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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this lovely guy on tinder (I know, questionable origins) and he's treated me better than anyone I've ever been with. From our very first date he said he was only in the market for casual however, so I've been understandably weary. But regardless of our casual status, we see each other weekly, have Scrabble nights, pig out and watch Netflix. Plus he invited me to his brother's wedding and asked me to go away for the weekend with him, among other very coupley things. Plus he's just so nice to me, always telling me I'm pretty, plus he seems to find my daftness charming (I'm not used to this).\n\nAnyway, in spite of it all, he doesn't want to commit, and he's still on tinder. Apparently he used to be pretty overweight and has had really long dry spells, so he says he wants to make up for lost time. We've only been dating 2 months, but I can feel myself becoming attached. I don't want to let him go though, because he gives me everything I need (beside the title of girlfriend) and I'm scared I won't find another guy as nice as him. I've been with quite a few dudes, and at this point in the relationship they usually fade on me or start to treat me like shit. \n\nI'm just not sure if I should let him go because we want different things at the moment, or if I should stick it out for a little while longer and see if he changes his mind, since it genuinely feels as if he really likes me. Any advice/anecdotes would be greatly welcomed :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this lovely guy on tinder (I know, questionable origins) and he's treated me better than anyone I've ever been with. From our very first date he said he was only in the market for casual however, so I've been understandably weary. But regardless of our casual status, we see each other weekly, have Scrabble nights, pig out and watch Netflix. Plus he invited me to his brother's wedding and asked me to go away for the weekend with him, among other very coupley things. Plus he's just so nice to me, always telling me I'm pretty, plus he seems to find my daftness charming (I'm not used to this).\n\nAnyway, in spite of it all, he doesn't want to commit, and he's still on tinder. Apparently he used to be pretty overweight and has had really long dry spells, so he says he wants to make up for lost time. We've only been dating 2 months, but I can feel myself becoming attached. I don't want to let him go though, because he gives me everything I need (beside the title of girlfriend) and I'm scared I won't find another guy as nice as him. I've been with quite a few dudes, and at this point in the relationship they usually fade on me or start to treat me like shit. \n\nI'm just not sure if I should let him go because we want different things at the moment, or if I should stick it out for a little while longer and see if he changes his mind, since it genuinely feels as if he really likes me. Any advice/anecdotes would be greatly welcomed :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Currently, I am in a break with my so. Let's call her V. She wanted to be on break because she lost herself in our relationship and she feels vindicated to be young and do whatever(just drugs and partying) she says she doesn't sleep around and I believe her. A little back story we are dysfunctional. She has anger issues and puts them on me and we have horrible mis-communication. We argue almost every week then make up. During this break I was doing me, and I talked to a girl who I talked to before but never met online. The new girl let's call her W. W and I are getting serious and I wanted to break up with V. I managed to break up with V but she asked me to come over for sex. I agreed and she tells me she loves me still and reassured me that she never really wanted to break up but to go on break because we saw each other a lot and problems arouse. Thing is I'm suppose to meet up with W and drive four hours to her and spend time with her. I'm currently confused on who to really go for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Currently, I am in a break with my so. Let's call her V. She wanted to be on break because she lost herself in our relationship and she feels vindicated to be young and do whatever(just drugs and partying) she says she doesn't sleep around and I believe her. A little back story we are dysfunctional. She has anger issues and puts them on me and we have horrible mis-communication. We argue almost every week then make up. During this break I was doing me, and I talked to a girl who I talked to before but never met online. The new girl let's call her W. W and I are getting serious and I wanted to break up with V. I managed to break up with V but she asked me to come over for sex. I agreed and she tells me she loves me still and reassured me that she never really wanted to break up but to go on break because we saw each other a lot and problems arouse. Thing is I'm suppose to meet up with W and drive four hours to her and spend time with her. I'm currently confused on who to really go for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Currently, I am in a break with my so. Let's call her V. She wanted to be on break because she lost herself in our relationship and she feels vindicated to be young and do whatever(just drugs and partying) she says she doesn't sleep around and I believe her. A little back story we are dysfunctional. She has anger issues and puts them on me and we have horrible mis-communication. We argue almost every week then make up. During this break I was doing me, and I talked to a girl who I talked to before but never met online. The new girl let's call her W. W and I are getting serious and I wanted to break up with V. I managed to break up with V but she asked me to come over for sex. I agreed and she tells me she loves me still and reassured me that she never really wanted to break up but to go on break because we saw each other a lot and problems arouse. Thing is I'm suppose to meet up with W and drive four hours to her and spend time with her. I'm currently confused on who to really go for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Currently, I am in a break with my so. Let's call her V. She wanted to be on break because she lost herself in our relationship and she feels vindicated to be young and do whatever(just drugs and partying) she says she doesn't sleep around and I believe her. A little back story we are dysfunctional. She has anger issues and puts them on me and we have horrible mis-communication. We argue almost every week then make up. During this break I was doing me, and I talked to a girl who I talked to before but never met online. The new girl let's call her W. W and I are getting serious and I wanted to break up with V. I managed to break up with V but she asked me to come over for sex. I agreed and she tells me she loves me still and reassured me that she never really wanted to break up but to go on break because we saw each other a lot and problems arouse. Thing is I'm suppose to meet up with W and drive four hours to her and spend time with her. I'm currently confused on who to really go for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Currently, I am in a break with my so. Let's call her V. She wanted to be on break because she lost herself in our relationship and she feels vindicated to be young and do whatever(just drugs and partying) she says she doesn't sleep around and I believe her. A little back story we are dysfunctional. She has anger issues and puts them on me and we have horrible mis-communication. We argue almost every week then make up. During this break I was doing me, and I talked to a girl who I talked to before but never met online. The new girl let's call her W. W and I are getting serious and I wanted to break up with V. I managed to break up with V but she asked me to come over for sex. I agreed and she tells me she loves me still and reassured me that she never really wanted to break up but to go on break because we saw each other a lot and problems arouse. Thing is I'm suppose to meet up with W and drive four hours to her and spend time with her. I'm currently confused on who to really go for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Currently, I am in a break with my so. Let's call her V. She wanted to be on break because she lost herself in our relationship and she feels vindicated to be young and do whatever(just drugs and partying) she says she doesn't sleep around and I believe her. A little back story we are dysfunctional. She has anger issues and puts them on me and we have horrible mis-communication. We argue almost every week then make up. During this break I was doing me, and I talked to a girl who I talked to before but never met online. The new girl let's call her W. W and I are getting serious and I wanted to break up with V. I managed to break up with V but she asked me to come over for sex. I agreed and she tells me she loves me still and reassured me that she never really wanted to break up but to go on break because we saw each other a lot and problems arouse. Thing is I'm suppose to meet up with W and drive four hours to her and spend time with her. I'm currently confused on who to really go for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Looking for some creative revenge ideas, the more epic the better. \n\n*Back story*: I live and work in South Korea. Due to ridiculous cellphone texting capabilities, anyone in Korea is able to send text messages under the guise of someone else and have it show up as that other person (i.e.: you send a text to your boss from someone else's phone saying you quit. internal corporate shit-storm ensues. you get the idea.) Someone somewhere thought that this was a good option to have on all Korean cellphones in the country. \n\n*The REAL story*: This past Sunday morning finds me waking up to a text message from a cute girl at work I am currently seeing. It reads: \"im sorry, but i think you should get tested for herpes. ive got it.\" The next few minutes sorta pass by in a haze as I frantically search the internet for clinics, hospitals and centers that will be able to test me (btw, hard to find an open clinic on a Sunday in Korea.) \n\nEventually I calm down, take a hot shower, and sort of reevaluate my life with my new \"herpy derp.\" I decide to text the cute girl who sent me the message. Maybe she can shed some light. I write: \"thnx for the info. where can I get checked out?\" Not five minutes pass when she responds with \"?\". Reddit, I've never been more happy to see three question marks in my life.\n\nNow I call the cute girl, we talk for a few minutes about how she didn't send it to me, and my brain realizes you can send fake text messages. I immediately suspect a fat bitch at work. In fact we both suspect fat bitch as our number one suspect. Today is Thursday (in South Korea) and we just got back from the SK office and we have proof undeniable that it was the fat bitch. \n\nSo reddit, I ask for creative ways to seek my revenge. I'm also asking on the part of cute girl, so two part-players in this revenge story would be even more sweet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Looking for some creative revenge ideas, the more epic the better. \n\n*Back story*: I live and work in South Korea. Due to ridiculous cellphone texting capabilities, anyone in Korea is able to send text messages under the guise of someone else and have it show up as that other person (i.e.: you send a text to your boss from someone else's phone saying you quit. internal corporate shit-storm ensues. you get the idea.) Someone somewhere thought that this was a good option to have on all Korean cellphones in the country. \n\n*The REAL story*: This past Sunday morning finds me waking up to a text message from a cute girl at work I am currently seeing. It reads: \"im sorry, but i think you should get tested for herpes. ive got it.\" The next few minutes sorta pass by in a haze as I frantically search the internet for clinics, hospitals and centers that will be able to test me (btw, hard to find an open clinic on a Sunday in Korea.) \n\nEventually I calm down, take a hot shower, and sort of reevaluate my life with my new \"herpy derp.\" I decide to text the cute girl who sent me the message. Maybe she can shed some light. I write: \"thnx for the info. where can I get checked out?