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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: TIFU, actually this isn't from today but rather 2 years ago. Back then I was 16 years old. I do have to mention that I have never been the most athletic guy (except for basketball, I am surprisingly good at it), I am quite short and at the time I wore very very nerdy glasses. \n\nThere was this super super hot girl I had a crush on, I am talking a 12/10 girl and after fighting my shyness I managed to talk to her and befriend her in my PE class. We didn't really do anything in the class except play with some cards. Anyways I still hadn't managed to get her phone number but I didn't have the guts to ask for it. So this one time coaches allow one side of the court for basketball and the other for volleyball. And of course I tried to show off playing basketball in front of her. I constantly looked at her and smiled and she smiled back as she watched me, apparently it was working. I do have to say that I moved to the United States from Mexico and I played a little soccer, I am not good but I can get some respect. Anyways one of the volleyball people get their ball right where I am at and super smart me decides to show off some of my soccer skills. I prepare myself and kick the ball extremely hard because they volleyball courts were a little far. I believe that is the time I have kicked a ball the hardest in my entire life. And all of a sudden I can see the ball head towards my crush, I watched it as if it was in slo mo. I couldn't do anything about it. And baam! Headshot, I hit her right in the face and knocked her unconscious. I run towards her just as other people did. Her nose was bleeding and she was slowly gaining consciousness. I apologized with all my might, but it was all for nothing. She left school that day and came back the next day. She didn't talk to me ever again. I was so close to getting her number and I fucked it up by trying to impress her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone,\n\nI have been with my girlfriend for seven months now and will be meeting her for the first time in one week. We've had our ups and downs, as any long distance relationship does, but we've been very good at communicating and, honestly, everything is perfect apart from the distance. I have never had any reason to suspect anything suspicious and I trust her.\n\nLast night, at midnight, she told me she was going to her university library to get some books. She texted me along the way (in the uber) and when she arrived. I told her to text me when she was leaving as I was worried because it was late and she did (1.5 hours later).\n\nNow, here are the inconsistencies. I do not want to reveal too many details due to privacy or in case someone she knows reads this. She said she would get these books and study there. When she texted me on her way back, she said she didn't study because she had to obtain files from the university computers which her professor had emailed them saying would be deleted (apparently emailed them at midnight.).\n\nThat is all fine, we say good night when she gets home and everything is great. I go on her email later to check her calendar and out of mere curiosity I open an Uber receipt that was sitting there. The time code and date both match the trip, but the address is not her university. Also, there was no uber receipt for her way back (maybe it was deleted, or it was never sent? I do not know how uber works, I never used it).\n\nI was really scared and called her in the middle of the night to ask her what was going on. She said it must be an old receipt and I felt like shit for suspecting anything. She said she could show me the books she got and even the 'new' receipt (whenever that arrives). I apologized profusely and that was it. But I am now starting to worry. Does Uber send receipts immediately? Should I suspect anything?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone,\n\nI have been with my girlfriend for seven months now and will be meeting her for the first time in one week. We've had our ups and downs, as any long distance relationship does, but we've been very good at communicating and, honestly, everything is perfect apart from the distance. I have never had any reason to suspect anything suspicious and I trust her.\n\nLast night, at midnight, she told me she was going to her university library to get some books. She texted me along the way (in the uber) and when she arrived. I told her to text me when she was leaving as I was worried because it was late and she did (1.5 hours later).\n\nNow, here are the inconsistencies. I do not want to reveal too many details due to privacy or in case someone she knows reads this. She said she would get these books and study there. When she texted me on her way back, she said she didn't study because she had to obtain files from the university computers which her professor had emailed them saying would be deleted (apparently emailed them at midnight.).\n\nThat is all fine, we say good night when she gets home and everything is great. I go on her email later to check her calendar and out of mere curiosity I open an Uber receipt that was sitting there. The time code and date both match the trip, but the address is not her university. Also, there was no uber receipt for her way back (maybe it was deleted, or it was never sent? I do not know how uber works, I never used it).\n\nI was really scared and called her in the middle of the night to ask her what was going on. She said it must be an old receipt and I felt like shit for suspecting anything. She said she could show me the books she got and even the 'new' receipt (whenever that arrives). I apologized profusely and that was it. But I am now starting to worry. Does Uber send receipts immediately? Should I suspect anything?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone,\n\nI have been with my girlfriend for seven months now and will be meeting her for the first time in one week. We've had our ups and downs, as any long distance relationship does, but we've been very good at communicating and, honestly, everything is perfect apart from the distance. I have never had any reason to suspect anything suspicious and I trust her.\n\nLast night, at midnight, she told me she was going to her university library to get some books. She texted me along the way (in the uber) and when she arrived. I told her to text me when she was leaving as I was worried because it was late and she did (1.5 hours later).\n\nNow, here are the inconsistencies. I do not want to reveal too many details due to privacy or in case someone she knows reads this. She said she would get these books and study there. When she texted me on her way back, she said she didn't study because she had to obtain files from the university computers which her professor had emailed them saying would be deleted (apparently emailed them at midnight.).\n\nThat is all fine, we say good night when she gets home and everything is great. I go on her email later to check her calendar and out of mere curiosity I open an Uber receipt that was sitting there. The time code and date both match the trip, but the address is not her university. Also, there was no uber receipt for her way back (maybe it was deleted, or it was never sent? I do not know how uber works, I never used it).\n\nI was really scared and called her in the middle of the night to ask her what was going on. She said it must be an old receipt and I felt like shit for suspecting anything. She said she could show me the books she got and even the 'new' receipt (whenever that arrives). I apologized profusely and that was it. But I am now starting to worry. Does Uber send receipts immediately? Should I suspect anything?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together three years. He has a degree (communications), tried to go back for another (more useful) one and got burnt out. He works a dead end job now, but is happy, which is important to me. But I'm also frustrated because I feel like I have more responsibilities in our relationship. I carry him on my insurance, pay for our car (which I do use more), make our house budget/cleaning chart and am trying to save up for a house for us.\n\nFor two years, he told me this job was temporary while he figured out which direction he wanted to go with his career. Last night he sat me down and told me he needed to give me an ultimatum (his words, \"I don't mean it to be one, but it is\"). He knows his job isn't what I want him to be doing but he's okay with it. He appreciates that I've been trying to support him figuring it out, but he's going to stop that and just live in the moment.for now. He knows himself and when he figures it out, he'll be passionate and dive in. \n\nAt the time, I was relieved to hear him tell me straight up.but after a night of sleep and a day to digest everything he said, the full weight is sinking in. This is a deal breaker for me. I respect his reasons (personal happiness is really important) and wish him well (he's a good person), but I've never been in this spot before. All my past relationships ended with fireworks, drama, tears. this feels very \"we both are in different places.\" \n\nOur lease is up at the end of June. Do I say something now? Wait until a month out? All these feelings just hit me on my lunch break and I'm starting to panic! I know it will be a hard breakup in the sense that we both love one another and neither did anything wrong, but that just knots my stomach even more! I don't want to make him feel guilty."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together three years. He has a degree (communications), tried to go back for another (more useful) one and got burnt out. He works a dead end job now, but is happy, which is important to me. But I'm also frustrated because I feel like I have more responsibilities in our relationship. I carry him on my insurance, pay for our car (which I do use more), make our house budget/cleaning chart and am trying to save up for a house for us.\n\nFor two years, he told me this job was temporary while he figured out which direction he wanted to go with his career. Last night he sat me down and told me he needed to give me an ultimatum (his words, \"I don't mean it to be one, but it is\"). He knows his job isn't what I want him to be doing but he's okay with it. He appreciates that I've been trying to support him figuring it out, but he's going to stop that and just live in the moment.for now. He knows himself and when he figures it out, he'll be passionate and dive in. \n\nAt the time, I was relieved to hear him tell me straight up.but after a night of sleep and a day to digest everything he said, the full weight is sinking in. This is a deal breaker for me. I respect his reasons (personal happiness is really important) and wish him well (he's a good person), but I've never been in this spot before. All my past relationships ended with fireworks, drama, tears. this feels very \"we both are in different places.\" \n\nOur lease is up at the end of June. Do I say something now? Wait until a month out? All these feelings just hit me on my lunch break and I'm starting to panic! I know it will be a hard breakup in the sense that we both love one another and neither did anything wrong, but that just knots my stomach even more! I don't want to make him feel guilty."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together three years. He has a degree (communications), tried to go back for another (more useful) one and got burnt out. He works a dead end job now, but is happy, which is important to me. But I'm also frustrated because I feel like I have more responsibilities in our relationship. I carry him on my insurance, pay for our car (which I do use more), make our house budget/cleaning chart and am trying to save up for a house for us.\n\nFor two years, he told me this job was temporary while he figured out which direction he wanted to go with his career. Last night he sat me down and told me he needed to give me an ultimatum (his words, \"I don't mean it to be one, but it is\"). He knows his job isn't what I want him to be doing but he's okay with it. He appreciates that I've been trying to support him figuring it out, but he's going to stop that and just live in the moment.for now. He knows himself and when he figures it out, he'll be passionate and dive in. \n\nAt the time, I was relieved to hear him tell me straight up.but after a night of sleep and a day to digest everything he said, the full weight is sinking in. This is a deal breaker for me. I respect his reasons (personal happiness is really important) and wish him well (he's a good person), but I've never been in this spot before. All my past relationships ended with fireworks, drama, tears. this feels very \"we both are in different places.\" \n\nOur lease is up at the end of June. Do I say something now? Wait until a month out? All these feelings just hit me on my lunch break and I'm starting to panic! I know it will be a hard breakup in the sense that we both love one another and neither did anything wrong, but that just knots my stomach even more! I don't want to make him feel guilty."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got together with my gf about a year ago after being very close for years. It all started because I got tired of trying to be in a serious relationship with her and just wanted out, she did hurt me a lot and close friends intervened to talk me into just moving on. I even began seeing someone. I probably didn't talk to her in a month. One day she literally grabbed me and took me to a more private place so she could tell me she really wanted to be with me and that this time apart had allowed her to realize how wrong she was and how much she had hurt me. I decided to give her a chance. \n\nProblems arose when she found out I had gone out with another girl and gone to places she considered 'ours'. She demanded that I completely stop talking to her, delete her from fb and things like that. \n\nSix months later I moved to another city about 250 miles away. I work during the day so I don't really talk to her a lot during the day. In the afternoon we used to skype and talk. I started to get into gaming and she complained that I would not stop playing to talk to her (you can't pause online games). Eventually our conversations turned into fights because she felt I did not do anything for her. For months I visited about every 1-3 weeks (during the weekends, 4+ hour bus ride each way). This was a pretty big expense for me to maintain. \n\nI am not someone who can maintain long conversations, I'm very pragmatic. I'll say what I need to say without taking detours. At some point she'd cry every time I talked to her because she claimed I did not care for her when I did. After 5 or 6 months of this she said she wants to break up and I will be going back there soon to attend a party in which she will be present. What can I do? She won't move with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got together with my gf about a year ago after being very close for years. It all started because I got tired of trying to be in a serious relationship with her and just wanted out, she did hurt me a lot and close friends intervened to talk me into just moving on. I even began seeing someone. I probably didn't talk to her in a month. One day she literally grabbed me and took me to a more private place so she could tell me she really wanted to be with me and that this time apart had allowed her to realize how wrong she was and how much she had hurt me. I decided to give her a chance. \n\nProblems arose when she found out I had gone out with another girl and gone to places she considered 'ours'. She demanded that I completely stop talking to her, delete her from fb and things like that. \n\nSix months later I moved to another city about 250 miles away. I work during the day so I don't really talk to her a lot during the day. In the afternoon we used to skype and talk. I started to get into gaming and she complained that I would not stop playing to talk to her (you can't pause online games). Eventually our conversations turned into fights because she felt I did not do anything for her. For months I visited about every 1-3 weeks (during the weekends, 4+ hour bus ride each way). This was a pretty big expense for me to maintain. \n\nI am not someone who can maintain long conversations, I'm very pragmatic. I'll say what I need to say without taking detours. At some point she'd cry every time I talked to her because she claimed I did not care for her when I did. After 5 or 6 months of this she said she wants to break up and I will be going back there soon to attend a party in which she will be present. What can I do? She won't move with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got together with my gf about a year ago after being very close for years. It all started because I got tired of trying to be in a serious relationship with her and just wanted out, she did hurt me a lot and close friends intervened to talk me into just moving on. I even began seeing someone. I probably didn't talk to her in a month. One day she literally grabbed me and took me to a more private place so she could tell me she really wanted to be with me and that this time apart had allowed her to realize how wrong she was and how much she had hurt me. I decided to give her a chance. \n\nProblems arose when she found out I had gone out with another girl and gone to places she considered 'ours'. She demanded that I completely stop talking to her, delete her from fb and things like that. \n\nSix months later I moved to another city about 250 miles away. I work during the day so I don't really talk to her a lot during the day. In the afternoon we used to skype and talk. I started to get into gaming and she complained that I would not stop playing to talk to her (you can't pause online games). Eventually our conversations turned into fights because she felt I did not do anything for her. For months I visited about every 1-3 weeks (during the weekends, 4+ hour bus ride each way). This was a pretty big expense for me to maintain. \n\nI am not someone who can maintain long conversations, I'm very pragmatic. I'll say what I need to say without taking detours. At some point she'd cry every time I talked to her because she claimed I did not care for her when I did. After 5 or 6 months of this she said she wants to break up and I will