uncomfortable. Am I wrong here? I feel like she expects me to hurry up and get used to her family!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so I'll start off by saying that my girlfriend of one year is Hispanic and is very very close with her family. Her and I live with her family; she is staying at home while she finishes law school, and I had to move in because of a bad situation with my drug - dealer roommate. Her mother took me in with open arms, which is apparently a big deal for her because she's very protective of my girlfriend. She offered me a sweet deal of paying $150 for rent a month and she would let me live here rent free if I go to school. \n\nOn to the problem: I usually work mid day shifts (like 2-10pm) and I'm full time so I'm gone from home a lot. I sleep in until I have to go to work, and when I get off I come home and go to our room and chill with my girlfriend. We've gotten into a lot fights because she accuses me of being lazy and sleeping in all the time, she says I'm being rude by not spending time with her family, and she calls me ungrateful. Look, I'm just not used to this family dynamic; my family is NOT close, I see them about once a month. Her family is so close, they have barbecues every weekend and celebrations are a big deal. I'm just not used to this closeness.it makes me uncomfortable. Am I wrong here? I feel like she expects me to hurry up and get used to her family!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so I'll start off by saying that my girlfriend of one year is Hispanic and is very very close with her family. Her and I live with her family; she is staying at home while she finishes law school, and I had to move in because of a bad situation with my drug - dealer roommate. Her mother took me in with open arms, which is apparently a big deal for her because she's very protective of my girlfriend. She offered me a sweet deal of paying $150 for rent a month and she would let me live here rent free if I go to school. \n\nOn to the problem: I usually work mid day shifts (like 2-10pm) and I'm full time so I'm gone from home a lot. I sleep in until I have to go to work, and when I get off I come home and go to our room and chill with my girlfriend. We've gotten into a lot fights because she accuses me of being lazy and sleeping in all the time, she says I'm being rude by not spending time with her family, and she calls me ungrateful. Look, I'm just not used to this family dynamic; my family is NOT close, I see them about once a month. Her family is so close, they have barbecues every weekend and celebrations are a big deal. I'm just not used to this closeness.it makes me uncomfortable. Am I wrong here? I feel like she expects me to hurry up and get used to her family!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so I'll start off by saying that my girlfriend of one year is Hispanic and is very very close with her family. Her and I live with her family; she is staying at home while she finishes law school, and I had to move in because of a bad situation with my drug - dealer roommate. Her mother took me in with open arms, which is apparently a big deal for her because she's very protective of my girlfriend. She offered me a sweet deal of paying $150 for rent a month and she would let me live here rent free if I go to school. \n\nOn to the problem: I usually work mid day shifts (like 2-10pm) and I'm full time so I'm gone from home a lot. I sleep in until I have to go to work, and when I get off I come home and go to our room and chill with my girlfriend. We've gotten into a lot fights because she accuses me of being lazy and sleeping in all the time, she says I'm being rude by not spending time with her family, and she calls me ungrateful. Look, I'm just not used to this family dynamic; my family is NOT close, I see them about once a month. Her family is so close, they have barbecues every weekend and celebrations are a big deal. I'm just not used to this closeness.it makes me uncomfortable. Am I wrong here? I feel like she expects me to hurry up and get used to her family!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so I'll start off by saying that my girlfriend of one year is Hispanic and is very very close with her family. Her and I live with her family; she is staying at home while she finishes law school, and I had to move in because of a bad situation with my drug - dealer roommate. Her mother took me in with open arms, which is apparently a big deal for her because she's very protective of my girlfriend. She offered me a sweet deal of paying $150 for rent a month and she would let me live here rent free if I go to school. \n\nOn to the problem: I usually work mid day shifts (like 2-10pm) and I'm full time so I'm gone from home a lot. I sleep in until I have to go to work, and when I get off I come home and go to our room and chill with my girlfriend. We've gotten into a lot fights because she accuses me of being lazy and sleeping in all the time, she says I'm being rude by not spending time with her family, and she calls me ungrateful. Look, I'm just not used to this family dynamic; my family is NOT close, I see them about once a month. Her family is so close, they have barbecues every weekend and celebrations are a big deal. I'm just not used to this closeness.it makes me uncomfortable. Am I wrong here? I feel like she expects me to hurry up and get used to her family!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is a graduate student studying Athletic Training/Kinesiology. Her thesis involves testing various ankle taping techniques and the effectiveness of each in restricting range of motion.\n\nThe machine she's using was created by the university and measures the angle of the ankle during inversion/eversion and dorsi-/plantarflexion. It uses two 9v batteries, which constantly die. She asked her director if they could rig it so it uses AC power, but was told they would have to apply for a patent on the device. She's worried her data may be affected from this. Is there such a patent law? And would data (angles displayed from the sensors) be different with full vs weak batteries?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is a graduate student studying Athletic Training/Kinesiology. Her thesis involves testing various ankle taping techniques and the effectiveness of each in restricting range of motion.\n\nThe machine she's using was created by the university and measures the angle of the ankle during inversion/eversion and dorsi-/plantarflexion. It uses two 9v batteries, which constantly die. She asked her director if they could rig it so it uses AC power, but was told they would have to apply for a patent on the device. She's worried her data may be affected from this. Is there such a patent law? And would data (angles displayed from the sensors) be different with full vs weak batteries?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is a graduate student studying Athletic Training/Kinesiology. Her thesis involves testing various ankle taping techniques and the effectiveness of each in restricting range of motion.\n\nThe machine she's using was created by the university and measures the angle of the ankle during inversion/eversion and dorsi-/plantarflexion. It uses two 9v batteries, which constantly die. She asked her director if they could rig it so it uses AC power, but was told they would have to apply for a patent on the device. She's worried her data may be affected from this. Is there such a patent law? And would data (angles displayed from the sensors) be different with full vs weak batteries?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is a graduate student studying Athletic Training/Kinesiology. Her thesis involves testing various ankle taping techniques and the effectiveness of each in restricting range of motion.\n\nThe machine she's using was created by the university and measures the angle of the ankle during inversion/eversion and dorsi-/plantarflexion. It uses two 9v batteries, which constantly die. She asked her director if they could rig it so it uses AC power, but was told they would have to apply for a patent on the device. She's worried her data may be affected from this. Is there such a patent law? And would data (angles displayed from the sensors) be different with full vs weak batteries?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is a graduate student studying Athletic Training/Kinesiology. Her thesis involves testing various ankle taping techniques and the effectiveness of each in restricting range of motion.\n\nThe machine she's using was created by the university and measures the angle of the ankle during inversion/eversion and dorsi-/plantarflexion. It uses two 9v batteries, which constantly die. She asked her director if they could rig it so it uses AC power, but was told they would have to apply for a patent on the device. She's worried her data may be affected from this. Is there such a patent law? And would data (angles displayed from the sensors) be different with full vs weak batteries?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is a graduate student studying Athletic Training/Kinesiology. Her thesis involves testing various ankle taping techniques and the effectiveness of each in restricting range of motion.\n\nThe machine she's using was created by the university and measures the angle of the ankle during inversion/eversion and dorsi-/plantarflexion. It uses two 9v batteries, which constantly die. She asked her director if they could rig it so it uses AC power, but was told they would have to apply for a patent on the device. She's worried her data may be affected from this. Is there such a patent law? And would data (angles displayed from the sensors) be different with full vs weak batteries?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post, so here goes nothing. \n\nIn kindergarten I was kind of a weird kid. I don't remember much of it, except a few collective memories, but the ones I do remember, I remember being weird. All except for one memory, and that was my memory of revenge.\n\nIt was recess time, and I was kicking a soccer ball around minding my own business. I'm not sure, I could've been kicking it up against the wall, or just running around chasing it and kicking it, I don't know. It's the things that kids like to do at that age. Anyways, what I do remember was the class punk taking the ball away from me. I asked if I could have it back, and he retorted with some kindergarten classic response, I don't remember. He takes the ball and runs to the other side of the playground and kicks it around with his friend. \n\nThe thing is though, he could've grabbed another ball from the ball bin, or even asked me nicely, but he comes over and rudely takes it away from me. I didn't cry, I was just furious. I walked up to him without saying a word to him, and I kicked him as hard as I could in the shin. I take my ball back, and I go and play with it some more. \n\nThe punk kid started crying and ran to a chaperone and obviously told on me. I get in trouble so I get a thing called *Stop&Think.* I don't remember what you're supposed to do with it, but they give it to you and I think you're supposed to give it to your teacher and you get lunch or after school detention. I assume that because when the bell rang, I took the little slip and I ripped it up into pieces and threw into the garbage can. I never got a lunch detention and I got away with kicking a kid who stole my ball."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post, so here goes nothing. \n\nIn kindergarten I was kind of a weird kid. I don't remember much of it, except a few collective memories, but the ones I do remember, I remember being weird. All except for one memory, and that was my memory of revenge.\n\nIt was recess time, and I was kicking a soccer ball around minding my own business. I'm not sure, I could've been kicking it up against the wall, or just running around chasing it and kicking it, I don't know. It's the things that kids like to do at that age. Anyways, what I do remember was the class punk taking the ball away from me. I asked if I could have it back, and he retorted with some kindergarten classic response, I don't remember. He takes the ball and runs to the other side of the playground and kicks it around with his friend. \n\nThe thing is though, he could've grabbed another ball from the ball bin, or even asked me nicely, but he comes over and rudely takes it away from me. I didn't cry, I was just furious. I walked up to him without saying a word to him, and I kicked him as hard as I could in the shin. I take my ball back, and I go and play with it some more. \n\nThe punk kid started crying and ran to a chaperone and obviously told on me. I get in trouble so I get a thing called *Stop&Think.* I don't remember what you're supposed to do with it, but they give it to you and I think you're supposed to give it to your teacher and you get lunch or after school detention. I assume that because when the bell rang, I took the little slip and I ripped it up into pieces and threw into the garbage can. I never got a lunch detention and I got away with kicking a kid who stole my ball."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post, so here goes nothing. \n\nIn kindergarten I was kind of a weird kid. I don't remember much of it, except a few collective memories, but the ones I do remember, I remember being weird. All except for one memory, and that was my memory of revenge.