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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a few years back my in-laws decided that they were \"retired\" even though they had not saved much if anything at all and were not at the retirement age, i.e. they did not qualify for medicare and they also chose not to purchase medical insurance to cover any unexpected medical issues. Their only major asset was their home which was paid off. \n\nFast forward a couple of years and MIL discovers an issue that is going to require hospitals stays and treatment that will cost quite the sum of money. Of course they do not have the means not the insurance to cover any of this. We were not sure what their plan was but they said the hospital directed them to a program (they said through the govt but I really no none of the details) that would allow them have the treatment covered fully in exchange for their house becoming govt (again i dont know for sure if it was govt or the hospital) property when they passed on.\n\nHas anyone heard of such a program? If so, could kindly direct me to any information on it?\n\nIn-laws are now selling their house and downsizing a little (it is more of a lateral move, just no yard to maintain) and they are still in a very precarious financial position, essentially living off of social security. My major concern is the possibility that they sell their house, purchase the new place and everything is hunky dory until next year at tax time when they report this sale and potentially the tax man comes calling to collect their asset that they agreed to give up. I really have no idea if this is how it would work out and they haven't provided much info other than to say they checked with county and there were no liens on the house so in their mind they are good to go.\n\nWorst case scenario is that they do have to suddenly come up with a huge sum this time next year and of course they cannot even start to cover that which would be disastrous on so many levels, possibly impacting me.\n\nIf anyone has any info or has heard of a program like this i would really appreciate any and all information you wouldn't mind sharing.\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a few years back my in-laws decided that they were \"retired\" even though they had not saved much if anything at all and were not at the retirement age, i.e. they did not qualify for medicare and they also chose not to purchase medical insurance to cover any unexpected medical issues. Their only major asset was their home which was paid off. \n\nFast forward a couple of years and MIL discovers an issue that is going to require hospitals stays and treatment that will cost quite the sum of money. Of course they do not have the means not the insurance to cover any of this. We were not sure what their plan was but they said the hospital directed them to a program (they said through the govt but I really no none of the details) that would allow them have the treatment covered fully in exchange for their house becoming govt (again i dont know for sure if it was govt or the hospital) property when they passed on.\n\nHas anyone heard of such a program? If so, could kindly direct me to any information on it?\n\nIn-laws are now selling their house and downsizing a little (it is more of a lateral move, just no yard to maintain) and they are still in a very precarious financial position, essentially living off of social security. My major concern is the possibility that they sell their house, purchase the new place and everything is hunky dory until next year at tax time when they report this sale and potentially the tax man comes calling to collect their asset that they agreed to give up. I really have no idea if this is how it would work out and they haven't provided much info other than to say they checked with county and there were no liens on the house so in their mind they are good to go.\n\nWorst case scenario is that they do have to suddenly come up with a huge sum this time next year and of course they cannot even start to cover that which would be disastrous on so many levels, possibly impacting me.\n\nIf anyone has any info or has heard of a program like this i would really appreciate any and all information you wouldn't mind sharing.\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our life isnt easy even a little bit, so I try to lessen the blow on her. I calm her down when she gets an attitude. Mediate her fighting so she doesn't get in trouble. Cook and entertain for her. And I am constantly listening and trying to be there for her to help her out with her life-size she isn't the most mature person ever.\n\nAnyways, I have no problem doing this for her because I want to be a good person and help her in any way possible if she would just show a little gratitude. She acts like she hates me and gets angry Everytime I do something for myself. She is rude to me and constantly belittles me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our life isnt easy even a little bit, so I try to lessen the blow on her. I calm her down when she gets an attitude. Mediate her fighting so she doesn't get in trouble. Cook and entertain for her. And I am constantly listening and trying to be there for her to help her out with her life-size she isn't the most mature person ever.\n\nAnyways, I have no problem doing this for her because I want to be a good person and help her in any way possible if she would just show a little gratitude. She acts like she hates me and gets angry Everytime I do something for myself. She is rude to me and constantly belittles me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our life isnt easy even a little bit, so I try to lessen the blow on her. I calm her down when she gets an attitude. Mediate her fighting so she doesn't get in trouble. Cook and entertain for her. And I am constantly listening and trying to be there for her to help her out with her life-size she isn't the most mature person ever.\n\nAnyways, I have no problem doing this for her because I want to be a good person and help her in any way possible if she would just show a little gratitude. She acts like she hates me and gets angry Everytime I do something for myself. She is rude to me and constantly belittles me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our life isnt easy even a little bit, so I try to lessen the blow on her. I calm her down when she gets an attitude. Mediate her fighting so she doesn't get in trouble. Cook and entertain for her. And I am constantly listening and trying to be there for her to help her out with her life-size she isn't the most mature person ever.\n\nAnyways, I have no problem doing this for her because I want to be a good person and help her in any way possible if she would just show a little gratitude. She acts like she hates me and gets angry Everytime I do something for myself. She is rude to me and constantly belittles me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our life isnt easy even a little bit, so I try to lessen the blow on her. I calm her down when she gets an attitude. Mediate her fighting so she doesn't get in trouble. Cook and entertain for her. And I am constantly listening and trying to be there for her to help her out with her life-size she isn't the most mature person ever.\n\nAnyways, I have no problem doing this for her because I want to be a good person and help her in any way possible if she would just show a little gratitude. She acts like she hates me and gets angry Everytime I do something for myself. She is rude to me and constantly belittles me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our life isnt easy even a little bit, so I try to lessen the blow on her. I calm her down when she gets an attitude. Mediate her fighting so she doesn't get in trouble. Cook and entertain for her. And I am constantly listening and trying to be there for her to help her out with her life-size she isn't the most mature person ever.\n\nAnyways, I have no problem doing this for her because I want to be a good person and help her in any way possible if she would just show a little gratitude. She acts like she hates me and gets angry Everytime I do something for myself. She is rude to me and constantly belittles me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not sure how I got to this point, because I always thought I wanted to have children at some point in my life, but since we got married, I've slowly begun to realize that I don't want to be a father, ever. I'm extremely comfortable with my life and have no desire to upset it, and I just don't think I would enjoy the struggles that come with parenthood. I even worry that I wouldn't be able to love my children for whatever reason. \n\nObviously, I know that I have to come clean with my wife and tell her this. She already has been pushing for kids, so I realize that I shouldn't waste her time. If she wants children, then she deserves to have them. \n\nI guess I'm really just looking for advice on how to explain this to her and how to prepare for the inevitable divorce. (I don't think she would be okay with never having kids.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not sure how I got to this point, because I always thought I wanted to have children at some point in my life, but since we got married, I've slowly begun to realize that I don't want to be a father, ever. I'm extremely comfortable with my life and have no desire to upset it, and I just don't think I would enjoy the struggles that come with parenthood. I even worry that I wouldn't be able to love my children for whatever reason. \n\nObviously, I know that I have to come clean with my wife and tell her this. She already has been pushing for kids, so I realize that I shouldn't waste her time. If she wants children, then she deserves to have them. \n\nI guess I'm really just looking for advice on how to explain this to her and how to prepare for the inevitable divorce. (I don't think she would be okay with never having kids.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not sure how I got to this point, because I always thought I wanted to have children at some point in my life, but since we got married, I've slowly begun to realize that I don't want to be a father, ever. I'm extremely comfortable with my life and have no desire to upset it, and I just don't think I would enjoy the struggles that come with parenthood. I even worry that I wouldn't be able to love my children for whatever reason. \n\nObviously, I know that I have to come clean with my wife and tell her this. She already has been pushing for kids, so I realize that I shouldn't waste her time. If she wants children, then she deserves to have them. \n\nI guess I'm really just looking for advice on how to explain this to her and how to prepare for the inevitable divorce. (I don't think she would be okay with never having kids.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not sure how I got to this point, because I always thought I wanted to have children at some point in my life, but since we got married, I've slowly begun to realize that I don't want to be a father, ever. I'm extremely comfortable with my life and have no desire to upset it, and I just don't think I would enjoy the struggles that come with parenthood. I even worry that I wouldn't be able to love my children for whatever reason. \n\nObviously, I know that I have to come clean with my wife and tell her this. She already has been pushing for kids, so I realize that I shouldn't waste her time. If she wants children, then she deserves to have them. \n\nI guess I'm really just looking for advice on how to explain this to her and how to prepare for the inevitable divorce. (I don't think she would be okay with never having kids.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not sure how I got to this point, because I always thought I wanted to have children at some point in my life, but since we got married, I've slowly begun to realize that I don't want to be a father, ever. I'm extremely comfortable with my life and have no desire to upset it, and I just don't think I would enjoy the struggles that come with parenthood. I even worry that I wouldn't be able to love my children for whatever reason. \n\nObviously, I know that I have to come clean with my wife and tell her this. She already has been pushing for kids, so I realize that I shouldn't waste her time. If she wants children, then she deserves to have them. \n\nI guess I'm really just looking for advice on how to explain this to her and how to prepare for the inevitable divorce. (I don't think she would be okay with never having kids.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not sure how I got to this point, because I always thought I wanted to have children at some point in my life, but since we got married, I've slowly begun to realize that I don't want to be a father, ever. I'm extremely comfortable with my life and have no desire to upset it, and I just don't think I would enjoy the struggles that come with parenthood. I even worry that I wouldn't be able to love my children for whatever reason. \n\nObviously, I know that I have to come clean with my wife and tell her this. She already has been pushing for kids, so I realize that I shouldn't waste her time. If she wants children, then she deserves to have them. \n\nI guess I'm really just looking for advice on how to explain this to her and how to prepare for the inevitable divorce. (I don't think she would be okay with never having kids.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I know this post may come off as childish and dramatic to some, but this post isn't for you, it's for me. Four years ago, when I was 17, I had a plan. I was gonna move to Boston after high school graduation and become a journalist/writer of some kind. Long story short I pussied out and didn't do it. \n\nInstead I went to a local cc and I hated it, so I rushed to get out. The only schools that allowed 1 year transfers were out of state schools, so I pressured my parents into sending me to a school that has been and is still stressing them out financially. \n\nI compounded both of these fuck ups by majoring in business instead of one of my passions (film/tv, creative writing, or journalism). I told myself and my parents that I chose business because I wanted to be well-rounded, but the truth is, I was scared.