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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over the past month and a half, one of my best friends and I have become nearly inseparable. We've been seeing each other every day for at least the past two weeks, and when we are not together, we text and chat. Neither have taken the extra step to make this formally into a relationship, but I was planning to tell her my sincere feelings about her very soon. But before I can make that move, i thought I needed some consultation.\n\nThe girl I've fallen for and her roommate have been living together for three years and are the best of buddies. The roommate, however, did miss out on witness the beginning and the maturation of our budding relationship because she went abroad for most of the summer. Two weeks after she came back, I told the roommate in private during a party about my feelings for the friend, and she slapped me in the face, saying that my friend's not interested and that it's a bad idea. The roommate explained to me that my friend grew attached to me because she doesn't have a lot of friends (which is true) and because I was really the only one around her over the summer.\n\nI am confused because I am getting mixed signals inside my head. I would believe that the friend and her roommate talked about me in the two weeks both were together. But we have developed such a comfort level with each other that is expected of girlfriend and boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I don't know if it's worth it to ask my friend out when her closest confidant tells me the contrary."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over the past month and a half, one of my best friends and I have become nearly inseparable. We've been seeing each other every day for at least the past two weeks, and when we are not together, we text and chat. Neither have taken the extra step to make this formally into a relationship, but I was planning to tell her my sincere feelings about her very soon. But before I can make that move, i thought I needed some consultation.\n\nThe girl I've fallen for and her roommate have been living together for three years and are the best of buddies. The roommate, however, did miss out on witness the beginning and the maturation of our budding relationship because she went abroad for most of the summer. Two weeks after she came back, I told the roommate in private during a party about my feelings for the friend, and she slapped me in the face, saying that my friend's not interested and that it's a bad idea. The roommate explained to me that my friend grew attached to me because she doesn't have a lot of friends (which is true) and because I was really the only one around her over the summer.\n\nI am confused because I am getting mixed signals inside my head. I would believe that the friend and her roommate talked about me in the two weeks both were together. But we have developed such a comfort level with each other that is expected of girlfriend and boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I don't know if it's worth it to ask my friend out when her closest confidant tells me the contrary."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there. I am a 15 year old boy who miraculously has managed to keep a girlfriend for nearly 8 months now. I love her very dearly.\n\nAbout two hours ago I decided to sent her a picture of myself in pajama pants just before going to bed. After she responds I say, \"Do you feel obligated to send a complimentary shirtless picture back?\". Normally, I would never say this seriously. It was just a joke, and I thought she saw that. \n\nJokingly, I push the request a bit. After that bit she isn't responding so I let her know it was all a joke. She didn't find it funny; she thought I was being real.\n\nShe has been mad and crying while I have been trying to clean after my insensitive, dick move. I was actually quite astonished to see her respond this way and this harshly. For the past hour I have been apologizing, and I have been trying to console her. Nothing has been helping.\n\nIn the end I feel horrible, regretful, helpless, and disgusted with myself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there. I am a 15 year old boy who miraculously has managed to keep a girlfriend for nearly 8 months now. I love her very dearly.\n\nAbout two hours ago I decided to sent her a picture of myself in pajama pants just before going to bed. After she responds I say, \"Do you feel obligated to send a complimentary shirtless picture back?\". Normally, I would never say this seriously. It was just a joke, and I thought she saw that. \n\nJokingly, I push the request a bit. After that bit she isn't responding so I let her know it was all a joke. She didn't find it funny; she thought I was being real.\n\nShe has been mad and crying while I have been trying to clean after my insensitive, dick move. I was actually quite astonished to see her respond this way and this harshly. For the past hour I have been apologizing, and I have been trying to console her. Nothing has been helping.\n\nIn the end I feel horrible, regretful, helpless, and disgusted with myself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there. I am a 15 year old boy who miraculously has managed to keep a girlfriend for nearly 8 months now. I love her very dearly.\n\nAbout two hours ago I decided to sent her a picture of myself in pajama pants just before going to bed. After she responds I say, \"Do you feel obligated to send a complimentary shirtless picture back?\". Normally, I would never say this seriously. It was just a joke, and I thought she saw that. \n\nJokingly, I push the request a bit. After that bit she isn't responding so I let her know it was all a joke. She didn't find it funny; she thought I was being real.\n\nShe has been mad and crying while I have been trying to clean after my insensitive, dick move. I was actually quite astonished to see her respond this way and this harshly. For the past hour I have been apologizing, and I have been trying to console her. Nothing has been helping.\n\nIn the end I feel horrible, regretful, helpless, and disgusted with myself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there. I am a 15 year old boy who miraculously has managed to keep a girlfriend for nearly 8 months now. I love her very dearly.\n\nAbout two hours ago I decided to sent her a picture of myself in pajama pants just before going to bed. After she responds I say, \"Do you feel obligated to send a complimentary shirtless picture back?\". Normally, I would never say this seriously. It was just a joke, and I thought she saw that. \n\nJokingly, I push the request a bit. After that bit she isn't responding so I let her know it was all a joke. She didn't find it funny; she thought I was being real.\n\nShe has been mad and crying while I have been trying to clean after my insensitive, dick move. I was actually quite astonished to see her respond this way and this harshly. For the past hour I have been apologizing, and I have been trying to console her. Nothing has been helping.\n\nIn the end I feel horrible, regretful, helpless, and disgusted with myself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there. I am a 15 year old boy who miraculously has managed to keep a girlfriend for nearly 8 months now. I love her very dearly.\n\nAbout two hours ago I decided to sent her a picture of myself in pajama pants just before going to bed. After she responds I say, \"Do you feel obligated to send a complimentary shirtless picture back?\". Normally, I would never say this seriously. It was just a joke, and I thought she saw that. \n\nJokingly, I push the request a bit. After that bit she isn't responding so I let her know it was all a joke. She didn't find it funny; she thought I was being real.\n\nShe has been mad and crying while I have been trying to clean after my insensitive, dick move. I was actually quite astonished to see her respond this way and this harshly. For the past hour I have been apologizing, and I have been trying to console her. Nothing has been helping.\n\nIn the end I feel horrible, regretful, helpless, and disgusted with myself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there. I am a 15 year old boy who miraculously has managed to keep a girlfriend for nearly 8 months now. I love her very dearly.\n\nAbout two hours ago I decided to sent her a picture of myself in pajama pants just before going to bed. After she responds I say, \"Do you feel obligated to send a complimentary shirtless picture back?\". Normally, I would never say this seriously. It was just a joke, and I thought she saw that. \n\nJokingly, I push the request a bit. After that bit she isn't responding so I let her know it was all a joke. She didn't find it funny; she thought I was being real.\n\nShe has been mad and crying while I have been trying to clean after my insensitive, dick move. I was actually quite astonished to see her respond this way and this harshly. For the past hour I have been apologizing, and I have been trying to console her. Nothing has been helping.\n\nIn the end I feel horrible, regretful, helpless, and disgusted with myself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Start by saying, Throw away account. I will try to be brief yet thourough and then answer any additional questions.\n\nI am 23, M, I have been friends with a girl lets say \"Amy\" for 5 years now, There has no always been strong emotions but I have always enjoyed her company and would call her one of my best and consistent friend over the last 5 years. Last year I told her I liked her, was not sure what to expect, her response: was she wasn't sure what to think because she didn't want to lose her best friend if we didn't work out. I with sadness agreed.\n\nFast forward to January 2ed, I have the same Talk, say that I still have these feelings, and want to see where they go. She gives same response about not sure cause not wanting to risk losing me as a friend, This time I grab her Hand and tell her no matter what happens in this new stage of our friendship I Promise that if it doesn't work we will always remain friends. \"IT WORKS!\" for the most part, we hold hands and go for a walk, 2 weeks later it is not un common for us to hold hands or when she comes over to watch TV/Movie we cuddle, Tonight I go in for the goodnight kiss! its successful but then we end up having a long talk about how she goes back and forth and still is afraid to risk our friendship and how that she doesn't want to keep moving forward and end up hurting me. I just don't know what to do to keep things moving forward without scaring her off. I have explained that it is worth the risk but I don't think she sees that as comfort. Any Advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Start by saying, Throw away account. I will try to be brief yet thourough and then answer any additional questions.\n\nI am 23, M, I have been friends with a girl lets say \"Amy\" for 5 years now, There has no always been strong emotions but I have always enjoyed her company and would call her one of my best and consistent friend over the last 5 years. Last year I told her I liked her, was not sure what to expect, her response: was she wasn't sure what to think because she didn't want to lose her best friend if we didn't work out. I with sadness agreed.\n\nFast forward to January 2ed, I have the same Talk, say that I still have these feelings, and want to see where they go. She gives same response about not sure cause not wanting to risk losing me as a friend, This time I grab her Hand and tell her no matter what happens in this new stage of our friendship I Promise that if it doesn't work we will always remain friends. \"IT WORKS!