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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, \n\nI got rejected once again and I don't know how often I can endure this. I am 23 and haven't had a real girlfriend yet (> 2 months). The girls I choose all turn out to be pretty insecure and don't know what they want, so they turn me down at some point. I have no trouble getting girls as I am a decent looking guy, but everytime I genuinely like a woman, it fails. \n\nUsually it goes like this: I am interested in woman, ask her out, we go out and it goes great. This proceeds and we kiss/have sex and then suddenly it's off. By that time, I usually fell for her already, because it's very rare for me to find a woman I truly connect with. So they just don't have the time anymore or I get the \"look.\" talk. Once a woman told me \"I only used you\". Ouch. the hurt. \n\nAnd while I can get girls for sex only, I really want a serious relationship at some point. And I don't know how to handle rejection after rejection when I already fell for her. It exhausts me, it breaks me and I lose all hope. I have no idea where I go wrong, but this is killing me. \n\nI don't even know what I'm asking for, maybe just kind words to get me through this. It's awful. This story has happened at least 5 times now in the last 3 years and I just can't do it anymore. I just want to give up already. It hurts so much and I cannot understand how this is never working out for me. No matter what I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, \n\nI got rejected once again and I don't know how often I can endure this. I am 23 and haven't had a real girlfriend yet (> 2 months). The girls I choose all turn out to be pretty insecure and don't know what they want, so they turn me down at some point. I have no trouble getting girls as I am a decent looking guy, but everytime I genuinely like a woman, it fails. \n\nUsually it goes like this: I am interested in woman, ask her out, we go out and it goes great. This proceeds and we kiss/have sex and then suddenly it's off. By that time, I usually fell for her already, because it's very rare for me to find a woman I truly connect with. So they just don't have the time anymore or I get the \"look.\" talk. Once a woman told me \"I only used you\". Ouch. the hurt. \n\nAnd while I can get girls for sex only, I really want a serious relationship at some point. And I don't know how to handle rejection after rejection when I already fell for her. It exhausts me, it breaks me and I lose all hope. I have no idea where I go wrong, but this is killing me. \n\nI don't even know what I'm asking for, maybe just kind words to get me through this. It's awful. This story has happened at least 5 times now in the last 3 years and I just can't do it anymore. I just want to give up already. It hurts so much and I cannot understand how this is never working out for me. No matter what I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancé and I are having our reception at a beautiful cabin that allows us to bring in our own caterer and alcohol. At first we were excited about this for budget and food-flexibility reasons, but now we're stuck trying to plan out details - such as how to handle glassware at the open bar when the caterer doesn't provide it (200 guests). The bartenders we've talked to just suggested going plastic, but our families have been really vocally against the idea and we'd be hearing about it forever :(. We're thinking of just buying a set number (maybe 2/person/each type) of cheap wine and rocks glasses (similar price to renting), and then just switching to plastic when those are used up (since the caterer will only clear the glasses but not wash them). That way we'll have glass during the time certain family members are there, but will still be covered through the night for the people who just want to enjoy the free booze. My question is: How are you guys handling glassware?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancé and I are having our reception at a beautiful cabin that allows us to bring in our own caterer and alcohol. At first we were excited about this for budget and food-flexibility reasons, but now we're stuck trying to plan out details - such as how to handle glassware at the open bar when the caterer doesn't provide it (200 guests). The bartenders we've talked to just suggested going plastic, but our families have been really vocally against the idea and we'd be hearing about it forever :(. We're thinking of just buying a set number (maybe 2/person/each type) of cheap wine and rocks glasses (similar price to renting), and then just switching to plastic when those are used up (since the caterer will only clear the glasses but not wash them). That way we'll have glass during the time certain family members are there, but will still be covered through the night for the people who just want to enjoy the free booze. My question is: How are you guys handling glassware?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancé and I are having our reception at a beautiful cabin that allows us to bring in our own caterer and alcohol. At first we were excited about this for budget and food-flexibility reasons, but now we're stuck trying to plan out details - such as how to handle glassware at the open bar when the caterer doesn't provide it (200 guests). The bartenders we've talked to just suggested going plastic, but our families have been really vocally against the idea and we'd be hearing about it forever :(. We're thinking of just buying a set number (maybe 2/person/each type) of cheap wine and rocks glasses (similar price to renting), and then just switching to plastic when those are used up (since the caterer will only clear the glasses but not wash them). That way we'll have glass during the time certain family members are there, but will still be covered through the night for the people who just want to enjoy the free booze. My question is: How are you guys handling glassware?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancé and I are having our reception at a beautiful cabin that allows us to bring in our own caterer and alcohol. At first we were excited about this for budget and food-flexibility reasons, but now we're stuck trying to plan out details - such as how to handle glassware at the open bar when the caterer doesn't provide it (200 guests). The bartenders we've talked to just suggested going plastic, but our families have been really vocally against the idea and we'd be hearing about it forever :(. We're thinking of just buying a set number (maybe 2/person/each type) of cheap wine and rocks glasses (similar price to renting), and then just switching to plastic when those are used up (since the caterer will only clear the glasses but not wash them). That way we'll have glass during the time certain family members are there, but will still be covered through the night for the people who just want to enjoy the free booze. My question is: How are you guys handling glassware?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancé and I are having our reception at a beautiful cabin that allows us to bring in our own caterer and alcohol. At first we were excited about this for budget and food-flexibility reasons, but now we're stuck trying to plan out details - such as how to handle glassware at the open bar when the caterer doesn't provide it (200 guests). The bartenders we've talked to just suggested going plastic, but our families have been really vocally against the idea and we'd be hearing about it forever :(. We're thinking of just buying a set number (maybe 2/person/each type) of cheap wine and rocks glasses (similar price to renting), and then just switching to plastic when those are used up (since the caterer will only clear the glasses but not wash them). That way we'll have glass during the time certain family members are there, but will still be covered through the night for the people who just want to enjoy the free booze. My question is: How are you guys handling glassware?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancé and I are having our reception at a beautiful cabin that allows us to bring in our own caterer and alcohol. At first we were excited about this for budget and food-flexibility reasons, but now we're stuck trying to plan out details - such as how to handle glassware at the open bar when the caterer doesn't provide it (200 guests). The bartenders we've talked to just suggested going plastic, but our families have been really vocally against the idea and we'd be hearing about it forever :(. We're thinking of just buying a set number (maybe 2/person/each type) of cheap wine and rocks glasses (similar price to renting), and then just switching to plastic when those are used up (since the caterer will only clear the glasses but not wash them). That way we'll have glass during the time certain family members are there, but will still be covered through the night for the people who just want to enjoy the free booze. My question is: How are you guys handling glassware?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need to escape. I live on the east coast of the United States, I'm a computer science major who is terribly unhappy with his life. I want to get out and explore the world, what life is like in other places, and do as much as I can to learn and help others.\n\nI want to do as much as I can to help myself, my family, and anyone else I can in the process. My father passed away a year and a half ago and I'm just now starting to regain my functionality. Living with my mom and my sisters is starting to wear on me emotionally, I want to be able to take care of them financially, but spend some time on my own to help develop my character and my future. \n\nI'm good with computers, I am well versed in Java, have a few Android applications that haven't made it to the Marketplace yet, and most recently I've started been into Ruby on Rails. I have a good fundamental understanding of OOP and am open to learn new programming languages. \n\nI am looking for a new place to live, new people to help, and a new path to travel down in the journey of life. I am looking for stories of how you did the same, how you recommend I go about doing this, and anything you could help to point me in the right direction. If I have faith in anyone, it's you guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need to escape. I live on the east coast of the United States, I'm a computer science major who is terribly unhappy with his life. I want to get out and explore the world, what life is like in other places, and do as much as I can to learn and help others.\n\nI want to do as much as I can to help myself, my family, and anyone else I can in the process. My father passed away a year and a half ago and I'm just now starting to regain my functionality. Living with my mom and my sisters is starting to wear on me emotionally, I want to be able to take care of them financially, but spend some time on my own to help develop my character and my future. \n\nI'm good with computers, I am well versed in Java, have a few Android applications that haven't made it to the Marketplace yet, and most recently I've started been into Ruby on Rails. I have a good fundamental understanding of OOP and am open to learn new programming languages. \n\nI am looking for a new place to live, new people to help, and a new path to travel down in the journey of life. I am looking for stories of how you did the same, how you recommend I go about doing this, and anything you could help to point me in the right direction. If I have faith in anyone, it's you guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need to escape. I live on the east coast of the United States, I'm a computer science major who is terribly unhappy with his life. I want to get out and explore the world, what life is like in other places, and do as much as I can to learn and help others.\n\nI want to do as much as I can to help myself, my family, and anyone else I can in the process. My father passed away a year and a half ago and I'm just now starting to regain my functionality. Living with my mom and my sisters is starting to wear on me emotionally, I want to be able to take care of them financially, but spend some time on my own to help develop my character and my future. \n\nI'm good with computers, I am well versed in Java, have a few Android applications that haven't made it to the Marketplace yet, and most recently I've started been into Ruby on Rails. I have a good fundamental understanding of OOP and am open to learn new programming languages. \n\nI am looking for a new place to live, new people to help, and a new path to travel down in the journey of life. I am looking for stories of how you did the same, how you recommend I go about doing this, and anything you could help to point me in the right direction. If I have faith in anyone, it's you guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need to escape. I live on the east coast of the United States, I'm a computer science major who is terribly unhappy with his life. I want to get out and explore the world, what life is like in other places, and do as much as I can to learn and help others.\n\nI want to do as much as I can to help myself, my family, and anyone else I can in the process. My father passed away a year and a half ago and I'm just now starting to regain my functionality. Living with my mom and my sisters is starting to wear on me emotionally, I want to be able to take care of them financially, but spend some time on my own to help develop my character and my future. \n\nI'm good with computers, I am well versed in Java, have a few Android applications that haven't made it to the Marketplace yet, and most recently I've started been into Ruby on Rails. I have a good fundamental understanding of OOP and am open to learn new programming languages. \n\nI am looking for a new place to live, new people to help, and a new path to travel down in the journey of life. I am looking for stories of how you did the same, how you recommend I go about doing this, and anything you could help to point me in the right direction. If I have faith in anyone, it's you guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need to escape. I live on the east coast of the United States, I'm a computer science major who is terribly unhappy with his life. I want to get out and explore the world, what life is like in other places, and do as much as I can to learn and help others.\n\nI want to do as much as I can to help myself, my family, and anyone else I can in the process. My father passed away a year and a half ago and I'm just now starting to regain my functionality. Living with my mom and my sisters is starting to wear on me emotionally, I want to be able to take care of them financially, but spend some time on my own to help develop my character and my future. \n\nI'm good with computers, I am well versed in Java, have a few Android applications that haven't made it to the Marketplace yet, and most recently I've started been into Ruby on Rails. I have a good fundamental understanding of OOP and am open to learn new programming languages. \n\nI am looking for a new place to live, new people to help, and a new path to travel down in the journey of life. I am looking for stories of how you did the same, how you recommend I go about doing this, and anything you could help to point me in the right direction. If I have faith in anyone, it's you guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need to escape. I live on the east coast of the United States, I'm a computer science major who is terribly unhappy with his life. I want to get out and explore the world, what life is like in other places, and do as much as I can to learn and help others.\n\nI want to do as much as I can to help myself, my family, and anyone else I can in the process. My father passed away a year and a half ago and I'm just now starting to regain my functionality. Living with my mom and my sisters is starting to wear on me emotionally, I want to be able to take care of them financially, but spend some time on my own to help develop my character and my future. \n\nI'm good with computers, I am well versed in Java, have a few Android applications that haven't made it to the Marketplace yet, and most recently I've started been into Ruby on Rails. I have a good fundamental understanding of OOP and am open to learn new programming languages. \n\nI am looking for a new place to live, new people to help, and a new path to travel down in the journey of life. I am looking for stories of how you did the same, how you recommend I go about doing this, and anything you could help to point me in the right direction. If I have faith in anyone, it's you guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, I have been with my gf for 10 months. She is back home in the holidays from college/uni. She told me yesterday on the phone that she made plans to meet up with her ex for coffee/drinks or something. \n\nI have previously been upset by her going out with people she knows to have feelings for her one on one. I didn't really have time to ask much more information about it, although the timing feels similar to the first time she's done similar- after a small fight/blip.