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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months a couple of weeks ago because I just didn't like him anymore and our personalities were different. At 4 months, I wasn't especially invested in the relationship yet and got over the relationship even before it ended, once I realised our how different we were.\n\nHowever, when I broke up with him he broke down and started a long rant about how his life and friends and family were absolute shit and I that I was the best thing that happened to him. According to him I gave him self-confidence and now that we've broken up he will have to go back to hating himself. He also said that all his emotional investment has went down the drain. When I heard that a million red flags popped up in my head and I got so damn freaked out so I knew I had to get out ASAP. There is absolutely no way I want to be used to complete someone's life, what a huge burden that is. Despite this I still feel terrible for hurting him, especially after all he said about his life. Am I a horrible person for breaking up with him? I can't help but feel guilty about the entire affair. Also, I just don't understand why is he so emotionally invested in a relationship that has only been around for a few months?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months a couple of weeks ago because I just didn't like him anymore and our personalities were different. At 4 months, I wasn't especially invested in the relationship yet and got over the relationship even before it ended, once I realised our how different we were.\n\nHowever, when I broke up with him he broke down and started a long rant about how his life and friends and family were absolute shit and I that I was the best thing that happened to him. According to him I gave him self-confidence and now that we've broken up he will have to go back to hating himself. He also said that all his emotional investment has went down the drain. When I heard that a million red flags popped up in my head and I got so damn freaked out so I knew I had to get out ASAP. There is absolutely no way I want to be used to complete someone's life, what a huge burden that is. Despite this I still feel terrible for hurting him, especially after all he said about his life. Am I a horrible person for breaking up with him? I can't help but feel guilty about the entire affair. Also, I just don't understand why is he so emotionally invested in a relationship that has only been around for a few months?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months a couple of weeks ago because I just didn't like him anymore and our personalities were different. At 4 months, I wasn't especially invested in the relationship yet and got over the relationship even before it ended, once I realised our how different we were.\n\nHowever, when I broke up with him he broke down and started a long rant about how his life and friends and family were absolute shit and I that I was the best thing that happened to him. According to him I gave him self-confidence and now that we've broken up he will have to go back to hating himself. He also said that all his emotional investment has went down the drain. When I heard that a million red flags popped up in my head and I got so damn freaked out so I knew I had to get out ASAP. There is absolutely no way I want to be used to complete someone's life, what a huge burden that is. Despite this I still feel terrible for hurting him, especially after all he said about his life. Am I a horrible person for breaking up with him? I can't help but feel guilty about the entire affair. Also, I just don't understand why is he so emotionally invested in a relationship that has only been around for a few months?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: During the last years of high school I had a gf and she used to come over a lot. One time she came over and a mutual friend did as well. After a while, she asked me if I could come follow her into my room meanwhile my friend stayed in the next room. She proceeds to close the door and we end up having sex. While my friend is sitting next door and i am fairly sure he could hear the whole thing. Oh and it was during the day about 3 o'clock and my parents where home as well. About half way done my mom knocked on the door and asked what was going on and why my friend was alone in one room and me and my gf at the time in the other.\nSo what is your douche thing you did reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: During the last years of high school I had a gf and she used to come over a lot. One time she came over and a mutual friend did as well. After a while, she asked me if I could come follow her into my room meanwhile my friend stayed in the next room. She proceeds to close the door and we end up having sex. While my friend is sitting next door and i am fairly sure he could hear the whole thing. Oh and it was during the day about 3 o'clock and my parents where home as well. About half way done my mom knocked on the door and asked what was going on and why my friend was alone in one room and me and my gf at the time in the other.\nSo what is your douche thing you did reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: During the last years of high school I had a gf and she used to come over a lot. One time she came over and a mutual friend did as well. After a while, she asked me if I could come follow her into my room meanwhile my friend stayed in the next room. She proceeds to close the door and we end up having sex. While my friend is sitting next door and i am fairly sure he could hear the whole thing. Oh and it was during the day about 3 o'clock and my parents where home as well. About half way done my mom knocked on the door and asked what was going on and why my friend was alone in one room and me and my gf at the time in the other.\nSo what is your douche thing you did reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: During the last years of high school I had a gf and she used to come over a lot. One time she came over and a mutual friend did as well. After a while, she asked me if I could come follow her into my room meanwhile my friend stayed in the next room. She proceeds to close the door and we end up having sex. While my friend is sitting next door and i am fairly sure he could hear the whole thing. Oh and it was during the day about 3 o'clock and my parents where home as well. About half way done my mom knocked on the door and asked what was going on and why my friend was alone in one room and me and my gf at the time in the other.\nSo what is your douche thing you did reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: During the last years of high school I had a gf and she used to come over a lot. One time she came over and a mutual friend did as well. After a while, she asked me if I could come follow her into my room meanwhile my friend stayed in the next room. She proceeds to close the door and we end up having sex. While my friend is sitting next door and i am fairly sure he could hear the whole thing. Oh and it was during the day about 3 o'clock and my parents where home as well. About half way done my mom knocked on the door and asked what was going on and why my friend was alone in one room and me and my gf at the time in the other.\nSo what is your douche thing you did reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: During the last years of high school I had a gf and she used to come over a lot. One time she came over and a mutual friend did as well. After a while, she asked me if I could come follow her into my room meanwhile my friend stayed in the next room. She proceeds to close the door and we end up having sex. While my friend is sitting next door and i am fairly sure he could hear the whole thing. Oh and it was during the day about 3 o'clock and my parents where home as well. About half way done my mom knocked on the door and asked what was going on and why my friend was alone in one room and me and my gf at the time in the other.\nSo what is your douche thing you did reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had an interview at a job a few weeks ago at a place related to my major. They wanted me to come in for a working interview for a few hours just to see how I liked the place and for them to see if I was a good fit. The only problem was the job required set hours that interfered with my current job, but they said they'd try to work around it.\n\nI contacted the manager before the scheduled interview and told her that with my other job and school, I just didn't know if I could handle the stress of a second job (which was a job I really wanted and would quit my first job for it. another problem I tried to get over was I get $13/hr at my current job and this other job would start at $8/hr).\n\nIt's been several weeks since I turned down the working interview and I've done nothing but regret my decision. I've been really considering contacting the manager back and asking if they'd be willing to let me do the working interview. I've been thinking about putting in my two weeks at my other job. I don't care about the money anymore; I just want to be happy when I go to work.\n\nWould it be completely stupid to contact the job that I actually want and let them know my schedule would be freed up so I could commit to their scheduling? I really want that job and they were pretty excited about having me come in for a working interview. I just don't want to sound like an asshole for \"begging\" for the working interview. and they may have already hired someone else for the position now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had an interview at a job a few weeks ago at a place related to my major. They wanted me to come in for a working interview for a few hours just to see how I liked the place and for them to see if I was a good fit. The only problem was the job required set hours that interfered with my current job, but they said they'd try to work around it.\n\nI contacted the manager before the scheduled interview and told her that with my other job and school, I just didn't know if I could handle the stress of a second job (which was a job I really wanted and would quit my first job for it. another problem I tried to get over was I get $13/hr at my current job and this other job would start at $8/hr).\n\nIt's been several weeks since I turned down the working interview and I've done nothing but regret my decision. I've been really considering contacting the manager back and asking if they'd be willing to let me do the working interview. I've been thinking about putting in my two weeks at my other job. I don't care about the money anymore; I just want to be happy when I go to work.\n\nWould it be completely stupid to contact the job that I actually want and let them know my schedule would be freed up so I could commit to their scheduling? I really want that job and they were pretty excited about having me come in for a working interview. I just don't want to sound like an asshole for \"begging\" for the working interview. and they may have already hired someone else for the position now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had an interview at a job a few weeks ago at a place related to my major. They wanted me to come in for a working interview for a few hours just to see how I liked the place and for them to see if I was a good fit. The only problem was the job required set hours that interfered with my current job, but they said they'd try to work around it.\n\nI contacted the manager before the scheduled interview and told her that with my other job and school, I just didn't know if I could handle the stress of a second job (which was a job I really wanted and would quit my first job for it. another problem I tried to get over was I get $13/hr at my current job and this other job would start at $8/hr).\n\nIt's been several weeks since I turned down the working interview and I've done nothing but regret my decision. I've been really considering contacting the manager back and asking if they'd be willing to let me do the working interview. I've been thinking about putting in my two weeks at my other job. I don't care about the money anymore; I just want to be happy when I go to work.\n\nWould it be completely stupid to contact the job that I actually want and let them know my schedule would be freed up so I could commit to their scheduling? I really want that job and they were pretty excited about having me come in for a working interview. I just don't want to sound like an asshole for \"begging\" for the working interview. and they may have already hired someone else for the position now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had an interview at a job a few weeks ago at a place related to my major. They wanted me to come in for a working interview for a few hours just to see how I liked the place and for them to see if I was a good fit. The only problem was the job required set hours that interfered with my current job, but they said they'd try to work around it.\n\nI contacted the manager before the scheduled interview and told her that with my other job and school, I just didn't know if I could handle the stress of a second job (which was a job I really wanted and would quit my first job for it. another problem I tried to get over was I get $13/hr at my current job and this other job would start at $8/hr).\n\nIt's been several weeks since I turned down the working interview and I've done nothing but regret my decision. I've been really considering contacting the manager back and asking if they'd be willing to let me do the working interview. I've been thinking about putting in my two weeks at my other job. I don't care about the money anymore; I just want to be happy when I go to work.\n\nWould it be completely stupid to contact the job that I actually want and let them know my schedule would be freed up so I could commit to their scheduling? I really want that job and they were pretty excited about having me come in for a working interview. I just don't want to sound like an asshole for \"begging\" for the working interview. and they may have already hired someone else for the position now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had an interview at a job a few weeks ago at a place related to my major. They wanted me to come in for a working interview for a few hours just to see how I liked the place and for them to see if I was a good fit. The only problem was the job required set hours that interfered with my current job, but they said they'd try to work around it.\n\nI contacted the manager before the scheduled interview and told her that with my other job and school, I just didn't know if I could handle the stress of a second job (which was a job I really wanted and would quit my first job for it. another problem I tried to get over was I get $13/hr at my current job and this other job would start at $8/hr).