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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This wasn't today, this was in the summer of '95.\n\nI was making decent money living at home and lifeguarding during the summer. Had a car that I had saved up to install a sound system. I got Infinity speakers, Alpine V12 amp, and a [Sony CDX-C910] head unit. This head unit was the most expensive, therefore best (teenager, remember) thing I could buy. It had to be professionally installed by an authorized Sony installer to not void the warranty (or some such bs).\n\nAnyway, it is an amazing CD player, hooked up to a nice amp, powering decent speakers in a bad environment for music; I loved every bit of it.\n\nNow for those who can't imagine it now, we used to have to go to the store to buy CDs. I lived in a smaller town, but we had a store within about ~10 miles that i bought some of my rarer imports from. Stuff you wouldn't find in the mall.\n\nOne day my head unit died, no display, no power. I didn't think to try and manually remove whatever CD was in there. I scheduled an appointment with the installer of the head unit and a few days later, took it in. I didn't have a ride, but it was my day off, so I grabbed some CDs out of the car and went into their sound room and chilled out for a few hours reading magazines. Yes, I said hours(!). About 3 hours later the installer comes out and finds me. He explained that they thought it was something simple like a blown fuse. They found a blown fuse and replaced it, but the sound was horrible. They troubleshot the whole unit before replacing it. Twice. They couldn't figure out what was going on until they swapped out the CD. That's when he held up the CD I was listening to at the time it died, [Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God (halo nine UK import)] disc 2, and I it all hit me.\n\nFor those that have never heard it - here's the first song on that CD ([Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God]("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This wasn't today, this was in the summer of '95.\n\nI was making decent money living at home and lifeguarding during the summer. Had a car that I had saved up to install a sound system. I got Infinity speakers, Alpine V12 amp, and a [Sony CDX-C910] head unit. This head unit was the most expensive, therefore best (teenager, remember) thing I could buy. It had to be professionally installed by an authorized Sony installer to not void the warranty (or some such bs).\n\nAnyway, it is an amazing CD player, hooked up to a nice amp, powering decent speakers in a bad environment for music; I loved every bit of it.\n\nNow for those who can't imagine it now, we used to have to go to the store to buy CDs. I lived in a smaller town, but we had a store within about ~10 miles that i bought some of my rarer imports from. Stuff you wouldn't find in the mall.\n\nOne day my head unit died, no display, no power. I didn't think to try and manually remove whatever CD was in there. I scheduled an appointment with the installer of the head unit and a few days later, took it in. I didn't have a ride, but it was my day off, so I grabbed some CDs out of the car and went into their sound room and chilled out for a few hours reading magazines. Yes, I said hours(!). About 3 hours later the installer comes out and finds me. He explained that they thought it was something simple like a blown fuse. They found a blown fuse and replaced it, but the sound was horrible. They troubleshot the whole unit before replacing it. Twice. They couldn't figure out what was going on until they swapped out the CD. That's when he held up the CD I was listening to at the time it died, [Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God (halo nine UK import)] disc 2, and I it all hit me.\n\nFor those that have never heard it - here's the first song on that CD ([Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God]("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This wasn't today, this was in the summer of '95.\n\nI was making decent money living at home and lifeguarding during the summer. Had a car that I had saved up to install a sound system. I got Infinity speakers, Alpine V12 amp, and a [Sony CDX-C910] head unit. This head unit was the most expensive, therefore best (teenager, remember) thing I could buy. It had to be professionally installed by an authorized Sony installer to not void the warranty (or some such bs).\n\nAnyway, it is an amazing CD player, hooked up to a nice amp, powering decent speakers in a bad environment for music; I loved every bit of it.\n\nNow for those who can't imagine it now, we used to have to go to the store to buy CDs. I lived in a smaller town, but we had a store within about ~10 miles that i bought some of my rarer imports from. Stuff you wouldn't find in the mall.\n\nOne day my head unit died, no display, no power. I didn't think to try and manually remove whatever CD was in there. I scheduled an appointment with the installer of the head unit and a few days later, took it in. I didn't have a ride, but it was my day off, so I grabbed some CDs out of the car and went into their sound room and chilled out for a few hours reading magazines. Yes, I said hours(!). About 3 hours later the installer comes out and finds me. He explained that they thought it was something simple like a blown fuse. They found a blown fuse and replaced it, but the sound was horrible. They troubleshot the whole unit before replacing it. Twice. They couldn't figure out what was going on until they swapped out the CD. That's when he held up the CD I was listening to at the time it died, [Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God (halo nine UK import)] disc 2, and I it all hit me.\n\nFor those that have never heard it - here's the first song on that CD ([Nine Inch Nails - Closer to God]("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm on summer break from college and I'm entering my senior year, working in the middle of nowhere. I've spent the last two-three years gaming like a fiend.\n\nMost of the people who have made my acquaintance have been batshit (we're talking stabby-stabby stalker level) insane, and I find it very hard to see the good in people who approach me because of that (though I am trying to be more positive about people). I don't know how to strike up a conversation with people (unless it's about computers) and all of the guys who have approached me are just interested in fucking me because of the way I look.\n\nI'd like to expand my interests into something that is more than computers in gaming (sorry nerds, I think you're cool and all, but I don't think that staying with the same kind of people all the time is healthy.) Meetup.com currently only has Japanese Animation Club and something about stay home mothers in my area, so I guess I should start trying to teach myself to be less awkward. Any tips?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm on summer break from college and I'm entering my senior year, working in the middle of nowhere. I've spent the last two-three years gaming like a fiend.\n\nMost of the people who have made my acquaintance have been batshit (we're talking stabby-stabby stalker level) insane, and I find it very hard to see the good in people who approach me because of that (though I am trying to be more positive about people). I don't know how to strike up a conversation with people (unless it's about computers) and all of the guys who have approached me are just interested in fucking me because of the way I look.\n\nI'd like to expand my interests into something that is more than computers in gaming (sorry nerds, I think you're cool and all, but I don't think that staying with the same kind of people all the time is healthy.) Meetup.com currently only has Japanese Animation Club and something about stay home mothers in my area, so I guess I should start trying to teach myself to be less awkward. Any tips?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm on summer break from college and I'm entering my senior year, working in the middle of nowhere. I've spent the last two-three years gaming like a fiend.\n\nMost of the people who have made my acquaintance have been batshit (we're talking stabby-stabby stalker level) insane, and I find it very hard to see the good in people who approach me because of that (though I am trying to be more positive about people). I don't know how to strike up a conversation with people (unless it's about computers) and all of the guys who have approached me are just interested in fucking me because of the way I look.\n\nI'd like to expand my interests into something that is more than computers in gaming (sorry nerds, I think you're cool and all, but I don't think that staying with the same kind of people all the time is healthy.) Meetup.com currently only has Japanese Animation Club and something about stay home mothers in my area, so I guess I should start trying to teach myself to be less awkward. Any tips?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Though not an update, this is a change in situation from a post I made previously, that I thought was open and shut. The other post has more background.\n\nPreviously: \n\n*Recap*\n\n\"Zoe\" [27F] is smart, successful, and kind. I should've confessed feelings for her long ago. I'm simultaneously more confident around her because she's a trusted friend, and less confident because she inspires me so much personally and professionally that I'd consider it a huge loss to lose her. But I missed my chance and then distanced myself from her for two months because we both have extremely busy careers I didn't want to get in the way of.\n\nLast week after reconnecting with her, I asked her out, but she wanted to bring another guy. At Reddit's encouragement, I asked her directly if she was single. Her response was that she is, and that the guy is just an acquaintance, but she stopped responding after that so I thought she wasn't interested, and that I had lost a valued friend.\n\nToday she reconnected, and is asking me out. Tonight. No mention of some other guy. I'm very confused. How to approach this with minimal awkwardness?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Though not an update, this is a change in situation from a post I made previously, that I thought was open and shut. The other post has more background.\n\nPreviously: \n\n*Recap*\n\n\"Zoe\" [27F] is smart, successful, and kind. I should've confessed feelings for her long ago. I'm simultaneously more confident around her because she's a trusted friend, and less confident because she inspires me so much personally and professionally that I'd consider it a huge loss to lose her. But I missed my chance and then distanced myself from her for two months because we both have extremely busy careers I didn't want to get in the way of.\n\nLast week after reconnecting with her, I asked her out, but she wanted to bring another guy. At Reddit's encouragement, I asked her directly if she was single. Her response was that she is, and that the guy is just an acquaintance, but she stopped responding after that so I thought she wasn't interested, and that I had lost a valued friend.\n\nToday she reconnected, and is asking me out. Tonight. No mention of some other guy. I'm very confused. How to approach this with minimal awkwardness?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Though not an update, this is a change in situation from a post I made previously, that I thought was open and shut. The other post has more background.\n\nPreviously: \n\n*Recap*\n\n\"Zoe\" [27F] is smart, successful, and kind. I should've confessed feelings for her long ago. I'm simultaneously more confident around her because she's a trusted friend, and less confident because she inspires me so much personally and professionally that I'd consider it a huge loss to lose her. But I missed my chance and then distanced myself from her for two months because we both have extremely busy careers I didn't want to get in the way of.\n\nLast week after reconnecting with her, I asked her out, but she wanted to bring another guy. At Reddit's encouragement, I asked her directly if she was single. Her response was that she is, and that the guy is just an acquaintance, but she stopped responding after that so I thought she wasn't interested, and that I had lost a valued friend.\n\nToday she reconnected, and is asking me out. Tonight. No mention of some other guy. I'm very confused. How to approach this with minimal awkwardness?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, as the title describes, I'm in a one and a half year relationship with my gf. Things have been going well until early/mid November where I really put things in perspective. \n\n3 months into the relationship, she told me she lied about having a car and said she is on her third learner's permit (she lied out of embarrassment). She confessed the truth, as I was about to meet her whole family on Christmas Eve, so I had to set that aside for the holidays. Also, it's at least a 35 minute/10 mile drive to her place from me; she's never completely attempted to come to me.\n\nThrough last year, I increasingly realized we have very different interests; she is into country music (especially the \"modern\" stuff), sticks to only a few favorite food things, still somewhat shy around me and my friends and loves Bravo. I'm into alternative rock, will try a lot of different food (except Nato; won't eat again), outgoing nerd who loves his video games.\n\nShe still has her learner's permit and can't afford a car since she's still paying student loans and the bills (she still lives w/ her parents). She's also losing her job really soon, but working on getting freelance work.\n\nNow that you have the background, here's my dilema: She's the first non-crazy girlfriend I've had and she's really sweet/kind. The crazy exes were easy to deal with, but her doesn't feel like it will be that easy. How can I prepare myself and let her down as easy as possible? (if possible)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, as the title describes, I'm in a one and a half year relationship with my gf. Things have been going well until early/mid November where I really put things in perspective. \n\n3 months into the relationship, she told me she lied about having a car and said she is on her third learner's permit (she lied out of embarrassment). She confessed the truth, as I was about to meet her whole family on Christmas Eve, so I had to set that aside for the holidays. Also, it's at least a 35 minute/10 mile drive to her place from me; she's never completely attempted to come to me.