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{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First a note about me, I am very shy and a little bit awkward. I have a terrible time meeting new people and only have a few friends (which I am okay with usually, but sometimes meeting people is nice). Another important note, I have a boyfriend I've been in a relationship with for over a year. \nSo I recently started talking with a guy in one of my classes. We are part of a group for a project that is going to take the whole semester. Some of our group met one day to work on part of the project and everyone else ended up having to leave early except for me and this guy. This was the first time we met more or less. We talked while finishing up the last bit of work. At one point he complimented my hair, which immediately made me worry that he was looking for more than just friendship here. Within in the same conversation it came up quite naturally that I was currently in a relationship so I thought I was in the clear. Skip ahead a bit, we text every once in a while (he always initiates), chat when we see each other on campus, and ended up studying for a midterm. I have multiple times inserted my boyfriend into the conversation, so I thought this was one of those fabled relationships with a guy (who isn't a friend of my boyfriend) that would honestly just want to be friends. Although a problem of mine is that I never think anyone is into me as more than a friend. Today, through texting, my getting nervous about talking to new people came up, to which I got the reply: \"Meh cute sociable girl like you? Shouldn't be anything that makes you nervous. Well maybe heights. Heights make everyone nervous. What ya reading?\" I avoided that and started talking about the homework I was working on. This brings me to my question. How should I proceed here? Am I reading to much into that comment? I'd like to stay friends, but, you know. only friends." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First a note about me, I am very shy and a little bit awkward. I have a terrible time meeting new people and only have a few friends (which I am okay with usually, but sometimes meeting people is nice). Another important note, I have a boyfriend I've been in a relationship with for over a year. \nSo I recently started talking with a guy in one of my classes. We are part of a group for a project that is going to take the whole semester. Some of our group met one day to work on part of the project and everyone else ended up having to leave early except for me and this guy. This was the first time we met more or less. We talked while finishing up the last bit of work. At one point he complimented my hair, which immediately made me worry that he was looking for more than just friendship here. Within in the same conversation it came up quite naturally that I was currently in a relationship so I thought I was in the clear. Skip ahead a bit, we text every once in a while (he always initiates), chat when we see each other on campus, and ended up studying for a midterm. I have multiple times inserted my boyfriend into the conversation, so I thought this was one of those fabled relationships with a guy (who isn't a friend of my boyfriend) that would honestly just want to be friends. Although a problem of mine is that I never think anyone is into me as more than a friend. Today, through texting, my getting nervous about talking to new people came up, to which I got the reply: \"Meh cute sociable girl like you? Shouldn't be anything that makes you nervous. Well maybe heights. Heights make everyone nervous. What ya reading?\" I avoided that and started talking about the homework I was working on. This brings me to my question. How should I proceed here? Am I reading to much into that comment? I'd like to stay friends, but, you know. only friends." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First a note about me, I am very shy and a little bit awkward. I have a terrible time meeting new people and only have a few friends (which I am okay with usually, but sometimes meeting people is nice). Another important note, I have a boyfriend I've been in a relationship with for over a year. \nSo I recently started talking with a guy in one of my classes. We are part of a group for a project that is going to take the whole semester. Some of our group met one day to work on part of the project and everyone else ended up having to leave early except for me and this guy. This was the first time we met more or less. We talked while finishing up the last bit of work. At one point he complimented my hair, which immediately made me worry that he was looking for more than just friendship here. Within in the same conversation it came up quite naturally that I was currently in a relationship so I thought I was in the clear. Skip ahead a bit, we text every once in a while (he always initiates), chat when we see each other on campus, and ended up studying for a midterm. I have multiple times inserted my boyfriend into the conversation, so I thought this was one of those fabled relationships with a guy (who isn't a friend of my boyfriend) that would honestly just want to be friends. Although a problem of mine is that I never think anyone is into me as more than a friend. Today, through texting, my getting nervous about talking to new people came up, to which I got the reply: \"Meh cute sociable girl like you? Shouldn't be anything that makes you nervous. Well maybe heights. Heights make everyone nervous. What ya reading?\" I avoided that and started talking about the homework I was working on. This brings me to my question. How should I proceed here? Am I reading to much into that comment? I'd like to stay friends, but, you know. only friends." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First a note about me, I am very shy and a little bit awkward. I have a terrible time meeting new people and only have a few friends (which I am okay with usually, but sometimes meeting people is nice). Another important note, I have a boyfriend I've been in a relationship with for over a year. \nSo I recently started talking with a guy in one of my classes. We are part of a group for a project that is going to take the whole semester. Some of our group met one day to work on part of the project and everyone else ended up having to leave early except for me and this guy. This was the first time we met more or less. We talked while finishing up the last bit of work. At one point he complimented my hair, which immediately made me worry that he was looking for more than just friendship here. Within in the same conversation it came up quite naturally that I was currently in a relationship so I thought I was in the clear. Skip ahead a bit, we text every once in a while (he always initiates), chat when we see each other on campus, and ended up studying for a midterm. I have multiple times inserted my boyfriend into the conversation, so I thought this was one of those fabled relationships with a guy (who isn't a friend of my boyfriend) that would honestly just want to be friends. Although a problem of mine is that I never think anyone is into me as more than a friend. Today, through texting, my getting nervous about talking to new people came up, to which I got the reply: \"Meh cute sociable girl like you? Shouldn't be anything that makes you nervous. Well maybe heights. Heights make everyone nervous. What ya reading?\" I avoided that and started talking about the homework I was working on. This brings me to my question. How should I proceed here? Am I reading to much into that comment? I'd like to stay friends, but, you know. only friends." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First a note about me, I am very shy and a little bit awkward. I have a terrible time meeting new people and only have a few friends (which I am okay with usually, but sometimes meeting people is nice). Another important note, I have a boyfriend I've been in a relationship with for over a year. \nSo I recently started talking with a guy in one of my classes. We are part of a group for a project that is going to take the whole semester. Some of our group met one day to work on part of the project and everyone else ended up having to leave early except for me and this guy. This was the first time we met more or less. We talked while finishing up the last bit of work. At one point he complimented my hair, which immediately made me worry that he was looking for more than just friendship here. Within in the same conversation it came up quite naturally that I was currently in a relationship so I thought I was in the clear. Skip ahead a bit, we text every once in a while (he always initiates), chat when we see each other on campus, and ended up studying for a midterm. I have multiple times inserted my boyfriend into the conversation, so I thought this was one of those fabled relationships with a guy (who isn't a friend of my boyfriend) that would honestly just want to be friends. Although a problem of mine is that I never think anyone is into me as more than a friend. Today, through texting, my getting nervous about talking to new people came up, to which I got the reply: \"Meh cute sociable girl like you? Shouldn't be anything that makes you nervous. Well maybe heights. Heights make everyone nervous. What ya reading?\" I avoided that and started talking about the homework I was working on. This brings me to my question. How should I proceed here? Am I reading to much into that comment? I'd like to stay friends, but, you know. only friends." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I have been juggling this question in my brain for the past few months especially now, and I am just not certain on how I feel about it. Whether it's more important to have life, no matter of how much shit is wrong with it (homeless, jobless, unhappy, ill, stagnant, lonely, depressed,{insert personal life issue here}, etc). Or is it the quality of life that matters most. If you aren't happy in your life, and you have given it your all from the resources that you have to change that with no avail. Then is life really worth living? Hell, let's say you have managed to achieve a level of financial stability that you were looking for when you were younger. But now, in old age, you aren't able to participate in those things that you wanted to do so badly when you were younger. The only things you have now are regrets and unkempt promises to yourself. Is life worth having or suffering still then?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I have been juggling this question in my brain for the past few months especially now, and I am just not certain on how I feel about it. Whether it's more important to have life, no matter of how much shit is wrong with it (homeless, jobless, unhappy, ill, stagnant, lonely, depressed,{insert personal life issue here}, etc). Or is it the quality of life that matters most. If you aren't happy in your life, and you have given it your all from the resources that you have to change that with no avail. Then is life really worth living? Hell, let's say you have managed to achieve a level of financial stability that you were looking for when you were younger. But now, in old age, you aren't able to participate in those things that you wanted to do so badly when you were younger. The only things you have now are regrets and unkempt promises to yourself. Is life worth having or suffering still then?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I have been juggling this question in my brain for the past few months especially now, and I am just not certain on how I feel about it. Whether it's more important to have life, no matter of how much shit is wrong with it (homeless, jobless, unhappy, ill, stagnant, lonely, depressed,{insert personal life issue here}, etc). Or is it the quality of life that matters most. If you aren't happy in your life, and you have given it your all from the resources that you have to change that with no avail. Then is life really worth living? Hell, let's say you have managed to achieve a level of financial stability that you were looking for when you were younger. But now, in old age, you aren't able to participate in those things that you wanted to do so badly when you were younger. The only things you have now are regrets and unkempt promises to yourself. Is life worth having or suffering still then?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I have been juggling this question in my brain for the past few months especially now, and I am just not certain on how I feel about it. Whether it's more important to have life, no matter of how much shit is wrong with it (homeless, jobless, unhappy, ill, stagnant, lonely, depressed,{insert personal life issue here}, etc). Or is it the quality of life that matters most. If you aren't happy in your life, and you have given it your all from the resources that you have to change that with no avail. Then is life really worth living? Hell, let's say you have managed to achieve a level of financial stability that you were looking for when you were younger. But now, in old age, you aren't able to participate in those things that you wanted to do so badly when you were younger. The only things you have now are regrets and unkempt promises to yourself. Is life worth having or suffering still then?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I have been juggling this question in my brain for the past few months especially now, and I am just not certain on how I feel about it. Whether it's more important to have life, no matter of how much shit is wrong with it (homeless, jobless, unhappy, ill, stagnant, lonely, depressed,{insert personal life issue here}, etc). Or is it the quality of life that matters most. If you aren't happy in your life, and you have given it your all from the resources that you have to change that with no avail. Then is life really worth living? Hell, let's say you have managed to achieve a level of financial stability that you were looking for when you were younger. But now, in old age, you aren't able to participate in those things that you wanted to do so badly when you were younger. The only things you have now are regrets and unkempt promises to yourself. Is life worth having or suffering still then?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I have been juggling this question in my brain for the past few months especially now, and I am just not certain on how I feel about it. Whether it's more important to have life, no matter of how much shit is wrong with it (homeless, jobless, unhappy, ill, stagnant, lonely, depressed,{insert personal life issue here}, etc). Or is it the quality of life that matters most. If you aren't happy in your life, and you have given it your all from the resources that you have to change that with no avail. Then is life really worth living? Hell, let's say you have managed to achieve a level of financial stability that you were looking for when you were younger. But now, in old age, you aren't able to participate in those things that you wanted to do so badly when you were younger. The only things you have now are regrets and unkempt promises to yourself. Is life worth having or suffering still then?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. My bf and I have been together for 6 months and so far it's been amazing. He's kind, gentle, and loving.I know it's early but he's the kind of person I want to share my life with.\n\nI very very rarely drink anymore because I don't mix well with liquor, but this NYE we were going to a party with a bunch of his friends, and I gave in. I had a shot and a few glasses of wine, but since I hadn't eaten dinner, I got really drunk.