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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Do you think it is a huge issue when the female is older? I've been seeing this girl for a bit over three weeks. She is really sweet and we seem really into each other. However I know she has concerns about the age gap. Very early she said oh you're too young for me. Since we have spent a lot of time together. we had the exclusivity chat after she brought it up because she had another date lined up which she cancelled because \"it would feel weird going on the date now without talking to you about it\". Yet the next day she told me she had doubts about committing to someone so young due to body clocks etc. I said that I wasn't going to waste her time, in two or three years kids wouldn't be completely ruled out, and that she could date someone much older for a while and they could not want kids, and we should just do what feels right. She agreed and we made plans for our next three dates. Yet the next day she asks if I have any doubts about exclusivity so early.\n\nDo you think this gap is too big?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Do you think it is a huge issue when the female is older? I've been seeing this girl for a bit over three weeks. She is really sweet and we seem really into each other. However I know she has concerns about the age gap. Very early she said oh you're too young for me. Since we have spent a lot of time together. we had the exclusivity chat after she brought it up because she had another date lined up which she cancelled because \"it would feel weird going on the date now without talking to you about it\". Yet the next day she told me she had doubts about committing to someone so young due to body clocks etc. I said that I wasn't going to waste her time, in two or three years kids wouldn't be completely ruled out, and that she could date someone much older for a while and they could not want kids, and we should just do what feels right. She agreed and we made plans for our next three dates. Yet the next day she asks if I have any doubts about exclusivity so early.\n\nDo you think this gap is too big?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I have been together for 6 months and honestly she's freaking amazing and we have been discussing plans, marriage, house, etc in the future. I had planned on proposing this fall but honestly looking at some things has me concerned I'm in this for the wrong reasons.\n\nI love her and her son so much and hate to think being without them. They both make me feel incredible and make me look forward to the future. However, lately I've found myself thinking of the negative stuff like having a kid costs money, I lose my ability to do anything spontaneous, what if I want to pick up and move across the country again? All these things make me think I should quit and that maybe I'm more in a state of mind where I just don't want to be alone and that's why I'm with this girl.\n\nA lot of times just randomly I find myself thinking I should just break up with her for the reasons listed above and just stay single. I dont know why, I can be doing something totally and completely separate from her that a normal person wouldnt make the connection between and just start thinking I should end it. I hate thinking like that because really my heart starts to hurt when I think that way and begin to imagine being without them. My brain though, it's a douchebag and it doesnt give me a clear path to happiness, whether that be staying single or being with them. Am I just being irresponsible and afraid that I no longer have to worry about just myself if I continue to be with them? Should I just continue the way Im going and hope the thoughts stop? Im so confused and it really sucks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I have been together for 6 months and honestly she's freaking amazing and we have been discussing plans, marriage, house, etc in the future. I had planned on proposing this fall but honestly looking at some things has me concerned I'm in this for the wrong reasons.\n\nI love her and her son so much and hate to think being without them. They both make me feel incredible and make me look forward to the future. However, lately I've found myself thinking of the negative stuff like having a kid costs money, I lose my ability to do anything spontaneous, what if I want to pick up and move across the country again? All these things make me think I should quit and that maybe I'm more in a state of mind where I just don't want to be alone and that's why I'm with this girl.\n\nA lot of times just randomly I find myself thinking I should just break up with her for the reasons listed above and just stay single. I dont know why, I can be doing something totally and completely separate from her that a normal person wouldnt make the connection between and just start thinking I should end it. I hate thinking like that because really my heart starts to hurt when I think that way and begin to imagine being without them. My brain though, it's a douchebag and it doesnt give me a clear path to happiness, whether that be staying single or being with them. Am I just being irresponsible and afraid that I no longer have to worry about just myself if I continue to be with them? Should I just continue the way Im going and hope the thoughts stop? Im so confused and it really sucks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I have been together for 6 months and honestly she's freaking amazing and we have been discussing plans, marriage, house, etc in the future. I had planned on proposing this fall but honestly looking at some things has me concerned I'm in this for the wrong reasons.\n\nI love her and her son so much and hate to think being without them. They both make me feel incredible and make me look forward to the future. However, lately I've found myself thinking of the negative stuff like having a kid costs money, I lose my ability to do anything spontaneous, what if I want to pick up and move across the country again? All these things make me think I should quit and that maybe I'm more in a state of mind where I just don't want to be alone and that's why I'm with this girl.\n\nA lot of times just randomly I find myself thinking I should just break up with her for the reasons listed above and just stay single. I dont know why, I can be doing something totally and completely separate from her that a normal person wouldnt make the connection between and just start thinking I should end it. I hate thinking like that because really my heart starts to hurt when I think that way and begin to imagine being without them. My brain though, it's a douchebag and it doesnt give me a clear path to happiness, whether that be staying single or being with them. Am I just being irresponsible and afraid that I no longer have to worry about just myself if I continue to be with them? Should I just continue the way Im going and hope the thoughts stop? Im so confused and it really sucks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I have been together for 6 months and honestly she's freaking amazing and we have been discussing plans, marriage, house, etc in the future. I had planned on proposing this fall but honestly looking at some things has me concerned I'm in this for the wrong reasons.\n\nI love her and her son so much and hate to think being without them. They both make me feel incredible and make me look forward to the future. However, lately I've found myself thinking of the negative stuff like having a kid costs money, I lose my ability to do anything spontaneous, what if I want to pick up and move across the country again? All these things make me think I should quit and that maybe I'm more in a state of mind where I just don't want to be alone and that's why I'm with this girl.\n\nA lot of times just randomly I find myself thinking I should just break up with her for the reasons listed above and just stay single. I dont know why, I can be doing something totally and completely separate from her that a normal person wouldnt make the connection between and just start thinking I should end it. I hate thinking like that because really my heart starts to hurt when I think that way and begin to imagine being without them. My brain though, it's a douchebag and it doesnt give me a clear path to happiness, whether that be staying single or being with them. Am I just being irresponsible and afraid that I no longer have to worry about just myself if I continue to be with them? Should I just continue the way Im going and hope the thoughts stop? Im so confused and it really sucks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I have been together for 6 months and honestly she's freaking amazing and we have been discussing plans, marriage, house, etc in the future. I had planned on proposing this fall but honestly looking at some things has me concerned I'm in this for the wrong reasons.\n\nI love her and her son so much and hate to think being without them. They both make me feel incredible and make me look forward to the future. However, lately I've found myself thinking of the negative stuff like having a kid costs money, I lose my ability to do anything spontaneous, what if I want to pick up and move across the country again? All these things make me think I should quit and that maybe I'm more in a state of mind where I just don't want to be alone and that's why I'm with this girl.\n\nA lot of times just randomly I find myself thinking I should just break up with her for the reasons listed above and just stay single. I dont know why, I can be doing something totally and completely separate from her that a normal person wouldnt make the connection between and just start thinking I should end it. I hate thinking like that because really my heart starts to hurt when I think that way and begin to imagine being without them. My brain though, it's a douchebag and it doesnt give me a clear path to happiness, whether that be staying single or being with them. Am I just being irresponsible and afraid that I no longer have to worry about just myself if I continue to be with them? Should I just continue the way Im going and hope the thoughts stop? Im so confused and it really sucks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex an I broke up in May and he started dating this girl mid June and is now engaged. I'm kind of in shock. Our relationship was great for the first 18 months and started getting rocky after that point. We had talked about getting married and starting a life together. I was living with him for almost 7 months and we broke up 3 or 4 times in that time span. It was always him breaking up with me and then begging me to take him back. I had enough of the ups and downs by May and moved out by the end of the month. We hooked up about 2 weeks after I moved out and then he started dating this woman. She's older by 6 years and has an 11 year old kid. He never wanted children and now he's going to marry a woman with a child? I also wanted out of the relationship because of his alcohol and drug abuse and his sports gambling. I tried to help him as best I could but he didn't think he had any problems. As far as I can tell, he still has those problems. He got himself purposely fired when I moved in, didn't work until May, quit that job after 2 or 3 months, got hired at a new job in October, fired after the first 3 days and as far as I can tell hasn't had a job since. \n\nI found out about the engagement on Facebook. We were trying to be friends which is why I added him back after deleting him the first time. I immediately unfriended him when I saw he was engaged because I didnt want to see all of the \"congrats\" and comments. I read a few and many seemed surprised. The picture showed him wearing a ring but not her so I'm not sure who proposed or the details, just that they're engaged. \n\nI've moved on with my life, the best I could after such a serious relationship, and have been taking care of myself since the breakup. I've been working on myself, been out on dates and have been working on my hobbies. I don't want him back, not in the least, but then why does it hurt and anger me to know he's gotten engaged? Is this the real deal?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex an I broke up in May and he started dating this girl mid June and is now engaged. I'm kind of in shock. Our relationship was great for the first 18 months and started getting rocky after that point. We had talked about getting married and starting a life together. I was living with him for almost 7 months and we broke up 3 or 4 times in that time span. It was always him breaking up with me and then begging me to take him back. I had enough of the ups and downs by May and moved out by the end of the month. We hooked up about 2 weeks after I moved out and then he started dating this woman. She's older by 6 years and has an 11 year old kid. He never wanted children and now he's going to marry a woman with a child? I also wanted out of the relationship because of his alcohol and drug abuse and his sports gambling. I tried to help him as best I could but he didn't think he had any problems. As far as I can tell, he still has those problems. He got himself purposely fired when I moved in, didn't work until May, quit that job after 2 or 3 months, got hired at a new job in October, fired after the first 3 days and as far as I can tell hasn't had a job since. \n\nI found out about the engagement on Facebook. We were trying to be friends which is why I added him back after deleting him the first time. I immediately unfriended him when I saw he was engaged because I didnt want to see all of the \"congrats\" and comments. I read a few and many seemed surprised. The picture showed him wearing a ring but not her so I'm not sure who proposed or the details, just that they're engaged. \n\nI've moved on with my life, the best I could after such a serious relationship, and have been taking care of myself since the breakup. I've been working on myself, been out on dates and have been working on my hobbies. I don't want him back, not in the least, but then why does it hurt and anger me to know he's gotten engaged? Is this the real deal?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex an I broke up in May and he started dating this girl mid June and is now engaged. I'm kind of in shock. Our relationship was great for the first 18 months and started getting rocky after that point. We had talked about getting married and starting a life together. I was living with him for almost 7 months and we broke up 3 or 4 times in that time span. It was always him breaking up with me and then begging me to take him back. I had enough of the ups and downs by May and moved out by the end of the month. We hooked up about 2 weeks after I moved out and then he started dating this woman. She's older by 6 years and has an 11 year old kid. He never wanted children and now he's going to marry a woman with a child? I also wanted out of the relationship because of his alcohol and drug abuse and his sports gambling. I tried to help him as best I could but he didn't think he had any problems. As far as I can tell, he still has those problems. He got himself purposely fired when I moved in, didn't work until May, quit that job after 2 or 3 months, got hired at a new job in October, fired after the first 3 days and as far as I can tell hasn't had a job since. \n\nI found out about the engagement on Facebook. We were trying to be friends which is why I added him back after deleting him the first time. I immediately unfriended him when I saw he was engaged because I didnt want to see all of the \"congrats\" and comments. I read a few and many seemed surprised. The picture showed him wearing a ring but not her so I'm not sure who proposed or the details, just that they're engaged. \n\nI've moved on with my life, the best I could after such a serious relationship, and have been taking care of myself since the breakup. I've been working on myself, been out on dates and have been working on my hobbies. I don't want him back, not in the least, but then why does it hurt and anger me to know he's gotten engaged? Is this the real deal?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex an I broke up in May and he started dating this girl mid June and is now engaged. I'm kind of in shock. Our relationship was great for the first 18 months and started getting rocky after that point. We had talked about getting married and starting a life together. I was living with him for almost 7 months and we broke up 3 or 4 times in that time span. It was always him breaking up with me and then begging me to take him back. I had enough of the ups and downs by May and moved out by the end of the month. We hooked up about 2 weeks after I moved out and then he started dating this woman. She's older by 6 years and has an 11 year old kid. He never wanted children and now he's going to marry a woman with a child? I also wanted out of the relationship because of his alcohol and drug abuse and his sports gambling. I tried to help him as best I could but he didn't think he had any problems. As far as I can tell, he still has those problems. He got himself purposely fired when I moved in, didn't work until May, quit that job after 2 or 3 months, got hired at a new job in October, fired after the first 3 days and as far as I can tell hasn't had a job since. \n\nI found out about the engagement on Facebook. We were trying to be friends which is why I added him back after deleting him the first time. I immediately unfriended him when I saw he was engaged because I didnt want to see all of the \"congrats\" and comments. I read a few and many seemed surprised. The picture showed him wearing a ring but not her so I'm not sure who proposed or the details, just that they're engaged. \n\nI've moved on with my life, the best I could after such a serious relationship, and have been taking care of myself since the breakup. I've been working on myself, been out on dates and have been working on my hobbies. I don't want him back, not in the least, but then why does it hurt and anger me to know he's gotten engaged? Is this the real deal?