\n\nIt seems weird to me to be spending time with him like this, she works in the same place as him, although in a slightly different department. They aren't really good friends any more, I'd say that they were more cordial. I'd appreciate any advice that anyone has on this!\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, I have been with my gf for 10 months. She is back home in the holidays from college/uni. She told me yesterday on the phone that she made plans to meet up with her ex for coffee/drinks or something. \n\nI have previously been upset by her going out with people she knows to have feelings for her one on one. I didn't really have time to ask much more information about it, although the timing feels similar to the first time she's done similar- after a small fight/blip.\n\nIt seems weird to me to be spending time with him like this, she works in the same place as him, although in a slightly different department. They aren't really good friends any more, I'd say that they were more cordial. I'd appreciate any advice that anyone has on this!\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, I have been with my gf for 10 months. She is back home in the holidays from college/uni. She told me yesterday on the phone that she made plans to meet up with her ex for coffee/drinks or something. \n\nI have previously been upset by her going out with people she knows to have feelings for her one on one. I didn't really have time to ask much more information about it, although the timing feels similar to the first time she's done similar- after a small fight/blip.\n\nIt seems weird to me to be spending time with him like this, she works in the same place as him, although in a slightly different department. They aren't really good friends any more, I'd say that they were more cordial. I'd appreciate any advice that anyone has on this!\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, I have been with my gf for 10 months. She is back home in the holidays from college/uni. She told me yesterday on the phone that she made plans to meet up with her ex for coffee/drinks or something. \n\nI have previously been upset by her going out with people she knows to have feelings for her one on one. I didn't really have time to ask much more information about it, although the timing feels similar to the first time she's done similar- after a small fight/blip.\n\nIt seems weird to me to be spending time with him like this, she works in the same place as him, although in a slightly different department. They aren't really good friends any more, I'd say that they were more cordial. I'd appreciate any advice that anyone has on this!\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, I have been with my gf for 10 months. She is back home in the holidays from college/uni. She told me yesterday on the phone that she made plans to meet up with her ex for coffee/drinks or something. \n\nI have previously been upset by her going out with people she knows to have feelings for her one on one. I didn't really have time to ask much more information about it, although the timing feels similar to the first time she's done similar- after a small fight/blip.\n\nIt seems weird to me to be spending time with him like this, she works in the same place as him, although in a slightly different department. They aren't really good friends any more, I'd say that they were more cordial. I'd appreciate any advice that anyone has on this!\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, I have been with my gf for 10 months. She is back home in the holidays from college/uni. She told me yesterday on the phone that she made plans to meet up with her ex for coffee/drinks or something. \n\nI have previously been upset by her going out with people she knows to have feelings for her one on one. I didn't really have time to ask much more information about it, although the timing feels similar to the first time she's done similar- after a small fight/blip.\n\nIt seems weird to me to be spending time with him like this, she works in the same place as him, although in a slightly different department. They aren't really good friends any more, I'd say that they were more cordial. I'd appreciate any advice that anyone has on this!\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both originally from the UK and we met in Honduras and she agreed to come to Korea with me to teach English. We've been together now for 7 months which is not alot of time but we both made huge changes to our lives to be here and have been living together for 5 months.\n\nWe compromise on everything, food we eat, money we spend, where we go etc. Soon our contract in Korea ends and we have to look at the future and this is where we hit the bump. I never want to live in the UK, I have no job prospects there, no life prospects and I find the place depressing on so many levels. She on the other hand doesn't want to leave her family. She can't imagine living forever in a different country and rarely seeing them. We've talked about it a few and always end at the same point. with neither of us giving ground. she wants to live in the UK and I don't. I have suggested other countries in Europe but the same problem exists. Even if we lived in Spain she would only see her family once or twice a year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both originally from the UK and we met in Honduras and she agreed to come to Korea with me to teach English. We've been together now for 7 months which is not alot of time but we both made huge changes to our lives to be here and have been living together for 5 months.\n\nWe compromise on everything, food we eat, money we spend, where we go etc. Soon our contract in Korea ends and we have to look at the future and this is where we hit the bump. I never want to live in the UK, I have no job prospects there, no life prospects and I find the place depressing on so many levels. She on the other hand doesn't want to leave her family. She can't imagine living forever in a different country and rarely seeing them. We've talked about it a few and always end at the same point. with neither of us giving ground. she wants to live in the UK and I don't. I have suggested other countries in Europe but the same problem exists. Even if we lived in Spain she would only see her family once or twice a year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both originally from the UK and we met in Honduras and she agreed to come to Korea with me to teach English. We've been together now for 7 months which is not alot of time but we both made huge changes to our lives to be here and have been living together for 5 months.\n\nWe compromise on everything, food we eat, money we spend, where we go etc. Soon our contract in Korea ends and we have to look at the future and this is where we hit the bump. I never want to live in the UK, I have no job prospects there, no life prospects and I find the place depressing on so many levels. She on the other hand doesn't want to leave her family. She can't imagine living forever in a different country and rarely seeing them. We've talked about it a few and always end at the same point. with neither of us giving ground. she wants to live in the UK and I don't. I have suggested other countries in Europe but the same problem exists. Even if we lived in Spain she would only see her family once or twice a year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both originally from the UK and we met in Honduras and she agreed to come to Korea with me to teach English. We've been together now for 7 months which is not alot of time but we both made huge changes to our lives to be here and have been living together for 5 months.\n\nWe compromise on everything, food we eat, money we spend, where we go etc. Soon our contract in Korea ends and we have to look at the future and this is where we hit the bump. I never want to live in the UK, I have no job prospects there, no life prospects and I find the place depressing on so many levels. She on the other hand doesn't want to leave her family. She can't imagine living forever in a different country and rarely seeing them. We've talked about it a few and always end at the same point. with neither of us giving ground. she wants to live in the UK and I don't. I have suggested other countries in Europe but the same problem exists. Even if we lived in Spain she would only see her family once or twice a year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both originally from the UK and we met in Honduras and she agreed to come to Korea with me to teach English. We've been together now for 7 months which is not alot of time but we both made huge changes to our lives to be here and have been living together for 5 months.\n\nWe compromise on everything, food we eat, money we spend, where we go etc. Soon our contract in Korea ends and we have to look at the future and this is where we hit the bump. I never want to live in the UK, I have no job prospects there, no life prospects and I find the place depressing on so many levels. She on the other hand doesn't want to leave her family. She can't imagine living forever in a different country and rarely seeing them. We've talked about it a few and always end at the same point. with neither of us giving ground. she wants to live in the UK and I don't. I have suggested other countries in Europe but the same problem exists. Even if we lived in Spain she would only see her family once or twice a year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are both originally from the UK and we met in Honduras and she agreed to come to Korea with me to teach English. We've been together now for 7 months which is not alot of time but we both made huge changes to our lives to be here and have been living together for 5 months.\n\nWe compromise on everything, food we eat, money we spend, where we go etc. Soon our contract in Korea ends and we have to look at the future and this is where we hit the bump. I never want to live in the UK, I have no job prospects there, no life prospects and I find the place depressing on so many levels. She on the other hand doesn't want to leave her family. She can't imagine living forever in a different country and rarely seeing them. We've talked about it a few and always end at the same point. with neither of us giving ground. she wants to live in the UK and I don't. I have suggested other countries in Europe but the same problem exists. Even if we lived in Spain she would only see her family once or twice a year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is a little back story.\n\nI was raised up as in a strict christian family, and I was taught that sex before marriage was prohibited by god. Roughly a year ago, after I went to college I became an atheist and I had sex with two girls, then I started dating my girlfriend. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, and everything is good between us. I love her, but I'm not sure I'm in love with her. She tells me every single day how she is madly in love, has never felt happier and wants to be with me for the rest of our lives. It makes me feel trapped, I don't know if I can dedicate myself to one women for the rest of my life just yet, I need to try out other peoples first. How do I tell her that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is a little back story.\n\nI was raised up as in a strict christian family, and I was taught that sex before marriage was prohibited by god. Roughly a year ago, after I went to college I became an atheist and I had sex with two girls, then I started dating my girlfriend. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, and everything is good between us. I love her, but I'm not sure I'm in love with her. She tells me every single day how she is madly in love, has never felt happier and wants to be with me for the rest of our lives. It makes me feel trapped, I don't know if I can dedicate myself to one women for the rest of my life just yet, I need to try out other peoples first. How do I tell her that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is a little back story.\n\nI was raised up as in a strict christian family, and I was taught that sex before marriage was prohibited by god. Roughly a year ago, after I went to college I became an atheist and I had sex with two girls, then I started dating my girlfriend. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, and everything is good between us. I love her, but I'm not sure I'm in love with her. She tells me every single day how she is madly in love, has never felt happier and wants to be with me for the rest of our lives. It makes me feel trapped, I don't know if I can dedicate myself to one women for the rest of my life just yet, I need to try out other peoples first. How do I tell her that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is a little back story.\n\nI was raised up as in a strict christian family, and I was taught that sex before marriage was prohibited by god. Roughly a year ago, after I went to college I became an atheist and I had sex with two girls, then I started dating my girlfriend. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, and everything is good between us. I love her, but I'm not sure I'm in love with her. She tells me every single day how she is madly in love, has never felt happier and wants to be with me for the rest of our lives. It makes me feel trapped, I don't know if I can dedicate myself to one women for the rest of my life just yet, I need to try out other peoples first. How do I tell her that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is a little back story.\n\nI was raised up as in a strict christian family, and I was taught that sex before marriage was prohibited by god. Roughly a year ago, after I went to college I became an atheist and I had sex with two girls, then I started dating my girlfriend. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, and everything is good between us. I love her, but I'm not sure I'm in love with her. She tells me every single day how she is madly in love, has never felt happier and wants to be with me for the rest of our lives. It makes me feel trapped, I don't know if I can dedicate myself to one women for the rest of my life just yet, I need to try out other peoples first. How do I tell her that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is a little back story.\n\nI was raised up as in a strict christian family, and I was taught that sex before marriage was prohibited by god. Roughly a year ago, after I went to college I became an atheist and I had sex with two girls, then I started dating my girlfriend. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, and everything is good between us. I love her, but I'm not sure I'm in love with her. She tells me every single day how she is madly in love, has never felt happier and wants to be with me for the rest of our lives. It makes me feel trapped, I don't know if I can dedicate myself to one women for the rest of my life just yet, I need to try out other peoples first. How do I tell her that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, professional counseling is obviously great when couples are having major issues. Does anyone have experience seeking counseling for minor issues or just to create space/time to talk about next steps in a fairly happy relationship? \n\nA bit about my situation. Both my boyfriend and I are divorced (from other people). We've been together for about 3-years. We started as a sort of casual, fwb relationship a few months after my separation (and about a year after his divorce). He didn't see other people for the first couple years, but since we weren't exclusive, I did. \n\nAbout a year ago, after my divorce was finalized and I felt ready for a relationship, I decided he deserved a promotion to boyfriend status. Our relationship is a solid 8/10 - great intimacy even after the honeymoon period; we peacefully coexist and can spend hours or whole days together without any issues; there's an abundance of mutual respect, patience, etc. That said, we have taken things very slow - although we treat eachother in all sorts of loving ways, we have yet to officially say the \"L word\".