\n\nI started being mean to him for no reason. I don't know exactly what was said but I know I was a pain in the ass to deal with and I'm sure I ruined his night. The next morning I woke up and all I could do was cry and apologize. He said not to beat myself up about it.\n\nLast night, however, I asked him about it because I could tell there was still something wrong. He said he's harboring a lot of resentment about that night and that he has no idea where my anger came from. He's [rightfully] worried about that happening again. I can't believe this happened and I am so regretful. This has happened 3-4 other times in my life since I was a teen (where I become mean and say things I don't mean or remember), and I know there's no excuse. \n\nCan I fix this? Is there anything I can do to make it up to him? I would never forgive myself if this ruined my relationship." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. My bf and I have been together for 6 months and so far it's been amazing. He's kind, gentle, and loving.I know it's early but he's the kind of person I want to share my life with.\n\nI very very rarely drink anymore because I don't mix well with liquor, but this NYE we were going to a party with a bunch of his friends, and I gave in. I had a shot and a few glasses of wine, but since I hadn't eaten dinner, I got really drunk.\n\nI started being mean to him for no reason. I don't know exactly what was said but I know I was a pain in the ass to deal with and I'm sure I ruined his night. The next morning I woke up and all I could do was cry and apologize. He said not to beat myself up about it.\n\nLast night, however, I asked him about it because I could tell there was still something wrong. He said he's harboring a lot of resentment about that night and that he has no idea where my anger came from. He's [rightfully] worried about that happening again. I can't believe this happened and I am so regretful. This has happened 3-4 other times in my life since I was a teen (where I become mean and say things I don't mean or remember), and I know there's no excuse. \n\nCan I fix this? Is there anything I can do to make it up to him? I would never forgive myself if this ruined my relationship." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. My bf and I have been together for 6 months and so far it's been amazing. He's kind, gentle, and loving.I know it's early but he's the kind of person I want to share my life with.\n\nI very very rarely drink anymore because I don't mix well with liquor, but this NYE we were going to a party with a bunch of his friends, and I gave in. I had a shot and a few glasses of wine, but since I hadn't eaten dinner, I got really drunk.\n\nI started being mean to him for no reason. I don't know exactly what was said but I know I was a pain in the ass to deal with and I'm sure I ruined his night. The next morning I woke up and all I could do was cry and apologize. He said not to beat myself up about it.\n\nLast night, however, I asked him about it because I could tell there was still something wrong. He said he's harboring a lot of resentment about that night and that he has no idea where my anger came from. He's [rightfully] worried about that happening again. I can't believe this happened and I am so regretful. This has happened 3-4 other times in my life since I was a teen (where I become mean and say things I don't mean or remember), and I know there's no excuse. \n\nCan I fix this? Is there anything I can do to make it up to him? I would never forgive myself if this ruined my relationship." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. My bf and I have been together for 6 months and so far it's been amazing. He's kind, gentle, and loving.I know it's early but he's the kind of person I want to share my life with.\n\nI very very rarely drink anymore because I don't mix well with liquor, but this NYE we were going to a party with a bunch of his friends, and I gave in. I had a shot and a few glasses of wine, but since I hadn't eaten dinner, I got really drunk.\n\nI started being mean to him for no reason. I don't know exactly what was said but I know I was a pain in the ass to deal with and I'm sure I ruined his night. The next morning I woke up and all I could do was cry and apologize. He said not to beat myself up about it.\n\nLast night, however, I asked him about it because I could tell there was still something wrong. He said he's harboring a lot of resentment about that night and that he has no idea where my anger came from. He's [rightfully] worried about that happening again. I can't believe this happened and I am so regretful. This has happened 3-4 other times in my life since I was a teen (where I become mean and say things I don't mean or remember), and I know there's no excuse. \n\nCan I fix this? Is there anything I can do to make it up to him? I would never forgive myself if this ruined my relationship." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. My bf and I have been together for 6 months and so far it's been amazing. He's kind, gentle, and loving.I know it's early but he's the kind of person I want to share my life with.\n\nI very very rarely drink anymore because I don't mix well with liquor, but this NYE we were going to a party with a bunch of his friends, and I gave in. I had a shot and a few glasses of wine, but since I hadn't eaten dinner, I got really drunk.\n\nI started being mean to him for no reason. I don't know exactly what was said but I know I was a pain in the ass to deal with and I'm sure I ruined his night. The next morning I woke up and all I could do was cry and apologize. He said not to beat myself up about it.\n\nLast night, however, I asked him about it because I could tell there was still something wrong. He said he's harboring a lot of resentment about that night and that he has no idea where my anger came from. He's [rightfully] worried about that happening again. I can't believe this happened and I am so regretful. This has happened 3-4 other times in my life since I was a teen (where I become mean and say things I don't mean or remember), and I know there's no excuse. \n\nCan I fix this? Is there anything I can do to make it up to him? I would never forgive myself if this ruined my relationship." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. My bf and I have been together for 6 months and so far it's been amazing. He's kind, gentle, and loving.I know it's early but he's the kind of person I want to share my life with.\n\nI very very rarely drink anymore because I don't mix well with liquor, but this NYE we were going to a party with a bunch of his friends, and I gave in. I had a shot and a few glasses of wine, but since I hadn't eaten dinner, I got really drunk.\n\nI started being mean to him for no reason. I don't know exactly what was said but I know I was a pain in the ass to deal with and I'm sure I ruined his night. The next morning I woke up and all I could do was cry and apologize. He said not to beat myself up about it.\n\nLast night, however, I asked him about it because I could tell there was still something wrong. He said he's harboring a lot of resentment about that night and that he has no idea where my anger came from. He's [rightfully] worried about that happening again. I can't believe this happened and I am so regretful. This has happened 3-4 other times in my life since I was a teen (where I become mean and say things I don't mean or remember), and I know there's no excuse. \n\nCan I fix this? Is there anything I can do to make it up to him? I would never forgive myself if this ruined my relationship." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, so I've decided I need to break up. I hate break ups. \n\nI wasn't sure about him to begin with but I thought I'd try it out. He's been mostly good, but I definitely no longer want to be with him. I don't want him touching me etc. he has a problem with boundaries. Eg. Wednesday night he came to my house at 1.15AM to see me. Knocking on my window/wall till I came outside. I hadn't checked FB so I didn't know he'd been trying to contact me (issue w his phone). Overreaction on his part and it stressed me out. Today he tried to call me 6 times in a row over a 20min period. I feel like he's stalking me and won't leave me alone. \n\nI haven't seen him since Thursday. I have no desire to catch up or do anything with him, however, I need to break up with him. I need to do it in person, I don't feel like it's something that should be done over the phone. It's making me feel anxious when I think about him/the situation. \n\nThat being said I liked it when we first started going out and when we were just friends. At some stage in the future I'd like to hang out as friends. Given that he is kinda obsessed with me and really intense (tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me and have kids with me etc.) do you think this us possible?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, so I've decided I need to break up. I hate break ups. \n\nI wasn't sure about him to begin with but I thought I'd try it out. He's been mostly good, but I definitely no longer want to be with him. I don't want him touching me etc. he has a problem with boundaries. Eg. Wednesday night he came to my house at 1.15AM to see me. Knocking on my window/wall till I came outside. I hadn't checked FB so I didn't know he'd been trying to contact me (issue w his phone). Overreaction on his part and it stressed me out. Today he tried to call me 6 times in a row over a 20min period. I feel like he's stalking me and won't leave me alone. \n\nI haven't seen him since Thursday. I have no desire to catch up or do anything with him, however, I need to break up with him. I need to do it in person, I don't feel like it's something that should be done over the phone. It's making me feel anxious when I think about him/the situation. \n\nThat being said I liked it when we first started going out and when we were just friends. At some stage in the future I'd like to hang out as friends. Given that he is kinda obsessed with me and really intense (tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me and have kids with me etc.) do you think this us possible?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, so I've decided I need to break up. I hate break ups. \n\nI wasn't sure about him to begin with but I thought I'd try it out. He's been mostly good, but I definitely no longer want to be with him. I don't want him touching me etc. he has a problem with boundaries. Eg. Wednesday night he came to my house at 1.15AM to see me. Knocking on my window/wall till I came outside. I hadn't checked FB so I didn't know he'd been trying to contact me (issue w his phone). Overreaction on his part and it stressed me out. Today he tried to call me 6 times in a row over a 20min period. I feel like he's stalking me and won't leave me alone. \n\nI haven't seen him since Thursday. I have no desire to catch up or do anything with him, however, I need to break up with him. I need to do it in person, I don't feel like it's something that should be done over the phone. It's making me feel anxious when I think about him/the situation. \n\nThat being said I liked it when we first started going out and when we were just friends. At some stage in the future I'd like to hang out as friends. Given that he is kinda obsessed with me and really intense (tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me and have kids with me etc.) do you think this us possible?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, so I've decided I need to break up. I hate break ups. \n\nI wasn't sure about him to begin with but I thought I'd try it out. He's been mostly good, but I definitely no longer want to be with him. I don't want him touching me etc. he has a problem with boundaries. Eg. Wednesday night he came to my house at 1.15AM to see me. Knocking on my window/wall till I came outside. I hadn't checked FB so I didn't know he'd been trying to contact me (issue w his phone). Overreaction on his part and it stressed me out. Today he tried to call me 6 times in a row over a 20min period. I feel like he's stalking me and won't leave me alone. \n\nI haven't seen him since Thursday. I have no desire to catch up or do anything with him, however, I need to break up with him. I need to do it in person, I don't feel like it's something that should be done over the phone. It's making me feel anxious when I think about him/the situation. \n\nThat being said I liked it when we first started going out and when we were just friends. At some stage in the future I'd like to hang out as friends. Given that he is kinda obsessed with me and really intense (tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me and have kids with me etc.) do you think this us possible?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, so I've decided I need to break up. I hate break ups. \n\nI wasn't sure about him to begin with but I thought I'd try it out. He's been mostly good, but I definitely no longer want to be with him. I don't want him touching me etc. he has a problem with boundaries. Eg. Wednesday night he came to my house at 1.15AM to see me. Knocking on my window/wall till I came outside. I hadn't checked FB so I didn't know he'd been trying to contact me (issue w his phone). Overreaction on his part and it stressed me out. Today he tried to call me 6 times in a row over a 20min period. I feel like he's stalking me and won't leave me alone. \n\nI haven't seen him since Thursday. I have no desire to catch up or do anything with him, however, I need to break up with him. I need to do it in person, I don't feel like it's something that should be done over the phone. It's making me feel anxious when I think about him/the situation. \n\nThat being said I liked it when we first started going out and when we were just friends. At some stage in the future I'd like to hang out as friends. Given that he is kinda obsessed with me and really intense (tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me and have kids with me etc.) do you think this us possible?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, so I've decided I need to break up. I hate break ups. \n\nI wasn't sure about him to begin with but I thought I'd try it out. He's been mostly good, but I definitely no longer want to be with him. I don't want him touching me etc. he has a problem with boundaries. Eg. Wednesday night he came to my house at 1.15AM to see me. Knocking on my window/wall till I came outside. I hadn't checked FB so I didn't know he'd been trying to contact me (issue w his phone). Overreaction on his part and it stressed me out. Today he tried to call me 6 times in a row over a 20min period. I feel like he's stalking me and won't leave me alone. \n\nI haven't seen him since Thursday. I have no desire to catch up or do anything with him, however, I need to break up with him. I need to do it in person, I don't feel like it's something that should be done over the phone. It's making me feel anxious when I think about him/the situation. \n\nThat being said I liked it when we first started going out and when we were just friends. At some stage in the future I'd like to hang out as friends. Given that he is kinda obsessed with me and really intense (tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me and have kids with me etc.) do you think this us possible?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all, after some lurking it seems like this is a very helpful subreddit from which I can glean some insight.\n\nBackground: My current girlfriend and I originally started dating in high school. Typical immaturity stuff happened and we broke up, but we reconnected about a year and a half ago and discovered that we both turned into perfect compliments for one another. Only.