\n\nIt's been several weeks since I turned down the working interview and I've done nothing but regret my decision. I've been really considering contacting the manager back and asking if they'd be willing to let me do the working interview. I've been thinking about putting in my two weeks at my other job. I don't care about the money anymore; I just want to be happy when I go to work.\n\nWould it be completely stupid to contact the job that I actually want and let them know my schedule would be freed up so I could commit to their scheduling? I really want that job and they were pretty excited about having me come in for a working interview. I just don't want to sound like an asshole for \"begging\" for the working interview. and they may have already hired someone else for the position now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had an interview at a job a few weeks ago at a place related to my major. They wanted me to come in for a working interview for a few hours just to see how I liked the place and for them to see if I was a good fit. The only problem was the job required set hours that interfered with my current job, but they said they'd try to work around it.\n\nI contacted the manager before the scheduled interview and told her that with my other job and school, I just didn't know if I could handle the stress of a second job (which was a job I really wanted and would quit my first job for it. another problem I tried to get over was I get $13/hr at my current job and this other job would start at $8/hr).\n\nIt's been several weeks since I turned down the working interview and I've done nothing but regret my decision. I've been really considering contacting the manager back and asking if they'd be willing to let me do the working interview. I've been thinking about putting in my two weeks at my other job. I don't care about the money anymore; I just want to be happy when I go to work.\n\nWould it be completely stupid to contact the job that I actually want and let them know my schedule would be freed up so I could commit to their scheduling? I really want that job and they were pretty excited about having me come in for a working interview. I just don't want to sound like an asshole for \"begging\" for the working interview. and they may have already hired someone else for the position now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, last week I met this guy who came into my office to wait for a friend. We ended up having a lot of things in common and talked for quite awhile. I could tell he was interested, but I was not. Before he left, he asked what I was doing when I got off work. I didn't lie - I told him I had another commitment which happened to be a fundraiser dinner I was hosting that night. I told him he was more than welcome to come to that - as we were trying to get the word out to as many people as possible.\n\nI realized after the fact that it was a really stupid thing for me to do. He wasn't able to come to the dinner, but texted me later to say why. I said it was okay, and assumed that was the end of it.\n\nHe texted me the next day, and then the day after that. I got freaked out and didn't respond until a few days later. I'm not interested in dating him - though he is nice and I think he would make a good friend. I also have feelings for someone else, which puts even more of a hamper on it. \n\nI finally texted him back yesterday, just saying \"Hi, how's it going?\". Today at work, he called me to ask what I was doing tomorrow after work.\n\nI don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to be rude, but I'm just not interested in going out on any kind of date with him, and I feel like that's what he's getting at. \n\nHelp me, Reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, last week I met this guy who came into my office to wait for a friend. We ended up having a lot of things in common and talked for quite awhile. I could tell he was interested, but I was not. Before he left, he asked what I was doing when I got off work. I didn't lie - I told him I had another commitment which happened to be a fundraiser dinner I was hosting that night. I told him he was more than welcome to come to that - as we were trying to get the word out to as many people as possible.\n\nI realized after the fact that it was a really stupid thing for me to do. He wasn't able to come to the dinner, but texted me later to say why. I said it was okay, and assumed that was the end of it.\n\nHe texted me the next day, and then the day after that. I got freaked out and didn't respond until a few days later. I'm not interested in dating him - though he is nice and I think he would make a good friend. I also have feelings for someone else, which puts even more of a hamper on it. \n\nI finally texted him back yesterday, just saying \"Hi, how's it going?\". Today at work, he called me to ask what I was doing tomorrow after work.\n\nI don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to be rude, but I'm just not interested in going out on any kind of date with him, and I feel like that's what he's getting at. \n\nHelp me, Reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, last week I met this guy who came into my office to wait for a friend. We ended up having a lot of things in common and talked for quite awhile. I could tell he was interested, but I was not. Before he left, he asked what I was doing when I got off work. I didn't lie - I told him I had another commitment which happened to be a fundraiser dinner I was hosting that night. I told him he was more than welcome to come to that - as we were trying to get the word out to as many people as possible.\n\nI realized after the fact that it was a really stupid thing for me to do. He wasn't able to come to the dinner, but texted me later to say why. I said it was okay, and assumed that was the end of it.\n\nHe texted me the next day, and then the day after that. I got freaked out and didn't respond until a few days later. I'm not interested in dating him - though he is nice and I think he would make a good friend. I also have feelings for someone else, which puts even more of a hamper on it. \n\nI finally texted him back yesterday, just saying \"Hi, how's it going?\". Today at work, he called me to ask what I was doing tomorrow after work.\n\nI don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to be rude, but I'm just not interested in going out on any kind of date with him, and I feel like that's what he's getting at. \n\nHelp me, Reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, last week I met this guy who came into my office to wait for a friend. We ended up having a lot of things in common and talked for quite awhile. I could tell he was interested, but I was not. Before he left, he asked what I was doing when I got off work. I didn't lie - I told him I had another commitment which happened to be a fundraiser dinner I was hosting that night. I told him he was more than welcome to come to that - as we were trying to get the word out to as many people as possible.\n\nI realized after the fact that it was a really stupid thing for me to do. He wasn't able to come to the dinner, but texted me later to say why. I said it was okay, and assumed that was the end of it.\n\nHe texted me the next day, and then the day after that. I got freaked out and didn't respond until a few days later. I'm not interested in dating him - though he is nice and I think he would make a good friend. I also have feelings for someone else, which puts even more of a hamper on it. \n\nI finally texted him back yesterday, just saying \"Hi, how's it going?\". Today at work, he called me to ask what I was doing tomorrow after work.\n\nI don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to be rude, but I'm just not interested in going out on any kind of date with him, and I feel like that's what he's getting at. \n\nHelp me, Reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, last week I met this guy who came into my office to wait for a friend. We ended up having a lot of things in common and talked for quite awhile. I could tell he was interested, but I was not. Before he left, he asked what I was doing when I got off work. I didn't lie - I told him I had another commitment which happened to be a fundraiser dinner I was hosting that night. I told him he was more than welcome to come to that - as we were trying to get the word out to as many people as possible.\n\nI realized after the fact that it was a really stupid thing for me to do. He wasn't able to come to the dinner, but texted me later to say why. I said it was okay, and assumed that was the end of it.\n\nHe texted me the next day, and then the day after that. I got freaked out and didn't respond until a few days later. I'm not interested in dating him - though he is nice and I think he would make a good friend. I also have feelings for someone else, which puts even more of a hamper on it. \n\nI finally texted him back yesterday, just saying \"Hi, how's it going?\". Today at work, he called me to ask what I was doing tomorrow after work.\n\nI don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to be rude, but I'm just not interested in going out on any kind of date with him, and I feel like that's what he's getting at. \n\nHelp me, Reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, last week I met this guy who came into my office to wait for a friend. We ended up having a lot of things in common and talked for quite awhile. I could tell he was interested, but I was not. Before he left, he asked what I was doing when I got off work. I didn't lie - I told him I had another commitment which happened to be a fundraiser dinner I was hosting that night. I told him he was more than welcome to come to that - as we were trying to get the word out to as many people as possible.\n\nI realized after the fact that it was a really stupid thing for me to do. He wasn't able to come to the dinner, but texted me later to say why. I said it was okay, and assumed that was the end of it.\n\nHe texted me the next day, and then the day after that. I got freaked out and didn't respond until a few days later. I'm not interested in dating him - though he is nice and I think he would make a good friend. I also have feelings for someone else, which puts even more of a hamper on it. \n\nI finally texted him back yesterday, just saying \"Hi, how's it going?\". Today at work, he called me to ask what I was doing tomorrow after work.\n\nI don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to be rude, but I'm just not interested in going out on any kind of date with him, and I feel like that's what he's getting at. \n\nHelp me, Reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\nMy brother (27) has schizophrenia. Last year he had a bad episode and said some terrible incestuous things to me when he was in the mental hospital. He had those thoughts when he was developing schizophrenia around when he was 22. He is currently on wellbutrin solely to finish college as it is the only medication he claims helps him concentrate. Most of his grades without it are failing. \n\nHe was prescribed a combination of 2 medications after he left the mental hospital that he said helped him but made him gain weight, so he refuses to take them. Currently, the wellbutrin was found to be the cause of his last episode and I believe he is about to have another one.\n\nLiving situation: I am currently renting the bottom of a 2 family house with my boyfriend. My brother and my mother live upstairs as he is not able to take care of himself.\n\nProblem\n\nMy brother has always had a fixation on people respecting him, and is extremely sensitive to anyone disrespecting him or calling/implying that is stupid. He gets irrationally angry, saying that it was \"the way s/he said it\" or fixates on the fact that \"you gave me attitude and you were saying I'm stupid\"\n\nI try to talk to him with an even voice, although he infuriates me from time to time. I know that even a slight deviation from an even, calm voice he takes as aggressive or some sort of disrespect.\n\nLately he's been very angry at me and our mother. He insists that we are calling him stupid or disrespecting him and he blows up on us about it even though we NEVER said that he was stupid.\n\nI have no idea how to handle this. I'm afraid he's at the point where he thinks that everyone is against him It's such a drastic change that has only happened this last week. He's always been fixated on some respect he believes he deserves, but he's very fast to assume things and is now ending with yelling and aggression."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\nMy brother (27) has schizophrenia. Last year he had a bad episode and said some terrible incestuous things to me when he was in the mental hospital. He had those thoughts when he was developing schizophrenia around when he was 22. He is currently on wellbutrin solely to finish college as it is the only medication he claims helps him concentrate. Most of his grades without it are failing. \n\nHe was prescribed a combination of 2 medications after he left the mental hospital that he said helped him but made him gain weight, so he refuses to take them. Currently, the wellbutrin was found to be the cause of his last episode and I believe he is about to have another one.\n\nLiving situation: I am currently renting the bottom of a 2 family house with my boyfriend. My brother and my mother live upstairs as he is not able to take care of himself.\n\nProblem\n\nMy brother has always had a fixation on people respecting him, and is extremely sensitive to anyone disrespecting him or calling/implying that is stupid. He gets irrationally angry, saying that it was \"the way s/he said it\" or fixates on the fact that \"you gave me attitude and you were saying I'm stupid\"\n\nI try to talk to him with an even voice, although he infuriates me from time to time. I know that even a slight deviation from an even, calm voice he takes as aggressive or some sort of disrespect.\n\nLately he's been very angry at me and our mother. He insists that we are calling him stupid or disrespecting him and he blows up on us about it even though we NEVER said that he was stupid.\n\nI have no idea how to handle this. I'm afraid he's at the point where he thinks that everyone is against him It's such a drastic change that has only happened this last week. He's always been fixated on some respect he believes he deserves, but he's very fast to assume things and is now ending with yelling and aggression."