\n\nI'm feeling some uncertainly about where we go from here. We emerged from our divorces with completely different outlooks on love - I came out ready for a fresh start, with a new appreciation of what I want in a partner and what I have to offer. He came out of his (very messy) divorce unsure if he was capable of or interested in love again and prepared to be a lifelong bachelor. \n\nSince we started so casual, getting more serious feels like we are changing the rules half-way through the game. Things that didn't matter at all when we were just looking for someone to hang out with become much more important if we're thinking about whether we want to be lifemates. Since neither of us are interested in entering into another unsuccessful marriage, I'm thinking about whether it makes sense to go in for a bit of a \"relationship check-up\" with a couples counselor. It's obviously common for couples to do pre-marital counseling, but what about pre-pre-marital counseling? Any advice from couples who have done this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, professional counseling is obviously great when couples are having major issues. Does anyone have experience seeking counseling for minor issues or just to create space/time to talk about next steps in a fairly happy relationship? \n\nA bit about my situation. Both my boyfriend and I are divorced (from other people). We've been together for about 3-years. We started as a sort of casual, fwb relationship a few months after my separation (and about a year after his divorce). He didn't see other people for the first couple years, but since we weren't exclusive, I did. \n\nAbout a year ago, after my divorce was finalized and I felt ready for a relationship, I decided he deserved a promotion to boyfriend status. Our relationship is a solid 8/10 - great intimacy even after the honeymoon period; we peacefully coexist and can spend hours or whole days together without any issues; there's an abundance of mutual respect, patience, etc. That said, we have taken things very slow - although we treat eachother in all sorts of loving ways, we have yet to officially say the \"L word\".\n\nI'm feeling some uncertainly about where we go from here. We emerged from our divorces with completely different outlooks on love - I came out ready for a fresh start, with a new appreciation of what I want in a partner and what I have to offer. He came out of his (very messy) divorce unsure if he was capable of or interested in love again and prepared to be a lifelong bachelor. \n\nSince we started so casual, getting more serious feels like we are changing the rules half-way through the game. Things that didn't matter at all when we were just looking for someone to hang out with become much more important if we're thinking about whether we want to be lifemates. Since neither of us are interested in entering into another unsuccessful marriage, I'm thinking about whether it makes sense to go in for a bit of a \"relationship check-up\" with a couples counselor. It's obviously common for couples to do pre-marital counseling, but what about pre-pre-marital counseling? Any advice from couples who have done this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, professional counseling is obviously great when couples are having major issues. Does anyone have experience seeking counseling for minor issues or just to create space/time to talk about next steps in a fairly happy relationship? \n\nA bit about my situation. Both my boyfriend and I are divorced (from other people). We've been together for about 3-years. We started as a sort of casual, fwb relationship a few months after my separation (and about a year after his divorce). He didn't see other people for the first couple years, but since we weren't exclusive, I did. \n\nAbout a year ago, after my divorce was finalized and I felt ready for a relationship, I decided he deserved a promotion to boyfriend status. Our relationship is a solid 8/10 - great intimacy even after the honeymoon period; we peacefully coexist and can spend hours or whole days together without any issues; there's an abundance of mutual respect, patience, etc. That said, we have taken things very slow - although we treat eachother in all sorts of loving ways, we have yet to officially say the \"L word\".\n\nI'm feeling some uncertainly about where we go from here. We emerged from our divorces with completely different outlooks on love - I came out ready for a fresh start, with a new appreciation of what I want in a partner and what I have to offer. He came out of his (very messy) divorce unsure if he was capable of or interested in love again and prepared to be a lifelong bachelor. \n\nSince we started so casual, getting more serious feels like we are changing the rules half-way through the game. Things that didn't matter at all when we were just looking for someone to hang out with become much more important if we're thinking about whether we want to be lifemates. Since neither of us are interested in entering into another unsuccessful marriage, I'm thinking about whether it makes sense to go in for a bit of a \"relationship check-up\" with a couples counselor. It's obviously common for couples to do pre-marital counseling, but what about pre-pre-marital counseling? Any advice from couples who have done this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, professional counseling is obviously great when couples are having major issues. Does anyone have experience seeking counseling for minor issues or just to create space/time to talk about next steps in a fairly happy relationship? \n\nA bit about my situation. Both my boyfriend and I are divorced (from other people). We've been together for about 3-years. We started as a sort of casual, fwb relationship a few months after my separation (and about a year after his divorce). He didn't see other people for the first couple years, but since we weren't exclusive, I did. \n\nAbout a year ago, after my divorce was finalized and I felt ready for a relationship, I decided he deserved a promotion to boyfriend status. Our relationship is a solid 8/10 - great intimacy even after the honeymoon period; we peacefully coexist and can spend hours or whole days together without any issues; there's an abundance of mutual respect, patience, etc. That said, we have taken things very slow - although we treat eachother in all sorts of loving ways, we have yet to officially say the \"L word\".\n\nI'm feeling some uncertainly about where we go from here. We emerged from our divorces with completely different outlooks on love - I came out ready for a fresh start, with a new appreciation of what I want in a partner and what I have to offer. He came out of his (very messy) divorce unsure if he was capable of or interested in love again and prepared to be a lifelong bachelor. \n\nSince we started so casual, getting more serious feels like we are changing the rules half-way through the game. Things that didn't matter at all when we were just looking for someone to hang out with become much more important if we're thinking about whether we want to be lifemates. Since neither of us are interested in entering into another unsuccessful marriage, I'm thinking about whether it makes sense to go in for a bit of a \"relationship check-up\" with a couples counselor. It's obviously common for couples to do pre-marital counseling, but what about pre-pre-marital counseling? Any advice from couples who have done this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, professional counseling is obviously great when couples are having major issues. Does anyone have experience seeking counseling for minor issues or just to create space/time to talk about next steps in a fairly happy relationship? \n\nA bit about my situation. Both my boyfriend and I are divorced (from other people). We've been together for about 3-years. We started as a sort of casual, fwb relationship a few months after my separation (and about a year after his divorce). He didn't see other people for the first couple years, but since we weren't exclusive, I did. \n\nAbout a year ago, after my divorce was finalized and I felt ready for a relationship, I decided he deserved a promotion to boyfriend status. Our relationship is a solid 8/10 - great intimacy even after the honeymoon period; we peacefully coexist and can spend hours or whole days together without any issues; there's an abundance of mutual respect, patience, etc. That said, we have taken things very slow - although we treat eachother in all sorts of loving ways, we have yet to officially say the \"L word\".\n\nI'm feeling some uncertainly about where we go from here. We emerged from our divorces with completely different outlooks on love - I came out ready for a fresh start, with a new appreciation of what I want in a partner and what I have to offer. He came out of his (very messy) divorce unsure if he was capable of or interested in love again and prepared to be a lifelong bachelor. \n\nSince we started so casual, getting more serious feels like we are changing the rules half-way through the game. Things that didn't matter at all when we were just looking for someone to hang out with become much more important if we're thinking about whether we want to be lifemates. Since neither of us are interested in entering into another unsuccessful marriage, I'm thinking about whether it makes sense to go in for a bit of a \"relationship check-up\" with a couples counselor. It's obviously common for couples to do pre-marital counseling, but what about pre-pre-marital counseling? Any advice from couples who have done this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, professional counseling is obviously great when couples are having major issues. Does anyone have experience seeking counseling for minor issues or just to create space/time to talk about next steps in a fairly happy relationship? \n\nA bit about my situation. Both my boyfriend and I are divorced (from other people). We've been together for about 3-years. We started as a sort of casual, fwb relationship a few months after my separation (and about a year after his divorce). He didn't see other people for the first couple years, but since we weren't exclusive, I did. \n\nAbout a year ago, after my divorce was finalized and I felt ready for a relationship, I decided he deserved a promotion to boyfriend status. Our relationship is a solid 8/10 - great intimacy even after the honeymoon period; we peacefully coexist and can spend hours or whole days together without any issues; there's an abundance of mutual respect, patience, etc. That said, we have taken things very slow - although we treat eachother in all sorts of loving ways, we have yet to officially say the \"L word\".\n\nI'm feeling some uncertainly about where we go from here. We emerged from our divorces with completely different outlooks on love - I came out ready for a fresh start, with a new appreciation of what I want in a partner and what I have to offer. He came out of his (very messy) divorce unsure if he was capable of or interested in love again and prepared to be a lifelong bachelor. \n\nSince we started so casual, getting more serious feels like we are changing the rules half-way through the game. Things that didn't matter at all when we were just looking for someone to hang out with become much more important if we're thinking about whether we want to be lifemates. Since neither of us are interested in entering into another unsuccessful marriage, I'm thinking about whether it makes sense to go in for a bit of a \"relationship check-up\" with a couples counselor. It's obviously common for couples to do pre-marital counseling, but what about pre-pre-marital counseling? Any advice from couples who have done this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mum turns 50 start of next year, i'm 23, neither of us have any other tattoos (although i've been wanting to get one done since i was 17, just haven't settled on what i want).\n\nShe sort of came out with the question out the blue, this could possibly be a mixture of mid life crisis and empty nest syndrome as i left home a year ago and live 4 hrs away from her and the rest of my family and my younger brother leaves for uni next month.\n\nHowever she does seem quite keen on it, but doesn't want anything \"stereotypical\" like no stars, dolphins, tribal etc and she isn't keen on writing.\n\nWe have a relatively good relationship, few common interests. We argue like hell sometimes but its been better since i moved.\n\nIs it a good idea to do this? Personal i don't mind but it definitely depends on the design, but so far i haven't come up with any decent ideas. So if i'm going to do this it would have to be done right with everything taken into consideration, i know this might be over thinking things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mum turns 50 start of next year, i'm 23, neither of us have any other tattoos (although i've been wanting to get one done since i was 17, just haven't settled on what i want).\n\nShe sort of came out with the question out the blue, this could possibly be a mixture of mid life crisis and empty nest syndrome as i left home a year ago and live 4 hrs away from her and the rest of my family and my younger brother leaves for uni next month.\n\nHowever she does seem quite keen on it, but doesn't want anything \"stereotypical\" like no stars, dolphins, tribal etc and she isn't keen on writing.\n\nWe have a relatively good relationship, few common interests. We argue like hell sometimes but its been better since i moved.\n\nIs it a good idea to do this? Personal i don't mind but it definitely depends on the design, but so far i haven't come up with any decent ideas. So if i'm going to do this it would have to be done right with everything taken into consideration, i know this might be over thinking things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mum turns 50 start of next year, i'm 23, neither of us have any other tattoos (although i've been wanting to get one done since i was 17, just haven't settled on what i want).\n\nShe sort of came out with the question out the blue, this could possibly be a mixture of mid life crisis and empty nest syndrome as i left home a year ago and live 4 hrs away from her and the rest of my family and my younger brother leaves for uni next month.\n\nHowever she does seem quite keen on it, but doesn't want anything \"stereotypical\" like no stars, dolphins, tribal etc and she isn't keen on writing.\n\nWe have a relatively good relationship, few common interests. We argue like hell sometimes but its been better since i moved.\n\nIs it a good idea to do this? Personal i don't mind but it definitely depends on the design, but so far i haven't come up with any decent ideas. So if i'm going to do this it would have to be done right with everything taken into consideration, i know this might be over thinking things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mum turns 50 start of next year, i'm 23, neither of us have any other tattoos (although i've been wanting to get one done since i was 17, just haven't settled on what i want).\n\nShe sort of came out with the question out the blue, this could possibly be a mixture of mid life crisis and empty nest syndrome as i left home a year ago and live 4 hrs away from her and the rest of my family and my younger brother leaves for uni next month.\n\nHowever she does seem quite keen on it, but doesn't want anything \"stereotypical\" like no stars, dolphins, tribal etc and she isn't keen on writing.\n\nWe have a relatively good relationship, few common interests. We argue like hell sometimes but its been better since i moved.\n\nIs it a good idea to do this? Personal i don't mind but it definitely depends on the design, but so far i haven't come up with any decent ideas. So if i'm going to do this it would have to be done right with everything taken into consideration, i know this might be over thinking things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mum turns 50 start of next year, i'm 23, neither of us have any other tattoos (although i've been wanting to get one done since i was 17, just haven't settled on what i want).\n\nShe sort of came out with the question out the blue, this could possibly be a mixture of mid life crisis and empty nest syndrome as i left home a year ago and live 4 hrs away from her and the rest of my family and my younger brother leaves for uni next month.\n\nHowever she does seem quite keen on it, but doesn't want anything \"stereotypical\" like no stars, dolphins, tribal etc and she isn't keen on writing.\n\nWe have a relatively good relationship, few common interests. We argue like hell sometimes but its been better since i moved.\n\nIs it a good idea to do this? Personal i don't mind but it definitely depends on the design, but so far i haven't come up with any decent ideas. So if i'm going to do this it would have to be done right with everything taken into consideration, i know this might be over thinking things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mum turns 50 start of next year, i'm 23, neither of us have any other tattoos (although i've been wanting to get one done since i was 17, just haven't settled on what i want).