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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We dated for about 1.5 years, and then decided to try seeing other people. There were some complications in our relationship, but we were happy while it was going. \n\nI recently told her that my feelings for her were resurfacing. We talked tonight, and she said that she felt the same way, but didn't want to get back together. When I asked why, she said she didn't want her friends to judge her. She said she wants to wait a few months for them to grow on the idea, but still wants to text and talk to me like we have been doing the last week (very often, like if we were a couple). \n\nIs she telling the truth? It seems like she is leading me on, but she doesn't seem like someone who would do that? I just need a second opinion reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We dated for about 1.5 years, and then decided to try seeing other people. There were some complications in our relationship, but we were happy while it was going. \n\nI recently told her that my feelings for her were resurfacing. We talked tonight, and she said that she felt the same way, but didn't want to get back together. When I asked why, she said she didn't want her friends to judge her. She said she wants to wait a few months for them to grow on the idea, but still wants to text and talk to me like we have been doing the last week (very often, like if we were a couple). \n\nIs she telling the truth? It seems like she is leading me on, but she doesn't seem like someone who would do that? I just need a second opinion reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work at a technical support help desk (I answer phones and provide support). I think one the most frustrating things about working as a support is when I try give the caller a reason for their issue, they believe it to not be correct. I'll elaborate with a story.\n\nSomeone calls in regarding an issue with logging in to blah blah. I ask what error message they receive. From her response I know that they are just using an incorrect password. I inform them that they are using an incorrect password. IMMEDIATELY they respond with, \"NO that is wrong I've had the same password for years.\" I reset their password and tell them to log in with the new password. They say, \"NOPE it's not working, don't you think it's my old password that I've been using for 2 years.\" I then begin to use their default username and the reset password to try and log in to see if their is an issue or that I might've put in the wrong reset password. I use the credentials and I log in. Surprise. I inform them that they should try again and now MAGICALLY it works for them. (surprise!). They then ask me what it could have been? I have to tell them it could have been a multitude of things when in fact, it was their fault all along. Sometimes I just want to say it was your own fault, idiot."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work at a technical support help desk (I answer phones and provide support). I think one the most frustrating things about working as a support is when I try give the caller a reason for their issue, they believe it to not be correct. I'll elaborate with a story.\n\nSomeone calls in regarding an issue with logging in to blah blah. I ask what error message they receive. From her response I know that they are just using an incorrect password. I inform them that they are using an incorrect password. IMMEDIATELY they respond with, \"NO that is wrong I've had the same password for years.\" I reset their password and tell them to log in with the new password. They say, \"NOPE it's not working, don't you think it's my old password that I've been using for 2 years.\" I then begin to use their default username and the reset password to try and log in to see if their is an issue or that I might've put in the wrong reset password. I use the credentials and I log in. Surprise. I inform them that they should try again and now MAGICALLY it works for them. (surprise!). They then ask me what it could have been? I have to tell them it could have been a multitude of things when in fact, it was their fault all along. Sometimes I just want to say it was your own fault, idiot."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work at a technical support help desk (I answer phones and provide support). I think one the most frustrating things about working as a support is when I try give the caller a reason for their issue, they believe it to not be correct. I'll elaborate with a story.\n\nSomeone calls in regarding an issue with logging in to blah blah. I ask what error message they receive. From her response I know that they are just using an incorrect password. I inform them that they are using an incorrect password. IMMEDIATELY they respond with, \"NO that is wrong I've had the same password for years.\" I reset their password and tell them to log in with the new password. They say, \"NOPE it's not working, don't you think it's my old password that I've been using for 2 years.\" I then begin to use their default username and the reset password to try and log in to see if their is an issue or that I might've put in the wrong reset password. I use the credentials and I log in. Surprise. I inform them that they should try again and now MAGICALLY it works for them. (surprise!). They then ask me what it could have been? I have to tell them it could have been a multitude of things when in fact, it was their fault all along. Sometimes I just want to say it was your own fault, idiot."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, my fiance has a tendency to spend money. Little bits here and there and then sometimes the large thing (though he does discuss them with me beforehand)\n\nSo we can keep atop of our finances and save something every month, I've set a strict budget for food, bills and spending money. I also budget £150 a month each for personal spending.\n\nHowever, he has already 'spent' that and about 6 months of future monthly spending allowance on a football season ticket and a new model dyson Hoover (that he insisted we needed as we'd had our old Hoover for a year already.) obviously I said that was crazy, so he opted to use his personal money to buy it.\n\nHowever, he has now pretty much maxed out his personal spending and we've had a few arguments over him being allowed to spend a bit more on bits and bobs and that he has every right to spend a bit more if he wishes.\n\nI understand he's put himself into a corner - and doesn't now have money to spend on little purchases like CDs or games. However I feel like I'm being punished for being good with my finances and end up having to give him some of my spending money, rather than taking it out of the saver.\n\nI should add, he does earn more than me so maybe he feels its his right that he spends money how he likes. \n\nBut I like to save and think its healthy for the future.\n\nHow do we stop the arguments?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, my fiance has a tendency to spend money. Little bits here and there and then sometimes the large thing (though he does discuss them with me beforehand)\n\nSo we can keep atop of our finances and save something every month, I've set a strict budget for food, bills and spending money. I also budget £150 a month each for personal spending.\n\nHowever, he has already 'spent' that and about 6 months of future monthly spending allowance on a football season ticket and a new model dyson Hoover (that he insisted we needed as we'd had our old Hoover for a year already.) obviously I said that was crazy, so he opted to use his personal money to buy it.\n\nHowever, he has now pretty much maxed out his personal spending and we've had a few arguments over him being allowed to spend a bit more on bits and bobs and that he has every right to spend a bit more if he wishes.\n\nI understand he's put himself into a corner - and doesn't now have money to spend on little purchases like CDs or games. However I feel like I'm being punished for being good with my finances and end up having to give him some of my spending money, rather than taking it out of the saver.\n\nI should add, he does earn more than me so maybe he feels its his right that he spends money how he likes. \n\nBut I like to save and think its healthy for the future.\n\nHow do we stop the arguments?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, my fiance has a tendency to spend money. Little bits here and there and then sometimes the large thing (though he does discuss them with me beforehand)\n\nSo we can keep atop of our finances and save something every month, I've set a strict budget for food, bills and spending money. I also budget £150 a month each for personal spending.\n\nHowever, he has already 'spent' that and about 6 months of future monthly spending allowance on a football season ticket and a new model dyson Hoover (that he insisted we needed as we'd had our old Hoover for a year already.) obviously I said that was crazy, so he opted to use his personal money to buy it.\n\nHowever, he has now pretty much maxed out his personal spending and we've had a few arguments over him being allowed to spend a bit more on bits and bobs and that he has every right to spend a bit more if he wishes.\n\nI understand he's put himself into a corner - and doesn't now have money to spend on little purchases like CDs or games. However I feel like I'm being punished for being good with my finances and end up having to give him some of my spending money, rather than taking it out of the saver.\n\nI should add, he does earn more than me so maybe he feels its his right that he spends money how he likes. \n\nBut I like to save and think its healthy for the future.\n\nHow do we stop the arguments?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, my fiance has a tendency to spend money. Little bits here and there and then sometimes the large thing (though he does discuss them with me beforehand)\n\nSo we can keep atop of our finances and save something every month, I've set a strict budget for food, bills and spending money. I also budget £150 a month each for personal spending.\n\nHowever, he has already 'spent' that and about 6 months of future monthly spending allowance on a football season ticket and a new model dyson Hoover (that he insisted we needed as we'd had our old Hoover for a year already.) obviously I said that was crazy, so he opted to use his personal money to buy it.\n\nHowever, he has now pretty much maxed out his personal spending and we've had a few arguments over him being allowed to spend a bit more on bits and bobs and that he has every right to spend a bit more if he wishes.\n\nI understand he's put himself into a corner - and doesn't now have money to spend on little purchases like CDs or games. However I feel like I'm being punished for being good with my finances and end up having to give him some of my spending money, rather than taking it out of the saver.\n\nI should add, he does earn more than me so maybe he feels its his right that he spends money how he likes. \n\nBut I like to save and think its healthy for the future.\n\nHow do we stop the arguments?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, my fiance has a tendency to spend money. Little bits here and there and then sometimes the large thing (though he does discuss them with me beforehand)\n\nSo we can keep atop of our finances and save something every month, I've set a strict budget for food, bills and spending money. I also budget £150 a month each for personal spending.\n\nHowever, he has already 'spent' that and about 6 months of future monthly spending allowance on a football season ticket and a new model dyson Hoover (that he insisted we needed as we'd had our old Hoover for a year already.) obviously I said that was crazy, so he opted to use his personal money to buy it.\n\nHowever, he has now pretty much maxed out his personal spending and we've had a few arguments over him being allowed to spend a bit more on bits and bobs and that he has every right to spend a bit more if he wishes.\n\nI understand he's put himself into a corner - and doesn't now have money to spend on little purchases like CDs or games. However I feel like I'm being punished for being good with my finances and end up having to give him some of my spending money, rather than taking it out of the saver.\n\nI should add, he does earn more than me so maybe he feels its his right that he spends money how he likes. \n\nBut I like to save and think its healthy for the future.\n\nHow do we stop the arguments?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, my fiance has a tendency to spend money. Little bits here and there and then sometimes the large thing (though he does discuss them with me beforehand)\n\nSo we can keep atop of our finances and save something every month, I've set a strict budget for food, bills and spending money. I also budget £150 a month each for personal spending.\n\nHowever, he has already 'spent' that and about 6 months of future monthly spending allowance on a football season ticket and a new model dyson Hoover (that he insisted we needed as we'd had our old Hoover for a year already.) obviously I said that was crazy, so he opted to use his personal money to buy it.\n\nHowever, he has now pretty much maxed out his personal spending and we've had a few arguments over him being allowed to spend a bit more on bits and bobs and that he has every right to spend a bit more if he wishes.\n\nI understand he's put himself into a corner - and doesn't now have money to spend on little purchases like CDs or games. However I feel like I'm being punished for being good with my finances and end up having to give him some of my spending money, rather than taking it out of the saver.\n\nI should add, he does earn more than me so maybe he feels its his right that he spends money how he likes. \n\nBut I like to save and think its healthy for the future.\n\nHow do we stop the arguments?