\n\nThrough last year, I increasingly realized we have very different interests; she is into country music (especially the \"modern\" stuff), sticks to only a few favorite food things, still somewhat shy around me and my friends and loves Bravo. I'm into alternative rock, will try a lot of different food (except Nato; won't eat again), outgoing nerd who loves his video games.\n\nShe still has her learner's permit and can't afford a car since she's still paying student loans and the bills (she still lives w/ her parents). She's also losing her job really soon, but working on getting freelance work.\n\nNow that you have the background, here's my dilema: She's the first non-crazy girlfriend I've had and she's really sweet/kind. The crazy exes were easy to deal with, but her doesn't feel like it will be that easy. How can I prepare myself and let her down as easy as possible? (if possible)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, as the title describes, I'm in a one and a half year relationship with my gf. Things have been going well until early/mid November where I really put things in perspective. \n\n3 months into the relationship, she told me she lied about having a car and said she is on her third learner's permit (she lied out of embarrassment). She confessed the truth, as I was about to meet her whole family on Christmas Eve, so I had to set that aside for the holidays. Also, it's at least a 35 minute/10 mile drive to her place from me; she's never completely attempted to come to me.\n\nThrough last year, I increasingly realized we have very different interests; she is into country music (especially the \"modern\" stuff), sticks to only a few favorite food things, still somewhat shy around me and my friends and loves Bravo. I'm into alternative rock, will try a lot of different food (except Nato; won't eat again), outgoing nerd who loves his video games.\n\nShe still has her learner's permit and can't afford a car since she's still paying student loans and the bills (she still lives w/ her parents). She's also losing her job really soon, but working on getting freelance work.\n\nNow that you have the background, here's my dilema: She's the first non-crazy girlfriend I've had and she's really sweet/kind. The crazy exes were easy to deal with, but her doesn't feel like it will be that easy. How can I prepare myself and let her down as easy as possible? (if possible)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, as the title describes, I'm in a one and a half year relationship with my gf. Things have been going well until early/mid November where I really put things in perspective. \n\n3 months into the relationship, she told me she lied about having a car and said she is on her third learner's permit (she lied out of embarrassment). She confessed the truth, as I was about to meet her whole family on Christmas Eve, so I had to set that aside for the holidays. Also, it's at least a 35 minute/10 mile drive to her place from me; she's never completely attempted to come to me.\n\nThrough last year, I increasingly realized we have very different interests; she is into country music (especially the \"modern\" stuff), sticks to only a few favorite food things, still somewhat shy around me and my friends and loves Bravo. I'm into alternative rock, will try a lot of different food (except Nato; won't eat again), outgoing nerd who loves his video games.\n\nShe still has her learner's permit and can't afford a car since she's still paying student loans and the bills (she still lives w/ her parents). She's also losing her job really soon, but working on getting freelance work.\n\nNow that you have the background, here's my dilema: She's the first non-crazy girlfriend I've had and she's really sweet/kind. The crazy exes were easy to deal with, but her doesn't feel like it will be that easy. How can I prepare myself and let her down as easy as possible? (if possible)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, as the title describes, I'm in a one and a half year relationship with my gf. Things have been going well until early/mid November where I really put things in perspective. \n\n3 months into the relationship, she told me she lied about having a car and said she is on her third learner's permit (she lied out of embarrassment). She confessed the truth, as I was about to meet her whole family on Christmas Eve, so I had to set that aside for the holidays. Also, it's at least a 35 minute/10 mile drive to her place from me; she's never completely attempted to come to me.\n\nThrough last year, I increasingly realized we have very different interests; she is into country music (especially the \"modern\" stuff), sticks to only a few favorite food things, still somewhat shy around me and my friends and loves Bravo. I'm into alternative rock, will try a lot of different food (except Nato; won't eat again), outgoing nerd who loves his video games.\n\nShe still has her learner's permit and can't afford a car since she's still paying student loans and the bills (she still lives w/ her parents). She's also losing her job really soon, but working on getting freelance work.\n\nNow that you have the background, here's my dilema: She's the first non-crazy girlfriend I've had and she's really sweet/kind. The crazy exes were easy to deal with, but her doesn't feel like it will be that easy. How can I prepare myself and let her down as easy as possible? (if possible)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, as the title describes, I'm in a one and a half year relationship with my gf. Things have been going well until early/mid November where I really put things in perspective. \n\n3 months into the relationship, she told me she lied about having a car and said she is on her third learner's permit (she lied out of embarrassment). She confessed the truth, as I was about to meet her whole family on Christmas Eve, so I had to set that aside for the holidays. Also, it's at least a 35 minute/10 mile drive to her place from me; she's never completely attempted to come to me.\n\nThrough last year, I increasingly realized we have very different interests; she is into country music (especially the \"modern\" stuff), sticks to only a few favorite food things, still somewhat shy around me and my friends and loves Bravo. I'm into alternative rock, will try a lot of different food (except Nato; won't eat again), outgoing nerd who loves his video games.\n\nShe still has her learner's permit and can't afford a car since she's still paying student loans and the bills (she still lives w/ her parents). She's also losing her job really soon, but working on getting freelance work.\n\nNow that you have the background, here's my dilema: She's the first non-crazy girlfriend I've had and she's really sweet/kind. The crazy exes were easy to deal with, but her doesn't feel like it will be that easy. How can I prepare myself and let her down as easy as possible? (if possible)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My co-worker62 calls me and my other co-worker (f42) \"Kid\". For example she'll say \"Kids when you get a minute can we get together and go over XYZ\" She does this a few times a month. It's really starting to get on my nerves. My co-worker and I are no where near \"kid\" age. \n\nAlso, co-worker62 has never been married or had children. So it's not like it's some kind of habit from being a mom. She's the program manager and my and co-worker42 are her alternates. I feel it's a way to \"put us in our place\". We work in a professional environment and all have higher education. (actually me and co-worker42 are more educated) \n\nHas anyone else dealt with this behavior from a co-worker?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My co-worker62 calls me and my other co-worker (f42) \"Kid\". For example she'll say \"Kids when you get a minute can we get together and go over XYZ\" She does this a few times a month. It's really starting to get on my nerves. My co-worker and I are no where near \"kid\" age. \n\nAlso, co-worker62 has never been married or had children. So it's not like it's some kind of habit from being a mom. She's the program manager and my and co-worker42 are her alternates. I feel it's a way to \"put us in our place\". We work in a professional environment and all have higher education. (actually me and co-worker42 are more educated) \n\nHas anyone else dealt with this behavior from a co-worker?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My co-worker62 calls me and my other co-worker (f42) \"Kid\". For example she'll say \"Kids when you get a minute can we get together and go over XYZ\" She does this a few times a month. It's really starting to get on my nerves. My co-worker and I are no where near \"kid\" age. \n\nAlso, co-worker62 has never been married or had children. So it's not like it's some kind of habit from being a mom. She's the program manager and my and co-worker42 are her alternates. I feel it's a way to \"put us in our place\". We work in a professional environment and all have higher education. (actually me and co-worker42 are more educated) \n\nHas anyone else dealt with this behavior from a co-worker?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My co-worker62 calls me and my other co-worker (f42) \"Kid\". For example she'll say \"Kids when you get a minute can we get together and go over XYZ\" She does this a few times a month. It's really starting to get on my nerves. My co-worker and I are no where near \"kid\" age. \n\nAlso, co-worker62 has never been married or had children. So it's not like it's some kind of habit from being a mom. She's the program manager and my and co-worker42 are her alternates. I feel it's a way to \"put us in our place\". We work in a professional environment and all have higher education. (actually me and co-worker42 are more educated) \n\nHas anyone else dealt with this behavior from a co-worker?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My co-worker62 calls me and my other co-worker (f42) \"Kid\". For example she'll say \"Kids when you get a minute can we get together and go over XYZ\" She does this a few times a month. It's really starting to get on my nerves. My co-worker and I are no where near \"kid\" age. \n\nAlso, co-worker62 has never been married or had children. So it's not like it's some kind of habit from being a mom. She's the program manager and my and co-worker42 are her alternates. I feel it's a way to \"put us in our place\". We work in a professional environment and all have higher education. (actually me and co-worker42 are more educated) \n\nHas anyone else dealt with this behavior from a co-worker?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My co-worker62 calls me and my other co-worker (f42) \"Kid\". For example she'll say \"Kids when you get a minute can we get together and go over XYZ\" She does this a few times a month. It's really starting to get on my nerves. My co-worker and I are no where near \"kid\" age. \n\nAlso, co-worker62 has never been married or had children. So it's not like it's some kind of habit from being a mom. She's the program manager and my and co-worker42 are her alternates. I feel it's a way to \"put us in our place\". We work in a professional environment and all have higher education. (actually me and co-worker42 are more educated) \n\nHas anyone else dealt with this behavior from a co-worker?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First post, so please, only kind insults. \n\nThe horrible fruit of this fuck-up was reaped today, but sown last week. I work for a university, and developed a small crush on a girl (medical student) in another building who works in a friend's department. I began swinging by for \"coffee\" (i.e. sheepishly making woo and spending precious few seconds with crush) pretty regularly. Ostensibly, I was there to see my friend, while I actually was plotting to get a few seconds alone with this girl so that I could ask her to, erm, spend more seconds alone. She's pretty quiet, and though I'm not, we both tend to get drowned out in conversation by her boss, my friend, and another person in the department who seems to be constantly incensed by something or another. \n\nSo one day, after a frustrating encounter in which we (crush and I) both sat silently while other people in the room took turns shouting about the outrage du jour, I decided to write her a note. I was pretty cute about it. Wrote it on a piece of paper from the legal pad I had at my desk, put it in an official departmental envelope, then slipped that into a big interdepartmental envelope to be delivered. Bureaucracy at its finest. \n\nIt showed up today. Her boss decided it'd be fun to have her read it aloud. I was very gentlemanly and upright with this note, but it still managed to piss just about everyone off. My crush was mortified, her boss went on a tirade about how staff members (me) shouldn't date medical students (her), and my friend had to basically play my attorney/PR rep for the rest of the day trying to mitigate the catastrophe. The boss, in a move I can either describe as overly maternal or overly 19th century, forbade her from dating me. \n\nAlso, her boss is one of my references on an important application I put in with another department. So, ya know, that's pretty neat too, I guess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First post, so please, only kind insults. \n\nThe horrible fruit of this fuck-up was reaped today, but sown last week. I work for a university, and developed a small crush on a girl (medical student) in another building who works in a friend's department. I began swinging by for \"coffee\" (i.e. sheepishly making woo and spending precious few seconds with crush) pretty regularly. Ostensibly, I was there to see my friend, while I actually was plotting to get a few seconds alone with this girl so that I could ask her to, erm, spend more seconds alone. She's pretty quiet, and though I'm not, we both tend to get drowned out in conversation by her boss, my friend, and