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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we dated for three months, I thought things were going really well. I had introduced her to my family and everything. One night we had a few drinks and she said she loved me, I was a bit nervous about it and said I was really enjoying our relationship and was falling for her but couldn't tell her yet. I'm not sure if this was a reason for her breaking up with me, but I honestly just wanted her to be sober when she told me and I'm cautious with my feelings, but I genuinely saw the relationship continuing and growing into something even better.\n\nThen, a week later, she sits me down and tells me she still has feelings for her ex, who lives in a different state, and wanted to break up.\n\nI don't even think there was any plans for her or him to move, so I'm confused as to what happened. I told her that it was OK to have residual feelings, but she still wanted to break up. I know that she wasn't single for a very long time, but she was for long enough that you would think she would be over her ex, especially one who lives in a different state.\n\nI haven't really spoken to her since, I'm kind of proud and don't want to beg or anything, but I think she was amazing. Should I just let it go or maybe see if she would give us another chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post Here](\nBoth of us are soldiers, he's stationed about 4 hours from me though. We met online, got together at least 2 weekends a month, I spent time with his family about 8 hours away for a week. Talked everyday. \n\nOut of the blue, while I was visiting him about a month ago he decided to break up with me, even though I thought he was still in love with me. He said distance was the issue. At first we agreed and said our goodbyes, the distance did suck. It began to be unbearable After a week. I messeged him on facebook begging to get back with him. He said \"what we had was great, but I'm over you\". \n\nI asked him to call me a week later, he did. We talked, and then he decided he wanted to wait another week because he was going on a retreat with other soldiers from his unit. I sent him flowers when he got back, he said they were nice but it should not continue. And also asked me why he never sent flowers while we were in a relationship.\n\nToday I finally asked him why he didn't want to talk to me anymore. He said he wanted to be friends, but not while I still had feelings for him. FYI I'm not out of the closet he is. He cited this as a main cause (understandable). The other causes he said was that I never got him anything for valentines day/christmas (big fuck up on my part but I was very poor at the time)\n\nWe finally kind of said our goodbyes (again) today via text messages after a short argument about communication (we had never fought a single time in our entire relationship)\n\nShould I just let it be? He's not seeing anyone else that I know of. Should I never text him again? Is it wishful thinking to think that he will text me or call me ever again, because everytime he talked to me after our breakup, I had to coax him to do it. It still hurts after a month after our breakup."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post Here](\nBoth of us are soldiers, he's stationed about 4 hours from me though. We met online, got together at least 2 weekends a month, I spent time with his family about 8 hours away for a week. Talked everyday. \n\nOut of the blue, while I was visiting him about a month ago he decided to break up with me, even though I thought he was still in love with me. He said distance was the issue. At first we agreed and said our goodbyes, the distance did suck. It began to be unbearable After a week. I messeged him on facebook begging to get back with him. He said \"what we had was great, but I'm over you\". \n\nI asked him to call me a week later, he did. We talked, and then he decided he wanted to wait another week because he was going on a retreat with other soldiers from his unit. I sent him flowers when he got back, he said they were nice but it should not continue. And also asked me why he never sent flowers while we were in a relationship.\n\nToday I finally asked him why he didn't want to talk to me anymore. He said he wanted to be friends, but not while I still had feelings for him. FYI I'm not out of the closet he is. He cited this as a main cause (understandable). The other causes he said was that I never got him anything for valentines day/christmas (big fuck up on my part but I was very poor at the time)\n\nWe finally kind of said our goodbyes (again) today via text messages after a short argument about communication (we had never fought a single time in our entire relationship)\n\nShould I just let it be? He's not seeing anyone else that I know of. Should I never text him again? Is it wishful thinking to think that he will text me or call me ever again, because everytime he talked to me after our breakup, I had to coax him to do it. It still hurts after a month after our breakup."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post Here](\nBoth of us are soldiers, he's stationed about 4 hours from me though. We met online, got together at least 2 weekends a month, I spent time with his family about 8 hours away for a week. Talked everyday. \n\nOut of the blue, while I was visiting him about a month ago he decided to break up with me, even though I thought he was still in love with me. He said distance was the issue. At first we agreed and said our goodbyes, the distance did suck. It began to be unbearable After a week. I messeged him on facebook begging to get back with him. He said \"what we had was great, but I'm over you\". \n\nI asked him to call me a week later, he did. We talked, and then he decided he wanted to wait another week because he was going on a retreat with other soldiers from his unit. I sent him flowers when he got back, he said they were nice but it should not continue. And also asked me why he never sent flowers while we were in a relationship.\n\nToday I finally asked him why he didn't want to talk to me anymore. He said he wanted to be friends, but not while I still had feelings for him. FYI I'm not out of the closet he is. He cited this as a main cause (understandable). The other causes he said was that I never got him anything for valentines day/christmas (big fuck up on my part but I was very poor at the time)\n\nWe finally kind of said our goodbyes (again) today via text messages after a short argument about communication (we had never fought a single time in our entire relationship)\n\nShould I just let it be? He's not seeing anyone else that I know of. Should I never text him again? Is it wishful thinking to think that he will text me or call me ever again, because everytime he talked to me after our breakup, I had to coax him to do it. It still hurts after a month after our breakup."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post Here](\nBoth of us are soldiers, he's stationed about 4 hours from me though. We met online, got together at least 2 weekends a month, I spent time with his family about 8 hours away for a week. Talked everyday. \n\nOut of the blue, while I was visiting him about a month ago he decided to break up with me, even though I thought he was still in love with me. He said distance was the issue. At first we agreed and said our goodbyes, the distance did suck. It began to be unbearable After a week. I messeged him on facebook begging to get back with him. He said \"what we had was great, but I'm over you\". \n\nI asked him to call me a week later, he did. We talked, and then he decided he wanted to wait another week because he was going on a retreat with other soldiers from his unit. I sent him flowers when he got back, he said they were nice but it should not continue. And also asked me why he never sent flowers while we were in a relationship.\n\nToday I finally asked him why he didn't want to talk to me anymore. He said he wanted to be friends, but not while I still had feelings for him. FYI I'm not out of the closet he is. He cited this as a main cause (understandable). The other causes he said was that I never got him anything for valentines day/christmas (big fuck up on my part but I was very poor at the time)\n\nWe finally kind of said our goodbyes (again) today via text messages after a short argument about communication (we had never fought a single time in our entire relationship)\n\nShould I just let it be? He's not seeing anyone else that I know of. Should I never text him again? Is it wishful thinking to think that he will text me or call me ever again, because everytime he talked to me after our breakup, I had to coax him to do it. It still hurts after a month after our breakup."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post Here](\nBoth of us are soldiers, he's stationed about 4 hours from me though. We met online, got together at least 2 weekends a month, I spent time with his family about 8 hours away for a week. Talked everyday. \n\nOut of the blue, while I was visiting him about a month ago he decided to break up with me, even though I thought he was still in love with me. He said distance was the issue. At first we agreed and said our goodbyes, the distance did suck. It began to be unbearable After a week. I messeged him on facebook begging to get back with him. He said \"what we had was great, but I'm over you\". \n\nI asked him to call me a week later, he did. We talked, and then he decided he wanted to wait another week because he was going on a retreat with other soldiers from his unit. I sent him flowers when he got back, he said they were nice but it should not continue. And also asked me why he never sent flowers while we were in a relationship.\n\nToday I finally asked him why he didn't want to talk to me anymore. He said he wanted to be friends, but not while I still had feelings for him. FYI I'm not out of the closet he is. He cited this as a main cause (understandable). The other causes he said was that I never got him anything for valentines day/christmas (big fuck up on my part but I was very poor at the time)\n\nWe finally kind of said our goodbyes (again) today via text messages after a short argument about communication (we had never fought a single time in our entire relationship)\n\nShould I just let it be? He's not seeing anyone else that I know of. Should I never text him again? Is it wishful thinking to think that he will text me or call me ever again, because everytime he talked to me after our breakup, I had to coax him to do it. It still hurts after a month after our breakup."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post Here](\nBoth of us are soldiers, he's stationed about 4 hours from me though. We met online, got together at least 2 weekends a month, I spent time with his family about 8 hours away for a week. Talked everyday. \n\nOut of the blue, while I was visiting him about a month ago he decided to break up with me, even though I thought he was still in love with me. He said distance was the issue. At first we agreed and said our goodbyes, the distance did suck. It began to be unbearable After a week. I messeged him on facebook begging to get back with him. He said \"what we had was great, but I'm over you\". \n\nI asked him to call me a week later, he did. We talked, and then he decided he wanted to wait another week because he was going on a retreat with other soldiers from his unit. I sent him flowers when he got back, he said they were nice but it should not continue. And also asked me why he never sent flowers while we were in a relationship.\n\nToday I finally asked him why he didn't want to talk to me anymore. He said he wanted to be friends, but not while I still had feelings for him. FYI I'm not out of the closet he is. He cited this as a main cause (understandable). The other causes he said was that I never got him anything for valentines day/christmas (big fuck up on my part but I was very poor at the time)\n\nWe finally kind of said our goodbyes (again) today via text messages after a short argument about communication (we had never fought a single time in our entire relationship)\n\nShould I just let it be? He's not seeing anyone else that I know of. Should I never text him again? Is it wishful thinking to think that he will text me or call me ever again, because everytime he talked to me after our breakup, I had to coax him to do it. It still hurts after a month after our breakup."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My stomach has been in knots all day. My friend and I, Janessa, have been close for years. I've been hardcore crushing on a guy, Luke, for months and finally got the nerve to ask him out. It went really good and we've been talking ever since. Well, recently Janessa told me that I can't date him because she's had a crush on him for longer and it would hurt her if we saw each other. She said she would never do this to me and that I was being selfish for wanting to date Luke, as well as automatically assuming my interest in him wasn't that deep. Janessa promised she wouldn't date him as well because she knew I liked him. I kind of said \"okay,' and left in a bit of a storm. Thinking back, I realised that she has had a thing with two guys during the period she claims she had a \"big crush\" on him.I really don't want to lose our friendship but I really want to see this guy. \n\nEveryone has gotten vibes that he likes me as well, including Janessa. Can you please tell me what to do and say? This is an exceedingly awkward situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My stomach has been in knots all day. My friend and I, Janessa, have been close for years. I've been hardcore crushing on a guy, Luke, for months and finally got the nerve to ask him out. It went really good and we've been talking ever since. Well, recently Janessa told me that I can't date him because she's had a crush on him for longer and it would hurt her if we saw each other. She said she would never do this to me and that I was being selfish for wanting to date Luke, as well as automatically assuming my interest in him wasn't that deep. Janessa promised she wouldn't date him as well because she knew I liked him. I kind of said \"okay,' and left in a bit of a storm. Thinking back, I realised that she has had a thing with two guys during the period she claims she had a \"big crush\" on him.I really don't want to lose our friendship but I really want to see this guy. \n\nEveryone has gotten vibes that he likes me as well, including Janessa. Can you please tell me what to do and say? This is an exceedingly awkward situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My stomach has been in knots all day. My friend and I, Janessa, have been close for years. I've been hardcore crushing on a guy, Luke, for months and finally got