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\nMy brother (27) has schizophrenia. Last year he had a bad episode and said some terrible incestuous things to me when he was in the mental hospital. He had those thoughts when he was developing schizophrenia around when he was 22. He is currently on wellbutrin solely to finish college as it is the only medication he claims helps him concentrate. Most of his grades without it are failing. \n\nHe was prescribed a combination of 2 medications after he left the mental hospital that he said helped him but made him gain weight, so he refuses to take them. Currently, the wellbutrin was found to be the cause of his last episode and I believe he is about to have another one.\n\nLiving situation: I am currently renting the bottom of a 2 family house with my boyfriend. My brother and my mother live upstairs as he is not able to take care of himself.\n\nProblem\n\nMy brother has always had a fixation on people respecting him, and is extremely sensitive to anyone disrespecting him or calling/implying that is stupid. He gets irrationally angry, saying that it was \"the way s/he said it\" or fixates on the fact that \"you gave me attitude and you were saying I'm stupid\"\n\nI try to talk to him with an even voice, although he infuriates me from time to time. I know that even a slight deviation from an even, calm voice he takes as aggressive or some sort of disrespect.\n\nLately he's been very angry at me and our mother. He insists that we are calling him stupid or disrespecting him and he blows up on us about it even though we NEVER said that he was stupid.\n\nI have no idea how to handle this. I'm afraid he's at the point where he thinks that everyone is against him It's such a drastic change that has only happened this last week. He's always been fixated on some respect he believes he deserves, but he's very fast to assume things and is now ending with yelling and aggression."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\nMy brother (27) has schizophrenia. Last year he had a bad episode and said some terrible incestuous things to me when he was in the mental hospital. He had those thoughts when he was developing schizophrenia around when he was 22. He is currently on wellbutrin solely to finish college as it is the only medication he claims helps him concentrate. Most of his grades without it are failing. \n\nHe was prescribed a combination of 2 medications after he left the mental hospital that he said helped him but made him gain weight, so he refuses to take them. Currently, the wellbutrin was found to be the cause of his last episode and I believe he is about to have another one.\n\nLiving situation: I am currently renting the bottom of a 2 family house with my boyfriend. My brother and my mother live upstairs as he is not able to take care of himself.\n\nProblem\n\nMy brother has always had a fixation on people respecting him, and is extremely sensitive to anyone disrespecting him or calling/implying that is stupid. He gets irrationally angry, saying that it was \"the way s/he said it\" or fixates on the fact that \"you gave me attitude and you were saying I'm stupid\"\n\nI try to talk to him with an even voice, although he infuriates me from time to time. I know that even a slight deviation from an even, calm voice he takes as aggressive or some sort of disrespect.\n\nLately he's been very angry at me and our mother. He insists that we are calling him stupid or disrespecting him and he blows up on us about it even though we NEVER said that he was stupid.\n\nI have no idea how to handle this. I'm afraid he's at the point where he thinks that everyone is against him It's such a drastic change that has only happened this last week. He's always been fixated on some respect he believes he deserves, but he's very fast to assume things and is now ending with yelling and aggression."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\nMy brother (27) has schizophrenia. Last year he had a bad episode and said some terrible incestuous things to me when he was in the mental hospital. He had those thoughts when he was developing schizophrenia around when he was 22. He is currently on wellbutrin solely to finish college as it is the only medication he claims helps him concentrate. Most of his grades without it are failing. \n\nHe was prescribed a combination of 2 medications after he left the mental hospital that he said helped him but made him gain weight, so he refuses to take them. Currently, the wellbutrin was found to be the cause of his last episode and I believe he is about to have another one.\n\nLiving situation: I am currently renting the bottom of a 2 family house with my boyfriend. My brother and my mother live upstairs as he is not able to take care of himself.\n\nProblem\n\nMy brother has always had a fixation on people respecting him, and is extremely sensitive to anyone disrespecting him or calling/implying that is stupid. He gets irrationally angry, saying that it was \"the way s/he said it\" or fixates on the fact that \"you gave me attitude and you were saying I'm stupid\"\n\nI try to talk to him with an even voice, although he infuriates me from time to time. I know that even a slight deviation from an even, calm voice he takes as aggressive or some sort of disrespect.\n\nLately he's been very angry at me and our mother. He insists that we are calling him stupid or disrespecting him and he blows up on us about it even though we NEVER said that he was stupid.\n\nI have no idea how to handle this. I'm afraid he's at the point where he thinks that everyone is against him It's such a drastic change that has only happened this last week. He's always been fixated on some respect he believes he deserves, but he's very fast to assume things and is now ending with yelling and aggression."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\nMy brother (27) has schizophrenia. Last year he had a bad episode and said some terrible incestuous things to me when he was in the mental hospital. He had those thoughts when he was developing schizophrenia around when he was 22. He is currently on wellbutrin solely to finish college as it is the only medication he claims helps him concentrate. Most of his grades without it are failing. \n\nHe was prescribed a combination of 2 medications after he left the mental hospital that he said helped him but made him gain weight, so he refuses to take them. Currently, the wellbutrin was found to be the cause of his last episode and I believe he is about to have another one.\n\nLiving situation: I am currently renting the bottom of a 2 family house with my boyfriend. My brother and my mother live upstairs as he is not able to take care of himself.\n\nProblem\n\nMy brother has always had a fixation on people respecting him, and is extremely sensitive to anyone disrespecting him or calling/implying that is stupid. He gets irrationally angry, saying that it was \"the way s/he said it\" or fixates on the fact that \"you gave me attitude and you were saying I'm stupid\"\n\nI try to talk to him with an even voice, although he infuriates me from time to time. I know that even a slight deviation from an even, calm voice he takes as aggressive or some sort of disrespect.\n\nLately he's been very angry at me and our mother. He insists that we are calling him stupid or disrespecting him and he blows up on us about it even though we NEVER said that he was stupid.\n\nI have no idea how to handle this. I'm afraid he's at the point where he thinks that everyone is against him It's such a drastic change that has only happened this last week. He's always been fixated on some respect he believes he deserves, but he's very fast to assume things and is now ending with yelling and aggression."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My dog used to itch her skin off. For years. Got to the point she'd see the vet just for this several times a year. After some research (vets, like big Pharma want to treat not cure) I went grain free with her and literally overnight she was a million times better; skin, coat, stool, gas, and itching.\nFast forward a few years and now she has kidney issues. Again a sucker to the vet he puts her on science diet k/d. This helped with her excessive drinking and peeing but due to grains she now is trying to scratch her skin off again.\n\nLow phosphorus is recommended for kidney issues mostly.\n\nWe now have to options.\n\n1) keep her on k/d and let her kidneys survive while she is so itchy in her own skin she is miserable, \n\nOr\n\n2) Go back grain free and let her enjoy life which will end prematurely within a year due to kidney failure.\n\nIf it was me I'd rather be comfortable and happy for the shorter time. She's ten so has only got a few more healthy years anyway.\n\nI am too busy to go raw or fresh cooked every night so I am looking for something extremely low in phosphorus) (less than point 5% like the k/d) and still be grain free. Wet is preferred as it helps with water intake, but I'll try anything at this point. I am currently awaiting return emails from Blue Buffalo Wilderness which was recommended. Problem is all dog foods don't have phosphorus amounts labeled."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My dog used to itch her skin off. For years. Got to the point she'd see the vet just for this several times a year. After some research (vets, like big Pharma want to treat not cure) I went grain free with her and literally overnight she was a million times better; skin, coat, stool, gas, and itching.\nFast forward a few years and now she has kidney issues. Again a sucker to the vet he puts her on science diet k/d. This helped with her excessive drinking and peeing but due to grains she now is trying to scratch her skin off again.\n\nLow phosphorus is recommended for kidney issues mostly.\n\nWe now have to options.\n\n1) keep her on k/d and let her kidneys survive while she is so itchy in her own skin she is miserable, \n\nOr\n\n2) Go back grain free and let her enjoy life which will end prematurely within a year due to kidney failure.\n\nIf it was me I'd rather be comfortable and happy for the shorter time. She's ten so has only got a few more healthy years anyway.\n\nI am too busy to go raw or fresh cooked every night so I am looking for something extremely low in phosphorus) (less than point 5% like the k/d) and still be grain free. Wet is preferred as it helps with water intake, but I'll try anything at this point. I am currently awaiting return emails from Blue Buffalo Wilderness which was recommended. Problem is all dog foods don't have phosphorus amounts labeled."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My dog used to itch her skin off. For years. Got to the point she'd see the vet just for this several times a year. After some research (vets, like big Pharma want to treat not cure) I went grain free with her and literally overnight she was a million times better; skin, coat, stool, gas, and itching.\nFast forward a few years and now she has kidney issues. Again a sucker to the vet he puts her on science diet k/d. This helped with her excessive drinking and peeing but due to grains she now is trying to scratch her skin off again.\n\nLow phosphorus is recommended for kidney issues mostly.\n\nWe now have to options.\n\n1) keep her on k/d and let her kidneys survive while she is so itchy in her own skin she is miserable, \n\nOr\n\n2) Go back grain free and let her enjoy life which will end prematurely within a year due to kidney failure.\n\nIf it was me I'd rather be comfortable and happy for the shorter time. She's ten so has only got a few more healthy years anyway.\n\nI am too busy to go raw or fresh cooked every night so I am looking for something extremely low in phosphorus) (less than point 5% like the k/d) and still be grain free. Wet is preferred as it helps with water intake, but I'll try anything at this point. I am currently awaiting return emails from Blue Buffalo Wilderness which was recommended. Problem is all dog foods don't have phosphorus amounts labeled."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My dog used to itch her skin off. For years. Got to the point she'd see the vet just for this several times a year. After some research (vets, like big Pharma want to treat not cure) I went grain free with her and literally overnight she was a million times better; skin, coat, stool, gas, and itching.\nFast forward a few years and now she has kidney issues. Again a sucker to the vet he puts her on science diet k/d. This helped with her excessive drinking and peeing but due to grains she now is trying to scratch her skin off again.\n\nLow phosphorus is recommended for kidney issues mostly.\n\nWe now have to options.\n\n1) keep her on k/d and let her kidneys survive while she is so itchy in her own skin she is miserable, \n\nOr\n\n2) Go back grain free and let her enjoy life which will end prematurely within a year due to kidney failure.\n\nIf it was me I'd rather be comfortable and happy for the shorter time. She's ten so has only got a few more healthy years anyway.\n\nI am too busy to go raw or fresh cooked every night so I am looking for something extremely low in phosphorus) (less than point 5% like the k/d) and still be grain free. Wet is preferred as it helps with water intake, but I'll try anything at this point. I am currently awaiting return emails from Blue Buffalo Wilderness which was recommended. Problem is all dog foods don't have phosphorus amounts labeled."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My dog used to itch her skin off. For years. Got to the point she'd see the vet just for this several times a year. After some research (vets, like big Pharma want to treat not cure) I went grain free with her and literally overnight she was a million times better; skin, coat, stool, gas, and itching.\nFast forward a few years and now she has kidney issues. Again a sucker to the vet he puts her on science diet k/d. This helped with her excessive drinking and peeing but due to grains she now is trying to scratch her skin off again.\n\nLow phosphorus is recommended for kidney issues mostly.\n\nWe now have to options.\n\n1) keep her on k/d and let her kidneys survive while she is so itchy in her own skin she is miserable, \n\nOr\n\n2) Go back grain free and let her enjoy life which will end prematurely within a year due to kidney failure.\n\nIf it was me I'd rather be comfortable and happy for the shorter time. She's ten so has only got a few more healthy years anyway.\n\nI am too busy to go raw or fresh cooked every night so I am looking for something extremely low in phosphorus) (less than point 5% like the k/d) and still be grain free. Wet is preferred as it helps with water intake, but I'll try anything at this point. I am currently awaiting return emails from Blue Buffalo Wilderness which was recommended. Problem is all dog foods don't have phosphorus amounts labeled."