\" for the most part, we hold hands and go for a walk, 2 weeks later it is not un common for us to hold hands or when she comes over to watch TV/Movie we cuddle, Tonight I go in for the goodnight kiss! its successful but then we end up having a long talk about how she goes back and forth and still is afraid to risk our friendship and how that she doesn't want to keep moving forward and end up hurting me. I just don't know what to do to keep things moving forward without scaring her off. I have explained that it is worth the risk but I don't think she sees that as comfort. Any Advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (26m) am dating a (31f). We've been seeing each other for about two months now. It's clear, at least to me that we like one another and I've told her I want to move on to the next level and be in a relationship with her. Shw tells me that she's still not sure. One reason being that she wants a man who's ready to settle and succesful etc etc. I tell her that i understand and that for me its only a matter of time before i get to that part of life. We act like a couple. Do things couples do. Yet we arent an official couple.just exclusively dating. Im beginning to feel that this may be a wild goose chase. What are your thoughts? What would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (26m) am dating a (31f). We've been seeing each other for about two months now. It's clear, at least to me that we like one another and I've told her I want to move on to the next level and be in a relationship with her. Shw tells me that she's still not sure. One reason being that she wants a man who's ready to settle and succesful etc etc. I tell her that i understand and that for me its only a matter of time before i get to that part of life. We act like a couple. Do things couples do. Yet we arent an official couple.just exclusively dating. Im beginning to feel that this may be a wild goose chase. What are your thoughts? What would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (26m) am dating a (31f). We've been seeing each other for about two months now. It's clear, at least to me that we like one another and I've told her I want to move on to the next level and be in a relationship with her. Shw tells me that she's still not sure. One reason being that she wants a man who's ready to settle and succesful etc etc. I tell her that i understand and that for me its only a matter of time before i get to that part of life. We act like a couple. Do things couples do. Yet we arent an official couple.just exclusively dating. Im beginning to feel that this may be a wild goose chase. What are your thoughts? What would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got a letter in the mail saying I've been passed up for being hired for my dream job. I wanted this job for 10 damn years and now it's over. I've trained my body, mind, and soul for this job and just through a simple letter, I've been removed from that process. \n\nI was in good standing with getting hired. Passed everything with flying colors. Nailed the interview, scored good on the tests, passed my background investigation. All that stress and time I put in for this job was for nothing. \n\nWhat am I going to tell my co workers? My friends? My family? How am I going to deal with this? \n\nWhat am I going to do with my life? I've worked so hard since I was 14 to get this job so it's pretty much the only thing I'm good at. I've made so many sacrifices to get it and for nothing. \n\nI needed this job. I need to move out of my parents house. I need to pay off my debt. I can barely afford my car payment. \n\nNow what? Am I to live with my parents the rest of my life? Am I to never get my dream car? Am I to just keep my job where I only get paid minimum wage while I make the company tens of thousands? \n\nI don't know what to do. I mean my second dream job would be to work with penguins, but I don't think that's possible for me. \n\nAnyone have any advice for me? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got a letter in the mail saying I've been passed up for being hired for my dream job. I wanted this job for 10 damn years and now it's over. I've trained my body, mind, and soul for this job and just through a simple letter, I've been removed from that process. \n\nI was in good standing with getting hired. Passed everything with flying colors. Nailed the interview, scored good on the tests, passed my background investigation. All that stress and time I put in for this job was for nothing. \n\nWhat am I going to tell my co workers? My friends? My family? How am I going to deal with this? \n\nWhat am I going to do with my life? I've worked so hard since I was 14 to get this job so it's pretty much the only thing I'm good at. I've made so many sacrifices to get it and for nothing. \n\nI needed this job. I need to move out of my parents house. I need to pay off my debt. I can barely afford my car payment. \n\nNow what? Am I to live with my parents the rest of my life? Am I to never get my dream car? Am I to just keep my job where I only get paid minimum wage while I make the company tens of thousands? \n\nI don't know what to do. I mean my second dream job would be to work with penguins, but I don't think that's possible for me. \n\nAnyone have any advice for me? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm walking down the street in New York, and there's a steady stream of foot traffic going in either direction. Out of the corner of my eye, I'm watching people coming at me when I bump shoulders with a guy and hear a splat of what sounded like some kind of drink behind me. Recalling what I had previously seen, it looked to be an emaciated man carrying an old black plastic shopping bag that I had bumped shoulders with. Thinking nothing of it, I keep walking. Then I hear someone say \"excuse me\" from behind, and realize that I may have knocked the plastic bag out of the homeless-looking man's hand by mistake. Two thoughts pop into my head about what might have happened: 1) this guy is trying to scam me, and probably \"accidentally\" bumps into people and drops things all the time, hoping that they'll overcompensate him for what they've \"damaged\" 2) I genuinely knocked something out of this guy's hand. In the case of the latter scenario, my response is still going to be something like \"well, you should really carry your things away from oncoming traffic if they're that important to you,\" but I figure this homeless guy isn't the type who's going to listen to that kind of reasoning. So I ignore him. I pick up my pace to walk quickly like someone who's in a hurry, but not quickly enough that he could accuse me of trying to evade him. Then I hear \"excuse me\" again. At this point I'm thinking \"fuck, this guy is persistent, and he's definitely not the kind of person I want to get into an argument with on the street.\" I also note that I'm only one block away from the subway station, so I decide to keep my pace up and continue to ignore him. I duck into the underground pathway leading to the turnstile and I hear it again, with heightened urgency: \"excuse me.\" So I make a dash for the turnstile, swipe my card, and jump on the first train out of there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm walking down the street in New York, and there's a steady stream of foot traffic going in either direction. Out of the corner of my eye, I'm watching people coming at me when I bump shoulders with a guy and hear a splat of what sounded like some kind of drink behind me. Recalling what I had previously seen, it looked to be an emaciated man carrying an old black plastic shopping bag that I had bumped shoulders with. Thinking nothing of it, I keep walking. Then I hear someone say \"excuse me\" from behind, and realize that I may have knocked the plastic bag out of the homeless-looking man's hand by mistake. Two thoughts pop into my head about what might have happened: 1) this guy is trying to scam me, and probably \"accidentally\" bumps into people and drops things all the time, hoping that they'll overcompensate him for what they've \"damaged\" 2) I genuinely knocked something out of this guy's hand. In the case of the latter scenario, my response is still going to be something like \"well, you should really carry your things away from oncoming traffic if they're that important to you,\" but I figure this homeless guy isn't the type who's going to listen to that kind of reasoning. So I ignore him. I pick up my pace to walk quickly like someone who's in a hurry, but not quickly enough that he could accuse me of trying to evade him. Then I hear \"excuse me\" again. At this point I'm thinking \"fuck, this guy is persistent, and he's definitely not the kind of person I want to get into an argument with on the street.\" I also note that I'm only one block away from the subway station, so I decide to keep my pace up and continue to ignore him. I duck into the underground pathway leading to the turnstile and I hear it again, with heightened urgency: \"excuse me.\" So I make a dash for the turnstile, swipe my card, and jump on the first train out of there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm walking down the street in New York, and there's a steady stream of foot traffic going in either direction. Out of the corner of my eye, I'm watching people coming at me when I bump shoulders with a guy and hear a splat of what sounded like some kind of drink behind me. Recalling what I had previously seen, it looked to be an emaciated man carrying an old black plastic shopping bag that I had bumped shoulders with. Thinking nothing of it, I keep walking. Then I hear someone say \"excuse me\" from behind, and realize that I may have knocked the plastic bag out of the homeless-looking man's hand by mistake. Two thoughts pop into my head about what might have happened: 1) this guy is trying to scam me, and probably \"accidentally\" bumps into people and drops things all the time, hoping that they'll overcompensate him for what they've \"damaged\" 2) I genuinely knocked something out of this guy's hand. In the case of the latter scenario, my response is still going to be something like \"well, you should really carry your things away from oncoming traffic if they're that important to you,\" but I figure this homeless guy isn't the type who's going to listen to that kind of reasoning. So I ignore him. I pick up my pace to walk quickly like someone who's in a hurry, but not quickly enough that he could accuse me of trying to evade him. Then I hear \"excuse me\" again. At this point I'm thinking \"fuck, this guy is persistent, and he's definitely not the kind of person I want to get into an argument with on the street.\" I also note that I'm only one block away from the subway station, so I decide to keep my pace up and continue to ignore him. I duck into the underground pathway leading to the turnstile and I hear it again, with heightened urgency: \"excuse me.\" So I make a dash for the turnstile, swipe my card, and jump on the first train out of there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am her boyfriend and am [x-posting] this from /r/ihaveissues.\n\n>I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. It's been at least two years since we've broken up. He was my first love, my first time and I also had his child. We're still good friends, but I'll always want more. Is this normal? My current boyfriend gets angry about it, even though I see no way to change it. I know that I'll never get back together with my ex, but I still think that my feelings for him will always control how much of my heart I actually put into a relationship. Do I try to fix it? Make my boyfriend get over it? Give up on all love together? :P"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am her boyfriend and am [x-posting] this from /r/ihaveissues.\n\n>I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. It's been at least two years since we've broken up. He was my first love, my first time and I also had his child. We're still good friends, but I'll always want more. Is this normal? My current boyfriend gets angry about it, even though I see no way to change it. I know that I'll never get back together with my ex, but I still think that my feelings for him will always control how much of my heart I actually put into a relationship. Do I try to fix it? Make my boyfriend get over it? Give up on all love together? :P"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am her boyfriend and am [x-posting] this from /r/ihaveissues.