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright. So the abridged version is basically we got into it because I looked at a celebrity gossip website randomly and she thought that was weird. Told her I looked at it because I'm fascinated by celebs (who hasn't thought it be cool to b a celebrity?) and she said she can't be with someone who want to be a celebrity so bad (I don't). So she asked to look through my phone history to see and I mentioned I delete my history. (I do. No real reason just always have. Not hiding anything) she says I'm sketchy. I say I can't be with someone who doesn't trust me. She throws my phone and starts walking away. I get in front if her and lightly push her to stop her from walking. Some random guy outside screams \"hey don't touch a girl like that\" She then proceeds to squeez my arm with her until it bleeds. She then slapped my head several times. After this she said she wanted to go home and I offered to give her a ride. On the way home she proceeded to call me the scum of the earth, said she can't believe the way that I treat her. And I'm abusive. Told me I don't deserve anyone because I put my hands on her. What should I do I've never been in love before and this is my first real relationship. I feel like my whole world is falling apart. Any advice will be helpful"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright. So the abridged version is basically we got into it because I looked at a celebrity gossip website randomly and she thought that was weird. Told her I looked at it because I'm fascinated by celebs (who hasn't thought it be cool to b a celebrity?) and she said she can't be with someone who want to be a celebrity so bad (I don't). So she asked to look through my phone history to see and I mentioned I delete my history. (I do. No real reason just always have. Not hiding anything) she says I'm sketchy. I say I can't be with someone who doesn't trust me. She throws my phone and starts walking away. I get in front if her and lightly push her to stop her from walking. Some random guy outside screams \"hey don't touch a girl like that\" She then proceeds to squeez my arm with her until it bleeds. She then slapped my head several times. After this she said she wanted to go home and I offered to give her a ride. On the way home she proceeded to call me the scum of the earth, said she can't believe the way that I treat her. And I'm abusive. Told me I don't deserve anyone because I put my hands on her. What should I do I've never been in love before and this is my first real relationship. I feel like my whole world is falling apart. Any advice will be helpful"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright. So the abridged version is basically we got into it because I looked at a celebrity gossip website randomly and she thought that was weird. Told her I looked at it because I'm fascinated by celebs (who hasn't thought it be cool to b a celebrity?) and she said she can't be with someone who want to be a celebrity so bad (I don't). So she asked to look through my phone history to see and I mentioned I delete my history. (I do. No real reason just always have. Not hiding anything) she says I'm sketchy. I say I can't be with someone who doesn't trust me. She throws my phone and starts walking away. I get in front if her and lightly push her to stop her from walking. Some random guy outside screams \"hey don't touch a girl like that\" She then proceeds to squeez my arm with her until it bleeds. She then slapped my head several times. After this she said she wanted to go home and I offered to give her a ride. On the way home she proceeded to call me the scum of the earth, said she can't believe the way that I treat her. And I'm abusive. Told me I don't deserve anyone because I put my hands on her. What should I do I've never been in love before and this is my first real relationship. I feel like my whole world is falling apart. Any advice will be helpful"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Two weeks ago my girlfriend of the last 2 years and I seperated. Since then we've been trying to stay friends but it's been difficult. She tells me that I am one of her best friends and that the only thing that's changed about her feelings towards me is that she no longer wants a relationship. She still cares about me and we talk all the time. We hang out every few days and have a lot of fun. But she insists that any romantic feelings are gone. \n\nI'm still in love with her and didn't want to break up. I've tried mercilessly to get her to give the relationship another shot, but she's adamant that those feelings are gone. She is one of my best friends and I don't want to lose her from my life just because I'm having a hard time accepting that it's over. This is my first long term relationship and it's my first big breakup. I don't know how I'm supposed to get over her. What are some things I can do to help me get over the relationship? How can I accept that she's not coming back and dull the feelings that I have for her enough that we can stay friends?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Two weeks ago my girlfriend of the last 2 years and I seperated. Since then we've been trying to stay friends but it's been difficult. She tells me that I am one of her best friends and that the only thing that's changed about her feelings towards me is that she no longer wants a relationship. She still cares about me and we talk all the time. We hang out every few days and have a lot of fun. But she insists that any romantic feelings are gone. \n\nI'm still in love with her and didn't want to break up. I've tried mercilessly to get her to give the relationship another shot, but she's adamant that those feelings are gone. She is one of my best friends and I don't want to lose her from my life just because I'm having a hard time accepting that it's over. This is my first long term relationship and it's my first big breakup. I don't know how I'm supposed to get over her. What are some things I can do to help me get over the relationship? How can I accept that she's not coming back and dull the feelings that I have for her enough that we can stay friends?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Two weeks ago my girlfriend of the last 2 years and I seperated. Since then we've been trying to stay friends but it's been difficult. She tells me that I am one of her best friends and that the only thing that's changed about her feelings towards me is that she no longer wants a relationship. She still cares about me and we talk all the time. We hang out every few days and have a lot of fun. But she insists that any romantic feelings are gone. \n\nI'm still in love with her and didn't want to break up. I've tried mercilessly to get her to give the relationship another shot, but she's adamant that those feelings are gone. She is one of my best friends and I don't want to lose her from my life just because I'm having a hard time accepting that it's over. This is my first long term relationship and it's my first big breakup. I don't know how I'm supposed to get over her. What are some things I can do to help me get over the relationship? How can I accept that she's not coming back and dull the feelings that I have for her enough that we can stay friends?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Heres mine, I went to a mall with my mom, her friends and my sister along with my mom's friend's daughter. We rented out one of the big cart things for kids to ride on while we were shopping. As were walking a married couple with 3 kids suddenly stop in the middle of the walkway. I accidently bumped into her, as for her reaction she made a painful and shocked expression. She then starts to scream at me of how careful I should be and I could've hurt her child. ( I don't think bumping into her would've hurt her child in anyway considering she was the only one that was hit, and all her children were at the side.) She screams of how painful her ankle was and telling me that it has a giant bruise and hoe much of an idiot I am. Being a 16 year old I decided to be mature and tell her I was very sorry over and over. As I widh this fight would be solved, my mother started to scream outloud in front of the crowd at the woman for ( As a 16 year old I look older than I look) screaming at me. Soon enough the womans husband come and joins in saying I was being irresponsible for not being careful and was being a mature young man taking responsibility. In my head I did not want their kids and my mom,s and her friend to hear this because obviously the woman started to use profanity in front of the children. I tried to to stop this fight but my mother refused, after about another 10 minutes of bickering she finally gave up and called her a fuck head as her last parting words. I wish it would've been handled more peacefully, but it could'nt have been helped. Never some people would cone out so aggressivley in public."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Heres mine, I went to a mall with my mom, her friends and my sister along with my mom's friend's daughter. We rented out one of the big cart things for kids to ride on while we were shopping. As were walking a married couple with 3 kids suddenly stop in the middle of the walkway. I accidently bumped into her, as for her reaction she made a painful and shocked expression. She then starts to scream at me of how careful I should be and I could've hurt her child. ( I don't think bumping into her would've hurt her child in anyway considering she was the only one that was hit, and all her children were at the side.) She screams of how painful her ankle was and telling me that it has a giant bruise and hoe much of an idiot I am. Being a 16 year old I decided to be mature and tell her I was very sorry over and over. As I widh this fight would be solved, my mother started to scream outloud in front of the crowd at the woman for ( As a 16 year old I look older than I look) screaming at me. Soon enough the womans husband come and joins in saying I was being irresponsible for not being careful and was being a mature young man taking responsibility. In my head I did not want their kids and my mom,s and her friend to hear this because obviously the woman started to use profanity in front of the children. I tried to to stop this fight but my mother refused, after about another 10 minutes of bickering she finally gave up and called her a fuck head as her last parting words. I wish it would've been handled more peacefully, but it could'nt have been helped. Never some people would cone out so aggressivley in public."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Heres mine, I went to a mall with my mom, her friends and my sister along with my mom's friend's daughter. We rented out one of the big cart things for kids to ride on while we were shopping. As were walking a married couple with 3 kids suddenly stop in the middle of the walkway. I accidently bumped into her, as for her reaction she made a painful and shocked expression. She then starts to scream at me of how careful I should be and I could've hurt her child. ( I don't think bumping into her would've hurt her child in anyway considering she was the only one that was hit, and all her children were at the side.) She screams of how painful her ankle was and telling me that it has a giant bruise and hoe much of an idiot I am. Being a 16 year old I decided to be mature and tell her I was very sorry over and over. As I widh this fight would be solved, my mother started to scream outloud in front of the crowd at the woman for ( As a 16 year old I look older than I look) screaming at me. Soon enough the womans husband come and joins in saying I was being irresponsible for not being careful and was being a mature young man taking responsibility. In my head I did not want their kids and my mom,s and her friend to hear this because obviously the woman started to use profanity in front of the children. I tried to to stop this fight but my mother refused, after about another 10 minutes of bickering she finally gave up and called her a fuck head as her last parting words. I wish it would've been handled more peacefully, but it could'nt have been helped. Never some people would cone out so aggressivley in public."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Heres mine, I went to a mall with my mom, her friends and my sister along with my mom's friend's daughter. We rented out one of the big cart things for kids to ride on while we were shopping. As were walking a married couple with 3 kids suddenly stop in the middle of the walkway. I accidently bumped into her, as for her reaction she made a painful and shocked expression. She then starts to scream at me of how careful I should be and I could've hurt her child. ( I don't think bumping into her would've hurt her child in anyway considering she was the only one that was hit, and all her children were at the side.) She screams of how painful her ankle was and telling me that it has a giant bruise and hoe much of an idiot I am. Being a 16 year old I decided to be mature and tell her I was very sorry over and over. As I widh this fight would be solved, my mother started to scream outloud in front of the crowd at the woman for ( As a 16 year old I look older than I look) screaming at me. Soon enough the womans husband come and joins in saying I was being irresponsible for not being careful and was being a mature young man taking responsibility. In my head I did not want their kids and my mom,s and her friend to hear this because obviously the woman started to use profanity in front of the children. I tried to to stop this fight but my mother refused, after about another 10 minutes of bickering she finally gave up and called her a fuck head as her last parting words. I wish it would've been handled more peacefully, but it could'nt have been helped. Never some people would cone out so aggressivley in public."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Heres mine, I went to a mall with my mom, her friends and my sister along with my mom's friend's daughter. We rented out one of the big cart things for kids to ride on while we were shopping. As were walking a married couple with 3 kids suddenly stop in the middle of the walkway. I accidently bumped into her, as for her reaction she made a painful and shocked expression. She then starts to scream at me of how careful I should be and I could've hurt her child. ( I don't think bumping into her would've hurt her child in anyway considering she was the only one that was hit, and all her children were at the side.) She screams of how painful her ankle was and telling me that it has a giant bruise and hoe much of an idiot I am. Being a 16 year old I decided to be mature and tell her I was very sorry over and over. As I widh this fight would be solved, my mother started to scream outloud in front of the crowd at the woman for ( As a 16 year old I look older than I look) screaming at me. Soon enough the womans husband come and joins in saying I was being irresponsible for not being careful and was being a mature young man taking responsibility. In my head I did not want their kids and my mom,s and her friend to hear this because obviously the woman started to use profanity in front of the children. I tried to to stop this fight but my mother refused, after about another 10 minutes of bickering she finally gave up and called her a fuck head as her last parting words. I wish it would've been handled more peacefully, but it could'nt have been helped. Never some people would cone out so aggressivley in public."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Heres mine, I went to a mall with my mom, her friends and my sister along with my mom's friend's daughter. We rented out one of the big cart things for kids to ride on while we were shopping. As were walking a married couple with 3 kids suddenly stop in the middle of the walkway. I accidently bumped into her, as for her reaction she made a painful and shocked expression. She then starts to scream at me of how careful I should be and I could've hurt her child. ( I don't think bumping into her would've hurt her child in anyway considering she was the only one that was hit, and all her children were at the side.) She screams of how painful her ankle was and telling me that it has a giant bruise and hoe much of an idiot I am. Being a 16 year old I decided to be mature and tell her I was very sorry over and over. As I widh this fight would be solved, my mother started to scream outloud in front of the crowd at the woman for ( As a 16 year old I look older than I look) screaming at me. Soon enough the womans husband come and joins in saying I was being irresponsible for not being careful and was being a mature young man taking responsibility. In my head I did not want their kids and my mom,s and her friend to hear this because obviously the woman started to use profanity in front of the children. I tried to to stop this fight but my mother refused, after about another 10 minutes of bickering she finally gave up and called her a fuck head as her last parting words. I wish it would've been handled more peacefully, but it could'nt have been helped. Never some people would cone out so aggressivley in public."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One is going to UNC pharm school, another will attend Hopkins medical school, one has a job in his field (statistics) practically in the bag after graduating. Yesterday, my friend got offered a job in I-banking and will make 6 figures out of college.\n\nI want to know, why is it that most of you cannot realize that if you are good at what you do, or show yourself to be in the upper echelon of students, you can get a great job and be wildly successful.\n\nDid any of you ever stop to think about how if you stopped complaining, took some classes that teach useful analytical skills (calculus, finance, organic chemistry e.g.) and did well in them, and made friends with professors and people at employer conventions at your school, you would have a great chance of being successful and having everything you want?\n\nIt seems like the self esteem generation is finally getting the message, \"Most of you are losers out of your own fault, and losers have never been successful,\" and they are in denial for the most part.