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My dog used to itch her skin off. For years. Got to the point she'd see the vet just for this several times a year. After some research (vets, like big Pharma want to treat not cure) I went grain free with her and literally overnight she was a million times better; skin, coat, stool, gas, and itching.\nFast forward a few years and now she has kidney issues. Again a sucker to the vet he puts her on science diet k/d. This helped with her excessive drinking and peeing but due to grains she now is trying to scratch her skin off again.\n\nLow phosphorus is recommended for kidney issues mostly.\n\nWe now have to options.\n\n1) keep her on k/d and let her kidneys survive while she is so itchy in her own skin she is miserable, \n\nOr\n\n2) Go back grain free and let her enjoy life which will end prematurely within a year due to kidney failure.\n\nIf it was me I'd rather be comfortable and happy for the shorter time. She's ten so has only got a few more healthy years anyway.\n\nI am too busy to go raw or fresh cooked every night so I am looking for something extremely low in phosphorus) (less than point 5% like the k/d) and still be grain free. Wet is preferred as it helps with water intake, but I'll try anything at this point. I am currently awaiting return emails from Blue Buffalo Wilderness which was recommended. Problem is all dog foods don't have phosphorus amounts labeled."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I basically think about her almost everyday. I can't get her out of my head. It's like I'm bound to her or something. Her smile is soo cute I couldn't help falling in love with her. I basically 'melt in her hands'. But I think she doesn't like me back, she showed some interest signals but I think she was rather polite than flirting. Now, even though I think she doesn't like me, because she almost never looks at me (I can see her look at me from my peripheral vision) but if I try to make eye contact with her she seems to be in a conversation with someone else and not paying attention to me at all. Now I have to forget her completely because it's ruining my life, I seem to focus so much on her. If I continue thinking about her I'll become miserable and I'll probably end up suffering.\n\nWhat should I do? As I said, it doesn't matter if I see her or not, my mind just messes around with thoughts about that girl and I can't resist the temptation to look at her twitter to see if she has tweeted or sent a message regarding her crush."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I basically think about her almost everyday. I can't get her out of my head. It's like I'm bound to her or something. Her smile is soo cute I couldn't help falling in love with her. I basically 'melt in her hands'. But I think she doesn't like me back, she showed some interest signals but I think she was rather polite than flirting. Now, even though I think she doesn't like me, because she almost never looks at me (I can see her look at me from my peripheral vision) but if I try to make eye contact with her she seems to be in a conversation with someone else and not paying attention to me at all. Now I have to forget her completely because it's ruining my life, I seem to focus so much on her. If I continue thinking about her I'll become miserable and I'll probably end up suffering.\n\nWhat should I do? As I said, it doesn't matter if I see her or not, my mind just messes around with thoughts about that girl and I can't resist the temptation to look at her twitter to see if she has tweeted or sent a message regarding her crush."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so heres the story:\n\nI organised to go to the casino with a couple friends (4 of us) awhile back as I was invited by my cousin to go and he asked me to bring some friends as a celebration for finishing year 12. \n\nOne of the friends (the one in the title, i'll refer to as X) the night before we go invites another person into the facebook chat where we discussed the details for when we go out. Me and this person do not get along whatsoever, so I shortly removed him from the group.\n\nSoon after we have a fight over facebook about how X thinks I'm being a dick and I explained to him that we don't get along and I don't want to sacrifice my happiness just so he can tag along and spoil the night for me. X decides he isn't going to go.\n\nThe rest of my friends bail on me as well, I was pretty pissed but let it go as another friend opted to come with me instead, so we went and had a good time with none of the original members going except me.\n\nNow heres the issue, the next day X goes out to the exact same place with the friends that I had asked as well as the guy i don't like, and they snapchat me the night away. I was really cut about this, I mean, who wouldn't be?\n\nI haven't spoken to X since then and he is making it out that I am acting like a \"little bitch\" for taking this personally, who is in the wrong here? Obviously i left out some stuff but I wanted to keep this semi short."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so heres the story:\n\nI organised to go to the casino with a couple friends (4 of us) awhile back as I was invited by my cousin to go and he asked me to bring some friends as a celebration for finishing year 12. \n\nOne of the friends (the one in the title, i'll refer to as X) the night before we go invites another person into the facebook chat where we discussed the details for when we go out. Me and this person do not get along whatsoever, so I shortly removed him from the group.\n\nSoon after we have a fight over facebook about how X thinks I'm being a dick and I explained to him that we don't get along and I don't want to sacrifice my happiness just so he can tag along and spoil the night for me. X decides he isn't going to go.\n\nThe rest of my friends bail on me as well, I was pretty pissed but let it go as another friend opted to come with me instead, so we went and had a good time with none of the original members going except me.\n\nNow heres the issue, the next day X goes out to the exact same place with the friends that I had asked as well as the guy i don't like, and they snapchat me the night away. I was really cut about this, I mean, who wouldn't be?\n\nI haven't spoken to X since then and he is making it out that I am acting like a \"little bitch\" for taking this personally, who is in the wrong here? Obviously i left out some stuff but I wanted to keep this semi short."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so heres the story:\n\nI organised to go to the casino with a couple friends (4 of us) awhile back as I was invited by my cousin to go and he asked me to bring some friends as a celebration for finishing year 12. \n\nOne of the friends (the one in the title, i'll refer to as X) the night before we go invites another person into the facebook chat where we discussed the details for when we go out. Me and this person do not get along whatsoever, so I shortly removed him from the group.\n\nSoon after we have a fight over facebook about how X thinks I'm being a dick and I explained to him that we don't get along and I don't want to sacrifice my happiness just so he can tag along and spoil the night for me. X decides he isn't going to go.\n\nThe rest of my friends bail on me as well, I was pretty pissed but let it go as another friend opted to come with me instead, so we went and had a good time with none of the original members going except me.\n\nNow heres the issue, the next day X goes out to the exact same place with the friends that I had asked as well as the guy i don't like, and they snapchat me the night away. I was really cut about this, I mean, who wouldn't be?\n\nI haven't spoken to X since then and he is making it out that I am acting like a \"little bitch\" for taking this personally, who is in the wrong here? Obviously i left out some stuff but I wanted to keep this semi short."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so heres the story:\n\nI organised to go to the casino with a couple friends (4 of us) awhile back as I was invited by my cousin to go and he asked me to bring some friends as a celebration for finishing year 12. \n\nOne of the friends (the one in the title, i'll refer to as X) the night before we go invites another person into the facebook chat where we discussed the details for when we go out. Me and this person do not get along whatsoever, so I shortly removed him from the group.\n\nSoon after we have a fight over facebook about how X thinks I'm being a dick and I explained to him that we don't get along and I don't want to sacrifice my happiness just so he can tag along and spoil the night for me. X decides he isn't going to go.\n\nThe rest of my friends bail on me as well, I was pretty pissed but let it go as another friend opted to come with me instead, so we went and had a good time with none of the original members going except me.\n\nNow heres the issue, the next day X goes out to the exact same place with the friends that I had asked as well as the guy i don't like, and they snapchat me the night away. I was really cut about this, I mean, who wouldn't be?\n\nI haven't spoken to X since then and he is making it out that I am acting like a \"little bitch\" for taking this personally, who is in the wrong here? Obviously i left out some stuff but I wanted to keep this semi short."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so heres the story:\n\nI organised to go to the casino with a couple friends (4 of us) awhile back as I was invited by my cousin to go and he asked me to bring some friends as a celebration for finishing year 12. \n\nOne of the friends (the one in the title, i'll refer to as X) the night before we go invites another person into the facebook chat where we discussed the details for when we go out. Me and this person do not get along whatsoever, so I shortly removed him from the group.\n\nSoon after we have a fight over facebook about how X thinks I'm being a dick and I explained to him that we don't get along and I don't want to sacrifice my happiness just so he can tag along and spoil the night for me. X decides he isn't going to go.\n\nThe rest of my friends bail on me as well, I was pretty pissed but let it go as another friend opted to come with me instead, so we went and had a good time with none of the original members going except me.\n\nNow heres the issue, the next day X goes out to the exact same place with the friends that I had asked as well as the guy i don't like, and they snapchat me the night away. I was really cut about this, I mean, who wouldn't be?\n\nI haven't spoken to X since then and he is making it out that I am acting like a \"little bitch\" for taking this personally, who is in the wrong here? Obviously i left out some stuff but I wanted to keep this semi short."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so heres the story:\n\nI organised to go to the casino with a couple friends (4 of us) awhile back as I was invited by my cousin to go and he asked me to bring some friends as a celebration for finishing year 12. \n\nOne of the friends (the one in the title, i'll refer to as X) the night before we go invites another person into the facebook chat where we discussed the details for when we go out. Me and this person do not get along whatsoever, so I shortly removed him from the group.\n\nSoon after we have a fight over facebook about how X thinks I'm being a dick and I explained to him that we don't get along and I don't want to sacrifice my happiness just so he can tag along and spoil the night for me. X decides he isn't going to go.\n\nThe rest of my friends bail on me as well, I was pretty pissed but let it go as another friend opted to come with me instead, so we went and had a good time with none of the original members going except me.\n\nNow heres the issue, the next day X goes out to the exact same place with the friends that I had asked as well as the guy i don't like, and they snapchat me the night away. I was really cut about this, I mean, who wouldn't be?\n\nI haven't spoken to X since then and he is making it out that I am acting like a \"little bitch\" for taking this personally, who is in the wrong here? Obviously i left out some stuff but I wanted to keep this semi short."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So My girlfriend and I have been together for four years next week, we have also been living together for almost 2 of those four years. She has given me until our anniversary to propose or she is going to move out\\leave me. First let me say that I love her with all my heart, but am i crazy to think that we may be rushing into this? The thought of getting engaged scares the crap out of me. All she ever talks about is how sure she is that i am the one and she wouldn't even have to think twice about the situation. I can totally see us together for the rest of our lives, but why now? She is about to quit her job and go back to school full time. We can hardly afford our bills as of now. (are these even reasons not to get engaged?) The worst part is i practically shut down when we try to talk about it. I can't imagine life with out her but I hate the feeling that I have to do this by a deadline. I have known about this deadline for almost a year by the way, and the fact that I am talking about this even to you guys is a big deal for me. I plan on talking with her tonight as i understand how shitty it is for me to come this close to the deadline without making a decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So My girlfriend and I have been together for four years next week, we have also been living together for almost 2 of those four years. She has given me until our anniversary to propose or she is going to move out\\leave me. First let me say that I love her with all my heart, but am i crazy to think that we may be rushing into this? The thought of getting engaged scares the crap out of me. All she ever talks about is how sure she is that i am the one and she wouldn't even have to think twice about the situation. I can totally see us together for the rest of our lives, but why now? She is about to quit her job and go back to school full time. We can hardly afford our bills as of now. (are these even reasons not to get engaged?) The worst part is i practically shut down when we try to talk about it. I can't imagine life with out her but I hate the feeling that I have to do this by a deadline. I have known about this deadline for almost a year by the way, and the fact that I am talking about this even to you guys is a big deal for me. I plan on talking with her tonight as i understand how shitty it is for me to come this close to the deadline without making a decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So My girlfriend and I have been together for four years next week, we have also been living together for almost 2 of those four