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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been very emotionally unstable the entire time we've been with each other. I think about him all the time, but it's gotten to such an extreme I have to retake classes because my work suffered so much from it. When he doesn't text me back I burst out crying. Im so afraid to lose him, the fear is paralyzing. \n\nHe is in love with me, and he wants to be with me and me to trust him. \n\nI'm not usually like this, and I try to hide it from him as much as possible (i'm afraid I might scare him away if he sees how obsessed I have become), but it's ruining my life. I overeat because I feel stressed. I can't concentrate on anything. I can't sleep. Nothing feels important but him. I am very aware how unhealthy this is, and I'm really embarrassed this is happening to me. \n\nI'm constantly afraid and waiting for my heart to be broken, I can't function. Should I just end this, so the insecurity is gone and I can get over this whole ordeal and get my life back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been very emotionally unstable the entire time we've been with each other. I think about him all the time, but it's gotten to such an extreme I have to retake classes because my work suffered so much from it. When he doesn't text me back I burst out crying. Im so afraid to lose him, the fear is paralyzing. \n\nHe is in love with me, and he wants to be with me and me to trust him. \n\nI'm not usually like this, and I try to hide it from him as much as possible (i'm afraid I might scare him away if he sees how obsessed I have become), but it's ruining my life. I overeat because I feel stressed. I can't concentrate on anything. I can't sleep. Nothing feels important but him. I am very aware how unhealthy this is, and I'm really embarrassed this is happening to me. \n\nI'm constantly afraid and waiting for my heart to be broken, I can't function. Should I just end this, so the insecurity is gone and I can get over this whole ordeal and get my life back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so I feel so bad about this. \nIn November me and my SO will celebrate our 1 year anniversary, and of course we said that we'll gift one another \"nothing\" and of course we both knew it's a lie.\n\nSo, I just discovered what her \"nothing\" is, and this is why I feel bad. She know's i like computers and when I first built my PC I didn't buy any graphics card, and I of course did tell her that (several times.anytime we (mostly me) talked about computers.I'm an idiot) and now she wants to buy me a new graphics card. The thing is I'm an university student and the last time I played video games was like 2 months ago, and I have little to no time to go to the beach and enjoy while it still lasts, not to mention playing on PC. \n\nSo all this wouldn't be a problem if I didn't discovered it, but the thing is expensive and I'd rather go in some city in Europe we didn't visit. Since it's expensive she's asked help from two of my friends (both students; but one too kind to refuse to help) and my parents (they have their financial problems of their own). Knowing her, even if no one would help her, she's going to buy it just to make me happy, but I don't need it right now and as I said earlier there are so many other things that I'd spend money on. \n\nWhat I did is to tell her that I want to take her somewhere South (in Europe) and, subtly, told her that any dime will matter and that I wouldn't want her to spend money on something materialistic, but rather invest it in our trip. She agreed, but! she also said that she put heart in choosing her \"nothing\" and that she's willing in doing both. I also sought the help of a friend (one she contacted and said he's broke) and told him to call her and subtly tell her that it'll be better to go somewhere to spend time together. \n\nPlease, help me understand why won't she give up and maybe how to convince her to chose something else.\n\nThank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so I feel so bad about this. \nIn November me and my SO will celebrate our 1 year anniversary, and of course we said that we'll gift one another \"nothing\" and of course we both knew it's a lie.\n\nSo, I just discovered what her \"nothing\" is, and this is why I feel bad. She know's i like computers and when I first built my PC I didn't buy any graphics card, and I of course did tell her that (several times.anytime we (mostly me) talked about computers.I'm an idiot) and now she wants to buy me a new graphics card. The thing is I'm an university student and the last time I played video games was like 2 months ago, and I have little to no time to go to the beach and enjoy while it still lasts, not to mention playing on PC. \n\nSo all this wouldn't be a problem if I didn't discovered it, but the thing is expensive and I'd rather go in some city in Europe we didn't visit. Since it's expensive she's asked help from two of my friends (both students; but one too kind to refuse to help) and my parents (they have their financial problems of their own). Knowing her, even if no one would help her, she's going to buy it just to make me happy, but I don't need it right now and as I said earlier there are so many other things that I'd spend money on. \n\nWhat I did is to tell her that I want to take her somewhere South (in Europe) and, subtly, told her that any dime will matter and that I wouldn't want her to spend money on something materialistic, but rather invest it in our trip. She agreed, but! she also said that she put heart in choosing her \"nothing\" and that she's willing in doing both. I also sought the help of a friend (one she contacted and said he's broke) and told him to call her and subtly tell her that it'll be better to go somewhere to spend time together. \n\nPlease, help me understand why won't she give up and maybe how to convince her to chose something else.\n\nThank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so I feel so bad about this. \nIn November me and my SO will celebrate our 1 year anniversary, and of course we said that we'll gift one another \"nothing\" and of course we both knew it's a lie.\n\nSo, I just discovered what her \"nothing\" is, and this is why I feel bad. She know's i like computers and when I first built my PC I didn't buy any graphics card, and I of course did tell her that (several times.anytime we (mostly me) talked about computers.I'm an idiot) and now she wants to buy me a new graphics card. The thing is I'm an university student and the last time I played video games was like 2 months ago, and I have little to no time to go to the beach and enjoy while it still lasts, not to mention playing on PC. \n\nSo all this wouldn't be a problem if I didn't discovered it, but the thing is expensive and I'd rather go in some city in Europe we didn't visit. Since it's expensive she's asked help from two of my friends (both students; but one too kind to refuse to help) and my parents (they have their financial problems of their own). Knowing her, even if no one would help her, she's going to buy it just to make me happy, but I don't need it right now and as I said earlier there are so many other things that I'd spend money on. \n\nWhat I did is to tell her that I want to take her somewhere South (in Europe) and, subtly, told her that any dime will matter and that I wouldn't want her to spend money on something materialistic, but rather invest it in our trip. She agreed, but! she also said that she put heart in choosing her \"nothing\" and that she's willing in doing both. I also sought the help of a friend (one she contacted and said he's broke) and told him to call her and subtly tell her that it'll be better to go somewhere to spend time together. \n\nPlease, help me understand why won't she give up and maybe how to convince her to chose something else.\n\nThank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a history of ending relationships out of nowhere. I'm not entirely sure why besides that I just get scared of the commitment that comes with long term relationships.\n\nAs of recently, I have just been feeling really not myself. I have good days and I have bad days where I feel really low. On the good days I'm convinced that I'm just being weird and that it will pass. On bad days I feel really negative and agitated.\n\nAs of recently the low days are outnumbering the good days. I feel very irritable and I feel so bad for how my bf has to deal with it. I sometimes don't feel like being touched. He is so loving and just wants to be near me and snuggle all the time but it just makes me push him away and get agitated. The more I push the more he tries to fix it and by being more loving.\n\nI have zero sex drive and I end up declining his advances because I never feel up to it. We talked last night and he said he feels like I don't care about him as much anymore. That broke my heart because i feel absolutely terrible with how I have been treating him. being distant and not wanting to have sex. And I know he has to feel that way based off of how I act but I am having a hard time dictating how I feel and why.\n\nI don't think it is the relationship unless I just don't like being smothered with attention but it feels more than that. I quit my recent job because it was too emotionally draining and I feel like I want something but I just can't put my finger on what."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a history of ending relationships out of nowhere. I'm not entirely sure why besides that I just get scared of the commitment that comes with long term relationships.\n\nAs of recently, I have just been feeling really not myself. I have good days and I have bad days where I feel really low. On the good days I'm convinced that I'm just being weird and that it will pass. On bad days I feel really negative and agitated.\n\nAs of recently the low days are outnumbering the good days. I feel very irritable and I feel so bad for how my bf has to deal with it. I sometimes don't feel like being touched. He is so loving and just wants to be near me and snuggle all the time but it just makes me push him away and get agitated. The more I push the more he tries to fix it and by being more loving.\n\nI have zero sex drive and I end up declining his advances because I never feel up to it. We talked last night and he said he feels like I don't care about him as much anymore. That broke my heart because i feel absolutely terrible with how I have been treating him. being distant and not wanting to have sex. And I know he has to feel that way based off of how I act but I am having a hard time dictating how I feel and why.\n\nI don't think it is the relationship unless I just don't like being smothered with attention but it feels more than that. I quit my recent job because it was too emotionally draining and I feel like I want something but I just can't put my finger on what."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a history of ending relationships out of nowhere. I'm not entirely sure why besides that I just get scared of the commitment that comes with long term relationships.\n\nAs of recently, I have just been feeling really not myself. I have good days and I have bad days where I feel really low. On the good days I'm convinced that I'm just being weird and that it will pass. On bad days I feel really negative and agitated.\n\nAs of recently the low days are outnumbering the good days. I feel very irritable and I feel so bad for how my bf has to deal with it. I sometimes don't feel like being touched. He is so loving and just wants to be near me and snuggle all the time but it just makes me push him away and get agitated. The more I push the more he tries to fix it and by being more loving.\n\nI have zero sex drive and I end up declining his advances because I never feel up to it. We talked last night and he said he feels like I don't care about him as much anymore. That broke my heart because i feel absolutely terrible with how I have been treating him. being distant and not wanting to have sex. And I know he has to feel that way based off of how I act but I am having a hard time dictating how I feel and why.\n\nI don't think it is the relationship unless I just don't like being smothered with attention but it feels more than that. I quit my recent job because it was too emotionally draining and I feel like I want something but I just can't put my finger on what."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me, like about a year ago because, even though she still really liked me, \"we couldn't be together\" because of many issues I'm not getting into. Here are some facts:\n\n-only dated for 2 months, it wasn't even ever \"official\".\n-Never even got past 2 base, I liked to take things slow.\n-I tend to be fairly superficial usually so she was the first girl to whom I was attracted to mainly because of personality, hence why i took it slow.\n-When we first met everything went so natural, wasn't even trying to impress her like I usually do on dates, we were just having natural fun, mutual attraction and chemistry was there.\n\nSince we split up I saw other girls, dated one for about 6 months, sex was good, but eventually lost attraction, went on dates with others, etc. By now I should be over her, kind of am in a way, don't think about her all day everyday like I used to but it still really feels like, for some reason we were meant to be together, so much chemistry and things in common, same personality and similar backgrounds. Why am I feeling this way? I know we can't and won't be together, I live in a different town now, is this feeling supposed to 'mean' or indicate something?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me, like about a year ago because, even though she still really liked me, \"we couldn't be together\" because of many issues I'm not getting into. Here are some facts:\n\n-only dated for 2 months, it wasn't even ever \"official\".\n-Never even got past 2 base, I liked to take things slow.\n-I tend to be fairly superficial usually so she was the first girl to whom I was attracted to mainly because of personality, hence why i took it slow.\n-When we first met everything went so natural, wasn't even trying to impress her like I usually do on dates, we were just having natural fun, mutual attraction and chemistry was there.\n\nSince we split up I saw other girls, dated one for about 6 months, sex was good, but eventually lost attraction, went on dates with others, etc. By now I should be over her, kind of am in a way, don't think about her all day everyday like I used to but it still really feels like, for some reason we were meant to be together, so much chemistry and things in common, same personality and similar backgrounds. Why am I feeling this way? I know we can't and won't be together, I live in a different town now, is this feeling supposed to 'mean' or indicate something?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me, like about a year ago because, even though she still really liked me, \"we couldn't be together\" because of many issues I'm not getting into. Here are some facts:\n\n-only dated for 2 months, it wasn't even ever \"official\".\n-Never even got past 2 base, I liked to take things slow.\n-I tend to be fairly superficial usually so she was the first girl to whom I was attracted to mainly because of personality, hence why i took it slow.\n-When we first met everything went so natural, wasn't even trying to impress her like I usually do on dates, we were just having natural fun, mutual attraction and chemistry was there.\n\nSince we split up I saw other girls, dated one for about 6 months, sex was good, but eventually lost attraction, went on dates with others, etc. By now I should be over her, kind of am in a way, don't think about her all day everyday like I used to but it still really feels like, for some reason we were meant to be together, so much chemistry and things in common, same personality and similar backgrounds. Why am I feeling this way? I know we can't and won't be together, I live in a different town now, is this feeling supposed to 'mean' or indicate something?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me, like about a year ago because, even though she still really liked me, \"we couldn't be together\" because of many issues I'm not getting into. Here are some facts:\n\n-only dated for 2 months, it wasn't even ever \"official\".\n-Never even got past 2 base, I liked to take things slow.\n-I tend to be fairly superficial usually so she was the first girl to whom I was attracted to mainly because of personality, hence why i took it slow.\n-When we first met everything went so natural, wasn't even trying to impress her like I usually do on dates, we were just having natural fun, mutual attraction and chemistry was there.