\n\nLast year, as a sophomore, I moved into a house with 3 other business majors, all younger than me, and all heavy drinkers/drug-users. I joined them in their activities, willingly, running away from pretty much every responsibility or passion I had.\n\nNow, I'm 21 but with no 21 year old friends, I know no one that shares my passions, and I feel myself slipping into a very depressing, selfish, and lonely life. \n\nLately I've been trying to take positive steps, stop doing all drugs except drinking occasionally on the weekends, and going to all of my classes and taking notes, but I'm still in this party house, and still far from my passions. I get awful sleep for my early morning classes, so I walk around all day subliminally angry, and I float from one business class to the next unsure if I should try to make friends, or if I'm in the right place, or if I should simply still be asleep.\n\nI feel like I've lost the promising person I was, and I want that back. I want to feel like me again if that makes any sense. But I have no idea how to get there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I know this post may come off as childish and dramatic to some, but this post isn't for you, it's for me. Four years ago, when I was 17, I had a plan. I was gonna move to Boston after high school graduation and become a journalist/writer of some kind. Long story short I pussied out and didn't do it. \n\nInstead I went to a local cc and I hated it, so I rushed to get out. The only schools that allowed 1 year transfers were out of state schools, so I pressured my parents into sending me to a school that has been and is still stressing them out financially. \n\nI compounded both of these fuck ups by majoring in business instead of one of my passions (film/tv, creative writing, or journalism). I told myself and my parents that I chose business because I wanted to be well-rounded, but the truth is, I was scared.\n\nLast year, as a sophomore, I moved into a house with 3 other business majors, all younger than me, and all heavy drinkers/drug-users. I joined them in their activities, willingly, running away from pretty much every responsibility or passion I had.\n\nNow, I'm 21 but with no 21 year old friends, I know no one that shares my passions, and I feel myself slipping into a very depressing, selfish, and lonely life. \n\nLately I've been trying to take positive steps, stop doing all drugs except drinking occasionally on the weekends, and going to all of my classes and taking notes, but I'm still in this party house, and still far from my passions. I get awful sleep for my early morning classes, so I walk around all day subliminally angry, and I float from one business class to the next unsure if I should try to make friends, or if I'm in the right place, or if I should simply still be asleep.\n\nI feel like I've lost the promising person I was, and I want that back. I want to feel like me again if that makes any sense. But I have no idea how to get there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I know this post may come off as childish and dramatic to some, but this post isn't for you, it's for me. Four years ago, when I was 17, I had a plan. I was gonna move to Boston after high school graduation and become a journalist/writer of some kind. Long story short I pussied out and didn't do it. \n\nInstead I went to a local cc and I hated it, so I rushed to get out. The only schools that allowed 1 year transfers were out of state schools, so I pressured my parents into sending me to a school that has been and is still stressing them out financially. \n\nI compounded both of these fuck ups by majoring in business instead of one of my passions (film/tv, creative writing, or journalism). I told myself and my parents that I chose business because I wanted to be well-rounded, but the truth is, I was scared.\n\nLast year, as a sophomore, I moved into a house with 3 other business majors, all younger than me, and all heavy drinkers/drug-users. I joined them in their activities, willingly, running away from pretty much every responsibility or passion I had.\n\nNow, I'm 21 but with no 21 year old friends, I know no one that shares my passions, and I feel myself slipping into a very depressing, selfish, and lonely life. \n\nLately I've been trying to take positive steps, stop doing all drugs except drinking occasionally on the weekends, and going to all of my classes and taking notes, but I'm still in this party house, and still far from my passions. I get awful sleep for my early morning classes, so I walk around all day subliminally angry, and I float from one business class to the next unsure if I should try to make friends, or if I'm in the right place, or if I should simply still be asleep.\n\nI feel like I've lost the promising person I was, and I want that back. I want to feel like me again if that makes any sense. But I have no idea how to get there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I know this post may come off as childish and dramatic to some, but this post isn't for you, it's for me. Four years ago, when I was 17, I had a plan. I was gonna move to Boston after high school graduation and become a journalist/writer of some kind. Long story short I pussied out and didn't do it. \n\nInstead I went to a local cc and I hated it, so I rushed to get out. The only schools that allowed 1 year transfers were out of state schools, so I pressured my parents into sending me to a school that has been and is still stressing them out financially. \n\nI compounded both of these fuck ups by majoring in business instead of one of my passions (film/tv, creative writing, or journalism). I told myself and my parents that I chose business because I wanted to be well-rounded, but the truth is, I was scared.\n\nLast year, as a sophomore, I moved into a house with 3 other business majors, all younger than me, and all heavy drinkers/drug-users. I joined them in their activities, willingly, running away from pretty much every responsibility or passion I had.\n\nNow, I'm 21 but with no 21 year old friends, I know no one that shares my passions, and I feel myself slipping into a very depressing, selfish, and lonely life. \n\nLately I've been trying to take positive steps, stop doing all drugs except drinking occasionally on the weekends, and going to all of my classes and taking notes, but I'm still in this party house, and still far from my passions. I get awful sleep for my early morning classes, so I walk around all day subliminally angry, and I float from one business class to the next unsure if I should try to make friends, or if I'm in the right place, or if I should simply still be asleep.\n\nI feel like I've lost the promising person I was, and I want that back. I want to feel like me again if that makes any sense. But I have no idea how to get there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I know this post may come off as childish and dramatic to some, but this post isn't for you, it's for me. Four years ago, when I was 17, I had a plan. I was gonna move to Boston after high school graduation and become a journalist/writer of some kind. Long story short I pussied out and didn't do it. \n\nInstead I went to a local cc and I hated it, so I rushed to get out. The only schools that allowed 1 year transfers were out of state schools, so I pressured my parents into sending me to a school that has been and is still stressing them out financially. \n\nI compounded both of these fuck ups by majoring in business instead of one of my passions (film/tv, creative writing, or journalism). I told myself and my parents that I chose business because I wanted to be well-rounded, but the truth is, I was scared.\n\nLast year, as a sophomore, I moved into a house with 3 other business majors, all younger than me, and all heavy drinkers/drug-users. I joined them in their activities, willingly, running away from pretty much every responsibility or passion I had.\n\nNow, I'm 21 but with no 21 year old friends, I know no one that shares my passions, and I feel myself slipping into a very depressing, selfish, and lonely life. \n\nLately I've been trying to take positive steps, stop doing all drugs except drinking occasionally on the weekends, and going to all of my classes and taking notes, but I'm still in this party house, and still far from my passions. I get awful sleep for my early morning classes, so I walk around all day subliminally angry, and I float from one business class to the next unsure if I should try to make friends, or if I'm in the right place, or if I should simply still be asleep.\n\nI feel like I've lost the promising person I was, and I want that back. I want to feel like me again if that makes any sense. But I have no idea how to get there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I know this post may come off as childish and dramatic to some, but this post isn't for you, it's for me. Four years ago, when I was 17, I had a plan. I was gonna move to Boston after high school graduation and become a journalist/writer of some kind. Long story short I pussied out and didn't do it. \n\nInstead I went to a local cc and I hated it, so I rushed to get out. The only schools that allowed 1 year transfers were out of state schools, so I pressured my parents into sending me to a school that has been and is still stressing them out financially. \n\nI compounded both of these fuck ups by majoring in business instead of one of my passions (film/tv, creative writing, or journalism). I told myself and my parents that I chose business because I wanted to be well-rounded, but the truth is, I was scared.\n\nLast year, as a sophomore, I moved into a house with 3 other business majors, all younger than me, and all heavy drinkers/drug-users. I joined them in their activities, willingly, running away from pretty much every responsibility or passion I had.\n\nNow, I'm 21 but with no 21 year old friends, I know no one that shares my passions, and I feel myself slipping into a very depressing, selfish, and lonely life. \n\nLately I've been trying to take positive steps, stop doing all drugs except drinking occasionally on the weekends, and going to all of my classes and taking notes, but I'm still in this party house, and still far from my passions. I get awful sleep for my early morning classes, so I walk around all day subliminally angry, and I float from one business class to the next unsure if I should try to make friends, or if I'm in the right place, or if I should simply still be asleep.\n\nI feel like I've lost the promising person I was, and I want that back. I want to feel like me again if that makes any sense. But I have no idea how to get there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Followup to this: \n\nWe broke up today and I just need a place to vent a bit. We got to know each other at 16, it was the first relationship for both of us. First everything. Long distance relationship for a whopping 4 years after meeting over the internet, and we even moved in together and gone for 2 more years. I think it's fairly impressive.\n\nI know it's going to suck hard. I know the first relationship is always special. \n\nRight now it hasn't really hit me yet. It feels like there is still hope even though I know deep inside there isn't. We still want to be friends and she's gonna move out once she finds a place, but this is gonna be super hard for me. \nOne day she just stopped loving me. It just seems so unfair because i did everything for her and never saw it coming. I still love her to death and can't really talk to anyone about this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Followup to this: \n\nWe broke up today and I just need a place to vent a bit. We got to know each other at 16, it was the first relationship for both of us. First everything. Long distance relationship for a whopping 4 years after meeting over the internet, and we even moved in together and gone for 2 more years. I think it's fairly impressive.\n\nI know it's going to suck hard. I know the first relationship is always special. \n\nRight now it hasn't really hit me yet. It feels like there is still hope even though I know deep inside there isn't. We still want to be friends and she's gonna move out once she finds a place, but this is gonna be super hard for me. \nOne day she just stopped loving me. It just seems so unfair because i did everything for her and never saw it coming. I still love her to death and can't really talk to anyone about this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Followup to this: \n\nWe broke up today and I just need a place to vent a bit. We got to know each other at 16, it was the first relationship for both of us. First everything. Long distance relationship for a whopping 4 years after meeting over the internet, and we even moved in together and gone for 2 more years. I think it's fairly impressive.\n\nI know it's going to suck hard. I know the first relationship is always special. \n\nRight now it hasn't really hit me yet. It feels like there is still hope even though I know deep inside there isn't. We still want to be friends and she's gonna move out once she finds a place, but this is gonna be super hard for me. \nOne day she just stopped loving me. It just seems so unfair because i did everything for her and never saw it coming. I still love her to death and can't really talk to anyone about this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Followup to this: \n\nWe broke up today and I just need a place to vent a bit. We got to know each other at 16, it was the first relationship for both of us. First everything. Long distance relationship for a whopping 4 years after meeting over the internet, and we even moved in together and gone for 2 more years. I think it's fairly impressive.\n\nI know it's going to suck hard. I know the first relationship is always special. \n\nRight now it hasn't really hit me yet. It feels like there is still hope even though I know deep inside there isn't. We still want to be friends and she's gonna move out once she finds a place, but this is gonna be super hard for me. \nOne day she just stopped loving me. It just seems so unfair because i did everything for her and never saw it coming. I still love her to death and can't really talk to anyone about this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Followup to this: \n\nWe broke up today and I just need a place to vent a bit. We got to know each other at 16, it was the first relationship for both of us. First everything. Long distance relationship for a whopping 4 years after meeting over the internet, and we even moved in together and gone for 2 more years. I think it's fairly impressive.