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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and this girl from my high school have been talking for about 2 months and during the first month and a half, things were going great. We were planning to see each other for coffee during exams, but I didn't have time because I was more focused on studying. She understood that I needed this time, so we went to the library and studied together instead. A few days after we studied, I told her that I liked her and that I enjoyed talking to her. She felt the same way, and said that when she goes to university, she would want to keep talking.\n\n Ever since that day, our conversations have started to gradually decline to the point where she no longer responds to my texts. I've sent her 2 texts asking her if everything was alright and asking her how her day was. I haven't said anything to her that would make her act this way, and I have made the effort of to trying to talk to her about it. At this point, the amount of time I have put into getting to know this girl is insane, and I've gotten to the point where I just want to cut things off with her and move on. She's going to a university outside of my city, while I will be staying here. I need some advice on how I could stop talking to her, without coming off as a jerk. I think of her more as a close friend now, and I want to leave our relationship on a high note if we stop talking. Thanks in advanced and any advice is greatly appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and this girl from my high school have been talking for about 2 months and during the first month and a half, things were going great. We were planning to see each other for coffee during exams, but I didn't have time because I was more focused on studying. She understood that I needed this time, so we went to the library and studied together instead. A few days after we studied, I told her that I liked her and that I enjoyed talking to her. She felt the same way, and said that when she goes to university, she would want to keep talking.\n\n Ever since that day, our conversations have started to gradually decline to the point where she no longer responds to my texts. I've sent her 2 texts asking her if everything was alright and asking her how her day was. I haven't said anything to her that would make her act this way, and I have made the effort of to trying to talk to her about it. At this point, the amount of time I have put into getting to know this girl is insane, and I've gotten to the point where I just want to cut things off with her and move on. She's going to a university outside of my city, while I will be staying here. I need some advice on how I could stop talking to her, without coming off as a jerk. I think of her more as a close friend now, and I want to leave our relationship on a high note if we stop talking. Thanks in advanced and any advice is greatly appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and this girl from my high school have been talking for about 2 months and during the first month and a half, things were going great. We were planning to see each other for coffee during exams, but I didn't have time because I was more focused on studying. She understood that I needed this time, so we went to the library and studied together instead. A few days after we studied, I told her that I liked her and that I enjoyed talking to her. She felt the same way, and said that when she goes to university, she would want to keep talking.\n\n Ever since that day, our conversations have started to gradually decline to the point where she no longer responds to my texts. I've sent her 2 texts asking her if everything was alright and asking her how her day was. I haven't said anything to her that would make her act this way, and I have made the effort of to trying to talk to her about it. At this point, the amount of time I have put into getting to know this girl is insane, and I've gotten to the point where I just want to cut things off with her and move on. She's going to a university outside of my city, while I will be staying here. I need some advice on how I could stop talking to her, without coming off as a jerk. I think of her more as a close friend now, and I want to leave our relationship on a high note if we stop talking. Thanks in advanced and any advice is greatly appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and this girl from my high school have been talking for about 2 months and during the first month and a half, things were going great. We were planning to see each other for coffee during exams, but I didn't have time because I was more focused on studying. She understood that I needed this time, so we went to the library and studied together instead. A few days after we studied, I told her that I liked her and that I enjoyed talking to her. She felt the same way, and said that when she goes to university, she would want to keep talking.\n\n Ever since that day, our conversations have started to gradually decline to the point where she no longer responds to my texts. I've sent her 2 texts asking her if everything was alright and asking her how her day was. I haven't said anything to her that would make her act this way, and I have made the effort of to trying to talk to her about it. At this point, the amount of time I have put into getting to know this girl is insane, and I've gotten to the point where I just want to cut things off with her and move on. She's going to a university outside of my city, while I will be staying here. I need some advice on how I could stop talking to her, without coming off as a jerk. I think of her more as a close friend now, and I want to leave our relationship on a high note if we stop talking. Thanks in advanced and any advice is greatly appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently in a relationship with a man I've known since I was a teenager. While we love each other, we both know that we are going to go our separate ways when he moves in a little over two months.\n\nThis has been painful, but we both feel that at the time we are in our lives it is important to live a little, and long distance isn't for us.\n\nI have been trying to make the transition easier. I asked him to please try to keep our relationship light until he leaves. I asked him to no longer say that he loves me, because it just makes it harder. He keeps saying it, although I don't say it in return.\n\nIn addition, he keeps talking to me every time something new happens with the job or brings up the job in ways that aren't necessary. For example, \"They just got off the phone with my references for a final confirmation!\" or \"Don't make fun of me for \"x\", it is valuable in the field I'm going into\", \"I hope I make new friends before \"x\" holiday!\"\n\nI feel like I'm just being overly irritable because I'm stuck here and he is moving on to bigger and better things, but at the same time, I feel like he is being really insensitive about the situation.\n\nShould I tell him how I feel, or not bother?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently in a relationship with a man I've known since I was a teenager. While we love each other, we both know that we are going to go our separate ways when he moves in a little over two months.\n\nThis has been painful, but we both feel that at the time we are in our lives it is important to live a little, and long distance isn't for us.\n\nI have been trying to make the transition easier. I asked him to please try to keep our relationship light until he leaves. I asked him to no longer say that he loves me, because it just makes it harder. He keeps saying it, although I don't say it in return.\n\nIn addition, he keeps talking to me every time something new happens with the job or brings up the job in ways that aren't necessary. For example, \"They just got off the phone with my references for a final confirmation!\" or \"Don't make fun of me for \"x\", it is valuable in the field I'm going into\", \"I hope I make new friends before \"x\" holiday!\"\n\nI feel like I'm just being overly irritable because I'm stuck here and he is moving on to bigger and better things, but at the same time, I feel like he is being really insensitive about the situation.\n\nShould I tell him how I feel, or not bother?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently in a relationship with a man I've known since I was a teenager. While we love each other, we both know that we are going to go our separate ways when he moves in a little over two months.\n\nThis has been painful, but we both feel that at the time we are in our lives it is important to live a little, and long distance isn't for us.\n\nI have been trying to make the transition easier. I asked him to please try to keep our relationship light until he leaves. I asked him to no longer say that he loves me, because it just makes it harder. He keeps saying it, although I don't say it in return.\n\nIn addition, he keeps talking to me every time something new happens with the job or brings up the job in ways that aren't necessary. For example, \"They just got off the phone with my references for a final confirmation!\" or \"Don't make fun of me for \"x\", it is valuable in the field I'm going into\", \"I hope I make new friends before \"x\" holiday!\"\n\nI feel like I'm just being overly irritable because I'm stuck here and he is moving on to bigger and better things, but at the same time, I feel like he is being really insensitive about the situation.\n\nShould I tell him how I feel, or not bother?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together off & on for three years. We've had our fair share of issues, but I love him and I think he loves me. \n\nWe work opposite shifts, and it really cuts into our time together. Majorly. On the few days we both have off, every other weekend, he chooses to hang out with his friends. He works with his friends on the same schedule, an they are over every single day.\n\n I always feel like I have to force him to do anything with me and I'm getting tired of it. I always complain to him that it would be nice if we could spend time together. But, he just says in over reacting. And that I can hang out with him and his friends. The thing is, we haven't spent a day together just him and I in over a year. I like his friends but I just want a day where we can be together just us. I'm sick of being ignored for his friends, or video games and I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together off & on for three years. We've had our fair share of issues, but I love him and I think he loves me. \n\nWe work opposite shifts, and it really cuts into our time together. Majorly. On the few days we both have off, every other weekend, he chooses to hang out with his friends. He works with his friends on the same schedule, an they are over every single day.\n\n I always feel like I have to force him to do anything with me and I'm getting tired of it. I always complain to him that it would be nice if we could spend time together. But, he just says in over reacting. And that I can hang out with him and his friends. The thing is, we haven't spent a day together just him and I in over a year. I like his friends but I just want a day where we can be together just us. I'm sick of being ignored for his friends, or video games and I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together off & on for three years. We've had our fair share of issues, but I love him and I think he loves me. \n\nWe work opposite shifts, and it really cuts into our time together. Majorly. On the few days we both have off, every other weekend, he chooses to hang out with his friends. He works with his friends on the same schedule, an they are over every single day.\n\n I always feel like I have to force him to do anything with me and I'm getting tired of it. I always complain to him that it would be nice if we could spend time together. But, he just says in over reacting. And that I can hang out with him and his friends. The thing is, we haven't spent a day together just him and I in over a year. I like his friends but I just want a day where we can be together just us. I'm sick of being ignored for his friends, or video games and I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together off & on for three years. We've had our fair share of issues, but I love him and I think he loves me. \n\nWe work opposite shifts, and it really cuts into our time together. Majorly. On the few days we both have off, every other weekend, he chooses to hang out with his friends. He works with his friends on the same schedule, an they are over every single day.\n\n I always feel like I have to force him to do anything with me and I'm getting tired of it. I always complain to him that it would be nice if we could spend time together. But, he just says in over reacting. And that I can hang out with him and his friends. The thing is, we haven't spent a day together just him and I in over a year. I like his friends but I just want a day where we can be together just us. I'm sick of being ignored for his friends, or video games and I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together off & on for three years. We've had our fair share of issues, but I love him and I think he loves me. \n\nWe work opposite shifts, and it really cuts into our time together. Majorly. On the few days we both have off, every other weekend, he chooses to hang out with his friends. He works with his friends on the same schedule, an they are over every single day.\n\n I always feel like I have to force him to do anything with me and I'm getting tired of it. I always complain to him that it would be nice if we could spend time together. But, he just says in over reacting. And that I can hang out with him and his friends. The thing is, we haven't spent a day together just him and I in over a year. I like his friends but I just want a day where we can be together just us. I'm sick of being ignored for his friends, or video games and I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together off & on for three years. We've had our fair share of issues, but I love him and I think he loves me. \n\nWe work opposite shifts, and it really cuts into our time together. Majorly. On the few days we both have off, every other weekend, he chooses to hang out with his friends. He works with his friends on the same schedule, an they are over every single day.\n\n I always feel like I have to force him to do anything with me and I'm getting tired of it. I always complain to him that it would be nice if we could spend time together. But, he just says in over reacting. And that I can hang out with him and his friends. The thing is, we haven't spent a day together just him and I in over a year. I like his friends but I just want a day where we can be together just us. I'm sick of being ignored for his friends, or video games and I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I found my way over to this sub because I had a discussion with my mom and felt like kind of a hypocrite. \n\nMy mom is a life-long smoker who despite having cardiovascular issues refuses to give up cigarettes and tonight we had an argument about it. Her stubbornness is going to lead to an early death or leave her incapacitated in some way, shape, or form.\n\nAnd after I got off the phone with her I felt like a hypocritical prick because even though I am giving her the correct advice and she is absolutely being a dumbass w/r/t her continued smoking.I kinda do the same thing with my weight. Oh man do I eat like shit. Can't do that anymore, I'm almost 33. I'm going to have a heart attack.\n\nSo, I figure if I'm going to lecture my mom about needing to take better care of herself, I am going to set an example and take better care of myself, too.\n\nI'm currently 5'6 and 175 pounds. My goal weight is 135 lbs. Holy crap I can't believe I am going to try to drop 40 lbs. at my age. Is it possible? We'll see. Gonna try, at least.\n\nThe plan is to start C25k and Stronglifts for exercise (which, of course I don't get ANY of) and clean up the diet. My BP is at the very low end of pre-hypertension and my cholesterol is borderline high and my triglycerides are high. As such, I'm going to try to stick to a DASH-style diet as best I can over the next 3 months (hence the 90 days SN thing) and then get a new blood panel done.\n\nThank you for reading my brief novella. I did not intend for this to be so long, but sometimes when you write after taking NyQuil the words just flow."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I found my way over to this sub because I had a discussion with my mom and felt like kind of a hypocrite. \n\nMy mom is a life-long smoker who despite having cardiovascular issues refuses to give up cigarettes and tonight we had an argument about it. Her stubbornness is going to lead to an early death or leave her incapacitated in some way, shape, or form.