\n\nSince we split up I saw other girls, dated one for about 6 months, sex was good, but eventually lost attraction, went on dates with others, etc. By now I should be over her, kind of am in a way, don't think about her all day everyday like I used to but it still really feels like, for some reason we were meant to be together, so much chemistry and things in common, same personality and similar backgrounds. Why am I feeling this way? I know we can't and won't be together, I live in a different town now, is this feeling supposed to 'mean' or indicate something?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me, like about a year ago because, even though she still really liked me, \"we couldn't be together\" because of many issues I'm not getting into. Here are some facts:\n\n-only dated for 2 months, it wasn't even ever \"official\".\n-Never even got past 2 base, I liked to take things slow.\n-I tend to be fairly superficial usually so she was the first girl to whom I was attracted to mainly because of personality, hence why i took it slow.\n-When we first met everything went so natural, wasn't even trying to impress her like I usually do on dates, we were just having natural fun, mutual attraction and chemistry was there.\n\nSince we split up I saw other girls, dated one for about 6 months, sex was good, but eventually lost attraction, went on dates with others, etc. By now I should be over her, kind of am in a way, don't think about her all day everyday like I used to but it still really feels like, for some reason we were meant to be together, so much chemistry and things in common, same personality and similar backgrounds. Why am I feeling this way? I know we can't and won't be together, I live in a different town now, is this feeling supposed to 'mean' or indicate something?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me, like about a year ago because, even though she still really liked me, \"we couldn't be together\" because of many issues I'm not getting into. Here are some facts:\n\n-only dated for 2 months, it wasn't even ever \"official\".\n-Never even got past 2 base, I liked to take things slow.\n-I tend to be fairly superficial usually so she was the first girl to whom I was attracted to mainly because of personality, hence why i took it slow.\n-When we first met everything went so natural, wasn't even trying to impress her like I usually do on dates, we were just having natural fun, mutual attraction and chemistry was there.\n\nSince we split up I saw other girls, dated one for about 6 months, sex was good, but eventually lost attraction, went on dates with others, etc. By now I should be over her, kind of am in a way, don't think about her all day everyday like I used to but it still really feels like, for some reason we were meant to be together, so much chemistry and things in common, same personality and similar backgrounds. Why am I feeling this way? I know we can't and won't be together, I live in a different town now, is this feeling supposed to 'mean' or indicate something?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My employer recently sent out a volunteer \"Self-Identification\" survey and I have not previously identified as someone with disabilities. I read the survey and realized I don't need any special accommodations to do my job (at least currently) and further don't receive any current accommodation. \n\nIs there any benefit to identifying in my position now, even though I don't require any accommodations currently? In addition, are there any disadvantages to identifying, ie can it be held against me, or what privacy rights do I have if I identify, but then say I don't require any accommodations to do my job? My current job has some client facing work, but to ever \"advance\" in my career, I can't really say no to these assignments, even if I move away from this kind of work later. \n\nA little bit of background; In my past years I was a very bad stutter, but with proper therapy I've worked past it. I was in therapy for all my childhood (until 18 basically). it doesn't heavily impact my life as I've learned proper coping mechanisms to help cope with working, and life. I still must sometimes stop, and reword what I am attempting to say. It ends up making some of the sentences I say a little awkward because of the word choice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My employer recently sent out a volunteer \"Self-Identification\" survey and I have not previously identified as someone with disabilities. I read the survey and realized I don't need any special accommodations to do my job (at least currently) and further don't receive any current accommodation. \n\nIs there any benefit to identifying in my position now, even though I don't require any accommodations currently? In addition, are there any disadvantages to identifying, ie can it be held against me, or what privacy rights do I have if I identify, but then say I don't require any accommodations to do my job? My current job has some client facing work, but to ever \"advance\" in my career, I can't really say no to these assignments, even if I move away from this kind of work later. \n\nA little bit of background; In my past years I was a very bad stutter, but with proper therapy I've worked past it. I was in therapy for all my childhood (until 18 basically). it doesn't heavily impact my life as I've learned proper coping mechanisms to help cope with working, and life. I still must sometimes stop, and reword what I am attempting to say. It ends up making some of the sentences I say a little awkward because of the word choice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this girl I have been talking to for a while, working towards starting a relationship with, called me tonight. She was sobbing and crying so hard she could barely talk. She wouldn't come right out and tell me what was wrong, but from the way she was avoiding saying what was wrong, I knew what was up.\n\nShe told me that she had just slept with a married man. She was feeling terribly guilty, and kept telling me that she wasn't worthy of my time anymore. I tried to comfort her as best as I could.\n\nShe got out of her last relationship last December, but hasn't gotten over him. He cheated on her multiple times, and didn't find out about any of it until the very end. She is the type to want to maintain friendships, so she didn't cut him out of her life.\n\nOn the phone, I told her that what she did was wrong, and that by feeling guilty, it shows that she knows it was wrong. She kept calling herself a slut, and every time I told her that that is not true. Even the best of people make mistakes.\n\nShe and I are not in a relationship, but I want to be with her. I have no issues with what she did. I think the fact that she called me of all people proves that she cares about me.\n\nSo my question is, is there anything I can do to help her heal her heart, and show her that I do very deeply care for her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this girl I have been talking to for a while, working towards starting a relationship with, called me tonight. She was sobbing and crying so hard she could barely talk. She wouldn't come right out and tell me what was wrong, but from the way she was avoiding saying what was wrong, I knew what was up.\n\nShe told me that she had just slept with a married man. She was feeling terribly guilty, and kept telling me that she wasn't worthy of my time anymore. I tried to comfort her as best as I could.\n\nShe got out of her last relationship last December, but hasn't gotten over him. He cheated on her multiple times, and didn't find out about any of it until the very end. She is the type to want to maintain friendships, so she didn't cut him out of her life.\n\nOn the phone, I told her that what she did was wrong, and that by feeling guilty, it shows that she knows it was wrong. She kept calling herself a slut, and every time I told her that that is not true. Even the best of people make mistakes.\n\nShe and I are not in a relationship, but I want to be with her. I have no issues with what she did. I think the fact that she called me of all people proves that she cares about me.\n\nSo my question is, is there anything I can do to help her heal her heart, and show her that I do very deeply care for her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this girl I have been talking to for a while, working towards starting a relationship with, called me tonight. She was sobbing and crying so hard she could barely talk. She wouldn't come right out and tell me what was wrong, but from the way she was avoiding saying what was wrong, I knew what was up.\n\nShe told me that she had just slept with a married man. She was feeling terribly guilty, and kept telling me that she wasn't worthy of my time anymore. I tried to comfort her as best as I could.\n\nShe got out of her last relationship last December, but hasn't gotten over him. He cheated on her multiple times, and didn't find out about any of it until the very end. She is the type to want to maintain friendships, so she didn't cut him out of her life.\n\nOn the phone, I told her that what she did was wrong, and that by feeling guilty, it shows that she knows it was wrong. She kept calling herself a slut, and every time I told her that that is not true. Even the best of people make mistakes.\n\nShe and I are not in a relationship, but I want to be with her. I have no issues with what she did. I think the fact that she called me of all people proves that she cares about me.\n\nSo my question is, is there anything I can do to help her heal her heart, and show her that I do very deeply care for her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I'm in a relationship with a girl who I met in Highschool my senior year and we've been together for six months now. She's currently a senior (was a junior when we met) and I'm going to a community college that isn't too far away from where we live. She has already been accepted to a college that's about 2 hours away from where we live so in August she leaves for 4 years.\n\n( I should also add that she plans on visiting ever so often because the distance isn't too long.)\n\nI've always planned on staying in this area because everything I need school wise is right here, however she's going to a private college hence why it's so far away. Her and I have an excellent relationship and we both plan on staying together even after she leaves.\n\nI want to know everyone else's story as far as how you guys have dealt with distance relationships due to work or college, if you guys met in high school, or how did you meet? Are you guys still together and has the distanced made you stronger or weaker?\n\nI ask this basically because I want to know how other people deal with it, I know every relationship is different but I want some real examples from someone's first hand experiences."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I'm in a relationship with a girl who I met in Highschool my senior year and we've been together for six months now. She's currently a senior (was a junior when we met) and I'm going to a community college that isn't too far away from where we live. She has already been accepted to a college that's about 2 hours away from where we live so in August she leaves for 4 years.\n\n( I should also add that she plans on visiting ever so often because the distance isn't too long.)\n\nI've always planned on staying in this area because everything I need school wise is right here, however she's going to a private college hence why it's so far away. Her and I have an excellent relationship and we both plan on staying together even after she leaves.\n\nI want to know everyone else's story as far as how you guys have dealt with distance relationships due to work or college, if you guys met in high school, or how did you meet? Are you guys still together and has the distanced made you stronger or weaker?\n\nI ask this basically because I want to know how other people deal with it, I know every relationship is different but I want some real examples from someone's first hand experiences."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I'm in a relationship with a girl who I met in Highschool my senior year and we've been together for six months now. She's currently a senior (was a junior when we met) and I'm going to a community college that isn't too far away from where we live. She has already been accepted to a college that's about 2 hours away from where we live so in August she leaves for 4 years.\n\n( I should also add that she plans on visiting ever so often because the distance isn't too long.)\n\nI've always planned on staying in this area because everything I need school wise is right here, however she's going to a private college hence why it's so far away. Her and I have an excellent relationship and we both plan on staying together even after she leaves.\n\nI want to know everyone else's story as far as how you guys have dealt with distance relationships due to work or college, if you guys met in high school, or how did you meet? Are you guys still together and has the distanced made you stronger or weaker?\n\nI ask this basically because I want to know how other people deal with it, I know every relationship is different but I want some real examples from someone's first hand experiences."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [This] thread got me thinking about the \"disgusting\" things I'd eat if I was *really* hungry. I don't mean the kind of hungry when lunch is still two hours away and the coffee you had for breakfast isn't helping anymore and you groan to your coworker *\"I'm starving!\"* I mean hungry like you haven't had a bite to eat in days and you're not sure when you'll eat again.\n\nFor me, it was 1994 and I was 20 years old living with my first boyfriend. We often survived on end-of-day leftovers at our crappy fast food jobs. Business got slow and we both got fired from our jobs and we were just too dumb to think about the fact that the money we were spending on cigarettes and Dr. Pepper should *probably* be used for PB&J. \n\nHe got a part time job at KFC so he got at least one free meal a day, and I'd usually walk there to share that with him. It was almost Thanksgiving and his hours got cut back from 24 a week to 18, then 12, then they let him go altogether. Just before he left, he stole a bag of powdered mashed potatoes. (Desperate times, desperate measures?) We ate mashed potatoes for every meal for a week until it was just gone. Then there was nothing, and it was the day after Thanksgiving and all the food pantries were closed, and then it was the weekend and we were SO hungry.\n\nThose three days with nothing but water were probably the longest of my life. Strangely, after the 24 hour mark I stopped feeling hunger pains and just felt tired and moody. Any time I thought about food, I'd drink water or eat ice. (I found out several years later that while I had been starving, my boyfriend had been secretly visiting his family and having lunch or dinner with them. His family hated me, they felt I stole away their little boy, and there's no way they'd have fed me. My family wasn't talking to me because I was \"living in sin\" with him, so I didn't have backup like he did.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [This] thread got me thinking about the \"disgusting\" things I'd eat if I was *really* hungry. I don't mean the kind of hungry when lunch is still two hours away and the coffee you had for breakfast isn't helping anymore and you groan to your coworker *\"I'm starving!\"* I mean hungry like you haven't had a bite to eat in days and you're not sure when you'll eat again.\n\nFor me, it was 1994 and I was 20 years old living with my first boyfriend. We often survived on end-of-day leftovers at our crappy fast food jobs. Business got slow and we both got fired from our jobs and we were just too dumb to think about the fact that the money we were spending on cigarettes and Dr. Pepper should *probably* be used for PB&J. \n\nHe got a part time job at KFC so he got at least one free meal a day, and I'd usually walk there to share that with him. It was almost Thanksgiving and his hours got cut back from 24 a week to 18, then 12, then they let him go altogether. Just before he left, he stole a bag of powdered mashed potatoes. (Desperate times, desperate measures?) We ate mashed potatoes for every meal for a week until it was just gone. Then there was nothing, and it was the day after Thanksgiving and all the food pantries were closed, and then it was the weekend and we were SO hungry.