another person in the department who seems to be constantly incensed by something or another. \n\nSo one day, after a frustrating encounter in which we (crush and I) both sat silently while other people in the room took turns shouting about the outrage du jour, I decided to write her a note. I was pretty cute about it. Wrote it on a piece of paper from the legal pad I had at my desk, put it in an official departmental envelope, then slipped that into a big interdepartmental envelope to be delivered. Bureaucracy at its finest. \n\nIt showed up today. Her boss decided it'd be fun to have her read it aloud. I was very gentlemanly and upright with this note, but it still managed to piss just about everyone off. My crush was mortified, her boss went on a tirade about how staff members (me) shouldn't date medical students (her), and my friend had to basically play my attorney/PR rep for the rest of the day trying to mitigate the catastrophe. The boss, in a move I can either describe as overly maternal or overly 19th century, forbade her from dating me. \n\nAlso, her boss is one of my references on an important application I put in with another department. So, ya know, that's pretty neat too, I guess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First post, so please, only kind insults. \n\nThe horrible fruit of this fuck-up was reaped today, but sown last week. I work for a university, and developed a small crush on a girl (medical student) in another building who works in a friend's department. I began swinging by for \"coffee\" (i.e. sheepishly making woo and spending precious few seconds with crush) pretty regularly. Ostensibly, I was there to see my friend, while I actually was plotting to get a few seconds alone with this girl so that I could ask her to, erm, spend more seconds alone. She's pretty quiet, and though I'm not, we both tend to get drowned out in conversation by her boss, my friend, and another person in the department who seems to be constantly incensed by something or another. \n\nSo one day, after a frustrating encounter in which we (crush and I) both sat silently while other people in the room took turns shouting about the outrage du jour, I decided to write her a note. I was pretty cute about it. Wrote it on a piece of paper from the legal pad I had at my desk, put it in an official departmental envelope, then slipped that into a big interdepartmental envelope to be delivered. Bureaucracy at its finest. \n\nIt showed up today. Her boss decided it'd be fun to have her read it aloud. I was very gentlemanly and upright with this note, but it still managed to piss just about everyone off. My crush was mortified, her boss went on a tirade about how staff members (me) shouldn't date medical students (her), and my friend had to basically play my attorney/PR rep for the rest of the day trying to mitigate the catastrophe. The boss, in a move I can either describe as overly maternal or overly 19th century, forbade her from dating me. \n\nAlso, her boss is one of my references on an important application I put in with another department. So, ya know, that's pretty neat too, I guess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First post, so please, only kind insults. \n\nThe horrible fruit of this fuck-up was reaped today, but sown last week. I work for a university, and developed a small crush on a girl (medical student) in another building who works in a friend's department. I began swinging by for \"coffee\" (i.e. sheepishly making woo and spending precious few seconds with crush) pretty regularly. Ostensibly, I was there to see my friend, while I actually was plotting to get a few seconds alone with this girl so that I could ask her to, erm, spend more seconds alone. She's pretty quiet, and though I'm not, we both tend to get drowned out in conversation by her boss, my friend, and another person in the department who seems to be constantly incensed by something or another. \n\nSo one day, after a frustrating encounter in which we (crush and I) both sat silently while other people in the room took turns shouting about the outrage du jour, I decided to write her a note. I was pretty cute about it. Wrote it on a piece of paper from the legal pad I had at my desk, put it in an official departmental envelope, then slipped that into a big interdepartmental envelope to be delivered. Bureaucracy at its finest. \n\nIt showed up today. Her boss decided it'd be fun to have her read it aloud. I was very gentlemanly and upright with this note, but it still managed to piss just about everyone off. My crush was mortified, her boss went on a tirade about how staff members (me) shouldn't date medical students (her), and my friend had to basically play my attorney/PR rep for the rest of the day trying to mitigate the catastrophe. The boss, in a move I can either describe as overly maternal or overly 19th century, forbade her from dating me. \n\nAlso, her boss is one of my references on an important application I put in with another department. So, ya know, that's pretty neat too, I guess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First post, so please, only kind insults. \n\nThe horrible fruit of this fuck-up was reaped today, but sown last week. I work for a university, and developed a small crush on a girl (medical student) in another building who works in a friend's department. I began swinging by for \"coffee\" (i.e. sheepishly making woo and spending precious few seconds with crush) pretty regularly. Ostensibly, I was there to see my friend, while I actually was plotting to get a few seconds alone with this girl so that I could ask her to, erm, spend more seconds alone. She's pretty quiet, and though I'm not, we both tend to get drowned out in conversation by her boss, my friend, and another person in the department who seems to be constantly incensed by something or another. \n\nSo one day, after a frustrating encounter in which we (crush and I) both sat silently while other people in the room took turns shouting about the outrage du jour, I decided to write her a note. I was pretty cute about it. Wrote it on a piece of paper from the legal pad I had at my desk, put it in an official departmental envelope, then slipped that into a big interdepartmental envelope to be delivered. Bureaucracy at its finest. \n\nIt showed up today. Her boss decided it'd be fun to have her read it aloud. I was very gentlemanly and upright with this note, but it still managed to piss just about everyone off. My crush was mortified, her boss went on a tirade about how staff members (me) shouldn't date medical students (her), and my friend had to basically play my attorney/PR rep for the rest of the day trying to mitigate the catastrophe. The boss, in a move I can either describe as overly maternal or overly 19th century, forbade her from dating me. \n\nAlso, her boss is one of my references on an important application I put in with another department. So, ya know, that's pretty neat too, I guess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First post, so please, only kind insults. \n\nThe horrible fruit of this fuck-up was reaped today, but sown last week. I work for a university, and developed a small crush on a girl (medical student) in another building who works in a friend's department. I began swinging by for \"coffee\" (i.e. sheepishly making woo and spending precious few seconds with crush) pretty regularly. Ostensibly, I was there to see my friend, while I actually was plotting to get a few seconds alone with this girl so that I could ask her to, erm, spend more seconds alone. She's pretty quiet, and though I'm not, we both tend to get drowned out in conversation by her boss, my friend, and another person in the department who seems to be constantly incensed by something or another. \n\nSo one day, after a frustrating encounter in which we (crush and I) both sat silently while other people in the room took turns shouting about the outrage du jour, I decided to write her a note. I was pretty cute about it. Wrote it on a piece of paper from the legal pad I had at my desk, put it in an official departmental envelope, then slipped that into a big interdepartmental envelope to be delivered. Bureaucracy at its finest. \n\nIt showed up today. Her boss decided it'd be fun to have her read it aloud. I was very gentlemanly and upright with this note, but it still managed to piss just about everyone off. My crush was mortified, her boss went on a tirade about how staff members (me) shouldn't date medical students (her), and my friend had to basically play my attorney/PR rep for the rest of the day trying to mitigate the catastrophe. The boss, in a move I can either describe as overly maternal or overly 19th century, forbade her from dating me. \n\nAlso, her boss is one of my references on an important application I put in with another department. So, ya know, that's pretty neat too, I guess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a sophomore in college and I met this amazing girl about 6 weeks ago. She's a freshman, she seems to like me, acts flirty, and we've hung out a few times as friends and danced (grinded) together on several occasions. My main concern is her ex. I should start by saying that I know so much about the situation because my sister is sorority sisters with this girl and they've talked. The ex is 1,000 miles away for school but they'll both be back in their hometown during breaks. He was her first boyfriend, they dated about a year, were saying \"I love you,\" he took her virginity…the whole 9 yards. \n\nThey broke up the day before she moved out and the only reason they split was because of the distance. According to my sister, she (my sister) asked to see a picture of him and she had a few right on her phone to show her. She's also texted him since the breakup but I'm not sure how many times/who started it/what was said/etc. I really like this girl and we click, but I'm worried about this ex of hers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a sophomore in college and I met this amazing girl about 6 weeks ago. She's a freshman, she seems to like me, acts flirty, and we've hung out a few times as friends and danced (grinded) together on several occasions. My main concern is her ex. I should start by saying that I know so much about the situation because my sister is sorority sisters with this girl and they've talked. The ex is 1,000 miles away for school but they'll both be back in their hometown during breaks. He was her first boyfriend, they dated about a year, were saying \"I love you,\" he took her virginity…the whole 9 yards. \n\nThey broke up the day before she moved out and the only reason they split was because of the distance. According to my sister, she (my sister) asked to see a picture of him and she had a few right on her phone to show her. She's also texted him since the breakup but I'm not sure how many times/who started it/what was said/etc. I really like this girl and we click, but I'm worried about this ex of hers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a sophomore in college and I met this amazing girl about 6 weeks ago. She's a freshman, she seems to like me, acts flirty, and we've hung out a few times as friends and danced (grinded) together on several occasions. My main concern is her ex. I should start by saying that I know so much about the situation because my sister is sorority sisters with this girl and they've talked. The ex is 1,000 miles away for school but they'll both be back in their hometown during breaks. He was her first boyfriend, they dated about a year, were saying \"I love you,\" he took her virginity…the whole 9 yards. \n\nThey broke up the day before she moved out and the only reason they split was because of the distance. According to my sister, she (my sister) asked to see a picture of him and she had a few right on her phone to show her. She's also texted him since the breakup but I'm not sure how many times/who started it/what was said/etc. I really like this girl and we click, but I'm worried about this ex of hers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a sophomore in college and I met this amazing girl about 6 weeks ago. She's a freshman, she seems to like me, acts flirty, and we've hung out a few times as friends and danced (grinded) together on several occasions. My main concern is her ex. I should start by saying that I know so much about the situation because my sister is sorority sisters with this girl and they've talked. The ex is 1,000 miles away for school but they'll both be back in their hometown during breaks. He was her first boyfriend, they dated about a year, were saying \"I love you,\" he took her virginity…the whole 9 yards. \n\nThey broke up the day before she moved out and the only reason they split was because of the distance. According to my sister, she (my sister) asked to see a picture of him and she had a few right on her phone to show her. She's also texted him since the breakup but I'm not sure how many times/who started it/what was said/etc. I really like this girl and we click, but I'm worried about this ex of hers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a sophomore in college and I met this amazing girl about 6 weeks ago. She's a freshman, she seems to like me, acts flirty, and we've hung out a few times as friends and danced (grinded) together on several occasions. My main concern is her ex. I should start by saying that I know so much about the situation because my sister is sorority sisters with this girl and they've talked. The ex is 1,000 miles away for school but they'll both be back in their hometown during breaks. He was her first boyfriend, they dated about a year, were saying \"I love you,\" he took her virginity…the whole 9 yards. \n\nThey broke up the day before she moved out and the only reason they split was because of the distance. According to my sister, she (my sister) asked to see a picture of him and she had a few right on her phone to show her. She's also texted him since the breakup but I'm not sure how many times/who started it/what was said/etc. I really like this girl and we click, but I'm worried about this ex of hers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a sophomore in college and I met this amazing girl about 6 weeks ago. She's a freshman, she seems to like me, acts flirty, and we've hung out a few times as friends and danced (grinded) together on several occasions. My main concern is her ex. I should start by saying that I know so much about the situation because my sister is sorority sisters with this girl and they've talked. The ex is 1,000 miles away for school but they'll both be back in their hometown during breaks. He was her first boyfriend, they dated about a year, were saying \"I love you,\" he took her virginity…the whole 9 yards. \n\nThey broke up the day before she moved out and the only reason they split was because of the distance. According to my sister, she (my sister) asked to see a picture of him and she had a few right on her phone to show her. She's also texted him since the breakup but I'm not sure how many times/who started it/what was said/etc. I really like this girl and we click, but I'm worried about this ex of hers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really think South Park has suffered in quality over the years as they have changed from extreme make believe stories that consisted of things like \"Celebrities becoming giant robots that can only be taken down by Leonard Maltin, Robert Smith and Sidney Poitier\" and other crazy scenarios. Over the season they have moved to topical stories that involve flooding of an entire town to Debate over the political correctness of The Washington Redskins. \n\nI would kill to see SP come out with a season of nothing but outlandish creativity that brings the boys back to their innocence of asking a million questions of adults to which they cannot answer to alien probes coming out of Cartman's ass."