\" Not five minutes pass when she responds with \"?\". Reddit, I've never been more happy to see three question marks in my life.\n\nNow I call the cute girl, we talk for a few minutes about how she didn't send it to me, and my brain realizes you can send fake text messages. I immediately suspect a fat bitch at work. In fact we both suspect fat bitch as our number one suspect. Today is Thursday (in South Korea) and we just got back from the SK office and we have proof undeniable that it was the fat bitch. \n\nSo reddit, I ask for creative ways to seek my revenge. I'm also asking on the part of cute girl, so two part-players in this revenge story would be even more sweet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Looking for some creative revenge ideas, the more epic the better. \n\n*Back story*: I live and work in South Korea. Due to ridiculous cellphone texting capabilities, anyone in Korea is able to send text messages under the guise of someone else and have it show up as that other person (i.e.: you send a text to your boss from someone else's phone saying you quit. internal corporate shit-storm ensues. you get the idea.) Someone somewhere thought that this was a good option to have on all Korean cellphones in the country. \n\n*The REAL story*: This past Sunday morning finds me waking up to a text message from a cute girl at work I am currently seeing. It reads: \"im sorry, but i think you should get tested for herpes. ive got it.\" The next few minutes sorta pass by in a haze as I frantically search the internet for clinics, hospitals and centers that will be able to test me (btw, hard to find an open clinic on a Sunday in Korea.) \n\nEventually I calm down, take a hot shower, and sort of reevaluate my life with my new \"herpy derp.\" I decide to text the cute girl who sent me the message. Maybe she can shed some light. I write: \"thnx for the info. where can I get checked out?\" Not five minutes pass when she responds with \"?\". Reddit, I've never been more happy to see three question marks in my life.\n\nNow I call the cute girl, we talk for a few minutes about how she didn't send it to me, and my brain realizes you can send fake text messages. I immediately suspect a fat bitch at work. In fact we both suspect fat bitch as our number one suspect. Today is Thursday (in South Korea) and we just got back from the SK office and we have proof undeniable that it was the fat bitch. \n\nSo reddit, I ask for creative ways to seek my revenge. I'm also asking on the part of cute girl, so two part-players in this revenge story would be even more sweet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, pretty much just what the title says. I had a friend in high school who took her life at 19 four years ago; without going into detail I miss her a lot and just want to visit her before I move across the country in a year. \n\nI looked up to her so much and her mental fortitude and perseverance gave me the strength to push myself through some of the hardest times in my life. She was my hero, but she never even knew. \n\nI only went to her wake, as the funeral service was family-only- so I do not know anything about the funeral itself.\n\nI tried calling the foreman of cemeteries in the town that she passed away in, but he said he had no record of someone with her name being buried there. Should I try other towns nearby? Or is it possible this means she was cremated?\n\nI only met her family once or twice, and would feel inappropriate asking. Although they do have Facebook, so if I needed to reach out to them for any information it would be possible-just unsure how to go about doing so. Any advice would be extremely appreciated.\n\nJust want to see my friend again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, the etat de lieux (basically the French name of the check in / check out when moving in / out) was done and EVERYTHING was noted down as \"comme dans l'etat de lieux d'entrée\" or so, basically that EVERYTHING is exactly like it was when we moved in. You get the idea. :)\n\nNow the landlord is claiming that the bed is broken (it was a furnished appartment, he even lifted the mattress during the checkout and looked at everything) the day after the papers were signed (papers done on Sunday, he sent an email on Monday claiming it was broken when he went to bed on Sunday evening).\n\nSince we have papers saying everything is OK he can't make any claims, I assume? Might want to add that he didn't ask ANY questions during the whole etat de lieux, basically walked around the flat and we followed him.but he never asked any questions, at all.\n\nHe claimed his flat back without proper notice too (email instead of registered mail) and we left within 5 weeks, so we made it easy for him to come back to France after getting himself fired in the US for something stupid and losing his work visa.\n\nHe didn't ask for any money yet but I'd like to be prepared in case this comes up. I'm a tad sad since, for once in my life, I tried to help others even tho it doesn't benefit me at all.and bam, we're running into such issues.\n\nThanks for your advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, the etat de lieux (basically the French name of the check in / check out when moving in / out) was done and EVERYTHING was noted down as \"comme dans l'etat de lieux d'entrée\" or so, basically that EVERYTHING is exactly like it was when we moved in. You get the idea. :)\n\nNow the landlord is claiming that the bed is broken (it was a furnished appartment, he even lifted the mattress during the checkout and looked at everything) the day after the papers were signed (papers done on Sunday, he sent an email on Monday claiming it was broken when he went to bed on Sunday evening).\n\nSince we have papers saying everything is OK he can't make any claims, I assume? Might want to add that he didn't ask ANY questions during the whole etat de lieux, basically walked around the flat and we followed him.but he never asked any questions, at all.\n\nHe claimed his flat back without proper notice too (email instead of registered mail) and we left within 5 weeks, so we made it easy for him to come back to France after getting himself fired in the US for something stupid and losing his work visa.\n\nHe didn't ask for any money yet but I'd like to be prepared in case this comes up. I'm a tad sad since, for once in my life, I tried to help others even tho it doesn't benefit me at all.and bam, we're running into such issues.\n\nThanks for your advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, the etat de lieux (basically the French name of the check in / check out when moving in / out) was done and EVERYTHING was noted down as \"comme dans l'etat de lieux d'entrée\" or so, basically that EVERYTHING is exactly like it was when we moved in. You get the idea. :)\n\nNow the landlord is claiming that the bed is broken (it was a furnished appartment, he even lifted the mattress during the checkout and looked at everything) the day after the papers were signed (papers done on Sunday, he sent an email on Monday claiming it was broken when he went to bed on Sunday evening).\n\nSince we have papers saying everything is OK he can't make any claims, I assume? Might want to add that he didn't ask ANY questions during the whole etat de lieux, basically walked around the flat and we followed him.but he never asked any questions, at all.\n\nHe claimed his flat back without proper notice too (email instead of registered mail) and we left within 5 weeks, so we made it easy for him to come back to France after getting himself fired in the US for something stupid and losing his work visa.\n\nHe didn't ask for any money yet but I'd like to be prepared in case this comes up. I'm a tad sad since, for once in my life, I tried to help others even tho it doesn't benefit me at all.and bam, we're running into such issues.\n\nThanks for your advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, the etat de lieux (basically the French name of the check in / check out when moving in / out) was done and EVERYTHING was noted down as \"comme dans l'etat de lieux d'entrée\" or so, basically that EVERYTHING is exactly like it was when we moved in. You get the idea. :)\n\nNow the landlord is claiming that the bed is broken (it was a furnished appartment, he even lifted the mattress during the checkout and looked at everything) the day after the papers were signed (papers done on Sunday, he sent an email on Monday claiming it was broken when he went to bed on Sunday evening).\n\nSince we have papers saying everything is OK he can't make any claims, I assume? Might want to add that he didn't ask ANY questions during the whole etat de lieux, basically walked around the flat and we followed him.but he never asked any questions, at all.\n\nHe claimed his flat back without proper notice too (email instead of registered mail) and we left within 5 weeks, so we made it easy for him to come back to France after getting himself fired in the US for something stupid and losing his work visa.\n\nHe didn't ask for any money yet but I'd like to be prepared in case this comes up. I'm a tad sad since, for once in my life, I tried to help others even tho it doesn't benefit me at all.and bam, we're running into such issues.\n\nThanks for your advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, the etat de lieux (basically the French name of the check in / check out when moving in / out) was done and EVERYTHING was noted down as \"comme dans l'etat de lieux d'entrée\" or so, basically that EVERYTHING is exactly like it was when we moved in. You get the idea. :)\n\nNow the landlord is claiming that the bed is broken (it was a furnished appartment, he even lifted the mattress during the checkout and looked at everything) the day after the papers were signed (papers done on Sunday, he sent an email on Monday claiming it was broken when he went to bed on Sunday evening).\n\nSince we have papers saying everything is OK he can't make any claims, I assume? Might want to add that he didn't ask ANY questions during the whole etat de lieux, basically walked around the flat and we followed him.but he never asked any questions, at all.\n\nHe claimed his flat back without proper notice too (email instead of registered mail) and we left within 5 weeks, so we made it easy for him to come back to France after getting himself fired in the US for something stupid and losing his work visa.\n\nHe didn't ask for any money yet but I'd like to be prepared in case this comes up. I'm a tad sad since, for once in my life, I tried to help others even tho it doesn't benefit me at all.and bam, we're running into such issues.\n\nThanks for your advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, the etat de lieux (basically the French name of the check in / check out when moving in / out) was done and EVERYTHING was noted down as \"comme dans l'etat de lieux d'entrée\" or so, basically that EVERYTHING is exactly like it was when we moved in. You get the idea. :)\n\nNow the landlord is claiming that the bed is broken (it was a furnished appartment, he even lifted the mattress during the checkout and looked at everything) the day after the papers were signed (papers done on Sunday, he sent an email on Monday claiming it was broken when he went to bed on Sunday evening).\n\nSince we have papers saying everything is OK he can't make any claims, I assume? Might want to add that he didn't ask ANY questions during the whole etat de lieux, basically walked around the flat and we followed him.but he never asked any questions, at all.\n\nHe claimed his flat back without proper notice too (email instead of registered mail) and we left within 5 weeks, so we made it easy for him to come back to France after getting himself fired in the US for something stupid and losing his work visa.\n\nHe didn't ask for any money yet but I'd like to be prepared in case this comes up. I'm a tad sad since, for once in my life, I tried to help others even tho it doesn't benefit me at all.and bam, we're running into such issues.\n\nThanks for your advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met my girlfriend last year whilst travelling in Thailand with some mates. I met her, along with her friends on the beach and got along quite well. Later that evening we all went out together, and I ended up sleeping with my future girlfriend. At the time, this felt like a usual one night stand, but we continued to talk after she added me on Facebook and we met again back in the UK and started dating.