the nerve to ask him out. It went really good and we've been talking ever since. Well, recently Janessa told me that I can't date him because she's had a crush on him for longer and it would hurt her if we saw each other. She said she would never do this to me and that I was being selfish for wanting to date Luke, as well as automatically assuming my interest in him wasn't that deep. Janessa promised she wouldn't date him as well because she knew I liked him. I kind of said \"okay,' and left in a bit of a storm. Thinking back, I realised that she has had a thing with two guys during the period she claims she had a \"big crush\" on him.I really don't want to lose our friendship but I really want to see this guy. \n\nEveryone has gotten vibes that he likes me as well, including Janessa. Can you please tell me what to do and say? This is an exceedingly awkward situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My stomach has been in knots all day. My friend and I, Janessa, have been close for years. I've been hardcore crushing on a guy, Luke, for months and finally got the nerve to ask him out. It went really good and we've been talking ever since. Well, recently Janessa told me that I can't date him because she's had a crush on him for longer and it would hurt her if we saw each other. She said she would never do this to me and that I was being selfish for wanting to date Luke, as well as automatically assuming my interest in him wasn't that deep. Janessa promised she wouldn't date him as well because she knew I liked him. I kind of said \"okay,' and left in a bit of a storm. Thinking back, I realised that she has had a thing with two guys during the period she claims she had a \"big crush\" on him.I really don't want to lose our friendship but I really want to see this guy. \n\nEveryone has gotten vibes that he likes me as well, including Janessa. Can you please tell me what to do and say? This is an exceedingly awkward situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My stomach has been in knots all day. My friend and I, Janessa, have been close for years. I've been hardcore crushing on a guy, Luke, for months and finally got the nerve to ask him out. It went really good and we've been talking ever since. Well, recently Janessa told me that I can't date him because she's had a crush on him for longer and it would hurt her if we saw each other. She said she would never do this to me and that I was being selfish for wanting to date Luke, as well as automatically assuming my interest in him wasn't that deep. Janessa promised she wouldn't date him as well because she knew I liked him. I kind of said \"okay,' and left in a bit of a storm. Thinking back, I realised that she has had a thing with two guys during the period she claims she had a \"big crush\" on him.I really don't want to lose our friendship but I really want to see this guy. \n\nEveryone has gotten vibes that he likes me as well, including Janessa. Can you please tell me what to do and say? This is an exceedingly awkward situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My stomach has been in knots all day. My friend and I, Janessa, have been close for years. I've been hardcore crushing on a guy, Luke, for months and finally got the nerve to ask him out. It went really good and we've been talking ever since. Well, recently Janessa told me that I can't date him because she's had a crush on him for longer and it would hurt her if we saw each other. She said she would never do this to me and that I was being selfish for wanting to date Luke, as well as automatically assuming my interest in him wasn't that deep. Janessa promised she wouldn't date him as well because she knew I liked him. I kind of said \"okay,' and left in a bit of a storm. Thinking back, I realised that she has had a thing with two guys during the period she claims she had a \"big crush\" on him.I really don't want to lose our friendship but I really want to see this guy. \n\nEveryone has gotten vibes that he likes me as well, including Janessa. Can you please tell me what to do and say? This is an exceedingly awkward situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now I know he loves me deary and I love him just as much. My issue is that I like time outside of technology, I like taking the time to just talk about random things, hug, cuddle do things together as such etc. \n\nMy bf has tried his best to accommodate this, he will cuddle with me without technology at times and we'll just lay in each others arms. He does this for me more than himself as hes normally not into these things. \n\nWhen ever we go out though to eat for example, he will be on his phone non stop, hes either talking to his friends or reading things online. He won't be very responsive when I try and get him involved and it starts feeling very robotic. I just feel isolated when I look at the tables around me and see people laughing and talking and here we are, can't hold a conversation down for 10-15 minutes at dinner. \n\nIve tried talking to him before about this and he'll put his phone away for a bit but then will go right back on it. Hes not a very talkative person I guess that doesnt help but I feel like Im always the one whos trying to talk. Now I know you might think Im a blabber mouth, Im really not, usually Im known as the quite one as I keep to myself but this much silence is too much even for me. \n\nIve considered that maybe Im just really really boring and that hed rather entertain himself with other things Im just not sure. \n\nHe thinks its normal for couples not to talk so much, is he right ? am I reading too much into this ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now I know he loves me deary and I love him just as much. My issue is that I like time outside of technology, I like taking the time to just talk about random things, hug, cuddle do things together as such etc. \n\nMy bf has tried his best to accommodate this, he will cuddle with me without technology at times and we'll just lay in each others arms. He does this for me more than himself as hes normally not into these things. \n\nWhen ever we go out though to eat for example, he will be on his phone non stop, hes either talking to his friends or reading things online. He won't be very responsive when I try and get him involved and it starts feeling very robotic. I just feel isolated when I look at the tables around me and see people laughing and talking and here we are, can't hold a conversation down for 10-15 minutes at dinner. \n\nIve tried talking to him before about this and he'll put his phone away for a bit but then will go right back on it. Hes not a very talkative person I guess that doesnt help but I feel like Im always the one whos trying to talk. Now I know you might think Im a blabber mouth, Im really not, usually Im known as the quite one as I keep to myself but this much silence is too much even for me. \n\nIve considered that maybe Im just really really boring and that hed rather entertain himself with other things Im just not sure. \n\nHe thinks its normal for couples not to talk so much, is he right ? am I reading too much into this ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now I know he loves me deary and I love him just as much. My issue is that I like time outside of technology, I like taking the time to just talk about random things, hug, cuddle do things together as such etc. \n\nMy bf has tried his best to accommodate this, he will cuddle with me without technology at times and we'll just lay in each others arms. He does this for me more than himself as hes normally not into these things. \n\nWhen ever we go out though to eat for example, he will be on his phone non stop, hes either talking to his friends or reading things online. He won't be very responsive when I try and get him involved and it starts feeling very robotic. I just feel isolated when I look at the tables around me and see people laughing and talking and here we are, can't hold a conversation down for 10-15 minutes at dinner. \n\nIve tried talking to him before about this and he'll put his phone away for a bit but then will go right back on it. Hes not a very talkative person I guess that doesnt help but I feel like Im always the one whos trying to talk. Now I know you might think Im a blabber mouth, Im really not, usually Im known as the quite one as I keep to myself but this much silence is too much even for me. \n\nIve considered that maybe Im just really really boring and that hed rather entertain himself with other things Im just not sure. \n\nHe thinks its normal for couples not to talk so much, is he right ? am I reading too much into this ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now I know he loves me deary and I love him just as much. My issue is that I like time outside of technology, I like taking the time to just talk about random things, hug, cuddle do things together as such etc. \n\nMy bf has tried his best to accommodate this, he will cuddle with me without technology at times and we'll just lay in each others arms. He does this for me more than himself as hes normally not into these things. \n\nWhen ever we go out though to eat for example, he will be on his phone non stop, hes either talking to his friends or reading things online. He won't be very responsive when I try and get him involved and it starts feeling very robotic. I just feel isolated when I look at the tables around me and see people laughing and talking and here we are, can't hold a conversation down for 10-15 minutes at dinner. \n\nIve tried talking to him before about this and he'll put his phone away for a bit but then will go right back on it. Hes not a very talkative person I guess that doesnt help but I feel like Im always the one whos trying to talk. Now I know you might think Im a blabber mouth, Im really not, usually Im known as the quite one as I keep to myself but this much silence is too much even for me. \n\nIve considered that maybe Im just really really boring and that hed rather entertain himself with other things Im just not sure. \n\nHe thinks its normal for couples not to talk so much, is he right ? am I reading too much into this ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now I know he loves me deary and I love him just as much. My issue is that I like time outside of technology, I like taking the time to just talk about random things, hug, cuddle do things together as such etc. \n\nMy bf has tried his best to accommodate this, he will cuddle with me without technology at times and we'll just lay in each others arms. He does this for me more than himself as hes normally not into these things. \n\nWhen ever we go out though to eat for example, he will be on his phone non stop, hes either talking to his friends or reading things online. He won't be very responsive when I try and get him involved and it starts feeling very robotic. I just feel isolated when I look at the tables around me and see people laughing and talking and here we are, can't hold a conversation down for 10-15 minutes at dinner. \n\nIve tried talking to him before about this and he'll put his phone away for a bit but then will go right back on it. Hes not a very talkative person I guess that doesnt help but I feel like Im always the one whos trying to talk. Now I know you might think Im a blabber mouth, Im really not, usually Im known as the quite one as I keep to myself but this much silence is too much even for me. \n\nIve considered that maybe Im just really really boring and that hed rather entertain himself with other things Im just not sure. \n\nHe thinks its normal for couples not to talk so much, is he right ? am I reading too much into this ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now I know he loves me deary and I love him just as much. My issue is that I like time outside of technology, I like taking the time to just talk about random things, hug, cuddle do things together as such etc. \n\nMy bf has tried his best to accommodate this, he will cuddle with me without technology at times and we'll just lay in each others arms. He does this for me more than himself as hes normally not into these things. \n\nWhen ever we go out though to eat for example, he will be on his phone non stop, hes either talking to his friends or reading things online. He won't be very responsive when I try and get him involved and it starts feeling very robotic. I just feel isolated when I look at the tables around me and see people laughing and talking and here we are, can't hold a conversation down for 10-15 minutes at dinner. \n\nIve tried talking to him before about this and he'll put his phone away for a bit but then will go right back on it. Hes not a very talkative person I guess that doesnt help but I feel like Im always the one whos trying to talk. Now I know you might think Im a blabber mouth, Im really not, usually Im known as the quite one as I keep to myself but this much silence is too much even for me. \n\nIve considered that maybe Im just really really boring and that hed rather entertain himself with other things Im just not sure. \n\nHe thinks its normal for couples not to talk so much, is he right ? am I reading too much into this ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just ended a very difficult chapter of my life. Admittedly, many of the things that made my life (and my partner's life) miserable were the results of my own poor choices. I failed to live up to my own expectations about who I should be as a person, and that realization has really taken a toll. I'm not one for throwing pity parties, but I'm having a hard time finding my self-worth again, and my partner is experiencing similar feelings. I really want to put the past behind us and start living again. We have great communication, and we're just trying to finally move on. I want to truly enjoy what I have, and I want to be fully present for those I love. What are some ways you've healed from an era you'd rather forget?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just ended a very difficult chapter of my life. Admittedly, many of the things that made my life (and my partner's life) miserable were the results of my own poor choices. I failed to live up to my own expectations about who I should be as a person, and that realization has really taken a toll. I'm not one for throwing pity parties, but I'm having a hard time finding my self-worth again, and my partner is experiencing similar feelings. I really want to put the past behind us and start living again. We have great communication, and we're just trying to finally move on. I want to truly enjoy what I have, and I want to be fully present for those I love. What are some ways you've healed from an era you'd rather forget?