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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I were long distance (a plane ride) for about a year before she moved in with me. It was tough, but doable, and I think it helped our relationship in the end when she finally did move in. We've now been living together for a little over 3 years, and things have been pretty fantastic this whole time. We're engaged, and have essentially acted like a married couple for well over 2 years now (completely shared finances, responsibilities, etc). \n\nWe knew that after our wedding in August we were planning to move so that we could both start new jobs, and also to get out of Seattle which has a cost of living that is higher than we're comfortable with. However, the timeline of my new job has come up much sooner than we hoped and now I either have to move in early May, or I may not get a chance to have the same job opportunity again for a long time. This job is something we both want because it will set us up for a great future in a great area. \n\nWe have been thinking about me moving in May, living apart until August (the earliest she could move because of her job) and then having her move out with me right after the wedding (which is already partially paid for and in Seattle). \n\nJust looking for advice from anyone who has done long distance - > living together - > long distance again? Was it easier the second time around? Harder? Any advice for making it easier. I'm glad that it would at least only be 4-5 months at the most, but even that seems like a long time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I were long distance (a plane ride) for about a year before she moved in with me. It was tough, but doable, and I think it helped our relationship in the end when she finally did move in. We've now been living together for a little over 3 years, and things have been pretty fantastic this whole time. We're engaged, and have essentially acted like a married couple for well over 2 years now (completely shared finances, responsibilities, etc). \n\nWe knew that after our wedding in August we were planning to move so that we could both start new jobs, and also to get out of Seattle which has a cost of living that is higher than we're comfortable with. However, the timeline of my new job has come up much sooner than we hoped and now I either have to move in early May, or I may not get a chance to have the same job opportunity again for a long time. This job is something we both want because it will set us up for a great future in a great area. \n\nWe have been thinking about me moving in May, living apart until August (the earliest she could move because of her job) and then having her move out with me right after the wedding (which is already partially paid for and in Seattle). \n\nJust looking for advice from anyone who has done long distance - > living together - > long distance again? Was it easier the second time around? Harder? Any advice for making it easier. I'm glad that it would at least only be 4-5 months at the most, but even that seems like a long time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I were long distance (a plane ride) for about a year before she moved in with me. It was tough, but doable, and I think it helped our relationship in the end when she finally did move in. We've now been living together for a little over 3 years, and things have been pretty fantastic this whole time. We're engaged, and have essentially acted like a married couple for well over 2 years now (completely shared finances, responsibilities, etc). \n\nWe knew that after our wedding in August we were planning to move so that we could both start new jobs, and also to get out of Seattle which has a cost of living that is higher than we're comfortable with. However, the timeline of my new job has come up much sooner than we hoped and now I either have to move in early May, or I may not get a chance to have the same job opportunity again for a long time. This job is something we both want because it will set us up for a great future in a great area. \n\nWe have been thinking about me moving in May, living apart until August (the earliest she could move because of her job) and then having her move out with me right after the wedding (which is already partially paid for and in Seattle). \n\nJust looking for advice from anyone who has done long distance - > living together - > long distance again? Was it easier the second time around? Harder? Any advice for making it easier. I'm glad that it would at least only be 4-5 months at the most, but even that seems like a long time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I were long distance (a plane ride) for about a year before she moved in with me. It was tough, but doable, and I think it helped our relationship in the end when she finally did move in. We've now been living together for a little over 3 years, and things have been pretty fantastic this whole time. We're engaged, and have essentially acted like a married couple for well over 2 years now (completely shared finances, responsibilities, etc). \n\nWe knew that after our wedding in August we were planning to move so that we could both start new jobs, and also to get out of Seattle which has a cost of living that is higher than we're comfortable with. However, the timeline of my new job has come up much sooner than we hoped and now I either have to move in early May, or I may not get a chance to have the same job opportunity again for a long time. This job is something we both want because it will set us up for a great future in a great area. \n\nWe have been thinking about me moving in May, living apart until August (the earliest she could move because of her job) and then having her move out with me right after the wedding (which is already partially paid for and in Seattle). \n\nJust looking for advice from anyone who has done long distance - > living together - > long distance again? Was it easier the second time around? Harder? Any advice for making it easier. I'm glad that it would at least only be 4-5 months at the most, but even that seems like a long time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I were long distance (a plane ride) for about a year before she moved in with me. It was tough, but doable, and I think it helped our relationship in the end when she finally did move in. We've now been living together for a little over 3 years, and things have been pretty fantastic this whole time. We're engaged, and have essentially acted like a married couple for well over 2 years now (completely shared finances, responsibilities, etc). \n\nWe knew that after our wedding in August we were planning to move so that we could both start new jobs, and also to get out of Seattle which has a cost of living that is higher than we're comfortable with. However, the timeline of my new job has come up much sooner than we hoped and now I either have to move in early May, or I may not get a chance to have the same job opportunity again for a long time. This job is something we both want because it will set us up for a great future in a great area. \n\nWe have been thinking about me moving in May, living apart until August (the earliest she could move because of her job) and then having her move out with me right after the wedding (which is already partially paid for and in Seattle). \n\nJust looking for advice from anyone who has done long distance - > living together - > long distance again? Was it easier the second time around? Harder? Any advice for making it easier. I'm glad that it would at least only be 4-5 months at the most, but even that seems like a long time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I were long distance (a plane ride) for about a year before she moved in with me. It was tough, but doable, and I think it helped our relationship in the end when she finally did move in. We've now been living together for a little over 3 years, and things have been pretty fantastic this whole time. We're engaged, and have essentially acted like a married couple for well over 2 years now (completely shared finances, responsibilities, etc). \n\nWe knew that after our wedding in August we were planning to move so that we could both start new jobs, and also to get out of Seattle which has a cost of living that is higher than we're comfortable with. However, the timeline of my new job has come up much sooner than we hoped and now I either have to move in early May, or I may not get a chance to have the same job opportunity again for a long time. This job is something we both want because it will set us up for a great future in a great area. \n\nWe have been thinking about me moving in May, living apart until August (the earliest she could move because of her job) and then having her move out with me right after the wedding (which is already partially paid for and in Seattle). \n\nJust looking for advice from anyone who has done long distance - > living together - > long distance again? Was it easier the second time around? Harder? Any advice for making it easier. I'm glad that it would at least only be 4-5 months at the most, but even that seems like a long time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved to the Dallas area about 5-6 months ago to be closer to family. I moved in with my sister and her husband and 2 kids which started off as great, since her kids are amazing and the only niece and nephew I have. My sister's husband travels a lot and my intent was to help her with the kids while he was gone. \n\nI had job that allowed me to work from home so staying with my sister was only meant to be very temporary while I did some apartment hunting and explored various parts of DFW (Dallas-Ft. Worth) to decided on where I'd like to live.\n\nThe day before I was to sign a lease I was terminated from my job and have since not been able to find another job that even compares to the money I was making. I've had a few interviews but no call-backs.\n\nSince being unemployed I've been traveling to my aunt's house every few weeks to help her out with things around the house and going to the store, etc. She had neck surgery a few weeks ago and still isn't very mobile. My aunt lives about an hour away on the other side of Dallas.\n\nSo currently my situation could be summed up as me being somewhat of a nomad, with no job and no friends. My sister doesn't ever go out and she's 5 years older so having her introduce me to anyone isn't a possibility. Likewise with my brother-in-law, he travels a lot and doesn't have many friends who aren't already married with kids of their own. \n\nI'm so bored and kind of lonely. I don't really have anyone to talk to outside my family, and it gets depressing when every Friday/Saturday night I'm already in my PJ's by 8:00 pm. Making friends is a lot harder than dating so I was thinking of setting up a Tinder or Bumble profile, but when I think about it, I'm not really much of a \"catch,\" at this point, so maybe I shouldn't even waste the effort. \n\nSo should I give it a try and set up a profile and see what happens, or wait till I find a job/apartment and THEN give it a try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved to the Dallas area about 5-6 months ago to be closer to family. I moved in with my sister and her husband and 2 kids which started off as great, since her kids are amazing and the only niece and nephew I have. My sister's husband travels a lot and my intent was to help her with the kids while he was gone. \n\nI had job that allowed me to work from home so staying with my sister was only meant to be very temporary while I did some apartment hunting and explored various parts of DFW (Dallas-Ft. Worth) to decided on where I'd like to live.