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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, thanks for reading. \n\nSo I've been casually seeing a guy for about 6 months now. I like him a lot, but its clear that he does not want to pursue a relationship with me. i am okay with that because i'm extremely busy.\n\nAnyway, this past Friday was my birthday. I asked him to hang out with me about a week in advance. He said maybe. I texted him the plan on Wednesday night and he never answered. Then, my birthday arrives, and I don't hear from him. At all. Not even a happy birthday text. He doesn't show up to my bday thing and never even texts to say he won't be there. \n\nI know we aren't boyfriend-girlfriend, but my feelings are really hurt that we have been sleeping together for 6 months (these instances often include taking his dog to the dog park, cooking dinner together, going to art shows, etc) and yet he doesn't respect me enough to even acknowledge my birthday. Even with a polite invite decline. \n\nI don't know how to talk to him about this in a way that conveys how I feel without making it seem like Im being clingy and expected boyfriend treatment from him. I work part time in the same building as him so will probably run into him Monday and am nervous.\n\nDo you guys have any thoughts/advice/insight into why we would act like this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been researching endlessly for almost 6 months before deciding on getting a great dane.\n\nI am in the vancouver bc area and have found a selection of breeders within BC Alberta and Washington. Ive contacted many breeders and found a few that I feel comfortable with and are having a litter of puppies ready for june/july\n\nWe have been looking at a litter of harlequins after seeing them at a local show but am worried by some possible red flags.\n\nThe litter had 7 puppies, 4 with the traditional spotting and 3 almost fully white. The breeder is waiting to have the ears/eyes and other issues that are common with white danes before commiting to any sort of sale. \n\nThis seems like a responsible thing to do however,\nShould I be nervous of these imperfections within the litter? is this any sort of indicator on possible genetic flaws I may be paying for in the future?\n\nAny help is much appreciated, and feel free to ask any questions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been researching endlessly for almost 6 months before deciding on getting a great dane.\n\nI am in the vancouver bc area and have found a selection of breeders within BC Alberta and Washington. Ive contacted many breeders and found a few that I feel comfortable with and are having a litter of puppies ready for june/july\n\nWe have been looking at a litter of harlequins after seeing them at a local show but am worried by some possible red flags.\n\nThe litter had 7 puppies, 4 with the traditional spotting and 3 almost fully white. The breeder is waiting to have the ears/eyes and other issues that are common with white danes before commiting to any sort of sale. \n\nThis seems like a responsible thing to do however,\nShould I be nervous of these imperfections within the litter? is this any sort of indicator on possible genetic flaws I may be paying for in the future?\n\nAny help is much appreciated, and feel free to ask any questions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know people in this sub tend to look down on teenage drama but this has been bugging me recently.\n\nMy old SO, we can call her Jane, were in a relationship for a significant length of time during middle school. Post relationship, I maintained a sort of \"gay best friend\" friendship with her; a very very close platonic partnership. Jane was supportive me of in my quest for love through high school, and I tried to help her out as well, but she has yet to have any luck whatsoever.\n\nRecently I started dating a third girl, who we will call Jill. Jill is in the same small friend group as Jane is, and I gained interest in Jill at the beginning of this year of high school. Jane was supportive of me, but she had big doubts about my chances will Jill, until it slipped out that Jill knew I fancied her and wouldn't mind a date. Even though I have seen images of these conversations, Jane has been telling me that Jill doesn't want to date, which I know is false because we began chatting up and are prepared to do an official first date soon.\n\nAs soon as news of this broke, Jane began to be more hostile to me that usual. We went from chatting every day for a few hours to twice in the last 2 weeks. She also insults me more (this is significant because although we maintained a very sarcastic attitude with each other, she has begun to cross a line and be mean). Jane is stonewalling my efforts here; it is unfair of her to intrude on this new relationship of mine. However, I don't know how to deal with this, because Jane is possibly my best friend but still is being a big nuisance.\n\nI don't know what to do here; I don't think I have to pick between Jane and Jill but it seems that I have to make that choice. Can someone explain what is happening? I have been out of the dating game for some time so I don't really get what issues are happening."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know people in this sub tend to look down on teenage drama but this has been bugging me recently.\n\nMy old SO, we can call her Jane, were in a relationship for a significant length of time during middle school. Post relationship, I maintained a sort of \"gay best friend\" friendship with her; a very very close platonic partnership. Jane was supportive me of in my quest for love through high school, and I tried to help her out as well, but she has yet to have any luck whatsoever.\n\nRecently I started dating a third girl, who we will call Jill. Jill is in the same small friend group as Jane is, and I gained interest in Jill at the beginning of this year of high school. Jane was supportive of me, but she had big doubts about my chances will Jill, until it slipped out that Jill knew I fancied her and wouldn't mind a date. Even though I have seen images of these conversations, Jane has been telling me that Jill doesn't want to date, which I know is false because we began chatting up and are prepared to do an official first date soon.\n\nAs soon as news of this broke, Jane began to be more hostile to me that usual. We went from chatting every day for a few hours to twice in the last 2 weeks. She also insults me more (this is significant because although we maintained a very sarcastic attitude with each other, she has begun to cross a line and be mean). Jane is stonewalling my efforts here; it is unfair of her to intrude on this new relationship of mine. However, I don't know how to deal with this, because Jane is possibly my best friend but still is being a big nuisance.\n\nI don't know what to do here; I don't think I have to pick between Jane and Jill but it seems that I have to make that choice. Can someone explain what is happening? I have been out of the dating game for some time so I don't really get what issues are happening."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know people in this sub tend to look down on teenage drama but this has been bugging me recently.\n\nMy old SO, we can call her Jane, were in a relationship for a significant length of time during middle school. Post relationship, I maintained a sort of \"gay best friend\" friendship with her; a very very close platonic partnership. Jane was supportive me of in my quest for love through high school, and I tried to help her out as well, but she has yet to have any luck whatsoever.\n\nRecently I started dating a third girl, who we will call Jill. Jill is in the same small friend group as Jane is, and I gained interest in Jill at the beginning of this year of high school. Jane was supportive of me, but she had big doubts about my chances will Jill, until it slipped out that Jill knew I fancied her and wouldn't mind a date. Even though I have seen images of these conversations, Jane has been telling me that Jill doesn't want to date, which I know is false because we began chatting up and are prepared to do an official first date soon.\n\nAs soon as news of this broke, Jane began to be more hostile to me that usual. We went from chatting every day for a few hours to twice in the last 2 weeks. She also insults me more (this is significant because although we maintained a very sarcastic attitude with each other, she has begun to cross a line and be mean). Jane is stonewalling my efforts here; it is unfair of her to intrude on this new relationship of mine. However, I don't know how to deal with this, because Jane is possibly my best friend but still is being a big nuisance.\n\nI don't know what to do here; I don't think I have to pick between Jane and Jill but it seems that I have to make that choice. Can someone explain what is happening? I have been out of the dating game for some time so I don't really get what issues are happening."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know people in this sub tend to look down on teenage drama but this has been bugging me recently.\n\nMy old SO, we can call her Jane, were in a relationship for a significant length of time during middle school. Post relationship, I maintained a sort of \"gay best friend\" friendship with her; a very very close platonic partnership. Jane was supportive me of in my quest for love through high school, and I tried to help her out as well, but she has yet to have any luck whatsoever.\n\nRecently I started dating a third girl, who we will call Jill. Jill is in the same small friend group as Jane is, and I gained interest in Jill at the beginning of this year of high school. Jane was supportive of me, but she had big doubts about my chances will Jill, until it slipped out that Jill knew I fancied her and wouldn't mind a date. Even though I have seen images of these conversations, Jane has been telling me that Jill doesn't want to date, which I know is false because we began chatting up and are prepared to do an official first date soon.\n\nAs soon as news of this broke, Jane began to be more hostile to me that usual. We went from chatting every day for a few hours to twice in the last 2 weeks. She also insults me more (this is significant because although we maintained a very sarcastic attitude with each other, she has begun to cross a line and be mean). Jane is stonewalling my efforts here; it is unfair of her to intrude on this new relationship of mine. However, I don't know how to deal with this, because Jane is possibly my best friend but still is being a big nuisance.\n\nI don't know what to do here; I don't think I have to pick between Jane and Jill but it seems that I have to make that choice. Can someone explain what is happening? I have been out of the dating game for some time so I don't really get what issues are happening."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know people in this sub tend to look down on teenage drama but this has been bugging me recently.\n\nMy old SO, we can call her Jane, were in a relationship for a significant length of time during middle school. Post relationship, I maintained a sort of \"gay best friend\" friendship with her; a very very close platonic partnership. Jane was supportive me of in my quest for love through high school, and I tried to help her out as well, but she has yet to have any luck whatsoever.\n\nRecently I started dating a third girl, who we will call Jill. Jill is in the same small friend group as Jane is, and I gained interest in Jill at the beginning of this year of high school. Jane was supportive of me, but she had big doubts about my chances will Jill, until it slipped out that Jill knew I fancied her and wouldn't mind a date. Even though I have seen images of these conversations, Jane has been telling me that Jill doesn't want to date, which I know is false because we began chatting up and are prepared to do an official first date soon.\n\nAs soon as news of this broke, Jane began to be more hostile to me that usual. We went from chatting every day for a few hours to twice in the last 2 weeks. She also insults me more (this is significant because although we maintained a very sarcastic attitude with each other, she has begun to cross a line and be mean). Jane is stonewalling my efforts here; it is unfair of her to intrude on this new relationship of mine. However, I don't know how to deal with this, because Jane is possibly my best friend but still is being a big nuisance.\n\nI don't know what to do here; I don't think I have to pick between Jane and Jill but it seems that I have to make that choice. Can someone explain what is happening? I have been out of the dating game for some time so I don't really get what issues are happening."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know people in this sub tend to look down on teenage drama but this has been bugging me recently.\n\nMy old SO, we can call her Jane, were in a relationship for a significant length of time during middle school. Post relationship, I maintained a sort of \"gay best friend\" friendship with her; a very very close platonic partnership. Jane was supportive me of in my quest for love through high school, and I tried to help her out as well, but she has yet to have any luck whatsoever.\n\nRecently I started dating a third girl, who we will call Jill. Jill is in the same small friend group as Jane is, and I gained interest in Jill at the beginning of this year of high school. Jane was supportive of me, but she had big doubts about my chances will Jill, until it slipped out that Jill knew I fancied her and wouldn't mind a date. Even though I have seen images of these conversations, Jane has been telling me that Jill doesn't want to date, which I know is false because we began chatting up and are prepared to do an official first date soon.\n\nAs soon as news of this broke, Jane began to be more hostile to me that usual. We went from chatting every day for a few hours to twice in the last 2 weeks. She also insults me more (this is significant because although we maintained a very sarcastic attitude with each other, she has begun to cross a line and be mean). Jane is stonewalling my efforts here; it is unfair of her to intrude on this new relationship of mine. However, I don't know how to deal with this, because Jane is possibly my best friend but still is being a big nuisance.\n\nI don't know what to do here; I don't think I have to pick between Jane and Jill but it seems that I have to make that choice. Can someone explain what is happening? I have been out of the dating game for some time so I don't really get what issues are happening."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm going to go ahead and assume that everyone who's been through their first year of college/university has been through such problems or may think of this as being super obvious, but I just want to get some general opinions on a very general question.\n\nI've just come out of a somewhat casual relationship around two weeks ago, which included a lot of dates and physical activity, but has, somewhat confusingly ended with being told that I am just liked as a friend (which I am completely fine with). So that's a bit of a small hole in life at the moment. \n\nAt the same time, my architecture education is absolutely killing me, destroying my personal time and stressing me so much. I've had to reduce contact with friends and have chosen to focus more on work. But in the time that I spent with this other person for the last several months, I realize now that I've distanced myself from my friends even more than I wanted to. They're all still very close but they simply expect me to be busy with other things. \n\nI now have an overwhelming sense of loneliness and (hopefully momentary) loss of direction as my education is confusing me so much. I am usually really good alone, but when nothing in life really seems to be going the way I want it to, do I need to find someone new? I spend all day at my studio and have little time to meet people outside my course. I've set my two closest friends up with each other, so now I'm sort of outside the circle. Do I miss attention or do I need something to impose my attention onto?