\n\n>I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. It's been at least two years since we've broken up. He was my first love, my first time and I also had his child. We're still good friends, but I'll always want more. Is this normal? My current boyfriend gets angry about it, even though I see no way to change it. I know that I'll never get back together with my ex, but I still think that my feelings for him will always control how much of my heart I actually put into a relationship. Do I try to fix it? Make my boyfriend get over it? Give up on all love together? :P"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im new to reddit, so please excuse me if i didnt exercise proper reddit form. \n\nIve know this girl for about a year. Shes a mutual friend of my good guy friend, so i never really knew he too well. But out of the blue the other day, she texts me (i didnt have her #). Shes a pretty girl, so i was shocked that she initiated the conversation. She just got home from school and is home for the summer. \n\nNow usually its the guy who (in my experience) statrs the conversations, and texts the girl first (she keeps on texting me first everyday, i dont mind its just different from my past experiences). Now im getting a good vibe from her, so i ask her to hang out. Then she stiffs me (something about having to go to LA to see her family). Then i ask her the next day, another excuse. Then ask again, and she keeps saying \"we'l get together at some point\". So i was thinking she just was no longer intested, but she continues to text and talk to me. I just getting weird vibes from it because she hasnt came to hang out yet. Im looking for advice as to what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im new to reddit, so please excuse me if i didnt exercise proper reddit form. \n\nIve know this girl for about a year. Shes a mutual friend of my good guy friend, so i never really knew he too well. But out of the blue the other day, she texts me (i didnt have her #). Shes a pretty girl, so i was shocked that she initiated the conversation. She just got home from school and is home for the summer. \n\nNow usually its the guy who (in my experience) statrs the conversations, and texts the girl first (she keeps on texting me first everyday, i dont mind its just different from my past experiences). Now im getting a good vibe from her, so i ask her to hang out. Then she stiffs me (something about having to go to LA to see her family). Then i ask her the next day, another excuse. Then ask again, and she keeps saying \"we'l get together at some point\". So i was thinking she just was no longer intested, but she continues to text and talk to me. I just getting weird vibes from it because she hasnt came to hang out yet. Im looking for advice as to what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im new to reddit, so please excuse me if i didnt exercise proper reddit form. \n\nIve know this girl for about a year. Shes a mutual friend of my good guy friend, so i never really knew he too well. But out of the blue the other day, she texts me (i didnt have her #). Shes a pretty girl, so i was shocked that she initiated the conversation. She just got home from school and is home for the summer. \n\nNow usually its the guy who (in my experience) statrs the conversations, and texts the girl first (she keeps on texting me first everyday, i dont mind its just different from my past experiences). Now im getting a good vibe from her, so i ask her to hang out. Then she stiffs me (something about having to go to LA to see her family). Then i ask her the next day, another excuse. Then ask again, and she keeps saying \"we'l get together at some point\". So i was thinking she just was no longer intested, but she continues to text and talk to me. I just getting weird vibes from it because she hasnt came to hang out yet. Im looking for advice as to what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my male colleague was crashing at a third colleague's place, after a night out. My male colleague crashed on the couch and i was a totally wreck, had gotten to much to drink. I took the choice of crashing beside our female colleague. Nothin were supposed to happen. I kinda wake up of her sittin on top of me and is dry humpin and the next second when I have my counscious back, I have my hand down her pants and she has her hand squeezin my d*ick outside my pants. Then she is questioning me if I want to have sex. I just remember that I'm pulling away and then she leaves the bed. I never even kissed the girl. This small encounter have leaved me with a guilt-trip and anxiety level going thrue the roof.\n\nThere was never any intention or idea to have any sexuall encounter. To be honest i'm feelin a bit used. I love my girl so deeply. I am prepared to spend the rest of my life with her.\n\nI need advice from u guys. Should I tell her exactly how it was and if she might forgive me, she will have to live with the picture of me and someone else for the rest of her life. Or should I just leave it like it was, a drunken mistake that i almost was in no control of."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my male colleague was crashing at a third colleague's place, after a night out. My male colleague crashed on the couch and i was a totally wreck, had gotten to much to drink. I took the choice of crashing beside our female colleague. Nothin were supposed to happen. I kinda wake up of her sittin on top of me and is dry humpin and the next second when I have my counscious back, I have my hand down her pants and she has her hand squeezin my d*ick outside my pants. Then she is questioning me if I want to have sex. I just remember that I'm pulling away and then she leaves the bed. I never even kissed the girl. This small encounter have leaved me with a guilt-trip and anxiety level going thrue the roof.\n\nThere was never any intention or idea to have any sexuall encounter. To be honest i'm feelin a bit used. I love my girl so deeply. I am prepared to spend the rest of my life with her.\n\nI need advice from u guys. Should I tell her exactly how it was and if she might forgive me, she will have to live with the picture of me and someone else for the rest of her life. Or should I just leave it like it was, a drunken mistake that i almost was in no control of."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my male colleague was crashing at a third colleague's place, after a night out. My male colleague crashed on the couch and i was a totally wreck, had gotten to much to drink. I took the choice of crashing beside our female colleague. Nothin were supposed to happen. I kinda wake up of her sittin on top of me and is dry humpin and the next second when I have my counscious back, I have my hand down her pants and she has her hand squeezin my d*ick outside my pants. Then she is questioning me if I want to have sex. I just remember that I'm pulling away and then she leaves the bed. I never even kissed the girl. This small encounter have leaved me with a guilt-trip and anxiety level going thrue the roof.\n\nThere was never any intention or idea to have any sexuall encounter. To be honest i'm feelin a bit used. I love my girl so deeply. I am prepared to spend the rest of my life with her.\n\nI need advice from u guys. Should I tell her exactly how it was and if she might forgive me, she will have to live with the picture of me and someone else for the rest of her life. Or should I just leave it like it was, a drunken mistake that i almost was in no control of."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my male colleague was crashing at a third colleague's place, after a night out. My male colleague crashed on the couch and i was a totally wreck, had gotten to much to drink. I took the choice of crashing beside our female colleague. Nothin were supposed to happen. I kinda wake up of her sittin on top of me and is dry humpin and the next second when I have my counscious back, I have my hand down her pants and she has her hand squeezin my d*ick outside my pants. Then she is questioning me if I want to have sex. I just remember that I'm pulling away and then she leaves the bed. I never even kissed the girl. This small encounter have leaved me with a guilt-trip and anxiety level going thrue the roof.\n\nThere was never any intention or idea to have any sexuall encounter. To be honest i'm feelin a bit used. I love my girl so deeply. I am prepared to spend the rest of my life with her.\n\nI need advice from u guys. Should I tell her exactly how it was and if she might forgive me, she will have to live with the picture of me and someone else for the rest of her life. Or should I just leave it like it was, a drunken mistake that i almost was in no control of."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my male colleague was crashing at a third colleague's place, after a night out. My male colleague crashed on the couch and i was a totally wreck, had gotten to much to drink. I took the choice of crashing beside our female colleague. Nothin were supposed to happen. I kinda wake up of her sittin on top of me and is dry humpin and the next second when I have my counscious back, I have my hand down her pants and she has her hand squeezin my d*ick outside my pants. Then she is questioning me if I want to have sex. I just remember that I'm pulling away and then she leaves the bed. I never even kissed the girl. This small encounter have leaved me with a guilt-trip and anxiety level going thrue the roof.\n\nThere was never any intention or idea to have any sexuall encounter. To be honest i'm feelin a bit used. I love my girl so deeply. I am prepared to spend the rest of my life with her.\n\nI need advice from u guys. Should I tell her exactly how it was and if she might forgive me, she will have to live with the picture of me and someone else for the rest of her life. Or should I just leave it like it was, a drunken mistake that i almost was in no control of."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my male colleague was crashing at a third colleague's place, after a night out. My male colleague crashed on the couch and i was a totally wreck, had gotten to much to drink. I took the choice of crashing beside our female colleague. Nothin were supposed to happen. I kinda wake up of her sittin on top of me and is dry humpin and the next second when I have my counscious back, I have my hand down her pants and she has her hand squeezin my d*ick outside my pants. Then she is questioning me if I want to have sex. I just remember that I'm pulling away and then she leaves the bed. I never even kissed the girl. This small encounter have leaved me with a guilt-trip and anxiety level going thrue the roof.\n\nThere was never any intention or idea to have any sexuall encounter. To be honest i'm feelin a bit used. I love my girl so deeply. I am prepared to spend the rest of my life with her.\n\nI need advice from u guys. Should I tell her exactly how it was and if she might forgive me, she will have to live with the picture of me and someone else for the rest of her life. Or should I just leave it like it was, a drunken mistake that i almost was in no control of."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On my phone so there might me formatting issues.\n\n I met an international student about 3 months ago who recently graduated and was in the process of interviewing for jobs. He was pursuing me very strongly in the beginning and showed his interest in me. Then all of the sudden his texts became less frequent and would take days or weeks to respond and would ignore any text confirming any plans we had. I asked him if there's something wrong and why he wasn't talking as much and I didn't get a response, so I assumed he lost interest in me and deleted his number off of the chatting app we used to talk on.\n\nThen about a week ago he contacted me again out of the blue to say he was apologizing for not responding to me with his reasoning being that he was doing a bunch of interviews, and now that he got a job he's asking me for a second chance. Should I give him a second chance or would I be a fool to do that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On my phone so there might me formatting issues.\n\n I met an international student about 3 months ago who recently graduated and was in the process of interviewing for jobs. He was pursuing me very strongly in the beginning and showed his interest in me. Then all of the sudden his texts became less frequent and would take days or weeks to respond and would ignore any text confirming any plans we had. I asked him if there's something wrong and why he wasn't talking as much and I didn't get a response, so I assumed he lost interest in me and deleted his number off of the chatting app we used to talk on.\n\nThen about a week ago he contacted me again out of the blue to say he was apologizing for not responding to me with his reasoning being that he was doing a bunch of interviews, and now that he got a job he's asking me for a second chance. Should I give him a second chance or would I be a fool to do that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On my phone so there might me formatting issues.