\n\nAnd after I got off the phone with her I felt like a hypocritical prick because even though I am giving her the correct advice and she is absolutely being a dumbass w/r/t her continued smoking.I kinda do the same thing with my weight. Oh man do I eat like shit. Can't do that anymore, I'm almost 33. I'm going to have a heart attack.\n\nSo, I figure if I'm going to lecture my mom about needing to take better care of herself, I am going to set an example and take better care of myself, too.\n\nI'm currently 5'6 and 175 pounds. My goal weight is 135 lbs. Holy crap I can't believe I am going to try to drop 40 lbs. at my age. Is it possible? We'll see. Gonna try, at least.\n\nThe plan is to start C25k and Stronglifts for exercise (which, of course I don't get ANY of) and clean up the diet. My BP is at the very low end of pre-hypertension and my cholesterol is borderline high and my triglycerides are high. As such, I'm going to try to stick to a DASH-style diet as best I can over the next 3 months (hence the 90 days SN thing) and then get a new blood panel done.\n\nThank you for reading my brief novella. I did not intend for this to be so long, but sometimes when you write after taking NyQuil the words just flow."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I found my way over to this sub because I had a discussion with my mom and felt like kind of a hypocrite. \n\nMy mom is a life-long smoker who despite having cardiovascular issues refuses to give up cigarettes and tonight we had an argument about it. Her stubbornness is going to lead to an early death or leave her incapacitated in some way, shape, or form.\n\nAnd after I got off the phone with her I felt like a hypocritical prick because even though I am giving her the correct advice and she is absolutely being a dumbass w/r/t her continued smoking.I kinda do the same thing with my weight. Oh man do I eat like shit. Can't do that anymore, I'm almost 33. I'm going to have a heart attack.\n\nSo, I figure if I'm going to lecture my mom about needing to take better care of herself, I am going to set an example and take better care of myself, too.\n\nI'm currently 5'6 and 175 pounds. My goal weight is 135 lbs. Holy crap I can't believe I am going to try to drop 40 lbs. at my age. Is it possible? We'll see. Gonna try, at least.\n\nThe plan is to start C25k and Stronglifts for exercise (which, of course I don't get ANY of) and clean up the diet. My BP is at the very low end of pre-hypertension and my cholesterol is borderline high and my triglycerides are high. As such, I'm going to try to stick to a DASH-style diet as best I can over the next 3 months (hence the 90 days SN thing) and then get a new blood panel done.\n\nThank you for reading my brief novella. I did not intend for this to be so long, but sometimes when you write after taking NyQuil the words just flow."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: And I'm just feeling meh. So many mixed emotions.\n\nI've been dating a lovely girl for about 2.5 years. She is quite attractive, much smarter than I am, and oh so sweet. Unfortunately, we're long distance, and we'll remain long distance for at least another year.\n\nLast night, a girl I know basically propositioned me for sex. I came THIS close to telling her yes, come over, please. This girl is local, lives right up the street from me. She's the type of girl I've always been strongly attracted to (the manic pixie dream girl type, I suppose) but have never actually dated. Ultimately, I did NOT invite her up. But afterwards, I tossed and turned in bed all night.\n\nI feel guilty, for even considering cheating; I feel regret at missing out on what probably would've been a really fun night - coupled with a sort of deeper melancholy I feel when I consider all the girls I'll *never* know; I feel relief, at not having cheated; I feel sad about what this surely must say about the state of my relationship; and honestly, I don't know which of these emotions I'm feeling most strongly. (To tell you the truth, things *have* been tough lately. Long distance is hard, to begin with, and my significant other is leaving the country for a few months and we'll have even LESS contact; she has been clinically depressed for a while now, and doesn't seem to be getting better, and it's getting harder to deal with; and realistically, we'll probably be long distance for another 1.5 years, best case scenario).\n\nThanks for reading. I'm not sure that I really have a question - I mainly just wanted to get this off my chest. Your thoughts are certainly welcome, though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: And I'm just feeling meh. So many mixed emotions.\n\nI've been dating a lovely girl for about 2.5 years. She is quite attractive, much smarter than I am, and oh so sweet. Unfortunately, we're long distance, and we'll remain long distance for at least another year.\n\nLast night, a girl I know basically propositioned me for sex. I came THIS close to telling her yes, come over, please. This girl is local, lives right up the street from me. She's the type of girl I've always been strongly attracted to (the manic pixie dream girl type, I suppose) but have never actually dated. Ultimately, I did NOT invite her up. But afterwards, I tossed and turned in bed all night.\n\nI feel guilty, for even considering cheating; I feel regret at missing out on what probably would've been a really fun night - coupled with a sort of deeper melancholy I feel when I consider all the girls I'll *never* know; I feel relief, at not having cheated; I feel sad about what this surely must say about the state of my relationship; and honestly, I don't know which of these emotions I'm feeling most strongly. (To tell you the truth, things *have* been tough lately. Long distance is hard, to begin with, and my significant other is leaving the country for a few months and we'll have even LESS contact; she has been clinically depressed for a while now, and doesn't seem to be getting better, and it's getting harder to deal with; and realistically, we'll probably be long distance for another 1.5 years, best case scenario).\n\nThanks for reading. I'm not sure that I really have a question - I mainly just wanted to get this off my chest. Your thoughts are certainly welcome, though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: And I'm just feeling meh. So many mixed emotions.\n\nI've been dating a lovely girl for about 2.5 years. She is quite attractive, much smarter than I am, and oh so sweet. Unfortunately, we're long distance, and we'll remain long distance for at least another year.\n\nLast night, a girl I know basically propositioned me for sex. I came THIS close to telling her yes, come over, please. This girl is local, lives right up the street from me. She's the type of girl I've always been strongly attracted to (the manic pixie dream girl type, I suppose) but have never actually dated. Ultimately, I did NOT invite her up. But afterwards, I tossed and turned in bed all night.\n\nI feel guilty, for even considering cheating; I feel regret at missing out on what probably would've been a really fun night - coupled with a sort of deeper melancholy I feel when I consider all the girls I'll *never* know; I feel relief, at not having cheated; I feel sad about what this surely must say about the state of my relationship; and honestly, I don't know which of these emotions I'm feeling most strongly. (To tell you the truth, things *have* been tough lately. Long distance is hard, to begin with, and my significant other is leaving the country for a few months and we'll have even LESS contact; she has been clinically depressed for a while now, and doesn't seem to be getting better, and it's getting harder to deal with; and realistically, we'll probably be long distance for another 1.5 years, best case scenario).\n\nThanks for reading. I'm not sure that I really have a question - I mainly just wanted to get this off my chest. Your thoughts are certainly welcome, though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my sister do not have the best relationship. She ignores me, belittles my accomplishments, insults me and we fight constantly. However, there are moments when we act like sisters, and get along. \n\nShe's already said she's cutting contact with my father due to his emotionally abusive ways towards her and my mother. (Started around 2009 after his stroke.) She's also stated that after college, she's moving to Australia with her boyfriend.\n\nAfter a fight went too far with her, she said she said she's not going to talk to me/ contact me after she leaves for college. I really want us to keep in touch because no matter what, she's my sister and I love her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my sister do not have the best relationship. She ignores me, belittles my accomplishments, insults me and we fight constantly. However, there are moments when we act like sisters, and get along. \n\nShe's already said she's cutting contact with my father due to his emotionally abusive ways towards her and my mother. (Started around 2009 after his stroke.) She's also stated that after college, she's moving to Australia with her boyfriend.\n\nAfter a fight went too far with her, she said she said she's not going to talk to me/ contact me after she leaves for college. I really want us to keep in touch because no matter what, she's my sister and I love her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my sister do not have the best relationship. She ignores me, belittles my accomplishments, insults me and we fight constantly. However, there are moments when we act like sisters, and get along. \n\nShe's already said she's cutting contact with my father due to his emotionally abusive ways towards her and my mother. (Started around 2009 after his stroke.) She's also stated that after college, she's moving to Australia with her boyfriend.\n\nAfter a fight went too far with her, she said she said she's not going to talk to me/ contact me after she leaves for college. I really want us to keep in touch because no matter what, she's my sister and I love her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So im starting to get to know this girl[f22] better and I[m19] want to make sure I dont get boring, it has happened to me before. We just spent 2 weeks together at a spring class thing that was in the mountains. There was about 10 of us that built a pretty tight nit group but me and her hit it off real well.\n\nSince we were with each other basically 24/7 for two weeks, we didnt have to text to talk(could just talk in person) or have to plan to hangout, it just happened but now that were back home I want the \"thing\" to go somewhere but im afraid I will get boring.\n\nWhat do you all think i should do to not get boring and to get this to go somewhere. Oh and one more thing, she does have a slight concern that where to far apart in age but she doesn't consider is a huge deal and she seems to be interested in taking it further as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So im starting to get to know this girl[f22] better and I[m19] want to make sure I dont get boring, it has happened to me before. We just spent 2 weeks together at a spring class thing that was in the mountains. There was about 10 of us that built a pretty tight nit group but me and her hit it off real well.\n\nSince we were with each other basically 24/7 for two weeks, we didnt have to text to talk(could just talk in person) or have to plan to hangout, it just happened but now that were back home I want the \"thing\" to go somewhere but im afraid I will get boring.\n\nWhat do you all think i should do to not get boring and to get this to go somewhere. Oh and one more thing, she does have a slight concern that where to far apart in age but she doesn't consider is a huge deal and she seems to be interested in taking it further as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So im starting to get to know this girl[f22] better and I[m19] want to make sure I dont get boring, it has happened to me before. We just spent 2 weeks together at a spring class thing that was in the mountains. There was about 10 of us that built a pretty tight nit group but me and her hit it off real well.\n\nSince we were with each other basically 24/7 for two weeks, we didnt have to text to talk(could just talk in person) or have to plan to hangout, it just happened but now that were back home I want the \"thing\" to go somewhere but im afraid I will get boring.\n\nWhat do you all think i should do to not get boring and to get this to go somewhere. Oh and one more thing, she does have a slight concern that where to far apart in age but she doesn't consider is a huge deal and she seems to be interested in taking it further as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The following takes place in the state of Ohio, I'll try to keep it brief but it's a little complicated, thanks in advance for any advice:\n\nMy wife and I found a rental house that was perfect for us to move into in mid September. Our apartment's lease does not end until Nov. 30, however. It was mid-August at the time, we let our landlord at large apartment complex know we planned to move out in roughly a month, and they told us, to my surprise, that our only options were to pay a \"lease abandonment fee\" of 2 months rent from the end of a 30 days notice OR find a replacement tenant to take over our lease, for who they would refuse to do the usual cleaning/maintenance done during typical turnover.\n\nThe first option is virtually no different than paying the remainder of our rent, however, and does not seem to be a good faith attempt at mitigating damages, namely because our apartment could easily be re-rented in a far shorter time. In fact, after I told the landlord's office I would attempt to find a replacement tenant, they contacted me to tell me someone was interested in my apartment since it is the only one of our model that will be available in the near future. The leasing agent said she would try to get approval from her manager to have the new tenant start a new 12 month lease with the apartment cleaned. However, she was shot down and told he could only \"take over\" my current lease, then renew if he wanted. \n\nWell, since we have a cat (he is allergic) he did not want to move into an apartment that was possibly uncleaned (I offered to pay for cleaning - the landlord ignored this and the new guy obviously wouldn't want to depend on a former tenant's word that has no longer any stake). I don't see how this sabotage of a potential new tenant is any different than refusing to re-rent and mitigate damages. Can anyone advise me as to whether they are neglecting their duty to re-rent by doing this and refusing to allow me to simply pay rent until it is re-rented?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The following takes place in the state of Ohio, I'll try to keep it brief but it's a little complicated, thanks in advance for any advice:\n\nMy wife and I found a rental house that was perfect for us to move into in mid September. Our apartment's lease does not end until Nov. 30, however. It was mid-August at the time, we let our landlord at large apartment complex know we planned to move out in roughly a month, and they told us, to my surprise, that our only options were to pay a \"lease abandonment fee\" of 2 months rent from the end of a 30 days notice OR find a replacement tenant to take over our lease, for who they would refuse to do the usual cleaning/maintenance done during typical turnover.\n\nThe first option is virtually no different than paying the remainder of our rent, however, and does not seem to be a good faith attempt at mitigating damages, namely because our apartment could easily be re-rented in a far shorter time. In fact, after I told the landlord's office I would attempt to find a replacement tenant, they contacted me to tell me someone was interested in my apartment since it is the only one of our model that will be available in the near future. The leasing agent said she would try to get approval from her manager to have the new tenant start a new 12 month lease with the apartment cleaned. However, she was shot down and told he could only \"take over\" my current lease, then renew if he wanted. \n\nWell, since we have a cat (he is allergic) he did not want to move into an apartment that was possibly uncleaned (I offered to pay for cleaning - the landlord ignored this and the new guy obviously wouldn't want to depend on a former tenant's word that has no longer any stake). I don't see how this sabotage of a potential new tenant is any different than refusing to re-rent and mitigate damages. Can anyone advise me as to whether they are neglecting their duty to re-rent by doing this and refusing to allow me to simply pay rent until it is re-rented?