\n\nI know it's going to suck hard. I know the first relationship is always special. \n\nRight now it hasn't really hit me yet. It feels like there is still hope even though I know deep inside there isn't. We still want to be friends and she's gonna move out once she finds a place, but this is gonna be super hard for me. \nOne day she just stopped loving me. It just seems so unfair because i did everything for her and never saw it coming. I still love her to death and can't really talk to anyone about this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Followup to this: \n\nWe broke up today and I just need a place to vent a bit. We got to know each other at 16, it was the first relationship for both of us. First everything. Long distance relationship for a whopping 4 years after meeting over the internet, and we even moved in together and gone for 2 more years. I think it's fairly impressive.\n\nI know it's going to suck hard. I know the first relationship is always special. \n\nRight now it hasn't really hit me yet. It feels like there is still hope even though I know deep inside there isn't. We still want to be friends and she's gonna move out once she finds a place, but this is gonna be super hard for me. \nOne day she just stopped loving me. It just seems so unfair because i did everything for her and never saw it coming. I still love her to death and can't really talk to anyone about this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: High school junior here, sorry if you get a lot of these posts but I'm looking for some help. \n\nU penn (Wharton, specifically) is my top choice right now and I want to know how realistic it is for me to get accepted. I'd like to go into management business consulting if I can. I plan on applying to several other ivies, the Air Force academy, and IU as a safety. \n\nMy résumé: I have a 3.86 uw and 4.07 w GPA, top 10% of my class of over 700 at a competitive hs. I've taken several AP/ advanced classes. I'm on the mock trial team, on a community board, will soon hold a leadership position in Interact club (youth rotary), I'm on the wrestling team (It's my first year, I'm on jv, probably won't ever be varsity), and I'm pretty involved in my church. I volunteer monthly at a soup kitchen but it's closing this month :( . Senior year I'll have a government-related internship though the school, won't know what it is specifically when I apply though. \n\n2060 SAT, plan to retake it, and I'm using a tutoring program that should help. Haven't taken ACT. I would say I have strong people skills and could interact well with recruiters. Low- average middle class family with few Ivy League connections. I'm hoping for need-based financial aid."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: High school junior here, sorry if you get a lot of these posts but I'm looking for some help. \n\nU penn (Wharton, specifically) is my top choice right now and I want to know how realistic it is for me to get accepted. I'd like to go into management business consulting if I can. I plan on applying to several other ivies, the Air Force academy, and IU as a safety. \n\nMy résumé: I have a 3.86 uw and 4.07 w GPA, top 10% of my class of over 700 at a competitive hs. I've taken several AP/ advanced classes. I'm on the mock trial team, on a community board, will soon hold a leadership position in Interact club (youth rotary), I'm on the wrestling team (It's my first year, I'm on jv, probably won't ever be varsity), and I'm pretty involved in my church. I volunteer monthly at a soup kitchen but it's closing this month :( . Senior year I'll have a government-related internship though the school, won't know what it is specifically when I apply though. \n\n2060 SAT, plan to retake it, and I'm using a tutoring program that should help. Haven't taken ACT. I would say I have strong people skills and could interact well with recruiters. Low- average middle class family with few Ivy League connections. I'm hoping for need-based financial aid."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: High school junior here, sorry if you get a lot of these posts but I'm looking for some help. \n\nU penn (Wharton, specifically) is my top choice right now and I want to know how realistic it is for me to get accepted. I'd like to go into management business consulting if I can. I plan on applying to several other ivies, the Air Force academy, and IU as a safety. \n\nMy résumé: I have a 3.86 uw and 4.07 w GPA, top 10% of my class of over 700 at a competitive hs. I've taken several AP/ advanced classes. I'm on the mock trial team, on a community board, will soon hold a leadership position in Interact club (youth rotary), I'm on the wrestling team (It's my first year, I'm on jv, probably won't ever be varsity), and I'm pretty involved in my church. I volunteer monthly at a soup kitchen but it's closing this month :( . Senior year I'll have a government-related internship though the school, won't know what it is specifically when I apply though. \n\n2060 SAT, plan to retake it, and I'm using a tutoring program that should help. Haven't taken ACT. I would say I have strong people skills and could interact well with recruiters. Low- average middle class family with few Ivy League connections. I'm hoping for need-based financial aid."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: High school junior here, sorry if you get a lot of these posts but I'm looking for some help. \n\nU penn (Wharton, specifically) is my top choice right now and I want to know how realistic it is for me to get accepted. I'd like to go into management business consulting if I can. I plan on applying to several other ivies, the Air Force academy, and IU as a safety. \n\nMy résumé: I have a 3.86 uw and 4.07 w GPA, top 10% of my class of over 700 at a competitive hs. I've taken several AP/ advanced classes. I'm on the mock trial team, on a community board, will soon hold a leadership position in Interact club (youth rotary), I'm on the wrestling team (It's my first year, I'm on jv, probably won't ever be varsity), and I'm pretty involved in my church. I volunteer monthly at a soup kitchen but it's closing this month :( . Senior year I'll have a government-related internship though the school, won't know what it is specifically when I apply though. \n\n2060 SAT, plan to retake it, and I'm using a tutoring program that should help. Haven't taken ACT. I would say I have strong people skills and could interact well with recruiters. Low- average middle class family with few Ivy League connections. I'm hoping for need-based financial aid."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: High school junior here, sorry if you get a lot of these posts but I'm looking for some help. \n\nU penn (Wharton, specifically) is my top choice right now and I want to know how realistic it is for me to get accepted. I'd like to go into management business consulting if I can. I plan on applying to several other ivies, the Air Force academy, and IU as a safety. \n\nMy résumé: I have a 3.86 uw and 4.07 w GPA, top 10% of my class of over 700 at a competitive hs. I've taken several AP/ advanced classes. I'm on the mock trial team, on a community board, will soon hold a leadership position in Interact club (youth rotary), I'm on the wrestling team (It's my first year, I'm on jv, probably won't ever be varsity), and I'm pretty involved in my church. I volunteer monthly at a soup kitchen but it's closing this month :( . Senior year I'll have a government-related internship though the school, won't know what it is specifically when I apply though. \n\n2060 SAT, plan to retake it, and I'm using a tutoring program that should help. Haven't taken ACT. I would say I have strong people skills and could interact well with recruiters. Low- average middle class family with few Ivy League connections. I'm hoping for need-based financial aid."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: High school junior here, sorry if you get a lot of these posts but I'm looking for some help. \n\nU penn (Wharton, specifically) is my top choice right now and I want to know how realistic it is for me to get accepted. I'd like to go into management business consulting if I can. I plan on applying to several other ivies, the Air Force academy, and IU as a safety. \n\nMy résumé: I have a 3.86 uw and 4.07 w GPA, top 10% of my class of over 700 at a competitive hs. I've taken several AP/ advanced classes. I'm on the mock trial team, on a community board, will soon hold a leadership position in Interact club (youth rotary), I'm on the wrestling team (It's my first year, I'm on jv, probably won't ever be varsity), and I'm pretty involved in my church. I volunteer monthly at a soup kitchen but it's closing this month :( . Senior year I'll have a government-related internship though the school, won't know what it is specifically when I apply though. \n\n2060 SAT, plan to retake it, and I'm using a tutoring program that should help. Haven't taken ACT. I would say I have strong people skills and could interact well with recruiters. Low- average middle class family with few Ivy League connections. I'm hoping for need-based financial aid."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation:\n\nMy girlfriend is living with her mother, brother and her brother's girlfriend (henceforth refereed to as 'freeloader').\nFreeloader has her own apartment, but basically just uses it as a storage room. She spends every night at my girlfirend's place, eats their food, uses their utilities, etc etc.\nShe does no housework, or help out with anything at all, and doesn't pay rent. That's right, no rent.\nWhy? Mom thinks her son and freeloader will (eventually) get married, and doesn't want either of them to be upset at her, etc so she doesn't confront the issue or let her daughter say anything, even though they are noticeably annoyed/uncomfortable with the situation.\n\nIt's a lot worse than this, in fact I'm making freeloader look good here.\nI really want to confront freeloader about all this, but this not being my house makes that fairly impossible, since I don't want her family to be upset with me, 'none of my business' and all that, but this is reckless."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation:\n\nMy girlfriend is living with her mother, brother and her brother's girlfriend (henceforth refereed to as 'freeloader').\nFreeloader has her own apartment, but basically just uses it as a storage room. She spends every night at my girlfirend's place, eats their food, uses their utilities, etc etc.\nShe does no housework, or help out with anything at all, and doesn't pay rent. That's right, no rent.\nWhy? Mom thinks her son and freeloader will (eventually) get married, and doesn't want either of them to be upset at her, etc so she doesn't confront the issue or let her daughter say anything, even though they are noticeably annoyed/uncomfortable with the situation.\n\nIt's a lot worse than this, in fact I'm making freeloader look good here.\nI really want to confront freeloader about all this, but this not being my house makes that fairly impossible, since I don't want her family to be upset with me, 'none of my business' and all that, but this is reckless."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation:\n\nMy girlfriend is living with her mother, brother and her brother's girlfriend (henceforth refereed to as 'freeloader').\nFreeloader has her own apartment, but basically just uses it as a storage room. She spends every night at my girlfirend's place, eats their food, uses their utilities, etc etc.\nShe does no housework, or help out with anything at all, and doesn't pay rent. That's right, no rent.\nWhy? Mom thinks her son and freeloader will (eventually) get married, and doesn't want either of them to be upset at her, etc so she doesn't confront the issue or let her daughter say anything, even though they are noticeably annoyed/uncomfortable with the situation.\n\nIt's a lot worse than this, in fact I'm making freeloader look good here.\nI really want to confront freeloader about all this, but this not being my house makes that fairly impossible, since I don't want her family to be upset with me, 'none of my business' and all that, but this is reckless."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation:\n\nMy girlfriend is living with her mother, brother and her brother's girlfriend (henceforth refereed to as 'freeloader').\nFreeloader has her own apartment, but basically just uses it as a storage room. She spends every night at my girlfirend's place, eats their food, uses their utilities, etc etc.\nShe does no housework, or help out with anything at all, and doesn't pay rent. That's right, no rent.\nWhy? Mom thinks her son and freeloader will (eventually) get married, and doesn't want either of them to be upset at her, etc so she doesn't confront the issue or let her daughter say anything, even though they are noticeably annoyed/uncomfortable with the situation.\n\nIt's a lot worse than this, in fact I'm making freeloader look good here.\nI really want to confront freeloader about all this, but this not being my house makes that fairly impossible, since I don't want her family to be upset with me, 'none of my business' and all that, but this is reckless."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation:\n\nMy girlfriend is living with her mother, brother and her brother's girlfriend (henceforth refereed to as 'freeloader').\nFreeloader has her own apartment, but basically just uses it as a storage room. She spends every night at my girlfirend's place, eats their food, uses their utilities, etc etc.\nShe does no housework, or help out with anything at all, and doesn't pay rent. That's right, no rent.\nWhy? Mom thinks her son and freeloader will (eventually) get married, and doesn't want either of them to be upset at her, etc so she doesn't confront the issue or let her daughter say anything, even though they are noticeably annoyed/uncomfortable with the situation.\n\nIt's a lot worse than this, in fact I'm making freeloader look good here.\nI really want to confront freeloader about all this, but this not being my house makes that fairly impossible, since I don't want her family to be upset with me, 'none of my business' and all that, but this is reckless."