\n\n I met an international student about 3 months ago who recently graduated and was in the process of interviewing for jobs. He was pursuing me very strongly in the beginning and showed his interest in me. Then all of the sudden his texts became less frequent and would take days or weeks to respond and would ignore any text confirming any plans we had. I asked him if there's something wrong and why he wasn't talking as much and I didn't get a response, so I assumed he lost interest in me and deleted his number off of the chatting app we used to talk on.\n\nThen about a week ago he contacted me again out of the blue to say he was apologizing for not responding to me with his reasoning being that he was doing a bunch of interviews, and now that he got a job he's asking me for a second chance. Should I give him a second chance or would I be a fool to do that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On my phone so there might me formatting issues.\n\n I met an international student about 3 months ago who recently graduated and was in the process of interviewing for jobs. He was pursuing me very strongly in the beginning and showed his interest in me. Then all of the sudden his texts became less frequent and would take days or weeks to respond and would ignore any text confirming any plans we had. I asked him if there's something wrong and why he wasn't talking as much and I didn't get a response, so I assumed he lost interest in me and deleted his number off of the chatting app we used to talk on.\n\nThen about a week ago he contacted me again out of the blue to say he was apologizing for not responding to me with his reasoning being that he was doing a bunch of interviews, and now that he got a job he's asking me for a second chance. Should I give him a second chance or would I be a fool to do that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On my phone so there might me formatting issues.\n\n I met an international student about 3 months ago who recently graduated and was in the process of interviewing for jobs. He was pursuing me very strongly in the beginning and showed his interest in me. Then all of the sudden his texts became less frequent and would take days or weeks to respond and would ignore any text confirming any plans we had. I asked him if there's something wrong and why he wasn't talking as much and I didn't get a response, so I assumed he lost interest in me and deleted his number off of the chatting app we used to talk on.\n\nThen about a week ago he contacted me again out of the blue to say he was apologizing for not responding to me with his reasoning being that he was doing a bunch of interviews, and now that he got a job he's asking me for a second chance. Should I give him a second chance or would I be a fool to do that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On my phone so there might me formatting issues.\n\n I met an international student about 3 months ago who recently graduated and was in the process of interviewing for jobs. He was pursuing me very strongly in the beginning and showed his interest in me. Then all of the sudden his texts became less frequent and would take days or weeks to respond and would ignore any text confirming any plans we had. I asked him if there's something wrong and why he wasn't talking as much and I didn't get a response, so I assumed he lost interest in me and deleted his number off of the chatting app we used to talk on.\n\nThen about a week ago he contacted me again out of the blue to say he was apologizing for not responding to me with his reasoning being that he was doing a bunch of interviews, and now that he got a job he's asking me for a second chance. Should I give him a second chance or would I be a fool to do that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To start this off, I must say that I come from a fairly conservative home, where my parents believe that their now 20-year-old son is a saint of sorts. I have spent the last 2 years studying away from home, so naturally some self discovery and experimentation is to be expected. Recently got a contract upgrade from my cellular service provider and decided to give my mom my old phone, thinking I had deleted all things suspicious and incriminating. Little did I know that when she re-downloaded whatsapp, it would revert to my account, bringing back all my contacts, groups and conversations. She was not pleased by some of the reading material she uncovered. I never delete my chats, because ain't nobody got time for that. So she pretty much had access to every conversation I'd had in the last 2 years. Guys, a lot has happened in 2 years. None of which they were supposed to know about. A rude awakening for my mom at first. You can imagine how I was shaking with fear when she confronted me about this. Imagine your mom finding out everything you ever wanted to hide from her, in a single evening."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To start this off, I must say that I come from a fairly conservative home, where my parents believe that their now 20-year-old son is a saint of sorts. I have spent the last 2 years studying away from home, so naturally some self discovery and experimentation is to be expected. Recently got a contract upgrade from my cellular service provider and decided to give my mom my old phone, thinking I had deleted all things suspicious and incriminating. Little did I know that when she re-downloaded whatsapp, it would revert to my account, bringing back all my contacts, groups and conversations. She was not pleased by some of the reading material she uncovered. I never delete my chats, because ain't nobody got time for that. So she pretty much had access to every conversation I'd had in the last 2 years. Guys, a lot has happened in 2 years. None of which they were supposed to know about. A rude awakening for my mom at first. You can imagine how I was shaking with fear when she confronted me about this. Imagine your mom finding out everything you ever wanted to hide from her, in a single evening."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To start this off, I must say that I come from a fairly conservative home, where my parents believe that their now 20-year-old son is a saint of sorts. I have spent the last 2 years studying away from home, so naturally some self discovery and experimentation is to be expected. Recently got a contract upgrade from my cellular service provider and decided to give my mom my old phone, thinking I had deleted all things suspicious and incriminating. Little did I know that when she re-downloaded whatsapp, it would revert to my account, bringing back all my contacts, groups and conversations. She was not pleased by some of the reading material she uncovered. I never delete my chats, because ain't nobody got time for that. So she pretty much had access to every conversation I'd had in the last 2 years. Guys, a lot has happened in 2 years. None of which they were supposed to know about. A rude awakening for my mom at first. You can imagine how I was shaking with fear when she confronted me about this. Imagine your mom finding out everything you ever wanted to hide from her, in a single evening."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To start this off, I must say that I come from a fairly conservative home, where my parents believe that their now 20-year-old son is a saint of sorts. I have spent the last 2 years studying away from home, so naturally some self discovery and experimentation is to be expected. Recently got a contract upgrade from my cellular service provider and decided to give my mom my old phone, thinking I had deleted all things suspicious and incriminating. Little did I know that when she re-downloaded whatsapp, it would revert to my account, bringing back all my contacts, groups and conversations. She was not pleased by some of the reading material she uncovered. I never delete my chats, because ain't nobody got time for that. So she pretty much had access to every conversation I'd had in the last 2 years. Guys, a lot has happened in 2 years. None of which they were supposed to know about. A rude awakening for my mom at first. You can imagine how I was shaking with fear when she confronted me about this. Imagine your mom finding out everything you ever wanted to hide from her, in a single evening."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I found a bottle of fish oil supplements.\n\nI was curious as to what they were because I had never seen them in the form they came in. They were in little oil filled pearls that are incredibly fun to try and fuck with. I'm a sucker for anything that is squishy like Laundry detergent packs.\n\nSo naturally, I tried to pop it. BAD. FUCKING. IDEA.\n\nI finally get it to pop and a little jet of oil shoots out. On my face.\n\nThe smell hits me like a truck. This overwhelming fishy odor, like someone left a halibut out to dry in the sun and forgot about it. Immediately, I can feel the smell bringing on nausea. I run to the toilet, but to no avail. I throw up right outside the bathroom doorway. \n\nI had just come back home from dinner so there was quite a lot to vomit. I tried to inch closer to the porcelain refuge of the toilet, but the force with which my body is spewing vomit makes it hard for me to make it. \n\nI slump over on my bathroom floor covered in vomit and fish oil. By this point, the smell has triggered an extremely painful migraine. \n\nMy only course of action was to clean myself and then the house. \n\nI hop in the shower and desperately try to wash the stink off my face, but it is no use. It's seeped in. I literally cannot rid the fish smell with any amount of soap and water. It's like I was sprayed by a skunk. A really fishy skunk.\n\nSo I re-dressed myself and cleaned the trail of vomit off the floor. The spray pattern of my spew spread across the floor like a freshly wet crime scene. Slippery. Noxious. Ugh. It still makes me sick to remember the smell."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I found a bottle of fish oil supplements.\n\nI was curious as to what they were because I had never seen them in the form they came in. They were in little oil filled pearls that are incredibly fun to try and fuck with. I'm a sucker for anything that is squishy like Laundry detergent packs.\n\nSo naturally, I tried to pop it. BAD. FUCKING. IDEA.\n\nI finally get it to pop and a little jet of oil shoots out. On my face.\n\nThe smell hits me like a truck. This overwhelming fishy odor, like someone left a halibut out to dry in the sun and forgot about it. Immediately, I can feel the smell bringing on nausea. I run to the toilet, but to no avail. I throw up right outside the bathroom doorway. \n\nI had just come back home from dinner so there was quite a lot to vomit. I tried to inch closer to the porcelain refuge of the toilet, but the force with which my body is spewing vomit makes it hard for me to make it. \n\nI slump over on my bathroom floor covered in vomit and fish oil. By this point, the smell has triggered an extremely painful migraine. \n\nMy only course of action was to clean myself and then the house. \n\nI hop in the shower and desperately try to wash the stink off my face, but it is no use. It's seeped in. I literally cannot rid the fish smell with any amount of soap and water. It's like I was sprayed by a skunk. A really fishy skunk.\n\nSo I re-dressed myself and cleaned the trail of vomit off the floor. The spray pattern of my spew spread across the floor like a freshly wet crime scene. Slippery. Noxious. Ugh. It still makes me sick to remember the smell."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating this girl for about 7-8 months. We have had some conversations about how neither of us is looking for anything too \"serious.