\n\nWe still get on great, and even though it is a long distance relationship (both at University) I feel satisfied and happy.\n\nSeveral weeks ago, we had a conversation about out past sexual partners. Turns out she has only had one long term boyfriend and then nothing until she went to Thailand. Whilst travelling, she admitted to sleeping with four guys on one night stands (including me). She said she slept with one guy after meeting me and whilst we were still talking a lot.\n\nFor some reason this really bummed me out and made me feel awkward. Over the last few weeks I kind of accepted it but recently its playing on my mind again. I don't like the fact that four out of her five sexual partners were one night stands, especially when done in such a short time scale on holiday. I don't know, I don't want to upset her but I just find it hard to think about and makes me feel as if she was 'easy' and would go back with any random bloke during the holiday. I understand that I can't think this way, but the whole thing just makes me feel upset. Also, the fact that she slept with someone after me makes me feel even worse. I just feel as if the way we met isn't special at all, in-fact it makes me feel a bit awkward thinking about the way we met.\n\nI don't really know how to handle my thoughts and emotions about the whole thing, because everything else in our relationship is fine and I don't want it to interfere."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met my girlfriend last year whilst travelling in Thailand with some mates. I met her, along with her friends on the beach and got along quite well. Later that evening we all went out together, and I ended up sleeping with my future girlfriend. At the time, this felt like a usual one night stand, but we continued to talk after she added me on Facebook and we met again back in the UK and started dating.\n\nWe still get on great, and even though it is a long distance relationship (both at University) I feel satisfied and happy.\n\nSeveral weeks ago, we had a conversation about out past sexual partners. Turns out she has only had one long term boyfriend and then nothing until she went to Thailand. Whilst travelling, she admitted to sleeping with four guys on one night stands (including me). She said she slept with one guy after meeting me and whilst we were still talking a lot.\n\nFor some reason this really bummed me out and made me feel awkward. Over the last few weeks I kind of accepted it but recently its playing on my mind again. I don't like the fact that four out of her five sexual partners were one night stands, especially when done in such a short time scale on holiday. I don't know, I don't want to upset her but I just find it hard to think about and makes me feel as if she was 'easy' and would go back with any random bloke during the holiday. I understand that I can't think this way, but the whole thing just makes me feel upset. Also, the fact that she slept with someone after me makes me feel even worse. I just feel as if the way we met isn't special at all, in-fact it makes me feel a bit awkward thinking about the way we met.\n\nI don't really know how to handle my thoughts and emotions about the whole thing, because everything else in our relationship is fine and I don't want it to interfere."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met my girlfriend last year whilst travelling in Thailand with some mates. I met her, along with her friends on the beach and got along quite well. Later that evening we all went out together, and I ended up sleeping with my future girlfriend. At the time, this felt like a usual one night stand, but we continued to talk after she added me on Facebook and we met again back in the UK and started dating.\n\nWe still get on great, and even though it is a long distance relationship (both at University) I feel satisfied and happy.\n\nSeveral weeks ago, we had a conversation about out past sexual partners. Turns out she has only had one long term boyfriend and then nothing until she went to Thailand. Whilst travelling, she admitted to sleeping with four guys on one night stands (including me). She said she slept with one guy after meeting me and whilst we were still talking a lot.\n\nFor some reason this really bummed me out and made me feel awkward. Over the last few weeks I kind of accepted it but recently its playing on my mind again. I don't like the fact that four out of her five sexual partners were one night stands, especially when done in such a short time scale on holiday. I don't know, I don't want to upset her but I just find it hard to think about and makes me feel as if she was 'easy' and would go back with any random bloke during the holiday. I understand that I can't think this way, but the whole thing just makes me feel upset. Also, the fact that she slept with someone after me makes me feel even worse. I just feel as if the way we met isn't special at all, in-fact it makes me feel a bit awkward thinking about the way we met.\n\nI don't really know how to handle my thoughts and emotions about the whole thing, because everything else in our relationship is fine and I don't want it to interfere."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there,\n4 months ago my partner of 5.5 years left me to pursue a relationship with a girl from work. As I know, he didn't *actually* cheat on me, however in my heart it feels the same-if not worse because he actually PURSUED a relationship, not just sex. He said he regretted it pretty early on but they continued to be together for two months, and not once did he try to contact me to work things out. \n\nIt was short lived, apparently, and he's back saying he fucked up and he realized his mistakes and \"realized\" that what we have is a once in a lifetime sort of thing. I'm hesitant. I feel so hurt and betrayed, and I feel very disillusioned about our relationship in general. I love him and I am still so very much in love with him, but I just don't really feel as though he won't ever experience grass is greener syndrome again. But then again, we are still young and immature with how we handle things so maybe he did really learn?\n\nSo what I'm really asking is to hear about others' experiences with a situation such as this. Is it worth giving him a second chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there,\n4 months ago my partner of 5.5 years left me to pursue a relationship with a girl from work. As I know, he didn't *actually* cheat on me, however in my heart it feels the same-if not worse because he actually PURSUED a relationship, not just sex. He said he regretted it pretty early on but they continued to be together for two months, and not once did he try to contact me to work things out. \n\nIt was short lived, apparently, and he's back saying he fucked up and he realized his mistakes and \"realized\" that what we have is a once in a lifetime sort of thing. I'm hesitant. I feel so hurt and betrayed, and I feel very disillusioned about our relationship in general. I love him and I am still so very much in love with him, but I just don't really feel as though he won't ever experience grass is greener syndrome again. But then again, we are still young and immature with how we handle things so maybe he did really learn?\n\nSo what I'm really asking is to hear about others' experiences with a situation such as this. Is it worth giving him a second chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there,\n4 months ago my partner of 5.5 years left me to pursue a relationship with a girl from work. As I know, he didn't *actually* cheat on me, however in my heart it feels the same-if not worse because he actually PURSUED a relationship, not just sex. He said he regretted it pretty early on but they continued to be together for two months, and not once did he try to contact me to work things out. \n\nIt was short lived, apparently, and he's back saying he fucked up and he realized his mistakes and \"realized\" that what we have is a once in a lifetime sort of thing. I'm hesitant. I feel so hurt and betrayed, and I feel very disillusioned about our relationship in general. I love him and I am still so very much in love with him, but I just don't really feel as though he won't ever experience grass is greener syndrome again. But then again, we are still young and immature with how we handle things so maybe he did really learn?\n\nSo what I'm really asking is to hear about others' experiences with a situation such as this. Is it worth giving him a second chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there,\n4 months ago my partner of 5.5 years left me to pursue a relationship with a girl from work. As I know, he didn't *actually* cheat on me, however in my heart it feels the same-if not worse because he actually PURSUED a relationship, not just sex. He said he regretted it pretty early on but they continued to be together for two months, and not once did he try to contact me to work things out. \n\nIt was short lived, apparently, and he's back saying he fucked up and he realized his mistakes and \"realized\" that what we have is a once in a lifetime sort of thing. I'm hesitant. I feel so hurt and betrayed, and I feel very disillusioned about our relationship in general. I love him and I am still so very much in love with him, but I just don't really feel as though he won't ever experience grass is greener syndrome again. But then again, we are still young and immature with how we handle things so maybe he did really learn?\n\nSo what I'm really asking is to hear about others' experiences with a situation such as this. Is it worth giving him a second chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there,\n4 months ago my partner of 5.5 years left me to pursue a relationship with a girl from work. As I know, he didn't *actually* cheat on me, however in my heart it feels the same-if not worse because he actually PURSUED a relationship, not just sex. He said he regretted it pretty early on but they continued to be together for two months, and not once did he try to contact me to work things out. \n\nIt was short lived, apparently, and he's back saying he fucked up and he realized his mistakes and \"realized\" that what we have is a once in a lifetime sort of thing. I'm hesitant. I feel so hurt and betrayed, and I feel very disillusioned about our relationship in general. I love him and I am still so very much in love with him, but I just don't really feel as though he won't ever experience grass is greener syndrome again. But then again, we are still young and immature with how we handle things so maybe he did really learn?\n\nSo what I'm really asking is to hear about others' experiences with a situation such as this. Is it worth giving him a second chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there,\n4 months ago my partner of 5.5 years left me to pursue a relationship with a girl from work. As I know, he didn't *actually* cheat on me, however in my heart it feels the same-if not worse because he actually PURSUED a relationship, not just sex. He said he regretted it pretty early on but they continued to be together for two months, and not once did he try to contact me to work things out. \n\nIt was short lived, apparently, and he's back saying he fucked up and he realized his mistakes and \"realized\" that what we have is a once in a lifetime sort of thing. I'm hesitant. I feel so hurt and betrayed, and I feel very disillusioned about our relationship in general. I love him and I am still so very much in love with him, but I just don't really feel as though he won't ever experience grass is greener syndrome again. But then again, we are still young and immature with how we handle things so maybe he did really learn?\n\nSo what I'm really asking is to hear about others' experiences with a situation such as this. Is it worth giving him a second chance?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a good friend who is currently in a relationship with other guy. We were usually having a good time, laughing a lot, talking about stuff, but recently her behaviour towards me changed quite a bit. She responds to my questions with short answers, tries to ignore my jokes, conversations feel awkward and overall it looks like she is trying to keep distance from me. I can occasionally catch her off guard and things are back to normal, but only for a short period of time. \n\nTo me it feels like she likes me or falls for me(or whats that word), but she doesn't want to end her current relationship. Could it be the cause of her behaviour? Or what else? How do I change things back to normal?