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex an I broke up in May and he started dating this girl mid June and is now engaged. I'm kind of in shock. Our relationship was great for the first 18 months and started getting rocky after that point. We had talked about getting married and starting a life together. I was living with him for almost 7 months and we broke up 3 or 4 times in that time span. It was always him breaking up with me and then begging me to take him back. I had enough of the ups and downs by May and moved out by the end of the month. We hooked up about 2 weeks after I moved out and then he started dating this woman. She's older by 6 years and has an 11 year old kid. He never wanted children and now he's going to marry a woman with a child? I also wanted out of the relationship because of his alcohol and drug abuse and his sports gambling. I tried to help him as best I could but he didn't think he had any problems. As far as I can tell, he still has those problems. He got himself purposely fired when I moved in, didn't work until May, quit that job after 2 or 3 months, got hired at a new job in October, fired after the first 3 days and as far as I can tell hasn't had a job since. \n\nI found out about the engagement on Facebook. We were trying to be friends which is why I added him back after deleting him the first time. I immediately unfriended him when I saw he was engaged because I didnt want to see all of the \"congrats\" and comments. I read a few and many seemed surprised. The picture showed him wearing a ring but not her so I'm not sure who proposed or the details, just that they're engaged. \n\nI've moved on with my life, the best I could after such a serious relationship, and have been taking care of myself since the breakup. I've been working on myself, been out on dates and have been working on my hobbies. I don't want him back, not in the least, but then why does it hurt and anger me to know he's gotten engaged? Is this the real deal?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex an I broke up in May and he started dating this girl mid June and is now engaged. I'm kind of in shock. Our relationship was great for the first 18 months and started getting rocky after that point. We had talked about getting married and starting a life together. I was living with him for almost 7 months and we broke up 3 or 4 times in that time span. It was always him breaking up with me and then begging me to take him back. I had enough of the ups and downs by May and moved out by the end of the month. We hooked up about 2 weeks after I moved out and then he started dating this woman. She's older by 6 years and has an 11 year old kid. He never wanted children and now he's going to marry a woman with a child? I also wanted out of the relationship because of his alcohol and drug abuse and his sports gambling. I tried to help him as best I could but he didn't think he had any problems. As far as I can tell, he still has those problems. He got himself purposely fired when I moved in, didn't work until May, quit that job after 2 or 3 months, got hired at a new job in October, fired after the first 3 days and as far as I can tell hasn't had a job since. \n\nI found out about the engagement on Facebook. We were trying to be friends which is why I added him back after deleting him the first time. I immediately unfriended him when I saw he was engaged because I didnt want to see all of the \"congrats\" and comments. I read a few and many seemed surprised. The picture showed him wearing a ring but not her so I'm not sure who proposed or the details, just that they're engaged. \n\nI've moved on with my life, the best I could after such a serious relationship, and have been taking care of myself since the breakup. I've been working on myself, been out on dates and have been working on my hobbies. I don't want him back, not in the least, but then why does it hurt and anger me to know he's gotten engaged? Is this the real deal?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I for the past year have always been flirtatious and good friends. We had the same college class and would study together at least one day a week. Lately she has been texting me when she is drunk telling me to come over and hang out, but I declined twice. I just always assumed we were just going to be friends, you know?\nTwo nights ago she text me and I declined again due to work, but my best friend text me also letting me know he was at her house with his girlfriend, so I decided I would come hang out for awhile. I get there and we are all getting drunk. We play beer pong and they made us bet if I hit the cup, I had to kiss her. Of course, I hit the cup, haha. By the end of the night I got too drunk to drive and end up sleeping in her bed with her. We messed around a little bit but nothing too serious. She told me she wanted me to text her tomorrow and I said I would. I feel like we have always kind of had feelings for each other if that makes sense.\nYesterday I text her and did not get a reply. No big deal or whatever, so after work I go to my friends house they asked me if we have talked today and I said she never replied, so my friends girlfriend texts her and she said she replied, so I text her again and got nothing. \n\nI am just wanting some \"adult\" advice on this situation. She is a very shy girl and has not been in a relationship in like a year. Her ex cheated on her and verbally abused her. I just want to know what we did and what she said was more than just being pretty intoxicated. Should I text her and be honest with her and tell her my feelings, or just forget about it and let it be? \nThanks in advance!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I for the past year have always been flirtatious and good friends. We had the same college class and would study together at least one day a week. Lately she has been texting me when she is drunk telling me to come over and hang out, but I declined twice. I just always assumed we were just going to be friends, you know?\nTwo nights ago she text me and I declined again due to work, but my best friend text me also letting me know he was at her house with his girlfriend, so I decided I would come hang out for awhile. I get there and we are all getting drunk. We play beer pong and they made us bet if I hit the cup, I had to kiss her. Of course, I hit the cup, haha. By the end of the night I got too drunk to drive and end up sleeping in her bed with her. We messed around a little bit but nothing too serious. She told me she wanted me to text her tomorrow and I said I would. I feel like we have always kind of had feelings for each other if that makes sense.\nYesterday I text her and did not get a reply. No big deal or whatever, so after work I go to my friends house they asked me if we have talked today and I said she never replied, so my friends girlfriend texts her and she said she replied, so I text her again and got nothing. \n\nI am just wanting some \"adult\" advice on this situation. She is a very shy girl and has not been in a relationship in like a year. Her ex cheated on her and verbally abused her. I just want to know what we did and what she said was more than just being pretty intoxicated. Should I text her and be honest with her and tell her my feelings, or just forget about it and let it be? \nThanks in advance!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I for the past year have always been flirtatious and good friends. We had the same college class and would study together at least one day a week. Lately she has been texting me when she is drunk telling me to come over and hang out, but I declined twice. I just always assumed we were just going to be friends, you know?\nTwo nights ago she text me and I declined again due to work, but my best friend text me also letting me know he was at her house with his girlfriend, so I decided I would come hang out for awhile. I get there and we are all getting drunk. We play beer pong and they made us bet if I hit the cup, I had to kiss her. Of course, I hit the cup, haha. By the end of the night I got too drunk to drive and end up sleeping in her bed with her. We messed around a little bit but nothing too serious. She told me she wanted me to text her tomorrow and I said I would. I feel like we have always kind of had feelings for each other if that makes sense.\nYesterday I text her and did not get a reply. No big deal or whatever, so after work I go to my friends house they asked me if we have talked today and I said she never replied, so my friends girlfriend texts her and she said she replied, so I text her again and got nothing. \n\nI am just wanting some \"adult\" advice on this situation. She is a very shy girl and has not been in a relationship in like a year. Her ex cheated on her and verbally abused her. I just want to know what we did and what she said was more than just being pretty intoxicated. Should I text her and be honest with her and tell her my feelings, or just forget about it and let it be? \nThanks in advance!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I for the past year have always been flirtatious and good friends. We had the same college class and would study together at least one day a week. Lately she has been texting me when she is drunk telling me to come over and hang out, but I declined twice. I just always assumed we were just going to be friends, you know?\nTwo nights ago she text me and I declined again due to work, but my best friend text me also letting me know he was at her house with his girlfriend, so I decided I would come hang out for awhile. I get there and we are all getting drunk. We play beer pong and they made us bet if I hit the cup, I had to kiss her. Of course, I hit the cup, haha. By the end of the night I got too drunk to drive and end up sleeping in her bed with her. We messed around a little bit but nothing too serious. She told me she wanted me to text her tomorrow and I said I would. I feel like we have always kind of had feelings for each other if that makes sense.\nYesterday I text her and did not get a reply. No big deal or whatever, so after work I go to my friends house they asked me if we have talked today and I said she never replied, so my friends girlfriend texts her and she said she replied, so I text her again and got nothing. \n\nI am just wanting some \"adult\" advice on this situation. She is a very shy girl and has not been in a relationship in like a year. Her ex cheated on her and verbally abused her. I just want to know what we did and what she said was more than just being pretty intoxicated. Should I text her and be honest with her and tell her my feelings, or just forget about it and let it be? \nThanks in advance!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I for the past year have always been flirtatious and good friends. We had the same college class and would study together at least one day a week. Lately she has been texting me when she is drunk telling me to come over and hang out, but I declined twice. I just always assumed we were just going to be friends, you know?\nTwo nights ago she text me and I declined again due to work, but my best friend text me also letting me know he was at her house with his girlfriend, so I decided I would come hang out for awhile. I get there and we are all getting drunk. We play beer pong and they made us bet if I hit the cup, I had to kiss her. Of course, I hit the cup, haha. By the end of the night I got too drunk to drive and end up sleeping in her bed with her. We messed around a little bit but nothing too serious. She told me she wanted me to text her tomorrow and I said I would. I feel like we have always kind of had feelings for each other if that makes sense.\nYesterday I text her and did not get a reply. No big deal or whatever, so after work I go to my friends house they asked me if we have talked today and I said she never replied, so my friends girlfriend texts her and she said she replied, so I text her again and got nothing. \n\nI am just wanting some \"adult\" advice on this situation. She is a very shy girl and has not been in a relationship in like a year. Her ex cheated on her and verbally abused her. I just want to know what we did and what she said was more than just being pretty intoxicated. Should I text her and be honest with her and tell her my feelings, or just forget about it and let it be? \nThanks in advance!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I for the past year have always been flirtatious and good friends. We had the same college class and would study together at least one day a week. Lately she has been texting me when she is drunk telling me to come over and hang out, but I declined twice. I just always assumed we were just going to be friends, you know?\nTwo nights ago she text me and I declined again due to work, but my best friend text me also letting me know he was at her house with his girlfriend, so I decided I would come hang out for awhile. I get there and we are all getting drunk. We play beer pong and they made us bet if I hit the cup, I had to kiss her. Of course, I hit the cup, haha. By the end of the night I got too drunk to drive and end up sleeping in her bed with her. We messed around a little bit but nothing too serious. She told me she wanted me to text her tomorrow and I said I would. I feel like we have always kind of had feelings for each other if that makes sense.\nYesterday I text her and did not get a reply. No big deal or whatever, so after work I go to my friends house they asked me if we have talked today and I said she never replied, so my friends girlfriend texts her and she said she replied, so I text her again and got nothing. \n\nI am just wanting some \"adult\" advice on this situation. She is a very shy girl and has not been in a relationship in like a year. Her ex cheated on her and verbally abused her. I just want to know what we did and what she said was more than just being pretty intoxicated. Should I text her and be honest with her and tell her my feelings, or just forget about it and let it be? \nThanks in advance!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The title pretty much says it all. \n\nMy boyfriend Jeff and I have been in a relationship for two years. We go to the same college, and met and became friends freshman year. We started dating not long after that. He is everything I want in an SO: he treats me well, is incredibly funny, and it just altogether the perfect complement to my personality.\n\nHowever, when Jeff isn't around, I completely am infatuated with other boys. That being said, I would NEVER cheat. I have never felt the urge to get physical with another guy, nor do I ever actively pursue making personal connections with them. I just wanted to put that out there.\n\nWhen I'm at parties, I just become enamored with whoever I'm talking to. It doesn't matter if I've known him three years or three minutes, I will develop a mini-crush on any guy I talk to. And it's not like I start to like them because I like when guys pay attention to me, either. It will start by me noticing how cute it is how they whistle off key or how they stand so confidently or how they make an effort to be nice to other people in the room.\n\nAnd I hate it. I don't know what to do. It makes me feel like a horrible girlfriend to Jeff, who deserves a girlfriend who doesn't completely forget about him as soon as he's out of sight. I would really appreciate any insight you guys have to offer. Thanks so much!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The title pretty much says it all. \n\nMy boyfriend Jeff and I have been in a relationship for two years. We go to the same college, and met and became friends freshman year. We started dating not long after that. He is everything I want in an SO: he treats me well, is incredibly funny, and it just altogether the perfect complement to my personality.\n\nHowever, when Jeff isn't around, I completely am infatuated with other boys. That being said, I would NEVER cheat. I have never felt the urge to get physical with another guy, nor do I ever actively pursue making personal connections with them. I just wanted to put that out there.\n\nWhen I'm at parties, I just become enamored with whoever I'm talking to. It doesn't matter if I've known him three years or three minutes, I will develop a mini-crush on any guy I talk to. And it's not like I start to like them because I like when guys pay attention to me, either. It will start by me noticing how cute it is how they whistle off key or how they stand so confidently or how they make an effort to be nice to other people in the room.\n\nAnd I hate it. I don't know what to do. It makes me feel like a horrible girlfriend to Jeff, who deserves a girlfriend who doesn't completely forget about him as soon as he's out of sight. I would really appreciate any insight you guys have to offer. Thanks so much!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The title pretty much says it all. \n\nMy boyfriend Jeff and I have been in a relationship for two years. We go to the same college, and met and became friends freshman year. We started dating not long after that. He is everything I want in an SO: he treats me well, is incredibly funny, and it just altogether the perfect complement to my personality.\n\nHowever, when Jeff isn't around, I completely am infatuated with other boys. That being said, I would NEVER cheat. I have never felt the urge to get physical with another guy, nor do I ever actively pursue making personal connections with them. I just wanted to put that out there.\n\nWhen I'm at parties, I just become enamored with whoever I'm talking to. It doesn't matter if I've known him three years or three minutes, I will develop a mini-crush on any guy I talk to. And it's not like I start to like them because I like when guys pay attention to me, either. It will start by me noticing how cute it is how they whistle off key or how they stand so confidently or how they make an effort to be nice to other people in the room.