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation:\n\nMy girlfriend is living with her mother, brother and her brother's girlfriend (henceforth refereed to as 'freeloader').\nFreeloader has her own apartment, but basically just uses it as a storage room. She spends every night at my girlfirend's place, eats their food, uses their utilities, etc etc.\nShe does no housework, or help out with anything at all, and doesn't pay rent. That's right, no rent.\nWhy? Mom thinks her son and freeloader will (eventually) get married, and doesn't want either of them to be upset at her, etc so she doesn't confront the issue or let her daughter say anything, even though they are noticeably annoyed/uncomfortable with the situation.\n\nIt's a lot worse than this, in fact I'm making freeloader look good here.\nI really want to confront freeloader about all this, but this not being my house makes that fairly impossible, since I don't want her family to be upset with me, 'none of my business' and all that, but this is reckless."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been a redditor for a few years now. I can usually find stories I've liked/upvoted using the search - but every now and then I'll have to go dig around in my \"history\". At some point in the last few months - my \"liked\" history has only maintained persistence for 10 upvotes or so tops. I click my user name - select liked - and only the stories I've most recently upvoted are there. pushing next skips to MONTHS ago. And even then the history doesnt go back more than 6 months worth of upvotes. So I've basically \"lost\" a crapload of stories along the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been a redditor for a few years now. I can usually find stories I've liked/upvoted using the search - but every now and then I'll have to go dig around in my \"history\". At some point in the last few months - my \"liked\" history has only maintained persistence for 10 upvotes or so tops. I click my user name - select liked - and only the stories I've most recently upvoted are there. pushing next skips to MONTHS ago. And even then the history doesnt go back more than 6 months worth of upvotes. So I've basically \"lost\" a crapload of stories along the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been a redditor for a few years now. I can usually find stories I've liked/upvoted using the search - but every now and then I'll have to go dig around in my \"history\". At some point in the last few months - my \"liked\" history has only maintained persistence for 10 upvotes or so tops. I click my user name - select liked - and only the stories I've most recently upvoted are there. pushing next skips to MONTHS ago. And even then the history doesnt go back more than 6 months worth of upvotes. So I've basically \"lost\" a crapload of stories along the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been a redditor for a few years now. I can usually find stories I've liked/upvoted using the search - but every now and then I'll have to go dig around in my \"history\". At some point in the last few months - my \"liked\" history has only maintained persistence for 10 upvotes or so tops. I click my user name - select liked - and only the stories I've most recently upvoted are there. pushing next skips to MONTHS ago. And even then the history doesnt go back more than 6 months worth of upvotes. So I've basically \"lost\" a crapload of stories along the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been a redditor for a few years now. I can usually find stories I've liked/upvoted using the search - but every now and then I'll have to go dig around in my \"history\". At some point in the last few months - my \"liked\" history has only maintained persistence for 10 upvotes or so tops. I click my user name - select liked - and only the stories I've most recently upvoted are there. pushing next skips to MONTHS ago. And even then the history doesnt go back more than 6 months worth of upvotes. So I've basically \"lost\" a crapload of stories along the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been a redditor for a few years now. I can usually find stories I've liked/upvoted using the search - but every now and then I'll have to go dig around in my \"history\". At some point in the last few months - my \"liked\" history has only maintained persistence for 10 upvotes or so tops. I click my user name - select liked - and only the stories I've most recently upvoted are there. pushing next skips to MONTHS ago. And even then the history doesnt go back more than 6 months worth of upvotes. So I've basically \"lost\" a crapload of stories along the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is a very prideful person, she loves it when people come to her for help/depend on her. She also takes the hardest level classes she can. Because of this she is usually swamped with homework. Very often she has too much to reasonably finish. We share one of our classes so I tend to let her borrow my work so she can save some time. She always hated asking me for work but knew it had to be done so she did so anyway.\n\nRecently she's got less homework than usual, so she Skyped me asking if I needed help with the homework packet we're supposed to finish by the end of the week. I said I'm only a few pages in whereas she's 14 pages in. So she asked me if I would like her to help me after I finish the rest of my homework. I finish not just my homework but catch up to where she was. I thought she meant that we'd work on it together but I was horribly mistaken.\n\nShe meant that she would give me the answers so that I would depend on her for once. And now she's very mad at me for not noticing this. She probably wont get another night of low homework for awhile so this was really her only chance. I asked her if it would help if she helped me study but \"The damage has already been done.\"\n\n I'm not entirely sure what I can do/say to here to fix this. When I say mad, a better description is pissed. She really is offended by my ignorance in noticing what she meant in regards to me depending on her for once. Any help would be appreciated, thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is a very prideful person, she loves it when people come to her for help/depend on her. She also takes the hardest level classes she can. Because of this she is usually swamped with homework. Very often she has too much to reasonably finish. We share one of our classes so I tend to let her borrow my work so she can save some time. She always hated asking me for work but knew it had to be done so she did so anyway.\n\nRecently she's got less homework than usual, so she Skyped me asking if I needed help with the homework packet we're supposed to finish by the end of the week. I said I'm only a few pages in whereas she's 14 pages in. So she asked me if I would like her to help me after I finish the rest of my homework. I finish not just my homework but catch up to where she was. I thought she meant that we'd work on it together but I was horribly mistaken.\n\nShe meant that she would give me the answers so that I would depend on her for once. And now she's very mad at me for not noticing this. She probably wont get another night of low homework for awhile so this was really her only chance. I asked her if it would help if she helped me study but \"The damage has already been done.\"\n\n I'm not entirely sure what I can do/say to here to fix this. When I say mad, a better description is pissed. She really is offended by my ignorance in noticing what she meant in regards to me depending on her for once. Any help would be appreciated, thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is a very prideful person, she loves it when people come to her for help/depend on her. She also takes the hardest level classes she can. Because of this she is usually swamped with homework. Very often she has too much to reasonably finish. We share one of our classes so I tend to let her borrow my work so she can save some time. She always hated asking me for work but knew it had to be done so she did so anyway.\n\nRecently she's got less homework than usual, so she Skyped me asking if I needed help with the homework packet we're supposed to finish by the end of the week. I said I'm only a few pages in whereas she's 14 pages in. So she asked me if I would like her to help me after I finish the rest of my homework. I finish not just my homework but catch up to where she was. I thought she meant that we'd work on it together but I was horribly mistaken.\n\nShe meant that she would give me the answers so that I would depend on her for once. And now she's very mad at me for not noticing this. She probably wont get another night of low homework for awhile so this was really her only chance. I asked her if it would help if she helped me study but \"The damage has already been done.\"\n\n I'm not entirely sure what I can do/say to here to fix this. When I say mad, a better description is pissed. She really is offended by my ignorance in noticing what she meant in regards to me depending on her for once. Any help would be appreciated, thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is a very prideful person, she loves it when people come to her for help/depend on her. She also takes the hardest level classes she can. Because of this she is usually swamped with homework. Very often she has too much to reasonably finish. We share one of our classes so I tend to let her borrow my work so she can save some time. She always hated asking me for work but knew it had to be done so she did so anyway.\n\nRecently she's got less homework than usual, so she Skyped me asking if I needed help with the homework packet we're supposed to finish by the end of the week. I said I'm only a few pages in whereas she's 14 pages in. So she asked me if I would like her to help me after I finish the rest of my homework. I finish not just my homework but catch up to where she was. I thought she meant that we'd work on it together but I was horribly mistaken.\n\nShe meant that she would give me the answers so that I would depend on her for once. And now she's very mad at me for not noticing this. She probably wont get another night of low homework for awhile so this was really her only chance. I asked her if it would help if she helped me study but \"The damage has already been done.\"\n\n I'm not entirely sure what I can do/say to here to fix this. When I say mad, a better description is pissed. She really is offended by my ignorance in noticing what she meant in regards to me depending on her for once. Any help would be appreciated, thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is a very prideful person, she loves it when people come to her for help/depend on her. She also takes the hardest level classes she can. Because of this she is usually swamped with homework. Very often she has too much to reasonably finish. We share one of our classes so I tend to let her borrow my work so she can save some time. She always hated asking me for work but knew it had to be done so she did so anyway.\n\nRecently she's got less homework than usual, so she Skyped me asking if I needed help with the homework packet we're supposed to finish by the end of the week. I said I'm only a few pages in whereas she's 14 pages in. So she asked me if I would like her to help me after I finish the rest of my homework. I finish not just my homework but catch up to where she was. I thought she meant that we'd work on it together but I was horribly mistaken.\n\nShe meant that she would give me the answers so that I would depend on her for once. And now she's very mad at me for not noticing this. She probably wont get another night of low homework for awhile so this was really her only chance. I asked her if it would help if she helped me study but \"The damage has already been done.\"\n\n I'm not entirely sure what I can do/say to here to fix this. When I say mad, a better description is pissed. She really is offended by my ignorance in noticing what she meant in regards to me depending on her for once. Any help would be appreciated, thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is a very prideful person, she loves it when people come to her for help/depend on her. She also takes the hardest level classes she can. Because of this she is usually swamped with homework. Very often she has too much to reasonably finish. We share one of our classes so I tend to let her borrow my work so she can save some time. She always hated asking me for work but knew it had to be done so she did so anyway.\n\nRecently she's got less homework than usual, so she Skyped me asking if I needed help with the homework packet we're supposed to finish by the end of the week. I said I'm only a few pages in whereas she's 14 pages in. So she asked me if I would like her to help me after I finish the rest of my homework. I finish not just my homework but catch up to where she was. I thought she meant that we'd work on it together but I was horribly mistaken.\n\nShe meant that she would give me the answers so that I would depend on her for once. And now she's very mad at me for not noticing this. She probably wont get another night of low homework for awhile so this was really her only chance. I asked her if it would help if she helped me study but \"The damage has already been done.