be going back there soon to attend a party in which she will be present. What can I do? She won't move with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got together with my gf about a year ago after being very close for years. It all started because I got tired of trying to be in a serious relationship with her and just wanted out, she did hurt me a lot and close friends intervened to talk me into just moving on. I even began seeing someone. I probably didn't talk to her in a month. One day she literally grabbed me and took me to a more private place so she could tell me she really wanted to be with me and that this time apart had allowed her to realize how wrong she was and how much she had hurt me. I decided to give her a chance. \n\nProblems arose when she found out I had gone out with another girl and gone to places she considered 'ours'. She demanded that I completely stop talking to her, delete her from fb and things like that. \n\nSix months later I moved to another city about 250 miles away. I work during the day so I don't really talk to her a lot during the day. In the afternoon we used to skype and talk. I started to get into gaming and she complained that I would not stop playing to talk to her (you can't pause online games). Eventually our conversations turned into fights because she felt I did not do anything for her. For months I visited about every 1-3 weeks (during the weekends, 4+ hour bus ride each way). This was a pretty big expense for me to maintain. \n\nI am not someone who can maintain long conversations, I'm very pragmatic. I'll say what I need to say without taking detours. At some point she'd cry every time I talked to her because she claimed I did not care for her when I did. After 5 or 6 months of this she said she wants to break up and I will be going back there soon to attend a party in which she will be present. What can I do? She won't move with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got together with my gf about a year ago after being very close for years. It all started because I got tired of trying to be in a serious relationship with her and just wanted out, she did hurt me a lot and close friends intervened to talk me into just moving on. I even began seeing someone. I probably didn't talk to her in a month. One day she literally grabbed me and took me to a more private place so she could tell me she really wanted to be with me and that this time apart had allowed her to realize how wrong she was and how much she had hurt me. I decided to give her a chance. \n\nProblems arose when she found out I had gone out with another girl and gone to places she considered 'ours'. She demanded that I completely stop talking to her, delete her from fb and things like that. \n\nSix months later I moved to another city about 250 miles away. I work during the day so I don't really talk to her a lot during the day. In the afternoon we used to skype and talk. I started to get into gaming and she complained that I would not stop playing to talk to her (you can't pause online games). Eventually our conversations turned into fights because she felt I did not do anything for her. For months I visited about every 1-3 weeks (during the weekends, 4+ hour bus ride each way). This was a pretty big expense for me to maintain. \n\nI am not someone who can maintain long conversations, I'm very pragmatic. I'll say what I need to say without taking detours. At some point she'd cry every time I talked to her because she claimed I did not care for her when I did. After 5 or 6 months of this she said she wants to break up and I will be going back there soon to attend a party in which she will be present. What can I do? She won't move with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had a rough year last year. I was getting over my big ex and now I found myself with someone else. Luckily this was a huge step in letting go of the past. I finally stopped thinking about anyone else other than my current girlfriend. However she forgot my birthday. I became upset and told her I was not ok with her just leaving me alone like that. She claimed she was tired and didn't want to do anything with me that day. I didn't speak to her for a few days I was so upset she completely ignored me. I confronted her about it. She said she doesn't want to fight and said this relationship is no longer what she wants. I was angry. \nI don't like it when someone to constantly say \"i love you\" then the next day throw you away like trash. I felt like trash. So for a while I didn't talk to her but we ended up hanging out together as friends. While we were friends we went on dates kissed and even had sex. I thought she was really into me again. Last night I asked her to be my girlfriend she said no. Then I asked her to leave. Her reason was that she loved me but not as much as she used to. Before she left she said she wanted to continue going on dates but would like more time to think about things. A mutual friend asked her if she would date me again and she said yes however she wasn't ready for a relationship yet. I'm not sure if I should continue seeing her. I feel like my heart was ripped apart when she said no to me last night. For now I want to be alone for a week without seeing her. after that week I have no idea if I should continue our relationship. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had a rough year last year. I was getting over my big ex and now I found myself with someone else. Luckily this was a huge step in letting go of the past. I finally stopped thinking about anyone else other than my current girlfriend. However she forgot my birthday. I became upset and told her I was not ok with her just leaving me alone like that. She claimed she was tired and didn't want to do anything with me that day. I didn't speak to her for a few days I was so upset she completely ignored me. I confronted her about it. She said she doesn't want to fight and said this relationship is no longer what she wants. I was angry. \nI don't like it when someone to constantly say \"i love you\" then the next day throw you away like trash. I felt like trash. So for a while I didn't talk to her but we ended up hanging out together as friends. While we were friends we went on dates kissed and even had sex. I thought she was really into me again. Last night I asked her to be my girlfriend she said no. Then I asked her to leave. Her reason was that she loved me but not as much as she used to. Before she left she said she wanted to continue going on dates but would like more time to think about things. A mutual friend asked her if she would date me again and she said yes however she wasn't ready for a relationship yet. I'm not sure if I should continue seeing her. I feel like my heart was ripped apart when she said no to me last night. For now I want to be alone for a week without seeing her. after that week I have no idea if I should continue our relationship. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had a rough year last year. I was getting over my big ex and now I found myself with someone else. Luckily this was a huge step in letting go of the past. I finally stopped thinking about anyone else other than my current girlfriend. However she forgot my birthday. I became upset and told her I was not ok with her just leaving me alone like that. She claimed she was tired and didn't want to do anything with me that day. I didn't speak to her for a few days I was so upset she completely ignored me. I confronted her about it. She said she doesn't want to fight and said this relationship is no longer what she wants. I was angry. \nI don't like it when someone to constantly say \"i love you\" then the next day throw you away like trash. I felt like trash. So for a while I didn't talk to her but we ended up hanging out together as friends. While we were friends we went on dates kissed and even had sex. I thought she was really into me again. Last night I asked her to be my girlfriend she said no. Then I asked her to leave. Her reason was that she loved me but not as much as she used to. Before she left she said she wanted to continue going on dates but would like more time to think about things. A mutual friend asked her if she would date me again and she said yes however she wasn't ready for a relationship yet. I'm not sure if I should continue seeing her. I feel like my heart was ripped apart when she said no to me last night. For now I want to be alone for a week without seeing her. after that week I have no idea if I should continue our relationship. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bf and I [both 26yo] been together over a year and half now. I don't like the fact that he still keeps in touch with his ex's family [mainly her parents and her brothers & sister].\nHe knows how strongly I feel about this and how much it bothers me, yet he still keeps in touch with them. I believe when you break up with someone, it should be a clean, no contact whatsoever break, and that includes family too. I'm not in contact with any of my exes or their family, out of respect for my significant other, but I don't get why my bf doesn't understand this, and he knows that it bothers me.\nWhat to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bf and I [both 26yo] been together over a year and half now. I don't like the fact that he still keeps in touch with his ex's family [mainly her parents and her brothers & sister].\nHe knows how strongly I feel about this and how much it bothers me, yet he still keeps in touch with them. I believe when you break up with someone, it should be a clean, no contact whatsoever break, and that includes family too. I'm not in contact with any of my exes or their family, out of respect for my significant other, but I don't get why my bf doesn't understand this, and he knows that it bothers me.\nWhat to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bf and I [both 26yo] been together over a year and half now. I don't like the fact that he still keeps in touch with his ex's family [mainly her parents and her brothers & sister].\nHe knows how strongly I feel about this and how much it bothers me, yet he still keeps in touch with them. I believe when you break up with someone, it should be a clean, no contact whatsoever break, and that includes family too. I'm not in contact with any of my exes or their family, out of respect for my significant other, but I don't get why my bf doesn't understand this, and he knows that it bothers me.\nWhat to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically my boyfriend and I have been dating for two years and he keeps calling me his life partner. He believes we will be married someday and would totally be okay with being engaged and living together right now. \n\nI, on the other hand, don't really plan on him being my \"forever\" due to multiple reasons (money, he's very critical, insecure) so it makes me very uncomfortable when he says this. However, it would start a huge endless argument if I ever brought this up to him so it's better to leave it alone. \n\nMy problem though is that I don't want to waste his time when I don't plan on this lasting forever, but I also don't want to break up right now because we have a great relationship and it's a nice thing for the time being. \n\nAnother wrench to throw in is that he has absolutely no friends besides me. This puts a lot of pressure on me to constantly be there for him and be his only source of happiness, entertainment, and companionship. This sometimes makes me feel trapped in our relationship which is a feeling I really don't like. I don't like that feeling since I'm only 19 and have been in this relationship and one before this meaning I have always been in a relationship ever since I was 16. Sometimes I get curious about being single but I feel like I can't even consider leaving him when I'm his only source of friendship. \n\nI'm not suggesting I want to end our relationship. But I don't like the feeling that I basically couldn't if I wanted to. Anyone else had a similar situation or general advice for how to continue in a relationship where each partner has different expectations or if it should continue at all? \n_"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically my boyfriend and I have been dating for two years and he keeps calling me his life partner. He believes we will be married someday and would totally be okay with being engaged and living together right now. \n\nI, on the other hand, don't really plan on him being my \"forever\" due to multiple reasons (money, he's very critical, insecure) so it makes me very uncomfortable when he says this. However, it would start a huge endless argument if I ever brought this up to him so it's better to leave it alone. \n\nMy problem though is that I don't want to waste his time when I don't plan on this lasting forever, but I also don't want to break up right now because we have a great relationship and it's a nice thing for the time being. \n\nAnother wrench to throw in is that he has absolutely no friends besides me. This puts a lot of pressure on me to constantly be there for him and be his only source of happiness, entertainment, and companionship. This sometimes makes me feel trapped in our relationship which is a feeling I really don't like. I don't like that feeling since I'm only 19 and have been in this relationship and one before this meaning I have always been in a relationship ever since I was 16. Sometimes I get curious about being single but I feel like I can't even consider leaving him when I'm his only source of friendship. \n\nI'm not suggesting I want to end our relationship. But I don't like the feeling that I basically couldn't if I wanted to. Anyone else had a similar situation or general advice for how to continue in a relationship where each partner has different expectations or if it should continue at all? \n_"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically my boyfriend and I have been dating for two years and he keeps calling me his life partner. He believes we will be married someday and would totally be okay with being engaged and living together right now. \n\nI, on the other hand, don't really plan on him being my \"forever\" due to multiple reasons (money, he's very critical, insecure) so it makes me very uncomfortable when he says this. However, it would start a huge endless argument if I ever brought this up to him so it's better to leave it alone. \n\nMy problem though is that I don't want to waste his time when I don't plan on this lasting forever, but I also don't want to break up right now because we have a great relationship and it's a nice thing for the time being. \n\nAnother wrench to throw in is that he has absolutely no friends besides me. This puts a lot of pressure on me to constantly be there for him and be his only source of happiness, entertainment, and companionship. This sometimes makes me feel trapped in our relationship which is a feeling I really don't like. I don't like that feeling since I'm only 19 and have been in this relationship and one before this meaning I have always been in a relationship ever since I was 16. Sometimes I get curious about being single but I feel like I can't even consider leaving him when I'm his only source of friendship. \n\nI'm not suggesting I want to end our relationship. But I don't like the feeling that I basically couldn't if I wanted to. Anyone else had a similar situation or general advice for how to continue in a relationship where each partner has different expectations or if it should continue at all? \n_"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! \n\nSo to make this short and sweet, recently i've been going this busy coffee shop every morning, or at least 5 days a week. The same girl always helps me. She is very friendly and remembers my order. She is about my age, as well. She asks me about life and usually talks with me for a while before i leave. \n\nIt seems like more than just regular small talk, she actually seems interested and sometimes even gets yelled at for talking too long with me. \n\nI know it's frowned upon to ask Baristas out because they basically are always really friendly and most people think they're being personable when they aren't. But this girl seems totally chill and we really get along well. I would love to have another friend to hang out with and she obviously lives in my town. \n\nMy question is, should i bring this up to her? Or will i still be laughed at for thinking a Barista actually had any interest in me? Also, if this is something i could actually do, how should i phrase it. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! \n\nSo to make this short and sweet, recently i've been going this busy coffee shop every morning, or at least 5 days a week. The same girl always helps me. She is very friendly and remembers my order. She is about my age, as well. She asks me about life and usually talks with me for a while before i leave. \n\nIt seems like more than just regular small talk, she actually seems interested and sometimes even gets yelled at for talking too long with me. \n\nI know it's frowned upon to ask Baristas out because they basically are always really friendly and most people think they're being personable when they aren't. But this girl seems totally chill and we really get along well. I would love to have another friend to hang out with and she obviously lives in my town. \n\nMy question is, should i bring this up to her? Or will i still be laughed at for thinking a Barista actually had any interest in me? Also, if this is something i could actually do, how should i phrase it. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! \n\nSo to make this short and sweet, recently i've been going this busy coffee shop every morning, or at least 5 days a week. The same girl always helps me. She is very friendly and remembers my order. She is about my age, as well. She asks me about life and usually talks with me for a while before i leave. \n\nIt seems like more than just regular small talk, she actually seems interested and sometimes even gets yelled at for talking too long with me. \n\nI know it's frowned upon to ask Baristas out because they basically are always really friendly and most people think they're being personable when they aren't. But this girl seems totally chill and we really get along well. I would love to have another friend to hang out with and she obviously lives in my town. \n\nMy question is, should i bring this up to her? Or will i still be laughed at for thinking a Barista actually had any interest in me? Also, if this is something i could actually do, how should i phrase it. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (24/f) and I (25/m) had been in a relationship for 1.5 years, but just recently split. Up until about two months ago, things had been going pretty well, but then things took a turn for the worse. We broke up last week.\n\nI got laid off from my job about 3 months ago, and have been unemployed ever since. Needless to say, it had a significant impact on our relationship. My days consisted of searching for jobs, playing video games, and occasional outings with friends. I'll be the first to admit that my life had no-direction at all.\n\nShe has been working two jobs while simultaneously attending school. She was definitely more stressed out, and was having a hard time coping with it. We've been living together in a small studio apartment, which contributed to a lot of her stress as well; she felt as though she didn't get enough personal space.\n\nOur breaking point was an argument about money. I had fallen behind on rent , so she was carrying more of the burden. In so many words, it ended in me moving out in a flurry, and us later deciding that we both wanted to stop fighting. We broke it off.\n\nWe haven't really spoke after that, as I want to try and give her space that she needs. I've realized that my life has gotten a bit off track. That, in addition to her situation, seemed like a recipe for disaster.\n\nI know that it's been shorter than a week, but all I can do is think about her and our relationship. I understand that this is somewhat normal, but I deeply feel as though this is the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. Despite our problems, we've made it through a lot and I've never been happier in my life than when I'm with her. I'd like to have her back in my life, but it's clear that we might need some time to sort things out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (24/f) and I (25/m) had been in a relationship for 1.5 years, but just recently split. Up until about two months ago, things had been going pretty well, but then things took a turn for the worse. We broke up last week.\n\nI got laid off from my job about 3 months ago, and have been unemployed ever since. Needless to say, it had a significant impact on our relationship. My days consisted of searching for jobs, playing video games, and occasional outings with friends. I'll be the first to admit that my life had no-direction at all.\n\nShe has been working two jobs while simultaneously attending school. She was definitely more stressed out, and was having a hard time coping with it. We've been living together in a small studio apartment, which contributed to a lot of her stress as well; she felt as though she didn't get enough personal space.\n\nOur breaking point was an argument about money. I had fallen behind on rent , so she was carrying more of the burden. In so many words, it ended in me moving out in a flurry, and us later deciding that we both wanted to stop fighting. We broke it off.\n\nWe haven't really spoke after that, as I want to try and give her space that she needs. I've realized that my life has gotten a bit off track. That, in addition to her situation, seemed like a recipe for disaster.\n\nI know that it's been shorter than a week, but all I can do is think about her and our relationship. I understand that this is somewhat normal, but I deeply feel as though this is the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. Despite our problems, we've made it through a lot and I've never been happier in my life than when I'm with her. I'd like to have her back in my life, but it's clear that we might need some time to sort things out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 36 (yes, I know, huge age difference, but we've been together for almost a year and it's been going well). I recently broke my leg pretty badly and will be on crutches for the next 2 months and am not allowed to put any weight on it. My boyfriend lives in his own place but has been sleeping over every night to help me before bed and in the morning before he leaves for work. \n\nHe comes home on his lunch break to check on me and help me with lunch, then goes back to work. He works from home and does his own projects at night before coming over when he's done. I appreciate his help because I'm absolutely helpless in these crutches but I'm worried he's beginning to resent me for needing his help. \n\nI've been trying to give him time away from me, trying to get friends to come over and help here and there to give him time to himself but that's only a few times a week. We can't have sex because of my leg/cast, I can only shower occasionally, I cant wear anything but sweat pants. I'm not looking my best lately and I just want to remind him why he loves me. I was just hoping you guys would have ideas/suggestions? Have any of you been in a similar situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 36 (yes, I know, huge age difference, but we've been together for almost a year and it's been going well). I recently broke my leg pretty badly and will be on crutches for the next 2 months and am not allowed to put any weight on it. My boyfriend lives in his own place but has been sleeping over every night to help me before bed and in the morning before he leaves for work. \n\nHe comes home on his lunch break to check on me and help me with lunch, then goes back to work. He works from home and does his own projects at night before coming over when he's done. I appreciate his help because I'm absolutely helpless in these crutches but I'm worried he's beginning to resent me for needing his help. \n\nI've been trying to give him time away from me, trying to get friends to come over and help here and there to give him time to himself but that's only a few times a week. We can't have sex because of my leg/cast, I can only shower occasionally, I cant wear anything but sweat pants. I'm not looking my best lately and I just want to remind him why he loves me. I was just hoping you guys would have ideas/suggestions? Have any of you been in a similar situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 36 (yes, I know, huge age difference, but we've been together for almost a year and it's been going well). I recently broke my leg pretty badly and will be on crutches for the next 2 months and am not allowed to put any weight on it. My boyfriend lives in his own place but has been sleeping over every night to help me before bed and in the morning before he leaves for work. \n\nHe comes home on his lunch break to check on me and help me with lunch, then goes back to work. He works from home and does his own projects at night before coming over when he's done. I appreciate his help because I'm absolutely helpless in these crutches but I'm worried he's beginning to resent me for needing his help. \n\nI've been trying to give him time away from me, trying to get friends to come over and help here and there to give him time to himself but that's only a few times a week. We can't have sex because of my leg/cast, I can only shower occasionally, I cant wear anything but sweat pants. I'm not looking my best lately and I just want to remind him why he loves me. I was just hoping you guys would have ideas/suggestions? Have any of you been in a similar situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my significant other and I are in a rut. We're both in college together, been living together since freshman year, dating for 2 years and 8 months.\n\nWe only fight about how he does not like to approach other people or go out. I usually find myself wanting to go out with other friends but I feel really guilty leaving him alone back at our dorm all by himself. He's smart, kind, and really a great guy but its been almost three years and I see no improvement from him to try and make friends and its really hurting our relationship. He's terrified and shy so he has trouble talking to others and I've tried helping him but he keeps resisting. He has no friend group and no close friends at all.\n\nLately another problem of support has been an issue in where I get in a debate about something trivial and he does not support me in the least and usually just \"tries to stay out of it\". I understand if I'm wrong he has no reason to support me but to not want to support me bothers me. I'm trying not to sound spoiled but please give me advice.\n\nDo I stay and hope he becomes more social and has a friend group? Do I leave and hope he turns out okay? I love him and I want him to become a greater person (I think we can all improve) but its been such a strain on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my significant other and I are in a rut. We're both in college together, been living together since freshman year, dating for 2 years and 8 months.\n\nWe only fight about how he does not like to approach other people or go out. I usually find myself wanting to go out with other friends but I feel really guilty leaving him alone back at our dorm all by himself. He's smart, kind, and really a great guy but its been almost three years and I see no improvement from him to try and make friends and its really hurting our relationship. He's terrified and shy so he has trouble talking to others and I've tried helping him but he keeps resisting. He has no friend group and no close friends at all.\n\nLately another problem of support has been an issue in where I get in a debate about something trivial and he does not support me in the least and usually just \"tries to stay out of it\". I understand if I'm wrong he has no reason to support me but to not want to support me bothers me. I'm trying not to sound spoiled but please give me advice.\n\nDo I stay and hope he becomes more social and has a friend group? Do I leave and hope he turns out okay? I love him and I want him to become a greater person (I think we can all improve) but its been such a strain on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my significant other and I are in a rut. We're both in college together, been living together since freshman year, dating for 2 years and 8 months.\n\nWe only fight about how he does not like to approach other people or go out. I usually find myself wanting to go out with other friends but I feel really guilty leaving him alone back at our dorm all by himself. He's smart, kind, and really a great guy but its been almost three years and I see no improvement from him to try and make friends and its really hurting our relationship. He's terrified and shy so he has trouble talking to others and I've tried helping him but he keeps resisting. He has no friend group and no close friends at all.\n\nLately another problem of support has been an issue in where I get in a debate about something trivial and he does not support me in the least and usually just \"tries to stay out of it\". I understand if I'm wrong he has no reason to support me but to not want to support me bothers me. I'm trying not to sound spoiled but please give me advice.\n\nDo I stay and hope he becomes more social and has a friend group? Do I leave and hope he turns out okay? I love him and I want him to become a greater person (I think we can all improve) but its been such a strain on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First post after lurking for a few years now. Figure I'll give being a real Redditor a try.\nSo this was actually when I was about 10 years old. It is one of those burried memories that you recall once every 3 years. So here it is:\n\nMy grandpa was visiting over Thanksgiving one year and being that we didn't have a spare bedroom it was routine that I, the youngest sibling, was relocated to the couch and my Grandpa would take over my room. The day before he arrived an intense G.I. Joe battle was in progress. The fight that particular day took place on the harsh terrain of my bed comforter. Finding a package of thumb tacks in the office supplies earlier that day was the true cause of war. See, I wasn't very imaginative as a kid, so the idea came without delay. Gunshots = holes. So, fast forward through what would be concerning to watch as an adult seeing this demon child practicing Voodoo. Two days later at breakfast after my grandfather has spent his first night, my dad comes into the kitchen. \"Morning, did you sleep okay?\". To which my grandfather replies quickly \"I did, until I rolled over on a thumb tack and it stuck me in the pecker\". Busted. No more access to office supplies for quite awhile after that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First post after lurking for a few years now. Figure I'll give being a real Redditor a try.\nSo this was actually when I was about 10 years old. It is one of those burried memories that you recall once every 3 years. So here it is:\n\nMy grandpa was visiting over Thanksgiving one year and being that we didn't have a spare bedroom it was routine that I, the youngest sibling, was relocated to the couch and my Grandpa would take over my room. The day before he arrived an intense G.I. Joe battle was in progress. The fight that particular day took place on the harsh terrain of my bed comforter. Finding a package of thumb tacks in the office supplies earlier that day was the true cause of war. See, I wasn't very imaginative as a kid, so the idea came without delay. Gunshots = holes. So, fast forward through what would be concerning to watch as an adult seeing this demon child practicing Voodoo. Two days later at breakfast after my grandfather has spent his first night, my dad comes into the kitchen. \"Morning, did you sleep okay?\". To which my grandfather replies quickly \"I did, until I rolled over on a thumb tack and it stuck me in the pecker\". Busted. No more access to office supplies for quite awhile after that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First post after lurking for a few years now. Figure I'll give being a real Redditor a try.\nSo this was actually when I was about 10 years old. It is one of those burried memories that you recall once every 3 years. So here it is:\n\nMy grandpa was visiting over Thanksgiving one year and being that we didn't have a spare bedroom it was routine that I, the youngest sibling, was relocated to the couch and my Grandpa would take over my room. The day before he arrived an intense G.I. Joe battle was in progress. The fight that particular day took place on the harsh terrain of my bed comforter. Finding a package of thumb tacks in the office supplies earlier that day was the true cause of war. See, I wasn't very imaginative as a kid, so the idea came without delay. Gunshots = holes. So, fast forward through what would be concerning to watch as an adult seeing this demon child practicing Voodoo. Two days later at breakfast after my grandfather has spent his first night, my dad comes into the kitchen. \"Morning, did you sleep okay?\". To which my grandfather replies quickly \"I did, until I rolled over on a thumb tack and it stuck me in the pecker\". Busted. No more access to office supplies for quite awhile after that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First post after lurking for a few years now. Figure I'll give being a real Redditor a try.\nSo this was actually when I was about 10 years old. It is one of those burried memories that you recall once every 3 years. So here it is:\n\nMy grandpa was visiting over Thanksgiving one year and being that we didn't have a spare bedroom it was routine that I, the youngest sibling, was relocated to the couch and my Grandpa would take over my room. The day before he arrived an intense G.I. Joe battle was in progress. The fight that particular day took place on the harsh terrain of my bed comforter. Finding a package of thumb tacks in the office supplies earlier that day was the true cause of war. See, I wasn't very imaginative as a kid, so the idea came without delay. Gunshots = holes. So, fast forward through what would be concerning to watch as an adult seeing this demon child practicing Voodoo. Two days later at breakfast after my grandfather has spent his first night, my dad comes into the kitchen. \"Morning, did you sleep okay?\". To which my grandfather replies quickly \"I did, until I rolled over on a thumb tack and it stuck me in the pecker\". Busted. No more access to office supplies for quite awhile after that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First post after lurking for a few years now. Figure I'll give being a real Redditor a try.\nSo this was actually when I was about 10 years old. It is one of those burried memories that you recall once every 3 years. So here it is:\n\nMy grandpa was visiting over Thanksgiving one year and being that we didn't have a spare bedroom it was routine that I, the youngest sibling, was relocated to the couch and my Grandpa would take over my room. The day before he arrived an intense G.I. Joe battle was in progress. The fight that particular day took place on the harsh terrain of my bed comforter. Finding a package of thumb tacks in the office supplies earlier that day was the true cause of war. See, I wasn't very imaginative as a kid, so the idea came without delay. Gunshots = holes. So, fast forward through what would be concerning to watch as an adult seeing this demon child practicing Voodoo. Two days later at breakfast after my grandfather has spent his first night, my dad comes into the kitchen. \"Morning, did you sleep okay?\". To which my grandfather replies quickly \"I did, until I rolled over on a thumb tack and it stuck me in the pecker\". Busted. No more access to office supplies for quite awhile after that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First post after lurking for a few years now. Figure I'll give being a real Redditor a try.\nSo this was actually when I was about 10 years old. It is one of those burried memories that you recall once every 3 years. So here it is:\n\nMy grandpa was visiting over Thanksgiving one year and being that we didn't have a spare bedroom it was routine that I, the youngest sibling, was relocated to the couch and my Grandpa would take over my room. The day before he arrived an intense G.I. Joe battle was in progress. The fight that particular day took place on the harsh terrain of my bed comforter. Finding a package of thumb tacks in the office supplies earlier that day was the true cause of war. See, I wasn't very imaginative as a kid, so the idea came without delay. Gunshots = holes. So, fast forward through what would be concerning to watch as an adult seeing this demon child practicing Voodoo. Two days later at breakfast after my grandfather has spent his first night, my dad comes into the kitchen. \"Morning, did you sleep okay?