\n\nThose three days with nothing but water were probably the longest of my life. Strangely, after the 24 hour mark I stopped feeling hunger pains and just felt tired and moody. Any time I thought about food, I'd drink water or eat ice. (I found out several years later that while I had been starving, my boyfriend had been secretly visiting his family and having lunch or dinner with them. His family hated me, they felt I stole away their little boy, and there's no way they'd have fed me. My family wasn't talking to me because I was \"living in sin\" with him, so I didn't have backup like he did.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [This] thread got me thinking about the \"disgusting\" things I'd eat if I was *really* hungry. I don't mean the kind of hungry when lunch is still two hours away and the coffee you had for breakfast isn't helping anymore and you groan to your coworker *\"I'm starving!\"* I mean hungry like you haven't had a bite to eat in days and you're not sure when you'll eat again.\n\nFor me, it was 1994 and I was 20 years old living with my first boyfriend. We often survived on end-of-day leftovers at our crappy fast food jobs. Business got slow and we both got fired from our jobs and we were just too dumb to think about the fact that the money we were spending on cigarettes and Dr. Pepper should *probably* be used for PB&J. \n\nHe got a part time job at KFC so he got at least one free meal a day, and I'd usually walk there to share that with him. It was almost Thanksgiving and his hours got cut back from 24 a week to 18, then 12, then they let him go altogether. Just before he left, he stole a bag of powdered mashed potatoes. (Desperate times, desperate measures?) We ate mashed potatoes for every meal for a week until it was just gone. Then there was nothing, and it was the day after Thanksgiving and all the food pantries were closed, and then it was the weekend and we were SO hungry.\n\nThose three days with nothing but water were probably the longest of my life. Strangely, after the 24 hour mark I stopped feeling hunger pains and just felt tired and moody. Any time I thought about food, I'd drink water or eat ice. (I found out several years later that while I had been starving, my boyfriend had been secretly visiting his family and having lunch or dinner with them. His family hated me, they felt I stole away their little boy, and there's no way they'd have fed me. My family wasn't talking to me because I was \"living in sin\" with him, so I didn't have backup like he did.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For valentine's I plan on making a homemade meal for my girlfriend(18) yet the problem is that she has a very fine selection of what she eats. In the time we have been together, almost two years, she has only ever eaten chicken(fried and boneless, pretty much chicken tenders), peanut butter, french fries(not the steak fries) plain bread and cheese and plain butter noodles. She also hates sauces aling with beef and pork, though I don't think shes ever had either. Any type of sauce she will not eat as well. \n\n-side note- she did try pesto sauce once and didn't hate it. Victory!\n\nUsually when we go out she'll order off the kids menu because she knows the adult portions have things added that she would not like. \n\nI on the other, I hand love savory food. I love sauces and spice and some heat in my food. I love seafood and meats. Cheeses and good espresso. I am under 21 so no wine yet. Yet I am also a southerner so fried chicken, cornbread, sweet tea and collards run through my veins. \n\nAny advice for a meal that would suit her needs and mine? I would go out to eat but I feel like that is not as fun as making something special. \n\nWhat is a good meal that would be fresh and tasty for both of us?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For valentine's I plan on making a homemade meal for my girlfriend(18) yet the problem is that she has a very fine selection of what she eats. In the time we have been together, almost two years, she has only ever eaten chicken(fried and boneless, pretty much chicken tenders), peanut butter, french fries(not the steak fries) plain bread and cheese and plain butter noodles. She also hates sauces aling with beef and pork, though I don't think shes ever had either. Any type of sauce she will not eat as well. \n\n-side note- she did try pesto sauce once and didn't hate it. Victory!\n\nUsually when we go out she'll order off the kids menu because she knows the adult portions have things added that she would not like. \n\nI on the other, I hand love savory food. I love sauces and spice and some heat in my food. I love seafood and meats. Cheeses and good espresso. I am under 21 so no wine yet. Yet I am also a southerner so fried chicken, cornbread, sweet tea and collards run through my veins. \n\nAny advice for a meal that would suit her needs and mine? I would go out to eat but I feel like that is not as fun as making something special. \n\nWhat is a good meal that would be fresh and tasty for both of us?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For valentine's I plan on making a homemade meal for my girlfriend(18) yet the problem is that she has a very fine selection of what she eats. In the time we have been together, almost two years, she has only ever eaten chicken(fried and boneless, pretty much chicken tenders), peanut butter, french fries(not the steak fries) plain bread and cheese and plain butter noodles. She also hates sauces aling with beef and pork, though I don't think shes ever had either. Any type of sauce she will not eat as well. \n\n-side note- she did try pesto sauce once and didn't hate it. Victory!\n\nUsually when we go out she'll order off the kids menu because she knows the adult portions have things added that she would not like. \n\nI on the other, I hand love savory food. I love sauces and spice and some heat in my food. I love seafood and meats. Cheeses and good espresso. I am under 21 so no wine yet. Yet I am also a southerner so fried chicken, cornbread, sweet tea and collards run through my veins. \n\nAny advice for a meal that would suit her needs and mine? I would go out to eat but I feel like that is not as fun as making something special. \n\nWhat is a good meal that would be fresh and tasty for both of us?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened 11 years ago, and I still laugh about it.\n\nI was in the car with my dad, when some douche bag sideswiped him. It was a minor accident, no one got hurt, and nothing was ridiculously damaged, but my dad was PISSED. Mind you, he's a foreigner (he ain't from Amuurriicaa, mahn!), and up until that point in my life, I had heard my dad mess up some phrases here and there. He always pronounced things weirdly, forget to inflect, mistook his \"his\" and \"her\"s, etc. But this one took the cake. As soon as the other driver pulled over, my dad got out of the car, and while waving his hands in the air, he screamed as the other guy tried to talk:\n\n\"SHUT YOUR SHIT! SHUT IT! DO YOU NOT HEAR ME? SHUT YOUR ASS! SHUT YOUR ASS OR I WILL FUCK IT!\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened 11 years ago, and I still laugh about it.\n\nI was in the car with my dad, when some douche bag sideswiped him. It was a minor accident, no one got hurt, and nothing was ridiculously damaged, but my dad was PISSED. Mind you, he's a foreigner (he ain't from Amuurriicaa, mahn!), and up until that point in my life, I had heard my dad mess up some phrases here and there. He always pronounced things weirdly, forget to inflect, mistook his \"his\" and \"her\"s, etc. But this one took the cake. As soon as the other driver pulled over, my dad got out of the car, and while waving his hands in the air, he screamed as the other guy tried to talk:\n\n\"SHUT YOUR SHIT! SHUT IT! DO YOU NOT HEAR ME? SHUT YOUR ASS! SHUT YOUR ASS OR I WILL FUCK IT!\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened 11 years ago, and I still laugh about it.\n\nI was in the car with my dad, when some douche bag sideswiped him. It was a minor accident, no one got hurt, and nothing was ridiculously damaged, but my dad was PISSED. Mind you, he's a foreigner (he ain't from Amuurriicaa, mahn!), and up until that point in my life, I had heard my dad mess up some phrases here and there. He always pronounced things weirdly, forget to inflect, mistook his \"his\" and \"her\"s, etc. But this one took the cake. As soon as the other driver pulled over, my dad got out of the car, and while waving his hands in the air, he screamed as the other guy tried to talk:\n\n\"SHUT YOUR SHIT! SHUT IT! DO YOU NOT HEAR ME? SHUT YOUR ASS! SHUT YOUR ASS OR I WILL FUCK IT!\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened 11 years ago, and I still laugh about it.\n\nI was in the car with my dad, when some douche bag sideswiped him. It was a minor accident, no one got hurt, and nothing was ridiculously damaged, but my dad was PISSED. Mind you, he's a foreigner (he ain't from Amuurriicaa, mahn!), and up until that point in my life, I had heard my dad mess up some phrases here and there. He always pronounced things weirdly, forget to inflect, mistook his \"his\" and \"her\"s, etc. But this one took the cake. As soon as the other driver pulled over, my dad got out of the car, and while waving his hands in the air, he screamed as the other guy tried to talk:\n\n\"SHUT YOUR SHIT! SHUT IT! DO YOU NOT HEAR ME? SHUT YOUR ASS! SHUT YOUR ASS OR I WILL FUCK IT!\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened 11 years ago, and I still laugh about it.\n\nI was in the car with my dad, when some douche bag sideswiped him. It was a minor accident, no one got hurt, and nothing was ridiculously damaged, but my dad was PISSED. Mind you, he's a foreigner (he ain't from Amuurriicaa, mahn!), and up until that point in my life, I had heard my dad mess up some phrases here and there. He always pronounced things weirdly, forget to inflect, mistook his \"his\" and \"her\"s, etc. But this one took the cake. As soon as the other driver pulled over, my dad got out of the car, and while waving his hands in the air, he screamed as the other guy tried to talk:\n\n\"SHUT YOUR SHIT! SHUT IT! DO YOU NOT HEAR ME? SHUT YOUR ASS! SHUT YOUR ASS OR I WILL FUCK IT!\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened 11 years ago, and I still laugh about it.\n\nI was in the car with my dad, when some douche bag sideswiped him. It was a minor accident, no one got hurt, and nothing was ridiculously damaged, but my dad was PISSED. Mind you, he's a foreigner (he ain't from Amuurriicaa, mahn!), and up until that point in my life, I had heard my dad mess up some phrases here and there. He always pronounced things weirdly, forget to inflect, mistook his \"his\" and \"her\"s, etc. But this one took the cake. As soon as the other driver pulled over, my dad got out of the car, and while waving his hands in the air, he screamed as the other guy tried to talk:\n\n\"SHUT YOUR SHIT! SHUT IT! DO YOU NOT HEAR ME? SHUT YOUR ASS! SHUT YOUR ASS OR I WILL FUCK IT!\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had my best friend [19 M] friendzoned for 4 years. We met when I was dating my ex, so I never really saw him as anything more than a friend. He's been there for me for everything. He's basically been in love with me since the moment we met. He would do anything for me if it meant that I would be happy. I never thought that I would have feelings for him like he has for me. That is until a couple months ago.\n\n I developed feelings for him, while also developing feelings for my current boyfriend, [21 M]. Everyone told me to give my best friend a chance, but I was afraid of losing our friendship in the process, and I had stronger feelings towards my boyfriend. So I told my boyfriend that I would date him, and now my best friend will barely talk to me and wants to kick my boyfriends ass. Also all my friends are mad at me for the decision I made. I regret not giving him a chance, but I feel like if we were to have dated, I should have feelings for only him, and not anyone else. My boyfriend said he would fight my best friend if that's what he really wants, but I don't want them fighting over me. I'm afraid I lost my best friend and made a mistake in not choosing him, now I don't know what to do. Any advice Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had my best friend [19 M] friendzoned for 4 years. We met when I was dating my ex, so I never really saw him as anything more than a friend. He's been there for me for everything. He's basically been in love with me since the moment we met. He would do anything for me if it meant that I would be happy. I never thought that I would have feelings for him like he has for me. That is until a couple months ago.\n\n I developed feelings for him, while also developing feelings for my current boyfriend, [21 M]. Everyone told me to give my best friend a chance, but I was afraid of losing our friendship in the process, and I had stronger feelings towards my boyfriend. So I told my boyfriend that I would date him, and now my best friend will barely talk to me and wants to kick my boyfriends ass. Also all my friends are mad at me for the decision I made. I regret not giving him a chance, but I feel like if we were to have dated, I should have feelings for only him, and not anyone else. My boyfriend said he would fight my best friend if that's what he really wants, but I don't want them fighting over me. I'm afraid I lost my best friend and made a mistake in not choosing him, now I don't know what to do. Any advice Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had my best friend [19 M] friendzoned for 4 years. We met when I was dating my ex, so I never really saw him as anything more than a friend. He's been there for me for everything. He's basically been in love with me since the moment we met. He would do anything for me if it meant that I would be happy. I never thought that I would have feelings for him like he has for me. That is until a couple months ago.\n\n I developed feelings for him, while also developing feelings for my current boyfriend, [21 M]. Everyone told me to give my best friend a chance, but I was afraid of losing our friendship in the process, and I had stronger feelings towards my boyfriend. So I told my boyfriend that I would date him, and now my best friend will barely talk to me and wants to kick my boyfriends ass. Also all my friends are mad at me for the decision I made. I regret not giving him a chance, but I feel like if we were to have dated, I should have feelings for only him, and not anyone else. My boyfriend said he would fight my best friend if that's what he really wants, but I don't want them fighting over me. I'm afraid I lost my best friend and made a mistake in not choosing him, now I don't know what to do. Any advice Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I lost my virginity two weeks ago to the most wonderful man I have ever met, and he has no idea that I was a virgin before that night. \n\nI had never seen a man naked, had never intimately touched a man, or been touched like that myself! I thought that I would be found out after the deed, but he thinks that I am great in bed! (Thanks r/sex for the great guides and advice)\n\nWe have been close friends for over a year and during that time I lied to him about past boyfriends by saying that my longest relationship was 18 months (it was 3 months) and by telling him that I lived with someone for 6 months (I have never shared my home with anyone).\nI also told him that I have been with 6 people, because I was so very ashamed to be a virgin at my age. My family and friends have never found out. I have only admitted it to a therapist once and I broke down in tears as I said it. I was humiliated.\n\nI did not know at the time that I would become so close to him and that I would lose my virginity to him. The lies have become so deep that it has become incredibly difficult to tell him the truth.\n\nWhat should I do? \n\nI can see myself with him long term. Perhaps even longer. I can keep this to myself, as I can tell him that I do not want to talk about past relationships but I feel afraid that if he ever found out he would be devastated.\n\nI truly think that I am psychologically unable to confess the truth. I am so ashamed of what my life has been for the past 20 years. This is my first chance at true happiness and I feel like a normal person. I have never felt this way before.\n\nAny advice would be welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I lost my virginity two weeks ago to the most wonderful man I have ever met, and he has no idea that I was a virgin before that night. \n\nI had never seen a man naked, had never intimately touched a man, or been touched like that myself! I thought that I would be found out after the deed, but he thinks that I am great in bed! (Thanks r/sex for the great guides and advice)\n\nWe have been close friends for over a year and during that time I lied to him about past boyfriends by saying that my longest relationship was 18 months (it was 3 months) and by telling him that I lived with someone for 6 months (I have never shared my home with anyone).