\n\nI do realize there are extenuating circumstances (no college, although national merit scholars are offered boatloads of money, especially if they are low SES), but for the most part college students all seem to be victims of their own mediocrity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One is going to UNC pharm school, another will attend Hopkins medical school, one has a job in his field (statistics) practically in the bag after graduating. Yesterday, my friend got offered a job in I-banking and will make 6 figures out of college.\n\nI want to know, why is it that most of you cannot realize that if you are good at what you do, or show yourself to be in the upper echelon of students, you can get a great job and be wildly successful.\n\nDid any of you ever stop to think about how if you stopped complaining, took some classes that teach useful analytical skills (calculus, finance, organic chemistry e.g.) and did well in them, and made friends with professors and people at employer conventions at your school, you would have a great chance of being successful and having everything you want?\n\nIt seems like the self esteem generation is finally getting the message, \"Most of you are losers out of your own fault, and losers have never been successful,\" and they are in denial for the most part.\n\nI do realize there are extenuating circumstances (no college, although national merit scholars are offered boatloads of money, especially if they are low SES), but for the most part college students all seem to be victims of their own mediocrity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One is going to UNC pharm school, another will attend Hopkins medical school, one has a job in his field (statistics) practically in the bag after graduating. Yesterday, my friend got offered a job in I-banking and will make 6 figures out of college.\n\nI want to know, why is it that most of you cannot realize that if you are good at what you do, or show yourself to be in the upper echelon of students, you can get a great job and be wildly successful.\n\nDid any of you ever stop to think about how if you stopped complaining, took some classes that teach useful analytical skills (calculus, finance, organic chemistry e.g.) and did well in them, and made friends with professors and people at employer conventions at your school, you would have a great chance of being successful and having everything you want?\n\nIt seems like the self esteem generation is finally getting the message, \"Most of you are losers out of your own fault, and losers have never been successful,\" and they are in denial for the most part.\n\nI do realize there are extenuating circumstances (no college, although national merit scholars are offered boatloads of money, especially if they are low SES), but for the most part college students all seem to be victims of their own mediocrity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One is going to UNC pharm school, another will attend Hopkins medical school, one has a job in his field (statistics) practically in the bag after graduating. Yesterday, my friend got offered a job in I-banking and will make 6 figures out of college.\n\nI want to know, why is it that most of you cannot realize that if you are good at what you do, or show yourself to be in the upper echelon of students, you can get a great job and be wildly successful.\n\nDid any of you ever stop to think about how if you stopped complaining, took some classes that teach useful analytical skills (calculus, finance, organic chemistry e.g.) and did well in them, and made friends with professors and people at employer conventions at your school, you would have a great chance of being successful and having everything you want?\n\nIt seems like the self esteem generation is finally getting the message, \"Most of you are losers out of your own fault, and losers have never been successful,\" and they are in denial for the most part.\n\nI do realize there are extenuating circumstances (no college, although national merit scholars are offered boatloads of money, especially if they are low SES), but for the most part college students all seem to be victims of their own mediocrity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One is going to UNC pharm school, another will attend Hopkins medical school, one has a job in his field (statistics) practically in the bag after graduating. Yesterday, my friend got offered a job in I-banking and will make 6 figures out of college.\n\nI want to know, why is it that most of you cannot realize that if you are good at what you do, or show yourself to be in the upper echelon of students, you can get a great job and be wildly successful.\n\nDid any of you ever stop to think about how if you stopped complaining, took some classes that teach useful analytical skills (calculus, finance, organic chemistry e.g.) and did well in them, and made friends with professors and people at employer conventions at your school, you would have a great chance of being successful and having everything you want?\n\nIt seems like the self esteem generation is finally getting the message, \"Most of you are losers out of your own fault, and losers have never been successful,\" and they are in denial for the most part.\n\nI do realize there are extenuating circumstances (no college, although national merit scholars are offered boatloads of money, especially if they are low SES), but for the most part college students all seem to be victims of their own mediocrity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One is going to UNC pharm school, another will attend Hopkins medical school, one has a job in his field (statistics) practically in the bag after graduating. Yesterday, my friend got offered a job in I-banking and will make 6 figures out of college.\n\nI want to know, why is it that most of you cannot realize that if you are good at what you do, or show yourself to be in the upper echelon of students, you can get a great job and be wildly successful.\n\nDid any of you ever stop to think about how if you stopped complaining, took some classes that teach useful analytical skills (calculus, finance, organic chemistry e.g.) and did well in them, and made friends with professors and people at employer conventions at your school, you would have a great chance of being successful and having everything you want?\n\nIt seems like the self esteem generation is finally getting the message, \"Most of you are losers out of your own fault, and losers have never been successful,\" and they are in denial for the most part.\n\nI do realize there are extenuating circumstances (no college, although national merit scholars are offered boatloads of money, especially if they are low SES), but for the most part college students all seem to be victims of their own mediocrity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (26M) and her (26F) met in college freshman year and became good friends. She was with someone at the time so I didn't really look at her that way.\n\nAfter we graduated she moved to another country to work. She broke up with her boyfriend. She got enganged later to another guy and broke it off since he cheated. Now she has been talking to anothe guy and she might be falling for him.\n\nThing is we really click. We think the same, we have the same goals, etc. I am falling for her. I think of telling her, but what is the point? We live apart, plus she might not have reciprocale feelings and that might destroy our friendship.\n\nBut I still think of telling her how I feel. Help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (26M) and her (26F) met in college freshman year and became good friends. She was with someone at the time so I didn't really look at her that way.\n\nAfter we graduated she moved to another country to work. She broke up with her boyfriend. She got enganged later to another guy and broke it off since he cheated. Now she has been talking to anothe guy and she might be falling for him.\n\nThing is we really click. We think the same, we have the same goals, etc. I am falling for her. I think of telling her, but what is the point? We live apart, plus she might not have reciprocale feelings and that might destroy our friendship.\n\nBut I still think of telling her how I feel. Help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (26M) and her (26F) met in college freshman year and became good friends. She was with someone at the time so I didn't really look at her that way.\n\nAfter we graduated she moved to another country to work. She broke up with her boyfriend. She got enganged later to another guy and broke it off since he cheated. Now she has been talking to anothe guy and she might be falling for him.\n\nThing is we really click. We think the same, we have the same goals, etc. I am falling for her. I think of telling her, but what is the point? We live apart, plus she might not have reciprocale feelings and that might destroy our friendship.\n\nBut I still think of telling her how I feel. Help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (26M) and her (26F) met in college freshman year and became good friends. She was with someone at the time so I didn't really look at her that way.\n\nAfter we graduated she moved to another country to work. She broke up with her boyfriend. She got enganged later to another guy and broke it off since he cheated. Now she has been talking to anothe guy and she might be falling for him.\n\nThing is we really click. We think the same, we have the same goals, etc. I am falling for her. I think of telling her, but what is the point? We live apart, plus she might not have reciprocale feelings and that might destroy our friendship.\n\nBut I still think of telling her how I feel. Help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (26M) and her (26F) met in college freshman year and became good friends. She was with someone at the time so I didn't really look at her that way.\n\nAfter we graduated she moved to another country to work. She broke up with her boyfriend. She got enganged later to another guy and broke it off since he cheated. Now she has been talking to anothe guy and she might be falling for him.\n\nThing is we really click. We think the same, we have the same goals, etc. I am falling for her. I think of telling her, but what is the point? We live apart, plus she might not have reciprocale feelings and that might destroy our friendship.\n\nBut I still think of telling her how I feel. Help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (26M) and her (26F) met in college freshman year and became good friends. She was with someone at the time so I didn't really look at her that way.\n\nAfter we graduated she moved to another country to work. She broke up with her boyfriend. She got enganged later to another guy and broke it off since he cheated. Now she has been talking to anothe guy and she might be falling for him.\n\nThing is we really click. We think the same, we have the same goals, etc. I am falling for her. I think of telling her, but what is the point? We live apart, plus she might not have reciprocale feelings and that might destroy our friendship.\n\nBut I still think of telling her how I feel. Help?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One is going to UNC pharm school, another will attend Hopkins medical school, one has a job in his field (statistics) practically in the bag after graduating. Yesterday, my friend got offered a job in I-banking and will make 6 figures out of college.\n\nI want to know, why is it that most of you cannot realize that if you are good at what you do, or show yourself to be in the upper echelon of students, you can get a great job and be wildly successful.\n\nDid any of you ever stop to think about how if you stopped complaining, took some classes that teach useful analytical skills (calculus, finance, organic chemistry e.g.) and did well in them, and made friends with professors and people at employer conventions at your school, you would have a great chance of being successful and having everything you want?\n\nIt seems like the self esteem generation is finally getting the message, \"Most of you are losers out of your own fault, and losers have never been successful,\" and they are in denial for the most part.\n\nI do realize there are extenuating circumstances (no college, although national merit scholars are offered boatloads of money, especially if they are low SES), but for the most part college students all seem to be victims of their own mediocrity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One is going to UNC pharm school, another will attend Hopkins medical school, one has a job in his field (statistics) practically in the bag after graduating. Yesterday, my friend got offered a job in I-banking and will make 6 figures out of college.\n\nI want to know, why is it that most of you cannot realize that if you are good at what you do, or show yourself to be in the upper echelon of students, you can get a great job and be wildly successful.\n\nDid any of you ever stop to think about how if you stopped complaining, took some classes that teach useful analytical skills (calculus, finance, organic chemistry e.g.) and did well in them, and made friends with professors and people at employer conventions at your school, you would have a great chance of being successful and having everything you want?\n\nIt seems like the self esteem generation is finally getting the message, \"Most of you are losers out of your own fault, and losers have never been successful,\" and they are in denial for the most part.\n\nI do realize there are extenuating circumstances (no college, although national merit scholars are offered boatloads of money, especially if they are low SES), but for the most part college students all seem to be victims of their own mediocrity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One is going to UNC pharm school, another will attend Hopkins medical school, one has a job in his field (statistics) practically in the bag after graduating. Yesterday, my friend got offered a job in I-banking and will make 6 figures out of college.\n\nI want to know, why is it that most of you cannot realize that if you are good at what you do, or show yourself to be in the upper echelon of students, you can get a great job and be wildly successful.\n\nDid any of you ever stop to think about how if you stopped complaining, took some classes that teach useful analytical skills (calculus, finance, organic chemistry e.g.) and did well in them, and made friends with professors and people at employer conventions at your school, you would have a great chance of being successful and having everything you want?\n\nIt seems like the self esteem generation is finally getting the message, \"Most of you are losers out of your own fault, and losers have never been successful,\" and they are in denial for the most part.\n\nI do realize there are extenuating circumstances (no college, although national merit scholars are offered boatloads of money, especially if they are low SES), but for the most part college students all seem to be victims of their own mediocrity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My past three relationships have all been about 2 years, and I've ended all of them because of a combination of problems and me losing interest. \n\nThe current girl I'm with has mostly everything I would want in a relationship - but I'm feeling myself starting to lose interest anyway. She does have a fairly bad jealousy problem, but some of it is warranted and I feel that everyone has to have some personal defects which should be forgiven.\n\nOne factor which I think contributes to feeling unsatisfied is that I tend to get what my friend calls a \"wandering eye.\" Even though I'm happy with my gf I can't help noticing other girls around and being drawn to them, even catching myself flirting at times. A lot of it is sexual attraction and desire - it seems horrible but after being with my gf almost a year I'm less interested in sex and occasionally get a rush of excitement when I notice another girl showing interest in me. \n\nI could just date indefinitely but I do want to settle down and have kids. I just always get the feeling that I can't stay satisfied with my relationships, and if I'm getting this restlessness after only a year or two I can't imagine how it would be over the rest of my lifetime. \n\nAn obvious answer would be to decide which is more important, dating different people or settling down, and then have the self control to stick to the decision. It's just that long term I *want* to settle down, but I can never escape the feeling of wanting to pursue other girls. A few years back I told someone older this and they said \"you must not be ready,\" but I can't help feeling like this isn't going away, and I really would like to start a family."