\n\nIt was recess time, and I was kicking a soccer ball around minding my own business. I'm not sure, I could've been kicking it up against the wall, or just running around chasing it and kicking it, I don't know. It's the things that kids like to do at that age. Anyways, what I do remember was the class punk taking the ball away from me. I asked if I could have it back, and he retorted with some kindergarten classic response, I don't remember. He takes the ball and runs to the other side of the playground and kicks it around with his friend. \n\nThe thing is though, he could've grabbed another ball from the ball bin, or even asked me nicely, but he comes over and rudely takes it away from me. I didn't cry, I was just furious. I walked up to him without saying a word to him, and I kicked him as hard as I could in the shin. I take my ball back, and I go and play with it some more. \n\nThe punk kid started crying and ran to a chaperone and obviously told on me. I get in trouble so I get a thing called *Stop&Think.* I don't remember what you're supposed to do with it, but they give it to you and I think you're supposed to give it to your teacher and you get lunch or after school detention. I assume that because when the bell rang, I took the little slip and I ripped it up into pieces and threw into the garbage can. I never got a lunch detention and I got away with kicking a kid who stole my ball."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post, so here goes nothing. \n\nIn kindergarten I was kind of a weird kid. I don't remember much of it, except a few collective memories, but the ones I do remember, I remember being weird. All except for one memory, and that was my memory of revenge.\n\nIt was recess time, and I was kicking a soccer ball around minding my own business. I'm not sure, I could've been kicking it up against the wall, or just running around chasing it and kicking it, I don't know. It's the things that kids like to do at that age. Anyways, what I do remember was the class punk taking the ball away from me. I asked if I could have it back, and he retorted with some kindergarten classic response, I don't remember. He takes the ball and runs to the other side of the playground and kicks it around with his friend. \n\nThe thing is though, he could've grabbed another ball from the ball bin, or even asked me nicely, but he comes over and rudely takes it away from me. I didn't cry, I was just furious. I walked up to him without saying a word to him, and I kicked him as hard as I could in the shin. I take my ball back, and I go and play with it some more. \n\nThe punk kid started crying and ran to a chaperone and obviously told on me. I get in trouble so I get a thing called *Stop&Think.* I don't remember what you're supposed to do with it, but they give it to you and I think you're supposed to give it to your teacher and you get lunch or after school detention. I assume that because when the bell rang, I took the little slip and I ripped it up into pieces and threw into the garbage can. I never got a lunch detention and I got away with kicking a kid who stole my ball."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post, so here goes nothing. \n\nIn kindergarten I was kind of a weird kid. I don't remember much of it, except a few collective memories, but the ones I do remember, I remember being weird. All except for one memory, and that was my memory of revenge.\n\nIt was recess time, and I was kicking a soccer ball around minding my own business. I'm not sure, I could've been kicking it up against the wall, or just running around chasing it and kicking it, I don't know. It's the things that kids like to do at that age. Anyways, what I do remember was the class punk taking the ball away from me. I asked if I could have it back, and he retorted with some kindergarten classic response, I don't remember. He takes the ball and runs to the other side of the playground and kicks it around with his friend. \n\nThe thing is though, he could've grabbed another ball from the ball bin, or even asked me nicely, but he comes over and rudely takes it away from me. I didn't cry, I was just furious. I walked up to him without saying a word to him, and I kicked him as hard as I could in the shin. I take my ball back, and I go and play with it some more. \n\nThe punk kid started crying and ran to a chaperone and obviously told on me. I get in trouble so I get a thing called *Stop&Think.* I don't remember what you're supposed to do with it, but they give it to you and I think you're supposed to give it to your teacher and you get lunch or after school detention. I assume that because when the bell rang, I took the little slip and I ripped it up into pieces and threw into the garbage can. I never got a lunch detention and I got away with kicking a kid who stole my ball."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post, so here goes nothing. \n\nIn kindergarten I was kind of a weird kid. I don't remember much of it, except a few collective memories, but the ones I do remember, I remember being weird. All except for one memory, and that was my memory of revenge.\n\nIt was recess time, and I was kicking a soccer ball around minding my own business. I'm not sure, I could've been kicking it up against the wall, or just running around chasing it and kicking it, I don't know. It's the things that kids like to do at that age. Anyways, what I do remember was the class punk taking the ball away from me. I asked if I could have it back, and he retorted with some kindergarten classic response, I don't remember. He takes the ball and runs to the other side of the playground and kicks it around with his friend. \n\nThe thing is though, he could've grabbed another ball from the ball bin, or even asked me nicely, but he comes over and rudely takes it away from me. I didn't cry, I was just furious. I walked up to him without saying a word to him, and I kicked him as hard as I could in the shin. I take my ball back, and I go and play with it some more. \n\nThe punk kid started crying and ran to a chaperone and obviously told on me. I get in trouble so I get a thing called *Stop&Think.* I don't remember what you're supposed to do with it, but they give it to you and I think you're supposed to give it to your teacher and you get lunch or after school detention. I assume that because when the bell rang, I took the little slip and I ripped it up into pieces and threw into the garbage can. I never got a lunch detention and I got away with kicking a kid who stole my ball."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok first I'll preface this with saying that I recognize that this is a terribly hurtful (to other people) pattern in my life that I want to stop as SOON as possible. I realize that this is in the long run going to damage people, and the reason I'm writing this post is because I know how immature it is and I want to be able to stop.\n\nI have a pattern of hanging out with men who I know are clearly interested in me and leading them on (i.e. hanging out with them alone, having 'deep' conversations with them, etc.) under the guise of wanting to get to know them better as friends. I suspect that the reason that I do this is for the attention, and because 1) I haven't met a person who I want to be in a relationship with and 2) because I don't let myself get physically involved with men who I'm not interested in in the long-term, and that sexual suppression eventually leaking out into interactions with guys who I'm not that interested in and leading them on, sleeping with them, and then moving on like almost immediately. \n\nObviously this is not something that I'm proud of, but I want to stop. When I get physically involved with someone I also get emotionally invested to some extent and I don't know how much I want to do that with someone who isn't LTR potential. \n\nAdvice? I hate hurting people, but I also recognize that this might be due to a lot of sexual suppression on my part, but at the SAME time I want to save myself for someone who's worth committing to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok first I'll preface this with saying that I recognize that this is a terribly hurtful (to other people) pattern in my life that I want to stop as SOON as possible. I realize that this is in the long run going to damage people, and the reason I'm writing this post is because I know how immature it is and I want to be able to stop.\n\nI have a pattern of hanging out with men who I know are clearly interested in me and leading them on (i.e. hanging out with them alone, having 'deep' conversations with them, etc.) under the guise of wanting to get to know them better as friends. I suspect that the reason that I do this is for the attention, and because 1) I haven't met a person who I want to be in a relationship with and 2) because I don't let myself get physically involved with men who I'm not interested in in the long-term, and that sexual suppression eventually leaking out into interactions with guys who I'm not that interested in and leading them on, sleeping with them, and then moving on like almost immediately. \n\nObviously this is not something that I'm proud of, but I want to stop. When I get physically involved with someone I also get emotionally invested to some extent and I don't know how much I want to do that with someone who isn't LTR potential. \n\nAdvice? I hate hurting people, but I also recognize that this might be due to a lot of sexual suppression on my part, but at the SAME time I want to save myself for someone who's worth committing to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok first I'll preface this with saying that I recognize that this is a terribly hurtful (to other people) pattern in my life that I want to stop as SOON as possible. I realize that this is in the long run going to damage people, and the reason I'm writing this post is because I know how immature it is and I want to be able to stop.\n\nI have a pattern of hanging out with men who I know are clearly interested in me and leading them on (i.e. hanging out with them alone, having 'deep' conversations with them, etc.) under the guise of wanting to get to know them better as friends. I suspect that the reason that I do this is for the attention, and because 1) I haven't met a person who I want to be in a relationship with and 2) because I don't let myself get physically involved with men who I'm not interested in in the long-term, and that sexual suppression eventually leaking out into interactions with guys who I'm not that interested in and leading them on, sleeping with them, and then moving on like almost immediately. \n\nObviously this is not something that I'm proud of, but I want to stop. When I get physically involved with someone I also get emotionally invested to some extent and I don't know how much I want to do that with someone who isn't LTR potential. \n\nAdvice? I hate hurting people, but I also recognize that this might be due to a lot of sexual suppression on my part, but at the SAME time I want to save myself for someone who's worth committing to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok first I'll preface this with saying that I recognize that this is a terribly hurtful (to other people) pattern in my life that I want to stop as SOON as possible. I realize that this is in the long run going to damage people, and the reason I'm writing this post is because I know how immature it is and I want to be able to stop.\n\nI have a pattern of hanging out with men who I know are clearly interested in me and leading them on (i.e. hanging out with them alone, having 'deep' conversations with them, etc.) under the guise of wanting to get to know them better as friends. I suspect that the reason that I do this is for the attention, and because 1) I haven't met a person who I want to be in a relationship with and 2) because I don't let myself get physically involved with men who I'm not interested in in the long-term, and that sexual suppression eventually leaking out into interactions with guys who I'm not that interested in and leading them on, sleeping with them, and then moving on like almost immediately. \n\nObviously this is not something that I'm proud of, but I want to stop. When I get physically involved with someone I also get emotionally invested to some extent and I don't know how much I want to do that with someone who isn't LTR potential. \n\nAdvice? I hate hurting people, but I also recognize that this might be due to a lot of sexual suppression on my part, but at the SAME time I want to save myself for someone who's worth committing to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok first I'll preface this with saying that I recognize that this is a terribly hurtful (to other people) pattern in my life that I want to stop as SOON as possible. I realize that this is in the long run going to damage people, and the reason I'm writing this post is because I know how immature it is and I want to be able to stop.\n\nI have a pattern of hanging out with men who I know are clearly interested in me and leading them on (i.e. hanging out with them alone, having 'deep' conversations with them, etc.) under the guise of wanting to get to know them better as friends. I suspect that the reason that I do this is for the attention, and because 1) I haven't met a person who I want to be in a relationship with and 2) because I don't let myself get physically involved with men who I'm not interested in in the long-term, and that sexual suppression eventually leaking out into interactions with guys who I'm not that interested in and leading them on, sleeping with them, and then moving on like almost immediately. \n\nObviously this is not something that I'm proud of, but I want to stop. When I get physically involved with someone I also get emotionally invested to some extent and I don't know how much I want to do that with someone who isn't LTR potential. \n\nAdvice? I hate hurting people, but I also recognize that this might be due to a lot of sexual suppression on my part, but at the SAME time I want to save myself for someone who's worth committing to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got this girl's number a while back and we've been texting each other (which I kind of hate doing, but whatever, it's convenient), and we're finally actually going on a date tomorrow.