\" I just got out of a very long term relationship about 6 months before I met her, and have had difficulty with relationships since then (ex was mentally abusive and relationship was terrible). \n\nI try to be a good BF, take her out, make her feel special, and am generally a nice guy. She means a lot to me, is one of the sweetest people I have ever met and is a really genuine, caring person. \n\nLong story short, she recently told me she loves me. I was sort of dreading this moment, responded sort of awkwardly of course with a \"thanks\" (not joking, I said thanks). Its not that I don't care about her, I just don't feel that emotion towards her and don't really expect to. I am not a very emotional guy, and have only told one person before that I love them. \n\nTo my surprise, she just said \"I know\" when I told her this. She wasn't expecting me to say it back. She said she doesn't mind at all that she loves me and I don't love her, because she knows how I am. Not gonna lie, this blew my mind. Now I'm struggling with the feeling that I am somehow wronging her, or taking advantage of her, because she is more invested than me in this relationship. \n\nI don't want to react wrongly, but am I crazy for feeling that its just wrong for both parties to a relationship to know that one loves the other, but the second doesn't love back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating this girl for about 7-8 months. We have had some conversations about how neither of us is looking for anything too \"serious.\" I just got out of a very long term relationship about 6 months before I met her, and have had difficulty with relationships since then (ex was mentally abusive and relationship was terrible). \n\nI try to be a good BF, take her out, make her feel special, and am generally a nice guy. She means a lot to me, is one of the sweetest people I have ever met and is a really genuine, caring person. \n\nLong story short, she recently told me she loves me. I was sort of dreading this moment, responded sort of awkwardly of course with a \"thanks\" (not joking, I said thanks). Its not that I don't care about her, I just don't feel that emotion towards her and don't really expect to. I am not a very emotional guy, and have only told one person before that I love them. \n\nTo my surprise, she just said \"I know\" when I told her this. She wasn't expecting me to say it back. She said she doesn't mind at all that she loves me and I don't love her, because she knows how I am. Not gonna lie, this blew my mind. Now I'm struggling with the feeling that I am somehow wronging her, or taking advantage of her, because she is more invested than me in this relationship. \n\nI don't want to react wrongly, but am I crazy for feeling that its just wrong for both parties to a relationship to know that one loves the other, but the second doesn't love back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating this girl for about 7-8 months. We have had some conversations about how neither of us is looking for anything too \"serious.\" I just got out of a very long term relationship about 6 months before I met her, and have had difficulty with relationships since then (ex was mentally abusive and relationship was terrible). \n\nI try to be a good BF, take her out, make her feel special, and am generally a nice guy. She means a lot to me, is one of the sweetest people I have ever met and is a really genuine, caring person. \n\nLong story short, she recently told me she loves me. I was sort of dreading this moment, responded sort of awkwardly of course with a \"thanks\" (not joking, I said thanks). Its not that I don't care about her, I just don't feel that emotion towards her and don't really expect to. I am not a very emotional guy, and have only told one person before that I love them. \n\nTo my surprise, she just said \"I know\" when I told her this. She wasn't expecting me to say it back. She said she doesn't mind at all that she loves me and I don't love her, because she knows how I am. Not gonna lie, this blew my mind. Now I'm struggling with the feeling that I am somehow wronging her, or taking advantage of her, because she is more invested than me in this relationship. \n\nI don't want to react wrongly, but am I crazy for feeling that its just wrong for both parties to a relationship to know that one loves the other, but the second doesn't love back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating this girl for about 7-8 months. We have had some conversations about how neither of us is looking for anything too \"serious.\" I just got out of a very long term relationship about 6 months before I met her, and have had difficulty with relationships since then (ex was mentally abusive and relationship was terrible). \n\nI try to be a good BF, take her out, make her feel special, and am generally a nice guy. She means a lot to me, is one of the sweetest people I have ever met and is a really genuine, caring person. \n\nLong story short, she recently told me she loves me. I was sort of dreading this moment, responded sort of awkwardly of course with a \"thanks\" (not joking, I said thanks). Its not that I don't care about her, I just don't feel that emotion towards her and don't really expect to. I am not a very emotional guy, and have only told one person before that I love them. \n\nTo my surprise, she just said \"I know\" when I told her this. She wasn't expecting me to say it back. She said she doesn't mind at all that she loves me and I don't love her, because she knows how I am. Not gonna lie, this blew my mind. Now I'm struggling with the feeling that I am somehow wronging her, or taking advantage of her, because she is more invested than me in this relationship. \n\nI don't want to react wrongly, but am I crazy for feeling that its just wrong for both parties to a relationship to know that one loves the other, but the second doesn't love back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating this girl for about 7-8 months. We have had some conversations about how neither of us is looking for anything too \"serious.\" I just got out of a very long term relationship about 6 months before I met her, and have had difficulty with relationships since then (ex was mentally abusive and relationship was terrible). \n\nI try to be a good BF, take her out, make her feel special, and am generally a nice guy. She means a lot to me, is one of the sweetest people I have ever met and is a really genuine, caring person. \n\nLong story short, she recently told me she loves me. I was sort of dreading this moment, responded sort of awkwardly of course with a \"thanks\" (not joking, I said thanks). Its not that I don't care about her, I just don't feel that emotion towards her and don't really expect to. I am not a very emotional guy, and have only told one person before that I love them. \n\nTo my surprise, she just said \"I know\" when I told her this. She wasn't expecting me to say it back. She said she doesn't mind at all that she loves me and I don't love her, because she knows how I am. Not gonna lie, this blew my mind. Now I'm struggling with the feeling that I am somehow wronging her, or taking advantage of her, because she is more invested than me in this relationship. \n\nI don't want to react wrongly, but am I crazy for feeling that its just wrong for both parties to a relationship to know that one loves the other, but the second doesn't love back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating this girl for about 7-8 months. We have had some conversations about how neither of us is looking for anything too \"serious.\" I just got out of a very long term relationship about 6 months before I met her, and have had difficulty with relationships since then (ex was mentally abusive and relationship was terrible). \n\nI try to be a good BF, take her out, make her feel special, and am generally a nice guy. She means a lot to me, is one of the sweetest people I have ever met and is a really genuine, caring person. \n\nLong story short, she recently told me she loves me. I was sort of dreading this moment, responded sort of awkwardly of course with a \"thanks\" (not joking, I said thanks). Its not that I don't care about her, I just don't feel that emotion towards her and don't really expect to. I am not a very emotional guy, and have only told one person before that I love them. \n\nTo my surprise, she just said \"I know\" when I told her this. She wasn't expecting me to say it back. She said she doesn't mind at all that she loves me and I don't love her, because she knows how I am. Not gonna lie, this blew my mind. Now I'm struggling with the feeling that I am somehow wronging her, or taking advantage of her, because she is more invested than me in this relationship. \n\nI don't want to react wrongly, but am I crazy for feeling that its just wrong for both parties to a relationship to know that one loves the other, but the second doesn't love back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm using a throwaway because my girl will go on reddit sometimes. Title pretty much says it all.\n\nWe've been together for about a year and a half. The first year was great, we lived close to each other and spent most of our time together. Then she had to move with her parents ten hours away from everything she's ever known. So we've spent the last six months long distance. She started school and everything was going well for the most part. We've had our issues here and there but we've mostly worked through them. Things have still been pretty good despite our random arguments. I would say we're both a little over protective of one another, probably even more so now that we're about 500 miles apart. And here's where I need advice. She recently started talking with one of the guys in her class and they want to get together and work on a take-home test with each other. Because of my past, I've had some trust issues and this situation seems all too familiar with me. Previous ex went and \"studied\" which really was just her studying the guys dick. So because of this, I'm feeling uncomfortable with my girlfriend going and studying with this new guy she met.\n\nI understand deep down that my fears are irrational and its not fair to her to compare her to my ex. I want to be okay and be care-free about who my girlfriend hangs out with and stuff but I'm just uncomfortable with it all. It's really consumed my thoughts for the past few days since she told me about what she was going to do. I feel that if she was going to study with a girl, I'd be perfectly fine with it, but since its a guy, I feel uncomfortable. I would never tell her to not go and study with him because I don't want to be that guy and that would probably only push her away. So how do I overcome these thoughts about what could happen? How do you be comfortable with this? I feel that these are probably my insecurities talking, so what do you do to become more secure?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm using a throwaway because my girl will go on reddit sometimes. Title pretty much says it all.\n\nWe've been together for about a year and a half. The first year was great, we lived close to each other and spent most of our time together. Then she had to move with her parents ten hours away from everything she's ever known. So we've spent the last six months long distance. She started school and everything was going well for the most part. We've had our issues here and there but we've mostly worked through them. Things have still been pretty good despite our random arguments. I would say we're both a little over protective of one another, probably even more so now that we're about 500 miles apart. And here's where I need advice. She recently started talking with one of the guys in her class and they want to get together and work on a take-home test with each other. Because of my past, I've had some trust issues and this situation seems all too familiar with me. Previous ex went and \"studied\" which really was just her studying the guys dick. So because of this, I'm feeling uncomfortable with my girlfriend going and studying with this new guy she met.\n\nI understand deep down that my fears are irrational and its not fair to her to compare her to my ex. I want to be okay and be care-free about who my girlfriend hangs out with and stuff but I'm just uncomfortable with it all. It's really consumed my thoughts for the past few days since she told me about what she was going to do. I feel that if she was going to study with a girl, I'd be perfectly fine with it, but since its a guy, I feel uncomfortable. I would never tell her to not go and study with him because I don't want to be that guy and that would probably only push her away. So how do I overcome these thoughts about what could happen? How do you be comfortable with this? I feel that these are probably my insecurities talking, so what do you do to become more secure?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm using a throwaway because my girl will go on reddit sometimes. Title pretty much says it all.