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My past three relationships have all been about 2 years, and I've ended all of them because of a combination of problems and me losing interest. \n\nThe current girl I'm with has mostly everything I would want in a relationship - but I'm feeling myself starting to lose interest anyway. She does have a fairly bad jealousy problem, but some of it is warranted and I feel that everyone has to have some personal defects which should be forgiven.\n\nOne factor which I think contributes to feeling unsatisfied is that I tend to get what my friend calls a \"wandering eye.\" Even though I'm happy with my gf I can't help noticing other girls around and being drawn to them, even catching myself flirting at times. A lot of it is sexual attraction and desire - it seems horrible but after being with my gf almost a year I'm less interested in sex and occasionally get a rush of excitement when I notice another girl showing interest in me. \n\nI could just date indefinitely but I do want to settle down and have kids. I just always get the feeling that I can't stay satisfied with my relationships, and if I'm getting this restlessness after only a year or two I can't imagine how it would be over the rest of my lifetime. \n\nAn obvious answer would be to decide which is more important, dating different people or settling down, and then have the self control to stick to the decision. It's just that long term I *want* to settle down, but I can never escape the feeling of wanting to pursue other girls. A few years back I told someone older this and they said \"you must not be ready,\" but I can't help feeling like this isn't going away, and I really would like to start a family."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My past three relationships have all been about 2 years, and I've ended all of them because of a combination of problems and me losing interest. \n\nThe current girl I'm with has mostly everything I would want in a relationship - but I'm feeling myself starting to lose interest anyway. She does have a fairly bad jealousy problem, but some of it is warranted and I feel that everyone has to have some personal defects which should be forgiven.\n\nOne factor which I think contributes to feeling unsatisfied is that I tend to get what my friend calls a \"wandering eye.\" Even though I'm happy with my gf I can't help noticing other girls around and being drawn to them, even catching myself flirting at times. A lot of it is sexual attraction and desire - it seems horrible but after being with my gf almost a year I'm less interested in sex and occasionally get a rush of excitement when I notice another girl showing interest in me. \n\nI could just date indefinitely but I do want to settle down and have kids. I just always get the feeling that I can't stay satisfied with my relationships, and if I'm getting this restlessness after only a year or two I can't imagine how it would be over the rest of my lifetime. \n\nAn obvious answer would be to decide which is more important, dating different people or settling down, and then have the self control to stick to the decision. It's just that long term I *want* to settle down, but I can never escape the feeling of wanting to pursue other girls. A few years back I told someone older this and they said \"you must not be ready,\" but I can't help feeling like this isn't going away, and I really would like to start a family."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Background*: When I met this girl (at college) she had a long-distance, long-term boyfriend with whom she was in an open relationship. We started hooking up exclusively but had many ups and downs due to her not wanting to jeopardize her feelings for her boyfriend. *Her interactions with me and her boyfriend are not the topic of discussion for today.* They broke up this summer and after a long period spent getting over some associated guilt and hurt feelings, she and I agreed that we would try to be together this fall.\n\n*Issue at hand:* She feels that I hold a grudge against every person she's ever hooked up with other than me. This argument popped up because I brought up a one night stand she had this summer after her break up with her ex, me kind of overstating my jealousy of this hookup because I had \"existed\" at that point. I told her I disliked the idea of her kissing him or looking at him in the ways that we shared. It was all a little overstated maybe. She's a little upset over my reaction and I agree that what I said was possessive. \n\n*What I think*: I think that a lot of it may stem from insecurity about her feelings for me, given how we started off (just hooking up while she was in an open relationship), but I am afraid that I am possessive and that this will continue to be an issue for me in this relationship or future ones if I cannot correct it now and would like to hear your thoughts on possessiveness / how I can better avoid this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Background*: When I met this girl (at college) she had a long-distance, long-term boyfriend with whom she was in an open relationship. We started hooking up exclusively but had many ups and downs due to her not wanting to jeopardize her feelings for her boyfriend. *Her interactions with me and her boyfriend are not the topic of discussion for today.* They broke up this summer and after a long period spent getting over some associated guilt and hurt feelings, she and I agreed that we would try to be together this fall.\n\n*Issue at hand:* She feels that I hold a grudge against every person she's ever hooked up with other than me. This argument popped up because I brought up a one night stand she had this summer after her break up with her ex, me kind of overstating my jealousy of this hookup because I had \"existed\" at that point. I told her I disliked the idea of her kissing him or looking at him in the ways that we shared. It was all a little overstated maybe. She's a little upset over my reaction and I agree that what I said was possessive. \n\n*What I think*: I think that a lot of it may stem from insecurity about her feelings for me, given how we started off (just hooking up while she was in an open relationship), but I am afraid that I am possessive and that this will continue to be an issue for me in this relationship or future ones if I cannot correct it now and would like to hear your thoughts on possessiveness / how I can better avoid this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Background*: When I met this girl (at college) she had a long-distance, long-term boyfriend with whom she was in an open relationship. We started hooking up exclusively but had many ups and downs due to her not wanting to jeopardize her feelings for her boyfriend. *Her interactions with me and her boyfriend are not the topic of discussion for today.* They broke up this summer and after a long period spent getting over some associated guilt and hurt feelings, she and I agreed that we would try to be together this fall.\n\n*Issue at hand:* She feels that I hold a grudge against every person she's ever hooked up with other than me. This argument popped up because I brought up a one night stand she had this summer after her break up with her ex, me kind of overstating my jealousy of this hookup because I had \"existed\" at that point. I told her I disliked the idea of her kissing him or looking at him in the ways that we shared. It was all a little overstated maybe. She's a little upset over my reaction and I agree that what I said was possessive. \n\n*What I think*: I think that a lot of it may stem from insecurity about her feelings for me, given how we started off (just hooking up while she was in an open relationship), but I am afraid that I am possessive and that this will continue to be an issue for me in this relationship or future ones if I cannot correct it now and would like to hear your thoughts on possessiveness / how I can better avoid this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well, last night we were hanging out with these guys we met (they were like 18-24) and we had a good time, except my sister was really wanting to talk to the guy that was 18. (well they did talk I guess, and we're hanging out with them later)\n\nI felt pretty bad because he just got out of a relationship (it was over a year according to his friend), and when he told us about it, he seemed like he was wanting to cry but he held back. So I just felt bad for him. And back home, she has a thing with a guy already? \n\nNormally I would just let her do her thing, but then I realized she doesn't even know what she wants with the relationships she has (she admits to liking her ex (she saw him a few weeks ago), while having a thing with someone right now (from what she tells me it seems like he wants things to get serious: ex. inviting her to meet his family for his birthday last week), and then wanting to start things with this guy? Like I just don't think it's right.\n\nJust so everyone's clear, I'm not jealous, I think its stupid, but I don't want to get flack for being an ass.\n\nShould I talk to her, or let things happen and not say anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well, last night we were hanging out with these guys we met (they were like 18-24) and we had a good time, except my sister was really wanting to talk to the guy that was 18. (well they did talk I guess, and we're hanging out with them later)\n\nI felt pretty bad because he just got out of a relationship (it was over a year according to his friend), and when he told us about it, he seemed like he was wanting to cry but he held back. So I just felt bad for him. And back home, she has a thing with a guy already? \n\nNormally I would just let her do her thing, but then I realized she doesn't even know what she wants with the relationships she has (she admits to liking her ex (she saw him a few weeks ago), while having a thing with someone right now (from what she tells me it seems like he wants things to get serious: ex. inviting her to meet his family for his birthday last week), and then wanting to start things with this guy? Like I just don't think it's right.\n\nJust so everyone's clear, I'm not jealous, I think its stupid, but I don't want to get flack for being an ass.\n\nShould I talk to her, or let things happen and not say anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well, last night we were hanging out with these guys we met (they were like 18-24) and we had a good time, except my sister was really wanting to talk to the guy that was 18. (well they did talk I guess, and we're hanging out with them later)\n\nI felt pretty bad because he just got out of a relationship (it was over a year according to his friend), and when he told us about it, he seemed like he was wanting to cry but he held back. So I just felt bad for him. And back home, she has a thing with a guy already? \n\nNormally I would just let her do her thing, but then I realized she doesn't even know what she wants with the relationships she has (she admits to liking her ex (she saw him a few weeks ago), while having a thing with someone right now (from what she tells me it seems like he wants things to get serious: ex. inviting her to meet his family for his birthday last week), and then wanting to start things with this guy? Like I just don't think it's right.\n\nJust so everyone's clear, I'm not jealous, I think its stupid, but I don't want to get flack for being an ass.\n\nShould I talk to her, or let things happen and not say anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, not sure if I selected the right tag or not but I wanted to get your opinions and advice on a predicament I have.\n\nNext year my wife and child are going to move out as we are going to get divorced. As horrible as this will be, I need to focus on the future and for myself to be happy.\n\nOne thing I have always wanted to do and couldn't when my wife was here was to get a dog. I grew up with dogs and love them. I have really wanted a dog for years but my wife didn't want them. \n\nAnyway, as I would be divorced, it would mean I would be living on my own (in an apartment). I am concerned that it wouldn't really be fair on the dog to work a full time job and only spend time with it in the evenings and have it stay at home all day on its on.\n\nWhat are your thoughts and opinions on this sort of case? Particularly dog owners who live on their own - what do you do? \n\nAnother important matter is that I live in this country on my own, so I couldn't have family come over and see it etc (they are all back in England, whilst I'm in the USA).\n\nAnyway, sorry for the long post, but I wanted to see what you all thought on this? What advice you may have or if you can think of any tips? As much as I would love to get a dog, I want to get it in the right circumstances so I can be sure it is happy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, not sure if I selected the right tag or not but I wanted to get your opinions and advice on a predicament I have.\n\nNext year my wife and child are going to move out as we are going to get divorced. As horrible as this will be, I need to focus on the future and for myself to be happy.\n\nOne thing I have always wanted to do and couldn't when my wife was here was to get a dog. I grew up with dogs and love them. I have really wanted a dog for years but my wife didn't want them. \n\nAnyway, as I would be divorced, it would mean I would be living on my own (in an apartment). I am concerned that it wouldn't really be fair on the dog to work a full time job and only spend time with it in the evenings and have it stay at home all day on its on.\n\nWhat are your thoughts and opinions on this sort of case? Particularly dog owners who live on their own - what do you do? \n\nAnother important matter is that I live in this country on my own, so I couldn't have family come over and see it etc (they are all back in England, whilst I'm in the USA).