\nI also told him that I have been with 6 people, because I was so very ashamed to be a virgin at my age. My family and friends have never found out. I have only admitted it to a therapist once and I broke down in tears as I said it. I was humiliated.\n\nI did not know at the time that I would become so close to him and that I would lose my virginity to him. The lies have become so deep that it has become incredibly difficult to tell him the truth.\n\nWhat should I do? \n\nI can see myself with him long term. Perhaps even longer. I can keep this to myself, as I can tell him that I do not want to talk about past relationships but I feel afraid that if he ever found out he would be devastated.\n\nI truly think that I am psychologically unable to confess the truth. I am so ashamed of what my life has been for the past 20 years. This is my first chance at true happiness and I feel like a normal person. I have never felt this way before.\n\nAny advice would be welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I lost my virginity two weeks ago to the most wonderful man I have ever met, and he has no idea that I was a virgin before that night. \n\nI had never seen a man naked, had never intimately touched a man, or been touched like that myself! I thought that I would be found out after the deed, but he thinks that I am great in bed! (Thanks r/sex for the great guides and advice)\n\nWe have been close friends for over a year and during that time I lied to him about past boyfriends by saying that my longest relationship was 18 months (it was 3 months) and by telling him that I lived with someone for 6 months (I have never shared my home with anyone).\nI also told him that I have been with 6 people, because I was so very ashamed to be a virgin at my age. My family and friends have never found out. I have only admitted it to a therapist once and I broke down in tears as I said it. I was humiliated.\n\nI did not know at the time that I would become so close to him and that I would lose my virginity to him. The lies have become so deep that it has become incredibly difficult to tell him the truth.\n\nWhat should I do? \n\nI can see myself with him long term. Perhaps even longer. I can keep this to myself, as I can tell him that I do not want to talk about past relationships but I feel afraid that if he ever found out he would be devastated.\n\nI truly think that I am psychologically unable to confess the truth. I am so ashamed of what my life has been for the past 20 years. This is my first chance at true happiness and I feel like a normal person. I have never felt this way before.\n\nAny advice would be welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been talking for about 2 years, mainly through texting, and I felt like I knew her pretty well. This had been almost exclusively a friends relationship until last Sunday, when we went on our first date. It went well, and we ended up making out towards the end of it in my car. This was actually the first time I had made out with anyone, so it was pretty special. On Monday, we talked about it and she told me she had never been with someone who was so passionate and caring, which was great. We even made plans for this coming Sunday to see a movie together. \n\nThen, yesterday, she asked me a lot of questions, starting with stuff like \"What type of women are you in to?\" and \"What turns you on\", then it started changing into \"What do you want to do when you graduate\" and \"How many children do you want?\" I answered all her questions and we talked for a long time about each of them, and I even asked her them back. I didn't really think much of it until she asked me to go to San Francisco with her instead of seeing a movie nearby. This is the moment I realized that maybe she thought we were farther along into a relationship than I did. To be honest, she's a great person, and I know she only wants a person who cares about her (she comes from a pretty broken family), but I don't know if I am ready. This all is going so quickly! \n\nReddit, please help me decide what to do in this situation. I don't want to hurt or offend her, but I'm not sure if I am ready for this level of commitment, if that's what she is suggesting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been talking for about 2 years, mainly through texting, and I felt like I knew her pretty well. This had been almost exclusively a friends relationship until last Sunday, when we went on our first date. It went well, and we ended up making out towards the end of it in my car. This was actually the first time I had made out with anyone, so it was pretty special. On Monday, we talked about it and she told me she had never been with someone who was so passionate and caring, which was great. We even made plans for this coming Sunday to see a movie together. \n\nThen, yesterday, she asked me a lot of questions, starting with stuff like \"What type of women are you in to?\" and \"What turns you on\", then it started changing into \"What do you want to do when you graduate\" and \"How many children do you want?\" I answered all her questions and we talked for a long time about each of them, and I even asked her them back. I didn't really think much of it until she asked me to go to San Francisco with her instead of seeing a movie nearby. This is the moment I realized that maybe she thought we were farther along into a relationship than I did. To be honest, she's a great person, and I know she only wants a person who cares about her (she comes from a pretty broken family), but I don't know if I am ready. This all is going so quickly! \n\nReddit, please help me decide what to do in this situation. I don't want to hurt or offend her, but I'm not sure if I am ready for this level of commitment, if that's what she is suggesting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, like I said I am overthinking things. Normally I do not even think, I just act, but this is the first girl I ACTUALLY like. We had our first date, and I did not kiss her goodbye. I wanted it to be more of a surprise, and not expected. She has visited me every day at work since then, and I have kissed her goodnight.\n\nOur second date is today, and I want to be more prominent with my flirtiness. The first date was getting to know her, and ever since then she was at my work. I want to kiss her immediately when I see her, and since I have kissed her goodnight the past 5 days, I dont really see anything wrong with it.\n\nI just do not want to move this too fast, and I am worried that doing that will."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, like I said I am overthinking things. Normally I do not even think, I just act, but this is the first girl I ACTUALLY like. We had our first date, and I did not kiss her goodbye. I wanted it to be more of a surprise, and not expected. She has visited me every day at work since then, and I have kissed her goodnight.\n\nOur second date is today, and I want to be more prominent with my flirtiness. The first date was getting to know her, and ever since then she was at my work. I want to kiss her immediately when I see her, and since I have kissed her goodnight the past 5 days, I dont really see anything wrong with it.\n\nI just do not want to move this too fast, and I am worried that doing that will."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (Throw away because she's a redditor and a power user, might not work but oh well. Also it's kinda long)\n\nMe and her met on an online dating site and talked for a week and finally decided to go out and have dinner at this pretty nice/new italian restaurant downtown. Had a great time and was the best time I ever had in over 4 years (crippling depression and what not.) In short, me and her we're the exact same in every way in terms of interests. It's weird as if life finally gave me a break and said \"Hey I'm sorry about that, here's an amazing, loving girl with your brain, sorry about the past!\"\n\nWe did so much together in these (almost) 4 months and fell madly in love with each other. It was like some sloppily written cliche riddled romance movie. We never argued or had problems it seemed. This is where I'm lost and that rant before this is why I'm disbelief on why this is even happening. \n\nAnyway, previous to this morning we talked and saw each other all the time constantly since the first date. Sent her a text when I woke up, 4 hours go by and I text her again. This time shortly after all she said in a long message that \"I need time to think\" and that she doesn't \"know anymore and need's time\". She's never talked like this and it's so random. Normally that's an obvious red flag but it's just so strange and sudden after what was perfect. It make's no sense. Have I been punk'd? I don't understand where this is coming from. She never did anything or said anything wrong and neither did I (I think?)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (Throw away because she's a redditor and a power user, might not work but oh well. Also it's kinda long)\n\nMe and her met on an online dating site and talked for a week and finally decided to go out and have dinner at this pretty nice/new italian restaurant downtown. Had a great time and was the best time I ever had in over 4 years (crippling depression and what not.) In short, me and her we're the exact same in every way in terms of interests. It's weird as if life finally gave me a break and said \"Hey I'm sorry about that, here's an amazing, loving girl with your brain, sorry about the past!\"\n\nWe did so much together in these (almost) 4 months and fell madly in love with each other. It was like some sloppily written cliche riddled romance movie. We never argued or had problems it seemed. This is where I'm lost and that rant before this is why I'm disbelief on why this is even happening. \n\nAnyway, previous to this morning we talked and saw each other all the time constantly since the first date. Sent her a text when I woke up, 4 hours go by and I text her again. This time shortly after all she said in a long message that \"I need time to think\" and that she doesn't \"know anymore and need's time\". She's never talked like this and it's so random. Normally that's an obvious red flag but it's just so strange and sudden after what was perfect. It make's no sense. Have I been punk'd? I don't understand where this is coming from. She never did anything or said anything wrong and neither did I (I think?)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (Throw away because she's a redditor and a power user, might not work but oh well. Also it's kinda long)\n\nMe and her met on an online dating site and talked for a week and finally decided to go out and have dinner at this pretty nice/new italian restaurant downtown. Had a great time and was the best time I ever had in over 4 years (crippling depression and what not.) In short, me and her we're the exact same in every way in terms of interests. It's weird as if life finally gave me a break and said \"Hey I'm sorry about that, here's an amazing, loving girl with your brain, sorry about the past!\"\n\nWe did so much together in these (almost) 4 months and fell madly in love with each other. It was like some sloppily written cliche riddled romance movie. We never argued or had problems it seemed. This is where I'm lost and that rant before this is why I'm disbelief on why this is even happening. \n\nAnyway, previous to this morning we talked and saw each other all the time constantly since the first date. Sent her a text when I woke up, 4 hours go by and I text her again. This time shortly after all she said in a long message that \"I need time to think\" and that she doesn't \"know anymore and need's time\". She's never talked like this and it's so random. Normally that's an obvious red flag but it's just so strange and sudden after what was perfect. It make's no sense. Have I been punk'd? I don't understand where this is coming from. She never did anything or said anything wrong and neither did I (I think?)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just moved to a big row house in a city. We both share the second floor and there are three more people living upstairs and downstairs as well. I do have my own room.Unfortunately everyone is really busy and people are rarely home. \n\nI've tried fun stuff for him.leaving notes, buying him some big purchases (i know, i know), having dinner ready, other surprises.Some sexy surprises too. a lot of the times he'd rather play computer games than have sex with me ( I know, I know. reddit gf/wife syndrome)but even more that that he's just too tired to talk or have sex even. \n\nHe used to be so romantic and cute. Obviously the honeymoon phase is over, but I feel he's not even trying. I've even expressed we could have an open relationship (just none of that junk would happen in the house). and I've told him how I feel. He says he understands, tells me he loves me, but tit's a lot of talk and no action. He used to make me feel loved and spacial. I don't want to go though the motions. Is the chase over? Having just signed a year's lease makes is so much more complicated:-/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just moved to a big row house in a city. We both share the second floor and there are three more people living upstairs and downstairs as well. I do have my own room.Unfortunately everyone is really busy and people are rarely home. \n\nI've tried fun stuff for him.leaving notes, buying him some big purchases (i know, i know), having dinner ready, other surprises.Some sexy surprises too. a lot of the times he'd rather play computer games than have sex with me ( I know, I know. reddit gf/wife syndrome)but even more that that he's just too tired to talk or have sex even. \n\nHe used to be so romantic and cute. Obviously the honeymoon phase is over, but I feel he's not even trying. I've even expressed we could have an open relationship (just none of that junk would happen in the house). and I've told him how I feel. He says he understands, tells me he loves me, but tit's a lot of talk and no action. He used to make me feel loved and spacial. I don't want to go though the motions. Is the chase over? Having just signed a year's lease makes is so much more complicated:-/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just moved to a big row house in a city. We both share the second floor and there are three more people living upstairs and downstairs as well. I do have my own room.Unfortunately everyone is really busy and people are rarely home. \n\nI've tried fun stuff for him.leaving notes, buying him some big purchases (i know, i know), having dinner ready, other surprises.Some sexy surprises too. a lot of the times he'd rather play computer games than have sex with me ( I know, I know. reddit gf/wife syndrome)but even more that that he's just too tired to talk or have sex even. \n\nHe used to be so romantic and cute. Obviously the honeymoon phase is over, but I feel he's not even trying. I've even expressed we could have an open relationship (just none of that junk would happen in the house). and I've told him how I feel. He says he understands, tells me he loves me, but tit's a lot of talk and no action. He used to make me feel loved and spacial. I don't want to go though the motions. Is the chase over? Having just signed a year's lease makes is so much more complicated:-/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have been dating for a year and a half, and are about to start trying the long distance thing because I have to move for work. \n\nRecently she had to move into a new apartment, and I moved in with her as my current lease ends two months before I have to move.\n\nFor the past 6 weeks she has grown emotionally cold towards me, which she attributes to being too stressed with everything in her life. I've been supportive and tried to hear her out, offer advice if asked, and try to make her happy still whenever the opportunity presents itself. But the relationship has been growing colder from her end, and more than once she's told me she's been yelling at me just to hurt me and act out. She is an only child and states that \"this is how I (she) am, I'm selfish and you should know that about me\". She has flat out told me that my presence in the apartment now is distressing for her, and its starting to make me feel like I'm unwanted here. \n\nThis is despite the fact that I have helped move her out of her old place on my own while she was too busy at work, sacrificed my own time on setting up her (our) new place, dealt with my own family members turning gravely sick (for which she hasn't even tried talking to me about despite me being obviously distressed about it) and have been solely taking care of a new dog we got together.