\n\nThe day before I was to sign a lease I was terminated from my job and have since not been able to find another job that even compares to the money I was making. I've had a few interviews but no call-backs.\n\nSince being unemployed I've been traveling to my aunt's house every few weeks to help her out with things around the house and going to the store, etc. She had neck surgery a few weeks ago and still isn't very mobile. My aunt lives about an hour away on the other side of Dallas.\n\nSo currently my situation could be summed up as me being somewhat of a nomad, with no job and no friends. My sister doesn't ever go out and she's 5 years older so having her introduce me to anyone isn't a possibility. Likewise with my brother-in-law, he travels a lot and doesn't have many friends who aren't already married with kids of their own. \n\nI'm so bored and kind of lonely. I don't really have anyone to talk to outside my family, and it gets depressing when every Friday/Saturday night I'm already in my PJ's by 8:00 pm. Making friends is a lot harder than dating so I was thinking of setting up a Tinder or Bumble profile, but when I think about it, I'm not really much of a \"catch,\" at this point, so maybe I shouldn't even waste the effort. \n\nSo should I give it a try and set up a profile and see what happens, or wait till I find a job/apartment and THEN give it a try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved to the Dallas area about 5-6 months ago to be closer to family. I moved in with my sister and her husband and 2 kids which started off as great, since her kids are amazing and the only niece and nephew I have. My sister's husband travels a lot and my intent was to help her with the kids while he was gone. \n\nI had job that allowed me to work from home so staying with my sister was only meant to be very temporary while I did some apartment hunting and explored various parts of DFW (Dallas-Ft. Worth) to decided on where I'd like to live.\n\nThe day before I was to sign a lease I was terminated from my job and have since not been able to find another job that even compares to the money I was making. I've had a few interviews but no call-backs.\n\nSince being unemployed I've been traveling to my aunt's house every few weeks to help her out with things around the house and going to the store, etc. She had neck surgery a few weeks ago and still isn't very mobile. My aunt lives about an hour away on the other side of Dallas.\n\nSo currently my situation could be summed up as me being somewhat of a nomad, with no job and no friends. My sister doesn't ever go out and she's 5 years older so having her introduce me to anyone isn't a possibility. Likewise with my brother-in-law, he travels a lot and doesn't have many friends who aren't already married with kids of their own. \n\nI'm so bored and kind of lonely. I don't really have anyone to talk to outside my family, and it gets depressing when every Friday/Saturday night I'm already in my PJ's by 8:00 pm. Making friends is a lot harder than dating so I was thinking of setting up a Tinder or Bumble profile, but when I think about it, I'm not really much of a \"catch,\" at this point, so maybe I shouldn't even waste the effort. \n\nSo should I give it a try and set up a profile and see what happens, or wait till I find a job/apartment and THEN give it a try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved to the Dallas area about 5-6 months ago to be closer to family. I moved in with my sister and her husband and 2 kids which started off as great, since her kids are amazing and the only niece and nephew I have. My sister's husband travels a lot and my intent was to help her with the kids while he was gone. \n\nI had job that allowed me to work from home so staying with my sister was only meant to be very temporary while I did some apartment hunting and explored various parts of DFW (Dallas-Ft. Worth) to decided on where I'd like to live.\n\nThe day before I was to sign a lease I was terminated from my job and have since not been able to find another job that even compares to the money I was making. I've had a few interviews but no call-backs.\n\nSince being unemployed I've been traveling to my aunt's house every few weeks to help her out with things around the house and going to the store, etc. She had neck surgery a few weeks ago and still isn't very mobile. My aunt lives about an hour away on the other side of Dallas.\n\nSo currently my situation could be summed up as me being somewhat of a nomad, with no job and no friends. My sister doesn't ever go out and she's 5 years older so having her introduce me to anyone isn't a possibility. Likewise with my brother-in-law, he travels a lot and doesn't have many friends who aren't already married with kids of their own. \n\nI'm so bored and kind of lonely. I don't really have anyone to talk to outside my family, and it gets depressing when every Friday/Saturday night I'm already in my PJ's by 8:00 pm. Making friends is a lot harder than dating so I was thinking of setting up a Tinder or Bumble profile, but when I think about it, I'm not really much of a \"catch,\" at this point, so maybe I shouldn't even waste the effort. \n\nSo should I give it a try and set up a profile and see what happens, or wait till I find a job/apartment and THEN give it a try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved to the Dallas area about 5-6 months ago to be closer to family. I moved in with my sister and her husband and 2 kids which started off as great, since her kids are amazing and the only niece and nephew I have. My sister's husband travels a lot and my intent was to help her with the kids while he was gone. \n\nI had job that allowed me to work from home so staying with my sister was only meant to be very temporary while I did some apartment hunting and explored various parts of DFW (Dallas-Ft. Worth) to decided on where I'd like to live.\n\nThe day before I was to sign a lease I was terminated from my job and have since not been able to find another job that even compares to the money I was making. I've had a few interviews but no call-backs.\n\nSince being unemployed I've been traveling to my aunt's house every few weeks to help her out with things around the house and going to the store, etc. She had neck surgery a few weeks ago and still isn't very mobile. My aunt lives about an hour away on the other side of Dallas.\n\nSo currently my situation could be summed up as me being somewhat of a nomad, with no job and no friends. My sister doesn't ever go out and she's 5 years older so having her introduce me to anyone isn't a possibility. Likewise with my brother-in-law, he travels a lot and doesn't have many friends who aren't already married with kids of their own. \n\nI'm so bored and kind of lonely. I don't really have anyone to talk to outside my family, and it gets depressing when every Friday/Saturday night I'm already in my PJ's by 8:00 pm. Making friends is a lot harder than dating so I was thinking of setting up a Tinder or Bumble profile, but when I think about it, I'm not really much of a \"catch,\" at this point, so maybe I shouldn't even waste the effort. \n\nSo should I give it a try and set up a profile and see what happens, or wait till I find a job/apartment and THEN give it a try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved to the Dallas area about 5-6 months ago to be closer to family. I moved in with my sister and her husband and 2 kids which started off as great, since her kids are amazing and the only niece and nephew I have. My sister's husband travels a lot and my intent was to help her with the kids while he was gone. \n\nI had job that allowed me to work from home so staying with my sister was only meant to be very temporary while I did some apartment hunting and explored various parts of DFW (Dallas-Ft. Worth) to decided on where I'd like to live.\n\nThe day before I was to sign a lease I was terminated from my job and have since not been able to find another job that even compares to the money I was making. I've had a few interviews but no call-backs.\n\nSince being unemployed I've been traveling to my aunt's house every few weeks to help her out with things around the house and going to the store, etc. She had neck surgery a few weeks ago and still isn't very mobile. My aunt lives about an hour away on the other side of Dallas.\n\nSo currently my situation could be summed up as me being somewhat of a nomad, with no job and no friends. My sister doesn't ever go out and she's 5 years older so having her introduce me to anyone isn't a possibility. Likewise with my brother-in-law, he travels a lot and doesn't have many friends who aren't already married with kids of their own. \n\nI'm so bored and kind of lonely. I don't really have anyone to talk to outside my family, and it gets depressing when every Friday/Saturday night I'm already in my PJ's by 8:00 pm. Making friends is a lot harder than dating so I was thinking of setting up a Tinder or Bumble profile, but when I think about it, I'm not really much of a \"catch,\" at this point, so maybe I shouldn't even waste the effort. \n\nSo should I give it a try and set up a profile and see what happens, or wait till I find a job/apartment and THEN give it a try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have strong sex drives. I've always enjoyed nasty sex and we definitely have our regular dose of that, but I want to make love again. Thing is, it's so easy to get excited and have purely physical sex. As a female, I feel weird being the one having this trouble. There have been times where he looks deep into my eyes and I go along with it but I feel bad because it catches me off guard, and I will have already put myself into. fuck mode, if you will. Don't get me wrong, I've made love with him before and it was beautiful and heartfelt, and in those moments I felt a love that I had never before shared with another person. Whether it's in or out of the bedroom, what can I do so that the physical experience can once more be secondary to the mental/emotional connection?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have strong sex drives. I've always enjoyed nasty sex and we definitely have our regular dose of that, but I want to make love again. Thing is, it's so easy to get excited and have purely physical sex. As a female, I feel weird being the one having this trouble. There have been times where he looks deep into my eyes and I go along with it but I feel bad because it catches me off guard, and I will have already put myself into. fuck mode, if you will. Don't get me wrong, I've made love with him before and it was beautiful and heartfelt, and in those moments I felt a love that I had never before shared with another person. Whether it's in or out of the bedroom, what can I do so that the physical experience can once more be secondary to the mental/emotional connection?