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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am an undecided student right now but I am planning on taking two history courses next term, and economics courses to see if I like them. Right now I am taking an intro course for history, cinema, theater and statistics. I have no motivation to work for any of these classes. Normally I don't consider myself to be a lazy schmuck but having no motivation to work mainly has to do with me now knowing what to major in. I am planning to major in history because thats what I have been good at since Highschool. I really want some insightful help on what I can do with history and what I can do to find out about other majors that can suit me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am an undecided student right now but I am planning on taking two history courses next term, and economics courses to see if I like them. Right now I am taking an intro course for history, cinema, theater and statistics. I have no motivation to work for any of these classes. Normally I don't consider myself to be a lazy schmuck but having no motivation to work mainly has to do with me now knowing what to major in. I am planning to major in history because thats what I have been good at since Highschool. I really want some insightful help on what I can do with history and what I can do to find out about other majors that can suit me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for just over 3 years now, and from day one her ex has been in her life. I'm normally not a jealous person and she's free to talk to whoever she wants, but her ex makes me so uncomfortable. Sometimes he'll call her up to go out to dinner and they won't get back home until late, and 90% of the time he's rude to me. My gf says he's just fooling around. He calls her all the time and when they hang out at our place they always talk about ''old times'' and are very touchy feely.\n\nTheir closeness is making me paranoid. I don't want to be that annoying jealous boyfriend, but I do want to confront her about the situation since it does upset me. Any advice on how I can approach her without looking like a dick?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for just over 3 years now, and from day one her ex has been in her life. I'm normally not a jealous person and she's free to talk to whoever she wants, but her ex makes me so uncomfortable. Sometimes he'll call her up to go out to dinner and they won't get back home until late, and 90% of the time he's rude to me. My gf says he's just fooling around. He calls her all the time and when they hang out at our place they always talk about ''old times'' and are very touchy feely.\n\nTheir closeness is making me paranoid. I don't want to be that annoying jealous boyfriend, but I do want to confront her about the situation since it does upset me. Any advice on how I can approach her without looking like a dick?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for just over 3 years now, and from day one her ex has been in her life. I'm normally not a jealous person and she's free to talk to whoever she wants, but her ex makes me so uncomfortable. Sometimes he'll call her up to go out to dinner and they won't get back home until late, and 90% of the time he's rude to me. My gf says he's just fooling around. He calls her all the time and when they hang out at our place they always talk about ''old times'' and are very touchy feely.\n\nTheir closeness is making me paranoid. I don't want to be that annoying jealous boyfriend, but I do want to confront her about the situation since it does upset me. Any advice on how I can approach her without looking like a dick?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for just over 3 years now, and from day one her ex has been in her life. I'm normally not a jealous person and she's free to talk to whoever she wants, but her ex makes me so uncomfortable. Sometimes he'll call her up to go out to dinner and they won't get back home until late, and 90% of the time he's rude to me. My gf says he's just fooling around. He calls her all the time and when they hang out at our place they always talk about ''old times'' and are very touchy feely.\n\nTheir closeness is making me paranoid. I don't want to be that annoying jealous boyfriend, but I do want to confront her about the situation since it does upset me. Any advice on how I can approach her without looking like a dick?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for just over 3 years now, and from day one her ex has been in her life. I'm normally not a jealous person and she's free to talk to whoever she wants, but her ex makes me so uncomfortable. Sometimes he'll call her up to go out to dinner and they won't get back home until late, and 90% of the time he's rude to me. My gf says he's just fooling around. He calls her all the time and when they hang out at our place they always talk about ''old times'' and are very touchy feely.\n\nTheir closeness is making me paranoid. I don't want to be that annoying jealous boyfriend, but I do want to confront her about the situation since it does upset me. Any advice on how I can approach her without looking like a dick?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for just over 3 years now, and from day one her ex has been in her life. I'm normally not a jealous person and she's free to talk to whoever she wants, but her ex makes me so uncomfortable. Sometimes he'll call her up to go out to dinner and they won't get back home until late, and 90% of the time he's rude to me. My gf says he's just fooling around. He calls her all the time and when they hang out at our place they always talk about ''old times'' and are very touchy feely.\n\nTheir closeness is making me paranoid. I don't want to be that annoying jealous boyfriend, but I do want to confront her about the situation since it does upset me. Any advice on how I can approach her without looking like a dick?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so mind you, we don't have a relationship whatsoever. We're both halfway through the first year of college, and havn't spoken a single word to each other. I was in the middle of a beak up a few months ago, and I felt I had to move on because I got severly depressed the last time my girlfriend broke up with me. So me with my stupid head wasn't thinking straight and send this girl a messege on facebook (remember we hadn't spoken a word with each other)\n\nThis is what I send her: I've been wanting to start a conversation with you, but as you might have observed by now I'm quite shy. It has even come so far that a classmate wrote me a short story about this today :p So this is me taking a step. \n\nHi Bree, nice to meet jou, hopefully :)\n\nI thought at that moment being honest would be the best thing. But I realize now how stupid that must have sounded. So after she didn't answer after a couple of days, I send her an other messege with this a GIF of the man in black memory eraser. Freaking hilarious if you ask me, but still no reaction.\n\nMonths have passed now without anything happening between us. And I have no clue how she feels about me. I'm quite an attractive and handsome guy (people have said) and am actually not shy in public once I feel comfortable. Rather the opposite. But I am really shy when I'm around a girl I like, especially when we havn't talked like ever. \n\nShe is quite the timid and shy type as far as I know, and she keeps avoiding eye contact and (what I perceive as) being arrogant around me. I'm at a loss now about what to do about it. I'm scared as fuck to start a conversation with her now, after she has been ignoring me all this time. Does anyone have any advise as to what I could do, or if this girl really doesn't like me or if maybe she is just as shy as me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so mind you, we don't have a relationship whatsoever. We're both halfway through the first year of college, and havn't spoken a single word to each other. I was in the middle of a beak up a few months ago, and I felt I had to move on because I got severly depressed the last time my girlfriend broke up with me. So me with my stupid head wasn't thinking straight and send this girl a messege on facebook (remember we hadn't spoken a word with each other)\n\nThis is what I send her: I've been wanting to start a conversation with you, but as you might have observed by now I'm quite shy. It has even come so far that a classmate wrote me a short story about this today :p So this is me taking a step. \n\nHi Bree, nice to meet jou, hopefully :)\n\nI thought at that moment being honest would be the best thing. But I realize now how stupid that must have sounded. So after she didn't answer after a couple of days, I send her an other messege with this a GIF of the man in black memory eraser. Freaking hilarious if you ask me, but still no reaction.\n\nMonths have passed now without anything happening between us. And I have no clue how she feels about me. I'm quite an attractive and handsome guy (people have said) and am actually not shy in public once I feel comfortable. Rather the opposite. But I am really shy when I'm around a girl I like, especially when we havn't talked like ever. \n\nShe is quite the timid and shy type as far as I know, and she keeps avoiding eye contact and (what I perceive as) being arrogant around me. I'm at a loss now about what to do about it. I'm scared as fuck to start a conversation with her now, after she has been ignoring me all this time. Does anyone have any advise as to what I could do, or if this girl really doesn't like me or if maybe she is just as shy as me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so mind you, we don't have a relationship whatsoever. We're both halfway through the first year of college, and havn't spoken a single word to each other. I was in the middle of a beak up a few months ago, and I felt I had to move on because I got severly depressed the last time my girlfriend broke up with me. So me with my stupid head wasn't thinking straight and send this girl a messege on facebook (remember we hadn't spoken a word with each other)\n\nThis is what I send her: I've been wanting to start a conversation with you, but as you might have observed by now I'm quite shy. It has even come so far that a classmate wrote me a short story about this today :p So this is me taking a step. \n\nHi Bree, nice to meet jou, hopefully :)\n\nI thought at that moment being honest would be the best thing. But I realize now how stupid that must have sounded. So after she didn't answer after a couple of days, I send her an other messege with this a GIF of the man in black memory eraser. Freaking hilarious if you ask me, but still no reaction.\n\nMonths have passed now without anything happening between us. And I have no clue how she feels about me. I'm quite an attractive and handsome guy (people have said) and am actually not shy in public once I feel comfortable. Rather the opposite. But I am really shy when I'm around a girl I like, especially when we havn't talked like ever. \n\nShe is quite the timid and shy type as far as I know, and she keeps avoiding eye contact and (what I perceive as) being arrogant around me. I'm at a loss now about what to do about it. I'm scared as fuck to start a conversation with her now, after she has been ignoring me all this time. Does anyone have any advise as to what I could do, or if this girl really doesn't like me or if maybe she is just as shy as me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so mind you, we don't have a relationship whatsoever. We're both halfway through the first year of college, and havn't spoken a single word to each other. I was in the middle of a beak up a few months ago, and I felt I had to move on because I got severly depressed the last time my girlfriend broke up with me. So me with my stupid head wasn't thinking straight and send this girl a messege on facebook (remember we hadn't spoken a word with each other)\n\nThis is what I send her: I've been wanting to start a conversation with you, but as you might have observed by now I'm quite shy. It has even come so far that a classmate wrote me a short story about this today :p So this is me taking a step. \n\nHi Bree, nice to meet jou, hopefully :)\n\nI thought at that moment being honest would be the best thing. But I realize now how stupid that must have sounded. So after she didn't answer after a couple of days, I send her an other messege with this a GIF of the man in black memory eraser. Freaking hilarious if you ask me, but still no reaction.\n\nMonths have passed now without anything happening between us. And I have no clue how she feels about me. I'm quite an attractive and handsome guy (people have said) and am actually not shy in public once I feel comfortable. Rather the opposite. But I am really shy when I'm around a girl I like, especially when we havn't talked like ever. \n\nShe is quite the timid and shy type as far as I know, and she keeps avoiding eye contact and (what I perceive as) being arrogant around me. I'm at a loss now about what to do about it. I'm scared as fuck to start a conversation with her now, after she has been ignoring me all this time. Does anyone have any advise as to what I could do, or if this girl really doesn't like me or if maybe she is just as shy as me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so mind you, we don't have a relationship whatsoever. We're both halfway through the first year of college, and havn't spoken a single word to each other. I was in the middle of a beak up a few months ago, and I felt I had to move on because I got severly depressed the last time my girlfriend broke up with me. So me with my stupid head wasn't thinking straight and send this girl a messege on facebook (remember we hadn't spoken a word with each other)\n\nThis is what I send her: I've been wanting to start a conversation with you, but as you might have observed by now I'm quite shy. It has even come so far that a classmate wrote me a short story about this today :p So this is me taking a step. \n\nHi Bree, nice to meet jou, hopefully :)\n\nI thought at that moment being honest would be the best thing. But I realize now how stupid that must have sounded. So after she didn't answer after a couple of days, I send her an other messege with this a GIF of the man in black memory eraser. Freaking hilarious if you ask me, but still no reaction.\n\nMonths have passed now without anything happening between us. And I have no clue how she feels about me. I'm quite an attractive and handsome guy (people have said) and am actually not shy in public once I feel comfortable. Rather the opposite. But I am really shy when I'm around a girl I like, especially when we havn't talked like ever. \n\nShe is quite the timid and shy type as far as I know, and she keeps avoiding eye contact and (what I perceive as) being arrogant around me. I'm at a loss now about what to do about it. I'm scared as fuck to start a conversation with her now, after she has been ignoring me all this time. Does anyone have any advise as to what I could do, or if this girl really doesn't like me or if maybe she is just as shy as me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so mind you, we don't have a relationship whatsoever. We're both halfway through the first year of college, and havn't spoken a single word to each other. I was in the middle of a beak up a few months ago, and I felt I had to move on because I got severly depressed the last time my girlfriend broke up with me. So me with my stupid head wasn't thinking straight and send this girl a messege on facebook (remember we hadn't spoken a word with each other)\n\nThis is what I send her: I've been wanting to start a conversation with you, but as you might have observed by now I'm quite shy. It has even come so far that a classmate wrote me a short story about this today :p So this is me taking a step. \n\nHi Bree, nice to meet jou, hopefully :)\n\nI thought at that moment being honest would be the best thing. But I realize now how stupid that must have sounded. So after she didn't answer after a couple of days, I send her an other messege with this a GIF of the man in black memory eraser. Freaking hilarious if you ask me, but still no reaction.