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The following takes place in the state of Ohio, I'll try to keep it brief but it's a little complicated, thanks in advance for any advice:\n\nMy wife and I found a rental house that was perfect for us to move into in mid September. Our apartment's lease does not end until Nov. 30, however. It was mid-August at the time, we let our landlord at large apartment complex know we planned to move out in roughly a month, and they told us, to my surprise, that our only options were to pay a \"lease abandonment fee\" of 2 months rent from the end of a 30 days notice OR find a replacement tenant to take over our lease, for who they would refuse to do the usual cleaning/maintenance done during typical turnover.\n\nThe first option is virtually no different than paying the remainder of our rent, however, and does not seem to be a good faith attempt at mitigating damages, namely because our apartment could easily be re-rented in a far shorter time. In fact, after I told the landlord's office I would attempt to find a replacement tenant, they contacted me to tell me someone was interested in my apartment since it is the only one of our model that will be available in the near future. The leasing agent said she would try to get approval from her manager to have the new tenant start a new 12 month lease with the apartment cleaned. However, she was shot down and told he could only \"take over\" my current lease, then renew if he wanted. \n\nWell, since we have a cat (he is allergic) he did not want to move into an apartment that was possibly uncleaned (I offered to pay for cleaning - the landlord ignored this and the new guy obviously wouldn't want to depend on a former tenant's word that has no longer any stake). I don't see how this sabotage of a potential new tenant is any different than refusing to re-rent and mitigate damages. Can anyone advise me as to whether they are neglecting their duty to re-rent by doing this and refusing to allow me to simply pay rent until it is re-rented?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The following takes place in the state of Ohio, I'll try to keep it brief but it's a little complicated, thanks in advance for any advice:\n\nMy wife and I found a rental house that was perfect for us to move into in mid September. Our apartment's lease does not end until Nov. 30, however. It was mid-August at the time, we let our landlord at large apartment complex know we planned to move out in roughly a month, and they told us, to my surprise, that our only options were to pay a \"lease abandonment fee\" of 2 months rent from the end of a 30 days notice OR find a replacement tenant to take over our lease, for who they would refuse to do the usual cleaning/maintenance done during typical turnover.\n\nThe first option is virtually no different than paying the remainder of our rent, however, and does not seem to be a good faith attempt at mitigating damages, namely because our apartment could easily be re-rented in a far shorter time. In fact, after I told the landlord's office I would attempt to find a replacement tenant, they contacted me to tell me someone was interested in my apartment since it is the only one of our model that will be available in the near future. The leasing agent said she would try to get approval from her manager to have the new tenant start a new 12 month lease with the apartment cleaned. However, she was shot down and told he could only \"take over\" my current lease, then renew if he wanted. \n\nWell, since we have a cat (he is allergic) he did not want to move into an apartment that was possibly uncleaned (I offered to pay for cleaning - the landlord ignored this and the new guy obviously wouldn't want to depend on a former tenant's word that has no longer any stake). I don't see how this sabotage of a potential new tenant is any different than refusing to re-rent and mitigate damages. Can anyone advise me as to whether they are neglecting their duty to re-rent by doing this and refusing to allow me to simply pay rent until it is re-rented?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The following takes place in the state of Ohio, I'll try to keep it brief but it's a little complicated, thanks in advance for any advice:\n\nMy wife and I found a rental house that was perfect for us to move into in mid September. Our apartment's lease does not end until Nov. 30, however. It was mid-August at the time, we let our landlord at large apartment complex know we planned to move out in roughly a month, and they told us, to my surprise, that our only options were to pay a \"lease abandonment fee\" of 2 months rent from the end of a 30 days notice OR find a replacement tenant to take over our lease, for who they would refuse to do the usual cleaning/maintenance done during typical turnover.\n\nThe first option is virtually no different than paying the remainder of our rent, however, and does not seem to be a good faith attempt at mitigating damages, namely because our apartment could easily be re-rented in a far shorter time. In fact, after I told the landlord's office I would attempt to find a replacement tenant, they contacted me to tell me someone was interested in my apartment since it is the only one of our model that will be available in the near future. The leasing agent said she would try to get approval from her manager to have the new tenant start a new 12 month lease with the apartment cleaned. However, she was shot down and told he could only \"take over\" my current lease, then renew if he wanted. \n\nWell, since we have a cat (he is allergic) he did not want to move into an apartment that was possibly uncleaned (I offered to pay for cleaning - the landlord ignored this and the new guy obviously wouldn't want to depend on a former tenant's word that has no longer any stake). I don't see how this sabotage of a potential new tenant is any different than refusing to re-rent and mitigate damages. Can anyone advise me as to whether they are neglecting their duty to re-rent by doing this and refusing to allow me to simply pay rent until it is re-rented?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for over a year.\n\nHe dated this girl the summer between his junior and senior year in high school. They dated for 3 months I think? Anyway, she was his first kiss, first prom date, etc. They didn't kiss and most of their relationship they were apart (he lives in Oregon during the summer). Whenever he speaks about her, he says that he really liked her. He told me specifically that he never LOVED her though. Well, last night, he was drunk and said that she was his \"first love.\" The next morning I asked him about this and he said that he was drunk and being emotional and meant puppy love, and that he never actually loved her, and that I'm his first true love. \n\nWell, I'm a little worried that he still likes her or has feelings for her of some sort. I'll admit, I've snooped a few times on his computer (which is NOT okay.haven't done it in a long time). but he did go on her Facebook every once in awhile. \n\nI'm just really confused about why he is still wondering about his HIGH SCHOOL girlfriend.of FIVE years ago. strange?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for over a year.\n\nHe dated this girl the summer between his junior and senior year in high school. They dated for 3 months I think? Anyway, she was his first kiss, first prom date, etc. They didn't kiss and most of their relationship they were apart (he lives in Oregon during the summer). Whenever he speaks about her, he says that he really liked her. He told me specifically that he never LOVED her though. Well, last night, he was drunk and said that she was his \"first love.\" The next morning I asked him about this and he said that he was drunk and being emotional and meant puppy love, and that he never actually loved her, and that I'm his first true love. \n\nWell, I'm a little worried that he still likes her or has feelings for her of some sort. I'll admit, I've snooped a few times on his computer (which is NOT okay.haven't done it in a long time). but he did go on her Facebook every once in awhile. \n\nI'm just really confused about why he is still wondering about his HIGH SCHOOL girlfriend.of FIVE years ago. strange?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for over a year.\n\nHe dated this girl the summer between his junior and senior year in high school. They dated for 3 months I think? Anyway, she was his first kiss, first prom date, etc. They didn't kiss and most of their relationship they were apart (he lives in Oregon during the summer). Whenever he speaks about her, he says that he really liked her. He told me specifically that he never LOVED her though. Well, last night, he was drunk and said that she was his \"first love.\" The next morning I asked him about this and he said that he was drunk and being emotional and meant puppy love, and that he never actually loved her, and that I'm his first true love. \n\nWell, I'm a little worried that he still likes her or has feelings for her of some sort. I'll admit, I've snooped a few times on his computer (which is NOT okay.haven't done it in a long time). but he did go on her Facebook every once in awhile. \n\nI'm just really confused about why he is still wondering about his HIGH SCHOOL girlfriend.of FIVE years ago. strange?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Am I right to be upset about her being at the house but not contributing in anyway?\n\nIt started out very slow, she would spend a night here and there. And it wasnt a problem. Then slowly she starts spending a lot more time here. At one point early on, she ended up staying a week without returning to her home. I asked my roommate about it and he was shocked and claimed he didnt realize she had been at the house that long. I shrugged it off and asked that it didn't happen again. Everything was fine for a while, and then she started letting herself in without knocking. I personally feel this is disrespectful to the rest of the housemates, am I wrong about this? Is this the norm these days?\n\nI asked them to have her please knock when arriving at the house, and she does, but then proceeds to enter the house anyway. I let this go as they are doing as I asked. \n\nThe next issue I have is her here without him, and even more so, her here without ANYONE else. I can understand her arriving before he does if they have plans, or shortly after he leaves. But hours before or after seems to be a bit excessive. And being here when no one else is I feel is defiantly out of line. When these things started happening. I asked my roommate if she is living here. And he said that she does not. I repeated my concerns, but this time they seemed to have fallen flat. Lately she has been here everyday and night it seems. It is rare that her car is not in the driveway. \n\nAm I wrong for feeling that they are past the line with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Am I right to be upset about her being at the house but not contributing in anyway?\n\nIt started out very slow, she would spend a night here and there. And it wasnt a problem. Then slowly she starts spending a lot more time here. At one point early on, she ended up staying a week without returning to her home. I asked my roommate about it and he was shocked and claimed he didnt realize she had been at the house that long. I shrugged it off and asked that it didn't happen again. Everything was fine for a while, and then she started letting herself in without knocking. I personally feel this is disrespectful to the rest of the housemates, am I wrong about this? Is this the norm these days?\n\nI asked them to have her please knock when arriving at the house, and she does, but then proceeds to enter the house anyway. I let this go as they are doing as I asked. \n\nThe next issue I have is her here without him, and even more so, her here without ANYONE else. I can understand her arriving before he does if they have plans, or shortly after he leaves. But hours before or after seems to be a bit excessive. And being here when no one else is I feel is defiantly out of line. When these things started happening. I asked my roommate if she is living here. And he said that she does not. I repeated my concerns, but this time they seemed to have fallen flat. Lately she has been here everyday and night it seems. It is rare that her car is not in the driveway. \n\nAm I wrong for feeling that they are past the line with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Am I right to be upset about her being at the house but not contributing in anyway?\n\nIt started out very slow, she would spend a night here and there. And it wasnt a problem. Then slowly she starts spending a lot more time here. At one point early on, she ended up staying a week without returning to her home. I asked my roommate about it and he was shocked and claimed he didnt realize she had been at the house that long. I shrugged it off and asked that it didn't happen again. Everything was fine for a while, and then she started letting herself in without knocking. I personally feel this is disrespectful to the rest of the housemates, am I wrong about this? Is this the norm these days?\n\nI asked them to have her please knock when arriving at the house, and she does, but then proceeds to enter the house anyway. I let this go as they are doing as I asked. \n\nThe next issue I have is her here without him, and even more so, her here without ANYONE else. I can understand her arriving before he does if they have plans, or shortly after he leaves. But hours before or after seems to be a bit excessive. And being here when no one else is I feel is defiantly out of line. When these things started happening. I asked my roommate if she is living here. And he said that she does not. I repeated my concerns, but this time they seemed to have fallen flat. Lately she has been here everyday and night it seems. It is rare that her car is not in the driveway. \n\nAm I wrong for feeling that they are past the line with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my GF and I have been dating for about 1.5 years and about 9 months into our relationship I told her I crossdress. This is something that I had done before I met her, and I felt like it was time to be more open with her and let her know this side of me if we were going to move forward.\n When I told her I wouldn't she freaked out, but she got very confused and upset. We have had multiple long talks about this and she is worried about me changing. She has told me how she wants the me she fell in love with, not someone that she doesn't know. She is most scared of me saying I want to become a women even though I say I don't.\nWe have made some progress, she is okay with me wearing panties around her and even finds it mildly attractive. However, she is convinced if I am given a free range I will change into something that is not \"her guy\". \nI believe this is an issue of her not being able to trust me, even though she does in everything else, which is frustrating to me. She also would like me to experiment with everything possibly feminine so I can find out what I want and then she will decide if she's okay with that. This is were I get very frustrated as its not possible to systematically eliminate all things that she might not be okay with, and hurts because she doesn't trust me.\n\nAm I being unreasonable for wanting her to trust me on this? I know I can't give her a definite guarantee, and I love her so much I would give it all for her (she doesn't want me to do that because she wants me to me)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my GF and I have been dating for about 1.5 years and about 9 months into our relationship I told her I crossdress. This is something that I had done before I met her, and I felt like it was time to be more open with her and let her know this side of me if we were going to move forward.\n When I told her I wouldn't she freaked out, but she got very confused and upset. We have had multiple long talks about this and she is worried about me changing. She has told me how she wants the me she fell in love with, not someone that she doesn't know. She is most scared of me saying I want to become a women even though I say I don't.\nWe have made some progress, she is okay with me wearing panties around her and even finds it mildly attractive. However, she is convinced if I am given a free range I will change into something that is not \"her guy\". \nI believe this is an issue of her not being able to trust me, even though she does in everything else, which is frustrating to me. She also would like me to experiment with everything possibly feminine so I can find out what I want and then she will decide if she's okay with that. This is were I get very frustrated as its not possible to systematically eliminate all things that she might not be okay with, and hurts because she doesn't trust me.