\n\nAnd I hate it. I don't know what to do. It makes me feel like a horrible girlfriend to Jeff, who deserves a girlfriend who doesn't completely forget about him as soon as he's out of sight. I would really appreciate any insight you guys have to offer. Thanks so much!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The title pretty much says it all. \n\nMy boyfriend Jeff and I have been in a relationship for two years. We go to the same college, and met and became friends freshman year. We started dating not long after that. He is everything I want in an SO: he treats me well, is incredibly funny, and it just altogether the perfect complement to my personality.\n\nHowever, when Jeff isn't around, I completely am infatuated with other boys. That being said, I would NEVER cheat. I have never felt the urge to get physical with another guy, nor do I ever actively pursue making personal connections with them. I just wanted to put that out there.\n\nWhen I'm at parties, I just become enamored with whoever I'm talking to. It doesn't matter if I've known him three years or three minutes, I will develop a mini-crush on any guy I talk to. And it's not like I start to like them because I like when guys pay attention to me, either. It will start by me noticing how cute it is how they whistle off key or how they stand so confidently or how they make an effort to be nice to other people in the room.\n\nAnd I hate it. I don't know what to do. It makes me feel like a horrible girlfriend to Jeff, who deserves a girlfriend who doesn't completely forget about him as soon as he's out of sight. I would really appreciate any insight you guys have to offer. Thanks so much!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The title pretty much says it all. \n\nMy boyfriend Jeff and I have been in a relationship for two years. We go to the same college, and met and became friends freshman year. We started dating not long after that. He is everything I want in an SO: he treats me well, is incredibly funny, and it just altogether the perfect complement to my personality.\n\nHowever, when Jeff isn't around, I completely am infatuated with other boys. That being said, I would NEVER cheat. I have never felt the urge to get physical with another guy, nor do I ever actively pursue making personal connections with them. I just wanted to put that out there.\n\nWhen I'm at parties, I just become enamored with whoever I'm talking to. It doesn't matter if I've known him three years or three minutes, I will develop a mini-crush on any guy I talk to. And it's not like I start to like them because I like when guys pay attention to me, either. It will start by me noticing how cute it is how they whistle off key or how they stand so confidently or how they make an effort to be nice to other people in the room.\n\nAnd I hate it. I don't know what to do. It makes me feel like a horrible girlfriend to Jeff, who deserves a girlfriend who doesn't completely forget about him as soon as he's out of sight. I would really appreciate any insight you guys have to offer. Thanks so much!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The title pretty much says it all. \n\nMy boyfriend Jeff and I have been in a relationship for two years. We go to the same college, and met and became friends freshman year. We started dating not long after that. He is everything I want in an SO: he treats me well, is incredibly funny, and it just altogether the perfect complement to my personality.\n\nHowever, when Jeff isn't around, I completely am infatuated with other boys. That being said, I would NEVER cheat. I have never felt the urge to get physical with another guy, nor do I ever actively pursue making personal connections with them. I just wanted to put that out there.\n\nWhen I'm at parties, I just become enamored with whoever I'm talking to. It doesn't matter if I've known him three years or three minutes, I will develop a mini-crush on any guy I talk to. And it's not like I start to like them because I like when guys pay attention to me, either. It will start by me noticing how cute it is how they whistle off key or how they stand so confidently or how they make an effort to be nice to other people in the room.\n\nAnd I hate it. I don't know what to do. It makes me feel like a horrible girlfriend to Jeff, who deserves a girlfriend who doesn't completely forget about him as soon as he's out of sight. I would really appreciate any insight you guys have to offer. Thanks so much!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let me give some back story obviously. I met this girl I'm high school and we have been together got almost 3 years now. The relationship started out rocky but gradually got better. I cheated on her but immediately broke up after and we got back together a month later. I mainly cheated because she was over weight and I wasn't satisfied. This was about A year and a half ago. Now we are both 19 and entering out adult lives.\n\nSince then things have been for the most part good. She lost a lot of weight and we are both going to college and working about 30 hours a week. The problem is I am not a guy with a lot of friends but I Hang\nOut with work buddies occasionally and I get very sick with her because she becomes insanely jealous whenever i \nNot with her. She acts like I am betraying her and she has complete hissy fits crying and screaming if I go\nOut for 2 hours. I understands cheating can be the cause of her jealousy but i am giving her no reason to think I am cheating. \n\nAnother reason I want to leave her is because I am \"inexperienced\"\nAs one might say. I've only had sex with one other girl and it was a one time thing as you might guess. I feel like I am In the prime of my life and I should be meeting more new people.\nMean while my girlfriend talks about marriage and how she never wants me to leave her. I am conflicted because she is pressuring me\nFor marriage (I would never cheat in marriage, Different story) but I am completely not ready for That. Maybe some time in the future but not now. I still want to experience other partners and explore sex. But I could possibly see myself with her for a long time"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let me give some back story obviously. I met this girl I'm high school and we have been together got almost 3 years now. The relationship started out rocky but gradually got better. I cheated on her but immediately broke up after and we got back together a month later. I mainly cheated because she was over weight and I wasn't satisfied. This was about A year and a half ago. Now we are both 19 and entering out adult lives.\n\nSince then things have been for the most part good. She lost a lot of weight and we are both going to college and working about 30 hours a week. The problem is I am not a guy with a lot of friends but I Hang\nOut with work buddies occasionally and I get very sick with her because she becomes insanely jealous whenever i \nNot with her. She acts like I am betraying her and she has complete hissy fits crying and screaming if I go\nOut for 2 hours. I understands cheating can be the cause of her jealousy but i am giving her no reason to think I am cheating. \n\nAnother reason I want to leave her is because I am \"inexperienced\"\nAs one might say. I've only had sex with one other girl and it was a one time thing as you might guess. I feel like I am In the prime of my life and I should be meeting more new people.\nMean while my girlfriend talks about marriage and how she never wants me to leave her. I am conflicted because she is pressuring me\nFor marriage (I would never cheat in marriage, Different story) but I am completely not ready for That. Maybe some time in the future but not now. I still want to experience other partners and explore sex. But I could possibly see myself with her for a long time"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let me give some back story obviously. I met this girl I'm high school and we have been together got almost 3 years now. The relationship started out rocky but gradually got better. I cheated on her but immediately broke up after and we got back together a month later. I mainly cheated because she was over weight and I wasn't satisfied. This was about A year and a half ago. Now we are both 19 and entering out adult lives.\n\nSince then things have been for the most part good. She lost a lot of weight and we are both going to college and working about 30 hours a week. The problem is I am not a guy with a lot of friends but I Hang\nOut with work buddies occasionally and I get very sick with her because she becomes insanely jealous whenever i \nNot with her. She acts like I am betraying her and she has complete hissy fits crying and screaming if I go\nOut for 2 hours. I understands cheating can be the cause of her jealousy but i am giving her no reason to think I am cheating. \n\nAnother reason I want to leave her is because I am \"inexperienced\"\nAs one might say. I've only had sex with one other girl and it was a one time thing as you might guess. I feel like I am In the prime of my life and I should be meeting more new people.\nMean while my girlfriend talks about marriage and how she never wants me to leave her. I am conflicted because she is pressuring me\nFor marriage (I would never cheat in marriage, Different story) but I am completely not ready for That. Maybe some time in the future but not now. I still want to experience other partners and explore sex. But I could possibly see myself with her for a long time"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let me give some back story obviously. I met this girl I'm high school and we have been together got almost 3 years now. The relationship started out rocky but gradually got better. I cheated on her but immediately broke up after and we got back together a month later. I mainly cheated because she was over weight and I wasn't satisfied. This was about A year and a half ago. Now we are both 19 and entering out adult lives.\n\nSince then things have been for the most part good. She lost a lot of weight and we are both going to college and working about 30 hours a week. The problem is I am not a guy with a lot of friends but I Hang\nOut with work buddies occasionally and I get very sick with her because she becomes insanely jealous whenever i \nNot with her. She acts like I am betraying her and she has complete hissy fits crying and screaming if I go\nOut for 2 hours. I understands cheating can be the cause of her jealousy but i am giving her no reason to think I am cheating. \n\nAnother reason I want to leave her is because I am \"inexperienced\"\nAs one might say. I've only had sex with one other girl and it was a one time thing as you might guess. I feel like I am In the prime of my life and I should be meeting more new people.\nMean while my girlfriend talks about marriage and how she never wants me to leave her. I am conflicted because she is pressuring me\nFor marriage (I would never cheat in marriage, Different story) but I am completely not ready for That. Maybe some time in the future but not now. I still want to experience other partners and explore sex. But I could possibly see myself with her for a long time"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let me give some back story obviously. I met this girl I'm high school and we have been together got almost 3 years now. The relationship started out rocky but gradually got better. I cheated on her but immediately broke up after and we got back together a month later. I mainly cheated because she was over weight and I wasn't satisfied. This was about A year and a half ago. Now we are both 19 and entering out adult lives.\n\nSince then things have been for the most part good. She lost a lot of weight and we are both going to college and working about 30 hours a week. The problem is I am not a guy with a lot of friends but I Hang\nOut with work buddies occasionally and I get very sick with her because she becomes insanely jealous whenever i \nNot with her. She acts like I am betraying her and she has complete hissy fits crying and screaming if I go\nOut for 2 hours. I understands cheating can be the cause of her jealousy but i am giving her no reason to think I am cheating. \n\nAnother reason I want to leave her is because I am \"inexperienced\"\nAs one might say. I've only had sex with one other girl and it was a one time thing as you might guess. I feel like I am In the prime of my life and I should be meeting more new people.\nMean while my girlfriend talks about marriage and how she never wants me to leave her. I am conflicted because she is pressuring me\nFor marriage (I would never cheat in marriage, Different story) but I am completely not ready for That. Maybe some time in the future but not now. I still want to experience other partners and explore sex. But I could possibly see myself with her for a long time"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let me give some back story obviously. I met this girl I'm high school and we have been together got almost 3 years now. The relationship started out rocky but gradually got better. I cheated on her but immediately broke up after and we got back together a month later. I mainly cheated because she was over weight and I wasn't satisfied. This was about A year and a half ago. Now we are both 19 and entering out adult lives.\n\nSince then things have been for the most part good. She lost a lot of weight and we are both going to college and working about 30 hours a week. The problem is I am not a guy with a lot of friends but I Hang\nOut with work buddies occasionally and I get very sick with her because she becomes insanely jealous whenever i \nNot with her. She acts like I am betraying her and she has complete hissy fits crying and screaming if I go\nOut for 2 hours. I understands cheating can be the cause of her jealousy but i am giving her no reason to think I am cheating. \n\nAnother reason I want to leave her is because I am \"inexperienced\"\nAs one might say. I've only had sex with one other girl and it was a one time thing as you might guess. I feel like I am In the prime of my life and I should be meeting more new people.\nMean while my girlfriend talks about marriage and how she never wants me to leave her. I am conflicted because she is pressuring me\nFor marriage (I would never cheat in marriage, Different story) but I am completely not ready for That. Maybe some time in the future but not now. I still want to experience other partners and explore sex. But I could possibly see myself with her for a long time"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know everyone at first is in denial of their partner 'falling out of love' with them. But, I am almost certain my partner is still in love with me and doesn't know what to do. I feel he is feeling scared that he hasn't seen what is out there yet, and wants to try being single for awhile. I don't know what to do, I am thinking of giving him space for a few months maybe a month and hoping for the best. The one thing I fear is I am leaving for bootcamp for 2 months and that he will start a relationship during that time. Please help with advice! Me and him ended on good terms but we ended up having sex while still seperate twice now! So I am getting mixed signals and really need to figure this out. I understand sometimes we need to try the single life to see how it is after being in a relationship as long as ours. (I did it last year.) We have only broken up once before and that was do to me breaking up with him, and now the roles are switched. Any advice would be welcomed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know everyone at first is in denial of their partner 'falling out of love' with them. But, I am almost certain my partner is still in love with me and doesn't know what to do. I feel he is feeling scared that he hasn't seen what is out there yet, and wants to try being single for awhile. I don't know what to do, I am thinking of giving him space for a few months maybe a month and hoping for the best. The one thing I fear is I am leaving for bootcamp for 2 months and that he will start a relationship during that time. Please help with advice! Me and him ended on good terms but we ended up having sex while still seperate twice now! So I am getting mixed signals and really need to figure this out. I understand sometimes we need to try the single life to see how it is after being in a relationship as long as ours. (I did it last year.) We have only broken up once before and that was do to me breaking up with him, and now the roles are switched. Any advice would be welcomed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know everyone at first is in denial of their partner 'falling out of love' with them. But, I am almost certain my partner is still in love with me and doesn't know what to do. I feel he is feeling scared that he hasn't seen what is out there yet, and wants to try being single for awhile. I don't know what to do, I am thinking of giving him space for a few months maybe a month and hoping for the best. The one thing I fear is I am leaving for bootcamp for 2 months and that he will start a relationship during that time. Please help with advice! Me and him ended on good terms but we ended up having sex while still seperate twice now! So I am getting mixed signals and really need to figure this out. I understand sometimes we need to try the single life to see how it is after being in a relationship as long as ours. (I did it last year.) We have only broken up once before and that was do to me breaking up with him, and now the roles are switched. Any advice would be welcomed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know everyone at first is in denial of their partner 'falling out of love' with them. But, I am almost certain my partner is still in love with me and doesn't know what to do. I feel he is feeling scared that he hasn't seen what is out there yet, and wants to try being single for awhile. I don't know what to do, I am thinking of giving him space for a