\". To which my grandfather replies quickly \"I did, until I rolled over on a thumb tack and it stuck me in the pecker\". Busted. No more access to office supplies for quite awhile after that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick history lesson:\n\nLast summer a girl started working at my company. We work in different departments. When she started working, I took notice and made an effort to get to know her. After a couple months, I asked her out and found out she was involved with someone.which was verified when we became facebook friends later on. I didn't take it personal and we simply stayed friends at work.\n\nWell recently, I'm getting a vibe that she's interested in hanging out together. We never hangout outside of work, we just talk during work and we'll go out to lunch together. We never talk about personal topics, just current events. Oh, and I deleted facebook a few months ago. the reason I don't just ask is because I don't want her to think I'm just staying friends to wait until she's single.cause that's not the case. And I'd like to avoid the \"I already told you I'm involved\" response. Like I stated eariler, we never talk about relationships, so it would be weird for me to bring it up nonchalantly.\n\nAre there methods of finding this type of info out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick history lesson:\n\nLast summer a girl started working at my company. We work in different departments. When she started working, I took notice and made an effort to get to know her. After a couple months, I asked her out and found out she was involved with someone.which was verified when we became facebook friends later on. I didn't take it personal and we simply stayed friends at work.\n\nWell recently, I'm getting a vibe that she's interested in hanging out together. We never hangout outside of work, we just talk during work and we'll go out to lunch together. We never talk about personal topics, just current events. Oh, and I deleted facebook a few months ago. the reason I don't just ask is because I don't want her to think I'm just staying friends to wait until she's single.cause that's not the case. And I'd like to avoid the \"I already told you I'm involved\" response. Like I stated eariler, we never talk about relationships, so it would be weird for me to bring it up nonchalantly.\n\nAre there methods of finding this type of info out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick history lesson:\n\nLast summer a girl started working at my company. We work in different departments. When she started working, I took notice and made an effort to get to know her. After a couple months, I asked her out and found out she was involved with someone.which was verified when we became facebook friends later on. I didn't take it personal and we simply stayed friends at work.\n\nWell recently, I'm getting a vibe that she's interested in hanging out together. We never hangout outside of work, we just talk during work and we'll go out to lunch together. We never talk about personal topics, just current events. Oh, and I deleted facebook a few months ago. the reason I don't just ask is because I don't want her to think I'm just staying friends to wait until she's single.cause that's not the case. And I'd like to avoid the \"I already told you I'm involved\" response. Like I stated eariler, we never talk about relationships, so it would be weird for me to bring it up nonchalantly.\n\nAre there methods of finding this type of info out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently myself [22M] and a friend of three years [21F] (not close, on and off) hooked up and from there began a relationship. We dated for four months before she called time on it in January because she \"wanted to be alone\" and by herself for the last few months of our last year of University (although she followed this up by saying she would probably \"regret\" her decision in a few weeks and that I was \"the best\" boyfriend she'd ever had, great closure, huh?).\n\nI understand all her reasoning behind it, the last year being stressful and to add a relationship onto that would be extra tough. However, although I agreed to still be friends with her, I still have strong latent feelings for her. I have attempted \"No Contact\" a few times but keep getting drawn back into texting/messaging her. Every now and again I will feel like I'm over it only to see her around, get a text or be at a party/gathering with her and have everything rush back.\n\nI'm sick of this, and so have resolved to bite the bullet and confess that I am still attracted to her, and, though I'm aware that at the moment she just wants to be alone and be friends, its not something I can change for now.\n\nI don't, however, know how to approach this. I obviously shouldn't (and don't plan to) do this over text or messaging. However I also feel a phonecall would be too impersonal and wouldn't get my point across properly. I was thinking of inviting her to have lunch at a neutral location (a cafe on campus or similar) and talking to her there.\n\nSo, the crux of the matter is what do I say and how do I go about it? I don't want her to feel like its her fault or that I'm going to ignore her / be a dick about it. If anyone has any ideas or suggestion it would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently myself [22M] and a friend of three years [21F] (not close, on and off) hooked up and from there began a relationship. We dated for four months before she called time on it in January because she \"wanted to be alone\" and by herself for the last few months of our last year of University (although she followed this up by saying she would probably \"regret\" her decision in a few weeks and that I was \"the best\" boyfriend she'd ever had, great closure, huh?).\n\nI understand all her reasoning behind it, the last year being stressful and to add a relationship onto that would be extra tough. However, although I agreed to still be friends with her, I still have strong latent feelings for her. I have attempted \"No Contact\" a few times but keep getting drawn back into texting/messaging her. Every now and again I will feel like I'm over it only to see her around, get a text or be at a party/gathering with her and have everything rush back.\n\nI'm sick of this, and so have resolved to bite the bullet and confess that I am still attracted to her, and, though I'm aware that at the moment she just wants to be alone and be friends, its not something I can change for now.\n\nI don't, however, know how to approach this. I obviously shouldn't (and don't plan to) do this over text or messaging. However I also feel a phonecall would be too impersonal and wouldn't get my point across properly. I was thinking of inviting her to have lunch at a neutral location (a cafe on campus or similar) and talking to her there.\n\nSo, the crux of the matter is what do I say and how do I go about it? I don't want her to feel like its her fault or that I'm going to ignore her / be a dick about it. If anyone has any ideas or suggestion it would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently myself [22M] and a friend of three years [21F] (not close, on and off) hooked up and from there began a relationship. We dated for four months before she called time on it in January because she \"wanted to be alone\" and by herself for the last few months of our last year of University (although she followed this up by saying she would probably \"regret\" her decision in a few weeks and that I was \"the best\" boyfriend she'd ever had, great closure, huh?).\n\nI understand all her reasoning behind it, the last year being stressful and to add a relationship onto that would be extra tough. However, although I agreed to still be friends with her, I still have strong latent feelings for her. I have attempted \"No Contact\" a few times but keep getting drawn back into texting/messaging her. Every now and again I will feel like I'm over it only to see her around, get a text or be at a party/gathering with her and have everything rush back.\n\nI'm sick of this, and so have resolved to bite the bullet and confess that I am still attracted to her, and, though I'm aware that at the moment she just wants to be alone and be friends, its not something I can change for now.\n\nI don't, however, know how to approach this. I obviously shouldn't (and don't plan to) do this over text or messaging. However I also feel a phonecall would be too impersonal and wouldn't get my point across properly. I was thinking of inviting her to have lunch at a neutral location (a cafe on campus or similar) and talking to her there.\n\nSo, the crux of the matter is what do I say and how do I go about it? I don't want her to feel like its her fault or that I'm going to ignore her / be a dick about it. If anyone has any ideas or suggestion it would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 22f and my boyfriend (21) and I have been together for a little over five months. Not very long, but I feel like he's the best boyfriend I've ever had- at least the most romantic and thoughtful. He's so many things I feel like I want in a man: open-minded, smart, somewhat adventurous, thoughtful, sweet. He's even open to moving around (not always easy to find in Southern LA guys), has an adventurous appetite, AND is great in bed. He's VERY good at communicating, and understands himself well emotionally. He's the most affectionate, thoughtful, and communicative boyfriend I've ever had. But I've been unhappy. Almost this whole time. I don't know if it's the relationship or if I'm overthinking and taking things personally. Or maybe both? I feel like there's something wrong with me that I can't seem to enjoy a relationship with this wonderful guy who's worst characteristics come down to laziness, not having his life 'figured out', and being a bit quirkier than most of my friends. I keep telling myself that we can be happy, that I'm just getting in my own way with negative thoughts, but I have trouble stopping those negative thoughts. \n\nMy friends and family think this friendly, charismatic nerd is so wonderful and such a great match for me, but I don't know. \n\nIn past relationships, and now, I have a problem with maintaining my independence/being happy when alone. I'm not sure how complicated this all really is, but it feels like it's pretty complicated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 22f and my boyfriend (21) and I have been together for a little over five months. Not very long, but I feel like he's the best boyfriend I've ever had- at least the most romantic and thoughtful. He's so many things I feel like I want in a man: open-minded, smart, somewhat adventurous, thoughtful, sweet. He's even open to moving around (not always easy to find in Southern LA guys), has an adventurous appetite, AND is great in bed. He's VERY good at communicating, and understands himself well emotionally. He's the most affectionate, thoughtful, and communicative boyfriend I've ever had. But I've been unhappy. Almost this whole time. I don't know if it's the relationship or if I'm overthinking and taking things personally. Or maybe both? I feel like there's something wrong with me that I can't seem to enjoy a relationship with this wonderful guy who's worst characteristics come down to laziness, not having his life 'figured out', and being a bit quirkier than most of my friends. I keep telling myself that we can be happy, that I'm just getting in my own way with negative thoughts, but I have trouble stopping those negative thoughts. \n\nMy friends and family think this friendly, charismatic nerd is so wonderful and such a great match for me, but I don't know. \n\nIn past relationships, and now, I have a problem with maintaining my independence/being happy when alone. I'm not sure how complicated this all really is, but it feels like it's pretty complicated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 22f and my boyfriend (21) and I have been together for a little over five months. Not very long, but I feel like he's the best boyfriend I've ever had- at least the most romantic and thoughtful. He's so many things I feel like I want in a man: open-minded, smart, somewhat adventurous, thoughtful, sweet. He's even open to moving around (not always easy to find in Southern LA guys), has an adventurous appetite, AND is great in bed. He's VERY good at communicating, and understands himself well emotionally. He's the most affectionate, thoughtful, and communicative boyfriend I've ever had. But I've been unhappy. Almost this whole time. I don't know if it's the relationship or if I'm overthinking and taking things personally. Or maybe both? I feel like there's something wrong with me that I can't seem to enjoy a relationship with this wonderful guy who's worst characteristics come down to laziness, not having his life 'figured out', and being a bit quirkier than most of my friends. I keep telling myself that we can be happy, that I'm just getting in my own way with negative thoughts, but I have trouble stopping those negative thoughts. \n\nMy friends and family think this friendly, charismatic nerd is so wonderful and such a great match for me, but I don't know. \n\nIn past relationships, and now, I have a problem with maintaining my independence/being happy when alone. I'm not sure how complicated this all really is, but it feels like it's pretty complicated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the weirdest situation ever so please bear with me. My friend was over earlier tonight and she was using my cell phone while I was making food. My cell phone has nudes of my boyfriend on it, I know it's stupid to do that so I don't need a lesson about it please. We've been together for over two years and we fully trust eachother and I'm never doing anything like it again. I had gave her permission to use my phone, she didn't just take it. But I hadn't thought about the pictures, she was just using it to go online on though so I didn't think much of it. I came back in the room and got my phone back and we just went on with our evening.\n\nBut about an hour after she leaves I got some email notifications on my phone, that was weird because I don't have my email set up on my phone in the email app. So I check it and she had left her email signed in, I saw messages from herself to herself, of pictures that was sent around the time she wouldve been using my phone. I know it's kind of snooping but I clicked on it, and she literally sent pictures of my boyfriend on my phone, to her own email. So she probably has them saved on her computer or something now.\n\nI have no idea how to confront her about it because it's the most awkward situation ever, but I have to say something. And I want to make sure she deletes those pictures. I don't even want to continue our friendship anymore if she doesn't. I feel completely betrayed and I think that was disrespectful to my boyfriend, me, our relationship, and our friendship. I haven't told my boyfriend yet as I'm sure he'll be mad at me, but I'll tell him after I resolve this. What can I do?! :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the weirdest situation ever so please bear with me. My friend was over earlier tonight and she was using my cell phone while I was making food. My cell phone has nudes of my boyfriend on it, I know it's stupid to do that so I don't need a lesson about it please. We've been together for over two years and we fully trust eachother and I'm never doing anything like it again. I had gave her permission to use my phone, she didn't just take it. But I hadn't thought about the pictures, she was just using it to go online on though so I didn't think much of it. I came back in the room and got my phone back and we just went on with our evening.\n\nBut about an hour after she leaves I got some email notifications on my phone, that was weird because I don't have my email set up on my phone in the email app. So I check it and she had left her email signed in, I saw messages from herself to herself, of pictures that was sent around the time she wouldve been using my phone. I know it's kind of snooping but I clicked on it, and she literally sent pictures of my boyfriend on my phone, to her own email. So she probably has them saved on her computer or something now.\n\nI have no idea how to confront her about it because it's the most awkward situation ever, but I have to say something. And I want to make sure she deletes those pictures. I don't even want to continue our friendship anymore if she doesn't. I feel completely betrayed and I think that was disrespectful to my boyfriend, me, our relationship, and our friendship. I haven't told my boyfriend yet as I'm sure he'll be mad at me, but I'll tell him after I resolve this. What can I do?! :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the weirdest situation ever so please bear with me. My friend was over earlier tonight and she was using my cell phone while I was making food. My cell phone has nudes of my boyfriend on it, I know it's stupid to do that so I don't need a lesson about it please. We've been together for over two years and we fully trust eachother and I'm never doing anything like it again. I had gave her permission to use my phone, she didn't just take it. But I hadn't thought about the pictures, she was just using it to go online on though so I didn't think much of it. I came back in the room and got my phone back and we just went on with our evening.\n\nBut about an hour after she leaves I got some email notifications on my phone, that was weird because I don't have my email set up on my phone in the email app. So I check it and she had left her email signed in, I saw messages from herself to herself, of pictures that was sent around the time she wouldve been using my phone. I know it's kind of snooping but I clicked on it, and she literally sent pictures of my boyfriend on my phone, to her own email. So she probably has them saved on her computer or something now.