\n\nAm I being unreasonable for wanting her to trust me on this? I know I can't give her a definite guarantee, and I love her so much I would give it all for her (she doesn't want me to do that because she wants me to me)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my GF and I have been dating for about 1.5 years and about 9 months into our relationship I told her I crossdress. This is something that I had done before I met her, and I felt like it was time to be more open with her and let her know this side of me if we were going to move forward.\n When I told her I wouldn't she freaked out, but she got very confused and upset. We have had multiple long talks about this and she is worried about me changing. She has told me how she wants the me she fell in love with, not someone that she doesn't know. She is most scared of me saying I want to become a women even though I say I don't.\nWe have made some progress, she is okay with me wearing panties around her and even finds it mildly attractive. However, she is convinced if I am given a free range I will change into something that is not \"her guy\". \nI believe this is an issue of her not being able to trust me, even though she does in everything else, which is frustrating to me. She also would like me to experiment with everything possibly feminine so I can find out what I want and then she will decide if she's okay with that. This is were I get very frustrated as its not possible to systematically eliminate all things that she might not be okay with, and hurts because she doesn't trust me.\n\nAm I being unreasonable for wanting her to trust me on this? I know I can't give her a definite guarantee, and I love her so much I would give it all for her (she doesn't want me to do that because she wants me to me)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my GF and I have been dating for about 1.5 years and about 9 months into our relationship I told her I crossdress. This is something that I had done before I met her, and I felt like it was time to be more open with her and let her know this side of me if we were going to move forward.\n When I told her I wouldn't she freaked out, but she got very confused and upset. We have had multiple long talks about this and she is worried about me changing. She has told me how she wants the me she fell in love with, not someone that she doesn't know. She is most scared of me saying I want to become a women even though I say I don't.\nWe have made some progress, she is okay with me wearing panties around her and even finds it mildly attractive. However, she is convinced if I am given a free range I will change into something that is not \"her guy\". \nI believe this is an issue of her not being able to trust me, even though she does in everything else, which is frustrating to me. She also would like me to experiment with everything possibly feminine so I can find out what I want and then she will decide if she's okay with that. This is were I get very frustrated as its not possible to systematically eliminate all things that she might not be okay with, and hurts because she doesn't trust me.\n\nAm I being unreasonable for wanting her to trust me on this? I know I can't give her a definite guarantee, and I love her so much I would give it all for her (she doesn't want me to do that because she wants me to me)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my GF and I have been dating for about 1.5 years and about 9 months into our relationship I told her I crossdress. This is something that I had done before I met her, and I felt like it was time to be more open with her and let her know this side of me if we were going to move forward.\n When I told her I wouldn't she freaked out, but she got very confused and upset. We have had multiple long talks about this and she is worried about me changing. She has told me how she wants the me she fell in love with, not someone that she doesn't know. She is most scared of me saying I want to become a women even though I say I don't.\nWe have made some progress, she is okay with me wearing panties around her and even finds it mildly attractive. However, she is convinced if I am given a free range I will change into something that is not \"her guy\". \nI believe this is an issue of her not being able to trust me, even though she does in everything else, which is frustrating to me. She also would like me to experiment with everything possibly feminine so I can find out what I want and then she will decide if she's okay with that. This is were I get very frustrated as its not possible to systematically eliminate all things that she might not be okay with, and hurts because she doesn't trust me.\n\nAm I being unreasonable for wanting her to trust me on this? I know I can't give her a definite guarantee, and I love her so much I would give it all for her (she doesn't want me to do that because she wants me to me)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my GF and I have been dating for about 1.5 years and about 9 months into our relationship I told her I crossdress. This is something that I had done before I met her, and I felt like it was time to be more open with her and let her know this side of me if we were going to move forward.\n When I told her I wouldn't she freaked out, but she got very confused and upset. We have had multiple long talks about this and she is worried about me changing. She has told me how she wants the me she fell in love with, not someone that she doesn't know. She is most scared of me saying I want to become a women even though I say I don't.\nWe have made some progress, she is okay with me wearing panties around her and even finds it mildly attractive. However, she is convinced if I am given a free range I will change into something that is not \"her guy\". \nI believe this is an issue of her not being able to trust me, even though she does in everything else, which is frustrating to me. She also would like me to experiment with everything possibly feminine so I can find out what I want and then she will decide if she's okay with that. This is were I get very frustrated as its not possible to systematically eliminate all things that she might not be okay with, and hurts because she doesn't trust me.\n\nAm I being unreasonable for wanting her to trust me on this? I know I can't give her a definite guarantee, and I love her so much I would give it all for her (she doesn't want me to do that because she wants me to me)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Background*: I have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months. Things were going pretty well. We got along well, sex was pretty good, we met each other's families, and we get along with each others friends pretty well.\n\n*Issue*: We have openly talked about how we are not super attracted to each other. Neither of us has the impulse to just tear the clothes off the other. Despite that, our sex is usually pretty good. Lately, I have noticed myself \"just going through the motions\" when being intimate with her. I should mention that my girlfriend is overweight and I am not. She is not super obese or anything, but she is overweight by the BMI definition. I am not overweight. She tore her ACL playing softball a year ago. I thought maybe she would lose the extra pounds after her knee healed, but this has not happened. She has mentioned that she wants to shed the extra pounds. However, her actions don't follow through on this. She skips workouts, doesn't seem to have a lot of portion control (she doesnt eat giant portions, but I've never heard her say 'no thanks. I'm on a diet'), and I she recently laughed about eating a can of pringles. So I think this is contributing to my lack of attraction to her. Also, I think I have some issues about thinking of other women. I haven't slept with a lot of girls in my life (like 3) and I constantly wonder if I could maybe have a few flings and then settle down. I know that sounds bad but its true.\n\n*Current Status*: I felt strongly about talking to her today about how I have been feeling. I asked her how she felt things were going. She didn't say a whole lot. I told her I haven't felt too romantic towards her lately and that I know I like her, but maybe not in a romantic sense. I didn't come out and say the weight thing is an issue. That's hard for me to do because I know she's had a previous eating disorder. Anyways, we're on a break now. I feel lonely, but I don't think that's a great reason to go back to her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Background*: I have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months. Things were going pretty well. We got along well, sex was pretty good, we met each other's families, and we get along with each others friends pretty well.\n\n*Issue*: We have openly talked about how we are not super attracted to each other. Neither of us has the impulse to just tear the clothes off the other. Despite that, our sex is usually pretty good. Lately, I have noticed myself \"just going through the motions\" when being intimate with her. I should mention that my girlfriend is overweight and I am not. She is not super obese or anything, but she is overweight by the BMI definition. I am not overweight. She tore her ACL playing softball a year ago. I thought maybe she would lose the extra pounds after her knee healed, but this has not happened. She has mentioned that she wants to shed the extra pounds. However, her actions don't follow through on this. She skips workouts, doesn't seem to have a lot of portion control (she doesnt eat giant portions, but I've never heard her say 'no thanks. I'm on a diet'), and I she recently laughed about eating a can of pringles. So I think this is contributing to my lack of attraction to her. Also, I think I have some issues about thinking of other women. I haven't slept with a lot of girls in my life (like 3) and I constantly wonder if I could maybe have a few flings and then settle down. I know that sounds bad but its true.\n\n*Current Status*: I felt strongly about talking to her today about how I have been feeling. I asked her how she felt things were going. She didn't say a whole lot. I told her I haven't felt too romantic towards her lately and that I know I like her, but maybe not in a romantic sense. I didn't come out and say the weight thing is an issue. That's hard for me to do because I know she's had a previous eating disorder. Anyways, we're on a break now. I feel lonely, but I don't think that's a great reason to go back to her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Background*: I have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months. Things were going pretty well. We got along well, sex was pretty good, we met each other's families, and we get along with each others friends pretty well.\n\n*Issue*: We have openly talked about how we are not super attracted to each other. Neither of us has the impulse to just tear the clothes off the other. Despite that, our sex is usually pretty good. Lately, I have noticed myself \"just going through the motions\" when being intimate with her. I should mention that my girlfriend is overweight and I am not. She is not super obese or anything, but she is overweight by the BMI definition. I am not overweight. She tore her ACL playing softball a year ago. I thought maybe she would lose the extra pounds after her knee healed, but this has not happened. She has mentioned that she wants to shed the extra pounds. However, her actions don't follow through on this. She skips workouts, doesn't seem to have a lot of portion control (she doesnt eat giant portions, but I've never heard her say 'no thanks. I'm on a diet'), and I she recently laughed about eating a can of pringles. So I think this is contributing to my lack of attraction to her. Also, I think I have some issues about thinking of other women. I haven't slept with a lot of girls in my life (like 3) and I constantly wonder if I could maybe have a few flings and then settle down. I know that sounds bad but its true.\n\n*Current Status*: I felt strongly about talking to her today about how I have been feeling. I asked her how she felt things were going. She didn't say a whole lot. I told her I haven't felt too romantic towards her lately and that I know I like her, but maybe not in a romantic sense. I didn't come out and say the weight thing is an issue. That's hard for me to do because I know she's had a previous eating disorder. Anyways, we're on a break now. I feel lonely, but I don't think that's a great reason to go back to her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Background*: I have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months. Things were going pretty well. We got along well, sex was pretty good, we met each other's families, and we get along with each others friends pretty well.\n\n*Issue*: We have openly talked about how we are not super attracted to each other. Neither of us has the impulse to just tear the clothes off the other. Despite that, our sex is usually pretty good. Lately, I have noticed myself \"just going through the motions\" when being intimate with her. I should mention that my girlfriend is overweight and I am not. She is not super obese or anything, but she is overweight by the BMI definition. I am not overweight. She tore her ACL playing softball a year ago. I thought maybe she would lose the extra pounds after her knee healed, but this has not happened. She has mentioned that she wants to shed the extra pounds. However, her actions don't follow through on this. She skips workouts, doesn't seem to have a lot of portion control (she doesnt eat giant portions, but I've never heard her say 'no thanks. I'm on a diet'), and I she recently laughed about eating a can of pringles. So I think this is contributing to my lack of attraction to her. Also, I think I have some issues about thinking of other women. I haven't slept with a lot of girls in my life (like 3) and I constantly wonder if I could maybe have a few flings and then settle down. I know that sounds bad but its true.\n\n*Current Status*: I felt strongly about talking to her today about how I have been feeling. I asked her how she felt things were going. She didn't say a whole lot. I told her I haven't felt too romantic towards her lately and that I know I like her, but maybe not in a romantic sense. I didn't come out and say the weight thing is an issue. That's hard for me to do because I know she's had a previous eating disorder. Anyways, we're on a break now. I feel lonely, but I don't think that's a great reason to go back to her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Background*: I have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months. Things were going pretty well. We got along well, sex was pretty good, we met each other's families, and we get along with each others friends pretty well.\n\n*Issue*: We have openly talked about how we are not super attracted to each other. Neither of us has the impulse to just tear the clothes off the other. Despite that, our sex is usually pretty good. Lately, I have noticed myself \"just going through the motions\" when being intimate with her. I should mention that my girlfriend is overweight and I am not. She is not super obese or anything, but she is overweight by the BMI definition. I am not overweight. She tore her ACL playing softball a year ago. I thought maybe she would lose the extra pounds after her knee healed, but this has not happened. She has mentioned that she wants to shed the extra pounds. However, her actions don't follow through on this. She skips workouts, doesn't seem to have a lot of portion control (she doesnt eat giant portions, but I've never heard her say 'no thanks. I'm on a diet'), and I she recently laughed about eating a can of pringles. So I think this is contributing to my lack of attraction to her. Also, I think I have some issues about thinking of other women. I haven't slept with a lot of girls in my life (like 3) and I constantly wonder if I could maybe have a few flings and then settle down. I know that sounds bad but its true.\n\n*Current Status*: I felt strongly about talking to her today about how I have been feeling. I asked her how she felt things were going. She didn't say a whole lot. I told her I haven't felt too romantic towards her lately and that I know I like her, but maybe not in a romantic sense. I didn't come out and say the weight thing is an issue. That's hard for me to do because I know she's had a previous eating disorder. Anyways, we're on a break now. I feel lonely, but I don't think that's a great reason to go back to her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Background*: I have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months. Things were going pretty well. We got along well, sex was pretty good, we met each other's families, and we get along with each others friends pretty well.