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a good friend who is currently in a relationship with other guy. We were usually having a good time, laughing a lot, talking about stuff, but recently her behaviour towards me changed quite a bit. She responds to my questions with short answers, tries to ignore my jokes, conversations feel awkward and overall it looks like she is trying to keep distance from me. I can occasionally catch her off guard and things are back to normal, but only for a short period of time. \n\nTo me it feels like she likes me or falls for me(or whats that word), but she doesn't want to end her current relationship. Could it be the cause of her behaviour? Or what else? How do I change things back to normal?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a good friend who is currently in a relationship with other guy. We were usually having a good time, laughing a lot, talking about stuff, but recently her behaviour towards me changed quite a bit. She responds to my questions with short answers, tries to ignore my jokes, conversations feel awkward and overall it looks like she is trying to keep distance from me. I can occasionally catch her off guard and things are back to normal, but only for a short period of time. \n\nTo me it feels like she likes me or falls for me(or whats that word), but she doesn't want to end her current relationship. Could it be the cause of her behaviour? Or what else? How do I change things back to normal?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiance and I are beginning to combine finances and working through our plan for that. That's not the problem. 1 year ago my fiance paid off my car loan to help me with the accumulating interest. I had/have every intention of paying him back and now I'm in a financial situation where I can. However, our incomes are now going into our joint bank account and it's basically \"our money\". We talked about putting the repayments into a seperate account that is essentially \"his\", but we're not sure if that's the best way to go about it. I will not be able to pay this off completely for a couple years as we are saving for a house as well, so we don't want to wait until I finish paying him back before combining finances."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiance and I are beginning to combine finances and working through our plan for that. That's not the problem. 1 year ago my fiance paid off my car loan to help me with the accumulating interest. I had/have every intention of paying him back and now I'm in a financial situation where I can. However, our incomes are now going into our joint bank account and it's basically \"our money\". We talked about putting the repayments into a seperate account that is essentially \"his\", but we're not sure if that's the best way to go about it. I will not be able to pay this off completely for a couple years as we are saving for a house as well, so we don't want to wait until I finish paying him back before combining finances."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiance and I are beginning to combine finances and working through our plan for that. That's not the problem. 1 year ago my fiance paid off my car loan to help me with the accumulating interest. I had/have every intention of paying him back and now I'm in a financial situation where I can. However, our incomes are now going into our joint bank account and it's basically \"our money\". We talked about putting the repayments into a seperate account that is essentially \"his\", but we're not sure if that's the best way to go about it. I will not be able to pay this off completely for a couple years as we are saving for a house as well, so we don't want to wait until I finish paying him back before combining finances."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiance and I are beginning to combine finances and working through our plan for that. That's not the problem. 1 year ago my fiance paid off my car loan to help me with the accumulating interest. I had/have every intention of paying him back and now I'm in a financial situation where I can. However, our incomes are now going into our joint bank account and it's basically \"our money\". We talked about putting the repayments into a seperate account that is essentially \"his\", but we're not sure if that's the best way to go about it. I will not be able to pay this off completely for a couple years as we are saving for a house as well, so we don't want to wait until I finish paying him back before combining finances."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiance and I are beginning to combine finances and working through our plan for that. That's not the problem. 1 year ago my fiance paid off my car loan to help me with the accumulating interest. I had/have every intention of paying him back and now I'm in a financial situation where I can. However, our incomes are now going into our joint bank account and it's basically \"our money\". We talked about putting the repayments into a seperate account that is essentially \"his\", but we're not sure if that's the best way to go about it. I will not be able to pay this off completely for a couple years as we are saving for a house as well, so we don't want to wait until I finish paying him back before combining finances."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have a fairly decent, average, relationship with about one exception. Her manners are so bad that I'm embarrassed every time we eat with friends/family and I'm starting to get frustrated even when it's just her and I to the point where I have a hard time being \"normal\" around her eating. I've also had friends/family mention it to me themselves on several occasions. \n\nI'm not a picky person by any means (at least about anything else) and in general am very tolerant of people who don't do things \"my way\" but after three years of listening to her chew with her mouth open, bite her fork/spoon when she takes a bite, play with her food, and shovel it into her mouth bit by bit I'm about at my wits end. I certainly don't expect royal manners or anything of that variety but I am slowly realizing that general manners are a must in my relationship. \n\nI know the old adage of \"just talk to her\" (we really do talk about almost everything, very open) but I have a particularly hard time, I think, because I feel like it's not my responsibility to coach her in proper social manners. It feels a bit father-like and I get the \"its not my job to teach her manners\" every time I consider talking about it. It's the details that get to me, is it best to try and train her in every nuance that makes up good manners (\"don't bite your fork, don't chew with your mouth open, don't pick at your food with your fingers\") or should I just generally say \"you need to work on your manners\" and hope that she gets it? \n\nIt's not just her eating habits, she seems to have been taught very few social manners but I thought it best to start here and see if I can figure out an easy way to approach such a topic."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have a fairly decent, average, relationship with about one exception. Her manners are so bad that I'm embarrassed every time we eat with friends/family and I'm starting to get frustrated even when it's just her and I to the point where I have a hard time being \"normal\" around her eating. I've also had friends/family mention it to me themselves on several occasions. \n\nI'm not a picky person by any means (at least about anything else) and in general am very tolerant of people who don't do things \"my way\" but after three years of listening to her chew with her mouth open, bite her fork/spoon when she takes a bite, play with her food, and shovel it into her mouth bit by bit I'm about at my wits end. I certainly don't expect royal manners or anything of that variety but I am slowly realizing that general manners are a must in my relationship. \n\nI know the old adage of \"just talk to her\" (we really do talk about almost everything, very open) but I have a particularly hard time, I think, because I feel like it's not my responsibility to coach her in proper social manners. It feels a bit father-like and I get the \"its not my job to teach her manners\" every time I consider talking about it. It's the details that get to me, is it best to try and train her in every nuance that makes up good manners (\"don't bite your fork, don't chew with your mouth open, don't pick at your food with your fingers\") or should I just generally say \"you need to work on your manners\" and hope that she gets it? \n\nIt's not just her eating habits, she seems to have been taught very few social manners but I thought it best to start here and see if I can figure out an easy way to approach such a topic."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have a fairly decent, average, relationship with about one exception. Her manners are so bad that I'm embarrassed every time we eat with friends/family and I'm starting to get frustrated even when it's just her and I to the point where I have a hard time being \"normal\" around her eating. I've also had friends/family mention it to me themselves on several occasions. \n\nI'm not a picky person by any means (at least about anything else) and in general am very tolerant of people who don't do things \"my way\" but after three years of listening to her chew with her mouth open, bite her fork/spoon when she takes a bite, play with her food, and shovel it into her mouth bit by bit I'm about at my wits end. I certainly don't expect royal manners or anything of that variety but I am slowly realizing that general manners are a must in my relationship. \n\nI know the old adage of \"just talk to her\" (we really do talk about almost everything, very open) but I have a particularly hard time, I think, because I feel like it's not my responsibility to coach her in proper social manners. It feels a bit father-like and I get the \"its not my job to teach her manners\" every time I consider talking about it. It's the details that get to me, is it best to try and train her in every nuance that makes up good manners (\"don't bite your fork, don't chew with your mouth open, don't pick at your food with your fingers\") or should I just generally say \"you need to work on your manners\" and hope that she gets it? \n\nIt's not just her eating habits, she seems to have been taught very few social manners but I thought it best to start here and see if I can figure out an easy way to approach such a topic."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have a fairly decent, average, relationship with about one exception. Her manners are so bad that I'm embarrassed every time we eat with friends/family and I'm starting to get frustrated even when it's just her and I to the point where I have a hard time being \"normal\" around her eating. I've also had friends/family mention it to me themselves on several occasions. \n\nI'm not a picky person by any means (at least about anything else) and in general am very tolerant of people who don't do things \"my way\" but after three years of listening to her chew with her mouth open, bite her fork/spoon when she takes a bite, play with her food, and shovel it into her mouth bit by bit I'm about at my wits end. I certainly don't expect royal manners or anything of that variety but I am slowly realizing that general manners are a must in my relationship. \n\nI know the old adage of \"just talk to her\" (we really do talk about almost everything, very open) but I have a particularly hard time, I think, because I feel like it's not my responsibility to coach her in proper social manners. It feels a bit father-like and I get the \"its not my job to teach her manners\" every time I consider talking about it. It's the details that get to me, is it best to try and train her in every nuance that makes up good manners (\"don't bite your fork, don't chew with your mouth open, don't pick at your food with your fingers\") or should I just generally say \"you need to work on your manners\" and hope that she gets it? \n\nIt's not just her eating habits, she seems to have been taught very few social manners but I thought it best to start here and see if I can figure out an easy way to approach such a topic."