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have strong sex drives. I've always enjoyed nasty sex and we definitely have our regular dose of that, but I want to make love again. Thing is, it's so easy to get excited and have purely physical sex. As a female, I feel weird being the one having this trouble. There have been times where he looks deep into my eyes and I go along with it but I feel bad because it catches me off guard, and I will have already put myself into. fuck mode, if you will. Don't get me wrong, I've made love with him before and it was beautiful and heartfelt, and in those moments I felt a love that I had never before shared with another person. Whether it's in or out of the bedroom, what can I do so that the physical experience can once more be secondary to the mental/emotional connection?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have strong sex drives. I've always enjoyed nasty sex and we definitely have our regular dose of that, but I want to make love again. Thing is, it's so easy to get excited and have purely physical sex. As a female, I feel weird being the one having this trouble. There have been times where he looks deep into my eyes and I go along with it but I feel bad because it catches me off guard, and I will have already put myself into. fuck mode, if you will. Don't get me wrong, I've made love with him before and it was beautiful and heartfelt, and in those moments I felt a love that I had never before shared with another person. Whether it's in or out of the bedroom, what can I do so that the physical experience can once more be secondary to the mental/emotional connection?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have strong sex drives. I've always enjoyed nasty sex and we definitely have our regular dose of that, but I want to make love again. Thing is, it's so easy to get excited and have purely physical sex. As a female, I feel weird being the one having this trouble. There have been times where he looks deep into my eyes and I go along with it but I feel bad because it catches me off guard, and I will have already put myself into. fuck mode, if you will. Don't get me wrong, I've made love with him before and it was beautiful and heartfelt, and in those moments I felt a love that I had never before shared with another person. Whether it's in or out of the bedroom, what can I do so that the physical experience can once more be secondary to the mental/emotional connection?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have strong sex drives. I've always enjoyed nasty sex and we definitely have our regular dose of that, but I want to make love again. Thing is, it's so easy to get excited and have purely physical sex. As a female, I feel weird being the one having this trouble. There have been times where he looks deep into my eyes and I go along with it but I feel bad because it catches me off guard, and I will have already put myself into. fuck mode, if you will. Don't get me wrong, I've made love with him before and it was beautiful and heartfelt, and in those moments I felt a love that I had never before shared with another person. Whether it's in or out of the bedroom, what can I do so that the physical experience can once more be secondary to the mental/emotional connection?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (M20) have been talking to this girl (F20) for about two years now. We met in college back in 2014. I have since moved back home and am going to college here while she is still away. We live two hours apart. I've had a crush on her for about a year now but have never really said anything for fear of rejection. But about a month ago she told me she had a crush on me. I originally thought hey this is great! As I have no problem with trying a long distance thing. From what I can tell, she feels the opposite. For one, she's terrible at texting back sometimes. 3-4 hours between texts at times. I really do like her and I'd like to think she feels the same way. She's told me that if she moves to Louisville she'd love to try and make something work but that's not for another two years. I just don't think it's healthy on my part to be so caught up with her. I feel like I'm TOO attached and getting nothing in return in hopes of maybe eventually getting something. I asked her how she really felt about me today and she said this \"You're a good friend and if one day everything works out and it feels right then I'd be like ok we can see what happens and you do have some damn good qualities\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (M20) have been talking to this girl (F20) for about two years now. We met in college back in 2014. I have since moved back home and am going to college here while she is still away. We live two hours apart. I've had a crush on her for about a year now but have never really said anything for fear of rejection. But about a month ago she told me she had a crush on me. I originally thought hey this is great! As I have no problem with trying a long distance thing. From what I can tell, she feels the opposite. For one, she's terrible at texting back sometimes. 3-4 hours between texts at times. I really do like her and I'd like to think she feels the same way. She's told me that if she moves to Louisville she'd love to try and make something work but that's not for another two years. I just don't think it's healthy on my part to be so caught up with her. I feel like I'm TOO attached and getting nothing in return in hopes of maybe eventually getting something. I asked her how she really felt about me today and she said this \"You're a good friend and if one day everything works out and it feels right then I'd be like ok we can see what happens and you do have some damn good qualities\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (M20) have been talking to this girl (F20) for about two years now. We met in college back in 2014. I have since moved back home and am going to college here while she is still away. We live two hours apart. I've had a crush on her for about a year now but have never really said anything for fear of rejection. But about a month ago she told me she had a crush on me. I originally thought hey this is great! As I have no problem with trying a long distance thing. From what I can tell, she feels the opposite. For one, she's terrible at texting back sometimes. 3-4 hours between texts at times. I really do like her and I'd like to think she feels the same way. She's told me that if she moves to Louisville she'd love to try and make something work but that's not for another two years. I just don't think it's healthy on my part to be so caught up with her. I feel like I'm TOO attached and getting nothing in return in hopes of maybe eventually getting something. I asked her how she really felt about me today and she said this \"You're a good friend and if one day everything works out and it feels right then I'd be like ok we can see what happens and you do have some damn good qualities\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (M20) have been talking to this girl (F20) for about two years now. We met in college back in 2014. I have since moved back home and am going to college here while she is still away. We live two hours apart. I've had a crush on her for about a year now but have never really said anything for fear of rejection. But about a month ago she told me she had a crush on me. I originally thought hey this is great! As I have no problem with trying a long distance thing. From what I can tell, she feels the opposite. For one, she's terrible at texting back sometimes. 3-4 hours between texts at times. I really do like her and I'd like to think she feels the same way. She's told me that if she moves to Louisville she'd love to try and make something work but that's not for another two years. I just don't think it's healthy on my part to be so caught up with her. I feel like I'm TOO attached and getting nothing in return in hopes of maybe eventually getting something. I asked her how she really felt about me today and she said this \"You're a good friend and if one day everything works out and it feels right then I'd be like ok we can see what happens and you do have some damn good qualities\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (M20) have been talking to this girl (F20) for about two years now. We met in college back in 2014. I have since moved back home and am going to college here while she is still away. We live two hours apart. I've had a crush on her for about a year now but have never really said anything for fear of rejection. But about a month ago she told me she had a crush on me. I originally thought hey this is great! As I have no problem with trying a long distance thing. From what I can tell, she feels the opposite. For one, she's terrible at texting back sometimes. 3-4 hours between texts at times. I really do like her and I'd like to think she feels the same way. She's told me that if she moves to Louisville she'd love to try and make something work but that's not for another two years. I just don't think it's healthy on my part to be so caught up with her. I feel like I'm TOO attached and getting nothing in return in hopes of maybe eventually getting something. I asked her how she really felt about me today and she said this \"You're a good friend and if one day everything works out and it feels right then I'd be like ok we can see what happens and you do have some damn good qualities\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (M20) have been talking to this girl (F20) for about two years now. We met in college back in 2014. I have since moved back home and am going to college here while she is still away. We live two hours apart. I've had a crush on her for about a year now but have never really said anything for fear of rejection. But about a month ago she told me she had a crush on me. I originally thought hey this is great! As I have no problem with trying a long distance thing. From what I can tell, she feels the opposite. For one, she's terrible at texting back sometimes. 3-4 hours between texts at times. I really do like her and I'd like to think she feels the same way. She's told me that if she moves to Louisville she'd love to try and make something work but that's not for another two years. I just don't think it's healthy on my part to be so caught up with her. I feel like I'm TOO attached and getting nothing in return in hopes of maybe eventually getting something. I asked her how she really felt about me today and she said this \"You're a good friend and if one day everything works out and it feels right then I'd be like ok we can see what happens and you do have some damn good qualities\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need your help. My family and I have not spoken for over three years now and I just recently heard they moved. Without explaining why (it was a culmination of personal/family, rather than legal/substance abuse issues), I want to try to repair things, but I don't know how, since they aren't willing to speak to me. I was thinking of putting an ad in the newspaper telling them how sorry I am and how much I miss them, but there's a good chance they wouldn't read it.