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just ended a very difficult chapter of my life. Admittedly, many of the things that made my life (and my partner's life) miserable were the results of my own poor choices. I failed to live up to my own expectations about who I should be as a person, and that realization has really taken a toll. I'm not one for throwing pity parties, but I'm having a hard time finding my self-worth again, and my partner is experiencing similar feelings. I really want to put the past behind us and start living again. We have great communication, and we're just trying to finally move on. I want to truly enjoy what I have, and I want to be fully present for those I love. What are some ways you've healed from an era you'd rather forget?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just ended a very difficult chapter of my life. Admittedly, many of the things that made my life (and my partner's life) miserable were the results of my own poor choices. I failed to live up to my own expectations about who I should be as a person, and that realization has really taken a toll. I'm not one for throwing pity parties, but I'm having a hard time finding my self-worth again, and my partner is experiencing similar feelings. I really want to put the past behind us and start living again. We have great communication, and we're just trying to finally move on. I want to truly enjoy what I have, and I want to be fully present for those I love. What are some ways you've healed from an era you'd rather forget?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just ended a very difficult chapter of my life. Admittedly, many of the things that made my life (and my partner's life) miserable were the results of my own poor choices. I failed to live up to my own expectations about who I should be as a person, and that realization has really taken a toll. I'm not one for throwing pity parties, but I'm having a hard time finding my self-worth again, and my partner is experiencing similar feelings. I really want to put the past behind us and start living again. We have great communication, and we're just trying to finally move on. I want to truly enjoy what I have, and I want to be fully present for those I love. What are some ways you've healed from an era you'd rather forget?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just ended a very difficult chapter of my life. Admittedly, many of the things that made my life (and my partner's life) miserable were the results of my own poor choices. I failed to live up to my own expectations about who I should be as a person, and that realization has really taken a toll. I'm not one for throwing pity parties, but I'm having a hard time finding my self-worth again, and my partner is experiencing similar feelings. I really want to put the past behind us and start living again. We have great communication, and we're just trying to finally move on. I want to truly enjoy what I have, and I want to be fully present for those I love. What are some ways you've healed from an era you'd rather forget?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, on Saturday I went to a party (without my boyfriend because he had prior plans) with my friends for the first time in what seems like forever. I normally only hang with my bfs friends. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and 6 months and have lived together most of that time.\n\nAnyways, I go to the party and my ex from when I was like 15 was there. He was really flirty and kept touching my thigh/waist and arm and stuff. It made me really uncomfortable and everytime he would do it I would move away, not make eye contact, go talk to someone else. I would also talk about my boyfriend an excessive amount. I should mention I have extreme social anxiety and for the most part I thought he was doing this with everyone.\n\nThis morning a girl friend told me that my ex told our mutual friend that he was going to try to sleep with me, knowing fully that I had a boyfriend. Our mutual friend told my girl friend and she just told me.\n\nI am wondering if I have a right to be mad at my girl friend and the mutual friend? They both knew fully what was going on and did not tell me what his real motives were or even try to get him to stop. I would make the 'help me' eye contact with the girl friend and another girl friend multiple times - neither of them came to my rescue.\n\nI find this COMPLETELY disrespectful to both me and my boyfriend, whom i would never cheat on! When my girlfriend told me this she said that she and the mutual friend didn't do anything cause they couldn't 'tell if i was having a bad time or not'. Why on earth would they think that's my idea of a good time, getting hit on and touched? I was completely uncomfortable but he was one of the only people that talked to me throughout the night and I really thought he was just touchy to everyone.\n\nI know I should have said something but like I said I wasn't fully aware he was trying to get with me, and I am not good with social things at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, on Saturday I went to a party (without my boyfriend because he had prior plans) with my friends for the first time in what seems like forever. I normally only hang with my bfs friends. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and 6 months and have lived together most of that time.\n\nAnyways, I go to the party and my ex from when I was like 15 was there. He was really flirty and kept touching my thigh/waist and arm and stuff. It made me really uncomfortable and everytime he would do it I would move away, not make eye contact, go talk to someone else. I would also talk about my boyfriend an excessive amount. I should mention I have extreme social anxiety and for the most part I thought he was doing this with everyone.\n\nThis morning a girl friend told me that my ex told our mutual friend that he was going to try to sleep with me, knowing fully that I had a boyfriend. Our mutual friend told my girl friend and she just told me.\n\nI am wondering if I have a right to be mad at my girl friend and the mutual friend? They both knew fully what was going on and did not tell me what his real motives were or even try to get him to stop. I would make the 'help me' eye contact with the girl friend and another girl friend multiple times - neither of them came to my rescue.\n\nI find this COMPLETELY disrespectful to both me and my boyfriend, whom i would never cheat on! When my girlfriend told me this she said that she and the mutual friend didn't do anything cause they couldn't 'tell if i was having a bad time or not'. Why on earth would they think that's my idea of a good time, getting hit on and touched? I was completely uncomfortable but he was one of the only people that talked to me throughout the night and I really thought he was just touchy to everyone.\n\nI know I should have said something but like I said I wasn't fully aware he was trying to get with me, and I am not good with social things at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, on Saturday I went to a party (without my boyfriend because he had prior plans) with my friends for the first time in what seems like forever. I normally only hang with my bfs friends. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and 6 months and have lived together most of that time.\n\nAnyways, I go to the party and my ex from when I was like 15 was there. He was really flirty and kept touching my thigh/waist and arm and stuff. It made me really uncomfortable and everytime he would do it I would move away, not make eye contact, go talk to someone else. I would also talk about my boyfriend an excessive amount. I should mention I have extreme social anxiety and for the most part I thought he was doing this with everyone.\n\nThis morning a girl friend told me that my ex told our mutual friend that he was going to try to sleep with me, knowing fully that I had a boyfriend. Our mutual friend told my girl friend and she just told me.\n\nI am wondering if I have a right to be mad at my girl friend and the mutual friend? They both knew fully what was going on and did not tell me what his real motives were or even try to get him to stop. I would make the 'help me' eye contact with the girl friend and another girl friend multiple times - neither of them came to my rescue.\n\nI find this COMPLETELY disrespectful to both me and my boyfriend, whom i would never cheat on! When my girlfriend told me this she said that she and the mutual friend didn't do anything cause they couldn't 'tell if i was having a bad time or not'. Why on earth would they think that's my idea of a good time, getting hit on and touched? I was completely uncomfortable but he was one of the only people that talked to me throughout the night and I really thought he was just touchy to everyone.\n\nI know I should have said something but like I said I wasn't fully aware he was trying to get with me, and I am not good with social things at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, on Saturday I went to a party (without my boyfriend because he had prior plans) with my friends for the first time in what seems like forever. I normally only hang with my bfs friends. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and 6 months and have lived together most of that time.\n\nAnyways, I go to the party and my ex from when I was like 15 was there. He was really flirty and kept touching my thigh/waist and arm and stuff. It made me really uncomfortable and everytime he would do it I would move away, not make eye contact, go talk to someone else. I would also talk about my boyfriend an excessive amount. I should mention I have extreme social anxiety and for the most part I thought he was doing this with everyone.\n\nThis morning a girl friend told me that my ex told our mutual friend that he was going to try to sleep with me, knowing fully that I had a boyfriend. Our mutual friend told my girl friend and she just told me.\n\nI am wondering if I have a right to be mad at my girl friend and the mutual friend? They both knew fully what was going on and did not tell me what his real motives were or even try to get him to stop. I would make the 'help me' eye contact with the girl friend and another girl friend multiple times - neither of them came to my rescue.\n\nI find this COMPLETELY disrespectful to both me and my boyfriend, whom i would never cheat on! When my girlfriend told me this she said that she and the mutual friend didn't do anything cause they couldn't 'tell if i was having a bad time or not'. Why on earth would they think that's my idea of a good time, getting hit on and touched? I was completely uncomfortable but he was one of the only people that talked to me throughout the night and I really thought he was just touchy to everyone.\n\nI know I should have said something but like I said I wasn't fully aware he was trying to get with me, and I am not good with social things at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, on Saturday I went to a party (without my boyfriend because he had prior plans) with my friends for the first time in what seems like forever. I normally only hang with my bfs friends. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and 6 months and have lived together most of that time.\n\nAnyways, I go to the party and my ex from when I was like 15 was there. He was really flirty and kept touching my thigh/waist and arm and stuff. It made me really uncomfortable and everytime he would do it I would move away, not make eye contact, go talk to someone else. I would also talk about my boyfriend an excessive amount. I should mention I have extreme social anxiety and for the most part I thought he was doing this with everyone.\n\nThis morning a girl friend told me that my ex told our mutual friend that he was going to try to sleep with me, knowing fully that I had a boyfriend. Our mutual friend told my girl friend and she just told me.\n\nI am wondering if I have a right to be mad at my girl friend and the mutual friend? They both knew fully what was going on and did not tell me what his real motives were or even try to get him to stop. I would make the 'help me' eye contact with the girl friend and another girl friend multiple times - neither of them came to my rescue.\n\nI find this COMPLETELY disrespectful to both me and my boyfriend, whom i would never cheat on! When my girlfriend told me this she said that she and the mutual friend didn't do anything cause they couldn't 'tell if i was having a bad time or not'. Why on earth would they think that's my idea of a good time, getting hit on and touched? I was completely uncomfortable but he was one of the only people that talked to me throughout the night and I really thought he was just touchy to everyone.\n\nI know I should have said something but like I said I wasn't fully aware he was trying to get with me, and I am not good with social things at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, on Saturday I went to a party (without my boyfriend because he had prior plans) with my friends for the first time in what seems like forever. I normally only hang with my bfs friends. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and 6 months and have lived together most of that time.\n\nAnyways, I go to the party and my ex from when I was like 15 was there. He was really flirty and kept touching my thigh/waist and arm and stuff. It made me really uncomfortable and everytime he would do it I would move away, not make eye contact, go talk to someone else. I would also talk about my boyfriend an excessive amount. I should mention I have extreme social anxiety and for the most part I thought he was doing this with everyone.\n\nThis morning a girl friend told me that my ex told our mutual friend that he was going to try to sleep with me, knowing fully that I had a boyfriend. Our mutual friend told my girl friend and she just told me.\n\nI am wondering if I have a right to be mad at my girl friend and the mutual friend? They both knew fully what was going on and did not tell me what his real motives were or even try to get him to stop. I would make the 'help me' eye contact with the girl friend and another girl friend multiple times - neither of them came to my rescue.\n\nI find this COMPLETELY disrespectful to both me and my boyfriend, whom i would never cheat on! When my girlfriend told me this she said that she and the mutual friend didn't do anything cause they couldn't 'tell if i was having a bad time or not'. Why on earth would they think that's my idea of a good time, getting hit on and touched? I was completely uncomfortable but he was one of the only people that talked to me throughout the night and I really thought he was just touchy to everyone.\n\nI know I should have said something but like I said I wasn't fully aware he was trying to get with me, and I am not good with social things at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit, throwaway here.