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have a fairly decent, average, relationship with about one exception. Her manners are so bad that I'm embarrassed every time we eat with friends/family and I'm starting to get frustrated even when it's just her and I to the point where I have a hard time being \"normal\" around her eating. I've also had friends/family mention it to me themselves on several occasions. \n\nI'm not a picky person by any means (at least about anything else) and in general am very tolerant of people who don't do things \"my way\" but after three years of listening to her chew with her mouth open, bite her fork/spoon when she takes a bite, play with her food, and shovel it into her mouth bit by bit I'm about at my wits end. I certainly don't expect royal manners or anything of that variety but I am slowly realizing that general manners are a must in my relationship. \n\nI know the old adage of \"just talk to her\" (we really do talk about almost everything, very open) but I have a particularly hard time, I think, because I feel like it's not my responsibility to coach her in proper social manners. It feels a bit father-like and I get the \"its not my job to teach her manners\" every time I consider talking about it. It's the details that get to me, is it best to try and train her in every nuance that makes up good manners (\"don't bite your fork, don't chew with your mouth open, don't pick at your food with your fingers\") or should I just generally say \"you need to work on your manners\" and hope that she gets it? \n\nIt's not just her eating habits, she seems to have been taught very few social manners but I thought it best to start here and see if I can figure out an easy way to approach such a topic."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have a fairly decent, average, relationship with about one exception. Her manners are so bad that I'm embarrassed every time we eat with friends/family and I'm starting to get frustrated even when it's just her and I to the point where I have a hard time being \"normal\" around her eating. I've also had friends/family mention it to me themselves on several occasions. \n\nI'm not a picky person by any means (at least about anything else) and in general am very tolerant of people who don't do things \"my way\" but after three years of listening to her chew with her mouth open, bite her fork/spoon when she takes a bite, play with her food, and shovel it into her mouth bit by bit I'm about at my wits end. I certainly don't expect royal manners or anything of that variety but I am slowly realizing that general manners are a must in my relationship. \n\nI know the old adage of \"just talk to her\" (we really do talk about almost everything, very open) but I have a particularly hard time, I think, because I feel like it's not my responsibility to coach her in proper social manners. It feels a bit father-like and I get the \"its not my job to teach her manners\" every time I consider talking about it. It's the details that get to me, is it best to try and train her in every nuance that makes up good manners (\"don't bite your fork, don't chew with your mouth open, don't pick at your food with your fingers\") or should I just generally say \"you need to work on your manners\" and hope that she gets it? \n\nIt's not just her eating habits, she seems to have been taught very few social manners but I thought it best to start here and see if I can figure out an easy way to approach such a topic."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My Ex-Husband, whom is also a redditor as is my new boyfriend hence the new and anon-account, has been alluding to wanting to come back to our home. \n\nBack story; We have three children together, I own the house and he moved out after moving in with his GF in a messed up poly-experiment gone wrong. He told me that he was moving out via a phone call on his lunch break. He just stopped coming home except for the weekends when used the house to see the children until he got his own house. \n\nI am now un-employed and living on FS and CS (woo being a housewife and having your husband leave!) New boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he moved in about a month ago. He is successful and now off of FS, yay! \n\nEx-husband sends random IM about a month ago lamenting about how if he came back he'd have to leave his GF. I said yeah that would be a requirement and some other snarky comments about how he'd have to be a real man and husband not a weekend father. I was obviously mad and we aren't exactly best friends any more even though we were together for 10 years and were prior to him leaving out of the blue. \n\nThen he asked me last week when I dropped off the kiddos he invited me in for dinner in front of the kids. I politely declined but that was awkward. \n\nThen I got a message from a friend, used to be mutual, and one of his co-workers saying he has been asking about me and wants to know if he should move back in with his family. \n\nI am so conflicted. I feel like I should and I am saying no for the right reasons but I don't know if it is the right decision."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title says I am an American man aged 25 and I fell for a beautiful German woman I met at my work. She was here working as an au pair. \n\nI work on a military base on the western coast of the USA in the recreation department and she would come to my facility a lot with the young boy she watched. We talked a lot and we became friends quickly. We spent some time together in and outside of my work and I developed feelings for her. \n\nI'm not the kind of guy to make a move too quickly and I also didn't want to scare her off. I could tell she had interest but was also being somewhat guarded because she knew she was leaving. \n\nAt the beginning on August she moved with the family to the eastern coast of the United States. Since then her and I text almost everyday and Skype at least once a week. We flirt and laugh and there is a lot of chemistry between us. I have developed some strong feelings for her and think she may have feelings for me too. I haven't said anything because I'm afraid of how she may react. \n\nThe job I work is a seasonal job and it ends at the beginning of November and starts again in March. My idea is to possibly move to the east coast for two and half months to spend time with her. I'm not going to flat out ask her to be my girlfriend or anything. I just want a chance to really get to know her and and see if this is real. That isn't going to happen with just texting and Skype. She goes back to Germany in March.\n\nSo my question for you all is: how should I approach her about my idea? Should I just tell her exactly how I feel? Should I ask her how she feels? Is it a bad idea altogether? How to tell her about this idea without coming off as a total creep/stalker? What would you do in my shoes? \n\nI'm crazy about this girl. She's like no one I've ever met and I feel like I have to at least try or I'll regret it forever. Thank you for reading my post. Any and all help and advice appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title says I am an American man aged 25 and I fell for a beautiful German woman I met at my work. She was here working as an au pair. \n\nI work on a military base on the western coast of the USA in the recreation department and she would come to my facility a lot with the young boy she watched. We talked a lot and we became friends quickly. We spent some time together in and outside of my work and I developed feelings for her. \n\nI'm not the kind of guy to make a move too quickly and I also didn't want to scare her off. I could tell she had interest but was also being somewhat guarded because she knew she was leaving. \n\nAt the beginning on August she moved with the family to the eastern coast of the United States. Since then her and I text almost everyday and Skype at least once a week. We flirt and laugh and there is a lot of chemistry between us. I have developed some strong feelings for her and think she may have feelings for me too. I haven't said anything because I'm afraid of how she may react. \n\nThe job I work is a seasonal job and it ends at the beginning of November and starts again in March. My idea is to possibly move to the east coast for two and half months to spend time with her. I'm not going to flat out ask her to be my girlfriend or anything. I just want a chance to really get to know her and and see if this is real. That isn't going to happen with just texting and Skype. She goes back to Germany in March.\n\nSo my question for you all is: how should I approach her about my idea? Should I just tell her exactly how I feel? Should I ask her how she feels? Is it a bad idea altogether? How to tell her about this idea without coming off as a total creep/stalker? What would you do in my shoes? \n\nI'm crazy about this girl. She's like no one I've ever met and I feel like I have to at least try or I'll regret it forever. Thank you for reading my post. Any and all help and advice appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title says I am an American man aged 25 and I fell for a beautiful German woman I met at my work. She was here working as an au pair. \n\nI work on a military base on the western coast of the USA in the recreation department and she would come to my facility a lot with the young boy she watched. We talked a lot and we became friends quickly. We spent some time together in and outside of my work and I developed feelings for her. \n\nI'm not the kind of guy to make a move too quickly and I also didn't want to scare her off. I could tell she had interest but was also being somewhat guarded because she knew she was leaving. \n\nAt the beginning on August she moved with the family to the eastern coast of the United States. Since then her and I text almost everyday and Skype at least once a week. We flirt and laugh and there is a lot of chemistry between us. I have developed some strong feelings for her and think she may have feelings for me too. I haven't said anything because I'm afraid of how she may react. \n\nThe job I work is a seasonal job and it ends at the beginning of November and starts again in March. My idea is to possibly move to the east coast for two and half months to spend time with her. I'm not going to flat out ask her to be my girlfriend or anything. I just want a chance to really get to know her and and see if this is real. That isn't going to happen with just texting and Skype. She goes back to Germany in March.\n\nSo my question for you all is: how should I approach her about my idea? Should I just tell her exactly how I feel? Should I ask her how she feels? Is it a bad idea altogether? How to tell her about this idea without coming off as a total creep/stalker? What would you do in my shoes? \n\nI'm crazy about this girl. She's like no one I've ever met and I feel like I have to at least try or I'll regret it forever. Thank you for reading my post. Any and all help and advice appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title says I am an American man aged 25 and I fell for a beautiful German woman I met at my work. She was here working as an au pair. \n\nI work on a military base on the western coast of the USA in the recreation department and she would come to my facility a lot with the young boy she watched. We talked a lot and we became friends quickly. We spent some time together in and outside of my work and I developed feelings for her. \n\nI'm not the kind of guy to make a move too quickly and I also didn't want to scare her off. I could tell she had interest but was also being somewhat guarded because she knew she was leaving. \n\nAt the beginning on August she moved with the family to the eastern coast of the United States. Since then her and I text almost everyday and Skype at least once a week. We flirt and laugh and there is a lot of chemistry between us. I have developed some strong feelings for her and think she may have feelings for me too. I haven't said anything because I'm afraid of how she may react. \n\nThe job I work is a seasonal job and it ends at the beginning of November and starts again in March. My idea is to possibly move to the east coast for two and half months to spend time with her. I'm not going to flat out ask her to be my girlfriend or anything. I just want a chance to really get to know her and and see if this is real. That isn't going to happen with just texting and Skype. She goes back to Germany in March.