\n\nMonths have passed now without anything happening between us. And I have no clue how she feels about me. I'm quite an attractive and handsome guy (people have said) and am actually not shy in public once I feel comfortable. Rather the opposite. But I am really shy when I'm around a girl I like, especially when we havn't talked like ever. \n\nShe is quite the timid and shy type as far as I know, and she keeps avoiding eye contact and (what I perceive as) being arrogant around me. I'm at a loss now about what to do about it. I'm scared as fuck to start a conversation with her now, after she has been ignoring me all this time. Does anyone have any advise as to what I could do, or if this girl really doesn't like me or if maybe she is just as shy as me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend [23 F] has been dating a guy [24 M] for about a year now, and so far he has sexually assaulted and raped her numerous times. He did this for about three months before my friend finally confronted him about it. Unfourtantly, she decided to stay with him. She said that he doesn't really touch her any more, but she has to tell repeatedly to stop when he does. She has not told many people what he he did to her. She knows what he did was wrong, but she believes that he chnaged( which he hasn't).\n\nHe is very controlling and does things such as refusing to let her drink any alcohol and he has to know where she is, especially at night if she is not with him. She can have up to 20 missed calls from him if she falls asleep too early. He always plays with her emotions by making her feel like she's a bad person for not responding to him immediately or wanting to do something that he doesn't want to do. \n\nI really want her to break up with him, but she keeps saying that she'll miss him too much and how lonely she'll be without him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend [23 F] has been dating a guy [24 M] for about a year now, and so far he has sexually assaulted and raped her numerous times. He did this for about three months before my friend finally confronted him about it. Unfourtantly, she decided to stay with him. She said that he doesn't really touch her any more, but she has to tell repeatedly to stop when he does. She has not told many people what he he did to her. She knows what he did was wrong, but she believes that he chnaged( which he hasn't).\n\nHe is very controlling and does things such as refusing to let her drink any alcohol and he has to know where she is, especially at night if she is not with him. She can have up to 20 missed calls from him if she falls asleep too early. He always plays with her emotions by making her feel like she's a bad person for not responding to him immediately or wanting to do something that he doesn't want to do. \n\nI really want her to break up with him, but she keeps saying that she'll miss him too much and how lonely she'll be without him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend [23 F] has been dating a guy [24 M] for about a year now, and so far he has sexually assaulted and raped her numerous times. He did this for about three months before my friend finally confronted him about it. Unfourtantly, she decided to stay with him. She said that he doesn't really touch her any more, but she has to tell repeatedly to stop when he does. She has not told many people what he he did to her. She knows what he did was wrong, but she believes that he chnaged( which he hasn't).\n\nHe is very controlling and does things such as refusing to let her drink any alcohol and he has to know where she is, especially at night if she is not with him. She can have up to 20 missed calls from him if she falls asleep too early. He always plays with her emotions by making her feel like she's a bad person for not responding to him immediately or wanting to do something that he doesn't want to do. \n\nI really want her to break up with him, but she keeps saying that she'll miss him too much and how lonely she'll be without him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend [23 F] has been dating a guy [24 M] for about a year now, and so far he has sexually assaulted and raped her numerous times. He did this for about three months before my friend finally confronted him about it. Unfourtantly, she decided to stay with him. She said that he doesn't really touch her any more, but she has to tell repeatedly to stop when he does. She has not told many people what he he did to her. She knows what he did was wrong, but she believes that he chnaged( which he hasn't).\n\nHe is very controlling and does things such as refusing to let her drink any alcohol and he has to know where she is, especially at night if she is not with him. She can have up to 20 missed calls from him if she falls asleep too early. He always plays with her emotions by making her feel like she's a bad person for not responding to him immediately or wanting to do something that he doesn't want to do. \n\nI really want her to break up with him, but she keeps saying that she'll miss him too much and how lonely she'll be without him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend [23 F] has been dating a guy [24 M] for about a year now, and so far he has sexually assaulted and raped her numerous times. He did this for about three months before my friend finally confronted him about it. Unfourtantly, she decided to stay with him. She said that he doesn't really touch her any more, but she has to tell repeatedly to stop when he does. She has not told many people what he he did to her. She knows what he did was wrong, but she believes that he chnaged( which he hasn't).\n\nHe is very controlling and does things such as refusing to let her drink any alcohol and he has to know where she is, especially at night if she is not with him. She can have up to 20 missed calls from him if she falls asleep too early. He always plays with her emotions by making her feel like she's a bad person for not responding to him immediately or wanting to do something that he doesn't want to do. \n\nI really want her to break up with him, but she keeps saying that she'll miss him too much and how lonely she'll be without him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend [23 F] has been dating a guy [24 M] for about a year now, and so far he has sexually assaulted and raped her numerous times. He did this for about three months before my friend finally confronted him about it. Unfourtantly, she decided to stay with him. She said that he doesn't really touch her any more, but she has to tell repeatedly to stop when he does. She has not told many people what he he did to her. She knows what he did was wrong, but she believes that he chnaged( which he hasn't).\n\nHe is very controlling and does things such as refusing to let her drink any alcohol and he has to know where she is, especially at night if she is not with him. She can have up to 20 missed calls from him if she falls asleep too early. He always plays with her emotions by making her feel like she's a bad person for not responding to him immediately or wanting to do something that he doesn't want to do. \n\nI really want her to break up with him, but she keeps saying that she'll miss him too much and how lonely she'll be without him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Little brother is 16*\n\nMy brother recently attend a 16th birthday party his friends had. Let's not pretend all teenagers follow the no alcohol until 21 rule. These kids were drinking underage and I am sure most of us did. Our brother (he is staying with my sister 23F) until mom comes back from her business trip. He did not drink as part of the condition of letting him go in the first place.\n\nFor as long as I can remember he has talked about this crush he had on this Dayna girl. Well at this party he had a golden chance to have sex with her and he stopped because he did not have a condom. This Dayna girl actually sent him a really heartfelt message on Facebook and thanked him for being thoughtful for them both, when she was caught in the moment. He showed it to me and my sister.\n\nMy younger brother recently went and had a phone conversation with our older brother. I now understand why every girl our older brother has been with has left him, he is a grade A dick. Our brother lives in Vegas and we normally communicate via Facebook or phone.\n\nHe called our brother and asked for advice on how to proceed and our older brother did the unthinkable. He went and he posted the story on Facebook making fun of it and our younger brother has been getting crap for it. His friends 95% male (not all guys are ass-holes, but these guys are). They have messaged him saying he is never going to get laid and a whole bunch of other things. He has deleted his Facebook it got that bad.\n\nFunny enough he made a status bitching about how a portion of the girls on his Facebook have blocked him. But how do we deal with this situation, he is extremely upset. Would we be right in telling mom what happened when she returns to Michigan? Then cutting all contact with the older brother and only keeping in touch our younger brother?\n\nHow do we deal with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Little brother is 16*\n\nMy brother recently attend a 16th birthday party his friends had. Let's not pretend all teenagers follow the no alcohol until 21 rule. These kids were drinking underage and I am sure most of us did. Our brother (he is staying with my sister 23F) until mom comes back from her business trip. He did not drink as part of the condition of letting him go in the first place.\n\nFor as long as I can remember he has talked about this crush he had on this Dayna girl. Well at this party he had a golden chance to have sex with her and he stopped because he did not have a condom. This Dayna girl actually sent him a really heartfelt message on Facebook and thanked him for being thoughtful for them both, when she was caught in the moment. He showed it to me and my sister.\n\nMy younger brother recently went and had a phone conversation with our older brother. I now understand why every girl our older brother has been with has left him, he is a grade A dick. Our brother lives in Vegas and we normally communicate via Facebook or phone.\n\nHe called our brother and asked for advice on how to proceed and our older brother did the unthinkable. He went and he posted the story on Facebook making fun of it and our younger brother has been getting crap for it. His friends 95% male (not all guys are ass-holes, but these guys are). They have messaged him saying he is never going to get laid and a whole bunch of other things. He has deleted his Facebook it got that bad.\n\nFunny enough he made a status bitching about how a portion of the girls on his Facebook have blocked him. But how do we deal with this situation, he is extremely upset. Would we be right in telling mom what happened when she returns to Michigan? Then cutting all contact with the older brother and only keeping in touch our younger brother?\n\nHow do we deal with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Little brother is 16*\n\nMy brother recently attend a 16th birthday party his friends had. Let's not pretend all teenagers follow the no alcohol until 21 rule. These kids were drinking underage and I am sure most of us did. Our brother (he is staying with my sister 23F) until mom comes back from her business trip. He did not drink as part of the condition of letting him go in the first place.\n\nFor as long as I can remember he has talked about this crush he had on this Dayna girl. Well at this party he had a golden chance to have sex with her and he stopped because he did not have a condom. This Dayna girl actually sent him a really heartfelt message on Facebook and thanked him for being thoughtful for them both, when she was caught in the moment. He showed it to me and my sister.\n\nMy younger brother recently went and had a phone conversation with our older brother. I now understand why every girl our older brother has been with has left him, he is a grade A dick. Our brother lives in Vegas and we normally communicate via Facebook or phone.\n\nHe called our brother and asked for advice on how to proceed and our older brother did the unthinkable. He went and he posted the story on Facebook making fun of it and our younger brother has been getting crap for it. His friends 95% male (not all guys are ass-holes, but these guys are). They have messaged him saying he is never going to get laid and a whole bunch of other things. He has deleted his Facebook it got that bad.\n\nFunny enough he made a status bitching about how a portion of the girls on his Facebook have blocked him. But how do we deal with this situation, he is extremely upset. Would we be right in telling mom what happened when she returns to Michigan? Then cutting all contact with the older brother and only keeping in touch our younger brother?\n\nHow do we deal with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Little brother is 16*\n\nMy brother recently attend a 16th birthday party his friends had. Let's not pretend all teenagers follow the no alcohol until 21 rule. These kids were drinking underage and I am sure most of us did. Our brother (he is staying with my sister 23F) until mom comes back from her business trip. He did not drink as part of the condition of letting him go in the first place.\n\nFor as long as I can remember he has talked about this crush he had on this Dayna girl. Well at this party he had a golden chance to have sex with her and he stopped because he did not have a condom. This Dayna girl actually sent him a really heartfelt message on Facebook and thanked him for being thoughtful for them both, when she was caught in the moment. He showed it to me and my sister.\n\nMy younger brother recently went and had a phone conversation with our older brother. I now understand why every girl our older brother has been with has left him, he is a grade A dick. Our brother lives in Vegas and we normally communicate via Facebook or phone.\n\nHe called our brother and asked for advice on how to proceed and our older brother did the unthinkable. He went and he posted the story on Facebook making fun of it and our younger brother has been getting crap for it. His friends 95% male (not all guys are ass-holes, but these guys are). They have messaged him saying he is never going to get laid and a whole bunch of other things. He has deleted his Facebook it got that bad.\n\nFunny enough he made a status bitching about how a portion of the girls on his Facebook have blocked him. But how do we deal with this situation, he is extremely upset. Would we be right in telling mom what happened when she returns to Michigan? Then cutting all contact with the older brother and only keeping in touch our younger brother?\n\nHow do we deal with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Little brother is 16*\n\nMy brother recently attend a 16th birthday party his friends had. Let's not pretend all teenagers follow the no alcohol until 21 rule. These kids were drinking underage and I am sure most of us did. Our brother (he is staying with my sister 23F) until mom comes back from her business trip. He did not drink as part of the condition of letting him go in the first place.\n\nFor as long as I can remember he has talked about this crush he had on this Dayna girl. Well at this party he had a golden chance to have sex with her and he stopped because he did not have a condom. This Dayna girl actually sent him a really heartfelt message on Facebook and thanked him for being thoughtful for them both, when she was caught in the moment. He showed it to me and my sister.