\n\nWe've been together for about a year and a half. The first year was great, we lived close to each other and spent most of our time together. Then she had to move with her parents ten hours away from everything she's ever known. So we've spent the last six months long distance. She started school and everything was going well for the most part. We've had our issues here and there but we've mostly worked through them. Things have still been pretty good despite our random arguments. I would say we're both a little over protective of one another, probably even more so now that we're about 500 miles apart. And here's where I need advice. She recently started talking with one of the guys in her class and they want to get together and work on a take-home test with each other. Because of my past, I've had some trust issues and this situation seems all too familiar with me. Previous ex went and \"studied\" which really was just her studying the guys dick. So because of this, I'm feeling uncomfortable with my girlfriend going and studying with this new guy she met.\n\nI understand deep down that my fears are irrational and its not fair to her to compare her to my ex. I want to be okay and be care-free about who my girlfriend hangs out with and stuff but I'm just uncomfortable with it all. It's really consumed my thoughts for the past few days since she told me about what she was going to do. I feel that if she was going to study with a girl, I'd be perfectly fine with it, but since its a guy, I feel uncomfortable. I would never tell her to not go and study with him because I don't want to be that guy and that would probably only push her away. So how do I overcome these thoughts about what could happen? How do you be comfortable with this? I feel that these are probably my insecurities talking, so what do you do to become more secure?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We had an great first date, she was really easy to talk to, and we briefly made out before she left. She seems like like an awesome girl. \n\nI learned she was a huge hockey fan, so I asked her a few days afterwards if she wanted to go to a game with me. Her response: *\"You are so sweet, but I feel really bad as I definitely wouldn't want you to buy my tickets! I would love to go see a game. I'm happy to do anything, it doesn't have to be as pricey!\"*\n\nI told her that of course I would pay for the tickets since I had invited her to the game and that I was happy to buy them. But she responded saying she still wanted to go out but she couldn't accept my offer to buy the tickets. (We are talking about $50 tickets here, nothing too outrageous).\n\nWe agreed to watch the game on TV instead together. *Should I surprise her and buy the tickets anyways? Or do you think she actually doesn't want to go like she says?* \n\nAlso, she is going to study abroad in January (she is still in college, I graduated), is it even ok to be going out with her?\nThank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We had an great first date, she was really easy to talk to, and we briefly made out before she left. She seems like like an awesome girl. \n\nI learned she was a huge hockey fan, so I asked her a few days afterwards if she wanted to go to a game with me. Her response: *\"You are so sweet, but I feel really bad as I definitely wouldn't want you to buy my tickets! I would love to go see a game. I'm happy to do anything, it doesn't have to be as pricey!\"*\n\nI told her that of course I would pay for the tickets since I had invited her to the game and that I was happy to buy them. But she responded saying she still wanted to go out but she couldn't accept my offer to buy the tickets. (We are talking about $50 tickets here, nothing too outrageous).\n\nWe agreed to watch the game on TV instead together. *Should I surprise her and buy the tickets anyways? Or do you think she actually doesn't want to go like she says?* \n\nAlso, she is going to study abroad in January (she is still in college, I graduated), is it even ok to be going out with her?\nThank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We had an great first date, she was really easy to talk to, and we briefly made out before she left. She seems like like an awesome girl. \n\nI learned she was a huge hockey fan, so I asked her a few days afterwards if she wanted to go to a game with me. Her response: *\"You are so sweet, but I feel really bad as I definitely wouldn't want you to buy my tickets! I would love to go see a game. I'm happy to do anything, it doesn't have to be as pricey!\"*\n\nI told her that of course I would pay for the tickets since I had invited her to the game and that I was happy to buy them. But she responded saying she still wanted to go out but she couldn't accept my offer to buy the tickets. (We are talking about $50 tickets here, nothing too outrageous).\n\nWe agreed to watch the game on TV instead together. *Should I surprise her and buy the tickets anyways? Or do you think she actually doesn't want to go like she says?* \n\nAlso, she is going to study abroad in January (she is still in college, I graduated), is it even ok to be going out with her?\nThank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 32 m 25 f of 1 year\n\nI feel like the gf disagrees with me just for the sake of arguing lol it happens so much that its kinda funny\n\nany way, this guy at her work has been sexually harassing her. lets say that she works at Ross. she told the managers and i guess it stopped. he has been harassing some of the other girls. i guess he has been crude with them. he told my gf that he flat out wanted to * her. he has pulled out a radio out of back pocket. gf felt uncomfortable.\n\ni told the gf that i will write to the headquarters about his behavior and i hope he gets fired. she said no that he shouldnt get fired because the economy is bad and it sucks not having a job. i told her yeah but he can work somewhere else, not just at your workplace.\n\nshe disagreed and said it doesnt matter if he works there, as long as they dont work the same shifts. then i just said yeah but hes harassing the girls that work there. he should be fired from Ross. this went on for about 15 minutes. back and forth, pretty ridiculous.\n\nwas this even worth arguing? couldnt the gf just agree that hes a creep and he doesnt belong there?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 32 m 25 f of 1 year\n\nI feel like the gf disagrees with me just for the sake of arguing lol it happens so much that its kinda funny\n\nany way, this guy at her work has been sexually harassing her. lets say that she works at Ross. she told the managers and i guess it stopped. he has been harassing some of the other girls. i guess he has been crude with them. he told my gf that he flat out wanted to * her. he has pulled out a radio out of back pocket. gf felt uncomfortable.\n\ni told the gf that i will write to the headquarters about his behavior and i hope he gets fired. she said no that he shouldnt get fired because the economy is bad and it sucks not having a job. i told her yeah but he can work somewhere else, not just at your workplace.\n\nshe disagreed and said it doesnt matter if he works there, as long as they dont work the same shifts. then i just said yeah but hes harassing the girls that work there. he should be fired from Ross. this went on for about 15 minutes. back and forth, pretty ridiculous.\n\nwas this even worth arguing? couldnt the gf just agree that hes a creep and he doesnt belong there?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 32 m 25 f of 1 year\n\nI feel like the gf disagrees with me just for the sake of arguing lol it happens so much that its kinda funny\n\nany way, this guy at her work has been sexually harassing her. lets say that she works at Ross. she told the managers and i guess it stopped. he has been harassing some of the other girls. i guess he has been crude with them. he told my gf that he flat out wanted to * her. he has pulled out a radio out of back pocket. gf felt uncomfortable.\n\ni told the gf that i will write to the headquarters about his behavior and i hope he gets fired. she said no that he shouldnt get fired because the economy is bad and it sucks not having a job. i told her yeah but he can work somewhere else, not just at your workplace.\n\nshe disagreed and said it doesnt matter if he works there, as long as they dont work the same shifts. then i just said yeah but hes harassing the girls that work there. he should be fired from Ross. this went on for about 15 minutes. back and forth, pretty ridiculous.\n\nwas this even worth arguing? couldnt the gf just agree that hes a creep and he doesnt belong there?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 32 m 25 f of 1 year\n\nI feel like the gf disagrees with me just for the sake of arguing lol it happens so much that its kinda funny\n\nany way, this guy at her work has been sexually harassing her. lets say that she works at Ross. she told the managers and i guess it stopped. he has been harassing some of the other girls. i guess he has been crude with them. he told my gf that he flat out wanted to * her. he has pulled out a radio out of back pocket. gf felt uncomfortable.\n\ni told the gf that i will write to the headquarters about his behavior and i hope he gets fired. she said no that he shouldnt get fired because the economy is bad and it sucks not having a job. i told her yeah but he can work somewhere else, not just at your workplace.\n\nshe disagreed and said it doesnt matter if he works there, as long as they dont work the same shifts. then i just said yeah but hes harassing the girls that work there. he should be fired from Ross. this went on for about 15 minutes. back and forth, pretty ridiculous.\n\nwas this even worth arguing? couldnt the gf just agree that hes a creep and he doesnt belong there?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 32 m 25 f of 1 year\n\nI feel like the gf disagrees with me just for the sake of arguing lol it happens so much that its kinda funny\n\nany way, this guy at her work has been sexually harassing her. lets say that she works at Ross. she told the managers and i guess it stopped. he has been harassing some of the other girls. i guess he has been crude with them. he told my gf that he flat out wanted to * her. he has pulled out a radio out of back pocket. gf felt uncomfortable.\n\ni told the gf that i will write to the headquarters about his behavior and i hope he gets fired. she said no that he shouldnt get fired because the economy is bad and it sucks not having a job. i told her yeah but he can work somewhere else, not just at your workplace.\n\nshe disagreed and said it doesnt matter if he works there, as long as they dont work the same shifts. then i just said yeah but hes harassing the girls that work there. he should be fired from Ross. this went on for about 15 minutes. back and forth, pretty ridiculous.\n\nwas this even worth arguing? couldnt the gf just agree that hes a creep and he doesnt belong there?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 32 m 25 f of 1 year\n\nI feel like the gf disagrees with me just for the sake of arguing lol it happens so much that its kinda funny\n\nany way, this guy at her work has been sexually harassing her. lets say that she works at Ross. she told the managers and i guess it stopped. he has been harassing some of the other girls. i guess he has been crude with them. he told my gf that he flat out wanted to * her. he has pulled out a radio out of back pocket. gf felt uncomfortable.\n\ni told the gf that i will write to the headquarters about his behavior and i hope he gets fired. she said no that he shouldnt get fired because the economy is bad and it sucks not having a job. i told her yeah but he can work somewhere else, not just at your workplace.\n\nshe disagreed and said it doesnt matter if he works there, as long as they dont work the same shifts. then i just said yeah but hes harassing the girls that work there. he should be fired from Ross. this went on for about 15 minutes. back and forth, pretty ridiculous.\n\nwas this even worth arguing? couldnt the gf just agree that hes a creep and he doesnt belong there?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick run down of the relationship:\n\nWhirlwind romance and 6 months later Married young (20 and 19 respectively), together for 14 years, 2 kids over the course of it. In the end a number of issues ended the relationship, to begin with my own inadequacies and addictions, but after the separation thinking about it i came to terms that maybe neither of us were overly happy. 