\n\nI know it sounds like I'm rambling, but I've talked with her a lot about these issues and been very direct about how I feel that she's taking her frustrations about her job/personal responsibilities out on our relationship and on me. The thing is, I'm trying to figure out if I'm just not being understanding enough about her life right now or if enough is enough and I should just make do for the next two months and start fresh and single when I move to another city."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have been dating for a year and a half, and are about to start trying the long distance thing because I have to move for work. \n\nRecently she had to move into a new apartment, and I moved in with her as my current lease ends two months before I have to move.\n\nFor the past 6 weeks she has grown emotionally cold towards me, which she attributes to being too stressed with everything in her life. I've been supportive and tried to hear her out, offer advice if asked, and try to make her happy still whenever the opportunity presents itself. But the relationship has been growing colder from her end, and more than once she's told me she's been yelling at me just to hurt me and act out. She is an only child and states that \"this is how I (she) am, I'm selfish and you should know that about me\". She has flat out told me that my presence in the apartment now is distressing for her, and its starting to make me feel like I'm unwanted here. \n\nThis is despite the fact that I have helped move her out of her old place on my own while she was too busy at work, sacrificed my own time on setting up her (our) new place, dealt with my own family members turning gravely sick (for which she hasn't even tried talking to me about despite me being obviously distressed about it) and have been solely taking care of a new dog we got together.\n\nI know it sounds like I'm rambling, but I've talked with her a lot about these issues and been very direct about how I feel that she's taking her frustrations about her job/personal responsibilities out on our relationship and on me. The thing is, I'm trying to figure out if I'm just not being understanding enough about her life right now or if enough is enough and I should just make do for the next two months and start fresh and single when I move to another city."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have been dating for a year and a half, and are about to start trying the long distance thing because I have to move for work. \n\nRecently she had to move into a new apartment, and I moved in with her as my current lease ends two months before I have to move.\n\nFor the past 6 weeks she has grown emotionally cold towards me, which she attributes to being too stressed with everything in her life. I've been supportive and tried to hear her out, offer advice if asked, and try to make her happy still whenever the opportunity presents itself. But the relationship has been growing colder from her end, and more than once she's told me she's been yelling at me just to hurt me and act out. She is an only child and states that \"this is how I (she) am, I'm selfish and you should know that about me\". She has flat out told me that my presence in the apartment now is distressing for her, and its starting to make me feel like I'm unwanted here. \n\nThis is despite the fact that I have helped move her out of her old place on my own while she was too busy at work, sacrificed my own time on setting up her (our) new place, dealt with my own family members turning gravely sick (for which she hasn't even tried talking to me about despite me being obviously distressed about it) and have been solely taking care of a new dog we got together.\n\nI know it sounds like I'm rambling, but I've talked with her a lot about these issues and been very direct about how I feel that she's taking her frustrations about her job/personal responsibilities out on our relationship and on me. The thing is, I'm trying to figure out if I'm just not being understanding enough about her life right now or if enough is enough and I should just make do for the next two months and start fresh and single when I move to another city."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have been dating for a year and a half, and are about to start trying the long distance thing because I have to move for work. \n\nRecently she had to move into a new apartment, and I moved in with her as my current lease ends two months before I have to move.\n\nFor the past 6 weeks she has grown emotionally cold towards me, which she attributes to being too stressed with everything in her life. I've been supportive and tried to hear her out, offer advice if asked, and try to make her happy still whenever the opportunity presents itself. But the relationship has been growing colder from her end, and more than once she's told me she's been yelling at me just to hurt me and act out. She is an only child and states that \"this is how I (she) am, I'm selfish and you should know that about me\". She has flat out told me that my presence in the apartment now is distressing for her, and its starting to make me feel like I'm unwanted here. \n\nThis is despite the fact that I have helped move her out of her old place on my own while she was too busy at work, sacrificed my own time on setting up her (our) new place, dealt with my own family members turning gravely sick (for which she hasn't even tried talking to me about despite me being obviously distressed about it) and have been solely taking care of a new dog we got together.\n\nI know it sounds like I'm rambling, but I've talked with her a lot about these issues and been very direct about how I feel that she's taking her frustrations about her job/personal responsibilities out on our relationship and on me. The thing is, I'm trying to figure out if I'm just not being understanding enough about her life right now or if enough is enough and I should just make do for the next two months and start fresh and single when I move to another city."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have been dating for a year and a half, and are about to start trying the long distance thing because I have to move for work. \n\nRecently she had to move into a new apartment, and I moved in with her as my current lease ends two months before I have to move.\n\nFor the past 6 weeks she has grown emotionally cold towards me, which she attributes to being too stressed with everything in her life. I've been supportive and tried to hear her out, offer advice if asked, and try to make her happy still whenever the opportunity presents itself. But the relationship has been growing colder from her end, and more than once she's told me she's been yelling at me just to hurt me and act out. She is an only child and states that \"this is how I (she) am, I'm selfish and you should know that about me\". She has flat out told me that my presence in the apartment now is distressing for her, and its starting to make me feel like I'm unwanted here. \n\nThis is despite the fact that I have helped move her out of her old place on my own while she was too busy at work, sacrificed my own time on setting up her (our) new place, dealt with my own family members turning gravely sick (for which she hasn't even tried talking to me about despite me being obviously distressed about it) and have been solely taking care of a new dog we got together.\n\nI know it sounds like I'm rambling, but I've talked with her a lot about these issues and been very direct about how I feel that she's taking her frustrations about her job/personal responsibilities out on our relationship and on me. The thing is, I'm trying to figure out if I'm just not being understanding enough about her life right now or if enough is enough and I should just make do for the next two months and start fresh and single when I move to another city."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have been dating for a year and a half, and are about to start trying the long distance thing because I have to move for work. \n\nRecently she had to move into a new apartment, and I moved in with her as my current lease ends two months before I have to move.\n\nFor the past 6 weeks she has grown emotionally cold towards me, which she attributes to being too stressed with everything in her life. I've been supportive and tried to hear her out, offer advice if asked, and try to make her happy still whenever the opportunity presents itself. But the relationship has been growing colder from her end, and more than once she's told me she's been yelling at me just to hurt me and act out. She is an only child and states that \"this is how I (she) am, I'm selfish and you should know that about me\". She has flat out told me that my presence in the apartment now is distressing for her, and its starting to make me feel like I'm unwanted here. \n\nThis is despite the fact that I have helped move her out of her old place on my own while she was too busy at work, sacrificed my own time on setting up her (our) new place, dealt with my own family members turning gravely sick (for which she hasn't even tried talking to me about despite me being obviously distressed about it) and have been solely taking care of a new dog we got together.\n\nI know it sounds like I'm rambling, but I've talked with her a lot about these issues and been very direct about how I feel that she's taking her frustrations about her job/personal responsibilities out on our relationship and on me. The thing is, I'm trying to figure out if I'm just not being understanding enough about her life right now or if enough is enough and I should just make do for the next two months and start fresh and single when I move to another city."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Gimme the goods, Reddit, what's something profound you happened to hear while dropping eaves?\n\nHere's mine:\n\nMy parents were visiting me at school this weekend. The weather was terrible, so all we did was drink and eat. On Saturday night, while killing time in a bar waiting for a dinner reservation, my dad started talking to an old man who happened to be a Vietnam War vet. My dad never talks about his experiences to anyone who doesn't have a military background, so while my mom and boyfriend were giggling and drinking, I had an ear turned towards my dad's conversation. The most he's ever told me about his time in the service was in the 6th grade for a report, and that was a stiff and uncomfortable experience. After talking about building firebases, having bleeding and cracked feet during monsoon season, and all sorts of awe inspiring things I'd never heard him breathe a word of, he told the old man that one of his buddies, who was black (and died in Vietnam), told him:\n\n> You'll know what it's like to be a nigger when you go back home.\n\nSure enough, all the stories my mom told me about my dad being spit on, and having to dig ditches because no one would hire veterans suddenly slid in to place. I've always had a huge amount of respect for my dad for never being racist, despite being caught right in the middle of the civil rights movement (we're talking about a guy who has a foot long scar down his side from being randomly stabbed with a box cutter in his high school for being white), but goddamn. This is something that'll stick with me for the rest of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Gimme the goods, Reddit, what's something profound you happened to hear while dropping eaves?\n\nHere's mine:\n\nMy parents were visiting me at school this weekend. The weather was terrible, so all we did was drink and eat. On Saturday night, while killing time in a bar waiting for a dinner reservation, my dad started talking to an old man who happened to be a Vietnam War vet. My dad never talks about his experiences to anyone who doesn't have a military background, so while my mom and boyfriend were giggling and drinking, I had an ear turned towards my dad's conversation. The most he's ever told me about his time in the service was in the 6th grade for a report, and that was a stiff and uncomfortable experience. After talking about building firebases, having bleeding and cracked feet during monsoon season, and all sorts of awe inspiring things I'd never heard him breathe a word of, he told the old man that one of his buddies, who was black (and died in Vietnam), told him:\n\n> You'll know what it's like to be a nigger when you go back home.\n\nSure enough, all the stories my mom told me about my dad being spit on, and having to dig ditches because no one would hire veterans suddenly slid in to place. I've always had a huge amount of respect for my dad for never being racist, despite being caught right in the middle of the civil rights movement (we're talking about a guy who has a foot long scar down his side from being randomly stabbed with a box cutter in his high school for being white), but goddamn. This is something that'll stick with me for the rest of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Gimme the goods, Reddit, what's something profound you happened to hear while dropping eaves?\n\nHere's mine:\n\nMy parents were visiting me at school this weekend. The weather was terrible, so all we did was drink and eat. On Saturday night, while killing time in a bar waiting for a dinner reservation, my dad started talking to an old man who happened to be a Vietnam War vet. My dad never talks about his experiences to anyone who doesn't have a military background, so while my mom and boyfriend were giggling and drinking, I had an ear turned towards my dad's conversation. The most he's ever told me about his time in the service was in the 6th grade for a report, and that was a stiff and uncomfortable experience. After talking about building firebases, having bleeding and cracked feet during monsoon season, and all sorts of awe inspiring things I'd never heard him breathe a word of, he told the old man that one of his buddies, who was black (and died in Vietnam), told him:\n\n> You'll know what it's like to be a nigger when you go back home.