\n\nMy younger brother recently went and had a phone conversation with our older brother. I now understand why every girl our older brother has been with has left him, he is a grade A dick. Our brother lives in Vegas and we normally communicate via Facebook or phone.\n\nHe called our brother and asked for advice on how to proceed and our older brother did the unthinkable. He went and he posted the story on Facebook making fun of it and our younger brother has been getting crap for it. His friends 95% male (not all guys are ass-holes, but these guys are). They have messaged him saying he is never going to get laid and a whole bunch of other things. He has deleted his Facebook it got that bad.\n\nFunny enough he made a status bitching about how a portion of the girls on his Facebook have blocked him. But how do we deal with this situation, he is extremely upset. Would we be right in telling mom what happened when she returns to Michigan? Then cutting all contact with the older brother and only keeping in touch our younger brother?\n\nHow do we deal with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 17m, dating 16f for about 5 months now.\n\nLong story short, after the first month we started dating she came out and told me that she was a serial cheater in the past and then for the next month after she repeatedly alluded towards her ex-boyfriends/fwbs in a lot of conversations. Along the lines of, \"wow look at what this guy can do\" and \"ugh my old fwb messaged me and ONLY wanted to talk about sex\".\n\nWith the cereal cheater thing in mind and her constant talk about ex-boyfriends and past relationships and all the sexual things she's done it weighed on me and I asked her to stop telling me about these things, unless it was absolutely bothering her and she really needed to tell me.\n\nProblem is I don't know if I did the right thing. What if she was telling me BECAUSE they were bothering her, in her mind? I could've shut down any future attempts for her to open up and discuss with me things that she shouldn't have to hold in. Seriously bothering me, especially since I'm over the issues now too (I don't care for the exes anymore, grew a thick skin, and the serial cheating, well, what can you do but hope for the best and give it your all)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 17m, dating 16f for about 5 months now.\n\nLong story short, after the first month we started dating she came out and told me that she was a serial cheater in the past and then for the next month after she repeatedly alluded towards her ex-boyfriends/fwbs in a lot of conversations. Along the lines of, \"wow look at what this guy can do\" and \"ugh my old fwb messaged me and ONLY wanted to talk about sex\".\n\nWith the cereal cheater thing in mind and her constant talk about ex-boyfriends and past relationships and all the sexual things she's done it weighed on me and I asked her to stop telling me about these things, unless it was absolutely bothering her and she really needed to tell me.\n\nProblem is I don't know if I did the right thing. What if she was telling me BECAUSE they were bothering her, in her mind? I could've shut down any future attempts for her to open up and discuss with me things that she shouldn't have to hold in. Seriously bothering me, especially since I'm over the issues now too (I don't care for the exes anymore, grew a thick skin, and the serial cheating, well, what can you do but hope for the best and give it your all)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 17m, dating 16f for about 5 months now.\n\nLong story short, after the first month we started dating she came out and told me that she was a serial cheater in the past and then for the next month after she repeatedly alluded towards her ex-boyfriends/fwbs in a lot of conversations. Along the lines of, \"wow look at what this guy can do\" and \"ugh my old fwb messaged me and ONLY wanted to talk about sex\".\n\nWith the cereal cheater thing in mind and her constant talk about ex-boyfriends and past relationships and all the sexual things she's done it weighed on me and I asked her to stop telling me about these things, unless it was absolutely bothering her and she really needed to tell me.\n\nProblem is I don't know if I did the right thing. What if she was telling me BECAUSE they were bothering her, in her mind? I could've shut down any future attempts for her to open up and discuss with me things that she shouldn't have to hold in. Seriously bothering me, especially since I'm over the issues now too (I don't care for the exes anymore, grew a thick skin, and the serial cheating, well, what can you do but hope for the best and give it your all)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 17m, dating 16f for about 5 months now.\n\nLong story short, after the first month we started dating she came out and told me that she was a serial cheater in the past and then for the next month after she repeatedly alluded towards her ex-boyfriends/fwbs in a lot of conversations. Along the lines of, \"wow look at what this guy can do\" and \"ugh my old fwb messaged me and ONLY wanted to talk about sex\".\n\nWith the cereal cheater thing in mind and her constant talk about ex-boyfriends and past relationships and all the sexual things she's done it weighed on me and I asked her to stop telling me about these things, unless it was absolutely bothering her and she really needed to tell me.\n\nProblem is I don't know if I did the right thing. What if she was telling me BECAUSE they were bothering her, in her mind? I could've shut down any future attempts for her to open up and discuss with me things that she shouldn't have to hold in. Seriously bothering me, especially since I'm over the issues now too (I don't care for the exes anymore, grew a thick skin, and the serial cheating, well, what can you do but hope for the best and give it your all)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 17m, dating 16f for about 5 months now.\n\nLong story short, after the first month we started dating she came out and told me that she was a serial cheater in the past and then for the next month after she repeatedly alluded towards her ex-boyfriends/fwbs in a lot of conversations. Along the lines of, \"wow look at what this guy can do\" and \"ugh my old fwb messaged me and ONLY wanted to talk about sex\".\n\nWith the cereal cheater thing in mind and her constant talk about ex-boyfriends and past relationships and all the sexual things she's done it weighed on me and I asked her to stop telling me about these things, unless it was absolutely bothering her and she really needed to tell me.\n\nProblem is I don't know if I did the right thing. What if she was telling me BECAUSE they were bothering her, in her mind? I could've shut down any future attempts for her to open up and discuss with me things that she shouldn't have to hold in. Seriously bothering me, especially since I'm over the issues now too (I don't care for the exes anymore, grew a thick skin, and the serial cheating, well, what can you do but hope for the best and give it your all)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 17m, dating 16f for about 5 months now.\n\nLong story short, after the first month we started dating she came out and told me that she was a serial cheater in the past and then for the next month after she repeatedly alluded towards her ex-boyfriends/fwbs in a lot of conversations. Along the lines of, \"wow look at what this guy can do\" and \"ugh my old fwb messaged me and ONLY wanted to talk about sex\".\n\nWith the cereal cheater thing in mind and her constant talk about ex-boyfriends and past relationships and all the sexual things she's done it weighed on me and I asked her to stop telling me about these things, unless it was absolutely bothering her and she really needed to tell me.\n\nProblem is I don't know if I did the right thing. What if she was telling me BECAUSE they were bothering her, in her mind? I could've shut down any future attempts for her to open up and discuss with me things that she shouldn't have to hold in. Seriously bothering me, especially since I'm over the issues now too (I don't care for the exes anymore, grew a thick skin, and the serial cheating, well, what can you do but hope for the best and give it your all)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was crying just a few mins ago waking me up, crying because her friends went out without inviting her.\nI notice this been going on for the last 2 years I been knowing her. I had asked her, did her friend start doing this since I been with her. And she said \"yes, but that's no excuse\".\nThese were her long time highschool friends, so I assume her ties to them run deep. So she so emotional about this. What could be the reason behind this?\nAnd what advice you have for the both of us, mainly my girlfriend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was crying just a few mins ago waking me up, crying because her friends went out without inviting her.\nI notice this been going on for the last 2 years I been knowing her. I had asked her, did her friend start doing this since I been with her. And she said \"yes, but that's no excuse\".\nThese were her long time highschool friends, so I assume her ties to them run deep. So she so emotional about this. What could be the reason behind this?\nAnd what advice you have for the both of us, mainly my girlfriend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was crying just a few mins ago waking me up, crying because her friends went out without inviting her.\nI notice this been going on for the last 2 years I been knowing her. I had asked her, did her friend start doing this since I been with her. And she said \"yes, but that's no excuse\".\nThese were her long time highschool friends, so I assume her ties to them run deep. So she so emotional about this. What could be the reason behind this?\nAnd what advice you have for the both of us, mainly my girlfriend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was crying just a few mins ago waking me up, crying because her friends went out without inviting her.\nI notice this been going on for the last 2 years I been knowing her. I had asked her, did her friend start doing this since I been with her. And she said \"yes, but that's no excuse\".\nThese were her long time highschool friends, so I assume her ties to them run deep. So she so emotional about this. What could be the reason behind this?\nAnd what advice you have for the both of us, mainly my girlfriend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was crying just a few mins ago waking me up, crying because her friends went out without inviting her.\nI notice this been going on for the last 2 years I been knowing her. I had asked her, did her friend start doing this since I been with her. And she said \"yes, but that's no excuse\".\nThese were her long time highschool friends, so I assume her ties to them run deep. So she so emotional about this. What could be the reason behind this?\nAnd what advice you have for the both of us, mainly my girlfriend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was crying just a few mins ago waking me up, crying because her friends went out without inviting her.\nI notice this been going on for the last 2 years I been knowing her. I had asked her, did her friend start doing this since I been with her. And she said \"yes, but that's no excuse\".\nThese were her long time highschool friends, so I assume her ties to them run deep. So she so emotional about this. What could be the reason behind this?\nAnd what advice you have for the both of us, mainly my girlfriend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So anyway I got accepted into a PhD program about 2 months ago. I will be moving across the country in 4 months time when it begins. \n\nMy current gf and I have been together for almost a year and I care for her dearly. I haven't brought up the topic of me moving yet, because I don't even know what to say (my experience with LDRs has been terrible). \n\nAnyway, today she came home hiding her tears. I knew something was up and finally got her confess that she was sad about the impending move. She then gave me a series of difficult questions to answer on the matter. I didn't know what to say. So she said \"this probably isn't going to work out\".\n\nI just don't know what's going to happen, it's still so long away. I'm open to anything. I don't think she wants to move with me and LDRs are difficult.\n\nAnyway, I don't want her to break up with me. What should i do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So anyway I got accepted into a PhD program about 2 months ago. I will be moving across the country in 4 months time when it begins. \n\nMy current gf and I have been together for almost a year and I care for her dearly. I haven't brought up the topic of me moving yet, because I don't even know what to say (my experience with LDRs has been terrible). \n\nAnyway, today she came home hiding her tears. I knew something was up and finally got her confess that she was sad about the impending move. She then gave me a series of difficult questions to answer on the matter. I didn't know what to say. So she said \"this probably isn't going to work out\".\n\nI just don't know what's going to happen, it's still so long away. I'm open to anything. I don't think she wants to move with me and LDRs are difficult.\n\nAnyway, I don't want her to break up with me. What should i do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So anyway I got accepted into a PhD program about 2 months ago. I will be moving across the country in 4 months time when it begins. \n\nMy current gf and I have been together for almost a year and I care for her dearly. I haven't brought up the topic of me moving yet, because I don't even know what to say (my experience with LDRs has been terrible). \n\nAnyway, today she came home hiding her tears. I knew something was up and finally got her confess that she was sad about the impending move. She then gave me a series of difficult questions to answer on the matter. I didn't know what to say. So she said \"this probably isn't going to work out\".\n\nI just don't know what's going to happen, it's still so long away. I'm open to anything. I don't think she wants to move with me and LDRs are difficult.\n\nAnyway, I don't want her to break up with me. What should i do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So anyway I got accepted into a PhD program about 2 months ago. I will be moving across the country in 4 months time when it begins. \n\nMy current gf and I have been together for almost a year and I care for her dearly. I haven't brought up the topic of me moving yet, because I don't even know what to say (my experience with LDRs has been terrible). \n\nAnyway, today she came home hiding her tears. I knew something was up and finally got her confess that she was sad about the impending move. She then gave me a series of difficult questions to answer on the matter. I didn't know what to say. So she said \"this probably isn't going to work out\".\n\nI just don't know what's going to happen, it's still so long away. I'm open to anything. I don't think she wants to move with me and LDRs are difficult.\n\nAnyway, I don't want her to break up with me. What should i do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So anyway I got accepted into a PhD program about 2 months ago. I will be moving across the country in 4 months time when it begins. \n\nMy current gf and I have been together for almost a year and I care for her dearly. I haven't brought up the topic of me moving yet, because I don't even know what to say (my experience with LDRs has been terrible). \n\nAnyway, today she came home hiding her tears. I knew something was up and finally got her confess that she was sad about the impending move. She then gave me a series of difficult questions to answer on the matter. I didn't know what to say. So she said \"this probably isn't going to work out\".