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really think South Park has suffered in quality over the years as they have changed from extreme make believe stories that consisted of things like \"Celebrities becoming giant robots that can only be taken down by Leonard Maltin, Robert Smith and Sidney Poitier\" and other crazy scenarios. Over the season they have moved to topical stories that involve flooding of an entire town to Debate over the political correctness of The Washington Redskins. \n\nI would kill to see SP come out with a season of nothing but outlandish creativity that brings the boys back to their innocence of asking a million questions of adults to which they cannot answer to alien probes coming out of Cartman's ass."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really think South Park has suffered in quality over the years as they have changed from extreme make believe stories that consisted of things like \"Celebrities becoming giant robots that can only be taken down by Leonard Maltin, Robert Smith and Sidney Poitier\" and other crazy scenarios. Over the season they have moved to topical stories that involve flooding of an entire town to Debate over the political correctness of The Washington Redskins. \n\nI would kill to see SP come out with a season of nothing but outlandish creativity that brings the boys back to their innocence of asking a million questions of adults to which they cannot answer to alien probes coming out of Cartman's ass."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well. this happened last night, late, and I'm still not sure what to do. Last night I was browsing photobucket and I came upon a picture of a man and a woman. I clicked the photo and immediately didn't know what to do. Apparently I stumbled upon a mass collection of photos from an affair. So what do I do? Well, I enjoy a mystery, so I try to figure it out. What I discovered was more sinister than I had imagined.\n\nThe 'man' is a coach at a high school where the 'woman' is (was because graduated in the spring apparently) a student. To boot, I found out through some searching that he is married to a middle school teacher in the same area and they might have a daughter. His photobucket account was created with the name of the student's father and contains plenty of incriminating pictures and texts ranging far back before she had graduated. Now. I didn't know what to do. I figured HEY, maybe his wife would like to know. So I found her name, sent her a message containing links to an imgur album with photos from the affair and a direct link to his photobucket. I also emailed her school email I found on the site. She hasn't yet responded. \n\nNOW. If this were just an affair I think I have done my part. BUT. because this occurred between a student and a teacher. there's obviously more at stake here.\n\nSO. Reddit, I need your help. WHAT DO I DO. Email the Principal? I'd rather stay anonymous.\n\nAlso, I do have proof, but I'm not sure how to go about that so if a mod wants to message me that'd be cool. I have some edited pictures but I don't want to post anything that leaks a minor's 'photos'."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well. this happened last night, late, and I'm still not sure what to do. Last night I was browsing photobucket and I came upon a picture of a man and a woman. I clicked the photo and immediately didn't know what to do. Apparently I stumbled upon a mass collection of photos from an affair. So what do I do? Well, I enjoy a mystery, so I try to figure it out. What I discovered was more sinister than I had imagined.\n\nThe 'man' is a coach at a high school where the 'woman' is (was because graduated in the spring apparently) a student. To boot, I found out through some searching that he is married to a middle school teacher in the same area and they might have a daughter. His photobucket account was created with the name of the student's father and contains plenty of incriminating pictures and texts ranging far back before she had graduated. Now. I didn't know what to do. I figured HEY, maybe his wife would like to know. So I found her name, sent her a message containing links to an imgur album with photos from the affair and a direct link to his photobucket. I also emailed her school email I found on the site. She hasn't yet responded. \n\nNOW. If this were just an affair I think I have done my part. BUT. because this occurred between a student and a teacher. there's obviously more at stake here.\n\nSO. Reddit, I need your help. WHAT DO I DO. Email the Principal? I'd rather stay anonymous.\n\nAlso, I do have proof, but I'm not sure how to go about that so if a mod wants to message me that'd be cool. I have some edited pictures but I don't want to post anything that leaks a minor's 'photos'."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well. this happened last night, late, and I'm still not sure what to do. Last night I was browsing photobucket and I came upon a picture of a man and a woman. I clicked the photo and immediately didn't know what to do. Apparently I stumbled upon a mass collection of photos from an affair. So what do I do? Well, I enjoy a mystery, so I try to figure it out. What I discovered was more sinister than I had imagined.\n\nThe 'man' is a coach at a high school where the 'woman' is (was because graduated in the spring apparently) a student. To boot, I found out through some searching that he is married to a middle school teacher in the same area and they might have a daughter. His photobucket account was created with the name of the student's father and contains plenty of incriminating pictures and texts ranging far back before she had graduated. Now. I didn't know what to do. I figured HEY, maybe his wife would like to know. So I found her name, sent her a message containing links to an imgur album with photos from the affair and a direct link to his photobucket. I also emailed her school email I found on the site. She hasn't yet responded. \n\nNOW. If this were just an affair I think I have done my part. BUT. because this occurred between a student and a teacher. there's obviously more at stake here.\n\nSO. Reddit, I need your help. WHAT DO I DO. Email the Principal? I'd rather stay anonymous.\n\nAlso, I do have proof, but I'm not sure how to go about that so if a mod wants to message me that'd be cool. I have some edited pictures but I don't want to post anything that leaks a minor's 'photos'."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just graduated college and I realizing there is a much smaller dating pool in real life. I'm not unattractive but I seem to go after people who are inaccessible in some way. If they are available and interested, I seem to take less of an interest. However, if they are interested and unavailable, or have some sort of red flag, i am more interested. \n\nFor example, the last girl I dated was 3 years ago, and I was not allowed to share it with people because I was an RA and she was one of my freshman residents(which was not allowed). Ever since then I have been forcing myself into weird situations with girls that I just cant be with.\n\nMost recently, I am finding myself interested in a girl who lives in another country. I met her while abroad, and she had a long term boyfriend at the time, which she has no longer. I just need to stop getting myself into situations like this. I am a VERY morally upright person and would never act on these girls that are taken(even if they want me to) but I have to find a way to be interested in other people otherwise I will never find someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just graduated college and I realizing there is a much smaller dating pool in real life. I'm not unattractive but I seem to go after people who are inaccessible in some way. If they are available and interested, I seem to take less of an interest. However, if they are interested and unavailable, or have some sort of red flag, i am more interested. \n\nFor example, the last girl I dated was 3 years ago, and I was not allowed to share it with people because I was an RA and she was one of my freshman residents(which was not allowed). Ever since then I have been forcing myself into weird situations with girls that I just cant be with.\n\nMost recently, I am finding myself interested in a girl who lives in another country. I met her while abroad, and she had a long term boyfriend at the time, which she has no longer. I just need to stop getting myself into situations like this. I am a VERY morally upright person and would never act on these girls that are taken(even if they want me to) but I have to find a way to be interested in other people otherwise I will never find someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just graduated college and I realizing there is a much smaller dating pool in real life. I'm not unattractive but I seem to go after people who are inaccessible in some way. If they are available and interested, I seem to take less of an interest. However, if they are interested and unavailable, or have some sort of red flag, i am more interested. \n\nFor example, the last girl I dated was 3 years ago, and I was not allowed to share it with people because I was an RA and she was one of my freshman residents(which was not allowed). Ever since then I have been forcing myself into weird situations with girls that I just cant be with.\n\nMost recently, I am finding myself interested in a girl who lives in another country. I met her while abroad, and she had a long term boyfriend at the time, which she has no longer. I just need to stop getting myself into situations like this. I am a VERY morally upright person and would never act on these girls that are taken(even if they want me to) but I have to find a way to be interested in other people otherwise I will never find someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I was with my hetero life-mate looking at some used cars from craigslist. We went to look at one that was in a slightly shady part of town and everything was going great. However, I guess he accidentally left the driver's side window of his car cracked open just far enough for someone to slip their arm in and unlock the door. When our meetup/test drive was finished he couldn't find his Nexus anywhere. We frantically searched all of his stuff and we asked the lady if she had seen his Droid but no such luck. She even let us check the car we came to see and we TORE IT APART looking for the damn thing. We immediately went to Verizon and did everything necessary to report it stolen. This was all just yesterday BTW. Today, he has a brand spankin' new Nexus (gotta hand it to Verizon for being johnny on the spot) and he's re-downloading his apps at counting his losses for his amazon purchases.\n\nCompletely out of left field, the lady showing us the car just called to tell me that she found it in the trunk. sigh. I told my buddy and he agreed that if I paid the balance for his new one I could just keep his old one. Problem is: I'm pretty smart phone illiterate and was planning to get a new one after I got a car and re-saved up the money for it (rockin' a pre-pay tank of a Nokia like a hipster). So is there any way I can set it up so I can have and use his old one? Keep in mind that we did report it stolen."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I was with my hetero life-mate looking at some used cars from craigslist. We went to look at one that was in a slightly shady part of town and everything was going great. However, I guess he accidentally left the driver's side window of his car cracked open just far enough for someone to slip their arm in and unlock the door. When our meetup/test drive was finished he couldn't find his Nexus anywhere. We frantically searched all of his stuff and we asked the lady if she had seen his Droid but no such luck. She even let us check the car we came to see and we TORE IT APART looking for the damn thing. We immediately went to Verizon and did everything necessary to report it stolen. This was all just yesterday BTW. Today, he has a brand spankin' new Nexus (gotta hand it to Verizon for being johnny on the spot) and he's re-downloading his apps at counting his losses for his amazon purchases.\n\nCompletely out of left field, the lady showing us the car just called to tell me that she found it in the trunk. sigh. I told my buddy and he agreed that if I paid the balance for his new one I could just keep his old one. Problem is: I'm pretty smart phone illiterate and was planning to get a new one after I got a car and re-saved up the money for it (rockin' a pre-pay tank of a Nokia like a hipster). So is there any way I can set it up so I can have and use his old one? Keep in mind that we did report it stolen."