\n\nI have no idea how to confront her about it because it's the most awkward situation ever, but I have to say something. And I want to make sure she deletes those pictures. I don't even want to continue our friendship anymore if she doesn't. I feel completely betrayed and I think that was disrespectful to my boyfriend, me, our relationship, and our friendship. I haven't told my boyfriend yet as I'm sure he'll be mad at me, but I'll tell him after I resolve this. What can I do?! :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This guy and I have been hanging out for 3 months now. We work together and have known each other for a few years before that. \n\nIt started off as a once or twice a week hang out where we would also have sex. He eventually asked me out on a date, we went to the movies and dinner, for which he paid, even though I tried to offer. From there it escalated to texting, even briefly, everyday and for the past few weeks we have been hanging out three or four times a week. He is super affectionate and is always doing things to help me, whether it be at work, or smaller things when we have been hanging out. \n\nI'm currently confused though because we hung out Monday night at his house and we were both super tired, so we did not really get into any deep conversations. We just kinda hung around, watched tv, and eventually fell asleep. Usually we will hang out every other day or so or at least there will have been an effort to do so. I texted him last night to see what he was doing, and he responded that he was in a weird mood and feeling under the weather. I responded saying that I hope he felt better thinking that was the end of the conversation. He asked if I was doing anything yet for the night, and I said I didn't have any plans, but that I just thought of hanging out with him. He responded \"I was planning on that too earlier, sorry :(\".\n\nI am just at a loss of what to think. Am I overthinking this and he just is having a bad week? Or could this be the beginning of a fade? I guess I'm just also disappointed because his dad is gone for the week and he has the house to himself, so I wrongly assumed I guess that we would be hanging out more than once, which I am also worried is clouding my judgment of the situation.\n\nShould I even bother trying to text him again to hang out? Or just give him space and wait to see if he contacts me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This guy and I have been hanging out for 3 months now. We work together and have known each other for a few years before that. \n\nIt started off as a once or twice a week hang out where we would also have sex. He eventually asked me out on a date, we went to the movies and dinner, for which he paid, even though I tried to offer. From there it escalated to texting, even briefly, everyday and for the past few weeks we have been hanging out three or four times a week. He is super affectionate and is always doing things to help me, whether it be at work, or smaller things when we have been hanging out. \n\nI'm currently confused though because we hung out Monday night at his house and we were both super tired, so we did not really get into any deep conversations. We just kinda hung around, watched tv, and eventually fell asleep. Usually we will hang out every other day or so or at least there will have been an effort to do so. I texted him last night to see what he was doing, and he responded that he was in a weird mood and feeling under the weather. I responded saying that I hope he felt better thinking that was the end of the conversation. He asked if I was doing anything yet for the night, and I said I didn't have any plans, but that I just thought of hanging out with him. He responded \"I was planning on that too earlier, sorry :(\".\n\nI am just at a loss of what to think. Am I overthinking this and he just is having a bad week? Or could this be the beginning of a fade? I guess I'm just also disappointed because his dad is gone for the week and he has the house to himself, so I wrongly assumed I guess that we would be hanging out more than once, which I am also worried is clouding my judgment of the situation.\n\nShould I even bother trying to text him again to hang out? Or just give him space and wait to see if he contacts me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This guy and I have been hanging out for 3 months now. We work together and have known each other for a few years before that. \n\nIt started off as a once or twice a week hang out where we would also have sex. He eventually asked me out on a date, we went to the movies and dinner, for which he paid, even though I tried to offer. From there it escalated to texting, even briefly, everyday and for the past few weeks we have been hanging out three or four times a week. He is super affectionate and is always doing things to help me, whether it be at work, or smaller things when we have been hanging out. \n\nI'm currently confused though because we hung out Monday night at his house and we were both super tired, so we did not really get into any deep conversations. We just kinda hung around, watched tv, and eventually fell asleep. Usually we will hang out every other day or so or at least there will have been an effort to do so. I texted him last night to see what he was doing, and he responded that he was in a weird mood and feeling under the weather. I responded saying that I hope he felt better thinking that was the end of the conversation. He asked if I was doing anything yet for the night, and I said I didn't have any plans, but that I just thought of hanging out with him. He responded \"I was planning on that too earlier, sorry :(\".\n\nI am just at a loss of what to think. Am I overthinking this and he just is having a bad week? Or could this be the beginning of a fade? I guess I'm just also disappointed because his dad is gone for the week and he has the house to himself, so I wrongly assumed I guess that we would be hanging out more than once, which I am also worried is clouding my judgment of the situation.\n\nShould I even bother trying to text him again to hang out? Or just give him space and wait to see if he contacts me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This guy and I have been hanging out for 3 months now. We work together and have known each other for a few years before that. \n\nIt started off as a once or twice a week hang out where we would also have sex. He eventually asked me out on a date, we went to the movies and dinner, for which he paid, even though I tried to offer. From there it escalated to texting, even briefly, everyday and for the past few weeks we have been hanging out three or four times a week. He is super affectionate and is always doing things to help me, whether it be at work, or smaller things when we have been hanging out. \n\nI'm currently confused though because we hung out Monday night at his house and we were both super tired, so we did not really get into any deep conversations. We just kinda hung around, watched tv, and eventually fell asleep. Usually we will hang out every other day or so or at least there will have been an effort to do so. I texted him last night to see what he was doing, and he responded that he was in a weird mood and feeling under the weather. I responded saying that I hope he felt better thinking that was the end of the conversation. He asked if I was doing anything yet for the night, and I said I didn't have any plans, but that I just thought of hanging out with him. He responded \"I was planning on that too earlier, sorry :(\".\n\nI am just at a loss of what to think. Am I overthinking this and he just is having a bad week? Or could this be the beginning of a fade? I guess I'm just also disappointed because his dad is gone for the week and he has the house to himself, so I wrongly assumed I guess that we would be hanging out more than once, which I am also worried is clouding my judgment of the situation.\n\nShould I even bother trying to text him again to hang out? Or just give him space and wait to see if he contacts me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This guy and I have been hanging out for 3 months now. We work together and have known each other for a few years before that. \n\nIt started off as a once or twice a week hang out where we would also have sex. He eventually asked me out on a date, we went to the movies and dinner, for which he paid, even though I tried to offer. From there it escalated to texting, even briefly, everyday and for the past few weeks we have been hanging out three or four times a week. He is super affectionate and is always doing things to help me, whether it be at work, or smaller things when we have been hanging out. \n\nI'm currently confused though because we hung out Monday night at his house and we were both super tired, so we did not really get into any deep conversations. We just kinda hung around, watched tv, and eventually fell asleep. Usually we will hang out every other day or so or at least there will have been an effort to do so. I texted him last night to see what he was doing, and he responded that he was in a weird mood and feeling under the weather. I responded saying that I hope he felt better thinking that was the end of the conversation. He asked if I was doing anything yet for the night, and I said I didn't have any plans, but that I just thought of hanging out with him. He responded \"I was planning on that too earlier, sorry :(\".\n\nI am just at a loss of what to think. Am I overthinking this and he just is having a bad week? Or could this be the beginning of a fade? I guess I'm just also disappointed because his dad is gone for the week and he has the house to himself, so I wrongly assumed I guess that we would be hanging out more than once, which I am also worried is clouding my judgment of the situation.\n\nShould I even bother trying to text him again to hang out? Or just give him space and wait to see if he contacts me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This guy and I have been hanging out for 3 months now. We work together and have known each other for a few years before that. \n\nIt started off as a once or twice a week hang out where we would also have sex. He eventually asked me out on a date, we went to the movies and dinner, for which he paid, even though I tried to offer. From there it escalated to texting, even briefly, everyday and for the past few weeks we have been hanging out three or four times a week. He is super affectionate and is always doing things to help me, whether it be at work, or smaller things when we have been hanging out. \n\nI'm currently confused though because we hung out Monday night at his house and we were both super tired, so we did not really get into any deep conversations. We just kinda hung around, watched tv, and eventually fell asleep. Usually we will hang out every other day or so or at least there will have been an effort to do so. I texted him last night to see what he was doing, and he responded that he was in a weird mood and feeling under the weather. I responded saying that I hope he felt better thinking that was the end of the conversation. He asked if I was doing anything yet for the night, and I said I didn't have any plans, but that I just thought of hanging out with him. He responded \"I was planning on that too earlier, sorry :(\".\n\nI am just at a loss of what to think. Am I overthinking this and he just is having a bad week? Or could this be the beginning of a fade? I guess I'm just also disappointed because his dad is gone for the week and he has the house to himself, so I wrongly assumed I guess that we would be hanging out more than once, which I am also worried is clouding my judgment of the situation.\n\nShould I even bother trying to text him again to hang out? Or just give him space and wait to see if he contacts me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: # Part 1\nI'm finding it hard to understand something. My ex GF broke up with me 6 months ago, I tried winning her back for 6 months. We would see each other once every 2 weeks and we'd get on like 2 peas in a pod and she kept leading me on, however 2 days after seeing her she would tell me it was a mistake and that we can't speak anymore. This of course was really unfair and caused me great depression. \n\n# Part 2\nAfter dealing with this for 6 months I decided to completely cut her out, and I've been doing good by not messaging her anymore. She still messages me almost every 2nd night. I don't get it. She doesn't want anything to do with me however she still messages me. Surely if someone wanted to cut someone out of their life they wouldn't go through all the trouble of constantly messaging someone? \n\n# Part 3\nI guess what I'm trying to get at is, does anyone have an explanation as to why someone who broke up with me keeps messaging me even after I said goodbye for good? \n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: # Part 1\nI'm finding it hard to understand something. My ex GF broke up with me 6 months ago, I tried winning her back for 6 months. We would see each other once every 2 weeks and we'd get on like 2 peas in a pod and she kept leading me on, however 2 days after seeing her she would tell me it was a mistake and that we can't speak anymore. This of course was really unfair and caused me great depression. \n\n# Part 2\nAfter dealing with this for 6 months I decided to completely cut her out, and I've been doing good by not messaging her anymore. She still messages me almost every 2nd night. I don't get it. She doesn't want anything to do with me however she still messages me. Surely if someone wanted to cut someone out of their life they wouldn't go through all the trouble of constantly messaging someone? \n\n# Part 3\nI guess what I'm trying to get at is, does anyone have an explanation as to why someone who broke up with me keeps messaging me even after I said goodbye for good? \n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: # Part 1\nI'm finding it hard to understand something. My ex GF broke up with me 6 months ago, I tried winning her back for 6 months. We would see each other once every 2 weeks and we'd get on like 2 peas in a pod and she kept leading me on, however 2 days after seeing her she would tell me it was a mistake and that we can't speak anymore. This of course was really unfair and caused me great depression. \n\n# Part 2\nAfter dealing with this for 6 months I decided to completely cut her out, and I've been doing good by not messaging her anymore. She still messages me almost every 2nd night. I don't get it. She doesn't want anything to do with me however she still messages me. Surely if someone wanted to cut someone out of their life they wouldn't go through all the trouble of constantly messaging someone? \n\n# Part 3\nI guess what I'm trying to get at is, does anyone have an explanation as to why someone who broke up with me keeps messaging me even after I said goodbye for good? \n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has been working really long retail shifts for the last two months and she's been getting extremely stressed out from it. She's been crying in my arms some nights because of it. Her ex also recently tried contacting her to get her to break up with me, but she told him to leave us alone and stayed with me.\n\nI feel like she's been disconnected lately. Messages I send her usually get a one-word reply. She doesn't have the same passion for food or games like she used to. Whenever I spend time with her in-person, she acts like she used to, but I think that she's hurting from the weight of all of these things in her life.\n\nI've been depressed before in my life and I can see the same things going on with her that were going on with me. I just wish I knew what to do other than be here for her. \nI really want her to be happy, and I've tried to help. I've gotten her candy, flowers, all of the cliche stuff, listened to everything she has to say, spent time with her together going out on dates and dinners, lunches, etc.\n\nI always try and be there for her emotionally. I let her know that I love her and that she can always talk to me about how she feels. She says that I'm the best boyfriend she's ever had.\n\nShe knows that she wants to be a background artist for a video game company, but she can't get a good student loan to go back to school. She's been really worried about not wanting to end up in a dead-end job forever. \n\nI think she's really talented and she could go far, but I don't know how to help her with that. I've showed her some indie projects she could submit ideas to get her started down that path, but so much of her time is taken up by work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has been working really long retail shifts for the last two months and she's been getting extremely stressed out from it. She's been crying in my arms some nights because of it. Her ex also recently tried contacting her to get her to break up with me, but she told him to leave us alone and stayed with me.\n\nI feel like she's been disconnected lately. Messages I send her usually get a one-word reply. She doesn't have the same passion for food or games like she used to. Whenever I spend time with her in-person, she acts like she used to, but I think that she's hurting from the weight of all of these things in her life.\n\nI've been depressed before in my life and I can see the same things going on with her that were going on with me. I just wish I knew what to do other than be here for her. \nI really want her to be happy, and I've tried to help. I've gotten her candy, flowers, all of the cliche stuff, listened to everything she has to say, spent time with her together going out on dates and dinners, lunches, etc.\n\nI always try and be there for her emotionally. I let her know that I love her and that she can always talk to me about how she feels. She says that I'm the best boyfriend she's ever had.\n\nShe knows that she wants to be a background artist for a video game company, but she can't get a good student loan to go back to school. She's been really worried about not wanting to end up in a dead-end job forever. \n\nI think she's really talented and she could go far, but I don't know how to help her with that. I've showed her some indie projects she could submit ideas to get her started down that path, but so much of her time is taken up by work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has been working really long retail shifts for the last two months and she's been getting extremely stressed out from it. She's been crying in my arms some nights because of it. Her ex also recently tried contacting her to get her to break up with me, but she told him to leave us alone and stayed with me.