\n\nI just don't know what's going to happen, it's still so long away. I'm open to anything. I don't think she wants to move with me and LDRs are difficult.\n\nAnyway, I don't want her to break up with me. What should i do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So anyway I got accepted into a PhD program about 2 months ago. I will be moving across the country in 4 months time when it begins. \n\nMy current gf and I have been together for almost a year and I care for her dearly. I haven't brought up the topic of me moving yet, because I don't even know what to say (my experience with LDRs has been terrible). \n\nAnyway, today she came home hiding her tears. I knew something was up and finally got her confess that she was sad about the impending move. She then gave me a series of difficult questions to answer on the matter. I didn't know what to say. So she said \"this probably isn't going to work out\".\n\nI just don't know what's going to happen, it's still so long away. I'm open to anything. I don't think she wants to move with me and LDRs are difficult.\n\nAnyway, I don't want her to break up with me. What should i do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf broke up with me about a month ago and we've kept in light contact since then where she's told me that the break up is \"too fresh, I couldn't date anytime soon\" and \"I still have feelings for you. Those feelings will always be there.\" Tonight I found her all over some guy at the bar, when she knew I was there. They were making out and grinding on the dance floor and now I feel like I've gone back to point one of the break-up and then fallen down a deeper hill. One of my closest friends assured me that she was doing it to get a reaction from me, but that's really hard to convince myself of. \n\nFor the month of the break up I've tried to keep calm and not say or do anything that would show I'm angry and upset with her for the break-up, so I still seem like the same nice guy she met years ago. Now I don't know if I can manage that. Is this the point where it's acceptable be lose my shit considering she told me she wasn't even close to ready to do anything with anyone else (that makes it seem like it was just a lie to ease the break-up)? I understand I have no right to intefere in her personal life now, but all I can find in the corners of my heart is pure fucking hatred."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf broke up with me about a month ago and we've kept in light contact since then where she's told me that the break up is \"too fresh, I couldn't date anytime soon\" and \"I still have feelings for you. Those feelings will always be there.\" Tonight I found her all over some guy at the bar, when she knew I was there. They were making out and grinding on the dance floor and now I feel like I've gone back to point one of the break-up and then fallen down a deeper hill. One of my closest friends assured me that she was doing it to get a reaction from me, but that's really hard to convince myself of. \n\nFor the month of the break up I've tried to keep calm and not say or do anything that would show I'm angry and upset with her for the break-up, so I still seem like the same nice guy she met years ago. Now I don't know if I can manage that. Is this the point where it's acceptable be lose my shit considering she told me she wasn't even close to ready to do anything with anyone else (that makes it seem like it was just a lie to ease the break-up)? I understand I have no right to intefere in her personal life now, but all I can find in the corners of my heart is pure fucking hatred."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf broke up with me about a month ago and we've kept in light contact since then where she's told me that the break up is \"too fresh, I couldn't date anytime soon\" and \"I still have feelings for you. Those feelings will always be there.\" Tonight I found her all over some guy at the bar, when she knew I was there. They were making out and grinding on the dance floor and now I feel like I've gone back to point one of the break-up and then fallen down a deeper hill. One of my closest friends assured me that she was doing it to get a reaction from me, but that's really hard to convince myself of. \n\nFor the month of the break up I've tried to keep calm and not say or do anything that would show I'm angry and upset with her for the break-up, so I still seem like the same nice guy she met years ago. Now I don't know if I can manage that. Is this the point where it's acceptable be lose my shit considering she told me she wasn't even close to ready to do anything with anyone else (that makes it seem like it was just a lie to ease the break-up)? I understand I have no right to intefere in her personal life now, but all I can find in the corners of my heart is pure fucking hatred."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf broke up with me about a month ago and we've kept in light contact since then where she's told me that the break up is \"too fresh, I couldn't date anytime soon\" and \"I still have feelings for you. Those feelings will always be there.\" Tonight I found her all over some guy at the bar, when she knew I was there. They were making out and grinding on the dance floor and now I feel like I've gone back to point one of the break-up and then fallen down a deeper hill. One of my closest friends assured me that she was doing it to get a reaction from me, but that's really hard to convince myself of. \n\nFor the month of the break up I've tried to keep calm and not say or do anything that would show I'm angry and upset with her for the break-up, so I still seem like the same nice guy she met years ago. Now I don't know if I can manage that. Is this the point where it's acceptable be lose my shit considering she told me she wasn't even close to ready to do anything with anyone else (that makes it seem like it was just a lie to ease the break-up)? I understand I have no right to intefere in her personal life now, but all I can find in the corners of my heart is pure fucking hatred."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf broke up with me about a month ago and we've kept in light contact since then where she's told me that the break up is \"too fresh, I couldn't date anytime soon\" and \"I still have feelings for you. Those feelings will always be there.\" Tonight I found her all over some guy at the bar, when she knew I was there. They were making out and grinding on the dance floor and now I feel like I've gone back to point one of the break-up and then fallen down a deeper hill. One of my closest friends assured me that she was doing it to get a reaction from me, but that's really hard to convince myself of. \n\nFor the month of the break up I've tried to keep calm and not say or do anything that would show I'm angry and upset with her for the break-up, so I still seem like the same nice guy she met years ago. Now I don't know if I can manage that. Is this the point where it's acceptable be lose my shit considering she told me she wasn't even close to ready to do anything with anyone else (that makes it seem like it was just a lie to ease the break-up)? I understand I have no right to intefere in her personal life now, but all I can find in the corners of my heart is pure fucking hatred."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf broke up with me about a month ago and we've kept in light contact since then where she's told me that the break up is \"too fresh, I couldn't date anytime soon\" and \"I still have feelings for you. Those feelings will always be there.\" Tonight I found her all over some guy at the bar, when she knew I was there. They were making out and grinding on the dance floor and now I feel like I've gone back to point one of the break-up and then fallen down a deeper hill. One of my closest friends assured me that she was doing it to get a reaction from me, but that's really hard to convince myself of. \n\nFor the month of the break up I've tried to keep calm and not say or do anything that would show I'm angry and upset with her for the break-up, so I still seem like the same nice guy she met years ago. Now I don't know if I can manage that. Is this the point where it's acceptable be lose my shit considering she told me she wasn't even close to ready to do anything with anyone else (that makes it seem like it was just a lie to ease the break-up)? I understand I have no right to intefere in her personal life now, but all I can find in the corners of my heart is pure fucking hatred."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I might be in the total wrong here. I'm really not sure.\n\nI met this girl in January one night going out with a couple of friends (3 dudes, meeting up with 2 girls). I had a girlfriend at the time and Buddy A is married, so we both just kinda had beers and shot pool while Buddy B hung out with one of the girls (Girl A). I end up hitting it off with the other girl (Girl B),but not pushing anything because I was taken at the time.\n\nFast forward to a couple weeks ago and I'm single. Really bad breakup. Buddy B is now dating Girl A from that night who happens to be best friends with Girl B. They are both conspiring to get us to date. \nThis is great, since we really hit it off and are both attracted to each other.except I'm not ready to jump right into a relationship right now. I feel like I need a purely physical phase before jumping into something new.\n\nHere comes the curveball: went out with all above mentioned friends the other night, Drinks were had, and instigating occurred trying to steer the two of us together, but I hesitated due to the above reason and I ended up dancing with some chick (Girl C) I didn't know and going home with her that night.\n\nCome to find out, Girl C and Girl B are actually friends. Girl B found out I left with Girl C and gets pissed. Girl C also has recently left a serious relationship and just wants to screw around. So we do. Girl B gets over the initial anger and agrees to not hold it against me since we're not together, but agrees to let me take her out next time she's in town (she goes to school a couple hours away and Girl C is local) a few weeks from now. Meanwhile, Girl C proposes FWB angle, to which I agree and we've since been fucking NSA.\n\nIs it wrong to fuck one girl while talking to another if you're not dating? I've never had a FWB before, so this is all new territory for me, and the fact that they are friends complicates things further."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I might be in the total wrong here. I'm really not sure.\n\nI met this girl in January one night going out with a couple of friends (3 dudes, meeting up with 2 girls). I had a girlfriend at the time and Buddy A is married, so we both just kinda had beers and shot pool while Buddy B hung out with one of the girls (Girl A). I end up hitting it off with the other girl (Girl B),but not pushing anything because I was taken at the time.\n\nFast forward to a couple weeks ago and I'm single. Really bad breakup. Buddy B is now dating Girl A from that night who happens to be best friends with Girl B. They are both conspiring to get us to date. \nThis is great, since we really hit it off and are both attracted to each other.except I'm not ready to jump right into a relationship right now. I feel like I need a purely physical phase before jumping into something new.\n\nHere comes the curveball: went out with all above mentioned friends the other night, Drinks were had, and instigating occurred trying to steer the two of us together, but I hesitated due to the above reason and I ended up dancing with some chick (Girl C) I didn't know and going home with her that night.\n\nCome to find out, Girl C and Girl B are actually friends. Girl B found out I left with Girl C and gets pissed. Girl C also has recently left a serious relationship and just wants to screw around. So we do. Girl B gets over the initial anger and agrees to not hold it against me since we're not together, but agrees to let me take her out next time she's in town (she goes to school a couple hours away and Girl C is local) a few weeks from now. Meanwhile, Girl C proposes FWB angle, to which I agree and we've since been fucking NSA.\n\nIs it wrong to fuck one girl while talking to another if you're not dating? I've never had a FWB before, so this is all new territory for me, and the fact that they are friends complicates things further."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I might be in the total wrong here. I'm really not sure.\n\nI met this girl in January one night going out with a couple of friends (3 dudes, meeting up with 2 girls). I had a girlfriend at the time and Buddy A is married, so we both just kinda had beers and shot pool while Buddy B hung out with one of the girls (Girl A). I end up hitting it off with the other girl (Girl B),but not pushing anything because I was taken at the time.\n\nFast forward to a couple weeks ago and I'm single. Really bad breakup. Buddy B is now dating Girl A from that night who happens to be best friends with Girl B. They are both conspiring to get us to date. \nThis is great, since we really hit it off and are both attracted to each other.except I'm not ready to jump right into a relationship right now. I feel like I need a purely physical phase before jumping into something new.\n\nHere comes the curveball: went out with all above mentioned friends the other night, Drinks were had, and instigating occurred trying to steer the two of us together, but I hesitated due to the above reason and I ended up dancing with some chick (Girl C) I didn't know and going home with her that night.\n\nCome to find out, Girl C and Girl B are actually friends. Girl B found out I left with Girl C and gets pissed. Girl C also has recently left a serious relationship and just wants to screw around. So we do. Girl B gets over the initial anger and agrees to not hold it against me since we're not together, but agrees to let me take her out next time she's in town (she goes to school a couple hours away and Girl C is local) a few weeks from now. Meanwhile, Girl C proposes FWB angle, to which I agree and we've since been fucking NSA.\n\nIs it wrong to fuck one girl while talking to another if you're not dating? I've never had a FWB before, so this is all new territory for me, and the fact that they are friends complicates things further."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I might be in the total wrong here. I'm really not sure.\n\nI met this girl in January one night going out with a couple of friends (3 dudes, meeting up with 2 girls). I had a girlfriend at the time and Buddy A is married, so we both just kinda had beers and shot pool while Buddy B hung out with one of the girls (Girl A). I end up hitting it off with the other girl (Girl B),but not pushing anything because I was taken at the time.\n\nFast forward to a couple weeks ago and I'm single. Really bad breakup. Buddy B is now dating Girl A from that night who happens to be best friends with Girl B. They are both conspiring to get us to date. \nThis is great, since we really hit it off and are both attracted to each other.except I'm not ready to jump right into a relationship right now. I feel like I need a purely physical phase before jumping into something new.\n\nHere comes the curveball: went out with all above mentioned friends the other night, Drinks were had, and instigating occurred trying to steer the two of us together, but I hesitated due to the above reason and I ended up dancing with some chick (Girl C) I didn't know and going home with her that night.