\n\nShe sort of came out with the question out the blue, this could possibly be a mixture of mid life crisis and empty nest syndrome as i left home a year ago and live 4 hrs away from her and the rest of my family and my younger brother leaves for uni next month.\n\nHowever she does seem quite keen on it, but doesn't want anything \"stereotypical\" like no stars, dolphins, tribal etc and she isn't keen on writing.\n\nWe have a relatively good relationship, few common interests. We argue like hell sometimes but its been better since i moved.\n\nIs it a good idea to do this? Personal i don't mind but it definitely depends on the design, but so far i haven't come up with any decent ideas. So if i'm going to do this it would have to be done right with everything taken into consideration, i know this might be over thinking things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory, I met my ex in mid June 2 years ago and we got together. Things was great for a long time and we also discussed the topic of marriage under the condition that we managed to last for at least 3-4 years together. Time passed and slowly we ran out of common topics to talk about(we were in different schools and had different groups of friends) and started to talk occasionally for a month or 2. I was so sure that we were getting married and that we are technically a old couple together already, to the point that we don't need words to express how much we love each other. \n\nShe apparently thought that we were drifting apart and decided to call it quits 4 months ago from today. I have recovered from the heart break since I could approach her and have a chat with her without any sort of intentions of trying to get back with her.\n\nNow, I'm afraid to get back into relationships even when girls started approaching me. I also tried to approach other girls, but I would instinctively think about how it would end between me and the girl (since relationships end either in breakup or marriage) and then decide that it wasn't worth the heartbreak again. It was too risky a bet for me to take. The reason as to why I feel this way is probably because I am too scared to love anymore. The once stable relationship I thought I had crumbled so easily right in front of me, just like that a almost 2 years relationship disappeared overnight."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory, I met my ex in mid June 2 years ago and we got together. Things was great for a long time and we also discussed the topic of marriage under the condition that we managed to last for at least 3-4 years together. Time passed and slowly we ran out of common topics to talk about(we were in different schools and had different groups of friends) and started to talk occasionally for a month or 2. I was so sure that we were getting married and that we are technically a old couple together already, to the point that we don't need words to express how much we love each other. \n\nShe apparently thought that we were drifting apart and decided to call it quits 4 months ago from today. I have recovered from the heart break since I could approach her and have a chat with her without any sort of intentions of trying to get back with her.\n\nNow, I'm afraid to get back into relationships even when girls started approaching me. I also tried to approach other girls, but I would instinctively think about how it would end between me and the girl (since relationships end either in breakup or marriage) and then decide that it wasn't worth the heartbreak again. It was too risky a bet for me to take. The reason as to why I feel this way is probably because I am too scared to love anymore. The once stable relationship I thought I had crumbled so easily right in front of me, just like that a almost 2 years relationship disappeared overnight."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory, I met my ex in mid June 2 years ago and we got together. Things was great for a long time and we also discussed the topic of marriage under the condition that we managed to last for at least 3-4 years together. Time passed and slowly we ran out of common topics to talk about(we were in different schools and had different groups of friends) and started to talk occasionally for a month or 2. I was so sure that we were getting married and that we are technically a old couple together already, to the point that we don't need words to express how much we love each other. \n\nShe apparently thought that we were drifting apart and decided to call it quits 4 months ago from today. I have recovered from the heart break since I could approach her and have a chat with her without any sort of intentions of trying to get back with her.\n\nNow, I'm afraid to get back into relationships even when girls started approaching me. I also tried to approach other girls, but I would instinctively think about how it would end between me and the girl (since relationships end either in breakup or marriage) and then decide that it wasn't worth the heartbreak again. It was too risky a bet for me to take. The reason as to why I feel this way is probably because I am too scared to love anymore. The once stable relationship I thought I had crumbled so easily right in front of me, just like that a almost 2 years relationship disappeared overnight."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory, I met my ex in mid June 2 years ago and we got together. Things was great for a long time and we also discussed the topic of marriage under the condition that we managed to last for at least 3-4 years together. Time passed and slowly we ran out of common topics to talk about(we were in different schools and had different groups of friends) and started to talk occasionally for a month or 2. I was so sure that we were getting married and that we are technically a old couple together already, to the point that we don't need words to express how much we love each other. \n\nShe apparently thought that we were drifting apart and decided to call it quits 4 months ago from today. I have recovered from the heart break since I could approach her and have a chat with her without any sort of intentions of trying to get back with her.\n\nNow, I'm afraid to get back into relationships even when girls started approaching me. I also tried to approach other girls, but I would instinctively think about how it would end between me and the girl (since relationships end either in breakup or marriage) and then decide that it wasn't worth the heartbreak again. It was too risky a bet for me to take. The reason as to why I feel this way is probably because I am too scared to love anymore. The once stable relationship I thought I had crumbled so easily right in front of me, just like that a almost 2 years relationship disappeared overnight."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory, I met my ex in mid June 2 years ago and we got together. Things was great for a long time and we also discussed the topic of marriage under the condition that we managed to last for at least 3-4 years together. Time passed and slowly we ran out of common topics to talk about(we were in different schools and had different groups of friends) and started to talk occasionally for a month or 2. I was so sure that we were getting married and that we are technically a old couple together already, to the point that we don't need words to express how much we love each other. \n\nShe apparently thought that we were drifting apart and decided to call it quits 4 months ago from today. I have recovered from the heart break since I could approach her and have a chat with her without any sort of intentions of trying to get back with her.\n\nNow, I'm afraid to get back into relationships even when girls started approaching me. I also tried to approach other girls, but I would instinctively think about how it would end between me and the girl (since relationships end either in breakup or marriage) and then decide that it wasn't worth the heartbreak again. It was too risky a bet for me to take. The reason as to why I feel this way is probably because I am too scared to love anymore. The once stable relationship I thought I had crumbled so easily right in front of me, just like that a almost 2 years relationship disappeared overnight."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory, I met my ex in mid June 2 years ago and we got together. Things was great for a long time and we also discussed the topic of marriage under the condition that we managed to last for at least 3-4 years together. Time passed and slowly we ran out of common topics to talk about(we were in different schools and had different groups of friends) and started to talk occasionally for a month or 2. I was so sure that we were getting married and that we are technically a old couple together already, to the point that we don't need words to express how much we love each other. \n\nShe apparently thought that we were drifting apart and decided to call it quits 4 months ago from today. I have recovered from the heart break since I could approach her and have a chat with her without any sort of intentions of trying to get back with her.\n\nNow, I'm afraid to get back into relationships even when girls started approaching me. I also tried to approach other girls, but I would instinctively think about how it would end between me and the girl (since relationships end either in breakup or marriage) and then decide that it wasn't worth the heartbreak again. It was too risky a bet for me to take. The reason as to why I feel this way is probably because I am too scared to love anymore. The once stable relationship I thought I had crumbled so easily right in front of me, just like that a almost 2 years relationship disappeared overnight."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sure a lot of non English speakers are very happy to have localized content in their language. But localization fails miserably for a small distinct niche I find myself in. This being - I live in a foreign country, but am a native English speaker. \n\nIt starts off relatively harmless, reinstall an OS, and Google comes up in the said foreign language. No problem 1 click and you can switch to Google.com. But the problem is just getting started. \n\nAndroid market, no matter how many times I try and set it to English refuses to remember the setting - each time its once again in [foreign_language]. \n\nHow about Youtube - browsing by popular or favorites is completely useless to me - all the results are bubbled to [foreign_language].\n\nAds from Google services - same thing bubbled to foreign language. \n\nThe list carries on, and it is annoying. \n\nI've checked my Google account settings and everything is set to English. \n\nIs there any way to deliver me from the [foreign_language] bubble I find myself in?\n\n&"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sure a lot of non English speakers are very happy to have localized content in their language. But localization fails miserably for a small distinct niche I find myself in. This being - I live in a foreign country, but am a native English speaker. \n\nIt starts off relatively harmless, reinstall an OS, and Google comes up in the said foreign language. No problem 1 click and you can switch to Google.com. But the problem is just getting started. \n\nAndroid market, no matter how many times I try and set it to English refuses to remember the setting - each time its once again in [foreign_language]. \n\nHow about Youtube - browsing by popular or favorites is completely useless to me - all the results are bubbled to [foreign_language].\n\nAds from Google services - same thing bubbled to foreign language. \n\nThe list carries on, and it is annoying. \n\nI've checked my Google account settings and everything is set to English. \n\nIs there any way to deliver me from the [foreign_language] bubble I find myself in?\n\n&"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sure a lot of non English speakers are very happy to have localized content in their language. But localization fails miserably for a small distinct niche I find myself in. This being - I live in a foreign country, but am a native English speaker. \n\nIt starts off relatively harmless, reinstall an OS, and Google comes up in the said foreign language. No problem 1 click and you can switch to Google.com. But the problem is just getting started. \n\nAndroid market, no matter how many times I try and set it to English refuses to remember the setting - each time its once again in [foreign_language]. \n\nHow about Youtube - browsing by popular or favorites is completely useless to me - all the results are bubbled to [foreign_language].\n\nAds from Google services - same thing bubbled to foreign language. \n\nThe list carries on, and it is annoying. \n\nI've checked my Google account settings and everything is set to English. \n\nIs there any way to deliver me from the [foreign_language] bubble I find myself in?\n\n&"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sure a lot of non English speakers are very happy to have localized content in their language. But localization fails miserably for a small distinct niche I find myself in. This being - I live in a foreign country, but am a native English speaker. \n\nIt starts off relatively harmless, reinstall an OS, and Google comes up in the said foreign language. No problem 1 click and you can switch to Google.com. But the problem is just getting started. \n\nAndroid market, no matter how many times I try and set it to English refuses to remember the setting - each time its once again in [foreign_language]. \n\nHow about Youtube - browsing by popular or favorites is completely useless to me - all the results are bubbled to [foreign_language].\n\nAds from Google services - same thing bubbled to foreign language. \n\nThe list carries on, and it is annoying. \n\nI've checked my Google account settings and everything is set to English. \n\nIs there any way to deliver me from the [foreign_language] bubble I find myself in?\n\n&"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sure a lot of non English speakers are very happy to have localized content in their language. But localization fails miserably for a small distinct niche I find myself in. This being - I live in a foreign country, but am a native English speaker. \n\nIt starts off relatively harmless, reinstall an OS, and Google comes up in the said foreign language. No problem 1 click and you can switch to Google.com. But the problem is just getting started. \n\nAndroid market, no matter how many times I try and set it to English refuses to remember the setting - each time its once again in [foreign_language]. \n\nHow about Youtube - browsing by popular or favorites is completely useless to me - all the results are bubbled to [foreign_language].\n\nAds from Google services - same thing bubbled to foreign language. \n\nThe list carries on, and it is annoying. \n\nI've checked my Google account settings and everything is set to English. \n\nIs there any way to deliver me from the [foreign_language] bubble I find myself in?\n\n&"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sure a lot of non English speakers are very happy to have localized content in their language. But localization fails miserably for a small distinct niche I find myself in. This being - I live in a foreign country, but am a native English speaker. \n\nIt starts off relatively harmless, reinstall an OS, and Google comes up in the said foreign language. No problem 1 click and you can switch to Google.com. But the problem is just getting started. \n\nAndroid market, no matter how many times I try and set it to English refuses to remember the setting - each time its once again in [foreign_language]. \n\nHow about Youtube - browsing by popular or favorites is completely useless to me - all the results are bubbled to [foreign_language].\n\nAds from Google services - same thing bubbled to foreign language. \n\nThe list carries on, and it is annoying. \n\nI've checked my Google account settings and everything is set to English. \n\nIs there any way to deliver me from the [foreign_language] bubble I find myself in?