\n\nLast night while out to dinner my girlfriend and friends from work were talking about the guys they work with and at one point my girlfriend made a comment about how hot a guy she worked with was. This upset me, but not wanting to spoil the mood I didn't talk about it until we got home. \n\nWhen we did get home I just mentioned to her that I didn't appreciate that she did that, and it was rude. She immediately apologized. The thing is this morning I'm still rather upset by it. Should I mention it again, or just drop it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit, throwaway here.\n\nLast night while out to dinner my girlfriend and friends from work were talking about the guys they work with and at one point my girlfriend made a comment about how hot a guy she worked with was. This upset me, but not wanting to spoil the mood I didn't talk about it until we got home. \n\nWhen we did get home I just mentioned to her that I didn't appreciate that she did that, and it was rude. She immediately apologized. The thing is this morning I'm still rather upset by it. Should I mention it again, or just drop it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit, throwaway here.\n\nLast night while out to dinner my girlfriend and friends from work were talking about the guys they work with and at one point my girlfriend made a comment about how hot a guy she worked with was. This upset me, but not wanting to spoil the mood I didn't talk about it until we got home. \n\nWhen we did get home I just mentioned to her that I didn't appreciate that she did that, and it was rude. She immediately apologized. The thing is this morning I'm still rather upset by it. Should I mention it again, or just drop it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit, throwaway here.\n\nLast night while out to dinner my girlfriend and friends from work were talking about the guys they work with and at one point my girlfriend made a comment about how hot a guy she worked with was. This upset me, but not wanting to spoil the mood I didn't talk about it until we got home. \n\nWhen we did get home I just mentioned to her that I didn't appreciate that she did that, and it was rude. She immediately apologized. The thing is this morning I'm still rather upset by it. Should I mention it again, or just drop it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit, throwaway here.\n\nLast night while out to dinner my girlfriend and friends from work were talking about the guys they work with and at one point my girlfriend made a comment about how hot a guy she worked with was. This upset me, but not wanting to spoil the mood I didn't talk about it until we got home. \n\nWhen we did get home I just mentioned to her that I didn't appreciate that she did that, and it was rude. She immediately apologized. The thing is this morning I'm still rather upset by it. Should I mention it again, or just drop it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, first off, the new PTO policy doesn't apply to me, as I was a part time intern and have left to go to grad school. It does however apply to a lot of people who I've worked with for years who could really use the PTO money for the next way of layoffs. \n\nI worked for a non profit research institute in Florida up until last week. Because of the state budget cuts, times are really tough there, and quite a few people have been let go, or told that they may be gone by December. I was more than happy to be out of there because of their long history of squeevy behavior (I was basically forced to take a random class after I graduated with my bachelor's so that they could keep me on as a part time intern instead of hiring me as a real employee). Now on top of this, last month (I can't be sure exactly when because I didn't receive the email-but I know it was only about a two or three week notice of the change) they sent an email stating that the PTO policy was changing on August 1st. Where in the past the policy was that terminated employees would get all PTO paid out, and most would usually get some sort of severance package as well (unofficial, so no one banked on getting it). Now, PTO will not be paid out when an employee is terminated. They are applying this not only to PTO earned after the policy change, but to all PTO that was previously earned (and some employees have saved months of PTO to be used if the company goes down- we've been in dire straights for quite a while). Is it legal to apply this new policy to PTO earned under the old policy? My fear is that the company has actually spent most people's PTO money, so would be unable to pay out if many were terminated (and that they know they will likely terminate quite a few in the near future)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, first off, the new PTO policy doesn't apply to me, as I was a part time intern and have left to go to grad school. It does however apply to a lot of people who I've worked with for years who could really use the PTO money for the next way of layoffs. \n\nI worked for a non profit research institute in Florida up until last week. Because of the state budget cuts, times are really tough there, and quite a few people have been let go, or told that they may be gone by December. I was more than happy to be out of there because of their long history of squeevy behavior (I was basically forced to take a random class after I graduated with my bachelor's so that they could keep me on as a part time intern instead of hiring me as a real employee). Now on top of this, last month (I can't be sure exactly when because I didn't receive the email-but I know it was only about a two or three week notice of the change) they sent an email stating that the PTO policy was changing on August 1st. Where in the past the policy was that terminated employees would get all PTO paid out, and most would usually get some sort of severance package as well (unofficial, so no one banked on getting it). Now, PTO will not be paid out when an employee is terminated. They are applying this not only to PTO earned after the policy change, but to all PTO that was previously earned (and some employees have saved months of PTO to be used if the company goes down- we've been in dire straights for quite a while). Is it legal to apply this new policy to PTO earned under the old policy? My fear is that the company has actually spent most people's PTO money, so would be unable to pay out if many were terminated (and that they know they will likely terminate quite a few in the near future)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, first off, the new PTO policy doesn't apply to me, as I was a part time intern and have left to go to grad school. It does however apply to a lot of people who I've worked with for years who could really use the PTO money for the next way of layoffs. \n\nI worked for a non profit research institute in Florida up until last week. Because of the state budget cuts, times are really tough there, and quite a few people have been let go, or told that they may be gone by December. I was more than happy to be out of there because of their long history of squeevy behavior (I was basically forced to take a random class after I graduated with my bachelor's so that they could keep me on as a part time intern instead of hiring me as a real employee). Now on top of this, last month (I can't be sure exactly when because I didn't receive the email-but I know it was only about a two or three week notice of the change) they sent an email stating that the PTO policy was changing on August 1st. Where in the past the policy was that terminated employees would get all PTO paid out, and most would usually get some sort of severance package as well (unofficial, so no one banked on getting it). Now, PTO will not be paid out when an employee is terminated. They are applying this not only to PTO earned after the policy change, but to all PTO that was previously earned (and some employees have saved months of PTO to be used if the company goes down- we've been in dire straights for quite a while). Is it legal to apply this new policy to PTO earned under the old policy? My fear is that the company has actually spent most people's PTO money, so would be unable to pay out if many were terminated (and that they know they will likely terminate quite a few in the near future)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, first off, the new PTO policy doesn't apply to me, as I was a part time intern and have left to go to grad school. It does however apply to a lot of people who I've worked with for years who could really use the PTO money for the next way of layoffs. \n\nI worked for a non profit research institute in Florida up until last week. Because of the state budget cuts, times are really tough there, and quite a few people have been let go, or told that they may be gone by December. I was more than happy to be out of there because of their long history of squeevy behavior (I was basically forced to take a random class after I graduated with my bachelor's so that they could keep me on as a part time intern instead of hiring me as a real employee). Now on top of this, last month (I can't be sure exactly when because I didn't receive the email-but I know it was only about a two or three week notice of the change) they sent an email stating that the PTO policy was changing on August 1st. Where in the past the policy was that terminated employees would get all PTO paid out, and most would usually get some sort of severance package as well (unofficial, so no one banked on getting it). Now, PTO will not be paid out when an employee is terminated. They are applying this not only to PTO earned after the policy change, but to all PTO that was previously earned (and some employees have saved months of PTO to be used if the company goes down- we've been in dire straights for quite a while). Is it legal to apply this new policy to PTO earned under the old policy? My fear is that the company has actually spent most people's PTO money, so would be unable to pay out if many were terminated (and that they know they will likely terminate quite a few in the near future)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, first off, the new PTO policy doesn't apply to me, as I was a part time intern and have left to go to grad school. It does however apply to a lot of people who I've worked with for years who could really use the PTO money for the next way of layoffs. \n\nI worked for a non profit research institute in Florida up until last week. Because of the state budget cuts, times are really tough there, and quite a few people have been let go, or told that they may be gone by December. I was more than happy to be out of there because of their long history of squeevy behavior (I was basically forced to take a random class after I graduated with my bachelor's so that they could keep me on as a part time intern instead of hiring me as a real employee). Now on top of this, last month (I can't be sure exactly when because I didn't receive the email-but I know it was only about a two or three week notice of the change) they sent an email stating that the PTO policy was changing on August 1st. Where in the past the policy was that terminated employees would get all PTO paid out, and most would usually get some sort of severance package as well (unofficial, so no one banked on getting it). Now, PTO will not be paid out when an employee is terminated. They are applying this not only to PTO earned after the policy change, but to all PTO that was previously earned (and some employees have saved months of PTO to be used if the company goes down- we've been in dire straights for quite a while). Is it legal to apply this new policy to PTO earned under the old policy? My fear is that the company has actually spent most people's PTO money, so would be unable to pay out if many were terminated (and that they know they will likely terminate quite a few in the near future)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, first off, the new PTO policy doesn't apply to me, as I was a part time intern and have left to go to grad school. It does however apply to a lot of people who I've worked with for years who could really use the PTO money for the next way of layoffs. \n\nI worked for a non profit research institute in Florida up until last week. Because of the state budget cuts, times are really tough there, and quite a few people have been let go, or told that they may be gone by December. I was more than happy to be out of there because of their long history of squeevy behavior (I was basically forced to take a random class after I graduated with my bachelor's so that they could keep me on as a part time intern instead of hiring me as a real employee). Now on top of this, last month (I can't be sure exactly when because I didn't receive the email-but I know it was only about a two or three week notice of the change) they sent an email stating that the PTO policy was changing on August 1st. Where in the past the policy was that terminated employees would get all PTO paid out, and most would usually get some sort of severance package as well (unofficial, so no one banked on getting it). Now, PTO will not be paid out when an employee is terminated. They are applying this not only to PTO earned after the policy change, but to all PTO that was previously earned (and some employees have saved months of PTO to be used if the company goes down- we've been in dire straights for quite a while). Is it legal to apply this new policy to PTO earned under the old policy? My fear is that the company has actually spent most people's PTO money, so would be unable to pay out if many were terminated (and that they know they will likely terminate quite a few in the near future)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: so i met this girl about 2 months ago at a party. she is really cool. we have SOO many things in common. the most i have had with another girl. the problem is that when i met her, she wasnt living close by so when we were talking a lot it was over text. i later threw some parties and she came to them which was cool but nothing happened. for the past two months now i have been crushing on her pretty hard and i feel like its obvious. but now that she is close now, i try and say like oh we should watch a movie or oh i need to come back over and finish that movie. but nothing has happened and we have NEVER hung out just the two of us.