few months maybe a month and hoping for the best. The one thing I fear is I am leaving for bootcamp for 2 months and that he will start a relationship during that time. Please help with advice! Me and him ended on good terms but we ended up having sex while still seperate twice now! So I am getting mixed signals and really need to figure this out. I understand sometimes we need to try the single life to see how it is after being in a relationship as long as ours. (I did it last year.) We have only broken up once before and that was do to me breaking up with him, and now the roles are switched. Any advice would be welcomed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know everyone at first is in denial of their partner 'falling out of love' with them. But, I am almost certain my partner is still in love with me and doesn't know what to do. I feel he is feeling scared that he hasn't seen what is out there yet, and wants to try being single for awhile. I don't know what to do, I am thinking of giving him space for a few months maybe a month and hoping for the best. The one thing I fear is I am leaving for bootcamp for 2 months and that he will start a relationship during that time. Please help with advice! Me and him ended on good terms but we ended up having sex while still seperate twice now! So I am getting mixed signals and really need to figure this out. I understand sometimes we need to try the single life to see how it is after being in a relationship as long as ours. (I did it last year.) We have only broken up once before and that was do to me breaking up with him, and now the roles are switched. Any advice would be welcomed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know everyone at first is in denial of their partner 'falling out of love' with them. But, I am almost certain my partner is still in love with me and doesn't know what to do. I feel he is feeling scared that he hasn't seen what is out there yet, and wants to try being single for awhile. I don't know what to do, I am thinking of giving him space for a few months maybe a month and hoping for the best. The one thing I fear is I am leaving for bootcamp for 2 months and that he will start a relationship during that time. Please help with advice! Me and him ended on good terms but we ended up having sex while still seperate twice now! So I am getting mixed signals and really need to figure this out. I understand sometimes we need to try the single life to see how it is after being in a relationship as long as ours. (I did it last year.) We have only broken up once before and that was do to me breaking up with him, and now the roles are switched. Any advice would be welcomed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not usually a materialistic person, but I just found out my fiance spent around 1k on my ring, which while it's not nothing, I guess I assumed he'd spend more. He also has a decent amount of money. He's also supposedly been saving for a long time, and we have been together for 5 years. I don't ask for a lot in our relationship, and he's always been kind of stingy. I'm the opposite kind of person. I tend to treat him to things a lot, like clothes or little surprises without needing an occasion. \n\nI'm not sure why it matters so much to me, I guess it's part of the waiting so long to get engaged, and then not really following through with some of the things I was hoping for in a ring, like the setting should be conflict free and from reclaimed materials. \n\nI think to add to it, he didn't really get me a Christmas present, which is more about the thought of it, rather than the cost."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not usually a materialistic person, but I just found out my fiance spent around 1k on my ring, which while it's not nothing, I guess I assumed he'd spend more. He also has a decent amount of money. He's also supposedly been saving for a long time, and we have been together for 5 years. I don't ask for a lot in our relationship, and he's always been kind of stingy. I'm the opposite kind of person. I tend to treat him to things a lot, like clothes or little surprises without needing an occasion. \n\nI'm not sure why it matters so much to me, I guess it's part of the waiting so long to get engaged, and then not really following through with some of the things I was hoping for in a ring, like the setting should be conflict free and from reclaimed materials. \n\nI think to add to it, he didn't really get me a Christmas present, which is more about the thought of it, rather than the cost."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not usually a materialistic person, but I just found out my fiance spent around 1k on my ring, which while it's not nothing, I guess I assumed he'd spend more. He also has a decent amount of money. He's also supposedly been saving for a long time, and we have been together for 5 years. I don't ask for a lot in our relationship, and he's always been kind of stingy. I'm the opposite kind of person. I tend to treat him to things a lot, like clothes or little surprises without needing an occasion. \n\nI'm not sure why it matters so much to me, I guess it's part of the waiting so long to get engaged, and then not really following through with some of the things I was hoping for in a ring, like the setting should be conflict free and from reclaimed materials. \n\nI think to add to it, he didn't really get me a Christmas present, which is more about the thought of it, rather than the cost."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not usually a materialistic person, but I just found out my fiance spent around 1k on my ring, which while it's not nothing, I guess I assumed he'd spend more. He also has a decent amount of money. He's also supposedly been saving for a long time, and we have been together for 5 years. I don't ask for a lot in our relationship, and he's always been kind of stingy. I'm the opposite kind of person. I tend to treat him to things a lot, like clothes or little surprises without needing an occasion. \n\nI'm not sure why it matters so much to me, I guess it's part of the waiting so long to get engaged, and then not really following through with some of the things I was hoping for in a ring, like the setting should be conflict free and from reclaimed materials. \n\nI think to add to it, he didn't really get me a Christmas present, which is more about the thought of it, rather than the cost."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not usually a materialistic person, but I just found out my fiance spent around 1k on my ring, which while it's not nothing, I guess I assumed he'd spend more. He also has a decent amount of money. He's also supposedly been saving for a long time, and we have been together for 5 years. I don't ask for a lot in our relationship, and he's always been kind of stingy. I'm the opposite kind of person. I tend to treat him to things a lot, like clothes or little surprises without needing an occasion. \n\nI'm not sure why it matters so much to me, I guess it's part of the waiting so long to get engaged, and then not really following through with some of the things I was hoping for in a ring, like the setting should be conflict free and from reclaimed materials. \n\nI think to add to it, he didn't really get me a Christmas present, which is more about the thought of it, rather than the cost."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have busy schedules and three kids ranging in age. I am in college full time and I work part-time. He works full time on 12-hour weekend night shifts. \n\nWe recently moved in together and had sex maybe once a week, twice at times. Now, I am lucky if I have sex once a month for any acceptable length of time. \n\n-\n-\n\nI finally brought it up to him just a few hours ago and told him that I understand we're busy, but we need time for sex. I value sex highly in my relationship because frankly, I love to have sex and I hate masturbating (probably because it's all I do now). \n\n-\nHe claims he just doesn't feel happy enough to want to have sex and that he'd rather sleep and it has nothing to do with me (true enough but what person won't take that personally?). He also was offended because he thinks that I believe sex is more important than our connection. And while it's not *MORE* important, it's incredibly.necessary. \n\n-\n\nLately, he's even been going to bed without so much as touching me and a few times just slept on the couch without saying a word to me.\n\nI cannot do a sexless relationship. It's just who I am. I love being touched and bonding physically. \n\n-\n-\n\nWell, fast forward a few hours when I'm preparing for sleep when he blurts out 3 or 4 names of his exes. He tells me that *all* of them apparently have had this *exact* conversation with him in this *exact* context before they *all* cheated on him. \n\n-\nSo now, here I am knowing that he's just going to distance himself from me even more and that every time I approach the subject, I'm a selfish asshole because he must be depressed, right? But he won't seek help and I don't think I can stay in a relationship where I'll never have sex just because he lived a carefree life up until now and has new responsibilities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have busy schedules and three kids ranging in age. I am in college full time and I work part-time. He works full time on 12-hour weekend night shifts. \n\nWe recently moved in together and had sex maybe once a week, twice at times. Now, I am lucky if I have sex once a month for any acceptable length of time. \n\n-\n-\n\nI finally brought it up to him just a few hours ago and told him that I understand we're busy, but we need time for sex. I value sex highly in my relationship because frankly, I love to have sex and I hate masturbating (probably because it's all I do now). \n\n-\nHe claims he just doesn't feel happy enough to want to have sex and that he'd rather sleep and it has nothing to do with me (true enough but what person won't take that personally?). He also was offended because he thinks that I believe sex is more important than our connection. And while it's not *MORE* important, it's incredibly.necessary. \n\n-\n\nLately, he's even been going to bed without so much as touching me and a few times just slept on the couch without saying a word to me.\n\nI cannot do a sexless relationship. It's just who I am. I love being touched and bonding physically. \n\n-\n-\n\nWell, fast forward a few hours when I'm preparing for sleep when he blurts out 3 or 4 names of his exes. He tells me that *all* of them apparently have had this *exact* conversation with him in this *exact* context before they *all* cheated on him. \n\n-\nSo now, here I am knowing that he's just going to distance himself from me even more and that every time I approach the subject, I'm a selfish asshole because he must be depressed, right? But he won't seek help and I don't think I can stay in a relationship where I'll never have sex just because he lived a carefree life up until now and has new responsibilities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have busy schedules and three kids ranging in age. I am in college full time and I work part-time. He works full time on 12-hour weekend night shifts. \n\nWe recently moved in together and had sex maybe once a week, twice at times. Now, I am lucky if I have sex once a month for any acceptable length of time. \n\n-\n-\n\nI finally brought it up to him just a few hours ago and told him that I understand we're busy, but we need time for sex. I value sex highly in my relationship because frankly, I love to have sex and I hate masturbating (probably because it's all I do now). \n\n-\nHe claims he just doesn't feel happy enough to want to have sex and that he'd rather sleep and it has nothing to do with me (true enough but what person won't take that personally?). He also was offended because he thinks that I believe sex is more important than our connection. And while it's not *MORE* important, it's incredibly.necessary. \n\n-\n\nLately, he's even been going to bed without so much as touching me and a few times just slept on the couch without saying a word to me.\n\nI cannot do a sexless relationship. It's just who I am. I love being touched and bonding physically. \n\n-\n-\n\nWell, fast forward a few hours when I'm preparing for sleep when he blurts out 3 or 4 names of his exes. He tells me that *all* of them apparently have had this *exact* conversation with him in this *exact* context before they *all* cheated on him. \n\n-\nSo now, here I am knowing that he's just going to distance himself from me even more and that every time I approach the subject, I'm a selfish asshole because he must be depressed, right? But he won't seek help and I don't think I can stay in a relationship where I'll never have sex just because he lived a carefree life up until now and has new responsibilities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have busy schedules and three kids ranging in age. I am in college full time and I work part-time. He works full time on 12-hour weekend night shifts. \n\nWe recently moved in together and had sex maybe once a week, twice at times. Now, I am lucky if I have sex once a month for any acceptable length of time. \n\n-\n-\n\nI finally brought it up to him just a few hours ago and told him that I understand we're busy, but we need time for sex. I value sex highly in my relationship because frankly, I love to have sex and I hate masturbating (probably because it's all I do now). \n\n-\nHe claims he just doesn't feel happy enough to want to have sex and that he'd rather sleep and it has nothing to do with me (true enough but what person won't take that personally?). He also was offended because he thinks that I believe sex is more important than our connection. And while it's not *MORE* important, it's incredibly.necessary. \n\n-\n\nLately, he's even been going to bed without so much as touching me and a few times just slept on the couch without saying a word to me.\n\nI cannot do a sexless relationship. It's just who I am. I love being touched and bonding physically. \n\n-\n-\n\nWell, fast forward a few hours when I'm preparing for sleep when he blurts out 3 or 4 names of his exes. He tells me that *all* of them apparently have had this *exact* conversation with him in this *exact* context before they *all* cheated on him. \n\n-\nSo now, here I am knowing that he's just going to distance himself from me even more and that every time I approach the subject, I'm a selfish asshole because he must be depressed, right? But he won't seek help and I don't think I can stay in a relationship where I'll never have sex just because he lived a carefree life up until now and has new responsibilities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have busy schedules and three kids ranging in age. I am in college full time and I work part-time. He works full time on 12-hour weekend night shifts. \n\nWe recently moved in together and had sex maybe once a week, twice at times. Now, I am lucky if I have sex once a month for any acceptable length of time. \n\n-\n-\n\nI finally brought it up to him just a few hours ago and told him that I understand we're busy, but we need time for sex. I value sex highly in my relationship because frankly, I love to have sex and I hate masturbating (probably because it's all I do now). \n\n-\nHe claims he just doesn't feel happy enough to want to have sex and that he'd rather sleep and it has nothing to do with me (true enough but what person won't take that personally?). He also was offended because he thinks that I believe sex is more important than our connection. And while it's not *MORE* important, it's incredibly.necessary. \n\n-\n\nLately, he's even been going to bed without so much as touching me and a few times just slept on the couch without saying a word to me.\n\nI cannot do a sexless relationship. It's just who I am. I love being touched and bonding physically. \n\n-\n-\n\nWell, fast forward a few hours when I'm preparing for sleep when he blurts out 3 or 4 names of his exes. He tells me that *all* of them apparently have had this *exact* conversation with him in this *exact* context before they *all* cheated on him. \n\n-\nSo now, here I am knowing that he's just going to distance himself from me even more and that every time I approach the subject, I'm a selfish asshole because he must be depressed, right? But he won't seek help and I don't think I can stay in a relationship where I'll never have sex just because he lived a carefree life up until now and has new responsibilities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have busy schedules and three kids ranging in age. I am in college full time and I work part-time. He works full time on 12-hour weekend night shifts. \n\nWe recently moved in together and had sex maybe once a week, twice at times. Now, I am lucky if I have sex once a month for any acceptable length of time. \n\n-\n-\n\nI finally brought it up to him just a few hours ago and told him that I understand we're busy, but we need time for sex. I value sex highly in my relationship because frankly, I love to have sex and I hate masturbating (probably because it's all I do now). \n\n-\nHe claims he just doesn't feel happy enough to want to have sex and that he'd rather sleep and it has nothing to do with me (true enough but what person won't take that personally?). He also was offended because he thinks that I believe sex is more important than our connection. And while it's not *MORE* important, it's incredibly.necessary. \n\n-\n\nLately, he's even been going to bed without so much as touching me and a few times just slept on the couch without saying a word to me.