\n\nSure enough, all the stories my mom told me about my dad being spit on, and having to dig ditches because no one would hire veterans suddenly slid in to place. I've always had a huge amount of respect for my dad for never being racist, despite being caught right in the middle of the civil rights movement (we're talking about a guy who has a foot long scar down his side from being randomly stabbed with a box cutter in his high school for being white), but goddamn. This is something that'll stick with me for the rest of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in my first real relationship for two years now, we started senior year of High School, and carried through freshman year of college sorta long distance (2 hours). Recently she cheated on me, it devastated me. I'm still very much in love with her and a few days after all of this happened, I contacted her to tell her that. She said it was a mistake and she still loves me, but we agreed we couldn't be together right now and we need some time to figure it out. So, we've been in this kinda limbo state ever since. I just don't see a way to move on, even though I know I probably should. Has anyone dealt with a situation similar to this? I need words of advice or just something to make me feel better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in my first real relationship for two years now, we started senior year of High School, and carried through freshman year of college sorta long distance (2 hours). Recently she cheated on me, it devastated me. I'm still very much in love with her and a few days after all of this happened, I contacted her to tell her that. She said it was a mistake and she still loves me, but we agreed we couldn't be together right now and we need some time to figure it out. So, we've been in this kinda limbo state ever since. I just don't see a way to move on, even though I know I probably should. Has anyone dealt with a situation similar to this? I need words of advice or just something to make me feel better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in my first real relationship for two years now, we started senior year of High School, and carried through freshman year of college sorta long distance (2 hours). Recently she cheated on me, it devastated me. I'm still very much in love with her and a few days after all of this happened, I contacted her to tell her that. She said it was a mistake and she still loves me, but we agreed we couldn't be together right now and we need some time to figure it out. So, we've been in this kinda limbo state ever since. I just don't see a way to move on, even though I know I probably should. Has anyone dealt with a situation similar to this? I need words of advice or just something to make me feel better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in my first real relationship for two years now, we started senior year of High School, and carried through freshman year of college sorta long distance (2 hours). Recently she cheated on me, it devastated me. I'm still very much in love with her and a few days after all of this happened, I contacted her to tell her that. She said it was a mistake and she still loves me, but we agreed we couldn't be together right now and we need some time to figure it out. So, we've been in this kinda limbo state ever since. I just don't see a way to move on, even though I know I probably should. Has anyone dealt with a situation similar to this? I need words of advice or just something to make me feel better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in my first real relationship for two years now, we started senior year of High School, and carried through freshman year of college sorta long distance (2 hours). Recently she cheated on me, it devastated me. I'm still very much in love with her and a few days after all of this happened, I contacted her to tell her that. She said it was a mistake and she still loves me, but we agreed we couldn't be together right now and we need some time to figure it out. So, we've been in this kinda limbo state ever since. I just don't see a way to move on, even though I know I probably should. Has anyone dealt with a situation similar to this? I need words of advice or just something to make me feel better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in my first real relationship for two years now, we started senior year of High School, and carried through freshman year of college sorta long distance (2 hours). Recently she cheated on me, it devastated me. I'm still very much in love with her and a few days after all of this happened, I contacted her to tell her that. She said it was a mistake and she still loves me, but we agreed we couldn't be together right now and we need some time to figure it out. So, we've been in this kinda limbo state ever since. I just don't see a way to move on, even though I know I probably should. Has anyone dealt with a situation similar to this? I need words of advice or just something to make me feel better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened just a few minutes ago. My girlfriend and I, lets call her Jan, were sending pics to each other. Jan is pansexual. She accidentally sent me a picture of one of our friends, we will call her Hope. This is where my low self esteem, paranoia and worrying begins. I asked her why she had a pic of her on her phone, she replied with \"it was a good picture. Plus I kinda like her.\" I start asking her if she'd ever leave me for someone else, cheat on me, etc. She got really mad and said \"Trev, I think we should see other people.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened just a few minutes ago. My girlfriend and I, lets call her Jan, were sending pics to each other. Jan is pansexual. She accidentally sent me a picture of one of our friends, we will call her Hope. This is where my low self esteem, paranoia and worrying begins. I asked her why she had a pic of her on her phone, she replied with \"it was a good picture. Plus I kinda like her.\" I start asking her if she'd ever leave me for someone else, cheat on me, etc. She got really mad and said \"Trev, I think we should see other people.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened just a few minutes ago. My girlfriend and I, lets call her Jan, were sending pics to each other. Jan is pansexual. She accidentally sent me a picture of one of our friends, we will call her Hope. This is where my low self esteem, paranoia and worrying begins. I asked her why she had a pic of her on her phone, she replied with \"it was a good picture. Plus I kinda like her.\" I start asking her if she'd ever leave me for someone else, cheat on me, etc. She got really mad and said \"Trev, I think we should see other people.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so we're visiting Tallahassee to see the LoL Mid season invitational. It ended yesterday and our 6 hour drive begins. 40 minutes in I have to piss and I ask my friend \"Is it too early to have to pee?\" \"Yup.\" he says. Welp. better grab a bottle because he isn't pulling over. I grab a bottle, unzip, and try my hardest. My seating position is too awkward to piss, so I unbuckle and crouch over the bottle. Still nothing. This situation was more stressful than defusing a bomb while being strip searched by the TSA. After a minute of effort, I'm still dryer than California, so I admit defeat and start to put my little u/Ebyros away. As I lean back into my seat a steady stream of piss shot up like old faithful, and landed straight on my lap.\n\n\"OH SHIT. I JUST FUCKING PISSED ALL OVER MY PANTS.\"\n\nMy friends in the front seats lost their shit, but agreed to pull over.\n\nWith some brief felatio from a blow dryer and a trip to the urinal, my problems are solved."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so we're visiting Tallahassee to see the LoL Mid season invitational. It ended yesterday and our 6 hour drive begins. 40 minutes in I have to piss and I ask my friend \"Is it too early to have to pee?\" \"Yup.\" he says. Welp. better grab a bottle because he isn't pulling over. I grab a bottle, unzip, and try my hardest. My seating position is too awkward to piss, so I unbuckle and crouch over the bottle. Still nothing. This situation was more stressful than defusing a bomb while being strip searched by the TSA. After a minute of effort, I'm still dryer than California, so I admit defeat and start to put my little u/Ebyros away. As I lean back into my seat a steady stream of piss shot up like old faithful, and landed straight on my lap.\n\n\"OH SHIT. I JUST FUCKING PISSED ALL OVER MY PANTS.\"\n\nMy friends in the front seats lost their shit, but agreed to pull over.\n\nWith some brief felatio from a blow dryer and a trip to the urinal, my problems are solved."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so we're visiting Tallahassee to see the LoL Mid season invitational. It ended yesterday and our 6 hour drive begins. 40 minutes in I have to piss and I ask my friend \"Is it too early to have to pee?\" \"Yup.\" he says. Welp. better grab a bottle because he isn't pulling over. I grab a bottle, unzip, and try my hardest. My seating position is too awkward to piss, so I unbuckle and crouch over the bottle. Still nothing. This situation was more stressful than defusing a bomb while being strip searched by the TSA. After a minute of effort, I'm still dryer than California, so I admit defeat and start to put my little u/Ebyros away. As I lean back into my seat a steady stream of piss shot up like old faithful, and landed straight on my lap.\n\n\"OH SHIT. I JUST FUCKING PISSED ALL OVER MY PANTS.\"\n\nMy friends in the front seats lost their shit, but agreed to pull over.\n\nWith some brief felatio from a blow dryer and a trip to the urinal, my problems are solved."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Lately I, 17 male, have gotten really close to one of my best female friends who is also 17. I have known her since freshman year of high school and we are both now seniors. I haven't ever had a romantic attraction toward her until within this week.\nI have started to become more attracted to her because we have been hanging out more frequently, other than just IMing or texting each other. A lot of people have also asked the both of us if we are interested in each other or dating, and that has made me reassess the whole situation.\nI don't want to like her because i'm afraid we will end up dating and then it will never be the same between us, if we break up\nShe asks advice from me about other boys that she has her eye on and thinks are attractive, so I'm pretty sure that she doesn't have any feelings toward me other than being her best friend.\nShe is also super indecisive about how she feels toward boys that she does like. At first she likes them a lot but then once their true colors start to show she loses interest.\nI don't want to distance myself but I feel as if I am doing that already.\nShould I tell her how I am feeling? And if so, how do I go about doing so?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Lately I, 17 male, have gotten really close to one of my best female friends who is also 17. I have known her since freshman year of high school and we are both now seniors. I haven't ever had a romantic attraction toward her until within this week.\nI have started to become more attracted to her because we have been hanging out more frequently, other than just IMing or texting each other. A lot of people have also asked the both of us if we are interested in each other or dating, and that has made me reassess the whole situation.\nI don't want to like her because i'm afraid we will end up dating and then it will never be the same between us, if we break up\nShe asks advice from me about other boys that she has her eye on and thinks are attractive, so I'm pretty sure that she doesn't have any feelings toward me other than being her best friend.\nShe is also super indecisive about how she feels toward boys that she does like. At first she likes them a lot but then once their true colors start to show she loses interest.\nI don't want to distance myself but I feel as if I am doing that already.\nShould I tell her how I am feeling? And if so, how do I go about doing so?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Lately I, 17 male, have gotten really close to one of my best female friends who is also 17. I have known her since freshman year of high school and we are both now seniors. I haven't ever had a romantic attraction toward her until within this week.\nI have started to become more attracted to her because we have been hanging out more frequently, other than just IMing or texting each other. A lot of people have also asked the both of us if we are interested in each other or dating, and that has made me reassess the whole situation.\nI don't want to like her because i'm afraid we will end up dating and then it will never be the same between us, if we break up\nShe asks advice from me about other boys that she has her eye on and thinks are attractive, so I'm pretty sure that she doesn't have any feelings toward me other than being her best friend.\nShe is also super indecisive about how she feels toward boys that she does like. At first she likes them a lot but then once their true colors start to show she loses interest.\nI don't want to distance myself but I feel as if I am doing that already.\nShould I tell her how I am feeling? And if so, how do I go about doing so?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started college when I was 17 and knew what I wanted to do right off the bat, so at this point I've been in my field for nearly a decade (I had a job in college in my field). I also got married at 19 and had my first child at 20, and I'm very good at my job (I'm a graphic designer/marketer) so I am in a position in life that is usually normal for someone about five or more years older than I am.\n\nI feel capable at my job and in my element running meetings with men twice my age, but every once in awhile someone I work with in some capacity will ask me how old I am. Frankly, I don't want to tell people, I'd rather it be ambiguous. I've noticed a marked difference in the way people respond to me once they have confirmed that yes, I'm younger than they think I am and don't just have a fantastic skin care regimen. How do I respond? Do I lie? Do I just live with it? Is there any professional way at all to respond to that question without saying 'none of your business'?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started college when I was 17 and knew what I wanted to do right off the bat, so at this point I've been in my field for nearly a decade (I had a job in college in my field). I also got married at 19 and had my first child at 20, and I'm very good at my job (I'm a graphic designer/marketer) so I am in a position in life that is usually normal for someone about five or more years older than I am.\n\nI feel capable at my job and in my element running meetings with men twice my age, but every once in awhile someone I work with in some capacity will ask me how old I am. Frankly, I don't want to tell people, I'd rather it be ambiguous. I've noticed a marked difference in the way people respond to me once they have confirmed that yes, I'm younger than they think I am and don't just have a fantastic skin care regimen. How do I respond? Do I lie? Do I just live with it? Is there any professional way at all to respond to that question without saying 'none of your business'?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started college when I was 17 and knew what I wanted to do right off the bat, so at this point I've been in my field for nearly a decade (I had a job in college in my field). I also got married at 19 and had my first child at 20, and I'm very good at my job (I'm a graphic designer/marketer) so I am in a position in life that is usually normal for someone about five or more years older than I am.\n\nI feel capable at my job and in my element running meetings with men twice my age, but every once in awhile someone I work with in some capacity will ask me how old I am. Frankly, I don't want to tell people, I'd rather it be ambiguous. I've noticed a marked difference in the way people respond to me once they have confirmed that yes, I'm younger than they think I am and don't just have a fantastic skin care regimen. How do I respond? Do I lie? Do I just live with it? Is there any professional way at all to respond to that question without saying 'none of your business'?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started college when I was 17 and knew what I wanted to do right off the bat, so at this point I've been in my field for nearly a decade (I had a job in college in my field). I also got married at 19 and had my first child at 20, and I'm very good at my job (I'm a graphic designer/marketer) so I am in a position in life that is usually normal for someone about five or more years older than I am.\n\nI feel capable at my job and in my element running meetings with men twice my age, but every once in awhile someone I work with in some capacity will ask me how old I am. Frankly, I don't want to tell people, I'd rather it be ambiguous. I've noticed a marked difference in the way people respond to me once they have confirmed that yes, I'm younger than they think I am and don't just have a fantastic skin care regimen. How do I respond? Do I lie? Do I just live with it? Is there any professional way at all to respond to that question without saying 'none of your business'?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started college when I was 17 and knew what I wanted to do right off the bat, so at this point I've been in my field for nearly a decade (I had a job in college in my field). I also got married at 19 and had my first child at 20, and I'm very good at my job (I'm a graphic designer/marketer) so I am in a position in life that is usually normal for someone about five or more years older than I am.\n\nI feel capable at my job and in my element running meetings with men twice my age, but every once in awhile someone I work with in some capacity will ask me how old I am. Frankly, I don't want to tell people, I'd rather it be ambiguous. I've noticed a marked difference in the way people respond to me once they have confirmed that yes, I'm younger than they think I am and don't just have a fantastic skin care regimen. How do I respond? Do I lie? Do I just live with it? Is there any professional way at all to respond to that question without saying 'none of your business'?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I plan on asking this girl out today that I work with. The only thing is, I'm not sure what to do for the date. Essentially, she goes to the college right next to mine (they're pretty close, like sometimes people from her college will go to the bars around here, etc), and I know her from work since we have the same fall internship. I asked her to a date night at my fraternity a couple weeks ago (pumpkin carving and beer) and she came by-we carved a pumpkin, had a few drinks, and generally hit it off before her roommate came by to pick her up. Now I'd like to ask her out for a legit date of some sort, but I'm unsure of what. Dinner seems a bit formal, and since I don't have a car (although I might be able to potentially borrow one to pick her up/drive somewhere) it's hard to think of a place that works transportation wise (unless she drives her car, but that seems kind of lame on my part), plus I suck at thinking of casual date ideas. Help? Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I plan on asking this girl out today that I work with. The only thing is, I'm not sure what to do for the date. Essentially, she goes to the college right next to mine (they're pretty close, like sometimes people from her college will go to the bars around here, etc), and I know her from work since we have the same fall internship. I asked her to a date night at my fraternity a couple weeks ago (pumpkin carving and beer) and she came by-we carved a pumpkin, had a few drinks, and generally hit it off before her roommate came by to pick her up. Now I'd like to ask her out for a legit date of some sort, but I'm unsure of what. Dinner seems a bit formal, and since I don't have a car (although I might be able to potentially borrow one to pick her up/drive somewhere) it's hard to think of a place that works transportation wise (unless she drives her car, but that seems kind of lame on my part), plus I suck at thinking of casual date ideas. Help? Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I plan on asking this girl out today that I work with. The only thing is, I'm not sure what to do for the date. Essentially, she goes to the college right next to mine (they're pretty close, like sometimes people from her college will go to the bars around here, etc), and I know her from work since we have the same fall internship. I asked her to a date night at my fraternity a couple weeks ago (pumpkin carving and beer) and she came by-we carved a pumpkin, had a few drinks, and generally hit it off before her roommate came by to pick her up. Now I'd like to ask her out for a legit date of some sort, but I'm unsure of what. Dinner seems a bit formal, and since I don't have a car (although I might be able to potentially borrow one to pick her up/drive somewhere) it's hard to think of a place that works transportation wise (unless she drives her car, but that seems kind of lame on my part), plus I suck at thinking of casual date ideas. Help? Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is taking place in Austin, TX\n\nFWB = Friend With Benefits\n\nThe ex is Alice. Our mutual ex, meaning we were all three dating before, and then because of reasons, there were breakups, and now it's just me and FWB named Clarissa. Ex deserves to be upset, but this behavior is inexcusable.\n\nJust this past week, I gave up on being \"friends\" with this ex. She has been trying to convince me to break up with Clarissa for weeks now, and I finally gave up talking with her when she sent me with a falsified screenshot of a message (from Clarissa to Alice) implying something nefarious. I decided I was sick of the lies, and explained that I was no longer interested in staying in contact. I blocked her on every single digital communication medium I could (and her fake profile that she was using to get information from me). Clarissa has done the same.\n\nAlice most recently called in to Clarissa's place of employment, and claimed that someone fitting her appearance was smoking weed in her car in the company parking lot. Alice then makes an anonymous Yelp post saying the same. Clarissa's management took her aside privately and asked for clarification, and all agreed that it looked like someone was deliberately making a personal attack on her, so she still has her job. The Yelp review has also already been taken down.\n\nI need to know when I can decide that this sort of behavior constitutes legal recourse. Obviously, I can't take away Alice's ability to use a phone or internet. If I got an attorney involved, would they say \"until she actually causes provable damage to someone physically or to their livelihood, you have no case?\"\n\nI'm not interested in retaliating. I already know that this individual thrives on getting a reaction out of people, and Clarissa and I are committed to not giving her the satisfaction."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is taking place in Austin, TX\n\nFWB = Friend With Benefits\n\nThe ex is Alice. Our mutual ex, meaning we were all three dating before, and then because of reasons, there were breakups, and now it's just me and FWB named Clarissa. Ex deserves to be upset, but this behavior is inexcusable.\n\nJust this past week, I gave up on being \"friends\" with this ex. She has been trying to convince me to break up with Clarissa for weeks now, and I finally gave up talking with her when she sent me with a falsified screenshot of a message (from Clarissa to Alice) implying something nefarious. I decided I was sick of the lies, and explained that I was no longer interested in staying in contact. I blocked her on every single digital communication medium I could (and her fake profile that she was using to get information from me). Clarissa has done the same.\n\nAlice most recently called in to Clarissa's place of employment, and claimed that someone fitting her appearance was smoking weed in her car in the company parking lot. Alice then makes an anonymous Yelp post saying the same. Clarissa's management took her aside privately and asked for clarification, and all agreed that it looked like someone was deliberately making a personal attack on her, so she still has her job. The Yelp review has also already been taken down.\n\nI need to know when I can decide that this sort of behavior constitutes legal recourse. Obviously, I can't take away Alice's ability to use a phone or internet. If I got an attorney involved, would they say \"until she actually causes provable damage to someone physically or to their livelihood, you have no case?\"\n\nI'm not interested in retaliating. I already know that this individual thrives on getting a reaction out of people, and Clarissa and I are committed to not giving her the satisfaction."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is taking place in Austin, TX\n\nFWB = Friend With Benefits\n\nThe ex is Alice. Our mutual ex, meaning we were all three dating before, and then because of reasons, there were breakups, and now it's just me and FWB named Clarissa. Ex deserves to be upset, but this behavior is inexcusable.\n\nJust this past week, I gave up on being \"friends\" with this ex. She has been trying to convince me to break up with Clarissa for weeks now, and I finally gave up talking with her when she sent me with a falsified screenshot of a message (from Clarissa to Alice) implying something nefarious. I decided I was sick of the lies, and explained that I was no longer interested in staying in contact. I blocked her on every single digital communication medium I could (and her fake profile that she was using to get information from me). Clarissa has done the same.\n\nAlice most recently called in to Clarissa's place of employment, and claimed that someone fitting her appearance was smoking weed in her car in the company parking lot. Alice then makes an anonymous Yelp post saying the same. Clarissa's management took her aside privately and asked for clarification, and all agreed that it looked like someone was deliberately making a personal attack on her, so she still has her job. The Yelp review has also already been taken down.\n\nI need to know when I can decide that this sort of behavior constitutes legal recourse. Obviously, I can't take away Alice's ability to use a phone or internet. If I got an attorney involved, would they say \"until she actually causes provable damage to someone physically or to their livelihood, you have no case?\"\n\nI'm not interested in retaliating. I already know that this individual thrives on getting a reaction out of people, and Clarissa and I are committed to not giving her the satisfaction."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is taking place in Austin, TX\n\nFWB = Friend With Benefits\n\nThe ex is Alice. Our mutual ex, meaning we were all three dating before, and then because of reasons, there were breakups, and now it's just me and FWB named Clarissa. Ex deserves to be upset, but this behavior is inexcusable.\n\nJust this past week, I gave up on being \"friends\" with this ex. She has been trying to convince me to break up with Clarissa for weeks now, and I finally gave up talking with her when she sent me with a falsified screenshot of a message (from Clarissa to Alice) implying something nefarious. I decided I was sick of the lies, and explained that I was no longer interested in staying in contact. I blocked her on every single digital communication medium I could (and her fake profile that she was using to get information from me). Clarissa has done the same.\n\nAlice most recently called in to Clarissa's place of employment, and claimed that someone fitting her appearance was smoking weed in her car in the company parking lot. Alice then makes an anonymous Yelp post saying the same. Clarissa's management took her aside privately and asked for clarification, and all agreed that it looked like someone was deliberately making a personal attack on her, so she still has her job. The Yelp review has also already been taken down.\n\nI need to know when I can decide that this sort of behavior constitutes legal recourse. Obviously, I can't take away Alice's ability to use a phone or internet. If I got an attorney involved, would they say \"until she actually causes provable damage to someone physically or to their livelihood, you have no case?\"\n\nI'm not interested in retaliating. I already know that this individual thrives on getting a reaction out of people, and Clarissa and I are committed to not giving her the satisfaction."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is taking place in Austin, TX\n\nFWB = Friend With Benefits\n\nThe ex is Alice. Our mutual ex, meaning we were all three dating before, and then because of reasons, there were breakups, and now it's just me and FWB named Clarissa. Ex deserves to be upset, but this behavior is inexcusable.\n\nJust this past week, I gave up on being \"friends\" with this ex. She has been trying to convince me to break up with Clarissa for weeks now, and I finally gave up talking with her when she sent me with a falsified screenshot of a message (from Clarissa to Alice) implying something nefarious. I decided I was sick of the lies, and explained that I was no longer interested in staying in contact. I blocked her on every single digital communication medium I could (and her fake profile that she was using to get information from me). Clarissa has done the same.\n\nAlice most recently called in to Clarissa's place of employment, and claimed that someone fitting her appearance was smoking weed in her car in the company parking lot. Alice then makes an anonymous Yelp post saying the same. Clarissa's management took her aside privately and asked for clarification, and all agreed that it looked like someone was deliberately making a personal attack on her, so she still has her job. The Yelp review has also already been taken down.\n\nI need to know when I can decide that this sort of behavior constitutes legal recourse. Obviously, I can't take away Alice's ability to use a phone or internet. If I got an attorney involved, would they say \"until she actually causes provable damage to someone physically or to their livelihood, you have no case?\"\n\nI'm not interested in retaliating. I already know that this individual thrives on getting a reaction out of people, and Clarissa and I are committed to not giving her the satisfaction."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is taking place in Austin, TX\n\nFWB = Friend With Benefits\n\nThe ex is Alice. Our mutual ex, meaning we were all three dating before, and then because of reasons, there were breakups, and now it's just me and FWB named Clarissa. Ex deserves to be upset, but this behavior is inexcusable.\n\nJust this past week, I gave up on being \"friends\" with this ex. She has been trying to convince me to break up with Clarissa for weeks now, and I finally gave up talking with her when she sent me with a falsified screenshot of a message (from Clarissa to Alice) implying something nefarious. I decided I was sick of the lies, and explained that I was no longer interested in staying in contact. I blocked her on every single digital communication medium I could (and her fake profile that she was using to get information from me). Clarissa has done the same.\n\nAlice most recently called in to Clarissa's place of employment, and claimed that someone fitting her appearance was smoking weed in her car in the company parking lot. Alice then makes an anonymous Yelp post saying the same. Clarissa's management took her aside privately and asked for clarification, and all agreed that it looked like someone was deliberately making a personal attack on her, so she still has her job. The Yelp review has also already been taken down.\n\nI need to know when I can decide that this sort of behavior constitutes legal recourse. Obviously, I can't take away Alice's ability to use a phone or internet. If I got an attorney involved, would they say \"until she actually causes provable damage to someone physically or to their livelihood, you have no case?\"\n\nI'm not interested in retaliating. I already know that this individual thrives on getting a reaction out of people, and Clarissa and I are committed to not giving her the satisfaction."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I do bar promotions and I was working one night when I ran into a friend of my ex-boyfriend. He asked me to hang out with him after my shift. We talked, we danced, we drank, and we kissed at the end of the night. Given he said \"it feels wrong,\" but he still kept his hands around me. We exchanged numbers. He texted me two weeks later and we got together with my (not mutual) friends. This time he kept his hands to himself. We talked a lot and the flow of the night felt good. We hung out and talked some more. We've been friends for over a month now. While I was with my ex-boyfriend, we never communicated. Pretty sure I only saw him once or twice. Today, I worked another promotion and he came to see me . He came alone, ordered a drink, and waited for my shift to be over. We took one of the bottles and laid around in the woods. I really like him by now. Im obsessed with when we're hanging out next. I brought up a talk about my feelings. He said I'm a really nice gal, but I'm also the ex-girlfriend of one of his really good friends and that he doesn't want to cause problems and if roles were revered, he wouldn't want his friend with his ex-girlfriend. Which is a totally fair response. I didn't know what to really say. So I just dropped the topic. Did I misread signs? He seemed into me. Or maybe I was too hopeful? Is all hope lost?\n\nBackground: ex-boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. It was a good relationship, but not the best. He cheated on me 3 times. All about a year apart. Ofcourse his friend wouldn't know that. He even girlfriended the last side chick according to facebook. So I'm sure he wouldn't even care."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I do bar promotions and I was working one night when I ran into a friend of my ex-boyfriend. He asked me to hang out with him after my shift. We talked, we danced, we drank, and we kissed at the end of the night. Given he said \"it feels wrong,\" but he still kept his hands around me. We exchanged numbers. He texted me two weeks later and we got together with my (not mutual) friends. This time he kept his hands to himself. We talked a lot and the flow of the night felt good. We hung out and talked some more. We've been friends for over a month now. While I was with my ex-boyfriend, we never communicated. Pretty sure I only saw him once or twice. Today, I worked another promotion and he came to see me . He came alone, ordered a drink, and waited for my shift to be over. We took one of the bottles and laid around in the woods. I really like him by now. Im obsessed with when we're hanging out next. I brought up a talk about my feelings. He said I'm a really nice gal, but I'm also the ex-girlfriend of one of his really good friends and that he doesn't want to cause problems and if roles were revered, he wouldn't want his friend with his ex-girlfriend. Which is a totally fair response. I didn't know what to really say. So I just dropped the topic. Did I misread signs? He seemed into me. Or maybe I was too hopeful? Is all hope lost?\n\nBackground: ex-boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. It was a good relationship, but not the best. He cheated on me 3 times. All about a year apart. Ofcourse his friend wouldn't know that. He even girlfriended the last side chick according to facebook. So I'm sure he wouldn't even care."