\nnow this past weekend my friend has been having a shitty past couple months and when we hung out he got drunk and pretty much told me he liked her a lot too only they had just met. i feel like since so much time has passed with nothing happening between me and her that she has lost/ has no interest and that i should step aside and let my friend have a win\nhow should i approach the next conversation/ encounter with her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For years.it has been my greatest bugbear. At high school, University and now as a working man, I just seem to have no luck when it comes to photocopier machines. It's so tense when I go to copy something. I look at the photocopier. It looks at me. We get into a mutual state of agreement and then I attempt to do that, oh so very simple act of copying something.and usually everything goes very well until I push the start button when.BAM!.the photocopier will let out an almighty yell and begin to scream some intelligible message like \"FUCK YOU HUMAN YOU'RE A PIECE OF SHIT AND YOU CAN GO FUCK YOURSELF\". I try to placate the machine and figure out what I did wrong but despite my best efforts I usually end up cursing the fucker and threatening it with violence. The worst however is when it doesn't bark at me and plays all passive-aggressive like and appears to be doing what it has been asked to do but then spits out copies that are the wrong size or are missing certain parts or colours or text! What should be a 1 minute job usually ends up taking like 25 minutes! There should be community/adult education courses on how to use a photocopier."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For years.it has been my greatest bugbear. At high school, University and now as a working man, I just seem to have no luck when it comes to photocopier machines. It's so tense when I go to copy something. I look at the photocopier. It looks at me. We get into a mutual state of agreement and then I attempt to do that, oh so very simple act of copying something.and usually everything goes very well until I push the start button when.BAM!.the photocopier will let out an almighty yell and begin to scream some intelligible message like \"FUCK YOU HUMAN YOU'RE A PIECE OF SHIT AND YOU CAN GO FUCK YOURSELF\". I try to placate the machine and figure out what I did wrong but despite my best efforts I usually end up cursing the fucker and threatening it with violence. The worst however is when it doesn't bark at me and plays all passive-aggressive like and appears to be doing what it has been asked to do but then spits out copies that are the wrong size or are missing certain parts or colours or text! What should be a 1 minute job usually ends up taking like 25 minutes! There should be community/adult education courses on how to use a photocopier."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For years.it has been my greatest bugbear. At high school, University and now as a working man, I just seem to have no luck when it comes to photocopier machines. It's so tense when I go to copy something. I look at the photocopier. It looks at me. We get into a mutual state of agreement and then I attempt to do that, oh so very simple act of copying something.and usually everything goes very well until I push the start button when.BAM!.the photocopier will let out an almighty yell and begin to scream some intelligible message like \"FUCK YOU HUMAN YOU'RE A PIECE OF SHIT AND YOU CAN GO FUCK YOURSELF\". I try to placate the machine and figure out what I did wrong but despite my best efforts I usually end up cursing the fucker and threatening it with violence. The worst however is when it doesn't bark at me and plays all passive-aggressive like and appears to be doing what it has been asked to do but then spits out copies that are the wrong size or are missing certain parts or colours or text! What should be a 1 minute job usually ends up taking like 25 minutes! There should be community/adult education courses on how to use a photocopier."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For years.it has been my greatest bugbear. At high school, University and now as a working man, I just seem to have no luck when it comes to photocopier machines. It's so tense when I go to copy something. I look at the photocopier. It looks at me. We get into a mutual state of agreement and then I attempt to do that, oh so very simple act of copying something.and usually everything goes very well until I push the start button when.BAM!.the photocopier will let out an almighty yell and begin to scream some intelligible message like \"FUCK YOU HUMAN YOU'RE A PIECE OF SHIT AND YOU CAN GO FUCK YOURSELF\". I try to placate the machine and figure out what I did wrong but despite my best efforts I usually end up cursing the fucker and threatening it with violence. The worst however is when it doesn't bark at me and plays all passive-aggressive like and appears to be doing what it has been asked to do but then spits out copies that are the wrong size or are missing certain parts or colours or text! What should be a 1 minute job usually ends up taking like 25 minutes! There should be community/adult education courses on how to use a photocopier."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For years.it has been my greatest bugbear. At high school, University and now as a working man, I just seem to have no luck when it comes to photocopier machines. It's so tense when I go to copy something. I look at the photocopier. It looks at me. We get into a mutual state of agreement and then I attempt to do that, oh so very simple act of copying something.and usually everything goes very well until I push the start button when.BAM!.the photocopier will let out an almighty yell and begin to scream some intelligible message like \"FUCK YOU HUMAN YOU'RE A PIECE OF SHIT AND YOU CAN GO FUCK YOURSELF\". I try to placate the machine and figure out what I did wrong but despite my best efforts I usually end up cursing the fucker and threatening it with violence. The worst however is when it doesn't bark at me and plays all passive-aggressive like and appears to be doing what it has been asked to do but then spits out copies that are the wrong size or are missing certain parts or colours or text! What should be a 1 minute job usually ends up taking like 25 minutes! There should be community/adult education courses on how to use a photocopier."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of back story first. I met my classmate during the first week of university back in September, we got on really well together and for a while, she was the only person I was able to talk too (I did not socially fit in as of yet) I only found out that she was older then me when we talked about our birthdays and I was shocked as she looks younger then 27 years old. For the next few weeks we worked on a project together and I soon realised that we have a lot of chemistry together and this got me excited.\n\nSo about a week ago, I asked her out and she said that she would love to go out with me for a drink! I'm very excited, at the same time, so nervous, I've not been on a date before and I want this to be a really great time and also I want to really take our friendship to the next level.\n\nAny advice on this? Also, is the age-gap is problem? or does it not matter?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of back story first. I met my classmate during the first week of university back in September, we got on really well together and for a while, she was the only person I was able to talk too (I did not socially fit in as of yet) I only found out that she was older then me when we talked about our birthdays and I was shocked as she looks younger then 27 years old. For the next few weeks we worked on a project together and I soon realised that we have a lot of chemistry together and this got me excited.\n\nSo about a week ago, I asked her out and she said that she would love to go out with me for a drink! I'm very excited, at the same time, so nervous, I've not been on a date before and I want this to be a really great time and also I want to really take our friendship to the next level.\n\nAny advice on this? Also, is the age-gap is problem? or does it not matter?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of back story first. I met my classmate during the first week of university back in September, we got on really well together and for a while, she was the only person I was able to talk too (I did not socially fit in as of yet) I only found out that she was older then me when we talked about our birthdays and I was shocked as she looks younger then 27 years old. For the next few weeks we worked on a project together and I soon realised that we have a lot of chemistry together and this got me excited.\n\nSo about a week ago, I asked her out and she said that she would love to go out with me for a drink! I'm very excited, at the same time, so nervous, I've not been on a date before and I want this to be a really great time and also I want to really take our friendship to the next level.\n\nAny advice on this? Also, is the age-gap is problem? or does it not matter?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of back story first. I met my classmate during the first week of university back in September, we got on really well together and for a while, she was the only person I was able to talk too (I did not socially fit in as of yet) I only found out that she was older then me when we talked about our birthdays and I was shocked as she looks younger then 27 years old. For the next few weeks we worked on a project together and I soon realised that we have a lot of chemistry together and this got me excited.\n\nSo about a week ago, I asked her out and she said that she would love to go out with me for a drink! I'm very excited, at the same time, so nervous, I've not been on a date before and I want this to be a really great time and also I want to really take our friendship to the next level.\n\nAny advice on this? Also, is the age-gap is problem? or does it not matter?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of back story first. I met my classmate during the first week of university back in September, we got on really well together and for a while, she was the only person I was able to talk too (I did not socially fit in as of yet) I only found out that she was older then me when we talked about our birthdays and I was shocked as she looks younger then 27 years old. For the next few weeks we worked on a project together and I soon realised that we have a lot of chemistry together and this got me excited.\n\nSo about a week ago, I asked her out and she said that she would love to go out with me for a drink! I'm very excited, at the same time, so nervous, I've not been on a date before and I want this to be a really great time and also I want to really take our friendship to the next level.\n\nAny advice on this? Also, is the age-gap is problem? or does it not matter?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of back story first. I met my classmate during the first week of university back in September, we got on really well together and for a while, she was the only person I was able to talk too (I did not socially fit in as of yet) I only found out that she was older then me when we talked about our birthdays and I was shocked as she looks younger then 27 years old. For the next few weeks we worked on a project together and I soon realised that we have a lot of chemistry together and this got me excited.\n\nSo about a week ago, I asked her out and she said that she would love to go out with me for a drink! I'm very excited, at the same time, so nervous, I've not been on a date before and I want this to be a really great time and also I want to really take our friendship to the next level.\n\nAny advice on this? Also, is the age-gap is problem? or does it not matter?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationships had ups and downs and we been through a lot together, his suicidal mom my social anxiety. Our first year we lived in the same town, with our parents. In september I moved to another city to be closer to my university and he moved to a city 2 hours by train to have an internship. I had a lot of party time here, he had long lonely days. We still saw each other a couple of times a week. Now he moved to the same city as my, not because of me but for his studies. He has met all these great people. At first we were a lot together, but now he got closer to his new friends he started hanging out with them a lot. I don't mind. He deserves it after this lonely half year.\n\nYesterday he came over and told me that he still really really loves me and cares about me, but he thinks because he rather is with his friends it is not a healthy relationship. I told him that it is normal that he wants that because he had this lonely year. We still have a good and passionate sex life, he also agreed to tthat. He doesn't know what to do, because he does not want to loose me but thinks this is not fair to me. I told him I don't mind I have enough to do with my school and friends.I asked him if it had somthing to do with another girl, he said that that really was not the case. He says he still enjoys being with me, but does not miss me when he is with his friends. He hates to feel this way, but wanted to be honest with me.\n\nHe wants to have a break for this weekend to think about thinks. I still really love him and I have been crying since he told me. What to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationships had ups and downs and we been through a lot together, his suicidal mom my social anxiety. Our first year we lived in the same town, with our parents. In september I moved to another city to be closer to my university and he moved to a city 2 hours by train to have an internship. I had a lot of party time here, he had long lonely days. We still saw each other a couple of times a week. Now he moved to the same city as my, not because of me but for his studies. He has met all these great people. At first we were a lot together, but now he got closer to his new friends he started hanging out with them a lot. I don't mind. He deserves it after this lonely half year.\n\nYesterday he came over and told me that he still really really loves me and cares about me, but he thinks because he rather is with his friends it is not a healthy relationship. I told him that it is normal that he wants that because he had this lonely year. We still have a good and passionate sex life, he also agreed to tthat. He doesn't know what to do, because he does not want to loose me but thinks this is not fair to me. I told him I don't mind I have enough to do with my school and friends.I asked him if it had somthing to do with another girl, he said that that really was not the case. He says he still enjoys being with me, but does not miss me when he is with his friends. He hates to feel this way, but wanted to be honest with me.