\n\nAnyway, sorry for the long post, but I wanted to see what you all thought on this? What advice you may have or if you can think of any tips? As much as I would love to get a dog, I want to get it in the right circumstances so I can be sure it is happy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is kind of insane behavior. \n\nI moved out six weeks ago. I was paying rent, but I couldn't live with someone who went through my shit like I was 14. \n\nI saved enough to get a studio apartment. I am fully employed, go to school part time, and am single. So I am pretty focused on my own stuff at the moment. I got a kitten, but that isn't the point of contention. \n\nMy mom insisted my room be decorated to her standards, which included making the bed every day with 20 pillows arranged like the magazine picture. It drove me insane. \n\nI am a really minimalistic person. I like color, funky prints, but I don't want a clutter of knick-nacks. \n\nSo when I moved out, I took my sheets and the pillow I slept on, but left the rest of it. I got a comforter, and just have two pillows on there. I sleep on those. The bed doesn't look \"magazine perfect\" but its easy. I make my bed every day. \n\nI am like my dad [60m] and want things to be nice, neat, and clutter free. I don't keep tons of things I don't need or use. I am just very simple in that regard. Even my fashion sense is pretty straight forward. \n\nHowever, my mom keeps coming to visit me and bringing pillows and other things for my home that I don't want. Some of the stuff was cute (there was a pillow with a bull dog on it I kept.) But I don't want frilly floral things all over the house. \n\nI paid for the furniture myself and I can afford everything. But she is literally trying to fill my house with things I don't need. I told her to take it back or I would donate what I didn't want. I ended up taking a huge amount (5 large garbage bags full) of shit she brought me. And she still continues to do it. \n\nIDK what the fuck is going on, but she keeps thinking the space is her space. I am not sure what to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is kind of insane behavior. \n\nI moved out six weeks ago. I was paying rent, but I couldn't live with someone who went through my shit like I was 14. \n\nI saved enough to get a studio apartment. I am fully employed, go to school part time, and am single. So I am pretty focused on my own stuff at the moment. I got a kitten, but that isn't the point of contention. \n\nMy mom insisted my room be decorated to her standards, which included making the bed every day with 20 pillows arranged like the magazine picture. It drove me insane. \n\nI am a really minimalistic person. I like color, funky prints, but I don't want a clutter of knick-nacks. \n\nSo when I moved out, I took my sheets and the pillow I slept on, but left the rest of it. I got a comforter, and just have two pillows on there. I sleep on those. The bed doesn't look \"magazine perfect\" but its easy. I make my bed every day. \n\nI am like my dad [60m] and want things to be nice, neat, and clutter free. I don't keep tons of things I don't need or use. I am just very simple in that regard. Even my fashion sense is pretty straight forward. \n\nHowever, my mom keeps coming to visit me and bringing pillows and other things for my home that I don't want. Some of the stuff was cute (there was a pillow with a bull dog on it I kept.) But I don't want frilly floral things all over the house. \n\nI paid for the furniture myself and I can afford everything. But she is literally trying to fill my house with things I don't need. I told her to take it back or I would donate what I didn't want. I ended up taking a huge amount (5 large garbage bags full) of shit she brought me. And she still continues to do it. \n\nIDK what the fuck is going on, but she keeps thinking the space is her space. I am not sure what to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is kind of insane behavior. \n\nI moved out six weeks ago. I was paying rent, but I couldn't live with someone who went through my shit like I was 14. \n\nI saved enough to get a studio apartment. I am fully employed, go to school part time, and am single. So I am pretty focused on my own stuff at the moment. I got a kitten, but that isn't the point of contention. \n\nMy mom insisted my room be decorated to her standards, which included making the bed every day with 20 pillows arranged like the magazine picture. It drove me insane. \n\nI am a really minimalistic person. I like color, funky prints, but I don't want a clutter of knick-nacks. \n\nSo when I moved out, I took my sheets and the pillow I slept on, but left the rest of it. I got a comforter, and just have two pillows on there. I sleep on those. The bed doesn't look \"magazine perfect\" but its easy. I make my bed every day. \n\nI am like my dad [60m] and want things to be nice, neat, and clutter free. I don't keep tons of things I don't need or use. I am just very simple in that regard. Even my fashion sense is pretty straight forward. \n\nHowever, my mom keeps coming to visit me and bringing pillows and other things for my home that I don't want. Some of the stuff was cute (there was a pillow with a bull dog on it I kept.) But I don't want frilly floral things all over the house. \n\nI paid for the furniture myself and I can afford everything. But she is literally trying to fill my house with things I don't need. I told her to take it back or I would donate what I didn't want. I ended up taking a huge amount (5 large garbage bags full) of shit she brought me. And she still continues to do it. \n\nIDK what the fuck is going on, but she keeps thinking the space is her space. I am not sure what to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi guys \n\nSo my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 8-9 months. Today is Mother's Day and I live across the country so I can't spend Mother's Day with my mom. My boyfriend invited me to spend Mother's Day with his mom and dad, but I feel awkward bc that's like implying that she will become my mom too one day, but we have only been together for like 8ish months and I think it's too soon. We never talk about marriage or kids or anything like that so its not like she's really going to become my mother in law soon because we plan on getting married you know ? We haven't talked about this stuff because it's still a new relationship and still figuring things out. What do you guys think too soon to spend Mother's Day with boyfriends parents or am I overthinking this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi guys \n\nSo my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 8-9 months. Today is Mother's Day and I live across the country so I can't spend Mother's Day with my mom. My boyfriend invited me to spend Mother's Day with his mom and dad, but I feel awkward bc that's like implying that she will become my mom too one day, but we have only been together for like 8ish months and I think it's too soon. We never talk about marriage or kids or anything like that so its not like she's really going to become my mother in law soon because we plan on getting married you know ? We haven't talked about this stuff because it's still a new relationship and still figuring things out. What do you guys think too soon to spend Mother's Day with boyfriends parents or am I overthinking this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi guys \n\nSo my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 8-9 months. Today is Mother's Day and I live across the country so I can't spend Mother's Day with my mom. My boyfriend invited me to spend Mother's Day with his mom and dad, but I feel awkward bc that's like implying that she will become my mom too one day, but we have only been together for like 8ish months and I think it's too soon. We never talk about marriage or kids or anything like that so its not like she's really going to become my mother in law soon because we plan on getting married you know ? We haven't talked about this stuff because it's still a new relationship and still figuring things out. What do you guys think too soon to spend Mother's Day with boyfriends parents or am I overthinking this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi guys \n\nSo my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 8-9 months. Today is Mother's Day and I live across the country so I can't spend Mother's Day with my mom. My boyfriend invited me to spend Mother's Day with his mom and dad, but I feel awkward bc that's like implying that she will become my mom too one day, but we have only been together for like 8ish months and I think it's too soon. We never talk about marriage or kids or anything like that so its not like she's really going to become my mother in law soon because we plan on getting married you know ? We haven't talked about this stuff because it's still a new relationship and still figuring things out. What do you guys think too soon to spend Mother's Day with boyfriends parents or am I overthinking this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi guys \n\nSo my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 8-9 months. Today is Mother's Day and I live across the country so I can't spend Mother's Day with my mom. My boyfriend invited me to spend Mother's Day with his mom and dad, but I feel awkward bc that's like implying that she will become my mom too one day, but we have only been together for like 8ish months and I think it's too soon. We never talk about marriage or kids or anything like that so its not like she's really going to become my mother in law soon because we plan on getting married you know ? We haven't talked about this stuff because it's still a new relationship and still figuring things out. What do you guys think too soon to spend Mother's Day with boyfriends parents or am I overthinking this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi guys \n\nSo my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 8-9 months. Today is Mother's Day and I live across the country so I can't spend Mother's Day with my mom. My boyfriend invited me to spend Mother's Day with his mom and dad, but I feel awkward bc that's like implying that she will become my mom too one day, but we have only been together for like 8ish months and I think it's too soon. We never talk about marriage or kids or anything like that so its not like she's really going to become my mother in law soon because we plan on getting married you know ? We haven't talked about this stuff because it's still a new relationship and still figuring things out. What do you guys think too soon to spend Mother's Day with boyfriends parents or am I overthinking this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last week I went out with this girl for dinner, first time hanging out with her. Before this I have only met her once, and got her number because she started talking to me at a mutual friends event. We started clicking because we are both the same age 23 had similar likes. Fast forward a month I decided to text her to go out for dinner and she said she was free the next night. After dinner later that night she texted me that it was nice hanging out with me and said goodnight. I felt that our date went well and I started to like her even more. Yesterday I asked her through text if she has a valentine and she said she is flattered, however someone has already asked her. Do I still have a chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last week I went out with this girl for dinner, first time hanging out with her. Before this I have only met her once, and got her number because she started talking to me at a mutual friends event. We started clicking because we are both the same age 23 had similar likes. Fast forward a month I decided to text her to go out for dinner and she said she was free the next night. After dinner later that night she texted me that it was nice hanging out with me and said goodnight. I felt that our date went well and I started to like her even more. Yesterday I asked her through text if she has a valentine and she said she is flattered, however someone has already asked her. Do I still have a chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last week I went out with this girl for dinner, first time hanging out with her. Before this I have only met her once, and got her number because she started talking to me at a mutual friends event. We started clicking because we are both the same age 23 had similar likes. Fast forward a month I decided to text her to go out for dinner and she said she was free the next night. After dinner later that night she texted me that it was nice hanging out with me and said goodnight. I felt that our date went well and I started to like her even more. Yesterday I asked her through text if she has a valentine and she said she is flattered, however someone has already asked her. Do I still have a chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My current roommate (college) and I have been good friends and living together for a year and a half after being randomly assigned to live together. However, she came into the situation of living with me expecting me to be some terrible person with no regards to others feelings, when in fact I'm very compassionate. Apparently my boyfriends ex-girlfriend and my roommate were friends and the ex-gf said that I was a home wrecking bitch due to the fact that we had been friends and I started dating her ex. In retrospect, after I broke up with my ex she always invited him over to hang out with us even though I told her it made me uncomfortable and I really didn't want him to hang out with us because he was obviously not over me. When I started dating my boyfriend I made sure that her and him never saw eachother because neither liked the other. She then told me we could no longer be friends because knowing that I was with him basically tainted her view of me and it made her violently ill to even look at me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My current roommate (college) and I have been good friends and living together for a year and a half after being randomly assigned to live together. However, she came into the situation of living with me expecting me to be some terrible person with no regards to others feelings, when in fact I'm very compassionate. Apparently my boyfriends ex-girlfriend and my roommate were friends and the ex-gf said that I was a home wrecking bitch due to the fact that we had been friends and I started dating her ex. In retrospect, after I broke up with my ex she always invited him over to hang out with us even though I told her it made me uncomfortable and I really didn't want him to hang out with us because he was obviously not over me. When I started dating my boyfriend I made sure that her and him never saw eachother because neither liked the other. She then told me we could no longer be friends because knowing that I was with him basically tainted her view of me and it made her violently ill to even look at me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My current roommate (college) and I have been good friends and living together for a year and a half after being randomly assigned to live together. However, she came into the situation of living with me expecting me to be some terrible person with no regards to others feelings, when in fact I'm very compassionate. Apparently my boyfriends ex-girlfriend and my roommate were friends and the ex-gf said that I was a home wrecking bitch due to the fact that we had been friends and I started dating her ex. In retrospect, after I broke up with my ex she always invited him over to hang out with us even though I told her it made me uncomfortable and I really didn't want him to hang out with us because he was obviously not over me. When I started dating my boyfriend I made sure that her and him never saw eachother because neither liked the other. She then told me we could no longer be friends because knowing that I was with him basically tainted her view of me and it made her violently ill to even look at me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my gf and I have been together for almost 3 years. They have not been perfect but who's relationship is? I have had an incredible time and I love her very much though. We broke up about 2 months ago, and have since been still seeing each other and hooking up occasionally, during which, I have been taking the time to really do fun and nice things with her which we didn't do much of before in our relationship like going out on dates etc. Things were going great up until the other day, when out of the blue she said she wants to stop. She says she doesn't see our relationship going anywhere and wants to just be single. Of course, my head goes crazy thinking she's found someone new, has a crush on someone, or is possibly hooking up with my ex-best friend (which is a long shot, even for me to believe but it's still there in my head) I am having a terrible time dealing with this, as my life has been spiraling downward over the past 2 months. We broke up, I lost my living arrangements, lost my friends, and just last weekend lost my job. And now I'm gonna lose her too. I'm so lonely and scared. I'm in a new place with no one to comfort me and be with me and I don't wanna lose her. It's not just the sex either, I don't wanna lose hanging out with her, having fun and experiencing life together. I can't say she's marriage material for me, but I still love what we're doing. I don't know what to do. Part of my head says she's right it may not work out, but the other part of me is screaming to do anything to keep her in my life. Please reddit, any advice or help would mean the world to me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my gf and I have been together for almost 3 years. They have not been perfect but who's relationship is? I have had an incredible time and I love her very much though. We broke up about 2 months ago, and have since been still seeing each other and hooking up occasionally, during which, I have been taking the time to really do fun and nice things with her which we didn't do much of before in our relationship like going out on dates