\n\nNot really looking for the most serious or specific of advice, just maybe a little discussion."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm going to go ahead and assume that everyone who's been through their first year of college/university has been through such problems or may think of this as being super obvious, but I just want to get some general opinions on a very general question.\n\nI've just come out of a somewhat casual relationship around two weeks ago, which included a lot of dates and physical activity, but has, somewhat confusingly ended with being told that I am just liked as a friend (which I am completely fine with). So that's a bit of a small hole in life at the moment. \n\nAt the same time, my architecture education is absolutely killing me, destroying my personal time and stressing me so much. I've had to reduce contact with friends and have chosen to focus more on work. But in the time that I spent with this other person for the last several months, I realize now that I've distanced myself from my friends even more than I wanted to. They're all still very close but they simply expect me to be busy with other things. \n\nI now have an overwhelming sense of loneliness and (hopefully momentary) loss of direction as my education is confusing me so much. I am usually really good alone, but when nothing in life really seems to be going the way I want it to, do I need to find someone new? I spend all day at my studio and have little time to meet people outside my course. I've set my two closest friends up with each other, so now I'm sort of outside the circle. Do I miss attention or do I need something to impose my attention onto?\n\nNot really looking for the most serious or specific of advice, just maybe a little discussion."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm going to go ahead and assume that everyone who's been through their first year of college/university has been through such problems or may think of this as being super obvious, but I just want to get some general opinions on a very general question.\n\nI've just come out of a somewhat casual relationship around two weeks ago, which included a lot of dates and physical activity, but has, somewhat confusingly ended with being told that I am just liked as a friend (which I am completely fine with). So that's a bit of a small hole in life at the moment. \n\nAt the same time, my architecture education is absolutely killing me, destroying my personal time and stressing me so much. I've had to reduce contact with friends and have chosen to focus more on work. But in the time that I spent with this other person for the last several months, I realize now that I've distanced myself from my friends even more than I wanted to. They're all still very close but they simply expect me to be busy with other things. \n\nI now have an overwhelming sense of loneliness and (hopefully momentary) loss of direction as my education is confusing me so much. I am usually really good alone, but when nothing in life really seems to be going the way I want it to, do I need to find someone new? I spend all day at my studio and have little time to meet people outside my course. I've set my two closest friends up with each other, so now I'm sort of outside the circle. Do I miss attention or do I need something to impose my attention onto?\n\nNot really looking for the most serious or specific of advice, just maybe a little discussion."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm going to go ahead and assume that everyone who's been through their first year of college/university has been through such problems or may think of this as being super obvious, but I just want to get some general opinions on a very general question.\n\nI've just come out of a somewhat casual relationship around two weeks ago, which included a lot of dates and physical activity, but has, somewhat confusingly ended with being told that I am just liked as a friend (which I am completely fine with). So that's a bit of a small hole in life at the moment. \n\nAt the same time, my architecture education is absolutely killing me, destroying my personal time and stressing me so much. I've had to reduce contact with friends and have chosen to focus more on work. But in the time that I spent with this other person for the last several months, I realize now that I've distanced myself from my friends even more than I wanted to. They're all still very close but they simply expect me to be busy with other things. \n\nI now have an overwhelming sense of loneliness and (hopefully momentary) loss of direction as my education is confusing me so much. I am usually really good alone, but when nothing in life really seems to be going the way I want it to, do I need to find someone new? I spend all day at my studio and have little time to meet people outside my course. I've set my two closest friends up with each other, so now I'm sort of outside the circle. Do I miss attention or do I need something to impose my attention onto?\n\nNot really looking for the most serious or specific of advice, just maybe a little discussion."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm going to go ahead and assume that everyone who's been through their first year of college/university has been through such problems or may think of this as being super obvious, but I just want to get some general opinions on a very general question.\n\nI've just come out of a somewhat casual relationship around two weeks ago, which included a lot of dates and physical activity, but has, somewhat confusingly ended with being told that I am just liked as a friend (which I am completely fine with). So that's a bit of a small hole in life at the moment. \n\nAt the same time, my architecture education is absolutely killing me, destroying my personal time and stressing me so much. I've had to reduce contact with friends and have chosen to focus more on work. But in the time that I spent with this other person for the last several months, I realize now that I've distanced myself from my friends even more than I wanted to. They're all still very close but they simply expect me to be busy with other things. \n\nI now have an overwhelming sense of loneliness and (hopefully momentary) loss of direction as my education is confusing me so much. I am usually really good alone, but when nothing in life really seems to be going the way I want it to, do I need to find someone new? I spend all day at my studio and have little time to meet people outside my course. I've set my two closest friends up with each other, so now I'm sort of outside the circle. Do I miss attention or do I need something to impose my attention onto?\n\nNot really looking for the most serious or specific of advice, just maybe a little discussion."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm going to go ahead and assume that everyone who's been through their first year of college/university has been through such problems or may think of this as being super obvious, but I just want to get some general opinions on a very general question.\n\nI've just come out of a somewhat casual relationship around two weeks ago, which included a lot of dates and physical activity, but has, somewhat confusingly ended with being told that I am just liked as a friend (which I am completely fine with). So that's a bit of a small hole in life at the moment. \n\nAt the same time, my architecture education is absolutely killing me, destroying my personal time and stressing me so much. I've had to reduce contact with friends and have chosen to focus more on work. But in the time that I spent with this other person for the last several months, I realize now that I've distanced myself from my friends even more than I wanted to. They're all still very close but they simply expect me to be busy with other things. \n\nI now have an overwhelming sense of loneliness and (hopefully momentary) loss of direction as my education is confusing me so much. I am usually really good alone, but when nothing in life really seems to be going the way I want it to, do I need to find someone new? I spend all day at my studio and have little time to meet people outside my course. I've set my two closest friends up with each other, so now I'm sort of outside the circle. Do I miss attention or do I need something to impose my attention onto?\n\nNot really looking for the most serious or specific of advice, just maybe a little discussion."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: I've been having an existential crisis lately where I don't see any point of living other than to reproduce and die. (I don't want to put the burden of life onto someone else either!) I discussed it with my friends and came down to \"enjoy your time here while you can\", so I decided I'd focus on the things I love, which are videogames and sex.\n\n With my GF and I going to seperate colleges in a month, I figured that this would be the end and I would be able to finally get my sex life going and have some fun. (We will be 12hrs apart by car)\n\n So now that I'm overseas I thought I'd visit an erotic massage place and enjoy myself. I recieved unprotected fellatio for 20seconds before I suggested that she wrap it up. We then had protected intercourse. \n\n It was not very enjoyable. It made me realize sex is not just about pleasing yourself or your partner but its about the special connection you share. I really regret not rubbing one out before I left that day.\n\n When I got home that night I realized I had betrayed my SO's trust and I cried thinking about it. How it would hurt her knowing I did this. I realized how special she is to me. (I'm tearing up as I write this.)\n\n I sent her a message that night telling her how much she meant to me and I would stay in a long distance relationship so that we could move in together and that I will stay loyal to her for four years. I meant it and I mean it forever, this experienced changed me for the better. I'm out of my existential crisis now, I realized that my purpose is in life is to build a great one with her, together.\n\n How can I break it to her? I'm a very honest person so I can't go on seeing her each day knowing I took advantage of her trust. I return to my country soon.\n\n(And I'm going to get an STD test even though i show no symptoms, just in case)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: I've been having an existential crisis lately where I don't see any point of living other than to reproduce and die. (I don't want to put the burden of life onto someone else either!) I discussed it with my friends and came down to \"enjoy your time here while you can\", so I decided I'd focus on the things I love, which are videogames and sex.\n\n With my GF and I going to seperate colleges in a month, I figured that this would be the end and I would be able to finally get my sex life going and have some fun. (We will be 12hrs apart by car)\n\n So now that I'm overseas I thought I'd visit an erotic massage place and enjoy myself. I recieved unprotected fellatio for 20seconds before I suggested that she wrap it up. We then had protected intercourse. \n\n It was not very enjoyable. It made me realize sex is not just about pleasing yourself or your partner but its about the special connection you share. I really regret not rubbing one out before I left that day.\n\n When I got home that night I realized I had betrayed my SO's trust and I cried thinking about it. How it would hurt her knowing I did this. I realized how special she is to me. (I'm tearing up as I write this.)\n\n I sent her a message that night telling her how much she meant to me and I would stay in a long distance relationship so that we could move in together and that I will stay loyal to her for four years. I meant it and I mean it forever, this experienced changed me for the better. I'm out of my existential crisis now, I realized that my purpose is in life is to build a great one with her, together.\n\n How can I break it to her? I'm a very honest person so I can't go on seeing her each day knowing I took advantage of her trust. I return to my country soon.\n\n(And I'm going to get an STD test even though i show no symptoms, just in case)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last night my boyfriend and I were at my friend's house party. He was playing cards in the living room and I was hanging out in the kitchen but I could still see and hear what was going on. He was sitting next to this girl that we have met a couple of times before but don't regularly hang out with. At one point, she stood up, and apparently her legs were asleep and she fell back onto my boyfriends lap. He grabbed her hips and squeezed them and she sat there for like 3 or 4 seconds before finally getting up and he did nothign to get her off of him. I thought that was a little weird but was willing to let it go.\n\nProbably an hour or so later I went upstairs to go to the bathroom. The girl who was sitting on his lap walked out right as I was walking up to it but just walked right past me without saying anything. I shut the door and went to check behind the curtain to check for murderers (old habits die hard) and my boyfriend was just standing in the shower crouched down. We both screamed and I asked him wtf he was doing in there and he said he didn't know, he was just really drunk. He was supposed to be DD though so he was only going to have a couple of beers and thats really all I saw him drink anyways, he was coming to the kitchen each time he wanted another. It just seems really unlikely that he was somehow drunk enough to be standing in the shower and have no idea what he was doing there. The rest of the night he played up the \"Really drunk\" act and he continued to drink a lot, to the point where he probably actually was really drunk.\n\nIt just seems really suspicious to me but he swears up and down he is telling the truth. When I ask him if he can understand how it looks from my point of view he says he wouldn't be upset because both of those situations were innocent, but I'm not so sure."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last night my boyfriend and I were at my friend's house party. He was playing cards in the living room and I was hanging out in the kitchen but I could still see and hear what was going on. He was sitting next to this girl that we have met a couple of times before but don't regularly hang out with. At one point, she stood up, and apparently her legs were asleep and she fell back onto my boyfriends lap. He grabbed her hips and squeezed them and she sat there for like 3 or 4 seconds before finally getting up and he did nothign to get her off of him. I thought that was a little weird but was willing to let it go.\n\nProbably an hour or so later I went upstairs to go to the bathroom. The girl who was sitting on his lap walked out right as I was walking up to it but just walked right past me without saying anything. I shut the door and went to check behind the curtain to check for murderers (old habits die hard) and my boyfriend was just standing in the shower crouched down. We both screamed and I asked him wtf he was doing in there and he said he didn't know, he was just really drunk. He was supposed to be DD though so he was only going to have a couple of beers and thats really all I saw him drink anyways, he was coming to the kitchen each time he wanted another. It just seems really unlikely that he was somehow drunk enough to be standing in the shower and have no idea what he was doing there. The rest of the night he played up the \"Really drunk\" act and he continued to drink a lot, to the point where he probably actually was really drunk.\n\nIt just seems really suspicious to me but he swears up and down he is telling the truth. When I ask him if he can understand how it looks from my point of view he says he wouldn't be upset because both of those situations were innocent, but I'm not so sure."