\n\nCome to find out, Girl C and Girl B are actually friends. Girl B found out I left with Girl C and gets pissed. Girl C also has recently left a serious relationship and just wants to screw around. So we do. Girl B gets over the initial anger and agrees to not hold it against me since we're not together, but agrees to let me take her out next time she's in town (she goes to school a couple hours away and Girl C is local) a few weeks from now. Meanwhile, Girl C proposes FWB angle, to which I agree and we've since been fucking NSA.\n\nIs it wrong to fuck one girl while talking to another if you're not dating? I've never had a FWB before, so this is all new territory for me, and the fact that they are friends complicates things further."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I might be in the total wrong here. I'm really not sure.\n\nI met this girl in January one night going out with a couple of friends (3 dudes, meeting up with 2 girls). I had a girlfriend at the time and Buddy A is married, so we both just kinda had beers and shot pool while Buddy B hung out with one of the girls (Girl A). I end up hitting it off with the other girl (Girl B),but not pushing anything because I was taken at the time.\n\nFast forward to a couple weeks ago and I'm single. Really bad breakup. Buddy B is now dating Girl A from that night who happens to be best friends with Girl B. They are both conspiring to get us to date. \nThis is great, since we really hit it off and are both attracted to each other.except I'm not ready to jump right into a relationship right now. I feel like I need a purely physical phase before jumping into something new.\n\nHere comes the curveball: went out with all above mentioned friends the other night, Drinks were had, and instigating occurred trying to steer the two of us together, but I hesitated due to the above reason and I ended up dancing with some chick (Girl C) I didn't know and going home with her that night.\n\nCome to find out, Girl C and Girl B are actually friends. Girl B found out I left with Girl C and gets pissed. Girl C also has recently left a serious relationship and just wants to screw around. So we do. Girl B gets over the initial anger and agrees to not hold it against me since we're not together, but agrees to let me take her out next time she's in town (she goes to school a couple hours away and Girl C is local) a few weeks from now. Meanwhile, Girl C proposes FWB angle, to which I agree and we've since been fucking NSA.\n\nIs it wrong to fuck one girl while talking to another if you're not dating? I've never had a FWB before, so this is all new territory for me, and the fact that they are friends complicates things further."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I've known the girl I've been seeing since high school, she actually \"dated\" one of my friends from middle school until high school. He dumped her because she kissed another boy. They're actually friendly now.\n\nAnyways we ended up hooking up a week ago, and things have been pretty great since, we seem pretty compatible in that we both seem to like being around each other. Just now she sent me a message asking if she could go ahead and make it \"official\" (Facebook). she already sent the request, so I know she wasn't joking.\n\nI really like her, but I'm a little paranoid about the fact that she did cheat before (yes I know this is pretty crazy, I can be a little neurotic). How big of a red flag is this? I know she was a kid when it happened, and I know people mature A LOT, but nevertheless she did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I've known the girl I've been seeing since high school, she actually \"dated\" one of my friends from middle school until high school. He dumped her because she kissed another boy. They're actually friendly now.\n\nAnyways we ended up hooking up a week ago, and things have been pretty great since, we seem pretty compatible in that we both seem to like being around each other. Just now she sent me a message asking if she could go ahead and make it \"official\" (Facebook). she already sent the request, so I know she wasn't joking.\n\nI really like her, but I'm a little paranoid about the fact that she did cheat before (yes I know this is pretty crazy, I can be a little neurotic). How big of a red flag is this? I know she was a kid when it happened, and I know people mature A LOT, but nevertheless she did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I've known the girl I've been seeing since high school, she actually \"dated\" one of my friends from middle school until high school. He dumped her because she kissed another boy. They're actually friendly now.\n\nAnyways we ended up hooking up a week ago, and things have been pretty great since, we seem pretty compatible in that we both seem to like being around each other. Just now she sent me a message asking if she could go ahead and make it \"official\" (Facebook). she already sent the request, so I know she wasn't joking.\n\nI really like her, but I'm a little paranoid about the fact that she did cheat before (yes I know this is pretty crazy, I can be a little neurotic). How big of a red flag is this? I know she was a kid when it happened, and I know people mature A LOT, but nevertheless she did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I've known the girl I've been seeing since high school, she actually \"dated\" one of my friends from middle school until high school. He dumped her because she kissed another boy. They're actually friendly now.\n\nAnyways we ended up hooking up a week ago, and things have been pretty great since, we seem pretty compatible in that we both seem to like being around each other. Just now she sent me a message asking if she could go ahead and make it \"official\" (Facebook). she already sent the request, so I know she wasn't joking.\n\nI really like her, but I'm a little paranoid about the fact that she did cheat before (yes I know this is pretty crazy, I can be a little neurotic). How big of a red flag is this? I know she was a kid when it happened, and I know people mature A LOT, but nevertheless she did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I've known the girl I've been seeing since high school, she actually \"dated\" one of my friends from middle school until high school. He dumped her because she kissed another boy. They're actually friendly now.\n\nAnyways we ended up hooking up a week ago, and things have been pretty great since, we seem pretty compatible in that we both seem to like being around each other. Just now she sent me a message asking if she could go ahead and make it \"official\" (Facebook). she already sent the request, so I know she wasn't joking.\n\nI really like her, but I'm a little paranoid about the fact that she did cheat before (yes I know this is pretty crazy, I can be a little neurotic). How big of a red flag is this? I know she was a kid when it happened, and I know people mature A LOT, but nevertheless she did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I've known the girl I've been seeing since high school, she actually \"dated\" one of my friends from middle school until high school. He dumped her because she kissed another boy. They're actually friendly now.\n\nAnyways we ended up hooking up a week ago, and things have been pretty great since, we seem pretty compatible in that we both seem to like being around each other. Just now she sent me a message asking if she could go ahead and make it \"official\" (Facebook). she already sent the request, so I know she wasn't joking.\n\nI really like her, but I'm a little paranoid about the fact that she did cheat before (yes I know this is pretty crazy, I can be a little neurotic). How big of a red flag is this? I know she was a kid when it happened, and I know people mature A LOT, but nevertheless she did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a good friend of mine got involved in this organization that from what I can tell is at least a pyramid scheme, but quite possibly is just a flat out ponzi scheme. For an example of what I mean, check out this video they published: . I've expressed my concern to my friend, but to them, this organization is the latest greatest thing ever that's going to help them achieve their greatest dreams in NO TIME AT ALL. Yes, I told them that usually when things sound too good to be true, they usually are, but so far, no luck. This friend is the most optimistic, trusting, and delightful person you would ever meet. On the flip side though, said friend is prone to unrealistic expectations, is somewhat gullible, and probably the perfect target for con artists.\n\nWhen I spoke to friend about it, they said that they had heard this kind of criticism of the company before, but chalked it up to be from \"people who didn't know much about the company\"\n\nIn the best case scenario that I can forsee, friend will end up working a shitty commission-based sales job for less than minimum wage. And that's at absolute best.\n\nI've got two goals here. Firstly and most importantly, I want to help keep them from making a huge mistake that they'll regret for a long time. Secondly, I want to try to maintain my friendship with the person.\n\nSo reddit, serious advice only please. How do I save my friend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a good friend of mine got involved in this organization that from what I can tell is at least a pyramid scheme, but quite possibly is just a flat out ponzi scheme. For an example of what I mean, check out this video they published: . I've expressed my concern to my friend, but to them, this organization is the latest greatest thing ever that's going to help them achieve their greatest dreams in NO TIME AT ALL. Yes, I told them that usually when things sound too good to be true, they usually are, but so far, no luck. This friend is the most optimistic, trusting, and delightful person you would ever meet. On the flip side though, said friend is prone to unrealistic expectations, is somewhat gullible, and probably the perfect target for con artists.\n\nWhen I spoke to friend about it, they said that they had heard this kind of criticism of the company before, but chalked it up to be from \"people who didn't know much about the company\"\n\nIn the best case scenario that I can forsee, friend will end up working a shitty commission-based sales job for less than minimum wage. And that's at absolute best.\n\nI've got two goals here. Firstly and most importantly, I want to help keep them from making a huge mistake that they'll regret for a long time. Secondly, I want to try to maintain my friendship with the person.\n\nSo reddit, serious advice only please. How do I save my friend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a good friend of mine got involved in this organization that from what I can tell is at least a pyramid scheme, but quite possibly is just a flat out ponzi scheme. For an example of what I mean, check out this video they published: . I've expressed my concern to my friend, but to them, this organization is the latest greatest thing ever that's going to help them achieve their greatest dreams in NO TIME AT ALL. Yes, I told them that usually when things sound too good to be true, they usually are, but so far, no luck. This friend is the most optimistic, trusting, and delightful person you would ever meet. On the flip side though, said friend is prone to unrealistic expectations, is somewhat gullible, and probably the perfect target for con artists.\n\nWhen I spoke to friend about it, they said that they had heard this kind of criticism of the company before, but chalked it up to be from \"people who didn't know much about the company\"\n\nIn the best case scenario that I can forsee, friend will end up working a shitty commission-based sales job for less than minimum wage. And that's at absolute best.\n\nI've got two goals here. Firstly and most importantly, I want to help keep them from making a huge mistake that they'll regret for a long time. Secondly, I want to try to maintain my friendship with the person.\n\nSo reddit, serious advice only please. How do I save my friend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met this guy who seemed really cool and we hit it off. Into the same music, humor, etc. We made plans to go on a date. A few days before he reveals he is in a poly relationship and he felt bad for not telling me sooner, as he wasn't looking for anything initially but thought I was really cool. \n\nI was a little irritated, as I don't know a lot about open relationships but I figure you should tell someone ASAP about it. Whatever. I don't care if he's in an open relationship I just want honesty. I ask him if she knows about me and he said yes and blahblah. We keep talking. I notice whenever he is with his girlfriend, he doesn't text me at all. Also weird about trading social media info except for snapchat. I hear today he wants to reschedule plans as he got into a huge fight with his girlfriend and doesn't know if the day we picked will work. \n\nI just feel so sketched out by this. Could I be reading too much into things or am I the potential other woman? How am I supposed to go about things as I don't know much about open relationships at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met this guy who seemed really cool and we hit it off. Into the same music, humor, etc. We made plans to go on a date. A few days before he reveals he is in a poly relationship and he felt bad for not telling me sooner, as he wasn't looking for anything initially but thought I was really cool. \n\nI was a little irritated, as I don't know a lot about open relationships but I figure you should tell someone ASAP about it. Whatever. I don't care if he's in an open relationship I just want honesty. I ask him if she knows about me and he said yes and blahblah. We keep talking. I notice whenever he is with his girlfriend, he doesn't text me at all. Also weird about trading social media info except for snapchat. I hear today he wants to reschedule plans as he got into a huge fight with his girlfriend and doesn't know if the day we picked will work. \n\nI just feel so sketched out by this. Could I be reading too much into things or am I the potential other woman? How am I supposed to go about things as I don't know much about open relationships at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met this guy who seemed really cool and we hit it off. Into the same music, humor, etc. We made plans to go on a date. A few days before he reveals he is in a poly relationship and he felt bad for not telling me sooner, as he wasn't looking for anything initially but thought I was really cool. \n\nI was a little irritated, as I don't know a lot about open relationships but I figure you should tell someone ASAP about it. Whatever. I don't care if he's in an open relationship I just want honesty. I ask him if she knows about me and he said yes and blahblah. We keep talking. I notice whenever he is with his girlfriend, he doesn't text me at all. Also weird about trading social media info except for snapchat. I hear today he wants to reschedule plans as he got into a huge fight with his girlfriend and doesn't know if the day we picked will work. \n\nI just feel so sketched out by this. Could I be reading too much into things or am I the potential other woman? How am I supposed to go about things as I don't know much about open relationships at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met this guy who seemed really cool and we hit it off. Into the same music, humor, etc. We made plans to go on a date. A few days before he reveals he is in a poly relationship and he felt bad for not telling me sooner, as he wasn't looking for anything initially but thought I was really cool. \n\nI was a little irritated, as I don't know a lot about open relationships but I figure you should tell someone ASAP about