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I was with my hetero life-mate looking at some used cars from craigslist. We went to look at one that was in a slightly shady part of town and everything was going great. However, I guess he accidentally left the driver's side window of his car cracked open just far enough for someone to slip their arm in and unlock the door. When our meetup/test drive was finished he couldn't find his Nexus anywhere. We frantically searched all of his stuff and we asked the lady if she had seen his Droid but no such luck. She even let us check the car we came to see and we TORE IT APART looking for the damn thing. We immediately went to Verizon and did everything necessary to report it stolen. This was all just yesterday BTW. Today, he has a brand spankin' new Nexus (gotta hand it to Verizon for being johnny on the spot) and he's re-downloading his apps at counting his losses for his amazon purchases.\n\nCompletely out of left field, the lady showing us the car just called to tell me that she found it in the trunk. sigh. I told my buddy and he agreed that if I paid the balance for his new one I could just keep his old one. Problem is: I'm pretty smart phone illiterate and was planning to get a new one after I got a car and re-saved up the money for it (rockin' a pre-pay tank of a Nokia like a hipster). So is there any way I can set it up so I can have and use his old one? Keep in mind that we did report it stolen."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back in high school, I was in a fairly tight-knight group of friends. We were nearly inseparable until about two years ago when things kind of hit the fan. Basically, my ex started dating one of my close friends in this group. I didn't really care very much but she decided she wanted nothing to do with me and refused to be in my presence, so as they started hanging out more with my other friends, I started seeing them less and less.\n\nSo people took sides and about half of my friends at that time stuck with me and the other half stuck with them. It wasn't really a conflict, just that she wouldn't see me and it kind of created a rift. Now, they've broken up; in fact, there's been pretty much a full turnover of romantic relationships on their side of things, and I want to try and rebuild bridges. I feel the bridges weren't burned so much as abandoned and neglected.\n\nBut I don't know how to do this. It's been two years and I've had very little contact with them. I miss them sorely and want to hang out with them again. How do I do it? Should I even try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back in high school, I was in a fairly tight-knight group of friends. We were nearly inseparable until about two years ago when things kind of hit the fan. Basically, my ex started dating one of my close friends in this group. I didn't really care very much but she decided she wanted nothing to do with me and refused to be in my presence, so as they started hanging out more with my other friends, I started seeing them less and less.\n\nSo people took sides and about half of my friends at that time stuck with me and the other half stuck with them. It wasn't really a conflict, just that she wouldn't see me and it kind of created a rift. Now, they've broken up; in fact, there's been pretty much a full turnover of romantic relationships on their side of things, and I want to try and rebuild bridges. I feel the bridges weren't burned so much as abandoned and neglected.\n\nBut I don't know how to do this. It's been two years and I've had very little contact with them. I miss them sorely and want to hang out with them again. How do I do it? Should I even try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Back in high school, I was in a fairly tight-knight group of friends. We were nearly inseparable until about two years ago when things kind of hit the fan. Basically, my ex started dating one of my close friends in this group. I didn't really care very much but she decided she wanted nothing to do with me and refused to be in my presence, so as they started hanging out more with my other friends, I started seeing them less and less.\n\nSo people took sides and about half of my friends at that time stuck with me and the other half stuck with them. It wasn't really a conflict, just that she wouldn't see me and it kind of created a rift. Now, they've broken up; in fact, there's been pretty much a full turnover of romantic relationships on their side of things, and I want to try and rebuild bridges. I feel the bridges weren't burned so much as abandoned and neglected.\n\nBut I don't know how to do this. It's been two years and I've had very little contact with them. I miss them sorely and want to hang out with them again. How do I do it? Should I even try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm a 22 year old gay guy who lives in Ontario right now. I'm about to finish my last semester of school in December, and graduate with a B.Eng in Aerospace Engineering. I've been with my partner for 2+ years, spent months and months with him over summers/breaks, and I'm planning on moving to be with him come January. I haven't done a co-op job placement, and have no experience in engineering specifically (I've worked retail, crappy cash job at a grocery store, and a dirty factory line worker at Michelin). My partner is ALSO graduating with a B.Eng in Mechanical Engineering this December, but he's done a placement, and he has a job lined up in Kentucky (a -GREAT- job).\n\nMy issue : How do I get into the US/stay there to be with him? I know my degree qualifies me for certain Visas under NAFTA (I don't remember the specific Visas), but with the current economy and my lack of experience there's no one who will sponsor my employment as an international person. The job my partner has is restricted to a specific area, so it's not like I can just find a job anywhere in the US and go ahead and move there, and his job is absolutely amazing for a fresh grad, so there's no way we're passing on it.\n\nI think illegal immigrants are a bad thing, that's for sure, but if I \"visited\", and just stayed, I would only be doing so because I'm treated as less than anyone who is straight and doing the same thing I am. I WANT to go there as a legal citizen and live out my life and work like any straight couple, but I'm at a loss."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm a 22 year old gay guy who lives in Ontario right now. I'm about to finish my last semester of school in December, and graduate with a B.Eng in Aerospace Engineering. I've been with my partner for 2+ years, spent months and months with him over summers/breaks, and I'm planning on moving to be with him come January. I haven't done a co-op job placement, and have no experience in engineering specifically (I've worked retail, crappy cash job at a grocery store, and a dirty factory line worker at Michelin). My partner is ALSO graduating with a B.Eng in Mechanical Engineering this December, but he's done a placement, and he has a job lined up in Kentucky (a -GREAT- job).\n\nMy issue : How do I get into the US/stay there to be with him? I know my degree qualifies me for certain Visas under NAFTA (I don't remember the specific Visas), but with the current economy and my lack of experience there's no one who will sponsor my employment as an international person. The job my partner has is restricted to a specific area, so it's not like I can just find a job anywhere in the US and go ahead and move there, and his job is absolutely amazing for a fresh grad, so there's no way we're passing on it.\n\nI think illegal immigrants are a bad thing, that's for sure, but if I \"visited\", and just stayed, I would only be doing so because I'm treated as less than anyone who is straight and doing the same thing I am. I WANT to go there as a legal citizen and live out my life and work like any straight couple, but I'm at a loss."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm a 22 year old gay guy who lives in Ontario right now. I'm about to finish my last semester of school in December, and graduate with a B.Eng in Aerospace Engineering. I've been with my partner for 2+ years, spent months and months with him over summers/breaks, and I'm planning on moving to be with him come January. I haven't done a co-op job placement, and have no experience in engineering specifically (I've worked retail, crappy cash job at a grocery store, and a dirty factory line worker at Michelin). My partner is ALSO graduating with a B.Eng in Mechanical Engineering this December, but he's done a placement, and he has a job lined up in Kentucky (a -GREAT- job).\n\nMy issue : How do I get into the US/stay there to be with him? I know my degree qualifies me for certain Visas under NAFTA (I don't remember the specific Visas), but with the current economy and my lack of experience there's no one who will sponsor my employment as an international person. The job my partner has is restricted to a specific area, so it's not like I can just find a job anywhere in the US and go ahead and move there, and his job is absolutely amazing for a fresh grad, so there's no way we're passing on it.\n\nI think illegal immigrants are a bad thing, that's for sure, but if I \"visited\", and just stayed, I would only be doing so because I'm treated as less than anyone who is straight and doing the same thing I am. I WANT to go there as a legal citizen and live out my life and work like any straight couple, but I'm at a loss."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so to better explain, I have this friend that is somewhat of a bestie to me, she has been really affectionate to me and only me in our group of friends. \n\nIn the past couple of weeks she and her bf have been having a lot of fights that were really intense for what she told me (and for how obvious her sadness was) to the point of breaking up for a couple of days. I didn't want to butt in (I've known her for a couple months now) so I just told her to think wisely, and she decided to give him one last chance, and I understood since they've been together for 3 years.\n\nNowadays we've been chatting and getting really close to each other day by day in and out of college and I legit don't know what to do or not to do now. I've been trying to not develop serious feelings towards her and I also noticed she is trying to do the same. I don't know her bf personally so no friend backstabbing there.\n\nI just don't want to ruin our friendship since I've done that with most of the few girl-friends I've know in my life. She has told me that I'm attractive but don't want me to find a gf since she wouldn't be able to be as loving to me as now, that tipped me off. Also she has had a lot of boyfriends (and 1 girlfriend) and I'm still sitting at 0 so I haven't got the slightest clue of what I'm to do.\n\nJust please, don't let me fuck this up with her, I really like her, she is smart, funny, an awesome person overall. I just don't want history to repeat itself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so to better explain, I have this friend that is somewhat of a bestie to me, she has been really affectionate to me and only me in our group of friends. \n\nIn the past couple of weeks she and her bf have been having a lot of fights that were really intense for what she told me (and for how obvious her sadness was) to the point of breaking up for a couple of days. I didn't want to butt in (I've known her for a couple months now) so I just told her to think wisely, and she decided to give him one last chance, and I understood since they've been together for 3 years.\n\nNowadays we've been chatting and getting really close to each other day by day in and out of college and I legit don't know what to do or not to do now. I've been trying to not develop serious feelings towards her and I also noticed she is trying to do the same. I don't know her bf personally so no friend backstabbing there.\n\nI just don't want to ruin our friendship since I've done that with most of the few girl-friends I've know in my life. She has told me that I'm attractive but don't want me to find a gf since she wouldn't be able to be as loving to me as now, that tipped me off. Also she has had a lot of boyfriends (and 1 girlfriend) and I'm still sitting at 0 so I haven't got the slightest clue of what I'm to do.\n\nJust please, don't let me fuck this up with her, I really like her, she is smart, funny, an awesome person overall. I just don't want history to repeat itself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so to better explain, I have this friend that is somewhat of a bestie to me, she has been really affectionate to me and only me in our group of friends. \n\nIn the past couple of weeks she and her bf have been having a lot of fights that were really intense for what she told me (and for how obvious her sadness was) to the point of breaking up for a couple of days. I didn't want to butt in (I've known her for a couple months now) so I just told her to think wisely, and she decided to give him one last chance, and I understood since they've been together for 3 years.\n\nNowadays we've been chatting and getting really close to each other day by day in and out of college and I legit don't know what to do or not to do now. I've been trying to not develop serious feelings towards her and I also noticed she is trying to do the same. I don't know her bf personally so no friend backstabbing there.\n\nI just don't want to ruin our friendship since I've done that with most of the few girl-friends I've know in my life. She has told me that I'm attractive but don't want me to find a gf since she wouldn't be able to be as loving to me as now, that tipped me off. Also she has had a lot of boyfriends (and 1 girlfriend) and I'm still sitting at 0 so I haven't got the slightest clue of what I'm to do.\n\nJust please, don't let me fuck this up with her, I really like her, she is smart, funny, an awesome person overall. I just don't want history to repeat itself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so to better explain, I have this friend that is somewhat of a bestie to me, she has been really affectionate to me and only me in our group of friends. \n\nIn the past couple of weeks she and her bf have been having a lot of fights that were really intense for what she told me (and for how obvious her sadness was) to the point of breaking up for a couple of days. I didn't want to butt in (I've known her for a couple months now) so I just told her to think wisely, and she decided to give him one last chance, and I understood since they've been together for 3 years.