\n\nHe wants to have a break for this weekend to think about thinks. I still really love him and I have been crying since he told me. What to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationships had ups and downs and we been through a lot together, his suicidal mom my social anxiety. Our first year we lived in the same town, with our parents. In september I moved to another city to be closer to my university and he moved to a city 2 hours by train to have an internship. I had a lot of party time here, he had long lonely days. We still saw each other a couple of times a week. Now he moved to the same city as my, not because of me but for his studies. He has met all these great people. At first we were a lot together, but now he got closer to his new friends he started hanging out with them a lot. I don't mind. He deserves it after this lonely half year.\n\nYesterday he came over and told me that he still really really loves me and cares about me, but he thinks because he rather is with his friends it is not a healthy relationship. I told him that it is normal that he wants that because he had this lonely year. We still have a good and passionate sex life, he also agreed to tthat. He doesn't know what to do, because he does not want to loose me but thinks this is not fair to me. I told him I don't mind I have enough to do with my school and friends.I asked him if it had somthing to do with another girl, he said that that really was not the case. He says he still enjoys being with me, but does not miss me when he is with his friends. He hates to feel this way, but wanted to be honest with me.\n\nHe wants to have a break for this weekend to think about thinks. I still really love him and I have been crying since he told me. What to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationships had ups and downs and we been through a lot together, his suicidal mom my social anxiety. Our first year we lived in the same town, with our parents. In september I moved to another city to be closer to my university and he moved to a city 2 hours by train to have an internship. I had a lot of party time here, he had long lonely days. We still saw each other a couple of times a week. Now he moved to the same city as my, not because of me but for his studies. He has met all these great people. At first we were a lot together, but now he got closer to his new friends he started hanging out with them a lot. I don't mind. He deserves it after this lonely half year.\n\nYesterday he came over and told me that he still really really loves me and cares about me, but he thinks because he rather is with his friends it is not a healthy relationship. I told him that it is normal that he wants that because he had this lonely year. We still have a good and passionate sex life, he also agreed to tthat. He doesn't know what to do, because he does not want to loose me but thinks this is not fair to me. I told him I don't mind I have enough to do with my school and friends.I asked him if it had somthing to do with another girl, he said that that really was not the case. He says he still enjoys being with me, but does not miss me when he is with his friends. He hates to feel this way, but wanted to be honest with me.\n\nHe wants to have a break for this weekend to think about thinks. I still really love him and I have been crying since he told me. What to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Our relationships had ups and downs and we been through a lot together, his suicidal mom my social anxiety. Our first year we lived in the same town, with our parents. In september I moved to another city to be closer to my university and he moved to a city 2 hours by train to have an internship. I had a lot of party time here, he had long lonely days. We still saw each other a couple of times a week. Now he moved to the same city as my, not because of me but for his studies. He has met all these great people. At first we were a lot together, but now he got closer to his new friends he started hanging out with them a lot. I don't mind. He deserves it after this lonely half year.\n\nYesterday he came over and told me that he still really really loves me and cares about me, but he thinks because he rather is with his friends it is not a healthy relationship. I told him that it is normal that he wants that because he had this lonely year. We still have a good and passionate sex life, he also agreed to tthat. He doesn't know what to do, because he does not want to loose me but thinks this is not fair to me. I told him I don't mind I have enough to do with my school and friends.I asked him if it had somthing to do with another girl, he said that that really was not the case. He says he still enjoys being with me, but does not miss me when he is with his friends. He hates to feel this way, but wanted to be honest with me.\n\nHe wants to have a break for this weekend to think about thinks. I still really love him and I have been crying since he told me. What to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back story: I'(m) 23, she's almost 20. We study the same thing so we see each other a lot during the year, not that much in holidays. We had a little fling almost 2 years ago, didn't feel right at the time because we went too fast. We have a difference in age because Istudied first something else but failed because of personal problems (death of father, don't get along with mother, depressions) I also stutter and have been bullied for most of my highschool and elementary years ( basically nonstop from 6 to 18 years old) so I'm a shy person and I don't feel comortable with most people. I have 4 real good friends with whom I don't freak mentally out. I learned to hide that though so I appear not that shy in public.\n\nSince June we've started having a lot of contact with each other, mostly by texting. Started having feeling for her, so did she (she also tried getting more in contact a few times before but because I was afraid I didn't really acted upon it, In June I did) But she also likes someone else, but he's in a relationship with someone else, already has a child and doesn't feel like getting involved with her (he know she likes him and he likes her too) \n\nFriday we saw each other, she told after an hour she likes him more than me, and it would be better if I left. We talked for a bit, hugged for a couple of minutes and then I left.\n\nNow I don't really know what to do. I know I should leave her alone for a while. But starting in october we'll be seeing each other again a lot. She's also the only girl I feel comfortable with, especially when hugging. We also had sex during our fling 2 years ago. I don't know if I should forget her as a love interest, or wait and try again later because the other guy is a no go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back story: I'(m) 23, she's almost 20. We study the same thing so we see each other a lot during the year, not that much in holidays. We had a little fling almost 2 years ago, didn't feel right at the time because we went too fast. We have a difference in age because Istudied first something else but failed because of personal problems (death of father, don't get along with mother, depressions) I also stutter and have been bullied for most of my highschool and elementary years ( basically nonstop from 6 to 18 years old) so I'm a shy person and I don't feel comortable with most people. I have 4 real good friends with whom I don't freak mentally out. I learned to hide that though so I appear not that shy in public.\n\nSince June we've started having a lot of contact with each other, mostly by texting. Started having feeling for her, so did she (she also tried getting more in contact a few times before but because I was afraid I didn't really acted upon it, In June I did) But she also likes someone else, but he's in a relationship with someone else, already has a child and doesn't feel like getting involved with her (he know she likes him and he likes her too) \n\nFriday we saw each other, she told after an hour she likes him more than me, and it would be better if I left. We talked for a bit, hugged for a couple of minutes and then I left.\n\nNow I don't really know what to do. I know I should leave her alone for a while. But starting in october we'll be seeing each other again a lot. She's also the only girl I feel comfortable with, especially when hugging. We also had sex during our fling 2 years ago. I don't know if I should forget her as a love interest, or wait and try again later because the other guy is a no go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back story: I'(m) 23, she's almost 20. We study the same thing so we see each other a lot during the year, not that much in holidays. We had a little fling almost 2 years ago, didn't feel right at the time because we went too fast. We have a difference in age because Istudied first something else but failed because of personal problems (death of father, don't get along with mother, depressions) I also stutter and have been bullied for most of my highschool and elementary years ( basically nonstop from 6 to 18 years old) so I'm a shy person and I don't feel comortable with most people. I have 4 real good friends with whom I don't freak mentally out. I learned to hide that though so I appear not that shy in public.\n\nSince June we've started having a lot of contact with each other, mostly by texting. Started having feeling for her, so did she (she also tried getting more in contact a few times before but because I was afraid I didn't really acted upon it, In June I did) But she also likes someone else, but he's in a relationship with someone else, already has a child and doesn't feel like getting involved with her (he know she likes him and he likes her too) \n\nFriday we saw each other, she told after an hour she likes him more than me, and it would be better if I left. We talked for a bit, hugged for a couple of minutes and then I left.\n\nNow I don't really know what to do. I know I should leave her alone for a while. But starting in october we'll be seeing each other again a lot. She's also the only girl I feel comfortable with, especially when hugging. We also had sex during our fling 2 years ago. I don't know if I should forget her as a love interest, or wait and try again later because the other guy is a no go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back story: I'(m) 23, she's almost 20. We study the same thing so we see each other a lot during the year, not that much in holidays. We had a little fling almost 2 years ago, didn't feel right at the time because we went too fast. We have a difference in age because Istudied first something else but failed because of personal problems (death of father, don't get along with mother, depressions) I also stutter and have been bullied for most of my highschool and elementary years ( basically nonstop from 6 to 18 years old) so I'm a shy person and I don't feel comortable with most people. I have 4 real good friends with whom I don't freak mentally out. I learned to hide that though so I appear not that shy in public.\n\nSince June we've started having a lot of contact with each other, mostly by texting. Started having feeling for her, so did she (she also tried getting more in contact a few times before but because I was afraid I didn't really acted upon it, In June I did) But she also likes someone else, but he's in a relationship with someone else, already has a child and doesn't feel like getting involved with her (he know she likes him and he likes her too) \n\nFriday we saw each other, she told after an hour she likes him more than me, and it would be better if I left. We talked for a bit, hugged for a couple of minutes and then I left.\n\nNow I don't really know what to do. I know I should leave her alone for a while. But starting in october we'll be seeing each other again a lot. She's also the only girl I feel comfortable with, especially when hugging. We also had sex during our fling 2 years ago. I don't know if I should forget her as a love interest, or wait and try again later because the other guy is a no go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back story: I'(m) 23, she's almost 20. We study the same thing so we see each other a lot during the year, not that much in holidays. We had a little fling almost 2 years ago, didn't feel right at the time because we went too fast. We have a difference in age because Istudied first something else but failed because of personal problems (death of father, don't get along with mother, depressions) I also stutter and have been bullied for most of my highschool and elementary years ( basically nonstop from 6 to 18 years old) so I'm a shy person and I don't feel comortable with most people. I have 4 real good friends with whom I don't freak mentally out. I learned to hide that though so I appear not that shy in public.\n\nSince June we've started having a lot of contact with each other, mostly by texting. Started having feeling for her, so did she (she also tried getting more in contact a few times before but because I was afraid I didn't really acted upon it, In June I did) But she also likes someone else, but he's in a relationship with someone else, already has a child and doesn't feel like getting involved with her (he know she likes him and he likes her too) \n\nFriday we saw each other, she told after an hour she likes him more than me, and it would be better if I left. We talked for a bit, hugged for a couple of minutes and then I left.\n\nNow I don't really know what to do. I know I should leave her alone for a while. But starting in october we'll be seeing each other again a lot. She's also the only girl I feel comfortable with, especially when hugging. We also had sex during our fling 2 years ago. I don't know if I should forget her as a love interest, or wait and try again later because the other guy is a no go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back story: I'(m) 23, she's almost 20. We study the same thing so we see each other a lot during the year, not that much in holidays. We had a little fling almost 2 years ago, didn't feel right at the time because we went too fast. We have a difference in age because Istudied first something else but failed because of personal problems (death of father, don't get along with mother, depressions) I also stutter and have been bullied for most of my highschool and elementary years ( basically nonstop from 6 to 18 years old) so I'm a shy person and I don't feel comortable with most people. I have 4 real good friends with whom I don't freak mentally out. I learned to hide that though so I appear not that shy in public.\n\nSince June we've started having a lot of contact with each other, mostly by texting. Started having feeling for her, so did she (she also tried getting more in contact a few times before but because I was afraid I didn't really acted upon it, In June I did) But she also likes someone else, but he's in a relationship with someone else, already has a child and doesn't feel like getting involved with her (he know she likes him and he likes her too) \n\nFriday we saw each other, she told after an hour she likes him more than me, and it would be better if I left. We talked for a bit, hugged for a couple of minutes and then I left.