\n\n&"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To make a long story short, my girlfriend of 5 months was my first relationship. I am like her tenth. This is the most serious relationship she has had though. Anyways, she was my first kiss all the way to loosing my virginity with her. She was also a virgin but had done everything else with ex's. I cant bare to think that she did stuff with people before me, that she loved before me. I know it is just because i hadnt, and i feel inexperienced. But what do I do, I cant let go of her past and I try not to bring it up but sometimes I do and it pisses her off. I dont know what to do. I just want to get the image of her being with other guys out of my head. i get that she is loyal to me now etc., i know its my problem. But what am I supposed to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To make a long story short, my girlfriend of 5 months was my first relationship. I am like her tenth. This is the most serious relationship she has had though. Anyways, she was my first kiss all the way to loosing my virginity with her. She was also a virgin but had done everything else with ex's. I cant bare to think that she did stuff with people before me, that she loved before me. I know it is just because i hadnt, and i feel inexperienced. But what do I do, I cant let go of her past and I try not to bring it up but sometimes I do and it pisses her off. I dont know what to do. I just want to get the image of her being with other guys out of my head. i get that she is loyal to me now etc., i know its my problem. But what am I supposed to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To make a long story short, my girlfriend of 5 months was my first relationship. I am like her tenth. This is the most serious relationship she has had though. Anyways, she was my first kiss all the way to loosing my virginity with her. She was also a virgin but had done everything else with ex's. I cant bare to think that she did stuff with people before me, that she loved before me. I know it is just because i hadnt, and i feel inexperienced. But what do I do, I cant let go of her past and I try not to bring it up but sometimes I do and it pisses her off. I dont know what to do. I just want to get the image of her being with other guys out of my head. i get that she is loyal to me now etc., i know its my problem. But what am I supposed to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To make a long story short, my girlfriend of 5 months was my first relationship. I am like her tenth. This is the most serious relationship she has had though. Anyways, she was my first kiss all the way to loosing my virginity with her. She was also a virgin but had done everything else with ex's. I cant bare to think that she did stuff with people before me, that she loved before me. I know it is just because i hadnt, and i feel inexperienced. But what do I do, I cant let go of her past and I try not to bring it up but sometimes I do and it pisses her off. I dont know what to do. I just want to get the image of her being with other guys out of my head. i get that she is loyal to me now etc., i know its my problem. But what am I supposed to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To make a long story short, my girlfriend of 5 months was my first relationship. I am like her tenth. This is the most serious relationship she has had though. Anyways, she was my first kiss all the way to loosing my virginity with her. She was also a virgin but had done everything else with ex's. I cant bare to think that she did stuff with people before me, that she loved before me. I know it is just because i hadnt, and i feel inexperienced. But what do I do, I cant let go of her past and I try not to bring it up but sometimes I do and it pisses her off. I dont know what to do. I just want to get the image of her being with other guys out of my head. i get that she is loyal to me now etc., i know its my problem. But what am I supposed to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, we fight a lot; it seems we can't go a week without some sort of argument. I feel like a lot of things I do set her off, but when she does it, it's no big deal. \n\nFor example: about a week ago I had 3 finals in one day and at the end of the day I was so exhausted and tired. She kept asking me what time I would wake up in the morning and I kept telling her I don't know, I just want to catch up on sleep for a while. On about her 4th time asking, I accidentally snapped and raised my voice and said \"Why can't you just let me sleep?\" I know I was wrong and shouldn't have raised my voice at her, and I apologized afterwards. Then, last night we were having trouble navigating in the city and after I checked my phone to see which way we should go, she said loudly \"I just want to go to Fifth avenue!\" We walked silently for a few minutes and then I said to her \"Don't be mad at me, it's not my fault.\" And she responded \"I didn't say it was your fault. Did I say it was your fault? No, I didn't.\" And that was basically all we said for the rest of the night. She didn't apologize and we haven't talked since. \n\nI love her to death, but how long can we keep doing this if we can't go a week without fighting? I can overlook a lot of the things she does that upset me, but it becomes an issue when she does things that she had previously been mad at me for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, we fight a lot; it seems we can't go a week without some sort of argument. I feel like a lot of things I do set her off, but when she does it, it's no big deal. \n\nFor example: about a week ago I had 3 finals in one day and at the end of the day I was so exhausted and tired. She kept asking me what time I would wake up in the morning and I kept telling her I don't know, I just want to catch up on sleep for a while. On about her 4th time asking, I accidentally snapped and raised my voice and said \"Why can't you just let me sleep?\" I know I was wrong and shouldn't have raised my voice at her, and I apologized afterwards. Then, last night we were having trouble navigating in the city and after I checked my phone to see which way we should go, she said loudly \"I just want to go to Fifth avenue!\" We walked silently for a few minutes and then I said to her \"Don't be mad at me, it's not my fault.\" And she responded \"I didn't say it was your fault. Did I say it was your fault? No, I didn't.\" And that was basically all we said for the rest of the night. She didn't apologize and we haven't talked since. \n\nI love her to death, but how long can we keep doing this if we can't go a week without fighting? I can overlook a lot of the things she does that upset me, but it becomes an issue when she does things that she had previously been mad at me for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, we fight a lot; it seems we can't go a week without some sort of argument. I feel like a lot of things I do set her off, but when she does it, it's no big deal. \n\nFor example: about a week ago I had 3 finals in one day and at the end of the day I was so exhausted and tired. She kept asking me what time I would wake up in the morning and I kept telling her I don't know, I just want to catch up on sleep for a while. On about her 4th time asking, I accidentally snapped and raised my voice and said \"Why can't you just let me sleep?\" I know I was wrong and shouldn't have raised my voice at her, and I apologized afterwards. Then, last night we were having trouble navigating in the city and after I checked my phone to see which way we should go, she said loudly \"I just want to go to Fifth avenue!\" We walked silently for a few minutes and then I said to her \"Don't be mad at me, it's not my fault.\" And she responded \"I didn't say it was your fault. Did I say it was your fault? No, I didn't.\" And that was basically all we said for the rest of the night. She didn't apologize and we haven't talked since. \n\nI love her to death, but how long can we keep doing this if we can't go a week without fighting? I can overlook a lot of the things she does that upset me, but it becomes an issue when she does things that she had previously been mad at me for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, we fight a lot; it seems we can't go a week without some sort of argument. I feel like a lot of things I do set her off, but when she does it, it's no big deal. \n\nFor example: about a week ago I had 3 finals in one day and at the end of the day I was so exhausted and tired. She kept asking me what time I would wake up in the morning and I kept telling her I don't know, I just want to catch up on sleep for a while. On about her 4th time asking, I accidentally snapped and raised my voice and said \"Why can't you just let me sleep?\" I know I was wrong and shouldn't have raised my voice at her, and I apologized afterwards. Then, last night we were having trouble navigating in the city and after I checked my phone to see which way we should go, she said loudly \"I just want to go to Fifth avenue!\" We walked silently for a few minutes and then I said to her \"Don't be mad at me, it's not my fault.\" And she responded \"I didn't say it was your fault. Did I say it was your fault? No, I didn't.\" And that was basically all we said for the rest of the night. She didn't apologize and we haven't talked since. \n\nI love her to death, but how long can we keep doing this if we can't go a week without fighting? I can overlook a lot of the things she does that upset me, but it becomes an issue when she does things that she had previously been mad at me for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, we fight a lot; it seems we can't go a week without some sort of argument. I feel like a lot of things I do set her off, but when she does it, it's no big deal. \n\nFor example: about a week ago I had 3 finals in one day and at the end of the day I was so exhausted and tired. She kept asking me what time I would wake up in the morning and I kept telling her I don't know, I just want to catch up on sleep for a while. On about her 4th time asking, I accidentally snapped and raised my voice and said \"Why can't you just let me sleep?\" I know I was wrong and shouldn't have raised my voice at her, and I apologized afterwards. Then, last night we were having trouble navigating in the city and after I checked my phone to see which way we should go, she said loudly \"I just want to go to Fifth avenue!\" We walked silently for a few minutes and then I said to her \"Don't be mad at me, it's not my fault.\" And she responded \"I didn't say it was your fault. Did I say it was your fault? No, I didn't.\" And that was basically all we said for the rest of the night. She didn't apologize and we haven't talked since. \n\nI love her to death, but how long can we keep doing this if we can't go a week without fighting? I can overlook a lot of the things she does that upset me, but it becomes an issue when she does things that she had previously been mad at me for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, we fight a lot; it seems we can't go a week without some sort of argument. I feel like a lot of things I do set her off, but when she does it, it's no big deal. \n\nFor example: about a week ago I had 3 finals in one day and at the end of the day I was so exhausted and tired. She kept asking me what time I would wake up in the morning and I kept telling her I don't know, I just want to catch up on sleep for a while. On about her 4th time asking, I accidentally snapped and raised my voice and said \"Why can't you just let me sleep?\" I know I was wrong and shouldn't have raised my voice at her, and I apologized afterwards. Then, last night we were having trouble navigating in the city and after I checked my phone to see which way we should go, she said loudly \"I just want to go to Fifth avenue!\" We walked silently for a few minutes and then I said to her \"Don't be mad at me, it's not my fault.\" And she responded \"I didn't say it was your fault. Did I say it was your fault? No, I didn't.\" And that was basically all we said for the rest of the night. She didn't apologize and we haven't talked since. \n\nI love her to death, but how long can we keep doing this if we can't go a week without fighting? I can overlook a lot of the things she does that upset me, but it becomes an issue when she does things that she had previously been mad at me for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently started a new retail job and I'm not sure if my coworker was flirting with me. The first time I met and worked with him was normal, I didn't sense anything out of the ordinary. However, a few nights ago he said/did some things that have left me SO confused.\n\n1. He asked me if I was wearing perfume and said he liked it. Could have just been a harmless compliment, not sure though.\n\n2. I was kneeling down to fix some shirts under the table and as he was walking behind me, he put his hand on my back and said, \"sorry.\" Again, I know he could have just been polite and didn't want me to get up and run into him, but it still seemed weird. Why did he get so close to me when there was tons of other space to walk?\n\n3. Last, and the most confusing, he asked me if anyone ever said I reminded them of anyone. I said, \"Many people have said that, but not here.\" He replied with, \"Well you have the exact same personality as a girl who used to work here and not to be weird, but her and I used to hang out all the time.\" Huh? Was he implying he wanted to hang out with me?\n\nHe did some other stuff too, like wink/smile at me when we were messing with one of our coworkers. He came over and helped me with what I was doing without anyone asking him to do so and was just asking me questions, normal conversation stuff.\n\nI'm just a bit confused by his intentions. He's a very nice and polite guy in general so I'm not sure if he's just being nice or if he's flirting. Outside perspectives are needed. I'm trying not to read too much into this, especially not until I see him interact with customers and other coworkers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently started a new retail job and I'm not sure if my coworker was flirting with me. The first time I met and worked with him was normal, I didn't sense anything out of the ordinary. However, a few nights ago he said/did some things that have left me SO confused.\n\n1. He asked me if I was wearing perfume and said he liked it. Could have just been a harmless compliment, not sure though.\n\n2. I was kneeling down to fix some shirts under the table and as he was walking behind me, he put his hand on my back and said, \"sorry.\" Again, I know he could have just been polite and didn't want me to get up and run into him, but it still seemed weird. Why did he get so close to me when there was tons of other space to walk?\n\n3. Last, and the most confusing, he asked me if anyone ever said I reminded them of anyone. I said, \"Many people have said that, but not here.\" He replied with, \"Well you have the exact same personality as a girl who used to work here and not to be weird, but her and I used to hang out all the time.\" Huh? Was he implying he wanted to hang out with me?\n\nHe did some other stuff too, like wink/smile at me when we were messing with one of our coworkers. He came over and helped me with what I was doing without anyone asking him to do so and was just asking me questions, normal conversation stuff.\n\nI'm just a bit confused by his intentions. He's a very nice and polite guy in general so I'm not sure if he's just being nice or if he's flirting. Outside perspectives are needed. I'm trying not to read too much into this, especially not until I see him interact with customers and other coworkers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently started a new retail job and I'm not sure if my coworker was flirting with me. The first time I met and worked with him was normal, I didn't sense anything out of the ordinary. However, a few nights ago he said/did some things that have left me SO confused.\n\n1. He asked me if I was wearing perfume and said he liked it. Could have just been a harmless compliment, not sure though.\n\n2. I was kneeling down to fix some shirts under the table and as he was walking behind me, he put his hand on my back and said, \"sorry.\" Again, I know he could have just been polite and didn't want me to get up and run into him, but it still seemed weird. Why did he get so close to me when there was tons of other space to walk?\n\n3. Last, and the most confusing, he asked me if anyone ever said I reminded them of anyone. I said, \"Many people have said that, but not here.\" He replied with, \"Well you have the exact same personality as a girl who used to work here and not to be weird, but her and I used to hang out all the time.\" Huh? Was he implying he wanted to hang out with me?\n\nHe did some other stuff too, like wink/smile at me when we were messing with one of our coworkers. He came over and helped me with what I was doing without anyone asking him to do so and was just asking me questions, normal conversation stuff.\n\nI'm just a bit confused by his intentions. He's a very nice and polite guy in general so I'm not sure if he's just being nice or if he's flirting. Outside perspectives are needed. I'm trying not to read too much into this, especially not until I see him interact with customers and other coworkers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently started a new retail job and I'm not sure if my coworker was flirting with me. The first time I met and worked with him was normal, I didn't sense anything out of the ordinary. However, a few nights ago he said/did some things that have left me SO confused.