\n\nDo you guys have any advice? And in advance: I love you!\n\nEDIT: Fine, two comments in and all people are asking is what I did. I'll tell you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need your help. My family and I have not spoken for over three years now and I just recently heard they moved. Without explaining why (it was a culmination of personal/family, rather than legal/substance abuse issues), I want to try to repair things, but I don't know how, since they aren't willing to speak to me. I was thinking of putting an ad in the newspaper telling them how sorry I am and how much I miss them, but there's a good chance they wouldn't read it.\n\nDo you guys have any advice? And in advance: I love you!\n\nEDIT: Fine, two comments in and all people are asking is what I did. I'll tell you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need your help. My family and I have not spoken for over three years now and I just recently heard they moved. Without explaining why (it was a culmination of personal/family, rather than legal/substance abuse issues), I want to try to repair things, but I don't know how, since they aren't willing to speak to me. I was thinking of putting an ad in the newspaper telling them how sorry I am and how much I miss them, but there's a good chance they wouldn't read it.\n\nDo you guys have any advice? And in advance: I love you!\n\nEDIT: Fine, two comments in and all people are asking is what I did. I'll tell you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need your help. My family and I have not spoken for over three years now and I just recently heard they moved. Without explaining why (it was a culmination of personal/family, rather than legal/substance abuse issues), I want to try to repair things, but I don't know how, since they aren't willing to speak to me. I was thinking of putting an ad in the newspaper telling them how sorry I am and how much I miss them, but there's a good chance they wouldn't read it.\n\nDo you guys have any advice? And in advance: I love you!\n\nEDIT: Fine, two comments in and all people are asking is what I did. I'll tell you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need your help. My family and I have not spoken for over three years now and I just recently heard they moved. Without explaining why (it was a culmination of personal/family, rather than legal/substance abuse issues), I want to try to repair things, but I don't know how, since they aren't willing to speak to me. I was thinking of putting an ad in the newspaper telling them how sorry I am and how much I miss them, but there's a good chance they wouldn't read it.\n\nDo you guys have any advice? And in advance: I love you!\n\nEDIT: Fine, two comments in and all people are asking is what I did. I'll tell you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I discovered a lump on one of my testicles, went in the doctor. After examinations and an ultrasound, he tells me its a harmless Spermatocele (Diagnosis Code 608.1) and that if the pain gets bothersome I can get it removed. I breathe a sigh of relief that its not cancer and go on my merry way. My insurance company claims that this falls under infertility and won't cover it. At no point did I or my doctor discuss the fertility impact of this thing, I was just too happy it wasn't gonna kill me. They have denied my appeal. I wonder if anyone else has had a similar experience, and how it got resolved. Are cysts on ovaries handled the same way? The discomfort is indeed getting bothersome, but if I want to fix it, it sounds to me as though it'll come out of my pocket. I know I shouldn't take medical advice from AskReddit as perfect, but I really want to discuss this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I discovered a lump on one of my testicles, went in the doctor. After examinations and an ultrasound, he tells me its a harmless Spermatocele (Diagnosis Code 608.1) and that if the pain gets bothersome I can get it removed. I breathe a sigh of relief that its not cancer and go on my merry way. My insurance company claims that this falls under infertility and won't cover it. At no point did I or my doctor discuss the fertility impact of this thing, I was just too happy it wasn't gonna kill me. They have denied my appeal. I wonder if anyone else has had a similar experience, and how it got resolved. Are cysts on ovaries handled the same way? The discomfort is indeed getting bothersome, but if I want to fix it, it sounds to me as though it'll come out of my pocket. I know I shouldn't take medical advice from AskReddit as perfect, but I really want to discuss this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I discovered a lump on one of my testicles, went in the doctor. After examinations and an ultrasound, he tells me its a harmless Spermatocele (Diagnosis Code 608.1) and that if the pain gets bothersome I can get it removed. I breathe a sigh of relief that its not cancer and go on my merry way. My insurance company claims that this falls under infertility and won't cover it. At no point did I or my doctor discuss the fertility impact of this thing, I was just too happy it wasn't gonna kill me. They have denied my appeal. I wonder if anyone else has had a similar experience, and how it got resolved. Are cysts on ovaries handled the same way? The discomfort is indeed getting bothersome, but if I want to fix it, it sounds to me as though it'll come out of my pocket. I know I shouldn't take medical advice from AskReddit as perfect, but I really want to discuss this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I discovered a lump on one of my testicles, went in the doctor. After examinations and an ultrasound, he tells me its a harmless Spermatocele (Diagnosis Code 608.1) and that if the pain gets bothersome I can get it removed. I breathe a sigh of relief that its not cancer and go on my merry way. My insurance company claims that this falls under infertility and won't cover it. At no point did I or my doctor discuss the fertility impact of this thing, I was just too happy it wasn't gonna kill me. They have denied my appeal. I wonder if anyone else has had a similar experience, and how it got resolved. Are cysts on ovaries handled the same way? The discomfort is indeed getting bothersome, but if I want to fix it, it sounds to me as though it'll come out of my pocket. I know I shouldn't take medical advice from AskReddit as perfect, but I really want to discuss this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I discovered a lump on one of my testicles, went in the doctor. After examinations and an ultrasound, he tells me its a harmless Spermatocele (Diagnosis Code 608.1) and that if the pain gets bothersome I can get it removed. I breathe a sigh of relief that its not cancer and go on my merry way. My insurance company claims that this falls under infertility and won't cover it. At no point did I or my doctor discuss the fertility impact of this thing, I was just too happy it wasn't gonna kill me. They have denied my appeal. I wonder if anyone else has had a similar experience, and how it got resolved. Are cysts on ovaries handled the same way? The discomfort is indeed getting bothersome, but if I want to fix it, it sounds to me as though it'll come out of my pocket. I know I shouldn't take medical advice from AskReddit as perfect, but I really want to discuss this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I discovered a lump on one of my testicles, went in the doctor. After examinations and an ultrasound, he tells me its a harmless Spermatocele (Diagnosis Code 608.1) and that if the pain gets bothersome I can get it removed. I breathe a sigh of relief that its not cancer and go on my merry way. My insurance company claims that this falls under infertility and won't cover it. At no point did I or my doctor discuss the fertility impact of this thing, I was just too happy it wasn't gonna kill me. They have denied my appeal. I wonder if anyone else has had a similar experience, and how it got resolved. Are cysts on ovaries handled the same way? The discomfort is indeed getting bothersome, but if I want to fix it, it sounds to me as though it'll come out of my pocket. I know I shouldn't take medical advice from AskReddit as perfect, but I really want to discuss this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time ever asking relationship reddit a question hope i'm doing this right. \nSo this guy that i will occasionally say hi to and talk to briefly. Has a girlfriend of what i think to be a two year relationship. So i have a class with his girlfriend and I've noticed she has been holding the hand of another guy. And just doing other flirtatious stuff.\n\nNow i don't know if i should tell her boyfriend or not. What makes this more complicated is that they have a kid together. I don't know if it would be right for me to tell him for the sake of the child. \n\nAnd she would probably guess it was me who told him cause i know her boyfriend and there's very few people in that class."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time ever asking relationship reddit a question hope i'm doing this right. \nSo this guy that i will occasionally say hi to and talk to briefly. Has a girlfriend of what i think to be a two year relationship. So i have a class with his girlfriend and I've noticed she has been holding the hand of another guy. And just doing other flirtatious stuff.\n\nNow i don't know if i should tell her boyfriend or not. What makes this more complicated is that they have a kid together. I don't know if it would be right for me to tell him for the sake of the child. \n\nAnd she would probably guess it was me who told him cause i know her boyfriend and there's very few people in that class."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time ever asking relationship reddit a question hope i'm doing this right. \nSo this guy that i will occasionally say hi to and talk to briefly. Has a girlfriend of what i think to be a two year relationship. So i have a class with his girlfriend and I've noticed she has been holding the hand of another guy. And just doing other flirtatious stuff.\n\nNow i don't know if i should tell her boyfriend or not. What makes this more complicated is that they have a kid together. I don't know if it would be right for me to tell him for the sake of the child. \n\nAnd she would probably guess it was me who told him cause i know her boyfriend and there's very few people in that class."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time ever asking relationship reddit a question hope i'm doing this right. \nSo this guy that i will occasionally say hi to and talk to briefly. Has a girlfriend of what i think to be a two year relationship. So i have a class with his girlfriend and I've noticed she has been holding the hand of another guy. And just doing other flirtatious stuff.\n\nNow i don't know if i should tell her boyfriend or not. What makes this more complicated is that they have a kid together. I don't know if it would be right for me to tell him for the sake of the child. \n\nAnd she would probably guess it was me who told him cause i know her boyfriend and there's very few people in that class."