\n\nNow I don't really know what to do. I know I should leave her alone for a while. But starting in october we'll be seeing each other again a lot. She's also the only girl I feel comfortable with, especially when hugging. We also had sex during our fling 2 years ago. I don't know if I should forget her as a love interest, or wait and try again later because the other guy is a no go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey redditors, I am a female in my 20's, am fairly attractive (been told, and I have done some modeling) and seem to have the worst luck in relationships. I recently got out of one because the guy said he was depressed. I believe him, but here's where things get sticky. Even though he is depressed, he says he likes me a lot.more than a friend, but doesnt feel he can be in a relationship (he won't say why). But yet, while he says this he goes out to get drunk every weekend with girls he used to work with. He says hes not doing anything with them besides drinking, but I don't believe him. Am I right to move on and GTFA?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey redditors, I am a female in my 20's, am fairly attractive (been told, and I have done some modeling) and seem to have the worst luck in relationships. I recently got out of one because the guy said he was depressed. I believe him, but here's where things get sticky. Even though he is depressed, he says he likes me a lot.more than a friend, but doesnt feel he can be in a relationship (he won't say why). But yet, while he says this he goes out to get drunk every weekend with girls he used to work with. He says hes not doing anything with them besides drinking, but I don't believe him. Am I right to move on and GTFA?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey redditors, I am a female in my 20's, am fairly attractive (been told, and I have done some modeling) and seem to have the worst luck in relationships. I recently got out of one because the guy said he was depressed. I believe him, but here's where things get sticky. Even though he is depressed, he says he likes me a lot.more than a friend, but doesnt feel he can be in a relationship (he won't say why). But yet, while he says this he goes out to get drunk every weekend with girls he used to work with. He says hes not doing anything with them besides drinking, but I don't believe him. Am I right to move on and GTFA?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey redditors, I am a female in my 20's, am fairly attractive (been told, and I have done some modeling) and seem to have the worst luck in relationships. I recently got out of one because the guy said he was depressed. I believe him, but here's where things get sticky. Even though he is depressed, he says he likes me a lot.more than a friend, but doesnt feel he can be in a relationship (he won't say why). But yet, while he says this he goes out to get drunk every weekend with girls he used to work with. He says hes not doing anything with them besides drinking, but I don't believe him. Am I right to move on and GTFA?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey redditors, I am a female in my 20's, am fairly attractive (been told, and I have done some modeling) and seem to have the worst luck in relationships. I recently got out of one because the guy said he was depressed. I believe him, but here's where things get sticky. Even though he is depressed, he says he likes me a lot.more than a friend, but doesnt feel he can be in a relationship (he won't say why). But yet, while he says this he goes out to get drunk every weekend with girls he used to work with. He says hes not doing anything with them besides drinking, but I don't believe him. Am I right to move on and GTFA?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey redditors, I am a female in my 20's, am fairly attractive (been told, and I have done some modeling) and seem to have the worst luck in relationships. I recently got out of one because the guy said he was depressed. I believe him, but here's where things get sticky. Even though he is depressed, he says he likes me a lot.more than a friend, but doesnt feel he can be in a relationship (he won't say why). But yet, while he says this he goes out to get drunk every weekend with girls he used to work with. He says hes not doing anything with them besides drinking, but I don't believe him. Am I right to move on and GTFA?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I am currently writing a commentary for a Review I wrote for the game Minecraft, in this commentary I am required to analyse the techniques I used in my writing. Now I am not very good at this and require your help to identify if I used some sort of technique. Right I start off my review with \"If ever the phrase “never judge a book by its cover” could be more appropriate, Minecraft takes first place!\" Now I was wondering if the never judge a book by its cover bit is some sort of technique. Any help would be appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I am currently writing a commentary for a Review I wrote for the game Minecraft, in this commentary I am required to analyse the techniques I used in my writing. Now I am not very good at this and require your help to identify if I used some sort of technique. Right I start off my review with \"If ever the phrase “never judge a book by its cover” could be more appropriate, Minecraft takes first place!\" Now I was wondering if the never judge a book by its cover bit is some sort of technique. Any help would be appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I am currently writing a commentary for a Review I wrote for the game Minecraft, in this commentary I am required to analyse the techniques I used in my writing. Now I am not very good at this and require your help to identify if I used some sort of technique. Right I start off my review with \"If ever the phrase “never judge a book by its cover” could be more appropriate, Minecraft takes first place!\" Now I was wondering if the never judge a book by its cover bit is some sort of technique. Any help would be appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I am currently writing a commentary for a Review I wrote for the game Minecraft, in this commentary I am required to analyse the techniques I used in my writing. Now I am not very good at this and require your help to identify if I used some sort of technique. Right I start off my review with \"If ever the phrase “never judge a book by its cover” could be more appropriate, Minecraft takes first place!\" Now I was wondering if the never judge a book by its cover bit is some sort of technique. Any help would be appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I am currently writing a commentary for a Review I wrote for the game Minecraft, in this commentary I am required to analyse the techniques I used in my writing. Now I am not very good at this and require your help to identify if I used some sort of technique. Right I start off my review with \"If ever the phrase “never judge a book by its cover” could be more appropriate, Minecraft takes first place!\" Now I was wondering if the never judge a book by its cover bit is some sort of technique. Any help would be appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I am currently writing a commentary for a Review I wrote for the game Minecraft, in this commentary I am required to analyse the techniques I used in my writing. Now I am not very good at this and require your help to identify if I used some sort of technique. Right I start off my review with \"If ever the phrase “never judge a book by its cover” could be more appropriate, Minecraft takes first place!\" Now I was wondering if the never judge a book by its cover bit is some sort of technique. Any help would be appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Pretty much as soon as I knew him there was a lot of flirting from his end, some of which I started to reciprocate. So our friendship was loaded as soon as it existed, and within 3 months we were dating. He graduated, I didn't, we did the long distance thing for a while. First time I stayed with him for a month he became gradually less affectionate and admitted eventually that he didn't know if he wanted to be with me.\n\nFor this reason and others I started to be prone to panic attacks / random bouts of crying, and I was not graceful about it, but brought it up every time I was terrified that I had cancer for some stupid reason or that he was going to break up with me due to lukewarm chat responses. Relationship limped on about a year before he broke up with me, though I'm not sure of the specific reason.\n\nI am in a happy relationship now, but also have some lingering rage, and I am extremely embarrassed about how I acted, but obviously can't apologize. Now he wants to talk, and I don't know how to do it. All of the time I knew him we were kind of friends but I don't know how to interact with him as JUST a friend, since we never had a real friendship. I am also more than a little suspicious that he just feels like he has to talk to me for his conscience because I always said I'd hate to lose him as a friend, but again, I can't just say that to him in the midst of a casual conversation.\n\nThings are awkward and overformal, and I am always embarrassed, angry that I am embarrassed, and tongue-tied in communications (facebook messages and skype IM's). It's also pretty awkward on his end, I think. But I DON'T want to give up on talking to him, because I really liked him for some time and he's part of a large group of friends that I've largely lost connection with, partially, I think, because I don't talk to him anymore.\n\nSo how do I relearn how to talk to him? What should we talk ABOUT? Do I reference past things ever or try not to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Pretty much as soon as I knew him there was a lot of flirting from his end, some of which I started to reciprocate. So our friendship was loaded as soon as it existed, and within 3 months we were dating. He graduated, I didn't, we did the long distance thing for a while. First time I stayed with him for a month he became gradually less affectionate and admitted eventually that he didn't know if he wanted to be with me.\n\nFor this reason and others I started to be prone to panic attacks / random bouts of crying, and I was not graceful about it, but brought it up every time I was terrified that I had cancer for some stupid reason or that he was going to break up with me due to lukewarm chat responses. Relationship limped on about a year before he broke up with me, though I'm not sure of the specific reason.\n\nI am in a happy relationship now, but also have some lingering rage, and I am extremely embarrassed about how I acted, but obviously can't apologize. Now he wants to talk, and I don't know how to do it. All of the time I knew him we were kind of friends but I don't know how to interact with him as JUST a friend, since we never had a real friendship. I am also more than a little suspicious that he just feels like he has to talk to me for his conscience because I always said I'd hate to lose him as a friend, but again, I can't just say that to him in the midst of a casual conversation.\n\nThings are awkward and overformal, and I am always embarrassed, angry that I am embarrassed, and tongue-tied in communications (facebook messages and skype IM's). It's also pretty awkward on his end, I think. But I DON'T want to give up on talking to him, because I really liked him for some time and he's part of a large group of friends that I've largely lost connection with, partially, I think, because I don't talk to him anymore.\n\nSo how do I relearn how to talk to him? What should we talk ABOUT? Do I reference past things ever or try not to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Pretty much as soon as I knew him there was a lot of flirting from his end, some of which I started to reciprocate. So our friendship was loaded as soon as it existed, and within 3 months we were dating. He graduated, I didn't, we did the long distance thing for a while. First time I stayed with him for a month he became gradually less affectionate and admitted eventually that he didn't know if he wanted to be with me.\n\nFor this reason and others I started to be prone to panic attacks / random bouts of crying, and I was not graceful about it, but brought it up every time I was terrified that I had cancer for some stupid reason or that he was going to break up with me due to lukewarm chat responses. Relationship limped on about a year before he broke up with me, though I'm not sure of the specific reason.\n\nI am in a happy relationship now, but also have some lingering rage, and I am extremely embarrassed about how I acted, but obviously can't apologize. Now he wants to talk, and I don't know how to do it. All of the time I knew him we were kind of friends but I don't know how to interact with him as JUST a friend, since we never had a real friendship. I am also more than a little suspicious that he just feels like he has to talk to me for his conscience because I always said I'd hate to lose him as a friend, but again, I can't just say that to him in the midst of a casual conversation.\n\nThings are awkward and overformal, and I am always embarrassed, angry that I am embarrassed, and tongue-tied in communications (facebook messages and skype IM's). It's also pretty awkward on his end, I think. But I DON'T want to give up on talking to him, because I really liked him for some time and he's part of a large group of friends that I've largely lost connection with, partially, I think, because I don't talk to him anymore.\n\nSo how do I relearn how to talk to him? What should we talk ABOUT? Do I reference past things ever or try not to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Pretty much as soon as I knew him there was a lot of flirting from his end, some of which I started to reciprocate. So our friendship was loaded as soon as it existed, and within 3 months we were dating. He graduated, I didn't, we did the long distance thing for a while. First time I stayed with him for a month he became gradually less affectionate and admitted eventually that he didn't know if he wanted to be with me.\n\nFor this reason and others I started to be prone to panic attacks / random bouts of crying, and I was not graceful about it, but brought it up every time I was terrified that I had cancer for some stupid reason or that he was going to break up with me due to lukewarm chat responses. Relationship limped on about a year before he broke up with me, though I'm not sure of the specific reason.