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last night my boyfriend and I were at my friend's house party. He was playing cards in the living room and I was hanging out in the kitchen but I could still see and hear what was going on. He was sitting next to this girl that we have met a couple of times before but don't regularly hang out with. At one point, she stood up, and apparently her legs were asleep and she fell back onto my boyfriends lap. He grabbed her hips and squeezed them and she sat there for like 3 or 4 seconds before finally getting up and he did nothign to get her off of him. I thought that was a little weird but was willing to let it go.\n\nProbably an hour or so later I went upstairs to go to the bathroom. The girl who was sitting on his lap walked out right as I was walking up to it but just walked right past me without saying anything. I shut the door and went to check behind the curtain to check for murderers (old habits die hard) and my boyfriend was just standing in the shower crouched down. We both screamed and I asked him wtf he was doing in there and he said he didn't know, he was just really drunk. He was supposed to be DD though so he was only going to have a couple of beers and thats really all I saw him drink anyways, he was coming to the kitchen each time he wanted another. It just seems really unlikely that he was somehow drunk enough to be standing in the shower and have no idea what he was doing there. The rest of the night he played up the \"Really drunk\" act and he continued to drink a lot, to the point where he probably actually was really drunk.\n\nIt just seems really suspicious to me but he swears up and down he is telling the truth. When I ask him if he can understand how it looks from my point of view he says he wouldn't be upset because both of those situations were innocent, but I'm not so sure."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I suffer from an anxiety disorder, which has recently gotten much worse with both of our college graduations coming up, my classes being very work heavy and fear that I might be doing poorly at work. Because of this, I burst into tears when he is unable to become erect (which used to only happen rarely when he was too tired but now it happens every time). He told me he becomes incredibly anxious when we are about to become intimate because he really wants to perform well and he really really does not want to make me cry but this makes it impossible for him to become erect, then I cry. \n\nYes, I have really tried very hard to be supportive and pretend like it doesn't bother me but that is really difficult (and frankly, I am a terrible liar). Especially when he can hear me sobbing in the other room afterwards. I cannot stop it from happening! I try to hide the crying from him but I know he knows, and that makes him anxious which makes him unable to perform next time.\n\nHow can we stop this positive feedback loop and have stress free, enjoyable sex again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I suffer from an anxiety disorder, which has recently gotten much worse with both of our college graduations coming up, my classes being very work heavy and fear that I might be doing poorly at work. Because of this, I burst into tears when he is unable to become erect (which used to only happen rarely when he was too tired but now it happens every time). He told me he becomes incredibly anxious when we are about to become intimate because he really wants to perform well and he really really does not want to make me cry but this makes it impossible for him to become erect, then I cry. \n\nYes, I have really tried very hard to be supportive and pretend like it doesn't bother me but that is really difficult (and frankly, I am a terrible liar). Especially when he can hear me sobbing in the other room afterwards. I cannot stop it from happening! I try to hide the crying from him but I know he knows, and that makes him anxious which makes him unable to perform next time.\n\nHow can we stop this positive feedback loop and have stress free, enjoyable sex again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I suffer from an anxiety disorder, which has recently gotten much worse with both of our college graduations coming up, my classes being very work heavy and fear that I might be doing poorly at work. Because of this, I burst into tears when he is unable to become erect (which used to only happen rarely when he was too tired but now it happens every time). He told me he becomes incredibly anxious when we are about to become intimate because he really wants to perform well and he really really does not want to make me cry but this makes it impossible for him to become erect, then I cry. \n\nYes, I have really tried very hard to be supportive and pretend like it doesn't bother me but that is really difficult (and frankly, I am a terrible liar). Especially when he can hear me sobbing in the other room afterwards. I cannot stop it from happening! I try to hide the crying from him but I know he knows, and that makes him anxious which makes him unable to perform next time.\n\nHow can we stop this positive feedback loop and have stress free, enjoyable sex again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had given him the passcode the day before while I was driving so he could change the music.\n\nPrior to this I had been very clear about having trust issues and really enjoying my privacy. He claims that if the tables had been turned and I looked through his photos he wouldn't have cared in the slightest. \n\nIn his defense he was slightly sleep deprived.and although he apologized he thought most people he knew wouldn't react the way i was and thought I was being overly sensitive. \n\nFor the record, there were no inappropriate pics but there were some embarrassing selfies i had taken while drunk, lol. So I'm pretty mortified and honestly that's contributing to my anger. The bottom line is that I feel it was an invasion of privacy and it says a lot about him, what do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother owns a small apparel boutique and I work there as manager. We also employ four shop girls. Recently one of the women who works for us asked for two weeks off because her daughter was having a baby and she wanted to be there to support her. Unfortunately, this time coincided with my mother being out of town for a week. I expected to pick up the extra hours myself.\n\nWithout consulting me AT ALL (which I think is out of line because I'm the manager), my mother hires New Girl as a temp employee. By all accounts, New Girl is a great employee. She had no previous experience in retail, but she learned quickly and her first week I had a handful of customers seek me out specifically to compliment her. That's great, we love to hear that sort of thing.\n\nThe end of her temp employment is coming up, when my mother mentions she wants to bring New Girl on permanently. I tell her we don't have room in the schedule (because we don't, we'd have to cut everyone's hours severely to accommodate her). My mother says we can fire another shop girl, a high schooler who has been with us about six months. She says that from purely a numbers standpoint, New Girl makes more sales.\n\nI am against this. I can't believe she's being this disloyal to her own staff. I also take issue with New Girl's appearance. She simply does not look the level of polished as the other women we employ. I asked her once if she wore make up and she told me she was wearing make up then, but in my opinion it is not enough. I also learned that she does not use heat products in her hair. This has never been a problem with our other employees, and I have no idea how to address this, because how do you tell a woman she needs to wear more make up? My mother doesn't mind, but she's always been more bohemian, which is fine but not the look I care to have represented at our boutique.\n\nFrankly, I think my mother is allowing personal feelings to get in the way of professionalism. She seems dead set on this, though. I need a new way to approach her on this subject."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother owns a small apparel boutique and I work there as manager. We also employ four shop girls. Recently one of the women who works for us asked for two weeks off because her daughter was having a baby and she wanted to be there to support her. Unfortunately, this time coincided with my mother being out of town for a week. I expected to pick up the extra hours myself.\n\nWithout consulting me AT ALL (which I think is out of line because I'm the manager), my mother hires New Girl as a temp employee. By all accounts, New Girl is a great employee. She had no previous experience in retail, but she learned quickly and her first week I had a handful of customers seek me out specifically to compliment her. That's great, we love to hear that sort of thing.\n\nThe end of her temp employment is coming up, when my mother mentions she wants to bring New Girl on permanently. I tell her we don't have room in the schedule (because we don't, we'd have to cut everyone's hours severely to accommodate her). My mother says we can fire another shop girl, a high schooler who has been with us about six months. She says that from purely a numbers standpoint, New Girl makes more sales.\n\nI am against this. I can't believe she's being this disloyal to her own staff. I also take issue with New Girl's appearance. She simply does not look the level of polished as the other women we employ. I asked her once if she wore make up and she told me she was wearing make up then, but in my opinion it is not enough. I also learned that she does not use heat products in her hair. This has never been a problem with our other employees, and I have no idea how to address this, because how do you tell a woman she needs to wear more make up? My mother doesn't mind, but she's always been more bohemian, which is fine but not the look I care to have represented at our boutique.\n\nFrankly, I think my mother is allowing personal feelings to get in the way of professionalism. She seems dead set on this, though. I need a new way to approach her on this subject."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother owns a small apparel boutique and I work there as manager. We also employ four shop girls. Recently one of the women who works for us asked for two weeks off because her daughter was having a baby and she wanted to be there to support her. Unfortunately, this time coincided with my mother being out of town for a week. I expected to pick up the extra hours myself.\n\nWithout consulting me AT ALL (which I think is out of line because I'm the manager), my mother hires New Girl as a temp employee. By all accounts, New Girl is a great employee. She had no previous experience in retail, but she learned quickly and her first week I had a handful of customers seek me out specifically to compliment her. That's great, we love to hear that sort of thing.\n\nThe end of her temp employment is coming up, when my mother mentions she wants to bring New Girl on permanently. I tell her we don't have room in the schedule (because we don't, we'd have to cut everyone's hours severely to accommodate her). My mother says we can fire another shop girl, a high schooler who has been with us about six months. She says that from purely a numbers standpoint, New Girl makes more sales.\n\nI am against this. I can't believe she's being this disloyal to her own staff. I also take issue with New Girl's appearance. She simply does not look the level of polished as the other women we employ. I asked her once if she wore make up and she told me she was wearing make up then, but in my opinion it is not enough. I also learned that she does not use heat products in her hair. This has never been a problem with our other employees, and I have no idea how to address this, because how do you tell a woman she needs to wear more make up? My mother doesn't mind, but she's always been more bohemian, which is fine but not the look I care to have represented at our boutique.\n\nFrankly, I think my mother is allowing personal feelings to get in the way of professionalism. She seems dead set on this, though. I need a new way to approach her on this subject."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened today at around 2 AM.\n\nIt was the first party I managed to actually party at this year, being that I am usually a designated driver.\n\nI met this cute Catholic girl, let's call her Hillary. \n\nThings start off okay, I finally built up the courage to start making out with her. Now the kissing wasn't \"kissing\", it was what two drunk people would call making out. Basically a lot of excessive tongue and lip biting, but whatever - it was still the most I have gotten in a month. \n\nThings start getting hot and heavy in my friends living room. We were both undoing each others pants and I thought we were both really into it. I started foreplay on my end, and she was doing something with my johnson that I don't seem to remember out of bleak drunkeness. \n\n\"Should we head back to your place?\" I asked, hoping my friend's living room floor wasn't my final rest stop for the night.\n\nShe gave no reply, but as I was about to kiss her again she pounced into the air and ran out the front door in what I thought was Mach 3.\n\n*I just stood there* for a moment in a lapse of utter confusion. My pants around my thighs and an erection making itself visible in my briefs, like a ghost in a sheet.\n\n*Now* I don't know exactly what happened. I knocked on my friends door (Let's call her Marie) and asked Marie what had just happened. \n\nMarie told me about Hillary's devotion to Catholicism, and how she was planning on waiting for marriage to *get down*.\n\nI have yet to hear from her, and I plan on apologizing for what happened when I see her next. I don't think I am in the wrong, neither of us are, but I think it was just a lack of communication at fault."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened today at around 2 AM.\n\nIt was the first party I managed to actually party at this year, being that I am usually a designated driver.\n\nI met this cute Catholic girl, let's call her Hillary. \n\nThings start off okay, I finally built up the courage to start making out with her. Now the kissing wasn't \"kissing\", it was what two drunk people would call making out. Basically a lot of excessive tongue and lip biting, but whatever - it was still the most I have gotten in a month. \n\nThings start getting hot and heavy in my friends living room. We were both undoing each others pants and I thought we were both really into it. I started foreplay on my end, and she was doing something with my johnson that I don't seem to remember out of bleak drunkeness. \n\n\"Should we head back to your place?\" I asked, hoping my friend's living room floor wasn't my final rest stop for the night.\n\nShe gave no reply, but as I was about to kiss her again she pounced into the air and ran out the front door in what I thought was Mach 3.\n\n*I just stood there* for a moment in a lapse of utter confusion. My pants around my thighs and an erection making itself visible in my briefs, like a ghost in a sheet.\n\n*Now* I don't know exactly what happened. I knocked on my friends door (Let's call her Marie) and asked Marie what had just happened. \n\nMarie told me about Hillary's devotion to Catholicism, and how she was planning on waiting for marriage to *get down*.\n\nI have yet to hear from her, and I plan on apologizing for what happened when I see her next. I don't think I am in the wrong, neither of us are, but I think it was just a lack of communication at fault."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First, some background information. We are both in high school, I am a junior and she's a sophomore. We're both pretty smart and I'm a bit of a nerd. We both do theater at our high school but hadn't known each other long before our relationship. I asked her out on Valentine's Day, and broke up with her just a few days ago.