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time ever asking relationship reddit a question hope i'm doing this right. \nSo this guy that i will occasionally say hi to and talk to briefly. Has a girlfriend of what i think to be a two year relationship. So i have a class with his girlfriend and I've noticed she has been holding the hand of another guy. And just doing other flirtatious stuff.\n\nNow i don't know if i should tell her boyfriend or not. What makes this more complicated is that they have a kid together. I don't know if it would be right for me to tell him for the sake of the child. \n\nAnd she would probably guess it was me who told him cause i know her boyfriend and there's very few people in that class."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time ever asking relationship reddit a question hope i'm doing this right. \nSo this guy that i will occasionally say hi to and talk to briefly. Has a girlfriend of what i think to be a two year relationship. So i have a class with his girlfriend and I've noticed she has been holding the hand of another guy. And just doing other flirtatious stuff.\n\nNow i don't know if i should tell her boyfriend or not. What makes this more complicated is that they have a kid together. I don't know if it would be right for me to tell him for the sake of the child. \n\nAnd she would probably guess it was me who told him cause i know her boyfriend and there's very few people in that class."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been on three dates with this girl, we get along quire well and the dates are fun. However there I think she is lying about the age she lost her virginity. \n\nOn the first date, in a non-sexual conversation about friends, she brought up the fact that she was the first to lose her virginity at 16 and it was a big deal in her circle of friends. However on our last date she asked me \"What age did you lose your virginity?\" And I said I lost it a little late at 18. She then told me she lost it at 18 as well. I didn't even realise her contradiction until the next morning. \n\nIt probably sounds stupid and trivial to you guys, but is there any reason I should be concerned, or address her about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been on three dates with this girl, we get along quire well and the dates are fun. However there I think she is lying about the age she lost her virginity. \n\nOn the first date, in a non-sexual conversation about friends, she brought up the fact that she was the first to lose her virginity at 16 and it was a big deal in her circle of friends. However on our last date she asked me \"What age did you lose your virginity?\" And I said I lost it a little late at 18. She then told me she lost it at 18 as well. I didn't even realise her contradiction until the next morning. \n\nIt probably sounds stupid and trivial to you guys, but is there any reason I should be concerned, or address her about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been on three dates with this girl, we get along quire well and the dates are fun. However there I think she is lying about the age she lost her virginity. \n\nOn the first date, in a non-sexual conversation about friends, she brought up the fact that she was the first to lose her virginity at 16 and it was a big deal in her circle of friends. However on our last date she asked me \"What age did you lose your virginity?\" And I said I lost it a little late at 18. She then told me she lost it at 18 as well. I didn't even realise her contradiction until the next morning. \n\nIt probably sounds stupid and trivial to you guys, but is there any reason I should be concerned, or address her about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been on three dates with this girl, we get along quire well and the dates are fun. However there I think she is lying about the age she lost her virginity. \n\nOn the first date, in a non-sexual conversation about friends, she brought up the fact that she was the first to lose her virginity at 16 and it was a big deal in her circle of friends. However on our last date she asked me \"What age did you lose your virginity?\" And I said I lost it a little late at 18. She then told me she lost it at 18 as well. I didn't even realise her contradiction until the next morning. \n\nIt probably sounds stupid and trivial to you guys, but is there any reason I should be concerned, or address her about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been on three dates with this girl, we get along quire well and the dates are fun. However there I think she is lying about the age she lost her virginity. \n\nOn the first date, in a non-sexual conversation about friends, she brought up the fact that she was the first to lose her virginity at 16 and it was a big deal in her circle of friends. However on our last date she asked me \"What age did you lose your virginity?\" And I said I lost it a little late at 18. She then told me she lost it at 18 as well. I didn't even realise her contradiction until the next morning. \n\nIt probably sounds stupid and trivial to you guys, but is there any reason I should be concerned, or address her about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been on three dates with this girl, we get along quire well and the dates are fun. However there I think she is lying about the age she lost her virginity. \n\nOn the first date, in a non-sexual conversation about friends, she brought up the fact that she was the first to lose her virginity at 16 and it was a big deal in her circle of friends. However on our last date she asked me \"What age did you lose your virginity?\" And I said I lost it a little late at 18. She then told me she lost it at 18 as well. I didn't even realise her contradiction until the next morning. \n\nIt probably sounds stupid and trivial to you guys, but is there any reason I should be concerned, or address her about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and like every other couple, we want to take that next step in our relationship after this year. However, there's always this paralyzing fear that if I have sex, there is ALWAYS a chance of getting pregnant. I'm still in uni and cannot risk pregnancy since my parents would actually kill me. I don't want to stay a virgin until marriage because I don't want to get married until I'm at least 25, but that's ages and I cannot expect a guy to wait 7 years to have sex, and neither do I want to.\nSo I was wondering, is there a safest way to have sex? Say, if I was to go on birth control (whichever one is the most effective), and use condoms and pull out, and have sex on the least fertile days of my cycle, and run water through the condom afterwards to check for holes - could this prevent pregnancy to 0 likelihood? I know it sounds crazy, but this would be the only way to put my mind at peace.\n\nIf anyone has any experience with this, any advice would be helpful. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and like every other couple, we want to take that next step in our relationship after this year. However, there's always this paralyzing fear that if I have sex, there is ALWAYS a chance of getting pregnant. I'm still in uni and cannot risk pregnancy since my parents would actually kill me. I don't want to stay a virgin until marriage because I don't want to get married until I'm at least 25, but that's ages and I cannot expect a guy to wait 7 years to have sex, and neither do I want to.\nSo I was wondering, is there a safest way to have sex? Say, if I was to go on birth control (whichever one is the most effective), and use condoms and pull out, and have sex on the least fertile days of my cycle, and run water through the condom afterwards to check for holes - could this prevent pregnancy to 0 likelihood? I know it sounds crazy, but this would be the only way to put my mind at peace.\n\nIf anyone has any experience with this, any advice would be helpful. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and like every other couple, we want to take that next step in our relationship after this year. However, there's always this paralyzing fear that if I have sex, there is ALWAYS a chance of getting pregnant. I'm still in uni and cannot risk pregnancy since my parents would actually kill me. I don't want to stay a virgin until marriage because I don't want to get married until I'm at least 25, but that's ages and I cannot expect a guy to wait 7 years to have sex, and neither do I want to.\nSo I was wondering, is there a safest way to have sex? Say, if I was to go on birth control (whichever one is the most effective), and use condoms and pull out, and have sex on the least fertile days of my cycle, and run water through the condom afterwards to check for holes - could this prevent pregnancy to 0 likelihood? I know it sounds crazy, but this would be the only way to put my mind at peace.\n\nIf anyone has any experience with this, any advice would be helpful. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and like every other couple, we want to take that next step in our relationship after this year. However, there's always this paralyzing fear that if I have sex, there is ALWAYS a chance of getting pregnant. I'm still in uni and cannot risk pregnancy since my parents would actually kill me. I don't want to stay a virgin until marriage because I don't want to get married until I'm at least 25, but that's ages and I cannot expect a guy to wait 7 years to have sex, and neither do I want to.\nSo I was wondering, is there a safest way to have sex? Say, if I was to go on birth control (whichever one is the most effective), and use condoms and pull out, and have sex on the least fertile days of my cycle, and run water through the condom afterwards to check for holes - could this prevent pregnancy to 0 likelihood? I know it sounds crazy, but this would be the only way to put my mind at peace.\n\nIf anyone has any experience with this, any advice would be helpful. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and like every other couple, we want to take that next step in our relationship after this year. However, there's always this paralyzing fear that if I have sex, there is ALWAYS a chance of getting pregnant. I'm still in uni and cannot risk pregnancy since my parents would actually kill me. I don't want to stay a virgin until marriage because I don't want to get married until I'm at least 25, but that's ages and I cannot expect a guy to wait 7 years to have sex, and neither do I want to.\nSo I was wondering, is there a safest way to have sex? Say, if I was to go on birth control (whichever one is the most effective), and use condoms and pull out, and have sex on the least fertile days of my cycle, and run water through the condom afterwards to check for holes - could this prevent pregnancy to 0 likelihood? I know it sounds crazy, but this would be the only way to put my mind at peace.\n\nIf anyone has any experience with this, any advice would be helpful. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and like every other couple, we want to take that next step in our relationship after this year. However, there's always this paralyzing fear that if I have sex, there is ALWAYS a chance of getting pregnant. I'm still in uni and cannot risk pregnancy since my parents would actually kill me. I don't want to stay a virgin until marriage because I don't want to get married until I'm at least 25, but that's ages and I cannot expect a guy to wait 7 years to have sex, and neither do I want to.