\n\nSo my question for you all is: how should I approach her about my idea? Should I just tell her exactly how I feel? Should I ask her how she feels? Is it a bad idea altogether? How to tell her about this idea without coming off as a total creep/stalker? What would you do in my shoes? \n\nI'm crazy about this girl. She's like no one I've ever met and I feel like I have to at least try or I'll regret it forever. Thank you for reading my post. Any and all help and advice appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title says I am an American man aged 25 and I fell for a beautiful German woman I met at my work. She was here working as an au pair. \n\nI work on a military base on the western coast of the USA in the recreation department and she would come to my facility a lot with the young boy she watched. We talked a lot and we became friends quickly. We spent some time together in and outside of my work and I developed feelings for her. \n\nI'm not the kind of guy to make a move too quickly and I also didn't want to scare her off. I could tell she had interest but was also being somewhat guarded because she knew she was leaving. \n\nAt the beginning on August she moved with the family to the eastern coast of the United States. Since then her and I text almost everyday and Skype at least once a week. We flirt and laugh and there is a lot of chemistry between us. I have developed some strong feelings for her and think she may have feelings for me too. I haven't said anything because I'm afraid of how she may react. \n\nThe job I work is a seasonal job and it ends at the beginning of November and starts again in March. My idea is to possibly move to the east coast for two and half months to spend time with her. I'm not going to flat out ask her to be my girlfriend or anything. I just want a chance to really get to know her and and see if this is real. That isn't going to happen with just texting and Skype. She goes back to Germany in March.\n\nSo my question for you all is: how should I approach her about my idea? Should I just tell her exactly how I feel? Should I ask her how she feels? Is it a bad idea altogether? How to tell her about this idea without coming off as a total creep/stalker? What would you do in my shoes? \n\nI'm crazy about this girl. She's like no one I've ever met and I feel like I have to at least try or I'll regret it forever. Thank you for reading my post. Any and all help and advice appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title says I am an American man aged 25 and I fell for a beautiful German woman I met at my work. She was here working as an au pair. \n\nI work on a military base on the western coast of the USA in the recreation department and she would come to my facility a lot with the young boy she watched. We talked a lot and we became friends quickly. We spent some time together in and outside of my work and I developed feelings for her. \n\nI'm not the kind of guy to make a move too quickly and I also didn't want to scare her off. I could tell she had interest but was also being somewhat guarded because she knew she was leaving. \n\nAt the beginning on August she moved with the family to the eastern coast of the United States. Since then her and I text almost everyday and Skype at least once a week. We flirt and laugh and there is a lot of chemistry between us. I have developed some strong feelings for her and think she may have feelings for me too. I haven't said anything because I'm afraid of how she may react. \n\nThe job I work is a seasonal job and it ends at the beginning of November and starts again in March. My idea is to possibly move to the east coast for two and half months to spend time with her. I'm not going to flat out ask her to be my girlfriend or anything. I just want a chance to really get to know her and and see if this is real. That isn't going to happen with just texting and Skype. She goes back to Germany in March.\n\nSo my question for you all is: how should I approach her about my idea? Should I just tell her exactly how I feel? Should I ask her how she feels? Is it a bad idea altogether? How to tell her about this idea without coming off as a total creep/stalker? What would you do in my shoes? \n\nI'm crazy about this girl. She's like no one I've ever met and I feel like I have to at least try or I'll regret it forever. Thank you for reading my post. Any and all help and advice appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello. \n\nI moved and tried to sign up for internet. I called and it turns out the former residents have internet service here still. Then it turns out it is a bulk account for the building (so maybe it was that and not the former residents, idk) and I need to contact someone else. I didn't contact \"someone else\" yet. I set up the router and \"receiving\" is blinking. In the connection status I am sending and receiving many bytes. Everything looks good, except for the \"no internet access\" part (also \"sending\" light is off on the router). During the setup it says my ISP may need my MAC address. I assume this is the problem. But I don't really know. I'm on a different connection, the one I am trying to use won't connect."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello. \n\nI moved and tried to sign up for internet. I called and it turns out the former residents have internet service here still. Then it turns out it is a bulk account for the building (so maybe it was that and not the former residents, idk) and I need to contact someone else. I didn't contact \"someone else\" yet. I set up the router and \"receiving\" is blinking. In the connection status I am sending and receiving many bytes. Everything looks good, except for the \"no internet access\" part (also \"sending\" light is off on the router). During the setup it says my ISP may need my MAC address. I assume this is the problem. But I don't really know. I'm on a different connection, the one I am trying to use won't connect."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello. \n\nI moved and tried to sign up for internet. I called and it turns out the former residents have internet service here still. Then it turns out it is a bulk account for the building (so maybe it was that and not the former residents, idk) and I need to contact someone else. I didn't contact \"someone else\" yet. I set up the router and \"receiving\" is blinking. In the connection status I am sending and receiving many bytes. Everything looks good, except for the \"no internet access\" part (also \"sending\" light is off on the router). During the setup it says my ISP may need my MAC address. I assume this is the problem. But I don't really know. I'm on a different connection, the one I am trying to use won't connect."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\n\nSo I [25/F] am getting married in about 2 months. I had planned to have 3 bridesmaids and a maid of honor. However, one of my bridesmaids [25/F] has been really out of the loop (not answering calls/texts/emails/fb messages). This was also the case when I was trying to ask her to be a bridesmaid (a process which took months to get in touch with her!). My fiancé and I recently moved to another state, so most of our people from our wedding party are from out of town (which I understand limits what they can do to help); however, all my bridal party have gotten matching dresses (of different shades of blue) and she still hasn't even responded to any of their messages either. She always comes up with lame excuses (her phone broke/ she got a new computer- which SHE WOULD STILL BE ABLE TO CHECK FB MESSAGES AND EMAILS!). \n\nShe has been a very close friend since we were young (since 11 years old!). I love her to death and we have always had the kind of relationship were we don't need to talk or hang out every weekend to be able to maintain our friendship (we have always been there for any crisis and told each other everything even after months of not talking). I feel like she is really dropping the ball on this tough… It's not like I'm asking her to help with ANY PREPARATIONS for the wedding, just get ANY dress that is blue. I would even help financially but she doesn't respond to ANYTHING.\n\nI have thought about asking her to step down because I find it really rude of her BUT HOW if I can't even get in touch with her?! I am also scared about messing up the friendship… but… I think she already has."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\n\nSo I [25/F] am getting married in about 2 months. I had planned to have 3 bridesmaids and a maid of honor. However, one of my bridesmaids [25/F] has been really out of the loop (not answering calls/texts/emails/fb messages). This was also the case when I was trying to ask her to be a bridesmaid (a process which took months to get in touch with her!). My fiancé and I recently moved to another state, so most of our people from our wedding party are from out of town (which I understand limits what they can do to help); however, all my bridal party have gotten matching dresses (of different shades of blue) and she still hasn't even responded to any of their messages either. She always comes up with lame excuses (her phone broke/ she got a new computer- which SHE WOULD STILL BE ABLE TO CHECK FB MESSAGES AND EMAILS!). \n\nShe has been a very close friend since we were young (since 11 years old!). I love her to death and we have always had the kind of relationship were we don't need to talk or hang out every weekend to be able to maintain our friendship (we have always been there for any crisis and told each other everything even after months of not talking). I feel like she is really dropping the ball on this tough… It's not like I'm asking her to help with ANY PREPARATIONS for the wedding, just get ANY dress that is blue. I would even help financially but she doesn't respond to ANYTHING.\n\nI have thought about asking her to step down because I find it really rude of her BUT HOW if I can't even get in touch with her?! I am also scared about messing up the friendship… but… I think she already has."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, obvious throw away account is obvious because i've found my boyfriend surfing here lately and i don't want him to know i'm asking for your advice about this. Background story; we've been together for around 1&1/2 years now and it's been pretty sweet. We get along great, we spend tons of time together, we're both pretty attractive people (i know he is, and i'd like to think i am) and basically i couldn't ask for a cooler boyfriend. There is only one catch. I consider myself to be a pretty sexual individual. I often let my mind wander to naughty things (mostly about my boyfriend, which i feel good about) and get excited and then want to try those things later. He, on the other hand, does none of this. At the beginning of the relationship there was slightly more sexual interaction, but almost all of it was initiated by me. Since then we've been having less and less sex because i became insecure constantly initiating it, assuming that he either doesn't find me sexually attractive anymore or he is just uninterested in general. I've tried on many occasions to ask him what he found exciting or arousing, even offering risque secrets of my own in order to make him feel more comfortable, but no matter what i do he insists that he just doesn't have any turn ons. I think he feels that he needs to repress his sexuality as a man, but he's done it to a point that he has none. We are to the point now that we have sex MAYBE once a week (we sleep in bed together around 4-6 times a week) and i just don't know what to do. He insists that he finds me sexually attractive and he enjoys the sex when we have it, but he has no desire to initiate. Can anyone help? Does anyone have experience with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, obvious throw away account is obvious because i've found my boyfriend surfing here lately and i don't want him to know i'm asking for your advice about this. Background story; we've been together for around 1&1/2 years now and it's been pretty sweet. We get along great, we spend tons of