\n\nI cannot do a sexless relationship. It's just who I am. I love being touched and bonding physically. \n\n-\n-\n\nWell, fast forward a few hours when I'm preparing for sleep when he blurts out 3 or 4 names of his exes. He tells me that *all* of them apparently have had this *exact* conversation with him in this *exact* context before they *all* cheated on him. \n\n-\nSo now, here I am knowing that he's just going to distance himself from me even more and that every time I approach the subject, I'm a selfish asshole because he must be depressed, right? But he won't seek help and I don't think I can stay in a relationship where I'll never have sex just because he lived a carefree life up until now and has new responsibilities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm following Jack Daniels' Marathon Training Plan A. For those unfamiliar with his book, the training plan consists of two scheduled workouts, labeled quality sessions each week, and the rest of the runs are easy runs, until a target mileage for the week is met. It allows me, with a job which includes a 45-minute commute twice daily, and a 21 month old daughter to have a somewhat flexible schedule, even when I run six days each week.\n\nThat flexibility, however, also presents some slight danger. My current phase of the program called for a 66 km week last week - a goal which I met with relative ease. However: Today was a public holiday in Norway (Pentecost), so I decided to switch my schedule around a bit, and run my Q1 session today instead of Wednesday. \n\nThe first mile, across the doorstep was hard to do. The warm-up was hard to do. The first two minutes of my first 12-minute tempo-pace interval was hard. After that, I'd run on autopilot (4:49/km average for the two repeats). That was actually the easiest bit of the workout. After that, I was set to run one hour at easy pace. That easy one hour was probably the hardest thing I've done in a while, which includes hard interval sessions, and my first 25km run last week.\n\nWhile I would certainly have expected the heat to account for some, it didn't explain it all. \n\nAlso, I couldn't quite figure out why the hell that was so hard. I ran 5x5min tempo pace last week, and mostly felt just good. That is, until I started looking at my Garmin Connect summary data: Total distance during the last seven days: 84.66 km.\n\nThat's 18 km more than my weekly schedule calls for! It's more than 10 km more than any single week in my training plan (I'll peak at 74). No wonder easy running was so hard today.\n\nThe upside to this is that I still have no pains that indicates an injury is coming on - I feel fine, but my legs and glutes feel like they have been _properly_ worked. Depending on how I feel when I wake up tomorrow morning, I might actually take the day off instead of running."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm following Jack Daniels' Marathon Training Plan A. For those unfamiliar with his book, the training plan consists of two scheduled workouts, labeled quality sessions each week, and the rest of the runs are easy runs, until a target mileage for the week is met. It allows me, with a job which includes a 45-minute commute twice daily, and a 21 month old daughter to have a somewhat flexible schedule, even when I run six days each week.\n\nThat flexibility, however, also presents some slight danger. My current phase of the program called for a 66 km week last week - a goal which I met with relative ease. However: Today was a public holiday in Norway (Pentecost), so I decided to switch my schedule around a bit, and run my Q1 session today instead of Wednesday. \n\nThe first mile, across the doorstep was hard to do. The warm-up was hard to do. The first two minutes of my first 12-minute tempo-pace interval was hard. After that, I'd run on autopilot (4:49/km average for the two repeats). That was actually the easiest bit of the workout. After that, I was set to run one hour at easy pace. That easy one hour was probably the hardest thing I've done in a while, which includes hard interval sessions, and my first 25km run last week.\n\nWhile I would certainly have expected the heat to account for some, it didn't explain it all. \n\nAlso, I couldn't quite figure out why the hell that was so hard. I ran 5x5min tempo pace last week, and mostly felt just good. That is, until I started looking at my Garmin Connect summary data: Total distance during the last seven days: 84.66 km.\n\nThat's 18 km more than my weekly schedule calls for! It's more than 10 km more than any single week in my training plan (I'll peak at 74). No wonder easy running was so hard today.\n\nThe upside to this is that I still have no pains that indicates an injury is coming on - I feel fine, but my legs and glutes feel like they have been _properly_ worked. Depending on how I feel when I wake up tomorrow morning, I might actually take the day off instead of running."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm following Jack Daniels' Marathon Training Plan A. For those unfamiliar with his book, the training plan consists of two scheduled workouts, labeled quality sessions each week, and the rest of the runs are easy runs, until a target mileage for the week is met. It allows me, with a job which includes a 45-minute commute twice daily, and a 21 month old daughter to have a somewhat flexible schedule, even when I run six days each week.\n\nThat flexibility, however, also presents some slight danger. My current phase of the program called for a 66 km week last week - a goal which I met with relative ease. However: Today was a public holiday in Norway (Pentecost), so I decided to switch my schedule around a bit, and run my Q1 session today instead of Wednesday. \n\nThe first mile, across the doorstep was hard to do. The warm-up was hard to do. The first two minutes of my first 12-minute tempo-pace interval was hard. After that, I'd run on autopilot (4:49/km average for the two repeats). That was actually the easiest bit of the workout. After that, I was set to run one hour at easy pace. That easy one hour was probably the hardest thing I've done in a while, which includes hard interval sessions, and my first 25km run last week.\n\nWhile I would certainly have expected the heat to account for some, it didn't explain it all. \n\nAlso, I couldn't quite figure out why the hell that was so hard. I ran 5x5min tempo pace last week, and mostly felt just good. That is, until I started looking at my Garmin Connect summary data: Total distance during the last seven days: 84.66 km.\n\nThat's 18 km more than my weekly schedule calls for! It's more than 10 km more than any single week in my training plan (I'll peak at 74). No wonder easy running was so hard today.\n\nThe upside to this is that I still have no pains that indicates an injury is coming on - I feel fine, but my legs and glutes feel like they have been _properly_ worked. Depending on how I feel when I wake up tomorrow morning, I might actually take the day off instead of running."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm following Jack Daniels' Marathon Training Plan A. For those unfamiliar with his book, the training plan consists of two scheduled workouts, labeled quality sessions each week, and the rest of the runs are easy runs, until a target mileage for the week is met. It allows me, with a job which includes a 45-minute commute twice daily, and a 21 month old daughter to have a somewhat flexible schedule, even when I run six days each week.\n\nThat flexibility, however, also presents some slight danger. My current phase of the program called for a 66 km week last week - a goal which I met with relative ease. However: Today was a public holiday in Norway (Pentecost), so I decided to switch my schedule around a bit, and run my Q1 session today instead of Wednesday. \n\nThe first mile, across the doorstep was hard to do. The warm-up was hard to do. The first two minutes of my first 12-minute tempo-pace interval was hard. After that, I'd run on autopilot (4:49/km average for the two repeats). That was actually the easiest bit of the workout. After that, I was set to run one hour at easy pace. That easy one hour was probably the hardest thing I've done in a while, which includes hard interval sessions, and my first 25km run last week.\n\nWhile I would certainly have expected the heat to account for some, it didn't explain it all. \n\nAlso, I couldn't quite figure out why the hell that was so hard. I ran 5x5min tempo pace last week, and mostly felt just good. That is, until I started looking at my Garmin Connect summary data: Total distance during the last seven days: 84.66 km.\n\nThat's 18 km more than my weekly schedule calls for! It's more than 10 km more than any single week in my training plan (I'll peak at 74). No wonder easy running was so hard today.\n\nThe upside to this is that I still have no pains that indicates an injury is coming on - I feel fine, but my legs and glutes feel like they have been _properly_ worked. Depending on how I feel when I wake up tomorrow morning, I might actually take the day off instead of running."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm following Jack Daniels' Marathon Training Plan A. For those unfamiliar with his book, the training plan consists of two scheduled workouts, labeled quality sessions each week, and the rest of the runs are easy runs, until a target mileage for the week is met. It allows me, with a job which includes a 45-minute commute twice daily, and a 21 month old daughter to have a somewhat flexible schedule, even when I run six days each week.\n\nThat flexibility, however, also presents some slight danger. My current phase of the program called for a 66 km week last week - a goal which I met with relative ease. However: Today was a public holiday in Norway (Pentecost), so I decided to switch my schedule around a bit, and run my Q1 session today instead of Wednesday. \n\nThe first mile, across the doorstep was hard to do. The warm-up was hard to do. The first two minutes of my first 12-minute tempo-pace interval was hard. After that, I'd run on autopilot (4:49/km average for the two repeats). That was actually the easiest bit of the workout. After that, I was set to run one hour at easy pace. That easy one hour was probably the hardest thing I've done in a while, which includes hard interval sessions, and my first 25km run last week.\n\nWhile I would certainly have expected the heat to account for some, it didn't explain it all. \n\nAlso, I couldn't quite figure out why the hell that was so hard. I ran 5x5min tempo pace last week, and mostly felt just good. That is, until I started looking at my Garmin Connect summary data: Total distance during the last seven days: 84.66 km.\n\nThat's 18 km more than my weekly schedule calls for! It's more than 10 km more than any single week in my training plan (I'll peak at 74). No wonder easy running was so hard today.\n\nThe upside to this is that I still have no pains that indicates an injury is coming on - I feel fine, but my legs and glutes feel like they have been _properly_ worked. Depending on how I feel when I wake up tomorrow morning, I might actually take the day off instead of running."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm following Jack Daniels' Marathon Training Plan A. For those unfamiliar with his book, the training plan consists of two scheduled workouts, labeled quality sessions each week, and the rest of the runs are easy runs, until a target mileage for the week is met. It allows me, with a job which includes a 45-minute commute twice daily, and a 21 month old daughter to have a somewhat flexible schedule, even when I run six days each week.\n\nThat flexibility, however, also presents some slight danger. My current phase of the program called for a 66 km week last week - a goal which I met with relative ease. However: Today was a public holiday in Norway (Pentecost), so I decided to switch my schedule around a bit, and run my Q1 session today instead of Wednesday. \n\nThe first mile, across the doorstep was hard to do. The warm-up was hard to do. The first two minutes of my first 12-minute tempo-pace interval was hard. After that, I'd run on autopilot (4:49/km average for the two repeats). That was actually the easiest bit of the workout. After that, I was set to run one hour at easy pace. That easy one hour was probably the hardest thing I've done in a while, which includes hard interval sessions, and my first 25km run last week.\n\nWhile I would certainly have expected the heat to account for some, it didn't explain it all. \n\nAlso, I couldn't quite figure out why the hell that was so hard. I ran 5x5min tempo pace last week, and mostly felt just good. That is, until I started looking at my Garmin Connect summary data: Total distance during the last seven days: 84.66 km.\n\nThat's 18 km more than my weekly schedule calls for! It's more than 10 km more than any single week in my training plan (I'll peak at 74). No wonder easy running was so hard today.\n\nThe upside to this is that I still have no pains that indicates an injury is coming on - I feel fine, but my legs and glutes feel like they have been _properly_ worked. Depending on how I feel when I wake up tomorrow morning, I might actually take the day off instead of running."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, I broke up with my girlfriend about two months ago because we both needed some time apart. My girlfriend and I had been together for about a year, and we've had our fights and arguments but never really enough to break it off until a couple months ago. After the break up, a close lady friend of mine was telling me that, if I were to get back with my ex-girlfriend now or later, she wouldn't want to be friends with me anymore. She states that she can't see me getting hurt again, and if i just so happen to get back with my ex, she has to \"remove her self from the situation\". Now, do you guys think she is being rational or irrational? Would a true friend say/do something like that? I unconditionally love my ex and I do plan on getting back with her within the following month. Is it worth risking a friendship of my close friend? or should i just forget about her and do whatever makes me happy? any thoughts will be appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, I broke up with my girlfriend about two months ago because we both needed some time apart. My girlfriend and I had been together for about a year, and we've had our fights and arguments but never really enough to break it off until a couple months ago. After the break up, a close lady friend of mine was telling me that, if I were to get back with my ex-girlfriend now or later, she wouldn't want to be friends with me anymore. She states that she can't see me getting hurt again, and if i just so happen to get back with my ex, she has to \"remove her self from the situation\". Now, do you guys think she is being rational or irrational? Would a true friend say/do something like that? I unconditionally love my ex and I do plan on getting back with her within the following month. Is it worth risking a friendship of my close friend? or should i just forget about her and do whatever makes me happy? any thoughts will be appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, I broke up with my girlfriend about two months ago because we both needed some time apart. My girlfriend and I had been together for about a year, and we've had our fights and arguments but never really enough to break it off until a couple months ago. After the break up, a close lady friend of mine was telling me that, if I were to get back with my ex-girlfriend now or later, she wouldn't want to be friends with me anymore. She states that she can't see me getting hurt again, and if i just so happen to get back with my ex, she has to \"remove her self from the situation\". Now, do you guys think she is being rational or irrational? Would a true friend say/do something like that? I unconditionally love my ex and I do plan on getting back with her within the following month. Is it worth risking a friendship of my close friend? or should i just forget about her and do whatever makes me happy? any thoughts will be appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, I broke up with my girlfriend about two months ago because we both needed some time apart. My girlfriend and I had been together for about a year, and we've had our fights and arguments but never really enough to break it off until a couple months ago. After the break up, a close lady friend of mine was telling me that, if I were to get back with my ex-girlfriend now or later, she wouldn't want to be friends with me anymore. She states that she can't see me getting hurt again, and if i just so happen to get back with my ex, she has to \"remove her self from the situation\". Now, do you guys think she is being rational or irrational? Would a true friend say/do something like that? I unconditionally love my ex and I do plan on getting back with her within the following month. Is it worth risking a friendship of my close friend? or should i just forget about her and do whatever makes me happy? any thoughts will be appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, I broke up with my girlfriend about two months ago because we both needed some time apart. My girlfriend and I had been together for about a year, and we've had our fights and arguments but never really enough to break it off until a couple months ago. After the break up, a close lady friend of mine was telling me that, if I were to get back with my ex-girlfriend now or later, she wouldn't want to be friends with me anymore. She states that she can't see me getting hurt again, and if i just so happen to get back with my ex, she has to \"remove her self from the situation\". Now, do you guys think she is being rational or irrational? Would a true friend say/do something like that? I unconditionally love my ex and I do plan on getting back with her within the following month. Is it worth risking a friendship of my close friend? or should i just forget about her and do whatever makes me happy? any thoughts will be appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, I broke up with my girlfriend about two months ago because we both needed some time apart. My girlfriend and I had been together for about a year, and we've had our fights and arguments but never really enough to break it off until a couple months ago. After the break up, a close lady friend of mine was telling me that, if I were to get back with my ex-girlfriend now or later, she wouldn't want to be friends with me anymore. She states that she can't see me getting hurt again, and if i just so happen to get back with my ex, she has to \"remove her self from the situation\". Now, do you guys think she is being rational or irrational? Would a true friend say/do something like that? I unconditionally love my ex and I do plan on getting back with her within the following month. Is it worth risking a friendship of my close friend? or should i just forget about her and do whatever makes me happy? any thoughts will be appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dating my bf for close to 2 years.