\n\nPretty much throughout our entire relationship, I felt like I never really emotionally (or physically) connected with her, because whenever I tried to talk to her about something serious (like our feelings for each other, kissing, etc.) she would reply with \"I don't know\" to my questions, and seem to appear slightly irritated at me asking it, although she didn't remain angry at me at all. She told me that she has an in ability to talk about her feelings to others, including her own family, and she gets stressed and \"shuts down\" whenever she attempts to. I really am attracted to her and honestly besides this, she doesn't have a lot of flaws. She's polite, kind, works hard in school, and cares about her future. However, last week I basically told her that i couldn't take the lack of connection anymore and said that we should part ways for now. Obviously I miss her, but I really didn't see any other option. Does she have some sort of actual disorder, or is it just a part of being a teenager? Should I wait and see if she matures to where she's comfortable talking about stuff and then try a relationship with her again? I really just want another opinion in this because I feel hopeless.\n\n(Please only serious replies)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First, some background information. We are both in high school, I am a junior and she's a sophomore. We're both pretty smart and I'm a bit of a nerd. We both do theater at our high school but hadn't known each other long before our relationship. I asked her out on Valentine's Day, and broke up with her just a few days ago.\n\nPretty much throughout our entire relationship, I felt like I never really emotionally (or physically) connected with her, because whenever I tried to talk to her about something serious (like our feelings for each other, kissing, etc.) she would reply with \"I don't know\" to my questions, and seem to appear slightly irritated at me asking it, although she didn't remain angry at me at all. She told me that she has an in ability to talk about her feelings to others, including her own family, and she gets stressed and \"shuts down\" whenever she attempts to. I really am attracted to her and honestly besides this, she doesn't have a lot of flaws. She's polite, kind, works hard in school, and cares about her future. However, last week I basically told her that i couldn't take the lack of connection anymore and said that we should part ways for now. Obviously I miss her, but I really didn't see any other option. Does she have some sort of actual disorder, or is it just a part of being a teenager? Should I wait and see if she matures to where she's comfortable talking about stuff and then try a relationship with her again? I really just want another opinion in this because I feel hopeless.\n\n(Please only serious replies)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First, some background information. We are both in high school, I am a junior and she's a sophomore. We're both pretty smart and I'm a bit of a nerd. We both do theater at our high school but hadn't known each other long before our relationship. I asked her out on Valentine's Day, and broke up with her just a few days ago.\n\nPretty much throughout our entire relationship, I felt like I never really emotionally (or physically) connected with her, because whenever I tried to talk to her about something serious (like our feelings for each other, kissing, etc.) she would reply with \"I don't know\" to my questions, and seem to appear slightly irritated at me asking it, although she didn't remain angry at me at all. She told me that she has an in ability to talk about her feelings to others, including her own family, and she gets stressed and \"shuts down\" whenever she attempts to. I really am attracted to her and honestly besides this, she doesn't have a lot of flaws. She's polite, kind, works hard in school, and cares about her future. However, last week I basically told her that i couldn't take the lack of connection anymore and said that we should part ways for now. Obviously I miss her, but I really didn't see any other option. Does she have some sort of actual disorder, or is it just a part of being a teenager? Should I wait and see if she matures to where she's comfortable talking about stuff and then try a relationship with her again? I really just want another opinion in this because I feel hopeless.\n\n(Please only serious replies)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First, some background information. We are both in high school, I am a junior and she's a sophomore. We're both pretty smart and I'm a bit of a nerd. We both do theater at our high school but hadn't known each other long before our relationship. I asked her out on Valentine's Day, and broke up with her just a few days ago.\n\nPretty much throughout our entire relationship, I felt like I never really emotionally (or physically) connected with her, because whenever I tried to talk to her about something serious (like our feelings for each other, kissing, etc.) she would reply with \"I don't know\" to my questions, and seem to appear slightly irritated at me asking it, although she didn't remain angry at me at all. She told me that she has an in ability to talk about her feelings to others, including her own family, and she gets stressed and \"shuts down\" whenever she attempts to. I really am attracted to her and honestly besides this, she doesn't have a lot of flaws. She's polite, kind, works hard in school, and cares about her future. However, last week I basically told her that i couldn't take the lack of connection anymore and said that we should part ways for now. Obviously I miss her, but I really didn't see any other option. Does she have some sort of actual disorder, or is it just a part of being a teenager? Should I wait and see if she matures to where she's comfortable talking about stuff and then try a relationship with her again? I really just want another opinion in this because I feel hopeless.\n\n(Please only serious replies)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First, some background information. We are both in high school, I am a junior and she's a sophomore. We're both pretty smart and I'm a bit of a nerd. We both do theater at our high school but hadn't known each other long before our relationship. I asked her out on Valentine's Day, and broke up with her just a few days ago.\n\nPretty much throughout our entire relationship, I felt like I never really emotionally (or physically) connected with her, because whenever I tried to talk to her about something serious (like our feelings for each other, kissing, etc.) she would reply with \"I don't know\" to my questions, and seem to appear slightly irritated at me asking it, although she didn't remain angry at me at all. She told me that she has an in ability to talk about her feelings to others, including her own family, and she gets stressed and \"shuts down\" whenever she attempts to. I really am attracted to her and honestly besides this, she doesn't have a lot of flaws. She's polite, kind, works hard in school, and cares about her future. However, last week I basically told her that i couldn't take the lack of connection anymore and said that we should part ways for now. Obviously I miss her, but I really didn't see any other option. Does she have some sort of actual disorder, or is it just a part of being a teenager? Should I wait and see if she matures to where she's comfortable talking about stuff and then try a relationship with her again? I really just want another opinion in this because I feel hopeless.\n\n(Please only serious replies)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First, some background information. We are both in high school, I am a junior and she's a sophomore. We're both pretty smart and I'm a bit of a nerd. We both do theater at our high school but hadn't known each other long before our relationship. I asked her out on Valentine's Day, and broke up with her just a few days ago.\n\nPretty much throughout our entire relationship, I felt like I never really emotionally (or physically) connected with her, because whenever I tried to talk to her about something serious (like our feelings for each other, kissing, etc.) she would reply with \"I don't know\" to my questions, and seem to appear slightly irritated at me asking it, although she didn't remain angry at me at all. She told me that she has an in ability to talk about her feelings to others, including her own family, and she gets stressed and \"shuts down\" whenever she attempts to. I really am attracted to her and honestly besides this, she doesn't have a lot of flaws. She's polite, kind, works hard in school, and cares about her future. However, last week I basically told her that i couldn't take the lack of connection anymore and said that we should part ways for now. Obviously I miss her, but I really didn't see any other option. Does she have some sort of actual disorder, or is it just a part of being a teenager? Should I wait and see if she matures to where she's comfortable talking about stuff and then try a relationship with her again? I really just want another opinion in this because I feel hopeless.\n\n(Please only serious replies)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I do bar promotions and I was working one night when I ran into a friend of my ex-boyfriend. He asked me to hang out with him after my shift. We talked, we danced, we drank, and we kissed at the end of the night. Given he said \"it feels wrong,\" but he still kept his hands around me. We exchanged numbers. He texted me two weeks later and we got together with my (not mutual) friends. This time he kept his hands to himself. We talked a lot and the flow of the night felt good. We hung out and talked some more. We've been friends for over a month now. While I was with my ex-boyfriend, we never communicated. Pretty sure I only saw him once or twice. Today, I worked another promotion and he came to see me . He came alone, ordered a drink, and waited for my shift to be over. We took one of the bottles and laid around in the woods. I really like him by now. Im obsessed with when we're hanging out next. I brought up a talk about my feelings. He said I'm a really nice gal, but I'm also the ex-girlfriend of one of his really good friends and that he doesn't want to cause problems and if roles were revered, he wouldn't want his friend with his ex-girlfriend. Which is a totally fair response. I didn't know what to really say. So I just dropped the topic. Did I misread signs? He seemed into me. Or maybe I was too hopeful? Is all hope lost?\n\nBackground: ex-boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. It was a good relationship, but not the best. He cheated on me 3 times. All about a year apart. Ofcourse his friend wouldn't know that. He even girlfriended the last side chick according to facebook. So I'm sure he wouldn't even care."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I do bar promotions and I was working one night when I ran into a friend of my ex-boyfriend. He asked me to hang out with him after my shift. We talked, we danced, we drank, and we kissed at the end of the night. Given he said \"it feels wrong,\" but he still kept his hands around me. We exchanged numbers. He texted me two weeks later and we got together with my (not mutual) friends. This time he kept his hands to himself. We talked a lot and the flow of the night felt good. We hung out and talked some more. We've been friends for over a month now. While I was with my ex-boyfriend, we never communicated. Pretty sure I only saw him once or twice. Today, I worked another promotion and he came to see me . He came alone, ordered a drink, and waited for my shift to be over. We took one of the bottles and laid around in the woods. I really like him by now. Im obsessed with when we're hanging out next. I brought up a talk about my feelings. He said I'm a really nice gal, but I'm also the ex-girlfriend of one of his really good friends and that he doesn't want to cause problems and if roles were revered, he wouldn't want his friend with his ex-girlfriend. Which is a totally fair response. I didn't know what to really say. So I just dropped the topic. Did I misread signs? He seemed into me. Or maybe I was too hopeful? Is all hope lost?\n\nBackground: ex-boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. It was a good relationship, but not the best. He cheated on me 3 times. All about a year apart. Ofcourse his friend wouldn't know that. He even girlfriended the last side chick according to facebook. So I'm sure he wouldn't even care."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I do bar promotions and I was working one night when I ran into a friend of my ex-boyfriend. He asked me to hang out with him after my shift. We talked, we danced, we drank, and we kissed at the end of the night. Given he said \"it feels wrong,\" but he still kept his hands around me. We exchanged numbers. He texted me two weeks later and we got together with my (not mutual) friends. This time he kept his hands to himself. We talked a lot and the flow of the night felt good. We hung out and talked some more. We've been friends for over a month now. While I was with my ex-boyfriend, we never communicated. Pretty sure I only saw him once or twice. Today, I worked another promotion and he came to see me . He came alone, ordered a drink, and waited for my shift to be over. We took one of the bottles and laid around in the woods. I really like him by now. Im obsessed with when we're hanging out next. I brought up a talk about my feelings. He said I'm a really nice gal, but I'm also the ex-girlfriend of one of his really good friends and that he doesn't want to cause problems and if roles were revered, he wouldn't want his friend with his ex-girlfriend. Which is a totally fair response. I didn't know what to really say. So I just dropped the topic. Did I misread signs? He seemed into me. Or maybe I was too hopeful? Is all hope lost?\n\nBackground: ex-boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. It was a good relationship, but not the best. He cheated on me 3 times. All about a year apart. Ofcourse his friend wouldn't know that. He even girlfriended the last side chick according to facebook. So I'm sure he wouldn't even care."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi guys, just wanted to know how I should go about handling this situation as it has really been bringing me down. My current gf and I have been dating about 7 months, and we have known each other for nearly a decade, and everything was peachy until recently. A few weeks ago my girlfriend and I were having sex and I fantasized about my old girlfriend. Ever since then, it's as if my brain can't distinguish the two as different people. Every time I say my current gf's name inside my head or picture her face, something in me brings up the name/face of my old flame. \n\nI really love my current gf, she is everything that this ex was not: caring, loving, loyal, reliable, sweet, selfless. I will do absolutely anything to give us a happy ending and make these thoughts go away. They have started infiltrating the time we spend together now as well, not just when I'm alone. It's like I'm fighting with my own brain. I do not love my ex and there is no future with her, even if I was single I would never pursue her again due to all the lying, cheating, pain, and selfishness. I have discussed this with my current gf and she's been absolutely amazing and is holding my hand every step of the way. I just feel disgusted with myself for letting this past pain poison my present happiness.\n\nSo help me out r/relationships, how do I get back to seeing my gf without bringing my past into play?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi guys, just wanted to know how I should go about handling this situation as it has really been bringing me down. My current gf and I have been dating about 7 months, and we have known each other for nearly a decade, and everything was peachy until recently. A few weeks ago my girlfriend and I were having sex and I fantasized about my old girlfriend. Ever since then, it's as if my brain can't distinguish the two as different people. Every time I say my current gf's name inside my head or picture her face, something in me brings up the name/face of my old flame. \n\nI really love my current gf, she is everything that this ex was not: caring, loving, loyal, reliable, sweet, selfless. I will do absolutely anything to give us a happy ending and make these thoughts go away. They have started infiltrating the time we spend together now as well, not just when I'm alone. It's like I'm fighting with my own brain. I do not love my ex and there is no future with her, even if I was single I would never pursue her again due to all the lying, cheating, pain, and selfishness. I have discussed this with my current gf and she's been absolutely amazing and is holding my hand every step of the way. I just feel disgusted with myself for letting this past pain poison my present happiness.