time together, we're both pretty attractive people (i know he is, and i'd like to think i am) and basically i couldn't ask for a cooler boyfriend. There is only one catch. I consider myself to be a pretty sexual individual. I often let my mind wander to naughty things (mostly about my boyfriend, which i feel good about) and get excited and then want to try those things later. He, on the other hand, does none of this. At the beginning of the relationship there was slightly more sexual interaction, but almost all of it was initiated by me. Since then we've been having less and less sex because i became insecure constantly initiating it, assuming that he either doesn't find me sexually attractive anymore or he is just uninterested in general. I've tried on many occasions to ask him what he found exciting or arousing, even offering risque secrets of my own in order to make him feel more comfortable, but no matter what i do he insists that he just doesn't have any turn ons. I think he feels that he needs to repress his sexuality as a man, but he's done it to a point that he has none. We are to the point now that we have sex MAYBE once a week (we sleep in bed together around 4-6 times a week) and i just don't know what to do. He insists that he finds me sexually attractive and he enjoys the sex when we have it, but he has no desire to initiate. Can anyone help? Does anyone have experience with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, obvious throw away account is obvious because i've found my boyfriend surfing here lately and i don't want him to know i'm asking for your advice about this. Background story; we've been together for around 1&1/2 years now and it's been pretty sweet. We get along great, we spend tons of time together, we're both pretty attractive people (i know he is, and i'd like to think i am) and basically i couldn't ask for a cooler boyfriend. There is only one catch. I consider myself to be a pretty sexual individual. I often let my mind wander to naughty things (mostly about my boyfriend, which i feel good about) and get excited and then want to try those things later. He, on the other hand, does none of this. At the beginning of the relationship there was slightly more sexual interaction, but almost all of it was initiated by me. Since then we've been having less and less sex because i became insecure constantly initiating it, assuming that he either doesn't find me sexually attractive anymore or he is just uninterested in general. I've tried on many occasions to ask him what he found exciting or arousing, even offering risque secrets of my own in order to make him feel more comfortable, but no matter what i do he insists that he just doesn't have any turn ons. I think he feels that he needs to repress his sexuality as a man, but he's done it to a point that he has none. We are to the point now that we have sex MAYBE once a week (we sleep in bed together around 4-6 times a week) and i just don't know what to do. He insists that he finds me sexually attractive and he enjoys the sex when we have it, but he has no desire to initiate. Can anyone help? Does anyone have experience with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Sorry if this is long winded.\n\nI worked at a utility company in Florida and am apart of a small union. A union contract got delayed while I was working there and about 3 months before I put in my notice, an agreement had been announced which would give everyone retroactive raises back to the start date of the contract. They announced a date for payout finally and when I put in my notice I made sure it was 1.5 pay periods after said date in case of a delay. Go figure, it gets delayed by \"up to 6 months\" and I'm not withdrawing my notice.\n\nI briefly probed my union reps and HR department and initial responses are No, but feel like that's bullshit. \n\nWith that in mind, do I have a good argument for getting the back pay even though I wont be working there when it pays out, but was when it was announced?\n\nAny information/advice would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Sorry if this is long winded.\n\nI worked at a utility company in Florida and am apart of a small union. A union contract got delayed while I was working there and about 3 months before I put in my notice, an agreement had been announced which would give everyone retroactive raises back to the start date of the contract. They announced a date for payout finally and when I put in my notice I made sure it was 1.5 pay periods after said date in case of a delay. Go figure, it gets delayed by \"up to 6 months\" and I'm not withdrawing my notice.\n\nI briefly probed my union reps and HR department and initial responses are No, but feel like that's bullshit. \n\nWith that in mind, do I have a good argument for getting the back pay even though I wont be working there when it pays out, but was when it was announced?\n\nAny information/advice would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Sorry if this is long winded.\n\nI worked at a utility company in Florida and am apart of a small union. A union contract got delayed while I was working there and about 3 months before I put in my notice, an agreement had been announced which would give everyone retroactive raises back to the start date of the contract. They announced a date for payout finally and when I put in my notice I made sure it was 1.5 pay periods after said date in case of a delay. Go figure, it gets delayed by \"up to 6 months\" and I'm not withdrawing my notice.\n\nI briefly probed my union reps and HR department and initial responses are No, but feel like that's bullshit. \n\nWith that in mind, do I have a good argument for getting the back pay even though I wont be working there when it pays out, but was when it was announced?\n\nAny information/advice would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Sorry if this is long winded.\n\nI worked at a utility company in Florida and am apart of a small union. A union contract got delayed while I was working there and about 3 months before I put in my notice, an agreement had been announced which would give everyone retroactive raises back to the start date of the contract. They announced a date for payout finally and when I put in my notice I made sure it was 1.5 pay periods after said date in case of a delay. Go figure, it gets delayed by \"up to 6 months\" and I'm not withdrawing my notice.\n\nI briefly probed my union reps and HR department and initial responses are No, but feel like that's bullshit. \n\nWith that in mind, do I have a good argument for getting the back pay even though I wont be working there when it pays out, but was when it was announced?\n\nAny information/advice would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Sorry if this is long winded.\n\nI worked at a utility company in Florida and am apart of a small union. A union contract got delayed while I was working there and about 3 months before I put in my notice, an agreement had been announced which would give everyone retroactive raises back to the start date of the contract. They announced a date for payout finally and when I put in my notice I made sure it was 1.5 pay periods after said date in case of a delay. Go figure, it gets delayed by \"up to 6 months\" and I'm not withdrawing my notice.\n\nI briefly probed my union reps and HR department and initial responses are No, but feel like that's bullshit. \n\nWith that in mind, do I have a good argument for getting the back pay even though I wont be working there when it pays out, but was when it was announced?\n\nAny information/advice would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Sorry if this is long winded.\n\nI worked at a utility company in Florida and am apart of a small union. A union contract got delayed while I was working there and about 3 months before I put in my notice, an agreement had been announced which would give everyone retroactive raises back to the start date of the contract. They announced a date for payout finally and when I put in my notice I made sure it was 1.5 pay periods after said date in case of a delay. Go figure, it gets delayed by \"up to 6 months\" and I'm not withdrawing my notice.\n\nI briefly probed my union reps and HR department and initial responses are No, but feel like that's bullshit. \n\nWith that in mind, do I have a good argument for getting the back pay even though I wont be working there when it pays out, but was when it was announced?\n\nAny information/advice would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've dated several people in the last year and it always seems that when it gets to a certain point, I blow it. I've been seeing this girl lately who I've known for a long time, and she recently moved back to our hometown. I feel like I'm probably putting more pressure on myself than I should because we haven't discussed the bf/gf title at all. I don't think that we should have to necessarily have that talk either, but I just feel like there is a certain uncertainty in this phase that freaks me out. \n\nWhen I start to question how she feels or how I feel, my confidence goes to hell and that's when things bottom out. I feel like it's a predictable cycle and I would like some advice on not rushing anything and just being patient as things grow organically. I feel like I'm beginning to do this where I push her away, and I don't want to lose my opportunity with this person as I have in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've dated several people in the last year and it always seems that when it gets to a certain point, I blow it. I've been seeing this girl lately who I've known for a long time, and she recently moved back to our hometown. I feel like I'm probably putting more pressure on myself than I should because we haven't discussed the bf/gf title at all. I don't think that we should have to necessarily have that talk either, but I just feel like there is a certain uncertainty in this phase that freaks me out. \n\nWhen I start to question how she feels or how I feel, my confidence goes to hell and that's when things bottom out. I feel like it's a predictable cycle and I would like some advice on not rushing anything and just being patient as things grow organically. I feel like I'm beginning to do this where I push her away, and I don't want to lose my opportunity with this person as I have in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've dated several people in the last year and it always seems that when it gets to a certain point, I blow it. I've been seeing this girl lately who I've known for a long time, and she recently moved back to our hometown. I feel like I'm probably putting more pressure on myself than I should because we haven't discussed the bf/gf title at all. I don't think that we should have to necessarily have that talk either, but I just feel like there is a certain uncertainty in this phase that freaks me out. \n\nWhen I start to question how she feels or how I feel, my confidence goes to hell and that's when things bottom out. I feel like it's a predictable cycle and I would like some advice on not rushing anything and just being patient as things grow organically. I feel like I'm beginning to do this where I push her away, and I don't want to lose my opportunity with this person as I have in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've dated several people in the last year and it always seems that when it gets to a certain point, I blow it. I've been seeing this girl lately who I've known for a long time, and she recently moved back to our hometown. I feel like I'm probably putting more pressure on myself than I should because we haven't discussed the bf/gf title at all. I don't think that we should have to necessarily have that talk either, but I just feel like there is a certain uncertainty in this phase that freaks me out. \n\nWhen I start to question how she feels or how I feel, my confidence goes to hell and that's when things bottom out. I feel like it's a predictable cycle and I would like some advice on not rushing anything and just being patient as things grow organically. I feel like I'm beginning to do this where I push her away, and I don't want to lose my opportunity with this person as I have in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've dated several people in the last year and it always seems that when it gets to a certain point, I blow