\nSo I was wondering, is there a safest way to have sex? Say, if I was to go on birth control (whichever one is the most effective), and use condoms and pull out, and have sex on the least fertile days of my cycle, and run water through the condom afterwards to check for holes - could this prevent pregnancy to 0 likelihood? I know it sounds crazy, but this would be the only way to put my mind at peace.\n\nIf anyone has any experience with this, any advice would be helpful. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, getting the age thing out of the way first. Age of consent in my region is 16, and relationship is romantic but non-sexual.\n\nHer best friend began sending long, erratic texts to her saying he's worried about her, asking if there's trouble at school, asking if people are giving her trouble, harassing her.\n\nHe finally called her, he was breathing heavily, very worried, hysterical. When he calmed down enough, he told her that he was afraid somebody was going to rape or kill her.\n\nShe's just transferred to community college,so yeah, there's lots of creeps and weirdos, but nobody there has been a red flag. And anyways, I'm there with her.\n\nBut he mentioned me specifically. He was afraid I was going to rape or kill her.\n\nNow, that does make me pretty fucking upset, to be honest. Who wouldn't be upset?\n\nShe chalked it up to sudden paranoia and calmed him down, but I'm not ok with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, getting the age thing out of the way first. Age of consent in my region is 16, and relationship is romantic but non-sexual.\n\nHer best friend began sending long, erratic texts to her saying he's worried about her, asking if there's trouble at school, asking if people are giving her trouble, harassing her.\n\nHe finally called her, he was breathing heavily, very worried, hysterical. When he calmed down enough, he told her that he was afraid somebody was going to rape or kill her.\n\nShe's just transferred to community college,so yeah, there's lots of creeps and weirdos, but nobody there has been a red flag. And anyways, I'm there with her.\n\nBut he mentioned me specifically. He was afraid I was going to rape or kill her.\n\nNow, that does make me pretty fucking upset, to be honest. Who wouldn't be upset?\n\nShe chalked it up to sudden paranoia and calmed him down, but I'm not ok with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, getting the age thing out of the way first. Age of consent in my region is 16, and relationship is romantic but non-sexual.\n\nHer best friend began sending long, erratic texts to her saying he's worried about her, asking if there's trouble at school, asking if people are giving her trouble, harassing her.\n\nHe finally called her, he was breathing heavily, very worried, hysterical. When he calmed down enough, he told her that he was afraid somebody was going to rape or kill her.\n\nShe's just transferred to community college,so yeah, there's lots of creeps and weirdos, but nobody there has been a red flag. And anyways, I'm there with her.\n\nBut he mentioned me specifically. He was afraid I was going to rape or kill her.\n\nNow, that does make me pretty fucking upset, to be honest. Who wouldn't be upset?\n\nShe chalked it up to sudden paranoia and calmed him down, but I'm not ok with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, getting the age thing out of the way first. Age of consent in my region is 16, and relationship is romantic but non-sexual.\n\nHer best friend began sending long, erratic texts to her saying he's worried about her, asking if there's trouble at school, asking if people are giving her trouble, harassing her.\n\nHe finally called her, he was breathing heavily, very worried, hysterical. When he calmed down enough, he told her that he was afraid somebody was going to rape or kill her.\n\nShe's just transferred to community college,so yeah, there's lots of creeps and weirdos, but nobody there has been a red flag. And anyways, I'm there with her.\n\nBut he mentioned me specifically. He was afraid I was going to rape or kill her.\n\nNow, that does make me pretty fucking upset, to be honest. Who wouldn't be upset?\n\nShe chalked it up to sudden paranoia and calmed him down, but I'm not ok with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, getting the age thing out of the way first. Age of consent in my region is 16, and relationship is romantic but non-sexual.\n\nHer best friend began sending long, erratic texts to her saying he's worried about her, asking if there's trouble at school, asking if people are giving her trouble, harassing her.\n\nHe finally called her, he was breathing heavily, very worried, hysterical. When he calmed down enough, he told her that he was afraid somebody was going to rape or kill her.\n\nShe's just transferred to community college,so yeah, there's lots of creeps and weirdos, but nobody there has been a red flag. And anyways, I'm there with her.\n\nBut he mentioned me specifically. He was afraid I was going to rape or kill her.\n\nNow, that does make me pretty fucking upset, to be honest. Who wouldn't be upset?\n\nShe chalked it up to sudden paranoia and calmed him down, but I'm not ok with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, getting the age thing out of the way first. Age of consent in my region is 16, and relationship is romantic but non-sexual.\n\nHer best friend began sending long, erratic texts to her saying he's worried about her, asking if there's trouble at school, asking if people are giving her trouble, harassing her.\n\nHe finally called her, he was breathing heavily, very worried, hysterical. When he calmed down enough, he told her that he was afraid somebody was going to rape or kill her.\n\nShe's just transferred to community college,so yeah, there's lots of creeps and weirdos, but nobody there has been a red flag. And anyways, I'm there with her.\n\nBut he mentioned me specifically. He was afraid I was going to rape or kill her.\n\nNow, that does make me pretty fucking upset, to be honest. Who wouldn't be upset?\n\nShe chalked it up to sudden paranoia and calmed him down, but I'm not ok with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this might be long, but bear with me.also I dont even know if this is the right subreddit but I hope it's ok if I post here. I figure people who know how to deal with relationships might be able to help me. \n\nHere is the situation:\nI have known this girl for a little over 2 years. I get her and she gets me. We talk a decent amount, but not a crazy amount, and we skype every so often. I would describe our relationship as very good friends. We have never done anything physical, but I REALLY like her. I have no idea if she feels the same way about me, but she really makes me happy, being around her and talking to her makes me feel great.\n\nHere are the problems:\nI have no idea how to figure out if she likes me in the way that I like her. She has jokingly said stuff like \"haha mr5074 I love you\" \"miss you so much\" etc.but idk what it really means. She is a year younger than me (currently senior in hs 17F) while I am a Freshman in college (18M) about 1000 miles away from her.yeah I know.and I have no idea where she is going to go to college\n\nIf we get into a relationship it would be long distance.but we could make it work I think. But, if I tried to initiate some sort of relationship and she didnt feel the same way it could ruin our friendship which I would feel horrible about. But I cant stop thinking about something more. I can't stop thinking about her, and it makes it so hard to even begin to think about a relationship with anyone else. Any input would be much appreciated.I cant stop thinking about this, and it's 3 AM right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this might be long, but bear with me.also I dont even know if this is the right subreddit but I hope it's ok if I post here. I figure people who know how to deal with relationships might be able to help me. \n\nHere is the situation:\nI have known this girl for a little over 2 years. I get her and she gets me. We talk a decent amount, but not a crazy amount, and we skype every so often. I would describe our relationship as very good friends. We have never done anything physical, but I REALLY like her. I have no idea if she feels the same way about me, but she really makes me happy, being around her and talking to her makes me feel great.\n\nHere are the problems:\nI have no idea how to figure out if she likes me in the way that I like her. She has jokingly said stuff like \"haha mr5074 I love you\" \"miss you so much\" etc.but idk what it really means. She is a year younger than me (currently senior in hs 17F) while I am a Freshman in college (18M) about 1000 miles away from her.yeah I know.and I have no idea where she is going to go to college\n\nIf we get into a relationship it would be long distance.but we could make it work I think. But, if I tried to initiate some sort of relationship and she didnt feel the same way it could ruin our friendship which I would feel horrible about. But I cant stop thinking about something more. I can't stop thinking about her, and it makes it so hard to even begin to think about a relationship with anyone else. Any input would be much appreciated.I cant stop thinking about this, and it's 3 AM right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this might be long, but bear with me.also I dont even know if this is the right subreddit but I hope it's ok if I post here. I figure people who know how to deal with relationships might be able to help me. \n\nHere is the situation:\nI have known this girl for a little over 2 years. I get her and she gets me. We talk a decent amount, but not a crazy amount, and we skype every so often. I would describe our relationship as very good friends. We have never done anything physical, but I REALLY like her. I have no idea if she feels the same way about me, but she really makes me happy, being around her and talking to her makes me feel great.\n\nHere are the problems:\nI have no idea how to figure out if she likes me in the way that I like her. She has jokingly said stuff like \"haha mr5074 I love you\" \"miss you so much\" etc.but idk what it really means. She is a year younger than me (currently senior in hs 17F) while I am a Freshman in college (18M) about 1000 miles away from her.yeah I know.and I have no idea where she is going to go to college\n\nIf we get into a relationship it would be long distance.but we could make it work I think. But, if I tried to initiate some sort of relationship and she didnt feel the same way it could ruin our friendship which I would feel horrible about. But I cant stop thinking about something more. I can't stop thinking about her, and it makes it so hard to even begin to think about a relationship with anyone else. Any input would be much appreciated.I cant stop thinking about this, and it's 3 AM right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this might be long, but bear with me.also I dont even know if this is the right subreddit but I hope it's ok if I post here. I figure people who know how to deal with relationships might be able to help me. \n\nHere is the situation:\nI have known this girl for a little over 2 years. I get her and she gets me. We talk a decent amount, but not a crazy amount, and we skype every so often. I would describe our relationship as very good friends. We have never done anything physical, but I REALLY like her. I have no idea if she feels the same way about me, but she really makes me happy, being around her and talking to her makes me feel great.