\n\n*Issue*: We have openly talked about how we are not super attracted to each other. Neither of us has the impulse to just tear the clothes off the other. Despite that, our sex is usually pretty good. Lately, I have noticed myself \"just going through the motions\" when being intimate with her. I should mention that my girlfriend is overweight and I am not. She is not super obese or anything, but she is overweight by the BMI definition. I am not overweight. She tore her ACL playing softball a year ago. I thought maybe she would lose the extra pounds after her knee healed, but this has not happened. She has mentioned that she wants to shed the extra pounds. However, her actions don't follow through on this. She skips workouts, doesn't seem to have a lot of portion control (she doesnt eat giant portions, but I've never heard her say 'no thanks. I'm on a diet'), and I she recently laughed about eating a can of pringles. So I think this is contributing to my lack of attraction to her. Also, I think I have some issues about thinking of other women. I haven't slept with a lot of girls in my life (like 3) and I constantly wonder if I could maybe have a few flings and then settle down. I know that sounds bad but its true.\n\n*Current Status*: I felt strongly about talking to her today about how I have been feeling. I asked her how she felt things were going. She didn't say a whole lot. I told her I haven't felt too romantic towards her lately and that I know I like her, but maybe not in a romantic sense. I didn't come out and say the weight thing is an issue. That's hard for me to do because I know she's had a previous eating disorder. Anyways, we're on a break now. I feel lonely, but I don't think that's a great reason to go back to her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the weirdest thing that has happened in my 19 years. This girl had stole my number from a mutual friend and started texting me about 6 months ago. We hit it off instantly and still do, the conversation never stops and we enjoy each others bodies alot.\n\nI can't remember how the conversation came about but we have both escorted before and we are both aware of this. I have recently stopped and I am well aware that she still does it, it doesn't stop me liking her all the same.\n\nBut today on twitter I was scrolling through and I saw a picture of a cat I was sure I had seen before. So I looked at the picture and I looked at a picture Sarah had sent me, It was her cat. So this confused the fucking life out of me, Sarah said she didn't use social media at all. But I did some digging and some searching around to find out that she is a popular camgirl (I'm fine with this entirely). I found her social medias and so on and they are all under a different name. I'm aware of this, I have an alternative name for escorting myself (still fine with this).\n\nWhat i'm confused at is that how far does this go? I don't want to scare her away because she is amazing but then again I dont want to be lied to because I'm paranoid as it is."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the weirdest thing that has happened in my 19 years. This girl had stole my number from a mutual friend and started texting me about 6 months ago. We hit it off instantly and still do, the conversation never stops and we enjoy each others bodies alot.\n\nI can't remember how the conversation came about but we have both escorted before and we are both aware of this. I have recently stopped and I am well aware that she still does it, it doesn't stop me liking her all the same.\n\nBut today on twitter I was scrolling through and I saw a picture of a cat I was sure I had seen before. So I looked at the picture and I looked at a picture Sarah had sent me, It was her cat. So this confused the fucking life out of me, Sarah said she didn't use social media at all. But I did some digging and some searching around to find out that she is a popular camgirl (I'm fine with this entirely). I found her social medias and so on and they are all under a different name. I'm aware of this, I have an alternative name for escorting myself (still fine with this).\n\nWhat i'm confused at is that how far does this go? I don't want to scare her away because she is amazing but then again I dont want to be lied to because I'm paranoid as it is."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the weirdest thing that has happened in my 19 years. This girl had stole my number from a mutual friend and started texting me about 6 months ago. We hit it off instantly and still do, the conversation never stops and we enjoy each others bodies alot.\n\nI can't remember how the conversation came about but we have both escorted before and we are both aware of this. I have recently stopped and I am well aware that she still does it, it doesn't stop me liking her all the same.\n\nBut today on twitter I was scrolling through and I saw a picture of a cat I was sure I had seen before. So I looked at the picture and I looked at a picture Sarah had sent me, It was her cat. So this confused the fucking life out of me, Sarah said she didn't use social media at all. But I did some digging and some searching around to find out that she is a popular camgirl (I'm fine with this entirely). I found her social medias and so on and they are all under a different name. I'm aware of this, I have an alternative name for escorting myself (still fine with this).\n\nWhat i'm confused at is that how far does this go? I don't want to scare her away because she is amazing but then again I dont want to be lied to because I'm paranoid as it is."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a girl on Tinder for a casual hookup. There ended up being good chemistry between the two of us and we transitioned into dating. We've had five dates so far and everything has been quite well except for her abusive ex of 8 months getting involved. She had broken up with him about 4 months ago and I was her first venture back into the dating scene. As soon as word got to him about the two of us, he began calling her phone and leaving very threatening voice-mails and demanding answers to some very private questions.\n\nShortly after that ordeal he got a hold of my number. The two times we've spoken he told me in a very threatening manner that he happens to have friends in various biker gangs and doesn't appreciate me seeing her. He then gave me an ultimatum to either stop seeing her OR to not set foot into \"his city\". I've only talked to him for 30 minutes or so; but I've come to the conclusion that he isn't the most mentally stable individual.\n\nI'm not a fan of getting involved in situations like this; I tend to avoid conflicts because my time and effort is better spent doing more productive things. And because of my lack of experience dealing with threats and unstable individuals, I'm reaching out to you /r/relationships. She has told me that he has never followed through with any of his threats over the past few months of being broken up, but I feel as if him seeing her with a significant other might be enough to give him initiative to actually do something.\n\nSo, what would my best course of action be? I really do like this girl, and have a date in the city planned with her on Sunday. But on the other side of things I'd rather not put myself in a situation where I may be at risk."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a girl on Tinder for a casual hookup. There ended up being good chemistry between the two of us and we transitioned into dating. We've had five dates so far and everything has been quite well except for her abusive ex of 8 months getting involved. She had broken up with him about 4 months ago and I was her first venture back into the dating scene. As soon as word got to him about the two of us, he began calling her phone and leaving very threatening voice-mails and demanding answers to some very private questions.\n\nShortly after that ordeal he got a hold of my number. The two times we've spoken he told me in a very threatening manner that he happens to have friends in various biker gangs and doesn't appreciate me seeing her. He then gave me an ultimatum to either stop seeing her OR to not set foot into \"his city\". I've only talked to him for 30 minutes or so; but I've come to the conclusion that he isn't the most mentally stable individual.\n\nI'm not a fan of getting involved in situations like this; I tend to avoid conflicts because my time and effort is better spent doing more productive things. And because of my lack of experience dealing with threats and unstable individuals, I'm reaching out to you /r/relationships. She has told me that he has never followed through with any of his threats over the past few months of being broken up, but I feel as if him seeing her with a significant other might be enough to give him initiative to actually do something.\n\nSo, what would my best course of action be? I really do like this girl, and have a date in the city planned with her on Sunday. But on the other side of things I'd rather not put myself in a situation where I may be at risk."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a girl on Tinder for a casual hookup. There ended up being good chemistry between the two of us and we transitioned into dating. We've had five dates so far and everything has been quite well except for her abusive ex of 8 months getting involved. She had broken up with him about 4 months ago and I was her first venture back into the dating scene. As soon as word got to him about the two of us, he began calling her phone and leaving very threatening voice-mails and demanding answers to some very private questions.\n\nShortly after that ordeal he got a hold of my number. The two times we've spoken he told me in a very threatening manner that he happens to have friends in various biker gangs and doesn't appreciate me seeing her. He then gave me an ultimatum to either stop seeing her OR to not set foot into \"his city\". I've only talked to him for 30 minutes or so; but I've come to the conclusion that he isn't the most mentally stable individual.\n\nI'm not a fan of getting involved in situations like this; I tend to avoid conflicts because my time and effort is better spent doing more productive things. And because of my lack of experience dealing with threats and unstable individuals, I'm reaching out to you /r/relationships. She has told me that he has never followed through with any of his threats over the past few months of being broken up, but I feel as if him seeing her with a significant other might be enough to give him initiative to actually do something.\n\nSo, what would my best course of action be? I really do like this girl, and have a date in the city planned with her on Sunday. But on the other side of things I'd rather not put myself in a situation where I may be at risk."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for three years and living together for the last 4 months. My girlfriend wants to travel and see the world; money, at this stage of her life, does not matter. I have just landed a great job that is quite challenging and I have enjoyed it so far.\n\nActually, that is the issue, this \"job\" is a career and my girlfriend is insistent that she only wants to stay in America, in our city, for two years tops. My goals, I believe, are more long term.\n\nI love to travel, but with my work I could never really be able to spend 6 months to a year living in another country (what job could). I am making great money so far, but I love this girl and do not know how to reconcile our long term differences.\n\nShould we break up now? Should we wait it out to see how we feel later? What do you think reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for three years and living together for the last 4 months. My girlfriend wants to travel and see the world; money, at this stage of her life, does not matter. I have just landed a great job that is quite challenging and I have enjoyed it so far.\n\nActually, that is the issue, this \"job\" is a career and my girlfriend is insistent that she only wants to stay in America, in our city, for two years tops. My goals, I believe, are more long term.\n\nI love to travel, but with my work I could never really be able to spend 6 months to a year living in another country (what job could). I am making great money so far, but I love this girl and do not know how to reconcile our long term differences.\n\nShould we break up now? Should we wait it out to see how we feel later? What do you think reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for three years and living together for the last 4 months. My girlfriend wants to travel and see the world; money, at this stage of her life, does not matter. I have just landed a great job that is quite challenging and I have enjoyed it so far.\n\nActually, that is the issue, this \"job\" is a career and my girlfriend is insistent that she only wants to stay in America, in our city, for two years tops. My goals, I believe, are more long term.\n\nI love to travel, but with my work I could never really be able to spend 6 months to a year living in another country (what job could). I am making great money so far, but I love this girl and do not know how to reconcile our long term differences.\n\nShould we break up now? Should we wait it out to see how we feel later? What do you think reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Thanks for clicking. So I live in a condo in Toronto and rent from the condo owners. About two three weeks ago me neighbors condo flooded and some damage occurred to the flooring and baseboards in my unit. The day it happened some workers (hired by the condo corporation) came and cleaned up the water, removed some flooring, put on dehumidfyers etc. They needed two weeks for the concrete under the carpet to fully dry before they replaced the base boards so fast forward to then and they also end up painting some of the walls. \n\nI wasn't home during this time but the concierge is supposed to have been there to monitor the work but regardless a painting of mine was damaged. Its not huge, but it is an original and there is now a tear in the canvas. I spoke the with building manager and he saw the damage and said he would see to it that I'm compensated and asked me to email him where I got the painting and how much it's worth. \n\nSo today he calls me and says that the contractor says they didnt do it, the condo Corp isnt responsible, and if I want to pursue it any further to take legal action. \n\nNow the painting is only worth about two hundred dollars so I'm guessing it's not worth it to sue, but the contractor is completely denying the damage. \n\nThe thing is that I'm absolutely sure it was them. It is literally my favorite painting and I definitely would have noticed a tear in the canvas as I see the painting very often being that it sits above my dinner table. \n\nBesides spreading word that the contractor's company will damage your property I'm not sure what else to do. I hesitated to mention them here because I'm not sure if I could be causing libel or whatnot. Basically that was literally my favourite painting and I'm just bent out of shape over it being ruined and them dismissing me with \"sue us.\" I know I can't replace the painting anyway i just sort of want some justice. Do I call and tell them my poor review of their business will cost them at least two hundred? Thanks in advance for any help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Thanks for clicking. So I live in a condo in Toronto and rent from the condo owners. About two three weeks ago me neighbors condo flooded and some damage occurred to the flooring and baseboards in my unit. The day it happened some workers (hired by the condo corporation) came and cleaned up the water, removed some flooring, put on dehumidfyers etc. They needed two weeks for the concrete under the carpet to fully dry before they replaced the base boards so fast forward to then and they also end up painting some of the walls. \n\nI wasn't home during this time but the concierge is supposed to have been there to monitor the work but regardless a painting of mine was damaged. Its not huge, but it is an original and there is now a tear in the canvas. I spoke the with building manager and he saw the damage and said he would see to it that I'm compensated and asked me to email him where I got the painting and how much it's worth. \n\nSo today he calls me and says that the contractor says they didnt do it, the condo Corp isnt responsible, and if I want to pursue it any further to take legal action. \n\nNow the painting is only worth about two hundred dollars so I'm guessing it's not worth it to sue, but the contractor is completely denying the damage. \n\nThe thing is that I'm absolutely sure it was them. It is literally my favorite painting and I definitely would have noticed a tear in the canvas as I see the painting very often being that it sits above my dinner table. \n\nBesides spreading word that the contractor's company will damage your property I'm not sure what else to do. I hesitated to mention them here because I'm not sure if I could be causing libel or whatnot. Basically that was literally my favourite painting and I'm just bent out of shape over it being ruined and them dismissing me with \"sue us.