\n\nWe're meeting up for coffee at a neat place my friends told me about, and then its a short walk from there to some local art galleries. I've never been, but she's an art student, and I thought it could be interesting. At the very least, it's better conversationally than going to a movie or something.\n\nLike the title says, I've never really been on an actual 'date' before. I've had girlfriends and stuff, but they usually came about from being drunk and the sex being better than average. I'm not really sure how to handle myself on a real date.\n\nWhat do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got this girl's number a while back and we've been texting each other (which I kind of hate doing, but whatever, it's convenient), and we're finally actually going on a date tomorrow.\n\nWe're meeting up for coffee at a neat place my friends told me about, and then its a short walk from there to some local art galleries. I've never been, but she's an art student, and I thought it could be interesting. At the very least, it's better conversationally than going to a movie or something.\n\nLike the title says, I've never really been on an actual 'date' before. I've had girlfriends and stuff, but they usually came about from being drunk and the sex being better than average. I'm not really sure how to handle myself on a real date.\n\nWhat do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got this girl's number a while back and we've been texting each other (which I kind of hate doing, but whatever, it's convenient), and we're finally actually going on a date tomorrow.\n\nWe're meeting up for coffee at a neat place my friends told me about, and then its a short walk from there to some local art galleries. I've never been, but she's an art student, and I thought it could be interesting. At the very least, it's better conversationally than going to a movie or something.\n\nLike the title says, I've never really been on an actual 'date' before. I've had girlfriends and stuff, but they usually came about from being drunk and the sex being better than average. I'm not really sure how to handle myself on a real date.\n\nWhat do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got this girl's number a while back and we've been texting each other (which I kind of hate doing, but whatever, it's convenient), and we're finally actually going on a date tomorrow.\n\nWe're meeting up for coffee at a neat place my friends told me about, and then its a short walk from there to some local art galleries. I've never been, but she's an art student, and I thought it could be interesting. At the very least, it's better conversationally than going to a movie or something.\n\nLike the title says, I've never really been on an actual 'date' before. I've had girlfriends and stuff, but they usually came about from being drunk and the sex being better than average. I'm not really sure how to handle myself on a real date.\n\nWhat do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got this girl's number a while back and we've been texting each other (which I kind of hate doing, but whatever, it's convenient), and we're finally actually going on a date tomorrow.\n\nWe're meeting up for coffee at a neat place my friends told me about, and then its a short walk from there to some local art galleries. I've never been, but she's an art student, and I thought it could be interesting. At the very least, it's better conversationally than going to a movie or something.\n\nLike the title says, I've never really been on an actual 'date' before. I've had girlfriends and stuff, but they usually came about from being drunk and the sex being better than average. I'm not really sure how to handle myself on a real date.\n\nWhat do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got this girl's number a while back and we've been texting each other (which I kind of hate doing, but whatever, it's convenient), and we're finally actually going on a date tomorrow.\n\nWe're meeting up for coffee at a neat place my friends told me about, and then its a short walk from there to some local art galleries. I've never been, but she's an art student, and I thought it could be interesting. At the very least, it's better conversationally than going to a movie or something.\n\nLike the title says, I've never really been on an actual 'date' before. I've had girlfriends and stuff, but they usually came about from being drunk and the sex being better than average. I'm not really sure how to handle myself on a real date.\n\nWhat do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I are getting married this summer. We have a phenomenal relationship with lots of love, trust, and communication. However, there's one issue that we can't seem to find agreement on. About half a year before we started dating, she dated another guy (lets call him Doug.) They just dated for a few months and it ended up not working out because he wasn't interested. Fast forward to now. Doug is dating one of her best friends who happens to be one of the bridesmaids in our wedding.\n\nI don't want Doug at our wedding. It already bothers me that I have to see him sometimes when hanging out with mutual friends. I believe in leaving exes in the past. My fiancee is used to having exes around because she's from a smaller community where everyone has dated each other. \n\nWe have talked a couple times and she is frustrated by me because she thinks she's obligated to invite him because its her best friend's boyfriend. Her best friend is apparently also the type who wouldn't be understanding at all if Doug wasn't invited. I'm upset because I feel like her best friend's feelings matter more than my own. \n\nThis has been really bothering me but I don't want to talk to her about it anymore until I've had other people's perspectives as well. I don't really feel like talking to my friends about it so I'm curious what reddit thinks.\n\nEDIT: I forgot to mention that the last time we talked, we left it at Doug just being invited. However, we're also planning on having an engagement party in a couple weeks with some close friends and family. Last night she started naming off some people she wanted to invite and she mentioned Doug. That pissed me off."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I are getting married this summer. We have a phenomenal relationship with lots of love, trust, and communication. However, there's one issue that we can't seem to find agreement on. About half a year before we started dating, she dated another guy (lets call him Doug.) They just dated for a few months and it ended up not working out because he wasn't interested. Fast forward to now. Doug is dating one of her best friends who happens to be one of the bridesmaids in our wedding.\n\nI don't want Doug at our wedding. It already bothers me that I have to see him sometimes when hanging out with mutual friends. I believe in leaving exes in the past. My fiancee is used to having exes around because she's from a smaller community where everyone has dated each other. \n\nWe have talked a couple times and she is frustrated by me because she thinks she's obligated to invite him because its her best friend's boyfriend. Her best friend is apparently also the type who wouldn't be understanding at all if Doug wasn't invited. I'm upset because I feel like her best friend's feelings matter more than my own. \n\nThis has been really bothering me but I don't want to talk to her about it anymore until I've had other people's perspectives as well. I don't really feel like talking to my friends about it so I'm curious what reddit thinks.\n\nEDIT: I forgot to mention that the last time we talked, we left it at Doug just being invited. However, we're also planning on having an engagement party in a couple weeks with some close friends and family. Last night she started naming off some people she wanted to invite and she mentioned Doug. That pissed me off."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I are getting married this summer. We have a phenomenal relationship with lots of love, trust, and communication. However, there's one issue that we can't seem to find agreement on. About half a year before we started dating, she dated another guy (lets call him Doug.) They just dated for a few months and it ended up not working out because he wasn't interested. Fast forward to now. Doug is dating one of her best friends who happens to be one of the bridesmaids in our wedding.\n\nI don't want Doug at our wedding. It already bothers me that I have to see him sometimes when hanging out with mutual friends. I believe in leaving exes in the past. My fiancee is used to having exes around because she's from a smaller community where everyone has dated each other. \n\nWe have talked a couple times and she is frustrated by me because she thinks she's obligated to invite him because its her best friend's boyfriend. Her best friend is apparently also the type who wouldn't be understanding at all if Doug wasn't invited. I'm upset because I feel like her best friend's feelings matter more than my own. \n\nThis has been really bothering me but I don't want to talk to her about it anymore until I've had other people's perspectives as well. I don't really feel like talking to my friends about it so I'm curious what reddit thinks.\n\nEDIT: I forgot to mention that the last time we talked, we left it at Doug just being invited. However, we're also planning on having an engagement party in a couple weeks with some close friends and family. Last night she started naming off some people she wanted to invite and she mentioned Doug. That pissed me off."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I are getting married this summer. We have a phenomenal relationship with lots of love, trust, and communication. However, there's one issue that we can't seem to find agreement on. About half a year before we started dating, she dated another guy (lets call him Doug.) They just dated for a few months and it ended up not working out because he wasn't interested. Fast forward to now. Doug is dating one of her best friends who happens to be one of the bridesmaids in our wedding.\n\nI don't want Doug at our wedding. It already bothers me that I have to see him sometimes when hanging out with mutual friends. I believe in leaving exes in the past. My fiancee is used to having exes around because she's from a smaller community where everyone has dated each other. \n\nWe have talked a couple times and she is frustrated by me because she thinks she's obligated to invite him because its her best friend's boyfriend. Her best friend is apparently also the type who wouldn't be understanding at all if Doug wasn't invited. I'm upset because I feel like her best friend's feelings matter more than my own. \n\nThis has been really bothering me but I don't want to talk to her about it anymore until I've had other people's perspectives as well. I don't really feel like talking to my friends about it so I'm curious what reddit thinks.\n\nEDIT: I forgot to mention that the last time we talked, we left it at Doug just being invited. However, we're also planning on having an engagement party in a couple weeks with some close friends and family. Last night she started naming off some people she wanted to invite and she mentioned Doug. That pissed me off."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I are getting married this summer. We have a phenomenal relationship with lots of love, trust, and communication. However, there's one issue that we can't seem to find agreement on. About half a year before we started dating, she dated another guy (lets call him Doug.) They just dated for a few months and it ended up not working out because he wasn't interested. Fast forward to now. Doug is dating one of her best friends who happens to be one of the bridesmaids in our wedding.\n\nI don't want Doug at our wedding. It already bothers me that I have to see him sometimes when hanging out with mutual friends. I believe in leaving exes in the past. My fiancee is used to having exes around because she's from a smaller community where everyone has dated each other. \n\nWe have talked a couple times and she is frustrated by me because she thinks she's obligated to invite him because its her best friend's boyfriend. Her best friend is apparently also the type who wouldn't be understanding at all if Doug wasn't invited. I'm upset because I feel like her best friend's feelings matter more than my own. \n\nThis has been really bothering me but I don't want to talk to her about it anymore until I've had other people's perspectives as well. I don't really feel like talking to my friends about it so I'm curious what reddit thinks.\n\nEDIT: I forgot to mention that the last time we talked, we left it at Doug just being invited. However, we're also planning on having an engagement party in a couple weeks with some close friends and family. Last night she started naming off some people she wanted to invite and she mentioned Doug. That pissed me off."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I are getting married this summer. We have a phenomenal relationship with lots of love, trust, and communication. However, there's one issue that we can't seem to find agreement on. About half a year before we started dating, she dated another guy (lets call him Doug.) They just dated for a few months and it ended up not working out because he wasn't interested. Fast forward to now. Doug is dating one of her best friends who happens to be one of the bridesmaids in our wedding.