\n\nSo help me out r/relationships, how do I get back to seeing my gf without bringing my past into play?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi guys, just wanted to know how I should go about handling this situation as it has really been bringing me down. My current gf and I have been dating about 7 months, and we have known each other for nearly a decade, and everything was peachy until recently. A few weeks ago my girlfriend and I were having sex and I fantasized about my old girlfriend. Ever since then, it's as if my brain can't distinguish the two as different people. Every time I say my current gf's name inside my head or picture her face, something in me brings up the name/face of my old flame. \n\nI really love my current gf, she is everything that this ex was not: caring, loving, loyal, reliable, sweet, selfless. I will do absolutely anything to give us a happy ending and make these thoughts go away. They have started infiltrating the time we spend together now as well, not just when I'm alone. It's like I'm fighting with my own brain. I do not love my ex and there is no future with her, even if I was single I would never pursue her again due to all the lying, cheating, pain, and selfishness. I have discussed this with my current gf and she's been absolutely amazing and is holding my hand every step of the way. I just feel disgusted with myself for letting this past pain poison my present happiness.\n\nSo help me out r/relationships, how do I get back to seeing my gf without bringing my past into play?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother is acting weird recently, he has always been calm and such, he's very nice, but recently he just shut himself in.\n\nDuring the last month I have been always getting awaken by him playing piano at 3:00 - 4:00 am, he continues on playing till like 9:00 - 10:00 am then goes to the fridge, eats something quickly then goes back to his room either playing again or doing homework or turning off the lights while lying in his bed listening to music.\n\nHe doesn't talk unless you go and talk to him!? and it's impossible to make him angry now, I know he's very nice but before he used to get angry if someone teased him but now he's kind of numb. I tried making him the food he likes he thanked me but he never finish the dish and he even lost weight I wonder what's wrong with him he's acting numb and spaces out a lot.\n\nI asked him a lot what's wrong with him, but his answer is always ( nothing ), I thought he was in love and got his heart broken but he said no that's not true and there's nothing wrong with him . last night I asked him again but this time he said he's annoyed by my insistence .\n\nI don't know what to do I'm really worried . do you think he's depressed or he's acting normal ? Am I worrying too much ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother is acting weird recently, he has always been calm and such, he's very nice, but recently he just shut himself in.\n\nDuring the last month I have been always getting awaken by him playing piano at 3:00 - 4:00 am, he continues on playing till like 9:00 - 10:00 am then goes to the fridge, eats something quickly then goes back to his room either playing again or doing homework or turning off the lights while lying in his bed listening to music.\n\nHe doesn't talk unless you go and talk to him!? and it's impossible to make him angry now, I know he's very nice but before he used to get angry if someone teased him but now he's kind of numb. I tried making him the food he likes he thanked me but he never finish the dish and he even lost weight I wonder what's wrong with him he's acting numb and spaces out a lot.\n\nI asked him a lot what's wrong with him, but his answer is always ( nothing ), I thought he was in love and got his heart broken but he said no that's not true and there's nothing wrong with him . last night I asked him again but this time he said he's annoyed by my insistence .\n\nI don't know what to do I'm really worried . do you think he's depressed or he's acting normal ? Am I worrying too much ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother is acting weird recently, he has always been calm and such, he's very nice, but recently he just shut himself in.\n\nDuring the last month I have been always getting awaken by him playing piano at 3:00 - 4:00 am, he continues on playing till like 9:00 - 10:00 am then goes to the fridge, eats something quickly then goes back to his room either playing again or doing homework or turning off the lights while lying in his bed listening to music.\n\nHe doesn't talk unless you go and talk to him!? and it's impossible to make him angry now, I know he's very nice but before he used to get angry if someone teased him but now he's kind of numb. I tried making him the food he likes he thanked me but he never finish the dish and he even lost weight I wonder what's wrong with him he's acting numb and spaces out a lot.\n\nI asked him a lot what's wrong with him, but his answer is always ( nothing ), I thought he was in love and got his heart broken but he said no that's not true and there's nothing wrong with him . last night I asked him again but this time he said he's annoyed by my insistence .\n\nI don't know what to do I'm really worried . do you think he's depressed or he's acting normal ? Am I worrying too much ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me [33F], her [38F]… together 2 years, engaged for the last 10 months.\n\nI have to break up with her. I'm not happy, I feel used and I feel like I'm her parent. \n\nShe doesn't work at the moment. These moments happen often, she's had at least 8 jobs in the two years we've been together. I pretty much have to ask her to clean the apartment while I'm at work. Just the other day she waited for me to get home from work so I could help her do the laundry.\n\nShe doesn't physically take care of herself. She eats like crap. She has gained 30lbs in two years. I have to ask her to shave her legs and armpits. \n\nThe last thing is that I am having an extremely hard time staying sober with her. I'm an addict; coke, weed, alcohol. I worked extremely hard to get my life together. She does not do drugs and drinks socially. All her friends are heavily into drinking and also into coke. They are always trying to buy me drinks and taking about drugs. I slipped up last week and did coke for a few days. This isn't what I want for my life!\n\nIt's not working.\nThe problem is that she is completely dependant on me. She could never afford rent on her own and this would basically force her to move back in with her parents.\nI feel like such crap. I pursued her hard. I asked her to move in with me and I asked her to marry me. I believe this will be completely blind side her.\nI know I made her sound bad in this but I really do love her, I just can't be with her.\n\nWhat should I tell her? I don't want to list all the reasons I don't want to be with her, that will just cause unnecessary hurt but I really need her to understand I want to break up. Basically I need help breaking up but without hurting her too badly."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me [33F], her [38F]… together 2 years, engaged for the last 10 months.\n\nI have to break up with her. I'm not happy, I feel used and I feel like I'm her parent. \n\nShe doesn't work at the moment. These moments happen often, she's had at least 8 jobs in the two years we've been together. I pretty much have to ask her to clean the apartment while I'm at work. Just the other day she waited for me to get home from work so I could help her do the laundry.\n\nShe doesn't physically take care of herself. She eats like crap. She has gained 30lbs in two years. I have to ask her to shave her legs and armpits. \n\nThe last thing is that I am having an extremely hard time staying sober with her. I'm an addict; coke, weed, alcohol. I worked extremely hard to get my life together. She does not do drugs and drinks socially. All her friends are heavily into drinking and also into coke. They are always trying to buy me drinks and taking about drugs. I slipped up last week and did coke for a few days. This isn't what I want for my life!\n\nIt's not working.\nThe problem is that she is completely dependant on me. She could never afford rent on her own and this would basically force her to move back in with her parents.\nI feel like such crap. I pursued her hard. I asked her to move in with me and I asked her to marry me. I believe this will be completely blind side her.\nI know I made her sound bad in this but I really do love her, I just can't be with her.\n\nWhat should I tell her? I don't want to list all the reasons I don't want to be with her, that will just cause unnecessary hurt but I really need her to understand I want to break up. Basically I need help breaking up but without hurting her too badly."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me [33F], her [38F]… together 2 years, engaged for the last 10 months.\n\nI have to break up with her. I'm not happy, I feel used and I feel like I'm her parent. \n\nShe doesn't work at the moment. These moments happen often, she's had at least 8 jobs in the two years we've been together. I pretty much have to ask her to clean the apartment while I'm at work. Just the other day she waited for me to get home from work so I could help her do the laundry.\n\nShe doesn't physically take care of herself. She eats like crap. She has gained 30lbs in two years. I have to ask her to shave her legs and armpits. \n\nThe last thing is that I am having an extremely hard time staying sober with her. I'm an addict; coke, weed, alcohol. I worked extremely hard to get my life together. She does not do drugs and drinks socially. All her friends are heavily into drinking and also into coke. They are always trying to buy me drinks and taking about drugs. I slipped up last week and did coke for a few days. This isn't what I want for my life!\n\nIt's not working.\nThe problem is that she is completely dependant on me. She could never afford rent on her own and this would basically force her to move back in with her parents.\nI feel like such crap. I pursued her hard. I asked her to move in with me and I asked her to marry me. I believe this will be completely blind side her.\nI know I made her sound bad in this but I really do love her, I just can't be with her.\n\nWhat should I tell her? I don't want to list all the reasons I don't want to be with her, that will just cause unnecessary hurt but I really need her to understand I want to break up. Basically I need help breaking up but without hurting her too badly."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I began dating a girl six months ago. Really nice girl, we are opposite but attract all good.\n\nWhen we met she told me she was a sports starlet in her youth. I thought it was cool but it didn't impact how I felt about her all that much.\n\nNow I have been trying to get in better shape myself for on off the last year, and I told her this when we met. One day about three months in she said she had decided to do the same, and explained how she used to be in great shape, super hot and had let herself go, showing me pictures etc.\n\nI was pleased for her and asked her to keep me posted on how it goes. So she keeps telling me she's doing all these things, classes, runs, etc, yet there's literally been no change in three months. Whenever we end up eating, she's usually having some kind of fast food or savoury food.\n\nI've dropped some weight and I'm looking good. Meanwhile her stories are getting less and less.\n\nI really don't know how to bring this up without sounding like a dick. It's also lead me to question whether we can move forward because I want a partner that takes care of themselves and she just doesn't seem to be doing so or even want to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I began dating a girl six months ago. Really nice girl, we are opposite but attract all good.\n\nWhen we met she told me she was a sports starlet in her youth. I thought it was cool but it didn't impact how I felt about her all that much.\n\nNow I have been trying to get in better shape myself for on off the last year, and I told her this when we met. One day about three months in she said she had decided to do the same, and explained how she used to be in great shape, super hot and had let herself go, showing me pictures etc.\n\nI was pleased for her and asked her to keep me posted on how it goes. So she keeps telling me she's doing all these things, classes, runs, etc, yet there's literally been no change in three months. Whenever we end up eating, she's usually having some kind of fast food or savoury food.\n\nI've dropped some weight and I'm looking good. Meanwhile her stories are getting less and less.\n\nI really don't know how to bring this up without sounding like a dick. It's also lead me to question whether we can move forward because I want a partner that takes care of themselves and she just doesn't seem to be doing so or even want to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I began dating a girl six months ago. Really nice girl, we are opposite but attract all good.\n\nWhen we met she told me she was a sports starlet in her youth. I thought it was cool but it didn't impact how I felt about her all that much.\n\nNow I have been trying to get in better shape myself for on off the last year, and I told her this when we met. One day about three months in she said she had decided to do the same, and explained how she used to be in great shape, super hot and had let herself go, showing me pictures etc.\n\nI was pleased for her and asked her to keep me posted on how it goes. So she keeps telling me she's doing all these things, classes, runs, etc, yet there's literally been no change in three months. Whenever we end up eating, she's usually having some kind of fast food or savoury food.\n\nI've dropped some weight and I'm looking good. Meanwhile her stories are getting less and less.\n\nI really don't know how to bring this up without sounding like a dick. It's also lead me to question whether we can move forward because I want a partner that takes care of themselves and she just doesn't seem to be doing so or even want to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Almost a year ago I met this girl on a online site and since then we have text almost every day and spoken on the phone a number of times. I don't know why we have never skyped, none of us have ever brought it up. We have however exchanged pics/videos so I'm 99.9999% she isn't some stranger from Ghana.\n\nAnyway we've hit it off really well and I get on with her unlike anyone else I've ever spoken too. We come to eachother for advice and we have quite a good sense of eachothers personalities. Now recently she said she is going somewhere and with a bit more conversation this may end up being our first meeting as I've been looking to go somewhere and she suggested that I go with her as at least she'd roughly know someone. \n\nShe is an incredibly nicest person and we have spoken about past relationships, she said she isn't one to judge and I've spoken/seen people she has been out with before and she herself described them as \"not exactly lookers\", so I'm not afraid of her seeing me and being like \"what kind of creature are you\" as I'm not exactly overweight or hard to look at. I am however still incredibly nervous that we may not get along, why I have no idea. \n\nI'm not looking for advice on what to do I am however hoping that some here have been in a similar situation and how it ended up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Almost a year ago I met this girl on a online site and since then we have text almost every day and spoken on the phone a number of times. I don't know why we have never skyped, none of us have ever brought it up. We have however exchanged pics/videos so I'm 99.9999% she isn't some stranger from Ghana.