\" I know I can't replace the painting anyway i just sort of want some justice. Do I call and tell them my poor review of their business will cost them at least two hundred? Thanks in advance for any help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Thanks for clicking. So I live in a condo in Toronto and rent from the condo owners. About two three weeks ago me neighbors condo flooded and some damage occurred to the flooring and baseboards in my unit. The day it happened some workers (hired by the condo corporation) came and cleaned up the water, removed some flooring, put on dehumidfyers etc. They needed two weeks for the concrete under the carpet to fully dry before they replaced the base boards so fast forward to then and they also end up painting some of the walls. \n\nI wasn't home during this time but the concierge is supposed to have been there to monitor the work but regardless a painting of mine was damaged. Its not huge, but it is an original and there is now a tear in the canvas. I spoke the with building manager and he saw the damage and said he would see to it that I'm compensated and asked me to email him where I got the painting and how much it's worth. \n\nSo today he calls me and says that the contractor says they didnt do it, the condo Corp isnt responsible, and if I want to pursue it any further to take legal action. \n\nNow the painting is only worth about two hundred dollars so I'm guessing it's not worth it to sue, but the contractor is completely denying the damage. \n\nThe thing is that I'm absolutely sure it was them. It is literally my favorite painting and I definitely would have noticed a tear in the canvas as I see the painting very often being that it sits above my dinner table. \n\nBesides spreading word that the contractor's company will damage your property I'm not sure what else to do. I hesitated to mention them here because I'm not sure if I could be causing libel or whatnot. Basically that was literally my favourite painting and I'm just bent out of shape over it being ruined and them dismissing me with \"sue us.\" I know I can't replace the painting anyway i just sort of want some justice. Do I call and tell them my poor review of their business will cost them at least two hundred? Thanks in advance for any help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've only been dating for 5 months and I know that the age difference has caused her stress. I've never met her parents and she's convinced that they won't accept me and will potentially disown her. I've only met one of her friends, for only a few minutes and things were cordial but apparently that friend is also disapproving of our relationship. \n\nOver the past couple of weeks she's been extremely affectionate, constantly telling me she loves me when we're together and texting/calling to tell me how much she misses me when we aren't. This was a big deal because before she said it for the first time she was convinced that she'd never be in love with anyone. The first time she told me, she cried hysterically. \n\nSunday night we got into a small argument which turned into a breakup argument in which she told me that she's not positive she's in love with me and though she likes me \"more than a lot\", she isn't always happy in her life and thinks that she should be happier. According to her, it \"isn't enough.\" \n\nI should add that this is the 3rd time we've broken up under similar circumstances. In the past she's always regretted her decision and come back. I love her but I don't know how much more of this I can take. The way we left it, she told me she wasn't sure if she wanted to break up or not and just needed time to think, but she sure seems to be leaning in the direction of ending it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've only been dating for 5 months and I know that the age difference has caused her stress. I've never met her parents and she's convinced that they won't accept me and will potentially disown her. I've only met one of her friends, for only a few minutes and things were cordial but apparently that friend is also disapproving of our relationship. \n\nOver the past couple of weeks she's been extremely affectionate, constantly telling me she loves me when we're together and texting/calling to tell me how much she misses me when we aren't. This was a big deal because before she said it for the first time she was convinced that she'd never be in love with anyone. The first time she told me, she cried hysterically. \n\nSunday night we got into a small argument which turned into a breakup argument in which she told me that she's not positive she's in love with me and though she likes me \"more than a lot\", she isn't always happy in her life and thinks that she should be happier. According to her, it \"isn't enough.\" \n\nI should add that this is the 3rd time we've broken up under similar circumstances. In the past she's always regretted her decision and come back. I love her but I don't know how much more of this I can take. The way we left it, she told me she wasn't sure if she wanted to break up or not and just needed time to think, but she sure seems to be leaning in the direction of ending it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've only been dating for 5 months and I know that the age difference has caused her stress. I've never met her parents and she's convinced that they won't accept me and will potentially disown her. I've only met one of her friends, for only a few minutes and things were cordial but apparently that friend is also disapproving of our relationship. \n\nOver the past couple of weeks she's been extremely affectionate, constantly telling me she loves me when we're together and texting/calling to tell me how much she misses me when we aren't. This was a big deal because before she said it for the first time she was convinced that she'd never be in love with anyone. The first time she told me, she cried hysterically. \n\nSunday night we got into a small argument which turned into a breakup argument in which she told me that she's not positive she's in love with me and though she likes me \"more than a lot\", she isn't always happy in her life and thinks that she should be happier. According to her, it \"isn't enough.\" \n\nI should add that this is the 3rd time we've broken up under similar circumstances. In the past she's always regretted her decision and come back. I love her but I don't know how much more of this I can take. The way we left it, she told me she wasn't sure if she wanted to break up or not and just needed time to think, but she sure seems to be leaning in the direction of ending it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex boyfriend and I dated for 7 or so months. He was always really busy and I felt neglected, so much so that I ended the relationship. We had the best sex I have ever had in my life though. We've remained friends.\n\nThen I began to date this other guy, Tom. Tom and I were together for two and a half years. We lived together and everything was great until it wasn't anymore. He is 28 and I'm 25 and he just stopped being attracted to me I guess, because he would never try to sleep with me. I had to initiate everything and half the time he would reject me because he was on adderall or something. We didn't click sexually. In fact, when I told him how I wanted rough sex, he replied about how he \"isn't into rape\" and made me feel really shitty. I broke up with him last Thursday (it was very civil, he didn't try to get me to change my mind, it's very obvious he's no longer interested) and he is in the process of moving out. He's not staying at my house, he is just packing on the weekends (while i stay at my sisters) and should be out by the end of this weekend.\n\nI have been talking to my ex lately about my breakup and he's really been supportive. Not like a \"I want to get in your pants\" supportive, but just a really great listener. He's probably one of my best friends, but I really want to fuck him. In fact we've talked about it. Neither of us want to date again, we just both agreed it was like the best sex ever. My question is - do I go down the sticky friends with benefits road with my ex? I don't want to \"ruin\" our friendship, but we've already had sex before and I kind of feel like this would make our friendship stronger. He's the most open person ever sexually, we explore all kinds of fantasies. Of course I won't be sleeping with anyone until all of Tom's shit is out of my house because I need to make sure I close that door for real. Keep in mind I haven't have sex for about 5 or so months."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex boyfriend and I dated for 7 or so months. He was always really busy and I felt neglected, so much so that I ended the relationship. We had the best sex I have ever had in my life though. We've remained friends.\n\nThen I began to date this other guy, Tom. Tom and I were together for two and a half years. We lived together and everything was great until it wasn't anymore. He is 28 and I'm 25 and he just stopped being attracted to me I guess, because he would never try to sleep with me. I had to initiate everything and half the time he would reject me because he was on adderall or something. We didn't click sexually. In fact, when I told him how I wanted rough sex, he replied about how he \"isn't into rape\" and made me feel really shitty. I broke up with him last Thursday (it was very civil, he didn't try to get me to change my mind, it's very obvious he's no longer interested) and he is in the process of moving out. He's not staying at my house, he is just packing on the weekends (while i stay at my sisters) and should be out by the end of this weekend.\n\nI have been talking to my ex lately about my breakup and he's really been supportive. Not like a \"I want to get in your pants\" supportive, but just a really great listener. He's probably one of my best friends, but I really want to fuck him. In fact we've talked about it. Neither of us want to date again, we just both agreed it was like the best sex ever. My question is - do I go down the sticky friends with benefits road with my ex? I don't want to \"ruin\" our friendship, but we've already had sex before and I kind of feel like this would make our friendship stronger. He's the most open person ever sexually, we explore all kinds of fantasies. Of course I won't be sleeping with anyone until all of Tom's shit is out of my house because I need to make sure I close that door for real. Keep in mind I haven't have sex for about 5 or so months."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex boyfriend and I dated for 7 or so months. He was always really busy and I felt neglected, so much so that I ended the relationship. We had the best sex I have ever had in my life though. We've remained friends.\n\nThen I began to date this other guy, Tom. Tom and I were together for two and a half years. We lived together and everything was great until it wasn't anymore. He is 28 and I'm 25 and he just stopped being attracted to me I guess, because he would never try to sleep with me. I had to initiate everything and half the time he would reject me because he was on adderall or something. We didn't click sexually. In fact, when I told him how I wanted rough sex, he replied about how he \"isn't into rape\" and made me feel really shitty. I broke up with him last Thursday (it was very civil, he didn't try to get me to change my mind, it's very obvious he's no longer interested) and he is in the process of moving out. He's not staying at my house, he is just packing on the weekends (while i stay at my sisters) and should be out by the end of this weekend.\n\nI have been talking to my ex lately about my breakup and he's really been supportive. Not like a \"I want to get in your pants\" supportive, but just a really great listener. He's probably one of my best friends, but I really want to fuck him. In fact we've talked about it. Neither of us want to date again, we just both agreed it was like the best sex ever. My question is - do I go down the sticky friends with benefits road with my ex? I don't want to \"ruin\" our friendship, but we've already had sex before and I kind of feel like this would make our friendship stronger. He's the most open person ever sexually, we explore all kinds of fantasies. Of course I won't be sleeping with anyone until all of Tom's shit is out of my house because I need to make sure I close that door for real. Keep in mind I haven't have sex for about 5 or so months."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex boyfriend and I dated for 7 or so months. He was always really busy and I felt neglected, so much so that I ended the relationship. We had the best sex I have ever had in my life though. We've remained friends.\n\nThen I began to date this other guy, Tom. Tom and I were together for two and a half years. We lived together and everything was great until it wasn't anymore. He is 28 and I'm 25 and he just stopped being attracted to me I guess, because he would never try to sleep with me. I had to initiate everything and half the time he would reject me because he was on adderall or something. We didn't click sexually. In fact, when I told him how I wanted rough sex, he replied about how he \"isn't into rape\" and made me feel really shitty. I broke up with him last Thursday (it was very civil, he didn't try to get me to change my mind, it's very obvious he's no longer interested) and he is in the process of moving out. He's not staying at my house, he is just packing on the weekends (while i stay at my sisters) and should be out by the end of this weekend.\n\nI have been talking to my ex lately about my breakup and he's really been supportive. Not like a \"I want to get in your pants\" supportive, but just a really great listener. He's probably one of my best friends, but I really want to fuck him. In fact we've talked about it. Neither of us want to date again, we just both agreed it was like the best sex ever. My question is - do I go down the sticky friends with benefits road with my ex? I don't want to \"ruin\" our friendship, but we've already had sex before and I kind of feel like this would make our friendship stronger. He's the most open person ever sexually, we explore all kinds of fantasies. Of course I won't be sleeping with anyone until all of Tom's shit is out of my house because I need to make sure I close that door for real. Keep in mind I haven't have sex for about 5 or so months."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex boyfriend and I dated for 7 or so months. He was always really busy and I felt neglected, so much so that I ended the relationship. We had the best sex I have ever had in my life though. We've remained friends.\n\nThen I began to date this other guy, Tom. Tom and I were together for two and a half years. We lived together and everything was great until it wasn't anymore. He is 28 and I'm 25 and he just stopped being attracted to me I guess, because he would never try to sleep with me. I had to initiate everything and half the time he would reject me because he was on adderall or something. We didn't click sexually. In fact, when I told him how I wanted rough sex, he replied about how he \"isn't into rape\" and made me feel really shitty. I broke up with him last Thursday (it was very civil, he didn't try to get me to change my mind, it's very obvious he's no longer interested) and he is in the process of moving out. He's not staying at my house, he is just packing on the weekends (while i stay at my sisters) and should be out by the end of this weekend.\n\nI have been talking to my ex lately about my breakup and he's really been supportive. Not like a \"I want to get in your pants\" supportive, but just a really great listener. He's probably one of my best friends, but I really want to fuck him. In fact we've talked about it. Neither of us want to date again, we just both agreed it was like the best sex ever. My question is - do I go down the sticky friends with benefits road with my ex? I don't want to \"ruin\" our friendship, but we've already had sex before and I kind of feel like this would make our friendship stronger. He's the most open person ever sexually, we explore all kinds of fantasies. Of course I won't be sleeping with anyone until all of Tom's shit is out of my house because I need to make sure I close that door for real. Keep in mind I haven't have sex for about 5 or so months."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex boyfriend and I dated for 7 or so months. He was always really busy and I felt neglected, so much so that I ended the relationship. We had the best sex I have ever had in my life though. We've remained friends.