\n\n1. He asked me if I was wearing perfume and said he liked it. Could have just been a harmless compliment, not sure though.\n\n2. I was kneeling down to fix some shirts under the table and as he was walking behind me, he put his hand on my back and said, \"sorry.\" Again, I know he could have just been polite and didn't want me to get up and run into him, but it still seemed weird. Why did he get so close to me when there was tons of other space to walk?\n\n3. Last, and the most confusing, he asked me if anyone ever said I reminded them of anyone. I said, \"Many people have said that, but not here.\" He replied with, \"Well you have the exact same personality as a girl who used to work here and not to be weird, but her and I used to hang out all the time.\" Huh? Was he implying he wanted to hang out with me?\n\nHe did some other stuff too, like wink/smile at me when we were messing with one of our coworkers. He came over and helped me with what I was doing without anyone asking him to do so and was just asking me questions, normal conversation stuff.\n\nI'm just a bit confused by his intentions. He's a very nice and polite guy in general so I'm not sure if he's just being nice or if he's flirting. Outside perspectives are needed. I'm trying not to read too much into this, especially not until I see him interact with customers and other coworkers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently started a new retail job and I'm not sure if my coworker was flirting with me. The first time I met and worked with him was normal, I didn't sense anything out of the ordinary. However, a few nights ago he said/did some things that have left me SO confused.\n\n1. He asked me if I was wearing perfume and said he liked it. Could have just been a harmless compliment, not sure though.\n\n2. I was kneeling down to fix some shirts under the table and as he was walking behind me, he put his hand on my back and said, \"sorry.\" Again, I know he could have just been polite and didn't want me to get up and run into him, but it still seemed weird. Why did he get so close to me when there was tons of other space to walk?\n\n3. Last, and the most confusing, he asked me if anyone ever said I reminded them of anyone. I said, \"Many people have said that, but not here.\" He replied with, \"Well you have the exact same personality as a girl who used to work here and not to be weird, but her and I used to hang out all the time.\" Huh? Was he implying he wanted to hang out with me?\n\nHe did some other stuff too, like wink/smile at me when we were messing with one of our coworkers. He came over and helped me with what I was doing without anyone asking him to do so and was just asking me questions, normal conversation stuff.\n\nI'm just a bit confused by his intentions. He's a very nice and polite guy in general so I'm not sure if he's just being nice or if he's flirting. Outside perspectives are needed. I'm trying not to read too much into this, especially not until I see him interact with customers and other coworkers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently started a new retail job and I'm not sure if my coworker was flirting with me. The first time I met and worked with him was normal, I didn't sense anything out of the ordinary. However, a few nights ago he said/did some things that have left me SO confused.\n\n1. He asked me if I was wearing perfume and said he liked it. Could have just been a harmless compliment, not sure though.\n\n2. I was kneeling down to fix some shirts under the table and as he was walking behind me, he put his hand on my back and said, \"sorry.\" Again, I know he could have just been polite and didn't want me to get up and run into him, but it still seemed weird. Why did he get so close to me when there was tons of other space to walk?\n\n3. Last, and the most confusing, he asked me if anyone ever said I reminded them of anyone. I said, \"Many people have said that, but not here.\" He replied with, \"Well you have the exact same personality as a girl who used to work here and not to be weird, but her and I used to hang out all the time.\" Huh? Was he implying he wanted to hang out with me?\n\nHe did some other stuff too, like wink/smile at me when we were messing with one of our coworkers. He came over and helped me with what I was doing without anyone asking him to do so and was just asking me questions, normal conversation stuff.\n\nI'm just a bit confused by his intentions. He's a very nice and polite guy in general so I'm not sure if he's just being nice or if he's flirting. Outside perspectives are needed. I'm trying not to read too much into this, especially not until I see him interact with customers and other coworkers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4 years ago I made a new years resolution to start documenting every single day of my life (a quick 3-4 sentences about what I did today, any fun shows/movies I watched, what lunch/dinner I ate. Regular stuff). The journal is online on my google docs - so there is a small chance my gf will see it if she uses my laptop for some reason and happens upon it.\n\n1 month after I started journaling, I met my now SO, who I live with now. We both have no secrets otherwise, and really there's nothing in that journal which would be shocking or surprising to her (I guess the first month before I met her I was kind of a slut dating around).\n\nIts just that initially when I was dating her I didn't mention \"oh btw, later tonight I'll be documenting where we went on a date today\" or that \"yup tonight I'll document that I had sex with you\".\n\nAnd now its been 4 years of me documenting what has essentially been every single day of our life together - our first dates, our first kiss, first time we slept together, us moving in, me proposing, all the places we've been to together, all our sex, and even the evenings where we just cooked something and watched a movie.\n\nIts sweet. But also creepy? I'm documenting my life, but by extension I'm documenting every single day of her life too since we're living together, from the dinners to movies and everything else. And this has kept me from even bringing it up.\n\nAnd with every passing month, it becomes a bigger deal? What if she finds out after 10 years of us being together?\n\nI don't want to stop journaling because I really value that when I'm 80 with fading memories I'll be able to read back on my entire life. But should I tell her that \"hey, btw, your life is being documented\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4 years ago I made a new years resolution to start documenting every single day of my life (a quick 3-4 sentences about what I did today, any fun shows/movies I watched, what lunch/dinner I ate. Regular stuff). The journal is online on my google docs - so there is a small chance my gf will see it if she uses my laptop for some reason and happens upon it.\n\n1 month after I started journaling, I met my now SO, who I live with now. We both have no secrets otherwise, and really there's nothing in that journal which would be shocking or surprising to her (I guess the first month before I met her I was kind of a slut dating around).\n\nIts just that initially when I was dating her I didn't mention \"oh btw, later tonight I'll be documenting where we went on a date today\" or that \"yup tonight I'll document that I had sex with you\".\n\nAnd now its been 4 years of me documenting what has essentially been every single day of our life together - our first dates, our first kiss, first time we slept together, us moving in, me proposing, all the places we've been to together, all our sex, and even the evenings where we just cooked something and watched a movie.\n\nIts sweet. But also creepy? I'm documenting my life, but by extension I'm documenting every single day of her life too since we're living together, from the dinners to movies and everything else. And this has kept me from even bringing it up.\n\nAnd with every passing month, it becomes a bigger deal? What if she finds out after 10 years of us being together?\n\nI don't want to stop journaling because I really value that when I'm 80 with fading memories I'll be able to read back on my entire life. But should I tell her that \"hey, btw, your life is being documented\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4 years ago I made a new years resolution to start documenting every single day of my life (a quick 3-4 sentences about what I did today, any fun shows/movies I watched, what lunch/dinner I ate. Regular stuff). The journal is online on my google docs - so there is a small chance my gf will see it if she uses my laptop for some reason and happens upon it.\n\n1 month after I started journaling, I met my now SO, who I live with now. We both have no secrets otherwise, and really there's nothing in that journal which would be shocking or surprising to her (I guess the first month before I met her I was kind of a slut dating around).\n\nIts just that initially when I was dating her I didn't mention \"oh btw, later tonight I'll be documenting where we went on a date today\" or that \"yup tonight I'll document that I had sex with you\".\n\nAnd now its been 4 years of me documenting what has essentially been every single day of our life together - our first dates, our first kiss, first time we slept together, us moving in, me proposing, all the places we've been to together, all our sex, and even the evenings where we just cooked something and watched a movie.\n\nIts sweet. But also creepy? I'm documenting my life, but by extension I'm documenting every single day of her life too since we're living together, from the dinners to movies and everything else. And this has kept me from even bringing it up.\n\nAnd with every passing month, it becomes a bigger deal? What if she finds out after 10 years of us being together?\n\nI don't want to stop journaling because I really value that when I'm 80 with fading memories I'll be able to read back on my entire life. But should I tell her that \"hey, btw, your life is being documented\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4 years ago I made a new years resolution to start documenting every single day of my life (a quick 3-4 sentences about what I did today, any fun shows/movies I watched, what lunch/dinner I ate. Regular stuff). The journal is online on my google docs - so there is a small chance my gf will see it if she uses my laptop for some reason and happens upon it.\n\n1 month after I started journaling, I met my now SO, who I live with now. We both have no secrets otherwise, and really there's nothing in that journal which would be shocking or surprising to her (I guess the first month before I met her I was kind of a slut dating around).\n\nIts just that initially when I was dating her I didn't mention \"oh btw, later tonight I'll be documenting where we went on a date today\" or that \"yup tonight I'll document that I had sex with you\".\n\nAnd now its been 4 years of me documenting what has essentially been every single day of our life together - our first dates, our first kiss, first time we slept together, us moving in, me proposing, all the places we've been to together, all our sex, and even the evenings where we just cooked something and watched a movie.\n\nIts sweet. But also creepy? I'm documenting my life, but by extension I'm documenting every single day of her life too since we're living together, from the dinners to movies and everything else. And this has kept me from even bringing it up.\n\nAnd with every passing month, it becomes a bigger deal? What if she finds out after 10 years of us being together?\n\nI don't want to stop journaling because I really value that when I'm 80 with fading memories I'll be able to read back on my entire life. But should I tell her that \"hey, btw, your life is being documented\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4 years ago I made a new years resolution to start documenting every single day of my life (a quick 3-4 sentences about what I did today, any fun shows/movies I watched, what lunch/dinner I ate. Regular stuff). The journal is online on my google docs - so there is a small chance my gf will see it if she uses my laptop for some reason and happens upon it.\n\n1 month after I started journaling, I met my now SO, who I live with now. We both have no secrets otherwise, and really there's nothing in that journal which would be shocking or surprising to her (I guess the first month before I met her I was kind of a slut dating around).\n\nIts just that initially when I was dating her I didn't mention \"oh btw, later tonight I'll be documenting where we went on a date today\" or that \"yup tonight I'll document that I had sex with you\".\n\nAnd now its been 4 years of me documenting what has essentially been every single day of our life together - our first dates, our first kiss, first time we slept together, us moving in, me proposing, all the places we've been to together, all our sex, and even the evenings where we just cooked something and watched a movie.\n\nIts sweet. But also creepy? I'm documenting my life, but by extension I'm documenting every single day of her life too since we're living together, from the dinners to movies and everything else. And this has kept me from even bringing it up.\n\nAnd with every passing month, it becomes a bigger deal? What if she finds out after 10 years of us being together?\n\nI don't want to stop journaling because I really value that when I'm 80 with fading memories I'll be able to read back on my entire life. But should I tell her that \"hey, btw, your life is being documented\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4 years ago I made a new years resolution to start documenting every single day of my life (a quick 3-4 sentences about what I did today, any fun shows/movies I watched, what lunch/dinner I ate. Regular stuff). The journal is online on my google docs - so there is a small chance my gf will see it if she uses my laptop for some reason and happens upon it.\n\n1 month after I started journaling, I met my now SO, who I live with now. We both have no secrets otherwise, and really there's nothing in that journal which would be shocking or surprising to her (I guess the first month before I met her I was kind of a slut dating around).\n\nIts just that initially when I was dating her I didn't mention \"oh btw, later tonight I'll be documenting where we went on a date today\" or that \"yup tonight I'll document that I had sex with you\".\n\nAnd now its been 4 years of me documenting what has essentially been every single day of our life together - our first dates, our first kiss, first time we slept together, us moving in, me proposing, all the places we've been to together, all our sex, and even the evenings where we just cooked something and watched a movie.\n\nIts sweet. But also creepy? I'm documenting my life, but by extension I'm documenting every single day of her life too since we're living together, from the dinners to movies and everything else. And this has kept me from even bringing it up.\n\nAnd with every passing month, it becomes a bigger deal? What if she finds out after 10 years of us being together?\n\nI don't want to stop journaling because I really value that when I'm 80 with fading memories I'll be able to read back on my entire life. But should I tell her that \"hey, btw, your life is being documented\"."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, serious since the day we met, in love after a week and living together a few months later. He is better than I could have dreamed him and the only real true love I have ever had. We have never fought, we have a very healthy sex life and so much love for each other. My problem is with myself:\n\nI have a chronic and likely worsening mental illness that is on the severe side, and although I do what I can to keep symptoms away - take my.meds, go to doc, exercise, eat well, etc - I still struggle with bouts of severe sadness that can last for weeks, crippling anxiety and loneliness when he leaves (that I fear comes off as dependency or neediness) and really bad self image. He knows about my illness but I do my best to not let him see the effects of it. \n\nHowever, we live.together so I often can't hide my low moods or uncontrollable tears or lethargy all the time. My fear is that my illness will wear on him and ruin our relationship over time. He hates.seeing me sad and knowing he can only do so much to help. I don't want to be that crazy emotional girlfriend, or be a burden to him in any way. I am so ashamed of my illness because I feel like it makes me a really undesirable person, I always hear.men talk about crazy or bipolar girls in a negative way. \n\nBasically I want advice from anyone, maybe who has mental illness or dated someone who did. \nHow can I keep my.relationship happy even if I am extremely unhappy at times?