years. She has given me until our anniversary to propose or she is going to move out\\leave me. First let me say that I love her with all my heart, but am i crazy to think that we may be rushing into this? The thought of getting engaged scares the crap out of me. All she ever talks about is how sure she is that i am the one and she wouldn't even have to think twice about the situation. I can totally see us together for the rest of our lives, but why now? She is about to quit her job and go back to school full time. We can hardly afford our bills as of now. (are these even reasons not to get engaged?) The worst part is i practically shut down when we try to talk about it. I can't imagine life with out her but I hate the feeling that I have to do this by a deadline. I have known about this deadline for almost a year by the way, and the fact that I am talking about this even to you guys is a big deal for me. I plan on talking with her tonight as i understand how shitty it is for me to come this close to the deadline without making a decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So My girlfriend and I have been together for four years next week, we have also been living together for almost 2 of those four years. She has given me until our anniversary to propose or she is going to move out\\leave me. First let me say that I love her with all my heart, but am i crazy to think that we may be rushing into this? The thought of getting engaged scares the crap out of me. All she ever talks about is how sure she is that i am the one and she wouldn't even have to think twice about the situation. I can totally see us together for the rest of our lives, but why now? She is about to quit her job and go back to school full time. We can hardly afford our bills as of now. (are these even reasons not to get engaged?) The worst part is i practically shut down when we try to talk about it. I can't imagine life with out her but I hate the feeling that I have to do this by a deadline. I have known about this deadline for almost a year by the way, and the fact that I am talking about this even to you guys is a big deal for me. I plan on talking with her tonight as i understand how shitty it is for me to come this close to the deadline without making a decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So My girlfriend and I have been together for four years next week, we have also been living together for almost 2 of those four years. She has given me until our anniversary to propose or she is going to move out\\leave me. First let me say that I love her with all my heart, but am i crazy to think that we may be rushing into this? The thought of getting engaged scares the crap out of me. All she ever talks about is how sure she is that i am the one and she wouldn't even have to think twice about the situation. I can totally see us together for the rest of our lives, but why now? She is about to quit her job and go back to school full time. We can hardly afford our bills as of now. (are these even reasons not to get engaged?) The worst part is i practically shut down when we try to talk about it. I can't imagine life with out her but I hate the feeling that I have to do this by a deadline. I have known about this deadline for almost a year by the way, and the fact that I am talking about this even to you guys is a big deal for me. I plan on talking with her tonight as i understand how shitty it is for me to come this close to the deadline without making a decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So My girlfriend and I have been together for four years next week, we have also been living together for almost 2 of those four years. She has given me until our anniversary to propose or she is going to move out\\leave me. First let me say that I love her with all my heart, but am i crazy to think that we may be rushing into this? The thought of getting engaged scares the crap out of me. All she ever talks about is how sure she is that i am the one and she wouldn't even have to think twice about the situation. I can totally see us together for the rest of our lives, but why now? She is about to quit her job and go back to school full time. We can hardly afford our bills as of now. (are these even reasons not to get engaged?) The worst part is i practically shut down when we try to talk about it. I can't imagine life with out her but I hate the feeling that I have to do this by a deadline. I have known about this deadline for almost a year by the way, and the fact that I am talking about this even to you guys is a big deal for me. I plan on talking with her tonight as i understand how shitty it is for me to come this close to the deadline without making a decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, here it goes. I've been in the process of a divorce for over 2 years now. That process however has been my soon to be ex calling me asking for money to file (around $500 ish) and spending it on w/e she wanted to, then calling me back and saying she missed her court date and had to re file. I know i shouldnt have bought it in the first place, but we are seperating out of hatred (not yet) or anything just mutual reasons. We still get along and are friends. well were. After 3 or more times of sending her money for a \"divorce\" all the while sending her additional money for groceries and to help with her son, cause she is a drug addict who is in rehab/recovery i decided enough is enough. So i filed myself and sent her papers. Now. there is no problem except she has this new found need for stuff she left in my house over 2 years ago. I have moved 3 times since then and some of it genuinely go lost or misplaced. but the bulk of her stuff i trashed in a drunked rampage after she pretty much was taking advantage of how nice a person i am and willing to help her with her money problems. So i was drunk packing up to move and everything that reminded me of her i trashed, blindly i trashed all of it nothing remains. Now i remember after the fact that some of that stuff was . pictures and other things she had of her mother who had passed away i feel shitty because i have to tell her i threw it all in the dump. but regardless im not telling her for atleast another 2 weeks until we are legally finally divorced. does that make me a horrible person? I sure feel like it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, here it goes. I've been in the process of a divorce for over 2 years now. That process however has been my soon to be ex calling me asking for money to file (around $500 ish) and spending it on w/e she wanted to, then calling me back and saying she missed her court date and had to re file. I know i shouldnt have bought it in the first place, but we are seperating out of hatred (not yet) or anything just mutual reasons. We still get along and are friends. well were. After 3 or more times of sending her money for a \"divorce\" all the while sending her additional money for groceries and to help with her son, cause she is a drug addict who is in rehab/recovery i decided enough is enough. So i filed myself and sent her papers. Now. there is no problem except she has this new found need for stuff she left in my house over 2 years ago. I have moved 3 times since then and some of it genuinely go lost or misplaced. but the bulk of her stuff i trashed in a drunked rampage after she pretty much was taking advantage of how nice a person i am and willing to help her with her money problems. So i was drunk packing up to move and everything that reminded me of her i trashed, blindly i trashed all of it nothing remains. Now i remember after the fact that some of that stuff was . pictures and other things she had of her mother who had passed away i feel shitty because i have to tell her i threw it all in the dump. but regardless im not telling her for atleast another 2 weeks until we are legally finally divorced. does that make me a horrible person? I sure feel like it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, here it goes. I've been in the process of a divorce for over 2 years now. That process however has been my soon to be ex calling me asking for money to file (around $500 ish) and spending it on w/e she wanted to, then calling me back and saying she missed her court date and had to re file. I know i shouldnt have bought it in the first place, but we are seperating out of hatred (not yet) or anything just mutual reasons. We still get along and are friends. well were. After 3 or more times of sending her money for a \"divorce\" all the while sending her additional money for groceries and to help with her son, cause she is a drug addict who is in rehab/recovery i decided enough is enough. So i filed myself and sent her papers. Now. there is no problem except she has this new found need for stuff she left in my house over 2 years ago. I have moved 3 times since then and some of it genuinely go lost or misplaced. but the bulk of her stuff i trashed in a drunked rampage after she pretty much was taking advantage of how nice a person i am and willing to help her with her money problems. So i was drunk packing up to move and everything that reminded me of her i trashed, blindly i trashed all of it nothing remains. Now i remember after the fact that some of that stuff was . pictures and other things she had of her mother who had passed away i feel shitty because i have to tell her i threw it all in the dump. but regardless im not telling her for atleast another 2 weeks until we are legally finally divorced. does that make me a horrible person? I sure feel like it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, here it goes. I've been in the process of a divorce for over 2 years now. That process however has been my soon to be ex calling me asking for money to file (around $500 ish) and spending it on w/e she wanted to, then calling me back and saying she missed her court date and had to re file. I know i shouldnt have bought it in the first place, but we are seperating out of hatred (not yet) or anything just mutual reasons. We still get along and are friends. well were. After 3 or more times of sending her money for a \"divorce\" all the while sending her additional money for groceries and to help with her son, cause she is a drug addict who is in rehab/recovery i decided enough is enough. So i filed myself and sent her papers. Now. there is no problem except she has this new found need for stuff she left in my house over 2 years ago. I have moved 3 times since then and some of it genuinely go lost or misplaced. but the bulk of her stuff i trashed in a drunked rampage after she pretty much was taking advantage of how nice a person i am and willing to help her with her money problems. So i was drunk packing up to move and everything that reminded me of her i trashed, blindly i trashed all of it nothing remains. Now i remember after the fact that some of that stuff was . pictures and other things she had of her mother who had passed away i feel shitty because i have to tell her i threw it all in the dump. but regardless im not telling her for atleast another 2 weeks until we are legally finally divorced. does that make me a horrible person? I sure feel like it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, here it goes. I've been in the process of a divorce for over 2 years now. That process however has been my soon to be ex calling me asking for money to file (around $500 ish) and spending it on w/e she wanted to, then calling me back and saying she missed her court date and had to re file. I know i shouldnt have bought it in the first place, but we are seperating out of hatred (not yet) or anything just mutual reasons. We still get along and are friends. well were. After 3 or more times of sending her money for a \"divorce\" all the while sending her additional money for groceries and to help with her son, cause she is a drug addict who is in rehab/recovery i decided enough is enough. So i filed myself and sent her papers. Now. there is no problem except she has this new found need for stuff she left in my house over 2 years ago. I have moved 3 times since then and some of it genuinely go lost or misplaced. but the bulk of her stuff i trashed in a drunked rampage after she pretty much was taking advantage of how nice a person i am and willing to help her with her money problems. So i was drunk packing up to move and everything that reminded me of her i trashed, blindly i trashed all of it nothing remains. Now i remember after the fact that some of that stuff was . pictures and other things she had of her mother who had passed away i feel shitty because i have to tell her i threw it all in the dump. but regardless im not telling her for atleast another 2 weeks until we are legally finally divorced. does that make me a horrible person? I sure feel like it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, here it goes. I've been in the process of a divorce for over 2 years now. That process however has been my soon to be ex calling me asking for money to file (around $500 ish) and spending it on w/e she wanted to, then calling me back and saying she missed her court date and had to re file. I know i shouldnt have bought it in the first place, but we are seperating out of hatred (not yet) or anything just mutual reasons. We still get along and are friends. well were. After 3 or more times of sending her money for a \"divorce\" all the while sending her additional money for groceries and to help with her son, cause she is a drug addict who is in rehab/recovery i decided enough is enough. So i filed myself and sent her papers. Now. there is no problem except she has this new found need for stuff she left in my house over 2 years ago. I have moved 3 times since then and some of it genuinely go lost or misplaced. but the bulk of her stuff i trashed in a drunked rampage after she pretty much was taking advantage of how nice a person i am and willing to help her with her money problems. So i was drunk packing up to move and everything that reminded me of her i trashed, blindly i trashed all of it nothing remains. Now i remember after the fact that some of that stuff was . pictures and other things she had of her mother who had passed away i feel shitty because i have to tell her i threw it all in the dump. but regardless im not telling her for atleast another 2 weeks until we are legally finally divorced. does that make me a horrible person? I sure feel like it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Being an introvert, I don't like opening up. I occasionally open up to my SO but it's either I'm too stressed out or I feel a necessary to voice my opinions. My SO is an extrovert (and she constantly tease me about it, but that's besides the point) and she complains about me not talking to her enough. Sometimes, I come home after school/doing work and I'm exhausted and I enjoy listening to her, and today I opened up and complained about some miscommunication between us (some of her really mean teases that were uncomfortable, her friend whom I dislike) and she feels like I suddenly changed. Her original words was \"back in the past, you're complimenting me, every time you talk now you are complaining about me.