it. Whatever. I don't care if he's in an open relationship I just want honesty. I ask him if she knows about me and he said yes and blahblah. We keep talking. I notice whenever he is with his girlfriend, he doesn't text me at all. Also weird about trading social media info except for snapchat. I hear today he wants to reschedule plans as he got into a huge fight with his girlfriend and doesn't know if the day we picked will work. \n\nI just feel so sketched out by this. Could I be reading too much into things or am I the potential other woman? How am I supposed to go about things as I don't know much about open relationships at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met this guy who seemed really cool and we hit it off. Into the same music, humor, etc. We made plans to go on a date. A few days before he reveals he is in a poly relationship and he felt bad for not telling me sooner, as he wasn't looking for anything initially but thought I was really cool. \n\nI was a little irritated, as I don't know a lot about open relationships but I figure you should tell someone ASAP about it. Whatever. I don't care if he's in an open relationship I just want honesty. I ask him if she knows about me and he said yes and blahblah. We keep talking. I notice whenever he is with his girlfriend, he doesn't text me at all. Also weird about trading social media info except for snapchat. I hear today he wants to reschedule plans as he got into a huge fight with his girlfriend and doesn't know if the day we picked will work. \n\nI just feel so sketched out by this. Could I be reading too much into things or am I the potential other woman? How am I supposed to go about things as I don't know much about open relationships at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met this guy who seemed really cool and we hit it off. Into the same music, humor, etc. We made plans to go on a date. A few days before he reveals he is in a poly relationship and he felt bad for not telling me sooner, as he wasn't looking for anything initially but thought I was really cool. \n\nI was a little irritated, as I don't know a lot about open relationships but I figure you should tell someone ASAP about it. Whatever. I don't care if he's in an open relationship I just want honesty. I ask him if she knows about me and he said yes and blahblah. We keep talking. I notice whenever he is with his girlfriend, he doesn't text me at all. Also weird about trading social media info except for snapchat. I hear today he wants to reschedule plans as he got into a huge fight with his girlfriend and doesn't know if the day we picked will work. \n\nI just feel so sketched out by this. Could I be reading too much into things or am I the potential other woman? How am I supposed to go about things as I don't know much about open relationships at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know the best place to post this, but I have felt this way for around 6 months and it has been taking it's toll for a while. I stared at this post for an hour not knowing what to say without it sounding petty and pointless. (upon re-reading I know it is full of holes, I'm sorry) All I know is I want help.\n\nThere is plenty of evidence that she may feel the same about me but the living situation really doesn't cater to my (possibly our) wants. She is incredibly mature but I will save all of the \"perfect girl\" stories because who cares really. Every day I feel too down to go outside or talk to people, making my friends seem more distant and making me feel even more lonely. \n\nWe go back home to our families occasionally and when she is here everything is fine, but the moment I am by myself the severe sadness comes back and I feel physically and mentally unable to do anything, resulting in excessive crying and insomnia.\n\nA previous breakup has caused me to fear rejection like a monster, and no matter how many times I tell myself how easy it is to just ask her, I panic to a point where i physically shake.\n\nThe obvious and easy option is seek help or just move out, but we're such good friends that neither of us would want that. As for seeking help, I have scheduled appointments but I either don't show up or just call up and cancel it when I am slightly composed.\n\nThe more i write the stupider I sound because being only 18 I understand that there's no reason for it to be this serious, if you can even consider it that. In my head I know it isn't hard but I just struggle to cope with the simplest of things now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know the best place to post this, but I have felt this way for around 6 months and it has been taking it's toll for a while. I stared at this post for an hour not knowing what to say without it sounding petty and pointless. (upon re-reading I know it is full of holes, I'm sorry) All I know is I want help.\n\nThere is plenty of evidence that she may feel the same about me but the living situation really doesn't cater to my (possibly our) wants. She is incredibly mature but I will save all of the \"perfect girl\" stories because who cares really. Every day I feel too down to go outside or talk to people, making my friends seem more distant and making me feel even more lonely. \n\nWe go back home to our families occasionally and when she is here everything is fine, but the moment I am by myself the severe sadness comes back and I feel physically and mentally unable to do anything, resulting in excessive crying and insomnia.\n\nA previous breakup has caused me to fear rejection like a monster, and no matter how many times I tell myself how easy it is to just ask her, I panic to a point where i physically shake.\n\nThe obvious and easy option is seek help or just move out, but we're such good friends that neither of us would want that. As for seeking help, I have scheduled appointments but I either don't show up or just call up and cancel it when I am slightly composed.\n\nThe more i write the stupider I sound because being only 18 I understand that there's no reason for it to be this serious, if you can even consider it that. In my head I know it isn't hard but I just struggle to cope with the simplest of things now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know the best place to post this, but I have felt this way for around 6 months and it has been taking it's toll for a while. I stared at this post for an hour not knowing what to say without it sounding petty and pointless. (upon re-reading I know it is full of holes, I'm sorry) All I know is I want help.\n\nThere is plenty of evidence that she may feel the same about me but the living situation really doesn't cater to my (possibly our) wants. She is incredibly mature but I will save all of the \"perfect girl\" stories because who cares really. Every day I feel too down to go outside or talk to people, making my friends seem more distant and making me feel even more lonely. \n\nWe go back home to our families occasionally and when she is here everything is fine, but the moment I am by myself the severe sadness comes back and I feel physically and mentally unable to do anything, resulting in excessive crying and insomnia.\n\nA previous breakup has caused me to fear rejection like a monster, and no matter how many times I tell myself how easy it is to just ask her, I panic to a point where i physically shake.\n\nThe obvious and easy option is seek help or just move out, but we're such good friends that neither of us would want that. As for seeking help, I have scheduled appointments but I either don't show up or just call up and cancel it when I am slightly composed.\n\nThe more i write the stupider I sound because being only 18 I understand that there's no reason for it to be this serious, if you can even consider it that. In my head I know it isn't hard but I just struggle to cope with the simplest of things now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know the best place to post this, but I have felt this way for around 6 months and it has been taking it's toll for a while. I stared at this post for an hour not knowing what to say without it sounding petty and pointless. (upon re-reading I know it is full of holes, I'm sorry) All I know is I want help.\n\nThere is plenty of evidence that she may feel the same about me but the living situation really doesn't cater to my (possibly our) wants. She is incredibly mature but I will save all of the \"perfect girl\" stories because who cares really. Every day I feel too down to go outside or talk to people, making my friends seem more distant and making me feel even more lonely. \n\nWe go back home to our families occasionally and when she is here everything is fine, but the moment I am by myself the severe sadness comes back and I feel physically and mentally unable to do anything, resulting in excessive crying and insomnia.\n\nA previous breakup has caused me to fear rejection like a monster, and no matter how many times I tell myself how easy it is to just ask her, I panic to a point where i physically shake.\n\nThe obvious and easy option is seek help or just move out, but we're such good friends that neither of us would want that. As for seeking help, I have scheduled appointments but I either don't show up or just call up and cancel it when I am slightly composed.\n\nThe more i write the stupider I sound because being only 18 I understand that there's no reason for it to be this serious, if you can even consider it that. In my head I know it isn't hard but I just struggle to cope with the simplest of things now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know the best place to post this, but I have felt this way for around 6 months and it has been taking it's toll for a while. I stared at this post for an hour not knowing what to say without it sounding petty and pointless. (upon re-reading I know it is full of holes, I'm sorry) All I know is I want help.\n\nThere is plenty of evidence that she may feel the same about me but the living situation really doesn't cater to my (possibly our) wants. She is incredibly mature but I will save all of the \"perfect girl\" stories because who cares really. Every day I feel too down to go outside or talk to people, making my friends seem more distant and making me feel even more lonely. \n\nWe go back home to our families occasionally and when she is here everything is fine, but the moment I am by myself the severe sadness comes back and I feel physically and mentally unable to do anything, resulting in excessive crying and insomnia.\n\nA previous breakup has caused me to fear rejection like a monster, and no matter how many times I tell myself how easy it is to just ask her, I panic to a point where i physically shake.\n\nThe obvious and easy option is seek help or just move out, but we're such good friends that neither of us would want that. As for seeking help, I have scheduled appointments but I either don't show up or just call up and cancel it when I am slightly composed.\n\nThe more i write the stupider I sound because being only 18 I understand that there's no reason for it to be this serious, if you can even consider it that. In my head I know it isn't hard but I just struggle to cope with the simplest of things now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know the best place to post this, but I have felt this way for around 6 months and it has been taking it's toll for a while. I stared at this post for an hour not knowing what to say without it sounding petty and pointless. (upon re-reading I know it is full of holes, I'm sorry) All I know is I want help.\n\nThere is plenty of evidence that she may feel the same about me but the living situation really doesn't cater to my (possibly our) wants. She is incredibly mature but I will save all of the \"perfect girl\" stories because who cares really. Every day I feel too down to go outside or talk to people, making my friends seem more distant and making me feel even more lonely. \n\nWe go back home to our families occasionally and when she is here everything is fine, but the moment I am by myself the severe sadness comes back and I feel physically and mentally unable to do anything, resulting in excessive crying and insomnia.\n\nA previous breakup has caused me to fear rejection like a monster, and no matter how many times I tell myself how easy it is to just ask her, I panic to a point where i physically shake.\n\nThe obvious and easy option is seek help or just move out, but we're such good friends that neither of us would want that. As for seeking help, I have scheduled appointments but I either don't show up or just call up and cancel it when I am slightly composed.\n\nThe more i write the stupider I sound because being only 18 I understand that there's no reason for it to be this serious, if you can even consider it that. In my head I know it isn't hard but I just struggle to cope with the simplest of things now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm having a professional experience of around 7 yrs , before I joined this really big and cool company. It's been 8 months since I'm here. I'm working in a team of four. Since beginning I've noticed that my manager favor one particular team member (let's call him N), to which I turned blind eye. I was least interested in office politics and more focused on getting my work done. \n\nBut off late, I noticed things are turning sour. It started with, me almost missing a deadline, and it went all down hill from here. Since then I see absolute lack of confidence from my manager. Everything or Anything I say, comment or work on, *must get closely* scrutinized by N. And only after his approval it is taken into consideration. In most technical / design discussion N is now given preferential treatment, unfortunately even If it's not logical.\n\nWhat I'm finding difficult to deal with is, there's no confidence in me whatsoever. I'm treated as below par performer. And it somewhere hurts me. I for sure know, that I'm capable and good at what I do. So much so that, I've won two coveted prices in past three month in code marathon and innovation summits. I'm looking for a way to deal with kind of treatment I'm dished out. The one thing I can do is, go and talk to manager,which I think of no use, cause she usually bullies her way through. Or maybe I can start looking for change of team. \n\nWhat you guys suggest is the best way to deal with such conflicts? How do you deal with such conflicts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm having a professional experience of around 7 yrs , before I joined this really big and cool company. It's been 8 months since I'm here. I'm working in a team of four. Since beginning I've noticed that my manager favor one particular team member (let's call him N), to which I turned blind eye. I was least interested in office politics and more focused on getting my work done. \n\nBut off late, I noticed things are turning sour. It started with, me almost missing a deadline, and it went all down hill from here. Since then I see absolute lack of confidence from my manager. Everything or Anything I say, comment or work on, *must get closely* scrutinized by N. And only after his approval it is taken into consideration. In most technical / design discussion N is now given preferential treatment, unfortunately even If it's not logical.