\n\nI feel like she's been disconnected lately. Messages I send her usually get a one-word reply. She doesn't have the same passion for food or games like she used to. Whenever I spend time with her in-person, she acts like she used to, but I think that she's hurting from the weight of all of these things in her life.\n\nI've been depressed before in my life and I can see the same things going on with her that were going on with me. I just wish I knew what to do other than be here for her. \nI really want her to be happy, and I've tried to help. I've gotten her candy, flowers, all of the cliche stuff, listened to everything she has to say, spent time with her together going out on dates and dinners, lunches, etc.\n\nI always try and be there for her emotionally. I let her know that I love her and that she can always talk to me about how she feels. She says that I'm the best boyfriend she's ever had.\n\nShe knows that she wants to be a background artist for a video game company, but she can't get a good student loan to go back to school. She's been really worried about not wanting to end up in a dead-end job forever. \n\nI think she's really talented and she could go far, but I don't know how to help her with that. I've showed her some indie projects she could submit ideas to get her started down that path, but so much of her time is taken up by work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother watched Cesar Millan a lot before we got our dog, and she acted like she knew everything there was to know about training and raising a dog. \n\nIts been about 2 years with our dog, and he has a problem with barking at the door when people go to open it (doesn't seem like that much of a problem to me). My mother's reaction is to yell at him, or if he does it sequentially, she will strike him in the thigh/rear end.\n\nWhenever I step in and try and take control of the situation, she will get mad, and try and tell me how to handle this kind of thing, because she thinks she is a dog expert. (This upsets me because it feels like I am being talked down to)\n\nThe last strand was crossed today, when I was in the basement watching tv, I heard my dog bark at the door, and then my mother get up and yell at him. He ran into our sun room, which is above the basement, and I could hear her hit him, and his paws skid on the floor. I went up to check on him (he was fine, no damage, happy little guy when he's with me) and my mother yelled at me to put him back in the room where he is to stay \"for a long long time\" because he tried to bite her when she was \"disciplining\" him.\n\nHer solution to my dogs problem is completely inappropriate, and no way to treat a dog. I believe in positive reinforcement, and I am getting very frustrated listening to her complain about my dog, and her inappropriate ways of dealing with his barking.\n\nSo if anyone knows a way I can tell her what she is doing is wrong, or if there is a way I can try and get my dog to stop barking at the door, please let me know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother watched Cesar Millan a lot before we got our dog, and she acted like she knew everything there was to know about training and raising a dog. \n\nIts been about 2 years with our dog, and he has a problem with barking at the door when people go to open it (doesn't seem like that much of a problem to me). My mother's reaction is to yell at him, or if he does it sequentially, she will strike him in the thigh/rear end.\n\nWhenever I step in and try and take control of the situation, she will get mad, and try and tell me how to handle this kind of thing, because she thinks she is a dog expert. (This upsets me because it feels like I am being talked down to)\n\nThe last strand was crossed today, when I was in the basement watching tv, I heard my dog bark at the door, and then my mother get up and yell at him. He ran into our sun room, which is above the basement, and I could hear her hit him, and his paws skid on the floor. I went up to check on him (he was fine, no damage, happy little guy when he's with me) and my mother yelled at me to put him back in the room where he is to stay \"for a long long time\" because he tried to bite her when she was \"disciplining\" him.\n\nHer solution to my dogs problem is completely inappropriate, and no way to treat a dog. I believe in positive reinforcement, and I am getting very frustrated listening to her complain about my dog, and her inappropriate ways of dealing with his barking.\n\nSo if anyone knows a way I can tell her what she is doing is wrong, or if there is a way I can try and get my dog to stop barking at the door, please let me know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother watched Cesar Millan a lot before we got our dog, and she acted like she knew everything there was to know about training and raising a dog. \n\nIts been about 2 years with our dog, and he has a problem with barking at the door when people go to open it (doesn't seem like that much of a problem to me). My mother's reaction is to yell at him, or if he does it sequentially, she will strike him in the thigh/rear end.\n\nWhenever I step in and try and take control of the situation, she will get mad, and try and tell me how to handle this kind of thing, because she thinks she is a dog expert. (This upsets me because it feels like I am being talked down to)\n\nThe last strand was crossed today, when I was in the basement watching tv, I heard my dog bark at the door, and then my mother get up and yell at him. He ran into our sun room, which is above the basement, and I could hear her hit him, and his paws skid on the floor. I went up to check on him (he was fine, no damage, happy little guy when he's with me) and my mother yelled at me to put him back in the room where he is to stay \"for a long long time\" because he tried to bite her when she was \"disciplining\" him.\n\nHer solution to my dogs problem is completely inappropriate, and no way to treat a dog. I believe in positive reinforcement, and I am getting very frustrated listening to her complain about my dog, and her inappropriate ways of dealing with his barking.\n\nSo if anyone knows a way I can tell her what she is doing is wrong, or if there is a way I can try and get my dog to stop barking at the door, please let me know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother watched Cesar Millan a lot before we got our dog, and she acted like she knew everything there was to know about training and raising a dog. \n\nIts been about 2 years with our dog, and he has a problem with barking at the door when people go to open it (doesn't seem like that much of a problem to me). My mother's reaction is to yell at him, or if he does it sequentially, she will strike him in the thigh/rear end.\n\nWhenever I step in and try and take control of the situation, she will get mad, and try and tell me how to handle this kind of thing, because she thinks she is a dog expert. (This upsets me because it feels like I am being talked down to)\n\nThe last strand was crossed today, when I was in the basement watching tv, I heard my dog bark at the door, and then my mother get up and yell at him. He ran into our sun room, which is above the basement, and I could hear her hit him, and his paws skid on the floor. I went up to check on him (he was fine, no damage, happy little guy when he's with me) and my mother yelled at me to put him back in the room where he is to stay \"for a long long time\" because he tried to bite her when she was \"disciplining\" him.\n\nHer solution to my dogs problem is completely inappropriate, and no way to treat a dog. I believe in positive reinforcement, and I am getting very frustrated listening to her complain about my dog, and her inappropriate ways of dealing with his barking.\n\nSo if anyone knows a way I can tell her what she is doing is wrong, or if there is a way I can try and get my dog to stop barking at the door, please let me know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother watched Cesar Millan a lot before we got our dog, and she acted like she knew everything there was to know about training and raising a dog. \n\nIts been about 2 years with our dog, and he has a problem with barking at the door when people go to open it (doesn't seem like that much of a problem to me). My mother's reaction is to yell at him, or if he does it sequentially, she will strike him in the thigh/rear end.\n\nWhenever I step in and try and take control of the situation, she will get mad, and try and tell me how to handle this kind of thing, because she thinks she is a dog expert. (This upsets me because it feels like I am being talked down to)\n\nThe last strand was crossed today, when I was in the basement watching tv, I heard my dog bark at the door, and then my mother get up and yell at him. He ran into our sun room, which is above the basement, and I could hear her hit him, and his paws skid on the floor. I went up to check on him (he was fine, no damage, happy little guy when he's with me) and my mother yelled at me to put him back in the room where he is to stay \"for a long long time\" because he tried to bite her when she was \"disciplining\" him.\n\nHer solution to my dogs problem is completely inappropriate, and no way to treat a dog. I believe in positive reinforcement, and I am getting very frustrated listening to her complain about my dog, and her inappropriate ways of dealing with his barking.\n\nSo if anyone knows a way I can tell her what she is doing is wrong, or if there is a way I can try and get my dog to stop barking at the door, please let me know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother watched Cesar Millan a lot before we got our dog, and she acted like she knew everything there was to know about training and raising a dog. \n\nIts been about 2 years with our dog, and he has a problem with barking at the door when people go to open it (doesn't seem like that much of a problem to me). My mother's reaction is to yell at him, or if he does it sequentially, she will strike him in the thigh/rear end.\n\nWhenever I step in and try and take control of the situation, she will get mad, and try and tell me how to handle this kind of thing, because she thinks she is a dog expert. (This upsets me because it feels like I am being talked down to)\n\nThe last strand was crossed today, when I was in the basement watching tv, I heard my dog bark at the door, and then my mother get up and yell at him. He ran into our sun room, which is above the basement, and I could hear her hit him, and his paws skid on the floor. I went up to check on him (he was fine, no damage, happy little guy when he's with me) and my mother yelled at me to put him back in the room where he is to stay \"for a long long time\" because he tried to bite her when she was \"disciplining\" him.\n\nHer solution to my dogs problem is completely inappropriate, and no way to treat a dog. I believe in positive reinforcement, and I am getting very frustrated listening to her complain about my dog, and her inappropriate ways of dealing with his barking.\n\nSo if anyone knows a way I can tell her what she is doing is wrong, or if there is a way I can try and get my dog to stop barking at the door, please let me know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf of just over a year sometimes posts nude pics of herself on her Tumblr and I'm really uncomfortable with it. I feel like such a hypocrite because I was fine about us posting in r/GW, It was my idea. posting pics of yourself to anonymous strangers for shits n' giggles is fine with me, But when it's on her Tumblr it isn't really anonymous at all, it's mostly her friends, be it male or female. She isn't posting smut, It's pretty tasteful for the most part. I'm just really uncomfortable about the idea of her friends seeing her naked. Is it normal for me to not be ok with this, or am I just being stupid and jealous? How would you feel in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf of just over a year sometimes posts nude pics of herself on her Tumblr and I'm really uncomfortable with it. I feel like such a hypocrite because I was fine about us posting in r/GW, It was my idea. posting pics of yourself to anonymous strangers for shits n' giggles is fine with me, But when it's on her Tumblr it isn't really anonymous at all, it's mostly her friends, be it male or female. She isn't posting smut, It's pretty tasteful for the most part. I'm just really uncomfortable about the idea of her friends seeing her naked. Is it normal for me to not be ok with this, or am I just being stupid and jealous? How would you feel in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf of just over a year sometimes posts nude pics of herself on her Tumblr and I'm really uncomfortable with it. I feel like such a hypocrite because I was fine about us posting in r/GW, It was my idea. posting pics of yourself to anonymous strangers for shits n' giggles is fine with me, But when it's on her Tumblr it isn't really anonymous at all, it's mostly her friends, be it male or female. She isn't posting smut, It's pretty tasteful for the most part. I'm just really uncomfortable about the idea of her friends seeing her naked. Is it normal for me to not be ok with this, or am I just being stupid and jealous? How would you feel in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: this has probably been asked before.\n\nI have two 3 month old pomchi puppies. I'm in the process of teaching them everything, and of course because i have two litter mates it's double the effort. I'm also teaching them (boys) \"leave it\" and \"drop it\" One gets drop it, the other doesnt.\n\nThe one that doesn't get it got a hold of my Nintendo DS charger and chewed the plug (not the socket part but the part that goes into the DS) off of the wire. I didn't want him chewing it because the bare wires were showing now and it was still plugged in and i also didn't want him chewing on plastic he could swallow so i gave the command drop it tempted him with some delicious treats but he was content on keeping the charger with him. \n\nbecause of the exposed wire part i decided to grab it out of his reach (90% of the time he doesnt growl or care)\n\nthis time he did. he snapped and tried to bit me. got me in the hand but it didn't hurt because hes so small.\n\nafter i got it away i felt around the blanket he was sittin on to see if i missed any pieces and he tried two more times to bite and snap at my hand.\n\nIt was aggression.\n\nWhat do you recommend I do if the drop it or leave it or tempting with treats thing doesn't work (or they haven't learned it yet) \n\nor if hes chewing something dangerous or valuable to me that i accidentally drop and tries to bite me violently. how do i discipline him after this. \n\nsure i can try to avoid it, but what happens when it DOES happen.\n\nyes i AM n the process of teaching them the commands but i need to know what to do RIGHT after he bites me not how to avoid it .\n\nsorry. long"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: this has probably been asked before.\n\nI have two 3 month old pomchi puppies. I'm in the process of teaching them everything, and of course because i have two litter mates it's double the effort. I'm also teaching them (boys) \"leave it\" and \"drop it\" One gets drop it, the other doesnt.\n\nThe one that doesn't get it got a hold of my Nintendo DS charger and chewed the plug (not the socket part but the part that goes into the DS) off of the wire. I didn't want him chewing it because the bare wires were showing now and it was still plugged in and i also didn't want him chewing on plastic he could swallow so i gave the command drop it tempted him with some delicious treats but he was content on keeping the charger with him. \n\nbecause of the exposed wire part i decided to grab it out of his reach (90% of the time he doesnt growl or care)\n\nthis time he did. he snapped and tried to bit me. got me in the hand but it didn't hurt because hes so small.\n\nafter i got it away i felt around the blanket he was sittin on to see if i missed any pieces and he tried two more times to bite and snap at my hand.\n\nIt was aggression.\n\nWhat do you recommend I do if the drop it or leave it or tempting with treats thing doesn't work (or they haven't learned it yet) \n\nor if hes chewing something dangerous or valuable to me that i accidentally drop and tries to bite me violently. how do i discipline him after this. \n\nsure i can try to avoid it, but what happens when it DOES happen.\n\nyes i AM n the process of teaching them the commands but i need to know what to do RIGHT after he bites me not how to avoid it .\n\nsorry. long"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: this has probably been asked before.\n\nI have two 3 month old pomchi puppies. I'm in the process of teaching them everything, and of course because i have two litter mates it's double the effort. I'm also teaching them (boys) \"leave it\" and \"drop it\" One gets drop it, the other doesnt.\n\nThe one that doesn't get it got a hold of my Nintendo DS charger and chewed the plug (not the socket part but the part that goes into the DS) off of the wire. I didn't want him chewing it because the bare wires were showing now and it was still plugged in and i also didn't want him chewing on plastic he could swallow so i gave the command drop it tempted him with some delicious treats but he was content on keeping the charger with him. \n\nbecause of the exposed wire part i decided to grab it out of his reach (90% of the time he doesnt growl or care)\n\nthis time he did. he snapped and tried to bit me. got me in the hand but it didn't hurt because hes so small.\n\nafter i got it away i felt around the blanket he was sittin on to see if i missed any pieces and he tried two more times to bite and snap at my hand.\n\nIt was aggression.\n\nWhat do you recommend I do if the drop it or leave it or tempting with treats thing doesn't work (or they haven't learned it yet) \n\nor if hes chewing something dangerous or valuable to me that i accidentally drop and tries to bite me violently. how do i discipline him after this. \n\nsure i can try to avoid it, but what happens when it DOES happen.