\n\nHere are the problems:\nI have no idea how to figure out if she likes me in the way that I like her. She has jokingly said stuff like \"haha mr5074 I love you\" \"miss you so much\" etc.but idk what it really means. She is a year younger than me (currently senior in hs 17F) while I am a Freshman in college (18M) about 1000 miles away from her.yeah I know.and I have no idea where she is going to go to college\n\nIf we get into a relationship it would be long distance.but we could make it work I think. But, if I tried to initiate some sort of relationship and she didnt feel the same way it could ruin our friendship which I would feel horrible about. But I cant stop thinking about something more. I can't stop thinking about her, and it makes it so hard to even begin to think about a relationship with anyone else. Any input would be much appreciated.I cant stop thinking about this, and it's 3 AM right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this might be long, but bear with me.also I dont even know if this is the right subreddit but I hope it's ok if I post here. I figure people who know how to deal with relationships might be able to help me. \n\nHere is the situation:\nI have known this girl for a little over 2 years. I get her and she gets me. We talk a decent amount, but not a crazy amount, and we skype every so often. I would describe our relationship as very good friends. We have never done anything physical, but I REALLY like her. I have no idea if she feels the same way about me, but she really makes me happy, being around her and talking to her makes me feel great.\n\nHere are the problems:\nI have no idea how to figure out if she likes me in the way that I like her. She has jokingly said stuff like \"haha mr5074 I love you\" \"miss you so much\" etc.but idk what it really means. She is a year younger than me (currently senior in hs 17F) while I am a Freshman in college (18M) about 1000 miles away from her.yeah I know.and I have no idea where she is going to go to college\n\nIf we get into a relationship it would be long distance.but we could make it work I think. But, if I tried to initiate some sort of relationship and she didnt feel the same way it could ruin our friendship which I would feel horrible about. But I cant stop thinking about something more. I can't stop thinking about her, and it makes it so hard to even begin to think about a relationship with anyone else. Any input would be much appreciated.I cant stop thinking about this, and it's 3 AM right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this might be long, but bear with me.also I dont even know if this is the right subreddit but I hope it's ok if I post here. I figure people who know how to deal with relationships might be able to help me. \n\nHere is the situation:\nI have known this girl for a little over 2 years. I get her and she gets me. We talk a decent amount, but not a crazy amount, and we skype every so often. I would describe our relationship as very good friends. We have never done anything physical, but I REALLY like her. I have no idea if she feels the same way about me, but she really makes me happy, being around her and talking to her makes me feel great.\n\nHere are the problems:\nI have no idea how to figure out if she likes me in the way that I like her. She has jokingly said stuff like \"haha mr5074 I love you\" \"miss you so much\" etc.but idk what it really means. She is a year younger than me (currently senior in hs 17F) while I am a Freshman in college (18M) about 1000 miles away from her.yeah I know.and I have no idea where she is going to go to college\n\nIf we get into a relationship it would be long distance.but we could make it work I think. But, if I tried to initiate some sort of relationship and she didnt feel the same way it could ruin our friendship which I would feel horrible about. But I cant stop thinking about something more. I can't stop thinking about her, and it makes it so hard to even begin to think about a relationship with anyone else. Any input would be much appreciated.I cant stop thinking about this, and it's 3 AM right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my fiance [25M] for four years now and he knows I have major anxiety and abandonment issues because of past abuse.\n\nWe live in the apartment above my mom and dad which provides a lot of security knowing there's always someone there to keep me safe and protect me when I'm anxious and panicky. They travel and go camping sometimes however so that just leaves me and my fiance.\n\nWhen they're gone it's usually only for 3-4 days at a time and I've asked my fiance (who works from home) if he could please try to stay home with me while they're gone (instead of going to hang out with his friends, etc.) because when he and my parents are both gone it's extremely hard on me and my anxiety. I also have a bad heart from other medical issues and the anxiety can stress my heart, which is obviously bad.\n\nKnowing all this, he's still gone out both today and last week while my parents were gone. I never outright asked him not to go because I felt too guilty to, but I spend a considerable amount of time sobbing and having panic attacks beforehand. He felt bad about that, but still went. Last week he came home (he generally comes back between 2-4 AM) to me crying and shaking and in a totally disconnected state from being so paranoid and anxious all night. I'm afraid of what will happen to me tonight.\n\nHe doesn't go out with his friends that often to begin with, maybe 2-3 times a month, so I'd feel really bad keeping him from that but I wonder why he can't just try to reschedule to a day that would be less harmful for me, when my parents are home in case I need them. I don't have any friends myself to keep me busy either.\n\nAm I selfish and controlling for asking that of him? Is he an asshole for knowing how harmful this is for me and leaving anyhow? He won't be home for another 6-8 hours tonight, what do I do? I already feel like I'm having a nervous breakdown :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my fiance [25M] for four years now and he knows I have major anxiety and abandonment issues because of past abuse.\n\nWe live in the apartment above my mom and dad which provides a lot of security knowing there's always someone there to keep me safe and protect me when I'm anxious and panicky. They travel and go camping sometimes however so that just leaves me and my fiance.\n\nWhen they're gone it's usually only for 3-4 days at a time and I've asked my fiance (who works from home) if he could please try to stay home with me while they're gone (instead of going to hang out with his friends, etc.) because when he and my parents are both gone it's extremely hard on me and my anxiety. I also have a bad heart from other medical issues and the anxiety can stress my heart, which is obviously bad.\n\nKnowing all this, he's still gone out both today and last week while my parents were gone. I never outright asked him not to go because I felt too guilty to, but I spend a considerable amount of time sobbing and having panic attacks beforehand. He felt bad about that, but still went. Last week he came home (he generally comes back between 2-4 AM) to me crying and shaking and in a totally disconnected state from being so paranoid and anxious all night. I'm afraid of what will happen to me tonight.\n\nHe doesn't go out with his friends that often to begin with, maybe 2-3 times a month, so I'd feel really bad keeping him from that but I wonder why he can't just try to reschedule to a day that would be less harmful for me, when my parents are home in case I need them. I don't have any friends myself to keep me busy either.\n\nAm I selfish and controlling for asking that of him? Is he an asshole for knowing how harmful this is for me and leaving anyhow? He won't be home for another 6-8 hours tonight, what do I do? I already feel like I'm having a nervous breakdown :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my fiance [25M] for four years now and he knows I have major anxiety and abandonment issues because of past abuse.\n\nWe live in the apartment above my mom and dad which provides a lot of security knowing there's always someone there to keep me safe and protect me when I'm anxious and panicky. They travel and go camping sometimes however so that just leaves me and my fiance.\n\nWhen they're gone it's usually only for 3-4 days at a time and I've asked my fiance (who works from home) if he could please try to stay home with me while they're gone (instead of going to hang out with his friends, etc.) because when he and my parents are both gone it's extremely hard on me and my anxiety. I also have a bad heart from other medical issues and the anxiety can stress my heart, which is obviously bad.\n\nKnowing all this, he's still gone out both today and last week while my parents were gone. I never outright asked him not to go because I felt too guilty to, but I spend a considerable amount of time sobbing and having panic attacks beforehand. He felt bad about that, but still went. Last week he came home (he generally comes back between 2-4 AM) to me crying and shaking and in a totally disconnected state from being so paranoid and anxious all night. I'm afraid of what will happen to me tonight.\n\nHe doesn't go out with his friends that often to begin with, maybe 2-3 times a month, so I'd feel really bad keeping him from that but I wonder why he can't just try to reschedule to a day that would be less harmful for me, when my parents are home in case I need them. I don't have any friends myself to keep me busy either.