\"\n\n I'm not entirely sure what I can do/say to here to fix this. When I say mad, a better description is pissed. She really is offended by my ignorance in noticing what she meant in regards to me depending on her for once. Any help would be appreciated, thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my boyfriend and I have been unable to get along and we feel almost as if we are still in love, but we are no longer best friends. We don't have a ton in common but it has always been enough to still enjoy spending a lot of time together. He has been my best friend for almost 2 years and the past couple of months have been really hard. We have broken up and gotten back together several times. At this point neither of us are ready to give up, although if this issue cannot be resolved, we may have to break up in the future. I love him very much and am looking for ideas on how to find my best friend in him again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my boyfriend and I have been unable to get along and we feel almost as if we are still in love, but we are no longer best friends. We don't have a ton in common but it has always been enough to still enjoy spending a lot of time together. He has been my best friend for almost 2 years and the past couple of months have been really hard. We have broken up and gotten back together several times. At this point neither of us are ready to give up, although if this issue cannot be resolved, we may have to break up in the future. I love him very much and am looking for ideas on how to find my best friend in him again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my boyfriend and I have been unable to get along and we feel almost as if we are still in love, but we are no longer best friends. We don't have a ton in common but it has always been enough to still enjoy spending a lot of time together. He has been my best friend for almost 2 years and the past couple of months have been really hard. We have broken up and gotten back together several times. At this point neither of us are ready to give up, although if this issue cannot be resolved, we may have to break up in the future. I love him very much and am looking for ideas on how to find my best friend in him again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my boyfriend and I have been unable to get along and we feel almost as if we are still in love, but we are no longer best friends. We don't have a ton in common but it has always been enough to still enjoy spending a lot of time together. He has been my best friend for almost 2 years and the past couple of months have been really hard. We have broken up and gotten back together several times. At this point neither of us are ready to give up, although if this issue cannot be resolved, we may have to break up in the future. I love him very much and am looking for ideas on how to find my best friend in him again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my boyfriend and I have been unable to get along and we feel almost as if we are still in love, but we are no longer best friends. We don't have a ton in common but it has always been enough to still enjoy spending a lot of time together. He has been my best friend for almost 2 years and the past couple of months have been really hard. We have broken up and gotten back together several times. At this point neither of us are ready to give up, although if this issue cannot be resolved, we may have to break up in the future. I love him very much and am looking for ideas on how to find my best friend in him again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my boyfriend and I have been unable to get along and we feel almost as if we are still in love, but we are no longer best friends. We don't have a ton in common but it has always been enough to still enjoy spending a lot of time together. He has been my best friend for almost 2 years and the past couple of months have been really hard. We have broken up and gotten back together several times. At this point neither of us are ready to give up, although if this issue cannot be resolved, we may have to break up in the future. I love him very much and am looking for ideas on how to find my best friend in him again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a bit of time since my little is an infant. But the Sea World float at the Rose parade today got me thinking about what I will do later. \n\nFor me, the circus and things like the tiger temple or elephant rides or orca shows doesn't suit. But I know there will be pressure to take my son as he gets into animals. \n\nAlready, one of the mama groups I sub to meets regularly at the zoo but I have yet to go. I understand that zoos are not as bad, as they strive to protect and educate but I still hate seeing animals unnecessarily in captivity. I do feel differently about sanctuaries and refuges and will take him to those types of places."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a bit of time since my little is an infant. But the Sea World float at the Rose parade today got me thinking about what I will do later. \n\nFor me, the circus and things like the tiger temple or elephant rides or orca shows doesn't suit. But I know there will be pressure to take my son as he gets into animals. \n\nAlready, one of the mama groups I sub to meets regularly at the zoo but I have yet to go. I understand that zoos are not as bad, as they strive to protect and educate but I still hate seeing animals unnecessarily in captivity. I do feel differently about sanctuaries and refuges and will take him to those types of places."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a bit of time since my little is an infant. But the Sea World float at the Rose parade today got me thinking about what I will do later. \n\nFor me, the circus and things like the tiger temple or elephant rides or orca shows doesn't suit. But I know there will be pressure to take my son as he gets into animals. \n\nAlready, one of the mama groups I sub to meets regularly at the zoo but I have yet to go. I understand that zoos are not as bad, as they strive to protect and educate but I still hate seeing animals unnecessarily in captivity. I do feel differently about sanctuaries and refuges and will take him to those types of places."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a bit of time since my little is an infant. But the Sea World float at the Rose parade today got me thinking about what I will do later. \n\nFor me, the circus and things like the tiger temple or elephant rides or orca shows doesn't suit. But I know there will be pressure to take my son as he gets into animals. \n\nAlready, one of the mama groups I sub to meets regularly at the zoo but I have yet to go. I understand that zoos are not as bad, as they strive to protect and educate but I still hate seeing animals unnecessarily in captivity. I do feel differently about sanctuaries and refuges and will take him to those types of places."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a bit of time since my little is an infant. But the Sea World float at the Rose parade today got me thinking about what I will do later. \n\nFor me, the circus and things like the tiger temple or elephant rides or orca shows doesn't suit. But I know there will be pressure to take my son as he gets into animals. \n\nAlready, one of the mama groups I sub to meets regularly at the zoo but I have yet to go. I understand that zoos are not as bad, as they strive to protect and educate but I still hate seeing animals unnecessarily in captivity. I do feel differently about sanctuaries and refuges and will take him to those types of places."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in a pretty small one-bedroom apartment, and my next door neighbors are a family of two parents in their 40s with a 12-year-old son living in a mirror image of my apartment. I barely have enough space for my stuff, so I can't even imagine what it must be like to fit a family of three in there. Still, it doesn't seem to have been a problem for them until a few weeks ago, when the parents started having extremely loud fights where the mom would be screaming (in a foreign language I understand a few words of, so I don't really know what about) for up to an hour, then stuff would quiet down.\n\nThe problem is that in recent days, the intensity of the fighting has increased to where I feel my walls and floor shake when they fight, which suggests to me that they're slamming stuff around. The sounds are correlated with the mom's screaming, so I'm worried she's either getting hit or hitting her husband or their kid or something. The kicker is that the kid actually called the cops on his parents a few weeks ago (I heard the interaction through my thin walls) because he was scared, but nothing ended up happening. I called the police too a few days ago because the screaming was worse than it has ever been, and I heard very distinct slapping/punching noises and the mom was screaming/sobbing \"why?\" over and over again. I feared for her safety, so I made the call, but again, they didn't arrest anyone.\n\nI get that people fight. I also don't want to interfere with other people's personal affairs. But I really do worry that someone will eventually get hurt in this situation. And not that this is anywhere near as important as my neighbors' safety, but the blood-curdling screaming and slamming against the walls is getting pretty old, too. *Should I talk to them?* Slip a flyer for a local domestic violence support group under their door? Keep calling the cops? Talk to the landlord? I'm at a loss, especially when I think about the poor 12-year-old kid who has to hear this almost every night."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in a pretty small one-bedroom apartment, and my next door neighbors are a family of two parents in their 40s with a 12-year-old son living in a mirror image of my apartment. I barely have enough space for my stuff, so I can't even imagine what it must be like to fit a family of three in there. Still, it doesn't seem to have been a problem for them until a few weeks ago, when the parents started having extremely loud fights where the mom would be screaming (in a foreign language I understand a few words of, so I don't really know what about) for up to an hour, then stuff would quiet down.\n\nThe problem is that in recent days, the intensity of the fighting has increased to where I feel my walls and floor shake when they fight, which suggests to me that they're slamming stuff around. The sounds are correlated with the mom's screaming, so I'm worried she's either getting hit or hitting her husband or their kid or something. The kicker is that the kid actually called the cops on his parents a few weeks ago (I heard the interaction through my thin walls) because he was scared, but nothing ended up happening. I called the police too a few days ago because the screaming was worse than it has ever been, and I heard very distinct slapping/punching noises and the mom was screaming/sobbing \"why?\" over and over again. I feared for her safety, so I made the call, but again, they didn't arrest anyone.\n\nI get that people fight. I also don't want to interfere with other people's personal affairs. But I really do worry that someone will eventually get hurt in this situation. And not that this is anywhere near as important as my neighbors' safety, but the blood-curdling screaming and slamming against the walls is getting pretty old, too. *Should I talk to them?* Slip a flyer for a local domestic violence support group under their door? Keep calling the cops? Talk to the landlord? I'm at a loss, especially when I think about the poor 12-year-old kid who has to hear this almost every night."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in a pretty small one-bedroom apartment, and my next door neighbors are a family of two parents in their 40s with a 12-year-old son living in a mirror image of my apartment. I barely have enough space for my stuff, so I can't even imagine what it must be like to fit a family of three in there. Still, it doesn't seem to have been a problem for them until a few weeks ago, when the parents started having extremely loud fights where the mom would be screaming (in a foreign language I understand a few words of, so I don't really know what about) for up to an hour, then stuff would quiet down.\n\nThe problem is that in recent days, the intensity of the fighting has increased to where I feel my walls and floor shake when they fight, which suggests to me that they're slamming stuff around. The sounds are correlated with the mom's screaming, so I'm worried she's either getting hit or hitting her husband or their kid or something. The kicker is that the kid actually called the cops on his parents a few weeks ago (I heard the interaction through my thin walls) because he was scared, but nothing ended up happening. I called the police too a few days ago because the screaming was worse than it has ever been, and I heard very distinct slapping/punching noises and the mom was screaming/sobbing \"why?\" over and over again. I feared for her safety, so I made the call, but again, they didn't arrest anyone.\n\nI get that people fight. I also don't want to interfere with other people's personal affairs. But I really do worry that someone will eventually get hurt in this situation. And not that this is anywhere near as important as my neighbors' safety, but the blood-curdling screaming and slamming against the walls is getting pretty old, too. *Should I talk to them?* Slip a flyer for a local domestic violence support group under their door? Keep calling the cops? Talk to the landlord? I'm at a loss, especially when I think about the poor 12-year-old kid who has to hear this almost every night."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in a pretty small one-bedroom apartment, and my next door neighbors are a family of two parents in their 40s with a 12-year-old son living in a mirror image of my apartment. I barely have enough space for my stuff, so I can't even imagine what it must be like to fit a family of three in there. Still, it doesn't seem to have been a problem for them until a few weeks ago, when the parents started having extremely loud fights where the mom would be screaming (in a foreign language I understand a few words of, so I don't really know what about) for up to an hour, then stuff would quiet down.\n\nThe problem is that in recent days, the intensity of the fighting has increased to where I feel my walls and floor shake when they fight, which suggests to me that they're slamming stuff around. The sounds are correlated with the mom's screaming, so I'm worried she's either getting hit or hitting her husband or their kid or something. The kicker is that the kid actually called the cops on his parents a few weeks ago (I heard the interaction through my thin walls) because he was scared, but nothing ended up happening. I called the police too a few days ago because the screaming was worse than it has ever been, and I heard very distinct slapping/punching noises and the mom was screaming/sobbing \"why?\" over and over again. I feared for her safety, so I made the call, but again, they didn't arrest anyone.\n\nI get that people fight. I also don't want to interfere with other people's personal affairs. But I really do worry that someone will eventually get hurt in this situation. And not that this is anywhere near as important as my neighbors' safety, but the blood-curdling screaming and slamming against the walls is getting pretty old, too. *Should I talk to them?