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, serious since the day we met, in love after a week and living together a few months later. He is better than I could have dreamed him and the only real true love I have ever had. We have never fought, we have a very healthy sex life and so much love for each other. My problem is with myself:\n\nI have a chronic and likely worsening mental illness that is on the severe side, and although I do what I can to keep symptoms away - take my.meds, go to doc, exercise, eat well, etc - I still struggle with bouts of severe sadness that can last for weeks, crippling anxiety and loneliness when he leaves (that I fear comes off as dependency or neediness) and really bad self image. He knows about my illness but I do my best to not let him see the effects of it. \n\nHowever, we live.together so I often can't hide my low moods or uncontrollable tears or lethargy all the time. My fear is that my illness will wear on him and ruin our relationship over time. He hates.seeing me sad and knowing he can only do so much to help. I don't want to be that crazy emotional girlfriend, or be a burden to him in any way. I am so ashamed of my illness because I feel like it makes me a really undesirable person, I always hear.men talk about crazy or bipolar girls in a negative way. \n\nBasically I want advice from anyone, maybe who has mental illness or dated someone who did. \nHow can I keep my.relationship happy even if I am extremely unhappy at times?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, serious since the day we met, in love after a week and living together a few months later. He is better than I could have dreamed him and the only real true love I have ever had. We have never fought, we have a very healthy sex life and so much love for each other. My problem is with myself:\n\nI have a chronic and likely worsening mental illness that is on the severe side, and although I do what I can to keep symptoms away - take my.meds, go to doc, exercise, eat well, etc - I still struggle with bouts of severe sadness that can last for weeks, crippling anxiety and loneliness when he leaves (that I fear comes off as dependency or neediness) and really bad self image. He knows about my illness but I do my best to not let him see the effects of it. \n\nHowever, we live.together so I often can't hide my low moods or uncontrollable tears or lethargy all the time. My fear is that my illness will wear on him and ruin our relationship over time. He hates.seeing me sad and knowing he can only do so much to help. I don't want to be that crazy emotional girlfriend, or be a burden to him in any way. I am so ashamed of my illness because I feel like it makes me a really undesirable person, I always hear.men talk about crazy or bipolar girls in a negative way. \n\nBasically I want advice from anyone, maybe who has mental illness or dated someone who did. \nHow can I keep my.relationship happy even if I am extremely unhappy at times?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, serious since the day we met, in love after a week and living together a few months later. He is better than I could have dreamed him and the only real true love I have ever had. We have never fought, we have a very healthy sex life and so much love for each other. My problem is with myself:\n\nI have a chronic and likely worsening mental illness that is on the severe side, and although I do what I can to keep symptoms away - take my.meds, go to doc, exercise, eat well, etc - I still struggle with bouts of severe sadness that can last for weeks, crippling anxiety and loneliness when he leaves (that I fear comes off as dependency or neediness) and really bad self image. He knows about my illness but I do my best to not let him see the effects of it. \n\nHowever, we live.together so I often can't hide my low moods or uncontrollable tears or lethargy all the time. My fear is that my illness will wear on him and ruin our relationship over time. He hates.seeing me sad and knowing he can only do so much to help. I don't want to be that crazy emotional girlfriend, or be a burden to him in any way. I am so ashamed of my illness because I feel like it makes me a really undesirable person, I always hear.men talk about crazy or bipolar girls in a negative way. \n\nBasically I want advice from anyone, maybe who has mental illness or dated someone who did. \nHow can I keep my.relationship happy even if I am extremely unhappy at times?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, serious since the day we met, in love after a week and living together a few months later. He is better than I could have dreamed him and the only real true love I have ever had. We have never fought, we have a very healthy sex life and so much love for each other. My problem is with myself:\n\nI have a chronic and likely worsening mental illness that is on the severe side, and although I do what I can to keep symptoms away - take my.meds, go to doc, exercise, eat well, etc - I still struggle with bouts of severe sadness that can last for weeks, crippling anxiety and loneliness when he leaves (that I fear comes off as dependency or neediness) and really bad self image. He knows about my illness but I do my best to not let him see the effects of it. \n\nHowever, we live.together so I often can't hide my low moods or uncontrollable tears or lethargy all the time. My fear is that my illness will wear on him and ruin our relationship over time. He hates.seeing me sad and knowing he can only do so much to help. I don't want to be that crazy emotional girlfriend, or be a burden to him in any way. I am so ashamed of my illness because I feel like it makes me a really undesirable person, I always hear.men talk about crazy or bipolar girls in a negative way. \n\nBasically I want advice from anyone, maybe who has mental illness or dated someone who did. \nHow can I keep my.relationship happy even if I am extremely unhappy at times?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, serious since the day we met, in love after a week and living together a few months later. He is better than I could have dreamed him and the only real true love I have ever had. We have never fought, we have a very healthy sex life and so much love for each other. My problem is with myself:\n\nI have a chronic and likely worsening mental illness that is on the severe side, and although I do what I can to keep symptoms away - take my.meds, go to doc, exercise, eat well, etc - I still struggle with bouts of severe sadness that can last for weeks, crippling anxiety and loneliness when he leaves (that I fear comes off as dependency or neediness) and really bad self image. He knows about my illness but I do my best to not let him see the effects of it. \n\nHowever, we live.together so I often can't hide my low moods or uncontrollable tears or lethargy all the time. My fear is that my illness will wear on him and ruin our relationship over time. He hates.seeing me sad and knowing he can only do so much to help. I don't want to be that crazy emotional girlfriend, or be a burden to him in any way. I am so ashamed of my illness because I feel like it makes me a really undesirable person, I always hear.men talk about crazy or bipolar girls in a negative way. \n\nBasically I want advice from anyone, maybe who has mental illness or dated someone who did. \nHow can I keep my.relationship happy even if I am extremely unhappy at times?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really shit with this stuff in general and not sure if this is normal 'teasing' or I'm being hypersensitive. I work with all men in the office in a very rowdy environment with constant ribbing/jokes which is fine, I can take and give it back, but I've been seeing this guy over the last month or so and the stuff he says legitimately stings: \n\nMentioned something about what I want to do with my career, he said that my job is hardly a 'career' and started laughing (I work in recruitment, he works in the field I recruit for). \n\nRandomly told me 'stop talking, your stupid accent is so annoying'. I have a pretty distinct accent and he mocks it all the time (which is funny sometimes but to randomly tell me this out of the blue kinda stung). \n\nWe were talking about types and he said 'any women who says yes' is his type, so the only reason I'm in his bed is because of his low standards (I mean I wasn't too bothered by this chat to begin with but then he went on to call me a stupid Scottish slut which wasn't too great). \n\nSaid I was the fattest girl he's been with while we were lying in bed together then said he was just joking and blew a raspberry on my cheek. \n\nLike, one of those things I wouldn't be too bothered by but it's all of them together and the constant little comments (you have hair like Hagrid, random text at 1am telling me to 'go eat dick', etc). \n\nWhy is he even doing this? I get a little bit of teasing and playful banter but he does take it quite far. I think he sees it upsets me sometimes because he'll say he's only joking but then he keeps doing it. \n\nIs it even dating if you've only been out together in public once? Or if you only see each other in each others flats to get together is this just casual?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really shit with this stuff in general and not sure if this is normal 'teasing' or I'm being hypersensitive. I work with all men in the office in a very rowdy environment with constant ribbing/jokes which is fine, I can take and give it back, but I've been seeing this guy over the last month or so and the stuff he says legitimately stings: \n\nMentioned something about what I want to do with my career, he said that my job is hardly a 'career' and started laughing (I work in recruitment, he works in the field I recruit for). \n\nRandomly told me 'stop talking, your stupid accent is so annoying'. I have a pretty distinct accent and he mocks it all the time (which is funny sometimes but to randomly tell me this out of the blue kinda stung). \n\nWe were talking about types and he said 'any women who says yes' is his type, so the only reason I'm in his bed is because of his low standards (I mean I wasn't too bothered by this chat to begin with but then he went on to call me a stupid Scottish slut which wasn't too great). \n\nSaid I was the fattest girl he's been with while we were lying in bed together then said he was just joking and blew a raspberry on my cheek. \n\nLike, one of those things I wouldn't be too bothered by but it's all of them together and the constant little comments (you have hair like Hagrid, random text at 1am telling me to 'go eat dick', etc). \n\nWhy is he even doing this? I get a little bit of teasing and playful banter but he does take it quite far. I think he sees it upsets me sometimes because he'll say he's only joking but then he keeps doing it. \n\nIs it even dating if you've only been out together in public once? Or if you only see each other in each others flats to get together is this just casual?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really shit with this stuff in general and not sure if this is normal 'teasing' or I'm being hypersensitive. I work with all men in the office in a very rowdy environment with constant ribbing/jokes which is fine, I can take and give it back, but I've been seeing this guy over the last month or so and the stuff he says legitimately stings: \n\nMentioned something about what I want to do with my career, he said that my job is hardly a 'career' and started laughing (I work in recruitment, he works in the field I recruit for). \n\nRandomly told me 'stop talking, your stupid accent is so annoying'. I have a pretty distinct accent and he mocks it all the time (which is funny sometimes but to randomly tell me this out of the blue kinda stung). \n\nWe were talking about types and he said 'any women who says yes' is his type, so the only reason I'm in his bed is because of his low standards (I mean I wasn't too bothered by this chat to begin with but then he went on to call me a stupid Scottish slut which wasn't too great). \n\nSaid I was the fattest girl he's been with while we were lying in bed together then said he was just joking and blew a raspberry on my cheek. \n\nLike, one of those things I wouldn't be too bothered by but it's all of them together and the constant little comments (you have hair like Hagrid, random text at 1am telling me to 'go eat dick', etc). \n\nWhy is he even doing this? I get a little bit of teasing and playful banter but he does take it quite far. I think he sees it upsets me sometimes because he'll say he's only joking but then he keeps doing it. \n\nIs it even dating if you've only been out together in public once? Or if you only see each other in each others flats to get together is this just casual?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really shit with this stuff in general and not sure if this is normal 'teasing' or I'm being hypersensitive. I work with all men in the office in a very rowdy environment with constant ribbing/jokes which is fine, I can take and give it back, but I've been seeing this guy over the last month or so and the stuff he says legitimately stings: \n\nMentioned something about what I want to do with my career, he said that my job is hardly a 'career' and started laughing (I work in recruitment, he works in the field I recruit for). \n\nRandomly told me 'stop talking, your stupid accent is so annoying'. I have a pretty distinct accent and he mocks it all the time (which is funny sometimes but to randomly tell me this out of the blue kinda stung). \n\nWe were talking about types and he said 'any women who says yes' is his type, so the only reason I'm in his bed is because of his low standards (I mean I wasn't too bothered by this chat to begin with but then he went on to call me a stupid Scottish slut which wasn't too great). \n\nSaid I was the fattest girl he's been with while we were lying in bed together then said he was just joking and blew a raspberry on my cheek. \n\nLike, one of those things I wouldn't be too bothered by but it's all of them together and the constant little comments (you have hair like Hagrid, random text at 1am telling me to 'go eat dick', etc). \n\nWhy is he even doing this? I get a little bit of teasing and playful banter but he does take it quite far. I think he sees it upsets me sometimes because he'll say he's only joking but then he keeps doing it. \n\nIs it even dating if you've only been out together in public once? Or if you only see each other in each others flats to get together is this just casual?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really shit with this stuff in general and not sure if this is normal 'teasing' or I'm being hypersensitive. I work with all men in the office in a very rowdy environment with constant ribbing/jokes which is fine, I can take and give it back, but I've been seeing this guy over the last month or so and the stuff he says legitimately stings: \n\nMentioned something about what I want to do with my career, he said that my job is hardly a 'career' and started laughing (I work in recruitment, he works in the field I recruit for). \n\nRandomly told me 'stop talking, your stupid accent is so annoying'. I have a pretty distinct accent and he mocks it all the time (which is funny sometimes but to randomly tell me this out of the blue kinda stung). \n\nWe were talking about types and he said 'any women who says yes' is his type, so the only reason I'm in his bed is because of his low standards (I mean I wasn't too bothered by this chat to begin with but then he went on to call me a stupid Scottish slut which wasn't too great). \n\nSaid I was the fattest girl he's been with while we were lying in bed together then said he was just joking and blew a raspberry on my cheek. \n\nLike, one of those things I wouldn't be too bothered by but it's all of them together and the constant little comments (you have hair like Hagrid, random text at 1am telling me to 'go eat dick', etc). \n\nWhy is he even doing this? I get a little bit of teasing and playful banter but he does take it quite far. I think he sees it upsets me sometimes because he'll say he's only joking but then he keeps doing it. \n\nIs it even dating if you've only been out together in public once? Or if you only see each other in each others flats to get together is this just casual?