\n\nNowadays we've been chatting and getting really close to each other day by day in and out of college and I legit don't know what to do or not to do now. I've been trying to not develop serious feelings towards her and I also noticed she is trying to do the same. I don't know her bf personally so no friend backstabbing there.\n\nI just don't want to ruin our friendship since I've done that with most of the few girl-friends I've know in my life. She has told me that I'm attractive but don't want me to find a gf since she wouldn't be able to be as loving to me as now, that tipped me off. Also she has had a lot of boyfriends (and 1 girlfriend) and I'm still sitting at 0 so I haven't got the slightest clue of what I'm to do.\n\nJust please, don't let me fuck this up with her, I really like her, she is smart, funny, an awesome person overall. I just don't want history to repeat itself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so to better explain, I have this friend that is somewhat of a bestie to me, she has been really affectionate to me and only me in our group of friends. \n\nIn the past couple of weeks she and her bf have been having a lot of fights that were really intense for what she told me (and for how obvious her sadness was) to the point of breaking up for a couple of days. I didn't want to butt in (I've known her for a couple months now) so I just told her to think wisely, and she decided to give him one last chance, and I understood since they've been together for 3 years.\n\nNowadays we've been chatting and getting really close to each other day by day in and out of college and I legit don't know what to do or not to do now. I've been trying to not develop serious feelings towards her and I also noticed she is trying to do the same. I don't know her bf personally so no friend backstabbing there.\n\nI just don't want to ruin our friendship since I've done that with most of the few girl-friends I've know in my life. She has told me that I'm attractive but don't want me to find a gf since she wouldn't be able to be as loving to me as now, that tipped me off. Also she has had a lot of boyfriends (and 1 girlfriend) and I'm still sitting at 0 so I haven't got the slightest clue of what I'm to do.\n\nJust please, don't let me fuck this up with her, I really like her, she is smart, funny, an awesome person overall. I just don't want history to repeat itself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so to better explain, I have this friend that is somewhat of a bestie to me, she has been really affectionate to me and only me in our group of friends. \n\nIn the past couple of weeks she and her bf have been having a lot of fights that were really intense for what she told me (and for how obvious her sadness was) to the point of breaking up for a couple of days. I didn't want to butt in (I've known her for a couple months now) so I just told her to think wisely, and she decided to give him one last chance, and I understood since they've been together for 3 years.\n\nNowadays we've been chatting and getting really close to each other day by day in and out of college and I legit don't know what to do or not to do now. I've been trying to not develop serious feelings towards her and I also noticed she is trying to do the same. I don't know her bf personally so no friend backstabbing there.\n\nI just don't want to ruin our friendship since I've done that with most of the few girl-friends I've know in my life. She has told me that I'm attractive but don't want me to find a gf since she wouldn't be able to be as loving to me as now, that tipped me off. Also she has had a lot of boyfriends (and 1 girlfriend) and I'm still sitting at 0 so I haven't got the slightest clue of what I'm to do.\n\nJust please, don't let me fuck this up with her, I really like her, she is smart, funny, an awesome person overall. I just don't want history to repeat itself."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently in university, and this one girl has sat near me all semester. I didn't notice her until a few weeks ago, and finally decided that I want to talk to her. \n\nIt's a fairly large class, but no one sits next to her (the guy who used to sit next to her dropped the class, I assume). \n\nHere is my only problem. Would it be creepy to just sit next to her? I was contemplating on just walking up and asking \"Hey, do you mind if I sit here?\" I'm under the assumption she'll say yes; we have made eye contact a fair amount and when a girl who sits behind her asked me a question, she seemed to perk up and stared right at me as I spoke.\n\nEven if she does say yes, what would I even say? I haven't noticed anything I could really comment on, as that seems to be pretty common advice. She dresses fairly simply (jeans, black sweatshirts and stuff). I'm fairly confident when people are talking to me, the only problem I have is actually starting a conversation. \n\nI guess my main question is, how do I go about talking to her? what are some good ice breaker questions that I can use to ease into more conversation and get to know her better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently in university, and this one girl has sat near me all semester. I didn't notice her until a few weeks ago, and finally decided that I want to talk to her. \n\nIt's a fairly large class, but no one sits next to her (the guy who used to sit next to her dropped the class, I assume). \n\nHere is my only problem. Would it be creepy to just sit next to her? I was contemplating on just walking up and asking \"Hey, do you mind if I sit here?\" I'm under the assumption she'll say yes; we have made eye contact a fair amount and when a girl who sits behind her asked me a question, she seemed to perk up and stared right at me as I spoke.\n\nEven if she does say yes, what would I even say? I haven't noticed anything I could really comment on, as that seems to be pretty common advice. She dresses fairly simply (jeans, black sweatshirts and stuff). I'm fairly confident when people are talking to me, the only problem I have is actually starting a conversation. \n\nI guess my main question is, how do I go about talking to her? what are some good ice breaker questions that I can use to ease into more conversation and get to know her better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently in university, and this one girl has sat near me all semester. I didn't notice her until a few weeks ago, and finally decided that I want to talk to her. \n\nIt's a fairly large class, but no one sits next to her (the guy who used to sit next to her dropped the class, I assume). \n\nHere is my only problem. Would it be creepy to just sit next to her? I was contemplating on just walking up and asking \"Hey, do you mind if I sit here?\" I'm under the assumption she'll say yes; we have made eye contact a fair amount and when a girl who sits behind her asked me a question, she seemed to perk up and stared right at me as I spoke.\n\nEven if she does say yes, what would I even say? I haven't noticed anything I could really comment on, as that seems to be pretty common advice. She dresses fairly simply (jeans, black sweatshirts and stuff). I'm fairly confident when people are talking to me, the only problem I have is actually starting a conversation. \n\nI guess my main question is, how do I go about talking to her? what are some good ice breaker questions that I can use to ease into more conversation and get to know her better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently in university, and this one girl has sat near me all semester. I didn't notice her until a few weeks ago, and finally decided that I want to talk to her. \n\nIt's a fairly large class, but no one sits next to her (the guy who used to sit next to her dropped the class, I assume). \n\nHere is my only problem. Would it be creepy to just sit next to her? I was contemplating on just walking up and asking \"Hey, do you mind if I sit here?\" I'm under the assumption she'll say yes; we have made eye contact a fair amount and when a girl who sits behind her asked me a question, she seemed to perk up and stared right at me as I spoke.\n\nEven if she does say yes, what would I even say? I haven't noticed anything I could really comment on, as that seems to be pretty common advice. She dresses fairly simply (jeans, black sweatshirts and stuff). I'm fairly confident when people are talking to me, the only problem I have is actually starting a conversation. \n\nI guess my main question is, how do I go about talking to her? what are some good ice breaker questions that I can use to ease into more conversation and get to know her better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently in university, and this one girl has sat near me all semester. I didn't notice her until a few weeks ago, and finally decided that I want to talk to her. \n\nIt's a fairly large class, but no one sits next to her (the guy who used to sit next to her dropped the class, I assume). \n\nHere is my only problem. Would it be creepy to just sit next to her? I was contemplating on just walking up and asking \"Hey, do you mind if I sit here?\" I'm under the assumption she'll say yes; we have made eye contact a fair amount and when a girl who sits behind her asked me a question, she seemed to perk up and stared right at me as I spoke.\n\nEven if she does say yes, what would I even say? I haven't noticed anything I could really comment on, as that seems to be pretty common advice. She dresses fairly simply (jeans, black sweatshirts and stuff). I'm fairly confident when people are talking to me, the only problem I have is actually starting a conversation. \n\nI guess my main question is, how do I go about talking to her? what are some good ice breaker questions that I can use to ease into more conversation and get to know her better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently in university, and this one girl has sat near me all semester. I didn't notice her until a few weeks ago, and finally decided that I want to talk to her. \n\nIt's a fairly large class, but no one sits next to her (the guy who used to sit next to her dropped the class, I assume). \n\nHere is my only problem. Would it be creepy to just sit next to her? I was contemplating on just walking up and asking \"Hey, do you mind if I sit here?\" I'm under the assumption she'll say yes; we have made eye contact a fair amount and when a girl who sits behind her asked me a question, she seemed to perk up and stared right at me as I spoke.\n\nEven if she does say yes, what would I even say? I haven't noticed anything I could really comment on, as that seems to be pretty common advice. She dresses fairly simply (jeans, black sweatshirts and stuff). I'm fairly confident when people are talking to me, the only problem I have is actually starting a conversation. \n\nI guess my main question is, how do I go about talking to her? what are some good ice breaker questions that I can use to ease into more conversation and get to know her better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my gf (21) and I have been dating since last November. It's been interesting to say the least, as we're both almost out of college, and our universities are an hour or so apart. At first we managed to see each other once or twice a week. Things were busy but great. Lately though, I can't get her to talk to me. At all. I'm a theatre technician and she's a performer so our schedules are always busy, especially on the weekends, so I understand that she can't talk much since neither can I. But I can't get more than a single text message in any given day. Phone calls go straight to voicemail. It's been this way for about a month now. I trust her not to cheat on me, but she has been active on Facebook like normal, and still texts my friends. I know nothing is going on with those people because, well, they're mostly gay. Short of sounding crazy/bitchy/clingy, I don't really know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my gf (21) and I have been dating since last November. It's been interesting to say the least, as we're both almost out of college, and our universities are an hour or so apart. At first we managed to see each other once or twice a week. Things were busy but great. Lately though, I can't get her to talk to me. At all. I'm a theatre technician and she's a performer so our schedules are always busy, especially on the weekends, so I understand that she can't talk much since neither can I. But I can't get more than a single text message in any given day. Phone calls go straight to voicemail. It's been this way for about a month now. I trust her not to cheat on me, but she has been active on Facebook like normal, and still texts my friends. I know nothing is going on with those people because, well, they're mostly gay. Short of sounding crazy/bitchy/clingy, I don't really know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex broke up mid december, we had been fighting quite a bit the month before and we were both very stressed out from school. He broke up with me cause he felt that our relationship wasn't beneficial to each other anymore and that things just weren't the same between us. \n\nIt's been a maybe 4 months now and we haven't talked much at all (he completely blocked me from everything). He is seeing a girl that he's had class with for awhile and I'm dating too. The other day thought he unexpected showed up at my apartment with a package that had accidentally been delivered to his apartment. I was really surprised that he showed up to give me it cause when ever we have decided to met for any reason since the breakup he insist we meet in a public place. He didn't stay for long and he seemed to keep his distance from me (like trying to stand as far as way as possible). We had a good interaction nothing eventful in anyway, but now I'm feeling odd for some reason. \n\nI mean I have been missing him and everything, but have been keeping away form him of course. It just felt very different then any other interaction we have had almost like we were just aquaitence. I don't like the feeling, we were so closed he was my best friend, we shared so much personal, intimate, and emotional stuff. I don't know why this is upsetting me so much but it really is. Of course I want to be friends but this change in the dynamic between us is upsetting and I'm not sure why."