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I do bar promotions and I was working one night when I ran into a friend of my ex-boyfriend. He asked me to hang out with him after my shift. We talked, we danced, we drank, and we kissed at the end of the night. Given he said \"it feels wrong,\" but he still kept his hands around me. We exchanged numbers. He texted me two weeks later and we got together with my (not mutual) friends. This time he kept his hands to himself. We talked a lot and the flow of the night felt good. We hung out and talked some more. We've been friends for over a month now. While I was with my ex-boyfriend, we never communicated. Pretty sure I only saw him once or twice. Today, I worked another promotion and he came to see me . He came alone, ordered a drink, and waited for my shift to be over. We took one of the bottles and laid around in the woods. I really like him by now. Im obsessed with when we're hanging out next. I brought up a talk about my feelings. He said I'm a really nice gal, but I'm also the ex-girlfriend of one of his really good friends and that he doesn't want to cause problems and if roles were revered, he wouldn't want his friend with his ex-girlfriend. Which is a totally fair response. I didn't know what to really say. So I just dropped the topic. Did I misread signs? He seemed into me. Or maybe I was too hopeful? Is all hope lost?\n\nBackground: ex-boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. It was a good relationship, but not the best. He cheated on me 3 times. All about a year apart. Ofcourse his friend wouldn't know that. He even girlfriended the last side chick according to facebook. So I'm sure he wouldn't even care."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I broke up with my psychotic ex-girlfriend a few months ago. It's not important why we broke up, but she was just crazy to me and it was getting annoying so I ended it. We were together for a year.\n\nSo after the breakup, she was distraught and resorted to talking shit and spreading rumors about me. A lot of unneeded drama that I really did not want to deal with.\n\nLast year I also got suspended for a couple weeks for bringing some pot into school (super dumb decision, don't have to tell me.) My ex got SUPER upset and pissed off for over a week and her mom was really chill about it. This is important.\n\nHer mom was always a bit nutty and weird but I never really had a problem with her, she seemed harmless. Honestly we always got along pretty great and she loved me but after I broke up with her daughter, she just always talked shit about me to other parents. I brushed it off, no big deal, it's just her being immature. \n\nNope, three months later, I'm talking to my friend and she says \"hey, [ex's] mom is talking shit about you to all the parents at soccer games telling them that you're '[ex's] druggie ex-boyfriend.' Like really?\n\nIt's seriously gotten to the point where I'm tired of dealing with this family's bullshit and I still have to put up with it after three months of post-breakup drama.\n\nI don't know how to handle her talking about me to other parents and calling me a \"druggie ex-boyfriend.\" I barely even smoke pot. It's immature as hell and I want to stop it but I don't know how I would."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I broke up with my psychotic ex-girlfriend a few months ago. It's not important why we broke up, but she was just crazy to me and it was getting annoying so I ended it. We were together for a year.\n\nSo after the breakup, she was distraught and resorted to talking shit and spreading rumors about me. A lot of unneeded drama that I really did not want to deal with.\n\nLast year I also got suspended for a couple weeks for bringing some pot into school (super dumb decision, don't have to tell me.) My ex got SUPER upset and pissed off for over a week and her mom was really chill about it. This is important.\n\nHer mom was always a bit nutty and weird but I never really had a problem with her, she seemed harmless. Honestly we always got along pretty great and she loved me but after I broke up with her daughter, she just always talked shit about me to other parents. I brushed it off, no big deal, it's just her being immature. \n\nNope, three months later, I'm talking to my friend and she says \"hey, [ex's] mom is talking shit about you to all the parents at soccer games telling them that you're '[ex's] druggie ex-boyfriend.' Like really?\n\nIt's seriously gotten to the point where I'm tired of dealing with this family's bullshit and I still have to put up with it after three months of post-breakup drama.\n\nI don't know how to handle her talking about me to other parents and calling me a \"druggie ex-boyfriend.\" I barely even smoke pot. It's immature as hell and I want to stop it but I don't know how I would."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My story is, (24m)i have been out of relationships and even have had literally no sex life for a while. I met a girl(22f), who i think is awesome, and she has a boyfriend. That isnt the problem. I respectfully act as a platonic friend to the girl i originally had feelings for, and to a lesser degree her boyfriend. Now, somehow or another while i was drunk and we were all hanging out at a bar one of her friends(19f) came up to me and started giving me compliments and all that, she posts on a sexual comment i made on fb later on that night, i get her number not very long after (next day, first time we talk on fb). We have been meeting up to see eachother with other people around and she always kisses me, which i am loving. I even got her to go see a big concert with me in a city thats 30 minutes away (she brought her friend tho, and we didnt do anything but kissing/a little dancing) Yesterday i txted her early in the day and she said \"Im in a terrible fucking mood\". I ask why, she sais its personal, so i say ok, you dont have to tell me if u dont want, as long as you still talk to me. she sais \"okies\" and i guess i may have danced around it to see if she would let anything else out. \"so what are you pregnant?\" lol gawd no etc etc. well, i finally send her a last one saying to hmu if she wants to hang/talk/wtfever. she didnt, and instead made open facebook posts about how happy she was and shit. \n\nheres where i fucking blew it reddit: seeing the fb posts i txted her \"hey u up? i wanna talk to u im gettin this wierd feeling that i missed my chance or somethin.\"\n\nits 730 am. should i just go get drunk or something and try not to think about it? cuz im kinda stewing in what closely resembles highschool style rejection."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My story is, (24m)i have been out of relationships and even have had literally no sex life for a while. I met a girl(22f), who i think is awesome, and she has a boyfriend. That isnt the problem. I respectfully act as a platonic friend to the girl i originally had feelings for, and to a lesser degree her boyfriend. Now, somehow or another while i was drunk and we were all hanging out at a bar one of her friends(19f) came up to me and started giving me compliments and all that, she posts on a sexual comment i made on fb later on that night, i get her number not very long after (next day, first time we talk on fb). We have been meeting up to see eachother with other people around and she always kisses me, which i am loving. I even got her to go see a big concert with me in a city thats 30 minutes away (she brought her friend tho, and we didnt do anything but kissing/a little dancing) Yesterday i txted her early in the day and she said \"Im in a terrible fucking mood\". I ask why, she sais its personal, so i say ok, you dont have to tell me if u dont want, as long as you still talk to me. she sais \"okies\" and i guess i may have danced around it to see if she would let anything else out. \"so what are you pregnant?\" lol gawd no etc etc. well, i finally send her a last one saying to hmu if she wants to hang/talk/wtfever. she didnt, and instead made open facebook posts about how happy she was and shit. \n\nheres where i fucking blew it reddit: seeing the fb posts i txted her \"hey u up? i wanna talk to u im gettin this wierd feeling that i missed my chance or somethin.\"\n\nits 730 am. should i just go get drunk or something and try not to think about it? cuz im kinda stewing in what closely resembles highschool style rejection."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My story is, (24m)i have been out of relationships and even have had literally no sex life for a while. I met a girl(22f), who i think is awesome, and she has a boyfriend. That isnt the problem. I respectfully act as a platonic friend to the girl i originally had feelings for, and to a lesser degree her boyfriend. Now, somehow or another while i was drunk and we were all hanging out at a bar one of her friends(19f) came up to me and started giving me compliments and all that, she posts on a sexual comment i made on fb later on that night, i get her number not very long after (next day, first time we talk on fb). We have been meeting up to see eachother with other people around and she always kisses me, which i am loving. I even got her to go see a big concert with me in a city thats 30 minutes away (she brought her friend tho, and we didnt do anything but kissing/a little dancing) Yesterday i txted her early in the day and she said \"Im in a terrible fucking mood\". I ask why, she sais its personal, so i say ok, you dont have to tell me if u dont want, as long as you still talk to me. she sais \"okies\" and i guess i may have danced around it to see if she would let anything else out. \"so what are you pregnant?\" lol gawd no etc etc. well, i finally send her a last one saying to hmu if she wants to hang/talk/wtfever. she didnt, and instead made open facebook posts about how happy she was and shit. \n\nheres where i fucking blew it reddit: seeing the fb posts i txted her \"hey u up? i wanna talk to u im gettin this wierd feeling that i missed my chance or somethin.\"\n\nits 730 am. should i just go get drunk or something and try not to think about it? cuz im kinda stewing in what closely resembles highschool style rejection."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My story is, (24m)i have been out of relationships and even have had literally no sex life for a while. I met a girl(22f), who i think is awesome, and she has a boyfriend. That isnt the problem. I respectfully act as a platonic friend to the girl i originally had feelings for, and to a lesser degree her boyfriend. Now, somehow or another while i was drunk and we were all hanging out at a bar one of her friends(19f) came up to me and started giving me compliments and all that, she posts on a sexual comment i made on fb later on that night, i get her number not very long after (next day, first time we talk on fb). We have been meeting up to see eachother with other people around and she always kisses me, which i am loving. I even got her to go see a big concert with me in a city thats 30 minutes away (she brought her friend tho, and we didnt do anything but kissing/a little dancing) Yesterday i txted her early in the day and she said \"Im in a terrible fucking mood\". I ask why, she sais its personal, so i say ok, you dont have to tell me if u dont want, as long as you still talk to me. she sais \"okies\" and i guess i may have danced around it to see if she would let anything else out. \"so what are you pregnant?\" lol gawd no etc etc. well, i finally send her a last one saying to hmu if she wants to hang/talk/wtfever. she didnt, and instead made open facebook posts about how happy she was and shit. \n\nheres where i fucking blew it reddit: seeing the fb posts i txted her \"hey u up? i wanna talk to u im gettin this wierd feeling that i missed my chance or somethin.\"\n\nits 730 am. should i just go get drunk or something and try not to think about it? cuz im kinda stewing in what closely resembles highschool style rejection."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My story is, (24m)i have been out of relationships and even have had literally no sex life for a while. I met a girl(22f), who i think is awesome, and she has a boyfriend. That isnt the problem. I respectfully act as a platonic friend to the girl i originally had feelings for, and to a lesser degree her boyfriend. Now, somehow or another while i was drunk and we were all hanging out at a bar one of her friends(19f) came up to me and started giving me compliments and all that, she posts on a sexual comment i made on fb later on that night, i get her number not very long after (next day, first time we talk on fb). We have been meeting up to see eachother with other people around and she always kisses me, which i am loving. I even got her to go see a big concert with me in a city thats 30 minutes away (she brought her friend tho, and we didnt do anything but kissing/a little dancing) Yesterday i txted her early in the day and she said \"Im in a terrible fucking mood\". I ask why, she sais its personal, so i say ok, you dont have to tell me if u dont want, as long as you still talk to me. she sais \"okies\" and i guess i may have danced around it to see if she would let anything else out. \"so what are you pregnant?\" lol gawd no etc etc. well, i finally send her a last one saying to hmu if she wants to hang/talk/wtfever. she didnt, and instead made open facebook posts about how happy she was and shit. \n\nheres where i fucking blew it reddit: seeing the fb posts i txted her \"hey u up? i wanna talk to u im gettin this wierd feeling that i missed my chance or somethin.\"\n\nits 730 am. should i just go get drunk or something and try not to think about it? cuz im kinda stewing in what closely resembles highschool style rejection."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My story is, (24m)i have been out of relationships and even have had literally no sex life for a while. I met a girl(22f), who i think is awesome, and she has a boyfriend. That isnt the problem. I respectfully act as a platonic friend to the girl i originally had feelings for, and to a lesser degree her boyfriend. Now, somehow or another while i was drunk and we were all hanging out at a bar one of her friends(19f) came up to me and started giving me compliments and all that, she posts on a sexual comment i made on fb later on that night, i get her number not very long after (next day, first time we talk on fb). We have been meeting up to see eachother with other people around and she always kisses me, which i am loving. I even got her to go see a big concert with me in a city thats 30 minutes away (she brought her friend tho, and we didnt do anything but kissing/a little dancing) Yesterday i txted her early in the day and she said \"Im in a terrible fucking mood\". I ask why, she sais its personal, so i say ok, you dont have to tell me if u dont want, as long as you still talk to me. she sais \"okies\" and i guess i may have danced around it to see if she would let anything else out. \"so what are you pregnant?\" lol gawd no etc etc. well, i finally send her a last one saying to hmu if she wants to hang/talk/wtfever. she didnt, and instead made open facebook posts about how happy she was and shit. \n\nheres where i fucking blew it reddit: seeing the fb posts i txted her \"hey u up? i wanna talk to u im gettin this wierd feeling that i missed my chance or somethin.\"\n\nits 730 am. should i just go get drunk or something and try not to think about it? cuz im kinda stewing in what closely resembles highschool style rejection."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we've had our share of problems but we overcame everything.\n\nover the last year i started to be too active in my own activities and i stopped showing intrest in her activities. i did not do this knowingly! she also didn't realise it so we couldn't talk about it \n\nlast wednesday we were talking about how our relationship changed over the last couple of months and how we became to much as normal friends. the reason was my behaviour, my neglaction of her, made her lose intrest in me in a intimate way. \n\nshe is everything to me and i wanted to do whatever it takes to stay together with her but i can't seem to make her believe it can really be done in the long run. \n\nwe agreed to stay friends, but in trying to make her believe i can change, i would only push her away from me and the thought of her being completely out of my life terrifies me more than anything\n\nshe is everything i want in a woman and there is no doubt in my mind that this is the woman i want to grow old with."
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