it. I've been seeing this girl lately who I've known for a long time, and she recently moved back to our hometown. I feel like I'm probably putting more pressure on myself than I should because we haven't discussed the bf/gf title at all. I don't think that we should have to necessarily have that talk either, but I just feel like there is a certain uncertainty in this phase that freaks me out. \n\nWhen I start to question how she feels or how I feel, my confidence goes to hell and that's when things bottom out. I feel like it's a predictable cycle and I would like some advice on not rushing anything and just being patient as things grow organically. I feel like I'm beginning to do this where I push her away, and I don't want to lose my opportunity with this person as I have in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've dated several people in the last year and it always seems that when it gets to a certain point, I blow it. I've been seeing this girl lately who I've known for a long time, and she recently moved back to our hometown. I feel like I'm probably putting more pressure on myself than I should because we haven't discussed the bf/gf title at all. I don't think that we should have to necessarily have that talk either, but I just feel like there is a certain uncertainty in this phase that freaks me out. \n\nWhen I start to question how she feels or how I feel, my confidence goes to hell and that's when things bottom out. I feel like it's a predictable cycle and I would like some advice on not rushing anything and just being patient as things grow organically. I feel like I'm beginning to do this where I push her away, and I don't want to lose my opportunity with this person as I have in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just completed my first semester at college and did very well- all As and Bs. I should be really happy for myself but Im not. im stuck thinking about how my girlfriend isnt coming back.\n\nbefore i was happy for her. with a crazy, troubled past shes finally ready to open herself up and seek treatment to deal with the emotional scars shes suffered. but now i feel really alone.\n\ntowards the end of the semester there was essentially a huge fall out between my girlfriend and our group of friends. i decided to take my girlfriends side and havent talked to anyone in our friend group in the last 3 weeks.\n\ni dont know what im gonna do when i go back. i dont know who is gonna be there for me or if im gonna wanna make new friends. i am a funny happy-go-lucky guy but recently ive just felt down and alone. i plan on flying out in january to see her but i just hate the whole situation.\n\nthere was a trust incident right before my girlfriend and i became official-she hooked up with a guy at a party back home- and im just sick to my stomach right now that shes gonna do it again. i know shes sorry for what she did and she promised she would never hurt me again but i just dont know if i can believe it.\n\nit just seems like i have had a lot on my plate and i dont know what to do. my mom and i think i should transfer to a school closer to home after the year. i dont think my girlfriend and i could make it work if that happens.\n\nany thoughts would be appreciated. thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just completed my first semester at college and did very well- all As and Bs. I should be really happy for myself but Im not. im stuck thinking about how my girlfriend isnt coming back.\n\nbefore i was happy for her. with a crazy, troubled past shes finally ready to open herself up and seek treatment to deal with the emotional scars shes suffered. but now i feel really alone.\n\ntowards the end of the semester there was essentially a huge fall out between my girlfriend and our group of friends. i decided to take my girlfriends side and havent talked to anyone in our friend group in the last 3 weeks.\n\ni dont know what im gonna do when i go back. i dont know who is gonna be there for me or if im gonna wanna make new friends. i am a funny happy-go-lucky guy but recently ive just felt down and alone. i plan on flying out in january to see her but i just hate the whole situation.\n\nthere was a trust incident right before my girlfriend and i became official-she hooked up with a guy at a party back home- and im just sick to my stomach right now that shes gonna do it again. i know shes sorry for what she did and she promised she would never hurt me again but i just dont know if i can believe it.\n\nit just seems like i have had a lot on my plate and i dont know what to do. my mom and i think i should transfer to a school closer to home after the year. i dont think my girlfriend and i could make it work if that happens.\n\nany thoughts would be appreciated. thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just completed my first semester at college and did very well- all As and Bs. I should be really happy for myself but Im not. im stuck thinking about how my girlfriend isnt coming back.\n\nbefore i was happy for her. with a crazy, troubled past shes finally ready to open herself up and seek treatment to deal with the emotional scars shes suffered. but now i feel really alone.\n\ntowards the end of the semester there was essentially a huge fall out between my girlfriend and our group of friends. i decided to take my girlfriends side and havent talked to anyone in our friend group in the last 3 weeks.\n\ni dont know what im gonna do when i go back. i dont know who is gonna be there for me or if im gonna wanna make new friends. i am a funny happy-go-lucky guy but recently ive just felt down and alone. i plan on flying out in january to see her but i just hate the whole situation.\n\nthere was a trust incident right before my girlfriend and i became official-she hooked up with a guy at a party back home- and im just sick to my stomach right now that shes gonna do it again. i know shes sorry for what she did and she promised she would never hurt me again but i just dont know if i can believe it.\n\nit just seems like i have had a lot on my plate and i dont know what to do. my mom and i think i should transfer to a school closer to home after the year. i dont think my girlfriend and i could make it work if that happens.\n\nany thoughts would be appreciated. thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So the length of our relationship is complicated. I've known him for over 4 years and we've always been very close, but we've technically only been a \"couple\" for about 1 of those years because of both of us having personal issues that kept us apart (basically he was dealing with alcoholism and I didn't want to be around him when he was drunk all the time, but he's been sober for years now and I've learned to trust him again). \n\nAfter I found out I was accepted into a great program for school was also the same time that I realized that I am actually really serious about this person and I want to have a future with him! Like, we would be married already if it wasn't for me moving away. He's really serious about me, and he's trying to be supportive about me leaving but I know he's worried that it means it's over.\n\nMaking the decision to leave and not just stay with him has been really painful, and now that I've decided to put my education first, I'm not sure where that leaves us. It might be possible that he could join me in 2 years, but not earlier than that because of his own career commitments."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So the length of our relationship is complicated. I've known him for over 4 years and we've always been very close, but we've technically only been a \"couple\" for about 1 of those years because of both of us having personal issues that kept us apart (basically he was dealing with alcoholism and I didn't want to be around him when he was drunk all the time, but he's been sober for years now and I've learned to trust him again). \n\nAfter I found out I was accepted into a great program for school was also the same time that I realized that I am actually really serious about this person and I want to have a future with him! Like, we would be married already if it wasn't for me moving away. He's really serious about me, and he's trying to be supportive about me leaving but I know he's worried that it means it's over.\n\nMaking the decision to leave and not just stay with him has been really painful, and now that I've decided to put my education first, I'm not sure where that leaves us. It might be possible that he could join me in 2 years, but not earlier than that because of his own career commitments."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So the length of our relationship is complicated. I've known him for over 4 years and we've always been very close, but we've technically only been a \"couple\" for about 1 of those years because of both of us having personal issues that kept us apart (basically he was dealing with alcoholism and I didn't want to be around him when he was drunk all the time, but he's been sober for years now and I've learned to trust him again). \n\nAfter I found out I was accepted into a great program for school was also the same time that I realized that I am actually really serious about this person and I want to have a future with him! Like, we would be married already if it wasn't for me moving away. He's really serious about me, and he's trying to be supportive about me leaving but I know he's worried that it means it's over.\n\nMaking the decision to leave and not just stay with him has been really painful, and now that I've decided to put my education first, I'm not sure where that leaves us. It might be possible that he could join me in 2 years, but not earlier than that because of his own career commitments."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, thanks for reading. \n\nSo I've been casually seeing a guy for about 6 months now. I like him a lot, but its clear that he does not want to pursue a relationship with me. i am okay with that because i'm extremely busy.\n\nAnyway, this past Friday was my birthday. I asked him to hang out with me about a week in advance. He said maybe. I texted him the plan on Wednesday night and he never answered. Then, my birthday arrives, and I don't hear from him. At all. Not even a happy birthday text. He doesn't show up to my bday thing and never even texts to say he won't be there. \n\nI know we aren't boyfriend-girlfriend, but my feelings are really hurt that we have been sleeping together for 6 months (these instances often include taking his dog to the dog park, cooking dinner together, going to art shows, etc) and yet he doesn't respect me enough to even acknowledge my birthday. Even with a polite invite decline. \n\nI don't know how to talk to him about this in a way that conveys how I feel without making it seem like Im being clingy and expected boyfriend treatment from him. I work part time in the same building as him so will probably run into him Monday and am nervous.\n\nDo you guys have any thoughts/advice/insight into why we would act like this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, thanks for reading. \n\nSo I've been casually seeing a guy for about 6 months now. I like him a lot, but its clear that he does not want to pursue a relationship with me. i am okay with that because i'm extremely busy.\n\nAnyway, this past Friday was my birthday. I asked him to hang out with me about a week in advance. He said maybe. I texted him the plan on Wednesday night and he never answered. Then, my birthday arrives, and I don't hear from him. At all. Not even a happy birthday text. He doesn't show up to my bday thing and never even texts to say he won't be there. \n\nI know we aren't boyfriend-girlfriend, but my feelings are really hurt that we have been sleeping together for 6 months (these instances often include taking his dog to the dog park, cooking dinner together, going to art shows, etc) and yet he doesn't respect me enough to even acknowledge my birthday. Even with a polite invite decline. \n\nI don't know how to talk to him about this in a way that conveys how I feel without making it seem like Im being clingy and expected boyfriend treatment from him. I work part time in the same building as him so will probably run into him Monday and am nervous.\n\nDo you guys have any thoughts/advice/insight into why we would act like this?"
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