\n\nI don't want Doug at our wedding. It already bothers me that I have to see him sometimes when hanging out with mutual friends. I believe in leaving exes in the past. My fiancee is used to having exes around because she's from a smaller community where everyone has dated each other. \n\nWe have talked a couple times and she is frustrated by me because she thinks she's obligated to invite him because its her best friend's boyfriend. Her best friend is apparently also the type who wouldn't be understanding at all if Doug wasn't invited. I'm upset because I feel like her best friend's feelings matter more than my own. \n\nThis has been really bothering me but I don't want to talk to her about it anymore until I've had other people's perspectives as well. I don't really feel like talking to my friends about it so I'm curious what reddit thinks.\n\nEDIT: I forgot to mention that the last time we talked, we left it at Doug just being invited. However, we're also planning on having an engagement party in a couple weeks with some close friends and family. Last night she started naming off some people she wanted to invite and she mentioned Doug. That pissed me off."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of almost a year has recently started having phases where he is in a bad mood and gets grumpy for a few days at a time. He keeps apologizing for it and says he just has a lot on his mind, and that he thinks he needs to get his life together. He is an honors student majoring in mechanical engineering at a prestigious university, so I'm not sure how his life could be more together. \n\nI've noticed that these down phases he's had come after he does shrooms and I'm convinced they're making him think things about himself that aren't true (I don't know much about shrooms or any drugs really). I want to be there for him and help him feel better, but I don't want to come off preachy about how he shouldn't do drugs if he reacts that way to them. \n\nI guess what I need help with is how to address this situation and how I can be a good friend to him. I'm a very straightforward person and generally not a very comforting person so I feel like I'm going to end up sounding like an inconsiderate asswipe by telling him to just stop doing drugs. It's also not really my place to tell him what to do with his life so there's that, too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of almost a year has recently started having phases where he is in a bad mood and gets grumpy for a few days at a time. He keeps apologizing for it and says he just has a lot on his mind, and that he thinks he needs to get his life together. He is an honors student majoring in mechanical engineering at a prestigious university, so I'm not sure how his life could be more together. \n\nI've noticed that these down phases he's had come after he does shrooms and I'm convinced they're making him think things about himself that aren't true (I don't know much about shrooms or any drugs really). I want to be there for him and help him feel better, but I don't want to come off preachy about how he shouldn't do drugs if he reacts that way to them. \n\nI guess what I need help with is how to address this situation and how I can be a good friend to him. I'm a very straightforward person and generally not a very comforting person so I feel like I'm going to end up sounding like an inconsiderate asswipe by telling him to just stop doing drugs. It's also not really my place to tell him what to do with his life so there's that, too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of almost a year has recently started having phases where he is in a bad mood and gets grumpy for a few days at a time. He keeps apologizing for it and says he just has a lot on his mind, and that he thinks he needs to get his life together. He is an honors student majoring in mechanical engineering at a prestigious university, so I'm not sure how his life could be more together. \n\nI've noticed that these down phases he's had come after he does shrooms and I'm convinced they're making him think things about himself that aren't true (I don't know much about shrooms or any drugs really). I want to be there for him and help him feel better, but I don't want to come off preachy about how he shouldn't do drugs if he reacts that way to them. \n\nI guess what I need help with is how to address this situation and how I can be a good friend to him. I'm a very straightforward person and generally not a very comforting person so I feel like I'm going to end up sounding like an inconsiderate asswipe by telling him to just stop doing drugs. It's also not really my place to tell him what to do with his life so there's that, too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of almost a year has recently started having phases where he is in a bad mood and gets grumpy for a few days at a time. He keeps apologizing for it and says he just has a lot on his mind, and that he thinks he needs to get his life together. He is an honors student majoring in mechanical engineering at a prestigious university, so I'm not sure how his life could be more together. \n\nI've noticed that these down phases he's had come after he does shrooms and I'm convinced they're making him think things about himself that aren't true (I don't know much about shrooms or any drugs really). I want to be there for him and help him feel better, but I don't want to come off preachy about how he shouldn't do drugs if he reacts that way to them. \n\nI guess what I need help with is how to address this situation and how I can be a good friend to him. I'm a very straightforward person and generally not a very comforting person so I feel like I'm going to end up sounding like an inconsiderate asswipe by telling him to just stop doing drugs. It's also not really my place to tell him what to do with his life so there's that, too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of almost a year has recently started having phases where he is in a bad mood and gets grumpy for a few days at a time. He keeps apologizing for it and says he just has a lot on his mind, and that he thinks he needs to get his life together. He is an honors student majoring in mechanical engineering at a prestigious university, so I'm not sure how his life could be more together. \n\nI've noticed that these down phases he's had come after he does shrooms and I'm convinced they're making him think things about himself that aren't true (I don't know much about shrooms or any drugs really). I want to be there for him and help him feel better, but I don't want to come off preachy about how he shouldn't do drugs if he reacts that way to them. \n\nI guess what I need help with is how to address this situation and how I can be a good friend to him. I'm a very straightforward person and generally not a very comforting person so I feel like I'm going to end up sounding like an inconsiderate asswipe by telling him to just stop doing drugs. It's also not really my place to tell him what to do with his life so there's that, too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known this girl for ~5 months and asked her out a few months ago but she said she didn't want to date anyone at the time (and she hasn't expressed any interest in dating *anyone* the entire time I've known her, so I'm going to believe that one). She thinks I'm funny and I heard through the grapevine that she thinks I'm cute. She texts me regularly and we're really good friends. She (occasionally) will talk about dating stuff with me, like asking if I'd ever go out with x type of gir, if I'd put up with x behavior, etc. Today entirely out of the blue she says that I need to get a girlfriend (ostensibly because she has few female friends) so she has a girlfriend to hang out with. Why she had to be <my> girlfriend for the 2 of them to hang out, I don't know. She then goes on to describe the kind of girl I should date and she described herself to a T. I made a comment about this, that she was pretty much saying I should date someone exactly like her (but *not* her) and she just kind of shrugged it off (which is odd because in the past we have joked about how I wanted to date her, like I'd say fuck you [jokingly of course] and she'd say 'yeah you wish').\n\nAlso forgot to mention, a couple days ago I was talking to a mutual male friend about her / my wanting to date her previously, and that kind of started the conversation today.\n\nVERY confused about the whole situation. Any advice or take on the matter is much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known this girl for ~5 months and asked her out a few months ago but she said she didn't want to date anyone at the time (and she hasn't expressed any interest in dating *anyone* the entire time I've known her, so I'm going to believe that one). She thinks I'm funny and I heard through the grapevine that she thinks I'm cute. She texts me regularly and we're really good friends. She (occasionally) will talk about dating stuff with me, like asking if I'd ever go out with x type of gir, if I'd put up with x behavior, etc. Today entirely out of the blue she says that I need to get a girlfriend (ostensibly because she has few female friends) so she has a girlfriend to hang out with. Why she had to be <my> girlfriend for the 2 of them to hang out, I don't know. She then goes on to describe the kind of girl I should date and she described herself to a T. I made a comment about this, that she was pretty much saying I should date someone exactly like her (but *not* her) and she just kind of shrugged it off (which is odd because in the past we have joked about how I wanted to date her, like I'd say fuck you [jokingly of course] and she'd say 'yeah you wish').\n\nAlso forgot to mention, a couple days ago I was talking to a mutual male friend about her / my wanting to date her previously, and that kind of started the conversation today.\n\nVERY confused about the whole situation. Any advice or take on the matter is much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known this girl for ~5 months and asked her out a few months ago but she said she didn't want to date anyone at the time (and she hasn't expressed any interest in dating *anyone* the entire time I've known her, so I'm going to believe that one). She thinks I'm funny and I heard through the grapevine that she thinks I'm cute. She texts me regularly and we're really good friends. She (occasionally) will talk about dating stuff with me, like asking if I'd ever go out with x type of gir, if I'd put up with x behavior, etc. Today entirely out of the blue she says that I need to get a girlfriend (ostensibly because she has few female friends) so she has a girlfriend to hang out with. Why she had to be <my> girlfriend for the 2 of them to hang out, I don't know. She then goes on to describe the kind of girl I should date and she described herself to a T. I made a comment about this, that she was pretty much saying I should date someone exactly like her (but *not* her) and she just kind of shrugged it off (which is odd because in the past we have joked about how I wanted to date her, like I'd say fuck you [jokingly of course] and she'd say 'yeah you wish').\n\nAlso forgot to mention, a couple days ago I was talking to a mutual male friend about her / my wanting to date her previously, and that kind of started the conversation today.\n\nVERY confused about the whole situation. Any advice or take on the matter is much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known this girl for ~5 months and asked her out a few months ago but she said she didn't want to date anyone at the time (and she hasn't expressed any interest in dating *anyone* the entire time I've known her, so I'm going to believe that one). She thinks I'm funny and I heard through the grapevine that she thinks I'm cute. She texts me regularly and we're really good friends. She (occasionally) will talk about dating stuff with me, like asking if I'd ever go out with x type of gir, if I'd put up with x behavior, etc. Today entirely out of the blue she says that I need to get a girlfriend (ostensibly because she has few female friends) so she has a girlfriend to hang out with. Why she had to be <my> girlfriend for the 2 of them to hang out, I don't know. She then goes on to describe the kind of girl I should date and she described herself to a T. I made a comment about this, that she was pretty much saying I should date someone exactly like her (but *not* her) and she just kind of shrugged it off (which is odd because in the past we have joked about how I wanted to date her, like I'd say fuck you [jokingly of course] and she'd say 'yeah you wish').\n\nAlso forgot to mention, a couple days ago I was talking to a mutual male friend about her / my wanting to date her previously, and that kind of started the conversation today.\n\nVERY confused about the whole situation. Any advice or take on the matter is much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known this girl for ~5 months and asked her out a few months ago but she said she didn't want to date anyone at the time (and she hasn't expressed any interest in dating *anyone* the entire time I've known her, so I'm going to believe that one). She thinks I'm funny and I heard through the grapevine that she thinks I'm cute. She texts me regularly and we're really good friends. She (occasionally) will talk about dating stuff with me, like asking if I'd ever go out with x type of gir, if I'd put up with x behavior, etc. Today entirely out of the blue she says that I need to get a girlfriend (ostensibly because she has few female friends) so she has a girlfriend to hang out with. Why she had to be <my> girlfriend for the 2 of them to hang out, I don't know. She then goes on to describe the kind of girl I should date and she described herself to a T. I made a comment about this, that she was pretty much saying I should date someone exactly like her (but *not* her) and she just kind of shrugged it off (which is odd because in the past we have joked about how I wanted to date her, like I'd say fuck you [jokingly of course] and she'd say 'yeah you wish').