\nWhile traveling for 4 weeks I went to visit my home town for 3 days on the last stretch of my trip. I told my ex i would be in town for a few days if he wanted to catch up. He showed up when we went to the bar on our last night there with mutual friends from our hometown.\n\nWe ended up getting pretty drunk and getting into an emotional conversation, where he told me how much he still loves me and one day we will make it work. I will always love him too we had a pretty great relationship. But things wernt right for me at the time and he lives half way across the world. I told him even though I love him that we need to focus on our lives where we are and we cant focus on this or we will both become miserable. We should let life just happen, let fate take its course if we end up together down the road it was meant to happen. \n\nMy current boyfriend is amazing though and I love him very much. I feel confused about everything now that im back home. Im also feeling really guilty about my current boyfriend because he is such an amazing guy.\n\nIm not sure if I should talk to my current boyfriend about this or just wait if being back home settles all the feeling that came up one drunken night. How do you think my boyfriend would react to all this? And what would his expectations be after I tell him all of this? Is this something that I should just leave alone? I still talk to my ex a couple times a week even though he is so far away. Just so confused right now any advice would be helpful thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dating my bf for close to 2 years.\nWhile traveling for 4 weeks I went to visit my home town for 3 days on the last stretch of my trip. I told my ex i would be in town for a few days if he wanted to catch up. He showed up when we went to the bar on our last night there with mutual friends from our hometown.\n\nWe ended up getting pretty drunk and getting into an emotional conversation, where he told me how much he still loves me and one day we will make it work. I will always love him too we had a pretty great relationship. But things wernt right for me at the time and he lives half way across the world. I told him even though I love him that we need to focus on our lives where we are and we cant focus on this or we will both become miserable. We should let life just happen, let fate take its course if we end up together down the road it was meant to happen. \n\nMy current boyfriend is amazing though and I love him very much. I feel confused about everything now that im back home. Im also feeling really guilty about my current boyfriend because he is such an amazing guy.\n\nIm not sure if I should talk to my current boyfriend about this or just wait if being back home settles all the feeling that came up one drunken night. How do you think my boyfriend would react to all this? And what would his expectations be after I tell him all of this? Is this something that I should just leave alone? I still talk to my ex a couple times a week even though he is so far away. Just so confused right now any advice would be helpful thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dating my bf for close to 2 years.\nWhile traveling for 4 weeks I went to visit my home town for 3 days on the last stretch of my trip. I told my ex i would be in town for a few days if he wanted to catch up. He showed up when we went to the bar on our last night there with mutual friends from our hometown.\n\nWe ended up getting pretty drunk and getting into an emotional conversation, where he told me how much he still loves me and one day we will make it work. I will always love him too we had a pretty great relationship. But things wernt right for me at the time and he lives half way across the world. I told him even though I love him that we need to focus on our lives where we are and we cant focus on this or we will both become miserable. We should let life just happen, let fate take its course if we end up together down the road it was meant to happen. \n\nMy current boyfriend is amazing though and I love him very much. I feel confused about everything now that im back home. Im also feeling really guilty about my current boyfriend because he is such an amazing guy.\n\nIm not sure if I should talk to my current boyfriend about this or just wait if being back home settles all the feeling that came up one drunken night. How do you think my boyfriend would react to all this? And what would his expectations be after I tell him all of this? Is this something that I should just leave alone? I still talk to my ex a couple times a week even though he is so far away. Just so confused right now any advice would be helpful thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dating my bf for close to 2 years.\nWhile traveling for 4 weeks I went to visit my home town for 3 days on the last stretch of my trip. I told my ex i would be in town for a few days if he wanted to catch up. He showed up when we went to the bar on our last night there with mutual friends from our hometown.\n\nWe ended up getting pretty drunk and getting into an emotional conversation, where he told me how much he still loves me and one day we will make it work. I will always love him too we had a pretty great relationship. But things wernt right for me at the time and he lives half way across the world. I told him even though I love him that we need to focus on our lives where we are and we cant focus on this or we will both become miserable. We should let life just happen, let fate take its course if we end up together down the road it was meant to happen. \n\nMy current boyfriend is amazing though and I love him very much. I feel confused about everything now that im back home. Im also feeling really guilty about my current boyfriend because he is such an amazing guy.\n\nIm not sure if I should talk to my current boyfriend about this or just wait if being back home settles all the feeling that came up one drunken night. How do you think my boyfriend would react to all this? And what would his expectations be after I tell him all of this? Is this something that I should just leave alone? I still talk to my ex a couple times a week even though he is so far away. Just so confused right now any advice would be helpful thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dating my bf for close to 2 years.\nWhile traveling for 4 weeks I went to visit my home town for 3 days on the last stretch of my trip. I told my ex i would be in town for a few days if he wanted to catch up. He showed up when we went to the bar on our last night there with mutual friends from our hometown.\n\nWe ended up getting pretty drunk and getting into an emotional conversation, where he told me how much he still loves me and one day we will make it work. I will always love him too we had a pretty great relationship. But things wernt right for me at the time and he lives half way across the world. I told him even though I love him that we need to focus on our lives where we are and we cant focus on this or we will both become miserable. We should let life just happen, let fate take its course if we end up together down the road it was meant to happen. \n\nMy current boyfriend is amazing though and I love him very much. I feel confused about everything now that im back home. Im also feeling really guilty about my current boyfriend because he is such an amazing guy.\n\nIm not sure if I should talk to my current boyfriend about this or just wait if being back home settles all the feeling that came up one drunken night. How do you think my boyfriend would react to all this? And what would his expectations be after I tell him all of this? Is this something that I should just leave alone? I still talk to my ex a couple times a week even though he is so far away. Just so confused right now any advice would be helpful thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dating my bf for close to 2 years.\nWhile traveling for 4 weeks I went to visit my home town for 3 days on the last stretch of my trip. I told my ex i would be in town for a few days if he wanted to catch up. He showed up when we went to the bar on our last night there with mutual friends from our hometown.\n\nWe ended up getting pretty drunk and getting into an emotional conversation, where he told me how much he still loves me and one day we will make it work. I will always love him too we had a pretty great relationship. But things wernt right for me at the time and he lives half way across the world. I told him even though I love him that we need to focus on our lives where we are and we cant focus on this or we will both become miserable. We should let life just happen, let fate take its course if we end up together down the road it was meant to happen. \n\nMy current boyfriend is amazing though and I love him very much. I feel confused about everything now that im back home. Im also feeling really guilty about my current boyfriend because he is such an amazing guy.\n\nIm not sure if I should talk to my current boyfriend about this or just wait if being back home settles all the feeling that came up one drunken night. How do you think my boyfriend would react to all this? And what would his expectations be after I tell him all of this? Is this something that I should just leave alone? I still talk to my ex a couple times a week even though he is so far away. Just so confused right now any advice would be helpful thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For my major, my university requires 4th semester proficiency in a language. I am really interested in sign language, but I have high school background in Spanish. They have a Spanish placement test here and it is possible to place out of all 4 Spanish courses, but I haven't taken Spanish in 2.5 years, so I'm fairly rusty. I'm confident I can place out of two semesters worth, so that saves some credits/money.\n\nDespite all this, I am really interested in sign language, but I would have to take all 4 semesters of it (using up 12 credits I could put towards something else/graduating earlier) and the course sections are very hard to get into. Like, they only offer 35 spaces and one course section for each level every semester. \n\nI know Spanish is likely more useful than sign language, but I don't like Spanish at all. Any thoughts? Is there another totally awesome language I should consider instead of either?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For my major, my university requires 4th semester proficiency in a language. I am really interested in sign language, but I have high school background in Spanish. They have a Spanish placement test here and it is possible to place out of all 4 Spanish courses, but I haven't taken Spanish in 2.5 years, so I'm fairly rusty. I'm confident I can place out of two semesters worth, so that saves some credits/money.\n\nDespite all this, I am really interested in sign language, but I would have to take all 4 semesters of it (using up 12 credits I could put towards something else/graduating earlier) and the course sections are very hard to get into. Like, they only offer 35 spaces and one course section for each level every semester. \n\nI know Spanish is likely more useful than sign language, but I don't like Spanish at all. Any thoughts? Is there another totally awesome language I should consider instead of either?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For my major, my university requires 4th semester proficiency in a language. I am really interested in sign language, but I have high school background in Spanish. They have a Spanish placement test here and it is possible to place out of all 4 Spanish courses, but I haven't taken Spanish in 2.5 years, so I'm fairly rusty. I'm confident I can place out of two semesters worth, so that saves some credits/money.\n\nDespite all this, I am really interested in sign language, but I would have to take all 4 semesters of it (using up 12 credits I could put towards something else/graduating earlier) and the course sections are very hard to get into. Like, they only offer 35 spaces and one course section for each level every semester. \n\nI know Spanish is likely more useful than sign language, but I don't like Spanish at all. Any thoughts? Is there another totally awesome language I should consider instead of either?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For my major, my university requires 4th semester proficiency in a language. I am really interested in sign language, but I have high school background in Spanish. They have a Spanish placement test here and it is possible to place out of all 4 Spanish courses, but I haven't taken Spanish in 2.5 years, so I'm fairly rusty. I'm confident I can place out of two semesters worth, so that saves some credits/money.\n\nDespite all this, I am really interested in sign language, but I would have to take all 4 semesters of it (using up 12 credits I could put towards something else/graduating earlier) and the course sections are very hard to get into. Like, they only offer 35 spaces and one course section for each level every semester. \n\nI know Spanish is likely more useful than sign language, but I don't like Spanish at all. Any thoughts? Is there another totally awesome language I should consider instead of either?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For my major, my university requires 4th semester proficiency in a language. I am really interested in sign language, but I have high school background in Spanish. They have a Spanish placement test here and it is possible to place out of all 4 Spanish courses, but I haven't taken Spanish in 2.5 years, so I'm fairly rusty. I'm confident I can place out of two semesters worth, so that saves some credits/money.\n\nDespite all this, I am really interested in sign language, but I would have to take all 4 semesters of it (using up 12 credits I could put towards something else/graduating earlier) and the course sections are very hard to get into. Like, they only offer 35 spaces and one course section for each level every semester. \n\nI know Spanish is likely more useful than sign language, but I don't like Spanish at all. Any thoughts? Is there another totally awesome language I should consider instead of either?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll start: I moved about 6 hours away from home (Chicagoland) to go to school, and started a new serving job at a popular local restaurant chain. My second night on the floor alone, I get a $50 tip on a $20 bill from a seemingly nice guy who sat in my section a while longer than normal. I told some of the other servers, and all the pretty girls said, \"Watch out for him. Total creeper.\" He's back the next night, and I'm thinking, \"Whatever. I'll take another 50 bucks.\" This time, he's asking me to send anonymous desserts to tables of women so he can \"observe human behavior\". I do it once, and he leaves me another good tip when he goes. The next day, he's back. At this point, I'm weirded out. Come on, dude, seriously? He asks me twice to do the dessert thing, and then starts saying will I bring him something to read, will I essentially neglect my other tables to pay more special attention to him. At the point where I start saying no to the dessert sneaking (as it freaked out a couple tables wondering if they had stalker exes in the building), he gets visibly aggravated with me and says, \"Just do it.\" Oh, hell no. I got my manager, who asked him to kindly pay his bill and leave, (explaining exactly why his behavior was inappropriate and leaving him red-faced and still tipping 20%+) and I've not seen him since. Dan, if you're a redditor, I'm just waiting for the day you decide to sit in the parking lot after I get off work. But remember, I know your full name, where you work, and what car you drive. :) Have a great day!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll start: I moved about 6 hours away from home (Chicagoland) to go to school, and started a new serving job at a popular local restaurant chain. My second night on the floor alone, I get a $50 tip on a $20 bill from a seemingly nice guy who sat in my section a while longer than normal. I told some of the other servers, and all the pretty girls said, \"Watch out for him. Total creeper.\" He's back the next night, and I'm thinking, \"Whatever. I'll take another 50 bucks.\" This time, he's asking me to send anonymous desserts to tables of women so he can \"observe human behavior\". I do it once, and he leaves me another good tip when he goes. The next day, he's back. At this point, I'm weirded out. Come on, dude, seriously? He asks me twice to do the dessert thing, and then starts saying will I bring him something to read, will I essentially neglect my other tables to pay more special attention to him. At the point where I start saying no to the dessert sneaking (as it freaked out a couple tables wondering if they had stalker exes in the building), he gets visibly aggravated with me and says, \"Just do it.\" Oh, hell no. I got my manager, who asked him to kindly pay his bill and leave, (explaining exactly why his behavior was inappropriate and leaving him red-faced and still tipping 20%+) and I've not seen him since. Dan, if you're a redditor, I'm just waiting for the day you decide to sit in the parking lot after I get off work. But remember, I know your full name, where you work, and what car you drive. :) Have a great day!