etc. Things were going great up until the other day, when out of the blue she said she wants to stop. She says she doesn't see our relationship going anywhere and wants to just be single. Of course, my head goes crazy thinking she's found someone new, has a crush on someone, or is possibly hooking up with my ex-best friend (which is a long shot, even for me to believe but it's still there in my head) I am having a terrible time dealing with this, as my life has been spiraling downward over the past 2 months. We broke up, I lost my living arrangements, lost my friends, and just last weekend lost my job. And now I'm gonna lose her too. I'm so lonely and scared. I'm in a new place with no one to comfort me and be with me and I don't wanna lose her. It's not just the sex either, I don't wanna lose hanging out with her, having fun and experiencing life together. I can't say she's marriage material for me, but I still love what we're doing. I don't know what to do. Part of my head says she's right it may not work out, but the other part of me is screaming to do anything to keep her in my life. Please reddit, any advice or help would mean the world to me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my gf and I have been together for almost 3 years. They have not been perfect but who's relationship is? I have had an incredible time and I love her very much though. We broke up about 2 months ago, and have since been still seeing each other and hooking up occasionally, during which, I have been taking the time to really do fun and nice things with her which we didn't do much of before in our relationship like going out on dates etc. Things were going great up until the other day, when out of the blue she said she wants to stop. She says she doesn't see our relationship going anywhere and wants to just be single. Of course, my head goes crazy thinking she's found someone new, has a crush on someone, or is possibly hooking up with my ex-best friend (which is a long shot, even for me to believe but it's still there in my head) I am having a terrible time dealing with this, as my life has been spiraling downward over the past 2 months. We broke up, I lost my living arrangements, lost my friends, and just last weekend lost my job. And now I'm gonna lose her too. I'm so lonely and scared. I'm in a new place with no one to comfort me and be with me and I don't wanna lose her. It's not just the sex either, I don't wanna lose hanging out with her, having fun and experiencing life together. I can't say she's marriage material for me, but I still love what we're doing. I don't know what to do. Part of my head says she's right it may not work out, but the other part of me is screaming to do anything to keep her in my life. Please reddit, any advice or help would mean the world to me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A down-on-his-luck friend was having trouble 'clicking' with women so I suggested giving tinder a try. A few matches later he comes across this girl, we'll call her Marla, and my friend hits it off with her. 3 dates later they make it official that they're dating. Yesterday, however, my friend had some suspicions about Marla really being a guy. After much speculation he just asks. Marla reveals that she was born a boy and had reassignment surgery. My friend is really bothered by this and it's sent him into a depressed state. He would like to break up with her, but he is torn apart as he really did connect with her, but the trans thing isn't his style. Now he's asking me for advice and what I would do if I were in his shoes. Please give advice, and thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A down-on-his-luck friend was having trouble 'clicking' with women so I suggested giving tinder a try. A few matches later he comes across this girl, we'll call her Marla, and my friend hits it off with her. 3 dates later they make it official that they're dating. Yesterday, however, my friend had some suspicions about Marla really being a guy. After much speculation he just asks. Marla reveals that she was born a boy and had reassignment surgery. My friend is really bothered by this and it's sent him into a depressed state. He would like to break up with her, but he is torn apart as he really did connect with her, but the trans thing isn't his style. Now he's asking me for advice and what I would do if I were in his shoes. Please give advice, and thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A down-on-his-luck friend was having trouble 'clicking' with women so I suggested giving tinder a try. A few matches later he comes across this girl, we'll call her Marla, and my friend hits it off with her. 3 dates later they make it official that they're dating. Yesterday, however, my friend had some suspicions about Marla really being a guy. After much speculation he just asks. Marla reveals that she was born a boy and had reassignment surgery. My friend is really bothered by this and it's sent him into a depressed state. He would like to break up with her, but he is torn apart as he really did connect with her, but the trans thing isn't his style. Now he's asking me for advice and what I would do if I were in his shoes. Please give advice, and thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A down-on-his-luck friend was having trouble 'clicking' with women so I suggested giving tinder a try. A few matches later he comes across this girl, we'll call her Marla, and my friend hits it off with her. 3 dates later they make it official that they're dating. Yesterday, however, my friend had some suspicions about Marla really being a guy. After much speculation he just asks. Marla reveals that she was born a boy and had reassignment surgery. My friend is really bothered by this and it's sent him into a depressed state. He would like to break up with her, but he is torn apart as he really did connect with her, but the trans thing isn't his style. Now he's asking me for advice and what I would do if I were in his shoes. Please give advice, and thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A down-on-his-luck friend was having trouble 'clicking' with women so I suggested giving tinder a try. A few matches later he comes across this girl, we'll call her Marla, and my friend hits it off with her. 3 dates later they make it official that they're dating. Yesterday, however, my friend had some suspicions about Marla really being a guy. After much speculation he just asks. Marla reveals that she was born a boy and had reassignment surgery. My friend is really bothered by this and it's sent him into a depressed state. He would like to break up with her, but he is torn apart as he really did connect with her, but the trans thing isn't his style. Now he's asking me for advice and what I would do if I were in his shoes. Please give advice, and thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A down-on-his-luck friend was having trouble 'clicking' with women so I suggested giving tinder a try. A few matches later he comes across this girl, we'll call her Marla, and my friend hits it off with her. 3 dates later they make it official that they're dating. Yesterday, however, my friend had some suspicions about Marla really being a guy. After much speculation he just asks. Marla reveals that she was born a boy and had reassignment surgery. My friend is really bothered by this and it's sent him into a depressed state. He would like to break up with her, but he is torn apart as he really did connect with her, but the trans thing isn't his style. Now he's asking me for advice and what I would do if I were in his shoes. Please give advice, and thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey RA.\n\nWifernator and I are at our wits end.\n\nI think most people would have already thrown in the towel, but I/we are glutens for punishment - and more importantly there are little people involved.\n\nThings have been spiralling downwards for the last 5 or so years in all departments, except financial.\n\nTo summarize we are terrible communicators whom each feel that they are pulling more weight than the other, sharing a house with a dead bedroom.\n\nWe both acknowledge that if it was not for the small humans we would have split long ago - but I do feel there is something that we can rekindle here.\n\nThe last time we absolved one another of our misgivings I indicated that it was the last time I was going to do so - but, we did not actually do anything to try and change things.\n\nSo here we stand in that terrible place again, she says that all I did on Sunday was make dinner while she was working her way into martyrdom around the house - I was hurt and retreated to my cave, because words hurt (and how could she not see everything else I did?).\n\nWe've been cloistered for the last few days - waiting for the other to make the next move.\n\nSo, I just sent an offering of absolution in exchange for a serious conversation about what we need to do for our grand finale - because this time is the last time and I mean it.this time.really!\n\nMy idea is to have one another craft a list of what we think is working, what we think is not and to lay out what we expect from one another to MAKE THIS WORK.\n\nIts super anti-romantic but I am going to get this down on actual paper and sign it.\n\nI am sure that I am not the first person to want to draft up this type of contract so that is why I am posting today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey RA.\n\nWifernator and I are at our wits end.\n\nI think most people would have already thrown in the towel, but I/we are glutens for punishment - and more importantly there are little people involved.\n\nThings have been spiralling downwards for the last 5 or so years in all departments, except financial.\n\nTo summarize we are terrible communicators whom each feel that they are pulling more weight than the other, sharing a house with a dead bedroom.\n\nWe both acknowledge that if it was not for the small humans we would have split long ago - but I do feel there is something that we can rekindle here.\n\nThe last time we absolved one another of our misgivings I indicated that it was the last time I was going to do so - but, we did not actually do anything to try and change things.\n\nSo here we stand in that terrible place again, she says that all I did on Sunday was make dinner while she was working her way into martyrdom around the house - I was hurt and retreated to my cave, because words hurt (and how could she not see everything else I did?).\n\nWe've been cloistered for the last few days - waiting for the other to make the next move.\n\nSo, I just sent an offering of absolution in exchange for a serious conversation about what we need to do for our grand finale - because this time is the last time and I mean it.this time.really!\n\nMy idea is to have one another craft a list of what we think is working, what we think is not and to lay out what we expect from one another to MAKE THIS WORK.\n\nIts super anti-romantic but I am going to get this down on actual paper and sign it.\n\nI am sure that I am not the first person to want to draft up this type of contract so that is why I am posting today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey RA.\n\nWifernator and I are at our wits end.\n\nI think most people would have already thrown in the towel, but I/we are glutens for punishment - and more importantly there are little people involved.\n\nThings have been spiralling downwards for the last 5 or so years in all departments, except financial.\n\nTo summarize we are terrible communicators whom each feel that they are pulling more weight than the other, sharing a house with a dead bedroom.\n\nWe both acknowledge that if it was not for the small humans we would have split long ago - but I do feel there is something that we can rekindle here.\n\nThe last time we absolved one another of our misgivings I indicated that it was the last time I was going to do so - but, we did not actually do anything to try and change things.\n\nSo here we stand in that terrible place again, she says that all I did on Sunday was make dinner while she was working her way into martyrdom around the house - I was hurt and retreated to my cave, because words hurt (and how could she not see everything else I did?).\n\nWe've been cloistered for the last few days - waiting for the other to make the next move.\n\nSo, I just sent an offering of absolution in exchange for a serious conversation about what we need to do for our grand finale - because this time is the last time and I mean it.this time.really!\n\nMy idea is to have one another craft a list of what we think is working, what we think is not and to lay out what we expect from one another to MAKE THIS WORK.\n\nIts super anti-romantic but I am going to get this down on actual paper and sign it.\n\nI am sure that I am not the first person to want to draft up this type of contract so that is why I am posting today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey RA.\n\nWifernator and I are at our wits end.\n\nI think most people would have already thrown in the towel, but I/we are glutens for punishment - and more importantly there are little people involved.\n\nThings have been spiralling downwards for the last 5 or so years in all departments, except financial.\n\nTo summarize we are terrible communicators whom each feel that they are pulling more weight than the other, sharing a house with a dead bedroom.\n\nWe both acknowledge that if it was not for the small humans we would have split long ago - but I do feel there is something that we can rekindle here.\n\nThe last time we absolved one another of our misgivings I indicated that it was the last time I was going to do so - but, we did not actually do anything to try and change things.\n\nSo here we stand in that terrible place again, she says that all I did on Sunday was make dinner while she was working her way into martyrdom around the house - I was hurt and retreated to my cave, because words hurt (and how could she not see everything else I did?).\n\nWe've been cloistered for the last few days - waiting for the other to make the next move.\n\nSo, I just sent an offering of absolution in exchange for a serious conversation about what we need to do for our grand finale - because this time is the last time and I mean it.this time.really!\n\nMy idea is to have one another craft a list of what we think is working, what we think is not and to lay out what we expect from one another to MAKE THIS WORK.\n\nIts super anti-romantic but I am going to get this down on actual paper and sign it.\n\nI am sure that I am not the first person to want to draft up this type of contract so that is why I am posting today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey RA.\n\nWifernator and I are at our wits end.\n\nI think most people would have already thrown in the towel, but I/we are glutens for punishment - and more importantly there are little people involved.\n\nThings have been spiralling downwards for the last 5 or so years in all departments, except financial.\n\nTo summarize we are terrible communicators whom each feel that they are pulling more weight than the other, sharing a house with a dead bedroom.\n\nWe both acknowledge that if it was not for the small humans we would have split long ago - but I do feel there is something that we can rekindle here.\n\nThe last time we absolved one another of our misgivings I indicated that it was the last time I was going to do so - but, we did not actually do anything to try and change things.\n\nSo here we stand in that terrible place again, she says that all I did on Sunday was make dinner while she was working her way into martyrdom around the house - I was hurt and retreated to my cave, because words hurt (and how could she not see everything else I did?).\n\nWe've been cloistered for the last few days - waiting for the other to make the next move.\n\nSo, I just sent an offering of absolution in exchange for a serious conversation about what we need to do for our grand finale - because this time is the last time and I mean it.this time.really!\n\nMy idea is to have one another craft a list of what we think is working, what we think is not and to lay out what we expect from one another to MAKE THIS WORK.