\n\nIssue: .We have very few hobbies/activities in common, and those we do will eventually have to be pushed aside for adulthood (ex: we both smoke, and enjoy going to parties, and play music in a band together). So far, it has been fun learning more about each other's interests, as we both value new experiences - she likes learning about architects I admire, I like hearing about how Godard is a great director (who happens to be a pompous ass). I'm concerned that this will not last however, as we are already showing signs of fatigue in sharing these things.\n\nCaveats: I want to stress that this woman is perfect for me in every conceivable way. We align on all the major categories - sex, finances, values, goals, attraction. Our families love each other. I will be asking her to marry me after she graduates school. I am hoping for some perspective from someone within a LTR that has faced a similar situation, and how it has worked out for them." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all, after some lurking it seems like this is a very helpful subreddit from which I can glean some insight.\n\nBackground: My current girlfriend and I originally started dating in high school. Typical immaturity stuff happened and we broke up, but we reconnected about a year and a half ago and discovered that we both turned into perfect compliments for one another. Only.\n\nIssue: .We have very few hobbies/activities in common, and those we do will eventually have to be pushed aside for adulthood (ex: we both smoke, and enjoy going to parties, and play music in a band together). So far, it has been fun learning more about each other's interests, as we both value new experiences - she likes learning about architects I admire, I like hearing about how Godard is a great director (who happens to be a pompous ass). I'm concerned that this will not last however, as we are already showing signs of fatigue in sharing these things.\n\nCaveats: I want to stress that this woman is perfect for me in every conceivable way. We align on all the major categories - sex, finances, values, goals, attraction. Our families love each other. I will be asking her to marry me after she graduates school. I am hoping for some perspective from someone within a LTR that has faced a similar situation, and how it has worked out for them." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all, after some lurking it seems like this is a very helpful subreddit from which I can glean some insight.\n\nBackground: My current girlfriend and I originally started dating in high school. Typical immaturity stuff happened and we broke up, but we reconnected about a year and a half ago and discovered that we both turned into perfect compliments for one another. Only.\n\nIssue: .We have very few hobbies/activities in common, and those we do will eventually have to be pushed aside for adulthood (ex: we both smoke, and enjoy going to parties, and play music in a band together). So far, it has been fun learning more about each other's interests, as we both value new experiences - she likes learning about architects I admire, I like hearing about how Godard is a great director (who happens to be a pompous ass). I'm concerned that this will not last however, as we are already showing signs of fatigue in sharing these things.\n\nCaveats: I want to stress that this woman is perfect for me in every conceivable way. We align on all the major categories - sex, finances, values, goals, attraction. Our families love each other. I will be asking her to marry me after she graduates school. I am hoping for some perspective from someone within a LTR that has faced a similar situation, and how it has worked out for them." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all, after some lurking it seems like this is a very helpful subreddit from which I can glean some insight.\n\nBackground: My current girlfriend and I originally started dating in high school. Typical immaturity stuff happened and we broke up, but we reconnected about a year and a half ago and discovered that we both turned into perfect compliments for one another. Only.\n\nIssue: .We have very few hobbies/activities in common, and those we do will eventually have to be pushed aside for adulthood (ex: we both smoke, and enjoy going to parties, and play music in a band together). So far, it has been fun learning more about each other's interests, as we both value new experiences - she likes learning about architects I admire, I like hearing about how Godard is a great director (who happens to be a pompous ass). I'm concerned that this will not last however, as we are already showing signs of fatigue in sharing these things.\n\nCaveats: I want to stress that this woman is perfect for me in every conceivable way. We align on all the major categories - sex, finances, values, goals, attraction. Our families love each other. I will be asking her to marry me after she graduates school. I am hoping for some perspective from someone within a LTR that has faced a similar situation, and how it has worked out for them." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all, after some lurking it seems like this is a very helpful subreddit from which I can glean some insight.\n\nBackground: My current girlfriend and I originally started dating in high school. Typical immaturity stuff happened and we broke up, but we reconnected about a year and a half ago and discovered that we both turned into perfect compliments for one another. Only.\n\nIssue: .We have very few hobbies/activities in common, and those we do will eventually have to be pushed aside for adulthood (ex: we both smoke, and enjoy going to parties, and play music in a band together). So far, it has been fun learning more about each other's interests, as we both value new experiences - she likes learning about architects I admire, I like hearing about how Godard is a great director (who happens to be a pompous ass). I'm concerned that this will not last however, as we are already showing signs of fatigue in sharing these things.\n\nCaveats: I want to stress that this woman is perfect for me in every conceivable way. We align on all the major categories - sex, finances, values, goals, attraction. Our families love each other. I will be asking her to marry me after she graduates school. I am hoping for some perspective from someone within a LTR that has faced a similar situation, and how it has worked out for them." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all, after some lurking it seems like this is a very helpful subreddit from which I can glean some insight.\n\nBackground: My current girlfriend and I originally started dating in high school. Typical immaturity stuff happened and we broke up, but we reconnected about a year and a half ago and discovered that we both turned into perfect compliments for one another. Only.\n\nIssue: .We have very few hobbies/activities in common, and those we do will eventually have to be pushed aside for adulthood (ex: we both smoke, and enjoy going to parties, and play music in a band together). So far, it has been fun learning more about each other's interests, as we both value new experiences - she likes learning about architects I admire, I like hearing about how Godard is a great director (who happens to be a pompous ass). I'm concerned that this will not last however, as we are already showing signs of fatigue in sharing these things.\n\nCaveats: I want to stress that this woman is perfect for me in every conceivable way. We align on all the major categories - sex, finances, values, goals, attraction. Our families love each other. I will be asking her to marry me after she graduates school. I am hoping for some perspective from someone within a LTR that has faced a similar situation, and how it has worked out for them." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend (of 3 yrs) wants to contact his dead best friends grandmother.\n\nI'm going to give everyone take names. Don't think anyone is a redditor but still.\nOk so. Spencer is my boyfriend. We have been dating for almost 3 years and friends for over 4. He is my best friend in the world. And it jus so happens we have amazing sexual and just overall personal chemistry. Anyway, so we were FWB for about a year. And when we started dating, Mark, who was Spencer's best friend, came up to me and very plainly said, \"Kailey, I always knew you and Spencer would end up together. That's why I invited you over when nobody else was invited\". I felt special. Mark was amazing. He had the biggest impact on spencer and I knew from the start.\n\nMark had cystic fibrosis. It wasn't the reason he passed, actually he was quite careless bc he knew his time was short. He passed bc of an OD. Of what I'm not sure. We were all devestated. Spencer literally travelled the world with him. They were in a band that was quite popular in the metal genre centered US. I loved them both.\n\nIt's been two years. Over two yeArs. He wants to contact Mark's grandmother, who Spencer was close to when Mark was still alive. Mark actually is not even from here, he came here bc his grandparents could afford the health care and expenses he required. So they were basically his parents. What I found out tonight is that when mark died, a lot of Spencer's family didn't come to the rescue, exactly, they don't deal w death well. My family was great but his, not so much. So he doesn't have a lot of closure. He asked me to message marks grandmother recently and ask if he could come talk to her sometime. I don't know much about her except she only lives about 30 mins away and she knows who Spencer is, and she is still VERY upset about marks death. How do I get this meeting about? Please help!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend (of 3 yrs) wants to contact his dead best friends grandmother.\n\nI'm going to give everyone take names. Don't think anyone is a redditor but still.\nOk so. Spencer is my boyfriend. We have been dating for almost 3 years and friends for over 4. He is my best friend in the world. And it jus so happens we have amazing sexual and just overall personal chemistry. Anyway, so we were FWB for about a year. And when we started dating, Mark, who was Spencer's best friend, came up to me and very plainly said, \"Kailey, I always knew you and Spencer would end up together. That's why I invited you over when nobody else was invited\". I felt special. Mark was amazing. He had the biggest impact on spencer and I knew from the start.\n\nMark had cystic fibrosis. It wasn't the reason he passed, actually he was quite careless bc he knew his time was short. He passed bc of an OD. Of what I'm not sure. We were all devestated. Spencer literally travelled the world with him. They were in a band that was quite popular in the metal genre centered US. I loved them both.\n\nIt's been two years. Over two yeArs. He wants to contact Mark's grandmother, who Spencer was close to when Mark was still alive. Mark actually is not even from here, he came here bc his grandparents could afford the health care and expenses he required. So they were basically his parents. What I found out tonight is that when mark died, a lot of Spencer's family didn't come to the rescue, exactly, they don't deal w death well. My family was great but his, not so much. So he doesn't have a lot of closure. He asked me to message marks grandmother recently and ask if he could come talk to her sometime. I don't know much about her except she only lives about 30 mins away and she knows who Spencer is, and she is still VERY upset about marks death. How do I get this meeting about? Please help!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend (of 3 yrs) wants to contact his dead best friends grandmother.\n\nI'm going to give everyone take names. Don't think anyone is a redditor but still.\nOk so. Spencer is my boyfriend. We have been dating for almost 3 years and friends for over 4. He is my best friend in the world. And it jus so happens we have amazing sexual and just overall personal chemistry. Anyway, so we were FWB for about a year. And when we started dating, Mark, who was Spencer's best friend, came up to me and very plainly said, \"Kailey, I always knew you and Spencer would end up together. That's why I invited you over when nobody else was invited\". I felt special. Mark was amazing. He had the biggest impact on spencer and I knew from the start.\n\nMark had cystic fibrosis. It wasn't the reason he passed, actually he was quite careless bc he knew his time was short. He passed bc of an OD. Of what I'm not sure. We were all devestated. Spencer literally travelled the world with him. They were in a band that was quite popular in the metal genre centered US. I loved them both.\n\nIt's been two years. Over two yeArs. He wants to contact Mark's grandmother, who Spencer was close to when Mark was still alive. Mark actually is not even from here, he came here bc his grandparents could afford the health care and expenses he required. So they were basically his parents. What I found out tonight is that when mark died, a lot of Spencer's family didn't come to the rescue, exactly, they don't deal w death well. My family was great but his, not so much. So he doesn't have a lot of closure. He asked me to message marks grandmother recently and ask if he could come talk to her sometime. I don't know much about her except she only lives about 30 mins away and she knows who Spencer is, and she is still VERY upset about marks death. How do I get this meeting about? Please help!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend (of 3 yrs) wants to contact his dead best friends grandmother.\n\nI'm going to give everyone take names. Don't think anyone is a redditor but still.\nOk so. Spencer is my boyfriend. We have been dating for almost 3 years and friends for over 4. He is my best friend in the world. And it jus so happens we have amazing sexual and just overall personal chemistry. Anyway, so we were FWB for about a year. And when we started dating, Mark, who was Spencer's best friend, came up to me and very plainly said, \"Kailey, I always knew you and Spencer would end up together. That's why I invited you over when nobody else was invited\". I felt special. Mark was amazing. He had the biggest impact on spencer and I knew from the start.\n\nMark had cystic fibrosis. It wasn't the reason he passed, actually he was quite careless bc he knew his time was short. He passed bc of an OD. Of what I'm not sure. We were all devestated. Spencer literally travelled the world with him. They were in a band that was quite popular in the metal genre centered US. I loved them both.\n\nIt's been two years. Over two yeArs. He wants to contact Mark's grandmother, who Spencer was close to when Mark was still alive. Mark actually is not even from here, he came here bc his grandparents could afford the health care and expenses he required. So they were basically his parents. What I found out tonight is that when mark died, a lot of Spencer's family didn't come to the rescue, exactly, they don't deal w death well. My family was great but his, not so much. So he doesn't have a lot of closure. He asked me to message marks grandmother recently and ask if he could come talk to her sometime. I don't know much about her except she only lives about 30 mins away and she knows who Spencer is, and she is still VERY upset about marks death. How do I get this meeting about? Please help!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend (of 3 yrs) wants to contact his dead best friends grandmother.\n\nI'm going to give everyone take names. Don't think anyone is a redditor but still.