\n\nAnyway we've hit it off really well and I get on with her unlike anyone else I've ever spoken too. We come to eachother for advice and we have quite a good sense of eachothers personalities. Now recently she said she is going somewhere and with a bit more conversation this may end up being our first meeting as I've been looking to go somewhere and she suggested that I go with her as at least she'd roughly know someone. \n\nShe is an incredibly nicest person and we have spoken about past relationships, she said she isn't one to judge and I've spoken/seen people she has been out with before and she herself described them as \"not exactly lookers\", so I'm not afraid of her seeing me and being like \"what kind of creature are you\" as I'm not exactly overweight or hard to look at. I am however still incredibly nervous that we may not get along, why I have no idea. \n\nI'm not looking for advice on what to do I am however hoping that some here have been in a similar situation and how it ended up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Almost a year ago I met this girl on a online site and since then we have text almost every day and spoken on the phone a number of times. I don't know why we have never skyped, none of us have ever brought it up. We have however exchanged pics/videos so I'm 99.9999% she isn't some stranger from Ghana.\n\nAnyway we've hit it off really well and I get on with her unlike anyone else I've ever spoken too. We come to eachother for advice and we have quite a good sense of eachothers personalities. Now recently she said she is going somewhere and with a bit more conversation this may end up being our first meeting as I've been looking to go somewhere and she suggested that I go with her as at least she'd roughly know someone. \n\nShe is an incredibly nicest person and we have spoken about past relationships, she said she isn't one to judge and I've spoken/seen people she has been out with before and she herself described them as \"not exactly lookers\", so I'm not afraid of her seeing me and being like \"what kind of creature are you\" as I'm not exactly overweight or hard to look at. I am however still incredibly nervous that we may not get along, why I have no idea. \n\nI'm not looking for advice on what to do I am however hoping that some here have been in a similar situation and how it ended up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Almost a year ago I met this girl on a online site and since then we have text almost every day and spoken on the phone a number of times. I don't know why we have never skyped, none of us have ever brought it up. We have however exchanged pics/videos so I'm 99.9999% she isn't some stranger from Ghana.\n\nAnyway we've hit it off really well and I get on with her unlike anyone else I've ever spoken too. We come to eachother for advice and we have quite a good sense of eachothers personalities. Now recently she said she is going somewhere and with a bit more conversation this may end up being our first meeting as I've been looking to go somewhere and she suggested that I go with her as at least she'd roughly know someone. \n\nShe is an incredibly nicest person and we have spoken about past relationships, she said she isn't one to judge and I've spoken/seen people she has been out with before and she herself described them as \"not exactly lookers\", so I'm not afraid of her seeing me and being like \"what kind of creature are you\" as I'm not exactly overweight or hard to look at. I am however still incredibly nervous that we may not get along, why I have no idea. \n\nI'm not looking for advice on what to do I am however hoping that some here have been in a similar situation and how it ended up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Almost a year ago I met this girl on a online site and since then we have text almost every day and spoken on the phone a number of times. I don't know why we have never skyped, none of us have ever brought it up. We have however exchanged pics/videos so I'm 99.9999% she isn't some stranger from Ghana.\n\nAnyway we've hit it off really well and I get on with her unlike anyone else I've ever spoken too. We come to eachother for advice and we have quite a good sense of eachothers personalities. Now recently she said she is going somewhere and with a bit more conversation this may end up being our first meeting as I've been looking to go somewhere and she suggested that I go with her as at least she'd roughly know someone. \n\nShe is an incredibly nicest person and we have spoken about past relationships, she said she isn't one to judge and I've spoken/seen people she has been out with before and she herself described them as \"not exactly lookers\", so I'm not afraid of her seeing me and being like \"what kind of creature are you\" as I'm not exactly overweight or hard to look at. I am however still incredibly nervous that we may not get along, why I have no idea. \n\nI'm not looking for advice on what to do I am however hoping that some here have been in a similar situation and how it ended up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Almost a year ago I met this girl on a online site and since then we have text almost every day and spoken on the phone a number of times. I don't know why we have never skyped, none of us have ever brought it up. We have however exchanged pics/videos so I'm 99.9999% she isn't some stranger from Ghana.\n\nAnyway we've hit it off really well and I get on with her unlike anyone else I've ever spoken too. We come to eachother for advice and we have quite a good sense of eachothers personalities. Now recently she said she is going somewhere and with a bit more conversation this may end up being our first meeting as I've been looking to go somewhere and she suggested that I go with her as at least she'd roughly know someone. \n\nShe is an incredibly nicest person and we have spoken about past relationships, she said she isn't one to judge and I've spoken/seen people she has been out with before and she herself described them as \"not exactly lookers\", so I'm not afraid of her seeing me and being like \"what kind of creature are you\" as I'm not exactly overweight or hard to look at. I am however still incredibly nervous that we may not get along, why I have no idea. \n\nI'm not looking for advice on what to do I am however hoping that some here have been in a similar situation and how it ended up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months. It's been great. We fell in love and spent every waking moment together whatever chance we got. I met her family, she met my family, we've been on trips together. you get the idea. \n\nWell, lately, she's been demanding me to make compromises in everyday things (movies, hobbies, etc.) in order to appease her. Now I told her that who she's suggesting I be is just not 'me' and that I'm not comfortable with her dictating how I live my life. \n\nShe insists that she knows what's best for me and that I need to start living like an adult, whatever that means. In the meantime, she starts pushing her hobbies and media interests on me. \"No, let's listen to this\" she'll say in the car while we're playing the radio, or \"Why do you go to the gym so often? Stay home, babe, and watch New Girl with me.\"\n\nThis behavior is starting to aggravate me and I begin denying her requests. She starts getting more belligerent in her remarks and starts guilt tripping me, telling me \"You don't care about me, you're so inconsiderate to my feelings.\" \n\nAbout a week later I'm driving her home and she's playing some god awful pop radio station I've never heard of. I get this funny idea to play \"Kill You\" by Eminem on full blast while we're driving through the neighborhood because at this point I don't care anymore. She starts yelling something at me but I can't hear her over the music, plus I have the windows open. \n\nAll we hear is \"Sl*t, you think I won't choke no wh*re?!? Til the vocal cords don't work in her throat no more?!\". The look of resolve and assertiveness on her face dissolved completely, she was in horror and I was laughing my ass off. At one point she started screeching and assaulting me as I repelled her from the sound control panel. \n\nWell, I drove her home. She ran out while screaming at me and we haven't spoken since. I'm not sure how I feel about all this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months. It's been great. We fell in love and spent every waking moment together whatever chance we got. I met her family, she met my family, we've been on trips together. you get the idea. \n\nWell, lately, she's been demanding me to make compromises in everyday things (movies, hobbies, etc.) in order to appease her. Now I told her that who she's suggesting I be is just not 'me' and that I'm not comfortable with her dictating how I live my life. \n\nShe insists that she knows what's best for me and that I need to start living like an adult, whatever that means. In the meantime, she starts pushing her hobbies and media interests on me. \"No, let's listen to this\" she'll say in the car while we're playing the radio, or \"Why do you go to the gym so often? Stay home, babe, and watch New Girl with me.\"\n\nThis behavior is starting to aggravate me and I begin denying her requests. She starts getting more belligerent in her remarks and starts guilt tripping me, telling me \"You don't care about me, you're so inconsiderate to my feelings.\" \n\nAbout a week later I'm driving her home and she's playing some god awful pop radio station I've never heard of. I get this funny idea to play \"Kill You\" by Eminem on full blast while we're driving through the neighborhood because at this point I don't care anymore. She starts yelling something at me but I can't hear her over the music, plus I have the windows open. \n\nAll we hear is \"Sl*t, you think I won't choke no wh*re?!? Til the vocal cords don't work in her throat no more?!\". The look of resolve and assertiveness on her face dissolved completely, she was in horror and I was laughing my ass off. At one point she started screeching and assaulting me as I repelled her from the sound control panel. \n\nWell, I drove her home. She ran out while screaming at me and we haven't spoken since. I'm not sure how I feel about all this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months. It's been great. We fell in love and spent every waking moment together whatever chance we got. I met her family, she met my family, we've been on trips together. you get the idea. \n\nWell, lately, she's been demanding me to make compromises in everyday things (movies, hobbies, etc.) in order to appease her. Now I told her that who she's suggesting I be is just not 'me' and that I'm not comfortable with her dictating how I live my life. \n\nShe insists that she knows what's best for me and that I need to start living like an adult, whatever that means. In the meantime, she starts pushing her hobbies and media interests on me. \"No, let's listen to this\" she'll say in the car while we're playing the radio, or \"Why do you go to the gym so often? Stay home, babe, and watch New Girl with me.\"\n\nThis behavior is starting to aggravate me and I begin denying her requests. She starts getting more belligerent in her remarks and starts guilt tripping me, telling me \"You don't care about me, you're so inconsiderate to my feelings.\" \n\nAbout a week later I'm driving her home and she's playing some god awful pop radio station I've never heard of. I get this funny idea to play \"Kill You\" by Eminem on full blast while we're driving through the neighborhood because at this point I don't care anymore. She starts yelling something at me but I can't hear her over the music, plus I have the windows open. \n\nAll we hear is \"Sl*t, you think I won't choke no wh*re?!? Til the vocal cords don't work in her throat no more?!\". The look of resolve and assertiveness on her face dissolved completely, she was in horror and I was laughing my ass off. At one point she started screeching and assaulting me as I repelled her from the sound control panel. \n\nWell, I drove her home. She ran out while screaming at me and we haven't spoken since. I'm not sure how I feel about all this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, growing up I had a lot of issues with my childhood. My parents are drug addicts. My mother is a prostitute. My dad is a pimp. I was involved an underground child pornography/prostitution (though no penetration happened) ring. I grew up very severely abused emotionally, mentally, sexually, and physically. \n\nI was really lucky and got out of the ring at around 10 and cut my parents out of my life at 12 (mother) and 15 (father). I went through a couple periods of psychotic depression and anxiety but I've been \"clean\" for the last 2 years. I went through intensive therapy and still go to therapy occasionally. I'm very normal now. I'm a mostly happy person, I have a great support group of friends, I go to university, have a job, and many hobbies. \n\nIn short, I've become a really well adjusted and healthy person and worked really hard to get where I am. \n\nBut after dating for a while I've noticed when these things come to light people don't want to see me any longer. I don't really bring them up but they usually come up by the 4-6 month mark. I make a point of not going into detail. mostly saying that I had a bad childhood; maybe a mention of drug use and not speaking to my parents anymore. Twice now, I've been dumped for the sole reason that my past makes them feel uncomfortable. \n\nI'm still dating now and very happy with my relationships but I'm worried about the next time I get serious with someone and how they'll react but I don't think it's fair to keep things from them if they ask. \n\nSo, my questions are: \n\n* How do I handle these questions?\n* Does my past make me extremely undesirable even though I'm a healthy person now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, growing up I had a lot of issues with my childhood. My parents are drug addicts. My mother is a prostitute. My dad is a pimp. I was involved an underground child pornography/prostitution (though no penetration happened) ring. I grew up very severely abused emotionally, mentally, sexually, and physically. \n\nI was really lucky and got out of the ring at around 10 and cut my parents out of my life at 12 (mother) and 15 (father). I went through a couple periods of psychotic depression and anxiety but I've been \"clean\" for the last 2 years. I went through intensive therapy and still go to therapy occasionally. I'm very normal now. I'm a mostly happy person, I have a great support group of friends, I go to university, have a job, and many hobbies. \n\nIn short, I've become a really well adjusted and healthy person and worked really hard to get where I am. \n\nBut after dating for a while I've noticed when these things come to light people don't want to see me any longer. I don't really bring them up but they usually come up by the 4-6 month mark. I make a point of not going into detail. mostly saying that I had a bad childhood; maybe a mention of drug use and not speaking to my parents anymore. Twice now, I've been dumped for the sole reason that my past makes them feel uncomfortable. \n\nI'm still dating now and very happy with my relationships but I'm worried about the next time I get serious with someone and how they'll react but I don't think it's fair to keep things from them if they ask. \n\nSo, my questions are: \n\n* How do I handle these questions?