\n\nWhat I'm finding difficult to deal with is, there's no confidence in me whatsoever. I'm treated as below par performer. And it somewhere hurts me. I for sure know, that I'm capable and good at what I do. So much so that, I've won two coveted prices in past three month in code marathon and innovation summits. I'm looking for a way to deal with kind of treatment I'm dished out. The one thing I can do is, go and talk to manager,which I think of no use, cause she usually bullies her way through. Or maybe I can start looking for change of team. \n\nWhat you guys suggest is the best way to deal with such conflicts? How do you deal with such conflicts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm having a professional experience of around 7 yrs , before I joined this really big and cool company. It's been 8 months since I'm here. I'm working in a team of four. Since beginning I've noticed that my manager favor one particular team member (let's call him N), to which I turned blind eye. I was least interested in office politics and more focused on getting my work done. \n\nBut off late, I noticed things are turning sour. It started with, me almost missing a deadline, and it went all down hill from here. Since then I see absolute lack of confidence from my manager. Everything or Anything I say, comment or work on, *must get closely* scrutinized by N. And only after his approval it is taken into consideration. In most technical / design discussion N is now given preferential treatment, unfortunately even If it's not logical.\n\nWhat I'm finding difficult to deal with is, there's no confidence in me whatsoever. I'm treated as below par performer. And it somewhere hurts me. I for sure know, that I'm capable and good at what I do. So much so that, I've won two coveted prices in past three month in code marathon and innovation summits. I'm looking for a way to deal with kind of treatment I'm dished out. The one thing I can do is, go and talk to manager,which I think of no use, cause she usually bullies her way through. Or maybe I can start looking for change of team. \n\nWhat you guys suggest is the best way to deal with such conflicts? How do you deal with such conflicts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm having a professional experience of around 7 yrs , before I joined this really big and cool company. It's been 8 months since I'm here. I'm working in a team of four. Since beginning I've noticed that my manager favor one particular team member (let's call him N), to which I turned blind eye. I was least interested in office politics and more focused on getting my work done. \n\nBut off late, I noticed things are turning sour. It started with, me almost missing a deadline, and it went all down hill from here. Since then I see absolute lack of confidence from my manager. Everything or Anything I say, comment or work on, *must get closely* scrutinized by N. And only after his approval it is taken into consideration. In most technical / design discussion N is now given preferential treatment, unfortunately even If it's not logical.\n\nWhat I'm finding difficult to deal with is, there's no confidence in me whatsoever. I'm treated as below par performer. And it somewhere hurts me. I for sure know, that I'm capable and good at what I do. So much so that, I've won two coveted prices in past three month in code marathon and innovation summits. I'm looking for a way to deal with kind of treatment I'm dished out. The one thing I can do is, go and talk to manager,which I think of no use, cause she usually bullies her way through. Or maybe I can start looking for change of team. \n\nWhat you guys suggest is the best way to deal with such conflicts? How do you deal with such conflicts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm having a professional experience of around 7 yrs , before I joined this really big and cool company. It's been 8 months since I'm here. I'm working in a team of four. Since beginning I've noticed that my manager favor one particular team member (let's call him N), to which I turned blind eye. I was least interested in office politics and more focused on getting my work done. \n\nBut off late, I noticed things are turning sour. It started with, me almost missing a deadline, and it went all down hill from here. Since then I see absolute lack of confidence from my manager. Everything or Anything I say, comment or work on, *must get closely* scrutinized by N. And only after his approval it is taken into consideration. In most technical / design discussion N is now given preferential treatment, unfortunately even If it's not logical.\n\nWhat I'm finding difficult to deal with is, there's no confidence in me whatsoever. I'm treated as below par performer. And it somewhere hurts me. I for sure know, that I'm capable and good at what I do. So much so that, I've won two coveted prices in past three month in code marathon and innovation summits. I'm looking for a way to deal with kind of treatment I'm dished out. The one thing I can do is, go and talk to manager,which I think of no use, cause she usually bullies her way through. Or maybe I can start looking for change of team. \n\nWhat you guys suggest is the best way to deal with such conflicts? How do you deal with such conflicts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm having a professional experience of around 7 yrs , before I joined this really big and cool company. It's been 8 months since I'm here. I'm working in a team of four. Since beginning I've noticed that my manager favor one particular team member (let's call him N), to which I turned blind eye. I was least interested in office politics and more focused on getting my work done. \n\nBut off late, I noticed things are turning sour. It started with, me almost missing a deadline, and it went all down hill from here. Since then I see absolute lack of confidence from my manager. Everything or Anything I say, comment or work on, *must get closely* scrutinized by N. And only after his approval it is taken into consideration. In most technical / design discussion N is now given preferential treatment, unfortunately even If it's not logical.\n\nWhat I'm finding difficult to deal with is, there's no confidence in me whatsoever. I'm treated as below par performer. And it somewhere hurts me. I for sure know, that I'm capable and good at what I do. So much so that, I've won two coveted prices in past three month in code marathon and innovation summits. I'm looking for a way to deal with kind of treatment I'm dished out. The one thing I can do is, go and talk to manager,which I think of no use, cause she usually bullies her way through. Or maybe I can start looking for change of team. \n\nWhat you guys suggest is the best way to deal with such conflicts? How do you deal with such conflicts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I should state from the outset that I have zero romantic intentions here. (I've got a girlfriend I'm steady with.) I just think it'd be fun to have her along, and adding one/two more people would help cost savings as well for hotel rooms.\n\nAnyway, background. My friends and I have been planning a trip to Canada for a monthish now, for over break once fall quarter ends. It's 6 of us right now, four guys, two girls, possibly a third. I only know one of the people on this trip well (but he's a great friend). We plan on staying up there for three days/two nights, but might abridge it to two days/one night. We're taking a bus up, and staying in hotels with 4 people to a room, split by gender. The trip is about 2 weeks out at this point.\n\nThere's a girl in one of my courses this quarter who I didn't really start talking to until the last few weeks. It's just been chit-chat whenever we bump into each other on campus/online, but we do have friends in common, and we have talked about hanging out sometime.\n\nWould it be weird to invite her (plus a mutual friend perhaps, if that possibly a third from above falls through) on this trip? I'm thinking it's more on the yes-that's-creepy side, but I'd like your input here, since I feel like it'd be fun if it did work out. She seems to be more familiar with the area we're visiting than we are, too. Thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I should state from the outset that I have zero romantic intentions here. (I've got a girlfriend I'm steady with.) I just think it'd be fun to have her along, and adding one/two more people would help cost savings as well for hotel rooms.\n\nAnyway, background. My friends and I have been planning a trip to Canada for a monthish now, for over break once fall quarter ends. It's 6 of us right now, four guys, two girls, possibly a third. I only know one of the people on this trip well (but he's a great friend). We plan on staying up there for three days/two nights, but might abridge it to two days/one night. We're taking a bus up, and staying in hotels with 4 people to a room, split by gender. The trip is about 2 weeks out at this point.\n\nThere's a girl in one of my courses this quarter who I didn't really start talking to until the last few weeks. It's just been chit-chat whenever we bump into each other on campus/online, but we do have friends in common, and we have talked about hanging out sometime.\n\nWould it be weird to invite her (plus a mutual friend perhaps, if that possibly a third from above falls through) on this trip? I'm thinking it's more on the yes-that's-creepy side, but I'd like your input here, since I feel like it'd be fun if it did work out. She seems to be more familiar with the area we're visiting than we are, too. Thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I should state from the outset that I have zero romantic intentions here. (I've got a girlfriend I'm steady with.) I just think it'd be fun to have her along, and adding one/two more people would help cost savings as well for hotel rooms.\n\nAnyway, background. My friends and I have been planning a trip to Canada for a monthish now, for over break once fall quarter ends. It's 6 of us right now, four guys, two girls, possibly a third. I only know one of the people on this trip well (but he's a great friend). We plan on staying up there for three days/two nights, but might abridge it to two days/one night. We're taking a bus up, and staying in hotels with 4 people to a room, split by gender. The trip is about 2 weeks out at this point.\n\nThere's a girl in one of my courses this quarter who I didn't really start talking to until the last few weeks. It's just been chit-chat whenever we bump into each other on campus/online, but we do have friends in common, and we have talked about hanging out sometime.\n\nWould it be weird to invite her (plus a mutual friend perhaps, if that possibly a third from above falls through) on this trip? I'm thinking it's more on the yes-that's-creepy side, but I'd like your input here, since I feel like it'd be fun if it did work out. She seems to be more familiar with the area we're visiting than we are, too. Thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I should state from the outset that I have zero romantic intentions here. (I've got a girlfriend I'm steady with.) I just think it'd be fun to have her along, and adding one/two more people would help cost savings as well for hotel rooms.\n\nAnyway, background. My friends and I have been planning a trip to Canada for a monthish now, for over break once fall quarter ends. It's 6 of us right now, four guys, two girls, possibly a third. I only know one of the people on this trip well (but he's a great friend). We plan on staying up there for three days/two nights, but might abridge it to two days/one night. We're taking a bus up, and staying in hotels with 4 people to a room, split by gender. The trip is about 2 weeks out at this point.\n\nThere's a girl in one of my courses this quarter who I didn't really start talking to until the last few weeks. It's just been chit-chat whenever we bump into each other on campus/online, but we do have friends in common, and we have talked about hanging out sometime.\n\nWould it be weird to invite her (plus a mutual friend perhaps, if that possibly a third from above falls through) on this trip? I'm thinking it's more on the yes-that's-creepy side, but I'd like your input here, since I feel like it'd be fun if it did work out. She seems to be more familiar with the area we're visiting than we are, too. Thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I should state from the outset that I have zero romantic intentions here. (I've got a girlfriend I'm steady with.) I just think it'd be fun to have her along, and adding one/two more people would help cost savings as well for hotel rooms.\n\nAnyway, background. My friends and I have been planning a trip to Canada for a monthish now, for over break once fall quarter ends. It's 6 of us right now, four guys, two girls, possibly a third. I only know one of the people on this trip well (but he's a great friend). We plan on staying up there for three days/two nights, but might abridge it to two days/one night. We're taking a bus up, and staying in hotels with 4 people to a room, split by gender. The trip is about 2 weeks out at this point.\n\nThere's a girl in one of my courses this quarter who I didn't really start talking to until the last few weeks. It's just been chit-chat whenever we bump into each other on campus/online, but we do have friends in common, and we have talked about hanging out sometime.\n\nWould it be weird to invite her (plus a mutual friend perhaps, if that possibly a third from above falls through) on this trip? I'm thinking it's more on the yes-that's-creepy side, but I'd like your input here, since I feel like it'd be fun if it did work out. She seems to be more familiar with the area we're visiting than we are, too. Thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I should state from the outset that I have zero romantic intentions here. (I've got a girlfriend I'm steady with.) I just think it'd be fun to have her along, and adding one/two more people would help cost savings as well for hotel rooms.\n\nAnyway, background. My friends and I have been planning a trip to Canada for a monthish now, for over break once fall quarter ends. It's 6 of us right now, four guys, two girls, possibly a third. I only know one of the people on this trip well (but he's a great friend). We plan on staying up there for three days/two nights, but might abridge it to two days/one night. We're taking a bus up, and staying in hotels with 4 people to a room, split by gender. The trip is about 2 weeks out at this point.\n\nThere's a girl in one of my courses this quarter who I didn't really start talking to until the last few weeks. It's just been chit-chat whenever we bump into each other on campus/online, but we do have friends in common, and we have talked about hanging out sometime.\n\nWould it be weird to invite her (plus a mutual friend perhaps, if that possibly a third from above falls through) on this trip? I'm thinking it's more on the yes-that's-creepy side, but I'd like your input here, since I feel like it'd be fun if it did work out. She seems to be more familiar with the area we're visiting than we are, too. Thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all, I am a big fan of AD and also a Netflix subscriber (although I was going to cancel it soon).\n\nLet me remind a lot of you that Arrested Development is not coming back \"thanks to Netflix\". Netflix only outbid the TV stations. Had they not, it would be on a cable channel. With that fact, I don't know why everyone is so happy about this. I find it rather annoying that I pay all this money for cable TV and the option to DVR shows, and now I will HAVE to be a Netflix subscriber as well to see this new season. I think it's idiotic to premier a television series on here. There's the fact that, even if you subscribe to Netflix during the run, you can't go back and re-watch episodes unless you remain a member afterwards as well. More so, what happens when this becomes the norm and some series start premiering on Netflix, some on Hulu Plus, and some on the other internet movie services that will probably emerge in the next year and a half?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all, I am a big fan of AD and also a Netflix subscriber (although I was going to cancel it soon).