\n\nyes i AM n the process of teaching them the commands but i need to know what to do RIGHT after he bites me not how to avoid it .\n\nsorry. long"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's this girl [A] who I was friends with way back and we ended up going to the same college. Long story short, she ended up liking me and we hung out once. She brought her friend [B] who is also her roommate. Through various friends, I found out that A really likes me.\n\nI don't like A but I was really interested in her friend, Girl B. B is really shy around me but pretty fun when she's with her friends. I don't really know B very well but have been trying to use my friendship with A to get closer with B.\n\nI don't know what to do about A. She is my friend so I don't want to hurt her but I don't want to lead her on either. I also want to get to know B better but since A and B are very good friends, would I even have a chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's this girl [A] who I was friends with way back and we ended up going to the same college. Long story short, she ended up liking me and we hung out once. She brought her friend [B] who is also her roommate. Through various friends, I found out that A really likes me.\n\nI don't like A but I was really interested in her friend, Girl B. B is really shy around me but pretty fun when she's with her friends. I don't really know B very well but have been trying to use my friendship with A to get closer with B.\n\nI don't know what to do about A. She is my friend so I don't want to hurt her but I don't want to lead her on either. I also want to get to know B better but since A and B are very good friends, would I even have a chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's this girl [A] who I was friends with way back and we ended up going to the same college. Long story short, she ended up liking me and we hung out once. She brought her friend [B] who is also her roommate. Through various friends, I found out that A really likes me.\n\nI don't like A but I was really interested in her friend, Girl B. B is really shy around me but pretty fun when she's with her friends. I don't really know B very well but have been trying to use my friendship with A to get closer with B.\n\nI don't know what to do about A. She is my friend so I don't want to hurt her but I don't want to lead her on either. I also want to get to know B better but since A and B are very good friends, would I even have a chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short. \n\nJune, 2013 I noticed a big drop in my Credit Score. I had a collection from a hospital (They had a super old address on record and sent all bills there, I never received them. Eventually the unpaid bill went to Collections.) Since it was sent to collection I was no longer able to work with the hospital on paying it off. Medicredit was the collection agency, they allowed me to pay off half of it. I had to pull some money together, I called back and made the payment over the phone. \n\n7 months later I am pulling a credit report for a Home Mortgage I am applying for, It shows up as still unpaid. I contact the Medicredit, they say I never pay. I provide proof from my bank statement, the contact info was linked to their headquarters. I am told to email someone and they will look at it from the finance department. I do that and send a copy of the transaction info. I keep an eye out on my credit info, and it is removed in June. Fast forward to September, and it showed up again. I am trying to contact them again about this, but just get long wait, and no responses back from my multiple emails I have sent out. I am not sure what to do next. I want it removed from my credit. I paid it, and have proof. What options do I have?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short. \n\nJune, 2013 I noticed a big drop in my Credit Score. I had a collection from a hospital (They had a super old address on record and sent all bills there, I never received them. Eventually the unpaid bill went to Collections.) Since it was sent to collection I was no longer able to work with the hospital on paying it off. Medicredit was the collection agency, they allowed me to pay off half of it. I had to pull some money together, I called back and made the payment over the phone. \n\n7 months later I am pulling a credit report for a Home Mortgage I am applying for, It shows up as still unpaid. I contact the Medicredit, they say I never pay. I provide proof from my bank statement, the contact info was linked to their headquarters. I am told to email someone and they will look at it from the finance department. I do that and send a copy of the transaction info. I keep an eye out on my credit info, and it is removed in June. Fast forward to September, and it showed up again. I am trying to contact them again about this, but just get long wait, and no responses back from my multiple emails I have sent out. I am not sure what to do next. I want it removed from my credit. I paid it, and have proof. What options do I have?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short. \n\nJune, 2013 I noticed a big drop in my Credit Score. I had a collection from a hospital (They had a super old address on record and sent all bills there, I never received them. Eventually the unpaid bill went to Collections.) Since it was sent to collection I was no longer able to work with the hospital on paying it off. Medicredit was the collection agency, they allowed me to pay off half of it. I had to pull some money together, I called back and made the payment over the phone. \n\n7 months later I am pulling a credit report for a Home Mortgage I am applying for, It shows up as still unpaid. I contact the Medicredit, they say I never pay. I provide proof from my bank statement, the contact info was linked to their headquarters. I am told to email someone and they will look at it from the finance department. I do that and send a copy of the transaction info. I keep an eye out on my credit info, and it is removed in June. Fast forward to September, and it showed up again. I am trying to contact them again about this, but just get long wait, and no responses back from my multiple emails I have sent out. I am not sure what to do next. I want it removed from my credit. I paid it, and have proof. What options do I have?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been going out nine months and she's not the type to sleep around and she's slightly critical of other promiscuous people (especially those with a track record of going in bare and being reckless). Anyway, she has a friend she's not particularly close to and she made a comment that she would never consider dating anyone that has been with this friend of hers since those men are only there for the pussy, they use her friend, and any man who is dumb enough to fuck her without protection has no standards or any regard for his personal health.\n\nWell, I kind of fucked the friend. Three days before I asked my girlfriend out. She doesn't know. At all. She thinks I hadn't fucked anyone since the relationship I had before her because that's what I told her.\n\nI'd keep her in ignorance because if I could do it again I wouldn't have fucked the friend but we were both drunk and she was down to fuck and I wanted some pussy. Now, my issue is that their friendship is on the rocks and I feel that if shit hits the fan her friend will tell her we fucked and I'll be caught in a lie.\n\nI do know that she wouldn't be dating me if she knew I fucked her friend and she's the world to me. She's foreign and not as liberal with random fucking between strangers (which I'm not opposed to at all but she doesn't know that). I do admit that I find that quality in her super admirable but, again, I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place.\n\nDoes she hear it from me or do I risk her potentially finding out from either her friend or another third party?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been going out nine months and she's not the type to sleep around and she's slightly critical of other promiscuous people (especially those with a track record of going in bare and being reckless). Anyway, she has a friend she's not particularly close to and she made a comment that she would never consider dating anyone that has been with this friend of hers since those men are only there for the pussy, they use her friend, and any man who is dumb enough to fuck her without protection has no standards or any regard for his personal health.\n\nWell, I kind of fucked the friend. Three days before I asked my girlfriend out. She doesn't know. At all. She thinks I hadn't fucked anyone since the relationship I had before her because that's what I told her.\n\nI'd keep her in ignorance because if I could do it again I wouldn't have fucked the friend but we were both drunk and she was down to fuck and I wanted some pussy. Now, my issue is that their friendship is on the rocks and I feel that if shit hits the fan her friend will tell her we fucked and I'll be caught in a lie.\n\nI do know that she wouldn't be dating me if she knew I fucked her friend and she's the world to me. She's foreign and not as liberal with random fucking between strangers (which I'm not opposed to at all but she doesn't know that). I do admit that I find that quality in her super admirable but, again, I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place.\n\nDoes she hear it from me or do I risk her potentially finding out from either her friend or another third party?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been going out nine months and she's not the type to sleep around and she's slightly critical of other promiscuous people (especially those with a track record of going in bare and being reckless). Anyway, she has a friend she's not particularly close to and she made a comment that she would never consider dating anyone that has been with this friend of hers since those men are only there for the pussy, they use her friend, and any man who is dumb enough to fuck her without protection has no standards or any regard for his personal health.\n\nWell, I kind of fucked the friend. Three days before I asked my girlfriend out. She doesn't know. At all. She thinks I hadn't fucked anyone since the relationship I had before her because that's what I told her.\n\nI'd keep her in ignorance because if I could do it again I wouldn't have fucked the friend but we were both drunk and she was down to fuck and I wanted some pussy. Now, my issue is that their friendship is on the rocks and I feel that if shit hits the fan her friend will tell her we fucked and I'll be caught in a lie.\n\nI do know that she wouldn't be dating me if she knew I fucked her friend and she's the world to me. She's foreign and not as liberal with random fucking between strangers (which I'm not opposed to at all but she doesn't know that). I do admit that I find that quality in her super admirable but, again, I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place.\n\nDoes she hear it from me or do I risk her potentially finding out from either her friend or another third party?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been going out nine months and she's not the type to sleep around and she's slightly critical of other promiscuous people (especially those with a track record of going in bare and being reckless). Anyway, she has a friend she's not particularly close to and she made a comment that she would never consider dating anyone that has been with this friend of hers since those men are only there for the pussy, they use her friend, and any man who is dumb enough to fuck her without protection has no standards or any regard for his personal health.\n\nWell, I kind of fucked the friend. Three days before I asked my girlfriend out. She doesn't know. At all. She thinks I hadn't fucked anyone since the relationship I had before her because that's what I told her.\n\nI'd keep her in ignorance because if I could do it again I wouldn't have fucked the friend but we were both drunk and she was down to fuck and I wanted some pussy. Now, my issue is that their friendship is on the rocks and I feel that if shit hits the fan her friend will tell her we fucked and I'll be caught in a lie.\n\nI do know that she wouldn't be dating me if she knew I fucked her friend and she's the world to me. She's foreign and not as liberal with random fucking between strangers (which I'm not opposed to at all but she doesn't know that). I do admit that I find that quality in her super admirable but, again, I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place.\n\nDoes she hear it from me or do I risk her potentially finding out from either her friend or another third party?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been going out nine months and she's not the type to sleep around and she's slightly critical of other promiscuous people (especially those with a track record of going in bare and being reckless). Anyway, she has a friend she's not particularly close to and she made a comment that she would never consider dating anyone that has been with this friend of hers since those men are only there for the pussy, they use her friend, and any man who is dumb enough to fuck her without protection has no standards or any regard for his personal health.\n\nWell, I kind of fucked the friend. Three days before I asked my girlfriend out. She doesn't know. At all. She thinks I hadn't fucked anyone since the relationship I had before her because that's what I told her.\n\nI'd keep her in ignorance because if I could do it again I wouldn't have fucked the friend but we were both drunk and she was down to fuck and I wanted some pussy. Now, my issue is that their friendship is on the rocks and I feel that if shit hits the fan her friend will tell her we fucked and I'll be caught in a lie.\n\nI do know that she wouldn't be dating me if she knew I fucked her friend and she's the world to me. She's foreign and not as liberal with random fucking between strangers (which I'm not opposed to at all but she doesn't know that). I do admit that I find that quality in her super admirable but, again, I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place.\n\nDoes she hear it from me or do I risk her potentially finding out from either her friend or another third party?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been going out nine months and she's not the type to sleep around and she's slightly critical of other promiscuous people (especially those with a track record of going in bare and being reckless). Anyway, she has a friend she's not particularly close to and she made a comment that she would never consider dating anyone that has been with this friend of hers since those men are only there for the pussy, they use her friend, and any man who is dumb enough to fuck her without protection has no standards or any regard for his personal health.\n\nWell, I kind of fucked the friend. Three days before I asked my girlfriend out. She doesn't know. At all. She thinks I hadn't fucked anyone since the relationship I had before her because that's what I told her.\n\nI'd keep her in ignorance because if I could do it again I wouldn't have fucked the friend but we were both drunk and she was down to fuck and I wanted some pussy. Now, my issue is that their friendship is on the rocks and I feel that if shit hits the fan her friend will tell her we fucked and I'll be caught in a lie.\n\nI do know that she wouldn't be dating me if she knew I fucked her friend and she's the world to me. She's foreign and not as liberal with random fucking between strangers (which I'm not opposed to at all but she doesn't know that). I do admit that I find that quality in her super admirable but, again, I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place.\n\nDoes she hear it from me or do I risk her potentially finding out from either her friend or another third party?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title suggests, I met this girl at a Physiotherapy clinic I go to for my back. I go there around 3 times a week. We started talking there and sooner or later I added her onto fb (turns out, we have a few friends in common). So we end up talking for a while, like 4 months. I talk to her a LOT on fb and at the clinic, and we've chilled like once outside the clinic. We open up to eachother and start telling each other a lot of personal stuff. I would have asked her out sooner, but for health reasons, I wasnt able to go out too often. My health has gotten better though. \n\nBut lately, I've noticed that she is becoming a little bit distant, and doesnt talk as much as we used to. I end up initiating the conversation more and more often. In the past two weeks, Ive asked her to hang out, but she said she is busy. Whether she is bullshitting or not, I dont know. My friends say that I'm giving her wayy too much attention, and I agree. Im sure she knows that I have the hots for her. And as a result, I've have gotten friendzoned, or something similar, because when we do talk, she really likes to get into it. Hell, I asked her to chill today, and no dice.\n\nNow people are saying that I should stop talking to her for a week or so. Just to show that Im not dependant on her. Thing is, I would like to date her eventually, later on. Did I mess things up completely? or is it salvageable? Some tips or opinions would really help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title suggests, I met this girl at a Physiotherapy clinic I go to for my back. I go there around 3 times a week. We started talking there and sooner or later I added her onto fb (turns out, we have a few friends in common). So we end up talking for a while, like 4 months. I talk to her a LOT on fb and at the clinic, and we've chilled like once outside the clinic. We open up to eachother and start telling each other a lot of personal stuff. I would have asked her out sooner, but for health reasons, I wasnt able to go out too often. My health has gotten better though. \n\nBut lately, I've noticed that she is becoming a little bit distant, and doesnt talk as much as we used to. I end up initiating the conversation more and more often. In the past two weeks, Ive asked her to hang out, but she said she is busy. Whether she is bullshitting or not, I dont know. My friends say that I'm giving her wayy too much attention, and I agree. Im sure she knows that I have the hots for her. And as a result, I've have gotten friendzoned, or something similar, because when we do talk, she really likes to get into it. Hell, I asked her to chill today, and no dice.