\n\nAlso forgot to mention, a couple days ago I was talking to a mutual male friend about her / my wanting to date her previously, and that kind of started the conversation today.\n\nVERY confused about the whole situation. Any advice or take on the matter is much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known this girl for ~5 months and asked her out a few months ago but she said she didn't want to date anyone at the time (and she hasn't expressed any interest in dating *anyone* the entire time I've known her, so I'm going to believe that one). She thinks I'm funny and I heard through the grapevine that she thinks I'm cute. She texts me regularly and we're really good friends. She (occasionally) will talk about dating stuff with me, like asking if I'd ever go out with x type of gir, if I'd put up with x behavior, etc. Today entirely out of the blue she says that I need to get a girlfriend (ostensibly because she has few female friends) so she has a girlfriend to hang out with. Why she had to be <my> girlfriend for the 2 of them to hang out, I don't know. She then goes on to describe the kind of girl I should date and she described herself to a T. I made a comment about this, that she was pretty much saying I should date someone exactly like her (but *not* her) and she just kind of shrugged it off (which is odd because in the past we have joked about how I wanted to date her, like I'd say fuck you [jokingly of course] and she'd say 'yeah you wish').\n\nAlso forgot to mention, a couple days ago I was talking to a mutual male friend about her / my wanting to date her previously, and that kind of started the conversation today.\n\nVERY confused about the whole situation. Any advice or take on the matter is much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for over 2 years, and he's always had trouble expressing his feelings, whether they be romantic or not. Every once in a while we'll sit and talk (usually just me talking) about how I'm feeling about something and he just doesn't add much to the conversation and blames it on \"not being good with feelings.\"\n\nIt bothers me because not only does he no really express his love to me verbally, which I really would appreciate and have told him so - but he doesn't even tell me when things bother him. Not until we're having a serious talk and I basically have to force it out of him. \n\nI'm at the point where I can only say so many things to convince him that I'm not grading him on his ability to make perfect sense in his feelings, just let it out and tell me. He says he'll work on it but he doesn't even try other methods like letters or texts or anything. I'm not a genius at emotional expression either and I often stumble on my words or just write a long note if I have a lot to say, so I understand it's not the most natural thing. I just need him to try.\n\nAny advice from someone who's dealt with this or who's like my boyfriend would be greatly appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for over 2 years, and he's always had trouble expressing his feelings, whether they be romantic or not. Every once in a while we'll sit and talk (usually just me talking) about how I'm feeling about something and he just doesn't add much to the conversation and blames it on \"not being good with feelings.\"\n\nIt bothers me because not only does he no really express his love to me verbally, which I really would appreciate and have told him so - but he doesn't even tell me when things bother him. Not until we're having a serious talk and I basically have to force it out of him. \n\nI'm at the point where I can only say so many things to convince him that I'm not grading him on his ability to make perfect sense in his feelings, just let it out and tell me. He says he'll work on it but he doesn't even try other methods like letters or texts or anything. I'm not a genius at emotional expression either and I often stumble on my words or just write a long note if I have a lot to say, so I understand it's not the most natural thing. I just need him to try.\n\nAny advice from someone who's dealt with this or who's like my boyfriend would be greatly appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for over 2 years, and he's always had trouble expressing his feelings, whether they be romantic or not. Every once in a while we'll sit and talk (usually just me talking) about how I'm feeling about something and he just doesn't add much to the conversation and blames it on \"not being good with feelings.\"\n\nIt bothers me because not only does he no really express his love to me verbally, which I really would appreciate and have told him so - but he doesn't even tell me when things bother him. Not until we're having a serious talk and I basically have to force it out of him. \n\nI'm at the point where I can only say so many things to convince him that I'm not grading him on his ability to make perfect sense in his feelings, just let it out and tell me. He says he'll work on it but he doesn't even try other methods like letters or texts or anything. I'm not a genius at emotional expression either and I often stumble on my words or just write a long note if I have a lot to say, so I understand it's not the most natural thing. I just need him to try.\n\nAny advice from someone who's dealt with this or who's like my boyfriend would be greatly appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for over 2 years, and he's always had trouble expressing his feelings, whether they be romantic or not. Every once in a while we'll sit and talk (usually just me talking) about how I'm feeling about something and he just doesn't add much to the conversation and blames it on \"not being good with feelings.\"\n\nIt bothers me because not only does he no really express his love to me verbally, which I really would appreciate and have told him so - but he doesn't even tell me when things bother him. Not until we're having a serious talk and I basically have to force it out of him. \n\nI'm at the point where I can only say so many things to convince him that I'm not grading him on his ability to make perfect sense in his feelings, just let it out and tell me. He says he'll work on it but he doesn't even try other methods like letters or texts or anything. I'm not a genius at emotional expression either and I often stumble on my words or just write a long note if I have a lot to say, so I understand it's not the most natural thing. I just need him to try.\n\nAny advice from someone who's dealt with this or who's like my boyfriend would be greatly appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for over 2 years, and he's always had trouble expressing his feelings, whether they be romantic or not. Every once in a while we'll sit and talk (usually just me talking) about how I'm feeling about something and he just doesn't add much to the conversation and blames it on \"not being good with feelings.\"\n\nIt bothers me because not only does he no really express his love to me verbally, which I really would appreciate and have told him so - but he doesn't even tell me when things bother him. Not until we're having a serious talk and I basically have to force it out of him. \n\nI'm at the point where I can only say so many things to convince him that I'm not grading him on his ability to make perfect sense in his feelings, just let it out and tell me. He says he'll work on it but he doesn't even try other methods like letters or texts or anything. I'm not a genius at emotional expression either and I often stumble on my words or just write a long note if I have a lot to say, so I understand it's not the most natural thing. I just need him to try.\n\nAny advice from someone who's dealt with this or who's like my boyfriend would be greatly appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for over 2 years, and he's always had trouble expressing his feelings, whether they be romantic or not. Every once in a while we'll sit and talk (usually just me talking) about how I'm feeling about something and he just doesn't add much to the conversation and blames it on \"not being good with feelings.\"\n\nIt bothers me because not only does he no really express his love to me verbally, which I really would appreciate and have told him so - but he doesn't even tell me when things bother him. Not until we're having a serious talk and I basically have to force it out of him. \n\nI'm at the point where I can only say so many things to convince him that I'm not grading him on his ability to make perfect sense in his feelings, just let it out and tell me. He says he'll work on it but he doesn't even try other methods like letters or texts or anything. I'm not a genius at emotional expression either and I often stumble on my words or just write a long note if I have a lot to say, so I understand it's not the most natural thing. I just need him to try.\n\nAny advice from someone who's dealt with this or who's like my boyfriend would be greatly appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys.\n\nI'm not sure if this is the right sub reddit but I really wanted to bring up this issue and wasn't sure where else to put it.\n\nToday I viewed [this post.](\n\nI had never seen that post before, and I love pun humour and so enjoyed it immensely. I checked out the comments, the top one being 'oh repost'.\n\nThis experience reminded me on the ridiculous anti-repost culture we have on reddit. Hear me out.\n\nIf the user had realised/cared that the post was a repost, and thus decided not to post it, I never would have seen it.\n\nI have also found that just missing a single day on reddit can leave me out of the loop on a tonne of content.\n\nIt's not fair that in order to see all the great content reddit has to offer, you are forced to be on reddit every single day. It's not *healthy* to have this culture.\n\nHowever, I do understand and completely sympathise with someone who has taken the time to create original content, only to see it in someone else's post a week later.\n\nSo, I have a proposition for the admins/mods.\n\nMake a weekly and monthly top 10/50/whatever for each sub reddit. Currently the 'top' and 'hot' buttons only show you content that is currently trending, but once the day cycle is up, it's gone, unless you archive it out.\n\nThis way if something great comes up, I can still view it throughout the week, giving credit to the creator/finder.\n\nI imagine most people upvote things they haven't seen before, which is why, I imagine, reposts appear time and time again on the front page. Different people voting up stuff that's new to them. A 'best of the week/month' system may help this, as more people will view the post by the original creator.\n\nI understand it would be an enormous undertaking to implement effectively, and won't solve the problem entirely, but hey, what are we doing if not constantly striving to make a better site?\n\nWhat does everyone think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys.\n\nI'm not sure if this is the right sub reddit but I really wanted to bring up this issue and wasn't sure where else to put it.\n\nToday I viewed [this post.](\n\nI had never seen that post before, and I love pun humour and so enjoyed it immensely. I checked out the comments, the top one being 'oh repost'.\n\nThis experience reminded me on the ridiculous anti-repost culture we have on reddit. Hear me out.\n\nIf the user had realised/cared that the post was a repost, and thus decided not to post it, I never would have seen it.\n\nI have also found that just missing a single day on reddit can leave me out of the loop on a tonne of content.\n\nIt's not fair that in order to see all the great content reddit has to offer, you are forced to be on reddit every single day. It's not *healthy* to have this culture.\n\nHowever, I do understand and completely sympathise with someone who has taken the time to create original content, only to see it in someone else's post a week later.\n\nSo, I have a proposition for the admins/mods.\n\nMake a weekly and monthly top 10/50/whatever for each sub reddit. Currently the 'top' and 'hot' buttons only show you content that is currently trending, but once the day cycle is up, it's gone, unless you archive it out.\n\nThis way if something great comes up, I can still view it throughout the week, giving credit to the creator/finder.\n\nI imagine most people upvote things they haven't seen before, which is why, I imagine, reposts appear time and time again on the front page. Different people voting up stuff that's new to them. A 'best of the week/month' system may help this, as more people will view the post by the original creator.\n\nI understand it would be an enormous undertaking to implement effectively, and won't solve the problem entirely, but hey, what are we doing if not constantly striving to make a better site?\n\nWhat does everyone think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys.\n\nI'm not sure if this is the right sub reddit but I really wanted to bring up this issue and wasn't sure where else to put it.\n\nToday I viewed [this post.](\n\nI had never seen that post before, and I love pun humour and so enjoyed it immensely. I checked out the comments, the top one being 'oh repost'.\n\nThis experience reminded me on the ridiculous anti-repost culture we have on reddit. Hear me out.\n\nIf the user had realised/cared that the post was a repost, and thus decided not to post it, I never would have seen it.