\n\nLet me remind a lot of you that Arrested Development is not coming back \"thanks to Netflix\". Netflix only outbid the TV stations. Had they not, it would be on a cable channel. With that fact, I don't know why everyone is so happy about this. I find it rather annoying that I pay all this money for cable TV and the option to DVR shows, and now I will HAVE to be a Netflix subscriber as well to see this new season. I think it's idiotic to premier a television series on here. There's the fact that, even if you subscribe to Netflix during the run, you can't go back and re-watch episodes unless you remain a member afterwards as well. More so, what happens when this becomes the norm and some series start premiering on Netflix, some on Hulu Plus, and some on the other internet movie services that will probably emerge in the next year and a half?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all, I am a big fan of AD and also a Netflix subscriber (although I was going to cancel it soon).\n\nLet me remind a lot of you that Arrested Development is not coming back \"thanks to Netflix\". Netflix only outbid the TV stations. Had they not, it would be on a cable channel. With that fact, I don't know why everyone is so happy about this. I find it rather annoying that I pay all this money for cable TV and the option to DVR shows, and now I will HAVE to be a Netflix subscriber as well to see this new season. I think it's idiotic to premier a television series on here. There's the fact that, even if you subscribe to Netflix during the run, you can't go back and re-watch episodes unless you remain a member afterwards as well. More so, what happens when this becomes the norm and some series start premiering on Netflix, some on Hulu Plus, and some on the other internet movie services that will probably emerge in the next year and a half?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am pretty sure these are my insecurities (and I am having a hard time dealing with them and overcoming them), but I'd like to hear other opinions to try to clear my head. I should also note that this is my first girlfriend. We've been together for 4 months.\n\n1. She sent me a text in the morning saying that she's shopping with her sister and that she will text me as soon as she gets home. She didn't text me. I didn't text her about it. Then she texts me in the evening as she was heading to bed saying that she forgot to text me during the day. She said that she came home and watched a marathon of some sitcom. Now, all that is perfectly normal and I don't really care. However, what bothers me is that I think that she doesn't really value our relationship as much as I do because she FORGOT to text me. I mean, can you really forget to text someone who you say you love? So, this could be my insecurity or it could really be that she doesn't value our relationship and doesn't really care all that much about me (although she says more than enough that she loves me more than anything in the world). It just bothers me. I always thought that you can judge whether someone really loves you by those small things that they do.\n\nI can admit that I am a clingy, needy guy. I would like my girlfriend to show me that she loves me all the time. Is this wrong? Is this just my insecurity about whether she really loves me or not? Or is she really out of order?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am pretty sure these are my insecurities (and I am having a hard time dealing with them and overcoming them), but I'd like to hear other opinions to try to clear my head. I should also note that this is my first girlfriend. We've been together for 4 months.\n\n1. She sent me a text in the morning saying that she's shopping with her sister and that she will text me as soon as she gets home. She didn't text me. I didn't text her about it. Then she texts me in the evening as she was heading to bed saying that she forgot to text me during the day. She said that she came home and watched a marathon of some sitcom. Now, all that is perfectly normal and I don't really care. However, what bothers me is that I think that she doesn't really value our relationship as much as I do because she FORGOT to text me. I mean, can you really forget to text someone who you say you love? So, this could be my insecurity or it could really be that she doesn't value our relationship and doesn't really care all that much about me (although she says more than enough that she loves me more than anything in the world). It just bothers me. I always thought that you can judge whether someone really loves you by those small things that they do.\n\nI can admit that I am a clingy, needy guy. I would like my girlfriend to show me that she loves me all the time. Is this wrong? Is this just my insecurity about whether she really loves me or not? Or is she really out of order?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am pretty sure these are my insecurities (and I am having a hard time dealing with them and overcoming them), but I'd like to hear other opinions to try to clear my head. I should also note that this is my first girlfriend. We've been together for 4 months.\n\n1. She sent me a text in the morning saying that she's shopping with her sister and that she will text me as soon as she gets home. She didn't text me. I didn't text her about it. Then she texts me in the evening as she was heading to bed saying that she forgot to text me during the day. She said that she came home and watched a marathon of some sitcom. Now, all that is perfectly normal and I don't really care. However, what bothers me is that I think that she doesn't really value our relationship as much as I do because she FORGOT to text me. I mean, can you really forget to text someone who you say you love? So, this could be my insecurity or it could really be that she doesn't value our relationship and doesn't really care all that much about me (although she says more than enough that she loves me more than anything in the world). It just bothers me. I always thought that you can judge whether someone really loves you by those small things that they do.\n\nI can admit that I am a clingy, needy guy. I would like my girlfriend to show me that she loves me all the time. Is this wrong? Is this just my insecurity about whether she really loves me or not? Or is she really out of order?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am pretty sure these are my insecurities (and I am having a hard time dealing with them and overcoming them), but I'd like to hear other opinions to try to clear my head. I should also note that this is my first girlfriend. We've been together for 4 months.\n\n1. She sent me a text in the morning saying that she's shopping with her sister and that she will text me as soon as she gets home. She didn't text me. I didn't text her about it. Then she texts me in the evening as she was heading to bed saying that she forgot to text me during the day. She said that she came home and watched a marathon of some sitcom. Now, all that is perfectly normal and I don't really care. However, what bothers me is that I think that she doesn't really value our relationship as much as I do because she FORGOT to text me. I mean, can you really forget to text someone who you say you love? So, this could be my insecurity or it could really be that she doesn't value our relationship and doesn't really care all that much about me (although she says more than enough that she loves me more than anything in the world). It just bothers me. I always thought that you can judge whether someone really loves you by those small things that they do.\n\nI can admit that I am a clingy, needy guy. I would like my girlfriend to show me that she loves me all the time. Is this wrong? Is this just my insecurity about whether she really loves me or not? Or is she really out of order?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am pretty sure these are my insecurities (and I am having a hard time dealing with them and overcoming them), but I'd like to hear other opinions to try to clear my head. I should also note that this is my first girlfriend. We've been together for 4 months.\n\n1. She sent me a text in the morning saying that she's shopping with her sister and that she will text me as soon as she gets home. She didn't text me. I didn't text her about it. Then she texts me in the evening as she was heading to bed saying that she forgot to text me during the day. She said that she came home and watched a marathon of some sitcom. Now, all that is perfectly normal and I don't really care. However, what bothers me is that I think that she doesn't really value our relationship as much as I do because she FORGOT to text me. I mean, can you really forget to text someone who you say you love? So, this could be my insecurity or it could really be that she doesn't value our relationship and doesn't really care all that much about me (although she says more than enough that she loves me more than anything in the world). It just bothers me. I always thought that you can judge whether someone really loves you by those small things that they do.\n\nI can admit that I am a clingy, needy guy. I would like my girlfriend to show me that she loves me all the time. Is this wrong? Is this just my insecurity about whether she really loves me or not? Or is she really out of order?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am pretty sure these are my insecurities (and I am having a hard time dealing with them and overcoming them), but I'd like to hear other opinions to try to clear my head. I should also note that this is my first girlfriend. We've been together for 4 months.\n\n1. She sent me a text in the morning saying that she's shopping with her sister and that she will text me as soon as she gets home. She didn't text me. I didn't text her about it. Then she texts me in the evening as she was heading to bed saying that she forgot to text me during the day. She said that she came home and watched a marathon of some sitcom. Now, all that is perfectly normal and I don't really care. However, what bothers me is that I think that she doesn't really value our relationship as much as I do because she FORGOT to text me. I mean, can you really forget to text someone who you say you love? So, this could be my insecurity or it could really be that she doesn't value our relationship and doesn't really care all that much about me (although she says more than enough that she loves me more than anything in the world). It just bothers me. I always thought that you can judge whether someone really loves you by those small things that they do.\n\nI can admit that I am a clingy, needy guy. I would like my girlfriend to show me that she loves me all the time. Is this wrong? Is this just my insecurity about whether she really loves me or not? Or is she really out of order?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we dated for three months, I thought things were going really well. I had introduced her to my family and everything. One night we had a few drinks and she said she loved me, I was a bit nervous about it and said I was really enjoying our relationship and was falling for her but couldn't tell her yet. I'm not sure if this was a reason for her breaking up with me, but I honestly just wanted her to be sober when she told me and I'm cautious with my feelings, but I genuinely saw the relationship continuing and growing into something even better.\n\nThen, a week later, she sits me down and tells me she still has feelings for her ex, who lives in a different state, and wanted to break up.\n\nI don't even think there was any plans for her or him to move, so I'm confused as to what happened. I told her that it was OK to have residual feelings, but she still wanted to break up. I know that she wasn't single for a very long time, but she was for long enough that you would think she would be over her ex, especially one who lives in a different state.\n\nI haven't really spoken to her since, I'm kind of proud and don't want to beg or anything, but I think she was amazing. Should I just let it go or maybe see if she would give us another chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we dated for three months, I thought things were going really well. I had introduced her to my family and everything. One night we had a few drinks and she said she loved me, I was a bit nervous about it and said I was really enjoying our relationship and was falling for her but couldn't tell her yet. I'm not sure if this was a reason for her breaking up with me, but I honestly just wanted her to be sober when she told me and I'm cautious with my feelings, but I genuinely saw the relationship continuing and growing into something even better.\n\nThen, a week later, she sits me down and tells me she still has feelings for her ex, who lives in a different state, and wanted to break up.\n\nI don't even think there was any plans for her or him to move, so I'm confused as to what happened. I told her that it was OK to have residual feelings, but she still wanted to break up. I know that she wasn't single for a very long time, but she was for long enough that you would think she would be over her ex, especially one who lives in a different state.\n\nI haven't really spoken to her since, I'm kind of proud and don't want to beg or anything, but I think she was amazing. Should I just let it go or maybe see if she would give us another chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we dated for three months, I thought things were going really well. I had introduced her to my family and everything. One night we had a few drinks and she said she loved me, I was a bit nervous about it and said I was really enjoying our relationship and was falling for her but couldn't tell her yet. I'm not sure if this was a reason for her breaking up with me, but I honestly just wanted her to be sober when she told me and I'm cautious with my feelings, but I genuinely saw the relationship continuing and growing into something even better.\n\nThen, a week later, she sits me down and tells me she still has feelings for her ex, who lives in a different state, and wanted to break up.\n\nI don't even think there was any plans for her or him to move, so I'm confused as to what happened. I told her that it was OK to have residual feelings, but she still wanted to break up. I know that she wasn't single for a very long time, but she was for long enough that you would think she would be over her ex, especially one who lives in a different state.\n\nI haven't really spoken to her since, I'm kind of proud and don't want to beg or anything, but I think she was amazing. Should I just let it go or maybe see if she would give us another chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we dated for three months, I thought things were going really well. I had introduced her to my family and everything. One night we had a few drinks and she said she loved me, I was a bit nervous about it and said I was really enjoying our relationship and was falling for her but couldn't tell her yet. I'm not sure if this was a reason for her breaking up with me, but I honestly just wanted her to be sober when she told me and I'm cautious with my feelings, but I genuinely saw the relationship continuing and growing into something even better.\n\nThen, a week later, she sits me down and tells me she still has feelings for her ex, who lives in a different state, and wanted to break up.\n\nI don't even think there was any plans for her or him to move, so I'm confused as to what happened. I told her that it was OK to have residual feelings, but she still wanted to break up. I know that she wasn't single for a very long time, but she was for long enough that you would think she would be over her ex, especially one who lives in a different state.\n\nI haven't really spoken to her since, I'm kind of proud and don't want to beg or anything, but I think she was amazing. Should I just let it go or maybe see if she would give us another chance?"
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