\n\nAm I selfish and controlling for asking that of him? Is he an asshole for knowing how harmful this is for me and leaving anyhow? He won't be home for another 6-8 hours tonight, what do I do? I already feel like I'm having a nervous breakdown :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I know it hasn't been long at all, but there hasn't been a day this week that he hasn't called, texted, or sent a Facebook message. \n\nThe reason I left is because he has been leaving me out of his life completely for over three months. He became a bit depressed, started going out with his friends four times a week and not bringing me along, spent a ridiculous amount of money on going out, started being interested in pot although I'm deathly allergic to it, and also developed feelings for a girl he works with (and refused to let us meet when I became suspicious). We took a break, then got back together, then broke up, then got back together. I finally left last week because he told me about his feelings for that girl and he also threatened me and my pets because he got angry. \n\nI took the pets and some essentials and left. \nHe has been calling and texting and messaging non stop. He says all the right things and it drives me crazy because I love him and I want to believe him, but I just can't trust him anymore. \n\nI haven't responded to anything. I know I can block him, but a part of me really wants to see him get better and see if we can rebuild our relationship. The other part of me thinks that he'll never change and I should move on. \n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I know it hasn't been long at all, but there hasn't been a day this week that he hasn't called, texted, or sent a Facebook message. \n\nThe reason I left is because he has been leaving me out of his life completely for over three months. He became a bit depressed, started going out with his friends four times a week and not bringing me along, spent a ridiculous amount of money on going out, started being interested in pot although I'm deathly allergic to it, and also developed feelings for a girl he works with (and refused to let us meet when I became suspicious). We took a break, then got back together, then broke up, then got back together. I finally left last week because he told me about his feelings for that girl and he also threatened me and my pets because he got angry. \n\nI took the pets and some essentials and left. \nHe has been calling and texting and messaging non stop. He says all the right things and it drives me crazy because I love him and I want to believe him, but I just can't trust him anymore. \n\nI haven't responded to anything. I know I can block him, but a part of me really wants to see him get better and see if we can rebuild our relationship. The other part of me thinks that he'll never change and I should move on. \n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I know it hasn't been long at all, but there hasn't been a day this week that he hasn't called, texted, or sent a Facebook message. \n\nThe reason I left is because he has been leaving me out of his life completely for over three months. He became a bit depressed, started going out with his friends four times a week and not bringing me along, spent a ridiculous amount of money on going out, started being interested in pot although I'm deathly allergic to it, and also developed feelings for a girl he works with (and refused to let us meet when I became suspicious). We took a break, then got back together, then broke up, then got back together. I finally left last week because he told me about his feelings for that girl and he also threatened me and my pets because he got angry. \n\nI took the pets and some essentials and left. \nHe has been calling and texting and messaging non stop. He says all the right things and it drives me crazy because I love him and I want to believe him, but I just can't trust him anymore. \n\nI haven't responded to anything. I know I can block him, but a part of me really wants to see him get better and see if we can rebuild our relationship. The other part of me thinks that he'll never change and I should move on. \n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I know it hasn't been long at all, but there hasn't been a day this week that he hasn't called, texted, or sent a Facebook message. \n\nThe reason I left is because he has been leaving me out of his life completely for over three months. He became a bit depressed, started going out with his friends four times a week and not bringing me along, spent a ridiculous amount of money on going out, started being interested in pot although I'm deathly allergic to it, and also developed feelings for a girl he works with (and refused to let us meet when I became suspicious). We took a break, then got back together, then broke up, then got back together. I finally left last week because he told me about his feelings for that girl and he also threatened me and my pets because he got angry. \n\nI took the pets and some essentials and left. \nHe has been calling and texting and messaging non stop. He says all the right things and it drives me crazy because I love him and I want to believe him, but I just can't trust him anymore. \n\nI haven't responded to anything. I know I can block him, but a part of me really wants to see him get better and see if we can rebuild our relationship. The other part of me thinks that he'll never change and I should move on. \n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I know it hasn't been long at all, but there hasn't been a day this week that he hasn't called, texted, or sent a Facebook message. \n\nThe reason I left is because he has been leaving me out of his life completely for over three months. He became a bit depressed, started going out with his friends four times a week and not bringing me along, spent a ridiculous amount of money on going out, started being interested in pot although I'm deathly allergic to it, and also developed feelings for a girl he works with (and refused to let us meet when I became suspicious). We took a break, then got back together, then broke up, then got back together. I finally left last week because he told me about his feelings for that girl and he also threatened me and my pets because he got angry. \n\nI took the pets and some essentials and left. \nHe has been calling and texting and messaging non stop. He says all the right things and it drives me crazy because I love him and I want to believe him, but I just can't trust him anymore. \n\nI haven't responded to anything. I know I can block him, but a part of me really wants to see him get better and see if we can rebuild our relationship. The other part of me thinks that he'll never change and I should move on. \n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I know it hasn't been long at all, but there hasn't been a day this week that he hasn't called, texted, or sent a Facebook message. \n\nThe reason I left is because he has been leaving me out of his life completely for over three months. He became a bit depressed, started going out with his friends four times a week and not bringing me along, spent a ridiculous amount of money on going out, started being interested in pot although I'm deathly allergic to it, and also developed feelings for a girl he works with (and refused to let us meet when I became suspicious). We took a break, then got back together, then broke up, then got back together. I finally left last week because he told me about his feelings for that girl and he also threatened me and my pets because he got angry. \n\nI took the pets and some essentials and left. \nHe has been calling and texting and messaging non stop. He says all the right things and it drives me crazy because I love him and I want to believe him, but I just can't trust him anymore. \n\nI haven't responded to anything. I know I can block him, but a part of me really wants to see him get better and see if we can rebuild our relationship. The other part of me thinks that he'll never change and I should move on. \n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Do you think it is a huge issue when the female is older? I've been seeing this girl for a bit over three weeks. She is really sweet and we seem really into each other. However I know she has concerns about the age gap. Very early she said oh you're too young for me. Since we have spent a lot of time together. we had the exclusivity chat after she brought it up because she had another date lined up which she cancelled because \"it would feel weird going on the date now without talking to you about it\". Yet the next day she told me she had doubts about committing to someone so young due to body clocks etc. I said that I wasn't going to waste her time, in two or three years kids wouldn't be completely ruled out, and that she could date someone much older for a while and they could not want kids, and we should just do what feels right. She agreed and we made plans for our next three dates. Yet the next day she asks if I have any doubts about exclusivity so early.\n\nDo you think this gap is too big?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Do you think it is a huge issue when the female is older? I've been seeing this girl for a bit over three weeks. She is really sweet and we seem really into each other. However I know she has concerns about the age gap. Very early she said oh you're too young for me. Since we have spent a lot of time together. we had the exclusivity chat after she brought it up because she had another date lined up which she cancelled because \"it would feel weird going on the date now without talking to you about it\". Yet the next day she told me she had doubts about committing to someone so young due to body clocks etc. I said that I wasn't going to waste her time, in two or three years kids wouldn't be completely ruled out, and that she could date someone much older for a while and they could not want kids, and we should just do what feels right. She agreed and we made plans for our next three dates. Yet the next day she asks if I have any doubts about exclusivity so early.\n\nDo you think this gap is too big?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Do you think it is a huge issue when the female is older? I've been seeing this girl for a bit over three weeks. She is really sweet and we seem really into each other. However I know she has concerns about the age gap. Very early she said oh you're too young for me. Since we have spent a lot of time together. we had the exclusivity chat after she brought it up because she had another date lined up which she cancelled because \"it would feel weird going on the date now without talking to you about it\". Yet the next day she told me she had doubts about committing to someone so young due to body clocks etc. I said that I wasn't going to waste her time, in two or three years kids wouldn't be completely ruled out, and that she could date someone much older for a while and they could not want kids, and we should just do what feels right. She agreed and we made plans for our next three dates. Yet the next day she asks if I have any doubts about exclusivity so early.\n\nDo you think this gap is too big?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Do you think it is a huge issue when the female is older? I've been seeing this girl for a bit over three weeks. She is really sweet and we seem really into each other. However I know she has concerns about the age gap. Very early she said oh you're too young for me. Since we have spent a lot of time together. we had the exclusivity chat after she brought it up because she had another date lined up which she cancelled because \"it would feel weird going on the date now without talking to you about it\". Yet the next day she told me she had doubts about committing to someone so young due to body clocks etc. I said that I wasn't going to waste her time, in two or three years kids wouldn't be completely ruled out, and that she could date someone much older for a while and they could not want kids, and we should just do what feels right. She agreed and we made plans for our next three dates. Yet the next day she asks if I have any doubts about exclusivity so early.\n\nDo you think this gap is too big?"
} |
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