\n\nI have also found that just missing a single day on reddit can leave me out of the loop on a tonne of content.\n\nIt's not fair that in order to see all the great content reddit has to offer, you are forced to be on reddit every single day. It's not *healthy* to have this culture.\n\nHowever, I do understand and completely sympathise with someone who has taken the time to create original content, only to see it in someone else's post a week later.\n\nSo, I have a proposition for the admins/mods.\n\nMake a weekly and monthly top 10/50/whatever for each sub reddit. Currently the 'top' and 'hot' buttons only show you content that is currently trending, but once the day cycle is up, it's gone, unless you archive it out.\n\nThis way if something great comes up, I can still view it throughout the week, giving credit to the creator/finder.\n\nI imagine most people upvote things they haven't seen before, which is why, I imagine, reposts appear time and time again on the front page. Different people voting up stuff that's new to them. A 'best of the week/month' system may help this, as more people will view the post by the original creator.\n\nI understand it would be an enormous undertaking to implement effectively, and won't solve the problem entirely, but hey, what are we doing if not constantly striving to make a better site?\n\nWhat does everyone think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys.\n\nI'm not sure if this is the right sub reddit but I really wanted to bring up this issue and wasn't sure where else to put it.\n\nToday I viewed [this post.](\n\nI had never seen that post before, and I love pun humour and so enjoyed it immensely. I checked out the comments, the top one being 'oh repost'.\n\nThis experience reminded me on the ridiculous anti-repost culture we have on reddit. Hear me out.\n\nIf the user had realised/cared that the post was a repost, and thus decided not to post it, I never would have seen it.\n\nI have also found that just missing a single day on reddit can leave me out of the loop on a tonne of content.\n\nIt's not fair that in order to see all the great content reddit has to offer, you are forced to be on reddit every single day. It's not *healthy* to have this culture.\n\nHowever, I do understand and completely sympathise with someone who has taken the time to create original content, only to see it in someone else's post a week later.\n\nSo, I have a proposition for the admins/mods.\n\nMake a weekly and monthly top 10/50/whatever for each sub reddit. Currently the 'top' and 'hot' buttons only show you content that is currently trending, but once the day cycle is up, it's gone, unless you archive it out.\n\nThis way if something great comes up, I can still view it throughout the week, giving credit to the creator/finder.\n\nI imagine most people upvote things they haven't seen before, which is why, I imagine, reposts appear time and time again on the front page. Different people voting up stuff that's new to them. A 'best of the week/month' system may help this, as more people will view the post by the original creator.\n\nI understand it would be an enormous undertaking to implement effectively, and won't solve the problem entirely, but hey, what are we doing if not constantly striving to make a better site?\n\nWhat does everyone think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys.\n\nI'm not sure if this is the right sub reddit but I really wanted to bring up this issue and wasn't sure where else to put it.\n\nToday I viewed [this post.](\n\nI had never seen that post before, and I love pun humour and so enjoyed it immensely. I checked out the comments, the top one being 'oh repost'.\n\nThis experience reminded me on the ridiculous anti-repost culture we have on reddit. Hear me out.\n\nIf the user had realised/cared that the post was a repost, and thus decided not to post it, I never would have seen it.\n\nI have also found that just missing a single day on reddit can leave me out of the loop on a tonne of content.\n\nIt's not fair that in order to see all the great content reddit has to offer, you are forced to be on reddit every single day. It's not *healthy* to have this culture.\n\nHowever, I do understand and completely sympathise with someone who has taken the time to create original content, only to see it in someone else's post a week later.\n\nSo, I have a proposition for the admins/mods.\n\nMake a weekly and monthly top 10/50/whatever for each sub reddit. Currently the 'top' and 'hot' buttons only show you content that is currently trending, but once the day cycle is up, it's gone, unless you archive it out.\n\nThis way if something great comes up, I can still view it throughout the week, giving credit to the creator/finder.\n\nI imagine most people upvote things they haven't seen before, which is why, I imagine, reposts appear time and time again on the front page. Different people voting up stuff that's new to them. A 'best of the week/month' system may help this, as more people will view the post by the original creator.\n\nI understand it would be an enormous undertaking to implement effectively, and won't solve the problem entirely, but hey, what are we doing if not constantly striving to make a better site?\n\nWhat does everyone think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We don't live together, but are looking to move in and get engaged within the next few months. \n\nWe've developed a dynamic where I constantly feel like his mother. The spark between us dampened. I love him immensely, but we seem to be stuck in a miserable rut. He just lost his job and is at a low point. He struggles with his self-esteem and anxiety. He doesn't make decisions and tends to get stuck in what I call worry spirals. I tend to be overbearing and want to jump in and make everything \"better\". \n\nThe relationship has shifted to a platonic partnership and I need help in shifting it back. If you've been in my shoes or my boyfriends shoes, please share your story. I'll do anything to make this work. He's the love of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We don't live together, but are looking to move in and get engaged within the next few months. \n\nWe've developed a dynamic where I constantly feel like his mother. The spark between us dampened. I love him immensely, but we seem to be stuck in a miserable rut. He just lost his job and is at a low point. He struggles with his self-esteem and anxiety. He doesn't make decisions and tends to get stuck in what I call worry spirals. I tend to be overbearing and want to jump in and make everything \"better\". \n\nThe relationship has shifted to a platonic partnership and I need help in shifting it back. If you've been in my shoes or my boyfriends shoes, please share your story. I'll do anything to make this work. He's the love of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We don't live together, but are looking to move in and get engaged within the next few months. \n\nWe've developed a dynamic where I constantly feel like his mother. The spark between us dampened. I love him immensely, but we seem to be stuck in a miserable rut. He just lost his job and is at a low point. He struggles with his self-esteem and anxiety. He doesn't make decisions and tends to get stuck in what I call worry spirals. I tend to be overbearing and want to jump in and make everything \"better\". \n\nThe relationship has shifted to a platonic partnership and I need help in shifting it back. If you've been in my shoes or my boyfriends shoes, please share your story. I'll do anything to make this work. He's the love of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We don't live together, but are looking to move in and get engaged within the next few months. \n\nWe've developed a dynamic where I constantly feel like his mother. The spark between us dampened. I love him immensely, but we seem to be stuck in a miserable rut. He just lost his job and is at a low point. He struggles with his self-esteem and anxiety. He doesn't make decisions and tends to get stuck in what I call worry spirals. I tend to be overbearing and want to jump in and make everything \"better\". \n\nThe relationship has shifted to a platonic partnership and I need help in shifting it back. If you've been in my shoes or my boyfriends shoes, please share your story. I'll do anything to make this work. He's the love of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We don't live together, but are looking to move in and get engaged within the next few months. \n\nWe've developed a dynamic where I constantly feel like his mother. The spark between us dampened. I love him immensely, but we seem to be stuck in a miserable rut. He just lost his job and is at a low point. He struggles with his self-esteem and anxiety. He doesn't make decisions and tends to get stuck in what I call worry spirals. I tend to be overbearing and want to jump in and make everything \"better\". \n\nThe relationship has shifted to a platonic partnership and I need help in shifting it back. If you've been in my shoes or my boyfriends shoes, please share your story. I'll do anything to make this work. He's the love of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We don't live together, but are looking to move in and get engaged within the next few months. \n\nWe've developed a dynamic where I constantly feel like his mother. The spark between us dampened. I love him immensely, but we seem to be stuck in a miserable rut. He just lost his job and is at a low point. He struggles with his self-esteem and anxiety. He doesn't make decisions and tends to get stuck in what I call worry spirals. I tend to be overbearing and want to jump in and make everything \"better\". \n\nThe relationship has shifted to a platonic partnership and I need help in shifting it back. If you've been in my shoes or my boyfriends shoes, please share your story. I'll do anything to make this work. He's the love of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, 2 year relationship, 3 months ago, found out she was sexting 20-30 guys online for validation. We had some time away and made up. Right now we're committed to being close to each other again. on a \"friend\" level. But she still wants to talk a couple of guys who were apparently \"really close\" friends. She says she won't be intimate with them. I told her if we want this to work, I want them out of her life completely. She replied with, \"But the thing you don't get\nis I'm not going to let you control shit.\nAt all\nyou have 0 right\nto control who I speak to\nYou may not trust them with me\nBut you need to trust ME.\" \n\nSo at this point I don't know if I'm in the wrong or she is? I have seriously contemplated leaving her 3 months ago but we've agreed to try to make it work. We had plans for the future and love each other a lot. Is what I'm asking unreasonable and controlling?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, 2 year relationship, 3 months ago, found out she was sexting 20-30 guys online for validation. We had some time away and made up. Right now we're committed to being close to each other again. on a \"friend\" level. But she still wants to talk a couple of guys who were apparently \"really close\" friends. She says she won't be intimate with them. I told her if we want this to work, I want them out of her life completely. She replied with, \"But the thing you don't get\nis I'm not going to let you control shit.\nAt all\nyou have 0 right\nto control who I speak to\nYou may not trust them with me\nBut you need to trust ME.\" \n\nSo at this point I don't know if I'm in the wrong or she is? I have seriously contemplated leaving her 3 months ago but we've agreed to try to make it work. We had plans for the future and love each other a lot. Is what I'm asking unreasonable and controlling?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, 2 year relationship, 3 months ago, found out she was sexting 20-30 guys online for validation. We had some time away and made up. Right now we're committed to being close to each other again. on a \"friend\" level. But she still wants to talk a couple of guys who were apparently \"really close\" friends. She says she won't be intimate with them. I told her if we want this to work, I want them out of her life completely. She replied with, \"But the thing you don't get\nis I'm not going to let you control shit.\nAt all\nyou have 0 right\nto control who I speak to\nYou may not trust them with me\nBut you need to trust ME.\" \n\nSo at this point I don't know if I'm in the wrong or she is? I have seriously contemplated leaving her 3 months ago but we've agreed to try to make it work. We had plans for the future and love each other a lot. Is what I'm asking unreasonable and controlling?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, 2 year relationship, 3 months ago, found out she was sexting 20-30 guys online for validation. We had some time away and made up. Right now we're committed to being close to each other again. on a \"friend\" level. But she still wants to talk a couple of guys who were apparently \"really close\" friends. She says she won't be intimate with them. I told her if we want this to work, I want them out of her life completely. She replied with, \"But the thing you don't get\nis I'm not going to let you control shit.\nAt all\nyou have 0 right\nto control who I speak to\nYou may not trust them with me\nBut you need to trust ME.\" \n\nSo at this point I don't know if I'm in the wrong or she is? I have seriously contemplated leaving her 3 months ago but we've agreed to try to make it work. We had plans for the future and love each other a lot. Is what I'm asking unreasonable and controlling?