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex broke up mid december, we had been fighting quite a bit the month before and we were both very stressed out from school. He broke up with me cause he felt that our relationship wasn't beneficial to each other anymore and that things just weren't the same between us. \n\nIt's been a maybe 4 months now and we haven't talked much at all (he completely blocked me from everything). He is seeing a girl that he's had class with for awhile and I'm dating too. The other day thought he unexpected showed up at my apartment with a package that had accidentally been delivered to his apartment. I was really surprised that he showed up to give me it cause when ever we have decided to met for any reason since the breakup he insist we meet in a public place. He didn't stay for long and he seemed to keep his distance from me (like trying to stand as far as way as possible). We had a good interaction nothing eventful in anyway, but now I'm feeling odd for some reason. \n\nI mean I have been missing him and everything, but have been keeping away form him of course. It just felt very different then any other interaction we have had almost like we were just aquaitence. I don't like the feeling, we were so closed he was my best friend, we shared so much personal, intimate, and emotional stuff. I don't know why this is upsetting me so much but it really is. Of course I want to be friends but this change in the dynamic between us is upsetting and I'm not sure why."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my ex broke up mid december, we had been fighting quite a bit the month before and we were both very stressed out from school. He broke up with me cause he felt that our relationship wasn't beneficial to each other anymore and that things just weren't the same between us. \n\nIt's been a maybe 4 months now and we haven't talked much at all (he completely blocked me from everything). He is seeing a girl that he's had class with for awhile and I'm dating too. The other day thought he unexpected showed up at my apartment with a package that had accidentally been delivered to his apartment. I was really surprised that he showed up to give me it cause when ever we have decided to met for any reason since the breakup he insist we meet in a public place. He didn't stay for long and he seemed to keep his distance from me (like trying to stand as far as way as possible). We had a good interaction nothing eventful in anyway, but now I'm feeling odd for some reason. \n\nI mean I have been missing him and everything, but have been keeping away form him of course. It just felt very different then any other interaction we have had almost like we were just aquaitence. I don't like the feeling, we were so closed he was my best friend, we shared so much personal, intimate, and emotional stuff. I don't know why this is upsetting me so much but it really is. Of course I want to be friends but this change in the dynamic between us is upsetting and I'm not sure why."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I graduated from uni in 2009 with a communcation design degree. Since then, I've been working at a building company doing admin work trying to find a graphic design job so I can quit. I'm still at my current job because a) I'm a slack bitch and haven't really applied for enough jobs/worked on my portfolio, etc and b) there's not many jobs for junior designers in my town.\n\nMy friend gave me a call a few nights ago telling me about how he went to a leadership course and it 'changed his life'. He said that he was more proactive after the course and said I should go along to the information session at his place. He also told me that the 3 day course costs about $600 which I technically have but don't really want to spend that much money. I'm still debating whether to even go to the information session."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I graduated from uni in 2009 with a communcation design degree. Since then, I've been working at a building company doing admin work trying to find a graphic design job so I can quit. I'm still at my current job because a) I'm a slack bitch and haven't really applied for enough jobs/worked on my portfolio, etc and b) there's not many jobs for junior designers in my town.\n\nMy friend gave me a call a few nights ago telling me about how he went to a leadership course and it 'changed his life'. He said that he was more proactive after the course and said I should go along to the information session at his place. He also told me that the 3 day course costs about $600 which I technically have but don't really want to spend that much money. I'm still debating whether to even go to the information session."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I graduated from uni in 2009 with a communcation design degree. Since then, I've been working at a building company doing admin work trying to find a graphic design job so I can quit. I'm still at my current job because a) I'm a slack bitch and haven't really applied for enough jobs/worked on my portfolio, etc and b) there's not many jobs for junior designers in my town.\n\nMy friend gave me a call a few nights ago telling me about how he went to a leadership course and it 'changed his life'. He said that he was more proactive after the course and said I should go along to the information session at his place. He also told me that the 3 day course costs about $600 which I technically have but don't really want to spend that much money. I'm still debating whether to even go to the information session."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been together for a little more than 4 months. Everything has been great, we get along fantastically, share similar interests, and love doing things together. When making out things are great, it's just fun, never awkward, and we really have a good time. However, whenever I attempt to instigate anything beyond making out she subtly pushes me away (shifts positions, pulls shirt down etc.). I've talked to her about it and she says that she's totally fine and comfortable with doing things beyond making out (although I know she never has), but in the moment she never seems to want to. How would you recommend I bring this up again and talk to her about?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been together for a little more than 4 months. Everything has been great, we get along fantastically, share similar interests, and love doing things together. When making out things are great, it's just fun, never awkward, and we really have a good time. However, whenever I attempt to instigate anything beyond making out she subtly pushes me away (shifts positions, pulls shirt down etc.). I've talked to her about it and she says that she's totally fine and comfortable with doing things beyond making out (although I know she never has), but in the moment she never seems to want to. How would you recommend I bring this up again and talk to her about?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been together for a little more than 4 months. Everything has been great, we get along fantastically, share similar interests, and love doing things together. When making out things are great, it's just fun, never awkward, and we really have a good time. However, whenever I attempt to instigate anything beyond making out she subtly pushes me away (shifts positions, pulls shirt down etc.). I've talked to her about it and she says that she's totally fine and comfortable with doing things beyond making out (although I know she never has), but in the moment she never seems to want to. How would you recommend I bring this up again and talk to her about?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, r/relationship_advice. I need your help. So there is this girl I've known for the past almost 7 years, and now in the latter stages of high school, we finally \"have a thing\". We would always flirt in middle school, and in sophomore year of high school, I worked up the courage to ask her on a date. She was blunt and dismissive, and told me she had a boyfriend. He was a well-known scumbag, and I thought that she was smart enough, high achieving, and different enough from this kid that their relationship would end soon. It didn't, they proceeded to date for 1 1/2 years and he took her virginity. They finally broke up because he also had sex with his best friend's girlfriend, and he broke her heart. She now has deep trust issues, so that now she is extremely cautious with me and relates everything back to how this one kid broke her heart. But she likes me, and says she wants to continue being with me, but I simply don't know how I feel about how she gave her virginity to this scumbag. Is this a big deal? Should I really be concerned with this? I've been with a handful of girls in high school, and even gotten rather intimate with a few, but would *never* consider going that far with them. So the fact that she did, with this kid, scares me a lot. She's incredible, smart, adorable, and high-achieving, and I just want to know whether this factor should really be affecting me this much. Thanks for your time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, r/relationship_advice. I need your help. So there is this girl I've known for the past almost 7 years, and now in the latter stages of high school, we finally \"have a thing\". We would always flirt in middle school, and in sophomore year of high school, I worked up the courage to ask her on a date. She was blunt and dismissive, and told me she had a boyfriend. He was a well-known scumbag, and I thought that she was smart enough, high achieving, and different enough from this kid that their relationship would end soon. It didn't, they proceeded to date for 1 1/2 years and he took her virginity. They finally broke up because he also had sex with his best friend's girlfriend, and he broke her heart. She now has deep trust issues, so that now she is extremely cautious with me and relates everything back to how this one kid broke her heart. But she likes me, and says she wants to continue being with me, but I simply don't know how I feel about how she gave her virginity to this scumbag. Is this a big deal? Should I really be concerned with this? I've been with a handful of girls in high school, and even gotten rather intimate with a few, but would *never* consider going that far with them. So the fact that she did, with this kid, scares me a lot. She's incredible, smart, adorable, and high-achieving, and I just want to know whether this factor should really be affecting me this much. Thanks for your time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, r/relationship_advice. I need your help. So there is this girl I've known for the past almost 7 years, and now in the latter stages of high school, we finally \"have a thing\". We would always flirt in middle school, and in sophomore year of high school, I worked up the courage to ask her on a date. She was blunt and dismissive, and told me she had a boyfriend. He was a well-known scumbag, and I thought that she was smart enough, high achieving, and different enough from this kid that their relationship would end soon. It didn't, they proceeded to date for 1 1/2 years and he took her virginity. They finally broke up because he also had sex with his best friend's girlfriend, and he broke her heart. She now has deep trust issues, so that now she is extremely cautious with me and relates everything back to how this one kid broke her heart. But she likes me, and says she wants to continue being with me, but I simply don't know how I feel about how she gave her virginity to this scumbag. Is this a big deal? Should I really be concerned with this? I've been with a handful of girls in high school, and even gotten rather intimate with a few, but would *never* consider going that far with them. So the fact that she did, with this kid, scares me a lot. She's incredible, smart, adorable, and high-achieving, and I just want to know whether this factor should really be affecting me this much. Thanks for your time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, r/relationship_advice. I need your help. So there is this girl I've known for the past almost 7 years, and now in the latter stages of high school, we finally \"have a thing\". We would always flirt in middle school, and in sophomore year of high school, I worked up the courage to ask her on a date. She was blunt and dismissive, and told me she had a boyfriend. He was a well-known scumbag, and I thought that she was smart enough, high achieving, and different enough from this kid that their relationship would end soon. It didn't, they proceeded to date for 1 1/2 years and he took her virginity. They finally broke up because he also had sex with his best friend's girlfriend, and he broke her heart. She now has deep trust issues, so that now she is extremely cautious with me and relates everything back to how this one kid broke her heart. But she likes me, and says she wants to continue being with me, but I simply don't know how I feel about how she gave her virginity to this scumbag. Is this a big deal? Should I really be concerned with this? I've been with a handful of girls in high school, and even gotten rather intimate with a few, but would *never* consider going that far with them. So the fact that she did, with this kid, scares me a lot. She's incredible, smart, adorable, and high-achieving, and I just want to know whether this factor should really be affecting me this much. Thanks for your time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, r/relationship_advice. I need your help. So there is this girl I've known for the past almost 7 years, and now in the latter stages of high school, we finally \"have a thing\". We would always flirt in middle school, and in sophomore year of high school, I worked up the courage to ask her on a date. She was blunt and dismissive, and told me she