\n\nThen I began to date this other guy, Tom. Tom and I were together for two and a half years. We lived together and everything was great until it wasn't anymore. He is 28 and I'm 25 and he just stopped being attracted to me I guess, because he would never try to sleep with me. I had to initiate everything and half the time he would reject me because he was on adderall or something. We didn't click sexually. In fact, when I told him how I wanted rough sex, he replied about how he \"isn't into rape\" and made me feel really shitty. I broke up with him last Thursday (it was very civil, he didn't try to get me to change my mind, it's very obvious he's no longer interested) and he is in the process of moving out. He's not staying at my house, he is just packing on the weekends (while i stay at my sisters) and should be out by the end of this weekend.\n\nI have been talking to my ex lately about my breakup and he's really been supportive. Not like a \"I want to get in your pants\" supportive, but just a really great listener. He's probably one of my best friends, but I really want to fuck him. In fact we've talked about it. Neither of us want to date again, we just both agreed it was like the best sex ever. My question is - do I go down the sticky friends with benefits road with my ex? I don't want to \"ruin\" our friendship, but we've already had sex before and I kind of feel like this would make our friendship stronger. He's the most open person ever sexually, we explore all kinds of fantasies. Of course I won't be sleeping with anyone until all of Tom's shit is out of my house because I need to make sure I close that door for real. Keep in mind I haven't have sex for about 5 or so months."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my best friend had been friends for years,she is pretty hot and I am an average looking guy,6 months ago we hooked up,ever since then whenever there is a party we make out,we don't have sex because she doesn't want to.We were kinda in a romantic relationship,we didn't want to go as bf/gf relationship.When I asked her if we should go that way,she said no its good the way it is.I agreed.I dont see her a lot,like maybe 2 times in a month,I want to have sex with her but she doesn't want with me,meanwhile she is having sex with some other dude,which she is probably in a relationship with.But when she's home she always hooks up with me,we both like it.Today I decided to ask her why is it so hard for her to have sex with me,is she uncomforatble with me,am I too ugly for her,then she answered that she doesn't want to ruin our friendship.She says if we do that(sex)we would be a gf and bf,or maybe she was referring that should fell in love with me,that one is tricky for me.I really like her and decided that we should take a time off each other so further feelings wont develop,she doesn't want that,I promised her that I would make her my girlfriend,she just laughed and replied \"maybe :P\",we both told each other what we don't like about each other.when I told her that we should stop talking to each other,she didn't want to,but I really want that.She got 5 months of school left so I don't want to bother her,and I will use that time to change myself a bit,like something she told me she doesn't like at me,she also promised me to change herself,because I also told her what I dont like about her.DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? please note that i am not doing this becouse she doesnt want to have sex with me\n\nSORRY FOR BAD ENGLISH"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my best friend had been friends for years,she is pretty hot and I am an average looking guy,6 months ago we hooked up,ever since then whenever there is a party we make out,we don't have sex because she doesn't want to.We were kinda in a romantic relationship,we didn't want to go as bf/gf relationship.When I asked her if we should go that way,she said no its good the way it is.I agreed.I dont see her a lot,like maybe 2 times in a month,I want to have sex with her but she doesn't want with me,meanwhile she is having sex with some other dude,which she is probably in a relationship with.But when she's home she always hooks up with me,we both like it.Today I decided to ask her why is it so hard for her to have sex with me,is she uncomforatble with me,am I too ugly for her,then she answered that she doesn't want to ruin our friendship.She says if we do that(sex)we would be a gf and bf,or maybe she was referring that should fell in love with me,that one is tricky for me.I really like her and decided that we should take a time off each other so further feelings wont develop,she doesn't want that,I promised her that I would make her my girlfriend,she just laughed and replied \"maybe :P\",we both told each other what we don't like about each other.when I told her that we should stop talking to each other,she didn't want to,but I really want that.She got 5 months of school left so I don't want to bother her,and I will use that time to change myself a bit,like something she told me she doesn't like at me,she also promised me to change herself,because I also told her what I dont like about her.DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? please note that i am not doing this becouse she doesnt want to have sex with me\n\nSORRY FOR BAD ENGLISH"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my best friend had been friends for years,she is pretty hot and I am an average looking guy,6 months ago we hooked up,ever since then whenever there is a party we make out,we don't have sex because she doesn't want to.We were kinda in a romantic relationship,we didn't want to go as bf/gf relationship.When I asked her if we should go that way,she said no its good the way it is.I agreed.I dont see her a lot,like maybe 2 times in a month,I want to have sex with her but she doesn't want with me,meanwhile she is having sex with some other dude,which she is probably in a relationship with.But when she's home she always hooks up with me,we both like it.Today I decided to ask her why is it so hard for her to have sex with me,is she uncomforatble with me,am I too ugly for her,then she answered that she doesn't want to ruin our friendship.She says if we do that(sex)we would be a gf and bf,or maybe she was referring that should fell in love with me,that one is tricky for me.I really like her and decided that we should take a time off each other so further feelings wont develop,she doesn't want that,I promised her that I would make her my girlfriend,she just laughed and replied \"maybe :P\",we both told each other what we don't like about each other.when I told her that we should stop talking to each other,she didn't want to,but I really want that.She got 5 months of school left so I don't want to bother her,and I will use that time to change myself a bit,like something she told me she doesn't like at me,she also promised me to change herself,because I also told her what I dont like about her.DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? please note that i am not doing this becouse she doesnt want to have sex with me\n\nSORRY FOR BAD ENGLISH"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My sister told me a few days ago that her boyfriend lied to her about having herpes. He said he was clean when she asked upfront, and then admitted later that he had herpes but was \"too scared to lose her\" if he told her. \n\nI don't really need to provide more evidence of his manipulative and unbelievable behaviour, but beyond that he's constantly talking about how \"vulnerable\" he's being with her and has said, and I quote, that he would \"lose his life\" if he lost her.? They've been together for less than a month. He's being a manipulative and insane piece of shit and I'm really scared that she doesn't seem to care. \n\nI've told her exactly what my opinions are, and she respectfully told me to \"stop bashing her boyfriend\". There's no getting through to her and I don't want to distance her or alienate her because I don't know what this guy is going to do and I care about her so much. \n\nWhat should I do? Right now I'm just keeping quiet and staying out of it but if there's anything you guys can suggest that would be really helpful. Or maybe you'll tell me she's an adult who had made her own decisions, which is pretty much what I've been trying to remind myself lately even though that leaves me concerned and with no way to help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My sister told me a few days ago that her boyfriend lied to her about having herpes. He said he was clean when she asked upfront, and then admitted later that he had herpes but was \"too scared to lose her\" if he told her. \n\nI don't really need to provide more evidence of his manipulative and unbelievable behaviour, but beyond that he's constantly talking about how \"vulnerable\" he's being with her and has said, and I quote, that he would \"lose his life\" if he lost her.? They've been together for less than a month. He's being a manipulative and insane piece of shit and I'm really scared that she doesn't seem to care. \n\nI've told her exactly what my opinions are, and she respectfully told me to \"stop bashing her boyfriend\". There's no getting through to her and I don't want to distance her or alienate her because I don't know what this guy is going to do and I care about her so much. \n\nWhat should I do? Right now I'm just keeping quiet and staying out of it but if there's anything you guys can suggest that would be really helpful. Or maybe you'll tell me she's an adult who had made her own decisions, which is pretty much what I've been trying to remind myself lately even though that leaves me concerned and with no way to help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF and I have been dating for four years. About a month ago, I proposed, and she accepted. Marriage was something we had been talking about for months. We both wanted it, so the proposal itself was just procedural. Our relationship has been perfect. I honestly think we've fought twice over the last 4 years. She is the love of my life.\n\nA bit about our relationship: We met on a dating website. We've been happily living together for the last 3 years. Money has not ever been an issue for us. We split things down the middle. My half comes from my job and her half comes from her parents, as she just recently graduated college and is still looking for a job. My GF's parents are well-off. Very well-off. It's obvious just from their lifestyle, and the way the support their only daughter. I have a good relationship with them. I think (thought?) they liked me we we met.\n\nMy GF told her parents immediately after the proposal and everything was great. They expressed their happiness, and actually flew down the following day. Nothing about a pre-nup was mentioned to me or her.\n\nThen, yesterday, my GF told me that her father called her and asked her if she was getting a pre-nup. She told him no, and apparently they got into an argument. My GF later told me what happened, and told me that he \"demanded\" she get a pre-nup and threatened to cut her off if she didn't. Her feeling right now is that she is mad at them and she isn't going to fold to their demand. \n\nI have a lot of problems with this. First, her parents seem to think they can control her and by extension me. Second, the fact that they used threats. Third, the fact that this didn't come up until a month AFTER we announced our engagement. Forth, what it means they think of our relationship. \n\nI don't know what is going to happen right now, hopefully this whole thing will \"go away\" but if push comes to shove I'm trying to decide if I will sign on the dotted line. Should I?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF and I have been dating for four years. About a month ago, I proposed, and she accepted. Marriage was something we had been talking about for months. We both wanted it, so the proposal itself was just procedural. Our relationship has been perfect. I honestly think we've fought twice over the last 4 years. She is the love of my life.\n\nA bit about our relationship: We met on a dating website. We've been happily living together for the last 3 years. Money has not ever been an issue for us. We split things down the middle. My half comes from my job and her half comes from her parents, as she just recently graduated college and is still looking for a job. My GF's parents are well-off. Very well-off. It's obvious just from their lifestyle, and the way the support their only daughter. I have a good relationship with them. I think (thought?) they liked me we we met.\n\nMy GF told her parents immediately after the proposal and everything was great. They expressed their happiness, and actually flew down the following day. Nothing about a pre-nup was mentioned to me or her.\n\nThen, yesterday, my GF told me that her father called her and asked her if she was getting a pre-nup. She told him no, and apparently they got into an argument. My GF later told me what happened, and told me that he \"demanded\" she get a pre-nup and threatened to cut her off if she didn't. Her feeling right now is that she is mad at them and she isn't going to fold to their demand. \n\nI have a lot of problems with this. First, her parents seem to think they can control her and by extension me. Second, the fact that they used threats. Third, the fact that this didn't come up until a month AFTER we announced our engagement. Forth, what it means they think of our relationship. \n\nI don't know what is going to happen right now, hopefully this whole thing will \"go away\" but if push comes to shove I'm trying to decide if I will sign on the dotted line. Should I?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF and I have been dating for four years. About a month ago, I proposed, and she accepted. Marriage was something we had been talking about for months. We both wanted it, so the proposal itself was just procedural. Our relationship has been perfect. I honestly think we've fought twice over the last 4 years. She is the love of my life.\n\nA bit about our relationship: We met on a dating website. We've been happily living together for the last 3 years. Money has not ever been an issue for us. We split things down the middle. My half comes from my job and her half comes from her parents, as she just recently graduated college and is still looking for a job. My GF's parents are well-off. Very well-off. It's obvious just from their lifestyle, and the way the support their only daughter. I have a good relationship with them. I think (thought?) they liked me we we met.\n\nMy GF told her parents immediately after the proposal and everything was great. They expressed their happiness, and actually flew down the following day. Nothing about a pre-nup was mentioned to me or her.\n\nThen, yesterday, my GF told me that her father called her and asked her if she was getting a pre-nup. She told him no, and apparently they got into an argument. My GF later told me what happened, and told me that he \"demanded\" she get a pre-nup and threatened to cut her off if she didn't. Her feeling right now is that she is mad at them and she isn't going to fold to their demand. \n\nI have a lot of problems with this. First, her parents seem to think they can control her and by extension me. Second, the fact that they used threats. Third, the fact that this didn't come up until a month AFTER we announced our engagement. Forth, what it means they think of our relationship. \n\nI don't know what is going to happen right now, hopefully this whole thing will \"go away\" but if push comes to shove I'm trying to decide if I will sign on the dotted line. Should I?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, long story short. We've been dating almost 5 months. My boyfriend [25]had a rough upbringing and a very rough first and only relationship that ended in a divorce. \nHe's not my first relationship. I'm[21] actually a little younger and have been in about 4 (depending what you count as a relationship). His ex was super controlling so I really do my best not to be even when I feel he's out of line.