3 days after the separation she asked me back, and i refused, saying we had more issues to work through.\n\nFor a long time after this i begged and pleaded and did everything i could to get us back together, but she needed to \"evaluate her feelings\", as she for a long time felt nothing towards me. A few weeks ago she requested i cut all non-essential contact (so only discussions about kid arrangements etc were to take place). Since then i have taken steps to survive, removing many itmes around my home that reminded me of \"us\", removing my wedding ring, ive had a sexual experience with someone else (nothing major and no harm done on either side, were both aware of the current situation) and been on my first date in 15 years.\n\nAfter a recent meet up with my wife, she confessed a number of feelings, such as jealousy, missing me, her heart wants me but her head says its a bad idea etc. The only feelings i'm experiencing are pity for how shes currently doing, and exasperation at how messed around im feeling with her off again-on again contact and physical/mental affection (often not both at the same time).\n\nIs this normal? am i going through a phase where if i tell her i dont feel anything it could change in 2 weeks and by then it will be too late? Or am i finally looking at moving my life on past this relationship?\nShould i be open about my feelings and experiences (we made a clause on breakup, she didnt want to know anything i did with other people while we were separated, and told me to lie if i had done anything) or would that just end everything, and if it did is that for the best?\n\nIf someone could just live my life for me for a bit and give it back in a few months that would be grand :D"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick run down of the relationship:\n\nWhirlwind romance and 6 months later Married young (20 and 19 respectively), together for 14 years, 2 kids over the course of it. In the end a number of issues ended the relationship, to begin with my own inadequacies and addictions, but after the separation thinking about it i came to terms that maybe neither of us were overly happy. 3 days after the separation she asked me back, and i refused, saying we had more issues to work through.\n\nFor a long time after this i begged and pleaded and did everything i could to get us back together, but she needed to \"evaluate her feelings\", as she for a long time felt nothing towards me. A few weeks ago she requested i cut all non-essential contact (so only discussions about kid arrangements etc were to take place). Since then i have taken steps to survive, removing many itmes around my home that reminded me of \"us\", removing my wedding ring, ive had a sexual experience with someone else (nothing major and no harm done on either side, were both aware of the current situation) and been on my first date in 15 years.\n\nAfter a recent meet up with my wife, she confessed a number of feelings, such as jealousy, missing me, her heart wants me but her head says its a bad idea etc. The only feelings i'm experiencing are pity for how shes currently doing, and exasperation at how messed around im feeling with her off again-on again contact and physical/mental affection (often not both at the same time).\n\nIs this normal? am i going through a phase where if i tell her i dont feel anything it could change in 2 weeks and by then it will be too late? Or am i finally looking at moving my life on past this relationship?\nShould i be open about my feelings and experiences (we made a clause on breakup, she didnt want to know anything i did with other people while we were separated, and told me to lie if i had done anything) or would that just end everything, and if it did is that for the best?\n\nIf someone could just live my life for me for a bit and give it back in a few months that would be grand :D"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick run down of the relationship:\n\nWhirlwind romance and 6 months later Married young (20 and 19 respectively), together for 14 years, 2 kids over the course of it. In the end a number of issues ended the relationship, to begin with my own inadequacies and addictions, but after the separation thinking about it i came to terms that maybe neither of us were overly happy. 3 days after the separation she asked me back, and i refused, saying we had more issues to work through.\n\nFor a long time after this i begged and pleaded and did everything i could to get us back together, but she needed to \"evaluate her feelings\", as she for a long time felt nothing towards me. A few weeks ago she requested i cut all non-essential contact (so only discussions about kid arrangements etc were to take place). Since then i have taken steps to survive, removing many itmes around my home that reminded me of \"us\", removing my wedding ring, ive had a sexual experience with someone else (nothing major and no harm done on either side, were both aware of the current situation) and been on my first date in 15 years.\n\nAfter a recent meet up with my wife, she confessed a number of feelings, such as jealousy, missing me, her heart wants me but her head says its a bad idea etc. The only feelings i'm experiencing are pity for how shes currently doing, and exasperation at how messed around im feeling with her off again-on again contact and physical/mental affection (often not both at the same time).\n\nIs this normal? am i going through a phase where if i tell her i dont feel anything it could change in 2 weeks and by then it will be too late? Or am i finally looking at moving my life on past this relationship?\nShould i be open about my feelings and experiences (we made a clause on breakup, she didnt want to know anything i did with other people while we were separated, and told me to lie if i had done anything) or would that just end everything, and if it did is that for the best?\n\nIf someone could just live my life for me for a bit and give it back in a few months that would be grand :D"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Together for 6 months. We both live with our parents.\n\nI come over to his place every weekend. My parents are conservative and wouldn't allow me to bring a guy over. We usually spend the night grabbing or making dinner, watch Netflix, then have sex.\n\nSometimes, however, his sister will be around and I'll chat up with her for a bit. Meanwhile, bf waits impatiently on his phone looking upset.\n\nOther times, I might get caught up talking with his family. Or I'd have to do homework.\n\nI'd ask him about it, and he'll say he wanted to spend his weekend hanging out with me instead of waiting on me. I'd tell him if he can make other plans, he should. I don't want to get in the way with him spending time with his friends.\n\nStill, he'd say he'd rather spend time with me.\n\nI like him, but I feel like he's starting to get clingy. We already see each other every day as we have classes together. I'm thinking of spending less time with him and not coming over as often."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Together for 6 months. We both live with our parents.\n\nI come over to his place every weekend. My parents are conservative and wouldn't allow me to bring a guy over. We usually spend the night grabbing or making dinner, watch Netflix, then have sex.\n\nSometimes, however, his sister will be around and I'll chat up with her for a bit. Meanwhile, bf waits impatiently on his phone looking upset.\n\nOther times, I might get caught up talking with his family. Or I'd have to do homework.\n\nI'd ask him about it, and he'll say he wanted to spend his weekend hanging out with me instead of waiting on me. I'd tell him if he can make other plans, he should. I don't want to get in the way with him spending time with his friends.\n\nStill, he'd say he'd rather spend time with me.\n\nI like him, but I feel like he's starting to get clingy. We already see each other every day as we have classes together. I'm thinking of spending less time with him and not coming over as often."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Together for 6 months. We both live with our parents.\n\nI come over to his place every weekend. My parents are conservative and wouldn't allow me to bring a guy over. We usually spend the night grabbing or making dinner, watch Netflix, then have sex.\n\nSometimes, however, his sister will be around and I'll chat up with her for a bit. Meanwhile, bf waits impatiently on his phone looking upset.\n\nOther times, I might get caught up talking with his family. Or I'd have to do homework.\n\nI'd ask him about it, and he'll say he wanted to spend his weekend hanging out with me instead of waiting on me. I'd tell him if he can make other plans, he should. I don't want to get in the way with him spending time with his friends.\n\nStill, he'd say he'd rather spend time with me.\n\nI like him, but I feel like he's starting to get clingy. We already see each other every day as we have classes together. I'm thinking of spending less time with him and not coming over as often."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So first a little bit of backstory to put things into context: I recently started university and got along well with a girl. I subsequently asked her out for dinner to which she accepted. It wasn't explicitly mentioned that it was a date but I guess I assumed it was implied which probably was a bad idea. The \"date\" went extremely well and I did have a wonderful time with her and although I really do like her, I get the impression it's one sided.\n\nDuring the date, I told her that I considered this a date and whatnot and well I feel like I've put my foot in my mouth. How do I now tell her that I don't really care what happens and I would rather keep her as a friend than be awkward around each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So first a little bit of backstory to put things into context: I recently started university and got along well with a girl. I subsequently asked her out for dinner to which she accepted. It wasn't explicitly mentioned that it was a date but I guess I assumed it was implied which probably was a bad idea. The \"date\" went extremely well and I did have a wonderful time with her and although I really do like her, I get the impression it's one sided.\n\nDuring the date, I told her that I considered this a date and whatnot and well I feel like I've put my foot in my mouth. How do I now tell her that I don't really care what happens and I would rather keep her as a friend than be awkward around each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So first a little bit of backstory to put things into context: I recently started university and got along well with a girl. I subsequently asked her out for dinner to which she accepted. It wasn't explicitly mentioned that it was a date but I guess I assumed it was implied which probably was a bad idea. The \"date\" went extremely well and I did have a wonderful time with her and although I really do like her, I get the impression it's one sided.\n\nDuring the date, I told her that I considered this a date and whatnot and well I feel like I've put my foot in my mouth. How do I now tell her that I don't really care what happens and I would rather keep her as a friend than be awkward around each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So first a little bit of backstory to put things into context: I recently started university and got along well with a girl. I subsequently asked her out for dinner to which she accepted. It wasn't explicitly mentioned that it was a date but I guess I assumed it was implied which probably was a bad idea. The \"date\" went extremely well and I did have a wonderful time with her and although I really do like her, I get the impression it's one sided.\n\nDuring the date, I told her that I considered this a date and whatnot and well I feel like I've put my foot in my mouth. How do I now tell her that I don't really care what happens and I would rather keep her as a friend than be awkward around each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So first a little bit of backstory to put things into context: I recently started university and got along well with a girl. I subsequently asked her out for dinner to which she accepted. It wasn't explicitly mentioned that it was a date but I guess I assumed it was implied which probably was a bad idea. The \"date\" went extremely well and I did have a wonderful time with her and although I really do like her, I get the impression it's one sided.