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, 2 year relationship, 3 months ago, found out she was sexting 20-30 guys online for validation. We had some time away and made up. Right now we're committed to being close to each other again. on a \"friend\" level. But she still wants to talk a couple of guys who were apparently \"really close\" friends. She says she won't be intimate with them. I told her if we want this to work, I want them out of her life completely. She replied with, \"But the thing you don't get\nis I'm not going to let you control shit.\nAt all\nyou have 0 right\nto control who I speak to\nYou may not trust them with me\nBut you need to trust ME.\" \n\nSo at this point I don't know if I'm in the wrong or she is? I have seriously contemplated leaving her 3 months ago but we've agreed to try to make it work. We had plans for the future and love each other a lot. Is what I'm asking unreasonable and controlling?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, 2 year relationship, 3 months ago, found out she was sexting 20-30 guys online for validation. We had some time away and made up. Right now we're committed to being close to each other again. on a \"friend\" level. But she still wants to talk a couple of guys who were apparently \"really close\" friends. She says she won't be intimate with them. I told her if we want this to work, I want them out of her life completely. She replied with, \"But the thing you don't get\nis I'm not going to let you control shit.\nAt all\nyou have 0 right\nto control who I speak to\nYou may not trust them with me\nBut you need to trust ME.\" \n\nSo at this point I don't know if I'm in the wrong or she is? I have seriously contemplated leaving her 3 months ago but we've agreed to try to make it work. We had plans for the future and love each other a lot. Is what I'm asking unreasonable and controlling?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in one relationship prior to this one that was a long-distance relationship that went no further than hugs (I'm a virgin essentially, relevant later). I was ecstatic when I started really talking to one of my coworkers and found that not only did I feel unusually trusting of her, but she showed an inordinate amount of interest in me. Days before I told one of my friend this year I'd likely kill myself. That seems more likely now than ever before. \n\nWe spent hours talking, hanging out; met her mom and all her family last night and they adored me (my girlfriend's sister-in-law works with us and lives with my girlfriend's mom). Even her best friend and husband took quiet a liking to me. So when one of her prior \"victims\" Facebook messaged me pics of a conversation she was having with another about me I was flabbergasted (I can post the censored pics if it might help). \n\nSo to get to the point, we are working tonight together for two consecutive 12 hour shifts. I currently have some stuff at her place now (nothing nicer than a Band of Brothers box set. Suggestions for how to proceed? I've never had this sort of occurrence and it's hard holding it together, let alone make the right move."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in one relationship prior to this one that was a long-distance relationship that went no further than hugs (I'm a virgin essentially, relevant later). I was ecstatic when I started really talking to one of my coworkers and found that not only did I feel unusually trusting of her, but she showed an inordinate amount of interest in me. Days before I told one of my friend this year I'd likely kill myself. That seems more likely now than ever before. \n\nWe spent hours talking, hanging out; met her mom and all her family last night and they adored me (my girlfriend's sister-in-law works with us and lives with my girlfriend's mom). Even her best friend and husband took quiet a liking to me. So when one of her prior \"victims\" Facebook messaged me pics of a conversation she was having with another about me I was flabbergasted (I can post the censored pics if it might help). \n\nSo to get to the point, we are working tonight together for two consecutive 12 hour shifts. I currently have some stuff at her place now (nothing nicer than a Band of Brothers box set. Suggestions for how to proceed? I've never had this sort of occurrence and it's hard holding it together, let alone make the right move."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in one relationship prior to this one that was a long-distance relationship that went no further than hugs (I'm a virgin essentially, relevant later). I was ecstatic when I started really talking to one of my coworkers and found that not only did I feel unusually trusting of her, but she showed an inordinate amount of interest in me. Days before I told one of my friend this year I'd likely kill myself. That seems more likely now than ever before. \n\nWe spent hours talking, hanging out; met her mom and all her family last night and they adored me (my girlfriend's sister-in-law works with us and lives with my girlfriend's mom). Even her best friend and husband took quiet a liking to me. So when one of her prior \"victims\" Facebook messaged me pics of a conversation she was having with another about me I was flabbergasted (I can post the censored pics if it might help). \n\nSo to get to the point, we are working tonight together for two consecutive 12 hour shifts. I currently have some stuff at her place now (nothing nicer than a Band of Brothers box set. Suggestions for how to proceed? I've never had this sort of occurrence and it's hard holding it together, let alone make the right move."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met a girl the other day at a new years music festival (she approached me) [I'm 19 (and look about 22) and she turned out to be 30 (but she looks 23)]. We danced and sang together for ages. Then I noticed we started to hold hands and she was standing close to me. Now, I have never had a gf or kissed a girl before due to different reasons (parents mainly) so I told her that; she didnt believe me. Anyway, she kissed me and joked that if I was lucky she'd make out with me. She did,. for ages. \n\nIt was amazing; best experience of my life I couldnt stop thinking about it. Then she gave me her number and told me to call her. I called her on the 1st but she didn't pick up and it made me depressed hammer-time the whole next day and my parents were getting pissed off cause I wasn't talking at all or telling them what happened cause they're super strict on this type of stuff. \n\nAnyway she finally got back to me and told me she was travelling back to her part of the country. So we talked that day for a while but she had a dinner. Then she contacted me the next day which surprised me since I thought it may just be me who thought anything of the relationship, but I guess I was wrong. I've never been in a long term relationship (let alone a long distance one) but I really like her. So I've been told that long distance can work, but can this age gap be overcome? I'll be a high-earning professional in 4 years after I finish my degree but right now I guess I'm still a kid in her eyes. Any advice from guys with older partners? \n\nCheers"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met a girl the other day at a new years music festival (she approached me) [I'm 19 (and look about 22) and she turned out to be 30 (but she looks 23)]. We danced and sang together for ages. Then I noticed we started to hold hands and she was standing close to me. Now, I have never had a gf or kissed a girl before due to different reasons (parents mainly) so I told her that; she didnt believe me. Anyway, she kissed me and joked that if I was lucky she'd make out with me. She did,. for ages. \n\nIt was amazing; best experience of my life I couldnt stop thinking about it. Then she gave me her number and told me to call her. I called her on the 1st but she didn't pick up and it made me depressed hammer-time the whole next day and my parents were getting pissed off cause I wasn't talking at all or telling them what happened cause they're super strict on this type of stuff. \n\nAnyway she finally got back to me and told me she was travelling back to her part of the country. So we talked that day for a while but she had a dinner. Then she contacted me the next day which surprised me since I thought it may just be me who thought anything of the relationship, but I guess I was wrong. I've never been in a long term relationship (let alone a long distance one) but I really like her. So I've been told that long distance can work, but can this age gap be overcome? I'll be a high-earning professional in 4 years after I finish my degree but right now I guess I'm still a kid in her eyes. Any advice from guys with older partners? \n\nCheers"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met a girl the other day at a new years music festival (she approached me) [I'm 19 (and look about 22) and she turned out to be 30 (but she looks 23)]. We danced and sang together for ages. Then I noticed we started to hold hands and she was standing close to me. Now, I have never had a gf or kissed a girl before due to different reasons (parents mainly) so I told her that; she didnt believe me. Anyway, she kissed me and joked that if I was lucky she'd make out with me. She did,. for ages. \n\nIt was amazing; best experience of my life I couldnt stop thinking about it. Then she gave me her number and told me to call her. I called her on the 1st but she didn't pick up and it made me depressed hammer-time the whole next day and my parents were getting pissed off cause I wasn't talking at all or telling them what happened cause they're super strict on this type of stuff. \n\nAnyway she finally got back to me and told me she was travelling back to her part of the country. So we talked that day for a while but she had a dinner. Then she contacted me the next day which surprised me since I thought it may just be me who thought anything of the relationship, but I guess I was wrong. I've never been in a long term relationship (let alone a long distance one) but I really like her. So I've been told that long distance can work, but can this age gap be overcome? I'll be a high-earning professional in 4 years after I finish my degree but right now I guess I'm still a kid in her eyes. Any advice from guys with older partners? \n\nCheers"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met a girl the other day at a new years music festival (she approached me) [I'm 19 (and look about 22) and she turned out to be 30 (but she looks 23)]. We danced and sang together for ages. Then I noticed we started to hold hands and she was standing close to me. Now, I have never had a gf or kissed a girl before due to different reasons (parents mainly) so I told her that; she didnt believe me. Anyway, she kissed me and joked that if I was lucky she'd make out with me. She did,. for ages. \n\nIt was amazing; best experience of my life I couldnt stop thinking about it. Then she gave me her number and told me to call her. I called her on the 1st but she didn't pick up and it made me depressed hammer-time the whole next day and my parents were getting pissed off cause I wasn't talking at all or telling them what happened cause they're super strict on this type of stuff. \n\nAnyway she finally got back to me and told me she was travelling back to her part of the country. So we talked that day for a while but she had a dinner. Then she contacted me the next day which surprised me since I thought it may just be me who thought anything of the relationship, but I guess I was wrong. I've never been in a long term relationship (let alone a long distance one) but I really like her. So I've been told that long distance can work, but can this age gap be overcome? I'll be a high-earning professional in 4 years after I finish my degree but right now I guess I'm still a kid in her eyes. Any advice from guys with older partners? \n\nCheers"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met a girl the other day at a new years music festival (she approached me) [I'm 19 (and look about 22) and she turned out to be 30 (but she looks 23)]. We danced and sang together for ages. Then I noticed we started to hold hands and she was standing close to me. Now, I have never had a gf or kissed a girl before due to different reasons (parents mainly) so I told her that; she didnt believe me. Anyway, she kissed me and joked that if I was lucky she'd make out with me. She did,. for ages. \n\nIt was amazing; best experience of my life I couldnt stop thinking about it. Then she gave me her number and told me to call her. I called her on the 1st but she didn't pick up and it made me depressed hammer-time the whole next day and my parents were getting pissed off cause I wasn't talking at all or telling them what happened cause they're super strict on this type of stuff. \n\nAnyway she finally got back to me and told me she was travelling back to her part of the country. So we talked that day for a while but she had a dinner. Then she contacted me the next day which surprised me since I thought it may just be me who thought anything of the relationship, but I guess I was wrong. I've never been in a long term relationship (let alone a long distance one) but I really like her. So I've been told that long distance can work, but can this age gap be overcome? I'll be a high-earning professional in 4 years after I finish my degree but right now I guess I'm still a kid in her eyes. Any advice from guys with older partners? \n\nCheers"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met a girl the other day at a new years music festival (she approached me) [I'm 19 (and look about 22) and she turned out to be 30 (but she looks 23)]. We danced and sang together for ages. Then I noticed we started to hold hands and she was standing close to me. Now, I have never had a gf or kissed a girl before due to different reasons (parents mainly) so I told her that; she didnt believe me. Anyway, she kissed me and joked that if I was lucky she'd make out with me. She did,. for ages. \n\nIt was amazing; best experience of my life I couldnt stop thinking about it. Then she gave me her number and told me to call her. I called her on the 1st but she didn't pick up and it made me depressed hammer-time the whole next day and my parents were getting pissed off cause I wasn't talking at all or telling them what happened cause they're super strict on this type of stuff. \n\nAnyway she finally got back to me and told me she was travelling back to her part of the country. So we talked that day for a while but she had a dinner. Then she contacted me the next day which surprised me since I thought it may just be me who thought anything of the relationship, but I guess I was wrong. I've never been in a long term relationship (let alone a long distance one) but I really like her. So I've been told that long distance can work, but can this age gap be overcome? I'll be a high-earning professional in 4 years after I finish my degree but right now I guess I'm still a kid in her eyes. Any advice from guys with older partners? \n\nCheers"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I love my girlfriend but I think we're spending a little too much time together and it's starting to negatively effect our relationship, at least for me. That excitement I used to feel when we were going to spend time together is basically gone. I was wondering if this meant my feelings for her had diminished, but I still care about her a hell of a lot.