\nOk so. Spencer is my boyfriend. We have been dating for almost 3 years and friends for over 4. He is my best friend in the world. And it jus so happens we have amazing sexual and just overall personal chemistry. Anyway, so we were FWB for about a year. And when we started dating, Mark, who was Spencer's best friend, came up to me and very plainly said, \"Kailey, I always knew you and Spencer would end up together. That's why I invited you over when nobody else was invited\". I felt special. Mark was amazing. He had the biggest impact on spencer and I knew from the start.\n\nMark had cystic fibrosis. It wasn't the reason he passed, actually he was quite careless bc he knew his time was short. He passed bc of an OD. Of what I'm not sure. We were all devestated. Spencer literally travelled the world with him. They were in a band that was quite popular in the metal genre centered US. I loved them both.\n\nIt's been two years. Over two yeArs. He wants to contact Mark's grandmother, who Spencer was close to when Mark was still alive. Mark actually is not even from here, he came here bc his grandparents could afford the health care and expenses he required. So they were basically his parents. What I found out tonight is that when mark died, a lot of Spencer's family didn't come to the rescue, exactly, they don't deal w death well. My family was great but his, not so much. So he doesn't have a lot of closure. He asked me to message marks grandmother recently and ask if he could come talk to her sometime. I don't know much about her except she only lives about 30 mins away and she knows who Spencer is, and she is still VERY upset about marks death. How do I get this meeting about? Please help!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend (of 3 yrs) wants to contact his dead best friends grandmother.\n\nI'm going to give everyone take names. Don't think anyone is a redditor but still.\nOk so. Spencer is my boyfriend. We have been dating for almost 3 years and friends for over 4. He is my best friend in the world. And it jus so happens we have amazing sexual and just overall personal chemistry. Anyway, so we were FWB for about a year. And when we started dating, Mark, who was Spencer's best friend, came up to me and very plainly said, \"Kailey, I always knew you and Spencer would end up together. That's why I invited you over when nobody else was invited\". I felt special. Mark was amazing. He had the biggest impact on spencer and I knew from the start.\n\nMark had cystic fibrosis. It wasn't the reason he passed, actually he was quite careless bc he knew his time was short. He passed bc of an OD. Of what I'm not sure. We were all devestated. Spencer literally travelled the world with him. They were in a band that was quite popular in the metal genre centered US. I loved them both.\n\nIt's been two years. Over two yeArs. He wants to contact Mark's grandmother, who Spencer was close to when Mark was still alive. Mark actually is not even from here, he came here bc his grandparents could afford the health care and expenses he required. So they were basically his parents. What I found out tonight is that when mark died, a lot of Spencer's family didn't come to the rescue, exactly, they don't deal w death well. My family was great but his, not so much. So he doesn't have a lot of closure. He asked me to message marks grandmother recently and ask if he could come talk to her sometime. I don't know much about her except she only lives about 30 mins away and she knows who Spencer is, and she is still VERY upset about marks death. How do I get this meeting about? Please help!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In short, she didn't think she was ready to be dating (she has attachment issues) but still likes me. I was ready to let it go and wished her well, but she texted me days later about how much she'd miss me, so I said we can keep in touch. I've seen her twice since then and the second time got a little bit romantic, but she still seemed cautious. \n\nAnyway, I want to clear things up about \"keeping in touch\", so I'd either tell her one of the following:\n\n1) I think you're great and love your company. We don't need to officially be dating to go out sometimes and have fun, but you should know that it's not quite friendship to me because I'm still viewing us as a romantic possibility. \n\n2) I think you're great and love your company. If you ever want to date again, you should totally feel free to drop me a line. If we're both still single, we can continue the fun! Otherwise, I'm not really looking to turn this into just-friends.\n\nUltimately, my desire to keep her interested. Which one of these would do that job better?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In short, she didn't think she was ready to be dating (she has attachment issues) but still likes me. I was ready to let it go and wished her well, but she texted me days later about how much she'd miss me, so I said we can keep in touch. I've seen her twice since then and the second time got a little bit romantic, but she still seemed cautious. \n\nAnyway, I want to clear things up about \"keeping in touch\", so I'd either tell her one of the following:\n\n1) I think you're great and love your company. We don't need to officially be dating to go out sometimes and have fun, but you should know that it's not quite friendship to me because I'm still viewing us as a romantic possibility. \n\n2) I think you're great and love your company. If you ever want to date again, you should totally feel free to drop me a line. If we're both still single, we can continue the fun! Otherwise, I'm not really looking to turn this into just-friends.\n\nUltimately, my desire to keep her interested. Which one of these would do that job better?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In short, she didn't think she was ready to be dating (she has attachment issues) but still likes me. I was ready to let it go and wished her well, but she texted me days later about how much she'd miss me, so I said we can keep in touch. I've seen her twice since then and the second time got a little bit romantic, but she still seemed cautious. \n\nAnyway, I want to clear things up about \"keeping in touch\", so I'd either tell her one of the following:\n\n1) I think you're great and love your company. We don't need to officially be dating to go out sometimes and have fun, but you should know that it's not quite friendship to me because I'm still viewing us as a romantic possibility. \n\n2) I think you're great and love your company. If you ever want to date again, you should totally feel free to drop me a line. If we're both still single, we can continue the fun! Otherwise, I'm not really looking to turn this into just-friends.\n\nUltimately, my desire to keep her interested. Which one of these would do that job better?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In short, she didn't think she was ready to be dating (she has attachment issues) but still likes me. I was ready to let it go and wished her well, but she texted me days later about how much she'd miss me, so I said we can keep in touch. I've seen her twice since then and the second time got a little bit romantic, but she still seemed cautious. \n\nAnyway, I want to clear things up about \"keeping in touch\", so I'd either tell her one of the following:\n\n1) I think you're great and love your company. We don't need to officially be dating to go out sometimes and have fun, but you should know that it's not quite friendship to me because I'm still viewing us as a romantic possibility. \n\n2) I think you're great and love your company. If you ever want to date again, you should totally feel free to drop me a line. If we're both still single, we can continue the fun! Otherwise, I'm not really looking to turn this into just-friends.\n\nUltimately, my desire to keep her interested. Which one of these would do that job better?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In short, she didn't think she was ready to be dating (she has attachment issues) but still likes me. I was ready to let it go and wished her well, but she texted me days later about how much she'd miss me, so I said we can keep in touch. I've seen her twice since then and the second time got a little bit romantic, but she still seemed cautious. \n\nAnyway, I want to clear things up about \"keeping in touch\", so I'd either tell her one of the following:\n\n1) I think you're great and love your company. We don't need to officially be dating to go out sometimes and have fun, but you should know that it's not quite friendship to me because I'm still viewing us as a romantic possibility. \n\n2) I think you're great and love your company. If you ever want to date again, you should totally feel free to drop me a line. If we're both still single, we can continue the fun! Otherwise, I'm not really looking to turn this into just-friends.\n\nUltimately, my desire to keep her interested. Which one of these would do that job better?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, \n\nI'm prepping for a phone interview as if I never had the first one. \n\n*Background:*\n\nAwhile ago I applied to a job and received a phone and in person interview. After a few months I was told they wanted to give me a job but couldn't at that time. Turns out they were being purchased. I was told if they were bought out they would want to hire me (and some others). It took a long time for the deal to go through but it did. Now I was put in touch with the parent company's HR. I had to submit my resume to their site as a formality and I would be offered a phone interview and possibly in person interviews (more than one interview or one interview with multiple people was never stated). I was allowed to schedule the phone interview. The only times available were this Monday and Tuesday as they want to get things going fast.\n\nSince I already interview with the first company and was told they wanted to offer me a position, what do you think the parent company will do interview wise? Am I starting off back at square one? Or will this be closer to just meeting me and seeing if I can fit in with their company? \n\nThe parent company is much larger and is not (as far as I know) having a significant say in how the first company operates. They still have their own name and goals (they are a unique part of the parent company and not a ton of places do what they do) but have been merged with the parent." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, \n\nI'm prepping for a phone interview as if I never had the first one. \n\n*Background:*\n\nAwhile ago I applied to a job and received a phone and in person interview. After a few months I was told they wanted to give me a job but couldn't at that time. Turns out they were being purchased. I was told if they were bought out they would want to hire me (and some others). It took a long time for the deal to go through but it did. Now I was put in touch with the parent company's HR. I had to submit my resume to their site as a formality and I would be offered a phone interview and possibly in person interviews (more than one interview or one interview with multiple people was never stated). I was allowed to schedule the phone interview. The only times available were this Monday and Tuesday as they want to get things going fast.\n\nSince I already interview with the first company and was told they wanted to offer me a position, what do you think the parent company will do interview wise? Am I starting off back at square one? Or will this be closer to just meeting me and seeing if I can fit in with their company? \n\nThe parent company is much larger and is not (as far as I know) having a significant say in how the first company operates. They still have their own name and goals (they are a unique part of the parent company and not a ton of places do what they do) but have been merged with the parent." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, \n\nI'm prepping for a phone interview as if I never had the first one. \n\n*Background:*\n\nAwhile ago I applied to a job and received a phone and in person interview. After a few months I was told they wanted to give me a job but couldn't at that time. Turns out they were being purchased. I was told if they were bought out they would want to hire me (and some others). It took a long time for the deal to go through but it did. Now I was put in touch with the parent company's HR. I had to submit my resume to their site as a formality and I would be offered a phone interview and possibly in person interviews (more than one interview or one interview with multiple people was never stated). I was allowed to schedule the phone interview. The only times available were this Monday and Tuesday as they want to get things going fast.\n\nSince I already interview with the first company and was told they wanted to offer me a position, what do you think the parent company will do interview wise? Am I starting off back at square one? Or will this be closer to just meeting me and seeing if I can fit in with their company? \n\nThe parent company is much larger and is not (as far as I know) having a significant say in how the first company operates. They still have their own name and goals (they are a unique part of the parent company and not a ton of places do what they do) but have been merged with the parent." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, \n\nI'm prepping for a phone interview as if I never had the first one. \n\n*Background:*\n\nAwhile ago I applied to a job and received a phone and in person interview. After a few months I was told they wanted to give me a job but couldn't at that time. Turns out they were being purchased. I was told if they were bought out they would want to hire me (and some others). It took a long time for the deal to go through but it did. Now I was put in touch with the parent company's HR. I had to submit my resume to their site as a formality and I would be offered a phone interview and possibly in person interviews (more than one interview or one interview with multiple people was never stated). I was allowed to schedule the phone interview. The only times available were this Monday and Tuesday as they want to get things going fast.\n\nSince I already interview with the first company and was told they wanted to offer me a position, what do you think the parent company will do interview wise? Am I starting off back at square one? Or will this be closer to just meeting me and seeing if I can fit in with their company? \n\nThe parent company is much larger and is not (as far as I know) having a significant say in how the first company operates. They still have their own name and goals (they are a unique part of the parent company and not a ton of places do what they do) but have been merged with the parent." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, \n\nI'm prepping for a phone interview as if I never had the first one. \n\n*Background:*\n\nAwhile ago I applied to a job and received a phone and in person interview. After a few months I was told they wanted to give me a job but couldn't at that time. Turns out they were being purchased. I was told if they were bought out they would want to hire me (and some others). It took a long time for the deal to go through but it did. Now I was put in touch with the parent company's HR. I had to submit my resume to their site as a formality and I would be offered a phone interview and possibly in person interviews (more than one interview or one interview with multiple people was never stated). I was allowed to schedule the phone interview. The only times available were this Monday and Tuesday as they want to get things going fast.