\n\nI am in a happy relationship now, but also have some lingering rage, and I am extremely embarrassed about how I acted, but obviously can't apologize. Now he wants to talk, and I don't know how to do it. All of the time I knew him we were kind of friends but I don't know how to interact with him as JUST a friend, since we never had a real friendship. I am also more than a little suspicious that he just feels like he has to talk to me for his conscience because I always said I'd hate to lose him as a friend, but again, I can't just say that to him in the midst of a casual conversation.\n\nThings are awkward and overformal, and I am always embarrassed, angry that I am embarrassed, and tongue-tied in communications (facebook messages and skype IM's). It's also pretty awkward on his end, I think. But I DON'T want to give up on talking to him, because I really liked him for some time and he's part of a large group of friends that I've largely lost connection with, partially, I think, because I don't talk to him anymore.\n\nSo how do I relearn how to talk to him? What should we talk ABOUT? Do I reference past things ever or try not to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Pretty much as soon as I knew him there was a lot of flirting from his end, some of which I started to reciprocate. So our friendship was loaded as soon as it existed, and within 3 months we were dating. He graduated, I didn't, we did the long distance thing for a while. First time I stayed with him for a month he became gradually less affectionate and admitted eventually that he didn't know if he wanted to be with me.\n\nFor this reason and others I started to be prone to panic attacks / random bouts of crying, and I was not graceful about it, but brought it up every time I was terrified that I had cancer for some stupid reason or that he was going to break up with me due to lukewarm chat responses. Relationship limped on about a year before he broke up with me, though I'm not sure of the specific reason.\n\nI am in a happy relationship now, but also have some lingering rage, and I am extremely embarrassed about how I acted, but obviously can't apologize. Now he wants to talk, and I don't know how to do it. All of the time I knew him we were kind of friends but I don't know how to interact with him as JUST a friend, since we never had a real friendship. I am also more than a little suspicious that he just feels like he has to talk to me for his conscience because I always said I'd hate to lose him as a friend, but again, I can't just say that to him in the midst of a casual conversation.\n\nThings are awkward and overformal, and I am always embarrassed, angry that I am embarrassed, and tongue-tied in communications (facebook messages and skype IM's). It's also pretty awkward on his end, I think. But I DON'T want to give up on talking to him, because I really liked him for some time and he's part of a large group of friends that I've largely lost connection with, partially, I think, because I don't talk to him anymore.\n\nSo how do I relearn how to talk to him? What should we talk ABOUT? Do I reference past things ever or try not to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Pretty much as soon as I knew him there was a lot of flirting from his end, some of which I started to reciprocate. So our friendship was loaded as soon as it existed, and within 3 months we were dating. He graduated, I didn't, we did the long distance thing for a while. First time I stayed with him for a month he became gradually less affectionate and admitted eventually that he didn't know if he wanted to be with me.\n\nFor this reason and others I started to be prone to panic attacks / random bouts of crying, and I was not graceful about it, but brought it up every time I was terrified that I had cancer for some stupid reason or that he was going to break up with me due to lukewarm chat responses. Relationship limped on about a year before he broke up with me, though I'm not sure of the specific reason.\n\nI am in a happy relationship now, but also have some lingering rage, and I am extremely embarrassed about how I acted, but obviously can't apologize. Now he wants to talk, and I don't know how to do it. All of the time I knew him we were kind of friends but I don't know how to interact with him as JUST a friend, since we never had a real friendship. I am also more than a little suspicious that he just feels like he has to talk to me for his conscience because I always said I'd hate to lose him as a friend, but again, I can't just say that to him in the midst of a casual conversation.\n\nThings are awkward and overformal, and I am always embarrassed, angry that I am embarrassed, and tongue-tied in communications (facebook messages and skype IM's). It's also pretty awkward on his end, I think. But I DON'T want to give up on talking to him, because I really liked him for some time and he's part of a large group of friends that I've largely lost connection with, partially, I think, because I don't talk to him anymore.\n\nSo how do I relearn how to talk to him? What should we talk ABOUT? Do I reference past things ever or try not to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When she falls asleep on the couch or any other situation where I have to wake her up she gets angry and hits me when I try to wake her. \n\nI've tried being nice and whisper / kiss her while waking her gently, she won't get up. I've tried shaking her and being louder, still nothing most of the time. After a while of trying she will get super angry and either push me or swing wildly hitting me, sometimes yelling to go away and leave her alone as well. \n\nBy this point I'm pissed and just walk away and leave her there. When she finally is awake she has no memory of the incident and gets annoyed when I'm in a bad mood. \n\nThis has been the cause of numerous fights and I'm wondering how to handle the situation moving forward. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When she falls asleep on the couch or any other situation where I have to wake her up she gets angry and hits me when I try to wake her. \n\nI've tried being nice and whisper / kiss her while waking her gently, she won't get up. I've tried shaking her and being louder, still nothing most of the time. After a while of trying she will get super angry and either push me or swing wildly hitting me, sometimes yelling to go away and leave her alone as well. \n\nBy this point I'm pissed and just walk away and leave her there. When she finally is awake she has no memory of the incident and gets annoyed when I'm in a bad mood. \n\nThis has been the cause of numerous fights and I'm wondering how to handle the situation moving forward. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When she falls asleep on the couch or any other situation where I have to wake her up she gets angry and hits me when I try to wake her. \n\nI've tried being nice and whisper / kiss her while waking her gently, she won't get up. I've tried shaking her and being louder, still nothing most of the time. After a while of trying she will get super angry and either push me or swing wildly hitting me, sometimes yelling to go away and leave her alone as well. \n\nBy this point I'm pissed and just walk away and leave her there. When she finally is awake she has no memory of the incident and gets annoyed when I'm in a bad mood. \n\nThis has been the cause of numerous fights and I'm wondering how to handle the situation moving forward. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When she falls asleep on the couch or any other situation where I have to wake her up she gets angry and hits me when I try to wake her. \n\nI've tried being nice and whisper / kiss her while waking her gently, she won't get up. I've tried shaking her and being louder, still nothing most of the time. After a while of trying she will get super angry and either push me or swing wildly hitting me, sometimes yelling to go away and leave her alone as well. \n\nBy this point I'm pissed and just walk away and leave her there. When she finally is awake she has no memory of the incident and gets annoyed when I'm in a bad mood. \n\nThis has been the cause of numerous fights and I'm wondering how to handle the situation moving forward. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When she falls asleep on the couch or any other situation where I have to wake her up she gets angry and hits me when I try to wake her. \n\nI've tried being nice and whisper / kiss her while waking her gently, she won't get up. I've tried shaking her and being louder, still nothing most of the time. After a while of trying she will get super angry and either push me or swing wildly hitting me, sometimes yelling to go away and leave her alone as well. \n\nBy this point I'm pissed and just walk away and leave her there. When she finally is awake she has no memory of the incident and gets annoyed when I'm in a bad mood. \n\nThis has been the cause of numerous fights and I'm wondering how to handle the situation moving forward. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When she falls asleep on the couch or any other situation where I have to wake her up she gets angry and hits me when I try to wake her. \n\nI've tried being nice and whisper / kiss her while waking her gently, she won't get up. I've tried shaking her and being louder, still nothing most of the time. After a while of trying she will get super angry and either push me or swing wildly hitting me, sometimes yelling to go away and leave her alone as well. \n\nBy this point I'm pissed and just walk away and leave her there. When she finally is awake she has no memory of the incident and gets annoyed when I'm in a bad mood. \n\nThis has been the cause of numerous fights and I'm wondering how to handle the situation moving forward. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit! :)\nI am a 18 year old boy, and i am very close with my ex-gf. She tells me she loves me on a daily basis, we text daily and we have sex from time to time. \nHere comes the catch. I met her now exactly five years ago, and we have been bf and gf for about 7 times now. It never really lasted, because we were much younger and I was not able to meet her as often as i would like. \nTwo years ago she got into another relationship with a guy who used foul tricks such as trying to slit his wrists and blame it on her as a guilt trip. (Really weird i know) then he started threatning me and later wanted to report me to the police for accepting to fight him. (Again, really weird guy) Now they finally broke up half a year ago, but somehow, even tough it feels like a relationship. I cant seem to make it official. And it sucks, i really want one last try. \nAny advice? :)\n(Tell me if i have to do anything over, on my phone and first time poster.)\nEdit:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit! :)\nI am a 18 year old boy, and i am very close with my ex-gf. She tells me she loves me on a daily basis, we text daily and we have sex from time to time. \nHere comes the catch. I met her now exactly five years ago, and we have been bf and gf for about 7 times now. It never really lasted, because we were much younger and I was not able to meet her as often as i would like. \nTwo years ago she got into another relationship with a guy who used foul tricks such as trying to slit his wrists and blame it on her as a guilt trip. (Really weird i know) then he started threatning me and later wanted to report me to the police for accepting to fight him. (Again, really weird guy) Now they finally broke up half a year ago, but somehow, even tough it feels like a relationship. I cant seem to make it official. And it sucks, i really want one last try. \nAny advice? :)\n(Tell me if i have to do anything over, on my phone and first time poster.)\nEdit:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit! :)\nI am a 18 year old boy, and i am very close with my ex-gf. She tells me she loves me on a daily basis, we text daily and we have sex from time to time. \nHere comes the catch. I met her now exactly five years ago, and we have been bf and gf for about 7 times now. It never really lasted, because we were much younger and I was not able to meet her as often as i would like. \nTwo years ago she got into another relationship with a guy who used foul tricks such as trying to slit his wrists and blame it on her as a guilt trip. (Really weird i know) then he started threatning me and later wanted to report me to the police for accepting to fight him. (Again, really weird guy) Now they finally broke up half a year ago, but somehow, even tough it feels like a relationship. I cant seem to make it official. And it sucks, i really want one last try. \nAny advice? :)\n(Tell me if i have to do anything over, on my phone and first time poster.)\nEdit:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit! :)\nI am a 18 year old boy, and i am very close with my ex-gf. She tells me she loves me on a daily basis, we text daily and we have sex from time to time. \nHere comes the catch. I met her now exactly five years ago, and we have been bf and gf for about 7 times now. It never really lasted, because we were much younger and I was not able to meet her as often as i would like. \nTwo years ago she got into another relationship with a guy who used foul tricks such as trying to slit his wrists and blame it on her as a guilt trip. (Really weird i know) then he started threatning me and later wanted to report me to the police for accepting to fight him. (Again, really weird guy) Now they finally broke up half a year ago, but somehow, even tough it feels like a relationship. I cant seem to make it official. And it sucks, i really want one last try. \nAny advice? :)\n(Tell me if i have to do anything over, on my phone and first time poster.)\nEdit:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit! :)\nI am a 18 year old boy, and i am very close with my ex-gf. She tells me she loves me on a daily basis, we text daily and we have sex from time to time. \nHere comes the catch. I met her now exactly five years ago, and we have been bf and gf for about 7 times now. It never really lasted, because we were much younger and I was not able to meet her as often as i would like. \nTwo years ago she got into another relationship with a guy who used foul tricks such as trying to slit his wrists and blame it on her as a guilt trip. (Really weird i know) then he started threatning me and later wanted to report me to the police for accepting to fight him. (Again, really weird guy) Now they finally broke up half a year ago, but somehow, even tough it feels like a relationship. I cant seem to make it official. And it sucks, i really want one last try. \nAny advice? :)\n(Tell me if i have to do anything over, on my phone and first time poster.)\nEdit:"
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