\n* Does my past make me extremely undesirable even though I'm a healthy person now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, growing up I had a lot of issues with my childhood. My parents are drug addicts. My mother is a prostitute. My dad is a pimp. I was involved an underground child pornography/prostitution (though no penetration happened) ring. I grew up very severely abused emotionally, mentally, sexually, and physically. \n\nI was really lucky and got out of the ring at around 10 and cut my parents out of my life at 12 (mother) and 15 (father). I went through a couple periods of psychotic depression and anxiety but I've been \"clean\" for the last 2 years. I went through intensive therapy and still go to therapy occasionally. I'm very normal now. I'm a mostly happy person, I have a great support group of friends, I go to university, have a job, and many hobbies. \n\nIn short, I've become a really well adjusted and healthy person and worked really hard to get where I am. \n\nBut after dating for a while I've noticed when these things come to light people don't want to see me any longer. I don't really bring them up but they usually come up by the 4-6 month mark. I make a point of not going into detail. mostly saying that I had a bad childhood; maybe a mention of drug use and not speaking to my parents anymore. Twice now, I've been dumped for the sole reason that my past makes them feel uncomfortable. \n\nI'm still dating now and very happy with my relationships but I'm worried about the next time I get serious with someone and how they'll react but I don't think it's fair to keep things from them if they ask. \n\nSo, my questions are: \n\n* How do I handle these questions?\n* Does my past make me extremely undesirable even though I'm a healthy person now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, growing up I had a lot of issues with my childhood. My parents are drug addicts. My mother is a prostitute. My dad is a pimp. I was involved an underground child pornography/prostitution (though no penetration happened) ring. I grew up very severely abused emotionally, mentally, sexually, and physically. \n\nI was really lucky and got out of the ring at around 10 and cut my parents out of my life at 12 (mother) and 15 (father). I went through a couple periods of psychotic depression and anxiety but I've been \"clean\" for the last 2 years. I went through intensive therapy and still go to therapy occasionally. I'm very normal now. I'm a mostly happy person, I have a great support group of friends, I go to university, have a job, and many hobbies. \n\nIn short, I've become a really well adjusted and healthy person and worked really hard to get where I am. \n\nBut after dating for a while I've noticed when these things come to light people don't want to see me any longer. I don't really bring them up but they usually come up by the 4-6 month mark. I make a point of not going into detail. mostly saying that I had a bad childhood; maybe a mention of drug use and not speaking to my parents anymore. Twice now, I've been dumped for the sole reason that my past makes them feel uncomfortable. \n\nI'm still dating now and very happy with my relationships but I'm worried about the next time I get serious with someone and how they'll react but I don't think it's fair to keep things from them if they ask. \n\nSo, my questions are: \n\n* How do I handle these questions?\n* Does my past make me extremely undesirable even though I'm a healthy person now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, growing up I had a lot of issues with my childhood. My parents are drug addicts. My mother is a prostitute. My dad is a pimp. I was involved an underground child pornography/prostitution (though no penetration happened) ring. I grew up very severely abused emotionally, mentally, sexually, and physically. \n\nI was really lucky and got out of the ring at around 10 and cut my parents out of my life at 12 (mother) and 15 (father). I went through a couple periods of psychotic depression and anxiety but I've been \"clean\" for the last 2 years. I went through intensive therapy and still go to therapy occasionally. I'm very normal now. I'm a mostly happy person, I have a great support group of friends, I go to university, have a job, and many hobbies. \n\nIn short, I've become a really well adjusted and healthy person and worked really hard to get where I am. \n\nBut after dating for a while I've noticed when these things come to light people don't want to see me any longer. I don't really bring them up but they usually come up by the 4-6 month mark. I make a point of not going into detail. mostly saying that I had a bad childhood; maybe a mention of drug use and not speaking to my parents anymore. Twice now, I've been dumped for the sole reason that my past makes them feel uncomfortable. \n\nI'm still dating now and very happy with my relationships but I'm worried about the next time I get serious with someone and how they'll react but I don't think it's fair to keep things from them if they ask. \n\nSo, my questions are: \n\n* How do I handle these questions?\n* Does my past make me extremely undesirable even though I'm a healthy person now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, growing up I had a lot of issues with my childhood. My parents are drug addicts. My mother is a prostitute. My dad is a pimp. I was involved an underground child pornography/prostitution (though no penetration happened) ring. I grew up very severely abused emotionally, mentally, sexually, and physically. \n\nI was really lucky and got out of the ring at around 10 and cut my parents out of my life at 12 (mother) and 15 (father). I went through a couple periods of psychotic depression and anxiety but I've been \"clean\" for the last 2 years. I went through intensive therapy and still go to therapy occasionally. I'm very normal now. I'm a mostly happy person, I have a great support group of friends, I go to university, have a job, and many hobbies. \n\nIn short, I've become a really well adjusted and healthy person and worked really hard to get where I am. \n\nBut after dating for a while I've noticed when these things come to light people don't want to see me any longer. I don't really bring them up but they usually come up by the 4-6 month mark. I make a point of not going into detail. mostly saying that I had a bad childhood; maybe a mention of drug use and not speaking to my parents anymore. Twice now, I've been dumped for the sole reason that my past makes them feel uncomfortable. \n\nI'm still dating now and very happy with my relationships but I'm worried about the next time I get serious with someone and how they'll react but I don't think it's fair to keep things from them if they ask. \n\nSo, my questions are: \n\n* How do I handle these questions?\n* Does my past make me extremely undesirable even though I'm a healthy person now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for over a year now and I feel very insecure and bad about myself from him liking suggestive photos of girls he's had a past with while being in a relationship with me. He has also liked photos of many half naked girls on instagram and followed many. \n\nNone of these girls look like me. It's not like a type thing. I feel like he isn't attracted to me at all. \n\nIt has made me feel really insecure, which was already slightly there. I have recently spoken to him about how this made me feel. He did apologies however it still comes into my head at times. \n\nI've always been really scared he might one day cheat on me and it is my biggest fear. I can't keep bringing it up that it upsets me still. He might get sick of hearing it, and then never listen to things like that again.\n\nI feel really bad about myself, as if I'm really not good enough. I feel like the insecurity is with me, like it's my problem with my outlook on myself. He is a human, he can look at other people. There's not much I can do to stop that.\n\nI'm slightly embarrassed that his friends would have seen him like photos of this girl he has had a past with while with me. All his friends back home know this girl (he's away at university, where I met him). \n\nI don't know if I'm just taking it too personally. There are other factors that slightly impact this. We don't have sex very frequently. Not as much as I would like. The majority of time I am rejected; hes too tired, not in the mood or it's the wrong time. \n\nI feel like hes really unattracted to me and that he doesn't want me, resulting in me feeling bad about myself and the way I look. \n\nI have spoken to him about everything but I still feel like this and I just need a bit of advice as to stop feeling like this or if I am just overreacting and taking it far too personally."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for over a year now and I feel very insecure and bad about myself from him liking suggestive photos of girls he's had a past with while being in a relationship with me. He has also liked photos of many half naked girls on instagram and followed many. \n\nNone of these girls look like me. It's not like a type thing. I feel like he isn't attracted to me at all. \n\nIt has made me feel really insecure, which was already slightly there. I have recently spoken to him about how this made me feel. He did apologies however it still comes into my head at times. \n\nI've always been really scared he might one day cheat on me and it is my biggest fear. I can't keep bringing it up that it upsets me still. He might get sick of hearing it, and then never listen to things like that again.\n\nI feel really bad about myself, as if I'm really not good enough. I feel like the insecurity is with me, like it's my problem with my outlook on myself. He is a human, he can look at other people. There's not much I can do to stop that.\n\nI'm slightly embarrassed that his friends would have seen him like photos of this girl he has had a past with while with me. All his friends back home know this girl (he's away at university, where I met him). \n\nI don't know if I'm just taking it too personally. There are other factors that slightly impact this. We don't have sex very frequently. Not as much as I would like. The majority of time I am rejected; hes too tired, not in the mood or it's the wrong time. \n\nI feel like hes really unattracted to me and that he doesn't want me, resulting in me feeling bad about myself and the way I look. \n\nI have spoken to him about everything but I still feel like this and I just need a bit of advice as to stop feeling like this or if I am just overreacting and taking it far too personally."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for over a year now and I feel very insecure and bad about myself from him liking suggestive photos of girls he's had a past with while being in a relationship with me. He has also liked photos of many half naked girls on instagram and followed many. \n\nNone of these girls look like me. It's not like a type thing. I feel like he isn't attracted to me at all. \n\nIt has made me feel really insecure, which was already slightly there. I have recently spoken to him about how this made me feel. He did apologies however it still comes into my head at times. \n\nI've always been really scared he might one day cheat on me and it is my biggest fear. I can't keep bringing it up that it upsets me still. He might get sick of hearing it, and then never listen to things like that again.\n\nI feel really bad about myself, as if I'm really not good enough. I feel like the insecurity is with me, like it's my problem with my outlook on myself. He is a human, he can look at other people. There's not much I can do to stop that.\n\nI'm slightly embarrassed that his friends would have seen him like photos of this girl he has had a past with while with me. All his friends back home know this girl (he's away at university, where I met him). \n\nI don't know if I'm just taking it too personally. There are other factors that slightly impact this. We don't have sex very frequently. Not as much as I would like. The majority of time I am rejected; hes too tired, not in the mood or it's the wrong time. \n\nI feel like hes really unattracted to me and that he doesn't want me, resulting in me feeling bad about myself and the way I look. \n\nI have spoken to him about everything but I still feel like this and I just need a bit of advice as to stop feeling like this or if I am just overreacting and taking it far too personally."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for over a year now and I feel very insecure and bad about myself from him liking suggestive photos of girls he's had a past with while being in a relationship with me. He has also liked photos of many half naked girls on instagram and followed many. \n\nNone of these girls look like me. It's not like a type thing. I feel like he isn't attracted to me at all. \n\nIt has made me feel really insecure, which was already slightly there. I have recently spoken to him about how this made me feel. He did apologies however it still comes into my head at times. \n\nI've always been really scared he might one day cheat on me and it is my biggest fear. I can't keep bringing it up that it upsets me still. He might get sick of hearing it, and then never listen to things like that again.\n\nI feel really bad about myself, as if I'm really not good enough. I feel like the insecurity is with me, like it's my problem with my outlook on myself. He is a human, he can look at other people. There's not much I can do to stop that.\n\nI'm slightly embarrassed that his friends would have seen him like photos of this girl he has had a past with while with me. All his friends back home know this girl (he's away at university, where I met him). \n\nI don't know if I'm just taking it too personally. There are other factors that slightly impact this. We don't have sex very frequently. Not as much as I would like. The majority of time I am rejected; hes too tired, not in the mood or it's the wrong time. \n\nI feel like hes really unattracted to me and that he doesn't want me, resulting in me feeling bad about myself and the way I look. \n\nI have spoken to him about everything but I still feel like this and I just need a bit of advice as to stop feeling like this or if I am just overreacting and taking it far too personally."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for over a year now and I feel very insecure and bad about myself from him liking suggestive photos of girls he's had a past with while being in a relationship with me. He has also liked photos of many half naked girls on instagram and followed many. \n\nNone of these girls look like me. It's not like a type thing. I feel like he isn't attracted to me at all. \n\nIt has made me feel really insecure, which was already slightly there. I have recently spoken to him about how this made me feel. He did apologies however it still comes into my head at times. \n\nI've always been really scared he might one day cheat on me and it is my biggest fear. I can't keep bringing it up that it upsets me still. He might get sick of hearing it, and then never listen to things like that again.\n\nI feel really bad about myself, as if I'm really not good enough. I feel like the insecurity is with me, like it's my problem with my outlook on myself. He is a human, he can look at other people. There's not much I can do to stop that.\n\nI'm slightly embarrassed that his friends would have seen him like photos of this girl he has had a past with while with me. All his friends back home know this girl (he's away at university, where I met him). \n\nI don't know if I'm just taking it too personally. There are other factors that slightly impact this. We don't have sex very frequently. Not as much as I would like. The majority of time I am rejected; hes too tired, not in the mood or it's the wrong time. \n\nI feel like hes really unattracted to me and that he doesn't want me, resulting in me feeling bad about myself and the way I look. \n\nI have spoken to him about everything but I still feel like this and I just need a bit of advice as to stop feeling like this or if I am just overreacting and taking it far too personally."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for over a year now and I feel very insecure and bad about myself from him liking suggestive photos of girls he's had a past with while being in a relationship with me. He has also liked photos of many half naked girls on instagram and followed many. \n\nNone of these girls look like me. It's not like a type thing. I feel like he isn't attracted to me at all. \n\nIt has made me feel really insecure, which was already slightly there. I have recently spoken to him about how this made me feel. He did apologies however it still comes into my head at times. \n\nI've always been really scared he might one day cheat on me and it is my biggest fear. I can't keep bringing it up that it upsets me still. He might get sick of hearing it, and then never listen to things like that again.