\n\nSince I already interview with the first company and was told they wanted to offer me a position, what do you think the parent company will do interview wise? Am I starting off back at square one? Or will this be closer to just meeting me and seeing if I can fit in with their company? \n\nThe parent company is much larger and is not (as far as I know) having a significant say in how the first company operates. They still have their own name and goals (they are a unique part of the parent company and not a ton of places do what they do) but have been merged with the parent." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, \n\nI'm prepping for a phone interview as if I never had the first one. \n\n*Background:*\n\nAwhile ago I applied to a job and received a phone and in person interview. After a few months I was told they wanted to give me a job but couldn't at that time. Turns out they were being purchased. I was told if they were bought out they would want to hire me (and some others). It took a long time for the deal to go through but it did. Now I was put in touch with the parent company's HR. I had to submit my resume to their site as a formality and I would be offered a phone interview and possibly in person interviews (more than one interview or one interview with multiple people was never stated). I was allowed to schedule the phone interview. The only times available were this Monday and Tuesday as they want to get things going fast.\n\nSince I already interview with the first company and was told they wanted to offer me a position, what do you think the parent company will do interview wise? Am I starting off back at square one? Or will this be closer to just meeting me and seeing if I can fit in with their company? \n\nThe parent company is much larger and is not (as far as I know) having a significant say in how the first company operates. They still have their own name and goals (they are a unique part of the parent company and not a ton of places do what they do) but have been merged with the parent." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, \n\nSo me and this girl just met recently and started talking. We've been messaging back and forth, texting back and forth, and flirting. She receives the flirting generally well, and returns it to me as well. Fast forward a few days and we go out for a bit, and end up staying out super late and hanging out.\n\nPlot twist, she has a boyfriend but makes it a *very clear point* to tell me that they're going to break up very soon. \n\nWe keep hanging out and talking and setting up future days to hang out, but now she doesn't really text back. She's bad at texting, basically, and I'm not sure the implications. She's a pretty cute girl too, so I don't know if she is seeing other people." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, \n\nSo me and this girl just met recently and started talking. We've been messaging back and forth, texting back and forth, and flirting. She receives the flirting generally well, and returns it to me as well. Fast forward a few days and we go out for a bit, and end up staying out super late and hanging out.\n\nPlot twist, she has a boyfriend but makes it a *very clear point* to tell me that they're going to break up very soon. \n\nWe keep hanging out and talking and setting up future days to hang out, but now she doesn't really text back. She's bad at texting, basically, and I'm not sure the implications. She's a pretty cute girl too, so I don't know if she is seeing other people." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, \n\nSo me and this girl just met recently and started talking. We've been messaging back and forth, texting back and forth, and flirting. She receives the flirting generally well, and returns it to me as well. Fast forward a few days and we go out for a bit, and end up staying out super late and hanging out.\n\nPlot twist, she has a boyfriend but makes it a *very clear point* to tell me that they're going to break up very soon. \n\nWe keep hanging out and talking and setting up future days to hang out, but now she doesn't really text back. She's bad at texting, basically, and I'm not sure the implications. She's a pretty cute girl too, so I don't know if she is seeing other people." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, \n\nSo me and this girl just met recently and started talking. We've been messaging back and forth, texting back and forth, and flirting. She receives the flirting generally well, and returns it to me as well. Fast forward a few days and we go out for a bit, and end up staying out super late and hanging out.\n\nPlot twist, she has a boyfriend but makes it a *very clear point* to tell me that they're going to break up very soon. \n\nWe keep hanging out and talking and setting up future days to hang out, but now she doesn't really text back. She's bad at texting, basically, and I'm not sure the implications. She's a pretty cute girl too, so I don't know if she is seeing other people." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, \n\nSo me and this girl just met recently and started talking. We've been messaging back and forth, texting back and forth, and flirting. She receives the flirting generally well, and returns it to me as well. Fast forward a few days and we go out for a bit, and end up staying out super late and hanging out.\n\nPlot twist, she has a boyfriend but makes it a *very clear point* to tell me that they're going to break up very soon. \n\nWe keep hanging out and talking and setting up future days to hang out, but now she doesn't really text back. She's bad at texting, basically, and I'm not sure the implications. She's a pretty cute girl too, so I don't know if she is seeing other people." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, \n\nSo me and this girl just met recently and started talking. We've been messaging back and forth, texting back and forth, and flirting. She receives the flirting generally well, and returns it to me as well. Fast forward a few days and we go out for a bit, and end up staying out super late and hanging out.\n\nPlot twist, she has a boyfriend but makes it a *very clear point* to tell me that they're going to break up very soon. \n\nWe keep hanging out and talking and setting up future days to hang out, but now she doesn't really text back. She's bad at texting, basically, and I'm not sure the implications. She's a pretty cute girl too, so I don't know if she is seeing other people." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this might seem silly but I really am at my wit's end here. I am the sort of person who wants everything to be neat, so yes, I do often go to my son's and daughter's room and clear things up so it looks a bit more tidy. I don't touch their personal items, I just make the bed and rearrange things occasionally. It's honestly not for them, it's for me. Anyway, they don't mind it at all, in fact they have mentioned they like coming home to a nice, clean room.\n\nUntil, that is, they feel like something has been misplaced. They will immediately shout at me saying that I kept whatever it is they are looking for in some other place, and can I stop touching their things. Now this would be a valid concern except *99% of the time it isn't because I've misplaced anything.* They either forget where they've kept it (and somehow I manage to find it.), or they drop it under the bed or something (again, I am the one who retrieves it for them).\n\nNow, honestly, this probably makes me angrier than it should but I just can't help it. It really upsets me, because they start shouting at me and once I show them that it isn't my doing, they will just ignore me and pretend nothing happened. They don't even apologise. I try not to be harsh with them because I feel like I have no ground to stand on even though logically this isn't true considering the sheer amount of times I have NOT misplaced their thing. And in case I do keep whatever it is somewhere else, I am able to procure it immediately. But I have stopped doing that as well.\n\nIt especially hurts when they call me a freak or accuse me of having some mental disorder, which might be true as well but I am unsure of how to approach them and let them know it is hurtful because I understand their frustration as well." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this might seem silly but I really am at my wit's end here. I am the sort of person who wants everything to be neat, so yes, I do often go to my son's and daughter's room and clear things up so it looks a bit more tidy. I don't touch their personal items, I just make the bed and rearrange things occasionally. It's honestly not for them, it's for me. Anyway, they don't mind it at all, in fact they have mentioned they like coming home to a nice, clean room.\n\nUntil, that is, they feel like something has been misplaced. They will immediately shout at me saying that I kept whatever it is they are looking for in some other place, and can I stop touching their things. Now this would be a valid concern except *99% of the time it isn't because I've misplaced anything.* They either forget where they've kept it (and somehow I manage to find it.), or they drop it under the bed or something (again, I am the one who retrieves it for them).\n\nNow, honestly, this probably makes me angrier than it should but I just can't help it. It really upsets me, because they start shouting at me and once I show them that it isn't my doing, they will just ignore me and pretend nothing happened. They don't even apologise. I try not to be harsh with them because I feel like I have no ground to stand on even though logically this isn't true considering the sheer amount of times I have NOT misplaced their thing. And in case I do keep whatever it is somewhere else, I am able to procure it immediately. But I have stopped doing that as well.\n\nIt especially hurts when they call me a freak or accuse me of having some mental disorder, which might be true as well but I am unsure of how to approach them and let them know it is hurtful because I understand their frustration as well." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this might seem silly but I really am at my wit's end here. I am the sort of person who wants everything to be neat, so yes, I do often go to my son's and daughter's room and clear things up so it looks a bit more tidy. I don't touch their personal items, I just make the bed and rearrange things occasionally. It's honestly not for them, it's for me. Anyway, they don't mind it at all, in fact they have mentioned they like coming home to a nice, clean room.\n\nUntil, that is, they feel like something has been misplaced. They will immediately shout at me saying that I kept whatever it is they are looking for in some other place, and can I stop touching their things. Now this would be a valid concern except *99% of the time it isn't because I've misplaced anything.* They either forget where they've kept it (and somehow I manage to find it.), or they drop it under the bed or something (again, I am the one who retrieves it for them).\n\nNow, honestly, this probably makes me angrier than it should but I just can't help it. It really upsets me, because they start shouting at me and once I show them that it isn't my doing, they will just ignore me and pretend nothing happened. They don't even apologise. I try not to be harsh with them because I feel like I have no ground to stand on even though logically this isn't true considering the sheer amount of times I have NOT misplaced their thing. And in case I do keep whatever it is somewhere else, I am able to procure it immediately. But I have stopped doing that as well.\n\nIt especially hurts when they call me a freak or accuse me of having some mental disorder, which might be true as well but I am unsure of how to approach them and let them know it is hurtful because I understand their frustration as well." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this might seem silly but I really am at my wit's end here. I am the sort of person who wants everything to be neat, so yes, I do often go to my son's and daughter's room and clear things up so it looks a bit more tidy. I don't touch their personal items, I just make the bed and rearrange things occasionally. It's honestly not for them, it's for me. Anyway, they don't mind it at all, in fact they have mentioned they like coming home to a nice, clean room.\n\nUntil, that is, they feel like something has been misplaced. They will immediately shout at me saying that I kept whatever it is they are looking for in some other place, and can I stop touching their things. Now this would be a valid concern except *99% of the time it isn't because I've misplaced anything.* They either forget where they've kept it (and somehow I manage to find it.), or they drop it under the bed or something (again, I am the one who retrieves it for them).\n\nNow, honestly, this probably makes me angrier than it should but I just can't help it. It really upsets me, because they start shouting at me and once I show them that it isn't my doing, they will just ignore me and pretend nothing happened. They don't even apologise. I try not to be harsh with them because I feel like I have no ground to stand on even though logically this isn't true considering the sheer amount of times I have NOT misplaced their thing. And in case I do keep whatever it is somewhere else, I am able to procure it immediately. But I have stopped doing that as well.\n\nIt especially hurts when they call me a freak or accuse me of having some mental disorder, which might be true as well but I am unsure of how to approach them and let them know it is hurtful because I understand their frustration as well." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this might seem silly but I really am at my wit's end here. I am the sort of person who wants everything to be neat, so yes, I do often go to my son's and daughter's room and clear things up so it looks a bit more tidy. I don't touch their personal items, I just make the bed and rearrange things occasionally. It's honestly not for them, it's for me. Anyway, they don't mind it at all, in fact they have mentioned they like coming home to a nice, clean room.\n\nUntil, that is, they feel like something has been misplaced. They will immediately shout at me saying that I kept whatever it is they are looking for in some other place, and can I stop touching their things. Now this would be a valid concern except *99% of the time it isn't because I've misplaced anything.* They either forget where they've kept it (and somehow I manage to find it.), or they drop it under the bed or something (again, I am the one who retrieves it for them).\n\nNow, honestly, this probably makes me angrier than it should but I just can't help it. It really upsets me, because they start shouting at me and once I show them that it isn't my doing, they will just ignore me and pretend nothing happened. They don't even apologise. I try not to be harsh with them because I feel like I have no ground to stand on even though logically this isn't true considering the sheer amount of times I have NOT misplaced their thing. And in case I do keep whatever it is somewhere else, I am able to procure it immediately. But I have stopped doing that as well.\n\nIt especially hurts when they call me a freak or accuse me of having some mental disorder, which might be true as well but I am unsure of how to approach them and let them know it is hurtful because I understand their frustration as well." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this might seem silly but I really am at my wit's end here. I am the sort of person who wants everything to be neat, so yes, I do often go to my son's and daughter's room and clear things up so it looks a bit more tidy. I don't touch their personal items, I just make the bed and rearrange things occasionally. It's honestly not for them, it's for me. Anyway, they don't mind it at all, in fact they have mentioned they like coming home to a nice, clean room.