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll start: I moved about 6 hours away from home (Chicagoland) to go to school, and started a new serving job at a popular local restaurant chain. My second night on the floor alone, I get a $50 tip on a $20 bill from a seemingly nice guy who sat in my section a while longer than normal. I told some of the other servers, and all the pretty girls said, \"Watch out for him. Total creeper.\" He's back the next night, and I'm thinking, \"Whatever. I'll take another 50 bucks.\" This time, he's asking me to send anonymous desserts to tables of women so he can \"observe human behavior\". I do it once, and he leaves me another good tip when he goes. The next day, he's back. At this point, I'm weirded out. Come on, dude, seriously? He asks me twice to do the dessert thing, and then starts saying will I bring him something to read, will I essentially neglect my other tables to pay more special attention to him. At the point where I start saying no to the dessert sneaking (as it freaked out a couple tables wondering if they had stalker exes in the building), he gets visibly aggravated with me and says, \"Just do it.\" Oh, hell no. I got my manager, who asked him to kindly pay his bill and leave, (explaining exactly why his behavior was inappropriate and leaving him red-faced and still tipping 20%+) and I've not seen him since. Dan, if you're a redditor, I'm just waiting for the day you decide to sit in the parking lot after I get off work. But remember, I know your full name, where you work, and what car you drive. :) Have a great day!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll start: I moved about 6 hours away from home (Chicagoland) to go to school, and started a new serving job at a popular local restaurant chain. My second night on the floor alone, I get a $50 tip on a $20 bill from a seemingly nice guy who sat in my section a while longer than normal. I told some of the other servers, and all the pretty girls said, \"Watch out for him. Total creeper.\" He's back the next night, and I'm thinking, \"Whatever. I'll take another 50 bucks.\" This time, he's asking me to send anonymous desserts to tables of women so he can \"observe human behavior\". I do it once, and he leaves me another good tip when he goes. The next day, he's back. At this point, I'm weirded out. Come on, dude, seriously? He asks me twice to do the dessert thing, and then starts saying will I bring him something to read, will I essentially neglect my other tables to pay more special attention to him. At the point where I start saying no to the dessert sneaking (as it freaked out a couple tables wondering if they had stalker exes in the building), he gets visibly aggravated with me and says, \"Just do it.\" Oh, hell no. I got my manager, who asked him to kindly pay his bill and leave, (explaining exactly why his behavior was inappropriate and leaving him red-faced and still tipping 20%+) and I've not seen him since. Dan, if you're a redditor, I'm just waiting for the day you decide to sit in the parking lot after I get off work. But remember, I know your full name, where you work, and what car you drive. :) Have a great day!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll start: I moved about 6 hours away from home (Chicagoland) to go to school, and started a new serving job at a popular local restaurant chain. My second night on the floor alone, I get a $50 tip on a $20 bill from a seemingly nice guy who sat in my section a while longer than normal. I told some of the other servers, and all the pretty girls said, \"Watch out for him. Total creeper.\" He's back the next night, and I'm thinking, \"Whatever. I'll take another 50 bucks.\" This time, he's asking me to send anonymous desserts to tables of women so he can \"observe human behavior\". I do it once, and he leaves me another good tip when he goes. The next day, he's back. At this point, I'm weirded out. Come on, dude, seriously? He asks me twice to do the dessert thing, and then starts saying will I bring him something to read, will I essentially neglect my other tables to pay more special attention to him. At the point where I start saying no to the dessert sneaking (as it freaked out a couple tables wondering if they had stalker exes in the building), he gets visibly aggravated with me and says, \"Just do it.\" Oh, hell no. I got my manager, who asked him to kindly pay his bill and leave, (explaining exactly why his behavior was inappropriate and leaving him red-faced and still tipping 20%+) and I've not seen him since. Dan, if you're a redditor, I'm just waiting for the day you decide to sit in the parking lot after I get off work. But remember, I know your full name, where you work, and what car you drive. :) Have a great day!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll start: I moved about 6 hours away from home (Chicagoland) to go to school, and started a new serving job at a popular local restaurant chain. My second night on the floor alone, I get a $50 tip on a $20 bill from a seemingly nice guy who sat in my section a while longer than normal. I told some of the other servers, and all the pretty girls said, \"Watch out for him. Total creeper.\" He's back the next night, and I'm thinking, \"Whatever. I'll take another 50 bucks.\" This time, he's asking me to send anonymous desserts to tables of women so he can \"observe human behavior\". I do it once, and he leaves me another good tip when he goes. The next day, he's back. At this point, I'm weirded out. Come on, dude, seriously? He asks me twice to do the dessert thing, and then starts saying will I bring him something to read, will I essentially neglect my other tables to pay more special attention to him. At the point where I start saying no to the dessert sneaking (as it freaked out a couple tables wondering if they had stalker exes in the building), he gets visibly aggravated with me and says, \"Just do it.\" Oh, hell no. I got my manager, who asked him to kindly pay his bill and leave, (explaining exactly why his behavior was inappropriate and leaving him red-faced and still tipping 20%+) and I've not seen him since. Dan, if you're a redditor, I'm just waiting for the day you decide to sit in the parking lot after I get off work. But remember, I know your full name, where you work, and what car you drive. :) Have a great day!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, here's the story. My dad was out walking his Siberian Huskies, all on leashes and on the dirt road, when a neighbor's smaller dogs rush the huskies and attack the group, including my dad (who has bruises and small dog bite marks from it). During the scuffle, my dad manages to free the main attacking small dog from one of the husky's mouth, who then immediately charges back at the husky. On the second go, the husky inflicted enough fatal damage before my dad could get them separated again.\n\nNow, I get that the owners of the now-deceased little dog are obviously heart-broken, but they've now filed a complaint with animal control that the husky is dangerous. And apparently in Oregon law, the fact that the owner's neglect (letting their dogs run freely through the neighborhood without leashes) and the small dog being the aggressor is irrelevant. So now my parents are being fined hundreds of dollars and the dog will be labelled dangerous, which would cause the dog to be put down if anything happens again.\n\nWhat transpired is obviously a tragedy, but I fail to see why my parents and their dog are being punished for being attacked and the husky defending her pack. We are all at a loss as to what (if anything) they should have done differently to prevent this, and this seems like they're being punished without having done anything wrong. So owners of big dogs beware; your dog defending itself from others may cost you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, here's the story. My dad was out walking his Siberian Huskies, all on leashes and on the dirt road, when a neighbor's smaller dogs rush the huskies and attack the group, including my dad (who has bruises and small dog bite marks from it). During the scuffle, my dad manages to free the main attacking small dog from one of the husky's mouth, who then immediately charges back at the husky. On the second go, the husky inflicted enough fatal damage before my dad could get them separated again.\n\nNow, I get that the owners of the now-deceased little dog are obviously heart-broken, but they've now filed a complaint with animal control that the husky is dangerous. And apparently in Oregon law, the fact that the owner's neglect (letting their dogs run freely through the neighborhood without leashes) and the small dog being the aggressor is irrelevant. So now my parents are being fined hundreds of dollars and the dog will be labelled dangerous, which would cause the dog to be put down if anything happens again.\n\nWhat transpired is obviously a tragedy, but I fail to see why my parents and their dog are being punished for being attacked and the husky defending her pack. We are all at a loss as to what (if anything) they should have done differently to prevent this, and this seems like they're being punished without having done anything wrong. So owners of big dogs beware; your dog defending itself from others may cost you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, here's the story. My dad was out walking his Siberian Huskies, all on leashes and on the dirt road, when a neighbor's smaller dogs rush the huskies and attack the group, including my dad (who has bruises and small dog bite marks from it). During the scuffle, my dad manages to free the main attacking small dog from one of the husky's mouth, who then immediately charges back at the husky. On the second go, the husky inflicted enough fatal damage before my dad could get them separated again.\n\nNow, I get that the owners of the now-deceased little dog are obviously heart-broken, but they've now filed a complaint with animal control that the husky is dangerous. And apparently in Oregon law, the fact that the owner's neglect (letting their dogs run freely through the neighborhood without leashes) and the small dog being the aggressor is irrelevant. So now my parents are being fined hundreds of dollars and the dog will be labelled dangerous, which would cause the dog to be put down if anything happens again.\n\nWhat transpired is obviously a tragedy, but I fail to see why my parents and their dog are being punished for being attacked and the husky defending her pack. We are all at a loss as to what (if anything) they should have done differently to prevent this, and this seems like they're being punished without having done anything wrong. So owners of big dogs beware; your dog defending itself from others may cost you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, here's the story. My dad was out walking his Siberian Huskies, all on leashes and on the dirt road, when a neighbor's smaller dogs rush the huskies and attack the group, including my dad (who has bruises and small dog bite marks from it). During the scuffle, my dad manages to free the main attacking small dog from one of the husky's mouth, who then immediately charges back at the husky. On the second go, the husky inflicted enough fatal damage before my dad could get them separated again.\n\nNow, I get that the owners of the now-deceased little dog are obviously heart-broken, but they've now filed a complaint with animal control that the husky is dangerous. And apparently in Oregon law, the fact that the owner's neglect (letting their dogs run freely through the neighborhood without leashes) and the small dog being the aggressor is irrelevant. So now my parents are being fined hundreds of dollars and the dog will be labelled dangerous, which would cause the dog to be put down if anything happens again.\n\nWhat transpired is obviously a tragedy, but I fail to see why my parents and their dog are being punished for being attacked and the husky defending her pack. We are all at a loss as to what (if anything) they should have done differently to prevent this, and this seems like they're being punished without having done anything wrong. So owners of big dogs beware; your dog defending itself from others may cost you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, here's the story. My dad was out walking his Siberian Huskies, all on leashes and on the dirt road, when a neighbor's smaller dogs rush the huskies and attack the group, including my dad (who has bruises and small dog bite marks from it). During the scuffle, my dad manages to free the main attacking small dog from one of the husky's mouth, who then immediately charges back at the husky. On the second go, the husky inflicted enough fatal damage before my dad could get them separated again.\n\nNow, I get that the owners of the now-deceased little dog are obviously heart-broken, but they've now filed a complaint with animal control that the husky is dangerous. And apparently in Oregon law, the fact that the owner's neglect (letting their dogs run freely through the neighborhood without leashes) and the small dog being the aggressor is irrelevant. So now my parents are being fined hundreds of dollars and the dog will be labelled dangerous, which would cause the dog to be put down if anything happens again.\n\nWhat transpired is obviously a tragedy, but I fail to see why my parents and their dog are being punished for being attacked and the husky defending her pack. We are all at a loss as to what (if anything) they should have done differently to prevent this, and this seems like they're being punished without having done anything wrong. So owners of big dogs beware; your dog defending itself from others may cost you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, here's the story. My dad was out walking his Siberian Huskies, all on leashes and on the dirt road, when a neighbor's smaller dogs rush the huskies and attack the group, including my dad (who has bruises and small dog bite marks from it). During the scuffle, my dad manages to free the main attacking small dog from one of the husky's mouth, who then immediately charges back at the husky. On the second go, the husky inflicted enough fatal damage before my dad could get them separated again.\n\nNow, I get that the owners of the now-deceased little dog are obviously heart-broken, but they've now filed a complaint with animal control that the husky is dangerous. And apparently in Oregon law, the fact that the owner's neglect (letting their dogs run freely through the neighborhood without leashes) and the small dog being the aggressor is irrelevant. So now my parents are being fined hundreds of dollars and the dog will be labelled dangerous, which would cause the dog to be put down if anything happens again.\n\nWhat transpired is obviously a tragedy, but I fail to see why my parents and their dog are being punished for being attacked and the husky defending her pack. We are all at a loss as to what (if anything) they should have done differently to prevent this, and this seems like they're being punished without having done anything wrong. So owners of big dogs beware; your dog defending itself from others may cost you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sick of everyone laughing at me when I don't hear them properly. I'm sick of them calling me a 'baby' when they just look at me, I literally can't do anything without them calling me 'cute'. Does no one realise how embarrassing and humiliating it is for your 'friends' to call you 'cute' when you show any sign of emotion? If I show any sign of anger they call me sassy, I'm not friggin sassy I'm trying to get my point across that I hate being treated like a baby and that it's my natural face don't insult it by saying I look harmless. Yes I'm physically smaller and relatively skinny but so many people, even strangers, have said I look cute for the sole purpose of embarrassing me. \n\nThis is an update thread from [this]( thread. I've tried acting more dominant but it's just not working. No one can take me seriously and everyone's making fun of me because of it. I'm in my first year of university and am hoping to make new friends next year even though I'm living with some of these guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sick of everyone laughing at me when I don't hear them properly. I'm sick of them calling me a 'baby' when they just look at me, I literally can't do anything without them calling me 'cute'. Does no one realise how embarrassing and humiliating it is for your 'friends' to call you 'cute' when you show any sign of emotion? If I show any sign of anger they call me sassy, I'm not friggin sassy I'm trying to get my point across that I hate being treated like a baby and that it's my natural face don't insult it by saying I look harmless. Yes I'm physically smaller and relatively skinny but so many people, even strangers, have said I look cute for the sole purpose of embarrassing me. \n\nThis is an update thread from [this]( thread. I've tried acting more dominant but it's just not working. No one can take me seriously and everyone's making fun of me because of it. I'm in my first year of university and am hoping to make new friends next year even though I'm living with some of these guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sick of everyone laughing at me when I don't hear them properly. I'm sick of them calling me a 'baby' when they just look at me, I literally can't do anything without them calling me 'cute'. Does no one realise how embarrassing and humiliating it is for your 'friends' to call you 'cute' when you show any sign of emotion? If I show any sign of anger they call me sassy, I'm not friggin sassy I'm trying to get my point across that I hate being treated like a baby and that it's my natural face don't insult it by saying I look harmless. Yes I'm physically smaller and relatively skinny but so many people, even strangers, have said I look cute for the sole purpose of embarrassing