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really shit with this stuff in general and not sure if this is normal 'teasing' or I'm being hypersensitive. I work with all men in the office in a very rowdy environment with constant ribbing/jokes which is fine, I can take and give it back, but I've been seeing this guy over the last month or so and the stuff he says legitimately stings: \n\nMentioned something about what I want to do with my career, he said that my job is hardly a 'career' and started laughing (I work in recruitment, he works in the field I recruit for). \n\nRandomly told me 'stop talking, your stupid accent is so annoying'. I have a pretty distinct accent and he mocks it all the time (which is funny sometimes but to randomly tell me this out of the blue kinda stung). \n\nWe were talking about types and he said 'any women who says yes' is his type, so the only reason I'm in his bed is because of his low standards (I mean I wasn't too bothered by this chat to begin with but then he went on to call me a stupid Scottish slut which wasn't too great). \n\nSaid I was the fattest girl he's been with while we were lying in bed together then said he was just joking and blew a raspberry on my cheek. \n\nLike, one of those things I wouldn't be too bothered by but it's all of them together and the constant little comments (you have hair like Hagrid, random text at 1am telling me to 'go eat dick', etc). \n\nWhy is he even doing this? I get a little bit of teasing and playful banter but he does take it quite far. I think he sees it upsets me sometimes because he'll say he's only joking but then he keeps doing it. \n\nIs it even dating if you've only been out together in public once? Or if you only see each other in each others flats to get together is this just casual?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recieved notification from a collection agency last september that I owe money to the US treasury for a ROTC program that I didn't complete. \n\nIt was my understanding (what I was told) that I wouldn't be notified for payment of this money until after I graduate college. I graduate this coming May.\n\nNot only was I told by the collection agency that I owe the principle amount of money, but that I have incurred ~3000$ worth of interest. All for a debt that I had not been notified I was supposed to have paid.\n\nThe issue here is that upon leaving the ROTC program I was supposed to have been contacted by someone from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service to discuss my repayment of that amount. Since the debt has been sent to the collection agency, I am not allowed to contact DFAS with regards to my account.\n\nSince this has happened, I have sent (through proper bureaucratic channels) a dispute, claiming that: Having never recieved any notification of repayment commencement or repayment counseling, not only should the repayment period never have started, but that the interest/fee amount should not have been incurred. The dispute (normally a 1-2 month process) is still being processed (6 months later), and if the Department of Treasury determines that the total amount of my debt is still valid, I'm held responsible not only for the principle amount, but the interest accrued at the time of filing the dispute, AND THE INTEREST THAT HAS ACCRUED DURING THE \"DISPUTE REVIEW\" PERIOD."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recieved notification from a collection agency last september that I owe money to the US treasury for a ROTC program that I didn't complete. \n\nIt was my understanding (what I was told) that I wouldn't be notified for payment of this money until after I graduate college. I graduate this coming May.\n\nNot only was I told by the collection agency that I owe the principle amount of money, but that I have incurred ~3000$ worth of interest. All for a debt that I had not been notified I was supposed to have paid.\n\nThe issue here is that upon leaving the ROTC program I was supposed to have been contacted by someone from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service to discuss my repayment of that amount. Since the debt has been sent to the collection agency, I am not allowed to contact DFAS with regards to my account.\n\nSince this has happened, I have sent (through proper bureaucratic channels) a dispute, claiming that: Having never recieved any notification of repayment commencement or repayment counseling, not only should the repayment period never have started, but that the interest/fee amount should not have been incurred. The dispute (normally a 1-2 month process) is still being processed (6 months later), and if the Department of Treasury determines that the total amount of my debt is still valid, I'm held responsible not only for the principle amount, but the interest accrued at the time of filing the dispute, AND THE INTEREST THAT HAS ACCRUED DURING THE \"DISPUTE REVIEW\" PERIOD."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recieved notification from a collection agency last september that I owe money to the US treasury for a ROTC program that I didn't complete. \n\nIt was my understanding (what I was told) that I wouldn't be notified for payment of this money until after I graduate college. I graduate this coming May.\n\nNot only was I told by the collection agency that I owe the principle amount of money, but that I have incurred ~3000$ worth of interest. All for a debt that I had not been notified I was supposed to have paid.\n\nThe issue here is that upon leaving the ROTC program I was supposed to have been contacted by someone from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service to discuss my repayment of that amount. Since the debt has been sent to the collection agency, I am not allowed to contact DFAS with regards to my account.\n\nSince this has happened, I have sent (through proper bureaucratic channels) a dispute, claiming that: Having never recieved any notification of repayment commencement or repayment counseling, not only should the repayment period never have started, but that the interest/fee amount should not have been incurred. The dispute (normally a 1-2 month process) is still being processed (6 months later), and if the Department of Treasury determines that the total amount of my debt is still valid, I'm held responsible not only for the principle amount, but the interest accrued at the time of filing the dispute, AND THE INTEREST THAT HAS ACCRUED DURING THE \"DISPUTE REVIEW\" PERIOD."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recieved notification from a collection agency last september that I owe money to the US treasury for a ROTC program that I didn't complete. \n\nIt was my understanding (what I was told) that I wouldn't be notified for payment of this money until after I graduate college. I graduate this coming May.\n\nNot only was I told by the collection agency that I owe the principle amount of money, but that I have incurred ~3000$ worth of interest. All for a debt that I had not been notified I was supposed to have paid.\n\nThe issue here is that upon leaving the ROTC program I was supposed to have been contacted by someone from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service to discuss my repayment of that amount. Since the debt has been sent to the collection agency, I am not allowed to contact DFAS with regards to my account.\n\nSince this has happened, I have sent (through proper bureaucratic channels) a dispute, claiming that: Having never recieved any notification of repayment commencement or repayment counseling, not only should the repayment period never have started, but that the interest/fee amount should not have been incurred. The dispute (normally a 1-2 month process) is still being processed (6 months later), and if the Department of Treasury determines that the total amount of my debt is still valid, I'm held responsible not only for the principle amount, but the interest accrued at the time of filing the dispute, AND THE INTEREST THAT HAS ACCRUED DURING THE \"DISPUTE REVIEW\" PERIOD."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recieved notification from a collection agency last september that I owe money to the US treasury for a ROTC program that I didn't complete. \n\nIt was my understanding (what I was told) that I wouldn't be notified for payment of this money until after I graduate college. I graduate this coming May.\n\nNot only was I told by the collection agency that I owe the principle amount of money, but that I have incurred ~3000$ worth of interest. All for a debt that I had not been notified I was supposed to have paid.\n\nThe issue here is that upon leaving the ROTC program I was supposed to have been contacted by someone from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service to discuss my repayment of that amount. Since the debt has been sent to the collection agency, I am not allowed to contact DFAS with regards to my account.\n\nSince this has happened, I have sent (through proper bureaucratic channels) a dispute, claiming that: Having never recieved any notification of repayment commencement or repayment counseling, not only should the repayment period never have started, but that the interest/fee amount should not have been incurred. The dispute (normally a 1-2 month process) is still being processed (6 months later), and if the Department of Treasury determines that the total amount of my debt is still valid, I'm held responsible not only for the principle amount, but the interest accrued at the time of filing the dispute, AND THE INTEREST THAT HAS ACCRUED DURING THE \"DISPUTE REVIEW\" PERIOD."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recieved notification from a collection agency last september that I owe money to the US treasury for a ROTC program that I didn't complete. \n\nIt was my understanding (what I was told) that I wouldn't be notified for payment of this money until after I graduate college. I graduate this coming May.\n\nNot only was I told by the collection agency that I owe the principle amount of money, but that I have incurred ~3000$ worth of interest. All for a debt that I had not been notified I was supposed to have paid.\n\nThe issue here is that upon leaving the ROTC program I was supposed to have been contacted by someone from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service to discuss my repayment of that amount. Since the debt has been sent to the collection agency, I am not allowed to contact DFAS with regards to my account.\n\nSince this has happened, I have sent (through proper bureaucratic channels) a dispute, claiming that: Having never recieved any notification of repayment commencement or repayment counseling, not only should the repayment period never have started, but that the interest/fee amount should not have been incurred. The dispute (normally a 1-2 month process) is still being processed (6 months later), and if the Department of Treasury determines that the total amount of my debt is still valid, I'm held responsible not only for the principle amount, but the interest accrued at the time of filing the dispute, AND THE INTEREST THAT HAS ACCRUED DURING THE \"DISPUTE REVIEW\" PERIOD."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a few years back my in-laws decided that they were \"retired\" even though they had not saved much if anything at all and were not at the retirement age, i.e. they did not qualify for medicare and they also chose not to purchase medical insurance to cover any unexpected medical issues. Their only major asset was their home which was paid off. \n\nFast forward a couple of years and MIL discovers an issue that is going to require hospitals stays and treatment that will cost quite the sum of money. Of course they do not have the means not the insurance to cover any of this. We were not sure what their plan was but they said the hospital directed them to a program (they said through the govt but I really no none of the details) that would allow them have the treatment covered fully in exchange for their house becoming govt (again i dont know for sure if it was govt or the hospital) property when they passed on.\n\nHas anyone heard of such a program? If so, could kindly direct me to any information on it?\n\nIn-laws are now selling their house and downsizing a little (it is more of a lateral move, just no yard to maintain) and they are still in a very precarious financial position, essentially living off of social security. My major concern is the possibility that they sell their house, purchase the new place and everything is hunky dory until next year at tax time when they report this sale and potentially the tax man comes calling to collect their asset that they agreed to give up. I really have no idea if this is how it would work out and they haven't provided much info other than to say they checked with county and there were no liens on the house so in their mind they are good to go.\n\nWorst case scenario is that they do have to suddenly come up with a huge sum this time next year and of course they cannot even start to cover that which would be disastrous on so many levels, possibly impacting me.\n\nIf anyone has any info or has heard of a program like this i would really appreciate any and all information you wouldn't mind sharing.\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a few years back my in-laws decided that they were \"retired\" even though they had not saved much if anything at all and were not at the retirement age, i.e. they did not qualify for medicare and they also chose not to purchase medical insurance to cover any unexpected medical issues. Their only major asset was their home which was paid off. \n\nFast forward a couple of years and MIL discovers an issue that is going to require hospitals stays and treatment that will cost quite the sum of money. Of course they do not have the means not the insurance to cover any of this. We were not sure what their plan was but they said the hospital directed them to a program (they said through the govt but I really no none of the details) that would allow them have the treatment covered fully in exchange for their house becoming govt (again i dont know for sure if it was govt or the hospital) property when they passed on.\n\nHas anyone heard of such a program? If so, could kindly direct me to any information on it?\n\nIn-laws are now selling their house and downsizing a little (it is more of a lateral move, just no yard to maintain) and they are still in a very precarious financial position, essentially living off of social security. My major concern is the possibility that they sell their house, purchase the new place and everything is hunky dory until next year at tax time when they report this sale and potentially the tax man comes calling to collect their asset that they agreed to give up. I really have no idea if this is how it would work out and they haven't provided much info other than to say they checked with county and there were no liens on the house so in their mind they are good to go.\n\nWorst case scenario is that they do have to suddenly come up with a huge sum this time next year and of course they cannot even start to cover that which would be disastrous on so many levels, possibly impacting me.\n\nIf anyone has any info or has heard of a program like this i would really appreciate any and all information you wouldn't mind sharing.\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a few years back my in-laws decided that they were \"retired\" even though they had not saved much if anything at all and were not at the retirement age, i.e. they did not qualify for medicare and they also chose not to purchase medical insurance to cover any unexpected medical issues. Their only major asset was their home which was paid off. \n\nFast forward a couple of years and MIL discovers an issue that is going to require hospitals stays and treatment that will cost quite the sum of money. Of course they do not have the means not the insurance to cover any of this. We were not sure what their plan was but they said the hospital directed them to a program (they said through the govt but I really no none of the details) that would allow them have the treatment covered fully in exchange for their house becoming govt (again i dont know for sure if it was govt or the hospital) property when they passed on.\n\nHas anyone heard of such a program? If so, could kindly direct me to any information on it?\n\nIn-laws are now selling their house and downsizing a little (it is more of a lateral move, just no yard to maintain) and they are still in a very precarious financial position, essentially living off of social security. My major concern is the possibility that they sell their house, purchase the new place and everything is hunky dory until next year at tax time when they report this sale and potentially the tax man comes calling to collect their asset that they agreed to give up. I really have no idea if this is how it would work out and they haven't provided much info other than to say they checked with county and there were no liens on the house so in their mind they are good to go.\n\nWorst case scenario is that they do have to suddenly come up with a huge sum this time next year and of course they cannot even start to cover that which would be disastrous on so many levels, possibly impacting me.\n\nIf anyone has any info or has heard of a program like this i would really appreciate any and all information you wouldn't mind sharing.\n\nThanks"
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