\n\nNow people are saying that I should stop talking to her for a week or so. Just to show that Im not dependant on her. Thing is, I would like to date her eventually, later on. Did I mess things up completely? or is it salvageable? Some tips or opinions would really help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title suggests, I met this girl at a Physiotherapy clinic I go to for my back. I go there around 3 times a week. We started talking there and sooner or later I added her onto fb (turns out, we have a few friends in common). So we end up talking for a while, like 4 months. I talk to her a LOT on fb and at the clinic, and we've chilled like once outside the clinic. We open up to eachother and start telling each other a lot of personal stuff. I would have asked her out sooner, but for health reasons, I wasnt able to go out too often. My health has gotten better though. \n\nBut lately, I've noticed that she is becoming a little bit distant, and doesnt talk as much as we used to. I end up initiating the conversation more and more often. In the past two weeks, Ive asked her to hang out, but she said she is busy. Whether she is bullshitting or not, I dont know. My friends say that I'm giving her wayy too much attention, and I agree. Im sure she knows that I have the hots for her. And as a result, I've have gotten friendzoned, or something similar, because when we do talk, she really likes to get into it. Hell, I asked her to chill today, and no dice.\n\nNow people are saying that I should stop talking to her for a week or so. Just to show that Im not dependant on her. Thing is, I would like to date her eventually, later on. Did I mess things up completely? or is it salvageable? Some tips or opinions would really help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title suggests, I met this girl at a Physiotherapy clinic I go to for my back. I go there around 3 times a week. We started talking there and sooner or later I added her onto fb (turns out, we have a few friends in common). So we end up talking for a while, like 4 months. I talk to her a LOT on fb and at the clinic, and we've chilled like once outside the clinic. We open up to eachother and start telling each other a lot of personal stuff. I would have asked her out sooner, but for health reasons, I wasnt able to go out too often. My health has gotten better though. \n\nBut lately, I've noticed that she is becoming a little bit distant, and doesnt talk as much as we used to. I end up initiating the conversation more and more often. In the past two weeks, Ive asked her to hang out, but she said she is busy. Whether she is bullshitting or not, I dont know. My friends say that I'm giving her wayy too much attention, and I agree. Im sure she knows that I have the hots for her. And as a result, I've have gotten friendzoned, or something similar, because when we do talk, she really likes to get into it. Hell, I asked her to chill today, and no dice.\n\nNow people are saying that I should stop talking to her for a week or so. Just to show that Im not dependant on her. Thing is, I would like to date her eventually, later on. Did I mess things up completely? or is it salvageable? Some tips or opinions would really help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title suggests, I met this girl at a Physiotherapy clinic I go to for my back. I go there around 3 times a week. We started talking there and sooner or later I added her onto fb (turns out, we have a few friends in common). So we end up talking for a while, like 4 months. I talk to her a LOT on fb and at the clinic, and we've chilled like once outside the clinic. We open up to eachother and start telling each other a lot of personal stuff. I would have asked her out sooner, but for health reasons, I wasnt able to go out too often. My health has gotten better though. \n\nBut lately, I've noticed that she is becoming a little bit distant, and doesnt talk as much as we used to. I end up initiating the conversation more and more often. In the past two weeks, Ive asked her to hang out, but she said she is busy. Whether she is bullshitting or not, I dont know. My friends say that I'm giving her wayy too much attention, and I agree. Im sure she knows that I have the hots for her. And as a result, I've have gotten friendzoned, or something similar, because when we do talk, she really likes to get into it. Hell, I asked her to chill today, and no dice.\n\nNow people are saying that I should stop talking to her for a week or so. Just to show that Im not dependant on her. Thing is, I would like to date her eventually, later on. Did I mess things up completely? or is it salvageable? Some tips or opinions would really help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title suggests, I met this girl at a Physiotherapy clinic I go to for my back. I go there around 3 times a week. We started talking there and sooner or later I added her onto fb (turns out, we have a few friends in common). So we end up talking for a while, like 4 months. I talk to her a LOT on fb and at the clinic, and we've chilled like once outside the clinic. We open up to eachother and start telling each other a lot of personal stuff. I would have asked her out sooner, but for health reasons, I wasnt able to go out too often. My health has gotten better though. \n\nBut lately, I've noticed that she is becoming a little bit distant, and doesnt talk as much as we used to. I end up initiating the conversation more and more often. In the past two weeks, Ive asked her to hang out, but she said she is busy. Whether she is bullshitting or not, I dont know. My friends say that I'm giving her wayy too much attention, and I agree. Im sure she knows that I have the hots for her. And as a result, I've have gotten friendzoned, or something similar, because when we do talk, she really likes to get into it. Hell, I asked her to chill today, and no dice.\n\nNow people are saying that I should stop talking to her for a week or so. Just to show that Im not dependant on her. Thing is, I would like to date her eventually, later on. Did I mess things up completely? or is it salvageable? Some tips or opinions would really help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone\n\nI ( 18M ) have become to realize that I am an extremely manipulative, controlling, and jealous boyfriend to my girlfriend ( 17 F ). Things were going great until just recently, about 2 months ago, when for some reason I would just get extremely angry, jealous, irritated for little to no reason.\n\nFor example, we're both track and field runners ( we go to the same high school ). This is her first year of track and she decided to join the distance running team based off my recommendations ( I'm a distance runner, and she really enjoyed her first year of cross country ) But now she has decided to try pole vault, and for some reason, this is making me unreasonably mad and extremely jealous of the fact that that means she'll be spending time with 3 other males training, although she has 2 other girls with her. I have no idea what is wrong with me.\n\nI realize that I am being irrational and I beat myself up mentally for it, and tell myself I won't do it again, but then it just happens again, and the same cycle begins. \n\nI am leaving for college and will be ~2 hours away from home in a few months while she finishes her last year of high school ( She's a junior, I'm a senior ). My theory is I just want her for myself for the remaining 5-6 months before I leave because I doubt I'd be seeing her much more than once every other week\n \nYes, I have talked to her about this and she told me she has noticed my behavior changing and told me that I might just be having another bout with depression and anxiety, both of which I've had before. She honestly is the best and told me that \"We'd take it one day at a time and get over it together\". I want to know what I can do on my side to make this easier for her and myself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone\n\nI ( 18M ) have become to realize that I am an extremely manipulative, controlling, and jealous boyfriend to my girlfriend ( 17 F ). Things were going great until just recently, about 2 months ago, when for some reason I would just get extremely angry, jealous, irritated for little to no reason.\n\nFor example, we're both track and field runners ( we go to the same high school ). This is her first year of track and she decided to join the distance running team based off my recommendations ( I'm a distance runner, and she really enjoyed her first year of cross country ) But now she has decided to try pole vault, and for some reason, this is making me unreasonably mad and extremely jealous of the fact that that means she'll be spending time with 3 other males training, although she has 2 other girls with her. I have no idea what is wrong with me.\n\nI realize that I am being irrational and I beat myself up mentally for it, and tell myself I won't do it again, but then it just happens again, and the same cycle begins. \n\nI am leaving for college and will be ~2 hours away from home in a few months while she finishes her last year of high school ( She's a junior, I'm a senior ). My theory is I just want her for myself for the remaining 5-6 months before I leave because I doubt I'd be seeing her much more than once every other week\n \nYes, I have talked to her about this and she told me she has noticed my behavior changing and told me that I might just be having another bout with depression and anxiety, both of which I've had before. She honestly is the best and told me that \"We'd take it one day at a time and get over it together\". I want to know what I can do on my side to make this easier for her and myself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone\n\nI ( 18M ) have become to realize that I am an extremely manipulative, controlling, and jealous boyfriend to my girlfriend ( 17 F ). Things were going great until just recently, about 2 months ago, when for some reason I would just get extremely angry, jealous, irritated for little to no reason.\n\nFor example, we're both track and field runners ( we go to the same high school ). This is her first year of track and she decided to join the distance running team based off my recommendations ( I'm a distance runner, and she really enjoyed her first year of cross country ) But now she has decided to try pole vault, and for some reason, this is making me unreasonably mad and extremely jealous of the fact that that means she'll be spending time with 3 other males training, although she has 2 other girls with her. I have no idea what is wrong with me.\n\nI realize that I am being irrational and I beat myself up mentally for it, and tell myself I won't do it again, but then it just happens again, and the same cycle begins. \n\nI am leaving for college and will be ~2 hours away from home in a few months while she finishes her last year of high school ( She's a junior, I'm a senior ). My theory is I just want her for myself for the remaining 5-6 months before I leave because I doubt I'd be seeing her much more than once every other week\n \nYes, I have talked to her about this and she told me she has noticed my behavior changing and told me that I might just be having another bout with depression and anxiety, both of which I've had before. She honestly is the best and told me that \"We'd take it one day at a time and get over it together\". I want to know what I can do on my side to make this easier for her and myself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone\n\nI ( 18M ) have become to realize that I am an extremely manipulative, controlling, and jealous boyfriend to my girlfriend ( 17 F ). Things were going great until just recently, about 2 months ago, when for some reason I would just get extremely angry, jealous, irritated for little to no reason.\n\nFor example, we're both track and field runners ( we go to the same high school ). This is her first year of track and she decided to join the distance running team based off my recommendations ( I'm a distance runner, and she really enjoyed her first year of cross country ) But now she has decided to try pole vault, and for some reason, this is making me unreasonably mad and extremely jealous of the fact that that means she'll be spending time with 3 other males training, although she has 2 other girls with her. I have no idea what is wrong with me.\n\nI realize that I am being irrational and I beat myself up mentally for it, and tell myself I won't do it again, but then it just happens again, and the same cycle begins. \n\nI am leaving for college and will be ~2 hours away from home in a few months while she finishes her last year of high school ( She's a junior, I'm a senior ). My theory is I just want her for myself for the remaining 5-6 months before I leave because I doubt I'd be seeing her much more than once every other week\n \nYes, I have talked to her about this and she told me she has noticed my behavior changing and told me that I might just be having another bout with depression and anxiety, both of which I've had before. She honestly is the best and told me that \"We'd take it one day at a time and get over it together\". I want to know what I can do on my side to make this easier for her and myself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello everyone\n\nI ( 18M ) have become to realize that I am an extremely manipulative, controlling, and jealous boyfriend to my girlfriend ( 17 F ). Things were going great until just recently, about 2 months ago, when for some reason I would just get extremely angry, jealous, irritated for little to no reason.\n\nFor example, we're both track and field runners ( we go to the same high school ). This is her first year of track and she decided to join the distance running team based off my recommendations ( I'm a distance runner, and she really enjoyed her first year of cross country ) But now she has decided to try pole vault, and for some reason, this is making me unreasonably mad and extremely jealous of the fact that that means she'll be spending time with 3 other males training, although she has 2 other girls with her. I have no idea what is wrong with me.\n\nI realize that I am being irrational and I beat myself up mentally for it, and tell myself I won't do it again, but then it just happens again, and the same cycle begins. \n\nI am leaving for college and will be ~2 hours away from home in a few months while she finishes her last year of high school ( She's a junior, I'm a senior ). My theory is I just want her for myself for the remaining 5-6 months before I leave because I doubt I'd be seeing her much more than once every other week\n \nYes, I have talked to her about this and she told me she has noticed my behavior changing and told me that I might just be having another bout with depression and anxiety, both of which I've had before. She honestly is the best and told me that \"We'd take it one day at a time and get over it together\". I want to know what I can do on my side to make this easier for her and myself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a week ago I went to my favorite sports bar here in Arizona. It's self-seating so my buddies and I sit down at a table near the back of the bar. Our server, a girl, call her J comes over, cute, short girl, takes our orders and walks away. I lean over to my buddy and tell him she was cute and that I think I'm gonna leave my number. Fast forward through awkward flirting and such while we eat and drink for about an hour, checks come, I leave her a note saying I thought she was cute and that I would love to buy her a drink sometime with my number.\n\nYesterday I went back to that sports bar after I hadn't heard from her. Different group of people but turns out she is our server again. She says she remembers me so I call her by her name and have a good meal. This time when the checks came, I grabbed my card and I shut my book. This morning when I woke up, I realized I forgot to fill out the tip portion of my bill. I am a server and now she probably thinks I didn't tip because she didn't text me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a week ago I went to my favorite sports bar here in Arizona. It's self-seating so my buddies and I sit down at a table near the back of the bar. Our server, a girl, call her J comes over, cute, short girl, takes our orders and walks away. I lean over to my buddy and tell him she was cute and that I think I'm gonna leave my number. Fast forward through awkward flirting and such while we eat and drink for about an hour, checks come, I leave her a note saying I thought she was cute and that I would love to buy her a drink sometime with my number.\n\nYesterday I went back to that sports bar after I hadn't heard from her. Different group of people but turns out she is our server again. She says she remembers me so I call her by her name and have a good meal. This time when the checks came, I grabbed my card and I shut my book. This morning when I woke up, I realized I forgot to fill out the tip portion of my bill. I am a server and now she probably thinks I didn't tip because she didn't text me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a week ago I went to my favorite sports bar here in Arizona. It's self-seating so my buddies and I sit down at a table near the back of the bar. Our server, a girl, call her J comes over, cute, short girl, takes our orders and walks away. I lean over to my buddy and tell him she was cute and that I think I'm gonna leave my number. Fast forward through awkward flirting and such while we eat and drink for about an hour, checks come, I leave her a note saying I thought she was cute and that I would love to buy her a drink sometime with my number.\n\nYesterday I went back to that sports bar after I hadn't heard from her. Different group of people but turns out she is our server again. She says she remembers me so I call her by her name and have a good meal. This time when the checks came, I grabbed my card and I shut my book. This morning when I woke up, I realized I forgot to fill out the tip portion of my bill. I am a server and now she probably thinks I didn't tip because she didn't text me."
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