\" I didn't really mean it like that, it's just that i feel like she wanted me to talk and when I started talking she's not ok with it. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Being an introvert, I don't like opening up. I occasionally open up to my SO but it's either I'm too stressed out or I feel a necessary to voice my opinions. My SO is an extrovert (and she constantly tease me about it, but that's besides the point) and she complains about me not talking to her enough. Sometimes, I come home after school/doing work and I'm exhausted and I enjoy listening to her, and today I opened up and complained about some miscommunication between us (some of her really mean teases that were uncomfortable, her friend whom I dislike) and she feels like I suddenly changed. Her original words was \"back in the past, you're complimenting me, every time you talk now you are complaining about me.\" I didn't really mean it like that, it's just that i feel like she wanted me to talk and when I started talking she's not ok with it. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Being an introvert, I don't like opening up. I occasionally open up to my SO but it's either I'm too stressed out or I feel a necessary to voice my opinions. My SO is an extrovert (and she constantly tease me about it, but that's besides the point) and she complains about me not talking to her enough. Sometimes, I come home after school/doing work and I'm exhausted and I enjoy listening to her, and today I opened up and complained about some miscommunication between us (some of her really mean teases that were uncomfortable, her friend whom I dislike) and she feels like I suddenly changed. Her original words was \"back in the past, you're complimenting me, every time you talk now you are complaining about me.\" I didn't really mean it like that, it's just that i feel like she wanted me to talk and when I started talking she's not ok with it. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Being an introvert, I don't like opening up. I occasionally open up to my SO but it's either I'm too stressed out or I feel a necessary to voice my opinions. My SO is an extrovert (and she constantly tease me about it, but that's besides the point) and she complains about me not talking to her enough. Sometimes, I come home after school/doing work and I'm exhausted and I enjoy listening to her, and today I opened up and complained about some miscommunication between us (some of her really mean teases that were uncomfortable, her friend whom I dislike) and she feels like I suddenly changed. Her original words was \"back in the past, you're complimenting me, every time you talk now you are complaining about me.\" I didn't really mean it like that, it's just that i feel like she wanted me to talk and when I started talking she's not ok with it. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Being an introvert, I don't like opening up. I occasionally open up to my SO but it's either I'm too stressed out or I feel a necessary to voice my opinions. My SO is an extrovert (and she constantly tease me about it, but that's besides the point) and she complains about me not talking to her enough. Sometimes, I come home after school/doing work and I'm exhausted and I enjoy listening to her, and today I opened up and complained about some miscommunication between us (some of her really mean teases that were uncomfortable, her friend whom I dislike) and she feels like I suddenly changed. Her original words was \"back in the past, you're complimenting me, every time you talk now you are complaining about me.\" I didn't really mean it like that, it's just that i feel like she wanted me to talk and when I started talking she's not ok with it. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize I'm super duper young. But I've never caught a break with dating. My first serious girlfriend at 16 convinced me to commit suicide. I failed and she left me. My second girlfriend, a year after the first one, turned out to be the \"treat me like a princess\" kind of girl who shamed me because I had severe depression at the time. My third relationship lasted for 2 years and we lived together for 14 months. This last one broke it off without reason and brought another man to our home a week later. And she said I was at fault because I wasn't supposed to catch her in the act. I used over 10 000 euros to provide for the both of us and she just left me. I believe the last thing she said to me was \"my boyfriend will kill you\".\n\nI am a troubled man. I am too kind, my sense of empathy is too strong and I'm not tough enough. This really is a serious problem. I can't live for myself, I find it easier to please others and experience happiness through their joy. I would do anything for others. I always put myself and my interests aside to comfort or please others. And in dating worlds, this is the recipe for a disaster. Don't women like men who would do anything for them? Men who would lay down their life for them? Every woman has said to me \"it's not me, it's you\" or \"I'm leaving you, because you are you\".\n\nI understand that a relationship is to be shared and both parties should keep the things that make them unique. Instead of sacrificing everything for the relationship. Because after it ends, you're stuck for months trying to reclaim your own identity.\n\nBut what the hell am I doing wrong? I'm starting to think that there's no one out there for me. Please, anything helps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize I'm super duper young. But I've never caught a break with dating. My first serious girlfriend at 16 convinced me to commit suicide. I failed and she left me. My second girlfriend, a year after the first one, turned out to be the \"treat me like a princess\" kind of girl who shamed me because I had severe depression at the time. My third relationship lasted for 2 years and we lived together for 14 months. This last one broke it off without reason and brought another man to our home a week later. And she said I was at fault because I wasn't supposed to catch her in the act. I used over 10 000 euros to provide for the both of us and she just left me. I believe the last thing she said to me was \"my boyfriend will kill you\".\n\nI am a troubled man. I am too kind, my sense of empathy is too strong and I'm not tough enough. This really is a serious problem. I can't live for myself, I find it easier to please others and experience happiness through their joy. I would do anything for others. I always put myself and my interests aside to comfort or please others. And in dating worlds, this is the recipe for a disaster. Don't women like men who would do anything for them? Men who would lay down their life for them? Every woman has said to me \"it's not me, it's you\" or \"I'm leaving you, because you are you\".\n\nI understand that a relationship is to be shared and both parties should keep the things that make them unique. Instead of sacrificing everything for the relationship. Because after it ends, you're stuck for months trying to reclaim your own identity.\n\nBut what the hell am I doing wrong? I'm starting to think that there's no one out there for me. Please, anything helps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize I'm super duper young. But I've never caught a break with dating. My first serious girlfriend at 16 convinced me to commit suicide. I failed and she left me. My second girlfriend, a year after the first one, turned out to be the \"treat me like a princess\" kind of girl who shamed me because I had severe depression at the time. My third relationship lasted for 2 years and we lived together for 14 months. This last one broke it off without reason and brought another man to our home a week later. And she said I was at fault because I wasn't supposed to catch her in the act. I used over 10 000 euros to provide for the both of us and she just left me. I believe the last thing she said to me was \"my boyfriend will kill you\".\n\nI am a troubled man. I am too kind, my sense of empathy is too strong and I'm not tough enough. This really is a serious problem. I can't live for myself, I find it easier to please others and experience happiness through their joy. I would do anything for others. I always put myself and my interests aside to comfort or please others. And in dating worlds, this is the recipe for a disaster. Don't women like men who would do anything for them? Men who would lay down their life for them? Every woman has said to me \"it's not me, it's you\" or \"I'm leaving you, because you are you\".\n\nI understand that a relationship is to be shared and both parties should keep the things that make them unique. Instead of sacrificing everything for the relationship. Because after it ends, you're stuck for months trying to reclaim your own identity.\n\nBut what the hell am I doing wrong? I'm starting to think that there's no one out there for me. Please, anything helps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize I'm super duper young. But I've never caught a break with dating. My first serious girlfriend at 16 convinced me to commit suicide. I failed and she left me. My second girlfriend, a year after the first one, turned out to be the \"treat me like a princess\" kind of girl who shamed me because I had severe depression at the time. My third relationship lasted for 2 years and we lived together for 14 months. This last one broke it off without reason and brought another man to our home a week later. And she said I was at fault because I wasn't supposed to catch her in the act. I used over 10 000 euros to provide for the both of us and she just left me. I believe the last thing she said to me was \"my boyfriend will kill you\".\n\nI am a troubled man. I am too kind, my sense of empathy is too strong and I'm not tough enough. This really is a serious problem. I can't live for myself, I find it easier to please others and experience happiness through their joy. I would do anything for others. I always put myself and my interests aside to comfort or please others. And in dating worlds, this is the recipe for a disaster. Don't women like men who would do anything for them? Men who would lay down their life for them? Every woman has said to me \"it's not me, it's you\" or \"I'm leaving you, because you are you\".\n\nI understand that a relationship is to be shared and both parties should keep the things that make them unique. Instead of sacrificing everything for the relationship. Because after it ends, you're stuck for months trying to reclaim your own identity.\n\nBut what the hell am I doing wrong? I'm starting to think that there's no one out there for me. Please, anything helps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize I'm super duper young. But I've never caught a break with dating. My first serious girlfriend at 16 convinced me to commit suicide. I failed and she left me. My second girlfriend, a year after the first one, turned out to be the \"treat me like a princess\" kind of girl who shamed me because I had severe depression at the time. My third relationship lasted for 2 years and we lived together for 14 months. This last one broke it off without reason and brought another man to our home a week later. And she said I was at fault because I wasn't supposed to catch her in the act. I used over 10 000 euros to provide for the both of us and she just left me. I believe the last thing she said to me was \"my boyfriend will kill you\".\n\nI am a troubled man. I am too kind, my sense of empathy is too strong and I'm not tough enough. This really is a serious problem. I can't live for myself, I find it easier to please others and experience happiness through their joy. I would do anything for others. I always put myself and my interests aside to comfort or please others. And in dating worlds, this is the recipe for a disaster. Don't women like men who would do anything for them? Men who would lay down their life for them? Every woman has said to me \"it's not me, it's you\" or \"I'm leaving you, because you are you\".\n\nI understand that a relationship is to be shared and both parties should keep the things that make them unique. Instead of sacrificing everything for the relationship. Because after it ends, you're stuck for months trying to reclaim your own identity.\n\nBut what the hell am I doing wrong? I'm starting to think that there's no one out there for me. Please, anything helps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize I'm super duper young. But I've never caught a break with dating. My first serious girlfriend at 16 convinced me to commit suicide. I failed and she left me. My second girlfriend, a year after the first one, turned out to be the \"treat me like a princess\" kind of girl who shamed me because I had severe depression at the time. My third relationship lasted for 2 years and we lived together for 14 months. This last one broke it off without reason and brought another man to our home a week later. And she said I was at fault because I wasn't supposed to catch her in the act. I used over 10 000 euros to provide for the both of us and she just left me. I believe the last thing she said to me was \"my boyfriend will kill you\".\n\nI am a troubled man. I am too kind, my sense of empathy is too strong and I'm not tough enough. This really is a serious problem. I can't live for myself, I find it easier to please others and experience happiness through their joy. I would do anything for others. I always put myself and my interests aside to comfort or please others. And in dating worlds, this is the recipe for a disaster. Don't women like men who would do anything for them? Men who would lay down their life for them? Every woman has said to me \"it's not me, it's you\" or \"I'm leaving you, because you are you\".\n\nI understand that a relationship is to be shared and both parties should keep the things that make them unique. Instead of sacrificing everything for the relationship. Because after it ends, you're stuck for months trying to reclaim your own identity.\n\nBut what the hell am I doing wrong? I'm starting to think that there's no one out there for me. Please, anything helps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend lives with her male cousin. She and I are 22 he is 29, he always acts weird around her - does things that puts red flags up in my head. like hugging her for too long and the like. I always just assumed I was crazy. they are cousins after all.