\n\nI feel really bad about myself, as if I'm really not good enough. I feel like the insecurity is with me, like it's my problem with my outlook on myself. He is a human, he can look at other people. There's not much I can do to stop that.\n\nI'm slightly embarrassed that his friends would have seen him like photos of this girl he has had a past with while with me. All his friends back home know this girl (he's away at university, where I met him). \n\nI don't know if I'm just taking it too personally. There are other factors that slightly impact this. We don't have sex very frequently. Not as much as I would like. The majority of time I am rejected; hes too tired, not in the mood or it's the wrong time. \n\nI feel like hes really unattracted to me and that he doesn't want me, resulting in me feeling bad about myself and the way I look. \n\nI have spoken to him about everything but I still feel like this and I just need a bit of advice as to stop feeling like this or if I am just overreacting and taking it far too personally."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this actually happened a couple years back. Me and my girlfriend had recently just moved in together and had sat down to watch a movie one night. A little ways into the movie she decided it would fun to start tickling me, I'm extremely ticklish so it didn't take long for things to go horribly wrong. I was laying on my stomach and she went for a spot on the back of my leg and in my panic I swung around and managed to knee her in the face.\n\nMostly stunned at first and in some pain she shook it off and we continued to watch the movie, until she noticed a clear like fluid dripping out of her nose. So we went to the emergency room to have her examined and what the fluid turned out to be was cerebrospinal fluid. So the fluid surrounding her brain was leaking causing it to sink on her brain stem and she began to have low pressure headaches.\n\nThey put a drain into her spine to help relieve pressure off of the leak in her skull, but during the procedure the tech had missed his entry point and had mistakenly herniated one of her discs. As a result of this two of her vertebrae collapsed and are now putting pressure on a nerve. It has been over four years since that has happened, she has had a surgery to fix her collapsed septum, and will have several more procedures placing localized pain killers on her nerve endings to help her sciatica she now has as a result of the pressure from her vertebrae. Once they have the sciatica under control they will prepare her spine for surgery and begin the repair process on her vertebrae and herniated disc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this actually happened a couple years back. Me and my girlfriend had recently just moved in together and had sat down to watch a movie one night. A little ways into the movie she decided it would fun to start tickling me, I'm extremely ticklish so it didn't take long for things to go horribly wrong. I was laying on my stomach and she went for a spot on the back of my leg and in my panic I swung around and managed to knee her in the face.\n\nMostly stunned at first and in some pain she shook it off and we continued to watch the movie, until she noticed a clear like fluid dripping out of her nose. So we went to the emergency room to have her examined and what the fluid turned out to be was cerebrospinal fluid. So the fluid surrounding her brain was leaking causing it to sink on her brain stem and she began to have low pressure headaches.\n\nThey put a drain into her spine to help relieve pressure off of the leak in her skull, but during the procedure the tech had missed his entry point and had mistakenly herniated one of her discs. As a result of this two of her vertebrae collapsed and are now putting pressure on a nerve. It has been over four years since that has happened, she has had a surgery to fix her collapsed septum, and will have several more procedures placing localized pain killers on her nerve endings to help her sciatica she now has as a result of the pressure from her vertebrae. Once they have the sciatica under control they will prepare her spine for surgery and begin the repair process on her vertebrae and herniated disc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this actually happened a couple years back. Me and my girlfriend had recently just moved in together and had sat down to watch a movie one night. A little ways into the movie she decided it would fun to start tickling me, I'm extremely ticklish so it didn't take long for things to go horribly wrong. I was laying on my stomach and she went for a spot on the back of my leg and in my panic I swung around and managed to knee her in the face.\n\nMostly stunned at first and in some pain she shook it off and we continued to watch the movie, until she noticed a clear like fluid dripping out of her nose. So we went to the emergency room to have her examined and what the fluid turned out to be was cerebrospinal fluid. So the fluid surrounding her brain was leaking causing it to sink on her brain stem and she began to have low pressure headaches.\n\nThey put a drain into her spine to help relieve pressure off of the leak in her skull, but during the procedure the tech had missed his entry point and had mistakenly herniated one of her discs. As a result of this two of her vertebrae collapsed and are now putting pressure on a nerve. It has been over four years since that has happened, she has had a surgery to fix her collapsed septum, and will have several more procedures placing localized pain killers on her nerve endings to help her sciatica she now has as a result of the pressure from her vertebrae. Once they have the sciatica under control they will prepare her spine for surgery and begin the repair process on her vertebrae and herniated disc."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This post is an update to this [one](\n\nI never ended up seeing Jess that week, but today my co-worker (and mom) told me that Jess stopped by my store looking for me and my sister. My mom said she was there \"with a girl.\" But left quickly when she didn't see us. Apparently the girl (her american gf) said \"but you wanted to stop here!\" as Jess was leaving the store. I explained to my mom that a few weeks ago Jess invited me and my sister to a boat dance cruise taking place tomorrow, so I'm sure she stopped by my store to ask if we were still going (and to show off her new gf lol -_-)\n\nHonestly, I'm really glad I didn't see Jess today. I wasn't prepared lol \n\nBUT I plan to FINALLY send Jess a message either tonight or tomorrow morning. I was gonna say \"Hey, I won't be able to make it. Completely forgot I already made plans to see this girl. Thanks for inviting anyway~ Also this is kinda random but back in Feb I saw a fb post you made about how people don't like black people unless it's a fetish, just a couple of days after hanging out with me and toni. Not gonna lie it felt like a low-key jab at us, and it shocked and disappointed me. That's why I distanced myself; I don't really know where we stand anymore.\" \n\nPlease let me know what you think of that message, I could really use some feedback. And definitely feel free to tell me what you would say. Thanks for reading!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This post is an update to this [one](\n\nI never ended up seeing Jess that week, but today my co-worker (and mom) told me that Jess stopped by my store looking for me and my sister. My mom said she was there \"with a girl.\" But left quickly when she didn't see us. Apparently the girl (her american gf) said \"but you wanted to stop here!\" as Jess was leaving the store. I explained to my mom that a few weeks ago Jess invited me and my sister to a boat dance cruise taking place tomorrow, so I'm sure she stopped by my store to ask if we were still going (and to show off her new gf lol -_-)\n\nHonestly, I'm really glad I didn't see Jess today. I wasn't prepared lol \n\nBUT I plan to FINALLY send Jess a message either tonight or tomorrow morning. I was gonna say \"Hey, I won't be able to make it. Completely forgot I already made plans to see this girl. Thanks for inviting anyway~ Also this is kinda random but back in Feb I saw a fb post you made about how people don't like black people unless it's a fetish, just a couple of days after hanging out with me and toni. Not gonna lie it felt like a low-key jab at us, and it shocked and disappointed me. That's why I distanced myself; I don't really know where we stand anymore.\" \n\nPlease let me know what you think of that message, I could really use some feedback. And definitely feel free to tell me what you would say. Thanks for reading!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This post is an update to this [one](\n\nI never ended up seeing Jess that week, but today my co-worker (and mom) told me that Jess stopped by my store looking for me and my sister. My mom said she was there \"with a girl.\" But left quickly when she didn't see us. Apparently the girl (her american gf) said \"but you wanted to stop here!\" as Jess was leaving the store. I explained to my mom that a few weeks ago Jess invited me and my sister to a boat dance cruise taking place tomorrow, so I'm sure she stopped by my store to ask if we were still going (and to show off her new gf lol -_-)\n\nHonestly, I'm really glad I didn't see Jess today. I wasn't prepared lol \n\nBUT I plan to FINALLY send Jess a message either tonight or tomorrow morning. I was gonna say \"Hey, I won't be able to make it. Completely forgot I already made plans to see this girl. Thanks for inviting anyway~ Also this is kinda random but back in Feb I saw a fb post you made about how people don't like black people unless it's a fetish, just a couple of days after hanging out with me and toni. Not gonna lie it felt like a low-key jab at us, and it shocked and disappointed me. That's why I distanced myself; I don't really know where we stand anymore.\" \n\nPlease let me know what you think of that message, I could really use some feedback. And definitely feel free to tell me what you would say. Thanks for reading!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This wasn't today, this was in the summer of '95.\n\nI was making decent money living at home and lifeguarding during the summer. Had a car that I had saved up to install a sound system. I got Infinity speakers, Alpine V12 amp, and a [Sony CDX-C910] head unit. This head unit was the most expensive, therefore best (teenager, remember) thing I could buy. It had to be professionally installed by an authorized Sony installer to not void the warranty (or some such bs).\n\nAnyway, it is an amazing CD player, hooked up to a nice amp, powering decent speakers in a bad environment for music; I loved every bit of it.\n\nNow for those who can't imagine it now, we used to have to go to the store to buy CDs. I lived in a smaller town, but we had a store within about ~10 miles that i bought some of my rarer imports from. Stuff you wouldn't find in the mall.\n\nOne day my head unit died, no display, no power. I didn't think to try and manually remove whatever CD was in there. I scheduled an appointment with the installer of the head unit and a few days later, took it in. I didn't have a ride, but it was my day off, so I grabbed some CDs out of the car and went into their sound room and chilled out for a few hours reading magazines. Yes, I said hours(!). About 3 hours later the installer comes out and finds me. He explained that they thought it was something simple like a blown fuse. They found a blown fuse and replaced it, but the sound was horrible. They troubleshot the whole unit before replacing it. Twice. They couldn't figure out what was going on until they swapped out the CD. That's when he held up the CD I was listening to at the time it died, [Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God (halo nine UK import)] disc 2, and I it all hit me.\n\nFor those that have never heard it - here's the first song on that CD ([Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God]("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This wasn't today, this was in the summer of '95.\n\nI was making decent money living at home and lifeguarding during the summer. Had a car that I had saved up to install a sound system. I got Infinity speakers, Alpine V12 amp, and a [Sony CDX-C910] head unit. This head unit was the most expensive, therefore best (teenager, remember) thing I could buy. It had to be professionally installed by an authorized Sony installer to not void the warranty (or some such bs).\n\nAnyway, it is an amazing CD player, hooked up to a nice amp, powering decent speakers in a bad environment for music; I loved every bit of it.\n\nNow for those who can't imagine it now, we used to have to go to the store to buy CDs. I lived in a smaller town, but we had a store within about ~10 miles that i bought some of my rarer imports from. Stuff you wouldn't find in the mall.\n\nOne day my head unit died, no display, no power. I didn't think to try and manually remove whatever CD was in there. I scheduled an appointment with the installer of the head unit and a few days later, took it in. I didn't have a ride, but it was my day off, so I grabbed some CDs out of the car and went into their sound room and chilled out for a few hours reading magazines. Yes, I said hours(!). About 3 hours later the installer comes out and finds me. He explained that they thought it was something simple like a blown fuse. They found a blown fuse and replaced it, but the sound was horrible. They troubleshot the whole unit before replacing it. Twice. They couldn't figure out what was going on until they swapped out the CD. That's when he held up the CD I was listening to at the time it died, [Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God (halo nine UK import)] disc 2, and I it all hit me.\n\nFor those that have never heard it - here's the first song on that CD ([Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God]("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This wasn't today, this was in the summer of '95.\n\nI was making decent money living at home and lifeguarding during the summer. Had a car that I had saved up to install a sound system. I got Infinity speakers, Alpine V12 amp, and a [Sony CDX-C910] head unit. This head unit was the most expensive, therefore best (teenager, remember) thing I could buy. It had to be professionally installed by an authorized Sony installer to not void the warranty (or some such bs).\n\nAnyway, it is an amazing CD player, hooked up to a nice amp, powering decent speakers in a bad environment for music; I loved every bit of it.\n\nNow for those who can't imagine it now, we used to have to go to the store to buy CDs. I lived in a smaller town, but we had a store within about ~10 miles that i bought some of my rarer imports from. Stuff you wouldn't find in the mall.\n\nOne day my head unit died, no display, no power. I didn't think to try and manually remove whatever CD was in there. I scheduled an appointment with the installer of the head unit and a few days later, took it in. I didn't have a ride, but it was my day off, so I grabbed some CDs out of the car and went into their sound room and chilled out for a few hours reading magazines. Yes, I said hours(!). About 3 hours later the installer comes out and finds me. He explained that they thought it was something simple like a blown fuse. They found a blown fuse and replaced it, but the sound was horrible. They troubleshot the whole unit before replacing it. Twice. They couldn't figure out what was going on until they swapped out the CD. That's when he held up the CD I was listening to at the time it died, [Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God (halo nine UK import)] disc 2, and I it all hit me.\n\nFor those that have never heard it - here's the first song on that CD ([Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God]("
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