\n\nDuring the date, I told her that I considered this a date and whatnot and well I feel like I've put my foot in my mouth. How do I now tell her that I don't really care what happens and I would rather keep her as a friend than be awkward around each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So first a little bit of backstory to put things into context: I recently started university and got along well with a girl. I subsequently asked her out for dinner to which she accepted. It wasn't explicitly mentioned that it was a date but I guess I assumed it was implied which probably was a bad idea. The \"date\" went extremely well and I did have a wonderful time with her and although I really do like her, I get the impression it's one sided.\n\nDuring the date, I told her that I considered this a date and whatnot and well I feel like I've put my foot in my mouth. How do I now tell her that I don't really care what happens and I would rather keep her as a friend than be awkward around each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title. First off let me explain, this isn't about me saying she has no right to talk to them, she can talk to whoever she pleases. This is mostly about me.\n\nSo I don't know this through snooping or anything like that, I know because it's so out in the open in our relationship. We've been dating for a year and I know she has no desire to cheat on me. We have a great relationship and live together. Very few arguments or issues, we are generally a happy couple. I often keep issues like this bottled and to myself, most people find insecurity and lack of confidence unattractive, so I don't show it. However it's eating away at me and I don't know why, I can't shake it from my mind.\n\nI recently came to the logical deduction that a friend that she speaks with regularly used to be fuck buddies with her, and that revelation is making me uncomfortable, despite the fact that there is 0 reason to be upset or think something is going on. There's also other dudes who message her regularly, but it's completely harmless (she's shown me the texts)\n\nI know people are capable to forming friendships past sex but at the same time I can't shake these feelings of insecurity from my head. I don't know what to do or how to change how I feel, or come to terms with it and get over it. I don't want to break up, I want to work on dealing with my feelings, but i have no idea how to approach this. I feel like bringing it up with her is a bad idea, as it won't change anything and will make me look like a control freak and insecure, which i'd prefer not to do.\n\nI want to feel confident about it all and have trust in our relationship. I feel pathetic for feeling this way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title. First off let me explain, this isn't about me saying she has no right to talk to them, she can talk to whoever she pleases. This is mostly about me.\n\nSo I don't know this through snooping or anything like that, I know because it's so out in the open in our relationship. We've been dating for a year and I know she has no desire to cheat on me. We have a great relationship and live together. Very few arguments or issues, we are generally a happy couple. I often keep issues like this bottled and to myself, most people find insecurity and lack of confidence unattractive, so I don't show it. However it's eating away at me and I don't know why, I can't shake it from my mind.\n\nI recently came to the logical deduction that a friend that she speaks with regularly used to be fuck buddies with her, and that revelation is making me uncomfortable, despite the fact that there is 0 reason to be upset or think something is going on. There's also other dudes who message her regularly, but it's completely harmless (she's shown me the texts)\n\nI know people are capable to forming friendships past sex but at the same time I can't shake these feelings of insecurity from my head. I don't know what to do or how to change how I feel, or come to terms with it and get over it. I don't want to break up, I want to work on dealing with my feelings, but i have no idea how to approach this. I feel like bringing it up with her is a bad idea, as it won't change anything and will make me look like a control freak and insecure, which i'd prefer not to do.\n\nI want to feel confident about it all and have trust in our relationship. I feel pathetic for feeling this way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title. First off let me explain, this isn't about me saying she has no right to talk to them, she can talk to whoever she pleases. This is mostly about me.\n\nSo I don't know this through snooping or anything like that, I know because it's so out in the open in our relationship. We've been dating for a year and I know she has no desire to cheat on me. We have a great relationship and live together. Very few arguments or issues, we are generally a happy couple. I often keep issues like this bottled and to myself, most people find insecurity and lack of confidence unattractive, so I don't show it. However it's eating away at me and I don't know why, I can't shake it from my mind.\n\nI recently came to the logical deduction that a friend that she speaks with regularly used to be fuck buddies with her, and that revelation is making me uncomfortable, despite the fact that there is 0 reason to be upset or think something is going on. There's also other dudes who message her regularly, but it's completely harmless (she's shown me the texts)\n\nI know people are capable to forming friendships past sex but at the same time I can't shake these feelings of insecurity from my head. I don't know what to do or how to change how I feel, or come to terms with it and get over it. I don't want to break up, I want to work on dealing with my feelings, but i have no idea how to approach this. I feel like bringing it up with her is a bad idea, as it won't change anything and will make me look like a control freak and insecure, which i'd prefer not to do.\n\nI want to feel confident about it all and have trust in our relationship. I feel pathetic for feeling this way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, this is my first post (throwaway obvs) and I'm on mobile so please excuse any spelling/grammar mistakes. \n\nMy sister is horrible to live with she acts like a spoiled 2 year old I have a scar on my wrist from where she dug into my skin when I wouldn't move fast enough out of bed. \n\nToday she screamed at me for wanting McDonalds and then when I gave up and went to make myself some nachos she called me a fat shit, a fucking bitch and then she hit me and threw a loaf of bread at my face.\n\nShe then walked into my room and stayed there during my rising in loudness pleas for her to get out stating that 'I'm not going to leave until you calm down' even though I was saying that the only way I would calm down is if she left.\n\nPlease do not think this is a one off and that I'm Justin's whining my mum says that this is just what siblings do, but this is an almost weekly occurrence since she turned 13.\n\nMy parents are divorced and she hates our dad. Our mum is working most of the time to help us to afford everything as my sister doesn't contribute to the household - whereas I do. \n\nI tell my mum what she does but then she just tells of my sister and then my sister gets worse when mum has to go back to work\n\nI just can't continue to deal with her in this way and I feel so bad because I don't love her when I know you are supposed to love your family til you die.\n\nPlease I would just like coping mechanisms to deal with her until I can move out"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, this is my first post (throwaway obvs) and I'm on mobile so please excuse any spelling/grammar mistakes. \n\nMy sister is horrible to live with she acts like a spoiled 2 year old I have a scar on my wrist from where she dug into my skin when I wouldn't move fast enough out of bed. \n\nToday she screamed at me for wanting McDonalds and then when I gave up and went to make myself some nachos she called me a fat shit, a fucking bitch and then she hit me and threw a loaf of bread at my face.\n\nShe then walked into my room and stayed there during my rising in loudness pleas for her to get out stating that 'I'm not going to leave until you calm down' even though I was saying that the only way I would calm down is if she left.\n\nPlease do not think this is a one off and that I'm Justin's whining my mum says that this is just what siblings do, but this is an almost weekly occurrence since she turned 13.\n\nMy parents are divorced and she hates our dad. Our mum is working most of the time to help us to afford everything as my sister doesn't contribute to the household - whereas I do. \n\nI tell my mum what she does but then she just tells of my sister and then my sister gets worse when mum has to go back to work\n\nI just can't continue to deal with her in this way and I feel so bad because I don't love her when I know you are supposed to love your family til you die.\n\nPlease I would just like coping mechanisms to deal with her until I can move out"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, this is my first post (throwaway obvs) and I'm on mobile so please excuse any spelling/grammar mistakes. \n\nMy sister is horrible to live with she acts like a spoiled 2 year old I have a scar on my wrist from where she dug into my skin when I wouldn't move fast enough out of bed. \n\nToday she screamed at me for wanting McDonalds and then when I gave up and went to make myself some nachos she called me a fat shit, a fucking bitch and then she hit me and threw a loaf of bread at my face.\n\nShe then walked into my room and stayed there during my rising in loudness pleas for her to get out stating that 'I'm not going to leave until you calm down' even though I was saying that the only way I would calm down is if she left.\n\nPlease do not think this is a one off and that I'm Justin's whining my mum says that this is just what siblings do, but this is an almost weekly occurrence since she turned 13.\n\nMy parents are divorced and she hates our dad. Our mum is working most of the time to help us to afford everything as my sister doesn't contribute to the household - whereas I do. \n\nI tell my mum what she does but then she just tells of my sister and then my sister gets worse when mum has to go back to work\n\nI just can't continue to deal with her in this way and I feel so bad because I don't love her when I know you are supposed to love your family til you die.\n\nPlease I would just like coping mechanisms to deal with her until I can move out"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, this is my first post (throwaway obvs) and I'm on mobile so please excuse any spelling/grammar mistakes. \n\nMy sister is horrible to live with she acts like a spoiled 2 year old I have a scar on my wrist from where she dug into my skin when I wouldn't move fast enough out of bed. \n\nToday she screamed at me for wanting McDonalds and then when I gave up and went to make myself some nachos she called me a fat shit, a fucking bitch and then she hit me and threw a loaf of bread at my face.\n\nShe then walked into my room and stayed there during my rising in loudness pleas for her to get out stating that 'I'm not going to leave until you calm down' even though I was saying that the only way I would calm down is if she left.\n\nPlease do not think this is a one off and that I'm Justin's whining my mum says that this is just what siblings do, but this is an almost weekly occurrence since she turned 13.\n\nMy parents are divorced and she hates our dad. Our mum is working most of the time to help us to afford everything as my sister doesn't contribute to the household - whereas I do. \n\nI tell my mum what she does but then she just tells of my sister and then my sister gets worse when mum has to go back to work\n\nI just can't continue to deal with her in this way and I feel so bad because I don't love her when I know you are supposed to love your family til you die.\n\nPlease I would just like coping mechanisms to deal with her until I can move out"
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