\n\nProblem is, my friends have largely grown up and moved away and she hasn't made any good friends over here at her school. We're both pretty heavily introverted and took to each other immediately and hard. But now we're spending most of our freetime together and aren't really doing much with it. It got to the point the other day where I was even bored of sex for the first time in our relationship.\n\nIt's just weird feeling bored with someone I fell in love with. I don't want to lose her from my life but it's also hard to think about feeling this way the rest of my life when I could be out chasing women. It's starting to feel like I'm missing out. I also half wonder if she would be as interested in me if she had a more active social life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I love my girlfriend but I think we're spending a little too much time together and it's starting to negatively effect our relationship, at least for me. That excitement I used to feel when we were going to spend time together is basically gone. I was wondering if this meant my feelings for her had diminished, but I still care about her a hell of a lot.\n\nProblem is, my friends have largely grown up and moved away and she hasn't made any good friends over here at her school. We're both pretty heavily introverted and took to each other immediately and hard. But now we're spending most of our freetime together and aren't really doing much with it. It got to the point the other day where I was even bored of sex for the first time in our relationship.\n\nIt's just weird feeling bored with someone I fell in love with. I don't want to lose her from my life but it's also hard to think about feeling this way the rest of my life when I could be out chasing women. It's starting to feel like I'm missing out. I also half wonder if she would be as interested in me if she had a more active social life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I love my girlfriend but I think we're spending a little too much time together and it's starting to negatively effect our relationship, at least for me. That excitement I used to feel when we were going to spend time together is basically gone. I was wondering if this meant my feelings for her had diminished, but I still care about her a hell of a lot.\n\nProblem is, my friends have largely grown up and moved away and she hasn't made any good friends over here at her school. We're both pretty heavily introverted and took to each other immediately and hard. But now we're spending most of our freetime together and aren't really doing much with it. It got to the point the other day where I was even bored of sex for the first time in our relationship.\n\nIt's just weird feeling bored with someone I fell in love with. I don't want to lose her from my life but it's also hard to think about feeling this way the rest of my life when I could be out chasing women. It's starting to feel like I'm missing out. I also half wonder if she would be as interested in me if she had a more active social life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I love my girlfriend but I think we're spending a little too much time together and it's starting to negatively effect our relationship, at least for me. That excitement I used to feel when we were going to spend time together is basically gone. I was wondering if this meant my feelings for her had diminished, but I still care about her a hell of a lot.\n\nProblem is, my friends have largely grown up and moved away and she hasn't made any good friends over here at her school. We're both pretty heavily introverted and took to each other immediately and hard. But now we're spending most of our freetime together and aren't really doing much with it. It got to the point the other day where I was even bored of sex for the first time in our relationship.\n\nIt's just weird feeling bored with someone I fell in love with. I don't want to lose her from my life but it's also hard to think about feeling this way the rest of my life when I could be out chasing women. It's starting to feel like I'm missing out. I also half wonder if she would be as interested in me if she had a more active social life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I love my girlfriend but I think we're spending a little too much time together and it's starting to negatively effect our relationship, at least for me. That excitement I used to feel when we were going to spend time together is basically gone. I was wondering if this meant my feelings for her had diminished, but I still care about her a hell of a lot.\n\nProblem is, my friends have largely grown up and moved away and she hasn't made any good friends over here at her school. We're both pretty heavily introverted and took to each other immediately and hard. But now we're spending most of our freetime together and aren't really doing much with it. It got to the point the other day where I was even bored of sex for the first time in our relationship.\n\nIt's just weird feeling bored with someone I fell in love with. I don't want to lose her from my life but it's also hard to think about feeling this way the rest of my life when I could be out chasing women. It's starting to feel like I'm missing out. I also half wonder if she would be as interested in me if she had a more active social life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I love my girlfriend but I think we're spending a little too much time together and it's starting to negatively effect our relationship, at least for me. That excitement I used to feel when we were going to spend time together is basically gone. I was wondering if this meant my feelings for her had diminished, but I still care about her a hell of a lot.\n\nProblem is, my friends have largely grown up and moved away and she hasn't made any good friends over here at her school. We're both pretty heavily introverted and took to each other immediately and hard. But now we're spending most of our freetime together and aren't really doing much with it. It got to the point the other day where I was even bored of sex for the first time in our relationship.\n\nIt's just weird feeling bored with someone I fell in love with. I don't want to lose her from my life but it's also hard to think about feeling this way the rest of my life when I could be out chasing women. It's starting to feel like I'm missing out. I also half wonder if she would be as interested in me if she had a more active social life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear reddit,\n\nI was in Pizza Hut eating the delicious buffet, when I realized I had left my debit card in my car (it was not in my wallet). I brought the receipt with me and paid as soon as I got back with my debit card; thus, leaving my wallet at the booth.\n\nI got home and a couple hours later received a call. It was a man (named Marcus) who had found my wallet in the booth in Pizza Hut. My wallet had one hundred dollars, gas card, private information, check receipts, etc. Relatively standard wallet things. Marcus had driven by my house a couple times and called-all trying to return my wallet to me. I meet him at a public area, thank him, and give him twenty dollars (I am a poor college student).\n\nHe easily could have pocketed the money, then given it back to me, or taken the money and tossed the wallet, etc. Which would you have chosen, honestly, reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear reddit,\n\nI was in Pizza Hut eating the delicious buffet, when I realized I had left my debit card in my car (it was not in my wallet). I brought the receipt with me and paid as soon as I got back with my debit card; thus, leaving my wallet at the booth.\n\nI got home and a couple hours later received a call. It was a man (named Marcus) who had found my wallet in the booth in Pizza Hut. My wallet had one hundred dollars, gas card, private information, check receipts, etc. Relatively standard wallet things. Marcus had driven by my house a couple times and called-all trying to return my wallet to me. I meet him at a public area, thank him, and give him twenty dollars (I am a poor college student).\n\nHe easily could have pocketed the money, then given it back to me, or taken the money and tossed the wallet, etc. Which would you have chosen, honestly, reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear reddit,\n\nI was in Pizza Hut eating the delicious buffet, when I realized I had left my debit card in my car (it was not in my wallet). I brought the receipt with me and paid as soon as I got back with my debit card; thus, leaving my wallet at the booth.\n\nI got home and a couple hours later received a call. It was a man (named Marcus) who had found my wallet in the booth in Pizza Hut. My wallet had one hundred dollars, gas card, private information, check receipts, etc. Relatively standard wallet things. Marcus had driven by my house a couple times and called-all trying to return my wallet to me. I meet him at a public area, thank him, and give him twenty dollars (I am a poor college student).\n\nHe easily could have pocketed the money, then given it back to me, or taken the money and tossed the wallet, etc. Which would you have chosen, honestly, reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear reddit,\n\nI was in Pizza Hut eating the delicious buffet, when I realized I had left my debit card in my car (it was not in my wallet). I brought the receipt with me and paid as soon as I got back with my debit card; thus, leaving my wallet at the booth.\n\nI got home and a couple hours later received a call. It was a man (named Marcus) who had found my wallet in the booth in Pizza Hut. My wallet had one hundred dollars, gas card, private information, check receipts, etc. Relatively standard wallet things. Marcus had driven by my house a couple times and called-all trying to return my wallet to me. I meet him at a public area, thank him, and give him twenty dollars (I am a poor college student).\n\nHe easily could have pocketed the money, then given it back to me, or taken the money and tossed the wallet, etc. Which would you have chosen, honestly, reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear reddit,\n\nI was in Pizza Hut eating the delicious buffet, when I realized I had left my debit card in my car (it was not in my wallet). I brought the receipt with me and paid as soon as I got back with my debit card; thus, leaving my wallet at the booth.\n\nI got home and a couple hours later received a call. It was a man (named Marcus) who had found my wallet in the booth in Pizza Hut. My wallet had one hundred dollars, gas card, private information, check receipts, etc. Relatively standard wallet things. Marcus had driven by my house a couple times and called-all trying to return my wallet to me. I meet him at a public area, thank him, and give him twenty dollars (I am a poor college student).\n\nHe easily could have pocketed the money, then given it back to me, or taken the money and tossed the wallet, etc. Which would you have chosen, honestly, reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear reddit,\n\nI was in Pizza Hut eating the delicious buffet, when I realized I had left my debit card in my car (it was not in my wallet). I brought the receipt with me and paid as soon as I got back with my debit card; thus, leaving my wallet at the booth.\n\nI got home and a couple hours later received a call. It was a man (named Marcus) who had found my wallet in the booth in Pizza Hut. My wallet had one hundred dollars, gas card, private information, check receipts, etc. Relatively standard wallet things. Marcus had driven by my house a couple times and called-all trying to return my wallet to me. I meet him at a public area, thank him, and give him twenty dollars (I am a poor college student).\n\nHe easily could have pocketed the money, then given it back to me, or taken the money and tossed the wallet, etc. Which would you have chosen, honestly, reddit?"
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