\n\nIts super anti-romantic but I am going to get this down on actual paper and sign it.\n\nI am sure that I am not the first person to want to draft up this type of contract so that is why I am posting today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey RA.\n\nWifernator and I are at our wits end.\n\nI think most people would have already thrown in the towel, but I/we are glutens for punishment - and more importantly there are little people involved.\n\nThings have been spiralling downwards for the last 5 or so years in all departments, except financial.\n\nTo summarize we are terrible communicators whom each feel that they are pulling more weight than the other, sharing a house with a dead bedroom.\n\nWe both acknowledge that if it was not for the small humans we would have split long ago - but I do feel there is something that we can rekindle here.\n\nThe last time we absolved one another of our misgivings I indicated that it was the last time I was going to do so - but, we did not actually do anything to try and change things.\n\nSo here we stand in that terrible place again, she says that all I did on Sunday was make dinner while she was working her way into martyrdom around the house - I was hurt and retreated to my cave, because words hurt (and how could she not see everything else I did?).\n\nWe've been cloistered for the last few days - waiting for the other to make the next move.\n\nSo, I just sent an offering of absolution in exchange for a serious conversation about what we need to do for our grand finale - because this time is the last time and I mean it.this time.really!\n\nMy idea is to have one another craft a list of what we think is working, what we think is not and to lay out what we expect from one another to MAKE THIS WORK.\n\nIts super anti-romantic but I am going to get this down on actual paper and sign it.\n\nI am sure that I am not the first person to want to draft up this type of contract so that is why I am posting today."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We had been dating for a year, things we're going well but she was always a very flirty person. I developed trust issues because of her being so flirty so when we went to different colleges I pushed for a breakup.\n\nShe had been 100% willing to try and make long distance work, but I just couldn't get over my doubts. After a week apart, I realized I would always regret not at least trying to make things work, so I decided I'd try to get her back. I looked up a train route to her university, found a fancy pizza place(it's her favorite), and an ice skating rink in her area.\n\nI called her up that night, spilled my heart out and asked if she'd take me back. I explained that if she said yes, I'd take her on the best date of her life, and if she said no that she should know I'd still feel way better than I had been.\n\nShe told me that first I needed to know that the previous Friday she had a drunken one night stand attempting to get over me. She said she regretted it and that it meant nothing, but it crushed me. I thought the worst she could say was no, but this was far worse.\n\nIt had literally been days after our breakup, we had been talking the entire time, we had even said that we loved each other the night before. I still love her, but I don't know if I could ever forgive her. I know it wasn't really cheating because we didn't have a title, but it was like the first opportunity she had, she left me behind.\n\nI'm extremely emotional and distraught right now and I don't know what to tell her. Any advice/comments would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We had been dating for a year, things we're going well but she was always a very flirty person. I developed trust issues because of her being so flirty so when we went to different colleges I pushed for a breakup.\n\nShe had been 100% willing to try and make long distance work, but I just couldn't get over my doubts. After a week apart, I realized I would always regret not at least trying to make things work, so I decided I'd try to get her back. I looked up a train route to her university, found a fancy pizza place(it's her favorite), and an ice skating rink in her area.\n\nI called her up that night, spilled my heart out and asked if she'd take me back. I explained that if she said yes, I'd take her on the best date of her life, and if she said no that she should know I'd still feel way better than I had been.\n\nShe told me that first I needed to know that the previous Friday she had a drunken one night stand attempting to get over me. She said she regretted it and that it meant nothing, but it crushed me. I thought the worst she could say was no, but this was far worse.\n\nIt had literally been days after our breakup, we had been talking the entire time, we had even said that we loved each other the night before. I still love her, but I don't know if I could ever forgive her. I know it wasn't really cheating because we didn't have a title, but it was like the first opportunity she had, she left me behind.\n\nI'm extremely emotional and distraught right now and I don't know what to tell her. Any advice/comments would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We had been dating for a year, things we're going well but she was always a very flirty person. I developed trust issues because of her being so flirty so when we went to different colleges I pushed for a breakup.\n\nShe had been 100% willing to try and make long distance work, but I just couldn't get over my doubts. After a week apart, I realized I would always regret not at least trying to make things work, so I decided I'd try to get her back. I looked up a train route to her university, found a fancy pizza place(it's her favorite), and an ice skating rink in her area.\n\nI called her up that night, spilled my heart out and asked if she'd take me back. I explained that if she said yes, I'd take her on the best date of her life, and if she said no that she should know I'd still feel way better than I had been.\n\nShe told me that first I needed to know that the previous Friday she had a drunken one night stand attempting to get over me. She said she regretted it and that it meant nothing, but it crushed me. I thought the worst she could say was no, but this was far worse.\n\nIt had literally been days after our breakup, we had been talking the entire time, we had even said that we loved each other the night before. I still love her, but I don't know if I could ever forgive her. I know it wasn't really cheating because we didn't have a title, but it was like the first opportunity she had, she left me behind.\n\nI'm extremely emotional and distraught right now and I don't know what to tell her. Any advice/comments would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One thing I've noticed is that there are quite a few people here that follow certain percentage rules for buying cars, house, renting, etc.(name it and the rule is there). I think that's good, your better off being on top of your finances. Some rules are good to follow too, but it doesn't mean everyone has to follow them. But when these people see other people people breaking those rules (the rules they set in place for THEMSELVES) they freak out. \"You're paying too much for your car\" \"you can't afford that house\" \"you gotta sell it\". \n\nIdeally if they have it and are able to pay for it, they can 'afford' it. These items can also be considered investments once they are paid off, you might lose some money when you sell it - but in the end it might have been worth it.\n\nIm usually a reader and this might be the first time I actually posted something, I do like the information I find in here and it will help me in the long run, but one of the most annoying things to read is when someone displays their numbers and everyone hops on the \"you can't afford that\" train. Let them be. Suggestions are nice, nagging sends people away."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One thing I've noticed is that there are quite a few people here that follow certain percentage rules for buying cars, house, renting, etc.(name it and the rule is there). I think that's good, your better off being on top of your finances. Some rules are good to follow too, but it doesn't mean everyone has to follow them. But when these people see other people people breaking those rules (the rules they set in place for THEMSELVES) they freak out. \"You're paying too much for your car\" \"you can't afford that house\" \"you gotta sell it\". \n\nIdeally if they have it and are able to pay for it, they can 'afford' it. These items can also be considered investments once they are paid off, you might lose some money when you sell it - but in the end it might have been worth it.\n\nIm usually a reader and this might be the first time I actually posted something, I do like the information I find in here and it will help me in the long run, but one of the most annoying things to read is when someone displays their numbers and everyone hops on the \"you can't afford that\" train. Let them be. Suggestions are nice, nagging sends people away."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One thing I've noticed is that there are quite a few people here that follow certain percentage rules for buying cars, house, renting, etc.(name it and the rule is there). I think that's good, your better off being on top of your finances. Some rules are good to follow too, but it doesn't mean everyone has to follow them. But when these people see other people people breaking those rules (the rules they set in place for THEMSELVES) they freak out. \"You're paying too much for your car\" \"you can't afford that house\" \"you gotta sell it\". \n\nIdeally if they have it and are able to pay for it, they can 'afford' it. These items can also be considered investments once they are paid off, you might lose some money when you sell it - but in the end it might have been worth it.\n\nIm usually a reader and this might be the first time I actually posted something, I do like the information I find in here and it will help me in the long run, but one of the most annoying things to read is when someone displays their numbers and everyone hops on the \"you can't afford that\" train. Let them be. Suggestions are nice, nagging sends people away."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account. I have never posted on Reddit ever so please be gentle on the formatting! I am trying my best.\n\nI met Nick* on Tinder. I was just checking it out for fun, my best friend loved and used it etc. I met up with him and we just hung out. He's a nice guy and I just had broken up with my ex. So we became friends with benefits.\n\nSince I left that summer for college, we just sext a lot. And often it was just texting but sometimes he would ask me for some pictures and I was naive so I thought a 3 second picture on snapchat should get the job done and keep me safe.\n\nThree months into this; snapchat notified me with the little triangle symbol that he had screenshoted it. And I *FLIPPED OUT*. I told him it made me uncomfortable and so the next time we met up, I had him deleted them off his computer. And I thought he understood that I didn't like the fact that he saved the pictures. He said he would stop. \n\nRecently, we met up and I asked him if he saved any of the pictures. And he said that he didn't. However, I saw on his phone that he had one of the apps that allows you to secretly screenshot snaps without letting the other person know. \n\nWhen he returned, I asked again. And he said maybe he saved a few and that he only did it because he really liked them and he saved them for fun. I begged him to delete the pictures and he said no. So I left. And he deleted me off snapchat. \n\nThis guy that I trusted, has nudes of me. I am terrified and I understand I should never ever taken them in the first place. But I never thought he would be this kind of person. He was so sweet in the beginning. I fear he'll share them and ruin my career. I had a nightmare last night that he had cameras in his bedroom and that he has videos too. I don't know what to do anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account. I have never posted on Reddit ever so please be gentle on the formatting! I am trying my best.\n\nI met Nick* on Tinder. I was just checking it out for fun, my best friend loved and used it etc. I met up with him and we just hung out. He's a nice guy and I just had broken up with my ex. So we became friends with benefits.\n\nSince I left that summer for college, we just sext a lot. And often it was just texting but sometimes he would ask me for some pictures and I was naive so I thought a 3 second picture on snapchat should get the job done and keep me safe.\n\nThree months into this; snapchat notified me with the little triangle symbol that he had screenshoted it. And I *FLIPPED OUT*. I told him it made me uncomfortable and so the next time we met up, I had him deleted them off his computer. And I thought he understood that I didn't like the fact that he saved the pictures. He said he would stop. \n\nRecently, we met up and I asked him if he saved any of the pictures. And he said that he didn't. However, I saw on his phone that he had one of the apps that allows you to secretly screenshot snaps without letting the other person know. \n\nWhen he returned, I asked again. And he said maybe he saved a few and that he only did it because he really liked them and he saved them for fun. I begged him to delete the pictures and he said no. So I left. And he deleted me off snapchat. \n\nThis guy that I trusted, has nudes of me. I am terrified and I understand I should never ever taken them in the first place. But I never thought he would be this kind of person. He was so sweet in the beginning. I fear he'll share them and ruin my career. I had a nightmare last night that he had cameras in his bedroom and that he has videos too. I don't know what to do anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account. I have never posted on Reddit ever so please be gentle on the formatting! I am trying my best.\n\nI met Nick* on Tinder. I was just checking it out for fun, my best friend loved and used it etc. I met up with him and we just hung out. He's a nice guy and I just had broken up with my ex. So we became friends with benefits.\n\nSince I left that summer for college, we just sext a lot. And often it was just texting but sometimes he would ask me for some pictures and I was naive so I thought a 3 second picture on snapchat should get the job done and keep me safe.\n\nThree months into this; snapchat notified me with the little triangle symbol that he had screenshoted it. And I *FLIPPED OUT*. I told him it made me uncomfortable and so the next time we met up, I had him deleted them off his computer. And I thought he understood that I didn't like the fact that he saved the pictures. He said he would stop. \n\nRecently, we met up and I asked him if he saved any of the pictures. And he said that he didn't. However, I saw on his phone that he had one of the apps that allows you to secretly screenshot snaps without letting the other person know. \n\nWhen he returned, I asked again. And he said maybe he saved a few and that he only did it because he really liked them and he saved them for fun. I begged him to delete the pictures and he said no. So I left. And he deleted me off snapchat. \n\nThis guy that I trusted, has nudes of me. I am terrified and I understand I should never ever taken them in the first place. But I never thought he would be this kind of person. He was so sweet in the beginning. I fear he'll share them and ruin my career. I had a nightmare last night that he had cameras in his bedroom and that he has videos too. I don't know what to do anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account. I have never posted on Reddit ever so please be gentle on the formatting! I am trying my best.\n\nI met Nick* on Tinder. I was just checking it out for fun, my best friend loved and used it etc. I met up with him and we just hung out. He's a nice guy and I just had broken up with my ex. So we became friends with benefits.\n\nSince I left that summer for college, we just sext a lot. And often it was just texting but sometimes he would ask me for some pictures and I was naive so I thought a 3 second picture on snapchat should get the job done and keep me safe.