* Slip a flyer for a local domestic violence support group under their door? Keep calling the cops? Talk to the landlord? I'm at a loss, especially when I think about the poor 12-year-old kid who has to hear this almost every night."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in a pretty small one-bedroom apartment, and my next door neighbors are a family of two parents in their 40s with a 12-year-old son living in a mirror image of my apartment. I barely have enough space for my stuff, so I can't even imagine what it must be like to fit a family of three in there. Still, it doesn't seem to have been a problem for them until a few weeks ago, when the parents started having extremely loud fights where the mom would be screaming (in a foreign language I understand a few words of, so I don't really know what about) for up to an hour, then stuff would quiet down.\n\nThe problem is that in recent days, the intensity of the fighting has increased to where I feel my walls and floor shake when they fight, which suggests to me that they're slamming stuff around. The sounds are correlated with the mom's screaming, so I'm worried she's either getting hit or hitting her husband or their kid or something. The kicker is that the kid actually called the cops on his parents a few weeks ago (I heard the interaction through my thin walls) because he was scared, but nothing ended up happening. I called the police too a few days ago because the screaming was worse than it has ever been, and I heard very distinct slapping/punching noises and the mom was screaming/sobbing \"why?\" over and over again. I feared for her safety, so I made the call, but again, they didn't arrest anyone.\n\nI get that people fight. I also don't want to interfere with other people's personal affairs. But I really do worry that someone will eventually get hurt in this situation. And not that this is anywhere near as important as my neighbors' safety, but the blood-curdling screaming and slamming against the walls is getting pretty old, too. *Should I talk to them?* Slip a flyer for a local domestic violence support group under their door? Keep calling the cops? Talk to the landlord? I'm at a loss, especially when I think about the poor 12-year-old kid who has to hear this almost every night."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in a pretty small one-bedroom apartment, and my next door neighbors are a family of two parents in their 40s with a 12-year-old son living in a mirror image of my apartment. I barely have enough space for my stuff, so I can't even imagine what it must be like to fit a family of three in there. Still, it doesn't seem to have been a problem for them until a few weeks ago, when the parents started having extremely loud fights where the mom would be screaming (in a foreign language I understand a few words of, so I don't really know what about) for up to an hour, then stuff would quiet down.\n\nThe problem is that in recent days, the intensity of the fighting has increased to where I feel my walls and floor shake when they fight, which suggests to me that they're slamming stuff around. The sounds are correlated with the mom's screaming, so I'm worried she's either getting hit or hitting her husband or their kid or something. The kicker is that the kid actually called the cops on his parents a few weeks ago (I heard the interaction through my thin walls) because he was scared, but nothing ended up happening. I called the police too a few days ago because the screaming was worse than it has ever been, and I heard very distinct slapping/punching noises and the mom was screaming/sobbing \"why?\" over and over again. I feared for her safety, so I made the call, but again, they didn't arrest anyone.\n\nI get that people fight. I also don't want to interfere with other people's personal affairs. But I really do worry that someone will eventually get hurt in this situation. And not that this is anywhere near as important as my neighbors' safety, but the blood-curdling screaming and slamming against the walls is getting pretty old, too. *Should I talk to them?* Slip a flyer for a local domestic violence support group under their door? Keep calling the cops? Talk to the landlord? I'm at a loss, especially when I think about the poor 12-year-old kid who has to hear this almost every night."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father has a paranoid schizophrenia diagnosis, which I've known about for some time. I'm in my mid-twenties.\n\nI've casually considered the possibility that I inherited the disorder, and I've always thought it was clearly not the case. But if I was afflicted with the disorder, how would I know? I probably wouldn't, right?\n\nThe past few years I have been struggling mentally with certain issues in my life, including anxiety, which have negatively affected my jobs and personal relationships. I have a complex history, I am a complex person, and I am in some complex situations, so there are explanations for my problems that I've always thought were reasonable without paranoid schizophrenia. But again, since it is a disorder involving misperceptions of reality, maybe I'm wrong.\n\nRecently there have been some popular AMA's and other posts related to schizophrenia on Reddit. There is obviously a great deal of interest in the subject and I suspect a great deal of knowledge as well. So I thought I'd put this question out there. What kind of signs/patterns should I be looking out for? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father has a paranoid schizophrenia diagnosis, which I've known about for some time. I'm in my mid-twenties.\n\nI've casually considered the possibility that I inherited the disorder, and I've always thought it was clearly not the case. But if I was afflicted with the disorder, how would I know? I probably wouldn't, right?\n\nThe past few years I have been struggling mentally with certain issues in my life, including anxiety, which have negatively affected my jobs and personal relationships. I have a complex history, I am a complex person, and I am in some complex situations, so there are explanations for my problems that I've always thought were reasonable without paranoid schizophrenia. But again, since it is a disorder involving misperceptions of reality, maybe I'm wrong.\n\nRecently there have been some popular AMA's and other posts related to schizophrenia on Reddit. There is obviously a great deal of interest in the subject and I suspect a great deal of knowledge as well. So I thought I'd put this question out there. What kind of signs/patterns should I be looking out for? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father has a paranoid schizophrenia diagnosis, which I've known about for some time. I'm in my mid-twenties.\n\nI've casually considered the possibility that I inherited the disorder, and I've always thought it was clearly not the case. But if I was afflicted with the disorder, how would I know? I probably wouldn't, right?\n\nThe past few years I have been struggling mentally with certain issues in my life, including anxiety, which have negatively affected my jobs and personal relationships. I have a complex history, I am a complex person, and I am in some complex situations, so there are explanations for my problems that I've always thought were reasonable without paranoid schizophrenia. But again, since it is a disorder involving misperceptions of reality, maybe I'm wrong.\n\nRecently there have been some popular AMA's and other posts related to schizophrenia on Reddit. There is obviously a great deal of interest in the subject and I suspect a great deal of knowledge as well. So I thought I'd put this question out there. What kind of signs/patterns should I be looking out for? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father has a paranoid schizophrenia diagnosis, which I've known about for some time. I'm in my mid-twenties.\n\nI've casually considered the possibility that I inherited the disorder, and I've always thought it was clearly not the case. But if I was afflicted with the disorder, how would I know? I probably wouldn't, right?\n\nThe past few years I have been struggling mentally with certain issues in my life, including anxiety, which have negatively affected my jobs and personal relationships. I have a complex history, I am a complex person, and I am in some complex situations, so there are explanations for my problems that I've always thought were reasonable without paranoid schizophrenia. But again, since it is a disorder involving misperceptions of reality, maybe I'm wrong.\n\nRecently there have been some popular AMA's and other posts related to schizophrenia on Reddit. There is obviously a great deal of interest in the subject and I suspect a great deal of knowledge as well. So I thought I'd put this question out there. What kind of signs/patterns should I be looking out for? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father has a paranoid schizophrenia diagnosis, which I've known about for some time. I'm in my mid-twenties.\n\nI've casually considered the possibility that I inherited the disorder, and I've always thought it was clearly not the case. But if I was afflicted with the disorder, how would I know? I probably wouldn't, right?\n\nThe past few years I have been struggling mentally with certain issues in my life, including anxiety, which have negatively affected my jobs and personal relationships. I have a complex history, I am a complex person, and I am in some complex situations, so there are explanations for my problems that I've always thought were reasonable without paranoid schizophrenia. But again, since it is a disorder involving misperceptions of reality, maybe I'm wrong.\n\nRecently there have been some popular AMA's and other posts related to schizophrenia on Reddit. There is obviously a great deal of interest in the subject and I suspect a great deal of knowledge as well. So I thought I'd put this question out there. What kind of signs/patterns should I be looking out for? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi /r/relationships!\nI'm currently with my long distance girlfriend (UK/US) and we do love each other a lot. However, recently, I've felt that we've had less to talk about and I don't love her as much as I did at the start of the relationship or even before.\n\nWe have to spend at least 4-5 years in a LDR but I do believe married life with her would be awesome. However, I think I'm developing a crush on someone local. Now I would never cheat but I'm not sure what to do.\n\nDo I break off the relationship or keep it? I feel that I love her and if we could last we could have a married life. But it's hard, maybe too hard, to sustain it for so long and I'm doubting that we can last. \n\nI'm no longer excited to talk to her and don't place her in my highest priority. She's just someone I fall back on and know will love me. It seems I no longer have the spark. We've never met in real life and we cannot possibly arrange to meet until a year later.\n\nI'm uncertain to break up as I don't know if i will find anyone as good as her in the future.\n\nWHAT DO I DO?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi /r/relationships!\nI'm currently with my long distance girlfriend (UK/US) and we do love each other a lot. However, recently, I've felt that we've had less to talk about and I don't love her as much as I did at the start of the relationship or even before.\n\nWe have to spend at least 4-5 years in a LDR but I do believe married life with her would be awesome. However, I think I'm developing a crush on someone local. Now I would never cheat but I'm not sure what to do.\n\nDo I break off the relationship or keep it? I feel that I love her and if we could last we could have a married life. But it's hard, maybe too hard, to sustain it for so long and I'm doubting that we can last. \n\nI'm no longer excited to talk to her and don't place her in my highest priority. She's just someone I fall back on and know will love me. It seems I no longer have the spark. We've never met in real life and we cannot possibly arrange to meet until a year later.\n\nI'm uncertain to break up as I don't know if i will find anyone as good as her in the future.\n\nWHAT DO I DO?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi /r/relationships!\nI'm currently with my long distance girlfriend (UK/US) and we do love each other a lot. However, recently, I've felt that we've had less to talk about and I don't love her as much as I did at the start of the relationship or even before.\n\nWe have to spend at least 4-5 years in a LDR but I do believe married life with her would be awesome. However, I think I'm developing a crush on someone local. Now I would never cheat but I'm not sure what to do.\n\nDo I break off the relationship or keep it? I feel that I love her and if we could last we could have a married life. But it's hard, maybe too hard, to sustain it for so long and I'm doubting that we can last. \n\nI'm no longer excited to talk to her and don't place her in my highest priority. She's just someone I fall back on and know will love me. It seems I no longer have the spark. We've never met in real life and we cannot possibly arrange to meet until a year later.\n\nI'm uncertain to break up as I don't know if i will find anyone as good as her in the future.\n\nWHAT DO I DO?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi /r/relationships!\nI'm currently with my long distance girlfriend (UK/US) and we do love each other a lot. However, recently, I've felt that we've had less to talk about and I don't love her as much as I did at the start of the relationship or even before.\n\nWe have to spend at least 4-5 years in a LDR but I do believe married life with her would be awesome. However, I think I'm developing a crush on someone local. Now I would never cheat but I'm not sure what to do.\n\nDo I break off the relationship or keep it? I feel that I love her and if we could last we could have a married life. But it's hard, maybe too hard, to sustain it for so long and I'm doubting that we can last. \n\nI'm no longer excited to talk to her and don't place her in my highest priority. She's just someone I fall back on and know will love me. It seems I no longer have the spark. We've never met in real life and we cannot possibly arrange to meet until a year later.