\n\nRecently he left the house to go on errands, thinking that no one was home. I had slept over, and was waking up. I went into his room to grab something I left there, and on his computer monitor was a facebook picture of my girlfriend (his cousin) In a bikini, with handcuffs photo shopped in, and a gag photo shopped onto her mouth.\n\nObviously this is more than a simple crush, and it is freaking me right out. What do I do in this situation? He doesn't know I know, and she sure as hell doesn't know anything. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend lives with her male cousin. She and I are 22 he is 29, he always acts weird around her - does things that puts red flags up in my head. like hugging her for too long and the like. I always just assumed I was crazy. they are cousins after all.\n\nRecently he left the house to go on errands, thinking that no one was home. I had slept over, and was waking up. I went into his room to grab something I left there, and on his computer monitor was a facebook picture of my girlfriend (his cousin) In a bikini, with handcuffs photo shopped in, and a gag photo shopped onto her mouth.\n\nObviously this is more than a simple crush, and it is freaking me right out. What do I do in this situation? He doesn't know I know, and she sure as hell doesn't know anything. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend lives with her male cousin. She and I are 22 he is 29, he always acts weird around her - does things that puts red flags up in my head. like hugging her for too long and the like. I always just assumed I was crazy. they are cousins after all.\n\nRecently he left the house to go on errands, thinking that no one was home. I had slept over, and was waking up. I went into his room to grab something I left there, and on his computer monitor was a facebook picture of my girlfriend (his cousin) In a bikini, with handcuffs photo shopped in, and a gag photo shopped onto her mouth.\n\nObviously this is more than a simple crush, and it is freaking me right out. What do I do in this situation? He doesn't know I know, and she sure as hell doesn't know anything. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend lives with her male cousin. She and I are 22 he is 29, he always acts weird around her - does things that puts red flags up in my head. like hugging her for too long and the like. I always just assumed I was crazy. they are cousins after all.\n\nRecently he left the house to go on errands, thinking that no one was home. I had slept over, and was waking up. I went into his room to grab something I left there, and on his computer monitor was a facebook picture of my girlfriend (his cousin) In a bikini, with handcuffs photo shopped in, and a gag photo shopped onto her mouth.\n\nObviously this is more than a simple crush, and it is freaking me right out. What do I do in this situation? He doesn't know I know, and she sure as hell doesn't know anything. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend lives with her male cousin. She and I are 22 he is 29, he always acts weird around her - does things that puts red flags up in my head. like hugging her for too long and the like. I always just assumed I was crazy. they are cousins after all.\n\nRecently he left the house to go on errands, thinking that no one was home. I had slept over, and was waking up. I went into his room to grab something I left there, and on his computer monitor was a facebook picture of my girlfriend (his cousin) In a bikini, with handcuffs photo shopped in, and a gag photo shopped onto her mouth.\n\nObviously this is more than a simple crush, and it is freaking me right out. What do I do in this situation? He doesn't know I know, and she sure as hell doesn't know anything. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend lives with her male cousin. She and I are 22 he is 29, he always acts weird around her - does things that puts red flags up in my head. like hugging her for too long and the like. I always just assumed I was crazy. they are cousins after all.\n\nRecently he left the house to go on errands, thinking that no one was home. I had slept over, and was waking up. I went into his room to grab something I left there, and on his computer monitor was a facebook picture of my girlfriend (his cousin) In a bikini, with handcuffs photo shopped in, and a gag photo shopped onto her mouth.\n\nObviously this is more than a simple crush, and it is freaking me right out. What do I do in this situation? He doesn't know I know, and she sure as hell doesn't know anything. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey people of Reddit! \n\nMy girlfriend (Anna) and I have met in university at a party, we ended up hitting it off and that was pretty much the kick start of what I can only describe as the greatest 4 years of my life. She's truly an amazing person, I love her and I can truly see this going into marriage someday.\n\nHowever, she has a friend (lets call her Sarah) who isn't very fond of me, to this day I have no clue why and I've tried to get her to be on better terms but to no avail, she wont budge. Throughout our relationship Sarah has always tried to set my GF up with a friend of hers or some guy she met off Tinder, Anna has declined these offers and continues to.\n\nLast week Sarah came over for dinner and while I was making some food I overheard Sarah talking to Anna about her recent string of sexcapades with dudes she hooked up with, she made constant remarks about how they were a lot buffer than I was, taller than I was. I go to the gym regularly and while I don't have a rock hard set of abs, I'm fit. Anyhow after that painfully awkward dinner me and Anna went to bed. \n\nThree days later after that night Anna sat me down and asked me what would happen if she accidentally cheated on me and after a silent stare of anger from me she asked me if she could give the casual hookup lifestyle a try for a while, I was livid and told her to get out immediately. Our sex life is pretty great, we have sex almost everyday and try new things. I am honestly territorial in the sense that I don't want another man in or around her womanly regions.\n\nSince then she's been texting and calling me non stop claiming that it was a joke and that I'm going to have to open up to the idea of other bringing other partners into the bedroom, fuck no.\n\nI truly do love her but I'm no push over, what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey people of Reddit! \n\nMy girlfriend (Anna) and I have met in university at a party, we ended up hitting it off and that was pretty much the kick start of what I can only describe as the greatest 4 years of my life. She's truly an amazing person, I love her and I can truly see this going into marriage someday.\n\nHowever, she has a friend (lets call her Sarah) who isn't very fond of me, to this day I have no clue why and I've tried to get her to be on better terms but to no avail, she wont budge. Throughout our relationship Sarah has always tried to set my GF up with a friend of hers or some guy she met off Tinder, Anna has declined these offers and continues to.\n\nLast week Sarah came over for dinner and while I was making some food I overheard Sarah talking to Anna about her recent string of sexcapades with dudes she hooked up with, she made constant remarks about how they were a lot buffer than I was, taller than I was. I go to the gym regularly and while I don't have a rock hard set of abs, I'm fit. Anyhow after that painfully awkward dinner me and Anna went to bed. \n\nThree days later after that night Anna sat me down and asked me what would happen if she accidentally cheated on me and after a silent stare of anger from me she asked me if she could give the casual hookup lifestyle a try for a while, I was livid and told her to get out immediately. Our sex life is pretty great, we have sex almost everyday and try new things. I am honestly territorial in the sense that I don't want another man in or around her womanly regions.\n\nSince then she's been texting and calling me non stop claiming that it was a joke and that I'm going to have to open up to the idea of other bringing other partners into the bedroom, fuck no.\n\nI truly do love her but I'm no push over, what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey people of Reddit! \n\nMy girlfriend (Anna) and I have met in university at a party, we ended up hitting it off and that was pretty much the kick start of what I can only describe as the greatest 4 years of my life. She's truly an amazing person, I love her and I can truly see this going into marriage someday.\n\nHowever, she has a friend (lets call her Sarah) who isn't very fond of me, to this day I have no clue why and I've tried to get her to be on better terms but to no avail, she wont budge. Throughout our relationship Sarah has always tried to set my GF up with a friend of hers or some guy she met off Tinder, Anna has declined these offers and continues to.\n\nLast week Sarah came over for dinner and while I was making some food I overheard Sarah talking to Anna about her recent string of sexcapades with dudes she hooked up with, she made constant remarks about how they were a lot buffer than I was, taller than I was. I go to the gym regularly and while I don't have a rock hard set of abs, I'm fit. Anyhow after that painfully awkward dinner me and Anna went to bed. \n\nThree days later after that night Anna sat me down and asked me what would happen if she accidentally cheated on me and after a silent stare of anger from me she asked me if she could give the casual hookup lifestyle a try for a while, I was livid and told her to get out immediately. Our sex life is pretty great, we have sex almost everyday and try new things. I am honestly territorial in the sense that I don't want another man in or around her womanly regions.\n\nSince then she's been texting and calling me non stop claiming that it was a joke and that I'm going to have to open up to the idea of other bringing other partners into the bedroom, fuck no.\n\nI truly do love her but I'm no push over, what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey people of Reddit! \n\nMy girlfriend (Anna) and I have met in university at a party, we ended up hitting it off and that was pretty much the kick start of what I can only describe as the greatest 4 years of my life. She's truly an amazing person, I love her and I can truly see this going into marriage someday.\n\nHowever, she has a friend (lets call her Sarah) who isn't very fond of me, to this day I have no clue why and I've tried to get her to be on better terms but to no avail, she wont budge. Throughout our relationship Sarah has always tried to set my GF up with a friend of hers or some guy she met off Tinder, Anna has declined these offers and continues to.\n\nLast week Sarah came over for dinner and while I was making some food I overheard Sarah talking to Anna about her recent string of sexcapades with dudes she hooked up with, she made constant remarks about how they were a lot buffer than I was, taller than I was. I go to the gym regularly and while I don't have a rock hard set of abs, I'm fit. Anyhow after that painfully awkward dinner me and Anna went to bed. \n\nThree days later after that night Anna sat me down and asked me what would happen if she accidentally cheated on me and after a silent stare of anger from me she asked me if she could give the casual hookup lifestyle a try for a while, I was livid and told her to get out immediately. Our sex life is pretty great, we have sex almost everyday and try new things. I am honestly territorial in the sense that I don't want another man in or around her womanly regions.\n\nSince then she's been texting and calling me non stop claiming that it was a joke and that I'm going to have to open up to the idea of other bringing other partners into the bedroom, fuck no.\n\nI truly do love her but I'm no push over, what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey people of Reddit! \n\nMy girlfriend (Anna) and I have met in university at a party, we ended up hitting it off and that was pretty much the kick start of what I can only describe as the greatest 4 years of my life. She's truly an amazing person, I love her and I can truly see this going into marriage someday.\n\nHowever, she has a friend (lets call her Sarah) who isn't very fond of me, to this day I have no clue why and I've tried to get her to be on better terms but to no avail, she wont budge. Throughout our relationship Sarah has always tried to set my GF up with a friend of hers or some guy she met off Tinder, Anna has declined these offers and continues to.\n\nLast week Sarah came over for dinner and while I was making some food I overheard Sarah talking to Anna about her recent string of sexcapades with dudes she hooked up with, she made constant remarks about how they were a lot buffer than I was, taller than I was. I go to the gym regularly and while I don't have a rock hard set of abs, I'm fit. Anyhow after that painfully awkward dinner me and Anna went to bed. \n\nThree days later after that night Anna sat me down and asked me what would happen if she accidentally cheated on me and after a silent stare of anger from me she asked me if she could give the casual hookup lifestyle a try for a while, I was livid and told her to get out immediately. Our sex life is pretty great, we have sex almost everyday and try new things. I am honestly territorial in the sense that I don't want another man in or around her womanly regions.\n\nSince then she's been texting and calling me non stop claiming that it was a joke and that I'm going to have to open up to the idea of other bringing other partners into the bedroom, fuck no.\n\nI truly do love her but I'm no push over, what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey people of Reddit! \n\nMy girlfriend (Anna) and I have met in university at a party, we ended up hitting it off and that was pretty much the kick start of what I can only describe as the greatest 4 years of my life. She's truly an amazing person, I love her and I can truly see this going into marriage someday.\n\nHowever, she has a friend (lets call her Sarah) who isn't very fond of me, to this day I have no clue why and I've tried to get her to be on better terms but to no avail, she wont budge. Throughout our relationship Sarah has always tried to set my GF up with a friend of hers or some guy she met off Tinder, Anna has declined these offers and continues to.