me. \n\nThis is an update thread from [this]( thread. I've tried acting more dominant but it's just not working. No one can take me seriously and everyone's making fun of me because of it. I'm in my first year of university and am hoping to make new friends next year even though I'm living with some of these guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sick of everyone laughing at me when I don't hear them properly. I'm sick of them calling me a 'baby' when they just look at me, I literally can't do anything without them calling me 'cute'. Does no one realise how embarrassing and humiliating it is for your 'friends' to call you 'cute' when you show any sign of emotion? If I show any sign of anger they call me sassy, I'm not friggin sassy I'm trying to get my point across that I hate being treated like a baby and that it's my natural face don't insult it by saying I look harmless. Yes I'm physically smaller and relatively skinny but so many people, even strangers, have said I look cute for the sole purpose of embarrassing me. \n\nThis is an update thread from [this]( thread. I've tried acting more dominant but it's just not working. No one can take me seriously and everyone's making fun of me because of it. I'm in my first year of university and am hoping to make new friends next year even though I'm living with some of these guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sick of everyone laughing at me when I don't hear them properly. I'm sick of them calling me a 'baby' when they just look at me, I literally can't do anything without them calling me 'cute'. Does no one realise how embarrassing and humiliating it is for your 'friends' to call you 'cute' when you show any sign of emotion? If I show any sign of anger they call me sassy, I'm not friggin sassy I'm trying to get my point across that I hate being treated like a baby and that it's my natural face don't insult it by saying I look harmless. Yes I'm physically smaller and relatively skinny but so many people, even strangers, have said I look cute for the sole purpose of embarrassing me. \n\nThis is an update thread from [this]( thread. I've tried acting more dominant but it's just not working. No one can take me seriously and everyone's making fun of me because of it. I'm in my first year of university and am hoping to make new friends next year even though I'm living with some of these guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sick of everyone laughing at me when I don't hear them properly. I'm sick of them calling me a 'baby' when they just look at me, I literally can't do anything without them calling me 'cute'. Does no one realise how embarrassing and humiliating it is for your 'friends' to call you 'cute' when you show any sign of emotion? If I show any sign of anger they call me sassy, I'm not friggin sassy I'm trying to get my point across that I hate being treated like a baby and that it's my natural face don't insult it by saying I look harmless. Yes I'm physically smaller and relatively skinny but so many people, even strangers, have said I look cute for the sole purpose of embarrassing me. \n\nThis is an update thread from [this]( thread. I've tried acting more dominant but it's just not working. No one can take me seriously and everyone's making fun of me because of it. I'm in my first year of university and am hoping to make new friends next year even though I'm living with some of these guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Have been together for approximately 8 years, married almost four. At first we joked, \"when we have kids, they'll look like that, wear this\" etc. About 2-3 years ago he started saying we weren't having kids when I jested about it. I brushed it off as him joking still since it wasn't said in a serious tone. \n\nThe jokes did turn more serious. Asking me when I was going to take birth control/when he was going to get a vasectomy. I eventually convinced myself we weren't going to have children but I realized it wasn't fair when he knew how I felt before getting married.\n\nSo I brought up adoption/fostering and he was negative towards those options. He has also stated no more pets after ours get old and die. (Pretty sure my ovaries cried out when I was told that)\n\nWe've already had a tough time overcoming normal relationship problems due to being polar opposites personality wise and interests. I am so torn, stressed with working/classes. I tried to set my emotions aside but it's becoming too much to ignore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Have been together for approximately 8 years, married almost four. At first we joked, \"when we have kids, they'll look like that, wear this\" etc. About 2-3 years ago he started saying we weren't having kids when I jested about it. I brushed it off as him joking still since it wasn't said in a serious tone. \n\nThe jokes did turn more serious. Asking me when I was going to take birth control/when he was going to get a vasectomy. I eventually convinced myself we weren't going to have children but I realized it wasn't fair when he knew how I felt before getting married.\n\nSo I brought up adoption/fostering and he was negative towards those options. He has also stated no more pets after ours get old and die. (Pretty sure my ovaries cried out when I was told that)\n\nWe've already had a tough time overcoming normal relationship problems due to being polar opposites personality wise and interests. I am so torn, stressed with working/classes. I tried to set my emotions aside but it's becoming too much to ignore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Have been together for approximately 8 years, married almost four. At first we joked, \"when we have kids, they'll look like that, wear this\" etc. About 2-3 years ago he started saying we weren't having kids when I jested about it. I brushed it off as him joking still since it wasn't said in a serious tone. \n\nThe jokes did turn more serious. Asking me when I was going to take birth control/when he was going to get a vasectomy. I eventually convinced myself we weren't going to have children but I realized it wasn't fair when he knew how I felt before getting married.\n\nSo I brought up adoption/fostering and he was negative towards those options. He has also stated no more pets after ours get old and die. (Pretty sure my ovaries cried out when I was told that)\n\nWe've already had a tough time overcoming normal relationship problems due to being polar opposites personality wise and interests. I am so torn, stressed with working/classes. I tried to set my emotions aside but it's becoming too much to ignore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Have been together for approximately 8 years, married almost four. At first we joked, \"when we have kids, they'll look like that, wear this\" etc. About 2-3 years ago he started saying we weren't having kids when I jested about it. I brushed it off as him joking still since it wasn't said in a serious tone. \n\nThe jokes did turn more serious. Asking me when I was going to take birth control/when he was going to get a vasectomy. I eventually convinced myself we weren't going to have children but I realized it wasn't fair when he knew how I felt before getting married.\n\nSo I brought up adoption/fostering and he was negative towards those options. He has also stated no more pets after ours get old and die. (Pretty sure my ovaries cried out when I was told that)\n\nWe've already had a tough time overcoming normal relationship problems due to being polar opposites personality wise and interests. I am so torn, stressed with working/classes. I tried to set my emotions aside but it's becoming too much to ignore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Have been together for approximately 8 years, married almost four. At first we joked, \"when we have kids, they'll look like that, wear this\" etc. About 2-3 years ago he started saying we weren't having kids when I jested about it. I brushed it off as him joking still since it wasn't said in a serious tone. \n\nThe jokes did turn more serious. Asking me when I was going to take birth control/when he was going to get a vasectomy. I eventually convinced myself we weren't going to have children but I realized it wasn't fair when he knew how I felt before getting married.\n\nSo I brought up adoption/fostering and he was negative towards those options. He has also stated no more pets after ours get old and die. (Pretty sure my ovaries cried out when I was told that)\n\nWe've already had a tough time overcoming normal relationship problems due to being polar opposites personality wise and interests. I am so torn, stressed with working/classes. I tried to set my emotions aside but it's becoming too much to ignore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Have been together for approximately 8 years, married almost four. At first we joked, \"when we have kids, they'll look like that, wear this\" etc. About 2-3 years ago he started saying we weren't having kids when I jested about it. I brushed it off as him joking still since it wasn't said in a serious tone. \n\nThe jokes did turn more serious. Asking me when I was going to take birth control/when he was going to get a vasectomy. I eventually convinced myself we weren't going to have children but I realized it wasn't fair when he knew how I felt before getting married.\n\nSo I brought up adoption/fostering and he was negative towards those options. He has also stated no more pets after ours get old and die. (Pretty sure my ovaries cried out when I was told that)\n\nWe've already had a tough time overcoming normal relationship problems due to being polar opposites personality wise and interests. I am so torn, stressed with working/classes. I tried to set my emotions aside but it's becoming too much to ignore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of back ground :\n\nWe have been together for around 9 months, at the starting it was really patchy cause she had an horrible ex , who kept wanting her back. ( Poems , love letters, attention grabbing by using drug and having break downs, she even admitted him at hospital once etc ). She kept saying that he likes him as friend and would hang out with him ( cause they have mutual friends ) and go out drinking and the whole deal with him in the group. \nCouple of time she said that he would grab her and kiss, but she kept going back to him to deal with his issues. \n\nand then her ex's visa expired so he left the country and they talk in messages occasionally apparent. \n\nwe fought a lot about those issues mentioned above and recently concluded that she would cut off ties completely. \n\nAnd other issues we fought about recently was she was talking this guy online and sending her pic of each other and \"virtual kisses\" and \"hugs\" and \"miss you\" . In fairness she does talk to everyone the same way.\n\nAny way my issue that I am struggling with is, We are living in different cities now for couple of months. \nShe likes to drink and dancing , so she goes to clubs or drinking. I on the other hand have no interest what so ever and we have drank together once only and that too at home. Never seen her in that scenario except when she tells me about it.\n\nYesterday night she went to clubbing with her friends and she told me she got really really drunk and she got lost and then started to talking to 2 guys and they were talking pics with her etc , before her friend pulled her away."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of back ground :\n\nWe have been together for around 9 months, at the starting it was really patchy cause she had an horrible ex , who kept wanting her back. ( Poems , love letters, attention grabbing by using drug and having break downs, she even admitted him at hospital once etc ). She kept saying that he likes him as friend and would hang out with him ( cause they have mutual friends ) and go out drinking and the whole deal with him in the group. \nCouple of time she said that he would grab her and kiss, but she kept going back to him to deal with his issues. \n\nand then her ex's visa expired so he left the country and they talk in messages occasionally apparent. \n\nwe fought a lot about those issues mentioned above and recently concluded that she would cut off ties completely. \n\nAnd other issues we fought about recently was she was talking this guy online and sending her pic of each other and \"virtual kisses\" and \"hugs\" and \"miss you\" . In fairness she does talk to everyone the same way.\n\nAny way my issue that I am struggling with is, We are living in different cities now for couple of months. \nShe likes to drink and dancing , so she goes to clubs or drinking. I on the other hand have no interest what so ever and we have drank together once only and that too at home. Never seen her in that scenario except when she tells me about it.\n\nYesterday night she went to clubbing with her friends and she told me she got really really drunk and she got lost and then started to talking to 2 guys and they were talking pics with her etc , before her friend pulled her away."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of back ground :\n\nWe have been together for around 9 months, at the starting it was really patchy cause she had an horrible ex , who kept wanting her back. ( Poems , love letters, attention grabbing by using drug and having break downs, she even admitted him at hospital once etc ). She kept saying that he likes him as friend and would hang out with him ( cause they have mutual friends ) and go out drinking and the whole deal with him in the group. \nCouple of time she said that he would grab her and kiss, but she kept going back to him to deal with his issues. \n\nand then her ex's visa expired so he left the country and they talk in messages occasionally apparent. \n\nwe fought a lot about those issues mentioned above and recently concluded that she would cut off ties completely. \n\nAnd other issues we fought about recently was she was talking this guy online and sending her pic of each other and \"virtual kisses\" and \"hugs\" and \"miss you\" . In fairness she does talk to everyone the same way.\n\nAny way my issue that I am struggling with is, We are living in different cities now for couple of months. \nShe likes to drink and dancing , so she goes to clubs or drinking. I on the other hand have no interest what so ever and we have drank together once only and that too at home. Never seen her in that scenario except when she tells me about it.\n\nYesterday night she went to clubbing with her friends and she told me she got really really drunk and she got lost and then started to talking to 2 guys and they were talking pics with her etc , before her friend pulled her away."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of back ground :\n\nWe have been together for around 9 months, at the starting it was really patchy cause she had an horrible ex , who kept wanting her back. ( Poems , love letters, attention grabbing by using drug and having break downs, she even admitted him at hospital once etc ). She kept saying that he likes him as friend and would hang out with him ( cause they have mutual friends ) and go out drinking and the whole deal with him in the group. \nCouple of time she said that he would grab her and kiss, but she kept going back to him to deal with his issues. \n\nand then her ex's visa expired so he left the country and they talk in messages occasionally apparent. \n\nwe fought a lot about those issues mentioned above and recently concluded that she would cut off ties completely. \n\nAnd other issues we fought about recently was she was talking this guy online and sending her pic of each other and \"virtual kisses\" and \"hugs\" and \"miss you\" . In fairness she does talk to everyone the same way.\n\nAny way my issue that I am struggling with is, We are living in different cities now for couple of months. \nShe likes to drink and dancing , so she goes to clubs or drinking. I on the other hand have no interest what so ever and we have drank together once only and that too at home. Never seen her in that scenario except when she tells me about it.\n\nYesterday night she went to clubbing with her friends and she told me she got really really drunk and she got lost and then started to talking to 2 guys and they were talking pics with her etc , before her friend pulled her away."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of back ground :\n\nWe have been together for around 9 months, at the starting it was really patchy cause she had an horrible ex , who kept wanting her back. ( Poems , love letters, attention grabbing by using drug and having break downs, she even admitted him at hospital once etc ). She kept saying that he likes him as friend and would hang out with him ( cause they have mutual friends ) and go out drinking and the whole deal with him in the group. \nCouple of time she said that he would grab her and kiss, but she kept going back to him to deal with his issues. \n\nand then her ex's visa expired so he left the country and they talk in messages occasionally apparent. \n\nwe fought a lot about those issues mentioned above and recently concluded that she would cut off ties completely. \n\nAnd other issues we fought about recently was she was talking this guy online and sending her pic of each other and \"virtual kisses\" and \"hugs\" and \"miss you\" . In fairness she does talk to everyone the same way.\n\nAny way my issue that I am struggling with is, We are living in different cities now for couple of months. \nShe likes to drink and dancing , so she goes to clubs or drinking. I on the other hand have no interest what so ever and we have drank together once only and that too at home. Never seen her in that scenario except when she tells me about it.\n\nYesterday night she went to clubbing with her friends and she told me she got really really drunk and she got lost and then started to talking to 2 guys and they were talking pics with her etc , before her friend pulled her away."
} |
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