\n\nI'm uncertain to break up as I don't know if i will find anyone as good as her in the future.\n\nWHAT DO I DO?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi /r/relationships!\nI'm currently with my long distance girlfriend (UK/US) and we do love each other a lot. However, recently, I've felt that we've had less to talk about and I don't love her as much as I did at the start of the relationship or even before.\n\nWe have to spend at least 4-5 years in a LDR but I do believe married life with her would be awesome. However, I think I'm developing a crush on someone local. Now I would never cheat but I'm not sure what to do.\n\nDo I break off the relationship or keep it? I feel that I love her and if we could last we could have a married life. But it's hard, maybe too hard, to sustain it for so long and I'm doubting that we can last. \n\nI'm no longer excited to talk to her and don't place her in my highest priority. She's just someone I fall back on and know will love me. It seems I no longer have the spark. We've never met in real life and we cannot possibly arrange to meet until a year later.\n\nI'm uncertain to break up as I don't know if i will find anyone as good as her in the future.\n\nWHAT DO I DO?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi /r/relationships!\nI'm currently with my long distance girlfriend (UK/US) and we do love each other a lot. However, recently, I've felt that we've had less to talk about and I don't love her as much as I did at the start of the relationship or even before.\n\nWe have to spend at least 4-5 years in a LDR but I do believe married life with her would be awesome. However, I think I'm developing a crush on someone local. Now I would never cheat but I'm not sure what to do.\n\nDo I break off the relationship or keep it? I feel that I love her and if we could last we could have a married life. But it's hard, maybe too hard, to sustain it for so long and I'm doubting that we can last. \n\nI'm no longer excited to talk to her and don't place her in my highest priority. She's just someone I fall back on and know will love me. It seems I no longer have the spark. We've never met in real life and we cannot possibly arrange to meet until a year later.\n\nI'm uncertain to break up as I don't know if i will find anyone as good as her in the future.\n\nWHAT DO I DO?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: SO we've been together a year, we live relatively far from each other. I mean a 40min train journey away but still we dont see each other that often.\n\nRecently my bf is working A LOT, not out of choice just everyone is having to work 10/11 hour days at the moment. When he gets home he eats and crashes. I understand completely, I would be the same, but that leaves no time for me at all. Even before the job situation, hes been bad at communication. I am way more social and regularly text and call my friends. He does not, according to him, i am the person he texts the most out of his friends and family. \nThe distance and his other commitments mean we see each other once a month. This is not enough for me but can't be helped i guess. \n\nI feel like hes not able to give me what i need which is sometimes not out of choice- the job or because thats what hes like. I can accept him as he is and we've already made a lot of compromises in terms of the low communication etc. \n\nAt the moment, hes unable to call when he says he will or text often. We barely see each other. And though i love him and care about him, im not sure if i can continue. I originally thought since the working extra long hours is a temporary thing, I could wait it out. But i think in general he doesn't have the time that a relationship needs.\n\nIm thinking of taking a break a couple of days/weeks which would offer some clarity. I need to think about whether the positives of being with him outweigh all the negatives. And im hoping that it will show him how much he wants me in his life? Perhaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: SO we've been together a year, we live relatively far from each other. I mean a 40min train journey away but still we dont see each other that often.\n\nRecently my bf is working A LOT, not out of choice just everyone is having to work 10/11 hour days at the moment. When he gets home he eats and crashes. I understand completely, I would be the same, but that leaves no time for me at all. Even before the job situation, hes been bad at communication. I am way more social and regularly text and call my friends. He does not, according to him, i am the person he texts the most out of his friends and family. \nThe distance and his other commitments mean we see each other once a month. This is not enough for me but can't be helped i guess. \n\nI feel like hes not able to give me what i need which is sometimes not out of choice- the job or because thats what hes like. I can accept him as he is and we've already made a lot of compromises in terms of the low communication etc. \n\nAt the moment, hes unable to call when he says he will or text often. We barely see each other. And though i love him and care about him, im not sure if i can continue. I originally thought since the working extra long hours is a temporary thing, I could wait it out. But i think in general he doesn't have the time that a relationship needs.\n\nIm thinking of taking a break a couple of days/weeks which would offer some clarity. I need to think about whether the positives of being with him outweigh all the negatives. And im hoping that it will show him how much he wants me in his life? Perhaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: SO we've been together a year, we live relatively far from each other. I mean a 40min train journey away but still we dont see each other that often.\n\nRecently my bf is working A LOT, not out of choice just everyone is having to work 10/11 hour days at the moment. When he gets home he eats and crashes. I understand completely, I would be the same, but that leaves no time for me at all. Even before the job situation, hes been bad at communication. I am way more social and regularly text and call my friends. He does not, according to him, i am the person he texts the most out of his friends and family. \nThe distance and his other commitments mean we see each other once a month. This is not enough for me but can't be helped i guess. \n\nI feel like hes not able to give me what i need which is sometimes not out of choice- the job or because thats what hes like. I can accept him as he is and we've already made a lot of compromises in terms of the low communication etc. \n\nAt the moment, hes unable to call when he says he will or text often. We barely see each other. And though i love him and care about him, im not sure if i can continue. I originally thought since the working extra long hours is a temporary thing, I could wait it out. But i think in general he doesn't have the time that a relationship needs.\n\nIm thinking of taking a break a couple of days/weeks which would offer some clarity. I need to think about whether the positives of being with him outweigh all the negatives. And im hoping that it will show him how much he wants me in his life? Perhaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: SO we've been together a year, we live relatively far from each other. I mean a 40min train journey away but still we dont see each other that often.\n\nRecently my bf is working A LOT, not out of choice just everyone is having to work 10/11 hour days at the moment. When he gets home he eats and crashes. I understand completely, I would be the same, but that leaves no time for me at all. Even before the job situation, hes been bad at communication. I am way more social and regularly text and call my friends. He does not, according to him, i am the person he texts the most out of his friends and family. \nThe distance and his other commitments mean we see each other once a month. This is not enough for me but can't be helped i guess. \n\nI feel like hes not able to give me what i need which is sometimes not out of choice- the job or because thats what hes like. I can accept him as he is and we've already made a lot of compromises in terms of the low communication etc. \n\nAt the moment, hes unable to call when he says he will or text often. We barely see each other. And though i love him and care about him, im not sure if i can continue. I originally thought since the working extra long hours is a temporary thing, I could wait it out. But i think in general he doesn't have the time that a relationship needs.\n\nIm thinking of taking a break a couple of days/weeks which would offer some clarity. I need to think about whether the positives of being with him outweigh all the negatives. And im hoping that it will show him how much he wants me in his life? Perhaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: SO we've been together a year, we live relatively far from each other. I mean a 40min train journey away but still we dont see each other that often.\n\nRecently my bf is working A LOT, not out of choice just everyone is having to work 10/11 hour days at the moment. When he gets home he eats and crashes. I understand completely, I would be the same, but that leaves no time for me at all. Even before the job situation, hes been bad at communication. I am way more social and regularly text and call my friends. He does not, according to him, i am the person he texts the most out of his friends and family. \nThe distance and his other commitments mean we see each other once a month. This is not enough for me but can't be helped i guess. \n\nI feel like hes not able to give me what i need which is sometimes not out of choice- the job or because thats what hes like. I can accept him as he is and we've already made a lot of compromises in terms of the low communication etc. \n\nAt the moment, hes unable to call when he says he will or text often. We barely see each other. And though i love him and care about him, im not sure if i can continue. I originally thought since the working extra long hours is a temporary thing, I could wait it out. But i think in general he doesn't have the time that a relationship needs.\n\nIm thinking of taking a break a couple of days/weeks which would offer some clarity. I need to think about whether the positives of being with him outweigh all the negatives. And im hoping that it will show him how much he wants me in his life? Perhaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: SO we've been together a year, we live relatively far from each other. I mean a 40min train journey away but still we dont see each other that often.\n\nRecently my bf is working A LOT, not out of choice just everyone is having to work 10/11 hour days at the moment. When he gets home he eats and crashes. I understand completely, I would be the same, but that leaves no time for me at all. Even before the job situation, hes been bad at communication. I am way more social and regularly text and call my friends. He does not, according to him, i am the person he texts the most out of his friends and family. \nThe distance and his other commitments mean we see each other once a month. This is not enough for me but can't be helped i guess. \n\nI feel like hes not able to give me what i need which is sometimes not out of choice- the job or because thats what hes like. I can accept him as he is and we've already made a lot of compromises in terms of the low communication etc. \n\nAt the moment, hes unable to call when he says he will or text often. We barely see each other. And though i love him and care about him, im not sure if i can continue. I originally thought since the working extra long hours is a temporary thing, I could wait it out. But i think in general he doesn't have the time that a relationship needs.\n\nIm thinking of taking a break a couple of days/weeks which would offer some clarity. I need to think about whether the positives of being with him outweigh all the negatives. And im hoping that it will show him how much he wants me in his life? Perhaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My 6 year-old cat Nisse (here's a pic of how cute he is got hurt the other week and now he has to stay indoors for about 6 weeks. The vet says he is going to be fine, but he needs to rest. The only problem is that usually, Nisse spends all of his day outside, playing, climbing and exploring. It has been three days and he is already sad and really wants to go outside. He is getting pain mediciation so he doesn't really feel like he needs to rest.\n\nSo, to my question. How do I keep him stimulated and happy when he has to stay indoors and preferably still? Usually I would play around with him but the idea is for him to be resting (he can walk and stuff but not jump and run around). What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My 6 year-old cat Nisse (here's a pic of how cute he is got hurt the other week and now he has to stay indoors for about 6 weeks. The vet says he is going to be fine, but he needs to rest. The only problem is that usually, Nisse spends all of his day outside, playing, climbing and exploring. It has been three days and he is already sad and really wants to go outside. He is getting pain mediciation so he doesn't really feel like he needs to rest.\n\nSo, to my question. How do I keep him stimulated and happy when he has to stay indoors and preferably still? Usually I would play around with him but the idea is for him to be resting (he can walk and stuff but not jump and run around). What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My 6 year-old cat Nisse (here's a pic of how cute he is got hurt the other week and now he has to stay indoors for about 6 weeks. The vet says he is going to be fine, but he needs to rest. The only problem is that usually, Nisse spends all of his day outside, playing, climbing and exploring. It has been three days and he is already sad and really wants to go outside. He is getting pain mediciation so he doesn't really feel like he needs to rest.