had a boyfriend. He was a well-known scumbag, and I thought that she was smart enough, high achieving, and different enough from this kid that their relationship would end soon. It didn't, they proceeded to date for 1 1/2 years and he took her virginity. They finally broke up because he also had sex with his best friend's girlfriend, and he broke her heart. She now has deep trust issues, so that now she is extremely cautious with me and relates everything back to how this one kid broke her heart. But she likes me, and says she wants to continue being with me, but I simply don't know how I feel about how she gave her virginity to this scumbag. Is this a big deal? Should I really be concerned with this? I've been with a handful of girls in high school, and even gotten rather intimate with a few, but would *never* consider going that far with them. So the fact that she did, with this kid, scares me a lot. She's incredible, smart, adorable, and high-achieving, and I just want to know whether this factor should really be affecting me this much. Thanks for your time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, r/relationship_advice. I need your help. So there is this girl I've known for the past almost 7 years, and now in the latter stages of high school, we finally \"have a thing\". We would always flirt in middle school, and in sophomore year of high school, I worked up the courage to ask her on a date. She was blunt and dismissive, and told me she had a boyfriend. He was a well-known scumbag, and I thought that she was smart enough, high achieving, and different enough from this kid that their relationship would end soon. It didn't, they proceeded to date for 1 1/2 years and he took her virginity. They finally broke up because he also had sex with his best friend's girlfriend, and he broke her heart. She now has deep trust issues, so that now she is extremely cautious with me and relates everything back to how this one kid broke her heart. But she likes me, and says she wants to continue being with me, but I simply don't know how I feel about how she gave her virginity to this scumbag. Is this a big deal? Should I really be concerned with this? I've been with a handful of girls in high school, and even gotten rather intimate with a few, but would *never* consider going that far with them. So the fact that she did, with this kid, scares me a lot. She's incredible, smart, adorable, and high-achieving, and I just want to know whether this factor should really be affecting me this much. Thanks for your time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [28F] have frequent dreams about ex-boyfriends, about 3-4 times a week. These dreams are mostly non-sexual and the content is usually just me spending time with them, and feeling deeply in love with them. In the dreams, I am never aware of the existence of my husband [35M]. Some of these exes are people I have not seen or spoken to in over a decade. I have been married for 7 years, and I was hoping that over time the dreams would become less frequent, but they haven't. These dreams only involve ex boyfriends that I was involved with long-term. Some of the relationships ended abruptly or on bad terms. I have never had a dream about my husband.\n\nAfter I have the dreams, I usually wake up feeling very heartbroken and alone. By mid-day, I usually feel better and have moved on from the feelings. The dreams do not happen specifically during stressful times or when my husband and I are having issues; they are entirely random. Even on days when my husband and I are enamored with each other, the dreams can still happen. Most of these exes of mine have moved on with their lives, and are happily married with children. I don't think that contacting my exes would be a good idea, even if it was an issue with closure. I think discussing this with my husband would really hurt him. I feel helpless and ashamed that I can't control these dreams. Is this something others have dealt with regularly, and is there anything that I can do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [28F] have frequent dreams about ex-boyfriends, about 3-4 times a week. These dreams are mostly non-sexual and the content is usually just me spending time with them, and feeling deeply in love with them. In the dreams, I am never aware of the existence of my husband [35M]. Some of these exes are people I have not seen or spoken to in over a decade. I have been married for 7 years, and I was hoping that over time the dreams would become less frequent, but they haven't. These dreams only involve ex boyfriends that I was involved with long-term. Some of the relationships ended abruptly or on bad terms. I have never had a dream about my husband.\n\nAfter I have the dreams, I usually wake up feeling very heartbroken and alone. By mid-day, I usually feel better and have moved on from the feelings. The dreams do not happen specifically during stressful times or when my husband and I are having issues; they are entirely random. Even on days when my husband and I are enamored with each other, the dreams can still happen. Most of these exes of mine have moved on with their lives, and are happily married with children. I don't think that contacting my exes would be a good idea, even if it was an issue with closure. I think discussing this with my husband would really hurt him. I feel helpless and ashamed that I can't control these dreams. Is this something others have dealt with regularly, and is there anything that I can do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [28F] have frequent dreams about ex-boyfriends, about 3-4 times a week. These dreams are mostly non-sexual and the content is usually just me spending time with them, and feeling deeply in love with them. In the dreams, I am never aware of the existence of my husband [35M]. Some of these exes are people I have not seen or spoken to in over a decade. I have been married for 7 years, and I was hoping that over time the dreams would become less frequent, but they haven't. These dreams only involve ex boyfriends that I was involved with long-term. Some of the relationships ended abruptly or on bad terms. I have never had a dream about my husband.\n\nAfter I have the dreams, I usually wake up feeling very heartbroken and alone. By mid-day, I usually feel better and have moved on from the feelings. The dreams do not happen specifically during stressful times or when my husband and I are having issues; they are entirely random. Even on days when my husband and I are enamored with each other, the dreams can still happen. Most of these exes of mine have moved on with their lives, and are happily married with children. I don't think that contacting my exes would be a good idea, even if it was an issue with closure. I think discussing this with my husband would really hurt him. I feel helpless and ashamed that I can't control these dreams. Is this something others have dealt with regularly, and is there anything that I can do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, Reddit. This is something I've been wondering for a while now. See, my last girlfriend was a coworker so I had no problem with meeting someone new and asked them out. She was my first girlfriend. (she broke up with me and ignores me now and pretends like she never was friends with me). She was only with me for a month before deciding she wasn't ready. After going back through everything she said, it hurt me a lot considering she was talking a lot about our future.\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I'm afraid of meeting new people and trying to get into the dating scene again that I'm willing to overcome this fear. (I have some mental health problems so they don't help) I'm a college student at a community college. The city I live in is pretty small, but a decent size for the part of my state that I live in. Other than school I can't think of anywhere else to safely meet new people. I haven't had much luck on R4R or other online ways.\n\n Also, how do I just approach them and ask them out? Should I try to befriend them first or go into it? I'm still new to the whole dating thing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, Reddit. This is something I've been wondering for a while now. See, my last girlfriend was a coworker so I had no problem with meeting someone new and asked them out. She was my first girlfriend. (she broke up with me and ignores me now and pretends like she never was friends with me). She was only with me for a month before deciding she wasn't ready. After going back through everything she said, it hurt me a lot considering she was talking a lot about our future.\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I'm afraid of meeting new people and trying to get into the dating scene again that I'm willing to overcome this fear. (I have some mental health problems so they don't help) I'm a college student at a community college. The city I live in is pretty small, but a decent size for the part of my state that I live in. Other than school I can't think of anywhere else to safely meet new people. I haven't had much luck on R4R or other online ways.\n\n Also, how do I just approach them and ask them out? Should I try to befriend them first or go into it? I'm still new to the whole dating thing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, Reddit. This is something I've been wondering for a while now. See, my last girlfriend was a coworker so I had no problem with meeting someone new and asked them out. She was my first girlfriend. (she broke up with me and ignores me now and pretends like she never was friends with me). She was only with me for a month before deciding she wasn't ready. After going back through everything she said, it hurt me a lot considering she was talking a lot about our future.\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I'm afraid of meeting new people and trying to get into the dating scene again that I'm willing to overcome this fear. (I have some mental health problems so they don't help) I'm a college student at a community college. The city I live in is pretty small, but a decent size for the part of my state that I live in. Other than school I can't think of anywhere else to safely meet new people. I haven't had much luck on R4R or other online ways.\n\n Also, how do I just approach them and ask them out? Should I try to befriend them first or go into it? I'm still new to the whole dating thing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Been with my bf for 3 1/2 years. I care about him but I am extremely bored of our sex life. I have no idea how to tell him this without hurting his feelings. \nDon't know if I should tell him or just leave him. I get freaked out thinking about having sex with the same person forever. It's so begrudgingly boring, the idea to me, even though I have only slept with 3 guys at age 25. \n\nMore than that I feel like I'd be boring to my partner. Can't imagine anyone wanting to have sex with me forever, even though I am considered to be pretty attractive. Maybe I have some phobia, I don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Been with my bf for 3 1/2 years. I care about him but I am extremely bored of our sex life. I have no idea how to tell him this without hurting his feelings. \nDon't know if I should tell him or just leave him. I get freaked out thinking about having sex with the same person forever. It's so begrudgingly boring, the idea to me, even though I have only slept with 3 guys at age 25. \n\nMore than that I feel like I'd be boring to my partner. Can't imagine anyone wanting to have sex with me forever, even though I am considered to be pretty attractive. Maybe I have some phobia, I don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Been with my bf for 3 1/2 years. I care about him but I am extremely bored of our sex life. I have no idea how to tell him this without hurting his feelings. \nDon't know if I should tell him or just leave him. I get freaked out thinking about having sex with the same person forever. It's so begrudgingly boring, the idea to me, even though I have only slept with 3 guys at age 25. \n\nMore than that I feel like I'd be boring to my partner. Can't imagine anyone wanting to have sex with me forever, even though I am considered to be pretty attractive. Maybe I have some phobia, I don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Been with my bf for 3 1/2 years. I care about him but I am extremely bored of our sex life. I have no idea how to tell him this without hurting his feelings. \nDon't know if I should tell him or just leave him. I get freaked out thinking about having sex with the same person forever. It's so begrudgingly boring, the idea to me, even though I have only slept with 3 guys at age 25. \n\nMore than that I feel like I'd be boring to my partner. Can't imagine anyone wanting to have sex with me forever, even though I am considered to be pretty attractive. Maybe I have some phobia, I don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Been with my bf for 3 1/2 years. I care about him but I am extremely bored of our sex life. I have no idea how to tell him this without hurting his feelings. \nDon't know if I should tell him or just leave him. I get freaked out thinking about having sex with the same person forever. It's so begrudgingly boring, the idea to me, even though I have only slept with 3 guys at age 25. \n\nMore than that I feel like I'd be boring to my partner. Can't imagine anyone wanting to have sex with me forever, even though I am considered to be pretty attractive. Maybe I have some phobia, I don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Been with my bf for 3 1/2 years. I care about him but I am extremely bored of our sex life. I have no idea how to tell him this without hurting his feelings. \nDon't know if I should tell him or just leave him. I get freaked out thinking about having sex with the same person forever. It's so begrudgingly boring, the idea to me, even though I have only slept with 3 guys at age 25. \n\nMore than that I feel like I'd be boring to my partner. Can't imagine anyone wanting to have sex with me forever, even though I am considered to be pretty attractive. Maybe I have some phobia, I don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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