\n\nUntil, that is, they feel like something has been misplaced. They will immediately shout at me saying that I kept whatever it is they are looking for in some other place, and can I stop touching their things. Now this would be a valid concern except *99% of the time it isn't because I've misplaced anything.* They either forget where they've kept it (and somehow I manage to find it.), or they drop it under the bed or something (again, I am the one who retrieves it for them).\n\nNow, honestly, this probably makes me angrier than it should but I just can't help it. It really upsets me, because they start shouting at me and once I show them that it isn't my doing, they will just ignore me and pretend nothing happened. They don't even apologise. I try not to be harsh with them because I feel like I have no ground to stand on even though logically this isn't true considering the sheer amount of times I have NOT misplaced their thing. And in case I do keep whatever it is somewhere else, I am able to procure it immediately. But I have stopped doing that as well.\n\nIt especially hurts when they call me a freak or accuse me of having some mental disorder, which might be true as well but I am unsure of how to approach them and let them know it is hurtful because I understand their frustration as well." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't been in a relationship since the beginning of my senior year of high school. Right now, I'm in my senior year of college and fixing to graduate in the Fall. \n\nI have been looking for a relationship for a while now, but I certainly do not make that readily obvious and I am not going to rush into one if I don't feel comfortable. \n\nI have tried OKCupid, Tinder, and going out to college bars every weekend to try to meet girls. There have been several times when I have a great conversation with a girl, get her number, and never here from her again. There have also been times when a girl and myself text back and forth for a few weeks and as soon as I attempt to arrange a meeting, I get blown off.\n\nI don't mean to sound vain, but I've been told that I'm pretty handsome by both genders. I exercise regularly, groom myself properly, and have a pretty good sense of humor. \n\nMy biggest problem is that I get discouraged easily when I'm turned down by a girl I'm attracted to. It happens so often that I'm beginning to lose hope in every having a relationship, or even sex.\n\nI welcome any advice on the matter. Thanks in advance!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't been in a relationship since the beginning of my senior year of high school. Right now, I'm in my senior year of college and fixing to graduate in the Fall. \n\nI have been looking for a relationship for a while now, but I certainly do not make that readily obvious and I am not going to rush into one if I don't feel comfortable. \n\nI have tried OKCupid, Tinder, and going out to college bars every weekend to try to meet girls. There have been several times when I have a great conversation with a girl, get her number, and never here from her again. There have also been times when a girl and myself text back and forth for a few weeks and as soon as I attempt to arrange a meeting, I get blown off.\n\nI don't mean to sound vain, but I've been told that I'm pretty handsome by both genders. I exercise regularly, groom myself properly, and have a pretty good sense of humor. \n\nMy biggest problem is that I get discouraged easily when I'm turned down by a girl I'm attracted to. It happens so often that I'm beginning to lose hope in every having a relationship, or even sex.\n\nI welcome any advice on the matter. Thanks in advance!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't been in a relationship since the beginning of my senior year of high school. Right now, I'm in my senior year of college and fixing to graduate in the Fall. \n\nI have been looking for a relationship for a while now, but I certainly do not make that readily obvious and I am not going to rush into one if I don't feel comfortable. \n\nI have tried OKCupid, Tinder, and going out to college bars every weekend to try to meet girls. There have been several times when I have a great conversation with a girl, get her number, and never here from her again. There have also been times when a girl and myself text back and forth for a few weeks and as soon as I attempt to arrange a meeting, I get blown off.\n\nI don't mean to sound vain, but I've been told that I'm pretty handsome by both genders. I exercise regularly, groom myself properly, and have a pretty good sense of humor. \n\nMy biggest problem is that I get discouraged easily when I'm turned down by a girl I'm attracted to. It happens so often that I'm beginning to lose hope in every having a relationship, or even sex.\n\nI welcome any advice on the matter. Thanks in advance!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't been in a relationship since the beginning of my senior year of high school. Right now, I'm in my senior year of college and fixing to graduate in the Fall. \n\nI have been looking for a relationship for a while now, but I certainly do not make that readily obvious and I am not going to rush into one if I don't feel comfortable. \n\nI have tried OKCupid, Tinder, and going out to college bars every weekend to try to meet girls. There have been several times when I have a great conversation with a girl, get her number, and never here from her again. There have also been times when a girl and myself text back and forth for a few weeks and as soon as I attempt to arrange a meeting, I get blown off.\n\nI don't mean to sound vain, but I've been told that I'm pretty handsome by both genders. I exercise regularly, groom myself properly, and have a pretty good sense of humor. \n\nMy biggest problem is that I get discouraged easily when I'm turned down by a girl I'm attracted to. It happens so often that I'm beginning to lose hope in every having a relationship, or even sex.\n\nI welcome any advice on the matter. Thanks in advance!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't been in a relationship since the beginning of my senior year of high school. Right now, I'm in my senior year of college and fixing to graduate in the Fall. \n\nI have been looking for a relationship for a while now, but I certainly do not make that readily obvious and I am not going to rush into one if I don't feel comfortable. \n\nI have tried OKCupid, Tinder, and going out to college bars every weekend to try to meet girls. There have been several times when I have a great conversation with a girl, get her number, and never here from her again. There have also been times when a girl and myself text back and forth for a few weeks and as soon as I attempt to arrange a meeting, I get blown off.\n\nI don't mean to sound vain, but I've been told that I'm pretty handsome by both genders. I exercise regularly, groom myself properly, and have a pretty good sense of humor. \n\nMy biggest problem is that I get discouraged easily when I'm turned down by a girl I'm attracted to. It happens so often that I'm beginning to lose hope in every having a relationship, or even sex.\n\nI welcome any advice on the matter. Thanks in advance!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't been in a relationship since the beginning of my senior year of high school. Right now, I'm in my senior year of college and fixing to graduate in the Fall. \n\nI have been looking for a relationship for a while now, but I certainly do not make that readily obvious and I am not going to rush into one if I don't feel comfortable. \n\nI have tried OKCupid, Tinder, and going out to college bars every weekend to try to meet girls. There have been several times when I have a great conversation with a girl, get her number, and never here from her again. There have also been times when a girl and myself text back and forth for a few weeks and as soon as I attempt to arrange a meeting, I get blown off.\n\nI don't mean to sound vain, but I've been told that I'm pretty handsome by both genders. I exercise regularly, groom myself properly, and have a pretty good sense of humor. \n\nMy biggest problem is that I get discouraged easily when I'm turned down by a girl I'm attracted to. It happens so often that I'm beginning to lose hope in every having a relationship, or even sex.\n\nI welcome any advice on the matter. Thanks in advance!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back in April, my live-in ex decided to end things after months of “incompatibility.” We were together for 3 years and have been living together for 2-1/2. We had our share of ups and downs, however we were struggling with trust, honesty, communication and everything else that made a relationship work. Towards the end, I found myself working hard to keep things together, and lashing out due to frustration. I felt like I was alone in keeping our relationship together. On his end, he was completely checked out, staying later at work, hanging out until 3am with a certain female co-worker, and contacting me less and less. \n\nWhen it ended, I felt a sense of relief. Freedom from something that I knew deep down wouldn’t work out. Yet I can’t really move on since we still live together and sleep in the same bed. It has been a hard journey to rebuild myself since then, but I’m slowly building up my life. Or at least trying to… We’ve had a few lapses in our breakup since April. There were several moments when I thought we were still together. And then there were moments of absolute NC. I haven’t been with any other guy since, but I’ve met new people and reconnected with friends I lost from this relationship.\n\nA week ago, after our longest period of NC and sleeping in separate areas of our studio, all the while I actively met new people and came home after midnight, he started talking to me again. Two days ago, he was overly friendly and attention hungry. I caved. He’s very good company when he wants to be. Talking led to tickling, which led to sex, which led to goodnight kisses on the cheek… And that was that. He barely said a word to me yesterday, and today is his birthday. What do I do, Reddit? I rushed out of the apartment this morning and said “see ya later.”" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back in April, my live-in ex decided to end things after months of “incompatibility.” We were together for 3 years and have been living together for 2-1/2. We had our share of ups and downs, however we were struggling with trust, honesty, communication and everything else that made a relationship work. Towards the end, I found myself working hard to keep things together, and lashing out due to frustration. I felt like I was alone in keeping our relationship together. On his end, he was completely checked out, staying later at work, hanging out until 3am with a certain female co-worker, and contacting me less and less. \n\nWhen it ended, I felt a sense of relief. Freedom from something that I knew deep down wouldn’t work out. Yet I can’t really move on since we still live together and sleep in the same bed. It has been a hard journey to rebuild myself since then, but I’m slowly building up my life. Or at least trying to… We’ve had a few lapses in our breakup since April. There were several moments when I thought we were still together. And then there were moments of absolute NC. I haven’t been with any other guy since, but I’ve met new people and reconnected with friends I lost from this relationship.\n\nA week ago, after our longest period of NC and sleeping in separate areas of our studio, all the while I actively met new people and came home after midnight, he started talking to me again. Two days ago, he was overly friendly and attention hungry. I caved. He’s very good company when he wants to be. Talking led to tickling, which led to sex, which led to goodnight kisses on the cheek… And that was that. He barely said a word to me yesterday, and today is his birthday. What do I do, Reddit? I rushed out of the apartment this morning and said “see ya later.”" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back in April, my live-in ex decided to end things after months of “incompatibility.” We were together for 3 years and have been living together for 2-1/2. We had our share of ups and downs, however we were struggling with trust, honesty, communication and everything else that made a relationship work. Towards the end, I found myself working hard to keep things together, and lashing out due to frustration. I felt like I was alone in keeping our relationship together. On his end, he was completely checked out, staying later at work, hanging out until 3am with a certain female co-worker, and contacting me less and less. \n\nWhen it ended, I felt a sense of relief. Freedom from something that I knew deep down wouldn’t work out. Yet I can’t really move on since we still live together and sleep in the same bed. It has been a hard journey to rebuild myself since then, but I’m slowly building up my life. Or at least trying to… We’ve had a few lapses in our breakup since April. There were several moments when I thought we were still together. And then there were moments of absolute NC. I haven’t been with any other guy since, but I’ve met new people and reconnected with friends I lost from this relationship.\n\nA week ago, after our longest period of NC and sleeping in separate areas of our studio, all the while I actively met new people and came home after midnight, he started talking to me again. Two days ago, he was overly friendly and attention hungry. I caved. He’s very good company when he wants to be. Talking led to tickling, which led to sex, which led to goodnight kisses on the cheek… And that was that. He barely said a word to me yesterday, and today is his birthday. What do I do, Reddit? I rushed out of the apartment this morning and said “see ya later.”" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back in April, my live-in ex decided to end things after months of “incompatibility.” We were together for 3 years and have been living together for 2-1/2. We had our share of ups and downs, however we were struggling with trust, honesty, communication and everything else that made a relationship work. Towards the end, I found myself working hard to keep things together, and lashing out due to frustration. I felt like I was alone in keeping our relationship together. On his end, he was completely checked out, staying later at work, hanging out until 3am with a certain female co-worker, and contacting me less and less. \n\nWhen it ended, I felt a sense of relief. Freedom from something that I knew deep down wouldn’t work out. Yet I can’t really move on since we still live together and sleep in the same bed. It has been a hard journey to rebuild myself since then, but I’m slowly building up my life. Or at least trying to… We’ve had a few lapses in our breakup since April. There were several moments when I thought we were still together. And then there were moments of absolute NC. I haven’t been with any other guy since, but I’ve met new people and reconnected with friends I lost from this relationship.\n\nA week ago, after our longest period of NC and sleeping in separate areas of our studio, all the while I actively met new people and came home after midnight, he started talking to me again. Two days ago, he was overly friendly and attention hungry. I caved. He’s very good company when he wants to be. Talking led to tickling, which led to sex, which led to goodnight kisses on the cheek… And that was that. He barely said a word to me yesterday, and today is his birthday. What do I do, Reddit? I rushed out of the apartment this morning and said “see ya later.”" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back in April, my live-in ex decided to end things after months of “incompatibility.” We were together for 3 years and have been living together for 2-1/2. We had our share of ups and downs, however we were struggling with trust, honesty, communication and everything else that made a relationship work. Towards the end, I found myself working hard to keep things together, and lashing out due to frustration. I felt like I was alone in keeping our relationship together. On his end, he was completely checked out, staying later at work, hanging out until 3am with a certain female co-worker, and contacting me less and less. \n\nWhen it ended, I felt a sense of relief. Freedom from something that I knew deep down wouldn’t work out. Yet I can’t really move on since we still live together and sleep in the same bed. It has been a hard journey to rebuild myself since then, but I’m slowly building up my life. Or at least trying to… We’ve had a few lapses in our breakup since April. There were several moments when I thought we were still together. And then there were moments of absolute NC. I haven’t been with any other guy since, but I’ve met new people and reconnected with friends I lost from this relationship.\n\nA week ago, after our longest period of NC and sleeping in separate areas of our studio, all the while I actively met new people and came home after midnight, he started talking to me again. Two days ago, he was overly friendly and attention hungry. I caved. He’s very good company when he wants to be. Talking led to tickling, which led to sex, which led to goodnight kisses on the cheek… And that was that. He barely said a word to me yesterday, and today is his birthday. What do I do, Reddit? I rushed out of the apartment this morning and said “see ya later.”" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back in April, my live-in ex decided to end things after months of “incompatibility.” We were together for 3 years and have been living together for 2-1/2. We had our share of ups and downs, however we were struggling with trust, honesty, communication and everything else that made a relationship work. Towards the end, I found myself working hard to keep things together, and lashing out due to frustration. I felt like I was alone in keeping our relationship together. On his end, he was completely checked out, staying later at work, hanging out until 3am with a certain female co-worker, and contacting me less and less. \n\nWhen it ended, I felt a sense of relief. Freedom from something that I knew deep down wouldn’t work out. Yet I can’t really move on since we still live together and sleep in the same bed. It has been a hard journey to rebuild myself since then, but I’m slowly building up my life. Or at least trying to… We’ve had a few lapses in our breakup since April. There were several moments when I thought we were still together. And then there were moments of absolute NC. I haven’t been with any other guy since, but I’ve met new people and reconnected with friends I lost from this relationship.\n\nA week ago, after our longest period of NC and sleeping in separate areas of our studio, all the while I actively met new people and came home after midnight, he started talking to me again. Two days ago, he was overly friendly and attention hungry. I caved. He’s very good company when he wants to be. Talking led to tickling, which led to sex, which led to goodnight kisses on the cheek… And that was that. He barely said a word to me yesterday, and today is his birthday. What do I do, Reddit? I rushed out of the apartment this morning and said “see ya later.”" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Winter is coming.\n\nAnd for Florida that means it's not going to be absolutely miserable outside. I've decided to do C25K with my cousin to help build our endurance and mixed with diet and exercise (weight lifting) hopefully lose some weight in the process. I honestly ran past it a few years back I'm new to this subreddit and I was thrilled to find out just minutes ago most of you recommend it for beginners. \n\nAll I currently own is boots. I typically wear work boots for work/outdoors and my dress boots for everything else. \n\nI'm a big guy I cant deny it im 300lbs I stand 6ft even. My feet are size 14US tennis shoes/15US most boots EE width. Buying shoes is nothing short of infuriating for me. No one ever carries my size so I usually go online and have to hope I land a good fit.\n\nHere's where I need some help. I want a good running shoe that's going to last me a while. That's comfortable for big feet and best for w/e I'm going to need.\n\n*[" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Winter is coming.\n\nAnd for Florida that means it's not going to be absolutely miserable outside. I've decided to do C25K with my cousin to help build our endurance and mixed with diet and exercise (weight lifting) hopefully lose some weight in the process. I honestly ran past it a few years back I'm new to this subreddit and I was thrilled to find out just minutes ago most of you recommend it for beginners. \n\nAll I currently own is boots. I typically wear work boots for work/outdoors and my dress boots for everything else. \n\nI'm a big guy I cant deny it im 300lbs I stand 6ft even. My feet are size 14US tennis shoes/15US most boots EE width. Buying shoes is nothing short of infuriating for me. No one ever carries my size so I usually go online and have to hope I land a good fit.\n\nHere's where I need some help. I want a good running shoe that's going to last me a while. That's comfortable for big feet and best for w/e I'm going to need.\n\n*[" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Winter is coming.\n\nAnd for Florida that means it's not going to be absolutely miserable outside. I've decided to do C25K with my cousin to help build our endurance and mixed with diet and exercise (weight lifting) hopefully lose some weight in the process. I honestly ran past it a few years back I'm new to this subreddit and I was thrilled to find out just minutes ago most of you recommend it for beginners. \n\nAll I currently own is boots. I typically wear work boots for work/outdoors and my dress boots for everything else. \n\nI'm a big guy I cant deny it im 300lbs I stand 6ft even. My feet are size 14US tennis shoes/15US most boots EE width. Buying shoes is nothing short of infuriating for me. No one ever carries my size so I usually go online and have to hope I land a good fit.\n\nHere's where I need some help. I want a good running shoe that's going to last me a while. That's comfortable for big feet and best for w/e I'm going to need.\n\n*[" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been putting it off for a number of financial reasons, which I will list below.\n\n1. We both think putting ourselves in debt for rings/a wedding is stupid, but he has a very traditional Greek family that would be insulted if we didn't have a traditional wedding.\n\n2. My family is completely useless for a long laundry list of reasons and we most likely will not be able to depend on them for financial support. His family will be willing to help, but we're unsure of how much.\n\n3. He had medical insurance through his parents and without it, we would have to pay hundreds of dollars for his contact lenses. He is nearly legally blind without them.\n\nAll these things considered, in bed last night he turns to me and says: \"I've really been thinking about this a lot lately. Should we just say fuck my parent's insurance, etc and just get married?\" \n\nI of course want to leap for joy and say yes, but what I said instead was, \"Could we really afford to do that? We don't even know what being legally married means for our finances as far as taxes and insurance goes.\" \n\nSo married members of r/relationships, can you give me a crash course on what getting married actually means financially? Can we get married in the near future without financial ruin and/or a huge amount of debt? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been putting it off for a number of financial reasons, which I will list below.\n\n1. We both think putting ourselves in debt for rings/a wedding is stupid, but he has a very traditional Greek family that would be insulted if we didn't have a traditional wedding.\n\n2. My family is completely useless for a long laundry list of reasons and we most likely will not be able to depend on them for financial support. His family will be willing to help, but we're unsure of how much.\n\n3. He had medical insurance through his parents and without it, we would have to pay hundreds of dollars for his contact lenses. He is nearly legally blind without them.\n\nAll these things considered, in bed last night he turns to me and says: \"I've really been thinking about this a lot lately. Should we just say fuck my parent's insurance, etc and just get married?\" \n\nI of course want to leap for joy and say yes, but what I said instead was, \"Could we really afford to do that? We don't even know what being legally married means for our finances as far as taxes and insurance goes.\" \n\nSo married members of r/relationships, can you give me a crash course on what getting married actually means financially? Can we get married in the near future without financial ruin and/or a huge amount of debt? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been putting it off for a number of financial reasons, which I will list below.\n\n1. We both think putting ourselves in debt for rings/a wedding is stupid, but he has a very traditional Greek family that would be insulted if we didn't have a traditional wedding.\n\n2. My family is completely useless for a long laundry list of reasons and we most likely will not be able to depend on them for financial support. His family will be willing to help, but we're unsure of how much.\n\n3. He had medical insurance through his parents and without it, we would have to pay hundreds of dollars for his contact lenses. He is nearly legally blind without them.\n\nAll these things considered, in bed last night he turns to me and says: \"I've really been thinking about this a lot lately. Should we just say fuck my parent's insurance, etc and just get married?\" \n\nI of course want to leap for joy and say yes, but what I said instead was, \"Could we really afford to do that? We don't even know what being legally married means for our finances as far as taxes and insurance goes.\" \n\nSo married members of r/relationships, can you give me a crash course on what getting married actually means financially? Can we get married in the near future without financial ruin and/or a huge amount of debt? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been putting it off for a number of financial reasons, which I will list below.\n\n1. We both think putting ourselves in debt for rings/a wedding is stupid, but he has a very traditional Greek family that would be insulted if we didn't have a traditional wedding.\n\n2. My family is completely useless for a long laundry list of reasons and we most likely will not be able to depend on them for financial support. His family will be willing to help, but we're unsure of how much.\n\n3. He had medical insurance through his parents and without it, we would have to pay hundreds of dollars for his contact lenses. He is nearly legally blind without them.\n\nAll these things considered, in bed last night he turns to me and says: \"I've really been thinking about this a lot lately. Should we just say fuck my parent's insurance, etc and just get married?\" \n\nI of course want to leap for joy and say yes, but what I said instead was, \"Could we really afford to do that? We don't even know what being legally married means for our finances as far as taxes and insurance goes.\" \n\nSo married members of r/relationships, can you give me a crash course on what getting married actually means financially? Can we get married in the near future without financial ruin and/or a huge amount of debt? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been putting it off for a number of financial reasons, which I will list below.\n\n1. We both think putting ourselves in debt for rings/a wedding is stupid, but he has a very traditional Greek family that would be insulted if we didn't have a traditional wedding.\n\n2. My family is completely useless for a long laundry list of reasons and we most likely will not be able to depend on them for financial support. His family will be willing to help, but we're unsure of how much.\n\n3. He had medical insurance through his parents and without it, we would have to pay hundreds of dollars for his contact lenses. He is nearly legally blind without them.\n\nAll these things considered, in bed last night he turns to me and says: \"I've really been thinking about this a lot lately. Should we just say fuck my parent's insurance, etc and just get married?\" \n\nI of course want to leap for joy and say yes, but what I said instead was, \"Could we really afford to do that? We don't even know what being legally married means for our finances as far as taxes and insurance goes.\" \n\nSo married members of r/relationships, can you give me a crash course on what getting married actually means financially? Can we get married in the near future without financial ruin and/or a huge amount of debt? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been putting it off for a number of financial reasons, which I will list below.\n\n1. We both think putting ourselves in debt for rings/a wedding is stupid, but he has a very traditional Greek family that would be insulted if we didn't have a traditional wedding.\n\n2. My family is completely useless for a long laundry list of reasons and we most likely will not be able to depend on them for financial support. His family will be willing to help, but we're unsure of how much.\n\n3. He had medical insurance through his parents and without it, we would have to pay hundreds of dollars for his contact lenses. He is nearly legally blind without them.\n\nAll these things considered, in bed last night he turns to me and says: \"I've really been thinking about this a lot lately. Should we just say fuck my parent's insurance, etc and just get married?\" \n\nI of course want to leap for joy and say yes, but what I said instead was, \"Could we really afford to do that? We don't even know what being legally married means for our finances as far as taxes and insurance goes.\" \n\nSo married members of r/relationships, can you give me a crash course on what getting married actually means financially? Can we get married in the near future without financial ruin and/or a huge amount of debt? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When we were about 9, my best friend and I were playing at his house. He had this big tree in the front yard that we would climb a lot. We also liked to carve stuff using our pocketknives. So anyway, we were in the tree when I trolled him by saying the skins from this tree were very valuable for being very durable and stuff. We cut some off and I told him to put an ad in the newspaper about them. He did with his parents help, and all the while I thought he was believing it all. A couple days later, he called and said that someone called him and bought the tree skins. I was shocked of course, and believed it. When I next went to his house, he told me to cut some more and sell them. They all sold. After about a month of this, he tells me it was him and his father buying them all. They obviously didn't pay for them because they were the ones selling them. I was totally under the impression my \"idea\" worked. They all got a good laugh at my expense." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When we were about 9, my best friend and I were playing at his house. He had this big tree in the front yard that we would climb a lot. We also liked to carve stuff using our pocketknives. So anyway, we were in the tree when I trolled him by saying the skins from this tree were very valuable for being very durable and stuff. We cut some off and I told him to put an ad in the newspaper about them. He did with his parents help, and all the while I thought he was believing it all. A couple days later, he called and said that someone called him and bought the tree skins. I was shocked of course, and believed it. When I next went to his house, he told me to cut some more and sell them. They all sold. After about a month of this, he tells me it was him and his father buying them all. They obviously didn't pay for them because they were the ones selling them. I was totally under the impression my \"idea\" worked. They all got a good laugh at my expense." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When we were about 9, my best friend and I were playing at his house. He had this big tree in the front yard that we would climb a lot. We also liked to carve stuff using our pocketknives. So anyway, we were in the tree when I trolled him by saying the skins from this tree were very valuable for being very durable and stuff. We cut some off and I told him to put an ad in the newspaper about them. He did with his parents help, and all the while I thought he was believing it all. A couple days later, he called and said that someone called him and bought the tree skins. I was shocked of course, and believed it. When I next went to his house, he told me to cut some more and sell them. They all sold. After about a month of this, he tells me it was him and his father buying them all. They obviously didn't pay for them because they were the ones selling them. I was totally under the impression my \"idea\" worked. They all got a good laugh at my expense." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When we were about 9, my best friend and I were playing at his house. He had this big tree in the front yard that we would climb a lot. We also liked to carve stuff using our pocketknives. So anyway, we were in the tree when I trolled him by saying the skins from this tree were very valuable for being very durable and stuff. We cut some off and I told him to put an ad in the newspaper about them. He did with his parents help, and all the while I thought he was believing it all. A couple days later, he called and said that someone called him and bought the tree skins. I was shocked of course, and believed it. When I next went to his house, he told me to cut some more and sell them. They all sold. After about a month of this, he tells me it was him and his father buying them all. They obviously didn't pay for them because they were the ones selling them. I was totally under the impression my \"idea\" worked. They all got a good laugh at my expense." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When we were about 9, my best friend and I were playing at his house. He had this big tree in the front yard that we would climb a lot. We also liked to carve stuff using our pocketknives. So anyway, we were in the tree when I trolled him by saying the skins from this tree were very valuable for being very durable and stuff. We cut some off and I told him to put an ad in the newspaper about them. He did with his parents help, and all the while I thought he was believing it all. A couple days later, he called and said that someone called him and bought the tree skins. I was shocked of course, and believed it. When I next went to his house, he told me to cut some more and sell them. They all sold. After about a month of this, he tells me it was him and his father buying them all. They obviously didn't pay for them because they were the ones selling them. I was totally under the impression my \"idea\" worked. They all got a good laugh at my expense." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I was go-karting and I guess I drove into the wasp as it was flying across the track, and it got stuck in my shorts! I suddenly felt this sharp shearing pain coming from my ass and almost drove into my brother, who was also racing. After finishing the race (I only had half a lap to go), I rushed to the bathroom to survey the damage. It turns out the wasp got me right in the crease between my leg and my buttcheek. As I was checking it out, I noticed that the wasp was still crawling around in my underwear! I flipped my shit, but eventually killed it. Now it hurts to sit, lay down and take a dump. At least it didn't hit my junk!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I was go-karting and I guess I drove into the wasp as it was flying across the track, and it got stuck in my shorts! I suddenly felt this sharp shearing pain coming from my ass and almost drove into my brother, who was also racing. After finishing the race (I only had half a lap to go), I rushed to the bathroom to survey the damage. It turns out the wasp got me right in the crease between my leg and my buttcheek. As I was checking it out, I noticed that the wasp was still crawling around in my underwear! I flipped my shit, but eventually killed it. Now it hurts to sit, lay down and take a dump. At least it didn't hit my junk!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I was go-karting and I guess I drove into the wasp as it was flying across the track, and it got stuck in my shorts! I suddenly felt this sharp shearing pain coming from my ass and almost drove into my brother, who was also racing. After finishing the race (I only had half a lap to go), I rushed to the bathroom to survey the damage. It turns out the wasp got me right in the crease between my leg and my buttcheek. As I was checking it out, I noticed that the wasp was still crawling around in my underwear! I flipped my shit, but eventually killed it. Now it hurts to sit, lay down and take a dump. At least it didn't hit my junk!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I was go-karting and I guess I drove into the wasp as it was flying across the track, and it got stuck in my shorts! I suddenly felt this sharp shearing pain coming from my ass and almost drove into my brother, who was also racing. After finishing the race (I only had half a lap to go), I rushed to the bathroom to survey the damage. It turns out the wasp got me right in the crease between my leg and my buttcheek. As I was checking it out, I noticed that the wasp was still crawling around in my underwear! I flipped my shit, but eventually killed it. Now it hurts to sit, lay down and take a dump. At least it didn't hit my junk!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I was go-karting and I guess I drove into the wasp as it was flying across the track, and it got stuck in my shorts! I suddenly felt this sharp shearing pain coming from my ass and almost drove into my brother, who was also racing. After finishing the race (I only had half a lap to go), I rushed to the bathroom to survey the damage. It turns out the wasp got me right in the crease between my leg and my buttcheek. As I was checking it out, I noticed that the wasp was still crawling around in my underwear! I flipped my shit, but eventually killed it. Now it hurts to sit, lay down and take a dump. At least it didn't hit my junk!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I was go-karting and I guess I drove into the wasp as it was flying across the track, and it got stuck in my shorts! I suddenly felt this sharp shearing pain coming from my ass and almost drove into my brother, who was also racing. After finishing the race (I only had half a lap to go), I rushed to the bathroom to survey the damage. It turns out the wasp got me right in the crease between my leg and my buttcheek. As I was checking it out, I noticed that the wasp was still crawling around in my underwear! I flipped my shit, but eventually killed it. Now it hurts to sit, lay down and take a dump. At least it didn't hit my junk!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: .And so far, we've tested various programs. In the beginning we had a box called the B.C.U., short for Bandwidth Control Unit, which we mainly used to monitor bandwidth by MAC Address. It allowed us to have a record of F.Name, L.Name, MAC, Total Out, Total In, and at the end of the month, we could just reset it. We primarily used the reports generated for our records. \n\nUnfortunately the B.C.U. died, and we're looking for an alternative. We've implemented a box called the NetEqualizer, and it's okay as far as QoSing goes, but it's extremely limited in the 'monitoring' department. I'm curious if any of you have any alternatives that you use to monitor bandwidth usage statistics.\n\nIt doesn't matter if it's Linux based, or Windows based." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: .And so far, we've tested various programs. In the beginning we had a box called the B.C.U., short for Bandwidth Control Unit, which we mainly used to monitor bandwidth by MAC Address. It allowed us to have a record of F.Name, L.Name, MAC, Total Out, Total In, and at the end of the month, we could just reset it. We primarily used the reports generated for our records. \n\nUnfortunately the B.C.U. died, and we're looking for an alternative. We've implemented a box called the NetEqualizer, and it's okay as far as QoSing goes, but it's extremely limited in the 'monitoring' department. I'm curious if any of you have any alternatives that you use to monitor bandwidth usage statistics.\n\nIt doesn't matter if it's Linux based, or Windows based." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: .And so far, we've tested various programs. In the beginning we had a box called the B.C.U., short for Bandwidth Control Unit, which we mainly used to monitor bandwidth by MAC Address. It allowed us to have a record of F.Name, L.Name, MAC, Total Out, Total In, and at the end of the month, we could just reset it. We primarily used the reports generated for our records. \n\nUnfortunately the B.C.U. died, and we're looking for an alternative. We've implemented a box called the NetEqualizer, and it's okay as far as QoSing goes, but it's extremely limited in the 'monitoring' department. I'm curious if any of you have any alternatives that you use to monitor bandwidth usage statistics.\n\nIt doesn't matter if it's Linux based, or Windows based." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: .And so far, we've tested various programs. In the beginning we had a box called the B.C.U., short for Bandwidth Control Unit, which we mainly used to monitor bandwidth by MAC Address. It allowed us to have a record of F.Name, L.Name, MAC, Total Out, Total In, and at the end of the month, we could just reset it. We primarily used the reports generated for our records. \n\nUnfortunately the B.C.U. died, and we're looking for an alternative. We've implemented a box called the NetEqualizer, and it's okay as far as QoSing goes, but it's extremely limited in the 'monitoring' department. I'm curious if any of you have any alternatives that you use to monitor bandwidth usage statistics.\n\nIt doesn't matter if it's Linux based, or Windows based." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: .And so far, we've tested various programs. In the beginning we had a box called the B.C.U., short for Bandwidth Control Unit, which we mainly used to monitor bandwidth by MAC Address. It allowed us to have a record of F.Name, L.Name, MAC, Total Out, Total In, and at the end of the month, we could just reset it. We primarily used the reports generated for our records. \n\nUnfortunately the B.C.U. died, and we're looking for an alternative. We've implemented a box called the NetEqualizer, and it's okay as far as QoSing goes, but it's extremely limited in the 'monitoring' department. I'm curious if any of you have any alternatives that you use to monitor bandwidth usage statistics.\n\nIt doesn't matter if it's Linux based, or Windows based." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: .And so far, we've tested various programs. In the beginning we had a box called the B.C.U., short for Bandwidth Control Unit, which we mainly used to monitor bandwidth by MAC Address. It allowed us to have a record of F.Name, L.Name, MAC, Total Out, Total In, and at the end of the month, we could just reset it. We primarily used the reports generated for our records. \n\nUnfortunately the B.C.U. died, and we're looking for an alternative. We've implemented a box called the NetEqualizer, and it's okay as far as QoSing goes, but it's extremely limited in the 'monitoring' department. I'm curious if any of you have any alternatives that you use to monitor bandwidth usage statistics.\n\nIt doesn't matter if it's Linux based, or Windows based." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am an undecided student right now but I am planning on taking two history courses next term, and economics courses to see if I like them. Right now I am taking an intro course for history, cinema, theater and statistics. I have no motivation to work for any of these classes. Normally I don't consider myself to be a lazy schmuck but having no motivation to work mainly has to do with me now knowing what to major in. I am planning to major in history because thats what I have been good at since Highschool. I really want some insightful help on what I can do with history and what I can do to find out about other majors that can suit me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am an undecided student right now but I am planning on taking two history courses next term, and economics courses to see if I like them. Right now I am taking an intro course for history, cinema, theater and statistics. I have no motivation to work for any of these classes. Normally I don't consider myself to be a lazy schmuck but having no motivation to work mainly has to do with me now knowing what to major in. I am planning to major in history because thats what I have been good at since Highschool. I really want some insightful help on what I can do with history and what I can do to find out about other majors that can suit me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am an undecided student right now but I am planning on taking two history courses next term, and economics courses to see if I like them. Right now I am taking an intro course for history, cinema, theater and statistics. I have no motivation to work for any of these classes. Normally I don't consider myself to be a lazy schmuck but having no motivation to work mainly has to do with me now knowing what to major in. I am planning to major in history because thats what I have been good at since Highschool. I really want some insightful help on what I can do with history and what I can do to find out about other majors that can suit me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am an undecided student right now but I am planning on taking two history courses next term, and economics courses to see if I like them. Right now I am taking an intro course for history, cinema, theater and statistics. I have no motivation to work for any of these classes. Normally I don't consider myself to be a lazy schmuck but having no motivation to work mainly has to do with me now knowing what to major in. I am planning to major in history because thats what I have been good at since Highschool. I really want some insightful help on what I can do with history and what I can do to find out about other majors that can suit me." }