\n\nThree months into this; snapchat notified me with the little triangle symbol that he had screenshoted it. And I *FLIPPED OUT*. I told him it made me uncomfortable and so the next time we met up, I had him deleted them off his computer. And I thought he understood that I didn't like the fact that he saved the pictures. He said he would stop. \n\nRecently, we met up and I asked him if he saved any of the pictures. And he said that he didn't. However, I saw on his phone that he had one of the apps that allows you to secretly screenshot snaps without letting the other person know. \n\nWhen he returned, I asked again. And he said maybe he saved a few and that he only did it because he really liked them and he saved them for fun. I begged him to delete the pictures and he said no. So I left. And he deleted me off snapchat. \n\nThis guy that I trusted, has nudes of me. I am terrified and I understand I should never ever taken them in the first place. But I never thought he would be this kind of person. He was so sweet in the beginning. I fear he'll share them and ruin my career. I had a nightmare last night that he had cameras in his bedroom and that he has videos too. I don't know what to do anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account. I have never posted on Reddit ever so please be gentle on the formatting! I am trying my best.\n\nI met Nick* on Tinder. I was just checking it out for fun, my best friend loved and used it etc. I met up with him and we just hung out. He's a nice guy and I just had broken up with my ex. So we became friends with benefits.\n\nSince I left that summer for college, we just sext a lot. And often it was just texting but sometimes he would ask me for some pictures and I was naive so I thought a 3 second picture on snapchat should get the job done and keep me safe.\n\nThree months into this; snapchat notified me with the little triangle symbol that he had screenshoted it. And I *FLIPPED OUT*. I told him it made me uncomfortable and so the next time we met up, I had him deleted them off his computer. And I thought he understood that I didn't like the fact that he saved the pictures. He said he would stop. \n\nRecently, we met up and I asked him if he saved any of the pictures. And he said that he didn't. However, I saw on his phone that he had one of the apps that allows you to secretly screenshot snaps without letting the other person know. \n\nWhen he returned, I asked again. And he said maybe he saved a few and that he only did it because he really liked them and he saved them for fun. I begged him to delete the pictures and he said no. So I left. And he deleted me off snapchat. \n\nThis guy that I trusted, has nudes of me. I am terrified and I understand I should never ever taken them in the first place. But I never thought he would be this kind of person. He was so sweet in the beginning. I fear he'll share them and ruin my career. I had a nightmare last night that he had cameras in his bedroom and that he has videos too. I don't know what to do anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My first day back at school for the semester. Teachers normally provides us with a syllabus explaining the class and it's expectations. Every teacher I've ever had provided us with a paper copy of the syllabus no matter how long or complex it was. This teacher does not. She explains to us that if her syllabus isn't printed out by the next class, she will deduct 50 points from our final grade at the end of the semester. Very mature. Now keep in mind this syllabus is 30 pages long. 15 pages front and back. That's a lot of paper and toner for me. I have a Brother laserjet with duplex capabilities. It's the best printer ever.\n\nNormally when teachers have tech issues, I would normally offer my help since I'm very familiar with classroom technology. This teacher is trying to figure out how to plug the HDMI cable into her Macbook to show us a presentation. Macbooks do not have HDMI ports. And she doesn't have the adapter. This will be fun to watch. She grabs the VGA cable. Nope. No VGA port on her Macbook and she doesn't have the adapter for it either. She plugs in the 3.5mm audio cable into her computer expecting to see video on the projector. The students are no help. They're attempting to turn off the projector and back on and one student even offered his Macbook to see if that'll work. Needless to say, it didn't.\n\nInside, i was laughing so hard that my gut hurt. Outside, I remained perfectly calm."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My first day back at school for the semester. Teachers normally provides us with a syllabus explaining the class and it's expectations. Every teacher I've ever had provided us with a paper copy of the syllabus no matter how long or complex it was. This teacher does not. She explains to us that if her syllabus isn't printed out by the next class, she will deduct 50 points from our final grade at the end of the semester. Very mature. Now keep in mind this syllabus is 30 pages long. 15 pages front and back. That's a lot of paper and toner for me. I have a Brother laserjet with duplex capabilities. It's the best printer ever.\n\nNormally when teachers have tech issues, I would normally offer my help since I'm very familiar with classroom technology. This teacher is trying to figure out how to plug the HDMI cable into her Macbook to show us a presentation. Macbooks do not have HDMI ports. And she doesn't have the adapter. This will be fun to watch. She grabs the VGA cable. Nope. No VGA port on her Macbook and she doesn't have the adapter for it either. She plugs in the 3.5mm audio cable into her computer expecting to see video on the projector. The students are no help. They're attempting to turn off the projector and back on and one student even offered his Macbook to see if that'll work. Needless to say, it didn't.\n\nInside, i was laughing so hard that my gut hurt. Outside, I remained perfectly calm."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My first day back at school for the semester. Teachers normally provides us with a syllabus explaining the class and it's expectations. Every teacher I've ever had provided us with a paper copy of the syllabus no matter how long or complex it was. This teacher does not. She explains to us that if her syllabus isn't printed out by the next class, she will deduct 50 points from our final grade at the end of the semester. Very mature. Now keep in mind this syllabus is 30 pages long. 15 pages front and back. That's a lot of paper and toner for me. I have a Brother laserjet with duplex capabilities. It's the best printer ever.\n\nNormally when teachers have tech issues, I would normally offer my help since I'm very familiar with classroom technology. This teacher is trying to figure out how to plug the HDMI cable into her Macbook to show us a presentation. Macbooks do not have HDMI ports. And she doesn't have the adapter. This will be fun to watch. She grabs the VGA cable. Nope. No VGA port on her Macbook and she doesn't have the adapter for it either. She plugs in the 3.5mm audio cable into her computer expecting to see video on the projector. The students are no help. They're attempting to turn off the projector and back on and one student even offered his Macbook to see if that'll work. Needless to say, it didn't.\n\nInside, i was laughing so hard that my gut hurt. Outside, I remained perfectly calm."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an apartment complex with a gated parking lot that has its only exit onto a very busy street. The drive way that lets out of the parking lot and onto the street is flanked on each side by a red no parking zone about 2-3 car lengths long so that cars pulling out can have a clear line of site of the oncoming traffic. A few of the apartments face onto the street and legal street parking can be hard to come by. Some of my neighbors consistently park in the redzone adjacent to the parking lot's only exit, which makes it hard to see oncoming traffic. More than a few times I have almost been t-boned by oncoming traffic since my view is obstructed and I either cannot see the cars with enough time, or I have to pull out farther to see around the illegally parked car. I can't imagine that I am the only person in our complex who has had this problem. I am currently writing a note to put on the cars that park there to ask them to please park elsewhere or a tow truck will be called.\n\nMy question is, am I allowed to call a private towing company to tow the car away or do I have to contact police? I would hate to waste police resources with something so trivial."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an apartment complex with a gated parking lot that has its only exit onto a very busy street. The drive way that lets out of the parking lot and onto the street is flanked on each side by a red no parking zone about 2-3 car lengths long so that cars pulling out can have a clear line of site of the oncoming traffic. A few of the apartments face onto the street and legal street parking can be hard to come by. Some of my neighbors consistently park in the redzone adjacent to the parking lot's only exit, which makes it hard to see oncoming traffic. More than a few times I have almost been t-boned by oncoming traffic since my view is obstructed and I either cannot see the cars with enough time, or I have to pull out farther to see around the illegally parked car. I can't imagine that I am the only person in our complex who has had this problem. I am currently writing a note to put on the cars that park there to ask them to please park elsewhere or a tow truck will be called.\n\nMy question is, am I allowed to call a private towing company to tow the car away or do I have to contact police? I would hate to waste police resources with something so trivial."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an apartment complex with a gated parking lot that has its only exit onto a very busy street. The drive way that lets out of the parking lot and onto the street is flanked on each side by a red no parking zone about 2-3 car lengths long so that cars pulling out can have a clear line of site of the oncoming traffic. A few of the apartments face onto the street and legal street parking can be hard to come by. Some of my neighbors consistently park in the redzone adjacent to the parking lot's only exit, which makes it hard to see oncoming traffic. More than a few times I have almost been t-boned by oncoming traffic since my view is obstructed and I either cannot see the cars with enough time, or I have to pull out farther to see around the illegally parked car. I can't imagine that I am the only person in our complex who has had this problem. I am currently writing a note to put on the cars that park there to ask them to please park elsewhere or a tow truck will be called.\n\nMy question is, am I allowed to call a private towing company to tow the car away or do I have to contact police? I would hate to waste police resources with something so trivial."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an apartment complex with a gated parking lot that has its only exit onto a very busy street. The drive way that lets out of the parking lot and onto the street is flanked on each side by a red no parking zone about 2-3 car lengths long so that cars pulling out can have a clear line of site of the oncoming traffic. A few of the apartments face onto the street and legal street parking can be hard to come by. Some of my neighbors consistently park in the redzone adjacent to the parking lot's only exit, which makes it hard to see oncoming traffic. More than a few times I have almost been t-boned by oncoming traffic since my view is obstructed and I either cannot see the cars with enough time, or I have to pull out farther to see around the illegally parked car. I can't imagine that I am the only person in our complex who has had this problem. I am currently writing a note to put on the cars that park there to ask them to please park elsewhere or a tow truck will be called.\n\nMy question is, am I allowed to call a private towing company to tow the car away or do I have to contact police? I would hate to waste police resources with something so trivial."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an apartment complex with a gated parking lot that has its only exit onto a very busy street. The drive way that lets out of the parking lot and onto the street is flanked on each side by a red no parking zone about 2-3 car lengths long so that cars pulling out can have a clear line of site of the oncoming traffic. A few of the apartments face onto the street and legal street parking can be hard to come by. Some of my neighbors consistently park in the redzone adjacent to the parking lot's only exit, which makes it hard to see oncoming traffic. More than a few times I have almost been t-boned by oncoming traffic since my view is obstructed and I either cannot see the cars with enough time, or I have to pull out farther to see around the illegally parked car. I can't imagine that I am the only person in our complex who has had this problem. I am currently writing a note to put on the cars that park there to ask them to please park elsewhere or a tow truck will be called.\n\nMy question is, am I allowed to call a private towing company to tow the car away or do I have to contact police? I would hate to waste police resources with something so trivial."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an apartment complex with a gated parking lot that has its only exit onto a very busy street. The drive way that lets out of the parking lot and onto the street is flanked on each side by a red no parking zone about 2-3 car lengths long so that cars pulling out can have a clear line of site of the oncoming traffic. A few of the apartments face onto the street and legal street parking can be hard to come by. Some of my neighbors consistently park in the redzone adjacent to the parking lot's only exit, which makes it hard to see oncoming traffic. More than a few times I have almost been t-boned by oncoming traffic since my view is obstructed and I either cannot see the cars with enough time, or I have to pull out farther to see around the illegally parked car. I can't imagine that I am the only person in our complex who has had this problem. I am currently writing a note to put on the cars that park there to ask them to please park elsewhere or a tow truck will be called.\n\nMy question is, am I allowed to call a private towing company to tow the car away or do I have to contact police? I would hate to waste police resources with something so trivial."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this lovely guy on tinder (I know, questionable origins) and he's treated me better than anyone I've ever been with. From our very first date he said he was only in the market for casual however, so I've been understandably weary. But regardless of our casual status, we see each other weekly, have Scrabble nights, pig out and watch Netflix. Plus he invited me to his brother's wedding and asked me to go away for the weekend with him, among other very coupley things. Plus he's just so nice to me, always telling me I'm pretty, plus he seems to find my daftness charming (I'm not used to this).\n\nAnyway, in spite of it all, he doesn't want to commit, and he's still on tinder. Apparently he used to be pretty overweight and has had really long dry spells, so he says he wants to make up for lost time. We've only been dating 2 months, but I can feel myself becoming attached. I don't want to let him go though, because he gives me everything I need (beside the title of girlfriend) and I'm scared I won't find another guy as nice as him. I've been with quite a few dudes, and at this point in the relationship they usually fade on me or start to treat me like shit. \n\nI'm just not sure if I should let him go because we want different things at the moment, or if I should stick it out for a little while longer and see if he changes his mind, since it genuinely feels as if he really likes me. Any advice/anecdotes would be greatly welcomed :)"
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