\n\nSo, to my question. How do I keep him stimulated and happy when he has to stay indoors and preferably still? Usually I would play around with him but the idea is for him to be resting (he can walk and stuff but not jump and run around). What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My 6 year-old cat Nisse (here's a pic of how cute he is got hurt the other week and now he has to stay indoors for about 6 weeks. The vet says he is going to be fine, but he needs to rest. The only problem is that usually, Nisse spends all of his day outside, playing, climbing and exploring. It has been three days and he is already sad and really wants to go outside. He is getting pain mediciation so he doesn't really feel like he needs to rest.\n\nSo, to my question. How do I keep him stimulated and happy when he has to stay indoors and preferably still? Usually I would play around with him but the idea is for him to be resting (he can walk and stuff but not jump and run around). What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My 6 year-old cat Nisse (here's a pic of how cute he is got hurt the other week and now he has to stay indoors for about 6 weeks. The vet says he is going to be fine, but he needs to rest. The only problem is that usually, Nisse spends all of his day outside, playing, climbing and exploring. It has been three days and he is already sad and really wants to go outside. He is getting pain mediciation so he doesn't really feel like he needs to rest.\n\nSo, to my question. How do I keep him stimulated and happy when he has to stay indoors and preferably still? Usually I would play around with him but the idea is for him to be resting (he can walk and stuff but not jump and run around). What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My 6 year-old cat Nisse (here's a pic of how cute he is got hurt the other week and now he has to stay indoors for about 6 weeks. The vet says he is going to be fine, but he needs to rest. The only problem is that usually, Nisse spends all of his day outside, playing, climbing and exploring. It has been three days and he is already sad and really wants to go outside. He is getting pain mediciation so he doesn't really feel like he needs to rest.\n\nSo, to my question. How do I keep him stimulated and happy when he has to stay indoors and preferably still? Usually I would play around with him but the idea is for him to be resting (he can walk and stuff but not jump and run around). What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: background: (20/m) never had a girlfriend, feels a conection with my friend who ive had for 2 years.\n\nok so it's not that im afraid to tell her that i like her but the thing is i dunno how to say it to her, ive asked on here before and they say dont say \"i like you\" witch was what i thought but that makes me more confused then how do i put it into words, some say i should ask her out on a date but isent a dumb way to say it when we've known each other for 2 years? your opinion plz."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: background: (20/m) never had a girlfriend, feels a conection with my friend who ive had for 2 years.\n\nok so it's not that im afraid to tell her that i like her but the thing is i dunno how to say it to her, ive asked on here before and they say dont say \"i like you\" witch was what i thought but that makes me more confused then how do i put it into words, some say i should ask her out on a date but isent a dumb way to say it when we've known each other for 2 years? your opinion plz."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: background: (20/m) never had a girlfriend, feels a conection with my friend who ive had for 2 years.\n\nok so it's not that im afraid to tell her that i like her but the thing is i dunno how to say it to her, ive asked on here before and they say dont say \"i like you\" witch was what i thought but that makes me more confused then how do i put it into words, some say i should ask her out on a date but isent a dumb way to say it when we've known each other for 2 years? your opinion plz."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: background: (20/m) never had a girlfriend, feels a conection with my friend who ive had for 2 years.\n\nok so it's not that im afraid to tell her that i like her but the thing is i dunno how to say it to her, ive asked on here before and they say dont say \"i like you\" witch was what i thought but that makes me more confused then how do i put it into words, some say i should ask her out on a date but isent a dumb way to say it when we've known each other for 2 years? your opinion plz."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: background: (20/m) never had a girlfriend, feels a conection with my friend who ive had for 2 years.\n\nok so it's not that im afraid to tell her that i like her but the thing is i dunno how to say it to her, ive asked on here before and they say dont say \"i like you\" witch was what i thought but that makes me more confused then how do i put it into words, some say i should ask her out on a date but isent a dumb way to say it when we've known each other for 2 years? your opinion plz."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 23f, hes 24m, we were in a 3 year relationship. We never lived together, but over the years some of my personal belongings accumulated at his place, and vice versa.\n\nWe broke up a month ago, and as far as breakups go, it wasn't messy. Over the course of our three year relationship, we tried everything to make our relationship work, but eventually the ship sank. Even though we still loved each other, we realized we were incompatible. There was no spite or manipulation, no other person on the side. It wasn't his fault or mine. We respectfully agreed as adults that we couldn't make each other happy, and although we will remember the times we had fondly with each other, it simply had to end.\n\nWe agreed that after some time passed we would try to be friends again. Then we initiated a no contact rule. We've both been following it. Until yesterday.\n\nHe texted me, asking me when we should exchange our items. I harbor no will ill towards him, nor have any intention of getting back together, but the truth is. I'm not completely ready to see him again. I'd rather not if I could help it. However, I do need my things back, and he probably wants my stuff out of his house. \n\nI wish he could just drop it off on my stoop, and vice versa. However, there are two pieces of furniture (an office desk and a mini fridge) from his place that require heavy lifting.\n\nI don't want to show any weakness (or any hint of pain) by having a friend go over and get my things. I still have my pride and my ego, and I rather woman up and face him like a mature adult than throw our mutual friend into this. \n\nI'm just afraid of the feelings that will bubble up seeing my presence being erased from a place I have so many good memories in. I don't want to cry in front of him.\n\nSo I have to ask, what is the best way to handle this while keeping my dignity intact?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 23f, hes 24m, we were in a 3 year relationship. We never lived together, but over the years some of my personal belongings accumulated at his place, and vice versa.\n\nWe broke up a month ago, and as far as breakups go, it wasn't messy. Over the course of our three year relationship, we tried everything to make our relationship work, but eventually the ship sank. Even though we still loved each other, we realized we were incompatible. There was no spite or manipulation, no other person on the side. It wasn't his fault or mine. We respectfully agreed as adults that we couldn't make each other happy, and although we will remember the times we had fondly with each other, it simply had to end.\n\nWe agreed that after some time passed we would try to be friends again. Then we initiated a no contact rule. We've both been following it. Until yesterday.\n\nHe texted me, asking me when we should exchange our items. I harbor no will ill towards him, nor have any intention of getting back together, but the truth is. I'm not completely ready to see him again. I'd rather not if I could help it. However, I do need my things back, and he probably wants my stuff out of his house. \n\nI wish he could just drop it off on my stoop, and vice versa. However, there are two pieces of furniture (an office desk and a mini fridge) from his place that require heavy lifting.\n\nI don't want to show any weakness (or any hint of pain) by having a friend go over and get my things. I still have my pride and my ego, and I rather woman up and face him like a mature adult than throw our mutual friend into this. \n\nI'm just afraid of the feelings that will bubble up seeing my presence being erased from a place I have so many good memories in. I don't want to cry in front of him.\n\nSo I have to ask, what is the best way to handle this while keeping my dignity intact?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 23f, hes 24m, we were in a 3 year relationship. We never lived together, but over the years some of my personal belongings accumulated at his place, and vice versa.\n\nWe broke up a month ago, and as far as breakups go, it wasn't messy. Over the course of our three year relationship, we tried everything to make our relationship work, but eventually the ship sank. Even though we still loved each other, we realized we were incompatible. There was no spite or manipulation, no other person on the side. It wasn't his fault or mine. We respectfully agreed as adults that we couldn't make each other happy, and although we will remember the times we had fondly with each other, it simply had to end.\n\nWe agreed that after some time passed we would try to be friends again. Then we initiated a no contact rule. We've both been following it. Until yesterday.\n\nHe texted me, asking me when we should exchange our items. I harbor no will ill towards him, nor have any intention of getting back together, but the truth is. I'm not completely ready to see him again. I'd rather not if I could help it. However, I do need my things back, and he probably wants my stuff out of his house. \n\nI wish he could just drop it off on my stoop, and vice versa. However, there are two pieces of furniture (an office desk and a mini fridge) from his place that require heavy lifting.\n\nI don't want to show any weakness (or any hint of pain) by having a friend go over and get my things. I still have my pride and my ego, and I rather woman up and face him like a mature adult than throw our mutual friend into this. \n\nI'm just afraid of the feelings that will bubble up seeing my presence being erased from a place I have so many good memories in. I don't want to cry in front of him.\n\nSo I have to ask, what is the best way to handle this while keeping my dignity intact?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 23f, hes 24m, we were in a 3 year relationship. We never lived together, but over the years some of my personal belongings accumulated at his place, and vice versa.\n\nWe broke up a month ago, and as far as breakups go, it wasn't messy. Over the course of our three year relationship, we tried everything to make our relationship work, but eventually the ship sank. Even though we still loved each other, we realized we were incompatible. There was no spite or manipulation, no other person on the side. It wasn't his fault or mine. We respectfully agreed as adults that we couldn't make each other happy, and although we will remember the times we had fondly with each other, it simply had to end.\n\nWe agreed that after some time passed we would try to be friends again. Then we initiated a no contact rule. We've both been following it. Until yesterday.\n\nHe texted me, asking me when we should exchange our items. I harbor no will ill towards him, nor have any intention of getting back together, but the truth is. I'm not completely ready to see him again. I'd rather not if I could help it. However, I do need my things back, and he probably wants my stuff out of his house. \n\nI wish he could just drop it off on my stoop, and vice versa. However, there are two pieces of furniture (an office desk and a mini fridge) from his place that require heavy lifting.\n\nI don't want to show any weakness (or any hint of pain) by having a friend go over and get my things. I still have my pride and my ego, and I rather woman up and face him like a mature adult than throw our mutual friend into this. \n\nI'm just afraid of the feelings that will bubble up seeing my presence being erased from a place I have so many good memories in. I don't want to cry in front of him.\n\nSo I have to ask, what is the best way to handle this while keeping my dignity intact?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 23f, hes 24m, we were in a 3 year relationship. We never lived together, but over the years some of my personal belongings accumulated at his place, and vice versa.\n\nWe broke up a month ago, and as far as breakups go, it wasn't messy. Over the course of our three year relationship, we tried everything to make our relationship work, but eventually the ship sank. Even though we still loved each other, we realized we were incompatible. There was no spite or manipulation, no other person on the side. It wasn't his fault or mine. We respectfully agreed as adults that we couldn't make each other happy, and although we will remember the times we had fondly with each other, it simply had to end.\n\nWe agreed that after some time passed we would try to be friends again. Then we initiated a no contact rule. We've both been following it. Until yesterday.\n\nHe texted me, asking me when we should exchange our items. I harbor no will ill towards him, nor have any intention of getting back together, but the truth is. I'm not completely ready to see him again. I'd rather not if I could help it. However, I do need my things back, and he probably wants my stuff out of his house. \n\nI wish he could just drop it off on my stoop, and vice versa. However, there are two pieces of furniture (an office desk and a mini fridge) from his place that require heavy lifting.\n\nI don't want to show any weakness (or any hint of pain) by having a friend go over and get my things. I still have my pride and my ego, and I rather woman up and face him like a mature adult than throw our mutual friend into this. \n\nI'm just afraid of the feelings that will bubble up seeing my presence being erased from a place I have so many good memories in. I don't want to cry in front of him.\n\nSo I have to ask, what is the best way to handle this while keeping my dignity intact?"
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