\nHe feels the need to have these like little Internet friends flow over into our relationship. Like one of his online friends didn't like me and basically stopped talking to him over me. All of these \"friends\" are female of course. \nHe posts on several reddits that I don't particularly care for because of their content and doesn't understand why it bothers me. He is just complimenting these women and loves doing it. He's not trying to fuck them or anything that I know of but it makes me really insecure. I've never had a need for the attention of multiple people but he does. He basically craves it, whereas I find it childish. \nHe brags about being hit on and some of his past sexual encounters. I'm about 4-5 years younger than him but I am not less experienced and he always seems to throw the age card out when he disagrees with me. \nI'm very grown for my age. I go to college, work full time and still have a family/ social life. I've worked for all I have actually. So when he drops that card it is extremely insulting to me. Is it wrong to tell him to stop or leave? I don't want to be belittled because I'm young. Because honestly, he's definitely the younger of us two mentally"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened in early 2011 after the massive spike in popularity of instagram, a popular cell phone app that was sold for 1 billion dollars a while back, but worth much more today. \n \nMy best friend from high school wanted to create a social media app since he claimed it was going to be the next big thing and his \"instagram\". He pitched it to me during dinner. His was idea was messaging photos to each other like text messages without relying on sms service and rather through wifi. I immediately, laugh and tell him what a stupid idea that was and that no one was going to use it because people can just share photos through instagram. He continues to tell me how people can send random moments of their day to each other and I continue with stupid rebuttal ideas such that it would be faster to message people by text instead. \n \nAnyways fast forward to present day, the only app he has made is some small game and organizer which he did for fun. He realized that it was just a hobby and nothing serious. We joke constantly that he would be a billionaire if I had liked his idea and that he would bring me aboard."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened in early 2011 after the massive spike in popularity of instagram, a popular cell phone app that was sold for 1 billion dollars a while back, but worth much more today. \n \nMy best friend from high school wanted to create a social media app since he claimed it was going to be the next big thing and his \"instagram\". He pitched it to me during dinner. His was idea was messaging photos to each other like text messages without relying on sms service and rather through wifi. I immediately, laugh and tell him what a stupid idea that was and that no one was going to use it because people can just share photos through instagram. He continues to tell me how people can send random moments of their day to each other and I continue with stupid rebuttal ideas such that it would be faster to message people by text instead. \n \nAnyways fast forward to present day, the only app he has made is some small game and organizer which he did for fun. He realized that it was just a hobby and nothing serious. We joke constantly that he would be a billionaire if I had liked his idea and that he would bring me aboard."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened in early 2011 after the massive spike in popularity of instagram, a popular cell phone app that was sold for 1 billion dollars a while back, but worth much more today. \n \nMy best friend from high school wanted to create a social media app since he claimed it was going to be the next big thing and his \"instagram\". He pitched it to me during dinner. His was idea was messaging photos to each other like text messages without relying on sms service and rather through wifi. I immediately, laugh and tell him what a stupid idea that was and that no one was going to use it because people can just share photos through instagram. He continues to tell me how people can send random moments of their day to each other and I continue with stupid rebuttal ideas such that it would be faster to message people by text instead. \n \nAnyways fast forward to present day, the only app he has made is some small game and organizer which he did for fun. He realized that it was just a hobby and nothing serious. We joke constantly that he would be a billionaire if I had liked his idea and that he would bring me aboard."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll try to keep it as short as possible: \n\nThrough most of my university years, I was close friends with a beautiful girl who was well out of my league (back then). Yes, I was well and truly in the friendzone. She got married last year to a guy she'd known for only a few months. Last month, she got into a fight with her husband and moved out of their home. During a night of comforting her at my place, one thing led to another and we had sex. Over the next three weeks, we kept at it and spent a lot of time with each other, mostly in the bedroom. \n\nNow, she's started to talk about filing for divorce and about \"us\" and our future. I have never hinted that I am interested in a relationship or being anything more than FWBs. She seems to be assuming that I would want her as a girlfriend based on my personality she got to know in university, which as since changed a lot.\n\nFor a number of reasons, I don't want to get into a relationship, especially not with her. I want her to do what is right for her (divorce vs. no divorce) without factoring me into her decision. I feel like my only choice may be to bite the bullet and risk losing her as a friend by being clear that I don't want a relationship with her. Has anybody else been in this situation? Is there a way to let her down easy and not lose our friendship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll try to keep it as short as possible: \n\nThrough most of my university years, I was close friends with a beautiful girl who was well out of my league (back then). Yes, I was well and truly in the friendzone. She got married last year to a guy she'd known for only a few months. Last month, she got into a fight with her husband and moved out of their home. During a night of comforting her at my place, one thing led to another and we had sex. Over the next three weeks, we kept at it and spent a lot of time with each other, mostly in the bedroom. \n\nNow, she's started to talk about filing for divorce and about \"us\" and our future. I have never hinted that I am interested in a relationship or being anything more than FWBs. She seems to be assuming that I would want her as a girlfriend based on my personality she got to know in university, which as since changed a lot.\n\nFor a number of reasons, I don't want to get into a relationship, especially not with her. I want her to do what is right for her (divorce vs. no divorce) without factoring me into her decision. I feel like my only choice may be to bite the bullet and risk losing her as a friend by being clear that I don't want a relationship with her. Has anybody else been in this situation? Is there a way to let her down easy and not lose our friendship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll try to keep it as short as possible: \n\nThrough most of my university years, I was close friends with a beautiful girl who was well out of my league (back then). Yes, I was well and truly in the friendzone. She got married last year to a guy she'd known for only a few months. Last month, she got into a fight with her husband and moved out of their home. During a night of comforting her at my place, one thing led to another and we had sex. Over the next three weeks, we kept at it and spent a lot of time with each other, mostly in the bedroom. \n\nNow, she's started to talk about filing for divorce and about \"us\" and our future. I have never hinted that I am interested in a relationship or being anything more than FWBs. She seems to be assuming that I would want her as a girlfriend based on my personality she got to know in university, which as since changed a lot.\n\nFor a number of reasons, I don't want to get into a relationship, especially not with her. I want her to do what is right for her (divorce vs. no divorce) without factoring me into her decision. I feel like my only choice may be to bite the bullet and risk losing her as a friend by being clear that I don't want a relationship with her. Has anybody else been in this situation? Is there a way to let her down easy and not lose our friendship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: How do you break up with someone if they are the only person you've been close to in the past 4 years, if they have a shit family or no place to really call home? I am afraid I will ruin him. I can't think of life without him yet I feel we are toxic to each other.\n\nMy parents do not approve of him, say he brings nothing to the table for me and that I am not responsible for his life. It has put so much strain on our relationship throughout the years and I have found myself exhausted. Their strict rules have also been extremely troublesome/stressful for us and I am often pushed to my limits in order to maintain a balanced relationship between family and bf but more often than not one of them suffers.\n\nI do not know if I'm trying to make things work between us because I feel guilty and responsible for him, or if I'm just afraid of what will happen if I let him go, or if we are actually meant to stay together and work through these hard times. Things have escalated in the past few weeks and this fate has become more imminent than ever. His unstable living situation is putting so much stress on the both of us. We have dealt with distance for the past 3 years horribly. I play a division 1 sport in college and have a ridiculous schedule while he has not been able to hold down a job for more than two months because of unfortunate variables relating to his shitty living situation. It will be a huge pivoting point in both of our lives if things end but I feel as if we are stuck in some awful loop of shitty circumstance and I do not know how to get out of it.\n\nI'm sorry if this sounds pathetic this is the first time I've tried writing this. I really have no one to talk to and am in desperate need of advice. \n\nI am at my wits end. He is so important to me and I just want to do what will be best for both of us in the end."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: How do you break up with someone if they are the only person you've been close to in the past 4 years, if they have a shit family or no place to really call home? I am afraid I will ruin him. I can't think of life without him yet I feel we are toxic to each other.\n\nMy parents do not approve of him, say he brings nothing to the table for me and that I am not responsible for his life. It has put so much strain on our relationship throughout the years and I have found myself exhausted. Their strict rules have also been extremely troublesome/stressful for us and I am often pushed to my limits in order to maintain a balanced relationship between family and bf but more often than not one of them suffers.\n\nI do not know if I'm trying to make things work between us because I feel guilty and responsible for him, or if I'm just afraid of what will happen if I let him go, or if we are actually meant to stay together and work through these hard times. Things have escalated in the past few weeks and this fate has become more imminent than ever. His unstable living situation is putting so much stress on the both of us. We have dealt with distance for the past 3 years horribly. I play a division 1 sport in college and have a ridiculous schedule while he has not been able to hold down a job for more than two months because of unfortunate variables relating to his shitty living situation. It will be a huge pivoting point in both of our lives if things end but I feel as if we are stuck in some awful loop of shitty circumstance and I do not know how to get out of it.\n\nI'm sorry if this sounds pathetic this is the first time I've tried writing this. I really have no one to talk to and am in desperate need of advice. \n\nI am at my wits end. He is so important to me and I just want to do what will be best for both of us in the end."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: How do you break up with someone if they are the only person you've been close to in the past 4 years, if they have a shit family or no place to really call home? I am afraid I will ruin him. I can't think of life without him yet I feel we are toxic to each other.\n\nMy parents do not approve of him, say he brings nothing to the table for me and that I am not responsible for his life. It has put so much strain on our relationship throughout the years and I have found myself exhausted. Their strict rules have also been extremely troublesome/stressful for us and I am often pushed to my limits in order to maintain a balanced relationship between family and bf but more often than not one of them suffers.\n\nI do not know if I'm trying to make things work between us because I feel guilty and responsible for him, or if I'm just afraid of what will happen if I let him go, or if we are actually meant to stay together and work through these hard times. Things have escalated in the past few weeks and this fate has become more imminent than ever. His unstable living situation is putting so much stress on the both of us. We have dealt with distance for the past 3 years horribly. I play a division 1 sport in college and have a ridiculous schedule while he has not been able to hold down a job for more than two months because of unfortunate variables relating to his shitty living situation. It will be a huge pivoting point in both of our lives if things end but I feel as if we are stuck in some awful loop of shitty circumstance and I do not know how to get out of it.\n\nI'm sorry if this sounds pathetic this is the first time I've tried writing this. I really have no one to talk to and am in desperate need of advice. \n\nI am at my wits end. He is so important to me and I just want to do what will be best for both of us in the end."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over the past month and a half, one of my best friends and I have become nearly inseparable. We've been seeing each other every day for at least the past two weeks, and when we are not together, we text and chat. Neither have taken the extra step to make this formally into a relationship, but I was planning to tell her my sincere feelings about her very soon. But before I can make that move, i thought I needed some consultation.\n\nThe girl I've fallen for and her roommate have been living together for three years and are the best of buddies. The roommate, however, did miss out on witness the beginning and the maturation of our budding relationship because she went abroad for most of the summer. Two weeks after she came back, I told the roommate in private during a party about my feelings for the friend, and she slapped me in the face, saying that my friend's not interested and that it's a bad idea. The roommate explained to me that my friend grew attached to me because she doesn't have a lot of friends (which is true) and because I was really the only one around her over the summer.\n\nI am confused because I am getting mixed signals inside my head. I would believe that the friend and her roommate talked about me in the two weeks both were together. But we have developed such a comfort level with each other that is expected of girlfriend and boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I don't know if it's worth it to ask my friend out when her closest confidant tells me the contrary."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over the past month and a half, one of my best friends and I have become nearly inseparable. We've been seeing each other every day for at least the past two weeks, and when we are not together, we text and chat. Neither have taken the extra step to make this formally into a relationship, but I was planning to tell her my sincere feelings about her very soon. But before I can make that move, i thought I needed some consultation.\n\nThe girl I've fallen for and her roommate have been living together for three years and are the best of buddies. The roommate, however, did miss out on witness the beginning and the maturation of our budding relationship because she went abroad for most of the summer. Two weeks after she came back, I told the roommate in private during a party about my feelings for the friend, and she slapped me in the face, saying that my friend's not interested and that it's a bad idea. The roommate explained to me that my friend grew attached to me because she doesn't have a lot of friends (which is true) and because I was really the only one around her over the summer.\n\nI am confused because I am getting mixed signals inside my head. I would believe that the friend and her roommate talked about me in the two weeks both were together. But we have developed such a comfort level with each other that is expected of girlfriend and boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I don't know if it's worth it to ask my friend out when her closest confidant tells me the contrary."
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