\n\nLast week Sarah came over for dinner and while I was making some food I overheard Sarah talking to Anna about her recent string of sexcapades with dudes she hooked up with, she made constant remarks about how they were a lot buffer than I was, taller than I was. I go to the gym regularly and while I don't have a rock hard set of abs, I'm fit. Anyhow after that painfully awkward dinner me and Anna went to bed. \n\nThree days later after that night Anna sat me down and asked me what would happen if she accidentally cheated on me and after a silent stare of anger from me she asked me if she could give the casual hookup lifestyle a try for a while, I was livid and told her to get out immediately. Our sex life is pretty great, we have sex almost everyday and try new things. I am honestly territorial in the sense that I don't want another man in or around her womanly regions.\n\nSince then she's been texting and calling me non stop claiming that it was a joke and that I'm going to have to open up to the idea of other bringing other partners into the bedroom, fuck no.\n\nI truly do love her but I'm no push over, what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I currently own 1 car and it's completely paid for. The car is approaching ~75k miles and we're looking to upgrade now that we've recently gotten a dog.\n\nWe originally wanted a used vehicle within the $10-15k range, but didn't know what we wanted. After coming to terms with the fact we wanted something bigger without sacrificing a lot on gas mileage, we narrowed our options down to a smaller SUV in either a Toyota Rav4 or Honda CR-V.\n\nHere is the debate:\nDo we purchase a certified pre-owned 2011 Rav4 w/ ~6000 miles @ $19,500 (My wife's dad was a prior GM of a car dealership and can get some pretty exceptional deals beyond what a normal customer is offered)\nOR do we stick within our budget of $10-15k and try to find a used Rav4 with higher mileage (probably a 2007 w/ around 60k miles). \n\nIt seems like the newer car would be the ideal solution, since it's still under warranty, KBB private party is around $21,900, and it's already lost most of the sticker depreciation.\n\nBackground: Married, no kids, and we take home about $5500/month together after taxes, 401k, etc. We have a substantial amount of savings and an emergency fund built up (just wanted to get this out of the way)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I currently own 1 car and it's completely paid for. The car is approaching ~75k miles and we're looking to upgrade now that we've recently gotten a dog.\n\nWe originally wanted a used vehicle within the $10-15k range, but didn't know what we wanted. After coming to terms with the fact we wanted something bigger without sacrificing a lot on gas mileage, we narrowed our options down to a smaller SUV in either a Toyota Rav4 or Honda CR-V.\n\nHere is the debate:\nDo we purchase a certified pre-owned 2011 Rav4 w/ ~6000 miles @ $19,500 (My wife's dad was a prior GM of a car dealership and can get some pretty exceptional deals beyond what a normal customer is offered)\nOR do we stick within our budget of $10-15k and try to find a used Rav4 with higher mileage (probably a 2007 w/ around 60k miles). \n\nIt seems like the newer car would be the ideal solution, since it's still under warranty, KBB private party is around $21,900, and it's already lost most of the sticker depreciation.\n\nBackground: Married, no kids, and we take home about $5500/month together after taxes, 401k, etc. We have a substantial amount of savings and an emergency fund built up (just wanted to get this out of the way)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I currently own 1 car and it's completely paid for. The car is approaching ~75k miles and we're looking to upgrade now that we've recently gotten a dog.\n\nWe originally wanted a used vehicle within the $10-15k range, but didn't know what we wanted. After coming to terms with the fact we wanted something bigger without sacrificing a lot on gas mileage, we narrowed our options down to a smaller SUV in either a Toyota Rav4 or Honda CR-V.\n\nHere is the debate:\nDo we purchase a certified pre-owned 2011 Rav4 w/ ~6000 miles @ $19,500 (My wife's dad was a prior GM of a car dealership and can get some pretty exceptional deals beyond what a normal customer is offered)\nOR do we stick within our budget of $10-15k and try to find a used Rav4 with higher mileage (probably a 2007 w/ around 60k miles). \n\nIt seems like the newer car would be the ideal solution, since it's still under warranty, KBB private party is around $21,900, and it's already lost most of the sticker depreciation.\n\nBackground: Married, no kids, and we take home about $5500/month together after taxes, 401k, etc. We have a substantial amount of savings and an emergency fund built up (just wanted to get this out of the way)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I currently own 1 car and it's completely paid for. The car is approaching ~75k miles and we're looking to upgrade now that we've recently gotten a dog.\n\nWe originally wanted a used vehicle within the $10-15k range, but didn't know what we wanted. After coming to terms with the fact we wanted something bigger without sacrificing a lot on gas mileage, we narrowed our options down to a smaller SUV in either a Toyota Rav4 or Honda CR-V.\n\nHere is the debate:\nDo we purchase a certified pre-owned 2011 Rav4 w/ ~6000 miles @ $19,500 (My wife's dad was a prior GM of a car dealership and can get some pretty exceptional deals beyond what a normal customer is offered)\nOR do we stick within our budget of $10-15k and try to find a used Rav4 with higher mileage (probably a 2007 w/ around 60k miles). \n\nIt seems like the newer car would be the ideal solution, since it's still under warranty, KBB private party is around $21,900, and it's already lost most of the sticker depreciation.\n\nBackground: Married, no kids, and we take home about $5500/month together after taxes, 401k, etc. We have a substantial amount of savings and an emergency fund built up (just wanted to get this out of the way)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I currently own 1 car and it's completely paid for. The car is approaching ~75k miles and we're looking to upgrade now that we've recently gotten a dog.\n\nWe originally wanted a used vehicle within the $10-15k range, but didn't know what we wanted. After coming to terms with the fact we wanted something bigger without sacrificing a lot on gas mileage, we narrowed our options down to a smaller SUV in either a Toyota Rav4 or Honda CR-V.\n\nHere is the debate:\nDo we purchase a certified pre-owned 2011 Rav4 w/ ~6000 miles @ $19,500 (My wife's dad was a prior GM of a car dealership and can get some pretty exceptional deals beyond what a normal customer is offered)\nOR do we stick within our budget of $10-15k and try to find a used Rav4 with higher mileage (probably a 2007 w/ around 60k miles). \n\nIt seems like the newer car would be the ideal solution, since it's still under warranty, KBB private party is around $21,900, and it's already lost most of the sticker depreciation.\n\nBackground: Married, no kids, and we take home about $5500/month together after taxes, 401k, etc. We have a substantial amount of savings and an emergency fund built up (just wanted to get this out of the way)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This has been on my mind since she told me last week and I think it's about time I consulted you guys. My girlfriend is moving out of state for a couple of years for schooling and she wants a long distance relationship. Only problem now is that she told me about her ex and how she never felt the way she did with him. Am I wrong to think that this isn't normal to tell your current love about a past love? \n\nShe then proceeds to tell me that she feels like she would regret breaking up, but if she truly did love me she wouldn't have even mentioned loving her ex. I feel like she will have a new life over there in this new state and I would prefer breaking up now. It's a new chapter in a lot of my friends life also. Moving places and meeting new people. We are growing up, unfortunately.\n\nI was thinking of staying good friends but she might not ever get over me. I always did enjoy her company and that's why I asked her out in the first place. I'm also having thoughts and we never really have anything in common. But we do get along great. I have been thinking this would've been better if I stayed friends with her. What would you guys do in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This has been on my mind since she told me last week and I think it's about time I consulted you guys. My girlfriend is moving out of state for a couple of years for schooling and she wants a long distance relationship. Only problem now is that she told me about her ex and how she never felt the way she did with him. Am I wrong to think that this isn't normal to tell your current love about a past love? \n\nShe then proceeds to tell me that she feels like she would regret breaking up, but if she truly did love me she wouldn't have even mentioned loving her ex. I feel like she will have a new life over there in this new state and I would prefer breaking up now. It's a new chapter in a lot of my friends life also. Moving places and meeting new people. We are growing up, unfortunately.\n\nI was thinking of staying good friends but she might not ever get over me. I always did enjoy her company and that's why I asked her out in the first place. I'm also having thoughts and we never really have anything in common. But we do get along great. I have been thinking this would've been better if I stayed friends with her. What would you guys do in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This has been on my mind since she told me last week and I think it's about time I consulted you guys. My girlfriend is moving out of state for a couple of years for schooling and she wants a long distance relationship. Only problem now is that she told me about her ex and how she never felt the way she did with him. Am I wrong to think that this isn't normal to tell your current love about a past love? \n\nShe then proceeds to tell me that she feels like she would regret breaking up, but if she truly did love me she wouldn't have even mentioned loving her ex. I feel like she will have a new life over there in this new state and I would prefer breaking up now. It's a new chapter in a lot of my friends life also. Moving places and meeting new people. We are growing up, unfortunately.\n\nI was thinking of staying good friends but she might not ever get over me. I always did enjoy her company and that's why I asked her out in the first place. I'm also having thoughts and we never really have anything in common. But we do get along great. I have been thinking this would've been better if I stayed friends with her. What would you guys do in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This has been on my mind since she told me last week and I think it's about time I consulted you guys. My girlfriend is moving out of state for a couple of years for schooling and she wants a long distance relationship. Only problem now is that she told me about her ex and how she never felt the way she did with him. Am I wrong to think that this isn't normal to tell your current love about a past love? \n\nShe then proceeds to tell me that she feels like she would regret breaking up, but if she truly did love me she wouldn't have even mentioned loving her ex. I feel like she will have a new life over there in this new state and I would prefer breaking up now. It's a new chapter in a lot of my friends life also. Moving places and meeting new people. We are growing up, unfortunately.\n\nI was thinking of staying good friends but she might not ever get over me. I always did enjoy her company and that's why I asked her out in the first place. I'm also having thoughts and we never really have anything in common. But we do get along great. I have been thinking this would've been better if I stayed friends with her. What would you guys do in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This has been on my mind since she told me last week and I think it's about time I consulted you guys. My girlfriend is moving out of state for a couple of years for schooling and she wants a long distance relationship. Only problem now is that she told me about her ex and how she never felt the way she did with him. Am I wrong to think that this isn't normal to tell your current love about a past love? \n\nShe then proceeds to tell me that she feels like she would regret breaking up, but if she truly did love me she wouldn't have even mentioned loving her ex. I feel like she will have a new life over there in this new state and I would prefer breaking up now. It's a new chapter in a lot of my friends life also. Moving places and meeting new people. We are growing up, unfortunately.\n\nI was thinking of staying good friends but she might not ever get over me. I always did enjoy her company and that's why I asked her out in the first place. I'm also having thoughts and we never really have anything in common. But we do get along great. I have been thinking this would've been better if I stayed friends with her. What would you guys do in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This has been on my mind since she told me last week and I think it's about time I consulted you guys. My girlfriend is moving out of state for a couple of years for schooling and she wants a long distance relationship. Only problem now is that she told me about her ex and how she never felt the way she did with him. Am I wrong to think that this isn't normal to tell your current love about a past love? \n\nShe then proceeds to tell me that she feels like she would regret breaking up, but if she truly did love me she wouldn't have even mentioned loving her ex. I feel like she will have a new life over there in this new state and I would prefer breaking up now. It's a new chapter in a lot of my friends life also. Moving places and meeting new people. We are growing up, unfortunately.\n\nI was thinking of staying good friends but she might not ever get over me. I always did enjoy her company and that's why I asked her out in the first place. I'm also having thoughts and we never really have anything in common. But we do get along great. I have been thinking this would've been better if I stayed friends with her. What would you guys do in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. \n\nhere's the breakdown \n\nWe always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf \nWe text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work \nShe rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks \ni spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her \nshes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others \nshe does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont \nshe often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me \n\ngoing with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship \n\nany opinions, much appreciated!"
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